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Entitlement PrincessInevitableOwl1/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/10/20 09:12 PM
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Cock Carousel RiderInevitableOwl1/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/10/20 09:09 PM
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Dual-Mating StrategyInevitableOwl1/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/10/20 08:56 PM
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Reform U.K. is the “ultra conservative” party
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/10/24 03:46 PM
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I’d suggest at least 80% of the women seeking such arrangements only really qualify for a splenda daddy anyway. And some not even that I’d be intrigued as to the success rate of that site for actual arrangements. I bet it isn’t high at all. And I don’t mean one off scams or pay per meet (in other words - escorting) I remember using it when it first appeared to double check app matches weren’t on there (back when I actually got a half reasonable amount of matches). Lots of profiles had women clai…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/10/24 03:39 PM
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Social proof / clout ?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/10/24 12:53 PM
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On your second paragraph- there are lots of people (not just women) who genuinely believe that male equivalents exist. They genuinely believe there are loads of seething incels who are fat, ugly, unemployed and don’t shower demanding “Victoria secret models” (and it’s always VS models when people say this - as if it’s a script they use) They really think this is a common thing. But it just isn’t There are guys with unrealistic standards for what they offer in return. I might well be one of them.…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/10/24 12:52 PM
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You’d be wrong and lose that bet
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/09/24 05:15 PM
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Your second paragraph makes me think of the post (I think a tweet or maybe it came from a guy’s insta or tiktok) effectively saying something like “So I’m supposed to put in all the effort to be able to pay your bills?!” Highlighting the ridiculousness of what some of these women seem to expect
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/09/24 11:03 PM
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The second part is obviously wild to anyone with brain cells. But to me the fascinating bit is the first part - noting that it seems like “all” of these friends can’t find men. So firstly that it seems like all her friends are single (but perhaps she’s just talking about the single ones - but the implication is that there are a lot) but also how none of them have any luck. And there is still no self reflection
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/09/24 06:31 PM
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An infertile 50 year old business woman with no intention of sharing any of the financial resources that she clearly prioritises in life
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/09/24 06:27 PM
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Why does she complain about “tale as old as time” when it comes to men wanting a beautiful woman on their arms but have no issue with such old fashioned concepts like men always paying on dates. It’s the picking a choosing from the equality buffet that Bill Burr refers to
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/09/24 06:24 PM
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Really successful in terms or finances or status in a community. Or potentially both combined. Know an 52 year old dating a 26 year old and there is no way money alone is the reason she is with him (even though he has taken her to the Caribbean from the UK which very few 26-30 years olds could easily do) It is an added element of status within a community that tipped the balance. Because this guy is very obviously in his 50s based on appearance. I have reasons to believe the girl is a bit of a m…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/09/24 09:54 AM
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Might she mean that they don’t want guys in their 60s or 70s now? Who sound like they are the only ones who want them based on the posts
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/09/24 09:49 AM
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I noted hinge did that when they used to give more matches. But other apps seem to show people reappearing as well I think the concept you mention is overblown. There clearly are women who never get chosen So you describe that men should use the burn the haystack method. But that women don’t need to? Which I guess it’s why it is notably when women comment on using it - because they shouldn’t “have” to
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/09/24 02:36 PM
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Sounds like the right call because I expect you’d have “offended” her if you chose to stay with her and carry on with the condoms. Would have been a lot of grief
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/09/24 09:20 AM
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Well if women are actively relying on it then they shouldn’t be using it the way they do. No prizes for guessing I would suggest they are clearly doing it wrong Pretty sure the post of mine you are replying to follows on from describing how I have a friend who had told me she has a height requirement for apps that is not the same as for people she meets in person. And I would suggest this is true of a large portion of women. Because otherwise men under 6ft would never have girlfriends and that c…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/09/24 05:03 PM
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With regards to when you don’t give women what they want: Facebook today showed me a clip from what I believe is the first episode of “beauty and the baker” (name might be the other way around) The lead’s girlfriend makes a scene by proposing to him in public and refusing to sit down until he puts the ring on her finger. She believes she is entitled to a marriage after 4 years because she is 28 and runs a business and can cook and 4 years is wasting her time She has a meltdown , throws what seem…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/09/24 11:49 PM
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It’s going to be men channelling what women say though. Because men aren’t really intimidated by “independent” women so where else would they get it from. Many men are “intimidated” (read: nervous around) extremely attractive women. But that isn’t the case with this one
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/24 08:18 PM
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She mentions losing weight and stomach surgery and things like that. So it suggests maybe at one point she let herself go to the point he lost interested and then never got it back because it was too late at that point Suddenly launching into discussions about a “sex room” seems pretty drastic. And for him to pick an option and not really be interested. As with all of these things there is something missing in the story. I guess a chunk of “dead bedroom” time that was down to her that she was to…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/24 04:23 PM
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Following on from my last paragraph. I wonder if it is that black and white at that age? Would a man who is 45+ and actually choosing women of that age actually be put off if the DIDN’T have kids? I get the distinct impression women have a big problem with this (whether or not they actually want to date “single dads”). It seems connected to “pre selection”. That if a woman hasn’t vetted you to the extent of giving you children by that age then there is a “problem”. Especially because as well kno…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/24 04:17 PM
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I expect it’s mostly other women who have told her “the men clearly find you intimidating” rather than men actually saying that to her
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/24 04:09 PM
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Interesting. I’m sure there are tax perks in the U.K. And other “benefits” related to next of kin for various things. I know of someone who is dying and is going to marry their long term partner because it makes several things about the aftermath so much smoother. Not exactly romantic. And likely not what the lady in this post is talking about
