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Probably not unless you don't want kids, in which case do what you like.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 12:14 AM
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Fellas, is it gay to drive a car?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 11:24 PM
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Glendale is mental. I remember turning right out of a parking lot with literally nobody on the street. Instant the front tires get out on the street there’s wild honking, a screech of swerved tires, and a ton of profanity. I have no idea how we went from zero cars in sight range to a near collision with 2 seconds, but it happens. And the less said about anything near the Galleria the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 10:06 PM
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I’m not excluding myself from this group.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 09:26 PM
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Ha, it ain’t me, that’s for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 09:24 PM
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Yeah but everyone in California is a trash driver, so it evens out.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 09:24 PM
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They’ve been all over the evangelical shit for 40 years, though. They aren’t letting up…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 09:23 PM
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No, I think a baseline of trust has to be established. This is why I couldn't and didn't do ONS/hookups. Giving someone you trust control is very different from having a stranger take it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 08:36 PM
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I think domination like forcefully kissing or pushing her against the wall and hiking her legs up and stuff like that going off her response is different from, like, grabbing someone’s wrists and pinning them so they can’t move and then yanking their pants down (unless you know she’s into it, like you said). Regardless, I do think a baseline of trust has to be established.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 08:33 PM
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Lol, sorry it was luliloo’s comment and possum’s story and that story about couch sex. I forgot we were talking about actual rape also in other threads.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 08:07 PM
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Ha. I have one too but everyone is so damn horny today on here already… Don’t want to drive luliloo and Amy Dunne Stan guy to the brink.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 08:01 PM
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For posters who do believe in verbal, explicit consent — have you ever had sex where it vernal consent wasn’t given? Did you enjoy it? I’m wondering if there is something about the element of control here, and I’m not suggesting it’s a bad thing. I’m just curious. Personally one of what may be the greyest of grey area encounters in my life was one of the hottest. That said, when I’ve said no I always meant it and left immediately if that wasn’t being obeyed. Maybe it’s a personal thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 07:58 PM
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Yeah, they do look more like 8-tracks. But I barely remember those and I’m one of the older people here!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 07:39 PM
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I remember seeing Mean Girls in a Best Buy being sold on VHS, probably because the tape case was all pink and stood out in the rack.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 07:08 PM
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VHS tapes were what you put in VCRs. They looked like cassette tapes (for music) but were...bigger. Same concept. You recorded moves off the TV and onto the tapes. Each tape stored like 6 hours of content, I think, although I remember having to switch settings from SP to SLP sometimes to get more or less recording time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 07:06 PM
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Not based, just old 😂 I think january is also like 20 years younger than I am. We're just different generations. Could be the result of constant online culture that we as humans are becoming terrible at reading body language? Maybe I just get off personally on the guy taking charge? Don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 04:45 PM
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I don't know but there are like 5 different smackdowns in progress. People getting mad all over the place.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 11:35 PM
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I think the thread was about obesity specifically, which is far more than chubby. I agree that not every overweight person is unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 11:13 PM
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Who was it who said the daily was boring today?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 11:11 PM
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I promise I'd read the whole post before calling you a cuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 08:29 PM
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Yeah, IF these moves are true as recounted, he sounds like he's terrible at seduction and not great in bed but he's rich and attractive and famous so nobody told him. Nothing sounded like a turn-on, just unpleasant at worst and kind of weird at best. I don't get why she'd stay so long when he didn't prevent her from leaving, and it sounds like he didn't restrain her or force her to suck him off.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 08:04 PM
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I don’t understand why she didn’t say no or stop because it doesn’t seem like he was being threatening. And she didn’t object and did as he asked. And the idea of bitching about someone giving you white wine instead of red when they’re the host is kind of peak brat behavior/bad manners.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 07:22 PM
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I think we're discussing rape culture. Since it's not as much fun as cuck culture, I'm not following it closely.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 05:48 PM
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YAY!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 05:40 PM
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I mean, people have said worse to me, but I'm not sure that's the bar we want to use. I think he knew he was being cruel and went full steam ahead. It's the difference between: "Well, stop being ugly and girls might talk to you" and "I think with a better haircut and clothes you'd have a better chance with women."
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 05:17 PM
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I, for one, do not think we have exhausted the topic of "boyfriend material."
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 05:12 PM
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I assume it's when he told another user she'd be a bad mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 05:11 PM
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Yeah, he was over the line last night. I didn't report him but I figured he'd get reported.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 05:11 PM
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That’s sad and kind of gross. I’d hate for anyone to call me that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 03:19 AM
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Yeah, maybe not a red flag in isolation but in retrospect it is. It doesn’t sound like being used for sex so much as being used for sex and attention/company/support. Knowing there’s someone to go to when you’re thirsty or bored or lonely or in trouble, but taking that person fro granted
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 03:18 AM
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IS THIS A CUCK CULTURE? someone has to take up the mantle. may as well be me
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 11:46 PM
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hahaha..me you mean? Well, good. I don't think you should obsess too much over her behavior though. A mid-30s woman with no income, a year-long marriage, a coke habit, and a rich daddy is not going to be a reliable barometer for the women you want for a relationship. Chin up! You attracted one pretty woman, you'll get another. Maybe not tomorrow, but, well...not too long I bet.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 11:31 PM
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Hey I remember you. How are you doing? She probably thought you had a lot of experience. And we’re good in bed. At her age I’d say it’s idle curiosity more than anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 11:02 PM
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Never had "the talk." To be honest, if a guy's not into you he's going to be sleeping with other women regardless of some talk on monogamy. Behavior is a better indicator. Is he eager to spend time with you? Does he like talking to you? etc. It was usually two or three weeks in, so not forever but not immediately. I don't know; I never dated more than 1 person at a time and I don't think they were seeing anyone else either. But things were different 20 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 09:02 PM
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Not that big a red flag unless he was extremely picky about his LTR partner. I understand the need for temporary relief and companionship. Would depend on the circumstances too. Traveled a lot? Spent a lot of time in school or working? Or just picky/unpleasant?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 07:11 PM
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Well, at my age? More than 10 casual partners is a big red flag I guess. If I were 30? More than 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 06:52 PM
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I would. If a man has a whole lot of it (I can’t give a number…just something that makes it seem like he has no impulse control and doesn’t view sex the same way I do) that is a huge red flag though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 06:13 PM
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ha ha ... it's only 11 AM and I have a ton of driving to do today but I'll hold that thought. Also I was only kidding about the GF thing; it's cute you talk about her so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 05:55 PM
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Well, for one thing, some of the people grew on me and I like either actually communicating with them or giving them shit, depending on the person. For the other, I think that buried beneath the revenge fantasies there are real conversations and discoveries about male and female sexuality that I can parse out. When I was 25 people didn't even really have home Internet, so interacting like this wasn't possible. Better late than never I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 05:00 PM
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I mean, I'm here to tell you the sub doesn't look any better at 40+ than it does at 20 or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 04:58 PM
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The hamster wheel is working overtime in this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 04:01 PM
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According to my therapist, who was also a marriage therapist though he treated plain head cases like me too, a lot of his adulterous husbands loved/were attracted to their wives and had sex with them. They just were offered more sex with someone else and took it. Like extra slices of cake. They saw no drawback (not all were discovered either).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 04:00 PM
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So men withdrawing emotionally justifies female cheating, then, yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 03:55 PM
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I've always been told I had really nice lips (sorry for the brag), so it is something guys focus on but maybe in a sex sub they tend to focus on the obvious turn-ons like breasts/ass. I also think nice lips/mouth on a guy is underrated. I really love a nice mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 03:19 PM
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I think a history of risky behaviors like drugs. Other than that I think it's circumstances that create an atmosphere for cheating rather than isolated personality traits. You can have a lovely virgin bride who's never had even a sip of beer, but if she gets bored, or is left alone a lot, or feels lonely, or sees her spouse gain 50 pounds, or any combination of these plus other factors...well...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 10:33 PM
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I liked myself best at 5'4" and 106 pounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 10:28 PM
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I’ve never, ever seen a fat climber. Chubby sure. But never anyone who’s obese. I’m not sure why. I’d encourage it because it’s a great workout.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 08:59 PM
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Hell if I know. My dad -- my real one, my mom's husband when I was born -- had me and still took off for a few years because he loved heroin more than me or her. So it made no difference having his genes; he didn't care. I think this paternity fraud narrative is taking a very, very small percentage of cases and blowing them up as if this were the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 08:01 PM
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Yeah, my ex way back was super into fitness. We went rock climbing literally 5-6 times per week, and he jogged every single day unless it was snowing or pouring rain. I built up this really nice, very toned and lean physique. We were living together, so I made the healthy, protein-rich meals and he complimented my body and strength progression all the time. He cheated with his coworker, who was like 200 pounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 07:57 PM
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Yeah, possum's tall and into big girls. Did OP spot him in the flesh?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 07:53 PM
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Knock-down-drag-out-name-calling fight? 2 times in 14 years. No names were called but we both ended up feeling hurt. Argument that got intense but not vicious or that angry? I don't know. 20 times? We rarely fight. I think most disagreements came after we had a child. That is one of those things where you could very well be on the same page beforehand, but in hands-on practice things change like crazy. Edit: I saw your note; no, nobody ever said to shut the fuck up or talked like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 07:49 PM
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My father was an addict and my mother was a flighty woman who didn’t care. They were married in the 1970s and I was born in that decade too. The person who told me to get an education so I wouldn’t need no man? My very trad grandfather, born in the 1920s. “Don’t be like your mother.” As if I had to be told. Many women ended up dependent on bad men, or destitute when the rug was pulled out. Women back then gobbled down Valium and Dexatrim and drank vodka to numb the pain and maintain the pre-baby…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 01:49 AM
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Lol I’m not sending you my credit card number; nice try…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 08:06 PM
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My sexuality is pretty reactive so maybe? I can’t say. But sugar boy toys aren’t dtf. They are down to being paid to provide a service. That alone would rule them out. I don’t want to be with anyone not naturally attracted to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 08:04 PM
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I think my cutoff is about 8-10 years younger and 15 years older. That’s just personal though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 07:59 PM
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Doesn’t have anything to do with Beyoncé…I just don’t find much younger men sexually attractive. They are undeniably attractive but don’t interest me sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 07:49 PM
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Ok, so first off, kids are a lot for a single, childless woman to handle. I’m a mom and I understand that non-parents don’t understand how inflexible kids can make things. Also, if you want to have your own children one day, you probably don’t want other kids in the mix. So this has nothing to do with you…don’t doubt yourself because of the pressures of dating a parent in general. Sounds like she was keeping her options open, but that doesn’t mean she wasn’t attracted to you. Honestly nobody dev…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 07:11 PM
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My magazine had just folded (I was laid off) so I was doing freelance work. It was easy to do less of it for a time; I had worked with them for 8 years so they let me pick up where I left off. He got funding to do some work there, which covered most of the cost of the apartment. He worked some of the time. It wasn’t like 3 full months of doing nothing. We did take off a week here and there to go to other regions but he worked many weekdays. Edit: but…well, yeah, he has some money. I can’t deny i…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 07:01 PM
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3 months in Paris (and side trips around France)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 06:45 PM
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No, I wouldn’t. But I’m confused. Talking every day, gifts, regular/frequent sleepovers doesn’t seem casual to me. Seems like a relationship. What are you doubting about yourself here? Also, women don’t use men they’re not attracted to for sex. That defeats the point. Maybe masochists do, I dunno…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 06:36 PM
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You’re taking prenatal vitamins already? Ugh, those things were hard on me…take them with food or else you might get sick (high iron content did it for me).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 02:57 PM
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Never has a star flared so brightly before imploding as FlamingCoochies in his brief, bittersweet time on Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 09:26 PM
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There was one woman I thought could take up the mantle. The one who wrote about women needing to be 0-0-0 Like a size 0 and 0 kids and 0…debt? She was fun for a hot sec
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 09:25 PM
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Oh, honey, you are halfway there, if not 75%. Or 90%. You're going to fuck this guy. You don't think you will, but you will. You'll keep up the boundaries for a bit but the energy and attention will feel good. You don't want him to leave his wife...yet...well, not really. Only if he wanted to leave for himself, not you. But listen...you're already wondering about being a stepmom. You're putting up a lot of lines that sound like you're trying to talk yourself out of it. Those lines won't work for…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 06:13 PM
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How old is his kid? Also: how far has it gone? Have you discussed sex? Kissing? Attraction? Edit: A blow by blow here. So, you are with your first ever real boyfriend. OK, it's natural to not want to throw in the towel. It's scary. I know nothing about your relationship, but pretty much no relationship happens for a time without people being their worst (or just not nice, or bad) selves. But you might not be compatible. I mean, if you're not married, and you sound young -- why not just break up?…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 05:40 PM
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They used to. Grocery store jobs used to be union jobs. My mom had one for a time when I was very small.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 05:13 PM
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I remember talking to a bunch of guys while I was maybe 8 months pregnant. They were talking about their kids, and they were all like 10-11 pounds! I started visibly getting pale and scared and they stopped. That said, mine was estimated to be 7 pounds and came out a week later at almost 9 pounds. I am 5 foot 4 and weighed 107 pounds when I got pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 04:11 PM
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My grandmothers were both tiny women who birthed huge babies, but I think at least one had a c-section (way back in 1949 even).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 03:40 PM
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They cut down very close to the pubic area, not way up on the stomach. It fades in time but doesn’t go away. If I wore a bikini it wouldn’t be visible.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 03:38 PM
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No. The slice horizontally, for one, and they can pull the baby through a rather small one
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 03:36 PM
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Same
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 01:25 PM
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I’d be careful. You only see your crush at his best. You haven’t seen him when he’s sick or tired or annoyed at a mess you made or any of the typical relationship stress points. People tend to see the flaws of their partner more when they meet someone else, who can be highly selective in the face they put forth.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 01:15 PM
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I buy the kid's clothes, schedule his dentist and doctor appointments, take him to lessons, go to his school stuff, check his homework. His dad has the good job and I have the flex one, so I don't care. "Daily parenting" isn't usually how it works because they often stay with one parent for the whole week -- the one who can do school dropoff and pickup -- unless both can do dropoff and pickup. And usually one parent buys the clothes and asks the other for half the bill. I usually only bring up t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 05:53 PM
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I...do this. "You'll grow into it," like he won't wear it out a good 6 months before he actually grows into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 05:47 PM
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🙋🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 05:41 PM
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Yeah, I never had one fail, I'm just putting it in there because when I talk about birth control at least one user always says "but I know someone who got pregnant even using..." So it's like a disclaimer now.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 04:03 PM
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But wouldn’t the parallel argument be “don’t want to pay for a child? Have an abortion or use birth control”? Edit: oh. I get it. I hadn’t had coffee yet either. I don’t know; I used birth control pills. Condoms fail sometimes though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 02:47 PM
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You won’t regret it. I love mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 02:25 PM
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Haha My BF at the time was (trigger warning) 6 foot 4 and all I ended up doing was ripping the cover of my calculus textbook I was using as a little stepstool.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 09:04 PM
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It's called "the one us shorties have to sit out"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 08:34 PM
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You're not getting any argument from me here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 08:16 PM
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bestiality hold up
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 07:13 PM
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look good for someone DRINK! 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 06:58 PM
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Cowgirl is fun but I had an ex who only liked that position and stage-managed it to the point I just felt extremely self-conscious all the time. "Go wild! No, not like that. Or that. Here." Basically, he wanted softcore porn re-enactments. I mean, I got over it but fuck you, John.* Missionary of the others because I like looking at my partner. Doggy's OK if you want to cede control to your partner. Can be fun. It's kind of mood-dependent, I guess. *Pseudonym. His real name is Tom.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 06:18 PM
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There's harm, but it doesn't kill you; I think that's the point of the statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 06:12 PM
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My ego found the exit, thanks. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 05:38 PM
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I feel either seen or attacked or maybe both.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 04:46 PM
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It's the plunger part. They flare out at the end. That said, it seems to be an especially long one.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 04:41 PM
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Gen X gonna Gen X.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 04:29 PM
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I, too, am old and get the print edition of the Times.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 04:24 PM
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can be really fulfilling. *can* be. There's your sticking point.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 04:22 PM
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His ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 03:13 PM
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Again, it’s only cool when they do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 02:13 PM
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Is this Geyges’ alt?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 01:46 PM
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Uh, you don’t want to know the shit I found in some of those games. And this was for the under-13 filter ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 01:44 PM
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Sounds exhausting.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 01:39 PM
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That's completely unfair. Women over 30 can be kept around for late-night booty calls and for the occasional MILF kink. It's at 45 we get sent to the Wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 04:04 AM
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Oh, yes, I have quoted that 95% divorce statistic a few times to crickets. All the men who yell about n count correlating with 33% greater chance divorce suddenly are ready to roll the dice on 95%. Last time some guy said "Well, I'd rather marry a young, fresh, fit cutie with a sweet and kind personality who will care for me in my old age rather than the town bicycle with baggage and a bad attitude." Sir, the whole point is your cutie is NOT going to stick around to care for you in your dotage b…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 02:18 AM
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Why would middle-aged women care what men in their early 30s are doing? I don't see many women over 40 wanting to date 32-year-old men. If your selling point for older men is confidence, I don't think posts like this help. What kind of confident guy is upset by what others think and then blames his failure to close the deal on random middle-aged women? If a woman finds you attractive she's not going to say no because her aunty or Barb from the office might not approve. Since when do young people…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 12:04 AM
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I mean, the reason we don't have that is because the OP starts off the bat with a bad faith argument/blanket statement of old women being bitter and jealous and ugly. This isn't a post about the nuances of attraction, it's a trite list of talking points and revenge fantasy projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 10:06 PM
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I gave up pointing this out ages ago. Literally the same posters who say a woman needs to fuck on a first date because they fear being used as a beta are also the ones who want to date far younger women or go abroad to find younger women. Seriously, they want to play beta with extra steps all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 09:08 PM
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It’s also hilarious they think 20-year-olds listen to middle-aged people about ANYTHING. If anything being forbidden would make them want to do it more.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 09:01 PM
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OP's specialty is finding a way to blame old and/or ugly women for the fact that hot young women aren't banging him.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 07:57 PM
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Yeah, me too, although this poster in particular is a serial offender with the theme "A woman I want to fuck won't fuck me back. How can I blame ugly women for this situation?"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 07:53 PM
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Constantly. But it's only cool when they do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 07:40 PM
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Quickest way to get a young woman wet for an old guy is to bathe her in a tub full of Franklins.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 07:40 PM
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Yeah, and if you read the marriage/adultery/relationship subs, you'll see a TON of affairs involve large age gaps of 20+ years (with an older guy). After the 1,000th "but he said he loved me and wanted to be with me!" you realize why this setup exists. Do men find 22-year-old women attractive? Of course. Do they find it easier to string them along? No fucking doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 07:29 PM
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Yeah, but maybe THIS is the eureka! post that will make all the 21-year-olds realize how insanely attracted they are to middle-aged men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 07:18 PM
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Well, at least it's not about ugly women rejecting hot guys for sex this time. That said, you're out of your mind if you think young women listen to older people telling them to be sensible. When has that ever worked except in far more strict cultures? If a young woman is attracted enough to a man she will fuck him, regardless of age and regardless of anyone else's opinion. If a man isn't attractive enough for young women to fuck, he should work on his appearance instead of blaming random other …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 06:58 PM
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Physical stuff? I can't say in polite company. But he's also said my smile is nice, and my eyes (they are large and green). Other stuff? That I managed to create my own business of sorts, and I'm nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 04:26 PM
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I think it depends on the type. Climbing and yoga are similar with regard to balance. There are certainly some yoga moves that are strenuous where I can feel my muscles yelling at me. The yoga they offer has a lot of Pilates moves (plank-ish), but it’s probably tailored to climbers and working muscles climbers need.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 02:41 PM
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Nobody ever did, but I wouldn’t have minded.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 02:26 PM
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That’s nuts. My rock gym costs less, and you can take their yoga classes for free with membership.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 02:20 PM
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Or a Tinder Swindler situation where he's just the groundskeeper at someone's lake cottage and next it'll be "why do you have no pictures of yourself in the house, Thomas?" and from there, a slow unraveling and ruin. I like this version. I'm gonna keep it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 04:46 PM
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Sounds like creative writing. A high-powered attorney with time to play 2 instruments in 2 different bands? He left town for Easter but comes from a culture with arranged marriage (unless he's a hardcore British Mormon I can't really see these 2 things going together)? If it's not made up, then a player who gets around enough to have extra women's pajamas at his lake house fed her a truckload of shit about an arranged marriage in order to keep her on the hook but with a very easy exit plan for h…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 04:40 PM
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So a guy who'll be off the market soon and a woman who is moving soon are...yeah, I'm not really getting the angst about two people with external deadlines. Is he getting married before the end of the next month when she moves? If not, then what's the problem? Also: "NPR" and "mind-blowing sex," same sentence -- press x to doubt
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 04:08 PM
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You're getting flak for this, but I had a BF who at 23 (when I dated him, only for about 6 months) had just graduated and was living in the basement apartment of his parents' house to save for his own apartment and stuff. He wanted to be a writer and worked a decent day job while writing a lot at night. He had like 2 pairs of pants and 3 sweaters total. I know this sounds like the bald Indian janitor thing, but stick with me. He was pretty charming and a hard worker and didn't care about materia…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 03:50 PM
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Woman: I had untreated depression when I was a lot younger that made me a hard person to deal with. But the other times the man just found someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 03:39 PM
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Destroyed my pride when I took one after a bad breakup. To this day I don’t know what exactly I said on my ex’s voicemail, but it wasn’t pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 02:38 PM
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If you had a relationship full of mismatches (like she really never wants kids and you do, she hates your hobbies, she hates your friends and family, or she has a rough work schedule) then I’d say she’s probably just being honest. If everything was going well and she said it, she probably met someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 02:09 PM
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Somewhere in the afterlife, FlamingCoochies nods approvingly at the man’s heroic resistance to cuck culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 02:06 PM
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Same (but with a guy not girl). Felt so weird being among actual servants, not just cater waiters.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 01:56 PM
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I wrote for a magazine that was all about luxury items for men. It will depend where you are, but in mid-00s pre-crash NYC there was huge money to be made in cigar clubs and the guy version of spas (“shaving clubs”). Cigars, watches, bourbon, pens, airplanes. Some guys even got sports cars with Hermès-designed interiors I kid you not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 01:53 PM
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RemindMe! 9 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 12:18 AM
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oh god, they left the "lorum ipsum" text under the part where it talks about how they made their convention so successful. I'm dying.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 05:43 PM
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chibs has been live-posting his (HIGHLY RISKY) raw-dog orgy for the past 3 days. They ain't going bowling...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 05:41 PM
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Do you mean I could get with men like the ones on the site if I went?!? Sign me up! I got dibs on the guy under 60!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 05:39 PM
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Except this sort of competitive spirit goes out the window when men whine endlessly about women’s standards and chad. Admittedly actual RP guys tend to be more proactive on that front but on this sub men tend to join the self-pity circle jerk in great numbers about how they don’t need to be better, women need to accept less.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 07:01 AM
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Yeah, I struggled with this because it’s meant to be an exaggerated trope of 50s/60s housewife. But…. She follows her husband’s lead on who to vote for. She quit her modeling career to be a housewife. Admittedly modeling isn’t a long-lived career. She never questions the late nights he comes home. Or when he’s gone from the office for stretches during the day. Well….she only privately questions. Always available to him. I think her break after finding out about his affair was half her anger that…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 06:24 AM
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Every woman in that show with maybe the exception of the redhead was a pickme. Fuck that show.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 06:05 AM
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Betty Draper from Mad Men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 05:22 AM
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I can’t eat cheesesteak from a chain. I can barely venture outside my Trusted Sources when I visit back home.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 03:06 PM
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Well, I’m not sure, because as everyone pointed out, pickme ranges in definition from a Betty Draper type who will be there smiling in heels to greet her man with a hot meal even if she worked a 12-hour shift that day, to a woman who shaves her legs and wears skirts sometimes. Regardless, I think many men tire of not being challenged on some level and get a bit bored.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 02:06 PM
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And actual masochists (RIP gimpgirl).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 02:01 PM
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I think she’s being sarcastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 02:00 PM
2

