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I don’t think kids are capable of having meaningful romantic relationships. It’s questionable whether they’re capable of learning from them, either; so many adults don’t even learn from their relationships, and they’re supposed to have a greater ability to reflect and learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 12:56 PM
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Stats show that 72-92% of men who actually fight for custody of their children in court are awarded at least 50/50 custody. A Massachusetts study examined 2,100 fathers who asked for custody and pushed aggressively to win it. Of those 2,100, 92 percent either received full or joint custody, with mothers receiving full custody only 7 percent of the time. Another study where 8 percent of fathers asked for custody showed that of that 8 percent, 79 percent received either sole or joint custody (in o…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 12:48 PM
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Voice is sooo important for men
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:59 AM
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HVM are not controlling and insecure. Those traits automatically make men LV
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:56 AM
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I think that people should only do it if they’re married or permanently partners. Parenting alone seems like it’s hell; children deserve at least two consistent primary caregivers. (Nannies don’t count; they can go home at the end of the day, be fired, quit, etc.)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:53 AM
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Isn’t Mexico like the most overweight country in the world? (Unless you’re crossing some other border)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:44 AM
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Women do not benefit from divorce. Both men and women walk away poorer overall than when they were married, because now each of them have 50% of the marital assets, instead of 100% being jointly owned.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:43 AM
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Oh for sure! I def need to find a hiking buddy too; my husband isn’t nearly as outdoorsy as I am
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:19 AM
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Oh good. Septum rings are definitively less classy, but I think the nostril studs are fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:18 AM
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Nah, they’re kids, man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:17 AM
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Comparison is the thief of joy. Also HS relationships aren’t real relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:03 AM
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On the nostrils, or the septum?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:01 AM
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Agree
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 02:59 AM
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Feeeemales
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 02:59 AM
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If a man can’t get casual sex, what makes you think women are eager to date him?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 02:48 AM
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Grass touching life update: -Mission 74 is underway, with 2 out of 24 charity 5ks completed. This is to keep me in shape and to donate to good causes. I need to remember to chat with runners at races that are close to home, though. I’d love to meet a running buddy. -I got a part time job, for the two days a week my kiddo is in school. This adds some structure into my week, a little extra money to contribute to my savings/investments, and some social interaction. They also give employees a free m…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 02:28 AM
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are you a virgin too, or are you a fetishist?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 01:23 PM
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is it? I asked about or was asked about n count with all of my partners.. course, I've been settled down for 8 years now, so maybe it's
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 02:00 AM
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im not sure, but I think the only instances where T causes emotionality is during puberty, and when men are abusing steroids, in which cases T levels are exceptionally high... Side note: women actually have higher T levels than estrogen levels, and at our Max T levels, we tend to be happier and experience higher libido.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 01:58 AM
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Yuuup
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 01:53 AM
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I'm pretty sure female hormone fluctuation have been scientifically established to cause emotional instability/volatility in women who menstruate. Emotional instability/volatility decreases people's ability to make rational decisions. You're responding to things with a different, more primitive part of the brain when you feel intense emotions than when you respond when calm (the amygdala vs the prefrontal cortex) this is also why advertisers appeal to our emotions when marketing products; they w…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 09:03 PM
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you keep going wah wah it's so much harder for men to even get a partner, but again, *that doesn't matter.* 1) men must make themselves attractive to women 2) men must approach women 3) men must choose a partner from the pool of women that accept their advances. so. Back to our homeboy. He does this process with three women. The three his 1) is attractive to, 2) approached, and 3) chose as partners had serious issues, and instead of going "What's wrong with me that I only attracted flawed women?…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 08:47 PM
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... or a normal/average frame, and still be heavier, and not be fat
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 08:34 PM
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the key word is 'attract' here. Meaning, a person has access to all these people, but what good qualities does that person have that results in interest from potential partners? So, like I said before, a man has to both attract and choose a good partner. If one or both of those things are not happening for him, even with the ability to meet a shit ton of people, he needs to adjust himself. That doesn't change even if women select from a pool of men that approach them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 08:30 PM
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picking an arbitrary weight that all women, regardless of height or body composition, 'should' stay under is stupid. Most of the time men suck at guessing women's weights anyway. (I'm 5'5 and ~140 lbs, not fat, and people think I look like a teenager at age 27, inb4 the "you must be fat/old looking/bitter" comments roll in.)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 08:21 PM
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He's kind of ugly-cute. Like, masculine but not in a pretty way, safe looking, nice smile.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 08:15 PM
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are you unsure about her virginity, or the likelihood of dating her? Are you virginal?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 08:02 PM
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why don't you just ask the women you're considering dating what their thoughts on casual sex are, and not date the casual sex havers?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 07:57 PM
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and there are still men who fantasize that such women will be so overcome with lust for them that they'll have enthusiastic, shameless sex within the firSt three dates, and the sex will just automatically be amazing despite the woman's inexperience, and ten years later they'll get married and still have sex 8+ times a week, even while she's popping out their multiple kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 07:50 PM
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Absolutely not the same as women as I've said and demonstrated earlier. So to repeat myself: How is it not the same? Do men and women not have an equal ability to go to college, into cities, join hobbies and clubs, travel all over the world, use the internet and online dating services, etc.? We all have access to more people than we could ever meet; it's just a matter of what kind of people are mutually interested in you (which we have some degree of control over.) I don't think you know what a …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 07:33 PM
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even if 1% of the world's women were suitable for this man in , that would be 39,500,000 -- more people than you can meet in a lifetime. In the age of airplanes and the internet, men are swimming in potential partners, the same as women. The difference between men and women is that men typically do the approaching, and select between those who accept their advances, and women select between those who approach them. So, as I said before, out of this large number of women, is it really that this i…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 06:47 PM
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Well, it is a meritocracy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 06:33 PM
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it is a bit of a hyperbole, but I just mean there are more women out there than you have time to meet in a lifetime. Even if you're a small town country bumpkin, there are cities all over, and we're all connected by the internet... The point stand either way-- if you're selecting from the women you attract, and you're only getting ones with bad traits, you ought to look at yourself and your selection process, not just assume AWALT.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 06:31 PM
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you did. Let's recap: The guy says: all of my partners have treated me badly, and have been incapable of introspection. Therefore, all women are like that. Then I make this thread here, emphasizing he should pick better partners because no, not every woman is like that. And then you reply, "Yeah, but men don't have that many choices" and I say there's legit more women than anyone could ever meet in a lifetime. So surely if this man can't attract a single one, it's not likely women who need to in…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 01:29 PM
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there's 3.95 billion women in the world, and you're telling me this person can't attract a single one that will actually treat him well?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 01:00 PM
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man on PPD: "All three of my previous partners have had really shitty traits, but it's okay because they're fixable! I've been blown up on before for criticizing them, so I'm just not gonna say anything to them about these bad traits and tell them 'it's not you; it's me' when we break up, and they always blame me instead. Why is no woman anywhere in the world ever capable of introspection and change?!" PPD women: "Why don't you pick better partners?" PPD men: "You're doing the same thing as thes…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 12:05 PM
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okay, but *how* are you 'calling them out?' are you going 'omg you're so selfish/super jealous for no reason/disrespectful,etc.?" Or, are you saying things like, "I would really appreciate it if you considered me more when you're doing xyz" or "I'm not a cheater, and you're super important to me. Can you tell me where your jealousy is coming from?" Or "I feel disrespected when you..." Btw, a 'few but serious issues' make somebody incompatible with you. Stop picking people like that. There are pl…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 11:45 AM
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you've never had a romantic partner apologize to you? Maybe you just have a bad picker. And your sample size is 3? That's not enough to generalize to a whole gender. Also, if you always hold in your feelings and constructive criticisms, why would you expect your partners to change or understand how you're feeling? Nobody is going to read your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 11:36 AM
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you've never had a romantic partner apologize to you? Maybe you just have a bad picker. Also, if you always hold in your feelings and constructive criticisms, why would you expect your partners to change or understand how you're feeling? Nobody is going to read your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 11:36 AM
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either way, there is little reason to give them the benefit of the doubt, a romantic/sexual 'chance,' or to be nice to them. It'll bite you in the ass
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 11:25 AM
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I used to think like you. Then I talked to plenty of incels, and saw that most of them were not good people
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 03:59 AM
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it would be a yellow flag for sure, but I'd give the person a chance. As long as you have the right ingredients, you can make a cake, so to speak
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 03:53 AM
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both my clients and my dates were decent. I wouldn't date a
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 03:13 AM
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Is relative, so I doubt he'd feel much guilty that's the point. He's less likely to feel guilty, but I do every time. So when the wrong choice is made and we did the best we could, either no one has to feel guilty, or I don't have to feel guilty, and at least he gets to feel in control of something. Moreover, it's interesting that you care more about not feeling guilty than actually protecting your family and life idk where you're getting that assumption from. Like I said before, I trust him to …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 02:57 AM
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so, with a daughter, she's going to be weighing the peer pressure *of a boy* against all the bodily invasion, pain, discomfort, physical and mental health risks, motherhood, etc, that comes with unplanned teen pregnancy, (ie, no reward for having unprotected sex, really bad consequence) And a son is going to be weighing his personal pleasure (because hurr durr unprotected sex makes pp feel better) against possibly having to pay child support, if the kid even has a job. (Ie, immediate reward, les…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 02:30 AM
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A man really just said to me that he’d let his teen son have sex in his house but not his daughter because boys are more likely to insist on condoms, but also girls are “easily convinced” to have sex without one… by boys. He also insinuated that males are more afraid of unplanned pregnancy because they have to pay child support… and not females, who, you know, have to carry and birth a whole other human being in their bodies, recover from that, deal with post partum changes, and like, actually c…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 12:12 AM
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personality is definitely not the same as moral character. Moral character carries a judgement value, where the traits make someone 'good' or 'bad.' Personality includes things like introversion vs extraversion, for example, and it's not inherently good or bad to be introverted or extraverted.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 01:27 PM
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What was the criteria for 'unattractive women?"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 01:15 PM
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there's a good chance she will not respect the man who simps, which means she won't be attracted to him. But she can get one no proble
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 01:37 AM
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I found sex work to be very empowerimg. I paid for two years of college that way. It was fun and easy and exciting. The men I picked as clients and sugar daddies were very kind to me. I didnt see it as men using or objectifying my body, but instead as me providing them a service. everything was on my terms, not theirs. I had them provide STD results and use condoms every time, and so I never caught anything or had to deal with unwanted pregnancy. It's not like it used to be, where women had no c…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 01:33 AM
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if she's taken care of herself and still looks good, she'll likely still find that provider type.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 01:24 AM
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again, it's the *ability* to do those things that is empowering. Sex work is not for everyone, I agree. But there's no woman harmed from there being less societal shame surrounding sex, even if they aren't having casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 01:19 AM
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not rape, but sexual coercion
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 01:13 AM
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the ability to capitalize on sex and have it casually without shame IS empowering though... But plastic surgery is becoming a pandemic
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 01:11 AM
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I don't. There are sooooo many men here who are definitely not ready for relationshi
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 07:14 PM
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Stable, healthy, and respectful relationships don't make the news, and people will repost things that confirm their biases. All the unhealthy AGRs get sensationalized as a result
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 07:10 PM
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it's a non consensual sex act involving penetration, so I sure hope
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 07:07 PM
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What kind of idiot doesn't know that sex results in pregnancy. Literally everyone until they're informed of how sexual reproduction works, and all the ways you can get pregnant even without having PIV sex. That's what sex Ed is for. Be an adult. Control your impulses and don't expect the world to come rescue you except they're not adults. They're children and teens, and their ability to control impulses is still developing. "oh I guess we can't control people's actions so let's just make sure th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 06:56 PM
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Men don't get to be "HV" just because they abide by your promiscuity. There are definitely many other factors that go into it. Beyond being a high earner, intelligence, maturity, 7nxus xbeing in touch with his emotions, able to communicate well and work through challenges, a high level of physical fitness and well-developed musculature, a great sense of humor, etc., These factors include security, a lack of misogyny, seeing sex as something that people do together instead of something that men d…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 06:39 PM
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become attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 06:43 AM
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I find myself mourning the passing of my one and only daughter's babyhood and littleness more and more every day, and at the same time, I'm increasingly grateful I got to stay home with her and enjoy this time. You'll blink and you'll miss it. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lBDN8yWyNYU
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 06:35 AM
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the 'rate at which we break down food' is not the same as the sum of the energy expended during basic metabolic processes. (BMR.) That's just digestion. If it takes you 12 hours to digest 2000 calories instead of 8 hours, you're still processing the same number of calories. Really, testosterone begins to gradually decline in both men and women in the mid twenties, and this contributes to lower energy levels (which produces lower NEAT) and decreasing muscle mass (which lowers BMR). Eventually, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 06:25 AM
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the highest quality men value innocence and impressionability BARF! Predator alert!!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 06:08 AM
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she looks so beautiful
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 06:04 AM
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human metabolisms don't actually slow down that much from the 20s to the 40s. Its really just that older adults tend to be less physically active than younger adults, and so they burn fewer calories, while still consuming the same number.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 06:01 AM
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lmao gross. Does your bf/husband know? Yes. My wonderful, HV husband knows all of my sexual history, and he is perfectly fine with it. He is secure enough that it doesn't bother him, and he's grateful for the experiences that left me with sexual skills and tricks, which he now gets to enjoy. Women do not "engage in this strategy". Lol, of course we do. It's 2024. Gone are the days when women get stoned to death for sleeping around, when contraception didn't exist, and towns were small enough tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:50 AM
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it's less about intelligence and more about high libido overcoming already low impulse control, combined with ignorance that results from a poor sex education. (Bear in mind, we aren't talking only about 18 and 19 yos. It's not uncommon for kids to begin having sex at 13 or 14, nowadays.) I don't think people deserve to have their entire lives upended for a stupid mistake they make when they're teenagers, and I certainly don't believe babies deserve to be brought into this world under such sub o…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:13 AM
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true. Pays a lot worse
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:00 AM
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High school was harder and easier for me than my adult life in different ways. At one point, I was taking nine classes a day (many of them AP), having 1-2 sports practices, or meets up to state level competition, working in the evenings, and having to do chores and schoolwork on the weekend. I would often wake up at 4 am to do my homework before morning practices, and not get home from work til 10:30 at night. My stepdad didn't permit me to nap, so I had to pretend to take the dog for a walk, ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 04:55 AM
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Abstinence is hard when you're a teenager full of hormones and often the desire to rebel against authority (especially when said authority is pushing abstinence on you.) Arguably, proper sex Ed teaches young people what the risks consequences of sex (both protected and unprotected) are. You can still choose abstinence even after you've learned about other methods of barrier protection and contraception. If you want to reduce teen pregnancies, the best way of doing that is teaching comprehensive …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 04:04 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 03:57 AM
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if you're thatt rad and still single at 24, I think you've failed
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 03:49 AM
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i got a job at a deli making sandwiches. ​ https://preview.redd.it/aeg5t7v334ec1.png?width=556&format=png&auto=webp&s=d59d9a472ead8cfcc954b93b5d03bd0f8822f4ec
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 03:46 AM
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Do they want teachers to demonstrate how to put a condom on? Yes, I think that's helpful. Better yet, bring in cucumbers or bananas and allow students to put condoms on those, if they want to. The problem with abstinence only sex ed is that abstinence is hard, and so when teenagers inevitably end up having sex, they're less likely to properly prevent pregnancies and STDs, as they weren't taught how. Abstinence only education has actually been shown to be the least successful method in reducing t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 03:41 AM
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Yea except women don't fuckzone men. Women aren't men. I've probably fuckzoned at least 10 men, and nexted at least 15 after one fuck because they weren't good enough in bed to even be fuck buddies/fwbs.. And surely you've heard of 'himbos:' men who are hot but dumb (and if a woman perceives a man to be less intelligent than her, she's less likely to respect him, and therefore unlikely to select him as a LT partner.) Both men and women engage in this strategy in order to get their sexual needs m…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 03:33 AM
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a small number times a small number is a small
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 09:41 PM
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Here, I drew you a picture. I don't think you're going to engage with me properly, but I can tell you from experience that there are lots of men who are casual sex/STR material (hot, good in bed, fun) but lack the qualities that would make them good LTR partners (intelligence, a good career, child raising ability, maturity, ability to communicate,etc.). And, since there are women who enjoy casual sex and STRs, these men get fuckzoned while the women date other men in search of the ones who are L…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 09:37 PM
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There's a reason why it ravaged the homosexual community, but it's barely touched the heterosexual community despite the HIV epidemic being over 40 years old now. Again, that's not true. Millions of people have HIV, and the number of them who are straight is not small, even if the transmission rate is slightly lower. Furthermore, bisexuals exist, lots of straight people have anal sex, and lots of gay people do not have anal sex. HIV is not a gay issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 09:09 PM
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that difference is marginal. 0.0004% vs 0.0138%. please don't talk about it like it rarely happens to straight people, cuz people here will take that as a pass to have all the straight unprotected sex they want, and then more people will end up with STDs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 08:43 PM
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the *good* men are above women. There are certainly weak, dumb, irresponsible, panicky, poorly-in-bed, etc. men in existence. Though, all men suck at gestation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 08:32 PM
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there is no reason to lie; there are plenty of high value men who don't care about a given n count. I have also found that themen who do care tended to be lower value, personality wise
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 08:19 PM
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Women always want the best they can get, and if you have a high bodycount, it's safe to say that "the best you can get" isn't very good anyways. Circular reasoning One of those guys would've locked it down if that were the case. Have you considered that sometimes women don't want to commit to the men they sleep with, instead of the men not wanting to commit to the women? Commitment is a two way street, you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 08:14 PM
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well... Her ex is an ex, too. One way or another, she's not doing the sexual thing she doesn't like anymore. IDK why you'd assume she liked the ex better.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 07:34 PM
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my butt still looks big in sweatpants. There is no hiding
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 07:19 PM
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yeaaaah that's not true. PIV can and does transmit HIV. Wrap your
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 07:16 PM
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Well, personally I have an semi open relationship, so yes, if there was a kink I wouldn’t or couldn’t fulfill my husband, it would be fine if he had it fulfilled by someone else, provided that he didn’t catch any STDs, break any laws, impregnate anyone, get back with an ex, and that he disclosed the interaction to me. I understand most people are not like that though, and that’s where your analogy fails… I do think couples should vet each other carefully for sexual compatibility before committin…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 07:12 PM
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Yes. I'm not gonna make him do things he doesn't like, regardless of what he did in the past. I'd just go make friends who like to ski, or go alone
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 06:37 PM
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Gonna solve the "are trans women real women?" debate once and for all
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 06:34 PM
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If she didn’t like doing those kinky things whatever. But if she did it dozens of times with a different guy and not me there’s an issue would you ask her why, or would you just assume she's not as into you as she was into that guy? And would you believe her answer? If my partner likes skiing and I say “ehhh well I don’t wanna ski, I used to ski a ton with my ex but only did that because she wanted me to, I didn’t really like it” 90% of people, not even just women would get insecure that you’d d…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 06:31 PM
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Dunno. Wanna try it and report back?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 06:22 PM
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If we were still maintaining our current lifestyle, I'd be really pleased with that. His current stress level is affecting his health. I'm sure he'd spend more time with his kids,
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 06:14 PM
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the point is, maybe there's a reason for the preference change that has nothing to do with how into her partner she is, but many men make that assumption anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:56 PM
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This would be my reason as well
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:53 PM
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(the Stanley cup is the thing that belongs to the Penguins, right?)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:51 PM
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either your dog has a fear of men, or he's picking up a bad vibe and you should throw the whole man away
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:48 PM
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> I just think that if a woman likes you enough, she'll indulge your kinks that she isn't interested in by herself but wouldn't mind enacting with you. I just don't think that part is necessarily true
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:44 PM
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I have half sisters but they're all either overweight or underage
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:41 PM
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Most people kinda start taking out what they are into before they go deep into a relationship (that’s what all that talking and texting on dates is all about- figure if things out That's what I'm talking about; dudes assuming the women they are dating aren't into them when they decline kinky things instead of that the women just aren't into the kinks. And you really want to be with a guy who is so insecure he’s thinking about what other men have done sexually with you and getting jealous? Of cou…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:40 PM
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what I'm saying is that it goes 'she doesn't want to do this sex act with me' --> 'shes not that into me, Not "shes not that into me" --> she doesn't want to do this sex act with me' The latter makes sense in most situations. The former is illogical to me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:34 PM
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idk, I'm just imagining a couple who has been dating for a while and the dude suggests something kinky and the woman declines and doesn't automatically say that she's just not adventurous, and the dude doesn't ask, and then he breaks up with her because he thinks "she'd do it for Chad" or something
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:29 PM
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>It's just that when a woman is more into you the more she's willing to try things out that she might be a little "ehh I don't know" about because she wants to please him. Yeah, that's the assumption I'm talking about. It's not 'oh, she just knows what she likes/dislikes,' or 'she has firm sexual boundaries and isn't adventurous,' it's 'she isn't into me.' and I dont get it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:20 PM
