IliaBern44 Archive

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1	N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD Have you personally known a woman to get into a relationship with a man they don't find attractive? No, and in secular, western countries (and East Asia) that doesn't really happen, that is a childish red-pill fever dream. But a more nuanced relationship dynamic is not unheard of. I definitly "know" (not in the sense that I can read their minds ofc, but I just "see" it), a larger minority of women who get into relationships, even marry and have children with guys who are nice, reliable and consc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/26 01:37 PM
46	On incels. Obviously relevant: https://slatestarcodex.com/2014/08/31/radicalizing-the-romanceless/	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	05/05/26 10:00 AM
2	Masculinity is defined by not being feminine. This a poor definition. This is indeed one of the central problems with our sexuality since we went out of the stone age. How to alling reproductive and sexual success reliably with prosocial behaviour, disaling it with antisocial behaviour and low-empathy, while at the same time don't meddle to much in peoples lifes AND allow enough room that relationships descision are not only about being good or evil, but also about normal, all-to-human things like looks, shared humor and compatible lifestyle and interests? And als…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/25 11:53 AM
–	DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵 Agree about your argument with the broadcast of the live of top-males in the brain. Fucked me up. Fucks many other people up, especially when young and impressionable. Yes, the past is a different country. Also in the past, many low status males worked solitary jobs far away from other people and women - sailor, sheperds, loggers, cowboys etc. Maybe low-status males playing video games in their basement is not so different from that haha. There have always been way more men than women that could…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/25 03:58 PM
–	DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵 Yup, male variability complicates an accurate view a lot, median and average are in some contexts mostly the same (lets say, weight of an apple) but definitly not when you talk about males haha Also, even if in a cross-gendered SMP you have a women and her "respective" rank, it is still not an "equal" bragaining position, as women have a much, much lower libido and more - and deeper friendships. So they have some of the needs of a relationship already met by outside forces and are not so depende…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/25 02:08 PM
–	DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵 A hypothesis I am entertaining: SMP in the "West" - So essentially Europe, North-America and Parts of East-Asia: Bottom ~30 Percent: Mostly consisting of males, with some women thrown in, the latter consisting of exceptional ugly AND socially inept women. (Just being one of those things is enough for a man to "not make it", but for women, who have a higher floor, but also a higher ceiling, both is needed to make her "undateable". The men here consist of homeless, the skinnyfat, annoying dorks ev…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/25 01:25 PM
4	How can men learn/evolve to enjoy their single life like women and not be needy of long term relationships? How can single men live like single women? Lol, this is one of the greates metaphors I've read in my entire life, ever.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/25 06:38 AM
1	DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵 Yes?!	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/25 01:33 PM
1	DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵 No?! How you come to that conclusion?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/25 12:32 PM
4	DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵 For all the people who are here on PPD because of a real interest in gender dynamics and not just shitslinging: A very interesting study just came out. Conclusion: The poorest quintiles of men and the richest quintile of women are both now hyperandrous; men marry up in income. https://x.com/MackenMurphy/status/1938868609532731442 Relationship dynamics in the 21st century will never not be fascinating to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/25 09:38 AM
1	I think there is something that needs to be said about how many men approach dating: the “be as appealing to as many women as possible” approach Completely agree with your first point. This is also one of the many, many reasons, why dating for ND Men is much harder for ND women and why the usual advice of "You're a ND male - no worries, just date ND women then :)))" is painfully naive. There are just not as many ND women as ND men; the math just doesn't work out. (There are other reasons why dating for NDs is uniquely more SUCKIER than for other demographics who are struggling, e. g. short males, poor people etc. but that would go beyond…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/25 01:20 PM
159	About 75% of Swedish men in the top 1% of income earners are married to a woman outside the top 10%. For women, it's the opposite, with about 75% in the top 1% married to a man also in the top 10%. Keep in mind that this is Sweden, one of the most progressive and gender-egilitarian countries in the world! And we are talking here about the swedish upper class, compromised of mostly ethnic swedes who grew up in an already very egilitarian culture - yet biological reality continues to assert itself.	/r/BlackPillScience	10/02/25 09:18 AM
