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She probably enjoys being single. Accepting all these compliments and flirting while holding out for a perfect man.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/04/26 10:44 AM
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By "men" she means "very good looking, wealthy men". Regular men would be invisible to her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/11/25 06:50 PM
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Its not the alcohol making her fat. And I don't know what's so romantic about eating a big meal then feeling stuffed and uncomfortable.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/11/25 09:57 AM
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This is a great idea. Unfortunately very few women will find this appealing. Perhaps many women do only want a wedding, not a marriage. But it is the legal contract that makes the ceremony seem so magical.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/05/25 01:36 PM
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She wants a FWB she sees only very occasionally. Someone she has intense sexual chemistry with, but who doesn't stick around long enough to become over-familiar. This long list of often contradictory requirements describes the intoxicating emotions she might feel at the start of an intense relationship.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/10/24 10:45 AM
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"Special needs" is a vague term. It seems almost trendy to label your kids this now. Without further details we can't know how serious her kid's problems are. But anyhow, most people are "kind". I see many women asking for "kind" men. What they mean is a man who meets her threshold of attraction while also being kind. There would be some kind men her age willing to commit. But they aren't attractive/tall/charming/wealthy enough, and therefore are invisible to her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/09/24 05:40 AM
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I think the appeal of marriage to women is in both the public wedding ceremony and the signing of the legal contract. Either, by themselves, isn't that appealing. Just a commitment ceremony seems pointless. Going to the courthouse and signing the contract seems dull and boring, a last resort if you can't have a public ceremony. But combine the two, it becomes magical. To many women that is.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/08/24 03:36 AM
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She probably doesn't want to be married. What she wants is a wedding. Once the wedding is done, she'll find married life boring. She'll realise by divorcing him she can still get some of his money, and she can move on to someone newer. It sounds like he was fairly harsh with her. She must have been putting a lot of pressure on him to "commit", and after only three months of dating. She must want that wedding really badly.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/08/24 01:38 AM
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You could write an essay on the self delusion in this post. There is just so much of it crammed into a few paragraphs. This lady moans that men just don't know what women find attractive. But she seems to imply that it is quite simple for men to learn to be attractive. It is just that stubborn and prideful men refuse to learn. If only those "nice guys" would just make that small effort to learn, then women wouldn't have to "settle". They could have a sexy guy who would also make a dependable and…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/08/24 10:49 AM
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She never seems to have actually liked men, or sex. Nowadays she would have labelled herself as "demisexual". If she had married, she would have quickly Dead Bedroom'd her husband, while bitterly complaining he had only married her for free sex.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/08/24 07:32 AM
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The most likely meaning, according to Urban Dictionary, is "Big Penis Disease".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/07/24 04:17 PM
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This reminds me of a recent post in another subreddit: I’m a woman in my early 30s, stable job in healthcare, good humor (according to my coworkers and friends), and would consider myself slightly above average level of attractiveness...I’m confused about how everyone around me is in a long term relationship, married or engaged, and I’m single. I consider myself to have high standards but I don’t feel that they’re ridiculously high. What these two ladies seem to have in common is that they don't…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/07/24 12:40 AM
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They're berating men for rejecting women they aren't sexually attracted to. But they're also rejecting many men because they themselves aren't sexually attracted to them. Also, I doubt if that poster really had two strange men obsessively stalk and harass her like that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/06/24 08:50 PM
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I think men mainly pursue women they judge in their league, and men seem to be a better judge of this than women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/06/24 12:59 AM
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You'd be right. She should have used words rather than a confusing emoji here. But her profile suggests she didn't put any thought into it. Regardless of what her profile looks like, she'll still get numerous responses, so why bother putting any work into it?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/06/24 11:18 PM
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Why does she put so much emphasis on being a "foodie"? Everybody likes eating. Perhaps she's implying she'll expect you to pay for expensive meals? Or she's heavier in reality than her carefully curated pics suggest? Or when eating together, you'll have to eat more than her so she doesn't feel like a glutton. But you better not get fat.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/06/24 11:14 PM
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That emoji looks like an insulting two finger salute to me. She seems to be saying "if you want a kid of your own, fuck off, it's not happening".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/06/24 09:27 PM
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Look at her preferred age range for matches. 19-60. Is she a prostitute looking for johns? Her profile doesn't seem to match that. Probably she's looking for a sugar daddy. She's young enough she might find one.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/06/24 06:59 PM
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Those posts are all from the same lady? I thought it was from three when I first read them. That's a lot of crazy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/05/24 05:22 AM
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She seems to be unsuited to long term relationships, but doesn't realise it. She's argumentative and intolerant of small differences (like arguing about who does the dishes). She enjoys the thrill of new relationships, but LTRs probably just make her miserable.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/05/24 03:10 AM
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I saw it on another channel, but it sounds like one SSM would cover. The husband divorced her, and neither she nor her relatives had any sympathy for him. Apparently the husband is just supposed to support the wife, without complaint, if she decides to quit working. It's hard to tell whether these stories are truth or fiction, but this one seems to have a lot of truth. It shows what would actually happen if these ladies got their wish of being a "tradwife". They imagine they'll reward their husb…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/05/24 10:37 AM
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I saw one of those YouTube videos where they narrate personal dramas. The wife, with school age kids, decided to quit her job to become a "tradwife". Without asking her husband. She was all happy and excited, and couldn't understand why he wasn't. Within a couple of weeks she'd mostly given up doing housework, and just spent her days watching TV and browsing her phone.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/05/24 04:03 AM
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Who she finds attractive really isn't a mystery. She's still hung up on her ex. Other than him, she's only attracted to men who look like male models.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/24 03:07 AM
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Her rant is the worst case of self delusion I've seen here. Contradictory too. On and on she goes about how she just bulldozes over the feelings of men in her life, a "force of nature" as she puts it. Then at the end adds how she's just naturally empathic. But the sad thing is she still probably attracts lots of men. Grandiose narcissists tend to be superficially exciting and attractive people.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/04/24 09:52 AM
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Yeah, legal throughout Australia. Interesting question there. There would be a variety of answers. But I'll say that women seem to universally despise men who have hired prostitutes. That's the impression I get from lurking on female forums. Perhaps some men are aware of this.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/04/24 09:44 AM
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She has this perception that women are just intrinsically harder workers, more responsible and better organised than men. I've seen this sentiment on many forums. It seems to be based entirely on how women see men behaving at home. They perceive them as lazier, more passive, etc. Perhaps what's happening is that these men simply aren't getting stressed about stupid stuff that really isn't important.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/04/24 09:03 AM
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As soon as I saw the term "improving herself" I knew she'd be mainly referring to her ability to regurgitate pop self-help terms.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/04/24 10:50 AM
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You can imagine him trying to prevent her gambling his money on crypto. She fixates on the one time one of her bets would've made money, forgetting the other times she would've lost.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/24 04:04 AM
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As overweight and insufferable as she might be, she could still find plenty of men. But she demands a man who earns at least as much as her. Women generally can't stand being in committed relationships with men who earn less. She also demands a man she's attracted to. Fair enough, except she fails to realize she's only attracted to objectively handsome men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/24 11:05 PM
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She's not hot enough, or too lazy, to try being a proper sugar baby.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/03/24 02:06 AM
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If I'm reading that post correctly, whenever she's with someone she likes to non-stop boast about how good she is at her job, while complaining about her co-workers. That's not normal behaviour!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/02/24 11:15 AM
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I suspect that many women just don't notice when men do housework or childcare. And when they do notice, somehow the man is always doing it the "wrong" way.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/02/24 07:32 AM
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The theme I see on a lot of feminist leaning forms and channels is that: marriage and relationships always hugely benefit the man at the expense of the women. No matter the surface appearance of the relationship. So when it comes to homelife, men are apparently just hugely inefficient and leech off the energy of women. Would radical feminists believe this apply to worklife too? Would companies benefit from just female employees?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/02/24 04:32 AM
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My take on this is that she craves drama. She wants to come home, argue and bicker with her man, and then afterwards enjoy the warm glow that comes from making up and calming down. If a man behaved like this he would quickly be labelled "abusive".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/02/24 03:03 AM
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"someone my own age who can keep up with me". who can keep up with me. There's so much meaning crammed into those 6 words. A guy who's average in looks, income and wittiness just Couldn't Keep Up With Her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/01/24 06:51 PM
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She's out of luck. All the guys that meet her criteria she'd find boring and unarousing.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/01/24 07:55 AM
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Women are compelled to seek men they deem of at least equal social status. And in her subconscious her degrees have made her a high ranking noblewoman, and only a prince can match her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/24 07:33 PM
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Would a girl be mercilessly bullied in school just for being tall and having curly hair?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/01/24 05:29 PM
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If a man were only attracted to exceptionally attractive women people would just accept he's shallow. No need for further explanation. But because she's a woman she tries to go into some indepth psychoanalysis to explain why. Because women aren't supposed to be shallow. Not like men. They're supposed to be better than that. Anyhow, contrary to what she claims, she probably has a very low sex drive which is only briefly stirred up by exceptionally exciting men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/01/24 12:02 PM
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"Anxious attachment style". What does this even mean? I think a more accurate psychojargon term for her would be "borderline personality disorder".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/12/23 12:52 PM
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I know very little of the genre too. But I think the most popular plot is where the man and woman are instantly attracted to each other, but at the same time annoy each other to an extent. They'll spend most of the story playfully bickering. Mostly, she'll throw barbs at him which he'll skillfully deflect with witty responses, subtly maintaining the upper hand. This is what Redpillers call dealing with "shit tests" while "holding frame".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/12/23 11:38 AM
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"There appears to be a new terminology in the trad-femosphere: "leader"." They also throw the term "alpha" to mean something similar. To me, "alpha" means a man who is attractive to women, regardless of his other attributes. They are trying to confuse men into thinking that just being being professionally successful (and generous with their money) makes them attractive to women. Not necessarily. These women must think that men ENJOY living like that? Look at romantic fiction, where the man and w…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/12/23 03:39 AM
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But what if all women are predisposed by evolution to seek attractive, dominant and exciting men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/12/23 07:39 PM
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For a supposedly smart woman she cannot see how unreasonable and illogical she's being. She demands a man who will lead and take charge, yet is unwilling to compromise and be lead. A relationship with her would be a warzone. Perhaps she actually wants this constant drama, in which case she's better off with short term relationships. This matchmaker could have just let her waste her money, but did the right thing and refused her as a client.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/12/23 07:24 PM
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When women say on their profiles they enjoy travelling it's usually code for "please pay for me to holiday overseas".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/12/23 07:54 AM
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So she thinks she looks just as good as she did several years ago, and that years of therapy and other types of self-improvement have actually made her more appealing to men. I'll paraphrase Marsellus from Pulp Fiction here: "You see, this dating site is filled to the brim with unrealistic women. Women who thought their ass would age like wine. If you mean it turns to vinegar, it does. If you mean it gets better with age, it don't." And she's filtering men by a lot more than their age. She's fil…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/12/23 02:36 AM
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If she actually wanted a husband she would have gotten one by now. Like most of the profiles shown here, I think the reason she is single is because she prefers being single. She likes the fantasy of marriage, but is unwilling to "settle" with a guy in her league.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/11/23 06:40 PM
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Modern single women seem to be obsessed with food and filling their stomachs.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/11/23 02:28 PM
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They don't even live in the same social circles as the men they claim they want. They're grown women whose life plan is to be a Disney Princess, that Prince Charming will suddenly appear and take them off to the palace.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/11/23 11:25 PM
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Her child. Her child is the twist. And the way she's phrased it, she seems convinced being a single mother makes her more attractive. But with all the effort she's put into this profile, she's clearly angling for her idealized "alpha male". She's not going to Settle. At least not yet.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/11/23 07:09 AM
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A relationship with her would be like a relationship with Audrey 2 from Little Shop of Horrors. "Feed Me, Seymour". And part of your job as the man in relationship would be to eat bigger portions than her so she doesn't feel like a glutton. So you'd better have both a big appetite and deep pockets
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/10/23 03:13 PM
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In addition to the incoherent, entitled profile text, her profile picture is a selfie shot using a store toilet mirror. She knows she can put whatever she wants in her profile, and she'll still get more responses than she knows what to do with.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/10/23 10:29 AM
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This is all very true, even if this woman was nouveau riche. But I've seen enough of those types of videos that this woman probably isn't even wealthy. She's probably "building her brand" or "building her empire" by pursuing a side hustle in social media influencing or multi level marketing or onlyfans. In the meantime, she's still a perfect match for a handsome wealthy playboy because her (supposed) entrepreneurial drive and ambition would complement his work ethic and push his career to new he…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/10/23 10:53 AM
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These reactions by these girls would be exaggerated a bit. These girls are obsessed with increasing their social media views. But to an extent these reactions would also be genuine. It seems just like men are confused as to what women actually want, the opposite is also true. These girls don't understand that just because wealthy playboys enjoy playing with party girls, they aren't going to commit to one.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/10/23 09:59 PM
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With all the weird faces she is pulling, I was thinking she was deliberately trying to make herself look less attractive for some reason. If she actually smiled, there would be a substantial improvement. But that she's trying to cover up rotten and missing teeth makes it clear.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/09/23 10:47 PM
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I think we can combine 1 and 2 as "men who are sexually attractive". "Blackpillers" fixate on looks as the only thing which generates sexual desire in women. It's the most important thing, but "personality" matters too. What "personality" means is hard to pin down. But we've all met some guys, who despite not being that handsome, still seem to draw in women. Something about the way they act many women will find exciting. But I don't think you can learn this. It has to come naturally from a very …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/09/23 10:36 PM
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5 years time will be when perimenopause kicks in and she well and truly starts looking and feeling like an older lady. Reading through her comments I see someone who is utterly ignorant on the differences between men and women. I have encountered this attitude on other forums, and when I tried to explain things was accused of lying out hatefulness towards women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/09/23 04:07 PM
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She'd take him back in an instant if he called her up.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/08/23 04:37 PM
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When women are with a man they are strongly attracted to, then they often stop worrying about whether or not they fall pregnant. Condoms, pills just seem like too much hassle. Logical concerns about what should happen if she did fall pregnant get driven out of her conscious mind. Biological imperative in action apparently.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/08/23 01:35 PM
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Yeah, she looks a little better than the average woman her age with 6 kids. She knows this, and from that her mind has somehow made the leap to believing she looks hot. But she'd look better if she didn't have all those cheap looking tattoos. And if she made an effort to actually smile. If she can't even be bothered to smile for her profile pic, it suggests she's always in a sour mood
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/07/23 12:05 AM
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She's posing in a bikini, showing off almost her whole body She wouldn't do that unless she genuinely and wholeheartedly thinks she looks great.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/07/23 06:05 PM
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She's attracted to attractive, exciting men who offer drama. The sort of guys who don't stick around. This is why she's a single mother. She won't have any luck finding a stable, supportive boyfriend until she understands this, but that's unlikely to ever happen.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/07/23 08:25 PM
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This reminds me of videos on YouTube about car auctions. There's a saying that "the first bid is usually the best bid". Owners who put their cars to auction week after week, hoping that bids will somehow increase, are usually disappointed.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/07/23 12:23 AM
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If she was consistently capable of such rationality and restraint, she wouldn't be a single mother, would she? Ergo, if she meets a man she's sexually attracted to, all her rules and requirements are abandoned.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/07/23 10:40 PM
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Imagine if she put out a marketing plan like this for her job. "Here is a list of requirements our customers must meet." Her boss: "That's not very useful. Does your plan explain how we are to advertise to potential customers? How we should adapt our products to be more appealing?" "There is no such need. Our products are so wonderful, customers will come to us. No need for us to do anything." Her boss: (pauses to collect thoughts) "Did you see a line of new customers outside when you came to wo…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/06/23 02:30 AM
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If a single mum says that her baby daddy isn't around, it probably means he is still around. If he was no longer in the picture, she would rarely be thinking of him and wouldn't need to mention him in her profile. If she wanted to reassure potential dates there's no baby daddy issues, the smart thing to do would be to not mention him at all.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/06/23 04:02 AM
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She claims dating in Seattle and SF is rough, but aren't those areas heavily biased towards women? Obviously her standards are far too high.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/05/23 11:59 PM
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Egg freezing is largely a scam. Even if the eggs are perfectly healthy, she has to get them fertilized and then implanted via IVF. That's always going to be expensive and uncertain, and the chances of it working decline with age, similar to natural conception.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/05/23 11:57 PM
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She says she wants a husband, but all her life choices so far says otherwise. If she does manage to snag a husband, she'll soon get bored. And then she'll blame him of course. "Why aren't you emotionally supporting me enough? It's your fault I cheated!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/05/23 11:35 PM
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I think she's actually after sex. But if a potential beau doesn't meet her threshold of attraction and tries something sexual, she can claim "didn't you read my profile, you creep. Friendship only!".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/05/23 10:07 PM
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I think it says @raphousetv. It would be the creator's watermark.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/05/23 02:55 PM
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Let me guess, they don't want no predictable 9 to 5er who does what the boss tells him. They want a hustler who answers only to himself, and when and how much money he makes is unpredictable.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/05/23 12:54 PM
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I think if you go and comment on the original thread, and the mods of that subreddit see you've ever posted on this subreddit, that's considered "brigading" and is a big no-no. It doesn't matter how polite and respectful you try and make your comment.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/05/23 12:03 PM
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She also thinks she looks 10 years younger than her actual age. She almost certainly doesn't.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/05/23 11:57 AM
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This is a contentious part of "Red Pill" philosophy. But according to it, when women are unrestrained by social expectations and careful upbringing, they will be naturally attracted to men who are good looking, charming and above all exciting. Dangerous men seem exciting.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/23 06:45 PM
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She's probably too old to be a sugar baby.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/23 08:46 PM
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She's not messaging average men. She's only messaging exciting, attractive men. At some level realises she can't get these men to commit, but she might get casual sex out of them. She's not actually "poly". Despite having this explained to her, she just refuses to listen.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/23 08:42 PM
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"I'm a bit feisty and sassy - or maybe that's not a con for you" It better not be a con for you, because she's going to constantly shit test and generally verbally abuse any poor sap willing to take her on. But she thinks guys enjoy this verbal sparring. Many guys might enjoy it, in very limited exposures. But she would just lay it on non-stop. She obviously can't help herself.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/03/23 10:21 AM
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She's asking how to lose all sexual attraction towards him? Simple answer, convince him to marry her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/03/23 07:54 PM
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You're right - she doesn't actually want to be in a relationship with any man, nor does she actually want children. She hasn't quite reached the point where she understands this.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/03/23 05:32 PM
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She probably won't even be that good of a friend. He wants to talk about his problems? She'll change the subject back to her. He wants a favour from her? Maybe later.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/03/23 01:24 AM
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Also consider those photos seem to be at 10 years old. What sort of guy is going to overlook such a bait and switch? Mainly horny guys who are willing to swallow their disappointment for a bit of fun.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/02/23 07:07 PM
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There's so much nonsense to unwrap here. But one thing that stands out to me is that she wants an entrepreneur, a self made man. Many women seem to fantasize about such men. They don't want no 9-to-5 beta, they want an alpha hustler. Unpredictable, exciting, wealthier, and with more free time for her. Or so they imagine.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/02/23 09:06 AM
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I've never been on OLD, but these kinds of atrocious profiles are fairly common? This just shows how far the power imbalance is skewed towards women, that they can post profiles full of - terrible English; excessive demands; and/or mindless irrelevant word vomit - and still know they'll get plenty of responses.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/01/23 07:49 PM
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In that first picture, she has bottles of ginger beer, a big bottle of apple cider, two bottles of apple flavoured Jim Beam and a box full of cinnamon sticks. And she calls herself an "esthetician".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/01/23 04:44 AM
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She's only interested in the most attractive and exciting men her own age. They largely ignore her. Since, in her mind, she's close to perfect, it must be because these guys expect literal perfection, right?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/12/22 07:51 PM
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Attractive for her age, she knows it, and her expectations are up in the exosphere. She is pursuing elite guys with many options. But more than that, I suspect she doesn't actually want stability and commitment. It's hard to tell as she's exaggerating her emotions for the sake of video views. But she's probably the sort of woman who finds stability in her love life boring. She craves drama and prefers unreliable guys who provide it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/11/22 12:24 PM
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Whenever a woman puts her height in her profile, it's an obvious demand that the guy must be tall. And if she's still so hung up on height, she'll still expect him to be very attractive for his age. So after all these requests for consistency, stability, etc. she adds this additional request that he must be hot too.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/11/22 09:27 PM
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I'd like to see her definition of "2 full time jobs". I seriously doubt she's working 60+ hours a week.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/09/22 05:17 AM
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"Turn-off: average to above average dick size. Must be bigger." I assume she means she doesn't want a guy who's only a little above average. He better be endowed like a porn star. She's smart enough to realise she isn't attractive. But not smart enough to realise you shouldn't write your dating profile like a wish list for Santa. "I want a Barbie Malibu play set. I want a pony. I want a guy with a 10" dick."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/09/22 08:02 PM
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That reminds me of a recent youtube video on Casual Bachelor's channel. "Why Women Want Out Of Long-Term Marriages MORE Than Men (Analysis)". He links a clip from a talk show. A female guest is trying to explain why women initiate most divorces. She seems to be saying some "research" shows women lose desire in long term relationships and are aroused by novelty and new partners. Well, yeah. But then she says its different for men. Men's desires increases the longer they are with the same partner.…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/09/22 10:52 PM
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Ha, I was just thinking she looked and sounded uncannily like Jerri from Strangers with Candy. She was a boozer, user and loser. But now she's trying to make good and find herself a real man... not some boy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/22 02:41 AM
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Aha, that makes a perverse kind of sense. It's still a dumb idea. Including a picture of her kid implies she's one of those single mothers who obsessively dotes on her kid. It also shows she's got little common sense as this could potentially attract... unsavoury men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/09/22 07:04 PM
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That she includes a picture of her young son shows she's absolutely convinced her child makes her more attractive to potential boyfriends. Just delusional.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/09/22 11:42 PM
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Regardless, both types of men are extraordinary. Very few men can be extraordinary. You probably won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 11:36 PM
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A couple of things going on there. Firstly, in any thread it's natural for commentors to want to talk about things relevant to them (their exes, or guys who have rejected them) rather than things that aren't (the faceless mass of lonely men they aren't attracted to). Secondly, many women can't seem to comprehend how much harder it is for the average man to attract romantic interest. If a man isn't getting any responses, it must be that he's doing something terribly bad, right? So talking about a…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/08/22 11:44 PM
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I can't get over just how off-base the article and the commentors are. They assume all men have to be is "emotionally available" (whatever that means, I don't think even they know) and they will have no trouble getting sex and relationships. They are projecting their own experience onto that of men - where they can get attention, just not from men they want. They don't understand how hard it is for the average man to attract the attention of women, even women he isn't attracted to. That he doesn…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/08/22 10:18 AM
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These ladies consciously believe this is the sort of man they prefer. But if they fall for guys who aren't stereotypical male feminists - well, their subconscious finds some way to justify this. Why aren't they attracted to the male feminists in their social sphere? Again, their subconscious finds justification.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/08/22 11:02 PM
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There is so much nonsense to analyse here. The twox comments put the blame on men. All the blame. And the reason men are unsuccessful in dating? The aren't kind enough. They don't listen to women sympathetically. They don't talk about their emotions enough. This is what women want in men apparently. Kindness, sympathy, emotionality. And someone who is a male feminist. This isn't getting you anywhere? Then you must be hanging onto some bitterness and unhappiness about your lack of success, making…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/08/22 06:19 PM
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Nice to get a perspective from someone inside the industry. The emphasis on tipping in American bars/restaurants would encourage the culture you describe too. She said the economy had been bad for almost 20 years, which was why she didn't make as much money as she used to. You see similar self delusion about regular dating too. You will read women complaining how online dating has just completely changed the economics of dating and made it much harder for women... but this kicked in about the sa…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/08/22 01:37 AM
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What she says just reads like a lot of romantic platitudes at first. But look at it closer you see how impossible and contradictory her demands are. Firstly, she wants a man who "challenges" her. She wants someone who can "keep up a conversation". i.e. she wants banter. She wants to be able to shittest him non-stop, which he effortlessly counters with wit and charm. Just like in every female-centered romance of the past several hundred years. Okay, so she wants a man who can hold Frame and win h…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/08/22 09:12 AM
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She says at the beginning the open marriage was her own idea. Yet at the end of this post she says "I regret not saying 'no' when he brought up the open marriage idea." So just while writing this post she tries rewriting reality to make it seem like it was entirely his idea.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/07/22 08:00 AM
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Yeah, that might be it. That goes beyond even Redpill territory and into some Blackpill crap there. So she wants some top 5% genetically superior ubermensch eh? Sad thing is, she might even get him, for a night or two. Again we see just how unfairly biased against men the dating market is.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/07/22 08:21 PM
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"Leveling up". She uses this obnoxious expression a lot doesn't she? She expects a man who sexually excites her, who earns more than her, who has educational qualifications at least equivalent to her, and is willing to marry her. I suspect "levelling up" means she demands that more men should have met all these requirements. These expectations are mostly at a subconscious level, so she doesn't have to accept how unreasonable they are. No, she assumes her expectations are perfectly reasonable. It…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/07/22 03:51 PM
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For many women it seems the Wall comes early, at around 21. I see many accounts from women who say after about 21 the random male attention they received just dropped down dramatically. For some this was a relief, for others a disappointment.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/06/22 03:29 AM
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Yeah, the very high cost of living is probably the main factor. Also, has the economic stagnation there since the 1990s lead to a general sense of malaise and pessimism? Optimistic times makes people more inclined to have children, pessimistic times have the opposite effect.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/22 09:00 AM
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I assume this is from that so called "dating strategy" reddit. Both the men she references are fantasy. This is how that reddit works. Mostly it's full of radical feminist whining about how terrible men are. That sub is in effect the last remaining radical feminist one on reddit. But in between the complaining about men, the posters will boast about having found a boyfriend (or two) who is unbelievably perfect. But they'll downplay this. The game they play is that the standards they demand in me…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/05/22 12:04 PM
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Is that even a current photo? Whatever, even if it is she's too old and not hot enough to be a sugar baby.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/05/22 05:58 PM
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Good point. Her profile is carefully crafted BS. The truth would be she got pregnant by a black guy, who's still hanging around, and she isn't getting her tubes tied. She's hoping to catch an older, well off, white guy who doesn't want kids.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/05/22 04:07 AM
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I remember that "ion" is often used for "I'm" in reggae songs. I guess this is how it's pronounced in Jamaican creole. Anyhow, she's an idiot. And I noticed she's partly covering her midriff. Even at 18 (or whatever her age is) she must have a bit of a belly.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/05/22 05:29 AM
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Of course the men she claims she wants are invisible to her. She's going to keep getting "played" and "used" because this is what she actually likes. She enjoys all the drama, and would be intolerably bored in a stable relationship.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/05/22 06:35 PM
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If she mentions her baby daddies, even to briefly describe them as "pos", then it implies she's still hung up on them. The best thing for these single mothers to do is just not mention them at all.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/05/22 06:32 AM
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Some kind of narcissism I think. She can't imagine that other people would think differently from her. Her child is a blessing to her, so she assumes potential boyfriends would also regard it as a blessing. And if anyone tries to tell her otherwise she will take it as a personal insult.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/04/22 01:43 AM
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On second thought there would be three reasons why people would engage in significant deception: Cold-hearted Machiavellian manipulation. I think this is something most people, men or women, would avoid. Unless they're sociopaths, which is rare. Fuzzy self-delusion, as I described earlier. Pure desperation. They don't want to lie, but feel they have to. They'll feel very guilty. In this case, I still think it's mostly self delusion. But with a little bit of desperation thrown in, because for som…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/04/22 11:40 AM
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I think when most people lie like this to people they love/respect, they don't engage in cold-hearted deliberate deceit. Instead they indulge in a soft foggy haze of self delusion and equivocation. Which is what we see here. She wasn't cheating on him with all those men. Because she wasn't really in a relationship with him at that point, right? And she wasn't even "dating" those other men, so those liaisons didn't even count anyway (there seems to be multiple different definitions of what counts…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/04/22 03:36 AM
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In societies where virginity is highly valued, the sexes tend to be separated and young men and women are chaperoned. The main reason for this, is that if a women is sexually attracted to a man, she's going to show it. Even if she's been bought up in such a society. And even if she's reluctant to go "all the way", she won't hesitate to hold hands or kiss.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/04/22 03:25 AM
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Everyone thinks they look younger than they are. Most people don't though. If you think you look younger than you are, then you need to accept that's just wishful thinking.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/04/22 08:13 AM
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She'd be better off not mentioning that she's engaged in hook ups in the past. But like we've seen here, women know they can put all sorts of nonsense in their profiles, and it won't matter because they will still get plenty of responses. Meanwhile, she may be trying to convince herself she's over hookups, but once her kid is a little bit older those urges are going to kick back in again.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/04/22 10:25 PM
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She probably divorced her husband because she was no longer sexually attracted to him, yet was still craving passionate sex. If she meets some guy who makes her tingle, then all her anti-degeneracy posturing will go out the windows.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/04/22 03:24 AM
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She probably got bored with him once she had a couple of kids and he couldn't provide her with anything new. She acted cold and irritable towards him. Then she caught him accessing porn. There's the "sex addiction" and the perfect excuse, in her mind, to divorce him.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/04/22 07:59 PM
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That looks like a professional glamour shot. Whoever did that earned their money. She seems to be in good shape at least, but still in real life she would look... very different.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/04/22 12:57 AM
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Not looking for sex... yet I expect if you admitted on the first date you suffered from impotency, she'd drop you like a hot potato.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/22 08:54 PM
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Yeah, that is quite obviously a promotional pic for a hooker.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/22 12:49 AM
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Yes, who knows what she really wants the money for? But it's for the best if she doesn't get the operation. Breast implants don't feel the same as the real thing, probably wont look real and the operation is risky.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/22 08:06 PM
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If this were her only requirement, maybe. But there would be many other requirements, implied or unstated. Probably they would be: Around her age (implied by the no divorcees requirement as I've said). Reasonably tall (5'10"+ probably). Good looking. Reasonably in shape. Confident and witty. Comfortable income (maybe $75k+). Several prior relationships (she may not want divorcees, but at the same time she doesn't want virgins either).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/22 11:19 PM
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That she doesn't want a divorced man implies she's looking for a man around her own age. These ladies think men operate on the same timetable as them. That an attractive ambitious man will want to "settle down" at around 30 with a woman about his age. Truthfully though, if such a man reaches 30 unmarried he's either marrying a younger girl or he's not getting married for quite a while, if he ever does. Someone else mentioned how grad degree holding men are often married to women around their own…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/22 09:42 PM
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So many of these single mums claim their kids are "special needs" or "additional needs" in her case. My suspicion is many of these kids are in fact normal, but there's some kind of social cachet attached to having a "special needs" kid.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/22 11:26 AM
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What does "daddies" mean in this context? Older men? Or is it slang for men just after casual sex?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/22 09:30 AM
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If she were actually after honest advice she'd give us her exact height and weight, other than "I am a little chunky". But I suppose it would be futile asking for that, as she'd either ignore the request or throw accusations of "abuse" at you. She just wants to be hand held and told there's nothing wrong with her, its all the evil mens fault. She should just go to Female Dating Strategy where they'd tell her exactly what she wants to hear.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/22 02:59 PM
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As we've seen, women use their dating profiles for all sorts of things other than just finding dates. This one is using hers as a ego boost by humble bragging about how she still gets so many men trying to screw her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/03/22 01:53 AM
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She hangs around those parties with her girlfriends, waiting for guys to approach her, only socialising with the best looking and most exciting guys. Then wonders why only cads and players ask her out.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/03/22 10:02 AM
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I think many women are attracted to dangerous, menacing men. But the article is right that this can't be feigned. If you aren't already like this, then acting all mean and abusive will just make you look like a pathetic try hard.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/03/22 01:30 PM
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I'd bet she's had very little experience at long term relationships. She only has a vague idea how they would work. She seems to imagine lots of travelling, paid for by him of course. Like a non-stop holiday! And of course she wouldn't have to compromise at all. She just gets to be "blunt" and bitchy and sarcastic all the time and he is expected to not just put up with it, but to enjoy it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/22 05:39 PM
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Because men have a much higher sex drive than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 01:53 PM
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Problems often seem to arise when a guy finds his sweet but sexually inhibited partner was promiscuous and uninhibited in her past - and she's done her best to hide this from him. Then it might seem justified holding her past against her. Why is he getting the low libido version of her instead of the more exciting past version? But of course she rationalises this away. And other women will back her up, saying how dare he expects anything from her now based purely on her past.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/03/22 03:05 AM
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The first picture looks 3-4 years old. The other two are more recent and honest. Now why would she describe herself as an emotional basketcase with anger issues? Projection maybe? Is she attracted to such guys? And does she think the promise of drama makes her more enticing because she has nothing else to offer?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/03/22 05:50 PM
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She's carefully posed this picture. She's signalling that's she's not with this this guy, so she's still available. She's using him as a prop. He's a high value guy, and in her mind posing with him makes her a high value woman. Like some guy posing next to a sports car. Needless to say, she's not too bright.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/22 05:32 PM
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How can she not realize how inappropriate it is to show her daughter in her profile pic.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/22 05:00 PM
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It seems women know they can put any damn nonsense they want in their dating profiles, and it won't matter because men don't really read them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/03/22 10:33 AM
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She couldn't actually get those "quality men" before. She probably couldn't even get them for a one stand night stand. They would still give her a little bit of attention, some messages, some likes. Now they just ignore her completely.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/03/22 05:32 AM
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As I've said before, look to romance fiction to see the appeal of this. Women tend to crave excitement and drama and have a low tolerance for boredom. In romance fiction you'll see that the women is constantly shit testing the man with sarcasm and bitchiness, which he effortlessly parries with wit and flair. This is the relationship women with these profiles aspire to.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/03/22 06:52 AM
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Yet another profile which is a rambling stream of consciousness. Do women find writing these cathartic? They know they can put whatever they want in their profile and they will still get plenty of matches. Anyhow, the problem with her argument is that very few men have chests worth showing off. It takes a lot of effort to gain such a chest. Many people are going to be impressed. Meanwhile, all she has to do to have flauntable legs is be reasonably young and not too fat. The implication is that s…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/02/22 07:58 PM
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Projection maybe. She wants a man who's had a similar life trajectory to her own. A man who's had lots of promiscuous sex in his youth (women seem to love players, even if they protest otherwise). And who's now looking to "settle down" with a partner around his own age. She doesn't seem to realize that men and women are different.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/02/22 01:42 AM
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A leopard can't change its spots... why isn't she married if she's such a traditional girl? Why does she feel the need to state she doesn't want to be "used"? Reading between the lines, she's only attracted to men who "treat her like a piece of meat", and that's who she's going to continue to select.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/02/22 07:28 PM
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In songs, "dancing" commonly means "had sex with". Does this apply here too?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/02/22 12:28 PM
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This is why women tend to be terrible at giving dating advice. Instead of trying to understand men, they just assume men and women want the same thing. I suppose given all the attention they receive they don't have any real impetus to learn.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/22 07:34 PM
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Why should she care about his height since his main responsibility will be buying her food? She'll probably won't feel like sex most of the time anyhow (because she'll be too full).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/02/22 09:22 PM
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This profile is an exercise in self-absorption. It doesn't even occur to her that men might want something different than her. At this moment she doesn't particularly want sex, and she's interested in new age crap. So that's what her profile is all about.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/02/22 05:49 AM
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Men used to be subject to pressure to be married. That's largely evaporated though, at least in western country. This is largely thanks to women delaying marriage and pushing up the divorce rate. And contrary to what she claims, men do well single. And men mostly aren't as obsessed by status as she thinks. Its mostly women who obsess about status.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/02/22 09:08 AM
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I've seen plenty of posts here and elsewhere from men about how much happier they are living single. They would be unlikely to get published as articles on sites however. Firstly, nobody generally cares about what happens to men. Secondly, a man claiming he is happier without women would be considered evidence of "toxic masculinity" and "MRA and MGTOW culture". I'm sure the term "incel" would get thrown in there somewhere too, because any [straight] man without a women must actually be a bitter …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/02/22 12:52 AM
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Spoiler: she still wants bad boys. Even if she found the alpha-beta man she claims she wants, his beta qualities would bore and ultimately repulse her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/02/22 08:24 PM
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I'd also like to know what these profiles mean by "games". If they mean getting "pumped and dumped" then that should be easy to avoid. If this keeps happening, then they must be specifically selecting for these guys.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/02/22 11:47 AM
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Her English is a helluva lot better than my Spanish, but still her list of demands can be hard to follow. Lets see: a. She must mean "I'm nobody's second choice." Fair enough. b.,c.,d. All reasonable. e. What is a "million livid"? No idea. f. What exactly does she mean by "things that go beyond my limit"? Sex things? We are left to guess. g. This makes her sound unreasonable and demanding. Surely guys can be cut some slack if they can't summon the perfect introductory line? h. Again, guys should…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/22 04:48 AM
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That line "I'm done with hookups" is somewhat outrageous IMO. Women will usually only hookup with men they are strongly attracted to. The implications here is, she's had sex with lots of hot guys in the past so you better be good looking and exciting too for her to want to give that. I think that's one reason why they put that line in their profiles. Also how she mentions how she swears a lot. This is ambigious I know but this implies she's a sarcastic bitch and you better be both thick skinned …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/22 05:15 PM
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Not necessarily. Even if she's always been this weight, she still would have received plenty of male attention, just by virtue of being young and having nice hair and a pretty face.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/02/22 06:51 PM
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That's what I was thinking. She has zero idea of how men think. She doesn't realise that men in general will find that's she slept around unappealing. And the men in her league particularly so, because they will not have had this opportunity to indulge in casual sex. But I don't think she will be interested in men in her league...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/02/22 06:45 PM
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This is what she's logically determined would be healthiest for her in a man. Unfortunately her subconscious would just find such a guy insufferably boring. She'll reject them without even thinking, while only noticing guys likes her exes. Then she'll be complaining "how come all the guys I meet are just assholes?"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/02/22 05:17 AM
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Throughout most of history populations have been fairly stable. Average fertility rate in agricultural societies was about 5 or maybe 6, with 3 or maybe 4 surviving to adulthood. In the early days of American settlement people had unusually large families because the land was still underpopulated. But I agree that birth rates in China would have dropped fast even without 1 child policy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/02/22 10:46 AM
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Birth rates would have dropped fast even without 1 child policy. The policy merely accelerated the process a bit. But would China be better off with 2 or 3 billion people and an ageing population instead of 1 billion and an ageing population? Ageing population is inevitable after a huge boom, even if fertility rate doesn't drop below replacement level.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/02/22 10:38 AM
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She doesn't look like a person who overdresses for casual events. I think she threw that one in there to reassure potential beaus.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/01/22 05:07 AM
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They claim all men their own age aren't interested or only want casual sex. There are many men their own age who would be interested in a relationship. They are invisible to her of course. This reminds me of the time I went on a woman-focused forum and argued, nicely as I could, that men are mainly attracted to youth, and this is grounded in biology. Not all men can or will pursue younger women though. This seemed like common sense to me, but seemed to drive a couple of ladies nuts. I vaguely re…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/01/22 09:49 AM
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Exactly. Although I think women will put aside these reservations if her subconscious judges him so attractive that she needs to capture his sperm immediately. She would not easily abandon such a superior male. Meanwhile, a man will have casual sex with a woman just because she's willing and available, and afterwards leave her with no regrets. Unless she's more attractive than what he could normally attain, in which case he might want a relationship with her. It seems this woman is projecting he…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/01/22 06:53 PM
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She needs to understand that men think differently from women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/01/22 11:48 AM
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Should you ever ask her to do anything for you, refuse any of her requests, or ask her to repay money (if you were foolish enough to loan her), then she will grow cold, hostile and probably (platonically) ghost you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/01/22 07:02 AM
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I'm sure she could still find a guy to wife her up, even with that tattoo. But that would require her to Settle.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/01/22 02:38 AM
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By "match" I suppose she means when she swipes right on men out of her league?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/01/22 10:58 PM
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Curvy means fat now. What used to be classified as curvy is now classified as slim.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/01/22 10:18 AM
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Also the line right at the end about how her Mr Perfect must like "curves".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/01/22 10:17 AM
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If Caleb had officially broken it off with these girls would he still be the subject of so much ire? Perhaps Calebs everywhere need to learn the fine art of breaking up with girls instead of just ghosting them. Although I suppose blocking and ghosting them saves a lot of hassle.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/01/22 10:00 AM
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You see in these profiles single mothers attempting to bargain with potential boyfriends - explaining why their children aren't any kind of impediment and should actually be considered a benefit. This woman's attempt is bad. "[my children] push me to want to settle and succeed in life." That reads like something out of a clumsily written job application rather than a dating profile. I guess she's still new to trying to find a potential husband.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/01/22 10:30 AM
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Choice paralysis would be thing here. With so much choice it's easy to just get overwhelmed, mostly lose interest in actually dating, and just get your fix in swiping through profiles. TBH the same thing can happen to me when it comes to shows on Netflix or games on steam.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/22 03:38 AM
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Over on female dominated forums, you'll see women say they've found a nice, respectful guy who loves her, but he doesn't give her The Butterflies (or whatever other term they use to describe intense sexual chemistry). The usual response is, leave him. Don't Settle! You deserve The Butterflies. They'll then follow it up with, he deserves a woman who feels The Butterflies for him. That seems incorrect to me. If he's a nice, respectful average guy the chance he'll ever produce this intense chemistr…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/22 12:17 AM
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There's a lot wrong with this profile, but one red flag to me is that she describes herself as "badass". This, and the similar term "kickass", seems to be used exclusively by really obnoxious, self righteous, extreme feminists.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/22 07:04 PM
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Good point, but all they have to do is put a brief line of text in their profile mentioning that they have kids and their ages. Putting a picture of their kids in their profile is unnecessary and a bad idea.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/22 11:56 PM
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Why do women insist on putting pictures of their kids in their profiles? Even most other women would recognise this is a bad idea. I suppose this is biology. They feel intense love for their kids, which is as it should be. This overcomes their common sense and they feel they should show off these miraculous blessings to the whole internet.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/22 10:24 AM
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The reasoning I see online from women is: Don't Settle. i.e. don't marry a man who doesn't generate intense sexual chemistry ("the butterflies", etc.). This will ultimately destroy you and leave you dead inside! But isn't it rare to meet such a man? Not so! Provided you resist social pressure to Settle, your very own magic man is just around the corner! But isn't it true that only good looking, unreliable bad boys generate The Butterflies? Not so! Any man could potentially generate The Butterfli…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/22 09:57 AM
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We all know women aren't into hookups.There's really no need for them to state this in their profiles. ...Unless they meet a guy exciting enough to overcome their natural reticence. Every man knows this too, and many imagine themselves as that guy and will try their luck. So again, what's the point of putting "no hookups" in their profiles?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/01/22 10:34 PM
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I would respect her more if she just came out and asked for money. That's what she wants, money. She doesn't want a husband. If she wanted a husband then she wouldn't be a single mother. She might think she wants a husband, but she couldn't stand the actual boring (to her) reality of marriage. Thankfully, I doubt if any man will fall for this BS spiel.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/01/22 07:52 AM
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"And GO!" Like she imagines there's a queue of tall, muscular, handsome charming 40 year old guys just queued up like runners at the starting line. Waiting to woe precious her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/01/22 08:48 AM
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I suspect the article is... insincere. She knows she looks very good for her age. She is still moderately famous. The article is a clever way of drawing attention to this without sounding like she is excessively vain.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/01/22 11:06 PM
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That wouldn't work unfortunately. Prenuptials have little legal standing to start with, and they will get thrown out very quickly if they include any conditions deemed extraordinary or unfair.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/22 03:34 AM
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I suspect what they've said to each other is different from how she's portrayed it. Why would a rational guy want to be with a woman who just hates him so much? Unless she's never actually communicated this to him. And is he really this horrible ogre who keeps threatening her?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/22 03:28 AM
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That stood out to me too. I assume she means the 3yo. It's possible he has behavioural issues, but then wouldn't she have mentioned that? (e.g. "my husband forces me to look after his special needs kid") He's probably just a regular 3yo. Then she blames her husband for having similar anger issues. He probably doesn't really, probably just a regular guy who sometimes gets sick of her bullcrap.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/22 03:21 AM
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Because claiming to be bi makes them sound sexier and thus more attractive. And I don't know why she would pose with her possibly special needs child in her dating profile. I can only guess she is just dumb.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/22 11:32 PM
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How old is that kid? He looks almost as big as her. Maybe a precocious 8 year old? So she must have had him when she was about 15.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/22 08:30 PM
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And the illicit, secret nature of the affair, and all the associated drama, amplified her pleasure a lot. A whole lot. You read about affairs where the woman finds sex with the affair partner addictive. But as soon as they leave their husbands, the sex with the new guy becomes boring very fast.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/22 06:59 AM
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There are two factors here. Firstly, dating has changed over the past few years. She would blame men, but really this due to women's decisions. In anything but the most hardcore patriarchal society (which we are not) it is women who set the direction of how romance works. The second factor is that she has gotten older. However she would be completely unwilling to recognize this.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/22 03:54 AM
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Her mindset is still “how can I save this?”. There is no saving a marriage after the woman cheats. The best thing to do is to just start divorce proceedings immediately so both people can get on with their lives, which is what the husband did here apparently. All those comments in the original article about she could potentially reconcile with her husband? Completely wrong headed.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/22 03:20 AM
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She seems surprised he found another women. After so long together, his value had dropped in her eyes due to overfamilarity. She subconsciously assumed he would be unable to find another woman as good as her and would remain available to her. But when he found a new girlfriend and started acting aloof towards her, her subconscious calculation of his value shot up and only then she starts missing him. If she'd stayed with him, she'd still regard him as low value and she'd still be miserable. I th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/01/22 07:04 PM
2