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what if they're just not sexually adventurous? andso they're just not willing to try, but they still like the dude
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:15 PM
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maybe it gave her gastrointestinal problems
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:14 PM
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why tho
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:11 PM
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what if they're just vanilla in general? Not everyone is into 'crazy'
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:10 PM
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So if a woman only wanted vanilla sex with you, but you learn she's done kinkythings with previous partners,you would assume she likes you less than them... Instead of, idk, that she didn't enjoy the kinky things, or perhaps, that her preferences just changed over time?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:08 PM
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It seems like men often believe that the more into a man a woman is, the more likely she is to do kinkier things with him… Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:00 PM
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nah. I get all the argumentativeness out here so I can be submissive and agreeable to my husband
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:51 PM
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if you were rich, extremely handsome, within her preferences, and had a way to meet her, Sure. Also if she was divorced... But there are far fewer stipulations for a healthy, traditional relationship with a good, non-famous regular wife
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:39 PM
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slut velocity of more than 20 in any given year would have me asking questions
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:26 PM
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for me, it's because she's a cop,and that's unprofessional and impractical for such a profession
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:09 PM
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for me, it's because she's a cop,and that's unprofessional and impractical for such a profession
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:09 PM
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or you could pick a stay at home spouse who's faithful, a good homemaker, and genuinely appreciates your provision. Or not. It's your life
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:01 PM
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right; what the common prejudice boils down to is a difference in preference, not any logical reasoning.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:56 PM
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what's wrong with a 40 yo dating an 18 yo if it's consensual, they're both adults, and no abuse is happening?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:36 PM
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it's actually called "bias," or "prejudice," and those things are very often influenced by the media we consume
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:34 PM
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male validation/attention seeking
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:26 PM
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if you believe that the generalizations (aka prejudice) are wrong, then why is there a reason to follow some arbitrary math equation when selecting a partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:23 PM
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my husband is 52, and we've been together for 8 years...I wouldn't say that he's lost libido, but he is very tired most nights, and he often falls asleep before we have a chance for sex. (But, I'm 27, and I feEl that way too, lol. I guess it's more a function of having kids?)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:19 PM
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Women 100% created this through their own aggregate behavior. So you're judging all women, whom you haven't 'experienced' or with whom you haven't interacted, based on... What, then?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:13 PM
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when I lived in apartments, I went down to meet them if I was able. But I know from delivering food that many people expect you to come to their door.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:08 PM
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when I lived in apartments, I went down to meet them if I was able. But I know from delivering food that many people expect you to come to their door.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:08 PM
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there is no consensus. People are all different from one another. I think about sex often, and i like it very much, regardless of my relationship . But other women may only think about it in response to something or someone who turns them on, or only when theyre being intimate with someone for whom they have feelings for. Others, never (asexuality.)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 02:54 PM
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Nope. The divorce rate is 45%-- that means that 45% of marriages end in divorce. That doesn't mean a given couple has a 45% *chance* of divorcing.They might have a 0.01% chance, and they most likely end up as part of the 55% of marriages that don't end in divorce. Whereas another couple might have a 98% chance of divorce, and end up as part of the 45% of marriages that do end in divorce. Yet another couple might have a 70% chance, and still end up staying married for life. The divorce rate is si…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 12:43 PM
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HOCK
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 11:06 PM
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Population level statistics don’t apply to individual scenarios. The risk of my marriage ending in divorce is not the same as every other marriage, because there are a ton of other factors that go into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 10:54 PM
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Staying married to a wealthier man is always more financially beneficial than divorcing him. When married, all of the assets are owned by both spouses (unless otherwise specified in a signed and notarized legal document.) When divorced, the most you can get is 50% of the assets.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 10:50 PM
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The surviving spouse gets 50% in absence of a will if the couple has children
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 10:28 PM
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I don’t know what that means in the context of this conversation. You seem to be implying that people are getting married with the intention of making it difficult for their partners to leave, and I was positing that the thought process amongst couples who get married, rather, is that it’s already easy to stay together, and so they want to receive the benefits of marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 10:24 PM
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I don’t think it’s a “good” statistic at all; but it’s definitely better than 70% Marriage has always meant lifelong commitment to me, at least on my part. Either way, even if you get divorced, you benefit from marriage during the marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 10:17 PM
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yep. People are being more careful, it seems
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 10:14 PM
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>If the logic is, "I want to make it as difficult and expensive as possible for you to leave in order to compel you to stay", then marriage makes all kinds of sense. The logic is “I intend to spend the rest of my life with you, and you feel the same way, so let’s make that intention ‘official’ in the eyes of the government in order to be seen and treated as a unit”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 10:12 PM
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In the US, the divorce rate has actually fallen to around 45%
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 10:01 PM
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dicks definitely all feel different
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 09:55 PM
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dicks definitely all feel different
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 09:55 PM
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give up
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 09:05 PM
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i don't want my dead body fucked. Your spouse is supposed to mourn and bury you when you die, not get aroused
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 09:04 PM
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a fat woman
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 08:58 PM
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she would if she was desperate to keep him
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 08:51 PM
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That's just you and your sexuality, though
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 08:50 PM
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Even if it seemed convincing to the man, I still think men are easily convinced… outside of personal experience, when do men ever experience women having great sex and orgasming? And how many men have lots of that experience? Most of men’s idea of what the female orgasm looks like comes from porn, which is all fake. That’s why it’s easy for women to fake it, because we just replicate men’s expectations. Maybe she just stopped faking it, and her real orgasms were less theatric. >No guy could deal…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 04:18 PM
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Weak jaw. Needs to lift
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 04:00 PM
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Maybe she was acting. Lots of women fake orgasms all the time. And there is such a thing as being too big. Even if it was true that their sex is not as good, a secure man would try to figure out how he can be better, not become so… down trodden that he leaves her and cant fuck her anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 03:57 PM
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is it really inconceivable that what a person likes during sex can change over time? Or that someone could gain the self respect needed to stop chasing after someone who clearly isn’t as into her as she is to him?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 03:44 PM
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just sounds like PMS to
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 03:36 PM
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Bro, are you fucking serious? You clearly have no idea what you’re talking about. It pisses me off so fucking bad when men think they know the FIRST THING about what a woman experiences during pregnancy, labor, delivery, and postpartum… I will say, as a mother who just had vaginal surgery and is experiencing a rough recovery, that I’d rather fucking die, or have every part of my vulva cut off and my vagina sewn shut, than be forced to share my body with another being for 9-10 miserable months ag…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 02:14 PM
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well, he's 5'9. But that's tall enough for me. I would never want a partner to be "obsessed" with me. I find it strange how others
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 03:06 AM
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somehow I don't think having multiple physical and/or mental health issues, risking death, being estranged from your own child that you are biochemically bonded to, and having your reputation trashed, just to name a few fun side effects, is comparable to having a less sensitive but otherwise fully functional penis. But like I said, there's no reason to compare. Damage from the husband stitch can be irreversible, and plenty of victims have female children or don't believe in circumcision... Eithe…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 03:02 AM
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yes, genital mutilation is terrible, and should be illegal,BUT Unwanted pregnancy has **life-long effects on people**. It's definitely not just some inconvenience for 9 months. Also, the husband stitch can make sex permanently painful, and is also genital mutilation. There's no reason to argue about who has it worse. These are all terrible things
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 02:40 AM
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it's a trap!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 02:28 AM
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i would totally wear that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 02:27 AM
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i married a multi millionaire. Crazy what happens when you actually have standards
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 02:23 AM
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bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 02:21 AM
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No. What I’m saying is, marriage is a life-long commitment, and so you should pick a spouse who has the same libido as you in order to mitigate the risk of a dead bedroom, and agrees on non-monogamy if you don’t think you could not-cheat long enough to work through a dead bedroom in the event it does occur. Otherwise… marriage isn’t for you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 12:25 AM
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did you read the part about picking your spouse carefully so that doesn't happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 12:09 AM
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often cheat on my husband in the first half of my dreams, remember I’m married in the second half, and then wake up feeling super guilty. Very unpleasant
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 12:06 AM
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oh jeez... Sorry hun. Good luck, genuinely
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 11:59 PM
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it's really not hard to secure a wealthy man
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 11:56 PM
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based
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 11:53 PM
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I didn't even consider having one
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 11:42 PM
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I didn't even consider having one
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 11:42 PM
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Well, yeah. The consequences of a bad decision always affect both spouses… it’s just that the spouse that was advocating for a different choice but abdicated doesn’t have to feel guilty about causing the consequences. I freakin’ hate feeling guilty for anything
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 11:34 PM
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Rachel Oates, although I'm more tradfem than feminist
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 10:13 PM
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Regardless, you could still say “I’m not the kind of person who has sex with other people when I’m talking to someone. Are you the same way? Can you be that way with me?” It’s not that hard to just be transparent and communicate about your expectations. And if you don’t do that— which, it’s fine if you don’t, but like I said, I think you’re wasting your own time—other people aren’t “lying” to you. That’s ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 10:00 PM
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Honestly, I think you’re just wasting your own time and hurting your own feelings by not being upfront with your expectations. You can just say “I just wanna let you know from the get-go, that I’m not a person who talks to, dates, or sleeps with multiple people at once. If you’re not the same way, we probably shouldn’t be talking.” The vast majority of people will either understand and end the relationship there, or they’ll feel the same way and you’ll have no issues. Expecting to be lied to all…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 07:58 PM
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So… essentially, you didn’t tell her you expected celibacy from her during this phase, and you felt lied to and betrayed when she… didn’t read your mind? Then accused her of lying by omission? And also you expect women to lie to you regardless… sounds like you have some personal growth and healing to do before you go looking for a relationship, honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 07:41 PM
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I’m gonna say we’ll just have to agree to disagree, cuz I’m trying to avoid personal attack territory…Believing that no one is entitled to decency gives major anti social vibes, and obviously people, as social animals, respond accordingly to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 07:36 PM
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see the rest of this thread for my response to this
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 07:31 PM
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Did you communicate with her that you would like to know if she has sex with others while you’re talking?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 07:19 PM
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No, I have to disagree. We are entitled via morality to decent treatment from other beings, which includes fidelity from romantic partners... and while there may be no legal consequences to indecency to others, there are generally social consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 07:12 PM
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I’m a woman who believes in submitting to her husband. I do, in fact, consider him superior to me in those ways [hello, hypergamy ;)] I like that I can trust his judgement. I don’t think he’s always right, but I know if we disagree on a matter, there’s a good chance that I may be wrong as well. The other side of being the leader in a relationship and having a submissive partner is having to take responsibility if you pick the wrong choice, and I am glad that doesn’t fall on my shoulders much of …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 07:03 PM
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To me, “fidelity” means being loyal to your partner, supporting them, and acting in a way to preserve their trust and happiness, because when you love someone, you’re made happier when they’re happy. With that in mind, fidelity looks different from couple to couple, because different people are made unhappy by different acts/scenarios. For example, some heterosexual people are uncomfortable with their partners having opposite-sex friendships, and/or spending time alone together, and have their p…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 06:48 PM
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right. It's a commitment to work through challenges in order to continue meeting each other's needs and to make each other happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 06:29 PM
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I don’t think anyone should enter into any kind of committed relationship, let alone marriage, if they can’t be faithful to their partner. Even if “fidelity” for you looks like non monogamy within relationships, that still means agreeing to it ahead of time as a means of avoiding hurting people. Hurting people is immoral and there’s no reason to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 06:19 PM
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So, I am a married woman. I do my best not to deny my husband sex (of course, there are times when I’m sick, or bleeding, or injured where sex isn’t really feasible.) On the rare occasion when I’m “just not in the mood,” and he is, I consent and participate in sex with my husband anyway, because I end up enjoying it, and I'm glad afterwards. He does the same for me, with the same mentality. I also don’t mind if he sleeps with other women, if he feels inclined, simply because it’s never bothered …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 06:06 PM
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her name is Nona; she's a rocker with a nose ring. She wears a two-way but I'm not quite sure what that means
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 02:43 PM
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nothing is ever really a meritocracy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 02:38 PM
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was she really even hiding it then?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 02:34 PM
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I feel really bad for people who see sex as a desecration of their bodies and a degradation of their value as human beings
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 12:07 AM
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asking the real questio
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 12:00 AM
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sounds effective, ig
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 11:41 PM
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>It leads to the objectification of women Only if you *already* see sex as men using women’s bodies as opposed to men and women having sex *with one another*. >to the normalization of a lack of commitment Idk, I guess? But not everyone wants to be in a committed relationship. It’s good for there to be options for still getting your sexual needs met. There are all kinds of people looking for all kinds of situations. And the cool thing is, oftentimes casual relationships develop into long term one…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 11:35 PM
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what was the number?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 10:00 PM
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How many relationships would you want a potential partner to have had before dating her? And how long do they have to be to count as serious?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 09:54 PM
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how do you find out, though? Just asking?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 09:44 PM
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Parenting in general is a 24/7 job. But dads are parents too
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 01:06 PM
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I've been saying this! When did it become acceptable to go shirtless in a gym? and some of the stretchy, wedgie inducing "shorts" they wear too are literally underpants!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 01:03 PM
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Its just kind of like low key compliments and sometimes teasing, or hinting at attraction... right?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 01:02 PM
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I would legit murder someone if I found out they were violating my body in that manner
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 12:55 PM
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I've dated people non exclusively in the past, and almost every time a partner asked for exclusivity, I declined because I didn't care for them that much. The one exception was the man who became my husband. That was an easy choice. We have sort of a partially sexually open relationship now, where we're both allowed to sleep with other women, although neither of us really does that anymore-- its been like 4 years since we've had other partners. No other romantic relationships are permitted thoug…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 12:53 PM
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Why did you go after the man instead of your ex?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 12:53 AM
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The good men have standards. Also like career/income, musculature, style, confidence, self-security… those are are things that men work for.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 12:48 AM
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I had to learn how not to be a sperg before I could get my first relationship. And it wasn’t with the quality of guy I wanted. I also do a lot to keep myself in shape. So it’s not exactly “no effort”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 12:46 AM
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Why is the assumption that everyone who is partnered up had to do no work whatsoever to secure the relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 12:38 AM
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No. No they’re not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 11:54 PM
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They would violently murder one another
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 11:54 PM
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Idk. mine does
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 11:38 PM
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Bruh, if you really love someone, you don’t do things to hurt them. You’re not ambivalent as to whether they leave or stay
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 11:37 PM
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When somebody says they’ll do something and then they don’t, and they do something they know will hurt you, you can’t trust them anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 10:58 PM
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Why do men sleep so much
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 10:33 PM
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Beta
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 10:29 PM
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Because it hurts people and destroys the foundation of trust in any relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 10:27 PM
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Gahh that’s no good either }:( I guess if that’s the case and I can’t ever be on top, I’ll take the smaller one. But I’m gonna have to resort to clitoral orgasms ever time and the dude better not feel inadequate for me doing so
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 10:25 PM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 10:22 PM
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Lmao I was not expecting those results… I picked men because even if I get graped, I know at least I’ll have better odds of surviving with food, water, and shelter
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 10:22 PM
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Catching feelings for someone other than your current romantic partner, if you’re monogamous
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 10:11 PM
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I’ll take too big then. I just don’t think I could get there from penetration with a 3.5 incher, and that’s my favorite part of sex
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 10:08 PM
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That’s a hard one! Can I teach big dick dude to be better or is he one of the ones who don’t listen?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 10:04 PM
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I would think having multiple partners for whom you have feelings would be tricky… having side pieces who we booty call once in a while would be fine with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 10:01 PM
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How big and small are we talking? Like so big it’s a cervix poker? Slightly below average, or teensy?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 09:56 PM
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I guess the feelings lean less towards nervousness and more towards comfort? I was gonna say “less obsession” but I think I probably think about my husband just as much as I did when we first started dating. And I still can’t wait to see him the next time, even if he’s just at work during the day. Idk everything is just good
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 09:54 PM
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Could’ve prevented World War II if we just got that man some pussy smh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 09:49 PM
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Got banned for racism
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 09:48 PM
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It is done 😌 https://imgur.com/a/Nyjq6h4
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 09:42 PM
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What will you do if your appearance wasn’t actually the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 08:10 PM
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The way I see it is that men do have to put in more work than women, so for that reason we should be able to fuck around more. Everyone should be allowed to have as many partners as they want without societal shame. More sex for all. But intentionally deceiving others, and not making good on your promises to be monogamous, are just shitty things to do regardless of gender. You don’t have to settle down with one person at all, if you don’t want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:50 PM
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Is that expensive? How long is the recovery? Risk of complications?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:43 PM
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Doesn’t embarrassment predominantly stem from worrying about what others think of you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:32 PM
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What’s a cop out about it? The same advice doesn’t work for every individual in their individual situations. You wouldn’t tell the dude with great hair to shave his head, just because some other guy has male patterned baldness and looks better without. You wouldn’t tell a guy in high school to get as muscular as he possibly can, because the girls around him probably prefer more slender builds at their age. But you could give that advice to someone in their late 30s or 40s, because women in that …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:31 PM
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It’s okay for your therapist to see you stim, you know. They’re supposed to be able to read your body language and ask you why you’re feeling what you’re feeling when you’re talking about certain topics, so they can help you navigate those feelings. S/he isn’t going to go “look at this weirdo stimming; I don’t want to hang out with him anymore.” That’s not their purpose. They don’t judge.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:17 PM
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I will
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:13 PM
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Sugar, vanilla, and holiday memories
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:12 PM
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The original comment said “You can give incels a list of things they need to do to get sex and/or relationships” Yes, such a list needs to be tailored to each individual who receives it. The point is not that you can make a generalize list and expect every incel ever to follow it. The point is that you could make a personalized list and the likelihood of the incel for whom it was made doing everything on it is extremely slim. Are we on the same page now? Cuz I’m getting irritated with the obtuse…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:11 PM
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Yeah fuck being the starter girlfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:04 PM
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I think a lot of celebrities get a fame and make up halo, at least facially. If I saw a (barefaced Zendaya){https://www.pinterest.com/pin/775815473306060310/} and I didn’t know who she was, I’d probably give her a 5 or a 6. She is slender though, so that probably ups the overall rating. Same way with like, Jason Momoa. I don’t think his face is actually all that attractive, although he has a hot body.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 06:54 PM
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I like it when my husband has his glasses on. They make him look cute and nerdy. For some people, glasses really make them more attractive. But for most, they’re going to be more widely marketable without glasses.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 06:49 PM
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There are probably fewer men who are low libido than women who are low libido, but maybe that’s because women are on hormonal BC and shamed into sexual repression so much
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 06:47 PM
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Okay. Cakes are in the oven. Kitchen is destroyed. But they smell fucking delicious
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 06:46 PM
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What are you getting done?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 06:45 PM
