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Thank you <3 I am trying
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 09:28 PM
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And the reason why this "system" still exist is because unfortunately we keep giving value to their opinion. Unless you live in a country under Sharia law where "fornication" has SERIOUS consequences, the best thing to do is to simply ignore this people or tell them to STFU. Not excatly country but the region I grew up in ironically lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 09:25 PM
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They lead into each sex as reward means you need to do something in exchange to winning it as in paying or winning tye courting game which why they are so tedious I'm not saying they individually think this was I'm saying a system was created that is still keeping it this way
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 08:50 PM
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I'm not surprised
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 07:39 PM
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If interacting with women and seeing them is causing you so much suffering maybe staying home and not going out to places with many women is the solution
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 07:07 PM
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Alot of hetero dating dynamics that men hate would have been solved if a woman sleeping with a man wasn't "lowering" her value this is something men contributed to equally
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 06:29 PM
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I say look at this handsome boy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 06:16 PM
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How did he do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 04:30 PM
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Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 10:01 PM
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The opposite happenes just as much stacies get approached by guys way out of their leagues all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 09:54 PM
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Another chad brain rot. move on
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 01:26 PM
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These men should taken the hint
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 12:56 PM
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It does
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 10:53 AM
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Women don't feel wanted being approached by men who want sex
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 10:16 AM
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That's your personal exaggerated view
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 12:08 PM
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consider themselves to have drawn the "shorter stick" biologically How is that false?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 11:32 AM
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Damn
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 10:48 AM
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I feel like it's the latter
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 07:27 PM
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You two are so cuteee
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 04:00 PM
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Ahh sure
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 03:06 PM
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You don’t? I'm very surprised
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 02:58 PM
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Sure why do you hate feminists then?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 02:52 PM
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I'm not that active in that sub since I'm into victim mentality subs
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 02:43 PM
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Sounds like you'd have liked women to be banned, how different are you from feminist subs hmm?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 02:38 PM
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Ok sure but they're equally hostile I commented once and they kept personally attacking me
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 02:30 PM
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MRA subs are excatly like feminists subs
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 11:27 AM
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Not really both sides equally hate each other
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 11:25 AM
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Women who make me turn my head are rare How rare?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 08:42 PM
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Just go for the beta, sis!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 08:02 PM
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What different does it make to you? You feel more valued paying for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 11:35 PM
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Sad
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 05:56 PM
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Hmm still don't get it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 05:53 PM
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I'm afraid you'll have to explain this
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 05:48 PM
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Keep exaggerating you totally sound normal
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 05:12 PM
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Lmao stay delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 05:07 PM
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When did I refute those stats are you being serious? And no men still interact with women in their lives they have mothers sisters classmates and coworkers, you just ignored it because your excuse that they don't have romantic relationships is irrelevant to what I'm saying
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 05:02 PM
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Zero stats cited by you btw
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 04:54 PM
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I'd rather know why you keep exaggerating everything instead of admitting you were wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 04:49 PM
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Delulu
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 02:48 PM
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Yeah because men only ever interact with women when they are in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 02:45 PM
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Why man
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 02:44 PM
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As if media consumption doesn't effect real life lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 02:07 PM
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But the idea that it actually translates to real life. That all these men are abusing all these women. That's physically impossible. Again that's just what you made it out in your head I never said that, but there is proof of problems arising in schools because of manosphere consumption
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 02:06 PM
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And my argument isn't that they are abusing women my argument is that they are idolising men who are successful with women, watching how they became this way
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 02:02 PM
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So you're just in complete denial ok Most men have absolutely no success with women. This doesn't prove anything in fact manosphere is aimed at these men
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 02:01 PM
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Again that's just what you want to believe Also what do you mean has "manosphere in it" that's the topic💀 Here are some parts if you don't feel like reading it Research has confirmed that many influencers and ideologies linked to the “manosphere” (e.g. ‘alpha’ masculinity, male victimhood, gender essentialism) are now mainstream in men’s lifestyle and culture, with large portions of boys and men regularly engaging with these narratives on social media, podcasts and in gaming communities (eSafety…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 01:56 PM
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It's just what you want to believe https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0736585326000389
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 01:44 PM
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I don't live an Internet bubble I went to college I saw it myself, also this is just talking about regularly engaging not including ones who do but not regularly so it's more
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 01:00 PM
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That's not some random group of the Internet, the manosphere is very popular and mainstream among young men, roughly two-thirds of young men regularly engage with it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 12:54 PM
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Yeah he did
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 12:47 PM
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No he already knew it worked when he said that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 08:34 AM
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So you'd rather pay a prostitute than... be happy you have a girlfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 08:26 AM
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That's false look at the rise of manosphere among men and boys
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 06:02 AM
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They do they try becoming like them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 08:27 PM
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To be fair, men do this as well, but there's just a much smaller percentage of men who are chased by women than vise versa. Those men do equal harm and yet men who are frustrated still idolise them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 08:25 PM
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I'm not close to any of them ever since I was little they are not in my life
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 07:00 PM
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It's worse when you have successful family members but your parents were the losers
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 06:15 PM
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Ok so you're leaving because you couldn't prove me wrong bye
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 05:10 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 05:08 AM
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Then how was it a change in definition just because I mentioned disadvantages?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 05:07 AM
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Bro you didn't explain why that's a problem why is connecting disadvantages with exploitation is a problem
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 05:06 AM
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I did you can't use my comments against cause I do read them you just explained it poorly
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 05:04 AM
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Huh? Do it again cause I didn't understand it at all
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 05:03 AM
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No you didn't you only explained how they are connected not why it's a problem to you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 05:01 AM
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Well than explain why you kept bring up that I said disadvantaged over and over again
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 05:00 AM
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You explained it at the end after a long back and forth and you still didn't explain why suddenly disadvantage is a forbidden word
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 04:59 AM
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You didn't youbkept showing me random ass screenshots you only explained it in the final comment it's not problem I further even explained why you saying I’m biased because I don’t count domestic labor as exploitation even aligns with your own argument as by itself you’d only consider it a disadvantage rather than exploitation itself. I still don't understand this weird tangent am I not allowed to say disadvantage is it a no no word if the topic is exploitation
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 04:57 AM
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Also I asked that because you showed a screenshot where it's connected you could have provided better explanation don't turn it on me just because you failed
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 04:50 AM
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Ok? Answer my question
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 04:49 AM
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What is argument here you are trying to make that I changed the definition because I mentioned exploitation and disadvantages in the argument that's your gotcha move? Explain to me what you mean before demanding that I explain things
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 04:43 AM
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Yep and it's just a random screenshot with nothing of what was being said good one
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 04:38 AM
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Where was exploitation mentioned? Just because you want to mix them so you can ~prove~ that I change my definition doesn't mean it's true
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 04:31 AM
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I did you just ignore them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 04:26 AM
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Tell me your argument
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 04:25 AM
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Here you can hold my hand while reading through it https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/RuPijgLKol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 04:25 AM
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What are you feeling hurt now because you can't prove me wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 04:23 AM
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And how us that relevant to what I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 04:23 AM
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I already did but your response was ingoring it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 04:22 AM
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Ahh like always same answer when proved wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 04:22 AM
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I'm the one eho has to always remind you of what I said because you intentionally ignore them and no you didn't read it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 04:21 AM
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No read the comments in the screenshot again
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 04:18 AM
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I talked about disadvantages in the comment you mentioned the screenshot you are the one who mixed them up mid conversation that's not my problem
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 04:18 AM
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You are the one mixing all things up not me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 04:16 AM
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Ok so how was that a different definition?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 04:10 AM
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No I don't want to write long paragraphs where you'll nitpick irrelevant words and ignore the ones that you don't like and go against your argument
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 04:09 AM
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Do me a favor and count how many times you did that and show then to me if you see contradictions or changes in my definition as you said I did then show me and then I'll answer this
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 04:08 AM
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Everything almost
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 04:07 AM
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Look at your own comment where you took the screenshot is my job now reminding you also to read your own comment
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 04:07 AM
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I said I won't you've been doing that fir hours just not to admit you were wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 04:05 AM
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Aren't you the one who literally took a screenshot of when I was talking about disadvantages saying I'm wrong or adding things, it's ok to admit when you are wrong and stop going in circles
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 04:04 AM
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I said I'm not answering another one of those I already did like 4 to 5 times I'll answer this and then because you don't want to admit you are wrong you'll bring another one so no thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 04:02 AM
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If you mean disadvantages that people may face in life, here are some examples: Physical disadvantages Living with a disability Chronic illness Poor physical health Limited access to healthcare Financial disadvantages Growing up in poverty Unemployment Debt Lack of stable housing Educational disadvantages Poor-quality schools Limited access to higher education Learning disabilities without adequate support Illiteracy Social disadvantages Discrimination based on race, gender, religion, or disabil…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 04:01 AM
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Show me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 03:59 AM
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You ignored the second part of the comment the one where you are proven wrong as always
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 03:57 AM
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Yes I did I said why in the comment Tell how I'm changing the definition veery 5 minutes or is it because you nitpick over nothing and ignore most of my comments
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 03:56 AM
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Yeah dude I have to be Google for you do I have to add ect... when giving examples so you don't think it's just those
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 03:52 AM
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It is Yes you are biased And you have yet to answer if I lie over and over to a woman to get sex if it’s exploitation I don't want to answer another version of your if X then Y is X
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 03:48 AM
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Younger was always mentioned saying 26 years old means younger do you want to me to teach you more?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 03:44 AM
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Cuase I'm sure looking for a submissive woman who does what he wants and doesn't complain and nags doesn't mean easier to control be for really all you do is nitpick irrelevant words And as a man I explained what it often entails. Funny you see it as feeling special now but when that man said it, just because he’s in the Philippines it automatically means something else with no evidence Funny how the woman doesn’t have to move to 3rd world poor country where men are at a direct disadvantages to …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 03:43 AM
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No I never did you keep accuse me of false things I don't have to I already did you just ignored it How is that the same as princess treatment? Princess treatment is a woman wanting to feel special and pampered
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 03:28 AM
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No I didn't add it I don't have to say social expectations and restrictions on every single comment for you to be satisfied and you also mentioned how I added bad economy dude bad economy is the same as poor country my god labor as exploitation when it just as much is. If you don’t follow that with what you said before that is me reading your comment you just didn’t add the shit. System system system how many times do I have to repeat it I mean I also literally said “this is expected of men” so …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 03:21 AM
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As always not reading comments and playing ignorant take an hour and reread them again before you reply to me Because I'm tired
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 03:14 AM
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Not in this comment
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 03:12 AM
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I mentioned them from the very beginning on exactly what I mean when I say disadvantag you try can try all you want I made that clear from the first comment
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 03:12 AM
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Se how you ignore the part where I said specifically life circumstances
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 03:10 AM
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You don’t consider it exploitation because you don't personally see domestic duties being forced from expectations as exploitation doesn't mean you are right, it's just as much of an exploitation
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 03:07 AM
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So you're nitpicking "good" now is that all you do nitpick irrelevant bulshit see the second statement saying he wanted a good life as per what you said you didn't point that out why?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 03:02 AM
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You did
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 03:01 AM
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That he is a good man who just wanted a good life, not like he went to a 3rd world country known for their submissive traditional women, no 26 year would ever marry a 67 year old be his wife cook for him without poor living conditions
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 03:00 AM
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Ah yes it's not exploitative because you don't want to see it that way because it undermines your entire argument
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 02:58 AM
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Literally what I said what is you gotcha bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 02:55 AM
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Huh so now you went from the friend didn't say it to he didn't say it are you serious? I said he went there because of what his friend said you really don't read my comments So you are backing off because you kept going in circles never proving anything
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 02:47 AM
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Yeah "happy" I'm sure I can believe it from the guy that wanted a woman that doesn't use him for his money and went straight to a 3rd world country LMAOO
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 02:44 AM
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She cooks every meal doesn't complain doesn't nag you'd live like loyalty
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 02:42 AM
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This is quote I mean let's be serious here she is happy because this is her norm if you disagree otherwise it shows why we are still arguing
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 02:37 AM
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A woman pressured into that role because of social expectations is different
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 02:35 AM
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When does value him become trading him like a president is that how normal relationships are?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 02:35 AM
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"She is not unhappy with her dirt floors until someone shows her a gilded cage." Showing me a supposed woman from a 3rd world country is happy is irrelevant again
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 02:34 AM
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Ah yes I have to proof how a passport bro went to the Philippines for a traditional submissive wife, that's the culture dude did you not read the entire comparison I replied with
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 02:28 AM
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No it's the same thing you keep doing I say he wanted a young submissive woman who cooks and cleans and then you keep repeating that same "values me" statement as if that changes what I said as if one sentence in a video changes the fact he heard from his friend and went there and got it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 02:23 AM
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By disadvantages I mean life circumstances social pressure different culture restrictions bad economy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 02:20 AM