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/24 04:00 PM
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Status ? Only reason I can think of. She wants the status as of “married person”. And aren’t there some tax breaks? Depends on the country Also once you get to a certain age some people find the idea of using the terms “boyfriend” and “girlfriend” silly and immature. Although often they are the same people that desperately want to be married - usually for status reasons like I said. To be taken more seriously in society
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/24 03:35 PM
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The “what does financially secure mean”? - is an interesting question and one that like you say potentially has different answers. So it is fundamentally unhelpful in this post I’d consider it to mean that my income easily covers my outgoings and I have enough savings to cover 3-6 months if I lost my job. But that almost certainly isn’t what she or most means despite being quite a reasonable definition. She probably means “financially well off”. Multiple income streams etc. You can infer this ba…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/24 03:28 PM
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Except maybe your kids ? But I’m not a tattoo person
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/24 03:10 PM
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Comments on the final post in the pic: Interesting how she is talking as if "being in therapy" and not planning on stopping is a selling point? This must be an american thing of just being continuously in therapy with no goal or end point. That is not healthy. I don't care what anyone says. A therapist should help you work on things and you should do that and be discharged. Like a physio for the mind. Not a...well I can't actually think of an equivalent physically to whatever she describes here …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/24 01:35 PM
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That "happily divorced" seemed to last 3 months at most. Funny that Edit - didn't get to the last post - so it seems it last about a year maybe
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/24 01:30 PM
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Post 3: This is proper crazy talk. She's re-writing her marriage after the fact. If she wasn't happy without being proposed to or having a honeymoon there was time to say that and no go through with it But that stuff about not getting a tattoo is proper bonkers. Granted the guy's answer wasn't great. I guess it's useful not having any tattoos at all in this regard because it saves you from this nonsense. Because you can just say "I just don't want any tattoos". But this has very similar energy t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/24 01:29 PM
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There is so much here Post 1: "seem to attract" - you do have to mutually match to talk to people most of the time. So part of it is on her end. Unless her claim is that she likes a bunch of people and the only ones where it is mutual are wrong in some way. I struggle to see that being the case but I guess it's possible She is trying to caveat her kid situation but it is still something most men will not want anything to do with. Blended families happen but four kids plus potentially his as well…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/24 01:22 PM
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I bet no one mentions the first bit to her (about the four kids). She knows it because she tries to qualify that they are old enough to not have high needs from her. In time I guess (because money is a different story)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/24 01:05 PM
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I don’t think they do. They just didn’t really try properly before that because upbringing and movies kind of teaches women that Prince Charming will just show up. You just need to exist. No real proper effort required. And they can go through 10+ years of it not happening and still (somehow) believe this. And make no effort to change. Make no actual positive moves. Sometimes us guys on this side of the internet seem to believe that there are women who actively are trying to avoid meeting someon…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/09/24 10:07 PM
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Yeah I get all this. I think I just found the wording of the post I was replying to a little clunky It just said “stuff like this” - which really could mean anything but in this case is “she’s still super picky and complaining and set her standards too high despite having options”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/09/24 10:02 PM
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But this is the thing - I don’t think that happens on most apps. So I don’t think this works. Maybe it used to happen on one or two. I feel like it used to happen on Hinge and might still do but that app gives you like 6 likes a day so without premium there is no way to burn through enough people to get around to others. Although in the past I think I tried a narrow search criteria and it just tells you there is no one else So it’s a drastic measure for no real reason. I think maybe for the ego …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/09/24 07:54 AM
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Pretty much no one uses a theoretical 1-10 rating system to include both 18 year olds and people over 70. Just like they don’t also include those under age. They include everyone in the range of who they might be interested in Not that many people use it seriously and ironically in real life. It more of a vague benchmarking exercise KS wheeled it out more to highlight how people delusionally overrated themselves. Mostly because I expect those women had never really thought about it until he aske…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/09/24 05:56 PM
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It’s not just “incel spaces”. Since I’m not sure where those are. People claim everywhere online is an incel space But somewhere like Threads. It’s fully of women who are effectively insta models in appearance postings about how they can’t get dates or are single. Clearly fishing for comments and compliments. It’s wild. I expect most also have OF links as well. Indeed I’m sure of it because at least some men reply with “perhaps the reason you can’t get a boyfriend is because of your OF”. Only to…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/09/24 05:50 PM
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I expect it is desire for a child meaning they haven’t even considered the practicalities. This much is obvious when you look at how they haven’t truly considered the practicalities of conception. You think they’ve got as far as after that ? I’m aware of women who are completely alone planning to have a child on their own. I expect they haven’t properly done the financials on that either
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/09/24 05:42 PM
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I always thought that most of the apps now don’t show you profiles you’ve already passed on unless they delete and reset their profile. Guess I might be wrong there I assume they never show you profiles of people who’ve already rejected you? It would explain a lot but again I have no idea
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/09/24 05:38 PM
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I would expect women would be shocked at how much they have underestimated how they are treated due to their capacity for having children - just on a subconscious level. Because they already seem like they are when they notice how much difference there is in their treatment when they get to 40. But in such a world they would actually be treated as equal to men from the very start (assuming that became the method of preference). And they won’t like it. There are already plenty that don’t like bei…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/09/24 11:48 AM
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Reminds me of a YouTube video where someone was talking about why people watch romcoms and dating shows - it’s about the “possibility of children”. Romcoms and shows where the people involved are past fertility age are no way near as popular. But about it being almost subconscious. Society cares about fertility and children (in theory). With it being almost biological I can’t remember what video this was and what the whole context was. It wasn’t the whole video and it was definitely a woman spea…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/09/24 11:42 AM
