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Come on, you're better than that... You can chose whoever the fuck you want but that's not the point. You claimed that men were asking women to lower their moral standard, I said that I seriously doubt that and so far, you were unable to support that claim. There is no need to derail the debate like you are trying to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 03:51 PM
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For example men complaining that they have to approach and that women should instead. That's not looks. And that's the standard many women put in a place for a reason. That's not a moral standard, unless you consider that approaching someone is immoral for a reason. Men saying that women should approach more doesn't mean that they should approach anyone, regardless of any moral standard. I'm curious to know what is the "reason" behind that standard. I would say that the only reason women don't a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 12:55 PM
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Any example of men telling women to lower any moral standard? "I feel like everything women want is simply wrong in men's opinion, because every standard will discard someone." Well that exactly what a standard does... But the vast majority of men are totaly ok with moral standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 11:31 AM
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I don't think anyone is suggesting that women should lower their moral standards. It's quite the opposite actualy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 10:48 AM
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Absolutely
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 08:55 AM
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The poins is that vulnerabilty isn't what women wants. Its a weakness and it's definitely not "sexy" or anything. What's women trully admire is resilience and stoicism, just like you point out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 07:18 AM
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Peak incel terrorism
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 07:14 AM
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I really don't get the hype around the swatch royal pop. That thing has nothing from AP, colorways are awfull and the thing looks like a chronogragh for gym teachers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 09:47 AM
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100kg? Perfect weight at 90? You must be massive! How tall are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 06:29 AM
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Then it seems that she targeting a specific type of woman, right? Half of American women are legally married or living with a partner by 26. It’s almost 2/3 by 30. Seems like she’s French, so maybe it’s different there. There isn't much to say about people who are in an happy relationship Most people consider themselves single unless they’re in an exclusive relationship. Having casual sex doesn’t mean that you’re not single. I’ve been single for at least half my adult life, but I haven’t gone wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 05:49 PM
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Exactly. She keep claiming that she's afraid of men but have no problem bringing one home on the first date (confirming that you are not afraid of what you're attracted to)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 05:41 PM
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I spend some times listening to Leslye Granaud's podcast "C'est pas toi, c'est moi" (Litteral translation "it's not you, it's me). For a bit of context, Leslye is a french journalist, she is far left leaning, and feminist. This podcast is like a side project she have where she interview single people (almost exclusively women) to talk about their dating lives. Leslye is also a long time single and speak regularly about her personal situation. What's interesting about it is that she's smart, is s…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 09:10 AM
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wow 63%? That's crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 09:51 AM
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Nexk tatoos are enough of a red flag if you ask me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 12:37 AM
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When did he get his face tatoos?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 04:23 PM
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For example wade wilson the deadpool killer had a prior rape accusation, the case never went to court and he said he’s innocent. So in a way he’s falsely accused. Should’ve women dated him or not? Yeah, nothing screams "totally not a bad boy" like nazi face tatoos"...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 03:51 PM
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Hilariously bad profile. I can smell his van from the picture he posted.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 09:35 AM
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I think the same, most of it sounds like denial. It's obvious about the first one: She's not that young, had numerous relationship but she never managed to get one of those top men to commit. She's not unattractive at all, you can't tell me that at 37, she never met a man that would be more than ok to marry her, but she probably never even consider those guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 12:26 PM
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Listened a fun french podcast this weekend where 3 women (on the feminist side) were talking about there love life. -Number one: The older one (37), spoke about how she had been riding the dick carroussel and was now looking for something serious. -number Two: The more interesting case; She is in a "relationship" since 3 month with someone she's trully attracted to. They start as "non exclusive" for two month (well, She was exclusive, he was not...) and they are exclusive since 1 month but he do…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 08:20 AM
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I have the same questions. It's not like she can even argue any of her stances (more rants than stances to be honest), she's just madly agressive and dismiss any argument that makes her look bad. At this point, I can't believe that any of this is healthy and it's kind of disturbing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 06:15 AM
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I have the same questions. It's not like she can even argue any of her stances (more rants than stances to be honest), she's just madly agressive and dismiss any argument that makes her look bad. At this point, I can't believe that any of this is healthy and it's kind of disturbing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 06:15 AM
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"would you still love me If you where handsome" is hilariously evil. I love it!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 06:05 AM
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The fact that there are people around who are stupid enough to still support that fraud of a president is baffling me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 07:08 AM
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Combat are all right, nothing exceptional but they are fun. Animations are great.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 08:12 AM
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All 3 options are fine. My favourite is cyberpunk but if you want to go medieval, KCD 2 is amazing. I like Crimson Desert so far but there is a few things that are a bit rough, so waiting for a few patches can be an option. If you're really into massive open world, this is a solid choice: there is so much things to do and the map feel gigantic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 05:20 AM
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Nope, I don't forgive and I certainly don't forget.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 05:06 AM
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That's a good thing I'm not american and we don't have that much obese women over there.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 01:31 PM
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I spoke a few days ago about a woman and her son that went missing in France. Her body was found in Portugal yesterday, with the body of the current girlfriend of her ex-husband. So this asshole killed those two women and confessed those murders. As dreadfull this story is, at least the two kids involved are all right and this man will rot in prison for the rest of his life. I said it numerous time and I'll say it again: Never date a man with an history of violence, NEVER. People change but I do…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 08:03 AM
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This dog would never do that, he's a good boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 02:45 PM
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Isn't the meme about a dog, who is judging hard those guys who are bitching on women?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 02:32 PM
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No, why would I? Do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 02:09 PM
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I like to talk about those subject and it's a good place to do so. Also that dog is hilarious, don't you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 12:01 PM
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Totally.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 11:34 AM
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What does it matter what am I doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 11:34 AM
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What do you mean "making everything about you"? How is that about me? Because I posted a meme that I found funny? Is that too personal to share ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 11:14 AM
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Well I wouldn't say that someone who is posting YouTube video to rant about his ex-wife has moved on to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 11:07 AM
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I hope those inmates send each other love letters between gay sex session. It would be so cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 10:31 AM
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We are only allowed to talk about people we want to date? Damn, we can close this sub allready. Bye everyone! It's been a fun ride!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 09:46 AM
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But why even mention her? Why would it be a problem to mention her? As far as the missing family are concerned, her only involvement in this is as proof that he moved in from ex wife. She is suspected to be an accomplice. But so far, we don't have any proof that him or her are involved. What to do you mean by "moved in from ex wife"?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 09:42 AM
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I ignore the violent man? Most of the post is about him, only the last sentence is about his current girlfriend. The main point of my post is to try to understand what makes him a "manosphere dudes" (I even mentioned that it was the interesting part). It's really you who is focusing on the last sentence of my post which is about his current girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 09:32 AM
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Yeah it does look like one but I wonder what makes it an automatic "manosphere dude". If shirtless pics and ranting about your wife is all it takes, then the manosphere is way bigger than what I thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 09:22 AM
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If that all you get from my post, then I'll have to clarify my point: First of all, we have no news on his ex-wife and, even if it doesn't look good, I serously hope that she's allright. I also think that this man is a serious asshole and I hope they'll catch him, but so far, his current girlfriend is suspected to be with him, if that's the case, that would make her an accomplice (at best) and also an asshole in my book. So I do think that this man is an asshole and I'm also dumbfounded that a w…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 09:17 AM
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<image> This dog cracks me up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 08:44 AM
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lmfao, why aren't you quoting the whole sentence?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 08:30 AM
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Where exaclty did I said that?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 08:04 AM
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A woman and her 13 years old son are missing in France. Her ex-husband is the prime suspect, he's also missing. His current girlfriend and the kid they got together are also yet to be found. This dude and his ex-wife both had been condemned for violence against each other, she stabbed him, he tried to strangle her. Yes, the whole thing is a shitshow. What's interesting is that some people on the Net (especially feminist author Stephanie Lamy) are putting him in the manosphere circle since he was…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 06:46 AM
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How that would make it hypocritical? It would if men were claiming that they are going for personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 04:34 AM
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Sounds staged but the way she's like "ok" and not even fighting it is hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 04:31 AM
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How can gender be reversed in that situation? Ps: Her smile is hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 04:25 AM
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Your comment doesn't make sense I'm sorry. Well I'm genuinely struggling to understand where you want to go with your messages If all of them thought they weren't committing rape then all of them were clueless and were mostly bad people, the Africans, the Arabs and yes, the French too but most importantly, the husband which is French. I do think that knowing that all of this was rape and still doing it would make them even more bad people. And yes, it would put those "french" rapist in that cate…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 03:21 AM
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Did the non Arab and African people knew they were committing rape then? Well, I'm not in their head but according to the judgement, none of them was acquitted so the rape or "atteinte sexuel" had been materialised for all cases. in that case, if they knew it means they still did it and if they didn't then in both case Again, I'm not in their head, most of the accused claimed that they didn't know they were rapping her, that was their whole defense (and the whole point of the trial since it was …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 06:13 PM
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No, the husband is fucked up. He's probably also a murderer, there is a strange case of a disapearing women a few decades ago where he is highly suspected. wouldn't you also say France's culture treats their women like second class citizens in that case? Difference is that he knew that what he was doing was fucked up: He was telling those men that she was into it, he was druging her, he did pleaded guilty and he never claimed that he has every right to do it since he was his husband and the one …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 04:09 PM
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Your link doesn't work for me, but: I didn't said they where the majority, I said they were over represented. For exemple, there is 15 name from an islamic background in those 50 rapists: that 30% of the total, while they represent only 7 to 10% of french population. Another side point: During this trial, some accuser pleaded as not guilty, some of the accuse from African or islamist background where the one using the "Since her husband was ok with that, It's not a rape since he's the one who ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 01:29 PM
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I have a friend who work in data management for a fairly important dating website. The top users, the ones racking up the most like are the 1% of men. This are the user who get absurdly high elo rating and getting tons of like. The top user is an insanely hot rich dude in Paris who is probably fucking a different woman every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 09:43 AM
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Gisele Pellicot was european but african were overrepresented in the list of accused. Not saying that no europeans are fucked up but turning a blind eye on the fact that some cultures treat women like commodities isn't helping to understand the whole situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 09:15 AM
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Because a drink is the best first date. It's in a public place so it's safe. You can easily wrap it up in half an hour if there is no attraction but you can easily turn it into more with a "wanna eat something?" If things goes right. I would say that it's superior to coffee, because it's easier to be a little bit more dressed up in a fancy bar, it's easier to follow up with food if you want to. Plus coffee is more of a "serious" beverage, it's like the number one corporate beverage, a drink in a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 08:36 AM
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"she's his wife and he can control who he offers her sexually" What the hell?!! Are we sure deep fake porn was the only thing this asshole was doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 08:22 AM
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Yeah, let's pretend that your "Are you suggesting that short men can't be handsome?" was a totally inocent question and you wasn't the one starting the bullying.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 11:00 AM
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Your problem is that you can't answer it without admiting in the same time that your "Are you suggesting short men can’t be handsome?" was absurd. That's all right, you said something dumb, it happens to all of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 10:36 AM
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Neither was I. By the way can you answer my question?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 10:28 AM
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can you answer my question first?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 10:26 AM
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One step at the time, you are almost there: Let's replace the attractive trait "blue eyes" with the attractive trait "being tall": -I think that being tall is an attractive traits. -I think that you can be attractive without being tall. Do you think that those two allegation are contradicting each other?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 10:23 AM
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Can you please answer my question?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 10:06 AM
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And I don't see how any of what I said can be interpreted as "Short men can't be handsome". Let's make another analogy, one that you may understand: -I think that blue eyes are an attractive traits. -I think that you can be attractive with eyes that aren't blue. Do you think that those two allegation are contradicting each other?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 09:53 AM
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-I think this pizza is good! -Are you suggesting that any other pizza can't be good?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 09:41 AM
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You are arguing that victims know who most of the offenders are. That they're choosing offenders intentionally. And that they're therefore responsible for their own harm. I'm saying that nobody knows who most of the offenders are. It's unrealistic to expect. It's cruel to accuse victims of choosing offenders intentionally. And it's inaccurate to say they have any responsibility for their harm. Absolutely not. I never claimed that women were choosing offenders intentionally. My point is clear: Mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 09:39 AM
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The post is her being sexual with a guy she's attracted to because this man has attractive features. ONS has little to do with your personality, most women won't ever know if you are an anon or not (whatever that is). I have ONS with women who had no other info about me than my name. Her post is about her being sexual, it’s weird to use to counter her point, her being a sex haver or sexual has nothing to do with her previous claims IMO. It's totally valid to use that to counter her point. words …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 09:04 AM
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sigh... She can get throat fucked by whoever the fuck she wants, as long as she's not preaching those dumb "look doesn't matter" or other "I don't care about a dude height but my boyfriend is 6'2, it just happened" bullshit. The day Leonardo Dicaprio say that the only thing that matter for him is personality, he would be mocked endlessly. This is the same kind of situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 08:37 AM
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She says he was incredibly handsome, disqualifying are claim attractive features (like being tall) don't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 08:24 AM
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They are not judging her for doing the same. They are judging her for doing this while preaching that attractive features (like being tall) don't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 08:15 AM
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Is he going to prison or getting promoted? I genuinely can't tell with the USA
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 11:58 AM
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Not gonna lie dating someone in that "all men are bad except you" mindset must be valorizing but also extremely stressful.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 05:11 AM
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You know him. You don't know everything about him. That's the point I'm making. You can't magically tell who's a good person. You can evaluate his action, his behavior or any information you have to try to determine if he is a safe person or not. Saying that it will work 100% of the time would be dumb. Saying that since it doesn't work 100% then it's a coin toss would also be dumb. It would still happen. Singleness isn't safety. But we'd be back to classic victim-blaming. "Why didn't you stay ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 04:46 AM
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I separate in two categories, failed relationship and ONS for this reason, maybe that wasn't clear enough, my bad. I do agree that uneresolved relationships are far more concerning. In your first case, you can't really know if she had healed from this relationship or not but this is definitely something I would want to know before doing anything long term. I notice from experience that the more failed relationship you have, the more chances that one of them is unresolved and the more chance to e…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 04:35 PM
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It's not that women lie it's just that they are hiding a part of the truth. When they speak to men or in public, they will answer that they are looking for securing traits: Gentle, kind, caring, invested in the relationship. Those are good guys traits. This is the one that men hear about. When they are speaking between girl, this is not the same thing. I'm the token dude in a girl's gang so I can witness a lot of those discussions. What they are talking about are attractive traits: Tall, athleti…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 01:08 PM
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You know Lilith is seriously out of thread idea when the pop the balloon video is back. I would really want to see the same action performed by a really attractive dude, I suspect we would not hear that much balloon poping.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 06:16 AM
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This is just another example that women are actively trying to shame men into doing things that only benefit women. "You're preference are just insecurity" is just another "a real man..." : "A real man doesn't mind high N-count"; "A real man steps up for a single mother" ; "A real man forgive his wife if she cheats"; you name it. Always the same pattern, implying that a man is less of a man if he doesn't blindly follow those injunction. Here the mecanism is the same : implying that a men is "ins…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 05:33 AM
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I guess it's a lot about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 11:43 AM
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I love how behind every dude getting to the gym, there is always a "there was this girl..." Story.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 08:34 AM
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To illustrate your point there was an interesting french video about two people who where discussing how their height was an handicap in dating: -A "too short" guy around 155 cm -A "too tall" girl around 180 cm After a few minute, it was clear that the girl was complaining because her height was shrinking a bit her dating pool while the guy had litteraly no dating pool. The best part was when she openly admit that she was rejecting short guys after ranting about how men shouldn't care about heig…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 06:26 AM
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A side piece of information, this is not the case in every country. In France for example. A woman can decide to "give birth under secret". In that case, she's letting her child into the responsibility of social services, her anonymity is guaranteed and she can't be held legally or financially for the child. Other european countries have similar law, like Italy or Germany. Two interesting point: -A jurist once tried to change the law to include the same right for the father, with the argument th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 05:57 AM
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Really interesting study. Men tend to have unhealthier way of grieving and don't receive as much social support. I wonder if this is a cause/consequence thing: Men are getting less support so they turn to those unhealthy grieving ways. The studie seem to conclude that way but it would be an interesting thing to test. I hope their will be some follow up, that's an interesting find.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 05:16 AM
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This is a massive tail! Looks like a half cat/half squirrel in Mewgenics
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 05:00 AM
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It's very common. Chris Rock did a comedy skit about it: this is her house, not yours. If you think this house is also yours, try to put a framed picture of your mother on the wall of the living room and see how it goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 04:56 AM
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So, short answer: I didn't deal with them. I half-ignored, half-accepted them. And that's not what I recommend. I would not recommend that either to be honest. I'm glad it turns out good for you. I wouldn't take the risk now. Betting on "false positives" isn't safe at all. If think you have the correct mindset: Using your experience and knowledge to help you make better decision. Nope. The caveat is that you have to know. Exactly. You know that someone you know is a "bad man," and you're clueles…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 03:18 PM
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The whole gun laws in US are crazy. "But we need guns in case some dictator try to seize control!" Well you have an orange pedophile doing it right now and it seems like you aren't moving your obese butt.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 11:11 AM
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So "men bad, women good" but with extra steps. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 10:37 AM
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This is exactly that. If a wowan is really attracted, she will be very active on the dating phase. Go to tik-tok, You'll find videos of women complaining about being ghosted by an attractive dude and making everything they could to contact him back. It’s proofthat women don’t need to try in order to get attention. again, you are totally right. When the dating pool extend, women can be more selective and won't invest that much (except for a really attractive dude). I have a story about that. When…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 09:55 AM
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I guess it is a choice but it's certainly not mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 09:10 PM
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That doesn't mean it's a magical process. Men are told not to show emotion from childhood, and are punished socially for doing it. Do we pretend that doesn't matter, and just demand that they immediately start being vulnerable? Of course not. We recognize that it's lifelong work that's best done with help. It's not helpful at all to see a man who was withdrawn yesterday and lay into him. He can be doing everything "right," and still struggle, and all we'd be doing is shaming him. No it's not mag…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 09:09 PM
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And when I explained people dont immediately know the problem unless it presents itself, you thought I was calling them stupid because “I think that since a 8 years old child can spot them, any victim can”. So youre the one thinking theyre stupid and that it should be obvious they were abused and have trauma from it. No, my point is that they know they have abuse. the fact that they accept that situation is a whole other debate. You’re acting like she’s responsible for being abused, even though …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 06:43 PM
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This is getting old
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 06:30 PM
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It's the narrative. It doesn't matter if you or I agree with it. It's what women hear from childhood. It's what we hear on this sub every day. There's no magic way to remove what's been crammed into your skull since you were a toddler. Expecting it of others is equally unreasonable. Women are adults, they are able to think, to analyse things and to decide what is crap and what is a usefull information. I mean, It had been crammed in our skull that santa was giving you present at christmas if you…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 06:28 PM
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Where did I said that it was a foreign concept for me? "The worst ennemy of a women is her mother". Remember? I wrote that a few message ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 05:23 PM
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In other words, you’re trying to say abuse victims are dumber than an eight year-old if they don't. I dont know why you're arguing with me and then prove I was right. Sigh... read again Your question implies if she wasn't literally in a cave, then she must be stupid. you're the only one thinking that there. It's extremely usual for abusers to isolate their children. That's why I doubt the question was an honest one. Let present your whole case, juste respond to those answers and we would be able…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 05:21 PM
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Yeah USA is a weird one, I said it before. How does that work Is beating up your child legal here? What's the limit? As soon as the child is alive, there is no law against it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 04:10 PM
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I didn’t, so I know that’s not what this argument is about. It’s about the fact that apparently, unless an abuse victim literally lived in a cave, they must be super stupid for thinking abuse is normal after abuse was normalized within their community. I quote you on that like two message ago. Reread your post. I never did that, please quote me saying victims are stupid or that I'm smarter than them.”How funny the tables turn. So you can't quote me saying that. Thank you for aknowledging that. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 04:08 PM
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People can judge.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 03:12 PM
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I'll leave everything here, I won't edit anything. Let's people see what I trully said.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 02:44 PM
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Society didn’t even get involved until she was married with two kids. It only got involved because he beat boys so bad that there was undeniable proof of abuse was happening. And yet society didn't normalized it, like you claimed before. Let me repeat myself: “You are asking people to detect that they know they have problems before the problems show themselves.” You are asking society to know that she have problems even if she doesnt report them? I mean how are we suppose to achieve that? 24/7 f…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 02:42 PM
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I would take it as a signs that it was probably a good idea to not post it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 02:18 PM
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I think you misunderstood what I said. The narrative is that women should ignore the red flags they see. They cannot ignore the red flags, while also leaving/rejecting bc of those red flags. What? Fuck no, that the complete opposite, WOMEN SHOULD NOT IGNORE RED FLAGS. I can't be more clear than that... The process of creating and revising maps of ppl and situations never stops. Abusers contain their tendencies for up to 2 yrs. Then it begins slowly, overstepping boundaries a little bit at a time…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 02:14 PM
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Looks like I touched a nerve, relax it was only a joke I know that women won't change a thing on that matter. But funny how men are the one complaining to you when the premise of this exchange is litteraly you complaining that men are too thick to notice hint.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 10:46 AM
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Looks like the world isn't ready for my groundbreaking idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 10:34 AM
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what's this documentary? I want to see that!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 10:23 AM
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Well, indeed men are usually bad at noticing signs. Wait... Hear me out, I have the craziest idea! Instead of counting on men noticing signs they aren't noticing anyway, what if women were actively asking guys out?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 10:22 AM
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Why are you assuming sex has already happened? You clearly explained that these men feel that their ego has been wounded because they aren’t having sex right away and they feel like a beta Billy for having to wait until they are in a relationship with a woman. This means that they view relationships as obstacles and burdens. I'm questionning your logic. If providing was really a burden for men, then no men would ever invest into a relationship once they had the sex. How would you explain that so…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 09:57 AM
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Totaly: Two single individual spend, on everage 30% more in their every day life that two people living together. It's not an accident if the single lifestyle is praised and the traditional family model is described as outdated.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 08:34 AM
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based
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 08:04 AM
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Sigh... Looks like we are up for a "If the sky is blue, then explain why it's cloudy and grey this morning!" Type of tread.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 06:34 AM
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Translation: Men view relationships as an obstacle/ burden for sex Serious question: How can it be an obstacle to sex if the sex allready happened ? On top of what I said, you’re saying men envy men who get to ghost and mistreat women because men naturally view the ability to mistreat a woman as a sign of hotness and alphahood. Lmfao , are you trolling me or something? Men envie the hability to attract women. If an individual want to ghost or misstreat a woman, he have to be attracting to her fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 06:14 AM
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But how many women are sleeping with Ryan Reynolds? This is the part where you guys go off the rails a bit. You just seem to assume all these "average" women are out there fucking god-tier men. They aren't. In other words, you are sweating over a situation that is pretty rare. You're the one who brought the Ryan Reynolds comparison, you can't bring an example by yourself then complain because it's too extrem... We we'll get to a more reasonanle comparison in a minute And men here also seem to re…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 05:34 AM
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No I'm not. If you want to have a discussion with me, quote me on something do not invent thing that I didn't day and thought that I don't have.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 04:48 AM
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"He also pass the bar for the LTR if he invest enough." These guys do have to cross the line to being relationship material. Well we're getting technical here but if we are getting technical then yes, this guy don't cross the line YET. The important part is that the decision to invest or not is his decision. It's true I've definitely met more women wishing that a situationship would become a real relationship, but I have also met a non-significant number of men who thought - mistakenly - that if…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 04:46 AM
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I've also been downvoted for saying that I have a girlfriend. I guess some people are miserable and would like everyone to be as miserable as they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 10:39 PM
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I'm gonna hyper focus on this portion, because I think all of this is speaking volumes: So you're all out of argument for the rest, got it. Okay, so for everyone reading this, look up cults. Also, look up alot of laws in the Middle East and how old brides can be. She read Modern society in western countries, and she include the middle east. And I'm suppose to take anything you say seriously? How is she suppose to know that if that's all she knows? She doesn't live in a cave does she? I knew my e…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 09:59 PM
