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DebateIcy_Ad_4544/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 10:28 PM
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Question For MenIcy_Ad_4544/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 06:40 PM
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Yeah she definitely should have asked first
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 01:52 AM
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lol that was a good one
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 11:32 PM
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Moderation has been pretty hit or miss lately.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 11:30 PM
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Shoulder length on men is MUCH better than chin length. Chin length gives off teenage skater boy vibe which would be creepy. Or this
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 11:29 PM
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It’s wild to me that men are just now recognizing pretty privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 11:27 PM
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It would be assault from whoever did this - male or female. It’s not acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 09:11 PM
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I’ll upvote you friend 🥰 Hope your puppers start acting right soon lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 09:09 PM
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Yeah they all basically look the same so there isn’t anything to be WOW’d over. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 09:08 PM
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I’d just wash it tbh but I’m a nurse so bodily fluids don’t really ick me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 09:07 PM
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I just have to say you are amazing!!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 08:53 PM
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Do you think this is primarily an issue for the younger generation? It seems like so many people under 30 just don’t have any resiliency. Something doesn’t work out for them immediately and they just give up. I don’t understand it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 07:13 PM
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🤨 And none of you are getting the incel adjacent subreddits in your feeds? Strange.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 07:10 PM
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I didn’t deny that some women say the other phrases. I’ve just never heard a woman tell a man that men don’t cry. I have heard men tell other (usually younger) men that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 07:09 PM
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To be fair about half of those sayings you’ve listed I have heard directly from men and not women. Especially: "Real men don't cry." "Man up." "A man's value is what he provides." "Men only think with one thing." "Happy wife, happy life” "His job is to protect and provide; that's what men are for."
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 06:36 PM
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Can you elaborate on “emotional whimsy”? I haven’t heard of that before.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 04:23 PM
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I know you are a man lol Unless you are able to read minds you truly don’t know what these people are thinking about other people. You may be the first man I have ever encountered that does not have watch porn. It seems to be a rare thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 04:08 PM
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There are some men who are red or black pilled who use the blue pill flair just to troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 03:26 PM
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Not all women hate porn though. I love sex and I enjoy looking at attractive people. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 03:20 PM
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It doesn’t stop them from doing it though regardless of how their partner feels. 🤷‍♀️ I haven’t met a man yet that doesn’t notice an attractive woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 03:18 PM
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Awwww this will be me one day
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 02:23 PM
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I don’t care about men watching legal porn so I still think women should be allowed to look and lust over hot men just like men lust over hot women. It’s only fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 02:22 PM
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Partnered men look at hot women all the time. Women should be able to check out the few attractive men that exist. I’m tired of seeing ugly old men in my TV. 😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 02:07 PM
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I guess the issue is a lot of men think they wouldn’t get sex at all if they didn’t trick women into it. I think this is the correct answer for why they think lying and being deceptive is acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 01:48 PM
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Second?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 01:18 PM
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Ok that makes sense. I have never been a sugar baby or spoken with men who openly use the service so I was not sure how it worked. I still think getting it in writing (even over text) would be a good idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 01:18 PM
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Do you negotiate terms of what sex acts are supposed to be happening prior to the meet up? Why not have written contracts?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 03:17 AM
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Women already approach men they are interested in sexually/romantically. I have always asked out men that I was interested in. I literally texted my guy that I wanted to have sex with him for our first hookup. Can’t be more direct than that. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 03:40 PM
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I KNOW! Literal idiots.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 02:28 AM
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Women aren’t just accepting whatever men come our way. We reject plenty. 🤷‍♀️ Women, who are like me, do not find passive, shy, and/or anxious men attractive. These men would not be a better partner because they would be incompatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 11:00 PM
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Same. I’ve only met a few 20+ year old men who are virgins. Even my husband’s goofy looking, autistic coworker was able to find a girlfriend last year.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 01:54 PM
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No clue. I chalk it up to just being young and dumb like we all were once.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 10:59 AM
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Girl it was a mind blowing read for me too. Like..wow. No self reflection at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 08:49 PM
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Hell I’ve been accused of being promiscuous just for having large breasts. Not sure what the correlation is but for some men they seem to be certain it means I have slept around or am an easy lay. Super frustrating.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 08:25 PM
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Exactly lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 07:56 PM
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Jealous that she’s having sex. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 06:57 PM
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I wish I was 5’9” too 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 06:57 PM
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I am so jealous! I love cruises! Hope you have fun!!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 06:52 PM
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Not a man but I agree with their opinion that the woman should have asked him directly and not just assumed he was serious about her. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 06:29 PM
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Gives me the ick so bad. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 03:02 PM
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I have never heard of this in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 02:44 PM
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No. Why would I be? I’m not the one who is jealous. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 01:30 PM
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Like why aren't these women leaving? Why do they take my dick 10 more times? Because you are paying them. Duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 01:04 PM
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Kinda sounds like jealousy to me 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 12:46 PM
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I mean the answer to this is simple AF. This couple is not sexually compatible and if it is a major issue for either one then they should just break up. It’s not that hard to figure out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 10:33 AM
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I don’t hate on age gaps and find it weird when people get preachy over them. As long as everyone is consenting adults then it’s their business. My husband and I have a very small age gap but got a lot of shit from other women when we started dating at 19/24. It was super annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 09:12 PM
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If it is so common place then link some non-Reddit examples then. 🤷‍♀️ It shouldn’t be hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 04:47 PM
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Dude why are you replying to a 5 day old comment? 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 04:07 PM
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Yes!! A fellow gardener! We have grown two different types of small tomatoes, cucumbers, basil, and ONE poblano pepper 🤣 <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 03:05 PM
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Lmao so true
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 03:03 PM
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Isn’t it crazy? We need more female moderators. This sub is just turning more incel adjacent by the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 12:44 PM
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I want to go to Cookout so fucking bad but there are none close to me. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:55 AM
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Silence is super fucking weird to me. I guess 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:53 AM
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It’s super gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:49 AM
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Whatever you need to tell yourself champ. I’m not going to try to stop ya.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:48 AM
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You keep talking about but here you still are worrying about what women are saying and doing. Not doing a very good job at “going your own way” huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:46 AM
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What about me?!? 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 09:46 PM
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Glad you learned something!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 09:12 PM
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It’s an insane reach to assume a woman who is having good sex with a man would not want to continue doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 07:29 PM
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Yes because men on this subreddit go into daily crying fits worrying about what others think. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 06:54 PM
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Ok. Still don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 06:53 PM
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Yes my husband and I have a lot of sex. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 02:54 PM
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I’m so jealous!! Apparently there are wildfires in Canada and the smoke has crossed over into the U.S. and the air outside today is horrible. We’ve had to close a bunch of outdoor events/businesses because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 02:44 PM
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We both take the trash out. He walks the bins to the curb on trash pickup day but there isn’t like a specific time limit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:50 PM
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If a woman used to love giving blowjobs suddenly doesn’t want to with you..it’s possibly because of poor hygiene. Maybe a bad odor or even ejaculate that tastes bad. 🤷‍♀️ That would be my guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:47 PM
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This is how men who have never had sex describe what is like. Obvious giveaway.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:44 PM
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Makes sense to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:29 PM
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I thought the same thing about the first scenario. Most likely poor hygiene or his cum tastes nasty.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:14 PM
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lol glad you think so! Not sure why you think I care?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:08 PM
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Sorry not everyone cares about what society thinks 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:07 PM
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Apparently you stopped reading after “domestic violence”. 🙄 Yes the idea of being laughed at by society as a terrible consequence is silly. There are worse things to worry with domestic violence than someone else’s opinion of what happened. 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:00 PM
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Yes the idea of being laughed at by society as a terrible consequence is silly. There are worse things to worry with domestic violence than someone else’s opinion of what happened. 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:00 PM
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Oh no! The horror!! 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 03:08 AM
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I can’t even take this post seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 10:29 PM
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The only reason I know about Bonnie Blue is because I heard about her on this subreddit and listened to an interview with her out of curiosity. I’m not sure why men think women follow porn stars as closely as men do. Most women just can’t be bothered to learn about these women. There isn’t really any point in it for us. 🤷‍♀️ I haven’t watched her stuff because it’s just doesn’t appeal to me but I like her personality (from what I saw in the interview).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 09:50 PM
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Dear lord yes. It might just be the men on Reddit but these men are more anxious and self conscious than any woman I have ever met. It’s crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 09:43 PM
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You wasted your time typing all that out. Not reading it. Don’t care. The opinion of single men is irrelevant to me. Bye! 👋
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 09:37 PM
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I would mention it to the original friend that you are interested in her friend so the original friend can find out what the new friend is thinking too. And if she’s gay like you suspect the original friend would be able to just let you know so you don’t waste time on something that wouldn’t pan out.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 10:51 AM
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I think they just don’t know any other way to get women to pay attention to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 12:41 AM
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Oh I have so many suggestions for him. He has potential but right now he’s a solid 0/10 for me. Kinda spooky looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 11:04 PM
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From what I am told boys are more rambunctious when they are young and mellow out with age and girls are easy when they’re young but rebellious when they get older.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 10:57 PM
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SO EXCITING!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 10:56 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 10:45 PM
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Sexual prime is describing the period in time when a woman develops a higher libido and wants to have sex more often. It’s not about if the men around her find her the most sexually desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 09:35 PM
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Just chiming in to say that there are some aspects of dating that are outside of a person’s control. If someone really likes a guy who is super outgoing/social, athletic, and funny..but to the women he seems shy/reserved, uncoordinated/clumsy, and no sense of humor there isn’t much he can do to change her opinion of him. Those two just aren’t a good match. 🤷‍♀️ And for your second part about sex/dating..some people start out just hooking up without actually dating or being in a relationship with…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 09:31 PM
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It’s like they literally cannot wrap their heads around the possibility that some women value a relationship with a person more than they value a sexual encounter.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 04:50 PM
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I’ve also tried to explain this to these guys but they don’t want to believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 04:19 PM
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It keeps moving! Last I heard it was 25!!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:45 PM
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Wow!! That is amazing!!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:30 PM
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Literally! My husband’s former friend was very incel adjacent during the first few years I knew him. He ended up meeting a lady willing to date and marry him and then proceeded to cheat on her (and made other unsuccessful attempts) as soon as he found another woman that gave him interest. It’s crazy to me how these guys assume being a former incel/nice guy means they are loyal. These guys tend to be the worst cheaters because they have so much FOMO and bitterness about not being chosen by women …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 11:09 AM
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Lmao. Because clearly no tall man could ever embody these traits. Just shorties. 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 11:06 AM
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I’ve known patients that are still having sex in their 80s. I’m hoping to still be sexually active at that age too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 10:47 AM
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The person who is dating them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:39 AM
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My husband is basically the only man I can stand to be around for more than a few hours 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 09:56 PM
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This is one of my favorite parts of growing older with a partner. My husband has some gray and silver and the silver reflects in the light like glitter!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 05:40 PM
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I never realized that this pairing makes people so angry until I found this subreddit. I’m 5’4” with shoes on and my husband is 6’4”. 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 05:34 PM
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Fun!!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 05:30 PM
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Glad you are home!!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 05:18 PM
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As a woman, we could say the same thing about men. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 12:32 PM
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I disagree. Women would prefer men to be more attractive. Not less.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 07:54 PM
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Doesn’t seem to be working for them though if women are saying they are focusing on the male gaze.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 06:38 PM
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It sounds like those guys are focusing on forming traits they(men) think are attractive which don’t always line up with what women actually find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 04:17 PM
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True!! And it’s the same stuff over and over so even if you take a break and come back you won’t miss much!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 04:14 PM
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You gotta pay more attention then..lol. This sub is like 80% male
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:47 PM
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lol what?! Do you realize what subreddit you are on? The men here demand studies for everything and tell women our lived experiences don’t count as proof for anything. 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:38 PM
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Is it an equal amount of women or more?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:19 PM
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No we like helping men improve their looks too. We love a good makeover and wouldn’t consider it “trying hard”.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 01:58 PM
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Same!!! They have such good chemistry in it!! Makes me want to rewatch it today 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 01:56 PM
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Women love a good makeover so idk where you are getting the idea that women are anti-glowup.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 01:34 PM
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They did another rom com together that I think is even better - Runaway Bride. You should check it out if you haven’t seen it too!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 01:32 PM
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I’m sorry girl 😔 That really sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 01:30 PM
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This is such a good movie! Have you seen it??
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 01:27 PM
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With men it's usually the reverse. I feel like a supermodel now 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 01:20 PM
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Yep. I just want to see dicks. I don’t even want to see their faces 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 01:08 PM
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No but I told my husband McGregor wasn’t going to win! I probably should have put some $$$ on it LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 12:50 PM
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LOLLLLLL
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 02:46 AM
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I agree with the other girl - as long as you aren’t pushy and accept gracefully if she would say no then no harm no foul. Good luck!!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 08:26 PM
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Awwww I love you too RedSand!! ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 08:21 PM
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Would it make you feel better if I tell you that if I were single penis size (length + girth) would matter to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 07:11 PM
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So true. Like I have zero interest in reenacting what someone is doing in porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 07:07 PM
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I’m not sure if you are agreeing/disagreeing or just sharing your own experiences. I just mentioned it because these guys seek to be hung up on the idea that they can’t do certain positions because they have smaller size dicks and from my experience even if they were average/larger some positions could still be tricky if there is a significant height difference. My husband and I have a ft difference in height and some positions are just not comfortable for us - like sex standing up has never wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 07:05 PM
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I think for as much as men here want to talk about penis size we should just make a weekly post like we do for looks and N count.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 06:51 PM
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Sometimes it’s not just penis size but the actual height difference between the couple too that makes some positions more difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 06:50 PM
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Those look amazing!! You are so talented!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 04:54 PM
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I genuinely think it has gotten worse with the younger generations and it surprises me because you think they would be more open minded but it’s like we’re going backwards. Just sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 02:28 PM
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Agreed. It seems to happen so often that it’s not even that surprising anymore to others when we find out.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 02:22 PM
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Literally. Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 02:19 PM
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She wasn’t worth it then! Unfortunately there are still a lot of homophobic women out there. 👎
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 02:18 PM
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Don’t forget rich!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 02:16 PM
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Same here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 02:06 PM
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Not sure why you are trying to lie because your made hateful comments towards me too because of my husband’s height.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 10:40 AM
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Sure but that doesn’t mean they disclose everything. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 01:24 AM
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I’m gonna say 60% since some guys will never have sex. I only find like 2-3% of men attractive though so I could be biased and women might think these guys are hot while I wouldn’t see the appeal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 11:35 PM
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A lot of alcohol 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 11:24 PM
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Are you talking about just men in general or men in relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 11:20 PM
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I’ve only tried weed (great) and mushrooms (just OK) so far
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 10:06 PM
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Makes sense!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 09:12 PM
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Do you want me to yell at them for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 08:49 PM
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I will tell you if you are really ugly or not
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 08:47 PM
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What are your thoughts on men who support circumcision? I’ve met a few ..which surprised me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 08:42 PM
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What kind of drugs are we talking about here? I smoke a lot of weed but I just like to chill, get stoned, and color lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 08:41 PM
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I’m so confused right now
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 08:39 PM
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I don’t think there is anything that everyone agrees on. Live life for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 07:01 PM
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No flights for you 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 06:14 PM
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I swear these dudes want us to care so much but we just …don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 06:13 PM
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Yikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 06:06 PM
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Seriously!! It sounds like the best job
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 06:03 PM
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Lmao!!! Wow!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 06:00 PM
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You just assume they are telling the truth but unless you’ve spent every day with her since she became sexually active you honestly won’t ever know. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 05:31 PM
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Girl they are gonna screenshot your comment and use it to ragebait other incels for the next year 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 05:21 PM
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I know at least 1-2 others that may have wanted the position but M hasn’t announced her retirement yet so nothing is official yet. I’m hoping it doesn’t cause any issues but I guess we will cross that bridge when we get there! I’m just excited that they even considered me for the role in the first place since I am still pretty new to the department. Edit: and THANK YOU!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 05:15 PM
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My boss (N) just told me her boss (M) is retiring in the next 6 months and she (N) is going to be taking her role (M) so they want me to take over my current boss’s (N) position once that happens. I was so not expecting that news today. I have the lowest seniority so I am a little worried how my coworkers will react to the news once it becomes official.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 04:38 PM
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Omg I saw men on another subreddit just losing their minds over that post
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 02:45 PM
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I have a corgi and she is so cute but such a terror! <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 02:43 PM
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I can tell lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 12:41 PM
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Not really lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 12:28 PM
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Nahhhh. Wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 11:47 AM
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Probably for the same reason men talk about women 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 11:07 AM
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You keep replying sooooo….
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 11:07 AM
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Couldn’t tell..it seems like what they think really bothers you. Good luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 10:27 AM
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Idk you guys seem to get pretty butthurt when women talk about short men and incels so I doubt that’s true
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 10:22 AM
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It’s a category of weed! I think there are two types (my husband grows so I pay attention a little bit lol) that are Sativa and Indica. Sativa usually gives you energy and Indica makes you sleepy/relaxed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 10:17 AM
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Doesn’t look like it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 10:14 AM
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That was a good one!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 01:01 AM
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We are a bunch of nurses so luckily we aren’t easily offended! But I can see how a lot of other offices wouldn’t be enjoyable to work at! Glad you have a job you like! ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 10:32 PM
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I thought I would hate it too but I love it! My job is pretty lax though so we are able to socialize quite a bit and my coworkers are really awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 10:00 PM
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It depends on my mood! Sometimes I love it and other times I just want to grab my stuff and go.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 09:26 PM
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Oh! Do you like sports betting? I love it but it’s so darn addicting!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 09:17 PM
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I love grocery store pick up. It saves so much time!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 09:14 PM
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Well you’d be better off talking to those women then. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 09:14 PM
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You’re the one calling the men here “losers”. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 08:56 PM
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None that I’m willing to share with you. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 08:46 PM
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We all have our own sense of humor for what we find funny or even entertaining. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 08:29 PM
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If you have no issue with being banned you would have already done so. I simply pointed out an observation that you’ve spent years in this sub making the same complaints about women. That’s all. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 08:22 PM
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Spending quality time with my loved ones!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 07:54 PM
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Apparently neither do you. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 07:46 PM
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If you’d like to risk breaking the rules then go ahead. It’s not worth a temp ban for me. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 07:30 PM
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They are bigger than I expected them to be! Fast too!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 07:15 PM
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You can see them yourself in your comment history. You don’t need me to show you your own comments and you know as well as I do that linking to them is witch-hunting which is against the sub rules. Nice try though!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 07:04 PM
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These are the same men who end up divorced and stay angry because they can’t self reflect on their own breakdown in the marriage. It’s wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 06:32 PM
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Damn it’s like none of these men actually read before replying. 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 06:14 PM
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lol well you said it not me but yes definitely 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 05:05 PM
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If someone is asking to discuss books why would we assume they are lonely and are looking for support? Maybe no one wanted to talk about books at that time. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 03:36 PM
2

