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Sometimes, sometimes, sometimes, men aren't the problem. These "tips" (we've heard them all) are great and all, but they are downright useless when the ages of these people aren't specified. The complaint I often hear from men here at PPD (mostly from young men) is that women pursue different types of men when they are young and when they're not so young anymore. Sarah doesn't care if Matthew is a jerk (in fact, he IS a jerk), she'll sleep with him without a ring on her finger, all the time. She…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 01:20 AM
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C)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 05:45 PM
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What's wrong with B)?! B) You have a long-term sexual relationship with a man who is not attractive to you but who does not repulse you either. This man has very limited earning potential. However, he is very nice to you and treats you well. Most importantly, he is completely monogamous and you never have to worry about him cheating or being attracted to other women besides you. Really? lol He better treat me well and never cheat on me (he would but he can't), because what I realize right now wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 05:42 PM
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Women, women, women! stop by and read the comments. Now you'll understand my point!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 03:01 AM
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I get a decent salary What is that mean? Does it mean you can support yourself or does it mean you can't do it without the support of someone else? I feel quite unworthy and like I have failed even though I make more money than many educated people. The truth is that depending on the chosen career, that person will earn more or less money. What are your toughts? I think people date people similar to themselves, in this case, education. For me, it's not that important. Edit: Just saw (edit). I am…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 12:24 AM
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Nothing. That's why I don't understand why men give their entire life to women. Men can give more, much more than women. If men need love, affection, emotional connection, why not get it from other men? In the past and in some traditional communities (today), the value of women "lived" in the kitchen, their job was to keep the home clean and give birth to many children. That's the value that women had. Now that women can work, have some flings, and delay childbearing, no man seems to see value i…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:32 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 05:41 PM
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so be it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 06:12 PM
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I don't understand your point. How is an experienced 30 year old woman going to take advantage of an inexperienced 30 year old man? I want to know, because I might be missing something. What I see is a lack of character and an unwillingness to set boundaries. And that's why you might want to date a very young girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 09:14 PM
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The men here will tell you that women are afraid to face rejection and are too shy to do so. The funny part is that men are also afraid of facing rejection and are too shy to do so. They can say whatever they want. Ask these young men when was the last time they approach a woman, a young woman and the answer is never. Young women don't approach because they don't have to. They don't do it because there aren't attractive men out there. They don't do it because they don't want to appear "easy". It…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:23 PM
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What is this obsession with "MR Perfect"? have sex, the sex is also 10/10 Everything was believable up to here hahaha Cut him off Because cheating is an evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 12:04 AM
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Verbal abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 12:28 AM
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Men should not date women whose behavior goes against their values and needs. Simple. Jonah Hill's mistake was getting into a relationship with a woman who surfs for a living and continuing to date someone who is breaking his trust, and of course, she's not going to wear a burqa. Men don't have to accept anything. Jonah found someone to share his life with eventually and men should take that as an example. I just wish men like Jonah could, for once, understand that you can't have the best of bot…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 10:59 PM
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I want both, from the same man. But I'm not naive, being desired sexually by many people is a good sign. I mean, I don't want to be "unattractive".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 08:50 PM
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perpetually dateless Hard to believe...what are you looking for? Ask Me Anything ...when was the last time you asked someone out?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 02:29 AM
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I quite agree with you. It seems that (modern) men still want the same thing in a woman and that's alright but... She must be very feminine, young, caring, kind, able to have children and take care of them, clean, good cooker, when it comes to important events, like Christmas days, be the one to make the calls, etc. And then these men expect you to bring your money and pay your bills. I'm glad girls like you realize that because it's too much, even unfair. Now, if you want to be a housewife, you…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 12:12 AM
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It depends. Are there any super rich young men attracted to older women?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 05:41 AM
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what's the alternative? This can further apply to appearance, (Who said), but when it comes to hookups (?), looks are, if not the only thing, what matters the most. When young men realize this, they go straight to the gym. That's logic talking. But in general, I don't think so, because... what's the alternative?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 05:36 AM
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Why do women settle for men who are not super rich? Men who are not super rich are closer to me. Super rich men seems to be busy, all the time. Super rich men generally are old, I'm not attracted to older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 04:17 AM
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I see now, but If it were that simple, these nice guys wouldn't be single today.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 07:39 PM
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The opposite of nice, who treats her right is bad who treats her like trash...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 07:36 PM
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thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 06:43 PM
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For decades now women have been filling young men’s heads with nonsense, suggesting that all women want is a nice boy who treats them right. What are you talking about then?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 06:12 PM
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What does that have to do at all with women rarely being single? We're not talking about any woman. We're talking about Jane, and Jane is not like the other girls. She'll be single for a month or two weeks, but she's still demisexual. No next level until she develops a strong emotional connection with that person. Okay, look at it this way. Nothing to "figure it out" here. If Jack and Jane developed a close connection and is strong (is a must), Jack will (he won't) confess his feelings to Jane a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 04:47 PM
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It's incredibly rare that women are single for any amount of time Wow, I'm beginning to believe that men don't trust women, not any woman. This is an issue. And this is confusing, because they're both demisexual. She also needs to build that connection before going to the next level (?). The truth is that sexual attraction is important to having a healthy romantic relationship. There's no way to change it. A demi (Jack) can always ask her out and find out if she feels the same way. (And he won't…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 03:43 PM
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I also want to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 10:58 PM
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What do you mean?... I'm bit lost, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 10:05 AM
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There are still plenty of ways to get your emotional intimacy needs met For example?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 11:09 PM
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sadly there are no better terms No, that's what you really believe and the reason you chose these words is so that we (women, not "people") react to this failed CMV. How true is it that men don't need women to clean, cook and take care of them (mostly, emotionally, now being serious) and at the same time you hear men say that women aren't doing any of this anymore? These men ONLY need women to have sex with, a revelation. These men in a society only move a finger when there is sex, dating and re…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 03:25 AM
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Useless men are also still more useful than useless women and The phrase "most men are useless" is extremely dehumanizing and should be discouraged What? Too much words and you're saying nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 01:52 AM
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I like this, so true.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 04:16 PM
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Envy. These guys should date ugly girls only then. He won't listen or take you seriously. He's right and we (question for women) are wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 12:40 AM
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Yeah, that's why they commit suicide.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 03:26 PM
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All of this to tell us that "human beings" only want for themselves what is considered attractive in their eyes? Hypergamy (?) works with men too, I see. And yes, women know it. When men don't want nothing serious, he won't make the effort because "SHE'S not that attractive". There's no much to brag here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 03:08 PM
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But you can get sex by masturbating for example. "Need" is a big word, don't you think?. Like test It. No food and water for a week. If there's no food or water, we'd face serious problems. I don't see all these sexless men committing violence at once because the lack of sex. I don't see these sexless men move abroad in droves so they can pay for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 02:33 AM
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Need it? like breathing?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 01:12 AM
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Because there are no incentives to do so. If you don't do It, someone else will. Men don't have to... there won't be lot of changes. Women only move towards you or, for money, for physical attractiveness or for prior knowledge (friends before starting a relationship).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 01:09 AM
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😴
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 07:57 PM
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A question. Are these girls feminists? I'm asking you this out of ignorance because I'm a bit confused and it will help me to understand you better. Also, is it possible to "expect" masculinity in one (taller, bigger) man than in other men? Men can stop doing "it" and continue looking for a woman willing to take them as they are. They will do it? A young woman has "power" in dating because men wanted it that way. Even nature wanted it that way. If a man doesn't care about her job it's because sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 05:13 AM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 04:23 AM
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....... FOR ME is the clothes, primarily. Don't have to be outrageous or expensive (huh) but if a (young) man knows HOW to dress, I'll pay attention. The hair... some (young) men... having the haircut of Boris Johnson is a no-no. Tank tops looks good on men (weakness!). Of course, looks better with some muscles.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 02:23 AM
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Ok but... that's not what OP's saying. They like women because they're men (heterosexual) enjoying the presence of a woman. I can even talk about peer pressure. But if sex is the main reason they get into relationships, how women should take it? I also like money and I know that my man won't react positively if that's the only reason I'm with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 09:10 PM
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So these men "suffer in silence" just for sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 08:59 PM
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I don't know if I should take this post seriously. "A lot of guys" But if this is true, men deserve what they get. If It's true I don't understand the complaints about women's high standards and the high n' bodycount topic. If It's true I don't understand why should women show humility and start to date down. If sex is the only thing women can provide and women are needy, annoying, controlling and toxic, men should avoid women and just pay.for.sex. What about the men that want marriage, children…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 08:54 PM
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Mmmmmm...how are women supposed to take this?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 08:37 PM
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I've heard they're great at sex and men love sex. Now seriously, I don't quite understand the question. Don't be a BB if you don't want to? I'll need context. Edit: Those (?) men really hate it when women live life without consequences, huh? Stay single is an option. Keep looking for that unicorn is an option. These men have choices, nobody's forcing them to be a BB. Expected...how?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 02:14 PM
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I partly agree with you. The men that women (?) will never want should go ahead and pay for sex. ...I don't hate them, I reject them. I truly believe that no men want to pay for sex. Why would I date a man that pay for sex? "They don't want LOVE and relationships"...but it's mutual. "All men pay for it" It's different when is mutual. What I see is impatience and that's unattractive. These men have the pressure and no, I'm not talking about testosterone. Just be honest when you stop (you won't) a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:59 AM
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This sounds...silly
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 12:25 AM
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Sex is disgust?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 12:18 AM
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None. Don't tell, no pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 10:43 AM
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Sex slave
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 10:39 AM
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This answer.. thanks for taking your time. About virginity, in this society, that's understandable in my eyes. It's the other thing that bothers me. Sex is a touchy subject, we talk until we don't need to say more, and that's fine. I just think if people (men in my case) are so proud of their past decisions, they should try to be honest when asked. Few people DTA, so that's fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 11:25 AM
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That's what we should do in the end, I see. Trust their actions, not their words. And yes, I understand how uncomfortable men can feel about it, that's normal when you don't know that person. But It doesn't matter (?) because I'm nobody to judge, even if it seems so. There are only values that I'm trying to protect and when I was dating, it was not easy. Dating someone is never that easy, anyway. It just that some men here talk about "if you don't tell him, you're lying to him" and then I wonder…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 11:09 AM
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haha I know, I know...no man wants to hear it from his potential girlfriend/wife either.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 10:31 AM
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I appreciate this answer, it makes sense. For example, it hurts to see how difficult it is to find people (men in my case) who bring the same to the table. If a man cares about her sexual past, it's only fair that he be open about his sexual past as well. But if we're not going to tell the truth when they ask, what's the use of "saving" yourself? People are going to live their lives and values will only matter when we're afraid of losing someone we care about. Cheaters, for instance, will rarely…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 10:28 AM
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Often, people will not want to reveal potentially embarrassing information to even an anonymous survey. You're responding to yourself. I don't need that. That's why I said PPD men. The men here are single, married, or maybe dating someone (casual or not). The question(s) is simple. Do men lie about their past? that's not the question, how often is it. About honesty, we all know (?) what we mean by honesty. If I ask you, do not lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 01:15 AM
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My story exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 12:53 AM
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That's scary. If they're not being honest, they can't expect much honesty from women either.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 12:38 AM
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Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 12:35 AM
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Well, I'd date virgin men, and if they hide the information and I eventually find out (having sex), I won't take it the wrong way. Of course, each women is different. but never seriously giving me the time of day It might has something to do with lack of sexual attraction more than your virginity.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 12:32 AM
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How the fuck would you even calculate that sort of thing? I don't know what you're talking about. The question(s) is clear, feel free to answer or leave it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 12:16 AM
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Mmm
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 12:10 AM
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Is it fair to say that women should keep their mouths shut unless asked about it? I’m pretty open about my past That's good to hear and yes, there are women who are not willing to know about your past relationships, casual sex and all that, that's why they don't ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 12:09 AM
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Irrelevant (?) men (not all) tend to take the easy way out, they're not that "innocent". Relevant men don't need to.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 12:02 AM
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Ok, go on, what are these completely unrealistic expectations of sex and relationships? Women, to be exact
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 12:07 AM
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NO
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 11:54 PM
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need to know why
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 11:48 PM
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I don't know. The truth is, I don't understand casual sex. I understand the need to want sex but I find it hard to see the benefits, for women, in my case. And I'm not talking about the false idea of turning a casual relationship into a serious relationship. But I don't call them "sluts", I don't belittle them. So I don't know if that's "slutshame". On the other hand, I refuse to date or take them (men) seriously, because as I said before, it's not my style. As for clothes, I don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 12:41 AM
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However, you have to be proactive. If what you're doing isn't working, change your strategy. Go to places, make plans, make calls. You meet women in person, you see them in the moment, read the freaking room and this will give you better results than staying at home complaining. You're partly right, but there are benefits you're not seeing. If you don't have friends, and more importantly, friends to hang out and socialize with, everything will be difficult, now and then. I see myself more comfor…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 03:06 PM
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Did I say something like that? What I'm saying is, if he has feelings, I have feelings too. But If he doesn't care about my feelings, why should I care about his feelings? What you're talking about is for another post. Women are not that wonderful, I know. And well, racism has something to do with that case in particular, I'm sure. You have good answers. It's time to put them into practice. If it works for them (men here) it'll work for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 01:10 AM
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Did he put his arm around you out of the blue? Of course not, that's intentional and romantic, I'm good with it. You don't seem to undestand what's really going on and instead of pausing and think about it, you assume. Does he need to ask before he can give me two or three kisses on each cheek? Of course not and there are more examples. I mean, how old are you? You're encouraging these young men to do it, and to do what's necessary without giving examples. "Don't listen to her, do it anyway, it'…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 12:29 AM
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I don't demand anything from men, I mean, where did I say something like that? What I'm saying is they'll do their thing and I'll do mine. Look, you can't decide what's traumatic and what isn't, since I can't decide what's traumatic for men because I'm not a man. Someone touched me without permission in the past and yes, it was traumatic. If there are women, like me, who value "asking for a kiss" above all else, there isn't much men like you can do if she experienced that as a rape. Bad luck. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 09:36 PM
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I will not deny it, I repeat, I will not deny it. I saw the answers to the question and I wondered If we're all adults here or not. Those "hints" are frankly, very childish in my opinion. But I don't date women, I date men. I only know that I dare not, no way, to play these childish games with men simply because men have enough. If they look, they're creep. If they touch, they're creep. If they take her hand without asking, testing the waters, escalation (TRP), there's a hidden agenda. Seriously…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 07:50 PM
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Not much. This question isn't about me, it's about him. About what can I do for him and if what I do improves his life in a slight way, right? The typical, I cook and clean (just me), silence (I need it more than ever), I keep my body fit (exercise increase my libido too, I want that), saving is my number one hobby, and I'm good at listening (the truth, I don't like to talk that much). I'm mediocre, I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 04:57 PM
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Don't have a proper answer but. I think women answering this question should keep in mind "what's the situation here". Even when a woman is all giggly there is no way to tell in advancewhether you making a pass at her will be welcomed or she'll freak outbecause she thought you were "just friends". If he's on a date (YES) or if he's talking about a friend or even a co-worker (HOLD UP). This is not "what works for me", this is "what works in general". Hair flirting sound not only old but anecdotal…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 04:35 PM
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That's true, I haven't thought about that, to be honest. I'm sorry for what happened to you. I love sports in general and that's why I said it like that. I should have used a better word. One of my girlfriends has a daughter and she's energetic and enjoys socializing, I think sports has something to do with it. But we're all different from each other. I'd talk to my kids (teenagers) and see which sport (with socialization) gets their attention the most. I want them to try it, If it's bad for the…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 03:17 AM
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Haha what I mean by pressure is what OP is facing right now. If my son (I don't have) start to date later in life, great. Never, great too I guess. That part doesn't belong to me. There's so much I can do for my son (I don't have), pressure is not one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 02:59 AM
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No, I don't have kids but I would like to one day. Off topic (?) but parents seem to really underestimate the control they have over their children's love life. They avoid the "subject" because it came naturally to them. They don't seem to like the idea of having a different child, the idea of doing the job. Every boy is different. "My son could use more courage and that's fine" that's not what they're thinking. "Why can't you be like the cool kids?" that's what they're thinking. For example, a …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 06:32 PM
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I'd feel that I've failed as a mother. I truly believe that parents have the obligation to educate their children about everything related to dating. Force them to dress nicely, force them to play sports, which will help him with socialization and self-esteem, teach him to take rejection as what it is, no more than what it is, etc. I wouldn't pressure him though. But the basics must be it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 04:25 PM
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These men seem to understand everything, but not how attraction works, it's fascinating. I don't understand what intelligence has to do with sex, for example. You're talking about this hot girl, so appearance matters more to him too. He may have the intelligence of a monkey, but he may make her laugh, this is attractive. He might have the intelligence of a monkey, but he may be outgoing, this is worldwide attractive. He helped her many times because he chose to, I don't know what you're trying t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 07:58 AM
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It's controversial when it comes to height. Height is hardly fixable. If you're ugly or you're part of the less desired ethnicity, it shouldn't be controversial for example. Some are preference, another thing is requirement. That's the issue for most.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 05:07 PM
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What an answer, so good. As someone who's never had casual sex (too), you made me realize something about myself today.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 04:38 PM
