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Apart from relgious or other odd values. I dont understand on either side re high body counts. I know women do care as well, if I man has had several hundred casual sex partners then its not exatly a throw away either. Although there is a doble standard overall it seems men feel self entitled to have had more sexual partners than women and women are expected to have had less sexual partners. Then men at the same time wonder why women are so picky/difficult to randomly hook up with? - jezz its so…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 05:16 PM
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Look the trans analogy isnt helpful. Particularly when you now are refering to simply having sex with the woman, in which case asking a random women your going to have sex with her body count is absurd but her not discolsing she is trans as you have pointed out could be dangerious for them as well as something the guy should be made aware of. Transmen and transwomen are called trans because they are not legitimatly women or men, they transitioned to some degree. Also the trans part I feel sex wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 05:01 PM
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I would never demand another person tell me anything they didn’t want to whether they were trans or not Look the trans analogy isnt helpful. Particularly when you now are refering to simply having sex with the woman, in which case asking a random women your going to have sex with her body count is absurd but her not discolsing she is trans as you have pointed out could be dangerious for them as well as something the guy should be made aware of. Transmen and transwomen are called trans because th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 05:01 PM
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Intersting take away I got from that is to seek people with a similar level of relationship experience in my case that would be just a 2 year relationship from 19-21. (now 31) so would be looking for someone regardless of age with a similar level of relationship experience amoung other things ofcourse.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 06:19 AM
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For better or for worse it has become essential at least in online dating and hook ups. Folks wanna get to know yah on another platform, check your real. Even in person folks just sharing a number isnt the same as "here is my instagram" which shows a word of topics about you they can bring up, talk to you about, sure its the side you want to show the world but its something people can identify with and help get to know you. Its really really hard for me to keep in touch with someone who doesnt d…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 12:00 PM
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Apart from all the modern reasons being given by both men and women. Historically men in MOST cultures men put a high price on a woman with a zero history of previous sexual interaction. In some other animals its also just common to mate with those who havent mated to often but enough to prove themselves. Is there a bilogical reason men would seek women with a lower hook up/sexual partner count, probbly, less of that means prob more risk adverse, so safer for brining up kids. Women bilogically n…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 10:08 AM
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t other people want in relationships is incredibly dumb It made sense to me mate overall men who you typed about its their issue/problem not hers. She is after a monogamous relationship, marriage would be nice but its not essential for her. It wouldnt disquilify men who dont want to get married she is just saying thats their issue not hers. So basically she would be open to them but to her might make not to much sense if it went on for a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 12:07 PM
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Simply they are NOT!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 03:39 PM
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But women do "hook up," from what I hear. As in, they meet a guy in Deffinatly sounds like something you couldnt do over a dating app? not as comfortable or well is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 01:11 PM
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can’t deny me for my sex orientation or whatever. If there are baddies, I’m going Yeh while I understand gay folks wanting their clubs kept pretty much to them I dont think they would be happy with, guys or girls or bouncers telling them to get out of 'regular' (i dont think they are hetro) clubs because of their orientation. So gay guys go to 'regular clubs' with friends for fun and to meet people. While a gay club is more specific and intended for a certain crowd, yah cant just say no hetro pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 04:10 AM
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scuous dudes who want to and will sleep with any and everybody but may have only have had 2-3 partners in his lifetime. Is he any less promiscuous than a man who has had 25+ partners even though they may have the same sex aspersions abs drive but different number of partners? That would be if they were intended relationships or attempts at it in someway wouldnt it? Maybe you would still have a different issue with this but what if they were just mostly hook ups? and say she did have in that a co…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 03:27 AM
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Option 2 I cant work anyway but can stay home and look after the kids and I enjoy being godfather to 4 wonderful children already would love to spend time with my own kids. Wont be working anyways and wouldnt want to if I had this opportunity. And 80K divided by 5 people well if thats USD, then that would be roughly what I make for myself right now so 16K+ per person is plenty!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 04:43 PM
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Come on quit trolling you know perfectly well it’s not intended for women to find each other or hetro guys it’s for bi, homo, bi curious, hetro exploring guys to find each other. Google the different apps and their intended market. Enough trolling it’s getting annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 04:05 AM
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This is all totally unrelated to my actual reply. Tinder is not remotely like grinder and tinder is a dating app for everyone. You pointed out such that style of app not being safe which is the overall theme of my original response.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 03:59 AM
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Yes I know that which is why it’s not comparable . The grid format also vs matching. Hypothetically you could have no distance and no pic sending but have it in a grid so anyone can talk to anyone else no matching. I think over the matching is a good thing would be the best of both words have the grinder set up but the grid only gets populated with matches not everyone. Cause it’s impossible to keep track of matches on tinder. They just sit at the top in a long line can’t favourite any to keep t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 03:53 AM