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But by your telling, those women also weren't first choice to the Chad she dated and had an ONS with either, so....? And they are all over social media complaining about it (Way more than men to be honest). To be fair I don't really see any problem in stating that you're not satisfied with your situation, it gets out of line when you strait up refuse any advice given to change those outcome. And if this Beta dude had a much better looking woman in his past who wouldn't marry him, does that make …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 09:27 PM
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As said by Mela_ninja, you are an outlier. It may not apply to you but it does apply to the majority of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 09:15 PM
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Do you have any proof that the people that knew Cosby also knew he was a serial rapist and hid it? You're the one bringing Bill Cosby you're the one who should have some proof that those people had no clue about it even if they're was women calling him a rapist as early as 1965... Because people have also knew perpetrators of heinous crimes and thought he was a good guy. There was a case of an old couple that was considered the pillar of their community.... turns out they were living in the hous…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 08:51 PM
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Off the top of my head, there's a meta analysis from 2019 that's a good place to start. Pretty sure it comes up if you search something like, "do men lie more than women?" I'll look that up, thanks. By pushing narratives that devalue it. For example, insisting that men who are being clocked as creepy or sketchy are all just awkward and deserve "a chance." Or that a woman can't or shouldn't reject a man unless she can present an argument he accepts. Or that women who reject men for behavioral imp…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 08:11 PM
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Totally agree on that, I noticed the same pattern myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 07:14 PM
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I would, it would have some benefit and some downgrade but overall I don't see it as "worse" as being a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 06:20 PM
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So there is asking the N-count and Asking the N-count like you are checking a care. Got it! not sure what's the difference but got it! If it’s important to you then ask, but don’t be surprised if the person decides to avoid you afterwards, you’ve just told them what you value, snd it’ll never be them as a person Exactly and that's a good thing, way better than starting a relationship on a lie, that's exactly the premise of OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 06:04 PM
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There are different requirements for LTR and hookups. Here is the thing: Most men understand that. We know that being attractive is the main thing driving a ONS for women. We also know that for a long term relationship, women are seeking investment from men (energy, time, money and so on). But here is the trick, we know that if an attractive dude pass the bar for a one night stand, he also pass the bar for the LTR if he invest enough. So to summarize, if an attractive dude can have a ONS with a …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 05:54 PM
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I totally agree with that. I don't see anything wrong asking about the past right away. I personaly tend to do that early in the relationship. And to get back to the main point of this thread. I wouldn't recommand lying or hidding any info in a relationship, Trust is a pillar of a good relationship and I don't see any sane relationship starting on some lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 05:29 PM
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I don't know, do you think that asking for th N-count right away is the best thing to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 05:24 PM
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Smocking is indeed obvious and can be spoted on the first date. But they are other things that couldn't be spoted right away: For example, I have a strict moral code, I couldn't date someone if she has ever dated a drug dealer or a thief. The fact that she was ok with dating this kind of person with low moral value (imo) is a sign that we simply don't have the same value. On the other side, I have an high body count, I am open about discuting in the detail about it (but I can't really give a rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 05:20 PM
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And then there's the disparity in the way we perceive red flags. Women are more likely to see nonverbal cues, and less likely to identify specific lies. Men are more nonverbal-blind, and pick out individual lies more easily. (That may be intertwined with the fact that men are more convincing liars, and are more likely to lie in general. Not necessarily maliciously. They're just more likely to think it won't matter in the end.) I'm particularly interested in that part since I was looking for a wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 04:48 PM
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And crimes are missdemeanors
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 03:54 PM
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Yeah, That what I thought, Missdemeanors, not crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 03:50 PM
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I agree that using it as a weapon is wrong. But I can totally imagine that something I did in my past or something she did could confirm that we don't share the same value or that we just aren't compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 03:44 PM
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Why would I have to? The thread is clearly about relationship. First date isn't even mentioned once in the original post.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 03:30 PM
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My bad, I didn't understood what you meant. I don't see how trying to know a person past is automaticaly in a abusive way, but it makes your point more clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 03:29 PM
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Sorry but using personal attacks when you don't have anything clever to say are not ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 02:38 PM
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But you weren’t part of their past, nor can you do anything about it. That's a good thing that no one in his right mind is claiming that. We’re talking different things now I don't think so. I don't think there is past and past. You don’t ask someone their entire past in the first date, Wait why are you talking about the first date? I thought it was all about relationship, not first date. you start to learn stuff about them as the relationship progresses. This is stuff you slowly learn about you…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 02:29 PM
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No you didn't answered those question, you're dancing around because answering it derail your whole argumentation; -If you pretend that caring about someone's past is wrong, then you're whole point doesn't make any logical sens. -If you admit that caring about the past is ok, then you can't say that caring about N-count is a problem (let's stop dancing around we both now that this is the problematic past that men shouldn't ask about). For the sake of it, I would like to have an answer to this qu…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 02:20 PM
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Again, unless they’ve murdered someone why would you even care? Because I care about knowing those persons. Our past action, our past decision and our background are an important part about what we are know. If I take myself as an example: I have a job I like because I made the decision some day to reset my career when I was working in a very toxic company. I'm living in my city because I wanted to get closer to my parents when my father get sick. I want to spend the rest of my life with my girl…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 02:10 PM
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There is something weird in this sub, I keep asking question and people keep avoiding to answer them. Is there a problem with my keyboard? Can you see the question mark here -> ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 01:54 PM
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Bare in mind, majority of people don’t have dark or dramatic pasts, everyone’s got a combination of little things. Indeed but to know that, you have to care about someone's past, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 01:43 PM
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I did get that but there is something that don't quite make sens in your reasoning: -In one hand, you tend to say that people shouldn't care about someone's past (Correct me if I'm wrong but I believe that's the premise of your first post). -Then you said that you can predict than an abusive man "is not going to be honest or he’s going to downplay it massively, and he probably going to act offended if (you did ask him about abuse in his past). So in one case you believe that people shouldn't use…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 01:41 PM
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I highly doubt that people thinking that someone's past isn't an indication of his future action is the majority. If that was the case "Are we dating the same guys", "tea app" or even any sort of online individual evalution would be marginal.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 01:28 PM
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No you cant. Then prove it. Do you blame abuse victims, yes or no? No, I'm not. “We should all assume the victims are just stupid and focus on calling the victims stupid instead of being disgusted hy abuse”. So you can't answer a simple Yes or no question because it derail your whole logic. You could just admit it, there was no need of trying to twist my words like you are doing like that. This is low. Name them, because I bet most people have done similar things and not in a manipulative contex…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 12:58 PM
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Ok so let me try to get this strait: If you want to predict someone past behavior, the past action of this person is irrelevant but past actions of other people are an accurate predictor?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 12:15 PM
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So you don't care about someone past. Thanks for the precision. I believe that this is a rather peculiar behavior. May I ask is you are applying this logic to every aspect of your life? For example, do you check for online review of a restaurant or do you also feel that your experience you'll have with this restaurant have no connection to what other people may have experienced? Sorry if it's seems inapropriate or to personal, it's just that I'm curious when I encounter someone who is having a m…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 12:07 PM
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First the CEO of McDonald, now this. Why can't anyone eat a burger normaly anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 11:07 AM
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Was it a missdemeanor or a crime?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 10:54 AM
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But the majority of people have committed crimes even though we expect them not to. Where the fuck do you live?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 10:11 AM
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So you're using past experience (aka learning) to predict how an individual will behave in that situation. Am I correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 10:06 AM
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That's not the question. The fact that he's lying or not is irrelevant, you can totally learn this information for a third party. The question is : If the man you are dating has made several sexual agression or beat up his girlfriend, would you want to know? That's a yes or no question. Since you claimed that needing to know someone past isn't ok, responding "no" would be totaly valid. but as I said, this is a bold choice. The question is how do I let him treat me That's indeed the most importan…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 10:03 AM
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We dont' except that no one will commit "crimes", this is why we are law for that kind of cases. We except that the vast majority of people whill follow those rules, not everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 09:12 AM
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Even in that situation no one is stoping you from ending your relationship then starting the next one instead of cheating. I don't really see anything unrealistic in that. We do expect the majority to follow social rules which are way more restrictive than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 08:58 AM
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So you wouldn't want to know if the man you are dating has made several sexual agression or beat up his ex girlfriends? That's a bold choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 08:43 AM
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Spend 21 years with my ex and 1 year with my girlfriend without cheating , not even a single thought of doing it. I guess I pass the test. I’m not saying it’s impossible individually, but I’m saying it’s hard for the majority of people. This is something I don't unserstand. Why would it be hard? It's not like cheating is something that happen by accident. If you love and respect your partner, I don't see anything hard about not cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 08:36 AM
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Isn't that the case of any subculture?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 08:31 AM
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Oh I see. i kind of agree with that actually, other's perception is a massive motor in that kind of behavioral change.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 07:31 AM
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Here is the content of the link: that's a post i wrote a few month ago: I read a book a few months ago, about a woman who was in an extremly toxic relationship (verbal and physical abuse), survived it and wrote about it. The first part of the book, about how she met him, is very telling about some obvious red flags: -At first, she knew him only by reputation. He was nicknamed Yannis the terrible and was a notorious thug from her city with a long history of violence -> A man with a reputation did…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 07:04 AM
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(funny how other people made you do that, but I digress) Why do you mean by that?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 06:55 AM
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This goes hand-in-hand with the problem that a lot of good guys are not as good as they think they are. Normal people when they hear about women being abuse, their reaction is “holy shit how awful! I hope she’s okay and the guy goes to jail if he sexually/physically abused her”. However, “nice guys” have decided to react with “Well if she would have picked the good guy, she wouldnt have gotten abused! Its unfair that abusers get girlfriends and I dont!” Ironically showing how self-centered and l…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 06:51 AM
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that's a good idea to be honest. It doesn't even necessary have to be romantic. I'll would prefer to meet a stranger than have lunch with some of my coworkers.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 09:53 AM
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Damn, that was a nice move from your side. That should have worked.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 09:46 AM
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The 80s/90s were the peak period of steroids and PED: Massive progress in the pharmaceutical industry and testing weren't catching up yet. Just look at any heavyweight boxer from that era, dudes were jacked like bodybuilder.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 09:14 AM
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wow a man who is trying to manipulate a woman and "unexpectedly" fall in love with her. Never seen that one before! Well, at least, this time, it's in Alabama, a refreshing change on scenery
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 08:33 AM
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Acting like adults? Are you new to dating? we don't do that here. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 08:30 AM
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I've been banned for a few days for "solliciting child porn" in a discussion with you, in a message where I wasn't solliciting any child porn. I never done that in my life and I never will. Coincidentaly it happened a few days after an heated argument I had with a mods where they weren't looking good. So I guess it was just the revenge of someone who was mad about losing in a debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 08:27 AM
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<image> Modern problems require modern solutions.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 08:03 AM
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Lmfao, mods around here are something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 07:16 AM
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Does body positivity for men even exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 07:15 AM
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What did you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 07:10 AM
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I also agree with that. It's the best thing to do but it's not automatic and yes, some people are playing with an insanely nerfed deck.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 05:14 PM
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“Good” does not mean “the very best top 10”. It means reasonably capable or tolerably competent. Loads of very ordinary high school boys are considered “good in sports” without being “top 10”. Maybe this is a language thing? But in English, “good” does not imply absolute perfection. It’s often just “satisfactory”. Men and women aren't judged with the same standard for "good", I'm keep saying that the standard are different. So I guess we finally agree on that. Indeed. A man meeting the female st…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 04:56 PM
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Excatly, efficiency doesn't justify using the dirtiest tricks in the book.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 04:14 PM
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What authority are you talking about? What authority does a man have simply because he is a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 03:31 PM
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Here is a guy in Belgium who tryed to be labeled as "protector" while a women was getting harased by some dudes. So basicaly what men who do not assault women gain for that is permanent brain damage. What a great deal!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 03:28 PM
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The orgasm gap occurs because women are to quick to let sex be over before they’ve cum because they just want to move on with their life after the guys done, If women can't come back to there lives quick enough after sex with you, well maybe you're not very good at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 02:33 PM
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It can works, especially on people with self esteem issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 01:57 PM
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Your words: "As a very direct comparison, men are naturally a lot stronger and faster than women, so being good in sports is vastly harder for women than for men…" It's not because, as said, men and women are not judged on the same standard, the thresold for good performance are not the same for men and women in almost every sport, and at every levels. If you really think that people are massively saying that Cha'kari ridchardson olympic title don't mean shit because she wouldn't qualify as a ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 01:54 PM
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If you have that kind of mindset, then it doesn't matter how attractive or ugly you are, to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 08:09 AM
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I thought exactly the same OP must me trolling or something, that's the only way this post make sens.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 08:05 AM
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Yeah, sorry I did misread. I thought you were saying my revulsion towards slutty women was weird, but you were actually saying that women who don’t care about that are weird. Thank you for aknowledging that. You misread here— I very specifically said average men. Who yes, are not working early as hard as the elite-tier female athletes. And that comparaison makes no sens because we where specificaly speaking about elite athlete. You're premise was that it was harder for women to be top tiers athl…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 03:50 AM
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Women who like casual sex, and women who do not have values that reject casual sex are not repulsed. And yes, the women who agree with you that women who have casual sex are worthless lowlife whores, but the men who do that to them are great conquering studs will also probably be repulsed by it I never said that so stop pretending I do. Why do you think it’s weird that I don’t want anything to do with exactly the kinds of men most likely to try to fuck me then throw me away? It’s entirely logica…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 08:14 PM
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Didn't say it was automatic either. If your argument is that anything under 100% of success is not working, then yes nothing really works.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 06:53 PM
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Totally agree with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 03:58 PM
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Because she makes the mistake too many women make: thinking that what she likes in a man are things that men are looking for in a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 03:51 PM
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I became an attractive man because of self improvement. Self improvement is the best thing you can do to become more attractive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 03:31 PM
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Women want simping (aka investment) from a man they are attracted to. If she isn't attracted to you, there is no amount of investement that could change that (except maybe in exceptional situations).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 11:29 AM
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In a previous thread, I argued that men are not analogous to the weather. You can only find that kind of phrase written seriously on PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 11:22 AM
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Women generally are not impressed at all by a man being a slut. Most are probably not impressed but are probably not repulsed either and I do think that's weird. i mean, that would be a major red flag in my book if I were a woman but i rarely encountered women who were trully repulsed by a man whore. why would women think it’s amazing that a man has to work super duper hard to do something that’s trivially easy for her? And that's my point: I think we all know that it's way easier for woman to h…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 10:43 AM
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This very conversation is about women complaining about that double standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 09:06 PM
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Then there is no need to try to convince men that they should accept women with high N count. It's better for those women to avoid them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 08:36 PM
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The mere difficulty of an act does not determine whether it’s worthy of praise or shame. Not always, I've never said it was automatic, but I think it does apply in the case of the perseption of high body count between men and women. and lol, it’s not even hard at all for hot looking men, yet you still praise them! The fact of being hot looking and being part of the most attractive dude is the difficult part. Sure, some gets it mostly by the luck of a good genetic. I also do thing that being a ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 02:25 PM
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If you’re about to try to draw some equivalence between incest and women having casual sex that’s not happening. What the fuck. My point is the total opposite. Incest is not "normal" sex because we put a different values to it. Incest is not OK because no one trully think that sex is sex and assigning valor to it is weird. Sex is a social interaction and we collectively and individualy put value to it the same way that we do for every other social interactions. My point is, if a man and a woman …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 08:34 AM
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It’s seen as something commendable if you’re a man that has a lot of sex because it’s harder to get laid. Whereas it’s deemed bad if you’re a woman who does the same. Exactly, we agree on that. The reality is, it doesn’t matter if it’s impossible or if it’s easily available. Sex is sex. People have it. To assign valor to it is weird and obsessive. Let's put your reasoning to a test. Do you think that most women would be ok with dating a man who regularly have sex with his mother?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 07:32 AM
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Is it a double standard when sex doesn't cary the sale value for both sex? Let's take one average men and one average women and ask them to find 10 persons, of the opposite sex, willing to have sex with them right away. The woman will win like 99.9% of the time. Racking up an high body count as a woman isn't something difficult, doing it as a man is an "achievement". No man end up with an high bodycount by accident. Now, those men with High bodycount could also be frowned upon but it turns out t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 07:23 AM
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This sounds way too specific
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 07:04 AM
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The method is a little bit to much, I seriously doubt that most men would fall for the "take me to diner" part. But she totaly get the important point: Average men are starved for positive affirmation and compliment. Using it is crazy effective, I'm a man and I do it all the time to get people to do things I don't want to do at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 10:31 AM
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Nothing make sens in that post... "I'm fat as fuck but I want an attractive boyfriend!" "I tried to lose weight but no matter how much I diet, I stay fat" Next time, maybe try the effective way: changing your eating habits and start some physical activities. "I want to get married and have kids" Well, you didn't woke up at 37 one morning with an urge to get married and have kids. What happened from 20 to 37? Also, How brutal would it be for this poor indian dude if he knew that his message was s…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 07:34 AM
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He's abandoning his wife and kid in front of a church. Peak masculinity!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 02:35 PM
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Of course we do. lmfao I've been downvoted for that :-D
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 07:12 AM
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Lol, You're not even trying any more, this is simply a rant.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 03:20 PM
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I'm not sure autistic people are doing better IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 01:21 PM
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I would have bail out too. It's pretty rude to give that sort of dealine just a few hours before the date, it's not like she heard about that birthday party in the afternoon. Plus the fact that she see the date as something she need to "wrap up" is more than enough for me to know how she really felt about it. The fact that she's so butthurt about a (legitimate) reschedule demand confirm that she was probably looking for some free drinks before going to that birthday party with a little dating st…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 01:19 PM
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Love the old school ones, not a fan of the direction taken by the series since 7. Gave Requiem a chance and I really like it so far: they took the best of the "remake" and the best of those "new" RE and it's working fine so far. Also, the game visual is amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 07:14 AM
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Idk if it's preferential treatment to know the door guy. Maybe. Thank you for aknowledging that. A drunken college hookup isn't preferential treatment. A hookup with someone you'll never see again because you're desperately horny/lonely.... doesn't really sound like preferential treatment. If sex by hitself isn't a preferential treatment, doest it mean that sex doesn't matter much? In that case, why would be someone delay sex? I would add that it doesn't sound like preferential treatment to you.…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 01:24 AM
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I'm gonna have to stop you right there! You don't know all the facts, you are just assuming: i never meant to say that they were hotter, my guess was simply that they knew the owner so that was the reason they get a preferential treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 12:38 AM
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And I really like it. I'll definitely use "You don 't know all the fact, you're just assuming" way more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 12:19 AM
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Option 3 by far. I've been living on a tight budget before and I can make it works. The other options seems sad as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 05:59 PM
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>And no, I don't think there's a right to be upset in the situation. Because you don't have any facts. Just assumptions. That's an interesting way to see that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 05:38 PM
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:-)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 02:42 PM
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:-(
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 02:37 PM
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>That's not a good analogy either. Do you care to explain why? >For all you know, those people were expected to arrive and that's why you were told it was at capacity. Because they knew a group was coming. True but that's not an information that you can know right away. so my question still stand : Do you think that I have no right to be upset about that situation because "It's nothing personal, it's not about me"?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 02:25 PM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 02:22 PM
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So, you're not treated differently than anyone else. Your analogy isn't confusing, it simply doesn't work, that's not the same. If you want a analogy that convey the same idea than having to wait for sex while other men didn't have to, here's one that work: I'm waiting in front of an high end night club, the bouncer tells me and my friend that there are at full capacity and they can't let us enter right now. A group of people shows up, skip the line and go directly to the door. The bouncer greet…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 02:01 PM
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Believe in your dream, go date that Joe Biden.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 09:43 AM
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Stop, that's not how it works! OP is the only one around here who have a licence to generalize people because she said so!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 07:25 AM
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When you have to wait for 5 or 10 minutes, do other customer also have to wait in line or do they just come in, grab a coffee and leave while you are just standing there awkwardly by the counter?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 07:03 AM
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>Is Kim K a hoe yes was she married a bunch of times? Yes. That’s the answer to the question. And as said, even her get some drawback from "being a hoe". >I can name any other hoes that got married getting married is not difficult as a woman, the idea that if you’re a hoe you won’t get married is completely baseless and played out. I didn't remember saying that you can't get married when you have a tumultuous past. It narrows the pool of men willing to marry you. That's different. >The women who…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 05:47 PM
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It increases the likelihood, but it's not a guaranteed outcome. It's perfectly possible to have options and still treat women well. Exactly, this thread is just another one who lack any kind of nuance.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 12:29 PM
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You missed the point: Using her as an example doesn't work since she's in the top percentile of star power and attractivity. Maybe no other woman has that kind of asset and even with those assets, I suspect she's getting some drawbacks from her promiscuous past : remember when prime Shakira get single and almost every single famous men in the world where throwing themselves at her? It never happened to kim Kardashian. In dating it’s all about looks, status, and money for men and women the only d…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 08:19 AM
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Sigh... As usual, your personal experience is great and I'm happy for you but claiming that this is "next level bullshit" like you did just based on that personal experience is a mistake imo. a very big part of the reason why there are so many dead bedroom relationships. That's a whole other subject but you do have a point here. But there is a lot of nuance to had to that: Saying that most men don't want a woman with a heavy sexual past doesn't mean that they are looking for a virgin either.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 01:02 PM
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As you said "turned on". For most men, "girls I would fuck" and "girls I would marry" are, for most of the time, two different categories. For example, there was 100 men who were ok to be in the line to fuck Lily Philips, I don't think any one of them would be ok to present her to their mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 11:25 AM
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A "solid 9" experiencing ghosting, slow fades or low commitment on a regular basis doesn't make much sens so there is something that doesn't add up there.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 05:33 AM
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And those men get mocked endlessly for this. The most recent occurence being Lewis Hamilton with the hilarious meme of Him investigated by the FIA for ignoring red flag. From her 3 mariage, the one with Kris Humphries was probably a publicity stunt and the one with Kanye... Well was with kanye which isn't the most sane people around. She is a star + she's very attractive so i do agree that she kind of getting away with it and I suspect that even her get rejected by some (rich, famous and attract…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 05:22 AM
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Probably toned. Fit, skinny and Athletic are also good.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 07:22 AM
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if online dating didn't work, ir wouldn't work for anyone It's weird how some people around here can't get the slightest kind of nuance.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 07:08 AM
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Men go after married women so they can have all the fun with none of the responsibility. Women go after married men because of preselection and the ego boost of being chosen over the wife. I agree with you, it's stupid as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 05:20 PM
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That makes sens, thank you for your answers.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 05:14 PM
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Is that a yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 05:02 PM
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This is a pretty extrem take but I get what you said. I have a question: Since some of those women are addicted/self harming themselve through sex, do you think that men would be right to avoid those women for long term relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 04:53 PM
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Is orgasm the only way to enjoy yourself during sex? I'm not trying to trick you or anything, this is a serious question. I personaly had some very pleasing and memorable sexual intercourse where I didn't reach orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 04:37 PM
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Exactly, some women, just as I said...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 04:16 PM
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I did and I still don't get why you are coming at me. If you want to see enjoyement as a benefit. I'm fine with that. Then, there is a benefit to sleeping with a man before a relationship and it's enjoying yourself. Is that ok for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 04:10 PM
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I get it, It's unsatisfying, It's risky but some women keep doing ONS or hook up. Surely there mus be something they like about it, don't you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 03:56 PM
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I'm confused, what are you trying to say? that women in general don't enjoy sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 03:53 PM
