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DebateIgorXY/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 12:06 PM
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Question for BluePillIgorXY/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 07:55 AM
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Which 3 are most important to you? Nails look good, gothic :D Happy for you and glad to hear some positivity.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 05:20 PM
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Are these things sorted by importance? If no could you pick top 3? Third month now. Probation is 6. I will look for another job, if no, will suck it up. It is cathartic, though net negative i think. Just prefer controlled anger with less consequences. I feel physical pain when i see fake very long nails, brrr. How was sex? What is the retrospection result? My garden feeds me well \) <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 04:41 PM
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What is a vagina? Can I get one? I think i need to change jobs, I am burning out a little. Shit that hey said was temporary now looks pretty permanent. I am stressed and I go here and on discord to be rude to people and not lash out at work. But in general pretty good, thanks. How are you? How's your summer?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 04:02 PM
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You can have conversations on tinder? Did they update my local people gallery app???
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 03:56 PM
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Why? What happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 12:17 PM
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When next post?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 12:05 PM
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Do you have any example? I think i can say the same about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 08:08 AM
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What do you mean by illiterate? You keep repeating this word but I am not sure I understand you. Do you think men are stupid and don't know that paying for women is viewed positively by women?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 07:58 AM
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A perfect date according to u/RelativeCondition915 <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 07:26 AM
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No, why should i? And if we change the norm then those kids have a chance to live in a better world.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 07:25 AM
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Did you read the first part of my comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 07:14 AM
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All my women sluts friends just use it as a dick delivery and are pretty content about it. Hell, ask women on this sub, not old married ones, they all use apps and i doubt they focus on niche apps like feeld.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 07:08 AM
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It's just the principle of it. I would gladly pay for someone, I earn enough and am pretty desperate at this point, but when I discuss this online it's ok to complain about outdated norm that became a baseline, so if you spend money on a stranger with no expectation you did nothing special and if you didn't you deserve to die and rot alone. Shit sucks and we have too may things like that in live already.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 07:06 AM
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Sluts just use tinder, no need to invent a wheel.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 06:56 AM
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You forgetting that i am in germany
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 10:32 PM
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If I interracted with a woman 3 times and nothing romantic happened, including obvious flirting, I don't consider her a romantic option unless she initiates like really hard and clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 10:27 PM
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Do you have a problem with women? 171cm
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 01:44 PM
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That's dumb, it's not like you have problems with straigh men
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 01:37 PM
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Don't get me wrong, we like you here. It's like when poor people watching rich people's lives on social media except you answer some questions. Guess for you it's more ike a zoo.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 12:47 PM
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Having short height signals lack of good personality and insecurity and hypergamy. He’ll want his partner 10x hotter than himself to feel better about himself and he won’t settle for his looksmatch because he think he deserves better for his time spent suffering.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 12:28 PM
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I agree but he think short men should be happy with old fat and ugly women as their equals.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 12:15 PM
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He hates short men, don't bother.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 11:54 AM
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Well duh, that's ideal scenario. I choose to be accepted too, but it's not up to me, isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 11:38 AM
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So yeah, "foot at the door" and "looks are everything" to what end if i closed the door as fast as i've opened it? Then fair, but still, if you can't get a foot at the door personality does not matter. I'd rather be him and strike out with girls like you than just be myself and ventpost on reddit about how lonely i am. Not trying to convience you, but do you at least understand this point of view?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 10:48 AM
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She's been busy lately.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 10:15 AM
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Because what is the alternative? That women are shallow. Women don't want to say bad things about women, simps are afraid of being called incels. So it's easier to talk shit about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 10:01 AM
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Do hair transplant
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 09:26 AM
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Picture. We talked for a long time and plan to meet eventually. Figured why not. I honestly think she's just busy, but timing is dramatic, like i literally replied within a minute of her last message and now nothing for 2 days ><
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 09:12 AM
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sex was So you slept with him and going to tell us that looks don't matter now?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 08:30 AM
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What's new with your life? Any fun stories?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 08:10 AM
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Sent my picture to someone on reddit and have not heard from them for 2 days 🫠
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 07:54 AM
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People who cheat and they cheat with are contributing to cheating. One are objectively more wrong. That's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 07:29 AM
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Same can be said about women. What do you want to debate about?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 07:24 AM
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Did something happen, or do you get more tired in work, or no reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 05:02 PM
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Damn no surprise I get less and less matches. Mine cost probably even less with all the drinking. Or is it just liver damage... I think I'd still prefer some interaction. Either before or after sex. But maybe I haven't been fucked no question asked so I don't know exactly how I'd feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 04:53 PM
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Same, but if there is a woman who agrees to do that there is no way I am taking that offer, I like my kidneys attached to my body.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 04:04 PM
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Do you have or plan to have kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 01:54 PM
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I don't. but I didn't settle for my husband because I met him in my late 20s. What if you met him at 46?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 01:45 PM
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Because her age influenced her decision. She would have not given this guy a chance 20 years ago. The age when most short men are hopeless. Is it really that hard to understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 01:35 PM
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Just go through my comments and answer questions that you haven't yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 01:28 PM
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Ok, do you have an example? Share with the class. Cause that one wasn't it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 01:23 PM
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I have to ask leading questions, cause if I really write the gotchas I want I will get banned on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 01:16 PM
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I am happy for them. But this is not what will make an insecure short 22 years old hopeful.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 01:11 PM
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Dude looks fine, come on. A chance to find someone close to deathbed is not that positive. And this is a valid critique. OP said she wanted to share this with a guy who is 22. Just wait 24 years bro. I like how you dodge all my questions by the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 01:10 PM
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For me a "positive" post would be a man got together with a taller woman in 20s or early 30s. This will demonstrate that not all women are obsessed with height and true love can happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 01:01 PM
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Everything I said can also be applied to older men. But not to short women? How come? I’m not saying short guys deserve any less, That's exactly what you are saying. If she was unattractive and short you would still have made the same comment. I’m saying they don’t deserve more than they can get. Do you think the same about other groups of people? That’s fair and the fact that he found someone who loved him is “positive” That's also fair if people disagree with him or her.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 12:54 PM
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Had he been taller he would’ve went for a younger woman, had she been younger she wouldve went to a taller male. So you say that short men are less attractive and deserve less? Well, you are part of the reason shortguys sub exists. She has to overlook his height while he overlooks her age, it’s a win win, not settling. And? It still not "positivity". It’s now an equal relationship. So to you bone length is equal to opportunity of having kids together. Well, from you it's kinda expected. Straight…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 12:44 PM
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She is attractive, no one denies it, it's just her age makes a case of settling and it is really hard to sell as "positivity". Which is fair. If they were in their 20s, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 12:35 PM
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If being gay was ok in your region once you are 45 or something, would it be ok to persecute them when they are younger? Just don't understand the logic of being able to find someone much later in life somehow makes irrelevant everything that happened before.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 12:27 PM
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Well it is what it is. It's never been particulary hard for me to start talking to people, but I can easily say if they want to talk or not. Most of the time the answer is no. Going outside to meet people is a bad strategy. Just online. Maybe gonna hire a photographer idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 12:15 PM
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first yes, second medium amount
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 12:12 PM
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Irish pub on friday and festival cinema yesterday
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 12:08 PM
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Just went out. Not that unusual for me. I talked to one girl who seemed approachable but she told me she's just visiting town and was not very interested so I disengaged.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 11:42 AM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 09:11 AM
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Yeah, no one seems to have time of energy to go out "just because", so they are out with friends or on dates already and every interaction with strangers is an annoyance for their plan. And I hate to be an annoyance.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 08:39 AM
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Yes :) I just wish it was easier to meet people. Online seems like the only option.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 08:29 AM
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I cut around 15cm of hair and still get used to it. Were shoulder long now mouth/chin. All I am saying is remember how some people use "get a haircut" as advice for men to look better? I am that man, i just refuse to do it, i like longer hair even if they look worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 08:27 AM
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Morning ppd, sad to inform you that I put myself out there and nothing happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 08:12 AM
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Women want bad boys or good boys
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 08:11 AM
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Some people view intimacy as something intimate.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 02:42 PM
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Just saying the line, if this worked out, fine, happy for them. Depends. I sometimes regret my past "success" in dating. Makes it harder to accept lack of it now. But if it came to kids and they are grown enough then who cares, might as well divorce and have some fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 02:30 PM
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I am being sarcastic, bro
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 02:25 PM
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So he had sex at least 4 times and now she will divorce him and take his house probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 02:19 PM
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Thanks <3
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 02:14 PM
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Nope, but i am working on german citizenship
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 02:10 PM
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Outside eu slav, will leave it like this
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 02:06 PM
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Migrant
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 01:59 PM
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Well i am fake german, so imagine my situation duh
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 01:51 PM
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Have never been red, and I wanted to cosplay as blue pill but damn i got baited easily, so i left it ambiguous. If anything I am shortcell. Which is probably black.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 01:25 PM
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Ok I gonna start: femcels are not real
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 01:10 PM
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Let's debate i am bored
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 12:59 PM
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To be fair if I was on ugly men sub and got approached like this I'd be fine with it. If she just called me ugly then meh
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 12:59 PM
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I am too not a reader, as I did not get that there is a second image...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 12:57 PM
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Bro I understand that you are not a reader but a baiter, but in the linked post it really says "reaching out an average woman to get to know het beyond looks". What is wrong with it? Where did you get "not into" part? Where did you get "lesser" part?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 12:54 PM
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🎵 I don't care if Monday's blue Tuesday's grey and Wednesday too Thursday, I don't care about you It's Friday, I'm in love 🎵
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 06:59 AM
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Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 03:40 PM
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I mean, as long as you are not hypocritical about it, who cares, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 03:32 PM
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people tell me I should consider “society” when making decisions with my fiancé over how to conduct our relationship For example?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 03:26 PM
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I want to get a bass but it will be a third guitar that I suck at, so I resist the urge
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 01:44 PM
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Did you select a game already? For me just some gym, kitchen cleaning and maybe woll go to a club.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 12:56 PM
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Exactly. And no identity formed. Mixed with different crowds.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 11:58 AM
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Nothing specific, they just wanted to keep me busy. I have always done sports, at some point i picked up music and even dancing. As a result I suck in everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 11:09 AM
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Excited?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 11:04 AM
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What are you looking for in farms?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 09:51 AM
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Yo, cool cats, what are your weekend plans? Anything special?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 09:41 AM
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Are there any bears on the island?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 08:26 AM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 08:03 AM
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How I sleep when I did not get rage baited. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 10:07 PM
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Does one need to dress soecific and know goth music a lot to be there and feel like they belong?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 07:44 PM
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Nice. Happy for you two. When i go to metal/punk places i rarely see any single girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 06:45 PM
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Were you both alone there? Did you know anyone in common?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 04:41 PM
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met my partner at a goth bar How did it happen if not a secret?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 01:25 PM
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i'd be more comfortable to share in dms if you don't mind
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 10:33 PM
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Congrats!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 10:25 PM
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found anyone special?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 10:11 PM
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how is it going for you? it's been a while since we've talked
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 10:02 PM
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well why would anyone want to be with someone with whom they don't feel safe? or can't stand personality? it's a fucking important thing especially in countering black pill view on looks you should switch to black pill
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 09:35 PM
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And like again, dude, I’m dead either way. The difference is meaningless: both are so much stronger than me that it would be stupid for me to base my survival on something like “maybe this guy is so short it’ll only take him two punches to kill me instead of one! Perfect man!” Is this "no"? It's a simple yes or no question. You keep asking questions and making statements that indicate that you believe that short men are just barely a little insignificant whisper stronger than women. Qoute me. Al…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 09:32 PM
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Next time I will see someone saying something like "I just want a man that I feel safe with" I will summon you and we will both bully this person. Deal?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 09:13 PM
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Do you think the biological differences for men and women are made up? Quote where I said this. I do sports with women, some of them are better than me. I never go against a woman and think oh, weaker gender, easy. Sure I can cause more damage if I attack, but a man twice my size will cause much more damage with no chance of resisting. no women are stronger than the average man, even when she is tall, large, and heavily trained That's not true. It's learned helplessness and internalized misogyny…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 08:35 PM
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I think you greatly underestimate yourself or should do some sports. Yes you won't overpower a man your height, but you can resist enough to escape and call for help. A 2m tall can just pin you with one hand and you won't be able to cause him any damage. Look I don't know why it is so hard to agree. A weaker opponent is preferable opponent. Sure no opponent is better, but we don't live in fairy tail. You never know who is violent and who is not, but you can estimate who is more dangerous. So by …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 08:30 PM
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Definr substantially stronger. My point is that difference in... difference is substancial. One is stronger but not knock you out with one slap. I don't know why you keep denying this. I am on phone and do 't think i can say anything more than i already said.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 07:54 PM
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Well rape usually about physical overpowering, not a gun at head. If man weight almost the same as victim it is not easy to restrict them. Will you deny this too?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 07:49 PM
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It is more than just looks but looks are prerequisite. You don't know someone's personality unless you date them, with some exceptions. Most of modern dating starts online now and women would not have given a tall guy a chance if he was short. So just by logic of it what is the most important thing? Looks. The rest are given, of course you like your bf personality duh, othetwise why you are with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 07:42 PM
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Then keep a weapon under pillow i guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 06:34 PM
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I'm not sure it's about evolution so much as it's about culture and also safety aspect. You don't really want to fuck when you wonder if you'll survive. It's the same for men, they just don't fear women This is what i originally replied to
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 05:10 PM
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You type too much and we are just repeating what we said. What about gays? Do you think they are safe from their partner as they are equally matched?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 04:59 PM
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If you like a tall handsome guy with X personality, you don't like X personality. This is often presented as women don't care about looks as much as men, but in reality women are much pickier. Just when you are honest it is really hard to empathize your dating struggles. So women hide this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 03:14 PM
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It's not on personal level. I don't care about you. So no need to speculate. Just it's funny when shallow women preaching caring about personality and safety, when it only applies after men pass looks filter.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 03:11 PM
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Difference is far from zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 03:04 PM
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Ok, so you have to fight a guy 5'6 60kg or 6'6 120kg. Who would you choose? I am not telling you you have to win. You just have not to lose too much. Being hit by a bicycle is not fun but I sure as hell would prefer it to being hit by a truck. Point about sports is thay a bigger men us stronger. That's it. One or two punches is a big difference. Will you just lay down and allow however many punches it takes? you are explicitly instructing all women to avoid dating men like you? Who are men like …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 03:02 PM
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Of course, because it is a consequence of your actions. I did not chose to be born short. So i am entitled to my resentment.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 02:17 PM
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Consider other aspects by all means, there are many short guys to choose from. What do you mean? I care about personaity match. What else is there to care about?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 01:59 PM
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I am entitled to honesty at least. And I am sorry about your experience but you can lose weight. I lost my covid weight. I can't get taller.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 01:56 PM
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But I saw people get banned from meetup groups for approaching women. Appraching is a risk of rejection. If you don't care about rejection you are borderline sociopathic in my opinion. Sure one polite rejection is nothing. But what about 10? 25? 100? What if some of them rude, what is they laugh at you? Those reasons are presented because they sound better than hurt ego. But I would not dismiss these reasons as fake because they did not happened. I have never hurt anyone by throwing knives in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 01:40 PM
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Well, I was not there so count me out at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 01:04 PM
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It's royal you, like you women. There are weight classes in martial sports for a reason. Difference in one class is not as extreme as in 4. Difference is that you can resist, run, scream or be done from one hit. Good for you. Stronger by what measure? I am pretty much the same height as most women where I live. Some are lighter some weight the same. I don't overpower them so much that they only have to freeze in fear. Yet I am overlooked because i am short and I come here to read that the most i…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 12:49 PM
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I'm not sure it's about evolution so much as it's about culture and also safety aspect. You don't really want to fuck when you wonder if you'll survive. It's the same for men, they just don't fear women. This is the comment that started this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 12:34 PM
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Exactly. You want the most dangerous men around and gamble that we will not be violent to you. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 12:21 PM
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Situation: women claim that feeling of safety is very important, women prefer tall bigger men who can cause more harm. My claim: this is contradicting, pick one. My reasoning: women feel more safe with men they have a real fighting chance against. Your claim: it does not matter. Your reasoning: women are so weak the mere presence of penis makes them incapable of resisting, so it makes no sense to preselect based on height. Then you went on tirade about safety in behaviour, which has nothing to d…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 12:19 PM
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Walking in circles. I thought we established that shorter men are dealing less damage. So if there is the same chance the partner is violent, the cost of mistake is higher with a taller man. Yet you call this irrational. I give up.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 11:45 AM
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Ok why not both?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 11:25 AM
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If you find out his race will you make fun of it too?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 11:23 AM
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Just so you know <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 11:12 AM
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All you are saying is that women don't care about safety. If chances are low then what are we even talking about? If you are concerned about safety you would do as much as you can to be safer. I did not say that height is attractive because it is dangerous. I meant despite it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 11:11 AM
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Thanks for the apology <3
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 11:05 AM
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I know, but I can't think about anything else when I reply to you and I know myself I will look for a fight and say something I will regret, so i'd rather avoid you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 11:05 AM
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Again all fair. But you are gambling either way. If you have 2 identical men you will go on a date with a taller one despite shorter one being more safe in case he turns violent. Which is irrational according to safety concern claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 11:04 AM
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I will forget about it eventually, just need some space
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 10:53 AM
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choosing a kind, respectful, non-abusive person versus an abusive one. But this is unknown. Height and physical attributes you can see. No one is going around thinking “this man is so skinny, if he were to be violent I could probably take him so he’s a perfect match!” let’s be serious. Sure, but maybe when you look at tall muscle man you should think that if he decided to choke you to death during sex there is nothing you can do. Sounds like a reasonable safety concern.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 10:48 AM
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No, but I often see them claim that if women don't date you it is your personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 10:42 AM
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What if 1.25 damage is lethal? The whole point is that women value safety, but find unsafe features attractive, which is a direct contradiction. I want women to pick one. Either they want to feel safe or they want to be attracted to physically dominant features and say that it is worth the risk. You can argue all you want that it is not binary, and the best is tall safe man. Sure, but this is not what we are discussing here. Being short and less muscular is less threatning, so this should make w…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 10:41 AM
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I got what I wanted from this conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 10:11 AM
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I am not in a mood for jokes to be honest. I also saw you using height as an insult yesterday and can't really look at you the same. If you have something to add about the debate, go ahead. If not, let's stop here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 10:09 AM
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See? Gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 10:06 AM
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It is not what I am saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 10:06 AM
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Sex is good enough that it outweighs the tiny (barely relevant) increase in risk with a taller man, yes. Thanks for being honest. This is what me and many men here keep repeating. Personality, safety, whatever is only important for men you find attractive already. So, appearence matters more. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 10:05 AM
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I want to do this as man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 10:01 AM
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Bro, you prefer fucking young less experienced men raw because they are less likely to have stds or something. Flip genders and tell me it is not gross
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 09:58 AM
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I am not mixing it. I only talk about severity of harm. You keep bringing up possibility, i don't know why, we agree height does not affect it. The person I responded to is 5'9 or something. If she is healthy weight you greatly overestimate advantage a 5'7 man has over her. While if 6'5 loses control there is nothing she can do. So why does she find taller more attractive if safety is so important? Yeah, sure, physically disabled even better. They are more safe, wouldn't you agree?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 09:56 AM
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They are a bit gross, no offense.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 09:47 AM
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I don't think your standards make perfect sense, to be honest. But you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 09:46 AM
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So you agree with op or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 09:42 AM
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Sure, but women are frustrated by "choose better" rhetoric and claim, rightfully so, that you can't accurately predict if a man is good or bad when they start seeing him. So ligically, if you select a weaker man and he turns out aggressive, it is better than if he was big and strong, no? If you want a pet, you don't get one that can kill you if it's hungry, do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 09:41 AM
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So you will cheat? Or how does this work? Fulfill all your fantasies then marry a loser who should be happy for vanilla sex once per season?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 09:34 AM
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Women don’t choose partners based on “least physically capable of hurting me”; Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 09:32 AM
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Don't believe you, wanna bet?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 09:31 AM
2

