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Old people are far more brain rotted by smartphones than young people. "Phones" are a convenient scapegoat to hide the real structural issues that have made young adults and teenagers more "locked down" and isolated in the past 20 years partly because Boomers hate seeing young people out being young
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 03:00 PM
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That stuff mostly died out after the Great Recession, not a recent trend. Even by the 2010s, the helicopter parenting panopticon was already in full swing. The difference is that dating apps were actually fun/useful from 2012 until about 2018 when monetization turned Tinder into a slot machine. "De urbanization" is also a factor in the US. Americans have increasingly moved to exurbs and/or sprawling metro areas where it's harder to socialize informally, and car insurance rates + "graduated licen…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 02:56 PM
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ENM is the least problematic of the bunch ENM is absolutely vile and probably the worst of the bunch. There's a lot of manipulation in that space, and it's usually a one-sided arrangement in practice (more often the man is the one sleeping around as well, not the woman getting easy dick) The whole polyamory thing really highlights a broader issue with modern dating - people are afraid to just be single and date/sleep around. People aren't getting married, but they shack up together for 10+ years…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:25 PM
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Husbands died early back then or ran away to the colonies, same shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 07:29 PM
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This behavior is called "splitting", common in cluster B types.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 04:32 PM
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Extremely trad-pilled. Women in 1810 didn't pop out 10 kids in 10 years. They basically just kept having them until menopause.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 04:31 PM
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People like "top AI researchers" do a lot more to push the Culture than you think, especially super online stuff. Remember that Caroline from FTX had a whole Tumblr. Smart people are often both crazy and bored, so they can get into some weird shit and spend all day on the computer.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 04:29 PM
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Female Dating Strategy was a GOLDMINE for girl cringe back in the day. Sad it went away.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 04:24 PM
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You post like a grifter PUA bro flying high on Addy and Modafinil.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 04:21 PM
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I'm 5'6" on a good day, and the majority of women I have dated were my height or taller. But I did OK on FACE and FRAME
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 03:07 AM
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What's your substack bro?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 03:02 AM
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It should match with your natural personality. You missed my point. Some men's natural personality is already too expressive. You're taking her on a little bit of a fun rollercoaster...it's playful. You are doing too much for a first date. Someone is still pretty much a stranger after 1, 2, 3 dates. It's different than texting someone you actually know. A lot of guys suffer from "halo effect" from dating where if you feel like you had a good time, you assume she did even if she was just being po…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 09:35 PM
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Height matters way, way less than people on places like PPD try to make it seem. At least in "the West" short height is often correlated with certain ethnicities that are not portrayed as masculine/attractive (for men anyway) by the dominant society. Being obese or genetically ugly is far more of a hindrance. Remember the old phrase used to be HEIGHT, FACE, FRAME. That's 3 areas, and you probably didn't draw an unlucky combo in all 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 09:31 PM
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It also doesn't even work as well anymore because "back home" is not as poor as it was 40 years ago when they left.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 09:25 PM
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Balance is key here, especially with points 4 and 5. Being too expressive can be a big turn off, as can texting too excessively with emojis and shit. It all depends on your natural personality and flow + the type of women you normally date. Back in my OLD days, I know for a fact that I blew it several times for being too expressive in IRL conversations, and I would have died of embarrassment texting something like your example in point 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 09:19 PM
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That is not a normal sample, it was urology clinic (i.e. skew low)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 07:38 PM
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5.1 is not the average unless you're counting old, fat men who can barely get it up anymore. Average is more like 6.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 04:54 PM
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You went 0 to 100 here. And I think we are on the same side.....
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 04:29 AM
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The problem is, a lot of people's "best lives possible" involves somebody else having to sacrifice something and making their own life worse How?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 10:22 PM
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Boo hoo, who will support the poor therapists, divorce lawyers, CPS workers, etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 10:21 PM
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Why should people compromise? Relationships have massive financial and social effects whether they go well or go poorly. You only get one life. Women and men both deserve the best life possible vs. dragging themselves down to avoid the spinster/bachelor insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 09:39 PM
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Making women eligible for the draft would actually hurt men more if a draft were to happen. Women are generally not allowed to serve in combat roles, which means they would fill up the "safe" roles away from the front lines.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 04:02 PM
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If your profile isn't recognized as attractive pretty quickly Conventionally attractive as well. It becomes a problem if you have a certain "type", or if you just try to tailor your profile to stand out vs. appeal to a wider set of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 03:58 PM
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The "judgement" in bar/nightlife is just different though. Your name, age, and exact height are blasted out before someone even speaks to you. Having fun and letting loose brings a different energy than whatever pics and witty bio you put on your dating app profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 03:56 PM
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Huge portion of those are probably social media, not dating apps tbh. It's kind of like how 5-10 years ago, people would lie about meeting on an app because it was still seen as kind of weird. Now, "app" is sometimes the acceptable way of saying "they slid in the DMs"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 03:54 PM
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The Tricknology is strong here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 04:29 AM
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That stuff basically only affects minors though, which is a very small portion of the dating pool. Teens socializing less in person means that they have stunted social skills and different "norms" once they become young adults. Do you not "grok" that what people experience in their formative years sticks with them in the future? Increased cars per household would counteract the effect of graduated licensing laws, and it's hard to know which would have a bigger effect on how much teenagers go out…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 09:29 PM
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. I don't see how graduated licensing laws A big part of graduated licensing laws are "no passengers under 18" as well as a curfew as early as like 10pm. So why would teenagers bother getting a license if they can't drive with their friends places or stay out reasonably late? Not to mention getting added to parents' insurance is very expensive even when kids just have their permit, not even full license. Some people in my state are paying like $300/month for their kid just to practice driving wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 08:24 PM
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"Graduated licensing laws" and stricter enforcement of underage drinking are big ones. Of course no one funds research on this because it's easier to blame the dang phones.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 08:03 PM
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Dismissive-avoidant not anxious.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 07:08 PM
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BIPOC Twitter genuinely believes white people "stole" all of their cultural contributions and that even Isaac Newton is bullshit. They were talking about all of this stuff in the barber shop long before Twitter existed. "Kings and Queens in our glorious past" was already a joke in Do The Right Thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 07:06 PM
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2024 is appearing to be a fluke. Trump has dramatically lost support among young voters. One reason being that the "dork right" that people thought Trump got rid of has come back in full force during Trump 2.0.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 07:04 PM
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Even with compatibility taken into account, in the past it was easier to find and integrate into social circles where people shared your lifestyle, interests, political views, values, etc. That's not really true though. In the past, there was simply far more social pressure to get married and have kids at relatively young age. "Compatibility" wasn't even a factor in many cases rather than "you are gonna be an old maid/bum, settle for someone quick". "Stranger danger" has always been the default …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 06:57 PM
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People stopped socializing in person in large part due to legal and financial changes (the insurance industry is evil + law enforcement is greedy and overbearing). Video games and scrolling became popular because the 3rd spaces were already dying. People get the chicken-and-egg wrong here because it's easy to blame the Gosh Dang Phones instead of scrapping the harmful "safety" policies that have been enacted in the past 20-30 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 06:49 PM
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It takes like 6-12 months of going to the gym 3-4 days a week and not eating like an asshole. If it takes you "lots of years and a tight diet" to achieve a fit body, you are fat as fuck, don't try, and/or have a serious binge eating problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 05:34 PM
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Yeah because poor Asian women were genuinely impressed by weird-ass Westerners coming over their countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 05:27 PM
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But I do know multiple women who won’t even consider OLD for safety reasons These women just shouldn't be using dating apps at all then, period. OLD is not for everyone, but you don't maximize $$$$ so of course it gets pushed on people who shouldn't be there.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 05:43 PM
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3 is so true. There's so many first dates I've been on from apps that in retrospect, I should have just ended in like 5 minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 05:41 PM
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You're probably thinking of OkCupid, which was one of the first casualties of match group. The quizes on the old site were so fun. The safety features on the apps are already abused by "revenge reporting". If anything, there needs to be less, or at least a more reasonable ban system vs. "perma'd for no reason" I don't think people "head straight for the apps". Especially now that they are all gamified and largely useless. I think it's more like all the skittish, weird people got told "put yourse…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 05:35 PM
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A lot of the chronic dating app users simply delete and remake their profile every couple months, so it wouldn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 05:31 PM
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BMI underestimates fatness for people who are on the shorter side and people with lower muscle mass. Women are shorter and carry less muscle mass on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 06:51 PM
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Why do effete, middle-class Americans always go on about “third spaces”!? Same reason they blame "social media" and "phones" for every social ill. It's a convenient scapegoat that avoids actually attacking real problems (which would implicate real people, not vague concepts)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 04:29 PM
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A lot of younger people are incredibly confused on what is socially appropriate in different areas and situations of their lives. Younger people are actually more aware of what is socially appropriate. The ugly truth is that a lot of Boomer/Gen X and even older Milennial "dating" culture was incredibly toxic, full of SA, messy break-ups, etc. Zoomers have simply learned a lesson, which means fewer relationships overall. There's far less "well I've been divorced 3 times already, 4th time must be …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 04:28 PM
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Scammers are constantly recreating profiles to avoid bans and cast a wide net. Some of them even use the same profile spoofed to a dozen cities. Plenty of YouTube videos of these guys being caught in the act. Though they do it with fake male profiles to trap women as well. Apps have been dead for a couple years now, Tinder probably 5 years at this point. Even Raya opened the doors to the masses. What's amazing is that people still try to use them or act like they work.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 07:11 PM
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Consent is not required just to start a conversation with someone. Yes it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 06:21 PM
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They're the ones that go shopping, buy gifts, decorate and cook Yeah, men never geek out over their grills at a cookout.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 06:16 PM
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"Not fat and has his hair" is like an automatic 7-8/10 in your demographic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 06:05 PM
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FACE HEIGHT FRAME
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 06:04 PM
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The other recommendations are boomer slop. Recommending dating via Discord or online games is just straight up gonna lead to crimes being committed and ruined lives. "Discord" is a meme, not the kind you wanna be associated with.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 06:02 PM
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It's true for most women IME. They would much rather simply have a "sperm donor" to make babies and then be left alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:58 PM
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We a solution for that - people are making AI boyfriends/girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 09:16 PM
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There's lies, damn lies, and statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 04:29 AM
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You think that someone smart with a good job who doesn't do drugs, doesn't smoke, only drinks occasionally, doesn't gamble and is smart with money has a high chance of being abusive or a cheater? There are many men like this, actually. A lot of these "Type A, high achiever" guys can be quite nasty behind closed doors. And there's lots of guys who smoke cigarettes, like a drink, or are kind of "dopey" but end up being good men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 10:09 PM
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Those are somewhat superficial traits tbh. Real vetting is looking for those tells that someone is abusive or a cheater.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 09:16 PM
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Maybe 30 years ago. It was definitely pretty frowned upon even like 10-15 years ago. Arguably worse - people were making content complaining about people talking to them, now it's the opposite (waaaah waaaah why is everyone so anti social???)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 08:38 PM
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They're either engaged by 22 or have some sort of crippling anxiety and never leave the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 07:53 PM
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If he's in a small town, he might have his distance filter set really wide (like 100 miles) to find women in big cities. But those women likely have smaller distance filters, so they never see his swipe unless they pay for premium. And even if they do, distance might be a left-swipe.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 07:49 PM
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Please don't bleach your skin. Also, you have no business using steroids unless you are over 25, under 15% bodyfat, and have been lifting seriously for 5+ years (and really, you should have a competitive goal in mind, not just "I wanna look better").
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 07:44 PM
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Wrong. Every man, big or small, has the same weak spot. All it takes is one swift kick/knee. And "vermins" knees can get there easier
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 07:43 PM
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She should take a shower and stop hating men then? Men can tell when a woman is misandrist, even before they speak to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 02:47 PM
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What type of interest do you think women are receiving and how are they receiving it? Depends on how much they put themselves out there tbh. Has more to do with that than looks. Do you think the average woman has the opportunity to hook up with celebrities and party on yachts? Do you think the average woman is able to get her bills paid by going on a dating app, or do you think many average (non-sex-worker) women are getting their bills paid by someone they're not in a relationship with? No to a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 06:48 PM
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99% of gamblers quit before they hit the jackpot. She just needs to try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 06:07 PM
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More reason to wait at the finish line, because she’ll also more likely have her shit together. That’s a huge reason why the age of most first marriages are getting older and older. Not really. Personal growth is not a given. Many of the "best" marriage candidates are already off the market by their mid-20s (dating future spouse if not married). A lot of the people who are single at 35, especially men, either have divorce baggage and/or they still have some sort of arrested development. They try…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 06:04 PM
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Smart women love to shut their brain off with mindless TV such as Love Island tho
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 06:02 PM
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Schools/workplaces are partly to blame for this tbf. Pendulum has swung too far in the other direction where boys are shot down for even just trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 05:55 PM
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Basically, the Internet and people going outside less. "AFCs" back in the pickup artist days were guys who had fairly normal lives, but couldn't be "total fuckboys" and just pick up chicks at will at the bar. They tried, it just didn't work out as well as they wanted. Most of the self-described incels don't even try.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 05:53 PM
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I strongly disagree, even 50 years ago, a household could survive on 1 income, now it would be impossible for the average couple. They want a partner they are attracted to, with a job that can pay for his lifestyle, and someone that does his part in the relationship and domestic duties There's THREE things. 50 years ago, about 0 men did any domestic duties besides mowing the lawn and "fixing". Most of them were not attractive (nobody went to the gym or cared about clothes/skincare, and plenty we…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 09:47 PM
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They want a partner they are attracted to, with a job that can pay for his lifestyle, and someone that does his part in the relationship and domestic duties Men today are far, far, more likely to be able to provide that than men 50 or 100 years ago, though. The vast majority of women in say the 50s or 60s married a man who at best could do 2 out of 3 of those things, usually 0 or 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 04:20 PM
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That's only due to age. A surplus of women over 50 means nothing for "dating" because they can't have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 04:19 PM
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The only women in the history of ever who have been homemakers have been upper middle class and royalty. Royalty and the upper middle class weren't homemakers lmfao. They had a team of servants. In the Victorian era, even middle-middle class women often had at least 1 or 2 servants to help out around the house (as do people in third world countries today). It was really only the mid-20th century, for a portion of the population, where women just were "homemakers" in the sense that we view it. Ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 04:17 PM
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P A S S P O R T
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 04:15 PM
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These wattapad stories have made the gen z women pornbrained. All women are smutbrained.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 04:11 PM
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Most people in blue states/liberal areas have zero problems with gender roles as well tbh. Conservatives online vastly play up the "feminazi" stereotype stuff. A lot of the lefty, feminist women actual complain about left-wing men not being masculine enough, have super stereotypical girly hobbies, want kids, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 03:52 PM
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Well, the gym and coffee shops are not places to "meet women". Festivals and "going out" depend a lot on the type of place, how big your group is/solo, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 03:50 PM
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Well yeah, obviously. Concerts are a very easy environment. A lot of "thuggish" looking people are suspicious at venues that have a history of problems. Some of them are, some aren't. Some places profile everyone. I'm a small guy, clean cut, and I've been asked to have my Zyn pouch inspected (looking for harder drugs) at some places. Bouncers aren't police. And honestly, if someone shows up with effort and looks clean cut, they're aren't gonna worry too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 08:43 PM
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People who post things like this usually have very low N-counts tbh. They are inexperienced due to various hangups and/or they are unattractive and have had mostly shitty partners. The stereotypical "high-N party girl" probably views most of her hookups with a blur. The real "alpha widow" thing comes from some guy she casually, off and on. Not just a "wham bam thank you ma'am".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 08:06 PM
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Yeah nah, ain't dating a girl who would be willing to wait. And to address what I know your point is - don't care if she's dated trans men in the past and done whatever she wanted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 08:00 PM
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Firefox on the phone, use Desktop site option. UBlock Origin. Free
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 07:58 PM
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YT Premium is superior to all the other music apps. I've used it as a music app and I get to watch videos without apps and get to download them and play them in the background whilst doing other shit I get to do this for free on YouTube with free extensions in my browser + a simple command line tool.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 07:55 PM
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Refusing to take the blame for anything, or being unusually sensitive about small insults/teases are big tells. You can probably brush off a couple things (maybe they have had some rough times or have complex about something small you didn't know), but if it's a pattern, you'll notice it fairly soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 07:53 PM
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Police enforce the law. A lot of people who break the law, or at least are involved and swept up in crimes due to bad friends, are kind, gentle souls (or at least to people they care about/view as innocent). A lot of people who are violent, abusive assholes don't break the law, or at least do it in ways that are hard to track until they snap/get lazy. Basically, Police are gonna profile people differently because they have different facts vs. someone who has spent social time with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 07:49 PM
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like a down to earth country boy who performs traditional masculinity isnt setting off anyone's "hes an asshole" alert Some of them do. Especially if you run into them when they are drinking too much, or if it's a small situation where they are unleashing due to stress/w/e "Asshole alarms" have more to do with how someone behaves around others, how they talk, facial changes, how they react to challenges/pressure/insults. It's not about how many friends they have, if they are "country" or "city",…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 07:45 PM
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Honestly, 5'7-5'8 can be worse if you have the incel mindset. At 5'3", you're basically like "fuck it". You either just accept things, or go totally the opposite and have DGAF charisma. A lot of 5'7-5'8 guys do well in dating because they have other things going for them, but for a certain kind of guy with the hopeless mindset, it's like Sisyphus. You're not short enough to rationally call yourself "an outlier", but you always feel like you're too small. Convenient excuse if you are already in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 07:45 PM
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At least at a strip club, it's a real person putting on act to make a connection with the guy. On OnlyFans, most of the models (100% of the popular, viral ones) outsource their chat to some guy in the Phillippines or India. Many of them don't even have access to the account. They just take pictures/videos and send them to their "manager" who handles all the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 07:40 PM
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I would not date a girl who waited 6 months for sex with her last boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 07:38 PM
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Women are far more likely to be "consensus driven" than men. It's a binary, but it's a trend that reflects a lot of things. Women in "edgy" spaces (outside of far left-wing politics, but even then...that's because of "Eggs") always have their pick of men simply because there's fewer women there. Women in more "consensus" or at least "communal" spaces typically have to compete for men because there's fewer men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 07:37 PM
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It's pretty much roulette. Many girls barely remember what they put on their profile, so "ask about it" doesn't do much
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 07:08 PM
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Youtube likes to nerf Adblock fairly often now. UBlock origin is more reliable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 05:58 PM
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All the women I've talked to complain this is like 90% of openers. "hope u are having a good day, u seem like a great girl i'd love to get to know u better" being relatively high effort and still bland AF. The opener really doesn't matter much IME. If you ask a girl "something about her profile" like people say, she either gets bored because 5 other guys tried that, or she goes on a one-sided rant with nothing to continue the convo. "What's going on" works better because every day is a new possi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 05:51 PM
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You are describing a man. Very few women will have the "fridge" body of no chest/no hips unless they are some sort of strength athlete (and even then, they'll have an ass)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 05:47 PM
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Women are also generally FAR more likely to be open to trying kinky new stuff with a long-term partner vs a hookup Kinks are for girls and gays
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 05:39 PM
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These guys like OP don't understand that it's the exes, especially if they are "on again, off again", who are more likely to be cheating partners than some random fling.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 05:39 PM
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Dating apps are a place to be extremely selective otherwise you’re overwhelmed. Most conversations go nowhere on apps though. So if you're too selective, you aren't overwhelmed, but a lot of disappointment. Better way is to be "normal" picky until you have like 5 matches, see if any of them can actually hold and conversation, and then go back to swiping if/when they fizzle.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 05:35 PM
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The scale from like 7+ really doesn't show much difference tbh, I think that get that part super wrong. There's an obvious difference between the "2" and "4", not so much between "7" and "9". Some of the placements don't really make sense either
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 05:32 PM
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Never been in this situation. Usually the opposite - my partner gets stressed out about dumb shit or screams over something minor, and I have to keep my cool. I would ask why women do this based on my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 06:37 AM
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The left grew lazy, because they really thought poor white guys were always automatically vote for them. So they stopped talking to them. Even worse is that they thought poor black and brown guys would always vote for them because "the right is racist"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 12:42 AM
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They are just as much of a factor. And things like having a "fridge body" or apple fat distribution cannot be changed. They are genetic like height is for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:36 AM
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There's plenty of couples who work well as a team, but favor their spouse over their kids. That's not good either.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:10 AM
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Growing up with parents who love each other more than they love the child is also damaging to children in a different way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:08 AM
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Parents who focus on their own relationship over their kids end up being neglectful of their kids' needs. It's a balance.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:07 AM
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height is not an issue for men as it is for women. that is a huge difference. women dont deal with baldness to the same extent as men Women have other issues like fat distribution, hormonal problems, etc 95% of women can go from average to "hot" on this program. No, they can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:04 AM
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Young men in the US have not become more right-wing than they were 20 or 30 years ago. Young women have become much more left-wing though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:02 AM
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The Democrats had a handsome, young male influencer on their side. Then they cancelled him because for "manipulation" because he was talking to multiple women at the same time. Pretty much sums up the left's struggles with young men. Even before that, the attacks on "Bernie Bros" (despite the fact that IME, most of the diehard Bernie supporters were young women), was very telling.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 12:56 AM
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I think those are more common than substance abuse as a coping mechanism tbh. Even most drinkers don't necessarily turn to the bottle when they are depressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 12:46 AM
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You can get into better shape. You can work on your skincare like women do. You can get a better haircut and style. Hell, you can hop on fin if your hairloss is still early stages. If you're really obsessed, you can get a TRT prescription to improve gym gains (or just find a steroid souce) Women have the same genetic factor as men. Everyone has a ceiling, but working on yourself is how you get there.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 12:42 AM
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It's actually 1269 chats, not just swipes. Either they were all bots, or guy just has zero rizz. If you chat with over 1000 women, more than 1 is gonna go on a date with you,
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 04:11 AM
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Shouldn't matter at 6'4" tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 04:09 AM
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You are deformed ugly or just have negative rizz if you are a 6'4" white guy who can't get laid with OLD.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 03:18 AM
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That's a "goes to the gym but isn't obssessed about routine or diet" body tbh. That's what I assumed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 03:11 AM
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Pork and green bean stir fry with rice.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 03:10 AM
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U curve. Zero jeaously implies that they don't care about, serious jealously is a big red flag for potenial abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 03:08 AM
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Facts, I've always said that the job application process and dating are basically the same thing. The only difference is that in recruiting, hot women will pursue nerdy, ugly men!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 03:07 AM
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Guessing these guys are tall, or at least put 6'2"+ on their profile. A lot of women screw themselves by being picky about height.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 03:05 AM
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What do you consider a "dad bod"?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 03:04 AM
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Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 03:03 AM
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1269 matches leading to 1 date is honestly more insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 03:00 AM
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Women have sphincters too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 02:59 AM
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Femdom literally disgusts me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 07:25 PM
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More women are obese than men though, and bodyfat differences/lifting can actually skew BMI a bit in the "overweight" range vs obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 07:25 PM
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No, they mostly push pills
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 07:24 PM
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Men can friendzone women too, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 03:02 AM
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My answer is "Yes I would marry a woman outside of The West" regardless of how it's defined. I just bring it up because I've seen some truly dumb takes on what is "The West".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 02:59 AM
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. There are cultures really messed up that you won’t want your kids anywhere near. Yes, USA is one
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 12:49 PM
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Learn another language. Not hard these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 05:50 AM
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You will have cultural differences Good. I don't want my children raised in American culture. They would be poisoned with American citizenship at birth (worldwide income tax + bank reporting) but ideally we could solve that before they became adults. You should speak her native language too Not hard if you move abroad.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 04:23 AM
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No because I'd marry a woman from Russia, China, Türkiye (and many others, just examples that are clearly outside of "The West"). I just bring it up because I've recently seen "passport" type guys try to claim countries that are very obviously "Western", like Colombia, as outside of "The West". It seems like more and more slop content creators define "The West" as "settler colonies that speak English". Like would these guys consider Quebec or Jamaica not "The West"? Utter lunacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 04:17 AM
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that are financial traders or entrepreneurs are degenerates like sex workers I mean yes. "Degenerate gambler" is an old, old phrase, and there is a heavy overlap between traders and gamblers. Crypto traders proudly call themselves "degens". "Entrepreneurs" aren't much better. They often have an irrational self confidence even when the odds aren't really in their favor. Do you feel that way about women who are entrepreneurs? Yes. I think all entrepreneurs are scammers and degens. Because they are…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 04:05 AM
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I said it gets exponentially harder for every inch below 5"8", not that it's a hard barrier. 5'8" is basically average. 5'7" is a lot harder. 5'6" is a lot harder than 5'7". 5'5" is extremely difficult. 5'4" and below, not gonna make it unless you passport + you are "hard" and really get down like a local in lower-tier Latin America/Asia. Shorter men get called napoleon's if they have a napoleon complex. Again, research Halo and Devil complex. Shorter men get called "Napoleon complex" for things…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 04:01 AM
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She is out of his league
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:58 AM
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Probably like $200-250k because in my unique circumstances, that would alter how I live my life. Honestly even like 50k, and I'd move up some things I want to do that would likely change the course of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:54 AM
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Do these K-Pop girlies not realize that South Korea has one of the biggest gender divides on the planet, with Korean men being notoriously sexist and misogynists relative to other "developed" nations? Like the "4B" movement started there for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:53 AM
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They're just riffing. Why would he reject a tall queen with a sense of humor? A little bit of teasing from a woman is a better sign than being boring. It goes compliment > light tease >>> joke/question about your profile >> hardcore tease >>>>>>>>>>>>> generic "hey"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:47 AM
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Most of them assume it's not gonna come up + have no options that will care. It's "fast money", no different than guys who are "entrepreneurs" or "traders" for years with no plan other than "get the bag". It's empowering in the sense that they have a niche that they can exploit, and plenty of men can respect that. I wouldn't necessarily avoid a sex worker for dating (though they often have other red flags that are not unique to sex work, just more common in that subgroup)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:44 AM
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What is "Western"? Latin America is part of "The West" by any reasonable definition, as are many of the countries that passport bros used to go 10+ years ago like Poland, Czechia, Croatia, Hungary, etc since they are Western Christian (historically) + part of the EU. And even if you only restrict it to the US, Canada, and Western Europe, by definition like 50% of the women in those countries aren't native English speakers.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:40 AM
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You can speak their language.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:38 AM
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If you're under 5'8"ish, it gets exponentially harder for every inch shorter. And there are 7th graders who are over 6ft tall..... They WILL care if you are overcompensating for what you see as a shortcoming, which many do See the thing is, they project. Shorter men get called "Napoleon's" simply for trying to live their lives, acting far more calm and patient than a 6'2" guy with an attitude. Halo effect is real.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:36 AM
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Use a fetish app
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:35 AM
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Yes, but also FACE and FRAME. Tbh for most guys, if you excel at least 1/3, and you're "decent" (not super deficient) in the other 2, you'll do fine. It's guys who are average or below average at all 3, or very below average in 1+ category (i.e. 5'6" or shorter plus ugly, or 5'10" with an average face and weak frame) who really struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:19 AM
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It is for a subset of women. It's like that meme of "I consent, I consent, I don't"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:16 AM
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Why? Going to prostitues is extremely trad + lindy. They call it the "oldest profession" for a reason (even if that's not strictly true). Some women just don't wanna be kept, and some guys would rather spend money to be with a more attractive woman for a night vs. what they could get with "commitment". There's nothing wrong with wine, women, song, and games of chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:14 AM
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Unless you look below mid Or you're short. Instant DQ for many.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:13 AM