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You don't get it. People (women or men) who are having one night stand or hook up do it because they want to have sex, I highly doubt that they are trying to get any benefit from it except, well, sex. So I do agree that it's not "beneficial" because that's not the point of it. Same as most recreational activities, we don't do it for any benefit but because we are having fun doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 03:10 PM
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"there are no hot women anymore" Really? some people say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 02:31 PM
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Some women keep getting hook up and one night stand so it seems that "you girls" are the one intentionally ignoring this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 02:27 PM
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Well, the benefit is getting sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 01:13 PM
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I don't know your age of your life OP but if you're not trolling, this kind of thread you keep creating only indicates that you never been in a good, loving relationship and this is sad as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 08:02 AM
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Dating apps isn't horrible for all men, It was pretty good for me when I was on it. If you don't swipe right much, you'll only get men with high elo score. The tall muscular guys you are talking about don't have an horrible experience on OLD. My friend work for the european branch and there isn't much différence between US and western or northern europe.can't tell for traditional places
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 10:13 AM
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The important part is "unfortunately it was just sexual" confirming that she would still be with him if he was ok for a ltr with her. So, once again, when women ask "would you rather be the guy who only spend one night with her or the guy she spend the rest of her life with" the answer is obviously the ONS guy since he's the one who made the decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 07:56 AM
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Even when they're not into me, or they have a boyfriend, and I walk up, girls typically go to extreme lengths to make sure they don't hurt my feelings. They soften the rejection so well that I sometimes can't even tell whether or not I've been rejected until after the fact. That might be because you are attractive. I've always had nice rejection but I saw some of my least attractive friends getting some really mean comeback. Usually, attractive people tend to be treated better on that aspect. Sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 07:50 AM
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I know a guy who's doing data management for one of those dating app. There is a reason why those company doesn't communicate much on their man/ (real) woman ratio: It's way worst than what you think. If an app was even close to 60 men /40 real women, they would brag about it non stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 07:30 AM
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Never heard of her. PS: Holly shit! 4 hours youtube video??? Seriously who have time for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 04:20 AM
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Never heard of her. PS: Holly shit! 4 hours youtube video??? Seriously who have time for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 04:19 AM
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My brain refuse to believe that those kind of message aren't satirical.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 04:14 AM
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In a great relationship right now with a wonderfull woman, here are some of the thing that makes me thing she was great: -She was active during the seduction and dating phases. She was texting me and calling regularly, proposing dates and didn't acted like she was the prize. She made me feel that she really wanted to spend time with me, even if it was only for a few moments when we both had conflicting agenda. She value honesty and communication as much as I do and she didn't try to play games o…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 04:02 AM
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<image> Male privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 01:02 PM
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What is equal to what? I only ask what the problem was with wanting to be wanted. I get some answers saying that the problem was about being desperate about it, which I can totally get
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 10:31 AM
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So, basically, your main "argument" can only be disproven by showing you that "choose better" isn't always use no matter the context and can be a valid advice but, somehow, we are not allowed to do that, that's convenient for you! So , for you, situations where "choose better" is valid IRL aren't an argument. But those you read around there are valid arguments (even if you can't display a single example), that's also very convenient for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 07:11 AM
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What use of them? Well, when it's justified. I can present you with a few situations. I encountered IRL where the "choose better" argument was totally justified. We can discuss about them if you want but you'll have to promise that you'll do it in good faith: another redditor gave you a valid argument and your answer was "I don't give a flying fuck...". So I would want to avoid that. I’ve not seen one that isn’t some illogical bullshit excuse subtly disguised to do the inevitable blaming of “wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 06:42 AM
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I'm not making an argument, I'll not fight a strawman. You're not making any argument either, you're just using a rethoric technic. Note: I'm not saying that "choose better" is always said in good faith either, but discredit every use of it, like you are doing is plainly wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 06:13 AM
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What's wrong with wanting to be wanted?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 06:04 AM
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This is simply a strawman to discredit any "choose better" argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 05:57 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/v5935yj7c1kg1.png?width=323&format=png&auto=webp&s=91fbd65f81d060e4469286400c9744654f78ab4e
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 10:52 AM
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That's a lot of words to define prostitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 08:30 AM
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He's dumb, she's a psycho.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 02:33 PM
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This is not being proactive, this is textbook acting like a psycho.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 02:23 PM
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Exactly so I suppose that women dating 10+ years older men are attracted to them and not trying to estimate the probability of tacking care of them in 20+ years.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 11:07 AM
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If you don't date anyone, you have zero chances of having to take care of someone. As I said : It's wild how some of you can only imagine a relationship being transactional.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 10:52 AM
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I've dated 7 years older before. What's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 10:42 AM
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Serious question: What makes you think I was talking about women in my post?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 09:58 AM
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It's wild how some of you can only imagine a relationship being transactional.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 09:47 AM
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The "taller than me" part is an almost universal preference so it's not really a surprise. I do think it's better to let it out of a dating profile. The "no young kids, no messy divorce" sounds like her kids and her are perfect and the problem only come from other people. The "educated/secure and generous" sounds like she's looking for a provider, not a relationship. Finally "anti-Maga", I think politic is better out of a dating profile. This is not the time to speak about it. I'm anti-maga myse…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 05:59 PM
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That makes way more sens.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 11:20 AM
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I would probably buy the "Hey! wants to check my gun?" if he had just purchased it? not "couple of years" later. Like the man wait for a couple of years before going like "Did you know I have a gun?". doesn't make sens imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 10:20 AM
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this seems as honest as Pistorius' testimony
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 10:02 AM
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So, just to be clear, you took a video about a woman mocking a man for being short and somehow make it about men? I'm not gonna lie, that's impressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 08:44 AM
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Maga is a cult.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 08:37 AM
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I guess that anyone agreeing with OP has never been in a loving relationship and it's sad as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 07:04 PM
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You really think that every one has the same threshold to determine what's pure and what's not? One of my best friend is muslim and he believe that eating pork is unpure, I don't mind eating pork. Which one of us right? "here's example 2: Well, If it wasn't about consistency, then it wouldn't be a problem if the dude doesn't want to have quick sex but learn afterward that she didn't wait with some other dudes. Also you: So he's not rejecting quick sex, If he doesn't want it, he's rejecting it. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 11:30 AM
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<image> Bro's playing Crusader kings IRL and trying to see if having the "strong" traits is worth taking the inbreed malus.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 10:50 AM
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"hey guys! I had sex!"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 09:11 AM
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Smart guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 12:10 AM
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Damn, I want to play Ico now. I got so many great memories of this game.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 11:13 PM
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Maybe, but I seriously doubt that. Otherwise she would have said it, like you are doing now, I would have totaly understand and clarified the point if needed (as I did with you).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 09:12 PM
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This one was peak nonsens.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:50 PM
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OP have a problem with me and keep accusing me of lying for no reason. "But lot of women are very frank. Likewise, a lot of men are not straightforwardly about what they want. Lack of candor is not a gendered problem." I agree with you, lack of candor js not a gendered problem, but that is not the point of the thread so I wonder why I should have specified that. PS: since this thread is not available anymore on PPD, May I ask how you joined it this late?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:40 PM
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So thank you for confirming that you can't prove any of my so called lies and that you refuse to debate in good faith. Have a nice date ! that's a convenient excuse to exit a conversation when you are all out of argument. And it's totally not strange to launch a thread like that just before going out on a date. But I choose to believe you, see, it would be stupid to call someone a liar when you have nothing to back it up, don't you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:58 PM
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And I didn't say dishonest, I said "not totally frank (or honest). Is the concept of nuance something new to you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:52 PM
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to be frank: honest and straightforward in speech or attitude. a frank person. outspoken or blunt. to be a liar: To tell lies. This is not the same thing. When I say that "women are not really frank" what I mean is: When a woman say that she value kindness and want a good men, I'm not saying that they are lying. What I say is that they do want those traits but they are secondary to being attracted to the guy even if they are stating those traits as their main focus. If I was saying women are lia…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:37 PM
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Lmfao, your quoting OP's post, not mine. Thank you for confirming that I wasn't the one saying that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:21 PM
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As said, I agree with her on the big picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:19 PM
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You have contradicted yourself multiple times. This is just being in denial at this point And yet you never proved it, go figure. Then explain the difference. I will once you'll be ok to debate like an adult. "You think women can be pure and have a sex life and that most women can't be truthful" Once again, quote me, otherwise this is bullshit. What adult debate? I'm only replying because I'm bored. Is this a confirmation that you are not ready to debate in good faith?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:02 PM
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I choose my word carrefully for a reason, if I wanted to say "women are liars" I would have say so. Don't try to put word into my mouth, if you want to quote me, do it correctly. If you want me to develop my point, just say that you are ready to debate like an adult and not like a 10 years old and I'll gladly do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 06:38 PM
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Lmfao that is the dumbest shortcut I've ever seen. You're the one saying that women are liars, I never said that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 06:31 PM
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It's never "Men, you should be watch out for manipulative women who'd cheat on you with some hot broke dude", it's "Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks is a common dual mating strategy for women! If she wont fuck strangers, that means she's not attracted to them and only want to use those men for their resources!" It's never "Men, you should avoid women who fuck men that they know are terrible/felons", it's "Women say they want a good men but they always want the bad boys. They lie about what they want and …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 06:19 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 02:15 PM
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So?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:29 AM
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I'm discovering this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:28 AM
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Wow, that's crazy. It's almost like the one complaining about their lack of options and the one complaining about the lack of quality of their options were different persons.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:22 AM
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Yes, it's not that common, most people are just ok but the outliers are frightening.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 04:51 AM
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Because as much as people claim to be sex positive they still are beholden to purity culture. When they hear casual sex, they don’t think “Yeah, I wanna fuck, so what?” They hear “You’re a filthy slut with no standards”. It’s the problem of self image. This is an interesting point. Do you think that "purity culture" will end someday?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 03:32 PM
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need you to really gather your thoughts and focus on you're actually trying to communicate, because your writing has alot of contradictions, lies, and sometimes doesn't connect well with you point. Lol, you're the one going everywhere. You can't contradict me so you're going sideways and now you're making personal attack. I ask several questions you didn't answer a single one. I'll will gladly have a debate with you the moment you start acting like you can debate like an adult. No, you outright …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 02:31 PM
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What does it do for me? I genuinely don't understand I mean, this is textbook mid for me. Not horrible, not great, simply mid. I don't get what's controvertial about that (again, nothing wrong with finding it attractive). <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 01:37 PM
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It’s like you’re calling him mid for yourself lol What does that even mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 12:32 PM
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Mid ln a sens that he's body he's average. I think he's trolling about spending 8 years training with lifting "being a part of his personality". It's totaly normal to be attracted to relatively common feature, if we were only attracted by the top, life would be hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 08:12 AM
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This shit happened to me once. Was at a club and met a beautiful blond girl, we talked a bit and we started to be a little bit physical then I saw a guy who was looking at us with that mean face. -"Hey, do you know that guy over there? he keeps looking at us" -"Yeah, that's my boyfriend" I was like "Bitch what the fuck you're doing with me here".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 07:58 AM
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6'2 guy. I've been with women from 5" to 6"1. I don't care about height like at all. I would be ok dating a woman taller than me but I never met a single one in a dating mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 07:49 AM
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No I'm genuinely curious. I think there is a difference between participating and making the same thread again and again. Pardon my curiosity but I've got another questions: If all off this is redpill and most men think redpill is shit, why do women don't want to disclose their sexual past? It seems like a good way to draw away those redpill men and keep the ones who don't care about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 07:02 PM
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Ah my bad, you missunderstood what I was trying to say. In that situation the woman AND the man are both in the optic of waiting to have sex. So he's not rejecting quick sex, it was never on the table. In that situation, what the man is looking for in that woman is purity and a modest sexual past. The day he learn that she had some hook up, he's out of this relationship. This is why it's not completely independant from what his girlfriend has done, it's never the case, past always matter. As sai…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 06:57 PM
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Serious question: If this is redpill and if most men think that red pill is trash. Why are you so obsessed with it that you feel the need to create several tread a week on that subject? Isn't that a massive waste of time if this is a minor opinions among men?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 05:09 PM
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"Are you sure about that?" is not phrased as rhetorical question in this context. It comes off more that you're backtracking after I caught the contradiction. Lol, absolutely not. What contradiction? "but learn afterward that she didn't wait with some other dudes." if he doesn't want quick sex, why would that matter? That has nothing to do with his own priorities. It matters because it means that 1- She may not be that attracted to him 2-She hide a important information about her past and he can…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 05:02 PM
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Yeah, the chance isn't zero, but most people aren't great deceivers if you know what you're looking for. I totally agree with you on that one. Most people aren't great deceivers, most of the time, people are showing their true color early in the relationship (including violent or manipulative men).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 01:52 PM
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What was the point of asking "Are you sure about that?" Oh, you're not familiar with the concept of rethorical question? my bad. Here's a link where you can learn more about it. confirming that I'm right. You do know that "No, I'm right!" is the kind of answer that doesn't fly past middle school, right? (that's also a rethorical question, don't answer it). Then they dont have to. It's that simple. That doesn't make any sens. Also, most men dont go around talking about consistency, so I dont know…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 01:50 PM
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Again, she can filter for older men, that's not the issue there. Prostitution is illegal or regulated basically everywhere, this is why her profile was shut down.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 01:10 PM
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Problem wasn't the age range, it was about her bio being prostitution in disguise.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 12:38 PM
2

The reasonable part of my say that he should press charges, the unreasonable part scream for other options.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 11:55 AM
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"I've been sent to HR for that" Riiiiiiiiiight
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 11:30 AM
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It infuriate me. They should be agressive as fuck about the whole epstein things.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 10:08 AM
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You have every right to be attracted to him, It doesn't change the fact that his body is mid as fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 10:07 AM
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Because most men here are adverse to asking women for a hookup, Are you sure about that? I definitely think that men who want "hook ups" would be very pleased if that was so simple as "Just ask and I'll get an answer", I know it would have made things much easier. Hook ups are about vibes, asking for it and making it "official" is killing the vibe and women hate that. Most of them would even find it insulting because deep down, they know that being "hook up material" isn't flattering for a woman…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 10:05 AM
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This result after "making lifting his entire personality" and "start going 3-6 times a week" for 8 YEARS??? it's totaly normal that everyone is shitting on him, this morron is treading water and is blaming everything on his poor genetic and how instragram is lying. "I have a better physique than the general population", man you're mid as fuck and spent countless hours on it. he's the one who doesn't have realistic expectation, he should start lifting seriously instead of swinging 4 lb dumbells.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 09:20 AM
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I saw that movie, it's awful, really. There is a musical part in the middle which came out of nowhere and is trully terrible. It is written and directed by a woman, which is very obvious in the way the main character is always the one in control and how men character are so badly written. At the end of the movie, she came back to her husband and there sex life is better than ever because she "own her sexuality" now. I kid you not, this is that dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 08:32 AM
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This is a textbook example of a woman looking at the top 20% of men and making it the norm, ignoring every other guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 07:58 AM
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What a bunch of NPC, they are dumb as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 01:28 PM
1

Well, I believe your post is sarcastic so I'm laughing with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 10:23 AM
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"TradCath influencer Sarah Stock admits to cheating on her husband with married man Elijah "women are just a bunch of holes" Schaffer." Remember guys, it's all about personality/s
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 10:01 AM
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This is indeed a great idea. Any man should avoid women suggesting this kind of dumbness.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 03:32 PM
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I agree, their is not much to discuss. Good day to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 01:21 PM
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Move on, there is nothing to build on at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 11:18 AM
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My rating would be pretty similar so yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 11:16 AM
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Just pass my company formation for sexual harrassment policy. Not a single video with a hilariously dumb situation and bad acting, my day is ruined.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 10:46 AM
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I'm ok to delay sex for the right woman if she is consistent whit it. I'm also into the assumption that if you start dating, you should be exclusive. Since this situation contradict those two principle, this is a hard no for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 08:45 AM
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A guy who isn't filled with jealousy would be like "I want a woman who has morals and likes to time her time knowing a guy before sleeping him. I'm not a super sexual person, so I prefer if she's also a prude like me". That's a totaly valid answer, except the super sexual part. I can guarantee you that most super sexual men wouldn't want a woman with a super sexual past for the long run. So there must be something else than jealousy in play. But that's not what you care about, otherwise you woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 08:09 AM
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Wait, this is a serious post? It makes it even more funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 03:28 PM
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And if we can admit that then we can start seeing women as the angels they really are. This is the kind of shitpost we want! Good job OP!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 03:21 PM
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There was a woman on a french subreddit who was talking about how her boyfriend was leaving shit stains on the sheet every time they had sex. This was hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 11:22 AM
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cm? Girl, you live in the shire.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 10:21 AM
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Just out of curiosity, what's the average height for a man in your country?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 09:26 AM
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What do you mean by completely made up? aren't all the thing directly available on the DOJ website? Side note: the fact that some powerful men were into that shit and the only person in prison is a woman should put every feminists out there in rage.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 08:15 AM
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This is how I understand your whole thing about "Did you ask for a hook up?". If I mistaken, please fil free to explain me. If you do believe that fast sex can happen in a LTR, then we agree on that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:20 PM
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This post is confusing as fuck, how does he know? I got to tell that one prerequisite for a a therapy to be effective is a trust in the therapist. If he feel that he can't trust her, he should definitely seek someone else. But I'm just confused by how he got this information.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 10:11 AM
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I could watch the video of Trump shitting his pants hundred times, it would still be hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 09:53 AM
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It reminds me that I only date attractive girls but it's just because I like their personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 07:04 AM
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Question for trump supporter: Do you still support him now that he's a certified pedophile?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 10:51 AM
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This is the energy she want from the attractive guys who dont' have to display that kind of energy to get what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 10:50 AM
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She's attractive, seems natural and genuinely nice. Does it deserve glaze? Probably not but I do understand where they came from
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 07:56 AM
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Girls! When a man hurt you, this is the correct way to heal. Making 2 rant tread a day on PPD will get you nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 07:45 AM
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Probably true and I suspect this guy would put too much significance to any woman being nice to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 08:50 PM
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Physical initiation is the same as asking for casual sex, it's just the non verbal from. The type of sex being had is still casual, a hook up, because it's not happening in the context of a committed LTR. I believe that OP means verbal demand, otherwise her post doesnt make sens imo. Both the man and the woman were interested in a hook up with each other, because they literally agreed to have sex without commitment, that's what a hook up is. The fact that besides this both of them claims that th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 08:39 PM
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Having sex early in a relationship is having sex in a committed LTR, it has nothing to do with hookups Totally, that's what OP doesn't understand. That's only possible if people approached you for casual sex, evidently then you never had to ask for it. Not really, as I said, It happened naturally. You start making out and one thing lead to another. Nah this is interesting. Continue what? Lets take a situation that happened to me a few time: meet a girl, she's looking for LTR, I'm looking for LTR…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 08:07 PM
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I do agree, now go tell OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 07:52 PM
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I don't know but I seriously doubt that their main objective is to get rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 07:44 PM
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The truth of the matter, that you kept ignoring throughout this nonsensical wall of text, is that non of the men who fucked Lilly Philips approached her on the premise of an LTR. Exactly and probably none of them was interested in a LTR with her. The situational reality is that you have to ask someone for a hook up in order to have sex with them prior to a relationship. Asking for a hook up doesn't imply interest in commitment therefore, evidently no one who agrees to casual sex wants a relation…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 07:40 PM
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It does matter, the more success the better. Rejection isn't hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 07:28 PM
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Or they realise that this is only a marketing things and don't pay much credit into it, unlike OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 06:38 PM
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Agree to what? That rejection is hot?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 06:33 PM
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Well, I which that this post never exist but here we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 06:28 PM
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You're the one saying they where struggling... I guess I don't really understand what you mean. If they are attractive to some women and are in situation of hook up, I wouldn't call them struggling.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 06:25 PM
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And OP agree to this
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 06:22 PM
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OP is backing it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 06:22 PM
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Difference is that I don't recall any men saying that "rejection is hot".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 04:37 PM
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I love the fact that OP try to gaslight men into thinking that what's hot is the rejection which is plainly wrong and she knows that. What's hot for woman is the approach, with the condition that the man is attractive and doing it wright. The failure in that exercise isn't hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 04:31 PM
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To be in situation of hook up, you have to be somehow attractive so I doubt that struggling guys have those kind of issues. But I do agree with you, my point was more against OP position who see men/women dating relationships as strictly hook up VS Long time relationship which doesn't make sens imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 04:24 PM
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A deodorant company told me that girls would sexually assault me if I use their products. It's a marketing campain so that must be true!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 03:47 PM
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I think that there is something you need to know if you want to understand men because you clearly don't for the moment: Men classify women into different category that can be summarize by (I'm using hoe_math relationship zone which is the most accurate support on that matter: -The one I could marry (aka the keepers). -The one I could have more a relationship with but I'll just see how it goes (aka the sleepers). -The one I could have sex with but I don't want anyone to know or see me with them …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 02:02 PM
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an hook up is actually a good way to start a relationship, a lot of ltr start this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 01:03 PM
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Or they where trying to mug him or something like that. I met a lot of women who were ok to meet me,/ go to my hotel/ invite me to their places when I was a stranger. People aren't that afraid of someone they are attracted to, mowen are not exception to that rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 11:29 AM
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Well she was the one who wanted a stranger to stay over at her place so I guess men doesn't feel this unsafe.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 10:42 AM
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Whatever you want to achieve, there's always a tutorial somewhere and I think it's beautiful
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 09:45 AM
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A president that only work for his interest want to drive the house market up because he owns a ton of real estate? What a chocker!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 08:23 AM
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That's totally a telltale type of game. A few choice have consequences but most are just leading to the same outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 08:56 PM
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Yeah, only made one playthrough but I bet that a lot of choices don't change the outcome much.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 04:47 PM
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True, I've romanced BB but didn't kiss her until she was single so I didn't get that. But to your point I guess "skinny snarky loner snags GF from buff Chad superhero" is its own male fantasy. You might be into something. I also feel like this really downplays Invisigal'a issues. She is a literal criminal for starters and did something really fucked up in her past that I'm not going to get into because it's a massive spoiler. Literally flip the genders and you have a classic "I can fix him" love…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 04:08 PM
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Have you play the video game "discord"? If not, you should, it's quite fun. There is a bit of romance in it and this is an interesting thing to analyse of it. In the game, the main character can romance one of two girls. The game gets some success and a female streamer makes a very good analogy by calling it a "twilight for dudes". I think she is right, there is a lot of element that are making both of those romance options a fantasy for dudes: -Both girls are really attractive. -Both are flirty…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 03:38 PM
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Those situations can't be flipped, men and women are different and act differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 03:06 PM
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Welcome to the life of an average guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 02:52 PM
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he's probably struggling on the dating market and since no new women want him, he's turning on the one who use to want him. Or he really never forget you. Take a pick.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 02:37 PM
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My take: He just get a divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 02:13 PM
