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Cat distribution system cannot be altered
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 09:29 PM
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So you don't put in any effort to meet new people and flirt with them to the point where they would take your number and actually contact you? alright bud
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 01:20 PM
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That's a you feeling. Most men are successful and happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 01:19 PM
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Gas pains
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 12:34 AM
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It doesn't matter whether it's an impersonal business transaction or not; you still must be selected as a prospective client every bit as much as she is selected as the carrier. There are carriers who will reject you because they don't like you as a person and don't want to deal with you for the entire conception process and pregnancy. You cannot reproduce on your own. All reproduction is permitted by women, and you cannot escape that. Adoption is an option, but that's not reproduction. I will s…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 12:10 AM
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Right, you're just going up to those women to make friends with them, I suppose?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 12:06 AM
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You're missing the fact that the surrogate, unless being forced, still needs to consent to the surrogacy, which means a woman stills needs to permit you to reproduce. And unless the surrogate is very poor and very desperate (in which case, she's more likely to be in conditions that are not ideal for your developing child,) she probably has her choice of people for whom to carry, and won't take "anyone who pays." You obviously have no idea what it's like to care for a newborn, let alone by yourse…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 09:42 PM
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I hate to inform you, bud, but surrogacy still requires a woman willing to gestate your child. Except she instead of doing it for free and helping you parent the child, she'll ask for thousands of dollars and dump the baby on you afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 08:23 PM
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No no, not third parties. It takes TWO people to reproduce. So at least one woman has to agree to you impregnating her. If no woman wants that to happen... I'm sorry hun, but women have collectively decided you are unfit for reproduction.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 06:24 PM
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Who do you think you are that you think you should get to reproduce?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 06:05 PM
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I didn't pick this name. I also find other things exciting beyond sex. I just feel horny too, and have sex in attempt to relieve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 06:04 PM
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So do I, but I have at least 15 minutes every day to fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 06:03 PM
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I had a couple new partners weekly. But even then like, I would think more people would have fuckbuddies and situationships and such. I struggle to imagine just... not having sex for months at a time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 03:15 PM
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It surprised me to learn that single people don't really have sex all that often
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 02:32 PM
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Seeking them out and giving them your number is chasing them 🤦
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 02:28 PM
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Yeah we know
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 05:42 PM
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There are probably other reasons for those behaviors
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 05:42 PM
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Yeah let me know how that goes for you, waiting for women to just fall in your lap for just existing
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 05:40 PM
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Word soup
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 05:39 PM
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And skanky gym outfits!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 01:28 PM
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Me but at Tractor Supply Co. Do not let me go unsupervised I will come home with $400 worth of gardening supplies
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 01:25 PM
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Donald Musk
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 01:22 PM
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They really don't know when we're joking. I am SO unserious and I have to tell them half the time otherwise they just assume I'm a dumb bitch. It's like come onnn
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 01:22 PM
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Men only get female pursuants when they are Chad. Most men are not Chad. Therefore generally speaking, men pursue, women select.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 01:17 PM
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Men are the pursuants and women are the selectors, typically. The kneeling is to symbolize that he wants to dedicate his provision and protection to her for all his life, and he's asking her to choose him as a lifetime partner and forsake all her other options. It's like a kneeling before royalty to be knighted and pledge fealty. It's romance, you see. You should try it sometime.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 01:14 PM
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But you need to make a valid argument for why you think society should change its current opinions. You haven't.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 01:09 PM
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Also I saw SO many hot women yesterday
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 01:07 PM
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I watched the cutest little baby I've ever seen for the church service yesterday. She had the prettiest icy blue eyes and big chubby cheeks and delicate little cupid bow lips, and her arms and legs were covered in sun-toasted rolls (you know how the sunlight doesn't get in between them so they're darker on top but still pale in between? Amazing.) But she was HEAVY and she wouldn't let me put her down or hand her off for the ENTIRE HOUR, and today my biceps are cooked 😅 My regular upper body days…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 01:04 PM
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Are you sure that's not a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 12:59 PM
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I don't understand this insistence that hookups don't bother to get women off? Like typically men find women getting off to be hot and ime they try pretty hard to do it, especially if they want to fuck her again
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 12:57 PM
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Right, and Western society determined that women should be allowed to sleep with whomever they please, and men who feel some type of way about it are icky. Suggesting this needs to be inverted is not "holding women accountable." Your argument is circular.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 12:55 PM
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Maybe we need to "hold men accountable" for the underlying beliefs about sex and women that typically accompany n count "preferences." Cuz all you're really doing here is making a circular argument: Women shouldn't sleep around --> because I don't like it --> Women don't like that I don't like it --> we need to hold them accountable for sleeping around by making them accept that I don't like it --> then women wouldn't sleep around, as they shouldn't --> because I don't like it...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 06:07 PM
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There are no objective ratings dude
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 06:03 PM
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If this guy was fat he would be a 1
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 10:15 PM
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3
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 10:15 PM
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Just over here expressin' my thoughts. Sorry if you don't like 'em
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 03:46 PM
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"Doesn't matter, still hit."
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 03:45 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 03:37 PM
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Have you tried being chadly?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 03:36 PM
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There are so many ugly to average looking men with attractive personalities... They will talk their way into your pants and then one day you look up at them in bed and get the ick and then it's ovar
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 03:30 PM
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What does "holding them accountable" look like, in this instance? The particular men who care about n count not selecting high n women as partners? I have news, friendo, neither high n women nor low n women find low-n-count-"preferences" to be attractive traits in partners either. You're not punishing them by filtering yourselves out of the dating pool; you're doing them a favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 11:58 PM
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Of course women compare partners. Literally everyone does. That's why you just focus on getting gud at sex
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 11:53 PM
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Bro, what are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 11:41 PM
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Can't you wear regular, looser fitting running shorts and tank tops? Also, tell him you're pretty; men are going to look at you. He needs to get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 11:40 PM
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Until you what your credit card?!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 11:36 PM
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I have.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 05:56 PM
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Right, of course it's women's fault if men want to treat them nicely, because they're not aware of their own simpery.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 08:09 PM
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Neither is bad. I did sex work in the past; I don't feel worse about myself for doing so. I also didn't look down upon my male clients. However, I think the people buying sex are often resorting to that when they can't get it for free. (Though some of them just do it because it's easier than seducing/dating people.)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 07:39 PM
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People are happiest when they don't engage in those things. The simplest things in life give pleasure to those who aren't dopamined out
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 07:27 PM
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Yes it is. Although, so is social media and junk food, so who am I to be saying it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 07:24 PM
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This is so sweet ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 07:22 PM
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Stop watching porn. It's bad for your brain
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 07:21 PM
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A woman told me I smell good yesterday and I was so fucking pleased. Not only because it was a compliment from a woman, but because I mix up my own signature scented body oil. She wanted to know if I sold it. 💁‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 07:20 PM
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It's not using them if they're willing participants.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 07:17 PM
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And people should also be honest about their n count preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 06:00 PM
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Best age ever
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 05:57 PM
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Why do you keep trying to impregnate these women?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 05:56 PM
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I think you should probably look for more IOIs than just "being nice" because every female customer service worker is obligated to "be nice."
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 05:56 PM
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It's the easiest way to get casual sex if that's what you're looking for. You're probably attractive yourself if you're being shown stacies.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 05:55 PM
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Male attention is valuable if you know how to capitalize on it. Only dumb men are worried about gold diggers. Of course men want young and beautiful women. Most men do not think in terms of alpha/beta. Many are perfectly happy to provide for their families and don't care at all how much their partners make. Get yourself a well-paying career only if that's what you want, not because it's what you, as a woman, have to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 05:53 PM
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Well, that sounds like a you problem. Most of the time men are okay with casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 05:50 PM
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There's nothing wrong with that as long as she's clear with him about theirs being a casual arrangement.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 10:03 PM
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I WISH it was propaganda. It's my experience, and the experience that women everywhere share. Either their husbands are useless when it comes to caring for the kids, or they have to be taught, and they still don't do things as well as the mums do it. They do not automatically think, "Oh, hey, we have to leave for church at 8; maybe I should wake up at 7:00 and help my wife get the kids ready so she doesn't have to wake up at 6:30, instead of waking up at 7:45 and only worry about getting myself …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 02:04 PM
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Mum here. You should expect to be the default parent as a woman, because you carry the babies for 9-10 months at a time and feed them from your own body, and that has profound, fundamental, scientifically proven effects on your brain and capability as a parent. Women are quite simply more attuned to their children's needs, more invested in their safety and wellbeing, and more likely to need to take time off work by virtue of the nature of female reproductive processes. It is virtually all-consum…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 12:46 PM
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Totally copium. Above avg dicks just feel better
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 12:18 PM
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Hubby has diagnosed OCD and probably a little bit of the tism. He struck up a conversation with me in a bookstore, bought me a book, left his number on a bookmark, and invited me to dinner. I don't think we ever did much flirting, though he is good at making me laugh. He was just very caring about me from the start, and we got on well, and the sex was amazing. So we kept on dating and fell in love, and now we are living our happily ever after. A few times, we've tried to pretend we are strangers…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 12:15 PM
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This is why men who care about n count need to be upfront about their "preferences" in dating, so that they don't waste women's time
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 12:04 PM
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Absolutely not. That's disgusting. He's gonna have to figure something out
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 12:02 PM
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This woman is scaring away the men with her make up and desperation. I used to be a "fuckgirl" during my hoephase. Many men were sad that I would fuck them, but wouldn't commit to them. I don't imagine they felt "used" though, so much as rejected
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 11:05 PM
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Oh you mean like the way you're lying to your husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 11:00 PM
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It shouldn't be. I can do 120 for reps... Keep at it though; you're young, so you can expect quick strength gains
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 10:51 PM
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oh ew
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 10:49 PM
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A lot of people think pink pill is just red pill for women, so I can imagine there is some confusion
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 10:48 PM
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who dat?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 10:44 PM
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Plenty of fish in the sea hun *hugs*
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 10:43 PM
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What happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 10:41 PM
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35 + the weight of the bar?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 10:29 PM
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Call him out on it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 10:28 PM
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Anime is definitely nerdy, but it's a brainrot "hobby." I was thinking something along the lines of like, antique book collecting, touring historical sites, being part of a debate club, anything that requires a deep understanding of one the sciences...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 03:40 PM
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That's still a fuckton of wealth I'd have his baby if Hubby would let me, though. Neither of us would ever have to work again
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 05:11 AM
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Okay, Elon Musk
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 05:03 AM
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Assume they do
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 05:02 AM
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Q4M: Women who are smarter than you-- turn off, turn on, or neutral? (Think, uses big words correctly, has complex and nerdy hobbies, maybe has a high iq job like, idk, an astrophysicist or neuroscientist or whatever.)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 04:51 AM
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Fan-cy!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 03:49 PM
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Big heat wave swept through my state last week, and I neglected to water the baby tomato plants I bought. I thought for sure they were dead, with all the leaves wilting and the stems having collapsed, and yet the cherry tomatoes were still somehow growing on them. So I went ahead and planted them in my garden beds anyway, and gave them some supports and a healthy serving of compost, and just as soon as I was finished, a huge storm swept in and downpoured all over them. Surely that would have pum…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 03:48 PM
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You are not the OP; therefore it is pointless for you to dictate the terms of this hypothetical. There's no reason to be like, "Okay you asked 40 people out and now you found your ideal person who wants to be with you forever... But what if what you want isn't actually what you want???"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 03:42 PM
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Now that's a delicate balance to walk, because if you appear like a financially insecure or irresponsible loser, most women are going to be turned off... On the other hand, you're more likely to end up with a gold digger who doesn't like you for you if you go around flashing your wealth everywhere. So I think the best thing for men to do is to appear financially stable/comfortable and suggest free/inexpensive first dates, where the focus is on getting to know the other person, and that should yi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 03:40 PM
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As Leos said, there's unattractive (no), neutral (could be, needs to have other attractive traits and make me notice him for me to feel attracted to him, and attractive (yes)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 05:21 AM
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By definition, my ideal person is interested in forever with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 05:14 AM
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I used to have an elaborate routine, but I got sick of doing it. Now I just use a rotation of Gold Bond anti-aging lotions... Though I might have to switch soon because I think I'm allergic to them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 07:13 PM
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I brought up the fact that IN A LOT OF INSTANCES, men check out of their marriages and don't bother to get divorced; they just let their wives become unhappy enough to go and actually do the filing. You responded with, in a nutshell, "That's women refusing to take responsibility! Obviously men are so broken up when their wives divorce them, and the women don't give a shit anymore!" It's gaslighting to tell women whose husbands passively give up on, or in some cases, actively sabotage their own m…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 04:02 PM
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Q4A: thoughts on this MRP post? np.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/1llwvgi/serious_question_to_men_only_could_you_genuinely/
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 03:39 PM
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T-25 days
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 03:29 PM
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I've had sex with more than one man on separate occasions within the same day before, and I felt disgusting. I couldn't imagine doing that without using condoms, with semen in my vag 🤮 Also you are going to die of AIDS
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 03:29 PM
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If I was single, absolutely, yes. Approaching 40 men, max, with the guarantee that one of them is my ideal forever person? That's nothing. Sold!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 12:19 PM
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if you think men are inhuman monsters without the capacity to feel emotional pain... I NEVER said any of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 12:17 PM
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That automatic meaning guy saying it so frequently and the reaction generated. It's spread to other men now, but it's still sort of a PPD-trolly-joke thing
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 12:06 PM
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I have a man who's got just about everything :)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 11:48 AM
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You don't need to kiss to do foreplay. Kissing is very intimate for me; I don't like to do it with people for whom I don't have feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 11:47 AM
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They're trolling
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 11:45 AM
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I'm pretty good at it, but that was also one of my AuDHD obsessions
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 11:44 AM
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Where does semen go if you don't ejaculate? does the body reuse it, or does it get eaten by macrophages or something? Just wondering, cuz I got my fallopian tubes yoinked, and now my ovary yeets my eggs into the abyss, to be cleaned up by some biological process. I was wondering if it was the same for men, or if their bodies do something useful with their gametes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 11:42 AM
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Be quiet and go back to competing for female attention like the rest of the males
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 11:38 AM
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Yes lol. My body count is probably somewhere in the 50s, and I've only kissed 6 people
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 11:35 AM
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Time for grandchildren
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 11:34 AM
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Good deal for us age gappers
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 11:34 AM
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I will take the maintentance of his looks, the conversation, emotiional intelligence, insight, emotional support, good fatherly-ness (?), charmingness.. but if he doesn't want to be the primary earner, a leader, and at least occasionally care about his own pleasure in bed, it's no deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 11:29 AM
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Biology hates men. That's why it doesn't trust them to carry the babies
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 11:14 AM
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I don't think they should. I didn't and it worked great for me... Men should stop lying or omitting their "preferences" too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 11:11 AM
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This is so gaslight-y I don't even know where to begin.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 11:10 AM
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Literally nobody else had any issues comprehending what I wrote
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 01:42 AM
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"they wait for their wives to go and do the filing" in the instances where men are checking out
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 01:28 AM
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Unless the reason is "sex = intimacy and I want to have it with as few people as possible and also for my partner to feel that way," it's almost certainly a gross belief about women and/or sex in general
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 01:27 AM
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Woah woah woah. I never said "all divorces initiated by women are due to men mentally checking out." I said "in a lot of instances"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 01:25 AM
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I haven't downvoted you. I think there's a difference between maintaining a relationship for a relatively long amount of time while intentionally trying not to know someone's n count lest you dump them like a sack of potatoes and gradually finding out simple things like you hate someone's laugh and realizing it's just not gonna work... Like you know ahead of time that you have these beliefs about sex and women; you ought to put that out there to not waste anyone's time, just as women should be h…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 12:21 AM
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saved to spank bank
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 08:50 PM
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The issue is why she doesn't want sex at least 2x a week, and the solution will involve making her want that sex, or finding him alternative options.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 07:11 PM
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Hypothetically, he ought to go to his wife and express his feelings, with the intention on communicating and fixing the issue. maybe they go to marriage counselling for it. Either way, the correct response is definitely not to check out of the marriage because his needs are not being met
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 06:53 PM
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You are the one trying to tell me what it is that I meant, as if youre a more reliable narrator of my intention than i myself am, and somehow it's me who's gaslighting? yeah, okay bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 06:50 PM
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DEW IT
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 06:13 PM
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Prude and vanilla do not inherently carry judgement; you are placing your own judgement on those words. It's a little bit like how obese individuals have started taking offense to the word "obese" because they perceive it to be a slur, when it objectively just means that their BMI works out to be over 29 and they have an unhealthy level of body fat. When I say low n women are more likely to be vanilla/prudes, I'm not saying "low n women are undesirable sex partners and you should never date them…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 06:11 PM
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What a catch
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 06:05 PM
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That is the literal etymology of the word and how I understand it, which is, neutrally, someone who does not engage in promiscuous behavior. You simply cannot be like, "No, you liar, that's not what you think." Otherwise there is no point in attempting to communicate with you. Again, there's nothing inherently negative about vanilla prudes, and it's not my fault if some men deem those individual to be incompatible or undesireable. ETA: I am also a woman in a heterosexual marriage, so...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 05:56 PM
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I don't view "prude" as an insult. Again, it is not an inherently negative trait to have a conservative sexuality. It is what it is. The word "prudish" originates from the French word "prude," which itself comes from the Old French "prudefemme," meaning "loyal, respectable, or modest woman". How am I moving the goalpost? The original comment was that high n people are so quick to throw low n women under the bus, but was unwilling to give examples. I was explaining something I have said in the pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 05:37 PM
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I'm telling you that they are not inherently negative traits. If you don't desire sex that often, you just don't desire sex that often. If you're not interested in exploring non-traditional sex acts, you're not interested. You shouldn't feel pressured to do either of those things, and the individuals who do desire sex more frequently or do like to explore more aren't inherently "better" or more virtuous in any way. Now, if you're a kinky, high libido individual, are you going to want a vanilla, …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 05:25 PM
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That's your interpretation. There's nothing inherently wrong with being vanilla or having low libido. If that's not something you want, that's you not desiring them, not me painting them in an undesirable light.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 05:10 PM
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To share mutual responsibilities in a way they agree is equitable and satisfactory To share all that they have To consider and honor the common welfare of the couple/family when making decisions To be emotionally supportive to one another, and remain together for better or for worse To keep the love alive To satisfy each other sexually To effectively parent their children, should they have them I'm sure I'm missing some big ones, but here are some
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 05:06 PM
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Also not being present with them, not trying to improve the situation, not keeping them happy and together... (and that goes both ways.) If one partner stops doing any of that, and simply waits for the other to divorce him/her, that's not "fulfilling his/her duty" as a spouse. That's breaking the agreement and being lazy about getting it done legally.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 03:15 PM
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Oh nooo... I'm sorry hun
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 03:13 PM
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It just seems to me that the particular man I was talking to, and others like him, wanted for there to be consequences for slutty women like me, and he was mad that there isn't. Like "accountability" was just a word thrown around in the manosphere places he'd been frequenting where they preach "sluts are bad and end up miserable" and he was just parroting it without much thought
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 03:01 PM
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Mentally checking out of your marriage is not "fulfilling your duty"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 03:00 PM
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Right, okay. I made a choice to be promiscuous. There have not been consequences... I'm not sure what the point is
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 02:50 PM
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What's important to recognize with that statistic is that "initiating divorce" means "filed the paperwork," not necessarily that women unilaterally elected to end the marriage. What happens in a lot of instances is that men become unhappy within their marriages and mentally check out, but not legally, because that's either too much trouble, or too financially costly. They wait for their wives to actually go and do the filing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 02:48 PM