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I still would not as a man, for the reason I outlined. So these events aren't gonna work either.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:11 AM
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Twitter is the big leagues. Lurk and step your game up first
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 03:20 PM
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He's always had a lot of "false" or odd beliefs, largely influenced by his friends on the TV. This is why Pete Hegseth will literally never get fired - Trump knows him from the TV
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 03:18 PM
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It's pretty insane that I am in my early 30s, and 75% of my life, the US has had a President born in 1946.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 03:15 PM
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Less risk on IG
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 03:14 PM
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The "meta" shifts on these things. For a while, speed dating was seen as lame and mostly a sausage fest. Now that dating apps are less popular/seen as cringe, some groups of women have started to organize events in bigger cities. There's quite a few posts on Reddit like "why did no men come to my speed dating event" because men haven't got the "vibe switch" info. The other aspect is that women have no issue making new gal pals at a "dating" event, whereas the guys there are focused on dating, no…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 03:08 PM
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Men are raised with the idea that hitting a romantic partner is a big taboo, and women mostly aren't. Those ideas stick around even if people end up in a same-sex relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 03:03 PM
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Why does moving abroad mean you are "exploiting women in poverty"? Many of them got more money than you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 11:56 PM
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And these issues impact everyone, not just young men. A lot of women are basically being "brain rotted" because they are stuck in some isolated, car dependent area. It's not even "organized" activities. Even stuff like walking around your neighborhood and having small interactions with others makes a huge difference vs. being at home all the time like you are in confinement.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 07:16 PM
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Because women have bad radars, and will slander decent men as "having red flags" over nonsense things.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 07:14 PM
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Why? Are people who move from poor countries to the US to make money "losers"?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 06:29 PM
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What's wrong with being a "passport bro"? I don't like living in America for reasons way beyond "da wimmenz", so it seems like a win/win for me personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 01:53 AM
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If you're from a first world country, you can get your passport.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 01:51 AM
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Pound for pound, they matter a lot. Tall guys can get in shape and be healthy any time they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 01:50 AM
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Oh good, you can get your ass beat for a living and people will still make fun of you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 04:09 PM
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They don't though, pound for pound. "Height, Face, Frame" is the golden law. And in the US/Canada/Northern Europe, HEIGHT is the most important factor. If you're like 5'8"/173cm, other factors might matter, but if you are like under 170cm/5'7", it's kinda over.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 04:29 AM
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It's not even a physical thing sometimes. Yeah, less atrractive women are more likely to approach, but even when an attractive woman does the thought is "what do you want from me/what is wrong with you"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 04:04 AM
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Some of them were, but the "average" is slightly below. A key factor with the girls who were in my league or near it that approached me, is that they often gave me "psycho" vibes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 03:59 AM
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"Beta" and "short" aren't the same thing. Many/most "betabuxx" guys are tall and conventionally attractive. That is about attitude more than physical traits. Short guys are often either total omegas or hardened asshole "alphas".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 03:52 AM
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It's not though. Ugly, fat girls count as -1
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 03:50 AM
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No, it's not. Ask your husband what it's like to be a short man. It's not good. It's basically a minor disability like dyslexia.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 03:49 AM
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No ma'am
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 07:55 PM
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The diaspora in South America is the reason they changed the law because they flooded the system in order to get visa free travel and the ability to move to a developed country. It's not gonna go back to how it was.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 07:53 PM
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Your lawyer blowing smoke up your ass so you don't whine for a refund. It's not gonna happen bro. Italy doesn't want millions of South Americans and guidos from NJ being able to vote in their elections or using the passport to flood the EU or embarass the country abroad as "Italians". You are an American. Deal with it. Source: Happened to me too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 07:52 PM
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Bro, it's more like 2-4 TRILLION in lost GDP when you factor in men who refuse to work or get married due to the shortage.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 07:49 PM
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Arguably more like trillions
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 07:48 PM
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Why though? It's all the risks of sex with none of the benefit. Unless you have a thing for fat girls, never understood the guys who think "a notch is a notch"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 07:45 PM
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See edit
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 07:44 PM
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3 months absolute minimum, if it's a stranger, more like 6+ Edit: Didn't realize this was "sapphic". You bring a Uhaul to the next date in this situation
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 07:41 PM
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Don't go there with crime stats....
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 07:36 PM
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Short men make less money and are less desired as hetero partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 07:34 PM
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It didn't vanish. It's alive and well due to the efforts of French Canadians to make sure it stayed, including making Canada a bilingual country.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 02:39 PM
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Many people who have this prudish attitude are very young and/or they are not American (or come from a very conservative immigrant culture).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 02:38 PM
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Why would you assume that you have to be fat to go on adventures and restaurants?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 02:37 PM
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You come across as a Russian bot sowing social discord in the west By posting shit from India?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 02:35 PM
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"27, time to sell"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 02:32 PM
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You shouldn't give them any sympathy. It's an attempt to draw a false equivalence. More options is always better.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 02:30 PM
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I would encourage women who say dumb shit like this to take a look at the OLD dating profile of a male friend or relative who you think is a "decent" guy. You will be shocked at the relative lack of attention and also how bad most of the women are also at conversations.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 02:29 PM
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they pander to a white audience and it's mostly white ppl that watch them No, they don't. That is my point!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 03:59 AM
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even a very nerdy introverted guy can shoot his shot 50+ shots in one day. And yet, they aren't. What mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 02:26 AM
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Tate is literally Black, and Fuentes is a brown homosexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 02:26 AM
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It's not white guys who are watching Fresh and Fit lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 01:47 AM
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I broadly agree with you, but there are things going on in society that push people in a certain direction (away from relationships).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 01:31 AM
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The biggest Redpill voices are guys like Tate, Sneako, and F&F. All Black......
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 01:30 AM
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you are deluding yourself if you think his primary audience isn't young white men. You are deluding yourself if you think it is. "One in 5 young people in the UK have a positive view of Andrew Tate, percentages higher among minorities" https://www.isdglobal.org/isd-in-the-news/survey-one-in-five-young-people-in-the-uk-view-andrew-tate-in-a-positive-light/ And this is a broad trend across the "manosphere" and "red pill" community as it exists now. It's not a weird online thing for white nerds any…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 12:45 AM
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"This show" is bullshit because Tate's fanbase is far browner and poorer than average. Young white men are not his audience. There's a reason Tate "reverted to Islam". His fans are basically the next generation that "Four Lions" parodied.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 12:27 AM
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The fit birds always show up in spring. Spring and summer lovin' bruv...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 12:24 AM
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How old are you? Are you from a Western country? Have you talked to any older female friends, relatives, etc? Men used to be incredibly thirsty in public 20, 30, 40 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 12:21 AM
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Back in the day before the internet if a man wanted to express interest in a woman he had to do it in person. He had to risk rejection, looking like a fool, and men would do it far less frequently compared to modern day standards. With the advent of the internet. One thirsty guy can bother 50+ 100+ women a day with "hey" "u up?" "hi beautiful 😍" Men used to do this 24/7 before the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 12:20 AM
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Good luck convincing young men with raging hormones to stop doing what comes natural. It's already happened. Young men aren't all morons solely controlled by hormones. People respond to incentives. The message from culture in general is that approaching women can be risky, relationships can be risky (divorce, child support, DV). This is really a personality thing. Some people are simply entitled and believe that "thing will always work out". Other people actually pay attention and understand ris…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 12:16 AM
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I pretty much never text women I am dating. Probably why I can't make a relationship stick.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 12:13 AM
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Not just VPN. Reddit uses device tagging + posting history (i.e. you use a VPN in Japan but post on US times, yeah that's obvious).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 12:11 AM
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They have background detection algos that target alts. Knowing guys of his vintage and personality from other forums, he probably got yeeted on an alt and doesn't realize how the auto-ban works.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 12:10 AM
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They fit?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 12:08 AM
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Hot women are easier to approach, but the mid/less attractive women are much more thirsty if they find you attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 12:07 AM
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Honestly, the Red Pill/Andrew Tate stuff is more common with "normal" seeming guys now. My brother is a total shut-in, never leaves the house, and he is totally the opposite of that. The "video games, internet, anime 24/7" communities are not doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 12:06 AM
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Living paired is cheaper than living single though
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 11:55 PM
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"Looking for an LTR" is historically very weird in itself. Most people historically would just play the field, and then fall in love with someone if they had really good chemistry. LTRs and marriage where something that just happened, not a deliberate goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 11:52 PM
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Bitter men hate attractive women living their lives. It's really not complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 11:50 PM
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The way this woman talks you can tell she is braindead trash She's very obviously not lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 11:49 PM
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Gets to a bigger point. Women's standards aren't too high. They are too arbitrary.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 03:11 PM
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Risky, obviously. Also FWIW, I have some friends who totally whip it in a Toyota Camry. They just also have a bike on the side lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 03:16 AM
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the type of girl looking for someone more financially stable will likely be turned off by a car that's 20+ years old, Many financially stable people own 20+ year old cars because they don't want to waste money on a car payment. It's basically been a meme since the "MIllionaire Next Door" came out in the 1990s that people in BMWs are up to their eyeballs in debt (so called "$30k millionaires") while the people with decent savings and good jobs drive Toyotas.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 07:33 PM
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Bala whatchaar naka TESLA gooja. They "low caste", TESLA filla "High status" chaar.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 07:33 AM
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Then why are you saying New Year's Eve is today? Come on now, Aussie. We are sick of Australians. "After Midnight" on December 30th is not "New Year's Eve", and it isn't even technically December 31 on the West Coast!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 07:30 AM
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Impressed by Central Asia. I know ISLAM approves of cousin marriage and Catholicism does not.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 07:29 AM
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Walk more. Eat less.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 07:27 AM
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It means fuck off If you aren't American.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 07:27 AM
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Most Russian women are above average in the US, even the ethnics from wherever. The girls from Moscow are literal models, and even the Western regions are usually smokeshows.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 07:21 AM
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Grim
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 07:19 AM
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Accurate, and she thinks she's this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AOvCyD9bbDM
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 07:12 AM
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5lbs over the holidays is very normal. Half of that is water weight/eating BIG. You just adjust by eating a bit less over the Winter.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 07:08 AM
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Kazakhstan has a lower inbreeding percentage than Western Europe Citation needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 07:06 AM
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🤩
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 07:05 AM
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Don't be sedentary.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 07:04 AM
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New Year's Eve is tomorrow. Aussie RAUS!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 07:03 AM
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Veeja kaise praapt VISA
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 06:57 AM
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The 2 friends of mine who fucked the most women drove a 2008 Corolla and a 2010 Nissan. It depends on your scene. The circles I roll with, a Tesla would definitely be a negative. A new BMW would probably be a shit test.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 06:33 AM
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Smoke cigarettes, hang out at shady bars, and do drugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 06:31 AM
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It’s hard to find men who just exist shorter than 5’5. Clearly you don't know Latino men, or white men on the East Coast.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 06:27 AM
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Soupy is literally a neckbeard lame who doesn't drink/party, so he married up tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 06:25 AM
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They're both trailer park 9s.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 06:22 AM
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They are looks matched. He is an attractive guy, and she is an attractive woman. And they both look "lower class". He's got a gaudy chain, so I'm sure he is "aggressive". So this is not surprising at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 06:21 AM
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as practice for my attempt to go to a bar for new years eve. New Years Eve is literally amateur hour. One of the worst nights of the year to try to "get laid" next to St Patrick's Day. All of the turbo normies go out and make a fool of themselves and be stupid. Bar staff are on super-edge dealing with them and have zero tolerance unless you're a true blue regular or a friend of their's. You're better off on a random Thursday at a place where you are a known quantity. Also, go to a dive bar, espe…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 06:17 AM
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They are 8+ because they are a niche successful band.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 06:12 AM
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There are many parallels between dating and the job market.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 06:11 AM
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I'm spacey all the time. I get cranky when I'm hungry. I mostly just shutdown when I'm tired. I guess that's loopy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 05:53 AM
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If that's average I'm a 7.5 minimum.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 05:51 AM
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Males are not attracted to money or status. I am. You're not going to turn us on by making more $. It's not part of our evaluation matrix. Yes I am, and yes it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 05:49 AM
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The General tried to make her mains, and it didn't work. She for the road.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 05:48 AM
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Less than zero. Owning a flashy BMW M3 is actually probably a negative for the type of women I typically date (they'll assume you're an insecure douchebag unless you charmed them beforehand). It literally only matters that you own a car, and even then, if you're a super dedicated bicycle bro who's in good shape because you bike/walk/transit everywhere and "rebel" against the idea that you need a car, that can be a bonus for some women. Most women want a guy who's self-reliant and isn't asking th…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 05:45 AM
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There's a lot of pressure for men to be in romantic relationships that women cast aside. Men get the same amount of pressure from parents, relatives, family friends, etc. to "settle down" and be in a relationship. Also, men who are single past a certain age are seen as literally dangerous by society in a way that older single women are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 05:42 AM
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It's not the cold. It's the constant grey skies and short days.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 04:40 AM
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It's selection bias to some extent. People who really want a partner usually find one by a certain age. Those who don't are on average more likely to be the type who don't really want one.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 04:39 AM
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Is everyone on here Melinated?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 04:37 AM
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Yeah, I like colored hair and nose rings as well, but I grew up in that "alt" scene. IMO a lot of guys online hate it because they live in some rural/suburban shithole where the only women with died hair and nose rings are fat weirdo chicks, not hotties who to go raves or basement concerts.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 04:34 AM
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American metro areas are much more spread out and quasi-rural than UK cities.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 10:59 PM
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I'd argue 22 since that's the age most people finish college (and people who don't go to college are stupid/low impulse and tend to fuck way younger than that anyway). If you can't some sort of sexual/romantic experience by the time you finish college, you're in the "delayed" category.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 05:06 AM
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Average is meaningless. What is considered "average" depends a lot on where you live, your age, your race, your general "scene". And how easy it is to have casual sex also depends on these factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 05:04 AM
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Doesn't exist, pointless question.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 05:02 AM
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I define a "small town" as any metro under 2 million fwiw. The 2-5 million people metros are pretty sus as well, especially if they aren't on the coast.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 04:36 AM
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Say you live in a rural shithole without saying it lmfao. they're on the side that doesn't hate men These liberal/leftists women are the first ones to talk about how they want "zaddy", have feminine hobbies (baking, fashion, being 'demure'), are totally submissive, fuck men who have a mattress on the floor.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 04:35 AM
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Nobody shaves their head anymore. Septum piercings and tattoos are hot af.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 04:32 AM
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Small town America I’ll give the edge to liberal women, Not true. Liberals in small towns are usually the blue haired goblins that people talk about. Hot liberals move to big cities.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 04:26 AM
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It's not true in reality. Maybe it was true 10 years ago, and there's a lot of shysters repeating stale memes to get engagement bucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 04:25 AM
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Politics does not matter. There's far more other factors here based on personal preference since liberal vs conservative has a big demographic component in the US. The women I personally like (white, college educated, on the "alternative" side) tend to skew liberal or left-wing, but some of them have various weird beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 04:24 AM
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A lot of men in their 20s lift weights or have active jobs that build some amount of muscle.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 04:21 AM
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Most homeless are down on their luck, but they are usually invisible. The people you see on the street causing problems are a minority who make themselves seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 04:10 AM
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What has happened is that LGBTQ has become the new emo kid. LOL, emo kids were considered queer back in the day too. "Our dudes look like chicks and our chicks look like dykes. Cause emo is one step below transvestite" "But, I mean it's the 2000's. Can't two…or 4 dudes make out with each other without being gay" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZmxFyf-PAV4
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 04:05 AM
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She used to be the General's mains. Must be taking the break up from the python hard, trust.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 04:02 AM
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That's the average for men all of all ages. 20 year olds are slightly taller and thinner on average. Average for a guy in his early 20s is more like 5'10" and 185ish.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 04:00 AM
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Women get their back blown out by losers alll the time. You have to adapt
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 09:32 AM
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No, it's simpler than that. Men usually earn more and are less likely to get custody unless they fight. It's "cheaper to keep her"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 07:52 AM
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It's cheaper to keep her.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 07:50 AM
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You seem confident that you will be in the 80th percentile and will be able to get a partner. You have percentiles wrong. It would be "20th percentile", i.e. "top 80%", which 80% of people are.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:41 PM
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OnlyFans girls already outsource their "fan interaction" DMs to guys in India and the Phillippines on Fiver anyway. Switching to AI won't change much
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:40 PM
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This statement was coined by women who were likely smash & passed No, IME, it's guys who have a history of bad intentions who say this. Then they project their own attitude/belief onto other men. "They say the coolest playas and foulest heart breakers in the world. God gets us back, he makes us have precious little girls."
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 05:29 AM
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Rich people buy expensive clothes, just not the flashy mid market stuff like Gucci. And this is a very American, east coast thing. In other countries, it's baller mode
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 03:08 AM
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In reality, "old money" rich men tend to marry within their group/class and tend to be very stingy with their money, often frowning upon overspending on luxury brands and constant vacations that aren't business/job related. That's an East Coast WASP thing, not an old money thing. And wealthy people usually have hired help
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 02:22 AM
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2-3 tines a month is pretty reasonable. Especially remeber that a lot of couples are older and libido drops with age
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 02:19 AM
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Most Americans live in suburbs though. I'd bet that the number of people in hookup culture is higher than 10% in major cities.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 02:11 AM
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I think some of this is selection bias tbh. Guys who "passport bro" usually go to large cities that are known for party scenes, good nightlife, sexually open cultures. Obviously you're gonna have an easier time in Bogota or Medillin or Buenos Aires than day suburban Dallas or St Louis. A more fair comparison is NYC or LA to BA.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 02:07 AM
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A lot of people cannot.afford a mortgage or rent without 2 incomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 01:59 AM
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So are you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 05:29 AM
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Women date down, and men date up, if the man is attractive. Online dating and social media don't really matter in the grand scheme of things. The biggest factor is "getting in where you fit in", followed by having rizz + "closing ability".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 04:51 AM
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Super liberal women who post a lot on social media think that centrist or apolitical men are "closet conservatives". That's a big part of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 01:41 AM
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Whatever, my bags are pumping hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 01:39 AM
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It's not though. Maybe have some self reflection here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 11:35 PM
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Democrats were cooked as soon as Biden decided he was gonna run for a 2nd term instead of having a primary tbh. Harris is just not a good candidate, like she didn't even make it to the first primary contest when she ran in 2020.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 10:56 PM
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The final count isn't in yet. Kamala will likely only be ~10 million or so votes behind Biden. And most of the lost votes for Democrats were in "safe blue" states like NY and NJ, not swing states. Turnout in places like Pennsylvania and Georgia was basically the same as 2020, there was just a couple percentage point shift from D->R
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 10:54 PM
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It's not the same people. Young men have always had a lot of nasty trolls among them, and the guy who made "your body, my choice" a meme (Nick Fuentes) is a closeted gay man who didn't even support Trump literally until the day of the election.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 10:53 PM
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Lots of screenshots from Twitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 10:51 PM
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You need to fix your health and/or get your Testosterone levels checked. Just making out should result in an erection, even if you've masturbated somewhat recently.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 10:50 PM
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"Whiskey dick" has always been a thing in hookups since people often have hookups when they are drunk. I think obesity/poor health among men and maybe porn addiction are bigger factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 10:49 PM
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This is obviously fake because: Americans don't say "Uni" Frat bros and Sorority girls lean right wing in general, and were especially right wing this year.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 10:47 PM
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It's a gang based around a soccer team.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 10:45 PM
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Larry David.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:19 PM
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Trump got all the rural blue collar people on his back with xenophobia. Blue collar yeah, but it's not just "rural" though. Trump made big gains in blue collar cities/suburbs around the nation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 01:41 AM
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Yeah. Harris actually gained with college-educated whites, but she lost a ton of ground with Latinos (espeically men, but women as well) and Asians and to a lesser extent Black men as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 01:34 AM
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A certain Senator from Vermont covers all the fucking talking points Dems are worried about with young men/working class people, but they called his fanboys "toxic bros" and railroaded him out of the nomination. They probably won't catch lightning in a bottle like that again for a few decades, nice try though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 01:32 AM
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They absolutely will. I've seen multiple people doing post-mortems "how can Democrats put forward a candidate who is appealing to young men, but shows a positive version of masculinity and is compassionate and cares about social justice". It's like Sis, you HAD one, and he got railroaded twice + you called his supporters asshole "bros" anyway!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 01:29 AM
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Clinton was a rapist too, and Biden has done some very quesionable things with women on camera. It's all just bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 01:25 AM
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40g is difficult to reach in one meal for the avg person if Saar, do NOT redeem the card
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 09:04 AM
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I am an American mutt, like 50% Slavic (Polish-ish), 25% Southern Euro, 25% French-Canadian. But people IRL who are Arabic often think I'm Arabic, and I've met a fair number of Mexicans who look like Spaniards/Middle Eastern
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 08:39 AM
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I am YT, (though people often think I am Arab or part-Latino...), some of us are here too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 08:28 AM
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You hit 100g daily, not in a single meal. Can look like 25g at breakfast, 40g at lunch, 35g at dinner, varies, you know? Eggs and dairy are big sources of protein as well. Plus, you don't need to be obsessive about this shit. Going to the gym and being "reasonable" are far more important than your day-to-day macros if you want to "look good" and aren't trying to compete.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 08:23 AM
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Is everyone on here Black/Brown?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 08:20 AM
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"Hookup culture" has existed forever bro. What country are your parents from? Were you raised in some Protestant cult?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 08:17 AM
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I live and have only have ever lived/will ever live (if I'm in the US) in states where abortion is protected by State law. I literally don't give a shit about what happens in Texas or Alabama or whatever. They still arrest people for smoking weed, that's a nah from me, might as well be Uzbekistan. But I have the burden of a US passport, so I want to make sure that they don't fuck with my crypto and foreign riches.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 08:10 AM
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you should be worried about out them dying from an unplanned or planned pregnancy that goes wrong while they can’t get abortion and doctors are waiting to long to terminate due to anti-abortions laws. Just recently a woman died in Texas. I'm more concerned about hack "doctors" making a political statement tbh. I'm 100% pro abortion myself (up to birth, put them kids on a rock if you don't want them), but it makes my blood boil when these doctors refuse to perform necessary medical care to make s…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 08:05 AM
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Lots of women do be loving a "project". TBH I have had more women interested in me at my lowest points vs my highest.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 07:59 AM
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Seriously, 90s were probably the peak of "movies"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 07:58 AM
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I don't understand how he "can't afford the medication". Basic blood pressure medication costs like $10/month in the USA. It's rare to have hypertension that young if she is truly a "normal weight", but in general it's a pretty common thing and the medicine isn't exactly exotic or rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 07:52 AM
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How the fuck are you 23 years old and have high blood pressure? And further more, basic medicine for high blood pressure literally costs like $10 a month at Walmart, this isn't an exotic condition. These people are fat + broke.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 07:50 AM
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"Protein" is overrated by a lot of people. You only need like 1g/kg bodyweight plus a little extra unless you're juicy. Average guy who targets 75-90kg BW, 100-125 grams a day is sufficient, and you'll probably hit that with 1 decent meal + 2 "do whatever"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 07:46 AM
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Be hot and/or "reckless". The rest is up to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 11:14 PM
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Champagne is a meme tbh. Just get whatever your local liquor store (a decent one, not the corner spot) has in stock.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 10:34 PM
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It's 50% a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 10:30 PM
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Overcoming mental blocks/societal pressure is the hardest part IME. I had girls madly thirsting for me when I was young, and I blew them off because "it's work" or "mom will ground me". Women are actually thirsty as hell, but men are taught to be just as wary for various reasons. Female standards are actually incredibly low, it's more about being in the right place and acting the right way.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 10:03 PM
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Bottom 30% don't even get "friendzone". Women don't even want to talk to them in case they try to orbit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 04:28 AM
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Like 30-40% of the people who post here as regulars are black, easily 50+% of the Americans.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 04:24 AM
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Midwest 6
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 04:22 AM
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It's wild to me that these tropes are still talked about (both Entourage and Sex and the City) in places like this when they are literally 20+ years old at this point. Like I am an old fogey at 30, and I was in grade school when these shows premiered, the cast are basically my parents/aunts/uncles age. "Vanderpump Rules" (Jaxx is the prototypical 'alpha' male) and the 90 Day Fiance series should be discussed way more than this Xer bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 04:13 AM
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Shows like Entourage Entourage was definitely "interesting" for men slightly younger than the Sex and the City generation, but often as voyeuristic thing, not how they actually lived their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 04:10 AM
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How old are you? I'm 30 and most men my age have never heard of Sex and the City, let alone Zoomers. The women on SatC are literally the same age as my parents/aunts, and I was already in school when Sex and the City was on the air. Also just speaking in general - SatC is the "unrealistic" because the dating culture in large cities, especially NYC, is extremely different from most of the USA.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 04:06 AM
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My experience - the "tiers" vary a lot depending on Location Location Location Your "game" and how you can talk to people, meet people, socialize Your HEIGHT, FACE, and FRAME overall ............. How much money you have. A huge part of getting women is simply "shots on goal", i.e., are you in the right spot to meet women, and then secondarily, can you talk to them (and can you chat with people in general and build a "connection" that opens doors) and then seal the deal. The more attractive you …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 04:02 AM
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No, it was not in Western countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 09:03 PM
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Drug abuse absolutely was worse. Crime was far higher Mental illness often went undiagnosed, and the number of crazy people on the street was even higher than today.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:23 AM
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All of those things except obesity were worse 40 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 11:50 PM
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Various people I've read on Twitter. Not true, IME Gen Z is not any taller or shorter on average than Millennials
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 11:54 PM
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Facts don't care about feelings. Also there's other reasons why Poland potentially has "better" maternal healthcare than other countries (fewer "high risk" births, for one)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 11:53 PM
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Pressing X to doubt rn.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 11:39 PM
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I'm not a pro-lifer, and I don't live anywhere near states that ban abortion. No desire to either. They can do them, I'll do me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 11:39 PM
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It is. The maternal mortality rate in Poland is 1/10th that of the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 11:38 PM
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Covid was still a massive issue in 2022, almost 250k died of Covid on 2022. Andtheres also the general impact that it has on the "healthcare system" between strain + people quitting due to the stress.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 11:33 PM
