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How are you? Have you left the country yet
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 08:38 PM

Contact your telco..
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 09:19 AM

Without watching the clip I love seeing judge jewdy abuse people
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 08:10 AM

Get a new one unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 08:08 AM

Thats how I feel about pet birds as well
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 08:07 AM
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You still appreciate it because you have low self esteem
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 12:08 AM
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Ig it depends what kind of aussie you are. Im ethnic so dont really hang around those kind of aussies
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 11:38 PM
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His looks are not the thing stopping him from getting dates. Maybe a better first photo would help him get more matches though
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 11:28 PM
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Things done “on paper” is one thing but for example the guys star wars prompt sucks. So on paper he is being witty or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 11:26 PM
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And how often is someone attracted to you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 11:20 PM
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Do the men that complain about paying even go on dates in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 11:19 PM
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I havent seen it from start to end in one sitting
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 11:18 PM
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Yeah that white guy footy player look is not something I rate but it doesn’t really matter to me anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 11:11 PM
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As an aussie that seedy moustache look is yuck
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 08:46 AM
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God if I ever got divorced how would I stop reverting to an incel mindset when trying to date and stop being neurotic about bodycount mismatch
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 08:27 PM

What did you find helpful from the psychology subs
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 08:15 PM

And why cant you now
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 08:04 PM
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I think this would be me if I was single
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 01:12 AM
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Who gives a shit about payments. So sick of this argument. Just pay for dates
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 05:27 AM
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I met a woman who was spontaneous and sexually forward. They’re out there and you might enjoy it better
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 09:01 PM
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My original analogy was going to be how many times you’ve eaten sushi but that may have been interpreted differently
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 08:59 PM
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Maybe they aint lying and they just forgot. Like if I asked you how many times in your life you’ve jaywalked
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 08:41 PM

I have a daughter and now want a son I think. One of each seems fair and balanced
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 08:39 PM

I can kinda see your point but 30 to 60 is dumb. Going from 1 to 10 makes more sense
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 08:37 PM

Thats why people should stop bitching and follow the tinder likes. If it’s brazil or thailand so be it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 08:35 PM
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I dont think men here understand this. Ill admit I dont fully either. Edit: Actually scratch that last bit, I think I get it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 08:24 PM

Yeah this
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 08:22 PM
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Just be conscious of your analogy. Seeking free drinks is the same. It’s a one night thing. Seeking gifts and paid for trips is more malicious as it’s a longer term manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 08:09 PM

I want to learn so I can play for my kid. Otherwise I’m thinking we learn together
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 07:10 PM

I’m sorry you have to go through that. I worry about your safety
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 07:09 PM

Never
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 07:07 PM

Simping is good
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 07:06 PM
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At my age now (early 30’s), yes
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 07:05 PM
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Once she likes you, you are the threshold. So that receded chin is what she now finds attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 06:49 AM
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The problem with blue pill is not the “how” but the “when”. Until the girl likes you romantically, you need to follow some RP stuff. But once she likes you in that way, RP and Blackpill go out the window
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 10:21 PM
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Not every blue piller says this? Remember, only men can be blue pilled. Women can say blue pilled things but these pills only apply to men
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 10:40 PM

I’m blue pilled and idgaf about women. My version of bluepill is to just focus on being a nice person and stop getting worked up about what women do or say. Honestly what the fuck are you talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 11:16 PM
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Someone needs to get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 09:25 PM
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(If I was single) if she didnt have any kind of standoffish energy and no RBF. Ig if she looked approachable and she was jaw dropping attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 09:24 PM
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🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 08:52 PM
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This literally happens all the time with young couples
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 08:45 PM
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Who are the most popular people in this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 08:42 PM
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Men should pay for every date imo
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 08:40 PM
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I live in kangaroo land so I will not be celebrating spring
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 01:10 AM
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Just do whatever makes you happy. Everything in moderation. Dont stress
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 01:09 AM
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Ill stick around. Just summon me if you need entertainment
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 10:19 PM
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Yeah this
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 08:31 PM
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Yeah going good. Maybe I’ll be back for good. Does the bluepill need more soliders
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 08:29 PM
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Money money money
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 08:25 PM
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Hello..
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 09:03 PM

Ahh yes those 2 vs 5 reddit comments represent the double standard. Got it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 01:24 PM
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Just come to discord
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 10:24 AM

Finally what
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 02:12 AM

That’s how I feel with man hating women. I can fix them!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 02:11 AM
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I think you should, but it’s not as incel hatey over there
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 10:51 PM
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Everything is great ig. Really on the discord stuff now so not active here anymore. I do think about you though. How are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 03:44 AM

Hello there..
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 11:48 PM

Eh I can see the logic behind the man’s view. Maybe it’s time to really focus on personality instead of looks
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 02:27 AM
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What were the two areas? Just curious
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 05:41 AM
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Don’t have the look sadly
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 12:24 PM
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I find women this forward quite attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 10:14 AM

Holy fuck those chad traits are me to a T
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 07:09 AM

I’m sure young girls feel this way but change as they get into their mid 20’s and above. Does that count as settling or does that mean they are maturing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 09:57 PM

I do, genuinely
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 09:51 PM

You can tell you are clueless because of the “risking getting humiliated” part of your complaint. No one is humiliating men, no one is making fun of men, no run is ruining the reputation of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 02:53 AM

Well define what a good job is? Sounds like a mismatch on your end
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 02:41 AM
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It means protection from kidnappers. Men are naturally stronger as they get taller. People mostly live in reality and not a fantasy utopia world so they know there are bad people out there. No amount of man shame, education, media etc will stop assaults
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 01:46 AM
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So is your point that this behaviour from men is softly encouraged by women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 01:51 PM
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Surely you can agree that his approach was aggressive? Therefore having no surprises why the rest of the women popped theirs?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 01:49 PM
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I honestly dont understand people who dont throw the kitchen sink at OLD and singles events. Theres no harm in spending an hr or 2 a day on it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 10:28 PM
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Why do you have 3 upvotes asking how I am? If that’s genuinely 2 others wondering, make yourselves know. Tbh, I’m all over a couple of the ppd related discords
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 02:58 AM

I like them, but I very rarely talk to strangers unless it’s another man looking lonely
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 12:13 AM

Jesus christ now I know what women mean
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 12:12 AM

Honestly idk why people dont swipe right on everyone. That’s what I would do
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 11:29 AM
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Continuing a reddit streak maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 08:26 PM
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It’s the blackpillers who complain the most
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 01:49 AM
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So what % of relationships fit your idea of settling for loveless, exploitative etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 09:57 PM

Oh yeah shit hahaha it didnt click to me
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 09:56 PM

Context?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 12:16 PM
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Yeah but you lose your right to complain once you quit
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 12:50 AM

Hmmm sounds like chicken and egg. You’re saying men shouldnt lead with height, but they’ve only done that because of women
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 08:09 AM

Even if I have no instrument experience
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 12:21 PM

My honest observation is that there are a small percentage that will be very open to pursuing a relationship with you. I think the younger you are, the more likely. I find women are way more open to be acquaintances with me, and are very warm/trusting which I conclude is because I unintentionally friendzone people. I try and be respectful and dont break the “touch barrier” with women. Would they make a move if I became single? Who knows. There are some who I thought would, some I could win over …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 11:58 AM

I wish I knew how to play. Is it a skill you can only learn from young
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 11:49 AM

Ppd woman = quirk chungus
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 04:55 AM

If thats him I think you’re more normal/better looking. That being said, I’m not surprised you don’t get ioi’s. Not many do imo. Especially at our age range it’s more personality based
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 04:55 AM
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Nice man. So no longer a virgin hey. What lessons have you learnt for next time
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 11:39 PM
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Sorry I meant how did you get to that stage in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 10:35 PM
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Yeah but I never get hit on, and don’t know many that do
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 09:56 PM
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Idk where this myth came from. Like yeah, I think women from work are more open to being friendly with me which could be because I’m married but it’s unfairly discounting my amazing personality lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 08:52 PM
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Go on, give us details
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 08:48 PM
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I got my incel ppb friend banned from hinge. Feel bad so I gave him permission to use my number as verification because (hopefully) I never need it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 07:15 AM
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You can dm, discord is better though. I wont reply straight away because I’ll want to read, process and respond properly
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 06:33 AM

Looks matter until they dont though
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 10:06 PM

Hang on, only their anecdotal evidence counts
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 10:06 PM

It’s still absurd since Thailand exists
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 10:04 PM

No one normal/binary likes femboys in that way
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 10:02 PM

I feel like I’m missing a whole bunch of context from you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 12:36 PM

No I cant set boundaries because the minute they reach out, I go running tbh. Like I said, I never want to let anyone down
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 12:20 PM

Yeah alright, got sick about a month ago for a week and works been busy as. You?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 12:18 PM

No I highly doubt it. They know I’m married for starters and our “friendship” is only at most mon-fri 9-5. Theres no sexual tension feeling from me that’s for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 11:41 AM

Look I enjoy deeper conversations with them that I just can’t have with men, so I will always be there for these people because I never want to let anybody down. But to go awol while you’re seeing someone, then reach out to grab a coffee or lunch the minute it ends, just feels off. Am I making a big deal for nothing?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 11:38 AM

Urgh starting to hate it when female acquaintances/colleagues only reach out the minute things with their recent situationship end. I promise you there is no romantic intent from my end but it’s getting a little annoying now. Feel like an emotional cuck? Idk how else to describe the feeling. You know we can still be acquaintances when you have a boyfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 09:29 AM
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Correct. Just be normal
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 03:33 AM
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Because no one wants to type out detailed essays on how to get a girlfriend. Not everything has to be spelt out as we expect you to know some of these nuances. I can’t be bothered to go through specific examples right now of an advice that has an unspoken nuance that doesn’t need spelling out
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 11:41 PM
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Every fucking advice given ever in the history of dating needs detail and nuance. It’s you fucking black pillers who don’t understand this ffs so infuriating
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 09:11 PM
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How can you say a modern woman is only someone 18-25?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 09:10 PM
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I only just found out what quirk chungus is and my god it is so accurate at portraying reddit women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 10:01 PM

I’m happy for you that you found your internal spark again
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 11:40 PM

Looks like I average 5-6 a week
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 11:38 PM

Dildos illegal in thailand? Random
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 11:38 PM
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Well yes and no. It depends on your outlook I guess. If you think AMALT with no room to change then yeah, women should keep that in mind. If you think the opposite, and men should change via social conditioning, societal pressure etc then no, women should dress however they want
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 11:30 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 10:45 PM
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The difference is safety. A creepy man is scarier than a creepy woman. A man randomly approaching a woman in the street and grabbing her is a million times more intimidating than a woman doing it to a man. It’s a double standard, get over it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 10:38 PM
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But what about the claims made by this woman that it’s a projection of insecurity and these size obsessed women are trying to take control of the interaction by claiming this preference
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 06:08 AM
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But a woman is saying it. Is she just being nice?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 06:06 AM
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I agree to a degree
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 06:05 AM
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I feel you’re still not addressing the claim though
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 06:04 AM
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Not convinced, but got no experience to reassure myself he is wrong. I really don’t think it’s that hard if you’re a big hearted person willing to leave your ego at the door
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 06:03 AM
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Pamela Stephenson Connolly is a US-based psychotherapist who specialises in treating sexual disorders is claiming when any woman talks about “preferring big penises”, it’s usually – consciously or not – an attempt to gain power due to a sense of weakness, so it would be wise for you to try to ignore it. Even though a woman is saying this, is this copium? https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2025/jul/01/my-girlfriend-told-me-she-prefers-big-penises-now-im-worried-i-wont-satisfy-her
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 02:36 AM
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Got something interesting but I’m waiting until the new daily so it doesnt get missed. Anyone else like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 01:56 AM
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Wym
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 02:22 AM
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Who would have thought people of all shapes and sizes get partnered up. Crazy hey
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 02:21 AM
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It’s all about the intention. Women do not do this for direct mate attraction. Men do those things you mentioned for direct mate attraction, i.e. I want to attract a mate right now
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 12:31 AM
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Sounds awful. I wouldn’t care being used like that if I didn’t have any strong feelings for the person tbh. You should have the blind optimism/self esteem that someone else will always be around the corner. Don’t have strong feelings for someone who doesn’t have them back. Life lesson for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 10:01 PM

Dont listen to others. Everyone is likeable
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 09:24 PM

Huh? Backstreet boys? You mean Beastie Boys?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 09:16 PM

Why metal as well as disco? What’s the link in your mind that connects the two genres
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 09:11 PM

I respect jazz. What kind of hip hop are you referring to?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 09:11 PM

Wouldn’t be surprised if most of reddit is into new wave and post punk. Two genres I’ve only learnt about asking this question
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 09:10 PM

Look I want to like it but I just cant respect the genre enough. What makes it catchy is the beat, as the rap and lyrics are meaningless tbh and they rhyme the same words with each other. Truely a sign of a society becoming stupid and shallow as each generation follows. This genre such a con job to the masses because it’s mainly because the accent “sounds cool”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 09:09 PM
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Yeah I get that hence why I said we can walk long distances
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 08:41 PM
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Close, 230
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 08:40 PM
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Eh kinda. A lot of my takes are half ragebait half I actually think this
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 08:40 PM

Yeah maybe idk. I didn’t care that she did that
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 08:39 PM

Nice same here
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 09:26 AM

What’s your controversial music take
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 09:19 AM