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That's right. And because it's inevitable. I mean, if I'm dating him, he must have heard the concept and no doubt formed a belief around it. It's a hot topic. I can't imagine a man who's not interested in feminism at all, at least as a concept. And yes, I may not be a "complete feminist", I have my reasons. No room for confusion though, feminism is definitely important to me, I just choose not to label myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 09:49 AM
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That would be the ideal but if you look around you the distrust between men and women has increased. I don't need my partner to be a feminist, that's not what I meant, but as a woman I want to "protect" myself and I see how many men want the same every day, which is necessary in my opinion. Feminism is important to me to some degree and if I'm going to invest time and energy in a relationship, I need to know that we're on the same page.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 10:59 PM
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In this case, I'd suspect that you might believe that women are not being oppressed in equal opportunities and I'd ask you what and how these actions are reducing your chances of success against women. I have mixed feelings so we might eventually agree on some point. That would be my first thought though and of course, I'd listen to you carefully.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 10:39 PM
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If I were a man, I'd be depressed. It's not fair, but why it should be fair? Dating has a goal after all. And I don't know about other women, but I feel uncomfortable when any type of man approaches me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 07:24 PM
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You already have great answers. If I'm going to be silenced because "men are having it worse", I'm off. It's important to me to know where you're on the page when it comes to feminism. I have a brother and I take men's rights very seriously. We talk about it and I actively listen to him. Are you willing to do the same without denying the struggles of women? Are you actively participating in a (no toxic) solution of all the struggles that men face in real life or are you sitting at home complaini…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 06:47 PM
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Exactly, it seems very difficult to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 06:44 PM
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This is a waste of time. And, unsurprisingly, that's the only thing that catches your eye. You won't point out or even challenge my point of view, which is the reason we're here. It's easier to downvote. ​ Edit: Deleted because is clearly a fucking waste of time. I'm not going to waste my time anymore. This is a debate (?) and I'm willing to find just ONE man to change my point of view. This is a very serious subject AND is not taken seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 08:03 AM
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Many "echo chambers" I'll see. Men will support other men's comments and women, as your post is proposing, are going to be support other women, regardless of the abuse and evidence against it. I might be wrong. When you use the term "most" you're insinuating that there are plenty of women supporting any abuse from them towards men. That women against those abuses are outliers. The media show you what they want you to see. And in this case, it shows you two "mentally unsound" people who treat any…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 06:14 AM
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It's an emotional topic, I agree. But it doesn't sound like a satisfying life and it's supposed to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 10:46 PM
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Good for you, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 10:42 PM
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I really don't know what else to tell you. I read his comment and recognized a pattern.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 10:41 PM
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I mean, if that's all it takes (which is too much for most men), of course it's going to be easier. Young girls (college type) are having sex with some of their peers (same age range) because they're all "that" with not a penny. I can't add much, but I really doubt a young woman would invest her time and energy in an older man for no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 10:24 PM
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Your ego is hurt and it's showing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 06:40 PM
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I don't understand what you're trying to say with this but yes, wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 06:32 PM
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Thanks for answering and yes, there's nothing to admit on my part because unfortunately I've seen it. Men value women mainly for their youth and when (girls) are young like any other young man, decisions aren't always smart. When you have too much power, most of the time you don't know how to use it properly, let's put it that way. There's no need to "beat the ladies" because men can definitely gain status and attractiveness as they age (but not without money). It's the tone of the majority, inc…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 04:16 PM
3

It's funny I know, It must sucks to be the one who make that choice, like..."who's going to gain my commitment?"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 01:47 PM
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Try to not make it personal, just try it, ok? It's you that is expected to provide and protect. Who is he providing and protecting here, a grown adult or an adult who is "still a child"? As a man if you're doing what you're supposed to be doing, your value increases over time while her's tend to decline. When does women value decline, when they're a grown adults or when "they're not young and fresh anymore"? Especially when dealing with modern women, that have high body counts, are single moms, …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 01:41 PM
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The key being that he is not both at the same time, but he is what he needs to be at any given time. This is exactly. I have an idea but I might be wrong. What's toxic masculinity and what's a masculine energy? These questions killed the chivalry. Feminism did it for some men. Modern women for most. The lack of wars has little to do with it in my opinion. I believe we are living through a renaissance of chivalry, and that we all would be better for it. Why? I mean, in your opinion as a man, why …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 01:20 PM
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That's what I thought haha
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 01:06 PM
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I laughed and I'm not going to deny any of this. Just one question, how does it feel to be desired at least only and mostly for your money as a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 12:43 PM
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That's why I say that men are the ones to blame when a divorce or a break up occurs. He made the choice (advance the relationship), not her. Edit: LOL downvotes are against the rules, but it helps me to see how uncomfortable this truth feels. If men are the guardians of relationships, it means that they choose who to give that commitment to. It takes two for a healthy relationship to work (duh), but he better make the right choice. In fact, men have high standards when it comes to relationships.…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 12:37 PM
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He attracts me as a person. It's not attractive if these experiences control your life, and unfortunately they usually do. For example, some people have never had a childhood and it must be very difficult to interact with other people and listen to their stories when they were children. My opinion doesn't matter. Knowing that they're going to try to live the best life is enough to admire them. I mean for a woman, isn't there anything more remotely attractive and sexy on a guy than resilience any…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 12:34 PM
1

I don't think I can challenge your point of view. I haven't had to have casual sex to know the many risks involved. Sometimes I wonder if I was so stupid for not giving casual sex a try and realize then of the risks that I already knew, but by trying it would reaffirm my thoughts somehow. I disagree and this only reason seems very childish to me. A lot of sex and you've just realized that pregnancy happens because of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 12:04 PM
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I don't accept maturing/ growing up as an excuse for my partner to treat me worse than she treated her previous partners. I'm with you on this...I mean, I think you said this before somewhere... and I got it. It's not a big deal, but people, anyone can make the decision to leave and find someone willing to give the best of a relationship. Leaving aside the sex (every person and their experiences are different) cannot deny it, I'd feel insulted.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 11:44 AM
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she's likely to think she's not as attractive as those other women Yes, that's not my reasons and I care.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 11:38 AM
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I don't know about other women... I have good reasons for it and it's not what you're thinking. Also, I don't understand the downvotes (against the rules) but it's funny how my single opinion can cause this reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 11:18 AM
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I'm out of the market (?), but during the time I was hunting and dating, I realized that both genders need to become the best version of themselves, most of them are lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 07:01 PM
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Also, I don’t believe in asking men out so personally I'm with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 06:54 PM
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And that's why is important to find your equal. If he/she can't provide that, find somebody else.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 06:53 PM
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"Marriage shouldn't be built from love and desire." But you're not talking about marriage, very few young men are thinking about marriage. It's not fair to both genders. But it wasn't fair to women in the past. I'll never understand how "my freedom (?)" is hurting a man's desire. Yes, women want to be with a good man who's attractive to them, is it bad? I'm thinking: women forced to marry and have children with a man they could never love or desire... This is not about women, I realized that, we…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 01:36 PM
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You're asking for too much. I mean, of course you're not going to care why she stays with you. It's funny because these are the building blocks of a good, sane, or healthy relationship. The only way you will be treated by a woman who loves you. If she doesn't love you like that, why is she going to force herself to do all that?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 12:55 PM
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The last time I tried OLD was many years ago and I was ghosted. We planned to meet that afternoon. I tried to call him to confirm the date. Silence. I called him twice I think and silence. I got the message. It sucks and you have every right to be angry. I learned not to take OLD seriously. To be honest, I "quit" after that incident. But it helped me understand that men don't owe me anything. I can't speak from experience, I've never done that. Only when I need space, I see myself doing somethin…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 08:53 AM
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I've read your post entirely... I was super excited leaving her apartment. A few texts un-replied later, I checked on Tinder, where we had met, and she had unmatched with me. What happened before this ha-ppe-ned?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 06:48 AM
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Do you realize that anyone in a romantic relationship can leave at any time for someone better? Only marriage can make "leaving" difficult and that's why many people don't want to get married. Do you date "underqualified" guys knowing they can't just peace out for greener pastures? No and I have good reasons although I don't know what it truly means.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 10:48 AM
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Low n' bodycount here, how difficult must be live life with this mindset. One of the few things I like about being a woman instead of a man. The headache is real haha
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 11:49 PM
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Don't ask smart questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 11:36 PM
3

Do you watch porn by chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 11:34 PM
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Unpopular answer, I do. And if you're going to "invest" in someone for the long term it's normal that you want to know. Avoid judgment though, you two are just incompatible. Edit: chill texting Just saw it... you don't need to know if we haven't met (in person) yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 10:57 PM
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Yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 10:46 PM
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This is the answer. It doesn't assume and, more importantly, mentions the importance of skills in a detailed way.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 10:44 PM
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What are WE talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 10:22 PM
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Fat women don't have sex now? I heard that they're easy targets for casual sex, not for relationships. Edit: A young woman can still be a virgin for many reasons, fatness is not always one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 09:28 PM
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Yes, probably but we don't know. Men always believe that young women live in "easy mode" because they're not fat. Let me tell you something, there are many other factors on the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 09:21 PM
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I'd like to know why you think you're undesirable. Edit: Why y'all assume that she's fat?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 08:38 PM
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for women they're decreasing the odds of abusive relationships eh no, my conclusion is attractive men or less attractive men will treat women good or bad. Generally we can see that attractive men treat women better but BOTH can be abusive. Women giving opportunities to less attractive men won't change anything. decreasing variety (a thing lots of men want) and their options?! What do you mean by "decreasing variety"? Are only men allowed to have variety? Dating today is about trial and error, pu…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 06:53 PM
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I've seen this study and it's interesting. I wanted to add a few things. -They are newlyweds, which means that the treatment can change (quality of life, pregnacies,etc). -These men may be compensating their lack of attractiveness with money or status. -I hear very often on PPD that unattractive or less attractive men will take anything they can get and they will treat her better than an attractive man. This study is saying something else. She has to be more attractive than him, so that they can…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 02:54 AM
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End of the discussion. I don't need to use "don't give a shit about" to make a point. It's an interesting topic and there was more I wanted to add to this study. You crossed the line. you're either It's called set boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 02:05 AM
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End of the discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 01:08 AM
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I'm not talking about your study. I'm talking about of these many cases where women are treated like shit by less attractive or unattractive men. You're proving my point somehow so it feels good. 113 newly married couples won't convince me though. I appreciate it, but my experience says otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 01:02 AM
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That's not my case. You're talking to yourself again.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 12:24 AM
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This is not CMV. This is not about me. You seem very sure, do you speak from experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 12:20 AM
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I don't know man. Some say they are self-confident and fun. Being attractive helps too. You should ask these women. That's not my case.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 11:59 PM
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I like this, but I also find it unfair to put all that weight on the backs of women (especially young women). considering more men who could potentially become attractive They must work on it as they're dating. Before, I would say. "Could" sounds undefined... I could ask men not to be "visual" at first and to give any woman a chance. Like, don't dump and pump her right away. This is another topic, I see. Overall, I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 11:53 PM
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Anyone could treat her bad Beta depending will treat her good because that's all he could get or he's bitter and will also pump and dump. This is what I wanted to hear because it's the truth. I don't know who's believing otherwise...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 11:46 PM
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I have a different opinion...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 11:40 PM
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I don't know who they are haha They're not "Chad" and they're angry about it. That's where the expectations come from.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 11:34 PM
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more likely to commit and take seriously But "treat better" is very necessary. It's a must. It puts these men above Chad. An unattractive man can give me commitment, it doesn't mean that he'll not abuse me, rape me, or cheat on me. This is what I'm trying to understand. Some are talking about the Halo Effect, and I'm still very unsure.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 09:57 PM
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This answer is helping me to understand it. It doesn't mean that they'll treat women better compared to the most attractive men in the world. Anecdotes don't seem to work here, but I've seen it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 09:45 PM
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That's interesting. Under privileged people can sometimes be so bitter and mean This is what I'm talking about...like, It's the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 09:42 PM
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This made me laugh! i heard it from other women. I heard it from both, men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 09:40 PM
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Ok. attracting their own level of quality of people Happens all the time. But if a woman, let's say, gets fit after being obese all her life, she's going to attract other quality people this time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 09:39 PM
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An ugly man who gets a good looking woman has a high incentive to treat her right. And this is wrong. That's why whoever is Chad, is better. Unattractive women exist, why not treat them the same? This is basic logic. No, it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 09:33 PM
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No, that's what it seems for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 09:29 PM
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by ignoring their initial attraction and vetting men over a long period of time What do you mean? I think women should not have sex or even prioritise any man until weeks/ even months later.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 09:29 PM
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I don't believe that. Today, women seem to treat all men as potential rapists.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 09:24 PM
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do everything in his power to keep her happy That's what I thought but I'm seeing the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 09:22 PM
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Come on, a X number of women aren't destroying anything. they can't simply think logically, it is all tingles It shouldn't matters?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 09:19 PM
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This isn't answering my question. (?)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 09:17 PM
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but she doesn't have to treat him better You are talking to yourself. I have never said that. What I'm trying to understand is if both men (Chad and not Chad) are going to treat her badly (casual sex or serious relationships) why this misconception about unattractive men? I wonder why... I don't have to wonder and it's pretty sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 09:14 PM
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What does "less attractive" mean? In comparison to Chad. "Unattractive" is a synonym for "ugly. No. That's why I didn't use this term. Also, what about just normal, average guys? Who are they in your opinion? this just feels like another nitpick coming from you now Just wanted to find something that matters to women in general. It's not about me. But yes, It matters to me, too. Have you ever dated a normal guy who was just, like, not perfect and not a basement dweller? I'm doing it. He MUST BE G…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 09:09 PM
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we wouldn't have women complaining about their BF's not wiping their asses LOL It's very important to me, so I don't really understand these women. Chad and ugly men treat women the same, but women perceive it as being worse due to Halo Effect Anecdotes seem to not count so I'm just going to say that I disagree. Chad and ugly men treat women the same (good or bad). Why should women choose a less attractive man if the treatment will be the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 08:59 PM
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So they're not better than Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 08:53 PM
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No. What I meant to say is that whoever Chad is, he treats me better than any other man. He's not what people say he's in real life. I'm talking about some of my friends. So no, not because the smoke from his attractiveness is blinding me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 08:49 PM
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I think the logic is "if he's desperate he'll treat her better" This is what confuses me. Nothing good comes out of this kind of relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 08:42 PM
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Those women should not date then.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 08:38 PM
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respect Yes, always. It's not negotiable. What I meant is the expectations that some not-so-attractive men place on women from day one.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 08:36 PM
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I don't understand your reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 08:14 PM
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maybe she’s a garbage truck Women should give up dating altogether if both are trash, for her sanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 08:13 PM
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he's her attractiveness match Do you think that an unattractive man will not pump and dump his attractiveness match (unattractive woman) given the chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 08:10 PM
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A better one is subjective. Men cheat on their girlfriends/wives with less attractive women all the time, especially when they win status in their 40's. If both men are the same, why make us believe that unattractive men will be all that we need?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 08:00 PM
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But that "better treatment than" is necessary from the beginning until the end. That's the difference between Chad and him. What I'm thinking is… unattractive men tend to have bad attitudes in the early stages of dating. SOME expect to be treated like Chad instead of treating her BETTER from day one. If women have to cling to a high probability, I'm not surprised why women make that decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 07:53 PM
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That last paragraph!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 09:31 AM
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Question: Would you rather be an average woman in any country in the world than being an average man in any country in the world?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:16 PM
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I don't understand how anyone on this sub can waste their precious time TRYING to convince this grown man why he should treat women as equals. The funny thing is that he wants to treat women as sexual objects. In fact, he did it with his ex. And when she realized that her sanity was worth more than giving her pussy away like a buffet, she's the bad one. Not him, who mistreated her. That's why I avoid men who slept with sex workers, right here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 03:13 AM
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If he doesn't have anything good to say about women (list), that's a huge red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 02:38 AM
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The fact that you care what other men have to say about your success with women says it all. Women also want to fuck the man whore. I'll give you the same answer I gave the other (red pill), if it's a compliment, you will not hide it from a potential partner. Not so with the female who is a slut/whore Yes, hopefully women will gain awareness and stop spreading their legs for men this easily. Only young men that need to get laid this weekend will suffer. Now I see it, he's still a man whore, dyin…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 10:08 PM
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I know and I'll find out, r/narcissisticonly
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 08:37 PM
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You'd be surprise.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 08:31 PM
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It works for r/narcissisticonly Hopefully, you won't have to hide your body counts from a potential partner because is a compliment, right?. Yes, I do ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 08:27 PM
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I understand what you're saying, but that's not what I'm discussing here. Is a man with a high n' body count a man whore? Yes, yes and yes. I refuse to call a man whore in any other way because he's a man. Self-control exists. There are men with low n' body count, yes, by choice. A man who doesn't have to put in 0 effort and while he's relaxing on the sofa a woman decides to come over to end up sucking his c without him saying anything exists. Chad is a woman. Is he a man whore because he has hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 08:20 PM