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I don't know if it would make much sense if you were to answer for someone else. But one time I heard someone say, "Women need to take accountability for being sluts," and I was like, "What do you mean?" and he wouldn't give me a straight answer. At one point he said "Take accountability for how your life turned out!" And I was like "I like how my life turned out though. It's great... I'm still not sure what you're wanting here?" And he just got angry and then stopped replying.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 02:44 PM
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Exactly. I've heard from lots of low n women that they've even started telling men their n counts are higher than what they actually are just to weed out the ones that care. It's not attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 02:40 PM
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I suppose that's a good thing, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 02:08 PM
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Often times they can't, in the specific context that they're saying it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 02:08 PM
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Did he report feeling any better afterwards?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 01:41 PM
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I usually ask them "What do you mean by 'accountability?' what would taking accountability look like, to you?"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 01:40 PM
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If it were some simplistic preference or "evolved instinct" in men, as some of them insist, instead of gross beliefs that were socialized into them, you would think it would be common practice and save people a lot of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 01:35 PM
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Noooooo I fucking love the mullet-mustache combo! Like Kurtis Conner on Youtube? I think he's so cute because of it. Jenna Marble's husband Julien Solomita also rocked it. This dad? Handsome AF. Broccoli boys got NOTHING on mullet men
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 01:12 PM
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I used condoms in probably 99% of my sexual encounters until I started wanting to become pregnant by the man I was fucking (my husband.) There were a couple instances where I just forgot in the moment, or elected not to use them because both myself and my partner had gotten STD testing done and he was sterile (vasectomy or from cancer.) Hubby and I don't use them when it's just us two now because I got surgically sterilized. We use them when engaging in ENM activities. ETA: Oh, and there was one…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 12:54 PM
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There's also plenty of people who legit just don't care about n count
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 12:48 PM
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The only potential negative consequences are STDs and unwanted pregnancy, and those are well-known and easily mitigated.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 12:47 PM
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Men who care about n count should be explicit and upfront about it when dating, the same way women should be upfront about their sexual history. It doesn't make any sense to risk investing a lot of time and energy into a person if there's a risk that finding out about their sexual history can spell the end of a relationship; you kind of owe it to any potential partner to let them know you feel this way. (But somehow I think the number of women who would be repulsed by their gross beliefs about w…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 12:46 PM
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That's not even a point in this discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 12:39 PM
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There are many men who do care. But people like you do not make for good partners, and like I said, there are PLENTY more men out there who do not care at all. My advice for you would be to actually ask your potential partners. Don't waste anyone's time getting involved with them with the risk of accidentally learning of their sexual history and then having to end the relationship over it. Don't you think your potential partners deserve to know that these are the beliefs you have about women and…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 12:37 PM
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Aren't you super young? Wait til you have a car, disposable income, and some free time; you can go anywhere you want. I've taken a couple hiking trips and also been some places for track meets and vacations
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 05:46 PM
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Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 05:42 PM
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simp
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 05:42 PM
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Miami and parts of CA, though many of them looked like plastic
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 05:40 PM
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That would be fun... for a bit
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 05:39 PM
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Incest?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 05:38 PM
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What about women wearing collars and leashes and talking about STEM?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 05:38 PM
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Not counting states I just had connecting flights in, : Maine, New Hampshire, Vermont, Massachusetts, New York, Pennsylvania, New Jersey, Ohio, Delaware, Maryland, Virginia, West Virginia, North Carolina, South Carolina, Georgia, Florida, Alabama, Louisiana, Texas, and California.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 05:37 PM
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It's just my husband's preferences; he's not forcing me to do anything. He still loves me even when I'm hairy or sporting a pixie cut.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 05:28 PM
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What do you like about him?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 02:50 PM
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There's literally so many human beings on this planet, all connected by the internet and ability to travel, that one can have a pretty long list of requirements and still find a good number of potential matches... It's just a matter of them wanting you back.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 02:16 PM
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Well, there are some things that don't matter so much to me that I don't mind keeping a certain way for my husband. For example, it's not so much of a huge PITA to shave/wax my body hair and to keep my hair long or a certain color, the way my husband likes, for me not to be willing to do it (though in a world without men, I'd leave my body hair alone and have a pixie cut.)Or like, every once in a while putting on "real" clothes instead of old gardening attire, gym clothes, or stained sweatpants …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 01:53 PM
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For some people, it’s more about emotional compatibility, long-term trust, or personal comfort, not moral judgment. Everyone has different boundaries shaped by their own experiences and values. I'm trying to understand what you mean. How does one's n count affect emotional compatibility, long term trust, and personal comfort, without having an underlying judgement about n counts? The way I'm interpreting this is, "High n people don't change, they always want new partners, they're more likely to …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 01:39 PM
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The reasons men give for "preferring" low n counts are indicative of shameful views and thought processes regarding women and sex. (With the exception being men who believe that sex = intimacy and it's only meant to be had with as few people as possible, and who also practice that themselves. That's fine.) The vast majority of people take a casual approach to relationships until they find somebody worthy of more commitment. You don't find someone to marry without going on dates and getting to kn…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 01:22 PM
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I do think it's shameful to have those views about sex and women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 01:12 PM
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Is this an eating disorder thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 12:55 PM
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Why would your partner care that you're going to Taco Bell?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 12:14 PM
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Hubby and I share locations and also can see the locations of our cars through the Tesla app. It's mostly for safety and convenience, but I also like that we don't have anything to hide. So, yeah, practical. We didn't really talk about it though; just kind of did it when we needed to share locations, and didn't turn them off.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 12:12 PM
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You're missing the point. The men you're describing are being picked.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 12:09 PM
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Examples? I have said in the past that I think it's more likely for low n women to be prudish or low libido, because people who feel less desire for sex/non-vanilla sex are going to face less temptation, making it more likely that their n counts stay low and less likely for them to explore sexually. People will respond with, "No! They just actually self control!" as if I had insulted them and they now feel the need to indirectly insult people with higher n counts...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 12:07 PM
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Okay, I was doubtful at first, but those are really good examples. Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 11:59 AM
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And they fit those women's standards because they have other characteristics that are of value to women. If someone is telling you, "there's all these "perfectly decent" short or broke men out there who are single; you should lower your standards and try dating them instead," They are telling you to date people who are both short/broke AND otherwise unattractive. Why is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 11:53 AM
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I didn't have to force anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 11:42 AM
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Kissing strangers counts as 272 because kissing is intimate as fuck and you're a slutty slut slut if you do it with just anyone. Also it doesn't count if you had sex with someone and you didn't know their name, they didn't get you off, you forgot about it, if you were wearing socks...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 11:42 AM
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Tell him don't you dare correct her
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 11:38 AM
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Definitely a yeast infection
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 11:34 AM
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Walked into a Wawa yesterday and there were a bunch of blue collar type men in there in boots. One of them was absolutely massive-- maybe 6'5 and proportionately big everywhere else, not too bad in the face, with this crazy relaxed energy... Gave me the tingles and I scurried nervously out the door. Didn't know I liked that before. My tastes must be expanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 11:29 AM
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I got lasik. I miss my glasses sometimes though. More style options
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 11:24 AM
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me af
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 11:24 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 11:21 AM
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Why does his neck go forward like that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 11:21 AM
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I feel like much of my life has been spent centered around men. When I was young (probably from about 12/13 to 17) all I wanted was a boyfriend. I felt lonely and unliked and couldn't figure out why boys were interested in other girls but not me. My self esteem was really low. Then it became about sex for me, mostly heterosexual sex. I spent a lot of free time seeking that out. Then it was, "Hmm, men will do nice things for me if they find me attractive and if I date and have sex with them" and …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 11:18 AM
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They think I am much younger and can’t tell their bullshit when they try it. They try to play the games and when I call them on it then they get sheepish because it still works on some people. Examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 11:08 AM
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Kind of romantic
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 11:01 AM
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Can a person who's that mentally ill even be saved?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 10:33 PM
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There would be a lot of 18 year olds "alone" in the forest... Probably a lot of unplanned pregnancies, too
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 10:33 PM
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Did you put them under your pillow, or make them into jewelry?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 10:28 PM
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I was being facetious.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 08:46 PM
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You psychopath
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 08:46 PM
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*Unfortunately you will also emerge with PTSD from being conscious while getting bones sawed out of your jaw
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 07:57 PM
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Exactly 16.5 with 59.46% response rate
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 07:50 PM
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Can't you go with him? And just enjoy the results?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 06:54 PM
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(He still loves you though)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 06:49 PM
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Armed Jesus is not offering you a choice
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 06:46 PM
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NO!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 05:36 PM
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Great you can listen to country music https://preview.redd.it/jrpiyqsavw8f1.png?width=156&format=png&auto=webp&s=c43dcd1b483e7c1b8162235e466863acf064456e
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 05:35 PM
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but only with three
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 05:19 PM
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I thought it was the former, but the missing pinky had me second guessing
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 05:18 PM
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Well, I do love God and guns... and farming, and romance
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 05:17 PM
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I suppose it might be nice for them to have several years for themselves while they are young before they start having babies
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 05:16 PM
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Country music is so good
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 04:23 PM
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Oh. I am 28 and my husband is 53 though. I wish I was still 20!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 04:21 PM
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Can someone explain?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 04:18 PM
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Some of us had daughters :)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 04:15 PM
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Are there more AGR couples here ??
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 04:13 PM
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How old are you, if you don't mind me asking? You remind me a bit of myself when I was younger
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 04:13 PM
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Most of the people who go to group sex events are below average; the attractive ones are arranging their own private play sessions with carefully curated participants.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 04:03 PM
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Have you considered that sometimes people like kinky sexual acts because they actually find them hot, not because they are just doing them to please their partner? I don't like to be choked choked, personally, but a hand or a belt around the throat with hardly any pressure just to remind me that my partner *could* choke me gives me a little thrill. It's the vulnerability and power play that's hot to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 04:01 PM
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Youre not listening. Why do some short or broke men do just fine in dating and others don't?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 11:33 AM
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I'm gonna need you to keep up. Women do pick short and broke men IF they have other things going for them. If they're not being picked for long periods of time, it's almost always because there's something unattractive about them that they either won't fix, don't want to fix, or aren't aware of. When incels say "Forget about your present standards and date these men who you aren't attracted to or compatible with, who are struggling to get dates..." What exactly do you think they are suggesting? …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 09:04 PM
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Short men and broke men with acceptable personalities and who have other attractive qualities find partners just fine. The men who "deserve a chance" according to incels and unattractive men are not being picked for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 08:52 PM
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Explicitly talking about the size of women's secondary sex charateristics is pornographic in nature. Or maybe, perhaps, pornoliterate? Erotica. There we go
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 08:47 PM
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Traditional gender roles are fine if that's what a married couple chooses for themselves. Is anyone saying otherwise?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 08:41 PM
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The bitter men are the ones who aren't being picked and have decided that that's the fault of women or society at large rather than changing to be more attractive. They often give advice to women that would make it so men like them have a better chance of securing a partner, rather than advice that would actually benefit the women in question. It's a tale as old as time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 08:39 PM
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Eugenia Cooney?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 08:19 PM
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Keep insisting that self respecting men care about n count. Reality won't change, and promiscuous women with high value husbands, with whom they have or are planning to have children, will continue to laugh at people like you. I didn't specify "in a professional context." I mean in all contexts, whether that's at work, out and about, someone trying to sell you something... You have to be able to tell people to fuck off if they're trying to take advantage of you or steer you in a direction you do…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 08:17 PM
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🤦 This is a waste of my time
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 08:08 PM
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Self respecting men do not find women who have had many partners appealing. Yeah, you're doing that curious thing that men with low n-count "preferences" do and disparaging men who are apathetic about n count. I assure you, friendo, there are SO many men out there who don't give a shit about n count who respect themselves just fine and don't have cuckhold fetishes. Ask me how I know. Women need to be disagreeable to men who are not their partners at least occasionally or they will be walked all …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 08:06 PM
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Bro. The OP said "She did everything exactly as the bitter men on this sub say women should" and YOU quoted her. Do you not understand how conversations work? Do I need to explain them to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 08:01 PM
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I did not say they were, but rather I quoted some of the advice that some men commonly give on this particular subreddit. No offense, but are you possibly autistic, or just intentionally being obtuse?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 07:58 PM
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Those are the words of men on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 07:51 PM
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"properly vet his character" but also "settle down young" and "give men a chance"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 07:49 PM
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Men who care about n count (other than the ones who see sex as strictly intimacy meant to be had with as few partners as possible, whose own sexual behavior embodies that belief) do not make for great partners. I think it is also best to explore sexually before you settle down, and have the sex you want to have when you have the opportunity, without shame. So no, "maintain a low body count" is not good advice. Also, women should not be "agreeable" to every man just because he is male, but rather…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 07:47 PM
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Well, is it a "hat" or a fedora? Wearing fashion associated with inceldom or something of the same distasteful nature can definitely read as creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 07:10 PM
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Depends on if you view any kind of attention as good or if you only want a specific kind of attention
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 04:49 PM
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maybe they think you are funny-looking
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 04:45 PM
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So do you think you're more likely to encounter ragebait online where women are talking about innocuous interactions with men and unnecessarily calling them creepy as well? Or does the bias only go in one direction?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 04:44 PM
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18 yo women are adults and can be attractive. I don't know why this is such a hard concept for people
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 04:27 PM
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This is a cuckholding relationship, not cuckquean. Cuckqueans are women who fetishize their male partners being with other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 04:00 PM
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On the other thread where women were describing encounters with creepy men, it seemed to me that the offenses were all pretty egregious
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 02:42 PM
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Most women want to have children, and they will face the consequences of having children whether they want those to be the consequences of having children or not. It's literally in women's best interest to secure a high-earning life partner. You can't reduce that to "willful perpetuation of gendered roles." It IS biologically necessary. We've been doing it since hunter-gatherer days. You think Ugga was lusting after Grugg when he failed to bring any meat back to the cave? No, because her childre…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 02:41 PM
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I disagree with your last paragraph.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 12:40 PM
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Why don't you go to a porn sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 11:55 AM
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Getting you off the last time is what got her halfway to orgasm
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 11:52 AM
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Creepy is like, unable to read social cues of obvious discomfort with the approach, with what one is saying, making someone feel objectified, unpredictable/weird behavior or body language (standing too close, breathing heavily, touching someone without their consent, etc.) It's not necessarily that someone is unattractive (though it is true that attractive people can get away with a bit more socially unacceptable things than unattractive people.) But if someone is the most good-looking person in…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 11:51 AM
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The sexes will never be equal. Women are the ones who get pregnant, give birth, have to recover from birth, and breastfeed. We're the ones who take care of everyone when they're sick; men lay on the couch for three days, or stay away to keep well, because they can't handle sickness. These things take tolls on women's careers and long-term earning ability, and make it so that if anyone stays home with young children (which is the best thing for them), it's almost always the woman. There's nothing…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 11:45 AM
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What if she just wants one more quick orgasm and doesn't want to wait? Like if she can get off in like 90 seconds on her own, especially after she was already halfway there or especially turned on ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 03:31 AM
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Why not? Sometimes it's fun to just watch a partner pleasure themselves. Sometimes someone wants a quick, none-too-stylish orgasm and they're the ones who can give it to themselves the fastest... There are lots of reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 03:30 AM
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What if she says there's nothing wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 03:18 AM
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assume this occurs during your refractory period
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 03:08 AM
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What action would you take? Less hot sex? Trying to time your orgasm so it coincides with hers? (assuming you're not pulling out?)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 03:07 AM
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Silicone wedding bands are a thing. When I was young and single, a dude successfully got my number by sitting down next to me while I was stretching and initiating casual conversation. I didn't have to stop stretching. He made me laugh and the chat was nice, and I didn't think he looked half bad either, so I gave him my number when he asked for it. We went out on one date. I would say, try to read women's "energy" while they're exercising (Do they seem pissed off? Sad and working through some sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 03:03 AM
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It was amazing! Surprisingly not as hard as I thought it would be to do with a 4 yo. I can't wait to do it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 02:49 AM
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Q4M: You and your lady are having sex. She orgasms from it (maybe even multiple times.) Afterwards, you're lying in bed next to each other and you realize she's masturbating. You ask her why, and she says either: A) "The sex we had was so hot, I got horny again just thinking about it!" or B) "Sometimes you get me halfway to another orgasm when you finish; I'm just getting myself the rest of the way there." Do you believe either of these explanations?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 02:48 AM
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Maybe they want success and knowledge of the world for their daughters and to provide well for their wives? Those things aren't mutually exclusive
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 02:41 AM
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Always finding fault with and demanding more from a man who's doing literally everything for her, using sex as currency/ransom ("If you only unloaded the dishwasher more often, maybe I'd feel less stressed and want sex!), siding with women in every situation regardless of whether they're right or behaving absolutely horribly, never being able to admit she's in the wrong or to apologize for it, making her and her partner late for anything because she spends too long getting ready, general misandr…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 02:11 AM
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obesity also fucks up fertility
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 02:04 AM
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38ish lbs of child, about 4 L of water in bladders, snacks, a med kit, sunscreen, bugspray, additional clothing, a pocket knife... IDK, I just got the standard pair. I think they conform to your feet, mostly.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 01:48 AM
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Love it :)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 12:20 AM
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Human's feet are designed to naturally distribute weight so the body can move ergonomically, and the toes are meant to spread for increased balance. When we put shoes on (which are not feet shaped at all; they have too-narrow toes and the ends often curve upwards) especially when we start wearing them young when our bones are still developing, they change the structure of the feet to match the shape of the shoe. Lots of shoes also have arch support in them, which ends up actually weakening the m…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 12:18 AM
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afraid you can't measure up to the other men she's been with -> Insecure. That's like the definition of insecurity; that's worrying some aspect of yourself is "not enough" for the person you're with and they will leave you because of it. The reason it's connected to the n count debate is because if you ask men why they care about n count, this is often a reasoning that they will explicitly provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 08:29 PM
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It's not exploitative if your future husband feels you give him equal value in return, and he's happy with that. Everyone wants to make out "gold digging" as some horrible thing because they conflate it with not actually caring about the person you're with, but that's not necessarily the case. You can choose to date only men that can give you the lifestyle you want and fall in love with one of them just as easily (if not more easily. Hello, romantic dates and vacations) as you could with a less …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 08:26 PM
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Video games, anime consumption, figurine collecting, anything dangerous... My husband is super into comic book superhero content and that's pushing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 08:11 PM
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And tbh, your post feels like a barefoot shoes ad. I googled them, I would rather cut off my leg before wearing them. You take that back!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 08:08 PM
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Somewhere between 3 and 4
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 06:07 PM
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Yesterday at the gym, and older man approached me to ask about my barefoot shoes (vibrams.) I took out my headphones initially because I thought he was going to say something about me being in his way or similar. I answered his questions pleasantly because I love to preach the benefits of barefoot footwear, though it was difficult to focus on what he was saying because his eyes weren't going in the same direction. After a few back and forths I was ready to return to my workout. Then he asked me …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 06:05 PM
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4.5. would not
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 04:16 AM
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I'm envious of women who look good in yellow. It's such a fun color, but it doesn't flatter me at all
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 04:16 AM
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No. I see fat people everywhere and I am continually disgusted. The only safe space is the gym
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 04:15 AM
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Killer bone structure, but no muscle mass
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 04:14 AM
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I did not take my husband's last name. My mum gave me hers because her step father adopted her, and the name became important to her. I am also in the military, and I earned my rank, and my last name follows that (plus it's a PITA to get name tapes changed on uniforms and it confuses people.) So I kept my last name. My daughter got my husband's last name. Hubby was mildly disappointed. He says it makes a family look unified if they all have the same last name.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 04:07 AM
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I already did that a couple times today and it did not help. I don't even think sex has been helping, even though it's great sex
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 11:42 PM
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Stoning? kinky