Oh yeah the exclamation marks... I missed those on first reading. She seems to think very highly of herself. If she kept her expectations modest, she could have her pick of a lot of guys. But her expectations will be up in the stratosphere. To avoid looking like a fool, she's going to have to find a guy a lot better than her ex. "I'm not sure what I'm looking for". Guaranteed, no man she meets will be it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/01/22 08:05 PM
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Or didn't share the "mental load" (whatever that means). Or do enough chores. He probably went to work and gave her money, but that doesn't count for anything in her eyes. I see on female forums that posters are absolutely convinced men doing more housework will restore their wives libido, but since when has that ever worked?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/01/22 11:25 PM
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Women can gatekeep sex because women, on average, have a considerably lower sex drive than men. I say on average. There will be times when they will be very horny for a particular guy. But this cannot compare with the consistently higher and less discriminating sex drive of men.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/22 10:53 PM
2

It's also dropping fast across the entire world. It only remains high in a handful of the shittiest countries with the lowest standards of living. It's my theory that once people's lifestyle starts improving, their expectations rise faster than their income can possibly keep up. They perceive themselves as struggling, they have less kids.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/01/22 10:18 PM
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And she's continuing to do this to herself by setting her standards too high. And when she does pick guys, she picks assholes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/01/22 05:40 AM
2

It seems like Briffaults Law in action. She wasn't attracted to him. Having gained a large "loan" from him, he was unlikely to give her anything else of substantial value. Offsetting that, he was just going to be constantly nagging her to pay him back. There was no further advantage to be had from being around him. Time to cut him loose. This probably wasn't done consciously, her subconscious just amplified the hurt from the argument to give her a conscious mind a valid excuse. But men aren't mu…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/12/21 04:00 AM
2

I know someone who lent money to a female friend to buy a cheap car so she could get to work. He gave her a book of receipts she could fill out as she repaid him. She made a couple repayments, then they had some kind of minor argument one time. Just a little disagreement. Well, apparently she decided that friends don't argue about things right? Therefore they were no longer friends. And therefore she no longer had to talk to him. Or make any further repayments. And that was that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/12/21 10:43 PM
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Regarding that 6-pack requirement, I read a comment on FDS about that. It said it's unreasonable to expect women to be slim. Women are supposed to be pudgy for child bearing or something. Meanwhile, it's so much easier for men to lose weight and gain muscle, every man could, and should, have a 6-pack with minimal effort.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/12/21 08:42 PM
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And in a toilet too. She doesn't realise just how terrible this profile is. I guess she's just been spoiled and indulged her whole life.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/12/21 12:16 PM
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It actually implies she was looking for "chemistry" and "good person" before, but she had other qualifications stacked on top of those, such as money and education probably. Now all he has to do is make her feel like a giddy schoolgirl (the "chemistry" part) while not displaying too many red flags.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/12/21 01:13 AM
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I've seen this same sentiment in hard-core feminist sites. Thinking women are there just to perform uncompensated emotional labour for men. Toxic male entitlement! Whatever the case, women actually just want a carefully curated display of a man's emotions. Not the whole unvarnished truth.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/12/21 05:52 PM
3

I'm sure 20lb is an underestimate. You can tell how badly she's messed up that's she's making zero demands. At this point, you just need some money and be willing to spend it on her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/12/21 05:43 PM
3

They mean a "Chad Drought". Never enough Chads to go around. Plenty of regular men, but they are boring. Don't count as "men" I suppose.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/12/21 11:49 AM
1

How could anyone be this lacking in simple self awareness? Yes, she wants "that spark", i.e. the tingles. Yet she doesn't realize that if you take men who give her "that spark" on one hand, and men who "have their shit together" on the other, the number of men who meet both requirements and would be willing to commit to her would be vanishingly small.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/12/21 08:27 AM
19

Read through this and recognize she's trying to paint him in the worst possible light - yet he still doesn't sound that bad. He's not a deadbeat dad. He's not a neglectful or abusive dad. He's at worst a mediocre and lazy dad. He has 50% custody. If he was that bad, she'd have full custody. And he provides money for the child, and works full time. If he was stingy, if he was unemployed or underemployed, she would have said so.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/12/21 08:21 AM
3

No. You will always be behind her kids and donuts.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/12/21 02:19 PM
18

The elusive tall handsome fit well-educated professional man who enjoys sarcasm and witty banter and won't mention sex at all until she feels like it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/12/21 11:56 PM
16

I think this profile has been largely written to appeal to men. She thinks its going to appeal to men anyhow. "I escaped an abusive relationship!" This is designed to make her seem sympathetic to beta guys she can milk for money and attention. "I have [list of mental disorders]!" This serves a dual purpose. Making her seem more sympathetic to betas, but also making her seem more exciting and dramatic to alphas. This is largely projection, she loves drama and assumes men love it too. A small mino…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/12/21 10:02 AM
5

She would have been just under that bar, at her prime. I'd say 170 lb.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/12/21 08:49 AM
11

It says something about the disparity in how men and women experience the dating market that this, ~55 year old, 270lb woman is still able to find multiple men offering sex on Tinder. And rather than be flattered by this, she's offended that men are wanting to push for sex "too soon".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/12/21 01:17 AM
4

This reads like something out of FDS. Your time is worthless. Hers is priceless. I suppose many women think they want to be put on pedestals. But if a man does treat them like this, they won't be attracted to him.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/11/21 10:29 AM
8

Casual sex with Alpha players have spoiled them for regular guys, and not just because of how those guys look. Here's how one of them describes dating regular guys: "just being so damn awkward all the time". Versus of course player, fuckboy types who know Game intuitively and know just the right thing to say.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/11/21 09:09 AM
7

She looks good for her age. But not that good. There's no disguising the subtle signs of aging, like the wrinkles and the breast sagging. She's deluding herself if she thinks she can get away with those clothes and that posing.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/11/21 06:54 AM
2

If she's assuming she has autism without a proper diagnosis, then its a good chance she's doing the same about the bipolar. And if so there's a good chance she hasn't got it, and she's just misinterpreting regular mood swings. I'm honestly suprised women don't know what men want and are attracted to. The women showcased in these profiles, like this one, simply don't want to realize the truth. She has to choose - either long term commitment, or drama and bitchiness. She can't have both. So she ju…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/21 09:21 AM
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I have met several women with autism. They have all been awkward, shy, withdrawn. I know not all would be like that, but most would have these tendencies. I seriously doubt if she has been diagnosed with autism. She probably self-diagnosed it. She's probably self-diagnosed the bipolar too. So yes she's probably just throwing these labels around to excuse her shitty behavior. Now why would she be broadcasting her (supposed) mental health diagnosis on her dating profile? Because she believes this …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/21 02:44 AM
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Of course she's looking for a sexual relationship. Probably a hook up. "black guys only" means she probably has a sexual attraction for black guys she's looking to explore. Whenever a woman goes on Tinder or similar platforms they are usually at least open to a hook up - if the guy is hot enough. But if a woman even hints she's open to casual sex on OLD, she's going to get overwhelmed by responses from thirsty guys. It doesn't matter how unattractive or old she is. Including boilerplate like "no…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/11/21 11:39 PM
3

"witty intellect & mental stimulation" I suppose she means "sarcasm" and "banter", i.e. shittesting. Women get all offended when men try negging them, but women have been doing this to men since time immemorial in the name of "wit". As someone pointed out in one of my earlier comments (thanks polishknightusa) when women put a list of demands in their profile, they think that this is what men want. Nobody's going to write a profile which they think will hurt their chances right? She has spent her…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/11/21 11:42 PM
2

Women are conditioned by society to really, really value the wedding ceremony. When women say "they want to be married" they are really saying "I want a wedding ceremony". Even those who think they want the actual lifetime commitment... nah, they just want the wedding day.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/11/21 05:40 AM
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I think she just wants some guy to give her money, without any expectation of sex. I guess she didn't really think single motherhood through.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/11/21 03:51 AM
7

nicer "once he gets to know her" I don't believe this. She could never dial back her sarcasm, even if she wanted to. She says she doesn't want to get "catfished", but here she is indulging in some catfishing of her own. Promising she'll stop being a sarcastic bitch if you just hang around long enough. No, it will never happen.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/11/21 07:13 AM
21

Chad knows how to deal with her "sarcasm" (shittesting). Sweet, kind, caring Billy Beta does not. But of course she will make no attempt to dial it back, because being nice and kind would not be being true to herself, and she's not changing herself for no man.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/11/21 07:52 PM
2

"Growth experience and THERAPY" This is what woman call "putting in the work". Many believe "putting in the work" makes them more attractive to men. In fact, some think this "work" more than compensates for the ageing process, making them more attractive than they were when they were younger.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/11/21 07:02 AM
9

Reminds me of an expression from classic Simpsons. "Back to the loch with you Nessie."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/11/21 03:57 PM
20

Is this what happens when supermodel types who have been feted and spoiled their entire life reach menopause?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/11/21 10:35 AM
11

No woman is happy about selling their bodies. But the conceit of the "sugar lifestyle" is that this isn't quite prostitution, that there is actually strong mutual sexual and romantic attraction but with money also changing hands. This woman looks like she'd buy into this idea wholeheartedly. Imagine the blow to her ego when she finds out that good looking, wealthy guys close to her own age don't consider her worthy enough for a sugar "relationship".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/11/21 11:35 PM
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I think its simply that she's not attracted to him. But she doesn't want to admit this to herself, as it would mean acknowledging she's going to be stuck chasing "toxic men" for the rest of her life. So her rational mind interprets her lack of attraction as "trust issues" (whatever that means).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/11/21 09:16 PM
19

She might get a 70+ year old guy who might feel embarrassed about getting a young sugar baby. I doubt she'd be happy with this though.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/11/21 07:52 PM
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"you're the man i want later in life, not the man i want now" I think when women tell themselves this, its actually wishful thinking. They wish they could just be attracted to and satisfied with a nice, average guy. But I bet they always remain attracted to assholes, and are never satisfied with regular guys.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/11/21 09:44 AM
12

Strangely enough, on reddit and other forums women mostly claim they have zero height preference when it comes to men. They'll happily date men of any height. The stigma against shorter men is entirely men's fault (of course everything is men's fault). Men are universally "intimidated" (whatever that means) by taller women and cruelly reject them. Meanwhile most shorter men suffer from "short man syndrome", making them so unpleasant to be around women are forced to date taller men. So you see th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/11/21 10:18 AM
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You're probably right. Meth can age you considerably. So, despite looking 15 years older than her actual age and unattractive, she still puts the "no hookups" line in her profile. I wonder if she get enough guys offering just sex that she feels this line is necessary.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/11/21 11:26 AM
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She's smart enough to realize setting her age as "39" will look too suspicious, so ups it to 42. Its possible she is 42, but that's a hard 42 if so. More probably she's early 50s.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/11/21 05:17 AM
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I see statements here and elsewhere where women will claim all the guys they were attracted to in the past had big dicks. Some people will defend this, claiming that having a big dick is apparently a prerequisite for being attractive to women. This is wrong though. Truth is, many women's perception of dick size is based on how he makes her feel. The same thing applies to how she perceives a man's height. And from this video, it seems many women base their own perception of how tall they are on h…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/11/21 10:17 PM
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She wears her pants pulled up to her ribcage. I suppose she's trying to make herself seem taller and slimmer. But she just makes herself look like a stereotypical grumpy old man.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/11/21 10:08 PM
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Women like to accuse men of being pornhounds. But if she thinks such extremely large phalluses are common, she must be spending a lot of her time on porn sites.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/11/21 07:13 PM
18

For all those who say "the wall" isn't real, here's some evidence it is. Now, rather than admit her problems are due to her ageing and becoming less attractive, she just assumes the entire dating market has shifted. A shift which just manages to coincide with her ageing out of her 20s. Funny that. I'm sure she would absolutely refuse to believe she is one iota less attractive now than 10 years ago. This is a common delusion I see on female-centric forums. If you tried to argue women are less att…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/11/21 06:59 PM
2

Fair enough. But its likely these feelings aren't going to magically disappear on your wedding night. You'll experience them with any future husband even after you're married.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 10:56 AM
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Sex comes so easily for women they simply cannot comprehend what it is like for the average man. They wouldn't believe how hard it is for most men to get sex. You could try to explain, but they would just blank out.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/11/21 05:43 AM
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And women think their income and career is a selling point that makes them more attractive to men - even though they would not be willing to share this with a man! Pure self-delusion.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/11/21 10:01 PM
5

The conversation mentions fellow strippers dating construction workers. She doesn't explicitly say, but I have a feeling she considers construction workers as beneath her. If her club is one of the better ones, where they try to at least limit drugs and prostitution, then a lot of customers would be high-end professionals. This is probably who she considers her match, and would be why she cannot find a LTR. Plenty of interested guys. Many of them in decent professions. But she wants the "Pretty …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/11/21 12:32 AM
1

If she lets me pop that pimple on her chin then it's a date!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/11/21 03:16 PM
6

Libertine man preferred. Dat pre-selection.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/11/21 03:10 PM
4

She uses "bitchy funny" as a phrase, and she considers it a plus that makes her more attractive. You see it so often in these profiles, whether they call it "bitchiness", "sarcasm", "banter" etc. This back-and-forwards witty shit talking is a big part of what generates "chemistry" for many women. Its fun for them! They must think men find it fun too. But they fail to look at it from the guy's perspective. Most of the work of dealing with it falls on the man's shoulder. He has to come up with the…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/11/21 12:40 AM
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"How do I kindly and firmly tell a man who has been pursuing me for years that I will never date him?" That should be easy. What's she actually asking is "how do I get this guy to stop bothering me for now, but keep him just interested enough so he's there as Plan B if Chad doesn't magically appear within the next 5 years or so."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/10/21 04:59 PM
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I would bet that, like most of the ladies who follow this particular dating strategy, she is overweight. This is why that sub is just a weak parody of TRP. TRP encourages radical self improvement in its participants, and calls out guys who aren't willing to put in the work. I don't always agree with it, but I do respect it. Meanwhile, as this post makes amply clear, it's female equivalent encourages women to believe they are perfect just by virtue of being female.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/10/21 01:49 PM
2

Why do they think its a good idea to say how abusive etc. their exes are in their profiles. This will deter all men except for indiscriminate players, the truly desperate, and abusive lowlifes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/10/21 10:11 AM
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"Come off strong" Prepare yourself for "sarcasm" and "banter" gents. Even when they have such a negative strike against them (pregnant with another man's children) they still won't dial back the bitchiness.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/10/21 12:15 AM
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Society will readily admit that the male sex drive, when allowed complete free rein, will tend towards degeneracy. Sad but true, it appears the female sex drive is almost as bad, albeit in different ways. "fights random guys off craigslist" Is Fight Club actually a thing? If it were a thing, then wouldn't the media be all over it? Was this guy bullshitting her, or is it just that you Don't Talk About Fight Club?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/10/21 10:20 AM
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She thinks by insulting men, they will show up at her door. She's mostly joking with her profile. It's bravado. She's trying to attract a handsome, witty guy who she can engage in back-and-forwards shit testing with. "Sarcasm" and "banter" as these profiles like to put it. Normal polite conversation is boring and doesn't generate any "chemistry". Such natural alphas are rare though. More probably she'll wind up with one of the men you described. At first glance, I assumed these were inexperience…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/10/21 03:11 AM
3

That's the sort of reaction an average guy might give if he manages to get a reasonably attractive girlfriend 😀
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/21 06:03 PM
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Very clear borderline personality traits here. He may be the most perfect person in the world to her, but he has to put up with her texting him every half hour for reassurance that he loves her, he won't abandon her, he won't cheat on her, etc. Good on him for finally realising what is going on, that sooner or later he would, out of sheer exhaustion, fail to reassure her enough and then he would become the worst person in the world.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/21 03:00 AM
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Over on Dr Nerdlove (feminist dating advice) its claimed men aren't as successful as women on online dating because they don't put as much effort into their profiles. Because god forbid a woman should ever enjoy an advantage over men and consequently have to give up their underdog status. Yet despite this obnoxious, insulting description, and a picture which makes her look like a pantomine drag queen, she will enjoy far more success than men who actually put effort into their profiles.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/21 02:05 AM
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This girl is young and very attractive. Especially due to social media and online dating, she has a super abundance of men, of all types, who would interested in her for relationships, for hookups and for everything in between. This reminds me of those reality TV shows which shows couples looking to buy a house. They have enough money that they can afford to buy most available properties. Yet despite being able to buy a huge range of properties, those available ones are all boring and uninterest…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/10/21 04:20 AM
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Thank you, just trying to look at things logically - but as InevitableOwl points out, there are many possible interpretations here.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/10/21 03:50 AM
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Something's not right here, she's probably not telling the full truth. Thus guy can't be so clueless as to keep inviting her to places she can't afford. She's probably exaggerating how much she earns because she (falsely) thinks this will impress him. And rather than admit this and risk embarrassment, she keeps nagging him to "treat" her. Which he wisely resists. Contrary to popular opinion it seems paying for women usually does not cause them to respect you. In the update I see she's actually d…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/10/21 08:37 PM
2

"Don't try and have me carry the conversation." I think this means she expects you to do most of the talking. You'll also have to be capable of non-stop witty banter to keep her entertained. She doesn't realize most guys aren't really capable of this. Regular guys - the sort of guys who would actually be interested in a relationship with her - will often run out of things to say, get tongue tied, etc.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/10/21 10:59 AM
2

She said: I'm a mother and I'm 5'9" So she's asking you to be at least 6'. Whenever a woman mentions her height, its a thinly disguised demand that you better be at least 6'. Unless she's 5'10" or taller, then she's demanding you be at least 3" taller than her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/10/21 09:15 AM
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I wonder if she realizes just how rude and snotty she comes across as? I can imagine a conversation with her: "What height are you looking for in a guy?" "6'1, bare minimum." "Well okay, you'd be better off easing into that later, rather than just abruptly asking for it at the start. Some guys might interpret that as rude." "What do I care if some midget gets his feelings hurt." "But even a man who is tall enough might see that as rude and not want to go out with you as a result." "I'm just stat…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/10/21 11:07 PM
4