What kind of hip hop and rap are you talking about? If 90% of my taste is house music and it’s variations, another 8% would be some form of rap, mainly boom bap
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 09:18 AM

Isnt that a turn off though?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 09:16 AM

And do you think punk has the same rebellious nature as it used to
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 09:08 AM
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Calm down I wasn’t being serious
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 09:07 AM

Yeah nice bruv. Whose been good lately
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 09:06 AM

I always like hearing about your life, either past or present
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 08:47 AM
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Classy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 08:46 AM

Whats an example of video game OST? If it’s like this I’m keen https://youtu.be/m72wk87fUS0?si=BDvLyqGaRn4BHQOs
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 08:42 AM

What influenced your taste?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 08:34 AM
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Hmmmm my thinking feels more right though so I will disregard your argument regardless if it’s factually true or not
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 08:27 AM

Don’t you feel conned though? Like, pretty rich record companies pay for their music to be popular via bombardment. That’s why modern music never holds up to older music because it’s not technically good. People only like it because it’s popular. But its popularity is manufactured and not genuine
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 08:26 AM
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So not using our brains for a quick burst to catch them off guard? Genuinely asking
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 08:23 AM
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But we can barely out jog any other animal. Literary every animal I can think of is quicker than us over distance
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 08:14 AM

Curious to what type or music y’all into. Anyone solely into house, particularly deep/funky? I would say that’s 90% of my music. Edit: and what do you think influenced your taste?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 08:09 AM

Hey nice to see you on the daily
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 08:03 AM
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Huh who?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 08:03 AM

Whats 9641
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 08:02 AM

Salt and vinegar chips with plain cucumber
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 08:02 AM
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On the contrary, it forms a deeper connection which allows them to lower their boundaries and more likely to drop them. It’s how you become likeable. But then again what do I know? I could try that if I was single and it wouldn’t work
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 08:00 AM

A couple of weeks? You should get over that shit quickly. My wife (girlfriend at the time) got horny when I was teary the day my grandad died and she was caressing me in bed
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 07:57 AM
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Because it’s not natural. We are not meant to be jogging long distances. We are designed for walking and short sprints. Jogging serves no evolutionary purpose
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 07:53 AM

Confident and caring
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 07:52 AM

Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 10:47 AM

Jesus man it’s the end of June. What took you so long
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 08:21 AM

Depends really. Mostly neutral to turn on. Would be nice to discuss complex topics with someone. I much prefer emotional intelligence tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 07:34 AM

What do you look like? Not asking for a pic but like describe yourself so we can appropriately help you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 07:26 AM

Are you US based? Is it normal to speak with strangers on a plane where you are from? Over here in kangaroo land it’s almost sacrilege
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 07:23 AM

RIP gene wilder
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 07:16 AM
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I’m sure this sane and sensible comment will be appreciated in this post /s
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 07:12 AM

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 04:09 AM
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Watch the show and see what those men do. I havent so I’m not fully aware of the context
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 12:28 AM
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I think theres some truth to it but I feel it isn’t set in stone for each person. Meaning you can be alpha amongst one group but beta in another, all within the same day. We also conflate extroversion with being “alpha” even though that’s not a fair link
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 12:27 AM
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Started reading and stopped after “sexual freedom” because the arguments made are just simply not true. “Society” (whatever that exactly means) doesn’t shame men for spinning plates. In actual fact in the last 15 years has made them into minor celebrities (think jersey shore, love island, any other fake dating show).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 10:21 PM

Who tf says gym doesnt work?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 09:47 PM

It’s ridiculous and I wonder how these people deal with real world stress
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 09:29 PM
1

Stop buying caviar 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 07:35 AM
0

Hence proving the bluepill that average guys get relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 07:18 AM
1

Accurate <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 03:59 AM
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<image> we’re pretty close
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 03:59 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 03:53 AM
0

On the contrary, they know an incel when they see one
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 03:50 AM
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Probably leave her for him. Simple reason being if I liked her, she would be mine. Simple
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 03:45 AM
2

Take away the monster can you show the mediterranean breakfast
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 03:42 AM
1

Yes so then we can conclude that political views has no bearing on morality?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 01:23 AM
1

I feel for you. This is a tough situation and if you want judgement free chat you can always DM me
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 08:02 AM
2

Well, overall both left and right want a better world. But obviously there a differences in opinion on how you get there. I don’t agree there is one true political opinion out there apart. Not all left leaning people are pro immigration, particularly with non-skilled workers. Even on the right theres a difference as we saw when elon went against trump/maga on some kind of working visa in the US (sorry not from there so I’m not across the details).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 01:15 AM
6

But the morals are the same? You don’t need religion to know murder is bad. You don’t need to be left or right to know poverty and homelessness is bad
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 12:24 AM
2

Whats the context
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 11:07 PM
1

Wait what? I’ve missed this context
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 11:07 PM
2

I’ve seen some really twinky 5ft men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 11:05 PM
2

In your situation the less you know about the womans past the better. Just pretend every woman you meet is a virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 11:04 PM
1

Story sounds stupid and fake but my hot take is that we normalise bj’s and swallowing cum but we haven’t done the same with breastmilk. Society is truely broken
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 10:59 PM
7

Such an American take right here. The rest of the world isn’t as radical as you guys. Change your argument from politics to religion. If you are religious would you be ok with dating someone with a different moral framework to you i.e. athiest? Or maybe religion =/= moral superiority, therefore, being politically engaged =/= moral superiority either
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 10:38 PM

Ok well for the sake of your mental health we are all here for you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 09:46 PM

Are you ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 12:06 PM
1

?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 08:36 AM

Granted I only jack off 2-3 times a year, I couldn’t imagine doing it without porn. What’s the point then?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 04:58 AM
1

I need to work on my forearms/wrists. Rest of my body is OK but feel they’re lagging
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 12:31 AM
1

Only one requirement for me: All other typical requirements must be sacrificed for the greater good of the relationship. Individuality must be eliminated for the collective. Especially if there are kids involved
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 12:27 AM
1

What’s your relationship like with your mother
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 11:53 PM
2

Just incels trying to fake show AWALT
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 11:25 PM
1

Yes very petty. Not so much revenge but I love little jabs at people and love crossing the line for comedic purposes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 11:24 PM
1

50/50. Some are NT that just need some community love and support to grow up and not be hateful
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 11:22 PM
3

Idk where you are located but over here no one approaches anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 11:21 PM
1

Whats LL
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 11:12 PM
1

Depends on his age but I would say average, like anywhere between 4-6
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 11:11 PM
1

You want someone to find you physically attractive or someone to like your personality, flaws and all?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 11:09 PM

these are friends from other departments.. sorry if that wasnt clear
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 11:01 AM

I was so tempted to go to the pub on my own. I don’t think people here are receptive to chatting with strangers though
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 10:39 AM

But I’m bitter internally not to their face.. I’m mainly talking about people from other departments I don’t see often
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 10:38 AM

Fair call, thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 10:37 AM

I don’t really have any friends. Being with my wife since 17 I couldn’t balance my time between friends and relationship. How would I find friends when one has no hobbies
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 10:36 AM

We got together at 17. If she saw me as provider status back then she deserves applause of that foresight from that young
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 10:35 AM

No, was just kidding. How could my scenario ever be considered betabux
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 07:21 AM

Gonna get ridiculed to oblivion but whatever. I’m just feeling isolated at work since there is no socializing going on. My work is white collar in a major city and I can’t fucking rally up 1 person to grab a drink with after work anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 07:20 AM

Betabux incel gets owned by chad kangaroo
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 07:11 AM

Realizing I deal with sadness by being bitter and resentful. Does anyone else channel sadness in that way?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 07:02 AM

Bad move sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 07:01 AM

Idk to me people swipe in the first few seconds so just make sure your first photo is top notch
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 06:19 AM

You marry anyone with great compatibility. Because if you are truely compatible, everything will fall into place. Also the older I get (I’m 32 now), the more accepting I feel I am becoming. The only thing that would bother me is if the wild phase was constantly brought up by her or by others in her circle. I’m sorry but I don’t want to hear about the fun you had before and without me
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 06:13 AM

As a pink pilled woman that’s your job
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 05:09 AM

I would give a detailed comeback but I’m enjoying a nice steak right now
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 04:40 AM

Anime was just japanese copium, created as an escape from their wage slave life. Normal hentai or even just normal adult anime, it’s still lame
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 12:28 AM

Go on a date with onasickone
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 12:23 AM

I really have minimal attraction to alt/goth tattooed baddie
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 12:23 AM

Cartoons are for kids, even if they’re specifically made for adults, the foundation of that medium is childish. Therefore, there is a strong link between hentai and being a pedo
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 12:21 AM

Innit
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 07:12 AM
7

I don’t think that’s fair because others would argue any change in priorities is settling
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 07:12 AM

I had to reddit search examples of tortas and my god some are thiccccc. Tortas should be your first choice not your last
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 05:02 AM
5

Have your priorities changed at all? Or do you still have the same “big tits, big ass latina” hot list just like a 16 year old?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 03:18 AM
6

I disagree on that. Sounds too much like “head in the sand” if you ignore patterns. Not saying I agree that there are distinct patterns with dating though
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 03:07 AM
2

Yeah but your last point is true though. People aren’t stupid and they need a whole package for a LTR compared to just looks
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 02:54 AM

All the best in your journey man
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 01:47 AM

I knew my comment would be misinterpreted. She was 25 and I was 26 and I spent 11k AUD
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 01:38 AM
3

I thought that guy was a right winger? Anyway: 1st scenario, I would participate. What, you people have never woken up to a horny partner before? 3am booty calls are similar right? 2nd scenario, what’s the issue? It’s harmless because the threat of safety is low. 3rd scenario, made me lol. It was so silly. Although the talking part of it reminded me of what it’s like having a female friend/colleague that’s purely platonic. Granted, I agree with your point that if someone wants to fuck everyone, …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 12:53 AM

Dont all british people have bad teeth
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 12:34 AM

Jesus I wish I spent that much on my wife
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 12:31 AM

I was being intentionally inflammatory btw.. Development disorder meaning?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 11:15 PM

It’s not? I thought it was something you just stop having one day once you matured
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 10:41 PM

So what would the common privileges be with dating
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 10:40 PM

Good point
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 12:48 PM

Oh so shes SE asian?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 12:44 PM

I never understand this and I acknowledge my privilege but how hard can it actually be. I feel like I could get a situationship within 30days of being single
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 07:09 AM

Aren’t you the one who had a girlfriend who fumbled the parents meet but you still go to rub and tugs
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 06:58 AM

Definitely dont have that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 05:18 AM

Whats bdd? Edit: oh I get it. Yeah I think I do
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 04:08 AM

So true. At a club on a saturday night I am way below average. However in my office I’m in the top 5% since I’m on the younger side, well dressed and broad shouldered
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 01:40 AM

Is pulling randoms at a club easy in America? It’s hard here tbh, although for obvious reasons I can’t say I’ve tried. I’m surprised you can’t pull on apps or in a “warm” environment
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 12:37 AM

The world is yours for the taking. Make the most of this one life we have
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 10:59 PM

Maybe take that as a hint blackpillers that you dont need every fucking top tier trait to get a date
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 10:09 PM

Don’t watch it if you’re sexually frustrated or insecure
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 10:06 PM
2

The free market applies to dating. You are no longer in this market when in a relationship. Know the difference
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 10:01 PM
1

I read it. Thought some of the points interesting. Some of the “women dating over xyz years” subs didnt like it at all
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 09:21 PM

I’m curious to what the article says
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 07:30 AM

Stare off into the sunset
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 05:49 AM

Good on you bro. You have something to offer and they are taking you up on that offer. Every relationship has some sort of transaction behind it and just because they dont like the way you do it, you should still do what you do. It’s also kinda racist to think all these people are homeless. Especially in Manilla where many of them have actual office jobs
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 05:46 AM
1

I doubt they’re doing that to me. I’m married so I naturally friendzone everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 09:24 PM
1

Yeah most of my female friends are in LTR’s
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 09:23 PM
1

Emotional investment, a bit of give and take. The minute they get a bf the friendship fizzles so quickly like they can’t balance a bf and a male friend
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 09:22 PM
1

Idk I think I sense a vibe change from them so I kinda know it will fizzle now regardless
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 09:21 PM
1

Um I’m married and offended you’re questioning my loyalty
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 09:19 PM

Regarding opposite sex friendships I get on better with single women or women in LTR’s. The minute a friend gets a boyfriend, my care factor for them plummets. You want to vent about work? Go talk to your new bf about it instead
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 12:59 PM

On this sub? My whole relationship experience. I can’t relate to either incels or experienced people so apparently I’m not allowed to give advice. To my friends and people who know me? My inherited net wealth. Not my fault I have a small family and my grandparents didn’t want me to be disadvantaged
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 12:26 PM

Had to google.. I would say an 8. My looks type. Personality brings it down to a 3
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 10:19 AM

I miss mikearrow. Is it weird if I randomly msg him?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 10:17 AM
1

My argument is that the act is special when there are feelings attached and the stronger the feelings the more special the act is. Your argument sounds like the novelty of someone new is special, regardless of feelings. That’s why I aligned your argument to prostitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 11:30 PM
2

I made my argument
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 11:13 PM

Real top tier holiday destinations there
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 11:07 PM
1

Sex is special when it’s with someone you love, not someone new. Otherwise everyone would be a hooker
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 11:06 PM
1

