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You mean: "It's sickening on how men will instantly go from "Pedophiles deserve the wood chipper" to "where was she when I was a kid" simply because the pedophile is a woman."
/r/MensRights28/07/25 07:26 AM
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My boyfriend and I are in the same income bracket lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 07:49 PM
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You do realize that 100k people isn't a lot, right (assuming there are no repeat signatures, which there definitely are). I really doubt your little story is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 07:32 PM
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Ah yes, because a handful of mentally ill women are the general population lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 07:25 PM
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Do you get stalked, harassed, physically assaulted, as a child and adult by gay men? Are gay men constantly doing this to you? Are gay men the most powerful group in your society? Do you have to tolerate all this in order to get and keep jobs?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 07:18 PM
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Would you feel privileged if men sexually harassed you and only saw you as a sex object? Do you want the "privilege" of men wanting to ass fuck you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 06:51 PM
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So explain to me how needing to take extra steps that increase my risk of a hate crime just so men don't sexually harass me (doesn't work anyways) is a privilege?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 06:28 PM
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I have a sensitive and well adjusted boyfriend who exhibits exactly 0 toxic masculinity traits. Stop pretending you know what women like lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 06:25 PM
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I do want to give up the "privilege" of bein sexually harassed, actually. Being sought after by men in general is not something I want. I have absolutely 0 interest in 99% of men, and I don't want the 1% I would potentially be interested in sexually harassing me either. Men wanting to fuck you is not a privilege, men also fuck babies and animals.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 06:24 PM
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It's actually because we don't like strangers harassing us. Good try though!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 06:34 PM
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Great! I can't wait!!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 06:33 PM
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Do you think a freshly 18 year old wants a perverted creepy old man sexualizing her?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 06:31 PM
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Because every human being should have autonomy. What are you doing with yours? Throwing a testerical tantrum that women won't blow you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 06:31 PM
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They think men are entitled to dates lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 06:29 PM
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My boyfriend is respectful and interesting, why do you think I am dating him?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 06:29 PM
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Men's autonomy isn't being denied when they are rejected lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 06:28 PM
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Already put up your Grindr profile!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 06:27 PM
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False lol. My boyfriend was not sexually charismatic, I made all the moves.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 06:27 PM
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Yeah, the difference here is you won't die from starvation on the street if you are single
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 06:26 PM
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Crazy how most single men aren't depressed, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 06:25 PM
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How do you think women are going to solve this problem lol? Dating men they don't like? The self improvement part is good, just not in order to get women. Just get a hobby or a job you care about and stop obsessing over women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 06:25 PM
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Nope. I hate all advances from random men who think that them finding me attractive is a good enough reason to talk to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 06:24 PM
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That's fine, as long as governments don't try to force women into having children.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 06:21 PM
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Boo hoo. They already do. Women aren't going to be sex slaves for the most pathetic men on Earth so they don't have a tantrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 06:20 PM
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They aren't a problem. Anybody can have whatever standards they want. If nobody meets them they are alone. That's fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 06:19 PM
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How exactly am I lacking humanity by saying that men who can't get women should stop obsessively chasing them and just do something else? How is dating men "pulling them up". I am not dismissing men, I just think that single men should stop expecting a woman to fall into their laps and should just get friends if they are lonely. The implied sentiment you have here of "you should keep men sexually satisfied so they don't take your rights" is pretty disgusting. Isn't it better for men when they do…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 06:18 PM
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Well the difference is that if women don't marry this guy, he won't get raped and murdered. Do you really think being single and being a sex slave are equivalent? Would you rather be single or be anally raped daily?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 06:12 PM
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Because I'm not their mommy lol. Adult men can do things on their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 06:10 PM
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How exactly do the vast majority of women operate?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 06:10 PM
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So they don't become impoverished lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 06:09 PM
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The women have the choice to choose an older man if she wants, but the older man is a freak for going along with it. An 20 year can technically choose to be with a 50 year old man, but that man is a disgusting person.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 06:27 AM
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Source? The majority of 65 year old women are married, and if they are single, happily so for the most part. There wasn't much to respond to in your comment because it was silly lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 06:25 AM
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How is it not the fault of men that they're undesirable partners? Do you think the Korean 4B movement would exist if men in Korea weren't treating women like shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 06:24 AM
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Yup. That's how the world works. You don't get to date any woman you want. Yes, the autonomy of women are more important than a man's feelings lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 06:23 AM
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Because you talked about working in a store in the description lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 06:22 AM
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Sure, but if the man wants to date, it's on him to make himself desirable
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 05:47 AM
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Yes, and men can actually go form bonds with each other instead of complaining that women won't date them and cater to their every emotional need. I
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 05:46 AM
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Nobody says it is dawg. Where did you get that from lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 05:45 AM
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I don't think conscription is ethical, but every single man who refuses to fight is a pretty worthless person.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 05:44 AM
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Ok, what do you expect women to do then? I don't understand your 2nd paragraph starting with "can't". Can you please rephrase it? Most women don't have that much expectation of masculinity and it is dying down. Women becoming active people and not subjects has been a women's lib goal for a very long time now.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 05:43 AM
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A man women don't want to date for some reason, generally behaviors/ By being a respectful, mature and interesting person. Then they get self improvement. In high school I practiced a lot to try to join the volleyball team, and still didn't get on it because I am 5'0. I still gained skills and bettered myself, which is a net positive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 05:40 AM
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Yes, I am aware lol. But the general trend is towards progress
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 05:33 AM
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Ah yes, because not sleeping with somebody is the same as stripping them of basic human rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 05:30 AM
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Like, 2 weeks ago a man atleast 20 years older than me told me I looked like I was training for the Olympics (this 100% had to do with my body since I wasn't doing any crazy exercise when he was in the room, just body weight crunches) and when I just awkwardly laughed he scowled at me and felt the need to inform me he was complimenting me. I don't think men know what a compliment is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 05:29 AM
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Contrary to popular belief, most women are not having babies out of wedlock with crack dealers. Who are the amazing guys being ignored? I am not single lol and have no baggage
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 05:27 AM
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Women over 30 are doing fine lol. That is generally the age where women stop caring about men as much as in their 20's. The reason men and women are not working together well is mostly because of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 05:25 AM
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I made a typo, reread my post. Sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 05:23 AM
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That's a lot of words for "I want women to be forced into sexual slavery"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 05:23 AM
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Yes, I agree, but that's a problem men need to fix for each other. Sorry typo, I meant any solution besides men becoming more desirable is a solution that advocates for stripping women's autonomy. Sorry about the confusion
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 05:22 AM