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Of course, when something disproves a talking point, it's lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 11:31 PM
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Misandry is hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 11:30 PM
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Skill issue. Leave flyover country and you'll see the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 11:30 PM
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I keep reading on Twitter that Zoomers/younger kids are all "massively tall". Is that true in your experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 11:28 PM
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Simple search https://www.texastribune.org/2024/09/18/maternal-mortality-2020-2021/ Also note that Roe was not overturned until summer 2022, and the drastic increase happened before 2022. So it's clearly a different issue with the healthcare system. Reminder that a majority of Americans live in a state where abortion is allowed by State law, often "constitutionally mandated" (and a couple large states like AZ and FL will join them this November). I feel for people in Red States, but ultimately, …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 11:03 PM
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Why would it be any different? Poland has the same abortion ban as Texas.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 11:00 PM
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Doctors are refusing to perform medically necessary, and therefore legal, abortions as a political statement instead of doing their job.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:39 PM
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In Texas it did between 2019 and 2022. Adjusted for a certain public health crisis, it did not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:39 PM
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Poland has a total abortion ban, and the maternal mortality rate is significantly lower than the US's. So there's something else rotten in the US healthcare system.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:37 PM
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That sounds like doctors violating their Hippocratic oath to prove a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:28 PM
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Where has there been a drastic uptick? Also, do you think there may have been a general crisis in the healthcare system in the "last few years" unrelated to abortion?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:27 PM
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Social media and dating apps are not the issue. It has more to due with general social alienation in the US, which predates social media and dating apps (bad urban planning, puritanical culture)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:17 PM
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Yea because dysfunctional men are more likely to end up serving long sentences in jail
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:13 PM
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The most radical, men hating feminists I've met have usually been pretty "typical" looking (maybe they have certain haircut IYKYK). The stereotypical blue hair, septum piercing women I've met many have been feminists, but they didn't hate men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:08 PM
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Local Brazilian spots are better, but not everyone has those.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:06 PM
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"Antisocial" means "Antisocial personality disorder" in this case. Clinically "antisocial" means "behaves in a way that is harmful to society", not "is against social interaction". And a lot of ASPD people are ugly and a lot of schizoids are handsome. Also, Schizoids by definition are not seeking relationships and tend to be asexual. So they are not raging online about a lack of a partner because it's a symptom of the disorder that they tend to not want one in the first place. Weird people onlin…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 09:53 PM
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Right now is basically the peak for color, though Summer is nice as well on the coast. If you want to see leaves, I'd recommend getting a car so you can drive around a bit since the exact timing can vary depending on location.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 09:49 PM
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Nah there's certain details that are the difference between a friendly guy, and a guy who fucks. One is what Good Looking Loser called "killer instinct". That's basically the ability to go from flirting/joking around with someone to kissing them and bringing them back to your place. Being attractive, talking to people, having a good time, are "101 level stuff" in terms of dating people. The real advice is in the details on how to turn a flirty encounter into an actual hookup or date. But that's …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 09:43 PM
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Antisocial men tend to have the most success though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 09:39 PM
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People having kids at 21 was an unmitigated disaster for society. The generation that got married at 19 and started popping out kids at 20 also had incredibly high divorce rates, lots of "latch key kids", etc. The norm for most of history was that people typically got married more like their mid-20s, when they were a bit more mature and established. Even then, there was a lot of marital problems (men drinking up the whole paycheck, neglected mothers taking their frustrations out on their kids, e…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 09:37 PM
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It's naive to think the other way
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 11:50 PM
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I do. It's reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 01:28 PM
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It's not that big of a deal. Cry harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 01:27 PM
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You can't stay at my crib, pick your panties up Oh, you mad? Well, ha-ha, ho, you let me fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 06:04 AM
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Yuuuup
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 06:00 AM
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"Safe men" are statistically more dangerous. The vast majority of victims knew their assailant beforehand.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 05:58 AM
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No, they aren't. Most of them are gentlemen. "Feminist" men are far more likely to be predators than frat bros tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 05:58 AM
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Male feminist "allies" and commie "comrades" are notorious for being sex pests and deviants. The frat bros, the "weird neckbeards" and the "dudes" are ironically far more respectful when push comes to shove even if they say politically incorrect things.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 03:40 AM
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Violence rates for men are also mostly between men, but interracial violence is also biased a certain way just like intergender violence is (and it's not "the oppressor" doing more of the the violence, it's the "oppressed")
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 03:37 AM
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A random man is statistically safer than a man than a woman knows though. So it really doesn't. Your boyfriend/husband/"good friend" is far more dangerous than some random guy who approaches you at a bar or swipes right on a dating app.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 03:35 AM
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Poodles and other small dogs like Chihuahuas are honestly more vicious in general than big dogs, even the scary ones like pitbulls. The difference is that pitbulls can cause a lot more damage if they happen to lash out. Metaphor here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 03:32 AM
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I'm a small man who only drives small cars. Big men and big trucks both inspire a "I can take them down immediately feeling". I guess that's what testosterone does.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 03:29 AM
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So go back to your home country.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 03:26 AM
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Attractive women can be insecure and/or "open" to different guys tbh. Oftentimes the hottest women are the most graceful and open minded.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 03:24 AM
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In the US, 37 BMI is fairly common. 13% of women age 20-39 in the US have a BMI over 40 ("severe obesity"). So 37+ BMI is more common than having a Master's degree or higher education
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 03:18 AM
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I would not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 03:14 AM
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If you read the actual book, "Bears" are the people who fall between "morning" and "evening", which is a slight majority of people. "Dolphins" are basically just people who are neurotic and struggle to sleep in general
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 03:05 AM
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Yeah then you're a Lion for sure, zero percent "Wolf". "Wolfs"/"evening types" are rough at 9am and generally pretty solid, if not wired up at 9pm.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 03:02 AM
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Driving is a necessity, not a privilege in the US. That's why even when people get their license revoked after a DUI, there's still often exceptions to drive to work, or a curfew where they can still get groceries, go to medical appointments, etc during the day. Plus it's arbitrary since some people get DUIs at checkpoints even if they didn't do anything wrong on the road. Grow up. "DUI" without injury is basically the same as shoplifting. Should shoplifters be banished from life?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 02:57 AM
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That's rough to have a your age man, glad to hear you're healing well. My grandpa is 25ish years older than you, and related procedure (not that exact one, but an ablation) for AF fucked him up + still didn't quite fix him
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 02:37 AM
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DUI is not a big deal if no one gets hurt. The legal limit is way too low tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 02:20 AM
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If they did they wouldn't complain about dating so much. It's so much easier to meet people when you live in a big city, and the quality of people who are single is generally higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 02:20 AM
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That's Reddit for you. If you use Tinder in big cities, you'll inevitably see a lot of pretty average to above average women who are poly/mention "ethical non monogamy". It's common enough that there's also a lot of women who put in their profile "No Poly!".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 02:19 AM
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This quiz is better. The animal chronotypes are schlock science based on a lot of stereotypes. https://cet.org/wp-content/uploads/2017/11/Morningness-Eveningness-Self-assessment-from-cet.org_.pdf
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 02:09 AM
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Basically an "intermediate" chronotype. Chronotypes are broadly classified as "Morning" (Lion), "Evening" (Wolf), and "Intermediate" (Bear). Bruess adds a fourth type - Dolphin - for people who have trouble sleeping in general. The "animal" chronotypes are pop science that's based on a lot of stereotypes, so it's not super accurate. The "Morning-Eveningness Questionnaire" is better since it's based only on behavior, not stereotypes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 02:09 AM
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A stereotypical "Wolf" aka "Night Owl" thinks 11pm is a very early bed time., so you're probably a morning person. Though people can force themselves to adapt. The real difference between "morning" and "evening" types is more like "are you more awake/alert at 9am or 9pm". Or "what time of day do you feel your best"?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 02:05 AM
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Any woman that you're attracted to tbh. You never know what her type is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 02:00 AM
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There's nothing "cut throat" about dating in a big city though. It's all about "shots on goal". The only way it's better in a city of 150k is if it's a college town and you're college age (and even then, ehhh)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 04:10 PM
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Yes, it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:22 AM
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That's simply impossible by shear numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:22 AM
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The FBI actively "monitors" (i.e. tries to groom people) so called "inc*l" and "extreme misogynist" forums on the internet. Aren’t there more dangerous corners on the internet than a sub with virgin men being sad they can’t get laid? No, they actively want to push people in these circles to do, you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:21 AM
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When I used to get really high all the time, I would be paranoid that my teeth were rotting out of skull and obessively trace over them with my tongue. Full blown psychosis is when you can't distinguish reality from your fantasy for a long period of time. Paranoia is common side effect from weed, like saying stupid shit when you drink. Full blown psychosis is when you sober up and still can't get in touch with reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:19 AM
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Then you should be swimming matches in any decent size city. Your problem is either living in the middle of nowhere, or having a repulsive bio (and you can fix the bio with ChatGPT). DM me your bio, but I'm guessing the problem is simply your location.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 06:31 AM
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Flimsy_Incident3226 is a Fed account if people aren't aware. Mods, please be aware.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 06:29 AM
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my city has a little over 200k Yep, that's the problem. Travel and you won't have any issue. Honestly, you need to move. Spend $15 on a week of Tinder Gold and travel to a major city, update your bio saying that you're gonna move there. At 5'10" and your pics, you will slay if your bio isn't toxic af. I’m 5’10” in an average height city of 6’1”. 6'1" is not average anywhere outside of the Netherlands (and Dutch birds are freaky). If you're in the US, no, the average height is not 6'1" in your ci…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 06:14 AM
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Neo liberals are the kind of the people who said even before the ILA strike happened "Joe Biden needs to crush these workers and tell them to fuck off". If you're on Twitter, you've seen them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 05:32 AM
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Laughter is more effective than staring.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 05:31 AM
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Fuck you. Edit: Lol, you deleted the thirst traps immediately. Queen, I like tall women. You are a demon.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 05:27 AM
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It means I will get banned if I say what I want to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 05:26 AM
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Not really. There's more women who will consider a chubby guy who's 6' tall vs a guy who has a perfect body and is 5'7".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 05:25 AM
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I'm about to Fed Post.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 05:23 AM
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If you're white and you live in a sundown town, you don't get any matches either. There's just no fucking people there! These places are the middle of nowhere, the general "pool" is much smaller. And being a "swarthy white" can be just as bad as being non-white tbh. They like BIG LAD ~cuntry~ boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 05:03 AM
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It's 100% a factor because a lot of women will set filters or automatically swipe left if a guy is below a certain height, even if he has a V shaped body, broad shoulders, nice hair, manly looking face, and defined arms. A lot of the men who complain on PPD have all these things, but they are 5'7" and [video game voice] ELIMINATED.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 05:01 AM
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You're short. That's the biggest issue, not your ethnicity or your looks. You're obviously in great shape, have great pictures, and are not ugly. Remove your height from your profile, and post your bio for review anonymously on another subreddit for review just to get some perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 04:55 AM
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His pics seem pretty good to me overall. Bio must be awful or blank, or he lives in the middle of fucking nowhere. Or he's just freaking out over ugly women liking his profile, like no shit, that's just how it goes. A lot of your "likes", people who swiped right before you saw them, are gonna be unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 04:51 AM
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Nah, it can make a difference. You're a solidly above average guy. If you're short, I would just take your height off your profile. I would also probably remove the shirtless picture in the white shorts since it seems too "vain" (you already have shirtless pics that are "active", you don't need to pose like that). Is your bio actively bad or blank? You could probably make a decent bio with ChatGPT if you can't think of anything. Oftentimes, being kinda inoffensive is best if you already have a d…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 04:48 AM
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You're not ugly though. Are you short? Are you in a rural area or a small city? Are you trying to "swirl" exclusively?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 04:46 AM
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Asking my male friends to take pictures just feels so fucking tacky though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 04:38 AM
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It's not even ratio sometimes. Sometimes it's just sheer numbers. Dating in NYC or Boston is definitely easier for men than San Francisco or Seattle, but even San Francisco or Seattle are far, far easier than some random town that only has 250,000 people in a 50 mile radius. Plus, there's other factors that come into play based on local "vibe", demographics, etc. Some guys will absolutely slay in a place like LA and only do "OK" in DC, and vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 04:37 AM
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What unstated part of your advice am I missing? How tall are you? Objectively, how attractive is your face? What {removed due to PPD policy} are you (you know what I'm saying)? Most importantly - are in you in a city, or the middle of nowhere?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 04:34 AM
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take your shirt off of you can pull it off (I’m not buff, but it works great) You have to be careful tho. I had a tasteful shirtless pic that should have been a big "win" (building furniture and it was hot), and Bumble forced me to take it down.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 04:33 AM
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First off, you have to live in a major city You have to live in a major city for "dating" apps to work as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 04:31 AM
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Just looking for hookups or casual Many relationships start off as hookups or casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 04:31 AM
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but a dude wearing a well-fitting shirt with defined forearms and a good smile is going to have much more success. Is that true if it's a mirror selfie though? Women greatly prefer candid photos to selfies too, in my experience. That's the real issue. Men understand that shirtless photos are trashy, but men don't typically take as many candid photos as women do. Every single "candid" photo that I have available (other than 1 kinda iffy one I took in the gym) was taken by a female friend, or by f…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 04:25 AM
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Joint activities - no way. Worse than apps. Bars and parties - only once you put in the work and get invited to the parties and become a regular know feature at the right kind of bar (i.e. "social proof")
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 04:22 AM
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Men don't take pictures of themselves when they're out with friends. That's a huge part of it. Plus, there's simply a bad ratio for men on dating apps. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 04:21 AM
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You grew up upper middle class or better then. In poorer areas, 16 is late.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 04:14 AM
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US, same thing. One of my aunts has been an OB/GYN nurse at an inner city, "rough" area hospital for 30 years. She regularly has had patients who are 14 or 15 and pregnant. Teen pregnancy in general has decreased by a lot in the US, but she still sees them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 04:13 AM
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US: 18 seems young based on my personal experience, but I know that Zoomers are a bit more "behind the curve" compared to Milennials, let alone what Gen X and Boomers were doing. Girls having babies at 16, 17 wasn't unusual when I was growing up (I'm early 30s), especially in poorer areas. Some people were having sex as early as 13 or 14 among my peers, 17-18ish was the "norm", 20-21 was definitely "late bloomer" territory, so the average was probably closer to about 17.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 04:12 AM
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I'm his first girlfriend, and he didn't have much luck in the romance department before I came along. But was he a virgin? There's a big difference between guys who are withdrawn and can occasionally snag a hookup vs the guys who post here that can't even get that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 03:59 AM
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Putting 10 bands on Red can change a guy's life too, but it also can backfire in a big way.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 03:58 AM
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four ex-husbands Bait used to be more subtle
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 03:17 PM
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Competition is useless stress.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 03:05 PM
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I am 100% serious. Lock em up. Women who use SSRIs should be banned from public life in general
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 03:05 PM
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80% of men should be sent to a labor camp far away from society, with the expectation that many of them won't return. So us high IQ Chads will have our pick of the women. It's that simple. I hate men, send them away so that I can charm women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 05:37 AM
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The problem is white knights who will ruin a man's life because a woman is mentally ill and reacts negatively to a man who talks to her. Put more women in jail for antisocial behavior. Ban problematic women from clubs and lock them up. If we simply crack down on mentally ill women (and throw them in jail, for. looong time and permanently ban them from bars/clubs/apps), solves a lot of problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 05:33 AM
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Yeah you're cooked bro. Women with gay friends act extra (i.e. very promiscuous) in general. On a "joint bachelor party", yeah, she fucked another guy. Delete and block her number. "Girls are like buses, miss one next 15 one coming". She was a "jump off". If a girl is seriously interested in you, she would have invited you on the trip or not gone. Just move on to the next girl. If you won before, you'll win again.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 05:27 AM
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Problem because no one wants to get doxxed to watch porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 04:14 AM
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Yay!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:51 AM
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Higher testosterone means they want to fuck everything in sight.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:49 AM
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There was this incel anime guy on YouTube who used to post "Sorry, I just don't care" as a reply to every single negative comment that he got on his veeedeeos.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:45 AM
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Pump and dump homie. You'll learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:43 AM
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Damn, that list is almost me except I love to cook.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:43 AM
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Nothing to panic about. Delete and block her number.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:41 AM
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It's a gay couple who are having a joint bachelor party? Oh yeah, she's getting railed by some guy she met in a club.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:41 AM
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How is it "torture"? Anyone can look.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:39 AM
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Infidelity literally only matters in the case of false paternity.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:37 AM
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They refuse to be healthy (19-21 BMI).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:36 AM
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Not my problem Definitely not my problem. If you want to pursue your passions and you need a husband to do it, be a better woman that men want to marry Not my problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:36 AM
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when a man does something inappropriate or creepy, how do you suggest we phrase our boundaries or redirection without it coming off as a full rejection? You should be as rude and nasty as possible. The thing men complain about isn't women being hostile when they say something creepy. It's the women who freak out when men say something normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:34 AM
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In the US, circumcision is the norm so most guys don't even think about it until they see people on the internet talking about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:33 AM
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He should have stayed asleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:32 AM
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Fat, have children, don't have elite education, not rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 06:32 AM
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She needs to kneel and say Kamala is brat, so you better VOTE
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 06:31 AM
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Their exchange was not open to US citizens. The people who lost significant amounts of money were often not on the up and up themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 01:40 AM
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This is Caroline describing her ideal man on Tumblr https://np.reddit.com/r/Buttcoin/comments/ytv0dv/tumblr_blog_of_caroline_ellison_exceo_of_alameda/ Also important to remember that everyone involved with this company was yakked out of their mind on various amphetamines the whole time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 01:37 AM
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Zuck is also kinda ugly/average at best as well as coming across as pretty awkward/spe*gy in public (people joked that he was a robot/alien years ago). Priscilla is his match/a bit above his league. Guys don't understand that money isn't like a super cheat code that makes hot women automatically adore you if you have enough. The average 9/10 model would vastly prefer a charismatic, average-to-handsome guy who "only" has like $10 million (and there's plenty of them to go around) vs a billionaire …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 01:29 AM
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My theory is that wealthy men who are in the more image-focused industries (like Hollywood or music) are more likely to prioritize looks over everything else in a partner. People in Hollywood and music are also often good looking themselves, at least when they are young (with the exception of the "producers" like Weinstein). And more importantly, they are surrounded by an industry that is superficial about looks. Guys in "nerdy" industries are more likely to be superficial about "intelligence".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 01:27 AM
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Zuck and his wife are looks matched tbh, and they seem to have a great marriage. Getting rich doesn't automatically mean that you go for a supermodel, it just means you get to pick.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 01:25 AM
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"Expectations" have nothing to do with a woman's quality. How hot she, how interesting she is, what her family is like, does.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 01:21 AM
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The type of women you like, maybe. A lot of hot girls like twinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 01:20 AM
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Smaller cities do not have "higher quality", unless we have extremely different ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 01:18 AM
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but filter that out and boy does the quality increase rapidly from there. None of them are single past age 23. What planet do you live on?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 01:13 AM
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Delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 01:13 AM
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You are out of your God damned mind. All of the "high quality" women in small towns are married or move away by the time they are 23.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 01:13 AM
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"Girls are like buses, miss one next 15 one coming". "She's not yours, it's just your turn" Basically, you need to dehumanize people a lot more when you date. They are NPCs until they earn your attention via demonstrating consistent interest in you + having traits you enjoy. If they aren't feeling you, onto to the next quest. For instance, when I lived in FL I was quite popular and felt like I fit in a lot better and had pretty good luck overall with women. I come back home and it's just been fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 01:11 AM
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That's largely nonsense. The US pays better because there's lots of VC money floating around to fund startups which trickles down. The smarter startups are actually starting to outsource to places in Europe because they can get the equivalent talent to the US for 30-50% of the price, and fewer time zone/culture barriers than BHARAT.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 01:08 AM
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Nothing else pays well in Europe either. And there's actually a lot of engineers in the cheaper parts of Europe like Poland, Romania, Serbia, who make decent money relative to the cost of living in their country (i.e., like 60k is like the equivalent of 100-120k in the US, and taxes arent as bad).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 01:05 AM
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Saaaar.....
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 12:54 AM
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80% Not even 20% of the population lifts for real, and basically 0% of women can bench 285 (that's like "national champion in the higher weight classes" for women). I would be shocked if mire than 10% of adult men in the US can bench 285.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 12:54 AM
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Doing a 1 rep max is a skill in itself. The calculators are a rough estimate based on people who train primarily for strength. If you mostly do sets of 5-10 and don't regularly do "maxes", you'll probably underperform. 285 and 305 are both big benches unless you're a huge guy and/or train specifically for powerlifting. If you're under 200, 285 is quite good.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 12:52 AM
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She's voting for her. Why does everyone need to bend the knee and bootlick?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 12:49 AM
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Men are shamed much less for being single and playing the field/having multiple partners, I mean it’s a running joke that men have a 2nd family on the other side of town. Women will never be allowed that grace. You know how many females out here got kids by 2,3,4 BDs?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 12:46 AM
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because they are not set back as much as women are when they have a baby. Child support is financially ruinous to men. And women can be sure that the child is there's. Men cannot unless the woman allows a paternity test, and many will strong arm men into getting put on child support even without a test, and the biased family court will support them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 12:44 AM
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This is not always the case. Some women will be absolutely brutal even if a guy just says "hey, how are you doing". Anything from literally going limp/numb like he's not even a person to actually causing a scene like he tried to grope her. It's Schroedinger's crazy girl. Most women don't act like this, but men have no way of knowing which women are nuts like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 12:37 AM
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In the US, general rule is that any group of girls larger than about 3 means that they do not want attention from men. Even if some/most of them are single and open to a guy, general vibe is that it's "girls night" and they don't want their friends running off with a "random" guy. There's always a "queen bee" mother figure who will shut it down... Even if they happen to click with a group of guys, pairing off is discouraged. Girls go in groups of 2-3, or alone, if they really want to be approach…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 12:34 AM
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The consequences of falling into a sink hole are not as bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 12:23 AM
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When I lived in a major city it was a couple a week. I don't anymore though, so I don't use the apps since there's not enough people (I ran out of profiles in line 3 days without premium)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 12:22 AM
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I truthfully don't care at all about body count. They all thots anyway. "It's only your turn" is a mantra men need to be taught in school.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 04:15 AM
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Sure, you can DM. But the number of matches you get is highly dependent on your location as well. I'm definitely not top 20% (height alone means I'm bottom 20%), and I get matches in populated areas, even 1 or 2 in less populated areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 02:38 AM
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Real life is too risky. Could ruin your entire future
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 02:25 AM
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Pot, kettle.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 02:24 AM
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I support neurodiversity.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 06:49 PM
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She looks like she is healthy (19-21 BMI)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 06:45 PM
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Yeah because they have family overseas and/or are recent immigrants
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 06:24 PM
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It's one of those instant tells that someone isn't American. The only time I've ever used it is to text my cousin when he moved overseas for 6 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 06:18 PM
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Americans don't use WhatsApp
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 06:03 PM
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I'm not his father, she can go find the BD. Get that bastard out of here
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:32 PM
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Texts first, invites me to do things
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 03:23 PM
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"Asylum" is a joke in 99% of cases. Send 'em back.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 03:20 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 03:07 PM
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That's because it's a self selecting group - people who leave a fundamentalist society are more likely to be opposed to it. That's like saying in 1925 "wow, Russians are all anti-communists unlike these radical Italians and Jews". No shit, they're exiles Also, Turkey is very westernized for the most part. It's nothing like Salafi Gulf countries
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 03:05 PM
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We're not married then, and I'm getting my name off of the bastard's birth certificate
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 03:02 PM
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Dead bedroom. I can just get escorts/watch porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 03:02 PM
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High value men are rare, so they have to option the cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 03:01 PM
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How is it trolling to say that different abilities are not a bad thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 03:00 PM
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Wow, so you're saying it's bad thing. Internalized ableism.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 01:49 PM
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Oh wow, so having a kid with autism is a bad thing? FOH with this ableism.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 01:45 PM
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Having kids young is very bad for both the children and the parents. Having kids in your late 30s is far better than having kids in your 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 01:45 PM
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Pre-requisite. Why would you be in a long term relationship with someone you are not sexually compatible with? go back to feeling like it's an obligation or pre-requisite It is an obligation. Stay single if you don't want to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 01:41 PM
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She still fucked him
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 01:40 PM
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No, they aren't. Don't give advice if it's terrible. This the equivalent of men telling women that they need to "communicate more" with their loser boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 01:39 PM
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. It has long been acknowledged by people far smarter than us. It's not been true forever. And those people are not smarter than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 01:38 PM
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You're giving advice for women, not men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 05:41 AM
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How hard do you guys think it is for a man to pull his looksmatch? Depends entirely on where a man lives and his social circle. Most guys roughly pair up with their looksmatch, but there's cases where guys can over or under shoot based on gender ratio, social habits.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 05:34 AM
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Yeah, she's S-tier for me as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 05:32 AM
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Men can enjoy life, but enjoying life does not magically get them a girlfriend/wife like it does for women. You are giving generic advice, not advice that gets men laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 05:23 AM
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When men have more money they get to be the man of the house Wrong. A lot of "housewives" absolutely wear the pants in their relationship. It's like hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 05:18 AM
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Ewwww
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 05:13 AM
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I'm saying enjoy life for yourself and you won't be such a mothball who never gets dates. That is not how it works for men!! It's very common for men to enjoy their lives, go out to eat, travel, have hobbies, and simply not meet any women. Women don't want to talk to men like men want to talk to women, unless you go to the right spots and learn the right rules. So go king, tell me all about how I wrong I am while continuing to not have any success. You are not a man. You talk to lots of people w…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 05:12 AM
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Yes, living life that doesn't revolve around chasing pussy is the literal point. You don't understand how it works. It's not about "chasing pussy". A lot of men will literally never even meet a woman to go on a date with if they don't make it a priority. Men are not constantly flooded with options unless they are in certain environments. It's extremely easy for a man to never meet a decent woman, let alone actually know how to talk to her, if he doesn't practice and/or get advice. You're basical…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 05:03 AM
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Additional Q4M: If you were in the husband's place, how would you feel/react? I'd have divorce papers on the table and leave without a word. This is beyond "disrespect".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 05:00 AM
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You should do all of those things if you enjoy them, but they won't get you a woman. That's the point. These are all "nice things to do for life", but living a good life does not get you a girlfriend. Telling men "just enjoy your life and a GF will happen" does not help them. It's Dope with a C.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:56 AM
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I think they should move and/or get better pics if they are failing on them. Apps are still the best bet.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:54 AM
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Don't text her. Don't be a simp. If she's interested, she will text you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:53 AM
2