First cousin is share same grandparents. Okay that's a little creepy. Second cousin is same great-grandparents. Most people don't care at that point. Third cousin is same great-great-grandparents. At that point, you're genetically strangers. Nobody cares. Why does she emphasize it so much? I guess she's trying to establish that she's a proper hillbilly. She's trying to attract men with a hillbilly fetish.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/10/21 07:02 PM
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Its obvious she doesn't like talking about her weight, but this isn't the main cause of her frustration here. She's heard the response "what's your weight" when asking the guy's height so many times it probably doesn't affect her now. Water off a duck's back, to use the expression. No, the reason for her frustration is because it means guys aren't promptly answering her question. She is absolutely obsessed with height. Every second they spend not answering this question is a wasted second if the…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/10/21 06:25 PM
1

"King" implies someone she's willing to submit to. But this submission is dependent on you being near-perfect. The moment you betray any weakness, or she starts to get bored, then she'll start fighting you for dominance.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/10/21 09:23 AM
1

only celebrities had public love lives But even celebrities were allowed to keep their love lives private, provided they were reasonably discreet. Sometime over the past 40 years that changed though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 03:43 AM
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"I am not like other girls". She's trying to imply she's better than non-pregnant girls. She's more real, offers a more substantial experience than those airheads who aren't willing to accept single motherhood. Or something.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/10/21 01:11 AM
8

A woman using the term "kick ass" to describe herself is a huge red flag.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/10/21 09:05 AM
19

Women's mate selection is hard wired for arousal - not long term stability or character. Yes, it seems women are biologically attracted to men who act in an "avoidant" manner. But this goes against the widespread belief that women are naturally perfectly virtuous. Shouldn't women be naturally attracted to sweet, nice gentlemen then? Therefore if she's attracted to assholes, it must be because she's damaged in some way! I'm sure the original thread is full of all sorts of advice on how she can un…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/10/21 11:41 PM
5

So she wrote the first part pretending to be her own daughter, and tried, and failed, to use teenage lingo. But whoever wrote that part, they have no hesitation in insulting men for being short or bald. Classy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/10/21 11:15 PM
7

It doesn't matter much if she does manage to graduate and pass a bar exam. The employment market in the US, indeed worldwide, is glutted with a huge excess of law graduates.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/10/21 05:59 PM
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She can't even see how she's overlooking the many men who would be interested in a LTR by only pursuing men who immediately strongly excite her. To her these are just reasonable "high standards". Also honestly blames her "Christian beliefs" when it's obvious she has had many short term sexual relationships and is not filtering men based primarily on Christian values (which would I suppose be piety and being hard working). There would be no point trying to reason with someone this delusional.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/10/21 05:50 PM
9

She's doubtless understating her body count. She's a liar, a hypocrite and she's not even sexually attracted to op, or she'd want to kiss him at least. Run far away op.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/21 03:59 PM
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"if and when your law career takes off, and you end up making multiple times what your boyfriend/husband makes" Ha no. Law school is now mostly the refuge of undisciplined dreamers. They dream of big corporate law, or trial law. Most are lucky to end up like "Better Call Saul". Only unlike Saul, who was smart enough to get a cheap offshore degree, most will end up with at least $200k student debt.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/10/21 12:39 AM
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But they are. Just go to any relationship forum. You'll see women experience the most intense sexual desire in relationships where neither partner can or will fully commit to the other. Illicit workplace romances. Or where the man just doesn't care very much and won't give her the full commitment she wants. The allure of a prize just out of reach keeps things fresh and exciting. When she gets what she wants, full commitment from him, then she finds familiarity breeds contempt. Boredom and lack o…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/10/21 01:24 AM
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This is nothing new though. When humans wandered around in bands of 60 or so people it was the leader who got a disproportionate number of the young women. The leader was appointed by consensus of the band. Was it the smartest man? The strongest man? Not necessarily. It tended to be a good looking narcissist who could charm and bluff his way to power.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/09/21 10:36 AM
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the pool she thought was teeming with betas has been fished out She doesn't want a beta provider, she wants alpha catholic Chad. She may not admit this, even to herself, but I bet she's only looking at guys who are tall, in shape, confident, extroverted, good job and close to her own age. What about the short guys, the quiet guys, the older guys? Nope, invisible to her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/09/21 07:54 AM
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Hunter gatherer/early agricultural societies have fairly strict rules on marriage and sex which try to give beta males a good chance at a young wife. You can't run a human hunter gatherer band like a sealion colony with 1 or 2 alpha males hogging all the females and the other males all gathered resentfully on othe periphery. You're right though that in practice these rules often break down, with women cheating and men abducting wives.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/09/21 08:02 PM
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you're constantly shooting for men far above your status who bang you just for the point This is most likely, yet why doesn't the advice columnist mention it as a possibility? Probably because telling a woman she isn't as attractive as she thinks she is, and she needs to lower her standards, is considered misogynistic and offensive now. I had a comment on one of the relationship reddits deleted for this.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/09/21 06:21 AM
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The only way mother and father can legally sign away their reciprocal rights (him: visitation, her: child support) is if the donation is done through a registered sperm bank. Or possibly through a doctor's office, depending on state. This agreement she's talking about signing is legally worthless. She, or a government organization acting on her behalf, could still claim child support.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/09/21 02:30 AM
6

Women who used to be described as "curvy" should now be called "slim".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/09/21 12:22 AM
47

My thoughts exactly. Giving sex on the first date isn't a good idea, but its not her main problem. Women will usually only have sex on the first date (assuming money isn't involved) with men they feel intense attraction to - men well out of their league. She's throwing herself at Chad, but Chad has no reason to stick around beyond the first round of sex, and if she wasn't offering easy sex he wouldn't want anything to do with her at all. The main problem is she completely overestimates her own a…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/09/21 12:19 AM
8

It appears to be bragging. These guys are all tall, good looking in shape.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/09/21 08:29 PM
9

It's so the titles don't draw attention from reddit filters for "misogynistic" content. I don't mind, I think Irish Gaelic looks cool. I have no idea how its supposed to be pronounced though.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/09/21 08:23 PM
5

She seems to have chosen a picture of her while at her work.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/09/21 01:01 AM
12

Women use the term "intimidating" so freely its lost all meaning. Intimidating = he's not attracted to you. Simple. But rather than admit this, they accuse these men of being weak instead. But as others have pointed out, her profile is okay. Other than that obnoxious veiled request for a tall man (no, we don't care if you're 5'9"). But before you accuse me of rule 3 violation, look at that comment about how she isn't attracting ("connecting with") the type of man she wants. She must be getting a…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/09/21 07:54 AM
3

Whenever I see a woman mowing a lawn, I quash any chivalrous thoughts by reminding myself its just light exercise. Pre-industrial times woman would often have to do fairly hard physical work. Of course though men would have to do much worse.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/09/21 05:49 AM
10

Yeah. She's probably not an actual sex worker. But she's probably got some kind of public relations job where they pay her generously because she's blonde and pretty. And she spends all her money on travelling and on luxury crap, with little saved up. She honestly doesn't seem to realize at age 30 such easy living is almost done. I sense no real urgency in her posts.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/09/21 11:08 PM
5

Women like the one in the original post don't count yard work as actual work though. It's just a hobby that men naturally enjoy, right? Same thing with any home maintenance jobs, like plumbing etc. Only cooking, cleaning and childcare counts.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/09/21 07:49 PM
11

And they count this as "mental load" and "emotional labor".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/09/21 06:59 PM
9

If you're good looking and enough of a badboy, she'll agree to netflix and chill. And pay for the uber to get to your place.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/09/21 12:11 AM
11

Or like this Korean woman with body dysmorphic disorder who injected industrial silicon or something similar into her cheeks. I can't remember exactly, but needless to say it did not end well.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/09/21 10:15 PM
8

I think there's also an element of humble-bragging here, where she's exaggerating how much attention she gets to emphasize how attractive she is.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/09/21 12:56 AM
3

This reminds me of a post I saw on another sub. Its a redpill trope that a small minority of men are getting the vast share of casual sex. These are the sort of good looking, exciting men that women actually want, not the nice, safe men they say they want. My stepson has been living with my wife and I since he graduated high school over a year ago. He is handsome, tall, and in-shape...Since he graduated, he has brought numerous women over to our house His stepson is Chad. Congrats. I understand …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/09/21 12:13 AM
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She sounds like an entitled teenager rather than a supposedly grown adult. But so much for the conventional female narrative that its not how the man looks but how he approaches that defines "creepiness". She perceives even vague interest from unattractive men (i.e. the great majority of men) as "gross" and unwanted.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/09/21 09:44 PM
2

She's probably sincere in most of what she writes there. She's also deluding herself. She's probably taking stock, thinking back on how badly her exes treated her. What she's forgetting is how attracted she was to them and how excited they made her feel at the time. She wants to think that basically she's a nice person who's attracted to nice men, and she was tricked and mistreated by the bad men in her past. This time she's going to do things right. However she's simply not attracted to the men…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/09/21 01:38 AM
13

Obsessed with big dicks and never, ever making the first move. Must subscribe to FDS.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/08/21 04:56 AM
3

You would think being a doctor she would realize genetics doesn't work like this. Of course she was just trying to come up with some justification, any justification, for her overpowering need for a tall man. She needn't have bothered. Sadly, most men who use dating sites understand that women overwhelmingly want tall men, and that's just the way it is.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/08/21 05:20 PM
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This is the problem with expensive paid dating services. It offers a similar selection of people to free/cheap ones, only in smaller numbers. And everyone has their expectations raised even higher because they are paying quite a lot of money. These dating services often have the normal gender ratios reversed, as they are full of delusional professional women, like this one, in their 30s/40s chasing tall handsome stylish high-earning charismatic Mr Professional. Such an elite man has no need or d…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/08/21 05:25 AM
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She still wants a hawt guy. Only now he has to be willing and able to support her and her sprog. Although it hasn't dawned on her that being a single mother makes her less desirable to men and she needs to dial back the bitchiness. Judging by other profiles listed here, she will probably never realize this.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/08/21 09:38 PM
4

Whenever I see posts like this I think of the "I need more men" quote from Return of the Jedi: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qQB2NXfJev0&t=145s
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/08/21 09:40 AM
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I was just thinking that she should just go ahead and be a lesbian. But you're right, she'd find as a lesbian she would have to exercise actual gender equality. She'd have to rein in the crazy, be pleasant, make an effort to approach, pay her own way.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/08/21 08:50 PM
1

I saw an interesting quote by Rollo Tomassi: "Men have been, and should be, the more dominant gender because on some rudimentary psychological level we ought to realized that a woman’s love is contingent upon our capacity to maintain that love in spite of a woman’s hypergamy." So yeah, women demand men who are better than them in every way. Taller, stronger, harder working, smarter, wittier, more confident... Given this, of course you're going to end up with Da Patriarchy. And what does "smell g…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/08/21 02:36 AM
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A woman will flirt, in other words. Which is something of a lost art apparently. Nowadays women will give no indication at all they are interested in a man, yet still expect him to come up and ask her out.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/08/21 02:03 AM
1

The sort of women you'll see here have a low tolerance for boredom and routine. They need drama. They enjoy keeping things fresh and exciting by constantly trying to stir up fights and arguments. To them, this is a positive trait. They believe men would enjoy all this drama too.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/08/21 10:34 AM
6

It used to be just accepted that women's attractiveness declines rapidly with age. Like in the old poem "gather ye rose buds while ye may". Now we see so many women, young and middle aged, denying reality and thinking they will age like fine wine rather than milk.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/08/21 07:26 PM
2

What a trainwreck. Okay, at least she has long hair. But even she could get a man if she wants, much easier than her male peers could get a girlfriend. Her standards are too high. Simple as that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/08/21 12:42 AM
2

Another word they like to throw around, as this post shows is "broken". Oh I'm feeling a little sad, a little regretful, I must be "broken". Mostly, this is just hyperbole.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/08/21 12:11 PM
6

"Used for sex". What a stupid, asinine expression. Was the sex consensual? Then she can't claim she was "used" and this sad attempt at gaining sympathy can be safely ignored.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/08/21 07:13 PM
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If she really were serious about finding her life partner, her "king", she'd put more effort into spelling and grammar. No, her profile just suggests she was bored and spent a few minutes tapping into her cellphone. She's really just after someone who will relieve her boredom.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/08/21 03:25 PM
8

This is what happens after a lifetime of boys and men just telling her whatever she wants to hear and never calling her out on her bullshit. She thinks she's a great wit and raconteur, and that men enjoy being subjected to her "humor". She's wrong on all counts.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/08/21 09:12 PM
3

FDS reminds me of the old incel forums. Those were very much tongue-in-cheek subreddits where the participants tried to constantly one-up each other complaining about how women only cared about dating uber-chads (yes looks would be the most important thing women desire in men, but they exaggerated this to the point of absurdity). Similarly, FDS is a tongue-in-cheek subreddit where the participants try to constantly one-up each other complaining about how worthless and abusive all men are. I mean…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/08/21 11:12 AM
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Yes. And demanding a "sense of humor" in her matches means "must be able to respond to my verbal abuse with witty come-backs". She's thinking back on all the tumultuous relationships she had with Alphas, where there was lots of exciting back-and-forth shit-testing. Sadly, she has yet to realize the sort of long-term relationship she claims she wants is going to be much more sedate and cordial.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/08/21 06:59 AM
3

They also banned the gender critical feminist subreddits and the true lesbian subreddit, so its a possibility.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/08/21 12:13 AM
1

I can see them banning fds, just as a form of misdirection. I don't want to see it banned, but nobody really likes it, not even feminist subreddits, so it would be a convenient sacrifice.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/08/21 08:42 PM
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Do you think she sincerely believes she didn't have any opportunities to get married and have children while younger? Yeah, probably. This is what happens when you only have eyes for the top, I'm guessing, 5% of men and the rest are just some invisible mass of neuter workers.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/08/21 06:45 AM
12

Cum is nature's own Krazy Glue. She's going to have trim those eyelashes off now.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/08/21 01:19 AM
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The answer is of course there is an abundance of men who could give her what she says she wants, but they are invisible to her. She is only interested in [very] good looking, confident, assertive men. And all this talk of "love" in article and comments, like its some kind of mystical energy. Its actually just sexual desire.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/08/21 12:00 AM
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That's what I was thinking. She sounds crazy enough that she might try and sneak her "friend's" name as father on the birth certificate.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/08/21 04:13 AM
6

Speaking of Onlyfans, I'm guessing most of those entitled deluded girls you see on the Fresh and Fit youtube channel make their living from OnlyFans or Instagram. And they all boast about their business acumen and their entrepreneurship and how they are the peers and equals of businessmen making hundreds of thousands of dollars a year.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/07/21 06:40 AM
1

Spain may have been the home of machismo at one point, but now its the home of out-of-control feminism.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/07/21 09:00 PM
1

Since most women seem to overestimate their looks, if she thinks she has "average looks", yes you'd be right.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/07/21 01:00 AM
4

Actually I think that High Value Men, as defined by FDS, simply don't exist. To be a HVM requires a superhuman degree of selflessness, generosity and patience. At the same time, a HVM has to be attractive to women, and such behavior simply isn't attractive to many women, no matter what FDS tells themselves. As I've said, I can't tell if FDS posts are serious or troll. If this is serious, then I hope her sons don't take her advice. FDS seems to operate under the illusion that women are all morall…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/07/21 12:09 AM
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Good point. She wants casual sex with a hot guy, but at the same time doesn't want to admit this to herself or anyone else. The no hookups declaration is a way of indemnifying herself. She's a good girl! She just somehow slipped up, got caught up in the excitement of the moment. And was drunk too probably. Her intentions were pure, so it doesn't count!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/07/21 06:47 PM
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That's because they want relationships like the ones they see in romantic comedies, with the woman endlessly throwing sarcastic put-downs at the man, which he effortlessly counters with witty responses. They imagine this will keep the relationship fresh and exciting.
/r/MGTOW26/07/21 12:51 PM
1

Yet another woman who thinks being rude, abrasive and bitchy is a selling point that man find appealing. All these women imagine their dating life should be like a romantic comedy, with her and her boyfriend swapping witty sarcastic one liners, culminating in hot sex. It doesn't help that there are plenty of guys who will put up with this sort of abuse without complaint if there's the vague promise of sex at the end of it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/07/21 10:08 PM
12

She's hoping to attract an alpha fckboi for casual sex, pure and simple. If he sticks around, that's nice but optional. The "no hookups" etc. boilerplate serves a couple of purposes. Firstly, to hopefully reduce the volume of responses she gets. Secondly, as plausible deniability if the guy turns out to be not as hot as she had hoped, so she can quash any moves he puts on her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/07/21 08:36 PM
4

I'd very much still recommend a condom.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/07/21 10:32 AM
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To be honest, she has a better body than most 43 year olds. Her face though, its scary. The picture at the top right shows what she looked like at age, I'm guessing, 35? A few years ago anyhow. Similar body, minus a few tattoos and a little less saggy. Her face though, much cuter. When she was younger, this woman would've been an easy 8.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/07/21 09:25 AM
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"I am blunt" is the first thing she says. She is rude and sarcastic. This is a commonality you see in nearly all these profiles. These women love being sarcastic, rude and obnoxious to their prospective boyfriends. No, they won't dial it back. You have to deal with it. Don't you have a sense of humor? Somehow women, from Gen X like this one to Gen Z, have learnt being rude and bitchy is something that men find appealing, or at least will tolerate.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/07/21 09:22 AM
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Thanks, I don't think a chart like this can be 100% accurate. But nonetheless, it shows even 7" dicks are rare.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/07/21 06:43 AM
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I've seen stories like this where women will claim all the guys they were strongly sexually attracted to had big dicks, but guys they are just meh about had small/average dicks. Really now? Big dicks are statistically rare, and this would have to be an incredible coincidence. Truth is, I think women are just bad at judging dick size, and tend to overestimate those of men they are attracted to.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/07/21 04:33 PM
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"if you're a fckboi or a player swipe left" A profile like this is like a magnet to fckbois and players. I think she actually wants a fckboi and has written it to appeal to them. Does she really think a man who wants a relationship is going to read this and think "that's the woman I'd like to spend lots of time with".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/07/21 07:44 AM
7

Reminds me of that classic Eddie Murphy skit where he jokes about finding an African girl untouched by feminism and bringing her to America. After spending a few minutes with American women she's all "what have you done for me lately Eddie? I am leaving you Eddie. I want half Eddie. Half!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/07/21 10:13 PM
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Also "blunt dark sense of humor" is incompatible with long term relationships. She may enjoy throwing veiled insults at men which they are expected to flawlessly bat aside with wit and grace, but that only works in the very short term. I guess she doesn't have any real relationship experience.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/07/21 08:30 PM
12

In Australia sperm donors get reimbursed for basic expenses, like travel. And free coffee and cookies at the clinic. That's about it. Then they retroactively removed donor anonymity a few years ago. Considering what an enormous hassle donating sperm is on top of this (many tests and conditions to meet) its no wonder sperm donor numbers have crashed in Australia, and in the UK which has a similar system.
/r/MGTOW22/07/21 07:50 PM
7

Her momma may have told her that, but yet her momma apparently brought her up to be loud, obnoxious and masculine in her behavior - all attributes which would deter most men except for fckbois.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/21 11:31 PM
48

Like FDS posts, I can't tell if this profile is real or a troll. If it is real, it will of course deter all the men she is trying to attract.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/07/21 04:48 AM
9

I'm sure these girls have a narrow definition of "boyfriend". They would be having sex with guys. Even going on dates with guys. But these guys don't qualify as "boyfriends" for whatever reason.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/07/21 10:55 PM
3

I can't see how costly paid dating agencies can work for anyone. They'll be the same sort of people you'll see in free/cheap ones. And their expectations will be raised because they are paying a premium price. So she'll reject most of the men on a paid site. And those few she wants, definitely won't want her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/07/21 09:09 AM
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I guess women really do the idea of strange men spending money on them. Although why they seem so obsessed with lavish meals considering how, um, well fed many young women are nowadays doesn't seem to make much sense to me. But also, women seem to want to have the option of having immediate casual sex with a hot guy. For all their complaining otherwise, they'd rather have casual sex with a hot guy than a relationship with an average guy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/07/21 01:32 AM
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we have what she says the guy said He didn't even say “Men don’t want a relationship with women over 30”. She's putting words in his mouth and using a strawman argument. Reminds me of the time I said in a female-centric (but not female exclusive) forum that men are biologically attracted to younger women. Because female fertility, and isn't reproduction ultimately what sex and romance is all about? Doesn't mean its the only thing they are attracted to, and most men can't or perhaps even don't wa…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/07/21 05:03 AM
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Women's brains are specialized to judge the attractiveness of men, based on the social status he projects. Men's brains are specialized to judge the attractiveness of women, based on her age. Men are very good at intuitively estimating the age of women. Yes, men can tell she looks different at 35 than at 28, even if she thinks she looks exactly the same.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/07/21 12:53 AM
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Being approached by strangers or near-strangers is something that only happens to young women under 30, unless they are very good looking. I guess she isn't as young-looking or good-looking as she thinks she is. I wonder if she used to complain about strange guys hitting on her? At least she doesn't have to worry about that anymore.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/07/21 07:46 PM
11

Her main problem here is that she has a compulsive overeating problem. Did she acknowledge this and try and get treatment for it, or did she try and blame her obesity on "genetics"?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/07/21 04:08 PM
24

Look at pulp romance books. The hero will be a playboy who has had many partners. The heroine will either be a virgin or have had only a handful of partners. And these are written specifically to appeal to women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/07/21 06:39 AM
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Nevermind the fact that everything that he listed was all superficial and shallow. As a 30-something woman, I am in the best shape of my life. In my 20s I was skinny, I had a flat ass and small boobs. Now that I’m in my 30s my boobs and ass have gotten bigger and much nicer. Gravity has not yet taken its toll on me. Does she actually believe this? Probably. She is delusional. She is older and heavier and thinks this makes her more attractive? She must understand men are very good at correctly es…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/07/21 04:06 AM
24

How many sweet, pleasant, reasonable girls would want to be sugar babies though? It seems like something that would naturally attract crazy, entitled girls.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/07/21 03:28 AM
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You can bet she had gotten away with this sort of crap with other men before. She thought she was perfectly entitled to act like a crazy bitch, yelling at him, threatening him, stealing and destroying his stuff. Most guys, especially inexperienced younger guys, wouldn't know how to deal with this and would let her get away with it. Many sugar daddies don't take this sort of crap though and will quickly next any girl who tries it. By the sound of it his "abusive" behavior is that he, quite reason…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/07/21 01:43 AM
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A broken wrist, so she claims, although she seems pretty active for someone with such a serious injury.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/07/21 01:32 AM
4

Some crazy people believe the covid vaccine causes you to "shed" super powerful viral particles that will make other people much sicker than the actual virus itself. Or something. Anyhow, yeah she is in her prime. Instead of capitalizing on this, here she is acting like a crazy, rude, entitled bitch on tinder.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/07/21 06:06 AM
25

What are guts normally full of? Anyhow, I think she's looking at this guy through a lens of nostalgia and vague longing, the feelinz that women love to wallow in. He probably wasn't quite as great as she remembered, and if she'd married him she'd be some variety of "unhappy" about now. Or already divorced.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/07/21 02:39 AM
6

Women overestimating their attractiveness is common here, but this is the reverse. If she's not fat, not deformed and reasonably young she will have had plenty of men interested in her. But it seems she's so socially unaware she doesn't register mild flirting, only blatant come-ons. And she apparently only has eyes for Chad too and doesn't notice more average guys.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/21 09:12 PM
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She perceives regular guys as clingy, overly nice and socially awkward. Her calibration is so far off she thinks natural alphas (cocky, socially adept bad boys) are the norm and regular guys are abnormal.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/21 05:47 AM
3

She doesn't really mean it when she says "she doesn't believe in hook ups". She's trying to convince herself, but if you're hot then somehow sex will "just happen" on the first date.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/21 12:29 AM
2

If she ever works out how to use picture filters she might be dangerous. But yeah she's probably in her late 40s rather than late 30s, and that's a hard late 40s. Which means she would have had her kid mid 40s.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/06/21 07:07 PM
9

If that's a current photo she is hot. However perhaps she's lucky and does look younger than she is, but that photo looks more like a college student than a 30 year old.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/06/21 09:23 PM
1

The simps will be ok with anything lady...duh! Exactly, many men would be fine with it. But it seems that high value men with options aren't.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/06/21 09:00 PM
28

She's completely lacking in self-awareness. Any long term loving relationship, no matter how great the guy, will bore her and be unsatisfying. Only short term relationships with "emotionally unavailable" men will provide her with the excitement and satisfaction she desires. If she were to acknowledge this she would be a lot better off.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/06/21 10:16 PM
15

she is working to lose She's posing in exercise gear to make it seem like she has an exercise regime and is trying to lose it. My guess is though this is just a sham.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/06/21 04:27 PM
54

"into woman looking like male fuck toys" She's fat. She's denigrating all non-fat woman as "looking like male fuck toys".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/06/21 08:35 AM
2

Yeah good point. Sex tends to be a lot more complicated for women with more variables.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/06/21 08:02 PM
5

Her orgasm depends mainly on how aroused she is. Who is she more likely to be aroused with? Cool, confident, attractive Chad. Or nervous, self-conscious Billy Beta.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/06/21 09:58 AM
28

she projects herself as happy which people respond to That, or else she's just completely imagining that people are treating her differently.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/06/21 03:33 PM
12

Radical feminists want to ban porn too, for their own reasons (it supposedly, without exception, exploits and degrades women). They figure that in the post-patriarchy sexual liberated utopia they aspire to men and women will have about equal access to sex. Of course that won't happen. It doesn't help that many of them are lesbians or asexual and have little idea of how the heterosexual dating market works. And that they view women as so inherently morally perfect that they would never do anythin…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/06/21 12:44 AM
6

It looks like OP took that sub seriously rather than as the troll sub it probably is. Its actually dawned on her that the sub's "strategy" of making extraordinary demands on men while simultaneously treating them like trash only works if you're hot. Maybe.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/06/21 09:17 PM
11

Due to "pre-selection" women may, in theory, be a little more likely to not mind it. But even so, I think its something the great majority of women would find off-putting. But if you're going to do this, the least you could do is not pull your "O Face" when good looking person of the opposite sex is kissing your cheek. This girl is stupid.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/06/21 01:35 AM
11

Yeah, the smirk is designed to flatten her face and try and hide her chubbiness. As is the soft focus and snapchat filters. It must work or they wouldn't keep doing it. I doubt if she's really looking for beta bux yet. She probably hasn't quite reached that level of desperation.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/06/21 12:21 AM
23

He's supposed to be straight. She's quite deliberately selected this picture. The intended meaning is "you have to be at least this good looking if you want to be with me." The actual meaning guys will see is "I'm stupid and promiscuous and not relationship material." She's also probably projecting what she finds attractive in men. Women tend to be attracted to men who have been selected by other women ("pre-selection"). She may think this picture makes her more attractive to men. No, no it does…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/06/21 11:03 PM
40

I read somewhere that they tend to accumulate "snot stalactites".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/06/21 10:58 PM
1

Most people would think they look younger than they are. The hard truth is that they probably don't. Women would be particularly prone to this erroneous thinking, as women tend to just praise and affirm each other, avoiding even the mildest criticism.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/06/21 04:07 AM
4

about to give it up to try and retrain (into a non-lucrative career btw) and so wouldn't be ready in her new career until 30. She's immature and foolish. Chasing the adolescent fantasy of a "dream job" and also the idealized vision of college life. Wasting four valuable years learning little and racking up more debt. There are much cheaper and faster ways of branching into a new career if that's what she wants.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/06/21 06:21 AM
10

Because these "nice guys" (just regular decent guys) treat her with some respect, her subconscious seems to be assuming they are low status. The hurt she is experiencing is because she is being rejected by men she subconsciously is assuming are beneath her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/06/21 09:37 PM
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She's probably trying to get men out of her league. All these years of pursuing, and briefly catching, attractive assholes has given her a distorted idea of how desirable she actually is. These "nice guys" are probably attractive and successful and know they can do better. She's going to have to lower her standards.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/06/21 05:25 PM
1

"I even dated someone who was in the closet" She implies that this is a bad thing? Her profile suggests though she's after a gay bff. Anyhow, people often love to lie on dating profiles. She's probably exaggerating how "broken" she is. What's she hoping to achieve with this pity party? Obviously, she's trying to play on the sympathy of potential suitors. Problem is, this will only work on guys lacking self confidence. Guys she wouldn't be attracted to and will reject outright. Most other men wil…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/06/21 12:13 AM
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No she wouldn't date them. Her favorite phrase is probably something like "Just because I'm fat, doesn't mean I have to Settle". This is a common message you'll see on feminist sites. To justify this, you'll also statements about how "Society" (which is ill-defined, like "The Patriarchy) has brainwashed people with the belief that overweight women are less attractive than thin women. "Society" also has some sort of vested interest in keeping attractive men and fat women apart, apparently just ou…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/06/21 09:03 AM
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A few interesting things here. Firstly she doesn't want a guy with a fat fetish. She doesn't want to be reminded that she's unattractive. Being with a guy who's only attracted to her because she's overweight is a constant reminder she's not conventionally attractive. Another thing - she repeats a comfortable myth many overweight women seem to believe. That there a lot of men (including many attractive men) who are secretly attracted to fat women, but are afraid to act on this due to social press…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/06/21 10:49 PM
3

She may sound unhappy, but I think she's actually subconsciously loving it. All this lovely drama. Pursuing a guy out of her league and not quite catching him? Better than having to live with some average guy, or actually catching Mr Fantastic and then inevitably getting bored with him.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/06/21 10:08 PM
51

Why did she think turning her dating profile into a therapy session was a good idea? Potential dates don't need to know the sad details about her kids, or that she has ptsd and anxiety.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/06/21 09:36 PM
5

"pretty emotionally distant father and tired mother". Doesn't that describe most marriages with young kids though? It sounds like she has a very idealized idea of what marriage with children is like.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/21 07:59 PM
19

Egg freezing is mostly a scam. It requires IVF to work, and the odds of successful IVF declines with age similar to the chance of a successful natural pregnancy. Most women who freeze their eggs for non-medical (e.g. cancer) reasons don't end up using them though. It mainly serves as an expensive way to make them feel comfortable with being childfree, to get them past this panicked stage when they feel their fertility running out.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/21 07:57 PM
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They have the upper hand - with men they aren't attracted to. This girl is hot enough (if her pic is accurate) they she wouldn't want an average young Christian guy, the sort of guy her profile is, on paper, aimed at. I'm not she what's she trying to achieve with her profile. Probably she doesn't know either.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/21 07:03 PM
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she thinks that elevates her status Woman tend to be far more conscious of social status than men. In America and elsewhere, a big part of social status is educational attainment. In fact, women more so than men seem to regard attaining a degree as a sort of de-facto noble title. Her Masters degree now puts her above mere Bachelors holders. They are just glorified commoners in her eyes, she is now a proper noble lady.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/05/21 04:30 AM
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Every time she says "man/men", substitute "Chad/Chads". There's her problem. No Chads for you sweetie.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/05/21 07:07 PM
4

The two headshots look like they were taken several kids ago.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/05/21 08:30 AM
4

I bet she doesn't get any real life approaches anymore. All her attention is from online dating. Prior to online dating, there was only real life approaches, and most girls would get fewer and fewer real life approaches after their early 20s. By 30 these would be close to zero, unless they were exceptionally good looking. Now women of all ages and appearances can get lots of likes and messages on online dating. It seems their subconscious values these approaches as highly as real life approaches…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/05/21 09:39 AM
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Nah, those 5% are welcome to say whatever the heck they want to her. Her speech is aimed at the bottom 95%. She's still a little flattered by their attention, but the thought of any kind of sexual interaction with these loathsome creatures makes her gorge rise.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/05/21 04:23 AM
10