Well unless they’re all on this subreddit the population count of your country is irrelevant lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 03:32 PM
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It’s really not that far away or exotic for most of us on the sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 01:39 PM
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Maybe a slight difference in their inner anatomy and the anatomy of the male partner’s penis (girth, curve/angle, length) etc..
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 01:00 PM
3

Now if autism was a subreddit 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:55 PM
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That’s fair!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:09 PM
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This is PPD. I’m not sure why this is surprising to you..especially since you’ve been on this subreddit complaining about the women here for years. Like the same complaints…over..and over..and over.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 10:47 AM
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Dang. That is “brootal”. Has she ever said why she isn’t interested in marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 10:44 AM
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You might want to tell your fellow men that because they have said time and time again on this subreddit that not being fat is the only thing a woman needs to do to be considered attractive to men. 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 10:24 AM
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Accurate description of 99% of the Redpill/Blackpill/Incel men on this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 10:18 AM
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Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 03:19 AM
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I’ve probably said worse. Oh well. Like I said …some people take this place too seriously! 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:12 AM
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You said it like three times in a row too and it just whooshed right over him.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:40 AM
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Well my husband and I laugh at what goes on in this sub together 🤷‍♀️ Some people take this place too seriously lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:28 AM
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I’ve met some really terrible women over the years so unfortunately it doesn’t surprise me to hear this. Glad you are able to be a good source of support/comfort to these guys!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:46 PM
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But men are saying this all the time..even in this very thread. Should we assume they are liars?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:33 PM
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What harassment? Can you provide proof of what I have done to harass you? Replying to a comment isn’t harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 07:16 PM
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What harassment? The only thing I’ve seen is users saying that some of us believe this is an alt account. Just because you don’t like what someone comments doesn’t mean they are harassing you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:55 PM
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That’s awesome that you are willing to try to learn!! It’s definitely a skill that takes some time to develop. Don’t get discouraged if some things don’t turn out great right away. I’ve been cooking since I was 12 (will be 38 next month) and I still bomb some meals every once in a while! 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:37 PM
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Tbh Reddit mods are volunteers so they can make whatever rules they want for their subreddits. It’s kind of pointless to complain. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:30 PM
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THANK YOU. I knew I wasn’t the only one who noticed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:46 PM
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Omggggggg. We have to do something about all these ESL posters that cannot comprehend the different dating dynamics between the USA and India. 😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:43 PM
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You first. I asked before you did. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:42 PM
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I think “just know”ing is a poor indicator because look how many men have convinced themselves they’re giving women orgasms that aren’t happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 04:37 PM
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This is the truth!! My husband and I say often that we feel like our sex life gets better and better over time. I think this is one of those things like having children that it’s really hard to understand until you’re actually in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 04:34 PM
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Personally, I would not be interested unless their child(ren) were older because my son is almost 18 and I wouldn’t want to start all over. I also wouldn’t get upset if a man didn’t want to date me (if I became a single mom) for the same reason. Being a parent is HARD. I give a lot of props to those who are able to make it work. My stepdad is truly amazing and I am so thankful that he entered our lives after my father passed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 12:54 PM
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Some people peak in their attractiveness in the youth and then their looks decline with age..and others start out as ugly ducklings that glow up as they get older. I think that is the most realistic option. I think settling for a partner at 40+ was more common when being single was socially unacceptable. I don’t think it is something that actually happens anymore. (At least not on the woman’s side)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:45 AM
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I guess if you get awards they equal money. Not much but it’s something 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:41 AM
3

A person choosing not to date another person they are not attracted to is another way to sift through people they consider “undatable”.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:29 AM
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I’ll let you know in 5 hours when the day is over. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 11:42 PM
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Probably would just be up to a judge to determine who gets custody but cheating isn’t really going to make much of a difference on who gets custody.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 11:01 PM
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Other people who like to go to the bar. 🤷‍♀️ Some people like to go there just to socialize.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 08:10 PM
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Someone asks for proof and you can’t give it 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 05:45 PM
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Literally and most of the time it’s once a week. Hell some even have riding mowers!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 04:56 PM
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lol this just sounds like someone who has based their world view off of television shows and not real life
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 10:57 AM
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lol normal people do not do this. This is peak insecurity about not being a good sexual partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 10:48 AM
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Then prove me wrong. I’ve been on this subreddit long enough to know what men here mean when they say they want “eMpAtHy” from women. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 10:05 PM
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Literally!!! That forum is the worst of the worst!!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 10:00 PM
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Ugh!!! It is the worst!! Like…no grandpa …we do not want to fuck you. Nasty AF 🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 09:58 PM
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Literally! 75% (if not more!) of this subreddit alone is men complaining about how they can’t get access to the vaginas they swear they were promised growing up. It’s amazing how someone could even make a claim like this when we can all see the same discussion topics. 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 09:53 PM
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At this point empathy just seems to be a code word for: “free access to a woman’s pussy”. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 09:48 PM
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I live in the USA and the only time I’ve heard this said has been from bitter men. Never heard a woman say it one time in my entire life. 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 09:35 PM
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Doesn’t it?! I feel like I’ve been transported to 1960 sometimes when I read about sexless marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 06:02 PM
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Same!! At my first job (many years ago) many of our customers were older men 35+ who would literally encourage each other to screw up basic household tasks so their gf/wives would get annoyed and not ask them to do it again. I’m glad that women have wised up to it and don’t let them get away with this crap anymore!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 05:29 PM
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It really is. The dating dynamics and cultures so different that it makes it impossible to have discussions (or debates) with these guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 05:13 PM
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I questioned it also because I’m also getting a similar vibe.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:43 PM
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Smart plan
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 02:45 AM
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Supposedly it’s super expensive to live there
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 02:18 AM
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Well it’s a good thing those women aren’t dating you and those men don’t need you to validate their dating choices. 😀
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 01:01 AM
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Hey people believe in Scientology too so you do whatever you want 👍😀
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 01:00 AM
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Lmao dude I don’t know anyone who is playing Nintendo 64 games. We live in two different realities I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:59 AM
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Perfect name!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:58 AM
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The only men who care are the ones who are desperate and can’t get a date with anyone else. They’ve put all their eggs in one basket. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:58 AM
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I just have to laugh because he literally did right after you responded. The jokes make themselves 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 11:58 PM
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Omg you are making me feel old because I don’t even know what that is! Is it James Bond??
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 11:58 PM
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Women don’t assume every man has a roster - we know there are ugly men who no one wants. Properly single means not in a committed relationship. A FWB isn’t a commitment. This just sounds like envy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 11:54 PM
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Let’s say 75% then LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 11:25 PM
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Your point is that men are stupid and think they call dibs on a woman after one date? Good luck with that one. 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 11:25 PM
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I saw someone call evo-psych Astrology for Men and it couldn’t be more true.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 11:04 PM
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lol that is what dating is! No one is committing to someone after ONE date. You don’t get to call dibs on someone after going out with them one time. 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 11:03 PM
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I think it must be a new incel slang/catchphrase. Whatever-Maxxing must be going out of style
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 11:00 PM
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Are you actually reading the comments? There were only around 10 or so men that actually responded to the topic. That’s not very many out of 100+ comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 10:55 PM
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This subreddit is 90% men who haven’t had sex, a girlfriend, and are self proclaimed incels. Spend some more time here and you’ll see.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 10:40 PM
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That should be easy since it was zero 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 09:32 PM
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Can we make a new rule against it or something? I agree it’s getting very annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 09:25 PM
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Sir if you are ESL you don’t get to define what English phrases mean just because you don’t personally understand them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 09:23 PM
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More than just mine. The average 20 year old woman wouldn’t even know who he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 09:12 PM
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He is still not relevant sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 09:02 PM
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Love it and congratulations!!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:43 PM
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When you know… you know!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:43 PM
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Hopefully there will be many more years together in the future for you two!! 🥰❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:37 PM
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Nope but he was definitely throwing in personal attacks. Apparently it bothered him that I don’t find insecure, anxious men attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:35 PM
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That’s awesome! How long have you been together now?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:33 PM
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Oh I didn’t even think of that but good point!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:32 PM
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Oh that sounds like an interesting story! Did you start out as roommates and then fell in love?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:25 PM
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I get that - however each time this week it has been in the middle of a debate. They will hurry up and type a response and then block me so I cannot reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:19 PM
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I agree that you don’t need to live together to know if you are compatible but I also think living together is important because it gives you an idea of what marriage to this person would be like (before children).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:17 PM
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If moving in together is a red flag after 1-2 years of dating then y’all would really lose it over the fact that I moved in to an apartment with my partner after we had been dating only 3-4 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:11 PM
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I just asked him and he said, “No. Why would I care?”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:08 PM
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It’s not a problem for all men. And furthermore why should I care?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:05 PM
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It’s wild to me that men think I won’t report them for blocking me after they realize they’ve lost an argument. It’s happened multiple times this week 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:00 PM
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I disagree. I think only a certain group of men have this complex. Usually men who don’t think they can ever measure up in comparison to other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 04:53 PM
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I find that hard to believe. Your comments come off like you view sex as shameful and possibly have a Madonna/Whore complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 04:36 PM
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I thought that too!! It seems like he may have a lot of shame about sex which is sad. It’s giving Madonna/Whore complex vibes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 03:44 PM
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Did I touch a nerve? Would you rather be coddled with lies than hear the truth that women find those traits unattractive? 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 03:22 PM
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I have ADHD and I’m sure it is a struggle at times! I wouldn’t blame anyone who doesn’t want to deal with the hassle. I frustrate myself sometimes!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 02:07 PM
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Nope. A man who would be insecure over my sexual history is not a man I would want so he would not be an option in the first place. We would be incompatible for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 02:04 PM
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And I’m not just talking about body count. I’m saying no one else cares about another person’s sexual history besides insecure (and often jealous) individuals who don’t think they measure up. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 02:03 PM
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No. Not all men are this insecure. Western women don’t need to lie about their sexual past to get a partner. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 02:01 PM
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Insecure people maybe..but the rest of us adults don’t care how many people someone slept with or who they chose to have sex with. I’ll be 38 next month and someone’s sexual activity hasn’t even been a topic of discussion in 15+ years. This is something kids under 21 focus on.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 01:56 PM
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I have a sneaking suspicion this post is coming from another male from India trying to understand western dating culture. It’s getting old.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 01:53 PM
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Reputation is something kids in high school worry about. No one cares past the age of 21+.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 01:51 PM
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Have you actually asked the women you are trying to date if they care? You seem really hung up on the idea that you seeing a prostitute has limited your potential partners when it’s probably related to something else entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 01:50 PM
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He wasn’t comparing He was giving an example. Read again.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 02:35 AM
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I actually think he is cuter than her but her fans tend to think the sun shines out her ass so what do I know 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 10:25 PM
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I would think on date 2 maybe bring it up? Idk. I was hooking up and then forming relationships so kind of backwards lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 10:24 PM
0

So true 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 03:27 PM
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Are you from the UK? I’ve noticed cheating seems to be more popular over there than in the U.S. Not sure why but just something I’ve come to notice.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 12:56 PM
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I’m old so I’ve been to quite a few at this point…no male strippers at any I’ve been too. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 12:51 PM
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I don’t think this is the subreddit to ask. Most of the men here have not had sex or ever been in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 12:40 PM
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Awww I like my guy! But I can’t be around him 24/7 because we don’t physically work together anymore…boooooo.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 12:31 PM
2

I literally LOL’d over this one! 😆😆
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 12:29 PM
2

I think if he’s a Juggalo she has to pay for the first three then
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 12:29 PM
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Idk about the others but I know he is mad that I think it’s is an alt account of another user that is intoxicated by soup. I could be wrong but I know I’m not the only person who has mentioned it’s the same guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 12:28 PM
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If you block and it is reported to mods you can a ban from the subreddit until you remove the block. Just FYI!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 12:25 PM
2

It looks so good!!!! You are really getting better every time you post!!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 12:24 PM
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It’s the guy who got drugged (supposedly) by sugar babies/prostitutes and he was claiming women here told him he deserved it. Then he forgot to log out of his alt account and freaked out when he got called out.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 12:19 PM
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How sad do you have to be to run to the RedditHelp subreddit to complain about the mods here. What a fucking whiny baby. 😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 12:16 PM
1

Oh I believe it and have seen it myself!!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 12:06 PM
1

Awww did you get your feelings hurt too?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 12:05 PM
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You forgot to switch your alt account.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 02:48 AM
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Why does cross dressing offend you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 01:22 AM
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I’m convinced a lot of these dudes are 30+ with how they constantly bring up shit that was popular twenty years ago. It’s all.. Brad Pitt this, 50 Shades of Grey that, The View, Jeremy Meeks, OkCupid…like none of that shit has been relevant in a looooong time. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 01:21 AM
1

It’s not that serious lol calm down
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 01:17 AM
0

