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DebateIcy_Ad_4544/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 10:28 PM
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Question For MenIcy_Ad_4544/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 06:40 PM
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I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 02:10 AM
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Just pure jealousy. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 01:40 AM
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The only thing women want from you is to leave them alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 01:28 AM
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Straight facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 06:30 PM
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Oh I agree! I have either worked or been in college since he was born because being a SAHM is not something I’ve been interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 06:29 PM
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A man doesn’t have a cervix - so he can’t get cervical cancer. Same thing. Now it’s even.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 05:22 PM
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This should be common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 05:10 PM
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Unfortunately a lot of people are young and dumb lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 05:07 PM
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Unless they are young and dumb like I was at 19 🤦‍♀️ - no STIs or unplanned pregnancy THANK GOD. I still shake my head at the dumb shit I did back then.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 05:04 PM
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That makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 05:02 PM
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Omg is that that creepy guy that men post calling Chad?! It looks like him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 02:52 PM
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Omg and when they do it more than once!! Like it has to be a mental illness.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 02:50 PM
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Lmao it’s not an accomplishment. Just a fact. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 02:43 PM
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No. Incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 02:39 PM
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Happily married for almost 20 years. Have never cried about men not wanting to date me. But nice try. 😆😆
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 02:34 PM
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Bald at 20 isn’t bad. Balding at 20 and trying to hold onto hair isn’t attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 02:07 PM
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Yeah it’s always a risk!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 02:07 PM
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It makes me sad too. Being a parent is hard but my son truly is the best part of my life. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 01:58 PM
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Shaved bald is not always unattractive. Balding can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 01:57 PM
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In September my work goes back to full day on Fridays. 😭 It has been so nice only working til noon.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 01:56 PM
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Just another bitter incel. They swarm to this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 01:38 PM
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LOL. Men claiming women have no value while crying that woman won’t date them is hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 01:36 PM
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Too easy to fake a document.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 01:32 PM
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Yep. I was just reading a comment thread from a guy arguing with someone else about how he sees nothing wrong with manipulating women if it gives him a chance to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 01:22 PM
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So true!! They are absolutely clueless.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 01:21 PM
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They literally lack empathy. It’s disturbing. But we’re supposed to feel bad for them because they can’t find a woman to have sex with. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 12:55 PM
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They really think the measly child support most men pay is enough to raise a child so the woman don’t have to financially support her own child. Men without children are absolutely clueless about how much it costs to raise a child to adulthood.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 12:54 PM
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Being taller has nothing to do with dating up.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 12:09 PM
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Supposedly we can all just hop on Tinder and find a rich hot man immediately. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 10:36 AM
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Well go on then and explain all of the women married to men who earn less than them since all women only date up from your observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 10:35 AM
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These kids don’t leave their parents’ basement let alone vote. They might have to interact with a real life woman!! So scary!!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 10:28 AM
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It’s not a dating advice subreddit. It’s for debate - literally in the name lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 01:24 AM
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Yes because there are no female breadwinners or stay at home fathers. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 01:10 AM
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I think for point 1 they really need to focus on improving their facial attractiveness. Even the perfect 10/10 body isn’t going to make up for a 2/10 face. Career can go either way depending on the age of the women. When I was younger (and inexperienced with life LOL!) I didn’t care how much $$$ a guy made or what he did. If I ever had to date again in the future I would definitely care more about him having a job. The status of the job doesn’t really matter. And you are correct on your last poi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 12:30 AM
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Yep! I’m sure there are probably other people who also view “love” differently than you or I do too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 11:39 PM
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Even based on their looks. I have very attractive friends and see attractive men on a regular basis. I have attractive male friends. Yet I do not consider these feelings being “in love” with any.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 11:31 PM
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Lmao. Well what an (redacted)! 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 11:25 PM
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I agree with what you are saying but also need to add that what constitutes a “good” partner should only be determined by the person in the relationship. I think some of the push back from women towards men about this issue comes from the impression that some men are trying to be the authority on what should be a good partner for all women. I don’t think anyone but themselves can decide that. I don’t have much to say on hookup culture because it’s basically always been around since even as far b…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 11:25 PM
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I’m sorry I don’t take relationship advice from single women. Best of luck to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 10:40 PM
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What is the point in your comment? Those people are more WHAT? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 10:38 PM
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Doesn’t seem to be working for the majority of men on this subreddit if that were the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 10:37 PM
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Oh definitely by far!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 09:43 PM
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The majority of men here have not psychologically matured past adolescence..which is an excuse they commonly use for why they only want to date women who are quite younger so they have the same amount of relational / life experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 09:29 PM
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I agree with this but I don’t know very many anti porn women who read smut. The women I know who are anti porn tend to not be very interested in sex as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 08:41 PM
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Dance party !!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 08:38 PM
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Some people marry their affair partner and so they’ve already secured a new partner before ending the marriage. Not super common but I know it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 08:24 PM
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It is. And tbh this sounds like a personal psychological problem to work out with a therapist. There are many men who don’t feel they are required to be financially well off before having relationship. Hell jobless teenagers date all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 07:53 PM
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Girl did you skip over the part where I said I meant the men on this subreddit or are you purposely ignoring it? 🤔 And lmao to your ignorant belief that all women deal with the same problems with their husbands. Typical response from a bitter, single woman. I have no further interest in speaking with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 07:52 PM
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I don’t agree that feeling fond for someone is the same emotion as love. I feel fondly for my friends but I am definitely not “in love” with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 07:48 PM
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Because I talk to men in real life, their partners, and read what men say in this subreddit that they think romantic love from a woman should be like.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 07:33 PM
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I don’t think most people are very good at choosing partners. From what I’ve witnessed with the relationships around me it is more about luck once someone finds someone they think they are compatible with. Otherwise we wouldn’t have so many divorces, infidelity, and emotionally dead marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 07:28 PM
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Thank you for clarifying! In regard to shaming behavior I just do not think it is effective for either gender. People are going to do what they want regardless at least in most Western societies. I also have never heard men shame other men for not being “real men” if they don’t take care of their children. I have heard this said by women to men, though. I am not sure what the punishment/reward has to do regarding men choosing to not actively participate in their children’s lives unless men view …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 07:25 PM
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Hmmm I wonder if some of the disconnect is that men and women are defining “love” differently. I wouldn’t consider feeling fondly for someone based on their looks as being “in love” with them. I would call it infatuated or even limerent. I wonder if men are defining unconditional infatuation/attraction = love.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 07:09 PM
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I married him because I love him and still do. What a silly question. 😆 Apparently I should have put “the men on this subreddit” and not “they” to clarify better.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 06:47 PM
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Oh and age!! Can’t be too old ya know!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 06:15 PM
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Before I respond I have a clarifying question - By “the behavior” are you talking about choosing to have sex with those men/women or something else?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 06:14 PM
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Yes! They are seeking their mothers’ love from their wives and that just is not how romantic love functions. The majority of men in this sub recently said they wouldn’t date a woman if sex was no longer available yet we’re supposed to believe they just love all women unconditionally. Give me a break!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 06:11 PM
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I think most people blame both in those situations. I think both genders just don’t publicly shame those people because it’s pretty pointless to do when the pregnancy is already happening or the child is born. I don’t hear men shame other men for not being involved in their child(ren)’s lives. I do hear women shame other women for having children repeatedly with men who don’t care for them. A lot of men will plan on being involved fathers but then something switches once the baby is born and the…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 05:56 PM
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As one of those “dying breeds” of women it is hilarious that you even try to claim women are loved unconditionally. I guess sex doesn’t count as a condition to men anymore. 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 05:51 PM
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She literally said women are getting pregnant by those men. She didn’t blame the men for the pregnancy. She didn’t blame men for impregnating the women or the women for getting pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 05:49 PM
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Yes!! I just refreshed my hair color (dark brown with burgundy tips) and I feel so fall-ish!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 05:12 PM
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Ok! I’m already not surprised and still don’t give a shit lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 04:55 PM
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Fine with me. The men that don’t want to help don’t have to. I truly just don’t care. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 04:36 PM
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Ok. It’s your life! Live however you want to. Best of luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 04:26 PM
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All of the men I know are actively dating or already partnered. Single men are a rarity around me. 🤷‍♀️ The ones who are single are unattractive physically or unattractive socially due to neurodivergence. I have zero interest in telling others what they should or shouldn’t do. I believe in personal autonomy. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 04:23 PM
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It’s so interesting to me how we all see different interactions on this subreddit. From my perspective I have noticed way more males resorting to personal attacks the minute their rebuttal starts falling apart. Even against other men they will start name calling or just general shit talking.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 04:17 PM
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Well get used it then I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 04:15 PM
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Sure bud. Whatever you want to believe. All of the men in my family and male friends are either dating regularly or in LTR/marriage so I can’t speak for the other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 04:14 PM
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Good for you? Most people don’t care. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 04:12 PM
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Nobody has to do anything they don’t want to. People care about whatever they want to. My guess is the men that do care about these issues have female family and friends that are potentially negatively affected by the issues and they care about those women not women as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 04:09 PM
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Yep! A huge reason why I didn’t have sex or even date in HS. I heard what men would say about girls and that was 20+ years ago before the technology we have today. I couldn’t imagine being a teenage girl today and all they have to worry about with how boys treat them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 03:53 PM
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If that’s how you view neurotypical people then sure. Most people have lied during their life time or been hypocritical about something. Not sure why this is news to you about human behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 03:36 PM
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The ugly men don’t have to if they don’t want to. I don’t care if they do or don’t. And no one can force them. They can just fade into the background. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 03:35 PM
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Sorry helping ugly men have sex isn’t a priority for most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 03:14 PM
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Yes!! This is so true.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 03:00 PM
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Yep. I started puberty around 9-10 and was a solid D cup by 12/13. Somehow in the minds of other teens having large breasts automatically meant a girl was a slut even though I didn’t date or have sex until I was out of high school. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 02:18 PM
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Teenage girls maybe. I haven’t heard any women IRL slut shame since I was out of high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 02:16 PM
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You did a great job!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 01:43 PM
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lol what loser downvoted me telling someone thank you?? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 01:39 PM
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Thanks friend! ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 01:08 PM
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My birthday was this past week and my coworkers spoiled me! It made going back to work after vacation so much better! ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 12:47 PM
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Oh this is a very good point!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 12:47 PM
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Smart thinking and I agree. It is creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 02:55 AM
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Lmao please go whine to someone who cares because it isn’t me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 02:47 AM
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It is pointless for women to try to explain their position on this subreddit because most of the men here don’t want to listen or have their opinions challenged. They aren’t here to learn and listen..they just want to vent. We are accused of lying no matter what we say.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 11:14 PM
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That is just how neurotypical people behave. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 09:40 PM
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Ah true true
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 07:51 PM
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Yep. My sister and her husband are pretty religious/conservative and they met on Hinge I believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 07:50 PM
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Sounds very unrealistic! Even people that have day long sex sessions still take breaks for snacks!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 07:46 PM
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Because her passing out is not a good thing!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 07:45 PM
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Hell no!!! - proud member of the /r/onionhate subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 06:59 PM
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Wanting to kiss her = cute 🥰 Kissing her until she passes out = creepy 😳 🙅‍♀️🚫
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 06:57 PM
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A lot of the men here identify as neurodivergent (usually on the autism spectrum) and consistency/rule following/black and white thinking is a common trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 05:52 PM
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I don’t know anyone that has said casual sex was an amazing experience. They’ve all said it was awkward trying to figure out what the other person liked. I’m sure some people do like it but it seems to not be the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 05:36 PM
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Well if their opinions are excused because of the stereotypes they’ve developed of women then I suppose they can’t complain about the same negative stereotypes women have developed of men - lazy, entitled, foolish, slobbish, etc… 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 03:25 PM
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Not even close!! But there are a lot of cookie cutter looking people here - same with the women. I’m a brunette surrounded by blondes LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 03:21 PM
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I don’t even know who that is or care to look it up 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 03:17 PM
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And even if the man is not insecure his peers may also be bothered by the income disparity and try to make him feel bad about it. I have been the breadwinner for probably 90% of my relationship and so many of my husband’s male friends have tried to make him feel emasculated by it. It’s like they do not believe it when we say the money we earn is our shared funds and we don’t argue over spending. Luckily he is secure enough to not let their comments and opinions be an issue but it always surprise…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 02:32 PM
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Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 12:29 PM
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Some women may feel he is above average depending on what the men in their area look like. He just looks like any guy I would see on the street here. Nothing stands out.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 12:21 PM
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Average. Couldn’t even pick him out of a line up of other mid 20 white males. Nothing unique.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 11:11 AM
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Only way I could do this would be an open relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 04:40 AM
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I think it is pretty rare to find the pure lifelong love. Most of the people I know have a few different relationships throughout their teens and adulthood.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 03:03 AM
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I think there is some truth it this but not sure why it is. I will mention my husband on here but don’t have a need to share about our relationship on social media. It just feels performative for me and the couples I know that do this are always fighting every other day or breaking up and getting back together.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 02:51 AM
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That’s your experience and I am still telling you I have paid even when inviting a guy out. I find it so strange that a woman asked you out on a date, planned it, and then told you to pay at the end. Sounds like they lack manners and you would have dodged a bullet either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 02:28 PM
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Yeah it would still be a NO for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 02:26 PM
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I did not. You projected and took it that way. 🤷‍♀️ Must be a sensitive subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 02:25 PM
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Hmmm why does her face need to be above average if your face is average? Sounds like hypergamy to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 02:04 PM
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Plus for me
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 02:00 PM
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Interesting that you took it as an insult but go off I guess 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 01:59 PM
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At some point it does. I would not want to be the first relationship for a man over 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 01:34 PM
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Sounds like a bunch of haters!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 01:28 PM
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If everything else is already established (financially ready and have a good support system) I’d say late 20s/early 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 01:27 PM
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We have this problem in the USA too. Usually what people will do is start with hiding the keys or a family member will reach out to the doctor office letting them know it’s a concern. Then at the next dr appointment the dr recommends a drivers evaluation and I believe they are then required to go to the DMV and retest. It’s definitely a hard situation when the elderly person in question doesn’t want to stop driving even though they probably should.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 01:24 PM
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Probably doesn’t have one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 01:19 PM
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Same way I’ll pay for a friend of mine if we’re out eating. I was brought up to share and not be selfish. Same!! And it makes me wonder if these guys who complain were not taught this life lesson? I have always paid when I invite someone out for an activity that costs money. It’s just being polite.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 01:15 PM
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Do you understand how Reddit works? I was not commenting on the thread or else I would make my own comment chain. I was responding to the comment about men wanting Stacy and those men wanting to henpeck her into paying. I know a lot of men on here are neurodivergent and struggle with topics changes and keeping up with conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 12:36 PM
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Yes!! Just look up color correcting foundation. 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 07:39 PM
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I thought you were on a casual sex only journey??
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 07:04 PM
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Yep. Not sure how many more times I need to say that I would start a relationship with him regardless of any income. It is not a dealbreaker for me. I have a great income and have been the breadwinner for 90% of our relationship. His income is just for fun money. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 07:03 PM
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You said you’ve never seen anyone so I am simply showing you that men do say it. I could find more.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 07:00 PM
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I know. I was providing an example to show proof that financially supporting a partner is not an issue for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 05:53 PM
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Classic! Have fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 04:54 PM
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It must be because you still seem to be struggling to follow. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 04:36 PM
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Here you go - https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/Gqsu6xWLgV
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 04:35 PM
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What about a diy swamp cooler?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 03:56 PM
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Some people really cling to the past for some reason beyond me
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 03:50 PM
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I’m jealous
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 03:49 PM
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I feel great! Can’t say the same for the majority of men here. They’ve self admitted they’re unemployed and have never dated. They’ve admitted they’re jealous and angry at others who have what they want. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 03:30 PM
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And they think they are so clever about it too! Reminds me of arguing with teenagers. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 02:56 PM
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Struggling with reading comprehension?? I wrote: ..a broke man..who whines about having to shell out $25. I did not write: men who whine about having to shell out $25 are broke.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 02:48 PM
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Yes. It is repulsive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 12:23 PM
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Sure. I would still date and have remained with my husband through multiple periods where he lost a job and I paid the bills. So much for men’s insistence that all women will divorce if a man becomes jobless. 🙄 Based on the other comments it appears like we are at approximately 75% of women saying they would continue to date men and 25% saying no. Much better than the inverse thread where men admitted they would not date or spend time with women without access to sex. Proving again that women ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 11:37 AM
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Oh I am about to go look this up now!! Thank you!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 01:54 AM
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Yes!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 01:51 AM
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Literally. They are so jealous of women they can’t even stand it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 01:44 AM
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Wild that these same men claim that only women are loved unconditionally…yet look what they say when sex is taken away. 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 01:19 AM
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Wild that these same men claim that only women are loved unconditionally…yet look what they say when sex is taken away. 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 01:19 AM
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Depends on how small.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 01:12 AM
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Wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 10:30 PM
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These dudes would not believe how hard George pulled on a regular basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 08:04 PM
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Brad Pitt is OLD and basically a grandpa. Ew. Justin Bieber is fucking hot as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 06:53 PM
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Hell yeah!!! He is so hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 06:52 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 06:46 PM
2