From Philly and saw that and died a little inside.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 02:00 PM
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Pretty much. “Men don’t care about your career!” But also “How dare these no-income bitches* try to divorce rape men!” *most of us call them stay-at-home moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 02:17 PM
2

You rang?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 01:19 PM
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It took me like 6 years. But it can be done.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 05:40 AM
1

You are not bad at all! Very nice hair and face. Great mouth. Handsome.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 05:17 AM
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Raccoon, no!!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 04:00 AM
2

I’m sorry bb but my heart nudes belong to another.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 03:00 AM
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Bunny ears? I think it’s been only 2 weeks. Edit: nvm! He told me! Should be interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 01:09 PM
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Well, it’s not old floppy donkey dick that’s for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 05:15 AM
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It’s about the bitches we met along the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 03:18 AM
1

You rang?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 03:07 AM
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I'm sarcastic in real life, but probably nicer too. However, if you read my posts out to anyone close to me, I don't think anyone would be shocked to know I held those opinions or used that language.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 10:22 PM
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dunno, tyrion, you should found one.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 08:38 PM
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i'm sorry, fapping for firecrotch week isn't until next month, you'll get your turn
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 08:21 PM
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the monarch so far is more Frederick II than Henry VIII
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 09:29 PM
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Yeah, there's a body hair debate over there that's ON FIRE right now. 🧔🏼 edit: don't forget to look at yesterday's discussion for Part 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 09:02 PM
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???? ​ I wondered about Smurf. What happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 08:27 PM
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A lot of disdain for women doing an important job too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 06:51 PM
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I know what effort (mental, physical) it is to care for a baby. No way could I do it alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 03:11 PM
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Wait...you went through 6 personalities since yesterday?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 03:10 PM
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I went to an Angels game once! It was fun, even if it felt weird, as a lifetime National League citizen, to be in the AL. But I saw Pujols play back in his prime-ish. I want to catch Gritty at Dodgers Stadium at least once, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 03:58 AM
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Yay!! I could pay $$$$ to see the Dodgers this year or wait a few months and catch them in the waiting room at Keck Medical.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 03:17 AM
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Did you not read it? It was appalling. I mean, pizza and cake followed by breakfast tacos and chicken wings???!!! I call LARP as nobody over 30 can eat that and not just puke all day, let alone smash for 12 hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 11:25 PM
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More proof that if men wanted to get their dicks wet, they would buy us a cookie cake.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 10:27 PM
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I actually prefer provolone! I have ever since I was just a kitten in a koala suit. "Someone's gotta be FANCY" is usually how my dad puts it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 09:37 PM
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YES, THANK YOU. God. It was actually looking not bad up to that point, although the roll could've been better.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 09:31 PM
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This Philly native failed to suppress a half-angry, half-wounded grunt upon seeing the "Easy Cheese."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 09:28 PM
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I joked on here that I have a teddy bear from when I was a kid, and back when I was dating I should have put a knife in his hand and a sign saying "YOU'RE NEXT" to see how many guys who came home would still want to hit it. The true test of thirst. I'm thinking at least 80% would have been undeterred.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 07:53 PM
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I mean, I put that and got upvotes. Ok, maybe euphemistically but I shave and keep the hair under control and nobody minded… Also, how can you even see downvotes? Edit: nvm. You meant the FDS post. Yeah, I have to say I’m not in lockstep with the ladies on this issue but it’s also a generational thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 01:35 AM
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Yeah, the go passes would be worth it. We only go when out of towners come and stay with us and want to take the kids. But it’s a long day. The only selling point is that Disneyland is near LA with other stuff, and Disney World is in Orlando, which isn’t as cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 08:21 PM
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I’m biased being in LA and trying to keep people out of here so as to prevent extra traffic😉 But Disneyland wait times for rides are INSANE. And it’s expensive as anything
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 08:09 PM
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Flamingcoochies redemption arc let’s gooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 09:58 PM
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I make it a point not to downvote people I’m talking to for that reason, though I still get blamed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 08:30 PM
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I'm afraid it will attract guys who want to call us fat, dumb, ugly, and useless without impunity, but at the same time the mod rules here have gotten really weird and kind of arbitrary, it feels like? And people are leaving...not just the trolls either. I mean, I think Smurfy was even temp banned (it's unusual for her not to comment and her last interaction with mods wasn't friendly).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 06:11 PM
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I like seeing your hate boner for John Frusciante rear its head again.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 04:57 PM
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He’s been on here less than 3 weeks and has 4,000 karma even though all he does is flip out over virginity 20 times a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 05:12 AM
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Oh, man, he’s down hard. Poor guy. Edit: oh god, he wants to know how to verify a girl is a virgin. He’s going Grand Maester Pycelle on their asses.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 04:54 AM
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He's not though. He's trying not to become one. I mean, I've DM'ed with him some and he's pretty wholesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 12:31 AM
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I love Vermont! Congratulations!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 08:50 PM
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He’s made like 10 posts today about hoes and virgins in half a dozen subs. I love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 05:08 AM
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Our boy was born off the rails. This is what happens when you ban, mods. They go and inflict their insanity on poor unsuspecting normie redditors.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 05:05 AM
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She's a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 12:38 AM
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Or old. 😊 I mean, it was a big deal for us Gen Xers
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 12:34 AM
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🙄 Nobody does that without interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 12:16 AM
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She records an audio or video of herself masturbating and sends it to you unprompted.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 11:57 PM
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He was wild. I feel like he flew in out of nowhere, yelled about cucks and virgins every 10 minutes for 2 weeks straight nonstop, and bounced.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 10:00 PM
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Bunny Ears is in about a dozen girls' DMs. He'll be OK, I think. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 08:55 PM
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Do you want the women that those men have? Do you think the lovely, virginal, educated, feminine women men say they want are lining up for those men in those two groups?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 07:44 PM
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Never change, Valley girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 05:21 PM
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I mean, that sub generally has a "no shaming" policy for consenting adults unless someone's being blatantly shitty (like coercing a partner into something they don't want, abusing a partner, being really controlling, etc).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 04:48 PM
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Early 20s dating a 30-year-old isn't weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 04:46 PM
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No woman would say she was “run through.” So yeah, obvious larper in the world’s best cuck fanfic site.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 09:50 PM
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I have an active imagination
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 05:52 PM
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I’d be one of those women who owns an herb/apothecary shop and probably would get drowned as a witch unless I managed to prostitute myself to the local ruling Stormcloak for short-term protection before fleeing upon his murder and then becoming a cleaning woman for the Mages’ Guild.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 05:48 PM
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I need to join your friend groups. Netflix drama can’t compare.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 05:43 PM
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I don’t know. They seem to pull them down fairly often, so some must be getting through somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 06:01 AM
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It’s that sweet spot time of the night when mods are asleep on at least 2 continents.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 05:50 AM
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Sorry bb but I’m into Euros. We can still be friends tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 11:54 PM
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Here — some love for the brave guys of the photo thread! 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 10:48 PM
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Great. So now you’re turned on, is what you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 10:24 PM
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Damn. I’ve seen the pics of people. I will say for the women, the picture confirmed my idea. For the men, unfortunately I didn’t give it much thought before the photo thread but I can’t imagine any of them look better than one of those I saw. If I had to choose of the ones I’ve not seen, decoy88.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 10:12 PM
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Wow! What breed of sheep? You spin then? I tried dyeing and spinning but was like “eh, life’s too short and I can pay for others to have done this.”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 10:04 PM
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Cool! What yarn?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 09:54 PM
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I like how he’s got a DM soft harem. That’s at least 3 of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 09:54 PM
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Many is the unsuspecting man whose dick fell off from frostbite after a night with one of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 09:04 PM
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Southern women are more likely to be obese (statistically) and religious (ditto). I also felt like in the South they wore a lot of makeup and we’re still into the hairspray-tanning bed-dyed blonde look.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 09:00 PM
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The Bronx has a bunch of neighborhoods; not all are bad. I lived there and I’m a small white girl. Many of my neighbors were old Italian couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 07:55 PM
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I'm sorry that happened. I feel like the amount of crazy people yelling at me/lunging at me in our city has risen a whole lot in the past few years. The other night at dinner downtown my boss came in and had to go to the bathroom right away because a guy threw a cup of what I (and I'm sure he) really hope was water on him as he was walking by on the sidewalk.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 05:03 PM
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And the train. My friend got smashed over the head with a two by four by a crazy homeless person who came up behind him (luckily he was wearing a helmet).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 04:58 PM
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How terrible. Now who other than lulll will call me a manipulative whore?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 04:12 PM
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Portland. Nashville is hot and humid.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 06:45 PM
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The woman is 24, and I think the guy is too. Way too old for this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 06:28 PM
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Like RP men say we do, or act like them (I think FDS is their exact parallel so I guess act like FDS)?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 04:47 PM
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We call that Q4W here.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 07:23 PM
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I mean, I'm the outlier of all outliers here on this, and I know it, but yeah, a relationship with a guy ended due to him being too big, which made sex painful, which made us have it infrequently, which... So size had a direct impact on quality, which had a direct impact on frequency, which had a direct impact on non-sex stuff and compatibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 07:20 PM
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It's not, it kind of goes back centuries. Gothic fiction was all about that too. Edit: I guess RP is extrapolating this a bit incorrectly -- like someone commented, women being drawn to and afraid of male sexual desire does not mean you want some pudgy wannabe alpha guy telling you to go clean the bathroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 06:25 PM
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Well, yeah, "Dracula" is all about primal sexual pull. Took still novel Freudian concepts about the id and sexuality and put them in a story about a woman being awakened and drawn to a man who, once she had him, she could never go back to being penned up in Victorian housewife life. NAWALT of course, but the idea of women wanting and being afraid of primal sexual desire/energy isn't new.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 06:24 PM
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Uh, based on my experience, I see no lies detected.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 06:23 PM
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Ha, I'm thinking of one who does. But I think some people have a bark that's way, way worse than their bite. I think in general blue and purple guys are more likely to find it without a map, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 06:02 PM
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I think younger guys are kind of grossed out by the whole region. Older ones seem to have less a problem with it. This sub has a LOT of young men on it, though. Edit: if you mean it's rare a younger guy is into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 05:24 PM
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Not you, bunny ears. You're OK.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 05:14 PM
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Don't even talk to me like Leo would be pulling 22-year-olds if he was a Target cashier. People use a global marquee name like proof that Joe Average can get a coed.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 05:01 PM
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I think one probably does. Above that I'm not putting money on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 04:58 PM
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I had to try to ... manage? keep an eye on? ... my employer's reddit sub for a week (let's just say it's for very young adults) while someone was on vacation. Never did that skit hit home more.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 04:34 PM
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I got mine switched soon after moving to CA so I still had a steady-state sunburn and look like a tomato.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 09:03 PM
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Yeah, but he would do this for months and couldn’t figure out why, after 6 months of dates and sex, women thought they were a couple. However, the way it was written I remember he spent 75% of the post talking about how great his oral sex skills were so I have a feeling he invented a scenario to frame his bragging in.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 07:59 PM
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No sympathy for terrorists.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 07:55 PM
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Yes. No idea how many times. Five? More? But everyone's "attractive" will differ so maybe people here wouldn't think they were attractive. Something else hard to quantify.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 06:07 PM
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...born and raised. On the playground was where I spent most of my days
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 05:58 PM
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It starts getting really hard to quantify. I mean, there was that post from that guy who was taking women to concerts, buying them dinner, having them sleep over, etc. etc. and was shocked the women thought he was their boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 05:27 PM
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Aren’t you like 30? Child, please.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 08:27 PM
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I prefer the term “prickly.”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 08:07 PM
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My dude, set some boundaries or you are in for a world of hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 07:48 PM
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Well, yeah, the image is kind of blown to hell now. But I mean the guy was a rapper who never (to my knowledge) cursed, for goodness' sake. He was all about being wholesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 07:45 PM
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I mean, I commented yesterday that Will Smith's entire career hinges on him being wholesome and "the good black guy." He's probably exercised his options but not let them get out because that would be damaging to the image. We have no idea what went on in private. And like Slyfer says, it lets guys who can't get any women feel superior to one who could have 100 lined up in minutes if he snapped his fingers.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 07:00 PM
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I guess "ugly" and "low value" are validating words of praise now. Oh, and "liar" too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 03:08 PM
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While ignoring the slew of anecdata the guys on here spout constantly. Guy asks for a study to back up what a woman says because “facts don’t care about your feelings. Woman asks for data to back up what a guy says and he often responds “it’s called seeing reality, sugartits. Try it.”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 02:45 PM
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It's fine. She's legal. As long as you aren't treating her like a child or being patronizing, you're good. Honestly, you're going to get way more blowback on the Internet than in real life, just ignore it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 05:30 PM
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Yeah, I don't get how self-improvement became a thing specific to them. Every dating manual/advice column/grandparent wisdom since the 1950s or so has said to maximize your looks by being in shape (or not fat at least), having a flattering haircut, wearing good clothes, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 04:34 PM
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This isn't entirely correct, though. Dating advice (or attracting a partner) since at least the 1950s has emphasized grooming and posture and sportiness for guys, and appearance and pleasantness for women. I don't get why RP is taking ownership of things that have been advocated for many decades. In mid-20th century US they used to make short films for teenage boys and girls about how important your appearance was to attract a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 04:29 PM
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I like the age gap threads. They attract them too. Guy in thread: "Women over 30 are totally gross, ew, wouldn't touch them if you paid me." Guy in DM: "hey bb"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 05:03 PM
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TFW you have never presented as anything but hetero and a bunch of women want you to pay to watch them play with their breasts.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 04:12 AM
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Uh, if you look closely those are OF bots, fam.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 04:07 AM
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Huh. One of those people is 9. Except he probably brings up the intellectual average as the rest are my coworkers.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 04:05 AM
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It’s not that they are afraid of forming emotional attachment. It’s that it is a very intimate thing to do, and doing it with someone you aren’t attracted to or are, at worst, disgusted by, is probably just an extremely unpleasant thing. I mean, the attractive 24-year-old prostitute isn’t worried about “forming an emotional attachment” with her overweight 65-year-old client (for example). It’s also probably easier to dissociate from sex than from kissing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 03:49 PM
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Journalism and editorial work. It brings in embarrassingly little, always has, always will.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 02:15 PM
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It's moronic. I hate even talking in that Rain Man-esque 10-point lingo but it's the only language people in here seem to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 04:02 PM
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It was probably that guy going out of his way to try to neg her. Yes, dude, I KNOW you used a truerateme scale but you went out of your way to be a dick, especially since she was just kidding initially.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 03:57 PM
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No 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 01:41 PM
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PPD is no joke, so I’d get to a psychiatrist pretty quickly if it’s severe. Mine was. Luckily it went away, and there were meds in the meantime
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 01:21 PM
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I mean, you sound broken, dude. But you also aren't making a ton of sense to me, it's like reading a list of RP talking points as delivered by James Joyce, so I'm not sure what's going on. I'll just say "Therapy" like everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 11:23 PM
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The first one looked like it. Had the creamy gravy they usually put on biscuits, but on meat (looked like a variation of sausage gravy). It was hard to tell but the yellow looked like cheesy grits? It's a little blurry, but I was getting Southern breakfast vibes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 03:34 PM
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Green veggie in that breakfast? Found the Yankee.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 02:52 PM
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Springer was on air until only a few years ago. No need for dumb grifter copies when you can still watch the genuine article.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 02:35 PM
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Well…the child should be adjusted by now. You don’t return 3 years later to play fake family. Edit: so, that dream of yours is nice but was very ambitious for a 20-something person. Don’t worry about timelines to get stuff like houses and sports cars. Takes time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 04:53 AM
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Oh, honey. No, this is not great. How long has he been divorced?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 04:36 AM
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Even in California as a woman I was told 50-50 is likely if the dad wants it and can prove he can provide the care. There is no friendlier state for women (except maybe New York).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 03:39 PM
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Those tend to get pretty silly pretty quickly though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 03:01 PM
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The world didn’t care about my depression either. It’s on the individual to seek help.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 02:54 PM
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On guys? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 02:29 PM
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I’m going to take a wild guess and say something that does not take a kind view of one particular Abrahamic faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 01:44 PM
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Yeah. Also, I noticed people really don’t like it when you try to destroy their narrative about divorce. Or at the least offer another one based on legal counsel.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 01:37 PM
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I assume when people say Tinder they mean OLD in general. Kind of like how Xerox meant any photocopy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 01:19 PM
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Night! 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 02:41 AM
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Hahahahahahahahaha They make a back-scratching pact. The women sit there and say the prescripted responses, and the two clowns will give them free exposure for their Instagram/OF. It’s not like the guys are listening to what the women say. Afterward, the women come out with…hundreds? A thousand? New subscribers.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 02:36 AM
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This was afternoon rush hour on a Friday. I was actually begging the guy to do it on Zoom. Like ready to get into self-abasement. But it actually was a really cool place so I'm glad I went. Northern Cal has bad traffic too?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 02:10 PM
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I had to do an in-person interview two weeks ago. An hour and 15 minutes to go 13 miles. LA traffic is back, baby!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 02:08 PM
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And what kind of wholesome woman would you find via such strategies as asking us females to "suck [your] BBC" recently?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 04:09 AM
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So, I first liked him in "The Station Agent." One day I was in Central Park, I don't know, 2007? Sitting on a bench. Peter Dinklage walks by. I said "It's the guy from The Station Agent!" but my coworker was a philistine and didn't care. Joke's on her, she now does not have a delightful "before they were famous" anecdote for strangers on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 03:50 AM
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I don't think this sub has heard about my crush on Peter Dinklage for a good 2 weeks, so this is your notice.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 02:46 AM
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Awwww...good night! :-)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 02:42 AM
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OK, I stand by my previous comment that divorces never take 6 years. Married people having cold feet take 6 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 01:19 AM
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You don't want kids, though (OK, I realize this might not be you). Edit: Divorces don't take 6 years. You can separate and settle finances while separated. Have papers been filed? If papers weren't filed, they aren't divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 01:15 AM
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Eating popcorn as part of my lunch as we speak. Had to.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 07:41 PM
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Least shallow USC student
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 09:56 AM
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lol yeah, he's been AWOL hasn't he?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 04:15 AM
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NO.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 02:37 AM
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PEPSI. FIGHT ME BRO
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 02:34 AM
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I understand that too, but this poster has no context for that being the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 02:09 AM
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I understand that. I really do. I hope it happens for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 02:05 AM
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I understand that. But I think there is the feeling “if I got it once it’s not impossible” that buffers that a bit. Edit: I think this user was me. So my point wasn't "oh, the pain is neverending" just that even when you have sex and become a person who dates and is sexually active, there are many nights you sleep alone. Like, loneliness is something we all learn to handle. And it's painful for all of us in our own way. But we get it. And once you get over the hurdle, maybe it'll be less painful…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 01:54 AM
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Nah. I have never assumed that. I always assume a guy is just being nice. Lots of people like talking. And are friendly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 05:21 AM
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Yeah, there's some wine bar on Second Ave that's kind of small. Or was...in 2006... And a French place on 78th or 77th, right near Second Ave.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 02:05 AM
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Lemme guess…Lower East Side?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 01:59 AM
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I'm just kidding we still have a lot to say to each other. Like: You're wrong. (I did go to Scotland and drink great scotch from Skye and Highlands but I just can't like with bourbon).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 01:49 AM
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So did anyone watch "Voyage of the Mimi" in grade school? With a 13-year-old Ben Affleck? Took place on a boat? PBS special? anyone? anyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 01:47 AM
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Granny porn at your service EDIT: Jeans DOUBLE EDIT: I don't actually do granny porn don't anyone take that literally lulll this means you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 01:44 AM
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i usually dont like bourbons we have nothing more to say to each other
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 01:41 AM
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This is not the MILF you are looking for, then!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 01:37 AM
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No. I’m pretty happy with myself. I’m also risk-averse. I have a 50% chance of looking better and 50% worse since I consider myself plumb average.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 02:00 PM
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That is fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 05:19 AM
5

