Chevellephreak Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
19	Pay 👏 attention 👏 to your bodily reactions 👏 Anytime I've been consciously or subconsciously stressed & suspicious about a guy/relationship, I'd get MAD BREAKOUTS which immediately cleared EVERY TIME upon breaking up. I actually had an anxiety attack so bad, I thought I was having a heart attack. I dumped him a couple of days later and wouldn't you know, I'm completely okay?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/09/21 07:18 PM
1	thx Laci I think every post had to have "problematic" or "intersectional" in it somewhere in that group. I'm half expecting one of them to find my posts here and share it with the group, to prove that they did the right thing by kicking this not-feminist out.	/r/MensRights	29/11/17 11:22 AM
1	thx Laci It's nuts watching everyone getting immediately defensive when presented with opposing views, but still wanting people to listen to them without arguing back. It's fucking weird. I'm still subbed to twox but that's mainly just to remind myself how the other side thinks.	/r/MensRights	29/11/17 11:18 AM
50	thx Laci Well shit, that explains why I thrived in engineering school where I was 1 of 4 women in a class with 30+ men, and got my ass booted out of an all girls club! Thanks for sharing that, what a great read.	/r/MensRights	28/11/17 06:23 PM
14	thx Laci When you meet other people who agree with you, you can all of a sudden be more vocal about your nonsense. It's awful.	/r/MensRights	28/11/17 04:28 PM
30	thx Laci That's awful! I remember one time I posted an article in the group with no comment of my own. The mod gave me shit because I posted it without my own opinion. What? I was the asshole because I didn't want to sway other people's opinions? It was just ridiculous. So so glad I'm gone! They say they want debate, but it's not debate if you all fucking agree.	/r/MensRights	28/11/17 04:11 PM
234	thx Laci Woman here, I was in a Facebook group that originated in a female centric subreddit. I was ultimately kicked out for "not identifying as a feminist", and for continually being the oppositional voice. The echo chamber was fucking insane and they work hard to ensure nobody with opposing views stuck around. Getting booted was actually great, it was fucking toxic. You're right in thinking getting out of the chamber helps, but you're wrong in thinking they'll actually leave or even listen.	/r/MensRights	28/11/17 03:45 PM
1	If You Start To Humanise Your Enemy, You In Turn May Be Dehumanised By Your Community That's exactly how I took it at first too, took me a minute to get some context	/r/MensRights	16/05/17 12:42 PM
16	Feminists had to ruin this somehow That's a really interesting theory, and I think you're on to something. Mainly because I'm a female who has both a dad and a step dad that spent time with me as a kid. They both had demanding careers that meant time away and weird hours, but they always made time for me.	/r/MensRights	11/03/17 02:19 PM
2	TFW your own national leader doesn't know the actual statistics of his pet cause. Woman here, I was pretty miffed when he made that 50% women in the cabinet rule. You hire the best person for the job, that's it. Ugh.	/r/MensRights	29/08/16 12:21 PM
8	Male teachers abandon classroom fearing inappropriate label of working with children; Department of Education says recruitment policies can not be employed to attract males into teaching because that would unlawfully discriminate on the grounds of gender Hold on, I'll ninja edit. And to answer, being PC is what happened. Can't hurt peoples feelings you know!	/r/MensRights	03/11/15 04:08 PM
24	Male teachers abandon classroom fearing inappropriate label of working with children; Department of Education says recruitment policies can not be employed to attract males into teaching because that would unlawfully discriminate on the grounds of gender Female engineer here. I'm really against these programs and things designed for getting women into STEM. I arrived here because I want to be here, not because I was enticed into it. It's okay that there are more male engineers, and more female teachers. Why can't we just accept this?!?	/r/MensRights	03/11/15 04:00 PM
3	Feminist lives as a Man for 18 months to try to prove "Male Privilege". Learns Women are more Privileged than Men. It really does!	/r/MensRights	13/08/15 09:56 PM
