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So... a libido crash is a biological feature of women and men need to just accept it. But a high and consistent libido (a biological feature of men) is something they need to get over and suppress? How convenient.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 11:49 AM
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A disingenuous post? From Lillith!? Never!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 01:41 PM
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Let's say this standard reply is true (I'm dubious but let's grant the premise for now. Doesn't the fact that she "feared disappointing" the other guy, but not the current one, that she wanted to be an "adventurous girlfriend" for guy A but not guy B, kind of prove the point that she wanted guy A more? Clearly she was willing to do more to avoid losing him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:56 AM
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What do you mean "secretly"? Women insist they're just as horny as men any time a man dares to suggest they're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 11:44 AM
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You've got it backwards. Making women feel at ease and engaging in interesting conversations helps, but only if there is already physical attractiveness. Source: 44 years of life with many women in multiple friend groups who feel at ease and conversational with me - almost none attracted to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 08:15 PM
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Um yeah... its Lillith. "Grossly disingenuous" is kind of her thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 08:38 PM
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That maybe we can all aspire to better than what "historically was".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 01:45 AM
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So the way things were historically is the way they always should be? I ask because that line of logic does not end in a good place for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 01:19 PM
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What the fuck are you on about? Did you just have a stroke?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 09:43 PM
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And I assume body cam footage explaining why the shot came through the driver's side window if the care was headed straight for the officer? Come on, you can just lick the boot; you dont have to deep throat it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 09:34 PM
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So we'll be seeing hospital records from the injured agents presently I assume?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 09:31 PM
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There's a lot of things in the natural world that we have decided don't work in civilization.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 12:43 AM
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I had a relationship kind of like this. My partner would always reject me when I tried to initiate sex so I backed off and let her initiate when she wanted it. Soon enough she complained about feeling unwanted because I never tried to initiate sex any more and she always had to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 12:18 PM
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There is a contingent on this sub who insist that women hooking up with men in their league is the same as straight men hooking up with other men. This question would seem like an attempt at a "gotcha" by one of them, except whoever it is never followed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 11:54 AM
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Isn't this just a long form writeup of "lower your standards"... the same thing men routinely get shit on here for suggesting that women could stand to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 01:07 PM
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And the standard response to that is always "We can't see! They hide it!"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 06:29 PM
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Right... no woman is a good enough liar to convincingly fake interest. Yet somehow every abusive man is an actor on par with Daniel Day Lewis.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 03:07 PM
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How long have you been single?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 02:36 PM
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Wrong, the world could be so much better than it is. And maybe it would.be if fewer people listened to therapists telling them "it could be no different".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 11:36 AM
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Yeah... I'm definitely not going to therapy if it makes you think the world today is "as it should be"!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 01:19 AM
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You would have to convince me that gaslighting myself into believing everything is fine despite all evidence to the contrary is healthy. At which point you would be outing yourself as a therapist and thus revealing your true motive for saying everyone needs therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 01:09 AM
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It's easy to say "your empathy makes you high value" in a forum like this where you never have to put your money where your mouth is. But if empathy was really something women valued in men, then the man with "so much empathy in his heart" would never be in a situation where he would see himself as low value, would he?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 01:45 PM
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I assume these apps have some method to "forgive" a user who ghosts because they got there and felt unsafe. Which will of course immediately be abused by the flakes and ghosters. So no, I think this is actually worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 01:59 PM
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So let me get this straight: A man shows lots of affection early in a relationship and then pulls back when that level of affection is not matched. And we now call that "love bombing" and use it as another example of "men bad"? I swear to all-powerful Atheismo! If a guy donated his kidney to save a starving orphan, women around here would say he was just a horrible manipulator trying to make himself look selfless!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 02:34 PM
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Trying not to come off as creepy or be incorrectly seen as is different than trying not to be though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 08:27 PM
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Reflect on what situation? Reflect on men saying "I try not to be creepy and I worry about being perceived as such despite my best efforts". You brush that aside by saying "the fact that you try at all means you've already failed". I didn't downvote you. Ooh bad luck. Turns out people who say they didn't downvote definitely did.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 08:01 PM
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Nope. Sorry. That's just easier for women to say without having to reflect on the situation. Thanks for the downvote btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 07:50 PM
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And thus have the goalposts moved from "worried about being perceived as creepy" to "being creepy". Amazing how quickly that can happen. The tragic thing is, as someone else pointed out the guys who worry about being seen and labeled as creepy are the LEAST likely to actually do creepy stuff because they are constantly self policing. The genuine creeps don't give half a fuck how they come off.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 07:09 PM
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Way to illustrate exactly what he was talking about. The no nuance "you wouldn't be worried if you did nothing wrong" attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 06:52 PM
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For me, I wanted a man who was into gaming, so I joined a bunch of gaming groups. I wanted a woman who was into gaming so I joined a bunch of gaming groups too. In two years I met four cis women. Two we're dating each other. One was married to another player. And the fourth quit after two sessions. It's almost as if things are different for men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:05 PM
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Solid advice but that's not really the point is it? Don't date a racist, break up with him for reasons unrelated to said racism, and then try to get extra sympathy by saying "oh, and he's racist". Where was that energy when you were dating him?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 04:23 PM
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Did you miss the part where OP said this wasn't about actual abusive behavior accidentally or intentionally?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 04:19 PM
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I should have read your flair and realized what I was dealing with. That's on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 03:06 PM
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So because the consequences are less dire men have no right to try and avoid them?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 02:37 PM
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And there's another classic: "if a man is attracted to me and its not mutual, he's automatically a monster who just wants a woman to use as a fleshlight." It's not enough to reject a huge swath of men; you have to vilify them too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 02:36 PM
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In the sphere of dating. Correct I do not. And saying "you could date men and have as many options as women do" is not much different then from telling a woman "your brother's a good guy who cares about you, just date him". It's not a real argument, it's a thought terminating cliche really.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 02:16 PM
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Not really. They're comparing a woman's choice of men below her standards to a man having choices entirely outside his sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 02:12 PM
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Everyone has things to be cautious about. If you can't admit that there's no point in discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 01:54 PM
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Im sorry but no it isn't. This is like saying its just as hard to find shoes your size in a shoe store as it is in a home depot.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 01:41 PM
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Suspicion that women are using him for dates. This is a red flag and reflects a negative outlook of women Isn't this just caution and vetting? I'm not supposed to assume that a woman covering her drink around me, or texting my description to a friend on a first date reflects a negative outlook of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 01:38 PM
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You do realize that this comparison, whenever it is made, kind of confirms a big manosphere talking point: if you're not attractive enough women dont even see you as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 01:27 PM
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Ah yes, the women so lonely for companionship that they... banned men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 02:53 PM
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Yes. Everything you just said is precisely the point. Create an environment where people can thrive and they will not seek unhealthy coping mechanisms because they won't need to cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 07:54 PM
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Your comment makes me think of the "rat paradise" addiction experiment. Specifically, your apparent solution - remove or restrict all the easy coping mechanisms - sounds a lot like removing the drug water from the bad habitat. The rats there would still be miserable even without the outlet of the drug - that was kind of the whole point of the experiment; addiction is a response to environment, not to the presence of addictive elements. Removing those elements doesn't help - improve the environme…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 01:29 PM
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I assume he meant romantically, as a refutation of the classic "make friend with women and they'll set you up with their friends" thing. No they won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 12:15 PM
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Honest question: do you really believe the only difference between friendship and a relationship is sex? Or are you so deep in your misandry that you assume sex is all a man could ever want from a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 02:05 PM
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Men are being "treated like shit" when they dare to express unhappiness about not having relationships. This was so obviously the point of OPs post that I simply do not believe you actually missed it. I therefore assume you are not arguing this in good faith and therefore bid you good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 08:58 PM
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Leave it to you to purposefully miss the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 06:46 PM
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"I don't know what lonely guys will do if we stop treating them like shit so we'd better keep treating them like shit."
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 06:13 PM
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I don't buy this for a second. Men who do complain about lack of romance get blown off and told "you're just mad you can't get your peepee wet" all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 06:05 PM
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Wait wait! I know this one! "No one is 'withholding' anything from you. You are not entitled to compliments from a man just for existing. Do the work and improve yourself to become someone worthy of compliments."
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 03:16 PM
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ugly faced Careful... blackpill talk ist verboten.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 03:02 PM
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Saw "Sinners" yesterday. Incredible movie. There was a point however (and I'm trying not to spoil, but those who've seen it will know the one) where I couldn't help realizing: the same people who've spent the past seven years hating on Starlord are about to come out of the woodwork saying Grace did nothing wrong. And. We. All. Know. Why.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 03:00 PM
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Please point out the coded language in OP. I'm genuinely curious because I did not get that from my reading.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 01:53 PM
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Because they are and they can be. It only seems like they are devious master manipulators who spend years masking their abusive nature if you don't pay attention to how they treat literally anyone they're not trying to bang.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 01:36 PM
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Fair enough. Usually around here PPBs get painted with the same brush sex tourist/predator brush.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 02:34 PM
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So you encourage passport bro behavior?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 01:46 PM
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So just gonna fall back on "you hate women" huh? If you have no argument I guess I don't need to engage any further.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 11:33 PM
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You know you can't just say "you hate women" and win, right? Are you saying Bundy wasn't a piece of shit before he got caught? If he was, then women can't magically detect a bad personality like your side says they can. If he wasn't... well we don't need to go into that because obviously he always was.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 10:52 PM
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Bundy was doing just fine with the ladies before he was famous. This deflection is super weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 10:34 PM
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I think they think that means they can be an absolute piece of shit and still expect women to throw themselves at them. A That's not it and you fucking know it! But if a piece it shit like Bundy has women throwing themselves at him, then a comparatively unshitty man should not have to face a lifetime of loneliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 10:22 PM
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The best comedy comes from suffering. Patton Oswalt was right on the money when he said there's nothing less funny than a happy comedian. Now I'm not saying women don't suffer. But the things they suffer are all things that women themselves have decreed Must Not Be Joked About. That doesn't leave them a lot of room for truly great comedy. Look at two examples: Bo Burnham and Hannah Gadsby. Both did specials that centered on their specific pain, but Bo was able to keep his funny throughout while …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 01:37 PM
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Sounds like she picked a shitty dude. Skill issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 09:37 PM
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Way to not address what I said. The point js if you are unattractive, you will be vilified even if your motives are pure.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 06:08 PM
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A performative “nice guy” is often unattractive. More like an unattractive nice guy will have his niceness deemed performative to dismiss it/him.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 03:32 PM
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Good at something / passionate / has their own thing they are the LeBron James of at least in some way "Just be top 5 in the world at something, bro!"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 03:29 PM
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This right here. Someone in another thread actually suggested "play D&D at local stores" as a possible way to meet women. And God help me, I think the poor dope actually meant it!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 01:30 PM
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Not to mention: "respect and dignity" are value judgements. Two different men doing the same thing can be placed on wildly different sides of the "respect and dignity" line depending on... factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 01:23 PM
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Thank you for calling me abusive. I appreciate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 05:51 PM
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Nope. I already know I'm decent and kind to everyone. It's how I was raised.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 04:53 PM
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By your logic they should have already. And yet...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 02:24 PM
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I'll tell you the problem with this, extending the "XP grinding" analogy: Dating isn't Skyrim - it's Elden Ring. You don't gain confidence win or lose or draw; you have to win. Multiple failures keep you at zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 02:23 PM
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Thank you for that. I needed a good laugh this morning.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 01:46 PM
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Can't speak to the commitment part but as for physical attractiveness, it's important to remember that while this is technically true, men have a much wider range of what they find attractive than women do. Something about me is utterly repulsive to women, but I've had IOIs from so many gay men it's ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 02:55 PM
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And once again we see the infantile leap in logic: "if it bothers you that abusers get relationships easier than good men it must be because you wish you were an abuser". Get some new material, seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 01:57 PM
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As far as I'm aware, every dating app still has a short bio section that you can read before swiping. Women never do because the picture tells them all they want to know. I happened to be in the room with a female friend in the old days of OKC when it still had all the good matching tools you mentioned and saw her going through profiles... and wouldn't you know it, she up or down voted based entirely on the first picture of each guy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 09:32 PM
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Obviously nothing has a 100% success rate. But if - for example - a medicine had a high enough failure rate you would expect doctors to eventually stop prescribing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 09:21 PM
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I tried to learn how to be attractive to women. But no matter how much I studied my face remained the same and I didn't grow a single inch taller so... maybe I have a learning disability.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 09:19 PM
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Let say this is true, why are you focusing so much on men when this practice starts with women? Because men are the ones she hates. Really thought we were all on the same page here.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 02:22 PM
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I have barely been here for two weeks, Is no one else going to call her out on this blatant lie?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 02:23 PM
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Nope. You're doing it again. This is some pretty weak trolling my dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 09:21 PM
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The point everyone is making is that you're misunderstanding the initial premise (or - more likely - intentionally misrepresenting it). First, no one has to do anything. But your partners assessment of your desire for them is going to be informed by those things that they want to do and whether you did them with previous partners vs whether or not you will do them now.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 02:38 PM
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Utter bullshit. Like so many here do, you are reversing cause and effect. Men turn to porn/gaming/media/etc because the dating market has rejected them. Giving those up would not magically make them desirable, and they know this because they were undesirable before those things. You're essentially telling them to give up the paltry relief they're allowed to have and start banging their head against the brick wall of rejection again, knowing they will find no relief there either.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 09:54 PM
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And yet, watch the demisexuality leave any woman's body as soon as Chad starts pushing up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 09:10 PM
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Sure if that was a real thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 02:26 PM
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Why do you want to be in a relationship with a guy if you aren't attracted to him?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 10:27 PM
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Because she hates men. Why would she say anything that makes them look less bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 02:16 PM
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I assume she was still waiting to make sure he was really interested in a relationship and not just sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 02:08 PM
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I make a man wait because I need to make sure that he isn't trying to use me. And men walk away from women who make them wait for the same reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 02:07 AM
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In my humble experience, looks are a prerequisite to be having that conversation in the first place. Can't make her laugh if she refuses to talk to me, can I?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 02:04 AM
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I would not be going on multiple dates with somebody if I wasn't attracted to them. Congratulations on being one of the good ones. But we can't tell who is who any more than woman can tell which guys are secretly assholes. Maybe she's delaying sex because of [insert reason here]. Or maybe she has no intention of ever having sex and is stringing me along for [insert reason here]. Tell me how to know with certainty which it is and I'll erect a statue in your honor.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 01:54 AM
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In those very rare cases she ought to let the guy know, not make him wonder. Women are all about "communication" right up until it's time to let a guy know if he's a sexual being or a meal ticket in her eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 01:48 AM
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And gtfoh with "withholding sex." Lmao. Bc heaven forbid we just don't want to fuck you then and there. Fair enough. But if she doesn't want to fuck me why should we keep dating? Unless there is something else she wants, which goes back to the idea of being used that most people - men and women - try to avoid. EDIT: Quite a few downvotes on this. Women really must hate the idea of a man refusing to be strung along and used.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 01:15 AM
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Every man who has ever found out that he spent years raising someone else's kid said the same thing. Just saying...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 01:26 PM
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Not trying to offend but... the things people say when they think you can't hear are more likely to be true than the things they tell you to your face.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 02:15 PM
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I'd say it takes a pretty low IQ to make twitter unprofitable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 02:48 PM
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If only it had been explained a thousand times in a thousand threads.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 12:39 AM
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What I'm actually doing - I realize too late - is letting you control the conversation. My initial post was a cheeky way of pointing out a very specific hypocrisy that gets thrown around here a lot, but I let you spin me off into "how good are your friends".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 09:56 PM
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The amount of female friends I've had my life, none of whom have ever "wingwomaned" indicates it is not a quality of friends issue. If I dropped every friend who didn't help me pull I would eventually run out of women on earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 09:43 PM
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Congratulations, your life is better than mine. I mean, we kind of already knew that? But enjoy the feeling of superiority. I know it's what people like you come here for.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 09:35 PM
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Aren't you the former frat boy who smashed his way through life? When did you ever need help to find out if anyone would offer?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 09:25 PM
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The female kind, in my experience. Or rather they want their friends to be happy, just not enough to lift a finger toward that goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 09:18 PM
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You're the one who knows everything. You tell me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 08:43 PM
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How do you think I found out they didn't want to date me, big brain?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 06:12 PM
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It's super fun being in that sweet spot where my personality is good enough that every woman I meet wants to be my friend, but also so bad that none of them want to date me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 04:14 PM
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Left Hand Milk Stout Nitro
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 09:59 PM
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If age of majority was raised to 25, how long do you reckon it would be before "common knowledge" shifted to say the brain doesn't full develop until 30?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 01:55 PM
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That's because it's not advice, it's a thought terminating cliche.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 02:06 PM
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I often wonder though how many of those DBR "women" are actually men reversing the genders in their story so as not to be immediately vilified with baseless assumptions about what they must have done or not done to "deserve" a dead bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 01:52 PM
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And at no point did it occur to you to just stop pretending to be interested in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 01:42 PM
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Right? I never get this. Trump is such a habitual liar that he will stand in the rain and say it was a sunny day, yet somehow these people think he was telling the truth when he said he would act against a cornerstone of his party's platform?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:27 PM
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4B is women "firing" men they were never going to hire in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:08 PM
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Of course politicians lie, but since you ignored my point there's no point continuing this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 01:07 PM
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If you're trying to say trump doesn't lie more often and more blatantly than any politician in living memory, then you are being utterly disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 11:32 PM
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And as we all know, trump is a man of unfailing honesty who has never in his life said something that wasn't entirely true. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 01:54 PM
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socially conservative not hateful Pick one.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 02:42 PM
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Definitely. I remember "Average Joe". It was like "The Bachelorette" but with normal looking dudes except at the very end when it was down to the last couple guys they brought in a hot guy she could choose instead and sure enough she did. Taught me everything I needed to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 02:06 PM
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Lucky for me, I'm too ugly for it to ever be that second one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 01:16 PM
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Hentai told me a lie or two as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 01:13 PM
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Aren't men who struggle supposed to lower their standards though?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 09:46 PM
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You're only a cyborg if some bodily function relies on the artificial part or implant. Like a pacemaker, or a choclear implant. Even then, there are those who say a certain percentage of a living creature must be artificial for it to be a true cyborg - meaning no actual human in history ever has been. But no matter where you draw the line, cosmetic implants don't count.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 01:49 PM
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Show me a therapist anywhere who will willingly tell their client "okay you're cured you can stop paying to come see me every week".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 01:07 PM
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I wish I could believe democrats were actually this smart and ruthless. But if they actually were we wouldn't have had a first trump term and SCOTUS wouldn't be republican controlled right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 12:50 PM
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What an inspiring story about being hot enough that a woman will hit on you. Not saying your friends aren't idiots for not realizing that's what she was doing. Just pointing out that most men will NEVER be given a signal this clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 12:12 AM
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I really want to know why this is framed as "to her detriment". He had sex, she had sex. Unless said sex was terrible (or sex is, in fact, NOT something women actually want) then she's lost nothing in this exchange.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 01:32 PM
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Those women are holding out for men above their league so yeah, they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 08:20 PM
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Well that's one way to finally get women dominating STEM.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 02:11 PM
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I've got plenty. Your argument is inconsistent. You work on that; I'm out.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 03:25 PM
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Of course. Not sure why I expected you to be honest about things you're on record saying three comments up the chain. That's asking a lot, isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 02:51 PM
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So when pressed, you will admit the guys were actually there getting rejected, not huddled at home alone afraid of girls like you initially suggested?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 02:37 PM
5