Nobody was roasted…yet…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 04:57 AM
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really??? Your photo was up?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 04:10 AM
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I left for the guys cause I had to make dinner. So I missed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 04:06 AM
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I thought you were blonde dude with a military look. OK.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 04:01 AM
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I know :-)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 04:00 AM
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PRESS X TO DOUBT
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 03:55 AM
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Any guys here submit photos? Y’all were really quiet if so…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 03:50 AM
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Wait, I thought you were bandit. dammit. y'all are messing with an old lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 03:45 AM
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lol he came on discord to neg us in person, it's ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 03:33 AM
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The women were all really attractive. Like...really cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 03:32 AM
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I was on there…she posted a link in the chat thread earlier. I just clicked, put in my name, and hopped on. It’s probably still up if you find the link
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 03:22 AM
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It was a separate channel. They might still be on but I gotta do kid bedtime duty. Figuring my life posted a link earlier in this daily chat thread
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 03:18 AM
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Hey, I’m a grandma (edit: ok, not yet) and I made it! 😺
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 03:17 AM
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Ugh, Gen X we grew up with HIV/AIDS and were pretty fanatical about condoms. Always used them until testing and then the pill. I can't understand how you could enjoy sex knowing it might result in pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 02:52 AM
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Can you give a face rating for a photo that's just a dick, or does it get a 0 by default?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 12:17 AM
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YES. The hottest one is lulll, obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 12:11 AM
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I think it might have to do with your feelings as the former partner also. If the relationship works out, you might feel hurt that she/he was giving a better version of himself/herself to your friend. Why didn't she take more effort with her appearance with me? Why didn't he pull out my chair at dinner and bring me lunch at work once a week? These aren't entirely rational feelings. Rational would be "My friend is a different person, so of course this relationship has nothing to do with me or my …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 05:30 PM
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I mean, you can make all the great points in the world you want to, but there are unquantifiable reasons that it usually ruins your friendship. One of those being that if your friend dumped her, now he has to keep seeing her as part of your partnership with her. If she dumped him, same thing but now it stings. I only say unquantifiable because most of us can't say why exactly it would bother us, but it would. If it's an acquaintance and/or you don't really care about the friendship, then go ahea…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 05:08 PM
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Goddamnit are all of you playing this?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 12:34 AM
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Oof. Friend, this isn't a great look for you. I understand your anxiety but this is just a lot of anger and hatred directed indiscriminately at women based on some incredibly oversimplified talking points.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 12:02 AM
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There’s the rub heh heh heh
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 11:41 PM
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I think you're letting this idea bother you too much. A lot of women here aren't into that. Some are. Also, working class women generally don't get to marry guys a lot richer/more educated than they are unless they were born poor and managed to get a scholarship to a great school and then get a good job. Most mobility is via education, not marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 11:39 PM
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9 Hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 11:35 PM
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I'd submit one from about age 30 to further mask myself. I don't think there are many women here my age.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 11:16 PM
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Only if there were some way nobody could link me. I'm afraid someone off the deep end would doxx me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 11:05 PM
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quiet 4chan press x to doubt
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 11:02 PM
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I love a challenge.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 09:14 PM
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I guess I mean duration of less than a year not leading to marriage. You can get emotionally connected/attached to someone well before you know if you want to marry them. If either one of them had showed up at my door, total stranger, and said "Let's fuck right now" I would not have been down for it. edit: maybe I'm on a demi spectrum; I don't want to have sex until I have an emotional connection, but it doesn't take me forever to establish one (few weeks?) and it's not like I need to be certain…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 09:03 PM
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So you only like rough or don't like it rough? I pulled that number out of the air. I'd say a good 30% probably never want it; the rest are varying degrees of how rough and how often.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 09:00 PM
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I'd say at least 30%.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 08:55 PM
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Pitt aged better, but Brando was better-looking in his youth (with that mouth especially). So for a short-term fling, Brando.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 08:47 PM
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I'm not fixing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 09:47 PM
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“invited me to the renaissance fair this weekend” Nothing puts a woman in the mood faster than a turkey leg and man-tights.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 09:10 PM
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I think some are. I think some men say they are in a dead bedroom when they aren’t. But yes, men can definitely be in a dead bedroom marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 04:51 PM
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Guys give a sob story of a dead bedroom to the mistress and probably their friends, because it maximizes the chances of pussy and sympathy, respectively. But if you read the marriage/mistress/relationship/adultery subs it's amazing how many wives end up getting pregnant from the apparently one and only time they have sex with their husbands in 5 years. Dudes are more likely to be cake-eaters. How that also became some sort of virtuous position on this sub I'll never know.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 04:27 PM
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I’m sorry lulll our secret is out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 04:11 PM
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Oh, yeah, that whole thread was just so batshit. But it started from a bad faith post, so it went about as well as expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 01:24 PM
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I love ambien
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 04:47 AM
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Lol I know but I need to believe GRRM is doing something to justify not writing Winds. I cling to my hopes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 03:31 AM
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Lulll and angel fan did. Maybe Bandit too. I’m interested because GRRM was sort of involved but I’m terrible at computer games and heard it’s hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 12:50 AM
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I heard it is hard for casuals but am open to gathering more data. What do you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 12:49 AM
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So, is pink pill related to that "pink pill" business that is self-improvement courses/advice for black women? Because someone asked on here, and I got the two confused, so I was wondering if they were related because when I looked it up it seemed like there was no relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 12:06 AM
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Or "Becky"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 12:04 AM
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Lol I’m not shaming you, it’s just a joke. I think you throw the guys here into overdrive but not on purpose Edit: except lulll
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 11:04 PM
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I was going to put RIP your inbox again after that photo but I think your inbox has an abuse kink by now so I didn’t want to shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 10:55 PM
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“As for you bluepillers, suck my 7.8inch BBC!” Not today Satan
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 10:45 PM
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You said you had to look at the camera, so of course he’d want to see it. That said, he probably wants the O face.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 10:44 PM
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And Kate Beckinsale. He is a professional MILF chaser.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 09:30 PM
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Cool. Feels good to help out.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 08:39 PM
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What'd you do? Food distribution?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 08:21 PM
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Nostalgia is always for whatever middle-aged people remember as kids. I was a baby in the 70s, a kid in the 80s, and a teen and college student in the 90s. In the 1980s everyone was nostalgic for the 60s. 60s music. 60s events. 60s hairstyles and fashion. Woodstock. The Beach Boys. Pop culture references were to 60s TV shows. When I was in college in the late 1990s it was the 1970s. Beastie Boys Sabotage video, Quentin Tarantino's 70s aesthetic, the return of 70s music and fashion and TV shows. …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:53 PM
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Don't worry, those threads are like buses...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:33 PM
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I thought arms were your thing. I would probably go for tall girl. Maybe the visuals will be interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:09 PM
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No, it's horrible. It's the girl equivalent of those Joker avatars.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:02 PM
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Oh, r/Nicegirls. Women have their supervillain origin stories too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 06:53 PM
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Which one has better arms?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 06:52 PM
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"My ex-wife (39F) divorced me (36M) and I was heartbroken, but now I'm dating a 24-year-old and my ex gained all this weight and when she drinks too much she cries on the phone to me about how I'm the best thing that ever happened to her and she feels so old and ugly. How do I maintain a cordial relationship with her?"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 06:49 PM
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At 20? I keep saying y'all zoomers are gonna end up embedding herpes in our genetic code.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 06:14 PM
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Neither. I'm pale with dark blonde hair. Both suck in different ways for me, though I guess silver would suck less.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 03:42 AM
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I didn't see u/CatoftheBanals or u/livs4dietdrpepper in there so probably not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 12:52 AM
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It was all about women's dormant sexuality. Nice, boring beta fiance. Stay indoors in chaperoned get-togethers, look forward to being homemaker and future mom. Start sleepwalking (sexuality awakened) and get fucked bitten by undead chad, keep going back again and again in the middle of the night when good beta boy's asleep. Extreme alpha widow: she will literally burn up if she returns to boring daytime beta Billy. Doomed to be perpetually unsatisfied and possibly staked.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 12:03 AM
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"Dracula" was about AF/BB confirmed. Actually, it kind of was...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 08:18 PM
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If humans were vampires that didn’t age and still acted like moody yet wooden teenagers, I guess the age gap convo might be different.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 07:40 PM
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I think it would help with some men, but many want the validation of a woman who desires them. That’s not a bad thing, it’s just fact. Also, I believe we have some prostitutes who post on here and they say incels usually don’t want them (for several reasons). I’m sure some would avail themselves of it but I don’t think it would be some huge societal game-changer. Also, my state would tax it to hell and back; we have legal weed and they tax the shit out of that. So it would not be a cheap activit…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 11:10 AM
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You’re not the guy from Duke are you? If not, carry on…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 02:29 AM
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Rich women will get the drugstore test with cash and a week later visit cousin Mary in Minnesota or wherever. Poor women will be fucked. But they were anyway and always. Laws are always for the little people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 02:22 AM
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You rang?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 01:57 AM
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The older guys have kids. They're just mostly quiet about them (except for possum, who talks about his more than the others do). I'm pretty sure most guys here want them, in varying amounts. It's the ones who don't want kids ever who are rarer.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:29 AM
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I mean, I assume OP isn't asking those women out to dinner. If his flair checks out and he's true red pill, "fat chicks and single mothers" are for casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 10:27 PM
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Few people on here seem to use condoms. I don't get it. Younger millennials and Gen Z are wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 10:20 PM
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Was eating the box, she told me she wasn't willing to do the same. Anyone dumb enough to drop that bit of info before finishing is a moron anyway, so bullet dodged.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 10:18 PM
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Good! But seriously, therapy is the best. Meds are even better. You're only 20, and we've been locked inside for 2 years so really you're only 18, which is nothing in the scheme of things for starting out.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 10:15 PM
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Awww...well, I heartily advise you to quit this sub if you are struggling with mental health. Keep in mind a lot of us are playing stuff up for effect sometimes. Men and women. It's not really as scary in real life as all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 10:11 PM
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This sounds like FDS talking. They “know their worth” and believe they are the prize too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 07:44 PM
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Oh, they’d pay if she was hot enough I can promise you that. A really attractive woman and the strong possibility of a crumb of pussy and some of these “I’m not buying her coffee” guys would be maxing out their credit card.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 04:42 PM
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This makes no sense from an RP perspective (as flaired by OP). If a man is amassing his worth so he can pull women when he in his 30s...he's then going to turn around and make a woman pay her own share? Why bother with "worth"? If a 35-year-old version of you is competing with the 25-year-old version of you and will win every time...what is 35-year-old you offering, if not resources? The argument is usually that older you has resources and stability. If the woman is paying you are not offering r…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 03:31 PM
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I mean, abortion wasn't legal/safe for most of human history and that stopped very few people. I didn't have casual sex in terms of sleeping with someone outside an established relationship that was monogamous. I guess I did if we are defining "casual" as "all sex outside of marriage." No, I wouldn't have stopped. Birth control methods were always sufficient. Condoms worked and the pill worked. Most people who get pregnant do so because they did not employ birth control or did not do so properly…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 01:02 AM
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"So tell me, what attracted you to mega-famous billionaire football team owner Robert Kraft?"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 10:18 PM
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I was raised that way (traditional), but I was in high school early-mid 1990s. There was still Reagan-ish conservatism going on, plus the HIV/AIDS scare. It wasn’t 1950s or anything (nobody was expected to be a virgin until marriage unless religious) but if you slept with people you got a reputation unless it was your long-term boyfriend. So yeah, "good girls don't...much" was the theme.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 10:14 PM
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For starters, don’t be 19.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 08:49 PM
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When something “subversive” gains traction there are always people trying to muscle in, push the old to the center and expand into a new frontier. Playboy was topless so Hustler showed “the pink.” Then the pink became standard and magazines started trying to outdo each other for an edge. Fox News was nuts and then OAN came along. Now Fox is stuck in the center (“center”) with a lot of Boomers trying to claw back the migrants to fringe channels. Perez Hilton got trampled by younger, newer gossip …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 01:08 AM
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I should’ve given it a knife and a sign saying “you’re next” and seen if anyone would quickly weigh the odds and go for it anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 11:23 PM
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I used to think a guy would run screaming from the bedroom if he saw I still had my one childhood teddy bear. Lol how naive I was.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 10:26 PM
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Did lulll die and his spot open up or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 09:45 PM
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Plot twist: you’re the boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 08:35 PM
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“…and that, kids, is how I met your mother?” :-)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 08:32 PM
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If you want to get off on dishing out and receiving abuse, you can either log on here or steal some Insta model's photo and catfish guys or girls. I was born too early for the latter, so here I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 08:24 PM
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Yeah, either catfished or he ignored a bunch of stuff suggesting she was superficial (like her photo, for one). If we make fun of women for believing "too good to be true guy" likes them back, guys shooting out of their looks league don't get to play the completely helpless victim. That said, it was really rude and he didn't deserve that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 08:22 PM
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She was very rude. At the very least she could have invented an illness and ghosted. I admit he does look older than 22. How can you tell the weight difference, though? He doesn't look much bigger to me. And he's a big boy anyway, tall and broad. Even if there was a difference, having the fatter pic, even if clothed, is still putting the evidence out there (unless he's now way fatter than in all the pics, which is possible, I guess). Edit: I know nothing about the woman, but her little avatar su…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 08:15 PM
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Not in places where guys outnumber women. I mean, if you go to some places in Alaska as a 27-year-old woman and you could probably get a lumberjack BF within the hour. Midwestern guys on here are always complaining the gender ratio isn’t in their favor too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 07:05 PM
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Canada’s thread was posted last week originally but was pulled, so it’s a repost.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 07:00 PM
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You could argue the other way too—postwar (WW II) the economic boom in the US (and, later, a rise in stability in Europe) gave rise to a trad system that Millennials decided to buck against. That the “boring” lives of Boomers and Greatest Generation seemed stale and unappealing because they were familiar but also taken for granted. I (Gen X) know many UMC women with two doting parents who went full throttle party girl in college. I was the opposite — childhood with no dad and a hedonistic mom, s…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 06:54 PM
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Straight women outnumber straight men by a lot. It is hard to date there. You can probably get casual pretty easily, though. But commitment? Getting a guy to come down off that fencepost? Not easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 06:23 PM
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An ex-BF asked me up to see his etchings once. He actually had etchings. He had been taking an art class. Edit: maybe that's not a pickup line anymore..
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 06:11 PM
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Well...no. But that's because women aren't cranking out babies at 22, so if I were 18 and saw a 35-year-old I'd do the math and realize that even if we married tomorrow, he'd be early/mid 40s by the time I wanted to have kids. I'd take the 25-year-old any day.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 05:52 PM
1

This is gonna get yanked because the sort of "woe is me" (not terrible in this post but still there) posts that don't at least throw a bone to a larger topic aren't allowed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 05:45 PM
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The whole thing was a joke that was supposed to be passed around to her friends. And then Jezebel had to do their usual tricky dance of "let's not slut shame" while sensationalizing the shit out of it, even though it's sensational precisely because it's slutty.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:52 PM
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Oh, I remember this. I was a much younger Cat then, and shocked at the sexual excess. Until I saw it was Duke. Fucking the Duke lacrosse team is like some rite of passage for a bunch of women there. It is what it is. Bonus for the fact I kept thinking of Melrose Place when I read "Shooters" over and over.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:44 PM
2

But what about all the guys who aren't lulll?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 10:49 PM
1

I think it's more common for CSA survivors to re-enact their trauma (which is where the line between kind and something very bad gets blurred) than it is to express desire and attraction to everyone. Even if they are hypersexual, it usually doesn't manifest like this, more like self-abasement. That said, this seems like another piece of TOMC creative writing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 10:12 PM
1

lol 70+ people immediately DMing her trying to smash. Never change, reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 09:36 PM
2

That sexual masochism is rare but everyone loves a free meal?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 09:24 PM
2

It's traumatic. What's worse is that the perpetrator often probably doesn't remember or think about what they did, like it was just some careless act with a nobody (probably a few nobodies), and this careless act breaks the victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 08:54 PM
2

Mine just left me extremely averse to casual sex. I don't care if 30-year-old Brad Pitt showed up, if he was a stranger I wasn't going to fuck him, no way, no how. I know everyone hates "seek therapy" but it and meds changed my life. I still struggle, but I highly recommend it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 08:49 PM
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Most of us who were sexually abused or assaulted take rape against men by women very seriously because it is a trauma we can relate to. I think most of the hyperbole and inflammatory statements come from people who were not sexually abused. This includes women who think all guys are rapists, and it includes men who say shit like "atta boy!" when you read about a teenager getting raped by his female teacher. I can assure you many of us have spoken to men who've been abused and how it's hard for t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 08:18 PM
2

My kid at 5 was telling everyone in class Santa didn't exist. This was not something I told him. In fact, I wanted to use Santa as a behavioral manipulation tactic, but he just looked at me and solemnly said, "Nobody can visit every house on earth in one night. He's not real," and went back to what he was doing. I gave up at some point and said "Well, just keep quiet about it at school." All was going well until he started doing the same thing, but this time about Jesus.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 07:08 PM
1

You have not yet explored the wild and wonderful world of gimpgirl, I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 06:44 PM
2

My husband is brilliant and our kid is very smart (I know nobody likes bragging but it's relevant here) but honestly it is a mixed blessing having a smart kid sometimes. We answer his questions as honestly as possible but he can connect the dots and a lot of his statements in school are...out of line for a younger kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 06:43 PM
2

Thanks. It was the cutest free one. :-) I guess you're Australian?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 06:31 PM
1

yup. What can I say...the cat hoodie cost money, and I am a cheap attention whore.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 06:25 PM
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I mean, the idea a woman's even posting on 4chan is already sus. But also no boss would send an email like that, just for starters. That is a slam-dunk lawsuit for age discrimination. The rest just reads like the dork in high school fantasizing about how hot and rich he'll be and how the girls who rejected him will be crying one day. Maybe they will, maybe not, but the girls probably won't cry on 4chan about it. Also, there's never just one single woman at a wedding. If her family was as full of…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 06:17 PM
1

Woman, sure. That's some manospherian using his keyboard to masturbate.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 06:03 PM
2

Where's atlas when you need her? This is right up her alley.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 05:27 PM
2

The rich guys will just buy their luxe stuff in LA, where they have second or third or fourth homes. We see them all the time here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 03:27 PM
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Ha. I believe it. Thirsty Russian soldiers is redundant to the extreme.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 10:11 PM
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“You’re so dumb I bet that family tree has one branch.” I mean, the person saying it doesn’t actually know if you’re inbred or if your parents are idiots. It’s just shit-talking. Like “your momma’s so fat…”.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 10:07 PM
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I’d assume it was a diss about my parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 10:01 PM
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When I was young everyone looked old; now I’m old everyone looks young. Everyone under 40 kind of blurs together
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 09:59 PM
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He looks young for 35. I'm really not partial to beards but I think he has a nice face. If he shaved I'd probably think he was quite cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 09:39 PM
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I find it weird that guys would put babies in their Tinder profiles if they are not the fathers of said babies. Yeah, that turtle photo has got to go. He's cute, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 09:33 PM
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As long as he keeps OnlyFans and Tinder open the troops probably won't riot.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 09:01 PM
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True. It’s not like I would want to grab coffee at 8 pm. I’d rather grab a beer. Coffee is for mornings mostly, and places that focus on coffee often don’t do other non-coffee drinks well.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 08:39 PM
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Red pill doesn’t speak for men, and FDS doesn’t speak for women. Walk and hot cocoa (ice cream in summer) was my ideal first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 08:35 PM
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If you haven’t had at least one orgasm while thinking of Keith Morrison I don’t even want to know you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 08:26 PM
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I don't think she even banged him. She said she never slept with that guy and doesn't indicate she had sex with anyone else. I kinda would have liked it better if she had. Feels like a cop-out to say "It's ok to want sex! Of course I didn't act on it!"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 05:10 PM
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I thought grooming was when an adult guy (usually over 20) started giving a girl (under 18) attention and validation in order to lay the groundwork for a sexual relationship to occur once she hit that birthday that put her into "fair game" territory. I think "sexual predator" is the same thing, though it can be for women who are adults. Like in an extreme and fictional example, Dennis from Always Sunny is a sexual predator. A guy who is a hardcore manipulator to get sex. Not just a guy who ghost…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 05:07 PM
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(de)based.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 04:54 PM
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Yeah, I went through a phase too. Not a hardcore one, just a soft one, for the same reason. I was intimidated by women who seemed able to handle life easier than I could. Women who were in their 20s and could actually have dinner parties and owned napkin rings and "accent pieces" and shit like that. Women who were good at flirting and didn't agonize over whether he'd call the next day. I grew out of that insecure phase once I learned (a) those women were not necessarily bitches and (b) even if t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 04:37 PM
1

I'm waiting 10 years until I can break into the granny fetish market.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 04:31 PM
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Most women who say girls are too much drama are either stealth pick mes or the even more annoying "not like other girls" (a stealth pick me subset). It's usually pretty basic stuff, too, like "I like beer and eat hamburgers and watch basketball. I'm not like other girls!" I prefer having both as friends based on personality and not gender, but I probably get along better with women. You just avoid shitty people, like you do in life when vetting for friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 04:20 PM
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what can I say? they've both suggested I be a whore. One literally. Maybe I have a kink now.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 04:03 PM
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We need to walk around with little pocket calculators to determine our SMV at all times so that when a guy any more than 0.3 points above us asks to bang we are obligated to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 03:53 PM
4

For what behavior? Not wanting to smash? Jesus Christ.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 03:52 PM
1

I mean, I guess at this point I’m just here for gimpgirl and lulll
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 02:57 PM
3

Khal Drogo all day every day. Except the Dothraki took alpha widowhood WAY too seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 01:49 AM
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OK, but in the OP only one person quantified the statement as "less attractive than my ex." The rest were just pointing out things they liked without saying their partner was less hot than their ex. Most women have dated guys who had hotter exes than they were. Even men here will admit to loving women who weren't the hottest they'd ever been with. I haven't really said anything about porn. My problem with porn isn't so much that it features hot people (who wants to fap to uglies? well, besides s…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 01:46 AM
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Ramsay is dark triad, though. Yes, he'd feed my body to the dogs but in good news my alpha widowhood would be very short.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 12:15 AM
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Haha, yeah, in my 20s I was pretty skinny, but I decided to fuck it up by playing on hard mode in New York City where everyone and especially their mother is anorexic and they’re all better at it than you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 10:19 PM
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It was :-) That’s ok. When I click on a Pearl Jam video on YouTube I get AARP ads usually!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 09:37 PM
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The preview ad was for botox. What are you trying to do to us?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 09:32 PM
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I'm the one who says climb to meet guys. whoops. I mean, it's less that guys might walk up to you and go "hey baby" and more like you can find different partners and build up a little rapport with them that leads to a better situation than a cold approach. However: So far I’ve met many guys and they’ve all been friendly (not creepy Vindicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 09:31 PM
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Sun, beaches, great food, legal weed if you’re into that, and financial protection if your husband spirals into a midlife crisis involving cocaine and whores. 🌴 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 09:26 PM
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Because it's boring. "Happy families are all alike" as the saying goes, OK, not quite true but true enough. Happy, content people make for bad drama. I don't want to live in Stephen King's world but it's fun to read about.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 09:05 PM
2

It’s not the only part of my lunch, don’t worry.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 08:42 PM
1

Eating popcorn for lunch as we speak. I love efficiency.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 08:05 PM
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I mean, NAWALT/NAMALT. I know two men who cared for their elderly moms, one of whom had a basket case sister. But traditionally aging parents have been cared for more by daughters, probably a holdover from the time when men were the primary breadwinners and women had more time to devote to elder care. However, even today I think women are more likely to be closer to their parents; if you think about it, wives often set a family's schedule for things like holidays or vacations or visits, and she'…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 06:58 PM
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We went to a psychiatrist. The schools generally don't have psychological professionals on staff (our school counselor only has a bachelor's from an education program, nothing in psychology); sometimes the district does have a few rotating psychologists but they are heavily focused on cognitive stuff like severe autism. Which is OK; those kids need the most help. I've found you have to do your own legwork if you think there's an issue. Go to a psychiatrist or child behavioral professional and ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 06:51 PM
3

