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I think you’re missing the point entirely, your right if she isn’t interested she will just stop texting you, good news for you! You don’t waste your time! An air of mystery is not playing a game! You just don’t tell her everything about yourself!
/r/seduction13/10/21 10:33 AM
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That my friend is called vulnerability, you still need an air of mystery about you though but your putting yourself out there regardless of the outcome.
/r/seduction11/10/21 10:43 AM
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Looks like your in a good position with a well rounded life but you didn’t mention any hobbies or anything that puts you in a social situation that’s allows you to meet new people
/r/seduction30/06/21 01:18 PM
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Take everything you read on the internet with a pinch of salt like always.
/r/seduction28/06/21 06:48 PM
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Use WhatsApp it’s easy
/r/seduction21/06/21 11:13 AM
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Never send a girl a voice message, that one is gold. I don't need to go into detail but voice notes are brilliant for a number of reasons.
/r/seduction20/06/21 06:16 PM
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Yes i mentioned two books in my first comment, read those they are the fundamentals, its the basic information you need to start
/r/seduction17/06/21 05:20 PM
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Its quite hard to explain, but most of my success came from not purposely going out to hit on women. First of all a lot of women wont be that receptive to your approach shit tons of reasons get yourself out of those interactions ASAP. ​ Social settings are everywhere, Hobbies you have etc bring like minded people into one place so its easy to strike up a conversation about that specific hobby/interest. I don't view it as an approach anymore. i was sat minding my business the once and 2 girls wer…
/r/seduction17/06/21 03:49 PM
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Struggled with women in my younger years didn't have a proper girlfriend till i turned 25 thats when i lost my virginity, was a toxic relationship we broke up i found out about game and started from there. Met so many beautiful women over the last 6 years im nearly 31. Key things i learnt from game were ​ Learn Fundamentals, Take action, Don't get dragged into mental masturbation Once you start don't fall back into old habits Work on yourself more so then trying to get women (This one is huge be…
/r/seduction17/06/21 11:52 AM
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Always the case, we want what we can't have it works for both men and women. Except in most situations in this day an age the men come off worse
/r/seduction16/06/21 04:26 PM
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Best quote from Models, because you need to screen a girl as fast as you can so you don't get hung up for two long if she's not at all interested. There could be a million reasons she blew you off the first time, but if she does it again then quickly move to the next. I was guilty of this but as soon as I started moving on ASAP if she showed zero interest it saves so much mental masturbation.
/r/seduction16/06/21 03:50 PM
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Hey, How you doing is the most boring thing you can send. Most dudes send this text. all your doing is validating there ego. fuck that noise. It just seems she's not interested so just move on
/r/seduction15/06/21 05:49 PM
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Let me be brutally honest with you, your reading into this way to much. Sounds like she is just wasting your time and honestly you should value your time. Imagine how many more girls you could of connected with in the several months you wasted on this one chick. Do yourself a solid and forget about her.
/r/seduction15/06/21 05:47 PM
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You realise women don't know what they want at times right? She might of been interested at that time then the interest faded, she had time to think about it etc. Listen it could be 1 of a million reasons why she hasn't replied, so what. This happens so many times. Just carry on with your life if she hits you up sweet. If she don't which is probably what will happen. Her loss.
/r/seduction15/06/21 05:44 PM
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Actually took a girl to a trampoline park for a first date was fucking ace, depends what mood im in
/r/askTRP13/06/21 05:42 PM
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This advice is what everyone should internalise and implement as soon as possible, if you can nail this down then its compounding with the rest. We always want what we can't have and this is especially true with women. We've all been there not knowing if she likes us, why she didn't reply, why she flaked etc etc. But if you can master not putting women on a pedestal and valuing your own time when shes not hitting you back. You are one step above all the rest. Who the fuck wants to be an orbiter
/r/seduction11/06/21 02:07 PM
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It could of been an emotional shift, she might of been in a great mood at the time you asked her but then the realisation hit. You did the right thing it didn't bother you her loss. Case closed and its onto the next.
/r/seduction08/06/21 05:43 PM
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Your already to invested in it, who cares she left you on read go level up your own shit shoot her a text in a weeks time if she doesn’t respond move on
/r/seduction05/06/21 06:16 AM
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Models - Mark Manson or How to be a 3% man by Corey Wayne
/r/seduction04/06/21 07:01 PM
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Your overthinking shit, just be you
/r/seduction04/06/21 07:00 PM
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Being Subtle with your word choice and Push/Pull are quite powerful, Witty comments that are double edged. Watch Craig Ferguson on Youtube from back in his Late Night show years.
