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Aww thanks 🫶
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 06:38 PM
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Hmm I’m not it’s just personal reasons I don’t really want to get into it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 06:28 PM
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Nope I gave up the idea of having a bf I don’t think I’m made for relationships and stuff tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 06:20 PM
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Yea why do people do that??
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 06:12 PM
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Yea right lol, I mean I do comment on posts occasionally but every time I do I feel like ripping my hair out!!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 06:11 PM
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Like all of it, it’s not a nice place to be and you can only ignore stuff for so long but the toxicity and everything got to me here and some other stuff I don’t want to talk about
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 06:09 PM
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Lol seriously you’re asking me why?? Just read the comments and stuff like nobody needs to see this tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 05:58 PM
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Idk I’ve abounded this place pretty much it’s just horrible
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 05:53 PM
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For what???
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 05:32 PM
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Why are you tagging me lol??
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 05:29 PM
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Nope, but I do think there should be strict criteria, like income, criminal history and stuff to qualify
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 09:59 PM
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Yea that’s why in my last paragraph I said it won’t have much affect, it’s pretty much just going to be a health application for women , but yes a very expensive one
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 09:49 PM
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Well artificial wombs would have to be (and would be) heavily regulated, you couldn’t just pop out thousands of babies without a real parent to care for them And if we are being honest, most men and I think most women too, would not sign up to bring up a child on their own, most couldn’t afford to, have the time to The only way I see artificial wombs being used in any meaningful measure, is by couples where the woman is unable to or would struggle to have a child naturally, and by women who want…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 09:32 PM
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It’s not one sided, my comment is not gendered. You decided to view it as one sided
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 06:16 AM
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No I’m tired of this subreddit, the snarky replies and lack of reasonableness I will just tell you clearly and that will be it from me, I’m sorry You want a relationship, maintaining a relationship require 100x more effort than the beginning stages of dating, for men and for women If you are unhappy with the effort in the beginning stages, you will not be happy with the effort required to maintain that relationship, and the problems that can happen bcs of that, you don’t want them, the other per…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 02:38 AM
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Ok this obviously won’t go anywhere, good luck op!!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 02:29 AM
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Yep and that requires much more effort and work than the initial stages of dating Are you happy to put that effort and work in to maintain a relationship???
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 02:19 AM
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Okay, if what you posted is too much effort What are your thoughts on the effort required to maintain a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 02:15 AM
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I mean that’s exactly what it sounds like it’s literally the title, if not what are you saying???
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 02:09 AM
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Maintaining a healthy relationship is like 100x more work. If the initial stages feel like too much effort, then there’s really no point tbh that relationship will fail at some point or get nasty
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 01:34 AM
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Save the environment and cycle instead, get some cross country training in!!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 12:02 AM
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The only place I line up for is Starbucks lol, like seriously you’d catch me dead before I’d join in line for any man
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 01:59 PM
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Yea that’s why I’d probably only date someone who I’ve known for some time, so I can see who they are as a person before, well before I find out at the wrong time And btw you should just be able to apply a flair here I don’t think you have to be approved for one
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 08:33 PM
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I just feel like late night messages, probably drunk late night messages are like the biggest giveaway, and especially after not talking to you for ages
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 07:29 PM
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Doesn’t message me at 1am on Friday lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 07:08 PM
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Youd probably earn more money having a lemonade stand lol and that’s like anyone can do that soo
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 07:21 AM
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I mean I’m not really trying to change your mind, you don’t want to talk to me - that’s absolutely fine I’ll respect that I just think there’s some critical context you’re missing Trying to interact with me when I’m walking alone at night ❌ Interacting with me respectfully in a safe or more sociable environment ✅
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 07:11 AM
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Lol it’s my motherly instincts idk I just get an urge to say something when I see terrible stuff being said
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 06:50 AM
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OP but you’re interacting with us rn asking this questions sooo like what lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 11:22 PM
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Couldn’t afford to lol but tbh I don’t want to be dependent on anyone and I wouldn’t want anyone being dependent on me, so I’d want for both of us to have income Unless you mean short term bcs of some reasons outside their control then sure I would, why wouldn’t I be there for them
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 07:53 PM
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I hold the view if you want to approach someone, then do it, I can’t stop you lol but the only thing anyone can ask for is to just be respectful if it doesn’t go your way
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 08:41 PM
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Yea I mean I’m not open to it, but I’m just saying that even people were pushing for it, it’s not really going to happen is it Like I’ve been approached but really only in certain places like bars when I used to go, and in my university, but it’s only been a handful of times
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 08:31 PM
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Tbh I don’t think most young men have the social skills to successfully approach someone, let alone have the courage to try lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 08:23 PM
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It shouldn’t end, for both people. That’s what kills relationships - taking things for granted
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 09:02 AM
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I don’t think that’s right tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 10:15 PM
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I mean all we can (and should do) is make people aware and leave everyone to make their own choices. I know what I want for my self and as long as no one is forcing any different on me, I’m happy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 02:10 PM
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Aww that’s really sweet!! He’s your world and that’s all that matters, no use trying to convince anyone saying any different
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 03:10 PM
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It’s not the same thing!! You’re making me feel horrible lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 02:32 PM
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I didn’t make you, you just done it lol, but atleast I had a good influence (I hope) on you right???
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 02:24 PM
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I mean there’s nothing you need to be sorry for lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 02:09 PM
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I just don’t want to comment there anymore, tbh I want people to leave me alone
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 02:01 PM
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Yep it’s pretty much an endless ping pong match, that’s how I like to describe it ‘you do this, ohh but you do this, nope you do this’ just endless and absolutely unproductive If that’s how people try to debate, or resolve their differences irl then gosh… idk how that can ever lead to a healthy relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 12:11 PM
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I used to be around here more, like the daily chat and stuff but yea I mean after being harassed by someone, and just how much ‘wimin terrible’ can I see?? And like a lot of people here just aren’t reasonable, whatsoever lol, was making me feel really bleak tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 11:24 AM
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lol I mean that’s fine, I don’t expect people to, I just get enjoyment when men do take me seriously and listen But I will say that it comes from a place of fairness and reasonableness, bcs that’s what I think I am, and hey it might be right or it might be wrong, idk 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 09:58 AM
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I just like it when people listen to me 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 08:58 AM
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Street interview science
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 06:34 AM
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Yea I was thinking something similar that options ABC are pretty much akin to religious indoctrination ‘this way no other way’
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 08:56 PM
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Options A,B&C are akin to religious indoctrination ‘this way or no way’ As peoples go through life they will naturally watch, be told, develop their own morals and viewpoints etc, but everyone should be free to choose how they want to be treated, how they treat others
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 08:31 PM
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Oh please tell me more, I’m intrigued
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 09:23 PM
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Gosh wimin, so terrible!!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 08:15 PM
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Really 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 08:10 PM
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Tbh I have no idea what your going on about right now I made a simple statement, an ungendered statement btw, so I’m leaving this here
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 04:04 PM
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I don’t see it that way, I just made a statement that it’s not biology if you can use your free will
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 03:58 PM
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I’ve learned there is pretty much no point calling anything out, people rarely change. I just won’t let them affect my morals, how I see other people, who I let into my life/ who stays
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 03:55 PM
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Well I think I made my self pretty clear, you can (and should) use your free will to think about how you respond, react, what you do. So yes, terrible behaviour, illogical behaviour is never excusable
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 03:51 PM
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What do you think??
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 03:37 PM
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Well, are you??
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 10:24 AM
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It’s not biology when you have free will
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 09:19 AM
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We would have less potential options, bcs incompatible people would actually filter themselves out, it would be great But it’s not for the reasons you mentioned, underneath someone’s appearance there’s an entire person with their own, thoughts, feelings, mannerisms, goals, aspirations, flaws etc, plenty of ways to find incompatibilities
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 08:40 AM
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Aww that’s a nice read!! And btw the top part doesn’t make you sound like a pussy, at all
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 11:16 PM
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Nope, if I do now that means I’ve lost frame, I’m smarter than this!!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 07:14 PM
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Gosh the temptation to write a silly answer to this is actually unreal lol but I’ll hold my self off 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 03:58 PM
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Yea right, you know most of the people I see who say they have terrible/toxic relationships (if any) are the ones who treat relationships as some type of act, play etc
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 02:11 PM
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As opposed to what?? Holding frame and awalt lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 01:56 PM
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Aww thanks that’s sweet to say 💜
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 06:09 AM
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Stop causing trouble!!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 06:08 AM
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Yea it sucks, after yesterdays horror stories I don’t really feel comfortable being here tbh… so yep probably won’t be around that much here my self
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 10:12 AM
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It goes much beyond the toxic level
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 09:34 AM
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I get it, perhaps you’ve had bad experiences, you read stuff online But the last thing I will do is push back on obviously incorrect statements, there is no point it would be a waste of my time. So good luck maybe you’ll get past this pov one day
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 08:42 AM
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I just said we’re terrible!! I’m not trying to change your mind
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 08:36 AM
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Oh yep I forgot, we’re so soo terrible. Sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 08:19 AM
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In what way??
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 08:15 AM
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Bcs there’s a lot of horrible people, I’ve recently had a strange interaction with someone, so much that someone reached out bcs they were worried. Horror stories!! why would they want to stay here and moderation isn’t doing much
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 08:03 AM
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5 weeks later ‘why do I only get in toxic relationships waah’
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 07:18 AM
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You’d end up a friendless hermit lol!! But I’d try my best
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 06:58 PM
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Mr oblivious lol No but it can be very difficult to know if someone is being friendly or if they like you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 07:18 AM
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That’s horrible and in that situation you literally have no idea what they’re doing to do
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 07:17 AM
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A few times I thought if only they carried on the conversation normally, I’ve pushed my self out my comfort zone they probably did too. Who knows what could have happened, but nope, ruined!!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 01:06 AM
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Yea I was saying this in another thread that a hey or hi is much better than a cringey pick up line or whatever stuff they feel like pulling off lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:46 AM
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Yea I was curious, it was so brief just a few messages The first was something like hey I’m xxx from class, looking forward to getting to know you and everyone , how you finding the class To which I said hey, same here, im getting on well, I think its interesting And then the next messages literally, oh my friend sent this he took my phone, I didn’t mean to send any of that Like yea right, what??
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:41 AM
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Gosh that’s so horrible, sorry you had to go through that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:36 AM
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Noo that’s so sad lol, and also why would a taxi driver need directions??
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:15 AM
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Like what lol?? How do people possibly think anyone will go for something like this
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:14 AM
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Ooh I’d get shivers that’s so weird, also the inside crease of your elbow is oddly sensitive
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:13 AM
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It’s gone I’ve probably deleted it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:08 AM
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That’s horrible like at that age stuff like this is traumatising
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 11:45 PM
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Hmm I dont remember exactly, I’ll try to look for it lol I might find it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 11:40 PM
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Seriously?? Gosh that’s weird
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 11:37 PM
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What’s the most awkward/weird way someone tried to hit on you?? For me in one of my university classes we had a group WhatsApp, and there was a boy I kind of liked him, he probably caught me looking at him a few times, well we never spoke in person but one day I get a message from him on WhatsApp, I answered, but then he responded how his friend took his phone, he didn’t mean what was said. I thought yea right, just completely ruined it, I thought it was soo weird I blocked him. Then I had to pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 11:31 PM
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Really?? Can I ask what do you get out of calling each other that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 10:00 PM
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No not like that lol, tbh I find the mommy/daddy thing soo cringey. I don’t understand the appeal
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 09:11 PM
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lol I mean what do you expect me to say to that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 06:57 PM
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Yea right, you just see it that way bcs you like me soo much lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 06:52 PM
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Like how??
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 06:29 PM
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It’s Based ✅
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 05:38 PM
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lol you know why I think it is, bcs I’m small, I’m 5’2 lol I’m pretty much harmless let’s be honest, so having that bit of dominance helps me feel safer, like in control of my own space and boundaries
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 05:11 PM
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It’s also nice to be taken seriously, acknowledged, like my opinions and stuff hold weight you know
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 02:52 PM
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lol yea I guess, seems like men don’t really mind it when a woman has a slight dominant side, a little bit feisty
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 02:15 PM
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I mean you didn’t deny it lool soo Idk I just get enjoyment especially from men, I see you guys as rebels, so when you listen to me I’m like awww omg yess!!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 01:59 PM
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I reckon I’m pretty good at getting the boys online to behave, my motherly instincts lol. Tbh I think I might have a dominant side to me bcs sometimes I like to have a sense of control and I really like it when people respond to it, play along
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 01:39 PM
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Yea it’s just a lot of the talking points here, I see in other places. People reference TikTok and instagram a lot, but I don’t have these so idk what actually goes on there lol, I mean I do know both genders like to attack each other, whether it’s sincere or just for engagement that I don’t know
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 08:25 AM
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I believe playing ping pong matches is no good, and even worse for relationships. It’s just a constant blame game, it never leads anywhere. People should just be honest with themselves and with each other Btw your flair is terrible, shouldn’t think like that of yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 12:11 AM
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No lol, I’m just not that kind of person. My thinking is this, why should I compromise my morals over someone else’s actions??
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 12:00 AM
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You don’t want to be with a good wife?! I mean that’s fair enough that’s all you have to say
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 11:51 PM
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I think you do good work and are someone people can get guidance from
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 11:48 PM
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Well statistically they will… most people go on to have relationships. But the quality of them hmmm I’m not too sure how good it will be if people come into them having gripes with each other, certain views etc
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 11:25 PM
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Yep you do
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 11:02 PM
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lol the fight for good husbands continues, how many more can we lose??
