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Igleslogle/r/Divorce_Men14/08/18 03:04 PM
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Igleslogle/r/Divorce_Men26/08/19 04:03 PM
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Igleslogle/r/Divorce_Men11/11/19 02:01 AM
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Truth truth truth
/r/Divorce_Men25/08/21 12:57 AM
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You go to family court house and file for divorce and serve her the papers
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/21 10:02 PM
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Three years out and my divorce was the biggest mindfuck of my life by far my brother
/r/Divorce_Men09/05/21 04:02 AM
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Interview them all. Pick the one who talks the most .trust your gut. My ex spent 100k+ . She is still spending. I have spent about 15k just responding to her bullshit .if I learned anything its that the courts don’t care about anything other than the kids being safe and joint custody. Which is good if you want to be in the kids lives.
/r/Divorce_Men16/03/21 09:47 PM
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Time heals all wounds or makes it bearable. I am 3YEARS to the week since this shit show began and STILL going through court for custody. I still love the kids mom even all of it like its strange. I have a new girlfriend for about a year now even that is strange for me . I still catch myself dwelling on it sometimes like now but it definitely doesn’t hurt like it did but i feel like that it won’t ever feel right because of feelings of failure or whatever. Keep your head up brother.
/r/Divorce_Men15/03/21 02:52 AM
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Next time set it up call for a welfare check meet the cops at the door and that documents her being a royal fuck up to the court. You win hands down.
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/20 05:01 AM
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You cross that road when you come to it until then you go for 5050 the parent who receives the kids does the drop off or the other way around I’m not sure but you just cross that road when you get to it. Who knows what happens until then. One thing I do know for certain is don’t give up your rights as dad because once you do they are damn near impossible to get back
/r/Divorce_Men08/10/20 09:45 AM
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It depends on you wanting to be the kids father. If you want to be in your kids life then fight for 50-50. If you want to be the weekend dad then do that . You being in future relationships has nothing to do with any of it . Me personally I miss my kids enough not having them w the 60/40 schedule i gave ip to appease mom but it still wasn’t enough,shes the biggest bitch still. So I wish i had kept it 50/50
/r/Divorce_Men08/10/20 09:28 AM
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If you’re still living with her , you haven’t even started im sorry to say.
/r/Divorce_Men23/09/20 04:29 AM
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Yes it most definitely is a wave machine roller coaster keep your head up man . Enjoy the good days.
/r/Divorce_Men21/09/20 05:03 AM
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I set a court date for my dog , she wasn’t about to take e my dog too. She tried . Just had to prove it was yours . How did she take your dog!?
/r/Divorce_Men01/08/20 05:15 PM
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I’ve learned that EVERYONE including the judge is so jaded that its just a job to them and tdgaf about you. So I interviewed a bunch of lawyers and went with the one that wouldn’t shut up and was charismatic.. its worked for me so far I guess. My last attorney got burnt out on my case said it was the most exhausting one he has had and now i have a woman thats a self described bitch and she is doing well for me
/r/Divorce_Men11/07/20 06:51 PM
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This is not true . If you have 50/50 You will have to pay a little if you make more than mon or if mom doesn’t work . Mom would have to pay you if she makes more . 50/50 has come a long way from what it used to be
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/20 09:35 PM
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Theres levels to it . The thoughts only go away with time . I was straight up w the woman i spoke to online but i would get into these I thought i was ready for a new relationship but then i withdrew .. not nice on my part but it never felt right so I would end it . I would take a couple months off dating but then get lonely. Always still in love with the fantasy of the ex but that ship sailed so This last time i dated this girl for 6 months it was better but she was shady still talking to her b…
/r/Divorce_Men25/05/20 03:51 AM
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The judge always sees past the bullshit . I am up against a pathogenic parent .. its been a brutal 2 year process . Custody eval her request was denied by judge she appealed to supreme court then it was granted by stipulation it all means nothing. Temp order stays the same . She has trued to modify custody 3 times ...Good luck .
/r/Divorce_Men07/05/20 11:48 AM
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My settlement conference was last week after 2 years she got the house she wanted oh so badly and i kept joint custody so theres some ptsd for sure ... clean slate it is what it is . Its finally over .
/r/Divorce_Men19/02/20 06:16 PM
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No judge has time to listen to that shit it dont fucken matter
/r/Divorce_Men11/11/19 01:28 AM
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Ugh , i know the pain ,it a real thing . Recently i went to visit family to “get away” but for the last 12 years i visited my family with stbxw sometimes several times a year ,my family lives in a beautiful area in the carolinas and visiting set off crazy triggers i was depressed and sad the whole trip . Sucked bad i felt like a lump on a log didn’t want to do shit. I guess the repeated exposures is the only way to get over it. Im 18 months out and shit still stings at times ,not as bad these da…
/r/Divorce_Men09/09/19 08:27 PM
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Mine introduced hers within a week .
/r/Divorce_Men09/09/19 08:15 PM
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Yeah i missed my kids bday because of ex being a bitch like yours . Because of a bullshit TPO like you have.i hate my ex for it because I won’t get both my kids bdays and mine back .all the same month . Use this as ammo when she asks for a favor in the future . Fuck spiteful bitches .