This also assumes that a woman has to be an "alpha widow" to settle. Any woman can pair with a guy she's not feeling raw unbridled lust for. She can be a virgin and marry someone for their stability.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 06:45 PM
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But I don't think people were taking it very seriously back in the 1980s. Friends diagnosed later on (college) were written off as "a spaz" or "hyper" back in elementary to high school. Unless you had Down syndrome or some cognitive impairment nobody dug deeper. My own kid has ADHD. I'm glad people care now.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 06:38 PM
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People get married mostly to create a stable nuclear family unit, that is how it's always been. People are having fewer kids or not having them at all for many reasons, including climate change, angst over the state of the world, financial uncertainty, the insane expense of college with no guarantee of a job after, etc. There is something called the happiness dip in your 30s/middle age, usually when kids are little. Your happiness goes down, then it rises again, which may account for the 5 years…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 06:30 PM
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I have. Every guy I know with only girls says he was relieved not to have a boy. These are kind of feminine guys, though, like hyper-educated, not into sports etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 06:12 PM
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A lot of more educated guys (ie, grad degrees...profs and doctors mostly) IME have preferred daughters and will state this pretty openly. My totally unexplored initial take might be that guys who are less overtly masculine are a bit fearful of raising a boy because they might feel unequipped to do so? Aside from that, girls are more likely to care for you when you're old. And it's just easier raising a girl. Girls are allowed to be anything; boys are not. You're allowed to be emotional and messy…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 06:07 PM
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I'm in my 40s and ADHD just wasn't a thing when we were little. I don't recall even hearing the term until sometime in the mid-1990s. edit: why downvoted? I'm not saying it was a good thing, just our understanding of psychology was less advanced back in the dark ages.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 05:56 PM
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Youth = beauty is not some subversive narrative. It's in 90% of TV, movies, media (social media included), and ads, not to mention the huge industries in cosmetic surgery, diet aids, "anti-aging" beauty products, hair dye, etc. A few people on Twitter saying "Sixty is the new forty" is not going to topple this mountain of messaging.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 05:41 PM
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It's ok, my kid calls me a boomer and I am a late Gen X.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 05:33 PM
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I meant, when men here go on about age and not being attracted to older women, nobody questions their morality in remaining married, as is happening here. A guy says "Eighteen-year-old women are more attractive than 35-year-old women" or "Women age like milk" we don't get "Why are you married? Think of how your wife must feel hearing that; she should divorce you."
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 05:32 PM
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Boomers oof. I think 50-somethings are Gen X. However, I live in SoCal so anytime I see absolutely bonkers shit on the freeway it's always some 45-year-old asshole in German engineering's finest.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 04:56 PM
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Stop, stop. I'm close already and I have a firm no climax before coffee rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 04:31 PM
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We can't win with our descriptions of our partners. Either we're LARPing by describing him as tall, handsome, and having a good job ("every woman here says her partner's perfect, what liars") or we get dragged here if we acknowledge any flaws ("every woman here's in a dead bedroom with beta bucks"). It's even worse with height. "You dated shorter guys but you married 6 foot 1 guy because obviously." Or "You slept with tall chad but settled for your 5 foot 8 beta when you couldn't get him because…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 04:27 PM
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Yeah, where's the outrage when the married guys on here go on about "the wall" and how 18-24-year-old women are the most desirable ones in society and women age like milk? Should their women divorce them?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 04:18 PM
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I'm not sure what you mean. You don't think wealth inequality plays into it? And yes, I have read the take that the decline of marriage and society is down to women and not economic factors and that trying to point to wealth disparity is just women's way of escaping culpability for their hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 04:11 PM
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You can't do it because the minute you talk about wealth or macro issues or lack of social safety net or the cratering of blue collar work and outsourcing they get mad you're taking the focus away from the real villain: women. Women and their hypergamy are apparently the only issue - literally the only one - causing men to spiral out of control and "drop out."
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 03:28 PM
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I see myself in this picture and don't like it. Mostly because I always wanted to be more tan. Yeah, longish dark blonde hair, ponytail for climbing, back when I was climbing 4-5x per week I was really small, like 105 pounds, even though I ate like a total pig (it burns a lot of calories) and would demolish huge plates of spaghetti carbonara after the gym. I'm naturally really pale.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 01:28 AM
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If he kept out Putin would withdraw his support and leave him to his wolf countrymen to tear apart. Weird thing is I know many Belarusians and while (not all) many love Putin they all hate Lukashenko. Despite being a Putin stooge he seems to be deeply unpopular even with those who like Putin. He needed Putin's help to keep himself in power until the year 2700. Putin is the only reason he is in power, maybe the only reason he is alive at all. "Father" Sasha will do whatever his own daddy says.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 01:11 AM
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My ex's entire family lives there and I'd rather not see them dead just because three old men are waving nukes around like drunks trying to win an argument in a bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 12:32 AM
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I mean, gay men in Hollywood needed (still do) to be closeted so women would continue to believe them as hetero romantic leads. And how everyone got mad at Britney Spears when Timberlake said he had sex with her. Public image is carefully managed in entertainment.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 10:03 PM
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There has been an explosion of man buns recently, I have to say. There are some shoulder-length hair crunchy types but a ton of college dudebros too. Also seems like middle-aged dads tend to come in groups as guy time. A woman who rock climbs looks like me! :-)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 09:47 PM
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There was a woman on here who met a guy at a rock gym and it didn't go so well for her (she met a fuckboy, sounds like), so now I'm afraid to recommend it. I used to ask cute guys to spot me back when I was single. :-)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 09:45 PM
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I love that this is my most wholesome comment on here and it was promptly downvoted.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 09:04 PM
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What happened to get her banned?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 09:03 PM
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Yeah, vast majority of climbers are dudes. They often call the bouldering area in a gym "the bro zone" because it's always like 25 guys and 1 girl, who's there with her boyfriend (reader: I was that girl). It's a great way for women to meet guys because the men tend to be super fit and pretty chill.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 08:55 PM
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Bandit, I am rooting for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 08:50 PM
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ooohhh....don't tell her that. I have a kid. Maybe I'll get a suitable avatar because my attention whoring is obviously not very effective.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 08:50 PM
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Only one I can think of is rock climbing, where men do have a slight advantage in arm strength but most of it is balance and abs, not brute force.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 08:48 PM
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Lillith of Babylon, debater of men, breaker of chains, queen of the red-hot takes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 08:35 PM
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I get you and Peaches Tea mixed up, I think. One of you is married, I know that. To be honest, it's the ones with custom avatars I remember more. The little blue ones tend to blur together.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 08:31 PM
2

Yes! You! Bunny ears guy. Your user name wasn't coming to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 08:05 PM
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"Have babies for the fatherland" was not the take I was expecting, but here we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 08:04 PM
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Edit: 😿
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:59 PM
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Don't you live near L.A.? This place is full of hot people by definition (granted I have no idea how many are single).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:54 PM
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That has been a thing for 25 years (that's the amount of time I've been an adult). Even before OLD, at college and in their early 20s people were kind of always looking for a better deal or wondering if they were missing out by being monogamous. So many tortured discussions on "how do you know if s/he's the one?"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:52 PM
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Was she banned? She tends to come and go.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:48 PM
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Yeah, he's nice. I hope he doesn't get mean from hanging out here.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:45 PM
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He’s new. The guy who wanted us to rate his photo (can’t remember his user name).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:39 PM
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There are some really unpleasant and hateful guys on here. Luckily, there are few of them. They are undateable, I think. The rest, unless they like are missing all their limbs or have half a head or something, seem dateable. I especially want to see happy endings for Bandit, the 20-year-old virgin guy, you, and even lulll.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:36 PM
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The Russian ex’s mom used to send Belarusian crackers and other foods to him via her office (sent to my work office) because she was convinced the customs or post people would steal them. I was convinced it was drugs and freaked out but when he opened the box it was just blini, crackers, candy, tea, jam and stuff from home. All that subterfuge for some food treats.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:32 PM
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I was just making a joke. I don’t really use “the wall” in seriousness.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:26 PM
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That's true. I believe there are guys who think "If I just had one girlfriend I'd never let her go." And that could be true. But it's also possible that if a guy got one girlfriend he'd get validation for at least a little bit of FOMO ("if I could get ONE pretty girl, maybe there are others out there who would like me too..."). I think some feelings of FOMO are natural for men and women when they're young.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:06 PM
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If you pay me I can give you a ton of them. I'll stop giving them away for free here and will save them just for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 06:54 PM
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Yeah, even dated one who hit the wall at 28 and decided it was time to find "mother of my kids" while he was still young enough to pull young women. Of course, that is called personal growth and maturing when men do it but AF/BB when women do. The idea that 24-year-old men in full-throttle FOMO will screech to a halt and commit to the special woman who's good enough to make him renounce his fuckboy ways is nuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 06:51 PM
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I think they are, but they have aggressive screening for guys and can have a zero tolerance policy regarding his past, whereas many FDS women came to FDS because they made mistakes in their own past with "LVM." Like a guy who was a loner or nerd in high school is sus, but shy women or women with questionable pasts are allowed to glow up, move on, and demand "HVM." I think it's that attitude (cutting yourself slack but nobody else) that's problematic.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 06:26 PM
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Interesting. Usually west = hotter. Signed, a Califonian :-) (and yes, in my mind we're as far west as it gets before the reset in the Pacific)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 06:16 PM
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TV, sewing/knitting, this sub, walking the neighborhood, kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 06:15 PM
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I had to move to big cities three times with zero friends in each one, and I managed to build a friend group even though it is hard work (forcing yourself to be social, join clubs, take classes, volunteer, whatever). I think there are a bunch of Midwestern guys on here and I can see these issues (few social outlets, lots of overweight/single mom women) being a thing for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 06:06 PM
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Well...yes. And therein lies the problem. Neither side makes it really possible to find someone who meets their standards. If you are RP, and you meet one of these sexually conservative women, her withholding sex from you is viewed as a red flag, and she also isn't going to play forever girlfriend (or sign a prenup). If you are FDS...well...sorry, but the Disney prince or Fifty Shades dude or whoever isn't coming to rescue you and bring you to his castle/penthouse and shower you with gifts.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 06:04 PM
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ha. that was my first thought as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 05:45 PM
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Well, there's love and then there's marriage and honestly the two weren't meant to always be the same. Marriage is a social unit for creating a family and people who think you're able to sustain that new relationship energy for 40 years are delusional. People who think burning desire is the only thing that matters for a marriage are also delusional. You should marry someone you desire, but there's just a lot more to it than that if you're going to be raising kids and tackling life as a unit. Als…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 05:44 PM
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/sub
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 05:39 PM
1

"Pam from 'The Office' average"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 05:38 PM
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Yes, much later. As an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 05:04 PM
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Yeah, I guess I'm having coffee about the time the Euros get off work. I can catch the East Coast Americans during their lunch break, but not early morning.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 04:45 PM
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People here are particularly averse to real life observation. They usually say “BUt LoOK at PeOplE At WalmARt” like it refuted anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 04:15 PM
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Goddamn Pacific time zone. Yeah it was nuked. I read like 6 comments and it was gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 04:08 PM
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I don’t know. My family were poor Mennonite farmers but when great-great grandma got knocked up at 17 by what we believe to be a young farm worker from Lithuania, she and her mother were hidden away for the pregnancy and the baby was raised as her sister, a miracle “change of life” baby for her parents. I’m not advocating a return to this. This was fucked up. But poor people who were religious pulled this kind of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 04:06 PM
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DINK and you can just hire a house cleaner. House cleaners are the cheapest way to save a marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 03:53 PM
2

I need something to accompany my coffee and now the age gap thread was nuked this will have to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 03:50 PM
1

You’re 37. Guys are still hot at that age. It’s not about whether you can get a teenager to fuck you, it’s about the chances of a marriage with one ending in divorce in a few years’ time. If you never want to get married, then fuck away.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 03:34 PM
1

It is. I'm too chicken to try more than one bite, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 07:05 PM
1

Pink, not red, in the middle. I don't like well done, but I don't like blood either. I had this uncle who once in a while used to say "just pass it over a BIC lighter."
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 07:04 PM
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They can. Not with 8/10 women, maybe not with the women they want for relationships, maybe not the beautiful virginal types, but they can. Go far out into the outer boroughs of NYC and you'll see average guys leaving the clubs with women all the time. You may not find those women attractive, but it's possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 06:48 PM
1

There are guys who go for the hot crazy girl because she'll fuck you in the bathroom stall or let you do coke off her ass or whatever you want...that is not want they want in "the mother of my child."
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 06:45 PM
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The hot BPD girls, downtown party girls, alt girls, groupie girls, whatever, until they hit 26 and now it's time to find a nice, proper girl to bring home to Mom and have kids with.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 06:43 PM
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There are many guys who party down with the hot BPD girls and alt girls in their early 20s and straighten out in their late 20s and look for Good Girls they can take home to mom. This is not entirely a woman thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 06:41 PM
0

Ooh...I just bought popcorn at the store yesterday too...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 06:37 PM
2

Sex with younger woman. edit: if you can reconcile your fear she's sleeping with younger guys behind your back.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 06:10 PM
1

Assuming the economics work out (ie, possible to afford kids), I think enough people would want children that a relationship would be desired. At least starting in their late 20s, which is when people get married anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 06:08 PM
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True. Unless you factor in the child support/alimony is greater when you have a woman who wasn’t making as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 04:40 PM
2

I didn’t have any I really hated it didn’t get along with though. The alcoholic was nice even when drunk. It was a good experience overall, though finally being able to get my own apartment (at 28) was nicer.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 04:39 PM
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20 years of age difference = 95% more likely to end in divorce. That is far greater than the risk posed by a woman having had more than 3 sex partners. Yet one is always cited and another never cited.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 04:05 PM
3

I had a roommate in a band, and it was interesting how many girls he could pull back to his 10 x 10 ft windowless room in Manhattan. I had a roommate who was a model, and it was interesting watching her disprove all the guys here who say Stacy can get commitment because her schlub of a boyfriend, at least 3-4 points down on the looks scale, cheated and refused to commit, and she was depressed by the number of guys who only wanted sex from her. I had a roommate who was an alcoholic who left the b…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 03:59 PM
2

Yeah, it can spark major FOMO sometimes. "If I got *this* attractive woman...how many others could I get? Can I do better?"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 01:07 AM
1

We will be waiting here in the dosh khaleen with vodka to welcome you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 04:40 PM
1

Most women don’t orgasm with casual sex. Just pull their pants up while the seamen drips as they quickly make their exit. Please expand this into a 500-word short story and post on relationship_advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 04:38 PM
3

I thought people who love bombed did text too much, or at least a lot. They go full throttle on the attention at first and then jerk it back later when the fish is on the hook. Seriously, in this our P.C. (Post Caleb) universe I have read "lovebombing" at least 100 times and think it's meant something different in all of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 04:33 PM
0

I hope he's OK. If he got to the hospital he's probably fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 04:29 PM
2

People are scapegoating women for the vast economic inequality that exists all over the world. The evaporation of the middle class means people can’t afford to have families or kids, that our society will continue to have a few winners while the rest toil away on a treadmill. It’s no coincidence women compete for a shrinking pool of men who can afford to support marriage and family. Do you think women and men can set up house on hourly Walmart wages? This isn’t just in the West either. East Asia…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 03:13 AM
1

This is a sub where the line “Nobody owes anyone respect” is uttered at least once a day. You are in the wrong place for kind feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 02:17 AM
2

Me too, though. I think we have some snipers on either side.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 03:42 AM
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Yeah, if anything it'll just lead people to other unflattering assumptions to try to invalidate you. "I'm a 5 foot 4 woman who weighs 110 pounds." "Well, you must have a TERRIBLE personality." "I'm a 6 foot 3 guy who weighs 200 pounds." "Well, you must have a HIDEOUS face."
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 10:48 PM
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lol People will say anything to try to neg the women here as being fat. "High n count women are more likely to be ugly and fat because they can't get commitment/are seeking validation" (that has been said a lot) "Low n count women are more likely to be ugly and fat because very few people have wanted to have sex with them" (also said often)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 10:37 PM
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Save your negging for the club, soldier. We're too old for that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 10:18 PM
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You're contradicting yourself. In your OP you explicitly cited instances of women needing to lose weight but everyone being too afraid to tell them they needed to do this. Now you're saying that media messages about women needing to lose weight are obvious con jobs and women are dumb for not seeing through them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 06:56 PM
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I used to ask this. "So why is nobody ever mad at the hot guys for 'dumpster diving' and validating women's high standards, rather than the women who agree to have sex with them?" But I usually got something about biological imperatives to spread seed, male sexual urges being nearly impossible to control, and a fuckton of downvotes, so I gave up. Somehow women are supposed to inherently know when a guy is out of her league, even a little bit, and turn him down accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:46 PM
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We also get that tough love from like every magazine article, diet pill ad, makeup display, and dating advice column/book. I can't imagine a single woman who has grown up and not received the message "be thin and pretty to catch a man." Men never see this because this isn't targeted to them. They see one feminist post on Twitter and not the 50 pages of ads for diet products, makeup, push-up bras/Spanx, heels, hair care products and other things we are supposed to buy to make men like us.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:38 PM
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Her husband shit in jars and stored it around the house. I’ll take the boringest Brad who ever Braded over that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 04:40 PM
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It can lessen the amount of bleeding and sometimes the pain but not always. You can take BC that gives you a period only once every six months but those always seemed like they’d not be the best idea, since that messes with your cycle a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 04:38 PM
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🤢 Edit: I missed the part where he told her it was "exotic jams that had gone bad." Oh, god.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 04:35 PM
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Flair maybe checks out.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 04:26 PM
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I knew reading this sub while eating breakfast was a dumb idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 04:23 PM
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They will never understand this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 02:57 PM
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I’ve played like 3 computer games in my life. Skyrim, Witcher 3, and some King’s Quest game back in 1992. Is there an easy mode? I can do easy mode stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 06:01 AM
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Nah, we aren’t going to fuck them because we’re old and don’t like driving after dark.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:51 AM
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“MALES: See, in Ukraine, women can leave but men cannot... FEMALES: WE STILL WILL NEVER AGAIN FUCK UNATTRACTIVE MEN” I’d watch that movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:42 AM
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Ha. I didn’t think you did. You’re not like that. It sounds too hard for me. Skyrim was about as hard as I can do, that and Witcher 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:36 AM
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Yeah, I've asked a few times but each time I get downvoted and nobody answers anyway. Maybe they're all too busy playing a marathon to answer tho...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 04:25 AM
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Yeah, I don't get the point either. The Q4W threads are often like 20 posts of women answering and 400 posts of men piling on to call them liars.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 11:46 PM
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I dated back before texting was much of a thing, so to me this seems normal. You don't want to exhaust your excitement and conversation in texting. Also, it was considered bad form for women or men to call too much. Signaled clinginess. Y'all gonna yell about me being old again, and I get it, but think about the idea of saving your energy and anticipation for the in-person date. Plenty of time to text back and forth if you end up getting serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 09:32 PM
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Age as well as age they got married. A 35-year-old single guy will (presumably) have more than a 50-year-old guy who married at 25. I'd say anything above 20 seems quite high for both.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 07:46 PM
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I think it depends. I mean, there are some people who think an age gap is 5 years (which is ridiculous). Some think it's 10, some 20, we have people arguing all different things in the thread, from the 40-year-old dating a 30-year-olds to the guy in his 40s saying he's pulling early 20-somethings. I don't really consider it an "age gap" until 15 years' difference (I read somewhere that if a couple is 20 years apart in age the divorce rate is something like 95%) but I recognize this is a really s…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 05:22 PM
2

Yes, but the hamster wheels spin into overtime when people (usually guys) want to be able to be promiscuous but judge women badly for doing the same thing. Or they don’t think low n count women should judge them for their promiscuity. To be honest a promiscuous person is simply going to have different views on sex than I do, and probably a lifestyle and values I don’t share (the things you mentioned), and that is more of where I would say the real incompatibility lies. It’s not just about who yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 05:12 PM
1

Israel too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 05:06 PM
2

We still have a draft (you still have to register for Selective Service at 18), at least in the USA. Nobody has been drafted but we still have registration just in case. Edit: I wasn’t sure if you meant the draft in theory or practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 04:58 PM
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Yes. I don’t think we should have a draft at all but if we do it should be men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 04:57 PM
1

That is every woman. Because even if she made everyone wait, all that means is that nobody hot enough presented himself to her. If he had, she would’ve. This is why this argument can’t be won, ever. Because now AWALT can be achieved due to Hypothetical Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 04:49 PM
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The usual explanation is the men with high n counts have to really work hard for it so it’s not impulse control. This doesn’t mesh at all with the statements like “all Chad has to do is show up” and “you know she hooked up with Chad on the first date” and “only a few guys are fucking all the women,” which imply hot guys can get sex with almost no effort. I do think high n count indicates poor impulse control for both sexes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 04:43 PM
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300?!? Y’all millennial boys and girls be slutty as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 04:36 PM
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Don’t forget how quickly she fucks you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 04:23 PM
2

Yes, bingo. Some guy once called it “being a beta with extra steps.”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 02:30 PM
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Oh, I know. We all know. Sometimes someone will look at one of his blog posts and pick over each word to find hope like a sweet summer child, but we all know…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 06:32 AM
1

I know nothing about Elden Ring except that over on Ice and Fire board we are mad because it’s what is keeping him from the next book. I would add the /s tag but it’s just too depressing now.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 06:21 AM
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I know. I’m just trynna combine my interests
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 05:38 AM
0

Read all of ASOIAF, you can do it, king, 100 pages/min.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 04:08 AM
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ok, I was reading like you banged the mom (when you were 21) a decade after the daughter so it seemed wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 03:31 AM
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Most of us dated guys who were older at some point. It's not impossible to enjoy an older guy's company and find him attractive. But if a guy is looking to lock a woman down in marriage, most women who are more than 10 years younger will be less into it, mostly because we want to raise kids with someone about our own age. Unless we're gold-diggers thinking ahead to our alimony/child support career path. If a guy never wants marriage, kids, or commitment, then yeah, he can play around. He will ag…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 12:08 AM
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I banged a 38 years old when I was 21 and a decade after I banged her daughter. Wait...you were 11 when you had sex with her daughter? Sir, I'm not sure this is a huge flex...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 12:01 AM
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The one at 35 has a PhD and is CEO of google and is president of Earth ...oh and she ""loves to travel"" and has had all these experiences ... don't care. I want the 25 year old. Can I point you to the nice discussions on child support we've been having? There was a thread started yesterday, as well as some posts in the daily chats from yesterday and (maybe) today. Those guys "didn't care about her career" either.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 11:48 PM
1

Careful what you wish for. I think last time Lilith had like 25 threads going on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 11:22 PM
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I do get it, some guys out there will think, well, at least as long as I get sex with a hot young woman I can look aside if she occasionally scratches the itch with another guy. I'm getting an attractive woman who will have my kids and keep my house and all that. (edit: and that's OK; if you're not gonna be full BP and think that mismatched people can truly love each other, at least this is kind of a realistic take.) I just don't get how RP, with its obsession with hypergamy and "divorce rape" a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 11:04 PM
1