Dear unattractive men. Logically I know I should be giving some of you a chance as some of you should, in theory, make better LTR material than Chad. However if you even hint at sex or my appearance straight up, it creeps me out so badly I can't stand talking to you any further. Of course when Chad does it, that's great, but you shouldn't. Although so far this hasn't worked because even when you talk about completely sexless topics, you still creep me out a little and I get bored too. But please…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/05/21 11:39 PM
2

Its good if she feels okay as she is. Feeling miserable about being overweight is just going to lead to overeating. Being content in your own skin will actually make it easier to slowly and safely lose weight, and keep it off. But at the same time you don't want to be so comfortable you have no incentive to lose weight. But I don't think she really is comfortable in how she looks. She's trying way too hard.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/05/21 03:48 PM
2

they want to be loved for themselves rather than because of a sick fetish i.e. they want to believe they are conventionally attractive, rather than attractive just because the guy has a rare and unusual preference.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/05/21 03:41 PM
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Fair enough. I have misused the word "trope". "Narrative" or "belief" would be more accurate. I have seen wishful thinking from some women that there are a lot of men secretly strongly attracted to overweight women in general, just afraid to express it due to social pressure, I thought you might buying into this too. I believe it to be inaccurate and not helpful.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 12:55 AM
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I'm happy for her if she really is that comfortable in her own skin. However is she really happy being "warm, squishy and a good cushion" (that sounds like something a 10 year old would write), or is it just bluff?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/05/21 12:36 AM
2

This subverts the manosphere narrative that ugly men will treat you better than hot men. This isn't a manosphere trope at all. The closest trope would be that "ugly" men (so if a man isn't hot he's ugly?) would be more likely to commit than a hot man. The manosphere has nothing against men sleeping with women below their "league", it just discourages them from committing to them. And is OP buying into the trope that there are a huge number of men, hot and not so hot, strongly attracted to overwe…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 12:21 AM
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She seems to just follow whatever her friends do. What's the bet she divorced her husband because she saw her friends going to clubs and enjoying casual relationships and wanted the same? And now they are "settling down" she wants to get married again. If she did find a second husband, then when all her friends start getting divorced odds are she'd want to do the same.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/05/21 04:34 AM
1

A doctor of naturopathy, chiropractor or similar woo-woo would be good enough, if they are wealthy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/05/21 12:22 AM
2

"if you don't have a job or goals then I'm not for you" Unless he's hot, then all bets are off.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/05/21 09:36 PM
5

Her horrible attitude is her "sense of humor". That's a plus to any man, in her eyes. Her kids are a plus to any man, in her eyes. Don't you dare say otherwise.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/05/21 09:27 PM
22

She's a nut. Most self-made businessman who are as wealthy as she wants wouldn't have the spare time to pander to her ego. A retiree would probably be too old for her. So I assume she wants a wealthy heir who doesn't have to work? A drug dealer or other criminal might also do the job, as he'd have the bad boy vibes that a legitimate businessman wouldn't have. What's she's probably going to attract though is a player who's prepared to bullshit her with lies and borrowed money long enough to have …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/05/21 08:51 AM
5

And you can almost guarantee she is bringing a high level of bitchness to the relationship. Not "almost". I can absolutely guarantee it. Her entire profile screams that she will spend any relationship constantly bitching and shit testing. That's why she demands an "alpha". She doesn't want to dial back her constant need to be boss, but still wants to feel feminine. So she needs a man who's emotionally strong enough (i.e. a strong "frame") to beat her shit testing.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/05/21 10:28 PM
2

By "intelligent" she means a particular kind of intelligence - verbal and social intelligence, the ability to effortlessly fend off her endless shit testing with wit and grace.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/05/21 09:08 PM
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This is one of the differences between the sexes redpill talks about. Men will tend to use the strict legalistic definition of "grooming" which is "under 18, unless severely mentally handicapped". Women will tend to use the "feelz are realz" definition, i.e. "I feel it is unfair for the men I feel entitled to to pursue younger women, so I feel it is appropriate to use the term 'grooming' here". This is the sort of misunderstanding that can get innocent men accused of some pretty heinous crap.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/05/21 10:57 PM
5

Women's opinion of what "average looking" in men means tends to very distorted, as studies have shown. I bet those "more average looking" men she keeps falling are still well above average.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/05/21 06:08 PM
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"due to trauma I was attracted to [bad boys]" Instead of blaming "trauma", or "emotionally unavailable fathers", or whatever, women should understand they are naturally attracted to such men. Like men are naturally attracted to young, fit women. The attraction is biological. If they acknowledged this, they could learn to deal with it better. Or perhaps I'm being too optimistic.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/05/21 12:44 AM
1

You can see what's going on here. Logically, she should realize her kids are "baggage" and make her less attractive. Therefore she should lower her standards. Lower her standards? "Settle"? Unacceptable. Her rationalization hamster steps in to save her. Her kids are actually a ready-made sitcom-style family which make her more attractive to AlphaBetaBucks!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/05/21 12:14 AM
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Her profile is full of false bravado. Her children aren't "baggage"! (yes they are) Girls who are fit are run-of-the-mill and boring, her mombod is exciting and desirable! (no its not)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/05/21 10:14 PM
3

By her logic, she'll feel free to cheat on her husband because he didn't specifically state theirs wasn't an open marriage.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/05/21 11:31 AM
3

I bet every day her ex wakes up with a smile when he remembers he's no longer married to this peach. "If I end up staying with [Employer] and moving up, I will be making around 100k..." Probably not happening. Even if it does, its irrelevant. She's made it clear she won't be sharing her money with any man.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/05/21 10:15 PM
44

A profile pic in a public bathroom seems appropriate, that's probably where Chadette was conceived.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/21 10:43 PM
18

Just imagine how messed up the daughter must be. An obnoxious, precocious, foul mouthed little hellion.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/05/21 07:43 PM
7

Also the movie "How Stella Got Her Groove Back". In real life, you'll see she definitely didn't end up with Tyrone. This is what will happen with this woman. Despite being good looking for her age, she won't find the fantasy man she's longing for. Eventually, broke and older, she'll be forced to lower her standards and wind up with a guy worse than her husband.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/05/21 10:03 PM
6

They all fantasize about a relationship where they can constantly shit test their guy with sarcasm and bitchiness, and he effortlessly responds with witty comebacks. This is what "blunt, confident, good sense of humor, tease and cut up" means. Being able to handle this crap is a characteristic of alphas. Alphas will want a younger woman, and won't want to wait around for a "friends first" relationship. If she had any common sense she should be advertising how calm and patient and easy going she …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/05/21 09:31 PM
6

She realizes how pathetic and stereotypical it would sound to say "I am looking for new friends" on Tinder, so she's done a Google dictionary search for synonyms of "friend" and selected "associate". I'm not sure if "associate" projects the right meaning though. Is she looking for a business partner? Someone to commit crimes with?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/05/21 05:48 PM
7

Gentlemen usually don't appreciate being subjected to non-stop "cheeky banter" (i.e. sarcasm and bitchiness).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/04/21 05:44 AM
5

She was only mildly interested in him until he rejected her... If he were ever to reciprocate her feelings, then she'd find herself rapidly losing interest in him.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/04/21 12:11 AM
5

Which doesn't make much sense. The original phrase doesn't seem to translate well, but I've read enough of these profiles to know its probably a request for a tall guy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/21 11:53 PM
15

6 foot tall are no longer requirements If I'm reading that translation correctly, she still needs a 6' (~180 cm) man. She says she's 165 cm (~5'6") and with high heels her height is "what is needed". By that she probably means "I need you to be 6'".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/21 06:53 PM
2

Geez. We have a contender for craziest profile yet. Notice how in none of those pics we can see her midriff.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/21 06:44 PM
4

And in a lesbian marriage, who gets blamed for not doing enough housework/being "emotionally unavailable"? I don't even know why gays and lesbians wanted same sex marriage so badly. I guess its a case of something that's denied you automatically seeming desirable, even when it isn't really.
/r/MGTOW22/04/21 12:40 AM
8

Given the physical condition of many (perhaps most) of these FDS ladies, they would be much better off with coffee and walking dates rather than dinner dates.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/04/21 08:43 PM
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There is an abundance of men who will treat them the way they claim they want to be treated. Yet they will ignore them and only pursue these selfish jerks.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/04/21 01:27 PM
4

I'm guessing its trying to scare off regular boring nice guys. They want exciting bad boys. Such men rarely stick around for longer than a few nights. But I think this is what they want. The more unpleasant the profile, the more they are trying to hook up with a hot guy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/04/21 08:11 AM
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Translation is something like: "Just cause I'm fat doesn't mean I have to settle for some boring regular guy. I've made myself as unpleasant as possible in the hope of scaring those guys off. I want a good looking bad boy. Nothing else will do."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/21 03:52 AM
12

She's not really looking for a long term partner. She wants an Alpha, a player, even if only a second rate one. She'd rather have Chad-lite for a night than a regular nice guy for a year. This aggressive sarcasm is designed specifically to select for such a guy. I was wondering though why she put the line about needing a workout partner. But you're right - its a coded request for a guy in shape. She isn't really serious about losing weight. She'd actively resist all attempts to get to her to eat…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/21 01:22 AM
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Given how cheap basic food is in America (e.g. ramen, dried pasta, beans) nobody, except the truly destitute, should be starving. What she really means is "help, I don't have enough money for UberEats." Or more probably "I actually have food, but really need money for alcohol and weed".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/04/21 12:00 PM
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"bloke who is up for a laff and don't take him self too serious" i.e. she loves to throw "sarcasm" and "banter" at her bloke. He has to grin and bear this subtle abuse, and then come back with the perfect witty rejoinder. You see this mentioned so often in these profiles. "Sarcasm", "banter", "sense of humor" etc. This seems to appeal very powerfully to women. It is a staple of all genres of romantic fiction, going back even before Hollywood (e.g. Shakespeare's comedies). The woman throws sarcas…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/04/21 06:05 AM
8

Given how much makeup she's wearing, and how heavily filtered that image is, its hard to tell what she would look like in real life.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/04/21 05:52 AM
7

2 out of 4 of those pics appear to be pre-kid. And is that her baby daddy in one of them?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/04/21 08:57 PM
7

And why is that she's only been matched with 3 men? I bet she's never stopped to consider that, just complained that this service isn't doing its job. The reality would be the matchmaking service is likely doing its best. However with these services the normal gender balances are often reversed. These services tend to get much more female than male clients. They are giving these professional ladies what they say they want in a man - reasonably good looking, not too old, educated, professional jo…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/04/21 01:12 AM
2

That's what they say they want, but its obvious from the videos that they aren't prepared to put in any work or compromise in any way to try and find such a man.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/04/21 11:56 PM
2

She doesn't really think those guys are too old for her, she's just casting around for excuses to dismiss them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/04/21 05:05 AM
8

I'm not sure if this story is true or not. But it does show how workplace affairs affect women so powerfully. They provide a powerful combination of beta and alpha. Beta, because his interactions with her will be friendly, usually caring. And she also knows how much he's earning, meaning he has provider potential. Alpha, because the forbidden nature of the relationship generates excitement and generates tingles all by itself.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/04/21 01:46 AM
5

I'm not sure if most women actually want lifelong, or even just long term monogamy. I've been watching Kevin Samuels videos on youtube. Of course there may be a selection bias in play, as he or an assistant deliberately select women with the highest train wreck value. Still, what's interesting is how most of the women who call in don't really want marriage. They might say they do, but its quite obvious they don't really care whether it happens or not. So, in large parts of the black community th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/04/21 12:18 AM
9

Also "looking for gym partner" (i.e. meaningless promise to maybe lose weight, plus looking for scapegoat for when she doesn't actually lose weight).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/04/21 07:44 PM
5

She wants an alpha, a player who has enough inborn confidence and experience that he can handle her constant bitchiness. Of course such a guy has no interest in anything beyond casual sex. Perhaps this is what she is actually looking for. If she has any common sense she should know that "sarcasm" is a poor basis for a long term relationship.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/04/21 02:17 AM
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Come to think of it, the OP I replied to probably wasn't serious. She was just fishing for sympathy, for people to (metaphorically) pat her hand and tell her she's okay, she's done nothing really wrong and everything will be alright. Its just on a text only medium you can't read context, and the silly things she was saying pissed me off a little. Lesson learnt - if someone on an online forum isn't actively and genuinely asking for advice, best only to offer vague platitudes. Especially, dare I s…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/04/21 04:52 AM
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I don't think she even wants to be married. She wants a wedding. After that, she'll find the burden of being tied down to one man increasingly intolerable.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/04/21 06:44 PM
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Reddit, in general, apparently isn't any better. On another sub I see some woman complaining that men in general only seem interested in younger women. I post a reply, on an alt account, saying that men with options will go for younger women, and she should maybe consider lowering her standards. I phrased this as carefully as I could. My post was deleted. Ugh.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/21 04:35 PM
18

You mean even the most desperate guys will give her a pass? Yeah, I can't see her getting any right swipes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/04/21 08:44 PM
1

"Now is the time you must start dating someone in order to spend the holidays with them..." Ha, no. The sort of guys they want can find attractive, young women to spend the holidays with anytime they want.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/04/21 06:49 AM
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She'll reject the very few guys who might be willing to commit due to "lack of chemistry" or similar. Meanwhile, some attractive guy wants some kinky pregnant sex, he'll get it, bail, and she'll be back to complaining about how guys only want to use her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/21 08:21 PM
2

If she's having to put so much effort into it, she's probably trying to get guys above her league. Guys in her league probably wouldn't mind frizzy hair, a bit of body hair stubble and just some basic facial care/makeup. And I don't think guys really care about nails, provided they aren't actually gnarly looking. Many guys would actually find the acrylic talons she probably wears to be a turn-off.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/21 08:13 PM
2

She seems to be holding her breath and blowing her cheeks out. That's a trick I haven't seen before. This would smooth out fine lines and other minor signs of ageing.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/21 08:00 PM
5

I've read an expression "you can't out-train a bad diet". She mostly needs to eat less, eat healthier and probably cut back the alcohol too. And then actually exercise consistently as well. As I've said before, comments like "looking for a workout partner" or "diet partner" means she is looking for a convenient scapegoat for her failed attempts to lose weight and get healthier. But if you try and get her to eat less or exercise more, she'll resist and probably get angry. But then later on it'll …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/21 07:55 PM
9

I remember a Simpson's episode where they smear vaseline on a camera to try and hide some celebrity's imperfections. This lady should've used the whole jar. But really, all her efforts to make herself look younger only accentuate her real age (whether that's 48 or she's fibbing and its actually older). She should have gone with a less staged, more honest photo.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/21 10:58 PM
2

That's if she loses the weight. If she doesn't... that'll be your fault. By putting in her profile she's aiming to lose weight, she's implying she's expecting you to help her do it. But if you ever try to get her to eat less that'll be "abusive" or "fat shaming". Then later she'll be angry with you she hasn't lost any weight.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/21 10:51 PM
10

Perhaps when women on OLD say "children are no.1 priority", "my kids always come first" etc. they are actually trying to convince themselves rather than men. They are trying to convince themselves that they will not neglect their kids when Chad/Tyrone comes calling.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/21 10:42 PM
21

"Yes it matters to me". Another woman who thinks her demand for a tall man is something rare and unusual men haven't heard before. All women want a tall man. And if they say they don't, they are lying. And just that she's a bit taller than average herself does not mean the universe owes her a tall man.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/21 11:29 PM
5

From MGTOW: Go t the gym, get your finance in order, keep up your standards, don't overlook red flags That's actually the Redpill forum you're thinking of there. The main message of the MGTOW forums is just stay away from women as much as possible.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/21 08:17 AM
6

"pornsick"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/21 08:10 AM
15

FDS contains advice on how these ladies are supposed to "level up" and make themselves more attractive. In practice though, the sub just coddles them and tells them they are perfect just the way they are and its all men's fault. In contrast, the Redpill sub, for all its faults, will judge, quite harshly, men who aren't willing to put in the work.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/03/21 09:01 PM
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That she still thinks she is capable of leisurely pursuing a relationship, getting married sometime in the indefinite future, and then having kids, plural, is absolutely hilarious. But beyond this complete ignorance of biological reality, she's also bitchy, rude and unpleasant, sorry I meant sarcastic.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/03/21 07:01 AM
14

It would take more effort to write like this than to write using more traditional grammar and spelling. She actually put a lot of work into writing this in order to make herself sound young and hip.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/03/21 12:36 AM
3

The problem here is that women will casually hookup up with a small percentage of guys from these apps and the stories go around. Great point. Maybe if these guys were to read this forum and similar sources, they would understand that women will only casually hookup with guys they perceive as elite in some way. Mainly in terms of looks. women who are treating it as an app to meet a long term partner complete with a long list of requirements and an interview like process. Problem is, few of these…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/03/21 11:29 AM
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I'm thinking Holden Gemini, Australian version of Isuzu Gemini, which used the same platform as the Chevy Chevette. The rear wheel drive version remains popular among car modders. The coupe version in particular is a really nice looking car. Still, a strange selection for this girl to make as its a roughly 45 year old car and there aren't that many left. Rust proofing wasn't a high priority in its design. (yeah I'm Australian, and I remember these fondly).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/03/21 02:27 PM
3

Despite his bad behavior, he gave her the best sex she's ever had. She's trying to convince herself she still isn't in love with him, but she is. If he feels like a booty call, she will drop everything and run back to him.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/03/21 12:17 AM
6

She made that second line as confusing as possible. She's hoping that some Chad will see the word "skinny" and swipe right before he realizes she's actually admitting she's fat.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/21 08:03 PM
5

At least she says she prefers rather than requires a tall man. But I often see women with men who are the same height or shorter. Unless the difference in height and build is extreme, nobody gives a second glance and nobody cares. Edit: Okay I forgot about Rule 3. Whether or not she states it as a "preference", there is no excusing her height fetish. And the rest of her profile is terrible.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/03/21 10:40 PM
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Given her use of the term "cis men" she's probably a middle class SJW-type. She has no real idea of the work required to run a farm, even as a hobby. She probably has no money, and has debt from college. So this fantasy man she's looking for would be required to bankroll her dream. And he'd wind up doing all the work too, because she sounds lazy as heck.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/03/21 10:35 PM
1

The one who made less money than her... of course it wasn't this that turned her off him. It was that he was supposedly insecure about it. Just like how women aren't really turned off by short (or average) men's height, its just that they all are, quite conveniently, very insecure about it ("short man syndrome").
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/03/21 02:16 AM
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Given how strict the moderators there are, they would be doing the same thing. But so many of the posts there are so stupid, so over the top, I can't believe they are meant to be serious. Like all those ones with the list of ridiculous requirements e.g. "if he isn't superman, BLOCKED AND DELETED". This one almost qualifies too, but just seems a bit too sad and pathetic to seem like an attempt at trolling.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/21 01:53 PM
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She's delusional. She's too old at 29 to start a modelling career, especially if she's "plus size". But given the sheer number of women starting onlyfans or similar, it seems such self delusion is very common.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/21 01:42 PM
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She's taking Female Derangement Syndrome seriously when its largely made up of (1) sad, lonely women posting about fantasy men and imaginary relationships, and (2) trolls posting deliberately outrageous stuff trying to provoke a reaction.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/21 10:50 AM
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Or rather what women’s magazines consider a “dad bod” is not really what most dads have That picture of Jason Momoa from a couple years back when he had a slight belly (but still muscular as heck) is what women's magazines consider a "dad bod".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/03/21 11:48 PM
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Therapy can be very helpful, but at the same time you have to accept it has limits. It can help you deal with existing problems, but can't change fundamentally change you. they expect any guy to have had therapy and worked on their issues "Working on their issues", "working on themselves", "growing as a person" etc. means, like in this case, attending therapy, achieving little but learning pretentious pop psychology jargon. And/or reading self help books to achieve the same thing. Many women als…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/03/21 11:42 PM
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So much crazy here. But look at this statement: "I have solid research backed reasons for dating close to my age". Snookums, just admit you find older men unattractive. No need to justify this with whatever psycho-babble you and your tame therapist have cooked up between the two of you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/03/21 06:05 PM
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Actually this is sound advice. Most dating advice sites recommend that a single mother shouldn't let her boyfriend meet the kids for at least 6 months. The rest of the post is silly though. Waiting 6 months for sex would weed out players, it would also serve to weed out men she is sexually attracted to. And she is idealizing marriage.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/03/21 01:01 AM
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They might help a little at the beginning in attracting her attention. But honestly I think they would make little difference either way. He could have no tattoos, and she'd still be attracted to him. I could get the same tattoos, and I'd just be a pathetic try hard.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/03/21 07:50 PM
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He told her exactly what she wanted to hear. e.g. that he's into "self improvement/working on himself". This is something that many women believe in, but much fewer men (personally I think its mostly psychobabble).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/03/21 08:58 PM
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She likes big, tall dudes? How incredibly original Don't they realize they all want this? That there's no need to state it in their profiles because we can assume they want this by default?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/03/21 11:49 PM
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These "super sweet" guys probably are average looking, not unattractive. And they probably are just treating her normally, not putting her on a pedestal. But because she isn't attracted to them their behavior just annoys her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/03/21 11:08 PM
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He's not even all that "Chadly" looking. He doesn't seem to be tall. Balding a little. Weak chin. But he would have the correct dark triad bad boy attitude. Contrary to what incels believe, attitude and personality matter as well as looks when it comes to generating tingles.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/03/21 09:46 PM
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This is what this claim is - a cry for attention. But this what many feminists believe. That sex without mutual intense desire is always some variety of assault. The implication for this, that they will refuse to acknowledge, is that the only legitimate form of sex is with unevolved alpha bad boys.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/03/21 09:39 AM
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Partly. These women also love shaming and embarrassing men. Attacking men as impotent compulsive masturbators is a potent weapon to shame and belittle them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/03/21 09:24 AM
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This reminds me of a quote by Marsellus Wallace from Pulp Fiction: "You see, this profession is filled to the brim with unrealistic motherfuckers. Motherfuckers who thought their ass would age like wine. If you mean it turns to vinegar, it does. If you mean it gets better with age, it don't."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/03/21 08:53 AM
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Excessive porn use may cause problems, but that's offtopic here. In any case, if it does, these sorts of feminists hugely overestimate the rate at which it does cause problems. They also blame all male sexual problems, or even disinterest in sex, as being due to porn. If a woman's libido is flagging, well poor thing she deserves nothing but sympathy. If a man's libido is flagging, he did it to himself with porn use. If a man has erectile problems, he did it to himself with porn use. The conclusi…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/03/21 12:33 AM
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But, but she's "fluffy". Like a kitten or a puppy. Surely guys must find that cute? And she has three kids. Instant family for any lucky guy willing to take her on! And a "stable career" too, so she brings money to table. Well, its her money and you won't be seeing any of it. And finally, her own home, probably obtained from ex in the divorce settlement, with money owing on it and which she can't afford to maintain.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/03/21 07:56 PM
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I bet anyone who comments on that sub asking "is this post actually real?" would get banned and their comment deleted. For breaking immersion.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/03/21 07:37 PM
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Given the "porn sick" reference and the "field report" description (which is a parody of Redpill sub posts) I know which sub this is from. Like many of the posts from there, I can't tell if this is serious or parody. But yeah, if serious, men aren't leering at her at the gym. And they won't approach because (a) they aren't interested and (b) men aren't supposed to hit on women in the gym. That's a faux pas right?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/03/21 04:34 PM
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Blaming men for being bald, when that's something you really can't do much about, is a sign of her own bad character.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/03/21 09:18 PM
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Those "sweet" men are so far beneath her she barely thinks about them. No, those "trash" men are fuckboys. Tall, muscular, confident but just interested in sex (with her). After she gets pumped and dumped, she wishes they were REAL and would stick around.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/03/21 02:02 AM
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Is she a single mother? She rambles so much I missed that part. Anyhow it would be pointless trying to reason with someone this stupid and entitled. Also delusional. "I often find TALL handsome men staring at me"... Sure they are. I remember going to a restaurant with a woman (not a date). Every so often she'd claim that some guy was staring at her. No, no they weren't.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/21 11:41 PM
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They are delusional. I remember reading the sugarlife reddit where someone said that to be a successful sugar daddy, you need to be earning at least $150k. The number of suitably wealthy men willing to be sugar daddies is much smaller than the pool of girls wanting to be sugar babies.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/21 11:36 AM
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I can imagine how a 3rd date with her goes. You show up at her house around 6pm. She's all dressed up. "So you've arranged a babysitter right?" "Um sure, she's showing up in half an hour. I just need to pop out to the store. Can you take of my kid until then?" "I'm not comfortable with that." "But its just for half an hour!" So she disappears out the door. Hours pass. You find she's blocked you on her phone. Eventually around 2am she staggers in, obviously drunk. "Oh sorry, um, my friend had an …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/21 02:23 AM
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She's a stripper. That's why she sick of men saying how they used to date strippers, or asking about dancing. She doesn't want to just announce it, but still wants to give guys a heads up. And from what I've read here, many strippers also work as prostitutes. I think she's after a sugar daddy. A sugar daddy who isn't just wealthy, but also high class. Hence the requirement that he be capable of "intellectual conversations". Basically, I think she wants to be Julia Roberts in Pretty Woman.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/21 02:39 AM
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I can think of a couple of quite innocuous tests to screen out FDS users: 1/ Set the wallpaper on your phone to a picture of a pretty girl in a bikini. Something G rated that most sane women wouldn't bat an eyelid at. To an FDS fan, this is a clear sign you're a "porn addict". 2/ If you go out to a restaurant or similar, order something for yourself that is modest sized and inexpensive. Mention you don't normally have a big appetite and how you've already spent more on food this week than normal…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/03/21 10:33 PM
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So if you aren't hot enough for her, if you suggest anything sexual she can reject you with extreme prejudice. If you are hot enough though, then you'll find her definition of "friend" is very flexible.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/03/21 12:59 AM
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Her: Normalize dating sex workers. Normalize dating sex workers. Average guy: I'll date you [she ignores him]: Normalize dating sex workers. Normalize dating sex workers. Average guy: Hey I know you're a sex worker, I'm still willing to date you. [she continues ignoring him]: Why don't guys want to date sex workers? We really need to normalize it!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/03/21 06:59 AM
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Why are women seemingly so obsessed with their stomachs? If I ate that much I wouldn't feel like sex.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/03/21 12:36 AM
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PS. Do real estate agents make that good of money? Its commission only right? Probably still better than a Starbucks barista. But at least the barista gets a reliable income which isn't dependant on market vagaries.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/03/21 11:32 PM
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If she dates a guy she's strongly attracted to, she will have sex with him on the first or second date. If this sub has shown us anything, its that women will have sex quickly with men they strongly sexually attracted to. When he disappears after, she will rationalize the encounter away, and in her mind she will still be a born-again virgin.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/03/21 06:47 AM
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Normally when a woman includes her height its a veiled request for a tall man. In her case, I don't know though. Maybe she's trying to appeal to men who like short chubby girls? And why are women so obsessed with food and eating now? Its no wonder obesity rates are so high.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/03/21 08:15 PM
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Such hormonal driven craziness is mostly the preserve is very young adults. She's too old. The men who she would consider as matches are too old. She needs to get over herself and accept its "settling" or nothing. And she also wants her "best friend" (beta) who will also "push and challenge her" (i.e. be the perfect alpha foil for her constant shit testing). Would milady like some fried ice with that?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/21 10:53 PM
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Nobody over the age of 18 should be using the term "crushing" in that context.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/21 07:18 PM
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She's utterly clueless and sounds pretty dumb. Only 3 dates in 9 years? Considering how even very unattractive women in OLD get many hits from men, she isn't even trying. "I've expanded my tastes and preferences". 2 of these guys went on to marry younger and attractive women. We can surmise from this they were men with options. She seems to be extremely picky and is only interested in men well out of her league. "Short hair, but its colorful!" She apparently thinks short, colorful hair makes her…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/21 04:28 PM
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Women, whether they consciously realize it or not, want to be the "submissive" one in a romantic partnership. They don't want a man who will defer to them. Yet at the same time many don't want to have to defer to their man at home. They will say something like "I'm strong and empowered, this is what I am! I'm not changing to please some man!" But they don't understand this means compromise - either dial down being strong and empowered, or "settle" for a more submissive man. Instead they will jus…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/21 01:33 AM
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Its all about social status. To a much greater degree than men, women are constantly, unconsciously calculating the social status of people around them. In America is this determined in part by education. Women are always seeking to raise their social status, in large part because they will assume this will grant them access to higher status men. Unfortunately there's a few problems with their calculations. Men care a lot less about social status than they assume. There's also diminishing return…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/21 01:07 AM
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No she hasn't, and she has no real intention of going to the gym. If you tried to make her go to the gym, then this would be considered "abusive". She's only put that line in there to make it seem like she's trying to get fitter and lose weight.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/21 12:52 AM
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You'd be correct. The endorsed response overvalues female chastity as something that men find attractive. Men do find it attractive, but it actually falls below youth, beauty and a pleasant, fun personality.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/03/21 02:00 PM
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She isn't thinking logically. The underlying reason here is that she has lost whatever sexual attraction she had for him, and with that all remaining respect. In her mind he's a useless man child. He can't do anything right, and anything he is doing she can do better.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/02/21 10:17 PM
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Odds are she has a dishwashing machine. Now go back 100+ years ago when she'd have to fetch firewood, boil a big pot of water, soak the dishes in caustic soap, scrub them laboriously by hand, etc.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/02/21 09:18 PM
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"Must be able to be on a similar IQ range..." Which would be about 75-80 I suppose. So she'd be looking for a guy who inherited his money. "Must not need me in high heels and dresses all the time..." You don't get to make conditions, woman.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/21 09:44 PM
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When it comes to committed relationships, women need him to be equal or higher status. I say need, because it seems to be a biological imperative. Women cannot stand being publicly coupled with a man they perceive as lower status than themselves. Social status is determined by multiple factors which women in particular are constantly subconsciously calculating. Education. Family. Money. Type of job. How he dresses. The car he drives. Where he lives. The more educated and more higher earning a wo…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/21 06:52 AM
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Actually any man with options is not going to be secure with this. Only men she's not attracted to would be willing to put up with this. Really, what the heck is going on here? He "works on the road" (whatever that means) yet can't afford a cheap motel or similar? He must have plenty of options when he's "working on the road", yet suddenly when he visits this small town he's forced to sleep in his baby momma's home? This is very suspicious.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/21 06:30 AM
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She can't understand why she gets so many messages from men either 10 years younger or 20 years older? Its because she's unattractive for her age, but still do-able. The younger guys are desperate for sex, and girls their own age, or attractive older women, won't give them the time of day. But they figure a frumpy, but still youngish woman, might be flattered enough to give them a chance. The older guys find her better looking than most women their age, and figure she might be impressed enough b…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/21 12:56 AM
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JD is a trap for most people who go into it to. People who go into to dreaming of glamorous Big Law, or debating in a courtroom. The reality for most is either employment in a non-legal field, or dreary document discovery, or trying to sell legal services in a stripmall divorce and dui mill.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/02/21 03:24 AM
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Great translation. This woman is as dumb as a bag of hammers. There will be no trying to reason with her. And PTSD used to mean something like "I watched my buddy die horribly next to me and when I hear a car backfire I panic". Now it seems to mean "my ex said mean things to me, and when I think about it I get sad".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/02/21 05:07 AM
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Women value tingles above all. Once a woman has enough money to take care of her basic needs, and there's no social pressure to "settle down", she's free to pursue tingles. In order to compensate for the lack of tingles, a guy needs to be seriously wealthy. Not just comfortably well off like those tech workers. Of course once a woman gets older she'll start considering those guys. But judging from what I've read on this reddit, even then there isn't much interest in them and they are still mostl…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/21 12:48 AM
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I cannot believe the sort of men she describes are absent from OLD. I think what is happening she is only looking for "nerdy men" who also very good looking. She swipes left on plenty of "nerdy men" automatically, without even consciously being aware she is doing it. And I like how she describes all non-Chads as "nerdy men".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/02/21 11:38 PM
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It might just mean someone who can afford to own their own car. These profiles demand the guy own their own car, but apparently if you make them tingle this is actually optional.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/02/21 11:26 PM
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She still has to get the eggs fertilized and implanted using IVF. This is expensive and medically invasive, and the chance of success declines with age. And why would the kind of guy she wants (handsome, successful) go through all this trouble to have a kid when he could easily get a younger and more fertile woman?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/02/21 08:49 PM
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If you are "Chad", yeah you can do this and she won't mind. In fact this sort of back-and-forth shit talking is something she enjoys. There's no enjoyment in her indulging her "dry humor" and "sarcasm" if you just meekly sit there and take it is there? But "Chad" will be gone as soon as he gets bored. Regular guys, the ones who will stick around, will respond to this crap by just apologizing and saying whatever they think will appease her. Which will only make her more and more frustrated and le…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/02/21 06:16 PM
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3) Some Men Are Intimidated By Strong Women If you’re particularly headstrong, confident, and independent, chances are you’re having a harder time dating than some of your more “agreeable” female friends... This feeling of being needed, of being stronger, of being superior is what most men look for in a relationship... Of course "he was intimidated" is often used by women to make themselves feel better when a man simply isn't physically attracted to them. But even looking at the issues of who is…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/02/21 01:08 AM
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Good point. Only men they deem attractive get the honor of being called "men". Other men are considered faceless non-sexual entities, or de-facto female, or just background furniture. In this case, she also deliberately selected a misleading title (implying she gets zero interest from anyone) to garner more sympathy. But Muslim Chad should still express some further interest in her provided she's even average looking. Why do they immediately lose interest when seeing her face (I'm assuming on a …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/02/21 12:25 AM
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"slowly loving the gym [as a place to de-stress]" She lies.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/21 06:55 AM
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I think these ladies can find a BP beta without too much trouble. No, these ladies, like this one, who ask "where are all the good men" aren't willing to "settle" for such an average guy. At least not yet. They still think they can find a guy who will make them feel excitement and drama, yet will also provide them with the stability they now want. Such a man doesn't exist of course.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/02/21 10:35 AM
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That's one explanation. But I think there's a few reasons, which I've addressed here before. For one thing, it seems that girls, particularly in single mother homes, are often brought up and encouraged to be loud and bitchy. It becomes ingrained and too hard to change. For another thing, many women, particularly those on online dating apps, value sexual chemistry (tingles) very highly. The think that constant bantering and shit testing will keep the tingles alive and prevent the relationship gro…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/02/21 11:19 AM
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I think its because of all the fond memories they have of "bantering" (exchanging shit talk) with Chad. They don't understand that this is only enjoyable in short bursts. Being subjected to it constantly in a long term relationship is not sustainable.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/02/21 02:49 AM
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Whenever you see such a disclaimer, it actually means she will want to fuck you, and quickly - if you're hot enough. If you aren't, then this gives her plausible deniability if you make any kind of move on her. "I told you I wasn't interested in that, yet. What kind of girl do you think I am? You can make it up to me by buying me dinner."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/02/21 10:42 PM
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Deciphering this nonsense, she won't stop shit testing you - belittling and putting you down, yet expects you to always have the correct witty responses and attitude that will make her "feel weak in your arms". i.e. you have to have rock solid "frame". This is something feminism, her mum and society in general taught her is her right and something a "strong man" enjoys. Actually this is only sustainable in short term relationships (i.e. getting pumped and dumped by Chad). In long term relationsh…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/02/21 08:41 PM
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Real or fake, at least you know she's toilet trained.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/02/21 10:12 PM
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Unless she's a widow, her status as a single mother of 4 strongly suggests she herself doesn't really want anything "serious". Serious bores her. She's rejected many opportunities for "serious" to chase tingles. If the sort of man shows up that she claims she wants, she would wind up cheating on him.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/02/21 04:59 AM
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This profile is so terrible I'm not sure if its real or not. But I was wondering which one it was too. Its going to be the plainer one in the group. Not the middle one. The one on the right is a little overweight but seems to have really large breasts. So I would say its the one on the left.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/21 07:06 PM
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I think the main problem she is that she is aiming for men out of her league. "Do you ladies think men appreciate how hard women have it on OLD..." [paraphrasing here] blah blah blah. How about women try appreciating OLD from a male perspective? Men don't have much to get out of OLD other than sex or the promise of sex. Odds are, if she doesn't express strong sexual interest at the start, it probably will never be there, "demisexuality" being rare or possibly even non-existent. Its in his best i…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/21 12:15 AM
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Guys are getting smarter apparently. They are starting to realize if her sexual interest isn't there right from the start, its never going to be there. Its almost certainly true for this woman, despite all her claims of being "demisexual".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/21 11:32 AM
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But I expect the sort of men who would overlook this are the sort of men she would not look at twice. She wants a "clean cut" (good looking) "professional" (high earning) man. Her standards are too high. These are men with plenty of options. Plenty of men actually would be willing to commit to her, but you are right these are average or below men who are invisible to her. You would think she would realize this, but the mantra of the sisterhood is "don't settle! You don't need to settle! Mr Perfe…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/02/21 08:10 PM
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All that "work on herself" and she really has learned nothing. She constantly aims for guys above her league. That's why she keeps getting pumped and dumped. When she does force herself to date guys she isn't attracted to, what do you know, he sticks around and doesn't disappear, and she's the one who winds up having to break things off. There's the solution to her problem. If she wants something long term, she has to lower her standards. If she can't bear to do this, she needs to accept she'll …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/21 11:46 PM
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I suspect she has unrealistic expectations of the what the average male body type is. She probably only wants guys who spend a lot of time at the gym. She warns about "poser" guys because this is the kind of guy she has picked in the past, yet they don't stick around. She'd still expect a guy in great shape, only one who doesn't pose shirtless in his profile pic.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/21 08:39 PM
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She actually, seriously, thinks her 2 kids and 1 fetus are a selling point that men will find attractive.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/21 06:31 AM
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Translation: "I know you guys really don't care how tall I am, but I'm just saying you better be at least 4 inches taller than me."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/21 12:17 AM
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Its also code for "I expect you to bankroll my continued travels."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/02/21 10:45 PM
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It'll be your fault when she doesn't lose weight. Its your job to get her to the gym, even when she never wants to. But what she seems to miss is that most weight loss is down to diet. If you think getting her to the gym will be hard, getting her to eat less will be even worse.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/02/21 10:38 PM
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Most cops are decent. You're right though, she needs to stop pretending that she's a teenager. Most real teenagers would be "start acting your age, grandma".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/02/21 09:23 PM
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Most guys are "nice and honest". Despite all her protests otherwise, she probably has a bad boy fetish.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/02/21 09:06 PM
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She hates android products so she can cheat easier. I don't know much about smart phones I admit. So she'll find it easier to cheat if you both use iPhones? I just thought it was because she was too lazy to work out how to interface with an Android device. Or she thought only broke guys use Android phones. And the classic justification for demanding a tall guy - she's tall too, so of course she must have one.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/01/21 06:45 AM
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Puts her height in there as an underhanded way of asking for a tall man. No, she's an overweight, work-shy, debt-laden single mother. She doesn't get to demand a tall man.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/01/21 08:16 PM
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The lesson she should learn is: hot guys with options aren't going to commit. If she wants commitment, she needs to lower her standards. The lesson she thinks she's learnt: she shouldn't lower standards at all. She deserves a hot guy. But she should now make him wait for sex and Define the Relationship early (i.e. nag him into exclusivity and commitment).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/01/21 11:48 PM
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If you "speak your mind" and are "honest" with her, then that's abusive! So you are just supposed to endure her arguing and bitchiness and temper tantrums without responding. She thinks of this bad attitude as a positive though, as her being strong and empowered. Why else would she brag about how she "won't change and be quiet"?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/01/21 08:57 PM
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If he'd broken up with her early, then she'd still get depicted as the bad guy on the sub.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/01/21 08:51 PM
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Black women do have this reputation, I'm not sure if its a stereotype. But many lower class/middle class women of all races seem to be this angry and bitchy now. They are bought up this way by their usually single mothers. When it comes to dating and relationships, they think this attitude will select for strong men. But even the strongest man will run away or be browbeaten into submission when subjected to constant anger and shit testing. What it actually selects for is casual relationships wit…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/01/21 08:18 PM
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Is this real? Anyhow if it is, here's a woman who, like many modern women, finds the idea of acting feminine around a man (demure, submissive, etc.) unpleasant and degrading. At the same time, she still wants to feel feminine around her man. The way to resolve this dilemma in her mind is to find a very masculine man, a man with flawless "frame" in redpill speak. So she can just act like a complete bitch around him at all times, yet he will always win this struggle and put her in her place, makin…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/01/21 12:42 AM
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These women tend to be angry and demanding. They have so many demands for the "high value men" they claim they want. He has to earn so much. He has to treat her kids like his own. He has to treat her like a queen. He has to be attractive (which means top 20% or less in terms of looks of course). I suspect they don't actually want a respectful high earning man. With all these demands he probably doesn't exist, and even if she found him her bad attitude would soon drive him off. They actually want…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/01/21 02:01 PM
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Women just don't seem to get it that marriage usually hugely disadvantages the man at the expense of the woman. They feign honest confusion when you try to explain it. "But marriage provides equal protection and benefits to both people!" they'll claim. However if you go to female-centric forums, you'll see they do get it if its the man who has substantially less assets and earning potential. In that case, women will strongly advise the woman not to get married in order to "protect herself".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/01/21 03:56 AM
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Its something men do appreciate, but they mostly place far less emphasis on money and career than on how young she is, how good looking she is and how pleasant she is to be around. Anyhow, once she gets a husband she'll probably still expect him to support her and be the main wage earner. She won't feel comfortable being financially equal or greater than him. That's the old social expectation that even feminists seem to fall into. And furthermore she may decide to cut back her hours or even quit…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/01/21 12:20 AM
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Doesn't the pimp often fill the role of boyfriend in situations like this?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/01/21 08:33 PM
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More than that, its a clear sign she's only attracted to "fuckboys". This is fortunate for all the average guys she'll reject while she keeps picking fuckboys. They'll get a reprieve for a more years before she realizes she actually needs to lower her standards if she wants a guy to stick around longer than a few nights.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/21 07:00 PM
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That's assuming she's actually being truthful about how much time she spends at the gym. But guys are told repeatedly not to hit on women at the gym. That's creepy and inappropriate! If you're going to break that rule, it would have to be for a very attractive and non-crazy woman. This woman is not that attractive (compared to many gym goers) and those tattoos suggest she's trouble.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/21 01:01 AM
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Probably not many. As thirsty as men can be, there's so much competition now, and she is not attractive. She's probably barely making enough to cover her internet/phone fees, and is mostly doing it for the attention.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/21 12:45 AM
1