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 10:57 PM
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What sucks is that people get other people into a rut who otherwise could have had success… that’s what annoys me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 10:52 PM
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Yea it’s pretty much everywhere lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 10:36 PM
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Sucks this pill stuff seems to have went onto mainstream subreddits in the Gen Z subreddit I’m having a difficult time keeping the boys on a leash and making sure they behave!!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 10:30 PM
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Some people do and some don’t, and there’s certain triggers that can make you think about it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 10:01 PM
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2+2=5 ✅
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 09:30 PM
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I would it should be exclusive to Brigid to see
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 07:14 PM
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Yea it would be cute to laugh together about silly pick up lines
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 08:11 PM
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2/10 I mean it’s funny, but starting off with that with someone you just met… idk I don’t think it would go too well tbh lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 07:25 PM
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9/10 Only bcs I think saying hi or hey is not a bad way to start a conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 07:25 PM
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Option 3 - being depressed together that we can’t afford a home, children etc sounds more appealing than the other options lol, and there’s always a chance things will get better
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 06:03 PM
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Yea I guess that could happen, but ideally you’d have been through this together, they understand, you feel comfortable with each other, it becomes less of an expectation and more of a milestone moment in the relationship which I imagine would make it a better and easier experience
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 05:42 PM
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I’ve read that men can get ED when they are anxious, shy uncomfortable etc, so for the causal option I would consider if you could actually manage being intimate with someone in a short amount of time, bcs it would probably be a terrible experience if you couldn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 05:21 PM
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Yea that’s a lot better, definitely almost impossible to pull off lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 04:49 PM
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5/10 I feel like if you added something after it would be better, like, does your mother need a son in law? Well tell her to stop searching I’m exactly what she ordered
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 04:30 PM
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-100/10 🤦‍♀️ if you said bcs you looks like a catch, it would be 10/10
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 03:37 PM
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Okay 3/10 bcs of the effort
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 02:41 PM
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Flirting class lol, 0/10 btw it’s terrible No but I do think there should be like a social skills class tbh for the younger generations, were becoming increasingly anti social
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 02:36 PM
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lol 11/10 Very charming
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 02:34 PM
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Omg 11/10 Perfect. I feel very rizzed
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 01:47 PM
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6/10 It’s definitely original lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 01:43 PM
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10/10 Love the enthusiasm and feel very rizzed lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 01:41 PM
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9/10
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 01:35 PM
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3/10 It’s disgusting, why not spilled water/ a drink instead lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 01:24 PM
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3/10 No thank you, and no mention of being a good husband
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 01:16 PM
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Give me your best rizz/pick up line and I will rate it /10
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 01:04 PM
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I mean maybe in my mind I definitely thought of some bad words 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 06:09 PM
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lol I wasn’t that angry, it’s just, ‘bitch’?? Like really??
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 05:38 PM
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Yep I guess it’s just individual preferences, like with anything For example in shows I really love episodes which show a characters history, how they became who they are and stuff, or even YouTube videos with like extra theories etc like deep lore stuff lol but some people just don’t care about that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 05:24 PM
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this you don’t remember!!?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 05:21 PM
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Yea I really hate rape scenes they’re horrific, I mean I can understand why they do them for like historical reasons, documentaries etc bcs it does get the point across, gets you in the feelings but yep horrible
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 05:00 PM
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lol really, I start feeling soo awkward idk why
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 04:57 PM
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Mr many dragonfly I’m still very angry with you!! 😠
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 04:56 PM
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lol that intense huh, noted ✅
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 04:24 PM
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Really 🤨 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 04:13 PM
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They can be cute sometimes, it depends how it’s done it’s just when they’re actually going for it I’m like gosh what am I watching 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 04:13 PM
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Of course it does!! lol no it doesn’t either, you can apply this to pretty much anything in life, idk say you want to do an assignment, but you’re tired so you put it off, you want to talk to someone, but you’re scared so you don’t etc
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 03:58 PM
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Do you guys enjoy watching those scenes??
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 03:57 PM
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I’ve not watched it yet, but I’ve got the dove x bridgerton body wash it’s actually really good lol No but it’s just so awkward, like I don’t think I need to see intricate details of how someone is having sex to understand that they like each other
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 03:44 PM
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Sex scenes in movies are so pointless, like okay?? Why does anyone actually need to see this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 03:35 PM
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You know It doesn’t work like that. Sometimes you want to do something but you don’t for various reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 03:18 PM
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Still nice I think really it’s the person that makes it special imo
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 03:08 PM
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I know, I’ve almost been rizzed up here by someone lol, almost
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 03:06 PM
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Oh that’s so cool. I guess it also helps if you’re into the same type of genres, or atleast open to talking about them, must be so difficult to not read ahead if the other person is busy or something lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 09:18 PM
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Sounds like building the courage really paid off for him!! That’s so sweet I’ve always wondered, people with reading hobbies, do you guys spend time together by reading, or is it more about discussing what you have read??
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 09:05 PM
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Me neither lol 😭 It’s cute hearing the stories though, maybe one day!!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 08:45 PM
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Well that’s definitely different lol, hope you guys had fun and at least it sounds like it worked out in the end, good story
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 08:34 PM
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Aww that’s nice, do you guys go hiking together often for dates and stuff??
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 08:32 PM
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Wow that’s a really long time, sounds like you guys really hit it off!! My calf’s would not like that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 08:18 PM
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Aww the farmers market sounds cute!! And I think I already know about the second date lool, would be my favourite too tbh (after I finished dying from the embarrassment)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 08:14 PM
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Yep I also think the bowling story is cute , but for me bowling sucks bcs the ball is really heavy and my arm hurts after lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 08:12 PM
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I’m dying to know, did anything develop with the project idea lool??
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 08:10 PM
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You know I imagine my self getting into a similar situation as you lol, I’m pretty shy too, glad to hear it all worked out in the end!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 08:08 PM
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Gosh I bet you’re so happy you decided to wait instead of calling it off, an hour is a really long time, but atleast it sounds like they made up for it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 07:57 PM
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lol good play on his end!! Do you ever bring it up and laugh together about it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 07:55 PM
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Hey that’s great, it’s kinda a pointless thing to think about if you ask me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 07:51 PM
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Nooo, you must be devastated!!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 07:46 PM
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Aww that’s sweet, did you guys like each other before your first real date but just nobody said anything, or is something that developed as you got to know each other
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 07:44 PM
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Q4 partnered people, how did you meet your partner and what did you do on your first date??
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 07:31 PM
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Helooo mr dickpiller, have you got any new research to enlighten us to??
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 07:31 PM
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Do it in the morning catch em at their worst lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 02:41 PM
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lol nope but they’re not going anywhere until they take the tablets
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 01:19 PM
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Prescribe him 2 paracetamols for the pain and 1 ibuprofen to help with inflammation
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 01:12 PM
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I’m still studying… have a few more months left until I finish
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 12:55 PM
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Yea right, no I’m just joking, but thanks, and btw there will be plenty more of my ramblings 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 12:55 PM
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Did you miss my ramblings is that why you came back here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 12:53 PM
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Aww cool!! From what I’ve heard they like really hard and intense exams, well good luck 🤞
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 12:49 PM
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lol well you got me But that’s amazing what are you studying towards?!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 12:46 PM
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I know and I hope you’re doing great, I deleted my previous comment bcs I don’t feel like doing this chad stuff, you want to comment about that, it’s okay, I’m just past that stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 12:34 PM
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Ahh back to it I see
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 12:28 PM
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I’m hoping my bf does have an interest in doing my hair lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 12:23 PM
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Good work, amazing progress
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 02:06 AM
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We’ve talked about this… Repeat after me ‘Scary girls are bad, I don’t like scary girls’
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 12:04 AM
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Yep they are very cute together, irl they seem like amazing people But gosh I struggled sleeping after that episode… it’s gory lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 11:12 PM
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Omg, really??! I did not know that, but he sucks in the show, how can you cheat on someone like this, she’s so good and soo pretty :(( she deserves the world
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 11:07 PM
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I’m watching the walking dead and I’m on the episode about negans life, and gosh Lucille is the best wife ever, it’s such a devastating story, idk if I could ever forgive cheating, let alone not say anything about it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 10:37 PM
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I only use the app, if I logged into Reddit on my laptop I’d spend my entire day here instead of doing my artsy stuff or assignments lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 10:10 PM
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Same thing, you like pets, you want someone else who likes pets
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 10:09 PM
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Thats like saying 1 person doesn’t like me so everyone else must not like me, nonsense!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 10:01 PM
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Stop the lies!!! We know you would love to do your woman’s hair, you dream of it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 10:00 PM
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Mine updated by it self :( It was slow so I just closed the app, opened it and it’s totally different!! Sneaky!!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 09:50 PM
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<image> This is a true story btw, aspiring to be a good husband will only help you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 09:46 PM
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These fantasies need to stop!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 09:43 PM
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Well I would say yes, but I’ve given up on him, I just hope they treat their next partner well
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 09:37 PM
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Good husbands take their woman seriously!!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 09:30 PM
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That’s so true lol, but this one is just weird. I’m on the iPhone app and I think it’s terrible
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 09:29 PM
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You know it’s the effort that counts!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 09:28 PM
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But you can always learn, it would take so much less time, and I also think it’s such a cute bonding activity to do together. Very romantic lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 09:23 PM
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The new Reddit ui sucks ❌
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 09:19 PM
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I mean it’s a fair deal bcs doing it yourself takes soo much longer
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 09:09 PM
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Stop 🚫 watching porn 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 09:05 PM
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Good husbands should learn how to do a woman’s hair tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 08:54 PM
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I normally just have it down lol but I had it done a few days ago and I went out my comfort zone and got bangs!! had it curled and also put in twin tails, it looked so cutee, I had butterfly clips for the tails lol But it’s just so much effort so curl it my self, braid it etc that I just don’t bother
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 08:43 PM
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It really is lol, just sucks how having your hair done doesn’t last, and doing it yourself is so hard and so much effort
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 08:28 PM
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Gosh miss how my hair looked when I had it done a few days ago, it was soo cutesy and gave off rebellious vibes lol If I had someone to do my hair for me I would be the happiest person in the world
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 08:08 PM
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Yea I feel a similar way that it wouldn’t be my place to comment, or say anything, but I definitely would have an opinion which I wouldn’t share lol. idk to me it’s about life stages, how can someone who’s just starting out in life relate with someone who’s already settled, I guess I can see the appeal if someone just wants a way in to an easier life
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 07:57 PM
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I do lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 07:50 PM
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I think when people reach 35-40 then the gap doesn’t really matter, like they’re both getting old now, settled etc
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 07:50 PM
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Yea I think age gap relationships aren’t that common, mostly people within a few years of each other
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 07:48 PM
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I mean I don’t think most women that age are interest in some guy just to pay for stuff lol, I’m definitely not, I’d love to build with someone it’s soo cute to think about
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 07:48 PM
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Yea I feel a similar way, like it’s not my place to comment but I definitely have an opinion which I will keep to my self lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 07:46 PM
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I mean yea if they’re both consenting adults then it’s not my place to comment, but I won’t lie that it does seem really weird to me
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 07:44 PM
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Idk I just feel uneasy about them 😅 Just how can you relate to someone who’s 10- 15 years older than you, pretty much your parent lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 07:38 PM
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What’s people views on age gap relationships?? Like for me I would do -1 to +3 years but I also think the older you are the less it matters
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 07:34 PM
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Pretty much a futile endeavour lol, but hey it’s soo satisfying when someone does change their mind
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 06:40 PM
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I think as long as your morals are in the right place then being a little mischievous is okay, can’t always be serious and definitely non of us are perfect, we make mistakes
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 10:13 AM
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What do you just say??? you ******* ******* Btw I’m just joking lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 10:03 AM
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Made of steel forged in fire lool
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 10:02 AM
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When I get angry here people think it’s funny lol, they’re like be careful Brigid is angry, it’s fine makes me laugh. But one thing that’s hard to control is how people perceive you, it’s definitely a skill
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 10:00 AM
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Yep unless you know the person well, their motives, intentions etc then it’s difficult to tell. Or sometimes they’re acting aloof but internally they have strong feelings, I know bcs sometimes it happens to me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 09:49 AM
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To me holding frame really is just emotional regulation, and like with certain things you should try to regulate yourself, for example how you react with what people say on the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 09:37 AM
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When you enter a relationship, you’re in a partnership, you work together
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 09:11 AM
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No 🚫 boba teas 🧋at 3:45AM 🕝
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 08:50 AM
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lol I definitely wind up the boys sometimes, they just know better than to try and make me lose frame
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 08:04 AM
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Yep, I’ve never lost frame
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 08:00 AM
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I don’t even think about holding frame, I just do naturally lol 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 07:53 AM
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I and many other women hold frame much better than these red pillers tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 06:53 AM
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I mean I do know of a few people coupled up in my university classes and stuff but I think the attitudes towards dating are not good at all lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 11:39 PM
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Go on tell us lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 11:38 PM
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But that doesn’t stop you coming across terrible people
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 11:37 PM
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Gen Z not dating as much makes sense when putting yourself out there feels like you’re going out to a hellscape, rarely do I hear anyone say dating is fun and people already have so much to stress over lol, wonder what happened tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 11:04 PM
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Aww that’s a good step towards being a good husband!! Showing compassion and care
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 10:50 PM
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You do realise whatever you’ve thought of inside your head just speaks about your mind lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 10:23 PM
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Yep agreed, and if they don’t that means they hate puppies!!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 09:54 PM
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<image> Soo cute
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 09:43 PM
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I’ll take that as a yes lol, okay that’s fine. Wishing you luck
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 07:36 PM
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First clarify to everyone if you’re aspiring to be a good husband?!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 07:31 PM
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Tell her she’s a terrible girlfriend!! And you know better than to entertain this
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 06:59 PM
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lol nope I wasn’t even born then, I’m just joking at the guy who always says ‘back in the days’ I find it hilarious every time they write it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 03:07 PM
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Fridays
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 02:51 PM
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Those were definitely the days
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 02:51 PM
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lol nothing, I’m just being cheeky, I’m bored but I’ll go entertain my self so byeee
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 10:53 AM
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Gosh, back in the days
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 09:55 AM
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I try to sneak away to my room or something, I say I have lots of assignments (I don’t I just want to nap) lool
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 09:50 AM
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I know I get it, but do you ever look towards the future (for example how much of a good husband you will be, how you will design the inside of your home, pets, travel plans, other goals aspirations etc)??
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 09:47 AM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 09:34 AM
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Well I hope it goes well, my family tries to get all together especially for times like Christmas everyone will come, it’s nice but also very draining lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 09:31 AM
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Back in the days is your favourite word isn’t it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 09:25 AM
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Oh wow that’s a really long time what happened??