The other men were mostly ignored or outright rejected. Thoughts?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 02:32 PM
8

I must have missed the part where he said it was only sorority girls approaching those guys. Feel free to quote it for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 02:14 PM
11

So who were all the guys he saw getting ignored and rejected?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 02:12 PM
2

And now it's time to play: "Guess Which Friend Is Better Looking!" ::fanfare, cheers from the audience::
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 08:27 PM
1

You don't think "the numbers are about equal and someone's lying" defeats the initial post of "look how unequal these numbers are"?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 04:49 PM
2

Could be. Are you willing to admit that it's just as likely the actual rates are probably roughly equal?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 04:11 PM
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Interesting that they've renamed intimate partner homicide to "femicide". No agenda here, mate. Also doesn't this kind of give the lie to the whole "we can't tell who the bad ones are" narrative?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:43 PM
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Anything self-reported, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:40 PM
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You know men cheat more than women, right? 20% of married men and 13% of married women admitted to having sex with someone other than their spouse. You realize just because men admit it more, it doesn't necessarily follow that they actually do it more, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:20 PM
2

That's a little unfair. Genes and country got him, like, 1/3 of the way. The rest was a fairly even split between steroids and deflated footballs.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 07:22 PM
2

I've seen a few posts on Facebook where people posts faked screenshots to make it seem like the "antis" are mistakenly review bombing an unrelated film called "Acolytes" too because they're just that stupid, look how stupid they are!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 01:54 PM
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It will never pass. Feminist lobbying groups will fight it tooth and nail like they always do. It is one of the areas where they can't keep from telling on themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 01:51 PM
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Because it's illegal to operate a for-profit Healthcare facility over there. Next question.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 01:26 PM
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I read the Anita Blake books, right up until the one where she was urging her sweet, average Joe werewolf boyfriend to man up and kill his pack leader which he he finally did, only for her to get "frightened" by his wolf form, run away, and immediately fuck the dangerous sexy vampire who has been stalking her since book 1. If that's an actual peek into female desire then I really will just hold out for a robo-girlfriend thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 01:16 PM
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Luann is married to Kirk, treats Kirk like shit, and has a kid. Edna FTW.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 07:10 PM
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Timing is not the issue. If you're attractive there's never a wrong time, if you're not there's never a right one.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 07:07 PM
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Very smart to make this a "question for women" so men can't make top level comments of the obvious answer. EDIT: a down vote without an argument is a tacit admission that I'm right.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 06:58 PM
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That's not the friendzone though. But that's not the point. According to you if two friends are having sex, they are in a romantic relationship. No such thing as FWB.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 09:56 PM
2

Ideally we will either be having sex within the first few dates or there will be some discussion of why we're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 09:55 PM
2

So there's no such thing as FWB?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 09:46 PM
1

I will answer your question with a question. Is sex the only difference between friendship and romance?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 09:43 PM
2

So here's the thing: I want a real, whole relationship. But since I'm not in junior high anymore, that includes sex. I'm too old to spend months waiting to find out if I'm in real relationship or not. So the sex issue is going to come up early.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 09:40 PM
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No cure for ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 09:35 PM
2

How about we normalize not thinking that wanting to have sex with someone means you value nothing else about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 09:35 PM
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It's so weird to think that 9/11 was so long ago that there are people posting in this sub who are too young to know shit about it. (I assume it's a youth thing, benefit of the doubt.)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 01:44 PM
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Just gaslight yourself bro! Great advice! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 01:38 PM
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Remember "don't have sex" is the same advice pro-lifers give women. I leave you to decide whether or not you are in good company.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 01:21 PM
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I'm just offering a possible explanation for missionary's "boring" stereotype. Why are you trying to make it personal?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 03:36 PM
1

Less intimate (maybe, depending on the people) but certainly more raw and primal AND more physically demanding for both partners - not the kind of thing a disinterested person or couple would make the effort for.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 01:12 PM
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Missionary can be very intimate. But it is also the go to position when one or both partners isn't into the other enough for something more involved. It's become synonymous with the woman who just lies there like a starfish or the man who gets off in a few strokes then rolls over and falls asleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 12:54 PM
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The post apocalypse thing isn't a great flex for this because the apocalypse hasn't happened (yet). The same logic could argue that women should be okay with their men cheating because in a post apocalypse with very few men they would obviously let him sleep around to help repopulate.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 02:42 PM
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I mean... it's set in the civil war and it was made before civil rights, so yeah there's gonna be some stuff that is at best insensitive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 01:15 PM
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Women do seem to use a fucked up version of the scientific method where hotness needs to be peer reviewed and preferably published in some way before they'll fully believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 01:33 PM
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I don't think there is one. Women see a guy who doesn't seem to know what he's doing they're not about to go help him. And even if they did, it would certainly not lead to them wanting to date such a weak specimen.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 08:58 PM
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And on that day, women in that gym had a glimpse of what it's like to be a man literally anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 08:54 PM
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"Your anger is the part of you that knows the way you were treated was wrong and that you deserved better. Your anger is a part of you that loves you."
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 03:40 PM
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Last time I had an actual conversation with a man I wasn’t related to was before the pandemic. I will never speak to one irl again. Just a friendly reminder of your own words.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 02:46 PM
1

So unless you're going to literally be killed your worries are invalid?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:41 PM
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Was he falsely accused by a woman? Was his life ruined as a result? Anything else you try to bring into it is moving the goal posts from your initial question: "has anyone's life been ruined by a false accusation?"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 05:38 PM
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That is true, but the inverse very much is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 05:04 PM
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Moving the goal posts are we?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 04:56 PM
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Yeah there's definitely nothing boring about sitting on your ass and watching other people play a game.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 04:33 PM
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Whose life was ruined by false accusations, Emmett Till for one.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 04:28 PM
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Again, lying to them isn't nice. Of course people are going to get offended after the thousandth disingenuous "someone (not me) will definitely want you someday".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 03:27 PM
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Giving people false hope is not nice. Repeated often enough it's actually a torture tactic.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 02:28 PM
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I feel like I'm seeing "it's your algorithm" being used as a deflection a lot lately. But how you find something is incidental to the thing itself. Even if someone is only seeing misandry (for example) because their social media's algorithm has learned to show it to them, that doesn't change the fact that the algorithm always has something new to show them. Blaming "the algorithm" is no more valid than saying, "You only saw that because you googled it. It's not actually a problem."
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 10:08 PM
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My coworkers demanded proof that my dad was actually dead when I missed a few days for his funeral.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 09:12 PM
4

Just doublethink bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 09:11 PM
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Number of comments doesn't tell the whole story though. If there are two comments for the cheater and 99 against but the two "pro" comments show up first because they have 200+ up votes each compared to a handful at most for any given post condemning them...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 11:55 AM
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Well they're not, so...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 10:26 PM
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All right. I'll play. What does bangmaid mean if not a maid you bang?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:38 PM
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The large numbers were chosen to illustrate the point that "even if you never succeed your chances were better" is cold comfort if you never succeed. Who cares if the odds were slightly better if they still weren't good enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 11:59 AM
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even if dating never happens, you’ve increased your chances What good is that? Am I going to feel better about my failure knowing I had a 50% chance instead of 25%?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 10:36 PM
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Three words: lesbian bed death.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 02:58 PM
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Can't you just agree with her that man bad!? Come on, this isn't hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 02:32 PM
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We want good women to teach other women that this is wrong!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 02:10 PM
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It's actually a lot simpler than that. Rule #1 Rule #2 Everything else is a smokescreen. If you follow the rules, your interest will make her feel wanted, if not it will make you look desperate. If you adhere to the rules your disinterest will make her chase you, if you don't she want even notice.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 02:04 PM
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Okay I don't know what your trying to accomplish here but I'm done engaging with... whatever it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 01:48 PM
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I'm not one of those guys. Stop trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 01:43 PM
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Your ridiculous assumptions are being challenged. Try to keep up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 01:15 PM
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I'm sorry, I didn't realize you knew all of those men personally and had discussed how they felt about her. My bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 01:02 PM
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Source: it was revealed to me in a dream.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 10:17 PM
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And why would honesty not get consent if women wanted sex just as much as men?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 09:58 PM
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In my defense I didn't forget, I never knew. Happy Birthday!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 10:09 PM
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So it's a question the protestors are asking? Then it's absolutely gendered, because they're only asking it in attempt to come up with a reason why male abuse victims should not be helped.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 09:17 PM
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It seemed to be the implication given the situation. Apologies if I misinterpreted.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 09:02 PM
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How do we prevent female abusers from doing that under current systems? The truth is we don't worry about such low probability scenarios except when we need an excuse for misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 08:50 PM
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You're still trying to evade my question but I'm not surprised since really understanding what you said isn't a good look for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 08:48 PM
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Oh don't worry, they came up with a dodge for that. Basically if you turn away from feminism because of their abuse you were always against feminism in your awful little maleheart.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 08:36 PM
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Did you read the post? This is about feminists fighting against an instance of men trying to help men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 08:34 PM
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You're evading the question but I too am glad we're both pro choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 08:32 PM
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They argue the campaign si designed to attack women and feminists, and that it is in fact a hate campaign. What is it feminists are so fond of saying...? "When you're used to privilege, equality looks like oppression."
/r/MensRights20/05/24 08:31 PM
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So you want abortion to be banned in placed where it is currently legal until and unless it is made legal everywhere? What an odd take.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 08:17 PM
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Just to be clear, your argument is that women can't opt out of parenthood in some places so men shouldn't be able to anywhere, even in places where women still can?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 08:00 PM
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"Sapiosexual" means she wants a Chad who sometimes wears glasses.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 07:07 PM
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No... those two statements are equivalent. Go back to math class.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 01:03 PM
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A few years back I was at a halloween party and there was this super hot girl I had my eye on, but I was informed that she was the unicorn to a married couple at least 10 years her senior and each weighing at least two of her. Never understood.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 09:28 PM
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I mean... that's one of exactly two themes a war movie can have.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 08:53 PM
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she has a gift for helping the animals go peacefully When you put it like that, of course not. Sounds like a kind caring person.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 08:40 PM
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If my wife is a size queen I'd rather get her a dildo than inevitably have her fuck another dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 08:16 PM
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This is the way. It can be hard to make yourself take that first bite if the hangover is giving you nausea, but once you do...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 08:04 PM
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The men who are abusing women and the men who are so rejected by women that they would date an AI are almost certainly not the same men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 08:00 PM
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did my time Wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 07:43 PM
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Well let's see. If the internet rage machine doesn't feel the need to post something a lot it's because they don't believe it will enrage people. So I would feel comfortable saying it's the fault of people who don't find it enraging. If you (and by extension age gap haters in general) actually found women like Cher as offensive as men like Leo, you would see stuff about it all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 07:22 PM
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That's fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 07:20 PM
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only see things about her online maybe once a year if at all That's kind of the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 06:48 PM
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Yall kind of give away the game when you rag on Leo every chance you get but are suspiciously quiet about Cher.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 06:29 PM
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A tall guy made his move.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 06:02 PM
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So if a guy lies and says he's had a vasectomy so a woman will go bareback?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 06:01 PM
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I absolutely do not believe there were no other men pursuing her.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 05:56 PM
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Sounds like she has a type.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 04:49 PM
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pass by calmly and contribute Is this person aware that in those "earlier times" they're so fond of contribution was rewarded by society?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 04:18 PM
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Yeah... radfems have never had a problem with trans lesbians. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 04:14 PM
1