Look at those wittle teeth!!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 06:45 PM
1

Are you looking to me for moral guidance? Hmmm
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 06:40 PM
1

I’m specifically talking about men who are broke and whine about how it impacts their dating lives. Not sure why you are brining up men who are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 06:08 PM
1

Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 06:07 PM
1

I already told you that I do not believe there is any right or wrong when it comes to dating. Please go back and reread my previous comment. https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/XjNHbfeSBw
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 05:09 PM
1

No he can think whatever he wants. It’s his dating life and relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 04:58 PM
1

Oh lol it was just normal tone for me
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 04:57 PM
1

Too lean
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 04:54 PM
5

Most of us women who went through the skinny craze in the 90s/00s aren’t always the same women who are dating today. Even if we teach our children to be accepting of body flaws they are still influenced by their peers/social media and want to impress their peers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 04:50 PM
1

He’s had a few long relationships but is apparently tired of the single life and claims he’s on the search for “the one” now. Fingers crossed he has success.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 04:37 PM
1

I don’t think there is a right or wrong when it comes to dating. People can make whatever choices or qualifiers they want. I think whoever is interested should initiate/approach. I asked my husband to hookup first (we started as FWB) and then he later on asked me to be his official girlfriend. So we both asked for what we wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 04:32 PM
0

Immature men are always pining for the one who got away or their school age crush. I think it’s a lot of projection and men pretending to be women online.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 04:24 PM
3

It’s so crazy to me that men pay for porn when it’s free all over the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 04:23 PM
-1

Someone was just asking where you were! We missed you! ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 04:20 PM
2

Yes if she invited him on the date she should pay. The person who asks should always be the one who offers to cover the expense. Women do this for their friends all the time - myself included.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 04:12 PM
1

Why do you feel weird?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 04:11 PM
1

If you can’t read
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 04:10 PM
5

This was very sweet and I hope she appreciates you!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 04:08 PM
1

My nephew is going through this revelation now. It’s been interesting to listen to him mature over the years as he reaches his mid/late 20s and now looking for a LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 04:07 PM
5

I think some men think we are lying when we say that sex with large dicks is painful. I know I really struggled the first few times my husband and I were intimate to the point we would have to stop all together.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 04:06 PM
0

It really is quite exhausting!!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 04:00 PM
1

Oh!! Like Teen Titans?? I used to watch the cartoon with my son when he was little (not the serious version). Loved it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 03:59 PM
1

I don’t know how the bots work but I’d guess 25% trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 03:57 PM
1

This place is good entertainment that’s for sure!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 03:54 PM
1

Not a clue
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 03:54 PM
2

Read again then. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 03:53 PM
3

Not even just their wives. I know this is hard for you to believe but some people are generous just because they enjoy doing something nice for others. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 03:53 PM
1

Omg it was a classic!! I checked google and it’s saying season 5 episode 21.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 03:52 PM
1

Classic incel logic. 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 03:50 PM
-4

Not in a subreddit full of autistic men trying to understand how social dynamics work I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 03:47 PM
13

Do you live outside of the USA? Most of the women I know who have young children don’t have family available to watch their children because the family is also working. Most people I know do what my husband and I did which was work opposite shifts (me at night and him on days).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 03:35 PM
2

Hey whatever you need to tell yourself bud! You seem to care about their dating lives more than they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 03:27 PM
1

Lmao I see we’ve signed the incels to come join us
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 03:24 PM
4

For that particular man..sure. But I know plenty of men who enjoy spoiling their wives and loved ones and would disagree with your views of what a quality woman is. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 03:23 PM
2

You implied that she (or women) were starting to have their own loneliness epidemic and I was reminding you (or informing you if you are new here) that most of the female posters are in relationships so we aren’t lonely enough to have an epidemic. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 03:21 PM
2

Very true. I wonder if young women don’t know of this phenomenon. We all learned from Seinfeld..I was in the pool!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 03:18 PM
3

Yeah people are weird now about talking to anyone they don’t know in public. Wish we could bring you over here to the US and we could be wing women for ya.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 03:16 PM
0

Glad you are OK!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 12:13 PM
1

Well darn that is a bummer! But I’m glad you still met someone new and struck up a conversation. Better than most on here would have done!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 12:00 PM
4

You kids keep making up new slang words that I have to google 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 11:58 AM
6

I got lucky there!!! I have seen a lot of penis (nurse) and there are tall men with tiny dicks and short dudes with large ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 11:52 AM
1

Many mistresses would agree with you. I think you’d have a blast on the adultery subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 11:51 AM
2

Penis size is back now too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 11:31 AM
1

What does that mean? Did you ask someone on a date?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 11:30 AM
14

lol friend I just commented that some of mine are smaller!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 11:29 AM
8

I’d say mine are mostly the same size or smaller but my husband is well endowed so it’s not too surprising.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 11:28 AM
5

I believe they already make little vibrators that you can wear on your finger.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 11:23 AM
19

Now the floodgates have opened and we’re about to get daily penis size posts again. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 11:22 AM
3

Girl. Most of these men ranting can’t even get a date. They have zero relationship experience. Just ranting broke basement dwellers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 10:45 AM
2

Dude most of the women who post here are married or in LTRs. 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 10:29 AM
4

Less and less men are willing to pay, and if that's your standard, you better be prepared to narrow your pool down significantly. That’s the point lmao. Women are purposely trying to narrow their dating pool to find their person. Women are looking for quality not quantity. She’s not trying to date a bunch of men. She’s trying to narrow it down to find the right man for her. How y’all aren’t understanding this is fucking wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 10:22 AM
2

Girl most of these dudes live at home with their mom, are unemployed, and have never had a relationship, so they’re angry that other men have their shit together and women want the men that do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 10:16 AM
2

Nobody likes to give someone a gift! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 10:13 AM
-1

Typical male response. No rebuttal just personal attacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 10:05 AM
1

They are angels!!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 12:54 AM
1

You always get the RP/incels riled up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 12:50 AM
0

Men get angry when they feel jealous of what others have access to. I’ve had several admit to me they are simply jealous that other people are happy and they are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 12:45 AM
-1

Nailed it!!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 12:44 AM
5

Typical male response per this subreddit. Can’t rebuttal without throwing in an attack towards women. Talking to you is a waste. Bye! ✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 11:19 PM
2

If they are happy being single then that’s great!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 11:10 PM
0

Pretty privilege effects everyone 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 11:07 PM
4

I’d find that more believable if every other post or comment on this sub wasn’t from a man crying about how women won’t date him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 11:06 PM
1

Wow. Well does that make me a Stacy then?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 11:05 PM
2

I’m not seeing those words on my screen. Must be invisible.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 11:04 PM
7

I pray for the day old men (50+) comprehend and accept that women don’t give a fuck if they stay single. There is no shame for women who choose to stay single. Going “boy sober” isn’t a punishment for these women. It’s peaceful.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 10:52 PM
2

What a misandrist statement calling men ignorant fools.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 10:49 PM
1

My kitty kisses me sometimes too!!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 10:41 PM
0

Lmao sounds like you are the one who is struggling to understand how feelings work.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 10:40 PM
2

If those men need OP to tell them how to date then those men have more problems than just dating self centered women. 😆 I’d wager men have more common sense than that. Perhaps he is talking to autistic men who don’t understand social dynamics?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 10:16 PM
2

That could be it!!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 10:13 PM
1

I think this is partly why some people end up in dead bedrooms. It’s like when some women think they are dating a dude’s potential ignoring who he actually is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 10:12 PM
2

Sometimes I will kiss all three of mine at a time! My babies 🥰🥰🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 10:10 PM
1

Probably just how they are raised.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 10:10 PM
3

🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 10:09 PM
1

Is that all a man needs to be a Chad? I would think it would be more unless I’m just lucky to know a bunch of Chad(s).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 10:08 PM
2

You can see boobs for free on the internet dude. Don’t get scammed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 10:06 PM
3

You better not give her rent $$$ after two dates.. come on!!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 10:05 PM
4

Sounds like a scam
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 10:03 PM
1

A guy I knew married a woman with the same name as his mother. I know he doesn’t call his mom by her first name but it would still creep me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 10:03 PM
1

THANK YOU FOR SAYING IT ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 10:00 PM
2

I’ve literally told you multiple times that I do pay if I invite someone to something that costs money lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 09:55 PM
2

Dates don’t have to mean going to a restaurant. Get creative. 🤷‍♀️ And none of this changes the fact that if I invite someone out with me I’m offering to pay the bill. It sounds like men who find paying for an activity they invited someone on have poor social etiquette.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 09:46 PM
3

And? So what if those women are self centered and/or entitled? Men will still want to date these women regardless of whatever OP thinks the men should do. Those men are still getting what they want while the men who don’t pay get ignored or rejected. Makes zero sense for the man who is goin on dates to suddenly change his behavior so poor men become equal options for the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 09:43 PM
1

Same to you on both accounts.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 08:54 PM
6

I don’t think those other men are planning on listening to him. If it’s working in their favor why would they stop just to help some other dude have better odds of scoring a date. Men are too competitive for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 08:52 PM
11

Yep. As if Stacy would ever lower herself for a broke man who whines about having to shell out $25. 😆😆
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 08:51 PM
1

You can only have manners if you date men? Fascinating.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 08:46 PM
1

Do as you wish. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 08:45 PM
1

I guess you don’t grasp the concept that someone must feel a feeling for it to be true lmao. Claiming: You don’t have to feel sad to be sad. You don’t have to feel angry to be angry. You don’t have to feel happy to be happy. Men really don’t understand how feelings work, huh??
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 08:44 PM
0

Too skinny but better shoulders to waist ratio in this pic
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 08:33 PM
0

You assuming my conclusion is flawed is incorrect but you’re free to have your opinion and I’ll keep mine. 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 08:30 PM
1

Lmaooo…yes you do. I can’t believe you typed that with a straight face.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 08:28 PM
1

This is such a strange mindset for me to comprehend because when I invite my friends out for dinner or an activity I always offer to cover the costs. It’s just being polite.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 08:25 PM
1

I’m not embarrassed so he must be. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 08:21 PM
2

Doesn’t seem too baseless to me. TIL men don’t actually want solutions because solutions = insults.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 06:49 PM
-1

I guess you can be embarrassed then. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 06:48 PM
4

I’ve done this with my husband before and it was a dream!! He goes back to work next week after a month layoff and I am freaking sad about losing my SAHD. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 06:44 PM
-2

I disagree. Men have become overly sensitive to any perceived criticism.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 06:43 PM
1

I love glasses on men so the glasses can stay for me. His head/shoulder just seems too large for his body and I don’t like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 06:41 PM
5

I wonder how it keeps finding you! I don’t get any dating stuff in my feeds but I think it’s because this is the only subreddit I interact with that involves gender war crap. I think there is a way you can reset your algorithm but I think it loses all your other stuff too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 06:40 PM
-5

Guess men don’t want to talk about solutions then since her suggestion is apparently considered an insult. I guess men just want to bitch and whine.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 06:38 PM
1

Movie sounds like a win win to me especially if it’s a movie you wanted to see!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 06:36 PM
7

I wonder if men don’t realize this is something women just do when we invite someone out. It’s being polite.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 06:23 PM
3