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So it just come across as incredibly insensitive to tell people who struggle immensely and have tried to improve themselves in many ways something like this: "have you also done this and that? you need to work harder and put more effort!" But that’s the truth. They do need to put in more work. Does it suck? Yes. Is it fair? No. But that’s what needs to happen before they have success. If they wanted it to be sugar coated, they can go into blue pill dating subs and get told some bullshit like “ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 06:43 PM
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Maybe. Now go study!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:40 PM
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Don’t get leg lengthening surgery; it fucks up your ability to walk and leaves you in pain for the rest of your life. There are plenty of short men who still get sex and relationships. Idk what you look like so I can’t say whether plastic surgery would be worthwhile or not, but there are still sooo many other ways to improve before going there
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:37 PM
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Thanks. Good luck to you too. I have a lot of things to think about now lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:29 PM
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There’s not enough time in a lifetime to try literally everything when it comes to the factors that influence attractiveness. You say you’ve tried a lot of things, but to say that you’ve tried “everything” is just incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:27 PM
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In order for only 40% of men to reproduce and 95% of women to reproduce, .95 x .60 = 0.57 or 57% of women have to reproduce with men who have more than one baby mama. That’s just not happening these days. So either most women are making babies (which requires having sex) with men they find to be unattractive, or there’s something wrong with the two studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:14 PM
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The only thing you can do if you were given crappy circumstances is work hard to get out of them. The world isn’t fair and it’s never going to be, no matter how much complaining anyone does about the unfairness. We don’t know the circumstances of anyone who posts here saying they can’t get sex or relationships. The only way to know exactly what their issue is with regards to sex and dating is to know them as people IRL, and evaluate what they look like, how they live, how they are with the oppos…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:02 PM
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You have to think about geographic location with universities though, and how that affects attractiveness. You’ll get a high percentage of people who are relatively local to the school who attend because of cost/convenience, and then a certain percentage of people who are high socioeconomic status who can afford to travel and pay higher tuition. (Although not sure if they have free education vs tuition in italy… i should look that up too, but I’m lazy and I need to go bake my husband a birthday …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:49 PM
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Good for you, and I’m happy to hear that you’re on a path forward. Therapy is not easy, but it’s worth it 🫂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:40 PM
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As is every conversation with you, this is pointless and a waste of time
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:37 PM
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What I’m trying to figure out is if the study took a sample of university students and had them rate other university students, or if they had university students rate random people of different ages
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:29 PM
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Bro what? “Emotionally people do not agree with you?” What does that even mean
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:28 PM
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Most dating subs are inundated with blue pill mods that will ban you if you say anything purple or red pilled
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:27 PM
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Is it wasting time to improve yourself and to remain open to human interaction in your everyday life? It doesn’t “end” until you get the thing that you want. Otherwise your options are : a) give up and be miserable without the thing, or b) continue trying different things to get the thing. Lots of men try, but they try only a few times or a few specific things, and then they give up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:25 PM
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Why does the overall history of humanity matter in the context of the lives of men who are alive presently? I don't care because the average man still find the average woman attractive enough, those women don't have to improve lol. Women can just exist and get partners, but that doesn’t mean they’re getting high quality partners. If you’re a 500lb woman who can’t leave her house, you’re gonna attract men with feeder fetishes who are going to make you fatter and completely dependent on them until…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:21 PM
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He should continually be improving himself and trying in a variety of situations and places. It’s weird to try something once and assume that because it didn’t work, it never works.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:05 PM
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Having sex with other people before entering into a monogamous relationship with your partner isn’t infidelity. Also, the full connotation of “cuckold” is a man who gets off on the humiliation of other men fucking his partner. Committing to high n people is in no sense of the word “cucking” oneself.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:04 PM
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What spaces are there left that we can talk about dating, sex, and relationships that aren’t inundated with incels or blue pilled mods?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:59 PM
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“I walked down a street staring at women one day and none of them looked back at me therefore IOIs NEVER happen!!”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:58 PM
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The vast majority of OF creators are not making very much money at all
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:57 PM
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I think parents have like 50% responsibility for any of their children who become incel
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:55 PM
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That’s not what “cuck” means 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:54 PM
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I don’t think you’re understanding what I mean. There’s “if I had to rank ten people on attractiveness, the one I put in the 5th position is statistically the sample average” and there’s “on a scale of 1-10, this is how attracted I am to each individual, with 5 being neutral” I don't care why women rate most men as below average tbh Of course you don’t, because then men would have a way to improve their situation, and people like you want to continue making excuses and claiming the locus of cont…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:51 PM
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No, I didn’t spend my time scrolling through hundreds of thousands of responses. Also, I was someone willing to go on free dates (and still am, even in my marriage) and I know many other women who are as well. Not all women have that requirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:43 PM
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Well, what are the things about him that make him unattractive? has he bodymaxxed? Does he have a suitable haircut? Is he hanging onto his hair even though he has male pattern baldness and he would look better if he shaved it? Would if help if he grew a nice beard, and if he can’t grow a nice beard, how can he increase his testosterone levels? Does he smell good? Does he move with confidence and athleticism? If he’s like, physically disabled, has he gone for physically disabled women who might u…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:39 PM
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Whatever you say. You always insist that nothing bad ever happens to women and that it’s always their own fault. I have no idea what your problem is
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:35 PM
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Idk why men want to date those women though. If someone is genuinely interested in getting to know you as a person, they won’t mind doing something free or inexpensive. Also I think that list was satire, wasn’t it?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:33 PM
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There’s no standardized list that works for everyone. There’s a customized list if someone writes one, but it’s not going to be very effective for the individual for whom it’s not specifically tailored. Like if a dude is physically attractive and has good game, but for whatever reason he just has terrible body odor, then seeing a doctor about it and/or practicing better hygiene is gonna be his “list.” But another dude who dresses like a homeless man and doesn’t know how to talk to people, let al…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:24 PM
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It’s not their “job,” no, but it’s what friends are supposed to do for one another. Also, we don’t know if she “drank until she fell down and passed out.” People do get drugged and sexually assaulted sometimes. That’s why it’s wise to go out with friends who actually care about you and look out for you. You know, watch your drink while you go to the bathroom and make sure you come back after a reasonable amount of time and go looking for you if you don’t, and don’t let a stranger haul you off if…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:19 PM
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Does the “least fat” country in Europe still have a high percentage of overweight and obese people? googles As of 2022, 46.4% of Italy’s population is overweight or obese. https://www.statista.com/statistics/727968/distribution-of-body-mass-index-bmi-italy/#:~:text=Notably%2C%2011.4%20percent%20of%20Italian,while%2035%20percent%20were%20overweight. So I think that still probably explains a lot of the statistical skew in ratings
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:14 PM
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Statistical average is not the same thing as average attractiveness. Women’s biological attraction is still set to a time when most people were a healthy weight. If “5” means “the minimal threshold after which I consider someone attractive,” and most men are fat, which renders them unattractive to women, then a man rated 5 is going to be above statistical average, but still not be considered above average in attractiveness. Men will fuck anything they can get because they’re horny, so their stat…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:08 PM
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You’re a troll, and you come here being melancholy and defeatist complaining and annoying people, and somehow I don’t think you’re all that different IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:00 PM
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Yeah, idk why more men don’t do free/cheap first dates… you’re just getting to know the person and whether they’re worth dating in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:56 PM
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Certainly won’t hurt
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:54 PM
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Have you considered that most men are fat, so they are below “average?”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:51 PM
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That depends. When were you in high school? How long did you date these girls? Were you fat? How much exercise did you get? What was your game like?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:48 PM
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This is a waste of time. Clearly you’re just a miserable troll
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:47 PM
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Oh, I thought you meant here specifically
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:46 PM
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If you don’t want to be around the people here, why are you here? do you just like being annoying? You’re going “wah people don’t like me” and then continuing to do things which make you unlikeable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:46 PM
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-22
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:30 PM
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Iraq
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:30 PM
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It doesn’t actually help you feel better though, because you’re just focusing on the negative and not putting your energy into actually getting the thing you want. And I’m the process, you’re further alienating yourself from other people because they don’t want to be around your misery. It’s like watching someone stab themselves repeatedly and being expected to give them sympathy forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:29 PM
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Lmao it's not defeatist, its the reality. If you say it to yourself enough times, you’ll come to believe it. Complain complain complain compline whine cry jerk off with your tears and complain some more. I’m sure that’s making you soooo much happier
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:26 PM
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Or, or… men who are struggling wander into incel spaces, get their victimhood affirmed, and then they spread out all over the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:20 PM
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That is one basic thing that most people also do
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:19 PM
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Because complaining doesn’t get you want you want, and it’s annoying to other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:18 PM
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Besides some of the most important stuff is quite unchangeable Actually it’s not, and this is the sort of defeatist attitude that will keep incels shackled in inceldom. I’m here in this space to talk about dating, sex, and relationships, not listen to men whining about why they supposedly can’t get those things and not even trying. This is not an incel sub, and the mods are fucking based for cracking down on them here. Buck the fuck up, or shut up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:17 PM
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It varies from incel to incel. You have to consider what they’re working with already
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:13 PM
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It’s subjective, and that’s why early termination vs carrying to term is a personal choice. The way I would define it is: I can provide the child with a home in a safe location, and a stable, loving family. I can feed him/her nutritious foods, clothe him/her in appropriate clothing, and can afford healthcare. I have enough time and energy to give the child the attention s/he needs. I can provide him/her with enriching experiences. I have the means to find sufficient, temporary substitute care fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:12 PM
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You should if you can’t give them adequate parenting
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:45 PM
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This isn’t an incel space, and yet it’s full of men whining about loneliness and sexlessness and Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:41 PM
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Yeah, but if people arent good at like bowling or whatever, they don’t typically develop a complex against naturally good bowlers
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:40 PM
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“Right, but did you style the rest of your wardrobe, and get the best haircut for your face, and also learn how to present as not-a-sperg, and—“ “I DID EVERYTHING WOMEN JUST SUCK!!”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:39 PM
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1) be attractive 2) don’t be unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:36 PM
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There are also men who just like seeing their partners have a good time, and if MFM threesomes give their partners a good time…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:35 PM
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To each their own
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:34 PM
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You can give incels a list of things they need to do to get sex and/or relationships, and they’ll maybe check off one or two things and come back saying they did EVERYTHING and NONE OF IT WORKS, and wonder why everyone else is so tired of hearing them whine about it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:33 PM
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Both high and low n women are capable of cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:32 PM
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So what? Nothing is going to change that unless men somehow collectively all get more picky, and they won’t, so why don’t you just do what you have to do to get what you want instead of complaining about wah wah it’s so hard for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:30 PM
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There are plenty of men who have standards and egalitarian relationships IB4 ThEyRe aLL NaTuRaL BoRn ChAdS — no, no they’re not
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:29 PM
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I wish you were too
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:27 PM
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Depends on how many times he’s shot his shots. Most men don’t get dates just for existing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:26 PM
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I wouldn’t call him Mr. Perfect; more like Mr. Okay or Mr. Adequate
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:22 PM
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Just don’t date those women. Personally, I fucked everyone I might have been interested in on the first or second date, because I was horny and sexual compatibility is important to me. But there’s a lot of men who won’t date women who do that, because they think they’re slutty and unworthy of commitment. So who’s really at fault here?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:12 PM
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That’s just prejudice
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:10 PM
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All men have to do to have a hoe phase is lift, eat well, and learn to be charismatic
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 12:41 PM
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Words have commonly understood meaning. You can’t just decide they mean something else and make a whole argument based off of that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 12:38 PM
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She had a rape kit come back confirming assault
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 12:36 PM
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Idk, sex is good and all that, but sometimes people just want an orgasm without having to deal with anyone else… I’m kind of anti-porn in general, but having more sex isn’t really the end-all be-all solution to reducing porn consumption
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 12:33 PM
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You shouldn’t measure the success or failure of parents by the child’s career choice. The goal is to raise healthy, well-adjusted individuals with as few parent issues as possible. There is a shit ton of research out there on how different parenting methods affect children’s physical health and psyche.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 12:31 PM
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You should strive to have a wealthy husband regardless of your future income :)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 12:28 PM
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That’s the best way for men to assess their performance: does she want it again?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 12:22 PM
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Nor do I think you should say anything to her. BUT research shows that children are basically meant to breastfeed for at least two years
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 12:17 PM
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Apparently they didn’t notice soon enough
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 12:15 PM
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I mean, the baby will be fine, but like I said, that’s definitely not ideal. Not for attachment nor breastfeeding
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:23 AM
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Hell, once I went out drinking by myself (not safe, I know) and I made acquaintances with this trans chick, and she followed me to the next club just to make sure I got there safely cuz I was definitely drunk, and then promptly left… you’re onto something with this scenario for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:18 AM
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Women shouldn’t be away from their babies unless they’re a danger to them. Children need their mothers
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:04 AM
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It is pretty messed up if her friends didn’t notice she was drugged and missing for part of the night
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:03 AM
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Wouldn’t bother me as I don’t like to watch sports either. As long as he lifted and looked good, I wouldn’t care whether he plays or played sports
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:59 AM
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No. That would cause economic collapse
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:51 AM
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Congrats! That’s a big milestone
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:50 AM
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No :( I was sick at the beginning of the week and then I injured my back
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:44 AM
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If you don’t have an induction scheduled… just keep in mind that you could end up going another 3 weeks. I got my hopes up and went to 42 weeks and that was mentally rough
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:41 AM
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There are lots of ways to make your bone structure look different with makeup
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 03:02 AM
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You can do some really natural looking and effective contouring with the right colors, and you don’t have to cake it on. I know because I’ve played around with it. Ive done everything from zombie make up (pale, dead, unhealthy skin tone with hollow cheeks and eye bags) to making myself look like a well-rested teenager (full, rosy cheeks, no fine lines, concealed dark circles, concealed discoloration, etc). It’s all about understanding lighting and colors. But, even if you go out with makeup that…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 03:01 AM
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Currently in an “argument” on instagram with a handful of women who are in denial about how much makeup can change a person’s face. One of them just said: it’s paint. It’s literally just shadow paint. I couldn’t build my face to look exactly like this girl if I wanted to, but I could look similar. It’s not as much of a mask as you think it is Like am I going insane, or did this woman just say she can make herself look like a completely different person, but that’s not changing the appearance of …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 02:32 AM
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Deal
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 02:16 AM
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https://www.instagram.com/p/CtfYJUBvbgo/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA== Do you think this dude is natty?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 01:45 AM
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You don’t think it’s gender dependent?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 01:35 AM
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It was nice meeting you 🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 01:26 AM
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Hello
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 01:25 AM
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You shut your whore mouth
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 01:16 AM
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Nobody tries to talk to me when I go places
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 01:15 AM
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I think fragrance is the thing that you want to apply
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 12:43 AM
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7 is attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 12:29 AM
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Nah, they need to lift, or at least do some sort of manual work
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 12:25 AM
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I was doing my best to make it so that each option had one good thing going for it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 11:53 PM
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I remember them as being a sickly yellowish hazel color
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 11:41 PM
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Why does the average man deserve this?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 11:24 PM
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https://www.instagram.com/reel/CzPNbfyPQ1L/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA== Yes or no?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 11:22 PM
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Me. Beast deserves all of those standards though. He’s wildly successful, does hella charity work, and not ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 11:16 PM
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Momoa is facially ugly but ruggedmaxxed, and he’s got a hot body
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 11:11 PM
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Do you think there’s a discrepancy in what women think “fat,” “overweight,” and “obese” look like vs what men think?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 11:10 PM
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Because a lot of charisma is non-verbal
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 11:02 PM
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That was my babysitter in elementary school… flip phones were okay as long as they had a full keyboard. Having to press each button 3 times was annoying AF. Took like 5 minutes to type a sentence ETA: and you had to use a computer to access the internet; couldn’t just google things or bank or post to social media on your phone
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 11:01 PM
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So you just like the skinny hourglass
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:55 PM
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Q4M: describe/show pictures of your idea of a good female body and a bad female body
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:48 PM
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Part of charisma is getting women to talk to you. Having attractive body language, using the right opener, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:47 PM
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So you don’t ever talk to women, is what you’re telling me
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:42 PM
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Maybe it is your charisma then
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:38 PM
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No? Why would anyone do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:34 PM
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Good body
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:33 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:32 PM
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Trapezoid is the best
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:29 PM
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Heavily muscled, 12-15% body fat. Thicc midsection (not Dorito shaped). Proportionate legs Something like this, but with slightly bigger legs https://imgur.com/a/3EyZJPx ETA: bad body: fat or too skinny, too roided (bubble gut, looking inhuman, paper cut could take you out, etc)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:27 PM
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Just ask him why he’s letting the kid boss him around. See what he says
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:23 PM
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Most women picked the option with the best body. (It’s probably the not best polling practice, but.) Further, most women would prefer an above average face AND above average body, but that wasn’t the point of the question. Also, are women able to see your body, or are you only around them when you’re clothed?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:22 PM
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I feel like those are the women who like their men better with clothes on
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 09:46 PM
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Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 09:40 PM
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So either the slut or the one that treats you right
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 09:39 PM
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My little polls confirm my hypothesis that body is the most important aspect of men’s appearance, and all men really want is for women to be nice to them
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 09:38 PM
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That’s unfortunate. I’d love it if my husband got hit on in front of me. I like when others confirm that I got a good one
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 09:36 PM
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I definitely am. I suck at drinking water
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 09:27 PM
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Oh
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 09:23 PM
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He keeps popping out babies
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 09:20 PM
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But if you had to pick?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 09:19 PM
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This is why I specified that you have to pick between A, B, or C. Obviously none of them are ideal, but I want to know which of these aspects are most important to you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 09:17 PM
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Q4M: If you had to pick between the following women, which would you choose? A) high n count, above average looks, treats you moderately well, B) low n count, average looks, treats you moderately well, C) medium n count, average looks, treats you exceptionally well (Whatever those terms mean to you personally (with “average looks” being your personal 5), and for the sake of the hypothetical, she can’t improve on looks)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 09:05 PM
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How old are you now? And how many kids are you supporting?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 08:58 PM
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Whichever body type gives you the most ick, and it can’t be fixed for whatever reason
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 08:56 PM
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So you’d go with B then, probably
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 08:55 PM
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By your standards. Bad body in a way that can’t be fixed with the gym or diet
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 08:53 PM
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I’d pick B personally
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 08:52 PM
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Good to hear. Good luck the next go around
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 08:24 PM
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Q4W: If you had to pick one of the following men to date, which would you choose? A) Tall man, but bad body, mid face B) Short man, good body, mid face C) Mid height man, bad body, good face ETA: all of them are slangin’
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 08:22 PM