Weren't you aspiring a few months ago? What happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 10:55 PM
1

Flair...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 10:52 PM
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If a guy really works hard he might get a combo of $$$ and looks sufficient to land a 24-year-old woman. Then in 10 years when she files for divorce to go live with her tennis instructor he can join the guys on the other thread who are bitching about child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 10:21 PM
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Blackpill is the one most obsessed with height, I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 10:12 PM
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Yeah, people were saying he needed an “edge,” but that edge would probably not get him the women he wants, and it would get him the women he doesn’t want.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 09:59 PM
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He said he was going to do this (I think remove height, not lie about it) and see what happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 09:55 PM
1

So you are saying it’s not his height (and other factors we can’t discuss)? The common opinion was that he’d probably do better in real life (if 29-year-old Al Pacino made an OLD profile he’d probably get filtered out through height filters too, and people would have picked apart his every word to find stuff wrong with him to feel better about rejecting him for more superficial reasons).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 08:14 PM
5

West Elm Caleb is over, we need fresh meat.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 07:37 PM
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Oh, my good sir. You must be new here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 06:06 PM
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Someone produced a list of studies recently and the top two stated that the same higher incidences of cheating or divorce applied whether it was the male who was promiscuous or the woman. Yeah, I remember that thread (or one like it with such a study). I noted that the numbers were similar for male and female partners. One guy said it didn't count because the study was from 2008 (even though the promiscuity studies on women cited in the thread were from 25 years ago). One guy tried to tell me it…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 06:02 PM
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As much as I hate having chomped on the bait and getting sucked back into these discussions that always go the same way, it's nice to watch the anger of the guys who see themselves in this picture and don't like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 05:57 PM
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That’s why this sub likes to fixate on young (18-22) women. To get that shy, gorgeous, virginal slut goddess before she sleeps with a lot of guys (and then she may have had better sex with someone other than our hero). Uninhibited/low n count usually does not go together.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 04:03 PM
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glares hard in union rep daughter
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:49 PM
0

Yes. Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:39 PM
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Ok, so she sleeps with him quickly. Now he is wondering how many other first dates she slept with quickly. I didn’t have sex on a first date for personal reasons (and no casual sex also for personal reasons), but if I had first date sex, my n count would be about…50? 60? That’s insane. Like the other guy said, this is a self-own for guys. Edit: I did not downvote you. Someone downvoted me (don’t know or care who), but that’s just life on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:38 PM
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If there weren’t dozens of men on here saying they want sex on the first date then I might agree. But as the endless discussions on “I want her to have sex with me right away” show, men do want a promiscuous woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:27 PM
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The baby would suffer. Do you know what welfare is like? What you can afford?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 02:35 PM
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I just cannot anymore. Most of these guys are not parents so it’s useless anyway as they have no idea what raising a kid is like. Most of them never lived on welfare either so they have no idea what that’s like either. I have experience with both. The shit they’re saying is laughable.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 02:32 PM
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It was the daily chat thread and the posts are all gone now. We can’t really discuss race stuff. Them’s the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 05:41 AM
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I didn't have a height requirement, but I'm a shorty (5'4") with a shorty dad (5'7"?). Weirdly enough all my half-brothers are over 6 feet even though my stepmom is short as well (and yeah, they actually all look like my dad before you drag out *that* line of thought). Dating before OLD you didn't have a filter where you could plug in a range of desired qualities. You met a guy at the bar and if he was taller than you it was OK.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 04:56 AM
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I mean, I still think in person it wouldn't be as bad for him. I live in LA, where 5 foot 3 dudes from Bolivia can pull (nobody likes that line of argument, but still, it does happen). It's just harder and I don't envy him. Also, Duke is a place where you're surrounded by professional-level athletes. He's playing on Death March mode.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 01:17 AM
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Starts here https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/szi5rv/daily_community_chat_megathread/hy4mlbx/?context=3
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:11 PM
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Daily chat mega thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 10:43 PM
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I know. I’m usually in agreement with the women here but this is weird. He said he wants someone for traveling and exploring, not “someone to do a decathlon with me.” And despite being skinny and extremely exercise averse in my youth I never would’ve turned down a guy with a really muscular body.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 10:11 PM
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Hey…you’re the guy! Yeah, I can’t believe how much people are extrapolating from a small online profile I’m lazy as shit but unless a guy said he wanted a workout partner I wouldn’t assume he did. I’m nearly always with the women on here but this one has me puzzled.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 10:06 PM
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Yeah, I'm thinking of the threads yesterday that got nuked, so I can't really specify so I'll try to be vague: if he gives himself too much of an edge he might attract women he may not want and alienate the ones he does want; unfortunately, some of the ones he does want are already biased against him to begin with (see yesterday's posts...). However, I do think he has hope in person with sporty girls and geeky girls in real life where personality can come through more.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 09:48 PM
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Yeah, but we can't really discuss that because of thread rules (and yesterday's posts on this, which are coming to mind, got nuked from orbit).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 09:44 PM
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Hmmm...yeah, as a shorty who used to weigh 110 lbs, very tall super-muscular guys did actually intimidate me. Tall slender guys did not. I'm sure other women felt similarly. Probably only comes into play above 6 foot 2 or 3, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 09:42 PM
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Really? That feels like a lot to extrapolate based on a few characters, though. It's not like your whole personality's going to shine in 4 sentences.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 09:21 PM
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Oh, this was in the daily. First off, I'll say that the thread there is "what am I doing wrong" and people are probably going to be more inclined to give actionable advice. "Grow 6 inches" is useless. Like, OK, thanks. So people are pointing to stuff to maximize his profile rather than make him feel like shit about something he can't change. Second, yes, it's his height unfortunately, he's probably being filtered out and not even appearing in matches (someone said Bumble has a height filter). *s…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 09:13 PM
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Pretty much. Although there are probably some members in each group who are recovering doormats who seeking to learn boundaries or how to vet.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 03:11 PM
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Live in a big city. Things are definitely more impersonal. Also, the people tend to be better-looking, so it’s more of a competition. In NYC, I wasn’t invisible but it wasn’t like I got a ton of attention. Deep South, smaller town? A lot more. Like night and day.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 02:56 PM
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😺
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 04:35 AM
1

I was told here that hot women were all size queens but ugly women tend to be satisfied with less.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 12:55 AM
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Started around here. I’m wrong, it was 1 in 3 have 7-9 inches, not 9 inches. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/swyurn/comment/hxs77zx/
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 12:39 AM
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It was about measuring penis sizes and it was going ok until a woman said she likes 9-inchers and that 1 in 3 hot guys have them, and then all hell broke loose.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 12:29 AM
2

We just talked raccoon down from the ledge yesterday. Why you gotta go and do this?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 12:26 AM
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He wasn't unattractive, though. I think he looked *just* approachable enough, looks-wise, to seem within reach to these women (the Norwegian girl was quite cute herself). If 32-year-old Brad Pitt had gone on there and said he was a diamond heir I bet far fewer people would've believed him, or at least they'd have their guard up for the catch. Maybe not, I don't know. People are gullible.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:55 PM
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Yeah, I'm not sure how this is RP because "extremely wealthy guys attract women" is something everyone on earth knows. It's not a pill ideology, it's common knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:52 PM
2

Yeah, if some cute billionaire diamond heir matched with me online I’d assume he was after my kidneys or an axe murderer.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 09:30 PM
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Watching this sub try to hamster "I want to be hookup material and get sex on the first date" and "I don't want a woman with a high n count/I want a virgin" is fascinating. Not all guys take both stances simultaneously (some guys who want upfront sex don't care about n count), but there is significant overlap.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 08:30 PM
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Yes. Yes. Part of that is due to society being weird about platonic male friendships and social circles where people can share feelings, like women can. Not sure what that means. Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 08:08 PM
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Yeah, in personal experience the women most susceptible to lies and flattery (fuckboy-style) were upper middle class/upper class daddy's girls, precisely because they had a lot of male support and validation growing up and didn't have a ton of suspicion.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 07:33 PM
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No, having an absent, addict dad made me way more sexually conservative because I didn't want to be used, lied to, and abandoned. I didn't want to end up like my mother. Also, I ended up being raised by my grandparents, who were born in the 1920s and far more old time traditional. Never had casual sex for exactly the reasons mentioned above. I think many women end up seeking validation from guys to make up for the missing validation from their absent dad, but not all. I think some tend to go the…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 07:31 PM
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Yes, growing up poor I was surrounded by liars and con artists and addicts, and so the instant he asked for a credit card thing my radar went off. I realize it's easy for us to say because we watched it with "swindler" in the title which made it obvious, but come on. Fishy in any context.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:53 PM
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Same. Sometimes I feel the urge just to see reactions but I’m not risking a doxxing by some nutter.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:11 PM
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I’m old, so I can’t really speak to any of the social media stuff. Doesn’t mean my experiences with men are invalid because they happened 15 years ago. I’ll give you that OLD gas changed a lot, but we talk about more than that on here. I don’t tell virgins they can’t have opinions on sex; it’s the same thing. There’s guys on here who say dumb shit but I don’t assume they’re ugly. Most people here are probably average.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:10 PM
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Unexpectedly wholesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:05 PM
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Yeah, it’s amazing how people who never saw your pic just know that you’re old, ugly, fat, and a “4/10.” Just tell them you’re 6’4”. That’ll keep everyone quiet amd they’ll bow down to your wisdom from now on.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:00 PM
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Yeah, that’s a whole lotta projection. Most of us have said we are average. Gimpgirl is a masochist trying to get business for her YouTube so I wouldn’t use her as an example. Just because you don’t agree with someone you don’t have to play just world fallacy where because you dislike them they have to be miserable or ugly or otherwise punished/bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:48 PM
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Says you’re a gamer. Where’d they get the stripper thing from? Not that the guys here can picture women outside of sexual functions anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:39 PM
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It proves how some women operate. However, it sounds like he was dwindling non-romantic partners too (like he was hired to be a tutor and managed to get money from them, I think?). And of course we do not see all the women who probably unmatched him or blocked him once shit got weird, and they didn’t lose money.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:14 PM
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Yeah. Even with the sympathy for men’s sexual issues I had I feel like it gets erased when they whine about needing the validation that comes from immediate sex and how women are incapable of understanding this, then yell “NOBODY OWES YOU A RELATIONSHIP” or “men are not a machine where you put in sex and a relationship falls out!” at women who seek the validation of a relationship. I guess before coming here I assumed men wanted relationships but many of them just seem to want a warm hole that i…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 07:20 AM
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That was one TikTok video…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 06:50 AM
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Yeah. They like hearing how great it is though. Can’t go wrong there. I’m assuming there will be a few questions like the ones I mentioned (where they try to see how you fit in with the company culture or whether you’ll be satisfied there) in addition to technical ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 06:48 AM
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I would add in how much you like the area if it seems natural (shows you aren’t looking to flee). But southern Californians tend to think the place is a paradise everyone wants to be in so they may think this is a given.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 06:45 AM
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Related: my cat tried to pick a fight with a big raccoon once. Luckily a screen door separated them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 06:43 AM
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I mean, it’s always good to bank an answer to that question “what is your biggest weakness?” Plus your five-year goals and 10-year goals. Edit: also, do you raise your voice at the end of a sentence so it sounds like you’re asking a question? Don’t do that. Makes you look childish/unprofessional
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 06:31 AM
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Yeah, only 99% of the daddy's little rich girls who flood NYC for the summer internships in publishing. Who had spreadsheets tracking the previous year's bonuses of the banking corporations, separated by division. Who wouldn't talk to you unless bottle service was involved, who didn't put out for a dinner check less than $200, etc. OK, they didn't have the 90-day policy of FDS, but the concept of the HVM and shit-testing was alive and well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:48 AM
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Goddamnit raccoon, stop worrying about penis sizes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:36 AM
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If men were cool with dating promiscuous women, then maybe more women might be more free sexually. But when men say they don't take promiscuous women seriously ("I'm not gonna wife up a ho") and say they'll just use them for sex, they can't be shocked that women pull back sexually with men they want to date seriously, or women pull back out of fear of being used for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:34 AM
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Bangmaids who will say "What's a prenup, honey? Oh, sign here you say? Well, you know best."
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:19 AM
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only engages in LTRs Tell this to the boys crying in the other thread that not fucking a guy immediately is a symbolic castration.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:18 AM
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And if you believed them, in all instances the man was begging his wife to return to work ASAP and dump the kid in day care but she refused because being a SAHM meant sitting on the couch while the kid raised itself. Apparently day care is free (since there is no financial benefit). And men don't say things like "I don't want strangers raising my kid." And women who stay home are not putting in any labor watching the kid. It's basically the guy is working and the woman is reaping the benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:56 AM
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They don't get Q4W, which even has a little pink tag, so this is like advanced calculus for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:50 AM
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True, but when you are little you feel completely full with an average one, and a big one just hurts.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 02:56 AM
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It could be. I guess it's weird because I have the parallel problem of being too small (the canal is narrow), but that's seen as a positive by the other sex, so I don't really get it. However, I like to point out I'm not the only one on earth like this and so smaller side of normal is a selling point to people who are like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 02:09 AM
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It's more a cumulative effect of a bunch of these types of threads, where a direct line gets drawn between "waiting 3 dates for sex" and "beta-buxxing."
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 01:55 AM
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Yeah, only on this sub are boyfriends this species of male that doesn't get laid. Like no guy in a relationship is having great sex, no, it's all boring and infrequent and sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 01:22 AM
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I feel like she may have been winding you up. Definitely with regard to how many men out there have 9-inch dicks. But...ok. I guess some women here are into them. Usually you hear the opposite, though, women saying too big hurts.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 01:17 AM
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Football team is back! I was kind of missing them as a theme.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 01:06 AM
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We had this question, sort of, a while back. What is a Chad? Well, the answers were all over the place. Ranging from "anyone who can get a girl to touch his dick at least once in life" to "a guy who can walk into a bar and have casual sex with any woman there." This is going to yield some very varied answers, I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 01:05 AM
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Which ones? Most of say we don't like big ones because they're painful. An 8-incher sounds horrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 01:04 AM
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Technology works both ways, birth control is easy so except for the idiots getting someone pregnant If you've read relationship advice, marriage subs, adultery subs, mistress subs, whatever, you'll be astounded at how many functioning adults don't seem to understand what condoms are.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:56 PM
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Well, as a crone I learned some things about online dating and the availability of sex for women. I do think that the prevalence of women racking up sex partners into the triple digits is still greatly overstated, however. I also learned many guys will have sex with women they don't find all that attractive...or attractive at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:26 PM
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That whole sub is just hamster wheels spinning so hard I'm surprised they don't launch into space.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:56 PM
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My therapist did a lot of marriage counseling and said the majority of people who cheat are not in a dead bedroom situation. They just had the opportunity, there was very little risk of getting caught, and went for it. Contrast this with the mistress subs where you get tale after tale of a guy stuck in a dead bedroom marriage with a horrible, nagging wife, and after a few years with the other woman he's *finally* ready to leave when behold! The wife gets pregnant from the one time they had sex i…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:29 PM
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No, Korea is having its own issues with its labor pool, Japan too. Their labor systems are becoming segmented similarly to ours, with fewer well-paying jobs and more temporary/contract/part-time lower-paying jobs. Many men are saying they can't afford to get married. Their population is facing the same aging problem. The same issues with regard to relying on increasing numbers of imported laborers from Cambodia, Bangladesh, East Timor and other places. Even China is facing issues as women move f…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:07 PM
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I feel like with some tinkering and a narrative arc this could make r/BestofRedditorUpdates
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:33 AM
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why has god forsaken us
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:19 AM
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And y'all say we strawman on here. Nobody said women would be watching TV while you pump away. I don't know what to tell you. Do you want women to change their anatomy so they magically orgasm from whatever size your penis is? Do you want them to tell you to give up and die alone? What do you think this rant does? You found women willing to wrap their legs around you and scream, so what is the problem? Are you offended on behalf of all the smaller guys out there, even though you yourself are per…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 02:13 AM
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No, I know, this sub treats truerateme like it's the periodic table of elements. I just think it's rather dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 12:55 AM
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Truerateme is full of shit, though. I think a woman who did professional modeling went on there and was 6.5-7. They do celebs sometimes and they said Sharon Tate was a 6. wtf. I get they have SCiEncE but it's kind of anal retentive. It reminded me of in France how they graded out of 20 and "nobody" got 17-20 so you really could only aim for 16 at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 12:44 AM
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Nah, they're high. (Not kidding)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 12:39 AM
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Yeah, there are better ways to say "let's just have fun" than "I don't care about your feelings lol"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:43 PM
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I don't think it's going to be a direct, one-to-one transformation from "virgin bride" to "triple-digit party girl." Many women have the choice to engage in hookup culture but don't. There will always be women seeking relationships. I agree about the technology, but I think the solution is about better parenting and messaging rather than removing choice. Instead of a culture that overly glorifies the Bezoses, the Musks, the Bransons, the ones who are cutthroat, play to win, never happy with seco…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 07:38 PM
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SPoKen LIkE a TrUe WOmAN The lengths men (not necessarily OP) will go to to explain why they can't exercise any self-control is hilarious. You're a slave to your body? So's the heroin addict.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 05:37 PM
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I don't disagree but just yesterday there was a woman saying a hookup left her feeling empty and the guys were piling on her and making fun of her, with their usual condescending "men don't owe you a relationship" BS. Now a guy is saddened by it and it's lots of sympathy. Yeah, I didn't do hookup culture because it seemed empty. I think we need to stop acting like the pursuit of sex is everything in life or using it for validation of our worth. But you do not have to play this game. It's a false…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 05:33 PM
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So, I don't think it's being single that's to blame for all this. I think she is single because she has all the problems you mentioned. Criticizing herself, financially unstable, pessimistic, living with roommates...that is not somebody who has herself straightened out. Likely she didn't have success while younger due to all this stuff; it's not that her age made her this way, it's just that she was probably this way while younger and just got older and remained so. If you had a woman with a dec…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 09:43 PM
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Two guys who scream out RP talking points over and over and over for an hour or two while some hot woman sits there and thinks of England all the money the thirsty viewers will be bringing to her OF once the episode's over.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 09:21 PM
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Weird since it was a pretty civil conversation by this board's standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 07:52 PM
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"I just like you as a friend." I guess I was kind of direct with guys if I liked them. I didn't really want to do the whole lingering on making myself available thing for a long time just to see if they got the hint. I also didn't do FWB, which is another female version of the friendzone (similar lingering around to see if they'll promote you to GF). In those cases I just said no. If you don't want outright rejection (it sucks ngl), set boundaries (don't take midnight calls or too many sob sessi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 07:28 PM
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No, the ones I think are the worst are guys who have had at least some success with women. There are some who say very specific dog-whistle blackpill or incel things, though. Usually this gets modded. Not always. I think a few have straight-up said they're incels. It also depends how he expresses it. "I wish I could feel love/sex/a woman loving me/whatever" is very different from "Bitches, even fat ones, won't even look at me because I'm not 6 feet."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 06:58 PM
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I was referring to the recent exodus in the article she posted. The one from the past 2-5 years. Flagship university towns are usually blue, often due to all the university employees who live there. Austin also had that music scene that drew from larger, bluer cities.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 06:37 PM
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No, it's conservatives leaving CA for Texas. Not liberals making an exodus to turn it purple.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 06:30 PM
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Unfortunately, bouldering bros often travel in packs, which can be intimidating. But not always. Usually there's a few lone ones in there. Since you need a partner for top-rope climbing, one strategy could be to take an intro class by yourself, then find a FB group or meetup for climbers in your area and post saying you're looking for a partner. It's not a perfect strategy, but it's a strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 06:16 PM
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Good. Fewer assholes in SoCal the better. I never got the idea that liberal people should martyr themselves by moving to conservative areas (or vice versa) to "help restore balance" or turn a state purple or make people see the light or whatever. Nope, you'll be forced to do shit you don't agree with and your vote is subsumed under a mudslide of opposition. Fuck that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 06:05 PM
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46 miles away and I bet he drove them without a second thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 05:50 PM
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Can confirm the bouldering areas of rock gyms are pure sausagefests. You might get one other woman but she's usually with her BF. Edit: climbers are also hot af.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 05:49 PM
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In every dating manual/book/article/advice column published since like 1950. Usually it's phrased as being clingy or not giving him space, but yeah, women get that. The more direct parallel to what you're saying is when we're told not to ask desperate but also not to be stand-offish -- don't try too hard but also don't try to little.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 05:32 PM
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too based
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 04:52 PM
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Yeah, this is like the shit that girls from my high school who DO fit the stereotypical 3 kids from 3 dads, never left hometown, likely addicted to something, never read a book for fun, etc. etc. pull. I, too, am from trash, so I can see it happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 04:47 PM
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All of Germany beta simps confirmed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 04:15 PM
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Not the raccoon!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 04:14 PM
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Wasn’t that a Celeste Ng piece? Where she said she didn’t date Asian men because she saw them as being like her cousins? Somehow this was in an article about how Asian men had to stop getting mad at Asian women for dating white men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 04:31 AM
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When I was a kid I used lemonade to get the taste of medicine out of my mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:03 AM
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I would think of I asked my husband to snoop in his phone he would be pretty hurt. Especially if it was just random after no shady behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:01 AM
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Happens all the time. Do people live in some bizarro world where guys are cool with having their GFs go through their phone and follow them when they go out to see if they're really meeting their friends like they said? After all, if he's not guilty, why should it bother him?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:06 AM
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How is it hypocrisy? It's only hypocrisy if you are demanding your BF's email and phone passwords but getting mad he doesn't trust you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 11:58 PM
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Guys dump women for doing this all the time. Nobody likes being accused of things they didn't do. Nobody likes having their partners following them around with endless suspicion they didn't deserve. People get dumped for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 11:50 PM
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Pretty much. After the test comes back and the kid is his many women will just say "fuck that" and hop online because apparently he already thinks the worst. I'd also be pretty mad he thought I'd be dumb enough to not only fuck around, but to do so without protection. Don't insult my intelligence that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 11:22 PM
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It felt like rage bait. The same way the posts about "I dumped my 45-year-old wife who raised my 3 kids for my 22-year-old girlfriend, whom I shower with expensive gifts" are rage bait. Both things - paternity fraud and devoting your life to someone who dumps you for a younger model - are rare but touch a nerve.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 05:25 PM
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Nobody knows, as tests are usually done by people who already suspect their wives of cheating, leading to sample bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:23 PM
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All this hysteria over what seemed like an incredibly fake post. So a woman goes on Reddit to ask how to defraud someone? While making herself look as bad as possible and tapping into the male hatred of child support and fear of false paternity to boot? She turned to the Reddit hivemind for this?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 03:55 PM
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When I delivered my first kid (in US) they asked (while I was in labor) if I wanted them to go ahead and tie my tubes while we were at it. They ask every woman delivering, I think. Kind of weird they don’t want to do it for childfree women but are happy to do it the minute you push out the first one.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 12:10 AM
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KW couldn't hold a frame in a picture gallery, but I'm pretty sure he has severe mental health issues that seem to be going untreated right now. PD dated Kate Beckinsale too, so maybe he has a thing for older hot women? I think 95% of TRP is nonsense, but it also probably doesn't apply to celebrities. KK is a single mom (well, divorced mom) who can afford a fleet of nannies and a cosmetics team and personal trainers too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 08:11 PM
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So in good (?) news, a lot of women don't come from PIV (penis-in-vagina) sex. So if you get good at oral/finger stimulation, it won't matter cause they weren't going to come through penetration anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 07:46 PM
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I am not sure whether to take you seriously or not. whoo boy....well, I'm not going to spoil the fun. edit: I can't believe I'm saying this but...I agree with gimpgirl -- about insecurity being the issue and not size.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 07:43 PM
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Magazine articles and PR stuff, mostly. It's just since COVID everything slowed down so there's a lot less to write about. Everyone got tired of big upping Zoom events about a year ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 05:55 PM
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I dated before OLD, so it was a lot more labor-intensive to score dates, but yeah, on principle I'd only go with one guy at once. I'm a oneitis poster girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 05:49 PM
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Yeah, my work has been incredibly slow lately. As my posting history shows. I'm a writer, though, so that and "stupid money" rarely go together.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 05:45 PM
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Yeah, I walk every day too. It's boring, but what are you gonna do when you need to wear a mask at the gym (I'm not anti-mask I just hate wearing it when I'm working up a sweat).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 04:21 PM
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Yeah. She’s not as cute on Instagram but she’s still not bad or anything. I think she’s just kind of average. Not great, not bad. She seems to get paid a lot for being a writer, though, so I will have to be bitter toward her on principle now.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 04:03 PM
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Thanks. I’m a fan of Song of Ice and Fire. I’m also like one of 4 people on the planet who liked Arya’s chapters in Braavos. :-) I guess because idealists on here are rare and usually nice things are said ironically.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 04:01 PM
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Yeah, she seems to be angry about Asian fetishization but only goes for white guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 03:58 PM
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Oh, wow. She does look really different.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 03:52 PM
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This but unironically…I can’t help being an idealist :-(
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 03:50 PM
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Unpopular opinion: she’s pretty and can get away with stuff like this. It’s not a just world.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 03:47 PM
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It’s just a stereotype. The same way guys insult women by referring to cats. That said, gaming implies retreating into your insular space rather than going out and trying to socialize in person, so maybe it’s shorthand for cutting yourself off too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 03:15 PM
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Yeah, someone noted this in another thread. He said sometimes it's a woman you might be hot (or warm at least) for in the moment but not otherwise. I guess when you see terms like "dumpster-diving" you don't get the sense that there is really any attraction at all because it gives off strong connotations of garbage/disgust. The other thread was all about guys laughing at how ugly the women were they had banged.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 11:59 PM
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And then divide by height.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 11:42 PM
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Why did you use my knowledge against me for these dark ends?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 09:36 PM
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If there is one thing I have faith in about this sub, it's that its posters can clock a guy's height to the nearest quarter-inch within seconds of seeing him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 09:07 PM
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I think the PPD consensus was he was 5’9”.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 09:00 PM
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OK Cersei
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 08:58 PM
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They're not attracted to bad narcissists, usually. As in, self-involved bores or bad liars. Unfortunately, good narcissists are pretty good at talking themselves up and selling their BS to others. And then others want that validation from them. They're usually personable and charming and are good at attracting orbiters by making the orbiters feel like they're in a club led by the cool guy/girl. Cult leaders are an extreme example.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 08:58 PM
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Most people don't. Reddit edgelords will probably say something about how she drove him to it by being a bitch or not fucking him enough, but they're negligible.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 08:51 PM
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Yeah, living in the South after New York was…eye-opening. I was “ok” in New York but getting hit on by hot college dudes in the supermarket in the first week down there. Weight, mostly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 03:17 PM
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InNew York it was definitely men punching up in relationships, no question. Don’t yell at me about West Elm Caleb; he was going for quantity not quality and quick hookups. Men who are relationship-minded in that city were rare so women were happy to find a guy who wasn’t in FOMO madness. I will note some people disagree and say women are hypergamous to the nth degree there but I saw a lot of women taking what they could get. Outside major cities I see women punching up in general with cute guys …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 03:11 PM
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What’s not worth what? Edit : oh
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 03:36 AM
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No, it’s more like if you mess up at all, even a little, you could break through a capillary all and inject fat/botox/whatever into a vein and cause a stroke This could be Poe’s Law but I can’t tell
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 03:33 AM
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NO. I worked for a medical journal of cosmetic surgery. Fuck no.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 02:44 AM
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Sorry. I meant I can’t imagine it would be different with reversed genders. If someone says “I’m not attracted to you” that is a pretty clear no. It was nice of him to break up with her first rather than have sex and ghost.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 02:00 AM
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The top comments I was reading were a unanimous "no." I can't imagine it'd be the same with reversed genders...if someone says they aren't feeling a physical spark, then I don't know why you'd propose a purely physical relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 01:23 AM
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Yeah, I don't think Charlie Sheen had custody of his kids but nobody made Martin be his conservator either.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 12:28 AM
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Celebrities tend to not have their mental health taken seriously because car crash entertainment sells. Remember when everyone laughed at Britney Spears and her breakdowns? Charlie Sheen cracked up too, and got 1 million Twitter followers in less than 24 hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 12:11 AM
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No, there is a branch of feminism that opposed faultless divorce for that reason. You stay home to raise 2 kids and suddenly a guy decides he just doesn't want you anymore, and he walks off with his job and salary, which never took a hit due to childbearing. You end up not being able to afford as good a lawyer and getting peanuts to raise the kids. It wasn't an issue everyone agreed on.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 12:05 AM
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Men are more likely to stay and cheat (cake-eating). Women are more likely to divorce if there's infidelity on her side or on his side. People do tend to ignore that many women file because they discovered their husband was cheating. Rich guys sometimes just take the financial hit and file for divorce so they can play with their shiny new toy as much as they want for a decade or two.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 12:01 AM
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Oh, OK. Yes, I think that's a topic that's really hard to discuss. My spouse went through periods where he put on a lot of weight (not 100 lb, more like 40). Feels like you can't mention it. And I'm still working on the second half of my 15 lb of COVID weight, which feels like it'll never go away. I kind of wish he'd go climbing with me so we could both shape up and it wouldn't be like a conversation of "hey, so...why don't you hit the gym"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 11:47 PM
1

