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4	Married for 10 years and confronted four times in the last two months when I found my wife cheating. I don't know. Truly, there is nothing to save, all that stops you is the fear of the unknown or to what is out there Also the ask or demand to stop the sex by justificating it with not pleasant or hurtful for her was pure crap and you know it, she simply stop liking doing it with you and if she had no problem already started with a physical affair, this isn't her first rodeo (she most likely have been having her share over the years from somewhere else) I advice for you to cut your losses now before you are o…	/r/Divorce_Men	18/07/26 02:58 PM
2	Exw using kids to manipulate in a new relationship Hey AC496, I would advice to not stop talking with them and reinforce that you love them and the kinda love you have for your GF is different than the ones for them. Tell them that they 3 (them and your gf) are in your heart and always will be reassure them that you always be there for them, and when they play again the card of mommy just start letting them know in more appropriate words that mommy choose and have OMB and she is not your problem to solve (again in word a that are appropriate for…	/r/Divorce_Men	15/09/25 03:46 AM
5	Asking your husband to do as much chores as you when you are a SAHM is abuse Yep, defenitly life was better after she took her thing and got out of the house, ro go stay with her AP now husband. Actually i did 2 things that i don't regret but that cemented her hate for me deeper I told her once that she wasn't a mother, that she just was like a nanny for our daughter. I told her husband like 3 or 4 years after the separation, this: THANKS FOR PICKING UP.MY TRASH, I COULD NOT BE MORE GRATEFULL TO YOU. Like i said this cost me great in the after years but it was worth it	/r/Divorce_Men	12/03/25 05:25 PM
6	Asking your husband to do as much chores as you when you are a SAHM is abuse Definetly OP that was an abuse But lets not play dumb, we all know that when they complain or want to justify their disatisfaction or lack of care, and most of they are caught and want to justify and blame shift their doings, they Will always find things to blame you for. In my case my Ex wasn't present on the house from Thrusday night many times until Sunday, yes she was in the mornings and midday but as soon it gets 7 pm she was out until 3 o 4 am, even having a daughter of 2 at the time. And …	/r/Divorce_Men	11/03/25 11:45 PM
0	It's so easy to sleep with divorce women. This are the consecuences of selfworth that is overly valorared. When they feel they can get something better that what they had, instead to put that strength and mind thought in to actions to care and work on the current relationship they have.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/02/25 07:12 AM
1	I am really sad for the men that do family activities with the SBTXW Im confident that it will (everything will be good with her), given how she has gone thru this with you and is seeing how her sisters regret what they did and how you cut them out of your life	/r/Divorce_Men	15/02/25 01:25 AM
1	I am really sad for the men that do family activities with the SBTXW Nice, hope things keep going good with her and not let herself be influenced by the other 2 plus mom.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/02/25 01:18 AM
2	I am really sad for the men that do family activities with the SBTXW And do not remember that she convince the two older to support her and basically dump you. Also how the little one doin? She at least respects you or she has too gone to the dark side?	/r/Divorce_Men	14/02/25 05:44 AM
1	You might not be as appreciated as you think you are by your kids Yes it is sad, but the only thing we can do uis sit down and let them come to senses if ever, and if they choose to keep the act and hate, well we have certanly the right to put some space in between. Because we are humans and out feelings count too. And certanly it is never well appreciated the feeling of just been a comvenient tool for them instead of a dad or even a human.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/02/25 10:25 PM
6	You might not be as appreciated as you think you are by your kids Yes, they don't care what You did for them or sacrifice for them where they younger when the mother just treat her like she was not her child and just take it like she was just the nanny. And for the final touch succed in allienation and that your kid just sees yours a talking ATM I get you OP the mother specially the cheating mothers have a way to convince and put in their side the daughters. I do not doubt that your daughter probably will follow your wife example, just like you mentioned last …	/r/Divorce_Men	11/02/25 09:57 PM
3	What would be your reaction if your daughters do the same thing to their future husbands? Frankly i don't know, because it is highly posible she do the same as her mother given that she decide to live with her and are very like in the character, not wanting to own it or be accountable of their doing. But i don't know, i certanly won't support her, but don't know if i stay neutral or go nuclear.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/01/25 07:28 PM
11	Ex wife message Tell her that you would be surprise if she can find the reset button, with how her moral compass is!! Just block her dude, if you where married and Divorce is done block her and ghosted her, only if you have kids, just tell her clear that coms would only be for kids issues.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/12/24 08:07 PM
2	Nobody can call me an absent father now, and I love it Look OP, your ex can suck it up all she thinks and tell as well as your parent and grand parents. The perfect way to show they aren't needed and for them to be incorrect in ther assumptions is to show you can do it perfectly fine without them. Just tell them to swallow up their thinking and assumptions, and of course give them the thanks for nothing. Good luck and keep being the good father you have been, and i totally agree with you that many people think that the father is the worst parent to …	/r/Divorce_Men	24/09/24 11:47 PM