6’4” was the standard for me. 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 01:17 AM
0

Same as how you bitch about women and dating…yet claim to also be married? 😆😆😆
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 01:16 AM
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I don’t think anyone takes this subreddit that seriously 🤷‍♀️ It’s just the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 11:00 PM
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I didn’t even think either of those two are relevant anymore. Spider-Man was cool like 10+ years ago. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 10:56 PM
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LOL your example is a three year old thread?! Come on now 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 10:53 PM
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I’m not sure why you think I care? I’ve been married for almost 20 years. Single men and their fake wombs are irrelevant to me. 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 10:42 PM
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these are men who wouldn't have a snowball's chance in hell to get attention from women in their home country. You already said it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 10:41 PM
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I don’t think drag is gross. 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 09:07 PM
2

Better get to marching then!! 😆😆😆
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 07:50 PM
1

I wonder if anyone actually believes these guys though!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 07:06 PM
1

Truly the worst..unfortunately. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 07:03 PM
0

Nobody is arguing that these men aren’t losers. 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 06:59 PM
3

I swear this is why so many incels are anti-abortion. 🤣 Evil women are just taking away their future chance at love!!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 05:47 PM
1

I’m gonna say 50/50 shot here! Keep us posted!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 05:46 PM
2

We love you too babyyyyy 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 05:45 PM
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Lol this entire subreddit! It’s nothing but people pouting and whining that dating isn’t fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 05:45 PM
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How big are we talking?? A few weeks bad I saw a mama wolf spider carrying her babies and that girl was MASSIVE!! I didn’t have the heart to kill a fellow mother so I let her go.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 05:43 PM
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That’s life. Life is not meant to be fair. Weak, shy men have never been desired by the majority of women. This is common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 05:40 PM
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Women are attracted to men who are kind AND charismatic AND confident. One trait alone isn’t going to make women attracted. The only men who think women want to have sex with men because they are kind with no other positive social traits are retarded. If men need this spelled out for them they are hopeless.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 05:01 PM
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An introverted woman would be happy with a man who keeps to himself. Y’all just keep paying attention to extroverted women and ignore the quiet introverted women who also keep to themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 04:58 PM
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You gotta go where it’s popular. Big cities with less traditional/conservative populations are the best bet I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 04:57 PM
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It’s just called workingmoms I believe! I haven’t been on it in awhile but when I was there were many women who had SAHD partners. I am pretty sure the SAHP subreddit also has SAHDs that participate too. It seems to be more popular in bigger cities where conservative ideals aren’t heavily pushed. Even where I live in the Midwest I get flack from men and women who don’t think I should be the breadwinner. It’s annoying AF. I loved when my husband was able to be a SAHD!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 04:55 PM
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This might be surprising to find out but men can be confident, charismatic, kind, and morally good at the same time! But just one of those traits may not be all that is needed to create attraction. A man could be the kindest man in the world and it doesn’t make me want to have sex with him. And women do say this but men keep pushing back on it for some reason. 🤷‍♀️ I tell men on this subreddit all the time I would choose a charming man over a shy one.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 04:52 PM
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Duh. I’m not saying that charisma isn’t attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 03:58 PM
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Oh definitely! Men who have to PPB or find a mail order bride have always been viewed as losers by the general public. I actually think they are probably lower on the hierarchy scale than men who are struggling to find a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 03:58 PM
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There is no rule that says there should be a 1:1 ratio. Dating …just like life ..is not going to be fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 03:56 PM
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Expand your horizons. The working mom subreddit is filled with career focused women with SAHDs.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 03:52 PM
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Yep! I know it hurts some men’s feelings but I think most women would also agree that cowardice is unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 02:19 PM
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I think a lot of these guys aren’t old enough to know that men were made fun of for having mail order brides back then too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 02:16 PM
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There are MANY women who are career focused that would love to have a stay at home dad. It’s really not that uncommon anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 02:14 PM
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You must have me confused with another woman then. Where am I arguing that women want to fuck ugly men? I sat repeatedly on this subreddit that women want to date, fuck, and have relationships with men they find physically appealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 02:01 PM
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You keep evading my main question. I never said women don’t try to use male insecurity to insult..but what I did question was why a woman saying that she has a job or can pay her own bills is brought into the conversation and apparently considering an insult to these particular men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 01:49 PM
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Men say it because they think it will hit an easy insecurity. Hell men have called me fat on this subreddit without even knowing what my body looks like 😆 I just don’t under how the conversation becomes - Man: I don’t want to have sex with/date you. Woman: I have a job and can pay my own bills! That’s why I asked how the conversation comes up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 01:43 PM
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If this is common sense then why do men keep repeating it? It would be like me telling men that they prefer beautiful women over ugly women. Pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 01:36 PM
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Idiots fall in love with other idiots all the time. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 01:05 PM
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Yes and I also mentioned mental health in my previous reply. That is a factor. I was also talking about intelligence. Would you rather me say your friends are stupid?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 01:02 PM
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And they probably aren’t mentally healthy either. 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:53 PM
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Why are men acting like it’s brand new information that having charisma and traits that are physically attractive are beneficial in dating? Ugly women know that and pretty privilege has always been a thing but somehow men missed the memo?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:51 PM
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Your person experience doesn’t matter either. I’m telling you that the men I know socialize. Not every male is introverted.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:47 PM
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We can judge whoever we want. And do. Grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:18 PM
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I swear men bitch about “women are wonderful” but they’re the ones who seem to be in denial that some women are just as fucked up as bad men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:08 PM
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Some women aren’t mentally healthy either. Do you think a woman with good morals and intelligence would willingly try to date a murderer? 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:07 PM
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I’m telling you my personal experience. You seem to think you can speak for all men. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 11:59 AM
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It’s pretty much Millennial/Gen-X women and autistic men in their late teens/20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 11:56 AM
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Tbh this sounds like a conversation someone would have with a sugar baby or prostitute. Why and how are finances even being brought up during the exchange?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 11:52 AM
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It must be the men you know. Many of the men I’m around seem to be more extroverted than their wives/girlfriends (if they have a partner).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 11:47 AM
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She’s so pretty 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 02:20 AM
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Omg at least it is clean! Kinda confused on why there are no sheets but the mattress isn’t stained so that’s a win 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 02:17 AM
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Idk I think there are some women who genuinely do find those old dudes attractive. Personally I’ve never seen the appeal. It’s always been odd to me that they want to fuck a dude that looks like he could be her grandpa.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 02:15 AM
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My husband seems pretty happy with my success and isn’t bothered by me being the higher earner. We’ve never been a his/her type of couple about finances so if either of us are doing well it’s a win for both of us. The people who actually give us the most flack for it are surprisingly …other men. It’s never made sense to me why they feel the need to make negative judgments when this works for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 02:11 AM
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How long until the comments start delving into the same complaint about mean family members and their homophobia
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 02:07 AM
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I believe it!!! I’ve also noticed people are terrible spellers now too which I have a feeling is from all the autocorrect typing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 02:03 AM
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For some reason men don’t like to share. And women do have second families. They have children with other men and have entire full relationships on the side. They just have to do it in secret. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 10:31 PM
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I hope you can stay cool!! It’s currently 96 F / 35.6 C where I live. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 09:31 PM
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Idk about all of the black pill ideas but I am all for people who are unattractive doing what they can to be more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 09:28 PM
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Omg or Queer Eye, Extreme Makeover, and that Fox show that I think was called The Swan or something. Those were the days!!! 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 09:26 PM
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For real. It’s crazy how we have gotten so stupid so fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 09:21 PM
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I think it’s because it just leads to incels throwing little pity parties
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 09:20 PM
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GIRL. My teen had to sign for his driving permit a few months back and I was appalled at how bad it looked. But nowadays everything is on a computer/tablet. 😭 I’m just glad his school still taught cursive in elementary!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 09:17 PM
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Gross that you automatically assume drag = homosexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 09:11 PM
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Literally!! These guys missed out on all of the great makeover shows we used to watch!!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 09:11 PM
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Please do. Women have been begging men to go away and leave us be for a very long time. You’d think men that dislike women would be happy about it but they keep whining about not being valued or needed any longer.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 09:02 PM
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I literally have no idea what you’re talking about. And regarding accountability the only people I ever see whining about others needing to take accountability are men who are angry with women for choosing anyone but them. Since it’s stated here daily can you please provide an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 07:55 PM
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Ok! Thank you for clarifying!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 07:52 PM
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Yes. We tell our friends to talk to a therapist to find out what is making them desire men who aren’t interested in a relationship. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 07:46 PM
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Am I allowed to say I agree or would that be circlejerking? It’s so confusing what is allowed and what isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 07:45 PM
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You asked if you were doing something wrong and I answered. I wasn’t giving you a solution or telling you to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 07:44 PM
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Not my problem that their parents didn’t love them enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 07:43 PM
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Depends on the context. If the guy was hot but constantly whined to a woman odds are high she would find him repulsive. If he was hot but whined infrequently it would be less of an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 07:42 PM
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Those women are truly a blessing for some men. It’s a shame it has not been fully legalized in the USA but we’re still too conservative about sex and put too much meaning into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 07:40 PM
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Women just don’t feel obligated to stay in relationships that are not fulfilling. Men will stay even when miserable just to say they have a partner. Life is too short to be with someone who makes you unhappy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 07:27 PM
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If they don’t pull a “woe is me” act constantly. But yes women are attracted to men who are attractive. I am constantly telling men that women don’t want to have sex with, date, or marry ugly men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 07:24 PM
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Help in what way? I have never asked a man to take responsibility for another man’s actions so I’m curious what other women are requesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:40 PM
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It is exhausting! I can’t figure out if these guys who expect relationships to be free therapy were too emotionally coddled growing up or not emotionally validated enough. I can only assume they have little to no social life because I can’t imagine someone enjoys spending their time listening to someone whine and be in a negative mood constantly. I’ve had coworkers like that in the past and literally dreaded being around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:29 PM
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See the problem is men can’t accept that women don’t want their help finding a partner. We don’t need your (general you) input on who we should be attracted to. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:26 PM
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I don’t think that is true for everyone. I think some people do genuinely desire a partner more than others and others truly are content being single.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:25 PM
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That’s your personal experience. It’s not true for every man. For example I listen to my husband when he’s struggling and he listens to me. I’ve also been there for each of my male friends (which unfortunately tends to backfire because they then think my kindness means I want them romantically 👎) and even my husband’s friends when they need to vent. But I am not required to listen to every single complaint they have. I also would not expect them to do it for me. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:24 PM
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I already told you it’s unattractive. So you want to be attractive to women or unattractive? That’s your answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:21 PM
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Possibly! I think acceptance would probably be better for their mental health overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:20 PM
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Probably because women are out enjoying their lives instead of wondering why they had a crush on the hot, fun, popular guy in high school lmao. We already know we liked him because he was hot and fun to be around. Men seem to be the ones really really struggling to understand dating dynamics. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:18 PM
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Oh I definitely agree. I think they are sad and the anger is just covering up the true emotion they are feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:16 PM
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No!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:13 PM
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We already understand ourselves. We want to have sex, make babies, and form relationships with men we find attractive physically and emotionally. We do not want to have those things with men we don’t find attractive. It’s not that hard. Unselected men are just angry that we don’t agree with them on who they think should be considered attractive. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:07 PM
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Women don’t want to listen to other women bitch and moan all day either. That’s why we also tell them to go talk to a therapist. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:03 PM
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Phrases like this and the “woe-is-me” attitude is what is unattractive: Men with depression should just get chemical castration then, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:02 PM
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Scortmaxxing is a new one 🤣 Y’all have the most entertaining vocabulary
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 12:53 PM
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Very good point. And not to mention once we reject these men and explain we were just trying to be a friend and listen..they get pissed off and accuse us of leading them on. If we don’t listen we’re evil, heartless bitches but if we do we’re still evil, heartless bitches because we don’t reciprocate their desire to pair up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 12:44 PM
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Exactly. He is projecting his issues with low confidence, anxiety, and possible neurodivergence on all men. Not every man is a sniveling coward.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 12:40 PM
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Those don’t sound like friends if they are teasing you about taking care of yourself. I’m sorry. It’s not a woman’s responsibility to teach a man how to handle his emotions - his parents should have done that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 12:37 PM
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Lmao my father in law never worked and my mother in law certainly didn’t stay with him because she liked him. She spent the 20+ years that I knew her saying how she hated him and he was a no good bum. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 02:09 AM
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Well yeah even babies prefer beautiful people over uggos.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 02:03 AM
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Nope. Just means that I’m right and you’re fishing for attention. Sorry bud. Not interested!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 02:00 AM
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lol…serial monogamy is one person at a time. That’s not at all what I’m saying. 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:59 AM
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Except I don’t accept what you said lmao. What delusion! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:58 AM
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Doesn’t change anything I said. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:47 AM
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You say it …but I just don’t believe you. Nice dodge of my question though!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:46 AM
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Nah dude I’m telling you women get tired fucking the same guy 🤷‍♀️ That’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:44 AM
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Strange response. Did I imply polygamy was worse? I’m just making sure men are aware that women also get tired of monogamy because for some reason y’all think women should be upset that men like to fuck multiple women. So guess what..women like to fuck multiple men too. 🤣 Variety is the spice of life for both sexes!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 12:18 AM
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Not sure what you mean by this? Are you saying I am promiscuous?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 09:27 PM
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I love when men start spouting off that human males are polygamous when there have been studies showing women are the ones who get bored of monogamous relationships years before men do. 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 08:14 PM
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Sounds like my type of gal! 💅
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 07:20 PM
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I should also ad that I was in a committed relationship during all of this so I wouldn’t have had unprotected sex with a ONS or guy I wasn’t dating long term. I did not want to risk becoming a single mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 07:20 PM
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I think probably more so before someone actually has kids and understands the reality of what raising a newborn/child entails. I do remember being young and there being a thrill that pregnancy could happen..but now the thought of ever getting pregnant again fills me with dread. My son will be 18 in a few years so I am almost at the finish line LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 07:16 PM
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Isn’t it wild?! My husband has had the same thing happen in the past with his ex girlfriends and have even had a few of his friends try sliding in my DMs over the years. It makes me so angry that they even think I am that type of person or would even entertain the idea of dating/having sex with any of them. 🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 07:13 PM
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I love having pretty privilege. 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 07:05 PM
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My husband has one and it is AMAZING.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 06:49 PM
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Of course. I didn’t say it was gendered. I was just responding to the previous comment that suggested the groups should be used as warnings for men on women to avoid dating. Might help if you read the full conversation before commenting. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 06:36 PM
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Reporting for blocking.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 04:42 PM
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Yep!!! Men get so pissed when they are caught being scummy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 03:55 PM
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The legality certainly hasn’t stopped those men from doing anything illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 03:53 PM
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Aren’t you married??? I’m confused why you said “we” need to avoid dating those women. 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 03:51 PM
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If it’s so rampant you could easy screenshot a post from today and share with everyone. Otherwise I think you’re full of shit. 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 03:50 PM
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I am sorry to hear you were abused when you were younger. I hope you have been able to get some justice. Hugs. 🫂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 02:28 PM
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Idk. I know when I can’t orgasm because I am too in my head/distracted versus anything my guy is doing. From talking with other women most of the time if they aren’t cumming it’s because the guy is a “two pump chump” and decides sex is over once he’s orgasmed. Or sometimes the woman is giving direction on what works for her and he just doesn’t follow what she says for some unknown reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 02:24 PM
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Prove it then. If it happens like you say it does it shouldn’t be hard to screenshot and share.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 02:16 PM
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It’s disgusting but also at this point not surprising. Some men are just…yuck. 🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 02:15 PM
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Then show proof of what you are claiming happens. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 02:14 PM
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Provide proof then please.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 02:14 PM
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Even if men were warning other men about women that were mentally unstable I doubt it would deter them from still trying to form relationship - sexual or romantic. I’ve literally been there while multiple men have told inexperienced men that a woman is bad news or even proof she is using him and these guys just don’t listen. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 02:11 PM
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Yep!!! It’s so fucking weird to me. I’ve seen adult men show nudes of women they’ve slept with to my husband while I’m standing right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 02:03 PM
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Yep I saw this a lot too! Even previous ex girlfriends would respond and say some of the men were pretty good guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 02:01 PM
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Proof please!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 01:55 PM
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I just read an article the other day of an ex boyfriend posting his ex girlfriend’s address on a hookup site saying that she was looking for CNC sex and if she said NO it just meant she wanted it more. So disturbing and stories like that make me have even more understanding for why women are avoid relationships with men. Some guys are too possessive and their ego can’t handle being dumped. Last year a town nearby had a disgruntled ex husband kill his ex and their children because he was so angry…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 01:53 PM
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Don’t think he cares otherwise he would have stopped after the first song. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 01:49 PM
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Lmao there is no way these aren’t the revenge fantasies of teenage boys because I can’t imagine any adult man saying they are going to divorce their wives for being promiscuous in the past. 🤣🤣 Peak insecurity and honestly would deserve all the ridicule and this comes from someone with a body count of 1 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 10:27 AM
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Never saw it in any AWDTSG group.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 10:23 AM
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It’s crazy! I swear they hear one story and then decide all women do the same thing…but god forbid a women says “all men..” 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 10:19 AM
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Well it’s Mrs not Ms LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 10:18 AM
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Like I said…my city must be boring because they aren’t sharing stories. It’s always just a guy’s dating profile picture and a woman saying they are starting to get serious and asking if anyone else is dating him too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 10:16 AM
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There are no women shorter than you??
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 04:02 AM
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I think there is only one scene I would consider gory. It’s mostly a thriller.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 04:00 AM
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I love silly raunchy comedy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 03:58 AM
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I must be seeing different groups because I’ve yet to come across one that discussed the sexual activity in detail. All the ones I’ve seen either have no responses or a bunch of comments revealing a man in a relationship (usually married) is telling other women he’s single. My city must be boring 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 03:56 AM
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I would score low as hell 🤣 I hate small talk
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 02:22 AM
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God no
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 02:14 AM
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Terrible humans with the ugliest haircuts. 🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 03:26 AM
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This is the equivalent of saying sex with an unconscious woman is not rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 03:21 AM
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When she begged him to kill her and he got upset with her 😭😭 He was so selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 01:34 AM
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Did you watch the movie? I’m not sure how you got “yes” is really a no from watching it. Can you elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 01:32 AM
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I couldn’t tell ya. Romance novels have never interested me. I’ve always preferred psychological thrillers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 01:28 AM
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I don’t think it’s impossible to find a woman that would be happy with this arrangement but you’d have to know where to look. It might be worth putting up an AD with what you’re looking for because it’s weed out the women who would not be a good fit. I, personally, loved when my husband was a stay at home dad!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 01:14 AM
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You being there to support her is the best help you can give her during this time. You are doing a good job. I hope things get better for her soon! ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 10:03 PM
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That’s my favorite part 😆😆😆😆
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:12 PM
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This sub is a godsend on a slow workday 😭 I think if people are that invested in this sub to where it is causing mental health issues or negativity impacting their daily life then those folks should take a step back but some of us just come here for entertainment.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:49 PM
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lol I don’t blame ya!! It’s basically glorified waitresses/customer service at this point 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:45 PM
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That’s wild that she moved to another country. I’m surprised that she even got away with that and wasn’t charged with kidnapping but I guess once you leave the country there isn’t much anyone can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:44 PM
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Women have explained why and men still push back and get angry about it regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:52 PM
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If it’s nursing - I can try to help!!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:49 PM
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I know this is not an immediate solution but would you be willing to move forward a state that has 50/50 as default?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:47 PM
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I am pretty sure my career field does offer male only scholarships if you’d like to switch over to nursing. We could always use more male nurses!!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:39 PM
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>Everybody has that embarrassing moment where their mom chews out some poor minimum wage worker cause they forgot the pickles. Um no lol. Not all of us have mothers that were cunts to service workers. Sorry for those who were raised by one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 10:38 AM
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Oh!! I apologize. I misunderstood what you meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:38 AM
1