It makes her sound like a cow.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/21 11:15 PM
3

Why would she add the "no hookups" line to her profile? Probably because she is getting messages asking for sex, from guys she isn't attracted to.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/01/21 06:33 AM
3

She might have a kid too, and just forgot to mention this in her profile.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/01/21 11:58 PM
3

I don't mind a woman showing her belly, if she has a reasonably tight belly. She should cover hers though.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/01/21 11:56 PM
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She probably is getting messages from guys. But not from guys she feels entitled to (i.e. well above her league), so they don't count.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/01/21 07:59 PM
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It would be interesting trying to reason with her. You could explain how the number of men willing and able ($$$) to be sugar daddies is much rarer than the number of young women aspiring to be sugar babies. Why should he settle for her when he could get much better? I'm sure all your reasoning would fall on deaf ears. There would be no breaking through her wall of entitlement and self-delusion.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/01/21 03:43 AM
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I think she's exaggerating how "used" she feels. Nonetheless, women changed the rules to make casual sex more acceptable and these are the consequences. And I doubt they would want to go back to how things used to be when casual, pre-marital sex was much rarer and more taboo. Miss out on the chance to have sex with an alpha or high-end beta above their league (like this guy)? Never!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/01/21 10:36 PM
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but rather signaled interest with a chance to retain plausible deniability Yes. By "rejection" she means the attractive, successful guys she feels entitled to haven't come up to her and asked her out. And whatever signals she sends them are either subtle or nonexistent, because of course its not her job to approach is it?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/01/21 11:29 AM
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Of course its going to be women. Men who manage to sleep with a lot of different women (without outright paying for them) are almost universally admired by both men and women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/01/21 02:11 AM
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They only consider the top 20% of men. When a man reaches that percentile, he doesn't automatically get in. He might get in, if she can't get a guy who's even better.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/01/21 01:27 AM
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Honest men are probably still there if she looks, but they don't make her tingle, so they don't even register with her. That she still is requiring men be "tall" is evidence enough of her prioritizing tingles.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/01/21 08:09 PM
3

Turn offs: high school/college jobs What does this even mean?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/01/21 06:36 PM
6

And even if she were a genuine virgin, at her age it would probably be a sign of serious neurosis that would result in a dead bedroom.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/01/21 08:16 AM
3

She's tried very hard to craft a profile which will appeal to traditionally minded men. Her own unquestioned assumptions come through clearly. To her it seems completely normal that a successful man will want to marry a not-so-young women and then spend most of his money on her making her "dreams come true". She assumes this is something successful men enjoy doing.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/01/21 07:28 AM
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In many cases it is less lucrative. Not all of course but in many. And there is less freedom I would say in the great majority of cases. Isn't she saying that she is one not that she is necessarily looking for one? So perhaps her trying to tell people she isn't boring? Good point. This is also a bad sign. She is probably in some kind of MLM or is trying to be a social media "influencer" (and isn't willing to put in the work). In either case, you'll be expected to financially support her until he…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/21 07:23 PM
40

"Entrepreneur" I've seen this sentiment from several black women on youtube. This contempt for men who work regular jobs with regular hours and have a boss to answer to. They want a man who has to hustle for his money. The main objection to a man working a regular job is that it is boring. It is also seen as less lucrative. I'm not sure if this bizarre attitude is just found in some parts of black culture, or if it has infected other cultures as well.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/21 12:52 PM
10

If she had really desired him, she would have married him. Ergo, if she had married then because it was convenient, she would have committed the dreadful sin (according to many women) of settling. This reminds me of a recent thread on mumsnet (UK women's forum) "Did you settle?". Of course, I wouldn't recommend anyone here posting there. Just lurk and enjoy an insight into the female psyche. I really wanted DC [children], knew my DH [husband] wasn’t everything I was looking for, but he was kind,…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/21 04:20 AM
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I think she does feel gross though. Its a visceral reaction because she's just not sexually attracted to him. Her subconscious is telling her he's not suitable breeding material, perhaps because her expectations have been raised far too high by all the exciting guys she's slept with.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/21 09:40 PM
4

"Humor" means extroverted, confident, witty - and also capable of making her feel a bit sexually charged right from the start. Alpha, in other words.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/01/21 11:34 PM
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honest, loyal, respectful and supportive These are of secondary importance. Her primary criteria is that she must find him sexually attractive based on his profile picture. The great majority of men will not pass this criteria. She will mindlessly swipe left on most men, some of whom would be honest, loyal, etc. She sounds way too precious. Guy made one vague remark about her breasts and offered to send photos of himself in his underwear, and now he's a huge creep? I guess he can't have been tha…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/01/21 04:01 AM
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This confirms what we've always suspected: that when women put "no hookups" etc on their profiles, they still remain open to hookups with hot guys they find sexually attractive. "I don't want to advertise on my profile [that I'm open to hookups/FWBs] because it might put off someone looking for a LTR" Nonsense. She's afraid if she does that she'll be inundated by messages from unattractive, thirsty guys. And, more importantly, that she'll make herself seem cheap and slutty.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/01/21 11:46 PM
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She thinks she wants some guy who worships her like a god and puts her on a pedestal, and that this will make her "swoon". In reality she'd soon become bored and irritated. It's like these wives who think their husbands doing more housework would make them "swoon", but when he tries it never seems to work.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/01/21 05:24 AM
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Exactly. Some sites have a standard field for height, so listing her height means little in that case. But if she voluntarily lists her height in her profile, its a coded way of asking for a tall guy. It goes something like this: If she lists her height as 5'9" or less, you better be at least 6' tall. If she lists her height as 5'10" or greater, you better be at least her height plus 3 inches.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/01/21 02:53 AM
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The first poster there may not realize it, but despite being fat and over 40, she would still get more contacts than the average man.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/01/21 09:51 PM
18

"unable to lie"... "Am I putting on weight?" "Yes" [cue to her throwing a temper tantrum]
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/01/21 10:06 PM
2

I doubt if she's as "damaged" as she claims, she's probably saying this merely to gain sympathy and as an excuse for her bad behavior. She doesn't attract the wrong type of men, she selects them because she's attracted to them. She would almost certainly find a man with a regular job boring as hell, and would soon start making trouble and picking fights just to relieve the ennui.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/01/21 08:22 PM
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She isn't morbidly obese (yet), so maybe compared to other girls where she lives she's considered quite the catch. Still, you'd think she'd have left off the trouble glasses and avoided squinting in her profile picture, both of which make her look like her grandmother.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/01/21 07:40 PM
7

I bet the reason she dislikes military, police and gun owners is because she has her own conspiracy theories. Much of the first few dates will be spent with her explaining them to you, especially once she gets stoned (on your weed).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/01/21 07:31 PM
13

There may be an evolutionary basis for this. Over the vast majority of human history people lived in hunter/gatherer bands where leadership was determined on an ad-hoc basis. The headman would convince the others to follow him through a combination of charm, bluff and occasional coercion. i.e. he would be a charismatic bad boy. Such men would have had a lot more opportunities to reproduce than average.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/12/20 10:45 PM
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She sounds dumb. I'm guessing her husband deliberately goaded her into talking about her casual sex partners while having his phone ready to record. All he would have to have done was complain about him being inexperienced before marriage. This would have set her off about bragging about all the handsome guys she banged just before marrying him, and how she at least wasn't a virgin loser when she got married.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/12/20 10:33 PM
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The sex was probably good. This is just her trying to badmouth him to make him sound worse than he was, and at the same time coming up with this nonsense justification for indulging in casual sex with multiple guys.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/12/20 10:30 PM
6

No, she had them a few years after her Titanic voyage if I remember correctly.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/12/20 08:10 AM
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I wonder what oldschool radical feminists who fought so hard to liberate women from Da Patriarchy would make of this. Their mistake was to assume that female sexuality is inherently more virtuous than male sexuality. It looks, however, that when freed of constraints it is just as depraved, only in different ways.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/12/20 07:31 PM
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They're "abusive" because they won't do anything else but pump and dump her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/12/20 07:22 PM
1

Is this a real profile? Assuming its real, she's not asking God to soften her heart so she can lower her standards. She's asking Him to soften the hearts of her prospective suitors. And if she's completely uninterested in sex why does she still have high standards? Because she'll still expect to show you off to her Church friends. So you'll have to be good looking, funny and close to her own age. You'll be her combination ATM and "beard", so her friends will stop nagging her about finding a man.…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/12/20 05:50 AM
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Thankfully for the male sex, the only men willing to take her up on her offer will be ones she finds unattractive and so she will reject.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/12/20 08:07 PM
2

She rarely made any guy wait for sex when she was younger. But making guys wait for sex is a strategy used when a woman is looking to net a beta provider. She's getting a bit old for this. Plus, when looking to net a beta, its normal for women to lower their standards, aiming for a either an older guy or a guy less attractive than what they feel entitled to. She thinks she can net a younger, very attractive, successful, beta. Even by the standards of this sub, her ego and self delusion is off th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/12/20 01:16 AM
2

"No ponces", charming. Does she think she's better than some guy who happens to have a high pitched voice, nice dress sense or some other supposedly gay attribute?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/12/20 06:47 PM
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Who wants to admit to having a normal, happy relationship? That's boring, and not very dramatic, and not much fun to talk about with your friends.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/12/20 02:58 PM
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I have been thinking that myself. Women like to throw around how much money they make as if it is something that men will find attractive. Yet, she will still expect him to pay for most things in the relationship. She will not share her money with him. She reserves the right to stop working and for her to live off his income. So her income means nothing when it comes to attracting a man. She only puts in her profile because its something she finds attractive in men, and doesn't have the wisdom t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/12/20 11:05 PM
1

As long as you do everything she asks - driving her places mainly, also buying her things, doing various chores for her - she'll treat you with a mixture of annoyance that you aren't doing these things properly, and grudging gratitude once you've done them. The first time you say no to her, suddenly you'll be her worst enemy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/12/20 09:21 AM
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But I read on female-centric forums where SAHMs are miserable because they are stuck at home, doing all the unrewarding unrecognized grunt work of housework and childcare. Meanwhile their husbands are enjoying a rewarding, challenging career, and yet never help out enough with her household labor. I think its that women are just never happy whatever their circumstances.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/12/20 07:05 AM
2

"no to rude and arrogant" I imagine she's a narcissist, and can't see how extremely hypocritical this statement is.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/12/20 06:50 PM
4

Yes. See "Complex PTSD" for instance.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/12/20 11:21 PM
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Women are naturally attracted to bad boys. That's the way they are. Yet women are supposed to be gentle, wonderful, perfect creatures. Surely therefore they must naturally be attracted to nice guys? And the only reason they like bad boys is because something went wrong with their upbringing? Let's blame the father for this, because men are always responsible if anything goes wrong.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/12/20 10:00 PM
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True that. I meant though the best possible shape she could be in given her [female] body, her height, etc. She should have little possible room for improvement. By the sound of it though, she has a lot of room for improvement. So, even taking into account the limits of her body, she sounds like she's in mediocre shape, and is no "high level athlete".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/12/20 04:35 AM
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Let's apply some male logic to this nonsense: If she's a "high level" athlete, then she should be close to the best possible shape a human being can be in. So she shouldn't be asking for a man in better shape than her. And if she's a high level athlete, she should have the ability to motivate herself without needing a boyfriend to do it for her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/12/20 10:48 PM
3

But I see so many people of all ages and apparent wealth levels with tattoos now, all sorts and sizes of tattoos. I think the only tattoos that mark someone out as lower class now are face and maybe neck tattoos.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/12/20 12:49 PM
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She has a point. When the "body positivity movement" shows women who are just borderline obese, who still have a figure, who have little cellulite, it makes being fat seem acceptable. You can still be pretty and healthy and desirable and still eat all you want and never exercise!
/r/MGTOW21/12/20 12:28 PM
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And even 40% suggests most societies made some attempt to limit polygamy. With unrestricted polygamy that figure would probably be 10% or less.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/12/20 11:52 AM
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That's maybe because a woman like this can go on Online Dating and she'll get many messages and likes. Even with this horrible profile she'll still get a few responses. This will inflate her ego to the moon.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/12/20 11:31 AM
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It's worse if they've been brought up to think of such unstable relationships as normal. Stable relationships with average guys will just seem unsatisfying. Plus the girls will have learnt from their mothers and female relatives to be overly aggressive and sarcastic, just the attitude to send most regular guys running for the hills.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/12/20 05:51 AM
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Her outrage is unfeigned. She's committed 8 years of her life to this relationship and the end game is in sight! She genuinely believes they are Soul Mates and Life Partners. How dare he think they will ever split up! But this love she feels is largely generated by this longing for marriage. What happens after this goal has been reached? Just a creeping disappointment, which she will blame on him. Then resentment that she gave up the best years of her youth to this average guy. But she's still y…
/r/MGTOW21/12/20 04:13 AM
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I suppose online dating and social media are partly to blame for this. If she looks online she can see a few carefully curated profiles which seem to show such elite men. This would give her the false impression they are much more common than they really are.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/12/20 11:01 PM
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I get his feeling, he cannot figure out why the women would go for a jobless bum who is known to treat her badly? Inconsistent reward. He treats her sometimes badly, sometimes very well. It gives her a roller coast ride of emotion. But the guy who treats her well all the time? She becomes used to that and after a while no longer notices.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/12/20 07:32 PM
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"Naturally big/muscular". Well, she doesn't want some pretend Alpha who started off weedy or fat and Lifted his way to handsomeness. No, she wants a genetic superstar, I guess in case she has a kid with him. Or at least that's the subconscious motive behind this nonsense statement.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/12/20 06:47 PM
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Women's sex drive, unlike men's, is shut off most of the time. When women claim to have a "high sex drive", you can bet that its actually much lower than even the average male sex drive. When their libido is activated by a handsome man, an exciting dangerous man, a wealthy powerful man, this is a powerful, addictive rush. But even an average man might give her a lesser rush of sexual excitement if he's promising commitment and marriage, and she's at the stage where she needs this. Look at how di…
/r/MGTOW20/12/20 11:21 AM
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Average men can still get girlfriends/wives under this scenario. Chad's leftovers, to put it crudely. The ones too unattractive, fat, old or crazy for Chad to want. The men right at the bottom won't even get these.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/12/20 12:22 PM
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My theory is for women, men's attractiveness peaks at late 20s. So once they 30 they stop wanting older guys.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/12/20 10:28 AM
2

She's probably joking with that. But if you did provide such an essay, I guarantee she'd be too lazy to read it. All she cares about is how tall you are and how good looking you are.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/12/20 10:05 PM
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Then men will have to pay a bachelor's tax for them. Such a tax will always be cheaper than getting married though.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/12/20 10:03 PM
8

"Women are at an unprecedented severe disadvantage in this era [of online dating]" Ha ha, no. For most men, OLD and dating in general is a disappointment. But this majority of average men are invisible to women. They are all competing for the top 20% or less of men. And they don't even realize they are doing this.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/12/20 08:30 PM
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It sounds like they have spent their whole dating life just being bitches to their boyfriends/dates/hookups. It works in the short term, chasing off stable (boring beta) guys who might have wanted commitment. Meanwhile more exciting (alpha) guys know how to deal with her bullshit and are willing to put up with it for sex. Only when they are looking for something more permanent does this strategy fail, but at this point they are convinced men in general enjoy being subjected to nonstop bitchiness…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/12/20 07:59 PM
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With how long they were together, this is more than pump and dump. Sounds like he just got bored. Or perhaps she just was over the top clingy and he felt it best to go non contact?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/12/20 07:50 PM
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I read part 2 of this thread. She used to be married? I thought she was some kind of never-married socialite who had spent her whole life chasing alphas. But she's actually just had a few short years on the CC after being a house wife? And this has somehow given her the impression she's a 10/10. In her mind she deserves a wealthy playboy. So she's prepared to make the adjustment she talks about and go for a boring nice guy. Which by her definition is apparently a tall good looking 35 year old pr…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/12/20 11:54 AM
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Her rationalization hamster, fed a steady diet of pop psychology and self empowerment jargon, must be utterly exhausted by now. Yet still the brave little fellow keeps running in its wheel, generating soothing self delusion for this lady. So according to her (and many other women), women prefer exciting bad boys when younger because they have low self esteem. They unconsciously feel stable nice guys are too good for them, so throw themselves at the bad boys because this is all they feel they des…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/12/20 03:46 AM
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"not here for sex". A definite Freudian Slip, one I see in many profiles linked here. She would have meant "not here for hookups", but in it her underlying intentions have slipped out. Like in many similar profiles, this is a women who has given up on finding a guy she is attracted to and just wants a beta provider. And no, she won't want sex with him. Sex will be provided as a little as possible, and will be transactional, based on what he provides for her. See how she lists all her assets. To …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/12/20 11:02 PM
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Decent but average looking guy who messages her? No matter what he says to her, blocked! Chad messages her: "wanna come to my place". She adds him to her friends list.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/12/20 07:57 AM
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Of course now I think about it, she's pre-rejecting those guys who ask for "fun" as a euphemism for casual sex. So she's trying to make it sound like she's sober and serious, thinking she will attract a higher class of man. But this is completely wrong headed. Guys want a relationship to be fun, not serious hard work. And the guys who just want casual sex won't even read her profile and will message her regardless of what she writes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/12/20 08:00 AM
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She's stupid. She should at least have put FUN in quotes. Who wants to sign up for a relationship where there's no fun? Guys who can't do any better who she wouldn't be interested in is the answer.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/12/20 09:37 PM
11

She's still getting a lot of attention on OLD. That's why she's not bothering responding straight away. She's getting so many swipes and messages. Of course a lot of this is illusory, just from guys swiping right on anything female to try and get some results. But this is giving her a false sense of abundance.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/12/20 08:20 PM
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Normally I am quick to call out troll posts too. But this looks 100% genuine to me. This complete denial of biological reality is now the prevalent view, thanks to feminism. Just look at any female dominated forum.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/12/20 05:50 PM
11

Also, the definition of what "autism" is has been broadened, considerably.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/12/20 05:47 PM
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This would only be true if she were seriously obese and managed to lose the weight. But normally even a chubby 18-early 20s girl is going to look better than a fit 39 year old. Female beauty is strongly related to fertility.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/12/20 03:12 PM
3

I'm not sure about pair bonding, but she obviously has a very low tolerance for boredom and routine. The effect is the same.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/12/20 06:39 AM
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Her rationalization hamster is on overdrive. She obviously craves the intense emotions found only in the early stage of relationships or with unreliable bad boys. She will find herself bored and desperately unhappy in a stable long term relationship. Instead of acknowledging this, she's deluding herself that she can give up this pursuit of new, exciting guys and settle down for life, at any time. As proof she offers this unstable, tempestuous relationship with her unreliable bad boy drug addict …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/12/20 12:35 AM
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The pleasure she derives from sex is mainly dependent on how he makes her feel, not his technique or the size of his dick. She isn't "lustful" towards him. She feels safe and comfortable with him. That's not conducive to lust. Meanwhile her dangerous and exciting ex's probably just jackhammered her in bed and had average size dicks, but made her feel aroused.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/12/20 04:13 AM
2

Its that weird OLD glitch again where it will randomly lower a female client's age and won't let it her increase it to its true value. Tee hee.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/12/20 01:58 AM
2

She's making the classic female mistake of conflating her relationship marketplace value (RMV) with her sexual marketplace value (SMV). She looks good for her age, her SMV is still relatively high, and she would still get a lot of attention. This has given her the false impression she is in a position to demand relationships from elite men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/12/20 01:37 AM
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They're just avoiding you And she's avoiding them. Men who don't tend to cheat are kind of...boring. No drama. No tingles.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/12/20 08:39 AM
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Similarly, "bluntly honest" (i.e. constantly bitchy and sarcastic) does not equal "low maintenance" and "no drama".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/12/20 09:19 PM
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He probably was the height he said he was. From reading this sub, you get the impression women are terrible are estimating height. She was just disappointed he didn't tower over her like the tall guys she feels entitled to.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/12/20 09:15 PM
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Plenty of nice men out there, including a handful of them who would be interested in her. However since they wouldn't generate "chemistry" (tingles) they'd have to be wealthy for her to endure feigning a relationship with him. Such a guy probably doesn't exist.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/12/20 05:06 PM
1

Men prefer sweet, gently spoken women. Modern women just don't want to believe this.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/12/20 11:38 PM
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Women are so conditioned to desire marriage, that it distorts how attracted they are to a man they hope to marry. Once they are married, then this longing for marriage is no longer there and she finds she is no longer very attracted to him. So, cruel as it sounds, the best thing to do may be to just vaguely promise but not deliver marriage.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/12/20 10:18 PM
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Great points. But you see this with all American women, not just black women, although in black women it often seems to be exaggerated. Its fundamentally based on hypergamy. Hypergamy has two aspects. Firstly, when it comes to sexual attraction they want a man hotter than themselves. But secondly, for long term public commitment (i.e. marriage) they want a man of higher status than themselves. In America, status is partly determined by education level. But women tend to overestimate the influenc…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/12/20 08:23 PM
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Its not just that she demands a guy earning $100k+, he also has to be good looking and close to her own age. And I seriously doubt if she earns $100k herself.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/12/20 08:15 PM
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Its a sign saying "you must be this hot to ride". Her profile says she wants a relationship, her pics says she just wants to party and screw hot guys.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/12/20 09:17 PM
20