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Exactly, most of the time, you end up dating people in your direct environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 01:03 PM
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It is hilarious. Guys keep saying that they don't care about degrees and the two women posting here are like "Nope, I know better".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 12:27 PM
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I guess that hot dude didn't text you back since friday night.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 12:20 PM
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This is ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 12:08 PM
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Your degree have little to do with your attractiveness, men Don't care about that. They care about kindness and hotness, a women braging that she's the bomb because of her degree is unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 12:00 PM
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So dental school is basically reverse online dating. Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 11:57 AM
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that's another option but going for those guys just for the sake off vetting them doesn't make much sens. If I had to bet, I would say that the most likely option is that she's full of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 10:12 AM
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Yeah clearly not normal, I can't really see how you can encounter that many out of the ordinary dates except if she's dating a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 10:05 AM
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You are probably right, I only know a bunch of extrem feminists IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 09:37 AM
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You are right and I should have been clearer. I was speaking about what I call "extrem feminists", the one who are framing a narrative where eerything bad is caused by men and patriarchy while women are no responsiblity. I agree with "classic feminism": Seeking equality between men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 09:28 AM
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This is a hilarious take. I’ve met more female feminists who are against porn, than men who are the primary consumers of it. Personaly, all of the feminist I know are on a shrodinger situation on porn and sex work. On one hand porn is bad, prostitution is bad and men should be banned for using them. On the other hand, women can do wathever they want, owning your sexuality is empowering and sex workers should be glorified, not ostracised. As you can tell, this double standard doesn't make sens.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 09:16 AM
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There is a little bit of variation from one person to another but it's far from 100% subjective. Also, I hate to break that to you but women saying that they are surprised that you have no girlfriend are probably just being polite. Saying something different would be rude.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 08:29 AM
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There are hot men who are good men, I think most of them are good. But you rarely ear of them: Most of them are dating great girls and are in an happy relationship. What we ear about are those who aren't that great: The one women are complaining about. So it makes sens that the focus are on them on a sub like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 06:43 AM
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Both can be true but regarding the top tiers fuckboy, you have no idea how slumming they are. Some of those are fucking a different girl almost every night.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 06:36 AM
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Well a lot of men want a women who can vet bad guys and is able to resist the temptation of easy hook up. A woman that can do that show sign of determination, consistence and strong will. Those are benefic traits for a long term relationship. It's not weird, YOU think it's weird, it makes a lot of sens for most men, even if a part of it is trully subconcious, I'll give you that.this video explain it better than I would Its weird, it's like you sounds surprised that men and women aren't looking f…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 09:49 PM
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Most people dont want to soothe the ego of someone who doesn't want to deal with their unhealed trauma. Yes, unhealed trauma is one of the reason why men tend to avoid women with a tumultuous past. Is that your point? Sane people don't obsess where other men's dicks have been unless it was something illegal. Why should a sane be with someone so filled with jealousy that they dont even vet towards the women they want? Dont even vet towards the women they want? i genuinely don't understand, what d…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 09:27 PM
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His fragile ego is not her problem Well, usually, in a sane relationship, people tend to care about the feelings of their significant others. If he feels that upset he didn't get the wild sex her ex got, he should vet for women who want wild sex with them. That's an option, another one is to vet women based on their past and discard women who did hook up. I'm glad you're the one suggesting it, women around here tend to hate when men suggest on of this options. I wouldnt even be friends with peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 08:41 PM
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Also, DID YOU ASK FOR A HOOKUP? You dont get to whine about double standards and being used for resources if you never discussed your priorities and intentions. If anything, it looks like you wanted to lie your way into getting sex pretending you want a relationship. What is your weird fixation about asking for a hook up? I really don't get it. Do you mean that if sex happen early then it's a mandatory hook up and it can't be a long term relationship? That you are comdemned to wait for the relat…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 06:27 PM
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I didn't even know that red pill women was a thing. It's... Well... Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 12:00 PM
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A small yacht is a few grands a week, nothing extravagant if you're ok with being financiary irresponsible. Big billionnaire yatchs are another story.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 10:54 AM
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I believe this isn't a "one size fit all" case, more a situational thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 10:14 AM
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<image> Go get those badies grandpa!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 08:02 AM
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I've never seen a woman write like that. 🤷 Maybe I'm not in the right "feminine" spaces. Really? That is like a dead giveaway for me. That's not my reasoning though. The keywords from manosphere spaces are the giveaway. Not into manosphere much, what are those keywords?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 07:02 AM
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I do agree that getting in shape is way more effective, the halo effect is real. But in the same time, improving social skills can also be achieved.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 06:18 AM
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I totally agree that you can't develop your social skills without actively socializing. Sure, some people are naturals but even them are practising a lot. But is empathy the same thing? I don't know, it feels more like something that you have or you don't. You may probably develop it a bit by being more focus on understanding other but that doesn't feel as responsive as socialisation (even if we can totally argue that empathy is a part of socializing) For this reason, I seriously doubt that an i…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 06:15 AM
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I'm not the guy in those messages. Even if she's broke, she doesn't know anyone who can watch the kid? The fact that bringing the kid his her best option is frightening.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 05:12 AM
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I don't get it, why would they hate women if they were raised by single mom?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 04:52 AM
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Being close to someone from a significant period of time is a natural way to create link, I would argue that it's even one of the most effective way to pair bond. Never been working with a girl for a while whitout feeling any attraction to her and someday telling yourself that she definitely have something? Women in particular are very sensitive to that but this is something that can't be achieved with OLD. Once this factor us gone, what's left is only primary attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 04:44 AM
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<image> Who the fuck bring their kids to a first date? Is that a normal thing in the US?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 04:33 AM
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"Lilith is a breath of fresh air" Honey, are you high?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 04:27 AM
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To be honest, some are suspicious but may I ask why this one makes you think it was written by a guy? The litle "sidenotes" that doesn't had anything to the point ("shocker, I know" ; "Drumroll") are very feminine. Some of the one he posted sounds like a man writting but I can't see anything that makes me raise an eyebrow on that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 04:21 AM
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Enough with the strawman, I never claimed that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 04:03 AM
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I'm not denying that those position exist as individual, but most of your post are just multiple positions that you agglomerate into one giant strawman that you call "the red pill" then you probably say "See! There is no consistency!" If you know a official redpill organisation or even a user around her inconsistent, call them out. Otherwise just stop, you keep getting hammered in those thread and it's painful to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 09:58 PM
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It's not a single entity though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 09:48 PM
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Did you ask for a hookup? I said I was ok to wait, why would it matter? They're in the redpill. So it's the same group. I'm starting to see what's your problem. You can't understand nuance and since you are fusioning everything you read into one interlocutor named "The red pill", none of it make sens any more and you see discrepancy where there is simply multiple people with different ideas (Like you are doing with this post). With all due respect, are you on the spectrum? It woud explain why yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 07:27 PM
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It’s so funny watching guys here and in the red pill blame victims of abuse for not choosing better and how a lot of single moms didn’t choose better. But as soon as relationship minded women realize they should make sure the guy they’re dating is not a piece of shit before having sex with him, suddenly women are the bad guys, they’re accused of using men for their money, “they want beta bucks”, “they must not actually desire the guy”. Once again, it feels like you are forging an argument out of…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 07:11 PM
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Damn, that's brutal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 02:28 PM
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See this is why this is particularly painfull to "debate" with you. Saying that I lie make no fucking sens , I said "I don't think" THINK I'm not sure, I'm not stating anything I may be wrong, this is something I can't prove and neither do you, but we can discusse it in good faith. Instead, your acting like a 10 years old. If you can't discuss anything without being overly agressive for no reason, then maybe you should stop posting around here. I mean do you take any satisfaction in any of this?…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 01:32 PM
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The "ugly" version look more like the other picture we have of him. He always have that long face, the "good looking" picture is the only one where he has that kind of jaw. Plus the air on the good looking one look unatural, if I have to bet, I would say that the altered version is the good looking one. I seriously doubt both are manipulated otherwise, we would have a third version in between. Plus his smile in the ugly version match the one he has on other pictures, his perfect smile in the goo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 01:18 PM
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I do agree that selecting the best picture to convoy the message is common. For example most media use an old picture of Renee Nicole good, one where she had air, not a recent one where she was objectively really unattractive. But altering pictures is a line crossed imo
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 12:52 PM
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Wait, is it true???? If it is, this is wild!.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 12:36 PM
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Lol, I give up, you refuse to answer the question cause you know it derail your whole rethoric and you refuse ton argue in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 12:25 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/xxuhhuq0xvfg1.png?width=1080&format=png&auto=webp&s=6b1cfc09d964700acc936f19d6319530338a3d5e
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 12:21 PM
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Is there something you don't understand when I write "In a general situation"? Is it something lost in translation?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 12:17 PM
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In a situation where a woman has sex right away with a crazy dude. She met a great guy bur refuse to make him wait for sex. Don't you fill that the great guy can feel like he's treated worse that the crazy guy? Or start to question what the crazy guy had that he hismelf doesn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 12:10 PM
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The question was: As an individual, don't you think that it's kind of insulting being treated with more caution that someone described as crazy? Your hability to detect that he's crazy is irrelevant, I was more talking in a general situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 11:59 AM
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For what it worth, I don't think there is any problem with your actions. But as I said, you are an outlier, it's interesting to analyse your action as an individual but there are any generalisation that can be made out of it. I'm pretty sure that situation with the crazy guy was dreadful but you get carried away and forgot to answer my question.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 11:54 AM
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I'm asking you because that's the kind of thing that rub men the wrong way. If on one hand you're claiming that hook up are terrible but on the other hand, you keep doing it, that doesn't make much sens. You can try to gaslight men into "don't worry being husband material is better than being hook up material. If you can't have hook up, you should be proud to be only the safe option. Hook up are bad but women keep doing it because fuck logic!". But you can't really blame men for not buying it be…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 11:29 AM
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So you only had 1 hook up in your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 11:16 AM
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Ok as far as Im concerned there is no passing from hookup material to relationship. For me anyway. You are the exception here. Nah I regret the hookups because they were bad at sex and came too fast. May I ask why you was still doing hook up then? I don't want to be in a relationship with hookup guys. Totaly fair and I encourage a lot more people to do the same. Men or women, if he/she's into hook up, you shouldn't date him/her.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 10:59 AM
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There is the obvious point that people claiming that "being only hook up material" is a good thing. Most of the "qualities" needed to pass from the Hookup to relationship material are variation of "Don't be an asshole". Basicaly a fuckboy is someone with attractive traits, staying a fuckboy or being the "whole package" (an attractive guy investing in the relationship) are basically his choice to make. IRL, probably all fuck boys end up in LTR once they find the one they really like. Both men and…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 10:15 AM
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I think both statement aren't contradictory. Being successful on OLD require a large net. Anything to specific will limits your dating pool. Joining an hobby group can be effective IRL by putting guys in contact with women sharing the same interest and (more importantly) having close values.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 08:02 AM
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The real dating issues, from the Redpill POV, is basically “We want women who ignore red flags, but sadly, those women still have standards when it comes to sex”. I got to tell tou, your threads would be much more interesting if you could post some exampld of that mindset instead of forging them. It looks like you have a deep knowledge of the redpill so I assume you are reading a lot of red pill rethoric, if you have link or example to share, that would make your post more consistant. Why would …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 05:50 AM
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I agree bar is in hell for certain dudes but clearly not for a guy like him. Once you are attractive, this bar is very low indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:04 PM
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One of my friends had tons of money, he tried a tinder account without showing any of it and it had the average dude experience with 1 or 2 like a week (mostly bot and trully unattractive women). Someday, he posted a selfy were the lamborghini logo on the car seat was apparent, he was getting 10 quality matchs a day. That was hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:02 PM
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Which sub is it exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 01:53 PM
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No I wouldn’t agree they were man children beforehand, Well, that's not how it works. Functioning adults usually doesn't regress to irresponsible child so they were probably man childs before. You are giving me two great example: it’s simply everyone underestimates how much having children adds to the domestic responsibilities and how difficult it can be to keep up with it when your constantly interrupted by a baby. People who have babies in their surrounding does know that. If he/she doesn't ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 01:51 PM
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Wait I thought that Red Pill men were undesirable and no women would date them. They are married now?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 01:31 PM
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Congratulations! Enjoy the wedding, this is a magical moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 01:25 PM
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9 inches of snow and an ICE problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 01:17 PM
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For guys saying “but there are women who say “all I want is a nice guy” and they fuck pieces of shit! AWALT!” We’re assuming she knew he was a piece of shit and/or he showed obvious signs that he was one. With that assumption in mind, people who lack self-awareness exist. Men are also capable of saying one thing and doing things that contradict what they claim, even if it’s unintentional. I read your post, I really do. But sometimes you'll go on a rant and post things last the one right here. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 11:35 AM
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My guess is that those men were allready man-child before being dad. The one being off and dumping their kids on you is an obvious one, for the other I can only guess but I would be very surprised if they were functioning adults and somehow became man-child the moment they get a kid, it probably never happens this way. My point is that expecting that a man will somehow become an adult the moment he become a father is a very risky strategy. Instead of hoping that the guy will step up, a more effe…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 10:56 AM
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quick questions: Did those men where doing there fair share in the housework before having a child and basicaly gave up or were they allready man-child? Were they pushing to have kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 10:43 AM
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My god what is happening today with those moronic post? Has the purge began? Well I'll take the bait "Women will change after becoming mothers, this is natural. She can't be your sex kitten anymore because she has to take care of a fucking baby." Well yeah, it's natural but what are you implying? that couple stop having sex after a child? Instead of being a mature adult and accept that this is normal and that they should step up as fathers and husbands, they cheat or even worse they join red pil…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 10:20 AM
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disagree with that, faking confidence without something backing it up will be interpreted as weird most of the time. The being confident while bad at your job stated earlier is a good example of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 09:43 AM
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Since OP refuse to debate in good faith, I don't know why this post is still alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 08:54 AM
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OP is so illiterate it hurts to read. it's not even a coherent post, it sounds like a drunk teenager trying to look smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 08:37 AM
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I don't think women says think that aren't true. What they do is saying out loud the socially acceptable part and keep the secret one for themselves (The secret one being the most important in the attraction process). this video is a good explanation of that By the way, I see that you have conceded that women do say that they want good men. There is no need to answer on our other discussion, I accept your apologies here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 07:20 AM
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My god, this is painfull, I asked you many times but you still refuse to explain anything. I gave you a link that is proving my point and you're flat out denying the obvious. I tried to explain my position in a nuances way while you are still on your "you guys" nonsense. I can't tell if your dishonest, a troll or is there is something wrong with you but I don't see any point in trying to have a debate in good faith in those conditions.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 07:10 PM
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They still want the guys and those guys are still terrible people right? They want terrible men. Its that simple. That’s why you guys need to actually read what’s being said. Not what you think is being said with no evidence to back that up. So we are agreeing with each other so I still don't know why you are macking a fuss over that. Yet you talk exactly like them. Since I don't even know who you are talking about, I don't care. No one told men this. You guys, yes, including you because many gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 06:15 PM
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That's totally plausible, I don't see how harcore MAGAs, hardcore liberals and every sane person in between can be a unified country again.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 12:50 PM
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I agree with you definitely more of a mistake on his side. Plus he had the licence plate, don't try to stop a car while you're a fucking pedestrian, let her go and go arrest her later if you have ground for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 08:45 AM
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For heaven's sake, at their wedding, she altered her vow from "I promise to be with you for the rest of my life" to "I promise to be with you as long as this lasts." Holly shit! this is brutal!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 08:04 AM
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I kind of get how you can "justify" that women shooting cause imo she made a mistake by moving her car at that very moment. I'm still thinking the ice agent also made a mistake (and it was a bigger one) and shouldn't have use his gun. But since the whole country have a weird boner for firearm, it's kind of make sens to see people defending him. But I don't see how you can defend ice agents in yesterday situation, the fact that some people are trying to do so makes me worried about their sanity. …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 07:37 AM
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Do I have physical attraction to other guys? No Can I tell if a man is attractive or not? yes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 06:30 AM
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About the man executed in Minnesota: The fact that the DHS try to play the "He wasn't doing any of it at that moment but we know he WANTED to massacre those ICE agents" card is another proof that this whole government can't be trusted for shit. If after all off that, you still take anything going out of this administration's mouth at face value, you might want to pass an IQ test, just in case.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 06:27 AM
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He's not that attractive. He's all right but lack A LOT of masculine attractive features: bad eyes, no chin or jaw. He has "boy facial features", not "men facial features". (Boys facial features tend to work more with gays but most women aren't attracted to them by the way). He also weirdly look way older than 28 which, combined with those boys features makes for a kind of bad combination. The more I look at him, the more it weird me out. Plus, the mustang photo tells me that he's probably short…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 06:08 AM
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I also didnt say “Women like those "bad boy" because they are "bad boy“" so where did you get this from? This is why I say men were not lied to because you guys keep showing you will come up with your own conclusions out of thin air. All right, then, I'll ask again: please, can you explain to me what you meant by "women who want bad boys"? So….women wanting terrible men. No, that's not what I mean. Let me clarify that. My point is that "women who want bad boys" and are actively searching for tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 04:33 AM
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I don't know if it's that exhausting, we keep seeing people making stupid assuptions and they keep coming back
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 06:14 PM
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Totally but I can understand where the hate is coming from.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 05:52 PM
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I don't have anything against women who travel, but to be fair, every time I traveled with my (girl) friends they were hooking up, a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 05:47 PM
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Probably an extrem nurse syndrom
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 05:16 PM
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Damn, I have to admit I used the "work is crazy" card a few times.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 05:08 PM
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Last week discuting a situation where a female teachers was sleeping with a 17 years old student. Somehow, I get a 3 day ban for sharing sexual or suggestive content involving minor. I wasn't even the one posting the original story (that user wasn't banned by the way). Mods around here are wilds.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 09:59 AM
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Doesn't matter had sex!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 06:22 AM
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I agree, there is no point in furthering the discussion, you just can't admit that you are full of shit and keep bringing the "debate" to the lowest point possible. Trying to focus on me not being able to know what a good or bad behavior is, like if I was 6 is so stupid that it doesn't even need a response.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 02:51 PM
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<image> Most accurate representation of a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 02:34 PM
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Because we didn't discuss that yet... As far as I know, you are not the president of the red flags federation. Secondary "Those are just the women you guys go after..." is plain wrong. It's quite the opposite, men are looking for the others for LTR. Why do you think that men care so much about N count, past and all those things?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 02:31 PM
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This is your interpretation, not mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 02:24 PM
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Then you are not paying attention to what is being said here. I do and as I said, it's not common. Thank you for proving my point. And thank you for debunking your original claim Read those two sencentes slowly. Take all the time you need, you can put your finger under the words while you read if it helps you. Once you have done that, tell me the differences you have spotted. "all women want felons and had a bunch of hookups." "Most women would ignore red flags for a hot guy"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 02:13 PM
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These same guys hyperfocus on certain women, particularly the more sexually active one’s whose sex drive matches that of the stereotypical man and/or chases felons I don't think that men focus on that women particularly. It's just that the vast majority of women, the ones who are in happy relationships with great guys doesn't complaint about how all men are assholes. This is kind of logic that the main topic is centered around women making questionable life choice and blaming men for those choic…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 02:01 PM
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"learning to live" and "accepting" are two very different things in my book, might be some translation things.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 10:33 AM
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No difference during the early dating stage since I usualy don't know how it will end up at this point. Once I know that it won't be that long it's simply less investment on my side: Less communication, planning less things, focusing on me and spending time with my friends over spending time with her. That kind of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 09:11 AM
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That's brutal, I don't think anybody can trully accept something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 08:10 AM
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No. I give my best when I trully like the girl, I'm coasting when I know it would only be temporary.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 08:09 AM
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I have no magic solution, all I know is the scumbag who tried to rape one of my friend is behind bars because she get to the police right away, they find the dude easily and there was still evidence to exploit (like CCTV). Was it pleasant? I sure it wasn't but this is the best decision she ever made.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 02:16 PM
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And unfortunately, not going to the police right away is the best thing you can do to help a rapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 02:10 PM
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I already respond to that, because rape is, by nature, a difficult crime to prove. The only difference between a sexual relationship (legal) and a rape (illegal) is that both people are ok with it in the first place and one of them is not (or not in the position to be ok with it) in the second. This is a major point of complexity, really hard to prove, that you rarely have in any other crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 02:07 PM
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Which is a very different statement that I can support. Most alleged rape cases don't go to court, I agree with that. Being retraumatised by the police is probably one of the reason but the main one is the absence of proofs. This is the reason why we should encourage victim to go to the police the sooner they can (While demanding higher standards from the police forces of course, In my country, things are going significantly better on that aspect).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 02:02 PM
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Again, that's not the question, I'm fully aware that the defense would play every card they get, but that's not the point we are discussing since I'm not denying that. You made the claim that was a reason why rape conviction are so low, this is the point I'm disagreeing with.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 01:56 PM
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"a lawyer told one woman who had been raped (who also asked for anonymity) that they would not be pursuing her case, "particularly bearing in mind the type of underwear that you had on at the time"." I'm sorry but this is not a rape case being dropped, this is a lawyer refusing a client (for a shitty reason if you ask me). You claimed that rape conviction was low because of that, this case didn't make it to court (or at least not with this lawyer) so it has no effect on the rape conviction %. It…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 01:54 PM
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that's right. Men looking for ONS and men looking for LTR won't go for the same kind of women, It's kind of an obvious thing to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 01:37 PM
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I think that such case don't exist because that would be fucked up (I speaking about developed western countries, I'm sure we can find some horrible judgement elswhere) , so no I won't search google for that. You maid the claim that was a reason why rape conviction are so low, if you can't back it up, it's kind of proving that this not really the case. I personnaly don't think that this is the reason why rape conviction are so low, I think that rape case are notoriously hard to prove because of …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 01:35 PM
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This is not what I asked. Do you have a rape case that was dropped because of the victim's clothes?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 01:26 PM
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You'll have to show me a case were a rape case was drop because of the victim's clothes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 11:55 AM
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I doubt that, sounds like a very peculiar thing to say. Maybe more in traditional culture though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 11:44 AM
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Again, do people really say that it's the woman's fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 11:25 AM
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23 years old??????!!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 10:52 AM
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The whole "Since I didn't get the peace nobel prize, now I'm doing the exact opposite" is insanely childish. I wonder what is IQ trully is, I bet it's below 100.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 09:36 AM
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Well that's another good reason to not do any ONS, don't you think? If she gets murdered are we to say it’s her fault? Do people really say that? Don't you think that saying that she could have been more careful is a valid observation?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 09:20 AM
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I don't know but I never seen a topic around here where women where blaming women for going for ONS with bad men but I've seen countless topic about those bad men. As far as I know, it take (at least) two people for a ONS.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 09:08 AM
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What do you mean “going after”? Holding them accountable I agree that women should stop having ONS with men who view them as sex objects. I'm glad to see that we agree on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 08:59 AM
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Then women should collectively stop to have ONS with guys with that mindset. Why are women expecting good men to wait for those bad men to get what they want and then accept to be treated like a less attractive option? Why women aren't going after women who entertain those bad men?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 08:50 AM
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Even if your totally off subject since I never said that any women, should "rollover", let's spin the plate: if a woman really like me why would she give me an hard time of this? Once again, stop assuming that I don't care about women feelings or anything. This post is about men. I've been speaking about the women side of the relationship many times, it's just not the subject of that discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 08:35 AM
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And it's a good thing but there are still to many girls falling for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 07:53 AM
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It is kind of a dick measuring contest in a way, so you can't blame us for wanting peace and to build a life with a woman who offers the minimum of potential drama in that aspect.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 07:22 AM
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Because the subject of this post is about men....