I'm not sure what you mean...you are disgusted by your wife but feel you have to have sex with her? Or you have to because you don't want to cheat and it's her or nothing?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 11:32 PM
4

That was a total shitshow, but I believe at that point it was the FBI’s shitshow, not ATF.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 09:03 PM
1

Death sentence for every Democrat at the next election, when the nation’s most reliable voting bloc stomps into the polls and votes them all out.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 08:52 PM
4

If you have ever been to a local meeting where the issue of higher taxes to fund schools is broached, you will see exactly why this will never happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 08:26 PM
4

I think it's fake. He's playing along by telling people about all the late nights and business trips they have, and the cast-off clothes chad gives him.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 08:14 PM
0

Well, And_rue had some interesting ideas about suffering and its effects on personal and collective judgment/decision-making...I'll just say most of us would not have the stomach to implement them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 08:10 PM
1

Uh, we had this conversation, sort of, yesterday, and it got...really dark.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 08:02 PM
2

Eh, even as a mom I can say this is no guarantee. It's a motivation, definitely. But even nice, kind parents have selfish kids who shove them into nursing homes and never visit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 06:52 PM
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Please stop fucking women you hate or are disgusted by. This seems to create a ton of resentment and detachment that spills over into other facets of sex and dating. Guys will get mad at this but hey, Q4W and that's my answer...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 06:47 PM
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It’s fine to get along better with guys but if a woman doesn’t have any female friends and is actively avoiding making them it’s a bit of a red flag. Most women have met the lone girl in the “guys’ group” who mate guards her orbiters like a jackal.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 07:07 AM
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No, there are the pick mes who want orbiters. “All my friends are guys; I just can’t deal with girl drama.” Then when one of the guys finds a girlfriend she’ll say stuff like “I have to approve of her.” Or “I get veto power.”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 07:05 AM
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I don’t especially think they are a problem. It’s their life. If they want to cook and clean and play bangmaid to some guy just to have a man around and not be alone…so be it. That’s an extreme case. I think pick mes are a spectrum, from the woman who hangs out at the parties where med school guys go to land a future doctor on the one end to the woman who stands by her abuser on the other. None of them really affect my quality of life. The only reason we don’t especially like the classic pick me…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 06:59 AM
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Yeah, I think all women go through a not like other girls phase. Sometimes it’s about being super traditional ride or die stand by your man; sometimes it’s “oh, I hate girls and their drama; all my friends are guys, I just get along better than them.”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 06:48 AM
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How can the patriarchy not exist when Martha Stewart went to jail and OJ was acquitted of murder? Isolated examples of someone getting off lightly aren't enough to disprove a cultural system of something else. Especially when that person's rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:42 AM
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It's not a false dichotomy. If you are in favor of privatizing literally everything and providing no public services, then yes, you're consistent. Your money is already paying for the free school meals (this includes breakfast and dinner) and the free education of millions upon millions of low-income children. Welfare proper is only one block of public provisions. If you want to provide no public assistance, however, I do not think the ensuing social unrest will be very pleasant. I don't think p…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 12:51 AM
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Federal funds have not been used to pay for abortion for nearly 40 years now. It's not being subsidized. Only 16 states use state Medicaid funding for abortions that are not necessary to save the woman's life, or not cases of rape or incest. A greater burden would be paying for children born to women who qualify for Medicaid, since you have to be extremely poor to be on there in the first place. You can give the poorest in the country abortions or you can have a lot more kids on welfare and pay …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 12:17 AM
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I get it. Guys, especially ones with low n counts, don't want to play Captain Save-a-Hoe. The weird part comes in when guys with high n counts think women, especially ones with low n counts, do.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 11:06 PM
1

lol like she'd give them to you instead of enlisting them in her personal harem.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 08:51 PM
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I did, but it wasn't limited by any means to sexual jealousy, just general self-esteem. Around 24 I went to therapy and worked on that, and the sexual insecurity vanished along with it. However, there comes an age for men when they need to stop expecting to find Sleeping Beauty and understand their girlfriends have had sexual partners before. And if you are looking for an attractive girl, it's highly unlikely all of her former partners were ugly or terrible in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 08:26 PM
2

In these endless zoom meetings that don’t involve me, I can either do this or drink heavily with my camera off. This is cheaper, though heavy drinking is becoming more appealing every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 08:10 PM
7

This is so specific I think you need to expand and publish it on AITA or TIFU.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 07:50 PM
7

Guys who “dumpster dive” aren’t holding master keys. They’re opening doors with shitty or no locks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 07:47 PM
5

You don't have to care, but that insanely long thread on being a woman's best/most attractive lover (or else dump her) shows yours is a minority opinion. I was insecure as a young (teens/very early 20s) person too about whether he "had better," but after a time you grow out of it. That is to say: a lot of people on here are young and haven’t come to terms with stuff like this yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 07:30 PM
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I'm not 0 but I was low, and this is vaguely right. STD fears, the lack of importance sex had for him, lack of self-control, lack of discernment, etc. I wasn't so much picturing him with others so much as I was thinking our values and conduct probably weren't really aligned. The world isn't fuckboys and virgins. There is a sea of average guys who date and have sex and have enough confidence to know a woman will come along before too long, they don't have to fuck someone they find disgusting (as …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 07:25 PM
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Yeah, but "girls who were worthy"...like ones who aren't promiscuous? Those are the ones not having sex immediately. It seemed to be wanting women to audition for the part of beloved girlfriend by taking on the understudy role of plate.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 07:18 PM
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No. And no, I wouldn't like it. However, if you want an LTR and a woman has sex with you right away, you're going to spend that LTR mired in the other issues that always get posted here: What if I'm not the best she's ever had? How many others has she slept with? and: "You don't wife up a ho." If you don't care how many other guys she's been with, then this isn't a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 07:14 PM
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There was a post saying exactly that, by a self-identified RP guy, and it got roasted by a bunch of other RP guys (with one exception). I thought the post was pretty much accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 07:01 PM
1

I showed up late and there were no dicks left to grab, so it was boring to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:51 PM
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Those threads on women having sex early vs. later was full of men who claimed to want a relationship (I don't want to wait for what chad got immediately). I have my doubts as to the truth of those statements. Also, the thread about men wanting to be a woman's best sexual partner was all about relationships (who cares if you're not her best ONS?).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:40 PM
2

There was a masturbatory thread a few days ago where men were jerking themselves off about how much money they had, how great their bodies were, and how they were "high-value men" who would never date FDS women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:19 PM
3

You like pub quizzes too?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 05:34 PM
3

I agree with the other posters — cut him off. I think boundaries are most often ignored when a woman says she wants to be friends but asks a lot of a guy: buying all her meals, fixing her car or sink more than once, always picking up the phone without fail, even at 1 am, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:01 AM
1

There was a video where he tried to out-smoke Willie Nelson. It didn’t go well for Snoop.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 01:40 AM
8

In my early 20s? I was so deeply insecure that I pretty much sabotaged all my relationships, since I had self-esteem issues coupled with imposter syndrome at being a white collar professional (and dating other professionals) after being brought up solidly lower/working class. What changed? Therapy. Lots of therapy. Once I got rid of the deep insecurity my next relationships went much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 11:43 PM
2

Can’t trick me, those machines are always broken.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 11:35 PM
3

Context? Actually, on second thought, knowing that will inevitably make me sadder about myself, the Earth, and humanity in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 11:29 PM
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Several of us said he was attractive. It just feels like all those opinions were ignored. In any event, he had polarizing facial hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 11:27 PM
2

User name clued me in.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 11:24 PM
1

The most honest post I saw was some guy saying "yeah, using RP techniques to land a BP relationship is bullshit," and all the men (with one exception) ripped into him. But it's true that RP seems to be about making yourself into the man your Ideal Girl wants to fuck right away but somehow squaring this with the fact that if this happens, your Ideal Girl has probably fucked a lot of others right away, which means she's not really your ideal girlfriend, she's a plate. It seems LTRs are incompatibl…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 07:07 PM
3

Nope. Later it says she does the "bear minimum." Deep roleplay kink here.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 05:49 PM
1

Valid. All I’m saying is we call our high-functioning alcoholism “neat.”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 06:58 AM
1

“Why is it…” Andy Rooney wants his schtick back.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 06:06 AM
1

Why dilute good bourbon with ice?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 02:03 AM
1

Come on. You know you are distinctive. This is part of your persona.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 01:00 AM
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Me. And unkill and razormachine, by the looks of the last thread. Edit: and Bandit. I may get a block if I start simping for Sanders again. Double edit: the downvotes are alive and well though
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 12:09 AM
0

Bad raccoon! (A bot, I think; I blocked “her”…I’m just surprised it took this long)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 11:14 PM
1

I finally got someone trying to get me to subscribe to her OF.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 11:02 PM
3

This will probably get deleted. However, not before I learned there was a sub called "friendzone cucks."
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 09:03 PM
11

Or at the bookstore or library, or at a cooking class or at the park or yoga studio or volunteering reading to kids or wherever. But that also presents the problem I mentioned in paragraph 1 -- you have to encounter them at just the right time. Some men base their ideas of "all women" off Instagram and Tinder, though. It's nothing new, though...in my day there were some men who based their ideas of "all women" off those in the club. Some women did it too, talking about how all guys wanted was se…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 07:32 PM
2

Yes, but I don't think every woman who starts using OLD (as it becomes ubiquitous) will immediately turn into a promiscuous person, even if some will...some women will just use them for LTRs.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 07:26 PM
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I know libfem hos who are secretly pickmeishas, and I know some who really don't care about the guys they fuck. It's going to be extremely subjective. I don't fall into these categories but I'm not FDS by any stretch. I do agree with some of their points about boundaries, but I'm not a fan of shit-testing or some of the things that automatically signal a "LVM" (like him being a loner in high school). I don't think categorizing people obsessively and cutting them no slack is a great way to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 07:19 PM
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Red pill has advice about "spinning plates." That is to say, a man should sleep with several women on a rotation (usually without them knowing about each other) but not commit to them or do relationship things with them. The idea is to have an abundance mentality (where you aren't chasing one woman because you fear having nobody, or you're overly thirsty for sex so you'll do whatever she wants). You could have this mentality without the women, but I guess it's less fun. Men on here who are sleep…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 05:58 PM
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Finally, a place where my age won't be used against me. For sure OLD has changed body counts. I wouldn't say Hinge alone, but Tinder and others too. Think about it: before OLD, you only physically encountered X people a day. You spent most of your time at work or sleeping, so how many new people were you really meeting? And how many of them were single? And how many of those singles were about your age and attractive? It was a crapshoot. Now, you have an entire menu of verified single people in …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 05:50 PM
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"And IF scientific research isn’t enough, why do the trampy people always seem to try and get with those who have a very modest sexual history?" Are you talking about men or women here? Because on here the plate-spinners are always talking about how they want virgins or women with a body count of, like, 3 max. I think most of it is self-selecting. I was pretty conservative sexually and most of my partners were more or less aligned that way because the ones who weren't were not interested in me a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 05:22 PM
2

Well, I wasn't expecting an ecumenical council to pop up in the middle of a sex sub, but I'm here for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 04:28 PM
3

He obviously broke up with you because he knew you resented him for not being tall and he could tell. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 03:49 PM
2

There is a whole sub about this. And no, it seems deeply, deeply unhealthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 06:12 AM
1

I’m not dissing it. God knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 03:30 AM
2

When all you have is a hammer, everything looks like penis envy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 02:06 AM
2

My mom's ho phase is none of your business.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 02:05 AM
1

2 bottles of jameson Perhaps a man of culture I see
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 02:04 AM
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I was really shy too, trying to please, always smiling...it doesn't matter when people have their dander up, though. Sometimes people are just spoiling for a fight, especially people who spent their day getting yelled at by their own boss.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 01:51 AM
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I hope you find a better partner. I really do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 12:41 AM
2

In high school I got paid minimum wage to get yelled at by ass-clowns who were mad we were out of nachos or that they had to wait more than 3 minutes for their table. If there was $800 or $1,000 in it for sitting through an hour or two with just these two outrage merchants...sure. It's just theater.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 12:40 AM
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so these girls are hot women who are getting free marketing? winner winner Be hot Go on a show with a target audience of mostly thirsty dudes having trouble with women The audience is too busy jerking it to listen to you, so who cares what the two clowns are saying? ???? Profit
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 12:25 AM
2

He's got an average dick and the crowd went wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 12:20 AM
3

I'm glad for that. I just hate to read of someone feeling awful like that and not feeling like he can do better, or deserves this treatment or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 12:16 AM
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Based on your user name...well, everyone on this sub hates the "seek therapy" line, but sir, I really think you might benefit from it. This sounds masochistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 11:45 PM
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Masochism kink? I mean, the user name alone...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 11:43 PM
3

I would have burned Leviticus with fire, but weirdly enough nobody asked me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 11:38 PM
1

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/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 10:55 PM
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By setting yourself as a focal point around which her life retroactively had to revolve, years before you even met. By somehow turning a positive (being discerning and choosing decent partners) into a negative (good partners mean I can’t measure up). I admit I’m speaking of relationships and not ONS here, but the OP was about relationships as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 10:27 PM
0

That’s immediately where my mind went.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 10:22 PM
1

Someone said OP is young. This makes sense. This is a very common feeling to have when you are in your teens and early 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 09:47 PM
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Interesting. I thought it was just a guy who liked as much casual as possible, but that didn't necessarily mean the women wanted more, just that he didn't really care what they wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 09:39 PM
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I don't think fuckboys are serial daters. Fuckboys don't care about the thrill of the chase; they want to get laid. They don't care if a woman likes them, falls for them, is won over. In fact, the less chasing the better, probably. And the fewer feelings she has for him, the better. The equivalent might be a woman who just wants free dinners but doesn't care about the guy who's providing them. In fact, the less conversation the better, all the quicker to eat. Better he not even like you so you d…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 08:23 PM
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I guess I'd find it weird to marry a guy I was having mediocre sex with. There are plenty of guys out there who are great at it (it's not some limited resource only a select few have); I feel like ranking them is splitting hairs a bit. But you can drive yourself crazy at the competition game. One of my husband's exes has a doctorate. I can say "I'll get one too!" in order to be "the best", or I can break up with him because I'll never measure up to her intellectually, or I could make an exhausti…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 07:01 PM
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I think casual sex can have a detrimental effect sometimes. The feeling of unfinished business being one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 06:30 PM
2

Gimpgirl has one up now. Of course, being gimpgirl it's about whores, but it's still up there.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 05:45 PM
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This is understandable. However, what is "the best"? Do you care only about looks? Sex? Money? Or do you have to be the best in everything? Also, it sets up a strange situation where if a woman dates a guy who, say, is very handsome, and after a year they break up...does she simply just not date anyone else? Only date men who are as handsome or more so than the previous guy? It's kind of a "climb up on that funeral pyre" type of situation here. Like women are being punished for relationships wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 05:38 PM
1

Without getting specific, I'm...narrow/small. Just how my muscle structure is. Doctor's even discussed it with me. Not like deformed, just on the tighter end of normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 05:13 PM
5

Social media tends to push this generally as well. Even in your social/economic/looksmatch circle, you see carefully curated photos of people and their adorable kids baking together in a tidy kitchen, while you just had a shouting match with your kid who won't clean his room, and dinner is burning while you try to scrub cat puke out of the rug. You tend to think everyone else has it better. Look at all these great lives going on around you. So why can't you get some of that? I'm really glad I wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 04:59 PM
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In the past your dating was limited to your friend/family circles, neighborhood, professional circles and maybe some activities you joined. So you naturally paired off with people in your general realm. You could be a teacher who married a doctor, but generally teachers didn’t marry millionaires unless they moonlighted as super high-end escorts or something. Most people seemed to pair off with people about their income level. I think to restore balance you’d need to get rid of online dating (or …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 03:55 PM
6

FDS with its small membership isn’t really representative regular women. I don’t think TRP is really representative of all men either.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 03:39 PM
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Are the 233,000 women on FDS all women in America, the UK, etc? FDS is a fringe group.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 03:25 PM
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I came from a chaotic background. My mother wanted excitement. Didn’t end well. So I definitely did not want excitement. I didn’t want anyone super boring; someone who could discuss different things, was interested in the world outside his job, was up for traveling sometimes…that was it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 03:17 PM
4

Men have to post under auto mod. In q4men the women have to post under auto mod.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 03:14 PM
4