/r/Divorce_Men09/09/19 08:14 PM
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Yes that will happen .. either way she was accusing me of being strung out at the beginning of this had me tested came up negative. This makes her look like an asshole I hope to the evaluation
/r/Divorce_Men01/09/19 09:47 PM
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No she doesn’t take them never has and I seriously doubt she does now . She is selling them for extra money to her sisters bf
/r/Divorce_Men26/08/19 06:12 PM
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Thanks for reply , I just want revenge because she claims I am this big drug user and she had me tested through the court and I was clean but she is this big hypocrite and has claimed abuse and everything else in our custody case ...
/r/Divorce_Men26/08/19 05:15 PM
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Your not alone mstbx has accused me of literally everything google says to how to win custody. I believe if she just accused me of one or 2 things the judge may have listened but this witch accused me OF EVERYTHING . Abuse rape narcissist (I didn’t even know what that was ) holding a gun to her head .. what?!? She is so enveloped in rage and spite that she cannot see straight . Her thing is posting stories of crazy shit and compare us to some tragic story on the news ... its so wild . Never woul…
/r/Divorce_Men03/07/19 07:10 PM
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Search for an equal rights for divorced fathers business non profit in your area ..thats where i started and they helped me big time . If not call other city’s erfdf and ask where to start . They help.
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/19 04:05 PM
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Everything stops being joint the day you file for divorce . So this didn’t happen.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/06/19 05:38 AM
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file for divorce get a lawyer be ahead of all of it as much as possible once divorce happens true colors show. Just say you are asking for 50-50 once you split you are no longer friends you are no longer anything. Its just the way it is. Have it court ordered that its 50-50 otherwise she will use the kids as pawns every time she doesn’t get her way.
/r/Divorce_Men28/02/19 04:51 PM
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Yes what i was told was if you dont get it now you wont get it . So get your rights 50-50. Im in nv and 60-40 is the same as 50-50 . I agreed to 60-49 i get 6 days she gets 8 . Whatever its what i had to agree too w out going to trial . She actually thought she was going to get max support w 60/40 her 60 until it went in front of judges and she learned different. No support. But shes been a bitter bitch from the get go. She sucks at coparenting.
/r/Divorce_Men22/02/19 08:49 PM
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No don’t give her the satisfaction, no no no.
/r/Divorce_Men15/01/19 08:50 AM
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Is it cash ? Then none of her business. Actually let her find it fuck her . Keep doing you.
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/19 07:52 PM
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My stbxw did this filed charges 11 months after the fact of an argument we had i threw a kids fisher price 2 ounce toy hammer against the wall and it bounced onto her foot left a little bruise it-was wrong of me for throwing it but it was an accident that it hit her foot ..whatever and she did the restraining order thing they approved it and when we went to court finally our permanent judge threw it out and none of it mattered and i won in the end . It did get me out of my house tho . It was an …
/r/Divorce_Men15/12/18 06:03 PM
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At this point stop negotiating with her .the gloves are off. In the US if you were together for more than 7 years in a marital home it’s a 50% split in equity automatically . the judge will make it fair and the child support is totally a separate issue based in your job income and being 75-25 custody is exactly what she wants . What you should be fighting for is 50%time with the kids and then you get to be the dad you want to be and then child support will not sting sooo bad as well . Good luck …
/r/Divorce_Men02/09/18 08:33 PM
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Nope , let me say it for you,she was greedy bitch and You are fortunate it did not go the other way and become just like the bitter guy I rent a house with . He is forever ruined I think . Be thankful ,screw that ex’s feelings of yours as she gave zero shits about yours and to put the kid in therapy because she couldn’t control her mouth, fuck her.
/r/Divorce_Men28/08/18 01:58 AM
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This. The judge said explicitly that she would be paying my lawyer if any of her rulings were brought back up and lost. I love that.
/r/Divorce_Men26/08/18 11:05 PM
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So ,just an update . All I wanted was fair from the beginning.. she made life HELL for me for 5 solid months I had to endure not seeing my 2 kids for 6 weeks and then claims of abuse/child abuse caused the temp judge to give me 2 hours on Friday 9 hours on Saturday and 9 hours on Sundays ,no overnights. These hellish high conflict exchanges were not fun at all to say the least . All while the temporary restraining order was in affect I got CHARGED with 17 counts of misdemeanor domestic violence …
/r/Divorce_Men15/08/18 03:45 AM
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Yes mine is her recordings main exhibits in my family court case . All of them are recorded from years past where she would bring stuff up and you can hear me in the recordings going wtf are you talking about ? Pretty serious accusations I might add . It’s a sh!t show ,very first family court date is in 2 weeks. She has made all kinds of lies even got a restraining order from something that happened a year ago, to get me out of our house .and greatly exaggerated the claim... it’s war out the gat…
/r/Divorce_Men09/05/18 01:05 AM
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So I live in Nevada and she is trying to use middle of argument premeditated recordings it says it’s a one party consent state , what does they mean ? Is it allowable ?
/r/Divorce_Men08/05/18 06:24 PM
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