6	Feminist lives as a Man for 18 months to try to prove "Male Privilege". Learns Women are more Privileged than Men. Yea we're kind of all over the board with the gender norms too. I'm an engineer, but I love dresses and nail polish. He always drives when we're in the car together, even though I'm quite capable of driving. I spend most Sundays in the kitchen cooking while he games. I weightlift, he runs. I do groceries and laundry because I enjoy them, he does like 98% of the rest of the household cleaning. It's a great balance!	/r/MensRights	13/08/15 07:21 PM
5	Feminist lives as a Man for 18 months to try to prove "Male Privilege". Learns Women are more Privileged than Men. It's not even like I felt like I was breaking a norm though. I saw what I wanted and I went for it. Nobody gives either of us shit because I initiated. It's quite refreshing. Now I just have to ask him to marry me, that's the big one that is a little tough for me.	/r/MensRights	13/08/15 05:37 PM
19	Feminist lives as a Man for 18 months to try to prove "Male Privilege". Learns Women are more Privileged than Men. Female here, I asked my boyfriend out and asked him to move in with me. I know that's not the norm, but I did it and it worked! I couldn't be happier :)	/r/MensRights	13/08/15 04:41 PM
2	Apparently, discrimination is OK if men are the ones who are discriminated You got it!	/r/MensRights	02/05/15 02:30 AM
3	Apparently, discrimination is OK if men are the ones who are discriminated I guess it'd come down to personality then	/r/MensRights	02/05/15 12:56 AM
10	Apparently, discrimination is OK if men are the ones who are discriminated The best person for the job, deserves the job. Holy fuck.	/r/MensRights	01/05/15 01:50 PM
1	CEO of Reddit: Ellen Pao says she "weeds out" candidates who don’t embrace her priority of building a gender-balanced and multiracial team. She has also has removed salary negotiations from the hiring process because studies show "women don’t fare as well as men." The irony! It hurts!	/r/MensRights	07/04/15 12:20 AM
2	CEO of Reddit: Ellen Pao says she "weeds out" candidates who don’t embrace her priority of building a gender-balanced and multiracial team. She has also has removed salary negotiations from the hiring process because studies show "women don’t fare as well as men." It's so true. The reason there are more men in tech is because they're typically more interested in it. Same reason why there's lots of female teachers or nurses. Differences in gender aren't a bad thing, pretending otherwise is what's bad!! I feel I should mention, I am a woman in engineering school. The only people who ask or care about the amount of women in my field are... Other women.	/r/MensRights	07/04/15 12:18 AM
2	CEO of Reddit: Ellen Pao says she "weeds out" candidates who don’t embrace her priority of building a gender-balanced and multiracial team. She has also has removed salary negotiations from the hiring process because studies show "women don’t fare as well as men." Woman here and I am pretty mad about this. "If I can't do it, nobody can!!!"	/r/MensRights	07/04/15 12:11 AM
1	I was denied my right to vote at my college because I'm male Have you gotten your student union involved?	/r/MensRights	25/11/14 12:05 PM
4	6 Ways That Feminism Insults And Demeans Women While Claiming To Protect Them I'm a female in engineering school. There are 4 of us in my graduating class of 30ish. Guess who cares? Nobody. Did us ladies get pushed into it? No, we're there because we want to be. Did we face ANY barriers to entry? None.	/r/MensRights	22/11/14 09:13 PM
2	Men’s rights groups are a waste of time This makes me fucking livid. Feminists tend to scream for equality, then complain when men get the same things that us women have? Fuck right off. Can someone rewrite replacing all the gendered words with the reverse ones? Or has it already been done?	/r/MensRights	22/11/14 08:52 PM
1	UK: There are about 100 Male midwives in the UK. They are discriminated against and there was a great deal of opposition to them even being allowed to be midwives. In the UK 90% of nurses are female. Where is the Government campaign for more male nurses, midwives and GP's? Well fuck, why am I not getting a free ride and a job offer then?! (I kid!)	/r/MensRights	03/11/14 10:00 PM