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You say that like those groups of women will not eventually gain rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 05:20 AM
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I would feel fine about that, as long as men above 30 aren't trying to prey on women and girls developmentally inappropriate for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 05:19 AM
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Nope. Anybody can reject anybody for any reason. Unless you're a woman, then you're expected to give any man who's nice to you a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 05:17 AM
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We actually don't need a higher birth rate. We have too many people. Not to mention that the global birth rate is above replacement. Ideally our birth rate would be like, 1.7-9 until we have a sustainable population level.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 05:16 AM
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You do realize that we don't get approached and complimented on the daily by men, right? When we do, it's generally unwanted and has a poor effect on mental health rather than positive
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 05:15 AM
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Good thing they invented friends and family, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 05:14 AM
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While it can be argued that all labor under capitalism is exploitative, there is a pretty huge difference from being made to stock shelves vs being forced to have sex with 10 men a day. Would you rather have 40 men a week fuck you in the ass or have to be a cashier? There is also the specifically evil and statistically speaking much more traumatizing aspect of having sex commodified. There is a reason why it is much more traumatizing for a child to be raped vs being in a car accident, even if th…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 04:52 AM
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Yes, but most male partners are not currently worth it. Looking for one is a worse idea than just being single and having friends lol. Your analogy doesn't work because the women are not going to the store because it's a dollar tree. I am open to dating. I have a boyfriend. I met him through normal human behaviors and interactions without actively looking to date people. The thing I don't think you're getting is that at this point, women don't really value a relationship as much as you think. I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 11:26 PM
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It's bad to say we should kill terrorists? Is that what you're implying lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 10:56 PM
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Lets say this happens. What exactly are we supposed to do lol, spread our legs so that the whiny little man babies stop throwing a tantrum? Generally we put down terrorists.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 10:07 PM
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Do we not understand the concept of a sperm bank?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 10:01 PM
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Imagine if people treated each other like human beings. Jesus fucking christ dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 09:45 PM
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The word "or" does not suggest that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 09:36 PM
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Yeah, because pre-society people raped each other much more often. Are you advocating for rape as a reproductive strategy?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 09:05 PM
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Literally just go outside. Do you see the majority of men being single?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 09:04 PM
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You say that like the new women would suddenly want to date men. You'd simply have 150 million happily single women instead of 100 million. It's pretty deranged to try to fuck up the sex ration because men can't handle that women would rather be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 09:03 PM
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No, that is essentially clinical depression. The majority of men are not clinically depressed. Most men experience happiness frequently. Where are you getting this idea?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 08:32 PM
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A woman's boundaries isn't a trade deal jesus fucking christ
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 05:29 PM
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"Using sex as a bargaining chip" Wtf are you talking about lol. Not having sex until you feel ready isn't trading sex for romantic love lmfao, it's a basic boundary. There's also no such thing as good sex within a bad relationship for me. Why would I want to have sex with somebody I don't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 05:29 PM
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Because a woman saying no to you isn't traumatic
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 05:26 PM
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Water is wet lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 05:25 PM
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My boyfriend loves making desmos graphs. He spends hours a week on it. I do not like math very much. I love playing chess and reading non-fiction books. He hates non fiction and thinks it's are boring, and is pretty bad at chess. I have ADHD, he doesn't. Our relationship is perfectly loving and healthy because the basis of our relationship isn't a graphing calculator lol. Reddit isn't a good sample of the real world lol. I bet for every person on ADHD_Partners, there are like, 100 neurotypicals …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 05:24 PM
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Ok? Boo hoo? Want me to call your mommy to pick you up?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 05:19 PM
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Picking men who don't suck
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 05:18 PM
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You say that like literal Olympian male swimmers didn't throw a tantrum because Katie Ledecky was "beating them" in practice. Also, why is it somehow unreasonable to want a man of your general class lol. I don't want to date a rich man because I am not rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 05:17 PM
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Breaking news: Sex with strange men is unsatistfying. Who would have guessed lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 05:12 PM
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I don't think you get it lol. A lot of women do not care enough about a male partner to go seek one out. You already have agency and control over your options without approaching men because you can simply say no to them lol. Getting approached for women is like opening your mail box. It's almost all stuff you don't want and actively want to opt out of. Why would I go out and try to get more spam mail?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 05:11 PM
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Why is it embittering
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 05:06 PM
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Both can be true
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 05:05 PM
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Yes you did say that lol literally just read your comment lol. Again, men are only feel embittered because they feel like they are owed sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 05:08 AM
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Buying sex. Being a rapist is obviously worse than being a rape victim
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 05:05 AM
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So you admit that men are "selfish, insecure, and lacking of empathy" because women refuse to fuck them? That's some kind of skill issue, I have never been lacking in empathy because I wasn't having sex. Try not feeling entitled to women's bodies sometime
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 05:03 AM
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We get the same privilege as animals, corpses, and toddlers. Yippie.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 05:01 AM
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You're right, I felt so privileged as a 15 year old girl who would be sexually harassed on her runs. I should probably quit complaining that I had to watch my desirable and privileged mother be shoved up against her car while a man sniffed her hair! It's really funny that you think men wanting to rape you starting with your birth is some kind of special thing we should be glad about.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 05:00 AM
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Wow what a shocker! Women don't want to be friends with unlikable people? That's crazy!!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 04:56 AM
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Men are generally less picky because they are less likely to care about who she is, and just what she'll do for him. Obviously not everybody is like that, but a greater proportion of men than women simply don't really care about a woman's personality as long as it doesn't annoy him that much
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 04:55 AM
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0 people, I am single. If I were not single, I would be interested in like, maybe 3 men a year tops and many more women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 04:52 AM
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Yes I do lol. Do you think the majority of men interested in a woman are going to be: a. Attractive to her b. Have a decent enough personality c. Be compatible with her d. Worth the time and energy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 04:50 AM
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"wait for the mystery box" implies not approaching men lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 04:47 AM
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having a sex drive and sexualizing people are not the same buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 05:52 AM
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It's just off topic lol. Did you mean to respond to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 04:21 AM
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What country? There are spaces that aren't gyms lol. I support the concept of male only gyms though, assuming there are also co-ed and woman only gyms around. What's the opposite of a "looser"? A tighter??
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 04:19 AM
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What does any of this have to do with 4th wave feminism lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 04:13 AM
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No, you can simply be single. Would you rather dumpster dive incase there is a cupcake in there or just not have a cupcake?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 04:07 AM
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It's pretty funny to me when men complain about their sexualities being demonized because it's less socially acceptable to outwardly be a pervert, meanwhile the worlds biggest religions think women having sexual desires is a sin. It's not even a purely religious thing either, women are shamed more than men for masturbating and it's more taboo than male masturbation, promiscuous women are shamed more than promiscuous men, female virginity is sexualized and non-virgin women are regarded as tainted…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 04:06 AM