Survive 30 days
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 09:27 AM
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average-looking guy posting half-naked pictures on social media Are you the one calling Pedro Pascal mid? This level of delusion should be studied.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 09:22 AM
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Well duh, we also enabled billionaires by giving them money and polititias by electing and not protesting. Congrats for learning how systems function.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 09:17 AM
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It makes sense to have casual sex with a dominant man and then marry a less dominant man. Just ask your less dominant husband to dominate you in bed. If this thought is not appealing than you are less attracted to him. Men don't have anything like this. I can't imagine not wanting to do something sexual in relationship that I'd want with casual. It is bizzare, many thing require trust and emotional connection makes sex better. Women are weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 09:15 AM
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I don't care about criminalitu, i am talking about pure physical combat.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 08:57 AM
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Address what exactly? Other factors are unrelated to height, so why not go for the safetest option by at least one metric you can accurately estimate? 1% is pulled from ass. 5'7 guy vs 6'5 guy, the second can just throw you around like he wants, the first one you have a real chance to break free and defend yourself. Yet you are more attracted to the second one, which means you care about appearence more than safety. If you can admit it, i will respect you more.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 08:57 AM
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Sure, is it more than 1-10%?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 08:52 AM
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Strength comes mostly from weight. That is why there are weight brackets. And if a person is fit, weight is proportional to height. So just by logical thinking, you should feel more safe and relax with a guy your height and weight that someone a foot taller and 40kg heavier. Yet you are not attracted to the first guy as likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 08:03 AM
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It is really hard to demostrate safety. I had a hookup with a girl that said she was feeling safe with me once. But there were special circumstances that were not there with any other partner. It was a gotcha, I admit, but you also have to admit it is strange how it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 08:01 AM
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Shory nen can't be attractive? What's the point crying about safety when you are attracted to unsafety in the first place? Pick one.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 07:28 AM
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safety aspect. You don't really want to fuck when you wonder if you'll survive If this was true women would have preferred short men with no muscles that can't physically overpower them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 07:15 AM
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Personality and safety are just buzz words or women to justify shallowness.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 07:01 AM
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Ok, let's sit down and see how you swipe tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 07:00 AM
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wrong sub, buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 08:10 PM
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Maybe next time I decide to participate in that ritual of humiliation. But do you truly believe that it is possible to struggle without doing anything wrong? Like there always must be something, bad photo, wierd prompt, not enough showers..? And women are fair and just and look for compatibility and vibes, not just appearence and height. Those are bad women, you don't want them anyway, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 06:01 PM
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Fine, I had my range set to 21-40 and got 5 matches, 2 unmatched instantly, one was using travel mode, 1 never replied and 1 stopped replying when I ask her on a date. Now tell me how it is my fault that I fumbled that one and if I had 100 matches it would have been the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 05:53 PM
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I hate only rude assholes who thinks they know everything. Should i be only nice to you because you are a woman? And if I am not I deserve to be alone, is this how it goes?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 05:45 PM
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You vet because you still has volume. Men also vet, just not as superficial as women. Oh let him and the guy who popped baloon go, they are tired, let them rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 05:43 PM
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No, it's just pragmatic realism. You can't be compatible with everyone, there will be bad dates or just not good ones. It's ok. What's not ok is wen you feel like you have to take what you can or stay alone forever. Remembrr your last date? It was your last chance, next person who takes you out might appear in 10 years. How do you feel? 100 or 10 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 05:35 PM
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Is it easier to find someone compatible out of 100 people or 3?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 05:26 PM
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Why not just assme we are all normal people who are hurting and venting or just bored? Why reinforce just world fallacy? You would not have liked if this happened to you, would you?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 05:25 PM
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But you did, at least I am not hiding behind generalizations that are too obvious. Don't treat me like an idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 05:16 PM
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For you. For most people here giving advice is a socially accepted form of mockery. If you are still surprised why people are cynical instead of grateful, I don't know what else to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 03:53 PM
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Then don't give advice?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 03:46 PM
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Sure, but it means you don't believe in your advice yourself and just repeating things to feel good about yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 03:39 PM
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It's boring. Also, what is your problem? Post is about dating advice, I shared my opinion. If you disagree please address what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 03:18 PM
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No, yall not even real people for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 02:13 PM
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I am going to confess something this one time. If I ask women (and men too) for advice here, I am just baiting them to say something stupid that I am going to argue with for fun. Works almost every time. There are no real advice because no one who gives it is willing to take consequeces if it does not work. I propose money bets all the time, no one accepted, but still they are so sure they know everything about dating. So if you are not willing to bet money on your advice, you don't deserve to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 01:49 PM
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Nice, I am a man and you generalized men here. But I m asking you why are you here and now I am making things personal. You are incredibly bitter, covert narcissistic, angry, mean spirited, vindictive, etc. Here, answered for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 01:37 PM
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Why are you here?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 01:22 PM
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What about you?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 12:55 PM
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Oh some have, sure. But veeeery few. Does not warrant women's ~3% right swipe rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 11:55 AM
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You can't say if someone is or isn't a misogynist just by looking at their tinder profile, for example. Well, unless he has some unhinged bio.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 11:50 AM
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I have many friends, mostly women, no social anxiety or anything like that. I am not even hideous, just short and not handsome enough to cover for it. If you are not dating in school or friends of friends, it is close to impossible now. The only person who I know is similar to me has some dates, but he abusing drugs, so idk if it counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 11:47 AM
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Define successfully dating. And just because someone got lucky it does not mean there is no social problem. It's like to say there is no racism because Obama was president.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 10:57 AM
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Here as in this sub? So people who complain about dating? Let's go to a sub where people complain about economy and call everybody poor. Why are you here?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 06:55 AM
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So you judge entire gender by some online trolls?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 06:37 AM
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No, they are just tired of being rejected and being told that they deserve it all the time. Even saints have limits.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 06:11 AM
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Push a stupid narrative get stupid commets. Simple as that. So you guys actually do want women who have low personality standards. You just dont like when it's said to you. We want someone compatible, but when no one even gives a chance what are we supposed to feel?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 06:09 AM
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Personality is important. Personality is what keeps women in relationships. A man's blue eyes isn't enough to keep a relationship. Sure, but it does not matter if looks are not enough to start relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 06:07 AM
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No it's not
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 06:07 AM
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I disagree. If someone is complaining it does not mean they have unpleasan personalities. This is just a bullying campaign to shut up men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 06:06 AM
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These women actually care about empathy, stability, and respect. Are these women in the room with us? Jokes aside, no one would have said anything if women did not use "it's your personality, bro" every time a man complains about dating. You admitted yourself that women prioritize looks and excitement. So own it. Because "personality is important" is easily proven wrong and all the comments about this topic are just sarcastic remarks, not some sort of delusion you assume in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 10:57 PM
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Pork belly bahn mi
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 10:47 PM
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Eating seeds is.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 11:34 AM
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to women sex can be hurtful and extremely uncomfortable Well that's not the same as "women don't orgasm all the time". These are valid concerns. doesn't mean they'd date them or marry them If they don't like their personality they won't. she has to be picky, on both personality and looks Looks are overwhelm what women are picky on. That's the whole point I am trying to make. he'll marry only one and it's the woman who he's truly attracted to If he likes her personality, duh. not the women he'll …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 09:52 AM
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Ew. Even protein milkshakes I prefer with minimum sugar. But that's cultural perhaps. Orgasms don't matter. I can give one myself easily. The fun of sex is the process, not the end. Men get hooked on child support which is not fun too. None of what you said means women can't compromise on looks. I think the amount of men who fuck women they are not attracted to is more or less equal to amount of women who have sex for money. Both are insignificant outliers. Yes, but again, men are attracted to m…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 09:24 AM
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Sorry but is milk without sugar something unusual? Who the fuck adds sugar to milk? And sexual attraction cannot compensate for lack of personality compatibility and I think a lot of males put that as a second after attraction. And that’s not how relationships work. See, you are half correct. Yes, personality match is extremey important and I can argue even for casual. But males don't put it second, we are attracted to most women already. We just don't have many options and are more open to comp…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 08:46 AM
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Didn't experience what?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 10:27 PM
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See this is something I have to debate very often with blue pillers here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 09:15 PM
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But am i at least allow to assume most women care about height if most of my women friends do?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 07:40 PM
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So you don't know. Lol, my conclusions are different than yours so I am wrong. Peak debator skill. Next time one of your women friends uses dating app, watch and ask her reasoning. Eye opening thing, my friend. you are not one of their girl friends I sure as hell hope I am not. We had some more men in that circle, but life happens and now we are scattered. When i visit the place where we lived it is mostly me and 4-6 girls, who in turn visit me. It was never a girl group.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 06:33 PM
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It's not that simple. For example some said they will never consider dating a man my height. We are not going to date anyway, but tjis reinforces my biggest insecurity. Is it mean? It's hard to know what is really offensive and what is not in a world where men in general are denied any insecurities.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 06:24 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 04:26 PM
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Do you think this would have affected how you view men in general?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 04:01 PM
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What if the realisation was hurtful? Like they don't consider women who look like you actual women and can't imagine anyone dating you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 03:57 PM
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Think about dating. Some things were so hurtful that it killed relationships. With others I was able to have a serious talk and move on. In general you don't have to agree in everything to be friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 03:39 PM
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I'd rather not know how my women friends think. It's a mix of black pill, red pill, some delusional illogical nonsense and lack of self reflection. Eh, it can be missleading. If they only see you platonically they don't really look at you as a sexual object. So their compliments not always accurate, like if my friend compliment my attack on titan tshirt. The fuck is "invest" in women lol? Grooming advice? Oh right, without friends I am not interested in anyone. But now that i have some I realise…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 03:27 PM
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Looks comfy! Thanks for sharing :)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 11:59 AM
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I don't blame them. I blame the strict return to office policy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 10:31 AM
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Sleepy, exhausted, tons of work. Most people in the office are sick, I'd honestly also prefer to take a sick leave, but as a good boy I don't want to lie and would prefer to use this excuse when I need it more.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 09:18 AM
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I missed it :(
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 09:13 AM
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I used to have this classic short haircut with a bit of hair rising on one side.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 08:37 AM
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Morning! Not good, brother, not good
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 08:13 AM
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Moss lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 02:39 PM
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Noooo
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 02:32 PM
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Ok you must send me a pick when you done
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 01:51 PM
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I scared them :(
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 01:32 PM
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Yeah good luck with that. We can't even convience politicians that insulting men's height is bad. Which should be so obvious I legit think these people are brain damaged.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 12:16 PM
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Women 100%.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 12:13 PM
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I usually do 36/40 or play until I no longer have fun. There are too many games to play and too little time for it :(
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 09:42 AM
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I got baited into Winter Orb, went with Occultist. So far it is ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 09:35 AM
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Same, what's your build?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 09:13 AM
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Did you enjoy your vacation?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 08:55 AM
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I am literally the kindest person here. Was I really too mean to you all this time?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 08:48 AM
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I did not sleep well and some poor blue pill person will feel my rage the moment they will post their takes here. Be warned.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 08:05 AM
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Something like this https://preview.redd.it/rihg94vtgnfh1.jpeg?width=960&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e8be2fb7f98c4a4013bae05213b52df3e55b0fdd
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 10:25 PM
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you can, or you can dm me not going to read all comments
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 04:36 PM
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have a link?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 03:46 PM
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No one said this ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 02:42 PM
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I don't want any credit. Women allowed systems to established just as much as they participated in establishing. There was a system with pros and cons for both genders, now there are no pros for men. Trying to frame it as some justice for history is just stupid. The point of my comment was to show you that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 01:54 PM
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Well how is it different from you erasing women's agency and blaming men for building systems that were built long before we were born even?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 01:17 PM
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I went with 5 of my women friends to a regular strip club, it was fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 10:54 AM
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It's always interesting watching women point to men women gave birth to, educated and enforced for generations then call the consequences "misogyny".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 10:41 AM
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I have an itch to share a picture to get some unbiased opinions but I am resisting.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 11:48 PM
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My hair is now shoulder length. Every day a new record. I need to cut it chin length again. Or I can cut it back short, which will probably increase my chances with ladies. But damn it I like long hair. I am going to Jesusmax, maybe cut short after I turn 33 though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 09:11 PM
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Let's just make something clear. I disagree with your definition of consent in the post. And most of the time the topic of "being used for sex" is brough up when men lose interest in women after having sex with them. Not like putting a gun to her head and ask for consent. Let's say I met someone and went on a date. It went well, we ended up in my place. Making out and things get heated. Now, the experienced and confident man will continue escalating things unless a woman directly stops. I, on th…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 05:36 PM
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Under an ethical model of consent, the goal isn't simply to get a yes. It's to create a situation where saying no is genuinely safe. What does it mean? If some women are scared of men by default, do I need to give them a loaded gun or something? Or is it just asking "are you sure?" several times? So many times I effectively ruined my chances by doing this. I wish there was a universal view on things, as long as there is a big (i'd say around 50%) portion of women who are turned off by men who as…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 03:28 PM
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Looks great! My beans died during heatwave right after they started to climb trelis TT There's something fascinating about vines.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 10:59 AM
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No I do not
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 10:09 PM
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It is
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 07:39 PM
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But you see, it's not me, it's not my family In your head, in your head, they are fightin' With their tanks and their bombs And their bombs and their guns In your head, in your head, they are cryin' This is reference to me being drunk where street musicians are and mevrealising 60% of my routine is what street performancers play
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 07:07 PM
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Imagine waiting all day for posts and this is what i get. Boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 02:29 PM
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I thought so but now i think it might be someone from ppd. Who is the most suspicious men robber here?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 01:41 PM
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Someone stole my protein milkshake from the fridge.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 01:31 PM
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Meh, I'd agree if people were susceptible to logical reasoning and acceptine downsides of their decisions. They are not. They will twist everything to their advantage and everyone who disagrees is their enemy. Feel free to use whatever you want, but keep in mind that people agree or disagree with you only if they think the same, not because of some clever gotcha. Ideologies switch, priorities shift, words taken back and contracts don't mean shit. We are in free for all era.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 01:24 PM
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Just a nightclub with sopecific dresscode. Nothing too crazy :) Thanks! It takes 1-2 weeks. I hate the sun.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 12:32 PM
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Two! I wanted to try to get into kinky club tonight but i have a nasty sunburn. Well, another time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 12:20 PM
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It's afternoon and me and my coworker loaded 10l of beer in the fridge. Going to start at 4 or 5 pm
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 11:44 AM
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Yeah, some of my friends think it is very important for me to know that they would never date a man my height. It's not like I want to date them either, but shit hurts, why reinforce my biggest insecurity. Could have never seen them the same and eventually drifted apart to acquaintances.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 11:23 AM
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That's sad. I always try to list my achievements to make myself feel better, but I'd rather be a mess with vibrant dating life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 08:01 AM
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I do this sometimes. In general on concerts there are close to zero single women. So if you watch a single women long enough, her boyfriend appears with drinks or snacks. I once approached a couple of girls standing next to me. One went for beer or to the bathroom and was missing some greatest hits. I told the second one: "You friend is missing out", she said it's her daughter. I got her number later but she did not use any apps, I tried calling oncem, no one pciked up and I gave up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 09:40 PM
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I don't want it, just saying how it was. I was earning more so it was not a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 04:36 PM
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Thank cici <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 03:46 PM
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1) presence, company, intimacy, in my past relationships also financial and physical contributions (less than me but still) - basic normal things 2) in early stages more reasurance that they are into me and not just allow me to prove my worth or something, more initiative, more appreciation Basically when 2) does not happen, the relationship does not last. Not that deep.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 03:45 PM
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Adults should be able to take care of themselves. Since I can do this just fine, I don't expect anyone to do this for me. However, if you have kids, you can't just come home tired and have a negroni with pipe for dinner. Someone has to cook dinner that ideally enough for breakfast. This is something both my parents did and I only recently learnt to appreciate. I guess women complain when the burden falls on them because of their gender. Which is fair, but I don't think it happens often anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 01:49 PM
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Hello, decently less attractive women! May I have some spare sex? https://i.redd.it/xqdffbw7ezeh1.gif
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 01:27 PM
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Yeah, and they don't shower. And hate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 01:21 PM
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As a short men I don't exclude any women based on her height. If I was obese I'd expect myself to be accepting of obese women too. I am pretty much open to older women but you overestimate their desires to date younger men who are not hot. Fair is fair, but don't mix things together.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 12:52 PM
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You'd think that, but every time I express my interwst in average women, people here jump at me with census data of all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 12:45 PM
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While I agree in general, it is usually brought up as a lazy assumption about why a man struggles with dating. Having friends does not mean you have better chaces in dating, not having friends indicates that there can be some correlation with not having dating success. But not having dating success does not mean a person has no friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 11:13 AM
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Don't bother, it's just the same broken record at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 09:21 AM
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Some people have no tact :(
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 09:02 AM
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It's gym, it's not exactly a speed dating event. I go early in the morning and most people there are old. I am so sleepy still I don't really give a fuck. Even in gym's mixed sauna, there is one woman that often goes at the same time as me, and she is attractive, but I will nevet show it in any way. The dude left bevause he had stomach problmes, the worst thing you can do is pulling weight with upset tummy :D
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 09:01 AM
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Kudos for posting a picture, I don't think i would. Either i confirm my fears or as you said fish for compliments that will not really change anything in how I feel. But i hope my words gave you at least some comfort. Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 08:43 AM
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How?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 08:41 AM
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You really created a post because men don't stare at you in public?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 08:35 AM
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The nosering probably, I try not to generalize by appearence much, but I'd assume you have some cool nerdy hobbies like dnd or metal music. That's the vibe I get.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 08:35 AM
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I'd definitely be happy if we matched. You look cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 08:04 AM
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Thanks <3 Your medals are the reason to type first 3 messages here :) Oh, I am greatly exaggerate my addiction (i hope) but yeah, I should drink a bit less.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 08:58 PM
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yeah, those on the plate are cooked, they double in size :D
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:56 PM
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I honestly think 80% of the problem started with smartphones, algorithms, and the focus on digital interactions and social clout over just having fun in person around other people. Do you think it affects both genders equally?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:55 PM
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thanks, and taste good, ate 3 and I am fuuulll more like dumplings
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:31 PM
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\m/ Dough: Flour ... 400-450 g Kefir (warm) ... 250 g Sour cream … 50 g Salt ... ½ tsp Sugar ... 1 tbsp. Baking soda ... ¾ tsp Then berries and sugar.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:23 PM
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Need to share me cooking my favorite summer dish <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:19 PM
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Was there today morning and still sober brother <3
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:14 PM
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Survivor bias
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:13 PM
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Stacy alert.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 06:04 PM
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Because your original point originates from men taking negatively women's claim to "sense personality traits". Now you are saying well sometimes they do sometimes they don't. Like every human being? So why claiming being personality detectors, have you heard men saying it? If yes, please, call them out too. Fine, I admit, it's hypocritical. Do you expect me to just sit on cuck chair and wait before all women get to learn with guys more attractive than me and be glad if I will be chosen afterward…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 04:58 PM
