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Doesn't sound healthy or reasonable to me. Do you, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:16 PM
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I'm glad you have a crystal ball that tells you exactly when and why the so-called "dead bedroom" occurs. It's an unreasonable expectation because we don't control everything about our lives. You could be injured and never have sex again. So no, I don't think it's a reasonable expectation because shit happens. Discussions had today can have entirely different outcomes 15 years from now.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:10 PM
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Yes it is. I'm obsessed with things that work, definitely.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:06 PM
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Huh. Is there a reason you end your sentences with ellipses?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:04 PM
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Why's that?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:58 PM
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Yes, it is. Some form of therapy is always an answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:57 PM
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No. There's not a reasonable expectation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:57 PM
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More like, don't see charts like this as the end all be all of reality. If you want to live your life one height chart at a time, go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:55 PM
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Because we don't live and die by these graphs. We don't let these graphs become our identity.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:49 PM
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As with everything, IT DEPENDS ON THE COUPLE. There's no rule for this. I personally wouldn't be in a relationship where a party "DELEGATED" me household tasks. I'm their partner, not their employee. I swear, these posts read like someone who lives at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:43 PM
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When there's honest conversation, I won't tell men to stop whining.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:39 PM
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Just told my partner he needs to work on his crying on demand. So he's prepared for our wedding day.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:38 PM
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Fantastic for you! See? It's easy to be nice to internet strangers. You don't need to be a dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:35 PM
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Eh, not really, in my case. It was entertaining for a short while. And then you realize how pathetic some people are. And the whining starts to become insufferable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:33 PM
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Lol. Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:31 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:30 PM
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"It's biology".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:29 PM
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How's your dating life?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:28 PM
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It's the same 3 things, and at least 2 of them can be eliminated by making different choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:12 PM
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but for some of us creativity meaningless Wow. What a sucky existence. There's nothing that can be done if you can't appreciate creativity.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:08 PM
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You're not on to anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:06 PM
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The benefit of creativity.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:05 PM
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You must have missed "stop whining", because you still do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:04 PM
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Learn to knit. Tangible af, and you can make cool stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:02 PM
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We aren't talking about my expectations. We are talking about how to spot an RP man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:01 PM
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They don't like women who disagree with them or call them on their bullshit. It's so predictable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:59 PM
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My God, this sub is full of whiny men. Every day, it's just more whining about women this and that. Literally whining about your own choices every damn day. Make different choices, stop whining.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:58 PM
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Easy, how he talks, how he dresses, how he treats me, how he treats other women, how he shows up in the relationship, etc. It's all right there. Y'all don't hide shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:51 PM
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Lol. We don't agree. I think there's always room for improvement and tangible results. And you're whining like Dawson here. Just whine whine whine whine. Grow up Count Chocula.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:50 PM
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Sucks to suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:43 PM
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They absolutely can be detected. Y'all aren't good at hiding shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:38 PM
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Lmao. These comments are so silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:37 PM
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There's always results.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:36 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:07 AM
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Oh, for sure. It seems to be the under 25 who have the boldest takes on what makes someone attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:45 AM
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Confirmation bias is a thing. I mean, do you. But a 4 inch deep vagina and 3 inch penis are perfect harmony.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:40 AM
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We used to call posts like that MUD. Made up drama. Meaning, people post things on the internet to rile people of, stir the pot. It's why we all engage here. The problem is when people start taking internet MUD seriously. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:22 AM
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The orgasm is the most important part.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:15 AM
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2020 research says between 5.1 inches and 5.5 inches for dick length. The depth of the vagina is between 3 and 7 inches. So a 3-4 can still get the job done, assuming he also knows the benefits of clit play. Most women don't orgasm from only PIV. It's PIV + C + B + + + + +
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:11 AM
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Why is using someone's age an insult? Like the whole wall concept. That a woman can't be pleasing to the eye beyond 30? 40? 50? Etc. I can't wait to be 80 and wrinkles. A wrinkled baddie.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:00 AM
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You can always be improving yourself. There's countless opportunities for improvement. Usually, there are still things that can be done and are being avoided for unspecified reasons, ie therapy, platonic female friends, not obsessing over "attractive", etc
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:44 AM
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I had a dream this place was a video game franchise. GTA meets Sims. The game goal was to end happily ever after in a marriage. There were lots of complaints about players getting stuck on level 5, which was all about accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:38 AM
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Yes, absolutely. Not sure what exactly. Still researching and collecting inspiration. Norway brides wear crowns to deflect evil spirits. I love that. They also have different kind of cake, which seems fun. The Greek will have the best man shave the groom. And we kinda love that but instead of the best man, one of our nephews.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:31 AM
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Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:28 AM
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Why is number of partners necessary information? Why not just ask, "what are your kinks? What are your hard no?" I
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:27 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:26 AM
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Tonight, it's a mix of Recess (magnesium) and CANN (thc and cbd)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:26 AM
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who don't share anything but their skin tone? Kind of weird. Kinda their point. They don't see anything in common with conservatives who are "just a few shades darker."
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 01:30 AM
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I've been researching wedding traditions. Different things to protect from evil or bad omens, things for good luck and fertility, and dresses. It's so fun to learn and see all the ways that marriage is celebrated worldwide. Like Pitbull.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 01:29 AM
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I've got a mocktail.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 01:23 AM
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Thank you! It's called "flair".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 12:59 AM
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What's over after 25?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 12:56 AM
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I had a conversation yesterday that inspired me. Gonna convert a closet into a gamer den so I can have more space for activities.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 12:55 AM
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Engagement is the ring given when asked to marry. Wedding ring given on wedding day during vows/wedding ceremony. Sometimes, it's the same band. Depends on the couple, religions, and culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 12:41 AM
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Finding someone extremely hot doesn't mean you'll want sex all the time.....
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 12:37 AM
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It's related to the vibes of a business owner vs an entrepreneur who doesn't actually own shit but is between jobs and crashing on his friends couch. Type and size don't matter. Be legal and make enough to fully support yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 12:12 AM
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It's really frightening how many men here demand sex because it's what they want regardless of whether their partner wants it or not. It's quite horrifying how many men here feel like they are owed sex because marriage is involved. And that a woman should stay in a relationship where the other party demands sex. It's eye opening that so many here view sex as solely their pleasure vs a pleasure act between two persons.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 12:11 AM
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Doctor Lawyer Business owner (not entrepreneur) C-suite Etc Do you personally value status in a man amd to what degree ? Yes, he must be college educated and doing what he enjoys for income Are men that use their status proactively to have sex with women considered low value to you ? No, go forth.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 12:03 AM
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Completely agree. Some folks here, though, consider that "wrong".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 11:34 PM
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Today, I learned that some people think that disagreeing means someone was right or wrong. It's strange that people assume everyone will agree with them. And that being right is only done by agreeing to a specific thought, idea, or concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 11:31 PM
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You really love this analogy. I'll stay weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 10:45 PM
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Nope. We can disagree, and I'm still not wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 10:40 PM
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I haven't been wrong. Just because we disagree doesn't mean I'm wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 10:40 PM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 10:35 PM
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Nope. I've been wrong many times. Twice today, in fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 10:34 PM
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When I'm wrong, I'll admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 10:31 PM
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Sure, I care that the person I'm with is hot. But what's hot varies based on the individual. Muscles are great too but again, varies by individuals. Women are far more flexible in the way they care about looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 10:20 PM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 10:02 PM
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So why not ask those questions?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 10:02 PM
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So why not ask, "have you cheated in previous relationships? Or been cheated on?" Or "When did your most recent relationship end?" Why are those questions not asked?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:17 PM
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You must be attractive. Aw, thank you. 😊 Tell me where any of this was implied. You take a mile when I give you an inch You keep implying this when you say that I wouldn't find my partner or any partner attractive. I'm just the first person to ever be honest with you, that's all. It's a honor Lmao. No. It was just testerical.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:08 PM
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I don't think he exist, Because I've had sex in relationships and while single, I couldn't possibly have a partner? That's bold. I said YOU probably wouldn't find them attractive Why wouldn't I find men attractive? Because I've had sex in the past, I can no longer be attracted to men? Is there like a limited amount of attraction that can go around? continue to prove how hedonistic and egotistical That's a first. I'm gonna put this on my wall. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:57 PM
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"dudes who genuinely don't care, probably aren't men you find attractive" And again, just now with quotes around man. I love it, I'm all for critical thinking on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:47 PM
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Yet you know nothing about them Because they are unimportant. And whiny.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:41 PM
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Ya dude. Obviously. This is my favorite topic here. It's so whiny and such a ball of entertainment. Yes. They don't ask because it didn't matter in 2005 and doesn't matter in 2023. Where are they now? My partner is right here, by my side. And the dudes who genuinely don't care, probably aren't men you find attractive. It's so weird that you insult random men because they don't agree with your oddly specific thinking. Believing your way is the correct way is scarcity mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:40 PM
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Yes, these myths have been around since before you were born kiddo. All made by single, lonely guys. Do you think happily married men are pontificating these myths?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:33 PM
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level of experience What does this mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:31 PM
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It's men and women who are in a society. It's not an only women problem. It's a societal problem because both men and women are contributing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:26 PM
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Compared to a 21 year old? Ya, I think I have a bit more experience. Besides those single, lonely men are the prime targets for betabuxx after 30 that is if those guys are rich enough No idea what this myth means.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:26 PM
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Avg men aren't having any issues. Below average men are. Usually by their own accords.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:25 PM
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Sounds like a societal problem. Not a woman problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:24 PM
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Right? And they're all experts on a woman's hormones and how easy it is a lose weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:23 PM
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It’s clear this topic hits home for you How so? Because I disagree with your approach, it must hit home for me? Sure they’ll smash you, but would never cuff And yet, they've cuffed. Just the hard truth, I’m not sure what you’re trying to convince us of Hard truth of what exactly? If I told you the sky was blue, you’d tell me “ok but what do you mean by blue?” Yes, because depending on where you are the shade of blue can vary. Depending on what time of day also changes the shade of blue.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:22 PM
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compatibility in that regard In what regard? Having the exact same number of partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:19 PM
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Why is it a problem for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:19 PM
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Lmao. Hahaha. Based on single, lonely men's lack of experience is more accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:16 PM
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women with loose vaginas How does that happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:15 PM
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They are so unaware that it's almost comical.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:14 PM
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They rather stay alone than settle with an average guy. Why is this a problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:14 PM
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This is what they expect
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:13 PM
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That's another weird question to ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:11 PM
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I don't understand manosphere myths.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:11 PM
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It's pretty gross to ask sexual history. Especially because it's done for judgmental reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:10 PM
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Probably not.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:09 PM
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Shows a pattern of what? a woman is accustomed to frivolously having sex, What the heck is frivolous sex? Promiscuous women are the biggest cheaters there are Oh please. 😩 This thinking is so unhinged.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:09 PM
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Do people like not talk about their past experiences? Are you peopel from another planet? No.. I've never heard of someone sharing pictures of past sex partners while getting to know someone they wanted to date. This is bizarre. And given that you refused to share how many women you've had this conversation with, I'm going to conclude you are lying/making up stories.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:07 PM
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He just added more words.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:05 PM
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she's been with too many guys for my taste How many is too many? Unless she only started having ltr after 30, then I'll assume she looking for a betabuxx What?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:04 PM
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Is this a question for me or one that men ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:04 PM
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based on what they say about their relationships and the patterns of how they started, how long they last, how they ended, and events occurring during the relationships. What do you mean? Please provide an example from your vast experience. This feels like a really long conversation. I hope there's snack and bathroom breaks while these women are breaking down the appearance, how relationships started and ended, any events, and more of their past. Do you really not understand this? I don't unders…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:03 PM
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From a practical standpoint the most obvious reason would be likelihood of STIs Why not ask, "when was the last time you were tested for STIs?" about likelihood of attachment to you compared to exes What? Having sex prior doesn't mean someone can't form an attachment.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:01 PM
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YOu can tell what a woman uses sex for by how she talks about her relationships and the kinds of men she had "relationships" with. But how? No, usually you see a pattern emerge. Most women like one particular kind of guy; whatever that is. Most women do not go for just any kind of guy. How? Are women describing to you each of their sexual partners? Are PowerPoints involved?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:00 PM
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I see you made some edits..... Some women have unhealthy sexual relationships. Some women don't know how to have healthy sexual relationships and instead use sex as a weapon, a sword, a shield, or to manipulate. SOme women associate sex with trauma, substance abuse, or other unhealthy events or things. How does sexual history tell you all of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:58 PM
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whether for pleasure, as a weapon, a shield, to manipulate men, or whatever else she uses it for. How do you know this? They show her "type". Ah, so we'd be able to successfully see a wide range in heights, body composition, looks, status, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:56 PM
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Do you really not understand that statement? Really? Yes. I don't understand and I've asked you to explain it. Could you explain it please?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:51 PM
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Right? Like...it's a non revealing question. I didn't ask his body count. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:51 PM
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it's too high What does this mean? someone does or has done is a better indicator of who they are than they say about themselves Is it? Because people change and make different decisions over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:50 PM
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Okay, well, I'll assume less than 2 women and under 20 years old. Who you let into your pussies says a lot about you. And how many men you let into your pussies says a lot about you. Please explain this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:49 PM
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tells you if she is promiscuous or not How so? What does "promiscuous" mean to you? someone who's impulsive like that What do you mean? What are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:48 PM
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Who you let into your pussies says a lot about you. And how many men you let into your pussies says a lot about you. What? Every woman I've ever been with with any degree of seriousness asked me my sexual history. And I asked them. How many women is this? What were your ages? (I don't want to assume)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:45 PM
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How so? What exactly does it tell you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:44 PM
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want to know the number of partners Why? were just hook ups or not So why not ask, "are you a more relationship person or a causal sex person?"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:43 PM
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So why not ask those questions?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:39 PM
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This is exactly what I think they are expecting
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:39 PM
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Whether or not she cheated is another piece of information they’d want to know as well, Again, so why ask sexual history? Isn't the question, "have you cheated in previous relationships"? what do you mean those can be different things? I've had sex with boyfriends. I've had sex casually.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:37 PM
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Omg. I'm so sorry you experienced that. How horrifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:32 PM
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Body count, number of relationships mainly Those can be different things. Why not ask about relationships instead of sexual history? most men who care want to know those factors. I've only had men ask about relationship history.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:31 PM
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The joke is because the post I responded to said, "separate ways". Hence the Journey song.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:30 PM
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What information is someone seeking when they ask for sexual history? Number of partners? Sexual positions used with others? If a specific act was done with #3, #7, and #13 but not anyone else?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:28 PM
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Most are children who haven't had sex or even been kissed. They don't have friends. And have zero concepts of human or social interactions with women. It's sad until it gets downright pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:24 PM
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"Alexa play Separate Ways by Journey."
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:21 PM
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So what are you expecting when you ask about sexual history?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:19 PM
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I don't understand it either. Asking about STIs or kinks, that makes sense. A full sexual history makes zero sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:18 PM
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Depends on how or what is asked. But typically, past high school, and certainly past 25, most people have had sex. So there's really no point in asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:14 PM
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Fingers crossed your "a lot of male friends" end up single. Good riddance, they sound like trashy af boyfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:07 PM
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For the ladies, if a man checked off most of your boxes, but was blunt and asked about your past, would you be honest with him ? Why or why not? I'd honestly say that I've had sex before. What else is there to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:05 PM
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Right? It's clear that those who think this is so abhorrent are either children under 18 or have had no relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 06:55 PM
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If you're ever in a long-term relationship, you might experience it. Especially if you have children. You'll definitely experience it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 06:54 PM
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There was a whole point in time when the pandemic was referred to with other p words. Pirate pizza party Pterodactyl
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 06:30 PM
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random reditors with visibly rather limited mental capacity Lmao. This attempted insults are so cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 06:20 PM
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Lmao. Because people on this sub know what a masculine man is. 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 05:51 PM
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I shouldn't suffer because of it. How are you suffering when you're partner is processing grief? Selfish much. Sure, YOU don't want to eat, but I FUCKING DO So go eat by yourself. You not being hungry is YOUR problem, not mine. If you won't feed me, I have the right to get someone else to feed me Ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 05:34 PM
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He can use his hand, like an adult. Hangela is the only mistress I'd allow. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 05:27 PM
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Grieving and stress are "cannot", not "don't want to". No. People CAN, they just don't WANT to. It is NOT a valid fucking reason. It's absolutely a valid fucking reason. If I'm not hungry, I don't want to eat. who's willing to put up with that abuse and maltreatment, Lmao. Y'all are such drama kings. be alone Or be with a real, masculine man who isn't testerical about their partner not wanting to have sex
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 05:21 PM
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I wouldn't be in a relationship with somebody that would just go without sex for 1-2 months without a medically significant reason Sucks for you. Such a limiting factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 05:18 PM
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Yes, it is. Someone can not want sex because they are grieving. Someone can not want sex because they are stressed with work. partner is refusing sex because partner doesn't want to". Which is a valid fucking reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 05:14 PM
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I can only assume they are literally children whose moms still do their laundry 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 05:04 PM
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Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 05:04 PM
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Lmao. What the actual fuck. Reading comments like this make you sound like a child who has never had a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 05:03 PM
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Medical Long distance More medical Grief Stress Pregnancy/post pregnancy How is this even a real question?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 05:02 PM
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If someone doesn't want to have sex, they don't want a relationship. This doesn't make any fucking sense. willfully depriving the other of sex. Who the fuck does this?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:59 PM
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Couldn't agree more.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:58 PM
