Chinaroos Archive

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1	I have a date with the biggest crush of my life in a few days. Any tips on how to play it cool? From what I've been seeing on other comments, please do not take Xanax or anything like that Think of it from her POV: there is something about you that she's drawn to. You won't know what it is for some time, but you've done it without even knowing. Embrace the fear! It's exciting stuff, and part of the excitement is a little fear. It's something to overcome and enjoy. Trust me when I say you'll look back on that excitement with deep fondness one day. And remember the point is not to "win"--it'…	/r/seduction	05/06/24 06:25 PM
1	Utah Teacher Who Had Sex with Students and Tearfully Cited ‘Extreme Self-Esteem Issues’ Is Denied Parole Arguments about the age of consent aside, a sexual relationship ruins the student-teacher relationship, as well as the student teacher relationship of other students. My favorite teacher was arrested my senior year in high school for exactly this. He was one of the most passionate, effective teachers I have ever had. He also had a little cult following of girls who hung on his every word and would often stay after class to discuss books and stuff. Eventually it was discovered he had sex with one…	/r/PussyPassDenied	05/02/17 01:01 PM
36	Utah Teacher Who Had Sex with Students and Tearfully Cited ‘Extreme Self-Esteem Issues’ Is Denied Parole You're right. It's not forcible rape. This is not a case of two consenting adults in love. Teachers are authority figures. There is a power imbalance that can impact not just that student but other students as well. "Yeah you failed that test, but eat me out tonight and I'll bump you up to a C. Maybe a B if you do a good job." Maybe the kid dosen't want to eat anything. But maybe (s)he will--not because they want to, but because of the implication. Would it be OK for a boss to do this? Or a care…	/r/PussyPassDenied	05/02/17 03:25 AM
7	Not controversial by any means, but I had a classmate who started acting "interested" in me right before our term paper for my Honors class. She tried this today. "I'm sorry that what you were asking was not something I was going to do"	/r/PussyPassDenied	04/11/16 06:38 AM
4	A Men’s Rights Group is Suing Their University Because The Student Union Won't Recognize Them as an Official College Organization I tried submitting this to /r/best of, but unfortunately they don't take submissions from this subreddit anymore. This was a fantastic and heartbreaking read. Thank you for sharing it.	/r/MensRights	14/04/16 01:47 AM
44	Do any other introverts feel they need to put on a facade? That sounds horribly exhausting. There are plenty of girls out there, despite what you may think, that would love to dumpster dive right along with you. You just have to look at the right places (art festivals, concerts, cafés, used book stores). Maybe the bar and club scene isn't for you. And that's ok. If that's your true personality and that's where you shine, then go to where those girls that will love that alternative, intelligent side of you gather.	/r/seduction	31/05/15 12:45 AM
87	How to deal with your gf's nice guy friend This is the guy who, when you make mistakes or fuckup, is going to hear about your fuckups before anybody else. Unless you show this dude that you're a real person, he's going to echo every talking point she brings up about you. This kills the relationship. If he's orbiting her, you will win out without having to do anything. You can deal with that situation as it comes. But you're going to lose if you try to alpha your way between your gf and her BFF. Take it from experience. Treat this dude wi…	/r/seduction	13/03/15 04:37 PM
4	Cant stand up for myself, I just ignore when people treat me wrong Here's why you're being downvoted OP says: "I want to do X. How do I do X?" Your answer: "Stop being a bitch and just do X" First off, that doesn't answer the question at all. It's a tautology that ignores the fact that self-defense is a learned skill that OP lacks, and wants to learn. Moreover since you are apparently already able to defend yourself, you think you somehow have the right to deride him because he can't yet. Let's try this logic on something else: OP: "I want to learn how to swim.…	/r/seduction	23/02/15 07:06 PM
2	Cant stand up for myself, I just ignore when people treat me wrong I also unfortunately took to heart the "if you don't have anything nice to say..." ditty from back in the day. TLDR: It's all about setting boundaries. Imagine that you can make a magic wall. That wall can take any shape and be made out of any material. The wall is protecting your ego, and is protecting you from arrows (insults, slights) that can hurt your ego and cause pain. Now watch this: If your identity takes up a lot of space (gender, race, religion, physical appearance, etc), then your eg…	/r/seduction	23/02/15 06:50 PM