Let's be real, southerners love Lipton Brisk, or it's nearest homemade equivalent. I'm from the south but I don't consider what they drink there to be tea.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 03:53 PM
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Appeal to worse problems is a hard one to defend with argument from fallacy because the entirety of the argument rests on the fallacy. Your assertion that RP related matters don't matter rests entirely on the fallacious premise that only the most dire problem in the world deserves attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 05:52 PM
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Short guys expect to be rejected for height. Average height guys are more surprised when they start to encounter "you must be this tall to ride" signs and they don't meet the requirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 05:30 PM
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This is informally known as :fallacy of relative privation" or "appeal to worse problems. It is, as the name indicates, a logical fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 05:24 PM
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"You can be perfectly happy being single. I was." Yes and Thoreau was happy on Walden Pond - because he could leave at any time. That guy from "into the wild" was happy in the Alaskan wilderness until he wanted to leave and couldn't. It's very easy to maintain happiness in a situation when you chose it and/or can choose to end it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 02:53 PM
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Where...? Where do you think instincts come from?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 02:45 PM
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What I'm getting from the replies to this is the same old story once again: Women: Men need to show their emotions. A MAN SHOWS HIS EMOTIONS Women: No, not like that!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 12:24 PM
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Women being more likely to message men they think are unattractive doesn't really make a difference for several reasons, chief among them being that woman barely ever send the first message anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 08:51 PM
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Ah... turn it back on her and ask how she feels about anal?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 08:00 PM
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Respectfully, I think it's you who's missing the mark. This idea that guys who have trouble dating have no female friends is a ridiculous fallacy. The truth is just that you can't learn much about romantic (or God forbid sexual) matters from platonic friendships.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 07:59 PM
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Okay I'll own that I don't flirt a lot. But is this something women commonly bring up in the flirting stage?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 07:56 PM
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At least this article doesn't make a point to say "physically healthy" like all the other ones I've seen about her and the other girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 07:40 PM
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Fetish: noun - anything about a woman's appearance, background, or personality that a man she is not attracted to finds attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 07:38 PM
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Why is porn the only place for young men to get ideas about women? Can't they draw experience from interacting with the women who are dating them? Oh wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 07:34 PM
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You've never seen a woman argue that nice guys are actually worse than abusive assholes? It happens here on a daily basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 06:56 PM
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Sure it doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 05:08 PM
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And yet, notice how this man is not trying to convince us that criminal girl is actually a better person than all those nice girls and that's why he's thirsty for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 04:21 PM
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The axe always forgets, but the tree remembers.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 01:22 PM
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Last time I had an actual conversation with a man I wasn’t related to was before the pandemic. I will never speak to one irl again. This you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 07:07 PM
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My point was that "self fulfilling prophecy guys" aren't making this shit happen. They just know it will and people either don't believe them or when they turn out right blame them for it. You know, like they did to Cassandra.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 07:01 PM
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Please show me the cities where a person working full time at minimum wage can afford rent. Go ahead I'll wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 06:35 PM
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We prefer the term "Sons of Cassandra" thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 06:24 PM
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But if the job won't pay that person enough to survive either way...?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 06:23 PM
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Clearly not if the number of places having "staff shortages" now is any indication.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 05:57 PM
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If you're working full time delivering pizzas and $70/hrs is what it takes to stay housed clothed and fed, then yes, that should be the minimum. Minimum wage should be living wage. I love how people always throw back huge amounts as if I'm somehow going to say "oh you're right that would be unreasonable". Truth is no one who wants to raise the minimum wage wants to pump it as high as it will go. They want it to remain what it was when FDR invented the damn thing: a wage that can support a full-t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 05:56 PM
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And you think without a minimum wage the majority of employers wouldn't come to the sudden realization that the majority of jobs are only worth a buck or two an hour?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 05:32 PM
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Well then we come back to the most basic principal: if you can't afford to pay your workers you can't afford to own a business. If you expect your employees to subsidize your dream of owning a taco bell, that's just straight up entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 05:22 PM
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I disagree. No one (and especially not the person whose profits the wage comes out of) gets to decide that some work isn't "worthy" of a living wage. If you have a job you need done and you can't or don't want to do it yourself, then the person willing to do it for you deserves, by virtue of their willingness alone, to earn a living wage for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 05:19 PM
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They should at least be honest about it though. It's always "we laid these workers off because we 'couldn't afford' the increase." Bullshit. They absolutely can afford it, they just don't want to take the tiny cut in profits.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 05:02 PM
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Definitely with you on UBI would be preferable. That said, I'm not comfortable with the idea of "labor worth less than minimum". That's basically saying "there are certain jobs that we want done, but we think the people doing them deserve to live in poverty" and that just doesn't sit right with.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 04:55 PM
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You see the problem in those examples as the wage itself and not the way the rich ceos of the affected companies chose to respond to it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 04:53 PM
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Why do you think they're a bad idea?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 04:37 PM
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Don't know about now but the early astronauts (Mercury - Apollo) got exactly as much tail as they wanted, whatever amount that was for each individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 01:48 PM
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OP said "Maga level". I have yet to see such a person even attempt to hide it. Women talk about red flags but these guys often have a literal red flag that says "Trump 2024" on the back of their truck. If it's not the flag it's the bumper sticker or the hat, or they'll just say it. They're the only people more eager to identify themselves than vegans.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 01:43 PM
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No, that's why I won't accept worse treatment from a woman than she gave her previous partners even if they were better looking than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 10:48 PM
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Interesting because in reality that only happens to the bananas that no one thinks are good enough to put inside them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 10:33 PM
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Problem there is some women will just "not realize" they're pregnant until after the man's window has expired.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 10:01 PM
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The didjeridoo I got at the renn faire says "no, mate".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 09:34 PM
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Alternately men are pretending to be women since that is the only way to get most redditors to sympathize with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 09:33 PM
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I guarantee that woman is not anyone's definition of "overweight". And that includes the medical establishment, not just thirsty dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 05:58 PM
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Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 01:53 PM
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Pics or it didn't happen. (I just want to see kittens)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 01:11 PM
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Follow up question: what happened for you to think women would be drafted even if there was?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 05:34 PM
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I would but I've heard onlyfans does some sketchy stuff with your credit card info.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 05:33 PM
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Sure would be awesome if any of that addressed what I said about the rise in food costs not being due to inflation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 05:32 PM
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How do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 05:25 PM
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I explained where my opinion comes from, you did not. We are not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 02:54 PM
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What a well thought out and eloquently presented rebuttal. You've certainly convinced me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 02:43 PM
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So you don't think that such lopsided attraction is a problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 01:33 PM
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Food costs are not rising because of inflation. They are rising because of capitalist corporate greed. If it was inflation corporate profits would be holding steady instead of rising.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 01:30 PM
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They also do in real life. Every male who has a chad friend will know this. You have to respond to the entire post, not just the parts you think are easy to dismiss.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 01:25 PM
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And if the first session was free so I could know before paying them whether they would or would not try to push CBT on me that might matter. Even drug dealers give you the first hit free.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 12:48 PM
5

So how come not a single woman ever offered a door number three on the bear vs man hypothetical?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 11:46 AM
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I won't go to therapy until CBT goes out of fashion. I'm not paying someone to pretend to listen to my problems if they're just going to tell me to gaslight myself at the end of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 11:35 AM
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He fell for scientology so I'm pretty sure it still isnt.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 11:26 AM
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I love this comic because clearly a woman drew it trying to show how "horrible" life as a woman is and literally every guy who has ever seen it just says "yew please".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 11:13 AM
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That's asking a lot. She can't even write a post worth reading.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 12:11 AM
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I'll never know the joy of helping my children give their mother a special Mother's Day because none of those people exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:01 PM
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And I'm telling you, it's a lot harder for a guy to get the kind of body women consider acceptable than it is for women to get the kind of body men consider ideal (not even going into the fact that different men vary widely in what they consider ideal while women are pretty uniform in their standards).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 09:55 PM
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You're not talking about normal fat loss though. You said no fat anywhere. I know you're picturing Chris Hemsworth on a 72 hr dehydration cycle right before his shirtless scene. That kind of physique is not attainable without massive work, no matter how much testosterone you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 09:36 PM
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Woman is designed to carry fat in the aforementioned pre-approved places. Healthy diet and moderate excercises is all that is needed to keep it off the other places. For a man to have "no fat anywhere" as you suggest he needs to be in the gym like it's his full time job.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 09:24 PM
1

And why should a man work hard to achieve this standard if the best he gets for it is a woman who hasn't done the much easier work of achieving hers?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 09:14 PM
2

And women should only have the acceptable amount of fat and only in the pre-approved zones.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 09:07 PM
1

Pretty sure the first word of her flair tells you everything you need to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 09:03 PM
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Spoiler alert: neither are women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 09:01 PM
2

So they need to get fit in order to finally pull a girl who couldn't be bothered to?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 08:57 PM
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My instinct tells me no. If there were, humans would not be as numerous as we are. But if you're dead bedrooming someone it's a pretty good dodge to make them look like the unreasonable one.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 08:37 PM
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Nope they're even worse off. They can't even get a fat - sorry, plus-size - woman interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 08:30 PM
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What's to understand? Alpha males (those guys they claim don't exist) get them wet downstairs.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:36 PM
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No, just a sad one. The vast majority - and I mean like 99.9X% - only ever commit violence against one person (themselves).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 11:45 AM
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If it's always their partners and exes doing this maybe more women need to give a different segment of the male population a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 11:40 AM
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Then you wonder why so many men end up lost in the wilderness when it comes to their own identity in terms of dating and sex. Somehow I feel like the organization that lasts well into high school age (in case you were thinking of scouting as just a little kid thing) and goes on long camping trips in the woods being coed might actually help some young men in terms of dating and sex. I sure wish there had been girls in my troop back when I was a scout. That said, I don't envy the adult leaders who…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 11:52 AM
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Why are none of mine?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 10:54 PM
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Being tall is your ante. It doesn't guarantee a win by any means, but you're not even welcome at the table without it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 10:21 PM
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I volunteer as tribute!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 10:18 PM
4

The headline "Plus-size women admit they don't want fat men" will always live in my memory. It really says it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 09:34 PM
2

Better to share than to go without.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 09:32 PM
1

You mentioned freedom and release for captives/prisoners three times. Are you planning something we should know about?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 09:28 PM
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Quite often, almost always from women who didn't want to "ruin" our friendship by dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 09:04 PM
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Honestly thinking of adding to my bio: "Not going to send a first message even if men can now. If you're not even interested enough to make so simple a gesture, what kind of relationship could we possibly have?" See if that gets a reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 07:25 PM
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To be fair, they only gave up on the m&ms thing because one of the trumps used it unironically to justify the right's anti-immigration stance. They couldn't really go back to it after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 06:55 PM
4

Oh the Palestine thing? Yeah, that's not anti-american. Sorry try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 02:31 PM
2

Please show me where the anti-american protests are happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 02:25 PM
5

Are the bolsheviks in the room with us right now? And please note I will need you to identify them and provide proof of their bolshevism that goes beyond "I don't like them".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 02:18 PM
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I always liked the "if things don't change for him" part. Ferris acknowledges that Cameron is doing the best Cameron can and needs external help. FAR too many people (on this very sub even) are obstinately unwilling to believe that of people who struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 01:34 PM
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I heard the Antifeminism subreddit got removed so we're probably getting some folks drifting over from there. EDIT: stupid autocorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 12:50 PM
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"If things don't change for him, he's gonna marry the first girl he lays, and she's gonna treat him like shit, because she will have given him what he has built up in his mind as the end-all, be-all of human existence. She won't respect him, 'cause you can't respect somebody who kisses your ass. It just doesn't work."
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 12:13 PM
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Didn't say I'd necessarily do it. Said it would be nice to have the option.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 11:14 PM
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Didn't say I'd necessarily do it. Said it would be nice to have the option.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 11:13 PM
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Right? I wish people wanted to see my deal enough to get $100 a month charging for the privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 10:54 PM
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Women frequently say they don't find most men they see attractive. Why is it suddenly a problem if men believe them?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 10:39 PM
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Shown care and affection for others my whole life (42 years ftr). I'm sure I'll be receiving some in return any day now.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 10:26 PM
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Well before the tiktoker got away I'd be sure to ask them why they're bothering to make content for a platform that will be banned soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 09:34 PM
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God I wish that were true.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 09:03 PM
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Everything. It's not my fault you can't stick to a single position and flip flip to whatever you think is a "winning" argument and just hope the other person will loose track of the argument if you zig zag enough. I'll give you one more chance though: If you don't think the man is more likely to attack you than the bear (therefore more dangerous) then why pick bear?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 04:29 PM
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You're defending it. If you don't agree with it, are you just being contrary?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 04:18 PM
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No please, it's your meme. Go ahead and explain your reasoning. Why be more afraid of a man than a bear?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 03:18 PM
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Why be scared of men then?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 03:06 PM
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Did you know even more man encounters result in just as little harm?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 02:59 PM
2