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don't want to be in that pool alone so they try to bring men in with them. No, this is about power. Men want all that power for themselves. He had a promiscuous past? that man is a man whore. Source: me, no history of promiscuous past.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 10:18 PM
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So a man with a high body count who himself wants a low body count partner is really just saying that he's a man with high T levels who doesn't want a woman with high T levels. No man with a high n' body count would mate with a woman with a low to zero libido. It's called sexual compatibility. Having lots of sexual partners in a short amount of time is masculine due to its association with high T levels. Having lots of sexual partners in a short amount of time is human because sex is a natural r…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 10:09 PM
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"stop seeking validation from men" "don't be yourself, become the best version of yourself" and my favorite, "do as I say, not as I do" from my mum. Men, casual mindset Women, relationship Mindset
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 09:46 PM
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hot = crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 09:41 PM
1

these hoes Who are they? modern women?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 09:40 PM
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I just don't want to date a man who has paid sex workers in the past. Is it so hard to understand? Do that but forever. If it's legalized, I move abroad if necessary. Sir, get on your horse and move on, you're not my problem anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 09:31 PM
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Attractive, not practical. I want to become a very famous singer (just an example), but the odds of that happening are against me, so I work towards a more realistic result, sing at local places. Who knows, I might be discovered by a music producer there. I will support you when it comes to self-improvement, better jobs positions, or getting a less stressful job. If you can't keep your butt in a chair for over a decade, having a long-lasting, healthy relationship isn't going to be viable. Some p…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 09:15 PM
0

man, you're a diamond in a manure field.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 05:45 AM
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The latter, I was not even thinking about FDS when I wrote it haha
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 04:28 AM
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Results for me, I don't want to share him haha
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 10:46 PM
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Because many women only want frat guys You'll have to change your mindset if you're looking for better results. Can these young women have fun with you or are you ONLY able to provide? don't want relationships at a young age That's untrue. And if they can't find them, then they should change their strategy. Especially if they're in college. They're single by choice or they're single because they're not that good. I'm not going to deny the struggle of men, but they know what to do. Young people, …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 10:40 PM
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Do any woman here follow Female Dating Strategy? I used to. Then I realized that the only person standing in her way was me. I decided to get better (no, I'm not fat but I wanted to have a really good body, reaching an athletic body is my goal, I'm still working on it) and mentally (therapy). I found someone this year (I won't talk too soon but I'm happy) I just wondered "would you date yourself?" LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 09:42 PM
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What do you mean? That sex is the last thing that matters to the average and below average men? Would you date a 3/10 women in debt with a bad reputation? Obession with what exactly? height? hair? I might be wrong, If you only date or ask out women not based on their looks (ugly women for example), you'll change my mind. Every man I know wants a loving wife; no one wants instant sex. Would these men be willing to not have sex for 2 months of dating? she's easily get a line up of loving good men …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 04:01 PM
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a committed man only gets one. That's enough. Why would you want to fuck 10 different women if you're looking for a committed relationship? One is enough. Did you think this was a gotcha moment? I'm not sure...If men are the gatekeepers of relationships, why are they single?... It's a valid question.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 05:21 AM
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Making women dependent on men financially? Are they ready for deadbedrooms? Are modern men ready for that? Are they ready to support an entire family in this economy? Are they willing to give up porn, Netflix, Tinder, travel, video games, computers to support their wives (yes, marriage)? I believe in traditional roles but what about the women who don't want to have children? And men? Do you realize that even if we women cooperate with men, there will still be single men?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 05:04 AM
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Escorts cost money. But to suggest a possibility that could increase in the future that primarily women will suffer because these women do not want to have free sex with men they are not attracted to costs nothing. Are you married by any chance? Completely not productive and ambitionless Interesting, what do you suggest? And goodbye casual sex for you since he can't get it up or has no sexual drive. Casual sex, he said... are we talking about the same men here? I do not know why You do, you woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 04:44 AM
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Society should be restructured so men and women need each other again How do we do it? of all men? all men are rapists? This is pretty insane stuff Forcing people to live lives they might don't want is not? Good luck with that though for real Yes, it's scary.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 04:31 AM
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Escorts then. (due to higher testosterone in men, etc.) Find ways to decrease it without fuck them up then. This implies increase in rapes. because...? It is well documented that India has a problem with rape Why? but I am sure that it is more complicated than that Of course you're sure but let's spit some words.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 03:58 AM
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What makes you think you deserve a perfect partner when you're not even close to upholding the same standards? Well, how do you know? Also, I say good, not perfect. If that's perfect, then we all should directly give up. As I see it, women are not the problem here, it's this lifestyle that the average men believe that the average women DESERVE TO HAVE because the average men refuse to give more than they CAN get. If you don't recognize yourself on the list, no need to worry.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 02:01 AM
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Exactly. If what men want is a happy marriage and lots of sex, they should date other men, they should try it. At least we agree on something. Why bother women if they are insufferable? Stay single or date other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 01:39 AM
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-The douchebag guy: "you will do what I say and when I say it and if you don't, you're a bitch" -The self-confidence guy: ""we will do this together, although I would prefer to do the other first because..." -The nice guy: "I'll do what you want, when you want because I'm afraid to say what's on my mind and if you turn me down, I don't know how I'm going to react." Toxic women date toxic men. The attractiveness is not always on page. I've seen it with some of my ex girl friends. They mistreated …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 08:34 PM
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I need romance. what's the point of romantic relationships without romance? whereas men were seen as the more reserved, emotionally distant sex who were more afraid of commitment and viewed thing like sex and intimacy from a more superficial standpoint We're incompatible what other factors, if any, lead to the increasing lack of female emotional interest in romantic companionship? That's not what I see but that women are the ones more interested in connecting on an emotional level and having str…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 08:20 PM
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Want to see the answers too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 08:12 PM
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Debate and sometimes curiosity. It's addictive. Trying my best to leave soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 08:11 PM
2

And that's why they're single by choice... because of the lack of sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 08:06 PM
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LONG ANSWER. Women have lots of options, but they aren't good. Good for sex, good for marriage (if that's what you're after), good for communication, good for updating for the sake of the relationship, good for having children, good for never taking your partner for granted. Men should date other men and see the results. Just do it. It's more easy than that. Sex seems to be the first and only (?) thing men have on their minds when it comes to dating and YOU too, as a woman, have to find ways to …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 07:55 PM
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Men are the gatekeepers of relationships Why are they single then?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 07:10 PM
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It's not my thing but yeah, I haven't thought about that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 06:54 PM
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It's not a dealbreaker. Are my insecurities over living with my parents justified or irrational? When it comes to sex, where are you having it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 04:24 PM
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Any advice for depressed lonely men? I have a lot to say, but only if they want to improve their love life. I'll be brutally honest. I want you to tell me in your own words, what are some other ways you'd suggest him to deal with this pain. In my own words, become the best version of yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 12:04 AM
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Why do women care so much when a man prefers inexperienced/virgin women? What's an inexperienced women? Anyway...as a woman with low n' bodycount for my age ( you'll laugh) I have mixed emotions. If you're virgin, is fair. No need to start a debate because is common sense like c'mon. Why the "attention to me"? If you're not virgin, you're abnormal, a freak, and other women are free to judge you as you will judge a woman with a high n' bodycount. Don't start a fire if you don't want to get burned…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 11:51 PM
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Tell me, what type of women are you willing to have sex with when your testosterone is high? The answer is It's not the answer because that's not the question. Why am I not attracted to different types of men when for men it seems "easy"? Even obese women have plenty of men who wanna fuck them. How does your p respond to obese women? Because of sexual dimorphism and evolutionary biology. Does nobody take biology classes anymore!? You think I don't know when I know lol Is it fair to say then that…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 11:36 PM
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That's why testosterone is not a good argument for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 11:23 PM
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I don't understand what you're saying. Have you read what I have said? pair up with a guy on your level I don't believe in levels but because the only men (who count) This is interesting, actually. I disliked men "on my level". In fact, I still do. Those men would "destroy" my life if I gave them the chance. I decided to improve everything about me, body and mind. Did I pair up with a man outside my level? No, I just met a man, on my level, who also wanted to improve himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 11:19 PM
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Mmm I don't need a connection. For me is I'm attracted to you or not but yes, I see what you're saying. Short, skinny guys were actually my type for a long time That preference changed in my early 20's.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 10:57 PM
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Thanks, that's what I thought and there's nothing wrong with acknowledging that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 10:51 PM
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I don't think saying that testosterone is responsible, puts men in a good light. I know that dick is selective. How many men sexually desire obese women? How many men sexually fantasize about women over 50? I'm horny, it doesn't mean I'm going to have sex with a man I'm not attracted to and the question is why. sex is kinda like hunger Also for women, why are women more selective?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 10:50 PM
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Men generally aren’t as attractive as women Men are just as attractive as women. Women are simply "forced" to be more attractive, I'm a straight woman, so what do I know?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 10:30 PM
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No makeup and most women lose 1-2 points easily Only? phew Especially as most of them let themselves go haha Yeah because the average men aren't fat. they're basically just cheating Let's not talk about cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 10:24 PM
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It might be, but I think the question isn't really about sex, it's about attraction. Why don't most women get turned on by skinny/short/fat men when the opposite happens frequently?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 10:21 PM
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niceness it's a personality trait that should be highly desired It should be and it's highly desired but it's not enough. It's not happening, which is fair for women, too. That's because jobs, education, and sociopolitical views are vapid nonsense ...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 04:22 AM
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Dating is more than sexual attraction though how? You're not listening and I'm telling you right now. Sexual attraction matters. Be nice but "make yourself" attractive. It goes hand by hand. You want to control something (sexual attraction) that cannot be controlled or manipulated by being simply nice. You wouldn't date an axe murderer because she had a nice butt "You don't have to date her. Just fuck her once"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 04:17 AM
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Inconvenient truth he said lol Did you really think that girls only had sex with boys because they were kind? You seem to forget or not realize that niceness is not related to sexual attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 02:29 AM
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Yes, fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 12:36 AM
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Sex makes some men here very uncomfortable. Sexual repression or lack of sexual experience, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 12:34 AM
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I slept around a lot when I was younger Once the marriage was over Sleeping around for men isn't psychologically-damaging to men like it is for women Yes, because you say so.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 08:14 PM
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What's your plan?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 08:10 PM
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It's legal in many places around the world... I don't see much change. Will men stop chasing women? Maybe, but this will only work for men who are already having trouble getting free sex. I mean, some men talk about the sexual validation that a sex worker can't provide. Women may try harder to find and keep a man since legalized brothels don't benefit them Those men don't benefit me, they disgust me. I won't compete for these men, I will move abroad if necessary. Women in relationships may put i…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 05:24 PM
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capable, of course That's all that matters. Inclined to do this type of work? Unlikely That's true. But not for the reasons you've listed below. Men who have dirty or dangerous jobs have something to do with their choices. I love everything related to electricity, I just don't see myself working on it. If the time comes, I will... since it's a choice, I won't. Finding ways to reduce the danger or dirt these jobs cause on men is the way to go, but let's avoid these ideas. Let's put women in dange…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 01:16 PM
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I'm woman, am I capable of doing what you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 12:20 AM
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What does testosterone have to do with what she's saying? I'm lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 07:54 PM
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You seem to have a good heart, I must say. That's appreciation, right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 07:13 PM
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we do the hard jobs women don’t want to do. What do you do for a living?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 07:10 PM
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I love the sense of humor of men. Their calmness and their physical strength. Not all men share those qualities, but in general... this is what the men in my life "bring to the table" and I'm thankful.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 06:44 PM
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I like men and I need men. Of course, not to put a light bulb. I love these types of men, the ones who don't hold a grudge against women. They had and still have good relationships with women throughout their lives and instead of complaining, they fix it. My requirement to date a man. I like men who work with their hands until they hurt but keep working and smiling. Now, those men aren't here. That's why you read what you read. Don't just look at what the women say here, what do the PPD men say?…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 03:27 PM
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Question for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 01:56 PM
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If women did not have an enormous advantage in dating, no man would suffer through this for a chance at affection or companionship If these men have a bit of self respect, self love, confidence in themselves and not afraid of loneliness they wouldn't suffer through this for a chance at affection or companionship. If you can't find the woman of your dreams, stay single. Most of them don't want conflict, which is good. It's not nice when there's a time of war and he's behind her shaking with fear.…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 06:05 PM
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I...agree with you. I want his best (anything his previous partners got) or I leave. Gifts, first dates in restaurants, marriage plans, the stupid things he did for her... I'm guilty but it's the truth and somehow, fair. He's not obligated to stay...the door is open.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 06:57 PM
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Some guys are saying the opposite...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 07:39 PM
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The women that are ignored are a very tiny minority Such as...?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 07:33 PM
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Again... the reason why they oppress them, because otherwise, they would never get any women So is it right for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 07:25 PM
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Wow, I just realized something.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 06:39 PM
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had Black wives dark skinned women?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 07:50 PM
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As of maslow's hierarchy of needs, reproduction/sex is ranked pretty high in importance, right above things like nutrition and shelter if i remember correctly, so while not basic it is a quasi basic need for humans as we know. Just to let you know, that's false. and being actively repressed while trying to fix this. Repressed is a wrong term. Sure a few individuals will manage to live a happy life That's why older men virgins have my sympathy and even admiration. In a world of lunatics willing t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 10:49 AM
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Some men don't deserve women. Women did have a few priviledges like not dying, while men got to fuck whoever their status could pay for, it was not equal by any means but it was a fair trade.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 10:36 AM
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are you putting the same amount of effort into looking attractive as the women you find attractive are? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 10:33 AM
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YES hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 10:32 AM
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thanks for the information lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 10:31 AM
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hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 10:24 AM
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so they were essentially "forced" to pay attention to him. If you're an unattractive guy your only hope is to interact with a girl long enough that she stops being "consciously" aware of how unattractive you are and her attention shifts to your personality. Question: This "method" can work with ugly, unattractive women?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 08:35 PM
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You have to be tall Yes. to be able to get a first date, let alone be considered hot or dateable are significantly harder to meet Question: Are you different from Chad? My point: what most (young) men are primarily looking for is sex. No marriage, no kids, nothing. "We have sex first and then we talk" So women will of course choose attractive men for sex. And no, I'm not going to mess up my (birth control) system with men I'm not attracted to so they can get their thing wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 12:35 PM
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Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 12:17 PM
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I wasn't talking about ugly men. Women are always more beautiful than men. Physically and facially. You hear men say "she can't be fat, she has to be cute though." Why can't she be ugly? The number of attractive men is low compared to the number of attractive women. Especially in the early 20's. That's what I'm talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 02:10 PM
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So by definition a woman lowering her standards is settling Right. So you want women to "lower their standards" but at the same time "not settle" for you No, what they're saying is that they want you to settle for them when YOU ARE YOUNG AND BEAUTIFUL AND (almost) PURE. Nope when you're old, ugly, and with a high bodycount.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 01:51 PM
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quickest solution is to reset the media, put more ugly people on social media and mens standards will lower So men can start dating ugly women please. We must convince men that beauty and appearance are not important in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 01:44 PM
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Why would an attractive man commit when women are giving sex out so easily? So it's men fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 01:18 PM
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Yes, he will always compare himself to the other guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 04:14 PM
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Some men can't accept that women enjoy sex TOO, women who want to just have sex with attractive men (of course) seems to hurt the ego of these guys... Every time a woman has sex her motive is to form a serious long-term relationship with the guy. It must be hard to live in these minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 04:10 PM
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This is what I was about to write. Just because Billy cannot do the same as Chad NOW it doesn't mean he won't do it eventually. Average men are not " nicer" than hot dudes and in some cases more likely to be sullen/resentful and treat their GFs with indifference. This is important because most men can't (?) get women, imagine the day he finally gets a girlfriend. Loneliness and resentment grow and do NOT stop once he has a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 03:14 PM
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Most men are still immature and especially if he isn't some handsome lad Excuses to sleep better at night. will attract a lot of relatively young women How? to her that she is GENUINELY interested in Provider, that's genuine. Men are happy to become providers for younger women. sadly they will also be lonely and unable to find a partner Until they lose weight. she will either be attracting men MUCH older than herself (think 50s) Men are happy to become providers for younger women, thanks to prov…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 07:03 PM
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I'm starting to believe it's a lie some men tell themselves because I care a lot. I can't judge his past, he didn't know me. But do I want to share my life with him? No because we're not compatible. No damage. It depends on the country I guess or maybe it has something to do with today's dating world. If only a % have a lot of sex with women in these times of #nomeansno, of course for other men he's god.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 05:28 PM
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Women naturally on an attraction level don’t care about mens n-counts Well, It works for SOME women, I care a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 05:07 PM
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They're buying their "love" and "faithfulness" with money.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 02:09 PM
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If a woman doesn't give you her body, ... she isn't interested in you? Maybe. It could means that she's not in the mood RIGHT NOW, It could means that she's on her period, It could means that she learned that men are obssesed with sex and decided to wait and see how you'll take it, because...you're a man too. It could means that your personality stands out but your looks don't arouse her sexual desire, and "God knows why some women do this" she chooses to set up another date. It may be her cultu…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 01:54 PM
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In my opinion, both genres are similar. You've been able to verify it. Women want to have fun before they settle down and men want the same. There are always exceptions, but it seems to be very common nowadays (?). The problem comes when the rules are based on one gender. The term slut is widely used by men. Expectations are not only expressed and repeated for women, the judgment about their past is always harsh. The only ones who "suffer" are those who want to participate before the age of 30 (…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 01:29 PM