1	Why are many of us afraid of women? Why do people fall in love? Love is what makes people work together as a team for decades on end to raise children. Back in the day, that was what got you through famine, and plagues, and war. Just you and your family against the world. In good times and bad, even if there were things about each other you didn't like, you were a team together, against actual and present threats. We don't have those kind of threats today. We don't have plagues and marauding bandits, at least in the western world.…	/r/seduction	08/02/15 06:59 PM
1	What Makes People Boring? Here's what I did 1) Remove the bad influences from your life. This is the easiest part. People that don't make you happy or are facilitating bad habits in your life? Get rid of them. 2) Look at your habits. What are your habits? Reddit? Drinking? Weed? Other drugs? Take note of the things you do on a daily basis, and decide if that habit is something that is helping or stopping you from being the person you want to be. 3) Drop one of your old habits. Replace it with a new, healthy habit., or ho…	/r/seduction	30/09/14 05:23 PM
4	What Makes People Boring? Good news is, you probably aren't "doomed" to be anything. I believe in the ability of anyone to change in a positive way. You have to ask if you do If you read the article, many of the "boring" attributes of people are precisely because they're faking it. Just for example, Lets say I'm into Pokemon. A girl comes up to me and goes "Pokemon! Wow, I love Pokemon too! My favorite is Chartoise, I had a level give five hundred once. Hey we should get coffee and talk more about Pokemon or something lo…	/r/seduction	30/09/14 03:28 AM
49	What Makes People Boring? A canvass is a tool. You need the canvass and an idea to make a painting. But who is the painter? You are the painter. The canvass is your body, your clothes, your mannerisms. Luckily our canvass isn't permanent. It may keep some colors of the past, but that's ok. You can use those colors to make something incredible. Something people will admire, and maybe even be inspired by. You are the creator of the work of art that is you. Some people may like it, others may not. And that's ok. You choose …	/r/seduction	29/09/14 07:31 PM
95	What Makes People Boring? Key takeaways: 1) be interested in other people 2) be animated, show people you're interested in them 3) nobody wants to hear about your problems. 4) if you can't manage any of the above, don't pretend that you can	/r/seduction	29/09/14 06:16 PM
5	are there actually women who prefer AFCs and Beta guys? I have a friend who does. Due to a history of pretty horrific abuse as a child, she prefers men that are "geek, meek, and non-threatening". She wants men that show their vulnerability and don't lift weights. She wants her men to be intelligent and moody and play Minecraft and like her pictures on Tumblr. Given her history of what stronger men have done to her I can't blame her for it. But the "nice guys" she picks tend to be kind of manipulative and needy. Her current boyfriend throws temper tan…	/r/seduction	03/06/14 12:24 AM
3	How being a short guy affect my dating life? Don't worry about it. I'm also short, can't change my height and neither can you. Hasn't stopped me. Girls (or anyone for that matter) who even after having gotten to know you and still make your height as their deal-breaker aren't worth pursuing. Instead, be awesome in another way. Be curious about the world, take life lightly, seek out learning, have passions for things. You'll be a generally better person for it, and that's the most attractive quality of all. Work on those things first and th…	/r/seduction	12/04/14 05:25 PM
3	I'm starting to think strong eye contact is the fastest way to improve your game. Seddit - what are your tips, tricks, and advice with eye contact? You have two parts of your nervous system (follow me). One of them you can control directly (like moving a finger) and the other you can't (like digestion) For me, I've found that behaviors like eye contact tend to be automatic: you don't think much about it, and even though you can make a choice to have eye contact it dosent feel natural. You see we already know how to make eye contact, but people can tell when it is forced, like pulling a puppet on strings. It's easy for someone to see you're …	/r/seduction	08/09/13 08:52 AM