How is this a trend when I have never seen it cross my algorithm?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 06:21 PM
-1

She didn’t call him gay just made a suggestion 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 06:17 PM
2

Too skinny for my tastes. Not a fan but other women might like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 06:16 PM
2

Well I appreciate the honesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 06:14 PM
2

Yes but people can find time to work out if they care about it. We just workout before work or after.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 06:14 PM
3

Glad you found your person and have many more years together!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 06:10 PM
3

Oh well damn it didn’t turn out very good then
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 05:18 PM
5

That Clavicle guy always has weird flaired nostrils in every pic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 05:16 PM
11

Ok. So don’t pay for dates. Problem solved. The end.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 05:14 PM
3

I’ll take your word for it. I just still think not everyone will agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 05:09 PM
2

Probably all social media/filters. And from what I am told plastic surgery (or anything done to improve looks) is much more affordable now so it’s more accessible and easier to look model like in the current generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 05:08 PM
5

It’s possible but I don’t know what you look like to accurately judge if it’s true. I’m just guessing those women may not have agreed with your own self assessment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 05:05 PM
3

You might be. I’m just guessing those women may not have agreed with your own self assessment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 05:03 PM
2

I love how men describe boobs 🤣 y’all are creative AF
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 05:02 PM
1

I’ve read this twice and still don’t understand the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 04:59 PM
4

Maybe these women thought you were less facially attractive and were equal to their body attractiveness. I think women put more emphasis on facial attractiveness to determine a “looksmatch” and men focus more on body composition.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 04:57 PM
3

I think people either really underestimate their own attractiveness or really overestimate how attractive they are. There doesn’t seem to be much accuracy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 04:55 PM
3

I don’t think they do. I wonder if it’s because we grew up seeing regular looking people and weren’t interacting with celebrities or wannabe celebrities.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 04:53 PM
5

It’s all men know how to do 🤣 They can’t even keep their lies straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 03:29 PM
2

So you are upset that women date and have sex with other men?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 02:54 PM
4

Yes!! This is IT!!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 02:43 PM
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Typical male response. No rebuttal just personal attacks. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 02:22 AM
–

Yes we all got along very well because I was not insecure about being around her.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 02:21 AM
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I must be GigaStacy then because I was friends with my husband’s high school sweetheart/LTR for like 7-8 years. We even all worked together during those years and it was never an issue. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 12:19 AM
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It is a classic that’s for sure!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 12:15 AM
4

Probably trying to make themselves feel powerful by acting like they have any authority over women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 12:02 AM
2

I’m doing it right now so yes you are wrong. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 11:59 PM
3

Strange that misogyny hasn’t stopped then since according to you everyone insists it should be stamped out. And you are wrong. Feeling sorry does matter when it comes to accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 10:52 PM
16

Lmao mowing a lawn is not difficult. It’s literally the same as vacuuming which women do more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 10:48 PM
1

And? So he’s still a misogynist. He can be one if he pleases.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 10:43 PM
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Have fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 09:50 PM
0

Perhaps they don’t feel sorry so there is no point in them giving an insincere apology?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 09:46 PM
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Where? Here??
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 08:27 PM
1

Lmao why are you lying? Where are all these women complaining they can’t have children in their 60+?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 08:27 PM
0

Oh no a woman thought this two years ago..clearly all feminists feel the same way 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 07:22 PM
1

Not what we were discussing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 06:21 PM
0

Yep and somehow they can’t grasp this concept despite being told over and over
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 05:43 PM
-1

Sounds like you have a very boring unadventurous sex life tbh then
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 05:32 PM
2

Have I got the solution for you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 05:18 PM
2

Gotta work on your self esteem and self worth bud
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 05:17 PM
2

Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 04:12 PM
0

I don’t see any other reason it would be an issue. If you are confident in yourself as a partner why else would you care? He/she might think about what sex with your partner was like? Who cares. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 04:11 PM
1

Same!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 04:09 PM
2

I think these guys have watched way too many fictional TV shows and think that is what happens in normal friend groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 04:08 PM
1

I really doubt the OP cares if you don’t find his story a win or sweet. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 03:36 PM
1

lol Who are you talking to??
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 02:49 PM
0

But Chad gets to DoorDash pussy?! Not fair!!1!!1! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 02:48 PM
0

I think it would be different if she called him because she needed something but he clearly wrote that he was the one who called her and she answered the phone. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 02:29 PM
2

5th
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 01:57 AM
1

Now you can watch me perform the female stereotype of avoiding you. Byeee
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 12:44 AM
0

Still pretending to have an audience 🤣🤣🤣 Probably the only way some of you are able to get any female attention
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 08:57 PM
1

Yay go me! 🥳
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 08:55 PM
1

Regardless I still find it pathetic. 🤷‍♀️ It would be a waste of time to try to convince me it is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 06:56 PM
1

I think it’s rather pathetic to have so little resilience that being rejected makes someone feel humiliated.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 06:45 PM
0

Lmao notice how the idiotic male thinks he has an audience and that anyone cares about what he thinks
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 06:44 PM
7

This isn’t gaslighting though
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 03:51 PM
1

Only the best of the best for my son 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 02:39 PM
2

Nope. Wrong per usual. 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 12:56 PM
1

Same as you. It was always a romcom thing. Might have been more true to reality for our parents/grandparents though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 12:02 PM
4

I must have kickass genetics because my short 5’4” self created a 6’8” offspring.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 12:00 PM
2

Lmao this is exactly what happened to a former incel guy my husband grew up with. As soon as he got a gf he thought he was hot shit. 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 11:52 AM
2

Heartbreaking 💔
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 11:48 AM
3

Cleaning lmao We were too poor when I was growing up to have hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 11:47 AM
1

Not that I am aware of but I only know of Tinder Bumble Hinge
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 11:46 AM
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Guess I called it 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 11:35 AM
2

Omg yes!!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 01:24 AM
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Men like him think that other men would just hand out women (pussy) like candy in his made up revenge fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 08:00 PM
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I wholeheartedly agree. I am surprised that the mods have allowed this post to stay up for this long. I guess we are better off reporting to Reddit admins and stop wasting time reporting anything to mods.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 07:58 PM
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Lmao. None of us are afraid of incels no matter how “angry” they are. Y’all just sit in your mommies’ basement crying on incel subreddits and incel.is about how mean women are for not wanting any of you. Wah wah wah.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 07:54 PM
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I’ve noticed a shift in the moderation lately. This has become another incel adjacent subreddit. Unfortunate.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 07:32 PM
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Nice try at backpedaling. Have the day you deserve. 👋
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 06:50 PM
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Another day another PPD incel spouting off rape threats because women won’t give them or their loser friends the time of day. 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 06:35 PM
2

Living together was way better than living apart in the early stages of my relationship. It was so much more fun being able to have sex whenever or wherever we wanted and just spending time together. We are fortunate that we actually enjoyed spending time together because we were actually working together at the same job during year 1-5 of our relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 03:26 PM
2

Girl is crazy. Wow. She definitely needs therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 03:22 PM
1

There seems to be a misunderstanding. I was arguing against how harmful humiliation is not whether it should be done or not. I am arguing that those who are resilient are not as bothered by humiliation.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 02:43 PM
1

Did I say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 01:29 PM
1

For those who are less resilient than average.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 11:27 AM
2

And men who have never dated should not be apart of these discussions either but here they are…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 12:22 AM
0

Whatever you need to tell yourself, bud!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 12:16 AM
1

Just an FYI if you block users you get banned until you unblock them. It’s part of the sub rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 11:55 PM
7

Of course I love to brag about my man! 🥰🥰🥰🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 11:02 PM
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You must not have read in your hurry to type out a response earlier. Me: Lots of fat, bald men with bad teeth in the 50+ crowd. You: those men passport maxx, not sure if old fat women can🤷‍♀️ Me: They don’t need to leave the country to find someone who wants them. Even the women on that 600+ lbs life show have partners somehow. Why spend the money if there are men right here that want them? 🤷‍♀️ At my last job I had a 60 something year old coworker that was still getting more male attention than…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 09:35 PM
1

Yet we were talking about men 50+ who you tried to lump yourself in with to prove “older” men can fuck 20 year olds for free. It was a nice try though! 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 08:48 PM
1

They just say that shit on the comments now 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 08:40 PM
1

I didn’t say your friends were not successful. I’m calling out the lies you’re telling about yourself claiming to be “old” or that you’ve even had sex. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 08:36 PM
1

That is a very interesting claim considering your post history is telling a very different story. Hmmm…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 08:24 PM
2

Diary of butthurt Hilarious and so damn true!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 07:45 PM
1

lol those men are only fucking young, skinny women if they’re paying. 🤣🤣 the women can fuck for free and get their bills paid!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 07:44 PM
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They don’t need to leave the country to find someone who wants them. Even the women on that 600+ lbs life show have partners somehow. Why spend the money if there are men right here that want them? 🤷‍♀️ At my last job I had a 60 something year old coworker that was still getting more male attention than she knew what to do with. I wouldn’t have believed it but I saw it with my own eyes! Men always thirst for women and probably always will I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 07:32 PM
3

There are so many incel adjacent subreddits and somehow they still find their way over here to bother everyone. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 07:27 PM
3

Lmao that might be the most delusional take I’ve read on this subreddit so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 07:25 PM
3

Nope. Just full of hate LOL. My husband’s favorite trait about me. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 07:13 PM
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I couldn’t guess for everyone because I don’t keep track of how people start their relationships. With those I do know it has been 50/50 split on who approaches who. I don’t spend a lot of time with neurodivergent, shy/anxious men though so that could be part of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 07:11 PM
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That’s unfortunate for them. My views seem to be working well enough for me. I’ll be celebrating my 17th wedding anniversary this fall. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 07:09 PM
5

Unhealthy or not it is simply how the world works for most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 07:08 PM
1

That’s pretty much true for everyone. Unfortunately age isn’t always kind to men either. Lots of fat, bald men with bad teeth in the 50+ crowd. Oh well!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 07:07 PM
2

Obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 06:36 PM
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Apparently ..we do ..otherwise men would stop crying that we aren’t choosing them or complain that we don’t want them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 06:31 PM
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What value do you bring to a woman’s life that she couldn’t get from a friend or family member?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 06:29 PM
2

Yet not nearly as many women complaining as there are men. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 06:26 PM
1

I’m sure that is true. Not sure what it has to do with what my comments were about though lol. If you are implying his wife is fat..sorry to burst that bubble..she been thin as long as I’ve known her. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 06:25 PM
3

That’s awesome!!! And happy birthday 🥳
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 05:44 PM
2

I’m sure it happens. In this case however she is the one who is leaving him. He is upset she doesn’t want him anymore. He did gain weight though so I guess it goes both ways. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 05:38 PM
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I kind of think they did (but really don’t want to know the details LOL) because he told us he got a handjob from her a few weeks back and couldn’t wait to tell us. Felt like being back in high school 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 05:37 PM
1

That’s OK. I will gladly give my tax money to women instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 05:30 PM
2

We are in agreement then.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 04:33 PM
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Huh?? Do you really think people don’t make new friends throughout their lives?? It’s not that hard to talk to people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 04:07 PM
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Literally my younger brother right now. He is more obsessed with looks than I have ever been. Luckily his wife doesn’t mind and loves to boost his ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 04:05 PM
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Why do men try to use this subreddit for dating advice? There are so many subreddits already dedicated to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 04:03 PM
6

That’s probably why so many women are choosing to remain single and unattractive men keep throwing pity parties for themselves over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 03:58 PM
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lol that is funny considering I approached my husband before we started dating but go off king if that’s what you need to believe 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 03:57 PM
3

Well I’ve made it 19 years so far and haven’t lost attraction to my husband yet. Maybe in another 19 it’ll happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 03:25 PM
2

Can some of the older men here give their thoughts on if this has always been an issue with men or if it seems to be more pronounced in younger men? It seems like men are way more self conscious than I remember.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 03:16 PM
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Men who never get approached have convinced themselves that women don’t do this. It’s fascinating.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 02:52 PM
5

It’s definitely why men shouldn’t become lazy/complacent that’s for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 02:34 PM
8

I am cracking up right now
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 01:30 PM
1

It would make more sense if he wanted the divorce but he is not happy about it and spent all weekend telling us that he doesn’t understand why she is no longer attracted to him. He is spiraling HARD. Tbh they both sound nuts lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 01:18 PM
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My brother in law is possibly getting divorced (him and his wife keep going back and forth over what they will do) and he thought buying her a vibrator would change her mind. The male mind is fascinating I swear. 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 12:57 PM
2

Oh I agree with you on both counts!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 12:55 PM
2

I would assume he may still have some interest because it’s difficult to just turn off feelings for someone instantly. I wouldn’t change my behavior towards him.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 12:33 PM
2

Do you like to read? Maybe a goal of finishing 1-3 books in a month
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 12:28 PM
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Why wouldn’t you keep searching for someone in the first place? I’m not sure what the link is between a friend rejecting a relationship and finding others to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 12:25 PM
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I would never want to go through the newborn stage again so I think these people are nuts. 🤣 I knew right away one child was my limit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 12:24 PM
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Still down voting LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 11:36 AM
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Cared enough to downvote and no denial of being an incel that I see. Typical. 🤣🤣 Might as well go back to your incel subreddit and leave the adults here alone. 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 10:42 AM
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Wow. Now this is some peak Reddit incel behavior. Attempting to doxx another dude because he makes you angry. Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 10:31 AM
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I feel the same way about incels trying to debate over relationships. It’s very entertaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 03:37 AM
2

Very true!!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 02:52 AM
0

Why not be direct and ask her to be your girlfriend? The worse she can say is no.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 11:06 PM
2

I guess for me I find it strange because I can’t relate to feeling angry that someone else has something I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 11:05 PM
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Some single people get really angry about other people being in relationships. It’s odd but I’ve seen it a few times.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 10:08 PM
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Lmfao. Somehow I am not even surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 10:07 PM
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I am starting to wonder if the men who claim getting into a LTR relationship/marriage are coming from places where arranged marriage is still a thing. I just don’t know any modern women that find relationships with unattractive men appealing unless they are prostitutes but then can you even consider that a true relationship? Hmmm
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 10:00 PM
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How do you know this person is a girlfriend? Are you asking her to be official or just assuming she is your girlfriend after a few dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 09:49 PM
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Hi! Another woman here. 👋 I see this every day with my own two eyes. I don’t know a single woman under 40 that has “settled” for a man she didn’t want sexually and romantically.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 09:44 PM
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Lmao the person you are responding to is a man. 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 09:36 PM
2