There are a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:50 AM
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I don’t think that is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:50 AM
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I think a lot of women just don’t enjoy sex with their husbands. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:15 AM
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I’m not responsible for other women. 🤷‍♀️ And your fellow men don’t seem to have an issue mocking unselected men either. In fact I’ve heard more men teasing other men for not being able to get sex/relationships far more than I’ve heard women comment on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:07 AM
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THANK YOU. It gets so old hearing people act like mothers aren’t having active sex lives and children = dead bedroom. Like the only times I haven’t been able to get in the mood with my husband has been when one of us is sick. Other than that I’d be content with daily sex. Like I am appalled when I hear couples say they have sex every 2-3 months or more. 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:42 AM
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Those endless threads are being posted by men. LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:33 AM
2

Of course they are. Some of them are even naked. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:30 AM
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Huh?? Did you watch the movie? Did you read 50 Shades?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:27 AM
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I’ve also heard a lot of men say they thought their wives would be more sexual after marriage but that tends to come from men in conservative/religious circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:02 AM
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I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:00 AM
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No but I will say it got easier once I got into a relationship because I am vey open about how obsessed I am with my guy so my male friends knew that there was no romantic possibility for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:39 PM
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It’s a woman’s I saw on TikTok. She cuts the breast into long strips and then pushes it down as she’s breading it so they are thin. It’s very good!! If you have TikTok search “Rita’s chicken cutlets” and it should show up. How do you make your chicken popcorn?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:38 PM
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Idk I don’t see or hear very many men in healthcare saying they feel aroused by the naked bodies they see every day. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 09:59 PM
3

I’m outside right now 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 09:57 PM
1

Hey do you ever make fried chicken strips? I found a recipe online and it has totally changed how I make chicken cutlets now.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 09:52 PM
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I’m not really sure what you’re asking. I’ve always treated my male friends the same way I would treat my female friends. Unfortunately it lead to many of them confusing my kindness for romantic attraction and hurt feelings when I’d have to explain that I just wanted friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 09:48 PM
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I really am! Thanks for the compliment. 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 09:46 PM
1

Hmmm …this image looks like it is AI!! 🛑
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 09:21 PM
4

Or the ones who just post a GIF and nothing else!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 09:19 PM
1

Same. I actually got a three day ban for saying that something OP wrote sounded like he had never actually had sex and was told that it was considered a personal insult. Never called him a virgin but because I implied it I was told it wasn’t allowed. There is definitely a lot of favoritism on this subreddit by certain mods but I guess that’s part of Reddit. 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 09:18 PM
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My response was to this part of his comment: The irony is that it’s never suggested to take away womens rights, it's what 🔵BP/feminists jump to assume. ​
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 09:00 PM
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Come work in healthcare. You’ll see so many naked bodies that it won’t even phase you after a year or two.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 08:40 PM
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It’s giving major incel/Elliot Rogers vibes. There’s probably already a manifesto being typed out right now. Yikes!!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 08:39 PM
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Am I not a woman since not only am I the breadwinner (and have been for 10+ years) and never divorced my husband when he lost his job or when he was sick and couldn’t work?? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 07:49 PM
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Some women do sexually harass men. Some women even sexually assault them. Like this is not a new thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 07:42 PM
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Depends on what the topic of discussion is. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 07:31 PM
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I take it you’ve never seen the rants that incels post about what they want to do to women? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:42 PM
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I don’t believe you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:34 PM
3

Do you just want me to say a small penis is bad? I’ll play into the humiliation kink but it’ll cost ya 🤑
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:08 PM
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Literally. Somehow they’re going to overcome their terrible social anxiety too LOL! The fantasies they have concocted are so entertaining sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:03 PM
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Please show me where I have said that since you’re responding with a question. 😃
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:56 PM
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There is a rhythm to it. It isn’t just thrusting motions lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:45 PM
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I’m not gonna orgasm if a hard dick is motionless inside me. 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:30 PM
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And they’ve been saying this incel uprising is going to happen …any day now… for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:28 PM
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Agreed and when I’ve also brought up this point the men suddenly stop responding. I’ll be curious to hear what the guys have to say now. 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 03:51 PM
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If it bothers those men that badly then perhaps those men should focus on themselves instead of worrying about someone else’s relationship. 🤷‍♀️ I do not recall the male romantic leads being abusive towards their partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 03:47 PM
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A lot of them are autistic. That’s basically it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 03:41 PM
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They aren’t envious..but then spend their time whining that women enjoy reading romantic fantasy novels. Interesting. So men are just complaining to complain. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 03:39 PM
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Some subs will ban just for the hell of it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 03:30 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 03:29 PM
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Fantasy isn’t real. It’s “make believe”. So is fiction. Seems like men are the ones who can’t understand this concept. The envy men have over a fictional character is very cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 03:16 PM
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Most 20 year olds haven’t read 50 Shades of Grey. Even when that book came out the only women who really found it interesting were 30+ year old married women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 03:13 PM
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Of course not. Do men not understand fiction?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 03:10 PM
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Great! Thank you!!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 03:03 PM
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I think a first date is too soon to decide if someone wants to be in a relationship. It might take some time to find someone who likes that level of confidence. To one woman a “smooth talker” is sexy but to another woman it could come off as being arrogant.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 03:03 PM
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Sounds like a win 🤤 🍱
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 02:56 PM
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Possibly. I’m just speaking for myself though and can’t say what other women consider a social skill so they may have higher expectations than I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 02:40 PM
1

Same here! His movies used to be so good!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 02:37 PM
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If someone didn’t know the lore would they be able to understand it?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 02:36 PM
3

Was this a first date?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 02:35 PM
2

What if he was the ultimate “grower”.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 02:31 PM
2

Most of us aren’t ESL so we don’t need AI to comment or post. 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 02:26 PM
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But she didn’t say every guy. 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 12:56 PM
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Yes I don’t know why these guys focus so much on a book that was popular 10+ years ago. Even back then the only women I knew who seemed to care about it were married women in their late 30s and up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 12:10 PM
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I am so hungover
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 12:04 PM
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Someone who can start and/or hold a conversation with a stranger. Knowing when to filter your spoken thoughts to prevent needlessly insulting others. Just being able to hold a conversation in person with another man or woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:49 AM
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Most women want to imagine having sex with attractive, confident, competent men. Most women do not want to have sex with ugly , anxiety ridden men. We’ve said this over and over again yet men keep questioning it and acting like this is brand new information.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:45 AM
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Yes! Girth is a million times more important than length. I have literally had to pause/stop sex because of size (length).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 02:13 AM
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Then don’t. No one is forcing you to.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 02:12 AM
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The exceptions are the ones not in relationships. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 02:05 AM
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I think it would probably cause less confusion if we used a different word than “good” but then again neurotypical folks are the majority so the rest just learn to adapt and figure it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 01:56 AM
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Men with good personalities are confident, charismatic, and kind. It’s not an “either…or” thing. And I have never claimed to not be shallow. My husband is hot and that’s what drew me to him right away. His good personality was the cherry on top that sealed the deal for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 01:53 AM
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Good personality means traits like sense of humor, confidence, charisma, etc. It doesn’t have anything to do specifically with being “morally” good.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 01:51 AM
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It’s not the autism. There are autistic men in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 01:48 AM
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They only want the relationship to feel validated by other men. I’m not sure why you keep lying about what we’ve seen men type here with our own eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 01:47 AM
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? What are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 01:45 AM
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Men tend to do that often here. 😭 Lots of fetish posting unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 12:00 AM
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Noooooo. We had such a good run of penis size free posts. 😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 11:58 PM
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No they do not. They have said several times over that they are willing to date any woman that gives them attention. They want to be able to say they have a girlfriend. They don’t care who it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 11:57 PM
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Couldn’t tell the way men say they are so desperate for validation that they will accept **any** woman for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 11:10 PM
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Sounds like something a pedophile would say. Disgusting. This conversation is over.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 10:15 PM
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I actually love my job and don’t work for a corporation but yes I am still celebrating getting to be paid for sitting at home. 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 09:54 PM
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Lift I just love when guys come to the daily thread to vent about disagreements that they get into with other users on this subreddit. 😆 There is another guy that does this too. I think they really believe they are going to get people to rally around them when really…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 09:29 PM
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Offices got closed early today! Got to leave at 3 PM instead of 5!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 09:26 PM
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And that article is almost 10 years old. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 09:20 PM
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I don’t care if these men are “losing out”. Instead of spending time telling me this you could be helping these autistic men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 09:19 PM
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Congratulations!!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 08:09 PM
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I know!! I had to hurry up and scroll past. I haven’t seen it yet. 😡
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 08:08 PM
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These young kids don’t even go to bars anymore 😭 They are missing out on so much
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 08:06 PM
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This too! My husband has nicknamed this sub “The crybabies” and gets a kick out of the things that I tell him guys are saying 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 08:05 PM
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Entertainment and reading what people say about dating dynamics that have changed since I was younger. Also have a teenager who is dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 08:04 PM
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>there's no other career choice but Reddit mod Lmao this one made my whole day 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 08:01 PM
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Even the voice change happens so gradually that it’s hard to pinpoint. Maybe they should celebrate a certain age like a sweet sixteen party for boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 07:55 PM
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That case still breaks my heart. Those poor children and their poor mother. Hope he never gets released. 😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 07:52 PM
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One movie is your rebuttal? Come on now
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 07:49 PM
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I think a lot of (autistic/neurodivergent) men do not understand that there is a difference between being morally good and having a “good” personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 07:37 PM
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This is an excellent point and something I have also noticed more recently. These men don’t seem to understand or value compatibility in a relationship. It’s like there is an assumption that people will just automatically get along if they both think the other is physically attractive. I’m not sure if they think compatibility is something that couples develop over time but I guess if some of these guys come from cultures where arranged marriages are the norm I could see where the idea comes from…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 07:31 PM
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I think for the men that are autistic (we have a very large percentage on this subreddit) it is genuinely difficult for them to grasp the concept of how attraction works so if they’re under 21ish I can understand where they’re coming from. For the rest of these guys..I think they just want to throw pity parties for themselves and wallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 07:27 PM
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lmao well I don’t live in Alaska either and yet I still don’t stress about what someone I don’t know thinks of me 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 07:24 PM
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Stay away then 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 07:23 PM
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Even starving people don’t sit around and feel unhappy 24/7. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 05:52 PM
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Who cares what other people think? Why does the opinion of strangers matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 05:16 PM
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Why can’t you feel good about yourself without a partner? Is there nothing about you that you feel proud about?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 04:43 PM
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Probably the same folks who told men that if they were the quiet, good boy they would be guaranteed to get a gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 04:31 PM
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Men can want to be the first guy but if they aren’t already fun or exciting to be around them it’s just not going to happen. It’s like expecting to be drafted into the NFL but not having the ability to run, tackle, or catch a football.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 03:36 PM
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Maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:58 PM
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I couldn’t tell ya but it happens for some
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:17 PM
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Dang we are missing out over here 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:16 PM
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What do they do to celebrate? Do they get a party?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 11:09 AM
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Where is menstruation being celebrated?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 10:30 AM
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Fascinating watching some of the male posters here almost slip out of their incel/loser mentality and then get pulled right back into their rage. It really does show that it’s true that anger is just a mask for sadness.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 10:22 AM
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Probably because you live in India dude
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 10:19 AM
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wtf is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 03:42 AM
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I think they forget that males are already too possessive to handle open relationships. They will never accept their partner lusting after any man and the men also lusting after her. s
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 03:37 AM
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I think those other “hobbies” you listed (besides gaming) are also lame.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 10:14 PM
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I agree. I got several DMs from pissed off men the last time I said that I thought anime was lame and I wouldn’t ever have dated an adult male who watches it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 10:06 PM
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Must be. I also seen them do this on the incel adjacent subreddits too. I wish mods had time to read posts before approving but I’m sure they get 100+ shitposts on a regular basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 08:35 PM
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Lmao as if Chad = Republican 🙄🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 07:42 PM
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LOL!! More proof that men haven’t been able to take accountability since day one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 07:20 PM
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Did you realize that it was a man making this comparison that you were referencing? Why not call him out on his misogyny now?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 05:02 PM
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Well I didn’t expect a ban I just wanted mod to tell them that he can’t just block me because he didn’t like my response to his post
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 03:19 PM
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Well they need to be worthy of respect first 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 02:32 PM
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Well I reported the OP for blocking me since it is against the sub rules so I guess he didn’t win either. 🤷‍♀️ He could have at least responded to me instead of just being a cry baby and blocking like a pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 02:23 PM
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So annoying. I am trying to respond to replies I am getting on a post but the OP blocked me after I commented and now I can’t respond to anything. 😡
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 02:19 PM
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Yes!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 12:18 PM
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I’m sure some do pretend for the camera but there are definitely some of us do enjoy filming with our partner. Same thing as people who enjoy having sex openly at sex clubs.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 12:12 PM
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No blackpill/incel comments allowed on this subreddit just FYI
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 10:32 AM
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The simple fact that some men think being in a relationship or having sex is the cure just goes to show that these same men have zero idea what true loneliness is like.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 10:29 AM
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You don’t need my permission.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 11:44 PM
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She was probably cautious because men in her past have pretended to offer friendship but actually were hoping that she’d give them sex instead. Unfortunately it happens more often than we’d like.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 10:18 PM
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LOL did you even read her response before trying to rebuttal?! She even said right there: Shit, in their late teens and early twenties in low stakes relationships, women are actually as likely or more likely to cheat. I'm quite sure that those girls aren't any more faithful than their boyfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 10:04 PM
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The large majority of women here don’t go around this subreddit chasing after the same male poster personally attacking them instead of debating. Grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 12:20 PM
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Some of the men here will harass the women who post here because it is the only chance they will get to interact with a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 10:24 AM
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I think so too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 10:08 AM
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I’m not sure why you feel that you need to feel bad for a woman who is venting. She is not expecting you to solve her problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 02:40 AM
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They want us to care so damn bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 02:10 AM
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Which conclusion?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 08:43 PM
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I disagree with all of the above. Intelligence is developed over time. People can also develop artistic talent. Have you never seen a progression of someone’s art from their beginning stages to years later? Very few people start out creating a masterpiece from the first time they pick up a paint brush. And same thing with confidence. People develop confidence in themselves and their abilities with practice. External validation isn’t necessary to become confident. It might help but it’s not a req…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 08:42 PM
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So your claim that they are only participating in new experiences to boost their ego is incorrect. I could see why men who are risk adverse and socially anxious would believe that people enjoying new experiences is performative.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 08:38 PM
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All of those are skills that can be developed. People can learn and develop intelligence. They can become artistic with practice. Confidence works the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 08:31 PM
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I doubt it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 08:27 PM
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And people do just that. Not everyone is traveling just to take a picture to post on social media. Plenty of people travel and don’t post on social media at all. 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 07:59 PM
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Yes but that has nothing to do with ego. Women also tire of monogamy and do much faster than men in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 07:57 PM
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The difference is people visit and try new foods for their own enjoyment not because they feel less than because they didn’t try food someone else has or didn’t get to traveled somewhere that another person has been.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 07:45 PM
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They just cannot accept that women get horny without men’s input. It’s so self centered and unfortunately not surprising.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 07:43 PM
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Unfortunately yes. There are many people out there that have just given up and do not take steps to improve their situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 07:41 PM
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True true
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 07:09 PM
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And so many writers are not even reviewing their work for spelling / grammatical errors. 😭 I see it all the time on my local news pages and it is wild. What happened to having pride in our work? 😭😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 06:31 PM
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It is so crazy to me how many people would rather wallow in misery and self hate than actively take steps to change. 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 06:30 PM
3