8	The disconnect between perceived SMV and actual SMV is the primary reason so many people fail in the dating world You forgot neurodivergence - the single biggest predictor of being romantically unsuccesfull with women; worse than being short, worse than having a low-pay, low-prestige job, worse than being unathletic, worse than being obese!	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/24 09:16 AM
1	How would you feel if the guy you're dating was much more romantically/sexually enthusiastic with his ex-girlfriend? Finally someone with enough nuance to get AFBB and make a reasonable comparasion to get some BluePill Posters to bridge the gap and to at least try to see where some men are coming from - but welp... Massive props to OP for making an effort and further clarifying, especially how your articulated the differences between standards and dealbreakers, hopefully there will be some substantive, better replies in the next hours than there are now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/24 11:10 AM
4	Experience during youth as a left wing I would also be interested in this. Could also be cool if someody knows some media or other insightful stuff where I can learn more about this experience, especially how young leftist male experience stuff like gender dynamics, masulinity and hypocrisy (or not?!?!) about all this stuff. Unfortunately I grew up in a conservative, rural, working class part of the country (where I literally was the only non-conservative, non-right-wing person) and could only leave in my early 20s to a big city, the…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	11/11/24 10:23 AM
2	The Guy Tiers in The 80/20 Rule of Single Women Chasing Men His name was WilliamWyattD, I disagreed with him often, he was to much of a social conservative while at the same time sometimes a bit "esoteric" in his argumentation, but his articulateness, wisdom (he was around mid-50s) and non-tribalism led him to articulate a lot of very true stuff about gender and relationship dynamics, always with reasonable nuance and empathy. (The puritan in me screams: But not with enough nuance and empathy, his epsitemic was good, but could have been better) I saved a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/24 11:52 PM
5	The Guy Tiers in The 80/20 Rule of Single Women Chasing Men And women in general have an advantage in selecting sexual partners, but men absolutely dominate the decision of committing into LTR, which is far more important life decision. I don't think this is true. As one of the GOATEST PPD Posters ever once wrote: I paraphrase here "Nowadays, with Child-Support, women earning their own money, social acceptance of long-term singledom and sex outside of marriage, most men don't gatekeep shit. At the mid- and low levels women gatekeep both sex and relations…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/24 10:20 AM
2	The Guy Tiers in The 80/20 Rule of Single Women Chasing Men I think I disagree with you (Self-Reported Data from females on sexual thing is one of the last things you should trust) on this but finally somebody who has nuanced and reasonable takes. Maybe you will become the new WilliamWyattD haha (a former poster here on PPD with whom I disagreed a lot, but was so much more levelheaded, rational and empathic than many other posters; I saved most of his comments just for the articulateness, wisdom in the topic gender dynamics and "lived experiences" of bot…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/24 10:12 AM
3	Women don't like bad boys any more than men like bad women Television: lies to you about women all your life School: lies to you about women all your life Feminists: lie to you about women all your life Women: lie to you about women all your life You: believes lies about women Society: "Haha, you actually believed the lies we told you about women? FUCKIN' AUTIST". This is why I hate normies.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/24 08:21 AM
5	Men ignore conventionally unattractive women (they aren't even on their radar), so they assume that all women are privileged in dating You would also have to add that unattractive women have more and deeper friendships than their male counterparts and a much, much lower libido. Yes, not things wich help you find love, but things which make being single and having long dry spells much less unpleasant. So this is another things where low and average women just have it better than low and average men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/24 05:32 AM
1	Women, what do you think are the advantages and disadvantages of men? Would it be easier if you were a man? I think, as a women you have it less worse than a man when you are at the bottom, e. g. social inept, dead-end job and ugly. Note: I explicitly wrote "less worse" and not "better", life at the bottom sucks for both genders, though low-status males definitly have it worse than low-status women. If I would be kinda average, I still think women have it better, because of the intrinsic worth women have and because males, to have a good, succesfull live, have to stand out in some kinda way, whereas w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/24 07:49 AM