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How did I change it? I didn't change anything I added something to show how one sentence doesn't change what she actually was going for
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 02:18 AM
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Huh? Read comments dude
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 02:16 AM
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Irrelevant to what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 02:13 AM
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Lmao be serious
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 02:12 AM
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No you used one singular sentence that is quite irrelevant to my point and I showed how irrelevant it is
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 02:10 AM
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What disadvantages did that man had to go through for her to get it? Nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 02:06 AM
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Huh? Did you not read what I said before
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 02:04 AM
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So you are saying X does that mean Y (completely different from X) is also X? Stop doing that I already told you stop trying to connect ot to something that isn't connected to it they are different for the billionth time
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 02:03 AM
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No not really she uses the word valued because she wants the power of being the one with bigger earning
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 02:02 AM
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You are providing evidence for me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 02:01 AM
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Proving my point
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 02:00 AM
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That woman could also say somewhere where I feel valued
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 02:00 AM
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I'm going to look for young submissive woman who cleans and cooks for me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 01:56 AM
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He went with his friend's words in mind
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 01:55 AM
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If so he wouldn't need to move to whole different poor 3rd world country for that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 01:53 AM
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Yes he benefited from social expectations and restrictions
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 01:52 AM
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"A good man" lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 01:51 AM
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Value in you means a submissive woman who cooks cleans and takes care of me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 01:51 AM
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He said he wanted a submissive young wife (which in my example represent her wanting a lower earning partner)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 01:49 AM
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No it doesn't lol it works perfectly
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 01:44 AM
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Just like systemic racism refers to issues that causes trends like black people coming from slavery and having less opportunities and how that attributes to our crime rate and the help we would need in society to have equal footing or the issues we may face like less acceptance of jobs. Ok imagine a woman who went after a black guy for these very reasons let's imagine she wanted to be the partner with more money so she targeted black men knowing she has more advantages over them thus the one wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 01:37 AM
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And the last sentence?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 01:27 AM
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Read the comment again
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 01:24 AM
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Yes this is what I mean there is no perfect relationship where everything is equal, but a relationship where everything and I mean everything is unequal is vastly different from the average relationship where a guy is slightly older or has more money The average relationship doesn't have a 30+ age gap or also a big n count gap or a huge difference in culture these combined extremes are only possible because of a system that controls and exploits The fact that I have to repeat the same point over…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 01:20 AM
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No you assumed his intent which is what I have argued against. By benefiting from exploitation and a disadvantaged life he became part of that system Secondly we in the US and many societies have patriarchy that would mean any man who fit old patriarchal standards are just using the old system to benefit themselves and by your words exploiting a woman. My god it's like you intentionally are ignoring what I said yes if that woman had been restricted her whole life and had disadvantages than yes, …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 01:07 AM
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He benefited from a system that disadvantaged her that was my point from the very beginning
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 12:52 AM
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Infidelity probably not, controlling behavior we don't know but culturally she is expected to endured it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 12:51 AM
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You scrennshoted a text, I type or paste them what's the difference? Ok here's how a Philippino woman lives compared to western women Area: Family expectations Possible pressures a Filipino woman may face: Strong expectations to support parents, siblings, or extended family financially; pressure to marry, have children, or maintain family reputation. Compared with many Western contexts: Western cultures often place more emphasis on individual independence and personal choice Area: Gender roles P…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 12:29 AM
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Look it up
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 12:04 AM
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Did you search up the life of a Philippino woman like her yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 12:01 AM
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You're acting ignorant on purpos
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 11:58 PM
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Yeah I'm sure a woman from a bar who didn't come from the city who had to get with a 57 year old foreigner has money lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 11:57 PM
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That's not what was mentioned in his story
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 11:56 PM
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Did you not see the video on how he had to keep helping her family, rewatch it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 11:55 PM
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He was funding her life
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 11:54 PM
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No I'm talking about his wife
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 11:54 PM
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Yeah I'm sure women who have to sleep with men from bars are very not poor lmao you forgot that they have a different culture from yours
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 11:53 PM
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Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 11:52 PM
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Look up how a woman of her status and life circumstances lives
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 11:52 PM
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Actually here's your proof what woman would go for him beside a poor woman? He went to bars I'm sure you don't need me telling you they were poor and many of the ones in the apps kept asking for things but again if he didn't say from his mouth I wanted a poor woman than all of this is irrelevant right? Not like they are proof
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 11:51 PM
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We are arguing intent. And I will also point out you sidestepped the actual definition of exploitation Explain to me how
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 11:46 PM
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He ended up with one I don't need to prove anything
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 11:46 PM
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So it seems like you changed your answer from dating someone who you could benefit from to only exclusively looking for a certain group. That was my point from the beginning, what do you mean So do you have proof he was only looking for poor women in the Philippines as not all women are poor there Are you serious? I have to prove to you how he didn't look for a poor woman after he intentionally went to a poor country?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 11:45 PM
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How an average poor Philippino woman is raised is in a exploitative environment he benefited from
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 11:42 PM
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No I meant he could have went to Philippines and chosen a more equal partner that would have made it not exploitative depending on her life circumstances, the same would apply to you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 11:41 PM
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If she was targeting back men from the south than yes
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 11:40 PM
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Huh? Can you clarify what you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 11:39 PM
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No I mean personally on a personal bases
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 11:38 PM
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Yes you are benefiting from a exploitative disadvantaged restrictive system, you are part of it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 11:37 PM
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That doesn’t mean skeptical viewpoint. If I prefer someone who went to college that doesn’t mean I see people who didn’t with skepticism Ok I might have used the wrong term, but it still is hypocrisy expecting grace for your own changes but not doing it for others is a form of hypocrisy So a system and how different people are brought up. Ok so I’m black, does that mean if I date a rich white woman she’s exploiting me? Ok well explain to me how you lived your life as a black person what disadvan…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 11:35 PM
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It comes from how those unequal aspects came to be, living in poverty, having their anatomy restricted, having different social pressure
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 11:29 PM
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No one said anything about viewing them skeptically they just may prefer the way people with one partner treat dating more seriously and their outlook on sex They are only entertaining the idea of being with someone who had one partner that means they don't want a partner who had more that means they view them scepticaly as a potential partner You have yet to explain what’s not unequal between the example I have given. So if I say a man who was born well off wants to marry a woman who wasn’t wel…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 11:28 PM
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You can say it’s hypocrisy but that’s not acknowledging that people can always change their mind. No one is fixed in a set world view. Changing your mind is fine, but other people change their mind too do they think they are the only ones who changed after a past? having a past and also viewing others with it scepticaly is hypocrisy No stop. I didn’t say it’s the same thing. I’m asking you to establish a few things:1. Some women want a provider man 2. Some men want a woman who cooks and cleans 3…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 11:19 PM
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They may prefer after dating around how some people who date sparingly see or may value relationships more. They may like how much more cautious they are about their partners and who they date and see that as taking it more seriously. They could have changed their mind about their own past and value people who didn’t sleep around or date around. So just hypocrisy I never said they use the man’s life situation. But if they prefer a man who inherently makes more and the man likes the woman for her…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 11:05 PM
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Because even still looking for someone who only had one partner doesn’t show the intent to abuse said experience. That could come for many different reasons. Like what? You can be sarcastic all you want but that doesn’t prove wanting to abuse said power. Simply wanting a submissive house wife doesn’t show intent of abuse of power either. This would also have to show that some women don’t want men who do take on more traditional roles and dominate roles in the house. Some women don’t work and rel…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 10:51 PM
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And again, experience doesn’t show implicit intent of abuse of power. Further nor does age either. If I date someone who has only had one partner vs me having 14 that already means I have more experience as a whole and it doesn’t prove intent to harm said woman either. Again you keep missing the point were you looking specifically for a partner who had only one partner Again, him moving to the Philippines for dating doesn’t show intent of abuse of power. You describing what his friend said shows…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 10:35 PM
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Ok so now it’s about age gap. An age gap that has a fully developed frontal lobe on the woman’s part? You can say you find that type of relationship disgusting but that age gap especially with it being a fully developed frontal lobe on both parties doesn’t mean abuse of power. I'm pointing out how vastly difference your experience is from hers Looking for those 3 things or even dating those 3 things doesn’t mean that either. Plus he could date a woman that is still relatively decent in her own c…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 10:18 PM
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Is there even a single thing men don't lie about to get with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 10:04 PM
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Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 09:52 PM
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I would cook for my partners despite working more. In one case I was younger than one of my ex’s. That doesn’t imply they were using me nor me using them. Simply saying “these attributes show he’s using women” doesn’t necessarily fly as showing he wants to use women as again people have partners with these qualities and may not be using them or abusing power. To find if they are doing so you have to look at behavior as that’s where abuse is not by characteristics unless the woman is underage. Wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 09:37 PM
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Him moving to and his friend saying that doesn’t mean he took on that mentality. Matter of fact he repeatedly kept talking about finding someone who wants him which isn’t unethical. So you didn’t prove that the context around what I screenshotted is different than what I said it was. He found a woman who is one younger, two poorer, three cooks and cleans for him Doesn't matter if he wanted someone who gave him attention he wanted it from a woman with these attributes You have got to find a quote…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 09:28 PM
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Can you explain the context and what it means with evidence then? He moved to the Philippines what more context is needed, you heard what his friend said to convince him he wanted a young submissive woman who cooks cleans for him something an old average man who is only rich because of the currency difference will only get by women being exploited growing up in a poor family with strict expectations Also can you explain the difference here? You talked about social pressure and abuse of power but…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 09:18 PM
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He's poor by his own making
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 08:47 PM
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That's not what that phrase meant And the last two things you stated aren’t free the the states or 1st world countries. Matter of fact just because power can exist in a relationship doesn’t mean that’s evidence of abuse of power. That’s evident in your day to day relationships where men are already on average bigger than women. So again I re ask my question, do these women have the ability to say yes or no? And that's not the same thing to what we are talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 08:31 PM
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You legit are just assuming that’s what he believes tho. Did you not watch the video? Secondly do these women still have the ability to say yes or no? Were they able to make a genuinely free and informed choice without social pressure or abuse of power?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 08:16 PM
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If someone intentionally seeks partners in economically disadvantaged countries because they believe those women will be easier to control or have fewer options, that's already bad on its own. Having grown up in a Western culture, where you benefited from its privileges, while exploiting another culture for your own benefit makes it way worse
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 07:57 PM
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Cause he's a passport bro
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 07:36 PM
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Deserved lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 06:31 PM
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I bet on your chocolate bar too, asking people on the Internet on whether she should go with a misogynist player man (if she does believe everything her friend said) was already a sign that she is cooked
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 03:23 AM
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It's the other way around
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 12:33 AM
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She changed her mind doesn't mean she'll follow through. I'm just saying that if you read two comments like this hours apart, the person might have just thought it through
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 11:37 PM
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It's a bigger contradiction if the hours were switched seems like she changed her mind
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 11:13 PM
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All the comments saying don't, I bet she still will
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 10:01 PM
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This one
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 03:42 PM
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You didn't comment on my genius discovery tho
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 03:40 PM
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I gave two possibilities one of them is proof of superiority the other isn't
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 02:53 PM
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Well, it's a different point of view for someone who is non western. It is something embedded in the culture. I expect someone to have that default mindset. Even the sweetest, kindst guy could still have some of it because of culture, family, or the fear of being judged, but I expect something to make up for it, that's how the rules are. My sister for example didn't get half of my older brother's freedom in exchange for not being pressured into financially helping the family. I used to think cha…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 02:48 PM
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Are you sure we read the same comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 02:30 PM
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I'm saying If a guy used the excuse of being physically stronger, which is obviously true in almost all cases, and didn't back it up, he was just using his gender to be controlling and get away with things. If he actually proved it, then his talk wasn't a bluff. Now could he still view himself as superior because of it? Yes, but it is not a direct cause and effect for the later
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 02:28 PM
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Wow you didn't read anything
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 02:18 PM
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Sacrificing himself for the greater good (my phone) Ok if we are talking seriously, if he was the type who viewed himself as superior for being a man as in being stronger and a protector then it's a 100% a break-up. The point for me isn't whether he is actually able to do anything, it's that many men brag and use being a "protector" as a way to control, It doesn't have to be directly said. it could just be something they allow themselves and deny for other women they'd want in their life under t…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 02:12 PM
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Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 01:34 PM
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What are the best ones with hot older women?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 12:40 AM
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You see too much from nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 09:40 PM
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He was sent by the government to scare average men off dating apps so chads could dominate them
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 08:51 PM
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Idk that's alot of fish and snackes
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 06:00 PM
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I get the vibe he likes the fame since he refuses to change anything
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 05:30 PM
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Show me the post
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 04:47 PM
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That's... concerning
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 10:35 AM
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I bet they'll downvote this one too Edit: yoo they did lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 08:13 PM
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My 2 comments got downvoted
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 08:11 PM
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I think they do that for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 08:10 PM
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OK sure I misread it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 07:24 PM
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Was it not sarcasm?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 07:20 PM
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I'm talking about your first comment
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 07:16 PM
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Umm no you don't
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 07:13 PM
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Looks like you don't read your own comments
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 07:13 PM
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You are no different then the women you were cristising then
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 07:08 PM
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You don’t actually love us all
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 07:05 PM
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They don't say they changed their mind. They say certain women are for fun only and that as men they get to have all the fun. While, other women are considered 'wife material' for settling down
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 06:55 PM
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Men already do that but with a different excuse
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 06:32 PM
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Yeah I do
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 07:12 AM
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You'd get funny number height
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 10:27 PM
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These are just excuses both would be hurt from it no cheating is better than another cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 08:24 PM
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We have the same fyp
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 05:58 PM
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What's not understandable about my sentence?