Seems pretty standard to go 1-3 dates before sex so by the age of 25 you should be hitting double digits surely
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 11:05 PM
3

Excuse me? Me and my wife being each others one and only is less special than you people with your double digit n counts from random hookups. Yeah right
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 11:02 PM
3

Something in me is agreeing with you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 11:01 PM
1

Never been single as a legal adult but if I was, I would throw the kitchen sink at it. All the apps, all the singles events, clubbing every weekend
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 12:55 PM
1

I feel ya. I get angry at people who get angry at me. Like how could someone get angry or disappointed at me? Of all people, me? I’m too great for someone to feel negatively about me
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 12:52 PM
1

No one can ever explain what cbt is
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 12:51 PM
1

My greatest fear is to have stats like him
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 12:48 PM
2

Idk about celebrities but I am very honest to people about my emotions. I have no shame in telling people I am lonely or needy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 12:17 PM
1

It’s a good question because my life is essentially the opposite to him. On the surface he looks really happy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 12:15 PM
2

I hope it works out for you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 12:13 PM
1

What the hell is green and white pilled
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 09:56 AM
1

I hope it works for you habibi
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 06:14 AM
1

Idk about US visa laws but can your family there sponsor you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 06:10 AM
1

I care
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 06:10 AM
1

Yeah but as time goes on people your age lose physical standards
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 06:06 AM
1

Idk bro, I found the bigger the more flirtier. Bigger girls are a million times more willing to disregard my relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 06:04 AM
2

I cook way more than my wife
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 06:02 AM
2

Why do people ignore you lately
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 05:59 AM
1

What about Aus?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 05:57 AM
5

So we have an 11 month old. My wife stayed home full time for first 7 months, then I did the next 3 when she went back to work. I wouldn’t say it’s hard/difficult work. It’s repetitive and isolating but I wouldnt say it’s energy draining like a fulltime job which leaves me brain fried at the end of the day
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 03:05 AM
1

I cant determine tbh. 5 I guess? I should get a rating from somewhere so I have a number to go off. My pro’s: 6 foot, broad shoulders, shaped beard and fade haircut, some curls in my hair, dark features, “olive” skin, long looking legs, potentially “X” shaped body if I lost weight. Cons: 40lbs of unnecessary fat, balding/bigger forehead, hairy, hook nose
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 12:46 AM
-1

“Take whatever comes along” and “be alone” is not the default advice though? That advice is reserved for the perpetual whiners
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 12:39 AM
4

The trick is to have low self opinion of your looks in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 12:33 AM
1

😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 11:56 PM
1

I looked it up. It’s crazy how things that are important in the US has no coverage overseas
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 11:34 PM
2

Wtf is juneteenth
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 11:25 PM
1

Yet we slam women here for looks preferences at 17
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 11:11 PM
3

Because they think they have the best personality in their life circle so it surely can’t be that right???? What else could it be? Looks
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 10:14 PM
1

Why you gotta do me dirty like that? Anyway I’m gonna raise mine as a feminazi anyway so hopefully that alleviates that concern
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 10:11 PM
1

Passport bro clearly
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 10:09 PM
1

Jesus I wouldnt expect that from a PPD woman. Like who cares if someone here tells a small lie
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 10:02 PM
1

Whats the cherries reference
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 09:20 PM
2

Jesus christ enough. Back then they called it impressing and wooing a woman. Now you people call it a monkey dance. Wtf do you want? A random 10/10 to approach you and say how great of a guy you are because of your reddit comments and then she fucks you on the spot in public?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 09:13 PM
1

You gotta put them on the spot. More ultimatums
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 09:09 PM
4

You people think that a 19 year old saying this, and then no longer saying this at 30 is a sign of her settling. No one talks about maturity levels changing hey?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 09:07 PM
0

Last sentence is not quite right, I am very secure in my marriage and if others are interested in her that’s no big deal to me. Potentially yeah, I hate being mogged so theres no chance I would hang out with better looking men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 09:01 PM
2

That’s not true at all. I put in a lot of effort with women and it is appreciated because they know I am married so not trying to make a move
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 08:58 PM
1

Ah yeah I get your point now and kinda agree. I think it depends on how desperate you are to be in a relationship. If you really want it, surround yourself with as many attractive people as you can, even as friends
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 12:40 PM
1

Look I got issues so my views are odd but hiding in the other room is exactly something I would do, or I would at least be very quiet or introverted, more than normal. I just don’t interact with enough attractive people irl to get desensitized to it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 12:38 PM
1

All my male friends are super unattractive and the more unattractive the more I get on with them. Each to their own I guess. Why do you think you feel the way you do and I feel the way I do?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 12:33 PM
1

But you’re married like me so how do you stay friends with someone who is hot but also has an attractive personality, while not comparing her to your wife
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 12:28 PM
1

😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 07:13 AM

That’s what an actual nice guy acts like
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 07:07 AM

At that age you need to throw the kitchen sink at it. Transplant and meds
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 07:07 AM
5

That’s the man’s problem. Of course attraction can grow over time but you can’t get pissed if it doesn’t. If you’re attractive enough and both of you are single, you wont stay friends for long
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 06:33 AM

Redsands no doubt about it. You are all inferior to him. I like funed though as well because I know we would get on irl
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 03:51 AM

Suppress suppress suppress
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 03:48 AM

Oh really? Have you checked in with 1000 of your female friends to see how they are?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 03:44 AM
20

No, the opposite actually. People should only be friends with those they aren’t attracted to. People actually do this more than we think. I am not attracted to my male friends at all. I couldn’t be friends with someone who is attractive to me (different spectrum to conventionally attractive, although there is an overlap). My mind separates people based on friendship, or datability, and due to my circumstances I can’t be friends with people I put in the dating bucket
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 03:38 AM
1

If I was single yeah, because I know how great I am as a partner so I know I wouldnt let them down
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 10:45 PM
2

I just dont see how being honest with your partner has any upsides
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 01:32 PM
1

My problem is I don’t have the life experience to prove them wrong, so I sit here caught in the merry go round
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 05:10 AM
-1

Uh that’s not exclusive to late gen z
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 03:30 AM
1

I thought it was looking yourself in the mirror every day and saying “I am great” out loud a few times
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 11:05 PM
1

Set objective goals based on objective metrics and try to meet them
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 11:04 PM
1

Even though I know nothing about it I feel it’s all bullshit. I know my past traumas have influenced my subconscious. Still doesn’t change the objective facts that are true because they’re externally determined
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 10:49 PM
2

Save a little bit of every pay check and invest it into stocks and other things like that. Trust me. Even like 10% each paycheck makes a difference when you’re 30. Money goes, assets dont
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 09:53 PM
1

You can’t discount the left photo if you don’t look like the guy on the left
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 08:11 PM
1

Top 3 are fluff and mean nothing. The bottom 3 are fine, albeit generic
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 08:09 PM
1

Because I have mental issues. It’s hard to understand why but spiritually I feel like an incel. I guarantee if I was 21 and single now I would fall for an RP grifter
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 09:40 AM
1

Same! I’m getting these so regularly now
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 09:33 AM
1

Theres a double standard. Get over it. It’s what we have to accept based on the fact a small % of us men take sex by force
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 09:32 AM
2

Good point. Despite my situation everything is not fine and my life isnt perfect
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 09:30 AM
3

Human psychology is weird and cannot be grouped
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 09:29 AM
1

Pro’s?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 09:27 AM
2

Tonnes of social interactions Train your brain to think quicker Watch on youtube
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 09:27 AM
3

What does it matter? I’m kinda trad but have nothing nice to say about that religion
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 06:33 AM
1

Well depends on the context
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 06:32 AM
1

Eh I’m really flexible with lifestyle in the short to medium term. I also think people here in Australia are all quite similar and you don’t get much extreme variance
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 01:55 AM
1

Thats why I never understand people who constantly date. I feel like I can be 95% compatible with many people so idk how people are perpetually single and still looking
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 11:58 PM
1

Why don’t you look after him
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 11:43 PM
2

I find your two examples pretty accurate, however in defence of incel rhetoric: Example one: There will always be someone who is so physically attractive to you that you would be receptive to that approach. Example two: There will be people not physically attractive to you at all, or even conventionally attractive, to get this method to work
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 10:58 PM
1

I would love to learn the clarinet. It’s the instrument of my heritage
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 08:46 AM
1

I think modern, left leaning, politically engaged, US women who hate their fathers are drawn to not masculine looking men playing masculine type roles
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 02:51 AM
1

All the time, but it’s repressed because I’m not a narcissist (I think)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 02:42 AM
1

You’ve only been feeling that lately??
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 02:07 AM
2

Good advice
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 02:05 AM
4

A lot of people don’t know any better so they don’t exactly realize how isolated they are compared to older generations. Or maybe we’re not, and the internet really does alleviate loneliness. Or are you talking about dating only?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 02:04 AM
3

You have 3 ex husbands…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 12:27 AM
-3

Who says women dont listen to their own advice? Have you seen this play out IRL instead of one fake news article??
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 12:26 AM
1

Greek background, 2nd generation
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 10:41 PM
2

You dont need to learn greek. They’re very english proficient there. But also, stay away from our women pls
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 10:03 PM
0

Location?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 09:16 PM
1

Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 09:12 PM
1

You know it doesnt always mean you need to physically touch grass
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 09:04 PM
1

Greece. But idk how a black guy would be received there for dating
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 09:02 PM
1

People do put all their cards on the table though?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 11:21 AM
0

Safety is another aspect to that as well
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 07:50 AM
0

Just because you’re disabled it doesn’t mean you take it out on us
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 07:37 AM
4

Well what do you want then
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 04:05 AM
2

So fucking sick this blue pill slander. Like every argument against you people is just blue pill propaganda apparently. No one is denouncing cold approach. If you vibe with someone you’re allowed to get numbers at supermarket, gym or even funeral. What we don’t propose you interrupt someone working out, make them take out their airpods, compliment their form then immediately ask them out for coffee.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 03:59 AM
-1

I’m 50/50 on that statement about preferences changing by thinking about it. Height is the main example I can think of where it is relatively arbitrary and nonsense to have as a strict preference
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 03:33 AM
2

Not saying I agree or disagree with your statement but it made me laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 06:19 AM
1

I’m surprised your mind went there. Reading the first couple of sentences I thought you were going to say what happens if you’re not attractive enough for her. That’s what my mentality would be
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 06:01 AM
2

Welp it’s nearly saturday night here already
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 05:56 AM
1

Closest you’ve been to losing it?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 05:49 AM
0

Sounds like she’s a red flag tbh. Sounds like she’s too stupid to see that fighting against the system (of outdated controlling office attendance) is most masculine
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 05:48 AM
1

Our stories seem similar
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 11:35 PM
1

Isnt what you did considered monkey branching?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 11:33 PM
3

Idk if cute is how I would describe it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 11:33 PM
0

There will never be sufficient “do this” advice because ultimately it’s up to you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 01:14 PM
0

Yeah like me against ND men in this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 01:06 PM
0

What advice is acceptable to you then?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 10:19 AM
-1

You’re on a hateful mood today. Is everything ok in your personal life?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 10:17 AM
0

Why don’t you propose to be a mod then
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 10:17 AM
1

Everyone is off limits if they cant shelve characteristics of their “type” for the greater good of a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 10:15 AM
1

It’s for kids…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 06:33 AM
1

Life lesson: dont reference reddit. You get a certain type of person here that doesnt reflect reality
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 06:33 AM
1

Is geopolitical hot takes allowed in this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 06:31 AM
2

Of course it’s an insult it just shows the right don’t have their shit together, and if they don’t have their shit together they need to step off
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 06:28 AM
1

I really feel sorry for lower class people who are just to uneducated to have the right maturity for life
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 06:26 AM
2

Just the women?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 06:23 AM
3

I don’t claim that at all. In fact I highly suggest struggling guys to passport bro it. One of my good friends goes regularly to thailand. Half of the girls he’s with are 10/10 pro’s of course but the other half are legitimate people with normal jobs who live in the city
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 06:22 AM
1

Can you leave my australian nostalgia out of this please
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 06:19 AM
1

I hope my daughters aren’t straight tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 10:47 PM
1

Yes. Kinda to prove how great I am compared to others. I have issues
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 10:03 PM
2

Not more no, maybe equally acceptable yeah but to say more is disingenuous
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 10:02 PM
5

This is the branch of feminism which I’m on board with. As a proud vanilla normie, I find bdsm and porn-category sex kinda abhorrent
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 10:01 PM

Good. Kids are amazing. If I could go back in time I would have heaps
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 05:20 AM

Real crims drink prime
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 05:19 AM

About what?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 05:18 AM

It’s fucked up and it gets the best of us. My story as follows: Mom moved out without us when I was 8 years old because of divorce. She was, and still is in my life but as a kid and teen I only saw her max twice a week (one of those days was a school pickup, then staying the night before she dropped us off to school - so barely counts as a day). Fast forward to me marrying my HS sweetheart at 26. She is nothing like my mom re looks and personality. Fast forward to me as a 30 year old meeting a n…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 05:15 AM

I think RP has a place for the genuinely clueless man who does have any knowledge of pills. Granted they need to be mature enough to not fall for grifters
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 05:03 AM
1

Combination of being lucky and meeting someone receptive/extroverted, obviously having rizz, charm and confidence helps. Of course looks plays a part but to me it more so impacts the method of approach. The better looking you are the colder the approach you can take I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 05:01 AM