Pump and dump
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 05:21 PM
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When men act like this is concept that people can be two different things is hard to understand it makes me question if there is a genuine learning disability or something. Someone who is an “asshole” does not have to be mean to every person at all times.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 04:57 PM
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Well first I would hope that the penetrative sex would not be “subpar” 😭 But my answer for this is that (for myself at least) they are very different orgasms. An orgasm from oral for me lasts just a few seconds and I feel mostly in the groin area. An orgasm during penetration lasts longer and is more of a full body sensation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 01:56 PM
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There is zero part of me that believes this was genuinely posted by a woman. This reads like a man pretending to be a woman preying on male body insecurities.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 01:48 PM
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Tbh he hasn’t either. He’s just trying to ragebait the women for attention 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 01:46 PM
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This subreddit is for western dating dynamics anyway. They have several dating subreddits for south Asian/Indians already.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 01:43 PM
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They are so much smarter than we realize!!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 02:51 AM
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That is adorable lol Those toddler years are the best. It is so fun to watch their personalities grow.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 01:48 AM
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Doesn’t catch my eye
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 07:05 PM
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This just sounds like another man bitter that women have sex with men who aren’t him. 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 07:01 PM
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Dear lord that man is beautiful. Literally my favorite part of watching The Boys show 🤤 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 05:39 PM
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Dang I was hoping this was a woman and you were finally living your casual sex dreams! I’m disappointed too
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 03:48 PM
2

Yes you do!!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 03:47 PM
2

I think it is fetish posting the more I read it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 03:44 PM
3

Well apparently what actually happened was the guy who posted the comment made a post about how he did not know that he was supposed to pull back his foreskin and clean and thought that it was the responsibility of women to tell him how to clean himself. People told him he could have researched proper hygiene but he doubled down and continued to say that single women should be telling men how to clean themselves. It was weird and an odd lack of personal accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 03:42 PM
4

Super nasty and I genuinely hope he was just trolling. And if not shame on his parents for not teaching proper hygiene as a child! 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 01:48 PM
4

I finally saw the post too and I am just 🤮 🤮 🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 01:09 PM
0

I just can’t even take the comment seriously when every other word is about “normies”. It is just too incel adjacent speak to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 01:05 PM
0

But it seems that you are taking what one women said while drunk as something that most women agree with. If a man bought me a bag of gifts it would actually be a turn off for me. I would think it was creepy, off putting, and an implication that I was a product to be traded for.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 12:56 PM
6

Uggghhh. I did not need to know that. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 12:53 PM
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But women have always said that dick pics are not a turn on so I’m not sure why this is supposed to be brand new information to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 12:48 PM
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I don’t think they genuinely understand personality
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 12:44 PM
4

I’m not seeing how what they said was disrespectful?? If his dick is dirty then she’s just being honest
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 12:40 PM
4

Ok I thought I was going crazy because I had never heard of it and I watch a lot of movies but they do tend to be more popular/mainstream than indie films if that is what this was
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 12:39 PM
3

Hmmmm I am going to look it up now because I seriously never heard of it and I watch a lot of movies lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 12:14 PM
4

I’m dead lmaoooo best comment today
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 11:58 AM
1

Probably for the best. They are super gross on that site.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 11:58 AM
2

I saw a meme one time that implied that incels thought their future wife hadn’t been born yet (or was aborted) so I often wonder if it is more about that then “society”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 11:56 AM
3

I don’t see how encouraging men to have proper hygiene is rude 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 11:54 AM
6

Tbh I don’t think many people have even heard of the movie you are mentioning to be outraged about it. I’ve literally never heard of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 11:38 AM
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If that’s what you need to tell yourself 🤷‍♀️ its still not going to help men who can’t get casual sex have casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 06:15 PM
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I don’t get it either! I love my job, love feeling like my husband and I are a team to accomplish our financial goals, and just cannot sit home all day. I tried the stay at home thing for 3 months a few years back and was soooo ready to go back to work after a few weeks. I just get too bored and not to mention I’ve heard soo many men say the worst, resentful shit about their SAHW/SAHMs. 😢
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 06:10 PM
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I love getting done with work at 12 PM on Fridays now. I’m so ready for the weekend! 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 06:07 PM
7

Women eventually find men who make them orgasm, date them, and even marry them. There really aren’t any downsides. 🤷‍♀️ It’s just more men whining and crying that they can’t get casual sex. Oh well buddy that’s life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 06:03 PM
5

Lmao this might be the dummest comment yet in the whole thread. 😆 I swear men who think like this just look for things to be anxious/insecure about.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:59 PM
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We’ve got a lot of autistic people on this subreddit so I think that’s part of why they focus on this stuff instead of actually “living life”. That and this younger generation just don’t socialize like our generations did. My husband was talking to some of his younger coworkers and apparently these guys just work, go home, video game. They don’t go to parties or the bar. Definitely makes me thankful to be born in the 80s!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:55 PM
5

These dudes think women get horny just from seeing an attractive man in public so it’s not surprising that they would believe it. 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:49 PM
8

>I for one am apprehensive towards virgins and inexperienced women (or “sexless loser women” )because they wouldn’t know how to please me Great! So you can understand why women have little desire to have sex with inexperienced men. I also had zero interest in having any sexual encounters with virgins either. I wanted to have a good time and I knew sex with an inexperienced man was not likely to provide that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:45 PM
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🤷‍♀️ I see people link all the time with those and no mods remove the comments. I’m pretty sure they’ve even said it’s permitted because the .np just lets people read but not post/comment. I think of it like a read-only file.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:53 PM
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I want to move to where you live. 😭 My state/city sucks apparently but there is also not much diversity so I’m sure that factors into it😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:51 PM
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Huh? Where am I crying about Chads? I married one lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:09 PM
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American too. I think it sounds nice to think that our popular vote makes an impact but I’ve seen too many instances of popular vote not making an actual difference in minor and major elections. I think our politicians are going to do what they ultimately want. 👎
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:08 PM
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I’d love to know where you live where what people vote matters more than what the lawmakers want to do!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:42 AM
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Not sure about all countries but where I live voting doesn’t tend to actually impact anything. It’s almost like a “suggestion” to the men in power..who are still going to make and pass whatever rules they want. And men in power aren’t miserable incels. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:00 AM
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All they have to do is put the .np in the link and it is allowed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:46 AM
1

I had actually forgotten about your plan 😆 but that is funny now that you mention it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 02:42 AM
2

lol dude most people marry in the same income bracket. I’m not sure why you are bringing up boomer marriages when there are maybe 2-3 people on this subreddit who are over 55+ years old 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 02:14 AM
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Yeah like I do not understand how men are blindsided when this happens
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 01:16 AM
2

You tend to make up a lot of stories for fun I guess? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 01:07 AM
1

Interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:59 AM
1

Makes sense. There are quite a few regulars here that I’ve seen post/comment on the incel adjacent subs so it doesn’t surprise me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:59 AM
2

Hmmm so it just sounds like the female version of what some men do for sex. Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:56 AM
2

Don’t feel bad I don’t know this new lingo either
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:54 AM
1

I’m in the Midwest and haven’t heard much about it but there might be some outliers that are into it. Where I live they are all focused on NBA right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:53 AM
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Not a single black women in sight..how racist 😡
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:51 AM
1

Hmmm aren’t you married?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:48 AM
0

I get the male version. 😭 I do think it’s from interacting on this subreddit but not sure why they’ve flipped genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:46 AM
1

Most people aren’t perfect starting out. It seems like this younger generation is terrified of any failure..which is how people learn/improve.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:44 AM
1

It depends on what he is looking for in regards to “dating”. Is he looking for strictly casual, sexual relationships or is he looking for a monogamous, serious relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:43 AM
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I think it all depends on where you work. I’ve worked on some units/hospitals where staff were cunts to each others and others where it was genuine team work and everyone got along. My current nursing job has zero cattiness. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:30 AM
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Parents aren’t going to tell their kids that they met as a ONS in the first place. My guy and I fucked multiple times before ever deciding we were ready to commit to a relationship. We don’t tell our son that. We were coworkers so we tell him we met at work. It’s true but not the entire story of how our relationship started. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 07:47 PM
6

Agreed. It has gotten **ridiculous**.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 07:44 PM
1

Sounds like you’re projecting. I guess if the shoe fits 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 09:47 PM
1

I wasn’t talking to you or about you specifically. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 08:44 PM
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It’s funny how they insist this story is false…but somehow they believe every post they read about women “settling” for men and how they daydream about some dude they slept with years ago. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 07:44 PM
2

It’s interesting the mental gymnastics that incels on here will use to say that all incels don’t behave the same or think the same…yet can’t claim they can’t comprehend that women don’t all act/think the same either. 🙄🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 04:47 PM
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That’s even weirder 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 12:24 PM
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Pretty creepy that you have a folder dedicated to me
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 12:07 PM
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Yup! 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 11:41 AM
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Awwwww are you my number 1 fan?! 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 10:19 AM
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Decided I am going to figure out how to solve a Rubik Cube. I’ve got one side down..but keep getting stuck after that. 😡😡😡
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 01:16 AM
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Brooootal 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 01:09 AM
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Every time you say something that makes kissing after meeting such a big deal.. it cracks me up 😆😆
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 01:09 AM
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Yay!!!! 🎉
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 01:05 AM
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I couldn’t even get past the part where the dude said he tried to kiss her TWICE during the date and both times got rejected. How did he not take the hint the first time? 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 01:03 AM
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They must have been BIG mad 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 12:54 AM
2

I think this is something that men who struggle with social anxiety need to need themselves to feel better about their struggles to keep up socially with their peers who are spending time with friends, dating, etc…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 07:41 PM
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If you believe in men and women having equal rights, you might as well be a nazi too. What a dumb argument. Please elaborate. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 06:56 PM
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I’ve met a lot of impressive men but being impressed is never what made me feel sexual desire for these guys. I think most women prefer a partner that makes them feel safe (emotionally and physically) and if a man is naturally anxious it signals a lack of competence which can be unsafe in some situations. Hope this makes sense how I’ve tried to explains it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 06:54 PM
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I guess I am not understanding then why you find it hard to understand why couples do want some time apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 05:00 PM
4

That isn’t what I meant lol. If your lover was your BFF - would you want to spend all of your time with her?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 04:46 PM
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It is kind of like having a BFF. I would say that most people enjoy spending time with their best friend …but don’t want to spend every second with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 03:00 PM
3

Crazy how far video game graphics have come over the years!!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 12:55 PM
1

It’s funny because that comment wasn’t even about PPB lmao. I don’t even think the debate topic was about PPBs. 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 12:13 PM
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Oh I feel like a celebrity now!!! 🤩
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 12:11 PM
1

I did read the post. All she’s doing is joking about how she almost texted the guy and the relief that she didn’t. There is not any regret or complaint. I’d love for me to show you what she said that is complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 11:49 AM
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She’s not complaining. Weird that you think that is what she is doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 11:05 AM
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She doesn’t want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 10:42 AM
1

More than they would if they sat on their ass and did nothing to improve.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:42 PM
0

They are literally obsessed with us.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:41 PM
-1

And when they do date..they just date very weird IMO. From what I’ve heard they are terrified of rejection so they will “date” one person for months and not even ask to actually be boyfriend/girlfriend. It’s just implied I guess?? Idk. Back in my day * shakes cane * we used to date a few people at a time until we found the person we liked the most and then we’d ask to be “official” and then it would be an exclusive relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:41 PM
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It sounds like she actually liked him and wanted a committed relationship. I think otherwise she would have fucked without it being an issue. At least that is what I would have done if it were me. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:38 PM
1

Huh? I don’t think I’ve seen any woman in here denying that women have consensual casual sex. Otherwise it would just be sexual assault/rape. Are you saying women deny wanting to have sec with men we find physically attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:36 PM
1

I literally cackled 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:34 PM
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Prove otherwise then. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 09:08 PM
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I have a feeling this is a fetish post and not a genuine question. Sigh.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 08:29 PM
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Not what I’m into. Other women might like that but I would find him boring. Good thing there are billions of other women out there for men to pursue. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 05:44 PM
1