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 07:04 AM
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Then there’s the whole “I just want consistency” line—which is also bullshit. If you want a hookup, just say you want a hookup. Otherwise you come off manipulative, pretending to want a relationship when you clearly find dating itself tedious. You are not interested in a relationship if you see getting to know someone as an obstacle instead of the point. I'll answer to this part since we had this conversation. I do agree with you that if you want a hook up you should just say so, that work for m…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 06:01 AM
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"Women who want terrible men" again, that's not my word, that's yours. "To want", definition: to have a strong desire for. You didn't use "tolerate", you chose a word that mean "to have a strong desire for".And now, you are trying to gaslith me into this mess You said that some women have a strong desire for terrible men, I said that those women don't have a strong desire for those men. I disagree with you, those women have a strong desire for men who have traits that most women find attractive …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 05:00 PM
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Being OK being rejected is a good thing. Keep pursuing after being rejected is not, no one should do that and you should never entertain a woman who is playing hard to get. It's as simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 03:57 PM
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1-So you are saying that some women wants "bad boy, literally ... 2-so why are you blaming for telling that you ate saying exactly that?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 03:18 PM
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You'll have to explain to me what "women who want terrible men" means to you first.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 03:13 PM
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retarded men hate waiting tho and demand raw attraction and sex out the gate otherwise they think they are being beta buxxed. if women took it slow they're users and if they don't they deserve abuse and should've seen it coming? truth is there is no blueprint. We are keep saying the same thing but somehow women seem to never listen: most men are ok to wait for sex as long as she is consistent about it. Most men aren't ok to wait for sex when others get a free pass. one of the red flags i'll poin…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 01:57 PM
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"women who want terrible men don't give a fuck about moral" Your words not mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 01:47 PM
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her exact words were "he was very nice and charming in the beggining and it was a really happy relationship when it first started" it only got worse after he knew he got her. Believe it or not but a man coming up to strong to soon is a major red flag, this is like the first page of the manupilative manual. Women hate when they are told that but a dude making expensive and over the top romantic gesture very soon in the relationship should be raising alarm. That not how a sane, reasonable man proc…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 01:45 PM
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No one told men this. I can assure you that any men had been told that many time while growing up. Mothers tell this to their little boys. It's not society's fault when men don't mentally/emotionally grow up. So they have been told that, thanks for aknowledging it. Why are you bringing "society" into it? It's not like guys who believed "I was told women found good behavior sexy" can handle complexity Exactly, they have been told this nonsense and are realising how bullshit it is, I'm glad that w…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 01:30 PM
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Men who complain about women wanting terrible men also complain about women who actually want good men. Hardly disagree on that. Women who want good men tend to find them, stay with them and (most of the time) are in an happy relationship. They aren't around here complaining about men, so there isn't anything to discusse about. How does that make sense? Because these men think being good means “not committing crimes and doing what is expected of the average man/person”. Neither type of woman is …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 11:55 AM
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Not really taboo but not something you'll openly discuss either.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 02:34 PM
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Defending and explaining his behavior are two different things. He should dump her, as much as women should dump thos bad boys. He's 17 pedo territory? It's fair game in my country (not for a teacher though)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 12:32 PM
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Correct. Nobody's affraid of someone they are attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 12:20 PM
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Well he's the victim, isn't he? Being afraid he can't get better is probably one of the reason he's staying with her. For the rest of your post, are you suggesting that this dude dating prospect is the same than this girl's?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 12:00 PM
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Totally agree with that. I would had that this also extend to the way "performance" in sex is treated: Sexuality is male oriented, therefore men are the one being held accountable for the quality of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 09:26 AM
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You are raising an important point. Good sex has a lot to do with communication and knowing each other. Getting good sex from a ONS isn't that easy ( for both men and women)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 05:48 AM
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I think it’s not that simple. The orgasm gap comes from the way society centers piv and men’s pleasure / orgasm while looking at more female focused sex as something “extra” or a bonus. How is society centered on piv and men's pleasure? Is it by making sex a taboo subject and leaving this field to porn ( which is really male pleasure centered) ? Paradoxically, outside of porn I feel that society is evolving on that: I feel that variation on "men can't find the clit" jokes are trending.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 05:41 AM
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1) I don't really understand what you mean. 2)I think men are totally right for refusing to be settling with. To the same logic, women should refuse to be treated as cum dumpster and avoid those ONS situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 12:15 PM
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You want the honest answer? Even an unattractive girl can be an acceptable fuck in times of need.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 12:06 PM
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This conversation really happens IRL? I mean, who talk about truecel or volcel? I didn't even know those things existed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 10:59 AM
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I don't even understand what's going on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 10:28 AM
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A few women are doing crazy amount but the vast majority aren't earning much
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 10:24 AM
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Ok... You learn something every day I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 04:04 PM
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What's a cock sleeve?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 02:31 PM
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<image> It's really hard to fuck up your life when you have the beauty privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 09:45 AM
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Great talk! Let's do that again sometimes!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 01:21 PM
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I am impressed with the confidence in which you say this considering how it doesn't contradict my statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 11:21 AM
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How does it works? They are in an heterosexual relationship but without a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 09:20 AM
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"women know their worth and their league"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 09:14 AM
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Lol, women don't wait for sex when they are attracted to the guy, that's the main problem. If women were waiting for sex and veting men consistantly, this would be a non existing issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 08:15 AM
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Friendship and friendzone are different. A dude in the friendzone doesn't treat this woman like a friend, he treats her like a love interest. Internet is full of tiktok or short video were a woman describe how her "best friend" is doing the extra mile for her (while she isn't doing the same for him), where it's obvious that this guy wouldn't do the same for his genuine friend. This is why, once the painfull " I only see you as a friend" conversation happens, women are missguided to be mad about …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 07:35 AM
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I'm glad that you finaly aknowledge that , that's also what I thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 05:37 PM
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Ok. So if someone said "there is a major correlation between smoking and lung cancer" he's wrong and should not say that? Damn, english is way more confusing that I thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 05:25 PM
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Anyway since slightly means "to a small degree" it's not what I mean. I want to say that it's not automatic but it still a major correlation. Does major correlation work?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 05:09 PM
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Slightly "automatic"? Isn't that kind of weird?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 04:51 PM
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I tought "the more chances" meant that the income were higher but i didn't thought that it meant 100% of probability. i don't really know how I should have say that by the way, since "Higher income" doesn't convey what I was thinking. Can you help me with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 04:12 PM
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Damn, I learned something today, I was using it wrong the whole time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 03:14 PM
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Which one of my questions did you answer ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 03:00 PM
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Fun fact from France: Boob jobs can be subsidized by the national healthcare if a woman have no boobs at all. A doctor should simply examine those boobs and basicaly wright a paper that said "Yep, I'm a boob expert and those tits aren't enough to be called boobs".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 02:43 PM
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Doesn't it mean Higher correlation? Does "higher correlation" mean "automatic"?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 02:38 PM
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Looks like we are not understanding each other, does "the more chances" mean "automatic" in English? It might be something lost in translation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 02:35 PM
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I'm confused, can you tell me where I said that it has a 100% correlation?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 02:24 PM
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Before I reply to the other things, I want to make this clear. I first stumbled across MGTOW around 2006, seeing Paul Elam's video "Where Have They Gone". He proceeds to basically say "YOU WOMEN are the reason men are no longer good" and then proceeds to blame women for a bunch of typical MRA talking points. They were bitter unhinged misogynists back then too. I also found throughout the years Turd Flinging Monkey and Sandman. They were popular... and they were assholes. This is not new. I don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 12:37 PM
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1 in 6 boys love Andrew Tate. That's not a small minority. Especially with incels like Nick Fuentes gaining popularity and even last year Trump gaining support of young men by going on anti-feminist manosphere podcasts. They're a minority but they're not tiny. And I do agree that this is concerning but, playing devil advocate, having a positive view of Andrew tate (which is different from "loving" imo) is one thing, claiming that the dude in that video didn't do anything wrong is another. Commen…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 11:43 AM
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You're in the subreddit. We allready discuss that point, I'm not the only one saying that to you: Those people are the minority. They constantly downplay quiet nerds being assholes. Either by comparing him to felons, to cheaters, and blaming everything on his looks rather than his behavior. I dont know why we're pretending women cant read what's being said on this subreddit. I don't think anyone is downplaying it, it's just that nerdy asshole aren't typically the kind of guys who get all the gir…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 10:37 AM
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This is really the problem not just for nice guys but for the manosphere too. They only see assholes as dangerous felons or cheaters. They don't even see rude behavior or bigotry as a problem, such as men here not seeing the issue with this guy's behavior in the video. It's very telling that they tell women to 'Choose better' and then see women as unreasonable when they do choose better. To them, as long as a guy isn't the most obvious red flag, he's okay. Even if he's blatantly a bigot. Same di…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 10:15 AM
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The "pop the ballloon" video is back! Also, didn't you made the same post like yesterday?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 09:47 AM
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Enjoy the decline of dating apps males, you’ve ruined it. And that's probably for the best so you're welcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 09:32 AM
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I know 4 different Chads, they all have a body count over 100 and all have expressed disgust about high body count women. For marriage they're looking for women with a body count of less than 3. Place holder gfs are very common. I'd estimate them to be around 60% of relationships under 30. Most guys think they can do better than who they're currently with. They also don't care about "wasting her time". That's the most common mindset for men: A woman could be good enough for a short term relation…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 08:36 AM
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Now I'm curious, how did that happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 08:26 AM
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I think that's a lot of word to say that some people are great, some are bad and some are fucking dangerous. For a relationship you should only go for the first category, ignore the second and get the fuck away from the third.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 03:19 PM
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Agree with that. OP describing men that act nice and turns asshole the moment they don't get what they want. I do feel that this is a very small portion of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 03:03 PM
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As I said, definition of chemistry is very personal. I don't know yours but I would say that, according to my definition, they had some chemistry in the first video and enough room to makes it grow in a second date. The important part is that she wasn't looking for "chemistry", she was looking for "the spark".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 02:43 PM
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My experience might differ cause autistic, but the chemistry I had with my partners on the first date was huge Didn't say that it doesn't exist, but I would not make a automatic correlation with the quailty of the relationship. Pretty sure that's a myth Then how do you explain this women reaction in that video? I think women are more picky than men but it's a good thing, she didn't feel the chemistry, I think a ton of men don't even know what chemistry is. The definition of "chemistry" in human …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 01:31 PM
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I don't feel that the man in the video is "just any guy". Most relationship aren't love at first sight and need some time to grow. There is a difference between knowing what you want in a relationship (which doesn't requires that much experience to be honest) and being so burned out by your preceding experiences that you'll pass anything that doesn't immediatly hit your dopamine production like she's doing. Granted we only see a small part of their interaction but you really feel that there is n…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 11:26 AM
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proof that romantic and sexual part is important He made everything right but she doesn't want a second date since she doesnt feel "the spark" and keep comparing it to her precedent relationship. The more past he/she have, the more chance you have he/she's burnout from her past relationships like this woman is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 11:15 AM
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You are that close to discover that attractive people are getting special treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 08:32 AM
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I would say that the way you insult other tells more about you than the person you're insulting. For example, one day, someone told me I was gay to insult me. Being gay was a great deal to that person, in the opposite, I couldn't care less: I don't think there is anything wrong in being gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 07:09 AM
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17 cows? Damn, it was about 15 cows a years ago, hoeflation is no joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 10:57 AM
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Slovakia, Bulgaria and a bit of balkan (Mostly Montenegro and Croatia)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 10:51 AM
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I do confess that my time there was about 3-4 years ago. It was way better than western Europe back then, did it change that much in such a short time ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 09:36 AM
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Meaning?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 08:07 AM
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No, there isn't any chopped epidemic, just western women notoriously inflating their attractiveness and deflating men's attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 04:22 AM
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"we know there is a chopped epidemic around there" this is the main point. That famous chopped epidemic video where that unattractive girl was complaining about chopped men is the ultimate proof that women in the western world are inflating themselves and deflating men's attractiveness. If you want to find places where the dating market isn't contaminated by that mindset, eastern europe is a good place. South east asia isn't contaminated and white people get the "exotic bonus" there, so men tend…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 03:49 AM
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What's the difference between her using a fraction of those beauty product and him using a fraction of the value of his car?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 06:43 PM
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To be honest, the only people around here that I saw using that "you're undesirable" rhetoric were women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 01:13 PM
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The important part is about how attractive the dude is. I never met a woman who wasn't at least flattered when a hot guys confess some attraction. If the dude isn't attractive, that just doesn't hit the same spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 12:55 PM
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Serious question: Do you think women have free will or are they just an hive mind collectively following what society told them to do? Another serious question :I like your video. According to your video men have to pay for the whole product even when she used a fraction of it for the date. By this logic, does she have to pay for the whole car he was using when he drive her off to the date?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 08:39 AM
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Petty because it's just money for a date - get over yourself. If you're broke just say that. This argument doesn't work. If this is just money, then women would not be bugged about it and pay their parts. It easy to dismiss the importance of money when you're not the one spending it. Unfair because women already have to spend so much time and money on beauty products. Making us pay for half the date is wild (not to mention the gender pay gap) You can't have your cake and eat it to. You can't cla…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 08:31 AM
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My theory: Maduro got the pics of Trump blowing Clinton and was threatening to release them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 12:33 PM
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Not gonna lie, the fact that they manage to capture a foreign president, in his own country, without casualties is impressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 12:24 PM
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Exactly, those women didn't understand that they were kind to them temporarily and that they'll be treated like everyone else in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 10:38 AM
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That exactly the point, women Dismissing obvious red flag about how he treats every one else and focusing on how he treat them. Failling to understand that they will join the "everyone else" category at a moment
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 10:34 AM
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I allready mentioned it before: I came across dozens situations of domestic abuse in a past side job. The common denominator of all those situations was "He was an asshole to everyone but he was kind to me". You are also right with the specific type of victims. The fantasy of "taming the beast" and all the imagery that come with it is really armfull for those women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 10:17 AM
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They are public figure, it's not like Pistorius new girlfriend doesn't know that he was in prison for killing is ex-girlfriend...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 10:08 AM
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If tou can include it in your OP, that would be perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 09:50 AM
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I'm sure there are ways to make OLD a better experience for everyone (actually, nerfing women and top men dating opportunities will be needed so they won't like that). The unlimited dating pool filtered by algorithm and validated by swapping is definitely not the way to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 09:45 AM
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Not gonna lie, the grandma one got me laughing also
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 09:34 AM
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Tipping is mine, as said, it's about local custom, I would totally identify it as a red flag in the states. Sunglasses is probably the only interesting one, weird behavior but not necessarily a red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 09:33 AM
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Fair enough, but I must say I don't really see the point on seeking opinions on situation that extrem, getting an overwhelming majority seems inevitable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 09:29 AM
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Dating is fun when you're not doing it with OLD. You met someone in a random place, start chatting a bit, get her/his phone to grab a drink latter. It's way more fun because you don't have the stress of "what does he/she look like IRL", "Will he/she like me?", you already pass that hurdle. You don't have the awkwardness of first small talk since you allready met. And finally it feel way less of a job interview, you're just 2 peoples who happened to meet each other and want to see where it goes f…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 09:25 AM
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Really? I can't find a single comment where those behaviours are labeled as normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 09:16 AM
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I don't get your post. Is the point to say something like "see, women aren't picky, men are just trash!" by using absurdly dumb situation? I'll play around, everyone of this situations are "run as fast as you can" situations for me (except the typing one since I live in a country where we respect waiters enough to give them a descent salary).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 09:12 AM
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Perfect illustration of the concept of enclosure: the more in contact you are with a person, the more you'll start seeing things in him/her. Women especially are very sensitive to that and OLD is totally killing what's probably the most effective way to bond.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 08:45 AM
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Since he didn't get the peace nobel prize, he's going for the exact opposite, just like a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 08:17 AM
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Some men will marry sluts, some men won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 08:16 AM
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Unless she lives in a small town and doesnt want to move away, guys have no way of knowing a woman's past. The important question is: If he finds out about this past, would he care or not? If this was just a revenge fantasy and all of that didn't matter, why would she keep it secret?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 08:11 AM
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In a situation where a woman try to moke or disrespect a man. How many times did you see: -The woman saying "I'm sure you're fucking tones of girls!" -The woman saying "I'm sure you never get pussy!" That tells you what women really respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 08:08 AM
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I know a girl who used to do sex work, she told me that there are like 2 type of clients: -The horny ones who just want immediate sex, juste like you say. Those kind of men rarely come back, they are just here to fuck and they like to try as much prostitute as they can. Plus, you don't really know what you'll have with a one time dude: some are impulsive, doesn't see them as a human being, can be dangerous... -The sentimental ones. They are here to build a relationship and are craving for the fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 07:38 AM
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There is something really important you're missing: She was in a very vulnerable situation when they met. There is no lookmatch discussion in those situation, she was looking for a savior. It's clear from her post that she was looking for a father figure and he's fullfilling this role. Now the question is, would she stay with him once she will healed and grow up? From experience, probably not, those women tend to reject those father figure once they don't need them any more. His best chance is i…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 07:22 AM
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Social experiment idea: Create a reverse phishing account with a not attractive dude with a very polished bio to show that all those stable women are going for the personality. I wonder why blue pillers never tried that!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 03:34 PM
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To be honest, me too. A gay man, that focused on heterosexual relationship, that doesn't make any sens. (And he posted a body reveal pic a few days ago that really looks like a female body).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 03:07 PM
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totally. I had a lot of hook up a few years ago. I had some women who joined me at my hotel for quick sex. I had sex with a lot of women of first date (again, my GF included).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 03:05 PM
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that's ok but they gotta understand it won't be like porn, and it won't be like how men are into women. women can be attracted to their partners and are into their partners, but it doesn't have to be the animalistic hook up on first date kind of attraction that these men demand from women. they act like unless a woman has the sexuality of a man to THAT specific man then it doesn't count. How would you know? Aren't you supposed to be a gay dude? I had some women who were extremely attracted to me…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 02:43 PM
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well, someone in this very sub call this woman "extremely mid" so looks like rate me subs isn't the only one being fucking wild. https://preview.redd.it/f74ex77l3yag1.png?width=634&format=png&auto=webp&s=51a4881ed329b49ffbaa3b2eac03fdfc96b940b9
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 02:22 PM
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Many people fake having an avoidant attachment as an excuse to avoid commitment That's precisely my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 01:53 PM
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We all know some avoidant attachment style people that sudenly turns not avoidant at all the second they meet someone they really like.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 01:46 PM
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If a woman was in abusive relationship - it's woman's fault, she should've vet better. If a woman was used it's her fault, if there is unclear boundaries, if she is single mother, anything - woman's fault. Well, most of the time, she should have vet better... Doesn't mean that the man is innocent though. If a guy is in so called friendzone it's....you got it, woman's fault. Any example of that? I would say that most of the time, when this situation happen, the most common answer coming from men …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 01:28 PM
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Browse the comments a bit, those redditors are dumb as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 01:23 PM
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Guys won a superbowl one year before taking is retirement, his final game was a playoff one and he embarassed himself ? And I'm the one being dense...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 12:55 PM
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Today, I learn that Tom Brady isn't successfull, you're beyond delusional. He's not dating on his level? He's dating down? Men don't give a fuck about their date income, especially when they are beyond rich. Once you take away the financial aspect.because thas irrelevant, what would be Tom Brady level? You mean she got yet another major hit and is still on top of the charts pushing 50? You guys have such a complex, its sad lmao Once again, you don't get it, it's not about her achievement. It's a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 12:42 PM
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I still don't get what's suppose to be pathetic about it. I mean, if he chose his sport before spending all his time with his wife, I guess that wasn't such an happy mariage. Now, he's dating an attractive woman, good for him, is he supposed to stay single for the rest of his life. It reminds me of the Shakira-Piqué situation, women were mad that Piqué dumped her "How can he divorce one of the richest/popular woman in the world" , forgeting that men, especially that rich, don't care about women'…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 12:14 PM
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I don't get it. Why would he be the one bitter if he was the one chosing football over his ex-wife? Sounds like she should be rhe one bitter
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 11:55 AM
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The question still stand. And why aren't you disapointed in her?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 11:44 AM
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Disapointed? By the dating life of two people you'll probably never met? I really don't get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 11:38 AM
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What's pathetic about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 11:36 AM
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I get it the first time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 05:43 AM
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This is why I love PPD. There isn't many sub where you fan find some treasure like this sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 05:21 AM
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What's your point? You think that Tinder didn't have an impact on the dating landscape?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 05:17 AM
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Those are some solid advices.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 05:10 AM
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What you have in mind is brand awareness. Or maybe what you meant in your first post was "there was some dating app before tinder but most people weren't using them. Tinder is the first dating app being massively adopted by the public". But it that case, I'm very confused that you worded it the way you did.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 04:55 AM
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had stigma but it was still mainstream No it wasn't. Mainstream meaning people knew about the idea, the concept, etc. Mainstream doesn't always mean everyone is doing that thing. Just that they know about that thing. Everybody knows that Ferrari exist, that doesn't make Ferrari mainstream. Being notorious and being mainstream are two different things. Suggesting that Tinder couldn't have happened without the ground laid by Match, EHarmony, Meetic is delusional. You are moving the goalpost there,…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 04:45 AM
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I'm in France. Meetic was the first dating app back then but never been mainstream. Online dating still had some stigmatas back then and it never really catch with the younger generation. Putting it on the same level as tinder would be delusional. Iykyk That's what I thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 04:31 AM
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Mostly agree with OP. Except for the "women are complex" part. They are a bit more complex than men but nothing really that complicated. What OP describe is what hoe_math theorized in his relationship zone chart, with the "attractive traits" VS "Securing traits". This chart is the most accurate representation of men VS women relationship dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 04:25 AM
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True. It's all about getting dudes they are attracted to invest in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 04:21 AM
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Serious questions: -What was the first mainstream dating app in your country? Can't think of anything really mainstream before tinder in mine. -what is the link between ignoring if they were a mainstream dating app before tinder and being single?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 04:07 AM
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What short guy? She's wearing gigantic heels and he's still taller than her and she doesn't look short to begin with...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 10:58 AM
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I guess it's a bit of an age things. Before 30, having kids might significantly reduce the dating pool of single moms. After 30, it become quite common and it doesn't matter as much, especially for guys who also have kids. There are other factors comming in, like number of kids, ages, that kind of thing, but it's more situational than a general rule at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 10:20 AM
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The fact that one of the richest man in the world married a plain girl kind of prove the opposite. I seriously doubt that the women equivalent of Mark Zuckerberg would do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 07:49 AM
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1-Divorced, currently in a relationship. 2-I'll consider myself as partially redpill. I'm not into the "All women are like that" stuff for example. But my experience showed me that redpill is mostly right on the "become more attractive" part.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 01:27 PM