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It’s more likely to be “enjoy the things you need to tell yourself to be happy about not having the children you clearly wanted”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/09/24 11:35 AM
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Because people are fundamentally self interested
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/09/24 11:34 AM
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It’s like women who still think they are going to marry rich and be a “kept woman” as they tick closer to 30. The odds just aren’t that high. And most women who marry that rich either marry the guy before he makes the money or are from the right social circles But they entertain the delusion for far too long and stop entertaining normal men. Just been listening to a friend speak like this now. Jokes about her “type” being someone she can be a trophy wife for and who can afford to send their kids…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/09/24 11:16 AM
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I was not making a judgment or taking a side. I was just pointing out that the question is not as clear as it could be
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/09/24 10:51 AM
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60s makes sense and let’s be honest most men aren’t going to want to be running around after small children at that age what the narrative from the women who haven’t found the partner they would want children with is to try and align it to women’s fertility. So pretending that mid 30s and above is a problem
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/09/24 10:49 AM
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I haven’t seen any comment about the very first part - the “burned haystack” method. I had to look it up. Apparently it involves brutally eliminating 99% of your dating pool before you even start. Including through having a really “bitchy” dating profile And yet she seems to express shock that this method hasn’t worked and therefore needs to change. “It results in finding no one to go out with” - no shit. It takes an extreme amount of cognitive dissonance to assume this would ever work. Dating a…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/09/24 10:40 AM
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I am not sure I follow as this one very much sounds like a femcel. Kissless at 24 and standards too high to change that. That’s pretty much the female version of what they accuse incels of being - ugly neckbeards who only want a 10/10 “Victoria secret model” (it’s always a VS model for some reason). When this really isn’t true at all
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/08/24 10:02 PM
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Did anyone else hear that story about how blind women are even more picky about appearance than women who can see. I can’t remember where I saw that
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/08/24 09:59 PM
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That’s not what she actually said. She is specially saying she isn’t insisting on a 6ft+ man as she is under 5ft. And that she just wants someone taller She spouts a lot of nonsense but she absolutely is not demanding someone a foot taller than her
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/08/24 09:58 PM
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I’ve seen women bring up (mainly with reference to the “no coffee date” thing) that a man wouldn’t offer (insert super hot famous woman here) a coffee date. They would go all out with the best they could offer Same as the women who expected “Travis Kelce energy” with respect to how he courted Taylor Swift But these women are not on this level and also don’t treat the men as anything close to the male equivalent.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/08/24 09:56 PM
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These kinds of posts pretty much never mention what they offer. Note she’s comparing herself to 10/10 women who presumably only offer their looks and thinks she should be the same to the point of being resentful. So the omission of what she offers is intentional
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/08/24 09:45 PM
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I’m not sure you understand how averages work. Most men and women are not 7-9s.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/08/24 09:41 PM
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Yes. I’d be fascinated by what she actually means by “settle”. She seems to claim it’s it the behaviour standards aren’t met. But I struggle to believe that is it. And even if it is - her behavioural standards aren’t a realistic expectation on how people behave If your standards are higher than you can command / anyone is prepared to offer then accepting “less” is not actually settling.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/08/24 09:39 PM
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It’s not even ugly men. There seem to be several out there who suggest men should not be able to expect anything from women. In general. Regardless of appearance
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/08/24 09:32 PM
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When people mention the effect of romcoms on women I think of this : https://youtu.be/9qHeMuztXjU?si=GU99s_y75WXYAQ0- Long but good. And actually from a lefty / feminist perspective if I remember correctly. But still gets most of the points correct if I remember rightly (but a bit “woke” and lgbtq pandering) Your point on only going for people worth it given the effort you would have to put in reminds me of the current meme/clip going round where it’s a guys basically saying “so I need to chase …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/08/24 10:48 PM
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I think it’s more they think “if I’m going to have to ‘resort’ to using an app then the person needs to be top tier” - to offset for meeting them the way losers meet people Your right with the friends bit though - “I may have met him online but LOOK at him” Same with why speed dating is so fucking pointless for men. The women who go inherently assume all the men are weirdos and losers who can’t meet women naturally. And to a large extent they aren’t wrong. But they don’t apply that logic to them…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/08/24 10:05 PM
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Well not really. Since I learnt by making that mistake once. To say it didn’t go down well is an understatement. But if you use professional photoshoot pics prior to putting on something like 20lb extra weight at least …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/08/24 09:52 PM
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I think a fair portion of women if not the majority of women view online dating as almost a backup “if someone amazing drops my way”. Rather than actively relying on it to find someone. Kind of how I think men need to use it if they use it at all. Don’t invest and if you get some crazy luck then fair enough. But don’t expect it to work I think a lot of women go in not really expecting it to work and with so many walls up that it just ends up as a self fulfilling prophecy. Like with my friend - t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/08/24 06:05 PM
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And both of those are very expensive for most women in their 20s
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/08/24 03:17 PM
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The patriarchy stuff from feminists annoys me. Because many women will turn around and say “it hurts men as well” Well in that case you’ve used a bad term for it. But even if you concede at that point and let them use the term for want of a better word they still don’t really show any empathy for men or intention to help them. It’s still all about “tearing down the patriarchy” which is often “tearing down men” or acting at the expense of men. So they are proposing two options - both of which a s…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/08/24 03:16 PM
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And yet it is women who claim that incels are incels because they all want 10/10 Victoria secret models rather than normal women. Interesting that I’ve been told directly by a female friend that height is a deal breaker online but not in person. They need to filter somehow you see.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/08/24 02:43 PM