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It's small dick energy to not be able to go 1-2 months without sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:54 PM
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It's really up to the couple. I wouldn't be in a relationship with someone who couldn't handle 1-2 months of not having sex. It's a clear sign of immaturity, lack of respect, and all-around icky behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:49 PM
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Even though men risk getting serious issues from abstentions longer than 2 weeks. Lmao. What the fuck. Y'all are unhinged.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:46 PM
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No, because I don't need a 24 year old kid to explain to me dating dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:45 PM
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Not really. The pandemic fucked things so this makes sense. And even without a pterodactyl, it makes sense. There is no need to rush. Have sex when you feel comfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:45 PM
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Not having sex hasn't neglect.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:41 PM
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Not having sex for a dozen valid reasons isn't neglecting someone. JFC.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:39 PM
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She lost the desire for sex with him Because he was demanding and threatening. What is desirable about someone who is demanding access to your body? "sick to my stomach" is not about a method of approach, it's total disgust of a person. Again, because someone threatening and demanding sex is a fucking disgusting person.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:38 PM
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What's confusing is your made-up stories. No amount of time is valid to threaten and demand sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:36 PM
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No. It's on him. His threatening behavior ruined his marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:34 PM
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They absolutely do. Hence why they are so angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:34 PM
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I don't need you to explain something to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:33 PM
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Demanding sex is a fucking problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:25 PM
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No wonder some men here struggle with sex. They only view it as something pleasurable for themselves, and they don't care about the other person.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:22 PM
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Why do women think that they can shame men for this? How is knowing your worth and not putting up with bullshit shaming men?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:16 PM
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The feeling is mutual kiddo.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:10 PM
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The only difference to the second guy is that he does not "demand sex" That's a pretty big difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:07 PM
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What the fuck are the order of events?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:05 PM
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You really think the woman would have gone after the first man if he just stopped asking for sex? Yes. Happens all the damn time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:00 PM
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And they continue to miss the point and wonder why the struggle with dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:57 PM
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A man who help eliminate those pressures instead of adding to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:54 PM
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The problem was that she wanted someone else. No, the ex husband and his threatening is the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:54 PM
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Well why did she stop having sex to begin with? Probably because he kept demanding and demanding without listening to what she wanted. Who wants to have sex with someone who doesn't care about your sexual needs? Because I don't believe that's the real difference. I think the big difference is the mate. So you don't listen either. Just like the ex husband in the story.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:51 PM
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Sure but you're aren't going Steve is a 5 in bed, Charles is a 7 in bed, Todd is a 10 in bed, etc. We all know if something is good or bad. But we're not comparing people to people. Ya know.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:49 PM
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And I'm saying, no, it's not a broader trend. I'd be curious when the data was collected.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:47 PM
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It's not true. It's fucking sick.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:46 PM
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Yes, these comments are so horrendous. so many guys legitimately don't seem to care whether the women actually enjoy the sex they're having Exactly. It's so gross and exactly why so many of them struggle. Sex is between two people, and both should be excited and eager about it. And if they aren't, there shouldn't be sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:45 PM
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Ick. What the fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:44 PM
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Whenever I feel relaxed, without any burdens or pressure, it is easier for me to get into the mood. Her husband was pressuring her and adding burdens.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:41 PM
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She's not yours it's just your turn". It's a fucking disgusting statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:39 PM
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You gonna say what you want to say? Or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:38 PM
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Yes, they create a lot of self-fulfilling prophecies.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:36 PM
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I'd say that most of my sexual harassment came from men over 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:33 PM
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Reading between the lines, it just sounds like she got complacent with her first husband and stopped having sex with him Because it's not sexy when someone is threatening and demanding you do something. The fuck. How is this a question? oh wow suddenly the low libido problem is gone! Amazing what happens when someone isn't threatening you and actually respects you. Reading between the lines There's no need. She literally said, she wasn't turned on when her partner was threatening her for sex. An…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:30 PM
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Agreed. If they got offline and put effort into their face to face life, they'd have some actual success.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:23 PM
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I miss the days of critical thinking when it came to the internet. I was always taught never to believe anything on the internet unless it was from a reputable source. An anonymous internet platform isn't a reputable source. And yet some men here think Reddit posts are an example of all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:21 PM
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Yes. I'm for real. I don't think everyone compares sexual partners to previous partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:17 PM
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They exist here every day. Yet they never talk to women in real life. It's so bizarre.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:16 PM
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(they literally just have to apply concealer) Lol. What? That's literally an unfair beauty standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:03 PM
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I haven't heard women in real life discuss it. Cool that you have. It doesn't change my opinion that most people don't compare their sexual partners like a pair of jeans.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 02:27 PM
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I don't think they cook.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 02:17 PM
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I've yet to meet a woman who does. If women did, we would talk about all the time. And yet....
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 02:16 PM
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Imagine not having casual sex and thinking you're an expert on casual sex. 🙄 I'm always amazed at the experts in this sub. Expertise built off shoddy research and Reddit subs.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 02:14 PM
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You've yet to meet someone who outright says it... Some people on this sub say it because they compare their female partners. If women did this, we would talk about it all the fucking time. What do they think then? If they're having shit sex, does their mind never go "well, I've had good sex before"? Usually, people fix the shit sex they are having. It's called communication.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 02:12 PM
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Yes, it's quite sad that they still resist getting checked and finding treatment. They'd rather be alone and angry. Which no longer makes me feel sad for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 02:09 PM
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I think everyone (or at least most) on some level compares sexual partners No. I don't think everyone does. At all. I've yet to meet someone who does. You have sex with person A and you enjoy it. You have sex with person B, don't enjoy it and on some level you think "well this isn't the experience I had with person A". No. That's not what most people think. Like anytime a guy doesn't make you cum, but you have before, then implicitly you are using previous experiences as a point of comparison. L…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 02:08 PM
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This type of materialist thinking How is not needing a man, materialistic thinking?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 02:05 PM
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Trash Clothes Things that have a place Things that don't have a place Dishes Do whatever order works for you. Set a timer for 20 mins and work on one category. Listen to music or podcasts or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 02:05 PM
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women wear makeup despite hating it Who are these women?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 02:03 PM
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I'm convinced that some men here compare their sexual partners and that's why they are afraid of women who have had sex. They think they'll be compared to some man, the same way they compare women. It's wild. Who has time to compare sexual partners? Seems pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 01:59 PM
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when women look at men like that they get more so impressed by his competence, experience, and desirability by other women No. We don't. If a man is bragging to me about his conquests I'm not interested. I wouldn't even know how I would know to be impressed by a man's desirability by other women. When does this even come up? she had let numerous men in that vulnerable position You mean cowgirl? Or maybe doggy is the vulnerable position?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 01:56 PM
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It's so strange how being a childfree woman upsets some random married man with kids. Why the obsession over someone's reproductive choices?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 10:25 PM
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✅️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 10:24 PM
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✅️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 10:24 PM
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🚫
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 10:24 PM
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🚫
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 09:42 PM
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✅️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 09:12 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 09:11 PM
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How do you define "normal dating life"?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 08:54 PM
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✅️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 08:39 PM
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🚫
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 08:39 PM
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🌟
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 08:36 PM
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Wild how wrong assumptions can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 08:30 PM
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✅️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 08:28 PM
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🚫
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 08:28 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 08:27 PM
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What assumptions do you have about me? I'll tell you if you're ✅️ or 🚫.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 08:14 PM
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How does some internet stranger not getting a date make me feel better about myself? I'm curious because you seem to know more about me than I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 08:13 PM
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So the only reason to be here is dopamine?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 08:10 PM
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Otherwise, you'll just be caught in the same pattern of pleasure seeking without any others forms of duties or responsibilities Because childfree people don't have jobs or other family commitments or general living expenses? Surely there is more to life than a life of constant dopamine seeking and internet drama Yes, a lot. I wish this place gave me dopamine.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 08:07 PM
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Women who love themselves and the world around them want children that can experience that too No, I'm too busy loving myself and enjoying the world to care for children.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 07:49 PM
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these sad ugly women Which one are those? woman that doesn’t want children is a massive fucking red flag of mental illness Why? There's more to life than being someone's mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 07:45 PM
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That women know more about women than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 07:05 PM
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Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 07:01 PM
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I don't complain about men. I complain about pathetic attempts to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:49 PM
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Cool for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:48 PM
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Again, never suggested that women are experts on dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:42 PM
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I already did by saying that the majority of men here struggle with dating. The proof is this damn sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:41 PM
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We must. I'll be on the lookout for the comments you're referring to.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:39 PM
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Huh. Haven't seen them. I'll be on the lookout. Maybe they'll show up here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:37 PM
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Could you provide an example?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:36 PM
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Not at all. I'm happy to be proven wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:26 PM
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Again, I don't think the women here consider themselves experts on men the same way men here think they are experts on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:26 PM
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Yes, the women here have more collective experience dating other women than men do. Mainly because the men here have little to no actual dating experiences. 🤣🤣 So it's a win on a technicality. Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:23 PM
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Nope. Again, still wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:20 PM
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You're an outlier among the women here Not at all. The women here tend to echo my experiences. Chances are a lot of the guys here have more real-life experience dating women, even if it's fun to assume they haven't and call them fucking pathetic. No. They don't. Or they wouldn't be here all day, every day complaining about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:19 PM
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Nope. Don't think that's the case. I don't think women here think of themselves as experts on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:17 PM
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Why would I take responsibility for Ted Bundy? Or Brian Laundrie?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:14 PM
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Months. Years.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:08 PM
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Proceed what exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:06 PM
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There's no wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:05 PM
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More than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:03 PM
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I have more real life experience than 90% of the men on here. Lmao. Sure, Jan.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:03 PM
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No, not because we're women but because we talk with women. More women, in fact, than most men here have even had sex with or approached or dated or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:02 PM
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What did you get me for my birthday?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:58 PM
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Men really think they are experts on women because they read a Reddit thread or watched a movie. Never are they real-life experiences. Always screen based experiences. Fucking pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:53 PM
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Brunch.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:51 PM
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It works quite well when it makes men hemotional over it. I'll believe what I see you women actually doing From what women?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:51 PM
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Up until the last few decades, we were all conditioned for a husband to work and a wife to do everything at the home. It's only been the last few generations where this is changing. It's why we see higher divorce rates in people over 50. And why we see women choosing to stay single over being in a relationship with a man who refuses to clean or cook.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:50 PM
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Women generally find those men sexually attractive Nope, again as outlier. But they still like them and they still find those men "hot" or "hawt" depending on who you're listening to or reading More outliers. Women generally do not find "nice kind good men" sexually attractive, even if they have to pick one for marriage because they can't get anyone else to commit. Another outlier. You're so good at identifying the outliers. But then, your username refers to your big vulva, so It refers to Big D…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:47 PM
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2+ years. No struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:44 PM
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It’s better to have a complementary plan ahead of time as to what you both should be responsible for prior to getting married (who’d have thought?) and stick to it Life changes. Constantly. You can't really stick to anything when it comes to the lives of multiple people. This should also account for income being brought in by each person as well as if one person works from home, for example. Again, this can change many times over the course of a marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:43 PM
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One such general rule is that women like and are sexually attracted to "bad boys" - men who are fun, spontaneous, edgy, exciting, and exhibit the ability to deploy violence That's an outlier, not a general rule. Women DO NOT like and ARE NOT sexually attracted to "nice, kind, good men" - men who are boring, predictable, stable, studious, industrious, loyal, introverted, and uncomfortable with violence. Another outlier. Can we agree that the above is GENERALLY true? No, they aren't GENERALLY true…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:40 PM
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Yup, amazing how it backfires to have one provider doing all the things and another caretaker doing all the things and no opportunities for the two to spend time together.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:33 PM
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So your principle is "online dating"? Got it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:29 PM
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Okay, so like I said, a long-term relationship without marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:27 PM
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Oh no. Better hurry up.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:19 PM
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Have a long-term relationship without marriage? Revisit the proposal when the alimony ends?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:17 PM
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Are you the boyfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:15 PM
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it's the principle behind it Such as?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:14 PM
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She can have a serious boyfriend. They just won't live together. Which many older couples do. Seems like a pretty full life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:12 PM
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Making time for someone isn't the same as providing for them. It's wild how y'all can't see the differences.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:10 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:57 PM
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I said unintentionally single. And then you made assumptions. That's not my problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:51 PM
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only makes sense if her new guys is ok No. It makes sense for HER. Let say he decides to leave after the rejection, She'll be fine. her ex dies or moves out the country, She still gets alimony. downgrade her lifestyle if need be. No.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:48 PM
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Ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:44 PM
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Makes perfect sense for her. Unfortunately, she's right. She likely won't get a job that pays equal or more than her alimony. Not the asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:39 PM
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Didn't click the link but yes, lots of drama kings here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:36 PM
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And you can be single and celibate. Amazing how that works.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:34 PM
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Notice how she never experienced unintentional celibacy though? Unintentional singledom = Unintentionally celibacy They are one in the same, but one has more negative connotations.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:30 PM
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hasn't been with more than 5 guys I hope this changes as you age.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:28 PM
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What hypotheticals have I shared?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:23 PM
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Yes, this sub loves unhinged hypotheticals.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:13 PM
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This was great when I was 16. But between college, living expenses, healthcare needs, etc debt has occurred. Tattoos have occurred because they are fun and awesome. And 3 of them were free. If this makes me unappealing to some men, that's the whole fucking point. I don't want to date some man obsessed with my 16 year self who is a debt free virgin with no tattoos.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:12 PM
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Who has been in consistent relationships since 17?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:01 PM
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These are some great assumptions. I've had intentional years of celibacy. I've had years of unintentional singledom. But sure, your assumptions are indeed funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:00 PM
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unfair to let a minority's actions define how an entire group is seen So take it up with the men who do those actions. The point I'm trying to make is that unfair generalizations and assumptions based on a small percentage of men's actions impact how people interact. You mean like this sub does daily about women? Idk, man, don't take it personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 03:51 PM
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Pussy isn't a problem solver. Far too many men here think that a relationship will save them. It won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 03:50 PM
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Yes, thinking that women who have sex don't have feelings is a bit immature.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 03:42 PM
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I'm picking neither because I'm not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 03:39 PM
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Just curious if there is any women who would chose the unsafe guy? No. But the single men here with limited experiences are the experts on female attraction. They've read shoddy research, and they've seen one Tiktok and a few Reddit threads. So obviously they are experts on women. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 03:34 PM
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Yes it's really weird. And then they expect that getting pussy will solve all their problems. As if the pussy isn't attached to a whole ass human who has their own needs and problems. It's so gross how obsessed they are with a shallow human cave.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 03:30 PM
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Why are you mad at women for being cautious and not your fellow men for their actions that make us cautious? Seems weird to blame women for the actions of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 03:25 PM
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Having sex doesn't mean you don't experience other emotions. How is this a real question? "Woman had sex AND feeling, how is this possible?" 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 03:21 PM
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The kids are probably watching Bluey on the living room TV.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 03:18 PM
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It does answer your question. Just because you didn't like my answer doesn't mean it didn't answer your question.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:40 AM
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Be a baddie.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:35 AM
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OLD is bots and algorithms. I wouldn't trust it as real data that means you "have work to do".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:34 AM
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Because things are temporary.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:31 AM
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Making choices for the betterment of your family is the most masculine shit ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:24 AM
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He made a choice for his family, like a masculine man. Good for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:20 AM
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Congrats on how your family made choices. Wild that other families made other choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:14 AM
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That makes sense. The living room is for everyone. Maybe if he didn't have two kids, he could have had it in the living room or another bedroom. Sounds like the consequence of his sexual actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:10 AM
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Love it. Some strains are great for productivity. Some strains are great for relaxation. Some a good body tingling high. Some are more heady thoughts and brain ideas. I wouldn't necessarily recommend it before the age of 18. That said, I'm a cool aunt, and rather you do it with me at the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:05 AM
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you can't unlearn stuff Yes, you can. People do it every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 03:59 AM
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By not taking on the opinions and expectations of others. On top of being humiliated, embarrassed and ridiculed for trying. Where does this occur? Who does this? Remove those places/spaces and people. very hard not to feel bitter after never having any romantic interactions in your life Therapy due to certain traits that are very hard to control More therapy There are many therapy options with a variety of trained professionals.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:39 AM
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No. When someone does something as a means of controlling, that is manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:35 AM
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In the cases I see here, it is used to control others vs. doing it for yourself because you want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:22 AM
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That this sub is hurting some men's abilities to have real connection, causal sex, dating, long term relationships, marriage, fatherhood, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:09 AM
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No, make up isn't manipulative. You can literally tell someone has make up on. It isn't used to control someone else. It's used for a variety of personal reasons that benefit the individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:08 AM
