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Idk maybe do things to prevent a dead bedroom in the first place. If your wife doesn't want to have sex with you because you ignored her and made her do all the work, that's a you problem, bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 10:28 PM
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I'm not understanding. What exactly are you trying to say? Like no shit people doing their jobs benefits society.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 10:06 PM
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be forced to see the value of men Such as?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 09:58 PM
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You'd have no nickels. Makes sense because you're not stumping anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 09:55 PM
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No. I've never seen a good-looking "right winger".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 09:54 PM
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Good, she should sue.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 09:53 PM
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The already disappear from my existence. No buttons required. I just pay them no mind. Even the male relatives. And thus they disappear from my existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 09:51 PM
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I'm guessing, you read the word "fuck" and thought that was too aggressive? Eh kid? Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 09:49 PM
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It wasn't honest. It was rude. And slimey toad behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 09:44 PM
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It's not a simple yes or no question when you're using hurtful rhetoric as your example. Assume whatever the fuck you want kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 09:43 PM
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Again, that wasn't honesty. That was hurtful.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 09:17 PM
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I don't understand what your comment to the discussion at hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 09:17 PM
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I loved horror movies for first dates. Especially because of the the shared scare or surprise reactions. It was a great way to connect, in the dark, grabbing each other for safety. Definitely upped the attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 09:12 PM
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I think he's s slimey toad. And that anyone who agrees with his actions is also a slimey toad. And when that slimey toad is my age and whining on the internet about being single and "she asked", I'll just be laughing thinking, "slimey toad". Haha. That twerp is pathetic. But what's worse is defending pathetic twerps.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 09:05 PM
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Lmao. Nothing what he said was honest it was hurtful and needlessly malicious.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 09:02 PM
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Lmao. He had no physical standards. He was mean to his girlfriend for no reason other than to be a dick. Good riddance. He sounds like a little punk.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 08:50 PM
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And you're gonna get a dozen more different definitions. That's what RP is all about....vagueness. Keep it vague and you can call anyone a Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 08:46 PM
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Ick. Hope she leaves that twerp. She deserves far better than that slimey toad.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 08:44 PM
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Weird I just cleaning, lunch packing, and cat videos.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 08:42 PM
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Lmao. What? Y'all make up the dumbest shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 08:19 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 08:18 PM
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What exactly are you trying to communicate here?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 08:08 PM
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They turn into a sandwich? Weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 08:07 PM
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Oh, I'm not a dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 07:32 PM
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So yeah, there is no place to pursue women Okay. So what would you like done?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 06:33 PM
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No rage here. Please bring your robots to life. Live a happy life with your robots.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 06:31 PM
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I must confess. That my loneliness is killing me nooooowww. Jk. That's not my confession. I'm not who I've said I am. I couldn't quit this train wreck of a place. I fear, I'll be banned forever. Farewell. 👋🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 06:30 PM
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Reading single and unwanted men saying, "the vetting never stops," will never not be funny to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 03:26 PM
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Uh huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 03:23 PM
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There's nothing empathize in this conversation. It's single and/or unwanted men having revenge fantasies about scenarios that will never happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 03:19 PM
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Lmao. Too fucking funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 03:14 PM
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Yes, I care so much what high school, 20-somethings, and unwanted men on the internet think about me and sex life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 03:12 PM
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So don't get married. Nobody is forcing you. Don't live with someone. Don't work. Don't do anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 03:01 PM
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Is Maury still on? Lol. Jesus. However, I think these guys know they’re not bright enough to detect a shitty woman, so theyre making super sure. They don't even seem bright enough to detect a decent woman either.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 02:59 PM
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They aren't thinking about having kids. They are thinking about their non-existent wife cheating on them and getting pregnant and then being vindicated to demand a paternity test. It's an unhinged hypothetical that doesn't make any sense except to emotionally charge single and unwanted men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 02:58 PM
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The internet was invented by women, too. Female engineers and construction workers also build buildings. JFC. but one of those basic needs is sexual, Ick. Sex isn't a fucking basic need.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 02:56 PM
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This obsession single men have with paternity tests is so bizarre. Such unhinged emotional reactions to a bogeyman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 02:54 PM
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Weird those have never been my two options. If those are the only options, I'm staying single.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 02:53 PM
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This obsession single men have with paternity tests is so bizarre. Such unhinged emotional reactions to a bogeyman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 02:52 PM
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Nope. Definitely disagree. So when you ladies say “men are trash”, I hope you realize it’s kind of making the point that you are attracting that kind of man. Based on what I've learned in this sub, men are attracted to anything with a pulse. Regardless of what I do or did to attract them. Them being attracted to me isn't my fault. And I refuse to blame myself for men's bizarre abilities to be attracted to anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 02:45 PM
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You can't view sex as both an intimate and recreational act, You absolutely can, kid. Maybe one day, when some of y'all are old enough, you'll understand that both can be true. Good luck out there, kid. Y'all need it far more than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 02:41 PM
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Lmao. Sure, pal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 02:40 PM
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traditional female gender roles, Such as? What does this look like? a man who plays the traditional male gender roles. Could you describe this?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 02:39 PM
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I have no idea what this means.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 02:38 PM
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This doesn't make any sense. Demand a paternity test from your faithful wife and end up divorced and a tense relationship with your kids. Great job letting fear control these men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 02:37 PM
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Y'all make up the most unhinged concepts. It's fucking wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 02:35 PM
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Men are just telling you that they're done settling for them Lol. Okay. I fail to see when this has ever happened, but pop off.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 02:33 PM
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eventually I want to have sex with her. Okay so why is a month so bothersome? Sex drives shift and changes constantly in a relationship. Age, stress levels, work commitments, children, other commitments, etc. Many years without sex in a marriage is a problem. A month or two without sex is just a marriage with a newborn or some other valid obstacles (work, older kids, etc).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:04 AM
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Idk depends on the woman. Why is waiting for sex such a hassle? If you want sex immediately go pay a professional.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:32 AM
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while they themselves lack the values and behaviors that attract traditional men. Such as? A modern or semi-modern couple that finds a happy medium within their relationship will thrive more What does this look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 03:50 AM
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I simply don't want a high body count women, I don't want a sex worker and I want a family orientated women that doesn't prioritise getting drunk at clubs. Okay so don't... nobody is suggesting you do so. Date a religious person with your values. Now, if you're having a lot of sex yourself and getting drunk at clubs, well that's hypocritical and people understandably have issues with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 03:25 AM
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At any point, someone determines they feel uncomfortable or don't want to proceed or say no.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 03:03 AM
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I've never heard a woman in this sub say that they don't enjoy sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 02:59 AM
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Sex is way too fun to never have.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 02:19 AM
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What would you say is a decent enough amount of time to know a guy before getting physical with him? Depends. There's no hard and fast rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 02:15 AM
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I've been thinking about if or why I care about this topic. I've figured out that I don't want young women to believe musty insecure men who shame, insult, and rage out at them for having whatever consensual sex they want. Seems my duty as a Fairy Homother to guide the next generation of women into their best sexual selves. 🧚‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 02:04 AM
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Who think I'll warm up to the idea if they push the right buttons. Ick. Luckily, they all use the same moves, so it becomes really easy to spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 01:57 AM
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What guys are showing low effort? The ones I mentioned? I don't use online dating. How is refusing and turning down these men, giving them power? I'm not even sure what you're referring to here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 01:55 AM
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Men lying, men refusing to wear condoms, men pressuring, and men demanding is somehow MY problem. 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 01:51 AM
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Every time I've been single it's been about men lying to get me naked, men demanding sex before I felt comfortable, men refusing to wear condoms, men pressuring to me to have sex, men upset that I won't have sex. Basically, it comes down to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 01:47 AM
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Pro tip: If a man complains about wearing condoms, walk the fuck away. He's trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 01:44 AM
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I don't think most men are physically ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 01:41 AM
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I'll take the cooler chill dude over the supposedly more "goal oriented dude" who thinks respect is driving 3 hours to see them or only seeing them once a week. I'll take employed dude with dorito dust. I'm repulsed by men who say, "she never gives attitude and is going all out for me".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 01:36 AM
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Why do the fears include demanding a paternity test? That's the part that doesn't make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 08:48 PM
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You ever hear of Siri?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 08:22 PM
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That's a good question. You'd have to ask the kid who told me this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 08:11 PM
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Someone who doesn't hate men. Obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 08:08 PM
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Oh did you want me to keep going? How many men should I list off to prove to you that I don't hate men?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 08:08 PM
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I don't believe this for a second. Someone's true hatred can come out online. Especially on Reddit. I've been called "cunt" online far more often than in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 08:06 PM
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I don't hate men. My dad's a man. My dog is a man. My robots are men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 08:02 PM
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Yet with women, they’re always praised and admired for going single Not in this sub. In this sub, being a single woman is a threat and a consequence. I'm all for the choosing to be single. But do it because you want to. Not because you're trying to spite woman kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 08:00 PM
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you're just a closed minded feminist cunt With this comment, I got my first PPD BINGO of the day. Rewarded myself with sushi for lunch. 🍣 Seemed fitting for the "cunt" insult. 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 07:57 PM
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I'm still wondering what is game about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 07:55 PM
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It's not in my head. It's what I observe in the lives of my offline relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 07:55 PM
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Agreed. I sharpened my flirting skills as a bartender as well. It also helps you read people, too. Ooh, it helps you avoid those creepy customers with that leering look in their eyes. Bartending gave me so many skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 07:48 PM
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Strange, that's not what I observe. Thank goodness for this sub and the vast experience it has.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 07:45 PM
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Unmarried single men are afraid of a hypothetical future wife cheating on them is a revenge fantasy. It is not anything rooted in reality. I'm not angry in the slightest.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 07:41 PM
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I'm talking casual sex they come over you fuck they leave you never see them again Average men are doing this. I never suggested anything about relationships either.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 07:39 PM
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Just once, I'd like to see a real-life example. Not these silly little platitudes of what women want or don't want. Give me real-life examples. Oh wait, you can't. Because RP shit is all made up myths and toxic talking points. No actual reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 07:28 PM
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Weird, I see at least 3 regular dudes with regular women. No livestock or "land whales" in sight. Matter of fact, I never see what you're describing in real life. I do see below average men who complain on the internet a lot. But average men are doing just fine with dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 07:26 PM
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Very attractive men, who often flirt with old women and aunties. This is more like a game. How is that game? Flirting with old women?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 07:25 PM
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That's why i don't buy this "flirting = leading someone on". Agreed. There's levels of flirting. I flirt with a lot of people, men and women. Flirting literally means doing it for amusement and not serious intentions.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 07:24 PM
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I understand lots of men. I don't understand men who complain about their hypothetical revenge fantasies. I don't understand men who complain about their choices but refuse to make different choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 07:21 PM
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Acknowledge what exactly? Average dudes aren't struggling with access to sex. Average men aren't below the standards for casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 07:16 PM
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This isn't my opinion on relationships This is very much your opinion. You're not telling me the origin of anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 07:03 PM
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phone and text a male friend " wanna come over 💦🍆" and 9 times out of 10 a dudes gonna be down... Ick. No. An average or even above average dude can't do this What have friendships with women? so your average dude goes for a relationship because access to casual sex for him is very limited. That doesn't make any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 07:00 PM
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Why are you marrying someone who cheats on you? Seems like a personal problem. 😕
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 06:56 PM
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You just said that I could easily find on by looking out the window. Implying it's incredibly common. Some of us have options Uh huh. I'm saying that monogamous relationships were introduced to us for this purpose For what purpose? Sex? So that the average man could have a woman and pro create children with. Wtf. Y'all have some really deranged opinions of relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 06:52 PM
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They implied that it's as common as seeing a man in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 06:51 PM
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A cheating accusation is an unforgivable betrayal and relationship ending deal breaker. considered a much more "forgivable" if mundane example of a male partner worried about cheating. No, it's not. It's equally frustrating and not worth maintaining a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 06:45 PM
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Lmao. What? Are you suggesting that every man is in a relationship for causal sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 06:43 PM
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A lot of men get into relationships because they can't have access to casual sex. Who are these men?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 06:35 PM
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Commonly women have to conciously choose a guy that is not top 5%, because they have to consider the risk of the man having too many temptations to go astray. What? No. Never done this, never seen this done either. How common is it for really attractive women to marry really attractive men? Very common. Why do certain men have harems or women who share them? They don't. Certain men lie to women to get sex. The women, once finding out they've been lied to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 06:34 PM
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(b) The kind of people who paternity tests are designed for given the stats provided by these services about their clients. Men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 06:27 PM
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whose partner has a history of frequent or recent infidelity Who are these people having children with women who frequently or recently cheated?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 06:13 PM
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Let's remove "women" and just stick with me here. What exactly am I being undermined on? just self perpetuating contempt. What precisely are you referring to here?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 06:12 PM
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Seriously. What an exhausting relationship to constantly be accused of cheating. Of course people are going to break up with someone who is always screeching, "you wore a g string. You're gonna cheat on me!!".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 06:06 PM
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Cool stories, I guess. Having sex while traveling. Such a cool guy. Pop off cool guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 06:02 PM
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If a man asks you, why are you wearing your favourite and sexy underwear to work, he is basically asking if you are wearing it for someone at work or someone you will meet after work, will you then file for divorce because he asked why are you wearing that underwear? I can't believe someone seriously wrote this. Like what in the actual fuck. Are husbands just watching their wives get dressed and noticing the underwear they put on? And the concept that a woman can't wear "sexy underwear" to work …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 05:54 PM
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100%. This is absolutely the case. So much of what we see here is their fears and pushing them on women. Men here are apparently attracted to every woman that crosses their paths. So they assume women are the same way. Men here are obsessed with being compared to past sexual partners because they compare their limited experiences. It's wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 05:48 PM
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My question is, why is an accusation of cheating by asking for a paternity test any different to any other accusation of cheating? It's not different. But a random accusation of cheating is break up worthy. And really, what's most annoying is this conversation is these intense stances from men who have never had a relationship, let alone a marriage. Why are y'all so hard up for paternity tests for relationships with women that you don't even have? You're talking big game about a scenario you've …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 05:44 PM
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Your example is an op Ed that doesn't say anything close to what you've claimed. This article is saying that "gym maxxing" is a toxic mentality for men. It doesn't say that working out for self care or for personal enjoyment is toxic. That working out to "be the man" is toxic. As many of us have pointed out before. RP nonsense is toxic masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 05:38 PM
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Idk. Presumably, the dude is also having ONS/random hookups, and having sex without relationships.....so he doesn't feel that jealousy described above. People tend to date people with similar past experiences. why do I want to be the "nice and stable" guy she ends up with and courts her formally, putting a ring on it and taking her on all of these nice dates and trips? You don't have to be. Nobody is expecting this from anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 05:32 PM
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And these guy’s don’t overshadow her. Maybe they don't want to. Maybe they just want to support and encourage her. And they're perfectly okay doing enough to be a functional contributing adult. Why do these men need to "overshadow" her? These guys tend to be fairly blue collar and plain. And? What's the issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 05:24 PM
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Do you have an example of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 05:07 PM
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What does that even mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:43 PM
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There's no point in arguing with virgins here anymore. Waste of time, space, and energy. They tell on themselves so often it's easy enough to avoid them. Though they love trying to talk to me. But I'll ignore them since they are used to it anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:59 PM
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The fuck? 😒
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:56 PM
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JFC. Y'all are so unhinged with these revenge fantasies. This is hardly a rare thing either lol, its a very common story And yet it is rarely seen in real life. I understand real life is a struggle for most men here.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:55 PM
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They really do. I'm convinced they are all poor ass high school kids leaving in section 8 housing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:54 PM
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Lmao. You couldn't handle an argument, kid. Rules dictate that I need to be civil. So I'll stop engaging with your pathetic nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:51 PM
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Seems pretty dumb to have unprotected sec with someone you don't trust with the intention of getting fucking pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:49 PM
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It's so fucking weird. They sound so silly. If these conversations were had in person, people would be laughing in their faces. Because it just sounds so fucking dumb. They're all relationship and sex experts despite having zero to 1 experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:48 PM
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Why would you even procreate with someone you don't trust? Make it make sense. Y'all act like every conception is another man's. It's fucking moronic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:46 PM
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Lmao. Stay mad, kid. Truth hurts.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:46 PM
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This obsession with paternity tests in this sub is so fucking gross. And so damn immature. JFC. This sub really is just high schoolers and college kids with no actual experiences, just unhinged revenge fantasies towards women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:30 PM
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Kudos to any woman who refuses a DNA test because the man is an insecure meat stick. And it gives children the truth so they don’t have to spend years wondering either. What the actual fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:28 PM
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What's "free"? they got a higher product for free What product? Inflation seems to impact products all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:22 PM
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but I do feel like people should let people know what turned them off so they are aware and can work on themselves Lmao? What? I'm not gonna work on myself because there was something that turned some side of?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 01:15 AM
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You will be one day! 💍
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 11:40 PM
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Sounds like you don't know what cold approaching is. All your comments make sense now.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 11:31 PM
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I'm not a troll. I just don't agree with some of the content here. your online persona What's that exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 11:23 PM
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Nope. Didn't say that either.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 11:18 PM
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Lmao. Stay mad, kid!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 11:17 PM
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For what? You clearly know something more than he does.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 11:10 PM
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Wait, is it a cold approach just noticing someone? That's it. Wild. I always assume the cold approaches actually involved talking to the other person. Not just using eyeballs.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 11:10 PM
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Ya, I'm really just confused. Lmao. Oh well. Appreciate your comment!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 11:04 PM
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I'm so confused by your responses. You failed to understand the first time and just keep doubling down.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 11:00 PM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 10:56 PM
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Thank you. It's clear that the poster is purposely being obtuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 10:54 PM
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Like someone else just beautifully said to you. I'm not sure why this is such a difficult concept for you to grasp. She's not noticing more guys. More guys are drawn to her. Her outlook on other men didn't change. Their outlook on her did.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 10:53 PM
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No, I'm not noticing more guys. JFC. More guys are cold approaching me since I've started wearing my engagement ring. Are you purposely misunderstanding?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 10:43 PM
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There isn't. Lmao. Not a single thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 10:39 PM
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Who lives under bridges?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 10:39 PM
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There's nothing appealing about someone cold approaching you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 10:35 PM
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You just said you go through the same thing. So complain away.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 10:33 PM
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Or maybe just stop cold approaching women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 10:32 PM
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It definitely seems to increase them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 10:32 PM
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Wow.....idk how you even got there. Reading really is a struggle for some people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 10:31 PM
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So then why do you wish you were in a position to complain?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 10:30 PM
0