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 11:35 PM
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🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 11:34 PM
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That happens with me, unless he does it in a domineering way (I generally don't like it, but this one time my husband restrained me and ate me out and that was pretty hot because it felt humiliating...)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 11:33 PM
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I am wayyyyy too horny. I feel like I might die
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 11:28 PM
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Don't forget to spit every syllable
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 10:58 PM
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I do
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 05:24 PM
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They are equally disappointing when they fail
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 05:24 PM
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I'm talking about the passport bros that pretend they want relationships with these women just to have sex with them and then dip, not the ones who actually form lasting relationships in which they better the SEA women's financial situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 04:42 PM
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We are ENM
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 04:40 PM
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I didn't know either, until I tried someone of a similar length and it hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 04:36 PM
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The point isn't what either party is capable of. It's that these women are falling for the tactics, stupidly, getting burned, and wasting their potential. They can do better than that
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 04:35 PM
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The divorce rate (which is closer to 45% in more recent stats) just shows that people are bad at being in committed relationships. Women initiate divorces more because men can't be assed to do the paperwork, and a lot of time the divorce more negatively impacts the higher earner (which is more often the man, as women sacrifice career potential to have children, and tend to pick equal-or-higher-earning partners.) More women are choosing to stay single because there is less incentive to be coupled…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 04:27 PM
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I just don't get the female resistance to paternity testing. If you could do something simple to reassure your partner that he's not having the wool pulled over his eyes in like, the worst way, why wouldn't you just agree with it? Sometimes people have anxiety that isn't directly related to a partner's character or behavior; that's why it's "anxiety." Men wanting paternity tests aren't direct accusations of infidelity.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 04:18 PM
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I think that's just a revenge fantasy for red pillers. Most women find partners they're happy with. Lots of Chads select women who are definitely less physically attractive than they are, because they value the women for other reasons. There's only a small percentage who are dicksick for Chads but aren't attractive enough (either physically or personality-wise or both) to get commitment for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 04:13 PM
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My husband is 7 inches in length with a smallish tip, above average girth, and an upwards curve. That's just right for me. (Some 7 inches with larger heads have irritated my cervix instead of slipping nicely into the A-spot; that's the only reason why I bring it up.)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 04:10 PM
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It's definitely not "most." Otherwise men would have all the power in the dating dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 04:08 PM
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I'm aware that there is some sort of special status that SEA women enjoy if they can lock down a foreigner, and that they may enjoy dating them. I dislike the fact that so many of them are failing in their pursuits, wasting their time and youth on passport bros with bad intentions, and I hear that some of them even get pregnant by these men and keep the babies... It's disheartening. They could be making much more beneficial decisions; it's not about nationality at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 04:07 PM
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Women can still get partners easily if they're not fit but also not overweight, and they can still get partners with a little more difficult/get lower quality partners if they are overweight. Their social status is not increased by having more muscle mass. Men have a much harder time getting partners if they are not fit, and they are respected less by other males if they have little muscle mass.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 03:51 PM
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Yell at him for allowing me to come underdressed for the occasion
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 03:46 PM
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PIV is meant to feel good for women too. It's my personal favorite part of sex; I prefer it to clitoral stimulation. I have found that the correct penis size, shape, and harness is instrumental in producing an orgasm during PIV. ETA: I think women have been somewhat gaslit into believing that if they care about penis size at all, they are shallow. But it matters, and it's not shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 03:35 PM
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Accused, sure. But it fundamentally boils down to "children do best in stable family environments" therefore it is imperative to carefully select a partner with whom to reproduce in order to maximize your chances of staying together... There are certainly women who get unexpectedly pregnant with men to whom they are not married, and they elect to carry to term even if the fathers give every indication that they're not going to stick around. That's at least a few bad decisions made...There are wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 03:32 PM
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I've never had that problem
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 03:15 PM
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It kills me to see women throw away their power and potential
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 03:09 PM
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Curse this username
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 03:07 PM
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I don't understand the attempts to lock down foreigners and the consequent upset of only getting sex instead of a boyfriend if they're aware of passport bros
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 03:06 PM
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I pee standing up periodically. I don't find it that exciting
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 03:04 PM
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How are SEA women not aware of the passport bro shit that's going on?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 03:03 PM
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The disdainful analogies are a direct reflection of your misogynistic/misandristic/misanthropic thoughts on people. If you compare single mums to "half eaten meals" that suggests that women are consumables for men (equally so for men.) If you compare somebody's life to a saved video game... well that certainly takes the humanity out of them, doesn't it? Like they're here for your entertainment or something, not people living their own lives
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 02:39 PM
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I definitely agree that that's optimal, but I don't think there is much need for disdainful analogies.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 02:14 PM
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Then that's just misanthropic
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 01:59 PM
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Well, you don't really have to view women as having been previously "consumed" by a man to not want to date single mothers... There are lots of valid, non-misogynistic reasons for that, like "I don't want to raise kids that aren't mine" or "single mums seem like bad decision makers and/or people who struggle with commitment"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 01:53 PM
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I can't hear you over my well-funded SAHM life
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 01:26 PM
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Well, some women are slaves to it. But like you said, there are consquences. Just like there are for men as a collective.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 01:25 PM
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I haven't... Also why choose, when there are Alpha Buxx out there? Stay wet AND pampered.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 01:25 PM
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The point is, women are just as horny as men, for attractive men. we're just not slaves to it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 10:19 PM
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And for a long time, gay dudes operated in secrecy, didn't they? Many of them are still socially constrained by that stigma. It's the same with female sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 03:19 PM
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naw. only lawyers for me
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 03:17 PM
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Who said anything about pretending? You think the most successful people in the world have any more control over their lives than you do? They haven't. They experience challenges and setbacks and awful shit too; they just overcome or deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 03:15 PM
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I enjoy it here. My husband makes plenty of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 03:12 PM
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Let's come back to this in a few years and see if you still feel the same way
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 05:07 AM
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I'd rather be a deluded narcissist than a spineless worm with a victim complex
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 05:06 AM
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The same thing, but sneakily, so we don't get criticized.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 05:04 AM
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Don't you see the shit men have to put up with to keep women? Men are down bad. It'd be like that, but with the roles reversed. There are women who are already good to their partners. Usually if you're good to a good man, he gives back much more effort in exchange. It's quite wonderful.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 05:03 AM
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We don't have to do the running. We just pick from the buffet made available to us, usually in private, because there's social stigma against female sexuality. Many of us find partners worthy of long term commitment and content ourselves with just them. Take a look at what happens in countries where there are too few males in proportion to females. Women's standards go way down.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 05:00 AM
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Don't tell anyone I told you, but... women also fuck inanimate objects 🤫
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 04:56 AM
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Supporting character energy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 04:53 AM
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Women are picky because they can afford to be. Most of us would not be okay with going without dick and companionship for years and years. We'd have lower standards by necessity, and we'd be better to our partners for fear of losing them, if men were harder to come by. (no pun intended.) But because a woman can basically holler out her door that she's horny/lonely and half the men within ear shot would come running to see what's up...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 04:53 AM
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"conservative" has a definition outside of politics, you know. People can be, for example, conservative spenders, or conservative gardeners. Conservative sexuality just looks like not having sex at every desired opportunity, for whatever reason one might have. People going into casual sex with the knowledge and expectation that it's casual sex don't feel "used" afterwards. Most people do not engage in casual sex with the goal of feeling cared for; they just want to fuck, enjoy it, and get a repr…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 04:50 AM
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It's not a reading comprehension issue if you don't like what the other person said to you I'm sorry, my little dumby dumb dumb girl brain didn't get it... Could you be so kind as to mansplain it to me again?🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 04:39 AM
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That's the spirit!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 04:33 AM
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Make her proud!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 04:31 AM
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😂 Tbf, "life" and "nature" are two different concepts entirely. Nature still reads female.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 04:30 AM
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You leave my daddy issues out of this
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 04:28 AM
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Make life call you Daddy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 04:28 AM
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Absolutely not. As much as we like to pretend women don't have sex drives, that's not true at all. We just aren't as ruled by our sexuality as men are, at least not most of us. It's a woman's world, if she knows how to work it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 04:27 AM
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Life, in all it's unreasonable chaos, definitely feels male-coded to me
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 04:25 AM
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"It's not my fault the way my gender behaves. Women are obviously supposed to be our mommies and dictate how we behave!"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 04:21 AM
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It's understandable if you're also prejudiced.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 04:20 AM
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Women are horny af bro. Men are just whores. We take advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 04:20 AM
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We're off topic. I believe I specified "balls" in my original reply
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 04:19 AM
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I am trying very hard not to engage because I know EXACTLY how this conversation will proceed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 03:52 AM
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Ignoring that first complete non-sequitur... How is it "indecent" or "lacking in care" for the other person? If someone consents to extremely casual sex with you, and they willingly and enthusiastically engage with you, both of you are getting what you want out of the interaction, which is pleasure. (Different if you're forcing yourself on somebody or vice versa) *Milquetoast. Like I said, if *you* want sex to be an intimate exchange between you and *your* caring partners, that's fine. Not every…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 03:51 AM
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25 years older. He wasn't the first older man I dated. And he and I didn't marry right away either. We dated for a year living separately, then I went away to military training for a year, then we moved in together, lived like that for another two years, then got married, when I was a week shy of 24. People are just prejudiced.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 03:46 AM
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Worked for Trump, it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 03:33 AM
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If y'all banded together and decided you weren't going to approach women or pander to them at all, then the roles would reverse. But you collectively won't, because you are weak, and cave for pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 03:32 AM
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Interesting. I met mine at 19 and I get all those comments, just because he is significantly older than me. Meanwhile I dated and slept with hella people before settling into my LTR and marriage, knowing very well what I wanted... But high school sweethearts being one-and-onlies are always painted as romantic. Sorry, I don't mean to rant at you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 03:30 AM
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Male passivity is unattractive. Men are supposed to seize life by the balls and coerce from it their destiny
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 03:22 AM
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Sometimes conservative approaches to sex are the norm; that doesn't make them not conservative approaches. Considering the entire human species and the whole range of sexual practices, some are conservative, and some are very promiscuous... but this is semantics. You know what I mean. I agree sex is sex but it can be illegitimate. What do you mean by "illegitimate?" If I tap a passerby on the street on his shoulder and ask him to rail me in the back alleyway, is that not sex? If I had sex with s…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 03:19 AM
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Off-topic question, but does anyone ever ask you if this early, one-and-only relationship "stunted your development" or insist to you that you can't possibly be happy, having committed so young, without knowing what you really wanted for lack of experience otherwise? (really pointed question, I know)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 03:08 AM
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I was a broke college student wandering around the city on a weekend, when I stopped into a bookstore. Apparently I was frowning at the bookshelves, when a man walked up to me and queried, "Can't find anything to read?" And I said no. He plucked one out and said, "This one is pretty good..." and then we got to chit-chatting. He was really funny and charming, and he looked very handsome in his formal work clothing. Our conversation gradually died out, and as we went to part ways, I put the book b…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 03:04 AM
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If one is intentionally avoiding having sex when one wants to have sex, that is a conservative approach to sexuality. because it's not genuine Sex is sex, even if it's not loving sex. Without love, is it not meaningless pleasure seeking behavior? It's not "meaningless." The meaning of it is pleasure in and of itself. Do you never have junk food because it's "meaningless" alimentary pleasure? Or do you indulge occasionally because it's enjoyable? Surely you do some things in life only because the…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 02:48 AM
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You are coming around!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 02:41 AM
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There are women like me, who prefer to date significantly older (started dating my husband at 19, when he was 44. It's been 10 happy years together), but we are a relatively rare species. I am of the opinion that men who take care of their bodies all their lives peak between 45 and 55, when they are old enough to be financially successful, to have spent literal decades working on their physiques, to know who they are and what they want and how to get it, to be good in bed (and not so excitable t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 02:38 AM
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You are saying "conservative sexuality is prescribed morality, therefore it's treated as fact," but you are not backing up your own support for conservative sexuality *with* facts. You are essentially saying "this is true because people have said it's true for a long time." I am saying, "it's not true, as it doesn't make any practical sense."
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 02:27 AM
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If I don't get around to cleaning for a day or two, he doesn't complain, necessarily, but it takes a real bad toll on his mental health, and that sucks the soul out of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 02:20 AM
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What's your point here? That you have decided promiscuity is morally wrong and you are prescribing more conservative practices to people? You're still not defending that stance with any kind of factuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 02:17 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 02:14 AM
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You are the one who asserted that sex "should be" meaningful. That's inherently subjective, and if you want to make an argument based on more than an opinion, you are welcome to do so. I'm listening
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 02:12 AM
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"Should be" is your opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 02:07 AM
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I slept around a lot. I wouldn't call it finding "myself," but I sure found out what I did and didn't like. It was "healing" in the sense of, "There's this patriarchal idea that women aren't supposed to enjoy sex or have it with a lot of people, or else bad things will happen... But I don't care; I like sex, I'm having it, I'm enjoying it, and nothing bad is happening to me. So there."
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 02:06 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 02:05 AM
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He’s exactly where he wants to be
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 02:02 AM
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What do you do when you miss someone so much you can barely breathe and can’t make yourself get out of his side of the bed because it smells like him ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 01:59 AM
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At a recent sex party, some dude asked me if I liked his thumb inside me as a means of dirty talk and I burst out laughing for like a full 30 seconds because all I could think of was this: https://www.youtube.com/shorts/n7biary78iw
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 01:56 AM
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You can mitigate a lot of the risk through STD testing, condoms, and using multiple methods of contraception. Though most people (whether they have a high or low n count) don’t do that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 04:56 AM
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Yes. He said his is 6. I wanted all the deets; he told me as many as he could remember
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 04:53 AM
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I saw a video that my 16 yo step daughter posted on social media: one of those TikTok transformation videos where they start out in sweat clothes with messy hair and whatnot, and then transition into being all done up in their prom dresses… Well, step daughter’s dress was very adultish (very low cut, tight fitting, and had some cut outs. Though, floor length at least) and she was doing a dance that I felt was just a little risqué… I expressed a bit of shock to Hubby about it, but tempered it wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 04:21 AM
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Do the humans still win if a significant portion of them die? Obviously they could all just tackle the gorilla at once and crush him through sheer weight alone... but the humans on the bottom of the pile are likely to die too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 03:16 PM
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What does this mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 11:51 PM
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same one
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 11:44 PM
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You need to be slightly longer than the woman's vagina, such that you go into the pocket next to the cervix... That length varies from woman to woman, and whether A spot stimulation is pleasant is an individual thing as well. There are plenty of women okay with non-curved penises too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 11:43 PM
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Reasonable... though you may never know they do it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 02:51 AM
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lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 02:50 AM
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I guess I can't imagine my life without Hubby in it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 02:49 AM
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Do you think it's wrong to fantasize about cheting, even if you never do it? (psychological cheating?)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 01:23 AM
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first
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 01:02 AM
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based mum
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 12:56 AM
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Pleased to meet you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 12:53 AM
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Gotta confess... The devil on my shoulder is saying, "Wouldn't it be fun and hot to have a little monthly fling with Coworker? It would be exciting and make you feel young and hot again! The tension is delicious." But I can't and won't do it. Probably wouldn't be nearly as good as what I have at home... And maybe the tension is the exciting and fun part of it anyway, and breaking it would just ruin it. Maybe Im just lonely and horny when I'm away for work.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 12:52 AM
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how did your mum get you to do that? Asking for a friend
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 12:44 AM
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Im definitely going to raise meat rabbits. They are so tasty
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 09:29 PM
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Were you at home making a mess all day, or did you go to a child care center? People forget that caring for your child during the day IS work too, and work that compounds because young children are sticky little tornadoes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 09:28 PM
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If they have full or majority custody, sure
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 09:25 PM
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That was hyperbole. They’ve always got like 3 under 5, two dogs, and a rabbit or something that they like to bring up
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 02:57 AM
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Tired of working parents saying they do “everything SAHPs do” but also work full time. Like I assure you, you are not caring for your 6 toddlers and 20 pets while you are working. They’re at daycare for most of the day, making a mess there instead of your home. And the ones that are partnered are presumably sharing the housework, so it is halved, and they assume SAHP have to “stretch the chores to fill the days.” Trust me, there is PLENTY to do, especially if your property is more than 10 square…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 02:41 AM
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Disappointing
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 02:29 AM
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No wait, i really want to hear your philosophical argument
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 01:32 AM
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5’9 is avg in the US. He is packing 7 inches and it’s perfect for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 01:31 AM
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I’m just failing to see how behaving angry when I’m not is different from behaving angry when I am. From his perspective, the angry behavior would look the same and produce the same effect. The effect is good. The end justifies the means. The alternative would have been… what? Suffer?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 01:24 AM
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My husband measured his, and it’s 11 inches from wrist to elbow crease. He is 5’9
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 01:20 AM
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Except when they do
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 01:19 AM
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but at that point it doesnt matter if the penis is "2-4 inches" longer than average. it'd be better to be 1-2 inches above avg
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 12:06 AM
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I was measuring to the epicondyle. to the crease is an inch or two shorter... which means i still probably have exceptionally long forearms
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 12:05 AM
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If he would just communicate like an adult I wouldnt have to 'manipulate' him into doing it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 11:58 PM
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Very few women are going to be able to take 9 inchers
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 11:57 PM
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To the crease of your elbow, or the humeral medial epicondyle?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 11:53 PM
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I think he would just not engage for fear of more arguing if I had just come out and said it. He's done that in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 11:49 PM
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Nah lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 10:55 PM
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Yeah. i posted on another website about it and how I was considering acting angry even though I stopped feeling it, as a means of getting Hubby to take the issue seriously instead of waiting until I forget to be mad and then acting like nothing happened, and a bunch of women said "that's abusive!" even though I'm pretty sure most people arent as chatty or jovial or affectionate towards their partners after a fight and before making up... He surprised me by initiating the resolution convo though,…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 10:53 PM
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Which STD is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 10:42 PM
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wdym?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 10:42 PM
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A bunch of British women tried telling me that being grumpy and quiet when youre angry at your partner is "abusive"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 10:41 PM
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Q4All: How do you behave if youre angry with your SO? Like lets say if you had a big fight in the morning and havent made up yet and s/he just got home
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 10:12 PM
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Im sorry to inform you, brother, but youve got t rex arms
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 09:57 PM
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Europeans are such pussies. GD
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:30 AM
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You have to leave your house sometimes, don’t you? Talk to strangers in line at the grocery store, at the gym, at the bus stop, at your work, in your school, in hobby groups or classes, at the library… Talk about anything
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 04:43 AM
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Sure it is. Try changing yours for a bit and see
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 04:42 AM
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Not with that attitude
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 04:08 AM
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Just talk to strangers whenever you can. Occasionally you’ll meet people you really click with and genuinely want to be friends with. Your social circle should theoretically widen slowly but exponentially
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 04:07 AM
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Wdym, “not going to give you as good of a workout?”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 04:05 AM
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Fair enough, but I think you need to seek out something positive and healthy if you want to feel better
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 03:43 AM
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Why do you want friends (but also not want friends)?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 03:42 AM
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It’s a possibility that people who marry without vetting for several years are more likely to end up with cheaters. Cheating and addictions can be worked through, even if you have to separate while the affected partner attends rehab/therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 03:37 AM
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I find it quite comforting to think there’s some higher meaning to everything, even the bad things, and to ask God for strength, patience, or whatever virtue I need to get through the tough patches. It might be confirmation bias, but I feel like the Heavenly Father has my back, and gives me signs when I ask for (or need) them, long as I’m listening. I don’t care if it might be made up or illogical. It feels good.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 03:35 AM