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Do you literally become aroused because random women are around you. I am not asexual but I have never been aroused by an attractive person just existing near me. That's insane lol. Even if you somehow do just become aroused because an attractive woman is near you, it's very easy to like, just not sexualize her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 04:02 AM
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Nobody introduced us we met doing sports, then found out we had mutual friends
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 01:17 AM
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Well they should probably give it a rest because it has yet to work lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 01:15 AM
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Nice try! Most trans men aren't freaks who sexualize women constantly. You can both be attracted to women while not sexualizing them lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 01:14 AM
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?????????
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 01:13 AM
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I have been interested in men without sexualizing them. Same with women I have been interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 01:11 AM
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Are you incapable of simply not behaving like an animal?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 01:10 AM
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My brain has no parts missing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 08:53 PM
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What the hell does this mean lol? We met each other. You can't meet somebody without them also meeting you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 08:37 PM
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you do realize constantly sexualizing every single woman isn't inherent male sexuality, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 08:33 PM
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I have a long term boyfriend who I met without ever downloading a dating app.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 08:32 PM
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Just don't expect your friends to want to date you. Friends are friends, not women you're trying to convince to date you. My boyfriend and I were friends with little-no romantic interest in each other for 2 years before we got together. I definitely would not have dated him if he was just fuck-zoning me. It seems like everything has a abysmal success rate for you people, so why is this any different?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 07:35 PM
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Have you guys tried like, hobbies maybe? Investing in friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 07:31 PM
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Not everybody is a redditor lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 07:29 PM
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Why would we approach men? Most of them aren't going to be suitable partners and most single women aren't in a rush to stop being single. It's like complaining that people aren't spending money on a mystery box they don't even want
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 07:28 PM
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You can both go to the gym and exercise without it being your personality You can both not use dating apps and not approach strange women in public while meeting people. It's called making friends. Maybe you'll date one, but don't have that as your main intention. This one is kinda silly so I am not even going to touch it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 07:25 PM
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Start by deleting them and meeting people IRL
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 07:23 PM
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Generally, men tend to be the worse partners. The leading cause of death for pregnant women is being murdered by their husbands, 10% of women have been maritally raped, the majority of divorces are initiated by women, and so on. Marriage is a great option for men because they now have a legally bestowed bang maid who can't take anything if you simply make a prenup
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 07:15 PM
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Ok? This has nothing to do with my comment lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 07:40 AM
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What makes you think that? What is apparently so wrong with you? I doubt you are some sort of cave troll or something. What defines a "low tier woman?".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 07:33 AM
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Men in general are pretty shit partners, but if you find an exception, I think marriage is a good option if it's desired. Being single is preferable to the average situation though. I wrote a whole essay about this in high school lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 07:14 AM
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No, that's stupid lol. I generally find tall and rich men unattractive, but hypothetically if I did, I would not care for them if their personality was bad or we were incompatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 07:12 AM
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I disagree with the sentiment that no woman will ever want you and that you're doomed, but not basing your identity around a romantic relationship and focusing on other things is a healthy thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 07:10 AM
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Sure, it's not surprising that men behave in a depraved manner, they do that constantly. It also doesn't make it right.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 02:05 AM
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I think any kind of porn consumption is disgusting, but maturating to some random photo of a woman that isn't being sold for that purpose is worse since the woman is not consenting to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 01:58 AM
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Arguably more disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 01:52 AM
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That would be pretty strange and I would be pretty weirded out, especially if we didn't know each other at that point. It's pretty disgusting to masturbate to women's pictures without their consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 01:48 AM
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Or maybe women simply don't want to be with men who add nothing to their life instead of some silly "evolutionary" drive. Evolutionary psychology is a pseudo science dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 01:18 AM
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??? What does this comment mean? What are you asking me?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 08:46 PM
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Hello? I was rephrasing your view lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 08:11 PM
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You do realize the vast majority of men and women only have 1-2 hookups, right? How do you think the average person lives???
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 07:27 PM
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There are young women who make good choices and older women who don't. Framing the issue as "women making xyz choice" and not "men treating their girlfriends in xyz ways" is shifting the blame on the wrong person.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 07:23 AM
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https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC5992251/ Women face significantly more financial problems after a divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 07:21 AM
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It's actually worse on women because of the financial impact. Women on average make 40% less after a divorce, and her risk of poverty increases from 7-45%.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 07:20 AM
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The concept of masculinity and femininity are stupid and I can't believe we still care about them in 2025
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 07:17 AM
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Generally women can tell something is wrong with them and ditch them after several months lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 07:16 AM
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You know, because women are incapable of doing the tasks they've been doing for years, and men are such pathethic little creatures that they try to destroy everything because they can't get their dicks wet. You have a much lesser view of men than I do. I personally think men have more to live for then a girlfriend lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 05:36 AM
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No because I do not come across this in the real world
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 09:12 PM
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Jesus fucking christ are you people actually this weak
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 06:35 PM
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No, nothing changed
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 06:33 PM
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Lmfao you do not live in reality. The average male college student has had a hook up, and doesn't look like a super model. The standards for hookups are actually lower lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 06:30 PM
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They really don't buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 07:03 AM
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Women aren't a monolith, it is different for everybody
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 07:01 AM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 07:18 PM
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Source??
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 06:27 AM
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Generally yes. I didn't have any active mental health issue that needed to be addressed for my general wellbeing
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 02:31 AM
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Yes, people are generally physically attracted to their partner, but thinking "wow that person is attractive I should definitely start a relationship with them, let me go talk to that stranger" is stupid. Usually normal people get to know others regardless of whether or not they think they are attractive. I am sorry the only people you get to know are future partners? Seems sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 01:50 AM
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Idk about you but most normal people generally are attracted to another person's, you know, personhood. Why would I be remotely interested in some rando who's nice to look at.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 09:14 PM
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Because you're just walking up to strangers you know nothing about to try to start a romantic relationship with them on the basis of their appearance. It's too forced and shows a lack of genuine interest in somebody. If you're cold approaching people, you obviously do that often, thus you don't actually care about a relationship with that specific person, you just want a relationship. Why would anybody date somebody who just is looking for any romantic relationship vs an actual interest in them?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 08:51 PM
1