That is literally the only way this little thought experiment makes any sense whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 02:52 PM
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A rational person knows that danger is about more than just what you are physically capable of. Misandrists refuse to accept that the vast majority of men would never hurt anyone even I'd they technically physically could.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 02:37 PM
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Misandry, like I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 02:25 PM
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She must have some ugly coworkers.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 02:24 PM
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Ah yes, so cringe when all those people said that the attractive young woman with the nice boobs was attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 02:11 PM
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Only in the sense that the base meme uses a wild animal as the "safer option". Your variant uses a structurally unsound bridge. The message is still the same: "there is nothing more dangerous than any random man."
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 02:01 PM
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A twoxer isn't going to allow herself to be far enough in the woods to lose cell service; she might miss a chance to post hate. So she'll have a working phone and the second she sees a man she'll call 911 to report a rape in progress. Then I just sit back and wait for the police to come get us.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 01:57 PM
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Yes because the entire thing still rests on the understanding that men are so inherently dangerous that a random one encountered in the woods is sure to do something awful to you. Dress it up however you want, you can't hide that the entire premise is rooted in misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 01:53 PM
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Perhaps I should have said prefer. But I was doing a bit so I had to keep the wording consistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 01:51 PM
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Maybe instead of complaining women should ask themselves why men choose the east Asian woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 01:32 PM
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You... maybe be going to the wrong BBQ restaurants.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 01:30 PM
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Because they are attracted to and pursue those types of men. Guarantee that guy was showing her who he was every time he interacted with someone he wasn't trying to bang and she ignored it because of the tingles. Hell, she even says he mistreated her and she still went back. Women - especially young women - find abusive assholes attractive but also want everybody's sympathy when an asshole they chose gets around to abusing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 01:20 PM
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You don't expect women to actually read those do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 01:08 PM
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"Women have higher standards." "No! Men just have lower standards!" Not to get too mathematical, but X>Y and Y<X are equivalent statements.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 01:07 PM
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Okay whatever. Come back when you're ready to engage with a topic honestly. So... never I assume.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 03:49 PM
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Yeah I know. It's also a far cry from "girls are all friends". And ironically it's exactly your position on applying material from fiction to real life situations. And AGAIN if that's what you think OP meant, then mean girls only supports his point because they did all end up friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 03:39 PM
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Done in one.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 03:06 PM
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That is what I'm accusing you of, yes. Are we finally on the same page?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 03:02 PM
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And we've devolved to the point where you need to strawman the original post to keep your footing. OP never said women are all friends and always get along. If that's what you took from it, no wonder you got so mixed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 02:55 PM
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Grown up feminist seems more likely to produce those results.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 02:52 PM
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I agree. Teachers also shouldn't be able to drink, smoke, watch 'R' rated movies, skip going to church on sunday, or have anything other than procreative missionary sex, and that's only within wedlock.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 02:47 PM
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Okay so it's the second one. Good to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 02:35 PM
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You assume every scene in a fantasy story revolves around the fantasy elements but here's a little secret: stories don't get as popular as game of thrones unless they have something real and human at their core. I can't tell if you're actually this snobbish about media or if you're pretending not to get it in order to "win". ...but I have suspicions.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 02:31 PM
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You probably should give it a reread if you missed the point that badly, yeah. If someone is talking about interactions entirely between human characters it actually doesn't matter if there happen to be dragons offscreen. Anyone with even a shred of media literacy will tell you the same thing. EDIT: and note, that is the exact argument you're making with the "happy ending" of Mean Girls: that the fanciful elements don't matter when you're discussing the parts based in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 02:16 PM
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I have seen practically every form of physical abuse among boys in school and yes that very much includes locker stuffing. I myself was subjected to a good amount of it. So forgive me if I'm not going to get on board with the idea that girls who had their feelings hurt were somehow worse off.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 02:13 PM
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Sorry I'm not buying it. Plenty of people have used aspects of films or TV shows that obviously reflect situations that exist in real life and you've used the more fantastical trappings of the media in general to dismiss their point. It doesn't matter if there are dragons in house of the dragon if the person posting is talking about the very human interactions between the characters. Yet I have seen you use the presence of the dragons to dismiss what they said. That's all fine and well and withi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 02:09 PM
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You want the button? HOW DARE YOU ACCUSE HER OF CHEATING!? Enjoy being single again thanks to your own insecurity!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 01:45 PM
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Sorry let me rephrase it in the way men and boys hear it all the time: "Someone said mean things to you? Oh no! Nothing worse than that has ever happened to anyone!"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 01:42 PM
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Well I'm told emotional and mental pain is something that's easy to get over and ignore. Maybe that only applies to men though. Thoughts?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 01:32 PM
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Jesus dude! You need to stretch before doing mental gymnastics like that! You're going to hurt yourself! Anyone else on this sub points to a movie as evidence and you give them a snarky version of "movies aren't real". You want to use a movie to make a point and suddenly they're relevant. And even if the movie doesn't actually support the point you're trying to make you'll still try to weasel out of it. You have to pick one. Either fiction is applicable to real life or it isn't. And the neat thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 01:30 PM
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I'll be sure to inform the weaker guys once I figure out which lockers they're in.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 01:07 PM
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A: don't you usually consider fiction irrelevant to reality? B: remind me how that movie ended.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 01:06 PM
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No I don't mind them having that peace of mind. ...now about that paternity test...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 01:04 PM
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Isn't it men don't have a single type? That's what I always see. Different men have different types, whereas women are pretty uniform in their preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 11:08 PM
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Censored with a day 1 patch.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 11:00 PM
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Makeup causes no permanent bodily changes. Male equivalent is shoe lifts or a beard to hide a weak chin.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 10:52 PM
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Look what happened with Stellar Blade. Niantic probably just wanted to get ahead of the curve.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 10:48 PM
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Bears are obviously right out. As the only man I would likely be exiled by the women for their "safety" and die alone in the wilds. So it's gonna be men. I won't be the top of the heap but as long as I contribute to the general survival of the group, I will be allowed to remain.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 10:46 PM
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That's the nice thing about pho; you can doctor it however you want. Wonton you just kind of get what they give you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 08:46 PM
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I think the idea is that looks are the number one priority for men but that their standards for what looks they find acceptable are more forgiving. Whereas women prioritize other things but the looks standards they do have are stricter.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 08:43 PM
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Pho because you can load it up with peppers and Sriracha and clear your sinuses (assuming it's that kind of sick).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 08:36 PM
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Karma isn't a god thing though. Also that guilt by association thing is one of the reasons I belive in God just as much as in karma.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 07:44 PM
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Not sure what I did bad to deserve my cat to get run over You didn't do anything. That's the point. And even if you did do something bad (I don't know you) the punishment should be just for you. No reason your cat should die for it. When someone kills ten people, we imprison or execute them, not their family and friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 06:33 PM
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Fuck that. If it was karma why did it punish his innocent newborn instead of just him? For my part I don't believe in karma because I only ever seem to see the bad people get more and more rewarded. I had a pretty shitty youth in terms of treatment from my peers. I stopped expecting to see them be punished by authority figures or lose the respect and admiration/affection of others for it. But if karma was a thing you would expect it to have done something bad to at least one of them at least onc…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 06:22 PM
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Men will be required to go on mood altering medications that deaden their negative emotions to keep them from hurting others. Those who won't or can't will be institutionalized or imprisoned. This will very much include people who can't afford the drugs in places without public healthcare.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 06:04 PM
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I meant this specific kind of alien. Not known for the anal probe.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 04:47 PM
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Don't forget that acid blood though. You could kill the alien and die from explosive decompression seconds later.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 04:45 PM
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Would you rather be alone on a spaceship with an Alien, or alone in the woods with the Predator.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 04:22 PM
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I don't think anyone ever learned anything about bears from Little Red Riding Hood.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 04:19 PM
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If I'm up on a hill and see a bear down in the valley that doesn't even realize I'm there, is that not a bear sighting? If I report to the ranger "hey I saw a bear in the valley" that goes in the sightings list. But I was never in the slightest danger.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 04:17 PM
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The information is readily available. If you were actually interested you could look it up in seconds. Putting the burden of "educating" you onto others is a trolling tactic. People don't respond because they suspect nothing they can show you will actually convince you because your mind is already made up. Who wants to waste their time digging up info for you to ignore?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 04:12 PM
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You realize people don't bring up the black people comparison because they are racist and feel threatened by black people right? Would it help if I put an /s in my original response? The point is that people who feel threatened by men for no other reason than their maleness are no better than people who feel threatened by black people for no other reason than their blackness. It's not about "not being picked", it's about being considered dangerous because of a group you were born into, regardles…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 04:02 PM
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I've said all I'm going to say to you. But I'll happily clue others in to what you're doing in case they somehow still think you're debating honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 03:52 PM
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Dude's sealioning. It doesn't matter how many times you answer, he'll just ask again.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 03:47 PM
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You're adding a lot of amendments to the man sightings to make this work while seemingly assuming that all the bear sightings in the stay you quoted must have been situations where the bear could have attacked and didn't. A bit of finger on the scale action methinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 03:45 PM
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This may be tough for an old frat boy to understand, but not every guy in college is in a frat passing Deltas around every Saturday night.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 03:41 PM
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Good songs, good answer. I stand corrected.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 03:39 PM
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Order of operations though. None of those other factors become a factor if looks disqualify you first. And women have demonstrably harsher looks criteria than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 03:34 PM
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The veiled accusation of racism is a nice touch. It's easy not to care about hypothetical fantasy scenarios where you aren't the one being painted as a bad person because of how you were born. And it's easy to say you'd definitely be above it all if you were on the receiving end.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 03:26 PM
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could also talk about female rappers that talk about things like dv, abuse and working hard. Do it. I'd love to hear some
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 03:24 PM
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His awesome personality, obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 03:20 PM
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People have posted like three and you just said "where's the bigotry" so sorry if I'm boy going to play along.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 03:19 PM
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Here's a good explanation. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sealioning
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 03:15 PM
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Don't you remember that scene in Lord of the Rings when they went to the goblin bank to make a withdrawal?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 03:14 PM
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The comparison is pretty obvious and you'd have to be trying pretty hard not to see it. So kudos to you for putting in the effort I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 03:09 PM
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A woman her age probably shouldn't be throwing her future post-menopausal sisters under the bus like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 03:05 PM
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If you're playing the numbers game, how many sightings of men were there that did not lead to an attack?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 03:01 PM
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It's what women want. And isn't that the important thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 02:59 PM
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Male rappers: rap about the often harsh realities of life in urban communities and the extremes that those conditions can drive someone to think order to escape or even survive. Female rappers: rap about how awesome it is to get dicked down and have men pay for their shit in the hopes of being the one doing the dicking. Women listening:
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 02:50 PM
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"I'll just keep all my feelings in here. And then one day, I'll die."
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 02:26 PM
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Right? It's like when i said I'd rather be alone with a komodo dragon than a black person. Just fun party conversation. I really don't get why I was asked to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 02:21 PM
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I thought is was until I saw the followup about him making their family hate them. Again, LARPers never know to quit while they're still believable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 01:14 PM
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No one got on board with her wanting her brother to stay single and sad so she had to come up with this to say "no guys! He really is bad now! See?" Makes me doubt the first post was even real. This second one definitely isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 01:12 PM
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That's why I walk if there's no sex on the first date. Either she doesn't want me at all or she does want me but she's deliberately holding off for some other reason. That reason my be intrinsic to her (morals, previous experiences, etc) or it might be to test me in some way. Bottom line, I'm not going to keep paying for dates so I can roll those dice.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 01:03 PM
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I mean, it's what I heard happened. Could be apocryphal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 03:25 AM
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I am convinced that all men here that are miserable intolerable people are because they are single. Some are born miserable, some achieve it, but let's be real, most have misery thrust upon them. EDIT: your downvotes only make me more convinced I'm right.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 12:26 AM
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After my last breakup I swore to myself I would never compromise on attraction again. That was 15 years ago and I'm starting to wonder if maybe I made a mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 12:22 AM
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Without googling, what is average height?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 10:52 PM
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Most guys don't care about a woman's height. And the height preference in women isn't for a man taller than her, it's for a man taller than the majority of men. That's why it upsets men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 10:43 PM
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That's the only kind of woman that seems to be into me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 10:31 PM
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Trying to decide if this was a subtle bear thread. Honestly just jokin'.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 10:02 PM
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i feel like goldilocks
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 09:58 PM
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Not in places where they are illegal and/or prohibitively expensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 09:15 PM
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Reminder that the creature designers took their initial designs around the office and asked "would you?". Then they altered the design and did it again, repeating until a majority answered "yes".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 09:13 PM
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Trinket.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 09:11 PM
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Part of that is because lawyers advise not to fight unless they are sure of a slam dunk win because of the expense involved, not to mention the trauma to both father and children.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 07:30 PM
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Maybe it's not as blatant as you think. Guys tend to be desperately on the lookout for any sign of interest. If they're still missing yours, maybe you need to make it a bit more obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 06:26 PM
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Because your style makes your posts hard to read, which makes it more difficult for you to communicate your point. Standard writing styles became standard for a reason. They weren't just pulled out of a hat.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 06:05 PM
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So all those women who say "NO HOOKUPS! I want sOmEtHiNg ReAl!"...?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 05:25 PM
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And the thing is, they are very aware of this when it comes to men's fears: "How likely are you to get falsely accused, or screwed in a divorce?" But their fears are always rational and must be taken seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 04:28 PM
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Did Edward look 200? Did he look a day older than 18?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 04:07 PM
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My greatest regret is that I was too old to benefit when depressive vampire dream boy became a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 03:37 PM
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What's dishonest is not acknowledging that plenty of women condoned what happened while a legislature formed entirely of men made it illegal. You just insisted that women must have cared more (while commenting that men liked it because of their deviant sexuality) because you just feel like it's true. The past was the worst - no need to make that a gendered issue unless you have an axe to grind against a certain gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 03:35 PM
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I'm saying they've tried and been rejected. I don't subscribe to the just-world thinking of "anyone who failed must have never tried."
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 03:29 PM
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I choose bear.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 03:28 PM
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You're being pretty dishonest in a fairly classic motte and Bailey fashion. You didn't say "child rape is bad" that's the obvious truth you hid behind when "men have never cared about child rape" was challenged.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 03:27 PM
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Way to ignore that last question. No good answer for that one, eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 03:22 PM
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You're moving the goalposts a bit here from "no relationship" to "zero contact".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 03:20 PM
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MensLib has been controlled opposition for as long as I can remember.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 03:18 PM
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So the answer is no. You did not. And I have a feeling that you couldn't produce such a post on Twitter either and even if you had posted it, it would not have been as a condemnation of women. If I help girls and women IRL would that get me a pass on posting misogyny? Of course not, nor should it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 03:16 PM
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So only men who are successful with women can have valid observations of them. Men who are unsuccessful (and thus more likely to have negative views) can be safely ignored. That's more convenient than a 24-hour WaWa.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 03:10 PM
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You have in fact not answered the question that got you started on your "what have you done" kick. When you saw that article last year that you cared so much about did you post it and say "women have never cared about this"?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 03:06 PM
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Deflect all you want. Posting an inflammatory "man bad" Twitter post doesn't actually help women or girls in any meaningful way. Its only purpose is to spread misandry. Anything else you or I might or might not do outside this sub is immaterial.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 02:55 PM
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You're acting like this is some gotcha but the truth is it's just a deflection. If I say all my time and money are pretty much tied up in keeping myself alive that doesn't actually undercut my point about the motives behind this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 02:49 PM
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Big deal, I do that all the time. ...wait, you mean in a row?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 02:45 PM
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You grabbed a story and said "I saw this a year ago and cared". Some evidence of you having cared a year ago even half as much as you care about this story today is not, I think, an inappropriate ask. And not just "cared" about it, but used it to make a blanket statement that women have never cared about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 02:42 PM
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You're the one claiming to care about both equally so the onus to have posted it is really on you. BTW, as a mod can you do something about the people in this convo breaking the no downvoting rule?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 02:30 PM
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Funny I don't remember you posting that last year and using it as proof or rampant misandry. Maybe I wasn't online when you did?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 02:16 PM
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Interesting way to say women are only capable of loving the most attractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 02:10 PM
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Shrugging off little boys dying in meat packing plants in 2024 will also get an equal judgmental side eye from me. Would it though? Can you honestly say that you would have posted a picture of nine year old boys lined up for a shift in a chemical mill with a caption "women have never cared about this?" Cause that's the part that got me going here. Just about anyone can agree marrying a nine year old girl is a bad thing done by bad people. But that wasn't the point of the Twitter thread you chose…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 02:05 PM
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It's a sad fact that we generally care more about our in group (except for the statistically noted out group bias of men in favor of women). Men might care less about child brides from long ago just like women might care less about little boys dying of black lung. To a certain degree it can't be avoided and I don't think it's something to condemn people alive today over.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:51 PM
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And I'm sure more men cared. See we can both be "sure" of things with no evidence. (Except I do have the fact that in 1937 the state legislature that said "this is no longer legal" was almost certainly made up entirely of men.)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:43 PM
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Wow you really had to duck to make sure the point t went over your head that time didn't you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:39 PM
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Article says her mother married pretty young too but sold her daughter off to the same fate anyway. Not much empathy or sympathy in view there.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:35 PM
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So do things said on the internet matter IRL or not? Because if they don't then there's a shit ton of subteddits that need to be undeleted.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:28 PM
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So reading the article, a couple of things jump out. First, as soon as this got attention Tennessee passed a law to prevent such marriages so it may be a tad disingenuous to say men "never made much noise against these things". Also it seems Eunices mother was fine with it despite some initial misfiring so again placing all the disgust on "men" seems a bit agenda-y. As for the snarky bit: that is the joke. But like many jokes, it is based in a truth. The initial Twitter poster (and you as well p…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:26 PM
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Oh I'm sorry I assumed it would take at least a simple majority for you to condemn all men. Apparently I was giving you too much credit. Mind castles... lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:18 PM
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Sure but to lie about that stat to say it applies to all women is pretty gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:14 PM
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I will make two replies to this, one sincere and one snarky. Sincere: where is the documentation showing that's who these people really are? The Twitter post just shows the photo and we are meant to take their word for it that their caption is accurate. Snarky: her twin brother couldn't make it to the wedding because it was during his shift in the coal mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:09 PM
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A CDC study reported that "the overall pregnancy-associated homicide ratio was 1.7 deaths per 100,000 live births", and that homicide was not the leading cause of pregnancy-associated death, though it was still highlighted as among the leading causes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:05 PM
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And yet statistically most rapes and sexual assaults aren't done by strangers in secluded locations.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 12:54 PM
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So the majority of men that you and your circle encounter on a day to day basis have tried to rape you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 12:51 PM
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I've seen Chad slap his girl's ass and tell her she needs to lose weight in front of all of their friends. Don't give me this bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 12:48 PM
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But men only ever do horrible things, or at least they do horrible things so often you can assume a random one will. That's why women pick the bear in the first place. If a bear is pretending to be a man, what makes you think he won't get up to some heinous shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 12:46 PM
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Annnnnd uninstall.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 12:43 PM
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Flip a coin. Either one's a step up from where I am now.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 12:40 PM
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Kind of like your views on man/woman interactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 12:39 PM
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How'd I get treated without my insurance card or payment card, both in my wallet? You see how your story begins to unravel?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:24 AM
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And if I said mosquitoes you'd claim it as proof I don't consider them as dangerous. Interesting game. The only move is not to play.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:23 AM
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Good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 10:37 PM
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Bear definitely. One big animal easily spotted and avoided. And if it does kill you it at least won't be lingering death by disease.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 10:36 PM
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Oh the bear did it! I've seen the video.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 10:23 PM
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Once again Florida proves itself tougher (or just more batshit) than Russia!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 10:21 PM
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Well that's not fair. EVERYONE would rather be around a duck, especially one with ducklings. That shit's adorable.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 10:17 PM
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But yall eat bears over there too. Would it be off base to say bears in Russia are like alligators in Florida?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 10:15 PM
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Looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 10:13 PM
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You're wrong. The most dangerous creature on earth by almost any measure is the mosquito. It's not even close.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 09:54 PM
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I think that depends on what metric we are measuring danger by.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 09:04 PM
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Um, yeah. I have a bank card. I'm not going to pay in the store like some fucking peasant.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:37 PM
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It's not about "not being picked" it's about being considered more dangerous (in whatever capacity the woman fears) than a wild animal. Trying to make it about not being picked is an attempt to ignore and minimize what men actually find offensive about the whole thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:35 PM
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It's probably porn-induced for the most part. Source: it came to me in a dream.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:14 PM
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Why doesn't the gas station have a roof over the pumps?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:13 PM
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That was just an example but I'm sure you realized that. You're a smart good faith poster and not a troll after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:53 PM
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You can win. It just might involve coming up with thought experiments and scenarios that reflect reality and aren't loaded with misandry. I eagerly await the day a woman tries that strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:30 PM
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Cobain, but I worry that it's only because he didn't live long enough to show his ass like Lennon.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:08 PM
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That's not the slam dunk dodge you think since all it does is reveal that you think a man is as likely to rape you as a bear is to kill you. It's still misandry no matter how you try to turn your head and squint at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:06 PM
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PACKERS!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 04:30 PM
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I don't know... I've had several gay friends refer to me as a bear and it doesn't seem to be bringing in the ladies.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 04:28 PM
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My thoughts exactly. Worst case scenario I have the best sex ever and then all of my problems go away. Best case scenario, it turns out I'm the one guy in a million who can bang her without dying and this is the start of my new life as a harem protagonist.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 04:24 PM
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Well the succubus will do more than just tease me so I'll go with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 04:18 PM
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It actually doesn't matter if your premise is supported by a simple fact when that fact doesn't have anything to do with the premise of mine that you claim to be challenging. You might as well have countered with "you say it doesn't matter where you look if you're not attractive, but have you considered that there can be up to a million ants in a single colony?"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 04:00 PM
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No you're just obstinately refusing to engage with the point of it. What would be served by going where the LTR people (whose standards are presumably higher given that they want it to last) when you're not even attractive enough to get a no strings hookup? To simplify it even further: if no one thinks I'm even good enough to spend a night with, why would I go where the women are looking for someone to potentially spend a lifetime with?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:35 PM
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"Unpaid labor" is the three dishes she washed while he was having fun perched precariously on the roof mucking half-rotted leaves out of the gutters.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:30 PM
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In fairness, that's a two-way street.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:28 PM
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It really isn't. What apps people are or are not on has nothing to do with how attractive any given person is or isnt. But go off I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:23 PM
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That would be very easy to believe if it wasn't said at some point about literally every guy who has trouble getting women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 01:33 PM
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The man chose to be under 6'1"? Odd, I don't remember ever being offered a choice in the matter. I did skip school a lot, maybe I missed that day
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 01:29 PM
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I sympathize. I feel the same way when a woman with three kids is looking for "something real".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 01:16 PM
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The moment you realize you might have chosen poorly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 01:03 PM
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That was a very good, very informative answer to a completely different question than the one I asked. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 12:54 PM
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Not to be a dick, but if it's in normal range maybe it's not what's causing your low libido.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 12:52 PM
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If you can't even get someone to hook up with you short term why would you expect someone to want an LTR with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 12:48 PM
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I think there's like one somewhere in upper Michigan and another in Vegas but that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 10:08 PM
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Anything you say after "I'm done" makes you look like a child who can't stand to not have the last word (although your oh so current minion gif tells a different story). Observe: You're never going to engage with this topic from a place of honesty, so I'm done.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 08:29 PM
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Looks like he couldn't get the support a person needs solely from male platonic friends. I actually curious what the "cure your loneliness through the power of friendship!" crowd has to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 08:26 PM
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Changing it to rape is semantics because if that's what this was really about yourld have to choose the bear over the woman since she's capable of rape too. Glad you're done though, it's a rare pleasure to see someone who knows when they're beaten.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 08:14 PM
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Sure it is. Want proof? Would you pick the bear over a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 08:10 PM
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Great whites don't consider humans prey and usually only hurt us by mistake. Women on the other hand...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 08:08 PM
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Semantics won't save you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 08:06 PM
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So man is more dangerous purely by virtue of being a man. I thought that wasn't what people believed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 08:02 PM
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Explain why why you choose the bear that doesn't imply it's safer than the man. Go ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 07:57 PM
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obstinate or unreasonable attachment to a belief, opinion, or faction, in particular prejudice against a person or people on the basis of their membership of a particular group Like say if you believed a man was more dangerous than a bear solely by virtue of him being a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 07:42 PM
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Ah, trolling. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 07:38 PM
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I don't understand. Weren't they already rejecting you before you discovered those communities?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 07:37 PM
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Jokes are really supposed to be either funny or insightful, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 07:34 PM
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For once dude, just don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 07:25 PM
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This endless bear whiny is so annoying. We get it. You're upset that men won't condone your bigotry. Move on already.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 07:15 PM
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"We'll definitely stop calling you all dangerous animals as soon as you stop resisting."
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 06:13 PM
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First they're only in prison if/when they get caught. Second, they can get conjugal visits and even get married while in prison so what's stopping them from having kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 06:03 PM
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He never said it was a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 05:57 PM
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Good question. Let's see if any of the women who say "bear" feel like answering.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 05:56 PM
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Winners never quit. Quitters never win. Idiots do neither one.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 03:48 PM
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The importance of establishing a record that cannot be expunged when atrocities are committed outweighs the insensitivity.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 03:47 PM
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Thank you for making my point for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 03:08 PM
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Also just a thought. Why should non-adorable animals be fair game? It really is true what Nietzsche said about morality having aesthetic criteria.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 02:50 PM
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Well luckily I went to Catholic school and can report that fish is not meat.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 02:48 PM
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Name me an animal we regularly eat and I guarantee there's a picture if one so cute it'll break your heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 02:27 PM
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A man who spared her at great personal risk before seven other men took her in.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 02:24 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/dxeqwvw2qtxc1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=7df02ec842b4800a262e6c9faa6e7250b59cd164
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 02:18 PM
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I'll give you the first two but the car thing is just ignoring analogies you don't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 01:02 PM
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So 90% of guys on earth will qualify.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 12:52 PM
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Yep, that's why I always failed. I wasn't respecting her as much as the guy who belittled her in front of her friends and blatantly ignored her boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 12:48 PM
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So they are. That's what I get for not updating my panda knowledge since the 80s
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 11:09 PM
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It says something that nothing that is actually a bear gets an A or higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 10:18 PM
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Just explain that your Peruvian relatives were in town and there was a tragic misunderstanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 07:19 PM
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Fair enough. But how would you implement this particular item without forcing anyone to do or in this case not do something?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 07:00 PM
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Actual efforts to reduce casual misandry and heteropessimism. In what sense is this forcing women any less than any of the other threads suggestions?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:55 PM
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Is there really a "mid" for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:53 PM
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They are making a blanket statement about a group of which I am a part. They don't have to say my name to be talking about me. And with any other blanket statement about any other demographic you would understand and accept that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:56 PM
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Also if you think a random man is more likely to rape you than a bear is to maul you, you need more help than a dating sub reddit can provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:54 PM
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Do you know me personally such that you could exclude me when you make a blanket statement about men? No? Then you are including me by default.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:51 PM
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Right? Why would someone take it personally that you think they're more dangerous to be around than a bear?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:39 PM
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"The average man is more dangerous than a large apex predator in its natural hunting grounds. I don't understand why men find this idea offensive."
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:35 PM
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Never been that guy for any of my women friends. More proof (as if I needed any) how fugly I've always been.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 04:44 PM
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Mosquitoes have us all beat for all time in death toll. Of course since only female mosquitoes bite...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 04:11 PM
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I never have that problem. If it takes me longer than 5 minutes to choose I just default to Bloodborne.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 03:17 PM
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If you needed a mascot to sell toilet paper, would you pick a man or a bear?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 03:14 PM
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Real blackpill movie when you think about it. The Addamses didn't care about Debbie's murderous ways - if anything they celebrated them, even her attempts to kill Fester. As a member of the family, their wealth is hers for the asking with no need to scheme to take it. She had everything she could ever want and she threw it away because Fester didn't give her tingles.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 02:50 PM
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Waiting at the finish line like always.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 12:38 PM
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You can't turn a no into a yes, and no's don't get more concrete than ghosting.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 10:42 PM
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Really? I kind of feel like the opposite will happen. Lifts and such will get folded into "sex by deception" and be grounds for a rape or assault charge.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 10:21 PM
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"He only likes HSV negative women because they're easier to manipulate."
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 10:14 PM
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5’10 is not that short. Don't tell us. Tell the women who say "no short guys. 6' and up please".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 09:45 PM
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Correct. If I have a friend whose company I enjoy, and both of us are single, the only remaining reason why I would not go for it would be if I do not find them attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 09:34 PM
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I disagree. A personality trait that would make someone undateable would also make them an annoying and offputting friend. The sad truth that no one wants to admit is that there is only one hard border between the friend zone and the boyfriend zone and it's called the looks threshold. Everything else is justification.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 08:31 PM
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No I mean they won't be considered shortcomings at all. Guy who makes her gush isn't "too easy going", he "doesn't sweat the small stuff".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 08:20 PM
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Whether you were initially OK with not having a title or you’ve been secretly holding out hope that the other person would eventually want a relationship, experts say I find this one interesting because isn't that the behavior that is frowned on in men who "put themselves in the friendzone"?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 08:09 PM
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Come on. We all know how this works. Every one of those traits can be spun as a positive if the guy passes certain other thresholds.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 08:05 PM
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Those are traits women want in their friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 05:33 PM
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Please describe the personality traits that make women find a guy fun to be friends with but not a romantic prospect.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 05:28 PM
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It shouldn't be weird for all the guys who are apparently single because of their terrible personalities. Much wierder to me are the guys who get told that they must have a bad personality - because there's no other reason they could be rejected romantically - yet women are somehow eager to be platonic friends with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 04:23 PM
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Women are truly suicidal less often than men, so they choose methods they are likely to survive as a cry for help. Men know they aren't likely to receive help no matter how long or loudly they call for it so they pick a method that gets the job done to end their suffering.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 04:06 PM
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I'm actually on bumble not tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 02:26 PM
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So what are the things you think somone at 20 can be trusted to k own about their own life?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 02:25 PM
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Don't forget the classic: multiple pics of the same three women with no indication which one is her (spoiler: it's never the one you hope).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 02:18 PM
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I do what women do with age. I lie in the height box (to get past height filters) then say "oops got that wrong teehee" in my bio so I'm not technically lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 02:17 PM
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At some point this entire sub (and I guess this entire society) really needs to reach a consensus on whether 20-year-olds are adults or children.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 02:14 PM
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I'm not very into the trad/submissive thing in women, but the crux of this issue seems to be: can a woman be too much of whatever it is a man wants in a woman? And the answer is an obvious no. Men don't go through relationships like an auditor trying like hell to find problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 01:45 PM
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You can't really extrapolate yourself onto "the vast majority" of women though. That would be like me saying the vast majority of men aren't having unprotected sex at all because I have 2 bodies and neither of them ever let me raw dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 01:25 PM
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Crimethink. Lovely.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 02:14 PM
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A shower thought I had in relation to a thread from yesterday: If someone says "this choice you made hurt me", and you decide to hear it as "you should not have any freedom to make choices" you're really just trying to soothe your own conscience by paintong the other person as the "bad guy".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 02:12 PM
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Shhh! They don't want to hear that! The guys they reject have to be at least as bad as the guys they go for. Otherwise they might have to face the thought that they made a mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:52 PM
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That's the thing isn't it? Women are choosing men who abuse them and putting the blame on the men who complain about not being chosen.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:20 PM
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Source: it was revealed to me in a dream.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:15 PM
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You have not established that there wasnt personal choice in the past. Nor have you established that disliking someone's choice necessitates a desire for them to have no choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 09:56 PM
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So you're saying the peasant could have self improved to the point where the girl would have picked him over the king?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 09:25 PM
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Same for me at cons and game nights.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 09:07 PM
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There have been times in my life when I would definitely have sold sperm to supplement my income. But I'm under 6' so I had to do blood instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 09:05 PM
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You have not established that the one follows from the other. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 09:01 PM
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Yes yes, you're very special.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 07:57 PM
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You're displaying a very non-human lack of empathy response here. I'm starting to suspect you. Let's try something: You're walking in a desert. You see a tortoise...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 07:06 PM
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In that case their graph should be unbalanced in the opposite direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 07:04 PM
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Again, you can dislike someone's choice without thinking they should not have the freedom to make it. Honestly it's sounding like women just want to be universally praised for everything they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 07:04 PM
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You could say the same about women. More actually since women are more likely to have options that pan out before resorting to online. So why do you suppose you don't see the same lopsided graph when men rated women?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 07:02 PM
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I'm not sure men and women have changed all that much in a mere 15 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 06:54 PM
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Cogito ero sum
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 06:49 PM
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Honestly this shirt off photo looks pretty fake. Like, Ellen's head does not belong on whoever's body that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 06:48 PM
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I've noticed that none of these "I looked at the okcupid study again" posts ever actually say anything that refutes the main point: that women rated the vast majority of men as "below average". Nothing else anyone has ever said about that study can overcome the fact that men's ratings of women formed an almost perfect bell curve while women's ratings of men looked more like the connection strength bars at the top of your cell phone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 06:46 PM
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Spot on. Abusive men act abusive right from the start. The catch is, the wont act that way toward their target so you have to pay attention to how they treat people they aren't trying to bang. And that's... like... work.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 06:10 PM
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Well now hold up. That's not at all what you said initially. You indicated the only reason someone could be horrified at modern dating is due to a corresponding horror at female autonomy. Defend that position or admit it was flawed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 06:05 PM
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Odd take. If you dislike bad things people have done with their autonomy do you automatically think they should not have had said autonomy in the first place? Cause that sounds like a "you" problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 05:48 PM
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I'll take that bet. I'm going to go out to the bar tonight and see if I can find an 8/10 Asian lady I can make out with right there in the bar while only spending $16 on her over the course of an hour. Wish me luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 02:24 PM
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Your actual incorrect assumption was that your guy friends girlfriends have any interest in setting you up with their friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:15 AM
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I don't even know where I'd start to look for people that ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 10:15 PM
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Thanks for your input.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 09:40 PM
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Do the people who insist that the "cure to male loneliness" is to make more and more platonic friends have any advice for dealing with the pain of seeing all your friends get relationships (and likely drift from you as a result) while you remain unlovable?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 09:25 PM
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I remember hearing it has something to do with hot chip.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 08:18 PM
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I'm not saying you should be held to that standard. I'm saying someone who does hold you to that standard should be prepared to be held to it themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 07:41 PM
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I think that's more disturbing as a tramp stamp than the alternative.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 05:18 PM
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But my point is, if feminists are going to hold men to that standard (and I think we can agree they do) then they need to hold themselves to the same standard... at which point it is not inappropriate to take their silence in the face of misandry as agreement.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 04:49 PM
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That's ducking the question. Be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 04:45 PM
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I mean I don't want to waste my life patrolling people in real life and the internet to ensure all immoral viewpoints are snuffed out, Except that's exactly what feminists expect men to do when it comes to misogyny. "If you don't challenge, you agree" is a thing i have literally been told.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 04:30 PM
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If they polled incels.is and all the guys there said they didn't hate women would you accept it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 03:48 PM
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I mean... you can stop inviting them to speak at your events. You can stop teaching their books in your classes. You can do more than just say they aren't true scotsmen.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 03:37 PM
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I get media from a pretty wide range of sources. If there was actually a lot of challenge going on (and not being deliberately hidden which, why would you?) I would expect to have seen at least some.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 03:34 PM
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Fair enough. I would only argue that if the measured feminists are only willing to challenge the radicals where men can't see it happen, they can't exactly make surprised Pikachu face if men assume they agree with the radicals.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 03:28 PM
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All those feminists who "don't hate men" stand by and say nothing when the ones who do hate men get going. What is it they themselves say about men who insist that they're not misogynist, but don't challenge men around them who display misogyny? Mainstream feminism does nothing to cast out the radfems; at best they will make a token no true scotsman argument when confronted with them. Mainstream feminist scholarship still teaches Dworkin and Solanas - not as historical relics but as thinkers who…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 03:00 PM
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Here's the thing; weinstein and Cosby probably would have been convicted anyway. But at the height of #metoo, "probably" wasn't good enough. So the court allowed evidence/testimony it should not have in order to make it a sure thing. Now, in the cold light of day, those trials are being reevaluated and retried- correctly this time. That is a feature of the justice system, not a bug.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 01:28 PM
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I initially upvoted those because I do think you have a good point. But I took it away because on further examination the way you formatted the post makes my soul hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 01:24 PM
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Sounds like he needs more than just "confident frame" then.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 12:46 PM
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Nope not engaging with any more of this sealioning.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 11:07 PM
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"He's coming right for us!" may establish self defense in South Park, but in the real world it doesn't hold up. Guy went people hunting plain and simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 10:57 PM
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You can't be sure. That's precisely my point. I can be reasonably sure within an acceptable margin of error. Who is doing that in 2024? Given the whole "husband material" debate that is constantly coming up around here, lots of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 10:55 PM
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She didn't know you. How was she supposed to look at someone she didn't know? I've been explaining how I can be sure she wouldn't have looked at me if she had known me this whole time. If you're just going to ignore my answer and keep asking the same question then you're arguing in bad faith and we're done here. Marriage is fun. Marriage to a woman who settles for you because she has run out of other options is not fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 10:49 PM
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What exactly is "now"? The present. This current moment in time. In context: as opposed to the past when the woman in question would not have looked twice at me. What does this even mean? Give an example. Do you think that every woman should do things on your terms? How is this stumping you? I see myself as a loyal person. A woman who entered a relationship with a guy like me when they were young would not be single now (reminder: now means the present). She would still be with the loyal man. So…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 10:36 PM
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You're missing a key part of the "state lines" argument. Taking an unlicensed weapon across state lines (a) is illegal and (b) shows intent to commit violence which calls his self defense... defense into question.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 10:26 PM
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It makes perfect sense. I'm not the kind of guy to pump and dump, or knock a woman up and then bolt. If she's single now, it's likely to be because she wasted her youth on guys like that. Because if she had been willing to give a guy like me a chance she would most likely still be with him. I think the disconnect here is that you seem to believe that people change drastically as they age, which is simply not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 10:21 PM
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What part confused you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:39 PM
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Maybe if women dumped/rejected them with "you're too ugly" instead of "you're too nice" this wouldn't be as big an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:36 PM
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Simply put; if she would have given me the time of day back then, she would be with a guy like me right now and we wouldn't be having this conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:33 PM
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If you've never met young and now you're both "old" and she wants you, there's no reason to not give her a chance. People always say this, as if guys can't tell when a woman would not have gone for them in her youth.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:02 PM
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That still sounds sketchy. Can't hurt to ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 07:39 PM
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Might want to make a report to the labor board while you're at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 07:22 PM
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A porn star active in certain niche genres.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 07:21 PM
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Answer the question instead of dancing around it. You chose the lottery as a metaphor. An ugly guy and a hot guy have the same chance of winning the lottery. So do you or do you not believe an ugly guy has the same chance of becoming a sex symbol as Meeks did... because otherwise you cannot argue that it was purely luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 06:27 PM
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So you're saying a dude with a double chin ans splotchy complexion could just as easily gone viral as "too handsome for prison"? Just a total crapshoot?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 06:11 PM
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It's only luck if you assume women picked which mugshot to drool over and share around at random. Is that how you think they chose him?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 05:52 PM
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Think I'll pass. Pretty sure the attraction in Bridgerton had more to do with Rege Jean Page than what specific clothes he's wearing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 05:45 PM
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Lottery is random. People choose to make other people internet famous and it can be instructive to observe who gets chosen and by whom.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 05:43 PM
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No you just insist they don't matter or aren't representative. Same net effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 05:26 PM
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People will call real world examples of RP fictional anyway so might as well cut out that middle man as it were.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:26 PM
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No no, let's stick with netflix series: All women would be more attractive if they dressed like they were in cyberpunk edgerunners.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 02:48 PM
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Women say the same shit about rolled up shirt sleeves. That had not produced results for me thus far, so I'm hesitant to go all in on expensive regency era cosplay on the same justification.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 02:11 PM
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Nice try. Don't pretend a 5/10 woman wants a 5/10 man any more than a 7.5/10 woman does.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 01:59 PM
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what incentive do they have to cripple a team to hire women? Diversity goals, as OP said. Also if certain groups are to be believed, they can pay woken less. That's gotta be a bonus.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 02:43 PM
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Annulment time. Easily done too since they haven't consummated the marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 02:41 PM
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There's a whole thing in their sidebar about why they did it... ....which is a lie. It was because they couldn't really maintain the "forever alone" pity party when every post had men saying "I'd date you".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 01:57 PM
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Okay, you're the second person in as many days to make a post asking why white people don't like a food that I - a white person of middle age - have rarely if ever heard a white person complain about.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 01:26 PM
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Not only juiced, but more dehydrated than astronaut ice cream.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 09:54 PM
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If there's nothing wrong with my heart (as my doctor insists) why does my chest still hurt? Don't just tell me what's not wrong; figure out what is wrong and FUCKING FIX IT!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 06:35 PM
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I thought it was pretty obvious. People who complain about being kept out of spaces (like women wanting into the free weights) tend to be the ones who will change the space to suit themselves even to the detriment of the original inhabitants. If it wasn't clear, I was agreeing with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 03:23 PM
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Only invaders complain about gatekeeping.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 03:02 PM
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I always assumed such jokes were more in the direction of "Asians only eat rice" not "we don't eat rice".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 12:58 PM
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The more locked down she has you the less interested she's going to be in sex. Why keep paying for a cow that's already yours to milk?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 12:52 PM
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Oh before you go, take my lightsaber. I want my son to have it when he's old enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 12:50 PM
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Since when do white people not eat rice?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 12:43 PM
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Poe's law hitting me hard on this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 12:28 PM
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I see what you did there.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 10:46 PM
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But is there a titty bar in the woods?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 10:42 PM
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I'm still gonna go with Compton. Can't buy weed and a 40 in the woods can I?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 10:40 PM
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Well if we're to assume this is threat analysis, I'm always safer if I'm entirely alone so I guess compton.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 10:35 PM
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In the woods?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 10:31 PM
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A sad commentary on the extremes men are being pushed to by the inflated standards of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 09:55 PM
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Rtx 4s kill fewer men every year than women do (especially without power) so definitely the computer.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 09:51 PM
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Well with 300k guaranteed I can afford to be choosy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 01:55 PM
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True but I'll only take female clients. Happily refer the gay gentlemen to one of my colleagues.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 01:54 PM
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Obviously if she's a cop you don't make it to the smashing part.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 01:53 PM
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Still worth it to be able to smash someone without having to wonder if she's a cop running a sting.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 01:14 PM
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300k a year to smash hotties and no one finds out? Where do I sign up?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 01:12 PM
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I remember once when I was deeply depressed about my romantic dry spell, a woman I'm friends with suggested I go to a gay bar. Since I have a "bear" look, she reasoned, guys there would be all over me. I pointed out that I'm not gay and she insisted it would still make me feel better because "free drinks and validation". When I insisted that I would not feel right leading guys on when I know nothing will come of it she actually got kind of mad. As if I had insulted her by saying it was wrong to …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 01:56 PM
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So how ugly does he have to be for it to overcome a good personality? Or is it that thing where the hottest guys also conveniently all have the best personalities anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 08:54 PM
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If you're a killer robot from the future or an abusive psychiatric orderly sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 09:58 PM
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conducting a study related to how people exit inceldom They get laid. Hope this helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 09:41 PM
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Sarah Connor in T2.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 09:39 PM
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Sophocles has entered the chat
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 05:00 PM
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"We stopped having sex with men who care about consent! Why haven't rapes decreased!?"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 04:58 PM
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So young women are more likely to be partnered than men in the same age range but it doesn't count because those are probably age gap relationships? EDIT: the down vote is how you know your post hit a nerve.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 01:35 PM
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I mean, part of what the celeb is paying for is some time where they don't have to be "on" so I get it. Not really different from any other job that says "don't do X or your fired". (Using X in the algebraic sense here as a variable quantity. Obviously most jobs will fire you if you drop ecstasy on the clock.)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 01:18 PM
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Nah, Miyazaki would include poison buildup.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 10:24 PM
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You would think the same thing about passport bros but it's clearly not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 09:21 PM
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If they have my account (not just screenshots they assume are me) then they could only have gottenit by illegally hacking into it. I can safely assume I'm not the first applicant they've done this to. So now they can pay me the advertised salary without me actually having to work or I can report their massive data theft to the local police's cyber crimes division.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 09:17 PM
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What practical difference does this make if the end result is that theyre worse? You don't get to break someone and then claim they were already broken. Getting rejected a few times Does anyone actually believe this or do they just try desperately to convince themselves? What made them better? The way the were initially taught to treat women, with kindness courtesy etc, before they realized that doing so would be punished.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 02:32 PM
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Learn to drink it hot like an adult and you'll never have this problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 02:24 PM
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Kinder, more empathetic, less selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 02:23 PM
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What is ELO? Besides one of the greatest prog rock bands ever, I mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 02:09 PM
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"Average shy nerds are no better than Chad!" Well, they were before years/decades of rejection crushed their spirit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 01:44 PM
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Evolution doesn't really work like that. Genes don't recognize the good of society. They don't really "recognize" anything. Helpful stuff gets passed on, harmful stuff dies out. An "adapation" that makes it's host unlikely to reproduce will never propagated because how would it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 01:35 PM
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I mean, that's all it's meant to be used as- ....oh...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 10:57 PM
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Possibly we just notice how much "maturity" resembles disinterest.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 10:12 PM
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That's why I took the guess work out: if date 1 doesn't end in one of our beds there will be no date 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 10:05 PM
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For the first time in my life: desired.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 10:01 PM
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Great now I can't meet anyone anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 10:00 PM
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It's actually healthy for kids to be tossed around (obviously being caught safely or landing on something soft). It essentially calibrates the inner ear, giving them better balance.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 09:57 PM
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It is known that women rather be single than with a bad guy. Yeah, just ask that lady who was engaged to Charles Manson.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 09:26 PM
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We literally wouldn't message you first at all if the app didn't make us. Women don't chase men. Fine but then don't complain about men being "low effort".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 03:23 PM
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I especially love the implication that she's eventually going to work her way up to mind blowing sex with "total package" guy instead of, you know, starfishing and eventually DBRing him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 02:19 PM
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I've met a bunch of Suicide Girls and Cosplay Deviants at conventions. Does that count?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 01:16 PM
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Funny you say that, because I'm on Bumble. You know, the one where women have to message first. Want to take a guess how many words the longest opening message I've ever received was?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 01:08 PM
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I mean you do have to stretch the definition for USSR but it did involve a ruler selecting their successor, irregardless if there was a bloodline involved. Not unlike Roman emperors adopting unrelated people to be their heir and successor. A stretch? Totally. But there is and argument to be had whereas there is no sound way to even suggest dynasty for the third reich.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 09:02 PM
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Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:54 PM
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USSR arguably but I don't think a government that collapsed after 12 years and with only one head of state in its entire run can possibly count no matter how much you stretch the definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:53 PM
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Rarely if ever faceless monsters though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:51 PM
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Of course they will, but their perspective will be unreliable, colored by their immense privelege.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 07:23 PM
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Untrue generalization Exactly what OP is talking about. Untrue generalization Misandry
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 07:17 PM
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And why, pray tell, do you suppose your threshold for "better than shark sex" is so much higher than a man's (hint: it just might have to do with who is hornier in general)?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 07:06 PM
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When your best argument involves sex with an entirely different species, it's not the "gotcha" you might think. If anything, you're sort of proving his point. "Women are just as horny as men, we just see sex as comparable to having your genitals bitten off by a shark".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 06:57 PM
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Specifically the part where it says that we elect officials who appoint judges to interpret the law?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 05:30 PM
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There is a concept in law called "assumption of risk" that I think applies here. At its most basic form, it holds that a person is responsible for the results of dangerous actions that they deliberately and without coercion took part in. Having sex with someone you will never see is inherently risky on a level that just going to someone's house is not so your serial killer comparison doesn't really hold up.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 05:26 PM
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If that is appeal to authority, then the authority I'm appealing to is the constitution... the same as you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 05:14 PM
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If you had studied how the constitution works then you would know how laws can be challenged in higher courts, up to and including SCOTUS, and then either overturned or upheld. Now you can call that appeal to authority if you want but it's just as much a part of the constitution as the 2nd Amendment.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 04:50 PM
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Stress will only make conception less likely. You should both just consider this license to raw dog as much as you want and have some fun. If it still doesn't work you can then look at other options but at least you enjoyed yourselves instead of turning sex into some kind of scheduled chore like a lot of people trying to conceive do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 04:46 PM
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Where did you study constitutional law?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 04:42 PM
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Bingo. I was in my college anime club. Not a single instance of sexual misconduct of any kind in the four years I was there. I wouldn't even want to guess how many there were over on Greek row in that same timeframe.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 04:41 PM
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Fantasy Football is bad because it's just D&D for the people who used to beat up the people who played D&D.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 04:32 PM
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I mean it's not especially in the context of possible constitutional ammendments but go off I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 04:31 PM
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Thank you for illustrating my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 04:25 PM
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What's complicated? She said she loved me, that was a lie. I still consented, knowing that it's always possible someone might be lying. That was my choice. This woman consented to have sex with someone she would never see, knowing that it's always possible someone might be using fake pics. That was her choice. Either we are both responsible for those choices or neither of us are. Either our partners are both rapists by deception or neither is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 04:20 PM
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It's easy to tell someone you're rejecting that they're cute; you never have to put your money where your mouth is. It's the same as the ones who say "you'll make someone so happy someday! (But that someone will never be me)"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 04:05 PM
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So my situation is still deception to. I agreed to have sex with a woman who loved me, not one who didn't. You can't have it both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 04:02 PM
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Because if you meet someone online (where you know their pics might not reflect their real looks) and you agree to have sex with them blindfolded (without ever seeing them - again knowing the pics online could easily be touched up or fake altogether), you are also consenting with your eyes open. You know the situation and the risk that you are being deceived and you consent anyway. There is such a thing as rape by deception, but this ain't it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:54 PM
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Your comment doesn't have to be gender specific since it's a reply to mine that already was. But since you're resorting to the borderline ad hominem of "insecurity" it may be time to call it a day on this exchange.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:40 PM
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No. I went in with my eyes open knowing that lying is something people sometimes do. At the end of the day I still consented to everything we did and while I might feel bad now because it turned out she was lying, that doesn't make it rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:38 PM
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The way you frame this illustrates the problem. Certain parties have spread a false dilemma about gun control: that there are only the two extremes of absolute allowance or absolute ban available.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:34 PM
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Precisely the point. The constitution can be changed when necessary, but that necessity has to be well-founded in order to get the support necessary to do it. That's the idea anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:33 PM
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Yes that's my point. It's not obvious to you because we're talking about a "she". A "he" would not get the benefit of that doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:17 PM
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How dare you suggest a woman needs to contribute in any way to her own enjoyment of sex!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:14 PM
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Oh well a highly conditional throwaway line like that definitely alters your clear intentions.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:11 PM
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If she wanted to she would. "Mental recession" is just an obfuscated "it's not you it's me". If a guy she actually wanted were to hit her up tomorrow she'd suddenly be in a mental post-war boom. Sorry bro, but you're better cutting your losses.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:08 PM
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Sorry was I not clear? If a man pretended to love a woman then dumped her and got with her friend you would not be reaching for explanations like "falling out of love" or "mistaking infatuation for love". You would be absolutely willing to accept that he lied about loving her.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:04 PM
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Honestly that's kind of where I was going with this, the point being there has to be a limit on what we can classify as "sex by deception". But homeboy decided to start white knighting for my ex and I got caught up in the confrontation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 02:50 PM
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Anything to get a woman off the hook, right? I can't imagine you'd be going to bat this hard for a man who treated his girl the way she treated me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 02:36 PM
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Webster adds pop culture terms every year. Just recently, the added "simp" for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 02:25 PM
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You're saying you can love someone but dump them and start fucking their friend anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 02:23 PM
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Why would his medical degree be in a dictionary?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 02:22 PM
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Is that relevant? If she spent years pretending she loved me is that better or worse than if she said it to get laid and then bolted?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 02:17 PM
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Tell him you had a dream that he cheated and you can't believe you managed to finish telling him about it without him apologizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 02:00 PM
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They do but if anyone brings it up it gets brushed off with "of course women are attracted to attractive people! Don't be an idiot! You i*cel idiot!"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 01:57 PM
2