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Still no. None of the factors are the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:07 AM
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My most interesting post idea is about how this sub is hurting single men, not helping single men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:43 AM
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Watching Tiktoks, taking a bubble bath, and hitting my vape pen while my partner cleans the kitchen + preps / starts dinner is peak post wall behavior. Ladies, never settle for less than your dreamiest, delusional desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:42 AM
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Human complexities.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:34 AM
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I've observed 3 key things that some men here are doing that are creating their own obstacles. 🐕 Obsessing over appearance and "looks thresholds". 🐕 Hating women and yet demanding them to have sex with you. 🐕 Thinking that one or two examples is a trend of all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:14 AM
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How is dismissing someone's views manipulative? It's an attempt to control or handle someone else. How are women even manipulated into sex PUA, looks max, pretending to want a relationship but demanding sex first, expecting sex on the first date because he paid.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 11:03 PM
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Men manipulate women for sex all the time. Many men here suggest manipulating women for causal sex. Many men here manipulate women by dismissing their views, insulting, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 10:48 PM
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I don't hate on anyone or any group.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 10:43 PM
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Agreed, masculinity seems to be romanticized by men not old enough to even be a provider or men who haven't ever been a provider.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 07:25 PM
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I don't think you've ever did anything remotely positive in this sub. Is this supposed to mean something to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 07:22 PM
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they feel completely comfortable deciding for men what their life is like I never suggested that I know what their life is like. I made an observation about reactions from some in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 07:19 PM
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I never suggested my view was the only right view. I didn't even share my view. I shared an observation that made some men here act hemotional.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 07:18 PM
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Such a fun word.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 07:10 PM
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This makes sense. Because even when we say it harms them too, some say they don't want to be a "victim". As if acknowledging that water is wet is inherently weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 07:10 PM
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Ooh okay. Thank goodness for you to correct me. How I ever lasted in this world without you is utterly insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:32 PM
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Because engaging with you is biologically an emotional thrill?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:31 PM
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whatever system feminism wants to create and I am pretty sure that system will be worse for guys At least you can admit you don't know what you're talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:20 PM
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not appealing to masculine men. Perfect example of patriarchy harming men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:19 PM
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I am indeed a creature unlike any other.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:18 PM
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so if you women aren't interested in you at all then that means you are ugly in their eyes No, it doesn't. It means that they aren't interested in you for probably a dozen different reasons beyond this sub's obsession with looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:17 PM
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I saw your point. I didn't find it compelling.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:16 PM
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Saying "patriarchy hurts men too".... Really seems to upset some men. I have no idea why they become so hemotional and testerical about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 03:57 PM
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Ooh, the old "it's biology chesnut", lemme guess, you took one biology class in high school and have read some blogs about biology? In all that learning, you still failed to understand that the environment is important to biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 03:56 PM
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Lmao. According to religious funded research with the goal of shaming folks for having sex. I think I'll skip that so-called data. In my lived experiences, it's the less sexually experienced ones who cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 03:53 PM
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Some of the men here act like women are supposed to be attracted to them simply because they are men. Or that if someone isn't interested in you, it must mean you're a uggo. It's such a self-made shame spiral. An example of how patriarchy hurts men, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 03:48 PM
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Because women focus on the person, the character. Unlike men who, according to those here, only focus on a woman's appearance. Just because I'm a woman who dates men, doesn't mean I find every man attractive or really have a type. My type is man. And then everything else has to fall into place, ie I'm actively looking for a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 03:46 PM
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Everyone is different. I'm not always aware of someone's appearance when I'm interacting with them. I'm just trying to order my coffee or food or buy something or just walk on by. I'm not single or looking, so I don't even really register someone's attractiveness. I just want to go about my day.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 03:43 PM
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Absolutely. At my big age, everyone has had sex. I care about how he treats me and his commitment to our relationship. His banging other women before shouldn't have an impact on how he treats me or how he commits.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 03:41 PM
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He's focusing too much on his looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 03:15 PM
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Because y'all refuse to
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 03:13 PM
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The men obsessing over their looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 02:46 PM
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It's wild to me that men here will hear over and over and over again from the women that looks aren't everything. We might not "see" a man because we aren't looking we're just going about our day. Women aren't waking up and ready to find a man to mate or stare it. Men think that women are like them when it comes to attraction. And then get really emotional when it turns out they aren't like men when it comes to attraction. The easiest thing for some men here to fix but they straight up refuse. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 02:34 PM
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What does this teach us? It teaches us never to have children because they are ungrateful street urchins who will talk shit about you on the internet. Even fat, single moms can land a man with a genuinely good heart if they stop having absurd standards Your mom had high standards. You just don't see or respect her or them. Ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 02:25 PM
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Where do stats say that avg men aren't dating or having sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 02:21 PM
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Do they? Because it seems like men who can't get dates are the loudest about not wanting marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 01:59 PM
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Having confidence in yourself doesn't mean you think you are better than others. It just means you know you're baddie, a 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 01:59 PM
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It would be wonderful if everyone had self-love and confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 01:51 PM
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Why do the kids who still live at home have such a strong opinion on sharing chores?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 01:43 PM
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They say it on a TV show one time and built their idea of masculinity around it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 01:40 PM
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My partner folded our laundry. I love discovering how he folded my clothes. Some he gets right. Other items tend to be a struggle. 🤣 He says they are clothes for an octopus. Straps and ties and racerbacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 03:26 AM
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Okay, what about Colin Jost and ScarJo? Another example of male hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 03:23 AM
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Explain that muppet who is dating Arianna Grande?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 03:09 AM
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You're so bored that you keep responding
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 03:02 AM
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I made a post in the daily thread. I didn't make a thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 03:01 AM
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Ooh I don't care. Do whatever. Good luck to you!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 02:58 AM
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It's masculine to not care about someone's sexual history.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 02:56 AM
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It's masculine to not care about someone's sexual history.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 02:55 AM
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It's masculine to not be care about someone's sexual history.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 02:54 AM
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Yup. Most men don't care. Teenage boys care.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 02:50 AM
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Huh. So then Twitter would become the place where men buy sexual content.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 02:46 AM
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So what problems do you have with Instagram then?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 02:41 AM
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So what problems do you have with Instagram then?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 02:40 AM
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Most people have more than 3 relationships.....
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 02:34 AM
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You said social media. So why keep Twitter or Reddit but not Instagram?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 02:33 AM
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And these were exclusive relationships? Meaning you both agreed to exclusivity?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 02:32 AM
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Lol. So....3 women = all women who have had sex. Got it. Such great logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 02:29 AM
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all of the women that I’ve dated How many? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 02:26 AM
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So no more Reddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 02:24 AM
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Go ask your next bf is he’s okay with the fact another dude busted a nut on your face lmao, just to see how he reacts He'd said, "nice, I busted nuts on girls' faces, too." And went back to folding laundry.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 02:24 AM
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Good thing my comment didn't shame virgins. Just the opposite because sexual history or experience doesn't matter. What matters is the two people who are building a sex connection that is for one night or for the long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 02:16 AM
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It's really silly the obsession they have with others men's dicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 02:09 AM
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Still not a reason to not go 50/50 on dishes, bathrooms, vacuuming, kitchen, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 02:08 AM
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Call me whatever you want A 16 year old boy 👦
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 02:07 AM
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It didn't matter when I was 22. Doesn't matter now.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 01:59 AM
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Beyond this tiny corner of the internet, I've never encountered anyone who has cared beyond the age of 17.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 01:58 AM
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Literally stopped caring or worrying or discussing "body count" after high school. By 25, everyone has had sex. (If you haven't, no biggie, you still can.) If there's any history conversations, they tend to be about relationships. Ie my last relationship ended because he moved away or whatever. The folks here who are obsessed, I can only imagine, are in high school. I can't picture a grown ass man giving a damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 01:53 AM
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They are referring to everyday chores like dishes, dusting, vacuuming, mapping, bathrooms, etc. They shit that is done over and over and over again in a day or a week. Not the fucking chores done once a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 01:49 AM
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My partner won't let me take out the trash. gutters, shoveling snow Are reasons why we don't own a home at the moment. Ain't nobody want to spend time on these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 01:45 AM
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I didn't conveniently do anything. I was focusing on the whiny comments made by men in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 01:43 AM
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Perfect example of getting in your own way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 01:41 AM
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So enlighten me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 01:41 AM
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What the fuck are "male chores"?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 01:34 AM
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I'm fussing over comments like the following.... Most women don't like conventionally unattractive men most people will never be attracted to them
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 11:41 PM
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Not at all. I just mean not cling to stats or refusing to try new things. Not obsessing over looks or status. Not limiting yourself. Etc
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 11:40 PM
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Girl math will basically make our wedding free. 😆 It's insane how many little costs there are in the process. There are so many decisions and factors. Grateful for girl math to make it more bearable.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 11:37 PM
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Alright. Well, that solves that!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 11:32 PM
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Huh. Typos occur. I'm only human.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 11:31 PM
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How is body positivity bitching about men's standards? Body positivity is for men, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 11:13 PM
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Seems I have. So please enlighten me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 11:10 PM
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What's the movement called? I must have missed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 11:06 PM
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what can be changed for the majority of men so that they by default succeed Get out of their own way. Stop making up obstacles.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 11:06 PM
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they get disinterested in sex if they have to have forplay for 20 minutes Because they see sex as something for their solo pleasure instead of sex being a joint pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 11:01 PM
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1 in 3 sounds like below average. Amount of men under 30 not having sex has tripled in the past decade And? Doesn't mean that average men aren't having casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 10:57 PM
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Yes, avg men are having causal sex. could possibly mean Focusing on bullshit like "average men". Obsessing stats. Etc. Failing to make changes and instead just complain about women's standards..
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 10:55 PM
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Another unhinged scenario focused on a woman try to lock down a dude
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 10:35 PM
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Well that would be criminal history.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 10:25 PM
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Why are these scenarios always so wildly unhinged and always about other dudes Dicks. I don't care about other dudes Dicks the same way that some men here seem to be obsessed with. Sexual history doesn't matter because it's history.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 10:12 PM
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I'll do housework if he does housework. I won't be the only one doing housework.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 10:09 PM
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Avg men are in relationships and having casual sex across the world. Below average men who think they are average struggle to be desirable. Mostly because they won't get out of their own way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 10:08 PM
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I don't know why you continually push shit I'm just trying to understand your comment re "men don't need friends". I feel truly sorry for the man that you tricked into marrying you Because he has friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 07:05 PM
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Man made issues indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 06:44 PM
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Okay, so why don't men need friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 06:40 PM
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No one is coming to save a man Do you expect your friends to save you? Seems an odd expectation of friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 06:36 PM
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Men don't need friends Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 06:10 PM
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PPD Men: What do you want? What would make your life so incredibly awesome? Please be as specific as possible. Tell me what your ideal Saturday looks like.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 06:09 PM
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I honestly have no idea. I don't think they do either.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 06:08 PM
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Sure, but I'm not a gazelle in the Serengeti. I'm a human capable of deciding if I want to reproduce or not. Capable of defining success on my own terms, not something tied to my ability to reproduce.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 06:08 PM
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Did you understand where I wrote, "some men on PPD"?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 05:25 PM
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Very true. I edited to better reflect PPD bros. It’s not even about sex and relationships: it’s about winning It is so sad to see it as winning to impress other men. Not even to impress themselves but other people, usually strangers on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 05:14 PM
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I witness how every month: girl breaks up with her jerky ex (usually a kickboxer, footballer, athlete) says she just wants a 'good guy' who is more 'open minded' and likes feminine stuff, yet she ends up hooking up with his best friend/cousin (also a kickboxer, footballer, athlete). How do you witness this monthly? Do you think that athletes are incapable of being open-minded and good guys? Once again, this is an example of only looking at the surface level and assuming she picked the "same guy"…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 05:10 PM
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Some men on PPD could solve so many of their struggles if they were actually friends to each other. Instead, it's a game of bravado/admiration and competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 05:07 PM
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mating success Gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 05:05 PM
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Why would I be offended by uggos existing in the world?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 05:04 PM
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are about men being emotional and what happens And?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 03:45 PM
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Malcom X. Maya Angelou.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 03:06 AM
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Yes!! Was listening to the soundtrack the other day.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 03:04 AM
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Men here really think all they have to do is step outside, and all women in their vicinity are going to throw themselves at their unwashed feet. And then these same men complain about women's standards being and anyone not 100 lbs soaking wet is fat. Makes sense why people are single when they understand their unhinged expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 02:37 AM
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I don't see how men would know that though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 02:18 AM
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This is anything but rational.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:14 AM
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What's the evolutionary purpose of men thinking they know better of what women are attracted to? Can you imagine asking a guy how you should wear your makeup and what would be attractive to wear Yes, men can understand color theory and how textures, patterns, and colors pair.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:07 AM
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This is so appropriate! I've thought about this as my 4th or 5th career. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 12:42 AM
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Me!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 11:59 PM
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Imagine being 200 lbs and demanding the women you want to date to weigh less than 200 lbs.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 09:35 PM
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Neither. Above average looking and above average smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 07:52 PM
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No. Isn't there a chance you could be settled for? Not really. People are staying single longer on purpose. 30s is a great time for love.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 07:02 PM
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We had a blast!! And we got several compliments on our fits. It was so fun to do something that he enjoys and I'm whatever about. I love seeing him smile and letting out his inner child!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:55 PM
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guys in the bottom 80%, No idea what that means. Nobody talks like this in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:50 PM
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because you are lying Nope. Also all your make friends would have sex with you if given the chance. No, they wouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:49 PM
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A dude on average probably has to vet through hundreds of women Lmao. What? Haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:36 PM
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I never said women don't have physical standards. But those physical standards are very vague because many people can fit them. "Taller than me" doesn't equal "most be 6 ft". If people use filters to only swim in the 6ft pool, fine by me. That's what online dating apps are for. Don't hate the player, hate the app.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:33 PM
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No idea what either of those things mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:31 PM
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settle for a friend when you can spend that time to get a wife You can have both in different people. I have a partner. I also have multiple best friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:29 PM
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I just want one guy. Not 20% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:26 PM
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Why would anyone take the bare minimum when it comes to romance and sex and relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:20 PM
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Sounds good, man! Seems your personal experiences are working in your favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:18 PM
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So go for the 40% of women who don't? Why focus on a small percentage of women? Seems like a self-made obstacle to focus on a small section of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:16 PM
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I had dinner waiting for him when he got home late after work last night. This AM, I put away the dishes from the dishwasher that he loaded. Put away the dishes he washed. I'm about to start laundry for our sheets, towels, and our clothes from the week. I bought us tickets to his favorite sporting event in some kinda fancy seats and bought us matching hats. It's weird that they demand housewives and then say women never doing anything for men. Don't they get whiplash from the contradictions.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:01 PM
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Go look at any of the posts asking women what their type is I've seen them. I don't see the problem or anything particular "high standards" about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 05:56 PM
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How he self describes compared to me. He's smart. But he would call me smarter. How would you quantify it?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 05:55 PM
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And I'm saying those things are reciprocated by women. Are you getting it now?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 05:42 PM
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Friends help friends move. Friends make sure they get home safe. I didn't see anything described that isn't reciprocated.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 05:37 PM
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I'll agree with that 100%. Notice how there's never any actual height requirements. Someone who is 5'2 would have a dude who is 5'8 still taller than her in heels. Or 5'5 woman and 5'11 man. tall enough for her in heels Which can vary in height themselves. Not all women wear 6-inch heels. Some like flats, so even a couple of inches feels taller.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 05:34 PM
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You’re going to have to do better than ‘you get a friend’. Nope, that's the literal point, friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 05:31 PM
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Most women have height requirements for a partner, Not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 05:22 PM
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No vendetta. I don't care about you, I just thought it was interesting that you consider yourself nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 05:21 PM
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Yes, they seem really pressed that women would rather be alone than with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 05:16 PM
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more simply it isn't really a reward Friendship is the reward.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 05:16 PM
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Weird, I wouldn't call insulting people on the internet nice. And yes, I don't think I'm nice. I'm a bitch. That's why I love a nice guy. Balance. Behind ever Bitch Barbie is a Ken.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 05:13 PM
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Weird, I wouldn't call insulting people on the internet nice. And yes, I don't think I'm nice. I'm a bitch. That's why I love a nice guy. Balance. Behind ever Bitch Barbie is a Ken.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 05:13 PM
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The obsession with the "top 20%" is the downfall of most single men here. The obsession with height is another downfall.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 05:11 PM
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Nope. The 6 feet thing is a joke used purposely to reject unwanted men. It's the equivalent of a man calling a woman a bitch for rejecting him.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 05:10 PM
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Do you consider yourself a nice adult?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 05:04 PM
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I have friends who are men. So I'm not sure what you're referring to here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 04:32 PM
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How did you get that from my comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 04:31 PM
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It makes perfect sense, not everyone wants to be a parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 04:16 PM
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to go through psychological screening Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 04:08 PM
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many of the women here need to read Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 04:07 PM