Out in the world. Just running errands.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 10:20 PM
3

What? Did you read? How does "cold approaches" mean to you that I'm "noticing other guys more often?" The actual fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 10:17 PM
1

What's a wild ass take?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 10:16 PM
1

And? Why does this bother you so much?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 10:15 PM
1

10
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 10:15 PM
1

Why? Do you want to be in a position to be bitten by mosquitoes? Or spiders? That's what a cold approach feels like, a pest bothering you and you want to squash it quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 10:09 PM
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I get a kick out of people still following and paying attention to people they went to high school with. But I'm old. I guess, if you're 2 or 3 years out of high school it makes more sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 10:08 PM
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I've had a ring on my finger for less than a week and have gotten a noticeable increase in cold approaches. Stop with the cold approaches. Ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 10:02 PM
1

Good luck with your manipulation!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:57 PM
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Nope. It's because some women don't care. Plenty of us who do care wouldn't be swayed by "attractiveness." Because there's nothing sexy about misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:54 PM
1

Dude, the conversation we're having is about your OP. Idk what you're even going off about "uncomfortable topic". No one likes hearing that everyone is a manipulator. It's hard to hear, and even harder to stomach. What the fuck are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:53 PM
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Lmao. Bro. Dude. My guy, what you described in your OP is manipulation. My comments all refer to your OP. Not whatever that nonsense is. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:44 PM
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Im just wondering if you gals really think you can "sense" the "virgin men" and the "sexist men"? Yes, absolutely. I'm very rarely wrong. But i had "friends" who ive even made posts about, who are proud sexists, and women love them. Because those women don't love themselves. In 10 years they'll forget all about your friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:38 PM
1

Don't need to go to YT for that. This silly sentiment was in the sub this week.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:25 PM
2

Comments in this thread believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:15 PM
1

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:49 PM
1

Is this supposed to mean something to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:49 PM
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Yes, anyone, manipulation is manipulation. I'm not sure what else there is to add.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:45 PM
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Yes, what you're describing is manipulation so that you can fuck somebody. Anyone who uses manipulation to get laid is ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:32 PM
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Laying on the floor of my office. Blah. Ready to go home. Guess, I'll distract myself with more whiny men. Seems today's hot topic is that "nice guys" aren't rewarded with truck loads of pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:29 PM
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We who? Cool, I'm glad that's what you've seen. I've seen countless women walk away from this kind of manipulation. Ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:24 PM
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If you find a person you're courting, and you know for a fact that there are other people after them, the fastest and easiest way to make them want to be around you, and crave your presence, is to hit them with the most novel stimuli possible. You want the best music they're into within the genre, but NOT all of the songs they like. Their favorite foods, but slightly different. Their most cherished places, but with something new. You want the most stimulating smells, flavors, sensations, visuals…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:18 PM
1

Dinner and a Halloween themed show.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:15 PM
1

Yes, I'm wondering this to. Who told them this?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:13 PM
4

Agreed. Idk why they complain so much about people being toxic together in toxic relationships. If you want a toxic relationship so bad, go get in one. If you feel "lied to", blame the men who made the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:04 PM
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They have few things to obsess over. And they've half convinced themselves if they just look a certain way that women will fall at their feet. It's really bizarre and cringe the obsession with looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 07:20 PM
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Yes, I care that men insult women they don't know. Do whatever the fuck you want. Date who or whoever or don't date whoever. Do you pal.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:51 PM
1

So any issue that doesn't affect you is a myth? Not at all. But way to run with an assumption. Just that so many RP themes are myths.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:44 PM
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Yes, I'm indifferent to high school kids and 20-somethings who say shit like "304s".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:20 PM
3

My responding doesn't mean I care. Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:17 PM
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They've all had consequences. Like I said, be the abuser of your dreams, have a toxic relationship, and deal with your consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:49 PM
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No, it just means don't compare us to cars or locks or keys or some dumb inanimate objects. It means don't view women as only a means to a sexual end. But, I think y'all know that and it still upsets some of y'all because you feel entitled to access to women. at least top men have to keep a frame, game, etc. which takes time and effort Yup, it takes time and effort for a woman to keep "frame and game". Ick what a saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:48 PM
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the amount of mental gymnastics some women pull just to refuse to accept the fact that many guys find them plain unnattractive from a romantic pov Fine by me. Let them find me unattractive. Doesn't bother me any.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:46 PM
2

Ted Bundy got the electric chair.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:43 PM
1

No. I'm not open to changing my views and believing myths.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:42 PM
2

Why do y'all think women who have sex are more likely to cheat? And please miss me with shoddy research data. And skip the "pair bonding" nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:48 AM
1

What types of men are more likely to cheat?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:11 AM
1

The ones I know have wives with careers and/or full-time employment.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:09 AM
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Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:08 AM
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Lol where do you live that blue collar men don't have families? They have families, but they aren't supporting them on their salary alone. Their wives work, too. And their kids when they are old enough. (but most often not sole) breadwinner. Exactly my point. I comment referred to the fully supporting their family on ONE income. Funnily enough, for whatever reason, I actually don't know an HVAC guy who has a family I do. He also doesn't support his family on his income alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:07 AM
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Yup, people with trauma will usually date abusers resulting in a pretty toxic relationship. If a toxic relationship is what you desire. Go for it. Just be aware of the consequences of being an abuser.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:54 AM
1

Cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:50 AM
1

just touch the grass and you will see this pattern repeat itself. K.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:21 AM
1

I meant....more like you remember and pay attention to people post high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:15 AM
1

If you think so. Fine by me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:14 AM
1

I've asked multiple times, and no one can seem to answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:04 AM
1

I didn't find it very detailed. Seemed like a lot of fluff. Glad you found it helpful.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:02 AM
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Yup, because we have to filter through all the cold approaches, creepy, liars, cheats, unemployed, etc. Can feel overwhelming to wade through all the pests to find a good man. As OP said, they don't bring much to the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:01 AM
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You said you still go through this to this day. As in today. So it seemed weird that you're engaged but also dealing with this beta myth.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 01:59 AM
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A blue collar man could support a family, Where? Which countries? If you're American, which states?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 01:36 AM
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the fact that I'm engaged is even aggravating. Umm....so why are you engaged? Doesn't make sense. It's something that many men go through And yet we've never actually see it. Or know it. It's all just smoke and mirrors. Dime store magic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 01:26 AM
1

No. Please tell me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 01:24 AM
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I'm college educated, so I want someone college educated. Odds are that person is more employable, is able to adapt to life's stressor, more likely to have connections and a professional network, and most importantly is fucking educated. It has nothing to do with the actual career choice. More to do with having things and experiences in common.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 01:21 AM
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I'm impressed you know that many. I don't think I know any. Granted, I've been out of high school a long time and talk to maybe 3 people max.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 01:07 AM
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unassertive betas I have no idea what that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 01:05 AM
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It’s hardwired into men to care. Lmao. No. the same men who would let a guy slap your ass and not do anything about it. Lmao. Also no. Fucking hilariously no. It means their territorial/protective instinct is weak. It means they aren't insecure about what happened in the past and are territorial/protective of their present and future.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:58 AM
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The other thing is finding a geniuely fun conversation partner in America is one heck of a hard search Apparently, for some. But most of us are having fun conversations with our partners daily. I hope it made sense though. Not really. Thanks for sharing your thoughts tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:55 AM
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If y'all are gonna insult single moms (and women in general) on a regular basis at least fucking spell correctly. Comments just read ridiculous when you insult someone but can't even spell in the process. It's 2023, your phone comes with spell check. Google is a tap away. FFS.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:35 AM
1

I found it interesting at least, mainly at how closly our lists agreed. On what points?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:25 AM
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What is the solution, in your humble opinion Idk. I guess it depends on if you're attracted to people or cartoon characters. Generally, though, my solutions are socializing and never ever ever ever cold approaches. Bonus points for wearing clean jeans and a clean, crisp white tee.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:23 AM
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Of how the women you attempted to date don't bring anything to the table. Maybe your vetting process is lacking if you're only finding unemployed women with dirty homes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:21 AM
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I fail to see what's interesting. Lmao. Problems usually just move with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:20 AM
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Do you have an example?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:18 AM
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Here here!!! It seems the ones who complain about struggles are the ones who don't bring anything to a relationship or even to a sexual encounter. All they bring is entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:03 AM
1

Is it a privilege to be called a "bitch"? It does seem a little oppressive to insult someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 10:19 PM
1

In the sub in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 10:08 PM
1

What's with the amount of dudes larping as women here?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 10:03 PM
1

So, you found him attractive enough to sleep with him or start a relationship with him No.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 10:00 PM
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Neither. Both sound dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 09:27 PM
1

some level you have to find your partner attractive enough to have sex with them Sure but it's not limited to just the way he looks. He looks like a regular schmegular man. It's his personality, his character that makes him the hottest person. Not, just his looks. Appearance matters so little because it's not the appearance that keeps me wanting to have sex with him. Idk girl, do whatever the fuck you want with your attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 09:03 PM
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It doesn't really "start" anywhere. The fuck. Personality is seen through appearance. Men approach woman they find attractive. Cool for them. Annoying for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 08:44 PM
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Lmao. What? Are you saying it is karma to have a pay gap and to pay bills alone? All women dating and in relationships today are reincarnations of women from the past, who were dependent on men to now not be able to save because they are no longer dependent on men?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 08:15 PM
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I'm not seeing the karma in this example.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 07:59 PM
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How do you read those articles and come to these unhinged cringey conclusions? but basically it is just Karmic justice Lmao. What?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 07:31 PM
1

Neat.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 07:26 PM
1

Okay, cool. I never suggested that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 07:22 PM
1

Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 07:19 PM
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If he made me laugh, could support himself, folds laundry, cooks, and cleans, and knows where the clit was. Absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 07:16 PM
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It's almost like we do stuff for our own enjoyment and not men's. Heaven forbid we wear makeup for our own pleasures. We must be doing it for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 06:44 PM
1

I have not seen them on my explore page.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 06:41 PM
1

Weird, never seen them on my explore page. Must be your algorithm.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 06:39 PM
1

No idea what they post on IG. I don't follow sex workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 06:35 PM
1

Lol. What? Why would my partner watch a sex worker on a podcast? That doesn't make any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 06:29 PM
1

Scared of what?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 06:27 PM
1

How much of what you read here do you think is real?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 06:26 PM
1

Still icky.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 06:26 PM
1

Lmao. Insulting is never valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 06:03 PM
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Considering, I've had more relationships than those pretending to be experts. Yes... I'm gonna consider myself an expert.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 05:59 PM
1

Do whatever you want. Doesn't bother me any.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 05:52 PM
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No, sex work isn't ick. People who follow sex workers WHILE IN RELATIONSHIPS is ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 05:51 PM
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Nope. My logic is that it's creepy to follow sex workers WHILE IN A RELATIONSHIP.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 05:49 PM
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Not at all. It's ick and she deserves better.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 05:48 PM
1

And they act like experts. It's wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 05:47 PM
1

Ick. She needs to break up with him. Only creeps follow sex workers on IG and shit. She deserves better.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 05:43 PM
1

Thank goodness for the relationship experts in this sub. Truly. The parasocial relationships that they have created with me is fascinating. Wow. Couldn't do it without them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 05:40 PM
1

Lmao. I'm too old to listen to you. That's for damn sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 05:39 PM
1

Lmao. Okay, pal.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 05:37 PM
1

Every girl is born a whore. Ick. The fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 05:36 PM
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Lmao. It's amazing the parasocial relationships y'all develop. Experts on a relationship that you have zero facts or details on. Kudos.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 05:35 PM
1

Since you can predict the future, why am I leaving him?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 05:31 PM
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Lmao. Yes, anything more than sex with 1 person is "whored out" according to the high school kids on this sub. Thankfully, this sub isn't representative of the average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 05:29 PM
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Yikes, what? It seems like you seem to know something that I'm missing. Yes. I struggle with developing parasocial relationships and thinking you know everything about someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 05:23 PM
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Saying yall because black women frequently do is cringe as fuck from a white person brah Lmao. This is hilarious. Y'all really create parasocial relationships on here. It's fucking wild. It is pretty horrific to rack up a bunch of STDs in like a 10 year timespan tbh Who did that? What are you even talking about? Oh so he does that mega-cuck thing where he trolls reddit with his gf? No, he asked what I was typing, and I shared. It seems like it's only trolling when it's something you disagree wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 05:21 PM
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No. I don't consider what I've done "whored out".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 05:16 PM
1

Yes. People are often single before they are in a relationship. Not understanding your question.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 05:14 PM
1

Lmao. That's precious.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 05:05 PM
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It's really weird when white women do digital black face but I sort of accept it for what it is. What are you even referring to here? You're the one that said you were a skank blowing dudes up and down the ally Lmao. Y'all are so damn gullible. slept around and partied all over town Ooh no. I partied in my 20s. The horror. I had boyfriends in my 20s. The horror. all while talking in a way that makes it seem like your fiance is a joke to you Sorry the PPD sarcasm missed you. Plenty of others got …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 05:04 PM
1

Lol. Whored out? That's the part I'm not getting.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 05:00 PM
1

Your comments don't make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:53 PM
1

Alright kid. Sounds good!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:47 PM
1

Still not sure what you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:46 PM
1

Again, what are you even talking about? It's really weird the stories y'all make up to insult strangers. Why? They dare have a life that either you don't agree with? Or it is jealously that some of y'all are still alone? Seems really weird to insult strangers. Very cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:46 PM
1

Take note for what?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:43 PM
1

I think you took my comment to literally.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:42 PM
1

