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| 1 | It's so exhausting to be with ANY man (even the good ones)Duh. Just how fucking stupid are you???? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 07:23 PM |
| 1 | It's so exhausting to be with ANY man (even the good ones)I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 09:35 AM |
| 1 | It's so exhausting to be with ANY man (even the good ones)I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 09:35 AM |
| 1 | It's so exhausting to be with ANY man (even the good ones)I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 09:35 AM |
| 1 | It's so exhausting to be with ANY man (even the good ones)I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 09:35 AM |
| 1 | It's so exhausting to be with ANY man (even the good ones)I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 09:35 AM |
| 1 | It's so exhausting to be with ANY man (even the good ones)I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 09:35 AM |
| 1 | It's so exhausting to be with ANY man (even the good ones)I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 09:34 AM |
| 1 | It's so exhausting to be with ANY man (even the good ones)I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 09:34 AM |
| 1 | It's so exhausting to be with ANY man (even the good ones)I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agree it's real, I agre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 09:34 AM |
| 1 | Women don’t go after men with wedding ringsWell, there's a 99% chance that's what he meant | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 09:32 AM |
| 1 | It's so exhausting to be with ANY man (even the good ones)"I raised a pattern that’s real, and the fact that you’re still circling around it with insults instead of insight proves it’s realer than you want to admit." holy fucking shit how many times do many different people have to tell you it's real before you understand people thing it's real? Jesus fucking christ this is fucking insane. I've said probably a dozen times, I agree it's real! It's very real! It's EXTREMELY real!!!!!!!!! Are you able to understand yet that I agree it's real? How many mor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 09:21 AM |
| 1 | Women don’t go after men with wedding rings"I ask if groping a strange man on the subway is mentally ill or not." I mean, how are we defining "grope"? By "grope" i assume this guy meant she briefly touched his arm. I don't think that means a woman is mentally ill or at all abnormal. If you were thinking she grabbed his crotch or something, yeah, that's different | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 12:33 AM |
| 1 | Women don’t go after men with wedding ringshahahahahahahahahahaha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/25 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Women don’t go after men with wedding ringsWhat in the fuck? You never once said either of those things. Are you hallucinating? Do you need me to call 911? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/25 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Women don’t go after men with wedding ringsYeah, i think women assault men pretty regularly and get away with it because nobody cares or takes it seriously Besides that...I'm literally just repeating what women have told me. Which is that they find men who other women approve of far more attractive than men other women don't approve of. Again, talk to them about it, not me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/25 04:45 PM |
| 1 | It's so exhausting to be with ANY man (even the good ones)lol 1. that doesn't even make any fucking sense, but expecting sense from you is way too much, clearly, since you're still 100% convinced you're right despite only one single person agreeing with you nobody is upset. It's not that deep. Relax | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/25 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Women don’t go after men with wedding ringslol did anyone say he wasn’t assaulted? lol when did I say it is or isn’t normal? Where are you getting all this from 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/25 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Women don’t go after men with wedding rings“This forum bashes women” It also bashes men, numb nuts “Had he pursued it, he could have pressed charges.” True! Sadly chances are nobody would care or take it seriously, so why bother? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/25 03:50 PM |
| 1 | It's so exhausting to be with ANY man (even the good ones)lol nobody said it wasn’t real, you dolt. How fucking lost are you? All anyone is saying is this isn’t a gendered thing and that both men and women do it equally | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/25 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Women don’t go after men with wedding rings"I'd argue the majority of women are more likely to be interested in a taken man than a single one" Did...did....did I say it was? You're the only one who can't get over the idea of a woman hitting on a married man on a subway, nobody else | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/25 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Women don’t go after men with wedding rings"What a disgusting and prejudiced view of women." lol i'm just repeating what women have told me, so talk to them 😂😂😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/25 03:35 PM |
| 1 | It's so exhausting to be with ANY man (even the good ones)lol okay got it. "just because nobody agrees with me and everyone disagrees doesn't mean that's what's happening! It just means everyone agrees but won't say so!" Hilarious. Must be nice, to be so delusional and full of yourself and certain that you, and only you, are capable of seeing the truth of the world that, despite an overwhelming amount of evidence telling you you're wrong, you can just disregard it all and tell yourself everyone actually agrees with you but just aren't saying so | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/25 03:33 PM |
| 1 | It's so exhausting to be with ANY man (even the good ones)read the replies here. Even in this thread there's one - literally one - person who agrees with. Everyone else, men and women, have agreed with me that this isn't a gendered issue at all. Literally. Every. Single. Person, but one, in this thread has disagreed with you...and your conclusion is that "countless voices" are echoing the sentiment? How? Just...how? Absolutely fucking insane that, even in your own thread, you have one person who agrees with you, dozens saying they disagree...and your c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/25 03:18 PM |
| 1 | It's so exhausting to be with ANY man (even the good ones)"Lolol are you okay Sir? Your meltdown is giving like a middle-school tantrum energy. Lolol" Just how fucking stupid are you? Obviously not " especially when echoed by countless women." lol I've literally never heard anyone try to claim anything as absurd as "women have to manage men way more than men have to manage women," let alone countless times "The lack of your personal experience with it doesn’t invalidate the overwhelming number of voices saying otherwise." Just you is not countless voic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/25 02:46 PM |
| 1 | The nice guy does deserve to finish last"Rudeness and kindness exist on the same scale FFS." Guess we'll have to agree to disagree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/25 02:17 PM |
| 2 | It's so exhausting to be with ANY man (even the good ones)"It’s almost like you don’t want to understand the difference between acknowledging both sides can experience something and pointing out how it's disproportionately expected of one group in certain contexts." It's almost like you don't understand this is a fantasy you've invented in your head and there's no way to definitively say it's disproportionately expected of either gender. Which you still haven't given a single reason or example. You just keep saying "Well women do it more....because...i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/25 02:14 PM |
| 2 | It's so exhausting to be with ANY man (even the good ones)"The first says a recurring social dynamic where women are more often expected to manage men’s emotional reactions, especially in relationships. It’s about expectations, not emotional capacity." lol and now you're back to saying women have to do it more than men after spending a few posts insisting you've been saying it's equal this whole time. Fucking hilarious. Please just pick one already, lady | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/25 01:57 PM |
| 1 | The nice guy does deserve to finish lastAre you dense? Do you want to marry your friends because they're fun to be around? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/25 01:51 PM |
| 1 | The nice guy does deserve to finish last"Correct, because kindness is more attractive than not" lol no, it's completely neutral. It's not attractive or unattractive. It's neutral | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/25 01:15 PM |
| 2 | It's so exhausting to be with ANY man (even the good ones)when you said women have to deal with tiptoeing around men's fragile egos way more than men have to with women. What else would that mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/25 01:13 PM |
| – | The nice guy does deserve to finish lastBecause she would be less pleasant to be around? Isn't it obvious? That doesn't mean kindness is attractive. It just means its more pleasant being around someone who is nice than not nice. The same way I can consider my friends pleasant to be around because they're good people without wanting to fuck them. See how that works? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/25 01:09 PM |
| 3 | It's so exhausting to be with ANY man (even the good ones)"You keep saying it like it’s an insult, when really, all it does is expose how much power you think women hold over your emotions." No, I'm trying to point out to you that your premise that men are much more fragile and sensitive than women is wrong. Men and women are equally fragile and sensitive "If “only a woman” can rattle you this much, maybe it’s not women who are fragile here." lol how many times do I need to say men and women are equally fragile before you understand that I think they'r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/25 11:22 AM |
| 3 | It's so exhausting to be with ANY man (even the good ones)Hey if that's what you believe is happening and helps you sleep at night, I'll let you think so! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/25 11:20 AM |
| 3 | It's so exhausting to be with ANY man (even the good ones)laughing at your inability to stop proving me right = fragile ego. Good to know | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/25 11:07 AM |
| 1 | It's so exhausting to be with ANY man (even the good ones)lol did I say my ego wasn't fragile? 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/25 11:06 AM |
| 6 | It's so exhausting to be with ANY man (even the good ones)"You’d be able to say, "Yes, that happens but I experience this too", without needing to mock me into silence. You say women are fragile, but the second the conversation centers on a woman’s perspective, your need to dominate it says a lot more about your fragile ego than mine ever could. " lol saying "it's equal" isn't trying to dominate the conversation. It's saying it's equal. Another example of what I mean...only a woman would somehow translate "it's equal" to trying to dominate a conversati… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/25 11:02 AM |
| 3 | It's so exhausting to be with ANY man (even the good ones)"If you truly believed it was equal, you wouldn’t be this uncomfortable with a post that simply centers women’s experience for once." more examples!!! 😂😂😂 "Acknowledging a pattern that disproportionately affects women isn’t the same as saying men never experience it." lol there you go again, saying it effects women more than men then complaining about how unfair it is that men won't let it be equal between the two genders 😂😂😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/25 10:52 AM |
| 5 | It's so exhausting to be with ANY man (even the good ones)"If it really were equal, you wouldn’t feel so threatened by a woman simply naming her experience." Another example! Women, so sensitive and fragile that saying "it's the same" is interpreted as feeling threatened 😂😂😂 "Acknowledging that women are often expected to emotionally cushion men isn't erasure. It's reality. " Agreed! "The way you’re reacting right now? That is the fragile ego the post was talking about." lol another example: disagreeing = fragile ego 😂😂😂 "And NO. Pointing that out isn’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/25 10:45 AM |
| 3 | It's so exhausting to be with ANY man (even the good ones)"What I did say and still stand by is that there’s a pattern many women experience where they are expected to emotionally cater to men more often than the other way around." And I disagree. I think men have to cater to women far more than to men. Example: right now, having to tiptoe around my words so I don't hurt your feelings and have you say "omg stop silencing meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!" "So why is it suddenly “projection” or “invalid” when the focus is on men this time?" Again, because you're… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/25 10:33 AM |
| 7 | It's so exhausting to be with ANY man (even the good ones)"You're right that emotional cushioning happens on both sides BUT what you’re missing is the imbalance in how it's normalized and expected. " Again, exactly equal. It's not an imbalance. Men have to do this just as much as women. Men are very much expected to cede and cater to women's emotional needs at the expense of their own. Wild you keep saying "it's an imbalance!" then when people object say "I never said it wasn't equal! How come you won't let it be equal!!!! Just because men and women do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/25 10:27 AM |
| 4 | It's so exhausting to be with ANY man (even the good ones)"Acknowledging a common pattern that affects women disproportionately isn’t sexism. It’s observation. " lol how can you possibly know this affects women disproportionately? There you go again, pretending men are more fragile than women when it's equal "We can hold space for BOTH truths. But refusing to let women speak on a very real, recurring dynamic just because it bruises your fragile ego is the problem." lol who isn't letting you speak 😂😂😂. See what I mean about having to tiptoe around women… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/25 10:25 AM |
| 5 | It's so exhausting to be with ANY man (even the good ones)"You keep insisting that because this is something both genders can experience, it somehow invalidates a post specifically about how this dynamic manifests in men. That’s not how discussions work." Didn't mean to invalidate, just pointing out both do it since you're invalidating that women do it too by acting like men are somehow worse when it's equal" "I didn’t say women never have fragile egos." Well your post sure as hell implies it "so what's the problem? A hurt ego?" lol whining about men b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/25 10:19 AM |
| 10 | It's so exhausting to be with ANY man (even the good ones)"The difference is that women are often expected to emotionally cushion men through those moments " wrong. Men have to emotionally cushion women all the time. And they are "expected" to far more than women are. It's far, far more acceptable for a woman to roll her eyes at a man say "deal with it" than it is for a man to do to a woman. It's not different. It's the exact same. Both genders do it. Stop pretending they don't and it's worse for women than men when it's equal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/25 10:10 AM |
| 7 | It's so exhausting to be with ANY man (even the good ones)"BUT my post isn’t about a competition of who’s more fragile or harder to talk to" lol it clearly is since this is something both genders do equally and you're pretending it's not "You can acknowledge your own struggles without invalidating that this is also a very real struggle women face. BOTH can be true but one existing doesn’t erase the other." Right. Which is why it's absurd your post is only directed at men when both genders do it. Wild how you're able to pick out the flaws in your argume… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/25 10:07 AM |
| 4 | It's so exhausting to be with ANY man (even the good ones)"Yes, emotional imbalance happens across genders BUT acknowledging how often women are expected to manage fragile egos, especially in relationships isn’t sexism. " Except it is because you're pretending men don't have to do the exact same thing with women. If both sexes deal with something and you pretend only one does, that's sexism | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/25 10:05 AM |
| 15 | It's so exhausting to be with ANY man (even the good ones)You...say this as if men don't encounter women with fragile egos....all the time....every single day. I've seen women cry because I told them I didn't know what they meant when they were telling me about a random episode of a tv show I've never watched. Women are so much more sensitive it's absolutely insane you could somehow come to the conclusion that the opposite is true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/25 10:00 AM |
| 11 | It's so exhausting to be with ANY man (even the good ones)"It’s about calling out the recurring emotional imbalance where women are often expected to be the translator, the therapist, and the softener of every truth, just to avoid setting off fragile ego alarms." lol how on earth did you come to the conclusion this is a recurring imbalance? I have to be extremely careful and delicate how I phrase things around women in a way I wouldn't around men. I've only ever seen the total and complete opposite of this, which is that it's women who you have to tipt… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/25 09:58 AM |
| 5 | It's so exhausting to be with ANY man (even the good ones)Yeah OP just can't not pick terrible people to be around, is telling on herself, and doesn't even realize it 😂😂😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/25 09:52 AM |
| 17 | It's so exhausting to be with ANY man (even the good ones)so fucking funny that OP is telling on herself and her inability to not surround herself with toxic men and has absolutely no idea 😂😂😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/25 09:50 AM |
| 1 | Women don’t go after men with wedding rings"You don’t want to admit this because it doesn’t match your “women bad succubi who can’t resist married men but ignore good single men” agenda." Just like you are painting these very normal women as deranged because it doesn't match your "all women are angels who can do no wrong unless they are mentally ill" agenda | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/25 09:35 AM |
| 1 | Do y'all believe trans people exist ?"Same reason why it's easier to tell a story in a few hundred pages rather than make a complicated thousand pages dissertation about every theme that the story touches on." Yup. and still harder than your one sentence "just do the work yourself and leave me alone, bro" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/25 09:21 AM |
| 1 | Modern relationships don’t fail because of one gender, both have lost their sense of duty"I feel like I have always felt I needed to bring something beyond “not fat” to the table for marriage" That's good! "It’s more “what you see it what you get. If you want a homemaker that ain’t me Jeeves.” Is that what these girls are saying - we won’t audition to be a traditional wife anymore?" No, they do things like go away on weekends in Miami, meet a guy, get invited to stay at his beachside home whenever they visit, but are also confused and shocked and hurt that men don't want to commit t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/25 11:17 PM |
| 1 | Men being single isn't a problem to be solvedSo must you if making posts on the internet about stuff everyone already knows and agrees with is how you spend your time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/25 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Do you actually NEVER get laid or approached, or are you exaggerating?"This isn't skepticism, my guy it just sounds like you need the world to feel as lonely as you do." no i just don't think it's nice to lie to people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/25 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Do y'all believe trans people exist ?"I did not forget, however if you want to prove me wrong you can just give me a single example and boom I'm wrong." lol one example is not "most" 😂😂😂. I cannot give you a single example and say "see! Most people don't think this!" because, as I hope you are able to understand, one person is not most people. "I mean, what do you want me to do, exactly, once again ? Group up every single RedPill take on the internet ? " I mean....you're the one who made the claim that this is how "most" people thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/25 07:53 PM |
| 0 | Most of the time, dont wait for a man to get better. Just pick a better guy.I'd imagine that's true in some relationships and not in others. I don't think we can call it some kind of law though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/25 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Most of the time, dont wait for a man to get better. Just pick a better guy."Relationships without sex is just a friendship." I mean, yeah, dating is easier for women, but...lol wut? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/25 06:29 PM |
| 5 | Women don’t go after men with wedding ringslol then I guess you don't read at a high enough level to be able to differentiate between singular and plural. That's worrying. Good luck out there! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/25 06:21 PM |
| 2 | Modern relationships don’t fail because of one gender, both have lost their sense of dutyTo be physically attractive. I don't think they mean it in terms of attractive as a personality. But I could be wrong, can't speak for other people obviously Men saying it doesn't mean women DON'T say it, does it? Because women definitely say it too. The looks of utter and complete confusion women give at the idea of being asked to offer something besides their existence says it all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/25 06:17 PM |
| 2 | Women don’t go after men with wedding rings"more times in my few months wearing a ring" I highly recommend reading before commenting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/25 05:17 PM |
| 6 | Modern relationships don’t fail because of one gender, both have lost their sense of duty...say what? That they don't need to offer anything? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/25 05:09 PM |
| 11 | Most of the time, dont wait for a man to get better. Just pick a better guy.Huh? Which part is the lie? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/25 05:06 PM |
| 8 | Most of the time, dont wait for a man to get better. Just pick a better guy.lol how could I know you're pretending this is something mostly men do when it's not if I hadn't read your first sentence where you pretend this is something mostly men do when it's not? Did YOU read your post? Is that why you don't know you're pretending this is something mostly men do when it's not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/25 05:05 PM |
| 14 | Most of the time, dont wait for a man to get better. Just pick a better guy.lol so you've experienced it, and know for a fact it's a thing, but are pretending you haven't because you haven't specifically heard the words "women's intuition" Got it, hilarious | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/25 04:45 PM |
| 1 | The nice guy does deserve to finish lastI'd imagine the nice identical twin. Why does it matter? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/25 04:42 PM |
| 5 | Most of the time, dont wait for a man to get better. Just pick a better guy.that's good! I guess all that demonizing worked out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/25 04:34 PM |
| 4 | Most of the time, dont wait for a man to get better. Just pick a better guy.Saying millennial men were coddled when our entire lives we've been told how nasty and evil we are and how much better than us women are and how they should fear and avoid us is hilarious. Especially since millennial women growing up were taught "you are the prize," "never settle," "never let a man tell you your worth," "use him before he uses you," "you don't owe anybody anything," "we didn't used to have rights so men deserve to be treated badly," etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/25 04:25 PM |
| 12 | Most of the time, dont wait for a man to get better. Just pick a better guy.You've never heard women talk about how they "can just tell" when someone is bad person who they should avoid before even hearing him speak due to "women's intuition"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/25 04:20 PM |
| 12 | Most of the time, dont wait for a man to get better. Just pick a better guy.Waiting for a *person* to get better rarely ever works This isn't a gendered thing, women are identical to men in this regard. Good troll job to act like it isn't, tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/25 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Do you actually NEVER get laid or approached, or are you exaggerating?"1 is an entire theory.... I'll take that to mean you can't read and are so incredibly misogynistic and close minded that you can't even have a conversation with a woman." 😂😂😂 lol today I learned that recognizing 90% of people are not 100% of people is misogynistic 😂😂😂. So fucking funny, how bad women need to be the victim all the time, no matter what, that they will even say that knowing what numbers mean is misogynistic, if that's what it takes 😂😂😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/25 01:17 PM |
| 8 | Modern relationships don’t fail because of one gender, both have lost their sense of duty"What do you mean I have to offer something? My presence is enough!” Yeah the problem is that 95% of millennial and younger women believe this to their very core (it's not their fault they do, environment and such). The idea that they have to do something other than exist to be valuable is not something their brains are capable of comprehending and processing without short-circuiting. I hear so many women tell men "omg you have to offer MORE!!!!!!!" and when asked what they offer the answer is s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/25 10:54 AM |
| 1 | The nice guy does deserve to finish lastWho are "you people"? "It is not attractive by itself" So, not attractive. It makes the person more pleasant and tolerable to be around, not more attractive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/25 10:39 AM |
| 2 | Do you actually NEVER get laid or approached, or are you exaggerating?I thought so, yeah. And now I'm even more confident since you have no response. I'll take that to mean you realize how incredibly wrong you are but are too proud to admit it so instead are trying to pretend like I'm stupid due to projection | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/25 10:37 AM |
| 1 | Men being single isn't a problem to be solvedNo everyone knows this. You not being intelligent enough to figure it out doesn't make it untrue, it just means you lack the intelligence to understand basic things | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/25 10:36 AM |
| 2 | Do you actually NEVER get laid or approached, or are you exaggerating?"pseudo intellectual" lol wut? How was what I said pseudo intellectual? I wasn't trying to sound intellectual "Over 90%" And the other 10%? "and my "fweelings" told me so." That's what I said, yes. I'm glad you are capable of understanding the things I said | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/25 01:09 AM |
| 1 | Do y'all believe trans people exist ?lol did you forget that this is your thread and your hypothesis or something? 😂😂😂 lol if you present an argument, it's on your to prove it. Not the other person. Besides, if you're so confident you're right, it should be easy to prove, right? So just do it instead telling people that your hypothesis is correct because it's correct and it's on them to prove it's not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/25 12:49 AM |
| 1 | Men being single isn't a problem to be solvedImagine being so fucking stupid you don't know everyone already knows this and think you're super duper smart and deserve a candy for coming up with it 😂😂😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/25 12:38 AM |