How is wanting a partner who have orgasms with somehow "enforcing stereotypical masculinity" lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 08:08 PM
10

I have had several male friends that I had 0 romantic interest or attraction to. How is friendship and romance remotely the same lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 08:05 PM
3

Women like having friends who aren't trying to fuck them
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 08:05 PM
0

You haven't actually met 4B women in real life lol. My 4B friends don't talk about men that much
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 01:01 AM
0

Nope, cold approaching is for losers and I already found my dream guy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 12:58 AM
2

I hate to break it to you but going to a strip club is normal cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 12:52 AM
1

Everything but the starting part lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 12:52 AM
5

Hey buddy, it's called cheating, not "microcheating"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 11:29 PM
1

Men have meaningful connections? Then what's the whole male loneliness epidemic about? Their fulfilling friendships? Who do you think is making an abusive relationship abusive? The woman who in your words, is staying in them? It seems to me that you agree that men being with women is causing their problems and women would be happier without men. Very progressive Women already have meaningful connections with other women, that's why there is no female loneliness epidemic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 10:34 PM
3

It's bullshit for men to be emotionally independent?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 10:11 PM
30

We love eachother Healthy relationship Compatibility
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 09:49 PM
6

Imagine being upset because somebody said "men shouldn't rely on women to fulfill their emotional needs". Why does that upset you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 09:48 PM
1

Makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 09:38 PM
1

So why should we "get together and change this". How exactly would that look like for both sexes?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 09:02 PM
2

I think a society that has sex work is broken. Sex work is the commodification of women's bodies, and for it to be viable, there has to be enough men willing to purchase women's bodies. I think society needs to be structured in a way in which men don't feel entitled to women's bodies and thus don't consume porn or hire (rape) prostitutes, and where women have enough options for work outside of objectifying themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 07:24 PM
7

Maybe men just have to find something better to do with their lives and make meaningful platonic connections with other people instead of expecting a girlfriend to fufill all their needs
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 07:20 PM
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Agreed lol. It's crazy how our society both pushes the message that men are more disciplined and focused than woman but also that men's libidios cannot be privately dealt with and that they just haveeeee to have sex or they'll die
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 07:19 PM
1

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 07:17 PM
2

Maybe you weren't too observant lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 07:09 PM
1

I don't lol. My boyfriend is super hot
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 07:09 PM
2

You're going to have to be more specific lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 10:24 AM
6

I know! I was so slutty in that knee length child's dress. I'm probably not putting out for all those nice guys who deserve a chance because I am bitter about being called out for my whore phase from 10-14.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 08:45 AM
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I'm sure my shapeless dress and sexy 14 year old skin was the reason I got followed around the gas station by a strange man!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 06:23 AM
0

No he's talking about strangers. Having a higher sex drive towards somebody you have a sexual connection to is normal lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 10:29 PM
1

Did you not read your own post or..
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 10:26 PM
3

In normal women you don't start "lusting" over random people
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 10:22 PM
1

Man detected!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 10:20 PM
2

What do you think ovulating is
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 10:20 PM
8

Why do you want random women to lust after you? Don't you have better things to base your identity around than some woman's attraction to you? Btw the vast majority of women don't "lust" after anybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 10:19 PM
1

You haven't yet answered my question. Such as?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 09:03 PM
1

Such as? BTW they're called women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 08:49 PM
9

You being incapable of decerning what literal face paint looks like isn't lying. It's like somebody freaking out that my hands aren't really black because I was wearing gloves. Literally just uses your eyes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 08:10 PM
1

Yes, either date somebody age appropriate or not at all, because dating somebody much younger and inexperienced than you creates an unhealthy power imbalance
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 08:04 PM
2

?????????????
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 08:02 PM
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Lol makeup that you can see with your eyes if you know what makeup looks like is not the same as a literal male. It's obvious when women are wearing makeup, men just don't know what it looks like. Pick up a sephora catalog or something
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 08:01 PM
2

Do you think my boyfriend is the center of my identity or something? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 08:00 PM
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I agree. I have seen men talk about how naturally beautiful a woman is then provide a photo of a woman with a full face of makeup. What men mean is they don't like bright makeup that actually expresses some sort of style, they just want women to wear makeup that makes them a "more attractive" version of themselves. Men also love plastic surgery when they don't know about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 07:53 PM
1

Lol where exactly are these "girl talks" occuring?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 07:51 PM
1

You say that like drunk men aren't the king of groping
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 07:50 PM
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I had plenty of acne when I'd get catcalled while going on runs when I was 15, so I don't think it's the skin thing lmfao. Basically every woman will tell you they started getting harassed or noticed being perved on at around age 13, is it because of the youthful skin of a child? Or that slender prepubescent body shape?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 07:48 PM
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I don't really consider a few men who are enjoyable a good trade of for the majority who are not. I already have a boyfriend, thus access to penis (if you read the post you'd know I am bisexual so it's not even like I really need it for sexual enjoyment anyways). Not to mention a dildo is like, 30 dollars
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 07:42 PM
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I think it's pretty silly you're freaking out at me for giving my "unneeded opinion" since I have a boyfriend yet you're literally a man on this thread. Can you not see how your opinion is leagues below mine in necessity in this topic lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 07:39 PM
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I have a boyfriend, which I suppose could disqualify me, but other than having a male partner that was naturally acquired (did not meet with the intention of dating, friends for several years before dating), I do not try to be attractive or impress men and generally avoid interactions with them. I don't view it as a decision I was "drove to", I view it as simply stopping the decision to center men that most women have automatically been opted into by society. Why should I center men exactly? The…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 06:12 AM
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Despite how unethical it is, anybody can hire a prostitute, thus there is always somebody. If your way to hope with rejection is to destroy society, then you're a loser who shouldn't be treated as a normal member of society
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 05:52 AM
1

When women don't get laid, they get a hobby, when men don't get laid, they throw a tantrum. Interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 05:48 AM
1