And sooooo many incel-adjacent subreddits that are also dedicated to their perpetual victimhood so people can realize what chronically online men are also like!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 05:43 PM
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5% was probably me being generous lol. I have always been very picky though (never had a boy crazy phase) so I may not be the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:11 PM
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I probably find 5% of men actually physically attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 01:25 PM
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I am having the best time just reading what these guys are saying 🤣 it is wild
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 01:05 PM
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Noticed a large swarm of incels commenting now that that comphet or whatever they call it has been banned. Several recognizable usernames from the various incel/blackpill subreddits. We already don’t have enough moderation. I feel like this sub is doomed now. 😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:44 AM
0

Little girls do but the large majority learn that popular media is just entertainment and not real by the time they reach puberty.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:42 AM
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Probably freakin alt accounts. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 01:37 AM
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Yeah I am always surprised that mods don’t consider all of the Chad talk to be incel/blackpill too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 12:14 AM
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Someone’s league isn’t just their physical appearance and income level. That misunderstanding is probably another reason why men aren’t approaching women in their correct league. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 10:53 PM
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You have misunderstood. The man was incorrect in assuming the woman who was also fat and broke was his league. If she has rejected him then that means that women is not in his league. His league is who is willing to date him. If no women is willing to date him then he rightfully doesn’t have a league to be in and needs to accept that he is part of the group of men (just like all of history) who do not reproduce. Life isn’t fair after all. And men vastly overestimate their own physical attractive…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 10:20 PM
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Whatever league is below fat, poor women. Single moms? Fat, poor, toothless women? Fat, poor, unhygienic women? Fat, poor disabled women? Women with 5xs his body count who are alpha widowed? Lots of league left for him to try out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 09:39 PM
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Damn. A whole ass kiss..what a bunch of sluts! 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 09:32 PM
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I don’t have casual sex so I can’t say that. When I was having casual sex many many many years ago looks were the primary factor but the man also had to make me feel comfortable enough to sleep with him too. That’s why I didn’t have sex with every man I dated who I did think was super hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 09:23 PM
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You literally asked: Also why do women had a hard time admitting that they are as shallow as men when it comes to casual sex? Is there a sense of guilt and shame? I responded that women do not have a hard time admitting they find certain physical traits attractive for casual sex. I even mentioned that men finding out these traits makes men upset when they do not have the characteristics that women say they want. Men aren’t on this subreddit crying that they aren’t funny enough to have casual sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 08:22 PM
1

What? You asked why women have a hard time and I told you that they don’t. Hell you asked me yourself and I told you what I found sexually appealing in my man. I guess you’re just pissed that I didn’t answer how you wanted. lol ok I guess you can stay mad and sexless then 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 08:03 PM
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If an unattractive man asked (in the right setting - not just going up to random women in the street fyi) I do think women would be willing to help him become more physically attractive. Women do not have a hard time admitting what they find attractive and what physical characteristics they find sexually appealing. Hence why men who don’t fit these criteria get butthurt about it. Maybe the women you’ve spoken to have a cultural difference? We have a lot of men from India on this subreddit and I …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 07:47 PM
3

Been here for years bud 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 07:11 PM
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Quick peak and post history is making me think this is a troll account. Shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 07:03 PM
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Nope. I have never found that body type attractive. Just doesn’t do it for me. When we met he was pretty average size I’d guess. Not really thin but not fat either. He had a little belly pudge which I remember thinking was super hot. Dark hair, green eyes, beard. Very stereotypical Midwest style - backwards baseball cap. Still gets me going all these later. 🤤
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 06:57 PM
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Yep. End of thread right here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 06:52 PM
2

I can’t speak for all women just for myself but what attracted me sexually to my husband was his physical appearance and confidence. He is extroverted and very self assured.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 06:46 PM
2

No. Women have different answers. Try it sometime.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 06:34 PM
0

And your response was?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 06:33 PM
2

I think men should ask women they don’t know directly on what they can do to improve how physically attractive they look. Women love a good makeover/glow up opportunity but instead men run to their literal competition and ask how they can “win”. Men give other men terrible advice on how to look more physically attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 06:24 PM
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I think if men want to know what women find sexually attractive they should say that directly and understand that there is a difference between just “attractive” and “sexually attractive”. Two different concepts.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 06:18 PM
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Most men here have parents that failed them. Parents should have taught these men that fictional media =/= real life. Women learn at puberty that the Disney fairytale experience isn’t real. Why are men claiming to be so slow at getting the same message?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 06:16 PM
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this sub has a lot of jaded 50 year old women shitting on barely sentient 20 year olds going through the realizations boys make the first time they get out of their parents house Not yet 50 but I am a parent and am very surprised to hear that these men’s parents didn’t teach them that fictional media is not a guide for how the real world works prior to adult hood. It is like letting your 18 year old believe in Santa Claus or the Easter Bunny.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 06:14 PM
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Y’all really think that Chad is going to pair up with incels and save them. 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Men in power have never been incels. Men in power fuck women, date women, and some even get married. 🤣 They don’t want their kids paired off with short losers. They won’t give incels government mandated girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 01:59 PM
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Yes I choose the man who is now my husband. He was/is 6’4”, worked part time at a restaurant, and loads of “swag” over the other boring men I was casually dating. I never wanted a boring, stable man.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 01:51 PM
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It’s literally the first edit on the post at the bottom.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 04:46 AM
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Lmao you aren’t a mod 🙄 I can can comment on the auto if I want
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:25 AM
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I don’t think those women are rejecting men because of judgement. They just don’t find those traits attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 02:31 AM
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Ohhhh noooo those women left bad relationships. How terrible. 🙄🙄🙄🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 02:29 AM
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Good for you? Those marriages have less divorces because it is stigmatized in those circles to divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 02:25 AM
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The study obsessed folks are the red pill and black pill guys on here. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 02:18 AM
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They are videos of individual women talking about what traits they do not find physically attractive in men. You ask for women to be honest and those women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:44 PM
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Suddenly all those TikTok videos they’re always crying about just don’t exist. The cognitive dissonance that some PPD men have is fascinating.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:15 PM
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I don’t even really see the point unless you were just commenting just to say something. Are you trying to date 40 year olds?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:14 PM
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Want to be with somebody who likes you? Guess what, women can’t go five seconds without letting you know how much they hate your entire gender. Well lucky for my husband I dislike a lot of people - not just men. 😆 Want a lifelong commitment? Nope! Guess who initiates divorce over eighty percent of the time! I think the idea that commitment is guaranteed is why many people get lazy/complacent and those relationships fizzle out. I’m not sure why anyone thinks there is an award for having the longe…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:12 PM
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My husband is taking a nap but when he wakes up I’ll ask him what he likes about me to give you an idea. It’s been nearly 20 years together and he still prefers to spend time with me than not so there must be something appealing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:00 PM
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Well don’t fuck the great value version lol save up and pay a little more for the Target brand
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:58 PM
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Well yeah 18-20 is a small age group. I was speaking on 20-29 year olds but must not have been clear enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:55 PM
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Yep. Same. It’s the same post just regurgitated over and over again from the same guy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:47 PM
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20 years ago..sure. The current generation of 20 year olds have no problem telling ugly and/or short men they are ugly and/or short and that’s why they don’t date.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:44 PM
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Basically lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 09:26 PM
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Tbh men say a lot of dumb shit that they think sounds good in the moment- women do it too. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 09:26 PM
1

You must not have actually read all of the post because she did in fact break things off with the guy. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 09:24 PM
4

Yep. Happens all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 08:45 PM
6

Same when guys do this. It’s so disrespectful and cringey like you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 08:26 PM
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I feel the same way about the men on this subreddit so I’m sure we both have a gender bias. Oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 06:37 PM
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My work hours have changed for the summer so now we get out at 12PM on Fridays. It is glorious! Other than that I have a birthday party to go to this afternoon and am going to try to make this grape salad dessert I’ve been seeing on TikTok. Hopefully it is good. 🤞
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 05:00 PM
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lol just like the men on this subreddit are too 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 04:59 PM
1

lol I feel like that guy probably thought he was being so smooth too 🤣 major fumble
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 04:58 PM
2

Right now it’s that damn TikTok Puerto Rico song
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 04:56 PM
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Yes!! Just reading these responses from other users makes it seem as if they all hate themselves. And then somehow also don’t understand the concept that if someone already dislikes themselves then no one else is going to like them (or want to date) either. People just don’t like the truth that they need self love before trying to love someone else. A romantic partner isn’t going to fix internal issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 02:32 PM
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Same
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 02:18 PM
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Second???
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 02:17 PM
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Ok. Whatever you think. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 02:17 PM
1

Yes. I do not care. And yes we have debated in the past. I only remember because most of the debates I’ve had have been with men lol. Our female base is pretty small so it’s easy for me to remember most of the women on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 02:02 PM
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If you need to believe that average men are struggling to date to feel better then continue on. I’m not interested in wasting my time convincing you otherwise. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 01:57 PM
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Average men aren’t coming to Reddit to complain about their dating issues. Average men are dating, having sex, getting married, starting families. Average men aren’t taking surveys about dating or relationships. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 01:53 PM
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That video is 20 years old. Reddit is not even remotely mainstream. I’d actually argue that most neurotypical men don’t even spend time on Internet forums in the first place. Especially not ones related to dating issues. I do think it is a shame that so many men have such an automatic negative reaction to being told they might be neurodivergent than sitting with the question and reflecting on if it might actually be true. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 01:51 PM
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No I probably would not care about any of those things. If you view it as narcissistic I’m also OK with it. We will simply have to agree to disagree on this like we have in other topics previously. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 01:44 PM
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Yes. Glad to see you edited your response to remove your personal attack against me. 🙄 But anyway…yes I have spoken to many men about dating. I have not met one yet that has told me that asking a woman out is terrifying. These men are also not neurodivergent or autistic though (to my knowledge) so it is not surprising to me that social interactions don’t stress them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 12:55 PM
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You are signaling her out specifically and not the actual debate point.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 12:52 PM
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Yes for men who are neurodivergent these skills are difficult to learn. Men who are neurotypical do not struggle with learning social skills. Women also do fine at approaching neurotypical men. Neurodivergent men struggle with approaching and being approached. It’s just how it is and there is no shame behind it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 12:08 PM
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Why can most men in this sub not debate without turning every reply into a personal attack? I feel like I am constantly reporting them over and over and over again.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 12:02 PM
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I’m not really sure what part of my comment pissed you off. 🤷‍♀️ It’s not a secret that neurodivergence makes socialization with neurotypicals difficult. And I also don’t care about how other women have or haven’t approached you. I initiated the relationship with my husband just fine. What other women do isn’t my problem. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 12:00 PM
1

