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Just noticed The Red Pill Forum in the sidebar. Guessing that's where this is leading.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 04:55 PM
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Done. Does trpbot send a confirmation? After allowing it to sync it just took me back to the form page.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 04:27 PM
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There is a Mad Men quote from the first episode that get's tossed around here a bit. You have to let them know what kind of guy you are. Then they'll know what kind of girl to be.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 08:32 PM
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I guess I am looking for people more familiar with the politics and management of wikis to offer advice on how we might present a more balanced perspective on rationalwiki. You don't. rationalwiki is an SJW echo chamber by design. You're not going to change that, you're just going to get banned after wasting your time.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 05:18 PM
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I think the MRA upset over the redpill is mostly just a defense strategy. One of the most effective attacks against them is to group them in with us. How many times have they been listed right along side TRP as a hate group? MRA's have to distance themselves from TRP in order for their emotional appeals to be taken somewhat seriously.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 03:51 PM
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Your previous post wasn't downvoted because of discrimination, it was because it was full of bullshit fatlogic. If you want to make a point about discrimination, you need to separate it from delusions like: I'm sure there are some fat people who choose to be fat. And I'm sure they make up an infinitesimally small portion of the total number of fat people. Also, comparing discrimination against someone who eats too much with the word "Fattie" to that of gays and blacks with words that have histor…
/r/MensRights29/05/15 03:40 PM
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Do you honestly believe that society's view of male disposability can be changed? Men's right's groups recognized this problem; a lack of empathy toward men and the problems they face. Their solution to this problem seems to try to elicit empathy from society. As /u/redpillschool said in a post a while ago, they've simply doubled down on their faulty world view. I don't think emotional appeals will solve anything for men, but that seems to be the path the MRM is taking.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 03:19 PM
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Whether it's the hardest thing isn't the point, you have to weigh the risk against the reward. The risk is what drives most men to TRP in the first place. It's the fact that a "genuine emotionally open relationship" isn't realistic. Rollo said it best: We want to relax. We want to be open and honest. We want to have a safe haven in which struggle has no place, where we gain strength and rest instead of having it pulled from us. We want to stop being on guard all the time, and have a chance to si…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 04:49 PM
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How do slut walks help women? How does claiming psychological trauma and PTSD over offensive internet comments and Tweets help women? How does complaining about men and their numerous microaggressions help women? The majority of the writing on popular feminist websites like Jezebel and Everyday Feminism is predominantly about how bad it is that mean men hurt their feels. You actually answered those questions yourself: However since it is not politically safe to attack women... All of those thing…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/15 03:05 PM
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All the self-esteem I gained from being desired by an older, powerful man This line really stands out to me from the ones you quoted. This woman actually felt accomplished because a high SMV man decided to stick his dick in her mouth. But what this comment reveals is that for women, there is no debate. They have no qualms about sleeping with married men. Let that sink in. They're not wasting time debating morality like some of you are. As Rollo so elegantly put it, hypergamy doesn't care. This t…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/15 02:23 PM
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Like /u/JP_Whoregan said, trpbot is broken. The only way for an EC to award a point right now is to message the mods with a link and have them do it manually. A comment would have to be extraodinary for me to bother them with that. We are now at 112k subscribers and there is maybe 5? endorsed contributors I would put the number at 25 at least.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/15 06:52 PM
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They want to know that this will be safe, without it losing the excitement of it feeling unsafe. Just look at the backlash the BDSM community throws out any time someone mentions 50 shades of grey. "BDSM is supposed to be safe, done between loving partners who cuddle and talk about their feelings when they're done!" It's the prime example of what you're saying. Safe but unsafe feeling.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 06:05 PM
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And the community is better for it. Most online communities turn to shit when they reach critical mass, when the noise starts to outweigh the signal. This is amplified on reddit with the upvote system, where new users upvoting the ramblings of new users encourages new users to start rambling themselves. The only way I've ever seen for a place to survive is strict adherance to purpose, with penalties handed out without accordingly for not doing so. So far, the mods here have done exactly that.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 03:56 PM
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A lot of people seem to find their way to /r/darkenlightenment from here. I wouldn't call myself a reactionary but I've definitely shifted right since coming here. I think a lot of people are going to be taking the opposite route as you though. Since gender issues are being pushed more and more to set the stage for Hilary, men are starting to see how unreasonable the feminist narrative really is. Dems pushing gender politics means a lot more red pills being swallowed.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 12:35 AM
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long story short we end up hooking up that night. I was under the impression this meant you fucked her already too, so I don't see how that argument is relevant. If that's not the case then you are the guy paying for a date with the girl who is definitely fucking at least one other guy, without having fucked her yourself. Don't be that guy. "want what you can't have and don't want what you can have". Does that make sense? Not really, since you said one of them won't fuck.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 03:36 PM
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What makes the two of them less appealing than the party slut? Right now she probably sees you as "the guy who's going to pay for my big party night as long as I string him along for the next month."