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Idk, the dude looks attractive to me, as much as I can discern from a tiny blurry pic
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 03:31 AM
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You don’t force it. You just need to want to believe, and suspend your disbelief. There are some things in this… existence that we don’t understand, so we very well could have “proof” and just don’t know it. Either way, the concept of religious “faith” hinges on belief without proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 03:28 AM
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TIL men have color preferences for vulvas
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 03:21 AM
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GOODS AND SERVICES
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 03:17 AM
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Damn, that’s not a body designed for tight turns… or breathing well
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 03:17 AM
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Some women’s periods stop under 20 BMI
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 03:14 AM
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It’s okay, but the sleeves are kind of weird
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 03:13 AM
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Same
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 03:12 AM
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That means u r a q t
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 03:11 AM
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They’re trying their best, okay? Parenting is hard
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 03:09 AM
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The guy’s last name is Barr. Where did you measure from? From the base of my wrist to the inside point of my elbow is ~12 inches. I’m a bit under 5’5; the human wingspan is supposed to be a bit under your height, so it makes sense for a little less than half of one of my arms to be about a foot. I’m actually remarkably good at estimating size/length/volume/distance. It’s like an autistic side effect
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 02:55 AM
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Because it’s hawt
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 02:49 AM
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But you can believe in it if you want to. It’ll make you feel better, even if it doesn’t make perfect sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 02:48 AM
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My forearm is about 12 inches long; it was only slightly shorter than that. It was literally monstrous, and only a little more than half would fit… extremely uncomfortable. I’m pretty sure the world record is like, over 20 inches (but that dude had a medical problem) ETA: I was wrong, it’s like 14 inches https://nypost.com/2024/08/26/lifestyle/man-with-worlds-largest-penis-reveals-the-hardest-things-about-his-daily-life/
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 02:41 AM
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God loves you tho
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 08:11 PM
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Maybe what high schoolers want boys to look like
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 08:09 PM
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The men in my dreams are pretty weird
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 08:05 PM
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A kick to the nuts
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 08:04 PM
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Unless you just like, magically spawned
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 07:59 PM
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that wasn't specified either
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 07:57 PM
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Aren't there large predatory animals in both poles?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 07:57 PM
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I don't know how else to get him to take me seriously. It's still logically a huge issue, even if I'm to tired to continue feeling angry emotionally
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 07:56 PM
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Holding grudges is so tiring though
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 07:55 PM
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Well considering very few species can survive in the arctic, I wouldn't take my chances
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 07:54 PM
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Very, very few people can hide their true colors for literal years. There are women getting married after knowing a man for 6 months saying "Why do you have to wait so long? When you know, you know." There are women getting married without having lived with their boyfriends first. And of course, there's a tonnnn of babies born out of wedlock all the time. I'm pretty sure there's a ton of people not vetting properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 07:53 PM
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Polar bears
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 06:33 PM
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Negative. Just gotta maintain faux anger until he capitulates
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 06:30 PM
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I think I'm gonna go with finding out about my partner's past, as someone who has spent the last decade and has kids with the same man. Like, if I found out he had kids with someone who isn't me or his ex wife and just abandoned them??? that would be troubling for sure. We can work through cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 06:29 PM
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I tried that. He wasn't listening. That's why I got mad
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 06:21 PM
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But this happens every time we argue; he just pushes it off until I forget to be mad and then nothing gets resolved
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 06:20 PM
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That's hardly any weight loss. You shouldn't feel the need to snap
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 06:14 PM
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It was though
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 06:13 PM
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That's just taking poor care of oneself and being unprofessional
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 06:09 PM
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I wish I could hold a grudge longer... I was SO mad at my husband this morning but then forgot about it and when he came home from lunch I remembered we haven't made up yet
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 06:08 PM
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I've never initiated it myself. There's always been dudes that came up and asked if I wanted to dance and then gotten up close behind me... They never dance well though, so it's no fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 05:57 PM
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#GetWomenOutOfTheWorkPlaceAgain2025
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 05:52 PM
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I have a phobia of balloons popping
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 05:51 PM
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Definitely picking F
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 05:48 PM
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Too skinny
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 05:46 PM
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If you're only going to reply with "But studies!" to every comment, why even post?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 04:08 PM
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Can you get one that has six or fewer abs?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 04:01 PM
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Are you accepting spouse applications from women?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:55 PM
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blessed
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:54 PM
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I love this photo
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:52 PM
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Right. can't go looking like a thumb
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:51 PM
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The average ideal is probably larger than average penis length, but there are preferences on either side of the average, and there are more factors that go into preference than just penis length.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:48 PM
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Men don't notice many things
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:46 PM
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Right. like we're better liars than that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:43 PM
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Too many abs.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:40 PM
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How about everyone should just be required to wear clothing that doesn't show off their genitalia if they're going to be exercising around other people? Whatever happened to loose shorts?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:30 PM
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Women vary considerably with anatomy and sensation preferences. Some women have shorter or longer vaginas, more or less sensitive cervixes, uteruses in different positions, vagisimus, butts that get in the way or long backs... Plus the variation in cervical height throughout each woman's cycle. Some women really like A and G spot stimulation; others find it to be too intense or straight up unpleasant. All of those things are going to affect size (and shape!) preferences. Personally, I have an ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:24 PM
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Yeah, I'm guessing that has to do with the divorcees' attitude towards divorce... If they chose wrong the first time, or maybe didn't try hard enough to fix things with their spouse, and decided to walk away, and survived that just fine, they probably feel like they could do it again. Even more so if they did it twice and were okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 02:59 PM
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It asked if I wanted a list of celebrities that were in my category
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 05:31 PM
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Wrong. If two people with net positive assets marry, they both gain joint ownership over the other's assets. When married, you have joint ownership of 100% of the marital assets; when divorced, you have individual ownership of 50% of the assets. The system disincentivizes divorce. Now, you might end up wealthier after divorce than you were prior to marrying someone with greater assets than you. But you still would have been wealthier if you stayed married.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 05:29 PM
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Yeah, I also said disagreed and was offended
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 05:26 PM
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it asked me if I wanted it. florence pugh, saoirse ronan, alicia vikander, lily james, and natalie portman (fuck capitalization)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 05:25 PM
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I don't think I look mentally ill or like a barbie at all, minus the blue eyes
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 05:21 PM
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The PSL ChaptGT thingy just gave me like 5 celebrities who look like they could be my sister and now I'm creeped out
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 05:16 PM
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Would motorboat
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 05:01 PM
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Leaving is an option if you've picked poorly, yeah. But people are made less wealthy by divorce, because your jointly owned assets are halved (unless your partner has a bunch of debt, and then your debt is halved, i guess)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 05:00 PM
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I think I was 2
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 04:57 PM
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I'm saying that there are a ton of people who pick shitty partners that are obviously not in their best interest
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 04:52 PM
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Idk, I wouldn't marry someone who spends a ton of money on things that I find frivolous. I was very pleased that my husband felt the same way I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 04:51 PM
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Rational self interest is not. Idk man, do you see some of the partners people end up with?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 04:47 PM
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I mean, I'm just one datum point, but when I put my requirements into the Female Delusion calculator, I get a fraction of a percent of the male population... Fortunately the population is so big that that percentage is still more men than I could ever meet and vet in a lifetime, and it wasn't difficult to find and lock down a man who met my requirements. I do think some women get the ick over stupid things.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 04:45 PM
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But wouldn't it be better to have a partner who simply loves and values you so much that the thought of being without you is unbearable, rather than one who may or may not feel that way but is stuck with you because leaving is "life ruining?"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 04:41 PM
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Updoot because that was well written and thoughtful... Just wanted to chime in as a woman who also kind of looks down on single mums and is DEATHLY afraid of becoming one herself... The reason I do so is because I think children deserve two parents, and you're kind of a fuckup if you pick an irresponsible man and have a baby with him, in an age where even oopsie pregnancies can be taken care of easily enough. I think women ought to spend plenty of years vetting a man before marriage, truly mean …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 04:40 PM
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Would, if he waxed his torso
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 04:30 PM
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I genuinely feel sorry you feel that way
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 04:28 PM
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You don't have to have an expensive wedding. I paid a total of like $200 for mine, and half of that was the cost of the marriage license
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 04:27 PM
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No; you have invest your time, money, and energy into her (but she will also do the same for you)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 04:26 PM
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She meant why isn't it on you to choose a woman who won't leave the marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 04:25 PM
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No thanks. I will stick to feeding my man pineapple
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 03:52 PM
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Its flat, but soft and undefined. and you can tell from the rest of her that her body fat percentage is high.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 03:51 PM
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Are you illiterate or just trolling?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 03:49 PM
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shes definitely overweight by bf %
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 02:58 PM
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sounds like it'd be straight acid
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 02:55 PM
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too chubby for me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 02:54 PM
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maybe the one on the left
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 02:53 PM
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I've had such kinks for about as long as I've known about sex, pretty much. My husband was pretty vanilla when we met, and I perverted him. We both enjoy exploring now, and we regularly discuss what we'd like to try or experience and compile it into a sexual bucketlist, so to speak.. So when Hubby found out there was a free use party, he asked me if I wanted to go, and I said "yes." He likes to see me enjoying myself, and I hoped to see him with another woman (though he didnt find any of them th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 02:50 PM
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yum
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 02:10 PM
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oh look, 19-21 bmi women
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 02:09 PM
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good looking = above average, meaning you might be shown first. I have seen a lot of boring and unappealing profiles in the past, before algorithms became so common.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 02:08 PM
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No, I'm not implying that. I addressed that in the first comment-- in general, men are not superior to women. BUT, individual women tend to prefer and choose partners who are superior to *them.* Therefore, if you're picking a man who's more levelheaded, experienced, knowledgeable, disciplined, better at managing risks, etc., in addition to one who considers your input carefully, it makes sense to give him the final say in matters where you disagree. Like I said, this way you can feel like you're…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 02:05 PM
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Idk, when I was actively looking for a female fwb, I paid for premium features. But yeah, it also probably helps with retaining women. OLD is genuinely fuuucked for avg and below avg men, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 01:58 PM
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nice!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 01:56 PM
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beefy/10
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 01:48 PM
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What a wild paragraph
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 01:47 PM
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I briefly checked the "men" box on the "show me" section of Hinge, just for some entertaining window shopping, y'know, and I probably would have swiped right on the first 15 or so male profiles I looked at. They were attractive men in their late 20s or early 30s, with photos full of fun activities, friends, and poses with their dogs, and well-filled out prompts. I thought to myself, "What are women complaining about? We have access to all these great men at the push of a button!" And then I reme…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 01:47 PM
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They were actually really respectful (ironic considering I wanted CNC/abuse)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 01:41 PM
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That's bunk. That's why love bombing is always a red flag
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 01:39 PM
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What happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 01:20 PM
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Honestly, I think dogs are more worth the effort than taking care of kids aged 2.5-4.5... Kids are cute and fun when they're little, and are less work when they get older, but there's a period of time where they need constant supervision and assistance (but yet crave independence), they're somehow always sticky or stinky or dirty, they're defiant, and they're much less cuddly. At least with a dog, you can get one that's obedient and always cuddly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 01:19 PM
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Based and praisepilled
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 01:15 PM
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Why? That's how it's supposed to be
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 01:14 PM
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Fit men are there to work out, and working out with a partner can slow you down. The women who are with the average looking dudes probably have good personalities or other qualities which raise their value in the eyes of the women their with. Or they're just friends
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 01:13 PM
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He's just a baby
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 01:11 PM
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It makes me sad. Men are really great, if you surround yourself with the good ones
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 01:11 PM
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I was being sarcastic
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 01:10 PM
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It’s very much possible to get a partner where you both equal 50/50 in your different qualities and traits, that does not mean they are better than you, whatever you learn from them, you can also teach them. As I said, no two people are equal in every respect; there will be moments of learning, and mutual benefit. But you wanted to push back against that soooo hard, if you recall... Again, pick a partner who's better than you in every way, or many ways, or just a few; idc. I am trying to explain…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 01:08 PM
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Technically he did have a cis woman in his DMs... he just didn't know it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 06:55 PM
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Are you implying that it's possible to get a partner who is exactly equal to you in every single way and has had all the exact same experiences in every category imaginable? Because it's not lol. You're gonna end up with someone who knows more about something, or has more experience with something, than you do, and I don't see how it can be anything but beneficial to learn about that something from them, or anything but practical to defer to them in decisions regarding that subject. Generally, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 06:49 PM
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You know those stupid people who will reply with the exact same points you *just* countered? hate them
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 06:09 PM
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I do that too when I'm dieting
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 06:06 PM
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All the examples you listed are jobs where you literally get paid to follow or your a child . In romantic relationships, you don't "get paid," but you do benefit from having a partner who makes your life better. Also, there are plenty of adult student-teacher relationships. It's also commonly referred to as 'mentorship.' There is nothing inherently child-like about learning new things from another person who happens to know more than you or has more experience than you. People aren't meant to st…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 06:02 PM
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I'm in what I would call a trad-lite relationship, where my husband works and provides financially for our children, and most of the time I take care of the housework, pet care, and child care. I am a reservist in the military, though, and every few years I'll work a part-time job for a bit just to keep my resume current. I figure if, god forbid, my husband were to divorce me, I'd be able to go active duty, or go and get a different job, until I found a new man to provide for me. I have a lot of…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 05:45 PM
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What do we mean by, "doesn't tip much?" Like, he never pays more than 20% at a restaurant (that's fine.) Or, only ever 10% (Definitely a turn off and I would feel obligated to add to the tip. Not a dealbreaker though) Or like, never more than $5, no matter how big the bill is? (pretty gross. Idk If we'd be compatible by principle) I actually really like the fact that my husband tips well.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 05:33 PM
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I'm 28, and have been with a man who is presently 53 for nearly a decade (I'll let you do the math on that one, if you care to.) If, God forbid, I had to start over in like, the next couple of years, I'd think the age range I would go for would be 40-50ish. Maybe a particularly mature and successful 35 year old who doesn't want any more children. I find that older men are more sure of themselves, tend not to play games, have had time to build wealth/security/success, are better in bed, more matu…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 05:22 PM
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Felt. Gotta plan out your meals ahead of time and set reminders to eat and drink
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 04:43 PM
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Why would you not want a man who is better than you? King term partners? Also the leader and follower sounds more like pet and owner Uh, I think that's a 'you' interpretation. There are lots of human relationships that are leader-follower that aren't like being owned. For example, boss-employee, teacher-student, pilot-copilot, etc. whatever choices he makes, they both bare the fallout if it *bear. The both face the consequences for whatever the man chooses, but it's the same way if they argue ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 04:39 PM
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It's true love!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:30 PM
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I keep replaying in my mind how my one coworker directed everyone in the course to wash their uniforms that evening so that the next day when we were in close quarters, we wouldn't stink from having been sweating the day prior and then I was like (addressing the group) "I have tide pods if you need them." And he said, "Yes, ExcitementLow's uniforms smell great" and then VISIBLY COLORED !!! Like at first I thought, I'm definitely reading into that too much; I'm imagining things. Obviously he was …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:29 PM
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I'm sorry to say, but i've heardt it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:20 PM
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Be pervy first and give positive feedback every time he's pervy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:18 PM
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RPW doesn't say that all men are superior to all women, just that women prefer to be with men who are superior to them in as many ways as possible. Like, if we're picking a long term partner, why would we not want someone wealthier, smarter, stronger, more level headed...? Provided he's a good man and benevolent partner, all those traits directly benefit us. Because of this, and because of men's great need to be respected, it seems to be the "natural order" of things that men should be leaders i…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:15 PM
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Ugly men for sure. Girls get told they're beautiful no matter what they look like
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:06 PM
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Shapeless
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:02 PM
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Brit detected
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:02 PM
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Goddamn that man's voice is smoooooooth 😩 I lol'ed at "laughs in wrestlemania" Though I appreciate your growing appreciation for older men with a feeling of kinship... Men of all ages can have attractive voices.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:01 PM
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There are women who are complete dumbasses or absolutely desperate and they'll date men with MASSIVE red flag, and then cry when they're inevitably abused/mistreated/hurt by them. That's what "choose better" means. Oh, this dude your with refuses to pick up after himself at all? There's one out there who will. This dude that shouts at you and slammed you up against the wall yesterday? There's one out there who won't be aggressive or violent (and you should probably move on immediately before it …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 11:36 PM
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I was being facetious. Congrats
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 11:28 PM
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Yes! It's happening!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 11:26 PM
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To what?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 11:24 PM
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i would ask him how it was
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 11:22 PM
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are they? I couldnt tell
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 11:21 PM
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Hell yeah! We're both climbing
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 11:20 PM
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left
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 11:17 PM
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Well it's just that I sent Hubby a screenshot of the coworker's message (but not mine) and we kinda talked shit on him for a good while, but I never told him how I responded. So I think that's where my guilt is coming from (though, again, I technically haven't cheated.) Poly is typically short for "polyamorous," meaning "multiple loves." Typically poly people have multiple relationships at once, both romantic and sexual. ENM (ethically non monogamous) is technically a broader term, but we identi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 11:16 PM
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Great job! How do you feel?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 11:13 PM
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Good examples (minus abortions)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 08:44 PM
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The children at the nearest house are having an egg hunt and screaming continuously and my flight-or-fight response keeps being triggered because my instincts are telling me children are in trouble and I must help them. This is the worst part of Easter
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 08:42 PM
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Some of us want to have muscle mass
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 08:40 PM
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Could be nice if you have good curves
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 08:36 PM
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Swerved
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 08:35 PM
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Really is a beautiful dude
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 08:32 PM
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They call that ”speed dating” these days
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 08:30 PM
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You’re right. Lemme just abandon my 10 year old relationship, break up my family, and be single for the rest of my life. Obvs attention whores are meant to be alone forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 08:29 PM
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Agree, except for this part: especially if you're on Reddit and spend most of your day playing video games in your mom's basement. Young, attractive women can have pretty much any man they want, long as they have ok personalities. Most young women prefer their age peers, and the ones that prefer older are also looking for things like greater maturity, impressive accomplishments, financial/career success, having their own car and home, etc. They’re not gonna pick losers still living in their mums…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 04:39 PM
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There‘s “needs” as in, ”you will die if they’re not met,” and there are “needs” as in, ”you will be extremely unhappy and/or likely have a limited ability to function if they’re not met.” Like, food, water, shelter from extreme weather, etc., are needs, but so are exercise, friendship, sunlight, sex, love, romantic companionship, fun/stress relief, etc. See: Maslow’s hierarchy of needs
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 04:33 PM
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I mean, I think if my husband had somebody *in mind* that he would prefer to be with instead of me, that’d put a real damper on things. If I knew about it, I’d constantly be comparing myself to her, and probably never feel good enough
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 04:20 PM
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People in age gap relationships typically relate to each other just fine, usually either because the younger person is an “old soul” or the older person is “young spirited,” or both. Like, you aren’t restricted to your own generation of culture or experiences; you can continually seek out what’s modern in addition to learning about the past. Most men wouldn’t *date* younger women because, like you, they are socialized to see them as children. But most men see youthful adult women as more physica…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 04:12 PM
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The “patriarchy” is just fine with me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 04:00 PM