But where is the female equivalent? Female Dating Strategy is/was the direct equivalent of the "red pill".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:52 AM
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Guys on tren notoriously will fuck anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:51 AM
1

There's a lot of layers going on here. The Boomer/Gen Xer "MAGA" base IRL is largely pro-Israel. The "the nose knows" posters are mostly Zoomer trolls, many of whom are not even American in the first place and cannot vote in our election.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:50 AM
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I'll be polite, but men seem to forget that "No" is a complete sentence. 99% of men understand "No". The problem is that many women go from 0 to 100 and think that they need to get men banned, roughed up, or called "perverts" simply because they said hello to a woman. A lot of women cannot simply say "No" without creating a scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:45 AM
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None of these things help a man find women. This is advice for women who want to find a man. Men need to be proactive because they are expected to make the moves. Suggesting to gain new knowledge for the simple act of enjoying expanding your brain. These guys gain knowledge constantly. They are overflowing with knowledge. Just look at 4chan. Women want to date men who enjoy life Plenty of men enjoy life, and have lives that involve meeting zero potential women to date for years on end. Again, "j…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:39 AM
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It seems like younger single women expect more interim communication & if none happens they think the guy isn’t really that interested Some of them think contact at all is cringey and clingy. It's really a fine line to walk (and the hotter the girl, the less contact she expects IME).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:38 AM
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You don't. I think reasonable (for a period of time, not for life) alimony is very fair when a woman earns significantly less than her husband and/or is a stay at home mother who gives up earning.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:37 AM
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Any man who tells a woman that he is a virgin, deserves to remain a virgin. Just lie casually if it comes up. Plenty of men with high "body counts" are bad at sex. You just have to get it in once, and then it's not a lie anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:31 AM
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Bragging about how you eat pussy is cringe behavior. I guarantee everyone involved in this exchange was well over 2 bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:29 AM
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Straight women don't really go for men who are down to be throat fucked Yet your friend did.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:27 AM
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This is psychotic behavior to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:25 AM
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She chose to a fuck a guy who does that. What does that say about her?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:25 AM
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. Men who handle that with grace seem to be in the minority. Nonsense. The vast majority of men handle rejections with grace. The bigger problem is that women can sometimes get extremely irrational or psychotic if a man approaches them respectfully. Even if he responds respectfully, these women ruin his life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:24 AM
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She had sex with a man who gets throat fucked in a frat house, simply because he had a good FACE and he was TALL enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:23 AM
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I'm not even talking about "asking out", just socializing. But this is good advice in general - you should go out to have a good time, not talk to people. Socializing is secondary.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:19 AM
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Why would you have a legal contract just because you are in love? You realize that your assests are potentially considered "one" in the eyes of the law depending on your state?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:18 AM
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If he's just going for sheer numbers, I can't help with that. I can't think of a single thing that'd work on every woman I know, let alone every woman alive. That's where advice from men who are successful comes in.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:18 AM
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Every other day is waaaaaaay too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:16 AM
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Match her energy. If she texts you, obviously respond and engage. If she doesn't, I would send a single text like "how are you doing" maybe like 2-3 days from now, and go from there. Don't over do it, but if there's a week gap, you should at least check in once.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:16 AM
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Weed is cheaper these days, but alcohol and tobacco cost basically nothing when I was a teenager 10-15ish years ago. A 1.75l of vodka or a 30-rack of cheap beer was like $13-14 when I was in college, pack of cigs was $5.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:11 AM
1