As I've said, women do want someone who can financially provide for themselves. So ya, having a job matters. Seems weird to be hung up on what women want when you have a gf. Do you boo. Good luck out there!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:40 PM
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Idk what this weird story has to do with me. If you don't know him from your day to day life, and just got to know him on a romantic basis, you might really want to be more cautious. What are you even talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:34 PM
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Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:34 PM
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I'm not following. What exactly are you trying to say here?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:33 PM
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What? I'm not even sure what you're talking about. Are you trying to insult my guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:33 PM
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Well, you've got all the answers. I'm sure you're a shining example of what women want.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:24 PM
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Lmao. Don't need your luck. Go ahead and keep it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:17 PM
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Attraction doesn't start at looks. 1 in 5 women. That's not a very big number. I'd also bet my left ovary that those 1 in 5 women come from either religious communities or higher economic communities where they themselves had a stay at home parent. a good looking man is going to get his foot in waaaay more doors Not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:12 PM
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Oooh, online dating studies. So cringe. Good luck with the 3s and 4s, kid!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:09 PM
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This hoe is becoming a housewife! 💍 I'd like to thank all the blow jobs given in alleyways and parking garages. The one night stands. The fuck buddies. The exes. The liars who broke my heart. The liars who weren't good in bed. Because of all of them and their pumping me with cum, I found love with a Chad Alpha Wolf. Thank you dicks! ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:08 PM
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What's bullshit is thinking that looks is the end all be of attraction. looks threshold More made-up myths. I bet Joe Merrick was a cool guy but I doubt very many women gave him the time of day. Why? Cause looks threshold. No idea who that is. Then they say, "doesn't have to do with salary", which everyone knows is bullshit, since virtually no women date homeless men, vagabonds or video game addicted weirdos. So SOME salary obviously does matter. Well, yes, being employed is a key part of adulth…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:05 PM
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Yes, there are many successful business owners. The fuck. Because the 5s and 6s are taking the 3s and 4s. It's a domino effect. Lol. Sure pal. Once again, this all sounds like made-up drama to feel better about being rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:01 PM
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It takes me far more than 10 seconds. Seems like there's complaints here that having a job, hobbies, friends, and interests beyond sex are too high of standards. My standards for dating are more values based. Are they kind, loyal, have goals, care for their homes and themselves, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:56 PM
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What exactly is sus? That's attractive men have interests and goals?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:54 PM
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Let's be real this makes no fucking sense. And now the guys who are 3s and 4s have almost nothing for themselves. Why not the 3s and 4s of women? sheer improbability of landing a good looking younger doctor or business owner Doctor might be harder but business owner is fairly easy. So now guys in the 5.5-7.5 range have to mess around with girls 5s and under most of the time and they aren't willing to commit because most of those girls are below them in attractiveness. They will get smashed but t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:53 PM
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Idk. My relationship is perfect. Not much compromise or bargaining. Can't think of a time we did either. Everyone has flaws Some are worth putting up with. Some are not. Idk why women leaving unfulfilling relationships bothers y'all so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:47 PM
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Yay proof that women won't stay in shitty, unfulfilling relationships! Hooray for lesbians. I wish all women had the courage to leave their shitty, unfulfilling relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 06:32 AM
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Yup. It's a friend date and she wanted to make clear she was single. Turns out, people still make up their own stories about strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:48 AM
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Nope. Awkwardness and creepy are very different things. As for the buying stuff free meals,random gifts of stuff you said you wanted, will likely be your ride to anywhere etc I do that for friends all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:02 AM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:01 AM
1