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those are very particular scenarios that you'd unlikely see out of someone on a first meet You can absolutely find out when you first meet. Doesn't take multiple dates. Takes a conversation. I don't believe most women will consider dating a man for how competently he can I didn't say anything about competence. I said without getting angry. And you can see that on a first date with how someone treats service staff. I don't believe this quality increases sexual attraction It does. It so so so does…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 04:06 PM
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You know the outcomes when it comes to having male friends Yes, I've got some really great friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 03:58 PM
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Every day, I laugh and nod because they are so close to seeing their own man made issues. And yet keep refusing to look in the mirror.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 03:40 PM
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Yup, women feel entitled to be seen as humans and not just flesh puppets for their male coworkers one time enjoyment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 03:39 PM
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I love seeing my partner express his full range of emotions. Seeing him cry at a funeral, a silly cat commercial, or laughing so hard he's in tears, I love it. My heart grows every time he expresses his emotions through his eyeballs.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 03:37 PM
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I've only dated, fucked, and rejected men so I know quite a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 03:34 PM
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Men trying to hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 03:32 PM
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Ooh no, women want friends who are men. The horror!! The fucking entitlement of women wanting friends instead of men always wanting sex. that a lot of men are not looking for female friends Well, this explains why so many here struggle. What men get back is a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 03:31 PM
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I know. It's pretty ridiculously awesome that so many women find so many different things physically attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 03:29 PM
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I consider this beyond basic hygiene and wearing clothes. Those are bare minimum adult tasks. Take care of himself, to me, means he can make his own doctor appointments, can handle challenges that come up in life, i.e., a broken car with a calm level head. To me, it means he can buy gifts for his parents' birthdays and nurture relationships that are close to him. He can care for all parts of himself, including asking for help or directions.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 03:29 PM
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The "top 20%" looks different for each person. My "top 20%" and other female posters here are going to have different ideas of what is physically attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 03:25 PM
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Maybe stop assuming, and we can have an actual conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 03:19 PM
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Are you serious Yes, a shower works every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 03:18 PM
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They don't have the capability to grow only because they straight up refuse to. Sucks to suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 03:16 PM
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Bro, again, I was specifically referring to the PPD space. It was an intentional debate choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 03:15 PM
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Lmao. 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 03:14 PM
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You can spot "take care of himself" within a few moments of meeting.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 03:12 PM
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I always preferred Leos for fuck buddies. Cancer and Aquarius for relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 03:10 PM
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Yes, it does. All the time. I see it every day when I leave my house, when I talk with friends, when I conduct work, it's everywhere. Except this Bermuda Triangle of a sub. basically take no shit from anyone. Wtf physically attractive man, confident, A shower and a white tee does wonders, Dem Franchize Boyz taught my generation that. wield power at your job/career, Nope, just have a job that can provide for yourself and maybe eventually contribute to a joint household.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 03:08 PM
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is taller Yes, but I'm short so it hardly counts more educated No richer No smarter No more social No Was there something you were trying to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 03:05 PM
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Very true. And really they don't want to actually date women, they just want to admired by other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 03:04 PM
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I was specifically referring to this sub. Hence my post opening "PPD".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 03:01 PM
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As they should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 03:00 PM
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Disagreeing with someone doesn't make me obtuse. 🙄 The statement doesn't make any sense. so by default I also became a moron in your eye Bro I give no fucks about you. I'll click post and never give you a 2nd thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 02:59 PM
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Are there? Because I haven't seen any of those examples here. I don't think any of the single men here fit that description.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 02:53 PM
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babies are everything, Lmao. No, they aren't. They are humans who should be wanted not forced upon someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 02:52 PM
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It does. Every day. All the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 02:50 PM
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PPD: women have such high standards Women's standards: be a nice adult who can cook, clean, take care of himself, and have some friends or hobbies, so she's not his only human connection. PPD: YOUR STANDARDS ARE TOOOOOOOO HIGH, LOWER THEM SO I CAN HAVE SEX WITH YOU AND BRAG TO OTHER MEN SO THEY SEE ME AS VALUABLE!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 02:41 PM
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Because a baby is most precious, miraculous thing in the entire world. /s Really, because American society cares more about a pregnant woman, about the human potential inside of her, then they do the actual woman or the child. It's pretty fucking gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 02:37 PM
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Wtf. No! It took me 18 years to get my tubes removed. I was denied multiple times because, "what about your partner?". 🙄😒 My choice about my body, my choice to have kids, is MINE and mine alone. This is fucking gross thinking. Getting my tubes removed was the best decision. No kids, ever! It's such a fulfilling life. permanent sterility should be a multiple step multiple person process No. It should be one person, and that is the person who wants permanent sterilization.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 02:27 PM
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Have you never heard a man brag about himself before? Exaggerate for this audience? It's easy enough for one dude to hype up other dudes with bravado. The whole, the fish gets bigger with every retelling. 🐟
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 04:10 AM
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Women have agency Very limited agency They are actively upholding these norms by continuing to seek male providers Oh I thought that was what the whole women's suffrage movement was about. Maybe it was civil rights. Or maybe it was pregnancy discrimination. Maybe it's intersectional feminism. Maybe it's healthcare access because America has one of the highest maternal death rates. But you're right, I guess it's just us women upholding centuries old notions.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 11:08 PM
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Nobody should. But instead of screeching about women blah blah people should recognize we're literally in the midst of change. One foot in the past, one foot trying to create a future. Shit takes time. I think my generation is the first to see some of these changes as part of our entire life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 10:58 PM
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Because the past is still affecting our present.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 10:56 PM
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Yup, because of slave labor. So halfway through they had to actually pay people for their labor.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 10:55 PM
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Taxes, wage gap, housing costs, etc. The list goes on.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 10:55 PM
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Sure you did, Jan.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 10:49 PM
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None. Ick. They were so tiny. I saw an exhibit in DC that had a uniform of Washington's, and he was so short and skinny. No wonder there's a phallic monument in his honor.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 10:49 PM
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Psst.....it's not even 5 on the West Coast. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 10:46 PM
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By being born into a society where men have been providers for multiple centuries. It's been the last....what...50 years that strides have been made for women to earn their own incomes. Why don't you do some more math on what 50 years is vs 200+ years.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 10:45 PM
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Yup, because we're still beholden to their constitution and outdated systems.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 10:41 PM
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Ya I'm not really sure what's so enlightening about this data.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 10:36 PM
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America's Founding Fathers: we'll create a society where us men are the providers Today's men: how dare women want a man to provide for them The outrage of men being providers is directed at today's women as if they are personally responsible for the "men are in charge" society we live in.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 10:34 PM
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It's not. I'm curious the methodology but I haven't dug into it yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 10:31 PM
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Yes, because that's how American society had been setup.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 10:27 PM
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Okey dokey artichokey.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 10:26 PM
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Nope, I do basic math all day. I am incapable of reading a statistic and drawing the conclusion that women get into relationships solely to be provided for. But hey, you clearly know way more than me about what women want.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 10:20 PM
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I read the post and came to the conclusion that both people are contributing financially to the household.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 10:15 PM
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So you failed to read this bit? Nope. I added 30 + 20. Because a 60% threshold to be considered a high earner is a bit bizarre. I haven't looked at the research methodology yet. So I'm sure I'll have more questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 10:14 PM
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It means you're earning at least 50% more than the other spouse No, it means you earn 60% of the income, and the spouse earns 40%. Women seeking men that outearn them, because they want a provider But the women are contributing 40%. So how are they being provided for?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 10:11 PM
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Are you suggesting an 18 year old is my level? Do you have something to back you shit talking up? Or was this little quip all you've got?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 10:08 PM
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Ya 60% threshold to be considered sole is kinda ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 10:07 PM
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I read the post and asked a question.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 10:05 PM
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I never said anything about intimidation. I don't think anyone here is intimidated by me. I just think folks try and talk shit but constantly fail, miraculously. Like..... now.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 10:05 PM
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So half of all childfree marriages, the woman is the sole provider? at least 60% of the household's total income. Doesn't really seem that big of a difference. I think this provides a compelling argument that the burden of childcare is NOT the primary reason for husbands outearning wives in marriages. What do you think is?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 09:57 PM
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Bro, you need the grip.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 09:55 PM
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You just did bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 09:55 PM
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Just like some of the men here. Weak little ugly ducklings.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 09:54 PM
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Yay, more unhinged incoherent rants.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 09:53 PM
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Oh look, another Reddit thread that I'm supposed to take as real and build an entire opinion off it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 09:49 PM
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The fuck are you even talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 09:48 PM
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Lemme guess, you're not gonna say what this means.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 09:47 PM
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Lmao. Uh huh. That's why you constantly insult me and my partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 09:47 PM
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It's only a matter of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 09:39 PM
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So you admit that you're a pussy who can't back up their words?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 09:38 PM
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Blah, I'd had to go back and find handles. Hang on.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 09:38 PM
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on the tin What tin?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 09:27 PM
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Some of the men here are such pussies. Talk big game, but when you ask them, they cower and don't say shit. It's so pathetic. Get out the kitchen if you can't take the heat.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 09:27 PM
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Ick..I couldn't imagine wanting to date an 18 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 09:18 PM
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Yup. And that still doesn't change the elasticity of a vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 09:13 PM
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How can they help other men by insulting their girlfriends online?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 09:13 PM
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I keep asking, and people refuse to answer. So clearly folks got nothing to fucking say. Pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 09:12 PM
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Yes, it's pretty toxic to call a stranger a simp.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 09:02 PM
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Uh huh. Again, it sounds like there's no real reason, and y'all are being clowns.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 09:00 PM
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average insecure 20 year old boy Could absolutely wear a pink dress for Halloween, for a cause, or occasion.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 08:54 PM
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Yes, they just seem really jealous. They'll call me fat and ugly and him a simp. It's really interesting choice to insult the appearance of someone you can't see. Bold choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 08:54 PM
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Nope. Care to enlighten us?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 08:52 PM
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So men here calling my partner a simp is ruining their own life?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 08:42 PM
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I'd love to see a plain Jane super model.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 08:42 PM
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the US are patriarchal So what is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 08:41 PM
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toxic masculinity to not want other men to ruin their life. How would a man they'll never meet ruin their life?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 08:41 PM
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good example of toxic masculinity Indeed. It's peak toxic masculinity to insult a dude because he's in a relationship with a woman you disagree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 08:39 PM
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Do you have an example?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 08:38 PM
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I know I'm attractive because I'm worked in jobs where I've been hired based on my appearance (not sex work). I've got "girl next door" vibes, or so I've been told.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 08:36 PM
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That 14 year old opinion is the one that matters, though!!!! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 08:33 PM
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Your comments tend to be a lot more neutral. They don't "like my attitude" so they feel the need to insult me and any man who agrees with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 08:32 PM
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Ya so many here just want to stay miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 08:26 PM
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Who are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 08:04 PM
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Ya, it's not difficult. I'm just not sure how much of it I personally want to deal with. But this is why we're interviewing wedding planners and Day of coordinators. The wedding planner would book ceremony and restaurant rooms, plus coordinate with them on logistics. All the things leading up to and including the wedding. Day of coordinators are just there the Day of handing logistics like getting family for group photos running interference between us and the venue or vendors, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 08:04 PM
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Same re mixed reviews. Depends on what I say. When I say he cooks and clean, he's a simp. It's pretty wild. the worst and the best users here are men Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 08:00 PM
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It's so funny how some men here react to the women in relationships here. It's either "condolences for him" or "he's a simp". Men really are other men's worst nightmares.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 07:55 PM
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For example, the wedding planner would book the venue and would be the point of the contact. I don't want to have to deal with booking anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 07:50 PM
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Says the person who can't explain what they mean and expect strangers to be mind readers.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 07:48 PM
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semen has killed off some brain cells Does this happen with all semen? loosened that vagina You'd think that people in relationships would talk about this if sex had any impact. Sex with 10 people is the same as sex 10 times with the same person. A vagina doesn't change elasticity because it was 50 different penis vs one penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 07:42 PM
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He's sitting right here. "Why can't he just say what he meant. Does he think that I'll suddenly realize you had sex before me, and I'll end our engagement?"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 07:40 PM
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We're doing small and chill, too, but I don't want to be dealing with phone calls and decisions and day of logistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 07:38 PM
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Probably the trendy 2 outfits, one for ceremony and one for reception. Maybe even a 3rd for after party. For the ceremony, I'd like to try some trumpet or mermaid styles.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 07:37 PM
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My dude, he literally asked why. , he would know why in 6-12 months tops. Why though? What would enlighten him in the next 6-12 months because an internet stranger said, "my condolences", on a sub where men whine and screech about being single or not getting causal sex the moment they leave their house?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 07:28 PM
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If it gets to a judge. Not all prenups go before a judge. Those are rare and extreme cases when a judge is involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 07:23 PM
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Not if you have a good lawyer who can write a good prenup.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 07:22 PM
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Because it ultimately doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 07:21 PM
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And about protecting both parties in the event of a divorce. it generally gets split evenly And this is what a prenup can help address. Even split of our individual retirement doesn't make sense. Even split of our 1 car doesn't make sense. Hence why prenups are used.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 07:19 PM
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He asked why.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 07:16 PM
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So you've got no actual reasoning. Lol. As always, that tracks. People will talk shit but never give any examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 07:16 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 07:12 PM
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court would have likely thrown it out anyway Why? you're building a life together for a decade coming in with nothing It's also protection for what you build together. Not just what is brought in.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 07:12 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 07:11 PM
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Yes!! I love this gif
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 07:11 PM
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Nope. He surprised me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 07:11 PM
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Are you gonna elaborate instead of tip toeing around.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 07:00 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 07:00 PM
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Typical prenup stuff and a little bit of silly fun. why'd you decide to get one Every marrying couple should get one
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 06:59 PM
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It's very peculiar. They'll screech at anyone who dares question their claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 06:59 PM
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We get our prenup draft back in a couple of weeks. Next up, we're interviewing wedding planners + day of coordinators. One person I'm really excited to meet, she was referred to us by one of my exes (lol). It's funny to be in the early wedding planning stages while reading this sub. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 06:56 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 06:22 PM
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Not necessarily. My point was that wearing a pink dress doesn't make a man less masculine. I don't think anyone is suggesting that you must wear a pink dress to hit on women. I'm suggesting that if you're taking your niece trick or treating in a pink dress, you increase your odds of a successful approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 06:21 PM
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Ya, I don't oppose that. So idk what you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 06:16 PM
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For so many experts on what women want/act/desire, there's a lot of single men / multiple divorced men here. It's pretty impressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 06:15 PM
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Alright. You're the expert on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 06:14 PM
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Might be better thinking than clingy to an OKC survey.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 06:13 PM
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I'm an equal opportunity debater.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 06:11 PM
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There is no sarcasm about a man wearing a pink dress to take his child trick or treating. There is no sarcasm about a man wearing a pink dress for a cause or to celebrate someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 06:06 PM
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Good thing we are talking about Arianna Grande and the hope she's giving below average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 06:05 PM
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You mean, men leave relationships for celebrities?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 06:04 PM
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strong women have high standards in the sub I don't oppose that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 06:03 PM
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You can't steal what isn't yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 06:00 PM
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Yes, he moved up to Arianna Grande. Still doesn't change that this is an example that looks don't matter
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 05:59 PM
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Did she tell you that? Or are you taking a song written by 5 dudes as fact?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 05:56 PM
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Yes, below average men should feel validated.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 05:54 PM
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He's absolutely below average. His entire vibe is below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 05:54 PM
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Lol. No, the majority of threads/comments are by RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 05:53 PM
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And?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 05:52 PM
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It's not emasculating to wear an article of clothing to a celebration, for a cause, or an occasion.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 05:52 PM
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He's still below average and with someone who has greater status and money. He's hypergamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 05:50 PM
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Proof of looks not mattering.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 05:48 PM
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Did she tell you this?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 05:46 PM
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It doesn't look like it worked that much if you see how much toxicity the average PPD user engages Is the avg PPD user "American left"? you my lady are no average user. Ew. And duh. I'm not a below average dude obsessed with a study from OKC and struggling to get laid. typical SJW persona and its more subtle forms Please explain
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 05:46 PM
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Arianna Grande is a perfect example that looks don't matter. Her new beau is below average, and he left his wife for AG. If he can do it, so can the below average men here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 05:42 PM
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RPers are silent alphas Lol. What? No they are screeching here or on their little microphones. They have no time to whine and complain And yet, here there are on this sub daily.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 05:39 PM
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How strange, I feel like I've seen more options in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 05:35 PM
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Not what I and others here see.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 05:33 PM
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That's what I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 05:32 PM
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Yes, he can.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 05:29 PM
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Yes, they will because they'll see that you don't take yourself so seriously. They'll see that you're a fun person who will wear a pink dress to support a cause or celebrate someone or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 05:25 PM
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want to know what masculine traits are women rewarding. Men wearing pink dresses. 💗 most leftist women want a traditionally masculine man Sure, but we define masculine as someone who wears pink dresses when the occasion calls for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 05:18 PM
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Oh, I will. I don't think I'll last the week. I'm on my last strike.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 05:16 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 05:12 PM
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save the world from just that Save the world from what exactly? no one bothered to even look at themselves Where have you been? Because we've been in therapy, reading books, listening to others, and overall working on ourselves. revolving your entire shoddy empty life around it to "save" people Please describe what this looks like?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 05:11 PM
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apolitical straight men Like you said, they are so boring. No original opinions or thoughts. They just repeat Sports Center and news headlines they read while 💩.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 05:06 PM
1