Was that not obvious?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 01:56 PM
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There has to be a line drawn somewhere. My ex said she loved me (at a time in my life when I considered that a prerequisite for sex), we had sex, then later she dumped me to hook up with my friend. Was I raped?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 01:39 PM
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If you agree to have sex with someone you've never met in person without ever actually seeing them... well first of all I kind of think you should count yourself lucky if sex with someone who doesn't look like their profile pic is the worst thing that happens to you. But second I would hope a court would classify your actions as "assumption of risk".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 01:31 PM
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Literally never being punished for it and as they get older actually being rewarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 01:27 PM
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I don't think we're going to see eye to eye on this one. To me, legal consensual sex work will never be listed among "the most vile and degenerate behavior" (emphasis mine) like murder will.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 03:32 PM
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So... just so we're clear... taking your clothes off and dry humping people for money is morally equivalent to mass murder of innocent strangers?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 03:15 PM
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Yeah. On the one hand she's pretty clearly some kind of malignant narcissist. On the other hand, it couldn't have happened to nicer people.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 03:12 PM
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I've always been amazed how my personality is wonderful to be friends with but somehow also what's holding me back from dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 09:57 PM
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Yes. A woman with a really great body who chooses to dress in skimpy goth gear.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 09:26 PM
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Loneliness crisis has always been about romantic loneliness. Trying to make it about friendship is a deflection. And anyway the men I've known who struggled the most with romantic loneliness have always had lots of friends usually of both sexes. Their problem is usually that no one will ever look at them as more than just a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 09:25 PM
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I'll stop saying it the moment it stops being true.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 04:26 PM
2