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Don't say you're cheating, say that it'soverlapping relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 09:46 AM
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Totally agree with that. If you're claiming things like "All Men/women are assholes", you are the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 06:15 AM
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There is this girl at the gym, I met her about 2 years ago when she was fat with a pretty face. She was dating a mid dude and it was obvious she was trying to monkey branch for a better boyfriend (note to men: If your girlfriend/wife goes hard into sport/nutrition out of nowhere, this is a serious alert). She lost some decent weight and became really attractive. She dumped her boyfriend, started dating an handsome dude and disappear from the gym for more than a year. Now, this is where it get fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 06:04 AM
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There is a lot of good men, I don't know if there in overabundance or not but I would say that the point doesn't really matter. It would be if women where collectively actively looking for those men and they were on a shortage What matter most is that kindness, sensibility or any other "good" traits aren't the one most women go for in priority. We have enough studies showing that "good traits" are overevaluated when preference are stated VS what women (and men by the way) are actually looking fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 05:33 AM
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All seemed like pretty normal dudes..? Lol don't make me laugh, most men sned nudes on the apps and want hookups. Even other men on Tinder say that it's a hooking up mostly. Well, none of the men on that "experiment" did any of that so I don't really understand what's your point. Plus most women also idk maybe worry about their safety that they don't use these apps or sometimes don't even meet out irl on these dates. But somehow men are supposed to get dates on these apps while there is nothing …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 05:13 AM
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Probably. Since english isn't my first language, it could be something about not using the word right on my side.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 08:46 AM
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It's the worshipping part that sounds weird. I wouldn't want anyone worshipping me, I'm with someone who love me and want me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 06:09 PM
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Average dumb feminist debating skills
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 06:05 PM
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Some clearly does, OP is one of them, without a single doubt
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 06:04 PM
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I hope this is the work of someone on the inside who wanted those information to go public, I can't believe you can be that dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 06:50 AM
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Disagree on that, 30s is like the best age to date. You're prime target for 30s women but can also go with the younger girl digging the older guys. If you took care of yourself: good career, athletic body, know how to dress. You're doing a killing with women who are getting divorced/going out of a long relationship with a dude who spend the last decade coasting and getting fat. On the other hand, if you were unattractive in your 20s, the 30s won't change much.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 11:38 AM
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Merry christmas everyone! 🥳
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 08:06 AM
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You go girl!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 08:03 AM
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Because you are doing it wrong, "you're pretty" is a general bland compliment. Compliment her on something specific that she had put some effort in. Keep it simple, almost casual "I like your dress, it suits you well". There's no way you'll pass as needy with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 12:32 PM
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Use air China a lot when I was younger. Shitty planes, horrible movie selection, flying crue were nice though. It's been a decade ago so they probably improved on those points. Also, chinese tourists are horrible to be with on planes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 10:41 AM
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Well, most of the times, guys will think that she's into him and doesn't imagine that she feel pressured. I do agree that if she clearly show that she doesn't want to but he still expect sex, that's horrifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 10:38 AM
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probably. Vast majority of guys would expect (or at least hope for) physical escalation during that trip.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 10:36 AM
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I also found it weird. I can't see how I would go on a 1 on 1 vacation with a platonic female friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 10:05 AM
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Great, means you make more sense than a lot of women around here
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 12:28 PM
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My bad
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 12:22 PM
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Claiming that women can sense bad personality or that women in toxic relationship get blindsided by perfect men that suddenly turn into asshole doesn't make much sense either.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 12:21 PM
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For all I know, he is a notorious douche, had been reported as a potential SA agressor, made a few scams online, that kind of things. (Plus the twitch thing about filming a dead body in Japan)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 09:56 AM
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There is this guy in France who is being charged with rape by 3 of his ex-girlfriend. Dude is kind of a local celebrity in the city of Toulon for being around the rugby team. His face is half covered with a shitty maori tatoo, his clearly charismatic and display obvious dark triad traits. Funny how (at least) 3 women looked at this walking red flag and said "Yep, I'm totally going to date that dude" even with their notorious asshole detector superpower.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 09:45 AM
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Women shot themselves in the foot with all that "we chose the bear" or "we don't want to be approach". What it really mean is "We only want to be approached by men we find attractive and we want them to do it in a cute and respectful way". Problem is, most guys heard the message: Respectful guys listened to it and are applying it, they mostly stop approaching women. Disrespectul guys don't give a fuck about what women wants so they keep doing it agressively. So basicaly, women have managed to dr…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 09:34 AM
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<image> That's a bucket list I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 07:47 AM
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smell like sweat and doritos powder This is oddly specific. who seem to have both a very low self esteem and a weird superiority complex over women Wait, how does it work?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 07:43 AM
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If that could lead that morron out of boxing 🤞
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 06:51 AM
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I'm a decent piano player but I'm not confortable playing to an audience.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 11:35 AM
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I love boxing, but the current scene is really concerning. The sport is on life support and those kind of fight aren't helping.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 10:04 AM
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I do agree with you: Women are into men, it sounds even silly to pretend the opposite. >So many women become some married man's mistress for YEARS. Some women will even sacrifice their fertile window chasing after some guy. If you ask some 45 yo childless (not childfree) woman why she didn't have kids, there's a significant chance she'll tell you "well, there was a guy....". That's a very interesting point. There is two women in my family who are still single and childless past 40 and both fit y…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 10:01 AM
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I can't believe the Jack Paul- Anthony Joshua fight won't be scripted as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 09:48 AM
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apparently some women claiming that weakness and vulnerability are sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 09:43 AM
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Agreed, and it turns out it repulse women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 09:40 AM
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I don't know, that looks like textbook weakness and vulnerability to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 09:34 AM
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This is my point exactly. We have a man showing serious insecurity traits in that video and it repulse you as much as all other women around. In fact, that's probably the most repulsive thing a guy can do. It is not only about physical strength, but there is a correlation: Men know that if they act thought withouth the skills or muscles to back it up, they will get smacked, we usually learn it in school. You say that women protect other women, being less strong than men, I do agree but I suspect…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 09:33 AM
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I Will check my post history when I'll have the time... Have the basic human respect to read my message please EDIT: Here it is
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 08:48 AM
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I'm talking qbout it because we had that discussion a few month ago, raised by a notorious redditor around here. Will check my post history when I'll have the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 08:44 AM
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At this point, you probably all saw the video of this couple getting mugged in Colombia where the dude is hiding away while his girlfriend/wife is getting attacked. It's interesting to see all the comments about it, I don't think I saw a single woman defenfing him, the main comment is "I hope she dumped him right away". Think about it the next time a woman is gaslithing you into the "weakness is sexy" bullshit. EDIT: For the record, I do think this dude is a pussy and she should dump him right a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 07:53 AM
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Another epstein news he needs to deflect?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 07:24 AM
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"she deserves so much!! " Serious question: based on what exactly? We don't have much info about her in that short clip, I don't really see how we can say that she deserve anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 03:53 PM
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As insane as it sounds, OP can do way worse, she's done it before!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 03:22 PM
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Wait, I thought that fuck zone was when you're friends with benefits with a girl who would love an official relationship. Other than that, good take.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 02:48 PM
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Well, a least he gave her a generous solid 4
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 07:37 AM
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Confidence only works when you have something to back it up. Otherwise, you are just a creepy guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 10:17 AM
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Ok, let's pretend that this shrodinger victims does make sens somehow. Quick question, do you think that single mother is an enviable position?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 08:44 AM
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You're making it even less clear. Just answer the question, it would be easier for me to understand: Are single moms victims of the society or are they helped by society? You are stating both things in your message.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 08:37 AM
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There is something I do not understand here: -Single mom get sympathy, praise and accommodation. Got it, single mom are getting a beneficial treatment. -Also single mom are proof of women being victims of society. Wait... Which one is it? Are they getting beneficial treatment or are they victim of society?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 07:56 AM
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Thanks for the clarification. But circling back to attractiveness - why is female attraction supposed to be demonized? I don't think that female attraction is demonized, you can scroll back to my original post where I stated what men really don't like. Women try to be attractive to their desired dating prospects all the time, why should it be a problem for men to make a similar effort to become more attractive? Excellent question. This is the red pill part I'm totally agreeing with : "As a man, …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 09:26 AM
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I think we are going sideways here. I use "attractive" for a reason, it' because it contains more than just a pretty face. A personality can also be attractive ; " Being funny is attractive, Being charismatic is attractive, Being ambitious is attractive... (See relationship zone from hoe_math on that subject, it's a really accurate representation of how man/woman attraction works). My point is that when attractiveness and signs of manipulative or dangerous personality are displayed together, tho…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 07:44 AM
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Is there any good sub to seriously discuss men/women romantic interaction dynamics? Purple pill is just a ranting place for retarded misandrist now. It's kind of fun but it's impossible to have a serious conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 07:13 AM
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Also both.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 06:58 AM
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You made some better troll, but I got to say that complaining that men see women as a monolith while calling all nice guys misogynistic is hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 06:55 AM
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I'll take it as a win. Not so long ago, some women around here where calling Pedro Pascal as "mid". It's still dumb as fuck but we are heading in the right direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 06:45 AM
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Daily reminder: a healthy relationship is a team effort. Threat it like a shitty business negociation and you'll have a shitty relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 09:48 PM
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No you wouldn't, and this proves my point. Women are people and people especially young people are feelings driven and nary make logical decisions. You're expecting young women to act with maturity and life experience that young people dont really act with. Youre trying to patholgize women for a very human behavior I don't feel that this behavior is that much age related. Some women are very good at selecting men with good personalities. Most of the time, you don't really heard from them since t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 04:46 PM
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Your post is pointing exaclty the contradiction that bother most men: In one hand, you claim that women learn from a very young age to aknowledge bad behavior from men and learned to navigate through them. In the other hand you say that it's perfectly normal that women are chasing attractive men. I would say that both point are true but the problem is that they get in conflict all the time. In a situation where an attractive guy display signs of shitty behaviors, you would expect that women woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 06:38 AM
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I'll leave the first one out since autism isn't something I'm familiar with. For the rest of it, yeah, sounds like how accountability should work.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 06:02 AM
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Daily reminder: a healthy relationship is a team effort. Threat it like a shitty business negociation and you'll have a shitty relatioship Ps: "free porn star performance" Just another proof that every women think they are good at sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 12:07 PM
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A simple question that you needed to "prepare" with a very oriented full oriented description of the video first? Suuuuuure. Most people are pointing that this video is staged. You were owned by a clickbait on a social media. I understand that you feel dumb about it but that's not that bad. Just move on, most people will forget that in a day or two.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 05:56 AM
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Script: some bullshit scene in a bowling made to generate some internet fame. Everbody: yeah, this fucking thing is scripted You: wow! This is so deep! Let's analyse that!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 07:56 PM
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That's scripted as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 04:42 PM
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To be honest, it's probably a way to appear less shalow. Obviously, the guy was toast in the fist 5 seconds of the date because she wasn't that attracted. But he was nice, had a pleasant conversation and they even shared some common interest, so she couldn't blame him for that. Since admitting that it was only about attractiveness would have made her looks bad, I guess she focused on tiny detail that would justify an incompatibility between them. You can be sure that an attractive dude, same shi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 07:59 AM
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My take is that they are picky, but not for the correct signals.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 07:43 AM
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Someone who just made you feel uncomfortable for a reason you can't put your finger on? I feel that this situation never exist. Did you seriously ever had an encounter with someone that made you unconfortable and you couldn't put your finger on it? Our brain is wired to screen the environnement and put you in alert (aka unconfortable) the moment your sens get an info truggering that response. If you are in a safe public place and someone trigger the feeling off unease, there is objectively somet…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 07:26 AM
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I have the opportunity to witness "vibe" many times. "Vibe" is a tricky mecanism. For example, an hot dude who showed some signs of hot temper passed the vibe check of one of my (girl)friend without problem. But a few weeks earlier, an dude not that attractive get the hammer based on "vibe" because he was wearing a shirt a little bit too colorfull and ordered (form himself) a drink that she didn't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 07:08 AM
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To be honest, poor guy didn't know about the whole thing, she was elusive about her romantic life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 10:40 AM
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That's my weakness, I tend to give benefit of doubt to people unless they lied to me once.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 09:34 AM
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She knows it won't. It's part of the "I'm being taken advantage of" act. Don't waste your time. This guy is probably the reason for her divorce in the first place. She lied about meeting him after to look better. I Thought about it, I'm not totally excluding it but she looks honest about her divorce. We'll see if I learn more in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 09:13 AM
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Interesting development at work those past few weeks. My company is doing a whole reorganization following a take over, which means there is a couple of new people in the office. One of this new people is a very cute, late 30 woman (let's call her S), one of my collegue has a major crush on her and was delighted to know that she had divorced a year ago and wasn't mentioning any boyfriend. I told him to temper his expectation because that kind of women doesn't stay single that long. I share some …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 08:44 AM
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Hard to let go it also depends on how the hair loss start. If the temporal gulf are hit first, it's kinda hard to keep the same haircut, so men tend to shave it. But if the loss is even and the whole hairline kind of recede, I guess it's harder to notice and this is why you have guys roxking the same hearcut, but now 2 inches back.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 07:10 AM
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Those little heart emojis are totaly not disturbing as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 07:01 AM
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Probably not. Except if she is hot as fuck, in that case, I might go for a second date but her max contract is now an hook up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 10:15 PM
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I would be bad for him it he wasn't that annoying. He has that cockyness that ex-losers that somehow scored an out of their league chick sometimes have. I do agree that he's probably struggling, his media presence is basically him trying to convince himself. If he was that secure, he would just brush it away and move on. Instead, he's just digging deeper.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 12:11 PM
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The more Akaash and his wife try to damage control the whole thing, the worst it get. This is hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 10:34 AM
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I love those "I don't care about look at all, my partner is hot as fuck but I'm here for his personality". Any man dating a supermodel trying the same bullshit would be mocked endlessly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 10:27 AM
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Eyes are an important vector of non verbal communication, that's a fact. But an "half a second eye contact without a smile" is an very weak sign of attraction. I don't even see why you are denying that. There is nothing about being autistic or anything else, It's just the weakest attraction signal you can display. I had a longer eye contact with my male cashier yesterday, does that mean he's into me? Or that I'm into him? can't remember who started it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 09:34 AM
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Yes, because it is something that can be given to them. My only thing i can't remember exactly which states this affects and I can't find anything that says it either. It's been something so widely talked about in my area, the information is glued in my mind. Not some random paper in a drawer. And I can't find anything either, which probably mean that this is just not true. Feel free to let me know If you find something about it and I would gladly discut it. Regardless, Roe v Wade being overturn…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 09:26 AM
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Lol, stop lying you said that death penalty was given to women leaving the states... You lied and get caught, that not a big deal, just admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 09:19 AM
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Because it is a death penalty. It's basically saying to women "if you get pregnant, you're as good as dead" So it is a death penalty of sorts now. Pregnancy complications are very high here. And the mother mortality rate has skyrocketed over the last two years Then say that, which are valid points, instead of the fake infos of your OG message
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 09:15 AM
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So this is what you call death penalty... Got it. For the record, I'm fully pro abortion, banning abortion isn't even a question in my country. But people like you claiming fake informations like you did are making any discussion on that subject pointless and are deserving the cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 09:11 AM
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So you're probably full of shit, no need to continue that conversation. You're OG post is the reason why we should be able to redact post on twitter, just like reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 09:00 AM
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Death penalty is reserved for women who are caught trying to leave the state to another state for an abortion. That's my question... Which states are we talking about? What law is it? How many women get the death penalty? I'm in Europe but I'm surprised I never heard of that until now. "Because Texas doctors aren't legally allowed to save her life over the life of the fetus." That's fucked up. What law is it? Let's imagine that the father tell doctors to save the woman (they are legally maried),…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 08:53 AM
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Not every eye contact is an invitation, otherwise, we would all be having sex 24/7. Eye contact is a weak signal and having more than 50% of success using this social cues is unlikely and would be an advanced reading ability.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 08:47 AM
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So now is "up to life in prison", not "up to death penalty? And it's "will", not "are given"? It might check this by myself, it's probably a better idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 08:40 AM
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I'm not from the US so this makes me really curious: What are the states where you can get death penalty for abortion?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 08:25 AM
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Classic pinkpill: they'll claim the worst things about men but once you ask them to show where they see something like that, suddenly, they don't have access to reddit anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 08:19 AM
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It's paintfull to see what PPD has become. We used to have some interesting post, now it's a rant place for extremely disturbed women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 08:17 AM
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When men says they don't like make up, what they have in mind is a 19th century prostitute trash make up. Elegant make up is quite the opposite, it's a massive attractive boost. When women says they don't like muscular men, what they have in mind is the mister olympia on steroid body type. "Regular" muscular and athletic body type are a massive attractive boost.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 11:28 PM
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>But also, there is no virtue in obeying fake unstated societal boundaries, and believe me you won't ever be rewarded by anyone for following these rules. I'm not sure I understand what you mean by that. >Approaching will make some women very happy, you might even marry them, it will make some women flattered even if they reject you, and as long as you respectful at worst they might be annoyed for 20 seconds. This is true ONLY if you are somewhat attractive. This video is a great proof of how cr…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 02:18 PM
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Can't wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 12:17 PM
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My first comment was in response of that video.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 11:16 AM
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Thanks for the link. That's a valid point, except we are talking about "giving a half second eye contact without smilling" (from the video) aka the weakest signal of attraction you can display. Real live grown men knows that this is a weak signal and will wait for more before engaging, respecting boundaries being a major point of being a grown up man. Fuckboys will jump on that no matter what. So if a woman want to avoid a fuckboy, using that strategy is basically shooting yourself in the foot.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 09:04 AM
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Can you define attunement? Sorry, english isn't my first language.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 08:33 AM
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What basic social cues are we talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 08:15 AM
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It really shows how hypocritical the whole thing was: "I can't lose weight, it's just how I am. Hoops, turns out I just don't have any self control. Thanks Ozempic!"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 08:00 AM
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Really? Any case lately? I would love to read that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 07:53 AM
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I know you are obviously trolling but lets reflect on it for a minute because there is something interesting behind that: Women reward men that know how to read women (basically the point of your video). Guys who can read women are way more pron of being fuckboys (1- because they can 2-because that's a very effective way to learn how to read women). Women complain that all men are fuckboy, failing to realise that they are actively selecting men displaying this kind of behaviors.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 07:49 AM
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Men dont put labels in dating, its usually always the women asking and making the decesions from the beginning of the interaction till the end. It's a little bit more complicated than that: The one who is the more attracted is the one pushing for a serious relationship. Put a sweet supermodel into any random dude and you'll see that he won't be affraid of commitment any more.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 07:40 AM
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I think you are missing the point here, you are almost there but you're making a mistake: it's not men who enjoy you VS men who hate women. It's men who enjoy you VS men who aren't commiting because they think they can do better. Let's be real for a minute. Men who hate women aren't dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 07:36 AM
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Every women think they are good at sex. I never met a single exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 10:26 AM
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So basicaly for a relationship to work, you have to date someone higher than you, got it. How does that work for that higher person? Is he/she stuck in a shitty relationship or do they have to date higher ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 07:20 AM
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Might be cultural, but this conversation sounds weird as fuck to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 06:18 AM
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I have to ask, does this kind of conversation happens elsewhere than in your head ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 05:39 AM
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I was speaking in general, not about that dude situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 08:04 PM
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She has been raped but she is the one going to prison? No, the first line doesn't provide enough context, your post is criptic as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 06:42 PM
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What are you even talking about ? can we have some context?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 06:31 PM
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Maybe, either way, I'm glad that this "situationship" or "exclusivity" bullshit are pretty confidential around here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 03:29 PM
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Sounds like a very US problem that, as an european, I don't really understand so I don't have any position on this, but there is something interesting though: >While I heard him go “Woe is me, heartbreak follows me wherever I go “ in his vents, he admits he has a hard time keeping up his social life. Also, he brought up “all the heart breaks I had makes me take longer to commit and its hard for me to say I love you”. That doesn’t sound appealing to most women. It's also not appealing to men and …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 03:16 PM
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They have their own creator. Mostly importing concept and idea from the US, basically copying what's working in the states. Fresh and fit or even Andrew Tate are fairly confidential around here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 03:05 PM
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An interesting survey in France showing a bit of a backlash from the "metoo era": -52% of men between 16 and 59 year thinks that society is going after them. -36% think that being an man is harder than being a woman. -58% think that the media are biased against men regarding gender issues. -53% think that men are often wrongly accused of sexual abuse. This survey also point that red pill content are trending: -66% of men between 15 and 34 years knows at least one red pill youtuber and half of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 02:50 PM
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Lets settle this because this is getting nowhere: what are those signs that women have to learn by experience and that they couldn't absolutely spot before getting blindsided at least once by a shitty man? On my side, I'll will present you different situations. Those are genuine situation that women who were in abusive relationships encountered: 1-He was cheating with his girlfriend with me and he finally chose me. 2-He was a compulsive liar but he told me that he would never lied to me so I bel…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 10:31 AM
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>And that's just unicorn. What?? you really think that a smart woman is a unicorn? Hardly disagree on that, that's misoginistic as hell. >We all know that abusive relationship are bad, what we don't know is how to spot them (just to be clear not asking your advice or lecture) And I'm not asking for yours but I still got it so allow me to do the same: It's not about learning to spot those signs, it's about not dismissing those signs because the dude is attractive. >So sorry for going through some…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 10:03 AM
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Men love intelligent women actually. They have no complains with a woman smart enough to know that casual sex or abusive relationship are bad for her without having to try it out
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 09:33 AM
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Definitely. My single years when I had regular hooh ups and knew that I could be in a relationship the moment I would try where really fun. Definitely more fun than any guy I know who were struggling.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 08:57 AM
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I have to say, we totally agree on this point. I believe that no break up comes from nowhere. heterosexual men are just really bad at getting the signs that the relationship is going south and tend to minimise any point of friction they have in their relationship. There are reason for that, I would not call it childlish as you do, I just believe men and women are wired very differently on those subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 08:47 AM
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Most of the examples I use are of average men being weird/creepy/assholes on OLD to show that OLD suck for women because of the men in there and they get annoyed by it and leave. How could you know if they are average? I'm fairly sure weird/creepy/asshole dude doesn't represent the average user of OLD. The issue is my point is moot because men don’t understand that this is a problem and that they’d probably endure the assholery from women in order to get laid, women not so much. I think that men…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 11:11 AM
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True, this is equaly dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 08:49 AM
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I'm always amazed by those "This one dude is the proof that men are assholes" post. I do believe this is pure ragebait, i can't see how a functional adult can make a reasoning this dumb. I sometimes want to join the ragebait train by posting something like "Veronique courjault, who killed her 3 newborn babies and put them in the freezer proves that women are batshit crazy."