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Because if you really like hanging out with the first person and want to extend the date, you have to cancel with the second person, and that’s not respectful of the second person’s time. At least put your dates on separate days
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 08:18 PM
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How was that?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 08:17 PM
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This is exhausting. You don’t know whether you’re going to harm a drunk person by having sex with them until they’re sober. Not reading the rest cuz I don’t wanna know if you’re a pedo or not
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 07:08 PM
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I don’t think you’re really avoiding anything, is the thing. Entitled men are gonna push for sex no matter what, and if you’re not down, you have to tell them no.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 07:07 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 06:49 PM
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Yes you can still grow your muscles after 3 years of weightlifting but the effect will be very minimal That’s what I said— muscle growth slows significantly, but you can still progress at a crawl. That’s why it takes so many years to reach full natty potential. Most people don’t figure out and do the best things to do to maximize their progress for the first few years anyway. I don’t think as many women are juicing as men, because it’s much easier for women to get to a level of fitness that men …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 06:28 PM
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after a couple of years A “couple” of years is not enough. It’s more like 7-10 years. Yes, there are men who are doing that, but I am alarmed by the number of men who are immediately jumping to roids.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:47 PM
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Yea, I’m not observing that That’s what I’m saying; we could probably look at the same group of women and I would observe skin saggy that you would not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:45 PM
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Believe me, I know huuuge percentage of men are juicing. I wish more of them would put in the time and effort to see how big they can get with consistent diet and training before they go on drugs that have negative health effects. If they want to be supra-phyisiologically big
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:40 PM
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Well, you don’t have the same body as every other male, and you can only ever be natty or not. So how can anybody ever speak about male muscle potential?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:22 PM
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When you harm yourself, you’ve made a bad decision. The morally superior thing to do is to help prevent people from harming themselves where possible. Therefore you should just not fuck drunk people. There’s no western country where the AOC is 14, and in the US, where the AOC is 15 or 16, it’s Romeo and Juliet laws (the older person can be no more than 3-4 years older than the younger person). Either way, I hope to god you don’t think fucking 14yos is okay
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:19 PM
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Again, not every dude on TRT is massive, and not every very well developed dude is on TRT. I’m super tired of men thinking that they’ll never be big because all of the big guys are on TRT, and then never even trying, or never figuring out what their natty potential is because they go right to roids. (Yes, many men are juicing, but not all of them.)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:12 PM
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I said “natty achievable,” not “natty”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:04 PM
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That guy is in a very different position from the huberman pic. It’s kind of apples to oranges
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:02 PM
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No. I’d rather be flat than put fake shit in my body
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 04:49 PM
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It’s easy to get huge traps because many exercises, when executed properly, activate the traps. They are a muscle with a higher number of androgen receptors, so they do get disproportionally bigger with steroid use… but those ones aren’t so ridiculously huge that you couldn’t achieve them naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 04:47 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 04:44 PM
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If they are an active participant in sexual activity, or they have implicitly or explicitly verbally consented, then what is not "clear"? That’s enthusiasm, not clarity. You don’t know how drunk they actually are because you’re not them. Again, whether something is a "good" decision or not("good" is entirely a value judgement) is irrelevant to whether it was consensual. Not really. It’s objectively a bad decision to fuck somebody with HIV without a condom when you’re ovulating. But when you’re d…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 04:43 PM
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Reminds me of this meme https://br.ifunny.co/picture/guy-that-wanted-trad-wife-tard-wife-BN1G2ZhC9
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 04:28 PM
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It’s okay for men to wait a bit longer
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 04:23 PM
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It’s a roll of the dice. Some women look almost exactly the same after having kids— no boob sag, no stretch marks, no ab separation nothing— and others get completely fucked. But the good news is, you get kids out of the deal, and that’s pretty worth it. And as long as you eat well and exercise, it’s relatively easy to get over the loose skin and droopier tits… I actually like and accept my post-baby body better than I did my pre-baby body.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 04:21 PM
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That has no bearing on the fundamental question of whether the act was consensual or not. The point is that sex is something you should have under the condition of clear, enthusiastic consent, because of the serious nature of sex, and someone who is not in their right mind— such as when they’re drunk—has decreased capacity to make good decisions for themselves. It’s the same logic behind children not being able to consent. The level of drunkenness is hard to discern, and therefore consent from d…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 04:16 PM
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That’s not really a good analogy. Sex has long term effects— you can get STDs or pregnant from it. There’s also a psychological aspect of somebody taking what is regarded as intimate access to your physical body when you’re inebriated and potentially unable to say no. It’s not exactly freely given or exchanged. A better analogy would be like, tattoo artists giving extremely drunk people tattoos. Some of them do that, but many won’t, because it’s kind of unethical to benefit from someone’s drunke…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 04:04 PM
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They are meat. Forbidden snacks
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 03:53 PM
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Nah, I like ‘em beefy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 03:50 PM
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The latter
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 03:50 PM
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But the point is you have natural recourse for it you’re born as a below average dude, even if it takes a lot of work and discipline
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 03:49 PM
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Well yeah, Derek’s juiced to the gills and he’s got boulder shoulders. That one’s very obvious. Anyone can be juicing and just not working very hard, tbf. That’s why there’s controversy about who’s juicing and who’s not. It’s harder to spot on certain bodies than others. I just don’t think the guy in the original picture’s delts are particularly rounded. A man can have delts like his if he has a dedicated shoulder day in his routine.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 03:46 PM
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We’re not exaggerating. Giving birth can be really dangerous. (Although labor can certainly be much easier under the right conditions.)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 03:40 PM
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Muscles are so hot. Men are so lucky that muscularity is a beauty standard, cuz they can just build a masculine body in the gym. I had to push a 10lb kid out of my hoo ha just to get feminine hips, and I’m back to having no boobs
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 03:39 PM
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I think men are very clueless about make up. The make up style that’s currently popular is very natural looking. They’re bad at guessing which boobs are fake too; a lot of times you can see the edge of the implant and men will still be surprised when you tell them they’re fake. Fake lips, I think, are easier to tell (the area around the lips are puffy); however, I have naturally full lips and people tell me often that they thought I had lip filler. So people are all confused
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 03:31 PM
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His delts aren’t particularly large, or at least they don’t look particularly large in that photograph. You can get shoulders like that naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 03:26 PM
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Natty achieveable
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 03:23 PM
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It’s not. I’m sort of living in that situation, where my stepkids refuse to hang out with me or their half-sibling, and they get mad when their dad is hanging out with our family “instead” of them. (The toddler is too young to know better, for now.)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 03:07 PM
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The will resent you for not getting enough time with you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 03:04 PM
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They can always quit. There are plenty of men who don’t care about a history of sex work as long as the woman is healthy and pretty
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:55 PM
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Serving fries also gets you like $10 an hour Some escorts are making $20k a night
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:54 PM
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Curious why you think of it as “getting fucked by” instead of “having sex with” or “providing sexual services” random men? Like they’re not being forced and passively r*ped
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:53 PM
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Right. Most sex workers in the US are doing it by choice because it’s easy and profitable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:51 PM
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Bro. Women are the ones who carry and birth the children. If a man wants kids, he wants at least one woman to “bear him kids.” Ignoring the work that women have to do and the biological processes doesn’t make it different in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:46 PM
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He needs to bulk up his middle so he doesn’t look like a framecel
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:43 PM
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That’s an interesting point
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:43 PM
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One thing at a time. Tell yourself you only have to clean under your bed, and once you get started, it’ll be easier to keep going. You can wear gloves and long sleeves, and let the vaccuum do most of the work as well, so you don’t have to touch spiders
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:42 PM
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Are colored contact lenses really that common nowadays? I had some for identity concealing purposes for a while and they were super uncomfortable to wear. And people keep asking me if my natural eyes are “real”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:39 PM
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It’s more difficult to get pregnant at 40 and carry to term, not “almost impossible.” But yes, that is very, very late to be reproducing as a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:37 PM
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All things being equal, a tall male is more physically imposing and would make for a less appealing target than a short male, which is all our lizard brains care about. Human evolution has not caught up with the advances in technological/mechanical weaponry.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:36 PM
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Why is unequal control and manipulation always assumed? Sometimes people actually love one another and treat each other well and mutually benefit from a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:29 PM
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Age matched couples who want children also include men who want women to “bear them kids.” That’s just how human reproduction works
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:27 PM
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You can have someone who both loves you and appreciates your financial success
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:26 PM
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Because most 25 yos are broke
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:25 PM
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Sperm counts/health don’t really diminish that much to where it’s a problem, as long as men are taking care of themselves. (Although most people are not, these days.)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:25 PM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:23 PM
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That’s all well and good until you’re splitting your time between two families and your kids hate you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:22 PM
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Something that works for me is mixing my scented things (I use essential oils instead of fragrances) into my body lotion, and just rub it all over
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:22 PM
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That one’s a close call, but the pecs give it away, I think. The way some people call everyone natty, similarly there are men who call everyone roided. Like my husband gets accused of roiding all the time just cuz he’s middle aged, but the reality is that he’s careful with his caloric and protein intake, his T levels aren’t in the toilet, and he’s been lifting for two hours almost every day for decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:20 PM
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He’s not feeling better
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:16 PM
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Almost 6’2
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:08 PM
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5’9 I’m 5’5 if that matters
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:08 PM
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It’s not consensual when people are under the influence. How hard is it not to fuck drunk people?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:01 PM
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Haven’t had high sex, but being drunk and high feel pretty similar to me, and I don’t like drunk sex. So disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:01 PM
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Allowing him to pay for your food isn’t an excuse for him to feel that way though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 01:53 PM
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Men like that are still gonna do those things even if you pay for your own meal. If you’re afraid of those things, you should carry pepper spray. You can also screenshot texts and put them on the internet, or send them to someone’s boss, as well as contact law enforcement to stop the harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 01:52 PM
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He shouldn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 01:00 AM
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There was a whole big controversy with him cheating on the girlfriend who adored him, and the gf wrote this really funny song using his cheating texts
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 11:24 PM
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Lmao you’ve stumbled onto a dude who was popular on YouTube in the 2000s! Congrats on discovering this millennial time capsule
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 11:07 PM
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Now two dogs
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 11:01 PM
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There is no taming the ovulation thirst
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 10:48 PM
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Your standards are TO HIGH
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 10:47 PM
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Damn, those kids fucked up, huh
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 10:46 PM
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I hope this doesn’t come off as offensive, but I think the degree you notice skin sag is probably les than the degree I notice skin sag. All the mid and late 20s skin I see around me is definitely more loose than the adult teens and early 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 10:42 PM
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Hubby went to go pick up dinner so rn it’s me and the child and a dog
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 10:38 PM
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Now I know why the constantly high girl who works at Bubble Shack always take so long to make my tea
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 10:21 PM
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How tho
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 10:05 PM
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Lmao okay
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 10:05 PM
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Oh no, is that a thing that happens?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 09:56 PM
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This is like the second time I’ve ever had it and it’s probably 5 mg worth
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 09:52 PM
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The THC is like Delta 9 and I think the CBD component is the 8 kind
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 09:52 PM
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Let me know if you still feel that way after your toddlers invade your bed and kick you all night long
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 09:49 PM
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I took part of an edible. Am I gonna be okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 09:46 PM
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It’s not that they’d only want you for your looks, it’s that you need to meet a minimum threshold of physical attractiveness in order for them to bother to find out about your personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 09:41 PM
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I’m fairly certain the majority of men like big boobs, don’t they? Only real wackos are criticizing men for that. The ones that criticize men liking younger (adult) women are infantilizing women and projecting, because they find older men sexually unattractive/found them unattractive when they were the age the older men like. It’s like homophobic people’s disgust reaction to the idea of gay sex; they don’t want it, so nobody else should either. Virgin preferences will always be creepy if the dud…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 09:40 PM
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Yeah, it’s not too hard to get jacked, but there’s few things you can do to really get that hourglass shape :/
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 08:28 PM
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If most men stopped paying for dates then women would simply stop dealing with most men. Which is probably fine with them since they don't want most men anyway. No. And I already explained why. Not reading the rest
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 08:22 PM
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With a little waist like that ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 08:22 PM
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That’s when they finally mature
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 07:54 PM
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If most, men stopped paying for dates, women couldn’t get dates paid for. It wouldn’t be an expectation. Women will still want boyfriends and husbands and fuck buddies. Either way you have to be hot to get casual sex without dating, and women expect men to pay for dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 07:53 PM
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https://instagram.com/anisiamartinezz_?igshid=OGQ5ZDc2ODk2ZA== Is this a filter or does this woman just have a god-tier build?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 07:33 PM
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Holla we want prenup
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 07:30 PM
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We’d be a lot healthier and more productive
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 07:28 PM
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Nooo why does my two year old know the words to “Get Low” by Lil Jon 😭 WHO TAUGHT HER THIS? (Did I teach her this?! )
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 07:11 PM
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Is stick skinny back in? Like, just really thin with no real muscle mass? Or are people still into “thicc” and fit women?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 06:08 PM
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I definitely think it starts earlier. Hormone levels and collagen production begin decreasing at age 25 for women… I look back at pictures and my skin looked so tight and smooth as a an adult teenager/20-22 yo, and now, at 27, it’s looser and lumpier. And I’m a person who takes like really good care of herself, and my body composition hasn’t changed much. I did have a kid at 24, but my skin was already going downhill before that. I think only Asian women escape that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 06:01 PM
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I guess I’m just of the opinion that women should stop being pussies about it. Save some bucks
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 05:54 PM
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Idk. I appreciate it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 05:42 PM
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Ah
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 05:39 PM
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If a man is really worried about wasting money on a date that doesn’t go anywhere, he should make the first date or two something that doesn’t cost anything. If he offers to pay for anything, it should be out of kindness and generosity and because he wants to, not because he expects sex. I don’t see how making things transactional is ever the woman’s fault in that situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 05:39 PM
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It is sometimes. But most of the time it isn’t, and men are still mad at women for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 05:35 PM
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Yeah, but obviously he’s the asshole in that situation, because he’s being assumptive and not paying for the meal out of kindness and generosity.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 05:34 PM
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Yeah, but they’re wrong, so
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 05:33 PM
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People shouldn’t spend money because they expect something in return. Gifts should be given because the person wants to give a gift. It’s not your fault if their intentions were selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 05:32 PM
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But who cares if he complains online?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 05:30 PM
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How is a man supposed to know whether you’ve used him for food, vs you gave him a genuine shot and just didn’t connect with him? Also like, if he feels like he’s being used, he’ll just stop paying
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 05:30 PM
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Yeah but like… he’s still gonna ask for it/try to make it happen, even if you do pay half, and you’ll still have to say “no”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 05:25 PM
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Why do women go Dutch on dates to avoid “feeling like they owe men sex afterwards?” Like you don’t owe anyone sex, ever, regardless of it he pays for the date. If you don’t want to fuck him, just don’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 05:24 PM
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What do you propose we do about male loneliness/sexlessness?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 05:15 PM
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To you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 05:14 PM
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That woman is probably 30, dear. You can tell by the marionette lines. She’s probably had injections
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 05:10 PM
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Not really so much a problem for the face, but definitely for the rest of the body. And who can afford the actually effective skin care products for their whole body?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 05:07 PM
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But sometimes it isn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 05:06 PM
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I have never been asked to split the bill ETA: I was reading over the comments and the whole “I pay half so he doesn’t expect sex” is so… strange to me? Firstly because had sex with most people who took me on dates just because I liked sex, but secondly because… if you don’t want to fuck him, just don’t fuck him ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:59 PM
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But skin elasticity..
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:57 PM
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Grandchad 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:46 PM
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You’re assuming that women taking advantage of benevolent sexism are inherently hurting the men perpetuating the benevolent sexism.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:44 PM
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It’s much easier to enjoy dates with unattractive people if you try to find the best in everyone. Everyone has something going for them, and almost everyone is interesting as a person
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:43 PM
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What’s the dotted line for? Feels unnecessary The age preferences make sense. There’s no reason to be upset about it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:41 PM
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Because that’s what gets us ahead the most in life
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:36 PM
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“I have female privilege and I don’t like it”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:35 PM
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There are good men and there are bad ones and you don’t know which are which until the bad ones are bad to you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:30 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:27 PM
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I’m glad my child isn’t that ugly. But I’m sure it’s beautiful to its pigeon parents
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:25 PM
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Are you expecting the women who get it to go crusading for sexless men in attempt to explain it to more women, or…?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:22 PM
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That can happen to men, too. Men get raped less often, but beat up and robbed more
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:21 PM
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I see some penises and I think they’re really aesthetic and sexually attractive, but most of them aren’t. I see some very neat looking vaginas and I think “that one doesn’t inspire disgust”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:18 PM
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I don’t think it’s really healthy for people under 18 to be having sex either way, if that’s any consolation to you. But I know what you mean by feeling like you missed out; I’m still going on certain dates with my husband currently in order to make up for what I missed as a young teen.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:17 PM
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It’s just a fact of life. You either cash in on your maximum SMV and youth early, or you trade it for other things and just do the best you can. It’s not worth crying over if you’ve unknowingly or accidentally chosen the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:14 PM
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What an evil person
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:12 PM
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Oof
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:11 PM
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My definition of broke is like, living paycheck to paycheck, having to budget everything, not being able to just do something you want to do or buy something you really want occasionally. You know, struggling. It strange that you consider letting others provide for you “slavery,” but not working for strangers who give you a lot less choice and freedom and have you do much less pleasant things for a much longer period of time. I’ve had shitty minimum wage jobs, and I’ve gone on dates with men who…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:10 PM
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I don’t really think that’s true. Everyone wants love and connection, regardless of gender. Most people want sex too. This painting of women craving commitment but not sex and men wanting the opposite is not that accurate in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:04 PM
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It’s more taking advantage of an opportunity, rather than a person. If men are wanting and willing to give you nice things, sometimes even insistent upon it, why is it wrong to accept them? Imma let people be nice to me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:03 PM
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My claim was never that I saved enough money for this lifestyle by not paying for dinner; it was that avoiding paying for dinner is how you avoid being broke. My lifestyle is just an example of “work smarter, not harder.” I don’t have much money and I don’t work. But these things are provided to me, so what reason is there to “work more hours?” And, despite what women will try to tell you, it doesn’t take that much effort to arrange and get ready for dates. You just pull up your app, swipe on a …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:19 PM
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Not really. There are lots of women who are feminists and egalitarians who are willing to go 50/50. If enough men decided not to pay for dinner dates, that would stop being the expectation. Women would have to go 50/50, or they would be the ones going without.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:11 PM
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Again, I doubt it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:52 PM
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I live in a million dollar home in a similarly wealthy neighborhood that’s has like, everything you could want within a 20 minutes drive, but is simultaneously surrounded by natural lands. I drive a new Tesla, and I have no grocery budget. We could eat out (or order in) whenever we want. We go on trips and vacations a few times a year. My child will go to one of the highest rated school districts in the country. That kind of thing. Not elite, but extremely comfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:51 PM
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Nah. There were hundreds of people in line; they were just looking at the cards, stamping passports, and shuffling people through.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:47 PM