I can believe she is actually 26 too. Just look at your average true believer feminist at that age. Now too many filters, angled shots and makeup in profile photos is a bad sign. But I wish this woman had used a few of those tricks in her photo.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/11/20 07:23 PM
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She thinks being a mother entitles her to a good looking man with a job that support her and her kids? Sadly, this looks real. I haven't been on OLD so I don't know how common these sorts of ridiculously entitled profiles are. In addition to her entitlement and ego, she offers puffiness (which she can't completely hide). Terrible neck tattoo and nose ring (which she makes no attempt to hide). Terrible taste in photo filters (any guy who isn't completely desperate will see dog nose and ears and p…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/11/20 01:18 AM
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Does she have any idea how much hard, grinding work she sounds like? Be good looking. Be her tame bad boy "partner in crime" Make her laugh. Make Her Laugh. MAKE HER LAUGH. I suppose that means always be ready with a funny quip at all times no matter the situation. While being the cool stoic bad boy. She tests you with sarcasm? Or she starts some rambling crazy discussion about some bullshit conspiracy theory? Or she starts yelling at the TV for no reason? You have to flawlessly hold frame and i…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/11/20 12:25 AM
3

Her job wouldn't burn that many calories. However it would still be a little physically demanding and might leave her a little bit tired and sore at the end of the day. But as you point out many men work much more demanding jobs and would come home from work far more tired and sore. Do you see them whining on OLD or elsewhere how they are "tired and their body hurts"? They wouldn't get any sympathy if they tried. If women are strong and independent now, including this one who claims to be "domin…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/11/20 11:07 PM
27

By money she probably means "fuck you money". Multi-millionaire money. More money than the average beta bucks will see in his lifetime. Especially if she's Chinese, who have the reputation as being some of the biggest gold diggers around. She's harboring the delusion she was hot enough when younger to convince a 0.01% wealthy guy to marry her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/11/20 10:44 PM
16

What's she actually saying here? Is she saying she wished she could have locked down an average decent "beta" guy when younger? No. She didn't want him then, she doesn't want him now. She's convinced she can still have such a guy whenever she wants, but he's an option of absolute last resort. What's she saying is she wished she had tried harder to get an exciting successful alpha guy when she was younger. But actually, she was already trying to lock down such a guy. And even when she was in her …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/11/20 08:53 PM
54

In any female forum, you can see how much effort women expend convincing themselves and other women not to "settle" (i.e. commit to a man who doesn't generate intense passion). Its regarded as a fate worse than death.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/11/20 08:38 PM
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She's still riding the CC. Its just the quality of men who will sleep with her has decreased. And she's finally realizing that just because an attractive, successful man will sleep with her, doesn't mean he will Commit.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/11/20 04:37 PM
19

She wants her precioouss... She actually looks like Gollum. But how delusional is she thinking she can compete with all the 18-21 year old Filipino girls looking for the same thing.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/11/20 09:48 AM
4

Even in panic mode, she won't settle. If you aren't Chad, your only role is to provide her with money and childcare services. I'm not even sure if you get to screw her. Maybe she'll be screwing Chad to try and get pregnant, or using a sperm bank. Goes to show that when freed of traditional cultural rules, women's top priority is pursing sexual chemistry. Tingles uber alles.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/11/20 09:14 AM
94

Problem is, she never really wants that stable beta guy. Not in her prime. Not even when she's a 32 year old single mother.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/11/20 08:45 AM
3

You are partly right I think. She normally doesn't want sex. But she remembers the times she did want it. She's on tinder trying to find a guy hot enough to reactivate her libido. Guys are on OLD just trying to find any semi-decent woman who will say yes, because their libido is on all the time. Women's libidos are normally shut down, so when it does activate (due to hot guy, rich guy, whatever) that's an extra special really memorable time. So she's chasing the memory of those thrills.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/11/20 09:15 PM
78

Woman dream of the "thug with a heart of gold". A guy who will look mean and scary when she's out with her friends, but will treat her like a kween when they are home alone. This is such a common trope in romantic fiction, I think women have collectively convinced themselves most thuggish looking guys are like this in real life. Meanwhile, they have also convinced themselves that guys who seem to be nice gentlemen in public are actually misogynistic Niceguys™ who will behave abusively behind clo…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/11/20 07:43 PM
7

That was only one of her motives though. And even she knows it unlikely she'll get a wealthy guy who can support her lifestyle. Her motives were (1) receive validation of her self worth from male attention, (2) hook up with hot guys, (3) get a wallet (if possible).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/11/20 07:22 PM
1

All chiropractic is based on pseudo science. Now this may work on humans, I can't see it working on horses. They are immune to the "placebo effect". Plus I don't think she has the strength to manipulate a horse's spine to make it pop and click, and even if she did the horse would probably try and kill her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/11/20 06:26 PM
2

I assume its derived from the expression "ride or die". I think this is an expression originally used by outlaw bikers. It means she'll support her man no matter what shenanigans he gets up to. So to translate this chubby suburban girl has delusions she wants an outlaw bad boy for a boyfriend. But one who's just tame enough that she can show him off to her friends without scaring them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/11/20 12:55 PM
20

She's demanding a man who satisfies both sides of her hypergamy. Both the need for an exciting, good looking man who makes her tingle, and a man who makes at least as much as her and has equal or higher social status. She's not going to find him. She's going to have to choose - either unemployed 6' Chad, or the successful short bald older guy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/11/20 12:17 PM
9

What a trainwreck. Lost just enough weight to hint at having a figure. Got some male attention from this. The excitement this generated made her feel 20 year younger and probably resulted in her divorce. Now she's trying to keep this manic feeling going. But she's trying way too hard. Probably she's already crashing, and will seek solace in food once again when she hits bottom.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/11/20 05:17 AM
2

How delusional are these pregnant girls on OLD? Do they really think they are going to get a boyfriend who is going to drive her around while she's in the late stage of pregnancy, will be there during the birth, will endure the first year post pregnancy when she's exhausted, depressed and has no interest in sex? And won't be able to work and will have to rely on him for money? There's her motive I suppose. But I don't think she'd find any men foolish enough to fall for this trap. All she's liabl…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/11/20 09:53 PM
3

She isn't sincere. Without strong social pressure, women value tingles (love/infatuation/passion) above all else. She must in desperate financial straits to want to consider a relationship without tingles. Such a relationship won't end well.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/11/20 07:47 AM
15

"Decent men" don't tend to want "run wild". That does not compute.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/11/20 07:41 AM
1

At first glance you might think she's reached the "epiphany phase" remarkably early, at 18 when it normally doesn't hit until about 28. But no, she's not the least bit tired of these "immature fuck boys". She's trying to attract a sugar daddy. That line is meant to appeal to the ego of potential sugar daddies, i.e. "I'm sick of boys, I need an older man to take care of me".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/11/20 02:08 AM
9

"At this age stability, consistency, respect and loyalty are qualities I should be seeking from another person..." "And I am 5.6" [I assume she means 5'6", which is a coded demand that you must be at least 6' tall.] Okay she said stability, consistency etc. are qualities she should be seeking. It seems she's not quite ready to prioritize those qualities yet. Maybe when she's 50.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/11/20 01:18 PM
3

Its a Redpill principle that acting inconsistently and with a large measure of indifference actually generates the most passion (tingles) in women. So chivalry doesn't tend to generate romantic feelings in women. If the man is very good looking it may work, but if an average looking or worse guy does it the woman is just going to completely take it for granted, or may even be creeped out.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/11/20 04:16 AM
9

I've been on a female oriented forum and gently suggested that, yes, age does make women less attractive to men and they need to adjust their expectations. I was accused of being "hateful towards older women" and misogynistic. Also I was told there's no evidence that men are naturally attracted to younger women. After that I decided to just lurk on similar forums, even those that claim to be open to male input. Many women just don't want to face reality that anything, whether age, weight gain or…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/11/20 11:35 AM
5

Translation is something like "its your job to make every day we're together exciting. Never let me get bored. You can never just let up and relax. Entertain me, peasant, or I'll make you miserable."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/11/20 05:07 AM
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I'm guessing she is a good looking girl and was able to compete for the most attractive guys when younger. Now she is having to face the reality that, yes, having a kid makes her less attractive than childless women her age. That's just reality. She will have to adjust her expectations accordingly. Her mind cannot cope with this. She still believes she deserves the most attractive men. She's still getting plenty of attention on OLD, but not quite as much as before. This realization is painful fo…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/11/20 12:30 AM
1

You see this theme in many profiles here. She has only dated alpha players, and this hasn't worked out for here. She realizes she'll have to "settle" for an average man. She has no real idea what average "beta" men are like. She decides subconsciously they must be boring and mostly sexless. But if she wants marriage etc. she'll just have to accept that, like taking bad tasting medicine.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/20 05:20 PM
4

Holy crap, at first glance this profile looks fake, but I take your word for it it is genuine. This woman is more than just delusional. She is also stupid.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/11/20 07:12 PM
5

Weight loss is mostly down to diet, not exercise. But she'd react even more negatively if you told her to stop eating and drinking so much.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/11/20 12:21 PM
4

She's not looking for a beta. There would be plenty of those she could meet through her Church if she wanted. She only wants exciting alpha men. That's why she on Tinder. If a genuine nice respectful Christian man messaged her, he would get rejected. On the other hand, a good looking swaggering asshole shows up, she makes a pretense of being virtuous, sleeps with him after 3-4 dates, he disappears, she has deniability and can claim she had good intentions but once again was tricked by those bad …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/11/20 05:24 PM
2

The c section scar can interfere with subcutaneous belly fat too if she's overweight, resulting in pouches and overhangs.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/11/20 02:59 AM
7

She's trying to frame it that she's only worried about him not being assertive enough with regards to her. But with her concerns over his lack of "protectiveness" we see another factor. It seems she's used to men who throw their weight around and try and intimidate other men, and this makes her feel "safe" (and tingly no doubt too). But most men aren't like this. So she's only dated aggressive bullies, and now that she's dating a regular, more non-confrontational guy, he feels weak and passive i…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/11/20 02:38 AM
3

"not having sex outside of marriage anymore" I don't think anyone would be stupid enough to believe her. Especially given she's posted this on Tinder.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/11/20 01:58 AM
5

On many of these profiles you see women emphasizing how uninterested in sex they are. What is going on? I'm guessing they have finally decided to "settle" and try and attract a beta male. But average men are something of a mystery to them. Average guys aren't as sexually aggressive as alphas (having learnt at a young age this is a bad idea), so they assume betas are largely uninterested in sex. So these ladies think its safe to emphasize how little they want to have sex with these guys they are …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/11/20 10:55 AM
3

Is a child conceived outside marriage but born within it illegitimate? Technically legitimate. But if she hasn't been able to find a guy willing to marry her who meets her standards before, why does she think she'll find him now? Here her hamster steps in and provides her with some comforting self-delusion. She wasn't serious before. Now she's serious, she won't let The One go when she finds him! Of course she was quite serious before though.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/11/20 10:46 AM
5

You're right, if she really is 6'2" then she won't be satisfied with a guy unless he's at least at a couple inches taller. And then she'll moan and complain about the cruel hand mother nature dealt her, making her so tall. When in truth most guys wouldn't really care if she's taller than him.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/11/20 07:36 AM
4

This obsession with height seems near-universal. The most common reasons given are "I want to feel safe and protected" or "I want to feel small and feminine next to him". So for all the talk about how they want to be strong and independent, this reveals many women just want to be looked after by a man and want to feel small and vulnerable.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/11/20 07:15 PM
14

"Love to laugh" and "partner in crime" are two phrases women need to stop using in dating profiles, because many men now react negatively to them. I'm sure there's other similar phrases.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/11/20 02:45 AM
1

I bet the... larger she gets the more demanding she is that he be taller and burlier, so she feels smaller and more "feminine" in comparison.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/11/20 11:37 PM
1

"I own my own Car!" Why does she emphasis this? You know that she's going to be expecting you to chauffeur her everywhere in your car.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/11/20 11:27 PM
2

She's impulsive and wants to be swept off her feet... it sounds to me like she wants to hookup, regardless of the "no hookups" boilerplate she adds as an afterthought to the end of her profile.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/11/20 06:51 PM
3

He needs to do what a real low life drug dealer would do. Just ignore her if she asks for drugs. This will probably make her more attracted to him.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/11/20 12:56 AM
3

Ha. But its her height. Like I've said before, when even a short women like this lists her height its probably a veiled demand that you better be tall.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/11/20 01:21 AM
9

She still looks good, but I can't fathom what must be going through her brain when she writes "too old for games" when her profile seems specifically designed to attract only fuckboys and players.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/11/20 05:35 PM
10

There would be plenty of Christian guys who would be interested in a relationship, even knowing her past. But of course she doesn't want some average or below average guy who would be willing to overlook her past because he can't do any better. She wants the best of the best.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/11/20 10:26 PM
1

This new age bullshit is used by wives and girlfriends who don't want to have sex or show respects for their husbands/bfs. "We need to learn each other's love languages". You will never learn her love language proficiently enough though, no matter how hard you try. She will never want to have sex with you, and in her mind its all your fault for not reading this nonsense thoroughly enough.
/r/MGTOW11/11/20 11:38 AM
9

Why do these profiles often feature the phrase "my kids always come first"? There must be some common experience that inspires these women to include that phrase. Let me guess - they went on some dates with an attractive guy who has options. She can't meet him because of her kids. He ghosts her. Rather than accept this, or consider dating men in her own league who might put up with this inconvenience, she concludes the best solution is to demand of all future dates that they must bend to her sch…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/11/20 02:49 AM
19

Most of this self-empowerment new-age stuff so beloved by women is just meaningless drivel.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/11/20 01:27 AM
7

Or she's not really disassociating, she's just indulging in hypochondria and misdiagnosing herself. Either way, she sounds like trouble.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/11/20 12:41 AM
1

"I am 5 feet" - She means: So please be at least 6 feet tall
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/11/20 12:32 AM
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This isn't really prostitution though, since she's just displaying herself on a camera, not getting penetrated by a stranger in real life. There seems to be some kind of cachet attached to the label of "sex worker" now. Camgirling is a safe and easy way to get that label.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/11/20 12:33 AM
42

I think this is her biological programming. Tingles are generated by a combination of good looks and unavailability. "Emotional unavailability" in the case of Chad, or actual unavailability in the case of illicit affairs. Society likes to believe women are naturally good and virtuous and instinctively want nice, kind gentlemen. If they want emotionally unavailable bad boys it must be a sign they are "damaged" in some way right? Not so, they are just following their nature.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/11/20 05:05 PM
6

If a woman lists her height, she's making a veiled demand that you better be tall. Even if she's short. Although this woman is slightly above average height, so the message is clear - you better be 6'+.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/11/20 09:19 PM
0

She talked a lot about not being materialistic but basically ruled out sex if you don’t have a job or a car. She's almost certainly lying. I suppose though her hamster is spinning that to mean "sex within some kind of committed relationship". One night stands/hookups don't count as "sex" by her definition. She is still pretty, but her voice drips with snotty entitlement. Its painful to listen to. I'm guessing though if you make her tingle (car and own place optional for this) she becomes all swe…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/11/20 08:02 AM
16

Its just that "players" don't want to commit to her. Alphas in redpill speak. But these are the only type of men she's attracted to, the only type of men she will even notice. This display in her profile picture is aimed at them, not at Betas. She's in her "epiphany phase". She's hoping that just by asking, these Alpha players will commit to her. That's not going to happen. Soon its going to dawn on her that she may have to "settle".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/11/20 07:43 PM
2

The guy was probably being nice about the 10lbs thing. Or she was bending what he said. Probably both. And her standards would be really high of course if she was a celebrity glamor model when younger. Her post doesn't make a lot of sense actually. "Being super into me as a human, but not into me sexually." This is silly, men are still pursuing her for her looks. She's probably in shock and irrationally rambling. This may be the first time she's ever been rejected like this.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/11/20 07:28 PM
24

How can she be this dense? She's not "unloveable". She's consistently, without fail apparently, choosing guys out of her league. Guys who have enough options that they have no reason to want to commit to her. If she wants commitment, she's going to have to start picking different guys.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/11/20 04:34 AM
8

But Chad, in fact any man on OLD, will want to have sex and she says she not looking to have sex. Yeah, she probably meant "not interested in sex within the first month" or something similar, but she could have done a better job at phrasing that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/11/20 07:56 PM
16

For one thing, is she being accurate with that 10 lb weight gain, or is it actually more? And secondly, she can't do anything about all those pictures of her on the internet. But she's using deliberately dishonest pictures on her profile which attempt to hide this weight gain. All she has to do is put current, honest pictures in her profile which show her actual body shape. Any guy who isn't an idiot will see those and realize she's older and those pictures on the internet aren't accurate anymor…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/11/20 07:12 PM
10

"Teach me investing skills"? Since she hasn't got any money of her own, she's obviously expecting this hypothetical boyfriend to give her money to "invest" with. You can tell her to buy bonds or blue ribbon shares, but you just know she's going to buy scratch cards with it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/11/20 12:05 PM
5

HVM - High Value Man (or Male). Female Dating Strategy leaves their exact definition of a HVM deliberately vague. DTR - Defining the Relationship. When a couple talk about whether they should be exclusive, continue to see other people, just be friends, or break up. In FDS there are two choices here: Is he poor marriage material but still attractive? in which case he becomes a Friend with Benefits and they can enjoy a fun casual relationship. Or is he marriage potential? In which case she must de…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/11/20 06:21 AM
4

Like I said, that guy in the last comment there probably isn't real. Apparently he can read her mind and knows exactly how far to escalate without ever mentioning sex. If he is real, then soon after this she probably posted about how Mr Perfect turned out to be some micro-penised, impotent, closeted gay, pornsick loser because he didn't initiate sex exactly when she wanted.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/11/20 03:26 AM
5

But she deserves it for sacrificing what was almost certainly going to be an extremely lucrative career. That's the official female explanation for generous divorce settlements.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/11/20 12:44 AM
4

Good point. For all the obnoxious swagger on TRP, its advice is basically sound. If a man follows their advice, his life will be probably be improved. If a woman follows the advice on FDS though, the result will be probably be box wine and cats.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/11/20 11:21 PM
0

In some ways, FDS is like a female equivalent of the Redpill reddit. I think many of the stories in the Redpill reddit about all the younger women they screw are bs. Similarly, I think many (or all) of the stories in FDS about when they find a "HVM" are made up. Look at that description in the post by the last commentor of her HVM. He can't be a real guy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/11/20 09:01 PM
5

This sounds like truth. I think their sexual interest is genuine though, and is generated subconsciously by their longing for marriage. Once that goal is achieved, that sexual interest just naturally dies off. And at a conscious level they can't understand why. Isn't marriage supposed to make them happy for the rest of their life? They start casting around for reasons, and of course their husband usually gets the blame.
/r/MGTOW31/10/20 11:55 PM
18

In the UK I think there is no longer anonymous donations. Getting rid of anonymous donations tends to severely decrease the number of young men willing to donate sperm. But of course the reality of genetic databases means anonymous donating is probably gone anyhow. Perhaps its a good thing if it gets much harder to get sperm from a sperm bank. It seems a service which was originally meant for married couples with fertility problems is now mostly used by radical feminists and career women who can…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/10/20 11:09 PM
17

The female equivalent would be: "How Thots Think Commitment Works" with their card reading "Times I gave Chad sex".
/r/MGTOW31/10/20 03:49 PM
3

Exactly. All countries, including the US, must inevitably stop growing at some point. For all the derision aimed at Japan over this issue, I think they represent something close to the ideal for how to deal with this unfortunate necessity. The rest of the world should be taking notes.
/r/MGTOW31/10/20 03:45 PM
8

This is why the entire "female dating strategy" doesn't work. They want Alpha Bucks. A perfectly kind, generous (very generous) provider. Who also gives them "sparks" and "chemistry" (tingles). Such a man doesn't exist. Even they recognize this. They keep trying to convince themselves that "chemistry" isn't that important. In practice though, none of the ladies there can bring themselves to commit to a man who doesn't make them tingle.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/10/20 07:38 PM
2

"every relationship in I've gotten hurt" Three explanations here, She's specifically attracted to abusive dirtbags. Or she has borderline personality tendencies and perceives any disappointment as abuse. Or she's a shameless liar and thinks this will make her look sympathetic. Whatever the case, she sounds like bad news.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/10/20 08:39 AM
1

I wonder if many women who were extremely promiscuous are mentally unstable. I just watched a youtube retelling of a reddit story. Summary: a young man marries a girl who was very promiscuous in college. He assures her he doesn't care. They are at a party when he hears a couple of drunken bozos talking about some girl they shared, sexually, in college. Realizes they are talking about his wife. Rather than risk starting a fight, he wisely says nothing. His wife confronts him about not saying anyt…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/10/20 10:13 PM
4

Thoughts? There seems no doubt in her mind she can still be a parent. Is that just bravado on her part, or has she bought into the feminist line about how women can easily have kids right up to age 50? "I'm getting matched with 45+ year old guys" - she's now well and truly middle aged. Those 45-55 year old guys are her peers. She still wants to think of herself as "young" however. At this point she's going to have to largely discard whatever standards she has for "chemistry" (tingles), income an…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/10/20 07:42 PM
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This is all faked and scripted. We can't really know if she really is this much of an angry entitled crazy woman, or if she's just acting. Still, it wouldn't be good for the show if they turn the central character into a villain. The producers must think that this outburst - this unjustified and out of proportion angry reaction to his very reasonable criticism - will make her look more sympathetic. At least make her look more sympathetic to who I imagine is the target audience - women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/10/20 07:18 AM
15

If she wrote "I will cook for you" no one would believe it. Because cooking for your boyfriend or even husband is regarded as an optional chore. Its something she is only obligated to do if she feels like it, and odds are within a few weeks (or days) she will completely stop feeling like it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/10/20 06:15 AM
16

If this is a real profile then this woman must have already received many invites for hookups, hence the "no hookups". This is the downward spiral of OLD - men get more desperate, women get pickier.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/20 09:53 PM
6

Imagine how long it took her to make that profile pic. From squeezing herself into that dress, putting on lots of makeup and dying her hair, finding the right camera angle to minimize her weight, and the right brow-raised face-pinched expression to minimize her wrinkles. And then all the filtering of the picture. Perhaps after all this effort she feels justified in making these extraordinary demands.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/20 05:38 PM
10

As others mentioned, she wants the stereotypical hypermasculine black guy. Such a guy just wants some kinky pregnant sex and then will disappear. She knows it, he knows it, we know it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/20 05:17 PM
11

It is her fault. She may not be a Barbie, but she still expects a Ken. Her standards are too high.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/20 04:47 AM
10

That sounds right. It is very hard for single middle aged women to adopt - unless the child is related to them. If this is true, she should say that in her profile. The idea of a 50 year old woman having a baby seems a little...squicky. Meanwhile, that she's looking after her grandchild seems superficially selfless. Even if the underlying reason is she messed up bringing up her daughter.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/10/20 07:39 PM
11

If men can reign in their endless desire for endless amounts of sex with endless numbers of women - women too can reign in their endless hypergamous desires for more stuff, bigger stuff and endlessly better stuff. Most men cannot indulge this desire for sex with multiple women, except vicariously through porn. Or perhaps through prostitution, which most won't though, due to the expense and legal and social stigmas. It is easy for women to indulge their desire to have sex with more desirable men …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/10/20 02:09 AM
1

If she looks like a plastic doll rather than a human being (like this example), then her picture is heavily filtered.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/10/20 06:17 PM
13

Forums and advice columns advise that single mothers shouldn't even let their boyfriends see their kids for at least 6 months, perhaps even a year. Yet here she is putting pictures of her kids on her goddamn dating profile. She is not smart.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/10/20 09:23 AM
2

If her breasts really are that saggy and horrid looking then why not show herself in a bikini top, or at least a halter top, so we can judge for ourselves. If they really are as bad as she says then she might get some pity money thrown at her. Instead she offers to show "before" pictures for "serious" donors. Perhaps her tits really aren't as bad as she says they are.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/10/20 08:35 AM
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Very few men are going to cold approach women. Those that do, will only approach young women. This lady is going to have to learn how to flirt and talk with men, instead of just sitting on her princess throne and waiting for men to come to her. That is a privilege only young women enjoy. And I doubt if many men are eyeing her and staring at her. That is probably just her imagination.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/10/20 08:28 AM
2

Only the narcissists and liars generates those tingles, so she's out of luck.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/10/20 09:01 PM
22

Her equal would be an overweight average looking 50 year old guy in a dead end job. She wouldn't even look twice at him before swiping left.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/10/20 08:34 PM
4