/r/seduction04/06/21 06:59 PM
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Yeah I went on a date, had a great time even kissed her, she seemed into me. Dropped her a text a few days later no response followed up a week later no response! Having spoken since, fuck knows what happened but yeah move on
/r/seduction14/09/20 02:47 PM
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As men our ability to fix things has always been a part of our nature, I work in construction and can put my hand to almost anything! Always a sense of accomplishment when you can repair things yourself
/r/TheRedPill17/09/19 09:05 AM
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Move on and live your life! Most attractive thing any man can do
/r/seduction23/08/19 05:29 PM
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Jealousy, plus criticism because he knows he hasn’t got what it takes to dedicate time into bettering himself
/r/askTRP02/08/19 09:46 AM
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Reason people should be picky about what they read in the internet. All this shit about looks don’t get you laid is complete shit! It’s all down to initial attraction, if in that first few seconds she doesn’t find you attractive nothing you say or do will have an impact!
/r/seduction20/07/19 08:15 PM
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You see a lot of talk about the abundance mindset and having an abundance of women will stop you falling into the trap that is oneitis, but its complete horse shit. True abundance comes from finally reaching your true potential as a person, striving to be the best possible person YOU can be for nobody else than YOURSELF. ​ You've taken the first step in the right direction, that's admitting to yourself and us that you have a problem, either that or your just looking for an ego boost on Reddit, a…
/r/seduction22/05/19 06:55 PM
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They have to justify the fact that he’s better than them by belittling him. It’s just jealously and also they can justify the fact that they are actually living the best life when in fact it’s actually the opposite way round
/r/askTRP13/05/19 10:04 AM
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Read the subtle art of not giving a fuck, also stop trying to change too many things at once! Concentrate on a compounding habit such as being more social, you’ll notice over time that various other things change as well
/r/seduction11/04/19 12:28 PM
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Read The Subtle art of not giving a fuck by Mark Manson and apply the theory! Everyone must care about something but that something shouldn’t be someone else’s opinion. Not everyone will like you!
/r/askTRP09/04/19 08:01 AM
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It’s something I’ve heard before not sure of the original source but I know some of the members of RSD have mentioned it in various videos. It’s quite possibly one of the most powerful mindsets to have with any approach to life, it’s empowering that regardless how well any interaction goes, your walking in and out of that interaction with an interest in giving and not taking. Solid post my dude, keep it up!
/r/seduction18/03/19 07:56 AM
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Personally, It was my upbringing i never really had any direction and was heavily addicted to video games, It was a mixture of cheap dopamine hits from video games, YouTube videos etc. It had a major impact on my attention. So whenever i sat down to do something i'd always find ways to distract myself with something else. It wasn't until i started cutting these things out my life. Another thing i noticed as well, i was a self-help junkie, the thought of improving myself appealed to me but i neve…
/r/askTRP16/03/19 11:40 AM
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I hear you, I've struggled with this all my life, always starting something and never really finishing it or it amounting to nothing, it was only when i really dug deep that i found the root cause of the problem. It can be linked with your values and most of your experiences throughout your life.
/r/askTRP15/03/19 03:24 PM
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Curious, how did you get over number 5 on your list?
/r/askTRP15/03/19 08:54 AM
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The lives we see portrayed are far from the actual lives people live. What you see and what goes on behind closed doors are two different things. Couples might look happy but the last time he had sex might of been one month ago because he “got lucky”
/r/askTRP09/03/19 10:44 AM
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You hit the nail on the head, from my experience as well it’s exactly true. It’s like she try’s to rationalise putting you in the so called “friend zone” but when you don’t give her that option it ramps up the attraction ten fold.
/r/askTRP08/03/19 08:51 AM
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It baffles me, how many people think that books are the solution to the problems they face, yeah they are great to expand your knowledge but without the action to compliment the new found knowledge then it’s pointless. Honestly you know what you need to do, do that daily and continue to fight all the other urges to bunk off and not do it. Start small and compound on it, make your bed etc. You don’t need anymore knowledge on the subject of self discipline just fucking do it. Good luck dude!