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Can’t be used for your body if you only have sex that for the sex itself, or after the other person has actually demonstrated commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:45 PM
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Men are reducing their fertility by checks notes strapping their balls to their body. Other men are simply refusing to ejaculate, many of them only for the month of November, however. People’s parents are having sex. Old lonely people are reluctantly agreeing to sex with catfish. Women are dangling the false promise of sex to men who will feed them, and there is outrage over it. Also, if you feel anxious or like something might be wrong, apparently you should just ignore it and manifest happines…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:42 PM
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(or they are being obviously hypocritical). That’s what I’m getting at
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:34 PM
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I’m not arguing this further with you. I don’t ever “think I might be unhappy.” I’m either happy or unhappy. If I’m feeling unhappy, I’m gonna figure out why, whether the source of that unhappiness is internal or external, and I’m gonna fix it. I’m not just gonna gaslight myself into ignoring it. You’re on some weird shit, dude
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:33 PM
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I just don’t think it makes sense for men to be angry about women taking advantage of it. If men were in women’s shoes, they’d do the exact same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:30 PM
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Have you ever heard the phrase, “work smarter, not harder?” If you go on a different date every night, that’s one less meal you have to pay for yourself. If you eat 3 meals a day, that’s cutting your grocery bill by a third. If you’re smart, you can invest those savings and multiply them. I don’t have a job, and yet, all my needs are provided to me. My life is extremely comfortable, and I didn’t have to “work more hours” to finance it all. Why should I, when I have the option not to?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:29 PM
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Healthy people in healthy relationships are capable of self-reflection, effective communication, and peaceful conflict resolution. Constantly telling yourself “there’s nothing wrong and all relationships are imperfect and I should just shut up and be happy” is a recipe for misery, not happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:24 PM
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Like I said, you should seek to collect objective data about whether the alarm bells are true or false, when they start going off. If you go looking for something wrong and you can’t find anything, then you know you’re just being anxious. (But also, that’s a sign that something deeper is going on inside of yourself that could use some fixing. Why are you anxious for no discernible reason?)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:18 PM
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I’m talking about things like foodie calls. Men will buy women dinner on dates because that’s just what kind of culture we’ve built. And if someone’s willing to do that for you, why wouldn’t you take advantage of it? Men are mad about women just being humans, when their gender is the source of the privilege in the first place. And yeah, the underlying biological mechanism is that men want to reproduce with women, and by buying her dinner it signals to her lizard brain that he can provide for her…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:16 PM
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Yes, if you had bad feelings about anything, you ought to figure out the source of those bad feelings, or something bad can happen to you. If you’re happy in your relationship but you get a bad feeling, maybe you’re more observant, and you notice something like your partner putting their phone face down on the table instead of face up, putting it on silent/turning off banner notification, tilting it away from you when they’re looking at it, etc., that’s cause to think they’re hiding something fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:09 PM
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The “wage gap” is a direct result of women working less as a result of being the childbearers and primary childcare providers (which, in reality, is a natural, biological privilege.)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:01 PM
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Ignoring an “off” feeling is how bad shit happens to you. When it happens, you gotta keep your eyes peeled for an opportunity to address it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:57 PM
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This does happen, but on the other hand, women also do things like bake men birthday cakes and sit on their lap and such and men still think they’re just being friendly
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:56 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:55 PM
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A lot of men are very bitter about women taking advantage of female privilege. But what they fail to consider is that men are the ones who give us female privilege in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:54 PM
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Was it well written, at least?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:51 PM
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Why pay for food if you don’t have to? That’s how you avoid being broke
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:49 PM
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It’s like an insatiable compulsion but if you hit a the part of the wound that’s deepest and still healing, it’s like you unearth a bit of hell
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:47 PM
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How are you able to travel so much?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:45 PM
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It just looks… unbalanced. And his lat insertions aren’t… well I don’t want to say they’re not good, but I’m just very particular about muscle shapes, so they’re not appealing to me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:45 PM
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Such as?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:43 PM
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Amazing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:43 PM
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I don’t actually like his body that much… that’s why I was wondering what his front looks like
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:38 PM
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Story time?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:32 PM
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“Take away the innocence” 🤮🤮🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:29 PM
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✍️✍️✍️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:27 PM
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Does that guy ever show himself from the front?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:22 PM
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I think plenty of people have sympathy for sexless men, but also like… there’s no practical solution for that, unless we like, subsidize prostitutes for them or something like that, and we already know how people feel about prostitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:21 PM
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Living the dream
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:18 PM
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I’m a SAHM and I make $0 :)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:17 PM
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Women who want to have the least amount of sex possible are just a vocal minority, leftover from the repressed boomer and elder gen x generations. Most people of sex-having age want to be having sex at least a couple times a week. There are a significant number of women who are conditioned to want the fewest number of sexual partners possible, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:15 PM
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I think I am better looking than her. But other people who like pale, skinny brunettes might disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:09 PM
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Does the app just let you do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:08 PM
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What if you naturally have full lips?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:05 PM
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Have you visited many other countries? Which was your favorite and why?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:03 PM
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Women like sex too. Sex is something two people do together, not something one person gives to another. Women who treated sex like currency do not make for good romantic partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:03 PM
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What’s the topic in question? Because women are smaller/weaker/shorter on average and we do indeed get pregnant
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 11:58 AM
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Get a dog
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 11:56 AM
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shiny happy prostates holding hands
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 11:56 AM
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I was in high school in 2014, and some people were still taken aback when I came out as bisexual
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 11:53 AM
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Maybe you picked the worst shirt and the worst haircut tho
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 11:50 AM
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Damn, that woman is pale… also her face is pretty mid to be that looks-focused
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 11:47 AM
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I mean, people do make risky decisions, and that makes them bigger targets. But also, you could be doing everything right and still end up a victim. So it’s always best to just pay attention, and arm yourself when possible. If he would have told me the address of literally any hotel in London, I would have gotten through customs. They don’t actually check whether you have reservations or whose name they’re under… I couldn’t call him to ask or google one real quick, either, cuz I had no cell serv…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 11:44 AM
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Yeah, at the time I didn’t know they even asked you that. Obviously if I’m going to another country again, I’ll have that information because I’ll have been the one booking it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 11:39 AM
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Aw, so then it’d actually be romantic!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 11:37 AM
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Oh man 🥵
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:17 AM
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Thanks for your answer
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:15 AM
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I was 18, and I encountered this guy online, and he said he’d show me around London and put me up in a fancy hotel for a few days if I was interested in 👌👈 with him, and so of course I hopped on a plane and flew to England. Well, they have you fill out those little cards about what you’re doing and why and where you’re staying and such, and I realized he never told me a hotel address, just that a driver would come to collect me from the airport and take me to it. So I left that blank, which caus…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:13 AM
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That does make sense as a hypothesis. I think I’m just more worried about being sex trafficked because I think it almost happened to me. Also like… I fear something happening to me that will leave my child motherless
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:04 AM
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Hmm… maybe he mentions he’s going to get it redone, or something
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:58 AM
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I ain’t trusting anybody who’s fucking with my car
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:56 AM
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Oh, that’s a higher number than I expected
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:55 AM
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Regardless of whether she was sex trafficked, she was still a victim of kidnapping and murder (not sure if she was raped or if her abductor was intent on raping her; that’s unclear from the story) but like… does it matter? Nobody wants that to happen to them. There is still reason to be vigilant and contact authorities if your car’s been tampered with. Somebody can do whatever they want with you after you’re abducted
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:54 AM
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Shoot, do I have to pay you now? wait don’t answer that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:50 AM
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Let’s say it’s just that good of a hair piece, and he didn’t mention it because he just didn’t think to.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:49 AM
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It took three months to find out because you just didn’t notice and he didn’t think it was a big deal, let’s say.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:48 AM
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I mean, even if he’s got a 3 incher instead of a button mushroom, that’s still like… more difficult to “work with”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:47 AM
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Okay, so I found this, which is a situation where a woman was kidnapped by a stranger by being shoved into his vehicle, and she’s violently abused: https://www.ladbible.com/news/woman-warning-x-marked-car-294092-20221219 It doesn’t have anything to do with the zip ties, BUT it does show that women do get abducted by strangers. I’m not sure how reputable of a source this is, but this one mentions “experts” explaining how burglars mark houses: https://www.ladbible.com/news/woman-warning-x-marked-c…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:46 AM
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Sorry that happened to you, and I hope you’re alright. No one should be having sex that they don’t want to be having.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:20 AM
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Q4W: Say you meet a handsome man with an attractive personality, and you start dating. About three months into the relationship, you found out he’s been wearing a (very realistic and virtually undetectable) hair piece, and his real hairline is receding/exhibiting male pattern baldness. Are you turned off, or is this fine? Would you stay with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:18 AM
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Based and capitalismpilled
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:17 AM
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Very few women survive that sort of situation to be able to report on how it happened. Even fewer are able to talk about it publicly, because they’re so traumatized. But I’ll go looking for published stories in a bit
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:16 AM
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It’s ok I’m jk bb
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:08 AM
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What do you mean, “not real?” If there’s a nonzero chance of something really terrible happening to you, that’s a real risk. And anyway, the people Possum is defending are only the criminals who got caught
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:07 AM
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Ugh! Come up with something more entertaining!! }:(
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:04 AM
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Ah. You can only see chat on the app, and I can only use Reddit on an internet browser
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:01 AM
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It’s hard to get good studies and data on this kind of thing. Very few report how long the studies run, or report the findings in a neutral way, or take into account that every time someone cheats, their n count goes up. They also don’t ask people why they cheat, and can’t establish a causal relationship between n count and cheating, even though people love to make that assumption. For example, the most commonly cited one here (the one done by The Family Institute) spaces out people with n count…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:54 AM
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Finally, a study not from The Family Institute
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:39 AM
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😏
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:35 AM
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Yes, in every interpretation of that question
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:33 AM
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Oh, do you have that kink too?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:32 AM
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I don’t think that makes people more likely to cheat, tbh. At some point, casual sex becomes boring, and isn’t as good as intimate sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:32 AM
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Obviously not every woman who ever goes out alone becomes a victim, but that’s a risky thing to do because you don’t have someone to immediately notice your absence. Someone could drug you and wait for you to pass out and pretend to be your friend taking you home, or catch you as you’re leaving and shove you in their vehicle, and then you’re just gone. Disappeared. Completely at their mercy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:31 AM
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People who aren’t alert make for easy targets. That includes drunk women. This is why women tend not to go out alone, and don’t like it when their friends disappear from the venue, alone or with strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:25 AM
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What is sociosexuality?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:23 AM
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I think hot people are actually less likely to cheat because they probably have less of a scarcity mindset, less Fomo, and probably end up with more attractive partners. I do think some people have poor impulse control, high sex drives, and/or place high value on new partners and experiences, and low value on fidelity.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:22 AM
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Yes, I do. Why else would people put shit on your car?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:19 AM
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Idk man, I’ve heard a lot of “whatever he’s got, we’ll work with it!” or “well he has fingers and a mouth, doesn’t he?” And I’m just like 😬 oh honey
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:17 AM
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Okay, good. I was worried about you for a sec lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:00 AM
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If your gf leaves you over mourning the loss of your friend like a normal human being, you’re dodging a bullet. You don’t have to hide or repress your emotions around your partner in a healthy relationship. My husband has cried in front of me several times, and I still have the utmost love and respect for him as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:57 AM
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Wait til next year. You’ll do better then
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:54 AM
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No, that’s never happened to me. But anything that makes you stop and stand outside of your car for a few minutes to remove is potentially a sign that someone’s tryna nab you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:54 AM
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Are you a senior or a junior?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:53 AM
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Have you seen his penis yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:51 AM
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Oh man. Last year I was driving to my parents house late at night, and outside of a Sheetz there was a car with like 6 banana peels on it. I ran inside and asked to speak to a manager about it because I thought someone was gonna get trafficked… turned out, it was just one of the employees pranking another employee. But I was scared for a minute
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:47 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:44 AM
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I don’t really think they’re that rare
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:44 AM
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There’s a lot more people so it’s harder to moderate here
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:02 AM
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I don’t like his actual face as much as I like his expressions and body language. His movements ooze the charisma
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:01 AM
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A hard-to-get, attractive man is even more attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:59 AM
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Minors aren’t allowed on the discord server. You’d be kicked
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:57 AM
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What do you know, I’m actually not a slutty slut slut then
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:53 AM
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Ah, so like romance novel handsome
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:52 AM
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No, not at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:48 AM
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We select for greater attractiveness with regards to physical appearance, which is related to physical health
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:46 AM
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Yeah. I went like 0 to 50 real quick
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:40 AM
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Do you have pics of your second husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:38 AM
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I could see that skewing height queens perceptions, but I’m not a heigh queen
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:36 AM
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if we’re talking conventional ratings, I’ve slept with men from the 2 to about 8 range. If we’re going by personal ratings, 2 to 10. I think I‘m like a 7.5
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:23 AM
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That would be bad for the human genome
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:20 AM
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Tall man with good face and body > tall man with good body but ugly face > short man with good face and body > short man with ugly face and good body >tall man with ugly face and ugly body> short man with ugly face and ugly body
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:19 AM
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I heard that uterus removal can cause early menopause. The tubes can always be taken out if sterilization is all she’s after. That way, she’ll never accidentally get pregnant, but she can still do IVF if she ever changes her mind. Sugar daddies are easy to find online, but it can take some trial and error to find the ones that are actually pleasant to date
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:17 AM
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I accumulated a high n from 17-19, and then met the man who would become my husband. Then we got a few more bodies together (although we haven’t been with other people in almost 4 years now)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:05 AM
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I’ve shown them on the discord, but I’d be more reluctant to do that on the subreddit… they’re not much to look at anymore anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:02 AM
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Well, I just got out of the military reserves, and my husband doesn’t want me doing delivery driving any more after a recent car crash, so… i guess I’m just keeping house and raising a kid until I find a new way to make pocket money
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:56 PM
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Yeah, it wears on people after a while, especially if you can’t be picky about your clients. Hope she finds her means out too
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:41 PM
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*parent issues
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:36 PM
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I will if there’s ever a reason to. Like if she asks at an appropriate age
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:35 PM
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The first thing anyone should know about me is I’m a shameless high n, slutty, skanky, whore-y slut slut
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:29 PM
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Nice lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:27 PM
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It wouldn’t be so bad if it wasn’t his pitchy, nerdy, reedy ass voice singing the lyrics
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:26 PM
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Right… I’ve done way nore scandalous things than sell nudes too, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:22 PM
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When do I put down low n women ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:11 PM
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Anyway, pre nups are real and meaningful and enforceable.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:10 PM
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A skydiving company can do everything right and someone can still land wrong and hurt themselves. I think you’re just full of shit
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:30 PM
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So what you’re saying is, if I go skydiving and I break my leg, I can have the injury waiver completely disregarded, and still win the lawsuit against the skydiving company?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:57 PM
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I mean, suit yourself. If you don’t have FOMO to begin with, great. But what this guys is assuming is that I think women should go hoe around while men shouldn’t, and that’s not the case. You (in the general sense, not you personally) shouldn’t settle down with somebody whose past you envy, because if you still have FOMO, you’re not gonna be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:56 PM
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Why would they be a thing if they’re meaningless
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:54 PM
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I’m pretty sure you can knowingly waive your claim to future assets, and knowingly agree to a fixed amount of assets following a divorce. It’s like, you don’t know whether you’ll be physically injured when you do something like skydiving, but you still sign a waiver to waive responsibility from the skydiving company. As long as the agreement doesn’t leave anybody impoverished, and not made under duress, the agreement is legally enforceable. It can also be amended after marriage, if both parties …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:35 PM
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Are you saying that guy is big-eyed?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:26 PM
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Well, clearly you’re not interested in being in relationships then. Which is fine, but like… it’s weird to be a male, non-fuck-zoned, non Chad who’s assuming women are being constantly fuckzoned by Chad. That’s why it’s considered a revenge fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:23 PM
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They could have ENM too, if they wanted
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:11 PM
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That’s a weird way of looking at it. I think everyone should “have their fun” before choosing a forever partner, regardless of gender. Get all the FOMO out.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:10 PM
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Good luck! :)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:09 PM
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I mean, I’m almost 30, and I’m living the way modern 35 yos are… I’m just kind of thinking about experiences that other people have had that I skipped. I’m always scheming about ways to have it all without really exerting myself
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:08 PM
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Most Chads are good enough for sex, but aren’t relationship material. Once you grasp that, it’s easier to understand that most women aren’t longing for the chads they’ve slept with after they’ve settled down.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:03 PM
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Elaborate? Legitimate prenups can determine the division of assets in the case of divorce, provided they don’t leave one person impoverished.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:02 PM
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Thanks for confirming that it’s normal
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:00 PM
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It’s not really the same… my husband kind of ruined the desire for sex with other men for me, and he doesn’t like to dance, so we don’t go to nightclubs together. I don’t really have time to go out on dates with other women, either; I have a family to look after and responsibilities now. And it’s much harder to even make friends
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 08:57 PM
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Maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 08:54 PM
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Yeah, almost 27 now. Been in the same relationship since 19. Never really partied in college, and I didn’t make friends (though I did date around a lot from 17-19).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 08:54 PM
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God wouldn’t have made us horny before marriage if premarital sex was that bad
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 08:44 PM
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Sometimes I (briefly) long to go back to being young and in college and casually dating hot, interesting people without any expectations, while making airheaded friends easily, and the days being filled with classes and schoolwork and going out on the weekends to get moderately drunk and dancing with said friends… But, I cashed in on my maximum SMV value early, and made it so that I could have my child young within a stable family environment and have lots of energy with which to keep up with he…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 08:41 PM
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The point of a prenup is spouses waiving their right to the claim
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 08:31 PM
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Because women who make you wait for sex a) don’t find you all that sexually desireable, and b) have complexes regarding sex— maybe they have internalized sexual shame and don’t want to be “that kind of girl” who sleeps with men “too early,” or they have a mindset that will cause them to wield sex as a currency (“if I hold out on him, he’ll commit to me, and then I’ll give him the sex in exchange” [as opposed to simply wanting to have sex with you in the first place])
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 08:29 PM
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Or for people who plan on being rich in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 08:26 PM
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I just explained to you why that’s a misinterpretation of what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 08:25 PM
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They’re links to information about how the courts work, which makes sense considering the courts don’t gaf about much with regards to the division of assets other than reducing the amount of people who end up on welfare, because then there are fewer tax dollars going into the judges’ pockets.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 08:25 PM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 08:22 PM
1