I just don’t care that much about if people choose to get married or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:57 AM
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My guess is it’s a combination of laziness and entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:14 AM
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Yeah I can definitely see why it is appealing to them if social skills are difficult to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:13 AM
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That’s why I said I could only answer for myself and what I would choose to do. If it became a law and single women did not want to deal with the risk of it becoming marital rape then they can just not get legally married.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:12 AM
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They’ve convinced themselves that their unsuspecting wives will be convinced they’re sex gods..while also being neurotic about the size of their penis. They really bank on their wives being clueless about what good sex can be like apparently not realizing how much women talk about our sex lives with friends when we are young.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:04 AM
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Sounds like a personal problem
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:01 AM
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If the guys are not neurodivergent/Autistic then this post would make sense but I think 90% of the guys here are autistic so they genuinely do struggle and I think it’s more their parents/immediate family members fault for not helping them learn social etiquette.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:54 AM
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This generation is definitely the most insecure group of individuals I’ve ever met It is insane how they are terrified to just live. They’ve also argued with me that these woman would never have FOMO even after I point out that they can go to any pro-infidelity subreddit (like adultery) and read post after post from women admitted they decided to cheat because their husband was the only man they’ve slept with and they want to experience others too. Somehow I guess they think only men can have a …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:48 AM
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This is hilarious. My female friend groups don’t even bring up our partners 95% of the time. I could even tell you want my friends’ partners do for a living or what they look like. 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:43 AM
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Why don’t you ever reference them then? It’s always stories about what your cousin and her friends think about men or dating. Or sugar babies. What about female friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 12:11 AM
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Nobody wants to be around someone that is constantly negative and whines all the time. Not even men. 🤷‍♀️ I find crying in general to be off-putting.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 12:10 AM
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Do you talk to any other women …because it seems like they are the only women you ever reference?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 12:01 AM
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Well darn!! I’m sure you could make them but I totally get wanting the convenience factor too of being able to just pull out the wraps and go.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 08:43 PM
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Keep us updated on how it is going!! I think starting sometimes can be the hardest part so congratulations on already beating that hurdle!!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 08:41 PM
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Well very awesome of you to rescue that sweet boy! I hope you are both together for many more years to come!!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 08:40 PM
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I could see that being the case. I don’t spend much time on social media or really read comments so I can’t speak on what they are or are not doing. I just know what my experience has been as a married woman who mentions having a husband frequently. I wish it was a deterrent but sometimes it feels like there are men who view it as a challenge/obstacle. Basically humans suck lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 08:39 PM
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Adorable and I love those red shoes!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 08:31 PM
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I don’t know much about gluten free but our stores have egg wraps that maybe could work for this?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 08:30 PM
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Damn that’s awesome!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 08:29 PM
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I don’t think men would do this but I wonder how often it happens with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 08:28 PM
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Unfortunately most of us could have married in flashing text all over our social media and men would still ignore it because they are that desperate. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 08:26 PM
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Awwwww what a sweetie! How old is he?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 08:24 PM
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I kind of had a feeling there was some religious/sexual shame behind this post. Now it all makes sense!!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 08:02 PM
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Yeah it probably could have had potential like some of the other popular animation shows but what can ya do 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 07:58 PM
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Or they just don’t care if I find it cringey and they enjoy it. Not everyone feels the need to argue with someone they don’t share the same views with..especially on the daily. They might respond if there was an actual post for a debate. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 07:57 PM
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I don’t like it and think it is childish. Oh well 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 07:37 PM
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Bingo! It’s just fascinating to watch it happen over and over again.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 07:24 PM
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Oh damn that makes sense if that is the case!! If you do find it I would love to read it!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 07:23 PM
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I said it was an ick for me not that it is common for all women. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 07:21 PM
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Men wish they could be cum collectors so yep. 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 07:17 PM
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Agreed. Supposedly there is no blackpill/incel talking points allowed on this subreddit yet moderators keep approving these woe-is-me posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 07:15 PM
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Lmao most of us on this subreddit got married in the late 2000s and after. I’ve been married since 2009.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 07:12 PM
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It’s childish.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 06:58 PM
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He plays on occasion but isn’t super into it. I’m not sure if it’s cultural but gaming seems to be more accepted where I live. A grown man watching cartoons is an ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 06:58 PM
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I am so thankful my husband never had an interest in anime. That shit is so embarrassing. 🙈
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 06:45 PM
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Lmao waiting to wed sub is full of women who have not been married yet not already divorced women. Women who have been married previously tend to have no interest in remarrying because they know that marriage is a bum deal for women. I know men have hurt feelings over how dispensable they are now to society but there is no need to lie to anyone. 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 06:26 PM
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Your entire post was about “average” men. You might want to repost them or edit to correct that you are comparing the lives of men who are not average then.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 06:21 PM
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Lmao. Lmao. Lmao. Men literally beg and plead for divorced women to get remarried. Women are only single if they choose to be. Men are single because no one wants them. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 06:16 PM
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Well I wouldn’t consider sex just once a week to really be “frequent”. I can only answer as myself but I would have still married my husband. I’ve always been physically attracted to him and look forward to sex with him. If I didn’t want to continue having sex with him I wouldn’t have married him.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 06:08 PM
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It’s so strange to me how these men continue to claim below average men are actually the average. The only thing i can come up with is that clinging to the belief makes them feel better about their circumstance.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 06:02 PM
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Perfect meme for this post! 🥇
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 05:30 PM
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We’ve also listed several non-black male artist but you don’t seem to want to respond to those comments. 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 05:29 PM
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Probably does. A lot of incels tend to be very racist. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 05:28 PM
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You might want to get tested. Did you really think he was singing about getting fruit from the state? 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 05:25 PM
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I mean if you can’t understand the meaning behind sexual innuendos without it having to be spelled out for you then you are probably on the spectrum. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 05:18 PM
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In India. In the USA porn is pretty normalized. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 05:01 PM
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This just sounds like a male venting that women are talking about sex and he is jealous that they aren’t having sex with him. It’s all just typical male jealousy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:35 PM
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You’ve got to be trolling. Just for the simple fact that you tried to claim that Harry Styles or Justin Bieber aren’t singing songs about sex lmao. Do you even listen to these artists?? 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:21 PM
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Lmao what? Taylor Swift is one of the most popular modern female artists. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:56 PM
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I described character traits that those men have. Men here do not understand how communication works. Probably the neurodivergence.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:54 PM
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I’m just speaking facts. You don’t have to like it but it’s the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:14 PM
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Wow. A whole 11 users sure sounds like a significant amount of women 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:12 PM
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🤷‍♀️ There were always men who weren’t selected and remained sexless..even 15+ years ago. Incels aren’t a new phenomenon.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:59 PM
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Truly every marriage should have a prenup. It’s silly to not have one.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:24 PM
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Men have the option to try to improve their attractiveness. Not my fault they are lazy and don’t want to improve. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:18 PM
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lol you have zero idea of what dating was like 15+ years ago. Those of us who were dating were actively seeing multiple men/women at a time. There was always a competition 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:17 PM
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Did I say that? I think you are interpreting what I said to make it fit what you already believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:11 PM
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Nope. I was talking about the loser men who are timid, meek, shy, socially awkward and anxious. 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 11:22 AM
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I also agree that Tom Brady is not facially attractive and is old AF. Men have a very weird idea of what women like facially. It’s either a dude with abnormal features or someone who looks like a woman without makeup. Absolutely clueless.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 11:03 AM
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You didn’t read the study did you? 🤣 Typical emotional male response…can’t handle anything that doesn’t coddle their fragile egos. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 10:51 AM
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lol sure bud whatever you want to believe
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 10:31 AM
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lol because we have zero stay at home wives in the USA?! Just accept the reality 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 11:12 PM
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A lot of these men are autistic and coddled by their relatives. They probably should have been more direct but it’s hard for parents to crush their children’s spirit even if it’s for the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 11:11 PM
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That’s how I can tell many of these men have no real father figure. The previous generation of men would be disgusted at the amount of whining these boys do today.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 11:03 PM
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Men have always been lazy and will settle for the easiest option. Getting married regardless of love was a win for men in that generation. They knew sex would be guaranteed and getting married prevented them from being considered a weirdo loser like they would be if they were still single at 25+.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 10:47 PM
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Because women truly get no benefit from pairing up with men. Our lives are better without them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 10:40 PM
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Yep!! I think the only reason it hasn’t been pushed harder by men is because they know they’ve got plenty of unclaimed children out there that they don’t want to be responsible for. I’d love for some of these deadbeats to be called out.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 10:28 PM
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lol he is still a betabuxx for those girls in Thailand also 🤣 they make sure they are getting their $$$ 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 10:10 PM
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Lmao I am not sure why PPBs try so hard to convince themselves that they are suddenly highly valued once they leave their home country. So delusional 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 09:23 PM
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It’s ineffective for a minority of men. I’m not sure why men are refusing to accept they are below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 03:09 PM
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For me probably less than 5%
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 02:11 AM
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But none of these men are hot or charming. 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:55 AM
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No one likes a doormat. I love confident men who aren’t afraid to stand up for themselves. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:34 AM
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Literally every woman I know in a relationship had had this happen to them!! Men are downright nasty to each other. A bunch of phonies. 😭 It’s so sad!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 12:31 AM
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Omg yes this!!!!! It is so beyond disturbing to me and has always pissed me off.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 12:05 AM
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If you're asking me to guess why you are seeing this difference in affection: because they want something from you and possibly desperately. They are buttering you up. So called western women don't have to do that. We aren't looking at you like a golden ticket. And here's the deeper rub: In some cases, part of the reason they'd do this is that they do not respect you. They think you'll fall for the fantasy. It’s crazy to me how men can’t see there is no difference between how these other women a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 10:45 PM
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It truly is the worst!! And when they aren’t trying in person they are sliding into our DMs. It only takes about three responses before they start trying to turn the conversation sexual. 🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 10:41 PM
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Could you imagine if these guys had to date like we used to before OLD became popular? They have no idea how easy they have it and yet still complain that they aren’t able to doordash pussy straight to their home. 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 10:24 PM
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And somehow those men who are 7+ aren’t only marrying 8,9, and 10s. According to what men claim to believe on this sub I should have chosen the short, overweight, socially awkward guy who wanted to date me while I was chasing after other men I did find physically attractive. I refused to settle and got exactly what I wanted. A 6’4” man with beautiful green eyes who was (and still is) charismatic as hell with a huge dick who knew how to use it. Women don’t have to settle for losers. Those men wer…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 10:18 PM
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Men have to kill the part of themselves that cares how you feel upfront in order to approach. This is only applicable to men with untreated anxiety issues. Which is also very unattractive so it’s probably nature’s way of letting them know they should be weeded out of the gene pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 10:09 PM
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Then these men can “go their own way” like we have been begging them to do for centuries. We are telling these men we do not want them and yet they just will not accept that truth. It’s beyond annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 09:50 PM
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Oh they definitely do!! It’s gross how they try to bait us into participating in their kinks/fetishes. I just had that happen to me yesterday with a guy on here. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 09:06 PM
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lol what are you talking about? I am allowed to call out things that sound untrue. I’m not sure why you are so upset about this. If I’m wrong it shouldn’t even bother you. Hmmmm 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 06:22 PM
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It literally just took two seconds to google it. https://influencers.feedspot.com/onlyfans-statistics/ OnlyFans reflects typical patterns as far as gender balance goes, with a heavy skew in the subscriber population. The subscribers are predominantly males, ranging from 78.9% to 87% approximately 300 million users. Female subscribers come in at about 10% to 21.1% that is 37.5 million users, while the contribution of subscribers from the Other or Undisclosed category is only 2% to 3% estimated at…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 05:09 PM
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lol I can’t believe you typed that with a straight face. It is not even close to a minority of men who subscribe to OF. Come on now..no need to lie just to have a rebuttal. I didn’t even mention giving these women gifts. Men fangirl over OF girls, porn stars, strippers, etc from the time they enter puberty until they’re dead in the ground. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:46 PM
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That’s your opinion and that’s OK. Not everyone is going to agree and that’s what is great about dating n
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:16 PM
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Why are you trying to speak for me as if you are a mind reader? Weird. I am not dating anyone so I am not giving attention to any men that aren’t my own. 🤷‍♀️ Men masturbating to women on OF and messaging them incessantly is no different than women fan girling over celebrities. 🤣 It’s hilarious that men are trying to pretend that their wives/gfs are going to get a chance to be with a celebrity in the first place. Lmao like women know that Justin Bieber isn’t trying to hook up with Jane who works…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:00 PM
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Well yes for myself I had a requirement for what I wanted physically in a partner. No different than a man having a preference for breast size. 🤷‍♀️ I also don’t think women should settle and neither should men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:53 PM
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lol what??? There isn’t only: doormat men or ghetto males lol come on now
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:52 PM
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We see these men. We just don’t want to date them. Just like men don’t want to date every single woman. Men always say that they wish women found more men attractive…but then crash out the minute they find out a woman they are dating also thinks another man is sexy. Men get jealous over male celebrities and fictional male characters for christ sakes 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 12:33 PM
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Sure bud 😉 That’s exactly how someone from the U.S. would describe going to school lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 12:19 PM
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She is just speaking facts. It’s crazy how men on here whine about not understanding how female attraction works yet when women do give tips the men just get angry that they do not agree and lash out. 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 10:51 AM
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😂 some people genuinely believe that I guess lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 10:43 AM
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Huh? I wouldn’t call myself that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 10:40 AM
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All of your examples sound like two people who shouldn’t be in a relationship together. They would probably be happier if they broke up and found someone more compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 01:49 AM
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Ok and? People can and do already disagree with others. It’s silly to assume all men or women share the same opinion. I’ve already explained this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 01:43 AM
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Girl same!! I’m sure some people think I am only with him because he is tall but him being a ft taller than me is actually annoying AF most of the time. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 12:09 AM
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Hmmm..I’m sure that you can work with that. Some positions just won’t work but that’s just as true for guys of all sizes. If you are not super girthy your size would be great for women who enjoy anal too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 11:48 PM
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I don’t know what they agree to. I cannot read their minds. 🤷‍♀️ Where did I say that women should or should not be held responsible? All things can be true. Life is never just black and white.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 11:42 PM
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Well what if the women agree with her? It sounds like you want women to tell other women who don’t agree with you that your opinion is right and these women are bad for disagreeing. People are allowed to have different opinions. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 11:35 PM
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Are we talking erect or flaccid?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 10:53 PM
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I don’t believe this guy is even from the U.S. it’s an Indian dude making up stories unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 10:38 PM
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What are we supposed to be calling out? Please provide examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 10:35 PM
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What would you request that women do? We aren’t going to tell our single friends they should settle for men they are not attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 10:13 PM
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It’s so funny because as popular as the men on here claim this book is I have literally only heard it mentioned from men on this subreddit. I thought it was a joke for the longest time..but somehow it’s supposed to be mainstream for what women want. I must have missed that memo. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 09:57 PM
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They also consider these men “losers”.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 05:57 PM
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That is your opinion and not a verifiable fact.🤷‍♀️ There are plenty of men that help women for reasons other than being annoyed.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 05:10 PM
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Hopefully that will give her the push to leave!! ❤️❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 02:30 PM
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If men were not annoying to most women then they wouldn’t have such difficulty finding women willing to tolerate them enough to date. Instead men have had to bribe women in order for them to even consider them for relationships and/or sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 02:29 PM
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Men are far more annoying to women than women are in reverse to men. We’ve been begging men to go their own way and leave us alone for decades now. They still don’t listen.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 01:57 PM
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Well duh why wouldn’t he when men constantly say that they do not care about a woman’s personality. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 01:55 PM
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It sounds boring and unappealing. I guess people who have a lot of anxiety would love it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 01:07 PM
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What was going through my mind when I participated in casual sex was: I’m horny. This guy is available and interested. Hopefully I will have an orgasm. That’s it. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 01:06 PM
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lol we aren’t kitty cats 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 11:16 AM
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You don’t have to date to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 03:11 AM
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Yeah if the guy is insecure then sure
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 12:46 AM
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He is both. He is very laid back/chill but has no problem chatting up someone new or making friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 12:44 AM
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Well yeah people that are not ugly have sex with each other. That’s how life works.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 12:40 AM
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Well yeah duh it was a hook up. Why would she wait? I think it’s super strange that you’d insinuate a woman is marrying a man she doesn’t want to have sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 12:40 AM
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It was easy for me because I don’t like spending time with most people. My husband is one of the very few that I actually do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 12:38 AM
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How is someone supposed to give specific advice to a random person they don’t even know? Like just telling someone “don’t be ugly” when others don’t even know what the person looks like to know what to fix. Guys act like women don’t love giving makeovers/glow up tips to other people..like go ask women what we would improve and we will tell you guys. Like I can’t tell a guy to grow a few inches but I could tell them to trim/shape their beard and buy a better fitting shirt.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 11:25 PM
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If the mod takes it down that means it’s not allowed. I’m not even sure how you typed that sentence out without realizing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 11:16 PM
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When I was dating (a million years ago) my standards for a relationship were: 1) Be physically attractive meaning: Clear skin, full head of hair, taller than me (easy because I am 5’4”), not skinny/lanky but also not a gym bro 2) Enjoyable to spend 1:1 time with. Minimal drama. Similar sense of humor. Likes to socialize/party with others. 3) Not an asshole to service workers or elderly 4) Have a job 5) Big dick and knew how to use it And I got everything I wanted without having to compromise for…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 11:08 PM
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Some men actually come here to debate but I’d bet 80% (or more) are just here to whine and complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 11:00 PM
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How else are you going to prevent her from spending time alone with other men? She better not have a job then because a MAN might need to speak to her privately! It is just peak insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 10:42 PM
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I've met guys who would complain about girls willing to hook up with them but never take them seriously for more and they are hurt about it. These guys have zero to very little sexual experience so I don’t think they will believe you. I have known some guys who have told me they’ve experienced exactly what you’re talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 10:25 PM
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That’s true too. Good point!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 10:22 PM
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Too many young people were not taught that life is unfair and it shows by the incessant whining men do about how angry they are that women refuse to date them and choose other men. Sigh. Maybe Gen Z was too coddled by their parents? I guess boomers were right about giving out participation trophies all those years ago. 😭 Now we’ve got all these men feeling like they’re entitled to date anyone with not a damn clue about what makes two people compatible to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 10:20 PM
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It’s so funny how jealous men are of celebrities. lol they’ve got to grow up I swear 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 10:09 PM