Nope. Late 30s so close but not quite there yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 11:07 PM
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We’ve got a couple men in their 50s on here. I was shocked the other day when I found that out lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 09:18 PM
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Are you saying you think women should initiate with men they are not attracted to? If a man and a woman both find each other attractive she is just as likely to initiate then as he is. It sounds like your issue is with men who do initiate in their interactions with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 06:53 PM
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Can you retype this? I don’t understand what you are trying to say at the end to be able to give a response.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 06:24 PM
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I don’t really care about what other women do in their relationships. I just care about what I want and what my husband wants. I love surprising him with things I know he will enjoy so there are women out there that definitely love to spoil their men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 06:22 PM
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I love that little guy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 06:19 PM
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It’s like someone who has never witnessed snow claiming it doesn’t exist. It’s fascinating to watch how deep they sink into denial.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 06:13 PM
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Wrong again. Women are approaching and initiating with the men they actually want. Women have never wanted the majority of men so your rebuttal is pointless. You are projecting male sexuality of quantity over quality as default for both genders. And Dennis Rodman is like 50 and irrelevant. I highly doubt most young women even know who he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 06:09 PM
2

Yes they do. I have patients in their 80s who are still having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 04:30 PM
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Just because women aren’t doing these things with you doesn’t mean women aren’t doing these things at all. Women are approaching and initiating sex/relationships with the men they want. I’ve even seen women propose to men. Like this whole post just comes off as a jealous ignorant rant.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 04:28 PM
1

What post?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 10:47 PM
1

Favorite sandwich?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 10:45 PM
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We’ve been telling men this for a very long time Thanks for help spread the word that this is the solution for struggling sexless males. 🙌
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 10:27 PM
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You could have feelings one day but that doesn’t mean she would. It sounds like a typical fuck buddy scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 08:26 PM
1

A true queen! 👑 ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 07:49 PM
1

Some people do it just because it scratches that itch. No feelings involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 06:46 PM
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I don’t let it bother me. People are going to believe what they want and do what they want. It’s their life - not mine. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 05:37 PM
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For someone who dislikes this subreddit so much you keep coming back here and engaging. This place isn’t meant to be taken seriously. It’s Reddit. It’s for entertainment. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 01:47 PM
5

Gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 12:20 PM
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All 1% commentator means is that your comments are the most upvoted. It has nothing to do with how much someone comments on this subreddit. It doesn’t take months of interaction on this subreddit to “understand the PPD mentality”. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 10:58 AM
1

I love them both!! I am not a huge celery fan so that is what worries me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 01:40 AM
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They always make me puke. I feel like it never works for me and I’m so jealous for those who can handle them!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 01:33 AM
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I just wish I had a Chicken Salad Chick close to me. It looks so good and I don’t even know if I like chicken salad. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 01:32 AM
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I’m doing it right now. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 01:30 AM
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Lmao yet here you are with the rest of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 01:11 AM
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And even those people would tell you that teenager “love” is not real in comparison to the current love they have. I can understand why you would struggle to understand it. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 01:02 AM
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Even I know that teenage “love” is not real love.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 09:59 PM
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Well duh 👆 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 09:44 PM
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Yep!! We did a courthouse wedding for $60 and threw a party with friends and family for like $250. Still just as married as someone who had a 50K ceremony.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 03:58 PM
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This answer is hilarious considering how many men yesterday wanted to argue that pestering a woman until she agrees for sex is not wrong because the woman can still say no. So men shouldn’t be complaining about feeling pressured to get married by anyone. 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 03:57 PM
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I know A LOT of divorced older women who are looking for this exact setup. They have zero interest in getting remarried but enjoy all of the other aspects of a LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 02:37 PM
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This post doesn’t speak for every man. I am discussing the men who do act this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 02:26 PM
2

Maybe try TikTok or FB? I have heard people make $$$ for ragebaits on there
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 02:25 PM
2

Entertainment. I have a lot of free time during the work day.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 12:42 PM
1

I love the clouds ☁️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 12:42 PM
1

Not that I can recall
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 12:37 PM
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Do you make $$$ from the engagement?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 12:37 PM
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It seems like that is what a lot of young men want. To fuck women that will treat them like a child they need to care for. Some of these guys even get jealous of their own children.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 12:25 PM
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Exactly. Like why would a woman want to have sex with a man who looks like he could be her dad or grandfather. It’s super gross. 🤮 I remember being 20 and having 40+ year old men drool over me and being so fucking creeped out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 12:23 PM
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Omg I was just watching her the other day! She is hilarious!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 12:06 PM
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Literally. Not a single blue collar man I know has struggled to get a partner. They are like catnip for women where I live!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 10:52 AM
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But what about us women who don’t read these type of books? I don’t find them appealing at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 10:45 AM
2

Unfortunately I do not think there is much of a solution. A woman cannot be protected and watched 24/7. In my hometown we recently have had scorned men show up to women’s jobs with guns and last year (or maybe year before) a woman did involve her male family members for protection and when they were attempting to get her away from the man he shot their children and the men before pulling the gun on himself. I remember reading the article and people being shocked because they said they never thou…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 10:43 AM
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My son is 6’8” it’s a pain in the ass finding clothes. The world isn’t built for people this tall. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 11:28 PM
1

It literally reads like something one of them would say!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 11:24 PM
4

Basically this
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 11:23 PM
2

He was a POS.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 11:22 PM
1

It’s bruuuuutal isn’t it?! 😆😆
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 11:09 PM
6

It has to be embarrassing for the average man to be associated with these guys. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 10:57 PM
6

I don’t see more than 1-2 women on this post agreeing with you. And you’ve presented zero facts even after other users have asked you for proof of your claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 10:20 PM
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I don’t see more than 1-2 women on this post agreeing with you. And you’ve presented zero facts even after other users have asked you for proof of your claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 09:49 PM
3

No need to apologize! ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 09:45 PM
5

It happens! I’ve done it a few times myself too lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 09:23 PM
5

You might want to go back and reread the post because the person asking the question specifically asked about men who are average or lame.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 09:09 PM
5

Lmao peak delusion. Even men on this subreddit don’t agree with you that men handle rejection better. 😆😆
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 08:43 PM
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I’m speaking of the folks who are described as “lame”. Not every man is lame IMO. 🤷‍♀️ I don’t really care if you think I am sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 08:41 PM
8

Yep. Usually men will start insulting the woman’s appearance or anything else he thinks could potentially be an insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 08:05 PM
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Have you actually never seen how men react when a woman he wanted turns him down? 😆 I literally just saw a post on another sub yesterday of a guy insulting a woman after she told him she wasn’t interested. Men don’t typically slink away after rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 07:27 PM
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Probably because they are lame. I don’t see the appeal in spending time with someone who is the equivalent of a piece of furniture.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 07:23 PM
1

If he had confidence in himself he could accept the rejection and move on. There is a difference between confidence and desperation which the autistic men on this subreddit can’t seem to grasp
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 07:15 PM
5

Not with you. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 07:14 PM
4

Restraining orders won’t genuinely do much good. It already doesn’t work for men who are bound and determined to get what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 07:11 PM
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Most of the women on this subreddit are in LTR or married. Can’t say the same for the men here so sounds like the women (that user included) are doing just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 07:10 PM
6

Yep so true!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 07:09 PM
1

Yep. It’s much more pathetic to be the desperate loser pestering a woman for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 06:52 PM
4

And yet not every man has the same life experience as unattractive losers. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 06:51 PM
4

I agree with everything you’ve said!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 06:18 PM
2

I guess I still don’t get it then. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 06:17 PM
17

Are you present for every single encounter or are you just imagining what happens when someone agrees to have sex? I’ve been there when men pester women for sex (including my own experiences being bothered) and if men actually listened to women explicitly saying NO as their final answer this discussion wouldn’t even be happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 06:17 PM
2

I’ve literally watched two episodes so I don’t get the reference
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 05:51 PM
13

That does not change my answer. You are making a claim that women aren’t speaking up and telling a man no when he is pestering her to have sex. A woman doesn’t have to be alone with a man for him to pester her about having sex with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 05:50 PM
3

Probably astrology and all that silly stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 05:45 PM
1

I do not like long, unkempt beards but I’ve met a lot of younger women who find them super hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 05:43 PM
1

You almost made my spit out my drink 😆 That was a good one!!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 05:42 PM
14

Women do say NO. The problem is men will keep asking hoping to wear her down so she will eventually tire of him pestering her and give in.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 05:39 PM
1

I think you are forgetting that most women enter their sexual prime (wanting more sex) in their late 30s/early 40s.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 05:38 PM
5

It’s so fucking gross and they are so proud of it. 🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 05:34 PM
5

So many men on this subreddit think that a woman being open about her desire to have sex is unfathomable. It’s like they think we are lying when we say we actively tell men we want to have sex with them. I literally explicitly texted my guy to come over and have sex with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 05:33 PM
4

Because she was probably annoyed and wanted him to stop bugging her. He should have stopped the first time. Men know exactly what they are doing when they do this. It’s pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 05:31 PM
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Lmao. I wouldn’t even be surprised at this point. I think a lot of these guys use alt accounts. It’s so weird!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 05:23 PM
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We are all elderly 30+ year olds
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 05:21 PM
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How so? What does your comment have to do with the topic at hand? Has someone made you a moderator or are you pretending to be the hall monitor for PPD?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 04:47 PM
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Same!! I could see these issues happening in more religious/conservative cultures that have a lot of shame around sex but I don’t think very many modern marriages are having the issues OP is referring to.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 04:45 PM
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Speaking from my own experiences and what women I know have said…most of us become more interested in trying new things and sexual novelty as we settle into a long term relationship. If we trust our partners we are more likely to be open with him about what we want to try sexually and become more uninhibited because we aren’t as worried about being judged.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 04:43 PM
5

Yep. We are just “outliers” or pretending with make believe marriages. 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 02:49 PM
6

Lmao no. Feminist here that has always shared finances with my guy for two decades now. There is no his money/my money. It’s always been “ours”.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 02:39 PM
4

I swear it’s like the only interaction he has with women that aren’t prostitutes. 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 02:37 PM
4

Weird. I am a feminist but don’t separate our finances. It’s “our” money and has always been for nearly two decades now. We’ve had a joint bank account since 2007/2008.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 02:36 PM
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Whatever you need to believe 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 02:34 PM
1

I still don’t understand any of it. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 02:33 PM
4

Even translated I don’t get it 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 12:13 PM
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Now you’ve got it correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 11:36 AM
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Oh no..men putting effort into their appearance. The horror!! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 10:53 AM
2

Why recycle when they can get brand new? Makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 04:08 AM
2

I think this must be a male thing because it’s not that hard for a woman to find a new better dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 02:45 AM
-1

Moderators can make basically whatever rules they want for their own subreddits. You could make one with the opposite rules if you’d like. 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 10:04 PM
1

I agree but sports have never interested me (unless it’s sports betting LOL)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 09:59 PM
4

I think you are correct that they lack real world experience. I’ve wondered if they assume their school/work bully treats everyone just as poorly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 09:56 PM
2

I think it might be a very inexperienced (and judgmental) younger woman. Who knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 08:12 PM
2

They have to be trolling. They literally commented elsewhere that women can only orgasm via clit stimulation. 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 07:42 PM
1

I am jealous!! It sounds like a fun time (minus that lady trying to start a fight!)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 06:44 PM
2

Oh there are definitely female rage baiters here! But yeah I agree that they don’t pretend to be men. I wonder what makes the guys who do this think it’s a good idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 05:21 PM
2

Is that like the funny baseball guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 05:19 PM
3

I would probably burst out laughing. The whole scenario is just so strange not to.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 05:18 PM
1

Just an FYI - there are websites that allow users to see your hidden post history/comments. But arguing with that other user is pointless. I wouldn’t even waste your time with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 05:13 PM
5

Does this person have no eyebrows too??
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 05:09 PM
1

I seriously doubt it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 04:22 PM
4

It is so weird to me how many men troll online pretending to be women trying to rage-bait. Peak loser behavior. 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 03:59 PM
3

Well good then that saves me having to have the conversation. 😁 🎉
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 03:57 PM
2

Same here. I do not think I could have ever done the long distance thing. My husband and I were basically together 24/7 in the first two years of dating. We worked together and shared a 400 sq ft studio apartment.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 03:33 PM
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That is so disturbing but also not surprising at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 03:30 PM
4

I guess I better go tell my son I don’t love him unconditionally since I had an epidural and didn’t spend very waking second with him until he was four. 😆😆😆
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 03:27 PM
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<image> 😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 03:22 PM
3

My work has been so slowwww (for me) lately. Time is dragging 😭 I would rather be moderately busy than sitting around doing nothing all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 01:33 PM
3

Are we supposed to know who these people are?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 01:29 PM
2

Same!! I took a 3 hr nap yesterday afternoon so couldn’t fall asleep last night
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 01:28 PM
7

This has to be satire.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 12:57 PM
3

What would that have to do with me giving my own opinion? Please link where I said that. You can share if you put “np” in the Reddit link. You have accused multiple women on this subreddit of similar attacks yet never want to show proof. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 04:09 AM
1

Yes. I’ve been hearing men say these phrases my entire life. I’ve also heard women talk poorly of men but not these phrases in particular.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 02:33 AM
2

For myself I think so. Not sure about other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 02:31 AM
1

Literally me but I have been good this month and cut back 😆😆
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 01:30 AM
2

Some people love that kind of chaos. I couldn’t handle it myself but those folks are out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 01:27 AM
1

Do they still have their original genitalia?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 01:26 AM
2