Are you not understanding the “if not” part? The whole sentence is “There’s very few women who can’t get commitment from any decently attractive men, if not from the top 20% of men.” Meaning that most women can get commitment from some decently attractive men, such that they won’t be dissatisfied when they pick one with whom to settle down. There are obviously some women who can bag the men in the top 20% (notably not “all”) as well. Hence, “if not”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 08:21 PM
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Somebody who is married is never able to truly commit to a girlfriend, unless he’s in a position to have multiple wives. By “commit” I mean like, date exclusively with the intention of making it last. Like being officially boyfriend and girlfriend and not cheating on one another
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 08:16 PM
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I would advise staying away from women who intentionally make you wait for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 08:13 PM
1

I said “if not the top 20% of men.”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 08:11 PM
1

Putting a timeline on it is a little strange and will probably scare a lot of women off… you can just say that you’re the kind of person who dates one person at a time and you’re looking for the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 08:10 PM
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I was more responding to you saying “they have time until 40” Also, it’s easy to think that people seem fine if you don’t have kids and you haven’t experienced having kids when you’re younger to be able to notice a difference. Like my mum had kids at 20, 33, and 36, and she says it’s much harder in your 30s. That’s what I’m getting at. You can wait that long, but it’s probably not ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 08:08 PM
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Considering this status quo how is women sharing the most physically attractive guys an "incel fantasy?" I think the point of contention is the “incel” side insisting that all the women sharing the hottest guys want committed relationships with these men and they’re not getting them. While that definitely happens sometimes, there’s also a lot of women who just want casual sex with Chads while they’re looking for somebody relationship-minded and relationship-worthy. There’s really very few women …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 08:01 PM
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I’m confused. Why would you want to be a single mum with many kids to love instead of a coupled or married mum with many kids to love?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 07:56 PM
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It just seems like being that old and pregnant/chasing after a toddler would be really miserable. I’m 27 with a 2.5 year old and she’s exhausting. Can’t imagine if I was 10 years older and doing this
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 07:17 PM
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There are also pre- and post- nup agreements
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 07:16 PM
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That’s what happened to my ultra Christian friend. I met her fiancé, and ig he didn’t like me, cuz I haven’t heard from her since she got married :(
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 07:14 PM
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That’s what my lawyer husband said, too. They have to be legit and they can’t get you out of child support
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 07:08 PM
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I mean, if you take money out and set it aside for spending, that’s technically budgeting
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 06:59 PM
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I was looking up how often legitimate prenups actually get thrown out, and found this site that basically said “prenups are only thrown out if they render one spouse so impoverished as to be dependent on the state.” So that’s good news.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 06:58 PM
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That’s a reasonable explanation. Thanks for taking the time to write it out
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 06:52 PM
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Not really. If a woman loves you and she’s not planning on divorcing you to make off with half of your assets, she’ll hear you out. If she doesn’t, she’s not the one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 06:44 PM
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It’s because they want to feed the low income students, and the kids whose parents leave for work too early to feed them breakfast. Supposedly there was some study like a decade ago that showed when children eat breakfast, their standardized test scores go up. So schools jumped on that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 06:42 PM
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If you have to issue a marriage ultimatum, your relationship is doomed. If a man really loves you, he’ll marry you. If he has financial-based hesitations, and your relationship is healthy, you’ll be able to talk it through with him and find a solution that makes him comfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 06:39 PM
1