Leering = creepy. Creepy has nothing to do with looks and everything to do with vibes/behavior/demeanor.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 12:48 AM
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Leering = creepy. Creepy has nothing to do with looks and everything to do with vibes/behavior/demeanor.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 12:48 AM
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Are you suggesting that half the human population at creepy men? I certainly didn't say anything about half the human population. If that's what you read, it sounds like you believe half the population is creepy men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 11:34 PM
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Creepy men =/= men who buy you things. women have grown accustomed to simps and getting free shit while putting out minimal effort What kind of free shit? These robots would take all that away because then they would be getting laid and wouldn't need to simp and hope anymore I hope they enjoy robot vag. Sounds delightful.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 11:33 PM
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It is when it’s how you make ends meet lmao (read OnlyFans, Instagram, etc.). Then it's not pests, it's paying customers. And people will still pay for flesh over robot. Fleshy content will just cost more. Also you know most of women’s IG followers aren’t incels or low value males, that’s a strawman. Idk what you're referring to here. but most normal men follow IG models. No..Normal men don't follow IG models. Unless you think the majority of males on this planet are incels or “pests”. No. Btw I…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 11:16 PM
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Especially the ones that thrive on social media and irl attention (i.e most women). Attention from pests isn't worthwhile attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:26 PM
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My prediction is that women will try to make them illegal, will fail, and only get regulations on them. Why? Creepy men would finally leave us alone. Why would we get rid of something that would reduce pests?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 09:32 PM
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Rare. And almost always over a mediocre musty man. Generally, though, I haven't experienced or witnessed much competition. The few instances I'm aware of are minimal and usually in high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 07:51 PM
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I don't see the problem. A friend treated another friend to a fun day. Why must this man that y'all don't know be in the friend zone?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 07:35 PM
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actual struggle I've yet to see any real struggles.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 05:49 PM
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One day, I hope that the young kids here will learn that red pill teachings are just myths sold by old creepy men who have nothing to show except old stories of hookups. Such a shame to see such young people giving up because they don't have the same success as some man with a podcast. Kids today, man. They really create their own struggles by letting stats and memes dictate their lives instead of actually living their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 05:28 PM
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It's Mediocre Monday. Perfect day to watch hoa hoa hoa hoa movies.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 05:24 PM
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Men are very attractive. I love men. I'm just not attracted to every single male who comes across my line of vision. It seems weird to expect that someone is going to be attracted to everyone. Men aren't even attracted to everyone. Men like to think they are attracted to everyone but they aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 05:22 PM
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Probably because the reply didn't make any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 04:27 PM
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Don't be a perfectionist date. Nor someone who see everybody's flaws first and deems them very lucky that you are willing to date or settle for them. But stick to your dealbreakers and only ever date someone that you are sexually attracted to & who shares some of your ambitions. Good luck!" Where does this above comment say this? going after someone you exclusively have a sexual attraction towards (and not anything else), The comment above literally didn't say anything about only sexual attracti…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 04:10 PM
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"Nice guys" aren't nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 03:59 PM
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Once again y'all are confusing things. Creepy guys are ones who say inappropriate sexualized comments. Creepy guys are the ones who don't respect no and keep pushing. Creepy guys have a creepy look in their eyes. Socially awkward or shy guys aren't always creepy. Generally, a shy guy or socially awkward guy is cute and worth pursuing. A creepy guy is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 03:57 PM
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Love that movie!!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 05:00 AM
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If you want to let one person keep you from having a relationship, do it. Seems to silly to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 01:37 AM
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Nobody is attacking standards. People are calling out hypocrisy or insecurities or unnecessary insults.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 01:33 AM
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Like I said, I'm not hearing that from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 01:32 AM
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I've dated a quite a few 5'5 men. Good luck! Don't let height keep you down.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 01:28 AM
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describes most women Weird. That's not been my experience as I talk and socialize with women. Seems what's fucking sad is comments insulting women you're not interested in to the world wide web. With the hopes that it's going to reach those women you hate so much, and they are going to be devastated that someone online and who they've never met isn't interested. The pretending to have moral high ground is revolting.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 12:53 AM
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No bad faith. Was just curious of what you thought was different.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 12:11 AM
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How tall are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 12:10 AM
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No, I asked you what the difference is. But this is a fruitless conversation and killing my high. Good luck to you, kid!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:44 PM
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Because you're the one who thinks there's a difference. Wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:38 PM
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Why can't you just share what you think the difference is? JFC. Not me, not Hermonie, YOU!!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:37 PM
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Because you're the one who said there was a difference. For fucks sake.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:25 PM
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So share your standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:09 PM
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You're the one who thinks there's a difference. Are you unable to share what that difference is?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:01 PM
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Sure... 5'11, bearded, balding, athletic but not ripped, who is kind, cooks, fold laundry, gives great foot rubs, and has his own hobbies, interests, friends so he's not dependent on me to complete his life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 10:50 PM
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Lol. You're the one who declared it was different? Alone is alone is alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 10:47 PM
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How are they different?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 10:05 PM
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Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:39 PM
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I'm saying the stats are wrong because people lie, and the sample size is limited.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:38 PM
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Sure, that happens. And people still will watch porn occasionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:37 PM
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No. I don't see how watching porn = a shitty marriage. Do you think that married people don't watch porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:58 PM
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You seem to be confusing sex worker women with non sex worker women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:53 PM
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That's not how anything works, kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:51 PM
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Lmao. What? the germs u get from sex stay in ur body forever What the actual fuck? Who makes up these things?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:45 PM
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No idea. Avg is very broad and will differ depending on location, socioeconomic, college or not college, etc. What's average for your BYU students in Utah is different than your ASU students in Arizona and is different than 20 years, not in college. Seems silly to boil it down to "average" so someone can feel better with their insecurities.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:44 PM
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So caring for children and a household is LAZY? I'm gonna assume people who think this still live at home and have zero experience maintaining a household.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:30 PM
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Lack of accountability is really outstanding. Men can't do anything wrong, the women made the angry and hateful. It's a sick cycle: Man starts getting dating experience -> Constantly gets played following terrible advice from growing up -> Grows pessimistic and loses trust for most women -> Treats them accordingly moving forward -> Women complain the dating pool is sullied with men who don't want to take them seriously -> Women too grow jaded and treat optimistic/good men wrong -> Cycle continue…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:29 PM
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That's cool. Not sure why I should care. approximately 1 in 3 men aged 18 to 24 years reported no sexual activity in the past year So that means women are dating 2 out of 3. Because the third is chronically online and never socializes offline. That lonely 1 in 3, is creating their own obstacles. The other 2 men are out and about socializing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:13 PM
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Long-winded responses read like someone is trying to convince themselves that it's not insecurities. It's funny to me how folks think that they are better, "we don't want someone like you." So why do you talk about us all the fucking time? Writing entire essays about us? Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:07 PM
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I don't know if I believe that. People lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:03 PM
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Why would anyone "date down"?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:02 PM
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I have no idea what you're trying to communicate here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 04:23 AM
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The second one has millions of dollars in inheritance, the other doesn't. It's not a coincidence. Dude..... one INHERENTED MONEY. Shoddy conclusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 03:41 AM
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What the fuck are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 03:35 AM
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I will admit that dating has changed in the last 20 years. The internet has connected more people on the fringes of things. Which great, I'm all for representation. But... instead of it being a place of comfort and encouragement. It becomes a competition of who has it worse, or why life is so bad, and not bothering to try, or just very childlike behaviors pouting and breaking toys. It becomes these giant rage pits that suck the life force out. It's fascinating from some perspectives. Terrifying …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 02:11 AM
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Wild to see the stars of Halloween Town getting married some 25 years later. Be still my millennial heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 11:27 PM
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That and the promiscuous ones don't choose them either. They assume that they'll be able to have sex with a promiscuous woman because she's "easy". But being "easy" doesn't mean you're still not picky or choosy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 11:24 PM
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423
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 10:44 PM
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Brads are the worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 09:46 PM
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Chad, Chad, Chad, Tyler, Chad, Chad, Mike, Chad, Chad, Todd, Chad, Chad, Tony, Chad, Chad Chad, Jason, Michael, Freddie
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 09:03 PM
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Lol. There's lots to choose from.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 08:50 PM
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I thought they were referring to women giving compliments to strangers. Hmm...odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 08:19 PM
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I stopped counting after high school. Nobody has cared since. So, I tend to assume those who care the most are still in high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 08:17 PM
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For example a 20 year old woman with 10+ sexual partners is pretty wild How so? In my mind, that's 4ish years of being sexually active. And at that ages, more likely to be lied to by 3 or more of the men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 08:15 PM
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The best.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 07:52 PM
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Y'all are gullible af.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 07:51 PM
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You and your friends don't compliment each other?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 07:50 PM
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Neat. Bots be botting. Algorithms be rhythming. I really don't understand the point here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 05:57 PM
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How do you know you haven't met them if you don't know who or what they are? Idk. Just seemed like an odd comment. To say you don't know X but you don't even know what X is to know if you know X or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 05:54 PM
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What are those type of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 05:32 PM
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Lots of people date to get married. So yes....it is relevant to people who are "just dating".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 05:21 PM
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So why do poor people date poor people?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 05:20 PM
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I'm shocked that y'all are shocked at thus information. We've been saying in this sub that rejection has a lot of factors at play. It's not just about looks. But some of y'all don't want to listen.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 04:45 PM
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Same here. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 04:44 PM
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The irony of calling dating a Market and then being upset that women have so many options to pick from. They'll return things they ended up not liking. And will leave the store if they can't find anything they like. An average grocery store has anywhere from 15,000 - 60,000 products..... It's so silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 04:42 PM
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They're here! 👻 Maybe this time, I'll find out the so-called consequences for having sex. In the meantime, I'll keep getting plowed by my Chad boyfriend. 💦🍆
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 04:37 PM
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Or is it that there are some single people just not willing to hear advice that requires them to take self accountability? Married people don't give bad advice. They give advice from a married perspective. If you don't want a relationship of course you're not going to like their advice. If you want advice on how to have sex with as many women as possible.... well, that's gross, but there's concasts (podcasts by con artists) who have a bridge to sell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 04:25 PM
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Oh, we know. And we don't see a reason to stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 06:11 AM
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80% . 90% if this sub is a representation of men
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 04:26 AM
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It's Friday night and this slut is gonna get fucked!!! 😝🤤💦 So excited for some sexy sex sex sex. All that promiscuity is paying off. 🍆🌽
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 11:59 PM
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Cold approaches are creepy. "I just wanted to tell you that you're cute and beautiful." Unsure of what he might do, I thanked him. Before I could turn around again, he asked, "I was wondering if you would go out with me sometime?" Doing this is fucking creepy when someone is just standing randomly outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 10:23 PM
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I love how women are like, "taller than me", "healthy", "can financially support themselves"..... And some men are like, "oh ya, well, I want a cartoon character so there! I'll just stay single." Like a cartoon is far more delusional than someone being employed and healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 10:20 PM
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Yes. And women they aren't attracted to or even like.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 05:17 PM
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Nope. Not doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 04:22 PM
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I don't get "super chill vibes" from a coffee. I get low effort vibes because they are trying to be cheap because quantity over quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 03:45 PM
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Nope. I don't do those either. Not on first dates at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 03:08 PM
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What are water dates? I prefer activity dates or non chain restaurant dates. I'm not 22 and broke, so a coffee date doesn't work for me anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 03:08 PM
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Coffee dates are trash. I refused coffee dates when I was actively dating. Idk if it's disrespectful exactly. But it definitely isn't for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 02:57 PM
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Empathy is a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 04:15 AM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 04:04 AM
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I don't feel bad or empathize with men who are lonely because they never social, lack group hobbies, have zero friends they see in person regularly, refuse therapy or other forms of self development, and just sulk around online hoping that a magic woman will solve all their problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 04:00 AM
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Like an incredible human who I am looking forward to getting to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 03:40 AM
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I see poor people all the time. I don't think +100k in this sub (or other subs) are men struggling to enter relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 03:05 AM
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Well, a first date is a tryout for a relationship. So yes, I'd like to see how you'd treat me in a relationship. As I'd treat you how I would in a relationship. I'm in my 30s, so my dating expectations have matured as I have.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 02:58 AM
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Y'all will find any reason to hate on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 02:56 AM
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I don't do coffee as a first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 02:27 AM
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You can have drinks at a sit-down restaurant that isn't a chain.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 01:56 AM
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A carnival isn't a chain restaurant for fucks sake. Wanting to not go to a chain restaurant is princess treatment? Damn, it seems like everything beyond the bare minimum is princess treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 01:48 AM
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I hope one day that people will learn to not take the internet so seriously. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 01:47 AM
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Okay. Like I said, her bad. Sir down restaurants are okay. Chains are not. Chain restaurants is basically fast food. It has it's place. I'm ordering Cheesecake Factory for dinner because yum. But this isn't high school prom or a 10th date in with a scary movie. I don't consider that princess treatment. I just call it adults dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 01:19 AM
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I already told you the link wasn't working for me. So no, I didn't watch. Okay, so she did communicate that she would be late. And he didn't adjust the reservation. Still a bad lemon. A dud. Return to sender. I really don't care to go back and forth over the Cheesecake Factory.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 12:46 AM
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Sure, I care about discussing dating and gender dynamics. I don't see many men struggling to enter relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 12:44 AM
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What actions are you referring to?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 12:27 AM
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Who is begging? Is it a first date? Wtf. He's a bad lemon because he pouted like a toddler. Failed to communicate like a toddler. And shut down like a toddler. If he didn't communicate that there was a reservation, that's his bad. If she didn't communicate that she was running late because of work, that's her bad. If that's how men act, no wonder some of y'all struggle. Who wants to date a toddler who can't communicate.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 12:20 AM
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I honestly don't care about men's success in dating. It's not a concern or anything I really give any thoughts to. Do you think they’re going to tell exactly how to find emerald? We tell y'all all the time but you don't want to hear it. Y'all will insist you know how to mine the emerald. But you're never even in the right spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 12:05 AM
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Seems men here talk about it far more than I've ever heard a woman say.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 12:01 AM
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surely male feminists that try to gaslight you in to being a whore, and having sex with them. Wait, what? Since i am a Man, and i trust my own eyes, i know what kinda game those „male friends“ are playing What game is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 11:58 PM
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It's neither competition or insecurities. It's gross and immature and a bit unhinged. If a guy follows 100s of "insta baddies and OF girls" I'm going to assume he's dumb and easily conned.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 11:57 PM
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Who demands 6'4 millionaires with six packs?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 11:53 PM
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There is not a single heterosexual male on the planet that wouldnt fuck his 8/10 Friend if the Opportunity arrises. I personally know of <10. So.... It's okay if you can't do it. But not every man thinks like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 11:52 PM
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I'd refuse to get out for Cheesecake Factory, too. What is this high school prom? Did he not communicate that there was a reservation? She blamed it on her job What is she supposed to do? Ignore her job? For a first date? I don't think this made the point that standards are too high. Sounds like this guy didn't move the reservation or find other options. So good for her for missing out on such a bad lemon.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 11:38 PM
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That doesn't really seem like high standards, though. Sounds like women want someone who is equally educated or equally compensated.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 11:34 PM
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Women's standards for men's looks are extremely high, In what way?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 11:32 PM
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Ooh goodie a Tiktok. That link isn't work for me. Could you elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 10:41 PM
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So what is high about women's standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 10:39 PM
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Lmao. What? Provided for how?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 10:38 PM
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I'm going to start my Tinder convos with "show me how big your bed frame is daddy" Please do!!! 🛌
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 10:37 PM
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That's super cool for you. Neato.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 10:37 PM
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I'm still trying to understand what is so high about women's standards in dating. Is being employed, having a bed frame, and having friends that big of an ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 10:17 PM
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Nah, it's a swamp with no drinkable water. You don't need to drink Dasani, but your "struggle" isn't a struggle. Sure it is. It's a struggle if the store doesn't have what I need or want. Why would I settled with mediocre water that I don't even like?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 09:24 PM
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I'm glad marriage rates are falling worldwide. My comment specifically refers to the topics in the sub about all the men screeching they don't want to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 09:20 PM
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Lol. It's in my first comment. I already answered it. Seems like some people failed to read it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 09:18 PM
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Even just looking around for examples of the common topics here makes me feel like I've lost my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 09:18 PM
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ex that I used to cheat on occasionally Ick. No women have made any strong attempts at getting to know me or reconnect with me since then. Therefore, I have no idea where I stand. Although I'd prefer not to act on it, my ego would like to know if women are interested in me or not Why get married or be in a relationship if you're looking to others to feel attractive? Do other married men suffer from this problem? Maybe the shoddy, icky, cheating ones who end up divorced in <10 years of marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 09:14 PM
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Like I've said three times.....NO. Seems like a pretty simple yes no question No.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 09:11 PM
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It comes off unhinged and made up in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 09:01 PM
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That hasn't been the case for me. But my circles range from 20 years younger than me to 30 years older than me. People my age are a mix of married, single, divorced, widowed, unmarried, but in relationships, separated, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 09:01 PM
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who've been around the block. What an odd saying. We're all pretty tame, dating or married high school/ college partners, only been with 1-2 people. Sounds boring. Not tame. Just boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:50 PM
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Yes exactly!!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:49 PM
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Asking about men who say shit like "slutty women". Which again, I'm not gonna respect that dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:49 PM
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For men not wanting to get married, I certainly get a lot of wedding invites. Already preparing for the onslaught of holiday Engagements too. I'm constantly looking offline for the discussions I had here. I seem to never be able to replicate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:39 PM
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Oh I was asking from your life......
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:37 PM
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Yes. Cold approaches are annoying and can be dangerous. A cold approach in a parking garage is sketch. A cold approach in Walmart isn't sketch but is very annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:14 PM
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Well, you're the one who included examples of clothing and socializing as a hoe phase.....
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:13 PM
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How is that a slut phase? What the actual fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:12 PM
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Can you share an example?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:10 PM
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Women who never intend to marry are permanent hoes. Lmao. What the actual fuck? Y'all are ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:10 PM
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So a hoe phase isn't limited to just sex. It's also clothing and socializing?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:07 PM
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Lol. This is the best answer so far. Everyone else is using their very specific definitions that don't really make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:05 PM
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I've never heard that before.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:05 PM
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What about sexual exploration in a relationship? Is that a slut phase too?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:04 PM
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Women. Decision fatigue, threats of violence, lonely and angry men who blame women, cold approaches, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:03 PM
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I don't think I've seen any encouraging of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 07:57 PM
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How do you mean? I still don't understand "slut phase".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 07:57 PM
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Huh. I'm guessing you've witnessed women in your life doing this?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 07:56 PM
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His comment was full of insults.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 07:56 PM
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Very specific definition. I wonder how many real-life people actually fit that definition. I can't say I've ever seen that, and I've had sex with a lot of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 07:55 PM
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a chick starts actively sleeping around As opposed to passively sleeping around? purposeful departure from their normal behavior and is temporary... Meaning Normal behavior is passively sleeping around? Or something else?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 07:49 PM
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But I thought men didn't want to get married anymore? And what about women who don't want to marry? Are they always in a hoe phase despite being in relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 07:47 PM
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No. Because I don't respect someone who insults someone else simply because they do life differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 07:42 PM
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What the heck is a "hoe phase"? Seems like some men here have a really interesting definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 07:41 PM