Nice try with the reverse uno card, but no.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 01:22 PM
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It's adorable that you think all women are like that. Generally it doesn't matter if a guy never does the thing again he'll still be catching hell for the one time he did years later.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 01:20 PM
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I see this year's crop of strawmen are coming in good.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 01:10 PM
1

The Italy part is incidental (though it wasn't in Shakespeare's day) but they should be young enough that it makes sense that: A - they impulsively fall in obsessive love after one brief meeting And B - their families have so much power in their lives that they can't just run away together.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 01:36 PM
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One problem (not the only problem but a big one) is the for profit prison industry itself. The system does everything it can to make restarting one's life after parole impossible to the point where recidivism is the only option for many parolees, leading them right back to prison where they generate more profit for the company running the facility.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 01:14 PM
1

Romeo and Juliet adaptations peaked with Baz Luhrmann. No one else should even try.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 12:57 PM
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If women are truly attracted to a man's personality, I wouldn't go basing my behavior on a false premise if I was you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 09:36 PM
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Where does he party now that epsteins island is closed?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 05:24 PM
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That's fine, we can't respect prudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:33 PM
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If we all just kept our heads firmly in the sand, problems just wouldn't exist!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 01:21 PM
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The first thing I ever felt compelled to reply to on here was a woman insisting that she made the first move - because she planned the actual first date that the man asked her on after he sent the first message on OLD.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 01:30 PM
1

Even as early as high school there's no such thing as a bully who's single. Yes. The answer is yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 01:19 PM
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For many men, it already has.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 09:54 PM
1