Sounds like men are very dramatic then.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 05:23 AM
0

How would the world become a worse place? Men being single isn't a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 06:22 PM
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Wow. Somebody really did put your brain in a microwave for a few minutes, didn't they?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 08:57 AM
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Let's say women are being ultra selective about superficial stuff (they aren't). So what? Everybody can have whatever standards they want. If most men don't meet most women's standards, that's fine. Men don't need a partner to survive or be happy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 08:55 AM
1

When's the last time a man has been raped, assaulted, stalked or murdered by an online date at the same frequency as women?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 06:11 AM
2

Yes, that's why cold approaches are bad and shouldn't be encouraged.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 07:32 AM
1

Crazy thing to say on a pill based subreddit. FYI I think pills are stupid and I just picked blue because redpill ideas seemed nonsensical
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 05:26 AM
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I love it when men just make things up
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 05:14 AM
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Nope! Just improve yourself instead of whining about being short
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 01:10 AM
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It really isn't. I am not attracted to the majority of people yet I am not repulsed by them. Are you repulsed by your mother? I said most women don't care about height as long as you're taller than them. Why are you so pressed about this?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 01:06 AM
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Then she might not like you? Which isn't necessarily true. My 5'7 dad dated a 6'1 woman for a while because he is considered charismatic. Not being attracted to somebody isn't the same as being repulsed by them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 01:02 AM
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Nope, most women don't care about height as long as you are taller than her
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 01:00 AM
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Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 12:59 AM
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Stop falling for other men's excuses. My boyfriend is 5'5, and I prefer short men. Most women don't really care unless they're taller than you, and even then it's not that bad. My 5'7 dad dated a 6'1 woman for a while. Height doesn't matter that much, it's just an excuse inadequate short men have to pretend that their bad personality isn't the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 12:58 AM
1

Do you need hand holding?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 09:40 PM
2

How the dick is used lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 09:11 PM
0

I definitely don't. I initiated every "base" in my adolescence, and am assertive in the bedroom. Women who are "passive" when it comes to escalation are generally not very interested or very young. Most women over 25 don't just let things happen to them
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 08:29 PM
1

You can call it whatever you want, but it's still 50/50 in effort
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 08:21 PM
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Newsflash: that's not true. My boyfriend is neither rich or higher status than me, and I wouldn't have it any other way
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 08:23 AM
1

Do you think a genuinely mentally well person would desire being punched and yelled at? Is somebody who is willing to do that a good person to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 08:22 AM
1

Do you really think those are truly amateur porn? Lots of studios make fake amateur porn because of the niche
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 07:55 AM
2

Do you think that being turned on is a good enough reason for something to be ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 07:51 AM
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I'm not single, but if I was, I wouldn't want any men to approach me at the gym. I am not looking for a partner at the gym, I am there to exercise, and if people are oogling me, I'd rather not know about it. Why exactly would I ever want to go out with a guy who essentially is telling me "hey, I know absolutely nothing about you other than that I find you physically attractive, and I think that is a good enough reason to be interested in dating you". To me it's shallow and very undesirable
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 07:50 AM
1

I meant an actual source, not your specific niche
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 07:46 AM
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I can't fathom why a man who uses his wealth and status to attract a partner is surprised that his partner is mostly interested in their wealth and status. Men like to attract women with their money until it actually works
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 07:45 AM
1

Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 07:37 AM
1

What do you think 50/50 means? It's not literally half of every task, atleast not how people generally use it. It's equal mental, emotional, and physical burden. For example, if one person is chronically ill, 50/50 might mean less tasks for that person because for them, managing the dishes, laundry, and taking out the trash is as effortful as cooking, cleaning, and running errands. The reason you wouldn't make your wife lift heavy objects presumably is because it requires more effort from her th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 07:37 AM
1

Somebody can consent to being abused. Does that make it ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 07:26 AM
1

No, I am not a porn addict, but statistically speaking most porn is not homemade
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 07:25 AM
1

I don't think you know what gender studies are.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 07:25 AM
3

Unless you have a job or illness that forces you to have unequal balance of labor, why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 09:35 PM
2

So how is not wanting to have sex not a good enough reason to not have it?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 09:28 PM
1

Yes it is lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 09:21 PM
1

Have you ever had sex without wanting to?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 09:18 PM
1

The point is consensual relationship dynamics aren't inherently healthy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 06:56 PM
0

Yes? What do you think the point of this example is?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 06:47 PM
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If you have basic social skills, it's very easy to gain consent in a sexy way.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 06:46 PM
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Yes lol. Do you expect some other answer
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 06:42 PM
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Yes lol. Do you expect be to say anything else?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 06:42 PM
2

Yes, plenty of men are losers
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 06:38 PM
1

Isn't not wanting to have sex a reason not to have sex? Even if somebody agrees to or is ok with certain expectations, they're toxic. Plenty of people are in abuse relationships on purpose
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 06:38 PM
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Are you being serious lol. Do you not know what porn is? The vast majority of porn is in fact not home recorded lol. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC2629520/
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 06:37 PM
1

Do you think the average druggie is a 6 figure earning cocaine user? Plus those people are also mentally ill lmfao. You can be both rich and mentally ill
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 06:33 PM
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Some women readily accept and want that lifestyle for about 5 years lol. Even if she wants to do it, it's a toxic dynamic with an excess power imbalance
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 06:32 PM
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Yup. Any society that expects women to do 100% of childcare and household tasks was toxic
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 06:30 PM
1

If somebody is delude enough to let their husband beat them, is that healthy?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 06:29 PM
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Even if somebody is willing to do that, it is unhealthy, thus an unfair standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 11:33 AM
1

Breaking news: Women want well adjusted partners
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 11:04 AM
0

Maybe you don't understand. You believe that selling drugs to vulnerable and mentally ill people for profit is equally as bad as being vulnerable and mentally ill?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 11:00 AM
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Have you ever considered that dating is not transactional and some things are inherently too "high" of standards? A man expecting a woman to put out whenever he wants and do 100% of household and childrearing tasks is a toxic expectation and thus too high.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 10:48 AM
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Being groomed? It's really common. The whole reason men even want younger women is so they don't have enough wisdom to know what is normal and what isn't, thus they can get away with more abusive or toxic behaviors
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 10:46 AM
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Crazy thing to say coming from "Red Pill Man". Your entire world view is a bias towards men lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 10:45 AM
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So you think selling drugs to people is just as bad as buying them to cope with your circumstances? yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 09:43 AM
1