I don’t get how I’m being creepy. I put the term in quotes to say that a guy sitting alone in a park might be seen as creepy or noteworthy by some people, but nobody would look twice at a man-woman couple. Lone guys are sometimes treated with more suspicion. Women face it too, to a lesser extent. Eating out alone or at the movies alone and you’re looked at a bit differently by some.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 06:45 AM
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OP, that’s … a whole lot of drugs. Please be careful.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 06:16 AM
2

After the umpteenth iteration of "if a man doesn't want a relationship with you, woman, it's because you're too ugly and your personality sucks or you're just not good enough," I have very little sympathy for this idea that if a woman doesn't want a relationship with a guy, it's really not his fault, it's nothing to do with him, he's a victim of society/older women/prudishness.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 03:47 AM
1

I'm reading that now. It's pretty good.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 01:57 AM
1

That happens sometimes (Fringilla is supposed to look a little like Yennefer, so making her black is ignoring that book plot point; likewise, making Jaime and Cersei Asian would have nuked the central plot of Game of Thrones), but others it's not that intrusive. I guess with fantasy it's easy to think there can be a lot of variation that is just how that world is, without needing to make it fit Earth's schematics. More problematic is wanting to create a morally perfect world in fantasy TV (or an…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 01:27 AM
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I think it's more pragmatic than that. Amazon, Netflix, etc. are not just for European/North American consumers anymore. They are global brands. Maybe 10 years ago you pandered to Europe and the Anglosphere, but not really anymore. Most of the global audience is outside these places. And even within these places, you can't just ignore large groups of people. I don't want to break board rules, so I'll just leave it there. But I have not felt my thread of continuity being snapped by any of the cha…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 01:09 AM
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GG is my favorite though. She’s neither of the above. She’s just rocking out to her own drum which I absolutely don’t relate to but I admire her steadfastness and quirky photos. This is the most diplomatic wording I've seen since my university had to state why they were parting ways with the chancellor.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 11:42 PM
2

The premise didn't appeal to me at all...but obviously it did to a lot of women. (I actually did see a Dateline episode about a sex dungeon; it was funny because they had mood shots of some kinky Medieval Times-esque BDSM setup, but when they panned to the real thing it was like a mattress on a dirty floor with some rope and chains nearby)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 11:34 PM
2

Don't even like big dicks, so that one's easy. If I had to pick something from the rest: height. Most BFs were probably under 6 feet, but I'm a shorty.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 11:25 PM
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This is normal. There is still a lot of social capital tied up in marriage/kids, especially for more ambitious guys. Even for non-ambitious guys a single guy who "seems creepy" when sitting alone in the park is background scenery if he's got a woman with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 11:11 PM
3

It's not that strange to be 22 and a virgin. I'm sure it's not a happy thing, and you want sex, which is normal. But you're not some oddity. It's OK. I'm not sure what to say because everything I say can (will) be dismissed as outlier or lying by other posters. There are women who aren't size queens. There are women who'll be patient with you if you tell them you don't have experience. Some might like the idea of being a teacher. You're not that old. If this gives you a ton of anxiety, I'd look …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 11:00 PM
1

Nah, she was in it with Bandit (and one of the more moderate dudes, forget his name) recently. I think people have blocked her, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 10:44 PM
2

Same. The thought of having sex with someone I’m not attracted to is gross. I’d rather do something I like instead. Read. Go climbing. Eat an ice cream cone.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 10:02 PM
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It's not about being hot, it's just about having boundaries. Women of any level of attractiveness can have those.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 09:43 PM
0

Yea you can shit on him for only being able to get unattractive women, but guess what, if he wasn't working to stay fit, then he wouldn't be getting any women let along ones that aren't that attractive. OK, fair enough. I guess I wonder why you'd even want to have sex with someone you weren't attracted to (how could it even be enjoyable?), but this is where I realize I'm different from ... probably a lot of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 09:42 PM
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But what's the point of being attractive if you aren't fucking attractive people? How long can a guy retain his high value if he's consistently sleeping with women much less attractive than he is? No, I don't think getting fucked and ghosted is a good deal. That's why I didn't have casual sex. However, I can't presume to know what the women having it are feeling (do they want a relationship? did they just want to have sex?). If all they wanted was to get laid, well...the deal was favorable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 09:31 PM
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I was never into casual sex. But other people are, which is fine. I'm not judging them. I'm also married now (although when you post this into usually at least 3 guys on here respond telling you to make an OnlyFans anyway).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 09:25 PM
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This argument (in OP) never makes any sense because you're asking the women who are getting the better end of the deal to stop the deal that's beneficial to them, whereas the men (who, it is always put forth, are getting a worse deal) are never asked to stop accepting a bad deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 09:19 PM
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Am average. Am not a slut. :-(
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 09:16 PM
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But if hot men keep sleeping with them, their expectations will remain high because they're being validated.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 09:15 PM
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Ummm...okay? So ugly women who hook up with fit guys are the joke, not the fit guys who went through all that trouble to get fit only to hook up with ugly women?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 09:04 PM
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Exactly; you see social media posts about stuff like this and it's the men who are all "every boy's dream!" I rarely see any women giving an "attaboy" or saying "he's a boy; obviously he wanted it." Having a son I'm pretty concerned that society STILL seems to find underage boys unable to be victims because "boys want it all the time." However, I don't think men help their case by acting like "men will fuck anything" or "men always want sex."
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 08:41 PM
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I do too, but teens generally find "older" men who are like, mid/late 20s to be hot. I never got shamed for any age gap relationship; the only time I *was* made to feel bad was by a 40-year-old who asked me on a date when I was 22, and then got mad and called me a prude when I said I thought he was a little old for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 08:25 PM
2