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No the functionality & basic aim is extremely different. It’s not like I and many havent looked for a hetro version. Tinder is the closest to it but it’s definitely nothing like it. Imagine girls in your area, no matching u see the distance, you can send photos through the chat tinder doesn’t. Snap chat is closer to grinder at least random girls send pics and videos there. So unfortunately not tinder doesn’t suffice it works well for a handful of guys. But unless you can get as many bjs a day as…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 03:38 AM
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Grinder isn’t always for sex u can’t meet up randomly and end up just talking, watching Netflix or playing video games iv had plenty of these experiences as well. One time I went specifically to a guys house to talk to him I didn’t know he was clearly coming down of a high from crystal and I calmed talked him through it and listened to him for 7hrs no sex wasn’t something I was going to do but I was prepared to go randomly to help him. Meet up 3 other times to talk to him and it was always 6-7hr…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 10:06 PM
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I would say perception of safey for women is true. As others are pointing out one is more likely to get harmed by those they know at least to a more serious extend. However having said that it is natural for women instinctivly to be more risk averse. This is why they have kids! they are risk averse for many reasons one of which is because they are intended to have kids bilogically and protecting them requires a far more risk adverse nature. ​ Very little does this have to do with anything 'new' …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 07:09 PM
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No Ace folks dont always have sex, people with certain disablities, a whole lot of areas. Is sex really about love? for some. is love really about sex? for some. I guess if your asking from a biological perspective and lets desponse with love in the more lofty sense but pair bonding and mating then ok yeh. that that base level of how we are evolved it is, but on less base levels no love isnt going to be about sex. There are different kinds of love to remember so its broad from platonic, romantic…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 02:10 PM
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Honestly I have no idea how it works in practice its laugable to think about I mean ok we get past the kissing to the actul fucking, "is it ok I thrust foward now"? "is it ok I move back" haha can you imagine if folks actually followed this kinds of absurd laws.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 11:35 AM
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Both valid points grinding each others gears a bit. I think the fact is WHEN/IF the relationship ends there is the POSSIBLITY/ABILITY of your then former GF using any of these occasions as some form of sexual assult. So once your in a relationship thank god you are hopefully its one where you know the person well enough are not wearing rose colored glassed and do have a solid idea they wouldnt rush off and do that kinda thing out of revenge if you did break up in an unplesent manner. But your or…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 11:28 AM
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Yeh both parties should be asking when nessicary or unsure 'is this ok' 'are you alright' 'does that feel good' etc But unfortunatly its a bit more complex than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 11:24 AM
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ink that just texting / talking / video calling about possible scenarios beforehand helps in managing those grey areas by the time they meet. While this doesnt help the whole issue of consent being able to be withdrawn. It would be good if men and women were able to do this. Guys and guys do this all the time. They will go into explicit detail about that they want, likes, dislikes, boundries, either just for a hook up or as part of dating over an app. ​ I wish women were the same at least on app…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 11:22 AM
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Yeh its getting like that in Australia, having to not only consent overtly to sex, but consent overtly to every single step, Can I kiss you? can I put my hand on your head, can I touch your leg? on and on your meant to get overt consent at every stage. Its quite bizzar. Now most folks ignore the law but that just means they get in trouble or they choose not to have sex and Bi guys I know in masses are just having sex with guys now more often even if they would rather women or want to explore mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 09:31 AM
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quickconsent That is the law in most of Australia do folks actually follow it? Sometimes, but folks cant escape their instincts and whats natural regardless of what the law says in this regard. " the criminal law explicitly states a person does not consent to sex if they do not “say or do anything to communicate consent”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 09:17 AM
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First thing that came to mind is in most Australian States it is the law that "the criminal law explicitly states a person does not consent to sex if they do not “say or do anything to communicate consent”. Secondly as someone partile to both guys and girls it is infurating trying to be direct with girls when its the LAW, be it over an app or in person or both. Where guys you just say what you want, what your up for, what your boundries are and they let you know, then you meet up. Or if its a lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 08:53 AM
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to look into chatfishing just brefily looked it up doesnt exactly sound like a situation where I can lay out all the ground rules, my boundries, show my cock and have the girl not leave me alone like I can with a guy but I will look more into it. No not my fetish
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 02:26 PM
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Yes exactly Bi guys complain its Bi Phobic (either an irrational fear or the hate kinda phobic) when they say they are Bi and the woman rejects them in some form or another. Its not its her insticts, sure there isnt anything that makes being Bi more risky per say than a hetro guy who could easily cheat and sleep around to, but she doesnt know that, she prob doesnt know much about Bi guys at all so its just throwing up something unknown to be cautious of when a women is looking for a mate her ins…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 12:33 AM
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Have her comments been removed 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 06:49 AM
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Oh lord really varies if it’s long term dating it’s a natural reaction for girls to be put off by it which unlike reddit by groups I get it’s not bi phobia it’s just women seek stability and no need to run a risk or rush out and educate themselves when they can get what they feel is safer elsewhere. If it’s hook ups they don’t mind. If it’s bi women they don’t mind. Guys can be similar bit more understanding but still prefer if you say you are bi but mostly like guys. Either just assume unless y…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 06:56 AM