Really? Because I had a pre-whatsapp version of that friend and I should emphasize friend because she definitely wasn't attracted to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 09:13 PM
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I think you're looking at this through rose tinted glasses. A woman saying that she isn't attracted to most men doesn't mean she's going to fall in love with a man she's not attracted to. She'll reserve that for the minority of men she does find attractive. And if by chance she gets in a relationship with an guy under her looks threshold for mercenary reasons, you can bet your ass she'll cheat with the first attractive guy who waves his junk in her direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 03:44 PM
5

Lift_and_lurk deliberately "misunderstanding" someone? Never!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 02:00 PM
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Did that study control for whether this decline in being taken seriously was among people who did or did not know them pre-transition? Or for that matter, whether they are "passing" post-transition? Transphobia is still an unfortunate reality after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 03:12 PM
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Actual probable reason: cuttlefish are ambush predators that rely on stealth and deception to survive. The "squidcel" is actually showing better traits for her offspring to have by being so successfully sneaky.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 02:55 PM
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Modern cuttlefish don't do it with color changing though. Male cuttlefish have more tentacles than females, so the sneaky males get close by tucking the extras away like Buffalo Bill playing "Goodbye Horses". Nature is fascinating.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 02:52 PM
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Men have been pointing out lately that every type of woman has at least some men who find them attractive... How can we spin this as a bad part of being a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 01:41 PM
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I assume the "tiktoker" is a plant summoned there by my date to test me. Not falling for that I say something random and leave with my bill paid and my conscience clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 03:51 PM
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It didn't help that OKC gave about a million soft euphemism women could use instead of just saying "fat". I always thought they should do the same with height. "Oh, you're 'a little extra'? Well I 'don't need a ladder to dust the top shelf'.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 03:16 PM
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You really don't see a difference between "man assumes woman wants someone tall and cut" and "woman assumes man will assault her if given half a chance"?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 06:22 PM
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You just have to accept that unlike Chaka Khan, you are not every woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 02:13 PM
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As you said, that's your opinion. And when they're with fallback guy that's probably a lot of other women's opinions too. But put them with a guy they have that visceral attraction to and you'd be surprised how flexible many women's preferences and morals become.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 01:28 PM
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I think the point is that if Chad is into bdsm, she'll do it for him. If Chad is into anal, she'll do it for him. If Chad is into canine role play hook suspension, she'll do it for him. Meanwhile if average Billy wants a blowjob now and then, thats degrading. Billy had better be into once a year starfish missionary because that's all he's getting from her. She doesn’t do fetish stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 12:55 PM
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There's no one answer for this. It's going to depend a lot on how hot the guy is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 12:48 PM
2

Fair enough. Any single mom who can prove to me that her kid/s were fathered by God gets a pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 10:40 PM
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I'm sure you're very comfortable suggesting that, knowing as well as I do that it would never fucking happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 10:04 PM
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I see deleted threads marked "no blackpill/incel/woe" all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 09:59 PM
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So why are posts about being unhappy (woe is me) banned?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 09:57 PM
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I'm just quoting the reason given for why posts about being unhappy are banned. Maybe those posts don't bother me as much because they're not so transparently meant to get a reaction just like this one. So congratulations I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 09:54 PM
1

Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 09:41 PM
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This is a debate sub. Where is the debate in your brag post?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 09:39 PM
1

You know why you heard about it? Because it's a rare enough occurrence to be noteworthy. You did not hear about the plurality of men who got stabbed in NY that same night.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 09:38 PM
1

So it means the rare occasion when a landlord had to put money into their business.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 09:35 PM
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You know what you're doing. Nothing is served by playing dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 09:32 PM
2

Last purge was so short I took a dump and missed it so no real loss.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 09:31 PM
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People know when it's our looks. All posting a photo would do is let people pretend it's not so bad so that they can insist the problem is pErSoNaLiTy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 09:30 PM
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Thank you for reminding us all why brag posts should be banned the same way woe posts are.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 09:28 PM
1

I've never in my life seen the rent on a property ever go down, so I'm curious what exactly "losing value" might mean in this context.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 09:17 PM
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genuinely sociopathic men will shoot their shot, and so the majority of the men dating will probably end up being the more sociopathic ones who aren't afraid to make a move. Spoiler alert: that was the goal all along.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 09:13 PM
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Pictured: a man with an absolutely flawless personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 09:12 PM
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Tutorial Mode.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 11:04 PM
1

Again you imply that the only options are "complete lawlessness" or "police state". I maintain that is the kind of thinking police states count on to get away with human rights abuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 11:03 PM
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That is the definition of "what they always say".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 08:48 PM
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And now they can use the precedent to solve anything else the government decides is a problem down the line.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 08:17 PM
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They suspended people's right to a lawyer. How do you not?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 07:40 PM
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I dont think its that black and white. I think there's a middle ground between lawlessness and totalitarianism. But then I never enjoyed the taste of boot.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 07:16 PM
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Will it be worth it for them when those same laws don't go away and eventually are used on them. Remember, they always start with someone you don't mind seeing abused; then their foot is in the door.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 06:13 PM
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They did the first thing. They locked up anyone who police decided "looked" like a gang member or associate. And even if they somehow magically managed to never snare any innocent people in that dragnet, there is never an excuse for a country to suspend a suspects rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 05:52 PM
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With phones as with most things, women prefer style over substance.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 05:27 PM
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The government being able to arrest anyone and suspend their rights can make for a "safer" country, but not necessarily one I would like to live in.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 05:25 PM
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But the point is none of them like yakitori.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:00 PM
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I'm pretty sure smooth brains are behind flat earth bullshit, not smooth chests.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:35 PM
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You're mistake is in assuming that any level of quality is sufficient. Would you want to eat at a restaurant with a "D" health rating because it's better than an "F"?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:34 PM
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Unless you fudge dice rolls, make creepy advances toward other players, or disrupt the flow of the game I can pretty much guarantee they don't. Have fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:28 PM
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That's faulty reasoning. If you're so done with your life that suicide looks appealing, the last thing you would want is to lower your quality of life even further and remove any ability to end it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:17 PM
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Why would I enter an LTR with somone who doesn't want sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 08:52 PM
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Yup. Overheard in a miniature painting group: "If you want feedback you post your mini. If you want attention you post your tits with a mini in the foreground."
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 03:58 PM
1

Did they earn it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:08 PM
1

That's a fair point. A guy has little to no chance of actually getting laid from a visit to the strip club.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:33 PM
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In fact I don't like that point because it's bs. But that's neither here nor there. You're just too proud to admit you fucked up and I think that's hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 02:56 PM
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So we've gone from "I meant what I said" to "my point stands even if what I actually said is the exact opposite". Neat.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 02:48 PM
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"Doesn't believe that they aren't worth" = believes they are worth. You can get as snippy as you like about "grammar policing", doesn't change the facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 02:40 PM
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Not their life but their goods. They watch the black shopper more closely because they fear shoplifting. There is no substantial difference. It's prejudice all the way down.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 02:34 PM
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As long as a person doesn’t believe they aren’t worth dating, they won’t be someone worth dating. Untangle that and you've said that someone who believes they are worth dating isn't. Now given your feelgood chicken soup for the soul Henry Ford quote are you sure that's what you meant to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 02:32 PM
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You've got like, three levels of double negative going on here my dude. Sort your shit out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 02:16 PM
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Barney: What, you have some puritanical hang-up about prostitution? Dude, it's the world's oldest profession! Marshall: You really think that's true? Barney: Ohh, yeah. I bet even Cro-Magnons used to give cave hookers like, an extra fish for putting out. Marshall: Uh huh, so then the oldest profession would be fisherman. Kaboom! You've been lawyered.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 02:12 PM
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So your argument is that it's fine to "follow your instincts"... just like it's fine for the racists shopkeeper to follow theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 02:07 PM
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If you disagreed with OPs main premise, you should have said so. Instead you said it was fine to view men as creepy and worrying about how it's a double standard is silly. So which is it? Men are seen as creepy and it's fine? Or they're not seen as creepy in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 01:37 PM
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Being the group not subjected to the double standard must make that pretty easy to say. I'm sure store employees who watch black shoppers more closely employ similar reasoning.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 01:14 PM
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I'm sorry? Was she not on screen handing them off to Artoo? You really never saw these movies did you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 11:51 AM
1

Takes the Death Star plans almost all the way to Obi Wan. Stands up to Vader and Tarkin and their truth serum Droid without giving up the rebel base. Finds a way out of the prison block that Han and Luke both missed. Part of the Rebel command crew in Battle of Yavin. Part of command crew in Battle of Hoth. Helps with repairs on Millenium Falcon. Hears Luke through the Force and makes Lando go back for him. Frees Han from carbonite. Kills Jabba the Hutt. Befriends Ewoks. Fights in Battle of Endor…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 09:28 PM
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If you're going to say Leia never does anything you either haven't see Star Wars or you're just making things up to get people arguing with you. Either way thats trolling. Sorry for being honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 06:26 PM
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Lol okay so you're just making stuff up and trolling. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 03:40 PM
1

"They were going to Russian-Ukranian border". Well, who didn't see that part coming?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 03:38 PM
1

Show your work. Cite examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 03:17 PM
1

In what way are those characters badly written?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 02:52 PM
1

I thought the Florida Keys were Hawaii.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 02:44 PM
1

Specifically, men accused without evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 01:49 PM
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Crazy idea but tell him "this is painful to me".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 01:47 PM
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unless every woman is afraid that all average and below average looking guys are going to rape/kill her I mean...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:33 PM
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No it's not. But it tends to be perceived that way because of its fandom.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:03 PM
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Not really. Attraction can't be created, but it can always be destroyed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:27 PM
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Supernatural. In my defense, it was intended to appeal to guys before fangirls got ahold of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:26 PM
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Got some internalized misogyny there too it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:17 PM
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Keep going. It's good for everyone to see this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 03:28 PM
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You are showing off how sheltered and unfamiliar with the real world you are. Either that or you're just disingenuously digging in your heals on supporting the paranoid misadrist. Either way... telling on yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 02:59 PM
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Riiiiight... homeless people all do crack in public on other people's lawns. You just keep on telling on yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 02:54 PM
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Chicago suburbs. Spent some time in LA before that. Seen homeless folks in the city and in the richest burbs. They are definitely not limited to "the ghetto".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 02:32 PM
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If you think there aren't homeless people in literally every neighborhood you must not get out of your gated community much.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 02:25 PM
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Nothing she said indicates ghetto. That's your invention to make her paranoia seem justified. If you read the post objectively the only thing you can say for sure about her neighborhood is that men exist there.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 02:14 PM
1

Would you go so far as to day 3D men are some kind of disgusting...perhaps like unto a pig ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 07:45 PM
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Fixable with makeup or in the extremity with surgery far less risky and expensive and far more socially accpetable than limb lengthening.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 07:34 PM
1

Are arranged marriages usually such large age gaps?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 07:33 PM
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Women cry for help because they know they'll get it. Men get the job done because they know they won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 07:32 PM
1

I imagine it's because if she can still find you she might try to get you into her friendzone after rejecting you romantically.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 07:26 PM
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I think this highlights a big part of the problem with modern dating. Women, with their near-infinite options, can't imagine not just ending it at the first wrinkle or yellow flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 07:21 PM
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Whoever is trying to buy reddit should have a long sit-down with any of the several companies that have tried to own Tumblr over the years.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 03:29 PM
1

That's just her insecurity talking.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 03:28 PM
1

Sorry, I have a hard principal of only asking forgiveness when I've actually done something wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 03:27 PM
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This question gets asked a lot and the answer is always the same: there is no equivalent. There is nothing that a woman cannot change that is a near universal deal breaker the way being short is for a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 03:25 PM
1

Well you have me there. Let's say 100% effective male BC would remove the need for financial abortion in 99% or more of cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 02:08 PM
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But female BC relies on the woman to take it and be honest about taking it. If she lies the man is stuck. If the man has BC and it really is 100% effective, then a woman could only ever get pregnant if a man actually wanted it to happen (or didn't care that it might at which point he can take responsibility). Tldr: giving men a 100% effective option to avoid pregnancy happening in the first place would eliminate the need for financial abortion by preventing the situation that would call for it e…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 01:44 PM
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You must have missed the part where they said 100% effective. I understand; easy to miss details in such a long post.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 01:39 PM
2

A big step would be for women to stop misdiagnosing it in the guys they won't date and dating the guys who actually have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 01:37 PM
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The first would eliminate the need for the second so I'm gonna go with male BC.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 01:34 PM
2

Are you sure, I mean absolutely sure, I mean 200% certain that those are the same men?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 01:33 PM
9

Yes they want a lot more which is why the bar is nowhere near the floor.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 01:30 PM
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And yet, men who do none of those things get rejected every day. This indicates that the bar is, at best, a moving target.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 01:02 PM
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If you can actually do that, no man or woman is fit to judge you, so don't worry about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 02:37 PM
2

So stuff like "men are incapable of love" or "any man who expresses loneliness is a whiny child" are common sense now?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 02:36 PM
2

The fact that you think the stuff they post is "common sense" says a lot about you vis a vis misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 01:43 PM
1

Women will simp for him?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 01:39 PM
2

I'll get back to you when even one misandrist is banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 01:33 PM
2

Hmm that's a puzzler. I suppose if we wanted to get to the bottom of this we would need to know whether or not there was some sort of narrative given to men with less than ideal looks that would create this impression. It would have to be something like "it's not your looks. It's your personality/confidence/game/etc. Looks aren't all that important in the long run." Hmm... I wonder if that's something every average-to-below-average-looking guy hears a thousand times?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 01:27 PM
1

Careful. If we follow this logic, the next time someone farts in an elevator with you, you are licking their asshole without their consent. That's a pretty serious crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 01:20 PM
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You'd make him feel even worse by setting him up to be rejected even by ugly girls? Harsh.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 09:06 PM
2

Q4A: if you had an ugly son, would you explain to him as soon as he was old enough to understand that he was unlikely to ever find love, or would you lie to make him happy as a child, knowing he will hurt more and resent you in adulthood when he realizes the truth?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 07:31 PM
1

The friendzone is real and women deliberately put men there to do the emotional labor of a relationship without actually getting to be in one.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 03:47 PM
1

They're all out not being attractive enough for you to notice them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 03:43 PM
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Well to be fair, they don't when the guy is hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 03:30 PM
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Women will tie themselves into knots trying to deny it, but yes this is absolutely the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 03:09 PM
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Wrong. My family said girls would be fighting over me one day.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 03:08 PM
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Wish I could find a woman who would be this willfully blind about my nerd hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 03:05 PM
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I was just making a joke about her creepy eyes. Pretty sure people were upset about amber heard for unrelated reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 02:09 PM
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That's a BS cop out. If you're afraid of someone you want them gone ASAP. Stringing them along and feigning interest will only keep them around longer. Which is awesome if your goal is to extract something of value from them (time, money, attention, other) but not a great strategy if you "fear for your life" from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 02:07 PM
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I think if they wanted to cast her in a movie about fish people it should have been The Shadow Over Innsmouth not The Little Mermaid.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 01:59 PM
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Bold of you to assume I didnt.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 08:46 PM
1

I've had women as friends my whole life and not one of them has ever connected me with women I could actually date. It. Does. Not. Happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 02:56 PM
1

I encompass multitudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 04:44 PM
1

It's also easier when you're good looking, born in the right family, etc. Pretty much what I said. Nobody said shit's fair, unfortunately. We just do whatever we can with the hand we're dealt. Fun that you use a card metaphor. Would you tell someone with a weak hand in poker to just fold without even trying to bluff?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 02:30 PM
6

It's very easy to have fun being yourself when "yourself" already has the qualities that please a large number of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 01:43 PM
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Well I'm already 5'9 with a 5 (at best) face so I'll happily take either one as an improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 01:03 PM
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Too many of its proponents are shameless grifters who only have a following because if it turns out the only oasis in the desert is actually a mirage, a person who is dying of thirst anyway will go ahead and drink the sand.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 10:09 PM
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When you say "rapists don't get punished" and use as evidence numbers that must logically include non-rapists, you are in fact implying that everyone accused is guilty - most of them just get away with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 10:03 PM
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not being found guilty does not mean that the accused is actually innocent, Oh thanks I totally didn't know how presumption of innocence works. You seem to be doing exactly what I was talking about, assuming guilt in any case where guilt could not be proven.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 09:14 PM
2

Would I be online complaining about dating if I was?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 08:24 PM
1

I mean... I can dismiss your dreams as nonsense and try to manipulate you into owing me favors if that's what gets the ladies wet these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 08:09 PM
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I don't know. It seems like men are the ones who can't catch a break here, condemned no matter who they are or what they believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 04:32 PM
3