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I recognised you now. No, tried feeld I think
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 04:49 PM
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I am into metal and punk. People there are usually older, less women and those few are already with partners. I will try to investigate other spaces, but i always feel a bit creepy. Like, I can't even say nooo I am not a weird single guy that came to look for women, cause I am actually. In general I have no problem approaching people but I prefer to have some pretext before I approach. In a jazz bar for example I can ask for fire in intermission. cute song
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 04:46 PM
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That women are prone to halo efffect but rarely acknowledge it. Same with women. Yet if a man uses his past negative experiences he will be called misogynist or toxic. Let's just say, I want to be a part of learning experience too. As a student and as a lesson. This is life, not everything is going to work out. Dating in general is fun, as long as there are no crimes, kids, or something like that. I am sorry, "layer" is "player" or is it a new slang I am not familiar with? Because you typed it t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 04:40 PM
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I mean, I am just considering all possibilities. I veeery rarely meet 5ft tall women here. Most are my height +-. And I in general rarely see single women on events that I go. Good for you though, if you need 4th hit me up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 04:32 PM
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I'd argue work in general is a bad place to date. I mean, say I travel to other country. Is meeting someone there somehow magically easy? Can I pretend I am a tourist in a place where I live and meetsomeone here? I don't want to be long distance. Are these questions weird? I am genuinely confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 04:29 PM
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I am short.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 04:24 PM
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I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 04:22 PM
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When I moved to where I am I was active in meetup places, but they are men dominated and women constantly complain that they don't want to be hit on there and as a good boy I listen. Maybe I should return to meetups, I decided to focus on maintining closer deeper friendships instead and it was a good call, but it was almost two years ago, so maybe I can check out what's going there now.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 04:18 PM
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I can, I don't meet people to have these conversations with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 04:12 PM
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In my work there are 4 women for 52 men. 2 of them are married. School is over almost 10 years ago. I tried basically all friends of friends. Did not vibe with any of them unfortunately. But it was like, 2 or 3. Traveling? How is this suppose to work? Family is far away. Online does not work. I will try again soon maybe just to destroy whatever recovered in my self esteem. Have no idea what a Hallmark movie is. Sounds american.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 04:11 PM
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Oh I would definitely date me. Why not. I am pretty fun to be with and sexually curious. Oh and music taste... uuummmm.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 04:06 PM
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Please tell me how people naturally meet and develop feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 04:05 PM
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Sometimes it is obvious for everyone else except the woman in question. Depends on how hot the guy is. Sure there are differences, but in general the thing that most women "have to learn from experience" is that hot and excited guy who does not want to put a label on relationship is probably not the best partner material. This is as old as time. Another point is that women often make wrong conclusions. Correct me if I am wrong but you don't withold sex until X amount of dates to vet bad men out,…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 04:04 PM
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Will not dig into it much, but I really wonder what are the actions to blame? If someone goes on dates but never gets a second, sure, something is wrong. But if someone never gets a first date? Is there a point at which you'd agree that some people have legitimate struggles in modern dating world that are not results of their actions or personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 03:45 PM
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because of their own actions or lack of action Or their looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 03:40 PM
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Men view women as some sort of ultimate prize, something to win, to show status. At some point it becomes practivally impossible to meet people and let feelings develop naturally. When dating is set up as competition where women are the judges, is it realy weird to see their desire as a reward? Even if it isn't by intention. That's just a reaction to being constantly told that we are single because of out personalities and how women can smell bad qualities. That's it. When this is no longer the …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 03:39 PM
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Depends, they have some rules about post flairs. Like if you make a debate you use debate flair. No problem and welcome :)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 03:30 PM
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in App you need to open the sub, then click on 3 dots button in right upper corner, then you will see "edit flair"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 03:17 PM
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They will but if they have a link to the post. But completely new people won't find the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 03:13 PM
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yeah, the post itself is removed, but they did not lock it so we can still comment you should set up user flair, is you are using app just go inside sub reddit and find it there
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 02:58 PM
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the post was removed, maybe you see it instead somehow?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 02:57 PM
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yes and I can see the comment
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 02:38 PM
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true
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 02:35 PM
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Thanks for recommendations.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 02:32 PM
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Yeah, we argued a lot ever since I joined here.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 02:31 PM
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Oh no, she won't do it. But I thought we are arguing in good faith here but we are like a dysfunctional online family of sorts. Apparently not and some people actually dislike me. So I wanted to see what others think.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 02:29 PM
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Aww <3 I like you too :) I will not tell, trying to act like an adult and like I am not sad about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 02:20 PM
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I will just merge the branches. You keep using nuts and bolts metaphore. So by definition you separate gender roles and assign sets of correcsponding behaviours. How should I behave, what should I chase or not? What should women chase or not? Let's not talk about household responsibilities. Just focus on dating and romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 02:13 PM
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Protection should help, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 01:51 PM
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Aww <3 It goes surprisingly better than I expected :)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 01:48 PM
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Fine, hands stuff it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 01:44 PM
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Bro I can't even get a date, do you think I care about family dynamics? I will do whatever I can for my future family. My mom iss practically in charge of family and my father operates sewing machine for us, so I have not lived in gender divided household anyway. But they got together young as it was common back then, they did not have to build careers first, navigate online dating, shit like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 01:42 PM
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If men chooses not to have it good for him, I don't talk about him, I talk about men who want but don't get it. And don't tell me about women standards, I know them better than you lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 01:37 PM
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You are rage baiting at this point, you can't be serious. You forgot shower.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 01:29 PM
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by the amount of requests we may get....okay but that's not a benefit it makes it harder. And now let's say a woman gets a lot of requests....speaking to all of them is impossibly it's frowned upon by many...it doesn't make it easier This denial needs to be studied. How does it make it harder? Because you need to put in work to filter your options? Do you and other women just want to magically manifest ideal compatible partner without doing anything for it? Now imagine you have zero options. You…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 01:28 PM
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Do you agree with her comment? Do you understand why I called it out?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 01:20 PM
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I don't know. Makes sense but from my point of view I see almost no difference in how attractive men and most of women act. But maybe you right and this fuels the gender war thing. What is your view regarding gender roles?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 01:15 PM
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Fair enough, but it was a responce to an individual, not gender as a whole. I just mentioned that some women tend to do exactly what that person did.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 01:00 PM
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Women don't benefit from looks in dating too? Tell me this: is it easier to be pretty as a man or as a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 12:56 PM
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For last 50 years the message is that men and women are the same and can do the same things. But when the topic is about relationships suddenly women are so different and can't help it. Could it be because you enjoy your position?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 12:55 PM
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I don't know why you wrote this. All I said was that when women talk about dating struggles their dating lifes are still much more interesting than my. That's it. I don't care about any other issues. We can discuss them, but why?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 12:53 PM
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? the only thing that defines if man has casual sex or not is his desire to have it? The proof is that men who struggles to get dates in their youth somehow marry later in life. If they had more partners in youths, sure, I'd believe that. If the main reason why a woman wants to be with you is convenienve, it does. Ok? being "alpha" has nothing to do with kids, in this context it is just attractive sexually sucessful guy. We are not pack animals, so don't take the title literally. Well, damn, wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 12:44 PM
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Awww thanks <3 I like you too and who knows, we might meet for a coffee one day with all your journeys :)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 12:38 PM
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that's good enough
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 12:04 PM
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Do what? Are they dating apps?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 10:39 AM
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Then what does it say about men who don't have casual sex? Women going for men they are less attracted to later in life when other features play bigger role is what AF/BB is. Yes, but still most things are easier if you have a partner who can support you, especially when you want kids. Weird argument. Women say they are attracted to who they are attracted to because of biology, but if they don't have kids does it mean they lie? Ltr works differently than hookups, I agree. The thing is, some peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 10:38 AM
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Thanks bro <3
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 10:27 AM
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So I had a shocking revelation that some people here actually sincerely dislike me. Holding back tears at least until I can get back home. But meanwhile, since I am already down, if you also dislike me or like, let me know.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 10:21 AM
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For me the only time an image does something is when i have already seen the man being alive. Now I am confused. Should the first picture be a video? If someone has slow internet or disabled autoplay then my first picture will be an awakwar stop frame...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 10:16 AM
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safety measures so could relax, and confidence This I understand. social skills, understanding of men This sounds like red pill for women. If it's not too hard, could you give at least one example of "understanding of men" and how it improved your dating life?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 10:05 AM
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They do and I had a couple, no effect. There is no statistics but I seriously doubt that even 5% saw anything on profile except the first picture and height.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 10:03 AM
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I mean just putting effort into making yourself more attractive. Well and building wealth too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 09:44 AM
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First, I am feeling generous today, so let me share some new lines with you: . . . . . Feel free to use them to make paragraphs so it is easier to read. Second, again, this is mostly about romantic life. And attention does not equal opportunity, but no attention equal no opportunity. And you completely ignore the psychological effect that contant rejections and feeling invisible has on men. Do you think it does not affect other areas of life? Honestly I agree about professional part. Now I feel …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 09:42 AM
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When people say "work" it does not always actually mean work a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 09:24 AM
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What was the point? And I thought you said you are not attractive. Which is why I was confused about your "issues". When you comment under a debate post, it means you disagree with OP. Which part do you disagree with and how is your comment making an argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 09:17 AM
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Only problem is actually unattractive women has a lot of issues... You start with this and go on about your boyfriends and how you are so pretty employers don't want to hire you. Like come on, I can listen to you and sympathise with failed relationship and mistreatment, but these are issues for which most men here will sacrifice a hand for. Have some tact. Only problem is actuallu poor people have a lot of issuess... I hate it when I need to transder hundreds thousands abroad and can't afford a …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 09:05 AM
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No one said that dating is supposed to be easy in terms of always getting what you want. The difference is you get to particiapte in this process. Men have to earn the right to do so. I don't get hired because I'm to feminine or a distraction I was literally told that by an employer who interviewed me And unless it happened in some muslim country 20 years ago, I am sorry, don't believe this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 09:00 AM
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I always enjoy how women try so hard to write essays on how they too have it hard in dating and then it is "my first bf... my second bf... ooh everyone wants to sleep with me...".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:52 AM
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Really curious about that glow up. Sarcastic me wants to say that it was just you learning how to install dating apps. Lets take a school where it's blatantly obvious. That's a bad example. School is an isolated environment full of kids who only closer to the end of it begin being interested in dating. Closed environment force groups and hierarchy to form. Many popular kids struggle outside the school while shy kids can have "glow up" by simple getting a fresh start.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:43 AM
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Seems like a personality match as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:34 AM
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u/Lemon_gecko your boyfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:22 AM
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Where??
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:12 AM
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Men don't lack standards, they just focus on more important things.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:01 AM
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??? That's the opposite of what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 06:59 AM
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Men don't. When you find most women attractive you can focus on other things. But when you find most men ugly you have to judge them on merit. Some will never even be considered at all, so it's not like it is a complete cheat code that beats ugliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 06:36 AM
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I was sarcastic. Truth is we are just pixels here. You an like or dislike pixels, but it has little to do with actual attraction. You said yourself that you'd have never used an app with no pictures, so why act like your personality aproval means anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 06:33 AM
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I think OP is only talking about romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 06:21 AM
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Even me? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 06:12 AM
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Here before the most empathetic gender explain us that it is our personalities that are unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 06:00 AM
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Not gonna be the first one thinking about Patrick <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 03:54 PM
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During my next one gonna think about you ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 03:53 PM
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Sport is one of my hobbies, I compete in amatuer/veteran league. But there are better things to do uf the goal is health. Traumas happen and my knees will hate me soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 10:31 AM
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Define fit. I am in good shape more or less, not overweight, but not Thor either. When light is good 3 ab can be seen. But it's not like it was ever a issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 10:08 AM
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I always knew I am not super attractive, but I also thought I am not super ugly either. But apparently if you call yourself average you should either have success with average women or admit your personality sucks, so I'd rather call myself ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 09:56 AM
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Thanks! I thought I should just give up. I almost never meet people who don't get my sitcom style sarcasm, but this is a new job and it was awwwkwaaard.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 09:51 AM
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Is there a money back guarantee?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 09:35 AM
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What's up? I have finally made hr lady laugh. For 2 months she did not get any of my jokes which made me more self conscious than having no matches on tinder. I put this in my 3 months milestone so I am happy I did it even earlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 09:20 AM
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I'm not going to yap, and I'm not going to vent 😶‍🌫️ Well, it all comes down to power. It's like saying people allowed billionaires to screw them, or citizens of dictatorships let their oppression happen. Sure there is some truth to that, but who wants to die for revolution? Not me. What about you? There is hope, it's just not about going back to happy days, those are all gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 09:17 AM
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It's not one to one, but I don't quit a job before securing a new one.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 10:03 PM
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Good, you are a big girl, i know you know what to do. But this on reddit is not it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 05:06 PM
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That sucks, block him to not get upset again. Then again, i propose a healthier distraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 04:58 PM
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Bro, are you ok? Did something happen with your boyfriend? If not call him, get some snacks ad watch a movie. Put the phone down for a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 04:47 PM
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How is it not? Look, again, I like you, but don't treat me like an idiot, ok? There is limit to everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 02:28 PM
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19, earned from sport during school, my first job was my career start
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 02:22 PM
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I mean... it also has looks part. And just because there is no circke yet, come on, jerking is right there. I love OP but she deserves a whack for this blatant trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 02:17 PM
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I am lazy, if you want I can go ballistic. But it's all bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:59 PM
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Like, my list of requirements for a hookup: has a vagina 🤭 (optional) not a complete bitch 👉👈 is 18 years to 18 years 2 months old (no oldies!!!!) has at least 5 felonies (sorry but can't change what I am attracted to 😵‍💫) And so on...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:47 PM
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I will get banned. It's gonna be a mirror to yours, but in caricature form. And humour only allowed when men are the bottom of the joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:39 PM
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In Dune that was written 50 years ago described the same problems of bureaucracy that we are dealing with now. Unfortunately there is no change without a big traumatic event trigger.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:26 PM
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I will write "dominant in bed" on my forehead.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:24 PM
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😉
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:19 PM
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Ah, the first part is hard to get grammatically. I agree, I hate status quo. Basically every system is rotting, but because no one can imagine anything different, we keep running on life support until everything collapses.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:19 PM
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I asked to worship chaos today and you complied! Good job. Maybe I should make a troll post too...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:14 PM
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Ah?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 12:43 PM
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Is martyrdom the only form of resistance?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 11:56 AM
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That's another good question. If I answer what I think about it I will get banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 11:50 AM
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Because men were systematically bullied and shamed for advocating about their rights. "Oh, you are against draft? Well looks like you are ok with russian killing and raping ukranian women! And then these pathetic males complain about loneliness pfff, no real men left".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 11:29 AM
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So you are not compatible. That's life. Do you even want ltr? Or they want and you don't? You accuse me and others of not listening, but you don't talk about your actual issues then how can we?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 11:05 AM
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Worse of course. Oh, enjoy your vacation!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 10:28 AM
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I watched Odyssey and slept for 5 hours, but overall good. You?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 09:49 AM
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Men want someone i simply refuse to be. Do you have any problems attracting men? From what you said earlier you have many matches, men in dms and casual partners. How is your rebellion against men's desires manifesting?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 08:45 AM
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Let's worship chaos today
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 08:22 AM
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No race-baiting
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 06:23 AM
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How?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 11:10 PM
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But good to know that be better for you means jawline
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 11:06 PM
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Does black magic to eyes and lips though
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 10:57 PM
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why does it matter? makeup too, yet your kind applies it daily
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 10:55 PM
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Idk, I don't know what else to try to be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 10:54 PM
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Will you pay for my surgeries?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 10:52 PM
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Fair enough, I don't take this quest seriously too. So far I separate all bottle caps from bottles and hide them somewhere, my contribution to the environment crisis.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 10:52 PM
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You've already posted this comment the first time OP posted the post. See I am listening. With my eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 10:43 PM
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have you tried it? I could not get back money when I was scammed without blocking all my cards and opening an investigaiton.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 10:25 PM
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Exactly. But I can wish for the world to end instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 09:54 PM
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Is dating not important? Is feeling inadequate not affecting people?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 09:54 PM
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Send money via any app?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 09:53 PM
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See I frame it differently. I don't think modern women can change, they are too far gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 06:42 PM
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Because it is pretty important thing and affects many men. Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 06:41 PM
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I don't want women to lower their stadards, I want their standards to be lower.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 06:36 PM
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This is not about me, but I understand why people are upset about other people's choices. We are living in society, aren't we?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 06:35 PM
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When people are unhappy about something they want to do something.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 06:31 PM
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I am from a thirld world country where even street vendors accepted cards. Progress is unstoppable. Just takes time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 06:19 PM
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How low are we talking about? Beggars?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 06:12 PM
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Come on, funny guy, get a joke
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 06:09 PM
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Lmao 🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 05:57 PM
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It's not bad, never had to download something, most links open in browser. I'd ban cash, waste of time and paper.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 05:55 PM
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What do you want men to do instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 05:54 PM
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Dating profiles are a chance to show off your personality It is not. Like, come on. You show your picture and some numbers, the rest can possibly discqualify you, but it's not like a woman does not find me attractive, but swiped right because I filled the "2 truths one lie" prompt in a perfect way.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 01:56 PM
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Your honor, I have a screenshot that showes that my defendand has indeed ASKED FOR A HOOKUP.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 01:54 PM
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if we're talking about someone who doesn't have a birth defect It is not enough anymore in a world with dating appa. Sis, this is what we try to make you and your kind understand. Like you live in a different reality and you can't possibly imagine that bad things could happen to normal average people. Nooo for you worldview they must be bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 01:19 PM
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Lillth would be a pretty fun judge. Just imagine her in a court room be like: "Hmm, I see you prepared your defence with argumets and evidence... Kinda sus, an innocent person won't display such victim mentality. Guilty!"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 01:15 PM
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You don't know anyone's personality in gym. No one know yours there too. Gym is in general not a good place for dating. If you are not trying to make men come to you and say: "Hey, you look hot, would you like to drink something with me?" then why even dress sexy? Like what is the logic. Not that i am necessary againt it, but I wish women owned it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 11:57 AM