Probably depends on where it is and tbh the maturity level of the women involved. For me, I get excited it someone is wearing the same outfit of me because we can be twinning and take cute pictures. 👯‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 01:24 AM
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I gave my own personal experience. Even said “I” several times in my reply. I didn’t say it was the experience of everyone else. In my experience I have mostly commonly heard men say those phrases and not women. Someone else may have the opposite experience and I also acknowledged that. I wasn’t going back and forth with anyone. Perhaps you’ve mixed me up with another Reddit user or are confused on how this site works. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 01:17 AM
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There is nothing to correct. I gave my experience and did not say women never say those phrases. 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 12:54 AM
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Dude it’s almost a week later. I don’t even care enough to form a real response. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 12:19 AM
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I’m dead 😆😆😆 I literally saw comments the other day from guys jealous of their family dog and men just jealous in general because women kiss their dogs and not these angry guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 12:18 AM
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Did you read what I said before replying ?? It’s literally right there on the screen: “I didn’t deny that some women say the other phrases.”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 12:17 AM
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If you don’t want a face reveal could you blur it out?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 03:44 PM
4

Damn someone is gonna make bank with these and I kinda want some for myself. I am the shortest woman in my office. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 03:35 PM
2

I’m a sucker for a (facially attractive) man in backwards baseball cap.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 03:34 PM
1

Sounds like an excuse for being an idiot. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 03:20 PM
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Saw this on another subreddit 🤣 <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 02:33 PM
0

Anyone with eyes and common sense can see pretty privilege in action everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 12:01 PM
1

Yeah she definitely should have asked first
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 01:52 AM
1

lol that was a good one
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 11:32 PM
1

Moderation has been pretty hit or miss lately.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 11:30 PM
1

Shoulder length on men is MUCH better than chin length. Chin length gives off teenage skater boy vibe which would be creepy. Or this
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 11:29 PM
3

It’s wild to me that men are just now recognizing pretty privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 11:27 PM
1

It would be assault from whoever did this - male or female. It’s not acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 09:11 PM
1

I’ll upvote you friend 🥰 Hope your puppers start acting right soon lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 09:09 PM
1

Yeah they all basically look the same so there isn’t anything to be WOW’d over. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 09:08 PM
1

I’d just wash it tbh but I’m a nurse so bodily fluids don’t really ick me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 09:07 PM
3

I just have to say you are amazing!!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 08:53 PM
1

Do you think this is primarily an issue for the younger generation? It seems like so many people under 30 just don’t have any resiliency. Something doesn’t work out for them immediately and they just give up. I don’t understand it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 07:13 PM
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🤨 And none of you are getting the incel adjacent subreddits in your feeds? Strange.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 07:10 PM
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I didn’t deny that some women say the other phrases. I’ve just never heard a woman tell a man that men don’t cry. I have heard men tell other (usually younger) men that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 07:09 PM
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To be fair about half of those sayings you’ve listed I have heard directly from men and not women. Especially: "Real men don't cry." "Man up." "A man's value is what he provides." "Men only think with one thing." "Happy wife, happy life” "His job is to protect and provide; that's what men are for."
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 06:36 PM
2

Can you elaborate on “emotional whimsy”? I haven’t heard of that before.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 04:23 PM
1

I know you are a man lol Unless you are able to read minds you truly don’t know what these people are thinking about other people. You may be the first man I have ever encountered that does not have watch porn. It seems to be a rare thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 04:08 PM
2

There are some men who are red or black pilled who use the blue pill flair just to troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 03:26 PM
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Not all women hate porn though. I love sex and I enjoy looking at attractive people. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 03:20 PM
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It doesn’t stop them from doing it though regardless of how their partner feels. 🤷‍♀️ I haven’t met a man yet that doesn’t notice an attractive woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 03:18 PM
3

Awwww this will be me one day
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 02:23 PM
3

I don’t care about men watching legal porn so I still think women should be allowed to look and lust over hot men just like men lust over hot women. It’s only fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 02:22 PM
1

A quick Google search is showing 20% of SAHP are SAHDs in the USA.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 02:13 PM
1

I don’t live in England so perhaps it’s not common there. Different situations here in the USA.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 02:11 PM
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Partnered men look at hot women all the time. Women should be able to check out the few attractive men that exist. I’m tired of seeing ugly old men in my TV. 😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 02:07 PM
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I guess the issue is a lot of men think they wouldn’t get sex at all if they didn’t trick women into it. I think this is the correct answer for why they think lying and being deceptive is acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 01:48 PM
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Second?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 01:18 PM
1

Ok that makes sense. I have never been a sugar baby or spoken with men who openly use the service so I was not sure how it worked. I still think getting it in writing (even over text) would be a good idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 01:18 PM
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Have you confused the women in this sub for another? Most of us are already married or in LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 11:49 AM
1

Do you negotiate terms of what sex acts are supposed to be happening prior to the meet up? Why not have written contracts?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 03:17 AM
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Women already approach men they are interested in sexually/romantically. I have always asked out men that I was interested in. I literally texted my guy that I wanted to have sex with him for our first hookup. Can’t be more direct than that. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 03:40 PM
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I KNOW! Literal idiots.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 02:28 AM
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Women aren’t just accepting whatever men come our way. We reject plenty. 🤷‍♀️ Women, who are like me, do not find passive, shy, and/or anxious men attractive. These men would not be a better partner because they would be incompatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 11:00 PM
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Same. I’ve only met a few 20+ year old men who are virgins. Even my husband’s goofy looking, autistic coworker was able to find a girlfriend last year.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 01:54 PM
2

No clue. I chalk it up to just being young and dumb like we all were once.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 10:59 AM
3

Girl it was a mind blowing read for me too. Like..wow. No self reflection at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 08:49 PM
2

Hell I’ve been accused of being promiscuous just for having large breasts. Not sure what the correlation is but for some men they seem to be certain it means I have slept around or am an easy lay. Super frustrating.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 08:25 PM
4

Exactly lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 07:56 PM
1

Jealous that she’s having sex. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 06:57 PM
1

I wish I was 5’9” too 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 06:57 PM
1

I am so jealous! I love cruises! Hope you have fun!!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 06:52 PM
5

Not a man but I agree with their opinion that the woman should have asked him directly and not just assumed he was serious about her. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 06:29 PM
1

Gives me the ick so bad. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 03:02 PM
0

I have never heard of this in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 02:44 PM
5

No. Why would I be? I’m not the one who is jealous. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 01:30 PM
6

Like why aren't these women leaving? Why do they take my dick 10 more times? Because you are paying them. Duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 01:04 PM
7

Kinda sounds like jealousy to me 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 12:46 PM
2

I mean the answer to this is simple AF. This couple is not sexually compatible and if it is a major issue for either one then they should just break up. It’s not that hard to figure out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 10:33 AM
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I don’t hate on age gaps and find it weird when people get preachy over them. As long as everyone is consenting adults then it’s their business. My husband and I have a very small age gap but got a lot of shit from other women when we started dating at 19/24. It was super annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 09:12 PM
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If it is so common place then link some non-Reddit examples then. 🤷‍♀️ It shouldn’t be hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 04:47 PM
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Dude why are you replying to a 5 day old comment? 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 04:07 PM
4

Yes!! A fellow gardener! We have grown two different types of small tomatoes, cucumbers, basil, and ONE poblano pepper 🤣 <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 03:05 PM
2

Lmao so true
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 03:03 PM
4

Isn’t it crazy? We need more female moderators. This sub is just turning more incel adjacent by the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 12:44 PM
1

I want to go to Cookout so fucking bad but there are none close to me. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:55 AM
8

Silence is super fucking weird to me. I guess 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:53 AM
16

It’s super gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:49 AM
1

Whatever you need to tell yourself champ. I’m not going to try to stop ya.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:48 AM
1

Lmao it’s hilarious that you try to speak with such confidence about what I would do. And even more funny that you think I care about your opinion in the first place. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:47 AM
2

You keep talking about but here you still are worrying about what women are saying and doing. Not doing a very good job at “going your own way” huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:46 AM
0

Ok. So you can go cry to someone who cares then. 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 10:54 PM
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Yup. Not sure why you are wasting your time with these replies. 🤷‍♀️ I don’t care if you do not like me or think I am terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 10:44 PM
1

What about me?!? 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 09:46 PM
1

Glad you learned something!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 09:12 PM
0

It’s an insane reach to assume a woman who is having good sex with a man would not want to continue doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 07:29 PM
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No men who are insecure, cry babies are funny to me. It’s why I come here to be entertained 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 07:24 PM
1

Not sure why you think I care what you think but go off I guess 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 07:24 PM
0

Yes because men on this subreddit go into daily crying fits worrying about what others think. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 06:54 PM
0

Ok. Still don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 06:53 PM
3

Yes my husband and I have a lot of sex. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 02:54 PM
1

I’m so jealous!! Apparently there are wildfires in Canada and the smoke has crossed over into the U.S. and the air outside today is horrible. We’ve had to close a bunch of outdoor events/businesses because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 02:44 PM
2

We both take the trash out. He walks the bins to the curb on trash pickup day but there isn’t like a specific time limit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:50 PM
3

If a woman used to love giving blowjobs suddenly doesn’t want to with you..it’s possibly because of poor hygiene. Maybe a bad odor or even ejaculate that tastes bad. 🤷‍♀️ That would be my guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:47 PM
10

This is how men who have never had sex describe what is like. Obvious giveaway.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:44 PM
0

Makes sense to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:29 PM
13

I thought the same thing about the first scenario. Most likely poor hygiene or his cum tastes nasty.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:14 PM
1

lol glad you think so! Not sure why you think I care?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:08 PM
0

Sorry not everyone cares about what society thinks 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:07 PM
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Apparently you stopped reading after “domestic violence”. 🙄 Yes the idea of being laughed at by society as a terrible consequence is silly. There are worse things to worry with domestic violence than someone else’s opinion of what happened. 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:00 PM
2

Yes the idea of being laughed at by society as a terrible consequence is silly. There are worse things to worry with domestic violence than someone else’s opinion of what happened. 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:00 PM
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Oh no! The horror!! 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 03:08 AM
2

Sounds about right. Not surprising.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 03:07 AM
1

I can’t even take this post seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 10:29 PM
3

The only reason I know about Bonnie Blue is because I heard about her on this subreddit and listened to an interview with her out of curiosity. I’m not sure why men think women follow porn stars as closely as men do. Most women just can’t be bothered to learn about these women. There isn’t really any point in it for us. 🤷‍♀️ I haven’t watched her stuff because it’s just doesn’t appeal to me but I like her personality (from what I saw in the interview).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 09:50 PM
5

Dear lord yes. It might just be the men on Reddit but these men are more anxious and self conscious than any woman I have ever met. It’s crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 09:43 PM
1

You wasted your time typing all that out. Not reading it. Don’t care. The opinion of single men is irrelevant to me. Bye! 👋
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 09:37 PM
4

I would mention it to the original friend that you are interested in her friend so the original friend can find out what the new friend is thinking too. And if she’s gay like you suspect the original friend would be able to just let you know so you don’t waste time on something that wouldn’t pan out.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 10:51 AM
1

I think they just don’t know any other way to get women to pay attention to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 12:41 AM
1

Oh I have so many suggestions for him. He has potential but right now he’s a solid 0/10 for me. Kinda spooky looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 11:04 PM
1

From what I am told boys are more rambunctious when they are young and mellow out with age and girls are easy when they’re young but rebellious when they get older.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 10:57 PM
1

SO EXCITING!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 10:56 PM
2

Just responding to your first paragraph - from my understanding therapy isn’t just venting. You are usually explaining an emotional problem that is bothering you and then the therapist helps you come up with a plan/or new technique to deal with this problem another (better) way. It’s a lot of training your brain to learn a different mindset versus just complaining to have someone listen.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 10:55 PM
5

Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 10:45 PM
2

Sexual prime is describing the period in time when a woman develops a higher libido and wants to have sex more often. It’s not about if the men around her find her the most sexually desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 09:35 PM
2

Just chiming in to say that there are some aspects of dating that are outside of a person’s control. If someone really likes a guy who is super outgoing/social, athletic, and funny..but to the women he seems shy/reserved, uncoordinated/clumsy, and no sense of humor there isn’t much he can do to change her opinion of him. Those two just aren’t a good match. 🤷‍♀️ And for your second part about sex/dating..some people start out just hooking up without actually dating or being in a relationship with…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 09:31 PM
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It’s like they literally cannot wrap their heads around the possibility that some women value a relationship with a person more than they value a sexual encounter.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 04:50 PM
4

I’ve also tried to explain this to these guys but they don’t want to believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 04:19 PM
1

It keeps moving! Last I heard it was 25!!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:45 PM
1

Wow!! That is amazing!!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:30 PM
4

Literally! My husband’s former friend was very incel adjacent during the first few years I knew him. He ended up meeting a lady willing to date and marry him and then proceeded to cheat on her (and made other unsuccessful attempts) as soon as he found another woman that gave him interest. It’s crazy to me how these guys assume being a former incel/nice guy means they are loyal. These guys tend to be the worst cheaters because they have so much FOMO and bitterness about not being chosen by women …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 11:09 AM
6

Lmao. Because clearly no tall man could ever embody these traits. Just shorties. 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 11:06 AM
1

I’ve known patients that are still having sex in their 80s. I’m hoping to still be sexually active at that age too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 10:47 AM
2

The person who is dating them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:39 AM
-1

My husband is basically the only man I can stand to be around for more than a few hours 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 09:56 PM
2

This is one of my favorite parts of growing older with a partner. My husband has some gray and silver and the silver reflects in the light like glitter!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 05:40 PM
0

I never realized that this pairing makes people so angry until I found this subreddit. I’m 5’4” with shoes on and my husband is 6’4”. 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 05:34 PM
2

Fun!!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 05:30 PM
2

Glad you are home!!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 05:18 PM
4

As a woman, we could say the same thing about men. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 12:32 PM
1

I disagree. Women would prefer men to be more attractive. Not less.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 07:54 PM
1

Doesn’t seem to be working for them though if women are saying they are focusing on the male gaze.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 06:38 PM
6

It sounds like those guys are focusing on forming traits they(men) think are attractive which don’t always line up with what women actually find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 04:17 PM
7

True!! And it’s the same stuff over and over so even if you take a break and come back you won’t miss much!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 04:14 PM
5

You gotta pay more attention then..lol. This sub is like 80% male
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:47 PM
8

lol what?! Do you realize what subreddit you are on? The men here demand studies for everything and tell women our lived experiences don’t count as proof for anything. 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:38 PM
-1