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Ick. Such trash behavior for them to gloat about.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 03:07 PM
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my dislike for legions of smug, lazy, worthless Gen Z kids getting bailed out of the consequences of their shitty decisions? What decisions are those? And Gen Z. I guess I hadn't realized that Gen Z had even finished college. I thought they were still younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 02:50 PM
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Yes. They are also the same guys who demand sex on their terms, but don't know where the clit is.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 04:33 AM
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That's not what asexual means......
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 04:17 AM
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she’s a perfect metaphor for your modern woman who after being part of a harem rotation for 10 years wants to settle down and find a nice guy and start a family or something. Lol what? How is a porn star a metaphor for men lying to multiple women to have sex? What’s incredible is the outpouring of support and “you go girl” type shit she’s receiving. Why shouldn't she receive support?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 04:08 AM
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Idk what you're trying to refer to here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 03:57 AM
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Why show up early? Doesn't seem worth it. Even if she succeeds, it says a lot about her. What does it say?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 03:56 AM
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Weird. I wore these jeans when I was your age. Creepy to see trends come back again. 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 11:45 PM
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"gets her in the end" as she's about to hit the wall. So a woman is just useless after 30? Lol. Life just ends at 30 according to the sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 11:40 PM
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Nope. Not new. I'm always questioning, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 11:39 PM
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What the heck is a "looks threshold"?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 11:13 PM
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I'm aware of that things trend. I don't think that all kinks work like that, though, going with the trends. Toe sucking might be a trending kink, but it doesn't mean it is a kink. Ya know.....
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 10:48 PM
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He's living in the past. Are kinks trendy? Hmm. I had no idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 10:42 PM
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is a terrible argument. Not surprised some people here would think that. Fine by me
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 10:16 PM
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Seems like the dumbest thing I've ever heard.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 10:03 PM
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No shit. I respect my boyfriend and fuck him often. My point remains, that not all men want to fuck the female friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 10:03 PM
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Lol. Stay icked. I'm 30s, still hot, and "a dating priority".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 10:01 PM
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K.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 09:59 PM
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And I think they would be revolted at the thought. Not because I'm ugly but because they see me as a human, a friend, not someone they are waiting for the opportunity to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 09:58 PM
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Ew. I think we'd all be revolted. 🤢😵‍💫 Again, lots of men can be friends with women and not be interested in having sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 09:51 PM
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Because I like myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 09:49 PM
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Lemme guess, you do know it, though? Right? Because that's what you would do, so they must as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 09:48 PM
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Yes. I have several straight male friends. And none of them are interested in having sex with me. Seems like the men who struggle to have female friends do so because they don't see women are people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 09:45 PM
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Seems weird to date or to fuck with the sole purpose of trying to impress other men. So many of the conversations here are based on what others think or how others will view things. No wonder people struggle, they are consumed with trying to appease stranger's opinions than focus on themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 09:42 PM
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There's been plenty of people I wanted to be liked by who didn't like me. Still didn't make me not likable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 09:36 PM
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then you aren’t likeable to every person you interact with. No shit. That would be exhausting to be likeable to every person you interact with.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 09:24 PM
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they want to enjoy, love, like, and admire you Sure and they can and be apart of my life. Or they can't or won't or don't and aren't a part of my life. If you’re okay with that, rock on loving yourself alone. But others like human interaction. Don't need to be alone. It's just not dependent on other opinions. why do you guys reject being likable to someone you like? Isn’t that just called a mutual bond??? I'm not rejecting being likeable to someone I like. I'm rejecting that someone else needs t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 09:15 PM
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they can’t deny my experience either. They will certainly try their damnest.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 09:05 PM
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Finding? You posted in the daily chat. No finding required.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:50 PM
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Lol. Okay, pal. That wasn't the only thing you said, hence why I asked to clarify. Keep the silly insults coming. Might get blackout on my bingo card.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:25 PM
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Well, that's not what you said the first time.....
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:21 PM
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Go BINGO on my PPD insult card. First of the day. The insults are so predictable and always so wrong. Makes it hilarious. Always something about weight, something about education, something about age, etc, so damn predictable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:20 PM
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You added grad school..... Insults aren't your strong suit, I see. In my 30s, look finally after many fails, you got something right. What am I bitter about? That some guy I'm not interested in is married? So bitter. The bitterest.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:17 PM
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So your perspective is that successful dating is never struggling to find partners before 23....and getting married? Glad that definition of "successful dating" works for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:11 PM
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demonstrated that for everyone to see. Okay. No fucks given. I guess I was not wrong about the not graduating high school You're wrong. Lemme guess cosmetology school? Still wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:09 PM
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Nope. I've got plenty of clues and still disagree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:06 PM
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Address what? That we disagree? There's really nothing to address. I mean, the sky isn't blue at the moment. So....
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:01 PM
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How do you define "successful dating"?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:00 PM
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Good luck to you, kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 07:55 PM
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Huh....if it was a bloody butch apron, I'd just wear that. No zombie makeup is needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 07:50 PM
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Have you worked with any research in your entire life? Have you? What are your credentials? I can't imagine missing the point this much. This is kind of hilarious. I know the feeling. 🙄 It's always fun to see the experts that pop up in this sub. It's also adorable to read your condescension as if you're actually making any points. Precious.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 07:50 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 07:42 PM
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Ignorance to what exactly? Peer reviewed research? Who is obese? Who didn't graduate high school? Why do you try and insult someone because they disagree with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 07:42 PM
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I don't need data to call some research methodology shoddy. It's called peer reviews. To say that we have zero choices will laugh you out of the building.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 07:35 PM
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We aren't consciously choosing our spouses Yes, we absolutely are. vast majority of factors that go into physical attraction and love are subconscious. No. We then derive narratives based on our biology. Lol. What? We see this all the time with things like the Halo Effect and other research topics in love and attraction Shoddy research methodology prevails logical and critical thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 07:29 PM
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No, it's not..... I'm physically attracted to Sophia Bush, I'm not romantically in love with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 07:19 PM
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People who have never had sex and are obsessed with it talk about choosing spouses based on physical attractiveness. People who are looking for real, adult, and mature relationships are choosing their spouses on a multitude of things, including both attractiveness and love and values and lifestyle and partner expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 07:16 PM
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Defensive? I'm not even offended by the comments here. I do find it silly that some men seem to think they know everything about promiscuous women. Especially literal teenagers and virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 07:12 PM
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Found an old work costume to wear to a Halloween party. Gonna add some makeup and call myself a zombie.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 07:06 PM
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Meh. I don't really care if someone things I'm enjoyable, lovable, likeable, attractive, admirable or confident. I think I'm those things and what matters is my opinion of myself. The opinions of the peanut gallery don't matter. The opinions of toxic people don't matter. The opinions of others generally don't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 06:48 PM
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Nope. Which seems like their goal, honestly. To just keep kicking the complaining can down the road.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 06:46 PM
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I'm not sure what you're talking about here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 06:45 PM
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think a man on the road would like her for more than just sex is crazy It's not really crazy. Plenty of men travel and are loyal, in committed relationships. Men here are obsessed with sex. I don't think it's a representative of all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 06:44 PM
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then complaining that their “relationship” isn’t working because he “travels too much”. Also, a valid complaint. You’re just a groupie for a hot musician. Own it. Or a woman interested in a relationship with a man and conflicting responsibilities make things challenging.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 05:10 PM
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Promiscuity isn't a lifestyle choice. JFC. The fuck do you think promiscuity is? I've been in long-term relationships. And then some casual sex. And then a long-term relationship. And then some casual sex. And then some celibacy. Some casual sex. Some relationships. Some celibacy. Some relationships. Some celibacy. Some casual sex. Some relationships. Y'all seem to think that promiscuity doesn't mean relationships, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 04:02 PM
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None of what you described sounds rational. that they don't find him as attractive as they found their ex-boyfriends Who started this bizarre rumor? It's so fucking dumb. Why would you marry someone you're not attracted to in 2023? Maybe in 1963 or even 1983, but in today's world? Most men want above all to have a good sex life and be genuinely loved and desired. So don't get married and have kids. Stay a bachelor getting laid all the time. Marriage and kids is a lot more than "good sex life". m…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 03:55 PM
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Nope. I refuse to do it to 50/50.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 03:49 PM
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RP....it's more mythical than it is reality. It also keeps folks from taking accountability and instead pushing blame elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 03:47 PM
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Umm.... being promiscuous doesn't mean you don't have long-term relationships. Lifestyle choice? The fuck. Is sex a lifestyle choice?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 03:43 PM
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it is always women complaining about a guy who clearly has casual sex with several women but has no desire get exclusive with them. Valid compliant. Women want relationships, not casual sex or being used for their vagina. Women don't want fuckbois. They want loyal boyfriends and long-term partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 03:41 PM
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Lol. Sure, pal.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 03:13 PM
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First #superslut
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 05:00 AM
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Travis Kelcie
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 04:30 AM
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Partners always get vetos. But I tend to pick partners where we have enough overlap for interest so there's not really a lot of vetos.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 04:29 AM
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Please explain the purpose of shoes then.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 02:51 AM
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The proof is in the daily chat.....
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 01:42 AM
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Sometimes words strung together make me laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 01:40 AM
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It's a con. A grift. A scheme.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 01:36 AM
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The daily chat.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 01:34 AM
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Nobody TOOK my virginity. The first time I had sex was at 18.....months before high school graduation. And I'm pretty sure that dude was like 5'4. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 01:33 AM
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That guy can easily get dates. I've dated multiple of those guys in my 20s. I'm with an older version of that guy now.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 01:25 AM
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I immediately showered once I got home. I did giggle thinking about the time my bed was on cinder blocks to get off the floor. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 01:23 AM
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This is where nuance is key. "Aggressive douchbro who parties" isn't the same musty as "aggressive king baby who is chronically online'" musty. Drunken hookups aren't the flex some here seem to think it is. The one thing I'll agree with is that dating has changed. But everything has changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 01:22 AM
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So what's avg?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 01:12 AM
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No. Women's average is men's above average. Men's average is below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 01:01 AM
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No. Seems like some men are obsessed with it, not because they want a partner, but because THEY WANT TO BE tall. Napoleon vibes. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 01:01 AM
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Lol. No average dudes aren't struggling. Below average dudes are struggling.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 12:58 AM
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Not at all. We just disagree. I don't read "gross" and think "that's bad". I read "gross" and think "opportunity for improvement"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 12:50 AM
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Love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 12:49 AM
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I figured out why so many struggle to get dates.... They are musty, dirty, smelly mattress on the floor men who are aggressive and angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 12:41 AM
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Gross means gross, dirty, unclean, disgusting, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 12:39 AM
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Usually something about research methodology.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 12:38 AM
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A shoe is literally for the outside. If you're wearing shoes....you're living life outside your house. What's wrong with sweats and an XXL t-shirt?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 12:34 AM
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I didn't realize that I created dirt and spiders and dust mites, etc. It's weird to be capping so hard for a mattress on the floor. Bum behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 12:28 AM
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So... you can't point out where I said it was bad, can you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 12:27 AM
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Where did I say that the other was bad? I said it was gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 12:26 AM
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Why is mattress on the floor a problem? It's gross. The fuck. Their expensive $50? So why do you shit on them instead of just accepting you value different things? Nobody should accept a mattress on the floor.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 12:21 AM
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What's wrong with mattress on a floor tho? It's gross and unsanitary.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 12:19 AM
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Living in a dirty home on a mattress on the floor is bad living..... Other than that, I'm not really sure what specifically you're referring to.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 12:19 AM
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Okay...so 1 extreme example. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 12:15 AM
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Empathy towards what exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 12:03 AM
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Men are bashed about not organizing their homes, simple to nonexistent decor, often pretty messy, low effort etc. Women were just bashed for wearing crocs in this sub. Women are bashed for wearing makeup in this sub. Women are bashed for wearing shorts in this sub. why men tend to become resentful is they're being forced and pressure to live their life according to someone else's values By showering and not having the mattress on the floor? I think the narrative has been pushed that women's valu…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 12:00 AM
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How do you do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 11:53 PM
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What unfeminine and lazy about a shoe?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 11:52 PM
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Drunk behavior. These weren't friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 11:42 PM
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Oh, I agree with you in the context of the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 10:13 PM
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Idk....I think it's a question to better understand how to proceed. If there's love, there's no point in trying to salvage a relationship. If it's just raw sex, maybe there's an opportunity to salvage and reconfigure. Maybe not. Would depend on the raw sex circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 10:12 PM
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Kiss people and see who collected the most letters. Unhinged behavior. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 09:29 PM
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We used to place to the ABC Game at clubs..... Klassy moments of my clubrat days. Lamo.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 09:10 PM
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A.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 09:07 PM
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I never suggested it was his fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 09:04 PM
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Don't have kids if you're not prepared to support your wife in the aftermath. Don't expect your wife to provide your sexual needs if her basic needs aren't being met or are being impacted beyond her control.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 08:44 PM
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Idk maybe encourage your wife to get some blood testing or speak with a doctor if she's always tired. Hire help with the kids and the household. Focus on intimacy like hugs and kisses. most men have been neutered I'm not understanding this comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 08:28 PM
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Huh....thanks for sharing your thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 08:20 PM
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Do you have an example? I'm not really understanding
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 07:57 PM
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What society hates boys and men?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 07:32 PM
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Don't get upset when you get rejected or told to fuck off by cold approaches.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 06:50 PM
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What facts? These are just insults.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 06:45 PM
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Yes, aging gives you perspective, allowing for more maturity. Being a parent doesn't necessarily mean maturity. Just means parenthood. Many parents are immature af.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 05:50 PM
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Beautiful example of unhinged comments towards women who have sex. Well done!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 03:35 PM
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That's normal. Your body needs extra support to shed uterine lining (or grow a baby).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 02:39 AM
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Depends on if I've had gluten or not. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 02:38 AM
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Yup. It's pretty wild what the female body can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 01:42 AM
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Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 01:36 AM
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It's amazing how much my weight can vary depending on the phase of my cycle. I can swing up to 10 lbs depending on the phase. Wild. I haven't decided if I want to actually lose weight or not. I've just been tracking for data purposes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 01:19 AM
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Great day! Still no consequences for having sex. Idk. A few months ago, in an exclusive relationship. I don't really remember or keep a tally. Y'all seem to think that promiscuous women don't date or have long-term relationships or exclusive relationships. It's weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 07:21 PM
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Men do not have access to quick "become more attractive" hacks women usually have. Men can't wear shorts? Men can wear makeup. Men need months/years of work for some dubious improvements on attractiveness, things like gym, having funds to throw around, build a reputation, etc Not really. A shower, a clean white t shirt, some clean jeans, smelling nice, a smile, and ability to engage in conversation. I can't think anything men can possibly do to bump their attractiveness in an emergency. A shower…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 06:22 PM
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I’ve met them. Wow. Impressive judgment here. Kudos.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 06:18 PM
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Yes. Do those things for yourself, not for the validation and impressing of others.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 06:09 PM
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None of them share values with the people who have lived here forever. How do you know? Because of their jobs? I’m tired of people with tons of money complaining about not having enough. Money isn't going as far as it used to.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 06:08 PM
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What male advantage?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 06:06 PM
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Nope. Self-improvement should be a lifelong journey. It's not something to hyper focus on for a decade to then hit on women 10+ years younger than you. Lame.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:57 PM
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Idk what a 4/10 dude even is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:54 PM
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You are better off studying, grinding out and gym maxxing to become a HVM by you late 20s or 30s This is what I was referring to as being fucking pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:54 PM
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Lmao. Y'all make up the strangest scenarios.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:35 PM
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Yes, I've vaguely used "maxing" because it's a dumb word prompting dumb concepts. learn to talk to women while gaining muscles and better looks. Barf. Pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:34 PM
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Absolutely but spending your 20s doing it without socializing so your 30s will be a success is a NET NEGATIVE.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:32 PM
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Lmao. I'm not making fun of self-improvement. I am laughing at being a recluse for your 20s to focus on self improvements like y'all will be Oliver Queen at 30s and suddenly the oceans are going to part and you'll be drowning in pussy. That's dumb and pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:31 PM
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Improving yourself physically, mentally, and finacially and just trying to be the best version of yourself is funny Doing it for an entire decade for the goal to be better in your 30s is DUMB AS FUCK. You sound like the pathetic one Lmao..cute try.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:23 PM
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Lol. So the options are either 1 be a bum or 2 neglect socializing for a decade so you can gain muscle? LAME.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:22 PM
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Whatever it is is pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:45 PM
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she wants a year off And then he'll be the SAHD. So it seems like him being a SAHD is still the plan. Not sure how he's a chode.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:44 PM
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I eat out with vegetarians all the time. I've never had to adapt to the other person's needs. Weird, isn't it? Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:43 PM
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Most the RP advice is so fucking pathetic. I'd laugh my ass off at some guy who spent his 20s doing nothing but maxxing this that or the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:32 PM
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One of the most common redpill beliefs is to "ignore women for all your 20s, work on yourself, make money, grind, and once you hit your 30s, you'll have a bunch of hot 20 year olds lining up to date you" This is one of the dumbest concepts. 🙄 Anyone who follows this is going to find themselves angry and alone in their 30s. but it's the exception, not the rule Agreed. It's absolutely not common. And if she found out you were a hermit at her age, she'd probably laugh and walk away. How are you gon…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:24 PM
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You skip the dealer and buy online.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:39 AM
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Idk how you can look at movies, advertising, books, magazines, museums, album covers, concert posters, and so many other beautiful visual arts and not see value in an education. Damn. Must be blissful to be so ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:10 AM
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Lol. The lock and key analogy makes zero sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 02:48 AM
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You buy chocolates, capsules, teas, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 02:39 AM
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It's almost like a 4 year degree is a lot more than lighting angles and editing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 02:32 AM
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And?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 02:25 AM
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Make sure what is clean?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 01:58 AM
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You think that photography is a worthless degree when you see photos daily, literally everywhere? Honest to God, y'all have zero critical thinking skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 01:54 AM
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Microdosing mushrooms is my new favorite thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 01:31 AM
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Are you being serious or....
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 01:22 AM
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Such as? You seemed to have such a strong opinion that I assumed you had a specific degree in mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 12:08 AM
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What are worthless degrees?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 11:50 PM
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Simplest explanation is that you are willing to lie or say anything to “win” here There's nothing to win. Lol. For not liking promiscuous women, this sub sure does talk about them a lot. Wow, you must have a cool life knowing all these rad super sluts Yes, I do have a pretty charmed life. I'm very happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:21 PM
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Idk how someone can be avoided based on your description.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:20 PM
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Friend zone doesn't exist. They create it for themselves after being rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:18 PM
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Nope. Kindness is a great turn-on for most modern women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:05 PM
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The promiscuous women I know aren't easy. And they are all in relationships. found a low value man I thought that 6 ft, 6 figures, etc was considered a "high value" man?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:04 PM
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Why are they all in relationships or married?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:01 PM
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Why though?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:00 PM
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Occasionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:00 PM
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I don't know any woman who is repulsed by kindness.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:47 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:45 PM
1