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Sure, but then you have to accept that people will stare at you, and men that you don't like will also approach you. Men are not wearing underwear in gym. If they do, and then they complain that people are staring, sure, call them out too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 11:30 AM
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PPD assemble
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 09:12 AM
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Yep, and as far as I remember, our first interraction on this sub was somewhat similar: who wants to be the first one to bury the hatchet. It's been 300 years and hatchets are still flying.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 09:11 AM
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It's really funny how OP wrote all this and basically confirmed everything for what women are being called out. There is a semi-easy way to end it - make gender-segregated gyms a norm. Men only gyms are illegal where I live. Women only are fine. Make it make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 08:59 AM
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If you want to be heard you have to start listening first. I tried, but it never was my turn, so I gave up on it. Maybe you should too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 08:30 AM
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When a finance bro complains you about stock market but you are not sure if you have enough money to eat this week is it really lack of EQ if you still would rather be in finance bro's place?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 08:19 AM
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Sometimes it's like we speak two different languages. We feel the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 07:57 AM
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Not going to argue with this. There is no way we can have a meaningful debate cause we are both biased.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 04:58 PM
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No one cares about it, women cares more about what other women think about their man. Men's respect is just a bonus, not the goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 04:54 PM
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I don't care about other men. I don't discuss my dating life with men. I just know that some men are desired and I am not, if no men were desired I'd feel more normal. If you were physically incapable of running, would you go to a doctor or would you be like "well I don't compete with others so who cares right"? I think it's unfair to claim men don't desire/want the individual woman when we talk about general gender dynamics. Like, who am I suppose to desire right now? My married coworker? No, I…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 04:42 PM
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I just moved to an apartment with a balcony last year, experimenting a little, but don't get too deep into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 04:13 PM
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I was thinking about it but decided to go wth regular pots. Maybe next year.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 04:04 PM
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Since I started to work from the office most of the time I don't really eat at home anyway. Apricots are nice, I've just satisfied my sweet cherry cravings for can get some too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 03:43 PM
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Well for social creatures wanting to be at least as good as others is normal. I don't see why wanting to have sex can be both because of pleasure and because of social proof. Afterwards, if you want to have sex, but can't get it, something is worse about you compared to people who can, would you disagree? Women do sleep with men for validation, if someone uses me for sex, well, I just can't imagine it as a bad thing no matter how hard I try, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 03:39 PM
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Looks good! It is kinda fun to make use of my balcony this way :) <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 03:10 PM
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Not so sure about that <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 01:19 PM
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Sure, I don't think it is necessary about being above or below the woman specifically. It's more about ranking among other men. If a very attractive dude acts as a player, well women can see him as immature, but in general they are ok with it. If a guy like me will act as a player there will be 10-20 reddit posts created about an ugly dude not deserving his "chance".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 01:18 PM
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Salad is still growing, and bell peppers are green, so for now just east them as is, but want to make a simple salad out of my balcony :)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 01:12 PM
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Me eating good this summer <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 10:34 AM
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Because traditional became less likely with progressive changes. So it is reasonable to assume that the preferences evolved as well. But they did not.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 09:45 PM
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Just date the right women for you is an empty statement. Obviously if men could they would have. Women don't progress bevause they don't feel like they need to. This is unfair. Evdn if their desicions don't directly hard someone. So calling out hypicrisy is fair. Even if your stance is technically morally correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 11:43 AM
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You just keep saying technically right things and refusing to have a nuanced debate. Fine, enjoy having correct world view, what can i say.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 11:32 AM
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What about those who does not feel it is right for them and what they feel is right for them imposes difficulties on others? Is it fair that one's desires considered bad and other's good? I'd rather there been some middle ground to keep all more or less happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 11:08 AM
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Fair, but it is a privildged position to have the power to walk away. I don't think true progression is possible without giving up some advantages of old ways. No matter if they are pushing against anyone else's rights or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 10:50 AM
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You forgot /s
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 10:31 AM
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Finally someone who can understand my Tleilaxu references.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 08:09 AM
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And what is the correct definition?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 08:06 AM
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They don't. Some are lucky but most are not. Haven't you heard about male loneliness epidemic? I saw how my friends use dating apps, it is the most black pill experience. And let me ask you a question. Do you really think that social media and dating apps did no effect on what women find attractive? Like your honest opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 08:34 PM
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Get some is a stupid metric of success. So I had a gf and couple of hookups 4 years ago, I can't complain about dating now? No, if apps don't work, if real life does not happen, there is something going on. You can'y comprehend this because as a woman you have no problems finding dates, so to your mind it must be something wrong is a person if they can't. Modern "just eat cake".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 08:25 PM
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Sure, go ahead and make it personal. In what way do you think I am not average. Let's find out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 08:19 PM
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Yes, but there is a nuance. I, as a man, find vast majority of women (in my age bracket) attractive. Women find cast majority of men unattractive. So they are called out for it. How is it hard to understand? I don't want women to lower their standards, I want their standards to be lower. Ask yourself why you can't see yourself having sex with an average men, compare him to the men you can see yourself sleeping with. Why do you think an average women don't find an average men attractive? At least…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 08:17 PM
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No one is against of wanting an attractive partner, what women find attractive is a problem and is rightfully called out as shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 08:05 PM
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You can't say it should be considered norm if you find like 5% of men attractive. It's like your kid reject 95% of food you cook. Do you think it is normal and it's ok to only eat what you like? Or something is wrong with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 07:58 PM
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but maybe what you find attractive may raise some eyebrows Not really. Men find all sorts of women attractive. Just don't be an extreme end of anything and take care of yourself. That's it. This is enough for most men. What women find attractive is extreme end of physical characteristics, hence the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 07:25 PM
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Feel free to complain about too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 02:11 PM
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Fair enough, just keep in mind that when you have dozens of options at any moment it is easier to enforce boundaries. Took me years to stop trying winning people who are not interested back. Truth is, some are, and many women consider this sort of courting dance where male pursue her. But again, just move on right? Still sucks, maybe if there were no gendered exectations things would be easier fo me. Hence complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 02:08 PM
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Remember you complained about guys being bored in DMs? Basically when you try not to be boring and have to lead conversation it feels like yoh are entertaining a woman who will then judge if you are worthy of her time or not. I prefer mutual interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:59 PM
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We have this discussions many times. At best, if you manage to convience that this situation could be reasonable taking as something negative, people here will say "just leave lol". Which is correct, in a way. But they don't want to have any meaningful discussion about the nature of situation and emotions behind it. When you get a top 1% badge here you also get a keyboard with keys that instantly print "entitled", "nobody owes you anything", "well the just leave", "it is your personality".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:14 PM
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I have 3 monitors and I am gonna use em. I also play guitar much less than I'd like. Eeeh, it's pretty niche, let's just say it is techincally a martial art. Some online like WoW and PoE. Some offline, like finished cyberpunk and started palworld now. It's fine to ask questions but share sane things about you too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:02 PM
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I play videogames, guitar, go to gym and do sport in veteran league, also I am a big enjoyer of live music and hops based beverages. Work in IT
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 11:51 AM
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I am here mostly during work as a distraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 11:42 AM
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Young boys will go for Mercy main girls, but real men are not scared of Widow mains women. Did I understand the post?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 10:47 AM
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I hope I at least go somewhere, not in circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 09:35 PM
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Ehhhh, and the wanderer resumes his journey.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 09:11 PM
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PC is the best, even cheaper one should run SV just fine. Never completed perfection cause I don't like collecting nuts, but maybe this time...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 03:30 PM
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I am waiting for 1.7 to sink another 50-100 hours
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 03:23 PM
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Ok? So it is what, lets say 5 relationships and 4*1.5=6 in between. 11 is not much.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 03:15 PM
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Your context is about sex, my counter is about sex, don't know what is unclear.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 03:13 PM
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Now my hair is shoulder long, it is a little curly and very fluffy, idk how dyed fluffy hair will look ><
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 03:12 PM
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Vast majority of high libido men can't just go out and have sex. And many women are not comfortable with casual sex but enjoy it in relationship. Which is quite logical, considering how scared of men women claim they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 03:09 PM
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I explained myself multiple times: claims that men and women are different implies it is fair to critique women for something men are not critiqued for. But people call it out as mysoginy and forget that men and women are different instantly. So I am asking you, are you prepared to hold your position when it is not comfortable to you? If yes, I have no questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 03:07 PM
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well, but you saw their balls, kinda win in my book
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 02:57 PM
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Context to what? I did not understand your use of this word both times.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 02:57 PM
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Why do you care about my balls?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 02:56 PM
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I did not get what you disagree with exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 02:55 PM
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How is it stupid? You can't claim that you need a job. If you get money without a job why would you need one? Just call it what it is. Same way you can claim that you don't need dates/relationships and I will say that living is much harder without them. So what is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 02:54 PM
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Mods, is this circle jerking?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 02:51 PM
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a woman with a body count of 3 people at the age of 30. Of course yalls libidos are wildly mismatched You can be hyper sexual with low body count. You know you can have sex with a single person many times, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 02:50 PM
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You can critique, just don't use the same argument both ways: - men are treating women differently, uh, mysoginy - well duh men and women are different, what did you think bruh See how this is contradicting?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 02:44 PM
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Agree to disagree. If you want to act as someone who is "good" you should hold yourself to the same standards you expect from others, not twist them every time with "but it's different". Men do "muh biology" arguments all the time. Half of red pill had biology reasoning behind it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 02:37 PM
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My point is that you can't scream Well….women aren’t men. But then scream hypocrisy and double standards when different treatment is not to your liking. Either you want to be equal or not. You can't just pick what you want depending on situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 02:33 PM
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No and I have no idea how steroids work.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 02:28 PM
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For how long? If it is for 2-4 months I will manage.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 02:26 PM
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going around trying to devalue as many women people as possible Is basically modern world. My point if not that is good or bad, point is this is not hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 02:25 PM
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Again, when you generalize it is a nuanced context based take, when men do it they are bigots and deangerous. This is hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 02:21 PM
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Well….women aren’t men. This sounds like bigotry. Men are different and women are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 02:14 PM
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People voicing their complains and frustrations is normal, it is you who label them terrorists and use it to complain back. But you complain about bad people, so you are a good one right?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 02:03 PM
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Then we agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:57 PM
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Hundreds of peope are run over every day. I don't care and you don't care, but I don't use it as a justification to shitpost every day. If you truly don't like men just don't post about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:53 PM
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Do you think if someone complains about a certain gender it means they hate it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:51 PM
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Do you agree with the OP?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:43 PM
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A lot of? Really? Come on. Far far away from "international problem". More men kill themselves because of women. But that's ok because was not direct, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:37 PM
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Do you think men and women are different or should have the same views on sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:34 PM
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I knooow, I've already grew my hair, which, objectively, made me uglier, but more happy with myself. I want to experiment, but I think I will look bad and basically turn my chances to date someone to practically zero (I have concernes about my skin issues being highlighted by hair color and hair is messy as is, might look weird colored). But happy for you, really! Happy birthday! (is it today?)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:25 PM
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How?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:24 PM
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Sounds beautiful! I envy women for how it is more acceptable to dye hair colorful.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:15 PM
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Why do you care about men and what they think? We live in socium we form opinions and cast judgment, duh. Answer my question. Is his opinion based? Because men and women are different sexually so we can judge women for something that we praise men for and reverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:12 PM
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You don't need a job and you don't need money. You need food and rood, guess what, food grows in nature and you can sleep under the bridge.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:10 PM
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Well ok, if a man who does not sleep around and does not want to says it is bad when women sleep around but ok when men do. Is it based?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:05 PM
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I have a walking treadmill and a pull up bar. Honestly have been neglecting both due to heat wave and the fact that I come home around 20 and have little desire to excersice.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:04 PM
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Examples are not connected, and in a way I still understand why someone would complain about sluts even if he wants them if they don't choose him. The issue is the hypocrisy with men who want to sleep around and then demand women who don’t sleep around. But men and women are different, no? Where is the hypocrisy? Men love sex, women don't sex, so women who do are weird or something, according to you. So this take is the most logical possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 12:56 PM
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Well….women aren’t men. Especially since women dont have the same hormones nor same satisfaction from sex. But if someone says that being a slut as a man and woman is different, people lose their minds... To answer your point, the reason why people complaining about something is because this something is what they value and can't or don't want to avoid. It's like saying if you don't like politics move to deep forest.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 12:44 PM
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Well women have millennias long amount of makeup content on youtube alone. How often can you experiement with haircuts? Not surprising men want something similar that transform effort and knowledge into result.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 12:21 PM
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Oh I am definitely not making desicions now. Was fishing for people's experience here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 12:14 PM
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As long as height is there sure some women will go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 11:57 AM
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Never been so sure in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 11:39 AM
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I mean, I have a solid 3-4 days per week routine. And obviously with drugs I will commit more.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 11:25 AM
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Define properly
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 11:03 AM
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Nah, not daily. 3 times per week though on average
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 10:24 AM
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Well this age gap is nothing really. Here is what you should do - a bold move that screams confidene. Write a note and hand it to her. Note says "What do you want to do to me?" with the following checkboxes: - Kiss - Fuck - Date - Marry - Just frienship :( and wait for her to give it back.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 10:23 AM
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I actually do have thyme and rosemary because all potato mixes here I don't like. But I only use them when I bake potato.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 10:07 AM
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Boring. Socializing without drinks sucks. If I am stressed at work we literally have alcohol in the office, so i take a beer or two and sit overtime. Idk. It's not like I get wasted, even if I go out it's 3-4 beers tops. Just maybe can do it less often.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 10:05 AM
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what is kratom?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 09:55 AM
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I use specific seasoning packs for specific dishes when I cook them. I know it's lame, but I don't like to think when I can avoid thinking and it works fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 09:54 AM
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Non-Disclosure Agreement?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 09:52 AM
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I tried, worst 2 months of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 09:49 AM
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Let's say ever since covid ended
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 08:52 AM
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Absolutely, but then I knew I will get results in reasonable timeframe, like 2-3 months. And this I can manage.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 08:27 AM
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I tried for a decade. There is always something. Burocratic hell, work, getting sick, bad mental state. I don't think I can last more than 2-3 months of consistency. But yeah, I guess I should just give up and accept my body as is. Maybe this will reduce stress.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 08:17 AM
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Do you have a point?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 07:56 AM
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I think I can focus for 2-3 months if I knew I had gains.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 07:52 AM
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172cm/71kg, I have some muscles and am in a decent shape, but body fat is not low. Arms are thin, abs hidden, shoulders could be better, back is fine more or less.. I go to gym 2-3 times per week, basically every muscle group at least once + press finish every time and one time I do martial arts training, this is mostly legs/cardio. Eat shit and drink, so at least I am not getting in worse shape, just maintain.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 07:45 AM
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1 hour easily transforms into 2 due to logistics, work is 10 hours plus 45 min commute and I already struggle with sleeping as is. I know these are all excuses, but believe me, if I could fit this much gym into my schedule and not kill myself, I would have.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 07:29 AM
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It is and I am not sure if it is worth it. I feel like if wanted to do this I should have done when I was younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 07:21 AM
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Have you done it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 07:20 AM
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Should I just do steroids? I feel like I waste time in gym and I physically can't commit as much as probably required to achieve visible results...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 06:12 AM
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Quick example - entire age gap debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 06:06 AM
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The only thing here to discuss is are you free on friday lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 06:04 AM
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And if they were? Not a hard question.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 10:38 PM
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Do you think fiction villians who want to destroy the world because it is beyond salvation are correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 10:32 PM
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See I don't want to accept this. It is so easy to be not cruel and unfair, but we'd rather play along and find strange ways to deal with it. If he could do it in one go he would have. Just limitations of operation. Ideally he should not have felt the need to change his height to begin with. And he still wanted to do so, it is his body, his right. I am not sure we need a stranger's approval for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 10:17 PM
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Implies there is not adequate height Du kannst mit mir deutsch sprechen
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 10:02 PM
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I am open to the possibility, but I don't understand the mechanism. If it's just venting, there are easier ways to do it. I do think there is a massive conspiracy going on. People think therapy is the solution to all problems and think if they say "go to therapy" is means they care and are good people. There are many issues with which therapy is definitely helpful: addictions, traumatic events, communication and/or relationship problems, helping kids adapt to new environment, etc. You see what i…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 09:45 PM
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Sorry, "just go to therapy" is one of my triggers. It's way to easy to just throw it instead of having a real conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 09:23 PM
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Well I can vent here for free, don't see how therapy suppose to help. I watch Dr. K for years and saw some other therapy sessions recordings. It seems like it helps people with no inner monologue and zero analytics skills. It is far far from a panacea that people consider it to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:47 PM
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That's how people cure problems that can't be dealt with medicine, by talking about them. Ok, will you advice people who experience racism to go to therapy? If your kid is bullied will you just put him in therapy? Or there are cases where we should condemn those who cause harm in the first place? Addictions are different. If I am short pecause I keep cutting my legs off, sure, sign me up, that's insane. Why not try to solve the root of body dysmorphia? What was body positivity for? Did it had no…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:08 PM
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How will therapist help? I am genuenly curious. Like, the problems are real life experience, how talking can change anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 07:07 PM
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"Adequate height" yall are so funny sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 06:51 PM
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See, you youtself promote heightism
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 06:51 PM
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Maybe in your country buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 06:22 PM
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It's not for you to decide. Well which is it? Pick one. You can't switch how you want. Then you should support more LLs, each one will progress the procedure. Experiment: let's imagine there is a pill, you eat it and 50% you get half a foot taller or 50% you die. What would you think about people who go for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 06:21 PM
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Oh right, jumping from 5'4 to 5'9 will help cross magical 6+ feet only threshold? If a girl dates you at 5'9 she is probably ok with 5'4
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 06:15 PM
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Many things here. Average is a perfect candidate for LL because going from short to average does not change anything. Ahso getting a girlfriend suppose to fix his problems? I though loving yourself is more important or something? Why not send women who get boobjobs to therapy too? Is it different? While I never do LL myself I totally get it. Good bait but will be deleted.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 05:31 PM
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That's the dream.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 04:53 PM
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Seriously compare height and hair color? Lmao. Aight I got a warning for looks topic already, no reasons to feed a troll more.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 04:44 PM
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Right, people consider attractive one thing but want to date someone they are not attractive to? You are being pedantic
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 04:23 PM
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I posted a link, what esle do you need?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 04:14 PM
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It actually is. Just did not fit all in a screenshot.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 04:03 PM
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? Are women not people now? https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10508-022-02416-2 enjoy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:56 PM