| 3 | Do you actually NEVER get laid or approached, or are you exaggerating?I mean, has every person in human history gotten married? Has anyone ever died alone? If the answer to either is yes, then you are wrong and it's not true. Is there any actual reason whatsoever to believe it's true besides wanting it to be because it would be nice if it were? Is there any evidence? Proof? Anything? Or are you just saying stuff and declaring has to be true because your feelings told you so? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/25 12:25 AM |
| 1 | The nice guy does deserve to finish last"Kindness is attractive, but it's not attractive if it's the only thing a guy has going for him" That means it's not attractive. Kindness isn't attractive. It's totally irrelevant to attraction | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/25 11:46 PM |
| 4 | Do you actually NEVER get laid or approached, or are you exaggerating?"I truly believe there is someone out there for everyone." There isn't, stop spreading this lie. All it does is make people who are already bad at life feel worse | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/25 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Men being single isn't a problem to be solvedOh okay, well as long as you're aren't saying men can't complain but women can | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/25 09:18 PM |
| 1 | Men being single isn't a problem to be solvedBut why is it a poor argument? Again, if OP's standard is that men should be happy single and not complain, then surely the same should be true for women, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/25 08:53 PM |
| – | Men being single isn't a problem to be solvedWhy does it matter? If OP is telling men to be happy single and not complain, surely women should do the same, no? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/25 08:51 AM |
| 5 | Men being single isn't a problem to be solved"Do women interacting with you in non-romantic contexts treat you like this?" Obviously. Surely that can't be a surprise for you if you understand humanity well enough to know with absolute certainty men are totally fine being single | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/25 08:45 AM |
| 4 | A lot of men on here underrate the importance of personality"Let me let you in on a little secret, it's not as deep or as serious as you're making it out to be, little bit of projection on your behalf me thinks" ....says the guy...who....made the thread.... Wild projection, my guy. Wild projection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/25 09:38 AM |
| 1 | It has never been easier to date as a man"Eh, no because it becomes transactional if there’s an unspoken (or spoken) expectation that paying should result in something in return." "I don’t ask men if they are planning to pay before a date so I can’t refuse them based on this." So you go in with the unspoken expectation that he pay. So, according to you, it's a transaction... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/25 04:04 PM |
| 1 | It has never been easier to date as a man"I’m not forcing anyone to pay or treating a date like a transaction." lol you just said you will not pay for a first date. That's literally the definition of forcing someone to pay you and treating dating like a transaction "Not because I think I’m “owed” anything, or because I’m offering something in return, but because that’s part of initiating. That’s common in many social situations. the person who initiates first date usually covers the first date." So cute, how hard you're trying to justi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/25 02:36 PM |
| 1 | It has never been easier to date as a man*sigh* women...Transaction: an instance of buying or selling something; a business deal. So, in this case, you requiring a man to pay in order for a date to happen is you selling yourself, no? You're saying, you must give me this much, in order to get a date in return. That's a transaction "unspoken (or spoken) expectation" So you explicitly tell men "i refuse to go on a date with you unless you pay?" Or do you go into the date without mentioning who pays? Are you doubling down on your hypocrisy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/25 01:54 PM |
| 1 | It has never been easier to date as a man" just on the first date." So...you treat them like a wallet and a transaction. So this is all just projection. Goddamn the hypocrisy is unbelievable. But, not surprising, from a woman in 2025. It's not your fault you're like this, don't worry | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/25 01:42 PM |
| 1 | It has never been easier to date as a manlol but somehow men having to pay just to be able to go on a date in the first place doesn't count at all, got it. Hilarious, the double standard. Hilarious, you can say men have to pay but that's not women being transactional, it's just the men who are, because they are abiding by the woman's rule of "if you don't pay me I won't talk to you." Are you saying women are so transactional that men having to pay is the natural way of things and the only possible option to make dating possible? Becaus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/25 01:08 PM |
| 1 | It has never been easier to date as a man"This dynamic IS gender-specific." lol no it's not. How are you not able to comprehend this? I just defined what "gender-specific" means and you're still totally, totally lost 😂😂😂 "because the expectation that men pay for dates is still widespread " 😂😂😂 Right, this is why it's NOT gender-specific 😂. So odd you can correctly identify why this isn't a gender-specific issue, but cannot recognize it's not a gender-specific issue "Men, on the other hand, are rarely put in this position" They are, how… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/25 12:40 PM |
| 1 | It has never been easier to date as a manlol, once again, I did not derail anything. I did not disagree with you. I did not say you were wrong. In fact, I said you were right! I agreed with you! We're on the same side! "gender-specific problem " Maybe you don't know what gender-specific means and that's why you're so confused? Let me explain! A gender-specific problem is something that only one gender does, not both...it is exclusive to one gender...since it's gender-specific...meaning just one gender...in this case, both men and women… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/25 12:14 PM |
| 2 | It has never been easier to date as a man"Saying “women do it too” doesn’t address or invalidate the specific issue I raised; it just sidesteps the conversation" lol how many times do I have to tell you I wasn't trying to invalidate your argument? Because I agree with it! How many times do I have to say I agree with you before you are capable of understanding I agree? 😂😂😂 If I say it three more times, will that be enough? I'm not invalidating your point, I agree with it I'm not invalidating your point, I agree with it I'm not invalidat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/25 11:03 AM |
| 1 | For most of human history, "love" was almost a fictional concept, marriages and relationships were based on resources, the notion of romantic relationships as we see today did not become widespread until the 20th century"I just find it hilarious that you think Asian/islamic cultures are great for women and marriage" Me: " I never said anything about them being good or bad" ??? I...explicitly said I wasn't judging them either way....I very clearly said that...not sure how you missed it. Guess your anger got to you and your brain invented that part? Of course they aren't great for women and children! Nobody said they were! Let me help you since something is stopping your reading comprehension: You said individual… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/25 08:54 AM |
| 2 | It has never been easier to date as a man"I was making a gender-specific observation" Yes, and I corrected you and said it's not gender-specific, since both genders do it. That's not even an argument, it's an observation. Not sure how you're incapable of differentiating arguments from observations, but okay, best of luck out there not being able to handle someone saying men and women do something you said men do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/25 08:52 AM |
| 3 | What’s stopping you becoming more attractive?Yeah it sucks. Bizarre how people can't stop talking about how much women love tall men and how fucked short men are until a short man says that being short might make dating harder. Then they look at him like he's insane for daring to suggest such a thing. Not nice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 11:55 PM |
| 4 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADThank you, amazing how rare this viewpoint seems to be. Even more confusing are the women who do this but insist to hell and back that they aren't biphobic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 11:27 PM |
| 0 | For most of human history, "love" was almost a fictional concept, marriages and relationships were based on resources, the notion of romantic relationships as we see today did not become widespread until the 20th centuryOkay. Was just letting her know she was wrong. I can't speak for the parents of children who don't want an arranged marriage | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 10:44 PM |
| 2 | It has never been easier to date as a man"That still doesn’t invalidate my point…." I wasn't trying to, in fact I explicitly agreed with you, so I'm not sure how you even came to the conclusion I was trying to invalidate it, but okay I guess? Weird for someone to agree with you then get mad at them for not invalidating your argument, but whatever works for you. Just saying it's not a gendered issue and something both men and women do. That's all. Chill out, seriously, I promise it's not that serious | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 10:33 PM |
| 2 | For most of human history, "love" was almost a fictional concept, marriages and relationships were based on resources, the notion of romantic relationships as we see today did not become widespread until the 20th centurylol why are you so mad? Chill out, it's really not that serious. I never said anything about them being good or bad. I was just letting you know that you were wrong and there are cultures where the individuals involved could say no to an arranged marriage. That's all, just helping you learn something new. You really should be thanking me, but expecting gratitude from women in 2025 is a pretty foolish errand | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 10:29 PM |
| 2 | For most of human history, "love" was almost a fictional concept, marriages and relationships were based on resources, the notion of romantic relationships as we see today did not become widespread until the 20th centuryCarribbean, Indian, Muslim | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 09:53 PM |
| 2 | For most of human history, "love" was almost a fictional concept, marriages and relationships were based on resources, the notion of romantic relationships as we see today did not become widespread until the 20th centuryIt definitely irks me when people make definitive statements with no proof, double down, then refuse to present any kind of evidence whatsoever, or even an argument. Are we just saying stuff now and declaring it true because we feel like it should be? That's what you did, as far as I can tell | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 09:22 PM |
| 1 | For most of human history, "love" was almost a fictional concept, marriages and relationships were based on resources, the notion of romantic relationships as we see today did not become widespread until the 20th centuryNo idea, but probably the minority | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 09:04 PM |
| 5 | For most of human history, "love" was almost a fictional concept, marriages and relationships were based on resources, the notion of romantic relationships as we see today did not become widespread until the 20th centuryThere are also lots of cultures where arranged marriages needed the consent of the bride to happen... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 09:01 PM |
| 2 | For most of human history, "love" was almost a fictional concept, marriages and relationships were based on resources, the notion of romantic relationships as we see today did not become widespread until the 20th centuryWell, then, OP should have specified that he only meant western cultures. So...source? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 08:58 PM |
| 2 | For most of human history, "love" was almost a fictional concept, marriages and relationships were based on resources, the notion of romantic relationships as we see today did not become widespread until the 20th centuryLook at the Kama Sutra. Look at Ancient Egypt. Look at Native American tribes and Carribbean (specifically the Taino) pre-Columbus. OP's is an extremely western view | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 08:55 PM |
| 3 | For most of human history, "love" was almost a fictional concept, marriages and relationships were based on resources, the notion of romantic relationships as we see today did not become widespread until the 20th century"You have indicated that you don’t believe my assertions." Correct! "Do you have your own assertions to the contrary with proof and would just like to watch me flounder?" I mean, I said I disagreed, right? I really don't give a shit whether or not you flounder, your call on that one, dawg 'Or are you sincerely curious to learn why you may be wrong and I may be right?" Why else would I have asked? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 08:36 PM |
| 1 | What’s stopping you becoming more attractive?"I don’t care about clothing" Impossible! You must hate yourself! (according to everyone here) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 08:23 PM |
| 3 | For most of human history, "love" was almost a fictional concept, marriages and relationships were based on resources, the notion of romantic relationships as we see today did not become widespread until the 20th century"the notion of romantic love was propagated by poor men to have a chance of courting women." source? "That’s not debatable" Source? There are just so many examples pointing to the opposite that you're going to have to say a lot more than "trust me bro" to convince me...or anyone! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 08:17 PM |
| 5 | For most of human history, "love" was almost a fictional concept, marriages and relationships were based on resources, the notion of romantic relationships as we see today did not become widespread until the 20th century"I don’t see how this is a debate." I really, really hope you mean because of how obviously wrong OP is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 07:46 PM |
| 1 | What’s stopping you becoming more attractive?"Literally never met a guy who dresses like a bum that doesn’t hate themselves" Sounds like you really need to get out more then lol. How small a life do you live that you've never experienced something so....normal? Incredible someone could be so sheltered | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 07:27 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Weird, that's just, like, a normal guy where I live | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 04:53 PM |
| 1 | What’s stopping you becoming more attractive?lol that's why people ask questions, to clarify. It's really not as insane to clarify something you are unsure about as you're making it out to be. In fact, it's generally considered a pretty normal thing to do! Why it upsets you so much is for you to figure out, but I hope you are able to someday | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 04:52 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵lol wut? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 04:21 PM |
| 1 | What’s stopping you becoming more attractive?"Right, because I was talking about boys." Which is why I clarified to make sure you didn't think girls don't fear rejection just as much as boys, because you didn't mention it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 03:48 PM |
| 1 | What’s stopping you becoming more attractive?lol okay, chill out, it's really not that serious And, i mean, I did read the words. The ones you used failed to mention it's also possible for girls to fear rejection, you only mentioned it being something boys experience. Next time, be more clear! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 03:40 PM |
| 1 | What’s stopping you becoming more attractive?“Because boys spend more time playing video games and less time socializing irl. They choose this because video games give them the dopamine they crave without any risk of being rejected.” It sounded like you thought girls were immune to this and that it didn’t apply to them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 03:34 PM |
| 2 | What’s stopping you becoming more attractive?“Look around.” I work with kids. Girls spend way, way, way more time on their phones than boys. Girls spend way more time sitting together not speaking to each other. Girls spend way more time scrolling social media. I’ve seen the exact opposite, that it’s girls who become much more anti social than boys when they get smart phones | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 03:26 PM |
| 1 | How Can Women Complain When They're So Privileged By Default?Yes, just like you cannot give me a single reason why it wouldn’t be equal distribution. When you were the one who originally said they are different….with no reasoning or thought put into it. Wasting my time, like I said, extremely hypocritical. Like I said, not surprising | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 03:20 PM |
| 1 | What’s stopping you becoming more attractive?"It's not good or bad, it just kind of is." Exactly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 03:07 PM |
| 1 | How Can Women Complain When They're So Privileged By Default?lol says the person who says men must have more good options than women with zero reasoning or justification or even explanation...just...ya know....because! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 03:04 PM |
| 1 | How Can Women Complain When They're So Privileged By Default?Being human beings. Women and men are equally good at being human beings | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 03:02 PM |
| 1 | How Can Women Complain When They're So Privileged By Default?Because women aren't better than men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 03:00 PM |
| 1 | What’s stopping you becoming more attractive?"Like everything in life, the reasons why are multifactorial." Well, as long as you recognize it's not as simple as "boy play video game = boy bad," as people seemed to be implying | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 02:59 PM |
| 1 | How Can Women Complain When They're So Privileged By Default?"and how do you know how they are distributed?" lol how do you? "Why do you think it's equal distribution?" ....why wouldn't it be? Why would men have more good options than women? Are women just better than men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 02:56 PM |
| 1 | How Can Women Complain When They're So Privileged By Default?"But what if there is 5 black balls in smaller pool and 1 in larger." This is the part women don't understand. Men don't have more good options than women. Black bubbles are equally common between men and women. Having more bad options is better than having fewer bad options | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 02:50 PM |
| 0 | What’s stopping you becoming more attractive?Don't really know. Part of it is people who do care about dress tend to be snobby and more judgmental than people who don't. Part of it is, for some reason, I see dressing up nice more as a way to distract people from bad parts of someone's personality. I doubt that's true a lot, but for some reason that's often my impression, that people dress up in order to hide something else | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 02:43 PM |
| 4 | What’s stopping you becoming more attractive?"It seems like we have these built-in biases about how girls/women and boys/men are different and it colors our perception of what's really going on." For sure. That's why I question this "too much boy screen time" thing. I work with kids. I see them get their first smart phones and their first chance at screen access without any kind of supervision. Every day I see boys playing together and actually interacting with each other in person...while girls will be sitting at a table together, silentl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 02:39 PM |
| 1 | What’s stopping you becoming more attractive?"You’re not even making sense" Says the guy saying the only possible explanation for not caring what others think of the way you dress is self-loathing or autism. So fucking funny | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 02:15 PM |
| 5 | What’s stopping you becoming more attractive?"A lot of younger Gen Z women I've talked to as a younger millennial have this same problem." Agreed. I just think this "if boys just went outside more they'd be fine" is a wild oversimplification and totally ignores that girls should, hypothetically, be suffering from the same problems boys are, if we're saying what is causing boys to struggle is too much internet and screens. Girls are exposed to just as much internet and screens as boys, so it doesn't make sense that it's only boys who strugg… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 02:05 PM |
| 1 | What’s stopping you becoming more attractive?"Confidence would be a bold create fashion choice, not totally abandoning the basics of looking after yourself" There it is! Good job, trying to come up with a false equivalence, again, that not dressing good = you don't look after yourself. Good trolling tactic! Might trick some people! Nice! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 01:59 PM |
| 1 | What’s stopping you becoming more attractive?"Autistic people struggle with interpersonal relationships As do people who selth loathe" True! Doesn't mean having the confidence not to let others effect your choices automatically guarantees you are autistic or self-loathing, as you apparently believe This is a little bit better at the trolling, good job! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 01:55 PM |
| 1 | What’s stopping you becoming more attractive?"You are the troll sir" lol says the guy trying to say that having the confidence not to let others effect your choices = self-loathing or autism Like I said, dawg, you gotta do better than this. I believe in you! I know you can do better than this! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 01:45 PM |
| 1 | What’s stopping you becoming more attractive?Troll better, my man, come on now, you spend enough time doing it, surely you should be able to come up with something better than "not caring what others think = self-loathing or autism" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 01:37 PM |
| 1 | What’s stopping you becoming more attractive?"If you find clothes “unnecessary” and a “annoyance” and that people are wrong for factoring it in then this is probably explained either by self loathing or autism" lol now it's impossible not to care about fashion without being autistic, your trolling just keeps getting worse and worse | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 01:35 PM |
| 1 | What’s stopping you becoming more attractive?"And how much effort does it really require?" I'd imagine that depends a lot on your time, resources, and body type | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 01:34 PM |
| 0 | What’s stopping you becoming more attractive?lol well that's the first time I've ever heard someone say that not caring what other people think of you = self-loathing. Not a very good troll job if you have to resort to that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 01:23 PM |
| 1 | What’s stopping you becoming more attractive?Correct! Getting dressed is an activity! Well spotted! Not sure what it has to do with what I said, but I'm glad you know getting dressed is an activity, very good | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 01:20 PM |
| 2 | What’s stopping you becoming more attractive?Sounds like you're a troll Genuinely | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 01:12 PM |
| 1 | What’s stopping you becoming more attractive?"I don't think you have to be terrified of anything to put on decent clothes." I don't either. But if you're arguing that not dressing good = you hate yourself, then dressing good so other people like you more = you're more scared of people than someone who doesn't dress good so people like them more | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 01:10 PM |
| 1 | What’s stopping you becoming more attractive?"This feels like a virtue signal" I'm sorry you feel that way "a more favorable first impression than someone dressed like a schlub" I'm aware! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 01:09 PM |
| 3 | What’s stopping you becoming more attractive?You tell me. You're the one who said that doing these things will get you better results, remember? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 01:08 PM |
| 7 | What’s stopping you becoming more attractive?"Its not widespread with girls as they have more socialisation, go out more, have friend groups, and have experience and understanding of the world around them because they dont tend to live so antisocially." Again, do they actually? Or are you just guessing and declaring it true because you need it to be in order for your argument to hold water | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 01:08 PM |
| 0 | What’s stopping you becoming more attractive?"ut you can’t deny that attraction is a pretty important piece to dating, no?" It definitely is! I'm arguing people who care about how they look because of what others may think of them are far more likely to hate themselves than people who genuinely do not care what anyone else thinks of them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 01:06 PM |
| 0 | What’s stopping you becoming more attractive?Yeah, shame women care so much about such dumb shit. They'd probably be much happier in their dating lives if they judged less on a man's clothes and more on what he does and says | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 01:03 PM |
| 1 | What’s stopping you becoming more attractive?"Terrified?" Yes, if you care so much about what people think you change the way you dress, you are more terrified of other people than someone who does not care what people think of how they dress "And I do enjoy expressing myself with clothes." That's great! Other people could not be less interested. Isn't it cool, how people can care about different things? "When you dress like shit, you communicate to yourself, "I'm a sloppy dude who doesn't give a fuck." If that's the message you want to se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 01:02 PM |
| 6 | What’s stopping you becoming more attractive?But why doesn't it happen to girls? They also like dopamine and fear rejection, and video games would do the same for them as they do for boys. So why does it happen to boys way more? Do girls actually spend more time socializing than boys, or are you just guessing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 12:56 PM |
| 0 | What’s stopping you becoming more attractive?"I guarantee that the vast majority of people who dress like shit and eat like shit feel like shit about themselves." Eating is very, very different, that I'd agree with :"You're jumping straight to "worry so much." To me, putting on clean, well-fitting clothes doesn't mean you're worrying very much." Worrying way more than someone who doesn't care. Terrified of other people way more than someone who doesn't care. Hating yourself way more than someone doesn't care | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 12:50 PM |
| 4 | What’s stopping you becoming more attractive?You tell me. You're the one who said that doing these things will get you better results, remember? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 12:39 PM |
| 1 | What’s stopping you becoming more attractive?"It doesn't take much effort to put on clean" I never said it did. "just understand that people are going to see you as such, and your opportunities will be limited." I know. And I would argue people who worry so much about their clothes and how they look and what other people think of them, are far more likely to hate themselves than people who genuinely do not give a shit about any of it. Can almost guarantee it, in fact | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 12:36 PM |