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I'll take it. Women have always been told to be this and only this to attract men. Today, women are doing the same (?). Does this sound like equality? even if that did happen If?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 11:43 AM
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she just didn't care to see them. What do you expect her to do?... ask them out when most of them aren't willing to do it? or force herself to be attracted to them? Sounds like her problem not mine She could say the same thing about those "nice" guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 06:30 PM
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hahaha that's cute...projection! See my comments below Better, keep avoiding your personal insecurities by encouraging emotional abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 06:25 PM
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And If the ugliest man could have both worlds, he would do it too. In fact, it happens. They're painfully rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 05:19 PM
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So there should be no complaints. It's a choice they made and they should be proud of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 05:14 PM
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They use sex with men But women also enjoy sex, we must do. They enjoyed the sex with these men and that's why they keep coming back, is it not possible? Not after they have been pumped and dumped And this is why most men remain single. But she did with other guys. So what? Maybe she was very young and therefore naive. Maybe she had no hope of finding someone to love and the "nice" guys were busy counting the stars and then some Chad came around and the rest is history.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 05:11 PM
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Sex with a man they're not attracted to... do you have any experience related to this?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 04:52 PM
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That's cool and all but you're not answering the question. Sex. The sexual part...does she has to hold the breath until he finishes it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 04:50 PM
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I haven't made the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 04:46 PM
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Why is it believed that the most attractive men are those who are probably not looking for anything serious? They're attractive and young and testosterone is kicking and like most guys, sex is a priority. Is not true? Just deny it and women will start prioritizing other things to win men's "hearts". No man could be with a woman who doesn't turn him on when he sees her... maybe lowered their standards for physical attractiveness? The truth is some (?) women seem to lower their standards as they a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 04:43 PM
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Chad wants to fuck on the first date. Chad only? They don't want Chad's leftovers This mentality is what keeps 90% of men single.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 04:09 PM
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Yes, because grown men can't think for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 04:04 PM
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They exist but are almost always already in relationships. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 04:03 PM
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...emotional abuse...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 04:02 PM
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I see women all the time Where? and trying to get a LTR How? low their standards Isn't that what most men want? but don't want that LTR to be about sex? ...just because she didn't take her clothes off on the first date?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 03:58 PM
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If you ask me out, I could reject you at any time If you're in a long-term relationship, you can break up at any time, yes. A woman who approaches a man is not always well seen too. It screams desperation and masculinity to most. Men might be playing on hard mode, but they have the game controller. That's what I'm talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 10:25 PM
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I was talking about this with my girlfriends a few hours ago. It's about power. I think women should take advantage of the situation, so I partially agree. Do some men prefer to split the bill? More power to me because maybe I just wanted a date, some attention and that's it. No sex afterwards or any other expectations. Do you want me to ask you out and plan the date? More power to me since I discovered (recently) that I'm less anxious when I have some control over the situation. Rejection only …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 05:17 PM
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Then women are the shallow ones. Then women have high standards. Such an interesting post.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 05:01 PM
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#1. They will have many things in common. I stopped reading here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 12:09 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 06:42 AM
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It’s rare to find a list detailing how women fail a relationship, which is a bit suspect. It's easy. Reread your list (good btw) and you'll get answers.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 06:40 AM
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Still doesn't answer my question. Cheating does go for both genders (this was easy!) but I'll take it and I'll say he must knew it. I know how much men don't want to carry the weight when the relationship ends. "We are the gatekeepers of relationships", really? Some men just want the benefit. So I'll try again. Men are the guardians of relationships. Men usually put the ring on her, not the other way around. Men are making that decision. To make the right decision, men have to do tons of "shit t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 06:28 AM
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Both. Question: If men are the gatekeepers of relationships, are men the only ones to blame when the relationship fails?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 04:36 AM
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I am not attracted to feminine men... Now, in my opinion, men with feminine traits make the best partners, so my loss. Relationships between a woman with masculine traits and a man with feminine traits are intense, addictive. Unfortunately, they don't seem to last, most of the time there is conflict. Changing roles and who does what, seems tiring when society has already written some rules for you. Men don't have to be anything, so I don't pressure my man to be or do something he's not comfortab…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 03:33 PM
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Just read the title. I was wrongly (?) taught that a woman who asks out a man is a prostitute. When a woman walk towards his car she's inviting herself to him. She's making the approaching and there is a higher risk in doing so compared to men approaching women. Both genders risk their reputation but his success, getting the number is better seen than her success in society. "She's being easy, therefore she's a prostitute." Look, I like men because they behave like men. Men will approach, men wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 05:22 PM
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"If she can't cum, is not my fault" "women are bad" yeah keep coping haha fear of being judged, I suppose...like speak up, just ask and she will tell you...but you won't beacuse...? You keep f*king women, so why should she care?? You're a toy for her...too. the funny part is that most of these men have no self-respect. It's funny and... sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 04:16 PM
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And I bet you didn't let her know...typical.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 04:06 PM
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And the average man still wants to fuck this "below" average woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 12:35 AM
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Q4M: Would you date a woman like this ? Without makeup, from the start of the relationship. What are the odds of asking her out without the makeup?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 01:33 AM
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You're drawing a false equivalency. I'm not, they are comparable. I don't care if ypu shave. I don't care why you wear perfume Of course you don't care, why should you? I was just trying to give you the reason why I think makeup and beard can and should be comparable, but you're running in circles lol. Now no shave is the "real" version. I will do the same. Will you ask your girlfriend to shave her armpits? mustache? maybe be more discriminate about what soaps and shampoos you use. I mostly just…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 10:09 PM
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No, I don't like makeup. No, I don't use makeup and yes, it's the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 09:49 PM
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Alright, it's his body doing its thing. Let's compare. Should women stop shaving their armpits? what about the mustache?should I shave my legs? The soap, the shampoo and the perfume I use daily raise my level of attractiveness, I hope. But they're come from random sources, should I stop using them too? We should all stop using them because we're fooling people. Moreover, not all men can grow a beard, I think you know it.(?) Some need products. Comparable. Women use makeup to... look better, why …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 08:19 PM
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Good grooming is just showing the best of your features, while wearing makeup is lying about them. Sure lol, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 07:37 PM
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I can assure you that they dont wear makeup. Of course... beards dont count, those are natural, makeups not natural. Because you say it...no, it counts. Like it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 03:12 PM
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So then why not say it about the hair on his head then. Ok, beard and baldness. A man getting bald has never bother me though. Only make up is comparable to make up, or fake beards No, it's comparable. Because a beard will happen regardless of if someone wants it to or not. That's untrue, but it's alright I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 03:09 PM
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If a man is more attractive with beard and less attractive with beard...it can be compared perfectly. In fact, it happens. Jawline contouring, jawline filler, Jawline exercises... It's fast with a beard. Some men lose masculinity (?) without a beard, which is the reason why...they do it. "Wipe it off at the end of the day" is not what I'm talking about. Its effect is what matters and men know it, so the makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 02:49 PM
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haha if you say it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 02:38 PM
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other humans? Bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 02:15 PM
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Dating is already enjoyable for women...I don't understand what you mean by insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 02:14 PM
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Actors, models, athletes, presenters, singers, musicians... they all wear makeup and are men. Now seeing my man doing his "Adam Lambert" makeup routine would turn me off. But seeing my man taking care of his nails, hair and skin would turn me on. Hopefully, that's what I do. Stop dating women with makeup. If something like this happens to you, encourage her to stop wearing makeup. ​ at the end of the night he takes off his makeup and goes from a Chad to an Oscar the grouch? It happens, it's call…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 01:09 PM
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I didnt say anything about bettering the lives of women. Of course. Makeup has its negative side and that's why I said "bettering" the lives of women. My question, is why do you want to normalize no makeup on women? Why should women accept the way they look naturally and not wear make up? No, that wasn't the question, but I'll say it again, look for acne, blemishes and pimples. Do women turn you on with or without makeup? If it doesn't matter, that's a good step. Do you respect women without mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 12:59 PM
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hahaha that's a cute move...no Adriana Lima looks very good without makeup. If you want to prove it again, feel free to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 12:41 PM
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No... prove it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 12:04 PM
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I don't know. I don't trust men looking for bettering (?) the lives of women. I mean, why should they? I sense malice. Some of you have the need to put young women on the same level as young men. Average or below average. There's no need to do that because we're all average, anyway but for some men, makeup is a deceptive tactic. Date women without makeup then. I think we should encourage men to only date women without makeup. Look for acne, blemishes and pimples. If you ever get a chance to date…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 12:03 PM
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Yes, you're absolutely right about people who have never struggled to find romantic relationships. They will tell you "don't look" or "let it find you". But I'm afraid I disagree with you about self-improvement being a waste of time. It's not about finding the love of your life. It's about learning to enjoy your own company and the odds of meeting someone while you're "busy" are high.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 08:55 PM
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When I was a 20 year old man ,I would have happily banged a hot woman with nothing else going on for herself if little effort were required. But as a 30 year old man I'm not looking to wife up a woman who hasn't her shit together or isn't willing to do so. And it's problematic if young women do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 09:19 PM
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Interesting...how?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 08:53 PM
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I'm not looking for equality (roles) in marriage, so that's fine with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 02:04 PM
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I think you're not being totally fair. How do you become social when you were a-social all your life? How do you connect with others when others don't want to connect with you? Social interaction can't be forced. Most young men are attractive, but it doesn't matter because most young men who complain don't interact with other people. Here's the problem. We can't go from "being attractive" to "being extroverted." You are who you are. We don't tell young girls to be extroverts. What these young me…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 12:56 PM
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You're right! but I'm talking about honesty. I know that most women appreciate honesty (and men too). Believe it or not, I don't care. And well, he was "hot/my type" and surprise, surprise... I rejected his advances! why if he was "hot"?!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 08:48 PM
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Easy, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 08:36 PM
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would you rather have men approach women with a "let's fuck/smash"? Yes. One day a guy approached me, his true intentions were pretty obvious, but he decided to "play the role" and let me tell you something. If he had said "hi, I know this is going to sound inappropriate, but would you like to fuck one of these days?" I would have said "yes, why not?". And I'm not into casual sex at.all. Honesty is sexy. Having "ulterior motives" isn't a bad thing For both genders? good.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 05:16 PM
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Unfortunately I'm in the position where I only like girls who are normal weight, There are normal weight women who date obese men because that attracts them. The truth is that losing weight and being slightly fit will increase your chances of finding a girlfriend or just having sex. Mainly on OLD. Some guys here won't acknowledge that they need to improve their physical attractiveness (social skills too?) and will simply claim that women are... fat. what normal weight girl would want to be with …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 09:10 AM
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taller THAN them? yeah...no.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 02:49 PM
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looks ≠ abusive men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 10:40 AM
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men: "I think women are prettier without makeup, plus they're fooling people" also men: *keep dating women with makeup*
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 02:31 AM
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but men with leadership are more attractive to women Are women with leadership more attractive to men? We are supposed to be equal What does equality have to do with dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 02:21 AM
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loyal SO haha
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 01:44 AM
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lol I've never cheated on my ex and I'm against it. I don't know what you understood but no, you didn't. That's not what I mean with "cheat" haha
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 01:41 AM
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Yes, they have a lot in common, the same sense of humor, same tastes in music and they just care about each other. The support remains... they just can't be together as a couple, they tried and failed...what's your position?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 12:05 AM
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Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 11:36 PM
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The same old story, they fall in love, everything goes well and after a while they start arguing a lot and then they break up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 11:31 PM
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ok, they love each other but this time in a friendly way. It happens but they will never get back together, what do you say now?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 10:21 PM
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There's no way to get back together. They just get along very well, they have a lot in common. That's it. Is it still a no for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 10:06 PM
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If she won’t “break up” with him yes, ending the friendship is not possible, because for her he's someone very important in her life. I guess I’d go get a bunch of my own female “best friends.” She's not sleeping with him. No sex, just a friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 10:01 PM
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It matters? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 09:55 PM
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haha
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 09:18 PM
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Q4M: The girl you're dating gets along with her ex, to the point of being best friends. This friendship is quite important to her and "breaking up" is not on the table. What's your position in this situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 09:16 PM
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trolling or fantasizing Both...because it's not that hard to understand. do you expect him to accept you regardless and understand? I don't expect anything lol, we're incompatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 09:09 PM
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I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 07:33 PM
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haha a man plays with time in his favor, but I, as a woman, can't do the same? Yes, I don't care! "I have my concept of being single," that's how I start. "that's why I want to get married" is how it ends. If I break up with him, he'll know why. If he finds out I got married, he can't say I cheated on him.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 07:31 PM
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Thank you! this is what it means but not exactly haha I never wanted to get married, but my ex...I don't like to talk about it, but long story short, if I don't have a ring, I'm still (legally) single. I can keep looking for someone better (?) to share my life with and I don't have to feel guilty about it. There is no paper that forces me to stay and fight if I don't want to, only marriage can do that. One day, I was talking to a co-worker about marriage and children...everything changed that da…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 04:47 PM
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Should have gotten a prenup or married a career woman who makes alot of money. They never seem to understand this part. Of course, because "men don't care about women's money". Well, that's the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 03:13 PM
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Am I the bad guy if I break up with a guy after seeing him without a beard?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 10:06 PM
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Well that's........weird. Your nose is different from the rest of the people when we.... smile.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 10:00 PM
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Maybe. I can see a woman and think “she is meh”, but I can also see that she's beautiful in her own way. Like "look, I'm similar to her", so I don't need to use these "numbers", used most of the time to feel better about myself. I can see the potential in all men, but men... I might be wrong but women love themselves more than men. That's what I'm feeling right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 09:58 PM
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Girl 2 has masculine features. What is that supposed to mean? lol You guys are obsessed with numbers. I like to believe that women love themselves more than men. Simple. I see it now, It has little to do with being delusional but with self-respect. You don't go around calling yourself "below average." That's... wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 09:44 PM
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Oh my God...take a mirror and smile for me. What differences have you seen?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 09:30 PM
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If you're attractive, you don't need it (pic) If you're pretty, you don't need it (pic)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 09:07 PM
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That's cool! lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 08:59 PM
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oh, do you date women without this artificial thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 08:46 PM
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Where is the deception here? 1- Mmmm There is NOT enough makeup in the world to turn an average woman into a supermodel. 2 - Mmmm She is an average without makeup and she looks wild with makeup. Where she goes? 3 - Mmmm If you are attractive, you are attractive. No tricks. 4 - Mmmm
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 08:36 PM
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Common sense? where? ...I don't wear makeup lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 08:21 PM
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Show me a picture of a trans person as a cis woman, I don't understand this part. japanese makeup That's a massive transformation and that's what I don't see daily on women with makeup. I think change is not the same as improve, yes. men should date women who wear little to no make up Without makeup...with acne, blemishes and pimples.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 08:20 PM
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WE ARE ALL average. Perhaps we are seeing two different things... I don't get your "she's average without makeup" point. Of course she is average! She has two eyes, a nose, a mouth, and hair on her head. She's still very pretty to me, long before all that makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 08:10 PM
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Japanese makeup / transformation? Men put the right makeup on and can pass as a woman. That's.not.possible. Like I said, these guys should date women without makeup from now on. No more surprises in the morning.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 07:58 PM
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I'm not buying it. Most men don't trim their beards because it would show their lack of facial structure, the most attractive feature in a man, right?. What differentiates men from women...yeah, deceitful. When you don't need it, you don't use it. There are attractive women without makeup. Are there unattractive men without beards? Moreover, some men can't grow a beard naturally... If it's fake for you, women who remove their mustaches are fake too. Those guys should date women without makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 07:51 PM
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2 points? increase? She's very pretty to me. More without makeup. This is what I'm talking about. "If I'm a 3, everyone is a 3 too!"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 07:37 PM
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Standing out will get him laid that night!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 07:32 PM
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I started doing makeup very young. I used to take my mother's eyeliner and the result was explosive. And I started doing it with high self-esteem. It was pure fun, I never thought "this is what boys want". Women feel insecure just like men feel insecure. The comparison is horrible and unfortunately many young women feel insecure with themselves because they don't meet beauty standards. Pressure is new to young men today. It wasn't like that before and that's why I think it's a projection. Some g…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 07:19 PM
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That's what I thought. Women have pimples, acne, blemishes. Women also have mustaches. Some women look sick without makeup and sometimes old, which CAN affect their job prospects. If they DON'T like that transformation, the ideal is to look for women with these characteristics without fear of showing it because they are out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 07:01 PM
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There are some guys who have little or no love for themselves. And I'm starting to believe that the makeup argument is a projection. There is no amount of makeup that can make an average woman look like a supermodel. It's not possible in any way. If the average woman cheats with makeup, the average man cheats with a beard. If the average woman cheats with her makeup, the average man cheats with his hat. If you don't like makeup on women, date women who don't wear makeup. Edit: Also, if the place…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 06:29 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 05:21 PM