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e also confirmed to me that with the way women are now they are thankful to be gay (and live in a very liberal area). I don't know man, if you have it on easy mode with one gender why even bother with the other? The same could be Yeh like I said when I was more insecure and also things were a little easier like 10 years ago (im 31 now) then I kinda tried to get with women more and equal out the numbers. But now im more comforable with my sexuality and women while they dont like to admit it have …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 01:51 AM
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I should have said comparitivly to guys and MOST women. For me as I dont host and dont drive, I can get a guy to drive out to me meet me in the park give me a blow job maybe fuck him, if we click them I am conforable driving with him to his place next time. Finding a girl who will do EVERYTHING on my terms which includes NO PUSSY I want ass and mouth. Just like guys I dont want their cock, wear a jockstrap and dont touch the dam thing. I have not so unusual tastes when it comes to guys, but beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 02:21 PM
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Thats true personally I always want apps which are generically for meeting people. One reason I do like grinder is you can meet guys and not have sex or have sex and quickly not do that again but meet up become mates, play video games, board games, go out. You have to get pretty good at using the app to do this but once yah do yah can. I have always wanted just a generic app where I could meet folks to be friends with, men and women not related to sex but alash that will never be made or work, e…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 11:38 AM
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apps care if anyone meets each other, they only care about making money You are right the apps focous are about screen time and minimising meeting people at all costs! nailed it mate! Thats what they are intended to do, via what ever means, Tinder does it one way, Bumble another but similar, Grinder pretty different but still similar, its not about deep relationships or connections its about screen time on the app getting people hooked to swiping, chatting seeing photos of folks etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 11:30 AM
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men on here, most only want sex, so they would all probably flock towards an app like that, but I assure you, they Oh yes ofcourse like I know there are plenty of women on Tinder who use it for the purpose of hooking up. thb Grinder is the same there are a lot of guys who are well ugly and complain they never get messages, or get ignored all the time and then when they get a message here and there they dont understand why someone doesnt reply to say they arent interested and on and on. Because t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 11:26 AM
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n't matter what you say to them they are too deep in the cult to be broken out of it. Think of them as a mixture of that and conspiracy nuts who have been brainwashed by conservative media. Anything you say to them no matter how truthful or logical will not get past the cult brainwashing just point out how wrong they are for the benefit of others I only realised this after I typed that and then checked that profile, never come accross them before in my life. Cult exactly, just like I call the LG…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 06:16 AM
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femcels I am so out of touch with this jargon lol I vagley remebered the incel term so had to google femcels. LOL jezz. ​ There are pleny of guys who do mange to get girls and plenty of girls who are not all like this on dating apps and what not, but it does seem a minority of men who manage to navigate it well and a minority of women who are just more open with their lanuage instantly about what they want and are willing to hook up or just go on a friendly date easily. Many hetro women seem to …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 04:58 AM
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Just looked at their profile promoting her own thing, best pay no attention to her, shouldnt be allowed on Reddit just using the platform to sture up trouble and get folks to go to her own platform. I thought at first it was a genuine comment but no its not so no point really replying to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 04:38 AM
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So you accept men can be hatful assholes and that women cant? I was trying to be polite and mention the fact both occur and both are issues and its not helpful to have this battle of the sexes going on one feeds into the other, both amplifying the other. And you have just demonstrated this, how do you think men will react to reading this? Should men just ignore women when they hear "misogyny" and say "get a grip girl and grow up!" ? are we going to try and be understanding of each other or incre…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 04:31 AM
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I feel where you are coming from mate, I get it, the app brings out the worst in women in particular, and then has the result in causing guys to feel the way you do which isnt great either. There needs to be an app where any women and any guy can message each other, no matching required, nude photos permitted to be sent via the app and it be totally acceptable. Its not like there arent women out there who dont want this. ​ They find my snap chat and send me nudes and videos and no not ones who w…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 03:28 AM
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are even more demented than that, they consider like 90% of the matches they get on things like tinder as completely worthless, even though they matched with them... very unnerving mentality. women have reached levels of entitlement never before seen in humanity. I do understand partly the position SOME women are genuinly in, these dating apps do cause who ever is attractive to be so overloaded with choice and have far more risks of things like stalkers, people thinking you are shallow, on and o…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 03:00 AM
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Well as someone who is interested in both men and women I can say my sexual interactions with women have declined over recent years not out of preference but there have been some social shifts which make it more difficult, more risky and it has always been more difficult comparitivly. So some points were mentioned about men which I fully agree with there is the masoginey aspect out there. But its hard as a guy not to see and feel the amount of misandry (contempt for men) expressed by women more …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 02:23 AM
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