| 0 | What’s stopping you becoming more attractive?To me the way a person acts and treats others matters a lot more than what they wear. I never said dressing nice deducts from that, but it doesn't add anything either. It's a complete neutral. I really don't care what people wear...at all. If anything, people dressing nice makes me like them less, because, like...why do you care so much? When I see men walking down the street in full suits on their way to work, I feel bad they have to dress so uncomfortably all the time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 12:32 PM |
| 6 | What’s stopping you becoming more attractive?"Boys spend their formative years in a dark room isolated from the world on the internet then wonder why the cant function as adults in society." Why is this happening? Why isn't it happening to girls the way it is to boys? How do we fix it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 12:29 PM |
| 0 | What’s stopping you becoming more attractive?"then you probably hate yourself on some level." Or you just don't care about clothes and think people who put so much stock on what they wear are prioritizing the wrong things. If you have to put on a nice outfit to fell good about yourself, you probably hate yourself on some level | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 12:24 PM |
| 6 | What’s stopping you becoming more attractive?Something seriously crazy must have happened to distract him from his obsession with bait posting on PPD | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 12:03 PM |
| 9 | What’s stopping you becoming more attractive?"And if you have, what's stopping the results?" hilarious. "It's so easy, just do these things and you'll get results. If you did those things and it did not work, explain to me why my full-proof method did not work" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 12:00 PM |
| 6 | It has never been easier to date as a man"Honestly your answer doesn’t surprise me because I feel like a lot of men see dating so transactional." *people* see dating as transactional. Don't pretend women aren't just as bad as men in this regard | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 11:17 AM |
| 1 | The bar is beneath hell for women"Do you believe that every single woman has the same bar for what hell is? Obviously it's going to come down to the individual, the world isn't black and white." Right, so, again, it means nothing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 10:43 AM |
| 1 | The bar is beneath hell for womenSo, in other words...it means absolutely nothing since each person individually gets to decide what "hell" means | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 10:40 AM |
| 1 | The bar is beneath hell for womenNever heard anyone use it the way you're claiming. Guess most people don't know what the word "hell" means. Which is...worrying! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 10:34 AM |
| 1 | The bar is beneath hell for women"If it worked that way then that would be great, but we can't just go changing definitions to suit what we want." Yes, that's what I'm telling you...that's what you're doing...using the word "hell" when really you mean "a little bit higher than hell" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 10:25 AM |
| 2 | How Can Women Complain When They're So Privileged By Default?Could be, I dunno. Could want free food. Could want free stuff. Could want attention. Could want someone to take care of her until she finds someone better. Could want someone she knows she can easily manipulate and control because he won't go anywhere | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 10:11 AM |
| 1 | The bar is beneath hell for women"t can absolutely still apply, the bar is in hell yet these chronically online men still can't reach it." Which, again, means it is not actually in hell. You want hell to simultaneously mean the absolute worst of the worst, but also a little better than the worst of the worst. Pick one, dawg, you don't get both | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 10:04 AM |
| 2 | How Can Women Complain When They're So Privileged By Default?"Why would none be suitable?" The same reason only two out of 52 are suitable in your scenario | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 10:01 AM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵lol where do you live that men like this are rare? You should really move, where I live this is an extremely average man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 09:56 AM |
| 2 | How Can Women Complain When They're So Privileged By Default?Okay. And for the man who goes on 52 dates a year, none will be suitable. Two is still better than none...you keep focusing on how it's bad for women and forgetting that, in the same scenario, the man's equivalent is still way worse | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 09:46 AM |
| 1 | The bar is beneath hell for women"It's only the bottom tier, chronically online Redditors that actually struggle." But if the bar was in hell, this would not be the case. Even the worst of the worst would be able to date somewhat, if the bar truly was in hell...but it's not...so they can't...so they're here... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 09:45 AM |
| 1 | The bar is beneath hell for womenBased on how angry everybody is at each other, it seems it's a problem for both, but yes, much more for men. Men's low standards definitely let women get away with being low quality, but clearly women aren't happy about it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 09:43 AM |
| 1 | The bar is beneath hell for women"Have you ever stopped to think of the low quality of options women often get on dating sites?" And women don't realize men's options are equally low quality, but just the fraction of the percentage. Chances of finding someone good among very many very low quality options are still much better than finding someone good from very few very low quality options | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 09:38 AM |
| 0 | How Can Women Complain When They're So Privileged By Default?For some reason PPD women really, really, really struggle with this concept. It's very odd, since it seems like pretty obvious, basic logic, yet women just cannot grasp it for some reason | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 09:32 AM |
| 1 | How Can Women Complain When They're So Privileged By Default?Because women can get more dates than men, so chances of finding someone suitable are higher. If a woman has 50 suitable men, and, say, 40, are willing to go on a date with her, the chances of finding one of them are higher than the man with 50 suitable women of whom only, say, 10 would be willing to go on a date with him. Again, it's just basic math | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 09:27 AM |
| 5 | How Can Women Complain When They're So Privileged By Default?Yes it is, when the alternative is bad choices, but way fewer of them. I’m sorry this is so hard for you to accept, but sadly not wanting it to be true doesn’t make it so | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 02:29 AM |
| 2 | How Can Women Complain When They're So Privileged By Default?Yes, of course. That’s how numbers and math work. So tiring hearing women try to deny this, despite it being so obviously true once you apply even the smallest amount of logic, which for some some reason women just are not able to do in this case. It’s like this weird block comes up where you hear a man say having more choices is better than fewer choices and your brains turn to mush and all sense and reason go out the window. Very strange phenomenon, tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 02:08 AM |
| 2 | Being nice is the bare minimum. Most guys' definition of a good guy usually seems to be someone with basic human decency. Women on average have alot of options compared to the average man, so of course just being a good guy is not gonna be enough.Yeah I mean it’s completely insane, obviously, to say the bar is in hell doesn’t imply dating should be easy for men, so you must be in a really weird circle if that’s what everyone is claiming | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 01:38 AM |
| 2 | Being nice is the bare minimum. Most guys' definition of a good guy usually seems to be someone with basic human decency. Women on average have alot of options compared to the average man, so of course just being a good guy is not gonna be enough." can guarantee you if you ask anyone who uses that phrase" lol I've never, ever heard anyone try to define it the way you did. Ever. It's always "anyone should be able to get a date because the bar is in hell." Maybe we just live in different places, but yours sounds just as made up to me as mine does to you. "That should go without saying" It should, which is why it's obnoxious when women say "bar is in hell, dating is so easy for men because they're awful" but don't actually mean it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 01:12 AM |
| 1 | How Can Women Complain When They're So Privileged By Default?But having more trash to pick through still greatly increases your chances of finding something worthwhile than having very little trash to pick through | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 01:01 AM |
| 1 | How Can Women Complain When They're So Privileged By Default?It also makes getting dates easier if you do care about who you're dating | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 12:59 AM |
| – | Being nice is the bare minimum. Most guys' definition of a good guy usually seems to be someone with basic human decency. Women on average have alot of options compared to the average man, so of course just being a good guy is not gonna be enough."it's also implied that you will also need" lol "the bar is in hell" does literally the exact opposite. It explicitly states dating should be incredibly easy for any man who can cross the street without needing help, since, ya know, the bar is in hell "Sure the phrase is an oversimplification" Of course it is. It's saying that, since men are terrible, it should be super easy for any quarter-way decent man to get into a relationship. That's what the phrase means It's not, however, an oversimplifi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 12:37 AM |
| 3 | Men being alone can be cured without enslaving women"It would be funny if it wasn't so sad that this became a self-fulfilling prophecy." Very, very true. "deserved it." Yeah, that's my thing. Like, I totally understand women's frustration and wariness towards men, because men can be awful obviously....but that's not my fault, yet I'm treated as if it is and am punished for it, which just feels really dehumanizing after going through it enough times | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 11:57 PM |
| – | Being nice is the bare minimum. Most guys' definition of a good guy usually seems to be someone with basic human decency. Women on average have alot of options compared to the average man, so of course just being a good guy is not gonna be enough."The phrase just means that a partner only doing the bare minimum (ex. equal involvement in parenting) is still going to be seen as something special" Right, which means....since the bar is so low that even just being nice is seen as doing something special, that being nice should be plenty to get into a relationship, since that would be seen as special. You cannot simultaneously say the bar is in hell means being nice is seen as doing something special, but also that nobody says being nice is e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Men being alone can be cured without enslaving womenWell, I sure hope you're right. Think we'd all be happier that way, in the end | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 11:19 PM |
| – | Being nice is the bare minimum. Most guys' definition of a good guy usually seems to be someone with basic human decency. Women on average have alot of options compared to the average man, so of course just being a good guy is not gonna be enough.Huh? "The bar is in hell" is women saying all a man has to do is not be totally awful, and he should be able to find someone. So...yeah...people say being a decent person should get you a relationship all the time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Men being alone can be cured without enslaving womenMore than that, I think the idea of having unlimited people to interact with, right in your pocket, is too much for our lil' brains. It makes us not value the people we actually have in favor of the hypothetical person we're hoping to find...somewhere. It's made people think of each other as disposable or interchangeable, which we are not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 10:27 PM |
| 1 | Being nice is the bare minimum. Most guys' definition of a good guy usually seems to be someone with basic human decency. Women on average have alot of options compared to the average man, so of course just being a good guy is not gonna be enough.Do you know what "the bar is in hell" means? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Men being alone can be cured without enslaving women"Okay then you agree finding a friend group would help you be less romantically lonely 🙂" No, I do not. Like I said, maybe meeting someone through a friend is not the friend making you less romantically lonely, it's the person you meet. So, no, having friends does absolutely nothing to help with romantic loneliness. That's my stance. You aren't going to trick me into going against it, which seems to be your goal "The rest of this is just you trying to go in circles with that same "friendships do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Men being alone can be cured without enslaving womenOf course. But meeting people you may eventually have a romantic connection with isn't your friends making you less romantically lonely, it's the person you may eventually have a romantic relationship with who makes you less lonely. Not the friends. And I was talking emotionally, not mechanically. Of course, mechanically, knowing more people increases your chances of eventually meeting someone. But that doesn't mean friends do anything to help you feel less romantically lonely until that maybe o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 08:35 PM |
| 3 | Men being alone can be cured without enslaving women"And this person has repeatedly told you that they aren't saying it does but that it helps. " They are saying it helps a little, I am saying it does not help at all. I disagree that it helps. I do not think having friends makes any difference one way or the other. Having friends makes you less platonically lonely, but not less romantically lonely. I do not think it helps. Is that any more clear? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 08:22 PM |
| – | Women who got fit/in shape, how did your physical standards for a partner change?"these days gym content is known to be a pipeline to the alt right" What? It's...a gym. How could it possibly be a pipeline to the alt right? What does that even mean? Are neo-nazis going to gyms to recruit now? Are we saying that exercising turns people into fascists? Or are fascists just more likely to exercise, and therefore go to gyms more often? Or were they already fascists, and going to the gym just brought it out of them for some reason? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 08:17 PM |
| 2 | Men being alone can be cured without enslaving women"If you are romantically lonely, having friends doesn't solve that" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 08:03 PM |
| 2 | Men being alone can be cured without enslaving women"If you are romantically lonely, having friends doesn't solve that" read those words. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Men being alone can be cured without enslaving womenlol and of course the insults and hyperbole continue because someone disagrees with you...classic! Shame you can't grow up a bit, but, hey, classic, amiritie? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Men being alone can be cured without enslaving womenlol and of course insults and hyperbole continue because someone disagrees with you...classic! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Men being alone can be cured without enslaving womenlol explaining that friendships are not the same as romantic relationships isn't whining, but classic to jump to hyperbole just because someone disagrees with you...shame you can't be more mature...but classic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 05:21 PM |
| 3 | Telling men to have more friendships with woman is misleading because women treat friendships and dating the sameGot it, using words properly = autism. Hilarious Maybe this will help you understand: doing two push ups isn't hard. But, doing two push ups is harder than doing one push up. Does that make more sense? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Men being alone can be cured without enslaving women"I never said they are the same." "I'm saying men won't feel lonely if they have community and friends" If you agree that friendships and romantic relationships are not equivalent, then how will friendship help someone who is romantically lonely?" Once again, having lots of friends does not replace a romantic relationship, if a romantic relationship is what one really craves. So telling romantically lonely men to get more friends and they won't be lonely is inaccurate and unhelpful | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 05:16 PM |
| 0 | Telling men to have more friendships with woman is misleading because women treat friendships and dating the sameDamn you really don't know what the word "harder" means, huh? Best of luck to you out there | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 05:05 PM |
| 0 | Men being alone can be cured without enslaving women"I never said they are the same." Oh. Saying guys wouldn't be lonely if they had more boys trips was weird then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 05:02 PM |
| 2 | Telling men to have more friendships with woman is misleading because women treat friendships and dating the sameRight, which, again, is why he said it is "harder," because it takes more effort than it used to....again...that's what "harder" means....something taking more effort than it used to...he is agreeing with you, he is saying it requires more effort to maintain friendships after school....hence why he said it is "harder," because it requires more effort than it used to....which is what "harder" means | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 05:00 PM |
| 2 | Men being alone can be cured without enslaving womenIf you are romantically lonely, having friends doesn't solve that. No matter how much you insist to the contrary. They are not the same. They are not interchangeable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 04:55 PM |
| 10 | Telling men to have more friendships with woman is misleading because women treat friendships and dating the sameRight, hence "harder," because it requires more effort than it used to...that's what "harder" means... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 04:28 PM |
| 6 | It is not “just world fallacy” to believe that anyone who is chronically unable to have anyone ever desire them despite trying, is unattractive in some way.I sure hope so, otherwise, as far as intelligence goes...yikes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 04:22 PM |
| – | Telling men to have more friendships with woman is misleading because women treat friendships and dating the sameJust letting you know, no need to continue with incel-esque insults | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 04:20 PM |
| – | Telling men to have more friendships with woman is misleading because women treat friendships and dating the sametbf, so do you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Men being alone can be cured without enslaving womenWell that's good, I'm glad you've found a way to avoid all of it I don't think humans are evolved enough for the internet yet | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 02:23 PM |
| 1 | Men being alone can be cured without enslaving womenYes, let's! Please...I'm so tired of everyone being so awful to each other | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Men being alone can be cured without enslaving womenNo idea, I wasn't aware that a single woman who is lonely is a classic spinster, not a big deal. Like I said, I personally see romantically lonely men and women as equivalent. I can't speak for why other people don't | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 02:06 PM |
| 11 | It is not “just world fallacy” to believe that anyone who is chronically unable to have anyone ever desire them despite trying, is unattractive in some way.Again, right, they are incorrectly stating lack of success = bad person. Which is why people bring up just world fallacy, since so many people act like the two are equivalent and say things like "just be nice and someone will love you, it's that easy" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 02:03 PM |
| 2 | Men being alone can be cured without enslaving womenThat I can support | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 01:57 PM |
| 11 | It is not “just world fallacy” to believe that anyone who is chronically unable to have anyone ever desire them despite trying, is unattractive in some way."Being sexually repulsive doesn’t mean you’re inherently a bad person." Right, which is why people bring up just world fallacy, since so many people act like the two are equivalent | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 01:51 PM |
| 2 | Men being alone can be cured without enslaving women"But my radical propositions about solving loneliness involve drastic reshaping of society and building up densely interconnected communities, not just making sure nobody gets left out of the nuclear-family-pairing dynamic." Got it. Yeah that's very different from "just get friends and you're fine" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Men being alone can be cured without enslaving women"this isn't a gendered experience." I didn't say it was. I don't think romantically lonely women will be any more satisfied by platonic friendships than romantically lonely men, if what they really want is a romantic connection "It can take weeks in advance to schedule a dinner." Which is exactly why friendship is not the answer, the way so many people like to pretend it is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 01:43 PM |
| 2 | Men being alone can be cured without enslaving women"I don’t think ‘having your social needs met by friends’ necessarily = ‘never running into situations where everyone is busy.’" Right, which, again, is why it's not the answer. If you're lonely and you want to see someone and everyone is busy, even if they are your friends, you still end up lonely. If anything it's worse because you realize you're no longer a priority and as important to them as you once were. You no longer matter enough to make time for because they have more important things t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 01:41 PM |
| 1 | Men being alone can be cured without enslaving women"It is harder for adults with young children (or really any other time-consuming commitments) to find time to socialize." Which is why it's not the answer. If you crave a truly deep connection, and all you have reality is "well maybe I can find time this weekend," you're still going to end up lonely | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 01:34 PM |
| -2 | Men being alone can be cured without enslaving womenAre your friendships and romances identical? You seem to think they are the exact same, when I think most reasonable people are able to recognize that a friendship is not equivalent to a romantic relationship. If you are romantically lonely, having friendships doesn't solve that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 10:56 AM |
| 3 | Men being alone can be cured without enslaving women"The actual answer to male loneliness is for men to hang out with each other more." Depends on the age. I have lots of friends. Problem is, my friends now all have partners and families they have to prioritize over me. So having friends no longer helps with the loneliness, because I'm not as high priority to them as their wives and children. If I try and organize something, chances are pretty high everyone is too busy to get together | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 10:50 AM |
| 2 | Men being alone can be cured without enslaving womenidk, the main justification I hear women use for treating men badly is "well a long time ago women didn't have rights, and even though I wasn't alive and this guy wasn't alive then, it's still super unfair, to me, personally, that these women were treated that way, so I can treat men terribly now to get back at them for what they did to me decades before I was alive," and that excuse will never not exist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 10:10 AM |
| – | Being nice is the bare minimum. Most guys' definition of a good guy usually seems to be someone with basic human decency. Women on average have alot of options compared to the average man, so of course just being a good guy is not gonna be enough.You've never heard "the bar is in hell"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 10:07 AM |
| 2 | Men being alone can be cured without enslaving womenNah, it's just not the same. I have plenty of friends. Last weekend, I was lonely, wanted to hang out with someone. Guess what? All my friends were busy with their partners and couldn't make time for me. I sat around by myself all weekend. It's no one's fault, that's life, but this idea that friendship = romantic relationship and men should be able to get all their needs met by male friends is....how old are you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 09:42 AM |
| 0 | Men being alone can be cured without enslaving women"Teach women in general to not be nasty towards men approaching them, which can be done over time by just shaming nasty behaviour." Let's be real, women are never going to start shaming other women for being nasty to men. It just will never, ever happen because too many women have had bad experiences so they understand and sympathize the nastiness and believe it is deserved. Even my closest women friends refuse to ever negatively judge another woman for treating me terribly. There's always a jus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 09:37 AM |
| 9 | Why do men interpret women’s disinterest as hostility?"even if they are mean about how they do it" Of course it is, what an insane thing to say. "being unnecessarily cruel is fine as long as it's a woman doing it" is a truly wild line of logic, but go off, sis | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 11:42 PM |
| 1 | Why do men interpret women’s disinterest as hostility?lol you say that as if women saying men who reject them must be gay isn't a meme. Many *people* just can't seem to accept "no" as an answer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 11:38 PM |
| 1 | How do you feel when men on here treat your sexual autonomy and freedom of choice like an annoying barrier to what they feel entitled to?How do I find mod mail? I want to argue, this is insane that you're targeting me for getting personal when the person I responded to was also getting personal. Personally attacking me by accusing me of attacking others is so funny | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 12:41 PM |
| 1 | How do you feel when men on here treat your sexual autonomy and freedom of choice like an annoying barrier to what they feel entitled to?Say what's happening? That seems harsh. Why aren't you threatening the other person who did it? She also made it personal, she was not threatened with a ban. Seems like you're the one making an ad hominem attack on me... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 12:37 PM |
| 2 | How do you feel when men on here treat your sexual autonomy and freedom of choice like an annoying barrier to what they feel entitled to?lol I'm just saying what's happening. Saying what's happening is not an ad hominem attack, it's just saying what's happening. Dunno how you could confuse saying what's happening as an ad hominem attack, but that's for you to figure out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 12:05 PM |
| 1 | Why do men interpret women’s disinterest as hostility?Hilarious, right? Wild that she literally just wants me to make stuff up and will accept that as more realistic and valid than stuff that's actually happened. A lot of these blue pilled women have totally lost the plot, it seems like | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 11:43 AM |
| 1 | Why do men interpret women’s disinterest as hostility?One of the weirdest things about this sub to me is how, by far, the shittiest people are blue pill women. You'd think it'd be the red pill dudes, but nope, somehow blue pill women are far, far less reasonable and palatable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 11:41 AM |