/r/askTRP02/03/19 01:55 PM
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I see this same scenario in my pals bride to be, openly flirty and touchy around other men even myself which I don’t condone. I have no interest in another mans wife, I’ve tried to subtly warn him without directly telling him she’s bad news. Hoping he will pick up on it but no luck. Great post dude
/r/TheRedPill28/02/19 07:59 AM
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So fucking what, yeah it’s a self esteem hit but fuck it who cares what she thinks! You spoke your mind about her pubes she got butt hurt and responded with a shitty comment. It’s more of a shit test really, keep your frame and carry on regardless.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 05:11 PM
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Dude, I was a failure for 26 years of my life, it took me till then to realise the issues I had, I’m 28 now and still fuck up. Trust me it’s hard fucking work you know what you should be doing but your mind will always find excuses to fall back into your comfort zone and repeat those bad fucking habits. You done good by noticing by the age of 18 and implementing change, you’ve 1 uped about 80% of the worlds population by figuring this shit out when you did. Yes it’s slow, yes it’s hard work but …
/r/TheRedPill20/02/19 05:08 PM
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Dude I can relate to this so much, I felt stuck in this rut! But I couldn’t nail what it was that was causing the problem! I genuinely am a go getter but I couldn’t figure out why I felt so suppressed. I’ve heard somewhere about changing your environment could help so I hit Rightmove and found a new pad! Move out in 2 weeks! I’m so fucking hyped for it!
/r/TheRedPill22/06/18 01:39 PM
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Listen bro, these things take time! Just keep noting when you lapse on frame! If you feel like your struggling visualise a moment when you did hold your frame! Feels good right! Keep doing that, what a lot of people don’t say is listen your going to fail sometimes. just get back up dust yourself off and jump back on and ride that shit into submission!
/r/askTRP20/06/18 04:59 PM
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It’s literally like a light switch! It’s mental how fast they can switch it up! All down to emotions ain’t it!
/r/seduction15/06/18 07:24 AM
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First sentence second paragraph
/r/TheRedPill03/06/18 12:39 AM
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When I shredded weight and started to look good! Going from being completely unnoticeable, to girls smiling at me in coffee shops or when I’m out and about. If you ain’t seen people in a while they wil notice. Trust me dude you will know when it’s increasing your SMV
/r/askTRP12/05/18 09:27 PM
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Nailed it dude, Frame is so important I cannot stress this enough to anyone! Classic example, I work in a very high corporate company that demands a lot of me but I do so on my own terms! I’m not afraid to tell people exactly how it is or exactly how I feel about said situations one of my colleagues has threw multiple shit tests my way which I just agree and amplify it never bothers me! People respect me in the office and I’m far from peak of the ladder in my profession! Nail your frame and it m…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/18 07:53 PM
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How do you do this? Just uninstall the app and keep messenger on your phone or what? Only reason I use facebook is for group chats with social circles etc
/r/TheRedPill17/04/18 04:20 PM
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Not a truer word said, my ex broke up with me and the instant I walked out her door I cut contact didn’t reply to any of her texts removed her from all social media platforms! She got the message after a day or two of constantly blowing up my phone looking for closure! Fast forward 6 months she started to like things on my Instagram pictures of me even though we didn’t follow each other! I was non reactive. Fast forward 12 months she has a new boyfriend ironic thing is he looks like my identical…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/18 11:33 AM
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Stick the interaction longer, she’s more likely to remember you if you had a better interaction then a couple of minutes
/r/seduction15/04/18 08:23 PM
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I’ll be real honest with you dude, because it cuts deeper and might actually make you realise that your insecurities should be your strengths! First of all check out RSD Tyler he’s ginger and balding he slays! Now you need to sort yourself out, instead of focusing on your weaknesses concentrate on your strengths the more comfortable you are with the fact that your balding and ginger the sooner you’ll realise that it’s not always the deciding factor when it comes to girls! Yes looks and being cut…
/r/seduction15/04/18 08:22 PM
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Trust me women shit test! It’s proven and from past experiences it’s very fucking true. Women do not know they are even doing it! It’s that sub conscious but your reaction to them either elevates her attraction or lowers it slightly! Women screen men otherwise she would be getting pumped by every half decent looking guy that hits on her! Some are a lot more subtle then others! It all differs.
/r/seduction15/04/18 08:16 PM
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Nailed it bro, wish some people would understand this though!
/r/seduction13/04/18 07:47 PM
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You’ve got it! There’s a statistic that she knows within the first 3 seconds if she’s attracted to you or not! Yes she will test you on the initial interaction but if she’s testing she’s interested!
/r/seduction13/04/18 09:50 AM
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Thank you
/r/seduction12/04/18 10:34 PM
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I don’t watch the 2hr videos I won’t watch an RSD video any longer then 20 mins! I get they won’t tell you the whole truth cause they want you to purchase there respective courses
/r/seduction12/04/18 08:10 PM
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Mark Manson and Corey Wayne nail it on the head! Mark Manson says are you Fuck yes about this girl if your anything but a fuck yes your a fuck no and she’s not worth your time! Corey Wayne in his book how to be a 3% man says if she’s attracted to you she will make it easy for you! Why would you want to waste your time with someone who makes it hard? She will open all the doors for you! Look you can’t force attraction at all. Listen I’ve been on both ends of being too invested and not invested as…
/r/seduction12/04/18 05:27 PM
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Solid post dude! Some really key things detailed!