I regret not putting a couple hundred into Bitcoin when I was 19. I'm in my early 30s, and I knew of it back then.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:10 AM
1

Cool kids use the trad method.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:09 AM
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Cigs and crypto are both very fun, and when you're 19, you're young enough that the health effects don't matter. Dabble a little now if you're tempted, just have an exit plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:08 AM
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I get compliments fairly often, and I am a turbo manlet. Not sure what planet these guys live on. Compliments mean nothing when 90% of women have a hard height minimum.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:06 AM
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I'd rather be homeless.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:05 AM
2

She looks and sounds awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:03 AM
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And that gets real obvious with how nasty men get towards women who reject them despite their "hard work." That's because most women can't give tangible advice to men, just like men can't give tangible advice to women. Men want advice that can only come from other men who have been succesful in getting girls. And oftentimes, that advice is either "too naughty to say", or it's something uncomfortably extreme (like "move to a location with better odds" or "go out to bars 3x a week") so they just r…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 03:57 AM
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I think another part of what makes certain dating advices seem so shit, is because there’s many things you can “get away with” that don’t disqualify you, but are not necessarily good for producing even above-average results Some people win when they gamble.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 03:54 AM
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He's a "high test" man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 03:54 AM
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You reap what you sow.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 03:53 AM
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I also am from a city where the alternative music scene is very large and skews college-age Yes, I am talking about a city that also is this way. Just providing some perspective for people who are "taking a leap". It won't always be a win, and going to an "alt venue" doesn't mean that the people are gonna be any different compared to a "normie" or a "bro" venue just because you like the music more.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 03:51 AM
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If they're being an asshole, you don't have to talk to them Depends a lot on the show lol. Sometimes it's a miss and everyone there is an asshole. If you've been there, you know. It's just part of the game. Generally I don't experience this stuff because you don't really spend much time talking to the stuck-up people. Well no. I point is that is they look at you like you're a piece of shit because you even tried to speak to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 03:45 AM
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3 is the only valid advice here.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 03:44 AM
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watch Emily in Paris, She fucks Ch*d from 3 different countries. How does this help men who can't get a woman? It's literally blackpill fuel for the average hopeless guy who posts here. travel alone And do what? learn something in a class for the simple enjoyment of knowledge You realize that 90% of the guys who complain that they can't get a date can "mansplain" for hours about something? Especially the ones with autism (they have a "special interest" almost by definition). take yourself to din…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 03:40 AM
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She picked a horrible guy because he had FACE, HEIGHT, and FRAME.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 03:39 AM
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A significant minority of them think they're serious business and will not talk to someone who isn't in "the scene" (come on now, you must realize that "punk" is incredibly self-absorbed if you've spent any time around these people). Some of them are just kinda autistic themselves and very rude. It's extremely variable in my experience. They might treat you like a leper. They might become instant best buddies and party all night with you. It's just high variability.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 03:36 AM
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Sounds like women don't know how to vet.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 02:56 AM
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"Bar with live music" and "small concert" are almost one and the same by this point Not necessarily. There's some bars that happen to have live music sometimes to mix things up vs. just playing music over the speaker. There's some bars that are primarily concert venues and have shows 5-7 nights a week and are fixtures of a local "scene". The key whether people are going there primarily to go to "a bar" and maybe see a band vs people who are specifically going to see a band, and the venue is a ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 02:48 AM
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If your city has a nice-ish music scene meeting local and smaller bands is a good way to make friends! Only if you look the part. You have a better chance of making a real friend, if you're actually interested in the music, but you're gonna deal with a lot more people who are incredibly rude, cliquey, and have poor social skills as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 02:44 AM
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Every punk/rock/metal/hardcore/whatever show I've been to has like 10-15 breaks between sets where you can go talk to people These are most cliquey people on the planet though. You unironically have a better chance of making friends at a random "bro/basic girl" bar playing generic pop music.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 02:42 AM
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People who complain that they can't find a job are usually limiting themselves to a particular field and/or income. Well yeah, anyone can get a part time job in retail in a week, but that doesn't pay the bills. My husband and I don't mix our finances. I'm not even sure how much he makes. Why the fuck are you married then? This is insane to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 02:40 AM
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And yet she still fucked him. Do you see the point here? She let a gross asshole put his penis in her vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 02:39 AM
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All of those women are top 20% in the United States by default because they are healthy (19-21 BMI). Korean men must have insanely high standards if they reject the other 3. It really shows how bad men have it in the US, and why so many men are getting passports.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 02:34 AM
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Usually accidentally. Either they misjudge the dose (many cases, it's someone who is relapsing and they try to take their old dose even though they don't have the tolerance for it anymore), or they take something like cocaine that is laced with fentanyl due to cross contamination.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 02:32 AM
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Tranq makes people get holes in their skin like the old "Krokodil" did in Russia.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 02:30 AM
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Did the guy brag about loudly in the cafeteria? Sounds like he chose better than your friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 02:28 AM
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Then why even get married at all? The point of marriage is to combine finances. You should have enough saved as a couple anyway that the mortgage and bills can be paid even if one partner gets laid off from their job. Job lay offs are just a fact of life, so really having a mortgage that you can't afford on one spouse's income is just irresponsible in general.. Having separate accounts is insane unless there's some sort of family business/trust fund involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 02:24 AM
1

Conservative vs liberal is highly correlated with who people vote for in elections.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 02:07 AM
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What does that have to do with "women choosing terrible men"?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 02:06 AM
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You have to adjust for age, but it still applies to 20-39 year olds, unlike most cities.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 01:15 AM
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She still let him hit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 01:15 AM
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Conservative gender roles ARE politics They are not. The Republican party is not trying to mandate that men pay for dates and walk on the street side of the sidewalk.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 01:15 AM
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Polls in the Presidential election show a different story. Harris has tended to do better with 65+ than 18-34, Trump is consistently ahead with 35-65 year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 01:14 AM
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Queer shaming is not it, sis.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 11:00 PM
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Wander around a bit - if you catch a snippet of someone else's conversation that interests you then join in. "This weird guy keeps trying to talk to people" Holding a drink in your hand makes it a little less awkward to stand around "This creepy drunk guy keeps scanning the room like a predator" If you feel like dancing then dance "This weird guy is dancing around strangely" Disclaimer: I'm in Europe. I go to raves and clubs to dance - I do not go to bars to sit at the bar and get drunk. The Ame…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 10:22 PM
1

He still hit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 10:17 PM
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If American men love "curves", why are so many getting their passports? Skinny women are disliked in some areas of the US They're disliked by bitter, jealous swamp monsters (30+ BMI) who post self delusional memes like "bones are for dogs, real men like MEAT"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 10:15 PM
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It's official, American women are fatter than men https://imgur.com/a/TKUCXJM
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 09:25 PM
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Right wing men being overrepresented in "fitness culture" does not mean that every single man who goes to the gym is right wing. Plenty of liberal and left wing men lift weights. Journalists are their own strange class of people, they aren't even representative of the typical liberal young woman. Also, you misread those articles. The point of them is that neo-Nazi groups are using fitness culture as a Trojan horse to attract young men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 09:06 PM
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In large blue cities like NYC, women assume that a man who calls himself a "centrist" is a conservative who is lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 09:03 PM
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When you say conservative men are more masculine, did you mean to say they’re old and obese? Young men and old men are the exact same amount of "Conservative". There no significant age gap in politics anymore in the US, except among young women who are far more left wing than their mothers and grandmothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 09:02 PM
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NYC has a high ratio of single young women to single young men. That's why there's "lonely women" in NYC. It has nothing to do with politics or the men being "soy boys". When women in big, blue cities complain about the "lack of masculine men", they don't mean they're all limp-wrested skinny fat weirdos. They mean that they aren't "chivalrous" in the sense of paying for dates, seeking commitment, walking on the street side of the sidewalk, etc. Also a lot of these women have strange triggers aro…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 09:01 PM
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They mean conservative gender roles, not politics. This really shouldn't be surprising. IME, the most outspoken "feminist", "leftist" women are also the biggest girly-girls, into stereotypical feminine things, fetishize being "frail uwu smol beans", submissive, etc. They mean they want a guy who holds the door, isn't poly, takes initiative in the relationship, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 08:55 PM
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Basically she wants a man with a BAPian (Bronze Age Pervert, an extreme rightwing nietzchian movement, for those not terminally online) fascist aesthetic with liberal values. I think you need to log off for a bit. Lifting weights is not a "fascist aesthetic" in the eyes of anyone sane.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 08:51 PM
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That's a delusion that "strong sturdy blue collar" men have. Getting your physique through gym/training for sport (which is really a simulation of war) is far more masculine than toiling in a field.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 08:49 PM
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It's like Bronze Age Pervert having a debate with one of the Chapo Traphouse "men" Felix was a bouncer in college, and he used to do CrossFit and BJJ.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 08:46 PM
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300k is not a small city.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:38 AM
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That doesn't mean that everyone with a bachelor's degree earns more than everyone who doesn't have one. Women are more likely to go into careers that require a degree, but pay less than some careers that don't require a degree (which have more men).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:36 AM
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You're on the internet and can use Google translate. Or at least understand basic grammar in a language you claim to speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:36 AM
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Education does not have 1:1 correlation with earnings or economic value
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 03:42 PM
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Wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 01:29 PM
0

Can't fix height though
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 01:16 PM
3

Well yeah, if you hate me, of course you don't want to date them
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 01:14 PM
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"In fact, you don't normally approach girls, amirite? The truth is that you're a quiet sensitive type, but if I'm prepared to take a chance, I might just get to know the inner you. Witty, adventurous, passionate, loving, loyal... a little bit crazy, a little bit bad, boy, don't us girls just love that"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 05:31 AM
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Facts. The bell curve meme is one of the most important things you need to realize.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 05:26 AM
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None of that shit matters if you live in a location with no single women. People here love to ignore the 3 most important factors in dating: Location, Location, and Location.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 04:47 AM
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He told me, it used to be 24 hours, until it became a hub for tweakers and the homeless to hang out That's bullshit. They rush everyone at midnight because the labor market is tight, and they can't find enough people to work past midnight.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 04:41 AM
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You still fucked it up. Even Google translate does better.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 04:19 AM
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I'm curious, but not sure if any women who post here are healthy (19-21 BMI)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 02:37 AM
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Not my experience meeting women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 02:06 AM
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They don't hire escorts. They are kings of spinning plates and picking up women at clubs, on apps, day game, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 01:14 AM
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Unless his pictures were fake, she knew what he looked like though
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 01:12 AM
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Unmarried couples can't even get a hotel room together in some countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:27 PM
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Lots of them are in sales, which does not attract socially inept men. And tech is not all nerds, lots of "chads" are programmers now because of the money.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:25 PM
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Calling a woman "matronly" is also an underrated compliment.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:24 PM
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"Husband material" is the equivalent of calling a woman "matronly".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:23 PM
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How is being a virgin until marriage enforced by law Sex outside of marriage is illegal in Middle Eastern countries, potentially punishable by death.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:22 PM
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She did him a favor, he didn't have to sit through a dead end date. Also, fellas, don't ever try to date a woman who has "anxiety". EVER.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:19 PM
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Then don't date. Women who act like this need to be put in an asylum.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:19 PM
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Well, these aren't indepedent traits. Men with good jobs and wealth are more likely to fit and attractive. It's really height that messes things up. Height is a hard dealbreaker for women, which means like 20% of men are basically excluded from dating unless they effort-maxxx.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:16 PM
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Those Aba and Preach vids are great tho. Myron is one of my favorite lolcows.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:14 PM
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You realize Saudi citizens are in a uniquely privileged position, right? Compare the oil-backed goodies Saudis get with people in Egypt or Algeria.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:00 PM
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Trump is honest, unlike lyin' Kamala.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 03:59 PM
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100% sincere.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 03:58 PM
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No, it's telling these 3 OH 4s what's up! Every man knows that calling women dumb whores for posting bikini pics, with some Hitler memes in between, is how you get girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 03:57 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 03:56 PM
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Sir, they are the number 1 men's podcast in the world! How can you say that they give bad advice? (I was obviously joking. Ethan Klein from h3h3 productions has done some funny exposes of FnF as well, including an interview with one of the women they had on their show).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 03:56 PM
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Dating in the US is hard for a variety of reasons. Basically any foreign country outside of US/Canada (besides like India or backwaters in the Middle East that don't have expats) seems "easy" for men due to the fact that you can live in a major city for far cheaper than you can in North America.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 03:18 PM
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All those are easy, sign me up. Any man can achieve those if he tries whereas in the West, your fate is determined at birth by your genetic height.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 03:16 PM
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I live in a socially conservative part of the United States. People get married at around 24-25 here. There is no "party scene". Many people are quite religious and go on apps "lookng for a life partner".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 03:15 PM
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Women are bad at giving dating advice because their advice is always skewed by their opinion of you. Women who are your friends have a positive bias towards you, and cannot put themselves in the shoes of other women who view you as disgusting, a "random", a weirdo, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 03:14 PM
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Fresh and Fit are the self proclaimed "number 1 men's podcast in the world". Myron displays his rizz daily on Twitter. Are you telling me they don't give good advice?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 03:13 PM
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The West, obviously. I am from the West, and I think the culture is too repressed already where I live. I would not want to live in a place where being a virgin until marriage is enforced by law.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 03:07 PM
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Compromise and sacrifice has to be made in order to ensure a healthy relationship Nope. Nobody is worth sacrificing your own needs. For instance, I saw a post on AITA where a guy was asking if he was in the wrong for being uncomfortable with his girlfriend wearing a g-string bikini to the beach He is wrong. A man cannot dictate what a woman choses to wear.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 03:06 PM
1