Hmm… where do you think the disgust for cucking comes from?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 06:35 PM
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Yes, but if you guys are serious enough to be talking about marriage and buying a house together..
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 06:34 PM
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The biggest thing that I see here, is that he’s not viewing you as a team, financially. He’s still keeping score of the petty stuff. Like, surely you’ll pay $1.25 for something for him somewhere down the line? It shouldn’t matter, when it’s that little.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 06:25 PM
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Do you fear being cheated on?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 06:20 PM
1

That too
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 06:19 PM
1

It can help the bone formation if you’re still going through puberty… otherwise, it might help you lose some facial fat and build up the right muscles to make your jawline look more maculine
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 06:18 PM
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😭
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 06:16 PM
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Please stop. It hurts
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 05:39 PM
2

Some people here write like high vocab poets, and others write like stunted zoomers. I’m getting whiplash
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 05:14 PM
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The way people act when they’re single is different from how they act in a relationship. Before you commit to someone, you’re allowed to sleep with whomever you want. After you commit, sleeping around is wrong, unless you’re ENM. However, no woman who actually sexually desires a man is gonna make him wait six months for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 05:09 PM
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What I wanna know is, this man didn’t notice that they now had money that he didn’t earn? Like he didn’t ask her where it came from for almost a year??
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 05:07 PM
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Jesus that’s a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 04:56 PM
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Tbf, you can get things like Zika from South America, which is bad news for women who want to get pregnant
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 04:55 PM
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3 and 5 are red flags imo. You can do better
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 04:48 PM
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Ah, you’re right
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 04:45 PM
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There are lesbians in healthy weight ranges. Just not this one
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 04:44 PM
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You can tell if women are fat just by looking at their necks
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 04:41 PM
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OP is a fat lesbian
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 04:39 PM
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That’s an entirely different tangent, and I am not an anti natalist. Someone could make an argument about population replacement and keeping the world going or whatever, but that’s not a conversation I’m interesting in having. The point is that bringing kids into the world you don’t want and/or aren’t prepared to care for, which is what you’re risking when you ejaculate sperm into women is selfish and wrong, which you evidently agree with. So don’t do that, dumby
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 04:22 PM
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Once again “it feels better raw” is shitty reasoning for risking becoming a parent and bringing unwanted children into the world. Don’t be stupid and selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 04:07 PM
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We’ve been through this. I’ll break it down one more time: Infertility is not sterility. Sperm + egg = pregnancy Therefore, injecting sperm into women, however few, still incurs the possibility of pregnancy. The smarter thing to do would be to assure zero sperm go into the women you’re trying not to impregnate, which can be done through sterilization surgery, abstinence, or quite simply, using a condom correctly. Condoms have the added benefit of protection against some STDs, and being time and …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 04:01 PM
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That is true
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:52 PM
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I’m just wondering, cuz she said she “kicks out” awful women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:52 PM
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Are you lesbian?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:23 PM
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It’s men’s fault if they’re using shitty contraceptive methods, or not implementing good methods properly. I.E., nutting inside women when you’re not sterile because it FeEls BetTeR, and going “oh well, she’ll just get an abortion if she gets pregnant. YOLO.” And then being all suprised pikachu face when they end up as dads. It is still both parents’ fault if they create unwanted children, BUT the fact of the matter is that men have zero control over whether a pregnancy they caused is carried to…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:20 PM
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Good.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:14 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:07 PM
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The point is that I’m tired of men being dumb (and being warned about being dumb) and then flaking out on the consequences, especially when the consequences are living, breathing children who didnt ask to be made.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:07 PM
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Ask him to explain it to you. No need to be embarrassed. Math comes easier to some people than others, but if you work hard to actually understand it, and you succeed, people respect that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:04 PM
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Pickmes are not pleasant to be around. They’re annoying to everyone, that’s why they started being pickmes in the first place. Normal, likeable, and pleasant women get enough attention from men and don’t have to resort pickme behaviors. The unpleasant non-pickme women just end up alone, or in relationships with beta men who they resent
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:01 PM
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The same men that are like “raw sex is worth the risk of unplanned pregnancy” are the ones who bitch and moan when they have to do dad duties or pay child support. Plus, you’re not considering the immorality of creating unwanted children in the first place. Kids deserve better.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 02:59 PM
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Idk, I think the stats show like, 12x a month is best for prostate health?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 02:56 PM
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PSA: a “pickme” is NOT simply “a woman whose personality is pleasing to men.” A “pickme” is a woman who is pretending to like what men like, or pretending to like doing what men like, in order to get male attention. She thinks of herself as better than other women and often explicitly says so, because she pretends these things. She often inserts herself into men’s spaces where she’s not welcome and tries to be “one of the guys,” but the guys find her annoying. They found her annoying to begin wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 02:54 PM
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I'll take no data that it's unsafe (heat contraception) over clear data that it has side effects (hormonal contraception) “I’ll do something potentially dangerous and conveniently ignore the fact that other contraceptive methods exist besides hormonal contraception because hurr durr raw sex feel good” I don't know about you bro, but personally I wouldn't fuck with a woman whom I wouldn't trust to abort if the contraception method we use fail. Plenty of women are pro choice and then decide to kee…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 02:47 PM
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Pickmes are disliked because they have no self respect, not because they’re gender traitors. They’re seen as pathetic. Nobody gives a shit if you’re genuinely one of the boys and like masculine things and do things that men like. I think men’s concept of “pickme” is much different from women’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 02:44 PM
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Just wondering whether a man who masturbates that much still wants sex
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 02:40 PM
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But I think men who do because they don't want their gf to use an hormonal contraception are making a perfectly sound choice considering there isn't anything that indicate that this method has ill effect on men health like hormonal contraception has on women health. Bro, there isn’t any data to suggest it’s safe. Not having any data showing ill effects because we haven’t collected any is not reason to conclude there aren’t any. Abortion is a thing as a last resort. You are a MAN. The method you’…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 02:39 PM
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How can one defend women at all costs while also pointing out pickmes?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 02:19 PM
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I see
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 02:15 PM
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I am also against hormonal contraception for women. And IUDs/dermal implants. Fertility awareness method and assuring men wear condoms AND pull out is the best thing for women. Can’t get pregnant if you’re not ovulating, or if you don’t get sperm in your vagina. Even if the condom breaks, he still pulled out. You can also take emergency hormonal contraception on the rare times that that happens. You don’t have to manipulate your anatomy with stupid shit in order to prevent pregnancy. You said yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 02:15 PM
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“Access denied”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 02:03 PM
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How often do you have sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 02:02 PM
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Give me the studies on this that show a 99.9% effective rate, and long term ones that show no ill effect on long term health and fertility. Because I would bet money on it that if we’re talking about the same population of men who can fuck up something as simple as using a condom, there’s going to be just as many, if not more, men fucking up with this method, and spurting their baby batter directly into women’s bodies. Logic clearly escapes you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 02:01 PM
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If you’re not sure why I’m against it, you’re not listening to anything I’m saying anyway. How many long term studies have they done looking into the long term effects of doing this? Let your anatomy function the damn way it’s supposed to. It evolved like that for a reason
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 01:44 PM
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Sorry for your loss
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 01:40 PM
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If you get past the first five minutes in a single gap/flick, it’s not good porn
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 01:39 PM
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Whatever. You go off an dunk your balls in your tea every morning and knock up some chick that’s dumb enough to let you nut in her.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 01:33 PM
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It’s friends with benefits but one person has feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 01:30 PM
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How often do wet dreams happen? Surely less than what’s considered healthy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 01:30 PM
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That’s another thing: you’re gonna get STDs fucking around without a rubber. Especially if you’re doing women who are just okay with men nutting in them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 01:28 PM
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I’m not arguing with you because this is dumb. An unnecessary sperm count rest is gonna run you like $400 a pop because insurance isn’t going to cover it. You could buy like 30 boxes of condoms with that money and providing you’re not a dumbass, that’s gonna be a better bet.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 01:21 PM
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Obviously we’re talking about using condoms correctly. Let’s compare apples to apples. If you’re gonna take the rate of people using condoms wrong, you have to also take the rate of people not doing heat-sperm-reduction correctly. Also, who tf is paying to get their sperm count tested every time time they suspect they’re going to have sex? You think that’s more likely than someone using a condom correctly?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 01:15 PM
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Infertility is not sterile. It takes ONE healthy sperm. Condoms are safer when used correctly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 01:06 PM
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And bake it detter
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 01:00 PM
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Body hair is okay on the limbs, but not on the trunk
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:58 PM
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Somehow I don’t think that’s true. No sperm in the vagina is going to yield a lower pregnancy rate than some sperm in the vagina. (And obviously if your condom breaks, you ought to get the woman a plan B)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:57 PM
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… what?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:43 PM
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I like a bit of ✨texture✨
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:42 PM
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Depends on how good his game is with the before. I am a gerontophile, but he just looked really run down and poorly groomed with the ‘before’ beard
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:41 PM
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Lol. You clearly don’t know what kind of people I come from
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:39 PM
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No dear. If you have a low sperm count, your likelihood of getting a woman pregnant is low. But it’s not impossible. All it takes is one motile sperm to get past the vagina’s defenses and to the egg, and you just might be a daddy. Wrap your willy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:39 PM
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It’s an expectation if they also actually approach enough women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:36 PM
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Love this for you! Other spergs take note: you CAN learn charisma
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:34 PM
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He can have sex without orgasming 😈
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:34 PM
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That’s just bad for your health
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:33 PM
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Because women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:32 PM
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https://imgur.com/a/kZZ42is
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:30 PM
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Okay, okay. But I can still nut, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:30 PM
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But that’s just no fapping, right? He’s allowed to but if it’s sex
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:27 PM
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I’m pretty sure I am
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:26 PM
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I’m pretty sure I accidentally did Only-Shave-Once-It’s-Not October already 😬 I will be waxing through November
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:26 PM
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But they walk on land, and sometimes they eat mammals and birds
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:23 PM
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Gasp I JUST REALIZED ITS NO SHAVE NOVEMBER AND MY HUSBAND HASNT SHAVED! FUCK YEAH!! I ❤️November
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:23 PM
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Spiders?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:21 PM
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Adults are adults. While I think older woman-younger man combos are strange and probably work out less often than OM-YW combos, there’s nothing wrong with it. I always say, if you’re too young and naive to date someone older than you, you’re too young and naive to be dating at all, because your age peers are equally capable of taking advantage of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:19 PM
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It only takes one sperm to impregnate someone
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:13 PM
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Maybe you just don’t attract HVW
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:12 PM
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Even if a dude does verbally say “we’re in a committed relationship now” before having sex and then immediately dumping a woman, why tf would she even be sad about that? Who wants a man that’s playing games? And she certainly wanted the sex, otherwise she wouldn’t have had it with him. There’s no point in retroactively regretting the sex that you wanted and had. Women should just be like men and celebrate that they got in an attractive guy’s pants. Flip the script, y’know? And why would anyone a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:11 PM
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The more you learn about sex and what pleases women, the more likely you are to be her best
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:02 PM
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Cheaters are always low value even if they’re the Chadliest of Chads
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:59 AM
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So level up and stop being an “inferior male”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:50 AM
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And people tell you that you’re just being bitter when you say that men with super low n count preferences are just insecure. Meanwhile, you can ask them and some of them will literally tell you what Happy_ben said
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:49 AM
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Pumping and dumping isn’t real
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:46 AM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:46 AM
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If a woman slept around a lot she is more likely to have experienced a big dick so she cannot be satisfied anymore by anything smaller. Bigger isn’t better past a certain point. The vagina is only so long. I’ve found that anything much longer than 7 inches is painful, and therefore my husband is ideal for me. But it took going through a LOT of partners to find someone as compatible for me as he is, and now he knows he is the best of many, as opposed to the best of one/a few, or simply “the first…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:45 AM
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Would
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:32 AM
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7. I just had to order a new birth certificate so I can try to update my driver’s license and renew my passport, but I have my social security card and my marriage certificate filed safely away
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 02:40 AM
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I think it’s the tail ends of the bell curve that come here— they’re early super high inhibition, or super low
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 02:36 AM
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14.5. I’m 27
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 02:35 AM
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Well, you can’t have sex in public because not everyone consents to seeing it, and there might be children around. And you can’t have sex in front of children, because children imitate adults, and aren’t mature enough to be doing sexual things yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 02:32 AM
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The other sisters can’t deny
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:41 AM
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Start your own country and implement a bartering system
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:40 AM
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We like nice butts
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:38 AM
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Fair enuf
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:37 AM
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Sounds like a really bad idea overall
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:36 AM
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My n count just dropped considerably
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:32 AM
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Neither are bodies. For straight people, only PIV or anal counts towards one’s n
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:31 AM
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What do you think the “consequences” are and/or should be? Do you think they apply to men as well? I have a high body count and nothing bad ever came of it, and I’m not a feminist
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:28 AM
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The real sluts. My kiss-to-sex ratio is like 2:25
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:08 AM
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Gonna start judging people by their k count instead of their n count
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:05 AM
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Welcome to LIB season 6!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:57 PM
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I don’t think he’s facially below average. His body is not good though. The most surprising thing about this video to me is that Jonah Hill speaks french
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:57 PM
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Unpopular opinion: kissing and cuddling are more intimate than sex
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:54 PM
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Or at the very least, unobservant enough not to notice she’s crazy before committing to her
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:46 PM
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What if your dad came back from his milk run?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:40 PM
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How else are you interpreting the pills?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:38 PM
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Weight lifting and eating more will do you more good
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:37 PM
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Yes. If you can get both, why would you not pick both?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:34 PM
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That’s an interesting way to look at it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:23 PM
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Normal for their age
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:07 PM
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I’m of the opinion that children should only be made intentionally and be born to parents that both actively want them and have the means to give them a good life. Early abortion when those conditions aren’t met is an unpleasant thing, but I think it’s much better than a woman suffering through a pregnancy, birth, postpartum recovery, and both the mom and child suffering through separation in order to hand the child over to strangers, or the child suffering neglect once born, if the unprepared p…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:04 PM
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It’s like fat women calling obesity “beautiful.” Technically the ability to eat so much that you start losing mobility is a privilege too, but everyone knows it’s not aesthetically pleasing or fun to actually experience. Men wanting to fuck you is definitely a privilege if you know how to put it to good use. Men bend over backwards for pretty young women, and you don’t even have to fuck them. I’m turning 27 soon and I’m starting to notice some signs of aging (although when I took my toddler tric…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:54 PM
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Lol, I feel like men think they’re being discreet when they’re peeing in public, but they don’t realize they all adopt this very specific posture and you can almost hear “don’t be suspicious; don’t be suspicious” playing as they pretend to look around
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:47 PM
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Nah. I’ll take risk of getting pregnant over no control over whether it’s carried to term if I impregnate someone else any day
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:45 PM
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She has pretty coloring, but her skin is aging badly
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:38 PM
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I pee standing up whenever I want. I just hover or straddle the toilet
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:37 PM
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Feels like cope. There is so much privilege in youth and attractiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:32 PM
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Male privilege is being able to pee in narrow-mouthed bottles on roadtrips
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:31 PM
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I don’t like it and I don’t get the appeal either
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:28 PM
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Our load is split. I do the housework, he takes care of the finances
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:27 PM
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Nah. I need my partner to be making the big bucks, so he’s got to work hard. Then he can come home and relax.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:22 PM
1

I don’t feel bad about pork. I met a pet pig once and he was a dick. Fortunately I have never met a friendly cow
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:17 PM
1

Berries, you say? I must’ve had it wrong; here I was collecting nuts
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:12 PM
1

Silly. The pole goes in the hole, not the balls
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:08 PM
1

You don’t need permission from your parents to date anybody at 21. You are a full grown adult. Also, there’s nothing wrong with that age gap
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 09:59 PM
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Men who are good with kids >>
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 08:09 PM
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Women can have sex in the kitchen too, silly
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 08:09 PM
1

Based and tradpilled
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 08:07 PM
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Yes. If he’s got energy to come home and do dishes after a day at work, he’s not working hard enough
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 08:07 PM
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*applies to women as well
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 08:05 PM
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If the woman was treating him as an active murderer instead of just a possible murderer, should would be calling the cops.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 08:03 PM
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Tomorrow. Happy International Dickemdowns Day
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 07:51 PM
2

Hulk smash!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 07:50 PM
1

And I like it that way
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 07:49 PM
1

This person does not have kids
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 07:49 PM
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Oh, it’s like Heavens Gate but with feminists. Hope your exit goes well spock hand
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 07:48 PM
2

Humorous misogyny (misogynistic humor?)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 07:47 PM
1

Making the world a better place, one dick appointment at a time
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 07:45 PM
1

Limp wrists
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 07:43 PM
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A male content creator that I follow just posted a video of him doing dishes instead of the usual chopping wood, and I got the ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 07:42 PM
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You repeating the same thing over and over again doesn’t make it true. You could live somewhere that’s never had a violent crime ever, and you know who’s not gonna announce themselves when they move in next door one day? The guy that abducts you and tortures and mutilates you in his basement for weeks before chopping up your body and dissolving it in acid. But oh, it’s a “safe” place to live, so why would anyone even suspect it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 07:40 PM
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Oh, the sarcasm went over my head lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 07:33 PM
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The “safest places” are not safe
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 07:16 PM
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When two people divorce and split assets up, they both end up with ownership of fewer assets than they had as a couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 07:15 PM
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I didn’t really care about my wedding too much. My husband and I had already been living like a married couple for a couple years, and decided to get the paperwork done so he could get on my health insurance benefits. I got married in my living room over zoom, in a $20 dress I got when I was 16 from the discount rack at my first retail job. Afterwards hubby and I just danced by ourselves (well, not really “by ourselves,” cuz I was like 4 months pregnant, but) and then smushed a small, delicious …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 07:12 PM
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This is a good reason for me not to start that meat rabbit hutch I wanted
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 07:05 PM
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Hooray for open mindedness :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 07:04 PM
1