Cool. I'll stop engaging with you. Cheerio!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:33 PM
1

Lots of men don't find me attractive. For every attraction, there's probably 5+ rejections.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:31 PM
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Because relationships aren't built on the exact same experiences. Seems weird not to date someone because they have different experiences than you. Eta - also don't get into relationships with people who don't have similar values. That's what dating is for, to determine if there's potential for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:30 PM
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I can think of multiple. I don't think I've ever done 50/50 in romantic relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:12 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:10 PM
1

I don't really care to have irrational logic explained to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:09 PM
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Definitely, leave relationships. But maybe don't get into relationships with people you would leave because they had a life before you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:57 PM
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Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:56 PM
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Sure but I was asking why men think it's weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:56 PM
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If I feel insecure about my partners past or something I shouldn't be judged for leaving her. Ya I'm definitely going to judge someone who does this. to care about understanding where our insecurities and fear come from Ooh this I definitely care about. Always curious about someone traumas. Ultimately why can't people have some empathy? I have lots of empathy. I don't usually share it in debate subs, though. I haven't really seen the need.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:51 PM
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Yup, I enjoy having discussions on the internet. I don't think the men here represent most men. And yes, most men here seem to very irrational.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:49 PM
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Who determines who is average or above average?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:47 PM
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There's always that troupe in movies/shows where men will just hit on every single woman until one says yes. Women are far more selective. Which some men complain about it because they don't understand being selective.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:45 PM
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Idk it's all nonsense. So I was just curious why some men here think that women should find most men attractive or desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:40 PM
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I don't think it's weird that women find most men unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:39 PM
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They wouldn't be promiscuous if men avoided them.....
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:34 PM
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Lol. Sure. I'm just dying for attention from musty college kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:33 PM
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What's the fraction y'all shout about? 70/30?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:32 PM
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What that fraction that y'all shout all the time? 70/30?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:32 PM
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What does that mean? The league y'all think these women are in?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:29 PM
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I was inspired by a comment I just saw in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:28 PM
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I see it every day. Complaints about women not paying attention to all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:27 PM
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Every comment that complains that women aren't attracted to every male or see men as invisible.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:25 PM
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Ah, that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:17 PM
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Not every day. But as often as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:14 PM
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Why do men here want women to find every single male desirable?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:13 PM
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Just hang out and vibe, laugh, talk, share experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:12 PM
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He didn't get me anywhere. Not here nor there.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:10 PM
1