I mean... there's a not-insignificant number of women who are thirsty for actual serial killers so...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 03:16 PM
2

So much. Maybe it's because I burn so easy, but I can't stand sunny days.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 03:12 PM
3

My college anime club in a nutshell.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 01:34 PM
3

Check the ICUs and the morgues.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 01:33 PM
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There is nothing more male brained then going somewhere that opens its arms to you and trying to dictate and dominate. As a long time fan of video games, comic books, sci-fi/fantasy, and other nerdy things that have become trendy in recent years, I can confidently report that this is not just a "male brain" thing as you put it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 01:32 PM
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Generally for any crime you base your numbers on reported incidents of that crime. Either way, this source is still making the assumption that anything other than a conviction is an unpunished rapist. They discount even the possibility of a person being acquitted (or a case dismissed etc) because they were actually innocent.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 10:01 PM
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Okay so right away you have the problem of basing something on reports that weren't made, not a great foundation. And then compound that with the usual assumption that any accusation that does not end in conviction is a rapist who got away with it. This is why I never trust purposefully inflammatory stats like this. Peel back the cover and their methodology is always at least a little skewed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 09:11 PM
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Just curious, what are you basing that number on?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 08:39 PM
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The first one. That was my point. A lot for times in this discussion people act like anyone who accused someone else who was then acquitted would automatically be up on false accusation charges, which is just not how anything works.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 08:35 PM
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That's not how false allegations are treated for any other crime. If you accuse someone of theft and they are acquitted in court, you aren't charged with anything unless there is hard evidence that you knew your allegation was false. Personally I think having some sort of consequence for false accusations would lead to everyone taking accusations more seriously, so a net gain for everyone (except the liars amd the rapists, but fuck them)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 08:02 PM
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Well first of all because many men trust their partner too much for it to even occur to them to do this, and they get deceived. But even for men with suspicions, it's gonna be hard to get that swab before the birth certificate is signed, and once it is it won't matter much how a test comes back.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 02:11 PM
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They also conveniently ignore that the whole point of mandatory testing would be to protect men who do trust a partner without knowing she is not worthy of that trust.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 01:55 PM
1

So how was Dune?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 02:57 PM
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If men got pregnant they could be artificially inseminated. No need to find them a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 02:57 PM
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"The times in your life when you see only one set of footprints; that was when monster_lily lost her air pods."
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 02:30 PM
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Women can't vote until they give birth? That's news to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 02:22 PM
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but I don't like the idea of ultimatums that pressure people into doing shit There's your answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 10:42 PM
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Let me answer your question with a question. Is it okay to have a walk date where "walk date" = number of dates at which you walk if yall haven't had sex yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 10:15 PM
2

Hard lie to sell. People know what kind of books actually get banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 10:12 PM
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Take your pick fellas: "I like Kanye" "Cool, what's your favorite album?" "OMG stop gatekeeping!" Or "I like Kanye." "Cool, me too." "OMG why can't he keep the conversation going?"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 10:11 PM
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I mean, in the sense that they're not cartoonishly huge bolt-ons, sure they're not that big. But they're damn big for naturals (particularly on her frame) and nicely shaped to boot.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 10:08 PM
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Some people aren't happy unless they have someone to look down on. Lonely people are an easy target for the happily partnered for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 05:17 PM
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If you're ugly, yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 07:16 PM
3

It's easy to quit if you don't rely on your job for rent payments and access to Healthcare.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 05:36 PM
2

Only an abuser would try to paint retaliation against abuse as primitive or immature.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 01:32 PM
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Why would I devote more time each morning (time I could spend getting a little more precious sleep) to any grooming beyond shower/brush teeth/comb hair when experience has shown time and again that such effort is lipstick on a pig anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 04:56 PM
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It seems you're trying to create a distinction here where none exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 04:53 PM
1

So... if we want to live in God's ideal world we should... defy god?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 04:48 PM
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Women will never see past their privelege and try to understand this. That's why they'll ask things like "why would you want to stay in a relationship that requires any kind of work?" They will never understand because for them the next guy is right around the corner whereas for a man, the next woman might not come along literally for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 04:47 PM
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I'll accept women around here using "figurative language" when a man can use a simple metaphor without hearing "women aren't X!"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 09:02 PM
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If my friend expects me to pass up a chance at not being alone forever just because it's with someone he used to date then he's not really my friend is he?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 05:33 PM
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She said "never".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 04:33 PM
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Sorry, in order to hide behind that, the thing you're "acknowledging" would have to be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 04:09 PM
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"Men don't feel love the way real people (women) do." Yeah, no hate there.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 04:05 PM
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You were indeed which is obvious to anyone without a misandrist axe to grind, which is likely why no one else bothered to reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 04:01 PM
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Girl, you literally said yesterday that widowers remarry sooner than widows because they never loved their wives and the worst you got was an eye roll emoji. Put down the victim complex and back away slowly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 03:56 PM
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Everybody remember to Google "international men's day" today so the ladies have something to complain about in November.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 03:50 PM
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I'll second this answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 08:04 PM
1

I hope they're a good doctor who listens.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 02:54 PM
1

Haven't seen it yet. I hear good things about the popcorn buckets though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 02:50 PM
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A woman is assumed to have reproductive ability until proven otherwise. Proven ability is therefore not a strong enough motivator to accept raising someone else’s offspring.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 02:49 PM
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Patton Oswalt did a whole bit about this. Nothing makes for worse comedy than a happy comedian.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 02:25 PM
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Self preservation. Married men live longer than single men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 02:23 PM
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🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 02:19 PM
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You can explain this as many times as you want. They'll ignore it just as many.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 06:06 PM
2

So you understand people hoarding more of a utility item than they actually use, but you don't understand people collecting... collectibles?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 06:03 PM
2

Twitter please keep showing me Sydney Sweeney's breasts, they make me smile every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 08:55 PM
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I've said a couple times now, my problem (what is "controversial" if you will) is that women cry foul when men the same reasoning.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 04:18 PM
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Please correct me if I'm wrong but your initial post seemed to posit "women talk" as a valid explanation for "knowing" how the past really was in a way that "men talk" is never accepted as an explanation for beliefs about how the present is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 03:56 PM
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Just saying that pill dudes are often told that their aligning experiences are not valid enough to justify their worldview, but that doest seem to be applied here to the aligning experiences of elder women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 03:29 PM
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experiences happen to align with other people’s experiences and common trends. Is that not how things like redpill (and the dreaded blackpill) came about?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 03:10 PM
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Talking to your grandma and extrapolating that every woman of her generation must have shared her feelings sounds perilously close to the kind of hive mind generalization men around here are constantly told not to apply to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 02:48 PM
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Purge week? I think you're being overly optimistic. Last purge was like, two days.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 01:58 PM
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Um... you realize the passage you just agreed with contradicts your belief right?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 05:55 PM
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Interesting how as soon as it's an election year in the US again the right wing nut jobs start coming out of the woodwork.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 05:46 PM
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According to Klara Selin, a sociologist at the Swedish National Council for Crime Prevention (Brottsförebyggande rådet), abbreviated Brå, the major reasons why Sweden has a higher rate of rape than other countries is due to the way in which Sweden documents rape ("if a woman reports being raped multiple times by her husband that's recorded as multiple rapes, for instance, not just one report") and a culture where women are encouraged to report rapes.[129] Stina Holmberg at Brå noted that "there …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 05:35 PM
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That's just a long form version of what you already said, which I already replied to.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 03:14 PM
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Well all I could find from any authority said there's no evidence of a "migrant rape crisis" and what statistical anomalies can be seen are due to things like how rape reports are recorded in Sweden and the general disenfranchisement of the migrant population. Maybe you should brush up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 02:59 PM
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So immigrants are more likely to be convicted when accused of a crime? Well I certainly can't think of any reason that would happen besides immigrants just being bad people.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 02:48 PM
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First of all: yes, for cities their size. But more importantly, what does that have to do with Norway Sweden and Denmark?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 02:42 PM
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Please show me this magical space where people care enough to help a struggling man for free, because I have yet to see it online or IRL. I thinks that's why so many people fall for the grifters: one part them being the loudest voices in the room, one part knowing that no one since they left home has done something for them without expecting something in return so in a perverse way, the grifters seem more trustworthy because they're at least open about wanting to be paid.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 05:11 PM
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So you agree? If the only people offering a solution are grifters the looks-challenged mam should just give up.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 02:43 PM
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And if you don't meet the looks threshold just give up and accept your fate, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 02:37 PM
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Please don't act like they don't base this mostly or entirely on whether the kink-haver is male or female.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 02:19 PM
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Slightly surprised I'm not dead already.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 02:50 PM
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Cowboy Mouth
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 02:38 PM
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Or... you know... use spices.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 02:25 AM
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No he was cheating at football. I actually kind of wonder if this is all a planned thing to make sure Giselle comes up instead of deflategate when you Google "Tom Brady cheating".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:50 PM
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Fair enough. That's a choice every man has to make for himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 02:30 PM
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Because what's the alternative? If you don't the next guy will so there's no incentive for women to change the game. You can never win if you don't play.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 02:17 PM
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I assume some of the people who voted for him in 16 thought he could actually do the job. They know better now.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 05:54 PM
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You'll be back. The ones who need to announce their departure always come back.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 01:29 PM
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Feels like if daddy trump was really strong he could have stopped them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 12:14 AM
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I mean... you think they stole an election from the unbeatable trump. How weak can they be?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 12:09 AM
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Sure. It has nothing to do with decades of anti-consumerist price fixing between Healthcare providers and insurance companies. The blame is entirely on those darn fatties.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 09:41 PM
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Maybe I'm too cynical but for some of these I can't help but think the full story is something like "This guy followed me down the street for two whole blocks last night. I ducked into an all-night Bodega and he walked past like he didn't even notice. OMG kidnapping narrowly avoided!"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:16 PM
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Be fair. That's only if she doesn't reciprocate and the rejection hurts him too much to maintain the friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:12 PM
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I've read the SCUM Manifesto. Remind me, which "loser man" wrote that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 03:22 PM
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But you haven't answered the real questions: Are you a hard man and did one night in Bangkok in fact make you humble?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 02:49 PM
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Sex work is normalized to the point where there are no true "incels". Emotional loneliness doesn't tend to inspire anger the way sexual frustration does, it causes paralyzing depression, which can definitely be observed in phenomena like hikkikomori.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 02:42 PM
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I'll worry about the OF thots when ex-cons don't have to out themselves any more.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 09:43 PM
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This is the same Amazon that monitors their delivery drivers to make sure they're not yawning on the clock?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 09:40 PM
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Wasn't he found guilty?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 06:49 PM
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No western woman has deigned to touch me anywhere for a long long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 05:39 PM
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Your first mistake was thinking top 40 songs are an accurate reflection of reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 05:32 PM
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More that how funny a woman finds you is at best only mildly correlated with how funny you actually are.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 04:07 PM
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Take it from me, there is exactly no peace in being wronged, watching the wrongdoer get away without punishment, and then being sanctimoniously told its on you to forgive them "for your own good".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 03:47 PM
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Fuck that. I'd rather hold it forever than say that what they did was okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 03:09 PM
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When I worked at the Amazon warehouse last winter, I remember management telling us numerous times that "if you get overwhelmed and just need to step away for a few minutes, walk around and clear your head, it's OK." Was anyone dumb enough to take them up on that offer?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 02:49 PM
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LONELY MEN ARE SPOILED CHILDREN!!1!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 02:43 PM
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not forgiving individuals that have done you wrong The first step for forgiveness is apology. I'm still waiting for those who wronged me to take that step so the rest of the process can commence.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 02:39 PM
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I like pets and I like to swear so it's gotta be Carissa.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 08:49 PM
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SMV, like any other market value, is not intrinsic. It is dependant on market conditions. That's why passport bros do what they do. Leave their current marketplace for one with more favorable market conditions.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 06:26 PM
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Brawndo. Duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 06:14 PM
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Don't remind me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 06:13 PM
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Well when you assume, you make an ass out of u.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 06:02 PM
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"Confidence is everything" is just the other side of the "you're alone because you're bitter" coin. It's a reversal of cause and effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:57 PM
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Lower tier looks. Women will bend over backwards to convince themselves a hot guy is interesting despite any evidence to the contrary.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:48 PM
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This has to be the dumbest hot take I've ever seen repeated ad nauseum.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:43 PM
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So what? Point is no one is going to name a pair of hypersexual archetypes after dolls with no junk.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:26 PM
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Chad and Stacy are known for being able to fuck. What anatomical detail is so iconic to Ken and barbie that it was literally the punchline of the Barbie movie?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:18 PM
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Gorilla, easy. Just don't piss it off. We'll be old buddies grooming each other by the end of the hourm
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 11:45 PM
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Did you seriously just say "I don't care about 'X' so it doesn't matter that it contradicts what I'm saying."?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 08:37 PM
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In that highly unlikely scenario I guess whichever seemed safest. Which since I'm not a misandrist would not be based on their sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 04:48 PM
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Way to move the goalposts.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 04:44 PM
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Good for you. Doesn't make another man wrong for wanting to make sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 04:43 PM
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Thing is, there are plenty of comics aimed at women. But the complainers aren't interested in those, they want the ones that aren't aimed at them changed until they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 04:16 PM
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That seems irrelevant. If you're not the target audience you're not the target audience, be it for a single artist, a genre, or an entire medium.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 04:11 PM
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If you think that then you are exactly the kind of woman men wait on committing in order to filter out. So it's working.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 04:09 PM
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Ignoring again that the guy in question did commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 03:43 PM
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I used to try to tell women that when they would complain about comic books and video games being too "male-gazey". It... did not go well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 03:41 PM
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Read it again. I would not leave my child alone with a complete stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 03:28 PM
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Again, he's probably just filtering to make sure she's the right woman. If she bails then she was obviously the exact type of woman he was trying to filter out. Nothing immature about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 03:25 PM
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I wouldn't leave my kid alone with a stranger of either sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 03:23 PM
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Just because he's not committing on her schedule doesn't mean he can't. Obviously he can or else he wouldn't have.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 03:07 PM
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Hey, stop sequence-breaking. That's their other shoe to drop after you try a new hobby and it doesn't help your love life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 01:53 PM
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He probably does that to filter out women who only want commitment and will dead bedroom him as soon as he's locked down. Sounds like it's working.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 01:51 PM
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In the context of pre-civilization when these strategies were being formed, both would be pretty equally fucked. You still see this today with other great apes. A chimp exiled from the troop - male or female - has one mission in life: find a new troop to join. Because alone they are doomed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 03:49 PM
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Before you swallow that explanation hook line and sinker, consider that belonging to the tribe was just as important to men in those days as to women and that admitting wrongdoing was just as likely to get a man exiled. If avoiding accountability evolved as a survival strategy for women, why not for men too?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 02:51 PM
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A decent actor but kind of a weird dude from what I hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 02:48 PM
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Why are you friends with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 11:57 PM
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Pretty sure you're not supposed to do good things in expectation of you being rewarded for it. I swear that's something women have told certain men one or fifty times.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 11:20 PM
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Well if she's not attracted to the guy she didn't really change her standards in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 11:09 PM
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Dude half of every gym is cardio equipment.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 10:50 PM
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Realistic standards are a bare minimum. She should lower her standards without expecting to be rewarded for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 10:40 PM
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If she "lowered her standards" so that she could virtue signal about it, she didn't really lower her standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 10:29 PM
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So this is what? Fuck you, got mine? Would you willingly go back to feeling that way?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:40 PM
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So what exactly are you complaining about? Are you really so fragile that you can't stand it when people don't universally like what you post?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:34 PM
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If we're talking about delusion, where is the rule that you can't happybrag?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:05 PM
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No one who has experienced actual loneliness or been unwanted would so easily brush off those feelings in others.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:03 PM
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Yes they are she is!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:22 PM
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That doesn't really refute what I said. It's just a dodge to avoid acknowledging that the people who insist the loudest that being alone is fine have almost certainly never experienced it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:11 PM
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People have lost the point of "apples to oranges". It's supposed to mean that you shouldn't judge one thing by the standards of another. Example: you wouldn't say "this is a bad apple because I can't peel it with my bare hands" because that's a feature of oranges, not apples.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:08 PM
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Hey don't shoot the messenger.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:47 PM
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As did male isolation. Google hikkikomori.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:41 PM
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No, sorry I was too vague. As someone older I must share the sad truth that this never stops, no matter how far school is in the rearview.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:37 PM
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I have some bad news...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:31 PM
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It's a similar cause to the cat girl fantasy - the only way some guys will ever be loved is by a pet, so make that pet human enough for romantic love.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:15 PM
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The Scots had the right idea (and most non-horse-based ancient cultures too I guess).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:13 PM
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