Ah
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 07:03 PM
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That sounds a lot like “there are criminals out there that harm people and the police don’t really help much,” which, idk, to meee kinda sounds like people should be taking more precautions against being victimized, yanno, not less
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 07:02 PM
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Don’t be telling people that shit. Gonna dry out your dick
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 07:00 PM
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PCOS ✅
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 06:57 PM
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at least pretend to Absolutely not. Regular video gaming and anime consumption pretty much half any given man’s SMV and RMV. I’d rather be with a porn addict
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 06:54 PM
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I’m not good at taxonomy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 06:52 PM
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Yeah, they are kind of creepy. But they can’t help it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 06:51 PM
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How do you deal with that? You don’t feel guilty at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 06:50 PM
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high n count women have fried dopamine receptors That’s just propaganda. Unless someone is having sex multiple times a day for weeks, they’re not gonna get desensitized to it (which you can do with a single partner, btw.)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 06:42 PM
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But he made eating animals and friend animals, and sometimes the line is blurry
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 06:40 PM
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They’re really very nice creatures. And funny too.. I went to a farm recently and there was just this huge goat in the petting zoo, and it came and leaned up against me to get pets. 11/10 experience
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 06:39 PM
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I don’t remember a big chunk of the many sexual encounters I‘be had, but tbf I think that’s probably a red flag too 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 06:35 PM
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I feel guilty for eating goat meat because I really like goats as live animals in general, but also… they’re really freaking tasty
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 06:33 PM
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Maybe once, but they’re not gonna stay in a relationship with him if they’re significantly more intelligent
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 06:16 PM
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Oh boy. Another “all women’s allegations of abuse are false”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 06:15 PM
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You’re next, as in… you’re going to abuse her too?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 06:07 PM
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Are you gonna go on a picnic when there’s a tornado warning on the news?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 06:06 PM
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But you’re not worrying about actual dangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 02:44 PM
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Right here
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 02:19 PM
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Yeah, and like I said: they’re “phantom” menaces, until they’re not.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 02:16 PM
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“Why bother opening yourself up to the possibility of violence? Just so you don’t suffer from loneliness and sexlessness your whole life? Just so you can have a marriage and family someday? Ridiculous.”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 02:14 PM
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Yes. Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 02:11 PM
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More gaslighting “You’re just being crazy! You’re perfectly safe!” Until you get raped and then the narrative changes to: “Women lie about rape all the time!”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 02:07 PM
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I’m in therapy because I grew up with a parent figure gaslighting me constantly. It’s a cruel and evil thing to do to people, and I’m having a normal and natural reaction to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 01:57 PM
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Har har. Let’s hang onto the dangling modifier and ignore what the actual argument is
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 01:56 PM
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There you go, next thing you know you’ve got someone trying to drug you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 01:53 PM
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It’s gaslighting when someone says “there are news stories on rapes, murders, and violence” (which are real happenings in the world) And then turns around and says “these things aren’t actually happening and you’re safe.”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 01:52 PM
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I’m not engaging with you, because you’re the one who lets his young grandchildren wander the streets at night alone, going “hurr durr, nothing’s gonna happen to them!” Nothing ever happens, until it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 01:51 PM
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Stop policing what women people feel they need to do to keep themselves safe. We don’t need your ridiculous commentary on it. You wanna walk around with your weapons out of your reach? You go right ahead. But other people aren’t wrong for keeping them close at hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 01:49 PM
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For women avoiding violence and abduction from men, to people like you, that looks like: Too wary/overreacting = not going outside alone when it’s dark, not talking to strangers, etc Being careful and prepared = not going outside alone when it’s dark, not talking to strangers, etc Basically, stop fucking gaslighting us about how safe the world is and policing the way we attempt to protect ourselves. The world isn’t safe. Let us navigate the shitshow without your stupid commentary
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 01:47 PM
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Women definitely flirt and cry their way out of tickets
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 01:40 PM
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I’m tired of men telling women that they’re “too wary” or “overreacting” to the possibility of someone harming them in one breath, and then telling them to “just be careful and be prepared” in the next. Like make up your mind
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 01:38 PM
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“Scam” has a different definition than “fraud.” I think “grifter,” the way it’s commonly used and understand, accurately describes people like Andrew Tate, JustPearlyThings, MLM promoter, religious fundies, etc., even if they’re not doing anything illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 01:34 PM
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These things happen in sleepy towns too. It’s just that they don’t have big news crews coming in to broadcast them across the whole country. The homes in my neighborhood are each worth around a million dollars. That’s not gonna stop someone from snatching me on one of my night runs and disappearing without a trace. That probably wouldn’t make the news either.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 01:22 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 01:17 PM
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I definitely think more and more people are getting plastic surgery as a result of what they see online hurting their self esteem. I also think people are becoming more accepting of it… however, I think it’s a big shame people feel the need to fork out so much money and undergo something as invasive and risky just to feel better about their appearance, especially if they’re just perfectly normal looking to begin with
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 01:14 PM
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If rape, murder, and sex trafficking are happening, it’s a possibility. If those things are a possibility, the world is not safe. We are not being “warped,” we are being warned.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 01:03 PM
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That is the best thing I’ve read in a while
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 12:59 PM
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Can you look outside of your school?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 12:58 PM
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Probably a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 12:55 PM
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Thanks, but I am a ma’am
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 12:50 PM
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The providers at Asian massage parlors tend to be very mechanical and passionless about their work. They do like 20 men a day and would much rather provide “full service” in order to extract the most money from patrons per session as possible. It would be better to seek an independent provider (someone who’s not attached to a parlor), or to seek an unpaid handjob from someone who desires to please you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 12:23 PM
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It is actually illegal to commit fraud, at least in the United States, and you can seek legal recourse if it’s committed against you. However, lots of “grifters” are not actually committing fraud; they’re just selling a shitty service to vulnerable populations.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 12:21 PM
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You seem really, really angry about this. Like I said, you don’t have to go on Vice and read the articles if they make you feel this way. There are lots of poly people who are distinctly anti-drama, who don’t even talk about being poly because people come to the sort of conclusions and prejudices you have… I personally don’t think there’s a right or best way to do committed relationships; it’s whatever works best for each couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:29 AM
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Also he never does a full rep of anything. Just throws weights that are too heavy for him around in partial reps
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 04:40 AM
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You like skinny pretty boys, like most young women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 04:39 AM
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Another himbo with biceps for brains
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 03:28 AM
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…What? What do you mean, “power?”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 03:23 AM
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Scrolling through the progress pics posted on r/GregDoucette reminds me why I stopped dating men under 35. So many himbos without a thought in their heads
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 03:23 AM
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Sounds like this woman had a really shitty, toxic marriage and is projecting it onto all marriages between young people
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 03:19 AM
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Idk, I feel like my personality has changed a shit ton over time… but I did undergo major life events that shaped it, less so than willing the changes into being. But also most of those life events were choices…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 03:06 AM
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The original hairstyle made him look like an old man too, though
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 03:01 AM
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Family time is always nice
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 02:58 AM
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Good to hear! There are few things cuter than babies and small kids in costumes
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 02:46 AM
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Funny things I’ve experienced today: A dog trying derp-ily to eat the leaves his owner kicked up while they were out walking Some of the neighbors were enjoying adult beverages in those blow-up costumes outside while they passed out candy to trick-or-treaters. They started chanting “One of us! One of us!” And I turned to see a small child toddling around in a Garfield blow-up costume. Somebody asked what a certain muscle in a provided picture was called (the right answer was trapezius) and the t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 02:45 AM
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She’s definitely underweight. Most likely if she can’t get commitment from a man who meets her standards, she’s crazy and/or unlikeable, personality-wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 02:37 AM
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That really sucks
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 02:31 AM
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How was your Halloween?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 02:27 AM
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these poor damaged thots scaremonger with You don’t have to be a thot to be physically hurt during your first time. You could wait five years and be the most relaxed and in love you ever could be, and putting a penis through your hymen can still hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 02:20 AM
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I’ve never experienced “tender emotions” for a person specifically because of sex with them
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 02:18 AM
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Math for PPDers
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 12:48 AM
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I am a woman who’s okay with planning fun things. I just need a partner who will do them with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 12:17 AM
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There’s still a high probability that you’ll die before him, given that that’s a very small age gap. If that’s any, uh… consolation
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 12:15 AM
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Why are women the imperfect ones? It’s men who lack a uterus. Technically with modern technology, women can reproduce on their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 12:13 AM
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Not very often. Sometimes we joke about the aging
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 12:11 AM
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That is also descriptive of me
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 10:13 PM
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You don’t have to read the articles, you know
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 09:09 PM
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I like my partially non monogamous relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 09:08 PM
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Give a beach bum a shower
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 09:06 PM
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You rn: “Dalmatians are black and white. Therefore all black and white dogs are Dalmatians.”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 06:58 PM
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Some people just smell good, man. Ain’t gotta make excuses for it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 06:40 PM
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If you’re struggling to find the kind of partner you want, it’s not that your standards are too high. It’s that you haven’t made yourself valuable enough to someone who meets your standards (yet).
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 06:38 PM
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Baby making equiptment is releasing eggs, but into the abyss instead of the chutes that lead to the assembly and housing compartment
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 06:28 PM
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Again: Cuckholdry -> degree of humilitation Compersion -> lack of humiliation; joy/pleasure at your partner’s joy/pleasure Apathy -> not caring what your partner does with others. Labeling all poly people as cuckholds is like calling all dancers “strippers,” just because some dancers are strippers.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 06:13 PM
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You ought to expect people to correct you when you use words wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:57 PM
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Cuckholdry involves a degree of humiliation, as in, the partner having sex is enjoying the dis-enjoyment/envy of the non-sex-having partner. That’s different from compersion or apathy with regards to your partner having sex with other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:52 PM
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I’m ovulating but I don’t have fallopian tubes… does that count?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:48 PM
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I do think that men have dating and relationships harder in general. But I also hypothesize that girls are more pressured to fit in and be normal and feminine from a young age (from parents and peers, mostly. Girls are so mean to each other!), whereas society sorta lets boys do their own thing. So maybe that’s why female autists tend to go undetected more often… I still don’t think men are less capable of adapting and masking successfully than women, though. You seem to think different and attri…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:46 PM
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I’ve never been officially diagnosed as being on the spectrum, but I highly suspect I am. You say that if I was a man, my experience would be radically different. Why? What makes males unable to adapt to social expectations, or unable to conform to beauty standards? Your situation with your work is a sum of all your choices. You didn’t have to do your homework or attend your classes, but you did. Sure, school doesn’t come easily to everyone, and some people have to study harder than others. But …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:56 PM
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I’ve decided to paint my face up like a zombie and go limp around and lift really slowly at the gym. Hopefully I don’t scare any little kids
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:29 PM
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Spooky season is sexy
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:25 PM
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You are special and important to at least several people in the world, and whatever pain you’re going through, you can get through it and find peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:24 PM
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Gotta smash up the other side
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:22 PM
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Big disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:20 PM
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I mean, for someone like me, every single interaction, and every time I go out in public, I have to actively and consciously monitor my body language and movements, my facial expressions, and my words, just to appear “normal.” I feel like an alien trying to blend in with the humans in a body that’s not mine, or like I’m playing a game where everyone else knows the rules except for me. It took a lot of observation and practice to get there, and I’m continually refining those rules and observation…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:17 PM
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God, the forces of the universe, the powers that be, whatever higher power you believe in… It sees us all as we are. Sexual depravity and all. It just wants us to do the best we can to be good. I don’t believe anything is morally wrong unless it harms other people… and of course, I don’t go to church to run my mouth about what I did the night before, either. It’s a time for introspection, connection, and community outreach.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:04 PM
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Sigh. When will my acne-covered, barely hygiened, still-living-with-his-mum Prince Charming ever come for me? To sweep me off my feet with talks of college blackouts and how much he hates his slightly-above-minimum-wage job???
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:59 PM
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above average intelligence Aww thank you 😊 that you will never struggle when it comes to dating I actually really struggled as a young teenager to get anyone to date me. But that’s because I was spergy and had no social skills and failed to interact with people “correctly.” I had to learn how to do that, style myself better, and gain some self confidence, and then… well, when it rains, it pours. I don’t see any reason why everyone can’t do that. I almost never see anyone who is truly, unfixably …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:56 PM
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My husband is 25 years older than me. On weekdays, he gets up early and goes to the gym. I wake up when our two year old does. We eat breakfast and either prep for my workout or for her school day. Hubby comes home around 9am and I basically sexually harass him while he showers and gets ready for work. Then he goes off to work, and I drop the kid off at school or gym day care, and go exercise. The rest of the day looks like housework, time spent with the toddler, and cooking lunch and dinner. Hu…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:53 AM
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Sometimes I can’t believe I’m existing in the same world as some of the posters here, that’s how different my experiences and perceptions of it are from theirs. I seem to want sex just as much as men do, and men seemed to want relationships just as much as most women do. My history was never a problem in securing LTRs. Pumping and dumping is an entirely foreign concept to me. People’s preferences (physical, circumstantial, and personality wise) seem to vary wildly. OLD has yielded both wonderful…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:37 AM
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Hi there. Just wanted to submit my experience with dating/sex/relationships: I dated a lot, and had many sexual partners, but I rarely ever caught feelings. I’d say I’ve felt love for three men in my lifetime, and been in love with one (my husband.) I don’t think that “pumping and dumping” is really even a thing— that’s just women trying to use sex to get relationships instead of having sex because they want sex, which is dumb. HVW don’t have an issue securing commitment when they want it, regar…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:19 AM
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Ur doing it wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:08 AM
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One of Hubby’s buddies hears about it. But he’s a degenerate too
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:33 AM
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No; I am sick unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 10:45 PM
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<3
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 10:42 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 10:41 PM
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Nah, all of the places we’ve been to allow single males; they just have to pay more to get in
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 09:55 PM
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I’ve exercised it more than he has, tbh lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 09:51 PM
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Well, you usually have to pay for drinks if you’re bringing/ordering those, too. Single men tend to get less action. They’re most likely to get in on a train, gangbang or an orgy where the female participant(s) are open to everyone. Men who come with women are more successful at getting one-on-one or small group (4 or less) interactions than the single men. For us personally? We’ve always had our pick of participants because we’ve been the most attractive ones there.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 09:51 PM
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Most of the time there’s an entry fee or ticket cost, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 09:42 PM
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It’s open to other women
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 09:41 PM
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Events that they have at sex clubs, hotels, house parties… something like that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 09:40 PM
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Be afraid to order fruity drinks
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 09:30 PM
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Trying to plan some nice things for Hubby’s birthday. I want to take him to a sex party for some specific acts he’s always wanted to try, but I’m having trouble finding one that has those things for his birthday weekend. I’m also undecided about making a fancy cake that’s themed from a special memory of him our daughter, or a pair of boobs with the caption “Tits your birthday!”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 09:29 PM
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Y’all are addicted to porn. I’m addicted to videos like this: https://youtu.be/JvkyzwgTw7I?si=_nxNTw3Y7Ftfp9qJ Jk. But it makes me feel like I’m watching my dad build me the treehouse he always promised but never built. This is healing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 03:56 AM
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5s. <10 seconds
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 03:48 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:56 AM
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I just read the social matrices for both men and women. I don’t know what you’re talking about This isn’t AWALT or AMALT. This is just birds of a feather flocking together in your groups and then you project that on the entire population. I’m not projecting anything. I’m telling you, neurotypical women don’t notice the subtleties and intricacies of female social interaction because it’s natural to them. When you’re a little spergy and have to consciously process everything, you see it clear as d…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:23 AM
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Female social matrix
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:10 AM
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That’s a fictional movie, not people on the internet actually believing in the revenge fantasies they’re talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:10 AM
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All women are the same. I’ve been LC, MC, UMC. They’re all the same when it comes to the FSM
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:08 AM
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It’s legit all women who are like this. The women who say it isn’t just do it subconsciously. The men who say it isn’t like that don’t pick up on the subtleties.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 01:50 AM
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I’m not. Any woman can rack up a high n count and still secure a HVM, as long as she’s got a half decent personality and isn’t obese. There are plenty of men who don’t gaf about n count.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 01:46 AM
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I look in the mirror and like what I see, therefore I consider myself above average. There are some things I would change, so not elite.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 01:40 AM
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You can’t even remember what you said That's fine. Just don't expect guys to take you seriously for relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 01:37 AM
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Even when men engage in revenge fantasy, its grounded in reality tho. I don’t think you know what “fantasy” means. Can't say the same for female revenge fantasy. Examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 01:34 AM
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I’m afraid to ask… womb implants?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 01:18 AM
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I don’t sit around and think to myself “That man is gonna be alone forever because he had sex with x number of people!” like a fucking weirdo
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 01:07 AM
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I went to the gym yesterday but not today :(
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 01:05 AM
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Cool. You don’t have to justify yourself to me; I don’t have revenge fantasies about strangers not getting things they want because they had sex with a certain number of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 01:04 AM
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I sleep great on my king sized, adjustable, memory foam mattress, next to my sexy husband, in our million dollar home, in a wealthy and safe UC neighborhood
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:59 AM
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Go to therapy and don’t date until you fix yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:57 AM
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You’re losing it. It’s okay if your revenge fantasy isn’t true. Everything is going to be okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:56 AM
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It’s textbook gaslighting to 1) tell somebody their reality isn’t reality, 2) belittle and mock them, and 3) spin the fact that they’re trying to convince you as evidence they’re not correct. You’re a very sad and miserable person, and I’d feel bad for you if you weren’t being a dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:51 AM
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Smh
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:19 AM
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We know
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:17 AM
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Post pics
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:17 AM
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Men’s revenge fantasies are so funny and sad
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:13 AM
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Why does it bother you so much that high n women can have the exact same thing, with even higher value men than you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:09 AM
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I think it’s funny that you can’t conceive of a woman getting everything she wants, or that your revenge fantasy isn’t real
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:02 AM
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It is very convenient. I don’t have to work a “real job” a day in my life. I’m filled with awe and lust when I see my husband’s body. And I didn’t have to starve myself of sex in order to land him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:52 PM
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Q4W 1) I would notice that he’s dressed well, but not be attracted to him Q4A 1) Men have a lot longer to settle down than women do. I think probably before age 45, if they want children. After that, they start to get into too-old-to-be-having-kids territory
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:45 PM
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You're stupid for doing so. Hell the wife's high mileage friend flat out admitted to her that she is constantly questioning what it would have been like with this other guy that both their kids go to. Stupid for doing what? Having sex with as many people as I wanted and then settling down with the one who was the best in bed? The super hot multimillionaire who’s a phenomenon father and husband? I don’t wonder what my life would have been like with other people because I’ve experienced enough to …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:40 PM
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Why don’t you ask them?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:09 PM
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Everyone is annoyed by this
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:09 PM
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You suck at this
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:08 PM
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Just reply to the thread homie
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:06 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:05 PM
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Women’s social structures are much more complex. Everything worn, done, or said has a concealed deeper meaning
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:05 PM
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My experience is reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:02 PM
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All the high n women I know of are married
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:53 PM
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You can just reply to the person, you know. Unless they’ve blocked you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:43 PM
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Then I am indisputably, uncontestedly, undeniably accurate, factual, and correct in my statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:42 PM
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If I have the money, I’ll pay for them. Like I just took my husband out to lunch and to an event on the beach. But I don’t work outside of the home very much, so I don’t have much money. But there are lots of free, cheap, and military-discounted things to do, too
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:37 PM
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Some people are philosophers and others are legislators
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:34 PM
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Well, I hope things get better for you. That must be really difficult to deal with
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:29 PM
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Can you be more specific
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:28 PM
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I thought people went to psychologists for that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:22 PM
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Prove it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:21 PM
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What if they just like sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:18 PM
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It’s all subconscious. Women pick up on it the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:18 PM
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I’m just a teensy bit mentally ill, but also lead an extremely stable life. I like adventure and to go on cool dates, especially to places I’ve never been. I’ll try new things, but I don’t like doing them if I’m bad at them. I don’t like arguments but I’m super good at discussions. I won’t directly pester my husband to get what I want, but I will come up with creative ways to influence him. Two of my favorite hobbies are shooting guns and hiking, but others are like, painting and reading. I get …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:17 PM
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A 5’4 woman (average for where I live) should be between 108 and 132 lbs
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:10 PM
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The dick game must be good
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:07 PM
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Maybe a 5 or a 6? For both questions
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:07 PM
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On purpose or by accident?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:05 PM
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And use diuretics
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:05 PM
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I like my man AND what he provides
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:05 PM
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Some of them looks sadly down own shirt
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:46 PM
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I think a 4 pack or a light 6 pack is good. That’s a healthy amount of body fat
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:29 PM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:23 PM
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Maybe that’s why it’s off-putting
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:23 PM
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Okay, last comment for today, I swear. There’s a pool party in my neighborhood. I wanna go and make mom friends. I should wear a more modest swimsuit than a sexier one, right? Cuz I want to come off as fun and approachable, but not intimidating or threatening.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:16 PM
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Right
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:06 PM
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Lol! That too
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:04 PM
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Y’all ever see those pics of men with like, way too many visible abs Edit: https://imgur.com/a/Zik7Cit
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:00 PM
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What does “accountability” mean to you, in this context?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 08:47 PM
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You’re onto something
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 08:46 PM
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Do you ever worry about having suppressed your sexual desires for so long that you won’t be able to shake off the sinful feeling once you are finally married? That happens to lots of people
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 08:44 PM
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Seek medical attention. You are experiencing psychosis
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 08:40 PM
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I don’t think anyone actually wants sex with her, is what I’m getting at. She looks very… clumsy and plain to me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 08:38 PM
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Oof 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 08:34 PM
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It’s probably not even that high, but because she’d lose followers over it, she won’t share
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 08:33 PM
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I definitely disagree, but discussing it makes me grumpy IRL, so I would prefer not to get into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 08:31 PM
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*empathize
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 08:26 PM
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Does she even get sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 08:13 PM
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I’m a bit picky with penises, but I do find a well-proportioned one attractive to look at. There are… less ugly vaginas, but they still look… like vaginas
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 08:11 PM
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Not bad. You could use some conditioner and gel in your curls to give them some definition and less poof.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 08:08 PM
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I don’t think the average person encounters situations which require hand to hand combat very often, but it’s hard to extinguish that basic female instinct of wanting to feel protected. It probably comes from cave man times, when men had to protect their families and resources from competing/warring tribes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:58 PM
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Coloring the white parts will make it look more like his hair did when he was younger. It will look less grey and more youthful, even if we’re technically adding more gray. We can’t go in with solid black or dark brown because that will definitely look unnatural
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:53 PM
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It’s a perception of how much protection a man can give you. If you perceive him as a peer or near-peer to you because of his height (even though men are much stronger than women of the same size,) you’ll feel less protected from danger than you would if you were with a man who is taller than you. I don’t disagree that women’s insecurities often go unscrutinized.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:50 PM
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He dislikes the grey, yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:43 PM
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Wanting someone who can protect you from things in the outside world is an external source of insecurity— those are often out of our control. Whereas an internal source of insecurity might be feeling like you’re not feminine enough, such that you need someone bigger than you as a partner in order to feel feminine. The control we have over that is to reflect on the gender roles we’ve internalized, and how we’ve connected those to our gender identities. It’s possible to get rid of that insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:41 PM
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We will see.. I’ll find ways to subtly push without coming across as non-submissive. Like making Amazon suggestions come up, touching his hair often, and taking lots of pictures of him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:36 PM
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Yeah, and it remains that way. I just prefer silver or salt-and-pepper gray hair to white hair
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:28 PM
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Story time?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:26 PM
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You sure sound like you’re at peace. It’d be a shame if something… happened to it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:26 PM
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Forreal! Idk why they don’t teach them how to cut curly hair in beauty school… you suggest a dry cut to them and they act like you just told them you kill puppies for a living. Maybe I’ll try out a specialist when it grows out a bit and see if it’s worth the extra money
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:23 PM
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There’s nothing you can do about height, but there are still short men who get dates. Very few men are ugly enough that no matter what they do, they can’t attract wome
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:21 PM
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Maybe, though I’m not sure what to do with it. It’s curly, and they cut lots of layers into it, so it’s just been like really feathery :/ Hubby said he liked it when I had my bangs pulled back yesterday, so maybe I could do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:15 PM
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Surely there’s gotta be lesbians that don’t want oral?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:13 PM
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You can be bi but just not like vaginas
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:08 PM
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I’m a slut at heart and I don’t think there’s anything wrong with that. I just don’t want to outwardly look like one. And I certainly don’t want to look like a zoomer
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:06 PM
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They make a lot of difference, unless they’re already maxxed out when you started
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:05 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:05 PM
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Not much that a guy can do *proceeds to name 4 different very intensive things
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 06:33 PM
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So then you also looksmaxx and now you’re better off with whatever kind of date you can land
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 06:30 PM
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