I’m blue as they come but I don’t think RP is a scam, it’s just one approach that may work for some
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 12:29 AM
1

And what changed for you? How did you break it and how have you gotten more than the 1st
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 11:22 PM
1

So whats your timeline with all this sex because you were a 34 year old virgin right? How old are you now and whats your body count? What changed for you that you couldnt do from 18-34
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 11:19 PM
2

I’m like that. I work on the 30th floor in my building but I take the lift down, then a seperate lift to the basement to access the communal change rooms (which are empty) to go there. I can’t go if people are walking in and out or can hear me
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 11:11 PM
1

Bad is the wrong word. I think it’s concerning yeah and an orange flag
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 10:56 PM
2

Did you fuck her
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 10:55 PM
1

I can only give hypotheticals as I have no dating experience. I could probably go on multiple first and second dates with people at the same time but once I sleep with one, I would be more focused on them I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 10:54 PM
1

Ok we’ll see who actually has that take
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 09:59 PM
1

Too many are obsessed with the method of meeting dates. “Don’t cold approach!” Etc. The method is meaningless. Vibe reigns supreme. If you vibe with someone, no one will care or judge or reject you if you’ve approached someone at a gym, at the supermarket or during a funeral
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 09:18 PM
2

A race isn’t really a physical preference when people from said races could look different
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 09:12 PM
1

Outline what makes you purple pill
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 08:56 PM
2

How about being into some one based on personality instead
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 08:54 PM

I do all of those and still manage to antagonise incels
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 10:30 AM

Yeah I feel like the top one. If someone wanted you, you would have been asked/invited without you prompting
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 10:29 AM
1

Yep and that makes you a nice guy and any woman who refuses you and says they want a nice guy is gaslighting society!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 10:25 AM

Who tf disagrees that men are meaner and bully more. We are the competitive gender and part of competition is being above others. Now where we’ve failed is we someone started shitting on women for some reason
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 07:17 AM

Well it means don’t act like someone you’re not. Advice is even more relevant now with social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 07:13 AM

It’s like if someone not from your race learnt your language in their spare time. That’s the equivalent feeling
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 07:07 AM

Controversial topic incoming: I find something weirdly accepting of trans men
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 04:48 AM
2

Your way of thinking is wrong, and that discounts your whole argument. No one really helps wheelchaired people onto a bus, no one really cares about climate or political tensions, no one cares about suffering etc otherwise you would be a full blown SJW if you really cared. Actions speak louder than your internal sentiment. Do you help at a charity?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 02:00 AM

Oh is that a joke? I thought it was a real observation about them
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 01:13 AM

You’re asking what I would do, I would be tempted to go and see because I think external validation is the one true validation. If they all popped their balloons it would cut me for a few days but I know I have the last laugh being married with a kid
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 11:11 PM

Hmmmm depends which photo I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 11:10 PM

Idk what people are like in your part of the world, but here in kangaroo land people generally keep to themselves. No one really “approaches” anyone apart from when they’re drunk at a bar. It’s liquid confidence so like mongo said, you’re getting unfiltered opinion that they think you’re hot at that specific moment in time
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 11:08 PM

Yeah this comment exactly. I personally would find it weird but I wont judge someone who wanted to do goofy shit like this
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 11:04 PM

So what happens if the trio dont pop a balloon at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 10:57 PM

Yeah bro your face is fine, especially when your beard and mo are really short
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 10:54 PM
2

My observation is the opposite to you. Only the immature and teenagers simp for pretty boys. No one sane over the age of 23 likes twinky little boys. Sorry, I feel like your expose to women is only through high school or via reddit nerdy women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 09:35 AM
1

😂😂 maybe it’s true
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 07:10 AM
1

Same, late oct
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 06:55 AM
1

Are you a scorpio?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 06:51 AM
2

Optimism with what though? I’m generally a positive person and tend to look at the good in people. So overall maybe a 7/10. Enthusiasm? 2/10. My mum wonders why I’m not passionate about things
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 06:47 AM
1

Ok well as a fellow blue piller you can admit that the trends are not real
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 12:00 AM
1

Elaborate? I dont have tik tok
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 11:28 PM

Unrelated question, do you think it’s normal to have a girlfriend while also going to rub and tugs
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 01:09 PM

Did anywhere in your post of my comment any of us mention autism or health issues? Anywhere? Sorry I’m battling a cold right now so not sure if my vision is being blurry
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 01:01 PM

Your comment is so stupid and not sure if you’re intentionally being like that or are genuinely so stupid you took that comment like that. No one is talking about the tiny % who are visibly and physically disabled.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 01:00 PM

The billions of people in relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 12:57 PM

Main thread
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 12:24 PM

The premises of most main thread posts on this sub are just fundamentally wrong. How can you debate something that is just wrong from the get go
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 12:05 PM

Because being unsuccessful makes no sense to me. Especially as you surpass teenage years. Even me, never single as an adult, very average looking, no friends or social circle who isnt in a LTR, clubbing maybe 30 times in my life, has still had a small handful of interest from other girls. It’s small, but considering I’ve never been looking it’s still come my way. You have no excuses in 2025 to not be on a legitimate relationship focused dating app like hinge or eharmony. In the age of instagram …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 08:48 AM

I dont think I’ve ever cummed from giving. Never heard of anyone who can
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 12:44 AM

Your haircut is fine, but lose the stach. Don’t ever let your hair get as long as the other photo, it’s not a good look
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 12:41 AM

Too masculine? That doesn’t make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 12:40 AM

Who tf wants their wife to take a paternity test? If you don’t trust her, then leave ffs
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 12:38 AM
1

Maybe you think she deserves your attention more because she broke your virginity first
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 04:08 AM
1

Whats going on
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 04:03 AM
1

Idk what context you mean but I get a kick out of seeing woe-is-me so I’m here until I’m 90
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 04:02 AM
2

I agree with you, even though I’ve never used it I think it’s a great tool for meeting people wanting to date
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 03:58 AM
1

Inb4 the incels here call you a cuck
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 03:56 AM
1

You dont. It’s a made up condition along with autism. Just act normal please
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 03:54 AM
1

Sorry she is actually insane. People who have no idea about corporate life have this mentality
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 03:54 AM
0

Good on you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 03:50 AM

I wasn’t talking about dating, I was talking about your general privileged mentality. Date whoever you want
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 04:43 AM
1

Sorry I should have specified that I do work, and it was only a short term stint (3 months) where I was on paid parental leave. But essentially I was a SAH dad
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 04:31 AM

Whilst my life mirrors your step by step guide, I can’t help but feel like it’s super privileged to think it’s that easy. Wealth inequality is intergenerational and the “get a good job” mentality isn’t applicable to poorer people. Not everyone has the luxury of sacrificing salary for education, not everyone is taught the life skills to work their way up a corporate ladder. I generally agree with your takes on dating, but this is way too right wing for me to come around to
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 04:29 AM

It is easy, and I don’t half ass it. In fact I did more because I was responsible for the outside the house also
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 03:57 AM

Think about if your parents had a new car every decade, luxury designer bags, yearly vacations etc. Funny how a “good life” now includes ultra luxury things from 20 years ago
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 03:55 AM

No, but it’s fucking weird. Weird enough to break up
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 12:31 AM
1

But I’m more attracted to people who are attracted to me. Like I view a conventional 9/10 lower than a 6/10 who checks me out (rare scenario)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 12:02 PM
1

Idk how people do it. All I know is an LTR mentality so I need mutual feelings there first
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 11:48 AM
1

If you get into arguments here just summon me and I’ll support you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 02:27 AM
2

A higher power gave you the final confirmation to remove her
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 01:50 AM

I really doubt that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 07:39 AM

It’s not as easy to explain. It’s a feeling I guess. They usually call it “vibe”. It’s a combination of physically attractive to her, having rizz etc. You could have just come across as stock standard nice guy which are actually very common in your age range
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 07:36 AM

I wouldn’t take her word at face value. I doubt she is articulate enough to explain how she really thinks which is you don’t sweep her off her feet at first meet
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 07:22 AM

By god I can picture half the guys here being like that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 07:20 AM

Because your dysmorphia is solely based on trying to get dates. The intention isn’t as genuine as a gender transition
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 07:18 AM

Clearly no one else does fml
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 07:11 AM
1

In a non-dating way, it’s depressing that I don’t consciously signal for an approach from anyone, but would actually be open to anyone approaching for a conversation. Even when I had 3 months off work for one on one time with my 9 month old, no one of any age or gender wanted to approach about the baby
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 05:20 AM
1

How old are you to be out of the game a long time
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 05:17 AM

But I’m not a gooner though
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 05:12 AM
1

Yeah we do, Sydney. Yes his looks and photos are probably crap
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 04:40 AM

RP, jeff nippard
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 04:38 AM

100% this
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 04:38 AM

Yeah but people need to get their head out of their ass and realize the radfems are not that wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 04:28 AM

90’s/early 2000’s is the best era imo. Technology is just good enough so you’re not bored but not too consuming. Music was top tier then also and my sporting team were decent lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 04:26 AM

I’m not convinced he has no game. My friend gets nothing tangible because the rare match only responds to small talk and goes quiet when trying to organise a date
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 11:44 AM

Geez your standards seem low, or misguided
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 06:21 AM

How do you make these observations about me that feel accurate without actually knowing me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 06:06 AM

What’s depressing is that if I was single I feel like I’m half of this. What applies: The “best foot forward” line would be something similar. Mine would be “I’ve never dated before etc etc”. The texting strategy. Although I have a tonne of pride and fragile ego so any non response I wouldn’t text ever again. Non threatening appearance I guess? Meaning I’m just average. Dating app would be the only way I get dates. I would start any matches with a tailed response to their prompt. So I guess it m…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 04:51 AM

I can’t answer that until I lose weight. I’m not trying to pick up, so my goals are different and just want to look good in all different styles of clothing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 04:03 AM

See you got nothing to worry about since you have others to validate you, and you can seek that validation over and over again
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 03:44 AM

I want to be a hot bro
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 03:38 AM
-6

Ok you want to be sarcastic then let’s break it down: Autism: Since it’s a spectrum what does that involve exactly? What part of autism is stopping you from having a conventional social life, a conventional appearance and creating a serious OLD profile? Introversion: Everybody is introverted in some way. Just because you don’t chat a girl up at a bar doesn’t mean you can’t be friendly with others you meet in education or work
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 03:33 AM

Do you generally have low self esteem?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 03:16 AM

Where do these opinions come from? No one I know talks like this irl so I don’t know how the hidden sentiment is nurtured
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 03:13 AM
-3

No they’re not bad people but it gets to a point where I start asking questions of your personality
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 02:58 AM

Yeah until I like what I see in the mirror reddit ain’t seeing much of me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 02:48 AM

We’re still yet to do a reveal..
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 01:32 AM

Good man. Cast a wide net
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 01:07 AM

Are you obese or just chubby?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 01:06 AM

Unlikely tbh when porn, thailand, and countries with legal sex work exists
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 12:31 AM

Not a W but it would be logical to meet there. It would also be logical to not be weirded out if the man offers to pick you up
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 12:27 AM

Average is subjective
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 12:25 AM
1

I’m not convinced it “is what it is” with preferences like that. Try and dig deeper and think about it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 09:23 PM

I really wonder how my approach would go if I was to ever date. I’m too used to the LTR, semi-trad mentality so I would be very forward with dates. If I wanted to be in a relationship with someone I would say it without this “what are we” game. Planning a date I would offer early to pick them up. Would that be a red flag nowadays
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 01:42 AM

I got downvoted for that… ok
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 11:48 PM

Mens 2nd ranking is my type I think
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 11:43 PM

Daily thread…?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 11:41 PM

Incel logic on this makes no sense because they read too many ghetto tweets from ghetto women about ghetto men
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 11:41 PM
1

It starts small then snowballs
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 09:35 PM
1

I really hate men who are like this. Problem is you never hear about it until it’s too late
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 08:21 PM
1

Do you ever plan on taking responsibility for anything
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 08:18 PM
2

You still do this 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 08:16 PM
1

TIL askmenadvice sub is even more incely than this one..
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 11:46 AM
1

Idk what it’s like over there but here you gotta be a real typical chad to get obvious IOI’s. Even in a club setting
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 05:31 AM
1

And do you try and pick up?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 10:31 PM

Incelistan
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 08:23 AM

My surname is unique and I am proud of my heritage and proud that theres only a handful of us here in this country. I don’t care if someone doesn’t take my surname, but theres no way I’m changing mine
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 06:16 AM
1

It’s all relative to age I think. 10-20 people when you’re 30 is fine compared to 10-20 when you’re 21. But what do I know with my 1 n count…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 06:10 AM

What about for 10 grand
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 02:19 AM

Have you been to thailand
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 02:15 AM

Preach
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 02:14 AM

You can’t complain if you dont try though
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 02:14 AM
1

This man earns probably all our salaries combined in a year
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 03:09 AM
1

I understand the mismatch between the app users being pickier than irl women but it doesn’t change the fact that women on apps want to date and be in a relationship of some form. So a guy struggling should 100% throw the kitchen sink to the apps and singles events.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 02:54 AM
1

Yes but online men are intentionally inflammatory and intentionally contrarian to their real life persona. Once again, theres an over correction. Men are misogynist/sexist/body shamers. All women are beautiful campaign comes in. Red pill looksism gets prominent, so men feel like they need to be 666. Men feel like they’re gaslighted based on above. Men intentionally shit on women to bring their egos down.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 02:49 AM