I drive a 9 year old Mazda because I like it. Why waste money on a new car?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 03:04 PM
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I go to BINGO every Thursday, I've met tons of women. Granny game maxxing, respect sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 03:04 PM
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Bro said "on his 20s" to describe a women in her 20s lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 03:03 PM
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That's the average. The top 10-20% of men are running away from the pack.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 03:03 PM
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Often from young women themselves. That trying to find a quality young man is nearly impossible. They're ignoring men who are too short.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 03:03 PM
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This is a good thing though. Your own needs should always come first unless you have biological children.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 09:06 PM
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Why the hell would we date guys that are still interested in clubbing, drugs and consuming insane amounts of alcohol while 'accidentally' cheating I know plenty of guys who were/are doing this in their early 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 09:05 PM
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It's an even smaller handful of young men who have those things (and growing smaller). It's not growing smaller. Working out and fitness is far more popular with young guys than it is with crusty 50 year olds. Just because fewer young men go to college doesn't mean that there's not a significant number of them who did and make good money (25 year old men are more likely to have a degree than 50 year old men anyway). The number of rich, fit, young guys is increasing compared to 20 or 30 years ago…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 09:04 PM
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My point was that the % of young men who can be described by Guy A is even smaller. No, it's not. You vastly underestimate how many young men are absolutely killing it, and overestimate how many old men are in good shape. It's like 10-15% of the young guys vs less than 5% of the 50 year olds. This is "bope" as the Bloods would say by aging Gen Xers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 09:02 PM
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Guy A is still far more common than Guy B. There's a lot of young guys who make good money with online businesses (grey hat or black hat usually, i.e. practically scams) even if they didn't finish college. Plus, the guys who do finish college still have a lot of potential to out earn women. The number of guys in their 40s and 50s who take care of their health is pretty small. Plus, a lot of women will prefer a 25 year old guy with "potential" over an established older guy even both are in good s…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 09:01 PM
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I know 40 year olds in the US who look far better than some women in their mid-20s do in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 08:58 PM
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Nah, there's definitely a sizeable minority of men in their 30s and 40s who hate women their own age, like the OP is talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 08:57 PM
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What hobbies do you have? "Hobbies" is not specific enough - plenty of men have hobbies that don't have any single women involved. "Be social" - yup, if all your friends are gamers, I'm sure that's gonna work out!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 08:56 PM
1

Based on some videos I've seen on Twitter, not much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 08:55 PM
1

They literally cannot put themselves in other people's shoes. In her mind "of course my son is a great young boy, any girl would be happy to get a flower from him", meanwhile, I'm sure he has a few memories of "that weird guy who tried to talk to me ewwwwwww".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 08:50 PM
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Buying a cheap car is not being poor. And I wish used cars were still this cheap in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 08:47 PM
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He sounds like one of those pepole who won't buy a "foreign" car.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 08:47 PM
4

Because they want actual advice that won't lead to a potentially very bad outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 08:45 PM
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If your hobbies are video games and woodworking, your goals are career focused, and you live outside of a major city, this strategy is not gonna get you women. Don't be pigheaded.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 08:44 PM
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My time was spent chasing my goals, getting in the gym, and participating in hobbies/social life. This only works if you live in a place where hobbies/social life involves meeting a lot of single women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 08:43 PM
1

"on his 20s"?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 08:42 PM
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Why are you talking about a 24-25 year old when your original post was a "20 year old secretary"?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 09:49 PM
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Too much attention and investment is a turn off for women though. They like to be given breadcrumbs. That's basically a lot of what the "red pill" was about. Heartiste has a "3 to 2" rule - you only give back about 2/3 of the attention/affection/interest that a woman gives to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 06:49 PM
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Yeah, I'd agree, most guys peak in mid to late 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 06:47 PM
1

Ellen is not attracted to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 06:46 PM
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The 20 yo is busy and stressed out with school and her part time job.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 06:46 PM
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They're lying or they're fat and disgusting. The vast majority of women will not date or marry a man who's 5'7" or shorter, especially if they aren't total landwhales. If you want a woman who's anywhere near a healthy BMI and you aren't a cuckold, odds are very slim if you're shorter than 5'8" in the US unless you're under 25 and find a unicorn with rock bottom self-esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 06:14 AM
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So you're blackpilled then. Happens every damn time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 06:10 AM
1

Well the thing with cold approach is that there's always a chance that you can get REKT on everything interaction. It's like betting a single number on roulette, but if you hit a 0, your entire life gets ruined. Women are mentally ill, and society supports their delusions. Your entire life can be destroyed after a single bad approach. It's not worth it for some PUSSAY.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 06:07 AM
1

Wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 06:04 AM
1

Well it does. Stop lying, femcel.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 06:03 AM
1

Yes, I do. I linked a picture of what he looks like, and I agree with you that that's the body type that women like the most. Are you saying he got fat or something and women prefer that?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 12:53 AM
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I don't believe you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 12:53 AM
1

It's not the same dating a 20 secretary with little responsabilities that dating a 40 yo with a manager position that has to travel to other cities once a week. The 40 year old manager has more time to have fun because she wants to "let her hair down". She'll invite you to go on trips with her if she likes you. The 20 year old is stressed with college as well as her job as well as the general craziness of young people. Again, like I said, part of this is selection bias. The women who are really,…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 12:52 AM
1

One being obese, shooting for guys who looked like Leonardo Dicaprio.. Well, it's different for gay men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 12:51 AM
1

Is that not Chris Hemsworth? I just googled "Chris Hemsworth shirtless" and that's what came up.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 12:51 AM
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Old men are simps, that's how they were raised. I'm a 30 year old Boomer, so not quite that generation. There's a difference between "buying a drink for girl you've never talked to" like the Old Heads do and "offering to buy a round after you've chatted for 20 minutes" though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 12:50 AM
1

They don't do it to women either
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 06:48 PM
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It's a mix of: Old men have more money so buying a drink doesn't phase them as much. $15 means a lot less if you make $150k a year and have $1 mil net worth vs being a broke 23 year old Old men, if they're older than like 40 especially, came from a time when spending money on women was more "the norm", and there wasn't so much hand wringing about "being a simp"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 06:40 PM
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I disagree with the "more fun" part. I think fun and seriousness is largely a personality trait that doesn't change much with age. At 21, most people are still single, so the dating pool consists of both the serious and the not so serious types. By 28, 29, the "serious" types are mostly gone while the "have fun" types make up a larger portion. The idea that women "suddenly turn 30 and start chasing responsible guys/demand commitment" just doesn't happen like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 06:38 PM
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Depends on how young. Most guys are better looking at 25 vs 21. 32 vs 25, not so much, best case is they hold onto their looks/get in even better shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 06:35 PM
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Exactly. Older women who are still single are probably easier to manipulate if anything because the women with decent heads on their shoulders aren't single when they are 35
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 06:34 PM
2

Can doesn't mean "always does". They gotta go.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 06:33 PM
1

Based on his starting look, it was probably 30-40% fat. Typically muscle gain is ~2lbs a month for healthy male beginners
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 06:32 PM
1

They don't do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 06:31 PM
2

Yes, and Hemsworth is closer to the picture on the Left https://www.justjared.com/photo-gallery/4168424/chris-hemsworth-shirtless-elsa-pataky-19/
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 06:30 PM
1

Minority groups think an area is "hostile" simply if there aren't "people who look like them" around. Women do the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 01:18 PM
1

"Do you even lift?". 15 inch arms are not "big"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 01:16 PM
1

They're broke boys or old.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 01:16 PM
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When women think of “big” arms, they’re thinking of the 14-inch arms Cristiano Ronaldo has. When the average man thinks of big arms, he’s thinking of the 15-inch arms Brad Pitt had in Fight Club. 15 inch arms are considered "big"? What kinda DYEL shit is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 01:11 PM
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You can watch "what they do", and the results are the same. You have never been outside if you think women are lining up for the roid-monster huge guys vs the "swimmer's physique" guys or the "lean and athletic" type guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 01:09 PM
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I disagree, it's probably close to even. Whereas the vast majority of women prefer "lean but toned" over "bodybuilder huge and ripped".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 01:08 PM
2

And women generally prefer the "lean with some muscle" look over the "jacked and shredded bodybuilder" look on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 01:07 PM
3

When women say they like a "muscular guy", they mean the guy on the left picture
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 01:05 PM
2

Women would rather be raped by an illegal alien than marry a chud conservative. Surely you understand this?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 01:04 PM
1

Yes it is. He was super skinny to begin with, so the 24lb gain isn't 100% muscle. That's not steroids.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 01:00 PM
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Purple pill men and women who actually think the average single guy is pestering and pursuing women and generally annoying women in public for "a crumb of pussy" The people who say this are all 40+ years old and projecting what it was like 20 years ago. There's nothing you can do to get them to understand what it's like for young, single people today unless they have children in their 20s that they talk to about dating/social life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 12:58 PM
2

Blue and Red pill come from The Matrix (1999), not some moronic US politics.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 12:51 PM
8

Using OLD how difficult is it to send messages to 10 women in a day or two days How many guys do you think get 10 matches every 2 days? If you don't pay for the app, you only get like 10-20 right swipes a day, so that's a 25-50% match rate. Even if you do pay, the odds that you get 5 likes a day from women you actually want to date is pretty low after your first 1-2 weeks on the app (might never happen if you live in a more sparsely populated area or you have a dealbreaker like height or r*ce)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 12:43 PM
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If you don't live in a major city, it's totally possible. I think there's about 1000 total single, childless, age appropriate, decent looking women within a 20-25 mile radius of me (and I don't mean 19-21 BMI). And it's not like you're gonna run into them all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 12:42 PM
4

Only in certain bars and clubs, and these guys are too weird to know which ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 12:40 PM
1

They are not hostile to women. Women falsely assume that any place that's male dominated is "hostile", so they stay away and the cycle repeats.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 12:38 PM
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No, they don't. Only delusional m*ids think that teenage girls are attracted to their crusty post wall, bald asses.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 07:45 PM
5

That's life. You can pretty much tell within 5 minutes if a date is gonna go well or poorly once you've been on a few dates. It should be more normalized to bail early and save people time. There's multiple dates I've been on where I regret not leaving before we even ordered a drink.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 07:43 PM
1

If I'm lucky to have him as a husband, what does that make me? A Pick Me
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 07:33 PM
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Teenage m*ids often sexually harass their female teachers as well though
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 07:31 PM
1

We would say "under fucked", which I guess is basically the same thing, or some euphemism like "cat lady".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 07:16 PM
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My dude, don't be weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 07:14 PM
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You should have lied.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 07:12 PM
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Woah, my dude, who hurt you? This is not a normal one. Don't be weird, ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 07:11 PM
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It does. Even starting at 6 is a bad idea tbh. The top 5% matter far more than the lower 60%. The lower 60% aren't gonna do anything with their education anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 07:07 PM
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I imagine it's actually pretty similar - higher than average rates of depression, anxiety, social isolation, etc. Being an incel/femcel is usually the result of a brain issue, the brain issues aren't caused by "no pussy".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 07:04 PM
0

In the US we have this lovely thing called "at will employment" which means you can be fired for no reason at all. Then the burden of proof is on you to claim in court that it was for a protected reason like sex-based discrimination
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 07:00 PM
1

You're not the kind of immigrant he's talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 06:57 PM
1

If they're gross, it's an "ewwww" from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 06:55 PM
1

Human capital is not created equal. It's only a small minority that are capable of real achievement. A dozen geniuses are worth more than 10 million laborers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 06:48 PM
1

Not really. It's called life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 06:47 PM
1

International Men's Day is fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 06:47 PM
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Men are also more likely to die from murder, suicide, drug overdoses, and car accidents. Those tend to happen at a younger age, so they have a big impact on the life expectancy gap as well. In the US, 95% of male 20 year olds make it to age 40 vs 97.5% of female 20 year olds. That's a large chunk of the life expectancy gap, and 20/30 somethings are not dying of a heart attack.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 06:44 PM
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It's not made for women. Women are smarter on average than men, but men have a much higher variance in intelligence. So there's a lot more boys than girls in special Ed classes, and more boys than girls in highly advanced classes, academic competition winners, etc. even though the average girl slightly outperforms the average boy. That's why gender segregation makes no sense because it doesn't account for outliers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 06:40 PM
9

That hurts high performing boys who are ready for school at age 6.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 06:37 PM
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Asking for more sexual abuse scandals. M*ids should not be around children, even around teenagers is questionable
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 06:36 PM
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The solution is for the problem boys to leave school after 8th grade to go work in the mines, logging camps, join the merchant marine, etc to get a SKILL and contribute. Learning requires sitting still and paying attention. The upper 20-30% of boys who can handle it and dominate the class should stay, the rest should go be rowdy with "the lads" somewhere dangerous and away from society.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 06:36 PM
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Women get more education than men, but women tend to chose careers that pay less/have less economic value. An electrician makes about the same as a teacher on average, but the electrician doesn't need a degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 06:34 PM
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People behind a screen are not human though. I think that's where a lot of guys go wrong on apps. They think they are talking to another human being who deserves empathy. That "person" is not real until you meet them face to face, or at least talk on the phone (spoken, not text)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 03:06 PM
1

I'm a man and I also say "ewww" to a lot of the profiles I see of women. This guy is too sensitive
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 03:04 PM
1

The entire population does not inherently benefit from more people. A large part of the population is a net negative in terms of tax revenue, plus the general quality of life impact that comes from the strain of more people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 03:03 PM
2

It's not the law. It's doctors committing medical malpractice because they want to make a political statement
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 03:01 PM
2

I'm not gonna ask her that right before the check comes. That's not classy. I pay vs split depending on vibe.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 02:59 PM
1

Debt and or sex work of some kind (whether it's OnlyF*ns, camming, sugar daddy, etc)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 02:59 PM
1

Because a brilliant student is exponentially more valuable than a merely above average one.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 02:56 PM
1

Selection bias. You don't see the people they ignore/reject.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 02:55 PM
1

The statistics are self reported, that's the entire point!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 02:54 PM
2

No, it means "involuntary celibate"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 02:53 AM
1

Gen X is more right wing than Boomers. If you're a young adult with older parents, odds are that your friends' younger parents are more likely to think your parents are "libta*ds".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 02:52 AM
1

Any man who's too dumb to have an alt doesn't deserve to follow IG thots.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 02:50 AM
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Fork put downsx100
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 02:49 AM
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It looks like he's an officer in a college town, so he gets more attention from drunk young girls. He's definitely an attractive guy, but if he was working in some random neighborhood he wouldn't be having girls do TikToks with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 02:48 AM
2

If a PPD man leaves the house, he's not gonna even be making eye contact with a woman, let alone grabbing her.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 02:44 AM
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I think it's largely fake. Women who enjoyed sex at the time suddenly "don't" if they feel scorned by a guy. See for example how women will trash talk their exes, some how they all happen to have a "small dick" and "can't fuck right" if was an asshole. I do think more women than men in general do struggle to achieve orgasm due to abuse of SSRIs and sex toys. But this happens in both relationships and casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 02:44 AM
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The orgasm gap is fake. Women reinvent their memories.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 02:42 AM
1

I don't pick poorly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 02:42 AM
2

Height is a hard cutoff for most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 02:41 AM
1

Should have chosen better. Not my problem
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 02:48 PM
1

Well yes. You reap what you sow.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 02:30 PM
1

You are the one who claimed that I hate all autistic men because I said that inclusion doesn't mean sex. Get a grip.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 02:12 PM
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It's sad that you think "you're not entitled to sex" means "hate"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 02:09 PM
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Yeah because you picked the wrong man, and you have to deal with the consequences
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 02:06 PM
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You need to log off.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 02:03 PM
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Where are you seeing "hate for all autistic men" because I said that inclusion doesn't mean sex? You have some issues beyond autism.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 02:00 PM
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This kind of response suggests a cluster B personality disorder, not autism.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 01:55 PM
2

Classic BPD response
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 01:55 PM
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Yeah he needs to block and delete immediately. This chick is crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 01:54 PM
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anyone with npd or bpd is a piece of shit who constantly cheats and will ruin your life and they should die alone Facts tho
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 01:52 PM
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Inclusion doesn't mean they want to fuck you, moron.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 01:52 PM
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Body count doesn't matter, but keeping a list with a rating is psycho behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 01:51 PM
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Tbf a lot of women with high body counts are pretty shy/lame in bed. I don't really care about "body count" myself, but the "taking detailed notes" is a major red flag and he should dump her.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 01:50 PM
0

It's not "usually bad". It's usually good.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 01:48 PM
2

This is not a representative sample.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 01:46 PM
2

It takes 2 to tango. You/your mother chose who to have a baby with or marry. You deal with the consequences
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 01:45 PM
1

Twitter
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 05:12 AM
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Diffrent strokes for diffrent "folks". I'm not average in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 05:09 AM
0

Some people are "niche" and don't meet people who match their energy unless they live in a place with a lot of people though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 05:04 AM
2

Woman: My dad left when I was 3 and has never cared for me. A woman chose him though, that's why you were born. I was robbed at gunpoint by a man Men get robbed too. when I married a man he cheated on me and beat me. You CHOSE that man. You reap what you sow.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 04:48 AM
1