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 09:25 AM
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I’ve been watching the story with the monkey, punch, and I’m so here for it lol, when I first saw the video of him dragging the plushie around I was devastated, it’s good things are getting better for him
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 08:51 AM
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It’s just disappointing knowing there’s people who will try to take advantage
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 07:17 AM
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It never fails, it’s the best filtering tool, so if I’m not innocent I must be a bitch to them?! Great 🖕 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 07:14 AM
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lol well I wouldn’t care tbh, but I think you misunderstood, it’s more about why they think im innocent, like why do you think that?? It’s a great filtering tool tbh bcs peoples true self come out so quickly
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 07:02 AM
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I hate it when people call me innocent, they think I don’t have self respect or boundaries that I’m easy to manipulate, no, you’ll just get on my bad side and there’s no coming back from that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 06:24 AM
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So I don’t understand why you think we’re all terrible?? I really want to know what happened that makes you thinks this if you don’t mind sharing with me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 10:16 PM
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How do you expect keeping a decent girl when you’re like this?? Your problems are a result of how you are
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 09:43 PM
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I’d want them to tell mee, but it’s impossible I like being skinny!!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 09:40 PM
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It wasn’t funny, I get dark humour but there a limit
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 09:36 PM
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He wants me to believe him, give me a reason!! And btw I no longer wish to talk with you!! Be a better man
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 09:22 PM
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Evidence I’m waiting for it!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 09:16 PM
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I asked for evidence!! Straying from the topic tellls me everything!!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 08:53 PM
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Texts anything!! Show us evidence
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 08:48 PM
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Yep so no evidence just like I thought, you can live your fantasy online I get it!!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 08:28 PM
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Bcs you’re on a subreddit called purple pill debate, active everyday and you provide no evidence for you claims, you embody the mind of a classic red piller who would say such things, it’s all lies, it’s clear lies I know it and that’s all I have to say on this matter
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 08:22 PM
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Pointing out false claims isn’t unpleasant, it feels like it but that doesn’t make it wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 08:14 PM
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I mean I have similar feelings I want to get my self together before I try dating, but also I think putting my sled out there is a toxic hellscape soo I just never get round to it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 08:06 PM
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I’m patiently awaiting your response :)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 07:58 PM
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Never say that again. That’s terrible
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 07:54 PM
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You should know what a good husband is! And you do know bcs you want to be one
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 07:51 PM
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Aww yess!! But why don’t you want a relationship are you trying to work on yourself??
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 07:42 PM
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Well seems like you have an internal conflict to solve
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 07:25 PM
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How 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 07:24 PM
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I mean that’s fair enough lol just as long as you plan to be a good husband afterwards to a good wife
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 07:09 PM
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Awww yesss!! So you’ve changed you mind?? You want a wife now
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 07:08 PM
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I mean cmon do you really think anyone is going to believe a guy telling fantasies on Reddit lol, I think not!!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 07:05 PM
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Hmm you raise a very good point, this is why I say to aspire to be a good husband before you actually are one!! All the pieces are in place
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 07:00 PM
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You could have just said yes!! ‘Yes miss Brigid I do’
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 06:48 PM
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Yea right, we all know you aspire to be the bestest husband!!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 06:47 PM
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Aww that’s really cute fantasy!! But good husbands don’t marry bad wife’s so that’s impossible
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 06:46 PM
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Cookies and paninis are definitely one way to a woman’s heart lool
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 06:39 PM
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So is being a good husband part of being a good person 🤔 sounds like it is!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 06:36 PM
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I’m just checking if my brain washing is working (which it looks like it is) lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 06:36 PM
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That’s good!! Definitely part of being a good husband. But how about after you become a good cook??
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 06:27 PM
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Q4m: are you aspiring to be a good husband??
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 06:19 PM
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I think you responded to the wrong thread bcs I don’t see that how it relates lol??
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 06:03 PM
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Tell her you’re aspiring to be a good husband so if she changes her mind that offer is also on the table
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 05:50 PM
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And I also think it’s a self respect thing, like I’ve tried to talk, you aren’t listening or trying to compromise with me, okay so then that’s it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 03:00 PM
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Yep so certain things definitely I think can be compromised on and should be, but there’s things like for example say gaming, they spend so much time it impacts your relationship, or they prefer spending time with friends over you. Then there’s just no point is there
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 02:35 PM
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Yep I agree with this, I mean it’s a terrible situation but it’s also a self respect thing
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 02:32 PM
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So you wouldn’t let someone know you’re unhappy with something they are doing, no chances you’d just leave??
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 02:29 PM
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I think so too or they just put up with it, and if you really loved someone you’d want to make that change or at least reach some kind of compromise
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 02:27 PM
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Does hoping someone changes ever work out?? I’m beginning to think it’s a futile endeavour, if you get to that point in a relationship it’s pretty much finished unless you decide to put up with it, bcs if they took it seriously and respected you they’d have listened the first time, so giving someone 1 chance seems like the best boundary to have tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 02:25 PM
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Im only joking lol, but now im curious, what kind of person is your type?? Like personality traits and stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 12:41 PM
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Of course, but there’s things you don’t lie about, and you’ve woefully ignored every other thing I mentioned. Anyway just finally the true person has revealed themself (like they always do)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 12:23 PM
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Right bcs women like being lied to, people who don’t keep their word, people who are nasty online, people who try flirting and dming with other girls, let’s make that clear. Right, or she’s just not real
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 12:06 PM
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Well you should change this and be a good husband to your wife!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 11:49 AM
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Are you suree?? Are you hiding something from us 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 11:45 AM
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I don’t like disloyalty too (especially in husbands) lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 11:33 AM
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No 🚫 smoking 🚬 bcs it’s gross 🤢 lol but I think it’s gross too
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 11:28 AM
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Being a classist and looking down on people is horrible, it’s just being intentionally ignorant
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 11:25 AM
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Wow really lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 11:19 AM
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With people who been cheated on being a dealbreaker is there a reason behind it or just something you’d rather avoid having to deal with??
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 11:19 AM
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Good list!!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 11:18 AM
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lol nothing a few rounds of brain washing won’t solve!!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 02:02 AM
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Oh being aggressive towards me I could not put up with that lol, I don’t like it when someone takes out their frustrations on someone else
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 01:48 AM
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Wdym it’s short and fine??
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 01:29 AM
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Aww luckkyyy!!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 01:29 AM
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What are some of your guys instant dealbreakers?? For me it’s anyone who talks about, interacts with people in an unpleasant way bcs if they do it someone then they’ll probably do it to you, doesn’t like pets, too political, liar, and a big one is not keeping your word, I find that a lot of people don’t keep their word
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 01:22 AM
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Well my hair being longer is a connected to Irish mythology, to brigid in Irish mythology she is a redhead goddess, or fairy if you go deep enough, I used it as a self confidence thing to grow it out, to be like her bcs I’m a red head and I had a rough time with it growing up. I wouldn’t call it spiritual though lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 12:15 AM
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lol not really I’ve had longer hair my whole life pretty much I just never bothered with styling it that much but I want to start experimenting
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 12:05 AM
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I mean I’ve been to the hairdressers yesterday and it’s down to mid back, it was to my lower back but I had it styled, I had it heat curled, I got bangs!! And she also put it in twin tails it looked sooo cute, but to maintain and bring out natural curls it’s just so much effort
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 11:49 PM
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Yep I’m trying to get through like a 50 page guide to bring our natural curls and the different products, routines, for different hairtypes etc 🙃 And gosh it can take a year or two of a constant routine once you find one!!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 11:47 PM
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That would make it worse lol!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 11:45 PM
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I don’t I literally been to the hairdressers yesterday and it turns out I have curly hair, and with a good routine I can get really good curls, so I’m trying to get my head round reading like a 50 page guide
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 10:32 PM
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I don’t think I will lol and btw it’s miss Brigid!!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 10:28 PM
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Ughhh why does hair care need to be so complex and so much effort 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 10:25 PM
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I was just being cheeky but yep the last season is a bit ridiculous, I think they should have just a made a happy forever after ending when they reached the city tbh instead of more drama
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 03:47 PM
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That’s bcs your attention span isn’t that good lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 12:48 PM
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He would be an amazing husband!! Hmmm maybe a little bit of a rebel but that’s okay
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 01:41 AM
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Lool He is hilarious in the show, and he sure does love his chicken, nearly died for it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 01:31 AM
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Lost in space is really good!! It’s the one with the alien robots, I love the family and the ending it’s so wholesome
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 01:18 AM
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Yep, they really are, have you got any??
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 01:05 AM
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It’s great!! Another show I really want to watch is game of thrones, but it sooo expensive I’m hoping it’s free with the subscription one day
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 01:02 AM
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It’s on Disney + and prime if you have those, I have them all bcs I watch a lot of shows lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 12:46 AM
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I really enjoy watching it, it’s my favourite show, the last season isn’t that great but all the other seasons are amazing imo, just the character development, the story how it changes from survival to building something, I think it’s worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 12:42 AM
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It’s really grounding, like you’ll get yourself into a rut and you have like a month to feel sorry for yourself lol when the show is on, then once it finishes you can begin sorting out your life, it’s great
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 12:31 AM
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Hmm I’m not sure it’s definitely a bit later on in the show, and they’re like half cured, they still look like zombies but they behave human, it’s actually hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 12:14 AM
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Yep with cookies!!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 12:10 AM
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Really, I find that hard to believe lol you know considering that perhaps you aren’t so sincere in your arguments either
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 12:04 AM
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Oh happy cake day btw it just came up lol!!! 🥳
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 12:02 AM
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Oh there’s definitely no answers lol, I think in the first season when they go to the CDC they make it obvious that they actually have no idea what’s going on But there’s also a spin off show, called Z nation, that one’s more comedy and they come up with a ‘cure’ for the disease, it’s hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 12:00 AM
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Really, it’s literally just getting started, after that season is when it gets super interesting, like snacks and dry eyes interesting lool
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 11:50 PM
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I don’t think I’ve actually watched anything from the 70s I’ll look at stuff and see it’s made in like 1995 I go nope I just skip it, might try giving one of these a go maybe it’s just getting used to the difference in quality
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 11:49 PM
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Oh I love it when negan shows up, it’s just constant drama lol, and it’s just how the characters and everything developed, they went from living on a farm, a prison, barely surviving to a thriving community, they’re focus changed from survival to trying to rebuild the world
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 11:40 PM
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I mean that’s what’s Netflix, Disney is for lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 11:34 PM
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Older stuff is better directed and has a much more interesting plots, it’s literally just the quality and graininess that puts me off them. like I’ve been trying to find some new shows and really I’ve only enjoyed fallout and Wednesday, those a great
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 11:34 PM
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I’m more into like sci fi / alternative universe kind of shows, Marvel stuff, star trek is good, but the new ones I can’t stand the low quality and obvious CGI lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 11:20 PM
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Idk it just comforts me I can’t explain it. But I can’t do with every show or movie
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 11:16 PM
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Yep, I’ll just isolate and watch the entire thing, the last season is kind of boring tbh, well the last few episodes really
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 11:15 PM
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I’m watching the walking dead series for the 3rd time, it’s my comfort show, takes me like 1.5 months to finish it lol, Daryl and carol are my favourite characters
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 11:12 PM
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You two would make for absolutely terrible husbands An instant dealbreaker is when someone talks about/ interacts with people unpleasantly, bcs if they do it to someone else, sooner or later they will do it to you So keep that in mind :)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 08:39 PM
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Perhaps but I love napping it’s my favourite activity
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 07:43 PM
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Yep it makes you scratch your head
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 07:43 PM
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It wasn’t here, there’s no point here I learnt this ages ago. I started an infinite comment chain in the Gen Z subreddit, but some people just got on my nerves!! lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 07:42 PM
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My head feels like it’s going to explode lol, I do not recommend participating
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 07:31 PM
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Gosh how do people debate here all day, I done a few hours and I need a nap !! It’s draining
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 07:27 PM
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Might say that actually lol, no I won’t I’d feel terrible
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 07:11 PM
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One thing I don’t like about old people is that they always got to have had it harder, like please it doesn’t need to be a competition can we not just agree that it’s getting harder for everyone, it’s definitely not getting better lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 07:08 PM
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I just doomed in the Gen Z subreddit and I feel great lol it’s good to let it all out sometimes and feel understood
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 06:04 PM
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Wimin of course, I don’t even know why you asked
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 03:31 PM
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Nope I’m not listening to this, that’s just what you want
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 11:03 AM
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I mean I can tell you the usual things like being kind, nice supportive etc but really I think it’s something you learn, it’s unique to what someone wants from their partner, what you’re willing to do
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 10:20 AM
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I mean that’s also a possibility lool, but atleast the intentions are there right???