1	After mediation in WA (no-fault state): 56% and $3,700 per month to her I see that sucks.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/09/24 11:21 PM
1	After mediation in WA (no-fault state): 56% and $3,700 per month to her What if you have a trust, like to put all your assets on a trust as well as your savings, just left out the amount to live comftarble? Do they can get access to that trust?	/r/Divorce_Men	12/09/24 02:29 AM
1	After mediation in WA (no-fault state): 56% and $3,700 per month to her and what happen when you stop earning thta much or the bonuses stop? Can you appeal to make a new calculation and adjust the payment to your new income?	/r/Divorce_Men	12/09/24 02:25 AM
2	AITA for wanting to report them to HR I see. he cover his arsh quiet well, no wonder a exmilitar,	/r/Divorce_Men	03/09/24 07:04 PM
1	AITA for wanting to report them to HR But you know the name of the AP? and if you do, have you tried to look on his socials?	/r/Divorce_Men	03/09/24 06:51 PM
1	AITA for wanting to report them to HR Look OP if you have evidence or a way to support your claim DO IT!! Also before you do anything, first investigate the CO-FRATERNIZATION policies on her wokr/company, because if they do not have any, your report might fell on deaf ears. Also might as well if in your country is a way to sue for ALIENATION OF AFFECTIONS or some the like, that would also help, because with a lawyer you can sue him and the company for this thing. Also have you ever tried to found out how the OBS (AP wife) was? And i…	/r/Divorce_Men	03/09/24 06:33 PM
3	The removed this post within 3 minutes lol: "The chores lie" I agree with this, it seems that the new politics about the equity/equality in gender where it is a must to recognize the woman and others it isn't working like it should be. They want equity/equality but many times expects that you keep doing what you are supposed to do but to add the equity/equality. And doesn't recognize what the men does. I want to be clear, not all thinks this way but many does.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/03/24 12:05 AM
3	Reconciliation is foolish, please stop I agree with you in the part of not being Friends with the Ex never, and that it is my way of thinking, but to others if that works where nice for them, also the R it is the same (for it self the R Road it is dificult and had a small % of being succesful) if the people wanna try then let them do it, at the end it was their own time the one that is Lost. So the decision to try is up there it depends of each person what they choose to do. And all opinions are as valid as others. UPDATEME	/r/Divorce_Men	15/12/23 03:26 AM
1	Fed up with BS Hi OP I would fight for the custody for her actions, you have enough evidence for fight and win the custody, for her record she just deserved to have supervised visitation. Also i Will only pay for alimony if it's necesary and what the lawyer told me based on the calculator, not more not less. UPDATEME	/r/Divorce_Men	08/12/23 05:36 AM
0	The forgive your ex crap really pisses me off Tell that person to go and F off. Maybe there Will be a point where You Will be gratefull with the AP for taking the trash out of You, but never forget and never Friends, or what she Will have You as a friend to cheat on the AP with You? What a none sense. So forgiveness might come in the future, you are not there yet and for many there are not forgiveness and NO OP no Friends nor Forget what she did, like i told maybe forgive , but It has to pass many time to do that and that goes to your daugh…	/r/Divorce_Men	08/12/23 12:37 AM
1	The man always has to be in the wrong huh? Your Ex in a way brainwashed them, but it is truth that they where adults and never had to side band and if they do they had to side the betrayed SIDE and not the other one and even act actively to manipulate You. This it is a thing to remember for life.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/12/23 07:36 PM
1	It seems the less attention you give them the more they want to be with you Hi OP Well after the disrespected they show You By siding with her mom and tried to manipulate you, well from that point foward for me there would not be any more grown daughters, and if i choose to see what comes of forgave them but not forget would not be different that talking with a stanger for a time, the old me would never show for them so see again. The have to earn or regaing the Lost trust by actively working by actions and no from words. They knew (even if the deny it) of her mom cheat…	/r/Divorce_Men	05/12/23 07:33 PM
1	Alimony length and girth When divorce is settled reporte her HR department whatbshe did with her co-worker because they can have a NO CO-FRATERNIZATION POLICY. Also seek and find the OBS (AP wife) number or social and notify her about her husband doings. This is a must.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/10/23 07:05 PM
1	New Lady Friend? Take the hand, but do not get with the hopes on other more that a talking. If it happens good if don't You didn't have the hopes in the first place	/r/Divorce_Men	21/10/23 07:03 PM
1	Are AP's really this dumb? Excelent man, keep going and do not look back, waiting to see that Update. Also, Yep trust level over the roof for them, nothing to fear, that one of them cheat the other. Hahaha. Also sarc over the roof. ;) Good luck	/r/Divorce_Men	10/10/23 04:25 PM
2	Are AP's really this dumb? Hi OP. Long time no see, sorry i missed this post. Well first of all, what you worry about him dating her, let them thats 2 cheaters out of the board. And if you also remember what the member of her extended family told you about AP and your Ex the part of " about the awkward scheisse show the party ", she was embarased to show or introduce him to her family. That tells you everything to now about their relationship. When 2 cheater try to form a relationship, most of the fail at most at the 5 ye…	/r/Divorce_Men	07/10/23 05:12 AM