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 03:10 PM
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A better title for this thread would be: Three beta orbiters and their girl. she is really fun and cool so I want to keep things up with her It sound like you have oneitis for a party slut. Don't worry, it happens to a lot of guys at your age. There is next to nothing you can do to ensure she doesn't fuck either of those guys, or the next one that comes along.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 02:44 PM
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I was the one who made that update a while back and am still actively reading, just not posting. I'm glad you guys are taking it from here and that it made it's way to the sidebar. What I found, and what you will too, is that every-fucking-body has an opinion about something they want changed, and people who just made up an acronym will want it listed.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 04:52 PM
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What in the fuck are you talking about? The easiest way to discourage unearned ejaculation (masturbation) en masse is by removing the foreskin. Do you have any source showing correlation between circumcision and decreased rates of masturbation? There has traditionally been a stigma around male masturbation that does not exist for the female gender. There definitely was. It's a fairly recent outcome of feminism to remove the stigma on female masturbation (it's empowering!). So why has masturbatio…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 06:00 PM
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Makes sense. Women assess their SMV based on the caliber of men attracted to them. She honestly thinks her posting that is a DHV.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 08:18 PM
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/u/redpillschool (the top mod here) runs it. There has been a lot of talk in the past about adding a forum like feature to it. If TRP goes down go there for news.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/15 10:14 PM
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It's human nature to judge others based on their actions, while judging yourself based on your intentions. By rationalizing (self-justification) any bad behavior as having come from a place of good intentions, women are immune to all forms of critisicm.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 03:48 PM
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I'm sorry guy, but this is one of the funniest things I've read in a long time. If anything, your insecurity (weakness) is what's going to drive her out to find a new dick. Either get over it or move on.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 04:00 PM
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As with most other aspects of life, contentment is the enemy. Yes, that 8-5 job bringing in 40k/year is all you need, but stopping there and saying life is good enough is the trap that society has laid for us all. Security is all that we are conditioned to strive for. Once obtained (or thought to have obtained), you are "free" to spend your money on useless shit, get fat, and have babies and teach them to do the same. Never stop learning. Learn new skills every chance you can. The internet has p…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/15 03:33 PM
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A Beta attempting to court an attractive woman is an absolutely repulsive notion to the feminine imperative, because it implies that a man is the one doing the choosing. There is another important aspect of this that you've left out. We all know that women love to project. They think others think the way they do. Part of her determination of a man's worth is evaluating the value of the women who are attracted to him. The more quality female attention he has, the higher his value (preselection.) …
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 10:32 PM
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Testosterone is a helluva drug.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 05:11 PM
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The thing is though, he did exactly what feminism wanted him to. Get older, become successful, have money, then a woman will settle for you. Guys like this are shit on so much that the prospect of becoming a woman's BB sounds great to them.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 04:21 PM
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most of reddit has a >115 IQ I needed that laugh, thank you.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 01:55 AM
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Not just feminists. There are racial implications that nobody wants to go near. Can it be shown that one race or culture is more likely to be violent based on evolutionary need? More likely to have lower intelligence? Political correctness and evo-psych are at odds with each other, so the entire field must be marginalized to further the progressive agenda.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 06:59 PM
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Are they trying to say that women don't give a shit about other people's emotions, frame of mind, thoughts, etc. or what? They most certainly do care about all of these things, since those things can have an effect on her life. /u/humansockpuppet gave a great explanation in the glossary thread in the sidebar: In Red Pill, solipsism (e.g. female solipsism) refers to the female's tendency to frame everything she experiences or witnesses in terms of herself and her own needs - personalizing it - ev…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 06:12 PM