/r/seduction28/07/26 10:55 AM
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Because even loosers think they deserve young teenage girls
/r/seduction28/07/26 10:06 AM
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Cringe
/r/seduction28/07/26 07:35 AM
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That is so cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 07:34 AM
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No you don't understand women are evil and all secretly still like bad guys
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 06:19 AM
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How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 09:43 PM
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LMAOO
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 09:42 PM
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So you're agreeing with me or is your whole argument about the fact that one time for men is enough? That is still irrelevant when the base believe is sleeping with men lowers value regardless which was what I pointed out initially One man on here kept bring it up as a way to show how women are bad, all the while saying women lower their value when sleeping with men, he wanted it only one way About the hypocrisy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 08:19 PM
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A man sleeping with another man 1 time is enough to disqualify him, big difference between being a slut. Madona whore complex, a slut isn't the woman you are thinking about some men view a women who has been in many failed relationships as a deal breaker, some view one casual sex encounter as a deal breaker So no even one encounter can make it enough to be disqualified but nice try exaggerating it so your argument can me sense wonder why men have no problem dating bi women They don't mind bi wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 07:50 PM
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One man on here kept bring it up as a way to show how women are bad, all the while saying women lower their value when sleeping with men, he wanted it only one way
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 05:43 PM
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Guilty of what? She wasn't the one obssesed with him
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 04:25 PM
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What is he looking for?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 08:42 PM
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I would consider it sexual assault It is often said that men sexually assault more than women do. However, I honestly think that women do it just as much, but we don't know it, because men have been conditioned not to see sexual assault done to them by women as such. Definitely
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 07:36 PM
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OK we care a little bit, for you only
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 10:01 AM
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We don't care
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 09:49 AM
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What's so crazy about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 08:38 AM
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Another proof that all the insults men use on women are projections
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 08:36 AM
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And the level of cringe over celebrity worship
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 06:45 PM
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She is exploring
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 03:54 PM
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I'm officially unc status
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 06:51 PM
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I love making up shit to get mad about
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 02:47 PM
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Nah even I know about it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 01:57 PM
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Damn did she say how tall she is?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 11:19 AM
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Sure sure
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 09:15 PM
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It is so funny how the new cope of men avoiding accountability is creating the illusion that only highly desirable, irresistible men are abusive, while normal, average men are not lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 09:10 PM
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I'm happy for you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 07:33 PM
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Well how did it feel?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 07:32 PM
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Would that count as casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 07:32 PM
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How was your meeting with your ex?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 07:29 PM
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Yo same military people are hot
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 05:54 PM
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"You don’t deserve rights because you enjoy fictional stories!"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 11:28 AM
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It depends but for that moment specifically it was to mock and humiliate her, since he said it behind her back and infront of my mother on top of that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 01:06 PM
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Also it was used as a joke to mock her behind her back, not because he genuinely was looking out for her
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 12:58 PM
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You can spin it however you want it's disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 12:48 PM
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Here because polygamy is more culturally accepted in certain areas, single older women are often mocked by people who urge married men to take them as additional wives. This happened to my father, and it is so disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 12:34 PM
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Some people are indeed sympathetic to a core even when done wrong, supporting another person's right isn't "generosity" individuals who oppose policies like forced military conscription or infant male circumcision are acting consistently when they also support women's rights to make decisions about their own bodies It still is admirable when people extend that principle to others despite feeling that their own concerns are overlooked but it's not generosity to the point of a sacrifice or gift Pl…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 10:05 PM
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Np
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 09:51 PM
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You're taking an interesting topic that should addressed more and making it about the lamest point possible
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 09:46 PM
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One time
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 08:07 PM
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True look at the college women today imagine how much humanity could also achieve had they allowed another prespective into fields
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 08:06 PM
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I am the wokest of the wokest
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 06:52 PM
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Historically, because women were the ones who bore children and raised generations, and men were the protectors and providers, men held the power and influence. This is why, if you look back, everything was catered to them. Women's lives were controlled to ensure the man got himself a virgin wife to ensuring paternity and inheritance while he got to have mistresses, and it didn't matter what he did or who he was because she was the one who would influence the children. This is ironic, since the …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 05:07 PM
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Gay men are raised in the same patriarchal societies as straight men, meaning they are not inherently immune to absorbing sexist biases Just like even some women themselves are misogynists
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 04:50 PM
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The vast majority of misogynists are heterosexual, because straight men make up the largest demographic of men so to say that a lot of misogynists are gay is simply not true
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 04:33 PM
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Your experience doesn't represent a whole demographic
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 04:22 PM
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That's not true
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 04:17 PM
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Of course
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 04:10 PM
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Do what?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 04:08 PM
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There's plenty of it but ppd men won't admit it because it contradicts their preconceived narrative
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 03:16 PM
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Never mind I was making a joke
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 01:27 PM
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They never stopped at all in the south but we are safe for now in the capital
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 01:26 PM
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No you should say it should be illegal then
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 01:25 PM
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What if he didn't
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 01:17 PM
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That's such a petty reason
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 01:12 PM
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Did you see the case of the "Xuzhou chained woman"? It's about a Chinese TikToker who was known for posting videos about his eight children, but people later found out the mother was locked in a doorless outdoor shed with a metal chain around her neck after being sold to him
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 11:17 AM
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What
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 05:33 PM
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Hi
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 05:32 PM
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Yeah like what the hell are these phone calls
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 03:40 PM
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Lol just yesterday I watched the video about her from rotten mango
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 03:30 PM
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Yeah that's my point too
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 09:07 AM
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Damn by that logic no crimes involving a family should be punished
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 09:00 AM
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Lmao what? As if paternity fraud is some inevitable thing they can’t change or is completely out of their control
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 08:47 AM
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Ah true, I think some came from bad experiences that made them generalize all men, or, like you said, based their opinions purely from online takes If you are against paternity fraud, you support pedophile I'm confused what this one even mean
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 08:26 AM
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Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:19 AM
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Or get special privileges
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:26 PM
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This mentality is what keeps men struggling
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:02 PM
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You mean the thing you are doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 09:57 PM
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I get the feeling but you should focus on today and your current reality, rather than getting too immersed in the future. You never know how close or far that future might be, so you should never stop improving yourself in preparation for when it arrives
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 04:43 PM
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You'd have to pay a prostitute as well
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 04:38 PM
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Were you exclusively only looking for casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 04:33 PM
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Yeah I know but I'm saying the number would be even less since people are having less sex overall https://www.researchgate.net/publication/342137078_Possible_Reasons_US_Adults_Are_Not_Having_Sex_as_Much_as_They_Used_To Not to mention OP lives in a conservative country, which also tends to mean adults start having sex much later in life
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 04:27 PM
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Should the same apply to men? I've seen plenty who compare as well
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 04:22 PM
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It would be even less today since less people are having sex
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 04:17 PM
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Yeah, I never noticed how it would look to the receiver until a few weeks ago. My classmates were constantly asking me about the projects, and they always just send off the message, which gives me time to think before replying. In comparison, I usually send "Hi, how are you?" wait for an answer, and then ask the question, which probably doesn't give them the time to think or reply when they feel like it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 09:50 PM
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How bad is it that I always start conversations like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 09:28 PM
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Same :(
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 09:12 PM
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Hi
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:01 PM
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Does that apply to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 05:26 PM
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I kind of feel the same way I'd rather be friends first
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 12:03 PM
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Oh definitely, I meant that he calls me cute and wants to pick me up I still take on the older sister role when I'm advising or warning him, even though he hates it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:17 AM
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Well I saw some gay men take interest after the controversy so I wouldn't say they were completely wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 10:02 PM
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I’ve had some very angry men apologize or compliment me after a very very long back and forth conversation where we can get to all the nuances of an argument. lol reminds me of a dude i was arguing with and he ended it with "have a good day and I hope you go back to X religion"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 09:16 PM
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He always wanted a younger sister when he was little, and over time, I became that "little sister" to him. It really doesn't help that he is taller than me now, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 08:53 PM
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What's the correlation here? She doesn't want to sleep with a woman your suggestion was weird that's the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:32 PM
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Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 05:14 AM
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Yes very much so
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:47 AM
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Throw tantrum? Where? No one is doing that but yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:46 AM
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Also you are still wrong If a man has low standards and is highly available for casual sex meaning he will "take what he can get" he is much more likely to accumulate a large number of partners over time which means he is "sleeping around". The two statements are a cause-and-effect loop, low sexual standards create the opportunity to sleep around frequently Hope that helps
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 09:02 PM
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That goes for any gender. But I mostly see only one gender being able to argue with logic without resorting to personal insults. So I'm inclined to believe the logical ones. LMAOO
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 08:56 PM
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But I mostly see only one gender being able to argue with logic without resorting to personal insults If you mean my comment then what do you call this? Coming from a gender that has never taken accountability historically And no, men have thrown at me personal insults countless times both genders do this and there is no "logical gender" So I'm inclined to believe the logical ones. If you don't believe me. Do this simple experiment. Go to any male dominated sub and compile a list of comments. Do…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 08:29 PM
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You are free to interpret it however you wish since you think a comment saying women should be grateful men don't treat them the same way they are treated in 3rd world countries is totally normal to say
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 02:29 PM
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People on this sub have a very narrow view of things, they believe either one side is better than the other or one has it harder. I am pointing out women’s unique struggles that are often overlooked. It might take years for a woman to see men in a positive light after being told growing up, "men don't have any restraint and will rape you just because of the way you dress" Similarly, men have reasons not to view women positively. However, that does not justify either side in judging half the popu…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 02:16 PM
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I think you misunderstood my point. The original commentor was talking about gratitude and understanding, and you shouldn't expect those without understanding others yourself. I was explaining the reasoning behind their view, not justifying hate towards men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 02:10 PM
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How was I hostile?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 01:49 PM
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Not everything brought up in an argument has to come from personal experience
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 01:45 PM
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Me? No, why?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 01:35 PM
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Is that why older men go for young women to make up for their expired sperm
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 10:37 AM
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I mean I could say the same for women, it's tiring for both genders and I disagree with generalising either half of society just because of a few experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:14 AM
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No, it is actually quite even considering there is a persistent gap in the division of housework and childcare which leads to husbands gaining significantly more leisure time on average Just like men often group all women together for not condemning hostile feminists, men who do not harass still rarely show sympathy or understanding. Instead of equally opposing those men, they try to distance themselves by simply saying "not all men"' This is not to mention the rise in red pill content directed …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 08:27 PM
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If men had to be conscious around women for their safety getting harassed by old women as teens and were told to dress a certain way I'm sure they would have regarded them with equal hostility and you mean jobs that are much safer than the past
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 07:56 PM
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See western men should stop whining all the time when they are living the most privileged pampered life in history
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 07:46 PM
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If that's enough reason than any negative behaviour women have are justified
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 02:38 PM
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Yeah, hip dips are just a new beauty standard, much like all the others
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 11:00 AM
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I'm curious how did you form friendships and date?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 07:47 AM
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Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 07:19 AM
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Notice how I never denied that, but always said it is insignificant to focus on this compared to all other factors and reach your weird conclusion. Sexual violence is driven by specific individual, social, and psychological risk factor not by a math equation involving sexual inactivity or dating market mechanics
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 07:07 AM
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Didn't think I'd need evidence for such an obvious thing https://www.cdc.gov/sexual-violence/risk-factors/index.html https://www.who.int/news-room/fact-sheets/detail/violence-against-women At the individual and relationship level, risk factors for both intimate partner and sexual violence include lower levels of education; a history of experience of child abuse; witnessing violence in the family; mental health conditions; harmful use of alcohol (perpetration and experience); attitudes justifying…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 06:46 AM
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Seems to me you are pretending ignorance because you have nothing of value to say
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 06:27 AM
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I mean they already are showing that they can be flooled with angles and clothes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 05:35 AM
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You are not understanding what I am saying Assume 10% of men are violent 100 women and originally 100 men participate Scenario 1 each woman has 1 partner, violent men are evenly distributed the expected exposure is 10 women encounter violent men Scenario 2 where 50% of men stop participating fewer total relationships occur, say each woman now has 0.6 partners on average and exposure events drop overall Even if violent men are slightly more active, total exposure can still stay the same, decrease…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 09:27 PM
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I meant, if women themselves don't notice it or even know about it, then men won't either. It's just like when men say they like natural women with no makeup but can't actually tell them apart
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 08:53 PM
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When you reduce male sexual participation, you do not get“the same women redistributed across fewer men” you get a mixture of fewer relationships overall, delayed partnering, longer single periods and different pairing strategies most sexual violence is not proportional to number of partners, it is heavily concentrated in repeat offending subgroups and strongly shaped by coercive attitudes, relationship dynamics, substance use, situational opportunity and reporting bias just like I said before I…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 08:32 PM
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Even if you granted part of the setup that some violent men are more sexually active, it does not follow mechanically that reducing overall male sexual participation increases victimization, People don’t “redistribute” sex evenly many people become single rather than re-partnering Relationship durations vary and partner choice is based on preference, trust, social context, not just availability Most men who have many partners are not violent, most sexual violence is committed by a small subset o…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 08:13 PM
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This is not supported as a general rule which is my point, you assume a direct, mechanistic link between sexual market participation rates and sexual violence rates, which is not how sexual violence works in empirical research
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 07:59 PM
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just a weird sideshow you wanted to talk about It shows how irrelevant your point is to actual violence rate Some "Dark Triad" or antisocial traits can increase short-term attractiveness in some contexts, but these traits are neither synonymous with violent offending nor representative of most sexually successful men. Most men with many partners are not violent offenders if favour of more violent ones. Further, if 90% of men are "relatively chill", and all men are dating, it would mean 90% of wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:51 PM
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Barely anyone notices this
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:30 PM
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You don't have any proof that violent men who obtain substantially more sexual partners than nonviolent men have an increase that is large enough to affect population-level abuse rates Population-level rates of intimate partner violence and sexual abuse are primarily driven by widespread social norms, gender inequality, and systemic behavioral patterns, rather than the specific reproductive output of a small demographic of highly violent individuals while sexually coercive men are more likely to…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:24 PM
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Sexual violence depends on many variables besides who has more sex, the violent men's actual offending rates, consent education, cultural norms, alcohol/drug use, pornography influences, law enforcement, willingness to report and the victims' ability to leave abusive partners
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:01 PM
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Sexual abuse is fundamentally an issue of power, control, and learned violent behavior, not a mathematical byproduct of the number of sexually active people in a population
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 10:59 AM
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You are good
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 10:11 AM
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I usually don't report until it's directed at me like using "you women are blah blah blah"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 09:50 AM
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A common hobby for ppd men
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 04:32 PM
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Truee
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 05:42 PM
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Lolll this is so funny thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 10:30 AM
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Nah just me
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 10:21 AM
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I'm not 100% sure but probably
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 10:18 AM
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Well most of my crushes are older women, so that might be why since there is no friendliness/being friends
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 10:14 AM
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Same kinda, I don't imagine myself doing it I imagine them doing it with someone else
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 10:09 AM
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Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 10:04 AM
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Sad
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 10:01 AM
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What if they don't want to marry? Nah you don't
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 10:00 AM
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Damn well it's not here, otherwise who would men "use" for in their fun phase right?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 09:41 AM
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Well yeah I guess I didn't mean just sex I mean companionship too, also how is that cheating? Neither husband nor wife own the other after death
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 09:35 AM
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Why blame the woman? Does she not also have sexual needs?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 09:30 AM
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I have no idea my uncle is pretty tall but that's because last time I saw him was when I was 14 so that's why it's unreliable to tell from a prespective of a short girl They sleep around with divorced/widow women as if those women are now only allowed to be a man's fun thing, or some specifically target virgin women because they like the feeling of "ruining" them Idk it's not worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 09:27 AM
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I don't know if they are that tall but they all are bald except one
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 09:18 AM
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Well I didn't know that, almost all men from my mother's family except 2 slept around in their youth before marrying a virgin, and that disgust me so I cut ties with them including my uncle who used to adore me when I was young
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 08:52 AM
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Damn, well like I said I prioritize chemistry and character, because I don't want to be a man's side fun
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 08:50 AM
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My sister is too
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 08:49 AM
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Well if he did people would still look the other way because apparently men have needs and women don't
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 08:49 AM
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6 ft male, don't they have a big ego anyways?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 08:46 AM
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Did I not say specifically I don't want that??