| 2 | How do you feel when men on here treat your sexual autonomy and freedom of choice like an annoying barrier to what they feel entitled to?I'm not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 11:36 AM |
| 1 | Why do men interpret women’s disinterest as hostility?"This is called a hypothetical" lol so things that actually happened don't count and are irrelevant, but if I totally made something up it would have counted. Hilarious. "Are they not getting hit on at clubs like they think they should? Do they think women should be open and friendly towards cold approaching?" lol please, if I had said "they don't hit on them at bars" you wouldn't have accepted that as detailed enough and said to be more specific. You're just making sure no matter what, you can'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 10:29 AM |
| 1 | Why do men interpret women’s disinterest as hostility?"Ignoring them in what context?? " Still extremely confused. You want examples of women not treating men like they're human, they have to be specific and in context....but they can't be things that men have actually seen happen? Do you not see how that's impossible? What answer were you hoping for that both provides lots of details and context, but also is fictional and did not happen? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 10:09 AM |
| 1 | Why do men interpret women’s disinterest as hostility?"I couldn't give less of a shit about your personal anecdotes" lol then why did you ask? and who said these were personal anecdotes? So you asked me to list examples of women treating men like they don't exist, I do, and your response is..."well those don't count because they happened, I wasn't asking for that" What? So you want specific examples of women acting this way, but they can't be from men who have experienced it, they have to be from a third party who happened to witness the interactio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 10:02 AM |
| 1 | Why do men interpret women’s disinterest as hostility?Double date, but yeah that's what happened. Why is that so hard for you to believe? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 09:58 AM |
| 1 | Why do men interpret women’s disinterest as hostility?"Ignoring them in what context??" On a date "You need to use your words and describe this specific scenario because otherwise it's more of the same above" On a date "Walking away in the middle of a conversation?" Acquaintance at a bar, she did | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 09:56 AM |
| 1 | Why do men interpret women’s disinterest as hostility?Ignoring them? Acting like they aren't there? Not talking to them? Walking away in the middle of a conversation? Not treating them with basic politeness? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 09:48 AM |
| – | How do you feel when men on here treat your sexual autonomy and freedom of choice like an annoying barrier to what they feel entitled to?He's not, OP has an obsession with this sub and makes pretty much the same exact post bashing men every 12 hours, or as often as the mods will allow him. It's weird, and a little worrying, tbh. I hope he's okay and can eventually sort out whatever is driving this obsessive thinking | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 09:38 AM |
| 15 | Why do men interpret women’s disinterest as hostility?"Okay...and?" And that's why men interpret disinterest as hostility? You asked a question, and got an answer? That's how this works? Why are you so confused by this process? How are you so confused by this process? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 09:34 AM |
| 2 | Why do men interpret women’s disinterest as hostility?I mean, I don't blame women for it, but yeah, they pretty much treat men they find unattractive as if they don't exist and aren't human. I think that's a pretty accurate, fair description. Which, while not hostility, doesn't feel good when you encounter it over and over and over again | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 09:26 AM |
| 3 | Why do men interpret women’s disinterest as hostility?"Women saying that they don’t want to talk to you is just asserting a boundary." Sure, but you can do it in a way that's not telling someone "you're not allowed to talk," no? That seems unnecessarily hostile and rude to me. I hope you can see how, if you consistently encounter people treating you with unnecessary and undeserved hostility and rudeness, you could become bitter eventually | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 09:22 AM |
| 8 | Why do men interpret women’s disinterest as hostility?"But someone being mildly rude to us once in our lives " What if it's a group of people being consistently rude throughout someone's life? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 09:18 AM |
| 6 | Mens' online dating experience is strictly worse than womens'Yeah there's a very strange phenomenon where for some reason it doesn't occur to women that men have to deal with all the same filtering they do, but without having any options to filter from. They seem to think you either have tons of shitty options you have to find the good ones from, or a few great options you don't have to sort through, when the reality for most men is having very few shitty options they have to find the good ones from. I think dating for most women has always been so easy t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/25 12:15 PM |
| 2 | You can't be red pill if you're sexually unsuccessful.I believe in the theory of gravity, that doesn't mean I can explain how/why gravity works | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/25 10:12 PM |
| 3 | Why do men treat their partners like emotional punching bags?"relying on personal anecdotes to make sweeping generalizations" "from what I've seen it's mostly women who do that" sigh Didn't I already explain this? The part you're missing is nobody was making sweeping generalizations. He specifically said "from what I've seen," meaning his personal experience, not a sweeping generalization, but you misunderstood (multiple times now, somehow) and thought it meant sweeping generalization | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/25 02:56 PM |
| 5 | Why do men treat their partners like emotional punching bags?"from what I've seen" Meaning, this is my experience, not this is a scientific statement backed by data. lol imagine reading this badly then telling someone else to check their reading comprehension 😂 You want stats on whether men or women yell at their partners more in traffic? You really lack the intelligence to accept what reality obviously tells you? That this happens at roughly an equal rate between genders? Weird, but go off king | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/25 10:42 AM |
| 10 | Why do men treat their partners like emotional punching bags?You're not smart enough to just swap the genders yourself? I got you, don't worry "I’m not talking about like verbal abuse- this is more like the girl is hangry and screams at her boyfriend over something minor, or she is sitting in traffic and yells at her husband" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/25 10:36 AM |
| 2 | Women have not somehow artificially manipulated the dating market to increase their perceived value, the modern dating market simply revealed that women are more desirable than menReally? Because there are a lot of women here who complain about how unfair it is that the loneliness epidemic is centered so much around men when women are just as lonely | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/25 09:39 AM |
| 7 | Porn watching is more morally wrong in men than it is in women" we sincerely, wholeheartedly, do not want you." lol then why the fuck do you care so much what they do? Jesus christ, if you hate these people so much and are so disgusted by them, just ignore them. Leave them alone. There's no need to go around kicking people who are already down | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/25 08:47 AM |
| – | Men, what's the worst thing that happened to you after asking a woman out?Why do you spend so much time here if it makes you so angry? You say your actual life is amazing and full of incredible men lining up for the chance to kiss your feet. So why spend so much time combing through people's comments looking for bad ones to collect and make yourself outraged over? Just such an odd thing to dedicate so much of your life to, when your actual life isn't anything like this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/25 10:57 AM |
| 2 | How many of you have changed your preferences (likes/dislikes, turn-ons/turn-offs) because of begging; pleading; shaming; or derogatory remarks from women?She’s a troll. Just here to insult men as much as she possibly can, so she’s desperately reaching for reasons to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/25 04:50 AM |
| 2 | How many of you have changed your preferences (likes/dislikes, turn-ons/turn-offs) because of begging; pleading; shaming; or derogatory remarks from women?“Admitted” 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/25 04:39 AM |
| 1 | Relationship Advice Tier List by sexual orientationBeing annoyed at someone for getting confused is weird, but go off king | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/25 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Relationship Advice Tier List by sexual orientation“Why are you equating morality to intelligence so much?” Because we’re discussing whether or not humans choices are more evolved than other species when it comes to mate choice? You keep confusing yourself and thinking we’re discussing intelligence when we aren’t “As far as intelligence as far as mate choice goes, yes, people think about what they want in a partner all the time” Of course. But that doesn’t prove we’re more evolved in terms of mate choice, it’s just you saying things | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/25 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Would you date asexual person?To warrant insulting them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/25 09:34 PM |
| 6 | Would you date asexual person?What’s with insulting people for no reason? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/25 09:30 PM |
| 5 | Would you date asexual person?“but they're very much outside the norm” If course, doesn’t mean you have to insult them for no reason | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/25 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Would you date asexual person?Asexual people are weirdos? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/25 03:01 PM |
| 5 | Would you date asexual person?Why can't it be a question? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/25 02:15 PM |
| 2 | Relationship Advice Tier List by sexual orientation“ Which in itself is stupid.” lol the statement posed was “humans are much more evolved than other species in choosing mates.” If we were truly more evolved, we wouldn’t be making these obviously inhumane decisions. Yet people do “ The fact that you can even think this is very telling of how much more intelligent we are.” Again, we are discussing mate choice, not intelligence. Of course we’re more intelligent. Does that mean our mate choice is also more evolved? Dunno. But considering the terrib… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/25 10:35 PM |
| 2 | Relationship Advice Tier List by sexual orientation“Don't care, you're talking to me now.” lol okay, chill out “As awful as it is, chimpanzees don't have the ability to build that.” Exactly. Humans, with our super smart brains, using them to treat members of our own species far worse than any other species is capable of. If we were so above the laws of nature, why do we act worse than any other species “Drugs? Really? You're going to tell me it's unevolved to use drugs.” lol did you actually miss the point or are you just pretending to? Using dr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/25 10:13 PM |
| 2 | Relationship Advice Tier List by sexual orientationThe other woman did, hence me asking where her evidence is, hence you responding You say that, yet even in 2025 sex trafficking is still a huge issue and people drug others in order to fuck them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/25 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Relationship Advice Tier List by sexual orientationNone of that proves or even suggests humans mating preference are far more advanced than other species. Especially if you’re demanding others present evidence to prove their claim | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/25 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Relationship Advice Tier List by sexual orientationEvidence that humans are much more evolved than every other species in terms of mating choices | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/25 09:36 PM |
| 3 | Relationship Advice Tier List by sexual orientationYou….did the same thing? One of the weird things about this sub, people will make claims with absolutely no substance to support them, then turn around and use the “no evidence” like it’s some kind of clever gotcha. Either also provide evidence to support your claim, or stop saying others need to but you don’t because you don’t like what they’re saying | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/25 09:11 PM |
| 1 | If we remove finances men have nothing to giveI doubt it very much, but appreciate the encouragement | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/25 06:55 PM |
| 2 | If we remove finances men have nothing to giveTrue, gotta join a sports team I guess | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/25 04:03 PM |
| 2 | If we remove finances men have nothing to giveYeah, when I hear people talk about the "spark" and having instant chemistry and such, it just makes no sense to me. I definitely am too passive, but not out of fear. The bigger passivity problem it creates is around finding opportunities to meet people, because I already know I'm not going to feel any attraction, and won't have a chance to be around anyone I might meet regularly enough for that to change | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/25 03:36 PM |
| 2 | If we remove finances men have nothing to give"Are you being friend zoned?" Not currently. This is part of my problem, but it's partially a result of being demisexual, meaning it takes me months of knowing someone before I develop feelings for them, so I go into every relationship with women seeing it purely as friendship, and then the feelings change later once I've gotten to know and connected emotionally with them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/25 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Why do guys bristle at the notion of a woman deserving princess treatment?No you don't. You literally argue with anyone who says men are attracted to fat women and tell them they're lying. If you repeat what men say, then a man saying "men are attracted to fat women" would not cause you to call them a liar. You would repeat it. Since you supposedly repeat what men say | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/25 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Why do guys bristle at the notion of a woman deserving princess treatment?Wait, what? You have tons of men in your life who are not misogynistic and treat you well, yet do nothing but complain online about how misogynistic all men are to the point where you literally have a collection of quotes from people whose comments you stalked ready to go whenever you need them? Do your real life experiences just not mean anything to you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/25 01:34 PM |
| 1 | If women love misogynists, then why do so many men here struggle?" men will never acknowledge this" I know you just hate men and are here to bash them no matter what, but come on now. Men will gladly admit better looking people get treated better than ugly people. Women are the ones who don't want to admit this, not men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/25 12:23 PM |
| 1 | men hate things they cause"it's obvious ops not talking about all men" Is it? to me it's obvious this is a troll post solely created to bash men. OP doesn't actually give a shit about any of this. She just needs a topic for the four or five posts like this a day she puts up. Clearly nothing OP says is meant to be taken seriously | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/25 12:02 PM |
| 2 | men hate things they cause" I’m not OP. But for me it wouldn’t be about calling out individuals as much as it is about spreading awareness over a certain trend that is happening. " Sure, but OP obviously isn't doing that. She's just shitting on men. She clearly doesn't actually give a shit about any of these issues, she just wants to bash men and needs a new idea because she makes these posts every few hours | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/25 11:59 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Why do guys bristle at the notion of a woman deserving princess treatment?But it's true for them? I don't see how there can be an objective "truth" on something that is subjective and varies person to person. One person may feel love and support are the bare minimum, the next person may not. Neither of them is wrong or lying, they just have different opinions. And based on the number of women I've had tell me that love and support are the bare minimum and meaningless to them, whether or not it's true clearly doesn't really matter | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/25 09:32 AM |
| 1 | If we remove finances men have nothing to giveI hope you're right...appreciate the kind words | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/25 01:10 AM |
| 1 | If we remove finances men have nothing to give“A man that can relate just as much to a woman as another dude, is worth more than his weight in GOLD.” If only this were true. Unfortunately, as I said, you need to possess the required amount of confidence/charisma before this matters to women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/25 06:34 PM |
| 2 | If we remove finances men have nothing to give“We find them hot and well-rounded and interesting!” Unfortunately it seems a certain level of confidence/charisma is required for this to be true. If you don’t meet that criteria, it doesn’t matter at all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/25 05:07 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Why do guys bristle at the notion of a woman deserving princess treatment?I don't know what that means. If someone personally feels that love and support are the bare minimum, I don't see how that can be a lie or untrue | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/25 04:39 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Why do guys bristle at the notion of a woman deserving princess treatment?lol I have no idea what the truth is. I'd imagine different women feel different ways. I agree that love and support aren't bare minimum. I was just trying to explain to you why some men react to women offering "love and support" as the bare minimum....because that's what we've been told....by women....demanding things like "princess treatment" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/25 04:31 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: Why do guys bristle at the notion of a woman deserving princess treatment?*sigh* the concept as in, no matter how much love and support they get, based off actions, words, and however else you want to define love and support, it's still the bare minimum and useless to them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/25 04:23 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: Why do guys bristle at the notion of a woman deserving princess treatment?Okay | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/25 04:21 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: Why do guys bristle at the notion of a woman deserving princess treatment?I would, but a lot of women I know strongly and vehemently disagree....which is what men are frustrated with/hurt by | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/25 04:14 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Why do guys bristle at the notion of a woman deserving princess treatment?I certainly try. They meant it as in the concept of love and support are the bare minimum and useless to them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/25 04:12 PM |
| 5 | Q4M: Why do guys bristle at the notion of a woman deserving princess treatment?No idea, I've only ever heard women separate the two. But apparently for some, there is indeed a difference....and a big one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/25 04:10 PM |
| 7 | Q4M: Why do guys bristle at the notion of a woman deserving princess treatment?No, I think men resent women demanding princess treatment, and being told that the love and support we otherwise offer doesn't count in the "princess treatment" equation because offering love and support are "bare minimum" and "useless" to them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/25 04:05 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Why do guys bristle at the notion of a woman deserving princess treatment?No idea, but that's what women tell me all the time. I've never not had a woman say "that's bare minimum" when I say that love and support are what I "bring to the table" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/25 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Why do guys bristle at the notion of a woman deserving princess treatment?This woman posted a video the next day saying she ghosted him... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/25 03:23 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Why do guys bristle at the notion of a woman deserving princess treatment?Looks like she ghosted him the next day. That's why, too many ghosts dress up as princesses long enough to get the treatment, then take off the costume | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/25 02:41 PM |
| 2 | If we remove finances men have nothing to giveIt will never not confuse/frustrate me that I can be so good at the part most men struggle with (knowing how to connect with and be friends with women), and still fail so badly at dating. Just such a strange experience seeing women complain about this online, but never see it actually matter in real life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/25 02:29 PM |
| 1 | You need to realise that for women, you need to compete with NO man as well as with the men she is attracted to"And I didn’t say inexperience never leads to desperation" Then how come every time I made this suggestion your response was "no"? "You twist what I say into statements I didn’t make and I think that’s intellectually dishonest. " I didn't. You didn't say "you're right, sometimes men are desperate due to lack of success," you said "no," as in "no that doesn't happen". That was you, not me. I didn't twist anything, you just said "no," which I took to mean you disagreed and didn't think it was poss… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/25 01:09 PM |
| 1 | You need to realise that for women, you need to compete with NO man as well as with the men she is attracted toAnd yet I haven't told you any of your opinions are wrong or impossible. Only you have done that. What's ridiculous is declaring it impossible for men to become desperate due to lack of success. Which is not my view and not a perspective, it's just a thing that happens...all the time. People not experiencing success dating can lead to desperation, trying to debate that is ridiculous | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/25 12:50 PM |
| 1 | You need to realise that for women, you need to compete with NO man as well as with the men she is attracted toYou're saying that what you think is happening is the absolute truth and anyone who disagrees is wrong and cannot be right. You're saying it's impossible for men to become desperate due to lack of experience/success, no matter how many times I tell you that happens all the time. I understand you don't like it, but that doesn't mean a lot of men aren't desperate due to their lack of success. Saying "that doesn't happen" doesn't stop it from happening, no matter how badly you wish that was the cas… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/25 12:41 PM |
| 1 | You need to realise that for women, you need to compete with NO man as well as with the men she is attracted to"I’m not saying at all that my view is the truth" "No the desperation comes from men being fed stories about times that don’t apply anymore" You literally are, what are you talking about? You keep doing it over, and over, and over again. Must be nice, to know the absolute truth about everything, makes sense why I seem like such an idiot to your all-knowing eyes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/25 12:31 PM |
| 1 | You need to realise that for women, you need to compete with NO man as well as with the men she is attracted to"I’m not saying at all that my view is the truth. I just said that what you said doesn’t line up with what I experience in real life. It’s bit of a hyperbole to make it into that I’m viewing only my own experiences as the truth. Look. You’re treating me as a an enemy here, but I intented to be more of an ally." Oh. Well saying "nope" when someone disagrees with you makes it sound a lot like you think that what you think is correct and anyone who disagrees is wrong, despite them being obviously c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/25 12:21 PM |
| 2 | You need to realise that for women, you need to compete with NO man as well as with the men she is attracted tolol okay, if you're declaring it impossible for inexperience to lead to desperation and not knowing what you want, there's no point talking to you. So frustrating finding people online who decide that their view of the world is the Truth and everything else is False | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/25 11:41 AM |
| 1 | You need to realise that for women, you need to compete with NO man as well as with the men she is attracted to"You mix up inexperienced men and desperate men." And you mix up that a lot of men's desperation and not knowing what they want is a result of inexperience | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/25 11:34 AM |
| 3 | You need to realise that for women, you need to compete with NO man as well as with the men she is attracted toWell I'm glad you're at least consistent. Odd though that you have no problem criticizing men for being desperate, but won't criticize women who think inexperience makes someone un-dateable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/25 11:31 AM |
| 1 | You need to realise that for women, you need to compete with NO man as well as with the men she is attracted toI just don't think you know what your ideas mean. You're saying you don't like desperate men because they don't know what they want, when them now knowing what they want is a product of their desperation. You just have it backwards, is all. Trying to help you get the order right | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/25 11:28 AM |
| 2 | You need to realise that for women, you need to compete with NO man as well as with the men she is attracted to"I can perfectly know what I need just by doing honest self reflection and introspection, and I don’t need actual men for that." Then I assume you vehemently disagree with women who don't want to date inexperienced men because they don't know what they want in a relationship? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/25 11:26 AM |
| 3 | You need to realise that for women, you need to compete with NO man as well as with the men she is attracted to"Of course it was different in high school, I don’t count those experiences as relationships." Ah, and there is the problem, you are conveniently saying your own experiences learning what you do and don't like in relationships don't count and don't matter because they happened when you were young "I was just a project for him and he wasted a couple of years of my time and now I’m older and less fertile when he leaves me… I hope you see the consequences of not being open about that." Of course, I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/25 11:15 AM |
| 1 | You need to realise that for women, you need to compete with NO man as well as with the men she is attracted to"Doesn’t it give you at least a sense of empowerment somehow?" lol no, it really doesn't. I don't know where you're getting all this from, but I assure you your assumptions that giving up and accepting you'll never experience as something as normal as love is not empowering | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/25 11:09 AM |