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The stories about what she's attracted to are either: A way of maintaining a "good reputation." Saying that she's attracted to personality characteristics is her way of saying she's not a slut. It's a simple DHV. A shit test to see if you'll fall for that. A carrot to dangle in front of her orbiters to keep them on track. It's true that she wants all of those things, but they are usually pretty far down the list of qualities she really wants, behind everything that gives her tingles (depending o…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 04:34 PM
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The science that is most ingrained with RP theory is evolutionary psychology. There is an entire wikipedia page dedicated to criticism of it. I believe this is the kind of thing that rpquest is talking about. Being comfortable in an echo chamber is not something I'm interested in, so if there is legitimate criticism of a theory I subscribe to, I want to know about it. "You find that people cooperate, you say, ‘Yeah, that contributes to their genes' perpetuating.’ You find that they fight, you sa…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 04:03 PM
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This story has some similarities to Douglas Adams' Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy, in which a great computer is built to answer the "great question of life, the universe, and everything." The answer it gave was "42."
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 03:56 PM
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Great idea. Don't know if you're aware or not, but there isn't an icon showing up next to the post I just flaired as science, just a slightly grey box.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 03:41 PM
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At least the answer wasn't 42.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 02:51 PM
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That top comment though: Here, here!!!! I SO agree with this!!! I believe many women deny their own needs to keep the peace in a monogamous relationship, resulting in a lot of frustrated, dysfunctional women. I also think our libido, if we stop suppressing it, vastly outpaces the male libido, so that we actually need more than one male (if hetero) for our needs to be met optimally. Well said! She's so close to self awareness. Yes, monogamy was put in place to combat female hypergamy. Yes, af/bb …
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 06:37 PM
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RP application, perhaps: dealing with shit tests. I was thinking that this law is actually the foundation for why shit tests exist. Women are naturals at this power game shit and this is another example. Anger and emotion are strategically counterproductive. You must always stay calm and objective. But if you can make your enemies angry while staying calm yourself, you gain a decided advantage. Put your enemies off-balance: Find the chink in their vanity through which you can rattle them and you…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 04:32 PM
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I'm saying that the husband is the one that removed her accountability. He has spent 16 years telling her "I am not worthy of your loyalty" and you're surprised that she isn't loyal? This is the kind of guy who, after going through a situation like this, responds by posting about it on /r/adviceanimals. I tracked down the thread. Here is a couple of other choice quotes from him: She also fell into the lie of "Love never means having to say 'I'm sorry'" She has literally told me that if we have d…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 08:56 PM
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Definitely could have been avoided. The only reason she did it is because she knows that OP wasn't going to do anything about it. He's her lowest priority because he has shown her that he can't do better, which means he'll put up with her doing whatever the fuck she wants. Here's the telling line. Now, my wife loves the attention. She pretends that I do not dote over her all of the time OP thinks being a constant validation source is the way to a happy marriage. His thinks his constant "doting" …
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 07:44 PM
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Next time, use /r/asktrp. Everybody has different goals. The Red Pill doesn't dictate what your goals should be. When you see people telling you what to do here, you need to digest it and make sure it is in line with the goals you have. They are telling you how to achieve their goals. However, in other topics, I see members discuss carrying on your lineage and having children, and the importance of it. No shit, the desire to pass on your genetics is hardwired into every living thing in the world…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 05:41 PM
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My daughter (only child) is nearing one year old and it's a bit conflicting thinking how I want her to grow up. On one hand, I've been on the losing end of hypergamy and know how it feels, so I want her to have a respect for men and treat people fairly. On the other hand, she is my daughter, the only child I will have, and I want her to have everything she can. When other women are playing by their own rules, how can I set her up for success by confining her options? I remember a story from a wh…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 06:54 PM