6	UK: There are about 100 Male midwives in the UK. They are discriminated against and there was a great deal of opposition to them even being allowed to be midwives. In the UK 90% of nurses are female. Where is the Government campaign for more male nurses, midwives and GP's? There's nothing preventing me as a female from doing manual labour as a career. I just don't want to.	/r/MensRights	03/11/14 09:26 PM
3	UK: There are about 100 Male midwives in the UK. They are discriminated against and there was a great deal of opposition to them even being allowed to be midwives. In the UK 90% of nurses are female. Where is the Government campaign for more male nurses, midwives and GP's? Female here, I don't care what gender ob-gyn I have. A professional is a professional.	/r/MensRights	03/11/14 09:24 PM
2	UK: There are about 100 Male midwives in the UK. They are discriminated against and there was a great deal of opposition to them even being allowed to be midwives. In the UK 90% of nurses are female. Where is the Government campaign for more male nurses, midwives and GP's? Female engineering student here. These programs to get one gender into an occupation traditionally held by the other gender have always seemed pretty strange to me. Of course all male nurses and midwives deserve as much respect as the females do, just like I deserve the respect that a male counterpart of mine would receive. Men know they can become nurses. Women know they can become engineers. Most men just don't want to go into nursing. I honestly don't care if my ob-gyn/nurse/midwife is a male…	/r/MensRights	03/11/14 09:22 PM
1	Teen charged with sexting girlfriend will be forced to get an erection via an injection and be photographed by police for evidence Age of consent is 14 (you can have sex with someone up to two years older), and 16 is the age of consent to do whatever you want.	/r/MensRights	10/07/14 12:45 AM
1	Teen charged with sexting girlfriend will be forced to get an erection via an injection and be photographed by police for evidence What's really fucked up is if that had happened in Ontario, it'd be perfectly legal. edit - the sexting, not the forced erection	/r/MensRights	09/07/14 07:21 PM
2	Is this what they mean by "Male Privilege" I meant more in the sense that you're more likely to see a man working on a construction site, or as an industrial mechanic. It's not that a woman couldn't do those jobs (because they do), but most just don't have the desire to pursue it in the first place.	/r/MensRights	13/06/14 11:23 AM
2	Is this what they mean by "Male Privilege" Very true!	/r/MensRights	12/06/14 07:17 PM
18	Is this what they mean by "Male Privilege" Wouldn't the rate of industrial accidents be higher for men, merely because men are more inclined to hold that kind of job? Or has there been some sort of data normalization?	/r/MensRights	12/06/14 06:32 PM
1	You go, girl! Great argument! Well that's fucked up.	/r/MensRights	14/05/14 04:43 PM
4	[OC] Let's ideate on "All females having their genitals altered at birth, or else risk public ridicule over tactless cosmetics." I wish circumcisions weren't as popular here in Canada as they are.	/r/MensRights	05/04/14 03:14 PM
2	I'll just tell the cops you raped me. You go gurl! What the fuck? At least she was dumb enough to put it on Facebook for all to see.	/r/MensRights	29/03/14 12:55 PM
3	Women can't be sexist Female here, pretty sure I can be just as bad as a man :/	/r/MensRights	19/02/14 12:38 PM
5	Shit like this pisses me of. I like ska, but I think that's because it's easy to dance to.	/r/MensRights	12/12/13 04:16 AM
8	No words... That's like saying you can't be racist towards white people. Jesus christ.	/r/MensRights	19/11/13 06:30 PM
10	Essentially how it goes. I pay $5 a month for my birth control, and it'd only be $20 a month without insurance. You're dead on in saying condoms and the pill are cheap. However people are idiots, and excel at fucking things up. You'd be surprised at how many women can't, for some reason, take a pill at the same time every day. I had this whacky idea to set a timer on my cell phone and keep the pills in my purse so I could make sure I was doing it properly.	/r/MensRights	11/11/13 06:21 PM
2	Essentially how it goes. I'm fairly certain my insurance is paying for my birth control, not the government.	/r/MensRights	11/11/13 06:16 PM
3	Woman is jailed for just 16 months for organising gang beating of innocent man who was wrongly named as a paedophile on vigilante website. "I jumped on his head myself!" God that's fucked up	/r/MensRights	07/10/13 04:07 PM