Maybe you don't get out enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 08:32 AM
2

Please take like, 4 seconds to look into the sex work industry
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 08:08 AM
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You really have no grasp on how often people have sex, do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 07:44 AM
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All the time. There are plenty of ugly older men dating younger women
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 07:43 AM
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Women are not the seller, they are the product. When there is no pimp or pornographer, which is generally the case in OnlyFans, the men become the pimp/pornographer
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 07:43 AM
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How do you think we got into the situation in which sex work is profitable? The origin is sex trafficking buddy, because men decided that they should get sex whenever they want
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 07:41 AM
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You don't see how men are not the poor little babies here?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 05:27 AM
2

Or it's because she's naive
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 05:26 AM
2

You have your world view swapped. The women are not the drug dealers in this scenario
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 04:34 AM
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It is immoral to take advantage of a younger woman. It is not immoral to date a buff person lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 04:33 AM
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You think being a drug dealer is equal too or less immoral than using drugs? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 04:32 AM
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No, it is the man's fault for creating the demand lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 04:31 AM
1

No? Wtf. I lose respect for men who refuse to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 02:36 AM
2

Men who can't find girlfriends have simply not been around women who have dropped their standards lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 02:36 AM
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People can also choose to buy drugs. Selling them drug still puts you at fault because they would not be doing drugs if you weren't giving them over. Let's not forget that men's hands are tied and they are incapable of making the moral choice of rejecting a younger woman
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 02:35 AM
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Ok so you mean basically building it? Do you think that the female body is unaffected by gestation? Where do you think the embryo is getting it's nutrients lmfao. Do you expect women to say they went into labor then "facilitated birth"? Am I supposed to say I am "facilitating the palettes" instead of saying I'm healing a cut? This doesn't have anything to do with religion lmfao. I think it's pretty irritating when other atheists pretend they're holier than thou and that anything they don't like …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 02:21 AM
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A man's last name is given to children, slaves, and is wives, aka his property. I am not property and will not be taking the last name of a man I have no familial relation to, then giving the kids I built from scratch his last name either. He either takes my last name or we have different last names.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 08:10 PM
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My boyfriend definitely has more testosterone than me but he says no to round 2 more than I do lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 08:07 PM
2

No, women are just less desperate, and men are generally less valuable or attractive partners than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 08:06 PM
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Just like the whole being dominant/aggressive and super ripped thing is something men think women find attractive, it's not true and men care about it far more than women. I haven't heard any of my friends or women in general complain about penis size unless it was under 4 inches or was too big. Men are being gaslight by porn and other men into thinking it matters. https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2007/05/070531114303.htm#:\~:text=A%20survey%20of%20over%2050%2C000,cent%20of%20men%20were%20s…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 08:04 PM
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Yes, you a man, definitely know more than multiple surveys done and a woman herself saying it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 07:40 PM
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Most women prefer too small to too big. We just want a normal penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 10:24 AM
0

Lets not be obtuse
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 06:41 AM
2

You are truly an insane person lol. Men are not being exploited for by OnlyFans girl lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 11:56 PM
1

I don't think you know what a tic is lol. Are we not using out thinking caps lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 06:31 PM
2

I don't think any men are more attractive than my boyfriend. I can see somebody who is aesthetically pleasing to look at, but I have no sexual or romantic feelings towards that person. I wouldn't even really feel that way if I was single. Why would I be attracted to some random person I know 0 things about.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 06:02 PM
1

I don't experience this because I would not tolerate a relationship like this, but it 100% is a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 06:00 PM
1

Creator owned content is still bad. Is a video of somebody cutting themselves a bad thing even if there are videos of somebody cutting another person? There is a scientific consensus lol. Please go read studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 05:58 PM
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No, you are just very bad at interpreting text.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 05:56 PM
1

Why should it be free from criticism exactly? Especially when abuse and non-consensual interactions are rampant in the bdsm community
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 05:55 PM
1

I am talking about every genre
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 05:53 PM
1

Fine. Look at women who just don't shave, have a lot of tattoos, wear bright makeup, wear "too much" makeup, like Taylor Swift, etc etc etc. Women are mocked for almost everything
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 05:51 PM
1

There is a distinction between spanking and having your ass gently slapped lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 05:49 PM
1

So do you think it's morally right to take advantage of a woman with mentall illness or disturbances? Don't you think it's pretty horrific that we live in a world in which a woman has to prostitute herself out so her dad doesn't die of cancer?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 05:48 PM
-1

That's not really true lol. Find any picture of a woman who dyes her armpit hair blue and look at the comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 05:00 AM
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The main reason men suck in bed is because they don't care or try. It isn't hard to be an attentive, good lover if you listen to what a woman wants and pay attention. Dick size usually doesn't matter very much unless it's too big since most of women's orgasms come from non penetrative sex
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 04:58 AM
1

Do you think a high five and a spanking are remotely similar. Have you ever heard of somebody punishing their children with a high five?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 04:54 AM
0

If a society doesn't treat women as sex objects, the demand for sex work would drop rapidly and women would find better ways to make money since they, as people who haven't internalized the concept that they are sex objects, would not feel like sex work is a viable way to fix being impoverished. A society that also has adequate social safety nets for women would ensure women do not have to resort to porn and sex work to feed themselves and their families
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 04:54 AM
1

How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 04:50 AM
2

Ok cool, do you think any of those people are mentally sound?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 04:50 AM
1

Are we just going to pretend that one's sex doesn't inform actions due to socialization?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 04:49 AM
1

Lets not pretend that having your breasts touched is physically, socially, or psychologically comparable to being spanked
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 04:47 AM
1

That's enough female attention for you today
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 06:59 PM
2

Do you think Lily Phillips and Bonnie Blue are in any way mentally sound?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 06:59 PM
3

Women aren't jealous of porn lol, they're disgusted by it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 06:56 PM
1

Have you ever considered why somebody would want to be spanked? Wanting something doesn't mean its ok or free from criticism
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 06:55 PM
1

Aw another incel?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 06:53 PM
1

How lol. What do you think TERF means lol. This post has nothing to do with trans people lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 06:52 PM
1

Fantasies about my boyfriend or concepts
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 06:52 PM
0