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I don’t think Hubby would feel disrespected by it. He knows I have eyes, and he’s pretty secure about himself, my feelings towards him, and our relationship. We talk about different people we’re attracted to all the time, and he doesn’t worry about me violating his boundaries. There hasn’t been any “drama,” and we are ENM, not poly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 03:59 PM
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I work one weekend a month and two weeks in the summer, mostly just to get our family insured, and it’s an exceptional year if I make 15k. And again, when I was dating, men were happy to pay for dinner. It would be dumb for me to pay
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 03:56 PM
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Except there were men who were happy to pay for my meals, and my husband, who is happy to provide for me financially. So why should I pay for dinner?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 12:29 AM
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For us, the romantic and sexual attraction are separate. We have both with one another, of course, but we feel sexual attraction to other people and feel okay with the other acting on it…again, with limitations, which generally prevents romantic attraction from forming. I don’t worry about my husband catching feelings for other people; he hasn’t given any signs that he’s inclined to do that at all. And I know myself well enough to know when there are beginnings-of-feelings, and I have the discip…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 12:24 AM
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I mean… I don’t want relationships with any other men that I’m fucking, either. That kind of intimacy is for my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 12:17 AM
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he looks tall and probably has money
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 10:48 PM
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Use DMs
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 10:46 PM
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I think it was meant to soften the rejection. like "you're not ugly; I'm just taken"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 10:45 PM
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Romantic monogamy is quite nice. You focus all your love, time, energy and resources into one person. I could be sexually monogamous if my husband needed that, but I'm also glad he grants me certain freedoms and likes to explore with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 10:43 PM
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Sexually open, with certain limitations. Romantically monogamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 10:40 PM
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I'm permitted to have sex with strange men only if I only ever see them once, that way there's no opportunities for extramarital romantic relationships to form.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 10:39 PM
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I don't know. Maybe to soften the rejection?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 10:37 PM
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Yeah, open with some limitations. And sexual interaction with this coworker would violate those, so I'm not gonna do it... I guess the "average modern female" is faithful and respects her partner's boundaries?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 10:35 PM
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I also explicitly said "nothing can ever come of it because I'm married." Or are we conveniently leaving that part out?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 10:33 PM
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I get a little thrill from attention, NGL. drama, however, is no bueno
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 10:31 PM
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That was a JOKE about FRENCH, jfc
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 10:29 PM
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What does being a mother have to do with it? My child isn't aware of my sex life, just like it is (or at least ought to be) in families with monogamous, vanilla parents. (Also it wasnt a gang bang; i got fucked by two strangers, one at a time, and my husband. the rest was just beatings, gropings, and toys.) "What am I doing with my life?" Probably a lot more than most people my age are doing. I'm taking care of my family, managing a household, about to be promoted to a senior role in my work, tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 10:28 PM
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A coworker confessed he's attracted to me, and i admitted the attraction was mutual but said that nothing could ever come of it cuz I'm married (and not allowed to get with people i know/interact with regularly). I wish he hadn't, because I'm only ever with him when I've been away from my husband and without sex for a few days, so now l'm getting stupidly nervous and horny at work, where I need to be focused and confident. I hate it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 05:40 PM
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He financially provides for our family.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 05:35 PM
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both
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 05:34 PM
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I feel like a cheater even though I haven't cheated. SOS
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 05:34 PM
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Being in a happy relationship doesn't make pill topics not interesting.. Also, different perspectives can also be helpful when interacting with the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 01:49 AM
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An adult is an adult. If you think young adults are not capable of knowing whether they are being treated well by a romantic partner, then it doesnt matter if that partner is an age peer or older. They can be mistreated by partners of any age...And yet somehow you probably aren't up in arms about young adults dating other young adults. Just because mistreatment is possible, doesn't mean it's going on. Older partners in AGRs are not inherently more likely to mistreat their younger partners, even …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 01:40 AM
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No, its not " understandable" for people to be "put off" by it. There's nothing wrong with our relationship to warrant that. We have the same things in common any other couple has.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 01:32 AM
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have you lied/deceived/manipulated others in order to get sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 01:18 AM
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No, you keep and care for the baby for the most part; he just lavishly funds your lives. You can definitely hire a nanny and a chef and a maid, if you want
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 11:51 AM
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There is no war in Ba Sing Se
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 04:06 AM
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Nothing can fully prepare you for the stress of being a parent before youre a parent. The decision to become a parent is always, unfortunately, an under-informed decision. A lot of times people find out after having kids that theyre not as prepared to cope with that stress, or to manage their emotions/finances/time properly, and they struggle to figure it out... and its not like you can just put them back where they came from if youre failing at parenting in some regard. . Youre morally obligate…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 04:05 AM
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It seems, though, that there are men who care a little bit, and men who care a lot, and men who care not at all, so it's not really a binary, is it? And like I pointed out earlier, many men *say* they care when surveyed, but their choices in partners and their consequent satisfaction with their relationships often dont reflect that they care about n count the way they previously expressed it... So does that really count as caring? What about men who say, "Yeah, anything under (some significantly…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 03:52 AM
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I'm nearing 29. I don't have any anxiety about my much older husband ending our semi-trad marriage that began in my 20s in order to go off with someone younger. (lets be real, how much younger is he going to be able to pull when he's 60, 65, 70...? I dont think he even wants that.) Mostly, i know i've spent my most attractive years building a life with him and cementing emotional, familial, and financial bonds with him, among other types of love/intimacy/connection/support that will outlast my y…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 03:35 AM
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The definition of 'care' here seems very ill-defined
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 03:18 AM
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Can you give an example of a behavior women do that isnt good for them, where men (attempt to) implement controls?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 02:31 AM
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Men's standards are def a lot more restrictive than women's, at least in my branch
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 02:29 AM
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As a married SAHM with a well-providing husband, no, i do not (and did not) see women wanting to go '50/50' financially as competition. There are many men who want an equally financially contributing partner, and many who value the work of a SAHM more, and even those who have no preference either way (like my husband, whose first wife ended up making more than him, but who he does not consider her to be a good parent.) These are like different games or arenas entirely; traditional women and egal…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 01:49 AM
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Males just get neutered, not spayed
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 01:18 AM
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ask
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 01:10 AM
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Wherever my much wealthier husband lives
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 01:08 AM
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I feel like shit about myself but i appreciate your positive energy :)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 01:04 AM
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He generally punishes the women who don't keep the situation confidential, and idk if he would want to see the kid or not. Seems like he has favorites, but who knows if he'll even be able to keep up with all of them
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 01:01 AM
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I met my husband when i was 19 and he was 44. We have plenty of things to talk about and relate to each other just fine... i always find it funny when people ask this question of AGRs because all my peers talked about at my age was sports and drinking, and that wasn't my scene at all. I still have a hard time relating to anyone under 35 or so (generally it's easiet with people aged 40-60) even now that I'm almost 29. We are doing okay navigating the social aspect so far, but people can be really…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 12:58 AM
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Most men lose attraction for their wives because they get fat and stop caring about their appearance, not just because theyre aging. If you actually love your spouse, aging itself doesnt make them unattractive to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 12:51 AM
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But you would never have to work again
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 12:47 AM
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I read an article today that detailed Elon Musk's activities to build his "legion" of children with which to one day occupy Mars, and how he offered St. Claire 15 million dollars and 100k a month to have his baby and keep quiet about it being his kid (she didnt take the deal!!!) Q4W: Would you have Elon Musk's baby for 15 mil + 100k a month? I would, if my husband let me. (he said no!) Q4M: Would you let your girlfriend/wife have Elon Musk's baby if she agreed to split the money with you and pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 12:38 AM
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What site is it? I wanna be nosy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 12:18 AM
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Actually most men prefer low n non-virgins, when surveyed-- though many come to find they actually dont care that much once they find a desirable partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 03:54 PM
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It's... well, this sounds really bad, but it feels humiliating/degrading, which is part of the kink. I was enjoying it when i was facing away from them and/or when i was blindfolded, but there was a point where this younger dude came up to me and started groping me while being face-to-face and he was saying "look me in the eyes" among other cringey stuff, and I got the ick so bad that I wanted to leave after that. It was late anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 03:52 PM
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I dont want to desire other men
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 03:47 PM
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I don't want to desire sex with men other than my husband, even if im not gonna do it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 03:47 PM
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Same
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 03:46 PM
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Its not for everyone and thats okay... For me, any kind of sex with my husband is always consensual and intimate. It doesnt ever really scratch the CNC itch or feel like being used like a sexual object
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 11:46 AM
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NSFW confession !There was this dude at the free use party who was such a good dom. I mean, he had a really soft-sounding voice at first, but then he started saying all the right things and in such a mean, commanding way... Really made me pay for my brattiness. Someone got a video of it and i've been listening to it over and over when i get horny. I want to experience that again. I feel guilty about it.!<
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 01:58 AM
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Never weed with a hoe
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 01:40 AM
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In reality, most men are accepting of a range of n counts, many of them very wide ranges. Men will also say they care about n count if you ask them... but if a pretty woman comes along who has other traits they value, they're very willing to overlook n count.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 01:38 AM
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im gonna say its a yellow flag-- needs further evaluation As bad as it sounds, I prefer it when my partner hates his ex and there's very little chance of him desiring her again.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 01:15 AM
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NOW YOU KNOW HOW IT FEELS!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 01:09 AM
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sure sure sure
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 10:58 PM
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I would probably just feel bad about myself and try harder to improve my attractiveness. I wouldnt feel rage
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 10:54 PM
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We'll see.. my husband says my angry voice is terrifying, but if that doesnt work, my only other options are to haze them with physical activity/pointless work or to give them negative paperwork, and I'd really hate to have to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 10:45 PM
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Are they on them in the middle of the workday? Are you often seated/standing close enough to see their screens? I feel like youre accusing me of being nosy where you simply dont have the opportunity to even see your coworkers screens, let alone consciously choose to look away before you can see them, but 'whatever i guess'
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 10:42 PM
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WDYM? They are in my line of vision. im not going around looking over their shoulders at their soft pour corn
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 10:29 PM
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Well, poisonous species *used to be* meant for eating
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 10:22 PM
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I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 10:21 PM
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I wont be angry; im just gonna use the voice i do when im angry (its deeper, louder, and more authoritative)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 10:20 PM
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im just walking around and they have them out
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 10:19 PM
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Theyre not uncommon enough that you cant find one... but they are 1.5 inches above avg
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 10:15 PM
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We measured my husbands because he accused me of using "girl inches" and my autistic ego got offended because i am VERY good at estimating things like sizes, distances, weight, calories, etc. I can usually guess penis size just from pictures with high accuracy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 10:13 PM
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yes, i have
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 10:11 PM
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I would like a hug from your kindly elder dogperson
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 10:10 PM
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Smooth
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 10:09 PM
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Which ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 10:07 PM
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Its not safe to drink drinks that you didnt see being made. thats how you get drugged
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 10:05 PM
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The men taking this work course with me are so goddamn horny, it's like, gross and pathetic. Any time I catch a glimpse of their phones, theyre looking at female influencers, or anime women. Theyre absolutely leering at other women who seem pretty mid to me... It's been like 3 days. Many of them have girlfriends, too. Two of my juniors don't listen to or respect me, and things are gonna come to a head soon, I think. I've already docked their performance evals for it... Gonna try using my angry v…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 10:03 PM
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No; thats a good choice
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 09:57 PM
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We have a sexual bucket list, so to speak, that we're ticking items off of
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 09:53 PM
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Took a long shower, was more careful about meeting up with strangers, and developed a fetish
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 04:13 PM
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I dont think men are shamed and called those things for being sexually successful unless they lie/deceive/manipulate others in order to get sex
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 04:06 PM
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Right, but in this hypothetical, people still have different aesthetic preferences, so there's enough people who find an individual attractive that its easy to find a mate, but not so many who prefer that individual above other that inequality results from it, y'know?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 04:02 PM
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Lets make it an average between the two
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 04:00 PM
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Maybe an average. Greater than women's but less than men's
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 03:59 PM
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most women are not optimally healthy in the lower end of the healthy range, but i did include beauty
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 03:56 PM
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They're not, fortunately. Everyone's relationship with God is different and personal.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 03:54 PM
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1) Educational and professional development dont speak to an individual's psychological development 2) thats impractical.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 03:53 PM
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It doesnt matter who paid for the assets. They are split in half when a couple divorces. Your options prior to that were joint ownership of 100% of the assets while remaining married, or individual ownership of 50% of the assets when divorced. Divorce is disincentivised. Tax breaks incentivize people to get and remain married. What is meant to happen is that people get 50/50 custody of their children unless they go to court to have it specifically different. The court is meant to assess which pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 03:49 PM
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The only animals who arent "meant to be eaten" are apex predators and poisonous animals.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 03:40 PM
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Yes. rape is bad. though some people do it for the same reasons others commit murder.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 03:39 PM
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Right. rape bad
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 03:37 PM
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What is the alternative?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 03:37 PM
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Or maybe, in communist countries, they tightly control and manipulate the data in order to look better.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 03:36 PM
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They are. Children develop better when theyre not in childcare settings the first two years of their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 03:34 PM
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He is 5'9
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 03:32 PM
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Wouldn't it be nice if men and women had matching libidos, and everyone was healthy, successful (in different ways) and found beautiful by a substantial percentage of people, so that then picking a life partner is mostly just a matter of finding someone who has a compatible personality and matching life goals?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 01:21 AM
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PPD summed up in two comments
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 01:15 AM
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I absolutely would not take that deal for any amount of money
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 01:12 AM
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They fudge their stats and persecute perpetrators of DV less
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 01:08 AM
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SAHMs are good for a country's future generation, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 01:04 AM
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oh please. the govt does not "incentivise" divorce. You get tax breaks for being married, it costs fees to file for divorce, and both parties lose 50% of their jointly owned marital assets.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 12:44 AM
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Dogs were specifically created to be slcial companions for humans. They're not meant to be eaten, so doing so is considered unsavory.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 12:37 AM
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No, i'm pretty sure youre just a sick fuck and youre morally bankrupt if youre raping animals for sexual pleasure this is coming from a person who regularly engages in the kink scene
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 12:33 AM
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I don't think that's enough preparation, but I wish you the best of luck and hope you succeed. come back to tell us how it went please
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 12:32 AM
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That's if you have space to keep eggs and dairy producing animals and it's legally permitted in your area
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 12:30 AM
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I see
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 12:28 AM
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When are you attempting it?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 10:21 PM
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Raping an animal is harming it for no reason. Humans are naturally omnivorous and generally have to kill animals to thrive, though nowadays most people just eat factory farmed meat killed by someone else instead of hunting it. side note: I was pondering if i could bring myself to kill an animal and decided that if i couldnt, i'd go vegetarian... Found out squirrels and game birds are really tasty.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 10:19 PM
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Technically you couldnt prove causation... I would think violent people and rapists would be more likely to play those games in the first place. Might be mutually reinforcing though
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 10:15 PM
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43 miles is still an extremely far distance
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 10:10 PM
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lies. big bouncy lies
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 10:07 PM
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"Let's all hang out again soon. Im doing xyz thing on abc date, if anyone would care to join"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 10:05 PM
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Gaudy fake tits
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 10:03 PM
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It doesnt have to be group sex. And you gotta be a huge pussy deserving of inceldom if you cant take the initiative at something like a free use event, for example
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 10:02 PM
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Explain. Because as far as im aware, 50% of the data falls below the mean in a normal population
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 10:00 PM
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A lot of them have fetishes, at least. You gotta find events with good ratios... lots of very female presenting ones who didnt identify as women but definitely were at the last one i went to. Some regular women. And yeah, lots of gay dudes. But Nobody was really having group sex; it was more people taking turns/having individual scenes
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 09:58 PM
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Uh oh! That's not a complete sentence. Do you want to try again?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 09:49 PM
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You still dont want to be wet because of chafing. And youll need to train for endurance rather than speed, so work up to like, 2 hours at a lower setting... Again, you'll probably only need to hike at 2 mph
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 04:31 PM
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How do we know he's good at math? I had sex with 3 men last night, and 2/3 were very small, and one was much above average
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 01:35 AM
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What if shes had disappointing live shows and now she wants a preview to avoid wasting her time?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 01:34 AM
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Women age the same regardless of their marital status, but the reason whe "the wall" is scary is because you end up with fewer options. Married women dont need to worry about having options anymore. Plus, if you marry young, you have more time as a maximally attractive woman during which you can build a life and bonds with your husband which will generally keep him attracted to you (love goggles. provided you dont like, let your hygiene and body fat percentage go to shit.)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 01:32 AM
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how do you figure?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 01:23 AM
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They do tend to brandish their wands, though
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 01:22 AM
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Sometimes creeks can be pretty deep. maybe something waterproof to carry your clothing/belongings in in the event the crossings are deep (you might have to strip) or slippery (dont wanna drop your stuff in the water and have it get wet or carried away). Bugspray for sure. Some stairstepper cross training training would probably help you with the elevation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 01:19 AM
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Are any of them deep?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 01:11 AM
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Well 5.5 is avg here... i would think it possible to get 3-4 below avg ones
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 01:10 AM
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Not all incels are virgins... Also, its a good place to meet sex positive people, with whom you might spend time outside of the scene
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 12:59 AM
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Ok, then probably just make sure youre well-conditioned to complete the hike (build up mileage wise), wear WELL broken in shoes and carry moleskin for blisters, stay hydrated and eat plenty of calories, and you'll probably want sun protection and bear mace on hand.... any water crossings?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 12:55 AM
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Usually you have to buy tickets,
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 12:51 AM
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There were lots of single men at the last one i went to. I think most accept some, or just make single male tix more expensive
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 12:49 AM
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You can date avg height men who also meet your other standards/preferences. It doesnt have to be either or
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 12:47 AM
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Well your face wouldnt be in it, so you'd have plasible deniability. And youre not exactly strangers
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 12:46 AM
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lmao youre not you when youre hungry
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 12:45 AM
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What if shes only had a few but they were disappointingly small, and she just doesnt want to waste her time if youre not sexually compatible?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 12:44 AM
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You can just go online and find events... you dont necessarily need to be invited
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 12:42 AM
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Q4M: Youre chatting with a woman online and you two like each other. You ask her out, and she responds with "I have one request before I answer that... Can you send me a picture of your penis?" How do you respond? Also: why don't more incels just go to kink play parties in order to get some?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 12:24 AM
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You get to pick him, you know
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 12:17 AM
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Awooo
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 12:12 AM
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Relevant
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 12:11 AM
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43 miles in 24 hours works out to 1.79 miles per hour, which is definitely doable. where are you hiking? that will determine what you'll need to carry with you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 12:06 AM
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I'm flooded out :(
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 12:04 AM
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Probably
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 12:02 AM
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Tf are you cooking???
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 07:02 PM
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agree
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 07:00 PM
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Also the number of legitimately trans/gender queer people (and the number of trans-identifying people who present as completely cisgender) there last night was insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 06:59 PM
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Man, staying up till one AM, getting beaten at a free use party, then waking up super early to drive an hour and a half to church to watch babies, and then having to do like 6 loads of laundry and clean half my house before I drive another hour and a half to a 5-day job course I'm taking... Really blows. Whose idea was this???