Time to consider HRT.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 04:43 AM
5

Report their address to the police. This behavior from women is NOT OK. They need to be under the jail.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 04:42 AM
5

"Reciprocating" is a grey area though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 04:40 AM
3

Casual sex is way more fun than cocaine IME. Way more healthy too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 04:39 AM
1

Why? Casual sex is often enjoyable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 04:37 AM
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There's no such thing as "using" someone for sex. Sex is supposed to be a mutually enjoyable experience. Casual doesn't mean bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 04:37 AM
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How fucking weird are you to worry about things like "N count"?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 04:35 AM
3

Lots of women just want sex, just like men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 04:30 AM
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It's a push and pull thing though. Smart men don't "chase" a woman who doesn't give back.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 04:27 AM
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What's her height, weight, dress size, face rating out of 10, age? What's your height, weight, age, Overhead Press, Bench, Squat, and Deadlift PR (bonus for Snatch and C&J), face rating out of 10, net worth? Also, your flair says "wife", yet you talk about your "girlfriend". Bruh..................
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 04:18 AM
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The person who consders themself "more attractive" is lazier in any relationship. Oftentimes, that's the woman for various reasons, but not always,
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 04:17 AM
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Mrs. Robinson type women only want young men because they are fit, virile, somewhat good looking, etc. It's good for a very specific niche of young guy who's kinda socially awkward but otherwise "attractive". It's not an option for guys who are overweight, ugly, dumb, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 04:12 AM
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I have a few. One is a total player who currently has a long term GF. Most of the rest are average guys who have GFs, a couple are single. Yes, I have a couple. All are girls I previously dated/hooked up with but relationship didn't work on my end or hers for various reasons. Kinda. They are fine people, but our lifestyle/values just don't really mesh. Depends on the context. I don't really like the kind of people I work with, but I can manage to make friends "socially" in "scenes" I enjoy. My m…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 03:52 AM
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If you're a young man who's half way decent looking, you will have plenty of opportunities. When I was in college, I called a coworker stupid to her face, and she tried to follow me home like a week later... Social environment matters at least as much as raw "attractiveness" does.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 03:47 AM
2

You're a women. It's different for men. I've explained this to female friends, and they did not get it either.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 02:43 AM
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Why does it matter either way? How fucking weird are you people that you're asking questions about "sexual history" early on in the dating process?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:00 PM
1

No that's level 80 raid boss.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 01:47 PM
1

TBF that's "literate in English". About 5-10% of the population doesn't speak English well but most of them are literate in their native language. So if you only count native speakers it's a bit better.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 01:45 PM
1

I would say the lack of social inhibition matters more. People with "street smarts" often have incredibly poor social skills. They are loud and rude. They often can't control their temper in public. They are often involved in "drama" over the dumbest things. Many of them come across like grown teenagers. But they get dates and relationships with other people who are also underdeveloped
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 01:37 PM
1

I wouldn't say it's a "nice guy" issue, but rather a "too much inhibition" issue. "Bang the single mother raw? Hell yeah get them guts" is the attitude the working class guy has. "Am I being respectful when I approach? Do I have protection?" is the attitude the upper middle class guy has.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 01:32 PM
1

I wouldn't say that I'm "dating" someone if we have not had sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 01:29 PM
2

There is a literacy problem, yes. Did you ever do "popcorn" reading out loud in high school? A lot of people would struggle over basic words even in like 11th grade But when you add on the pressure of being on stream, the nerves can also make people who read just fine have trouble. Stage fright and alladat.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 01:25 PM
3

She's not serious if she replies every 6 days.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 01:23 PM
1

That's the tutorial mode of game.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 01:22 PM
2

What if a man is wearing sandals that day?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 01:21 PM
3

Women view this guy the same way they view a pet. Only the absolute freaks want to get with them, but most of them will be sympathetic. This is subtly a red pill video even though they're trying to be blue pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 05:57 AM
1

Doesn't matter, had sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 05:52 AM
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Military is instant Red Flag for normal people. Jody says what's up. It's very rare that they're at a concert and randomly hook up someone longterm Speak for yourself, boot boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 05:21 AM
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Men who are truck drivers or out of state workers often have women in "different areas codes". It's a red flag because the travelling makes it easy for men to seduce women in multiple states with plausible deniability. I've seen this. Women who are flight attendents or travel nurses same thing - they hit the road and have men around the country. Also, a lot of blue collar jobs, nurses, cops, paramedics, firefighters, etc. work shifts, which means they have weird schedules and a lot of stress. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 05:17 AM
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Guys that don’t advertise themselves online is a green flag, And yet women think the opposite. Men shouldn't comment on what "green flags" are for women looking for men, and vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 05:15 AM
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However, by the time his report had been released into the world a week or so later, he already had met and started dating his one in 6 million girlfriend who met all his requirements, both sane and weird. Turns out she had an office a few doors down from his and they just hadn't met yet. He's dumb as fuck because he failed to account for "selection bias". Women who share his unique love for his [obscure mathematics] are far more likely to be nearby in a city like Cambridge/Boston that's full of…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 05:14 AM
1

Places where people share your values. That's gonna be different for every person.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 05:12 AM
5

If a woman doesn't want to have sex with you, she doesn't love you Deep #RealTalk #LifeFacts
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 05:11 AM
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She go from one {man} to the next one, moving around fast Don't love dude (uh-uh), she just do that think it make me mad Stubborn, aggressive, possessive, and jealous it's more than that Telling me his sex ain't good as mine while I hit from the back Sitting inside the car, this ho just talking, think she selling me dreams I had to look twice, I seen my {friend} number 'cross her screen Censorship added per Reddit content policy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 05:06 AM
3

The bond between a parent and a child is different than between a husband and wife. Parents share DNA with their children, it's like the bond with your own parents, grandparents, siblings, cousins, etc. Very different.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 05:03 AM
1

Can't use prn or mastubate either.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 04:59 AM
0

Sex. Love always fades. Sex is concrete.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 04:58 AM
1

Dating apps aren't the only place to meet people.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 04:29 AM
3

they're having fun and dancing People who are having fun and dancing with their friends don't want to talk to some random.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 09:57 PM
2

where the number of available men seems nearly endless to your average women The number of available women is also nearly endless by that logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 09:57 PM
1

It his plan though. I heard Tim Walz, CNN, and multiple TV ads tell me. Those are sources you can trust.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 03:21 PM
1

That's misinformation, and it's very dangerous to our democracy. Google Project 2025, it's Trump's secret plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 03:16 PM
1

Wrong, the ad I saw on TV said it was Trump's plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 03:11 PM
1

Sir, are you familiar with Project 2025?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 02:58 PM
1

Then how can you vote for a man who wants to put them in breeding camps?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 02:57 PM
1

So you think women don't have rights then? Wow
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 02:51 PM
1

I don't really have a problem with either one.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 02:38 PM
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A few months is way too long. Guys who aren't stalkers won't do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 02:31 PM
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Lots of people just have no need to, plus they're older and busy working so they don't have the time. If you move to a country when you're in your 30s, 40, or older, you live in a community full of people who speak your language (and you have family/friends/social services to help with forms), you work a job where you don't need great English/are stay at home parent, you just don't any English, so you don't bother. If you go to any city with a big immigrant community, there's tons of people, esp…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 02:28 PM
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It's honestly pretty easy to do. Immigrants tend to live in an immigrant community, often work lower level jobs with other immigrants, and now with the internet you can consume exclusively media from the "old country". I had some neighbors from Brazil who had been in the US probably 20+ years and barely spoke English.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 02:19 PM
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The school is the one threatening the parents.....
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 02:16 PM
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M*ids need to stop talking over women and mansplaining
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 01:42 PM
1

Search reddit "kids can't walk to school" or "CPS threatened for kids walking to school", that kind of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 01:39 PM
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Also, women don't know how to be "approachable". When a woman who complains about this says she "puts herself out there", she means "sitting at a bar staring at her phone the whole time".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 01:36 PM
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I had a woman literally wave at me at a bar once because she’d spent minutes staring at me and I hadn’t reciprocated. I continued to ignore her. She left embarrassed Extremely based
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 01:33 PM
2

Because you only have one life. Who gives a shit about "giving back"? Getting fast money and hedonism is the life some people enjoy. It's appealing because the "mature" path people are told to go down ends up with a lot of people in unfulfilled lives of quiet desperation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 08:31 PM
1

Dog you live in Serbia, not freaking Bangladesh
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 07:58 PM
5

Because life is all about having a good time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 07:57 PM
1

No, he's been talking about one. Not his first leap into crypto either, he put out NFT cards to make money.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 07:54 PM
1

Healthy food is cheaper than ready made meals. Cooking basic, healthy food is a life skill like taking a shower.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 07:53 PM
5

Fast money, fast cars, and fast women are all fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 07:52 PM
1

No, it's not. It's cheaper to make healthy food than to buy ultra processed stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 07:50 PM
1

Meat is not that expensive. Chicken breast is $2-3/lb
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 07:50 PM
3

Clergy abusing children is not unique to Catholic priests. Various Protestant ministers get caught doing it all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 07:45 PM
4

No, I want those things because it feels good to have them
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 07:44 PM
3

Elon is a permabulker. He's fat as shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 07:43 PM
2

Healthy food is not expensive. It's a symbol because of the free time you need to work out enough to get the physique. Anyone can eat healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 07:43 PM
3

Redpill was basically mainstream ideas 20 years ago
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 07:42 PM
1

Public schools think it's abusive to let kids walk to school
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 07:26 PM
1

Republican is would be smart to completely ignore/denounce Elon all together, but they can't because Twitter is the only social media platform that's somewhat friendly to them
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 06:29 PM
3

Women lie for attention
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 06:28 PM
3

-1
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 06:27 PM
1

Skinny vs muscular makes zero difference. It's "height, face, frame" plus "don't be fat"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 06:26 PM
1

Non abusers will teach their children, not leave it up to psychotic teachers. Teachers and administrators are nasty people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 06:25 PM
1

No it does not. It's height, face, frame.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 06:25 PM
1

That should be up to the parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 05:01 PM
1

No, it will make the problems worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 05:01 PM
1

They will always pick 2. No one can even see your dick until you're intimate, and they won't even go on a date with the 5'7" guy in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 04:59 PM
1

Sam Sulek is 22 and he legit looks like he's in his 40s.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 04:57 PM
1

No, not all government systems are the same. China's is superior to democracy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 04:54 PM
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Norms have changed. Most parents would rather have a girl than a boy, a subtle reflection of the fact that women are more privileged than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 04:52 PM
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Sex Ed shouldn't even be in school at all IMO, let alone relationship "education"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 04:50 PM
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It leads to an anti-social, selfish society.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 04:06 PM
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No. More education is the problem! The more boundaries you set up, the worse it gets. More lax attitudes are the answer. You have to learn these things by doing and trial/error.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 03:57 PM
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It creates suspicion. Kids claim their peers are "stalkers" for saying they have a crush on them, or accuse their friends of "emotional abuse" for sharing feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 03:56 PM
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"She's not yours, it's just your turn". You can't take these things too seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 03:50 PM
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It is. This "education" leads to people pathologizing normal interactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 03:47 PM
2

Google "enthusiastic consent".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 03:47 PM
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IDGAF about people living in "safe" states having a vote or not. They can do whatever they want, the political system is the system.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 03:46 PM
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I don't think people should vote at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 03:43 PM
3

Wrong. Most women are Dominant and want to control men. Submissive women are actually quite rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 03:42 PM
1

Are you 50 years old? They have taught these things in school for over a decade now. That's why young men give up on dating and play video games instead
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 03:41 PM
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Yes, and teaching these topics in schools is a big reason why young people are so isolated and can't form relationships. They see "grooming" and "emotional abuse" in every interaction
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 03:39 PM
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It is mandatory, and it's resulted in a disaster. Title IX "campus rape hysteria" is a big reason why things are so messed up
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 03:38 PM
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If your vote is already guaranteed, then you have no leverage
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 03:37 PM
4

Don't chase, ever. Remember kings "if she wanted to, she would"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 03:34 PM
1

Honestly, it's nice to live in a "safe" state because then you don't have to be bombarded with ads and calls.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 03:33 PM
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It's their choice. If the population actually cared to seriously consider both parties, every state could be a swing state.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 03:32 PM
1

Yes. I would mock the guy and hope she joins in. If she does, she's wifey material
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 03:31 PM
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Why would a child free person want an LTR? Child free is fine for recreation, no go for long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 03:23 PM
2

The single women are all disgusting unless you're elite.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 03:22 PM
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Society has always been profoundly antisocial to people outside of the "tribe" or known individuals. Honestly, right now is the best time in human history to be a sort of "free agent". You think people in the 1950s were just dying to meet strangers and be friends with them? Fuck no, they hung out with their cousins and people they knew since middle school.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 03:21 PM
1

Some women (usually immature or from messed up backgrounds) think that "coochie" is a way to control a man and get whatever they want, so they get very angry when a man isn't phased by not having sex/can't be whipped that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 03:07 PM
1

Women's extremely.poor mental health and their high rate of drug addiction is an under discussed topic when it comes to "the dating market".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 03:05 PM
1

Does this include using sex toys in the bedroom? Either with a partner or without.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 03:04 PM
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It shows that they have no idea what they are talking about. Getting muscle does not help with dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 03:03 PM
2

Politics was way more fun back in 2020 when it was impossible to pin anyone down, and everyone had their own wacky thing going on. It's so boring now that we're back to the same old uniparty shit, flinging mud over culture war nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 08:21 PM
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She didn't do anything wrong. The guy messed up when he told her to shut up. That's harassment
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 02:53 PM
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Who knows? There's only so many people in your area, and the algorithm plays all kinds of games. Men feel the same way when they see someone disgusting, but they just move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 02:46 PM
1

Why get mad? Just swipe left and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 02:43 PM
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The man. The woman did nothing wrong. The man tried to beat her up. He shouldn't laugh so loud and bother other students
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 02:43 PM
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He thinks that socialism can be "elected".... And plenty of middle class people are better off under capitalism than they would be under socialism.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 02:42 PM
2

27 means it's time to sell. 30 is half off. 35, clearance. 40? Outlet store. 50? Goodwill
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 02:41 PM
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No degree, 5'8", smokes, conservative, can't type. We've gotta winning profile right here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 02:20 PM
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It's selection bias to some extent. People who can easily walk away from a relationship spend more time single and "on the market" vs the people who can't walk away. So if you are dating, the people you meet are more likely to be the walk away type.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 02:16 PM
3

Asking someone to do something does not entitle you to them actually doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 02:13 PM
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That guy messed up for escalating the situation. He should have been expelled
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 02:12 PM
4

Well, it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 07:42 PM
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No, this happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 07:37 PM
2

Good man. 99% of gamblers stop before they hit it big time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 07:13 PM
1

I recommend trading meme coins.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 07:10 PM
1

You don't have to have money to do whatever you want. You can bum maxxx for a while
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 07:08 PM
1

"Dollars can be exchanged for goods and services"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 06:54 PM
3

25 is extremely young to be financially set for life. Be realistic, 35 is more attainable. You should be on the path at 25, hardly anyone is "there" yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 06:52 PM
2

Wealth is in fact zero-sum. If everyone has a million dollars, having a million dollars is meaningless. Resources are finite
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 06:51 PM
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Because they always lie about this shit as a "gotcha". No one believes that the chubby guy with a beard and a 4/10 face was the best sexual experience a woman had while the hot guy was boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 06:49 PM
1

What country are your parents from?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 05:54 PM
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Because people aren't fully developed yet. You can't buy cigarettes or alcohol or gamble until you're 21. Children have been in the military for centuries. Joining the army doesn't make you an "adult". Kids can vote at 16 years in some countries, doesn't mean they are "adults".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 05:53 PM
0

Women on PPD. They constantly lie
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 05:52 PM
1

Joining the military and voting doesn't mean you're an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 05:51 PM
1

7/10
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 05:51 PM
2

This is wrong. Most women are dominant
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 05:50 PM
1

Many of those activists had ties to the Soviet Union.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 05:48 PM
1

No, adolescents should also be put in jail if they fuck each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 05:48 PM
1

You aren't an adult if you're only 18. Adulthood starts at 21 minimum, arguably 25
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 05:47 PM
3

Preach. Women using vibrators is more of an issue than men having "porn death grip".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 05:46 PM
1

Sounds like the girl was hideous. I've never had trouble getting aroused with a real woman
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 05:45 PM
0

They're just straight up lying though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 05:43 PM
0

Prediction: They're all going to lie like they normally do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 05:43 PM
1

Don't fuck a hooker for your first time. It's far too much. Assuming you live in a decent size city, you're better off going to a local "hookup bar/club" 2-3 times a month on a Friday/Saturday (after 23:30) and just seeing what happens (assuming you did the basics like active, showered, groomed, can handle basic small talk).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 04:49 AM
1

You want to risk child support with some random??
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 04:44 AM
4

This is absolutely no surprise to anyone who as any experience with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 04:38 AM
1

Correct. It's a Dom vs Sub thing. I'm a Dom
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 04:25 AM
1

For men, it's more likely that you see women outside your distance your distance range vs age. But be real here - you know for a fact that men have wider age ranges then women, and there's a lot of old guys swiping on young women and some young guys swiping on older women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 04:20 AM
4

I like the idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 08:28 PM
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The difference is that men's "locker room talk" is usually very generalized whereas women's "locker room talk" is more likely to be about current or past relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 08:27 PM
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Random means you're more likely to be seen by people if you fit a "niche" that otherwise gets buried by the algorithm. The "algorithm" doesn't account well for people that might have a sense of humor or style that is attractive to a minority of people but not also gets a lot of left swipes. The point is that it should be like "hot or not" for everyone in your area using the app that has a mutual filter fit. I've never received a like from a woman outside of my age range. Women definitely get a l…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 08:19 PM
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Why even bother requiring feedback then? The main way to make dating apps better is to limit the algorithm (just show people in your area, pure random), and require "mutual fit" on filters like age, distance, height. Part of the reason women get flooded with likes is that many of the guys who swipe on them are too old, too young, too far away, wrong height, etc, but those guys still get shown the profile of girls who will never see them unless they have premium
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 03:40 PM
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Women find an equal number of men attractive as men do women IMO. The difference is that a lot more men have unfixable traits like being too short or going bald at a young age. There's no real "unfixable" traits for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 02:10 PM
1

3.5 a day is insane. I used to smoke everyday, usually multiple times a day on the weekend, and a 3.5 would last over a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 01:52 PM
1

3.5 a day is insane. I used to smoke everyday, usually multiple times a day on the weekend, and a 3.5 would last over a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 01:52 PM
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Pure sativas are extremely rare IME because they're less profitable (take longer to flower, bigger plants, people don't give a shit about strain (just the highest THC bro)/the ones that do usually want "pain relief" i.e. Indica leaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 01:48 PM
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Because when people get unmatched, they're gonna feel scorned. And some of them will lash out and say nasty things.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 01:39 PM
2

Tweak 2 would lead to an incredible increase in the number of abusive comments. Feedback would often be negative
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 01:08 PM
0