Yes. We shouldn't ban them from doing OnlyFans, but society should be set up in a way where women do not feel the need to do OnlyFans, as well as there being no demand for it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 06:48 PM
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Yes dude, having sex with a ton of people in an industry where your pain and suffering does not matter if bad for you lmfao https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC2629520/
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 06:46 PM
1

Boo hoo? Are you saying your inferior brain somehow makes you porn addict losers? That's a pretty strange take. I personally think men are capable of not being porn addict losers, but if you think men are inherently doomed becasue of their stupid little brains, that's your problem
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 06:40 PM
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Ok? Do you somehow think aggression is acceptable lol. It's crazy that as a society we see spanking as somehow not aggressive or problematic
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 06:39 PM
1

Okay lol. If you can prove this relationship is still health and viable in 3 years I will give you and your girlfriend 200 dollars.
/r/seduction18/06/25 06:33 PM
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IDK why do people care about pedophiles watching child porn? Have you considered that other people have basic empathy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 06:32 PM
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Do you genuinely think the majority of women are attracted to rapists. That's really funny
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 06:31 PM
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https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC9265877/
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 06:28 PM
1

What exactly is not violent about hitting somebody lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 06:27 PM
0

Again incel stuff. Please get an actual argument next time. You're not being abused when women don't like you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 06:26 PM
1

Literally just reread your entire comment lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 08:31 AM
2

Yes my guy, the studies are based on the majority of men lol. I think it is fair to assume that the male population, who generally watch porn, can have things inferred about them by studies that apply to them unless some sort of proof is given otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 08:31 AM
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No, women's porn use doesn't make them think they're entitled to male bodies because there is no existing cultural idea that women are entitled to male bodies, which is true the other way around. 88% study: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC6942232/
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 08:29 AM
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What does this have anything to do with this discussion lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 08:27 AM
1

You behaved in a pretty morally bad way. Robbing a bank and getting away with it isn't a good thing, but technically it lead to success.
/r/seduction18/06/25 08:25 AM
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I don't think you understand what the words you are using mean
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 08:24 AM
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Yes buddy, it's an incel rant. You just made another one. Yikes! Please stop responding to this
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 08:23 AM
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88% of porn contains violence. it is extremely common lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 08:22 AM
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You obviously have none 0 research about porn in any regard. Try reading ex porn star testimonials. Have you ever considered that those woman are not mentally well and that behavior is disordered and should not be treated as a normal thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 08:21 AM
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ok buddy whatever you say
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 08:19 AM
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Watching porn then expecting a woman to be ok with bein choked, hit, and hurt is violence. You literally did. Reread the first sentence of your other comment. We are focused on porn right now, not the entirety of capitalism, which is also exploitative. Do you think self harm is as bad morally as cutting another person?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 08:19 AM
0

Because it's an industry that contributes heavily to sex trafficking and is in itself violent and exploitive?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 08:17 AM
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Yeah I am not even going to bother with bad faith arguments. You can try again if you want lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 08:16 AM
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IDK plenty of people have figured it out. Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 08:15 AM
2

Do studies support that women are whores? Because studies support that pornography affects the way men interact with women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 08:15 AM
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I like seeing naked women too. I simply just don't masturbate to videos of women being exploited due to a basic sense of morality
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 08:14 AM
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Ok, so you mean expectations most women don't have, lol. Most men in a relationship are not rich and 6'0. Nice try though!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 08:13 AM
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What does true crime have anything to do with this?? I think you're projecting something. A man doesn't have to think "oh wow, this woman isn't willing to do xyz, I will go find a more vulnerable woman to exploit", he can simply think something along the lines of "this woman will do it for cheaper". This isn't him being consciously malicious or looking to exploit women, but the clear result of this attitude is that women will have to do things they don't want to in order to keep an audience. It …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 08:12 AM
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You do not know the difference between being sexualized/objectified and being seen as desirable and engaging in mutual desire. Being objectified is being treated like an object without autonomy or desires. Women do not want that, women want to be seen as attractive and engage in a dynamic in which their sexuality matters. Are you arguing that it's a double standard that women want to engage sexually with some men and not others? Give me a break lmfao. Where did all this lying to men stuff come f…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 08:06 AM
3

Is the average man and woman committing murder?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 08:02 AM
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Because he is literally gaining access to the female body on demand, which very often time translates into real life. This isn't the case for women, as there is not the societal messaging being affirmed that women are entitled to male bodies. That isn't true. A study shows that 88% percent of porn depicts violence. Telling the difference between fiction and reality is not the same as being unaffected by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 08:01 AM
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Porn is violent. 88% of porn contains physical violence. If men are just so compassionate now a days, why is male conservatism on the rise? Why are rape rates still through the roof? Maybe the average man isn't as progressive as you think. Studies link porn usage to rape and desensitization of violence against women, so that point doesn't stand. I don't really care that much that men are getting ED or whatever because of porn, I care more about the women directly and indirectly harmed by porn. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 07:56 AM
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Emotional maturity means you aren't a porn addict who can't masturbate without watching videos of exploited women. Have you ever heard of your imagination?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 06:04 AM
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What are these expectations exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 06:03 AM
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Unless you are somehow such a special little guy that your media consumption has no effect on you, that is unlikely
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 06:02 AM
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You know, because women don't have jobs and don't do the vast majority of unpaid and unappreciated labor lmfao. Women arguably have done far more for society than men. What exactly do you think women do all day lmfao. How exactly are men being mistreated in " education, workforce, family courts, criminal courts, healthcare, army". The entire education system has been designed for men, the same goes for the workforce. Men gain custody of their children 60-70% of the time when they pursue it, wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 06:01 AM
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This has to be a joke
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 05:55 AM
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Do you think I want the attention of porn sick weirdos? You are falling into the folly of thinking women's motivations are to get attention from men. AI porn is still based on real life women and has similar consequences socially to normal porn. Nobody sees a videogame character ad "competition" because we sincerely, wholeheartedly, do not want you. Women are upset about themselves being sexualized and depicted as sex objects, not upset you're gooning to pixels instead of them. Last time I check…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 05:55 AM
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Have you like, done anything ever? Women are held to higher standards in almost any facet of life, but that isn't what this debate is about. edit: typo
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 05:50 AM
2