Is it an equal amount of women or more?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:19 PM
2

It’s always ugly men who assume that women find all other men ugly, gross, repulsive..etc. it’s gotta be some sort of psychological coping mechanism I swear. 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 02:21 PM
2

lol I swear y’all just fantasize about deadbedrooms to feel better about not having sex yourselves. It’s so odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 02:19 PM
5

No we like helping men improve their looks too. We love a good makeover and wouldn’t consider it “trying hard”.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 01:58 PM
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Same!!! They have such good chemistry in it!! Makes me want to rewatch it today 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 01:56 PM
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Women love a good makeover so idk where you are getting the idea that women are anti-glowup.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 01:34 PM
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They did another rom com together that I think is even better - Runaway Bride. You should check it out if you haven’t seen it too!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 01:32 PM
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I’m sorry girl 😔 That really sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 01:30 PM
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This is such a good movie! Have you seen it??
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 01:27 PM
1

With men it's usually the reverse. I feel like a supermodel now 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 01:20 PM
5

Yep. I just want to see dicks. I don’t even want to see their faces 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 01:08 PM
2

No but I told my husband McGregor wasn’t going to win! I probably should have put some $$$ on it LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 12:50 PM
6

LOLLLLLL
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 02:46 AM
10

“Negging” basically 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 09:42 PM
3

I agree with the other girl - as long as you aren’t pushy and accept gracefully if she would say no then no harm no foul. Good luck!!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 08:26 PM
2

Awwww I love you too RedSand!! ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 08:21 PM
3

Would it make you feel better if I tell you that if I were single penis size (length + girth) would matter to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 07:11 PM
5

So true. Like I have zero interest in reenacting what someone is doing in porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 07:07 PM
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I’m not sure if you are agreeing/disagreeing or just sharing your own experiences. I just mentioned it because these guys seek to be hung up on the idea that they can’t do certain positions because they have smaller size dicks and from my experience even if they were average/larger some positions could still be tricky if there is a significant height difference. My husband and I have a ft difference in height and some positions are just not comfortable for us - like sex standing up has never wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 07:05 PM
2

I think for as much as men here want to talk about penis size we should just make a weekly post like we do for looks and N count.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 06:51 PM
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Sometimes it’s not just penis size but the actual height difference between the couple too that makes some positions more difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 06:50 PM
1

Those look amazing!! You are so talented!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 04:54 PM
2

I genuinely think it has gotten worse with the younger generations and it surprises me because you think they would be more open minded but it’s like we’re going backwards. Just sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 02:28 PM
2

Agreed. It seems to happen so often that it’s not even that surprising anymore to others when we find out.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 02:22 PM
2

Literally. Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 02:19 PM
2

She wasn’t worth it then! Unfortunately there are still a lot of homophobic women out there. 👎
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 02:18 PM
1

Don’t forget rich!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 02:16 PM
2

Same here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 02:06 PM
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Not sure why you are trying to lie because your made hateful comments towards me too because of my husband’s height.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 10:40 AM
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Sure but that doesn’t mean they disclose everything. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 01:24 AM
5

I’m gonna say 60% since some guys will never have sex. I only find like 2-3% of men attractive though so I could be biased and women might think these guys are hot while I wouldn’t see the appeal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 11:35 PM
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A lot of alcohol 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 11:24 PM
2

Are you talking about just men in general or men in relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 11:20 PM
1

lol why are you responding to a week old comment??? Are you lost??
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 10:07 PM
1

I’ve only tried weed (great) and mushrooms (just OK) so far
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 10:06 PM
1

Makes sense!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 09:12 PM
2

Do you want me to yell at them for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 08:49 PM
1

I will tell you if you are really ugly or not
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 08:47 PM
3

What are your thoughts on men who support circumcision? I’ve met a few ..which surprised me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 08:42 PM
1

What kind of drugs are we talking about here? I smoke a lot of weed but I just like to chill, get stoned, and color lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 08:41 PM
2

I’m so confused right now
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 08:39 PM
4

I don’t think there is anything that everyone agrees on. Live life for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 07:01 PM
5

No flights for you 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 06:14 PM
7

I swear these dudes want us to care so much but we just …don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 06:13 PM
1

Yikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 06:06 PM
3

Seriously!! It sounds like the best job
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 06:03 PM
1

Lmao!!! Wow!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 06:00 PM
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You just assume they are telling the truth but unless you’ve spent every day with her since she became sexually active you honestly won’t ever know. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 05:31 PM
3

Girl they are gonna screenshot your comment and use it to ragebait other incels for the next year 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 05:21 PM
2

I know at least 1-2 others that may have wanted the position but M hasn’t announced her retirement yet so nothing is official yet. I’m hoping it doesn’t cause any issues but I guess we will cross that bridge when we get there! I’m just excited that they even considered me for the role in the first place since I am still pretty new to the department. Edit: and THANK YOU!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 05:15 PM
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My boss (N) just told me her boss (M) is retiring in the next 6 months and she (N) is going to be taking her role (M) so they want me to take over my current boss’s (N) position once that happens. I was so not expecting that news today. I have the lowest seniority so I am a little worried how my coworkers will react to the news once it becomes official.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 04:38 PM
1

Omg I saw men on another subreddit just losing their minds over that post
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 02:45 PM
4

I have a corgi and she is so cute but such a terror! <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 02:43 PM
2

I can tell lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 12:41 PM
2

Not really lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 12:28 PM
2

Nahhhh. Wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 11:47 AM
2

Probably for the same reason men talk about women 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 11:07 AM
2

You keep replying sooooo….
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 11:07 AM
2

Couldn’t tell..it seems like what they think really bothers you. Good luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 10:27 AM
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Idk you guys seem to get pretty butthurt when women talk about short men and incels so I doubt that’s true
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 10:22 AM
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It’s a category of weed! I think there are two types (my husband grows so I pay attention a little bit lol) that are Sativa and Indica. Sativa usually gives you energy and Indica makes you sleepy/relaxed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 10:17 AM
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Doesn’t look like it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 10:14 AM
2

That was a good one!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 01:01 AM
2

That sounds so good!! I love Mexican food!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 12:11 AM
3

Hell yeah! I feel the same way
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 11:34 PM
1

That sounds good too!! What is your favorite cut of steak?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 11:34 PM
2

Oh that sounds interesting!!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 10:52 PM
5

What is everyone having for dinner? I think I’m going to make sliders and fresh cut fries.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 10:40 PM
1

We are a bunch of nurses so luckily we aren’t easily offended! But I can see how a lot of other offices wouldn’t be enjoyable to work at! Glad you have a job you like! ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 10:32 PM
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I thought I would hate it too but I love it! My job is pretty lax though so we are able to socialize quite a bit and my coworkers are really awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 10:00 PM
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It depends on my mood! Sometimes I love it and other times I just want to grab my stuff and go.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 09:26 PM
1

Now that is amusing coming from you 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 09:21 PM
1

Again..seems to be mutual. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 09:17 PM
1

Oh! Do you like sports betting? I love it but it’s so darn addicting!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 09:17 PM
2

I love grocery store pick up. It saves so much time!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 09:14 PM
1

Well you’d be better off talking to those women then. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 09:14 PM
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Well I’m not sure how else you came to the conclusion that me telling you “The feeling is mutual.” would mean that I’m a fan of you but …🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 09:13 PM
1

So you’re admitting you like me? I knew it!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 09:02 PM
1

You’re the one calling the men here “losers”. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 08:56 PM
1

The feeling is mutual.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 08:55 PM
1

Ew. No. Absolutely not. But nice try.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 08:50 PM
1

None that I’m willing to share with you. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 08:46 PM
1

Awww I have a fan! 🥰 But you promised quotes. That’s just you claiming I said something without proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 08:44 PM
1

Like I already said earlier..you have nothing either. You just wasted your own time making several empty threats about how you were going to quote my comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 08:38 PM
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There is no need to. You can read your own comment history. I don’t need to link it for the public to see. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 08:31 PM
1

We all have our own sense of humor for what we find funny or even entertaining. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 08:29 PM
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If you have no issue with being banned you would have already done so. I simply pointed out an observation that you’ve spent years in this sub making the same complaints about women. That’s all. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 08:22 PM
1

Spending quality time with my loved ones!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 07:54 PM
1

Apparently neither do you. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 07:46 PM
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If you’d like to risk breaking the rules then go ahead. It’s not worth a temp ban for me. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 07:30 PM
1

They are bigger than I expected them to be! Fast too!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 07:15 PM
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You can see them yourself in your comment history. You don’t need me to show you your own comments and you know as well as I do that linking to them is witch-hunting which is against the sub rules. Nice try though!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 07:04 PM
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These are the same men who end up divorced and stay angry because they can’t self reflect on their own breakdown in the marriage. It’s wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 06:32 PM
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Damn it’s like none of these men actually read before replying. 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 06:14 PM
2

lol well you said it not me but yes definitely 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 05:05 PM
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If someone is asking to discuss books why would we assume they are lonely and are looking for support? Maybe no one wanted to talk about books at that time. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 03:36 PM
2

Well unless they’re all on this subreddit the population count of your country is irrelevant lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 03:32 PM
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It’s really not that far away or exotic for most of us on the sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 01:39 PM
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Maybe a slight difference in their inner anatomy and the anatomy of the male partner’s penis (girth, curve/angle, length) etc..
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 01:00 PM
3

Now if autism was a subreddit 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:55 PM
1

That’s fair!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:09 PM
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This is PPD. I’m not sure why this is surprising to you..especially since you’ve been on this subreddit complaining about the women here for years. Like the same complaints…over..and over..and over.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 10:47 AM
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Dang. That is “brootal”. Has she ever said why she isn’t interested in marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 10:44 AM
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You might want to tell your fellow men that because they have said time and time again on this subreddit that not being fat is the only thing a woman needs to do to be considered attractive to men. 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 10:24 AM
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Accurate description of 99% of the Redpill/Blackpill/Incel men on this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 10:18 AM
1

Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 03:19 AM
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Are you new? Comphet is now against the rules just FYI
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:40 AM
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I’ve probably said worse. Oh well. Like I said …some people take this place too seriously! 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:12 AM
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You said it like three times in a row too and it just whooshed right over him.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:40 AM
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How is someone gonna downvote this? 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:32 AM
1

That’s wild!!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:30 AM
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Well my husband and I laugh at what goes on in this sub together 🤷‍♀️ Some people take this place too seriously lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:28 AM
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I always wonder if they are just bored and post for entertainment or if they get $$$ from the engagement.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:37 PM
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Much better
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:00 PM
2

No
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:00 PM
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I think a lot of these stories are made up and I could probably make a better one. Really put some fear into the young lads 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:59 PM
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I’ve met some really terrible women over the years so unfortunately it doesn’t surprise me to hear this. Glad you are able to be a good source of support/comfort to these guys!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:46 PM
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But men are saying this all the time..even in this very thread. Should we assume they are liars?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:33 PM
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I had never heard of him but just looked him up and he was so young. How sad. We never really know when our time on this earth will end. 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:11 PM
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I have a feeling the admins will not agree with you either but best of luck. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 07:55 PM
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I guess that will ultimately be up to the moderators to decide. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 07:26 PM
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I disagree. I’ve been accused of all sorts of things on this subreddit and haven’t felt that it is “harassment”. People have simply started to connect the dots and if I remember correctly this isn’t the only subreddit that has noticed the similarities between you and the alt. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 07:20 PM
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What harassment? Can you provide proof of what I have done to harass you? Replying to a comment isn’t harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 07:16 PM
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What harassment? The only thing I’ve seen is users saying that some of us believe this is an alt account. Just because you don’t like what someone comments doesn’t mean they are harassing you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:55 PM
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That’s awesome that you are willing to try to learn!! It’s definitely a skill that takes some time to develop. Don’t get discouraged if some things don’t turn out great right away. I’ve been cooking since I was 12 (will be 38 next month) and I still bomb some meals every once in a while! 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:37 PM
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Tbh Reddit mods are volunteers so they can make whatever rules they want for their subreddits. It’s kind of pointless to complain. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:30 PM
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THANK YOU. I knew I wasn’t the only one who noticed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:46 PM
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Omggggggg. We have to do something about all these ESL posters that cannot comprehend the different dating dynamics between the USA and India. 😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:43 PM
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You first. I asked before you did. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:42 PM
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I think “just know”ing is a poor indicator because look how many men have convinced themselves they’re giving women orgasms that aren’t happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 04:37 PM
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This is the truth!! My husband and I say often that we feel like our sex life gets better and better over time. I think this is one of those things like having children that it’s really hard to understand until you’re actually in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 04:34 PM
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Personally, I would not be interested unless their child(ren) were older because my son is almost 18 and I wouldn’t want to start all over. I also wouldn’t get upset if a man didn’t want to date me (if I became a single mom) for the same reason. Being a parent is HARD. I give a lot of props to those who are able to make it work. My stepdad is truly amazing and I am so thankful that he entered our lives after my father passed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 12:54 PM
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Some people peak in their attractiveness in the youth and then their looks decline with age..and others start out as ugly ducklings that glow up as they get older. I think that is the most realistic option. I think settling for a partner at 40+ was more common when being single was socially unacceptable. I don’t think it is something that actually happens anymore. (At least not on the woman’s side)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:45 AM
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I guess if you get awards they equal money. Not much but it’s something 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:41 AM
3

A person choosing not to date another person they are not attracted to is another way to sift through people they consider “undatable”.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:29 AM
1

Likewise! 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 01:00 AM
1

Certainly not Disney movies and CNN/Fox News 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 12:15 AM
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The news isn’t giving dating advice either LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 11:44 PM
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I didn’t say it was a good thing. I just said that reality is ..most people don’t adhere to The Golden Rule. 🤷‍♀️ I literally even said in my comment that I wish that wasn’t the case. Please read more carefully before responding.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 11:43 PM
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I’ll let you know in 5 hours when the day is over. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 11:42 PM
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Dude those are all movies. Fiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 11:09 PM
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Tbh a lot of people don’t follow the golden rule. A lot of people are actually self centered and prioritize themselves first. Wish that wasn’t the case but I’ve seen it time and time again. 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 11:04 PM
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Probably would just be up to a judge to determine who gets custody but cheating isn’t really going to make much of a difference on who gets custody.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 11:01 PM
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Other people who like to go to the bar. 🤷‍♀️ Some people like to go there just to socialize.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 08:10 PM
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Someone asks for proof and you can’t give it 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 05:45 PM
5