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A man's body is beautiful. Society chooses to place greater emphasis on the female body because it "sells"quickly. When I go out, I come across with lots of average men and unsurprisingly they're very attractive, but there's a difference and is achievable. Many average men would improve their attractiveness by choosing better clothes, better haircuts, and better skin care. Most choose not to because, luckily for them, beauty and attractiveness are not a major requirement when it comes to dating.…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 02:10 AM
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I think you're wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 09:26 PM
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(I’m 19) First it's good to see that you decide to cook for yourself instead of waiting for a girl to do it. I mean, what is that supposed to mean? You are now a grown man! Now you're 19...will you use this same statement in your mid-20s? What about your 30s? And your 40s? No girls? No women? Never? No sexual feelings towards women? Romantic relationships FOMO? No? Great then! you ain’t doing productive shit like following ur passions like music for example lol how do you know? Ah yes, tik tok g…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 09:06 PM
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Unfortunately, moving to an area outside the US where prostitution is legal is not an option. Why not? Wouldn't you jump to a greater job opportunities outside US? I will never say that it's easy, but we're talking about your well-being. If you cannot find what you're looking for inside, see outside. Time to move the boxes, again. If is too much, prostitution is legal, just find the balance between work here and sex here. ​ but they said the women are shallow and are more concerned with their mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 12:01 PM
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Then move, change location. If a man is willing to do it for a job, it should be no different with his sex life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 10:08 AM
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Very well said!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 11:28 PM
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Asking us to be empathetic after surreptitiously say that women in their 30s are generally less attractive. I would believe "all of this is happening" if men in their 30s, 40s, 50s, and 60s stopped pursuing relationships with women in their 30s. And when I say relationships I mean sex too. But there is the mother, grandma and wife are also very respected by men... the ones who famously cook, clean and take care of the kids, only. Being "this tall" seems imperative these days (uninstall tinder). …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 11:17 PM
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I think it's very common. Idealization and group pressure for both genders. FOMO. It's more evident when you're very young. The young generation lives their lives through their phones and the comparison is inevitable. A lot of the men I've seen who ask about how to get into dating often preface the post with a highlight of a current lack of friend circle I once read somewhere (can't remember the article) that (heterosexual) men tend to seek out romantic relationships with women, not only for the…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 09:38 PM
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This is tough to read and you're a man (?). Look beyond, there are men who don't want to be men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 08:35 PM
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So you agree being a man is shit. No. I really believe that being a man is better than being a woman because men have time and beauty is not required. Same with youth. Time is on man's side. Men only have to list the pros and cons of being a woman to figure it out. Now, I also recognize the hierarchy that exists in society and not all men are treated equally. Therefore, not all men are the privileged gender. I think women should too Like what? physical attractiveness? social skills? Self-improve…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 10:54 PM
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These womem could take initiative. Why be born as a woman if you are going to be treated as a man? "Taking the initiative" was always the role of a man. It was always a masculine trait. My point is that if it is true that women live on easy mode, the ugly woman should not do anything, just exist, right?. It's not true. They are the target of bad men. We just tell them the perfect man will fall in their lap one day and that they dont have to try hard. To be fair, it worked in the past. Women were…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 09:02 PM
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No I wouldn't . If I'm dating someone it's to start a relationship with this person. I don't want to waste my time. And if I do, I'd like to be paid for it lol. I would definitely ignore the message. 2 questions... what do these women out of your league gain from dating you? And why do they have to be girls you consider out of your league? You are attracted to these girls...there is no point in doing if it weren't the case. I smell some kind of trick. "...I send this message to girls out of my l…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 06:40 PM
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Point me in the direction of the pool of unattractive women who can't find partners Unattractive women exist and they're having problems since FOREVER to find someone. I don't understand why is difficult for some men to believe this. When you hear "an unattractive woman" what do think am I referring to exactly? Are we talking about long term relationships/marriage or casual sex? Where do you think these women live? In a cave? They've gone to high school and they've gone to college. They have see…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 07:01 PM
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Unattractive women can easily find a partner How? Tell me how so we can help them. Men's standards are below sea level That's not a compliment. there are an ocean of simps and incels who would happily date ugly women An ocean of men willing to take any woman because other women don't want them. Also, not all but most incels have a bad reputation.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 12:05 PM
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What dating/sex myths about women should absolutely not be believed? All women are having sex. All women are already taken. All women have relationships. Lies. Ugly women, unattractive women, autistic women exist. It may be more complicated for men, I'll never deny it, but it doesn't mean that the dating world is easier for women because...they're women. ​ but idk if all girls are like that I encourage you to discover it for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 11:43 AM
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The issue is that empries never liberate men from there gender roles. What gender roles?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 07:12 PM
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This is going to hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 07:09 PM
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Friendzoned.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 04:17 PM
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Yeah, he's completely wrong but it must helps him sleep at night so it's alright. Just remember, It's an opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 02:21 PM
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most guys are absolutely losers at 25 The change is very possible before that age but is easier to not do anything. get some friends to not be lonely, pay prostitutes to sate your sexual desires, take the opportunity if a woman shows interest but don't bank on it Why do you really want to have kids? he is likely to be at least 1,70 Of course, because men don't complain about the most desired standard among women, height. "Watch what they do, not what they say", right?. Who knows, how dating mark…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 06:49 AM
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it's often enough... She's not going to "love" you, is that ok? She might have a lover and every time you leave, she runs into his arms, is that ok?. After years of loneliness, lack of intimacy, having worked hard to finally earn lots of money at last in your 40s and in the end be betrayed like this, is that ok? Then I support you. After you have your desired kids Make sure that she's taller...too If you don't want to ruin your sons lives. Keep an eye on genetic. have kids with super hot girl Co…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 05:52 AM
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You've just dodge a bullet. Keep dating, have fun and have sex when you're ready. why being a virgin would be a turn off? It's a turnoff for experienced men. There are experienced men and women who don't want to be a virgin's "first time." It requires emotions and most have already left that port. Edit: You've just dodge a bullet. What is the ideal number for a woman to have? Nobody can and should give you a number. Sex is pleasure. You'll set the limit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 05:02 AM
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haha
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 07:25 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 05:22 PM
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I'm just going to say... without forgetting that your theory has several loose ends, it's good to know that there are men willing to have babies without involving a woman in the process. Now, the constant threat of replacement is my favorite part. I have a better idea. The total disappearance of women. A world of men only. The woman is no longer necessary for reproduction.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 02:04 PM
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Many will deny it. Find your equal compatible with your needs, I say. Good post, time will prove you right.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 03:17 AM
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haha I deleted the question because it might be personal. I knew she was very young. This may sounds... but I "see" what she's thinking. She's very young and a young girl will generally be "attractive". Lots of options. Boys her age and older men are leading her to believe this. When we are young, especially us women, our standards are very very high. Young men also have their "type of girl" but they're attracted to most young women, they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 12:59 PM
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No. I'm not the best example though. Only one LTR, the man I lost my virginity to.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 07:32 AM
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Tough, tough times for young men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 07:26 AM
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4: male slightly more attractive Right!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 01:19 AM
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We're seeing the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 01:17 AM
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A must.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 12:29 AM
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my former friend Great.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 12:17 AM
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I need to see an example of a "skinny" man. Picture?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 02:31 PM
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Thank you for this comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 10:28 PM
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lol alright but you cannot negotiate sexual attraction. The higher the attraction, the best the sex. If the father is a deadbeat, bad luck I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 09:57 PM
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I must confess that I tend to underestimate testosterone in men. I've completely forgotten. But still, my point is that I am very attracted to men and they are not that "equal" physically speaking. Even with this information, I'm not willing to have sex with most of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 09:49 PM
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They hate the idea that the woman they are with is only with them out of convenience. It doesn't mean they don't want to be desired too. It's not a real problem. Attraction can't be negotiated. You are wondering why they seem to force an attraction that doesn't exist. Lack of sexual intimacy. Lack of support and closeness. Friends are good and all that, but men are not that "emotional". I believe that some men are looking for this other part and a woman can provide it. They are also young and th…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 12:59 PM
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Is it because the woman's body is more stimulating than the man's body? I'm thinking about our clothes, our hair... An hour ago walking on the street I felt attracted to several men, It doesn't mean I want to sleep with all of them. It may be that men are not at risk of pregnancy like women. If men had wombs, would they think of the attraction part first?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 12:26 PM
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Men love for real at this stage in life What stage?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 07:27 AM
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So true.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 08:10 PM
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There are people who live with the fear of dying alone. That's not an issue for me. The truth is that maybe he will. He will break up with her and she will find herself in her late 30's anyway single and childless. I don't take dating advice from the internet seriously. It strikes me that you only talk about women and singleness. ​ there is a huge risk for women in leaving a good guy who inevitably makes mistakes or doesn't treat them right 100% of the time like a flawed human. Can you define "g…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 08:07 PM
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What I think these men mean is that a young girl should KNOW how to choose a "good" man. Shy but "nice"young men with poor social skills lock themselves in their bedrooms and don't know how to approach an attractive young woman without their legs shaking. But she must do it before the age of 30 because women lose value as they age. Even if he's less attractive than you. They talk about women's standards being high and obsessing over things they can't control like height. But we women have no con…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 06:03 PM
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Yes, thank you, it's good to hear this said it by a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 06:06 AM
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have fun with me for months without planning for the future or asking anything in exchange... That's beautiful and all but not planning for the future is not for every women. Here and elsewhere. You don't want gold diggers and some women don't want players and men wasting their time because our time is limited and it sucks. I really don't think women are the problem. Men want to chill. Men must know what they're exactly looking for in a woman and invest on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 05:00 AM
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(sigh) alright... I don't understand the (risk time with someone for the first time encounter) but I see what you're trying to say. To clarify a bit more, If I ever get the chance to meet someone online, someone from Norway, Ireland, Brazil and during our time together we share phone calls, we share the same values, we share the same future for our relationship, I would definitely go to the airport to pick him up, even if it takes me 9 hours on the road. I'm risking my time, energy and life. But…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 04:48 AM
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That is not true. Talk to women, young girls and you will see that many women want what you're talking about. A fairy tale story for a modern man is an unrealistic standard, I heard. They will say "beta" and a modern man will not be a "beta" to an american woman. Prince Charming is a "simp" for his girl. But modern men will shame other men for putting their girl on a pedestal. Hypergamy works sometimes. It has nothing to do with rap music, movies, social media, and modern feminism. South America…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 01:18 AM
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You choose to not trust first without me giving a reason not to be trusted. It's not always a choice. Experience speaks sometimes, you can't just ignore it. Maybe she's more ready to give in. Maybe she lacks of experiences on love, romance and of course, heartbreaks. Read what I've said. Her love language is compatible with yours, that's great. You seem to understand but I'm not sure...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 12:05 AM
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It's like a fever "me, myself and no one else" in the West. Modern men ready to praise women but won't give it unless they see reciprocity. ​ A big thing she did was take a 9 hour busride to see me at the airport. I cannot do that. How do I know that I can trust you? If I had done that to all the men I've ever dated, they'd see me as a fool. I'm willing to move mountains for the man I love, that's for sure. ​ Edit: I can do that lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 11:47 PM
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It is true that in some cultures the family is the most important thing. But I highly doubt you can't find a family-oriented woman in your home country. In any case, I wish you luck, you know. I hope you find what you're looking for with this girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 11:05 PM
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Made me feel wanted, realized that this culture had many values I wish the USA had more of I need more details. What differences do you see in their treatment? Is there a gap between both of you less visible in the West? I believe that it is easier for the modern man to find a "wife" abroad than in his native country. Men from those countries... do not seem difficult to compete with. Advantages and disadvantages of being with someone from a "more" developed country and with a more "open" mind. H…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 10:37 PM
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I don't know to what extent men are just as guilty as women in this behavior. This is solved by not looking for validation of any kind and not biting off more than one can swallow. When we like someone, we put up with it. When we start dating someone new, faced with behavior that on another occasion we would not have tolerated, we tolerate it by giving in. I've been there, only once because I'm not going to play any games. High standards someone would call it. I can't find better terms but submi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 08:04 PM
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Another one. I don't like games. she will use that to denigrate your leadership in her own mind in her own mind...your leadership.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 06:24 PM
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Well, you're only 20 years old. Right now you might prefer to focus on your studies and relationships with your friends is enough. I don't know what your relationship with girls is like, but unless you're truly asexual (?), the need for sex will knock on your door. Not because you want to have sex, masturbation is enough. You're going to want to do what everyone else does. You may be wondering what it feels like. Relationships and sex. I used to think the same way and then I met someone. Overnig…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 02:11 AM
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No, I would not. They are past partners for a reason and I want to move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 09:04 PM
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And this is what most inexperienced young men talk about. Understandable.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 09:49 AM
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I'm straight and I would choose to be single for life. Trying women doesn't sound bad though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 06:05 AM
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How am I supposed to get an answer If I don't ask the question? Look up the differences. I know it seems confusing but it's not, really. I'll help you. WHY are your friends your friends and HOW did you meet your friends? DID you meet your friends on the streets, walking and minding your own business? on the grocery store at midnight? I'll help you a bit more, I don't fuck my friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 06:00 AM
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If all these guys were average, would women seek them out before they're snatched up, or would they still pass on them? I would pass on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 04:40 AM
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I think you are going to need to find the differences between a friend, an acquaintance and an unknown person. But as far as I suspect, doing so would screw up your "man and woman can't be friends" theory. For now, read the title of the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 04:31 AM
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I don't take approaches seriously. Some random dude: "Hi. How's your day? I like your hairstyle." All I hear is "sex, sex and sex". Some random dude: "Hi. I'm new in the town and I'm looking for some friends." All I hear is "sex, sex and sex" Some random dude: "Hi pretty girl". Another dude "practising". Is it actually true? It happens and I'm not "that" pretty. Do you actually get approached in the supermarket No, I don't. Or walking on the streets? Yes, it happens. How do you react? It's annoy…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 01:34 AM
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ah yes, the "practice with an ugly girl" or "get the girlfriend experience with an unattractive girl" How to trust and know there are good intentions on every interactions with men these days, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 12:56 AM
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I was thinking the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 08:21 PM
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he was keeping her as a back up. So, men do this too?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 08:04 PM
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I wonder if they'll still date women in their twenties when they're in their 40's and 50's and 60's...that's what I want to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 05:49 AM
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What do they need to do in order to get a 5/10 girlfriend in 2022? Men below the top 20% attractiveness who can't find a relationship, how is a 5/10 girlfriend? - Low your standards. You might be looking for this type of girl but only this kind of girl approach you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 04:26 AM
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what's next?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 04:04 AM
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I don't wear makeup because of the damage they can cause, yes and because I look younger with no makeup. I really want to believe that men prefer women without makeup, but I can't help but think that it's a way of gaining power over women. Is this what men prefer widely?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 04:03 AM
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I see, the dating world being fair to everyone and treating both genders equally. It will always be easier for the average woman than the average man. No amount of no makeup would change the so-called unrealistic requirements of women, am I wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 03:51 AM
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Off topic: Men with feminine traits will date women with masculine traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 11:25 PM
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Also young Men want LTR more than young Women because Men want someone who is a good fit while Women just want to bang Chad dated based on fit Can you explain it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 11:23 PM
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Do you believe that women should stop wearing makeup altogether?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 11:03 PM
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You might be right. I googled "aesthetic body" and that's why I wanted to point it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 07:05 PM
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how do you think that would affect relationships among cis gendered straight couples? I don't see many changes. As you have said, they will eventually look for a relationship. In cases of deadbedrooms, the problem would be solved for a short time. ​ Do you think guys will stop being so thirsty for non sex worker women's attention because they can get laid/intimacy/affection No, I don't think so. ​ Do you think less men would try to get into relationships? (Or at least put it off longer) It will …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 06:54 PM
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Men and WOMEN should go to the gym and never let it go. They are both being deceived, especially the women. That men can always make up for their looks with money and that women are sexy the way they are because men have lower standards compared to women, It's not a compliment. Exercising and seeing your body slightly fit in the mirror is priceless. It will improve your options in the dating world. Having said that, I don't like muscular men. I rejected a man with that body in the past and I wil…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 06:30 PM
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The last paragraph, you are absolutely right. I mean,"being yourself" will take you longer to find that person, but if you manage to find them in the end, you won't be able to say it wasn't worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 09:27 PM
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Exactly. More reasons for women to make the pleasant decision. A man willing to fuck everything that moves will never be taken as a form of compliment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 05:58 PM
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Men want the bunch Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 05:33 PM
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Women know that these men have many options just as men know that the most attractive woman in the room has many options. The difference is that men approach and women choose. If I have to choose between so many horny men, because as you have said, men are usually hornier than us, why not choose the most handsome and popular man then? The quality of the experience is what matters. "He won't be around for long, but I've slept with the most attractive man in the room." If a man has the opportunity…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 05:12 PM
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cute enough to get fucked, nothing more. That's a confirmation at last.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 08:28 PM
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They will tell you money. He could be a very positive man, he could be generous and trustworthy. An amazing lover. He can also be an undamaged man and it shows. I picture myself sucking my kind of man's cock for hours and he's not sexy at all. He is tall though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 08:07 PM