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I like these detailed ones from polish knight where a post history / replies are shown because it points to it actually being legit Sure, I know “everything is fake on the internet” and there are rules on this sub about that. But there are some stories you see on Reddit that are so obviously posted by someone who has either flipped the genders or is writing what their partner did from their perspective to get some kind of validation (or both). I’ve seen ones that are chock full of the woman taki…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/08/24 02:42 PM
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That bumble question is arguably misleading. I think it was on here that a post was shared of a woman who was furious to learn her boyfriend didn’t want kids of his own when he ticked “open to kids”. He meant open to dating someone with kids. I don’t think that is the case here or what the app intends by the question But there is enough ambiguity there
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/08/24 02:38 PM
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I’m not even saying she should have done. Just that it was illuminating that she basically looked at them and because there was no sexual or romantic interest from her side she didn’t even consider that that is why these men were showing so much interest in her Obviously she and many women eventually work it out and some use it to their advantage. Others are scared/wary of it because they’ve been taught men are scarier than bears and toying with them can go badly
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/08/24 12:04 PM
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Her picture suggests this. She is 41 now but looks like she would have been cute in her 20s and even 30s. And is clearly in shape and the assumption is usually safe that she was in better shape when younger So I guess she was extremely picky when younger. And I’m pretty sure swipe apps didn’t exist when she was a late teen / early 20s. So there is more to her story
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/08/24 07:03 PM
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A couple of things I missed : “Needy cats” that demand all her attention? She seems to be doing cats wrong I missed the reply where she said he never wants to live with her. Now that I can sort of get on board with her annoyance over. Because assuming he indicated wanting a long term relationship it is reasonable to assume wanting to live together but also reasonable to assume marriage wouldn’t be necessary I expect he wants to avoid the “common law” issue. But that is extremely unlikely to be o…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/08/24 07:00 PM
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I don’t think that’s what is being said here. She doesn’t seem to be expecting marriage after 4 months. Just the possibility in the future which he has dismissed It’s odd that it : Didn’t come up much earlier Has come up at, of all times, the 4 month period. That you are right about. It’s a weird time for this discussion at their age
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/08/24 06:58 PM
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Yeah it’s pretty clear she didn’t establish this
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/08/24 05:41 PM
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I am subbed to the sub this post comes from on my other Reddit account and so saw this one a few days ago. Similar with another post recently What really got me is that the replies all go in full blast on the guy blaming him. There is no mention anywhere whether or not she asked him his marriage intentions up front. My guess is she didn’t and just made the assumption. Or maybe that she asked and he gave a non-committal answer. But no where is it stated that he ever promised her they would eventu…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/08/24 05:41 PM
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Well that’s the other issue - JD is alienating women but doesn’t really appear to be offering that much for men. Same with Trump. Sure winding back title 9 is something but what else are they really offering? Florida scaled back no fault divorce didn’t they and lifetime alimony. But I don’t recall it being mentioned as national policy. So what are they offering? Being anti (certain type of) woman does not mean they cater for men. Just that they don’t seem to want to cater for those women. And th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/24 06:36 PM
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I don’t think the quote was about voting preference though. It was saying America was run by childless cat ladies - he included the corporate oligarchs as well as the democrats. He is obviously wrong on the first and more correct on the second. But even the part of that quote that is correct is not politically helpful when you need to gain supporters rather than lose them. Unless you truly believe there is no winning over the childless.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/24 12:50 PM
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That doesn’t address pretty much anything I wrote. It just wasn’t a wise political move that is all
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/24 12:35 PM
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One of the most annoying things from the dating apps is one of them under the “looking for” option has “fun, casual dates”. That is such a female focused option as dating is just not fun for most men. It’s an interview and either an expenses one or one where you are often judged more due to not paying as much I can’t say I’m convinced about having much more time than women. I know apps are garbage but my matches have fallen off drastically as I have got further into my 30s. And I have a friend i…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/24 12:24 PM
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In the past I listened to a podcast that focused on review of media where the main host is a lefty woman. She has a series of different co-hosts depending on the media She goes on enough tangents about her life and they contain more red pilling stuff than you’d think. But I guess that happens when you let women talk in an unfiltered way in an environment they consider “safe”. What became clear is that when young she was hot. But was apparently always fighting against a predisposition to be on th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/08/24 11:58 PM
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Not really - assuming he wants to win then either people who didn’t vote last time need to vote for his side or people who will vote for the other side need to be dissuaded His comments don’t seem likely to win over anyone who doesn’t already support and vote for that side. And on the flip side they are quite likely to energise people who are offended by them to turn out. So the comments are dumb politically. You have to be pretty stupid and or entitled as a politician (or in a very safe area) t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/08/24 11:44 PM
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I think most of us men can’t even begin to understand the extent of the “fall” most women experience when the “special treatment” and extra attention just nose dives. Because most of us never get it I’ve posted this on here many times before but the only real close equivalent is male sports stars who tend to fall into depressions and/or addiction when the attention/adulation goes away. Whether it’s drinking, gambling or other things. The rates are crazy high for those that fall apart in one way …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/08/24 09:58 PM
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I heard an interesting comment the other day about how the reason people watch things like romcoms and relationship based reality tv and that the couples are always young is because of the “prospect of children”. I’ve forgotten wha the whole video is about. It’s what society cares about on a subconscious level and probably to a large extent a conscious one. And of course the main focus is on those who can actually have those children. And those that can’t, or who have thrown it away… I think it …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/08/24 09:54 PM
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I’m not sure it’s that deep. As I said in another comment - it seems like a response to JD Vance
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/08/24 09:47 PM
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I assume this is just a direct response to JD Vance going on about “cat ladies”. Whilst he kind of isn’t wrong it is not a clever thing for a politician / aspiring politician to say. As we know there are lots of these people and they are only increasing
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/08/24 09:46 PM