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 10:17 AM
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😌 🥇 lol I’m just being cheeky, we can all be no 1 wife’s to our husbands
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 09:48 AM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 09:21 AM
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I’ve explained that lots of times, you know I’m actually devastated bcs I put a lot of effort into doing that and you’re telling me you have nothing :(
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 08:32 AM
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Yep and it’s more than that it’s this whole toxic culture they are pushing
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 08:28 AM
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So you’ve not been taking notes??! I’ve explained aspire to be a good husband
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 08:19 AM
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I really hope men stop idolising that idiot. Him and those other people are going to ruin to ruin an entire generation
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 04:13 AM
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He’s hilarious!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 04:49 PM
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I always found it soo cute how the donkey helped the dragon and they fell in love, but I was too young to ask the real question How did they have babies lol, now I have some theories
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 01:45 PM
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It’s just a fun movie. That’s all it’s ever going to be for me, it’s like in English class when you’re reading a book and the teacher stops bcs the narrator says ‘the curtains were red’ and there’s supposedly some meaning behind it, but the entire time you’re just thinking what are you talking about lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 01:08 PM
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😇 🥇
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 09:10 AM
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lol <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 08:20 AM
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Of course we’re not real, it’s whatever they put in the water makes you think you see us, talk to us lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 07:48 AM
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It’s similar to those memes you see where they say women don’t exist, or were like a psyop made by the government or something like who even makes that up lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 11:18 PM
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One can read the intrusctions and the other one can build, idk if it would work but it’s sounds cute lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 10:49 PM
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Building Lego’s together sounds so awesome, well I hope you guys have fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 10:44 PM
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That’s very sweet and thoughtful, sounds like a very good husband!! - men take notes
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 10:16 PM
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I asked a question about yourself!! Not women lol, which you haven’t answered But I get it, perhaps after all you aren’t too good handling the truth either when it comes to it But my point is, if you let terrible people affect your morals (lying) then maybe your morals weren’t too good to begin with So just something to think about :)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 04:50 PM
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‘Wimin wimin wimin’ how about you tell us what makes you so different from these terrible women, I mean you’ve already openly admitted to lying sooo
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 03:45 PM
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So in that case you just lied, that means you think we can handle the truth and you don’t lie to us, aww that’s so sweet!!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 03:26 PM
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Unacceptable!!! If my husband wrote this I would show them the door lool There shouldn’t be anyone else on your mind if you love someone… if you respect the person and have these feelings the best thing you can do is tell them, perhaps you can work through it somehow, but I doubt it. I wouldn’t put up with it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 02:24 PM
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Idk I just want to work out my butt 🤷‍♀️ But men like butts lol, like obsessed with them, I think it’s fine it’s cute
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 11:58 AM
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18 😞 lol, it’s healthy ok!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 09:09 AM
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I know but I still wouldn’t mind having a slightly bigger butt lol 🤷‍♀️ I think it’s nice as it is but if worked out more and stuff it could be really nice
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 08:15 AM
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Yoga
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 07:40 AM
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30c / 32b depends tbh on the bra and what kind of look I’m going for
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 07:30 AM
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lol we can’t count, I heard men they are really good at counting
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 02:48 AM
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So you can make sure it’s all there 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 02:41 AM
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Oh no the grass needs counting!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 02:16 AM
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lol I did (and I can’t) 🙈
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 02:14 AM
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Bcs you’ve been mean your 1 week of no wimin terrible comments has restarted 😠
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 02:12 AM
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That’s a good question, I’m leaning on saying nothing pretty much, it took a lot to get to that place where I’m comfortable with my self But perhaps I’d gain a little weight ( for my butt and legs lol) and I have some acne blemishes so id get rid of those
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 01:27 AM
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Nope I’m not sucking my toes or trying to!! 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 01:25 AM
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Omg people here are so mean!! I think it’s sooo sweet you went out with her for dinner 🥳😌
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 01:23 AM
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Hmm I think just brown is okay lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 12:48 AM
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Idk what you want me to say, I can’t think of anything else that’s weird or depraved lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 12:47 AM
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I’m 5’2 and ginger!! Very coppery colour
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 12:30 AM
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I mean idk how to answer this, I don’t care about that, I like my self and that’s what matters to me, but if other people find me attractive?? Hmm I think so, I get fetishised for my hair, my height, I’ve had people approach me, ask me out, I get complimented, but it just doesn’t mean much to me, I’m not bothered what someone thinks of me
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 12:15 AM
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Omg lol not that much!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 11:55 PM
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Pretty much everything lol, like just their life’s and stuff, how they looked, their confidence, how they’re outgoing
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 11:55 PM
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I used to as a teenager, I don’t really anymore idk I’m a lot more comfortable with my self, a lot more self confident
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 11:52 PM
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So I have a weird one 🤷‍♀️ I think I shared it before about how I have a fantasy of like having an emotional broken/ closed off guy break to me and open to me, like they’ll be the first person they feel safe and comfortable to share that stuff with and be vulnerable with me But it’s just a fantasy lol, irl I know it’s not going to go well
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 11:51 PM
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You know, I don’t know and I’m not going to try it lol just bcs you said it, but I am curious if I can lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 11:49 PM
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Yep it’s just feels like high school stuff lol I literally just don’t care for it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 11:47 PM
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Bcs I only want to warn people from doing things, the rest I don’t care I’m not interested in drama or spreading it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 11:37 PM
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But why 😞?? I haven’t done anything to you, and I told you that your username is wrong, well that this being mean stuff wouldn’t work on mee, so I don’t get it tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 11:15 PM
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Oohhh nope I’m not sending pictures especially not after the last incident with people sharing theirs!!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 11:01 PM
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Omg thanks!! 🙈 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 10:57 PM
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Awww would you actually??? I mean I’ve already got a few lol, like it’s up to you if you want to seriously I wouldn’t mind 🤷‍♀️. And I’ve also wrote everyone a card Btw happy cake day 🥳
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 10:51 PM
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No seriously don’t like it’s actually so annoying!! Just ask the question, or tell me what it’s about so I don’t have to answer
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 10:49 PM
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Omg now I’m curious!! But if you don’t want to it’s okay
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 10:34 PM
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Hmm I don’t think a question will get you banned lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 10:30 PM
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I tend to overthink and feel embarrassed idk why
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 10:28 PM
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Yep that’s what someone suggested to me is to try to be open and just do things im uncomfortable with, but with not a lot of consequences, bcs nobody here knows me it’s seems like a good place tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 10:18 PM
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So I have no idea if I was… do people remember these things lol. I mean I like mine, they’re nice, I don’t find them to be anything special or something to obsess over like guys do, like I just don’t see the appeal
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 10:16 PM
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lol I did say it’s okay, but my heart is racing 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 10:13 PM
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I’ve never tried this before
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 10:10 PM
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Well I don’t have a social circle, but I don’t like having lots of attention on me, I’m pretty shy, awkward it doesn’t really help my life tbh lol it’s hard to get over
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 10:09 PM
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Ask Brigid an intrusive question! I’ll leave my comfort zone and I have been asking you guys lots of questions so I will reciprocate, if there is anything you want to know I will answer :)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 10:06 PM
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lol so i just decided that I will avoid answering personal questions online, bcs peoples use that and then talk about you, wish I could be more open and I can be but yep if I feel comfortable I will share
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 08:51 PM
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I understand I was just curious to know why you did change bcs I was going to say that I don’t want to answer (so other peoples don’t ask lol), btw I don’t think there’s anything wrong with asking, and I do appreciate the thought that maybe I wouldn’t have wanted to answer I agree it’s something a good husband would do 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 08:40 PM
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I would answer, it’s good questions to know, but not to strangers!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 08:36 PM
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Is this an ask Brigid intrusive questions day lol, btw I don’t think it’s wrong to ask I’m just letting you guys know that I won’t answer these type of questions
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 08:22 PM
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Oh I wasn’t going to answer lol I just clicked on my notification and then saw the comment be totally different, btw you shouldn’t have edited bcs it’s even more 🤨 lool
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 07:53 PM
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Why did you edit the question 🤔 <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 07:44 PM
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🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 06:56 PM
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😱 A good wife wouldn’t say that!!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 06:36 PM
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Aww that’s cute thanks!! ☺️🫶
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 05:01 PM
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But I don’t have one 😞 However you’re right! And I would 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 04:49 PM
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I wouldn’t waste my time tbh they’re a known troll, you can’t win
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 04:48 PM
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Awww thanks but I’m not counting on it lol ☺️🫶
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 04:42 PM
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Aww nooo my stomach isn’t going to like this !!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 04:13 PM
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Thanks !! 🥰🫶
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 04:12 PM
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Oh of course, it’s just a joke I have here lol I think mostly everyone here knows, but thanks 🫶
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 04:12 PM
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lol yea right, but I’m only joking so I will let you off today (bcs I’m feeling nice not evil) 😌🫶
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 03:19 PM
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🙂🫶
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 02:30 PM
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‘Thanks miss Brigid that’s sweet, have a happy valentines’ those exact words but thanks 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 02:24 PM
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😇🫶
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 02:23 PM
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Aww noo you’re a good bf dont try lying to us lol 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 02:05 PM
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❤️❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 02:04 PM
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🫶
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 01:44 PM
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😌
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 01:28 PM
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Aww thanks! Nom nom nom, whoops I eaten them all lol 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 01:00 PM
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Aww thanks that’s sweet
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 12:59 PM
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Happy Valentine’s Day!! 💜 I’ve made a card for everyone (excluding bad bfs/ husbands lol) so if you didn’t get one, well now you did, Save it, frame it hang it on your wall!! :) <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 12:57 PM
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Yesssss
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 12:49 PM
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Noooo
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 12:49 PM
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😈 🥇
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 08:20 AM
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Of course not, we’re terrible!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 05:22 AM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 05:20 AM
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Okay I’ve just finished pulling my hair out lool, stop being difficult!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 04:38 AM
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Exactly lol, people who want casual sex won’t shift to buying sex work, it’s a completely different thing Perhaps it’s more to do with why the individual is struggling, and that’s what should be addressed imo, social skills, insecurities etc those are likely the reasons they are struggling
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 04:12 AM
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It does but that doesn’t stop people, if you look at studies there’s not much difference in the numbers before & after it gets legalised
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 03:58 AM
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Bcs if those men really considered using sex workers then they would have done it anyway, illegally, they just don’t want to
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 03:53 AM
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Yep I do. I think the majority are being sincere
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 03:46 AM
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It’s a terrible reason (for many different reasons) lol but I think you know that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 03:42 AM
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That’s not why sex work should be legalised lol, I think sex work should be legal so that workers have more rights and protections. Just like drugs will never stop prostitution never will too, so at least regulate it, keep tabs and keep everyone as safe as possible!!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 03:11 AM
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I understand humour but joking taking advantage of people it’s just not funny 😞
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 10:42 PM
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No that’s where you’re wrong, being deceptive to have sex is terrible, how could you live with yourself for doing that?? Why would you not prefer to have sex with someone who you love, and they love you, youre each others worlds, it’s literally infinitely better is it not I get it, you get horny, I do too!! I’m okay using my toy to get me by… I can wait until I find someone, I won’t be deceptive and use someone, definitely wouldn’t suggest that to other people
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 10:12 PM
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A good husband wouldn’t say that!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 09:50 PM
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Why did you get banned?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 09:37 PM
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Nope it just further proofs what I said ages ago, that I don’t and never will take you seriously, stick to the subject or just dont comment 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 09:33 PM
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I just don’t understand why they see it a some kind of attack Like why would you not want to be a good bf lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 09:31 PM
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Oh okay so you go on a tangent instead, that’s good to know
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 09:29 PM
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That’s not answering my question
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 09:24 PM
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Well I appreciate you being the first person to actually answer the question lol, everyone else seems to freeze
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 09:18 PM
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Hmm there was a personal attack he called me a child!!!! But I’m okay with that, I’ve asked a different question. Why assume it’s one sided?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 09:09 PM
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It literally just did lool scroll down
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 09:03 PM
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No stop copying me lol 😠
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 09:00 PM
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Why is it that when I say to men to be a good bf, they go up in arms about how it’s only one sided?! You wouldn’t want to be with a woman who is not a good gf to you would you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 08:55 PM
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(We do)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 08:46 PM
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Yess!!! I knew it 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 08:45 PM
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Nope that’s not good enough I’ve made it clear that I want to be a good gf, what makes you think that by saying be a good bf, it’s only one sided?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 08:43 PM
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What’s weird is you assume that it’s one sided Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 08:39 PM
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Aww so you do agree 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 08:31 PM
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But it’s not a fantasy and you know it’s not, there’s lots of good gfs
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 08:20 PM
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Nope bcs I would be a good gf
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 08:18 PM
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I mean I’m joking about the Brigid tax, I don’t expect them to pay I’m happy to split But bcs I’m very shy, awkward I don’t think I’d be able to build up the courage to ask someone out, I’m not against it and perhaps one day I could, but I think men have more courage
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 08:17 PM
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Hotlack don’t tell me that you wouldn’t want to be a good bf (to a good gf)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 08:15 PM
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Yep I think both people should aspire to put 100% into a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 08:12 PM
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Would you pay the Brigid tax 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 08:10 PM
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See I think you like to act tough, but why would you not want to treat you gf well, and I’m only joking about the clown thing. But just being a good bf
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 08:09 PM
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Yep 🥰 And btw I know you’d love to do that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 08:07 PM
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That’s not whimsical
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 08:00 PM
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Loyalty, respect, thoughtfulness, effort, you know just being there for them, treating them good, checking in, surprises, supporting them and that kind of stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 07:58 PM
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2026 version lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 07:51 PM
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Yesss!!! I Always knew you’d agree 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 07:32 PM
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If I was a man I’d aspire to treat my gf like a queen
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 07:27 PM
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Brigid tax - they ask, plan and pay lol Tbh I wouldn’t mind it going either way but I’m too shy awkward to initiate so really it just wouldnt go any other way, I’d reciprocate on the second date
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 04:37 PM
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Aww you’re asking us for approval, hmm let me think 🤔 Nope not allowed, maybe if you go 1 week without a wimin terrible comment I will change my mind
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 09:28 PM
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Aww thanks 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 04:02 PM
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Yep it’s rough sometimes lol but once it’s done it’s done I know you’ve got this 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 03:43 PM
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I wish I could do this with mine I usually leave mine so late 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 03:25 PM
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Let me guess, assignments??
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 02:56 PM
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Or just a day for yourself that’s what I’m planning to do 🤷‍♀️ Wash my hair and stuff, spend like ages in the shower lol do my nails, maybe dress up, get some nice food snacks and watch a few movies
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 02:25 PM
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They didn’t want people to start crying bcs they’re single lol, but I also think valentines doesn’t necessarily have to be celebrated with a partner or a date
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 02:11 PM
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Yep it probably is just a waste of money, I really like looking at the displays idk it’s just a nice atmosphere, but I have read that people are changing how they celebrate, it’s now becoming more homely with less money being spent, I’d probably do something similar just a nice relaxing date sounds good, but hope you guys enjoy your night!!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 02:01 PM
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Aww that’s amazing they used to decorate here, well mainly just the centre but now that’s just depressing lol Perhaps it’s bcs everyone just gets stuff online now, it seems to kill everything like events, displays. Everyone just stays home so nobody will see it anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 01:34 PM
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That’s a good point, I’ve looked into it and the number of adults who say they celebrate valentines dropped by 7% in the last few years, to around 51% which I think is surprisingly low It does suck tbh everything going online bcs I also remember even my city put up displays like hearts and stuff hanging from buildings in the centre, maybe they just don’t think it’s worth the investment anymore nobody’s going to be there to look
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 01:27 PM
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Looks like less people are celebrating valentines I remember going into stores and they’d put up big displays, lots of cards, plushies, gifts chocolates etc it looked cute really felt special but now it’s just like half an aisle with a few cards and plushies lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 12:27 PM
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Yep it sucks, I mean I have very conflicting feelings about it part of me is okay with it and another part is not so idk, but thanks!!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 09:22 AM
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Lol no I don’t I can barely form surface level friendships how will I get a bf
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 09:16 AM
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We’ll have fun! I will be cozying in my sweats bcs that’s what I do lool
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 09:07 AM
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My Labrador bf post got to you didn’t it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 08:47 AM
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If a cat can be this loyal so can a good husband 😇
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 12:38 AM
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That’s complicating it too much. it’s just an incompatibility the feelings are probably mutual, you think she’s a prude and she thinks well you’re trying to get in her panties, best to move on and not think about it too much tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 11:44 PM
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That’s why Labrador husbands are good so they can deal with it patiently lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 10:48 PM
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I don’t think they know themselves lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 10:45 PM
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Oh they definitely can be very sensitive!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 09:50 PM
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<image> Omg too cute!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 09:35 PM
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Now I want a Labrador bcs I posted about Labrador husbands but the dog is actually soo cute lol, maybe a labradoodle so it stays a tiny ball of fluff forever
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 09:31 PM
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Aww yep like to me that sounds perfect
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 09:15 PM
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Oh definitely not but it’s like a bonding exercise lol, it makes a relationship stronger. I’ve not seen the story with those streamers you’ve commented so idk what’s happened
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 08:42 PM
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I don’t want a fancy wedding with lots of people I’d be happy with just our families being there and just a small venue to celebrate, lots of people don’t have fancy weddings, ive been to a few and they’ve all been pretty humble
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 08:36 PM
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No but I think it’s a good sign if you can make it through rough moments as a couple
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 08:27 PM
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Tbh same, a cute Labrador is a really good alternative. Well make it 2 and also a very cute cat
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 08:13 PM
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Hmm tbh I don’t think it will actually die but a lot of alternatives will gain more traction, they will feel it for sure lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 08:12 PM
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Yea right if they cared they’d have done something about it ages ago
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 08:10 PM
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Exactly lol they probably already know exactly who you are just by your internet/ email and things but something about giving my face and id to use websites bugs me lol, I’m a very private person and that’s like the appeal of the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 08:09 PM
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Looks like discord is going to die bcs of the age verification, sucks tbh I don’t use it often I’m in a few artsy, study servers and people are already leaving lol but it’s nice having somewhere to post my arts, get tips and stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 07:28 PM
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Well we can’t have it all lol 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 06:33 PM
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We all know secretly you want to be a good Labrador bf it’s okay to say it lol Well anyway if you change your mind you can refer back to my comment
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 06:22 PM
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And don’t forget about cuddles, pets and stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 05:51 PM
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Yep as well as being let off the leash at times, but only if you haven’t been playing up lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 05:49 PM
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It’s hilarious it’s good to make a point, I picked the lab bcs I think they’re cuter lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 05:45 PM
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I will I’m trying to make men here see the benefits of being a good husband, like how can you look at that cute face and say I don’t want be like it???