I feel like I am way pickier with personality standards than looks. Problem is I’ve never dated around so idk if “the one” exists or I could have a happy marriage with different types of people
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 09:36 PM

Are you talking about looks only?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 09:23 PM

Look I’m the biggest male man-hater you’ll meet but I don’t think that’s the right mentality to have
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 09:15 PM

I need one but I have a family to feed, and besides, my issues are too deeply rooted for therapy to “cure” me in the short term
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 09:13 PM
1

Preach
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 08:59 PM
1

😂😂😂😂 no
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 07:25 AM

His response to you doing gf stuff is understandable. It’s called having pride and self respect. How does he know you wont pull the same shit as last time. If you came back to his life (as you did) but denied sex he would have had nothing to do with you this week
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 08:21 PM

I don’t ever cry, I might just have a few tears drop down and that’s it. I don’t think I can physically sob
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 08:16 PM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 08:07 PM

Nah man far from it, trust me
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 07:18 AM

Make up is socially accepted for regular use and, in comparison, is used for non-dating purposes unlike “heightfishing”. The contacts comparison is just an example of a guy wanting a girl with blue eyes, so she wears the contacts for that purpose. I am arguing height and eye color are equally arbitrary nonsense requirements
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 07:15 AM

He thinks I’m a chad and you’re downplaying it :-(
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 07:11 AM

You’ve seen me. You rate how chopped I am
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 07:01 AM

Ouch, I am personally offended
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 07:01 AM

I don’t think the comparison to heels or make-up are fair. It’s not the same at all. However, when something arbitrary and quite frankly, a bullshit metric to compatibility like being 6’ is a filter on the apps, then how do these 5 somethings guys navigate that? Maybe wearing colored contacts to make your eyes look blue is a fairer comparison, especially if the guy only wants someone with blue eyes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 06:58 AM

Mostly, maybe hair related stuff as well. I think jaw surgery for example is unnecessary unless is really bad
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 12:45 AM

Is white passing like south european/middle eastern?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 11:57 PM

Blue pill doesn’t mean being an emotional cuck. I still have tonnes and tonnes of pride. I still believe you should looksmaxx (but it’s not the be all). I just don’t subscribe to AWALT regarding extreme hypergamy and no loyalty, so on that, I cannot be red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 11:56 PM

At least you’re getting attention. Some people get nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 09:27 PM

Yes we are real
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 09:22 PM

Probably the first. I need love and if the second really loved me she wouldn’t act like that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 09:21 PM
2

Well it’s about to hit wednesday in kangaroo land so at least the world hasnt ended for you all
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 12:30 PM

🤷🏻‍♂️ i refuse to accept what my SMV is until it’s tested irl
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 05:42 AM

My overall point is, we will never see the end of RP misogynist ultra chads because there is a positive reinforcement from women. I don’t want to blame women here, but would probably like a consensus because there is, and there will be, a million more articles in the future about tate, red pill, manosphere etc
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 05:39 AM

Theres like a whole tv sitcom trope about the annoying wife who nags. Yet the husband is a dud but the wife is the bad one
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 01:19 AM

Yeah I know it sounds stupid. RP grifters are gonna grift
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 01:14 AM

I thought some of his photos were quite decent and normal
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 12:44 AM

Do you blame him? I don’t and would probably do the same no hesitation
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 12:44 AM

This article about a journalist following an RP’er has lingered with me: https://www.theguardian.com/society/2025/may/25/nick-wanted-to-drop-bodyfat-and-build-his-own-micro-harem-of-women-how-my-friend-fell-for-the-red-pill-hucksters-of-the-manosphere I don’t subscribe to AWALT normally, especially when it comes to loyalty for example. I think you can have a good life with a good woman as an average man. Theres just too many of those average couple around to discount it. However, I want to try a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 12:38 AM
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I can lean on my wife to give that maternal nurturing side like I described, but I wouldn’t play those cards early on in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 03:57 AM
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Once again the devil is in the details. Seems like men interpret vulnerable as “please let me cry on your lap, caress and mollycoddle me”. They want that maternal nurturing. What I think women mean (works well for me) is don’t be afraid to talk about your fears, your worries, things you might be scared about, or things that make you happy or proud etc. IDK I could be way off
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 02:50 AM
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I did. Great success!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 12:15 PM
1

My wife is 2. What should I do
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 12:08 PM
1

Do you love this guy? If yes stay with him and let him breed you. If no, move the fuck on
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 12:06 PM
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Let them pay. You gotta be stupid as a woman to value fake status like that over common sense with money
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 02:31 AM
1

Yeah if I don’t release after a couple of weeks I start having them
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 10:26 AM
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I think it’s healthy to reassure each other often. Even after 13 years of being together I still do this. However I believe in logic representing the sensible and correct path. Without treating it black or white, logic should be the default approach
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 04:01 AM

Sure I’ll join
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 02:27 PM

And whats this discord going to be about
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 02:24 PM

Idk a scam or something. Why only young men
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 01:28 PM

Sounds like bait
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 01:17 PM

What made you come to that conclusion
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 01:17 PM
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Yeah but for men it’s about casting a wide net and seeing who bites. If women wanted a more tailored matching then they should stick to a proper dating platform (maybe like e harmony?)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 07:24 AM
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Yes we here in Australia probably factor in a multitude of things. The defence would argue they were long term friends so she wasn’t trying to murder him and it was an impulsive act under the influence. The method is concerning and probably lead to the higher sentence compared to stabbing with a kitchen knife for example. But I haven’t studied law so idk
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 07:09 AM

Well it depends how you use the time saved from commuting. If you’re doing nothing productive then consider the change, especially if you’re talking a 30 grand a year pay rise for example
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 07:05 AM
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A life for a life. He is still alive then so should she be (If you’re reading this FBI or whichever country’s federal investigation unit applies, please monitor this user)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 06:51 AM
1

If that’s actually true at least eye contact is better than being invisible
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 06:48 AM
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No. But the minute you add a few more years it gets concerning, unless the guy is a genuine nice guy who is low experienced as well
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 06:47 AM

20-30 min commute is nothing. Anything over one hour one way is too much
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 06:46 AM
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I don’t think your sentence around true remorse is true. I just read an article where she regretted it instantly. Yes she was under the influence but obviously no excuse. The guy didnt die, so when you factor in that, as well as question if she is a risk to society, I think 7.5 years is OK as a sentence
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 06:44 AM
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Yes I’m with you as it would be the opposite to what I’ve had. But you can’t discount many men, or maybe the majority, that have that view of wanting someone more “wifey” at an older age
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 03:50 AM
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Idk I find the more conventionally unattractive they are (obese, indian, hijabis for example) the more staring and IOI’s they display
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 03:48 AM
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I was going to say it’s the opposite to OP. The more unattractive the more IOI’s I think I see. Noting I am really bad at identifying IOI’s
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 12:50 AM
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Nah not a gamer at all. If I was a dream man I’m sure I would have known about it by now
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 12:44 AM
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And you don’t think men reduce standards as they get older? Perfect example is dating a party girl in your early 20’s and not be willing to date her if she was 30 living the same lifestyle
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 11:42 PM
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I only use reddit on my phone, and in fact I don’t actually own a pc or laptop
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 11:38 PM
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My work friend who I occasionally hang with outside of work goes multiple times a year to SEA. Half passport bro half sex tourist. He pays for tinder for a bit and changes location to over there and gets genuine matches with genuine non-sex workers. So for example a week trip to thailand would be 3 days with a sex worker and 3 days with a normal girl with a normal job. He wants to bring one over here one day but I think waiting for the best one idk
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 11:37 PM
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Men do the same. Do you think passport bros would be participating in that life if they were fine in their home country? Come on
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 11:31 PM
1

I hate it when you post tik tok content 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 11:30 PM
1

That’s alright, neither have I post school
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 10:54 PM
1

Are you talking about early 2000’s ringtones?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 10:54 PM
1

I love artwork like this
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 10:53 PM

It’s something I’ve thought about if I was ever to become single for the first time in my life. Would I only ever be comfortable with someone in a similar situation to me? Or the perpetual single person at 30 years old who probably had that phase. Can you ever truely love someone who is willing to give love that easily? Kinda takes the magic away if you ask me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 10:51 PM

And why do you think that is?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 10:07 PM

I just can’t fathom someone at that age not getting matches on the apps. Sorry I’m showing my trad side but most women still want that married with kids life so by their late 20’s the standards start slipping. Almost no excuses not to be spamming the apps and singles events
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 08:54 PM

Preach. I still have a packet of fin that I am too scared to start taking incase my pp stops working
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 08:49 PM

My brain can’t comprehend that scenario turning into anything more. Even if cupids arrow hit me, it wouldn’t feel right to hit on a stranger like that and try to get their number. It sounds way too entitled and egotistical. Maybe I am too reddit feminist brained?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 08:42 PM

I am happy for you. What’s your dating life like
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 01:51 PM

Well what do you want them to do
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 11:41 AM

My friend loves eating it. I just don’t see the appeal
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 09:30 AM

It turns to cold water
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 09:28 AM
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And if that’s all someone knew, then a normal person would seem smart
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 09:16 AM
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Getting annoyed at no nuanced RP takes. A man has to be educated and well spoken? Da fuck is that bullshit. Go outside and interact with different classes of people. I can only give context from my location, but the really low socioeconomic girls think anyone who says “hence” or “thus” is educated. My wife who has no idea about politics thinks I’m smart because I know what left vs right wing is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 08:10 AM
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Don’t give up on the weight loss and don’t give up on abusing the apps and singles events
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 06:12 AM
1

Why hello there. Any updates on weight loss and virginity status
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 05:00 AM
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I also went through your post history and you have an acceptable body and that shouldnt deter others. I highly doubt your face is as bad as you think. If I had to be really nitpicky, like really picky then change your workouts to become more broad shouldered. You look really narrow and I personally don’t rate that body style. Idk if you can actually change that via upper chest and upper back workouts etc or if it’s genetics
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 02:40 AM
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Can someone from outside the US explain a horsegirl
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 02:36 AM
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I would start feeling sorry for looksmaxxed guys who are well rounded, financially stable with real hobbies and adult interests (so no anime and gaming) not getting any matches at all. Look, I’m super inexperienced so not sure how you go from socializing to dating so I still think OLD is supreme because at least you’re dealing with people who want to be in a relationship. Singles events is similar to OLD
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 10:46 PM
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This is karma for years of good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 09:44 PM
1

Well yeah who tf wants their friends to have a hotter partner than yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 08:33 PM
1

Work for a large company in their head office doing officey things with spreadsheets, meetings etc
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 08:31 PM
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In my team/department no. Around the office yeah but clearly not with me
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 08:29 PM
1

We have to be in over 50%
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 08:26 PM

Having a miserable time at work lately. No one reaches out to me anymore so I’m feeling isolated. I purposely stopped reaching out to most people these last few weeks since everyone is “busy” lately. All I want are coffee catchups, a lunch break together or maybe a drink after work. Obviously not all in one day but at least something. I need a social environment. I can’t stand coming in, saying a few words of small talk to the person next to me, lunch on my own and then going home. Otherwise wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 01:04 PM

At least you’re here
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 12:52 PM

My mood lately
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 11:54 AM

Like who?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 11:54 AM
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Yes. Without going into it I had that quarter (or third?) life crisis at 30. Nothing tangible changed with my life because it couldn’t, but mentally I’ve haven’t been the same since
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 06:55 AM
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Well not really. Not everyone gets a chance at finding themselves until later on in life, and by then, you’re long term married
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 06:30 AM

Most womens toys I’ve seen are the size of my index finger. Lay off the porn
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 03:57 AM

I wouldn’t say need is the right word. It’s about lack of accessibility I think
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 03:53 AM
1

Something something jews owning america something something
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 01:57 AM
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It’s such a weird thing because here in kangaroo land no one does it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 01:45 AM

I find women colleagues treat me decently compared to single guys at work because I’m not a threat. I don’t think it’s because I treat them better, or maybe it is idk. I’m just myself 🤷🏻‍♂️ I have heard the “ohhhh you’re married” line before. Now writing this I’m actually not sure how they mean that. Hmmm
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 01:40 AM

Well I guess if I was single I would probably get insta to fit in. Then the other red flag would be I only have under a hundred followers. God damn I am royally fucked if I became single
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 11:37 PM

This is my problem if I was single. I’m so used to multiple times a week so how would I match that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 11:35 PM

It’s a back handed compliment. Same as saying to a woman she looks masculine
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 11:34 PM

I’ve only got fb. I find it pathetic it’s considered a red flag in dating. Sorry I’m not a phone obsessed zombie
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 11:31 PM

It’s never the same
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 11:29 PM

Single men would be happier but people who want relationships wont
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 10:50 PM

Boo i dont have tiktok
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 10:48 PM

How would you get your physical needs met then?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 10:47 PM

Great thanks for that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 09:40 PM

Yes I would. Especially if they framed it as “you would look nicer in xyz”. Please note I am a serial people pleaser
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 08:23 PM
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😂😂 I was being slightly hyperbolic
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 10:25 AM
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No I genuinely don’t want other straight men succeeding in anything. Unless they’re my friend of course, then I want them to succeed less than me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 07:04 AM
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Kinda correct but it’s not a bluepill thing, it’s a peak masculinity/neanderthal tribal thing where I don’t want any other males taking my potential resources. Whether that’s money or women or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 04:52 AM
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If you saw her on an app don’t waste time
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 04:48 AM
1