Literally and most of the time it’s once a week. Hell some even have riding mowers!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 04:56 PM
2

We can’t take this debate seriously if correct spelling is that difficult. P-A-I-D
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 03:08 PM
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Show proof of this then. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 02:03 PM
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If you think a woman is having to force herself to have sex with a man you are just telling on yourself for being undesirable.🤷‍♀️ I (and many other women) love to fuck our men. For instance, my guy always makes sure I’m getting 2-3 orgasms a session…why in the world would I not want to have sex with him? Makes zero sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 01:54 PM
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lol this just sounds like someone who has based their world view off of television shows and not real life
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 10:57 AM
3

lol normal people do not do this. This is peak insecurity about not being a good sexual partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 10:48 AM
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Then prove me wrong. I’ve been on this subreddit long enough to know what men here mean when they say they want “eMpAtHy” from women. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 10:05 PM
1

Literally!!! That forum is the worst of the worst!!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 10:00 PM
5

Ugh!!! It is the worst!! Like…no grandpa …we do not want to fuck you. Nasty AF 🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 09:58 PM
6

Literally! 75% (if not more!) of this subreddit alone is men complaining about how they can’t get access to the vaginas they swear they were promised growing up. It’s amazing how someone could even make a claim like this when we can all see the same discussion topics. 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 09:53 PM
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At this point empathy just seems to be a code word for: “free access to a woman’s pussy”. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 09:48 PM
1

You’ve had multiple users ask you for proof and you haven’t been able to show any evidence of what you’ve claimed. Have fun in your land of make believe. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 09:40 PM
1

That you make shit up. Ok. Great job. Have fun in your fantasy land. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 09:36 PM
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I live in the USA and the only time I’ve heard this said has been from bitter men. Never heard a woman say it one time in my entire life. 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 09:35 PM
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Doesn’t it?! I feel like I’ve been transported to 1960 sometimes when I read about sexless marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 06:02 PM
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Same!! At my first job (many years ago) many of our customers were older men 35+ who would literally encourage each other to screw up basic household tasks so their gf/wives would get annoyed and not ask them to do it again. I’m glad that women have wised up to it and don’t let them get away with this crap anymore!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 05:29 PM
2

It really is. The dating dynamics and cultures so different that it makes it impossible to have discussions (or debates) with these guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 05:13 PM
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I questioned it also because I’m also getting a similar vibe.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:43 PM
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You should spend some time in women’s spaces and see what women say to other women about choosing men they know are no good. Women get shamed and don’t get to use the excuse men do about thinking either their genitals. Women do tell other women that they should figure out what attracted them to men who were no good for them. It’s why we push other women to seek therapy to self reflect. I think there is also a chance you might only been focusing on what young women are saying (25 and under) and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:01 PM
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Lmao and you can’t get any relationship so maybe you should worry about that before worrying about what women are doing on dates that you aren’t involved in. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 10:51 AM
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Why would I be defensive? I never found insecure men attractive. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:20 AM
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Lmao if you guys are basing what dating is like off the stories your parents tell you..then no wonder y’all are clueless. Parents also told their children about Santa Claus and the Tooth Fairy 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:19 AM
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Dating has always involved seeing multiple people at a time until the two decide to become “official”. Even in my grandparents’ youth in the 50s they were seeing multiple people at a time. Dating has always been a bit of a competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 02:48 AM
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Smart plan
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 02:45 AM
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Supposedly it’s super expensive to live there
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 02:18 AM
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I can tell you right now without taking a survey - I would not chose the feminized face for either one. Looks like a child. Barf.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 02:17 AM
3

Men don’t understand how dating has always worked then. Perhaps they’ve watched too many Disney movies? 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 01:48 AM
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I’d say you’re delusional if you think going on one date means a woman shouldn’t date anyone else in the meantime. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 01:30 AM
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Well it’s a good thing those women aren’t dating you and those men don’t need you to validate their dating choices. 😀
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 01:01 AM
3

Hey people believe in Scientology too so you do whatever you want 👍😀
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 01:00 AM
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Lmao dude I don’t know anyone who is playing Nintendo 64 games. We live in two different realities I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:59 AM
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Perfect name!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:58 AM
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The only men who care are the ones who are desperate and can’t get a date with anyone else. They’ve put all their eggs in one basket. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:58 AM
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I just have to laugh because he literally did right after you responded. The jokes make themselves 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 11:58 PM
5