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 05:35 PM
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I think they’re great bfs and ideally you’d have a mixture of both in a good husband
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 05:33 PM
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Nope this isn’t up for discussion 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 05:20 PM
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Nope I just posted about a great role model so read it and take notes 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 05:15 PM
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They are terrible role models lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 05:10 PM
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<image> This is a Labrador, soo cute and a perfect companion, but what else are labradors good for? They are the perfect role model on how to be a good husband!!! Why, bcs they are •Unfailingly loyal A Labrador is ride or die. Your wins are their wins •Emotionally available They notice when you’re sad and will sit with you until you’re okay, no fixing, just their presence •Low drama, high joy Labradors wake up happy. Every day. They’d bring good vibes only to a marriage without being fake about …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 04:56 PM
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😞 My quest has failed
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 04:41 PM
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👍 btw I’m not even going to read this
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 02:32 PM
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A role model is someone you can take inspiration from, how to act in this world etc, their moral compass it’s not about scandals or being a celebrity
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 02:27 PM
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And that’s exactly what they do Nobody is perfect but there’s a clear line between someone being absolutely terrible and an overall positive person
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 02:09 PM
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It’s terrible, this world sucks
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 02:06 PM
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There’s people here in their 30s, 40s like there’s a time to grow up imo
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 02:04 PM
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People share stuff that kids do bcs they’re kids and put them online for upvotes, we all done stupid things as children its expected
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 02:04 PM
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Yep exactly that’s a very good role model lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 02:01 PM
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Bcs they are good men, they do good things in the world. They don’t spread hate or toxic stuff, they have good morals So what I’m understanding is that if you don’t think they are good role models, it means you have terrible morals
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 02:00 PM
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There’s so many good male role models like Keane reeves, Steve Irwin etc but why do men choose to follow these red pill idiots, scammers I don’t get it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 01:50 PM
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lol but that’s what I don’t understand is why be mean and stuff?? That’s not how to be a good husband I think that should be clear And also there’s probably a lot of single women looking for someone and seeing this stuff will just put them off even more
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 01:24 PM
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It’s terrible to see tbh there was progress at first like I sensed a much more positive environment but I’ve read some stuff that I gasped so ✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 01:20 PM
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I’ve given up on my idea of making good husbands here things seem to be going the opposite direction lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 01:17 PM
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Well I don’t think it was bullying they seemed to enjoy doing it, a game just normal teenager things but I understand perhaps you take this seriously or don’t like that kind of humour 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 01:00 PM
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Guys in my school would play games trying to hit each other in the balls and stuff like they found it funny lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 12:55 PM
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I know they banned social media for teenagers in Australia and tbh the last thing I want to do is send photos of my self my id and stuff to use websites. I really hope it doesn’t come anywhere else or they think of a better way of doing it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 12:46 PM
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Oooh mr serious well I guess not everyone enjoys this type of humour
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 12:26 PM
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Yep I don’t think governments should be restricting people like this I can kind of get it but it should be on parents to put in parental controls for their children… that’s the issue they seem to have is with teenagers accessing social media and stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 12:24 PM
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Well I guess it’s a good excuse to accidentally give them a kick in the balls lool
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 12:15 PM
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I didn’t I usually don’t remember my dreams but I’m just hoping I don’t move around or talk in my dreams bcs that’s terrible lol it would be annoying for someone sleeping next to me
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 11:59 AM
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I had a nightmare and I screamed and I think I screamed irl bcs I woke myself up 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 11:13 AM
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By cuddly you mean they’re so cute you want to jump on them and give them cuddles lol??
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 08:47 PM
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Aww that’s sweet wishing many more happy years for you guys
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 08:31 PM
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Battle scars lol that’s cute
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 08:25 PM
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Describe to me the woman of your dreams, one that comes to mind, stop being difficult lol!!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:14 AM
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Perhaps it’s conventionally attractive but I think having a type means some stuff which you find extra attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:13 AM
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I like slightly longer hair too (so I can pull it when they’re playing up lool)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:05 AM
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So you have no physical preferences at all??
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:59 AM
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Aww that’s cute
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:54 AM
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Aww noo don’t say that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:54 AM
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From the comments I can see a really huge variety of types people like And I hope you are taking care of yourself!!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:49 AM
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Hey it’s okay!! To me your comment read fine, thank you for sharing 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:45 AM
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So a man of many tastes, lol I’m joking thanks for sharing
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 10:32 PM
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lol the last sentence is hilarious, thanks for sharing!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 10:05 PM
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I’m definitely a sucker for a nice joyful smile too
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 10:04 PM
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Yess I like nice bright eyes too, green, blue, hazel all of them lol, thanks for sharing!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 10:04 PM
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By long legs do you mean they’re probably a little on the taller side??
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 10:03 PM
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Aww that’s so sweet, wish you guys well!! Thanks for sharing
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 10:02 PM
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Well that’s rather detailed lol I guess I did ask, thanks for sharing!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 10:00 PM
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Aww that’s cute, hope all goes well with you guys!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 09:58 PM
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Aww that sounds just like me lool I’m joking thanks for sharing!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 09:57 PM
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Nooo 😞
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 07:18 PM
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I’m asking for your type!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 07:08 PM
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No more to add?? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 07:06 PM
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Interesting! Thanks for sharing
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 07:06 PM
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I agree if I don’t like them as a person then the physical aspects wouldn’t matter one bit, it wouldn’t go further
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 06:54 PM
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You would put angels into prison??
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 06:49 PM
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I’m only joking btw I don’t think most of us are that terrible tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 06:48 PM
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Oh okay I see what you mean, they’re like very open
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 06:46 PM
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Right it’s much better to spend your time laughing
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 06:44 PM
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Oohh we have a mr serious over here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 06:44 PM
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That is very true, I definitely agree
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 06:42 PM
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That’s interesting so you’re type becomes the person you end up falling for pretty much, I’ve always thought this happens like you’ll have a picture in your head of your perfect person but who you fall for isn’t necessarily exactly like you imagine
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 06:41 PM
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I have a very similar type to you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 06:38 PM
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Wdym by big eyes??
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 06:38 PM
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I’m ginger but I’m 5’2 lool
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 06:37 PM
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Yep you’ve got us, what now??
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 06:30 PM
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Cmon you can do better than that lol, give me details!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 06:25 PM
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You know I’m surprised to hear you say that bcs I always took you for someone who is super serious, I don’t think I’ve ever seen you crack a joke or anything lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 06:25 PM
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Q4A: what is your type looks wise which you tend to gravitate towards?? And for those in a relationship how close is the person to your ‘type’
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 05:35 PM
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Sooo is that a yes?? You like when you can be silly together, not everything has to be super serious
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 04:51 PM
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It’s such a nonsensical comment lol like what am I meant to reply to that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 04:38 PM
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They should all have I think it’s just automod messing up, I had someone use my comment as an auto mod like lol thanks??
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 04:28 PM
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Tbh I wouldn’t date someone super serious too, I’d like someone to be silly with and perhaps even mischievous at times lool, I don’t mean like breaking the law and things but just like playing pranks on each other and stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 03:46 PM
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Definitely there’s times which call for seriousness but I couldn’t imagine always being serious, being whimsical is how I like to entertain my self lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 03:39 PM
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Question for men: do you like it when a woman likes to be a little whimsical/silly at times??
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 03:25 PM
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I’d make similarly incoherent posts on askreddit thinking I’m absolutely hilarious but I’d just get downvoted lool so yep I don’t do that anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 02:42 PM
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If they are how would I know?? it’s not like they’d tell me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 02:27 PM
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I hate it when peoples tell me to smile, like if I wanted to smile I’d be smiling
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 01:16 PM
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I have before and this was my reaction lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 12:24 PM
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That’s why you put them on a leash so they don’t stray off too far lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 12:09 PM
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Maybe I’m just a romantic lol, bcs genuinely if you asked me If id rather have wanting to just have sex with me bcs they find me hot or if they’d rather have sex with me bcs they find me hot and want to spend their life with me. I’d choose latter option every single time
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 08:05 PM
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From what people I’ve been friends with tell me a lot of causal relationships end in someone catching feelings, so someone being hurt bcs they’re not reciprocated Like rarely do these kinds of relationships actually end on good terms from looks of things. I guess it kind of does make sense it’s mostly inexperienced people who want them, but idk to me being truly loved would precedence over something casual
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 07:56 PM
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It’s amazing how opposite the views are between men and women when it comes to causal sex, like literally totally opposite Most women don’t seem to view causal sex as an achievement, and if they do enjoy it, it’s just for fun, where as for most men, it’s a thing where they feel truly desired, but it seems for most women how they feel desired is being truly loved by someone, being the only one
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 07:46 PM
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Hmm perhaps it’s like a societal or cultural thing? Bcs I genuinely would feel infinitely more desired if someone loved me, wanted to stay with just me, like I’m their whole world, I’m the only woman outside their friends or family that matters to them
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 07:34 PM
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What I don’t understand is why do men value hookups so much Like you will spend all this time to have 1 sexual experience with someone, and that is it, then you will spend time to do it again?? The time, the effort, the rejection between etc With a relationship you are having consistent sex, with someone you love, how is that not better?? I’m so curious
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 07:25 PM
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lool okay but I can’t promise anything 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 01:18 PM
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That sucks 😞
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 01:16 PM
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Thanks will try to 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 09:52 AM
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I sucked at the game lol like the combat and stuff but I loved the story, it’s my favourite game and also bcs of the art
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 09:51 AM
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:(
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 09:50 AM
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Yep I do
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 09:50 AM
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Sometimes I’ve not really found anything to play since expedition 33, I usually just do artsy stuff if I got spare time
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 09:16 AM
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lol no I don’t think that’s good for you tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 09:16 AM
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Hopefully or I’ll just isolate for a month or two lol so ✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 09:03 AM
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Well looks like I got my self in a depressive rut, that’s going to be fun 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 08:45 AM
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How can someone who knows nothing about me like me, tbh it just seems like they’re trying to take advantage of the fact that I’m lonely, there’s definitely nothing genuine about it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 07:52 AM
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I’ve even had it happen here a few times… like I get it I have my gender revealed and my avatar isn’t helping but still it just shouldn’t happen And it’s not only that bcs a lot of the times those people aren’t so friendly with you afterwards when they realise it isn’t happening, actually terrible
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 01:14 AM
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Sucks how online I pretty much can’t go to any community without immediately being asked out or trying to be flirted with, bcs it makes it so awkward to stay there after and it doesn’t feel nice And I don’t get it like what are those people actually expecting?? you don’t know my name, you literally know nothing about me, I know nothing about you. I’m open to potentially finding a relationship online, but not 5 minutes after talking to someone lol, it’s a very bad first impression tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 12:32 AM
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Yep that’s really good, I like my whole head scratched pretty much lol I think it’s where I have really long hair so it irritates my skin, I do it all the time to my self
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 11:42 PM
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Looks like again won’t have nobody to give me head scratches this valentines 😠
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 11:32 PM
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Ok party don’t act like you never thought it was clear orange juice and not just an empty bottle, it’s okay it happens to all of us!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 11:25 PM
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Aww happy birthday!! And hope things get better ❤️‍🩹
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 11:08 PM
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But that defeats the purpose of brushing them, you should brush them after drinking
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 11:05 PM
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Cold fresh, 100% squeezed gosh I’m salivating lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 11:03 PM
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Orange juice is really good
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 10:24 PM
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You mean during summertime??
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 08:51 PM
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Well I can only speak for my self, I’m too possessive so if he’s mine, he’s only mine. Wouldn’t work any other way
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 02:41 PM
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😌 🥇
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 07:30 AM
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I know but there’s a big line between just going to asking someone out/ heavy flirting and just being a little flirty/teasy if you think maybe they like you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 02:41 AM
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Do they have feelings for each other??
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 02:32 AM
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Why do you guys ruin it for yourselves??!!! You know people would want to compliment you more if you responded appropriately, and also a good husband would know to respond appropriately :)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 02:31 AM
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🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 02:15 AM
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Perhaps a thanks miss Brigid that’s so kind, is a more suitable answer, what do you think about that??