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 06:57 PM
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I thought this was going to be about a man You don't take in strays; you take them to the vet/shelter if it's cold, or you keep them secured outside until you can locate the owner. It's safe to adopt a dog from the shelter once they've been examined, bathed, and given preventative flea, tick, and worm medications. You have to get them a look-over if you take them into grassy/wooded areas, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 10:23 PM
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I will look that up
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 10:16 PM
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I have crazy, crazy dreams. Sometimes lucid. It's not easy for me to force lucidity, or to quiet my thoughts enough for meditation, but I believe I did it that once. I absolutely could not handle the immense noise, though. And it was bizarre, because I've never had a dream like that-- just darkness and overwhelming voices filling the entirety
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 09:45 PM
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Nobody tell the men what this means
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 09:37 PM
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Wait til you find out how much tattoos cost
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 09:36 PM
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I didn't pay to see any of the videos. I didn't really need to see them to be convinced some people can read minds and that there's more to the universe than normal people can perceive... Some of the episodes have kids who know each other from The Hill before they meet in person, and I don't think there's any way to explain that. Or the animals being mind readers. ETA: https://youtu.be/p0xYuOAQKts?si=ngZnbspBo0Wo6t8F Call me crazy, but while I can't hear thoughts, people's emotional energy tends…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 09:31 PM
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Maybe not *your* vagina...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 09:25 PM
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Mine is great. She's very gentle, polite, considerate, takes my concerns seriously, gets back to me in a timely manner... There are good ones out there. Had a male gynecologist take my tubes out. When he came in for my pre- exam, he was like "SO! Closing up shop are we?" and I was like bruhhh... Then when it came time for my follow up, post surgery, he hardly even looked at me. I have not gotten pregnant again so I trust he did what he was supposed to in there, but obviously I changed providers
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 09:23 PM
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absolutely fucking not. call the police if it ever goes like that!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 09:19 PM
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It only takes once
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 09:18 PM
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I'll take the one with the mustache
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 09:14 PM
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I found my library card. Am a happy gurl
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 09:13 PM
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Oh, my bad. It was a chimpanzee
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 09:09 PM
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Not going to engage with you. I've learned my lesson from past interactions
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 09:08 PM
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It's fun once or twice. After a while, not so much
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 07:38 PM
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it's skinny fat-- normal BMI, overweight body fat percentage
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 06:05 PM
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wee oo wee oo wee
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 06:03 PM
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That's called being a slut angel
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 06:03 PM
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Leave, immediately. that's fucked up and he's endangering their children
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 06:02 PM
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guess you didn't see the news article where that one woman's pet orangutan ate her face
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 05:44 PM
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oh, i forgot who i was talking to.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 05:43 PM
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I know my diet is deficient in vitamin k and choline, esp now that eggs are too expensive. The choline and inositol are together in one pill, as they help with absorption when taken together.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 05:42 PM
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I mean, we live very comfortably now, but not extravagantly. Hubby wouldnt let his kid starve or go without clothing or anything if we divorced, so not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 05:39 PM
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Craving sugar is one thing. It being healthy/wise to consume is another. You can reach for complex carbs which will bring your blood sugar up slowly, and do other things to raise your serotonin levels. https://preview.redd.it/20szz7jzatte1.png?width=1374&format=png&auto=webp&s=e8d4dd6def5397d1d62a172c5a9567dde8a2baa4
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 01:34 PM
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Yes you have
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 12:44 PM
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Sugar actually worsens PMS
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 12:43 PM
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ACALT
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 12:42 PM
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yes please bring that here! I hope if I ever get to visit my stepdaughter at her college in England that I'll get to go to a futbol game
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 12:42 PM
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i dont wanna be a buzz kill, but if that orangutan got set off for whatever reason, he could rip those cubs in half. I wouldn't put them together
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 12:40 PM
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yay for male body positivity
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 12:38 PM
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Sorry!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 12:34 PM
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dating can be non monogamous and short term
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 12:34 PM
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10,000/100,000 = 0.1 then you multiply by 100 to get the percentage, so 0.1 x 100 = 10%
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 12:31 PM
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Not a man, but SAHM.. My husband has a life insurance policy and a living will (i think that's what it's called; my brain is still sleepy) in addition to contributions put away in a 529 account for our daughter's education. I should be set for retirement (if he should pass before me and after our kiddo leaves the nest) or, worse case scenario, I can go active duty in the military if needed to provide for our daughter. but idk maybe i'd try to do something else cuz that sounds horrible to me
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 12:25 PM
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What's a glowie?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 12:20 PM
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if not gummy forest friend, why gummy forest friend shaped?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 12:18 PM
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that's greater than a 10% chance you get poisoned when you eat a random mushroom
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 12:17 PM
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To correct nutrient deficiencies and improve energy: Vitamins K2, E, and D3, calcium, folic acid, creatine, and I pilfer some of my toddlers extra-iron Flintstone vitamins For hormone/cycle regulation: Choline and inositol For greater muscle growth/help reduce body fat % in order to increase testosterone: HGH surge (does not contain any HGH but the components your body needs to make more of it) Mood regulation: bupropion (prescribed) !Edging is actively masturbating without allowing oneself or o…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 12:11 PM
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According to stats taken in what year and what countries?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 12:06 PM
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We're spouses, not friends. Friends don't get spouse privileges
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 12:04 PM
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To correct nutrient deficiencies and improve energy: Vitamins K2, E, and D3, calcium, folic acid, creatine, and I pilfer some of my toddlers extra-iron Flintstone vitamins For hormone/cycle regulation: Choline and inositol For greater muscle growth/help reduce body fat % in order to increase testosterone: HGH surge (does not contain any HGH but the components your body needs to make more of it) Mood regulation: bupropion (prescribed)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 12:03 PM
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His "bones" are just the right size for it not to be painful ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 12:01 PM
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That just sounds like dating though
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 12:00 PM
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To correct nutrient deficiencies and improve energy: Vitamins K2, E, and D3, calcium, folic acid, creatine, and I pilfer some of my toddlers extra-iron Flintstone vitamins For hormone/cycle regulation: Choline and inositol For greater muscle growth/help reduce body fat % in order to increase testosterone: HGH surge (does not contain any HGH but the components your body needs to make more of it) Mood regulation: bupropion (prescribed)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 12:00 PM
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Oh I gotcha
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 11:51 AM
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Horny post time Either the orgasm restriction or the supps i'm taking are workimg, cuz all I can think about is jumping my husband's bones when he walks in the door later.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 12:01 AM
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Were you just curious?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 11:51 PM
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"Just have sex with us even though you don't want to and we'll be cool! We'll be your totally not abusive and very committed and respectful partners!" Yeah, that's worked before.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 11:49 PM
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What I got out of it is that the youth are engaging in crazy gender wars that are resulting in violence and engaging in earlier and earlier sexual relationships/feeling pressured to have earlier and earlier sexual relationships, and their parents are unaware
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 11:46 PM
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Isn't that just a short term relationship? A fling?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 11:44 PM
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Fair enough. I had my booty call roster, back in the day. My dick appointment providers
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 11:41 PM
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idk man. I guess i just can't be friends with people I've fucked
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 11:38 PM
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I feel like a situationship is where one partner likes the other and wants romantic commitment but the other is being evasive, or that both people like each other but are afraid of commitment
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 11:38 PM
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*only for married monogamous couples who are TTC
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 11:36 PM
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yes. Why would you want to be with someone who doesn't better your life in some way? Or only can offer sex and companionship?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 11:31 PM
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Why? being touched is nice
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 11:29 PM
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Do FWBs even hang out, or is it just a euphemism for "we meet up and fuck on a regular basis but we're not dating or committed to one another?" Is hanging out with someone you're fucking...a date ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 11:27 PM
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I see a lot of paired-up geese in various places, most of them pretty/romantic... but every once in a while, I'll see a couple like, in a parking lot or by a dumpster, and all I can picture is the female goose being pissed off cuz her mate can't even take her somewhere nice
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 11:25 PM
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No. I had a few STRs and a lot of casual sex partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 11:20 PM
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I already stated that hooking up with random strangers isn't a good idea for most women. What is statistically most likely to be satisfying is a FWB situation with someone who is actually your friend and would hang out with you if sex was not on the table. Right, that's the "telling women who want good casual sex to not engage in casual sex is not a solution" part. Most FWBs start out as random strangers who happen to be good at sex, so women keep them on their rosters. I don't think it's common…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 11:19 PM
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... in order to make a decision about whether you'd be a suitable partner for them ? Most people move out of their parents house around age 18, even if it's just to go stay at a dorm at their university, and have worked jobs before.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 11:13 PM
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I'm not seeing the point you're trying to make. My husband is attractive. I'm not the first person he's had sex with; I'm his 6th. He's had several partners, a few relationships, and two marriages from which to gain experience. To me, the sex was mind blowing the first time we had it, but I'm sure his first partner probably thought the sex was pretty bad because he had no experience with it at all. He didn't have any experience with the kinks I'm into, though, so I had to teach him about them. H…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 11:11 PM
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He was the best vanilla partner I ever had the first time we had sex ( like brain frying kind of good) and then I taught him about kink, which he is now exceptional at as well. Sexual compatibility in general is another aspect that makes finding a good partner difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 10:11 PM
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You're assuming that average and below average men don't get sex often. They often do within the context of a LTR. These men are also significantly less likely to get into LTRs than attractive men, or to have multiple LTRs in order to get feedback from different partners... And even if they do get into LTRs, lots of women put up with mediocre sex and/or don't know how to provide feedback to teach their partners to be better at it. Again, there's a reason why faking orgasms is such a common exper…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 09:16 PM
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I'm simply putting forth an explanation as to why a man might not care about his partner's pleasure based on my observations. You're hypothesizing that this is what happens during casual encounters and why, IN ADDITION TO blaming women for it happening. It isn't really that hard for a woman to vet for mutual attraction and mutual respect if she avoids dating apps. We just went over this. Like I said, men aren't going to just come out and tell women to their face that they're not attracted to wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 09:00 PM
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I just felt like the conversation was going in circles and wanted to point out that if you're roleplaying as a hypothetical woman, you're getting really into it and doing a great job... That's sus.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 08:41 PM
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Unless the guy is inexperienced this is literally not possible for majority of men for women to be fucking Why is it not possible? It takes both willingness to learn and practice to become good at sex; if average and below average men don't get sex that often, nor with many different partners, and lots of women aren't willing to teach them, it's reasonable to assume that most men aren't going to be good at it. (I'd reason most women aren't very good at it either, from men's perspective, but they…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 08:36 PM
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b-b-but wealthier older men are gross perverts and I can make my own monies!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 08:16 PM
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Is this being posted to r/NotHowGirlsWork mean that OOP thinks that it doesn't happen? "it" being, women being told that men don't like hairy women and then becoming hateful of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 08:15 PM
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Bro, YOU are the one putting forth this conundrum. You're confused
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 08:11 PM
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No, you didn't. You hypothesized that men don't put any effort into pleasing women during casual sex because they're choosing women they're not attracted to. A) That doesn't seem to be the case B) It doesn't make any sense Most men are bad at sex because they don't know how to please women, not because they're not bothering to do it. Why do you think women fake orgasms?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 08:09 PM
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Most women don't like casual sex because most men suck at sex, and they tend to catch feelings for the ones that don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 08:04 PM
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Don't sleep with desperate dudes but also not the ones that are significantly hotter than you that you're actually attracted to... and the ones you do sleep with should be attractive and attracted to you (but also they'll lie to you and say they're attracted even if they're not because they're desperate to get in your pants...) Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 08:03 PM
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I like wrestling with men who are like, "What? No, I'm not gonna fight you!" and then I go for it (maybe like 75% of my capabilities) and they easily counter me (going maybe like 25% of their capabilities), and if i get pinned that's like super hot
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 07:58 PM
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wtf... I was imagining much younger people doing these things
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 07:55 PM
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You're sounding a bit like a woman. are you sure you're flaired correctly?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 07:54 PM
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Idk, sometimes I just wanted a quick fuck or their expression of pleasure wasn't that sexy to me. I still did my best. I never asked for feedback, but lots of men will ask for specific things if you show you're interested in their pleasure, and coach you into doing it the "right" way. Then you're aware of more things to try with consecutive partners, and sometimes you show them something they didn't even know they liked... What you're describing sounds nightmarish and not at all consistent with …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 07:53 PM
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Okay, can you just give me an example of what you would support?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 07:49 PM
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They could be looksmaxxed but he could still find her unattractive and thus consider the sex to be dumpster diving... So what do you suggest women do when they want casual sex? Fuck men they're not attracted to, or significantly less attracted to than their other options, in the hope that those ones don't consider their sex to be "dumpster diving" and that they'll put in some effort? This all sounds insane and not at all consistent with my experience as a casual sex haver
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 07:48 PM
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okay, but there's potential "federal boundaries" like "genetic modification through IVF and CRISPR is illegal" and "you can't do plastic surgery on a minor [you sick fuck]" kind of boundaries, and also "You're required to give your gametes to the government and you will be assigned a random embryo" kind of boundaries. The government presently isn't assigning people reproductive partners, and so people are free to choose them based on whatever it is they value, in effect "altering the trajectory …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 07:41 PM
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No, you dumby dumb dumb MALE, it's like this, you see.. I'm jk. We just agree
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 07:35 PM
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>Because people who GAF are hoping for more than a one and done encounter. Not necessarily ? I mean, I did my best to please my casual sex partners. Sometimes I enjoyed their enjoyment, and I valued their feedback and teachings when they were willing to give it. I think it helped me get better at the sex. And I've had a lot of casual partners enjoy pleasing me as well. What kind of sex are you people having??
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 07:33 PM
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I thought it was pretty common knowledge at this point that men lower their standards considerably on dating apps I mean, it's common on here... Even if you're aware of that, what if you don't think of yourself as less attractive than him? If she's a 4 fucking a 4, why would she assume he sees the sex as dumspter diving? Or maybe she thinks she's a 6 and he's a 4 Obviously if he came out and said "I'm not attracted to you but I'm desperate so let's have sex," the woman would be like "ew no"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 07:30 PM
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Why would people continue having casual sex if anybody who has it doesn't GAF about the other's pleasure? That doesn't make any sense
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 07:27 PM
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Why are you assuming she knows (that he thinks) he is dumpster diving?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 07:23 PM
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So what you're saying is... Horny men fuck women they're not attracted to and blame women for it, so they don't even try to get them off? what in the
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 07:21 PM
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... I'm not sure what the answer to my question is
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 07:17 PM
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So abstinence makes you fat?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 07:16 PM
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I feel like that would be SO awkward... how old are yall?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 07:15 PM
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DOWN BAD
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 07:14 PM
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I would usually say "I learned xyz thing in my kinesiology class, spent time studying, and had a track meet." There wasn't really a need to mention the other dates I went on.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 07:14 PM
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Well, if you want women to only date you and not other men in the beginning stages of a relationship, then you should probably say that to them upfront and do the same thing yourself... But the thought of my dating prospects dating around in the beginning didn't bother me at all. I didn't feel entitled to exclusivity until we talked about it and committed to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 07:12 PM
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lololol Killer bod. poor dude still has a baby face though
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 07:09 PM
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Romanian economy down bad
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 07:08 PM
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I mean, that was my strategy... I don't see why you should spend time on only one person you're just getting to know at a time; you're only young for so long, and it takes a long time to vet people for increased levels of commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 07:07 PM
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So you're okay with someone wanting to choose their partner based on their looks, but not okay with someone editing their children's genes after their conception or birth, if I'm understanding correctly?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 07:05 PM
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how does one kiss another on the cheek "for too long?"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 07:04 PM
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It's because everyone is polarized now, and the extremists are loud and do their best to shame the other side. There are fewer radical liberal men to shame moderate men into IDing as liberal than there are radical conservative men to shame moderate men into IDing as conservative. You are, of course, free to reject whomever you please for any reason. Personally, if I was dating and I saw that, I would explore the person's individual beliefs and assess for compatibility that way instead of rejecti…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 07:02 PM
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Right, so there's the intersection between socially instilled preferences (which are often cemented with positive experiences) and evolutionarily instilled preferences. Wherein pubes are a signal of fertility, but society says that women should be hairless downstairs, and men who have experienced and enjoyed eating hairless box maintain that preference. Therefore, in the context of the original discussion.. preferring women sans-pubes is not a pedophilic indication, nor a counterargument to men …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:57 PM
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Idk, i think moderates are viewed as conservative now. Some people get to believing they are and IDing as conservative, but they aren't conservative conservative, you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:53 PM
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are you sure they are flirting
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:50 PM
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While I think her husband is kind of dick, she definitely has help with the children and the farm work. They're incredibly wealthy, and she would be able to leave him and continue her career on social media any time she chose.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:50 PM
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There's a pretty even distribution of modern liberal and conservative traits there, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:43 PM
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But would you have ever experienced munching a hairless c*nt if women weren't widely encouraged to shave off their pubes? It'd probably be significantly less likely
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:42 PM
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Right, but you did say you don't think parents are entitled to manipulating their children's genetics. Isn't selecting someone with the traits you want in your children doing that? I don't see any way to avoid it unless you don't get to choose who you reproduce with.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:40 PM
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In the traditional definitions of "liberal" and "conservative," I think it would fall under "conservative," as in, 'we want minimal government interference with our lives and maximal freedom." In modern politics... Usually the democrats are called liberal and the republicans are called conservative, but: -Republicans typically are anti-drug, pro guns, anti choice, not supportive of LGBTQ initiatives, and push traditional gender roles -Democrats typically are for the legalization of drugs, anti g…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:38 PM
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What I meant was, lots of people are liberal or conservative in different ways. One might be supportive of legalizing marijuana, the right to bear arms, be pro choice, support LGB marriages but wary of accidentally influencing kids to transition when they're not actually trans and not supportive of trans people participating in gendered sports, desire a marriage with traditional gender roles but totally supports people who don't want to adhere to them... And then we've got this stupid two part s…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:30 PM
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oh. yeah that makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:22 PM
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A lot of people are trying to discern the lesser evil
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:21 PM
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I read their posts on fetlife sometimes... they rarely seem to be doing well
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:19 PM
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What if they're only financially conservative and don't support the current republican politicians?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:18 PM
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Did you ask them what that means to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:14 PM
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Do you think we should all just put our eggs and sperm into pools and be randomly assigned fetuses to carry, birth, and raise together?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:12 PM
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aw, I like that :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:09 PM
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hear me out I don't think it's wrong for closely related, adult, consenting individuals to have sex with one another provided no one was groomed, they take every reasonable effort to use proper birth control, and they agree not to carry to term in the event of accidental pregnancy. Is it weird and icky? Absolutely. Morally wrong outside of the grooming and genetic defect aspects? I don't see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 05:57 PM
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Um, I guess? Good physical, mental and emotional health and development, maximal ability, stable families, extensive support network, good educations and social lives, financial and reproductive success, positive contribution to the world/society... Things that make it easy for them to have a happy, enjoyable, satisfying life. I'm not saying lookism is moral. I'm saying lookism exists, and people are subject to it whether they like it or not. Not wanting your children to be on the butt end of lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 05:32 PM
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Some of the later episodes respond to criticisms like this. Parents, teachers, assistants, etc. communicating with gifted spellers often report them using words they themselves didn't know, or telling them verifiable facts they weren't previously aware of... Plus there's also kids who communicate with electronic keyboards on their own
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 05:06 PM
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I think, as a parent, that it's reasonable to want the best outcome for your children, and to not want them to be disabled, diseased, or treated poorly because of lookism is normal/moral. That doesn't necessarily mean that you view disabled/ill/conventionally unattractive people as less than or unworthy of existence/reproducing themselves... I mean, ask anybody with a heritable disability/disease if they would have rather been born healthy, or any conventionally unattractive person if they would…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 05:02 PM