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 08:46 AM
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So you critises women when they do it, but find excuses for men? I hate it because these same men controls their sisters and think they have a say in their lives while they they are anything but religious, only women are forced to be religious
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 08:45 AM
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What do you mean? When men are the ones with power in society they do their own version of afbb they get to sleep around as much as they want and then demand a virgin wife
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 08:38 AM
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I could say I probably won't, for me it's chemistry+appearance
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 08:37 AM
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Oh wait my bad I meant I don't want a guy who is having his fun before leaving to marry a virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 08:35 AM
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Ahh well it's more different here
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 08:34 AM
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By tall how tall do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 08:33 AM
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Idk depends
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 08:29 AM
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We do too but she might not have liked the men who approached her, is she not allowed to go looking for someone she actually likes? It's like all things here rules for women not for men
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 08:28 AM
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Yeah but I want a guy who is just having his fun phase before settling down
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 08:26 AM
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It does she is submissive to my father's opinions I would say I'm one of the weird ones, I never desired marriage and people kept telling me I'll change my mind eventually once I'm an adult and well I still don't Idk I haven't dated to know what I like and don't like honestly I was pressured to wear a hijab when I was 14 and it made my life hell, I removed it at 17 and want to do all the things I was forbidden from sleeping at someone's house going out with whoever I want, not being told to dres…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 08:14 AM
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A woman having a boyfriend is necessary in today's dating, but they keep it a secret until they make something official l, basically something forbidden from women even tho it's normal
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 08:09 AM
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My family is half half my father and his family are somewhat liberal, my mother and her family are very conservative I don't want to get married right now I want to make up for everything that was taken from me in my teenage years, I'm not ready for children anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 08:08 AM
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My upbringing was half-and-half. I was very restricted, which made me suffer socially, and to this day, I only have one close friend. However, I'm not pressured into marriage. There was a woman who asked my mother if she could arrange a marriage between her son and me and she wanted children early in the marriage too, but my mother refused because I was too young. After learning more about the family, she also felt they didn't suit me
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 08:02 AM
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Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 07:57 AM
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They do, but such a woman lived with alot of restrictions in her life and makes alot of effort to keep her looks, they are very picky because of that and the pressure to marry once young
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 07:39 AM
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Yeah I meant that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 07:36 AM
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Ahh sure
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 07:35 AM
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I would say almost all men want that, what do they have unique from others? If nothing then they can keep dreaming
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 07:29 AM
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Nah I don't get it as a woman so it won't make a difference
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 07:25 AM
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Alot of men want that too but they don't reach your level of obsession, and if you don't get it what will you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 08:28 PM
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By people in general strangers or close ones
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:31 AM
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Honestly I never noticed this rule in particular, I probably do this alot my bad lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 08:37 PM
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Btw my brother wasn't, he was inrolled in a mixed school And also women who do have many male friends are slut shamed depending on the group
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:55 PM
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Idk I don't, I was deliberately put in an all-girls school for most of my life
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:52 PM
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Idk how common it is but it is very discretely done, like something socially unacceptable but people still know that men do it and look the other way
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:48 PM
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It is highly dependent on social circles, religion, and location
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:43 PM
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The cheating part
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:32 PM
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That is the weirdest example you could have given
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:29 PM
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Just enjoy your time
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:07 PM
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Yeah I think you used the wrong metaphor, unless you meant running while in pain and bleeding in general, but they still are different even in that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:38 PM
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What did you mean by ran like a woman on her period?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:20 PM
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I'm pretty sure women don't run any differently on their periods
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:53 PM
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Different women with different needs and expectations
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:10 PM
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Idk I mean later on
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 10:51 AM
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Yeah at least I hope we get 20 years of peace like it happened after the 2006 war, I get to be prepared too wether by leaving the country entirely or moving to a safer place
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 10:29 AM
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No it's different They can go in there but they can't prat, there or even at home they can't pray
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 10:18 AM
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It's worse than just leaving us alone I'm pretty sure they are not, many Arab municipalities are surrounded by restricted zoning areas that limit residential and economic expansion. This creates overcrowding and forces residents to build without state-issued permits, putting these properties at risk of demolition, it also includes lower socio-economic standards, unequal funding in education, and restrictions on land ownership and housing. Many Arab towns and "unrecognized" Bedouin villages face …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 10:17 AM
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Hmm I don't think they aren't allowed in the mosque but they can't pray is what I mean
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 10:03 AM
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So I'll just be a second class citizen under a government that isn't even my nationality
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 10:02 AM
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I do lol No we can't
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 09:59 AM
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Country that includes Shia areas
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 09:54 AM
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Probably yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 09:54 AM
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What's that?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 09:53 AM
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Well yeah the first day used to be the most annoying for me but something that will hinder me, the last one tho was so light I barely felt anything
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 09:52 AM
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No it's fine I get it None from my family, the ones who die that I know of are just ones I know from people like a brother of a friend or a neighbour
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 09:41 AM
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There are restrictions put on the army and Israel has control over them, you think Palestinians have equal rights there?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 09:39 AM
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The pain depends between each woman, mine are light some women can't move for the first few days
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 09:38 AM
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You know what will happen if we lose our last defence? Same thing that happened to Palestinians
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 09:36 AM
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Nah the average man has advantages strength wise only
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 09:31 AM
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It's the lovely the drone that tells me good morning everyday for the past two years It's split between religion
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 09:29 AM
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Bruh it's pretty shit having Mk over my head all day, They took regions that belong to us. The positive is it's mostly less bombs, all because of our piece of shit president
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 09:17 AM
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Yeah but what point are you trying to make?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 09:07 AM
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I'm curious what exemples of solutions they are
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 09:04 AM
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I'm not saying anything untrue so yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:59 AM
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Yeah it is wrong, not every woman hearing this is the one making fun of men's height
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:57 AM
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You sure implied it first time I'm seeing someone so happy over women having different opinions
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:56 AM
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Whoaaa crazy women have different opinions what a revelation
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:53 AM
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It's almost like two things can be wrong at the same time
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:52 AM
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No it's correctly directed
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:51 AM
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That's what I said. Men are just copying women. Is it okay or not? If you think it's not okay, talk to women. Lol. And these were your words as well
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:49 AM
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It's not a small portion, regardless. It's a few people saying it, and millions standing in agreement with likes and comments of support And I didn't assume anything this was your words
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:47 AM
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your outrage at womens behavior is amusing, whether you recognize it for what it is or not. Lol. 😁 Said by someone who said this lmao what an interesting debate that was
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:45 AM
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Amusing? Does a small hint of disagreement between women make you feel something? What happened to "all women are monolith" hmm?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:40 AM
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Copying a small portion of women who exaggerated their statement for ragebait, should women also take a small portion of controversial men and assume it to all of them? Oh no I forgot they'd cry out "not all men"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:31 AM
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This one is just men putting a mirror infront of women and watching them get angry at their reflection. So you don't even understand what you wrote yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:27 AM
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Lmao try changing what you wrote first then, and don't make it seem like it's women’s problem that they are insecure over their height Whataboutism truly lost it's meaning on this sub just thrown around when someone loses a debate lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:23 AM
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Yeah I could say the same for men
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:16 AM
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Yeah cause women deserve another insecurity because of a few who made extreme takes for engagement and ragebait
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:46 AM
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Lmao as if this started with women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 10:24 PM
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No, I'm referring to the topic in general, not specifically this sub. If they mean all women, then they are definitely wrong, but if they are referring to themselves, then it's just something about them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:29 PM
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I've seen men try to convince people that women don't care about looks by referencing how they married historically, this probably isn't because they think it's immoral, but rather their cope as to why men are visual creatures allowed to prioritize looks
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 01:23 PM
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It doesn't
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 03:12 PM
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Loll thank you<3
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 11:28 AM
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No I'm lebanese
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 11:25 AM
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Us or them?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 11:09 AM
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The misunderstanding has been cleared up. They meant that students at private institutes still haven't taken their final year exams. I'm at a public institute, so I did mine already
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 11:01 AM
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Official exams are standardized, state-sponsored assessments administered by a government’s Ministry of Education. They happen for specific classes 9th, 12th grade, BT3 and my level (TS2), to ensure all students across the country are held to the exact same educational standard. Usually, after you finish your normal school exams, you take the official exams a month or so later
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 10:56 AM
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We already did our final year exams, this is just specifically about official exams
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 10:46 AM
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Wait, I might have spoken too soon, they’re saying TS2 decision be announced tomorrow lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 10:42 AM
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We literally don't have enough safe spaces to do them. They bombed a place where students were doing their exams not too long ago, which is why she finally made this decision
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 10:34 AM
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The Ministry of Education finally announced the cancellation of official exams
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 10:18 AM
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Intelligent men still get attractive women And this like an average man being compared to a highly attractive man who has more freedom. He would act like that too if he were more attractive, but he isn't. Humans adapt to what they have, It's like the worst of both worlds, lacking the attractiveness while also being unfairly compared to someone with more options
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 10:16 PM
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So your statement was just about attractive women, and assumed all women are like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 09:59 PM
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Does that not apply to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:06 PM
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Makes no difference
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 12:29 PM
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Me🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 12:26 PM
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Lol who
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 12:24 PM
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This one <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 12:11 PM
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Oh that's really cool, I should try doing that if I get the chance
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 11:54 AM
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Oh for sure, thanks. Hopefully, though, I stopped having those a few years ago. Now it's mostly me realizing I'm in a dream and just continuing it. Sometimes I do change things if I'm really in control. There was one time when I realized I was in a dream, I thought about asking on PPD how many people experience lucid dreaming and I asked after I woke up, lol When did you start having yours?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 11:50 AM
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My biggest problem was often having frequent false awakening loops. I would always talk about them to my sister or brother, and when I actually woke up, I'd realize I only told them in the dream, lol. I used to jump from windows to wake myself up, but eventually, that stopped working. After that, I started being able to move more freely inside the dream
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 11:44 AM
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I do a lot, but it happens depending on my sleep quality. There was a time I was in a really bad place and slept badly, which was when I lucid dreamed the most, about twice a week and I enjoyed those dreams. However, I never intentionally change anything in my dream, even when I know I'm dreaming. I unintentionally turn it into a nightmare because it 'makes sense' to my brain so I just enjoy it as it is
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 10:39 AM
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Anything said by men is projection they scream accountability because they lack it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 07:31 AM
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My mother and sister are both Geminis
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:35 PM
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Breaking news ppd man discovers pretty privilege
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:29 PM
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Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:28 AM
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Yeah cause what is there to fight for?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:22 AM
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Yeah modern is better
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:16 AM
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I gave her mine
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 08:51 PM
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It's because of culture had they not been born there, brainwashed since birth about their role. It would have been different
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 08:33 PM
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Sure lol You too
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 07:04 PM
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Well I'm still confused about my sexuality but I'm either bi leaning into women or lesbian Oh lol I didn't know that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 06:55 PM
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I am assuming I am talking to a lesbian (same as the MC's grandma), please confirm. I didn't quite understand what you mean here I thought I preferred black hair coz they frame the face better, might be another reason i guess. the mangaka is really gifted at drawing women and girls, I was blown away by Mami when i saw her in recaps though that calmed down quick as usual. Ironically I find every other girl prettier than mizuhara. Yeah same most of the characters I like have black hair but I can't…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 06:20 PM
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True lol, my type is usually black or white hair I saw her and thought she looked really cute, and the art style is so nice. But I hate when you can feel a female character doesn't exist outside of the story/the male protagonist It's the same case as Roshidere, I couldn't watch it for long. Even though I can watch cheesy romance, it's so male gaze heavy that I didn't enjoy it. Not like that's a bad thing, but it just wasn't for me I think it was during quarantine when i watched it and was kinda …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 04:47 PM
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Sleeping with men is seen as negative whether it's done by women or other men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 03:56 PM
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It's both
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 02:24 PM
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Yeah, same. I only watched those, I didn't like the characters or the story much other than Ruka, but it was clear she was only there as a rival love interest, so I lost interest over time
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 02:23 PM
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I disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 09:31 AM
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Are women justified in hating all men for doing the same then?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 09:29 AM
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It's ineffective if it's not both sides doing it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 02:02 PM
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Camp A
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 01:59 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 10:29 AM
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He is probably imagining all this in his head
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 07:28 AM
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Quite the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 08:05 PM
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Definitely yes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 07:32 PM
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It does for women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 07:16 PM
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The comment way above already addressed it For a one night stand. Foreplay is more effective long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 07:05 PM
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You watch rent a girlfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 04:47 PM
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So it really is laziness huh
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:46 PM
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I swear I smile! People just don't see it Lol true I should relax more
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:48 PM
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Are you secretly my brother? He told me something like that too, lol. He said, "You should just relax and not give a fuck like me" Funnily enough, people at my institute think I'm the most unemotional nonchalant person, they even get irritated by my lack of energy. But when my teacher was doing a personality analysis on me, she said, "I can tell you keep it all inside" Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:33 PM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:17 PM
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Was arguing with my brother lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:10 PM
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It's not a genderd thing both of my sister and brother used to do that often until I learned how to deal with it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:07 PM
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There's no hierarchy in hobbies
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:02 PM
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As someone who plays video games, I don't see it, it's also about saving memories. I regret not doing that and not having anything to look back on
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 06:21 AM
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Netflix? Streaming Love Island, buying outfits and taking a million selfies or pictures of food (that they don't eat)? Some of these are also done with friends why would they be considered shallow?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 10:50 PM