Are those the only options?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 05:03 PM
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TRP ideology - take accountability When? They never take accountability for raising their children. Zero accountability for the stale personality. No accountability for their poor behaviors. If they actually took accountability, this sub wouldn't be so active.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 05:02 PM
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It is such a hunt to find a good straight man. Most are problematic rage cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 04:58 PM
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who's overly invested in politics Oh no, someone is invested in their life and the lives of their lives ones. How horrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 04:56 PM
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Be direct. It's the masculine way. Too strong = walking up to someone and say "let's fuck". Or continuing to pursue if body language is closed off and not engaging. Desperate = the guy at the bar after the lights come on who is trying to talk to every woman still left.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 04:54 PM
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There was a character with a name, description, and small back story.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 04:32 PM
1

Do you have an example?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 04:29 PM
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Why would someone seek out being bullied or harassed?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 04:29 PM
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The book was set in Dublin. gynocentric society I'm still wondering where they think this is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 04:28 PM
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The fiction book I'm reading had a side character who was a male abuse victim. Thought it was a good representation for battered men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 04:09 PM
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"cool thing" to be trans now. Because being bullied and harassment is cool?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 04:02 PM
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Men's problems are their wants not being fulfilled Most accurate thing I've seen on this sub. Men whine and screech because they want sex but can't get it from Stacy. Everything that they whine about women is their own pathetic projections of things they want but can't get. They are the ones who have been Stacy widowed and have to settle with someone "ugly".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 03:40 PM
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This tracks with what men say to women. Not sure what there is to make up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 03:15 PM
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Sure thing, Kevin.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 05:25 AM
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Does that satisfy you? Not really. Doesn't seem to really describe a "mom". dynamic I observed countless times as a kid and as an adult So your mom played on social media, so you assume at SAHM do?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 05:15 AM
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Men also make distinctions between "good time girls" and "wife material". women regularly discuss how their priorities change as they age. Yes, peoples priorities change with age. How is this a surprise? People generally want different things at 19 and 38.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 05:13 AM
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Whatever the fuck they want mostly. So you don't know then.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 04:55 AM
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Hey, you're the expert on the female experience. I'm just sharing what I've seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 04:54 AM
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Here we go, the aforementioned same example. It's like fucking clockwork. A Reddit thread isn't the holy grail you think it is. If you want to live your life defined by comments in a Reddit thread, go for it. To me, that's laughable because life is so much bigger than a fucking Reddit thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 04:13 AM
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To tell you that nobody else cares either. You have a face. Smile and stop worrying so much about little tiny things like philtrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 04:10 AM
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Literally don't care. You just described a person. Good job.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 04:01 AM
1