| 3 | You need to realise that for women, you need to compete with NO man as well as with the men she is attracted to"Oh so that makes us as female dating prospects just projects to men, for them to figure out what they want" Isn't that how dating works? You date certain kinds of people, from that experience you learn what you do or don't want in a partner, then you date more people with that in mind, until you get closer and closer to what you want? As far as I know, it's pretty rare for someone's first relationship to be their last | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/25 10:55 AM |
| 3 | You need to realise that for women, you need to compete with NO man as well as with the men she is attracted to"Loneliness IS a way to discover what you need." Not if you're trying to be in a relationship. You're literally complaining about is a result of men not having enough relationship experience. You want men to know what they want in a partner when they're stuck on figuring out how to get anyone to give them any kind of positive attention. You can't think about what you actually want in a partner when you can't figure out how to get someone to go on a second date with you, that's just not how it wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/25 10:49 AM |
| 4 | Q4Men: Have you ever fallen in love with an ugly, old, or fat woman because of how nice she is?Mods can we delete this? This is clearly a blatant circle jerk post. OP just wants to hear men say any woman over 19 is ugly and old. Literally anyone who doesn't she accuses of lying or using women for sex. Please don't let allow blatant attempt by OP to fellate herself to continue | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/25 10:19 AM |
| 1 | Society did not “lie” to you about what was and wasn’t attractive to women. You are not a “victim”."Watching a film like that and thinking 'that’s literally me'" You say this as if these characters don't specifically exist in order for young boys to think "that could be me some day." You say this as if 10 year old kids have the understanding and knowledge of full grown adults to be able to know these movies aren't based in reality. You say this as if kids aren't dumb as shit and literally don't know anything | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/25 09:44 AM |
| 2 | I think men act and feel more entitled to romantic success than they realiseOkay, so you DO think people owe each other something. That's good! I agree! Kind of odd to give a very convoluted answer to a yes or no question then be annoyed when people try to get clarity so that they don't misunderstand you after purposely giving an obnoxious answer, but go off sis | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 03:41 PM |
| 2 | I think men act and feel more entitled to romantic success than they realiseI agree. Still doesn't address whether or not you support social programs, and do in fact think people owe something to others. Like I said, you're oddly incapable of either understanding or answering a rather simple question, so I won't try | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 11:59 AM |
| 3 | I think men act and feel more entitled to romantic success than they realiseOkay, so then you don't think people owe each other things and voting to assist the poor is hypocritical. Thanks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 10:45 AM |
| 5 | I think men act and feel more entitled to romantic success than they realiseHe is asking for your personal take, not for the policies of your country's government. So, if you voted to assist the poor, you do think people owe each other things, and saying "nobody owes anybody anything" in this instance would be inconsistent, if that's your stance here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 10:18 AM |
| 1 | Why Do Unsuccessful Men on this Sub Focus So Much On Women They Don’t Want To Date?I dunno, I’ve had several people, including women who sincerely believe this… which is nuts because it’s so obviously not true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/25 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Do you think men who can’t attract women are losers?Agreed. It does become exhausting as a man to be told you’re the problem if you’re unsuccessful dating, and also you’re the problem if a woman is unsuccessful dating | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/25 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Why Do Unsuccessful Men on this Sub Focus So Much On Women They Don’t Want To Date?“The issue with numbers like this is it's hard to parse crimes.” So you’re saying you have no actual idea or evidence to support your claim, you’re just declaring it an absolute truth off vibes “and I think other people are describing are social class of people, not necessarily legal criminals.” This seems like an important distinction. Weird for everyone to be talking so incessantly about criminals if they aren’t even taking about criminals “The sorority girl in who gets a job in marketing is W… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/25 06:06 PM |
| 5 | Why Do Unsuccessful Men on this Sub Focus So Much On Women They Don’t Want To Date?I'm a youth worker. I see single moms who previously dated criminals all the time. None of them are criminals themselves, which is why they are no longer with those men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/25 04:49 PM |
| 2 | Why Do Unsuccessful Men on this Sub Focus So Much On Women They Don’t Want To Date?"But if we are going by percentages, it's pretty rare" Is there any data supporting this? Everyone is saying it like it's a fact, but nobody has a single source or anything that remotely shows this to be true? https://ucr.fbi.gov/crime-in-the-u.s/2012/crime-in-the-u.s.-2012/tables/42tabledatadecoverviewpdf/table_42_arrests_by_sex_2012.xls I know it's 2012, but nearly 3/4 of arrests being men makes it seem incredibly unlikely that women who date criminals are also criminals at as high a rate as e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/25 03:52 PM |
| – | I think men act and feel more entitled to romantic success than they realise"the narrative i have heard is not 'be nice and you ll get a girlfriend'" "You’d have to be one the dumbest human beings ever if you think just being nice gets you a girlfriend." Come on, man, do better than this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/25 03:29 PM |
| 5 | Why Do Unsuccessful Men on this Sub Focus So Much On Women They Don’t Want To Date?"I don’t know any women who date criminals." And yet you're comfortable stating every single one of them is also a criminal. Strange how you aren't able to see this obvious contradiction | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/25 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Why Do Unsuccessful Men on this Sub Focus So Much On Women They Don’t Want To Date?How are you interpreting "I don't understand kicking people while they're down" as a threat? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/25 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Why Do Unsuccessful Men on this Sub Focus So Much On Women They Don’t Want To Date?Seems just as likely as OP's claim that 100% of women who date criminals are also criminals | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/25 02:19 PM |
| 8 | Why Do Unsuccessful Men on this Sub Focus So Much On Women They Don’t Want To Date?"The women who date criminals are illegal drug users" Now look who's pretending all women are the same. Very hypocritical! You should really apologize to the other guy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/25 02:08 PM |
| 3 | Why Do Unsuccessful Men on this Sub Focus So Much On Women They Don’t Want To Date?Yeah I mean if we're defining criminal as "having knowledge of crime taking place," that is true. I know people who buy drugs illegally, so I guess I'm a criminal too. Do you know anyone who's gotten a speeding ticket? Maybe you're a criminal too! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/25 01:58 PM |
| 19 | Why Do Unsuccessful Men on this Sub Focus So Much On Women They Don’t Want To Date?See this is the problem with this sub. OP makes a post claiming all women are the same and all women who date criminals are criminal themselves, someone comes in and says "actually a lot of women who date criminals are not criminals themselves," and they get attacked for...pretending all women are the same? When literally the point of the comment is to point out that not all women who date criminals are criminals themselves and are not in fact all the exact same, as OP suggested | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/25 01:46 PM |
| 2 | Do you think men who can’t attract women are losers?" I didn’t realize it was controversial to say both men and women should lower their standards if they’re unhappily single" I don't know if it's controversial, per se, but is is unusual, at least here. Typically, if a woman is unhappily single, it's because men aren't good enough and aren't stepping up and giving her enough options to choose from | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/25 09:54 AM |
| – | It's much harder for men to build a hot body than it is for women.Depending on how you train, there's nothing wrong with leaving RIR. Going to failure isn't always the best option....everybody's body is different | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 12:13 PM |
| 1 | Men who believe AI “girlfriends” can replace real women should be judgedEven after explaining irony and the joke, you still don't get it, huh? Don't really know how to make it clearer, don't think I've ever encountered someone who can't understand the concept of irony | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/25 04:21 PM |
| 8 | It's very dangerous seeing all these female dating experts using male loneliness as a way to bash men when there's literally no co-relation that lonely man=bad men.I feel like in most relationships partners adore each other? You'd object to your partner saying "you're adorable"? Or "I adore you"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/25 09:45 AM |
| 1 | Men who believe AI “girlfriends” can replace real women should be judged*due. Now you're just doing it on purpose, right? To lean into the joke? Irony: "a state of affairs or an event that seems deliberately contrary to what one expects and is often amusing as a result." Okay, so if that didn't make sense, irony is when something happens, then another thing happens that you wouldn't expect, based on the thing that happened previously. In this case, you say you have an IQ of 142. Someone with an IQ of 142 is very smart, so you'd expect them to know basic english. So,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/25 09:10 AM |
| 1 | Men who believe AI “girlfriends” can replace real women should be judgedTalking about your 142 iq and in the next sentence not knowing basic english is objectively funny. I don't know what to tell you, it just is Have you ever heard of irony? Happy to explain, if not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/25 12:50 AM |
| 2 | Which of these men is likely to find women more interested in him: A man who flirts first, and figures out whether he likes you later, or a man who figures out whether he likes you first, and flirts later?Correct | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/25 04:59 PM |
| 4 | Which of these men is likely to find women more interested in him: A man who flirts first, and figures out whether he likes you later, or a man who figures out whether he likes you first, and flirts later?So, the first one. You want him to be into you and flirting immediately, before he knows whether he actually likes you as a person | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/25 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Which of these men is likely to find women more interested in him: A man who flirts first, and figures out whether he likes you later, or a man who figures out whether he likes you first, and flirts later?Why respond if you refuse to answer the actual question? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/25 03:42 PM |
| 1 | CMV: height boosting products for men are deceptive and a red flag on a first datelol the only person here pretending is the guy sticking his head in the sand and yelling that women who don't want to date guys shorter than them because it makes them feel too masculine aren't coming from a place of insecurity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/25 09:54 AM |
| 1 | CMV: height boosting products for men are deceptive and a red flag on a first datelol okay. If that's how you're going to pretend to interpret that...okay, champ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/25 09:46 AM |
| 1 | CMV: height boosting products for men are deceptive and a red flag on a first date"Being taller than the guy makes me feel manly and not feminine" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/25 09:43 AM |
| 1 | CMV: height boosting products for men are deceptive and a red flag on a first dateHuh? Men wear height boosting shoes for themselves. Literally the same exact thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/25 09:42 AM |
| 1 | CMV: height boosting products for men are deceptive and a red flag on a first dateYup, and men being short makes women insecure. So men lie about it. Same exact thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/25 09:38 AM |
| 1 | CMV: height boosting products for men are deceptive and a red flag on a first dateFor....the exact same reason lying about height makes a man insecure? Like, huh? How is this confusing you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/25 09:22 AM |
| 1 | In the next 10 years we'll see women dominate every single prestigious career field (even IT) and this will end marriage for goodShe said every couple she knows. Not couples she knew. Meaning she's saying every couple she knows the man is extremely lazy, but also she and women she knows aren't in relationships anymore because men are too lazy. Color me confused! That seems impossible to my tiny brain, but what do I know | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/25 08:48 AM |
| 1 | Men who believe AI “girlfriends” can replace real women should be judged*Nitpick. Are you sure your iq is actually 142? It's just a joke, chill out man, it's really not that serious | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/25 09:14 AM |
| 3 | In the next 10 years we'll see women dominate every single prestigious career field (even IT) and this will end marriage for good“this is why women don’t want to get in relationships” So women don’t get in relationships with men because they’re lazy, but also every single couple you know the man is really lazy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/25 04:47 PM |
| 1 | In the next 10 years we'll see women dominate every single prestigious career field (even IT) and this will end marriage for goodReally? I don’t know a single couple like that. If anything, it’s typically the women who do far less, especially when it comes to cooking. Where do you live that all these lazy men can still somehow convince a woman to settle down with him? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/25 04:42 PM |
| 2 | Men who believe AI “girlfriends” can replace real women should be judgedI'm adorable, apparently | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/25 02:17 PM |
| 2 | Men who believe AI “girlfriends” can replace real women should be judgedBecause they think I'm great? You can think someone is a great person and not find them attractive. It's not impossible | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/25 02:16 PM |
| 2 | Men who believe AI “girlfriends” can replace real women should be judgedWomen tell me I'm great all the time. Literal models tell me this. But they don't want to date me because I'm 5'2. Can't really "better" myself in that regard | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/25 02:14 PM |
| 0 | Men who believe AI “girlfriends” can replace real women should be judgedI mean, I don't care either. My brain is capable of knowing the difference without caring. It's not that complicated? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/25 10:17 AM |
| 1 | Men who believe AI “girlfriends” can replace real women should be judgedGood to know one can have an iq of 142 and still not know the difference between "real" and "reel" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/25 10:05 AM |
| 2 | Straight men on this subreddit, would you take a magic, gene-altering pill to become gay? (Not a satire question. Be serious.)The only one that's different between dating men and women are 1 and 2. The rest are the same, regardless if you're dating a man or woman. Gay dudes seem to hook up a lot, so yeah, probably more hook ups. And, as you very astutely pointed out: men are men, not women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/25 09:43 AM |
| 2 | Is the reason why most men do more than the bare minimum to survive due to the promise or chance of a wife and kids?"I'm just going off what I read here" You did? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/25 10:05 PM |
| 2 | Is the reason why most men do more than the bare minimum to survive due to the promise or chance of a wife and kids?So....why don't you base your views of men off them instead of strangers on the internet who, for all you know, are chicks getting a kick out of playing a misogynist online? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/25 10:00 PM |
| 2 | Is the reason why most men do more than the bare minimum to survive due to the promise or chance of a wife and kids?"I'm just going off what I read here" Do your interactions with men you can actually see and touch and speak to hold no meaning to you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/25 09:52 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Women sexually assaulting men is (almost) never as severe as men sexually assaulting anyone"I don't think telling someone you'll be there if there's an emergency is weird." But...she wasn't. She refused. Pretending you'll be there in an emergency is really fucking weird. Especially for a doctor "If you were incentivized to hurt yourself just to talk to them then clearly it is an emergency, because somebody in a more stable state would not consider that. " No shit, that's literally what I said. Still isn't going to stop one of her patients from eventually doing it " Doctors/therapists … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/25 08:36 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women sexually assaulting men is (almost) never as severe as men sexually assaulting anyoneIn that case it was really weird of her to tell me to contact her in those situations if she was just going to refuse to talk to me. My grievance is doctors are supposed to help and care, not refuse to speak to you for a week when you need help the most. To say a week isn't a long time to refuse to meet with someone is truly insane on your part. My grievance is she's literally incentivizing her patients to harm themselves, and eventually one of them will | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/25 08:09 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Women sexually assaulting men is (almost) never as severe as men sexually assaulting anyoneYou think a doctor refusing to talk to a patient in a crisis is normal? You think doctor's incentivizing their patients to harm themselves is normal? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/25 07:45 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Women sexually assaulting men is (almost) never as severe as men sexually assaulting anyoneYeah the problem is that psychology is mostly just common sense bullshit so it's perfect for the kids in high school who knew how to get a good score on tests without doing any of the work. My sense is most psychologists are this type, the ones who want to be smarter than they are, but are too lazy to do anything to achieve said intelligence, so they do easy shit that people think is hard so they can fool themselves into thinking they're smart | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/25 09:38 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Women sexually assaulting men is (almost) never as severe as men sexually assaulting anyone" If you have a therapist acting that unprofessionally, it’s reasonable to report them." lol. Once I was having an especially bad day my therapist refused to talk to me before my next appointment (a week away) unless I hurt myself and went to a hospital and they called her. Reported her, got a response 8 months later telling me to fuck off because nobody cares. It's a very successful mirage you doctors have created, but I'm glad it works for the people who don't do enough thinking to see through… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/25 09:34 AM |
| 2 | The term “just because you’re paranoid doesn’t mean they’re not after you” applies to dating. The average man will mostly only have negative experiences"But how?" Really? You don't see how saying "just go on Grindr! Of course gay dudes will fuck you!" is offensive? You don't see how a gay men might not want to have sex with someone who isn't also gay and won't enjoy it? You don't see how assuming they'd be down because they're men might be offensive to them? "But if a prostitute choosing sex work because she enjoys it is enough to make sex with her validating, then the issue isn't paying for sex. " It would still be far less validating than a w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/25 12:03 AM |
| 1 | The term “just because you’re paranoid doesn’t mean they’re not after you” applies to dating. The average man will mostly only have negative experiences"C'mon now" Says the person suggesting gay men enjoy fucking straight dudes, which is pretty fucking offensive "Let's say this prostitute isn't desperate for money. This is just how she earns an income because she enjoys sex. " lol look who's moving goalposts/changing scenarios now. But yes, that would be more validating. That's what I've been trying to tell you! People choosing to have sex with you is more validating than people doing it because they are desperate. I'm glad you're finally getti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/25 11:42 PM |
| 1 | The term “just because you’re paranoid doesn’t mean they’re not after you” applies to dating. The average man will mostly only have negative experiencesHuh. Alright, I didn't know gay men like fucking straight dudes who don't really want to be there. Good to know. How did you come across that knowledge? "So then if being chosen by someone who will choose anyone is validating, again, what's the issue with the prostitute then? Unfortunately there is a tuition charge but you can still get in to the school. You will be chosen." Do you sincerely not see the difference between being chosen because they want to have sex with you and being chosen becau… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/25 11:21 PM |
| 1 | The term “just because you’re paranoid doesn’t mean they’re not after you” applies to dating. The average man will mostly only have negative experiencesI didn't know gay men like fucking straight dudes. That's a new one to me "I was referring to the prostitute in that sentence" And I was referring to the man who will sleep with anyone. Being chosen by him is more validating than not. Factually speaking, at least | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/25 11:01 PM |
| 1 | The term “just because you’re paranoid doesn’t mean they’re not after you” applies to dating. The average man will mostly only have negative experiencesIf "the school" is meaningless sex, which I assumed it was, I didn't change the hypothetical or move the goalposts. Being chosen for meaningless sex is more validating than not being chosen for meaningless sex. That's just factually correct, same as a prostitute choosing to have sex with men is factually correct "Then what's the issue with just paying for sex then?" Because it lacks the validation that someone choosing to have sex with you gives? I said that, like, a bunch of times | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/25 10:50 PM |
| 1 | The term “just because you’re paranoid doesn’t mean they’re not after you” applies to dating. The average man will mostly only have negative experiences“Would anyone in their right mind feel validated that they got into a school that accepts anyone?” And anybody in their right mind would agree that being accepted and having the option to go is more validating than being rejected from that school. Being able to participate is more validating than not being able to participate. That’s not moving the goalposts “she is just not choosing you for you” Which is still more validating than not being chosen at all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/25 08:33 PM |
| 1 | The term “just because you’re paranoid doesn’t mean they’re not after you” applies to dating. The average man will mostly only have negative experiences"You've moved the goal posts on that hypothetical, but I'm honestly not sure you have the logical reasoning ability to see that." No I didn't. This whole time I've said someone wanting to have sex with you is validation as a human being. How did I move the goal posts? "She is making that choice, so framing it as "the thirsty man is choosing to sleep with you while the prostitute isn't" is factually incorrect." *sigh* but she is not choosing to have sex with you because she wants to have sex with… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/25 07:53 PM |
| 2 | The term “just because you’re paranoid doesn’t mean they’re not after you” applies to dating. The average man will mostly only have negative experiencesYou just told me that having the option to go to college isn’t better than not having the option to go to college. And you’re talking about logic? 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/25 07:27 PM |
| 1 | The term “just because you’re paranoid doesn’t mean they’re not after you” applies to dating. The average man will mostly only have negative experienceslol. “Getting into a college is better than getting rejected by a college” “not necessarily” 🤣🤣🤣 “ So what is the meaningful difference?” So you are incapable of seeing the difference between paying someone to have sex with you and someone choosing to have sex with you. Got it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/25 07:11 PM |
| 1 | The term “just because you’re paranoid doesn’t mean they’re not after you” applies to dating. The average man will mostly only have negative experiences“ It's like bragging that you got into a school that has no admission standards.” Still better than getting rejected by that school. lol I really hope you’re grasping at straws and aren’t actually incapable of seeing the difference between paying a prostitute and someone choosing you to have sex with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/25 06:39 PM |
| 1 | The term “just because you’re paranoid doesn’t mean they’re not after you” applies to dating. The average man will mostly only have negative experiencesThe validating part is someone else choosing to have sex with you. That’s not what you get when you pay a prostitute My argument is that someone wanting to have sex with you is validation that you’re at least a human. That you think that’s asinine is…odd | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/25 06:26 PM |
| 1 | The term “just because you’re paranoid doesn’t mean they’re not after you” applies to dating. The average man will mostly only have negative experiences“A man being willing to use a woman's body does not mean he is recognizing her as a human being.” lol wut? It literally does. Goddamn imagine receiving so much validation that you sincerely convince yourself that validation is dehumanizing Why do you keep bringing up paying for sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/25 06:18 PM |
| 2 | The term “just because you’re paranoid doesn’t mean they’re not after you” applies to dating. The average man will mostly only have negative experiences“You're being recognized as an object that's useful for masturbation at least. ” No, you’re being recognized as a human being. Imagine being so used to endless validation that, even when you get it, it doesn’t feel like validation because it’s not the form of validation you prefer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/25 06:13 PM |
| 3 | The term “just because you’re paranoid doesn’t mean they’re not after you” applies to dating. The average man will mostly only have negative experiences"same as being invisible" It really isn't. You're still being recognized as a human being who exists. You're still participating in humanity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/25 05:58 PM |