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https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-telepathy-tapes/id1766382649 It's a bit of a slow burn at first
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 04:56 PM
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Are you saying that you think it's problematic or immoral to want your own children to look a certain way or to have certain heritable traits? Or are you conflating the immorality of legitimate eugenicist practices with caring about that sort of thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 04:40 PM
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there's this really interesting podcast I listened to called The Telepathy Tapes that changed how I think about that. It's about non-verbal autistic kids who are able to communicate via spelling on keyboards or letterboards, and they talk about having telepathic and supernatural abilities.. Several of them mention a collective consciousness beyond what we experience on earth, and that individual consciousness-es are embodied on Earth in order to gather knowledge. So now I think it's likely that …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 04:35 PM
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Right. So a single individual not wanting to reproduce with another individual with/without certain traits is not him/her trying to arrange reproduction at the population level to make those traits more common.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 04:30 PM
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You can be able to provide a decent life for yourself if needed and also date someone wealthier, that way you're not dependent on them, you can enjoy wealth when you're young, and if the relationship works out long term, your kids are set. Building up wealth when you're not born with it takes time. But of course, whether you want to take handy little shortcuts and capitalize on your female-ness is up to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 04:28 PM
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"Eugenics" has started being thrown around any time someone mentions wanting their own children to look a certain way, or anytime someone supports reproductive choice. The problem with actual eugenics is that people with power forcibly prevent others from reproducing because they deem them unworthy by some arbitrary standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 04:24 PM
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I think the equivalent of a woman hiding her plastic surgery from a man she's dating is a man hiding his plastic surgery from a woman he's dating. Same thing applies for intentions-- some men date just to get sex, some women date just to use men for meals, status, or resources. All these things are generally frowned upon
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 04:20 PM
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Yeah, I'm sorry I did that. I probably should have just posted the info and dipped
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 04:17 PM
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Reasons to date wealthy men
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 04:16 PM
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That's not even clever wordplay
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 04:06 PM
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I'm not sure why you're assuming my concern that they would see that and attempt running a ridiculous, unnecessary distance, hurt (or kill) themselves, and perform poorly on their fitness test is a faux concern. I'd be really surprised if the dude isn't injured himself, but it'll be hard for him to tell until his soreness wears off. You can't just go from running 3-5 miles on occasion for a month to running nearly 2 miles longer than a marathon at a very good pace
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 04:04 PM
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One of my (husky and kind of overweight) coworkers posted to our groupchat that he ran 28 miles at a remarkable pace for someone not training for that distance yesterday. I said "no way" and called him out on it... I feel a bit bad for doing it in front of the juniors, but I want them to know that it's not safe to just go out and do that, and that it's not the way to be training for our (much shorter) fitness test.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:53 PM
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My husband said that in college some chick asked him if he wanted to see her bedroom, took him there, and he said "Cool bed" and left, because he didn't realize she was tryna smash. I don't think men get it even when we're being obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:49 PM
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I'm mostly joking. But honestly I do find good marksmanship to be attractive (yeah I know shooting someone point blank isn't an example of good marksmanship. shush)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:46 PM
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Other than all the sweeping generalizations and prejudiced assumptions you made about all AGRs and older men who have them ? Also you are one person. There are thousands and thousands of women on the internet saying the most hateful shit about AGRs and my relationship, advising me to leave my husband and break up my family even when I tell them I'm happy because "i'm brainwashed and too young to know any better, doing the same gaslighting that they accuse my husband of doing. It's fucking stupid…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:40 PM
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https://youtu.be/eylH7lmJA0E?si=3CF0Mq2IaM-TiDB3&t=12
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:30 PM
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Now we feed them properly so they graow
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:28 PM
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ja
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:26 PM
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underaged drinking?!?!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:24 PM
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From like 200 yards away with a GD assault rifle...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:22 PM
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TBF, Trump assassin guy also fucking missed. If you're gonna try to be a hardass, at least succeed
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:21 PM
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"Nobody is telling you not to" LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:20 PM
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If young women are insecure and likely to overlook major red flags in older men, they're just as likely to overlook red flags in their age peers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:13 PM
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IDK about yours, but my common sense tells me that people can have differences and still have plenty of things in common for them to have a successful relationship, age gapped or age peer, as my husband and I do. You see, you don’t need to be exactly the same to have compatibility, but rather you have to complement one another and be headed in the same direction in life. Maturity and experience are two separate things. Experience is what you’ve gone through, accomplished, perceived. Maturity is …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:09 PM
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I'm sorry, but when I read "benevolent guidance" it's an automatic "ew" from me. Well, that's your preference, and that's perfectly fine. Personally, benevolent guidance (and assistance) is something I've really appreciated about older men, especially in my husband. I can admit when I don't know much about certain things, and I recognize when I'm better off for having been advised by someone who does know about them. I don't think that I'm in the minority by saying that my partner should be my e…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 02:45 PM
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The men who frequent this space are not a representative sample of the general population. They are more likely to have misogynistic views of women, and thus are more likely to behave badly towards them, than men who do not post here. So you can't say "well men talk about it all the time online!" and use that to generalize.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 02:28 PM
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But the kind of men I was talking about feel this way about a woman who gave birth to their child, not someone else's The thing is, when we're talking about preferences that come from thousands of year of evolutionary programming, it's not so simple for individual traits to be isolated from their circumstances. A woman with no physical signs of having been pregnant and given birth is most likely not caring for children from another man. A woman with those physical signs is likely to be caring fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 02:19 PM
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It's not about testosterone or anything like that Well, not consciously. A lot of our sexual preferences come from evolutionary programming, and some from social conditioning... Then there are those that we are conscious of that come from our experiences, like being able to go down on someone without getting a complementary teeth flossing
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 01:38 PM
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I'm sure you will, when you get more experience with dating. Right now, you'll probably take any port in the storm, but eventually you figure out what you like or don't like in a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 01:36 PM
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How similar do the cultures have to be? Is it enough if two people both grew up on the same coast of the same country, in the same socioeconomic class, raised by the same race of parents? Or do they have to be from the same hometown? Is it enough for them to have similar values, beliefs, opinions about how to handle the finances and raising children, equally familiar with the current technology, know the same songs, etc., or do they need to have been born the same year regardless? There are lots…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 08:46 PM
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You can help prepare your child for adulthood in fun ways, in addition to giving them lots of free play time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 08:12 PM
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Miss Rachel core
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 08:11 PM
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It's so frustrating when someone says something outrageous and then dips without responding to your follow-up questions
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 08:10 PM
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I've never heard a man specify that he likes younger women for their agreeableness outside of the internet, and the most times I hear it is from women who are pearl-clutching over AGRs and putting words in people's mouths.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 08:09 PM
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Pubic hair, specifically, is a sign of puberty. Like I said, I think men have been conditioned by porn and society in general to prefer hairless pubic areas, and then having a positive experience with a hairless partner cements that preference. Body hair tends to grow more and darker the more testosterone a person has, wherein the hairiest women are most likely to have the highest T, and the least hairy women are likely to be lowest in T (or have a genetic mutation where their body doesn't respo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 08:04 PM
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Unless a man verbally specifies that he prefers younger women for their malleability, there is no reason to assume that's the reason for his preference. I acknowlege that OP said that, but he's not all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 07:59 PM
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Can you give some examples of "things in common" you think are not "superficial" and important for a couple to have? Have you considered that different people value different commonalities within their relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 07:57 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 07:36 PM
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>A younger person who's never been married isn't a match for a divorcee. Why do you say that? My husband has been married and divorced prior to our relationship. I've never felt that we weren't on equal footing. >Get with women your own age who have had similar life experiences and that you have something in common with. It ain't hard. If they can get both younger women (who are equally consenting participants in the relationship, btw) and their age peers, why should they not go with their own p…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 07:34 PM
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If a 28 yo is high value enough to convince an 18 yo to date him (when most women prefer and are in closest social proximity to their age peers), women his own age probably find him to be HV too. And if he has his pick between the two age groups... Why shouldn't he date according to his preferences? There is no reason to assume a older man in an AGR cannot get women his own age.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 07:30 PM
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right. very productive
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 07:24 PM
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Sometimes people have long term relationships into middle age, and then they don't work out. It's not always their own fault (it takes two to have a successful and happy relationship), or maybe it was, and they're learning from it. Sometimes people choose not to settle down in LTRs in their lifetimes. There are many reasons why older men might be single. There is not always a *notable power imbalance in AGRs. (*I think all relationships have multiple kinds of power imbalances, depending on how y…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 07:23 PM
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Having boundaries and a developed sense of self aren't "jadedness." Jadedness is when you've been treated poorly in the past, and you expect the next partner to treat you similarly, so you come into the new relationship with a pessimistic outlook and oftentimes, an avoidant attachment style. It doesn't make anybody, male or female, a particularly enjoyable partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 07:16 PM
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Of course :)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 07:11 PM
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That's an awful lot of assumptions
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 07:09 PM
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The masses also don't shit all over their relationships anywhere near as much
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 07:09 PM
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Body hair is associated with masculinity, wherein those human beings with the most testosterone tend to be hairier than those with less. Having less body hair then becomes associated with femininity, and I think a preference for hairlessness is socialized into us and maintained through positive sexual experiences...I forget what it's called when there are sex-specific differences within a species, but it's an example of that. ETA: sexual dimorphism! Like you said, menstruation is an indicator th…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 07:06 PM
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This will be the first one Hubby and I have attended, but I've had similar kinks for as long as I've had sexual fantasies. The first older man I dated helped me with exploring those kinks. The rest, not so much. You would be surprised the number of men who are deathly afraid of being impolite or less than gentle during sex... Hubby was very vanilla when we first met, and I perverted him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 06:51 PM
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Yeah, I guess lol. That contributes to the "being used" fetish, the indiscriminate nature of it. It won't be intimate at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 06:47 PM
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Yeah, I've heard of a lot instances of that. Honestly, I had just decided that I wanted to be done having kids by age 25 (at the time, because I wanted my body to "bounce back") and had enlisted in the military on a whim, so it was really by luck that I ended up having a means of being financially independent if needed. But like I said, Hubby has always been supportive of whatever direction I wanted to take my life, which is definitely a green flag. He made sure the car and the house we bought m…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 06:44 PM
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Idk if Hubby will blindfold me or not. I think I might prefer that if the men are particularly unattractive lol. It's not for everyone, but I don't think it makes me un-classy to engage in our kinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 06:37 PM
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I think there's "would be happy to have sex more frequently" and "actively and presently dissatisfied with the frequency." Like a sliding scale of satisfaction
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 06:35 PM
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I started wanting a baby around age 20, and started trying for one with him at 21, after I got back from military training. I struggled with infertility for two years, and was 23 before I finally conceived my daughter. I was 4 or 5 months pregnant when we decided to get married, a little bit shy of my 24th birthday, but we had already been living like a married couple for years prior to that. Not everyone wants to wait til they're aging out of their reproductive years to start their families.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 06:29 PM
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That feels to me like you're satisfied with the frequency even if you have a higher libido, which is not really the point of the question
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 06:26 PM
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It's actually harder for men to get younger women than it is for them to get women their own age. Most young women prefer their age peers, and there is more social overlap with those age peers than there is with older men. Older men have to put themselves in situations where they can interact with young women, and they have to be significantly more attractive than the age peers the young women have access to in order for them to pick them up. Additionally, those in AGRs face a lot of social push…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 06:22 PM
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bitterness and jadedness are a completely separate thing than one's ease of being impressed or comparative experience. There are lots of women out there who have been with bad men, and project their feelings about it onto the next men they date. They expect the next men to be bad as well, and will treat them at best, pessimistically, and at worst, poorly. That's one aspect of younger women; they aren't as likely to be bitter or jaded because they've spent less time in the dating pool. They're mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 06:18 PM
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i meant you, personally. Like find him one and offer to escort him there. Maybe talk with him like he's a person instead of an inconvenience
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 06:10 PM
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I like that answer. very nuanced, as per usual from you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 06:10 PM
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I dated a lot of older men from age 17-19 (don't blame them for the first number; I lied to one about being underage) and I've been with a man who's 25 years my senior since age 19. (I'm nearly 29 now.) None of them treated me poorly or "took advantage" of me. Many of them taught me things that my age peers generally could not have, and took pleasure in giving me new, enjoyable experiences. My husband has been wonderful to me, and has provided trustworthy, benevolent guidance more times than I c…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 06:07 PM
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What about my pregnant?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 05:48 PM
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For me it's (in no particular order of importance) confident/assertive, but not impolite or arrogant intelligent/wise/knowledgeable/well-educated has a good sense of humor/is able to make me laugh, open to trying new things, emotionally mature/available/able to empathize and comfort, courageous (but not accepting of stupid, unnecessary risks), is a good communicator/doesn't start or engage in drama good with children (especially his own.) likes dogs. Not a cat person ambitious, but still a famil…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 05:44 PM
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Horny post/TMI warning Remember, you DO NOT HAVE TO click the spoiler text if you don't wanna. I don't want to hear any complaints because y'all can't control yourselves. Been having an issue where I'm only horny in the morning, and not at night when Hubby wants sex... This morning, we were doing it, and he told me I'm on orgasm restriction until the free use party this weekend. I have never felt so physically frustrated in my entire life. I'm trying to remember to take my supplements and to exe…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 05:31 PM
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it's easier for me to reach back there while I'm standing... I have a big butt
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 05:22 PM
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I don't think AI art looks anywhere near as good as handmade art. It just lacks that human touch
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 05:20 PM
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That's wayyy too monochromatic for me. At least vary the pinks, maybe add in some other warm colors or neutrals... something to break it up. You should have one room to yourself in your future shared home where you can decorate it however you want
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 05:19 PM
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His eyebrows make him look so grumpY!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 05:17 PM
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Did you direct him to the nearest homeless shelter?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 05:16 PM
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I love if I'm bent over and my husband comes up behind me and puts his pelvis against my butt and does a few thrusts... I guess there are times when we are spooning that I'll squirm up against him too. So you're probably right
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 05:16 PM
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If a kid is telling me I'm ugly, there's a good chance I'm actually ugly, so maybe I shouldn't be too harsh to dismiss the men I'm dating over little things like not consoling me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 05:10 PM
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Not a dude, but I'd say "At least my balls have dropped"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 05:08 PM
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When i was dating, i didnt go out with low-earning men, but to indulge your hypothetical... Yeah, I'm breaking it off with the boyfriend and dating the new guy. Not sorry, just being honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:51 PM
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She needs to experience something similar to working a different job all day, coming home to "babysit" for several hours in addition to doing housework and not getting anywhere near enough sleep. then she can decide if shes still confident.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:48 PM
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Not to bed ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:45 PM
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She'll change her mind on her own, most likely. encourage her to try out a nannying job
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:42 PM
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My wedding was just my husband, myself, my unborn child, and a judge on a zoom call in our living room. we spent maybe 60 bucks total between a small cake, silicon rings, and a bouquet of flowers. I forgot to mention to my family members that i was even getting married... but it was a nice and very intimate evening. i dont think its worth it at all to have an expensive wedding, and theyre often very stressful to plan and execute.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:40 PM
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I would love to hear them... I usually add that pregnancy and recovery get harder the older a woman gets, but theres always someone who pipes up with "my sister's friend's boss's dog just had a baby at 40 and it was so easy for her!" And of course, having to raise them requires lots of energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:35 PM
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I know a bunch of people who've said they want 4+ children
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:26 PM
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Whatever floats your goat, dude. You do your relationship however your want. Also keep in mind that we’re married. It’s not like its the first year of dating or anything
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 09:54 PM
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memory foam… I’ll need to glue it down first, so hopefully that protects it from complete disintegration. it’ll probably be fine if it melts a lil bit because the pieces might look a bit more like gravel
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 09:37 PM
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It’s not that smart to wait until your prospective wife is in her 30s to marry her and start TTC if you want more than a couple, well spaced out children. Think about it. Let’s say she’s 33 when you two marry Most people want to be married for a while before TTC, so lets say she’s 34 by then. Maybe it takes 6 months to conceive. Now she’s 34.5 40 weeks for a full-term pregnancy, so she’s birthing her first at 35 Doctors recommend you space out pregnancies at least a year, though it can take up t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 09:30 PM
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Maaan, my daughter was watching Lilo and Stitch today and I was perving on David 😩 They drew him fine af
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 09:06 PM
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I ordered a bunch of shredded foam, since gravel was going to be too heavy, and I’m gonna try to spray paint it to look like gravel. Hopefully it looks okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 09:03 PM
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Since the boards themselves are so heavy, I think I’m gonna go with shredded memory foam that I’m gonna spray paint to look like gravel, and hope that saves on some weight. Cuz I was thinking, how the hell am I gonna lift these panels overhead, hold them in place, and then put the nails in the rafters if they’re 150lbs? There’s no way. Hopefully Hubby’s buddy comes to fix the leaky roof, and then I can get the lower class boards
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 09:01 PM
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It’s not like he sits with my phone and reads all my texts messages… Though I get nosey occasionally and see what he’s talking about his mum and buddies (bad wife-ing, I know)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 08:58 PM
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I just googled the difference, and apparently the ones that are part of the sloped ceiling are rafters, and the ones going cross-ways are joists
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 08:27 PM
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Thanks 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 08:24 PM
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That’s what I was thinking. I just wasn’t sure if that was too flexible
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 08:10 PM
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Right. Like GET HER HELP! And at least get a medical evaluation before throwing around accusations like that…Also, if my husband was insistent on getting our daughter medical attention for the pain she’s experiencing, I would be less suspicious that he had done something to cause it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 07:48 PM
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Couldn’t see what clearly? The succulents will be taller than the surrounding medium I forgot that I saw an ad for pumice recently; I meant to look into whether I can get a bunch of small, tan-colored pumice stones, but thank you for the reminder!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 07:32 PM
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Okay, creative peeps of PPD (and men who are familiar with… Wood?), I need your help… I’m doing my ceiling like an upside-down succulent garden, will faux succulents nestled into a layer of gravel glued down onto some kind of board, which will I will attach in 94”x45” sections between the rafters. The problem I’m anticipating is that a) Gravel is heavy, and the sections are pretty large. I’m worried the boards will sag in the middle if they’re not made out of a stiff material or reinforced someh…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 07:26 PM
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What’s this penguin nonsense all about?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 07:18 PM
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I was horrified the few times people assumed I had gotten filler in my lips. Like they don’t look fake to me ? But I guess it’s because I’m pale and people assume pale skin goes with thin lips
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 07:16 PM
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Well la di da, your majesty
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 07:14 PM
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Her boyfriend is a drug dealer
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 07:12 PM
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When I was making a ton of money, I used to love to go to hole-in-the-wall restaurants and leave huge tips. The staff were always so appreciative. Share the love, make someone’s day, help out a small business.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 07:11 PM
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Laugh cuz that’s funny af. I’d be glad he protected our kid, even if he didn’t go about it in the best way.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 07:08 PM
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She’s tryna fuuuuck
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 07:06 PM
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Probably cocaine, among others. His eyes are always wild, shifting all over the place, and he can’t sit still ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 07:02 PM
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Would he? Possibly. But that’s something he would probably tackle with his therapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 07:01 PM
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Why? It’s nice to be able to pick up his phone and use it if I can’t find or easily access my own, or if he’s occupied and I need something off of it. If he should suddenly pass away, I can contact the appropriate people from his contacts, and access his accounts. I also prefer to just look at his location and/or arrival time instead bothering him to ask where he is or when he’ll be home, especially if he’s driving. And if somebody stole any of his devices or his car, we’d be able to track them.…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 07:00 PM
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I know well enough not to talk to miserable old biddies about my marriage from my experiences. There’s no need for discussion of it anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 06:54 PM
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Hubby and I have each others' passwords and locations on, for safety and convenience. i trust him 100%, and dont feel the need to check up on him to make sure hes not cheating, but i feel so much better having that option than if he didnt want to give me it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:58 PM
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Shit, if he wants to pay for that...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:52 PM
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I've fucked a ton of people, but if the man I married ever described me as "ran though," as if I were a tunnel or a sprinkler, I'd either rope or rope him, if yk what i'm saying
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/25 11:39 PM
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You got something say that i can actually respond to?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:25 PM