The DENNIS system?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 07:33 PM
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This sounds like that other one where the woman got mad once she figured out her fuck buddy had a girlfriend he was taking to Iceland.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 07:33 PM
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I do get where you’re coming from. Fifty Shades of Grey only works if the guy’s rich and hot (or at the least very rich). Otherwise it’s a “Dateline” episode.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 07:18 PM
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I never got any flak about mine with older guys. They weren’t predatory relationships either. But the age gap did make physical attraction less, that’s all. It’s when men pretend that the only reason they can’t pull 20-year-olds at 45 is “society” that it gets problematic. Adults can sleep with other adults; but if a young woman doesn’t want to sleep with a guy 20 years older than she is, it’s probably due to lack of attraction, not shaming or anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 07:15 PM
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This poster has had a thing about age gaps lately. It’s kind of like in magazines where they keep trying to find new angles for older stories. This time it’s Puritanism.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 04:17 PM
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I’m sex-positive and think adults can fuck whoever they want. But I think men vastly overestimate their attractiveness to young women. Then, when barely legal women don’t respond enthusiastically to the prospect of their 40-year-old dicks they blame older women for “shaming” the teenagers into not fucking them. Because obviously the girls would be riding them 4 times a day into the sunset if it weren’t for pesky older women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 04:11 PM
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You seem to have a thing about age gaps. You are free to date much younger women. Nobody is stopping you. People will probably think you’re being used for your money, but this isn’t unique to America. You think in Vietnam when people see an 18-year-old woman with a fat 60-year-old white guy they aren’t clocking the nature of that relationship? They look at it and see true love? You’re free to date an 18-year-old if she will have you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 04:07 PM
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Even Paul Rudd was for me the stepbrother from Clueless, which I saw when I was 17 and I think he was supposed to be college-age in it, so he was kind of "my age." Keanu was in Bill and Ted when I was in middle school, so again, in theory not much older than I was. I think women are attracted to men who are "men" and mature, like mid/late 20s. Grown men are more attractive in many ways than teenage boys, even to teenage girls. That said, men tend to way overshoot the "hot grown man" window; a 16…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 12:14 AM
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I say Brad Pitt is hot. But my intro to Brad Pitt came in a movie theater in 1992 when my mom took me to see the fly fishing movie, and then later when I saw Legends of the Fall in high school. He was like 26 then. Ask a 25-year-old of today who only saw him in Inglorious Basterds or some other movie where he's over 45 and they'll probably not think he's hot. In the same way, I didn't think Paul Newman and Robert Redford were hot when I was young, even though women my mom's age (who were still 2…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 10:59 PM
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I read part of this and it’s interesting, but “universally sexy” is often a very concerted marketing campaign to appeal to a very specific consumer demographic — women in their 20s to their 50s. Who’s reading People magazine? Or those supermarket tabloids/US Weekly etc? Mostly middle-aged women or people at the doctor’s office. And a lot of guys you mentioned — Will Smith, Jared Leto, Keanu, Robert Downey Jr, Brad Pitt, Clooney, Leo — they were all hot and popular when they were young. And proba…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 10:26 PM
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5 I don't know. I think I'm average.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 09:45 PM
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Nah, she still gets into it with a few people. She'll be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 09:20 PM
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It's likely cheating occurred. People don't usually leave a relationship for just a chance at one; they want that other person locked down first.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:57 PM
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I feel like all the "I got blocked" discussions are like a game of Dodgeball, where we look around and see who's left standing. Sometimes I'm surprised I wasn't blocked by people I still see, tbh. And while I find Lilith OK, I have noticed there are almost no replies on her posts lately.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:51 PM
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That's...weird. Like, who would say that? However, often when people say they met someone and it made them question their commitment to you, they've already slept with that person but are either trying to spare your feelings or making themselves look like the moral/bigger person (if only to themselves).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:44 PM
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Oh, I have plenty of issues. In fact, needing an emotional connection for sex is one of them. It was just something I always knew. And what you described for guys goes for women too: some men say women who aren't open to casual (or first-date sex at least) are not worth it (they're believed to be low libido or too prudish/uptight). I think other posters have it: people who aren't into casual are only less attractive to people who are. It's finding those who aren't that is harder. But I will admi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:12 PM
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This seems like a weird CMV because it's hard to argue against men having friends and being kind to each other. Men should be able to have deeper friendships with each other without it being seen as weird or gay. I'm sure some guys get married just because it's more socially acceptable to have female companionship in a marriage vs. male companionship.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:00 PM
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No, we just read the Tinder Swindler thread where nearly all the men said "How could these rather attractive Nordic blonde rich women fall for something so dumb? Like some cute, rich brown guy would be on Tinder and wanting to date them! How delusional!" Now all of a sudden it's "Oh, she's hot and rich and you live with your parents and have no friends? She's totally into you because you're white." Also on the Tinder thread men were repeatedly saying guys were victims of scams 10 times more ofte…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 07:18 PM
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I'm sorry. You'd think with autism recognition people would be better and kinder with others who have these issues. She's a jerk.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 07:05 PM
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No; being not interested in casual I was only interested in guys who wanted something more. I get accused of lying or larping for saying it, but since you asked it as a personal type of question, there’s the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 07:00 PM
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OK. This does sound a bit like something shady. Meet her in public first, at least, just for coffee/snack and don't go anywhere alone with her. It's possible you met someone genuine; however, I'd really be on my guard about this. Hot rich women generally don't ask men to have sex with them without having met them...but I also don't want to assume you're unattractive. I guess the level of escalation is suspicious; most attractive women would just want to meet for coffee or something first, even w…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 05:20 PM
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This is also a big possibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 05:07 PM
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There are some key pieces of info missing. I'm guessing you're also in India? How old are you (you don't have to give an exact number; I was just wondering if you were 18 or an adult yet)? Also, are you sure your parents would be concerned about you leaving, and not relieved (as in, have they said they want you to make friends, or are they more fearful and want to keep you close by at home?)? Have you been on a date before? I guess it's unclear what exactly the problem is...whether it's anxiety …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 05:00 PM
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Oh, boy. Is there ever a male cardinal-colored sidebar out there for you...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 04:46 PM
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Yes, people on this sub tend to be young and think life will always be the same as it is at 23. But the older you get, the more of your friends marry, the more responsibility you get at work…everything changes. And if you want kids as a guy there is still a clock running, since women don’t generally want to start having kids with a 50-year-old.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 04:10 PM
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I didn’t use it but I remember reading stories of companies paying employees to create accounts and go on dates with people who paid for features so they could fulfill their “we guarantee 3 dates a month” or whatever it was. I think match and a few other services did that. It made me pretty wary of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 04:00 PM
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I did know one who was a former player who hit the wall and started looking for a relationship. He stopped doing casual and started getting serious because he wanted kids and a wife he could take home to mom (well, mom was in Russia, so more like a wife who wouldn’t mind mom visiting for long periods). I think some men do settle down and stop seeking casual but it’s not due entirely to finding the right woman; it’s due to other factors (maybe getting promoted at work and needing to fit in with a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 03:15 PM
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He is not aging that well, tbh. Marisa Tomei looks hotter at 57 than he does at 47. George Clooney and Brad Pitt aged really well, so did Paul Newman and Robert Redford, but they were hot in their 20s and 30s. Is Leo good-looking for a guy in his late 40s? Sure. Is he good-looking enough that with no money and no star power he'd be getting hot 21-year-olds? Highly doubtful.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 12:39 AM
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Nobody has ever argued this doesn’t happen. What is up for debate is the likelihood of it happening. Maybe a guy will be among those 2.6% of marriages that involve a woman 15+ years younger than he is. Could happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 09:28 PM
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We won’t know for a while. I think in 15 years, when those young guys hit 35/40 and look around for the 18-year-olds who were supposed to be horny for their resources and aged-like-wine appearance…that’s when we will know. It’s possible they’ll be vindicated. I tend to think it’s a big grift and the big grifters will be cashed out by then, but we will see.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 09:03 PM
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RP man is about as subjective a category as "chad."
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 06:17 PM
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Yeah, guys who self-identify as red pill are everything from straight-up blackpill to MGTOW to PUA to tradcons. Then we just play No True Scotsman 24/7 as every RP guy claims some other RP guy he doesn't agree with isn't actually RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 06:12 PM
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Well, Kim Jong-Il had tens of thousands of Hollywood movies in his house and loved Hennessy. The rules are always just for the little people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 05:22 PM
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Lots of anti-West tradguys will send their daughters to London or NY or Paris for an education. Where I am in CA it tends to be the sons who get sent here so they can drive around in expensive cars and pick up blonde co-eds.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 05:12 PM
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YouTube will fuck with you like that. But their algorithm pushes increasingly extreme content on you, it's just how they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 04:58 PM
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The woman from Norway. She was cute. She also seemed to have some money at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 03:30 PM
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The woman from Norway. She was cute. She also seemed to have some money at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 03:30 PM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 03:20 AM
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That's been discussed on here -- usually the idea is attractive people tend to be nicer or maybe less bitter because the world is nicer in general to them. However, I've had a lot of disagreement with guys on here about the gender-flipped version of this (the idea that every homely guy has a heart of gold but is overlooked in favor of hot dickwads). For both sexes, attributing kindness to less attractive people is a fallacy, although I don't think it's a stretch to say that if someone is unattra…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 12:26 AM
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Yeah, in New York I had this BF who was from Mexico (born there but grew up in TX) who was a lawyer, which is not at all what people tend to think. He wore sweater vests and had glasses.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 12:18 AM
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I know people MY age (old as the hills) who met on match.com in like 2004. Back in 2001/2002 I dated a guy who worked at match, and he kept saying online dating was the future. I thought journalism was the future. Guess which one of us is living in Pacific Heights in a huge house and owns a cottage in Switzerland?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 09:39 PM
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Tinder Swindler I bet that company (and AmEx) is hopping mad right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 09:21 PM
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Yeah. If you dated someone who was 5'8" you are obviously ugly and nobody should listen to you. If you dated someone who was 6'2" you are obviously lying and nobody should listen to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 09:17 PM
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Sometimes it's black, too (if the guy himself doing the questioning is white), since there's a lot going on with that stereotype. Basically, you can find a reason for any ethnicity that's not your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 09:16 PM
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And this is a 25-year-old person? Without a mental disability? Adults should not be acting this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 09:02 PM
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There are a bunch, but there are quite a few over-50 married guys too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 08:13 PM
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My very first question was “why couldn’t his billionaire dad give him money?”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 07:48 PM
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I've seen that people will dig and dig to find that one immutable trait that explains their lack of success. Literally, a woman says "my BF is short" then it becomes "is his cock huge?" and if it's average then it's "is he white [or insert race here]" etc. on down the line until "aha! It's his strong jaw" or something. I understand this because this is the sort of shit I would do to justify not making efforts to do things (not dating per se, but even just meeting people after moving to a new pla…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 07:26 PM
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If it's who I think it is...her stories stand out because it sounds like guys feed her lines a lot. Like, a whole lot. And she kind of...falls for them? I don't know how to word this without coming off like a jerk, but I hope she gets better at boundaries and skepticism.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 07:05 PM
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They are. I thought she was younger than 30, though. Because I thought there was some 40-year-old who liked her and it was a 15-year age difference or something (not that 10 years is that much less, but it's less ... outsized, at least). The fact that I know this makes me feel pretty bad about what I've been doing while I'm supposed to be listening in on work zoom meetings that don't involve me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 07:01 PM
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It's basically just a True Crime show. Mixed with one of those FBI PSAs about how to not give all your money to scammers.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 06:53 PM
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Have fun. I was in disbelief from the words "private jet" but some people...are naive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 06:53 PM
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Wait...I thought she was 26? Is it the same woman who posts here? edit: oh god, I wonder if I told her to go to a climbing gym to meet guys...don't I feel bad now...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 06:50 PM
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Ha. It's true. If some hot guy who said he was a diamond heir talked to me and asked me to fly on a private jet to Paris for the weekend, I would assume he's an axe murderer.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 06:27 PM
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I only have 1 kid. I remember reading a (humor) parenting book and it said something like "People with more than 1 kid will try to guilt you into having more because they will have realized you have only half-ruined your life." It was funny but a little true (although we stopped at one for other reasons).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 06:25 PM
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They do. I think happiness dips when the kids are young (like ages 3-11), then trends back upward again as they gain independence.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 06:12 PM
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I'm not trying to be Team Childfree. There are benefits. It's just that society has amplified the idyllic nature of parenthood, how joyful and wonderful it's supposed to be, and if it's not you're doing it wrong. Social media's made it worse. Friend of mine was always bragging about her daughter spelling words on the fridge magnets at age 3. Baking cookies all by herself at 5. Etc. She wrote us all a long email recently about how she's getting divorced. And I'm not throwing shade, it's just you …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 06:11 PM
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Probably. Unfortunately, having a kid is one of those things you absolutely can't plan your way into. I imagine very, very few parents are exactly the parents they *thought* they'd be before having kids. But they definitely place a good deal of stress on a marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 05:58 PM
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I thought it was odd. Watching it, I thought the Norwegian girl was quite pretty and obviously had at least a decent job, or some amount of money. She could have found an attractive man with some money quite easily. The woman from Sweden either wasn't romantic with him or we just didn't hear if she was, so that was odd too (if they really were just friends).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 05:31 PM
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It's a cliche, but you just learn as you get older. I am on here but don't have social media, no fb, no Instagram (I've never even been on TikTok) etc. When you have a kid, you need to get off socials for your own sanity. Someone's adorably tousled daughter with a cute bit of flour on her nose as she helps her mother make muffins while your kid is trying to dive headfirst off the couch and the dried pasta (served with jarred sauce which you apologetically added some fresh red bell pepper to to f…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 05:19 PM
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I have, but for every good-looking straight guy there seem to be at least 3 hot women. It’s a city full of female-centric professions, many of which happen to require good looks, like acting, PR/marketing, dance, modeling, publishing/magazines, etc. And lots of gay men. The numbers really are skewed. I think it’s 1.3 women per man, not factoring in gay men or lesbians (and there are more gay men than lesbians).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 03:56 PM
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I think a lot of people here are young. Absolutism is more prevalent among the young. One thing I find interesting is men getting mad at women for “wanting a Disney princess fairytale” with romance and sex with a hot guy, but then they will also go on to rip women in those advice threads apart for not having sex with their 15-years’ husband for 2 months during some stressful period. The real Disney fantasy is happily ever after, where the two never age or face stress or anything else that alters…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 03:45 PM
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Married over 10 years. I’ll just say that children can add a lot of stress to a marriage. A whole lot. Some is bad. Some of it makes you feel like a true partnership. It’s complicated. The romance part will wax and wane. But it would take a lot for me to divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 03:18 PM
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Yes, the research has indicated women who cheat tend to leave; men who cheat tend to stay (but often end up divorced once the wife finds out). Men are more often the cake-eaters.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 03:10 PM
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Not sure how to discuss this without spoilers so here goes. I can’t believe they gave him all that money. Made me lucky to grow up around liars, thieves, addicts, and assholes, I guess, because the only person I’d let on my card is my husband. I didn’t think the one girl overinflated herself; she was quite pretty and could have found another equally hot guy on there. I was curious about the news stories — did he make up a whole news site to write fake stories?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 02:56 PM
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Exactly. Those who have it either don’t need to worry or don’t need to be told.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 03:19 AM
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They care about look first, but looks (ie, obesity) is strongly correlated to socioeconomic background. So you’re already on auto-filter where the hot women are at least middle class. How many hot IHOP waitresses are there? How many hot nursing home caregivers? People are hot because of their income and background. Poor women who work hard in school and get an OK job can make the leap to middle class but the actually poor are out of sight to the rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 02:46 AM
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Rich people tend to be hotter and don’t need to game others into wanting them. They also have more options. One thing that we tiptoe around here about is the correlation between class and looks. Obesity is concentrated among the poor. When guys try the flex “we don’t care about your career” it’s kind of ridiculous because their looks threshold can probably only be met by MC or UMC women. I don’t even really get FDS and their vetting, but it seems like they want rich guys, but rich women don’t ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 02:20 AM
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No, I think they're a US thing. They're owned by Williams Sonoma as a high-end version of their Pottery Barn brand. They're expensive enough to be "exclusive" but bland enough to be palatable to many people.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 11:12 PM
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He was playing in a market with an extremely skewed ratio of straight men to women. Chad-ness also comes from context. An Alaskan town full of hot lumberjack types, well, yeah, he'd be meh. NYC? No, he was pretty hot for NYC, or he would have been if he shaved that stupid moustache off, but some women are into them I guess, and until we can keep those women off the Internet stupid ironic facial hair will continue.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 11:11 PM
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It's a highish-end furniture store. I only know it from them buying my name from someone else and sending me catalogues.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 11:05 PM
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There are men here who rail against a just world fallacy when it comes to the topic of not getting laid, but then resort to it when describing the women here (women on here obviously must be unhappy, fat, married to an ugly guy, lonely, and/or depressed, because we can’t have a world where she isn’t being punished for her opinions).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 04:49 PM
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I mean, yes and no. The kid thinks he or she is middle class but still expects stuff. Like a big house. Nice car. Nice public or a private school. I am not trying to hate, just saying expectations are high.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:51 AM
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100%
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 12:52 AM
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I've noticed people, at least in the US, tend to self-identify as middle class a lot--my metalworker dad does, so does my ex-boyfriend, who's a surgeon (now married to another doctor). People who grow up in a double-income household where both parents were professionals tend to think they're solidly middle class and thus "average." Edit: the point is that most upper middle class people see themselves as "average" even if they aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 11:40 PM
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He probably would've looked good without that stupid moustache. I can't really see past it, unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 11:07 PM
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Feels very fake. For one thing, why bring a woman to a steakhouse if you don't want her to eat a steak? Unless you want to assholemaxx on the first date. The bitcoin felt like it was to round out the stereotype.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 08:50 PM
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People already eat placentas. So this would be a step up.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 08:30 PM
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Not really. When it gets to personal insults I just drop out and ignore, maybe block.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 08:29 PM
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I get the point, but I'm not sure what women as a whole are supposed to do about women opening OF accounts. It's the same energy as when guys try to make other guys stop simping by claiming it's making things worse for all men. It's just...you can only control your own behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 12:21 AM
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The one where they were all (save Dorothy) widows whose long-term husbands died before they did? That happens anyway. Most women outlive men. It wasn't a dumpy house. It was a fairly spacious home in Miami. Edit: now that I think about it, Rose was a virgin at marriage, Blanche was a happy slut who still married a really rich guy, Dorothy saved her virginity for her putz husband who cheated on her, and Sophia was a tradwife. Kind of the opposite of SATC (which I hated, btw).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 12:05 AM
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Yeah, I think there are OF women for every fetish. I'd bet everything I have there are a few 600-pound women killing it on OF. Amputees. Dwarves. You name it, there's a bunch of dudes horny for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 11:44 PM
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True. That's why I avoid discussing my current relationship. Former ones are OK to take heat about. I was a moronic doormat for dating my college boyfriend. I'll own that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 07:56 PM
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Favorites: Intelligence and kindness Least favorite: Messiness and apathy. For the latter one, it's not all the time or even a lot of the time, just when it happens it's pretty pronounced.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 07:54 PM
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In Amish Country you could get a soft harem with a good chow-chow recipe.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 07:40 PM
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Or too personal. A guy can call me fat and dumb or a liar, and I can roll my eyes at it because I know the truth. If someone insults my kid, however, or taps into fears I have about being a mother, then that's a lot worse. It was probably the latter for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 07:37 PM
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Unless you make day care affordable or free, you are going to have situations where it’s more financially advantageous for women to stay home with kids for a few years. Even when it’s not a financial drain, there are many reasons couples (not just women) decide to have the mother stay home to care for the children. You can’t just pop right back into your old job 6 years after the fact. So under this set of circumstances, a woman will not have the option to stay home. Because if she does, her par…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 07:28 PM
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If you are a man who wants children, good luck getting any woman at all to sign on to those terms and conditions. I don't get why men on this sub are obsessed with population implosion on the one hand and also want to make it as financially disadvantageous as possible for women to have children on the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 06:24 PM
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Someone needs to put on a duster and go stand outside CimZim's window with a boom box.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 06:00 PM
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There was one weird exchange about cheaters where a guy said that even if she doesn't know her boyfriend is cheating, a woman will stay with him because she is attracted to a man desired by other women and can subconsciously pick up that other women are after him.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 05:16 PM
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No Vol-loving, bbq-munching good American wants to copy some vegan europoor.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 04:13 PM
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The bottom pic is Tennessee burning books recently. Tennessee is ... not known for being open-minded. I lived there a long time. This will be the least shocking thing I see this year.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 04:10 PM
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Good ole Rocky Top! Whoo!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 03:56 PM
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It's Tennessee reverting to form.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 03:54 PM
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It's going to depend on the situation. Some people part because of a big betrayal or several betrayals, or lying, or because the person had anger issues. In that case, why would I want to be friends with someone whose character isn't great? Some people part because of more general incompatibility that's not anyone's fault, it's just misalignment for romantic partners but OK for friends. However, I'm of the opinion that you need at least a year, ideally more, of no contact in order to figure out …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 09:30 PM
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That’s what we had too, a few hours once a week, when I was in school. In middle school they had honors classes, which continued in high school. We didn’t have a special school. But school districts vary. For us now, we opted to have him do one morning a week of special stuff but stay in his normal school. To be honest, the proliferation of magnet and charter schools takes away a lot of the arguments against gifted schools just because people are already sorting and filtering their kids into art…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 07:47 PM
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They've developed standardized tests. Some kids don't test well, and in those instances they might test IQ to see if it's just a question of not testing well. There's also teacher discretion -- if the teacher believes strongly enough that a kid is exceptional but it's not coming through in standardized metrics like testing and IQ, the teacher can sometimes make a strong case for the kid to be placed in a gifted program. I'm not a psychologist, teacher, or administrator so I can't really say if t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 06:45 PM
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The OP doesn't mention them, but most schools have other tests, not just IQ alone, for gifted placement. And they run them every year, it's not like if you don't test well at 7 you've missed your chance forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 06:26 PM
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I'm used to men going out of their way to get offended, but this is a new one.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 06:21 PM
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My kid's the same (just tested as well!). I'm also going through the same questions. Gifted programs tend to have smaller classes, which is a huge plus. Also, I've noticed when my kid is bored he acts out in class more. They started giving him higher-level stuff in class and it's been better. That said, a separate school entirely would be sectioning him off with a group of very similar people, which might have detrimental effects on his mindset/socialization, all the ones you listed. Plus, extra…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 06:08 PM
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It lets people offload their problematic habits onto everyone else. "If I'm a mess it's because I haven't met 'the right one' yet; I'm not the problem, it's that everyone else failed to be good enough for me to bother shaping up." Guy is an alcoholic with a stressful job. "If I got this great other job in this exciting city I wouldn't drink anymore." He gets the job. How good are the odds he won't drink anymore? "If I had this great girlfriend I wouldn't cheat or fuck around anymore." Maybe he d…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:59 PM
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No, the laws have been around since the mid-1980s in some form. They actually accelerated in popularity in the 2000s. They were one of those think tank laws that some central PAC/interest group writes up the framework bill, then it's like Mad Libs where legislators in each state tailor the language to fit their state's laws. You can tell because usually the bills are introduced nearly simultaneously in about a dozen states. Defining "personhood" as including a fetus was a huge thing in the 2000s…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:43 PM
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I believe this depends on the state. Some states have "personhood" laws where you are charged with 2 counts of murder for a pregnant woman. Some do not. Unless it's been made federal law and I missed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:39 PM
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Part of it's the movies/media. Guy has meaningless, empty sex with lots of vapid women but something's missing. Cut to a scene of a hot blonde asleep in bed and him staring soulfully out the window. He's not "jaded," like women get when having sex with lots of guys. He's a "romantic" who simply hasn't found "the one." Then he spots that beautiful brunette reading a book (make it a semi-obscure author only truly literary people know about, like Paula Fox), at the coffee shop. She cares for her el…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:26 PM
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Often that is the gender-flipped AF/BB that men on here love to hate on. Fuckboy realizes he’s 30, wants to have a GF he can bring home to mom, a woman he can marry and have kids with, settle down. I don’t think he goes from full FOMO to a screeching halt because he found a smart, funny woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 04:06 PM
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Very true. Men hate when FDS has this mentality, and say they don’t want to be the dancing monkey.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 04:03 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 03:56 PM
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I read this thread and quietly shake my head at the men who insist the women on here are LARPers.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 02:26 AM
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"How does you implying that she isn't attractive going to do more than the look of disgust on Chad's face after he fucks her doggystyle with the lights out or when he doesn't call her back the next day?" Well, that's...highly specific. I agree we should stop expending so much energy on n-count and instead just stay away from people we think don't share our values.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 11:40 PM
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Female. I would have been ok with forever GF if I didn't want kids. But wanting them, no. It's legally cleaner and it also provides an extra health insurance cushion if one of you loses your job. I'm in the US. Also, there's a possibility of spouse working overseas, and marriage is easier in those situations too. I was raised in an unstable home, so having a stable home with a marriage was important to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 11:33 PM
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Organized labor helped. Back then my grandfather made enough as a carpenter to support his wife and 3 kids for 10 years in a 1,700-sq-foot house, but my grandmother did have to go back to work in a clerical job when the oldest was old enough to watch the others. In working-class families women often worked in some capacity, way before feminism. My great-grandmothers (the ones who weren’t farmers) worked in shops in the city in the 1920s. Mid-century US was a bit of an anomaly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 03:21 PM
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Don’t forget added to that the prenup, so you can look forward to renting a 2-BR in an exurb after he dumps you and the little ones to chase after some 23-year-old now that he’s “outgrown” his starter wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 06:34 AM
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That's good. Technical writing would be your safest bet. Content writing can be a little iffy because a chunk of it has been outsourced to...irony alert...places like the Philippines, India, Thailand, etc. And some of what remains is being done by depressed, overworked English majors working for like $4 per hour.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 08:14 PM
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learning freelance writing I hope you mean technical writing and not pitching articles to magazines/journalism...because if the latter, I have some bad news.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 07:57 PM
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This question gets asked like every week. You usually need financial cushion (proof of a job, saved income, etc) and other qualifications to move to another country. Even low-income countries have immigration control and requirements. It's also not nearly as easy as you think to get truly acclimated to a place, especially one so different that you'd be living well off a medium-sized salary. Could be even more isolating being there than home. (I agree with what the other poster said that if you j…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 07:53 PM
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This is...perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 07:31 PM
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None. It *should* align with tradcon gender roles, but it doesn't, really. Hard to say, though, cause RP guys run the gamut from pseudo-tradcon to MGTOW. Let's just say if you're a tradcon woman, you wouldn't be all that into a guy who wants you to sign a prenup, go half on dates, have sex quickly in the relationship, and go back to work soon after you have a kid, all of which have been views or expectations put out by RP men on this sub (and if you're tradcon you sure aren't going for MGTOW). A…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 07:27 PM
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They don't think we exist. Or we would go from kind of shy/cautious to girls gone wild if a guy who was hot enough showed up, and we haven't had a hot enough guy to activate our slutty on-switch. But we would if he arrived.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 05:46 PM
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That would be really disorienting, to have someone ask to kiss you out of nowhere. Our culture does do a bad job or portraying men as being open to sex with any woman, anytime. I think it's pretty horrible and damaging. I guess I think of catcalling as either whistling or yelling something (like what construction workers would yell to hot women walking by) with no expectation of a response. It's true cold approaches are hard; I don't envy guys. I guess I was thinking more like in a class, at a g…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 05:41 PM
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There are probably a few issues. In college and in STEM fields generally, you're going to have an overrepresentation of men. If you have a 65-35 male-female ratio at your engineering school, that's going to affect your odds of having a relationship; maybe that lack of experience will harm you in post-college dating, maybe not, but if you're in a school and then a professional field with few women, it's not a stretch to say you're going to have a harder time finding a girlfriend. Likewise, the op…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 05:27 PM
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The problem is you are a sexy old milf, I told lullll not to share those photos. I agree more stuff is indoors, especially with COVID. People socialize less in general. I don't think I could have hacked it, as I think online dating is horrible for a bunch of reasons, and I don't envy anyone doing it. But there are still tons of women who don't go online, and there are still women who aren't into hookup culture. "books weren't as addictive as video games" True. Although I spent an entire weekend …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 03:35 PM
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Did catcalling really ever work? Like, more than 0.1% of the time? Catcalling isn't even meant to be "pursuit." I'll be charitable and just say it's a passing remark on a woman's appearance. I highly doubt guys saying "great ass!" at a jogger actually expect the woman to smile, turn around and start flirting. I mean, men act like asking a woman what muffin flavor she'd recommend at the coffee shop will get them cuffed, but really it won't. And also, back in whatever period you're referencing, it…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 03:25 PM
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But plenty of men are "attractive to women" but not getting casual sex 3 times a week. There's a wide field between "completely unattractive, never gonna happen" and "mega-chad." Guys who date and have sex, like people have been doing since the 1970s. Ten partners, fifteen, five, whatever. She's talking about the guys who obsess over the fact a woman isn't fucking them 5 minutes after they meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 02:58 PM
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Because it was hosted by Mike Richards, who crashed and burned as the Jeopardy EP/host.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 02:40 PM
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AITA with a surprise twist — OP is being cucked by his own baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 06:40 AM
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Sorry! I didn't realize it was supposed to be fun. I'm on I of the DENNIS system: Inspire hope. Just like there are dudes of every...stature...so are there women to meet them. If I get into how I knew I was narrow, it'd probably put these guys off their dinner. Hm, which means no downside. I'll have to think of another.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 01:16 AM
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No, never. Because I'm a smaller than average woman (even been to the doc about it and had it confirmed) and average is OK but above average hurts. Width-wise, at least. People will give me shit about this I'm sure, but, eh.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 01:08 AM
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According to TRP, such miracles don't exist. What about his hair? His jaw? I know that's more blackpill, but immutable characteristics are scapegoated by many red-flaired guys on here, to the point I wonder if they've been absorbed by osmosis. Surely there is something immutable one could point to that would explain why he's succeeding and they're not. We can go to wrists if we have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 11:51 PM
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Being forgiven takes the fun out of it though
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 10:00 PM
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Only if you can bribe the police after someone gets drunk, slips and hits their head.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 09:59 PM
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You can read her post history for details, but she buys him prostitutes, so...I guess so? I guess it's more like a makeshift harem.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 09:44 PM
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uh dun wan it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 06:32 PM
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It is rich. It's like top 3%, I think. In what world isn't it rich? Statistically it's the top.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 06:31 PM
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I could see him saying, "You will always be my queen" as he bounces.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 06:06 PM
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Great job! That's a great accomplishment.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 06:03 PM
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Is going to the New York Post and BuzzFeed the real-world version of "Dracaris"?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 06:02 PM
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That answer was...surprisingly wholesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 05:43 PM
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I meant that when we are calculating the percentage of obese people in the US, I'm not sure there are enough muscular people being misclassified as obese for it to be skewing the numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 05:41 PM
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This is true, but I feel like we keep getting bogged down in "borderline" cases or outliers on the discussion. If you've lived somewhere like the US South, you're not seeing a ton of muscular people of West African or Pacific Island descent who are being classified wrongly due to physical variation. You're seeing 400-pound people on Ramblers at the Kroger. I could be wrong because I'm not her, but I'd be very surprised if Gabby Douglas is being told she's fat or needs to lose weight due to her B…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 05:08 PM
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Even if it doesn't kill, the costs of chronic disease, joint replacement and other stuff will be through the roof. However, the line between legit worry and concern trolling is a really fine one, so I'll stop there.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 04:57 PM
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I...don't think we want to know...however, the PG-rated answer is probably "fasting."
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 04:56 PM
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Yeah, acting like most American men are classified as fat because they’re really too in shape is laughable. I can only guess the people arguing this don’t live in the South.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 04:46 PM
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5’4” and 120 pounds, which even a French doc called “perfect” (for people obsessing about North American skewed expectations, this is a European medical standard as well), is 20.6.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 04:43 PM
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I wrote this reply and it’s gone now. I’ll recap I honestly don’t recall that conversation on here. I think that is extreme (and sounds more like a joke than anything that would happen), but I don’t think going without sex for a few weeks is going to harm society in the way a blanket refusal to work would (if we assume all men would do this). For the second point I’ve never said any man should be forced into war. I’m very aware that war is what rich people do while poor ones die. I’m from a poor…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 04:08 PM
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One of us. One of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 03:59 PM
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The funny part is she’s the one with papers so he’s really here due to her power (not so macho).
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 03:57 PM
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I suppose I was thinking more like “I really like you; let’s just see where this goes” if you actually know where it’s going (nowhere). Or on the girl’s side “You’re really sweet; I’m not really looking to date right this second, though I can’t predict the future” when she can predict his future (never going to date him). I guess that’s what I meant by bad faith. I agree your example of vague is more honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 03:56 PM
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Yeah, my kid’s school is 90% Latino (not an exaggeration) and there are a LOT of Mexican American Trumpers. Legal immigration plus “law and order.” I know an illegal immigrant from Ecuador who was pro-Trump (didn’t vote, of course). His wife said it was a machismo thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 03:51 PM
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People hate the “couples at Walmart” solipsism, but I seriously wonder if people don’t go outside and see all the married gardeners, plumbers, electricians, bus drivers and other people who actually power our society, rather than Bitcoin traders who think they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 03:41 PM
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I think he meant the power of groupthink, as in people who consider themselves patriots or upholders of law and order ended up storming the Capitol (the opposite action of what they say they stand for). The same way people who say they care about family and tradition could set up arranged marriage and semi-legalized rape (two things we never had) to “preserve” them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 03:23 PM
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Vague answers because you’re not sure yourself what you want are one thing. Vague answers where you do know what you want but are lying (because being vague would be lying there) to string the person along to keep getting what you want are bad faith and lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 03:06 PM
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Yes, this is true. I do find it chilling how many try to couch their basically pro-rape arguments in societal/cultural terms. Like “collapse of the West.” Or terrorism. “Give us sex or we will stop working and society will fall.”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 02:56 PM
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It’s pretty unsettling. I like to think it’s just anonymous online venting and in real life they’re not like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 02:42 PM
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Pussyeatingmonster or whoever he is has been a high schooler, a 35-year-old married guy and a gigachad of indeterminate age depending on the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 02:40 PM
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Change your mindset by limiting your TikTok and social media. It’s going to set up negative comparisons in your head. I realize it’s easier said than done but it really helps when you detox. Just take a break for 2 days and see if there’s a change in your mood. Second…I realize you feel used but being mean to strangers just because they’re women is pretty mean. Set boundaries so you aren’t taken advantage of by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 06:57 AM
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But...half of the pill of this sub holds to the idea literally "all women are like that." So...yes. It sucks. But this stereotyping is like a foundational tenet of half the sub. I agree it gets tiring pushing back against people who claim you're lying or they actually know you better than you know yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 04:38 AM
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So, I guess it just makes me wince a little. And because I'm not a huge fan I put it in quotes. Kind of like "ho phase" or other things people say where I'm not a huge fan but I'm not necessarily upset -- I'm just not writing it myself because I feel they convey a connotation I don't necessarily agree with. To be honest, I didn't really have irritation or anything in mind when putting it in quotes. I was pointing to that specific part and quoting it. I could have just said promiscuous if I wante…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 04:16 AM
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"I'm married, and I spent my hall pass on Caleb."
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 04:02 AM
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I don't see anything from the people who've blocked me. It doesn't show at all (no "unavailable"...no record of them posting at all). I only know they blocked me because they must've done it halfway through a daily thread and once they did I could still see the pre-block time posts but with "deleted" as the user name (could still see the text of the post). After blocking I saw nothing from that user going forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 03:57 AM
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I had a pretty low count but nobody cared after age 24 or so. It gets a little weird after a while, to care about that sort of thing. In fact, on here women with lower counts (and virgins) have said that guys who are hyper-focused on low counts (and virginity) freak them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 03:46 AM
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Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 03:20 AM
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Or as redpilled as one can get (one must have absolute control over women's sexuality because it is destructive in its natural state). It will depend on your perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 03:02 AM
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Anyone who unironically calls for mommy is too young for this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 02:52 AM
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Problem solved! If your campus has places to eat/drink, that's good.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 01:59 AM
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That is a very sad but cuddly-looking raccoon, even if I know they're trash demons from hell. Yeah, that's a pretty awful thing to say to someone. I didn't do hookups. My first BF in high school did play football but he was not part of the football crowd (he studied in all his free time because he was desperate to go to a good college; he didn't go to parties and kept very much to himself while at school). I did have a BF later (mid-20s) who was very sporty (played college baseball) but he had I…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 01:58 AM
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Do you live near public transportation? You could meet at school and walk somewhere too, if that's possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 01:24 AM
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Awww…poor raccoon. That’s mean. My husband was nerdy in high school anyway, for whatever that’s worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 12:55 AM
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Ask her out on a real date, like coffee or something. Somewhere that isn’t at either of your houses and is on a future day.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 12:45 AM
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Really? That’s pretty mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 12:34 AM
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Didn’t say hot, though…just “for their looks.”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 12:29 AM
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Plates are very much an RP thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 12:25 AM
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He’s arguing against MGTOW, though, as it destabilizes the family unit (OP is religious).
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 12:10 AM
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Do they have bad intentions, though? I like to believe more people are fundamentally good than bad. Strangers may be indifferent to you but it doesn’t stand to reason they would necessarily harm you if given half a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 11:32 PM
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I don’t try to understand. I just marvel. I don’t agree with anything whatsoever she says, but she adds color to the discussion, that’s for sure. I find it hard to actually engage with her because her answer to everything is usually some variation of “whores,” but I can respect the dedication to crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 11:29 PM
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I wanted “Caleb” to be the name for faux-sensitive hipster Chad but it’s not gaining traction.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 11:23 PM
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I mean, gimpgirl prides (markets) herself on being a pickme, and she says all the time her husband is short and has no job and she buys his hookers. I think that’s all part of her brand.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 11:19 PM
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No. What’s the point? If I accepted a date it was going to be someone I was attracted to. Otherwise we’d just be friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 11:11 PM
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They say it’s a toolbox. Unfortunately very often the worst tools seem to get picked up. I agree that it teaches men to believe women have “ulterior motives,” like you say. But I feel that’s fundamental: there are a lot of RP practices (spinning plates, dread game…I realize RP itself doesn’t outright say “lie to get women to fuck you” but many RP guys here endorse this practice) that require a man to not treat women very well. One way of overcoming that resistance is to tell a man that “she shot…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 11:08 PM
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No, even now I’m the age where I know divorced dads, they prefer divorced moms. If you don’t want any more kids, why date a woman who wants them? She’d just be pressuring you to change your mind all the time. Fundamentally incompatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 10:54 PM
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Yeah, he and DiCaprio were two grade A brats back in the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 10:51 PM
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You have summed up the RP dream girl. The tradwife who will give him her virginity on the second date and who will go Dutch on everything while dating, care for the kids (and go back to her high-paying job the minute he feels she needs to start earning again) and sign a prenup.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 10:42 PM
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Yeah, size inflation meant that they had to invent smaller sizes. I’ve seen 000 before. Happened around 2004 I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 10:30 PM
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People got married at like 19; it wasn’t that hard to be a virgin on your wedding night if you married as a teen (and unless you went to prostitutes guys weren’t getting to sleep around either).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 10:11 PM
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I don’t know. I think hourglass shape is more like it…she was not heavy by any stretch, probably a 4-6 in today’s sizes (a 12 back then). But it’s probably subjective. Hourglass is probably closest to an ideal (or “widely popular”) as we can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 09:59 PM
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I mean, I said in another comment I think it’s not a great metric. If you took a 110-pound, 5’4” woman’s body and Marilyn Monroe’s body, I have no doubt which would be preferred by 99% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 09:53 PM
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Gimpgirl will always stand alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 09:50 PM
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Probably. And a size 0 in one brand isn’t a 0 in others. I weighed a bit less than that for a brief period and was still wearing size 4 equivalent in one brand of jeans.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 09:43 PM
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