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My guess is if this does go anywhere, the women will be sending extremely basic first messages. Anything more than the word ''Hi" will be rare. Equate this to the girls who think that they made the first move because they flipped their hair or smiled at a guy. Actually, I think this might have a chance. It gives women more control of the outcome (limit the people who can message you by requiring your approval) while keeping their responsibility in that outcome low (generic first message, still h…
/r/TheRedPill24/11/14 06:35 PM
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True. A DHV is only useful if you leverage it. In essence, you need to dread game your employer. If the cost of losing you is more than the cost of giving in to your demands (compensation/recognition), then your demands will be met. The goal is to be irreplaceable.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 06:41 PM
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This quote seems relevant (emphasis mine). Women, on the other hand, tend to have a greater emotional connection with the extra-dyadic partner (Spanier & Margolis, 1983), report more intimacy and self-esteem motivations for infidelity, are more likely to feel this behavior is unlike them, and are more concerned about the negative judgments of others when they are unfaithful (Brand et al., 2007). Moreover, among women, the strength and frequency of affairs are related to the degree of dissatisfac…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 06:09 PM
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The Way of Men by Jack Donovan is a great place to start. Here is a video introduction.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 02:19 AM
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If you do all the self-improvement in the world, but she perceives that she’s unhappy or your marriage is bad, you’re done. If you’re the biggest fuckup in the world, but your wife perceives that she’s happy, your marriage stays. It all comes down to the line "She doesn't love you, she loves the way you make her feel." I got married and had a baby before I found trp, and keeping my family together (and my assets) is a pretty big fucking reason why the red pill is necessary to a married man. The …
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 05:27 PM
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I think going with text submissions only will help keep it down. The low effort posts that ruin most subs as they grow aren't allowed anymore.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 02:10 PM
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I'd rather spare whiteknight mod Sir Richard Dude's gone. I don't know if it's a shadowban or if he deleted his account, but his page is gone /u/-richard-, all his comments in yesterday's thread are deleted, and he's not on the /r/todayilearned list of mods anymore.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 02:52 AM
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/r/mensrights is probably a better place to ask, since they're the ones actively debating. Do not resort to their vocabulary. Controlling it is their greatest weapon. If they use a word or phrase that comes straight out of the feminist playbook (patriarchy, rape culture) ask them to define it and debate that definition. You don't try to tell a child that the boogeyman isn't actually in their closet, you just open the door and show them. The other point goes along with that. Don't try to play the…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 02:59 PM
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My wife is diagnosed bpd. Honestly, I think borderline is way over-diagnosed. Tell a girl "no" a few times and you'll find out if she's really bpd or just a spoiled girl who hasn't heard that word enough. Whether or not she is doesn't really matter to me, a shit test is a shit test. Here's a list of bpd symptoms: Intense fear of being abandoned Cannot tolerate being alone Frequent feelings of emptiness and boredom Frequent displays of inappropriate anger Impulsiveness, such as with substance abu…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 02:48 PM
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/r/todayilearned mod /u/-richard- deleted 2 posts related to men's rights issues that were highly upvoted on that subreddit. Other subs (like trp and mr) had posts about the censorship and now he's just going around making a fool out of himself.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 06:26 PM
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Yes. Society now is set up in a way that these blue pill men are able to get some sort of power over others, be it on the internet or in governemt/educational systems. It doesn't matter how trivial that power is (moderating a subreddit), these people can't help themselves but mimic Eric Cartman saying "Respect my authoritah!"
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 04:26 PM
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The threads on /r/undelete really show how delusional this guy is. What's surprising (not really considering the subject matter) is that /r/subredditdrama has pretty much been staying away from this situation. Isn't this exactly what that sub is for?