They don't want children. They want to be overlords.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 03:59 AM
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they need to settle with guys that aren't as hot How fucking common in this? All anybody ever does is bring the same 3-5 examples. So you're making up full ass stories over a handful of examples? It's fucking laughable. If this was common, women would talk about it all the damn time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 03:58 AM
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women are extremely picky How do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 03:53 AM
1

Yes, please avoid us. 🙏🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 03:50 AM
1

Sounds like you've got the income to pay for a housekeeper and babysitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 03:50 AM
1

Hence, AF/BB. Isn't fucking real. JFC.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 03:49 AM
1

You would know best.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 03:49 AM
1

This actually didn't answer question. So I'll repeat, what do you think they are doing all day?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 03:48 AM
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Nope, it means I see everyone as awesome 10s for totally different reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 03:47 AM
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still not winning in life Please define anything you want in life by default Such as
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 03:46 AM
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20 years later, I still have those thoughts about ballet. And then I remember how much I enjoy getting pedicures now. I still take the occasional ballet class, too. Which is fun. 🩰
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 03:25 AM
1

So why not date the women who have lost the genetic lottery and ended up short, ugly, and/or autistic
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 03:18 AM
1

What's the point of being human if everyone is human?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 03:12 AM
1

Good. That's the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 02:19 AM
1

Why? Because you don't like what we say? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 02:11 AM
1

All humans are 10s.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 02:05 AM
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Is this attention?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 02:01 AM
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Look, it's a debate sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 02:01 AM
1

One of the replies basically said the same thing. Sounds like they are mad that men don't hype each other up. Which is honestly sad, because it would solve a majority of the complaints here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 01:59 AM
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Let's go and find one of your replies to me.... Not 5 mins ago you took, and I quote: an issue of an attractive woman saying they are attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 01:57 AM
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Are average people ugly? Men absolutely could and should. Maybe they wouldn't be emotional if they have more self-love. I'm a 10 because I say so. That's all that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 01:55 AM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 01:47 AM
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Ya dude, like 15 replies ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 01:47 AM
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Why does it bother men so much when women call themselves attractive/hot/sexy/beautiful, etc? Do they believe that they are the only ones who can bestow attractiveness on someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 01:39 AM
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Well the way I see it Yes, we don't see things the same way as you. I've already said that relationship sex is great and that hookup sex is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 01:36 AM
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Does what?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 01:32 AM
1

How is it confirmed?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 01:30 AM
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There's no pretending. You can think men care. Has no bearings on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 01:29 AM
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Why are you avoiding the question? I didn't. I answered your weird scenario that will never happen. For me, I can answer clearly that sex with my current life partner surpasses anything prior. Good for you. For you, it seems like you have a preference towards this or that but you don't want to admit it. For me, I don't see the value in hypothetical scenarios about time travel.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 01:27 AM
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What do you think they are doing for 16 hours?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 01:24 AM
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Who are these girls complaining about getting approached? Me. How is it so common that girls are complaining about it all the time I think the venue makes all the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 01:23 AM
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Most men care Cool. Doesn't bother me none.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 01:19 AM
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Yes, some man out there is also saying how he forgot about sex with me. How terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 01:18 AM
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Depends. Different times of my life required different kinds of relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 01:17 AM
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What purposes are those? One is a relationship. The other isn't. have sex with your boyfriend for the millionth time, which would you choose? The time machine to go back and win the lottery. No sex required. I would be happier if the past experiences with other people never happened Cool for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 01:16 AM
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I will. What's gonna happen? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 01:15 AM
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A sex worker is an extreme example of "someone." But sure, maybe some dudes care, but there's other dudes who won't care. So, no losses. don't understand how most men around the world are Fine by me. I don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 01:15 AM
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Is this supposed to be more of your "legal advice"? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 01:12 AM
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Lol. What? We were standing by each other taking trunk shots, and I had a single thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 01:12 AM
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I don't see it as a failure. You can. The purpose of relationships is to find your soulmate That was your purpose. That was not my purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 01:10 AM
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How are they not comparable? They serve different purposes. If you had the choice to have sex again with your life partner or relive another hook up from your past, which would you choose? Well, I had sex with my partner this morning. So I'm not really choosing. I'm doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 01:10 AM
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It's not rude at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 01:07 AM
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I don't consider a relationship that ended a failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 12:53 AM
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I wouldn't know if they were because I've long forgotten them. And the same is likely true for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 12:46 AM
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I don't think they are comparable. They serve different purposes. I've experienced both and i can honestly say relationships are better. Good for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 12:45 AM
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Because I've had relationships in the past........
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 12:44 AM
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Are they are in the room with us right now?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 12:42 AM
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Brah, I'm talking about my present relationship.....
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 12:42 AM
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How does that contradict what I'm saying? Do you mean hook ups? I wasn't trying to contradict what you said. I said hookups = good sex, relationships = great sex So the point of having random sex is to get food and concert tickets? No, that was just a fun bonus.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 12:41 AM
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No idea how it's rude to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 12:40 AM
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As I said, past AND PRESENT. Meaning, today, the present moment
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 12:37 AM
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Yes, that's on the list. We saw them in concert in 2006.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 12:36 AM
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You get that more in a loving relationship than with hook ups I've gotten great sex in relationships. You can get these things without fucking 500 different people. No fucking shit. You asked the reward or what I gained so I shared.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 12:35 AM
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Then that should be fucking discussed beforehand.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 12:34 AM
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Rude to whom?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 12:33 AM
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Lol. The group chat is finding you hilarious. Apparently, we're all just poor old ladies with demenita because I asked what they remembered from 2006, and like me, they don't remember much at all. So now, we're listening to Top Hits from 2006. Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 12:33 AM
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Where's the reward? Good sex, food, access, gifts, concerts, etc. What did you gain? Good sex, food, access, gifts, concerts, etc. one of those random people becomes a life partner eventually Nope. Found my partner through other means.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 12:28 AM
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SUCCESS = having a loving stable committed relationship. I've had those. Past and present.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 12:27 AM
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Omg that's so rude! And ps you've got dementia because you can't remember his name.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 12:25 AM
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That's YOUR definition of winning.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 12:24 AM
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Chad is in the eye of the beholder. If a man wants to get married at 19 or wants to wait until he's older, they are still both chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 12:23 AM
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Aw this is so fucking cute!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 12:22 AM
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Failing to remember WHAT EXACTLY?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 12:22 AM
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What exactly did you want me to remember about 2006? I saw some concerts, I went to class, I went to work. The fuck else is there. You're acting like I've got dementia or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 12:21 AM
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Lmao. What the actual fuck man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 12:20 AM
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I never said having a bunch of hookups is winning. I certainly don't think my sexual history is winning. Though, if I was a man, I'd be applauded and admired for my efforts. I don't think he won at life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 12:20 AM
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Yes!! Very much so. I hope you get your backhand spring and that this is your best school year yet!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 12:18 AM
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Where is this carousel? I can't say I've even seen one with all roosters. 🐓
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 12:18 AM
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Are you a mod? I don't think you can issue warnings.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 12:17 AM
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No traumas. Just don't recall 17 years ago at the drop of a hat. Honestly, I'm not even sure what there is to remember. I was 19, I lived, and I had a good time. It's like he expects a full dissertation of 2006.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 12:15 AM
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What Carousel?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 12:14 AM
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Are you purposely being obtuse?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 12:14 AM
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Yes, he's a long term tenant. He's got squatters rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 12:13 AM
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Ya totally good for him. But not everyone wanted to get married at 19. I certainly didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 12:12 AM
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Who knows, who fucking cares, it was 17 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 12:05 AM
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Yes there's just not much to remember. Two men got really offended by my lack of remembering. It's really wild. They must be one of the men I forgot.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 12:04 AM
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I forget things that aren't valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 12:02 AM
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Nothing an internet stranger says about me is fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 11:57 PM
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Having a job doesn't mean you're excused from cooking, cleaning, or child rearing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 11:53 PM
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Lmao. You're so silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 11:51 PM
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Lol. A person who has slept with 1 person for the last 20 years is shaming me for not remembering everyone I slept with over the last 20 years. It's always those with the least experiences who are the loudest about how things should be done.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 11:50 PM
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Except it's not facts. It's your opinion. Your opinions aren't fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 11:45 PM
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We aren't talking about sex workers. We're talking about your average woman who has engaged in casual sex. Not someone who was once a sex worker.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 11:39 PM
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Eh, no need for an alt.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 11:37 PM
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I didn't realize it was a competition. I'm pretty sure we have very different experiences in 2006. Go ahead and share your sexual partners from 2006 with the sub since you remember them all. there's no need to get snarky, There's always need for snark when someone is trying to insult me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 11:36 PM
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Lol. Okay. I'm glad you remember every moment of 2006. Kudos to you. Here's your cookie 🍪
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 09:53 PM
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Way too serious. Maybe why they struggle to get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 09:47 PM
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According to whom? You? My memory is bad, according to you, because I don't remember if I can't immediately recall 1 of the 3 people I had sex with in 2006? Is that your "bad memory" metric?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 09:46 PM
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I'll stay my sarcastic bitch self. It's only a matter of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 09:42 PM
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I definitely don't have triple digits.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 09:40 PM
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Lol. I don't have a bad memory.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 09:34 PM
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Seems like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 09:27 PM
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I have a great memory for things I care about. I don't care to remember a random hookup from early 2000s.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 09:22 PM
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After 17 years, you bet it all blurs together. I've lived a very eventful life. Makes it hard to remember every detail when new memories are constantly being made.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 09:21 PM
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What? How did you cheat from me not remembering 2006? I remember Marissa Cooper died in 2006. So tragic, the night of her graduation. It's weird how upset you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 09:20 PM
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As I've said, I'm on my last warning. It's only a matter of time. I've got no reprieve. The mods will act with swiftness.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 09:16 PM
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Ya. Lol. Why is this a problem for you? You seem especially pressed that I'm not rattling off all the details from 17 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 09:15 PM
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Meaningful moments in 2006 at 19 years old? Fake ID. Specific event trips in 2006....the liquor store with my fake ID. Get togethers at the hookah lounge that is now a fine dining restaurant? Lol. Sure, I've got those. Don't really think about them often. Do you reminisce about your 19 year old self often?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 09:14 PM
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Right? Exactly. Add in the partners whose names I completely ignored and gave a nickname. I saw a Tiktok about someone my age going through his phone contacts, and he had Club Girl, Red Top, Great Rack. 🤣 So I looked through mine... I have Jacked Jason, Jameson Jason, Jungle Jason, and I'm pretty sure that none of their actual names were Jason. We just went through a phase of calling every guy Jason. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 09:12 PM
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Do people sleep with someone new every weekend?!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 09:07 PM
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Oh, I keep track of important things. I remember 2006 being fun. What else is there to remember?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 09:05 PM
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I'm really impressed people remember names from 17 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 09:00 PM
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How do you define ridiculously long? I'm honestly surprised that people remember all the folks they had sex with 17 years prior.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 08:57 PM
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If they are gone forever, they aren't the perfect partner for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 08:53 PM
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Good for you. That's really wonderful. Do you keep a notebook of everyone you've ever had sex with?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 08:52 PM
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Yes, I'm off the ugly scale but I'm hot af.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 08:51 PM
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Same. It's very interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 08:51 PM
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Ooh it's coming. I'm on my final strike. I doubt I'll last the week. I've been hyping this ban for like an hour when I got told I'm on my last strike.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 08:48 PM
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I'm saying that I don't remember 2006. I couldn't tell you anything about that year other than I was alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 08:47 PM
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I'm pretty sure my early 2000s behavior would shock today's youths. I don't think they make out with strangers in an effort to get as many letters from the alphabet anymore. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 08:46 PM
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Do you keep a running list?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 08:45 PM
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I guess it's weird to expect someone to remember everything that happened in 2006 and repeat all those details 17 years later.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 08:43 PM
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And then arguments over what is promiscuous but the amount vary wildly based on the person describing promiscuity.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 08:42 PM
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0
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 08:41 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 08:40 PM
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I'm pretty sure I'm like 15+ years older than you. When I was your age, it wasn't hard to guess. But 15 years later.... and you stop counting.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 08:37 PM
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Ya, nobody has ever cared, in real life. I lost my virginity and just never kept track. It didn't seem like an important metric.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 08:36 PM
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Haha. If only I had the foresight 20 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 08:35 PM
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I have no idea, that's why I asked if people carry around a little notebook and write it down.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 08:35 PM
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Why would it be a red flag? Am I supposed to remember all the details from 2003?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 08:34 PM
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Not really, more so time has gone by.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 08:33 PM
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Do people really track the number of their sexual partners? I never thought to keep track. And at this point, I'm sure to have forgotten a few people because it's been ~20 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 08:25 PM
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And miss out on this interaction? I couldn't do that to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 07:52 PM
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I always wonder what the person sending it thinks will happen. It's an automated message, so spooky.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 07:50 PM
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I have no idea. More than 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 07:46 PM
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Big and full of secrets.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 07:46 PM
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Yes, I guess there's a warning or a strike. I'm on my last strike.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 07:45 PM
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Green, all shades.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 07:45 PM
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I didn't find him annoying. I just didn't care and acted accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 07:41 PM
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Venting about what? I have nothing to vent.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 07:40 PM
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AMA before my ban occurs. Let's have some fun before I dip.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 07:37 PM
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My comment isn't meant to be taken ultra seriously or as the single takeaway from a funeral.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 07:24 PM
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I don't know who he is to dislike him. It's the internet, I can block people just because I feel like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 07:01 PM
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Lmao. Little fucker is crying because I blocked him. Oh no, he can't read my comments when he comes home from the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 06:56 PM
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That's a lame username.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 06:53 PM
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I'll be banned. So idk how that will happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 06:49 PM
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Lol. One thought in the parking lot while we took Tequila shots in honor of the deceased. And suddenly, everyone knows my inner most emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 06:48 PM
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I'll be banned. I don't care enough to come back.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 06:44 PM
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Lmao. Seriously. They can't take a joke!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 06:43 PM
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I'm done with the pill life. I've got my high value king and I'm gonna ride off into the sunset.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 06:36 PM
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I refuse to unblock someone, so I'm seconds away from a full ban. 😒 Farwell!! Good luck out there, May the force be in your favor. To the single ladies, never settle! To the single men, get therapy. Any kind of therapy. Even swim therapy would help some of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 06:30 PM
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He's average, as in not an uggo. He looked bad as in he has aged poorly, despite this sub clamoring that men look good in their 40s.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 06:23 PM
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I'm focusing on me. ❤️ Thanks for caring.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 06:20 PM
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Good for you, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 06:19 PM
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Just an average guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 06:19 PM
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Brah, you can grieve and still look good.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 06:15 PM
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He's not in his 60s.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 06:14 PM
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I like to look good. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 06:14 PM
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Saw an ex at a funeral over the weekend. I'm glad I looked really good because he didn't. Lol. The wall for men is so real. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 06:07 PM
4