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 02:11 AM
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But that’s still taking compliments badly lol!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 02:06 AM
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<image> Something like this?? its so cute
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 02:00 AM
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They sure do!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 01:41 AM
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There’s also r/femalelivingspace if you’re into that kind of thing lots of inspiration and idk I find it easier to talk with them tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 01:35 AM
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r/malelivingspace It’s actually hilarious they’ll post a picture of a plastic chair and a tv in a room and everyone’s just there saying its perfect lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 01:23 AM
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I know I’d really love to feel comfortable to wear a mini skirt with tights I’ve been loving that look recently it’s so cute!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 01:23 AM
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That’s like something my dad texts me when I tell him something, that’s not how you respond to a compliment lol at least say thanks that’s sweet or something
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 01:17 AM
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Yep 😞 But it’s bcs I feel like people have over sexualised them and I hate thinking that I have this kind of attention on me, makes me feel so self conscious
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 01:10 AM
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Guys are so terrible at taking compliments I’ve tried complimenting the guys over at the living space sub saying stuff like ‘nice room I’d chill there’ and they just respond with OK 👍 or one even said to me im gay lool Like im not doing that again
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 01:03 AM
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Nope sooo I just feel self conscious when I do wear them and I can’t get over it 😞 I think skirts are so pretty and cute but yep and the embarrassment seems to even extend over to my avatar lol… so weird
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 11:58 PM
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Gosh I’m so awkward I made a Reddit avatar with a skirt but I changed it bcs I was feeling the embarrassment through my avatar lol 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 10:57 PM
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But if you fall in love with each other then work won’t stop you… people cross seas for each other lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 10:38 PM
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Yep I think so too, I really see nothing wrong with having a relationship with someone from work… it happens a lot. But it’s probably a thing that develops over time, like there’s clear tension and stuff between you and it’s been there for a while, not just asking someone out straight away lol I’m actually dreading starting work and that happening to me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 10:23 PM
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Yep I skipped my classes today and had a nap and watched stark trek discovery instead lool
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 10:19 PM
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Great ☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 10:12 PM
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I’d be open to being asked out at work I guess but only if I like them, if not it’s going to be awkward sooo idk haven’t been through that yet
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 10:10 PM
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Hearsay 😠
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 08:24 PM
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Prove it to mee lool 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 08:23 PM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 08:21 PM
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🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 07:59 PM
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Our lectures are recorded so I don’t feel bad if I miss them occasionally
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 07:59 PM
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Nope probably not 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 01:32 PM
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Based miss Brigid ✅
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 01:14 PM
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You know I’m literally watching a Star Trek series lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 01:12 PM
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Oh it’s perfect, I’m a heat seeking animal 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 12:57 PM
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😈 Gosh I love having free will lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 12:57 PM
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I’m skipping classes and just going to be warm and cozy in my bed 😸
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 12:46 PM
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😞
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 10:36 AM
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I mean just the terrible things that happen, idk perhaps shouldn’t have been reading the news and got my self depressed lool
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 08:22 AM
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This world sucks tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 08:12 AM
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I’ve been trying to think but I can’t lol, it all sounds nice but I think it’s the person you’re with that makes a date ideal
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 02:27 PM
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😌 🥇
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 01:07 AM
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Yep and when I graduate I will have lots of work husbands 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 12:27 AM
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I guess it depends on what someone likes, if they liked those alt women then they probably would have listened to what they say they like in a person
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 06:30 PM
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Ooh do you like them a little chunky, squishy??
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 06:29 PM
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So fierce 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 05:47 PM
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I think bcs Reddit attracts a lot of alt people, and alt people like things that are, well different lol I like skinny men always have
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 05:46 PM
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lol that’s actually so me, evil miss Brigid 😈
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 05:22 PM
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Yess!!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 05:20 PM
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I plan to have lots of work husbands, but no sex and stuff I just want them to do stuff for me so I can relax lol 💅🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 02:26 PM
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😌😴🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 01:51 PM
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😤😤🙄😠 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 01:29 PM
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I am it’s true lol 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 01:22 PM
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But I never said I want to or would ever like to have a relationship with him, I just think he’s a good and attractive man I think we can all agree that there’s attractive people of all genders in all age groups, it doesn’t have to mean anything more than that. Like you probably could think of an older woman (a celebrity for example) who you would say is attractive, but that’s about it, they’re just attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 10:00 AM
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Hmm I don’t remember exactly but something like women who like this type of person don’t exist and that being similar to cillian is unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 09:54 AM
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You know maybe this is why women are scared to show how they feel towards someone, bcs it always ends in this when we do it’s terrible like I’m not doing anything wrong :((
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 12:11 AM
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Can’t a woman just simply admire a man lol, it doesn’t have to mean anything more than that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 11:51 PM
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Idk what agenda relationship means???
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 11:45 PM
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Jumping on him and then cling onto him for a bit, that’s what it means 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 11:35 PM
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It’s miss Brigid!!! And it’s not it’s just you see it that way 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 11:29 PM
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Its short and snappy, I’d probably write a massive paragraph no one would bother reading it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 11:28 PM
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He so cute id jump on him lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 11:26 PM
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I like it and so does rule number 7 so we exist 🙂 But that’s also another thing, not everyone will find you attractive I think a lot of people make the mistake of trying to appeal to everyone, and take it to heart when someone doesn’t, it’s okay not everyone will like you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 10:24 PM
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Oh Im fine with that, but a girl can dream can’t she??
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 10:13 PM
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Yess we should start thinking of a bio for you, i think instead of saying looking for someone boring, it’s better to say someone who finds joy in a peaceful and quite time, or something along those lines But me I’m just over here chilling in my sweats enjoying my self 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 10:13 PM
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Seems unhealthy and homeless so nope lool but also goes to show how taking care of yourself can make such a difference!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 10:03 PM
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I say my opinion shouldn’t matter tbh all that matters is if you’re happy with yourself really, I think that’s where it all starts
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 09:59 PM
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More evidence that we’re literally twins lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 09:58 PM
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Well I do think cillian Murphy is very attractive especially in that show peaky blinders omg idk why but I like the haircut and the gentlemanly clothes
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 09:52 PM
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Yea right lol but I do think introverted bfs are underrated
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 09:44 PM
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I need a bf like cillian Murphy wouldn’t worry about him straying off too far anywhere lol <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 09:25 PM
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We know you’ve said this 100’s of times now
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 08:22 PM
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The idea is to use bots to make as much content with as little effort as possible, if you click on the side bar on Reddit you will see ‘earn cash with Reddit’ and for every award you receive on a post it gives you money, so that’s probably why Reddit is mostly bot posts now
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 07:55 PM
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Okay girlll, I’ll be sure to remember that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 04:13 PM
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You know you’re lucky I’m letting you off with that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 04:12 PM
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You can call me babe, but if we’re there you might as well make it angel, or queen, I like those better 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 07:52 AM
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✅
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 07:51 AM
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I always viewed buddy as very infantilising
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 07:51 AM
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🖕 lool
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 06:30 AM
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What you need to do is apologise bcs I already told you that I don’t like it ‘Sorry miss Brigid this will never happen again’ those exact words
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 06:16 AM
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I know I’m just telling you, but for that matter good husbands don’t try to annoy random people either
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 05:54 AM
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That’s terrible tbh lol, I’d urge you not to do it, good husbands don’t jab at people :)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 05:44 AM
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Btw a good husband doesn’t purposely annoy his wife
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 05:40 AM
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Idk why It feels like my femininity is being stripped away, I don’t think it’s necessarily a jab, perhaps more just a habit men get into from talking with other men
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 05:29 AM
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Oh I can definitely understand lol, I mean I probably wouldn’t unless they purposely and repeatedly do it just to get me mad
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 05:27 AM
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It’s miss Brigid!! But I’m doing great 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 05:26 AM
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My pet peeve is being called bro, I don’t like being a bro lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 04:52 AM
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That’s great but this is in the context of dating and my own preferences
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 04:20 AM
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If you knew anything about anatomy then it would be helpful, very much infact
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 12:59 AM
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Nope :) I’m not a gossip lady you just won’t get that stuff out of me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 12:57 AM
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Yep 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 12:47 AM
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It’s miss Brigid!!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 12:46 AM
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I don’t want to say but I will make sure they get banned every time I see them
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 12:42 AM
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One thing people can learn from this post is that everyone has their own preferences, some people like being approached, others don’t. And that’s okay!! If you want to approach, approach them lol!! If you’re respectful if the feelings arent reciprocated that’s all anyone can ask for
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 12:09 AM
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I’d rather not and that’s my point, just not how I’d like to do things
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 11:38 PM
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They just want to sleep with me
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 11:36 PM
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It’s a risk I’m not willing to take Someone I’ve known for ages is definitely a much safer choice so that’s what I will go for
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 11:35 PM
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Yep exactly it just raises questions which just the thought of put me off
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 11:32 PM
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I guess it works out for some people, I just see my self starting things off with someone I know well
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 11:31 PM
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Someone’s who’s been banned here for a very good reason, they keep on making accounts and I keep on catching them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 11:28 PM
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Oh I understand that, it’s just how I’d like to do things
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 11:27 PM
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I know but from my perspective I don’t know that, you could have approached 100 women that day lol, idk I just don’t want the risk of being hurt with bad intentions and stuff you know
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 11:26 PM
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I dont but I envision starting things off as friends, perhaps there will be tension between us but I’d like to make sure as possible that we’re compatible, a good match
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 11:23 PM
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I don’t like being approached, it’s awkward, I don’t have the social skills to navigate it. But it’s mostly bcs who am I really to them?? I’d be just someone who said yes out of how many no’s they’ve received
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 11:18 PM
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I know who this is
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 10:26 PM
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Really lol. You know what I think, you’re not arousing her enough !!!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 10:08 PM
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That’s also another point, where are these women going to go?? To a poorer country with more traditional men, like it’s just a bad deal all round lol, you’ll have lower standards of living and also be treated worse
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 09:27 PM
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Tbh I think it’s just people being burnt out with dating and voicing their frustrations, but are they actually considering leaving their country? I doubt it, it seems like so much effort for no guarantee anything will actually be different
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 09:07 PM
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Perhaps bcs we aren’t as desperate, besides who even has money to leave their country just to date people lol, outside of these spaces I just don’t hear about it, and even here when you do people say they would do it, but they don’t (probably bcs they can’t afford to)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 08:57 PM
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Yep I like it I think I’m going to practice more
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 04:25 PM
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Aww thanks, my goal was to make something similar to my profile banner, thought yep going to be easy, nope got to it and didn’t know where to begin 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 04:18 PM
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I had very big ambitions for my first one and then I got to it I’m like… nope lool, was playing around with the roses the one on the right I think it looks good, it’s just yep as you said the contrasts and stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 04:06 PM
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My first ever pixel art lol, it’s actually much more difficult than I thought, it’s roses on a hill, I was going to do a rose growing in a cave but I couldn’t figure out how to make the cave https://preview.redd.it/cdi9pee19bgg1.jpeg?width=746&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=dcfdb73835d386fa8e5420026b07adc71f8973e6
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 03:56 PM
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Yea right lol, I don’t read the main posts I only comment on questions for women
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 02:54 PM
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I wouldn’t live with roommates bcs I’m not sharing a bathroom and stuff with strangers I’m planning to stay with my parents until I can buy a home, or maybe rent with a partner first, depends which comes first
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 02:50 PM
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Wdym didn’t have time?? Just click on it you’ve been commenting here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 02:46 PM
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I was in one, it was okay at first but then big dramas happened and stuff (nothing involving me) it put me off tbh the things that happened
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 12:38 PM
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It’s only bcs sometimes I get lonely and I just want to talk about stuff but idk here it’s mostly gender discourse people like to engage with im sick of it or its just a few comments with someone 😅 Idk maybe im just being needy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 12:26 PM
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lol what
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 12:21 PM
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It’s a political subreddit… nope
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 11:56 AM
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Well I will have a look perhaps I need to go on a voyage lol trying to find more places where I can just talk with people when I feel like being social
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 11:43 AM
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You know I actually thought you’re like a tattoo artist or something
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 11:40 AM
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Ive not been anywhere I had you on my list for a while bcs after you said to show me a picture of my thighs (after I said I want a tattoo there) lool but perhaps I overreacted, so you’ve been forgiven, don’t ruin it!! And irl I am very reserved and quite I guess, but when I feel comfortable I can be a bit of a yapper
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 10:21 AM
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Idk I just don’t think I’d find anything meaningful on them and I also heard so many horror stories I’d be put off dating for life, bcs I can take things to heart
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 08:19 AM
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I’ve been wondering what happened to the daily chat here, it used to be much more active and it’s a pretty unique idea like I can’t find another place with one
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 07:54 AM
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I can actually, I do it often just pondering on things
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 07:15 AM
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Dysfunctional people exist in every gender 🤷‍♀️ Like I don’t know what you want me to say to that lol, you can run with any narrative you want to but I’m pretty certain that majority of women wouldn’t tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 07:07 AM
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Maybe I am a bit of a yapper after all lol, but tbh I don’t think that’s a bad thing
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 07:00 AM
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Oohh that’s cool
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 06:57 AM
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I think it’s means bcs you think being mean to women turns them on, well I’ll let you know for me that will not work lol (it will do the opposite)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 06:56 AM
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🖕 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 12:36 AM
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Lool and aww nooo dw it’s fine :))
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 12:18 AM
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Are you lying to mee 🧐??
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 12:13 AM
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Yesss!!! Oh and happy cake day btw 🥳
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 12:12 AM
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ohh that’s cool, you know I thought it’s something to do with something supernatural, like and odds thing, guess I got that totally wrong lool
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 12:06 AM
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I just checked and I can see why it reminds you of my avatar lol, looks interesting might see if they have it on Netflix and stuff!!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 12:03 AM
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Yep it’s just a privacy thing idk I haven’t told nobody here where I’m from exactly but I guess people can make their own minds up :))
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 12:02 AM
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I haven’t haven’t heard of it either tbh what’s it’s about!!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 11:52 PM
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I mean maybe I have some Irish genes lol but I don’t really like telling people where I’m from etc especially online spaces, but yes and I have read a lot of mythologies from all over the world
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 11:51 PM
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You should keep your facial hair visible!!! That’s actually cool, like just even trimmed
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 11:48 PM
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🤷‍♀️ I get it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 11:46 PM
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Oh that’s cool, never heard of something like this, I have very bright coppery hair, all my other hair is pretty much invisible apart from yep… not going to say lol but I also don’t have much freckles
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 11:40 PM
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Are you ginger too??
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 11:33 PM
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Ooh that sounds interesting I like artsy stuff, perhaps one day you can name a ranch after your username
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 11:31 PM
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Ooh lord of the rings, loved that tbh but switched the w to a b lool that’s hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 11:24 PM
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It’s not, it’s pretty close and yep it’s rough 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 11:22 PM
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I still need to watch that show! Seems interesting And lol, I think it’s hilarious just even reading your username pop up on my notifications makes me laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 11:18 PM
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Well tbh I didn’t think much of it apart from what I said so idk probably other people seeing the same way tbh But mines very personal to me, if you go into Irish mythology deep enough Brigid was one of the fairies (hence Brigidfairy) I used it as a self confidence thing growing up with her being a red head and stuff, it means a lot to me
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 11:15 PM
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You know I thought it was your first name, and the XY being for male chromosomes lol, well got that one totally wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 11:06 PM
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lol well I actually like french toast too haven’t eaten it in ages tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 11:04 PM
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Awww that’s so sweet 🥹
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 11:03 PM
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It definitely fits this subreddit, very well actually lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 10:58 PM
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Well I agree with the first half lool
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 10:42 PM
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You know I was thinking something similar, now it’s confirmed!!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 10:31 PM
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Q4A: does your username have any meaning, a reference to something/ someone??