| 3 | The term “just because you’re paranoid doesn’t mean they’re not after you” applies to dating. The average man will mostly only have negative experiencesFar more validating than being treated like you don't exist. Just because women experience so much validation that they can pick and choose which kinds they like and don't like, does not mean someone wanting to have sex with you is not validation of some kind | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/25 05:42 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men use "logic and reason" as an excuse for low EQWell that's stupid | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/25 05:29 PM |
| 3 | The term “just because you’re paranoid doesn’t mean they’re not after you” applies to dating. The average man will mostly only have negative experiencesYou’re really struggling to understand it’s just not that easy for men, huh? Maybe for women simply telling yourself a man likes you makes it come true, but that doesn’t exist for men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/25 12:17 PM |
| 5 | The term “just because you’re paranoid doesn’t mean they’re not after you” applies to dating. The average man will mostly only have negative experiencesHuh? So you're saying if I work with a woman and think she's into me, she asks to meet up after work to get drinks, etc, and I ask her out and she doesn't respond, it's because the whole time I secretly didn't think she was into me and was going to say no? I think you just don't know what a self-fulfilling prophecy is, that's all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/25 11:39 AM |
| 5 | The term “just because you’re paranoid doesn’t mean they’re not after you” applies to dating. The average man will mostly only have negative experiencesOkay, so it's not a self-fulfilling prophecy then. It's just a thing that happens. If it was a self-fulfilling prophecy, then telling yourself "I am valuable to her," would come true, no matter what | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/25 11:16 AM |
| 2 | The term “just because you’re paranoid doesn’t mean they’re not after you” applies to dating. The average man will mostly only have negative experiences"If you think you are low on her list you put yourself there" Are you saying that if you text someone, and they don't respond, or take a very long time to, it's because the you didn't believe hard enough that you'd get a text back, the woman somehow sensed this, and so decided not to text you even though she would have liked to? Are you saying that if a man texts you and you don't respond, his reaction should be "damn this chick must be really into me, she's so intimidated by my good looks she c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/25 10:38 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men use "logic and reason" as an excuse for low EQWhat's up with PPD's obsession with sweat? I see people calling each other "sweaty" here all the time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/25 10:21 AM |
| 5 | Women lie about their "low" standards and the bar in hell“I don't know what "nice guy" is” Really? That’s…surprising | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 04:50 PM |
| 5 | Women lie about their "low" standards and the bar in hell“But ultimately women are looking for "he is VERY into me, he REALLY needs me, he CARES about me very much...and that is what can make quite a difference."” Huh? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 04:22 PM |
| 8 | Women lie about their "low" standards and the bar in hellRight. But that alone is not nearly enough to be considered attractive, as was suggested | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 03:32 PM |
| 6 | Women lie about their "low" standards and the bar in hellNo. You're confused that part of the "nice guy" trope is that he wants the girl very, very badly. Right? That's where the "want" comes in, and it never makes a difference in those scenarios. "That wasn't what was suggested." "But ultimately women are looking for "he is VERY into me, he REALLY needs me, he CARES about me very much...and that is what can make quite a difference." Huh? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 03:27 PM |
| 10 | Women lie about their "low" standards and the bar in hellWhat? I'm saying wanting a woman badly does not mean the woman will want you back, as was suggested. I'm saying simply caring a lot about a woman will not make the woman care about you in return, as was suggested | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 03:22 PM |
| 8 | Women lie about their "low" standards and the bar in hellOkay. I don't see how that disputes what I said. If merely wanting a girl badly enough was attractive to women, there would be no such thing as "the nice guy" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 03:17 PM |
| 31 | Women lie about their "low" standards and the bar in hell"he is VERY into me, he REALLY needs me, he CARES about me very much"" If this was true, there would be no such thing as "the nice guy," since he'd be able to get the girl he wants | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 02:35 PM |
| 2 | Love Isn’t a Transaction—It’s a TransformationIf someone who is really shy and socially anxious pushes themselves to go out anyway to learn to overcome that discomfort and have more fun being around people, you'd call this person a fake because they had to work for that skill instead of just being born with it? That seems...harsh, to say the least | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 09:46 AM |
| 1 | Love Isn’t a Transaction—It’s a TransformationIf someone says they're Christian but rejects Jesus and his dad and embraces the Greek gods, does that mean that's how Christianity works now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 09:36 AM |
| 3 | Befriending women will not make a differenceWell that's good, was going to say, she must literally never interact with women if that's the case. Or has a hearing problem that she should go to a doctor for | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/25 11:09 AM |
| 4 | Befriending women will not make a differenceWow. That's....incredible. How have you managed to avoid it? I hear women say that once a month | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/25 11:07 PM |
| 11 | Befriending women will not make a differenceYou've never heard of the "all men are trash" trope? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/25 12:07 PM |
| 1 | Speed dating is the most brutal dating setting"Also it's typically from a stranger" lol no it's not. That doesn't even make sense. How could a stranger be in a position to repeatedly abuse a child? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/25 10:38 AM |
| 2 | Men are judged for pretty much any perceived lack of independence, but women are allowed (and sometimes encouraged) to be independent at their convenienceOkay. Considering yourself superior to someone who doesn't own a car while not owning a car is really weird, that's all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/25 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Men are judged for pretty much any perceived lack of independence, but women are allowed (and sometimes encouraged) to be independent at their convenienceOkay. Considering yourself superior to someone who doesn't own a car while not owning a car is really weird, that's all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/25 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Men are judged for pretty much any perceived lack of independence, but women are allowed (and sometimes encouraged) to be independent at their convenienceOkay. Considering yourself superior to someone who doesn't own a car while not owning a car is really weird, that's all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/25 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Men are judged for pretty much any perceived lack of independence, but women are allowed (and sometimes encouraged) to be independent at their convenienceI sure don't think so | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/25 01:09 PM |
| 6 | Men are judged for pretty much any perceived lack of independence, but women are allowed (and sometimes encouraged) to be independent at their convenienceThen I guess you aren't a real woman, just like he isn't a real man, for also not owning a car. Maybe think of that before getting pregnant if it's such an issue for you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/25 11:17 AM |
| 7 | Men are judged for pretty much any perceived lack of independence, but women are allowed (and sometimes encouraged) to be independent at their convenienceReally struggling to see the connection between this and women telling men who don't own cars they aren't real men. Are you saying women don't sympathize with men because they know how much worse off they'd be in the same position? Are you saying they're justified insulting men who don't own cars because they might be attacked at a bus stop? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/25 11:16 AM |
| 1 | Thinking relationships should be more prioritized than raising kids is a red flag.lol wut? I asked a question and instead of answering you invented a bunch of stuff in order to attack me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/25 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Thinking relationships should be more prioritized than raising kids is a red flag."You need reliability, support and tag team efforts." Which you are more likely to get from someone who loves you than an ex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/25 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Thinking relationships should be more prioritized than raising kids is a red flag.Oh. Would have been cool if you'd just said that when I asked that exact question instead of putting words in my mouth and trying to attack me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/25 04:20 PM |
| 5 | Thinking relationships should be more prioritized than raising kids is a red flag."Because men sure aren't fucking doing any of the work beyond the bare minimum." Okay so this is just a misandrist rant slipping out, got it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/25 03:55 PM |
| 0 | Thinking relationships should be more prioritized than raising kids is a red flag."You know what the services are." I have absolutely no idea. "Pay for all those services" is very vague. Especially in the context of saying they will pay for the kid but not for the kid's mom. My guess is child raising stuff, but I don't think you're mad at men for not helping their baby mama's learn to floss. Are you saying men should be paying women to teach their kids to floss? Not sure what the rest is about or if you're asking a question or what you want me to say, but I think you're talki… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/25 03:49 PM |
| 1 | Thinking relationships should be more prioritized than raising kids is a red flag."You clearly dont believe that married parents who produce good stable kids are good parents first" lol wut? That's exactly what I believe. Why do you keep putting wrong words in my mouth? Especially since, like, how could you possibly have come to this conclusion after I agreed with you twice that marriage doesn't make someone a good parent? I think some people are good parents and some people are bad parents. I just don't think being a good parent increases your chances of getting married, as … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/25 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Thinking relationships should be more prioritized than raising kids is a red flag."I dont know why you guys want to believe marriage = good for kids so bad." I already said don't believe that. I just don't think good parents are more likely to get married than bad parents. I was asking how you know that, and apparently you're just saying it to fit your narrative. Which is fine, I just wanted to know if that was a real thing or if you were just making it up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/25 03:15 PM |
| 2 | Thinking relationships should be more prioritized than raising kids is a red flag.What services? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/25 03:13 PM |
| 2 | Thinking relationships should be more prioritized than raising kids is a red flag."Because it makes more sense as to why married couples create better results in children rather than pretending the marriage itself is helping." So...you're just giving your opinion and presenting it as a fact. That's what I thought, but just wanted to confirm | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/25 03:09 PM |
| 2 | Thinking relationships should be more prioritized than raising kids is a red flag.No. What does that have to do with good parents being more likely to get married? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/25 03:04 PM |
| 3 | Thinking relationships should be more prioritized than raising kids is a red flag."Men do not want to provide for their kids unless they have a built in female domestic and sexual servant." What a wild, completely unsubstantiated, misandrist claim to make | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/25 03:03 PM |
| 3 | Thinking relationships should be more prioritized than raising kids is a red flag."Thats because good parents typically get married" How have you determined this? Why would a good parent be more likely to get married than a bad parent? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/25 03:02 PM |
| – | Current dating landscape sucks for young womenFair point. As the old saying goes, never ascribe to malice that which is explained by stupidity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/25 01:39 PM |
| – | Current dating landscape sucks for young womenIt's a troll job | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/25 01:28 PM |
| – | Current dating landscape sucks for young womenNot supposed to be able to troll either, but that's not a problem when you agree with the troll I guess | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/25 01:27 PM |
| 1 | Current dating landscape sucks for young womenTo be fair, you sound pretty abhorrent yourself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/25 10:18 AM |
| – | Current dating landscape sucks for young womenDawg if you want to piss people off and get them to engage with you, you can't pretend to be THIS stupid | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/25 09:31 AM |
| – | Current dating landscape sucks for young womenThat would ruin his troll post though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/25 09:29 AM |
| 1 | Women are turned off by any proactive behaviour by a man two impress or date a woman. They only respond well to naturals."That guy reading seduction techniques between sets is inherently obvious to anybody" Sure, except all the people it works on who don't find it inherently obvious. Of course, if someone is good at this, you will never know they are good at it. You will just get tricked and think "oh there's someone being effortless, see more proof that I'm right and trying is bad!" when really they have worked at and practiced being effortless a lot to the point where it's easy to deceive people who are too full… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/25 09:17 AM |
| 2 | Most men won't succeed on dating apps"You saying those men are achieving dating with 0 efforts, is really actually diminishing the actual work and effort that these guys are putting in" I think this depends a lot on how you define effort. For men for whom dating is easy, going on the apps and swiping on girls and coming up with ideas and plans for dates and going on them probably feels like effort. To women that may seem like effort. For men for whom dating is hard, none of that feels anywhere close to effort, that's the fun part a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/25 04:40 PM |
| 1 | If you want to avoid the “friend zone” be honest about your intentions early onOh. Describing your friends as desperate was weird then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/25 05:31 PM |
| 1 | If you want to avoid the “friend zone” be honest about your intentions early onHence the reason it’s extremely strange that you can be friends with desperate men but not think desperate men can be friends with women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/25 05:10 PM |
| – | If you want to avoid the “friend zone” be honest about your intentions early onI just disagree with you saying it's impossible for desperate men to be friends with women, that's all. Seems you have a few yourself, so especially weird that you're simultaneously friends with desperate men and also don't think it's possible for desperate men to be friends with women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/25 03:52 PM |
| – | If you want to avoid the “friend zone” be honest about your intentions early on"The end of these stories is always" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/25 03:50 PM |
| – | If you want to avoid the “friend zone” be honest about your intentions early onSo you're saying all men do this all the time...but also have only ever seen it happen on the internet. Got it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/25 03:21 PM |
| – | If you want to avoid the “friend zone” be honest about your intentions early on"The end of these stories is always “… this woman is stringing me along for BENEFITS and validation! She’s actually using me! " Not true, been "friendzone" plenty of times, have never reacted like this. Have never met an actual person who has reacted to being friend-zoned, in fact. I don't know where you find so many people who act like this, but...maybe hang out in different crowds where people aren't so weird? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/25 03:14 PM |
| – | If you want to avoid the “friend zone” be honest about your intentions early onDo they? How do you know? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/25 03:06 PM |
| – | If you want to avoid the “friend zone” be honest about your intentions early onThat doesn't really answer my question of how you're connecting desperation with an inability to be friends with people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/25 01:57 PM |
| – | If you want to avoid the “friend zone” be honest about your intentions early onI'm pretty fucking desperate. Some of my closest friends are women. Not sure how you're connecting those two things | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/25 01:52 PM |
| 1 | Women are basically miny celebrities. Which is why the dating climate is badYeah | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/25 12:19 AM |
| – | Women are basically miny celebrities. Which is why the dating climate is badYeah I didn't think it happened either until a woman called me one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/25 12:03 AM |
| – | Women are basically miny celebrities. Which is why the dating climate is badIn real life, yes. On the internet men call men simps all the time, obviously. That's fine, I figured that'd be the case, since it doesn't fit your narrative | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/25 11:49 PM |
| – | Women are basically miny celebrities. Which is why the dating climate is badAnd I've only ever heard women describe guys as simps. Never heard a man do it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/25 10:47 PM |
| 1 | “Men are looking for clean water in a desert while women are looking for clean water in a swamp” is the most misandrist analogy I ever heardSettling is ending up with someone "worse" than you, not failing to get someone better than you and instead choosing someone on your level | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/25 07:56 PM |
| 7 | Men live life on easy modeWhat? Of course I care if I live or die. I'm saying nobody else does When was I being an ass? Sorry, was not meaning to be | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/25 06:55 PM |
| 5 | Men live life on easy mode"nobody gives a shit" I already said. Despite what you apparently believe, men are actually people too, and count in "nobody" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/25 06:39 PM |
| 1 | “Men are looking for clean water in a desert while women are looking for clean water in a swamp” is the most misandrist analogy I ever heardLet's come up with new terms then, because failing to get someone objectively better than you and ending up with someone on your level is not what people mean when they say someone is "settling" A woman failing to achieve hypergamy is not settling...she just failed to achieve hypergamy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/25 04:57 PM |
| 1 | “Men are looking for clean water in a desert while women are looking for clean water in a swamp” is the most misandrist analogy I ever heardThe real problem is that you consider this woman to be settling If an average man dated a hot girl for a while and ended up with an average woman, nobody would say he settled. But when the woman equivalent happens, that's what we call it now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/25 03:18 PM |
| 17 | Men live life on easy modeThis is great, you've accidentally and unironically highlighted the hardest, most painful disadvantage men have: when bad things happen, nobody gives a shit and nobody will help | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/25 09:43 AM |
| 2 | It’s ok for straight women to only want to date straight menGetting turned off by gay sex isn’t the same as labeling people as less masculine and less of a man because they have gay sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/25 09:19 PM |
| 2 | It’s ok for straight women to only want to date straight menlol that’s not something you can disagree on. Women saying bi men aren’t masculine and aren’t real men because they got fucked by another man is biphobic. You don’t get to choose, it’s just what you’re doing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/25 08:51 PM |
| 2 | Leagues within dating are only for men“ They offer similar things as what women offer themselves, ideally.” Right, but I want to know the mystical qualities women have that men don’t that people refer to when they say women offer things men can’t. I have no idea what a woman could provide that’s impossible for a man to provide, but people say it all the time like it’s fact | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/25 05:46 PM |
| 2 | It’s ok for straight women to only want to date straight menOkay. Saying men having sex with other men disgusts them and they can’t have sex with him because of that is still biphobic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/25 05:43 PM |
| 2 | It’s ok for straight women to only want to date straight menThe women in this thread saying they would never fuck a man who fucked a man because they find it disgusting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/25 05:40 PM |
| 5 | Leagues within dating are only for menYeah I wish I knew what people meant when they say this. I constantly hear "men don't have a lot to offer," implying women DO have a lot to offer, but I've never had anyone list a single thing women offer that men don't | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/25 01:00 PM |
| 1 | Leagues within dating are only for men"Women offer more than men" What, exactly? I constantly hear this, but I've never had anyone actually list a single thing women offer that men don't | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/25 12:57 PM |
| 3 | It’s ok for straight women to only want to date straight menHow is "I find it disgusting that you got fucked by another man and can't respect you because of it" NOT looking down on bi men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/25 10:12 AM |
| 2 | It’s ok for straight women to only want to date straight menI'm not attracted to men. I don't think a men getting fucked by another man is gross. These women are openly acknowledging they find bi men who have been fucked by other men as gross and not really men. Surely you can see the difference between simply not wanting to fuck someone and finding someone disgusting based on who they decide to fuck? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/25 10:10 AM |
| 1 | It’s ok for straight women to only want to date straight men"they dont need to even have a reason to not want to sleep with them" Huh? We know they DO have a reason to not want to sleep with them. Because they're biphobic. Which is fine, but also funny when so many of these women love to claim to be pro LGBTQ+ and allies in theory, when they barely are in reality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/25 10:06 AM |
| 1 | Being alone and sexless doesn’t even compare to having to have sex with somebody you don’t want to have sex withSo the millions of women every day choosing to stay in bad sex relationships can't possibly be because it's not as bad as you claim, but the number of women who say "i regret not leaving sooner" is definitive proof that you're right. Hilarious. Love the double standard being so blindingly obvious you can't even see it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/25 09:56 AM |
| 1 | Being alone and sexless doesn’t even compare to having to have sex with somebody you don’t want to have sex with"maybe it’s the familiarity and lack of courage to leave," That sounds an awful lot like not wanting to be alone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/25 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Being alone and sexless doesn’t even compare to having to have sex with somebody you don’t want to have sex withAnd yet you can't present me with a single reason why millions of women choose to stay in those relationships besides "no idea, but I bet they'll cheat" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/25 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Being alone and sexless doesn’t even compare to having to have sex with somebody you don’t want to have sex withNo, I'm saying that the number of women who stay in relationships where the sex is bad for other reasons suggests that, for some of them, being alone and sexless would be worse than with someone where the sex is bad. You are saying there is a 0% chance this is possible, I'm saying there is a non-0% chance this is possible. That's all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/25 12:43 PM |
| 2 | Being alone and sexless doesn’t even compare to having to have sex with somebody you don’t want to have sex withSo you have absolutely no idea what could possibly be worth putting yourself through something so terrible, but you are 100% certain it can’t be companionship. Sorry, but I hope you can understand how laughable that is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/25 07:48 AM |
| 3 | Being alone and sexless doesn’t even compare to having to have sex with somebody you don’t want to have sex withSo these women are repeatedly putting themselves through an unspeakably terrible experience for the sake of institution and investments. And it's simply impossible one of these investments could be the companionship that comes from marriage, regardless of how good the sex is. I guess I'm confused what investment or institution could possibly be worth a lifetime of repeatedly going through a truly awful, dehumanizing experience | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/25 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Being alone and sexless doesn’t even compare to having to have sex with somebody you don’t want to have sex withInteresting. Then why do you think so many women stay in otherwise good relationships where the sex is bad? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/25 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Being alone and sexless doesn’t even compare to having to have sex with somebody you don’t want to have sex withThat’s not what I asked | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/25 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Being alone and sexless doesn’t even compare to having to have sex with somebody you don’t want to have sex with“ if it was just the sex on offer yes, they would yeet” What if companionship, support, respect, caring, etc are being offered? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/25 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Being alone and sexless doesn’t even compare to having to have sex with somebody you don’t want to have sex withSo you’re saying there’s simply no chance whatsoever that they find bad sex preferable to being alone? You’re saying there’s a 0% chance that that’s a possibility? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/25 07:25 PM |
| 0 | Being alone and sexless doesn’t even compare to having to have sex with somebody you don’t want to have sex withBut if having sex with someone you aren’t attracted to is objectively one of the worst things a person can go through, why are they choosing that over being stone? Could it be possible that, for some people, bad sex in a relationship is preferable to being alone? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/25 07:12 PM |