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 08:35 AM
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Damn, I want to read that now.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 08:11 AM
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It's an important part, it's far to be the only part. So it doesn't make sens to say that, most of the time, it's just bitterness talking.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 07:32 AM
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Totally agree with you, I also think that men should show their interest quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 07:03 AM
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Any people who ever lookmaxed has the same realisation. I also did it and the difference of treatment I get was trully mindblowing and it doesn't only concern dating, It also has some effect on my professional life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 09:59 AM
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I don't act any different with my female friend that I do with my male friend. If they ask me for help, I'll do it. If I see them struggling, I would gladly help them. I don't threat them differently. I would do the extra stuff for a romantic interest, not for a friend and I do believe most men would do the same. I suspect this is why so many women are bitter that men in the friendzone stop carring that much once she made it clear that she just wanted to be friend: "He was just interest in sex!"…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 08:11 AM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 06:48 AM
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Wait, you never orgasmed? How is that possible ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 06:38 AM
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And I'm fine with that. Trying something and not liking it is a valid option in my book, it's not like she's dating me and the other guy at the same time. As soon as she is still ok to experiment things with me, I feel like it's all right. But I wouldn't like a woman who had already nearly done everything (this is where the N-count become important).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 04:45 AM
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Saw an interesting youtube video about women talking about surviving a toxic relationship. First of all, kudos to them for including a lesbian relationship in the mix to avoid the "always a man" situation. Really dreadfull stories where we can see a lot of recuring patterns. Early love bombing, manipulation by playing "hot and cold", downplaying of her feelings, progressive increase in the abuse. All of them clearly have low confident issue, looks like the major weakness those guys were searchin…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 10:56 AM
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First of all, sorry that something like this happened to you. I didn't said that only good looking men can act like asshole, what I said was that attractive men (good looking men, men with status, men with money,...) don't face much repercussion when treating women like shit, therefore show a tendency to be more assholish than regular dudes on average. Many women will say that they avoid Womanizer because they are lying and manipulative (which is often true). You can only be a womanizer if you c…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 08:09 AM
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Sounds reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 07:17 AM
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Sure but both of them seams like overly bad to me. It's a "would you rather drown or suffocate" situation. I don't want any of those.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 08:42 PM
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I feel like that's a valid choice for that kind of dilemma where none of the choice really make sens.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 07:47 PM
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"If a woman doesn't fuck me as soon as possible, then she doesn't find me attractive and I'm wasting my time." Obviously, this is a bullshit lie men say to pump and dump, but let's say some of these men delude themselves to believe that nonsense. So you dont care if she's having a fun time dating you, cares about your interests/hobbies, flirts with you, compliments you, actively listens, etc.? If her legs are not spread within two seconds of knowing you, dating her is a waste of time? You got it…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 07:33 PM
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None of them looks like good options: The first one is disrespectful so the "madly in love with you" is questionable at best. The other looks like a very dire relationship. I would pass on both.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:54 PM
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This is not my video. I'm not the one saying it as some deep meaning other than "a dumb dude rudely pop the balloon of a transexual girl". I don't see any need to draw more info from this. You're the one claiming it has some statistical value, go prove it. But since "a person explaining how it's tied to a topic" is enough for you, I guess it's way more convenient for you to process this way. It also kind of show how little material you have to push your claims since you keep recycling those rand…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 01:44 PM
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I don't know, you could say that since hypergamy exist, men tend to put more energy on raising there income to gain some advantages in the seduction market. Explaining, a least a part, of the gender gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 01:37 PM
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Off course you won't as usual, you.are chickening out.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 11:44 AM
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"Things dont become dumb just because it hurts your argument" Totally, they are dumb because they are just random video about very specific situation. Trying to extrapolate anything biger from them, like you are trying to do, is irrelevant. "Because it showed the majority of guys here are quite fine with asshole behavior, so they're incapable of deciding who's a good man or not. You're calling it morronic because you can't counter." We've already cover this topic before and you chickened out, as…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 11:29 AM
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Looks like you are contradicting yourself with that wikipedia page. "In a 2016 paper that explored the income difference between couples in 1980 and 2012, researcher Yue Qian noted that the tendency for women to marry men with higher incomes than themselves still persists in the modern era."
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 10:26 AM
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Can't agree more. Hypergamous women wouldn't be that much of the problem if most of them didn't ends up bitter and blasting "all men are assholes" around here. All men aren't assholes, hypergamous women simply tend to aim for a specific category of men who can act like assholes (and sometimes even benefit from it) cause women won't penalize them for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 10:23 AM
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"I just know that i never want a man who does that." And I totally support you for that.. "And i will raise my son right. That's just scary that he will do that..." Have you tried teaching him conservative values? That might be your best option.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 07:46 AM
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You don't have to be sorry, as I said, it doesn't have any bad effect in my life so it's quite all right. Never had any complaints on my penis size so I don't really care either.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 07:41 AM
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"you probably have self esteem issues." I would not deny it, most people have some. "Sex should be special, something that woman should build connection for" Totally agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 07:31 AM
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Why would I have to since it doesn't affect my dating life?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 07:14 AM
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You know what? i actually agree with you: Men don't carr about their virtue, because they don't have to. My high N-count had never been an issue while dating. I don't know a single man who ever had an issue with that. To the opposite, virgin men can get rejected for that. I trully believe that women should be more selective than that on that aspect: high N count men should be way more of a red flag for women, not a reason for pride because "he can have every girls but he chose me".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 07:06 AM
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Well you can try and you can actually succeed at that. But ut will be more difficult for you to achieve that than for a man: turns out that on average men cares about their partners N-count way more than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:47 AM
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Serious question: what's exactly a pick me? What behavior define a woman as pick me? In France, I only heard it used as a derogatory term by hardcore feminist and adressed to any woman who weren't into the "men bad, women amazing" mantra. I guess it's more subtle than that in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:35 AM
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She's doing that all the time: taking a dumb as shit video and using it as "proof" for basicaly whatever cross her mind. It was that morronic "pop the balloon" video before that. At least we don't have to bear it anymore now that she's focused on that totaly random danish thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:31 AM
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"It has nothing to do with the woman."
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 05:05 PM
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So, everybody, as you can see, I'm not making this up: this is the sorority effect in action.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 05:02 PM
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Well it's not made up, I'm not losing my time doing that. I only post things that happened to me and that I find interesting. I have some friends who own bar or restaurant so I'm going out a lot and, since I'm interested in men/women relationship, I like to spy on those interactions. I asked the question cause some women take the "women are wonderfull" bullshit a little bit too seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 04:56 PM
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So now, it's not something I missinterpreted, it's something I've totally made up? Serious question: Do you think a woman can be an asshole or is it something totally unbelievable for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 04:48 PM
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There is an interesting phenomenon around here. I like to observe men/women interaction in my everyday life, I sometimes, post about that around here. I have posted stories where men were acting like assholes, no one ever complained about that. But if I post about women acting like assholes, I'm sure to witness the sorority effect in action. Happened again this morning, I post about a situation I encountered last night and there are women, who weren't even there, telling me that what I saw wasn'…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 04:39 PM
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Fuck, i use google all the time for that kind of conversion.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 09:48 AM
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She had heels so it's hard to tell precisely but she must have been around 170cm (which would put her in the medium to tall side in France)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 09:33 AM
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Really? I used the google tool to make the conversion.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 09:30 AM
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Honestly, I don't really see how it would have mean something else, especially because the dude looked genuinely taken aback and backed away imediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 09:11 AM
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I which I could have film this, it was really a "Holly shit, she really did that?!" Moment
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 09:01 AM
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It was an high bar stool.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 09:00 AM
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Girl seated on an high bar stool, put her hand up, above the dude height while making a little smirk, to let him know that he was too short for this ride. You get the idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 08:50 AM
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Remember guys, when they say "it must be your personality", you're probably not misogynistic enough! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 08:43 AM
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Something like that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 08:40 AM
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Hard to say precisely since I never walked past him. He was definitely under 180 cm (5'9) probably around 5'8. EDiT:who downvote me for that? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 08:23 AM
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Was in a bar with some friends yesterday. There was two cute girls chatting at a table, the moment one of her leave the table to go to the toilet, one dude took his chance and approached the other one. She didn't say "hi" or anything she even kept her straw in her mouth , she gave him an up and down look then made a "too short" gesture. Poor dude took it like a champ but it was noticeably hurt. That was brutal.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:51 AM
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I'll clarify me point: Those "without thinking" questions is actually a way to see how fast someone can process infos and experiences he has gattered through his life to make a decision. Recruiting process for high end job are full of questions where the answer doesn't really matter but they evaluate how the applicant get to this answer. I agree that bigot will be bad at it cause they're usualy replacing that reflection process by a set of undeviating rules. For the bear VS man question: I feel …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 09:01 AM
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You're not supposed to use research and statistics and think out the issue. You're supposed to respond based on pure immediate bias, That's an interesting point. I would add that being able to quickly weight risks and consequences accurately based on logical or statistical outcome is a sign of intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 06:21 AM
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Holly shit! She really said that?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 06:00 AM
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Kinda agree with that. If it was really about performance, i don't see how it would still be in the "nowhere near the best sex I hever had". Only logical explanation would be that they are either pretty bad at it or she can't communicate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 01:41 PM
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Bold of you to try to put some logic and reasoning in a really stupid argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 12:08 PM
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The whole “men are justified in lying to women to get sex since if they’re honest they can’t get it” is such a weird stance to me. I feel like it's linked to how you stand on the N count debate: If N count isn't important and "the past shouldn't count" for you, I feel that lying to get sex shouldn't be a big deal. If you do believe that N count matters, then lying to get sex is absolutely out of line.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 12:01 PM
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Serious question: what's wrong with wanting to be the special one in your partners life? I feel like that what everyone should aim for.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 07:31 AM
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The classic "If that don't fit my view, then it's fake"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 07:28 AM
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Depends where in Europe. From the info I got and the country I had tested, France or UK are on the same gender inbalance that the states. Spain and Italy are a little bit more easy. Eastern Europe (bulgaria, slovakia) are great. Croatia was like heaven on earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 05:32 AM
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That's it. There is nothing more to say, that's all it takes to counter this weak as hell thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 01:18 PM
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Women get accused of doing that when theyre just criticizing men for shitty behavior, so thats a lie. I will, Lillth, I will.I can't tell for everyone else. I have as much power on everyone else that you have on me. Plus someone can totally think that those men have shitty behavior and also think that in the vast majority of cases, those women should have made some better life decision. It's not one or the other. Just like guys who swear Cuties wasnt a disgusting movie as soon as a woman says it…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 10:41 AM
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Yeah, asking directly is a very dumb move.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 10:31 AM
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I don't find it really hard to be honest. Once they are confortable enough, I have the impression that most women has the urge to "come clean".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 10:27 AM
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Idiot would do that, smart guys will learn it indirectly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 10:17 AM
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That's probably thrue. I'm personaly ok with a few hookups, depends on the context. Some men won't, the thresold is something personal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 10:11 AM
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She might once she get confortable enough, it happens to me a few times. If not, as I allready said, observing her friends and her lifestyle will give you some informations.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 10:04 AM
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No That's it, you know why men care about the past, because they evaluate past actions to evaluate probability for those situation to happen again. The same way you did to evaluate if dating a dude with an history of violence was a good idea or not. The "but I wouldn't know" part is irrelevant, the only thing that matters is that you wouldn't if you knew. Just like most dude end the relationship the moment they know that she has a promiscious past. And why do men cares so much about N-count? -St…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 09:49 AM
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Can you please answer my question by a yes or a no? Once you've done it, I'll explain the reason why men do care about that So, again: would you date a man with an history of beating up his former girlfriends?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 08:11 AM
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You didn't answered my question
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 08:05 AM
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Because past actions are the best predictor of an individual futurs actions (notice that I said "best", not "perfect"). Would you date a guy with an history on beating up his former girlfriends? Or his past shouldn't matter, it's not like he was a murderer.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 08:03 AM
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It's not that hard to get the idea. We knows that women are lying about it so we automaticaly inflate it to begin with. After that, once you met her (girl) friends, once she will start to be confident and slip some info about her past life, you'll have a clear idea of her personality and how worried you have to be about her past.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 07:59 AM
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Fair enough. What if you hook up with a guy and it turns out it's really the man of your dream, like the perfect match. You would still turn him down?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 07:50 AM
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I'm glad to finaly find a blue pill woman who have the honesty to admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 07:48 AM
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"Say a girl wont do anal with you but did with an ex but didnt like it." No, I wouldn't break up for that, that's a totally different situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 07:45 AM
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So N count does matter, got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 07:28 AM
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Question: if a woman screen a guy for an hookup, she had sex with him. She spend some time with hil and it turns out that he's also long term relationship material. Does she have to reject any long term relationship with him since he pass the screening for hookup?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 07:26 AM
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I would not be mad about it but it show me that she's not as physicaly attracted to me that she was to those guys. As someone who value physical attraction, that's not the type of relationship I want. Waiting for sex can however be ok if her intention is to makes it even better and if she's struggling to keep her hand out of me in the meantime. If she do it to "make sure I'm the one" aka trying to see if my securing qualities can overcome the lack of excitement or she gives me nonsens like "you …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 07:22 AM
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I won't call him ugly but he has some bad facial features: negative canthal tilt, receding shin , round face without jaw... She is definitely above him.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 06:58 AM
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I'm not your the one bringing it into conversation, I didn't start a thread. I will Gladly stop talking about this the day we won't have "men bad, women awesome" thread anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 06:42 AM
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Lol, you are the one who have nothing to say, you're message is literally STFU, as usual, you chicken out... Erase your message, go take a break, start again and make something toughtful. I'm not responding to your hysterical message because there is nothing to respond to that except "No! You STFU!" And you won't drag me into this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 10:34 PM
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Take a break, you're obviously tense.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 10:24 PM
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A man being a deadbeat is not the woman's fault, a woman dating a guys that have signs that he will be a deadbeat dad has some responsibility in it. I trully think that any man who had walked away from his children should be an automatic incel for the rest of his life, no women should ever allow him to touch her. We both know that it's not how it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 10:15 PM
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We don't think men are blameless, most men are not ok with other men leaving their family behind. But as dudes, what can we do? There are guys out there who have abandoned there former wife and kids and are still having relationships and they are not dating men... Again, we know that the vast majority of criminals are men (that's a fact), but what can we do? They are allready laws to punish them, police forces to arrest them... As men, we are not collectively responsible for their actions. A kid…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 10:08 PM
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You perfectly summarize the situation. Every conversation with her is wild as fuck since she switch to random subject when she don't have any clever answer (which happens usualy quite quicky). She usually chicken out after that while claiming she won the whole thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 09:46 PM
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Diddy, R Kelly, and Epstein 100% agree. I rest my case. Lol, as usual, you don't make any sens and you chicken out... Classic lilIth. Youtube is fine with having songs about sex and drugs on YouTube Kids, btw. So I guess they are not ok with child pornography, that's what I thought. And what song about drugs have to do with that conversation? As usual with you, it's going everywhere... Please, focus, that's not that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 09:41 PM
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I don't know if that indefensible, Youtube is ok with that and you didn't get ban so far so looks like it's not that indefensible But, let's try to analyse it. You post something you are not supporting in a effort to show people that this thing exist and to make them unconfortable, am I right? A little bit like a director making a movie against child's sexualisation by filming child twerking to make spectators unconfortable?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 04:45 PM
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If you want to quote someone, you'll have to put something he/she really says, otherwise that doesn't work. Also, why did you put a video of child twerking in there? You're into that? After all that braging about being moraly superior to me? That's disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 04:32 PM
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Lol and ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 03:23 PM
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Lol, You clearly didn't see it. That's all right you should have start with that. Good, because you clearly don’t have a sense of what’s right or wrong.* Lol, ok mom
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 03:20 PM
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Ok, lets check that: How do you interpret the final scene? Bonus question, just to check something: Do you think Tony Montana in Scarface or Patrick Bateman in American psycho are supposed to be role models? (answer by yes or no) You dont have the moral high ground. Where did I claim I had the moral high ground? You're the one saying what should or shouldn't offend me and what movie should or shouldn't be made, based on your self sens of superiority. For the record, I feel that those dance scene…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 03:07 PM
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please answer, did you see it?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 02:52 PM
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Lol, Like you didn't know what I meant... Again, did you see it? I also want to know who allowed those people to film butts and crotches of naked underage actresses.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 02:45 PM
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And Schindler's list show the corp of a child being carried around to be burned... The whole point is to make the viewer unconfortable about that. Seriously, just say you didn't see it, it will be less embarrassing for you at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 02:39 PM
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Wow. I'll be honest, I didn't expect anything clever coming from you but just WOW! Who the fuck likes France? Everybody can see that your rant on France is a piss poor way to avoid any serious answer but I will try to answer it seriously, even if it has nothinf to do with the subject. Theyre fine with CUTIES being made. Have you seen it? It's a movie AGAINST child's sexualisation. Netflix made a terrible job promoting it because they are dumb as fuck but seeing this movie as promoting childporn …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 01:45 PM
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Trying to use logic with OP? Good luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 01:06 PM
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I had this coworker when I was working part time in a factory while I was studying. The guy was past 50, waiting for his retirement. He was very nice, always smilling at work event if the job wasn't that interesting. We were chatting from time to time and I learned that he was single, never been maried and was living on his own. No kid, parents dead, and not a lot of friends. One day, we were talking about our free time and he told me something like "Sometimes, I like to hang around by the river…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 11:02 AM
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Mine did salaried work. But I'm referencing field work, that women didn't formally receive money from - their husbands as owners of farmland did They did receive money, indirectly, family is a team so money going in was helping the whole family. This situation was the common one in rural France: Men were doing most of the fieldwork, women were helping and doing the house chores. Everyone was doing something for the family. Women weren't keeped out of money, most of the time they were the one mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 09:41 AM
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I don't know what you're talking about. My grandma worked, as did her mother, as did most women in history. Even if that labour was often priced at 0$ I thought that talking about "work" and "house chores" made it clear that I was speaking about salaried work. I never say that women were doing nothing, I have much respect for what my grandmothers did back in the day and none of them had a salaried work. Apparently my and my peers' lived experience (and pretty much all statistics) isn't enough fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 08:46 AM
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An example doesn't prove much especialy with a totaly out of the ordinary situation. To counterbalance it, let me tell you about another scam that happened in France a few months ago. A woman was scam for a large sum of money by someone pretending to be Brad Pitt. Off course, there was a lot of people mocking her for being dumb as fuck. But there was some people to defend her, claiming that it can happen to anyone and that we shouldn't blame the victim. Those people where almost exclusively wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 08:30 AM
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Come on, a vast majority of single men knows how to take care of themselves... And if women don't want to date those PB&J sandwiches losers, they seem really easy to spot, so I don't see how it would be an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 07:23 AM
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I don't think anyone is contesting the fact that previous generation had different expectation about gender roles. Our grandmother were probably the last generation were men were working while women were doing the house chores so this expectations kind of make sens back there. Our mother lived the transition and most of them had the rough deal of having to work and take care of the house. Plus divorce wasn't so easy and well received back then so they were stuck in that situation. Thing is, that…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 07:20 AM
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Yeah, I'm sure your first message meant that...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 06:45 PM
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Lol, never said that only women are shallow and I can't wait for your "clear evidence" (You know that one post from some dude around here isn't a clear evidence, right?)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 02:13 PM
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So because you like sex, it's mandatory to practice it with as much people as possible?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 09:00 AM
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I think that the line between those two might be blured and, most of the time really personnal and circumstantial.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 09:59 AM
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I'm not feeling bad for him. Didn't know the dude before the whole story and he has that cocky attitude that some ex-losers who, somehow, scored a hot chick have. Plus, he have every red flag in front of his eyes, he's ok with his wife disrespecting him, he should know better.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 09:27 AM
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A man that only do leg day! That's a Legendary creature!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 09:23 AM
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Why do you not respond with the proper courting dance that we agreed as a society makes for a good dating experience for everyone? Did we? One goes on to say it's rare, but possible and in order to receive this kind of attention, you have to give off the "you are lucky to be in my presence" type of energy. Doing this will attract the right kind of man. This is like the worst advice you can give to a woman. Being pleasant is one of the top thing a guy with options will be looking for in a woman. …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 08:11 AM
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It happened to me a few times. When I was single and interested, I knew I could make a move. When I wasn't, I just took the free ego boost and move one.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 07:06 AM
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That's a strong start for the daily thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 08:29 PM
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I will try yo say it as respectfully as I can: What the fuck?!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 02:46 PM
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I had to google it also, I had no idea that this show exist. Seriously, who watch that shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 10:52 AM
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Skill issue
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 08:59 AM
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It's not that simple, at least not in every countries. My ex-wife and I are coparenting. A few months back, my ex was having a rough time and it started to show on my son's education: he missed a few morning at school because she didn't wake up, his homework weren't done, that kind of things. His teacher notice it and made me a letter, stating that my son attitude and performance were better when he was with me. I was the one taking care of doctor's appointment and that kind of things, I could e…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 08:40 AM
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Totally agree, that's why women should care way more about personnality when choosing that man and way less about dhat he brings to the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 06:28 PM
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Or like a woman trying to give advice about how a man should set up a date?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 03:33 PM
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Never noticed that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 02:53 PM
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Based on what exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 02:17 PM
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I could be fake, but if we start discarding as fake every story that doesn't fit our narrative, it will start to be hard to debate over there. I agree that the lenght makes it unusual but the situation of making a guy waits while others didn't had to is pretty common.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 01:52 PM
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Implying that women only respect men's judgment when they are successful enough with women. Thanks for acknowledging those points, it's quite unusual to see a woman doing so around here.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 01:48 PM
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That's also my feeling: anything that isn't beneficial for women is labelled as toxic masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 12:59 PM
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So I'm assuming it doesn't really happen, just some guys telling that it happens, got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 11:38 AM
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Does a lot of men do that ? never read anything like this
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 11:24 AM
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Dude won the lottery: The important part here is "first ever date", which means she was new to dating app and wasn't burned down by it. Another proof that past matters a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 10:49 AM
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<image> Deep down, even women know and would tell the thruth when they have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 10:45 AM
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And society subconsciously interprets this as “Men aren't killed for their gender, only women are." I do agree with that, there is this annoying trend in France when a woman is killed by her husband/partners to call it a "feminicide" (as opposed to "homicide") and to claim that she was killed because she was a woman. But she wasn't killed because she was a random woman, she was killed because she was in a relationship with a batshit crasy dude. This dude would have probably done the same if he w…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 10:43 AM
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I don't really understand what you are trying to say by that. They were trying to deny it so it makes sens to use the more logical argument or the argument the wife is more lickely to buy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 08:43 AM
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Another exhibit that men's N-count does matter to women as you still trying to imply that I'm not succesful in my dating life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 06:50 AM
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Why would they be insecure?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 03:36 PM
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translation: Action is masculine, passivity is feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 03:21 PM
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Your advice was to plan a romantic date exactly the same way that you threat a night out with friends. I can assure you that this is a bad advice and, most of the time, won't get a man anywhere in dating. but it's PDD, so I assume most men here struggle with relationships, not just dating but friendships too. I get that a lot since women like to insinuate that a dude doesn't have any success with women when they want to insult him. Funny how I never be called a man-whore when I'm speaking about …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 03:17 PM
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What makes you say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 02:48 PM
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It isn't me either.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 01:50 PM
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"See. Proving my point. Boasting about traits you dont really have and then twisted the definition to pretend it fits men. It’s the same thing with nice guys do to pretend theyre good people." I don't understand what you mean. I'm not trying to troll you or anything, I just genuinely don't understand what any of this mean. "Its childish to notice people’s personality flaws?" Looks like you didn't understand either. What's childlish is to see the world as bad shallow people VS good clairvoyant on…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 11:54 AM
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"Dude, I made a post that had guys admitting they cant be honest because it wouldnt get them laid. If anything men will more likely boast about having traits they dont really have." Being honest about what you want on this sub and during dating are 2 VERY different things. Dating is like a job interview, nobody's honest in those situations... "No, SHALLOW PEOPLE will tolerate a red flag due to good looks. Shallow people cannot fathom people who actually can focus on behavior." That a very childl…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 11:43 AM
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"Then stop asking for relationship advice. " Well, I don't. "I don’t know where you guys get this notion that men don’t do this too, that’s why I’m making these types of post to explain the contradictions." Men are way more honest about what they are looking for in a relationship. "Projection. Because you guys would tolerate an awful bigot if she was hot enough." Men would tolerate awful red flag if she's hot enough, I'm not denying it. But women tend to do the same. The fact that you are denyin…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 11:31 AM
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I use to do your "being assertive" way, now I'm using your "Being assertive and rude" way. Why did I change ? Because the second one is a lot more effective and most women preferes it. Your dichotomy about women wanted to be led and women wanting a team partner is false imo. We are not talking about buying a new car or making an important decision. We are in a situation where a woman can see what a guy can do for her. If he's confident enough to make the call and that the place is something she …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 06:40 AM
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To be honest, that's a very bad advise.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 06:20 AM
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A see this statement a lot but nobody ever define masculinity and toxic masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 06:19 AM
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Once again, your video don't prove shit. That's one dude in a trash video concept. I'm surprised that mods keep letting you post it. Most men, at least those who are familiar with women, know how women works. They are complaining about how being agreable doesn't do much in a fast dating environment. We know what women prioritize and there is a large gap between what they say they want and what they do. I would love to see the same video with a really hot dude poping that balloon, I'm willing to …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 05:38 AM
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Might be a cultural or generational thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 09:48 AM
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I agree with you on that one . No break up come from nowhere and us guys are usually not good at reading that kind of things and , even worst, most of us aren't that interested in learning. Most of the time, it take an hard break up for a man to start paying attention to relationship dynamic (if he cares to learn from his mistake).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 08:20 AM
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I do. I know a couple like that. She has a good job in a law firm and since he doesn't really need to work and love to stay at home, he's just taking care of the kids ans stuff. It works because she is a smart woman, she isn't competing against her husband and she have appreciation for what he does for the family. There's a couple of funny things about that situation: -He got TONS of free time. Some people keep saying that being a stay at home is like a job on his own, but it's really not that t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 07:37 AM
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Which sounds right, the way she handle this situation was moronic.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 07:25 AM
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What the fuck is wrong with him? 6'2 is probably the best situation. I wouldn't want to be 6'6, that's a lot of trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 10:50 AM
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I'm not gonna cry for him. He's a grown up, he should know better, it's not like we are going to be surprised when we'll learn that she's shitting on him or when the divorce will happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 07:55 AM
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This is absolutely brutal. Worst thing is that, deep down, he knows that he's a fucking clown, just look how he reacts at the beginning at the video when "the one who cares the less has the leverage" hits him. Those extrem symping happens a lot in France with popular youtuber: Guys who aren't succesful with women end up getting a lot of money that attract that kind of women. Once those girls get whatever they wanted from them, they just leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 07:35 AM
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sounds awesome, which country is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 08:40 AM
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Totally agree. Whatever the reason, she doesn't want you or she's playing are to get, there is no reason to continue.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 08:02 AM
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Good question, I don't really know how women in general are dealing with that kind of situations. It's ok in my book, but that doesn't mean much.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 10:37 AM
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It's not "hmm, so he used to see sex workers, I have to keep that in mind and see what kind of client he was". It's "He used to see sex workers, I'm out". Which tells us that the problem for women is seeing sex workers, not about how he treat them. (I do agree that a dude seeing a sex worker should be treated as a red flag)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 06:21 AM
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Dog, without a doubt. Who the fuck want to join a street performance ? Also, I suspect that a girl like that could be a narcisist that love to be the center of attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 06:12 AM
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How can a post like that pass moderation? There is nothing in it... No point, no argument, just OP having some weird conversations inside her head.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 05:45 AM
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I guess I'm agreeing with OP for once: Every hardcore, men hating, feminists I know have serious trauma (and it probably include OP).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 05:39 AM
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Wanting kids, plural, at this age is wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 07:14 AM
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The frustrating part is that most reasonable women aren't that active compared to the handfull of very disturbed ones who create post like this 5 times a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 06:59 AM
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We had out share of dumb rant in the past few weeks, but I can't imagine this one being topped.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 06:56 AM
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a lot seem to want to be desired for their virginity even if they don’t outright say it How can we know that they want to be desired for their virginity if they don't say it? they still insist on saying they’re virgin and still want women to fall for them. I don't see anything wrong here, wanting to be desired is, imo, something natural, being virgin or not doesn't change that. I would say that the probably want to be desired despite being virgins, not being desired because they are virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 10:35 AM
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I'm really confused about your post. Do you seriously met that much virgin men with that mindset? Maybe it has something to do with religious background cause that's the only way I can imagine someone treating his virginity like a virtue.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 06:44 AM
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Serious question : what are those virtues and qualities?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 06:24 AM
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Are you high or something ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 06:09 PM
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Strongly disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 05:46 PM
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so the answer is 0, not low n count, but no n count. Nope, to be technical, it's not really about the number but more about the ability to get women. And not to burst your bubble, but women shame incels not because of n count, but because of what they say and how they act. Yeah sure, like the involuntary in incel isn't the reason why they call men like that. Especially when it's used as a slur when the person using it know nothing about the life of the so called incel. It's weird how I've been c…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 03:30 PM
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How many time did you see someone being called an incel or a virgin? How many time did you see someone being called a man whore? (The fact that we don't really have a word for it speaks enough imo).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 03:08 PM
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You tell me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 02:04 PM
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Last time I post about that video, I saw some comments like that, I won't deny it. I also saw some comments agreeing with me, I had the impression that they were the majority but I can totally be mistaken on that point. An honest pole about that situation would be a good idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 10:54 AM
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Not at all, I allready comment in that video and I totally agree that the guy is rude and those women are totally right to ditch him. I have no trouble saying that he is an asshole (contrary to you that can't admit that a woman deliberately chose to date an asshole when I submit you a clear example numerous times, but that's another subject). But there isn't much more to say, he doesn't represent no one except himself and I'm willing to bet that the vast majority of men are sharing my feeling on…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 10:41 AM
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This is a very niche video video from a trash concept, people willing to participate in that thing are weird as hell and people willing to comment on those video won't be much better. There isn't any wisdom to take from that anecdotale evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 10:18 AM
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Not gonna lie, I feel bad for her, she obviously have issues. For example, her fascination for that "Pop the balloon" video is weird as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 09:47 AM
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The first comment got me offguard.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 07:58 AM
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Women shame low N-count men. Deep down, they know that getting laid for a woman is a given but it's an achievement for a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 07:52 AM
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Don't over pursue and don't over invest are very different from "doing the bear minimum".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 07:44 AM
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Wow, this is fucked up. When does sexual history not matter? Well, it probably always matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 06:18 AM
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I don't see how a moron popping a ballon and some morons agreeing with him in comment proves much but it seems very insightful for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 12:28 PM
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I'm not gonna lie, how OP manage to milk that pop the ballon video is impressive. I swear I saw it a dozen times around here .