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I’ve seen similar comments made about men as well. If you are single as a man with no kids and/or no ex wife as are mid 30s or later people give you the side eye. They assume no one wanted you. Women seem to expect the benefit of the doubt over just having not met the right person by that point (despite an order of magnitude more opportunities than men) Many men don’t seem to get this level of grace I’ve personally had more than one woman try and work out what the “catch” was and whether I had a…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/08/24 09:44 PM
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And women / feminists believe the opposite because? I guess a combination of that stats also showing that women who are killed/sexually assaulted have a high percentage chance of it being by an intimate partner? But those numbers are still low and don’t usually consider that the violence wasn’t one way? (Or refuse to accept it) That and loads of women are unhealthily obsessed with true crime stuff - podcasts and documentaries When are people going to start pointing out that there is a good chanc…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/07/24 07:50 AM
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Where is the info about unilateral M > F violence being the least common? That doesn’t fit the narrative that most media and governments want to portray. So surely it would have been suppressed ? On your last point - I’m kind of at that place as well. It actually saddens me to get to that point but I really struggle to sympathise with women who choose the types of men who would get violent with them over all the other choices they have. Because let’s face it - most do have the choices. I can’t r…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/07/24 12:04 AM
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I am pretty sure you missed the point I was trying to make. I was just using a reverse example of how dumb it is for a woman to brag about men wanting to sleep with you
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/07/24 05:25 PM
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My hyperbole point was about women saying they always did the key thing. Every time. Regardless of the circumstances. So not just “always at night” or anything like that. Always. Which I expect is a lie hence the hyperbole. If you expect me to believe there are women who stick the key inbetween their knuckles when walking to their car at midday from a busy supermarket to the car parked in the open air car park outside then I’m just not going to.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/07/24 11:06 PM
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I dated someone who was studying counselling. She definitely used stuff she learned to criticise me. I was accused of lacking empathy which is both not true and also something I am sure she never would have said had she not been doing that studying. She definitely had unresolved issues from a previous bad breakup of a long term relationship so that aligns with what you were saying about people who go into that field
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/07/24 11:02 PM
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Is that the one where she says “what does she have that I don’t” and the answer is something like “she is soft” - or something like that. She isn’t always on his case I think media has convinced women that men only cheat with younger, more attractive women. And whilst this of course happens they are flabbergasted when it is not the case
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/24 11:57 PM
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I wouldn’t be surprised to learn that women can filter by height for free. I don’t know if it is true. I just wouldn’t be surprised It is down as a premium feature on most of the apps now (didn’t used to be). But women don’t really need the filters. They can do it after getting loads of matches It reminds me of the look I had on my face when a female friend asked me what my “type” was. It’s an absurd question because I can’t afford to have superficial criteria like hair colour or things like tha…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/24 11:55 PM
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Or it forcing you to take an unfiltered photo from at least the waist up on the day of a potential date Thing about your weight thing is the linked to the obvious double standard we always point out. Unlike height - it can change. And does. Very few women I’ve met off of the apps (and I haven’t exactly been prolific but it didn’t used to be as bad as it is now) weighed anything close to what their pics showed. Average was at least +15lbs on top of their heaviest picture (and there was often a ra…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/24 11:51 PM
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It’s pretty eye opening if you set OLD filters to women over 35 and see how many write that they want kids or are still undecided. It’s almost sad really - the extent to which women have been lied to Because even if it is true that the fertility cliff isn’t as early as it has been thought to be for years, you still need to meet and get to know a potential father of the child. So that adds time on top and it just doesn’t add up anymore I’m not going to pretend there aren’t “tragic” things in male…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/24 11:48 PM
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The long posts are useful proof that things aren’t simple rage bait. Not that all posts need this. But from time to time this accusation is levied and sometimes could even be true (even if it isn’t clear). But it would take a truly committed troll to dump out so much info and it just doesn’t happen
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/24 09:53 PM
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I think the come down from being “the belle of the ball” is enormous. To an extent all the women we see posts and videos from who struggle as they climb in age and their looks fade suffer from this come down but this one seems to have a bigger fall than most given that it seems she reached much higher “highs” than many It’s a bit like the story from a few years ago about the ex supermodel in her late 50s who is absolutely fuming that all the guys she wants stop talking to her as soon as the 23 y…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/24 09:51 PM
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This seems to be the case with lots of women nowadays. Like with many things they diminish the legitimate experiences of the abused to try and jump on the oppression bandwagon
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/24 09:17 PM
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Women do this when justifying actions. I had a girlfriend try to claim after she dumped me that we were actually only FWB Which was utter BS because some of the things she got super pissed at me about were stuff she would have absolutely no right to be pissed at a FWB about. Indeed it was pushing it to even be annoyed at a boyfriend about in my opinion. Such as me going back to my own place after spending and evening at hers because I had to be up early for work the next day (to catch a specific…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/24 09:16 PM
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Gaslighting is another one of those words that has now been overused and lots of the people using it don’t know what it means. Here I expect it is “he said things I didn’t agree with” It’s possible to see who has viewed your insta stories (I think) - but not posts
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/24 09:08 PM
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Isn’t that like saying “I’m a rich guy and have 18 year old girls who want to take my money and gifts”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/24 08:20 PM
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I have my suspicions that she expects finding a partner at any age will be a cinch. Despite already acknowledging she is a mess. It’s how she speak. She talks about not marrying “now” as if there is a queue. She talks about adopting even though they don’t tend to let single women over 40 anywhere near that. Although that might change as that particular voting demographic gets larger There is an entitlement there beneath the surface
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/24 08:18 PM
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Our resident Winged Lancer has set himself too high a standard with his recent posts that are chronicles of the posters decline and hypocrisy
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/24 08:13 PM