| -1 | Being alone and sexless doesn’t even compare to having to have sex with somebody you don’t want to have sex withSo your argument is that having sex with someone you aren’t attracted to is one of the worst things a person can go through, but women willingly make this choice every day and put themselves through this terrible, terrible experience anyway? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/25 06:44 PM |
| -1 | Being alone and sexless doesn’t even compare to having to have sex with somebody you don’t want to have sex withCan you please explain why so many women choose to stay in relationships with men they aren’t that attracted to if that’s way worse than being alone? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/25 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Being alone and sexless doesn’t even compare to having to have sex with somebody you don’t want to have sex with"You can’t even fathom the dynamic" Then why are so many women doing it if it's so terrible? You're saying they aren't being forced to have sex with unattractive men, but also aren't choosing to have sex with unattractive men, but also are doing it anyway despite it being worse than being sexless and alone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/25 04:54 PM |
| 5 | Being alone and sexless doesn’t even compare to having to have sex with somebody you don’t want to have sex with"They are not choosing to" If the women aren't being raped, and also aren't choosing to have sex with men they find unattractive, then what is happening? You're saying they're neither being forced to have sex with unattractive men, but they also aren't choosing to have sex with unattractive men, then what's the third option to explain how so many women end up having sex with men they find unattractive to the point where it's common enough that you feel the need to post about it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/25 03:59 PM |
| 4 | Being alone and sexless doesn’t even compare to having to have sex with somebody you don’t want to have sex withThen I don't understand. Why are these women choosing to have sex with men they don't find attractive if the alternative, being alone and sexless, is better? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/25 03:18 PM |
| 6 | Being alone and sexless doesn’t even compare to having to have sex with somebody you don’t want to have sex withBy "sex with people they don't want to have sex with," are you talking exclusively about rape? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/25 02:29 PM |
| 2 | I think a lot of people going forward have to just get over the idea of sex and relationshipsI hear you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/25 10:36 AM |
| 1 | Men are menYou falsely accused me of harassing you, and in response to me calling that out, you found a comment from a month ago in order to continue attacking me instead of owning up to it and apologizing. That's harassment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/25 12:17 AM |
| – | Men are menWhat? how is baselessly accusing me of harassing you, then harassing me, returning the same energy? Returning the same energy would be baselessly accusing me of harassing you, then apologizing when you realized you baselessly accused me of harassing you. In other words, not harassing me once you realized you very unfairly accused me of harassing you What you did is harass me. That's not returning the same energy, since I never harassed you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/25 12:11 AM |
| – | Men are menYou baselessly accuse me of harassing you because we both read the same threads made in the last day, then instead of apologizing for making such a heinous accusation with no evidence whatsoever, you find a comment from a month ago in order to harass me? Wow. Just wow. The hypocrisy is just.....wow | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 09:20 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: first date, she tells you her birthday is in 2 weeks. How much do you gift her on the spot?Almost, but incorrect. You said men here were being hateful, and that you are merely reflecting that energy. You called men hateful, not me. You said you reflect men's energy, not me. You labeled yourself hateful, not me. You chose to be hateful, not me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: first date, she tells you her birthday is in 2 weeks. How much do you gift her on the spot?Nope. You said the men were being hateful, and you are a reflection of that, so that means you were being hateful. Then you changed your mind and said they are not hateful, which means you are no longer being hateful either | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Men have no options.No idea. You said you are reflecting their behavior. So, if you think they are hateful and you are reflecting that behavior, then you are also being hateful. If you don't think they're being hateful and aren't reflecting hateful behavior, then you are not being hateful | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: first date, she tells you her birthday is in 2 weeks. How much do you gift her on the spot?Right, the men aren't being hateful either. That's been my whole point. Before you said they were. I'm glad you now agree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Men have no options.What subject? The subject has been your hatred the whole time "As we agreed, I am reflecting male behavior" Which, as we agreed, is not hateful | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: first date, she tells you her birthday is in 2 weeks. How much do you gift her on the spot?Yes, both threads were posted within the last day. Those were the ones on the front page, so they were the ones I looked at. Your comments jumped out because of how shocking they are. You will see I responded to two other people before you before even seeing your comment in the "men have no options" post. If I were stalking your comments, I would be only responding to you, not other people. Please do not make false accusations "And no, men do it more" I have no idea who does it more. But even if… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Men have no options.Well before you said men were being hateful and you were reflecting that energy, remember? Which I disagree with. Then you changed your mind and said if men aren't hateful, you aren't either. Which I do agree with nobody is harassing you, you're just on a website | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: first date, she tells you her birthday is in 2 weeks. How much do you gift her on the spot?What? When did I stalk your comments? "MEN are the ones who laugh at simps because men find basic niceties to women to be simping and enjoy humiliating each other over it." No, people do this. People. Men and women. People do it. Including women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 04:21 PM |
| 2 | Men have no options.I agree, I don't think anyone is being hateful. I'm glad you finally, finally got there | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Men have no options.Please show where he actually said this and you didn't just assume it. You continue to jump to conclusions due to your hatred | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 04:19 PM |
| – | Men have no options.Yeah I'm sure there are exceptions. But I'd imagine in 90+% of cases when a guy catches feelings for a friend, what he wants is a wholesome partnership | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you date a woman who took "How to talk to men" classes?So....are most men living in poverty, or not? Your tool says they are, your 66k a year says they are not. Which is it? It cannot be both. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: first date, she tells you her birthday is in 2 weeks. How much do you gift her on the spot?I never said I do or don't hate women, but really weird you're stalking my comments now in order to attack me Not to mention, once again putting words in my mouth and jumping to hateful, attacking conclusions. Women DO laugh at men doing this. It happens all the time. Every single day. See: simps. People love laughing at simps giving women who don't give a shit about them presents | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 03:04 PM |
| 2 | Men have no options."No I am simply giving men back the energy they give women." Right, which you call hatred | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 03:03 PM |
| 2 | Men have no options.You do not. You continue to jump to conclusions due to your hatred | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 02:59 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you date a woman who took "How to talk to men" classes?Didn't we already decide this tool is useless? We don't even know how it defines "poverty" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 02:58 PM |
| 2 | Men have no options.And you label that hateful behavior, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 02:56 PM |
| 3 | Men have no options.You do not know that. You are making assumptions and jumping to conclusions because of your hate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 02:50 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you date a woman who took "How to talk to men" classes?Huh? You just said most men struggle to stay out of poverty. Now most men are able to afford rent? Which is it. Please pick one. Surely you can see how it is impossible for over 50% of men to be impoverished, and for over 50% of men be able to afford rent comfortably | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 02:49 PM |
| – | Men have no options.Okay, then assuming a man only wants taken women because they are the most attractive is also hateful | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 02:48 PM |
| – | Men have no options."Master praline said that men do not consider these things wholesome and that the things men find wholesome are not the things women find wholesome." Incorrect. what he said was "what they classify as wholesome might not be wholesome for you," that is not equivalent to that. It simply means different people find different things wholesome. But of course, because you are hateful, you make these illogical, nonexistent connections (e.g. saying not everyone finds the same things wholesome means men … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you date a woman who took "How to talk to men" classes?Okay. Please show your stat that over 50% of men in America struggle with this, or stop attacking men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 02:43 PM |
| – | Men have no options.No, it is hateful. If saying older women are falling apart is hateful, then assuming a man only wants taken women because they are the most attractive is also hateful | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you date a woman who took "How to talk to men" classes?Okay. Please show your stats proving over 50% of men are struggling under however you define poverty, or stop attacking men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 02:33 PM |
| – | Men have no options."This can only mean that men find these niche sexual habits to be wholesome." It can also mean some people find waking up early to watch the sunrise wholesome, while other people find sleeping in and breakfast in bed wholesome. But you jump to the most hateful conclusion possible | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 02:28 PM |
| – | Men have no options."He most likely only wants the most attractive women," What a hateful conclusion to jump to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 02:27 PM |
| – | Men have no options.Wow. What a hateful conclusion to jump to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 01:33 PM |
| – | Men have no options.Yeah I'm confused if this means like 50,000 years ago or something. Because "I know it's become normalized for people to reproduce to the point where you are viewed as a failure if you don't, but during the ice age only 40% of men reproduced so you can't really complain," seems like a really strange argument to make | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 12:33 PM |
| – | Men have no options.That's an extremely hateful conclusion to jump to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 11:58 AM |
| – | Men have no options.Huh? Men who develop feelings for their friends are interested in wholesome memories and their advances are almost always unwanted | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 11:52 AM |
| – | Men have no options.What does "throughout human history" mean, exactly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 11:46 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you date a woman who took "How to talk to men" classes?The beautiful thing about the internet is you don't have to guess. You can look it up. In the United States, it's roughly 10%. So, two conclusions. Another example how useless this tool is and how it shows nothing whatsoever You said "most men are living in poverty" when only 10% of men live in poverty. "Most" means over 50%. Please stop attacking men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 10:20 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: first date, she tells you her birthday is in 2 weeks. How much do you gift her on the spot?on the tread? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 03:10 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you date a woman who took "How to talk to men" classes?So, if a man having a low score means that most men think most women are too fat and/or old to be attractive, then that means, based on your score, most women think most men are too poor to be attractive Which is, of course, an absurd conclusion to draw. Do you see now how little this tool shows? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 03:07 AM |
| 3 | I think a lot of people going forward have to just get over the idea of sex and relationships"When guys on this sub say advice doesn't work, what they mean is "it doesn't guarantee success" which nobody can give" Right, but the advice is often times given as a guarantee, i.e. "just put yourself out there and be open to meeting people and you'll find someone," hence the frustration when that guarantee turns out to not be real | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/25 01:48 PM |
| 2 | I think a lot of people going forward have to just get over the idea of sex and relationshipsAgreed. But I also think, at a certain point, no matter how content you are being alone, it starts to feel pretty shitty if you want to experience a fundamental human thing and aren't able to. This idea that men should just be happy being alone forever because other parts of their lives are good is...a little idealistic at best, and wildly naive and disconnected from reality at worst | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/25 01:01 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you date a woman who took "How to talk to men" classes?"Now you’re making a personal attack" Says the person who literally cannot stop inventing statistics and insisting they are 100% true when there is no truth to them whatsoever in order to indiscriminately attack all men. How about you take your own advice and stop attacking an entire gender before criticizing others for attacking an individual? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/25 11:24 AM |
| 4 | I think a lot of people going forward have to just get over the idea of sex and relationshipsBecause the advice doesn't work unless you already possess the traits that make someone attractive, in which case you never needed the advice to begin with, so it doesn't work for the people who need the advice because they don't possess the traits necessary to make the advice work | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/25 11:15 AM |
| 0 | Q4M: first date, she tells you her birthday is in 2 weeks. How much do you gift her on the spot?Used to be. Now women laugh at and mock men who do this for being stupid enough to think she gives a single shit about him buying her stuff. Women are the ones who decided this is now "simping", not men. So blame women for conditioning men to feel like being nice without getting anything in return is shameful and pathetic, not men for being conditioned by women to feel this way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/25 10:55 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: first date, she tells you her birthday is in 2 weeks. How much do you gift her on the spot?Literally all simping is an act of intent. So therefore all simps must be super dominant. Never heard that one before | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/25 10:50 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you date a woman who took "How to talk to men" classes?Huh. As soon as it's your turn to use the tool, you suddenly stop responding. How interesting! I'll take that as admittance that nothing you said has any basis in reality whatsoever and you totally and completely made it up and convinced yourself it was true in order to attack men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/25 09:41 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: first date, she tells you her birthday is in 2 weeks. How much do you gift her on the spot?If doing something as easy as sending money counts as marking territory, then buying a girl dinner or a present does too. And all acts of simping are dominant and marking territory | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you date a woman who took "How to talk to men" classes?My age range would be 27-35, so probably lower than that. What's yours? If it's higher than 7%, I'll be absolutely shocked. I don't really know what you think this tool proves? For example, I can find someone who is 45 attractive but not want to date them because, ya know, they'd be 15 years older than me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 11:37 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you date a woman who took "How to talk to men" classes?How about this, when you finally give me the data showing most men think most women are too old and fat for them, I’ll try the tool | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you date a woman who took "How to talk to men" classes?I definitely do not, but you sure are good at putting words in my mouth and trying to gaslight me into thinking I said them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you date a woman who took "How to talk to men" classes?I didn’t try the tool. You gave me a blank website | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you date a woman who took "How to talk to men" classes?Okay? Women use men being short to justify finding them unattractive. Is that against the rules now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 05:00 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you date a woman who took "How to talk to men" classes?I have no idea, everyone has different preferences and trying to make a definitive statement about an entire gender of billions of people is beyond my pay grade | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you date a woman who took "How to talk to men" classes?It usually is Again, please show the facts and stats and evidence showing over 50% of men think this. You still haven't | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you date a woman who took "How to talk to men" classes?"“I know most women don’t have a BMI under 25 but it’s their choice to be unattractive!!!”" What? All I said is that it's crazy to say that losing weight is equally as difficult as getting out of poverty. The fact that you are legitimately equating those two things is just so wildly naive and shows a severe lack of understanding of how the world works | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you date a woman who took "How to talk to men" classes?Because you are? At least, by your own definition of what counts as an attack on women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you date a woman who took "How to talk to men" classes?Humans being more superficial than they admit does not prove over 50% of men think most women are too old and fat for them. Please stop trying to distract from the topic at hand to avoid admitting you can't prove your point and are just indiscriminately attacking men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you date a woman who took "How to talk to men" classes?That shows what men find most attractive. Not what they consider too old and fat for them. Please prove your point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you date a woman who took "How to talk to men" classes?"Even you say being fat is a choice therefore it’s justified to find women unattractive for having a BMI over 25" lol no I didn't, I said equating losing weight to getting out of poverty is wild I also never said anything about who I do or do not find attractive. Literally you are inventing things and telling me I said them when I never said them. Please stop putting words in my mouth. That's an attack | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you date a woman who took "How to talk to men" classes?lol wut? How does this prove over 50% of men think most women are too old and fat for them? "Men are the ones who don’t want 96.4% of women." You need to show evidence that over 50% of men feel this way. You saying that is the case does not make it so. Please show your data proving this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you date a woman who took "How to talk to men" classes?"most men" Please prove over 50% of men feel this way. One post from one person is not more than 50% of men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you date a woman who took "How to talk to men" classes?The same reason women virtue signal and claim they care about personality and aren't as shallow as men: it feels good to pat themselves on the back | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 02:45 PM |
| 6 | Men love idealistically, where women love opportunistically.You realize religion was created to pacify people's fear of death and other unknowns, right? Literally created to help deal with trauma | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 12:01 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you date a woman who took "How to talk to men" classes?Now you're attacking poor people too? No it's not. If you are trying to say being fat and being born into poverty are equivalent problems.....wow | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 09:41 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you date a woman who took "How to talk to men" classes?What men? where are you stats showing over 50% of men feel this way? Or are you just assuming things in order to attack men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 09:40 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you date a woman who took "How to talk to men" classes?"But the reality is that most women are too old or fat for most men." This is an attack. Provide stats proving this, or stop attacking men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 09:39 AM |
| 1 | Women want men who are kind , Emotionally available , considerate but they will throw away all of that for a guy thats just tall , funny and good in bedGot it, that makes more sense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 09:37 AM |
| 1 | Women want men who are kind , Emotionally available , considerate but they will throw away all of that for a guy thats just tall , funny and good in bed"There are more short men than tall men" Uhh how did you decide this? Because it's not really how numbers work... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 09:34 AM |
| 8 | Q4M: first date, she tells you her birthday is in 2 weeks. How much do you gift her on the spot?Being so insecure about other men buying her drinks he bribed her with $300 not to do it is being dominant? How so? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 09:14 AM |
| 5 | "Chad" is less likely to be misogynistic than a sexually inexperienced man: A study found that the more sexually experienced a man is, the more biased he is towards women.But if a man did it you’d label it bullying and an attack | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/25 06:01 PM |
| 1 | TV show Adolescence gets the pipeline completely wrongIt is you! Saying men are more qualified speaking about what it's like being a man than a woman is = brutal bullying. Got it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/25 09:57 AM |
| 4 | "Chad" is less likely to be misogynistic than a sexually inexperienced man: A study found that the more sexually experienced a man is, the more biased he is towards women.aren't you the one who routinely stereotypes and makes sweeping generalizations about men then calls it a personal attack and an example of how hateful men are if someone points this out? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/25 09:42 AM |
| 7 | Men are shamed both for failing at sex and for succeeding at it."man expresses the slightest frustration about being single: "loser no woman wants"" Wow you could not have done a better job proving this guy's point, thank you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/25 11:17 AM |
| 1 | Why do a lot of you say, it’s easy for men to get a date nowadays when it really isn’t?"It sounds like words someone who knows nothing about women would guess women like." The "textbook" answer? You mean the one you read out of a book because you know nothing about women and have to guess what they like? Why would I want that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/25 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Why do a lot of you say, it’s easy for men to get a date nowadays when it really isn’t?Weird you can't name them. And extremely weird the self-proclaimed safety expert is shocked that giving a person space to be themselves without being judged makes them feel safe | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/25 03:49 PM |
| 2 | Why do a lot of you say, it’s easy for men to get a date nowadays when it really isn’t?huh? Why are you shocked? Not judging people is the easiest way to make people feel safe. For someone who is so proud of how great he is at making women feel safe, kind of strange that you're shocked that something as simple as not being judgmental makes women feel safe, like....how do you not know that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/25 03:25 PM |
| 2 | Why do a lot of you say, it’s easy for men to get a date nowadays when it really isn’t?"That's definitely an answer to my question, but I can't see the argument your making. It sounds like words someone who knows nothing about women would guess women like." Okay. Just telling you what's worked for me in the past. If that's not good enough for you, take it up with those women and tell them they're wrong for feeling safe around me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/25 03:21 PM |
| 2 | Why do a lot of you say, it’s easy for men to get a date nowadays when it really isn’t?"'how would you make a woman feel safe?'." Compassion, understanding, consistency | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/25 01:37 PM |
| 1 | CMV: dating is harder for women because we have to look goodDawg do you not know what the word "theoretical" means? Like, I'm genuinely confused what's confusing you about this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/25 11:42 PM |
| 1 | CMV: dating is harder for women because we have to look good"Ok where’s the proof she’s beautiful?" Did you not read what I wrote? "We're talking about a theoretical woman who is 5'2 and beautiful" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/25 11:35 PM |
| 1 | CMV: dating is harder for women because we have to look goodRight, which is why this guy's idea that if you aren't a model, you must be ugly, is fucking crazy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/25 02:51 PM |
| 1 | CMV: dating is harder for women because we have to look goodWhat? We're talking about a theoretical woman who is 5'2 and beautiful, but who is not a model because she's 5'2, despite having a good enough face and body to model. You are arguing it's not possible for a person like this to exist, I'm asking why you think so | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/25 11:47 AM |
| 1 | CMV: dating is harder for women because we have to look good" My point was most women can’t be any type of model or get a successful man because she is unattractive." True! But why does that mean the gorgeous woman who is too short to be a model isn't gorgeous because she's not a model, as you're arguing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/25 11:31 AM |
| 1 | CMV: dating is harder for women because we have to look goodI'm confused, are you saying men don't consider any woman under 5'9 attractive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/25 11:25 AM |