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I added a screenshot, links are paywalled, I am on mobile so it is hard to solve.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:50 PM
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Totally unpredictable response yawn
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:48 PM
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I don't really care. It's not like there is a study that will make you say "I was wrong, you were right". Nah you will cry that study is bad or biased or something. So why play stupid game just to win stupid prizes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:40 PM
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Maybe when I am home. Feel free to google or use any llm you prefer.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:34 PM
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Women did in any study about this topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:11 PM
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Oh come on, it's 2026, most men I know are good at cleaning and cooking. Arguably better than women I know. Why are we still debating this like it is 1976 or something. Is this the content for our sweet senior PPDers?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 12:48 PM
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I feel you. I regret my university / covid years, i used the fomo as motivation to do more but next age bracket went even worse. The best I can is to focus on positives and thinking that I still have some time left to make up for boring years.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:50 AM
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A friendly marriage for tax reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:13 AM
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You keep mixing topics and it is hard to follow.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:12 AM
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Oh come on, braces compared to LL? BBL i agree, it is a very risky one. I am short and if there was a very exoensive pill that majes you taller, I'd get it, but LL is too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 07:25 AM
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I already pay taxes for somebody else's wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 07:11 AM
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There are redhead slavs too, unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 10:17 PM
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Fuck... was not careful and got sunburned on lower back of legs. Now I have an allergic reaction there and it will take at least a week to heal. Why am I nerfed so much?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 09:55 PM
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At first it is. Then all is fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 05:59 PM
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I try to make you understand what is wrong witj what you said by making equally bad example.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 05:19 PM
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Well if you afraid of men why not transition into one? See how this sounds?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 05:11 PM
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I don't think any "high" standards are about behaviour. If there were no 6 feet tall men, you would have not be like "well you all suck" would you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 05:10 PM
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Keep doubling down... just admit you said a stupid thing and move on, bro. You don't go and suggest women to date women if they are unhappy with men. And if you do it is also wrong. Sexuality is not a switch.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 04:44 PM
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Well if one men thinks like that and this is your proposition then you are still wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 04:38 PM
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There absolutely is objectivity in this matter. I'd say if an average person that fits your other standards will not pass this one, it is a high standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 04:34 PM
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Telling that your standards are too high is pretty fair if they are. The rest is weird, don't want a man don't get one.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 04:19 PM
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You implied it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 04:16 PM
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No matches and I don't meet many women offline.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 04:05 PM
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You suggested it for all men, don't insult our intelligence, come on.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 04:04 PM
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Is there an answer that you will accept? Like what is the point asking, this is personal. I can go to a bakery and ask for the best looking cake, but I actually want the one that tastes the best, but I know that I can't just ask the baker because he can like different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 04:03 PM
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Are you assuming anyone can just become bisexual?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 03:55 PM
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No, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 03:54 PM
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Come on, you know what you said, don't play dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 03:53 PM
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Oh, finally no more of that bs "advice". Thanks a lot!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 03:52 PM
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lose their shit about how women's standards are too high and then fail to answer what do they bring to the table basically But why is it even a question when standards are the topic?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 03:51 PM
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If I have my backpack I bring several candies, gum and on rare occasions slavic dark bread snacks or sunflower seeds to the table. Form a line ladies.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 03:37 PM
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Just excuses and victim complex 💁‍♂️ Second I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 03:35 PM
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If someone actually checks what I bring and is not happy, fair enough. But again, if you feel jaded and you response is to turn shallow of course people will attack you for it. If you think that you bring enough - then tell what it is. I don't want to tell you. Part of it is standard relationshipy things, part of it specific to me and what I and my partners enjoyed and I am not limited to it. So what is the point. There is a talking stage and several dates to find out.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 03:34 PM
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Just go and do something. Wanna earn more than en, go and earn instead of complaining. I disagree, complaining and fixing things that does not affect you directly is what builds society.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 03:16 PM
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? Why don't they show us that a good 80% of women would never consider dating a short guy for the sole reason of him being short? Isn't it plot of Materialists?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 03:14 PM
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I hate the table talk. Like date me and find out. That's the whole point, maybe I bring exactly what you need, but you won't ever know it because I am only taller by X and not 3X or one day my shirt was wrinkled or something. General you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 03:12 PM
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Title
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 02:33 PM
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According to OP it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 01:33 PM
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Well then there is no patriarchy and misogyny did not prevent you from anything. It's just a way to feel like a victim and pretend it's unfair judgement. Let's just go full out on not caring about others. Why should we, right? Sucks to suck, not my problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 12:21 PM
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Don't have this option :(
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 12:11 PM
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I do this too and I am just fall exhausted but can't sleep. This is the worst feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 12:09 PM
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Do you work?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 12:08 PM
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Envy you :)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 12:01 PM
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I think I am getting exhausted from work and have problems with falling asleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 12:01 PM
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Fair, i still have some left, but not really into smoking much.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 09:11 AM
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I am not a girl, what does it change
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 09:10 AM
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I will not be this categorical and for someone with many women friends it will sound weird but I do see OP's point. It is more about boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 09:02 AM
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My 194cm boxer friend told me when we wandered in a shady 'hood in Naples: "If anything I will run, you do you" 🫠 Bro had one job.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 08:49 AM
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With some dried leafs wrapped in paper?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 08:41 AM
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I declare 4 sober days. Well, 5, if we count yesterday. Need to recover a bit. How do you relax without alcohol?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 07:53 AM
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Ooof, I got on Accutane at 14 or 15, so it was easy due to me not drinking back then. I did not know it can be worse with BC and glad it did not matter for me. Before Accutane i tried so many things, I wish i could get it earlier. Sorry about the height comments you received. I never understood this, to me height has nothing to do with attractiveness. If anything, similar height is convenient.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 04:48 PM
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I am glad all work that you put in worked out. This is worthy of respect. Oh I understand acne, I suffered deep acne for years, only some heavy meds helped but I have some scars and just in general not good skin. Have like 5 different things in my daily skincare just to still look worse than most who do nothing. That sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 02:31 PM
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I did not mean "magically" as mockery. I apologize.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 08:44 AM
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Same bro
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 02:26 PM
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Again, I said I assume settling without knowing any other information. Which you refuse to share, which is fine. But if you think you can assume what people are based on who they date why can't I assume based on their dating history as well? Like why be so offended, as if people never settle when they feel like starting a family at a certain age. Sure, it can be a true love story, I don't know you nor your husband nor your story. If it sounded offensive I apologize, it was not my intent. But you…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 02:26 PM
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We should fap more. I used to be more chill when worked from home. Now I am in the office and I am noticably more bitchy. Fucking colleagues should be an acceptable team building excercise. Call HR only if you want them to join.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 01:40 PM
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I am confused and I think you confuse me with someone else or have some reading comprehension issues. So I can't assume the worst but you can? Who decided that? I said what I assume about situations like yours when I don't know more info and accept that can be wrong and you decided to turn to personal attacks and making shit up. Suit yourself, was fun while you acted like an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 12:22 PM
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Oh finally i know what it is, thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 09:29 AM
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Depends. I don't think therapy is just a live action purple pill debate. If the therapist thinks using this is required in the context, who am I to say anything about it. We have to keep in mind that there are good and bad therapists, and they are people with their own biases, which they should ignore, sure, but it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 09:01 AM
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Both things can be true: character in the movie is bad and people are tired of media serving to reinforce negative views about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 08:17 AM
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Let’s say you are a woman who falls in love with an abusive man, marry him, and have kids with him. And he beats you and beats your kids… do you think is it noble for her to stay with him and continue to help him beat those kids? It is a streak of stupid desicions, but I can't say that the woman is bad herself. Many good men are abused by bad women, you can dismiss them by calling bad too, but this is literally a just world fallacy, where bad things happen only to bad people. Which I disagree wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 07:05 AM
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Being attracted to someone is not harmful or cruel. Unless you suggest that sexual selection is a behaviour reinforcement, but than you have to go against all women all this sub that claim that attraction is something uncontrolable and they are not responsible for it. It is short for Germany. Please spare me the lecture. I know some women don't care. But they are extremely rare, and going through 19 rehections for every actua real chance is too painful to consider norm. There are almost no ways …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 07:15 PM
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Hey don't dis my fav mod
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 04:33 PM
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Women and a white knight :D Nah the dude is chill tho for real
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 04:30 PM
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Some are, some are not. Some have traumas that make them confuse abuse with love. Some think "i can fix him". Who knows. Can't change location now, but even if I could, only passport bro countries seem to be somewhat different. There are not many places where 5'7 guy is not considered too short. And even fewer places where my origin is considered exotic in positive way. Like, it is one thing to be a short italian man, and another to be the same from a poor us country no one knows. But it is what…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 07:08 AM
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Sorry about the cast, hope you recover well. Yeah, it seems we are. Im going to assume in north America and from south east asia. Poor white from outside EU in richer EU country. I don't like to blame the place. Many complain about serious dating here, claiming everybody just want something casual. Well so am I. Arguably, I am in the best city to date around. And I don't want to return to my birth country. It is a shithole with no future. But thanks anyway for kind words.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 06:11 AM
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large quantity of options
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 12:50 PM
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most of the men actually getting dates are bad and dangerous Nah, I also think that majority of men are good and normal, but bad and dangerous are probably getting more dates compared to normal. naive to know they’re dangerous, or are psychotic bad people themselves Naive or don't care. The second is your idea, I don't think they are bad themselves. women as either terminally dumb or the kind of asshole shitheads who support evil violent men No, this is your position. So muscles = bad person. No…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 12:49 PM
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No, I have never heard about it honestly, is it a thing in Berlin?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 12:27 PM
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Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 12:16 PM
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Ehrlich gesagt hasse ich das Dating in Deutschland und will wegziehen, sobald ich den Pass habe.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 12:01 PM
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Oh for sure, this is a good distraction during office hours. Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:47 AM
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you do seem more open to other ideas right now snd I’m really happy for you Thanks, I don't think anything changed much, well I did have some success recently, but no significant progess, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:41 AM
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Not all, but many. I am 5'7 in Germany.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:35 AM
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Maybe, but I cast a pretty wide net. And to be honest, where I live now, "just be taller than me" is not the easy in many cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:28 AM
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My best friend though so too until other girls in our friend group discussed this in front of her. She apologized to me for not believing before. Maybe it just luck that you were not exposed to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:23 AM
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Thanks, I appreciate it. I don't like how this turned around me and would rather we stick to the original topic about niches and gender conformity.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:21 AM
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I honestly don't know much about him, will check if I have some free time, but I honestly can be quoting devil himself, I don't really care if that's how I feel. Just because some psycho expressed the same things does not mean no one can now.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:19 AM
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There is no name yet, she is not real. When there is a real person of course I will say how I love her green eyes, or her long legs, or her bob haircut. It's just might as well be blue eyes, short legs, long hair. I don't care. I think we are talking about different things here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:17 AM
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I started a new job and it is much more stressful and exhausting than the previous one. So I focus on that. I have one week in July and one week in August where I host my friends who live in other countries, so we plan to hang out. And I go on a short camp retreat with my sports club at the end of August. Yours?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:14 AM
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That's kinda fucked up that for me to exprience dating I need to rely on another pandemic level event to happen. I was going to write something, but in general, I know how I act here, I use this as a place to vent, I kindly ask not to assume that I am like this all the time, but I can definitely understand why you think this way considering that is all you know about me. Just try to understand my point of view assuming I am a normal person. You assume negative things first and then connect the d…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:11 AM
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taller than them generally I don't buy it. It starts like this then it is "taller than me in heels" then something else and pretty quickly just taller becomes at least 15cm difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:02 AM
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Again with learning. When do I get to learn? I also want to know that I like a woman for who she is and not because she is the first and only who is interested in me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:59 AM
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Obese is by definition a deformity. Well ok deformity is a bad word, I mean some extreme features. Like, I will not be attracted to extremely thin / malnurished people either. But it's not like I look for someone who spends all their free time in gym. Well, that's you, do you think most women are like you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:56 AM
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He is/was mentally not well. It is not the same. I have plenty of friends that I see regulary.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:53 AM
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That's exactly what my approach is. I don't have boxes. I will go on a date with a girl because I like her and want to see where it goes. It's just if you ask me to describe her, I don't know. Could be many things. If I ask you to describe a guy you see yourself on a date with, I will get a set of physical attributes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:52 AM
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I think all of it are consequences, not reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:41 AM
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Why? It's not like I am ready to start a commited serious relationship with "anyone". I still look for compatibility and personality traits that I like. It's just I don't limit myself by shallow traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:40 AM
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I will send a DM with some questions if you ok
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:38 AM
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Sure, but if a person from the same demography choose to date you when you are 40 but not when you are 20, it is sus. Sure, this particular person did not rejected you 20 years ago, but it is weird how unlucky you were, or something changed and people settle for other reasons? What is more realistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:38 AM
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That's the thing, I don't think I have any opportunity to even do wrong. It's not like I go on dates and wonder why I never go on second. That would at least give me something to reflect on and adjust. Even 5 years ago I manange to have a fwb and 2 hookups in 6 months, but after it's a ghost town. So I am sorry if I sound hostile but it is frustrating when people just attack me and refuse me my reality because it goes againt theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:36 AM
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a 50 y.o obese woman with shaven head, crooked teeth, dyed armpit hair. I put what I would consider "extreme deformities", but nice try. I was crashing on a bald chick before, she was pretty hot but not into guys unfortunately. And in my gym there are some cool ladies that I would assume approaching 50 +-. If you want we can sit and scroll through any dating app. It is usually pretty hard for me to find something physical that makes me swipe left. What about you? Straight to the height section o…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:33 AM
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Well I honestly have not tried it myself. But all kink/sex parties where I live are extremely strict against single male participants, so why would I waste my night standing in queue to get rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:29 AM
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Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:26 AM
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It's catchy and kinda fits here, so why not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:26 AM
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I mean, it is only for initial physical attraction. I can appreciate all features that I find attrative on a specific woman, it's just that I don't look for the same set of features on all women. Does it makes sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:26 AM
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How can I stand out as submissive man so you and your partner could find me? No matter what I do, if there are no single and interested women it will not work, do you agree?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:24 AM
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Well I like some unique features, like birthmarks or scars, as most young men I like alt/goth look, but this is also just a case of uniqeness I guess. But it does not mean that this is what I prefer and will reject women who are not like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:23 AM
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Looking where lol? I don't understand what you are trying to say. You started with niche maxxing, now you are talking about something completely different.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:20 AM
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Well then how come I am not being shifted thorugh? By this logic I should be actively dating and breaking up. Then I'd agree, sure. But if I magically become a dating option when I close to retirement, come on now.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:19 AM
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Maybe they will if they get to know me, now no one really gives me this chance because I don't pass initial filter.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:17 AM
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Physically? Absence of severe deformities and some signs of care and thought put into appearence. I don't have a set of traits that I am only attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:17 AM
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All the men I’ve seen on various subculture scenes Even if I give you a benefit of doubt and replace all with most, it still does not add up. And in kink scene it is close to impossible to get into for a man if he is not already with a woman. Confirmation bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:14 AM
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Then how come most Blue Pillers say "most people end up with someone". Do you see the dissonance?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:12 AM
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I already select for overweight older men with moustaches who dress in smart clothes and are into classical literature No offense, but it screams "daddy issues". Am I wrong? What do you think makes you attracted to this type?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 09:52 AM
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I go to events too. All few women there with someone else already. I still lean in this direction with my personal style just because I like it, but it's generally a bad piece of advice. If I get a normal haircut, dress business casual and sit for 3 weeks in a coffee shop, my chances of meeting someone are much higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 09:50 AM
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I believe you, I don't believe general you. Because if general you was true, dating would not have been so brutal, so something doesn't not add up...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 09:45 AM
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All the men I’ve seen on various subculture scenes have women throwing themselves at them. I mean, it just confirms that men who are not attractive are invisible to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 09:41 AM
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Men are not alone in this, women do it too and I'd argue even more. And while you might earn a genuine compliment for your cool unique style, most women will still be attracted to the same set of traits that all women are attracted to. You think general market is oversaturated? Well all niche markets are the same. Even worse in some cases, like, I am into metal, more men are into metal than women. If i go full on subculture I will just be ridiculed by women who are not into it while not gaining …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 09:37 AM
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Or that there are ugly men in porn so it means looks are not important something.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 02:18 PM
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Hehe, Lillth watches porn
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 12:57 PM
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Anyone wants to pick up their distributed man? I have one right here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 08:45 AM
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Women who complain about being overwhelmed on dating apps. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:48 AM
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Ah, so your explanation is that all women are the same: they’re all sweet naive little dumbdumbs… who also only ever want evil psychopath shitty men and they’re all broken and defective and never ever date a decent hood man like you. Nah, I don't call women dumbdumbs. Some are hypocrites, sure, but in general I can understand the allure of being attracted to someone bad and dangerous, someone you were not supposed to be attracted to. It can be fun and emotionally spiky. Young women are not neces…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:24 AM
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Can we ban all "muh biology" posts? Or make a "we are animals weekly" meta where all biologists can freely throw feces at each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 09:36 PM
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Wonder where all Tleilaxu women are...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 07:38 PM
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Ah, yes, my standards must be too high. Classic. No, I don't know who is fun and who is boring and 80% of women in my age bracket I find physically attractive. But I can't get a date to save my life, because I am not enough for them to even consider as an option. If I say that only bad girls view me this was, might as well just generalize all. And no, I don't have a secret stash of women that i reject. I don't know you and what men rejected you for. Sorry about that, was it at time before apps? …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:37 PM
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Meh, most people who do drugs look and function normally. At some point they stop using and move on with their lives. And maybe by then prioritize different things. But here is the thing. I don't prefer "bad" types but for "good" once I am onviously not enough, because otherwise I woukd not have been there. So when you think about it, how come for a junkie being a junkie is enough, but for a good girl qualities that I mentioned are not? Well because good girls don't really mind bad traits, but p…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:24 PM
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Women's easinesses Women's standards (we are here) Women's difficulties Women's hardcores
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 02:52 PM
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Men are apes who are attracted to anything and women are 200 IQ demigodesses that are attracted on multidimentional complex emotional spiritual level. Just so happened that most wizards are tall handsome guys. But remember, filthy males, dare not blame us for your lameness! I swear we should bring "unrealistic beauty standards" back. Yall forgot what it felt like, if you mock men for being attracted to all sorts of women now.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 02:36 PM
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I am usually fine with being friends with someone with questionable choices as long as they are good friends. And this one friend is a pretty good person, but yeah, this is a bad move from her. Look I honestly don't know many murderes or junkies. Drug users do fine in dating, it even seems to me I'd do a lot better in dating if I was doing drugs. So who am I to judge. I though being healthy, doing sports, earning money, having hobbies will make me a better dating option but no one cares. Maybe w…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 02:24 PM
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In a way, yeah, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 01:52 PM