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I agree on not to date someone you are not attracted to. If a man is ugly, lazy and poor. Why do I want to be with him? It's easy to understand. He wouldn't be with me if I were ugly, lazy, poor and not at all fertile. But it is also true that depositing our happiness in another person is immature and this is the conclusion I have due to the last paragraph of the post. I believe that women should stop seeking validation from men. Come on, it's not fair to men. We don't need them, do we? Women ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 07:19 PM
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You caught me, I want a man unable to have sex without paying by my side. Better, I want a man who pays prostitutes for sex by my side. I don't want the government to legalize prostitution completely because if they do, these men who turn me on sooo much will stop paying attention to me. There are guys who think the same as you out there. I'm keeping my eyes open. "If prostitution were completely legalized, we wouldn't need women from Tinder. I don't want company, affection, commitment, and last…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 11:08 AM
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Equal. Questions: Do men refuse to go out with their lookmatch? If a man is a 4/10, will he date another 4/10? If a man has a father's body, will he date a woman with the same physical characteristics?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 03:19 PM
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Good.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 02:09 PM
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Sex work encounters will be arranged online It exists already. I guess It depends of location. Easy solution, move out. Still against? If it's going to affect me (see my previous answer) yes, I'm against. What will you contrive now as your excuse for being against sexual liberty? I'm not against any sexual liberty, really. Women get benefits and men see benefits. You're free to see a prostitute. It's your body. But If we're going to live in the same country, I'll speak out. why does your contemp…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:00 AM
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By expanding sexual liberty you mean easier access, right? I'm against. Because I don't want to see prostitutes "waiting" near the door of my house, because I want to have children and I refuse to educate them in that environment and more importantly, I don't respect the men who once paid a prostitute for sex and by legalizing prostitution altogether, it would force me to eliminate any possibility of finding a man who has never used the services of a prostitute where I live. The only option I wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 03:03 AM
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We agree then.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 02:43 AM
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Thanks for answering.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 01:53 AM
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As I stated, I understand your sentiment. I understand the concepts and I get that unattractive young men are missing the key experience of making love to a young woman. I see young women everyday and they're painfully attractive. There are young prostitutes. I fiercely encourage an incel to delete Tinder, leave women alone and go for a young prostitute. Better, he can do this forever. No need to find a girlfriend or thinking about a wife many years later. If an incel can't see a prostitute in h…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 01:51 AM
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From my understanding, It's when a woman isn't getting the same attention as before and her options are running out. 30 is the official age for most of them. And If you wonder If men have a "wall", the answer will be no. As long as they have lots of money and they're not balding, they'll never get old. ​ But humans are supposed to age, what’s the point of shaming people for it? A fantasy of revenge. They know that women are more valued for their youth and beauty. Society teaches us since we are …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 01:32 AM
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she's slightly more attractive What differences do you see? I guess there's no information about his personality...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 12:29 AM
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What I understand from your post is that a post-wall woman has nothing to offer you. The youth of the woman is what seems to matter. You see, you're not different from them. Few questions. What does a LVM have to offer to a very young and beautiful woman in her twenties? What is the difference between a LVM and the men she decided to fuck during her twenties? Having the chance, would you have married her in your early twenties or would you have played the field? I hope that the sexual market rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 12:23 AM
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Got married at 26 I need more details. How is the man she got married to? (personality and physically)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 11:53 PM
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Does commitment mean marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 04:38 AM
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like an hour or two of actual work you must be kidding...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 02:07 AM
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a happy family life is probably an unrealistic goal When I was a little girl I always dreamed of having a happy family and I don't come from a happy family. I know what you are referring to. It sucks and that's why is taking me so long, I guess. I'm not the only one. Why would I want to repeat the same pattern? Having children is not like going to buy a bag. If you don't like it, you change it. Choosing the wrong man can be fatal, even if you don't have children with them. In the past, men forme…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 03:48 PM
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I keep reading comments (here and there) saying that women don't bring anything to the table, that they are useless and that if it wasn't for their vagina they would be even more useless. Why does the average woman want to be with the average man if the average man thinks that way about the average woman? And why would the average man want to be with the average woman knowing that she brings nothing to the table?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 03:09 PM
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Is wanting a family not a thing anymore? I want to have kids right away (always wanted). Men don't want to have kids right away. Today, men tend to have their first child in their late or early 40s. It can takes years with them and I don't want that because is a risk for me, so we part ways. Co-habitation has (had?) it’s benefits There are benefits and there are not many benefits. You must know how to cohabit. What about the kids? distribution of household chores? Planning vacations and going to…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 02:48 PM
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Not all people who refuse to settle after a certain age do so because of an insecurity. It seems like a post aimed more at PPD men, so I'll keep it short. Marriage is a serious thing. Serious relationships, if they don't work out in the end, can screw up your life. People enter new relationships without yet having gotten over the previous one. Time flies and the sooner you settle the better. Fine, but we all want to feel like our partner is with us for us. Because you desire this. Not because it…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 07:59 PM
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Women attracted to violent men... are you sure it has nothing to do with the environment in which these women grew up? I don't like violent men, I don't like being violent. Self-defense is one thing. Self-confidence is very important and is attractive. Being a violent person, is not. A man who always looks at the ground, does not talk to anyone and is very quiet will hardly meet women. Let's not talk about taking the relationship to another level when the situation requires it. It is true that I…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 06:24 PM
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Enjoyed talking with you. Same!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 05:37 PM
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Being horny and being attracted to are not the same thing. If I'm horny and you're in the room, I'm not going to jump on it. I may start the conversation but not because I'm only attracted to you, I'm horny and your personality does the hard work for you. Personality matters. Let's not forget that age plays an important role. What do you expect them to say anyway? "He's not only ugly, he's also stingy, a whiner and a curmudgeon" "He was a fat, bald man with white hairs sticking out of his nose w…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 05:35 PM
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That must be unacceptable. Is there a real reason behind it? something to do with your job or health issues that might increase if you take them? I hope you get the help you need soon. I'd try to talk to another doctor because It matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 12:22 AM
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Well, we are talking about depression. We are not talking about sadness that can be resolved, as you have rightly said, with money. Rich people commit suicide too. And yes, maybe women take more antidepressants than men, but men still commit suicide (analyze carefully the statistics, a lot of things determine them) more than women. Instead of trying to resolve this phenomenon some men choose to ridicule the woman and "hers" mental problems. "She's crazy lol" or "she's on medication, lol" Today's…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 12:15 AM
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Although you have your reasons, understand that some women will still seek validation offline. And If she's young and attractive, the need of validation will be higher. In or offline. I think that finding a woman who value and understand the same values as you is the goal. Mutual respect, I guess. It must sucks to witness something like this. Not because of the nudes but of the possibility of infidelity. What she did was a classic move of disloyalty.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 11:31 PM
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Oh, I'm not good at this. First copy the words you want to quote. Paste it in the comment box when you want to reply. Now, make sure that the cursor is behind that quote. Below the comment box (by replying it gives you options to edit your text), you'll see three dots on your right (?), click the three dots (…) You'll see something similar to two big commas upside down ("), click it. You’ll see a gray line on the left side of the quote indicating that it has been quoted. Hit enter and that's it.…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 11:14 PM
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My thing is I want a woman I can build with that I’m attracted too She don’t have to make great money, just decent money Same. I admit I need to get out more and have more of a social life I think it becomes easy when you enjoy the social life. Sometimes it's more about choosing the right place than being in the right place. You might have to force yourself to do it and make new friends first (single people). Men dislike this but have women as friends can improve a lot the situation. Or choose m…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 08:52 PM
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It is better to avoid getting involved with a man who justify domestic violence due to divorce, break up or separation. We agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 08:25 PM
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For me is a mix but I do care about his height more than anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 08:20 PM
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Are you a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 08:16 PM
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This is one of the things I will never understand about men. Men also suffer from mental problems too and are more likely to commit suicide. How do they expect society to give them the help they need if at the slightest opportunity they use the weapon to ridicule women?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 08:15 PM
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It is better not to marry then. A woman will never win in this case. I have heard more domestic murders due to divorce than due to the act of adultery.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 08:08 PM
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If I had a son with more traditional views, I would encourage him to look outside the country for a more traditional woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 08:03 PM
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Settling down won't make me happier. I've learned to be happy alone and that's why I think it's better to be alone than just settle down with any man. It's about experience. I don't want it to be this perfect but it has to be good for me. Being with the wrong person can damage your mental health too and leads to depression.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 07:45 PM
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Only responsible way is marrying without having the fun part and popping out children asap Adultery exists. I can skip the fun phase and then have kids. If I want to have sex with another man, I will. I just have to make sure you're not around when it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 07:31 PM
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It's real with me. I didn't care in high school. Girls tended to be taller than boys. I like tall men. But not only taller than me but tall in comparison to other men too. Like big. I know It may sounds strange but it makes me feel more than a woman and I like it. ​ he's also handsome, charismatic, has an athletic body This helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 07:22 PM
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Timing is crucial. As far as I know, men make that decision much later. Men who decide to travel abroad with the possibility of finding a wife do so because they are not convinced by women, in this case, women from the West. Sexual revolution, hypergamy are the words that are repeated. Although not all men who make this decision do so for the same reason, the price is the same. To commit to a Western woman is to be willing to pay a very high price, they will say. One of them is the divorce. West…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 06:43 PM
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Yes, men loves attractive women as women loves attractive men. ​ very similar to the contradictions women make when it comes to beautiful, tall, masculine men. It was always obvious...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 08:51 PM
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A man will lose his money and earn it again. A woman being used for sex will and can causes her a trauma, no enough money will recover her trust in a man and sex will be a tough task. But hey I don't know, you must have a vagina, I guess. ​ That vagina is yours forever unless you mutilate yourself. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 08:42 PM
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I was talking about sexual compatibility. If I want less, I look for a man who wants the same. And yeah but some men would do the same if they could. Physical attractiveness is very very important when it comes to casual sex. There's no much to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 08:37 PM
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Do you believe that men are becoming more attractive or less attractive? It depends. The average man is starting to take his physical attractiveness more seriously but it doesn't work for every average men. A handsome face (alopecia can sucks) height and personality still plays an important role in the dating world. Now, what it can be attractive for me is less attractive for you. ​ to look good more than ever before in history Yeah, they're starting to feel the pressure. Men had never needed to…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 08:00 PM
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this is the root cause of all of the issues in dating and gender relations I don't think so. And about men are hornier than women, there's a study I believe... I think it's the same but some factors alter it. It happens with men too. I get horny and there are days that it's a lot, like fire but I won't go out there looking for sex. Maybe these men are being rejected due to lack of mutual attraction, I don't know. If I am going to take some risk I'd choose wisely with whom. The goal is get the pl…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 06:43 PM
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"I find you very attractive, would you like to fornicate?” would you like to fornicate?” Would she be repulsed and/or feel insulted? I wouldn't feel insulted. I prefer it. Very honest at least. I'd would feel repulsed though. Men don't want to be used for their money, I don't want to be used for my body. And yes, the pleasure must be mutual, it doesn't mean that its goal will be reached.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 03:59 PM
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I only said that you as a woman assume that it's the same for most men, which isn't true Ok, I believe you. men can find below average looking women attractive You're right, I've seen it. if she's unattractive objectively compared to other woman it doesn't mean she'll get treated less We might have a different concept of an unattractive woman. Your HS crush was an asshole, who probably was better looking than most men, otherwise you wouldn't have liked him. He wasn't an asshole and he wasn't "th…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 06:23 AM
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I want to believe that I have freedom to decide when it comes to dating, sex and marriage but to let you know, I've never been with a "hot" man and I'm not interested in "hot" men. yeah it sounds like you're saying women only go after hot men No, of course. That's what you're going to hear, when I've only stated that women aren't allowed to be unattractive in a society that values women for the looks. I might be wrong so, quote the words for me. I'm not sure if you're a 2nd language speaker but …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 01:25 PM
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Now I understand it. What I posted then is right, despite of the confusion, good.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 07:08 AM
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The men you're referring to in your comment aren't usually an issue anywhere I can't believe that you believe that. But I think is alright, that's only because you're not dating them. Men with dark pasts. THAT'S another issue. You see, I can't understand what you're trying to say and I don't have 5 years old. You're talking about a group of women, women who clearly needed help, since forever and you decided to include women in the same category. It's starting to look like all these groups are ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 03:36 AM
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Someone said it perfectly. r/M3taBuster I believe. If anything, ugly women are more likely to be bitter. So why on earth would I choose an ugly woman over a hot woman when all else is equal? I'll change woman to man in my case. Picture of average women, not ugly. https://media.istockphoto.com/photos/real-normal-person-portrait-picture-id176993026 https://thumbs.dreamstime.com/z/retrato-normal-verdadero-de-la-persona-22299696.jpg https://thumbs.dreamstime.com/z/retrato-normal-verdadero-de-la-pers…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 03:06 AM
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By old people, are we talking about from 60 years old to 80 years old? Yes, I can't deny what you're saying and I'm not sure about that so let's see what the future has preparing for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 01:45 AM
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Why do you have the need to say something like this to someone who is finally healing?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 01:33 AM
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Thank you, was needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 05:18 PM
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He's saving himself by causing the damaged he wouldn't stand on others.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 05:04 PM
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Well, be ready, here they come. Don't listen to it. This is a nice post and I was thinking about something similar while browsing old posts. They will never recognize it. I can only wish and pray so I'll never come across a damaged person. It's tiring. I'm healing finally, little by little. It's not "his" fault and the man I'll love will have the best of me. and if I'm push harder I know I'll find someone humble enough to say what you've just said.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 04:59 PM
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So what do women think about this documentary? It's the first time I heard this case. Interesting. I'm glad about it. So, finally women can stop making ridiculous decision based on a picture of an "attractive" man. It will encourage more women to uninstall tinder. Am I missing something? No, I think is pretty obvious. These women wanted to live their second youth, this time with a multimillionaire. Is "The Tinder Swindler" what happens to women who vastly over estimate thier SMV? It can be. I'm …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 01:42 PM
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sis please, no. Pick Mes and Cool Girls count as one of the guys My eyes are bleeding.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 01:17 PM
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it rarely happens anyway can you believe it? funny thing is that women often blame men for being "emotionnally unavailable" Blame women has always been easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 01:14 PM
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This is the real answer. Does your opinion applies to women too?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 01:10 PM
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Dangerous territory so this is my only advice: “The first rule about fight club is you don't talk about fight club.” Watch the movie many times and you'll know if his a RP man quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 01:05 PM
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You got it. Congrats!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 10:05 AM
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Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 10:00 AM
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You're still replying to a woman...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 10:00 AM
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I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 09:59 AM
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I'm not sure if this will be a win for you Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 09:57 AM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 09:56 AM
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This is not going to be liked. Women don’t need to be taught how to look attractive. They have been taught that since they were children. While girls were playing makeup and dress-up, boys were playing video games It hurts.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 09:55 AM
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don't even know why we bother educating them in the first place You're replying to a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 09:53 AM
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Would you date, marry or even consider a relationship with a single father? No, I wouldn't. would you consider such a man a good choice for a relationship? I depends. If he doesn't get along with his children, if he doesn't have a good relationship with the mother of his children and if his children dislike the idea of a stepmother, I wouldn't. would you view such men as a relationship liability? Yes, I would. Would you resent that you had to take care of another woman’s children? No, I wouldn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 04:03 AM
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Would you associate being single as a bad thing? Yes, I would. Why or why not? I believe is a bad thing when the decision is made by somebody else. A healthy relationship is better than being single. If you could be single for life, and have casual flings, would you look at that as a bad outcome? This is a good question. No, wouldn't be a bad outcome but is not what I want. My body will get ugly and wrinkled as I age. For how long will I be able to get casual flings? Will my libido be so high as…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 03:41 AM
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Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 03:17 AM
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It really does affect women more than men Really...what exactly? Any given man's past could hold all kinds of mysteries and secrets What mysteries and secrets are we talking about? Are women really ready for that level of interaction? Are men ready to talk about it? You read it wrong. This post is about women being hypocrites You're not talking to a 5 years old girl, sir. I've said what I've said and I agree with his entire post. Now, I might be wrong. I might don't really understand what he's t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 02:58 AM
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Cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 11:47 PM
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Again, whatever helps you to sleep at night.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 11:46 PM
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I agree and but also: I don't want to hear about how you are afraid of women because women made you feel unwanted and unseen once. That's your past, it doesn't matter. I'm not changing my behavior to make you feel safer over something that doesn't matter. I don't want to hear about how your mother made fun of you during your "growth phase", and made you feel unloved. I'm not going to support your decisions and call your mother's actions inappropriate. She was probably correct, but that's irrelev…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 11:43 PM
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You're right. People might change witht the years and things can turn to a complete mess if there are children. But as I see it, once I'm married, I'm married forever. For good and for bad, I'm saying it having the fear of marriage. If men get the most benefits of marriage they'll would get married. ​ The only difference is a ring and a piece of paper. There's a huge diffence, the obligations. Young people are listening to the old people because they're old so they must have experience. Without …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 09:52 PM
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Whatever helps you sleep at night.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 09:20 PM
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I't's funny that you couldn't understand that part. I'll make it easy for you. Women shouldn't feel forced to stay in bad relationships because there's no obligations. A man made the hardest decision ever and I own him loyalty and trustworthy inside the marriage. Never outside because from the outside I'm free. Some men just want the benefits. Not going to behave as the wife when I'm only the girlfriend. Take it or leave it. If there's not ring, man, there's not cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 09:19 PM
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Nah, I'm not obligated to stay if I'm not happy. Marriage can only force me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 09:11 PM
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MGTOW and WGTOW will increase. Few people will still looking for love, companionship and affection. Marriage and natality will decrease. Single mother / father by choice will be a trend.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 12:01 PM