I didn't twist, I asked a question to better understand. Because I'm not understanding your point re women don't care about divorce or marriages. so can older men tell younger men about the consequences of marriage Cool. Never said they couldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 05:51 PM
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Are you suggesting that women don't care about their marriages? I don't know women are always saying marriage is just a normal LTR but with some documents and the government involved. Yes....sounds very different. One doesn't involve documents and the government. One involves documents and the government.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 05:39 PM
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I don't think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 05:37 PM
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all this stuff isn't something women have to care much about Women don't care about men marrying men for consistent sex? complain about dating and men Dating and marriage are very different beasts.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 05:21 PM
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Oh I know many successful "alpha" guys who are working class. So I was confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 05:13 PM
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Yup. Still, it doesn't mean I'll agree with you or others. Or that what you think I should be introspective of.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 05:10 PM
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for them Unhappy married men? Is that who you mean? warn other guys about how a marriage could go wrong and the downsides of marriage they have seen or heard about Such as? Sex once a week? The absolute horror. Putting children's care and needs above sex? Seems like a consequence of choices. Seems like the men who complain about their marriage are dealing with the consequences of their actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 05:05 PM
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Most men marry to get consistent sex then they realize their wives don’t want to have sex. What? This doesn't make any sense. Are you talking about Mormons? Because Mormons definitely get married to have sex. But I haven't seen this with most men. Thank you old oofy doofycels for your hard work, now we can avoid becoming like you Wouldn't it be lack of hard work considering they aren't having sex in these marriages, supposedly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 05:02 PM
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Idk who or what you're talking about. I have no idea what an "elite man" is anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 04:57 PM
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I'm not a good girl. And I'm not looking to make others proud. And I strive to have childlike wonder, awe, and curiosity. So keep trying to insult me. I'll just keep breathing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 04:40 PM
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I absolutely take pride in breathing. Taking in big, deep breaths of pride rn.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 04:29 PM
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The contempt some men have for marriage here is really bizarre. They act like they are being dragged by their balls to the altar. Just don't get married. There is no need to insult people who do. Or assume things about married people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 04:27 PM
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Depends on the context. Eh, the women I know who hate men don't have sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 04:21 PM
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Who are they not looking down on? What isn't there to compromise on? Idk. That's why I asked you. Once again, y'all make these sweeping generalizations and authoritative statements but can never provide examples. For a woman it involves opening her legs. Ah, this is a jealously laced comment. Lol. So precious.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 04:15 PM
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Yes, women with vaginas who are desired because we have vaginas. JFC.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 04:11 PM
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Depends on the context.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 04:10 PM
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Your 20 to 40 something juggling a family, finances, work, and everything Those are the folks I see volunteering the most at festivals, arts and cultural events, conferences, board service, etc. Volunteering is very broad, and there's lots of various opportunities. Especially if you're in or near larger cities.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 04:04 PM
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Dont project your defective self on all women just because you were a trashy ass fatherless 304 who gave head since middle school and you were too damn retarded to realize dudes being horny for you didnt mean you were highly valued but instead you were an easy lay. Loads of women already knew better than that since 12 withouth having to be the football club's cum dumpster. Idk why these kinds of comments are necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 03:55 PM
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This is probably another big reason why men avoid them. I've only seen this online. Never in real life. Not a single "promiscuous" woman is avoided by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 03:54 PM
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they are arrogant and narcisstic. Who are they looking down on? What is there too compromise on? tend to be toxic, highly combative and have a need to be on top of the relationship from a power dynamic You mean, she has opinions and isn't going to agree with you just because. They are basically trying to be a player Good for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 03:51 PM
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Not a damn thing. I'm mostly just laugh at the college kids screeching about going 50/50, and how they won't get married, and all the ways they hate women but yet still try and have sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 03:44 PM
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Like I said, it sounds like a bond to keep tabs on someone's life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 03:42 PM
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Yup. Happy indeed. There was plenty of heartbreak, rejection, and loneliness. But I wouldn't change any of it. Depends on the relationship. Some of them I admire. Generally, I prefer my life. It's pretty fantastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 03:39 PM
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described my now-fiancé as “cute in the way a puppy is cute. I wouldn’t fuck a puppy” Lol. Yes, exactly. We all say, "oh he's cute" in like a polite way but not in a we're attracted to them way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 03:35 PM
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Haven't felt the need.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 03:34 PM
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Are you just running around commenting on all my posts? Weird, bro. Have fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 05:49 AM
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It was the language from the OP. JFC.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 05:49 AM
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I'm not trying to agree to disagree. Idk...I don't see a ton of rational thoughts here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 05:48 AM
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Cool. Thanks for that example.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 05:17 AM
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Are you talking about my current relationship? Yes, a rekindled relationship aiming long term. And as I also said, I've had that in the past well. The goal is simple and achieved a few times.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 05:16 AM
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As I just said, I've realized my goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 05:08 AM
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Lol. Okay. Again, y'all are failing to understand the context. I wasn't saying average as in the shoddy way this sub attempts to rate women. I was saying average woman as in average person with a vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 05:06 AM
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Rarely, if ever. I don't think it's ever happened. And they've never been attracted to my guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 04:55 AM
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Do you have an example?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 04:48 AM
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Lol. What? Do y'all not understand context? The post that is from said average women, so I used the same language. I'm a 10. I'm an average woman. Both are true depending on the context.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 04:47 AM
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One choice is nature?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 04:43 AM
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Sounds like a boring environment if there's only one choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 04:31 AM
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I'm not sure I understand your question. Is there another one you're trying to ask or lead me to? Have I put effort into my romantic relationships? Yes. Have I had happy, pleasure filled, adventurous long-term relationships? Yes. Am I currently in a happy, pleasure filled, adventurous relationship? Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 04:30 AM
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How do I argue in bad faith? Not agreeing with y'all doesn't mean it's in bad faith. Just means we have different life experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 04:21 AM
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I wasn't suggesting equal. I'm suggesting that people have the option (aka an environment that suits us) to decide if they want to marry young or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 04:09 AM
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Lol. Sure. Eta - seems like your definition of bond is marriage. Which is a bit odd. But you do you. She seems to have made an impact on you to remember and keep tabs on her relationships. Impressive. Maybe she does bond.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 03:51 AM
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I don't think choice exists in a vacuum. I agree that economics impacts choices. Hence why I think having options is key. So if we fix up the environment I bet more people would marry earlier. Idk maybe. I don't think everyone wants to marry young regardless of economics.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 03:47 AM
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You cannot have two cultures coexisting. Yes, you can. but idea you have hoe phase young and marry when older The idea that you date and experience different people and get married when you're married. No "hoe phase" required. Romantic courtship culture is not romance but idea that how phase isn't needed for romance and romance happens when we are young Great option for those who want to marry young. What about those who don't want to marry young? are different mating strategies That coexist and…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 03:26 AM
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So...do you expect women to go up to strangers and say, "Hey, that dress looks ugly on you?" I mean the probability is low if they don't have a single different opinion on anything. I thought we were talking about compliments.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 03:19 AM
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Strange assumptions to make because someone didn't bond with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 03:07 AM
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Who is lying?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 03:06 AM
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Yup, seems like both can exist. Hook up culture can still have romance and sex. sex is intrinsically romantic. Meh. Idk if sex is always romantic. Sometimes yes. Sometimes no.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 03:06 AM
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Yes and no. My assumption is that this is what girls go for on Tinder during their slutty phase (if they have one?). Is that correct? No. If someone is looking for a slutty hookup they aren't gonna to care about their job or apartment. They just want a safe and satisfying hookup. You can have that unemployed on a mattress on the floor. Lots of women between 18-24 are looking for relationships with men who are employed and can financially provide for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 03:03 AM
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knowing you're so sexually desired It's not us who is sexually desirable. There are men who are desperate for sexual female attention and will pay for access to it. It's never about us average women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 02:37 AM
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I was in a throuple for a few years. I think one or two other threesomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 02:34 AM
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This is just genuine enjoyment of other women in the world. I can see how this is complex to understand for some people. It's zero criticism, zero debate, zero confrontation Why would we do this to strangers?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 02:31 AM
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High n women can't bond. It's hard to describe They didn't bond with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 02:29 AM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 02:28 AM
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Happy, pleasure filled, adventurous, loving, long-term partnership.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 02:27 AM
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Oh...well, most of the ones I know are married now or in long-term relationships. Cheat, learn, forgive, and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 02:10 AM
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Astroglide. 💧
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 01:16 AM
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Why can't we have both? Hookup culture and courtship culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 01:15 AM
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And what place is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 01:14 AM
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Oof.... having to lie to your partner about how you spend for fear of being judged. I'll be watching the movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 12:47 AM
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I'm over 30 and have a sexual history that matches my age. AMA. I've yet to see or experience the so-called consequences. Unless you count some college kids who live at home, screeching that I'm unqualified to date them as a consequence.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 12:30 AM
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Let's break this down.... Bullshit 🙄 the only authority is those women. You and your little friends just sound mad these women had confidence. If this happens, it makes me wonder if she thinks she's dating you. 🤔 if it happens. Same at point 2. His height had nothing to do with it. His slicked back hair and gold chain gave off a vibe she didn't like. This also sounds like the reverse of your first point. Okay...so more bullshit. Thanks for your examples. I do appreciate the effort. I will contin…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 12:25 AM
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Delusional about her own physical attractiveness. According to what authority? Tells me about her sexual adventures (even without me asking) Can you provide an example? Actively compares me to her previous partners In what way? Goes out of her way to make men feel inadequate (not just her partner but all men), I believe this stems from just hating men How? Do you have an example? can't seem to bond Do you have an example? It's almost like they view men as inanimate statues who were born to serve…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 11:46 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 10:49 PM
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Sounds toxic
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 10:44 PM
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No wonder some of these men want "agreeable women", they are dumb as rocks and don't want her to call out his nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 10:31 PM
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What consequences? What negative outcomes?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 09:14 PM
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Lol. So, your assumption is that a woman couldn't possibly enjoy sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 08:41 PM
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these women usually make sure that ignoring it is not a possibility Do you have an example? Y'all always speak so vaguely about what exactly is so terrible. Y'all also never define "high body counts" and knowing y'all it's usually something low like 4. 🙄 So pardon me for not trusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 08:39 PM
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Lol. Sure, Trevor.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 08:07 PM
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Lol. It's always 1 example. Ladies, don't waste your time with Chris, Justin, Tyler, Trevor, Ted, Ryan, and any other generic male name because I dated one once, and it was a train wreck.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 08:04 PM
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If multiple people have sex with one person, then there’s no connection How do you know? The men are using her like an object for their own pleasure. Is it possible that she also is using them for her own pleasure?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 08:03 PM
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Why is a gangbang worse?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:54 PM
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met god Who? Idk who you're talking about or why I'd meet them upon death.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 06:56 PM
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not treating men fairly Can you elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 06:54 PM
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Idk. Pleasure comes in many forms. I build my life around pleasures and make it as enjoyable as possible. Sex is one of those. That said, I'm not living my whole life to have sex. I am living my whole life to experience the pleasures of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 06:21 PM
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Makes what worse?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 06:18 PM
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What exactly warranted this reaction? Him sitting down.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 06:14 PM
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will lead to them idolizing pleasure above all. They already do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 06:11 PM
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That’s kinda boring? You’re proving my point. Yes, it's boring to only have sex to procreate. I really don’t think you’ll be happy if you spend your life trying to sleep with women. Agreed, spending your life trying to get laid is a bit dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:59 PM
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It has nothing to do with their "high value" and everything to do with the trauma of the person dating them. Y'all always ignore emotions and feelings. That shit really impacts dating choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:58 PM
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People only have sex for pleasure in this context I've only ever used sex for pleasure. What are the other reasons to have sex? To procreate? That's kinda boring. Prioritizing men sleeping around with pleasure as the main focus will not make men happy Idk guess it depends.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:55 PM
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Honestly, it seems like some men hate promiscuous and because they've been rejected by one. They can't get her, so instead of just moving on with their life. They form unhealthy revenge fantasies about what will happen to that woman who rejected him. That she'll end up alone because she didn't give him a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:54 PM
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What is hedonistic about sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:51 PM
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Yes, don't approach people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:15 PM
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Sex before marriage is just cheating on the spouse you have yet to marry, CMV. Hahaha. Thank you for the morning laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:12 PM
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Idk what you're even going on about.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:08 PM
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Idk what repercussions you're referring to. I'm not sure how I got in the middle of this little conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:20 AM
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Yup. And?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:19 AM
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Idk..I tend to date men who don't see women are flesh suits they are entitled to use. Easy enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:50 AM
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Did you think my comment to you was serious?....
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:47 AM
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No, we don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 01:07 AM
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I'd definitely immediately end things with a guy who focused to much on the past. Why not create new memories and experiences together? You want club bathroom sex? Let's go to Ibiza.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 01:07 AM
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Nobody says that Many comments in this topic disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:17 AM
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Yes, we can fuck a bunch of guys for fun and it has no repercussions. And yes it is weird to fuck every guy you're attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:05 AM
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All the comments about how "promiscuous" women don't deserve relationships or marriage or can't be great moms or wives or blah blah blah.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 11:32 PM
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Yes yes yes!! There's many attractive men out there who I won't have sex with because their personality is not my vibe. Men who are “successful” with woman don’t actually have the possibility to sleep with any woman they like, they just find those that match their personality and energy and leverage their personal charisma which some people may like other not so much This is the winning concept. Be a nice, fun person, and people will want to have sex with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 11:31 PM
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Seriously. I never think of that guy. Lol. Why are they thinking more about the past vs their present with the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 10:32 PM
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Beautiful display of revenge fantasies.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 09:44 PM
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It's always some obscure thing that was obscure and random even in the moment. It happened. I have a club bathroom story. But what gets ignored is that the club was closed. And we got in trouble for the inventory "overtime". Lmao. Instead of focusing on creating new memories with their hypothetical woman, they are to busy comparing her past.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 09:21 PM
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And yes, I did various sexual acts with them that I now have sworn off, What acts are you referring to here? Let’s break it down in terms how “what women say” vs “what men hear” No, I can't get behind someone adding meaning or subtext that wasn't there because they are jealous or insecure. to men, they can often hear that as another way of saying “That guy was hot enough to get sex with ease, but you are not”? That sounds like a personal problem. Not mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 09:12 PM
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Ummm.... based on how some men here describe themselves, they are ugly antisocial narcissists.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 08:56 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 08:51 PM
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Just because a woman doesn't fit your standards to be a wife Definitely. It's all the other surrounding comments that sound like some men hate women who have sex with others but not them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 08:45 PM
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Idk. Maybe create a different system. Seems silly to build a system that depends on future human capital.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 08:32 PM
2

A social circle has many smaller circles inside of it. A social circle isn't all friends. It's mutuals. It's people from work. It's people from this area of life. People from that area, etc. A social circle is easy to have with hobbies and interests outside of pursuing a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 08:10 PM
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Lol. What? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 08:06 PM
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your characterization of the entire female society Lol. What? I gave a single example. Oh, I love sources. My example came from multiple books on the burning and hunting of "witches" during religious crusades. It's cute, though, that you try and insult me because I disagreed with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 06:49 PM
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Social events, hobbies, work, professional development, etc. Cold approaches have always been trash. There's a reason that cold calling laws exist now. That shit is annoying. How is this a question every single day? Go make friends and hang out with people offline.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 06:44 PM
1

It has everything to do with patriarchy. Patriarchy hurts men, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 06:38 PM
1

But I bet you've probably never bothered researching any historical societies beyond watching "The Crucible" in 5th grade history class, eh? How much are we betting?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 06:37 PM
1

And this is why it sucks for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 06:36 PM
1