The pair of average college kids I saw making out yesterday are a "hangover from pre app dating"?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 04:59 PM
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And yet average men are in relationships everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 04:41 PM
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Check your chats.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 04:40 PM
4

Then why do I see average couples every day?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 04:20 PM
2

We're all experts here!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 04:07 PM
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The average man is chubby, five 9 or below and not handsome. Not handsome according to who? The average girl finds him handsome.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 03:33 PM
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Thank goodness for internet lawyers. The internet lawyers know all the details. Internet lawyers don't have boats, though. They are far more knowledgeable than the ones we interact with in real life. People of this sub consult an internet lawyer today! And then, right after, speak with an internet doctor. No more paying for someone's real expertise. You've got internet now!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 03:31 PM
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Lol. What? How is the prenup that hasn't even been written, not enforceable, or goes against the law? I'm so confused about how y'all are the experts on a document that is still unwritten.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 03:27 PM
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Is he? You'd think a lawyer could read.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 03:08 PM
1

You seem to be making conclusions of stories you made up off a couple of sentences.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 03:04 AM
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Why do you add quotes? Someone making some lawyer's boat payments for them Do all lawyers have boats?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 03:00 AM
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What are you even talking about? Who is rewriting laws? Who is ignoring no fault divorce laws?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:59 AM
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Evidence will show beyond reasonable doubt that the defendant always leaves the milk out of the fridge" I hope he doesn't divorce me over that. 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:34 AM
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Okay cool. Still not sure what that has to do with my comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:34 AM
1

That's why our legal team is drafting it......
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:01 AM
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Going to uphold what exactly? I'll repeat, who is rewriting family law code?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:00 AM
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I don't need to enforce anything. I'm not the attorney.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:59 AM
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Plenty of TV shows are out there. Drama TV and court TV.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:58 AM
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Who is rewriting community property or family law? Courts let individuals do whatever you like with their separate property. Neat. I have no idea what this has to do with my prenup comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:57 AM
1

Where did I dis thrift stores?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:56 AM
1