/r/TheRedPill07/04/18 06:08 PM
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Wouldn’t say he was red pill, his social proof does everything for him! Millions of Instagram followers, rich can have anything they want always seem to be having fun! Women love this boosts there egos! Rappers have no problem cutting women off because they know another will throw herself at him at the next gig! He could be a beta bitch that gets shit tons of pussy! His status is what propels his lay count
/r/TheRedPill04/04/18 07:42 PM
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Nah just get it over with! Putting more pressure on yourself by telling her.
/r/seduction03/04/18 09:09 PM
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Couldn’t agree more! It certainly does help, you’d just screen her to see if she is a leech or actually with you for you opposed to the size of your wallet
/r/TheRedPill02/04/18 10:13 AM
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I see so many people say “You need money” couldn’t disagree anymore! It does help in social circles and nights out! But why the fuck would you flaunt this for a woman to try and leech off? Doesn’t matter how fat your wallet is it’s how you make her feel!
/r/TheRedPill01/04/18 07:30 PM
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Not a truer word said! Well put, we are the ones responsible for our outcome nobody else!
/r/TheRedPill01/04/18 10:58 AM
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Read Models by Mark Manson this trumps everything that all pickup/game has to offer! It’s simple as that. As much as I see modern pickup being a natural and self improving yourself there is still gamey aspect to it! What we need to understand as men is there is no perfect pickup line or no perfect opener! Most of it boils down to you as an individual no amount of game will teach you how to be a man! That shit you need to learn yourself, women are attracted to men that are polarising. Just read M…
/r/seduction27/03/18 10:31 PM
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I see a lot of guys say only text for logistics, which in a way is true but in this day and age it’s so hard to just do that! The younger generation texting can be an absolute deal breaker! Snapchat is the key. You can text for logistics but send her value snaps on snapchat to keep the interest or spark going let her in a little! GIFs rock as well! If she doesn’t have Snapchat suggest she try it and if she doesn’t then just send her a value text once a day don’t be boring and say how you doing 3…
/r/seduction25/03/18 09:16 AM
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Cheers bro! Try for another meet and see how it goes!
/r/seduction24/03/18 07:24 PM
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Do you get in your head when you go out to bars, that sort of shit will be the mental block that is stopping you from going up to women! I like to call it dependent on the outcome! You’re relying to much on what could happen instead of just being yourself. Get some goals behind you, career, gym goals from these two alone your confidence will start to grow! Read up on approach anxiety as well because I sure as hell bet when you go out you see a girl you’d like to talk to but don’t!
/r/TheRedPill24/03/18 09:52 AM
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I was actually introduced to TRP by a friend reason being because I was fucking up my LTR and when I started to read TRP it all started making fucking sense! Like clear as day to why I was fucking up! I think you need to be very specific about who you introduce to it! I tried with my mate after he split with his ex and lost all confidence he threw the red pill straight back up and refused to listen! He’s still beta as fuck and some of the stuff he says to women makes my toes curl up cause he thi…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/18 09:07 PM
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I didn’t know I thought he was joking! I always read it on a PC but I get why it would be a problem on an app
/r/TheRedPill04/03/18 07:53 PM
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Are you trolling?
/r/TheRedPill03/03/18 11:30 AM
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RSDJeff takes a van out and goes and games chicks then takes them back to the van to fuck after!
/r/TheRedPill02/03/18 09:37 AM
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Put that shit behind you and move on! As hard as it is to swallow, best thing to do is move on and concentrate on yourself! She showed you her true colours would you want to spend your life with her! You’d be stupid to say yes! Pick yourself back up dust yourself off and better yourself!
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 08:44 PM
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Happens to the best of us bro, cut her off and go concentrate on yourself! What’s done is done but if I was you try pinpoint where it stared going wrong and correct it so it doesn’t happen again! First proper relationship dude bound to happen learn from it and don’t do it again! Don’t put her on a pedestal
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 04:17 PM
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Forget about her!