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One thing ive learned while being partnered with my husband for the last decade is that i gotta give him space to have his feelings, the way he gives me space for mine, and that theyrenot always about me or a result of my actions. *I* know for a fact that our daughter is his, and that i havent cheated, but if he was having anxiety about it, even if there's no legitimate cause for it, thats still the feeling he would be having. I would ask him where its coming from (if ive done anything to worry …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 10:28 PM
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or you could just... pick a man who doesn't trample on you, whether older or your age
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:20 PM
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You're misconstruing it. It shouldn't be a surprise to anyone who frequents the pillsphere that men care about (and often place high priority on) the physical attractiveness of their female long-term partners, or that older-looking women are perceived to be less conventionally attractive than youthful-looking women. Logically, you can conclude that women's SMV declines as they start to visibly age. It's not about "offering" their youth and beauty to the men; it's about securing the best partner …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:19 PM
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Im confused. What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:10 PM
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supposedly, but some considerations: 1) Large age gap couples are rare, so it's hard to collect sufficient data on them in order to accurately compare to age peer marriages 2) Again, different factors used to predict divorce intermingle and affect one another. 3) Divorce/life-long marriage is kind of a binary, so in order to get accurate stats about divorce rates in a given time period, you need to follow couples from the time they get married up until they either divorce, or at least one of the…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:04 PM
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what I've shared is that it took a long time for my parents to come around to my husband because they unfairly judged him, and that older women shit all over my relationship without bothering to actually investigate the quality/health/happiness of it. I'm not quite sure why people are so insistent that I listen to those who telling me to upend my life and family when they don't even listen to me. I never said I'm isolated from my extended family.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 08:44 PM
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Face fat keeps you looking young though
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 08:39 PM
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Divorce rates are more complicated than just a single factor. For example, one contributing cause of divorce is financial stress. Young couples who marry early are likely to just be starting out in their careers and not making very much money, while also trying to establish a home and family with one another. Make one partner older and high earning, and the likelihood of divorce is going to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 08:34 PM
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There's this weird phenomenon where, if I say "I think women should capitalize on their youth and beauty, find the best man they can, and settle down young. Maybe with someone a little older and financially well-established. That way they're more likely to get a high value partner with whom they're happy, they have more flexibility with planning their family, and by the time their looks start to fade, the couple will have built love, a family, and a life together, so the husband will be less lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 08:26 PM
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Make as much money as possible
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 08:11 PM
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Why are you assuming that we "exist as an island?"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 08:10 PM
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It's not necessarily that they prefer naive or inexperienced partners; it's more like they value other traits over experiences, such as youth/attractiveness, fertility, lack of jadedness from bad experiences, a sense of wonder or greater enjoyment of new experiences that the older partner can give them... Sure, there are older men who do prefer naivety and inexperience for sinister reasons (the intent to abuse/mistreat without the younger partner knowing better, or a maddonna whore complex if th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 08:08 PM
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Uhhh... I'll explain it to you, and that might help. When a study reports an average, that means there were values in the data set that were higher than the average, and values that were lower. That means there are couples in the given population (In this case, the populations of the US) who have larger and smaller age gaps. It's inaccurate to say "In the US, husbands and wives are 2.2 years apart." Typically, in normal distributions, ~68.2% of the data falls within one standard deviation of the…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 07:50 PM
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I went on that show. Myron is on drugs, Walter is a rude slob, they've taken a hard right turn into Nazi-level antisemitism/nationalism territory, and they invite on mostly young, scantily clad women with air for thoughts who do nothing but take pictures to post on their social media, who they interrupt constantly. Their comments sections are full of incels insulting the women and verbally stroking the hosts d***s.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 03:42 PM
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While most women are attracted to the highest value men in their own peer groups, and tend to interact with them more often than they do with high value older men by virtue of social proximity, older men have had more time to increase their value than younger men, provided they take good care of their health. For example, young men are less likely to be financially stable or successful (have their own home, be able to pay for nice things/fancy dates/fun trips, provide for a family, etc.), genera…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 03:34 PM
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What stats are you referring to? Divorce stats? Divorce stats are high all around, and a person risk of divorce is influenced by a great many, complicated factors. For example, divorce is correlated with age and income level, where younger and less wealthy couples are more likely to divorce. But consider, usually people who marry young didn't spend very much time in the dating or engagement phase (y'know, taking time to vet someone for compatibility properly is important. It's risky to be 18, kn…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 03:03 PM
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I scoff at you going "well I don't know your situation, but you can have the older women in your life 'assess' it" As if a) I'm not capable of doing it myself, or b) you're implying that you think i'm struggling and need help from older women--who, by the way, are incredibly biased towards AGRs and will absolutely do everything in their power to convince younger women to leave their older husbands, even if they have kids together, in order to "find themselves," whether or not you're perfectly ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:35 PM
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The wall is only scary for women who haven't found their life partner yet, because it refers to women's reduced RMV/SMV in regards to their ability to *attract* high quality partners. In other words, it's when women exit their peak attractiveness years. If you find a partner during those peak attractiveness years, it's more likely that you'll get a higher quality one, and that you'll be more satisfied with him. You have time to develop love, deep bonds, build your life together, make a family...…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:20 PM
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I am closing in on 29 now. I am still pretty fit (though not as fit as I was when I was a D1 collegiate athlete, naturally) and I would say I have a higher than average libido still (it's lessened a bit after having our daughter because she's exhausting, but I still very much desire my husband... It's not like I roll my eyes and say "let's get this over with," once a month and call him a pig any time he wants to jerk off like he was previously experiencing, ahem.) Objectively, his ex wife is ove…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:13 PM
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I mean, I love my husband to death and I'm very proud to be with such a good man. But the age gap just... is. It's neutral, not a flex. I'm also closing in on 29 now (still pretty fit tho)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 12:51 PM
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So you think men should have a right to force women to either carry to term or abort? Or do you think men who know they legally have no right to say what happens in someone else's body and still fail to use contraception properly don't have to financially provide for their kids because.... because why?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 12:54 AM
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"Assess my situation...?"You mean being happy, secure, and married with kids with an older man ? I think i can assess it just fine. The suspicion rises but the likelihood that people will actually bother to evaluate whether there's abuse at foot instead of automatically assuming thats the case does not.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 12:38 AM
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Im in a 25 year age gapped relationship and people often give us dirty looks in public or will make assumptions (like that hes my parent and then make a shocked/disgusted facial expression when corrected, or make jokes about how im just with him for the money or "cradle robbing" and then act confused when i dont find it funny), or will pull me to the side and ask if im being abused (without any reasonable cause for concern.) When we first starting dating, my husband lost some friends. it probabl…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 12:31 AM
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yes. people are adults at 18. 13-17yos = teenaged children 18 -19 = teenaged adults 20+ = adults
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 12:05 AM
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Disappointing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 12:03 AM
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I just dont see why an unhealthy attachment style is a pre req for preffering older men. like, i have a very secure attachment style. i still like middle aged men people continue to develop throughout the entirety of their lifespan. People develop at different rates, and more in some areas than others. There are young people who are good at assessing thing, and there are men dating younger people who may be bad at assessing things, but instead of taking advantage, they guide them in a way that l…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 11:58 PM
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how much do you weigh? those lifts are crazy numbers, esp if youre not a huge man, not on the juice, or eating in a way that will weaken you in order to stay that lean. And if you are huge, that makes running fast for a whole mile more challenging
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 11:52 PM
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based wife
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 11:50 PM
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And was there?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 11:48 PM
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Id be pissed and tell him that was unkind
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 11:47 PM
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I was 19, and an adult. Again, a woman, not a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 11:35 PM
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I have never heard an older man say he likes younger women specifically because of a lack of life experience in and of itself. (there are the men with madonna whore complexes, but that applies to creepy men who prefer age peer relationships as well.) What i have heard is that some men who prefer younger women appreciate giving them new and enjoyable experiences, especially ones that they or their age peers couldnt afford on their own, and that they enjoy their sense of wonder/their rreaction to …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 11:34 PM
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If youre not willing to engage in an intellectual discussion about the nature of human relationship (on PPD, of all places) i wont waste my time trying to engage with you. you are free to have whatever kind of relationship you please; you don't need to justify it to me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 11:26 PM
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I think that our parents model relationships for us in terms of how they interact with one another, and how they interact with us may *affect* our attachment style... I dont think getting an insecure or avoidant attachment style would make an individual prefer older men, however. I dont see the connection there. Also not all younger partners see their older partners as developmentally above them. Like there are some things that my husband is better at and was able to teach me about, but im also …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 11:17 PM
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It is very frustrating to try to communicate with you. The tone im getting is very snarky
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 11:09 PM
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At some point, we need to consider adults mature enough to know who they want to be in relationships with. At some point, maturity does not outweigh youth, beauty, fertility, un-jadedness, etc. in terms of male attraction, whereas women who prefer AGRs may find that ex maturity, experience, mentorship, financial success/stability, self-assuredness, etc. may outweigh youth and fertility in men (though men tend to lose their fertility at much slower rates, provided they take good care of themselve…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 11:07 PM
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Girls are children, full stop
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 11:01 PM
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yes. also, no one ever expects to be captured and rape, and even if they do, some would still find serving to be worth it. I personally worry more about being parallyzed or losing limbs if i ever get deployed u/Steakman1
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 11:01 PM
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Many do love me, including my husband. That's not a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 10:58 PM
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It affects everyone's promotion, NCO Or junior, enlisted or officer.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 10:57 PM
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it is. The study that the myth comes from only studied people *up to* age 25 and only concluded"the frontal lobe *continues* to develop into the mid-20s." The reality is that the human brain continues to change and develop throughout the entirety of the human lifespan; it is never "finished."
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 10:55 PM
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No, hun. "girls" are female children. I was (and am) a female adult, aka, a woman. You are trying to make it sound like he was having relations with a child because you find age gaps creepy, but that's not the truth of the matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 10:52 PM
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I think its pretty hard to separate the perception them wanting validation from a wise, experienced partner from the inherent value that being wise and experienced has. I mean, why would any woman prefer a naive or inexperienced partner to a wise and experienced one? Same thing with mentorship- its inherently valuable no matter if the relationship is age gapped or age peer. And perhaps its not so much that they want to feel wise/mature 'for their age,' but rather that they just value someone tak…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 10:46 PM
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It would be certainly possible for women who train regularly to *pass* basic training and fitness tests; we just would hardly ever get good or perfect scores. for instance, in my branch, a perfect score for me on the PFT presently looks like 11 pull ups, a 3:50 plank, and a 20:59 3-mile run. I can do that . For men, passing looks like 5-8 pull ups, 1:10-1:36 plank, and a 26:20-28:00 3-mile run (to get a minimum score of 150 without failing any event.) I can also do that, except now emy best effo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 10:25 PM
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That's a myth hun
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 09:30 PM
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Please enjoy this downvote
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 09:27 PM
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Apparently they are making the physical standards for men and women in the military "in combat positions" the same, which I am generally supportive of. (Y'know, war doesn't gaf what gender you are. You're either fit enough to fight well or you're not. You're either an asset to your comrades in arms or a hindrance, when it comes to group physical limitations.) I would like to find out what "in combat positions" means exactly. Grunts only? Service members who are deployed? Those specifically on th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 09:24 PM
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I was an adult woman. Men vary in their opinions of adults under 20.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 09:16 PM
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Appearance-wise, I see attractive men on a daily basis, often times multiple attractive men. When I was single, I had sex with a lot of men that weren't sexually attractive imo, but just happened to be available at the right place and time when I was horny. The men I have been genuinely attracted to were a) good looking, b) approached me in a way I liked, c) had good vibes/personalities, and d) had things going for them (goals, aspirations, financially successful, etc.)... And those men are much…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 08:46 PM
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No women are dating any men they truly think are broke losers. Any time a woman dates a man, it's because she finds some value in him... Whether it's financial success, social status, looks, sex, personality.. I see no reason to assume NothingOrAllLife's partner only desires a relationship with him because she's impressed with $33 an hour.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 08:37 PM
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What kind of "life experience" does a woman need to have to know whether or not she wants to date you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 08:33 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 08:31 PM
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Do you know what an 'average' is?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 08:30 PM
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Or, perhaps, she finds him attractive physically and/or as a person ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 08:29 PM
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Sugar dating is different from 'regular' prostitution. Prostitutes find a client, meet them in the location where the sex will happen, get paid a fixed, agreed-upon amount, have sex, and then part ways. They don't interact with clientele outside of the sex. They generally don't desire sex or relationships with their clients. Sugar dating is much more similar to 'regular' dating. 'Sugar babies' (SBs) and 'sugar daddies' (SDs) meet one another, and agree upon some sort of ongoing provision-- it ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 08:28 PM
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What kind of 'validation' do you think women who date older men get from their partners, and how is that different from the validation they would get from age peer partners? Like, I had an absent biodad and an abusive stepdad, but by the time I started dating, I was perfectly sure that *I* wasn't the problem there. Yeah, I have some other issues relating to that, but I don't feel that my attraction to older men is at all connected to it, nor do I think I would prefer my age peers even if I had h…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 08:05 PM
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I always ask, because I don't feel like there's any consensus. One not having a good relationship with their father? (or no relationship at all?) How much conflict exactly can you experience with him before it's "daddy issues?" Why do we assume that it's "issues" with one's father, and not with their mother, or both parents? Why do we assume that "issues" with one's father is the direct cause (or at least a significant contributor) of someone's preference for older men? I don't think that any of…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 08:00 PM
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I can say from experience that people who have shit to talk about AGRs never actually bother to assess the quality/health of the relationship itself or whether the participants are happy and treating each other well. And if a young woman speaks up about how she's happy in her AGR, people will not only not believe her, but they will also attempt to gaslight her into seeing herself as an abuse victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 07:02 PM
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Can confirm w/re: to the pedophile accusations... My husband's ex wife gained a lot of weight, stopped wanting sex and forbid him from masturbating (among other egregious marital sins), but after their separation and him finding a fit, high libido 19 yo (me) to date, she went around telling everyone he was "fucking a child."
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 06:56 PM
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People ABSOLUTELY judge AGRs in real life
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 06:42 PM
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Define daddy issues
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 06:41 PM
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Women's fertility begins declining in their mid twenties. if someone wants multiple kids that are reasonably spaced apart (doctors recommend a minimum of one year between pregnancies for women's health and for better breastfeeding outcomes, however, the body can take up to two years to recover from pregnancy, labor, and delivery), waiting til your 30s as a woman, or selecting a woman in her 30s as a man, is a bad idea. Not to mention that recovering from pregnancy/llabor/delivery and chasing aft…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 06:39 PM
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Hi. I met the man who would become my husband shortly after my 19th birthday. He was 44 at the time... We have happily been together for 10 years, and married for four, and we have a beautiful daughter together. life is good. I knew I preferred older men by the time I turned 18. They just seem superior in every way to younger men/my age peers. While younger women with the same preference as me are relatively rare, we do exist. The vast majority of women 18 and older are perfectly capable of know…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 06:25 PM
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duh
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 06:09 PM
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Thats gonna be the masculine parts of you, the idealized part of you, or the part of you you want to love and approve of yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 05:43 PM
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You can take your confection-ruining nuts and shove them where the sun dont shine, mister!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 05:41 PM
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Date one of those men and let them teach you how to be successful and possibly get them to invest in your startup
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 05:37 PM
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My husband's psychiatrist says that everyone in your dreams represents some part of you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 05:36 PM
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Right, but the whole "you never get old/boring to me" thing is so romantic
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 05:33 PM
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Its about power, control, and certain aspects of BDSM... also some rape survivors fetishize it as a means of healing from it ("if i want this to happen, and take pleasure from it, im more in control of the situation when it happens," for example. Others may be repressed and want to be ravished without consent so they can enjoy it freely because "its not their fault that its happening," and they dont feel sexual shame
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 05:30 PM
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BRB i need to do some.... online shopping
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 05:26 PM
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She has very slutty vibes for not finding hardly any men attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 05:25 PM
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Different take: gender roles have existed as long as people have lived in groups, but they've varied across time and culture
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 05:24 PM
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omg felt. hate that shit
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 05:21 PM
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- men
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 05:21 PM
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Men who are super into their wives are SO CUTE also when your long-time partner pretends youre not together and tries picking you up with stupid flirting tactics>>>>>>>>>>
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 05:18 PM
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Im never not sure which person i am in my dreams, but they are often from a third person POV and i am often not myself
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 05:16 PM
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cashews>almonds peanuts<<<<
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 05:15 PM
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You do know i can go back and see what you wrote, right? You know what, nvm. This is a good stopping point. im exiting this conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 03:42 PM
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Id rather have bunnies or a viscacha, but my husband is allergic and we have too many pets :(
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 03:15 PM
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Why did i assume you meant chinchillas instead of chihuahuas?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 03:10 PM
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Update: called him at work and said "Are you busy?... Well, you know how you've been finishing in me a lot lately, and you said my boobs look fuller than normal--" And i hear this man fumbling with the phone and he says, "Whoops, probably shouldnt have had you on speaker." Sorry, secretary lady
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 03:08 PM
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Its a trap. theyre gonna ban all the black pillers that apply
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 03:03 PM
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in what world is saying "not all johns are abusive and predatory" 'advocating' for them? I already agreed with you that theyre not victims, so how could i be 'advocating' for them? I'm just disagreeing with you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 03:02 PM
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Thats a hard one to relate to for me cuz im a sahm and the cleaning is my responsibility, but i think if we were sharing chores, Id try talking it out first, and then either offering him a deal (maybe he hates dishes specifically, so he takes on some other responsibility and ill continue doing them myself) or couples therapy, if we cant come to a compromise, and then maybe consider leaving because theres something deeper going on there where he doesnt feel like helping me is important
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 02:55 PM
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You could sugar date. lots of philanthropic wealthy mean out there who love to fund women's educations
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 02:47 PM
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Depends on the "need," I think, and whether we're married (with or without kids?) Or not
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 02:44 PM
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For the third year in a row, im going to tell my middle-aged husband im preganante (I've been surgically sterilized)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 02:41 PM
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idk. ive always been more of a fore and mid foot runner, but i do sometimes catch myself coming down further back in regular shoes
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 02:38 PM
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I lol'ed at minion- shared goals: optional
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 08:17 PM
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Are you still going to insist that all johns are predatory abusers for patronizing prostitutes while also acknowledging the fact that some women are voluntary sex workers and have good experiences? Instead of advocating for women to have the same level of privilege that you had, you want to support the predatory men who participate. Girl, what? I hope that sex trafficking and sexual abuse will end in the future, but I'm not obligated to "advocate" for it. Nor am I defending predatory johns by br…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 08:02 PM
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I ran mostly on grass, but the barefoot shoes help a lot with lessening wear and tear on my knees, since they make sure you don't heal strike and that you run ergonomically, and I haven't had issues with shin splints since I switched from regular shoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 07:55 PM
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“She” doesn’t sound like a woman at all. And Rosey Butterflies? Spelled wrong? Come on
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 02:12 PM
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Men are too lazy to even try to understand what SAHParenthood looks like, and then have to audacity to call it easy smh
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 02:11 PM
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When he no longer desires romantic/sexual companionship
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 02:10 PM
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A pack of baloney and one $2 loaf of hyper processed white bread
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 02:08 PM
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*Writes on a notepad* “Carrot cake…”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 02:07 PM
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The clothes don’t magically collect themselves from around the house, sort themselves into priority of washing based on your family’s needs, load themselves into and start the washer, transfer themselves into the dryer before they get stinky from sitting too long, fold/hang/iron themselves so they’re not wrinkly, and then put themselves in the appropriate person’s dressers/closets. The vacuum doesn’t pick up the items lying on the floor and put them away and run itself and then empty itself afte…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 02:06 PM
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I’m defending *some* of them, because I don’t think prostitution is inherently bad… I’ve done sex work in the past and I appreciated the ability to make money quickly and easily. I don’t want to see it demonized or for voluntary prostitutes to be unnecessarily victimized.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 01:57 PM
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I haven’t been running, but yesterday I went out for 4 miles at ~8:30 pace in my barefoot shoes... Apparently my calves remained in good condition, but my feet have gotten out of shape, because they ache SO BAD this morning! Also I got sunburned from being outside for less than an hour in 72*F weather :( I’m pasty
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 01:55 PM
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What in the bad larp??? I been saying it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 01:51 PM
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