| 1 | CMV: dating is harder for women because we have to look good"She’s not a model, for a reason" You know models have to be tall, right? A woman could have a scientifically perfect face, but if she's 5'2 she won't make it as a model outside of instagram/onlyfans | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/25 11:03 AM |
| 1 | "Your value is what you can get" is a useless tautology that purely serves as a thought-terminating cliche."This is how most men treat women. See attached. Men enjoy berating and mocking women" Then so is this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/25 11:48 AM |
| 1 | Men are men"Men don’t like women their age. Men want the youngest women they legally can date." I assume you forgot to add the word "some" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/25 11:42 AM |
| 2 | Men are menI said to prove women care more about personality than looks, not that women care more about personality than men. I'm not reading that whole thing, but the second sentence of the results section says this: "Overall, the distribution between the nine traits follows a similar pattern for both sexes; for example, the three personality traits, physical build, and attractiveness, are rated quite high on the importance scale for both sexes, while age, intelligence, and education are more evenly rated… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/25 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Men are menWhere are these stats? And that doesn’t mean they don’t become less attracted as they age, which is your claim | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/25 02:58 PM |
| 1 | Men are menThat doesn’t prove women value personality. I’ve never, ever met a woman who values personality as much as looks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/25 02:51 PM |
| 1 | Men are men“This is because women value personality in our partners” Prove it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/25 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Men are men“This post is about how maintaining relationships with men is impossible because of their biology whereas women can be just as attracted to their partners as they age.” For this to be true you would have to prove women remain just as attracted to their partners as they age. You haven’t. This post is about bashing men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/25 02:46 PM |
| 4 | Q4M: Why don't you rely on other people's opinions more when dating?lol because they're so sensitive to criticism. They need to make sure they won't be criticized so they check to make sure other people approve of their potential partner before making them their partner | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/25 03:44 PM |
| 6 | Q4M: Why don't you rely on other people's opinions more when dating?Because women see their partners as status symbols and need to make sure other women will approve before deciding to date someone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/25 03:42 PM |
| 1 | This subreddit is all about statistics until it makes men look bad."I didnt say that." "Correlation does not equal causation. Do they actually look into what was HAPPENING in these households and WHERE these households were? " Sounds a lot like you're saying other factors explain the statistic, but okay | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 02:12 PM |
| 1 | Are most women standoffish because that is their nature or is it a social construct?Not sure what's convenient about it, but okay | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 02:09 PM |
| 7 | This subreddit is all about statistics until it makes men look bad."But bring up that 90% of rapists are men, then we see cries of sexism and not looking at other factors." I'm so confused. You said the 80% of rapists come from fatherless homes can't be true because of other factors. You didn't say what those factors were or how they prove the stat isn't true, you just said the stat isn't true because there are other factors (which, again, you couldn't list or explain but assume the existence of) explaining why it's not true. And that's fine? But if men do it..… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 01:28 PM |
| 2 | You can fall in love with someone because of only their personalityNot sure what that has to do with what I said, but....okay! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 01:12 PM |
| 1 | Are most women standoffish because that is their nature or is it a social construct?I have no idea who you are or what assertion I did or did not make to you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 12:44 PM |
| 1 | Bringing up fatherlessness is right wing virtue signaling.I'm confused, does a father not count as a family member? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 12:42 PM |
| 2 | Bringing up fatherlessness is right wing virtue signaling.“You can say that about any other family member.” “Of course” Correct. We already went over this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 01:23 AM |
| 2 | Bringing up fatherlessness is right wing virtue signaling.Pretty amazing that you’re still putting words in my mouth, even after being called out for it…twice “I'm not, I'm saying it's a possible benefit of having a father” I explicitly said “possible benefit,” not that it would guarantee anything | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 12:57 AM |
| 2 | Bringing up fatherlessness is right wing virtue signaling.I’m not. You made that up and told me that’s what I think. Like I said, pulling things out of mid air | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 12:51 AM |
| 2 | Bringing up fatherlessness is right wing virtue signaling.Doing it again | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 12:48 AM |
| 2 | Bringing up fatherlessness is right wing virtue signaling.No because I keep making basic statements and you keep pulling things out of thin air and claiming I assumed them, in order to villainize fathers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 12:46 AM |
| 2 | Bringing up fatherlessness is right wing virtue signaling.Of course It seems like you really hate fathers...or more accurately the idea of a good father | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 12:38 AM |
| 2 | Bringing up fatherlessness is right wing virtue signaling.What? Where did I ever say it's not the same for a mother? Of course it's the same for a mother. So weird to be accused of "making alot of assumption" when I'm making simple statements (more parents = more chances of noticing a child being abused) and you're reading way, way too much into them. Is this what gaslighting is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 12:34 AM |
| 2 | Bringing up fatherlessness is right wing virtue signaling."Why are you assuming a man will automatically be supportive? " I'm not, I'm saying it's a possible benefit of having a father "Explain Brock Turner." I don't know who Brock Turner is and I'm not going to look it up "Why are you assuming a man will automatically be observant? Are we pretending men never abuse the children in their custody?" I'm not, I'm saying it's a possible benefit of having a father. And I'd add that, obviously, chances are far higher a father protects his children than abuse… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 11:10 PM |
| 2 | Bringing up fatherlessness is right wing virtue signaling."If people are running around with untreated mental illnesses, what good is a father going to do?" Support the kid and get them the help they need "If people think the only way to get by is getting into crime where the end result is jail or an early grave, what good is a father gonna do?" Provide resources so you don't need to resort to crime to get them "If everyone’s too busy to watch out for the girl getting groomed (which a large reason why teen motherhood is a thing) what good is a father g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 03:15 PM |
| 1 | You can fall in love with someone because of only their personalityI've never understood the disdain of single moms, so I don't have a good sense of this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 02:45 PM |
| 5 | You can fall in love with someone because of only their personality"The whole "nobody wants fat chicks" needs to go." Agreed! So weird to me how adamant women here are that men just want to fuck the skinniest person they can find with the fakest tits when it's so obviously not true. Just like it's obviously not true that women only want to fuck 6-6-6 men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 01:44 PM |
| 2 | You can fall in love with someone because of only their personality"So is it perhaps a battle of brain versus hard for most situations like that?" Oh, definitely. Reading a post about falling in love with a fat chick because of her personality then saying "it's not like men love fat chicks for their personality!" is just bizarre. I'm used to women gaslighting themselves into thinking they aren't just as shallow as men, but this is next level | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 01:27 PM |
| 1 | Are most women standoffish because that is their nature or is it a social construct?No you did it because you're upset. I can tell you what you think and feel because I'm using textual evidence, remember? So it has to be true, according to you and your rules | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 01:15 PM |
| 1 | Are most women standoffish because that is their nature or is it a social construct?"Because you're so upset now that it's fun for me" lol that's where I'm at. you keep downvoting though, so you win the being upset contest. And I'm even using textual evidence which means it has to be factually true and is not gaslighting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 01:11 PM |
| 1 | Are most women standoffish because that is their nature or is it a social construct?You aren't quitting either, stop projecting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 01:06 PM |
| 1 | Are most women standoffish because that is their nature or is it a social construct?lol still telling me what I think and feel, huh? "when you do it's gaslighting and mean but when I do it it's true!!!!!!" glad you want to play by different rules | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 01:02 PM |
| 2 | You can fall in love with someone because of only their personalityI agree. Still weird to read an example of the exception and respond by saying it's impossible | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 12:56 PM |
| 1 | Are most women standoffish because that is their nature or is it a social construct?lol still telling me what I think, huh? "when you do it's gaslighting and mean but when I do it it's true!!!!!!" glad you want to play by different rules | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 12:54 PM |
| 1 | Are most women standoffish because that is their nature or is it a social construct?Guess we'll just have to agree to disagree at how good you are at expressing yourself. You think you're way better at it than you are | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 12:52 PM |
| 1 | Are most women standoffish because that is their nature or is it a social construct?"when you do it's gaslighting and mean but when I do it it's true!!!!!!" glad you want to play by different rules. Enjoy your day, ms. fragile princess | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 12:49 PM |
| 2 | You can fall in love with someone because of only their personalityMaybe! Not sure what that has to do with what I said, but you're right! That's definitely possible! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 12:34 PM |
| 1 | Are most women standoffish because that is their nature or is it a social construct?lol did you even read what you wrote? You said "yes, speaking is always intentional." The question was, do you go out of your way to intentionally avoid speaking to people. Saying speaking is always an intentional choice doesn't answer that question, at least not in any direct way. Really weird to go off on how I can't read when you don't even know what you wrote | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 12:31 PM |
| 4 | You can fall in love with someone because of only their personalityI just don't understand how you can be so good at gaslighting yourself that you can read a post that's literally about a man falling in love with a fat chick because of her personality and respond to it saying "it's not like men fall in love with fat chicks for their personalities!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 12:19 PM |
| 1 | Are most women standoffish because that is their nature or is it a social construct?Didn't you tell me earlier that I was being serious when I said I was kidding? So it's cool when you do it, but gaslighting when I do it? Not going to lie, telling me that me telling you how you feel is gaslighting, but that you telling me how I feel isn't, feels a lot like gaslighting... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 12:14 PM |
| 5 | Women who want a provider don't seem to realise that hes gonna want something in return.This is a really weird response. Do you disagree? Are you saying people are not responsible for their own problems? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 12:04 PM |
| 13 | You can fall in love with someone because of only their personality"why don’t men fall in love with fat chicks and single moms for their amazing personality? Since it’s so easy and can happen to anyone?" You literally just read a post about a man falling in love with a fat chick because of her personality? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 12:01 PM |
| 1 | Are most women standoffish because that is their nature or is it a social construct?lol saying you got upset when you got upset isn't gaslighting, it's describing what occurred | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 11:49 AM |
| 7 | Women who want a provider don't seem to realise that hes gonna want something in return.That's great! Just pointing out everyone is responsible for their own problems. Not just red pill men. It sounded like you were saying only red pill men are responsible for their problems, while every other group can blame someone else for their problems, which I disagree with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 11:47 AM |
| 2 | Women who want a provider don't seem to realise that hes gonna want something in return.Mods have been asleep all week. Letting a crazy number of obviously misandrist circle jerk posts fly, letting people post as frequently as they want, it's been weird | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 11:43 AM |
| 15 | Women who want a provider don't seem to realise that hes gonna want something in return."The men on this sub who identify as redpill are 100% responsible for their own problems" Just like the women on this sub who identify as red or blue pill are also 100% responsible for their own problems. That's how being a person works. You're responsible for your own problems | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 11:40 AM |
| -4 | Women who want a provider don't seem to realise that hes gonna want something in return."People using the cringe term "extracting resouces" are certainly a thing these days." I agree, very round about way of saying "take advantage of people" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 11:37 AM |
| 1 | Are most women standoffish because that is their nature or is it a social construct?I mean, this is reddit. I'm not sure how you're disagreeing on that. Obviously you take it extremely (i'd say overly seriously since simple comments are making you so upset, but that's your call) seriously. That we can disagree on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 11:35 AM |
| 1 | Are most women standoffish because that is their nature or is it a social construct?lol no you didn't. Do you, or do you not, intentionally go out of your way to avoid talking to people? "yes" or "no" works better than musing on the intentionality of speaking | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 11:34 AM |
| -4 | Women who want a provider don't seem to realise that hes gonna want something in return.How old are you? Because trying to extract resources from men is definitely a thing these days. "Use him before he uses you," is how I've heard women describe it to me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 10:13 AM |
| 2 | Men will always have to be the ones to approach"Well if you want to talk empirically, men report that their wives are usually one of their only sources of emotional support. Men’s health improves when married, they’re happier. Women take off domestic burdens and they’re generally softer, a bit more sociable and more attractive." Men offer these things. I said I wanted the list of things men don't offer that women are constantly complaining about that women do. Emotional support and chores? Men offer those things. I'll ask again: what do wome… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 09:12 AM |
| 1 | Are most women standoffish because that is their nature or is it a social construct?No I just thought it's Reddit, and really not that deep. If I'd known it's that deep for you and you take Reddit so seriously | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 08:59 AM |
| 1 | Are most women standoffish because that is their nature or is it a social construct?Okay, my bad. Guess my observation was incorrect. Sorry, didn't realize one sentence would upset you so much | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Are most women standoffish because that is their nature or is it a social construct?That you took an observation as an insult makes me think it's you who's butthurt and projecting "for some reason, people feel like they can talk to me out of the blue" sounds like someone who doesn't think kindly of others. That's an observation. Not an insult | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 11:21 PM |
| 1 | Are most women standoffish because that is their nature or is it a social construct?"You sound awfully butthurt for no reason though" In that case, I'm sorry you misinterpreted things | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 11:07 PM |
| 1 | Are most women standoffish because that is their nature or is it a social construct?Yeah you pretty much sound like someone who thinks badly of people and looks down on them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 11:01 PM |
| 8 | Men will always have to be the ones to approach"yet men offer nothing" What do women offer? Genuinely asking, I always hear women say men have nothing to offer, but they never say what it is they offer that men don't Women want a lot more than just genuine connection. If that was the case, the "nice guy" who wants genuine connection but offers nothing besides that wouldn't be almost universally despised by women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 10:53 PM |
| 1 | Are most women standoffish because that is their nature or is it a social construct?That’s a lot of words to not answer a pretty easy question | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Are most women standoffish because that is their nature or is it a social construct?I already answered this, but I guess I can do it again: " if you intentionally avoid interacting with a group of people, it typically means you think there's something bad about them" Do you go out of your way to intentionally avoid talking to people on the street? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 05:10 PM |
| -2 | Are most women standoffish because that is their nature or is it a social construct?Yes, if you intentionally avoid interacting with a group of people, it typically means you think there's something bad about them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 04:07 PM |
| 3 | Why are men so much harsher on weight than women?If you're over consuming calories, you are not eating healthy. It is literally impossible to over eat and also eat healthy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 03:33 PM |
| -2 | Are most women standoffish because that is their nature or is it a social construct?She intentionally avoids talking to them. Certainly comes off as thinking they're bad and need to be avoided | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 02:37 PM |
| 1 | The common misconception among women. We need to get over it as soon as possible to avoid unnecessary repeated arguments." And funny that she called him weird for being short and he's tall" Kind of thing that feels like telling on herself. Has no idea how tall he is, but she knows she doesn't like him, so in her mind he becomes short because she finds him gross, and gross = short | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 02:31 PM |
| 0 | Are most women standoffish because that is their nature or is it a social construct?Acting like men need to be avoided because they misinterpret kindness as interest, and therefore are bad people, is what I disagreed with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 02:29 PM |
| 3 | The common misconception among women. We need to get over it as soon as possible to avoid unnecessary repeated arguments."Why would you expect someone to know that?" I don't know how to answer this without sound like an asshole. It just seems kind of obvious that, if you're going to label someone as ugly due to their shortness, you would know how tall they are? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 12:10 PM |
| 9 | Why are men so much harsher on weight than women?I hope this is just a troll post. Because is she sincerely lacks the mental capacity to see how much harsher women are towards men's height than men are towards women's weight...yikes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 11:52 AM |
| 11 | Why are men so much harsher on weight than women?Just like it's shallow for women to cause short men to kill themselves because women are always saying how disgusted they are by shortness | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 11:44 AM |
| 8 | Why are men so much harsher on weight than women?Why are men harsh about weight? The same reason women are harsh about height. Obviously. Did you not think it through enough to figure that out on your own? I'm confused why you're asking this question when you already know the answer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 11:41 AM |
| 0 | Are most women standoffish because that is their nature or is it a social construct?"Being randomly nice to guys is basically something that only old ladies can get away with." I don't think it's this, it's that people are so rarely nice to men they think what women consider basic decency is interest. When you're used to people acting like you don't exist, someone saying something nice to you seems like a possible sign of interest. This weird narrative where men are horrible people because they experience kindness so rarely that they don't even know what it looks like, needs to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 11:11 AM |
| 0 | The common misconception among women. We need to get over it as soon as possible to avoid unnecessary repeated arguments.Do you not know Vance is 6'2? Or is that just a really bizarre example? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 10:58 AM |
| – | Dating for women is a swamp. Dating for men is a desert. Neither can ever sympathize with the others complaints, because we (say) we want want what the other has.Well it was a brilliant choice nonetheless | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 04:07 PM |
| – | Dating for women is a swamp. Dating for men is a desert. Neither can ever sympathize with the others complaints, because we (say) we want want what the other has.I don't know if using Dasani as the "fancy" water was intentionally brilliant or not, but it is brilliant. Because Dasani has salt in it, it's designed to make the drinker always crave more. Which I think sums up the general disposition of women in 2025 quite nicely | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Men do not like natural womenThese kinds of posts are so funny considering how much pickier women are than men. OP would have killed herself years ago if she were born a man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/25 12:06 PM |
| – | Women ARE wonderfullol right on cue, here come the mods pretending this isn't cirlce jerking and a post titled "men are wonderful" wouldn't immediately be taken down for circle jerking | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/25 09:49 AM |
| – | Women ARE wonderfullol right on cue, here come the mods pretending this isn't a circle-jerk post, even though a "men are wonderful" post certainly would qualify as such | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/25 09:43 AM |
| – | Women ARE wonderfulBan from ppd incoming | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/25 09:37 AM |
| – | Women ARE wonderfulSo funny how the mods let women post stuff that blatantly breaks the rules over and over and over again | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/25 09:24 AM |
| – | Men's love and attraction is conditional on a women being young and attractiveOnly against the rules for men, apparently | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 12:45 PM |
| – | Men's love and attraction is conditional on a women being young and attractiveI thought woe-is-me/incel/blackpill posts aren't allowed? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 11:29 AM |
| 1 | Men's love and attraction is conditional on a women being young and attractive"men's number one thing they care about in a partner is looks." Hate to break it to you, but this is number one on women's lists, too. Humans are shallow. Literally the thing women here complain about most is men not understanding how much they care about looks and thinking being nice or attentive is enough to be attractive. It's not a man vs woman thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 10:46 AM |
| 0 | CMV : playing seduction "mind games" only works with women who are more interested than you areYeah that's a nice story book way to say it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/25 04:16 PM |
| 0 | CMV : playing seduction "mind games" only works with women who are more interested than you areThat's what I said: the "i have options but i'm not going to talk about them" energy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/25 04:10 PM |
| 0 | CMV : playing seduction "mind games" only works with women who are more interested than you areOh okay, so you want the "i have options" energy, but don't want to hear about the options | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/25 02:56 PM |
| -1 | CMV : playing seduction "mind games" only works with women who are more interested than you areI don't know how you can say that "either extreme sucks" and also that you don't like men having options who aren't you. The two don't really work together. If a guy only feels like he has one option, he's almost certainly going to be overly clingy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/25 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Do Modern men lack personal responsibility?Which ones? Where? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/25 01:59 PM |
| 1 | Do Modern men lack personal responsibility?Yet here you are, posting about how teenage girls calling each other “females” dehumanizes women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/25 01:21 PM |
| – | Do Modern men lack personal responsibility?I agree. Unfortunately that’s my job so I don’t have a choice. But that’s also how I know you shouldn’t be letting them upset you so much | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/25 01:10 PM |
| – | Do Modern men lack personal responsibility?lol imagine giving yourself high blood pressure over teenager girls calling each other female and telling people trying to help you that you don't want to be told it's not worth having an aneurysm over | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/25 12:32 PM |
| – | Do Modern men lack personal responsibility?lol kids calling themselves "females" isn't evil, you really need to chill the fuck out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/25 11:54 AM |
| – | Do Modern men lack personal responsibility?"I say Morden men cause in a time when people are meant to be equal, men are using deliberate language that refer to woman as lesser." lol I work with kids. High school girls these days refer to themselves primarily as "females." Boys call them "girls," but girls call themselves "females." Don't know where that came from or how it started, but I don't think it means what you think it means, chill out with the doom and gloom | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/25 11:39 AM |
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