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Women are not to blame for your obsession
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 10:46 PM
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My mother passed by today. She said she saw him and his wife, it seems everyone is fine. That is a relief
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 10:57 AM
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What are you going to do about it? Stay single forever? Or make effort to improve on what you have for your future partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 10:39 AM
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"I'm not going to make up for what I lack and make it a problem because I'm a lazy selfish person"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 10:30 AM
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No it's just an excuse for laziness and selfishness
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 10:15 AM
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So it's the man’s lack of effort then
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:53 AM
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How old is the person who wrote this? It's so cheesy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:43 AM
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Wishing you the best
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 03:13 PM
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Thank you <3
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 11:45 AM
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I have been looking online for any updates since yesterday, but I still haven't found anything. Thankfully, they aren't listed as martyred, as their names would have been made public and we would have known
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 11:44 AM
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This is the second time I have almost been at a place that was exploded or bombed. The first was the port explosion. My sister and I used to go right to the spot where it happened every single day on our bikes, but on the day of the explosion, she wanted to buy shoes, so we didn’t go. In a few days I was going to get a haircut at my usual salon... and the place got bombed yesterday I still want to know what happened to the hairdresser and his family. My mother said she will check today. I hope t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 10:58 AM
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Or pedophiles and their excuse that 17 to 18 doesn't make a difference
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 03:08 PM
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It still doesn't make sense should they only do acts that bring direct orgasm? Even lesbians do penetrative sex, it's something pleasurable
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 12:34 PM
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Isn't it the same way men like oral but don't always climax from it?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 10:38 AM
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So when you become submissive you stop seeing yourself as an equal?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 08:07 AM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 11:16 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 10:46 PM
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Well "nikah" is word barely used irl we usually say "zawaj", but men often say "baddi neekaha" it's slightly similar sounding to it, It means "I want to fuck her", so I thought it's another word for Muta ah, that was my sleep deprived brain for a second
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 02:11 AM
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Oh wait you're right I mistook for something else my bad
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 01:57 AM
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No, marriage in arabic is "zawaj"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 01:56 AM
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Thanks <3
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 01:36 AM
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"Nikah" eww
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 01:29 AM
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Sleep deprived but at least it's one final project and I'll finally be done with the year🎉
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 01:24 AM
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Ahh sure I thought you meant women in sugar dating in general
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 01:57 PM
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How is it greed? Both sides got what they wanted
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 01:51 PM
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Aren't there some sugar date agreements not involving sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 01:49 PM
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Yes scamming by lying, I said if it wasn't agreed upon, if it was like you were saying then yes I support it either
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 01:46 PM
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Well yes I said I dont support this, but this is scamming by lying, it's different from a dude paying and expecting sex when that wasn't agreed upon
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 01:42 PM
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Paying and expecting sex when that wasn't agreed upon is worse than sugar dating
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 01:31 PM
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Whataboutism truly lost it's meaning
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:35 AM
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Men are on average are slightly more unrestricted on sociosexuality but the overlap is large, they vary by culture and context, not gender
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 09:57 AM
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It's a hypothetical not concrete numbers
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 08:59 AM
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I used "if" for a reason
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 08:54 AM
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If 80% of men are struggling this would make 99% of them struggle
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 08:50 AM
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Wouldn't that give men even more dating problems?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 08:45 AM
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That would just be prostitution, if they are paying and want sex
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:01 AM
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I don't support it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 09:19 PM
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Apparently we are now slut shaming people even when they are in relationships. It all comes down to the fact that women have the choice to make their own mistakes and learn things. Thats what slut shaming boils down to. And thats what victim blaming boils down to Yes excatly, only the guy can experiment and learn for better future outcomes, they don't want women making better dating decisions, it doesn't benefit them
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 10:41 AM
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The Internet is full of different opinions
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 09:31 AM
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LMAOO
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 09:28 AM
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Irrelevant I'm talking about opinions spoken online or in real, not all of them are to appeal to someone
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 08:12 AM
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That still doesn't mean anything, they do experience it in their youth and later on change their mind based on their experience
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 08:09 AM
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Well of course a man would think this way, women have way more to lose, are at risks and most of the time aren't pleasured back compared to men
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 07:34 AM
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No alot of women would agree, bad or painful sex < no sex
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 07:23 AM
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But what are the chances of actual good sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 07:11 AM
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No it's not
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:56 AM
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I read it as nothing changes in the marriage if she starts sleeping with other women it becomes an open marriage, it sounds like it's the exact same marriage but with the knowledge that she is only attracted to women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 10:45 PM
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Wouldn't that also be an open marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 10:28 PM
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Second
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 10:16 PM
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Ohh thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 07:56 PM
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Arab?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 07:39 PM
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For other races?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 07:30 PM
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I understand how you feel. The best solution, I think, is to distance yourself from them mentally and build your own supportive social circle of friends. It helps a lot, I don't know what I would have done without my best friend during my darkest times I do feel much more grateful when I receive it now, like you said in your initial comment, but there is still a small part of me that is resentful. I keep wondering why this wasn't always the case, and why she only started caring about me after I …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 05:47 PM
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That is true. I just think that people generally start ignoring and forgetting the things they receive. Like for example the roles were reversed in my home, my brother was the one who was pampered, listened to, encouraged, and cared for all the time, while I was the one who ended up with mommy issues. He never noticed that, not because he is selfish, but because it is human nature to adapt to a norm
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 05:25 PM
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Oh yeah for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 05:09 PM
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I mean it becomes their new norm
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 04:51 PM
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That’s not really how human behaviour works
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 04:36 PM
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They are the ogs
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 08:41 AM
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What niche does she appeal to?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 08:25 AM
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Hope it gets better for you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 05:40 PM
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Which do you prefer?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 05:34 PM
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Are you European or American?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 05:31 PM
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Idk but I know a few women who were arranged married young, they might get attached to a dude who treated them better and cared about them way more, but they decided against it to keep the family together
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 04:50 PM
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No it's fine I myself didn't know about the tall guy preference even tho it was infront of me a couple of times like my sister being into tall guys, but I didn't know it was such a big thing since I don't care about it that much, until I joined this sub, so she might not notice it or is like me, I'm a big shut in so I don't get exposed to female dating talk and my few friends are as single as me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 03:07 PM
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Both of my brothers are really good men. I hate the religion and they are traditional, but they both are very caring and attentive, and they adore me a lot. I guess they get it from my father? He is such a caring man that all my friends used to be jealous of me
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 02:58 PM
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I could reply that I don't, but wouldn’t you reply that you don't belive it? my dad is short and I never even noticed it until I kept reading about height discourse on reddit, I don't notice when a man is tall. I remember my art teacher is a man so tall that he is often referred to as the tall teacher, yet I never noticed it until these comments were made And I personally don't like the feeling of being short, it bothers me that my little brother outgrew me lol so I don't if I'd like the dynamic…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 02:49 PM
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Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 02:43 PM
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I hope you do too
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 02:37 PM
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Well I wished Muslim women didn't have to be raised this way... we both can't get our wished
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 02:31 PM
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Well I'm only talking about Muslim women here
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 02:18 PM
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The ratio was fucked to begin, with there are way more truly religious virgin Muslim women than there are men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 02:09 PM
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She still didn't marry the guy she truly wanted and isn't in love with him. These things you mentioned also stop meaning much over time, especially if his attention is elsewhere cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 02:08 PM
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I get your frustration but I still think it's disgusting to go after these women in particular, their lives are hell from childhood
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 02:01 PM
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Is it not the case for the woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 01:55 PM
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Idk what I hate more Islamic culture and Islamic men who benefit from it or non Islamic men who benefit from it... I think the latter is more disgusting, tell him he's disgusting when you get the chance
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 01:51 PM
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Weird, I'd assume he dates Muslim women because they tend to be virgins submissive and feminine, but aren't Hindu women the same? Maybe it's the power play and ego boost of being islamaphobic and using Islamic women who most likely are easy to manipulate depending on their family situation
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 01:43 PM
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What's his religion?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 01:36 PM
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Loll idk
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 11:37 AM
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Thanks, things are looking better after yesterday's agreement with Iran hopefully they truly keep their words this time
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 08:33 AM
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I'm 5'4
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 08:28 AM
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You'll have to tell me first
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 08:23 AM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 08:18 AM
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The fact that I retook it and got the exact same percentage score... I have so much to work on
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 06:08 AM
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Depends
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 04:11 AM
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Yeah no, I don't care about this madona whore complex bulshit, it's good they don't get virgins anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 08:54 PM
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Do you mean attracting them or in the relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 08:40 PM
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That's life for everything, I don't go around obsessing over an unrealistic unattainable goal like becoming a billionaire, it's an experience for a few who are privileged, same thing for casual sex it's not a need and it's unrealistic
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 08:25 PM
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What the hell why are they so low <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 07:19 PM
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Damn
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 08:44 PM
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Yeah come back when you are serious
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 08:42 PM
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which was much MUCH more common than women being beaten by their husbands. Not even remotely comparable. Completely false And having your reproductive right guaranteed is another privilege, throughout history most men never got to reproduce. Goddam ever never seen such a cope take before, women were privileged because hey at least they get to reproduce with their pedophile rapist they were forced to marry wow nice Just proving why this really is a waste of time
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 08:37 PM
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Yeah I'm sure it was such a privilege, arrange married as little girls and teens, going through pregnancy and childbirth, the leading causes of death for women back then. Getting beat up by their husbands and forced to marry their rapists, does that sound like privilege to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 08:28 PM
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It's not worth it for such a cope take
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 08:19 PM
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Extremely cope
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 08:08 PM
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Good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 07:29 PM
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I know some people irl like that, double eww
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 05:03 PM
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Mine are getting down voted too lol it went from 3 to 2
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 02:47 PM
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Well I want to know
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 02:38 PM
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The comment was about a situationship so yeah he could have more options than her, but my point is similar to yours, women have on average more options than men, that doesn't justify them being shity partners regardless
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 02:29 PM
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A woman says that "shit attracts shit" to blame men for getting with bad women. A guy asks if the same principle applies to women who get with abusive men, I asked a similar question today to somoeone blaming women with shity partners saying "he has more options and she will tolerate his behaviour" and asked if the same would apply to women with options and... I never got a clear answer
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 02:24 PM
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The entire conversation has consisted of you pretending you don't understand human language
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:54 PM
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None of my comments are missing a half
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 11:56 AM
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Did you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 11:29 AM
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Is this how you usually debate?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 11:18 AM
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Most people don't need that much explaining for things so obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 10:51 AM
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What's the point of explain something so obvious and be misinterpreted anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 10:50 AM
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Likewise
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 10:48 AM
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The one addressing it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 10:45 AM
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No you just decide today is "wtf are you talking about????" "Are you accusing me of?????" "Can you explain?????" Day, so maybe tomorrow you'll actually engage in a normal debate
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 10:44 AM
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The comment above me, you know, the one I replied to... I do
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 10:42 AM
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No I'm not going to explain figure it out yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 10:40 AM
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No it doesn't it's a not a good enough justification that any person can slap on to blame a woman So you are blaming her for supposedly women in the past tolerance to him? you do know men enable each other too right? Do you hear what you are saying and how absurd it is?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 10:36 AM
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Are you acting ignorant on purpose?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 10:31 AM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 10:30 AM
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The fact men with no options can be just as bad is proof enough, doesn't matter if it's slightly less or slightly more What do you mean how do I know that she left him? She did, proof that she infact didn't tolerated and proof that that's not reason for his behaviour. Unless you mean she is also to blame for previous women tolerating him? if so that's a big stretch
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 10:30 AM
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I've explained myself enough if you want to keep going in circle this will be the last time You made an assupmtion about a situation blaming the woman because she tolerates him My comment was worded like that this is a standard way of replying "Said assumption repeated" + "conclusion contradictory fact to yours" to point out your assumption doesn't make sense Nowhere did I say you mean this and that or said this or that, you might have to reread it if you think otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 10:25 AM
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And you still haven't answered my initial question., if men with options are terrible partners because women tolerate them, are women justified being bad partners if they have options and men tolerate them?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 10:18 AM
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The assumption that because a man has options a woman will tolerate him One, men with no options can be bad partners too And two, she left him anyways unlike what you said, so clearly he isn't like that just because women tolerate him
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 10:17 AM
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Everything
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 10:13 AM
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Did I say you mean this? You said this? I said this justification is weird because women have options too doesn't mean they are justified in treating men badly, what's so hard about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 10:13 AM
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About your assumption
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 10:12 AM
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Yeah sure man us it really that hard to admit you were wrong? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 10:09 AM
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And when did I accuse you of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 10:08 AM
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"Define somoeone being accountable" do I have to teach you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 09:51 AM
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What part did I make up? Can you point me to one?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 09:49 AM
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If both men with options and no options have shown they can be bad partners than no that isn't a good enough reason, it's just something men made up so they can blame women Dude I'm not Google you can look up what that means
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 09:47 AM
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You did, not me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 09:46 AM
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Making up delusional assumptions so a woman can blamed as usual, what part of that do you not understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 09:43 AM
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That is an absurd assumption men with little options can be bad partners too Men being held accountable for being bad partners, not being accountable yourself smfh
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 09:42 AM
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You made it up in your head to blame her, simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 09:38 AM
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Aren't you the one who made it up in your head that the dude she is seeing is a desired man with options? just like I said deluded themselves to remove accountability