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This works when the woman is in her 20s and early 30s. And usually with the bio dad but not always. I don’t think it’s very common for a woman who has kids on her own at 40 to find this kind hearted guy to help her through the toddler phase. Just skip straight to the last part
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/24 08:10 PM
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I missed that final line “marrying now - no way”. Once again - bold and entitled of her to assume she is going to have any offers on the table “now”. She certainly doesn’t suggest that
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/24 07:51 PM
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Why do so many women think adoption is a guarantee ? Let alone adoption as a single woman in her 40s. It’s just not happening. Is this an extension to the entitlement I mentioned in my other post? Either entitled to adopt or just that they expect they will have a partner without a problem and that they can adopt with them
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/24 07:49 PM
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A tiny bit of credit - at least she is planning on freezing the eggs now rather than in the late 30s like many women online seem to think is viable. I think she might be underestimating the procedure. Doesn’t sound like a pleasant one She’s asking the wrong questions though. Does she want to get married and have kids AT ALL. Because if she lives a profoundly selfish 30s whilst raising her standards the whole time (and with life getting harder in terms of costs for families only increasing) then …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/24 07:47 PM
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The idea is the key sticks between the fingers so that if they punch there is a puncture weapon rather than rely solely on their knuckles and the strength in their wrist no buckling with a punch
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/24 06:12 PM
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Seems pretty clear that by “traditional” she means “man pays for everything”. But she doesn’t qualify for that for the long term
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/24 06:11 PM
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It is quite difficult to take the hysterical claims some women make seriously like you said. Even in the comments of the man vs bear thing there were women who claimed they ALWAYS had to walk to their car with keys between their fists as improvised weapons. Yet they pick the bear ? That’s the problem with hyperbole and is the moral of the “boy who cried wolf” story. Do they ignore that because it was a boy in the story so it must have been due to toxic masculinity rather than a moral lesson need…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/24 09:14 AM
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I don’t know where this has come from. I am from the U.K. and follow politics quite closely and haven’t heard anything about this Nothing specific to this has made it into the King’s Speech. So whatever crazy feminist sub Reddit this is from has cherry picked something and likely taken a quote that isn’t actually from the “government” and then used it to push an agenda
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/07/24 11:16 PM
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I think the things is that we actually can’t be sure !
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/07/24 09:03 AM
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No - no one does. It’s internet speak. No one uses it in the real world Because it basically means someone who is thin, feminine, long hair and proper curves (I expect). But in certain internet spaces the idea that this is the only form of “attractiveness” is an anathema. It is fatphobic, transphobic etc (insert buzzword insult) Actually now that I write that it seems more like a weird attempted flex / humble brag. “Hey everyone - I’ve actually been told I’m attractive. Not “you are a BBW” or “y…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/07/24 12:23 AM
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I think I have some bad news for you …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/07/24 04:02 PM
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She thinks men only care about looks and that those are enough. They are important but they aren’t what makes someone want to keep you around
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/07/24 03:04 PM
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Some men can pull off bald. I think you are close with “conventionally attractive”. I also take it to mean “not fat”. Along with the deformities thing
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/07/24 02:26 PM
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She is getting a taste of what life is like as a man. She’s been hit with all the classics: “I don’t know how you are single” (by people who have no intention of dating you) You’ve got all these positive qualities … but…. “I only see you as a friend” (pretty much always with absolutely zero intention of being friends or even staying touch. This just means that they hope to not be met with a glare or angry reaction should they ever bump into you) Also … why are the women who post like this always…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/07/24 01:34 PM
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It’s there but the link doesn’t take you straight to it
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/07/24 12:50 PM
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I think she only gets it because it seems like loads of comments have told her that. Which is quite surprising for a more mainstream subreddit that jumps all over “red pill / incel / mgtow” posts (which have an absurdly broad definition)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/07/24 12:39 PM
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I think I saw this original post organically on my other Reddit profile. Seems to have blown up given the amount of replies she put in. You can tell she didn’t like some of the replies based on the comments. You can almost work out what they said without seeing them. Most likely being “the guys you want have better and/or multiple options so don’t need to pick you for long term. Especially if you sleep with them early and without much effort required from them”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/07/24 12:38 PM
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She is getting a taste of what life is like as a man. She’s been hit with all the classics: “I don’t know how you are single” (by people who have no intention of dating you) You’ve got all these positive qualities … but…. “I only see you as a friend” (pretty much always with absolutely zero intention of being friends or even staying touch. This just means that they hope to not be met with a glare or angry reaction should they ever bump into you) Also … why are the women who post like this always…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/07/24 12:36 PM
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Rhetorical question I assume?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/07/24 12:11 PM
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“Terrific job where the whole gang is throwing me a party” - yeah this happens in films and on tv. Where you end up with a heart warming “found family” like in Park and Rec. Most people don’t have this
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/07/24 06:30 PM
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Well this lady sounds like she didn’t even girl boss up the ladder. Or find any hobbies You pitch “serial monogamy” as a bad thing so I’m curious as to how you define it. So I understand
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/07/24 06:20 PM
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Some people actually think that though. Hardcore feminists actually think that is what the patriarchy is. To the extent that I think even the Barbie movie mocked that position. I saw one of those “and everybody clapped” posts the other day where a black woman claimed that she interviewed another black woman who didn’t want to apply for a job because she thought 75k was too much and this person apparently went away and got the manager to offer the person the job at 90k instead and they needed to …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/07/24 06:18 PM
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Here is the U.K. this week a guy used a crossbow to kill three women - a mum and two daughters. He had previously dated one of the daughters and she had ended things I think you can predict the narrative in the media - notably the talk radio. It was all about violent men and male violence against women and how nearly all violence against women was committed by men. And why are we talking about crossbows when it is the men that do the killing (interestingly not an argument used by anti-gun people…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/07/24 06:11 PM