1	Cyanide & Happiness takes on sexism against men My boyfriend and I went grocery shopping tonight, and it was a pretty equal split of carrying shit up to the apartment. Making 2 trips sucks, so we each carried 5 super full bags.	/r/MensRights	12/09/13 02:56 AM
1	Cyanide & Happiness takes on sexism against men This could be fun.	/r/MensRights	12/09/13 02:52 AM
0	Cyanide & Happiness takes on sexism against men Makes sense! Good philosophy.	/r/MensRights	11/09/13 08:50 PM
1	Cyanide & Happiness takes on sexism against men Seems like a lot of work! But, yes. Effective.	/r/MensRights	11/09/13 06:31 PM
3	Cyanide & Happiness takes on sexism against men Mmmm burritos.	/r/MensRights	11/09/13 06:07 PM
7	Cyanide & Happiness takes on sexism against men It's not so much that I love having dick in my mouth, I love making him happy and hearing his reactions. It turns me on to turn him on. I have no idea as to how to change someones mind. When it comes to sex, pressure to do shit you don't want to do never turns out well. I love some trimmed pubes, with shaved balls. I love balls! They're so fucking entertaining!	/r/MensRights	11/09/13 06:06 PM
-1	Cyanide & Happiness takes on sexism against men It's not that I can't move my own couch, (I've lived alone for about 9 months in total since I moved out 7 years ago. You develop ways to do shit as a single woman, living alone) it's just easier for him to do it. Just like I love to cook, as "stereotypical" as that is. I enjoy the hell out of it, so it's more often than not me making dinner for us. And that's just because that's how we are, not because we think it should be like that.	/r/MensRights	11/09/13 05:58 PM
7	Cyanide & Happiness takes on sexism against men Well to be fair, I expect him to go down on me too (which he does, and he loves it). But you're right. People should just help people if they see someone in need, regardless of gender. I'd help someone struggling with their groceries or something, if they were a man or a woman. I do get my boyfriend to open jars sometimes, because it is easier for him to do. And I never get the desire to rearrange the living room, whereas he does. And I love it when he does!	/r/MensRights	11/09/13 05:56 PM
1	Cyanide & Happiness takes on sexism against men I admit we do adhere to some "stereotypical" gender roles, but that's what WE want to do, not because society thinks we should act like that. Hell, I'm in engineering school and he's in school for the arts. That's pretty uncommon in and of itself!	/r/MensRights	11/09/13 05:54 PM
3	Cyanide & Happiness takes on sexism against men I'm not even saying I'm weak. I'm saying he's strongER than I am.	/r/MensRights	11/09/13 05:52 PM
1	Cyanide & Happiness takes on sexism against men You'd think, eh?	/r/MensRights	11/09/13 05:52 PM
2	Cyanide & Happiness takes on sexism against men He actually enjoys rearranging the furniture, whereas I really couldn't care less. I do like when he changes the place up though! I just never have the urge to do it myself.	/r/MensRights	11/09/13 05:52 PM
282	Cyanide & Happiness takes on sexism against men Female here. To be honest, my boyfriend is stronger than me and he's more inclined to move the couch anyway. And I do enjoy sucking his dick. There's no sexism, that's just how our relationship works I suppose!	/r/MensRights	11/09/13 04:35 PM
1	Canadian Children's Rights Council wants mandatory paternity tests at birth so both parents are identified immediately. Such a measure would go a long way to eliminating paternal fraud and identity fraud. Because not only is this the internet, it's r/mensrights. Where it's assumed that most people browsing are male. I just felt my point would make more sense if I said I was a female instead of just saying "I agree!" in which case I would have probably just been told to upvote instead of not contributing to the conversation.	/r/MensRights	12/12/11 01:59 PM
0	Canadian Children's Rights Council wants mandatory paternity tests at birth so both parents are identified immediately. Such a measure would go a long way to eliminating paternal fraud and identity fraud. Way to completely miss why I made it known I'm a female. Also, the fact that you used "you're" instead of "your" makes you look like the silly one here :)	/r/MensRights	09/12/11 02:33 PM