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If the relationship is not official she might has the need to still find someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 11:50 AM
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I learned something in the hardest way possible from my last relationship. If there's no ring, there's not cheat. I don't understand the term ltr and obligations in a same sentence. If I'm not happy with him, I'll leave. If I find someone better, I'll leave. If I don't want to have sex with him in the next three months, he should leave. There's no obligations from my part. ​ what are your thoughts on these men? They're free and they're being smart because I think that they have good reasons to n…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 09:58 AM
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yeah...Hugh Grant...massive crush though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 06:18 AM
1

I don't understand what you're trying to say but I'll try it. If you give me the chance to choose between a man who's a virgin in his 30's or a man who's slept with dozens of prostitutes, I'd date a virgin man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 03:26 AM
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From my understanding, all women want the best of the market. When they find someone better, they fly. My other understanding is AF/BB.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:37 AM
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You got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:06 AM
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Yes, I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:59 AM
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Have these promiscuous women paid for sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:30 AM
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I'd think the same. pays for the convenience (and for more attractive women)? Sad
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 12:47 AM
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I can and it matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 12:41 AM
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I don't understand you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 12:40 AM
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Why can't you evaluate men on your own terms ignoring what other women think of him? I can't because it matters. Paying a prostitute because you can't get laid naturally with a woman will only leads me to think of bad social skills, distorted vision on women and addiction, not to the sex itself but the power the situation gives you. ​ isn't desired by other men as long as he finds her attractive As long as he finds her attractive is enough for other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 12:13 AM
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would you be fine dating/marrying a man who slept with dozens of prostitutes before he met you No. provided he got tested and was fully clean? No. Why or why not? I don't want a man that other women don't want. They tend to believe that dating women today is equal as paying a prostitute. "One way or another you'll end up paying" I rather date a virgin man than date a man who has paid prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 11:26 PM
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True freedom as a man is when you stop caring what women think about you entirely Logical, not emotional. Get it. Then, I think you made up your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 06:29 AM
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It's needed. IG girls and OF are in my list right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 04:50 AM
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Believe me, we care until we don't. And if you read further you'll see how early we start to care about boys opinion. No, I wasn't talking only about "Chad". Not all teenager boys, young boys and grown men are "Chad".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 04:46 AM
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I carried that over into dating from 16 - 20 with not a lot of success and got bitter about it Is obvious for you? I might have a bad reading comprehension or I might not know his entire life. That's the trap. The trick is it would have made him think differently or not. For you, it's obvious. Teenagers boys should know this then. I might do not understand the purpose of the entire post or maybe I'm only a woman, so automatically, I won't get it. He decided to share one part of the story of his …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 04:04 AM
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It's not projection but let's call it like that if you want to. I don't know you and you don't know me, you decided to share your story with strangers like me and curiously I understand resentment very well. It's simple. One thing does not remove the other. Also I've been poor too. It sucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 03:45 AM
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Good to know but you shared your story, not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 03:37 AM
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I really believe that these type of men aren't good for me. It's simple. They're damaged. Can you understand this? They tend to be full of resentment and insecurities. Who wants to be with someone like that? They won't let go the past. The college years will pop up in every conversations. Let's talk about college. Let's talk about your "wild phase" for a second, minutes and hours. In their head of course. TRP man, as you've stated, are smarter. It doesn't mean they're happier. They won't forgive…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 02:46 AM
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Of course
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 02:06 AM
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It soudns harsh but being attractive helps in life. In everything, not only on dating. If I'm, as a woman, going to be used for sex, I'd choose an attractive man because why not? Unattractive men would do it too given the chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 02:05 AM
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If you were the one who's sick and can't satisfy her sexually, would you be ok with an open relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 01:49 AM
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I can see you trying to psychoanalyze me I'm trying, yes. Good thing most young women already do that Girls from OF are not aware of it. That's my mission. No idea. I don't believe it but is ok. Interesting. Elaborate. You're quicker than me. I'm sure about that so I'll make it short. You're the result of your mother decisions. It's a fact and you dislike it. You're not fighting her. You're fighting with yourself. Living in a era full of promiscuous women will only reminds you of her. Keep the d…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 01:40 AM
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Why do you love women? If you GF (no wife, I know) get sick and doctors warn you that she'll be like that forever, would you stay? If sex was not a possibility due to her sickness, would you stay?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 12:51 AM
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The society will always protect women. It's changing thanks of the awakening of young men but it will takes forever for applying real equality between both genders. But women will always come first. The "women are "wonderful" effect" worked for ages. Women are good and men are bad. And it worked. Both were getting what they wanted. Those times faded but not the effect. To answer the questions... women will receive a better treatment always. More from women than men. An equal will unconsciously d…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 12:42 AM
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You had a hard childhood and this childhood involved your mother. Your mother is a woman and because she's a woman, you can't help but see her in other women. You can see what I'm trying to say. True freedom as a man is when you stop caring what women think about you entirely? I can and will use this statement with men too. I will encourage young women to no care and to stop looking for men validation like it's what matter the most. Yes, women dislike being ignored by men because we have been ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 12:12 AM
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I don't want an insecure man by my side. Also they don't want to get married. We're not compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 11:15 PM
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As a straight dude, it looks strange for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 11:12 PM
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If you're an attractive man, some women will treat you BETTER. If you're an unattractive man, some women will treat you as a man, most of the times with indifference. As a woman, do you feel that there is a climate of encouraging “payback” on men in general or that men are being what do you mean? If you agree this is happening, where do you think this will lead, and what do you think can be done to change the trend? It will lead to more men using less social media. There's no need to change the …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 11:11 PM
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What opportunities you've missed? It might be personal so I won't push. I'm curious because you're young to have that mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 08:34 AM
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It's not true. I'm attracted to different men in different ages. Of course, I'm not going to feel attracted to a senior man. anywhere from like 20 - 45 This works when it comes to sex, not romantic relationships. A man in his mid 20's will lightly direct his attention to younger women than older women for something serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 10:22 PM
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Attracted to most women and young can't go hand by hand. It's like me saying I'm attracted to most men but they're tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 08:58 PM
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Do you enjoy consuming True Crime media? No. It can be addictive though. has your approach to safety within the dating market changed since you consumed more True Crime media? Yes, it has. What were those changes? Basically I'm avoiding app datings. Meet men elsewhere is better, at least for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 08:54 PM
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If I'm not attracted to you sexually, I'm not going to have sex with you. Why is difficult to understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 08:50 PM
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If I'm not attracted to you sexually, I'm not going to have sex with you. Why is difficult to understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 08:50 PM
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This is sad. A very sad life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 08:45 PM
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young what?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 08:42 PM
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that's normal, I mean, which context?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 08:40 PM
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Because I fear undesired pregnancy and I dislike the idea of sex with plenty of men. My body seems to reject it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 12:38 PM
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Do you got married virgin, right? Fuck 100 guys is a no for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 11:45 AM
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There is something about marriage that I love. The obligations. There are times that I come across with comments of men "talking" about that his last girlfriend left him for another man. I can't help but think: "There was not an obligation. She was free all along, to leave whenever she pleases and there's not a bad faith on that" It's funny because when I was little, marriage was the last thing in my mind. "You're his prisoner forever, ew" that's what I thought. And I still believe it. But marri…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 10:51 PM
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Yes, I totally agree with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 12:19 AM
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Do women understand how hard and why dating is from a man's perspective? Yes, I do. do you care? I don't understand the question. would u adjust your behavior to make yourself dateable from a man's perspective? What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 01:30 AM
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something is failing then...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 01:28 AM
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what would you do if you were a guy and this is what you had to put up with to get a date? I would give up or I would improve my body and personality ( more masculine and mature hairstyles and clothes) try to look attractive to attractive girls by copy them. i found the least attractive If you're not that attractive, you can't force attractive women to give you a chance. I mean, why would they? You're looking for sex, I guess. Sex must be fun. If you can arouse sexual attraction in those less at…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 01:20 AM
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We are wired to get bored of having sex with the same person This is what keeps me unease on relationships. I think that women are aware of men desire to have sex with plenty of different women, so women then have the attitude of... hypergamy exists for a good reason then.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 12:13 AM
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that's a fair point...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 12:09 AM
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So are you admitting that without THAT consequence men would be less faithful in marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 12:08 AM
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Thank you for the links! And yes, you're right. Society seems more forgivable with women and less forgivable with men. Prison sentences is a good example. But as I stated above, we learn those behaviors for the benefit of society. It worked in the past. I think it has something to do with the concepts of feminine and masculine. One is stronger than the other physically. One is more delicate than the other. It worked in the past. Men knew it and women followed it. It's not working anymore. A teen…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 11:00 PM
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I'm not sure what that has to do with internalized misogyny because It's real. The women you're talking about are very traditional women, religion guides them and the points of view in romantic relationships and marriage are different from these other women. They're the worst. I know what I'm talking about. I'm not agree with you. men dislike promiscuous women Well, I hope these men practice what they preach.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 10:38 PM
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Yeah that's fair, I wouldn't commit to a man that slept around with plenty of women during his 20's to mid 30's, so yeah, It's fair. I can't trust them either. In my opinion, the word "slut" has gained lots of power today.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 10:29 PM
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Yes, I think so. Sex is pleasure and get pleasure is what matters. Feelings have more to do with expectations, right? Me, as an example, needs both things, so I won't practice casual sex. Same thing with FWB.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 10:19 PM
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Do "pump-and-dumps" only exist if her feelings are hurt Of course not. If there's not chemistry is better to break up. Now the "she's a nice girl" got my attention. Why sex is so important but not her personality? I can hear some group of angry men from here. I would encourage girls to do the same thing. If it is not that big or If he doesn't make you feel the stars the first time you have sex with him, no matter what, break up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 11:46 PM
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Nice, now that you realized it your relationships with women should be easier. Nobody's being fooled.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 11:37 PM
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I agree with the last paragraph.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 11:29 PM
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Men don't say the word because they're taught to not say it. Men won't say it out loud because there'll be consequences, they're playing smart. I've seen it. Women saying the word means zero. Internalized misogyny, the pick me syndrome. Men know the power of the word and those women learnt it from men. Prostitutes were always known for being inferior to the rest of women. They're easy and so they're inferior. When someone uses this word, they're doing it with the intention to make the woman feel…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 11:22 PM
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I've seen what you've done and what you are... I'm not going to argue with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 10:47 PM
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I don't understand. Wonderful effect? Men seem blind until they're able to see. The reality was out there. Bad women has always existed. Being a man seems difficult, suddenly they're out of the bubble and it rises a resentment. It's not women fault, it's not our nature. It's not my nature. Women are taugh to be quiet and generous and lovely and more positive and pretty concepts. That's what society wanted and still wants for the benefit of men, the very well known aggresive gender. That's a teac…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 08:49 PM
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Internalized misogyny. My opinion doesn't counts but is real. Very low n'count, I'm a woman, 1 woman and I don't care for example, more power for them. I'll never slutshaming. The women who care have a name and personally can't stand them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 08:31 PM
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I agree. There are men that for the simple fact of having a penis they're being unfairly judged.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 07:02 PM
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Avoid the sex too. Live a long and happy life!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 07:00 PM
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What's real woman nature? Free will? Her free choice for sleeping with whoever she wants, just not with you or have kids with whoever she wants just not with you? What's the real man nature? Should I ask a radical feminist or a misandrist or will you provide me an answer? Edit: can you answer me?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 06:57 PM
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it's not changing. For most men a woman who sleeps around is a slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 06:48 PM
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Women are useless until they aren't. We're only useful for sex and for cooking but as a woman I should feel flattered. No need to reproduce. What a beautiful society, the future will be bright. You found solutions for men's problems. Hire a maid, pay prostitutes and have a long and happy life. The point is I don't want to hear complains. I don't want to hear men's complains. No more suicides and resentment. No more excuses for the lack of female attention, affection and connection because you ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 04:41 AM
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1- Yes, I would be against it. I don't want to pay for this. I'm a faithful woman so I simply don't want to pay for the bad choices and insecuties of others. 2- If my husband/partner ever decide to take a DNA test for our kids, it's slightly over. He has all the right to know and feel sure but I'm saying it now, it's slightly over before he realizes it. Healthy relationships are based on trust and he's going to know my intentions from the beginning. I'm a faithful woman and I think I deserve a b…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 07:32 PM
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Well yes.. It is not the same to give a blowjob to DJ Qualls than to Tom Hardy. The current guy don't have the vibes she's used to. Maybe she's old and she started to date an older man then, so he's old too and that's why the desire in looks is not there. I mean betas should improve the physical attraction too, not only the bank account. This is not about "obligation". This is about lack of attraction, plain and simple. This is about WOMEN. NOT MEN. WOMEN do this to men. Men don't do this to wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 11:24 PM
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This was not the answer I was expecting but It helps me to affirm what I knew. You do not get to rule in a house you didn't build and you do not get to own a land you are not expected to die for You're playing with fire and you're being totally unfair, it's ok. You have the answer but you won't say it because it souds better, put the weight on one side and less weight on the other side. I'll try it again... Why weren't women allowed to built and die for the land? let a minority of women to becom…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 10:42 PM
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Now why women weren't allowed to do all of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 10:01 PM
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​ But this doesn't change the fact that 99% of those achievements were in fact carried out by men Why men were chosen to lead the society and who chose them? men do have achievements to be proud of Most men of nowadays will die without contribute much to society. No inventions or discoveries. I'm thankful for the existence of men as a gender but I must judge individually. as if the tendency continues at the current pace, there will be not enough decent men available These men are free to step ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 11:38 AM
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does that make you feel better? No, it doesn't. I only ask because you said if he wants to have sex with you but doesn’t ask right away you saw it as lying… That's not what I meant. If he had casual sex but at the same time he was dating me during those 3 weeks, he wouldn't tell me right?...that's what I wanted to say... you want him to wait and not try to rush to sex? I want him to be him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 01:04 AM
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"Men tend to be very romantic during their teen to early/mid 20's. If I find out that he was being a simp to every girl he has dated but me, I'd feel unlovable. The fact that he behaved like this for all his exes but not with me tells me I'm not valuable in his eyes. He better take me to restaurants, he better pay for the dates, he better buy me things, he better tells me how much he loves me and he better text me all the time" Would it still bother you if your partner was willing to do sexual a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 12:30 AM
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If I discover that he waited to have sex with me 3 weeks later but with his ex it took him 1 week only, I'd ask him why, yes. Maybe in the past he used to rush the sex and due to a bad experience, he decided to take the dating scene to another level and I'm on this level... It's all about your wants and needs being meet. Do you want to wait on the third date to have sex? If the answer is no, is alright. You two aren't compatible. ...he could have been having sex with other women during these 3 w…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 05:54 PM
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Idk a man with options is attractive to me. What's the benefit a man gets by settling for a woman because he doesn't have options? I know my benefits (money and commitment?) but what about him? I could imagine cases in which the man finds her attractive and because he had no options he learnt to also appreciate and value other traits "As long as she clean, cook and gives great bj I'm content...she must be attractive though" Settlement is easier for men as long as she's attractive. Men need to un…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 05:12 PM
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Not only I'm not alright with that, I want him to buy me gifts as he used to do with her ex, pay the dates as he used to do with her ex, tell me how much he loves me as he used to do with his ex and put a ring on my finger as he did with his ex. how do you know she makes you wait longer for sex in comparison to her ex boyfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 04:54 PM
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As I said, compromise is key. Do the hard work and don't get married to a woman without the same income as yours. Regardless, what is the risk and sacrifice even for? It's a choice and I choose to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 01:30 AM
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I see values in marriage. A man who doesn't wants to get married, lose these values to me. Yes, I understand the fear and discontent men nowadays have on marriages but men tend to get married for the wrong reasons. "As long as she's attractive and pretty, gives great bj, knows how to cook, clean, take care of the house, take care of the kids and give me a beer when I arrive home is enough." Don't get married without a prenuptial agreement and avoid women without the same income then. Compromise …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 01:21 AM
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As I see I have a different opinion I mean cold approach and flirting Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 11:23 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 11:05 PM
1

Stop it, do!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 04:48 AM
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It's a guy with options, get it! high value women What's it for you then?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 04:46 AM
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It doesn't make sense but if it works for you, good.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 04:45 AM
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I’m whining because I’m still conditioned I don't care about your emotions, do something to solve it, alright? Stop worrying about what men want I don't want to hear more whines from men,is not society and women problem, solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 04:27 AM
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This is the problem I have, what men want exactly from society and women? For men, I believe it is a different process Men can't read women mind and is something I as a woman, I must improve. If men don't want to try, there's nothing I as a woman can do for him. Men communicate through doing Then, I don't want to hear more whines from men. They must do instead of talk about emotions then.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 03:39 AM
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You can test it out yourself, go ask a group of random men I will you may need to group them by age though Why? masculinity, finances, social status, height, life experience and intelligence How do you feel about this as a man, about these women requirements?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 03:30 AM
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because he’s invested more effort How? by asking her out?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 02:47 AM
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Thanks for answering...you're totally right!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 02:43 AM
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Yes, of course. Investment on friendships matters as investment on romantic relationships, both requires time. Choose the one you're interested to have with her early.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 02:31 AM