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Well, one is dating a guy who has a pregnant wife. He says he will divorce but does not want to have the talk before the baby is born. This is fucked up in many ways and at best leave her with a cheater with a child. No, my friends are not saint. They are normal. No, I don't make ideal judgment nor do I claim that women struggling with loneliness have some bad personaity traits. You judge by who women end up with, i don't see marriage as an ultimate dating peak. For most people it is the last re…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 01:33 PM
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Is it? Maybd i need to check out some places. My favorite bar us closed on renovations so I am a little lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 01:13 PM
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Well what is the alternative?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:54 PM
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I mean, voices is just a noral inner monologue that can turn pessimistic quickly
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:53 PM
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Then too much hussle
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:51 PM
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But you need prescribtion i guess
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:48 PM
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I don't know what it is, but if the effect is the same, why pay more?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:46 PM
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Idk, I agree with any things you say and can't reply in details at the moment. I have many women friends. Some of them make pretty "bad" descisions in dating. But I can't say they are bad women in general. Most of it comes from daddy issues and or never being called out. And they too will go and say shit like "i just want a normal guy to treat me right". So i kinda grew numb to what women say they want and look at what they do. Sure there are plenty of normal women. But there are many with quest…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:46 PM
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Who?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:38 PM
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No, we are talking about frying brain with fantasies.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:37 PM
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Well, anyway, i want to get drunk and be with drunk people, so some shit. Tired of acting normal and boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:24 PM
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If I wasn't someone would have went on a date with, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:22 PM
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Well am I not gross and degenerate already? What is the point of life?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:19 PM
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Why not? It is fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:13 PM
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Yes? Is this an unrealistic concept? Mental illness alone is a pretty valid reason, isn't it? If you can't get aroused without some weird extreme kinks, do you think it is normal too?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:11 PM
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I have a 13 years older aunt, i grew up in a neighbourhood where I was one of the youngest, so I had plenty of older friends...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:02 PM
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You misunderstood. Yeah it is ok to call out bad behaviour in women. I'd say it also good to try to understand why they are like this. What I disagree with is segregating good and bad women and sweeping bad under the rag and pretending they don't matter. They are "normal" women in a sense that they look normal and interact with people normally. And they impact other people. For example, I had women making fun of my height. It happened to me when I was extremely insecure and hurt me deeply. Now y…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 11:57 AM
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It silences the voices.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 11:47 AM
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Parents, teachers, older people and for them I believe it was close to reality, because it became much worse with social media and dating apps boom + covid. I am not talkingabout impact in the way people are treated. I am talking about will people even interact with you or not. Honestly if I knew about my dating prospects I'd accepted it and moved on. False hope is hard to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 11:46 AM
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Looks good. I went with function over beauty and ate my first small strawberry last weekend.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 11:10 AM
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I want to drink, to smoke, to do drugs and to party. If this leads to me living less, who cares. It just always some bullshit I give myself as a reason not to, like a new job now, that I need to apply for citizenship next year, blah blah. Before it was something with immigratio to, and before it university, school. There will always be something. Fuck this shit honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 10:36 AM
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Not simply, but just an example to see if we are on the same page with that or not, as you said we will not agree on respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 10:21 AM
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So emotional rollercoaster addiction is a good way to make a woman more interested?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 10:17 AM
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Well for one is to respect them enough to not commit any crimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 10:10 AM
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Average looks, average career, is polite, respects other people but not a pushover.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 09:57 AM
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Debate is a debate. The luck is about finding a "good" person. I assume most women are flawed and illogical and I try to maximize my chances with them and I don't expect them to like me as I am. If i find one who does, it is by pure luck, I can't nichemax or something to influence chances.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 09:55 AM
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You don't see the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 09:53 AM
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Novels, media, mental illnesses.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 09:38 AM
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How deep do you want to go? OP created a post about it. I have a trigger for people abusing morals argument in dating. I like to debate and prove to people that I am right and they are wrong. I want to have some distraction while I work.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 09:38 AM
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Exactly. Because for many women normal guys are boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 09:31 AM
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Yeah but women actually are taught exactly what they learn from experience, they just decided to ignore it or to assume they are above it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 09:26 AM
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If you don't account for dating apps and harrasing women in public transport, even with healthy socialization there is ~0.3 women I meet in a month. And you ask me to limit it to niche. Just because something seems reasonable on paper, does not mean it works. It's all up to damn luck at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 09:22 AM
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We would love to, but unfortunately we can't know in advance. So what we do instead is assume negative and get pleasantly surprised, instead of being naive and dissapointed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 09:13 AM
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Yes, people are often wrong and naive when they are young. Not sure I find it funny. I kinda resent everyone who tried to convience me otherwise when I was young and believed people who are supposed to be wiser and more experienced. Haha those kids believed they can earn enough to buy a house if they study well, what idiots lmao. - Lime_gecko, 2026
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 09:09 AM
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If women stop equating dating success and moral qualities, men won't ever bring this up. It is extremelt tiring to hear "well have you tried not hating women???" and then when you point out how women have no problem dating literal criminals and nazis you want to go into philisophical debate about subjective morals? Come on.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 09:02 AM
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Well feel free to make posts about what men claim that are wrong. "They do it too" is a lame excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 08:53 AM
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Well, people are complaining about it when they see negative consequences of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 08:48 AM
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OP uses serial killers as example. It is not really a subjective thing to think that killing people is bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 08:46 AM
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People are a hive mind on a high level.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 08:33 AM
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But women claim to be able to sense bad character traits and reject men for them. So what ard you saying, those women who failed to do so are defective?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 08:32 AM
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I mean, the same argument can be made about porn, yet porn usage is proved to be able to cause damage. Idk, I find that a lot of the angriest people around here are the ones with the least nuance when it comes to their perception of others. Or with the most nuance and are frustrated by those with none acting like they are smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 08:27 AM
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You can't just call all women who demostrate behaviour that you don't like "bad women" and remove them from your equation.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 08:22 AM
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It does not matter if it is 1% or 0.0001%. If you (women) claim to associate morality with dating success then apply it and call out those who don't do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 08:21 AM
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There is so much going on I don't know where to start... First, serial killers is not an opposite end of shy. But for the sake of debate let's pretend it is. 99,9% would say they choose the correct option, but what they actually choose depends on how attractive these men are and what they chose them for. because the women they’re fucking are equally as bad as them This is a forbidden C word. You can dodge bullets ever so often, but in the end you have to accept that people are not perfect in gen…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 08:08 AM
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Idk, when I was younger I think I did play it too safe and slow. But I just wanted this romantic natural progression, did not want to guess if the girl is into it or just scared or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 07:48 AM
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True but I don't think "just spend less time online" is realistic. Online is real life now, gone the days when we could just ignore bad press and move on. What we can do is promote voices of reason and call out cult like behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 08:28 PM
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I like Zendaya and don't really have an opinion on Sweeney, but I understand why on internet you can see lots of critique of first one and support of second, it is cause media tell us we must like first one and hate second. People are just tired of being brainwashed. Same with Pascal, probably a cool and chill guy, but we had too much of him and his praise...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 06:54 PM
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So funny to me that some people lack imagination to understand other people and get upset when other people think differently than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 04:39 PM
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I have. More than 0. How about this?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 09:32 PM
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People already said it: likes from bots, from passport mode users, and some other cases, can't be counted as "options". So your attempt at gotcha just shows your lack of understanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 08:27 PM
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What is with Blue Pill and being pedantic? Other Blue Pillers, do you agree with this conclusion or are you capable of nuanced discussions?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 07:13 PM
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Not related to passport bros. Just make it illegal to travel if you had sex, I guess. Skill issue So what, leave those women in poverty? Are you oppose any miration? My first job was underpaid but they helped with my imigration papers and moving in. I don't consider myself exploited. At some point, when you lose some life lottery you only focus on doing what you can to improve you situation, you don't care about "rights, wrongs, best case scenarios". How are you going to prove it? Will you make …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 02:44 PM
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Ok, but this is your last chance
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 10:23 AM
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Nope, last time I did I was dissapointed :P
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 10:20 AM
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Just assume that people will act in their interests first. No matter what excuse or justification. I have no problem calling out my friends when they said something stupid, but I will not do it to a colleague or potential romantic interest (at least not directly).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 09:48 AM
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The Red Pill consistently revolves around the same core ideas: obsession with women's body counts I can argue that this is as much individual attraction as height.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 09:24 PM
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Feel free to explain where you think i am wrong. You post on a debate sub, act this was please.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 07:43 PM
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So you only talk about the person from the video?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 05:55 PM
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Not everything is about you, Can you next time explicitly specify which posts are about me and which are not? As a "so-called desperate" man, I will assume it is about me. You can't say it is not about me because it destroys your argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 05:48 PM
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Where’s the contradiction? Every time someone brings an example from internet, like, idk, the jewish girl sleeping with a guys with a swastika tattoo, you say: "Well duh there are trash girls, you don't want them anyway and if you do you are trash too". But you bring up the trans ballon video and 2mil swipe guys as a proof for The biggest thing that’s so interesting about so-called desperate people is that they’re willing to do anything and everything for companionship, except lowering standards…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 05:34 PM
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I honestly don't know what you are trying to say. My point is to poke at weakness of OP's argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 05:26 PM
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Ok, and red pill guys will go for women with short hair and small boobs, does it make them progressive?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 05:20 PM
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What is GNC?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 05:06 PM
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I don't know how you'd debate that. Easy: I will question causation and correlation. If women overwhelmingly prefer shorter men, entire social dynamic will reflect that. There is no reality where traits that are not desired by most women in men does not lead to other biases. being unhypocritical isn't a virtue if your beliefs are shitty I disagree. I at the very least respect assholes who are honest in their believes. I have when people act like that are good guys but then do exactly what they a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 04:10 PM
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You always point out that there are "bad" women that we can't generalize all women from. But you are really confident about "too many men". Guess what, those men are not on these sub because they don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 03:56 PM
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5000? Yes or no? People are very confident when they have nothing to lose by being wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 03:29 PM
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I will pay you 1000€ if you can take better pictures of me. If you fail you pay me. Deal?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 03:22 PM
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Oh right, because profile text is the only thing that is looked at. Can you share these magic words with me? How many new single people do you meet?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 03:16 PM
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Duh, point is if a woman calls herself progressive but prefers tall men, according to OP she is conservative.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 02:11 PM
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Where? On apps? Do you realize that people don't really meet many single people once they are out of school?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 02:10 PM
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I'd say 3/4 guys who complain don't get to show their personality. So basically it's like to say "diversify your investments, bro" to a person in poverty. You'd be annoyed too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:53 PM
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Me with a frontbone >>>> the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:44 PM
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Tall men perks are a byproduct of women selection. There are perks of being short and average as a men, but they are all outshined by negatives. A progressive is more likely to be thoughtful and self-aware about it, consistently checking ones prejudices. A conservative is more likely to see it as part of a natural morality. So conservatives are sincere and progressives are hypocrites?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:38 PM
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Red pill individuals can have preferences for lower body count women but it's not prescribtive that women need to be virgins. Am i doing this right? Or poking holes in logic is "unfortunate"?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:36 PM
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Meanwhile, liberals reject those ideas. We reject gender essentialism. We reject the idea that biology dictates your role in society. So, just to be consistent, every woman that prefers tall men (or even just taller than her) is fundamentally conservative, right? Because you can't have it both ways. Or you have to admit that progressive worldviews are not necessary follow the same path and broad terms cannot be applied to all of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 10:52 AM
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Happy cake day! If it is at least somewhat comforting, I would not want for anything bad to happen to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 08:14 AM
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Well then should be easy to write that instead of personal attacks, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 07:23 AM
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Yo, if you disagree with OP, argue against his point. The amount of people making personal attacks is upsetting.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 07:11 AM
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Getting a good passport and then will think about it. I honestly don't want to learn 5th language but probably will have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 06:59 AM
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I am just curious, if this is the worst piece of dating advice than what are better alternatives?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 06:53 AM
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True, just... you gotta do something right? If I have 0 matches and I don't approach in irl then I will be forever alone, so advice in itself is pretty reasonable. Definitely far from the worst. Plus with a tinfoil hat on, apps can for whatever reason put your profile so deep in the deck that most women will never see it. And in irl the height has honestly been less an issue, probably because some short women don't have good height perception and just chase a number when it is available.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 06:43 AM
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I will go to anyone's from this sub wedding and gift at least a 100 and will drink for a total of more than that but it's gonna be a night to remember.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 10:41 PM
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Goverments are pretty good in fucking my life, might as well find someone to fuck my body.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 10:16 PM
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Does not sound like they are angry or resentful though, women also speak about their exes or bad dates, it could be just an indirect way to check if you are on the same page. My point is not that men never say anything wrong. My point is that it is unfair to assume someone is not successful in dating because... he was unsuccessful in dating. I'd agree that if someone goes on dates regulary but fails all the time they are doing something wrong, but I seriously doubt it is a compound resentment or…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 07:46 PM
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And I am saying people don't act "bitter and anger" in real life, especially when they are on a date or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 07:31 PM
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Nah, got nothing to do with bitterness, just attraction, if it is there or isn't. Any attempt to moralize this is just shallow people want to look good.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 07:11 PM
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That is why I gave you a different situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 07:03 PM
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Looks post, dumb one at that. Double offensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:42 PM
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Fine, let's do reverse: if women complain about men only wanting them for sex, is it faie to assume it is a self fulfilling prophecy and the way they act turns men off so they don't want to see them?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:37 PM
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Just means she's not into you. If she can find a reason she will, if not she will just say "vibes". There was a post about a guy with swastika tattoo and jewish girl will still had sex with him because he was hot enough. Come on.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:01 PM
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Well if they are dating or in relationship doesn't look that bad, does it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 05:58 PM
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I tried, but I get triggered easily by bullies who are convienced they are smart and just.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 05:38 PM
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I always wonder how do you imagine an average man express their "anger and bitterness" in a way that affects their possible future relationships? Is this some kind of a cartoon character who goes around and repeating every incel term to women with a poster "Remove women rights"? Do you realize that vast majority of people act completely normal in real life? What it really is a mental trick to justify lack of empathy towards lonely men. Heh, those incels totally deserve it, amiright? important qu…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 04:59 PM
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Can you blame men for thinking women are toxic when they casually post something weird here?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 04:17 PM
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It was just an opinion that op wanted to debate, I'd personally chose time travel or telekines 💁‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 04:09 PM
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Show me please
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 04:05 PM
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For me it is about conviencing you and OP to stop this toxic demonization of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 04:01 PM
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This post?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:56 PM
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No one does it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:46 PM
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Than why do you support shaming men about feeling sad when you disagree with their reason to be sad?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:38 PM
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I will pay to see you consoling a man crying about his country losing a game.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:00 PM
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No? We don't get angry and aggressive, we fix shit. If we can't fix it and are not allowed to complain about it, what do you expect us to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 02:53 PM
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You can't give me a single example... Fine, I will do it for you: death or sickness of someone close. Well, that's it. I can't think of something else. Got fired - find a new job, car broke - fix it or buy new... But when it comes to dating there isn't anything you can do, but now that you need support we will call you names instead and tell you you deserve to feel sad. Did I get it right?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 02:49 PM
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Fine, what are healthy reasons to be sad?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 02:41 PM
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Curious, what are acceptable reasons to be sad? Because if a man is sad he can't get a date with anyone, you will not take it well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 02:38 PM
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I have everything else, so why won't it? Give me an example of "real emotion"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 02:30 PM
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Literally will. But again, will you do as I asked?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 02:27 PM
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I guess person who interviewed women was not attractive and they replied with "i have a boyfriend" on habbit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 02:26 PM
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Great, so now we can get to my original point Tell me any real emotion and I will find a way to twist it to lack of sex and call you out for it. Point is, if you want to see negative things, you will. Just a matter of imagination.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 02:23 PM
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Ask OP? Men are told to open up more. The only thing they open up about is women not fucking them. And you agree with them, so you should know what you base this idea on.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 02:18 PM
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Nah, I disagree. You (and OP) see a man opening up about loneliness, insecurities, confudence issues and your first instinct is to say "no one owes you sex you filthy animal!".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 02:12 PM
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People like OP always do it. You too dismissed men's issues to "sex and status".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 02:03 PM
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Everyone is poly here. But I am yet to see a man with more than one gf. Oh wait, this should lead to less single men actually....
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:58 PM
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Tell me any real emotion and I will find a way to twist it to lack of sex and call you out for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:56 PM
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Not if I am honest about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:50 PM
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Well, I won't marry such woman, but I'd still go on a date and maybe have something casual with her. Not going to massively limit my very small dating pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 12:01 PM
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We can try, but we have to deal with women saying they are ok with it, but still getting "the ick". So it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 11:56 AM
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They should not be but they are. I cried last time when I was 11 or 12 and I was bullied for it by family, by friends, by school. OP is basically continue the same trend.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 11:51 AM
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I mean, understanding something is not necessary a key to getting rid of it. It's not a surprise to anyone how society and especially women feel about men's problems. But you can't dangle sex carrot on a stick "if you don't do X you will be attractive" anymore because we know it is a lie. If you can prove it to me, I will change my mind. Happy cake day.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 11:42 AM
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Depends, if it means if I become shorter tomorrow (to be fair, I am short as is, not much room to shrink) she breaks up with me, it would bother me. If it means she would have not been interested in me back then when we met, well, I am willing to tolerate it if she grew as a person and can see past shallow traits now.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 11:29 AM
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We need to start r /Purplepillcirclejerk
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 08:10 AM
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My favorite is when you sarcastically reply to contentless rhetoric and get banned for 7 days for contentless rhetoric. This rule is basically "I do what I want" for mods.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 07:24 AM
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I really try to only think positively, but unfortunately I am still easily triggered. No satire
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 05:21 PM
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Nope, and i lost them
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 05:19 PM
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There is a goth girl and an emo girl together near me, chat, what should i do? I need a smooth way in. Help
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 04:33 PM
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Who to whom? I mean, if I was only attracted to 1% of women I knew I could not reallistically marry, I'd probably also selected a partner that will make my life as easier as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 03:42 PM
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Sure, but hypergamy is not about attraction. Unlesswe are talking about looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 03:35 PM
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I am talking about your post Honestly, it's ridiculous, men here blame women for being "too picky", "being attracted to only small percent of guys
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 03:32 PM
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So on dating apps women swipe on 3% of men profiles because 97% have lower social, financial or educational status? I think you mixed two topics, hypergamy and "being able to attract, control attraction".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 03:29 PM