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 03:47 PM
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I had posted an updated one a couple weeks ago. Here's a redditlog of that thread, which contains most of the questions people in this thread are having.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 03:05 PM
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Cognitive dissonance. Look at the type of women who say that. They are aware they can't get a high value man, so they redefine high value. Muscular men are attractive Muscular men aren't attracted to me, so they aren't available Muscular men aren't really attractive
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 06:13 PM
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It's not about having more vaginas around. That's just the means to the end. The goal is having fewer penises, because the vaginas that are already there are being held back by those rape devices. Didn't you know that women's ability to be productive in a job is directly correlated to the Vagina-to-Penis ratio of her company? Even moreso by the VtP ratio of the management of that company. The ideal work environment to promote equality just isn't possible when the VtP ratio is anything close to 1…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 04:33 PM
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He's dancing around the subject a bit by saying 'unplug'. Everything that you are doing, you are doing for other people. That's not a healthy way to live. As much as you might think so, pussy isn't going to solve your problems. If you can't handle rejection, then stop approaching until you get your shit together. Go hire a prostitute and find out how much pussy is worth. Go read the sidebar link about Goals, then read the top comment on that post. Here's a little exercise for you. Take a look at…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 03:55 AM
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Have you shifted your personal outlook and life's plans or goals as a result of red pill awareness? How could I not? The biggest change I'm aware of so far has been how easy it is to anticipate my wife's reactions. Best example is when I started lifting again after coming here. I was convinced that what I was reading here was right, but the first day that I went into the spare room with my weights was the day that truth really took hold. I lifted weights that old me would have laughed at, but th…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 04:42 PM
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I don't think it's officially part of the 'trp network', but /r/redpillbooks has a reading list (not comprehensive by any means, but a good starting point.) I think they are getting rid of the asktrp flair since /r/asktrp exists.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 04:01 PM
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Women are supposed to be around the kids and raise them more when they are young. It's not in the male DNA to chase around a toddler. I agree with the first half of this, but I think you're missing something in the second. It is in the male DNA to chase around/wrestle/have "gun" fights (expressions of masculine energy) with their kids. I think Athol Kay touched on this a bit. It's much more likely for the father to be the one that jumps in to these games than it is for the mother. The problem is…
/r/TheRedPill04/10/14 02:53 PM
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You're right, I probably picked it up off some pua forum. If I do take out the abbreviation, I'm wondering if there is even a reason to leave an entry for Disqualification at all.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 11:53 PM
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Added. Also, you made me think I should add an entry for DQ - Disqualification.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 07:55 PM
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Here Rollo is defining it as Sexual Marketplace.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 07:37 PM
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Added CH. I believe that "The Girlfriend Experience" is something that you would pay a prostitute for, so rather than paying for sex, you would pay for the experience of her pretending to be your girlfriend. I don't think it's used often enough around here to belong on this list. I'm not sure what would be the best way of expanding on the HB entry. If someone has a contribution to make here I'll add it.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 06:52 PM
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If this is true for humans, which I doubt, it's one more reason why partner count does matter.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 03:33 PM
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For starters, and the reason why this post is probably getting removed, I see it as concern trolling. Otherwise I see it as detrimental. Why change those things when you can (fairly easily) adapt to them and thrive in the current dynamic? As far as what trp is about, check the 'Introduction' link in the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 03:28 AM
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If the goals is to change minds, change culture, change sexual dynamics, etc. That's not the point at all. In fact, that's kind of the opposite. Change yourself. I think you are looking for /r/MensRights
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 03:12 AM
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Which ones were missing? I'll add them to my reply to softharem.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 02:45 AM
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I just made a quick pass through the glossary and here's a bunch that I think should be added. There are also a lot in the comments of the glossary thread that aren't in the main post. *LMR - Last Minute Resistance *ASD - Anti-Slut Defense *LJBF - Let's Just Be Friends *HB - Hot Babe (often followed by a #1-10) *Shit Test - See 'Shit Tests 101' in sidebar (Too much for me to define here) *LTR - Long Term Relationship *Dread Game - Purposefully inciting jealousy in an LTR by openly getting attent…
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 02:08 AM
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You could always google them and make a new glossary thread yourself, rather than wait for someone else to do it for you.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 12:23 AM
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Denial Anger Bargaining Depression Acceptance Anger and depression are always going to be the ones we see the most here before people get to acceptance. Also, no concern trolling.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 04:55 PM
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In the thread on r/pics, several comments linked to part of OP's redpill thread. The linked comments are now below -100 points. How is that not brigading? It's pretty funny actually how trp has to tiptoe around with snapshot links and the rest of reddit can brigade here with no consequences.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 01:16 AM
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