/r/askTRP26/06/17 05:35 PM
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It comes with time, throw yourself head on at it, go date women and get all anxious about what they think only way to conquer it pal! Confront it
/r/askTRP04/05/17 04:59 PM
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That mindset you fall into when you start enlightening yourself with women's ethics and motives etc. It happened to me when i started reading TRP. The only way you learn is from your mistakes, You need to make mistakes to learn from what you did wrong. Go out game women make the mistake and notice where you went wrong and change the approach next time. Why are you worrying about all these things? You're the focal point you should be worrying about yourself making you better. You think cause you …
/r/askTRP04/05/17 02:02 PM
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I didn't get any details wished i did now i'd contact her myself and tell her to sling her hook
/r/TheRedPill30/04/17 03:17 PM
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My ex said this to me back when we were dating it sent her into overdrive! She loved it! "You know everything about me yet I know nothing about you and I can't figure you out at all" keep it up your doing it right my pedigree chum!!
/r/askTRP17/04/17 06:25 PM
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I broke up with my girlfriend a week ago! Hitting the game again tomorrow!! Good luck Bro!
/r/askTRP14/04/17 05:49 PM
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How long have you been broken up? Less than a week? Then get all your emotions out man keep thinking about it. But after 7 days you need to shake your head and bounce back. Time heals all my friend. I see you say about finals etc. But you need to keep active and busy do as much as possible. Hit the gym twice as hard. I got dumped by my LTR last week. I felt like shit for a couple days but because of work commitments and gym and hobbies hell I've been days without it even glancing my mind! If you…
/r/askTRP13/04/17 06:44 PM
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What the hell did she do to make you just get up and go??? It's mental how they think that you still are going to bend over for them, I was an idiot and i see it now 4 days after we split i laughed at myself for how much of an idiot i actually was! Never again Very understanding people still want to stay in touch had more of an impression on them then my Ex.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/17 09:01 PM
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Very wise words. Thank you! I was in deep more deep then I could imagine. It's funny how she ended it but still insisted I do the work and when I said no! Well the face was a picture. I get home to message after message not once referring to the relationship but just about the work. I hit no contact instantly and removed her from every social platform! I messed up I was a shit leader and a beta buck. Learnt from this mistake. I contacted the parents and told them I wasn't doing it. They understo…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/17 07:39 PM
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Oh my bad, yeah I see your point though! See a lot of anger towards women when they are really the ones to blame for the LTR being a shitty leader
/r/TheRedPill10/04/17 01:43 PM
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Im hardly angry, more disappointed in myself, it wasnt i became lazy or fat. I work a manual job as well as juggle the gym and sports and always have been conscious of appearance. My downfall was just sheer beta tendencies the relationship flatlined. Lesson learnt onwards and upwards as they say.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/17 01:16 PM
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Already done this contacted them, they told me not to worry and they understand the situation.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/17 01:14 PM
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Smoked since I was 15, now 26! Been quit 2 whole years! I'm from the UK and there was something called Champix meant to be the be all end all of quitting smoking! I lasted 6 months. Went back to old habits after a New Years party. I tried again this time, I vaped brought a decent setup and didn't fall into the trap of becoming one of these who do it for social approval more to aid me in quitting smoking. Started with high nicotine and gradually over time lowered it until I was vaping 0 nicotine.…
/r/askTRP10/04/17 11:32 AM
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It's unbelievable how much it all makes sense, to begin with, i was subconsciously doing most of what people talk about in TRP, because i wasn't that invested in the relationship and i wasn't really bothered. But i got severe Onetis and well i hit the downward slope, lesson learned!
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 05:44 PM
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I was being paid for the work I wouldn't work for free! I only want to do the work for the benefit of her parents not her! But she will be there when I do do the work! It was a good amount and who couldn't do with out a bit of extra money here and there!
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 04:01 PM
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Start small, walk before you can run. If you struggle with talking to people in general. Then maybe start by talking to guys first about random guy stuff. Maybe something he has or a belonging that you also have. You'd be surprised how well this can boost self-confidence. Even if its just a short 10 sec convo Listen everyone still gets nervous its impossible to shake that feeling especially with women. But at the end of the day what would you rather live with being rejected because she just wasn…
/r/askTRP05/04/17 05:22 PM
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Not a truer word spoken, I found out about this sub reddit about 2 weeks ago! Wrong end of an LTR. Completely my fault severe Onetis and Blue pill tendencies! Now I'm quite an open minded person but take everything with a pinch of salt. My advice to anybody new is take everything with a pinch of salt! There is so many anger enraged posts but if you've got the wits about you. You'll be able to spot these posts out above the actual good content there is on this sub reddit!
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 06:35 AM
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Thanks for the advice! Noted I'll do that then
/r/askTRP16/03/17 09:10 AM
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I just read up on it, I see your point she's trying to deflate me by testing my reaction! Thanks for the advice
/r/askTRP13/03/17 06:10 PM
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Amusement mastery?
/r/askTRP13/03/17 06:04 PM
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