Isn’t it the case that ‘she’s isn’t owed access to a man’s body!’. I think you mean "wallet" instead of "body". She apparently has no trouble getting access to men's body.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/10/20 08:27 PM
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Okay I didn't closely read the original thread before commenting, but I think some of my basic points still stand. This woman is obviously an extreme example, as well as being a narcissist. But the desire she felt for him before the marriage, and early in the marriage, was genuine and unfeigned. Generated by her subconscious because it served a purpose. Once she had all the kids she wanted, it dried up. This lack of desire is genuine too. Because she's a self-centered narcissist she made no atte…
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre22/10/20 07:58 PM
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I don't think this is a conscious decision on her part. Women's libido depends on both having a basic sex drive and being sexually attracted to a man (assuming she's straight of course). So if she's not around a man she's attracted to, she'll have no desire for sex and she probably won't even miss it. When she's with a beta, her sexual attraction is dependent on what he can provide for her. If she's married him and she has as many kids as she wants, he can't provide her with anything else she re…
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre22/10/20 07:30 AM
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This hypocritical woman was still happy to partake in the whole misogynist patriarchial tradition of marriage. Feminists argue that marriage is still necessary for the "legal protections" it provides (i.e. right to half of everything on divorce). Even so, these "protections" could be obtained from a courthouse marriage. The lavish wedding paid for by daddy's dime is just self indulgence.
/r/MGTOW21/10/20 10:29 AM
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She's on OLD because none of the good young Christian men in her church appeals to her. Or any of the church-going Christian men she comes across in her Christian activities. In fact she doesn't even want a faithful church-going Christian man at all. Too boring. Maybe later, after she's had a few more casual relationships (followed by sincere repentance each time). All this guff about how she is a born-again Christian is for plausible deniable. So she can claim she tried to be a good Christian, …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/10/20 09:46 AM
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The 20% of the 80-20 rule was never men that women automatically consider bangeable/dateable or whatever. Those 80% are considered so ugly and undesirable they are just automatically dismissed without her even thinking about it. The remaining 20% are those she considers barely passable, and will actually register on her conscious mind as possible candidates.
/r/MGTOW21/10/20 07:19 AM
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Such displays are meant only for Alpha Chad, not beta bux. So she's trying to snag an alpha for commitment, and making all sorts of demands. Yet subconsciously she must realize an alpha won't respond to such demands? Logically therefore, she must be actually looking for a hookup and all these demands are just plausible deniability?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/10/20 07:04 AM
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She's shifting her daydreams and delusions to a group of men (under 24) who are now mostly unattainable to her (for relationships). How convenient. She's saying "all the good men are now out of my reach, situation hopeless, lowering my standards or improving myself will achieve nothing". This is the same argument incels use.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/10/20 11:21 PM
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She's getting plenty of hits from beta bux. They are all ugly though, according to her. All of them? What are the odds of that. (Actually, what's happening is her concept of what an average man her age looks like is seriously off kilter.)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/10/20 09:19 PM
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And despite meeting up regularly with them these relationships don't count as "dating". What does "dating" mean exactly then?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/10/20 06:47 PM
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The calculations are made subconsciously, the emotions and rationalizations to make the decisions seem sincere and correct are then generated and supplied to the conscious mind.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/10/20 01:09 AM
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Because she features her child with her in her picture she thinks this is something that will make her more appealing to potential boyfriends. You see this delusion a lot amongst single mothers.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/10/20 08:35 PM
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There's also the "5" at the end where she lists her height. So she also feels entitled to a tall man.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/10/20 07:57 PM
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On and on she rambles. It would take too much effort to try and decipher it. The impression I got was he was there for her as a platonic friend. He seemed to genuinely have little interest in her romantically. This wasn't a case of some "nice guy" lingering in the friend zone. And he was a very good friend to her. However whenever he needs her to support him, then suddenly she gets all resentful. He's being immature. He's taking advantage of her etc. This ingratitude and resentment gets ramped u…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/10/20 07:12 PM
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So she wants a wealthy subservient cuckold. I suppose if you're wealthy and subservient enough, she'll graciously put aside the height / looks / "chemistry" (tingles) requirements. After all, she'll be getting those on the side with other men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/10/20 11:27 PM
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"all her exes had horse dicks" Confirms that women's perception of dick size is related to how attractive they find the guy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/10/20 03:36 PM
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Only 18 and already hit the Wall.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/10/20 12:52 AM
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All you have to be is good looking and have indicators of wealth in your profile pics, and being a one word willie is more than enough.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/10/20 06:08 PM
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Good point, probably the main cause of warfare between neighboring bands was disputes over young women. Only by strictly limiting polygamy could these come together to form larger and more complex societies.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre16/10/20 06:01 PM
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I see this question in the dating subs. How clueless can these ladies be? No, as much as she might wish it these younger men don't want relationships with her. They think she will offer them casual sex. Its that simple. Meanwhile she doesn't match with men closer to her own age because her criteria are set too high and she's excluding them. Or she is matching with some of them, but she's ignoring them because they aren't good enough for her (in her mind).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/10/20 11:29 PM
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I think marriage evolved alongside modern humans. If you look at tribal/pre-tribal human societies, they all have marriage traditions. Even in hunter-gatherer bands most marriage is monogamous, with polygamy being limited to elite men, such as headmen (the original alphas). Even limited polygamy leads to a shortage of young women and frustrated betas though.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre15/10/20 09:28 PM
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Ha ha. Only worry is this sort of thing might be addictive. Even better might be a way to just turn off your sex drive altogether...
/r/MGTOW14/10/20 11:09 PM
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Maybe do what they do over on Where Are All The Good Men. Post an image capture with the reddit name and poster blanked out.
/r/MGTOW14/10/20 11:06 PM
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It seems to be more than just regular golddigging though. A man earning an average or even a bit above average income, from a regular job is seen as boring, mundane...beta. In order to be seen as attractive, he either has to have a regular job but earn well above average, which is still boring but the money makes it tolerable. Or he should have some kind of unconventional job with uncertain earning potential. So not being beholden to a boss, being some kind of entrepreneur or hustler, is seen as…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/10/20 07:20 AM
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I remember a video from a black female youtuber who had enjoyed some kind of probably short lived success. Her video was how she now wanted a man who was her equal - a man who made his living by his wits. She was specific about not wanting an average man with a boring regular 9-5 job. You see this attitude among women of all races of course, but it seems rife among black women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/10/20 08:34 PM
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So her cousins told her to refuse oral sex and just give him unenthusiastic starfish sex? Is that something Indian women tell each other, or is she just trying to justify her lack of attraction to her husband?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/10/20 07:56 PM
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The only reason she wants to be married is because her friends are. But once married boredom and unhappiness will inevitably set in. If she were honest with herself she'd probably admit she's happier being single.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/10/20 12:11 AM
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Providing free or cheap contraception and abortions now will probably save many times that in welfare spending later on. So its probably a good idea IMO.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/10/20 05:47 AM
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Female libido depends on intermittent reinforcement from the men they are attracted to. They need their men to behave unreliably and unpredictably to keep the feeling of pursuing commitment, and the resultant excitement and tingles, going. Should they actually get commitment and reliability they start to get bored and lose attraction and desire. This occurs no matter how attractive and successful he is. Perhaps only if women have been bought up in a traditional society where they have been taugh…
/r/MGTOW10/10/20 08:08 PM
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These profiles are basically asking for some guy to give her money with nothing in exchange. Even she must have known there was little chance of her finding such a guy. But it doesn't cost her anything to put these profiles out there. Other than her dignity that is, and she's shown she doesn't really care about that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/10/20 12:37 AM
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And you didn't mention them why? She'd probably list her faults as "loving too much", "taking on too much emotional labor and not allowing him to share the load", etc.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/10/20 07:07 AM
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Despite claiming to desperately want a committed relationship, she first gets involved with a younger man, very good looking. As anyone could have told her, he views her as a booty call, and treats her as such. Then she goes on a "series of really awful dates". What makes them so "awful" is that these men talk mostly about themselves, not about her. None of them get a chance at a second date apparently. Yet she went out with this younger guy for months despite him acting like a much worse asshol…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/10/20 02:20 AM
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Their logic seems to be: Under the current system, she fucks several men, including many men out of her league ("HVMs"). Unfortunately these desirable, out-of-her league men won't commit to marry her. Under the old system, she would've been courted by several men, and she could could pick the best of them to marry her. Therefore if the old system were reinstated, the men who she is currently screwing would be courting her instead, and she could get the richest, most attractive of them to marry h…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/10/20 02:03 AM
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She's not very bright. Her weird, short profile will scare off guys looking for a serious girlfriend. Guys just looking for casual sex will try their luck anyhow.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/10/20 12:43 AM
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How would she wipe her butt? Is that your job too? I don't find talons like that attractive in the slightest. I guess many men must though, or she wouldn't have them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/10/20 10:37 PM
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There's a few conditions they are missing out. The young men would have paid during courtship. But dates were modest. Gifts were modest. The young men would have been local to her and in her socio-economic group and it was accepted they only had limited funds. FDS ladies wouldn't be happy about this. They were only able to select from a limited number of young men in her immediate social group. If none of them were the Alpha Bucks High Value Males FDS ladies aspire too, the girl was out of luck.…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/10/20 10:32 PM
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Women should learn to stop putting "my children come first" in their profiles. Its obnoxious and unnecessary. Any man with common sense should know this already. By stating it explicitly, she's implying she's obsessed with her kids, above what you would expect in a regular mother with young kids. The further implications is that any date with her will involve her talking non-stop about her kids. Getting upset whenever you say anything, no matter how vague, that seems to negatively reflect on her…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/10/20 12:08 AM
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Her many poor decisions aside, there's a deeper issue here, and that's how women often seem to just lose all sexual desire for their long term partners. This is even when the relationship starts off strong. It may get so bad she can't even stand touching him, what I've seen some female forums call the "ick". I've seen suggestions this may be a biological process that women have little control over, and once this attraction is lost its almost impossible to regain. If so, it means marriage makes e…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/10/20 11:07 PM
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Also how she just somehow magically "attracts" them, rather than specifically selecting for them while ignoring the majority of decent guys.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/10/20 11:01 PM
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And she doesn't even love him. Romantic love is tied to sexual attraction, and its obvious she's not sexually attracted to him. She's just under huge pressure to marry before 30, and he's the best candidate. Once marriage has been achieved, she will find she no longer has any incentive to stay with him. It may take a few years, but divorce would be inevitable.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/10/20 09:36 PM
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but knew that her behavior is offputting to marriage minded men That's one reason. The other reason is that she's barely sexually attracted to him. If he knew about her past, he would expect her to engage in sex approximately as frequently and enthusiastically with him. And she knows there's no way she could do this. So she pretends to be shy and sexually inexperienced. Critics will say that his resentment is all about how she won't perform "certain acts" for him. Anal, they mean anal. But that'…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/10/20 10:43 AM
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If the original post is real and not some troll, she's still pursuing exactly the same men as when she 22. The exciting, good looking men who make her tingle. If she actually was giving betas a chance, then she would get some second dates. But no, she's still selecting the very best looking, most exciting men on OLD. Only now she's expecting them to want to commit to her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/10/20 02:06 PM
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I meant she might be lying about her abusive broken upbringing - to excuse her behavior and because this gains her extra street cred. Although girls do exaggerate their sexual exploits too. But in her case, they seem to be genuine, like you say.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/10/20 10:29 AM
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But how do we know if she's telling the truth? She might be exaggerating or even lying.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/10/20 09:49 AM
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That's not an exaggeration. Based on data from the 2015 leak, about 20% of customers were female. However almost all of those were fake accounts, so the actual number of real woman on the site was less than 0.01% of total accounts.
/r/MGTOW30/09/20 10:55 PM
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When social expectations are relaxed and women aren't (directly) dependent on men, it seems women will naturally tend towards short term relationships with exciting men out of their league and single motherhood (if convenient).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/09/20 08:25 PM
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She just radiates crazy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/09/20 08:22 PM
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This could and probably will give legal precedence for parents of sperm donor children to sue sperm banks any time anything goes wrong at all with one of the kids. The irregularity here is pretty blatant, but on the other hand is there any scientific link between this guy's diagnosis and criminal record and the problems of this poor boy? All you have to do is find some error in the donation process (there's always going to be some) and then use this to find the identity of the donor and use this…
/r/MGTOW30/09/20 06:06 AM
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For all their complaining, I think women in general, and this woman in particular, are happiest when they are chasing commitment (marriage or maybe LTR). If they manage to obtain it, then no matter how fantastic the guy, they soon wind up feeling bored, trapped and resentful.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/09/20 08:36 PM
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Probably in her 50s. Looks good for her age - probably does spend time in the gym. In her mind this means she is entitled to the very best men around her real age. To her disappointment (and probable anger) though she has found such men tend to go for younger women. Thus she's lying about age her (twice) to try and attract these elite 50s men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/09/20 05:53 PM
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She is exaggerating the abuse (if she actually received any) and the heartbreak experienced. Both to try and garner pity, and to make her basic boring life seem more dramatic and exciting than its actually been.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/09/20 06:58 AM
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I noticed that myself: '“I’d literally hand them books on Attachment Style and read them with them,” she says. And while this helped their communication issues majorly, the result 99.9 percent of the time? A breakup for whatever reason.' Did it occur to them that lecturing their boyfriends with unwanted new-agey psychobabble might be part of the reason why they wound up leaving?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/09/20 09:22 PM
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What this means is: you better be good looking and make her tingle. Hot guy could read the TV guide to her, she'd be giggling and laughing. Average looking guy could be a witty raconteur, she'd spend the whole time looking at her phone and ignoring him.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/09/20 10:32 PM
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I saw a thread elsewhere where a bunch of ladies in their 50s where commenting how dismal online dating was, how they only got messages and likes from men who were too old, didn't "look after themselves" (i.e. too unattractive), etc. They deserved better! Meanwhile your average 50s guy would get no, or almost no, responses on OLD.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/09/20 07:28 AM
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Yeah, this is bait and switch. If she were actually willing to have sex with her customers she wouldn't be a camgirl. Camming is for girls who aren't willing to go the final step and prostitute themselves.
/r/MGTOW22/09/20 01:47 AM
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One reason is how women tend to misjudge how few men meet their definition of "attractive". As men get older, the percentage of men who could pass muster as attractive (by female standards) gets even smaller. Older ladies usually won't try and match with much younger men (they know society judges them for this), so go for men around their own age. Yet they won't adjust their expectations of how he should look. They'll allow for some signs of aging, but won't go far enough. So they are competing …
/r/MGTOW22/09/20 12:25 AM
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Probably was hoping that she'd change her mind and ask him to schtup her in the middle of the night. Dumb, dumb, dumb. He was leaving himself open to accusations of assault. What if he misinterpreted something she did or said, put his hand in the wrong place, and the next day she starts spreading rumors about how he assaulted her? What if he just puts his hand on her in his sleep? He shouldn't be sleeping in the same bed with a woman unless he has clear permission to have sex with her. To be saf…
/r/MGTOW22/09/20 12:07 AM
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Ha, I get the impression the legal industry only gives lip service to political correctness. They mostly only want new female lawyers who are young and pretty and eye candy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/09/20 07:47 AM
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For her sake, I hope she doesn't try putting her law school dream into reality. She'd wind up $200k+ in debt and age 36 or more - probably too old to start a successful career as a lawyer.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/09/20 05:14 AM
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And despite her protestations that she has a "high, healthy libido" it sounds to me like she has very little interest in sex.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/09/20 06:10 AM
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I disagree, I think even at 40+ women have more options than men, on average. The problem is that every age women are programmed by biology to grasp for men that are just out of their reach and to overlook the men who would be willing to commit to them. Thus their perception, even in their 20s, that the dating game is stacked against them and men have all the power.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/09/20 12:39 AM
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Or could mean "I'm broke, but I'm hoping you'll pay for me to travel. Where I'll also sample foreign dick."
/r/MGTOW19/09/20 09:19 PM
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She goes on actual dates with guys. She fucks guys. But none of this meets her own personal definition of "dating", so she gets to feel sorry about herself.
/r/MGTOW19/09/20 12:07 AM
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I don't think she actually believes all of this, and it is largely clickbait. Still, many modern women do seem to hold these views in more subtle forms. I saw on a female dominated board someone was ridiculing the idea of "SMV" and giving a wrong headed description of it. Against my better judgement, I joined in and gently tried to correct them. I was told it was a sexist lie that women become less attractive with age and also a lie that men are naturally attracted to young women. Also, I was ju…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/09/20 11:13 PM
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"I'm 38 years old," I answered, "And when people ask me what I bring to the table, I say 'I am the table.'" That didn't come out the way she intended. It gives the impression she's so heavy she could function as a table.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/09/20 08:17 AM
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Or else she knows how laughable they would appear given that's she 32, average looking at best, overweight, neurotic and bitchy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/09/20 05:43 AM
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Yeah, its a fantasy designed to appeal to both men and women. "Men, there's plenty of casual sex out there, just keep trying." "Women, you aren't being too fussy or making bad choices, all men are like that."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/09/20 08:33 PM
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LVM has two separate meanings on that sub: (1) Alpha cads, i.e. "fuckboys". They are strongly attracted to these guys, but spend a lot of effort trying to convince each other to avoid them. (2) Dutiful Beta Bucks. This is the kind of guy they feel they should be attracted to, but actually despise. They get around this conundrum by looking for the slightest hint of selfishness or even just self interest in their behavior, and then using this as an excuse to label them as "Low Value Males". So the…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/09/20 03:38 AM
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This article is spinning a fantasy that most young men are getting all the sex they want. e.g. “What percentage of boys now do you think are fuckboys?,” I asked some young women from New Albany, Indiana...... “One hundred percent,” said Meredith, 20, a sophomore at Bellarmine University in Louisville...... “No, like 90 percent,” said Ashley (the same as mentioned earlier). “I’m hoping to find the 10 percent somewhere. But every boy I’ve ever met is a fuckboy.” This is nonsense, most men, young o…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/09/20 07:13 AM
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Even in 30s or older, women still enjoy an advantage in OLD, although not as stark an advantage as in their 20s. This women though seems convinced men have the advantage. A clear sign she's only chasing after the most desirable men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/09/20 12:16 AM
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Women may think men are dumb and can't read underlying messages, but when women write things like "no interest in hookups, nsa, ons" the underlying message is "I have little interest in sex, sex will be infrequent and dull". Respectful guys who have expectations of a decent sex life will not contact her. Players and sleazy guys won't care and will try their luck anyhow.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/20 08:26 AM
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At least she realizes that her being a rude bitch to men is a bad thing. You see plenty of profiles here from women who list things like sarcastic, sassy, etc. as if they believe they are positive attributes. Because they are more attractive, men are willing to put up with this from them, and they never realize most men don't enjoy being bitched at. You're right if she were to be sweet and funny and easy going she would have more luck with men, even at her current weight. She would also need to …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/09/20 03:51 AM
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She's bitter and angry she can't treat guys like she sees thinner women treat them. She dislikes men, but because she's unattractive when she treats them like crap they just walk away.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/09/20 12:29 AM
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Around 4:40 she says she rushed into the relationship with her murderous scumbag ex. He wasn't good relationship or father material. But she probably found him hot and exciting.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/08/20 11:04 PM
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She still gets plenty of matches from men her own age. Note how she said "suddenly aged out of potential matches search range". This implies she's only interested in a subset of top-tier men she considers her "potential matches" = the one she thinks are good enough for her, based on the attention she could get when she was younger.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/08/20 05:50 PM
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Even if she meets her Magic Man who "puts her in her place", that he stood up to her means he becomes her "abusive ex" once they break up.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/08/20 10:26 PM
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I don't know why women seem to long for marriage, since once they get married then all they complain about is how he takes her for granted, how lazy he is, how he wants sex too much/not enough, etc. Assuming he doesn't turn out to be abusive (however that is defined).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/08/20 07:15 AM
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The author's stories are so overwrought and melodramatic its hard to tell whats going on. But she seems to have borderline personality disorder.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/08/20 06:21 PM
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she forgave my dad for being pornsick, which led to him molesting my sisters and I for years So looking at adult porn (I assume its adult porn, or she would have specified otherwise) lead to him committing this horrible crime. If this crime actually occurred, and she's not just making it up to cast aspersions at her dad.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/08/20 09:44 PM
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In FDS speak a HVM devotes his every waking moment he isn't working to her, worships her, gives her all his money without hesitation. Is also willing and able to fuck her whenever she wants, however she wants, yet never becomes resentful if she doesn't want sex. Any hint of not being up to fuck her, its because he's "pornsick" - regardless of how much he looks at porn.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/08/20 09:41 PM
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Men and women have such different attitudes to sex its like they are on completely different wavelengths and simply can't understand each other.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/08/20 10:10 PM
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Men haven't really changed, its just that women have gotten more entitled.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/08/20 10:06 PM
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This woman, a 4/10 to be charitable, seems to be so bombarded with offers for casual sex on OLD she has to put a half-hearted "no hookups" disclaimer in her profile. Women really do have it easy mode when it comes to dating.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/08/20 11:43 PM
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Like I've said, I think "sarcasm" and "sassiness" etc. are just other terms for bitchiness and constant shit testing. Natural Alpha guys enjoy this sort of aggressive flirting in the context of short term casual relationships, but for most guys this is just exhausting and not fun. I'm guessing a woman who advertises her "sarcasm" as a plus doesn't realize how most guys don't enjoy it, and has probably never been in a successful long-term relationship.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/08/20 11:38 PM
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Can't tell if this is real or a parody. If real, this is a casebook study in grandiose narcissism.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/08/20 11:07 PM
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"I never get matched with guys older than 37". Yes she does. She means she doesn't get matched guys older than 37 who she is attracted to and who met her demands.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/08/20 10:25 PM
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Most women who get their eggs frozen (because they can't find the right man) never actually use them. I would say most of them don't actually want children, but aren't ready to acknowledge this to themselves. The procedure buys them some peace of mind so they can calm down and come to terms with being childfree. Its still an expensive scam though.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/08/20 10:20 AM
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She's probably "hooking up" and has "friends with benefits", but that doesn't actually count as being in a relationship (in her mind).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/08/20 09:50 AM
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She simply doesn't see the men who would be willing to commit as possible boyfriends. They are invisible to her, romantically. She doesn't realize that if she wants commitment, she's going to have to "settle". So we see her lament that there are no men for her - when actually there would be plenty of men, if she would just lower her standards a bit.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/08/20 11:45 PM
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She's learnt that relationships with guys who sexually excite her tend to turn into trainwrecks. So she's decided to try "taking it very slow" with guys who don't strongly sexually excite her. Now, these guys will not appreciate being made to take it very slow, especially when she's given sex on the 1st-3rd date to near strangers many times before. Subconsciously she knows this, so she will equivocate and mislead him about her past - although this will not be a conscious strategy on her part, it…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/08/20 07:01 AM
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For women, commitment is something that's more enjoyable in the pursuit rather than the achievement. If he'd just kept her at arms length and never quite committed, she'd probably be pining after him to this day. But because he commited, she treats him like dirt.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/08/20 06:41 AM
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She's "circling through the same few guys"? So I guess she's just interested in the top n% (20%? 10%? 5?%) of guys every other woman wants, and is ignoring the rest. And none of them want to commit. Many of them can't even be bothered meeting her for implied casual sex. Her poor ego.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/08/20 10:50 PM
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She must have had someone else lined up who was even better (in her mind) than Brandon. That didn't work out, and she must be realizing that she's never going to get better than Brandon. Pretty soon her normal level of self delusion will kick back in, but for the moment she must be feeling pretty shitty about herself. And when she says: “A lot of men are trash, a lot of men don’t know how to treat women. A lot of men don’t know to how to, quite frankly pull their heads out of the sand and pay at…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/08/20 10:21 PM
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If they get this though, then the narrative changes. They now "sacrificed" their career for the sake of their husband's. Their husband gets the better deal, getting the more rewarding paid work while they are stuck at home doing the more draining, less rewarding drudge work of looking after home and kids. Should they get divorced, she will expect to get compensated for all she gave up.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/08/20 10:09 PM
19

Does she want to be a sugarbaby? Aren't most sucessful sugarbabies 18-25?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/08/20 10:32 AM
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She'll want a man a couple inches taller, minimum. So she isn't ready to relinquish her desire for a man who makes her tingle. So a tall, good looking, exciting man who is also a reliable provider and a Christian and is willing to put up with her shit? Good luck with that sister.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/08/20 08:23 AM
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Lets say you're shopping for a house, or a new car - something expensive you rarely buy. The ones within your budget will always seem inadequate, but the ones just out of your budget will always seem the most desirable. Should you wait until you can get some more money? Or maybe until the prices come down? It seems to be a common human weakness. When women are trying to find a potential husband, seems they often do the same thing. The men in their league, who are interested, seem uninteresting. …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/08/20 09:00 AM
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Egg freezing is really a scam, unless its done for legitimate reasons such as cancer treatment. It requires IVF, which is expensive and unreliable, and gets less reliable with age. Also, if she can't find Mr Perfect now, what chance will she have later when she's older? What will actually happen is she'll either give up looking for a man, or be forced to "settle" with Mr Less-Than-Perfect.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/20 01:58 AM
13

This is so cruel and callous I think it might be a troll post designed to solicit this response from people.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/08/20 03:33 PM
13

Marry them late they still resent you as well. For not being as sexy as the men in her past mainly.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/08/20 05:17 AM
10

She's complaining about men not growing up, when she's the one who needs to do a lot of growing up. And also stop studying for her masters and start trying to find a second husband in earnest, if she wants kids. And stop fucking "fuckbois". And adjust her expectations of what she expects in men, a lot. Only a small elite minority of exciting, good looking men can be actual "fuckbois", as others have pointed out.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/07/20 09:11 PM
6

Silly clickbait article full of stuff she made up. She was just as my friends had described, scarily accurate. She discussed things that I’d never told anyone, such as anxieties I had about people and events that had occurred in my past, it was incredible. She's making up how accurate this psychic was. “Your marriage won’t last. It will end in divorce, you will request a divorce from your husband,” she told me. No psychic who hopes to get repeat business is going to say this. The author is makin…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/07/20 10:26 AM
2

And both ladies looked pretty good for their ages at the time. If these ladies couldn't get "Chad" or "Tyrone", then your average divorcee has no chance.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/07/20 10:52 PM
4

She could be exaggerating how young and attractive her boyfriend is. Like with the authors of "Eat Pray Love" and "How Stella Got Her Groove Back".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/07/20 08:36 AM
5

Look at what she writes here: Some dating apps are tailored to the plus-size crowd, others to professionals, and then there are those for the religious among us. If I want to get my profile in front of different groups of men I will have to spend more money to open several dating accounts. "different groups of men", i.e. more than just the "plus size crowd". She wants fit men. And she knows she isn't actually "curvy", she's fat.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/07/20 06:07 AM
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I bet she's also left off that she's only interested in men who are attractive. She probably thinks her standards of what is "attractive" are reasonable, and have even lowered them from what they were. But still given how women misjudge male attractiveness, she would still be excluding most men off the bat.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/07/20 07:09 PM
1

She'd rather be pumped and dumped by a fuckboy than receive commitment from an average decent guy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/07/20 06:30 AM
4

She still thinks she can find both her exciting "partner in crime" and reliable faithful provider in the same man. Around 30 she's going to start feeling existential dread when she realizes that such a man doesn't exist.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/07/20 12:37 AM
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"more closed off emotional nature". This is how men naturally are, compared with women. And this is how women generally prefer it. The underlying cause of all this loneliness and unhappiness on her part is her lack of sexual desire towards her husband. This is because female sexual desire largely depends on novelty and excitement. After years of marriage, there is no novelty or excitement left, and there is nothing he can do to rekindle it. She is simply too familiar with him. But rather than ad…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/07/20 09:52 PM
1

If her boobs are very saggy due to nursing, then I suppose breast surgery might be justified. Still doesn't excuse her e-begging for the money for it. And why doesn't she show us what they look like, even if just in a bikini, so potential backers can decide for themself? If her breasts are okay looking, just small, then I think she's dumb. I think most guys would prefer small but natural tits rather than big, fake ones.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/07/20 06:17 PM
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If this story is real, there is something wrong in the head with this woman. What's the bet she caused the fight at the hairdressers? But its interesting how she ranks men based entirely on how they make her tingle. If they make her tingle, they are her equal. If they don't make her tingle, she is so far above them (in her mind) they should spend their every moment with her worshiping the ground she walks on. I think she actually represents the end state of feminist self-empowerment.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/07/20 07:32 AM
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She has only ever been with Alpha thugs before. She has no idea what to expect when going out with a normal, decent guy. Her expectations seem to be cribbed from Disney movie. She expects him to be like how Female Dating Strategy expects "High Value Males" to be - a perfect doormat. When he fails to measure up, she just writes him off as a failed, wannabe thug. Her reasoning seems to be, might as well just go back to dating real thugs then.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/07/20 12:47 AM
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What does she mean by "won't hurt me"? That makes her sound like a delicate flower. That's the intent I suppose, to make her sound more fragile, and feminine, than she actually is.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/07/20 09:42 AM
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Actually I think she's well aware of the double meaning there. So she's prepared to make a joke about prostituting her own daughter to try and get a date on Tinder. Ha ha.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/07/20 09:18 AM
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I would say early sex is not directly responsible for her inability to get a man to commit. The problem is the that men she wants to sleep with on the first date are actually out of her league. They have no reason to want to commit to her. Delaying sex with them would achieve nothing. If she could have early sex with a man she's not strongly attracted to, it wouldn't matter though (and might actually increase the odds he will commit).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/20 11:19 PM
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She probably means she wants her suitor to fulfill a fatherly role. But she must be dumb if she missed that it does sound suggestive of some kind of biblical arrangement.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/20 08:19 PM
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Women in that sub seem obsessed with food. Is he going to buy me food on our first date, and every date thereafter? The best most expensive food, in large quantities? Is he going to cook for me? Is he going to buy me snacks? etc.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/07/20 09:00 PM
2

She's exaggerating how unattractive she is to try and gain pity points - like male incels do. She is probably average now and she would have been cute when younger. Not cute enough to hook an Alpha though unfortunately, which is the only man she wants.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/07/20 08:33 AM
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It seems nobody in the original thread was willing to tell her the simple truth. Her standards are too high. The guys who would have committed to her, she simply didn't notice. Even now, she could still get a guy fairly easy, but the guys who might commit she doesn't notice. They are beneath her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/07/20 10:27 PM
1

You could edit out that cellulite with MS Paint, so she's either dumb or honest. Since she gives her height, her type is "tall" (same as every other woman).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/07/20 08:18 AM
10

This reminds me of that line from 1980s action movie "The Running Man". "Last season's winners?" "No, last seasons losers."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/07/20 07:01 AM
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That's assuming he's not just her platonic friendzoned bff in all those pictures.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/07/20 02:41 PM
20

28? Is she sure about that? And yeah we can tell she's had kids. Kudos to her honesty for showing herself in a bikini though. At least guys will know full well what they are getting.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/07/20 01:21 AM
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Does she really think good looking, high status guys her age or younger are going to commit? Yet I bet that's the only sort of guy she chases after. Yes she's very good looking for her age, but such men can and will go for much younger if they are looking to commit. I think this is a coded message - "fuckbois, come and get me". Also maybe this video is actually a humble brag. "Why do all these hot younger guys keep having sex with me. Like, stop it already."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/07/20 08:41 PM
1

She doesn't even offer sex. If I'm reading that post correctly, by "sex work" she just means camgirling. That barely even qualifies as "sex work". Of course its glutted - its a lot safer and easier and more respectable than actual prostitution.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/07/20 09:35 PM
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"looks are somewhat important, because I prefer somehow who dresses neatly and is decently groomed" Yeah right, so she's telling herself that what she finds attractive in men is their clothes and how they shave - things they can easily change. That's reasonable right? Bullshit, its their height and face and build she's attracted to, things they can't easily change or can't change at all. "or if I had a more humble lifestyle I would attract men who may make less than me but have a similar level o…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/07/20 05:37 PM
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I bet they were arguing about him not doing more housework. Paid work is so easy compared to being a stay at home wife, why can't he understand and help out more? Now she gets to take it easy and work for a living!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/07/20 01:18 AM
2

When are these loons going to try and get fake tans banned?
/r/MGTOW02/07/20 03:34 PM
6

I'm guessing they only pick the most attractive guys who have the most opportunities for casual sex.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/06/20 10:05 PM
10

Progressives keep calling for more stuff to be banned. They can never relent! This is a holy crusade to them. All the really offensive stuff has already been driven off youtube and facebook and reddit and other mainstream sites, so they keep tightening the definition of what is extreme and offensive. They'll be eating their own before too long.
/r/MGTOW28/06/20 03:01 AM
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Suckpuppet? More like a human bouncy castle. But guys have to "smell good"? What does that mean? Sure if a guy smells bad that's a disqualifier. But do they have to wear expensive cologne? Who really cares about that? And few guys would care about her dark skin. She's delusional if she places this at the same level as her serious obesity when it comes to why she isn't attracting the guys she feels entitled to.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/20 05:36 PM
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As long as they can get away with it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/20 02:38 AM
7

Of course, this is just some stock picture she found. Very strange though.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/06/20 03:17 PM
16

Is this profile real? Assuming it is, listing her height is code for "you must be tall". Regardless of whether she's short or tall, if she lists her height, she's asking for a tall guy. The guy in the photo is some friend or acquaintance she's convinced to pose next to her. Generally, being seen next to attractive women increases the desirability of men to the opposite sex. She thinks the reverse applies to women. Probably not. "Massively overweight". She's not quite that fat. She's still young …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/06/20 10:40 AM
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Women idealize marriage, yet when they get married they find they don't feel any different once the novelty has worn off. Isn't marriage supposed to make you magically happier every day? Soon she starts blaming him for this disappointment.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/06/20 08:18 PM
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More than that, once some farmer buys them, they stop giving milk. "Besse" the farmer asks "you gave all that nice milk to random people for free, but now I've bought you at an inflated price, you've stopped giving milk?" Besse moos back "just because you bought me doesn't me you own me. You aren't entitled to my milk. You have to earn it. Now get me a nicer stall."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/06/20 11:41 PM
1

"sexualized abuse of women" what does this mean?
/r/MGTOW21/06/20 11:16 PM
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This girl is hopelessly addicted to the tingles that narcissistic attractive alpha males provide. All this crap in her profile is just an attempt to deny this. As soon as Chad messages her though, all these rules will be forgotten and she'll be chasing him and buying him stuff.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/06/20 01:29 PM
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Parties are one thing and have all sorts of purposes. But nightclubs? The main reason for those is for guys to pick up girls. Or think they have a chance at it. But lets face it, If you're average, or even a bit above average, you don't have a chance. That's probably the main reason why nightclubs tend towards having very young guys. Older guys soon realize they don't have a chance and give up.
/r/MGTOW20/06/20 12:45 AM
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Imagine if she were actually friendzoned as men understand it. He wouldn't want to have sex with her, instead he just keeps her around so he can vent to her about his feelings, have her drive him places and buy him stuff. This would really mess with her head.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/20 09:14 AM
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She didn't use the term fuck buddy, or FWB, or lover. She just said "friend" which to me implies a platonic relationship. If a woman says to some guy "we're just friends", that means platonic.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/06/20 09:05 PM
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Actually she's been "fuck zoned". I don't get how people can be fucking each other and still claim they are just "friends".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/06/20 05:28 AM
15

The phrase "used for sex" is foolish. What, do women only have sex after one or three dates because they are expecting a marriage proposal immediately after? Should we go back to 100+ years ago where a lady could sue a gentlemen for "seduction" I think it was called - i.e. where he had sex with her but didn't marry her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/06/20 09:52 AM
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Anything that hurts women's feelings needs to be quashed apparently. I've seen this denial of reality in female dominated forums where the ladies there will claim up and down that women don't actually get less attractive as they age. No, that's just a lie perpetrated by the Patriarchy. This gives us some clue as to how a female-dominated society would operate. You would have to go around pretending that old ladies as just as beautiful as young ladies, particularly if those old ladies have any po…
/r/MGTOW10/06/20 09:15 PM
1

Just to keep the population stable, throughout history most women had to have 5-6 kids each and devote most of their life to childrearing. You could have had some alternative arrangement where the men took over child raising, but this would be inefficient, and inefficient societies tend to get quashed over the course of history.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/20 06:17 AM
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"I don't know what comes first—the possibility that some women turn off sexually and therefore become unseen—or if we feel the subtle shifts of society towards us and so we simply begin to fade away as sexual beings." The reason for "invisibility" is, of course, that they look older. Its that simple. And its something they ultimately have little control over. They can slow the effects of ageing to a limited extent, but can't deny the reality that men are just naturally attracted to young women, …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/06/20 10:18 PM
6

She may be obese, but she's not quite morbidly obese. Her flesh still has some firmness. Plenty of guys would find her do-able. Even a "Chad" on a dry spell. Which is what she would be hoping for. 'I'm not here for no booty call.." etc. Of course she is. She would be indulging in pretty sophisticated self delusion though to convince herself otherwise.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/06/20 11:07 PM
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Vaginismus is a real condition, but if you have it you should probably stay off online dating until it's resolved. I bet there's women who will falsely claim it to get out of sex. But if they manage to get with a hot guy it will have somehow mysteriously cleared up all on its own. That would probably be the case with this girl.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/06/20 09:04 PM
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This is projection at its peak. When some men complain about how hard it is to find women to date, many women respond "that's because you're only chasing supermodels". They are projecting their own issues - that they only chase apex males and can't see the rest - onto these dateless men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/20 04:42 AM
3

Women of child bearing age anywhere have plenty of men to choose from.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/20 10:56 PM
2

What she means when she wants a guy with a high sex drive is that she wants a guy who will frequently try to initiate sex, but be happy when she rejects him 90%+ of the time. She's not going to want to have sex with him, but her ego still needs constant reassurance she's attractive.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/06/20 08:51 PM
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Look at this comment from the original thread: This whole situation is messed up, but you saying this " That she isn't a catch by any means that does anyone really want a 30+ year old girlfriend " Is a BIG RED FLAG in my book, doesnt matter if you were upset, what you are saying about women being less attractive when they are 30+ is just WOW I have seen this same sentiment on other feminist leaning forums. Men aren't attracted to youth in women because of biology. They are attracted to younger w…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/05/20 02:51 PM
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He's young, decent job, successful and independent, a bit above average in looks. He's the sort of man young women on OLD say they want, might logically think they want. That's what this girl was thinking when she expected to have more success. But his profile got very few responses from young women his own age, and only a few more from older women who weren't serious. We can surmise young women in particular aren't on OLD to try and find a Good Man for a Serious Relationship. They are chasing t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/05/20 12:49 AM
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Most men are "real" and "honest". But they tend not to generate immediate tingles in women, so get overlooked.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/05/20 11:45 PM
5

Approaching the opposite gender for dating/sex is unpleasant to most people, men or women. But men have to if they want a chance. Women can get away with not approaching, so they don't.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/05/20 12:57 AM
2

Hell yeah. She forgot to photoshop those. They give a good indication of her true appearance.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/05/20 09:14 PM
6

"used me for sex" what an asinine statement. She enjoyed the sex. She enjoyed it in large part because the guys weren't boring stable guys. "used me for sex" is something she's saying to save face. She doesn't really mean it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/05/20 08:05 PM
2

She spent a lot of effort crafting this profile. You don't get a profile this obnoxious and annoying by accident. What she's trying to achieve with this profile though, I don't know.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/05/20 02:36 AM
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I think most men are "kind" most of the time. That women place so much emphasis on it means they are used to dating the minority of men who are assholes. Now they are looking to "settle down" they want a man with more kindness. Unfortunately these men don't generate the immediate chemistry they are used to from assholes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/05/20 11:46 PM
17