"Visa" is not an acronym. You don't put it in all caps.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 01:06 PM
1

You can learn from the experiences of your friends and acquaintances as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 03:03 AM
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"Behind every powerful man is a powerful woman"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:05 PM
6

These male crimes always precede with some form of suffering usually the inability to get women, to get sex. No, they don't. Many men who are serial killers of women or serial rapists have wives or girlfriends. Don't make shit up to justify your irrational hatred of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:02 PM
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No because having sex with an escort is not the same thing. It doesn't fire the same "success" neuron. It's fake experience that might actually hurt him in the long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:00 PM
1

Oral sex is vastly over-recommended in "sex advice" for whatever reason. Nipple stimulation and using your hands (either fingering or rubbing) is vastly under-recommended.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:55 PM
1

I’m not going to have time to read every single one of these studies in detail but I have a theory: the stigma around PVI orgasms comes from dating economics. IMO the stigma is related to the fact that dick size and shape matters a lot for PIV orgasms, and men can't control their size or shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:54 PM
2

These are the things in my experience that I typically think of when I think about how dating is hard for the average woman. Abuse, violence, sexual assault, the threats of all these possibilities from prior experiences involving them These are not "average" experiences. People who grew up in abusive environments are attracted to abusive people because it's what they think is normal. Then they go on the internet and act like all men are evil because they can't vet properly like average people ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:38 PM
5

Nah, it's obvious from the women who've posted here that it's a mental issue/trauma experience. A lot of these women either don't know what clean water is, or subconciously prefer dirty water and don't realize that they do until they've gotten diarrhea a few times.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:36 PM
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Sounds like you have a "type". One time is a tragedy. 2 times is a coincidence. 3 times is a maldadaptive pattern. The issue is you need therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:25 PM
3

Yes that's my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:23 PM
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They will still pick 6'2. 5'6" is just too short for most women. They think you're disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:23 PM
1

Georgia is not Europe, it's Asia.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:22 PM
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If her lips moving, she lying. This is just a fact of life. Most men understand this and grow up when they are like 18, 19.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 06:01 AM
1

It's not work. You go to places where you enjoy the vibe and talk to other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 05:54 AM
3

For gen Z the average is more like 5'11 No, it's not. Average 20-29 year old man is like 5'9".6 according to CDC data, even for just white men it's like 5'10.5" or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 05:29 AM
3

You can make friends at concerts and house parties. One of my best friends I met smoking outside of a small concert I went to by myself. I've literally gone to many shows by myself, just wanting to see whoever was playing, and I ended up meeting hookups, going to random after parties, meeting new friends, building connections. It's a social environment. If you can hang, and it's something you enjoy anyway, there's probably people there who want to build some kind of connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 05:28 AM
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Women don't understand how stacked the dating apps are for men. Their experience is that they download the app, they get hundreds of matches and have to pick through the fuckbois and weirdos. They don't understand that their guy friends, who they know are perfectly normal and maybe even kinda cute, barely get matches. And if they do get matches, they deal with a lot of flakes, weird women, etc. There's a lot of "social bias" that comes in here. I've experienced this myself. Girls I was FWB were …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 05:19 AM
1

The worst country on Earth (A*stralia)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 05:16 AM
1

Fingering hits girls better than eating them out IME.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 05:14 AM
1

How would you feel about 5'6" and handsome vs 6'1" and average looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 05:11 AM
8

Notice she said 5'9" as the "short guy". Average male height in the US is 5'9.5", and the guys who talk about short being a disadvantage are usually like 5'6" or 5'7".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 05:11 AM
1

So you're a "chaser" then?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 05:09 AM
2

Shoulder to waist ratio matters more than shoulder to hip ratio. Women like a man with a donk. The guy you posted has a fucking beer gut.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 05:07 AM
2

They repel a certain kind of man. I'm a big fan myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 05:05 AM
1

Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 05:04 AM
2

Well yes because hot women like her are a dime a dozen in "your country".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 05:04 AM
5

Nah, she cute. Hair dye is weird, but she has a nice body and she looks pretty decent without makeup in a bad picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 05:03 AM
7

Doesn't matter what the weirdos here say, 2 is vastly preferrable to most women. Especially since most women assume that tall == big, and they don't see what you're packing until after they are already attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 05:01 AM
1

So you don't live in Europe then.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:07 AM
1

Nah. We're rich enough to stay out the hood.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:53 AM
5

Study chilling effect
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:48 AM
1

Violent crime is incredibly concentrated in the US. If you don't hang out on "O Block" or people who "got the stick and ready to fire like a muhfuckin candle", the crime rates are basically the same as Europe. Blaming on your cities is such a pathetic excuse. Anyone can make their crime rate low if they just refuse to count the parts of their country where crime is high. It's not because the vast majority of the violent crime occurs in a small number of places where the vast majority of American…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:45 AM
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Yes. Young people being locked inside and not allowed to see their friends in person has a horrible effect on them. Especially when you add in all the unnecessary dramatics from the media. We basically sacrificed the mental health of an entire generation to save a few extra old people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:40 AM
5

The mental health issues during the pandemic were caused by the social isolation of lockdown, not the virus. Get a fucking grip.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:34 AM
1

The first 2 points are not true, Euros do way more drugs than Americans and America is pretty low crime outside of some hotspots (the ghettos and some West Coast cities where they don't prosecute theft). The latter unfortunately is, but we are way richer than you. Equal opportunity, unequal results.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:33 AM
2

“women just need to choose better!!” Women do need to choose better though. Yes, most of the men who abuse women are not the stereoypical "Chad" type, but women in generally need to do a better job of vetting the men they interact with. A blanket idea that "all men ain't shit" often directly leads to chosing bad men. Learning to identify good men is also a skill.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:25 AM
1

Have you tried?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 02:47 AM
1

Move to a city. If you're a single guy and you're not religious, your options for any sort of socialization, not just dating, are going to be very limited and it fucks with your "social muscles"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 02:45 AM
2

Meet women online. Not apps, like sliding in the DMs or Discord (though be careful with that one).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 02:44 AM
2

Especially bars and clubs I've met multiple women I ended up dating at a bar/concert. Also, it's easier to meet people in these environments if you go with 1 or 2 friends (not a huge group). Or if you go to a place often, you just naturally run into people and you're sort of "in the scene". Being a familiar face and/or having people with you amplifies the social environment, makes other people more comfortable to talk to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 02:43 AM
4

OK, what about the other 12 things she suggested? Concerts, house parties, festivals, happy hours, art walks, aren't fun?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 02:42 AM
0

Women are not gonna reject you left and right IRL just because you are 5'7". I've approached and been approached, it's fine. It's guys who are like 5"4 or 5'3" that really struggle even IRL. Honestly, just leave your height blank on apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 02:40 AM
1

Yeah I mostly get compliments from other men tbh. The amount of attention from women is about the same as when I was just thin. It's not being fat that's the biggest factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 02:38 AM
1

The primary killer of men are men as well. Yet people hear constantly talk about how men need more friends. And most men who kill women are already in a relationship. It's not some guy who hits on you at a bar or goes on a Tinder date with you. Whatever percent chance I would not want any girls I know to be risky about it You have a much higher chance of dying in a car accident than being murdered by a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 02:34 AM
0

You are wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 02:32 AM
4

Women need to stop being so fearful and hateful towards men. Society needs to encourage more young men to pursue women, and it make it acceptable for them to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 02:32 AM
3

Men have that. Only on PPD do people think that men lack friends, family, and community.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 02:31 AM
1

My country rules yours. I am American.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 03:03 AM
2

Nope, friendzoning was from before this insipid “alpha, beta” rubbish was in the common discourse. No, it wasn't. Also women objectively don’t do that to men, men do it to themselves because they can’t get over it. Some women do. This is how I know you're new to this. It originally was about nerdy guys being whipped around by BPD hoes (tale as old as time). Later on, normies showed up and made it about this nonsense of "men being entitled"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:29 PM
2

You clearly don't because it was always related to the idea of women having "beta orbiters". It didn't just mean a gentle let down, it meant the like skit the OP posted. A "friend" who got jealous if other women took your attention away, expected "boyfriend" treatment, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:17 PM
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Age 20-45 is what matters. https://www.populationpyramid.net/georgia/2023/ https://www.populationpyramid.net/united-states-of-america/2023/ Notice how in the US, there is a slight male surpluse until the 55ish age group. In Georgia, it's slight female surplus starting at 35.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:16 PM
1

You answer questions, but they used to have user created quizes. Like personality tests, but on all kinds of topics. https://techcrunch.com/2008/06/18/okcupid-spins-off-quiz-engine-helloquizzy/
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:12 PM
2

You must be very young or not clued in.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:11 PM
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It's not hard for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:07 PM
-2

It doesn't exist
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:46 PM
-1

It's over diagnosed, largely self.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:39 PM
7

The woman is still the one who says yes or no. Plenty of women don't want to get married. Women also initiate most divorces.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:11 PM
-2

I live in the US, so IDGAF about the global average. I compare countries to where I live.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:55 PM
1

No, it does not. It refers to BPD. Though I'm not surprised you confuse it since "Autism in women" often is just BPD and/sociopathy with a "quirk".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:53 PM
-3

"Autism in Women" does not exist. It's just sociopaths with a "quirk"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:46 PM
4

Yup, things that happen in Africa are relevant to Becky in Nashville
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:44 PM
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That was after normies glommed on to the term. The original meaning was more of a toxic friendship like the clip you posted. Related to the term "beta orbiter"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:42 PM
2

Because they lie, plain and simple. There simply aren't that many men who do this on apps. I've heard women who've never even used apps talk about how they are "full of weirdos". Many more who feel uncomfortable simply from having to see ugly or short men, let alone see that those guys swiped right!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:41 PM
1

The majority of men have experienced some sort of nuclear rejection with social consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:38 PM
1

It's about as likely as it is for a woman to get killed or assaulted by a male partner/guy they go on a date with. Yet women are encouraged to believe that it's a epidemic.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:37 PM
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If you think a man who approaches you for a date is going to kill you, you need a lobotomy. Women's skyrocketing rates of mental illness, and the way society actually encourages them, is an under discussed topic when it comes to "dating issues"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:35 PM
1

Wrong, it starts to factor men as young as 35 vs in the US where it doesn't favor men until age 60.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:27 PM
2

Because men who act like that quickly get corrected. They get banned from the platform. Also, just personal experience. Women end conversations or ignore perfectly normal/fine messages. No chance that there's tons of creeps.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:25 PM
0

Show me a fat guy with a bad haircut and BO who wears nothing but hockey jerseys and sweatpants, and I'll agree that that guy needs to work on himself If he's 6'2" he doesn't have to work on anything at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:24 PM
8

The gender ratio in your country favors men, like most post-Soviet states. Also, language is going to be a key thing here. Obviously guys who can speak Georgian have an advantage over guys who don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:22 PM
15

It seems now that the term "friend zone" now means when someone nefariously keeps you around for their own benefit? This is always what it meant. It got twisted in definition by people who claim that men are "entitled to sex for doing nice things" and "can't handle a gentle rejection". Friend zone means "boyfriend treatment without being a boyfriend" if that makes sense. It doesn't just mean "we are platonic"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:19 PM
2

Not my Nigel!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:01 PM
1

Because these things don't happen. Life is not a true crime show.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:49 PM
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Wrong, women are gatekeepers of both.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:49 PM
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No, they don't. Dating is far easier for women than men, period. 90% of the issues women complain about are personal issues around anxiety
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:48 PM
2

How old are you? This doesn't happen. Men have their life ruined for telling a girl she looks pretty at a club. You're either 60 years old or lying like women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:42 AM
1

Look at history. Women were commonly described as "ravenous", "sirens", etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:39 AM
3

No, by 20+% for younger generations. For 18-29 year olds, only 75% of women are attracted to men vs 90% of men are attracted to women. And there's 105 men for every 100 women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:38 AM
0

Male feminists are far more likely to be predators, and Antifa Leftist Feminist women are far more likely to have "kinks" that are borderline pro-rape. It's a perfect match.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:35 AM
1

Do scantily clad women deserve unwanted sexual attention? No If you present yourself in a certain way, you can't control who is going to express interest. Attention is extremely different from sexual assault.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:33 AM
1

I prefer hot and maybe a little mean to me tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:27 AM
1

No, it does not. The only key variable here is promiscuity. People from all walks of life are hoes and fuckboys.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:48 AM
1

It has nothing to do with city, domain, or politics. Drunks hang out with other drunks. Hoes hang out with other hoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:41 AM
2

Because straight men outnumber straight women, and the issue is compounded by cultural factors that shame promiscuous women (they do still exist) and also geographic factors (due to the local economy, some places have a huge number of men, some have a huge number of women).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:40 AM
5

We will never want to fuck as much as you do Historically, women wanted to fuck more than men did.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:38 AM
20

Women have it easier in dating than men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:35 AM
3

And you can't generalize the entire population based on your friend group. "Birds of a feather flock together" and that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:33 AM
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Social circles tend to "cluster" on a lot of behaviors. If you do cocaine and drink a lot, the people in your social circle are more likely than the overall population to also do cocaine and/or drink heavily. If you're promiscuous and cheat in relationships, your friends are more likely to be promiscuous and cheat in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:32 AM
1

Never even began bro, I'm so sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:52 AM
1

It's very cringe when non-Americans are invested in US politics.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:50 AM
1

It's nice, but an all the time thing. More about intimacy than shower sex for me, shower sex is meh. The water is way too distracting for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:47 AM
1

Using words slightly incorrectly is fun sometimes though. My mom has this quirk and I love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:45 AM
1

Tinder in the early days was pretty nice too. Much higher swipe limits, less refined algorithm.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:42 AM
1

We had that before tinder.. It sucked. No one used it. Tinder was great when it first came out, before they started adding paywalls to things. And people did use online dating before Tinder. It's just that the "internet" in general was less popular before smartphones, more strange people.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:41 AM
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It was much better. You just sent messages to people you were interested in, and you could take various user developed "quizes" to show off your personality as well as the typical dating profile sections. I used to take those quizes all the time, even when I was underage/not interested in dating online (you didn't need an account to take them).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:40 AM
-3

uh they also get harassed off the app by all the men taking their dating woes out on random women No, they don't. I guarantee most women have not had that happen. They hear shit from a minority of women that meet a weird guy, and project.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:38 AM
0

The 90% number came from a snapshot of Tinder users in Italy. India, not Italy. Tinder is roughly 50/50 male/female in the EU, 65/35 in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:37 AM
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The only way to fix dating apps would cause them to be unprofitable. Dating apps worked well when the "algorithm" was very basic, and you had a ton of swipes, if not unlimited. Basically, they work if you just show people with matching distance and age filters, in a random stack, with no "scoring", and tons of swipes (maybe something like 30 right swipes a day to filter out bots or people who spam right swipes). No showing "likes". No "scores". Just "hot singles in your area". Limiting matches i…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:36 AM
1

Turkey supports Hamas.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:33 AM
1

FGM and male circumcision are not the same thing. Male circumcision is a 5000 year old tradition for one of the world's most important faiths
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 03:32 PM
0

Sir it's a very important religious ritual.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 01:24 PM
1

Point 3 I definitely see.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 05:27 AM
1

What survey results? This place is very obviously very "melinated", without a single voice reveal.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:56 AM
1

Let's just say that Heartiste would be absolutely appalled with the state of the "Red Pill" if he were still posting, would have a field day with the "blue" and "grey" pills.....
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:29 AM
1

Not white, that's for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:26 AM
1

Theme song of this sub https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AOvCyD9bbDM
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:24 AM
1

I want to say something so bad, but I don't want to get banned (something I've alluded too many times)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:20 AM
1

Fringe interests where men and women interact often lead to relationships, who knew? Marriage is pretty wild, but people have been getting in relationships or even marriages from niche internet forums or even MMO games as long as the Internet has been around. I may or may not have met women on forums before....
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:12 AM
1

It sounds AI generated, like a TikTok voiceover tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:01 AM
1

No, I would be the Courier who cheated death in the cemetery and then cheated death once again to change the Wasteland forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 03:59 AM
1

Handmaid's Tale is a smut novel.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 03:58 AM
1

Cook for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 03:56 AM
2

It's not the same. How many adult women have a medical clitoral hood removal vs how many men have medical circumcisions as adults?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 03:10 AM
1

That's not how it works. It's a religious ceremony performed on an infant for some religions. I'm against routine circumcision myself, but banning it all together is akin to banning religious slaughter of animals that some religions require. Also, male circumcision is not anywhere as destructive as FGM. Some men end up needing a medical circumcision as adults due to issues like Phimosis. There's basically no medical reason why an adult woman would need the equivalent of FGM..That doesn't mean ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 02:24 AM
1

I am pro abortion up to the 42nd week. It's the most trad form of contraception.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 10:10 PM
0

Not all women can get pregnant, and some men can.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 10:09 PM
4

Circumcision is literally a mandatory religious act for some people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 10:08 PM
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Over 90% of men are heterosexual, and less than 75% of women are. Not to mention that there's already more men than women (roughly 105 men to every 100 women). If you're in your 20s, there ends up being almost 130 straight men for every 100 straight women. Tough odds.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 03:56 PM
1

many types of gay men (tops, mascs) are preferred over other types False.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 03:54 PM
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Of course it is. Simple supply and demand. There are far more straight men than straight women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 03:53 PM
1

They didn't go to the gym, and when you drink 4-5 drinks every night it doesn't give you a hangover.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 01:30 PM
2

3/10 as a man or a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 01:28 PM
4

Constant ghosting. It was hard for me to wrap my head around when I first started dating because women claim the opposite all the time. I just had to adjust my mentality and stop listening to anything they said or taking it at face value.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 01:26 PM
-4

Apply this to certain other characteristics a person has, and you sound like a raving fascist lunatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 01:23 PM
7

That stuff sticks with you for life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 01:16 PM
1

Scr*te delusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 01:08 PM
1

Nah, most people don't really change after their mid-20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 01:07 PM
2

For the most part, women who have a strong connection and respect their family are not as susceptible to this. Not true. A lot of the women who are most addicted to "bad boys" come from very respectable families. It's a form of rebellion and/or because their own father is a "reformed bad boy" who made it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 04:29 AM
1

Facts. Most men peak around 27-29.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 04:27 AM
2

Mix of both.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 04:07 AM
1

One leg away Folks telling me to cashout Take a hedge How about you take a chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 03:46 AM
1

You do need to go aggressive because you're young and you can afford to take risks. The time for DCAing and playing it cool are when you're like 25 and settling down. Right now, you either get lucky and get rich, or just end up with slightly less. The amount of money you make from working is gonna "compound" more than anything besides a moonshot.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 03:39 AM
1

Bro I've lost and gained more that in a single day on perps or degen shit. At your age and amount of money, you should be taking risks and focusing on earning more back from your job/business.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 03:37 AM
1

NVIDIA fell 10% today. Oof crypto bro, I don't feel so good.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 03:35 AM
1

Are you AFAB?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 03:29 AM
1

I am way lower on Agreeableness and Conscientious than the "lows". Bunch of people pleasing do-gooders.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 03:25 AM
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