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Going to a concert while already having a bit sore throat \m/ not gonna be able to speak tomorrow
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 02:22 PM
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If you are talking about the idea that women will only date men over 6 foot? So you can understand what I write based on context, then why start with "were you homeschooled?" snark? To be funny? No I wasn't, I meant in dating context. That's just...come on. Why is it important for you to invalidate my experience? Just think about it, you had your I guess good enough dating life and got married regardless. At worst, I am assuming you are more shallow that you are, because I generalize you with ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 01:29 PM
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https://youtu.be/ezF31CwFvpc?si=QYmOT3oVNbp3lF7G This is a good video about this topic. This whole post is coming across as a pick me post where loser men try to get women to lower their standards. Here is your 🥇 in mental gymnastics. Jesus, how do you see everything as a personal attack on your freedom? Doesn't it get exhasting?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 11:23 AM
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Well I am speaking from my experience, I did not know I was short until 20. Things are just different when you socialize in school abd adult life. About your experience I can't say anything. Want to debate who is right, let's do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 10:58 AM
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Thanks, I though I'd gone insane yesterday arguing with people what "high standards" mean. Some people call basic compatibility things "high standards" I guess because they are high on their priority list or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 10:54 AM
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UP literally means there are metrics that are compared between others in socium.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 09:46 AM
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The argument is not about changing or controling it. If your attraction is impacted by social trends it is literally definition of hypergamy. There is no "valid" reason to be attracted to someone. There are plenty of bad reasons to be attracted to someone. In my opinion, socially influenced metrics are among them. I don't care about what other thinks about people I find attractive, if I find them attractive then who cares right? But if you only attracted to people who posses qualities that are c…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 09:23 AM
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men's lack of effort to attract them men don't put enough effort Well to have a debate you have to define effort and enough effort here. You can't say "you are not doing enough" if you don't know what and how much needs to be done. Same men like to scream about "women shouldn't care about height because it's not something we can control". Well attraction isn't either. This only true if you can prove that attraction to height is 100% genuine and not manufactured by social media and abundance of c…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 09:01 AM
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Who am I to judge quality. Around me gay couples in ltr, some are married. Don't know any active in hookup scene personally, but I live in Berlin, go figure...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 07:17 PM
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What if 90% of women I encounter are like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 05:34 PM
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Well sorry I did not tell you all details of my romantic life. But there are other reasons why relationship don't work out. Fleeting country from regime is one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 05:33 PM
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Half of OP is literally "having high standards = good". I replied to that. To have a discussion about low standards with you I have to ask what do you mean by low standards first.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 05:31 PM
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John Genalphovich
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 05:26 PM
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Nah, if anyhting I got more ugly objectively. You ever heard "just get a haircut" advice? Well I haven't for 6 months already, not my fault really just so happened, but it is a mess...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 05:25 PM
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I was. It fits. Does not matter really.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 05:16 PM
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I don't understand what is your point. Could you please quote what you disagree with or rephrase.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 05:15 PM
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Well are you swimming in options? Not that lgbt people have no other standards but often enough being one is good enough to at least be considered. Gay men have better dating lives than straight men, even though there are way less gay men than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 05:02 PM
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Ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 04:59 PM
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High means hard to achieve or rare. In your case I guess it means getting high and comment on reddit. Have a good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 02:35 PM
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Jump high, than jump short. Climb high than climb short. Tell me which was harder. Come on, why play dumb?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 02:33 PM
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Are you 55 years old? Then yeah, you'd encounter many cheaters, but still not as such as you think. Feel free to post statistics, I don't care about it, there is no way to actually collect and vetify cheating data. You can leave for many reasons, you don't have to list them as your standards if they are basic.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 02:12 PM
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Again, is it measurable? You can ask if they ever cheated before and if yes not date them. I doubt it will limit your pool by sgnificant margin. If you afraid they will cheat in future there is no way to predict it. So it's a wish, not a standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 02:02 PM
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If you want to make an absolute statements then sure, I agree with you. If you want to dig deeper into nuances you will notice how unacceptable it is to call out women's bad choices in the modern world. Because men are by default viewed as more dangerous, it's easier to shift entire blame on them and glaze each other so that when you do something stupid you won't be called out. Manosphere content is not like this. Sure some parts of it blame women for many things, but in general the message is "…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 01:58 PM
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Saying I only date men 6'5 and taller is an obviously high standard. Saying I only date men 5'2 and taller is not a high standard. Wanting to date a virgin is a high standard, not wanting to date soneone with 1000 past partners isn't a high standard. Standard is something that is measurable here and now and if it's hard to pass it is high. The rest is compatibility. Sure it can lead to break up, but list of completely basic znd reasonable expectations from a partner is not what people think when…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 01:45 PM
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Then what do you mean by responsibility?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 01:33 PM
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I believe that one should take responsibility for their choices. But if there was no choice or the other choice is something completely different (just don't date duh, just be gay, just go to jail..) then it is different. What you ask for is for acceptance and giving up.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 01:30 PM
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Yeah but that is far far far from what people assume by having "high" dating standards. Do you disagree?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 01:25 PM
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You don't believe they have no other choice?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 01:17 PM
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Willing and able are different things though. Willing is a baseline, why would you date someone who is not willing to create equally fulfilling experience in sex? Able is hard to say, I tjink many women expecf men to know their bodies better than they do or have a magic cock or something. When I was younger in my ltr it took us several months to make sex the most enjoyable for her. Does it mean she did not have "good sex" standard when we started dating? Or that she understood it could take some…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 01:16 PM
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Do you have any examples where men complains about paying, someone calls him out that he should not paid if he doesn't want to and this man screams "victim blaming!" Or something. Because boy or boy if say a woman she should have chose better all hell breaks loose.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 01:09 PM
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Me on ppd: https://preview.redd.it/ptdtqjvv2fah1.jpeg?width=1024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=15954998c7abf114e6c25ab579d219934c331aef
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:52 PM
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Why not? I can't always blame players for the rules of the game. It is what it is. There are many good women who I'd feel lucky to date if I was taller. Thinking that they are all evil shallow bitches is a forbidden c word.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:51 PM
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Wrong, I was in relationships before. The longest gf was not thin, slightly overweight, but I could not care less. We were compatible and had fun time together. I won't say she passed my high standards, just got lucky finding my person.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:48 PM
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No, it isn't. It is not "high (priority) standards" it is "high (to achieve) standards". You clearly misunderstand tge topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:28 PM
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Women have more options. If a man gets one day per year, he will most likely pay even if he does not want to. Paying for a date is nothing compared to what women who chose wrong have to go through. Different stakes. I can complain about taxes even if I pay them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:27 PM
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If your "good sex" standard requires hardcore bdsm, it is a high standard that will definitely limit your option. If you don't have exreme requirements but won't stay with someone you are not sexually compatibile, it is not a high standard. It is just a point of compatibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:22 PM
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For a first person it is a normal standard for a second it is a high standard that will limit their options. See my point?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:20 PM
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Just be careful with words, they have literal meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:15 PM
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It's not high... i give up. Glad it worked out for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:13 PM
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My point is that high standard means it is hard to pass. Not that it is bad, not effective or something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:08 PM
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Is it a high standard? Do you have a list of positions, a minimum frequency, list of soecial kinks? Or you just want to have good sex life LIKE EVERYONE ELSE?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:07 PM
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Fine, select just one it is still a high standard that basucally evetyone wants. How many people want a partner bad at sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:06 PM
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That is what everyone wants duh
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:05 PM
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Low standard that only what, 10% of man pass? It can be high and ureasonable. Low standards are rareky unreasonable. Basicaly high neans hard to pass. That's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:04 PM
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That's not "high". My entire point of this debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:03 PM
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So are they failing to pass your high standards or are you simply incompatible?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 11:55 AM
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Do you think men don't know what they are doing when they pay? That's pretty responsible as is. I doubt a girl head over heelals over a drug dealer fresh outa prison is in for a boxing match.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 11:54 AM
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I did not get it, could you pkease answer the question: what makes a standard high?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 11:49 AM
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You are too young, give it time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 11:47 AM
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Well if they are so good why don't you like them? Be honest man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 11:47 AM
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Well thank god your standard was "likes cats" not "wants to have cats". Otherwise you'd have to lower it or break up.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 11:46 AM
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Sure, if you want a harismatic rich sex god that is perfect for you and can act as a therapist I'd say you have high standards, but i won't say you just know yourself well lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 11:43 AM
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Well, women have a height standard that is literally too high for me. By your logic those women have low standard. Which i can't pass. Make it make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 11:41 AM
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What is tge difference between high and normal standard?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 11:40 AM
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"High standards" mostly are. Come on, ever heard of 666?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 11:39 AM
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Not wanting to date someone because compatibility - no. If someone not passes your high standards - yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 11:39 AM
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Feel the same way as me != high standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 10:37 AM
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It is your standard, not high standard then. Your compatibility criteria. That's it. This is not what people hear when someone says "high standards".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 10:35 AM
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It is literally what it is. High means hard to match.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 10:33 AM
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You made a post about A but you actually meant B, but you called it A because othervise there is nothing to debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 10:32 AM
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So I am allergic, does it mean I am lesser human?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 10:31 AM
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I disagree, I see it as people with "high" standards don't care about other things unless the person meets their standards first. Kinda the same, but in reverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 10:31 AM
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Again Those are not "high" standards. People who love pets are not "higher" than those who are allergic to them. You want somehing compatible to you, but it is not what I'd call "high standards".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 10:16 AM
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Those are not "high" standards. People who love pets are not "higher" than those who are allergic to them. You want somehing compatible to you, but it is not what I'd call "high standards".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 10:14 AM
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If you only consider attractive people to begin with, you have high standards. But you still will look for compatibility, which is default for all human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 10:12 AM
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These are things that you discover while dating someone. If you are not compatible it does not mean that the person failed to meet your high standards, you are just not compatible. Shen people talk about standards it is usually a list of non negotiable filters that more often applied to dating candidates than partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 10:09 AM
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These are just compatibility that has nothing to do with dating standards. And you literally mention compromising, which means lowering standards
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 09:59 AM
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Then provide examples of high standards you are talking about. Because I swear, if this is a sort of "Are my standards to high? I just want someone who does not beat the shit out of me and allows me to talk go other people UwU" post I am going to lose it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 09:51 AM
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Completely disagree. This just looks like shallow people try to justify their shallowness. Having high standards has nothing to do with knowing what you want. I know, sounds not logical, but if you think about it, most of "high standards" are copied from others and have nothing really to do with relationship quality. People are picky because they don't know how to love. They impose requirements to justify being with someone or not being with someone because they don't really want love, they need…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 09:45 AM
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It implies those men have better options available that they decided to ignore. Which is simply not true for a big portion of men. So if the only option is to date someone who expects you to pay for them, which is also a dating norm in most countries, it is completely valid to complain about. Second point is that your last sentense can be used to cancel out any discussion. Which makes it useless
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 09:27 AM
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For example, men complain about materialistic or shallow women, while both chasing such women and also propping up traditional gender roles while encourage such traits. I mean, what does "chasing" mean in this context? Seems like a weak attempt in "they do this too". In both scenarios, the way to get better is to realise that all people can be good, bad and everything in between. But then why even have intetnet if can't discuss anything? Human being evolved to notice trends and patterns. Just be…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 09:10 AM
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I won't, my colleagues don't smoke, so no one to join on a smoke break.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 07:15 AM
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I don't smoke but find myself craving a sig for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 06:49 AM
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Define common. Answer is it relevant to the discussion. My claim it is common enough to form opinion. It is my answer to OP. What is your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 10:24 PM
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Does it matter in this context? It is much more common than older women dating young men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 10:19 PM
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It depends, I witnessed this dynamic ever since I was in middle school up to present age.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 10:06 PM
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What measures cause this reaction? I struggle to see a link here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 08:41 PM
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I don't think so really.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 08:30 PM
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I'd say it depends, me at 28 can have less dating experience than a 19 years old girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 07:50 PM
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Do you really don't know why? Bare with me, I am an old soul and I tried but could not connect with younger women, so I don't really care. But it is obvious why men support this: When they grew up they saw women dating older men and were frustrated by it, so now it is "their turn" Being selected by younger girls feel flattering, in a similar way being selected by older women as well Young girls are not necessary want to "settle down after having their fun" you are most likely a part of "fun" You…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 07:21 PM
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I'd rather be judged for my face than for my height. It's just so dehumanizing, I have seen how my friends use dating apps, they scroll to height before even looking at first picture. There is nothing remotely close in women's features. The rest are individual traits, which are ok, people either like you or not. Height is so irrelevant inb modern day and age, if women really liked the neck pain, men wearing heels would work. But it's just pure filtering for the sake of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 06:01 PM
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It still is not even close to what height is. It would have been similar if, idk, if sum of all digits in height is divisible by 5 it is unattractive. An unfortunate event, unlucky. A perfectly healthy man won't be even considered by majority of women because number is no big enough is completely different matter. Why are you trying to pull "but men do this too" when we obviously don't? You could go for breast size but you are I guess aware that men are not obsessed with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:13 PM
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Most care about height, isome don't. Idk, it's not a looks post.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:03 PM
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Hi, No, why? Did not get the second question, what do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:56 PM
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I disagree. There are many women who look cute, but if they were born male their features would have been considered ugly. Like weak jawline. So you agree with me? Maybe in 100 years height won't matter, but who cares? It does now.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:53 PM
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Well then how come men find more women attractive than women men? Women have tools available to nake themselves more attractive, like make up. Yet if meb wear lifts they are ridiculed. Come on, sis, just take a W and enjoy it. No need to compete in shallowness olympics.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:44 PM
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I will read it later, but it's more of having a beautiful face vs not having a beautiful face, which is something both genders deal with. Height is unique and easy feature.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:29 PM
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This sounds like beautiful features regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:20 PM
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I am fine with the idea, just don't want to be recorded when I sleep. Oh, right she can sleep in another room and record herself. Perfectly fine by me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:19 PM
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Ad I am saying it is police's responsibility to control criminals. Who said "let them be"? Quote me please. I said they must be locked up in prisons. But for you it is not enough? So i ask what do you want? Where did I say men have no agency? Some are just psycotic and will commit crimes. Same for some women. It is life. You will never be safe enough to not need to care about your safety. Same for me. I hope you get support you are looking for. I understand how comforting it is to antagonize ent…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:17 PM
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When the mother is insane why not, unless the judge is a "you go girl" woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:04 PM
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If it makes her feel more comfortable I will manage. And please, a single tests that demands nothing from you and routine invasion of privacy is not the same. The only thing why you don't care about dna test is because conveniently baby comes out of your body. Even though, there are cases where babies get mixed up at hopitals, so you should also want the test for your piece of mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:04 PM
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Let's not mix liable and responsible. I mean, jail is not exactly human rights paradise, isn't it? I think police is too lenient. You have seen uk rapes report right? Would you rather declare a war on men because those rapists are men, or unite with men to punish those who deserve it? Anyway, we are too far from topic. Do you have any other things to add to my first comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:59 PM
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Do you think men haven't signed birth certificates for children that were not theirs believing that they were? If you want to check if you have cancer should you start chemo before seeing the results?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:51 PM
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You can't just decide not to put his name on the birth certificate if he wants to be there.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:46 PM
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What is a feminine face? Some of the most beautiful classmates I had looked very like their dads, who were handsome men. What exactly makes a face musculine or feminine?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:42 PM
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Why it is not his child? If the test proves he is your feelings don't matter. This is an unhealthy emotional responce, I would consider you are danger to the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:32 PM
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Police. They are responsible for all crimes. Are they perfect? No, but this is a different topic. Well, sorry about her. She probably doesn't make comments about how dogs are bad and evil, does she? And I'd be surprised if she got herself a dog. I also was attacked by a dog when I was a kid. I had to deal with it because there are many dogs in the city and for sone dumb reason some people bring them to the office. I'd never be rude or mean to them though, but I will ask to keep distance. What is…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:30 PM
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The court will probably grant him primary custody.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:18 PM
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Unironically yes, they are animals. If stray dog bites you, do you hate dogs now? Or do you want people responsible for them to control the situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:11 PM
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I know women who don't report it because they believe it is useless. I genuenly have more compassion towards those who at least tried. But I refuse to accept this as a status quo. If women go protest police inaction I will join them. If they just want to say men bad, i will on instinct resist.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:05 PM
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Victims should report the crime. If these cases are hard to prove naybe women should have a recording device on them, idk. What is your solution? I'd rather all rapist go to jail, what about you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 01:50 PM
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Thanks for sharing this. It is a difficult topic and I can only share my thoughts of which, I guess, you are aware. But anyway, a debate post on a debate sub, hence... Being scared of, you said those feelings are valid and proceed to invalidate them. I agree, it is not "oppression" but still a very shitty situation to be in. Man vs bear is pretty much tge same thing. So called "victim blaming" practically never absolves the offender. Criminal is guilty, crime is illegal, they will fet their puni…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 01:05 PM
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Monthly
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 05:48 AM
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I increased my effective workload from 4 hours to 9 per day for a 499 euro raise. Ladies, please, form a line.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 10:21 PM
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You know what? I am just gonna say it. I am not ugly. Hell yeah. Are there areas to improve? Sure. But who does not have them?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 11:34 PM
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I do the rest. Well, successfully or not is another question though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 04:09 PM
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My mom does not want me to get tattoos. I know how it sounds and I in general agree, but she started crying over the phone when I said I consider getting one and it was the first time in my life I got a reaction like this. She is usually very reasonable but I guess she is getting older and this is the weird stance she decided to allow herself. So if I ever get one i will have to deal with my mom crying and making me feel like shit so I need to be sure it is worth it and ai am not sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 04:02 PM
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Idk, ever since I was 14 when I saw a taller woman I asked her to dance with me a slow dance. It's been a while since i participated in event with slow dancing, but if the music is playing I will go for it. Tall girls are magestic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 03:56 PM
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Sure, but if they don't even look at you than it's a good indication of no interest, isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 03:47 PM
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That sucks, but why did you approach? Did you maintain eye contact for more than 3 seconds? Did you smile at each other? If not I won't bother, and that's mininum.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 03:33 PM
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They will let you know when they want you to approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 03:24 PM
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Happens way too often. I guess drowning brain in alcohol has its side effects.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 03:15 PM
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Approaching women is very easy when they want you to approach them. In this cases no one will ever tell you you did something wrong. The problem is it is a rare case, so men think they are not allowed to aproach and women are surprised they are not approached.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 03:06 PM
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Office jobs are not a cakewalk either. My colleague is under a constant threat of being punched but he's lucky I have good self control. Sorry this happened, jokes aside.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 01:23 PM
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Thanks. If the bait is good I'll bite.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 11:49 AM
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I don't like that I read your baits and start thinking how to respond and only then I see that it is you and I don't want to reply. If you did not spam in daily as much as you do it would have been fine. But that's too much...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 11:41 AM
4