How are you so wise
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 03:19 AM
1

So how do baseless compliments compare to ethnic style “you’re too fat to find a husband” type of remarks
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 03:01 AM
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What’s the PPD verdict on biased motherly opinions like that? I never got those childhood compliments. I also have low self esteem so idk if it’s correlated
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 12:34 AM

Colleague (who is a 9-5 friend, meaning plenty of communication during the week 9-5 but nothing on weeknights and weekends) has been seeing a guy for 10 months now. She hasn’t told him that a month before she was seeing him she had a bad breakup with an ex, was heartbroken and he left her with an unwanted pregnancy he didn’t know about and she aborted it. It was traumatic for her. Should she ever tell her current bf? Since I’ve been with my wife since 17 there isn’t many major moments in my life…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 01:35 PM
2

The friends to lovers route is harder because if someone is initially attracted to you they will want to impress you. Friendship comes after successfully impressing the other person. Friendship allows walls to drop and flaws to be exposed. No one wants their flaws out in the open when trying to impress someone. That being said, people put friends in three categories: No attraction, hell no to dating. Neutral attraction, could be open to it but it doesn’t cross their mind during the friendship. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 01:28 PM

The gym only counts if it looks like you lift. If you don’t, then you can’t seriously claim it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 06:41 AM

Invested financially or just their time and effort?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 05:54 AM
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I try not to comment on the “this could be me if I was single tomorrow” scenario but regardless of his t shirt, does he really deserve that much rejection
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 03:01 AM
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Ignore them. Be petty
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 02:58 AM
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I think you can still have success at higher body fat if you’re carrying muscle also. But then again what do I know. I’ve been 25-30% my whole life and only ever have had a handful of women interested
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 02:58 AM

We’re in 2025 and women still don’t understand that men view sex as a goal and reward? Money means greater access to women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 12:52 PM

So most women don’t have the approach to see “how he makes me feel”?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 06:20 AM

I need to know what you look like, your profile, and the time constraint for those 5 matches
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 05:16 AM
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Based on my flair you can agree that I sit outside of PPD lore. Conversations about dating is kinda like a foreign language to me but I enjoy it anyway. What swayed me to kinda agree with incels on this topic is when a colleague said her friend hadn’t had been laid for a while, so she just picked a random hot guy off the apps. Not interested in a relationship, not interested in his prompts. That felt icky to me. I honestly saw it as no different to my other colleagues/friends going to brothels o…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 04:52 AM
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I meant “we” as in “men”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 04:23 AM
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I dont think that’s true. Yes, a lot of terminally online guys think on the extremes regarding that but we’re not dumb, we know what’s a size to be proud of
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 04:21 AM

Without doing my research you haven’t really explained what it is though
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 04:19 AM

17ish but is it a real surprise given my relationship experience? Had a chance at either 15 or 16 can’t remember with another girl but I chickened out. Real question would be when would I have lost it if I never got with my wife at 17
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 02:41 AM

What does sex positive mean exactly? I think I might be sex negative lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 02:39 AM

Idk man I think women are more subjected to genetics than we are. They have more body shapes than we do. Therefore they could be limited to their glowups
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 02:37 AM

I both respect and detest you at the same time. Idk how you find fulfilment with that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 02:35 AM

Interesting video. I find those people who say redpill stuff out loud so cringe (like that old guy in the video). Reaffirms my blue pill stance
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 02:30 AM

Show me you and ill show you me. Have shared with funed already
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 02:10 PM

Fair
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 01:31 PM

Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 01:31 PM

Tell me how you lost your virginity
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 01:31 PM

I refuse to judge this guy until I step in his shoes. For now, and most likely forever, I will never experience soft rejection like that so if he is still alive and hasn’t jumped off a cliff he’s handling it better than I would
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 01:29 PM

What do you mean by that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 01:24 PM

I probably would get that rating
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 01:23 PM

You found my face reveal
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 01:22 PM

I don’t believe your stats
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 01:19 PM

Wtf have I missed here the last few months
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 01:16 PM
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Ouch. Getting rejected after a face reveal would be suifuel for me
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 01:52 PM
1

😂😂 thanks I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 11:08 PM
1

Barely.. I’m a busy man for most but not for you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 10:59 PM
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Me. In fact I have never been single as an adult male
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 09:32 PM
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I’m sad that no one summoned me here. However I have been inactive on this sub for a couple of months now. I can only go off friends and what I see is that most people end up with their looksmatch. So you kinda need to know your market. My more “incel applicable” friend just refuses to lose weight, speak louder and be more confident. He gets no matches here in kangaroo land so has resorted to ppb’ing with success. I will come back and edit this with more thoughts
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 09:04 PM
1

Hmmm I think I would have too much pride for a double text
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 09:02 PM
1

I am my own male role model. I only really learnt how to be punctual and on time from my dad. Even now in his 60’s he is learning wisdom from me
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 08:55 PM
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But why can’t peoples priorities change? If a 21 year old guy doesn’t care if a girl can cook or clean, why can’t he change and become more trad when he is 31?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 01:30 AM
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I dont understand people who are friends with people they are physically attracted to. How does something not happen eventually
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 09:27 PM
1

Shrimp curry
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 05:02 AM
2

Hmmmm maybe Australia is different because the “big rough” look is extremely popular with gays here
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 05:00 AM
2

Congrats dude, I wish I was as disciplined as you. How much do you weigh now?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 04:57 AM
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You don’t. Unless they deserve it, but those metrics are not gendered specific. The disabled and disadvantaged deserve your empathy regardless of gender
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 04:47 AM
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Have we interacted before? Can’t remember. I was active here a few months ago but slowed down
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 11:54 PM
1

Mixed thoughts. I think every metric (looks, rizz, money etc) are sliding scales so each woman is willing to compromise on each of these metrics. I don’t think women are that delusional and notice most people stick to their looksmatch. I do acknowledge you should looksmaxx though to increase your chances, but vibe reigns supreme
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 11:10 PM
1

Huh? My wife actually likes it during foreplay
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 07:19 PM
1

Honestly? Reddit is not the answer. More progressive minded people don’t value anything traditional
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 03:53 AM
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Women compromise on looks so much more than you people think When they say attraction grows it means physical attraction. If they love you, you’re hotter than an objectively attractive person
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 03:00 AM

Yeah she was
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 04:37 AM

And thats why I love him
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 03:45 AM

I was talking about a she, roseybutterflies actually. She spent time with an ex, she was sexting the poo pilled guy, she was being openly thirsty/horny. All unlady like behaviour. Edit: 2025 is the year I go full trad
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 03:40 AM

Which one? The first guy? I wish
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 03:37 AM

Have I missed anything
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 02:22 AM

Sorry I mean the newer funed
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 01:57 AM

I’m still on and off. Theres an election here so doing my best to convince people on the relevant subs to vote for the party I support
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 01:56 AM

Haven’t been here for a while… hopefully my ppd friends like red sand and funed havent been banned yet
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 12:58 AM

It’s not official but maybe “good ass” energy. Meaning they know they got it and they know men want it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 12:54 AM
2

I would rather compete in 2 because I know my strengths are personality/romance. But I know I sit under category 1
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 09:43 PM
-3

Ok height yeah. What else?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 07:16 AM
-3

You can’t be both maxxed and average looking
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 10:28 PM
-1

Ugly is such a harsh word and should only be used for people that are genuinely deformed
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 08:26 PM
0

Please define what maxxed means to you in this context
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 08:23 PM
1

I swear you’ve asked this before
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 08:20 PM
1

I want to trigger americans so badly with my based bootlicker takes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 05:34 PM
1

😂😂😂😂 don’t worry
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 12:17 PM
1

Would this be your first time getting laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 10:44 AM
1

😂😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 10:43 AM
1

Sounds like you view sex as a reward, and that he didn’t deserve the reward for being racist. Yet you, who doesn’t use the n word, does not get a reward
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 10:40 AM
3

Don’t listen to “everyone says this” about things. Would you listen to those people who would give you that kind of advice about anything else? Don’t do engineering, don’t buy bitcoin, don’t do this, don’t do that etc etc. If you can’t meet women irl, then stick to online. Simple. If you are attractive as you say, then you’ll have no issues
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 09:09 AM
1

u/leosandlattes what are you personality assumptions on each?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 07:35 AM
1

Sorry to hear that, seems like you respected her
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 07:33 AM

Ha! Far from lean, traditional dad bod meaning yes, broad shouldered, big chest and back but still carrying too much weight. She is petite but has bigger hips than what you think and she would be considered “skinny fat”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 01:29 AM

Probably.. I know people reading this may think I have wrong intentions but I’m only commenting because I had so many people tell me the opposite would happen, that it would be a “magnet”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 01:28 AM

I live in Aus, so we don’t normally talk to strangers, but on the train, or at a crossing, men will reciprocate interaction if my child smiles or interacts with them. Women might do a half smile, and then look away. So so so strange
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:04 PM

You should close reddit and read another 10000 page russian book
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:01 PM

No lie, was watching a vlog of an incel talk about his struggles and during one part of the vid he raised his voice out of autistic rage and my child (who was in the vicinity of the phone) started laughing
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:00 PM

Without you, the daily thread would be dead
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 08:57 PM

On my day to day adventures with my 8 month old daughter it’s other men of all ages who say hi or have some kind of interaction with me or my kid. Grannies as well to be fair but that was expected. Half the time, women under 40 give 0 fucks about a baby staring, waving or smiling at them. It’s so bizarre because you would expect that demographic to be the cluckiest
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 08:48 PM
2

My coffee menu for when people visit: Espresso based coffee Instant hot Instant cold (greek frappe) Turkish coffee Filter brewed coffee Moka
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 08:43 PM

I am 1.8 and my wife is 1.53
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 08:38 PM
2

No, but would be willing if anyone approached me
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 05:55 AM
1

I would be concerned that they would leave me for the next guy who meets their fetish. But I do have severe abandonment issues so idk if that’s what is influencing my thoughts
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 05:53 AM
1

He should be put down
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 05:53 PM
1

People who are smug about books in 2025. Please stop
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 10:47 AM
1

Am I the only one who stares at a blank wall all day??
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 07:47 AM
2

It’s a farce. It’s so people feel smarter than others. Books are a joke when everything is online/audio now
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 05:09 AM
1

Thanks :-)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 03:24 AM
2

Sure, don’t feel you need to write an essay but what’s your lived experience
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 03:04 PM
1

Theres a lot of “it depends” on your scenario. Do I work fulltime in an office? If so, then I would need equal time to myself as well. Do I mainly work from home or don’t work at all? Then yes I would support and accept that routine. Gym is a good hobby, especially if the results are visible. If it’s just yoga then maybe I would need a day scaled back so twice a week for her, twice a week for myself, and the remaining three days all together
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 06:30 AM
1

Can I ask you if you believe the answers you’ve seen and has it changed your view on things at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 06:18 AM
3

😂😂😂😂😂who the fuck said that?? That’s so untrue
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 12:25 AM
2

Doesn’t sound very blue pill of you tbh. Sorry you have those feelings though. Are you isolated from people? Why don’t the apps work for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 12:24 AM
1

Unsure tbh however my take is that now that men are more willing to do housework, it may have removed that as a factor why someone is undatable (and given the rise to looks obsession). Watch old sitcoms/shows and the man is generally useless in it, but at least a man who cooked and cleaned 20+ years ago could use that as a reason to date him. Now, not so much I think
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 12:21 AM
1

So not even a casual fling?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 07:59 AM
1

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 nahhh bro most of them
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 07:58 AM
1

Nice bro
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 07:57 AM
1

Define success though. Building human connections either in acquaintances, friendships or relationships are part of our dna I guess. Otherwise we wouldn’t have evolved.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 06:29 AM
1

Now now you’re only allowed to sext one user at a time
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 06:27 AM
1

His bios suck and he may not be attractive enough for short term fun. But what do I know.. I got no idea what women are looking for online. Offline? Easy peasey
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 06:22 AM
2

Rough estimate, how many guys do you think here give off travis bickle vibes irl?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 06:12 AM
2

Gabagool
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 06:09 AM
1

How do you fuck for 3hrs? Is that all your first round?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 06:04 AM
0

The “manual” is the millions of people getting into relationships. Blue pill doesn’t mean be fat and lazy and expect results
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 02:03 AM
0

Basic human interaction > small talk > connection building > friendship or relationship. It’s the same steps as making a friend. Just with sexual attraction to each other and potential LTR compatibility
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 01:38 AM
2

The only thing stopping me from discounting it is I’m not sure if the science behind it is real or not. Because if it is, then body count is a valid concern but if it’s pseudoscience then it’s only a stupid incel talking point then
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 11:47 PM
1

Louder. I think it’s kinda cute
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 09:43 PM
3

Idk if gentleman differs from typical “nice guy” behaviour. Like opening doors, ladies first etc. I see it as an old fashioned mindset. Now with paying, I value time over money so I would be willing to pay almost always. I do feel I would need to compensate people for their time with me, however let’s hope I never have to go on a date ever
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 12:40 PM

So are you from there
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 03:10 AM
1

But I assume it’s true
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 10:24 PM
1

Why the /s?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 10:14 PM
1

Ok I pick humility as a metric
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 10:10 PM
1