3	Canadian Children's Rights Council wants mandatory paternity tests at birth so both parents are identified immediately. Such a measure would go a long way to eliminating paternal fraud and identity fraud. Blood samples are already collected at birth...	/r/MensRights	05/12/11 01:32 PM
2	Canadian Children's Rights Council wants mandatory paternity tests at birth so both parents are identified immediately. Such a measure would go a long way to eliminating paternal fraud and identity fraud. Which is okay for now, seeing as this is a Canadian article.	/r/MensRights	05/12/11 01:32 PM
11	Canadian Children's Rights Council wants mandatory paternity tests at birth so both parents are identified immediately. Such a measure would go a long way to eliminating paternal fraud and identity fraud. I'm a female, and I actually think this is a great idea. The story that they mention just breaks my heart, and I don't want to see that happen to anyone if it can be helped!	/r/MensRights	05/12/11 01:31 PM
10	Man who spent four years in jail for rape he didn't commit, sues New York City for $30m. Holy fuck. What? They discounted DNA evidence showing her friend bit her? BRB, head exploding.	/r/MensRights	16/03/11 01:17 PM
21	Crazy girl at /r/Relationship_advice. Dares to post "how do i make him grow up and accept his responsibilitities?" after hiding the she stopped taking her birth control pill. I'm a female, and my jaw is on the fucking floor. She sounds way too fucking stupid to be a real person, are you men here being trolled?	/r/MensRights	07/02/11 07:14 PM
1	"Young, male, straight -- and anorexic." Men and boys are often shamed into not getting help for various psychological issues and their resources are usually underfunded and not specifically tailored - if they exist at all. But, there ARE girls that enjoy the pudge. Take myself for example. I hate hate haaaaaaaaaaaate a guy with a 6 pack. I mean they look nice and all, but am I sexually attracted to it? Not at all. I've always liked bigger guys (both wide and tall), but that may be because I've always been bigger myself. Thankfully, I also have a very limited fear of rejection and if it does happen, I bounce back in no time.	/r/MensRights	29/12/10 03:13 PM
2	"Young, male, straight -- and anorexic." Men and boys are often shamed into not getting help for various psychological issues and their resources are usually underfunded and not specifically tailored - if they exist at all. That's just awful, I feel so exceptionally bad for this man. Eating disorders are surely not just a womans disease, and they do need to be studied way more in men. I'm not going to say there is more pressure to be thin for a woman than a man in this society, but I think there is more pressure to look better. A man can still have pudge, a belly or messy hair and still be attractive. A woman however, her image is usually so tied in to her weight that they are one and the same. I wish there was som…	/r/MensRights	28/12/10 02:15 PM
5	Father shopping for daughter's underwear treated like pervert Female here. When I was 6, my parents split up. There was no child support payments to my mom, the deal was I saw my dad once a week, and we went shopping. He bought me all of my school stuff, and clothes. Which obviously included undies. I was always with him while shopping, but he'd always feel so awkward with me, he'd usually give me his debit card and walk away. As a kid, I didn't get it. But now I do, and it's seriously messed up. If a mom can take her son boxer shopping, or be able to buy …	/r/MensRights	05/12/10 05:57 PM
1	Thanks to you, Reddit, I canceled my son's circumcision today. Yea, it happens sometimes!	/r/MensRights	29/10/10 05:38 PM
1	Thanks to you, Reddit, I canceled my son's circumcision today. Thank you.	/r/MensRights	29/10/10 05:38 PM
2	Thanks to you, Reddit, I canceled my son's circumcision today. Exactly.	/r/MensRights	29/10/10 05:37 PM
14	Thanks to you, Reddit, I canceled my son's circumcision today. Really? So, that's to say you can't have one on female genital mutilation, or abortions? Seeing as you don't have a vagina.	/r/MensRights	29/10/10 05:36 PM
12	Thanks to you, Reddit, I canceled my son's circumcision today. I am a female and I am not okay with circumcision. I just cant see any reasons for it.	/r/MensRights	29/10/10 02:37 PM
6	A complete newbie to the game! Please help me out I'll take you on a practice date if you'd like?	/r/seduction	28/05/10 12:04 AM