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 09:37 AM
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Lmao I'm not making up narratives Fumble? If a guy is insulting a woman in a situationship, it isn't because he is trying to be smooth; it's because he is out of her league and knows she will tolerate this type of behavior. Notice how she isn't breaking things off with him. This was your comment if you forgot
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 09:35 AM
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Do men really assume only the top 20% of men are bad partners? Have they never seen average men be bad partners too? I'm pointing out how absurdly they deluded themselves, stripping bad partners of accountability just to blame women for choosing them
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 09:28 AM
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How so? Well at least address one part of it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 09:17 AM
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Are you boycotting tho
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 07:27 AM
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Men who aren't like that can be just as dangerous, it's not the fault of society that they didn't get sex or jobs with zero effort
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 07:17 AM
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It’s funny how the new cope for men is trying to convince women that the average guys they ignored in their early 20s are actually the 'good ones.' Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 07:11 AM
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Huh? What was unclear of what I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 06:59 AM
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This is such a weird justification so should women who have options treat men like trash like he did since they have other men they can date?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 09:30 PM
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What if we did but secretly?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 08:43 PM
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He's a wannabe dom but failed
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 07:58 PM
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Ahh sure
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 07:53 PM
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She has to be humble from the beginning so the future man she doesn't even know yet doesn't feel insecure?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 06:47 PM
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What's her job?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 09:24 AM
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Ceo/yn is self insert female character with the typical ceo male interest lol Well I did a few times, I usually start my debates with a question so I don't make random assumption about the person, if they never replied or sounded too ragebaity the debate doesn't go further, like once I asked a woman what is the man fit for romance if supposedly both chads and non chads are terrible partners and she replied hers, she clearly was here for some ragebaits since she said alot of extreme generalisatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 10:13 PM
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Those generalizations just don't work. I watch a lot of different anime shows and read manhwas. My favorites now are mostly yuri and some straight romances. However, I also watched stereotypical female shows, like harems and CEO/YN stories (idk if you get all these references lol). That doesn't mean I like such dynamics in real life. I'm not super into ultra-masculine, dominant men, I prefer more balanced dynamics If I had to guess in order Women arguing with men =? men arguing with women > men …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 09:57 PM
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Neutral, maybe slightly negative if it's something I associate with deeply. I lived most of my life where watching anime and having male-oriented hobbies is weird, so a small comment on ⁠Reddit wouldn't faze me much You might not notice, but things similar to such comments happen a lot, where men generalize all women over something. I just skip over them because it feels too obvious that generalizing like this is wrong. It's not like they don't know, they just don't care Heck, I've seen a man co…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 09:34 PM
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If a man said the exact same thing I still wouldn't comment on it, the only things that bothers me or the things I debate the most are generalisations of a particular group or hypocrisy in dating For example alot of people, men included have opinions on feminine hobbies or interests, I still wouldn't comment on a man who for example says "thank god my wife doesn't play those dating games/ was obsessed with a male idol, I think people like that are cringe" unless he says later on that he plays si…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 09:13 PM
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Yeah but not a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 08:55 PM
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It's personal taste, should we try changing her mind on anime?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 08:18 PM
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shawarma
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 08:12 PM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 08:12 PM
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No not that extreme
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 08:00 PM
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What about the opposite? When they have better pictures than real life?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 07:53 PM
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Does it work tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 07:47 PM
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I'm talking about before and after feminism. Before, men had more control over that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 07:00 PM
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It’s a gradual rise in risk. Most pregnancies in the late 30s are still healthy, just with slightly higher odds of certain complications
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 06:59 PM
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The vast majority of women who give birth in their mid-to-late 30s have entirely healthy babies I would love to see the same reaction for men 45+ who have children lmao but how dare someone control a man am I right?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 05:34 PM
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Don't know but at least they aren't told they are running out of time by 20 like my mother
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 05:18 PM
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Society to those naive young women before feminism: get married young or else you lose you worth!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 05:00 PM
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The examples you give apply to women too, not just to men; women in general like charismatic, attractive people. I have been countlessly ignored even when I showed clear interest in starting a friendship because they got attached to my sister instead. The easiest way for me to make friends is when I show nonchalance and confidence. However, that can be difficult for me when I genuinely want something and am interested, so I can relate to some male struggles regarding that I wouldn't say that's t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:21 PM
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I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:15 PM
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Just being surrounded by a bunch of men in my life isn't enough, they won't just come up to me and do so and I'm told I look too intimidating and unapproachable to guys, even had one apologies like 4 time for bumping into me in college, so clearly that's not enough I do have to work on myself And my like 4 male acquaintance in college didn't last when I changed majors because we didn't keep in touch, I had to make some initiative for them to stay beyond just college
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:13 PM
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Again I never denied that men have it harder in that aspect, you littelraly asked and I said yes But just like a shy man would struggle in those environment and a shy woman would too, and both end up at home this is what most shy people experience, you are just seeing a few exceptions where the woman had lucky friends that helped her
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:02 PM
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And how many shy women do get to experience that? I'm a shy woman myself and don't have many close friends and I know I should work myself to improve this just like a shy man would
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:59 PM
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You could have said that from the beginning, well yes a shy woman can be with them, does she feel included tho? It's not her environment just like it's not a shy man's environment and why you don't see them in such group often You just don't see the average shy women who just stays home not socialising much, just like shy men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:52 PM
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You're just looking at extroverted people hanging out which might make it look like that, but like a I said not just friendship but also relationships can start from niche communities between opposite sex
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:50 PM
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You said a man surrounded by a bunch of women wanting his attention
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:47 PM
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I'm not saying all men are like that but a quite a few are, you don't hear of jealous men who don't want their girlfriend too close to men? All of them exists sadly
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:47 PM
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No we are talking about the friendship dynamic not the friendship itself, plenty of women make male friends but they still don't act as interested in the friendship because some men will take it the wrong way and assume she wants more, you might say you disagree but you can't deny this is one of the reasons that women deal with
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:45 PM
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Who said accepting a man as their friend? They already do that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:42 PM
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A woman surrounded by a bunch of men wanting her attention, what would you think people will say? Some men don't like women who have a sexual history or male friends as if any contact with a man is immediately a negative I've had that conversation here once with a dude who said he doesn't want his girlfriend having male friends but he is allowed to have female friends
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:41 PM
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Doesn't sound a friendship to me is that what friendships with men look like? The alpha in the middle surrounder by a bunch of men wanting his attention? Not even women are like that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:38 PM
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I would have said it's their fault if men didn't make it clear they dislike easy women and men think that women might be wanting more if she should too much interest, and the more the man doesn't receive female attention the more he will do that, Heck I even read a man commenting here once that a woman complimented his eyes but wasn't interested in dating him as if any type of attention from a woman is automatically romantic or sexual interest
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:35 PM
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Why don't social men invite shy men to go with them? Because it's socially acceptable, women can be surrounded by a bunch of men but what will people say and think?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:32 PM
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It is but those men surrounded by women aren’t surrounded by shy women they are fellow social women with some normal ones, you ever seen a shy woman in that type of setting?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:24 PM
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And I don't "think" it's normal or natural I'm stating how people see it, you have to take into account women’s pov too
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:23 PM
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Who said a man surrounded by a bunch of women are a friendships? You keep mistaking whata friendship is and this is definitely not it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:22 PM
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I never said they have the same problems I said it's difficult for both shy women and men because the environments that starts said friendships are not for people like them
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:18 PM
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It's not but how will a shy woman ever make friendships without going out there If if she doesn't initiate? she has to be in the correct environments which aren't for shy people
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:12 PM
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Become wether people agree or not even if the friendship is purely platonic people will see it differently for mixed friendship and the same way she would be perceived as easy or attention seeking in a relationship the same could be said for friendships depending on how she is acting How are women picky about male friends? It's not a top 20% situation, the charismatic man will attract the attention of both men and women in different ways, this goes for women too a very attractive social woman wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:11 PM
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No, you just have a wrong view in friendships, this goes both ways shy women and men wouldn't make friendships easily
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:05 PM
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And wouldn't you say women not doing as much in those friendships you mentioned is also because of social expectations? You might not but some will see it as attention seeking or being too easy if she is casual about them, men too play a role in women playing hard to get they don't like easy women, while a man doing those things wouldn't be seen the same way
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:03 PM
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It's a start, I didn't say it's the only part
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:58 PM
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I didn't but what is the point of going further into this if we both have very different definition of friendship And my examples don't work because I live in a religious conservative environment where mixed friendships are looked down upon for women, the only time it happened was with a group of guys who played the same game I play in college
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:57 PM
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Sharing a hobby is a simple enough reason for a man and a woman to form a friendship, why else do people recommend men to get into more mixed hobbies if they wish to befriend women?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:54 PM
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You view on friendships is very wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:52 PM
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Do you genuinely think only the 20% of men have female friendships? you've never heard of men who have female friends and struggle with dating, or female friends helping them set up a dating app? My point is more women are capable of platonic friendships than men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:45 PM
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You made that up And a man doing all of this for a "friend" is hoping for something more and will not get something more
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:37 PM
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Yeah it is, I'm not saying all women are genuine with their friendship but even if she made friends with a man benefiting from his circle it doesn't mean she doesn't see him as a person unlike my example Plus women are more capable to befriend men they'd never date like gay men, while some men are still weird toward lesbian friends as if she'll magically change her mind for him
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:20 PM
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Men use women in friendships just as much, hoping for something sexual
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:13 PM
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And men are genuine? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:09 PM
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So your problem is the 'reason'?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:04 PM
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I don’t think that pattern is specific to women. A lot of it comes down to social conditioning and grooming norms. Men are generally given less pressure or guidance around appearance, so there’s more variation in how much effort they put in, while women are often encouraged from a young age to maintain certain standards of presentation For men, there’s a wider variance in effort (style, fitness, grooming, social calibration), so in some dating environments you get a more noticeable split between…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 12:14 PM
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Men also concentrate attention around the most attractive women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 12:01 PM
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Oh you mean his daughter, I thought you were talking about his sister
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 11:47 AM
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Why
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 11:32 AM
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Well I think it depends if someone wanted to try it at least once out of curiosity What's your take on men obsessed with casual sex and hook up culture?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 10:24 AM
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They want the woman who is inexpensive and never had casual sex to make them the exception so they can feel special, which even more delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 10:17 AM
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Hence they become obsessed with something they can't achieve and build resentment
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 10:16 AM
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"Women shouldn't work because I'm not getting casual sex" do you even hear yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 10:09 AM
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I am but you'll have to start working on yourself and stop obsessing over casual sex to start meeting one
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 05:34 AM
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Can't have a woman not owned by another man for too long smh
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 05:29 AM
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Said by somoeone from one
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 05:26 AM
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She also isn't allowed to leave the house or look at another man for a while
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 05:25 AM
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Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 09:12 PM
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Duh of course
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 09:06 PM
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He isn't wrong tho
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 08:54 PM
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Not excatly getting hit on but it was attempted child luring, where he said he wanted to show me the toys on his bed
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 07:03 PM
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Not everyone is comfortable with it, but some people have a different definition of what is acceptable in a relationship, especially when the differences are clearly visible. While some are fine with age or economic gaps, others are not. However, when there is a stark contrast in almost every aspect of a relationship, you will find that far more people tend to disapprove I personally don't see it as immediately bad if the two met naturally and bonded. Over something being deliberate if one perso…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 06:17 PM
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Yes, it could be a case of falling in love because they met organically. He didn't deliberately travel to a whole different country just to find a woman he could control with his money and who was control sexually her whole life And yes that can exist in the west which is why a man targeting religious women when he isn't religious himself, solely to find a virgin, is just as bad. However, the example you gave was a waitress which is different so clearly your companion was wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 06:00 PM
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Western culture differs significantly from Eastern culture, particularly regarding their levels of sex positivity. so a wealthy man falling in love with a local woman is still vastly different from a man targetiing specifically women who were denied sexual agency and bodily autonomy due to strict social, economic, or religious control
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 05:31 PM
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It does prevent it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 03:23 PM
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Plenty of women who don't you just don't attract them
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 03:16 PM
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The culture difference plays a role that isn't present in your example
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 03:11 PM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 10:23 PM
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That's good to hear
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 10:06 PM
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Are you feeling better these days?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 09:22 PM
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Rude
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 06:18 PM
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Oh ok well it's good in opinion then maybe reduce the reasons a bit to just two
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 05:04 PM
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Yeah but maybe no emoji whould have been better
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:51 PM
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And tried it means a few small attempts?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 10:27 PM
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Obviously people aren't gonna be on their best behavior when it's established not to work. It does work for some but these men are too busy focusing on the bad examples to justify their shitty behaviours
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 10:16 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:58 PM
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Undesirable men can work on themselves to become average or at least below average, they can't expect to get something valuable so easily, lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:57 PM
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Husband materials can still find unattractive women willing to sleep with a man because they are deprived of having relationships with guys
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:47 PM
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So who's a good romantic partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:44 PM
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Huh? So she should accept having non pleasurable sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:42 PM
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Height or abs
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 06:43 PM
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Do you mean...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 06:39 PM
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I'm joking
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 05:47 PM
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Nah bro said and something else
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 05:29 PM
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Why are men so butt hurt over women being into specific features then lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 03:32 PM
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Yeah I know
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 02:49 PM
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You're not the only one
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 02:44 PM
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https://vt.tiktok.com/ZSxwRgexS/
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 12:57 PM
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Men also refer to women they want relationships with as wifey material aslo one with lower n count than themselves, so they do in fact have lower standards for hook ups and they themselves have said this
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:27 AM
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You mean the excat same thing men do?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 06:52 AM
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It doesn't mean they found her attractive, it means she is fuckable and the attractiveness measure for a man to want to have sex a woman is not that high Disagree. We now have studies that show us that women only found a very small amount of men attractive while finding the rest to be ugly. Women themselves have made men’s value low. You didn't address anything of what I said, men hate other men having had been with their women they want a relatively innocent woman who'll make them the exception…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 12:36 AM