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Mainly, youth, low body count, feminine nurturing nature and sufficient beauty Not all men value the same thing... are these your requirements for commitment? What exactly makes a woman worthy of commitment for men? What exactly makes a man worthy of commitment for women? Just curious...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 02:24 AM
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Great!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 02:21 AM
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Romantic relationships can happen through friendship. It happened to me. The problem some men have is that they believe that being her friend she'll eventually fall in love with him. Physical attraction matters. Could be low or high but it matters. Make it clear from the beginning and the damage will be less painful and time won't be wasted.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 02:20 AM
2

Red pill man?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 01:59 AM
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Mostly sex and sometimes making a family and how do you know you have made the right choice (family) if you looking mostly sex from women?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 01:59 AM
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Do you think that video calls will be the norm in future so no men and women waste their times? I mean, would it be better like that? To hopefully enjoy her company How can she enjoy your company? It's both sides and some women value men that make extra efforts on dates...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 01:53 AM
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Why are women confused again that men don't want to blow money on dates? A learned social norm
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 01:47 AM
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Odds are you won't click can't figure it out by messages? Odds are you got catfished to some degree Sucks for both genders, yeah... Odds are if it's dinner then you're stuck in a job interview or life interrogation How so? you're setting a precedent of spending money on her without her first earning it. Why did you ask her out?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 01:43 AM
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Would you do it differently now, in your current age?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 01:40 AM
1

Was your first date like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 01:29 AM
2

What if he was the one to ask her out?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 01:29 AM
1

Only a low value guy would invest money and fancy dates What's a high value guy for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 01:27 AM
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with a specific goal to achieve What is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 01:25 AM
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Would you have done it differently in your early-mid 20's?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 01:24 AM
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how old were you and how old was him?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 01:03 AM
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How old were you and how old was him?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 01:02 AM
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I’ve literally heard a woman ...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 11:06 PM
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Basically, equals match with their equals. The 1), 2) and 3) are nonsense. But yeah, men should set standards so they can protect themselves from damage.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 03:39 AM
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At any time, if men together decided so, women's lives would be controlled completely from birth to death. I'd flee. At some point the amount of these men will reach a critical point, and it will no longer be a question for debate Men are more likely to commit suicide. then they will band together and take these freedoms away from women There must be much, a lot of men for this to happen. Those men would lose the war. They can only ask men to give them rights Yes, rights can't be given, just tak…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 11:48 AM
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when I was like a teenager , maybe yeah that was the mentality even with my wife now simple coffee shop walk around , and she ended up paying for the shit What changed?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 05:16 AM
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I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 01:47 AM
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They must assume, otherwise they're being delusional...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 12:01 AM
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Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 11:55 PM
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If there's no ring, there's no cheat...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 09:11 PM
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Yes, I want to find someone to marry. Yes, I also would like to regularly have sex now, even if I never find someone to marry. Yes, I would still like to date a suitable person, even if it turns out we will not end up together. Can women do the same thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 09:03 PM
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Good to see this! Yes, It will take me time to find him but this has been my strategy... Only play the role of a wife when I'm the wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 10:52 PM
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That's not even your situation, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 07:04 PM
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Show me something close to these facts then and I'll change my argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 06:31 PM
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When I hear the term "unattractive" it comes to my mind something that can't be changed. it surprises me the amount of comments from women that thinks that being fat is equal to unattractive. I always thought that being unattractive affects mostly the face. I googled"unattractive women" and yes weight is not even on the top pictures. I had a girl friend who always had the face of an old woman and the face of a man. She had lots of hair and wide hips. The last time I spoke to her she was complain…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 04:58 PM
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The hottest guys are usually in relationships with the hottest girls. Not true It's the guys with the lowest standards and fear of commitment that are engaging in hookup culture the most. Also untrue
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 04:27 PM
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The only reason why most (average) men want to be in a relationship is because they can't keep up with the hookup culture. I'm not saying that men don't care about the emotional intimacy, bonding or committed relationships but experienced men perfectly know that being in a relationship does not always guarantee the best sex of the world. Women are usually attractive and men's dream is to have sex with lots of women before commitment. Plenty of men would love commitment if it meant semi-regular a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 07:05 AM
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what is your own level of happiness? 7 there are things I have to improve (late 20's) If you're one of our older members (35+), are you happier now or were you more in your teens/20s? What changed? Can't answer, I think but I have hope that by then I'll be happier than ever. It depends of me only. Do you think overall female happiness is indeed lower than men's or not, and why? Happiness is different for you and me. Society is tougher with men in general, I believe. The say "be a man" it doesn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 07:04 PM
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​ You're doing it again and I don't understand the reason why. You're not inventing anything new but you're taking the credits. You want to justify your role as a man in a society built by men while discrediting women. to protect the female feefees and internally justify screwed up custody practices Have you ever wonder why is like that? I worked in public sector, I was conscripted into troops, and I worked at construction of a hospital...not constant never-ending workplace stress and risk Who f…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 07:45 AM
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I would never date a cashier because these type of jobs are usually temporals. Have debts are a no for me too. I always care about my finances. I save and then invest money. Waste is not an option so I'd keep my distance from a man with debts. I have also read some articles in the past, which state that women don’t admire muscles or good looks, but education and intelligence. I would like to read these articles. This is one of the reasons why TRP exist. Avoid the delusion and try to improve your…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 02:49 AM
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Providing necessities for a person constitutes care by definition Have you just compared providing with pregnancy and childbirth? Are you saying that child care has the same effect as providing? The funny part is I'm quite sure that you've never worked on those professions but has the need to say it loud as a feminist: "because I'm a man"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 02:10 AM
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Of course you're going to be less happy when you couldn't get everything you wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 07:39 PM
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Men get manipulated the most by the women they fuck I disagree, men get manipulated only by the women they find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 07:07 PM
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I encourage you to try it first, tell me the results then.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 06:51 PM
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If I'm not attracted to him, there's no way I'm having sex with him. Friendships with women are great to increase the chances to meet other women though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 04:54 AM
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What I get from this post is: it begins cheap, keep it cheap till the end, women! I'll explain. Romantic relationships on high school don't revolves around money, it happens the same thing on college. The terror for men begins once the student life's over. If this is what men really care about the most then they should from now on prioritize personality over looks. I'll be easier for both parties and average women will sign. Hey I get it, men don't want to be bothered. Now careful what we wish f…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 05:45 PM
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I don't care much about his job. I just don't want a lazy man by my side. Would a woman ever take such a guy seriously when he just lacks money and social status but is not lacking in intelligence, maturity, or seriousness? In my opinion, lacks money and intelligence, maturity, or seriousness can't go hand by hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 10:19 PM
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Does it terrify you that you might end up being settled for? Yes and that's why I can't settle. Are you grateful that smoking hot guys are willing to be so generous with their sexuality? These men knows that is more easy to get sex from the average woman in comparison to a very attractive woman. The mind game is limited and they know they have all the power of the interaction. The average woman knows and doesn't care. She is winning too. Do you feel guilty knowing that a lot of it stems from low…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 04:47 PM
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would you tell the guy explicitly up front about them? Yes and may I never see him again. I just try to be honest and I expect the same. trying out multiple prospects don't you think? Of course and there's nothing wrong with that. What it matters here is that you're being or not being truthful. It depends of what you're looking for. I live outside of the bubble and I'm not naive but honesty matters to me. I fear the cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 04:39 PM
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wouldn't you see a rise in violence ? I don't see a good reason. I think I understand your thoughts but as I said, it always been like that. They can play or close the door completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 04:28 PM
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Women need affection, true but is a different "can I get it?" from women to men. Therefore I see lots of unhappy single women in the future. I can be one of them but being single is not what's scares me. It's not about settling and that's it. Very few men want to get married and have kids, so what's the point of settle down?. Women work and they understand that now they are free to make the right decision. Now think about this, If a woman decide to settle down with a (less attrative) man she wil…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 04:17 PM
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I avoid OLD because I know I won't find what I'm looking for, a long term relationship. OLD changed a lot in these last years. what type of men use online dating? Are they mostly losers? How does this compare to “real life”? OLD allows you to approach women without being creepy and that's why OLD is more popular among men nowadays. The truth is that I can't fully trust a man I meet online. Also they tend to be passive aggressive, which personally, is a quality I dislike in a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 03:36 PM
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"Yeah, he's hot, but I get the vibe he wasnt born hot, so I'm weirded out by him." Was she talking about the face? because the body is moldable. Is this indication that unless you are BORN a "natural" (physically attractive by default and popular from a young age) that eventually women will clock on that youre a fraud? That's possible to know when there are kids. But to answer your question, being physically attractive at young age gives you a lot of points, yet it's not definitive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 05:42 AM
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These are tough times for men (beta) but it always was. Always. In comparison to animals, it reminds me of the life of male lions. These men will go their own way, others from the same group will travel to the other side of the world in search of a wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 03:39 AM
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Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 03:21 AM
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When a girl is young, say in that teen to early 20s age range, she’s the most attractive she will ever be Did you asked out any girl in high school?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 02:48 AM
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I partly agree with OP, in the end women are the gatekeepers of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 04:52 PM
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I've been thinking about marriage a lot lately. Since I was a little girl I knew I didn't want to get married. Marriage for me as a woman is a prison. I would feel trapped everytime I want to runaway from my husband. Hard to explain it. But there are stuff that I like about marriage, I realized now. The spouses are obliged to live together, to be faithful and to help each other. They must also care and provide attention of ascendants and descendants and other dependents in their charge. Of cours…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 03:33 AM
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Also I don’t think you deserve integrity like that I guarantee you you haven’t. End of the conversation. Once a "man" start to assume is over for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 07:24 PM
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The point is to let them know that you're still having casual sex with other women. What do you fear exacly? I mean, I understand men position here, sex is sex but as a woman with very low n count I value integrity and I think those women deserve it, don't you think? Of course they can assume but let them know, you know. It's a good strategy...just not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 07:09 PM
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then date more conservative lower body count Do they know what you're doing ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 06:44 PM
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Women aren't supposed to have executive access to their lover's resources to begin with Can you elaborate this please?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 01:44 AM
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But there's so many ways to release anger, boxing is a good one, exercise or participate in any sport will not only improve your health but will also help you meet new people, and of course, girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 01:38 AM
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Hey, good for you... it still doesn't count for me!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 09:11 PM
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I have a fragile ego and I'm not long term material anyways then.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 07:33 PM
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Well, I can only give you my opinion and based of my experience. If people say that length is more important than girth, with all my respects, maybe they're lack of sexual satisfaction. Penis size matters when the tool is used as a complement to feel pleasure, not as a visual tool.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 06:38 PM
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Both are important for me but If I have to pick one girth wins always.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 05:55 PM
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How do you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 04:09 PM
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that is common knowledge for a lot of guys a LOT OF guys don't know this, fear of being friendzone is a proof. a man is better because you hold all the cards I've been saying this for a while now. This is the best era for being a man but every time I say it they fight me. I get some kind of disappointment by your part with women. You say that you don't hate women but is obvious that you dislike women for playing with men. Maybe you're right. Maybe women aren't just human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 04:05 PM
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A man with a small penis is consideres a LVM? No it just doesn't matter in OLD? It doesn't matter until you both have sex. There's no way to know until then (Pictures does not count) Would a HVF settle for a low value penis even if every other criteria is met? I'm not going to lie, size matters to me but sure other women care less about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 02:41 PM
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Society will not collapse because there are pickier women, It will collapse because of the lack of women. Most men are terrified by the idea of feeling trapped. And when the time is right and the chase is doom, they settle down. Freedom is a sacrifice that doesn't goes well with marriage and children. Natality will not increase but more women will choose the path of being a single mother...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 12:34 PM
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I discovered this sub few weeks ago, I liked the color and decided to joined it because I want / need different points of view. It's not real life so I don't take anything to heart but it helps sometimes. I had bad experiences with men, it doesn't mean that all men are the same. Dating is tough, mostly when you're still young. Yes, I was in love before.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 01:03 AM
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what equality actually means and why it was needed in the first place Saying that feminism isn't about equality approves my point and why successfully I unmatch with some men (or they with me), It's working for me. Don't know if they're red pilled men or not but I'm very content with the process. To answer your point, yes there's a lot to change and believe me when I say that I dislike this wave we're living in. But again, a feminist is someone who supports equal rights for women. For women. For…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 12:54 AM
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hot women like the chase yes, they are also manipulative.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 10:43 PM
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If you believe that monogamy is a social construct then you should question yourself why it was "invented". It works just not for everyone and is ok. Sexual attraction fades with time. Faithfulness has something more to do with each person's values and companionship becomes a priority as we get old. I'm pro-monogamy and I have nothing against people who aren't monogamous. I think the reason why I'm in favor of monogamy is because it works for me. I like the tranquility, stability, and the non-pu…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 08:38 PM
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Last year I discovered TRP and honestly there's no way for me to totally know if the man I'm dating is have fallen into the rabbit hole. But I have the knowledge because of red pilled men. Few things that works for me: - They tend to commit to very young girls. Men naturally likes young girls but with red pilled men is always too much. - They dislike feminism, rarely understand what equality actually means and why it was needed in the first place. Lack of knowledge is real. -They have an inexpli…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 07:48 PM
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If I had to choose between a RP man or remain single forever, remain single forever is pleasurable 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 01:52 PM
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Change your view is quite impossible and you may be right. Jealousy exists for a reason. It's been always like that. When online dating apps were not a big thing, people tended to meet other people IRL. They got married and what happened? Jealousy was still there. Unattractive men have always existed and chased a romantic relationship anyway because that's what they wanted. The fear of being cheated on will be there always, the trick is to find someone who value faithfulness as much as you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 11:58 PM
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Ok, in dating apps. I was thinking about IRL because to be honest dating apps are not places someone is going to be taken seriously. Tinder is a good example. It's all about how attrative you are. Also "stop matching with men wanting sex"? If I match with men in my league they won't want to have sex with me?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 11:24 PM
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What's lower your standards mean? You're not a woman but have the need to talk as one...which is weird. And no, women should not lower their standards. Also men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 08:19 PM
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It's important. Think about of all you other relationships. Communication is one the many signs of a healthy romantic relationship. One thing that annoys me about men is that they bottle up their emotions and when they have to say it all, they say it all and is usually bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 01:22 AM
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I'll be fine too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 12:14 AM
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For men and women, they'll be brutally shamed by society to have sex or anything related to romantic relationship before age 25. Any relationship started under the age of 18 or after (before age 25) will be banned by society. Personal reason: People seem to be broken by the time they reach their 30's, which screw all romantic relationship (sexual) that it forms afterward. Let's not talk about unwanted pregnancies, sexual trauma, peer pressure causing bad outcomes at the end. There are exceptions…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 12:12 AM
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I'm very curious about something, how do you'll know that the virgin woman/low n count you're dating and giving the title of ltr will never ever cheat you? I mean, a virgin woman can perfectly meet a man at work and without you know him, have sex with him. The same with the low n count woman. How can you stay sure that she'll never cheat on you because she just slept with one man in her whole life?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 11:00 PM
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Not getting into details, peer pressure... I have done things for some men that I wish I haven't done because I was not ready but feeling the pressure to do it anyway because that's what young women supposed to do when they're young. No wise advices, just don't do what you aren't feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 12:45 PM
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Women peak physically between 18 and 22 and they really drop as the years go by Is this your opinion or a truth?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 07:39 AM
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Most relationships at that age are short lived shit shows You may be right but how to know it if you never been in one (OP)? There is time for everything in life and it must sucks to be behind in comparasion with your peers. When you're an adult you seem to forget what were those butterflies you felt with your first crush in high school. When you're an adult, the fun parts seem to fade and in the case of the OP, yes, it missed somehow because adults are more serious in everything now. Did you ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 07:37 AM
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You're so young..I see myself in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 07:27 AM
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And kids, this is the reason why these men fail in all their relationships because traditional girls can cheat, divorce and has past relationships, may it takes more time but can happen if he fails. A liberal girl can be faithful, less likely to divorce and still virgin. At the end of the day is just an ideology. Women are people, men are people too. TRP guys will likely be wanting a more traditional girl but he would get tired of her. Faithfulness and all the work is on her always, never in TRP…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 07:24 AM
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Yeah..I wish more young women knew this...saved!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 04:07 PM
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Women always take care better of themselves than men due to social pressure. That's all. Have women priced themselved out of the market? No Have they overrtaken men in day to day attraction so much Men have never had to improve their looks because the value of a man has more to do with what he can provide. It's been always like this. Pictures of a not very handsome man beside his beautiful young wife and their 4 kids. Today is different and men, mostly young boys seem a bit confused about it. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 04:02 PM
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many ugly masculine men Hey, if the RP works/worked for you, good. What I don't understand is why do you need to convince others to follow it? Incels, RP as a tool comparing it with a gun... Using ugly women and older women to feel better about yourself, that's a cope for life.
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