Sounds average to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:24 AM
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There's always physical proof. Just a matter of spending time and money to get it. Well, someone's attorney would have the burden to prove it was a friend or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:23 AM
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Yes. And if we get divorced prior to a year, nobody gets anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:19 AM
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What are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:18 AM
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I'm working on our prenup draft and including some silliness. I added some details about divorce parties, coordinating outfits, and snacks. But it's mostly standard stuff like separate lawyers, how stuff is split based on years together, and reason for divorce, etc. Getting all this ready to send to our legal team for a full draft. I had way to much fun working and researching this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:09 AM
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You've got it all figured out. Kudos.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 12:58 AM
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Ugh yes I deal with that too. I usually excuse myself to the bathroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 12:31 AM
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Confident women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 12:25 AM
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Never ends in this sub. The best is when men act like experts on women because they've read a Reddit post or watched a Tiktok.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 12:16 AM
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He's suffering from fuckboi syndrome
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 12:04 AM
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Exactly. What the heck at you talking about re anti depressants?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 12:00 AM
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That's why it's an insult and applied for all ages. Especially boys over 25. They haven't become "men". They are still little fuckbois.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:54 PM
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Lol I presume you been using antidepressants and stimulants The fuck is this? An attempt at insult or invalidate because my comment upset you? What a bizarre presumption because I said that average men know how to shower and put on pants.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:47 PM
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The average man is absolutely put together and leaves the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:40 PM
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Yes! He does! He may not have the latest or best trends but average men appreciate sweater weather and PSL.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:25 PM
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Slut shaming is a societal concept that has been around for a few centuries. disclose their sexual history history to every guy they meet? "Hi, I'd like to order a McDouble, but first you should know I've had sex with 12 men. Could I get that without tomatoes? Thanks".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:20 PM
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This sub consistently confuses average and below average. Average men are put together, know how to shower and maintain hygiene, can dress themselves decently, etc. A few of the men in relationships here fit this. Below average men aren't put together, struggle with hygiene, dress poorly, never leave the house, have hobbies or interests that don't require other humans, etc. Most boys/men here fit this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:18 PM
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Many if not most men No, they don't. Lol. They don't give two shits about someone's past. Maybe some below avg chumps care.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:12 PM
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Cool for most people. Who cares about someone's sexual past?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:06 PM
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Because some of us are on birth control, use condoms, or would get an abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:02 PM
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Yes. It is lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:02 PM
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Mail order brides have always been a thing. Passport bros is just be branding. Though, I'm calling them Passport Pets because it's way more fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:00 PM
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Lying or omissions
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 10:59 PM
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Testosterone doesn't make someone pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 10:53 PM
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Long-term relationships are sustained through other things beyond sex. If I'm interested in seeing if a man is worth a relationship, I want to delay sex so that we can connect on the qualities needed to sustain a long-term relationship. If I'm interested in sex, I don't care about the man's hobbies or interests. I don't care to get to know him. the 1st guy is worth the pregnancy risk? Condoms, birth control, abortion. Life is a risk. I'm not going to stop having sex because there are fewer risks…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 10:43 PM
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Exactly. Passport pets aren't being shamed for dating down. They are being shamed for thinking that women will want them in other countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 09:59 PM
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Uh huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 09:51 PM
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A handful of women are going to have different views on what is attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 09:50 PM
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Is that dating down?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 09:49 PM
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And then they expect women to do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 09:43 PM
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Most men here can't even handle talking to a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 09:42 PM
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Not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 09:41 PM
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try to empathize a bit No.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 09:41 PM
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shame men for dating down Where?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 09:37 PM
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Yes, most men are high value and attractive. This sub isn't a representation of most men. It is a representation of a small pool of men who have a lot of the same issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 09:36 PM
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“What would I do if I was a low IQ guy who thinks with his dick all day and doesn't touch grass”? The new WWJD.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 09:31 PM
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it just has to be a significant portion of women. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 09:26 PM
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I didn't realize how pathetic some of this sub was until I read that "fuckboi" thread. The obsession with fucking as many women as possible is so sadly funny. What an unattractive way to define yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 09:23 PM
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What are you even talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 09:19 PM
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What privilege? I was banned for 30 days. So smart exactly are you whining about?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 09:18 PM
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Claim away. I think it's silly to determine attractiveness based on majority of women you'll never meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 09:18 PM
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Yes, the average man is high value. Doesn't mean that women need to be attracted to all average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 09:14 PM
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It proves that women can be lied to.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 09:13 PM
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r other (emotional/intellectual/etc) reasons Always this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 09:12 PM
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Who just came back from a 30-day ban. But please keep up your woman hating, it seems to work out so well for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 09:11 PM
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Maybe don't assume. Because your assumptions continue to be incorrect. I fail to understand why women should be attracted to all men. Finding a high-quality man isn't conditional on finding all average men attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 09:10 PM
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Precisely why I said someone will always be complaining about human behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 09:09 PM
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Men are humans. So.....
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 09:06 PM
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those men are dating other women at the same time Excellent example of the bullshit women shift through. Not to mention, complain about. Nobody likes a liar or cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 09:06 PM
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When the fuck did I claim to be different?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 09:04 PM
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Still don't understand why women are expected to be attracted to all 50%.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 09:04 PM
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There will always be someone complaining about interacting with other humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 09:03 PM
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Look, women: If you can't find what you want, either your standards are too high or you're just not attractive enough for it. Or, just keep looking, trying different approaches, etc Ladies, no need to settle or lower your standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 08:59 PM
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Why would women find 50% of men attractive? Doesn't make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 08:58 PM
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I was banned for trolling. I have to rein in my sarcasm. Lol. It's hard to keep in check with all the screeching men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 08:57 PM
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If one is below average, I could see why they struggle to see that average is high quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 08:47 PM
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Ya, because all the annoying men get in the way. But eventually, high-quality men are found after shifting and rejecting all the less than quality men who approach us.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 08:45 PM
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There's plenty of high value attractive men to go around.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 08:35 PM
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You can block people. Just not during an active debate. Like I can't block you at this moment. This will be our last interaction. would make the DT unreadable for me. I don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 08:32 PM
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Lol. Bro, you spend all your time at the gym and being fleeced by gym rats. I'm gonna have to block you so that I don't get banned again. Cheerio old chap!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 08:30 PM
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Being a sarcastic bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 08:21 PM
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The 30-day ban is over!! I'm glad to be back. I see nothing has changed, and men are still complaining about having to leave the house to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 08:07 PM
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Yes. Same!!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 05:25 PM
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Yes yes!!! 🏖🔥 Seems that my having confidence upsets others. Poor things.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 05:21 PM
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Brah, vanity is EXCESSIVE. Nothing about what I said is EXCESSIVE. Bffr.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 05:12 PM
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Lmao. What? My goodness. A person can't do anything without it being "an ugly thing".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 05:09 PM
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Also re Keke.... This man said, "you a mom". As if a woman loses her identity, style, and everything about them because she became a mom. It's fucking wild how many men want to keep women small because their egos are to large and insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 05:06 PM
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My bad. Sorry! 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 04:56 PM
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I look fabulous today! And I keep checking myself out every time I pass a reflection. Real hot girl shit today! 🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 04:55 PM
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Usually happens when my period is about to start.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 04:12 PM
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Well, that's not what I said. And weird to lump in all women. Men are something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 04:09 PM
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Sure but I don't care what people do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 03:54 PM
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No lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 03:48 PM
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that despite claiming to be a proponent of egalitarian relationships I've never claimed this. you still have a "might makes right" mentality regarding partner status in a relationship. Idk what you're even referring to here. Otherwise I don't know why you felt the need to say this. Because she's a successful person, and he's what? Being insecure and tweeting?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 03:35 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 03:23 PM
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Okay, cool. He's insecure trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 03:23 PM
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Yes and it continues to remain weird how much people care how others spend their time and money.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 03:22 PM
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Publicly dissing the mother of your child because she got to see Usher and you didn't it the epitome of insecure trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 03:18 PM
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women second class citizen To the potential zygote or fetus in the womb. That's what she was referring to. Your point doesn't make any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 03:17 PM
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Lmao. Okay. Good for you. Stay mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 03:16 PM
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Her BD is insecure trash. He's lucky to even bag the amazing Keke Palmer. We'll see how long he lasts. Because ain't nothing attractive about insecure trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 03:14 PM
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Good for you! Let him be masculine. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 03:13 PM
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Plus your 30s are still extremely fucking young. 💯 you're still so fucking young. And now, you've got more money and wisdom. Dating is much more fun in your 30s. People seem to think that life ends after 30. That you wake up on your 30th birthday with a gift from the grim reaper.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 03:12 PM
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What does college have to do with medical care? It's absolutely true. Pregnancy tests are run on women before any medical treatment is provided. The number of pregnancy tests I've had for non related medical care is ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 03:10 PM
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Yup. It's a lot of bullshit. Several friends and people from high school were pushed to do this. They all cheated and divorced. Meanwhile, everyone else dated around and had marriages + children when they were ready.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 03:06 PM
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I don't drive or own a car. So..... yes, I'm gonna pay to have something delivered. It's weird that people care so much about how others eat.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 02:19 PM
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It means that we work for some 50-60 years, so their current salary isn't as important as their values to work hard. I met my partner in our 30s. I have more education than him. We made about the same when we started dating. Both incomes have increased. I make more. I only cared that he could financially support himself. Like I was financially supporting myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 02:08 PM
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Nope. The promiscuous people I know haven't cheated. The people who have cheated were chaste religious people.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 03:46 AM
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Frfr. Like... don't say that I've lost a "debate" and then not tell me which debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 02:36 AM
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I'm sure you'll realize how wrong you are Wrong about what exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 02:35 AM
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Lmao at the replies, too. 🤣 They are so easy to fool.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 02:15 AM
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Well, do you have an example?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 02:12 AM
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Her BD is insecure trash. She looked great. And we know she read him a new one. We'll see how long insecure trash lasts.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 02:04 AM
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Huh. That's strange. I've never seen that. And I've certainly been waiting for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 02:03 AM
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for his attention What do you think he spends his days doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 02:02 AM
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Their entire existence depends on exploiting men for their gain Couldn't agree more. Today alone, I gained a fridge full of food AND a cooked meal. Feel bad for my exploitation of my partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:51 AM
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Nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:50 AM
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It's amusing how women easily repeatedly get owned on ppd When has this happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:49 AM
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That are basically ppd women Oh no. We lost a random debate on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:48 AM
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And have been misreading each other since the dawn of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:47 AM
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Sounds good, pal.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:44 AM
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Yay more hypotheticals
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:44 AM
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Well, technically, I'm reading. But sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:43 AM
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I believe you called me autistic for asking you to explain the difference. So you attempted to insult me while I was trying to understand what you were saying. It's weird to insult someone because you can't define your own concepts.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:42 AM
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Who?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:41 AM
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You've already said that debt is trashy, so no take backs. Homeownership = trashy according to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:41 AM
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They are inherently obvious to the non sperg. Lmao. Attraction is never defined here the same way. So it's clearly not inherently obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:40 AM
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I just don't understand autistic ppl well enough to explain in those terms, sorry Who are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:39 AM
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Totally.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:38 AM
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Okay, so being a homeowner is trashy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:38 AM
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Uh huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:37 AM
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What did you say? Perhaps I misunderstood.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:37 AM
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Eat your yoghurt What? Huh. So you can't explain it. 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:36 AM
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It's not really a great insult. Honestly, men's insults are generally lackluster. They often result in laughter instead of hurt feelings. Just ask Wilhelm Frick No idea who this is. You've just called them subhuman and destroyed their argument at the same time. Nah. People just look dumb and like they can't explain their concepts.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:36 AM
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whether she parties a lot and drinks if she does So now women can't enjoy alcohol or socializing because she'll be considered a slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:33 AM
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Seems like it would be an easy enough explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:32 AM
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I just see men blaming everyone but themselves. But sure..... you're the expert.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:31 AM
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It's strange how often someone will use "autism" as an insult when asking someone to explain what they meant. People come up with their own definitions and then expect everyone to agree. For example.... Having debt is trashy You're only attractive if you evoke lust in every person Something something "high n count bad"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:30 AM
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What's the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:27 AM
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Oh, it's your personal rule for you. That's makes so much more sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:26 AM
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Either way it’s her fault! Uh huh. It's always someone else's fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:20 AM
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The real question we need an answer to.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:18 AM
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But he is. Lol. It's weird that attraction can only happen if there's lust. According to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:18 AM
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So bizarre. The Rock is attractive, but he doesn't create lust for me. Huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:13 AM
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That doesn't make any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 12:59 AM
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Fascinating.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 12:29 AM
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It's so sad. RIP good guys. *
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 12:28 AM
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Those definitely weren't good guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 12:21 AM
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I was asking you. And it seems like you can't define "classy". It's all good.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 12:09 AM
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Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 12:08 AM
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What are those consequences?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 12:07 AM
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It is truly fascinating the made-up concepts I see in this sub. Thank you for sharing this riveting story.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 12:03 AM
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There's hoes and housewives Lol. No, there's not. And this is another example of how people make their own obstacles.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 12:01 AM
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Where did the good guys go?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 12:00 AM
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Trashy traits: prefers short term benefits over long term benefits, What benefits are you referring to? indebted Huh? married and divorced while kids were young, Interesting. where did the good guys go I'm wondering the same myself. Where did they go? Don't want to educate trashy people on how to act like classy people. Oh, so the list doesn't exist. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 11:56 PM
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I'm simply going off the comments I see in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 11:52 PM
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Seriously. They literally are scared of other men and then expect women not to fear men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 11:50 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 11:44 PM
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Right, but they are making sluts and then dismissing them. So...not only hypocritical but the direct cause of their unhappy and rage filled single life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 11:43 PM
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to have a considerably high n-count What numbers are we talking here?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 11:41 PM
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Can you share some classy and trashy traits?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 11:40 PM
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Yup. What you described doesn't make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 11:40 PM
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Seems weird to hate women who have sex instead of hating men who have sex with women. Like the idea of "pumping and dumping", is men choosing to have sex and that's all because she's not xyz. But then they just "ruin her" for all other men simply because they don't want her so they make it so someone else wouldn't want her either. So again, men causing their own obstacles by being slutty.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 11:36 PM
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How do you define classy? How do you define "trashy as fuck"?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 11:16 PM
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Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 11:15 PM
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Lol. What?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 11:14 PM
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My apologies, I realize you had all the answers.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 10:53 PM
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you want to go to bed to tonight And what happens if you don't want to that night?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 10:53 PM
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Do you stop having guys hit on you? How exactly do you do that? There's lot of ways to reduce or stop having men hit on you. How do you stop putting in effort when your part in the dance never required any? Weird thought process. What exactly does that entail? Usually, no more apps. No more approaching dudes. Putting yourself in situations and spaces where you won't be attached. If a guy who is everything you wanted before shoots his shot Depends.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 10:42 PM
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It's not my definition. This what someone here told me. What is column A?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 10:40 PM
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Meeting and talking to women requires a lot more work and is less enjoyable for men So don't do it then.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 10:25 PM
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Patience. Does he work? Is his hungover? I don't expect immediate replies from anyone. I tend to give a 24-72 hours to respond unless it's time sensitive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 09:57 PM
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Weird that hasn't been my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 09:55 PM
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Right? It's so fascinating.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 09:51 PM
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How do you think people got into relationships or marriage without dating? People who have successful relationships have advice that is "garbage"?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 09:51 PM
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Arousing - wants to go to bed with tonight Attractive - wants to wake up to Do you agree with this definition?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 09:50 PM
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One person who loves me was the most important AFTER a certain point. Being desired sexually was never important. It was an unfortunate side effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 09:47 PM
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People are absolutely as special and interesting as they think they are. My luck wasn't disingenuous. I sincerely hope that people find the love that I have.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 09:45 PM
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Yes it's really interesting how many think that having sex somehow fixes everything in your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 09:43 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 09:43 PM
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Idk. More men in the population then women? Lots of reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 09:43 PM
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What a bizarre definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 08:20 PM
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And?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 08:17 PM
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Arousing - wants to go to bed with tonight Apparently I've never been aroused
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 08:16 PM
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Seriously, 27 is such a small sample size.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 08:00 PM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:54 PM
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Idk what you're even talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:50 PM
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most women are not so different Seems like you're conflating online bots with real women. Good luck out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:49 PM
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Nah, it's truth for shitty bathroom or fishing or top of the mountain photos.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:48 PM
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I listen to them. Some of them are young 20s, some are 30s, some are 40s, and some are 50s, a few 60s. Do people really participate in the Q4A?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:39 PM
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why are we Who is we? Men on this sub or men who aren't chronically online?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:38 PM
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I'm actually not married.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:08 PM
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It is a lie. But if folks want to cling onto it and diminish their opportunities for relationship happiness, that's on them. Good luck to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 06:35 PM
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I don't like naive takes on sex and dating from people who have been married 30 years. Idk if all the married people here have been married for 30 years. I didn't even get with my partner until I was 32. And we haven't even hit a decade yet. So.... Some of us were dating within the last few years.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 06:34 PM
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I want others to find the kind of loving relationship that I have. I also tend to disagree most with those who are self described RP. Mostly because they seem to think that something mystical happens to women after a certain age or for having sex. But I'm pretty here to observe and share that love + relationship happiness is out there. For those who want it anyway. Seems like a lot in this sub want to wallow in their rage from a girl rejecting them in 2015.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 06:30 PM
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Men struggle on dating apps because their profiles and pictures suck. Their messages also suck. And mostly, because women aren't really on dating apps anymore because....there's too many men who present themselves poorly. HTH.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 06:24 PM
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Idk why you assume that people giving advice haven't dated in decades. Your answers are just your singular opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 06:19 PM
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I couldn't name a single one of his songs. I forgot about every single song you named. Nobody likes him. I don't get it either.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 06:12 PM
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Yup. They go on and on about them in one comment. And then go on and on about how men deserve to cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 06:10 PM
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Men for sure. Most of them just like to wallow in their rage.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 06:07 PM
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My guy, I'm aware things have changed. But they've also stayed the exact same. None of these concepts are new. They were also around in 2005. You're the one who brought up 2005. So...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 06:01 PM
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To be arousing to a woman, you literally need to be above POTENTIAL average Nope. Just regular dude with a job, hobbies, friends, a nice smile, and kind eyes. Most men fit in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:43 PM
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Aw, thank you! 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:38 PM
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Like if Martin Luther King can’t have side chicks, no man should Exactly. Don't get married and commit yourself to one person in front of all your family and friends if you're gonna cheat. Bffr.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:28 PM
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I do. 🏃🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:27 PM
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Settling with someone just to have a warm body in my bed for example. I've heard of "banging for roof". But I've never met anyone who had done what you described. Again, jobs and dating are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:23 PM
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What do you consider to be "rich"?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:17 PM
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What people?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:16 PM
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what rich 30 something men have in common with hot 20 somethings? What things to they have in common? I mean. Most people enjoy yachts, first class travel, 5 star hotels, clubs, and fancy restaurants. Like...that's not really things in common. And frankly, half of those things aren't even that rich. A good rewards credit card and you're not really paying for those things either.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:12 PM
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Huh. Not mine. And really, the tools may have changed, but the foundation is still the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:05 PM
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Yes. Most people date, have relationships, date again, relationship, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:04 PM
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Yes, they all have mutual revenge fantasies and hyperbolic made-up scenarios.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 04:30 PM
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I don't understand your comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 04:27 PM
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How do you define relationship "failures"? Being employed and dating are very different things. Apples and giraffes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 04:25 PM
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That's not how averages work. And catch up to what? OP can still get married if they so wish. They also have dating experiences. They described a few in their OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 04:24 PM
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Are they? Hasn't been my experience. Myself and folks I know must be exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 04:23 PM
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Who said anything about 2005?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 04:22 PM
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So true. Several folks here just want to soak in the anger. Self made obstacles indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 04:21 PM
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Being in a relationship isn't an automatic sign of authority Neither is having a podcast. And yet people think some of these steaming hot mess men are authority on dating. Sad to watch.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 04:20 PM
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How it goes: sob story about how your exes treated you like shit until you found that one guy totally different from the rest. What are you even talking about? As "the rest" we want advice from someone who doesn't have thickly veiled contempt from us. Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 04:19 PM
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It's wild to me how many people dismiss advice or insights from people in relationships. I always listened to the people in relationships for dating advice. Never the person with the loudest podcast voice and no actual relationship experiences. Bizarre how things change but yet stay the exact same.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 03:43 PM
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But having no relationship experience at 24 will definitely be seen as a red flag to many girls Nope. It makes perfect sense why he hasn't and many other 20-24 year olds are in the same boat.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 03:23 PM
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Depends on the reason why. You don't need experience to get experience. What you laid out seems reasonable and common for others in your environment. I'd think many people are dealing with little experience due to the pandemic. Also, never having a girlfriend isn't a huge deal at that age.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:38 AM
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I'm in romantic love. And many of my friends are too. One of my friends just celebrated 15 years with her husband. Two other friends found love post divorce. There's lots of love around.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:35 AM
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Alright. If you say so.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 02:12 AM
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Awareness to see what? That men have consistency asked me out and paid?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 01:59 AM
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The funny thing is, guys have paid, and I haven't had sex with them. Guys haven't paid, and I've haven't had sex with them. There's really nothing to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 01:51 AM
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Lol. Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 01:48 AM
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Idk maybe discuss pay at some point during the arrangements if you're not prepared to pay for the person you invited out. I get the sense that if a guy didn't pay, you wouldn't sleep with him. Yes, but not because he didn't pay. Because his attitude sucks so I'd assume he's a poor lover.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 01:20 AM
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Mrs. Manners says the invitor (whoever asks) pays for the invitee (who gets asked). And really, a man paying has really no impact on if I decide to sleep with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 01:04 AM
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No, I don't want children. I'm attracted to ambition and desire a partner who wants to work, create, learn, and contribute to the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 12:14 AM
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My tubes are removed. Everything still operates the same. Ovary releases egg, uterus prepares for fertilization, no fertilization so the uterus lining sheds. Thus a period. No tubes just means that the eggs can't get to the uterus.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 11:56 PM
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They are the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 11:48 PM
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Agreed!! Folks seem to think all Chads are fuckbois. It's pretty hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 11:44 PM
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It comes to Disney+ this week. Can't wait to watch it!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 11:38 PM
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And red. 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 11:04 PM
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Lmao. Says the person still mad over a week later.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 10:52 PM
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Uh huh. That's why you keep bringing me. It's cute how emotional you are over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 10:49 PM
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That fine. Lol. I watched Mean Girls the other night. I can't resist. 😩
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 10:48 PM
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I didn't ask. I just stated that I'd be painting my nails red. And you're still talking about it over a week later. It's weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 10:45 PM
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That's not actually how it went. But it's cute how you keep bringing it up. The red looks fabulous, by the way. Stay mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 10:41 PM
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Q4A: What do you think an avg 29 year old man should be doing with his life? Describe a day in this avg 29 year old male life?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 08:49 PM
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