Please enlighten me about how the porn industry somehow stopped exploiting, raping, and trafficking vulnerable women? While OnlyFans is slightly better than traditional porn since performers have a bit more control over what they are doing (theoretically) since traditional pantographers are out of pictures, the clientele takes over that role, and due to the competitiveness of OnlyFans, if you aren't willing to do the demanded sex acts, your clients will simply move on to a more vulnerable woman/…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 05:49 AM
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Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 05:46 AM
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How is internalizing and externalizing equivalent? Is it more moral to watch a video of somebody self harming then mimicking that behavior, or going out and cutting other people? Saying porn negatively affects men and leads to anti social behavior isn't "lazy and reductionist", it's a scientifically backed observation. You seem to be in the opinion that porn can be ethically produced. Could you also elaborate on your first sentence? How does doing porn out of necessity make it good?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 05:45 AM
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Why would an emotionally mature man even want to watch porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 05:34 AM
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not to mention on demand sex!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 05:34 AM
2

The sentiment that "everybody else does it so if I stop there will be no effect" is an excuse if you sit with it for long enough. If 100 people are stoning somebody to death and that person is going to get stoned anyways, it's still immoral to throw rocks at them. Porn affects how you interact with the world in a wider sense as well, it doesn't end when you shut your computer. Obviously tackling the disgusting porn industry is more impactful than a single man quitting, but it is still important …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 05:33 AM
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Yes. Horror movies are acting. The actors from Saw are not actually being forced to cut their own limbs off. Porn "actresses" are in fact actually being fucked to prolapse and engaging in sexual activities. Other than the fact that the women are actually being harmed, what you watch in some way say something about you and your desires. Why would a man want to watch "barely legal" content if he wasn't attracted to barely legal girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 05:29 AM
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Yes. I think younger women are more likely to internalize depictions of women in porn than older women though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 05:26 AM
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Do you believe men are entitled to sex or women's bodies? Do you believe that exploiting women and commodifying their bodies is somehow ok because other women won't let them do it in person? You can masturbate without porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 05:25 AM
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I don't think you interpreted what I said correctly. That's my bad, the phrasing was ambiguous. What I meant is "Men tend to describe why they love their partners based on what services their partners provide for them". It's very common for men to discard female partners when they no longer serve them
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 05:24 AM
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Yeah that's kind of silly. I interpreted his point as "women only love men for what they do for them and that comes through in how they talk about men". Either way its wrong lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 05:22 AM
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What exactly do you think it is then lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 05:21 AM
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Do you actually talk to real life women? Most women don't speak like this, generally men describe their "love" for their partners in terms of what they do for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 05:20 AM
2

Or maybe we could simply not engage in sex trafficking so that entitled men* who feel like they deserve to possess women's bodies can access sex. Men can just be single without raping women who can't reject you. Men are not owed sex *obligatory "not all men" so I don't get yelled at
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 05:11 AM
5

Have you ever considered that women prefer not being at the mercy of a pornographer and rather sustain less abuse making their own content, thus only leaving the most desperate of women in free porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 05:08 AM
2

I hope I don't know any onlyfans users, but I unfortunately statistically probably know several normal porn watchers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 05:06 AM
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Came here to say this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 05:01 AM
1

It definitely would have been better not to shoot it
/r/seduction18/06/25 04:40 AM
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Your shot landing doesn't make it good.
/r/seduction18/06/25 01:49 AM
2

Sure, but you're incorrect lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 01:49 AM
1

oops lol. I meant 2.2 is greater than 2.1
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 11:50 PM
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data link: https://www.un.org/development/desa/pd/sites/www.un.org.development.desa.pd/files/undesa_pd_2025_wfr_2024_final.pdf
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 11:43 PM
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I am using 2024 data from the UN. 2.2 is in fact above 2.1 btw
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 11:43 PM
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The global birth rate is 2.2, which is above the replacement rate of 2.1 edit: typo
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 11:42 PM
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Key word is rapidly. We are globally above replacement level birthrate wise
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 10:02 PM
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That's due to women's greater ability not to have unwanted children
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 08:41 PM
4

fair enough lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 07:25 PM
1

This is maybe the least worthy topic for a reddit rant. I can't believe people still care about the concept of masculinity anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 05:49 PM
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If women followed this advice the population would rapidly drop
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 05:40 PM
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Ok? Cool? Nobody is arguing they aren't, but women go through oppression, and men suffer side effects of being the oppressor. It's like watching somebody punch another person in the fact then complain that their fists hurt
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 09:55 AM
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If a woman essentially needs a man for survival, it is arguable that all marriages are at some level nonconsensual due to the fact that a woman must get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 01:59 AM
1

Wow, what a shocker... Women want the most competent possible partners. How crazy. Statistically speaking, women are doing a pretty bad job of selecting competent partners though. How exactly are you being objectified?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 10:44 PM
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people who are confident and competent being considered "masculine" is a misogynistic ideal and is a basic trait everybody should have The vast majority of women are looking for an equal partnership, not to be dating a surrogate father. Wtf??
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 09:54 PM
2

The kind of men who care about or try to be masculine turn me off. I do not like that kind of personality or worldview
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 08:43 PM
1

Lesbians statistically speaking have better sex lives than straight women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 07:48 PM
2

Yikes! Maybe don't shoot that shot
/r/seduction16/06/25 07:40 PM
1

For me, sex is a pretty important part of a relationship, thus I would not date an asexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 07:35 PM
1

At school, and we have been dating for coming up on 2 years. Btw the word you are looking for is "women", not "girls".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 07:30 PM
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The whole concept of "masculinity" and "femininity" is absurd and I don't respect it. I am actively turned off by "masculinity" and like it when my boyfriend behaves like a normal person and not turned on by "masculine" behaviors
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 07:26 PM
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No man deserves a submissive partner because that is a terrible situation to be in for a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 07:23 PM
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You know, because all of those wealthy powerful people are half men and half women. The average man, especially in the US will not have to go to war, work a dangerous job, go to family court, have severe mental health issues, etc. The average women in the US, will have to go through years of unpaid labor, sexual assault and harassment, being treated as inferiors due to their sex, feeling unsafe due to men, and sacrificing their health, happiness, and potential for other people. Saying that men a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 07:22 PM
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Or, I don't know, the kind of men who's personality is so bad they can't attract women isn't the type of guy to think "wow, women are so socially intelligent and know better than me, I am going to give her money to do something she is better at than me", especially when the thing in question is something they base some part of their identity on. You are assuming that these men are reasonable people who could recognize that women aren't their inferiors and have more insight than them. Not to ment…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 07:12 PM
1

IDK I think men should stop chasing women because if you have to chase them, they're running away!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 03:45 AM
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