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I mean not really I don't get hit on much, but it’s not really validating or a proof of attractiveness when my friend says she has guys asking for feet pics on her insta or men being creepy in general Men themselves have made their value low, they deem others being with them or receiving their attention as lowering value so no one wants a man's attention especially when they aren't attracted to him themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 09:31 PM
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That's not a good indication when the people hitting on you don't have high standards, you'd most likely be average like all people
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 09:19 PM
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So what about you as a redditor?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 08:07 PM
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No no it's called mut'ah, but yes Nikah halala is a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:37 PM
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I ate it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:33 PM
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It's them trying to make a form of prostitution halal by allowing young men to have a temporary marriage with a divorced woman, It's really fucked up Yeah I get it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:32 PM
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Oh really? I think I dislike Shias more because they have pleasure marriages
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:27 PM
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Yeah, they mostly do, but there are areas where they mix. For example, my building is mostly Sunni, along with my Shia family, even though it is mostly a Shia region I even grew up attending a Christian public school alongside mostly Shia and Sunni classmates, with Christian teachers and a Druze best friend lol Yeah, I get told about this. My classmate, who is Shia and with whom I was with for two years, was surprised to learn I'm Shia (well, a Shia family, at least), since I don't fit the stere…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:22 PM
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Uhh my family is Muslim, Shia to be exact
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:12 PM
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Even though they have been bombing the South for months, they recently warned today that they will target my area. This morning, my family woke me up because of a warning, and we sat in the car for three hours before returning home. We asked around about a house we wanted to rent, but it is in a very dangerous location near a refugee area. My father checked if it was safe to stay there, and people advised him against it. On top of that, all the schools are full
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:05 PM
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Hey not really, but I have nowhere else to go🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 03:58 PM
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LMAOOOO
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 12:11 PM
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For creeps
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 12:09 PM
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25 is pretty young
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 12:07 PM
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Why
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 11:40 AM
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If a man does it he will always try to think it's cool no matter how of a nothing burger it is
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 07:56 AM
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Weren't your taxes funding the bombs? You might as well help those who were affected, since he'll be taking your money regardless
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 09:04 AM
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It was just the typical debate about whether someone should do it or not and I pointed out that if the genders were reversed we wouldn't be having this conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 09:00 AM
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What do you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 08:22 AM
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Yeah it was about circumcisions
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 12:20 AM
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Hope you have fun
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 08:11 PM
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Well like I don't like فتة lol since I don't like لبن but I don't think they are similar
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 07:49 PM
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Yeah those are really good too, my favourite dish ever is مغربية do you eat it?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 07:16 PM
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Do you eat them without rise? Mloukhiye fasolia bazella?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 07:00 PM
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Like 4 to 5 times probably
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 06:57 PM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 06:52 PM
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Bad red sand take
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 06:49 PM
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But they are evening out
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 06:29 PM
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"but has decreased steadily in both groups with the overall average dropping <30 years since 2015 (27.5±10.6). Since 1990, there has been a steady increase in the percentage of FTM such that it is now equivalent to MTF."
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 06:14 PM
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Oh damn really?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 04:09 PM
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I litteraly mentioned the country, your memory is awful
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:57 PM
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And the eyes?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:55 PM
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Why the skin question? you are not into black women?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:54 PM
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I heard of a dude who used to be on this sub who's into fat women, well did you atheist guess my location? lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:50 PM
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I mean you asked me before about the war in my country so surely you know where
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:49 PM
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Were you trying to see if I'm your type?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:48 PM
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Skinny Hmm 1 month old account sus
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:46 PM
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What do you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:44 PM
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Bro I'm not Indian? Did we not go over this?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:43 PM
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Hazel, what are trying to guess my location? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:41 PM
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These people need a class in geography
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:38 PM
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Skin tone? Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:36 PM
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👉👈
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:34 PM
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I'm from Asia but I'm not Asian Why do you want to know anyways?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:33 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:29 PM
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Asia
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:27 PM
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Not western
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:25 PM
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You are a western so you don't understand
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:24 PM
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I'm 13 and this is deep
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:21 PM
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I need more proof for that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:21 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:20 PM
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Sure dude
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:13 PM
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Well, you are wrong. If you think you see more MtF than FtM individuals in daily life, it is because testosterone has a much stronger and more permanent impact on the human body than estrogen. This makes it biologically easier for trans men to pass as cisgender men
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:05 PM
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You "think"? Why don't see if that actually is the case?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 02:55 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 02:53 PM
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Omg bruh are you for real?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 02:51 PM
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No one is becoming a peasant man
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 02:38 PM
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Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 01:11 PM
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Lmao, calling it "narcissism" for suggesting focus should be on helping the birthing person, sounds like these words should be directed to the people always screaming about their loneliness with zero regards to others
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 12:45 PM
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Lol yeah women growing up being told they are worse than men in everything because they are women, and mocked for feminine things is now envyness. Sure dude let me just tell my young self that men thinking they are better smarter than me because they are men and how female friendship is fake, female interests and hobbies are dumb and cringe was just envyness. Just like slut shaming them and controlling or judging how they dress is all envyness
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 12:03 PM
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Eww
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 09:07 AM
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Eww
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 08:56 AM
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Oh yeah, good idea I'll definitely do that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 08:08 PM
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Now I'm wondering, since I live in a normalized red pill religious country, whether the men who are feminists or blue pill are genuine or if they are just niche-maxing, since I want to start dating soon lol and how I should see the difference
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 07:36 PM
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Between me and him? After this? I used to not be angry about it before but after the way he's acted around this I've grown to dislike him a lot. He's a coward for multiple reasons least of which is just talking to me like an adult. No I meant your ex girlfriend I don't think this is the case, honestly. Most women our age are liberal, even more liberal than me. And on average men don't care about ideological differences as much as women do. And conversative women expect traditional masculine men.…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 07:26 PM
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-1 for the dance
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 06:49 PM
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I mean not tricked. The situation is a lot different- a lesbian friend of mine was having doubts about her whole 'not being attracted to men' thing and so she asked a friend she could trust if they could try. She wasn't that into it so they didn't do it again, but I doubt it was a terrible experience for the man, lol Ah I get what you mean, if she had that thought from the beginning of the friendship I would consider it dehumanising because she is reducing him to just that, but if it really was …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 06:48 PM
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I see it this way, they mean they are people with pasts, mistakes, and complex emotions just like anyone else. However, it doesn't mean they want to be treated like just one of the guys. They still want to be treated like a girlfriend, but with a deeper, more holistic understanding of who they are. For example, I saw a man on TikTok who wanted to get his girlfriend a gift. He asked, What do women like? This doesn't necessarily mean he is dehumanizing her, but it gives the impression that his rel…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 06:40 PM
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Yes this is bad and short sighted. However I know men who have had this happen to them with their friends they thought were lesbian, actually- so. Wait do you mean they pretend they were lesbians and tricked them? have a friend like this(friend is a strong word) and it's maddening. If I had any respect for the girl he's seeing I'd tell her. Honestly I think you should or at least give her a hint, but you might feel bad for ruining her relationship so I get why you'd not want to do it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 06:34 PM
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Well I think it's different when dating since gender is the main aspect of it for many people. This is the one time someone would be the least offended by being treated purely based on their gender, though you definitely shouldn't entirely reduce them to just that while in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 06:31 PM
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While this definitely doesn't apply to everyone, women are more likely to befriend men they have no chance of dating, such as gay men. On the other hand, some men befriend lesbian women while still hoping she'll change her mind just to have sex with her, and I have also heard of men who pretend they are feminists and blue pill in order to have sex with women while their male friends say they don't actually think this way
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 06:27 PM
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Like people will still be treated differently for their sex and other characteristics but they mean don't reduce them to just that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 05:59 PM
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Ah I get what you mean now I guess you could say that since they treat men horribly and women than they are treating them equally, but that’s not how things work in real many people get treated differently depending on their characteristics and what they mean to you, I personally think when someone says treating them like humans like treating them beyond their sex and benefits, just like I see men not befriend women they wouldn't sleep with as inhuman, they could be treating their male friends t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 05:49 PM
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Nobody said all of them are this way I'm speaking from the original commenter's logic, but generally it is proven wome are capable of seeing others as humans more so than men, and alot men on this sub specifically have proven they don't
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 05:24 PM
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Women's treatment of others for example
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 05:16 PM
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Be for real now
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 04:30 PM
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Bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 04:15 PM
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I mean you are insisting on this irrelevant wording then sure Just because men treat each other even worse doesn't disproves that they don't treat women like people
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 04:10 PM
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I didn't say anything about my personal take but if you want to go with the original commenter's logic then yes
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 04:06 PM
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Both are true how does not treating someone like a human not mean treating them badly?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 04:05 PM
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That's not a logical conclusion,
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 03:48 PM
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Just because men treat each other even worse doesn't disproves that they do treat women badly
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 03:39 PM
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You proved the complaint even more
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 03:05 PM
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Nah I'm sure you'll find one if you dig deep enough
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 08:51 AM
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Well try finding somoeone who isn't interested in kinds and also is fine with a jobless man then
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 08:48 AM
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Well good for them no broke jobless man should be having kids and burdening them
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 08:46 AM
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They do
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 08:39 AM
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Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 07:51 AM
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But I thought men like traditional marriages, if you want a traditional wife be prepared to provide
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 07:44 AM
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Different people with different needs
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 07:41 AM
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Providing for your family is now "getting leeched"?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 07:30 AM
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That's not true they still are mocked for them
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 07:19 AM
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Cool
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 08:23 PM
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With a maid outfit?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 08:21 PM
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They do anal on women's day?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 08:12 PM
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Men should try uncomfortable painful degrading sex acts too it might possibly be good
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 08:08 PM
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If there language didn't sound like entitlement
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:36 PM
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Explain
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:33 PM
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Yes I agree with you, that is if you view women as humans with history and needs
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 06:34 PM
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Well yes you might do but you can't deny many men think otherwise, idk the number of men without an inflated ego whom also aren't obsessed with n count
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 06:29 PM
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Except women don't actively do something they deem as lowering a man's value the way a man does
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 06:24 PM
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That would make sense if men weren't so against women also being adventurous
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 06:20 PM
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Then aren't these women justified in not wanting to date an insecure ego driven man?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 06:14 PM
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And it's not misandry just because women are doing it to men, the reason and assumption is what makes it misogyny like another commenter said "I wouldn't say I'm overly feminine but I'm a bi guy who has talked to a lot of women about it, and the number 1 reason for their disgust is that they don't see us "real men". Real men don't do things women do. Doing things women do ruins us. We are ruining the image of men by stooping to women's level" That is misogyny
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 05:59 PM
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Are men also misandrist when they view these men as inferior or not real men? And your example doesn't work because men don't view women sleeping with other women as something serious or a competition, they are more disgusted with them sleeping with other men
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 05:55 PM
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It is misogyny for both. Sleeping with men or being submissive to them, traits associated with women are seen as inferior. That is why women doing the opposite, such as sleeping with women or acting more masculine, are not viewed as negatively, they are adopting perceived male behaviors
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 05:35 PM
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What does experimenting have to do with this? Does a bi man only experiment with other men?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 05:29 PM
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If you consider it misandry when women are turned off by men who sleep with other men, then half, if not more, of men are misandrist by viewing women who sleep with men as negative
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 05:23 PM
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Tainting it how?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 01:31 PM
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I'm criticising a system not a person
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 11:55 AM
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It is misogyny because they are acting like women which is precieved as inferior
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 11:37 AM
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Yeah totally a woman required to save herself for a future man who doesn't care about her and sees women as just a means to an end, whether for his pleasure or to serve him What a lovely deal these women get
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 11:33 AM
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It would make more sense and be more believable if these men didn't want their own version of af/bb as an ideal world to them, these women are just them but with opportunity
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 10:58 AM
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Casual sex is not something owed to you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 10:48 AM
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You should always assume this any accusation or assumptions made about you are projection cause it's like 99% of the case
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:52 PM
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Yeah I think men who always comaplain about modern western women are just upset women are now acting just like them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:30 PM
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OK sure but if we’re going back to your original comment, it still doesn’t make sense. These love stories are written around teenage obsession, unbalanced crushes, redemption arcs, and character growth, as part of shōnen-era romantic subplots that are often intentionally messy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:27 PM
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It's not a whataboutism lol I'm posting out how you are making it pointlessly gendered while showing an opposite exemple at the same time
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:09 PM
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Ah yeah cause your logic doesn't work when you yourself pointed out a man doing the same thing lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 06:55 PM
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Naruto is a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 06:49 PM
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I want to be a billionaire
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 05:00 PM
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And they're saying this as if the alternative they want isn't something that purely benefits men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 02:06 PM
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Oh damn no
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 08:23 PM
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Same
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 07:49 PM
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My region got threatened again after a supposed ceasefire
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 07:41 PM
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Packing my things a second time since things don't look good tonight😮‍💨
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 07:08 PM
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The two dots should be horizontal and look like an accessory or something
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 02:18 PM
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I feel like I live in an alternative reality this would never happen here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 10:07 AM
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What a stretched conclusion
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 08:23 AM
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Goes both ways
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 07:50 PM
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Lol sure make it sound cool
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 07:13 PM
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Oh yeah for sure I was just pointing out how they always critises shit tests women do while trying to do their own lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 06:53 PM