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Might as well just lock the girlfriend in a room and keep her inside. There might be…MEN outside who will steal her away. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 10:07 PM
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I’ve done both. It’s been 50/50.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 10:06 PM
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lol you sure added a lot of extra in there that the other person never said. Where did this woman say she wouldn’t feel “intense passion” for a husband? 🤔 A lot of assumptions with little experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 10:04 PM
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I’m not sure where you are gathering that hookup is better than a husband from what this woman said. Weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 10:02 PM
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Sounds like a possible social skill issue if you’ve lost all your friends. That sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 09:59 PM
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It’s sad really
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 09:52 PM
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Sounds very “below average” to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 09:50 PM
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So many of these posts are just made up to rage-bait unsuspecting users. They must not have anything better to do with their time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 09:46 PM
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My question remain the same, why would you or understand that something you've never subjected to? Are you just assuming random shit? I could ask the same thing. Why would a man with no romantic relationship experience have a better idea of how relationships function than someone who has had successful LTRs. Yeah that's the basic shit anyone can provide in a relationship yet some are more valued than others, why? Because there's obviously something else to get of these relationships. Those men a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 07:34 PM
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Awww yes we are both very lucky to have each other! Hopefully we have many more years together.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:57 PM
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How do you know this?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:56 PM
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Average is not just looks or sexual experience. If you are neurodivergent or socially awkward you would be considered “below average”.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:21 PM
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None of this disputes what I said that men who struggle to socialize are not average. These men are below average. Abnormal.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:20 PM
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🤷‍♀️ He’s just an extroverted guy who doesn’t care what other people think. I have a feeling that is why so many people are drawn to him and he is quick to make new friends. He is much better at it than me 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:13 PM
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I disagree. I think these men sound below average. It’s kind of sad that below average men have to tell themselves their behavior is what average men are doing. 😢
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:12 PM
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I must be surrounded by exceptional men then because I don’t know any that are socially awkward shut ins. It actually sounds like the men you have described in your post would be considered “below average”. It’s very odd to me that men can accept that they are below average in looks but can’t seem to accept that they are below average in social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:48 PM
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We must have made some form of an impression to have the social and romantic lives that we do. 🤷‍♀️ LOL you’ve got a very interesting idea of how my relationship works. I text him just as much as he does. That’s what happens when you really like the person you are with. Hopefully you’ll get to experience what it is like to love someone and be loved in return. ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:44 PM
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This just sounds like men suck making friends which is their own fault. Why aren’t men taking accountability for their poor social skills? My husband has never struggled to make new friends (even when he was single) so this sounds like an individual problem instead of something men face as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:37 PM
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I’ve simply explained why your opinion that the women on PPD are ugly doesn’t matter. The majority of women here aren’t looking for a relationship so the idea of being attractive to any other men is irrelevant for us. We aren’t trying to impress the guys on here. 🤷‍♀️ And I think he is very happy with his choice to marry me. He had just texted me from work a little big ago to tell me he loves me and misses me. ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:34 PM
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lol the OP edited his post
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:10 PM
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Autism definitely seems to be a huge factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:04 PM
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I only assume if they leave context clues that indicate lack of relationship success.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:02 PM
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Do you feel better after your rant? 😂 I didn’t say anything about marriage or relationships being an achievement so I’m not sure why else you would think that. But regardless my husband seems to be pretty darn satisfied with our relationship and we’ve never had a deadbedroom. 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:01 PM
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It’s just fictional postings trying to ragebait people who don’t know how actual cheating people behave. Any guy who acted like this in any of the pro-infidelity related subs would be called out immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:55 PM
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She definitely shouldnt but the truth is, you can be a good husband and she may still decide not to fuck you. I think men in deadbedrooms do not understand what a “good” husband is for their wives. It's not in your control. That is lazy. Lazy is unattractive. What's in your control is to be attractive and pursue other woman if your wife doesn't fuck you. Being a good husband doesn't guarantee sex, being attractive and willing to pursue other woman does. Anyone that spends time around actual chea…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:52 PM
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Ahh now comes the part where normalshits brag about good they have it on the internet, never get tired of these! There's certainly something you get out of this relationship at least as much as he does otherwise why maintain a relationship for so long? That what Im talking about. no need to say it, keep that to yourself. If you don’t want to hear about others in a relationship then there are plenty of incel websites you could go to instead. 🤷‍♀️ Well how would you know, since you have such great…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:33 PM
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If the wife is feeling unsexy and stressed out/overworked then the husband is also being a bad husband. Why would a woman want to have sex with a bad/failure husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 03:46 PM
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lol well most of the women on here are married or in relationships so it doesn’t really matter if the guys on PPD think we are ugly or not 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 03:24 PM
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Oh you mean if they have no experience or just bad experience? If that is what you are asking - we only know what they tell us on here. Many of the guys who are have no experience are pretty forthcoming about it on here. And the ones who aren’t usually give it away eventually by how they talk about sex/relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 03:23 PM
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Know what?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 03:19 PM
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We don’t really have them around where I am from so it is interesting to me to hear how others use them for transportation! We have motorcycles which are similar but they are under a separate type of license and from what I’ve are as fast as driving a car. Most of us (where I live) have to use a car to get around because very few things are within walking distance. The closest store for me would be about a 45 minute walk. And we don’t even have public transportation in my city for some reason 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 03:19 PM
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Usually no experience. At least the ones with negative experience have something to go off of.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 03:15 PM
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No! Old people are not so fragile like many years ago. I have some patients that are probably more active than teenagers! I talked to an 88 year old last week that said he still bikes 4+ miles a day and is pretty big into weight lifting.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 02:55 PM
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I am fascinated by this scooter. Are they pretty fast? Do you primarily use a scooter to get around?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 02:53 PM
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Time for an OF page 🤩
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 02:52 PM
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Posts like this make me so thankful that my husband and I have never had to deal with “dead bedroom”. It’s too bad though that these guys don’t look inward at their own behavior and realize that they’re probably not pleasing their partner sexually. From talking with my friends in long term relationships a lot of men get lazy in the bedroom and get very routine about the sex they have with their wives. Who wants to fuck if you already know it’ll be boring/predictable? Not me that’s for darn sure.…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 02:37 PM
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Yep pretty much
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 02:29 PM
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If someone has never experienced romantic love I could see why that would be someone’s belief of how it works. Especially if they’ve had repeated failed relationships. I’ve been happily married for almost 20 years now and it has nothing to do with “getting what you want” or “giving them enough to keep them around”.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 02:27 PM
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Someone had a good point on here the other day that this subreddit is mostly men with no dating experience pretending to be experts in attraction or men from non-Western countries where dating culture is different (conservative/religious based) than in the USA. It has definitely made me look at these conversations differently now when I realize we’re debating with people whose only experiences of dating come from rage-bait postings they’ve seen online.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 01:27 PM
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The idea that someone is initially choosing another partner out of anything but attraction/love is what unsuccessful people need to tell themselves to not breakdown over their own relationship failures or inability to get a relationship in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 12:53 PM
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Because nothing you’ve said sounds believable. People who actually have had casual sex can spot when someone is making up stories. I’m sure the virgins and incels believe you though! 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 10:30 PM
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That’s true. It would probably be a waste of time and probably why older women don’t share these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 10:26 PM
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I’m not going to give you tips to catfish people dude 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 10:25 PM
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Nah. Most of the women on this subreddit are happily married. We picked well and left the losers behind. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 10:18 PM
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Exactly. No small dicks are coming near my vagina! No way 🙅‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 10:17 PM
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Well yeah? That’s the point of Tinder
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 10:15 PM
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All of it. There is just something “off” about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 10:01 PM
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I disagree and think it is unfortunate that you have not met enough genuinely good people to see otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 10:00 PM
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Yep. It’s caused a lot of delusional ideas in young men about what relationships were like. I think it’s partly why they idolize their grandparents’ marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 07:46 PM
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Maybe for a ONS with the lights off but long term relationship…nah I don’t think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 07:43 PM
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Yes many older women have said they do regret not experimenting more with casual sex before marriage. Probably why a lot of them end up cheating later on in their marriages. Even the old folks get FOMO!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 07:42 PM
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They could have but they also might not have. It’s hard to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 07:40 PM
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You’ve got to talk to older women. Most of them were not happy in their marriages. I wish they would be more open about this with men instead of just warning younger women because it’s caused men to not want to believe it when these women have told us directly.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 07:21 PM
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Also need to not be ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 07:19 PM
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I don’t necessarily think they would have ended up alone. I just don’t think they stayed together out of love.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 07:17 PM
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I don’t think young men talk to enough older couples to understand how many paired up because they thought it was what they were supposed to do and that they didn’t all stay together long term out of “love”.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 06:06 PM
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Whoever told you that lied. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 06:04 PM
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And yet there are even more videos of men crying that they are lonely and can’t get a woman to date them. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 05:47 PM
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How is it different? Women are more than capable of having casual sex without wanting commitment. It’s actually become a bit of a joke among women how clingy men get after sex and how upset they get when women tell them it was just a casual thing. You’d think they’d be happy for a drama free “pump and dump” but it seems like guys really do think that a woman having sex with them means she actually wants to be with him long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 05:40 PM
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I’d find it more believable if men weren’t crying so much about not being able to get a relationship. 20+ years ago I’d say you were correct in that neither side saw much benefit from pairing up ..but it seems that modern men are very desperate to have a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 05:35 PM
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If two different women having sex with the same man is sharing..then two different men having sex with same woman is also sharing. I know men hate the idea that women also have “rosters” but it’s always been that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 05:32 PM
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Yes. I see it from the men in this sub on a daily basis. They cannot understand the difference. Glad to see you are not one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 05:29 PM
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That’s what casual sex is. Remember those dudes are also “sharing” her. She’s sleeping with multiple men and he’s sleeping with multiple women. That’s what single people have always done.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 05:21 PM
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It would help next time to add that to your comment because otherwise it sounds like you are referring to me directly.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 05:17 PM
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Exactly what I said. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 05:16 PM
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I was simply reminding you that men aren’t the only ones capable of sharing and fucking others while in a relationship. Your post came off as an attempt to taunt women that men will cheat so I just wanted to make sure no one is forgetting that women do too. Too many men crash out over the fact that they are also sharing a woman which is just silly. 😛
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 05:15 PM
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It’s really not. There is just no real benefit for getting into a relationship for women anymore. Why should women care about men wanting them long term when a relationship is more work than it’s worth for most women. Who wouldn’t want all of the perks and benefits of being single when it’s as easy as hopping in an app or calling up a FWB when she’s feeling horny? What else is there that a relationship is going to provide for a woman that she can’t already do for herself?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 05:13 PM
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Probably but women can also desire multiple men. I don’t think we hierarchy potential partners like men seem to do. They’re either a YES or a NO. Most women just want to find a guy that will give consistent, good sex. Marriage doesn’t really matter because it’s unnecessary nowadays for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 05:06 PM
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I wasn’t arguing against it. I’m just explaining why women don’t care if the men who can’t get pussy..aren’t getting pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 05:03 PM
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Married 🥰 We are going on 17 years married now and have been together a total of 19 almost 20 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 04:58 PM
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Women don’t care that men they do not want to be with aren’t dating. That is a good thing. I’d rather be fucked by a man with experience than a bumbling virgin. I married a man with a high body count and appreciate all the knowledge he came with. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 04:50 PM
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It’s silly to assume wives weren’t out cheating. The milk man was a trope for a reason. 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 04:43 PM
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Well considering that I’ve been married almost 20 years now I’d say your impression is false. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 04:19 PM
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Just giving an explanation for the why behind: On top of that my wife is still with me after all my infidelities. Sometimes it's kinda trippy to see redpill working. If you asked me 5 years ago if my wife would stay with me if i ever cheated, I would have said definitely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 01:07 PM
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It just takes a quick peak over at /r/adultery to confirm this is likely the case. It’s a hell of a lot easier to hide cheating on her side. And tbh men who actually do cheat don’t go around attempting to brag about their activities to others. It’s terrible “opsec” as they call it. I’d bet that he is just fetish posting as a cheater (also very common).
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 12:54 PM
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Usually when the wife sticks around in these cases it’s because she’s cheating too. Congratulations on your open marriage. 🥳
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 12:50 PM
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Nope. It’s a behavior. Not a personality trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 12:33 PM
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We do. Men just don’t take us seriously. I’ve said several times that most women don’t want to date: ugly men, shy men, short men (meaning shorter than she is), anxious men, timid/meek men, etc..
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 12:28 PM
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Because good people don’t need a reward just for doing the right thing or treating others kindly. A lot of people claim to be good but really aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 12:15 PM
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We were discussing personality traits. I’m not sure why men think “abuse” is a personality trait. An abusive man can have those above traits but they can also be: charismatic, extroverted, funny, intelligent, etc..
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 12:12 PM
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Very incorrect. Also the Chads just look like what gay men are into. Hmm 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 12:05 PM
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Have fun!!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 12:02 PM
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Yes. All of those traits would be considered a “bad” personality. Someone who is: boring, anxious, timid/meek, self-centered, jealous, rigid/inflexible, pessimistic, etc…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 11:57 AM
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The topic was about personality not how someone behaves. Abusive men are usually extroverted and charismatic which are traits that make up a “good” personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 11:51 AM
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I’d say my “romantic success” has been very similar if not better than my parents. We all met our significant others at a young age (both my parents and even my husband’s parents were high school sweethearts), got married, had kids and stayed together for 20+ years.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 11:47 AM
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I think he just wants to tell the sub about his dating success which tbh has never sounded very believable. Most of his comments are similar to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 11:44 AM
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Ok? Apparently in your hurry to try to gain attention from the women in this subreddit you missed the part where he said.. Let me know when women actually settle for men who earn significantly less than them, including having house husbands, then we can talk. Just another jealous desperate PPD male who gets pissed hearing about other’s relationships. Stay mad. 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 11:13 AM
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Women are not saying these abusive men have “bad personalities”.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 03:43 AM
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I just looked the up..pretty cool
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 05:28 PM
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Is it like a Vespa?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 04:48 PM
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It does. You’ve claimed that the narrative was that personality was all that mattered and I’ve countered that with the reality that personality was never enough alone to ensure a woman would find a man desirable. As well as explained why your idea of that being a common belief held by anyone in the past was also incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 04:45 PM
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I don’t ever remember seeing anyone justify dating ugly men by saying personality is more important. Women have always prioritized dating men they find physically attractive when they’ve been allowed to choose their partner for themselves. Even when arranged marriages were the norm those women were still off cheating with their more attractive lovers. A boring, anxious, shy, socially stunted man has never been in high demand.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:41 PM
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It’s very entertaining that’s for sure lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:17 PM
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Tbh I am not reading all of what you’ve said. I’ve been happily married for almost two decades now to an awesome man who I love very much (and loves me in return) so none of this really applies for me. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:01 PM
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This sounds like Madonna/Whore complex. 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 01:49 PM
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It’s also probable that women never have truly pedestalized and obsessed over men. Correct. I am not sure what has had young men convinced this was ever the case in the very first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 01:46 PM
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Men who are anxious, awkward shut ins want women to be soooo mad about it. It reminds me of children throwing a tantrum. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 01:23 PM
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I’ve seen mention of a “teenage son”. I’m guessing that the supposed child is a short, anxious, socially awkward guy who isn’t having any dating success and papa bear is ashamed/angry over it. If that is in fact true and not a cover up.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 01:22 PM
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This sounds exactly like what men are doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 02:38 AM
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A man shoving a popsicle down his throat isn’t going to be appealing but watching a man eat ice cream is hot AF. 👅
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 12:42 AM
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Has anyone seen the Backrooms movie? If so..good or bad? My son wants to go see it but I’d rather go see Obsession.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 10:54 PM
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Well considering the fact that I’m a woman I think the odds are a lot higher that I have a better idea of what women are thinking during sex than a man with no sexual experience. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 10:38 PM
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You want women to apologize to ugly men for them being ugly?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 10:35 PM
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LOL. LOL. LOL. Women aren’t making sex a performance. This is a very male coded (and very wrong) take of how women experience sex. Women are not going to participate in sexual activities they don’t enjoy just to perform for an attractive man. 🤣 I swear it’s always the people who have no experience who want to pretend to be experts. No different than childless folks assuming they know how parenting is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 10:19 PM
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lol sure bud. It’s women wasting time making weirdo loser memes 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 09:20 PM
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Hi! Another woman who also makes double my partner’s salary and has for 10+ years now. He even did the house husband thing for a bit too. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 09:01 PM
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<image> This meme describes these same men perfectly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 08:53 PM
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She’s just explaining that there is not a correlation between what a woman is willing to do and how sexually attracted she is to the man. I don’t understand why some men either can’t grasp this concept or simply refuse to believe it. Maybe this is men’s admitting they want to punish women who they don’t find attractive enough…which would actually make sense since men have admitted that seeing unattractive women makes them upset. If a woman enjoys anal sex she’s not going to suddenly refuse anal …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 08:49 PM
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Do you have children? Can you elaborate on what a woman gains from having a child to prove it’s beneficial for her?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 05:24 PM
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LOL I know!! 😆 I think they just want something to complain about. They’ll complain about women having abortions without getting the man’s input (because you know they are just dying to jump at the chance to be a single dad) or they’ll complain that women refuse to get an abortion and they’ll have to pay child support as if the little amount that most men actually pay is even enough to cover the cost of actually raising a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 03:57 PM
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I think there have been studies that have estimated the cost of how much it would cost to raise a child for 18 years. (Quick good search said around 300K) so I think that price would be fair. Men want paper abortion then they can fork out the 300k. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 01:17 PM
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Brilliant 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 01:49 AM
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Never heard of that phrase.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 01:44 AM
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I keep seeing men say they are afraid of “making a woman feel bad” and I’m not sure what they mean by that. Is it a fear of making her anxious? Annoyed?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 01:41 AM
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That sounds like a great example of what would be considered a “bad” personality. Not sure why you have disagreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 01:38 AM
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What traits would those be? From what men are saying in this thread …it sounds like just understanding the concept of what a personality entails is what they’re also struggling with.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 01:24 AM
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Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 01:22 AM
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I’m still not really sure what you are getting at or how it relates to my premise. I suppose if you are questioning how much personality matters I would guess that the 3 women that didn’t sleep with him either found him unattractive, found his personality off putting, and/or weren’t interested in having sex at that particular moment. A good personality can improve a man’s odds of appealing to women but an off-putting (or bad) personality will lower his attractiveness to most women. I’m also not …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 12:46 AM
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I don’t understand what you were trying to say about the 2/5 women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 12:30 AM
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I still disagree. Men will say in this subreddit that they are a “good” but then describe themselves with traits that do not align with what most women find “good” in regard to personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 11:13 PM
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