Virgins will always be losers because you can’t find someone to procreate with you so it shows your genes are not required and will not be passed on
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 10:09 PM
1

Yeah I’m expecting to hear that from most men here
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 10:08 PM
1

OP you also failed to mention you need a 12 incher to even get a first date these days. You need to speak 6 languages also. Your post is just as stupid as my comment
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 07:48 AM
1

You cast a wide net, catch everything you can, then chuck out the trash you collected. You don’t sit there with one fishing rod hoping to get the one good fish
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 11:52 PM
7

Women need to finally learn that men are inherently belligerent, contrarian and rebellious. In recent times, men are harsher on weight because of the “women are beautiful at any size” rhetoric. It’s why margot robbie was called mid. It’s just men being edgy and against the grain. Men will sit there and say no, women are not beautiful (aka gets their dick hard) at any size. It’s a push back to societal gaslighting. And don’t get me started on the double standard about height. Even more of a reaso…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 01:01 PM

“Low libido” but your ass is on reddit. Whats the truth here?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 12:50 PM

What why
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 07:46 AM
1

Yep, once again I agree with you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 07:37 AM
1

Just a territory not worth exploring for such a small % of the population
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 05:41 AM
2

I understand the gotcha with this. It’s such a strange thing to decide on because why date women? I mean, what is it that makes a woman? It’s so intricate but deep down most men wouldn’t but why
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 04:37 AM
1

What was it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 04:36 AM
1

Close, his acquaintance
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 06:30 PM
1

It’s not him btw, it’s the one he was sexting
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 06:29 PM
3

😂😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 06:29 PM
1

Meh. I’m taking a backwards step from reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 03:44 AM
1

Why are you assuming their gender
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 03:04 AM

Pauline hansen? gina rinehart? What do those scum have to do with it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 02:43 AM
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No offence to this person, I’m sure you are normal irl but I’m talking about the person who is in a relationship but still sexts other users here and also stays at their ex’s place. This is all in 2025 mind you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 02:21 AM
1

It doesnt matter really unless that’s what you want. It’s a nice tool to have when you need the esteem boost tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 02:19 AM
2

Yes. For every 1 woman who glances/flirts there were 99 gay men who did that before her. That’s the my approx life ratio so far which I wonder how that compares to other men
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 01:31 AM
2

Do nothing then
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 12:56 AM
2

If this is race related then I agree, go towards where you are appreciated.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 11:52 PM
2

Wait, do I look like this for a day or forever?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 11:49 PM
1

Dumb question but the picture on the right, is that solely due to squats 3 times a week for a few months/years? Surely not
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 11:47 PM

Cant see it?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 10:51 AM
16

Well then how do you explain virgins/incels that follow tate? They have no experience to frame thoughts about women
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 09:24 AM

Treat every woman who you are friends, acquaintances, classmates or colleagues with, regardless of your attraction to them, like you want them to fall for you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 06:36 AM
0

Behaviour like what slide? I’m confused to what the behaviour really is that warrants a loss of friendship
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 02:42 AM
1

Your bros are cringe then
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 12:43 AM
1

Do you have a problem with my relationship status
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 03:23 AM
1

Bruh. This whole thread is what I’m talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 11:32 PM
1

Worried if I reply now you’ll complain I don’t know to argue correctly
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 11:29 PM
1

If you’re only attracted to people with small ones, no curves, child like features then yeah, gotta call it sus
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 11:11 PM
2

Say hey, throw an innocent compliment, then very briefly mention something from their photos or bio that you like
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 09:53 PM
1

😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 09:40 PM
1

Excuse me?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 09:40 PM
1

But how do you expect to win people over with just small talk?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 09:39 PM
1

It’s a question you save for the date
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 09:35 PM
1

I hate confident people. Like really do. Feel like picking that guy up and chucking him off the roof
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 09:30 PM
6

There are times here where the takes on this sub infuriate me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 10:35 AM
8

What truth?? What is this big discovery that you found and are breaking to the world? I’m sorry but this is the equivalent of fake news. Some women go on dates for a free meal, some men go on dates as an avenue to get laid. Some people treat each other as transactional. Yes it happens. Both genders benefit from it in their own way. Stop the whinging about it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 10:34 AM
13

From 1971 dude. Come on
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 10:16 AM
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That link was so cringe. How much do you have to hate women to be bothered to make a video like that. Pathetic straw clutching. Anyway, you probably live in a country where people don’t have much disposable money. These ideas don’t apply elsewhere to anyone over the age of 23
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 10:10 AM
2

I find these answers interesting because as someone in the same relationship from 17-now (30) I couldn’t imagine if I was single, how I would go trying to fit in relationship finding in my life. With uni, full time work, sports, family commitments (involved ethnic family) taking up the last 13 years, I would need a relationship to fall on my lap I guess, or spamming the apps would occupy my spare time I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 05:57 AM
4

If you’re passive, shy, harmless etc you got options: Don’t date, don’t socialize, don’t get laid, sit in a basement your whole life Bombard yourself on the apps, come across as more extroverted and rely on texting Exposure to as many women as possible via school, work and social groups and hope someone there likes you and picks you (which is what happened to me) Pick one
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 05:38 AM
0

Jokes aside has anyone actually seen a real life example of this meme
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 05:23 AM
1

That show surprised me. Wasn’t expecting incel speak
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 02:23 AM
0

Perhaps, but to people like you, nice = not abusive. The assholes you hate have a “net nice score” greater than yours
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 11:49 PM
1

It’s still a low education hobby
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 11:44 AM
1

Um that adolescence show on netflix. Wtf wasn’t expecting pill terminology to pop up there. Never knew the different heart colours meant something else though. I thought it was people trying to be different and not resort to the red heart
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 11:34 AM
1

Let’s leave the human dog fighting to the neanderthals and leave the ruling political class alone. Low education hobby
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 11:31 AM
1

That first one… come on man you royally fucked that one up
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 06:13 AM
0

Men have ruined it, but is it too late? Will we ever get to a point where a man can dm a woman and it be welcomed?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 05:46 AM

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 rip my bro. Hopefully you get laid in hell
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 04:32 AM
1

I can see where you’re coming from, and when questioned, other women have told me they “just knew” xyz person was going to be great. Kinda like an intuition thing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 04:31 AM
2

Well I hope you achieve all your dreams then. Remember that next time you think I’m an asshole here
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 04:29 AM
1

If you lose weight and still not fuckable, what’s next
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 04:28 AM
1

Sometimes I see those profiles on “sympathy” subs (short, virgin etc). I click their profile because they have a profile pic or I’m curious where they are active and I see they have posted dick pics. My self esteem is bottom tier but at least I don’t feel the need for dick pic validation
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 04:26 AM
1

I find those things stupid. There was a woman here a few months ago bragging that her current husband was the lucky one who got to meet her family while her ex fwb’s did not. I don’t think men see that as a flex and surprised women don’t know that yet
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 04:24 AM
1

Conservatives and maga supporters, what would jesus say about your country if he appeared now
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 04:23 AM
1

If I was to convert it to USD it would be approx 65k. But I have sacrificed career for work life balance
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 04:21 AM
1

Will be..? What about now
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 04:19 AM
1

Shakespeare is low tier. Like speak properly bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 04:17 AM
1

I’m struggling with my journey tbh. My activity has increased heaps but food is 50/50
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 04:16 AM
-1

😂😂😂😂 was gonna tag you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 04:10 AM
1

Lame
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 11:51 PM
1

Are you gonna fuck her
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 10:55 PM
1

See I think outfits on the left are better, but I guess on the right is better for everyday wear
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 10:55 PM
1

I’ll hang out with you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 06:32 PM
1

Is it a latina thing
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 06:09 PM
1

Mathematician?? Which normal person has one? Please drop this fake intellectual persona
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 06:08 PM
1

Jesus you’re on an angry roll today
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 06:03 PM
1

Well shes not wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 06:00 PM
1

Well shes not wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 06:00 PM

If a woman is involved either physically or emotionally with another man, you need to let her go. She is his problem, not yours
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 03:52 AM

It depends: Adam - Only an asshole if he shoplifts from small family owned stores. Or vandalising the property of someone poor. Other than that, not an asshole. Brian - Assumptions here but probably an asshole online. Offline he’s probably a little bitch so I wouldn’t call him an asshole overall but definitely not worth anyones time. Chris - Asshole if you’re out of his circle. If you’re another version of him you wont think he’s an asshole. Dan - Another asshole who thinks intellect makes them …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 03:42 AM

I’m surprised you’re not. Obese women like me so they should you as well
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 01:08 AM

I could only play it with cheatcodes though
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 10:29 PM
1

The meaning of words are irrelevant if the sentiment and discourse doesn’t align with the correct definition. Nowadays incel doesn’t mean what it originally did. It just means you hold a set of views and ideas that align with black or redpill - regardless of how often you have sex or not
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 10:25 PM

San andreas is one of the best games ever. So glad I was allowed to play it as a young teen
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 10:19 PM

Why don’t you date a 43 year old woman as well
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 10:17 PM

What I’ve noticed in public bathrooms is that soap is optional for a few men
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 09:37 PM

🤷🏻‍♂️ I’m in a silly mood today sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 09:36 PM
1

Yes I am against that. Unless the mans life is in danger, he shouldn’t hit a woman and just take the soft hit from her
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 09:31 PM

Not happy with the books you have now? Do you think a guy will like you better with bigger books?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 09:27 PM

Are you asking seriously? Who doesn’t wash their hands!?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 09:25 PM

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 09:25 PM

I don’t understand how women don’t find this attractive. Stop trying to be alternative and anti masculine and just accept your biology
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 09:23 PM

If you meet them on the job, well done. Otherwise they’re just normal people who live normal lives? When you say fucking a professional I assumed it was a hooker
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 09:21 PM
1

My whole life including my parents and wife say I don’t communicate enough. I keep people on a needs to know basis. Simple as that. If you need to know how I’m feeling I’ll tell you. If you need to know something that happened at work I’ll tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 11:49 AM
19

You had me until you said the parent-child bond ends when the relationship does. Absolutely under no condition am I being separated from my child
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 11:46 AM
1

Are you trying to say categories I jacked off to as a teen have stuck with me somewhere in my brain? If so, yeah I can see that
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 10:12 AM
2

Phorth
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 10:08 AM
1

I know.. was being flippant and also pro-greek
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 10:08 AM
1

Doubt it. Do you look conventionally attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 08:04 AM
1

Sex
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 07:46 AM
1

It was the best roast my dad ever gave my early 20’s brother who used to scream at the screen on COD. He said that he was just screaming at 12 year old ukrainian kids living in a shed
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 06:07 AM
1

Beats shooting at 12 year old Ukrainian kids on call of duty
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 05:43 AM
2

Your neighbor. Please put your hands behind your head and step out slowly
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 05:09 AM
4

Idk why you guys talk about sex with girls. You’re meant to just hang out, sense the vibe and let it happen naturally. So they think..
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 04:54 AM
3

Maybe this is a sign to finally grow up, ditch the kids games and cartoons and be an adult
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 04:53 AM
1

Lol I don’t know what I said to indicate I was american
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 04:18 AM
2

Australia, which some parts could be mistaken for the middle east lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 03:56 AM
2

No… kangaroo land
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 03:54 AM
3

Glad to be of service, appreciate the honesty
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 03:54 AM
1

You don’t need to worry about your hair for now bro trust me. Me on the other hand? I’ve been sitting on an unopened fin packet now for a few weeks, too chicken shit to take it in case it perma nukes my insides
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 03:41 AM
1

I find it funny that you base your idea of women on this college experience that not every country has. We have uni’s here and no one ever stays on campus accomodation. So yeah, there are still parties but they are pre organised at a venue. But it’s not this giant orgy you yanks have
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 03:38 AM
1

Stop jizzing on your rolls
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 03:31 AM
2

You’re too cool for a reddit chick dw cuz
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 03:18 AM
2

Anyone who does a face reveal gets my respect
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 03:13 AM
1

He’s already getting compliments
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 03:13 AM
1

Traitors? You’re the traitor to your ancestors by not breeding
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 02:00 AM
1

🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 01:59 AM
1

Never heard of north macedonia. I’ve heard of the country FYROM/Skopje though
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 01:58 AM
1

Black sambucca
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 01:52 AM
1

Yeah nesquick haha. Didnt offer him coffee or tea just nesquick
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 01:50 AM
1

A guy I knew had an ONS with one and the next morning she offered him that chocolate powder with milk. Not sure what they call it where you’re from
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 01:33 AM
1

There are plenty of people who are isolated from others but do not feel lonely. Would you say they are operating outside of the definition of lonely or actually, loneliness has nothing to do with the number of people in your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 12:38 AM
1

You can get laser hair removal for your body
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 10:22 PM
2

I have the opposite experience with women. If you feel you can’t joke and talk freely maybe the things you’re saying are just too fucked up. Just because some anonymous reddit user upvotes your ramblings it doesn’t mean a normal person would accept it. Especially if your “jokes” are punching down.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 10:10 PM
1

I’m still unsure about male body hair. Deep down I know no hair is more attractive I think but I’m starting to think that “just be yourself” includes keeping your own body hair and owning it. If you’re single, what’s the approach? Conform to beauty standards and remove it or just keep it and own it until someone doesn’t care if you have it or not
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 10:00 PM
2

Sometimes I like my caveman look. Resting frown face
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 09:57 PM
1

Would that actually work on a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 09:56 PM
1