Omg you are making me feel old because I don’t even know what that is! Is it James Bond??
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 11:58 PM
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Women don’t assume every man has a roster - we know there are ugly men who no one wants. Properly single means not in a committed relationship. A FWB isn’t a commitment. This just sounds like envy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 11:54 PM
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Let’s say 75% then LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 11:25 PM
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Your point is that men are stupid and think they call dibs on a woman after one date? Good luck with that one. 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 11:25 PM
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I saw someone call evo-psych Astrology for Men and it couldn’t be more true.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 11:04 PM
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lol that is what dating is! No one is committing to someone after ONE date. You don’t get to call dibs on someone after going out with them one time. 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 11:03 PM
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I think it must be a new incel slang/catchphrase. Whatever-Maxxing must be going out of style
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 11:00 PM
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Are you actually reading the comments? There were only around 10 or so men that actually responded to the topic. That’s not very many out of 100+ comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 10:55 PM
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This subreddit is 90% men who haven’t had sex, a girlfriend, and are self proclaimed incels. Spend some more time here and you’ll see.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 10:40 PM
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That should be easy since it was zero 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 09:32 PM
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Can we make a new rule against it or something? I agree it’s getting very annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 09:25 PM
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Sir if you are ESL you don’t get to define what English phrases mean just because you don’t personally understand them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 09:23 PM
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More than just mine. The average 20 year old woman wouldn’t even know who he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 09:12 PM
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He is still not relevant sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 09:02 PM
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Love it and congratulations!!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:43 PM
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When you know… you know!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:43 PM
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Well damn it must really bother you that you felt the need to dig through my years old post history. I’ve already said we were able to work through it and verify what happened vs what was untrue.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:42 PM
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Hopefully there will be many more years together in the future for you two!! 🥰❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:37 PM
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Nope but he was definitely throwing in personal attacks. Apparently it bothered him that I don’t find insecure, anxious men attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:35 PM
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That’s awesome! How long have you been together now?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:33 PM
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Oh I didn’t even think of that but good point!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:32 PM
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I still think he is great for not being insecure. 🤷‍♀️ I don’t judge him for a mistake 20 years ago. Especially not one that happened before either of us were thinking of becoming a LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:32 PM
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Oh that sounds like an interesting story! Did you start out as roommates and then fell in love?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:25 PM
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Yep. I’m not sure why it matters to the discussion but the cheating happened when we first started dating like 20 years ago as a drunk ONS. For context, I don’t think we had been dating even a full month by that point. He also did sleep around but I don’t fault him for that because he was in his 20s and single so lots of casual sex was the norm back then. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:24 PM
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I get that - however each time this week it has been in the middle of a debate. They will hurry up and type a response and then block me so I cannot reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:19 PM
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I agree that you don’t need to live together to know if you are compatible but I also think living together is important because it gives you an idea of what marriage to this person would be like (before children).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:17 PM
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If moving in together is a red flag after 1-2 years of dating then y’all would really lose it over the fact that I moved in to an apartment with my partner after we had been dating only 3-4 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:11 PM
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I just asked him and he said, “No. Why would I care?”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:08 PM
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It’s not a problem for all men. And furthermore why should I care?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:05 PM
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It’s wild to me that men think I won’t report them for blocking me after they realize they’ve lost an argument. It’s happened multiple times this week 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:00 PM
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I disagree. I think only a certain group of men have this complex. Usually men who don’t think they can ever measure up in comparison to other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 04:53 PM
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I find that hard to believe. Your comments come off like you view sex as shameful and possibly have a Madonna/Whore complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 04:36 PM
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Whatever you need to tell yourself! 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 04:17 PM
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Go cry to someone who cares. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 03:46 PM
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I thought that too!! It seems like he may have a lot of shame about sex which is sad. It’s giving Madonna/Whore complex vibes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 03:44 PM
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Did I touch a nerve? Would you rather be coddled with lies than hear the truth that women find those traits unattractive? 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 03:22 PM
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I have ADHD and I’m sure it is a struggle at times! I wouldn’t blame anyone who doesn’t want to deal with the hassle. I frustrate myself sometimes!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 02:07 PM
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Nope. A man who would be insecure over my sexual history is not a man I would want so he would not be an option in the first place. We would be incompatible for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 02:04 PM
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And I’m not just talking about body count. I’m saying no one else cares about another person’s sexual history besides insecure (and often jealous) individuals who don’t think they measure up. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 02:03 PM
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No. Not all men are this insecure. Western women don’t need to lie about their sexual past to get a partner. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 02:01 PM
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Insecure people maybe..but the rest of us adults don’t care how many people someone slept with or who they chose to have sex with. I’ll be 38 next month and someone’s sexual activity hasn’t even been a topic of discussion in 15+ years. This is something kids under 21 focus on.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 01:56 PM
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I have a sneaking suspicion this post is coming from another male from India trying to understand western dating culture. It’s getting old.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 01:53 PM
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Reputation is something kids in high school worry about. No one cares past the age of 21+.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 01:51 PM
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Have you actually asked the women you are trying to date if they care? You seem really hung up on the idea that you seeing a prostitute has limited your potential partners when it’s probably related to something else entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 01:50 PM
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He wasn’t comparing He was giving an example. Read again.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 02:35 AM
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I actually think he is cuter than her but her fans tend to think the sun shines out her ass so what do I know 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 10:25 PM
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I would think on date 2 maybe bring it up? Idk. I was hooking up and then forming relationships so kind of backwards lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 10:24 PM
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Yes. In the USA it is considered a crime to knowingly infect someone with HIV. Unfortunately there are people who do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 10:16 PM
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So true 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 03:27 PM
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Are you from the UK? I’ve noticed cheating seems to be more popular over there than in the U.S. Not sure why but just something I’ve come to notice.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 12:56 PM
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I’m old so I’ve been to quite a few at this point…no male strippers at any I’ve been too. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 12:51 PM
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I don’t think this is the subreddit to ask. Most of the men here have not had sex or ever been in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 12:40 PM
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Awww I like my guy! But I can’t be around him 24/7 because we don’t physically work together anymore…boooooo.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 12:31 PM
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I literally LOL’d over this one! 😆😆
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 12:29 PM
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I think if he’s a Juggalo she has to pay for the first three then
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 12:29 PM
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Idk about the others but I know he is mad that I think it’s is an alt account of another user that is intoxicated by soup. I could be wrong but I know I’m not the only person who has mentioned it’s the same guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 12:28 PM
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If you block and it is reported to mods you can a ban from the subreddit until you remove the block. Just FYI!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 12:25 PM
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It looks so good!!!! You are really getting better every time you post!!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 12:24 PM
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It’s the guy who got drugged (supposedly) by sugar babies/prostitutes and he was claiming women here told him he deserved it. Then he forgot to log out of his alt account and freaked out when he got called out.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 12:19 PM
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How sad do you have to be to run to the RedditHelp subreddit to complain about the mods here. What a fucking whiny baby. 😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 12:16 PM
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Oh I believe it and have seen it myself!!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 12:06 PM
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Awww did you get your feelings hurt too?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 12:05 PM
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Sure bud. You weren’t talking to me and I didn’t see the comment but I’m sooo hurt. Lmao. Nice try. https://preview.redd.it/kcerdxqtd7bh1.jpeg?width=1125&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b65215670b2dcbfec0815d99eb9149a84098a7de
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 12:03 PM
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You forgot to switch your alt account.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 02:48 AM
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I seriously think mods need to intervene at this point because he has accused multiple female posters of this without giving any proof. It’s not “being civil” at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 02:47 AM
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Why does cross dressing offend you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 01:22 AM
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I’m convinced a lot of these dudes are 30+ with how they constantly bring up shit that was popular twenty years ago. It’s all.. Brad Pitt this, 50 Shades of Grey that, The View, Jeremy Meeks, OkCupid…like none of that shit has been relevant in a looooong time. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 01:21 AM
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It’s been twenty years. We’re still happy. We keep things exciting. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 01:18 AM
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It’s not that serious lol calm down
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 01:17 AM
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6’4” was the standard for me. 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 01:17 AM
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Same as how you bitch about women and dating…yet claim to also be married? 😆😆😆
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 01:16 AM
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I don’t think anyone takes this subreddit that seriously 🤷‍♀️ It’s just the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 11:00 PM
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I didn’t even think either of those two are relevant anymore. Spider-Man was cool like 10+ years ago. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 10:56 PM
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LOL your example is a three year old thread?! Come on now 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 10:53 PM
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I’m not sure why you think I care? I’ve been married for almost 20 years. Single men and their fake wombs are irrelevant to me. 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 10:42 PM
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these are men who wouldn't have a snowball's chance in hell to get attention from women in their home country. You already said it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 10:41 PM
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I don’t think drag is gross. 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 09:07 PM
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This is a debate subreddit. Not everyone has to agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 09:07 PM
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Better get to marching then!! 😆😆😆
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 07:50 PM
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I wonder if anyone actually believes these guys though!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 07:06 PM
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Truly the worst..unfortunately. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 07:03 PM
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Nobody is arguing that these men aren’t losers. 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 06:59 PM
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I still disagree and do not need you to play referee. Goodbye!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 06:57 PM
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I swear this is why so many incels are anti-abortion. 🤣 Evil women are just taking away their future chance at love!!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 05:47 PM
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I’m gonna say 50/50 shot here! Keep us posted!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 05:46 PM
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We love you too babyyyyy 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 05:45 PM
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Lol this entire subreddit! It’s nothing but people pouting and whining that dating isn’t fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 05:45 PM
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How big are we talking?? A few weeks bad I saw a mama wolf spider carrying her babies and that girl was MASSIVE!! I didn’t have the heart to kill a fellow mother so I let her go.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 05:43 PM
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That’s life. Life is not meant to be fair. Weak, shy men have never been desired by the majority of women. This is common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 05:40 PM
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Women are attracted to men who are kind AND charismatic AND confident. One trait alone isn’t going to make women attracted. The only men who think women want to have sex with men because they are kind with no other positive social traits are retarded. If men need this spelled out for them they are hopeless.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 05:01 PM
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An introverted woman would be happy with a man who keeps to himself. Y’all just keep paying attention to extroverted women and ignore the quiet introverted women who also keep to themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 04:58 PM
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You gotta go where it’s popular. Big cities with less traditional/conservative populations are the best bet I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 04:57 PM
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It’s just called workingmoms I believe! I haven’t been on it in awhile but when I was there were many women who had SAHD partners. I am pretty sure the SAHP subreddit also has SAHDs that participate too. It seems to be more popular in bigger cities where conservative ideals aren’t heavily pushed. Even where I live in the Midwest I get flack from men and women who don’t think I should be the breadwinner. It’s annoying AF. I loved when my husband was able to be a SAHD!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 04:55 PM
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This might be surprising to find out but men can be confident, charismatic, kind, and morally good at the same time! But just one of those traits may not be all that is needed to create attraction. A man could be the kindest man in the world and it doesn’t make me want to have sex with him. And women do say this but men keep pushing back on it for some reason. 🤷‍♀️ I tell men on this subreddit all the time I would choose a charming man over a shy one.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 04:52 PM
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Duh. I’m not saying that charisma isn’t attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 03:58 PM
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Oh definitely! Men who have to PPB or find a mail order bride have always been viewed as losers by the general public. I actually think they are probably lower on the hierarchy scale than men who are struggling to find a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 03:58 PM
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There is no rule that says there should be a 1:1 ratio. Dating …just like life ..is not going to be fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 03:56 PM
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Expand your horizons. The working mom subreddit is filled with career focused women with SAHDs.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 03:52 PM
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You’ve completely moved goal posts on the initial discussion. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 02:42 PM
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You claimed women like me were arguing against it. You need to not assume that I am the same women saying women prefer ugly men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 02:41 PM
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Yep! I know it hurts some men’s feelings but I think most women would also agree that cowardice is unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 02:19 PM
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I think a lot of these guys aren’t old enough to know that men were made fun of for having mail order brides back then too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 02:16 PM
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There are MANY women who are career focused that would love to have a stay at home dad. It’s really not that uncommon anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 02:14 PM
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Exactly so how do you expect me to answer something when I cannot speak on the dating standards for every woman? And no I do not believe it is “very common” that the man pays. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 02:12 PM
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I would say I’m a realist. It would be great if those things weren’t true and everyone could live happily ever after but as we can see from the world around us that’s not happy any time soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 02:05 PM
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Depends on each individual woman. Not all women have the same dating standards. For example, my partner and I have always shared finances or split expenses when we were dating before marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 02:03 PM
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You must have me confused with another woman then. Where am I arguing that women want to fuck ugly men? I sat repeatedly on this subreddit that women want to date, fuck, and have relationships with men they find physically appealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 02:01 PM
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There is no way to make life fair for everyone. Dating is one of those situations. Not every person will find a partner. There will always be suffering, death, misfortune, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 01:59 PM
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Damn now you’ve moved on to name calling/personal attacks. I’ll have to report it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 01:54 PM
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I still think this is a conversation that happens between men and sugar baby/prostitutes. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 01:52 PM
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I’m not sure what was confusing about what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 01:51 PM
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Dating is not meant to be fair. Dating should not be fair. Life is not fair. Apparently no one taught these lessons to the younger generations?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 01:50 PM
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You keep evading my main question. I never said women don’t try to use male insecurity to insult..but what I did question was why a woman saying that she has a job or can pay her own bills is brought into the conversation and apparently considering an insult to these particular men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 01:49 PM
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Ok! Best of luck on your continued victim hood.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 01:46 PM
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I am not dating so I don’t know where they hide. They are out there though 🤷‍♀️ I approached every man I was ever interested in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 01:45 PM
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Men say it because they think it will hit an easy insecurity. Hell men have called me fat on this subreddit without even knowing what my body looks like 😆 I just don’t under how the conversation becomes - Man: I don’t want to have sex with/date you. Woman: I have a job and can pay my own bills! That’s why I asked how the conversation comes up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 01:43 PM
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FYI - race is not allowed to be brought into these discussions but I don’t live in an area that is diverse enough for a man like you’ve described to be an option. I have been attracted to men of many different races, heights, and their career was never a factor. If I had to take a guess the shortest man I approached was around my height then so 5’2”-ish and I’m not sure what his job was at the time. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 01:40 PM
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Because these men talk about dating as if it is meant to be fair when it never has been.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 01:37 PM
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If this is common sense then why do men keep repeating it? It would be like me telling men that they prefer beautiful women over ugly women. Pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 01:36 PM
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Idiots fall in love with other idiots all the time. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 01:05 PM
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Lmao well I guess I’m living in a Disney fairy tale because I’ve approached every man I’ve been interested in including the shy, socially awkward men in my past.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 01:04 PM
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And you’ve provided nothing but your opinion. I’m not going to waste any more of my time with you. Bye. 👋
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 01:03 PM
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Yes and I also mentioned mental health in my previous reply. That is a factor. I was also talking about intelligence. Would you rather me say your friends are stupid?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 01:02 PM
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You can’t speak for all men though. Extroverted men exist. It’s retarded to try to deny it and pretend all men are social shut ins who don’t interact with anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:54 PM
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And they probably aren’t mentally healthy either. 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:53 PM
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Extroverted women do all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:52 PM
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Why are men acting like it’s brand new information that having charisma and traits that are physically attractive are beneficial in dating? Ugly women know that and pretty privilege has always been a thing but somehow men missed the memo?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:51 PM
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Your person experience doesn’t matter either. I’m telling you that the men I know socialize. Not every male is introverted.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:47 PM
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We can judge whoever we want. And do. Grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:18 PM
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Shy guys could go to places where extroverted women are and let those women do the approaching. But they’d rather whine about how dating is unfair I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:14 PM
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I swear men bitch about “women are wonderful” but they’re the ones who seem to be in denial that some women are just as fucked up as bad men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:08 PM
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Some women aren’t mentally healthy either. Do you think a woman with good morals and intelligence would willingly try to date a murderer? 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:07 PM
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I’m telling you my personal experience. You seem to think you can speak for all men. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 11:59 AM
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It’s pretty much Millennial/Gen-X women and autistic men in their late teens/20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 11:56 AM
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Tbh this sounds like a conversation someone would have with a sugar baby or prostitute. Why and how are finances even being brought up during the exchange?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 11:52 AM
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It must be the men you know. Many of the men I’m around seem to be more extroverted than their wives/girlfriends (if they have a partner).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 11:47 AM
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She’s so pretty 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 02:20 AM
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Omg at least it is clean! Kinda confused on why there are no sheets but the mattress isn’t stained so that’s a win 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 02:17 AM
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Idk I think there are some women who genuinely do find those old dudes attractive. Personally I’ve never seen the appeal. It’s always been odd to me that they want to fuck a dude that looks like he could be her grandpa.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 02:15 AM
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My husband seems pretty happy with my success and isn’t bothered by me being the higher earner. We’ve never been a his/her type of couple about finances so if either of us are doing well it’s a win for both of us. The people who actually give us the most flack for it are surprisingly …other men. It’s never made sense to me why they feel the need to make negative judgments when this works for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 02:11 AM
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How long until the comments start delving into the same complaint about mean family members and their homophobia
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 02:07 AM
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I believe it!!! I’ve also noticed people are terrible spellers now too which I have a feeling is from all the autocorrect typing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 02:03 AM
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For some reason men don’t like to share. And women do have second families. They have children with other men and have entire full relationships on the side. They just have to do it in secret. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 10:31 PM
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I hope you can stay cool!! It’s currently 96 F / 35.6 C where I live. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 09:31 PM
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Idk about all of the black pill ideas but I am all for people who are unattractive doing what they can to be more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 09:28 PM
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Omg or Queer Eye, Extreme Makeover, and that Fox show that I think was called The Swan or something. Those were the days!!! 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 09:26 PM
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For real. It’s crazy how we have gotten so stupid so fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 09:21 PM
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I think it’s because it just leads to incels throwing little pity parties
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 09:20 PM
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GIRL. My teen had to sign for his driving permit a few months back and I was appalled at how bad it looked. But nowadays everything is on a computer/tablet. 😭 I’m just glad his school still taught cursive in elementary!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 09:17 PM
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Gross that you automatically assume drag = homosexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 09:11 PM
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Literally!! These guys missed out on all of the great makeover shows we used to watch!!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 09:11 PM
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Please do. Women have been begging men to go away and leave us be for a very long time. You’d think men that dislike women would be happy about it but they keep whining about not being valued or needed any longer.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 09:02 PM
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I literally have no idea what you’re talking about. And regarding accountability the only people I ever see whining about others needing to take accountability are men who are angry with women for choosing anyone but them. Since it’s stated here daily can you please provide an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 07:55 PM
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Ok! Thank you for clarifying!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 07:52 PM
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Yes. We tell our friends to talk to a therapist to find out what is making them desire men who aren’t interested in a relationship. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 07:46 PM
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Am I allowed to say I agree or would that be circlejerking? It’s so confusing what is allowed and what isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 07:45 PM
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You asked if you were doing something wrong and I answered. I wasn’t giving you a solution or telling you to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 07:44 PM
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Not my problem that their parents didn’t love them enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 07:43 PM
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Depends on the context. If the guy was hot but constantly whined to a woman odds are high she would find him repulsive. If he was hot but whined infrequently it would be less of an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 07:42 PM
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Those women are truly a blessing for some men. It’s a shame it has not been fully legalized in the USA but we’re still too conservative about sex and put too much meaning into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 07:40 PM
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Women just don’t feel obligated to stay in relationships that are not fulfilling. Men will stay even when miserable just to say they have a partner. Life is too short to be with someone who makes you unhappy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 07:27 PM
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If they don’t pull a “woe is me” act constantly. But yes women are attracted to men who are attractive. I am constantly telling men that women don’t want to have sex with, date, or marry ugly men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 07:24 PM
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It’s definitely giving proof that some men think everything revolves around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:58 PM
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Proof that some men are so self centered they can’t comprehend that the fat positivity movement was made by women for women. 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:56 PM
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If they were a great romantic option and wanted to be in a relationship then they could find a way to make it happen. Many people think they are a great catch when in reality they would not be a good romantic partner to the person they are interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:54 PM
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Then don’t. Problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:51 PM
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Then men coming here for advice or any online space is retarded because no one can give tailored advice to someone they don’t know on an individual basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:48 PM
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Help in what way? I have never asked a man to take responsibility for another man’s actions so I’m curious what other women are requesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:40 PM
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I’m responding to your last line that in your opinion it’s not good advice. If you have better advice then feel free to share your solution to their problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:39 PM
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Then they can stay miserable I guess. Not my responsibility or anyone else’s to fix it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:30 PM
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It is exhausting! I can’t figure out if these guys who expect relationships to be free therapy were too emotionally coddled growing up or not emotionally validated enough. I can only assume they have little to no social life because I can’t imagine someone enjoys spending their time listening to someone whine and be in a negative mood constantly. I’ve had coworkers like that in the past and literally dreaded being around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:29 PM
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See the problem is men can’t accept that women don’t want their help finding a partner. We don’t need your (general you) input on who we should be attracted to. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:26 PM
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I don’t think that is true for everyone. I think some people do genuinely desire a partner more than others and others truly are content being single.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:25 PM
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That’s your personal experience. It’s not true for every man. For example I listen to my husband when he’s struggling and he listens to me. I’ve also been there for each of my male friends (which unfortunately tends to backfire because they then think my kindness means I want them romantically 👎) and even my husband’s friends when they need to vent. But I am not required to listen to every single complaint they have. I also would not expect them to do it for me. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:24 PM
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I already told you it’s unattractive. So you want to be attractive to women or unattractive? That’s your answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:21 PM
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Possibly! I think acceptance would probably be better for their mental health overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:20 PM
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Probably because women are out enjoying their lives instead of wondering why they had a crush on the hot, fun, popular guy in high school lmao. We already know we liked him because he was hot and fun to be around. Men seem to be the ones really really struggling to understand dating dynamics. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:18 PM
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Oh I definitely agree. I think they are sad and the anger is just covering up the true emotion they are feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:16 PM
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No!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:13 PM
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We already understand ourselves. We want to have sex, make babies, and form relationships with men we find attractive physically and emotionally. We do not want to have those things with men we don’t find attractive. It’s not that hard. Unselected men are just angry that we don’t agree with them on who they think should be considered attractive. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:07 PM
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Women don’t want to listen to other women bitch and moan all day either. That’s why we also tell them to go talk to a therapist. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:03 PM
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Phrases like this and the “woe-is-me” attitude is what is unattractive: Men with depression should just get chemical castration then, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:02 PM
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Lmao that last line was all I needed to know 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 05:54 PM
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It looks like the moderators removed the comment so it must’ve been considered a personal attack. 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 05:30 PM
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Huh? Where did I say it was men’s fault they have mental health problems? Please show me the text and where I said it is something they caused themselves. A psychologist is not the same a a psychiatrist. One prescribes medications and the other does not. Most talk therapy is done by a provider that cannot prescribe medications. They also give actions for patients to do to help change their thoughts and self harming behavior. Yes, the wrong medication can have detrimental effects which is why pat…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 05:03 PM
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Men don’t seek treatment for their depression..they just come to subreddits like this one to complain about how sad, lonely, and worthless they feel. 🤷‍♀️ Your examples are no different than boomers saying that cancer didn’t exist 50+ years ago …when people weren’t seeking diagnoses or treatment plans. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:43 PM
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That just correlation not causation. 🤷‍♀️ Women seeking treatment doesn’t mean men don’t also have depression. And if we’re going by your idea of “lucky” I would be one of the “lucky ones”. I’m not on medications, had an active dating life - now happily married, and an active social life. 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 02:40 PM
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Whatever you need to tell yourself to feel better dude 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:48 PM
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Scortmaxxing is a new one 🤣 Y’all have the most entertaining vocabulary
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 12:53 PM
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