She hasn't dumped the height requirement. If a woman puts her height in the body of a dating profile, especially if she herself is tall, its usually code for wanting a tall man. She's learnt to tone it down, but because she mentions her height first off, it strongly suggests that height is still the number one thing she is looking for in a man. And because she is extremely tall for a woman, he'd better be a giant. I did my best to let her know I was not interested in her. And I bet she blamed th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/05/20 08:05 PM
3

He's a tall, muscular, lion man. Yeah, technically he's a "beast" but actually he's the type of beastman which many girls would find attractive. I've seen some depictions of him as a short, fat, pig man. Now that's the type of Beast which would actually make Beauty falling in love with him unbelievable.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/05/20 06:02 AM
3

She phrases her profile like a job advertisement with her as the employer. Huge red flag. Also she asks for a tame alpha, which is impossible. Its like an employer asking for someone with 5 years experience in a software package released six months ago.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/05/20 10:09 AM
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If she were good looking she could still attract many men (but probably not "CEO types"). However as she declines to include any photos of herself, we can assume she is not good looking.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/05/20 01:53 AM
9

Is this a troll profile? If this is real, here is a classic case narcissism. She can do no wrong. Everything wrong is someone else's fault.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/05/20 12:37 AM
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A leopard can't change its spots. She's needs to realize she enjoys fucking exciting new men. That's how she is. She will never be happy trying to "settle down" with some stable guy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/05/20 09:17 PM
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"no cocky or arrogant guys" that's a curious condition given most guys aren't cocky or arrogant. I think she's only actually attracted to cocky, arrogant guys, and doesn't notice other men. But what she wants are guys who are cocky and arrogant who also give her tingles, so she instead perceives them as confident and attractive.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/05/20 04:46 AM
0

"Slender" is subjective. If she was actually slender, wouldn't she give her weight?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/05/20 04:22 AM
16

She refers to her husband as "dude" in a sarcastic manner. That just screams she loves and respects him right? "at least try and turn me on and see where it goes" why put so much hope and effort into something with a 90% chance of being rejected, and probably being rejected coldly and dismissively. "you'll probably get a blow job out of it" no he won't.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/05/20 05:21 PM
15

Also I bet because she only gives him once a week starfish sex while claiming "I've always been shy" and "I'm just not a very sexual person".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/05/20 05:00 PM
24

This has a destabilizing effect on your society unless it's a small tribe. Even in hunter-gatherer tribes this would have a destabilizing tribes. You need the assistance of all the men to hunt, build or defend against neighboring tribes. This is why usually only the tribal leader is allowed to have more than one wife and most girls are married off to men not of their choosing soon after puberty.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/05/20 04:54 PM
9

This guy is, if he is at all being truthful, well above average. Yet she regards him as contemptible, barely acceptable, "safe". I hope he ditches her, and she experiences just how unrealistic her assessment of her own SMV is. I say "experience" because I doubt she'll learn anything from it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/05/20 09:18 AM
4

Look at this comment on a thread in one of the feminism sub: "some women don't feel they can make ends meet outside the sex industry and sex work-adjacent stuff like onlyfans. Some women can't work legally in their place of residence, some have dependents, some are ill, some are unskilled, some have learning disabilities and can't get higher degrees, etc. And they have this one asset: their looks." So all women are Good Girls who would never do this sort of thing willingly. They only do it becau…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/05/20 11:44 PM
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What annoys me is that she has to gall to pretend her desire for a 6'+ man is just a minor, idiosyncratic "preference". Where actually it excludes 84% of men and puts her into direct competition with 100% of women. And then she turns around and complains that she can't find any men she regards as attractive! I'm assuming here that by "short" she means under 6'.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/05/20 07:08 PM
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That sub is a hive of trolls and narcissists. I remember reading how they defined a "high value male". This post has since been deleted, but included a line like "a HVM will never become frustrated if she doesn't want sex". Later on there was another line like "a HVM will never refuse a request for sex. No 'rain checks' allowed."
/r/MGTOW09/05/20 10:33 AM
16

Yeah that's the most commonly accepted use of the term now. I think she means transition to post-baby life. But if she did want you to be her post-gender-swap gay lover that would at least be something different from all the other single mothers on tinder.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/05/20 01:46 AM
26

Once a woman domesticates a man, she loses sexual attraction to him, starts viewing him as a scapegoat for all her problems, starts seeing that nothing he ever does for her is good enough, and just resents him in general.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/05/20 08:00 PM
30

There's no excusing her ex cheating on her, but it sounds like in part she drove him to it. Because she sounds like a crazy bitch. "My feelings were always dismissed by him". What does this even mean? And if he's going to help with their kids he mustn't be a complete loser. "How do I be more feminine to be alluring to the right people." Her thinking's all wrong here. She's not getting to trick some rich guy into marrying her. Is that what she wants? If she's not too fat she can get some thirsty …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/05/20 06:06 AM
5

She's putting on a front of false bravado as a defense mechanism. At least she's maybe gainfully employed, depending on what a "Community Living Specialist" is.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/05/20 01:47 AM
15

You can't take anything she writes at face value. She has had plenty of guys express interest and a few ask her out. None have been attractive enough for a serious relationship though. Implying she's had some non serious relationships. I'm guessing she's not a virgin.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/20 04:05 PM
18

She likes the drama of being pumped and dumped by reasonably attractive guys. She enjoys the roller coast ride of heartache followed by the excitement of finding someone new. Is there part of the post where she demands a 6'3" man? She's certainly above average for a woman her age. But not to the point where she can demand some elite man.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/20 03:40 PM
12

As I grew more successful, better looking Hahaha I can guarantee she did not grow "better looking" post college. That's delusional thinking. She thinks she can reverse time through more expensive clothes, more expensive makeup? Or that her ego growing in proportion to her achievements somehow translates into her looking better? But anyhow I can't tell when the posters on that sub are serious, lying or just trying to troll manosphere subs like this one. Assuming she's serious, she wants the impos…
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre04/05/20 07:31 AM
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And Karen usually has shoulder length hair, typically dyed blonde. I can just picture the girl OP is talking about. Very overweight. Ugly multicolored mohawk. Probably heavy framed glasses. No makeup or black lipstick.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/05/20 11:00 PM
33

This shows the stark difference between Alphas and all other guys. Regular guy - he has to buy her stuff, and drive her places, and listen to her, and do chores for her, and promise commitment. And after all this, he gets some reluctant starfish sex. Alpha - drunkenly texts her to get over to his place in the middle of the night. And she really wants to do it. Really, really wants to, and barely resists. If you're not Chad, why bother?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/04/20 09:28 AM
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"I want to settle down". Translation: "I want a fancy wedding I can post all over social media" So looks will actually be very important. You will have to be noticeably taller than her, especially as she will want to wear her highest high heels on her special day.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/04/20 03:49 PM
5

None of us know why she chose to include a picture of herself hugging a guy who looks like her boyfriend. Perhaps even she doesn't know. But at least she didn't include a picture of her underage child in her dating profile.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/04/20 11:23 AM
10

That actually makes sense. These ladies spend so much time trying to compete with each other they might be crafting their OLD profiles partially to show off to each other.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/04/20 09:14 PM
5

I vaguely remembered this article when I wrote that comment. Rereading it, my first thought is this has to be a troll. No, apparently the author is dead serious. How can someone this dumb be an associate professor of anything?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/04/20 07:48 PM
12

She divorced him for looking at porn.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/04/20 08:40 AM
19

The is Bumble where the woman has to send the first message right? A woman this entitled is likely to only message the most desirable men. She will get few responses. Cue tears about what's wrong with men now, and how Bumble is such a misogynistic site, and how she's going back to Tinder.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/04/20 04:00 AM
136

If she puts "Wants kids NOW" it might scare off those tall, good looking, ambitious business executives she's trying to attract.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/20 04:09 AM
33

Feminists take note. When you dismantle the "Patriarchy", this is what you get.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/04/20 07:41 PM
5

Yeah they want a guy who's had a lot of experience. An alpha in other words. But the main reason why this seems wrong to me is that most of the pleasure around sex for women is based around how she is feeling, not around his technique. And the best way to make her feel sexy is for him to be a good looking exciting bad boy. Feminists, radical feminists especially, don't like this idea because it means the best sex most women could get is from old fashioned macho patriarchal men. Not the kind gent…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/04/20 04:03 AM
5

Cloudflare is a security service used by many DNSs. Unfortunately the administrators of Cloudflare seem to be in some kind of dispute with the administrators of archive.is, and are blocking archive.is. This is probably what's going on. Its very annoying as many DNSs rely on Cloudflare.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/04/20 02:42 AM
16

There is all sorts of crap in the comments: There’s also the issue of guys saying they have a high sex drive but in practice not so much.. Loss of stamina in the 40s is a real thing, whereas many women can literally go all night. Well, yeah the woman "can literally go all night" because she is doing little of the work. Just lying or kneeling there passively most of the time. And all those ladies who are so sure they have a "high sex drive" yet their sex drive only materializes when a whole range…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/20 09:18 AM
20

Demands suitors be: faithful, honest, loving and cherishing. Reading between the lines, many of her past boyfriends have been the opposite, which is why she puts so much emphasis on these qualities. However the reason why so many past boyfriends cheated, lied and treated her poorly was because she craves drama and selected them for this specifically. A nice genuine honest guy will be unbearably boring to her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/20 08:32 AM
10

This is a "harmless preference" that if she takes it seriously will exclude 80%+ of men. However women are as bad at estimating men's height as they are at estimating dick length. By 6' she actually means "taller than me and makes me tingle".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/04/20 08:06 PM
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Women complain how men's expectations around sex have been distorted by too much porn. If this woman is serious with her "non negotiable" requirement for an 8"+ dick, then it looks like women have had their expectations messed up by porn too.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/20 04:48 AM
36

Picture a machine in a woman's brain that produces rationalizations that allow her to justify doing whatever she wants at any moment, no matter how short sighted, selfish or irrational. Because its designed to produce overly-complex and poorly thought out rationalizations, the machine itself is overly-complex and poorly designed, like a Rube Goldberg machine. And to complete that image, its powered by a little hamster running inside a wheel - the rationalization hamster.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/04/20 11:56 PM
17

If so she's sure its not cheating then why not tell him? Obviously because she thinks it might be cheating. And boyfriend is deluding himself if he believes her about it just being a "foot fetish".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/04/20 10:45 PM
11

That explains this statement then: this shitty, stinky, misogynistic world that runs on the backs of billions of women but still feels entitled to openly ridicule them, treat them like $hit and kill them. To radical feminists, the world is like an antebellum slave plantation. Women are field slaves who have to do all the hardest, worst work. Men are plantation owners who sponge off their labor, or at worst house slaves who get all the easy work. This nonsensical belief is what hypocritical male …
/r/MGTOW16/04/20 02:24 PM
6

Flattery from thirsty men. Because she's a bit above average (especially for a black American woman) she's received so much its inflated her ego to the size of a small star.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/04/20 07:41 PM
1

This is the rationalization hamster at work. She must really know this is bullshit. But he's exciting new dick! She just needs an excuse to jump all over it, and the hamster provides. (conversation with herself) "I can't just cheat on my husband." "But he has a jet." "Come on that can't be true..." "HE HAS A JET." "Okay, okay I'll fuck him."
/r/MGTOW14/04/20 04:01 AM
1

Don't you know the brain isn't even mature until 25. Or is it 30 now? The poor thing was a child bride. But we now see how the age, the only acceptable age, for a woman to marry is 29. Not a day before. Hopefully not a day after. But its better to wait too late than marry before 29.
/r/MGTOW14/04/20 03:56 AM
2

I think he just pretends to be holding a control stick while making jet noises.
/r/MGTOW14/04/20 03:53 AM
7

Women's sexual desire seem to depend on the "emotional rollercoaster" as I've seen it described. They need either the thrill of a new partner every few weeks or months at most, or constant drama to keep things fresh and exciting. The ladies there actually seem to get this. They spend so much time trying to discourage each other from falling for abusive, cheating, lying, unavailable "LVMs". While at the same time desperately searching for kind, loyal, truthful, generous "HVM" men who will make th…
/r/MGTOW12/04/20 06:49 AM
8

Oh yeah, the mythical "Napoleon complex" (Napolean wasn't short btw). She's supposedly fine with dating short men. But should a short men display the slightest hint of any negative emotion, ever, it must be because of resentment over his height. Therefore she now has a legitimate reason to not date short men again!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/04/20 07:16 AM
1

She didn't actually specify that weight has to be mostly muscle...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/04/20 06:21 PM
3

It looks like she's not willing to give up chasing Alphas. Not willing to try and change her profile pics so she looks less like a lady of the night. Not willing to switch to dating services other than Tinder. But she's started thinking of maybe "settling down", so she's just changed her profile to read "no hookups". Baby steps.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/04/20 02:45 AM
3

I imagine if you took her up on her offer of "friendship" the non-stop requests to drive her places, buy her stuff and do chores around her house would start. At least that's how it would normally work if we weren't in the midst of a zombie apocalypse.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/20 11:59 PM
6

But sexual desire and attraction is something she actually needs, at least until menopause. The need for support might temporarily surpass it, but once that's been satisfied she'll feel the need to leave her beta husband.
/r/MGTOW04/04/20 12:06 AM
65

Amber seems to be a calculating sociopath who enjoys pushing people as far as she can without them seriously retaliating. We can assume she is quite good at this. Judging by the amount of verbal, and physical abuse, she threw at Depp she must have judged him to be a genuinely good guy who wouldn't retaliate even under extreme provocation. The worst thing he seems to have done is throwing some small item in her general direction after being subject to all sorts of abuse (which feminists used to j…
/r/MGTOW02/04/20 11:47 AM
14

There's a post on TRP from a month ago called "The female dating strategy sub inadvertently proving redpill theory correct. Oh the irony." This analyzes another post from FDS which basically says FDS ladies should be looking for what is a classic Alpha as redpill theory would define it... yet many other posts on FDS say they want a super sweet, gentle guy who worships the ground they walk on. Completely contradictory requirements. If this is how they define a HVM, no such man exists. This quote …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/20 11:48 PM
6

Perhaps also a way of deterring the guy from asking for sex? Who wants to try and have sex with a woman who keeps farting and moaning how full she is.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/20 06:09 AM
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Ladies on Female Dating Strategy are obsessed, no exaggeration, with men buying them lavish meals on the first few dates. Surely its not healthy to be this obsessed with food? Shouldn't you eat to live rather than live to eat?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/20 11:10 PM
5

Your post was rational and reasonable, not trolling at all. But anything which prioritizes scientific reality over a woman's feeling is considered trolling apparently.
/r/MGTOW31/03/20 06:26 PM
1

The royal family have some of the best lawyers on Earth on their payroll. If/when she divorces him she'll get some generous, but not huge, settlement, he'll rejoin his family and she can go back to screwing B-list actors and trying to score Mom roles in Netflix dramas.
/r/MGTOW31/03/20 09:57 AM
2

This is like selling a course on how you can make winning the lottery your career. Very wealthy men who are also single and looking to marry are very rare. And of course with how entitled many women are now they would also expect him to be young and good looking, further shrinking the pool.
/r/MGTOW31/03/20 09:52 AM
33

Something like this. The sort of man she's after is just a complete doormat, to be honest. A man who will never complain, never disagree, always give her what she wants without hesitation. The sort of man Female Dating Strategy posters say they want too. Well this is sort of man her logical brain says she should want. Her subconscious will find him intolerably boring. Her hamster will resolve this by deciding he is "abusive" somehow, giving her logical brain an excuse to dump him.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/03/20 07:15 AM
3

I know people here talk about "pair bonding" here. I'm not sure if pair bonding in humans actually exists, but even if it does it usually doesn't last for life, even under ideal circumstances. Even if you marry a young virgin who's strongly attracted to you, there's a good chance she'll want out within ten years.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/03/20 12:43 AM
5

If she's real and not a troll (you can't be sure with FDS posters) she does sound a narcissistic little miss. Of course posting on FDS will only feed into her narcissism as her fellow posters will do nothing but praise her and tell her how reasonable her standards are.
/r/MGTOW30/03/20 12:06 AM
2

FDS'ers all expect their men to never display any anger, resentment, frustration, or any other negative emotions at all, ever. Its like they all have borderline personality disorder or something.
/r/MGTOW29/03/20 07:14 PM
1

Legally, this is correct. With statutory rape, you cannot claim ignorance as a defense. Although this is not something most college guys would have to worry about. The odds of the average college guy actually picking up a girl at a bar or club would be pretty low.
/r/MGTOW29/03/20 07:03 PM
2

Well she said "no hair" so if you've still got a bit of hair somewhere on your head you should be right. Also I think she doesn't actually like men with big beards. Or tattoos. I guess some of her exes were bikers.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/20 06:35 PM
1

He seems cool and I respect a lot of what he writes. Although he really does say some stupid things about the concept of MGTOW. Like "you need sex" (not really). And "you can't go your own way from women, even if you wanted to" (disingenuous, interacting with women at work is vastly simpler than trying to interact with them romantically).
/r/MGTOW29/03/20 11:25 AM
3

[lists her height] You must be either 6' tall, or her height + 4", whichever is taller.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/20 04:30 AM
3

Oh yeah, and women think the "pay gap" exists in part because they do all this useless shit at work and don't get paid for it. i.e. they organize the social club (which only collects money and never does anything). Keep the lunch room stocked! (with stuff people never use) Send out birthday cards for employees (how many adults actually care all that much about their birthday?) etc.
/r/MGTOW29/03/20 03:30 AM
6

I never thought of that, but it sounds plausible. She wants a tall man! Can't ask for one directly as it makes her sound like a bitch. But if she states her height and she's tall, the implication will be there and she won't sound like a bitch (hopefully). She's not tall? Lie!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/03/20 11:33 PM
3

I know little about Biden (I'm not American) but looked up this accusation. Its more metoo bullshit. With Al Franken etc. its been shown feminists will happily throw even their own male allies under the bus in pursuit of their beliefs. The other accusations are very minor and mostly things only rabid feminists care about. Touching women's neck or hair, hugging without consent, calling women pretty. Meanwhile this latest accusation is of him pinning a woman against a wall and digitally raping her…
/r/MGTOW27/03/20 11:25 PM
18

"I don't know how to post a full body pic on here." That's her 'dark' (i.e. stupid) sense of humor coming through. Those selfies give a good idea of how overweight she is. [gives her height] Translation: please be at least 2 inches taller than me.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/03/20 07:27 PM
4

Both men and women can lie and misremember things. But feminists seem to assume women are always truthful. I was just looking through the feminism subreddit where they are breathlessly describing the latest accusation against Joe Biden. Earlier accusations are: “put his hands behind my head and pulled me close". “put his hand on my shoulder and run his finger up my neck.” “put his hand on the back of my head and pressed his forehead to my forehead.” "called her a 'pretty girl'". etc. These sound…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/03/20 02:37 PM
1

Human memory isn't always reliable. By the sound of it she's forgotten how she had planned to lie. The way she now remembers it, it all happened for real. And that furthermore this whole imaginary incident is a convenient excuse for all her problems.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/03/20 10:23 AM
6

When women marry a man, they demand a man of higher social status than them. Due to her upbringing, she somehow regards any white man who would marry her as low social status.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/20 07:51 PM
1

The average woman is as strong as a weak man. If weak men aren't good enough for the military, it's just logical that most women won't be either.
/r/MGTOW25/03/20 04:21 PM
16

Reading between the lines, this profile says "use me for sex". She spends so much effort on saying "don't use me for sex", its obvious this is what she's fallen for in the past, and will continue to do so, despite her best intentions.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/20 03:48 PM
2

I’d always had trouble with birth control. I get a bad reaction to condoms, even on the lowest dose of the pill, I get severe migraines, and with contraceptive injections, I don’t stop bleeding "bad reaction to condoms" WTF does this mean? Could it be that she finds sex without the risk of pregnancy boring? I also saw a recent video by Donovan Sharpe where he says if a woman is with a man she is strongly attracted to, she won't want to use condoms.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/20 10:19 AM
3

Hairstyling is at least a useful skill. TAFE used to offer useful courses in trade skills, like carpentry, welding etc. The only trade-related courses they seem to offer now are on how to comply with the numerous, and ever growing, list of worksite rules and regulations.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/20 10:14 AM
2

"He's not objectively physically attractive" Given how skewed women's views are on average male attractiveness, he's probably good looking, just not quite Chad material.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/03/20 03:21 AM
6

Big daddy government is staffed by mostly uncaring bureaucrats though who are immune to appeals based on pity or sex. This is why you still see women trying to attract betas.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/03/20 10:40 PM
12

Second comment there she thinks the way to get a partner is to raise her standards still further. The average fellows who might commit? Completely invisible to her. She wants ones of the hawt guys, but one who will commit.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/03/20 09:32 PM
10

What kind of cutrate dive would she work for? She has a bit of a belly, cellulite and way too many ugly tattoos.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/03/20 09:21 PM
5

Most men aren't abusive. Either she has a talent for picking abusive men. Or she has borderline personality traits, and anything other than complete devotion and unending niceness feels like painful abuse to her. Considering how simpering and overwrought this whole article is, I would go with the second explanation.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/20 07:31 AM
21

If she's uninterested in sex: It must be his fault. He's "taking her for granted", i.e. not spending enough time and/or money on her. He's not doing household chores or looking after the kids enough. He's not lavishing enough non-sexual affection on her. etc. The poor women is under so much pressure to be sexual when she just doesn't want to. That's abuse! If he's uninterested in sex: It must be his fault. Perhaps he has some medical problem he's neglecting, low testosterone maybe. Or he's "addi…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/20 05:23 AM
5

I think he calls her "Amy Warton" due to the sexually-transmitted cooties Amy herself talks about in her blog.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/03/20 10:07 PM
2

I don't even know if this story is real. I doubt if many of their stories about "high value men" are real. A "high value man" is nothing less than perfect. Perfect patience with her bullshit. Perfect generosity with his time and money. Never any sign of frustration, anger, selfishness or any other normal human traits. In real life, no one is this perfect. Plus being such a complete doormat will ultimately turn any woman off.
/r/MGTOW20/03/20 11:02 AM
10

(Hopefully) The simplest of simp white guys won't want her either They will, but since they leave her vagina dry as Antarctica she will ignore them while complaining "where them good men at".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/03/20 08:12 AM
11

Wants a dominant, masculine man who will be her Best Friend and wait months for sex? Doesn't she see the contradiction in that?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/03/20 08:07 PM
13

Also along with being tall, comes the unspoken requirements: * Please be broad shouldered. * Please have a handsome symmetrical face. * Please be slim but muscular (once post-wall they relax this requirement and allow you to have a slight "dad bod").
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/03/20 12:57 AM
9

I agree, but there's still this near-universal assumption that studying, undergraduate or post graduate, is always a worthwhile thing to do. Whether you're male or female, you'll be praised by everyone for choosing to study for a degree. And very few will question the debt you are accumulating. Student debt is assumed to be good debt.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/03/20 09:54 AM
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I'm pretty sure this is a joke profile. But its easy to accumulate 300k in student loans - if you study a post-graduate degree. There are limits on how much you can borrow for a bachelors degree, but I don't think there are limits on post graduate degrees. The government will lend however much the college chooses to charge.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/03/20 09:24 AM
2

Women seem to universally despise men with small dicks. I'm not just talking about Female Dating Strategy posters. Even on the supposedly more enlightened feminist forums, you will see page after page where women will gleefully poke fun at smaller than average men. And these poor guys can't win. If they acknowledge the issue, they are "whining". If they try and underplay it, they are "delusional".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/03/20 11:03 PM
5

Only bad boys/fuckboys have been reaching out to her and she is sick of it. She only notices bad boys/fuckboys. Regular guys aren't attractive enough for her and she doesn't register them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/03/20 09:06 PM
8

My theory is that almost all girls want a man who towers over them. Average and tall girls know at some level this is unrealistic and reluctantly accept they will have to "settle" for a man who is only a little taller than them. Short girls though know they have a chance of finding a man who dwarfs them, and get greedy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/03/20 05:34 AM
4

I thought this must be a joke, but on reading other comments I see she would be after a marriage of convenience to secure residency. The "must be totally infatuated" condition would be there to make it look like a genuine marriage. Two problems though. Firstly, finding a simp willing to marry her. Secondly, fooling the immigration department. The second would be the most difficult problem. The immigration department is smarter than her and quite capable of distinguishing a real marriage from a s…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/03/20 05:19 AM
12

She put there you have to be "in shape". I wonder if, by female logic, "in shape" also means tall. Although she might have a point about no man-buns. Unless you're an Edo-era Samurai, man-buns can look a little silly IMO.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/20 03:26 AM
4

"gym buddy = i am out of shape, but I want someone in shape..." What will actually happen is she'll go to the gym a couple times, and then give up. If you persist in trying to get her to go, she'll yell at you for nagging her. A few weeks later, she'll yell at you because she hasn't been going to the gym and somehow its all your fault.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/03/20 07:45 PM
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There must be a quicker and cheaper way to become a photographer though than having to take a 4 years bachelor degree. I don't think she's serious. This is probably just a pipe dream. At least training in hairdressing would be a reasonable goal for her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/03/20 04:56 AM
2

Looks genuine to me, unfortunately. But this long profile is actually her trying to convince herself she's over the bad boys. Obviously she's not. A true gentleman would acknowledge this and allow her to pursue the sort of men she's actually attracted to.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/03/20 08:32 PM
7

I think she meant to put exclamation marks there. The question marks strongly suggest she will be down to fuck.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/03/20 06:08 AM
56

"Mature" is code for rich.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/03/20 03:33 AM
19

PTSD used to mean "would freeze in terror when hear fireworks". Now apparently means "the slight discomfort from having to talk to a guy I'm not physically attracted to".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/03/20 08:06 AM
14

She wants the state to provide a tall, handsome, wealthy boyfriend of course. But communism doesn't work like that. You will take the boyfriend the state assigns you, and be happy with him.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/03/20 11:03 PM
15

She puts her height because of course she wants someone at least 4" inches, maybe?, taller than her. So she can wear her highest high heel shoes without feeling taller than him. Because if she has to pick between her shoes and the horror of feeling taller than a boyfriend, the shoes will win every time. And why do they have to put "my child will come first every time"? Everyone should know her child is very important to her. What are they trying to say?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/03/20 10:47 AM
1

That reddit seems to be full of women letting off steam with bullshit stories. For example, a recent thread was where some women was saying she was going out with a young doctor, still on a modest income and with a lot of debt probably. He wanted to take her to a mid-scale chain restaurant where they serve the food with plastic cutlery. Should she ditch him for being a cheapskate LVM? All the comments were unanimous. A HVM would take always take a woman to a restaurant where they have metal cutl…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/03/20 06:27 AM
3

I don't think she'd even be attracted to such indecisive betas. We don't know what the actual problem is. It could be she is just demanding an unreasonable level of enthusiasm from her dates.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/03/20 10:26 PM
2

These ladies are obsessed with having men buy them lavish meals every time they go out. I'm sure for most of them though the occasional light meal wouldn't hurt.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/03/20 06:34 PM
3

Reading between the lines, she wants a man she can control by withholding sex. If she meets a man who's she strongly attracted to, she'll have a one night stand or keep him on the side as a FWB while she searches for her beta.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/20 07:45 AM
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Your orgasm is your responsibility. Her orgasm is your responsibility too. She's just a passive object apparently.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/03/20 07:38 PM
15

I thought this was fairly reasonable until the end bit. She even has the good sense to put a picture of her dog instead of her kid. Nice dog. Unfortunately at the end she demands a tall, muscular man. She'll concede you don't quite have to have a six pack. How generous.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/02/20 05:16 AM
4

She's already been on the CC. First thing women do when they dump their ball-and-chain is go wild and fuck a lot of guys. Seems she's got that out of her system, and now wants to lock down another provider. As soon as the divorce goes through that is. This might explain the excessive level of self confidence she's displaying here. She's gotten rid of her boring old husband. She's screwed some men off tinder proving she's still got it. She feels a temporary boost of euphoria, which is why she's m…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/02/20 09:24 PM
8

I think I see what's going on here. She wants to be a SAHM. She wants to do as little housework as possible. She wants to be "spoiled". She knows this makes her sound like an unreasonable golddigger, so she's indulging in mental gymnastics to justify this. No, she says she won't be a SAHM. She claims she'll continue working and paying her way, so its reasonable he do at least half the housework and buy her luxuries, since he won't have to support her. Of course at the first available opportunity…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/02/20 06:50 AM
33

If you're going to post on FDS you'd think you'd create a separate ID to post on a meetup/dating sub. And from reading FDS I thought females were supposed to be the smarter sex!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/20 08:33 AM
35

This is hypergamy in its original sense. Women are constantly calculating social status based on what society they are from. In America education pays a huge role in this. She thinks she's brought her way into the nobility through her bullshit degrees. The actual elite don't care about her gender studies degrees however.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/02/20 05:18 PM
23

Yes, but I think only when its serving some other purpose. Its like for sex to be enjoyable they need to know they are getting something out of it. So when she marries some beta and has a kid or two, she loses all desire for sex with him, because it can no longer provide her with anything new.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/02/20 03:20 AM
40

This is similar to their attitude to sex. For men, sex is a reward in itself. For women, sex is just a means to end, i.e. "Can he provide me with resources?" (prostitution/sugaring) "Can he provide me with the promise of resources later?" (commitment) "Is he so genetically superior I should capture his sperm immediately to perhaps make superior babies?" (Chad)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/02/20 11:56 PM
6

This nonsense looks like its from FDS. Well, (some) feminists encourage women to pay their ways on date because its a step away from the "patriarchy". Where men pay for everything in a marriage, but in turn traditionally expects some level of submission from their wives. Of course in the model of marriage FDS promotes, the man pays for everything, and he also submits completely and unconditionally to his wife. Splitting dates and spending modestly on dates is also a sign of frugality and financi…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/02/20 08:48 PM
35

This reminds me of a thread I saw on another forum. A single mother of two was complaining about how a guy she was interested in had never been in a relationship longer than a few months, and how to her this was a red flag. Some people pointed out the hypocrisy of this. She responded with "I might have had a perfectly good reason for leaving their father. And my children aren't 'baggage'!".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/02/20 08:33 PM
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If she is a FDS poster, I can believe she is on the heavier side. FDS is obsessed with having men prove their worth by buying women expensive, lavish meals every time they take them out.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/02/20 10:34 AM
3

You see women complain how some man didn't "get her off". So he's responsible for his orgasm. But that statement also implies he's responsible for her orgasm too. In fact he's responsible for all the work when it comes to sex. She'll complain how he only lasts for 10 minutes, but then if she's on top will give up after a minute because its too much work.
/r/MGTOW23/02/20 10:07 AM
12

I'm not so sure what "high value" men are Is there a list there of what constitutes a "HVM"? I'm still convinced FDS was set up mainly to parody and annoy male readers of subreddits like MGTOW, Redpill and this one. Mission accomplished, because trying to read it annoys me so much I can only tolerate it in small doses. From skimming the posts there the main requirement of a "high value male" seems to be that he is what we might call a Pedestalizing Nice Guy. He never complains about anything she…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/02/20 06:06 AM
2

She must be joking. I don't get the point of the joke though.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/02/20 09:08 PM
6

Just like women don't like marrying a man who earns less than them, they don't like marrying a man who has had less sexual experience than them. However she has no idea how much harder it is for men to gain lots of sexual experience (without outright paying for it, which women tend to regard as contemptible). So she imagines its only a minority of weird antisocial men who didn't have lots of sex in their teens and early 20s. Most men didn't though. And, to her great displeasure, she's going to f…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/20 02:03 AM
4

She's putting those demands front and center because these are the kinds of men she has been attracted to in the past, and is probably still attracted to. If you are good looking and confident, but living with your parents/on welfare, she will still fuck you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/20 05:12 AM
3

Plus the gray round the temples. But being not fat in America, especially at her age, would get her a lot of credit. In China, not really as the obesity rate is much lower than America (catching up fast though I bet).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/20 04:38 AM
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