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 10:26 PM
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Yep 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 10:07 PM
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I would be such an annoying gf this is exactly the type of I imagine my self doing 😈
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 10:06 PM
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Never!!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 09:39 PM
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I do like it! Some of them are hilarious I found this on Pinterest just now <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 09:30 PM
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I don’t even have a cat lol 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 09:12 PM
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🥰 <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 09:02 PM
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I love taking skin melting showers they’re the best lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 11:31 AM
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:((
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 11:07 AM
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You thinking how much I’m right?? Aww thanks 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 08:57 PM
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Are you saying that you don’t agree??
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 08:17 PM
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lool you know I can’t think of anything more to add to yours either
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 08:09 PM
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😌 And yep in Irish mythology
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 08:00 PM
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My notes I really can’t think of anything more to add <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 07:53 PM
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Did you find it helpful?? I’ve been a few times my university gave me a few sessions and I just found it really calming to unload on the therapist lol, I even had notes and just said everything I had on my mind
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 07:12 PM
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I can be both I like being silly at times 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 07:01 PM
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Well I think it’s great you have someone now who you can share that stuff with, and know you’re safe with what you share bcs people can use that stuff against you especially those irl
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 06:03 PM
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Oooh lol I will
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:24 PM
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So I think that’s great I don’t see why men shouldn’t support each other.. especially if they don’t have anyone else, it’s good to have someone there for you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:08 PM
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I’ve already started making lots of good husbands 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:07 PM
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That’s one thing I’m struggling with is trying to think what’s the line when it becomes over sharing, trauma dumping
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:07 PM
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Do you find it helps sharing that stuff?? Bcs I feel like even if it’s not exactly helpful it’s good anyway so you can better understand someone, get to know them more, just like a deeper connection kind of thing
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 03:55 PM
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So you feel like you don’t really need to tell anyone anything that’s going on??
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 03:38 PM
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Aww well I guess I can kind of understand, with me I just feel like I’m being an inconvenience, like nobody really wants to hear that stuff genuinely you know, and like that I’m just being annoying. But idk it does make me feel better getting it out Idk why I think that bcs I’m pretty open to hearing people and just listening so no idea why I think nobody else would want to
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 03:36 PM
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Well I think it’s great you feel comfortable to share that stuff, it’s good But I guess there is a line where it just becomes trauma dumping, seems difficult to establish that line tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 03:16 PM
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Question for men: do you feel like you want to share your feelings and stuff with your partner or just other people?? Bcs I think you actually do but maybe are scared or think it’s not manly to do it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 03:00 PM
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Of course 😌 no lol actually I’ve never done that, I think that’s terrible to do tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 01:42 PM
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Yep I do
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 01:40 PM
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So that’s another thing I like is trying to understand the thought process, thinking etc behinds someone’s feelings, actions and stuff, super fascinating lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 01:29 PM
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Perhaps they do or perhaps they don’t but I just like it when people feel comfortable sharing stuff with me 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 01:24 PM
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Hmm I don’t really understand what this means lol??
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 01:23 PM
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So you’re admitting you’ve lied to mee??!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 01:19 PM
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Idk it just feels like it bcs perhaps they wouldn’t tell other people this. But my goal is to learn how to be encouraging and for people to feel comfortable sharing stuff with me, bcs I think it’s good to talk about things
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 01:18 PM
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I love how people here tell me their entire life stories pretty much, like I’m accessing deepest and darkest corners of their mind lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 01:09 PM
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Oh yea of course I’m just talking in the context of someone you love, bcs I guess when you love a person you love their flaws and imperfections - it’s what makes them, them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 05:08 PM
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Btw this is something a good husband would say :)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 05:04 PM
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Gosh that sounds horrible to go through, but thanks for sharing
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 05:00 PM
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That’s heartbreaking to hear, but im happy how you’ve grown from it 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 04:58 PM
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Aww that’s really sweet I’d like to marry my first bf, idk it just seems so cute
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 04:43 PM
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Well I’m not going to believe you now lool but thanks for sharing
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 04:39 PM
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I like how they can carry stuff (especially heavy shopping bags) And they can fix stuff around the house, just the strength they have I find fascinating
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 04:28 PM
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I can answer this for them, they love everything about us, just the way we are 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 04:27 PM
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Did you manage to find someone after getting back out there??
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 04:27 PM
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I hope you treat your gf better bcs you lied multiple times about not having a gf and she deserves to be acknowledged
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 04:26 PM
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Aww well thanks for sharing, do you still have a crush on her?? Do you keep on her life at all on social media and stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 04:24 PM
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Do you mind sharing why you regret your first adult relationship??
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 04:23 PM
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I’m just worried I wouldn’t know what to do with the feelings, regret, but maybe I’m just overthinking 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 12:19 PM
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Aww nooo :( but that’s a really sweet way to think about it tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 12:16 PM
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Do you find that they have a special place somewhere bcs they’re the first person you loved and stuff / or well thought you loved maybe, or are they pretty much just gone from your mind lol??
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 12:01 PM
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Aww that doesn’t sound bad, one thing I’d hate is for the first person I ever date, someone I thought I loved for the first time in my life to end in a disaster lol, like sharing intimate moments and things together but when I look back I wish it was someone else/ or just not them. Not sure if that’s a common thought
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 11:55 AM
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First and as a side question: is your first relationship something you have fond memories of or is it something you come to regret??
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 11:20 AM
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Yep and that’s why men should take notes to avoid this and be good husbands 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 10:36 AM
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I hope you’ve taken good note of this, in fact show me the notes!!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 10:28 AM
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💅
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 10:27 AM
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Yeah right you wouldn’t cheat on your gf I can tell
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 10:27 AM
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A good husband wouldn’t say things like ‘keep me fed,keep my balls empty and I won’t cheat’ Gosh it’s such a horrible choice of words, just don’t say it!! 1 it makes you sound like a baby incapable of feeding yourself and we’re not maids 2 people have sex together when they both want it 3 putting conditions on cheating is just toxic I’m pretty sure for most women those would be the last words you ever spoke to her if you said it irl - take notes :)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 03:45 AM
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Perhaps all I know is that I would make a great gambler (for the house) loool
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 03:00 AM
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See told you 😌 2 for 2 never fails!!! Lool
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 02:54 AM
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Hmm I will use my psychic abilities again, he will lose. And please do let me know the result
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 02:31 AM
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Wfh bf, and wfh gf, that’s my dream so we can live in a forest property away from everyone and be alone, peaceful
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 01:48 AM
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Perhaps also at first there were compatibility issues which they overlooked and then became an issue after and that’s why they break up
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 01:46 AM
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I want an introvert bf he ain’t going anywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 01:42 AM
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Tbh keeping them on a very short leash seems so much easier lool
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 01:32 AM
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I have a very short chain for that exact reason, can’t have him straying off anywhere too far!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 01:28 AM
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What’s NRE??
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 01:26 AM
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So I’ve read that a lot of relationships do actually end after the honey moon phase
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 12:54 AM
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But that doesn’t sound like polygamy bcs during that time you only think about one person, you just want to be with them… Btw your good wife post was terrible lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 12:53 AM
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I hope so 😅 Perhaps it’s an effort thing just both of you trying your best to keep the spark
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 12:49 AM
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Supposedly a lot of relationships end after the homey moon phase, like people describe it as coming out of a dream, an illusion that slowly falls apart. Like that’s kinda worrying to me tbh lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 12:43 AM
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The honey moon phase seems so weird, you’re like obsessed with each other, have sex like rabbits, madly in love butterflies etc, and then it just ends after a year or so lol. Seems like those feelings should last forever in a relationship tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 12:24 AM
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I feel like such an old lady going on Reddit and reading the news page
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 10:12 PM
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You’ll do great I know it 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 08:46 AM
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And best of luck on the apps!!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 07:38 PM
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Wdym serious like you tell them you want a serious relationship and they say they don’t and want that??
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 07:36 PM
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Well at least you didn’t lie lool but I guess everyone can make up their own minds
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 07:35 PM
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Well I think it’s great you manage to get dates tbh… that’s really good but I understand the feeling of things not going well it sucks
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 07:31 PM
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Are you crushing on people here in that case 🧐 don’t lie to meee!!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 07:18 PM
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Where does it tend to go wrong, like you’ll go on a few dates, or when you’re talking stage and stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 07:17 PM
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I got you too bcs I know exactly who you are lool
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 07:09 PM
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Yep but I’m scared lol I just can’t press the send button and especially if it turns out they don’t like me I’d be so devastated
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 07:03 PM
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I’m still crushing on this one person who followed me a few months ago 🤦‍♀️ I knew them from school I was convinced they’ll message me but nope :((
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 07:01 PM
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Hmm are you telling me lies??? Every single woman lol 🧐
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 06:59 PM
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Wow that’s a really long time tbh, what goes wrong if you don’t mine me asking?!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 06:59 PM
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Question for single people: do you have a crush, are you talking to anyone, how often do you find yourself between finding someone you’re interested in/ talking to someone??
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 06:47 PM
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I know what you mean i get like 100x more social and whimsical when i drink ice done stuff like cuddle with my girl friends at the time or well kiss and stuff loool omg it’s so embarrassing thinking about that stupid stuff you do
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 06:39 PM
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Well if you get the chance definitely try it, it seems much more healthier and their fries, I think they’re called Cajun fries, OMG they are the best thing ever
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 06:30 PM
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Some of them do sound nice, it’s just the ‘beer’ part that puts me off but maybe I’ll like it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 06:27 PM
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I’ve heard of things like crafts beer, is that what you mean, is that like idk they add flavourings to it and stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 06:24 PM
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What’s the difference??
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 06:23 PM
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Yesss!!! That’s right
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 06:21 PM
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Gosh I love popeyes it’s really good
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 06:20 PM
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Do you drink often??
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 06:16 PM
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Perhaps it’s an old person thing lol, it’s like wine supposedly girls love wine, well that’s disgusting too, I was sick after drinking it the first time and tbh idk if I’ll ever try it again
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 06:12 PM
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Aww nooo what’s going on if you want to share with me?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 06:06 PM
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Men can you answer this honestly, do you actually like beer??
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 06:04 PM
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Hot lack I hope you’re taking care of yourself and also I have to say this but on your profile description you have ‘believe’ spent wrong you have beleive lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 06:01 PM
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Do you just like start messaging a bunch of people and stuff when you drink??