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It’s not even clear that they are financially viable in the long term anyway. As Aaron Clarey says - dating apps need to actually offer dates. It’s in the name. But for the majority of the people who pay - they don’t.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/07/24 06:16 PM
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Because anyone who says this gets shouted down. Loudly and viciously. But this doesn’t change anything - other than the message being silenced. Doesn’t change behaviour Look at all the tantrums you see from super wealthy Hollywood leading ladies when they suddenly get offered to play witches, moms or grandmas. Bare in mind I didn’t say “their super high paying work dries up” - I said it still comes just not in the roles they would like Or the hysterics when people raise eyebrows at media showing…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/07/24 04:29 PM
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If she was she’d still get interest at 41. But not for what she wants
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/07/24 04:25 PM
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I know on most of the apps men can’t use any specific filters without paying for premium. I wonder if that is also true for women. Because as far as I understand they literally can’t filter men by height - although most now force you do add it so they can see. But it still has to be manual
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/07/24 04:24 PM
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I don’t believe the bisexuality numbers. It’s free oppression points/cultural bonus points that you don’t have to prove In certain circles the worst thing you can be is “straight, white and female”. And depending on the group often second worst is “straight, white and female”. You can’t change your race and in some spheres in America that is akin to a kind of “original sin”. So some will try and change the others to compensate. You can of course claim non binary or go trans. But there is a lot o…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/07/24 04:12 PM
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We are not entitled to it. But this lady certainly feels entitled to it. The key difference is the attention drop off that so few women are trained to expect. Imagine getting barraged with attention for years and then it suddenly stops The only men who experience anything similar are athletes - and they don’t handle to sudden end at all well either. Addiction (gambling, alcohol, drugs), depression and bankruptcy are all common Difference is this is a tiny slither of men compared to women - espec…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/07/24 04:02 PM
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Depends on the app - some let you send regardless. Hinge being a popular one for example.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/07/24 03:58 PM
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I’m “not a model” means she is fat. Guaranteed. In the past I’ve seen “I’m not a size x” instead of “I’m not a model”. And assume it means the same Where “x” depends on the country and how fat the girl is. In uk the cut off is usually “size 8” for such comments - despite pretty much all models being skinnier than that (US size 4 when I gather models in the is US are 0 or double 0?). Just to give an idea of the gap we are talking about here
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/07/24 03:57 PM
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Have you not seen how for women having a job, car and paying their own bills is an accomplishment that makes her a catch but for men that’s the “bare minimum”. It’s one of the most blatant double standards out there I guess it’s also secretly a tell about how many women will entertain a guy with none of those things if he is hot enough (something they are furious about when it’s vice versa). I can’t comment directly from experience but from what I see from various RP videos this seems to particu…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/07/24 12:42 PM
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I was going to say that your points are clearly true given how much women overrate their looks. But it clearly isn’t all women - just women like this. But I’m trying to work out what “like this” means in this instance. Serial daters who I assume mostly use apps that means they get to see far more men (most of whom have bad profiles) and so assume 80+% are unattractive and that also match with guys out of their league who just want casual things with them. That would be the group Because I know w…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/07/24 12:36 PM
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It’s not just “top tier” men who place the women in the “never” category. It’s just those are the ones who carry on banging them without saying it to them which makes them seethe. It really is the woman version of the “friend zone”. Women will seldom tell a guy “oh I’m never going to be interested in you romantically”. Some might even tell you the exact opposite when it isn’t true - directly and to your face (know from experience) Most of the time they really don’t care that a bunch of “undesira…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/07/24 08:39 AM
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I was mainly saying that is the only one of the three options that is actually at all viable. I wasn’t endorsing it at all
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/07/24 08:26 PM
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We might be talking at cross purposes. There is nothing wrong with wanting certain standards and refusing to just be with anyone to avoid being alone. That shouldn’t be called out unless said standards are clearly delusional - but most people in person who you are friends with aren’t going to say that And so online it’s left to examining a checklist which women seem to have more readily to hand I often wonder if my standards are too high for what I bring but some points are likely vague and inde…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/07/24 08:07 AM
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You can’t claim to not be very picky and then call the dating pool abysmal. Even at 32 with apps her dating pool should be massive if she is prepared to date 28-40. As long as she is not incredibly plain looking without realising / believing it. Which I guess it the real problem
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/07/24 11:59 PM
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The panic always used to be at around 28/29. I should know as I have been on the wrong end of that panic a couple of times. In my case it meant being binned off relatively early for not quite ticking enough boxes. I guess in hindsight it could be worse - could have ended up in baby trapping if I did tick more boxes
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/07/24 11:58 PM
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Not sure intelligence or sarcasm has anything to do with the alpha/beta divide. FDS is just cope really. You raise your standards and use it as an excuse / explanation when people ask why you are single Men do this as well- but get derided for it rather than praised. In reality everyone should be able to do this and get neither derided or praised
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/07/24 11:55 PM
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Well she hasn’t made any mention of freezing eggs or embryos yet and does not appear to want to rush in deciding. Which means when she does the artificial route may not work properly due to her age So chances are she doesn’t get to go through with the selfish and irresponsible option
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/07/24 11:52 PM
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She’d need a pool for that
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/07/24 11:50 PM
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Yeah this is the more important point. She clearly feels entitled to such a “fall back” option. She seems certain she can land a good father who won’t excite her. I can only assume she’s going off her friend zone? But I think that’s just something us guys suggest - in terms of where they should look. I get the distinct impression that once a woman has put you in the “do not fuck” category that you basically never leave it. No matter how desperate they get. The category is basically Brave New Wor…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/07/24 11:49 PM