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 06:32 AM
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Happened to someone I know. His wife left him for his brother then came back to him and this moron was ok with that. Crazy story, I sometimes wonder how family reunions are .
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 06:24 AM
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My god, what a moron.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 12:03 PM
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That fine by me, I can totally understand your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 11:29 AM
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Like as said, I don't think it's as serious but I can totally see how it would be treated the same. It would probably be treated as rape by suprise in my country.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 11:28 AM
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AIDS isn’t the same as being trans. Nope but you can be prosecuted for that. Where did you put the line? What other things people lie about should be prosecuted for because I don’t think it’s fair to put being trans in the same bracket as having aids. I'm not putting it in the same bracket, I do think both should be prosecuted. In the same way, I think that a dude grabing a woman boobs in the subway and a dude raping a women should both be prosecuted, but not face the same punishement. If a man …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 11:07 AM
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I didn't say it was rape...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 10:52 AM
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I didn't say it was rape...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 10:52 AM
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yea but you're in a relationship, it's expected to not cheat. So, that's a lie, thank you. lying by omision is bad . So lying by omision is bad, thank you. but casual sex is different than relationships, you don't have to tell every single person you sleep with in a club your whole life storywhen people sleep with other people from a bar, they already know there's probably an ice berg of info they don't know about the person. And this is where nuance come into play, instead of this dumb "Well, h…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 10:46 AM
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Well maybe because some people don't want to hook up with trans.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 10:25 AM
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I'm not sure I'm following you... Not seeing someone genitalia makes things ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 10:17 AM
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That's fair but did she lie? he never asked and she never disclosed, that's not lying. but i do think trans people shouldn't lie about it too. but they don't have to volenteer this information. Lol, of course that's lying, it's a lie by omission. If I cheat on my girlfriend but she never ask about it, then it's ok? i just don't understand why? like why is there this invisible line where once crossed it become a criminal offense? what did the man lose by sleeping with a trans women? and again wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 10:15 AM
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Puting both situation as similar doesn't make sens to me. I would put lying about your gender a lot of ladder above lying about your possession. Is it a rape if a trans person don't disclose it? That's a good question, I would personnaly say it should be prosecuted but it shoudn't be as treated as seriously as a rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 09:38 AM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 06:34 AM
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The good old "The US are the whole world!" Last time I checked, we are good with those subject in non bigot western countries. But that's my fault, I should have been more specific when I spoke about islamic countries, you guys look like you're following the same patern. I got to say, I'm not keeping up daily with your lunatic administration, does they start to intervene in the dating market and forbid you to date whoever you want ? (That was your argument, we drift far away in that goalpost mov…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 06:33 AM
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You look upset.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 06:10 AM
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looks like men's accountability is more reliable than women's guts feeling
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 09:15 PM
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How shit at analysing people must you be to have a child with that kind of dudes... As usual, ladies, choose better!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 08:19 PM
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Nope, not even close.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 06:01 PM
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What are we supposed to do exactly? We aren't the one dating them and validating their bad attitudes and behaviors... If they are acting like shit and they get the girls, there is nothing much we can do about it except tell the girls to choose better. You can say to me that "but we're talking about dating and her choices". Sure. But when a man says something like that ("i've dated a gold digger", "women suck nowadays") he is met with sympathy. Men don't scrutinize him, don't look for faults in h…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 02:05 PM
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The reason why we don't talk about women who make good choices is because there is nothing much to say about her. They are applying the two best advices we can give to women: -Be realistic about what's your conterpart. -Moral qualities and value are more important than look and money when it comes to choosing a man for a LTR. The women who choose awful men typically have a lower standards. They have lower moral standards, I totally agree with that, Once again, they have all the tools they need t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 01:58 PM
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It is definitely a 1:1 ratio. It's just harder to see it when: -The sorority effect makes women judges any other woman positively. -You are wired to judge men archly on first look. -the starting point for "quality" start at someone being over you on the salary ladder.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 05:02 AM
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Another dumb bait post from Windmill_flowers... At this point, I wonder how they pass the moderation screening.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 04:56 AM
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This is it, we have reached peak PPD, nothing can top that nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 08:59 AM
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Ok, I didn't get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 09:04 AM
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I'm somethimes tempted to go there and post something like: "Most men have this girl in his past that he was crazy in love with. We would do grand gesture for her, take her on romantic trip, always bring our A game for her. But that's not the one we are marrying, we go for the plain Jane who doesn't mind the monotonous every day life. So be happy the next time you get an half assed birthday present because, for us, that kind of things isn't that important. " I'm sure it would be very well receiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 08:56 AM
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At this point, I can't even tell if this is some ragebait or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 08:33 AM
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So you were dating, it didn't work out, then you had sex with some of his friends, and latter you decided to date again and, for some reasons, it worked this time? That's a quite peculiar situation. His friends are not necesserely off limits, it really depend about how your first relationship ended up, but I got to say, in the large majority of cases, that would totaly disqualify any form of getting back together like you did. You guys have a very unusual story.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 04:09 PM
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I kinda see what you are saying but I'm not feeling part of any kind of "brotherhood" with every men. I highly doubt that all the men are defending anything, and even if they were, I'm still free to say the opposite, I'm not linked to them in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 03:59 PM
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The formulation makes me think it all came from women. 3 looks like the more likely to come from a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 08:42 AM
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I tell my girl friend the same advice: "Why would settle for this dude if you had sex with his friends first! Go get the guy you are attracted to right of the bat!"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 07:43 AM
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I don't think men are automaticaly labelled has white-knights when they defend women, I feel that you can totally does that without being a white knight. But, imo, there are things that can be qualifies as "white knighting": -only being outraged when the victim is a woman. -Disqualifying all men because of the actions of a few: "I'm ashamed to be one of them". -when speaking about a bad situation, indicate that he's a great guy and would never do that. -being quick to show support to the woman s…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 07:09 AM
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So you get yourself an outlier. It's like a shiny pokemon those are rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 07:34 PM
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Probably, most people does to an extend. Did you had sex with his friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 07:25 PM
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You are so naive, it's adorable. You don't have to ask bluntly to know abot someone sexual past.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 07:21 PM
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So, you know why they won't tell you (don't worry you're partner won't told you either).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 07:10 PM
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Of course there is a reason. For example, being judged or called insecure ... I would never speak about that subject with my friends for that obvious reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 07:01 PM
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Wanting a virgin (for religious reasons) and caring about your SO sexual past are two very different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 06:56 PM
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Or, more probably, they won't tell you that they care about the sexual past of their SO.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 04:51 PM
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Again, can't recall anyone saying something like this, except women claiming that the reason why men care about bodycount. It probably happens but, as I said, I doubt that's this common.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 04:09 PM
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Can't remember anyone here saying that they care aboit bodycount because they were insecure. Everyone cares about past sexual experiences of their SO but not many people will admit it IRL. Wanting a virgin and caring about your SO sexual past are two very different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 03:41 PM
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I guess, but i doubt that's a common reason given.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 03:27 PM
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I don't see them as the same, this is why I was asking. Difference is neither of them are insecure to me, it doesn't even make sens to me to say so.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 09:09 AM
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Serious question: Do you think that women who refuse to date fuckboys are insecure?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 07:54 AM
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I knew this one would trigger you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 07:46 AM
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Totally agree with that. Just date someone you're compatible with. Don't insult women who don't fit your preference and don't pretend that men who don't want high bodycount are insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 06:27 AM
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Didn't see it yet but it's on my list. Did you liked it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 07:37 AM
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Decided to go with "sinners" for our Halloween movie night. An ok movie but to similar too "From dusk till dawn" and "the faculty" to be accidental. And if you want to make a "from dusk till dawn remake, give us a prime Salma Hayek dancing moment, for christ sake.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 06:55 AM
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We had that situation in France a few days ago: A female streamer posted a long letter on X where she accused her ex-boyfriend, also a streamer, of a few horrible things (Manipulation, violence, rape, threat, the whole package...), without any proof backing it. Everybody jumped into the bandwagon, show support and spit on the ex-boyfriend. Two days later, the ex-boyfriend posted a video, with a lot of evidences (text messages, audio conversation, people backing him) that this was a toxic as fuck…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 08:12 AM
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Perfect occasion for some slutty costume/behavior. Plus summer is gone so everyone is a little bit depressed and a quick fuck fueled by alcohol can help with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 07:48 AM
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For a one night stand? Probably For a LTR? Hard no
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 04:33 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 04:25 AM
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Agreed, Raw attraction is not what relationship and mariage are about.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 06:09 AM
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Oh, we are talking about relationship? My bad, I thought it was about attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 10:09 PM
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I'm 40 and I had my fair share of 20 to 25 women in the past 5 years. As long as you're good looking, age isn't that much of an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 11:51 AM
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here we go again
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 05:28 AM
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Lying about your sexual past? Women does that all the time... Problem is I don't see how it's possible to keep it a secret indefinitely, situation will occures, friends will slip some hints during some drunk nights... The day he knows, the relationship is probably over. Be promiscuous if you want to, just assume the consequences of your past choices and date men/women who are ok with that. Leave men/women who don't want any of this alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 07:18 AM
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My god, what a shitshow.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 10:48 AM
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So, do we have to call the suicide hotline? 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 05:53 AM
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I'm not familiar with this whole streamer bullshit but does OP seriously try to say that a woman crying is a equivocal situation where she might be hinting that she wants things to escalate? If you think that going from kissing to sticking your hand in a crying woman pants, if you think that cuddling can't be without sexual correlation, then you're probably going to jail. It's as simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 05:50 AM
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Probably the most sane response. Picking a side in that mess looks like a very "bold" move, to stay polite.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 06:53 AM
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I said it countless time, I NEVER met a woman who wasn't more than ok with me being dominant and masculine in bed. Not a single one.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 12:23 PM
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My fault, should have been more creative to avoid triggering those sensible ass scripts.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 05:39 AM
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Lol, i get a warning for speaking my mind on that subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 05:31 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 05:24 AM
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It never left. Some people were absurdly trying to push the nonsense that "everyone is beautiful". Turns out nobody trully believed it and now that ozenpic makes it way easier for women to be desirable, there isn't much reason to keep lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 12:17 PM
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I refuse to play this game. When I'm dating someone, she's the only person I invest my time and energy on. I except the same treatment for her, if I learn that she's entertaining other dudes, I'm out. Even if this multitasking bullshit isn't common in Europe, it may have cost me some opportunities but I'd rather have less higher qualities date than a tons of half assed dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 09:17 AM
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Kind of a general French thing, a lot of people there got the "If it's under 15 min, then it's not really being late".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 08:41 AM
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French do have a problem with punctuality, it's so infuriating.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 07:54 AM
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Becoming better
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 07:30 AM
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As usual with that type of post, we can't really tell unless we see what she and those "sewer rats" look like. Usually, objectively very attractive girls are the most coveted demographic so the most rational explanation is that her beauty is probably on par with her shitty personality. EDIT: discovering the radfem sub. Holly shit, this is wild!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 06:47 AM
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To be fair, I'm ok with someone being charged for murder even without a body IF there are enough evidences. But this whole trial, "we don't have much on him and we did screw up the investigation big time, so please forget that we have neglect everything that didn't lead to him. Now, let's focus on how much of an asshole he is", was weird as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 07:19 PM
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Cedric Jubillar has been condamned to 30 years in prison for the murder of his wife. As I said earlier, this was the most plausible outcome. The trial showed how much the investigation had been a mess from the start but there was no way a potential female murderer would walk free from that courtroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 02:13 PM
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I'm ready to go toniiiiight!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 02:00 PM
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totally believable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:59 PM
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There is this guy at my gym, we have a couple of friends in common so instagram algorythm ended up pushing is "relationship coach" profile to me. I was curious to see what it was and it turns out it something aimed to women with a very "you're a queen, men are assholes" vibe. Spoke to him yesterday and I asked him a few thing about it. Turns out it's kind of a side hustle for him. He tried to be a dating coach for men at first but the market is saturated and it's easier to aim women since "They'…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 09:21 AM
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I wonder how they manage that but this is really fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 08:38 AM
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Totally agree, online dating is a very dehumanasing process and tend to turns the first date into a work interview.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 08:21 AM
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I would personaly save that for a 2nd date. Imo, first date from OLD should be about checking that everything's allright, no one get catfished and everyone involved is ok for more.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 12:50 PM
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I said it somewhere else: a first date with someone you allready know and a first date with someone you never met are different things imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 12:47 PM
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I feel like it's a valid point if you are dating someone you allready know. In that case, i don't really see a coffee date as a good first date. But, when it come to dating someone you never met and just had a few chat on OLD, i feel that coffee date is the best thing to do. In this situation, It's about getting to know someone, not evaluating how much this person is into you or how much tought they put into it. It's to early for that imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 05:33 AM
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The fact that a quote you in my post should help you to answer that question by yourself. Come on, you can do it, it's not that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 04:45 AM
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So now, the reason why women don't like coffee date is because they carefully plan their meals 14 days in advance and have nothing to do with trying to see how much a man can provide? Suuuure Also, are we supposed to think that women are so helpless they can't even face that type or "challenge" ? If the coffee date is great, they can totally be the one proposing to continue with a dinner. If the coffee date is bad and her fridge is empty, she can totally get something to eat by herself, it's not…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 04:35 AM
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That's a good point you are raising. Men are also subject to the "choose better" argument. But once you say that you are evaluating the outcome of a LTR based on her past relationship, sudendly you're an asshole because past shouldn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 05:12 AM
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Well, it seems that they are agreeing with the fact that "choose better" is for everyone dating questionable people.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 05:03 AM
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"choose better" is a totally valid argument as long as someone showed signs of dangerous or vicious behavior. I don't think there is any double standard on that: A man dating a serial cheater and getting cheated on will get the "choose better" treatment. Same for someone dating a know false accuser. I don't see what "gettting rejected" had to do here... "Even though thousands of women have clarified that they've dated the so-called nice guys, the nerds who "never got a chance" and said guys were…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 04:56 AM
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Least suspicious profil ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 04:16 AM
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5 guys under inflation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 04:10 AM
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Investing on the fat girl at the gym is like investing in start up. You don't know which on will break trough but if you pick the one who does, you're hitting the jackpot.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 08:39 AM
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It's working fine. To be honest, once you have the exciting traits (motorcycle, boxing, that kind of stuff), you can have some nerd's hobbies on the side and they won't be botter a single second. Being a geek/nerd is a problem only if you are unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 09:44 AM
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You're basicaly writting a tinder bio about me...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 09:17 AM
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I know the feeling bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 08:41 AM
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There this recurring patern that you'll almost always find when women are making messages around reddit about dealing with their SO gaining weight. First there is the secondary but virtuous reason : "I'm concerned aboit his health" But then, you have the real reason, presented as something non significant: "oh, and also, I'm not that attracted to him any more". It always cracks me up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 09:39 AM
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What a moron.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 07:58 AM
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Not approaching at the gym is not about resolving or worsening any loneliness epidemic, it's about avoiding potentialy unsalvageable reputation damages. We have countless numbers of videos were men are shamed for approaching at the gym, we even have guys shamed for looking in the wrong direction. Those women wanted their narsisist little moment of fame, they have it. Now, women can't tolerate this behavior (filming at the gym) and encourage men to approach there, you have to collectively pick a …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 06:58 AM
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Somehow, she managed to be even more insulting to short men when trying to apologize for an allready dumb comment. I'm not gonna lie, I'm trully impressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 09:48 AM
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One of my friend (girl) was complaining last week about how dating was hard because she was chating with that guy and he suddenly stop responding. She showed me his profil and, of course, the guy was the whole package: handsome, tall, athletic dude with a good job and money. Like top 0,05% of men. . She's all right but this was waaaaaayyyy out of her league. I was like "You really think that guy doesn't have 100s of girl at least as good looking as you in his backlog?"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 06:48 AM
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I came across hundreds of cases of domestic violence while working on some professional side project. From all the cases I know, there were only one case where the woman was trully blindsinded by a normal guy turning into an asshole. Every other cases were about ignoring obvious redflags or strait up dating someone with an history of violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 06:10 AM
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It is totaly normal that it doesn't match what you are witnessing: there is a whole part of the hook up world that happens in the shadow. Most guy who have a lot of sex had some with sub par girls because they were horny that day, but would never speak about it to anyone (aka the sweepers). I had my dark time when I pumped and dumped subpar girls but I would strongly deny it if anyone asked me IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 06:03 AM
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Why would't I date someone ambitious? I tried a few times and this was a nightmare. First of all, I'm doing more than ok, I have a good job with a great salary and, even more important, my "salary/burdensome" ratio is stelar so I'm not going anywhere. I don't really need more money, so my SO salary doesn't bother me, I can even cover for both if needed. I do want to date someone who likes her job, even if it's something basic, don't want to be listening to endless lament every day. The ambitious…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 05:47 AM
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Cool
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 04:33 AM
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That's not better.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 11:51 AM
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Mine is years or studies in men/women relationships which allows me to also get a more developped knowledge on those kind of question that the vast majority of persons.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 10:23 AM
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What experiences is informing yours?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 09:22 AM
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I'm not gonna lie, I'm totaly lost on your position.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 09:14 AM
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"You are making a claim about what women think based on your experience of what women say, do, and convey to men." i'm not
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 08:59 AM
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Totaly agree with that. But why are you posting things that totaly contradict that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 08:31 AM
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