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And men are learning from them
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 06:37 PM
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So she also should do the shit tests you talked about
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 06:24 PM
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They still could end up in bad marriages
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 06:13 PM
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Does this go both ways?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 05:14 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 03:46 PM
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Awww
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 03:38 PM
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Yeah sure I'll have a list of all things I did and he brings me his to compare, if I have 2 more than him he should do two more hook ups before getting married
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 03:37 PM
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Ok 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 03:30 PM
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So you came back here with a comment accusing women of perceiving men as bad at a baseline while saying this the next day?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 02:23 PM
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Yeah so she should have said no to all those so her future husband whom she doesn't even know yet doesn't feel petty and insecure over it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 10:34 AM
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Yeah of course it can depend on your style
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 08:05 AM
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My sister had that length, but she cut it to her belly yesterday. I always cut mine into a short wolf cut every few months, and this time I’m getting bangs too
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 07:40 AM
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How old are you? I'm curious
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 06:21 PM
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Yeah I was Yes, I think you are justified in feeling that way. I really dislike the proselytizing aspect of Islam Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 10:20 AM
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No lol it was joke There is a ceasefire that got extended to a couple of months. People are still displaced but I'm back home. Most of my neighbours still aren't, the streets are less crowded and schools are still occupied It's a very annoying period but at least the danger to the capital has lessened, though not completely since there was an assassination attempt and the South is very much still being actively bombed It is slightly funny tho seeing people scared to step into a region you are li…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 09:35 AM
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Is this exclusive to muslims?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 09:23 AM
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"Generally nice" (I don't agree tho from personal experience) but I win is a win
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 09:05 AM
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Yoo I win
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 09:02 AM
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Plus it works in reverse you are being puppeteered so she gets what she wants out of you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 08:14 AM
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Yeah women would rather be single than with a bad partner no puppetering is needed for that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 08:06 AM
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I can't believe I have to explain this Puppetry = one agent directly controlling another’s actions Attraction = one agent reacting to another’s traits within their own internal decision system
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:57 AM
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Wrong, try another example
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:27 AM
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What's the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:22 AM
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Your desire completely depends on women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:06 AM
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Yeah I agree with this
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 02:36 PM
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Dude no
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 02:05 PM
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Nobody cares
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 10:06 AM
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Loll 3rd world problems
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 04:58 PM
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It is! I'm joining the education minister hate club
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 04:44 PM
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Yes and idk lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 04:38 PM
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Thanks <3
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 04:13 PM
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No these are official exams but because of the whole situation right now instead of canceling them or giving students optional subjects, they decide on written exams
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 04:12 PM
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Bro, what do you mean that I will have to do written exams in my art major? Is the Education Minister okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 04:03 PM
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Lolll idk the secret technique😔
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 12:32 PM
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It's absolutely true, my father's side of the family almost all marry for money and move abroad, both male and female. One of them moved to Canada, where he is pampered by his wife's family, and his sister married a wealthy man. Another cousin married a man who moved her and her entire family to Dubai and another cousin moved to France after marrying lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 12:27 PM
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There are men who marry women who spend money on them. Both are rare, but not nonexistent
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 12:12 PM
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Ohh
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 11:46 AM
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What is it about
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 11:37 AM
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Yeah I agree but I do the think the og woman is still very attractive more so than Sydney even
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 07:22 PM
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If we are talking middle east then easily 10s people go crazy over blond and blue eyes there If you mean their native country 8 to 9. I personally think the woman in the instagram reel looks better than Sydney not by a crazy amount tho
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 05:45 PM
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Happy anniversary <3
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 05:24 PM
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8 and with blue eyes in the middle east she can be 9
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 05:21 PM
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6/10? Her? You have crazy standards then
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 04:40 PM
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That's crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 04:39 PM
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He doesn't need to say it directly the phrasing suggests women’s rejection as some kind of inflict of harm or unfair punishment rather than a neutral preference
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 03:28 PM
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It very much is entitlement look at how op talks Dismissing a man because he can't make you laugh or put you at ease, relegating him to a lifetime of jerking off, is not a virtue
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 03:12 PM
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Then how did you interpret the og post?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 02:58 PM
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The post doesn't say that, they want women to start having casual sex with less desirable men, which no one owns them and it's a very unrealistic thing to obsess over You are free to do so but don't make it others problem
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 02:57 PM
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One is more realistic than the other
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 02:40 PM
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Even if casual sex is "important" nobody is entitled to receive it from others
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 02:36 PM
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You are forgiven
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 09:49 AM
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This is such a useless argument stop obsessing over casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 08:52 AM
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Yo watermelon art trend
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 08:13 AM
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My point is it's incorrect to make societal observations over this, when every person is different
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 04:58 PM
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I was making a societal observation on people who have this standard
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 04:48 PM
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Literally what's the point of saying societal observation are good when something this clear will still be questioned or misunderstood
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 04:40 PM
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Standard boundaries of a monogamous relationship is dependent on the participants. Some are okay with threesomes or swinging and others aren’t. I said standard I understand why you do need to misrepresent that, it would fit the controlling narrative. Funny how you are still going with this when I explicitly said And my earlier example wasn't me accusing you of being controlling I don't know you nor your partner to be making such statements But you have to take everything I say as a personal atta…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 04:32 PM
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No that wasn't what I said, I asked a question And it's not controlling anyways that was the point of my question I'm not controlling neither is my partner, expecting a partner to cut off friends entirely just because of their gender is not the same to standard boundaries of a monogamous relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 04:19 PM
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Are they controlling me back by also not wanting me to sleep with other people?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 03:49 PM
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Would you be okay with your partner fucking other people? You mean this one? No. But how is that the same? I'm also not sleeping with other people in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 03:39 PM
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For example you could say a woman doesn't want her partner to have female friends because she is jealous but allows herself male friends because she doesn't have feeling for them, she can find a man who is compatible with her but people still have the right to question it or critises the inconsistency And my earlier example wasn't me accusing you of being controlling I don't know you nor your partner to be making such statements, it was a general observation of how men who are like that behave, …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 03:20 PM
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But regarding your last point it can controlling just by the fact of restricting it not just telling her to get rid of her existing male friends
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 03:07 PM
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Well it depends on many things that's why I don't think societal observations can work
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 03:05 PM
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Well yeah that's my point making it a general societal statement isn't effective because many will push back against it or say they are different
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 02:48 PM
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But if I said I don't like men who have female friends but don’t want their partner to have male friends since they can be controlling with self-exception bias would not offended?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 01:56 PM
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Wouldn't that make this entire sub pointless? It's not actually changing anything It's mostly people debating and criticising each other
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 01:30 PM
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I disagree I can critises a guy over his standards, that doesn't mean he'll actually change or that I'm trying to fit him into my type
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 01:15 PM
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Do you think men who criticize women for looking for well off men are just trying to make more women fit their type (though some might be), or is it just a general criticism or opinion over the matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 01:07 PM
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Lmao if that's how you took it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 12:57 PM
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This is what the Internet does with everything idk why you took issue with this in particular
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 12:27 PM
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No hate to you but this will never make sense to me, I'd never be with a guy who thinks like this
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 12:04 PM
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And you're an exception to those guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 11:50 AM
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And your exception to those guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 11:49 AM
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Are your female friends not attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 11:44 AM
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Wait I'm little confused so your girlfriend doesn't have male friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 11:26 AM
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Explain
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 08:52 AM
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What's your job?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 09:26 PM
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This isn't the first time I see this pic on this sub, and I still want compensation for it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 07:03 PM
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Lived like this for 2 months and it was so nice, wishing you the best
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 09:00 AM
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Aww that's so sweet
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 03:08 PM
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I mean personally I don't like porn that is catered to men
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 12:14 PM
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Women into porn will kinda have to go out their way to find stuff that feels really fully straight Like what
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 12:02 PM
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You forgot the part where women's sexual history with men is seen as negative unlike men, men themselves believe this yet they still think the game should be fair?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 09:39 PM
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They still use them just as much, don't try painting women as only after men for a gain as if men aren't notorious for that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 09:35 PM
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And men don't? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 09:30 PM
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Yeah I'm sure you'd like being reduced to your sex and wishing you can stay young, talk about not appreciating your privileges
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 09:16 PM
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Yeah and I'm sure if you were a woman you wouldn't like getting unwanted attention from men constantly in inappropriate settings
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 09:05 PM
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So you just proved my point you liked it because it's rare, I'm sure if you were a woman receiving unwanted attention from a man especially growing up you'd have a different opinion, women also like compliments from other women because it's not loaded with intentions
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 08:59 PM
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Men don't like getting attention from ugly women just as much
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 08:32 PM
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As if a man receiving attention from a woman is the same for a woman receiving attention for a man lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 08:21 PM
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You like it because it's rare
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:29 PM
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What's wrong with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 10:24 PM
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Cap
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 09:54 PM
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I'll care when men who say that hold themselves accountable
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 09:40 PM
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My cat has a new favourite now, I'm angry 😡
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 04:16 PM
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Don't have kids with him an stop taking care of his kids, force him to do his job
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 03:35 PM
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Today is a rare happy day
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 07:54 PM
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My cat
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 07:51 PM
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I'll do it too
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 07:32 PM
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You reported her?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 07:26 PM
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Sheesh yeah link it if it's still there
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 06:51 PM
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Now I'm wondering which users they mean, or is it generally the female and white knight biased? Like I hear sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 05:36 PM
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Oh when was this comment? I'm too new to have been present during the mod removal
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 05:29 PM
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Just today there were complaints in the main thread lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 05:25 PM
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Interesting idea lol wonder which mod got you pissed
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 05:20 PM
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Women and men get different things and have different experiences from relationships, which is why they don't have the same standards, you can't expect women to have men's standards when they don't get the same benefits or experiences as those men
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 05:13 PM
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😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 07:24 AM
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I could see that, but this isn't in particular only associated with girl dads, a religious controlling dad would be the exact same
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 06:41 AM
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From what I see online
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 08:50 PM
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They aren't weirdly and creepily obsessed with their child
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 08:34 PM
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Do I belong here🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 05:37 PM
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I'm not saying having standards is wrong, I'm saying men who say they have zero standards and that men find the majority of women attractive enough for them, is not true
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 11:29 AM
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Liking sex doesn't mean whores
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 04:36 AM
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They are in my environment, the only time I openly talked about them enthusiastically was with guys and I was mocked by my female friend for it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 11:01 PM
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It depends on the group. In my current environment I mostly interact with older people, but I was once called weird by someone my age too so idk, it's just anime and video games, I might have a more obsessive interest tho
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 10:55 PM
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Honestly you are so right 🫂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 10:45 PM
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Disconnected from my culture and the religion of people around me, and with weird hobbies and interests and a weird personality and I'm also very different from heterosexual women (like my sister and women I interact with in general)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 10:44 PM
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Nah it was already fried
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 10:31 PM
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Spending time with my sister makes me realise even more how much of a weirdo I am comapred to women around me 🥀
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 10:20 PM
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No this is subjective there could be claims done that are very obvious (like alot of examples on this sub) that others still won't understand
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 11:45 AM
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Idk lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 10:21 PM
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Yes" just as much" might have been an exaggeration but 95% is also an exaggeration
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 10:16 PM
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Average gender differences in competitiveness exist in many contexts, but they are substantially influenced by socialization and can shrink or reverse depending on institutional conditions and culture https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0167268111002010 https://www.researchgate.net/publication/241891096_Gender_Competitiveness_and_Socialization_at_a_Young_Age_Evidence_From_a_Matrilineal_and_a_Patriarchal_Society
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 08:54 AM
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Yes I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 09:15 PM
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In environments where girls are encouraged to compete such as sports or single-sex schooling, their competitiveness often matches that of boys
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 08:15 PM
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It is still not comparable in terms of intimate trauma, and sexual assault carries forms of stigma and social judgment that are qualitatively different in both intensity and nature Also, sexual assault victims statistically face unusually high levels of disbelief compared to many other crime victims. There’s a cultural tendency to scrutinize their behavior before, during, and after the assault in ways that don’t usually happen with property crimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 08:04 PM
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Nowhere near close to that. Are they asking questions about something that traumatised you? Is it questioned in ways that imply moral responsibility or consent?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 07:53 PM
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There's no crime that blames the victim like sexual assault victims
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 07:19 PM
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Yes, especially when it comes to the religious side of things, though it depends on who I’m talking to. I’d rather not get ostracized
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 06:59 PM
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No way you took a joke as being triggered lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 06:16 PM
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Litteraly what I meant men aren't defined by their sex or looks and have value beyond that, yet still wish they were women desperate to stay young lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 02:26 PM
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They do not
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 02:25 PM
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Yeah this excatly what happened to me, she got all offended when I asked her a question even tho I helped her with hers
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 02:18 PM
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So you just proved my point thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 02:11 PM
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