Why? Don't they have friends to tell their dating woes to?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 06:16 PM
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They were not forced If your mom and sister are murdered for "practicing witch craft", a woman is going to do what she has to survive, aka "active roles in religious societies". Miss me with this nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 06:11 PM
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The existence of this sub and others suggest otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 06:00 PM
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The former. Most answers are from people who lack the ability to have self-awareness and/or self accountability. Hence why their own virginity is traumatizing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 05:59 PM
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In the vast majority of human history and culture people have cared Doubtful. Religious crusades murdered people if they didn't comply. People didn't care. They were forced to participate to stay alive. BFFR.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 05:55 PM
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It seems to be trauma inducing for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 05:42 PM
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Seems to only suck for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 05:16 PM
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The obsession over virginity is traumatizing young men. Kudos to the patriarchy for coming full circle here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 04:05 PM
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will get you a partner when a woman is 30 and ready to settle down, since u re better from a pragmatic point of view, but dont expect any passion or love from them the same way Chad got it from her when she was 20 This is such a lie that y'all should really stop internalizing and spreading. It doesn't even make sense. Love doesn't have a use limit. Love doesn't run out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 04:03 PM
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Quality over quantity. Women care if you can find their clit. They don't care the number of clits you've found in the past. by increasing his own bodycount to get more aligned with where women are This doesn't make any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 04:59 AM
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It's weird the thought that someone needs to "catch up" or "gain matching experience" with someone else's sexual or dating history. It's really sad to see men self sabotage because of perceived experience and/or plagued by made-up myths and/or hatred towards someone who has what they so deeply desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 04:04 AM
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Mention what? That they've had sex before? And no who would ever admit to cheating? Several friends have admitted to cheating. The married ones are now divorced and/or happily married again.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 04:01 AM
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Do you think those hoes that are now housewives are loyal to their men? Yes. How do you know they've never cheated on their partners? We talk......
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 03:42 AM
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Huh? What's defensive?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 03:41 AM
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Planning and intentionality. Planning breakfasts, lunches, dinners, happy hours, tagging along to work related events, scheduling time away, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 01:01 AM
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Ah yes, you think I'm ignorant because I don't trust poorly constructed research methodology. I've got plenty of mirrors in my home. There are plenty of areas where I'm ignorant. Sex and dating aren't one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 12:53 AM
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Is there a point you're trying to make here with these questions? Just get to your point already.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 12:51 AM
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What's the irony here?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 12:34 AM
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When I was 20, I thought I knew everything about everything. Lol. It's embarrassing to think about the things I once said on internet forums. 😐 Cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 12:34 AM
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Old enough to fondly remember my slutty 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 12:28 AM
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I know a lot of journalism majors. Not a single one thought they were going to be Barbara Walters. Two work at major podcaster platforms as VPs. Several of them have their own podcasts. Idk many who look down on podcasters. Do you know many journalists? Or was an article written by some journalist and you think that all journalists must feel the same way?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 12:27 AM
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Lol. I'm not quite that old. 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 12:19 AM
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I constantly forget how young this sub is. And then someone says some stupid shit and I'm reminded at the vapid ignorance that comes with being 18-24. Occasionally, I'll see someone my age acting foolish and I'm reminded of that weird kid angry asshole kid from Jr high.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 12:09 AM
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What "men's issues" are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 11:02 PM
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Emotions are how they differ. Sex with someone you love is different than sex with a causal fling or fuck buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:58 PM
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Don't cheat. Don't get married if you plan to cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:56 PM
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Yes, to the same extent. Being approached is incredibly anxiety producing. Conversing with strangers is anxiety producing. Second, women also deal with negative comments when expressing emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:51 PM
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Yes, a man who cheats, that is his fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:49 PM
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Lol. Yes, it does. All.the.time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:42 PM
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JFC. 80%-90% chance it’s the woman that’ll start it. Women file paperwork. Not START divorces. Just that they file the paperwork to divorce their husband who is cheating on them. 50/50 chance of divorce Oh, please. 😩 The religious research studies aren't something I'm gonna live my life by. Good luck to you, kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:41 PM
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Jokes on you if you think women don't have anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:37 PM
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What a bummer for you. Masturbating is quite enjoyable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:33 PM
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There's half a dozen different choices that can be made before cheating in a marriage. FFS.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:29 PM
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Sounds like if women don't fit your extremely specific standards, they aren't undeserving of a relationship? Do you believe it is possible that the men dating these women are attracted to them? That they like and love these women? not somebody I’d look at and go “yes I can see why somebody would find them attractive Nobody cares what you think of their relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:10 PM
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Because it's wild to hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 09:56 PM
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Goodluck to bro For what?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 09:55 PM
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Why bro gotta do all the relationships shit and be responsible when the other mfs got to beat guts and be irresponsible Because he wants to be the boyfriend and the only one "to beat guts".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 09:29 PM
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marry someone with similar past Or idk maybe don't get married if you feel the need to cheat. like I said as very few men get to have the same lvl of sexual past as an avg woman.. Very few men get to have sex before marriage? Weird. Never seen this in real life before.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 09:28 PM
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Engaging in what?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 09:19 PM
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Why do I love being in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 09:18 PM
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Those are pretty trashy people to cheat in their marriage and call it "fair". Disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 09:16 PM
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women fk around and then marry. Yes, this makes sense. Cheating and lying during your marriage doesn't make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 08:02 PM
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then post marriage play around on the side.. this is what most men i know are doing at least So most men you know are cheats and liars?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 07:19 PM
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Yes, yes. Always sharing the same data that was collected with the specific goal of shaming women for having sex while single.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 06:16 PM
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It's not a standard. If it was a standard, more of us would see it in our realities.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 05:59 PM
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That's because slut and whore are common insults by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 05:12 PM
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I guess, I'm trying to understand what exactly you're trying to "catch up" in regards to sex and dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 05:11 PM
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Huh. That's not my experience or my fellow hoes. It's always the ones with least experience who stay with men who don't like them very much.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 05:10 PM
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Why do you need to catch up? Is it a race? A competition?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 05:08 PM
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It really is. The perks are fantastic!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 05:04 PM
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to catch up. What exactly are you trying to catch up to?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 05:04 PM
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I'm a "promiscuous" woman who loves being in relationships. It's weird how often y'all say we aren't great for relationships or wife material. All the hoes I know are now housewives. There is a feminist idea that men don't like "sexually free" women Nah, it's more so all the name calling and saying that women who have sex while single are somehow incapable of having a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 05:02 PM
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figure out why she's only interested in men she can't get, and to figure out how to reverse that Idk. Some men I like like me back. Some men I like don't like me back. There is nothing to really reverse or figure out. Some people you like, some people you don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 04:29 PM
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Why do you need to reason with me? Yes, I'm an adult. Gossip is dumb and has zero use to me at this age. Especially gossip about someone's sexual history.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 04:28 PM
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It's very common for a man to be dating multiple women. Why do you think there's FB groups called, "are we dating the same person".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 04:26 PM
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Lol. What an impressive dodge on the self accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 04:01 PM
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Morality of what? What's misleading? Why are you blaming her years later? Where's your accountability for not communicating your needs/wants? why would you denigrate gossip? Lol. Why would anyone take gossip seriously? That's fucking dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:54 PM
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Nope. Not lost at all. "People you can't get", it's a very broad statement that doesn't really make sense in practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:46 PM
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Lmao. Typo. I'm still in bed. Dating multiple women. Obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:45 PM
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someone I thought Well, that's the problem. You thought but didn't communicate and then made a whole post blaming women. 🙄 It says a lot. "Speak, so that I may see thee". Information came out in a multitude of ways. People talk. What people? What ways can information come out? High school gossip? Gossip sounds like a super good source of information.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:45 PM
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Husband sounds like an immature asshat. Husband isn't a nice guy. Did she share her sexual history? I saw repeated comments about sexual trauma. What hypocrisy are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:39 PM
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What boundaries to sex are you talking about from your example? You were having sex with her. What boundary were you expecting?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:34 PM
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Are men going to be forthcoming about dating multiple guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:32 PM
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Yes, they do. Which is what I'm talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:30 PM
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So you have sex with someone that you weren't in a relationship with. And came to a bizarre conclusion about all women? Seems bizarre. Wouldn't it just be easier to have sex with people you're exclusive with? Instead, of assuming that having sex with someone you're not in a relationship with? There is no reconciling the ugly truth, that who women choose to have sex with ... says something about them What does it say? Where would my partner even find out this information?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:29 PM
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I did. I think about it often. I need to re read it. The whole thing being an allegory for communism in America is fascinating. I'm glad they are still teaching it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:20 PM
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Yes, because women have a chance to win. So it does apply to what you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:15 PM
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you're only interested in a few guys who you have no chance of getting. You win some, you lose some.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:11 PM
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How many guys have you rejected though? Idk. I don't really keep track. Do you count the kids from high school? The random man who approached me in Walmart in 2019? The dudes I've shrugged off at the club? We are only seeing half the story What?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 11:04 PM
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Caveat being that you can't leave them and you cannot ask for a rematch Wtf. Ew. Don't want this. Would it solve the current sexlessness epidemic? No. It would increase because people would be trapped in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 10:43 PM
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but usually takes some time. How much time? I am talking about slipping out. I'm not familiar. Do you have an example? if a woman has had casual sex but makes the guy she wants to date I am gonna assume she doesn't find him attractive This is such a bizarre conclusion. I've had casual sex. I've waited until exclusivity for sex. Neither impacted attracted levels.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:48 PM
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Those things are slipped out in conversation sometimes by the person themselves At what point during a first date are these things slipping out? What exactly is said? or the people they know Okay so gossip? finding them attractive enough immediately to be interested in them is. Right...so you can wait to have sex and be immediately interested.....
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:33 PM
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I'm always confused on how y'all know these things. How would Tim know what I did with Jake, Chris, Todd, Chase, and Steve? Am I only allowed to be attracted and aroused if I act on it immediately?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:53 PM
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No self reflection whatsoever. Why do they need to self reflect? toxic dating culture. Is it toxic to not be interested in every man who shows interest in you? Is it toxic to reject people you aren't interested in? Women don’t feel threatened Umm... why should we feel threatened?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:27 PM
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Not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:25 PM
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If I'm physically and mentally exhausted, I'm not sleeping well.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:17 PM
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It's refreshing to hear someone so well versed in my lived experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:09 PM
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I had create a really detailed night time routine to make any changes in my sleep. Giving myself 30-90 mins before bed has really helped my sleep. This routine also includes cannabis gummies (little thc and some cbd) and melatonin gummies. This portion isn't necessarily.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:34 PM
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I actually don't have all the time in the day to hear women whine. So obviously, you don't know how this works.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:14 PM
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Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:13 PM
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Super cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:10 PM
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Yes, I know his fans are dudes.......
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:10 PM
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Cringing in jealousy and rage.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:07 PM
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Seems like some men are huge fans. Otherwise, why are they so hemotional about his engagement?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:45 PM
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that said I don't think all the criticism has to come from jealousy What root emotion do you think it comes from?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:44 PM
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Bingo.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:43 PM
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What do you believe is the root emotion?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:41 PM
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It's parasocial beef between Logan Paul fans.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:40 PM
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Neat.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:39 PM
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Neat.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:36 PM
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Idk who Logan Paul is but a handful of men are big mad and jealous he's engaged. Parasocial relationships are creating really interesting dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:33 PM
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You realize a woman can be well-liked, and not sleep with a bunch of guys right Yup. Never suggested I didn't realize that. I don't give a shit if a woman can sleep with other guys, I give a shit if she did Cool. Do you boo. but because I've been disrespected Lol. Okay. Even if I was "jealous", I'd rather get that shit tattooed on my forehead than be with a woman with a high body count. Good thing nobody is forcing you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:28 PM
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I find it challenging to hear men whine. I find it challenging to hear been use multiple hateful verbs to describe women and then say, "I'm so ronely". I find it challenging to hear men whine because they refuse to take accountability. I find it challenging to hear men say that something isn't reality because they haven't personally experienced it or they personally wouldn't do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:27 PM
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Not according to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:06 PM
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Yes, sex differs in casual vs relationships. I kinda doubt someone who has lived a life of novelty and variety can truly be happy and fulfilled in a life long monogamous relationship without even flirting with someone else or regreting now having the freedom to do it again Do you boo. I'm glad I never thought this because I've had some phenomenal monogamous relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:25 PM
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Yes, it's definitely someone who is very social.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:21 PM
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Huh. My experience has been different. It's truly amazing how that works.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:19 PM
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I don't know anyone who is 4'6 or 4'3.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:17 PM
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Good for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:32 AM
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No, it really hasn't. Good luck with saving!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:32 AM
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Not just at the 9-5 job. But work related things like conferences or other events. It's just an overall great way to meet more people. Yes, socializing. Classes, hobbies, clubs, etc. Whatever. Just go and explore and enjoy life. Join a hiking group. A jam band. A chess club.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:30 AM
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Nah, because I don't understand surgery for being 5'6. That's taller than me. I've dated many 5'6 dudes. Imagining one of them to want leg lengthening surgery is wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:28 AM
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Oh....I was expecting like 4'6.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:21 AM
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What's your current height?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:17 AM
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Most of the men I've dated I've met through work or social events. I don't use dating apps. I've used them once over a decade ago. They've only gotten worse. High school and college is easy because you're social and around the same people for months and years at a time. Recreate that with hobbies, socializing, travel, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:15 AM
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It's hard to take 10+ year old research seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:06 AM
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continue being delusional Okay. Will do!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 02:30 AM
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What a wild ride. Brother B has a bad reputation in the city by those who know where he lives, especially the closest neighbors, being considered a bum parasitic on his elderly parents, however he doesn't care about that. This is weird. Either way, the sound like the same people. Both sound like eligible bachelor's.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 02:28 AM
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Lol. Oh ya, I am gonna think I'm right. Haven't seen any reason to be wrong about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 02:11 AM
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I'm not even sure what there is to be right about. But you're totally right.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:58 AM
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Anything where you interact with other people offline regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:53 AM
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I don't know how to play chess. So yes, you'd win at chess. I've already said this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:49 AM
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maybe i know something u dont. How to play chess. ♟️ Which kudos. That's awesome. Not sure what playing chess or voting has to do with having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:42 AM
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Alright, cool. Thanks for the heads up!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:27 AM
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It doesn't seem like masculine behavior to be concerned about other men’s marriages. Weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:26 AM
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Including the whole world, a very tiny few are laughing. Glass houses, though. I doubt "alpha" men are worried about some internet celebrities' relationship. Doesn't seem like an "alpha" man would be spending his energy worrying about someone he doesn't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:18 AM
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look at logan paul, the whole world is making fun of him right now A handful of jealous single dudes are making fun of some online personality that only 20 somethings have heard of. other alpha men at large will never fully respect a guy that marries a sl*t Oh no, men on the internet won't respect my husband. The absolute horror.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 12:34 AM
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As I said, I don't make it a habit to monitor research on sexual history. I've only ever discussed it online. You can think you're correct. I'm gonna think I'm correct. Hooray for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 12:10 AM
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You're looking at a comparison of the 1960s and 1980s. Data from 2000s, asked with the specific intention of trying imply marriage satisfaction is tied to sexual history. statistically speaking it will probably have an affect on your marriage, should you choose to marry Cool. So says the 10+ year old data.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 12:02 AM
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Yes, as I said in the first comment you responded to. Age and lived experiences contribute to how this conversation is had. Thank you for repeating what I said several posts ago. if I projected my personal experience on to everyone I'd also be wrong You're doing this. Right now. Suggesting that someone will have "risk" because they didn't do what you did. I don't make a habit of looking for sexual history data. It really doesn't come into my day to day.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:38 PM
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Do you have anything that would support your claim at all or is that just how you feel? Just lived experiences. Most people I know have way more than 7 former partners. Some of the most promiscuous women I know are now moms and wives. Sources, More info First link is old data from 2000s and 2013. Second link is comparing the 60s and 80s So I'm not relying on outdated data that doesn't reflect the last 10-15 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:06 PM
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good for the white picket fence wife and kids thing, 35 is going to be a deal breaker for any guy who has options And yet.... it's not. It's weird that you think a woman isn't capable of being a mom because she's had sex. Or that a woman can't live with someone, be monogamous, have commitment, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 10:19 PM
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This is a horrible thing to say. The ignorance is really just breathtaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 10:05 PM
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Does 35 seem high to you? Idk...it doesn't seem high to me. But I've also had more than 7 boyfriends/long term relationships. Age and real life perception make a huge impact in how people engage in this conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:44 PM
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An abortion is a consequence. Abortions aren't done joyfully. They are a very heartbreaking decision, even if you don't want children.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:43 PM
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Umm....being a parent is the consequence.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:31 PM
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The consequences of unprotected sex is a human life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:27 PM
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To suggest it is the singular focus and choice, is absolutely absurd. Y'all completely ignore that a woman will make choices to do something that has nothing to do with a man's attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 08:03 PM
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Which comes from external validation No, it comes from internal validation. How we look and feel is the validation. I don't care how I make others feel. It inspires interactions, it makes you feel like you're there instead of being an invisible blob that nobody gives a shit about. I was somebody to somebody else in that moment and that feels good. That's how it makes YOU feel. As a woman, I'm literally playing dress up. I get to dress myself in a way that makes me happy. I'm already somebody. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 07:54 PM
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Cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 07:51 PM
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Women don't get dressed up and spend hours in front of the mirror to spend the day at home That's just a typical Sunday.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 07:50 PM
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If that were the case then they'd be just as concerned about how they look in private as they do in public. We are. We look cute at home, too. Again, you're focusing on the what and avoiding acknowledging the why. I've shared the why. You don't believe it. The why is for our personal, individual enjoyment.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:40 PM
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Of course they do, that's why you vet them Right, but they lied during the vetting process. A guy who just wants to bang isn't usually going to hang around for long. Okay. Noted. I don't just start investing emotionally in a woman a week after dating her. Cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:19 PM
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Right, so change it. Men need to change with the times. Build friendships. Check in on each other. Encourage each other. Support each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:59 PM
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If someone is a maybe, it's not withholding sex. Ick. Do you think that some men lie during the vetting process?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:56 PM
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So don't be competitive with your friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:51 PM
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It's not. It's a myth.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:42 PM
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7 dates is a lot of money and yes it can be a long time So you just want sex? Pay a professional for that. Or be up front on date 1 that you're only looking to bang and delete. Uh huh. The sexual experience came after 7 dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:32 PM
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The pleasure is seeing themselves look and feel nice. It literally has nothing to do with attention. I didn't spend time getting ready this morning to be noticed on the bus. I spent time getting ready because I spend large amounts of money on quality products and textiles so that I can play dress up every damn day. Smarmy male attention is like a fruit fly pest. Ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:30 PM
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properly vet men whom they find very attractive How do you suggest a woman do this? some of these dudes are walking red flags Such as?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:23 PM
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7 dates? Is a long time? Lmao. I always wonder how you'd know this graphic in-depth detail. Wasn't into you because she didn't do something you just said was disgusting?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:21 PM
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AFBB isn't real..... Who is being settled for?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:16 PM
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You get positive regard in the form of ingroup bias from this sub This sub has a very negative and horrific bias towards women. Women can have relationships or sex if they desire them. Yes, I have desired them at some point. And it's taken time and effort. That choice is opportunity that not everyone shares. What choice? The choice to have or not have sex? I made a million more choices before that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:00 PM
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It's because all their views come from social media and manosphere. So they assume the same is for women. They also fail to account for female friendships and how we talk, share, and validate experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:53 PM
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Ya, that's kinda the point. Imagine not doing something you love and making you happy because it might attract a pest. Seems like a kinda pathetic life. Pests exist unfortunately. Doesn't mean women should stop doing things they enjoy. Just means that pests shouldn't think the fruit plate is put out for their benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:41 PM
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Based on this sub, there's no positive regard for women from men. Opportunities for relationships if you desire, That desire needs to be reciprocated. Lots of women desire relationships but aren't in them for a variety of reasons. opportunities for sex, almost anytime you desire. Again, a man wanting sex from me doesn't mean I want to have sex with him. None of what you described sounds like a privilege. Sounds exhausting and being desired for simply having a pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:27 PM
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Weird. That a woman would spend time and money on something that brings her zero enjoyment.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:24 PM
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I have no idea what this has to do with women wearing makeup and clothes for their own enjoyment
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:23 PM
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Not a damn thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:56 PM
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If a man has sex, he should be prepared to deal with the consequences of his actions. If a man has sex, he should be prepared to take accountability and responsibility for his actions. If a man can't handle the consequences and take accountability + responsibility for his actions, he shouldn't be having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:55 PM
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and the bitter normies upset that their girlfriend - who made them wait 7 dates - once tried out sucking off the cute guy in the back alley behind the club and decided it wasn't for her. Wtf. Y'all really are unhinged. Shitty men are shitty on their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:52 PM
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What are the horrific dating conditions?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:50 PM
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That is privilege What exactly is the privilege here?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:45 PM
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Men don't even want attention from other men. Yet somehow think a woman does everything in her life for a man's attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:44 PM
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So women can't do anything for themselves without it being for attention? If women get ready and make themselves happy with their appearance, they must be doing it for male attention, right? They couldn't possibly want to dress nice, do their hair, put on makeup for their own pleasure in looking nice. Women must do all of that for some male attention?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:42 PM
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you are insecure about n count that you resort to denying reality? Nope. Having sex hasn't stopped me from bonding in relationships. Having sex hasn't made me a cheater. But you do you. I've had no problems doing me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:37 PM
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It doesn't mean they like her. No shit. We know this. Everyone knows this. You equate a high value man being desperate enough to stoop down and fuck you to you being on his level. Okay, cool. You solved dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:34 PM
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Not really. I guess it seems high if you can't imagine even meeting 35 people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:32 PM
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No, it's not a competition if I know I win. Do you. Be a winner!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:39 AM
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I don't view it as WINNING. Idk. I guess if I'm bidding on auction, it's for something I know I'll win, or I'm just driving up the cost for the charity. Idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 02:49 AM
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Yes, if you factor years of experience and hours worked per week. And yes, if you account for willingness to change jobs seeking a higher salary.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 02:30 AM
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Meh, I don't go into dating or an auction to win something.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 12:29 AM
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Right, that sounds like playing a game or a sport. Not dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 12:23 AM
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Would you feel like you defeated all the ex-wives? I didn't realize that I was competing with ex wives. They are ex wives, why am I wasting energy thinking about them? Weddings are expensive af. The avg wedding is like $30k. If he's been married that many times, I'll take the low key wedding and skip the honeymoon. You didn't have a honeymoon, but your ex-wives had trips to Dubai, Disney, Fernando de Noronha and other incredible places; That's fine. We can travel to all those places and more dur…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 12:14 AM
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I would call that a competition. We're competing to win the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 11:57 PM
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Yes, Patrick Patriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 11:00 PM
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Of course not, I never suggested there was. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 10:58 PM
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Playing a card or board game or sport.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 10:57 PM
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Is this a serious statement?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 10:55 PM
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Yup. That's my argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 10:53 PM
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I don't see how being a woman is disadvantageous at all in America career-wise. Something like 10% of CEOs are women. Women are still paid less for the same exact job role. The constant fight to prevent women from making their own decisions around having children, not having children, being married, not being married, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 10:46 PM
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I'm not really competing for a job either. I'm interviewing the job just as much and might decide they aren't a good fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 10:35 PM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 10:32 PM
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Idk half those names. Is there something you're trying to prove with this ready to go list?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 10:31 PM
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Okay, let's hear your 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 10:04 PM
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Lol do you expect people to just have a list ready to go?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 09:51 PM
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No. And yes, I'd break up because it sounds like he has an unhealthy obsession with his appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 09:42 PM
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can’t afford to be picky like that. Picky like what? Overt communication of needs, wants, and desires in the escalation stage is abnormal in western dating and will generally be interpreted as awkward, needy, and unsexy. What are you talking about? Do you have an example?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 09:30 PM
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If that’s average , why are there numerous scientific data that’s suggest the average lifetime sexual partners are between 4-8? People lie, questions are asked weird, the audience, the time the data was collected, etc. I didn't say anything about this internet personality being average.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 09:14 PM
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It's really weird to measure it by year.....
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 09:09 PM
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Okay and? Saved you both trouble. Now you can go find someone who is interested and feeling it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:52 PM
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I didn't realize that planets and emotions weren't real.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:50 PM
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She's 31. Presumably, she's been having sex for at least 10 years. 35 doesn't seem high for someone who shows up as "internet personality" when I Google her.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:46 PM
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Can't say I've seen this reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:44 PM
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Idk doesn't really feel like a competition. It's more like trying on different styles and types of jeans. Idk how I can compete with someone I don't know or don't have the same goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:43 PM
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Honestly, it seems to come down to jealousy about the woman being far more social and well liked among their peers. Someone who has had lots of opportunities for sex are people who are well liked, have active social lives, and have many examples of interacting with others. The men who seem the most upset always bring up the fact that this woman has had more human interactions than they have. And that's what makes them upset and run to made-up myths like pair bonding, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:18 PM
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Men don’t show loyalty with their sexuality. I'm so glad that the men here speak for all men. That’s why women are single in their 30s and can’t deal with reality. Sounds like they are single because men don't commit. How is that the woman's fault? Maybe social media and feminism is to blame Oh boy. Giving people opportunities is the reason to blame for men not showing "loyalty through their sexuality".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:08 PM
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Lol. a hot guy with money and options he will fuck other chicks but won’t tell you. More reason to stay single. If men can't be loyal, what's the point of a relationship? Just stay single.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:59 PM
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If a man doesn't have his career listed, I assume he's an unemployed bum, aka a financial liability.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:04 PM
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Why? Because they go dance at a club?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 06:59 PM
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So have you got any practical advice? Use your words, talk, and communicate about your needs, wants, and desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 06:13 PM
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Nothing, what you said is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:48 PM
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I'm just going off what I observed in this sub. Most men here who struggle all have the same things in common: unrealistic expectations and unresolved traumas.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:47 PM
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don't be fat Y'all think anything over 0 is fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:44 PM
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Dating for money sounds exhausting. Y'all really hate 30-35 year olds. I can only assume that you're super young if 35 seems old and destitute to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:43 PM
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sexualized clothes. What clothes are these? Are there certain clothes that women should wear when riding the bus in the middle of the day?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:41 PM
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Some men's unattainable, picky standards are what keeps them single. They have a list a mile long of what a woman must look like, what she can and can't do, how she must treat the man, and how frequently he must get laid. And then they wonder why they are still single or have trouble meeting women. They do it to themselves and then screech online about "women's standards." 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:03 PM
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Why do you think someone going to a club can't dress modesty or be loyal? It seems like going to a club somehow makes someone a "bad" person in the can't be loyal and can't dress modestly way.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:00 PM
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They don't go to the club and assume anyone who dances on a sticky dance floor to an Usher remix is somehow a poor quality mate. And then they wonder why they are alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:56 PM
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enough to screw with their ability to pair bond Made up mumbo jumbo. You should just learn to emotionally detach yourself from the relationship while you’re in it. Or don't get into a relationship if you're gonna act like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:54 PM
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Finding 35 guys attractive is easy. That's not even a high number.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:53 PM
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Yes, agreed. They are flirting and showing off to get attention from other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:51 PM
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I've met men in all the places you listed. I've dated some men I've met in those places. I've rejected most men I've met in those places. I reject most men honestly because I'm not interested in all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:49 PM
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The conclusion I come to is that far too many men aren't socializing out in the world. They are spending too much time online feeding their anger.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:46 PM
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I didn't realize I was competing with strangers at the gym. I'm not at the gym to socialize. I'm there to sweat and leave. Not make friends or compete with random women. Men seem to socialize at the gym. But only at the gym. I'm also confused on what men are competing for at the gym. Are people aware they are competing when they go to the gym?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:44 PM
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They who? I don't really care what "they" think. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:32 PM
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What do women offer men, that men want, besides sex & exclusivity If a man thinks that's all a woman has to offer, he's not even approaching me for dates. This man isn't even on my radar. With that dutifulness to being a mother and partner. Again, this guy isn't even on my radar. I think men desire a woman that is happy to be with them and pleasant to be around, who enthusiastically offers intimacy and sex. Not a man I'm interested in. Good luck to this man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:02 AM
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when you yourself aren't that. What makes a woman high status?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:52 AM
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So ...don't date athletes? Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 12:46 AM
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If that's how it works in your relationship, that's fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 12:17 AM
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Oh, please explain. What men and what situations? Women everywhere are so curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 12:15 AM
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Yes, I do enjoy it when my boyfriend pays for a meal. Is this a crime? He also enjoys it when I pay for a meal.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 12:11 AM
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For 10 years this went on and repeatedly wouldn't learn Learn what exactly? You seem to think that women should have learned something. What exactly? That if she picked you, that you wouldn't have been one to "pump and dump"?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 12:08 AM
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Okay. Lol. Nobody asked. I get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 11:48 PM
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No. I said that a man who financially can't provide for himself isn't worth my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 11:34 PM
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That sounds good. Enjoy!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 11:28 PM
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I've said that 50/50 happens more frequently at the point of exclusivity. How long do you think that takes?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 11:24 PM
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That's not what I equated.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 11:23 PM
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Ew. 1? Just 1? No thanks. 👎🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 11:17 PM
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It's only brutal if it's correct. Which it is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 11:15 PM
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Nope. That's not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 11:14 PM
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There's always an opportunity to change tactics, apply lessons learned, etc. I see most folks in their 30s and 40s finding love. For the first or fourth time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 11:12 PM
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I'm not single.....
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 11:10 PM
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Nope. That's not what I've said..... I don't go on dates with men who expect "reciprocation".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 11:10 PM
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I never said going on a date was a liability. I say that I'm not interested in the financial liability of a man who can't provide for his own life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 10:40 PM
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You say "no, because it wasn't asked for" but if he asked (eg you paying your part of covering the next date) would make you not be interested in him. No. I'd still be interested. everyone with a sense of fairness and self respect understands that reciprocating good behaviour Yes, I am polite and respectful on a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 10:40 PM
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21 is way to young to give up all hope. Damn dude. You've hardly lived yet at 21.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 10:32 PM
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I pay my own bills regardless of whether a suitor pays for the first date. what's your liability if the guy doesn't pay for you? I won't have a date. And what a pity. But that's fine, I don't mind eating alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 10:24 PM
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You want a man for his money. I've got my own money. I don't want a man for his money. You clearly don't have good intentions or you wouldn't have a problem being direct. Okay. I'm fine with you thinking this. Doesn't bother me any.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 09:33 PM
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It's really silly how emotional they get.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 09:12 PM
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Asking out on a date≠saying you will pay I never said it did. I said he offered during making arrangements. So...no reciprocation No, because it wasn't asked for.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 09:07 PM
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Why would they be pumped and dumped?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 09:05 PM
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Do you boo.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 09:04 PM
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It's harder than living alone! Never suggested it wasn't. I was suggesting that women living alone is more common now than in 1993. I don't know many women who live alone now, they usually have roommates. I do. A lot. But if anything it was probably more common 30 years ago since rent was so much cheaper. No, it wasn't common for a woman to live alone 30 years ago. Two women who both work and share an apartment together as roommates are still supporting themselves independently from men. Sure. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 09:03 PM
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I'm sure they are really happy that you care.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 08:54 PM
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A date in which he has to pay,or you immediately lose interest Nope. offering to split? Nope. He already offered to pay when making date arrangements. atleast offer to pay the next date Maybe. Most men I date tend to pay for the first several dates. I might pay for treats if we see a movie or an extra bucket of balls at the driving range. Generally, though, they pay the majority of the costs. Things tend to go more than 50/50 once exclusivity is established.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 08:49 PM
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None of your examples are women living alone. They are living with their children or roommates. young "feminists" Um....what? women weren't even allowed to have bank accounts until the '80s" No. Because it wasn't the 80s. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 08:36 PM
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Yet you think that if he doesn't pay,he doesn't "show interest" Nope. I think that a date is the next step in showing interest. of equal respect and reciprocation What respect and reciprocation are you looking for here?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 08:32 PM
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Good thing I don't date men who view dating as "providing shit".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 07:50 PM
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if you think most men who do that are "interested in you" and don't think ",this will get me sex" you are sorely mistaken. Okay, cool. Not to mention that by that,you literally say you ain't interested in him I'm intrigued and/or interested in him, hence why I said yes to a date. The date is an opportunity for both parties to further explore interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 07:49 PM
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Yes, exactly. The men I've been on dates with loved picking out a location and planning something nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 07:40 PM
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a man can have money fornit and still be against it. Then he wouldn't be interested in taking me out. And that's perfectly fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 07:36 PM
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Yet you want men to "provide" and pay for you lmao Yes, I want a man who is interested in me and shows that through his actions of planning and paying for a first date. (the "courting process" is based on seeing Women as more delicate/less capable being Huh. I've always thought it was being romantically involved with the intention of marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 07:35 PM
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Where did I suggest that men owe me shit? I've said that if a man is interested in dating me, he will show his actions through planning and paying for a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 07:32 PM
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Agreed. A man who can't financially provide for his life has no value in my life. I don't need the liability of a man who can only pay for the light bill.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 07:23 PM
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And yet, he still chose to spend money on little ole me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 07:18 PM
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And today is completely obsolete Seems like many men haven't gotten this memo. Those are the men that I date. you believe in gender roles? No. You support traditional roles, so it makes sense Not really. I do support the courting process.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 07:17 PM
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Agreed. Age, economics, and locations make a huge difference. In my early 20s, park hangs were cute. In my 30s, not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 07:13 PM
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Cool. Filter me out. I'm filtering cheap dates out too. Win win.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 07:10 PM
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Lmao. What exactly should I be providing men? And no, I don't expect men to provide nice things for me. I do expect anyone romantically interested in me to act accordingly. As I would in return. I tend to date grown men looking for relationships. Not young boys focused solely on sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 07:09 PM
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It absolutely was a thing back then.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 06:51 PM
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There is no such system. Lol. What? ,good job at practically going along with the system you hate lo I don't hate the system. infested by tradcons Lol. First time I've ever been called that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 06:50 PM
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Are you 50 years old? Nope. Way, way younger. We changed Not much. Hold up your end Which is what exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 06:49 PM
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Ghosting was absolutely a thing in the 70s and far easier to do. Also, women did go on 5 dates in a week in the 70s.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 06:48 PM
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paying a lot for a date that might not even go anywhere further is. That's cool for you. Do what works for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 06:47 PM
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Why should I spend $50 on someone I might never see again ?? Nobody is forcing you. I’ve personally never been with an escort but seems better way to spend money than on dates So do your cheap dates. Good for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 06:43 PM
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got old real quick Not really. Took centuries. And we're still dealing with it in a lot areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 06:42 PM
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they have to want to waste it If you feel dating is a waste that's your prerogative. Men didn't set anything, you are setting and enforcing it. Ummm......you might want to review history a bit. I'd prefer system to be way different, as a man. Go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 06:40 PM
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implication being that men exist to provide for women. Up until the 1970s/1980s they did. It's a relatively new thing for women to have the ability to provide for themselves. 30 years ago, women weren't living alone like they do today.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 06:39 PM
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If it's not free nor cheap, it's expensive No, if it's not free or cheap, it's $50. If $50 is expensive to you, then you're not in a financially stable place to begin dating me. Like "you mean nothing to me on your own, you must pay a lot for the privilege of spending time with me". Nope. More like...."men set up this system that men ask women and pay for the dates."
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 06:31 PM
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There doesn't need to be a reason to reject someone. women have inflated egos. Such as?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 06:29 PM
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I don't exist to provide anything for MEN.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 06:26 PM
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Uh huh. Says people who say that anywhere in the world is "gynocentric". 😆😆 Peak delulu.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 06:23 PM
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We, masculine men Hahahahah. Sure, pal.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 06:22 PM
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Lol. Did you think that was an insult? That's precious.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 06:21 PM
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Where did I said it needed to be expensive? I said it not free or cheap. There's a whole mid range section before expensive. Are you just looking for a provider? Yes, I'm only interested in men who can provide for themselves and share with others.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 06:21 PM
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This is my face. Laughing my ass off.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 06:18 PM
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At my age, I'm not into free dates or very cheap. It doesn't need to be a Michelin star restaurant.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 06:16 PM
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Love drugs. Live, laugh, drugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 06:15 PM
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I can't help but laugh at the ignorance of the words "gynocentric society". Like a deep belly laugh because it's so utterly ridiculous. I can only imagine that the people saying it are egocentric stunted preschoolers playing dress up in papa patriarchy's shoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 06:14 PM
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Today's plans include microdosing mushrooms and decorating for Halloween.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 05:57 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 04:16 PM
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Because it doesn't happen that often. It's a risk of sex. It's a risk of any relationship, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 03:54 PM
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Idk who this Connor guy is.... Y'all also fail to understand that attraction isn't just looks. It's emotional, too. It's weird how men judge other men's appearances and then say they know how women feel. Dennis Rodman is in his 60s. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 03:49 PM
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"The average 16′, 2-person canoe can hold 940 pounds of passengers and gear at its maximum capacity." (Paddle Camp)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 07:07 AM
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What does "average" mean? That stats say below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 05:42 AM
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Yes. Average men are in situationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 05:22 AM
1

I love finger foods. Are you trying to insult finger foods?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 04:16 AM
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No, guys, lie. Women aren't doing it willingly, that's why these groups exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 04:14 AM
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No. It's a made-up myth to help some men avoid processing their mommy issues or trauma or anger or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 03:00 AM
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Yes, cars are dangerous. It's why I don't drive. What is there to give up?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 02:29 AM
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women are never accountable So don't date us and leave us alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 02:24 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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