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 05:59 PM
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You know what I think, men say they like beer bcs every other man says they like it. But they actually don’t lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 05:53 PM
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I’ve tried beer it is actually disgusting, I like cocktail drinks like vodka mixed with juice and stuff, or just them canned cocktail drink those are my favourite
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 05:45 PM
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I rarely drink tbh, I like it but idk just having a drink on my own feels sooo weird lol. Well hope you guys enjoy your drinks!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 05:40 PM
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Going to have a beer after work ain’t that right boys
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 05:35 PM
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Don’t doubt my tactics
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 05:34 PM
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Gosh no thanks Brigid no nothing 😠 Men!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 11:07 AM
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Men terrible Here you go 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 11:00 AM
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Perhaps
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 09:17 AM
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You didn’t tell me you had a gf, OMG!! You better plan on being a good husband
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 09:15 AM
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Hey! That’s my role here
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 07:51 PM
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Yep same here. I don’t let it bother me that’s exactly what they want, we call them downvote demons here lool Though I would love to figure out who it is, the mind wonders!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 06:41 PM
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So I don’t want to share anyones names / details I’m just trying to warn people how toxic the communities here are
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 06:38 PM
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Yep and if anything this should be an eye opening experience to people, you might think people are your friends, you trust them, but something goes wrong, a little argument and stuff you don’t want out there WILL get out there Sucks tbh I’ve pretty much given up hope finding an online community that’s trustworthy, it doesn’t exist
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 04:55 PM
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Bcs at first all seems okay, like a good community, you start feeling comfortable you start sharing personal info, pictures of yourself with each other Well something goes wrong and turns out people showing your pictures to other people, people doing inappropriate things with your pictures…. Using your personal information against you etc very toxic environment It’s happened, and gosh I’m so glad I never shared anything
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 04:50 PM
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I’m not sure but if you want to avoid that put your profile on private, so nobody outside your friends can go through it. Remove your city you live in, remove where you went to school etc bcs then it would just be your name left to identify you, among thousands it would be hard to find
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 04:42 PM
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It’s pretty simple, she knew your first name plus your city. You can filter that stuff on Facebook and find people pretty easily, I know I’ve done this 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 04:36 PM
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Don’t join the discords!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 04:32 PM
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Aww sorry to hear that well thanks for sharing 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 03:24 PM
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Yep like a month or two ago surprised you didn’t hear about it on here tbh, few people banned etc
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 03:07 PM
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Do you have similar feelings/ thoughts?? I’d like to hear if you want to share
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 02:57 PM
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I’m not I don’t talk to anyone from here or even the discords, I left those bcs all they tried to do is get me to send pictures of my self!!! And then it turns out people were doxxing each other, umm one person was doing something inappropriate with the pictures… so I’m glad I didn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 02:39 PM
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What I mean is that I so far at this point in my life feel like I am not enough to go out and put my self out there, I do have expectations and stuff from a partner, maybe it’s thinking I’m not at the point where it’s fair to expect it, you know, like I’d be lying if I said I’m the most functional person, have my stuff together So there’s plenty for me to do and yep to avoid any troubles 😅 a lot of it is self confidence, social skills etc
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 02:36 PM
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I do try to be and I definitely have some whimsy in me, sometimes I get embarrassed here 🙈
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 01:44 PM
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Well I’m sure it’s nice lol but for me 1 bf giving me princes treatment is what sounds nice to me, one thing I don’t get is they said they are shy, but post their whole life on TikTok so much that there’s articles about them 🧐
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 01:43 PM
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It doesn’t seem to open for me but reading from the link name, definitely not for me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 01:37 PM
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You know I’ve realised we’re pretty much twins lool
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 01:31 PM
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I don’t have this whimsical confidence, entitlement or whatever you call it, often I feel like I’m not enough, that I wouldn’t bring enough, not funny, witty smart enough. I want to give my fair share in a relationship and that’s including things like money, I want my partner to feel like they can rely on me for emotional support. I feel like I could always be better soo yep definitely doesn’t feel like that to me, idk if anyone else here can relate
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 01:23 PM
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Oh it doesn’t trigger me, I don’t know where you got that from, I said his whole persona is to get engagement through saying triggering things, but you derailed that (as usual) You know sometimes I wonder why you are like this, I think I’m going to stop communicating with you bcs you’re terrible, seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 12:40 PM
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Yep I have every reason to assume that, it’s what he does, he says triggering things just for engagement, you can ask him that Besides you get too far ahead of yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 12:22 PM
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Hmm perhaps she did respond emotionally to that one, well I was wrong!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 12:01 PM
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Show me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 11:40 AM
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Hmm you’re making a woman angry so much they’re swearing?? Now does that sound like something a good husband would do
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 11:31 AM
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Hmm it’s a good question I often ask myself, part of me does and part of me doesn’t, I guess it’s still pretty scary for me open up like this to someone and all just feels overwhelming being in university, almost graduating and unsure where my life will go, I’m thinking when I somewhat settle down in life ill be ready, it’s just being prepared for when an opportunity arises so that I can act on it and not mess it up
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 10:47 AM
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But if you’re an old man why don’t you have a wife?? We need to find you a wife lool
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 10:00 AM
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Aww thanks now it’s just trying to put it into practice 😅 Idk I guess it’s just growing up being the quiet, shy odd girl. Having ginger hair and being picked on bcs of that, was tough I kinda just isolated and kept to my self, didn’t really like people, assumed bad intentions etc and here’s the result of this soo
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 09:48 AM
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I don’t have any, well I did have a potential one but he abounded me, and everyone else here :(( But I think it’s amazing to see how my confidence has grown tbh, don’t get me wrong I still feel embarrassed and stuff talking to people about things but at least I can get stuff out of my mind now, be my whimsical self at times…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 09:35 AM
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Then you’d be taking me to the hospital, and after you would have to spoil me, spoil me so much you’d definitely regret that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 09:10 AM
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Yesss!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 09:06 AM
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Gosh you’re hard work. A good husband does not invalidate a woman for her feelings, and very valid feelings I will add!! What you are meant to say is something like ‘Brigid you can do this, make sure to take breaks, drink eat and sleep well’
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 08:53 AM
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Oh he’s definitely definitely a professional napper lol and also a yapper
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 08:51 AM
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Perhaps, perhaps not. Perhaps my sleep schedule isnt that great (it isn’t) lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 06:19 AM
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I’m a university student Wdym it’s actually very exhausting 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 06:18 AM
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Hmm you seem grouchy, maybe you need a nap!!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 05:27 AM
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Gosh I love having naps, instead of a yapper im a napper lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 04:56 AM
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I’ve tried!! It didn’t go too well 😞
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 04:51 AM
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It’s miss Brigid!!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 04:36 AM
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Well can’t get them all, I knew this 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 10:28 PM
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Yess!!! Im sure she will be a very happy woman 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 10:25 PM
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Hmm I’m starting to think my goal of making most of yous good husbands is actually achievable lol, a little bit of work and good to go, be on your way
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 10:10 PM
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Yep I think that’s the best way just some things you should keep private your intimate life is one of those things
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 09:51 PM
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Is that something that would interest you, receiving those kind of pictures like showing off outfits and stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 09:50 PM
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I don’t have many friends lol, it’s terrible it happens especially when you’re in a serious relationship or even married to someone
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 09:44 PM
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I mean I’ve never heard of women sharing these kinds of pictures, I’ve heard them talking about their intimate life but tbh I don’t think many women really are interested in those kinds of pictures, definitely seems like a niche interest for women
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 09:37 PM
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I guess that’s a good point it is something protected by the law so they will get in trouble for it, whether that stops some people idk
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 09:34 PM
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Well the goal is not to date a misogynistic man lol but I wouldn’t do causal and hookups tbh, like sharing sex life stuff that’s probably a conversation we will need to have bcs I wouldn’t be comfortable them sharing that either tbh. Idk im a pretty private person
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 09:33 PM
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So I’m not going to or I’ll just keep it to outfits and stuff guess they’ll just have to be there with me to see mee show off lool
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 09:31 PM
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Yep I think that’s right as much as I’d like to I think it’s just not worth the risks
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 08:42 PM
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I guess what I’m asking is if you were in a long term relationship with someone, someone you love, would you share that kind of stuff with people I know people do it, that’s why I’m worried, but I’m asking if you would feel wrong doing that to someone you love, trust, admire etc, do you want other people seeing it or is it something you’d rather keep for yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 08:32 PM
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I guess that’s something I could do, tbh you’d be able to tell anyway bcs my hair is really long (pretty much to my lower back) and on top of that it’s also bright orange lool
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 08:24 PM
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It’s like a miracle just happened here I never thought I’d be happy reading the men’s responses here lool
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 08:24 PM
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Yep it is it’s reslly good to see men here think the same
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 08:23 PM
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Hmm that’s actually a good idea I haven’t used Snapchat in ages lool but maybe there is also other apps out there to keep everyone safe with that type of stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 08:07 PM
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Yep I think it’s terrible and disgusting to do it, like don’t get me wrong I want to do that with someone I love but idk I guess it’s just not worth the risks, no matter how much I trust them and other stuff can go wrong I guess like someone else getting into their or my phone so
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 08:01 PM
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You know I guess that’s true, sometimes I will take a picture and I’m like gosh I look so good and I dream of sharing it with someone I love and they say the same thing. But they could do that irl I suppose, it’s definitely super risky 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 07:59 PM
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Well that’s good to hear tbh 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 07:55 PM
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Gosh that’s terrible I guess absolute trust is something you need before you do that kind of stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 07:54 PM
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So I’m only asking bcs I’m worried it’s like a thing, I think I’d like to send that kind of stuff randomly but the thought of it being shared would kill me
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 07:50 PM
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Question for men: do you share intimate pictures of your partner with your friends and stuff, talk about them???
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 07:48 PM
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I think it’s weird the moment you start telling people about it, like I get it people do weird things when they have a crush are horny and stuff. But keep it to yourself!!! Now if someone told me this I would be grossed out, feel disgusted tbh, maybe not if I liked them idk
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 07:28 PM
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Yep exactly just like I strive to be the worlds no 1 wife (I know I already will be) lool
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 01:00 PM
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Aww noo don’t say that some people don’t like sarcasm they think it’s snarky, or it’s something you can work on if you think it’s a good quality 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 12:55 PM
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Hmm I think I can see where you are coming from, I guess being the best version of yourself would make you the best possible partner It’s more about how the other person would describe you, so in that sense it would be worlds no 1 partner
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 12:51 PM
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You know I’ve realised sarcasm isn’t your strong suit lool but hey at least you’re trying right
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 12:42 PM
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Just like someone can have the worlds best cat, dog etc, so can they have the worlds no 1 husband (to them) this is what you should strive for
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 12:37 PM
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Nothing is stopping you from striving to be worlds no 1 husband 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 12:26 PM
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No one said anything about comparing, it’s just simply about being Even more evidence why you changed your flair!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 12:23 PM
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And how do you have a healthy relationship?? By being the best possible partner (worlds no 1 husband)!! Now I see why you changed your flair lool
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 12:06 PM
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There’s always room for improvement!!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 12:05 PM
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💯 lool I’m trying to think of good metaphors to use, for example, you should be each others wings (bcs a bird needs 2 wings working together to fly) but idk it doesn’t have the flow I’m looking for
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 12:05 PM
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:( And what would you say to just being the best possible partner in a relationship in any context???
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 12:03 PM
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Well I think it’s best I don’t give my opinions on that one lol but I see my mind control tactics are working!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 07:43 AM
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Mr many dragonfly I believe this will be a very easy task for you 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 07:42 AM
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Yesss!!! 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 07:23 AM
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First and on that note every man here should strive to be worlds no 1 husband to their partner!!! 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 07:20 AM
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Not really, I’m sure some do try but tbh I don’t think it works most times. I never do and in fact I’ve had people here try to invalidate what I say by saying that I’m on my period instead of just responding to what I say
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 11:22 PM
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I don’t know why anyone would do that to themselves trying to convince someone that they are enough… it’s heart breaking to think about tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 05:08 PM
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Gosh I can’t think of many things more demeaning than begging a man, can’t even imagine competing for a man either, there won’t be any ‘choose me or her’, as soon as I get the impression they have focus on someone else I’m leaving, it’s pretty much just a lack of self respect if you do
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 04:51 PM
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I like them all, princess, queen, sunshine, baby sweetheart but I think my favourite one is angel 😇
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 03:19 PM
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Oh yea I think it would take longer than 3 dates for me to consider having sex 😅 But I guess I shouldn’t worry that much bcs if waiting for me to feel comfortable is something they’re not okay with or being pushy then the signs are there
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 03:18 PM
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-1 to 3 years older
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 03:13 PM
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I don’t, but is there really any point in trying to change your view around the word?? We just have differences in interpretation and that’s okay 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 03:11 PM
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Maybe dysfunctional women, I would never have shouting matches and stuff in the first place soo that’s maybe where you get it from, I don’t know what kind of content you consume but them kind of things are not conducive to a healthy relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 02:42 PM
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I don’t think it’s that tbh, I don’t have the energy right now to verbalise my thought process behind it but idk it’s just cute, I like being called these kinds of things, making cute names for each other etc
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 02:29 PM
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I won’t 😌 I find it cute but my response to the question was just joking (bcs I find the question silly lool) only a very dysfunctional person would enjoy the second one
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 02:24 PM
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But maybe more appropriate in certain scenarios say like I’m trying on a dress and they’ll say ‘aww my princess is so stunning’ then yes it’s absolutely cute Wdym it’s infantilising lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 02:22 PM
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I don’t think it is I think it’s quite cute actually
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 02:10 PM
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I mean im only making a joke
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 02:10 PM
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None bcs I don’t see him calling me his princess anywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 01:57 PM
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I guess I’m just worried bcs I’m pretty inexperienced my self so it’s something I don’t want happening to me, the stress of navigating through fi and it’s how would I know someone is like this??
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 08:56 AM
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Yep so there’s not enough honesty and self respect in this world, very hard to navigate through that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 08:53 AM
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For a normal healthy functional person?? A mixture of all these things
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 08:52 AM
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If only those men were honest to people about this then there wouldn’t be any issues, but it’s the deceit the acting that inevitably falls apart, shattering someone’s entire world that bothers me. Just adds more things I need to think about when dating which obviously I’d rather not have to worry about lool
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 08:37 AM
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What a toxic and terrible world view to have, but hey if you have nothing else to offer I guess that’s the only thing you can value
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 08:28 AM
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So if I asked you how would want you partner to talk about you, the things they see/ value about you. What would you want them to say??
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 08:14 AM
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I don’t think it’s a majority of men but it’s more about how damaging it could be for someone, just imagining how your partner talks about you and it’s just ‘she’s hot’ or something and I’m here thinking I’m his entire world for all these reasons the entire time, I’d be devastated
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 08:05 AM
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I mean don’t get me wrong I can understand the appeal lol, that kind of stuff you can really only get from a relationship. But just knowing that it’s fake idk I don’t think it would do much
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 08:03 AM
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And you do this??
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 07:55 AM
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One thing I find devastating is when I read what a man wants from a woman and it’s pretty much just ‘sex sex sec’ I feel bad for the person they end up with but also I guess how can someone not place value on any other things?? I’d like to be valued for other things, I think I have much more to offer, im funny, witty, smart, a shoulder to lean on, supportive. That’s the kind of stuff I’d want my partner to see in me tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 07:35 AM
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It’s miss Brigid
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 07:20 AM
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So I do think its good to talk about them things, especially to people you care about and who care about you bcs then they can support you As always its a double edged sword, people can use stuff against you and sometimes the person uses their issues as an excuse for their behaviour But I think it’s really good when you find someone accepting and supportive and you work together
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 10:39 PM
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But what exactly would you struggle being obedient with like if your wife asked you to do something, you’d struggle with accepting the request??
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 10:19 PM
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Exactly lol but at least you recognise this about yourself it counts for something right??? It’s just a question of whether you want to/ are able to do something about it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 10:16 PM
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Yess!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 10:14 PM
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Well I hope you’ve been taking notes from the stuff I share about how to be a good husband!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 10:12 PM
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I mean a good wife wouldn’t push you over, but tbh I can see how it’s a bad thing bcs people will take advantage
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 10:08 PM
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Would you say a stable relationship is something you want at this point in life?? Bcs it seems like you tend to find yourself in very dysfunctional relationships/ people
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 10:06 PM
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Yep I don’t think it’s bad to have bad qualities (we all do) but rather it’s about recognising them, trying to work on them or just being honest when you do mess up etc
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 10:03 PM
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Hmmm yep you definitely sound like a tough cookie 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 10:01 PM
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Will do 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 07:23 PM
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Yess we have 😅 But this is part of the greater goal to encourage more good husbands!!! I need to know where people need improvement and help encourage them (through mind control like tactics) to make them good husbands
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 07:03 PM
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lol I get that, do you tell people this before you get into a relationship with them??
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 06:59 PM
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I’d say I’m caring, fiercly loyal, supportive But I can get emotional at times and do say things I don’t mean Editting to say I could give a much a more detailed answer but I wasn’t expecting to be asked so this is just a brief summary
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 06:58 PM
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Hmm I’m asking for a self assessment, I’d like to hear it if you want to share
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 06:16 PM
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Question for men: do you think you would make a good husband?? What good qualities do you think you have, and what bad qualities???
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 06:04 PM
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Don’t be scared say it!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 01:35 PM
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🤦‍♀️ And here I thought we found some common ground lool!!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 11:24 AM
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Oh yea I’m not too versed on the different tribes just from a few things I watched, anyway do you think inspiring that kind of culture I described would be bad as a whole?? Bcs today’s ’me me me’ culture doesn’t seem to be working out so well tbh 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 10:38 AM
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Hmm I’d be curious to see the replies tbh we live in a ‘me me me’ culture so interesting to see what people think about it 🧐
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 10:36 AM
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I mean sure anyone can be manipulative, but from what I know the native people treated each other very well
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 10:12 AM
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SHOW ME THE lol im joking but don’t you think that’s exactly what’s missing from today’s world??? A culture where people acknowledge each others strengths/ weaknesses and they respect each other
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 10:10 AM
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It’s more about making a culture where people respect and acknowledge each others strengths, differences that I find endearing
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 10:07 AM
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Show me the notes you made
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 08:24 AM
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He would make for amazing husband - men take notes!!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 07:17 AM
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Yep some people do appear to be in a constant state of rage, gosh couldn’t imagine living like that tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 01:05 AM
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I like the idea of making things slightly better than they were before, small little changes, anything. And even though it’s not ideal or big leaps at least something is better right?? It’s a nice easy thought but even putting that into action can be difficult I know
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 01:03 AM
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