To argue with me? I’ll reply. If I got something to counter I will otherwise I’ll reply saying that the post is old, get over it etc To agree with me? I’ll ignore. Unless they indicate their mental health is struggling then I’ll validate their feelings, make them feel better etc
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 09:55 PM
3

Hahahaha double standard much
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 09:53 PM
2

I think you’re my favorite ppd woman rn. Need more ruthlessness here
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 09:52 PM
1

It’s now about changing peoples opinions though
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 09:50 PM
2

Opposite. I genuinely feel no reason to talk to strangers unless telling them to get out of my way
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 09:49 PM
1

😂😂😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 09:47 PM
1

Is there a specific reason for your depression?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 07:39 PM
1

Eh I think some men would take anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 07:35 PM
1

Do as many things on your bucket list now. Live many experiences now.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 07:26 PM
1

Some people don’t know what the spark is on a date. They think if you haven’t argued and were friendly then the date went well
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 07:22 PM

If this is the future please kill me now
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 10:11 AM
1

I just don’t objectively rate white anglo guys sorry. Mediterranean above all else
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 06:32 AM
1

🤷🏻‍♂️ But theres no doubt the more lonelier men here are all tough on the daily but 100% grovel over dm
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 06:31 AM
1

No reason, just asking. How have you dealt with todays heat
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 06:03 AM
1

Roseybutterflies… oh wait
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 06:00 AM
1

How many men here slide into your dm’s
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 05:57 AM
1

No imo, he is average to me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 05:55 AM
1

Who?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 05:41 AM
1

Me honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 03:11 AM
1

Guys who are normally pricks all of a sudden are nice to her. I get it, keep trying for the crumb of affection
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 03:08 AM
1

💦💦
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 03:08 AM
1

Like every fucking male here and equalsea
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 12:52 AM
1

Only in 2011??
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 10:01 PM
1

Whats the white goo on the top
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 10:01 PM

Wood*
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 07:19 PM

Just being yourself isn’t so black and white though. I’m naturally the comedian if I am comfortable with the people I am with. However, depending on the people I ramp up or tone down the darkness of the humour. I can go full politically incorrect humour with one group, and then office puns with another. Both are still “myself” but it’s vastly different
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 12:25 PM

That doesn’t sound very thuggy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 12:22 PM
1

Are you white or in a white country?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 09:55 AM
1

At least it’s inclusive for all to see 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 04:31 AM
1

We chat here on the daily though so I have no need to msg you. Otherwise you know I would
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 04:30 AM
2

It’s 2025. Gender roles within the home are evaporating
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 04:28 AM
1

Either US 11 or 12
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 03:46 AM
2

🙄🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 01:38 AM
2

But what is there to chat about
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 01:33 AM
1

Freaky bitch come eat the ditch? Freaky bick come eat the dick?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 01:30 AM
2

I find it slightly sad for someone to dm a woman here. Just grow a pair and ask the question out in the open
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 01:26 AM
1

I thought I did that already
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 12:59 AM
1

Idk son, I slept fine before you were born
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 12:58 AM
1

I agree with you but I have an objective view on what would make me happy with my appearance. So I’m not so defeatist like you. Once I hit that, I really have no more excuses for disliking my appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 12:06 AM
2

Shoplift
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 11:59 PM
1

😂😂😂 yeah I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 11:59 PM
1

Competence in what?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 11:27 PM
1

Fades are super popular here in kangaroo land. Why are you hating something so superficial?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 11:24 PM
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I see it as relating but it’s very nuanced. Start sharing your story too soon and it looks like you’re highjacking. You need to wait until you feel the story is done. My wife is terrible at this unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 11:21 PM
1

Yes. The greek god of looksmaxxing
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 11:17 PM
1

Just give up man. I’m with you on this topic but you’re wasting your time with reddit women. They intentionally rebel against masculinity because it’s linked to the patriarchy. If Cavill was queer, they would all froth over him
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 08:12 PM
1

I’m a latte dad right now. Couldn’t be happier
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 08:04 PM
1

Not being our type to a man still means they could be physically attractive to us, but not “wow” enough
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 08:02 PM
1

I would 100% having misleading photos on OLD if there was a chance it worked. Pets, kids, elderly, whatever. I have actually given advice here saying that men struggling should do charity work as a one off, have photos taken and used on their profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 07:51 PM
1

I grow it everywhere apart from my foot
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 07:45 PM

To draw/paint or to use abelton like a pro
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 07:44 PM

My sentiment when people cry and complain on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 07:38 PM

This whole thread has ruined the word rizz now fml
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 07:34 PM

Well what does a female sex offender actually do? Anyway regardless it’s a red flag, but I don’t think there would be much that gets me an instant bail tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 06:46 AM
1

Idk to me it seemed like those messages were coming from other women?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 04:58 AM
1

No money limit? A lot
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 02:43 AM
1

Thanks for the advice, I’ll try it sometime. Normally I visualise smashing their skull in with a brick
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 01:49 AM
1

It’s about assigning self value to your appearance and assigning self value from external validation
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 01:47 AM
1

You can donate lip size from one person to the other by kissing. Some osmosis shit or something like that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 01:19 AM
1

That’s not that impressive here in kangaroo land
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 01:17 AM
1

Maybe because no one knows about it? I didn’t until you mentioned it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 01:12 AM
1

Let me guess, you notice dating trends that happen to align with blackpill..
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 01:08 AM
0

Virgin/incel has now evolved to mean men with virgin tendencies, thoughts and ideas
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 01:06 AM
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If you’re going to have takes like this you need to take it all the way and say anything that’s material, like fashion, needs to be 95%+ focused on function and practicality for it to be masculine. Pretty much you can’t say fashion is gay and still wear a normal watch for example
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 12:48 AM
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I’m not saying those russian authors are a fad, just seems snobby/hipster to read them. Feels like a box ticking thing to want to read them just to say that you did so you look smarter to everyone else
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 09:46 PM
1

Modern or historical? Like Elvis was great back then but I have no interest in listening to him now
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 09:09 PM
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What’s the hype about russian literature? It sounds like a way for people to feel smug about reading
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 08:45 PM

Yeah couldn’t imagine a man going on his own anywhere gets well received
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 01:37 PM

Potentially, but maybe he needs to evaluate why he isn’t getting matches. If he is looking for fellow fitness goers, then maybe they’re looking at him and doubting his fitness compared to other, more jacked looking guys
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 07:32 AM
2

Fird
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 06:03 AM

Maybe the people swiping left on him are the ones with the brain rot though? Even redsand said he looked average
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 06:02 AM

I replied to the main comment regarding his “fitness”. Can you let me know your thoughts?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 05:43 AM

Perfect example of my main gripe with people who say they’re into gym and fitness. I’m sorry but he doesn’t look like it. Maybe cardio/cross fit is his thing, but still, he just isn’t muscly enough to warrant that claim
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 05:40 AM

Do you think that’s the main turn off?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 05:38 AM

Yeah I get that. Which means the movement for acceptance wont ever end
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 11:47 PM

Excuse me?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 11:42 PM
1

😂😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 10:02 PM
1

I’m going to need a lawyer. My lawyer will argue for section 12 of the marriage act which states it is not a crime if a person is attempting to looksmaxx to catch up to their spouse
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 09:59 PM
1

Oh cant help you there. I only read picture books
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 12:44 PM
1

What genre?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 12:28 PM
1

B. But we have a dishwasher anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 12:00 PM
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Just messing with ya tbh. No real hate from me. I think by being thirsty here you’ll build a rep though and incels will be more likely to abuse you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 11:59 AM
1

Yeah thought so. Wyong special right here
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 11:14 AM
1

Who says that honestly? I still assume you are a western syd houso based on what you write
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 11:04 AM
1

Thoughts on the “hello human resources” meme? Any arguments against it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 08:01 AM
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Which is a 0 or 1 on my scale. The guy is saying that even if there was no expression of interest prior, an attractive man can get away with it more so. Just like that HR meme
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 07:55 AM
1

Hey ours is very similar. I believe in equality though, but like blindfolded equality. Not equity
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 07:26 AM
1

When I looksmaxx eventually I promise you’ll be the first to see
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 06:20 AM
1

Mines on full display anyways..
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 05:47 AM
1

Send me one
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 05:44 AM
1

You don’t remember your own birthday?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 10:47 PM
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Eh occasionally yeah. Turns out I don’t matter. Turns out if my birthday isn’t on social media no one will remember
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 10:30 PM
1

So did you meet anyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 09:44 PM
1

Tea or coffee: black, no sugar
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 06:49 PM
1

Smoking is bad
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 06:47 PM
2

Cooked meals are the norm here and since I have the time, I do most of the cooking and cleaning. Been like that since day 1 of marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 06:46 PM
1

Guy on the right is you incels arguing against blue pill. We don’t need sources for it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 05:51 PM

What does the smile have to do with it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 10:51 AM

For some reason it’s way harder for me to call men ugly so no, he isn’t. I think he has potential to improve himself tremendously with muscle and either finasteride or shaving his head
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 10:51 AM

For a short term thing you’ll enjoy the exoticism but anything long term you’ll get tired of their antics
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 10:47 AM

I’m surprised this isn’t a banned topic
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 10:42 AM

On my day to day adventures with my 7 month old, the only people who smile and make a comments are grannies (expected) and men (unexpected). Normal women of child bearing ages? Mostly give no fucks. Occasionally 1 in every 10 tries to look into the pram without smiling or saying anything. Are they expecting to see something else? Don’t they trust a guy to look after his own baby? I find it borderline rude
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 05:20 AM
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Not a fan of this way of thinking. If I had feelings for someone I would pursue something exclusive. Even if it was a really slow at first I don’t like the idea of sharing
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 01:02 AM

Whats the story with andrew tate in romania
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:51 PM

My only female friends are acquaintances from work, and the communication and time spent with them is only during work hours. The mentality here at home is what can they offer me that wife can’t. Even if I had zero attraction to them, it wouldn’t be accepted. Now if these friends were pre existing, then maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:50 PM

But should they be aware you are frustrated? Or should you keep it to yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:43 PM

Unlike the other men I don’t read everything you write 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:42 PM
1

Bahahahaha what a cocky little mf
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:39 PM
1

I prefer this to sydney
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:38 PM

Because if you can make friends, you can get dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:31 PM

Are you romanian
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:28 PM

100% true
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:25 PM

Just flush him down the toilet
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:20 PM

Curious, what’s an appropriate response to getting rejected
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:19 PM
1

😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 05:23 PM
1

And which country is that bro
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:50 AM
1

I personally don’t understand women who are not interested in tall muscled masculine men as per evolution. Not having a dig, it’s just my inexperience means I don’t fully understand types and preferences because I never got to see what mine are.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 05:47 AM
2

What’s popular in your area, and what can you alter it to make it different
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 05:39 AM
1

Are you neet?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 05:39 AM
1

Classy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 05:38 AM
1

A girl you were seeing casually gave you a shit test and you failed. How do you expect people to stay around you with responses like that? Love has nothing to do with it. Sorry if this comes across as rude but this is another example of people listing their “attractive” qualities yet we can’t verify it. You saying you gym it 3 times a week means nothing because I don’t know what you look like. To be on dating apps for that long and not be in a relationship is concerning. But do you get matches a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 05:37 AM
1

I am offended that you say you like the mediterranean look but have been downvoted by others
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 04:00 AM
0

Why is that your type? I’m just curious if being into that is very environmentally influenced compared to biology
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 03:58 AM
1

No it’s never too late. But what’s your idea?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 03:37 AM
1

The eyes aren’t necessary
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 03:36 AM
1

Twond
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 03:09 AM
1

Gelato
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 02:56 AM
1

Next time it happens, ask them
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 02:55 AM
2

Havent seen you around. Good to have you back
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 02:44 AM
1

Idk I’ve heard our preferences are based on our mothers but I don’t want to go there.. Believe it or not I don’t think I have a type. I have preferences but based on stupid pre existing assumptions based on insecurities
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 02:35 AM

Steak. Nothing more, nothing less.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 02:29 AM

I think we have similar tastes. But I always thought you were a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 02:28 AM

Maybe this sub isnt the right forum for downplaying autism. To them, it’s a death sentence
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 01:55 AM
1

I have someone at work like that. She’s a lesbian though. Which is what came to mind when reading your type
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 01:31 AM
1

So you don’t think you would be into a blonde country girl who is really really smiley and caring
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 01:26 AM
0

What’s your type?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 01:15 AM

Who gives a fuck about donors
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 01:11 AM

It’s beneficial for a society to have as many people fit, healthy and participating in the workforce
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 12:51 AM

If this trump term goes to shit, a left wing populist could have a chance
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 12:28 AM

Ok but what about the dems. Why hilary, biden and harris over him?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 12:21 AM
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You could also argue that joe rogan made fitness popular again with the bro’s. No one did martial arts when I was a kid. A handful did karate only. Now every 16 year old guy wants to do it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 12:19 AM

Glad you’ve said this because this sub will run wild with it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 12:12 AM

Why don’t they like bernie? Too much old white male? (Not that it matters to me, calm down right wingers)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 11:59 PM

75% men I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 10:19 PM
1

I don’t hate the poor. Gonna be controversial and say I hate the people poor enough to commit crimes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 08:30 PM

I think IRL the “maybe but I’ll still left swipe” guys probably have a chance if they have personality in person
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 08:28 PM

Context…?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 08:27 PM

I like the floorboards
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 08:26 PM
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