Gerald_of_Rivija Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Cold approaching in school Don't shit where you eat bud. Rather do it outside of your school or in clubs/bars until you become better at it. If by then you still want it, try at your school.	/r/seduction	24/09/20 06:36 AM
1	Advice on closing If you are bad at "closing" just be open about it like kids used to do in middle school and maybe you'll get lacky.	/r/seduction	24/09/20 06:21 AM
1	How would you guys go about this? Am i dumb? U in a friendzone my guy	/r/seduction	24/09/20 06:06 AM
1	Pua Books I was being more specific - like what to say in the first 30secs kind of specific, but the most important things you should pay attention to are appearing confident, not be afraid of strong eye contact, and having good posture/not to stand there awkwardly. Look up Todd V dating on YT, get some theory, and then come back when you watch at least 10-20 vids of his. That's it my mein.	/r/seduction	22/09/20 10:30 PM
1	(UK) How do I open up a conversation and break the ‘touch barrier’ ? So? The point was that wherever you are you'll get results, in some countries a little bit more than others but it shouldn't be much of a difference. Also, I was living in Manchester for half a year and I can say that girls there are a LOT more open to fvcking than in most Eastern European countries. You have a good point but it's not the case for the UK or US	/r/seduction	22/09/20 10:20 PM
3	Does anyone here who followed RSD understand why they said there should be a balance between Flatlining and Spiking in a conversation, and too much of one is bad? They seemed to lean more towards Flatline. [Flatline is Normal Conversation. Spiking is Attraction material like teasing, jokes, etc.] Don't even mention it ;) There are a few reasons and I'll give you some of them: It comes across try hard - those higher caliber girls have seen it all, they know all the tricks in the book and even if they don't, they see from a mile away when you are trying to impress her. It may ruin some sets - when you get to pro-level the goal is CONSISTENCY, NOT fvcking only 1 out of 20 10s. And by negging or challenging the girl that doesn't need that in a given situation you may fall out of set because …	/r/seduction	22/09/20 09:47 PM
5	Question about texting You matched. That's all you need to know man, there's no happening. Set a date, go out and get the job done.	/r/seduction	22/09/20 09:23 PM
1	Which girl is more likely to be attracted to you; one with many guy friends or one with less guy friends ? Best and fastest way to tell is for you to come up to her like a real gent and try to stick ur tongue in her mouth - you'll know pretty soon if she likes you or not	/r/seduction	22/09/20 09:20 PM
6	You have 1 thing to tell a guy thatll sike him up and give him the courage, moments before hes about to cold approach a girl. I'm gonna be 100 bucks richer if you are still here in 10 seconds.	/r/seduction	22/09/20 09:05 PM
0	(UK) How do I open up a conversation and break the ‘touch barrier’ ? UK and US have the most "sluty" girls out there - and I don't mean that in a bad way, it is just the culture is different and people there are more open for anything. Me and my friend had sex with few UK girls this summer in Croatia and I think we had sex with almost all of them on the same day we met them. Translations: Pickup as you would anywhere and don't worry about where you're living. hope that helps mate.	/r/seduction	22/09/20 09:01 PM
1	Literally no one is interested in me. Advice? The biggest problem you have is your mindset, and to get any success with women you must work on that first. Forget about dating sites, subreddits and don't even think about paying to get ur weener wet. Start with working on your confidence and abundance - in other words go out, start approaching and work on your game. I know it may be difficult and u may not even know where to start, but the choice is yours - fail over and over until you get good a few months from now or just give up and live w…	/r/seduction	22/09/20 08:42 PM
1	Failing at day game First of all to adress the flake comment above - if you do everything right on a cold approach you shouldn't be getting more than 30-50% flakes let alone 90% Now to you question my man - you are being too good with them. In europe where we are from game is more difficult and most of the girls are not that easy. - in UK/US they are pretty much sluts. This summer in Croatia, me and my buddy pulled mostly London girls and fvcked them on the same night. Not much game, came in confident, pulled to th…	/r/seduction	22/09/20 06:49 PM
1	I’m confused How old are you, did you hookup already and how long have you been talking to her	/r/seduction	22/09/20 06:35 PM
4	Pua Books As some smart douchebag once said: sometimes you gotta run before you can walk. In translation - taking action and reading 1 book will always be better than taking no action and reading 1000 books. Sweetspot when learning any new skill: Spend 3-5 days just learning, and then after that, spend 1-2 hours daily on theory and idealy rest of the day on action, practicing the most important 1-2 things you have learned. Hope that helps buddy	/r/seduction	22/09/20 06:29 PM
3	Does anyone here who followed RSD understand why they said there should be a balance between Flatlining and Spiking in a conversation, and too much of one is bad? They seemed to lean more towards Flatline. [Flatline is Normal Conversation. Spiking is Attraction material like teasing, jokes, etc.] No worries mate, so to make is simpler: When picking up/approaching - most important thing is looking relaxed/confident and using a few emotional spikes (tools) - until you get a positive reaction, after that u do not need to use them anymore (only if conversation falls down use them again) In sets is a bit different as you need to pay attention to her friends a bit more, but the rule is be fun in sets (use more tools but lightly) until you take your girl out of there and for solo approaches use…	/r/seduction	22/09/20 02:48 PM
7	Does anyone here who followed RSD understand why they said there should be a balance between Flatlining and Spiking in a conversation, and too much of one is bad? They seemed to lean more towards Flatline. [Flatline is Normal Conversation. Spiking is Attraction material like teasing, jokes, etc.] Thats the place where most "rsd students" end up, as it is regarded as "intermidiate game" - Being fun and challenging, push pulling, negging all the time. While it works wonders for 6-8s, it usually comes across as try-hard to 9-10s. Perfect game as Max said it, would be looking at all those things I mentioned before as "tools" and you should only use them to spike up the conversation, and NOT use them as your "base" game. I was also at this phase for a long time, and while it was fun as fvck b…	/r/seduction	22/09/20 01:45 PM
2	Player 1 has entered the game U broke down man and that is probably the best thing that coulda happened to you. Age doesn't matter and looks can be easily influenced by: better style, going to the gym, adding swagger to your walk, improving strong eye contact,etc. The thing you need to do is start going out as much as you can and try to improve your game. As a smart man once said "The best time to start taking action was yesterday, 2nd best time to start is today." - in other words, don't worry about your age and just start …	/r/seduction	22/09/20 12:57 PM