Would you agree to get blocked? If we both consent I think mods will not mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 11:31 AM
0

Not as huggable :(
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 10:54 AM
3

I have received my first salary from my new job and I want to treat myself with beer and candy too!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 10:53 AM
3

Kudos for standing your ground. Good luck with swiping.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 10:52 AM
1

One thing to sleep alone but to sleep without a blanket is so sad. I hate summer.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 09:43 AM
1

You lost your "approved by me without reading" priviledge
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 06:38 PM
0

Fine, forget apps. My argument is that men don't have 100% success rate in approaching women, and men do most of approaching. So even if men rejected 100% women that they had sex with, they got rejected at disproportionally higher rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 05:35 PM
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Dating app stats and the fact that men do most initiation. So the guy who rejects a girl after sleeping with her was rejected, let's say 10 times before. So how is it at similar rate? What prove of null hypothesis do you have? Your girl friends claims? How many guys did they reject? Or they give a chance to everyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 04:52 PM
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Men reject women but at nowhere near similar rate. And "sex zoning" is completely different from straight forward rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 04:32 PM
3

Exactly. Which is why I am always confused when this is used in an argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 04:27 PM
3

Where did I say this?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 03:56 PM
17

Whether men want to admit it or not, we all have women who are interested in us but whom we consider undesirable. We won’t offer them anything more than sex. I mean, you can't really debate in good faith when you already convienced that you are right even though as prove you have one anecdote about dating app likes which not necessary mean much. Plus, can we please stop equating unattractive men and overweight women? What is this logic? Am I too european to relate? Vast majority of women ages 20…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 03:26 PM
2

Really want a heatwave? I plan to sleep in the office on the weekend...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 01:27 PM
1

Did not read it but approve it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 01:26 PM
1

I don't have ay advice. I am a slave of women's approval. I wish I could decouple my worth from it but alas.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 01:19 PM
1

That's sad. But also kinda freeing in a way, isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 01:03 PM
1

By jail i mean ban on ppd ^ All good, how are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 12:55 PM
1

I was in jail for a week, proving that the system works. I was never a red pill anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 12:35 PM
1

Hmm, 2026 is already half way done, would you look at that... Late 20s, 3 approaches, 3 numbers, 1 date. I don't approach just for the sake of it, I usually have good pretext or respond to indicators of interest. Biggest problem is there are very little situations where I feel like it is apropriate to approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 12:09 PM
1

If more than half of women are beautiful is it really hypergamy?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 10:34 AM
3

Fresh sure, dried not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 09:54 AM
4

I love dried mango, but can't call it healthy. Even if it was dried without sugar.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 09:49 AM
1

Yes, in total i pay 41% of my gross salary in taxes and contributions and my employer pays more or less the same amount but I don't see it. Middle class carries entire social system.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 09:44 AM
5

The heat is too much. I want to spend entire weekend in the office with AC.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 09:37 AM
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Oh I wish I didn't have to pay for health insurance or pension. Both are about 1k and employer pays tge same amount. It is 4k per month, imagine what a life it can be... and if I die i die, who cares... But alas
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 09:34 AM
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This is a mandatory state insurance. Private could be cheaper now, but if I ever want to have kids or to live after 50 it will be exoensive so i don't bother.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 09:21 AM
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Nice, thanks. I pay €1000 monthly for health insurence, but this is so hard to get some tests. Easiest option is to just to pay and do it in Poland. This is ridiculous to be honest, but I don't have time or strength to bother with it atm.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 09:11 AM
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Blood work, ekg, basic things. In past 6 years best I had is an express covid test.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 08:17 AM
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I declared this year a health year for me. I was supposed to finaly do some tests and checkups, something that I neglected for years. Plus do something for my skin. But having to get a new job made this another 'career' year TT
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 07:49 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 07:33 AM
6

What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:55 PM
25

I prefer confident women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:08 PM
14

People of all genders are influenced by social media alorithms and rage baits to a degree, that's true. Men are also statistically more dangerous to women than vice verca even now, this is also true. At the end of the day, men are not really "punished" for past men's acitons. If someone blames me for something I did not do I don't really care about it, unless I see real consequences of this blame, which I don't. The closest "punishment" I experiences is not being allowed to women only space in g…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:02 PM
1

And I mean it, it's not ironic or trolling. I want to see what it feels like to be on the other side.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 02:11 PM
1

I am back from doing my time for saying that women can't be lonely, which now I know is not true, cause PPD women were probably extremely lonely without me. So now I feel enlightened and want to roleplay as a good boy. No negativity from me, only good vibes and constractive opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 02:01 PM
6

Well so what was your problem? You had dates irl and matches and women complimenting you but you thought you must be tall and rich? Congrats on stopping being an idiot, I guess?
/r/seduction19/06/26 02:48 PM
41

Bro if we had matches we'd be doing fine too.
/r/seduction19/06/26 02:38 PM
1

actually enjoy sex with you - fake pleasure - dead fish it and not doing anything this order. Btw, having sex with all of those men didn't validate me. It infuriated me. Because it was easy and you did not work for it. Just like handsome men sleep with hundreds of women and hold the most misogynistic believes and call them bitches. Not surprising at all. The only question is why you did it if you did not enjoy it. Women are so weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 01:06 PM
0

Transactionals come more than just in monetary means. It's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 01:04 PM
1

Oh fuck. I don't have a visa. You'd like Berlin, we have many of your kind here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 01:03 PM
1

You are insane if you believe in this in age of social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 01:03 PM
2

You are obsessed with prostitutes, my friend. Are you a pimp? Can I see all the girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 01:02 PM
0

Food is not a cure of hunger. No matter how much I eat I get hungry again!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 01:00 PM
1

You went through this and still went out with men in hopes to meet a good one. You had an option to do so. Why did you not just gave up on dating alltogether?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 01:00 PM
0

This is ridiculous. I have many female friends who like my personality. I am rejected on apps and in person where I can't demostrate my personality. But your conclusion: "it is not about your looks". Are you for real?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:57 PM
1

I can jerk off myself. It's more about validation. As a man I expect most women to be bad in bed anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:56 PM
1

Then they are not lonely?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:55 PM
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I am not having this convo with you again. When you buy something you get only what you pay for and you know it is fake. I once tried to use sex worker service. I just couldn't. It is so artificial I could not get my dick hard. Got any other ideas smart man?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:54 PM
1

You can. You can look for things that you like in someone. Women prefer to find something to disqualify a man. Be it height, weird name spelling, or whatever bs you come up with. You use "can't choose attraction reeee" as a shield to avoid accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:53 PM
0

It's because you think of sex is mechanical inserting penis in vagina. You disregard everything the happens before and after. And I am arguing in bad faith? If I could go on a date with a new person every other week I'd have nothing to complain about. Even if sex happen much more rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:51 PM
1

Germany
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:48 PM
0

Your pickiness is the problem you suffer from, not loneliness. Blame your brain for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:48 PM
2

I would have over 2,000-5,000 likes on tinder I only fucked a couple hundred guys from tinder Cry me a river.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:47 PM
2

Weak excuse, judge people for what they do, not for what people told you they will do. Most men will be interested in talking and getting to know you, if they don't like what they learn it is another problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:46 PM
1

Oh right, is I start being more selective suddenly women will find me more attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:44 PM
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tldr: git gud, skill issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:43 PM
-1

I swiped all profiles many times. There are more than enough for a lifetime.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:42 PM
0

Why not? Sex is not important to you, so why not prove it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:41 PM
1

I will kill so many to live your life for a year at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:41 PM
1

Yep, sounds good.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:39 PM
0

I know many women who, despite wanting to date, are not having any success meeting people both on the apps and irl. I call bs, a women with no pictures gets matches. Your friends are just too picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:39 PM
1

Ok professor, explain to me, who has more quality relationship: a woman who connects with 1 man out of 1000 or a man who has 0 options
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:37 PM
1

I don't know what women prioritize. I have no chance to demonstrate my brains or personality unless I pass looks filter first.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:36 PM
0

My family was a shitshow as both the people hurting me the most and the only people who got me. This is your problem, not loneliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:35 PM
0

What are you talking about? You don't have to have sex if you don't want to. You have options.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:34 PM
1

If they want to meet kind men they should assume some won't be. I don't let a car drive me over but I accept this is a possibility when I cross street.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:34 PM
0

Let's make a deal, you don't have sex until I do. Let's see how not lonely you feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:32 PM
1

I enter in the circle, I could target the kind of men I want. It is easier to enter new circle as a woman. As a man I am viewed as danger until proven othervise.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:31 PM
1

Women can "feel" "loneliness" and instantly solve it. For the 100s time: like you feel hunger and like starving people feel hunger.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:17 PM
1

You are banned on Tinder?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:14 PM
0

I addressed it in post. Too long for title.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:12 PM
-1

Wow, so when you split up I should call you? Or what is your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:12 PM
1

But no woman does? What did you say this to? I thought it was reply to: But if we take a man and a woman who clain to suffer from loneliness, man would trade places with women most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:10 PM
1

I want you to admit your priviledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:09 PM
1

There is no other word. So I used "suffer from" to empathise that is not a trivial thought but an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:08 PM
1

Well, not all dates are fun and good for men, but I still would gladly go through bad dates. It is life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:06 PM
0

It's super eays to find someone good on paper. My point. But even if they check all the boxes you ar not guaranteed to FEEL genuine mutual atraction with them. Ok? Still better chances than having no options at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:03 PM
-2

I don't care about social isolation. Making friends is hard but but it is not impossible. Romance on the other hand...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:02 PM
2

Forgot about you, wanna go out?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 11:42 AM
1

Yes? One of my friends kept sleeping with her ex who dumped her very rudely and has a new gf now. Now she dates a guy who just got his gf pregnant. And this girl has options but she refuse to put effort into building relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 11:41 AM
-1

woman can be is right next to a man Skill isssue. She should leave and find another man, She has options.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 11:35 AM
1

I did ask. Rejected every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 11:34 AM
2

Why do you want to ignore everything I said about romance?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 11:32 AM
-1

Well when you see me do this feel free to call me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 11:30 AM
0

We met on bumble Won't happen to me. Do you see my point now?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 11:21 AM
0

Yep, I know many women and their dating "struggles" are ridiculous. I mean, I tried this, did not work.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 11:20 AM
1

thanks, you too
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 11:10 AM
0

It's all in your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 11:10 AM
2

It's really not, the city is very migrant. Like 60% of employers here are foreingers. And I can speak, just not very good. It's never been an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 11:07 AM
1

No. Just no one is interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 11:04 AM
0

Not all are like this. I'd argue most are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 11:04 AM
1

I'd rather have a bandain than not.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 11:00 AM
1

I'd gladly switch places. Is their life perfect? No. But they get to participate in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 11:00 AM
0

How you met him? Did he magically manifest out of nowhere?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 10:59 AM
-1

Ah, yes, men are sociopatic rapists, classic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 10:58 AM
1

They are interested in drugs mostly. Now answer my question.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 10:58 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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