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Well the law of averages suggests she is most likely a 5 or a 6. That’s how they work. Even more so the fact she is posting on Reddit. 9/10 smokeshows don’t post on Reddit unless it’s to advertise spicy content. They have far too much going on
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/07/24 11:44 PM
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That’s what happens in the movies you see
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/07/24 11:41 PM
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One of her options is not an option. Who told this woman she will be allowed to adopt as a single person. Because she definitely won’t. This woman is not having kids is she? You can just tell. It’s almost sad because she’s stated wants them. But she can’t that much because she’s had a long time to have them. And during periods where the economic conditions were much more favourable than they are ever likely to be again
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/07/24 11:41 PM
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I imagine the list of women who think they are too good for pretty normal guys but that said guys wouldn’t look at for anything more than just something casual is a long one I’m just thinking of my own life. I expect there are many who either look at me like I’m an insect or would maybe “give me a chance” if I jumped through loads of hoops. When I wouldn’t consider them for anything other than something casual as long as it was easy (which it wouldn’t be due to the hoops thing mentioned). This m…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/07/24 12:55 PM
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They are also berating men for simply not having high enough self esteem for their liking. No real mention of their attractiveness - although I guess it’s implied because if they were hot then their self-esteem or lack thereof would be irrelevant. At least in the medium term (not even the short term)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/07/24 10:55 AM
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I expect that is only really true above a certain age. There are a lot of unhappy single young men. And I would expect far more happy young single women (at least compared to the men) This statement would seem to apply at over 40 (as a guess)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/07/24 10:53 AM
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Having sons does have an impact on women. I hope it happens to one of my best friends who has two young sons. Because right now she is a raging feminist to the point where certain topics just need to be avoided or danced around Perhaps she will change when she see how women and society treat her sons I was recently talking with another friend with a young son about male mental health after a mutual friend ends his own life. She was well aware of the looming issues even though I don’t think her s…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/07/24 10:52 AM
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Guys with low self esteem don’t really approach women at all. At least in person. I wonder how I know that …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/07/24 10:44 AM
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I got a laugh from “willing to apologize”. How many men have known a woman within a relationship be willing to apologise and take accountability. For anything. And I mean permanently. Because on the rare occasion they do it comes back and is rescinded during breakup rationale Also my life experience has taught me that anyone who claims to have great communication skills are actually those with the worst communication skills. It’s a strong self delusion. From what I’ve gathered in my cases it’s a…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/07/24 10:40 AM
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Probably not far off in some cases though. Just these types are emotion and financials vampires. Rather than the fun kind
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/07/24 10:31 AM
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Yeah. It seems like women actually consider themselves average if they are 3s and above average if they are higher (hence all the 49ers) On the flips side they consider a man who is a 7 to be average. That is basically what the famous okcupid chart shows And that massive gap in perception vs reality explains the dating app issue. This only really applies to dating apps / people who do the majority of their dating via apps and then let it bleed into the real world I often hear mention by guests o…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/06/24 02:29 AM
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Bingo. You are making the very male mistake of applying logic here
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/06/24 07:44 AM
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That’s a good one. But from what I can see the people claiming themselves to be “centre right” who really aren’t and who are like the pic are getting larger and larger Very few on the right are prepared to own up to the ultimate negative manifestation of their political beliefs and so they seek to deny it. The majority on the left do the same with Stalin and Mao so it’s not unique
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/06/24 07:43 AM
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The expensive meals is usually what they mean. But you also mentioned the other one - priming you for her to be at least 25lbs heavier than the biggest pic. In my experience it is at least 15lbs on average even when foodie isn’t mentioned. And note she has to mention she works out - I expect because when you see her you wouldn’t immediately think so. When someone works out you can usually tell when you meet them. Granted it’s a dating profile and it’s likely she is just telling people she does. …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/06/24 07:40 AM
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I fail to see how that is related to my comment. My comment was agreeing and adding context to this “panic” around a certain age. You don’t mention that you were panicking so I don’t see how it is relevant Indeed the opposite. You seem to have done the opposite to panic. Panic might have meant you try to sleep with people to lock them down in the mistaken idea that this would definitely work. Doesn’t sound like you have done that I wish you the best !
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/06/24 08:41 AM
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It doesn’t seem like they even need to get an advantage in the dating game to fuck other women over. It can be as simple as crabs in a bucket. I’ve lost out on relationships due to sabotage from the woman’s friends/female siblings. In the most wild case it was a sister who was determined to run me down at all opportunities - the most obvious reason was that I treated her sister far better than this girl’s much longer term boyfriend and she couldn’t stand it So the crabs in a bucket isn’t always …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/06/24 08:41 AM
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Well at least in the U.K. there are loads of women in accounting for the reasons I stated. Stable and relatively high paying, office or home based and (at big companies) lots of favourable DEI policies to ensure promotions are “equally represented” among demographics regardless of ability. It definitely used to be an “old boys club” for white guys. But that absolutely is not the case anymore. So much so that it almost feels like it’s been forcibly pushed in the other direction (and probably has)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/24 11:04 PM
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I think the point is the women who do OF are even more likely than to be gullible about this sort of thing. Most are sold it as an easy way to make big money. And it is easy - relatively speaking. But that is not necessarily the same thing as being easy overall. Even the ones who earn very little manage to earn that by doing far less than what they’d have to do in pretty much and job (that they could qualify for) And the ones who bang on about how much work it is to be really successful - it mig…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/24 01:12 PM
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It’s more if the average man wasn’t needed to do hard work that keeps society going. Speaking as someone who definitely isn’t one of those men
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/24 01:04 PM
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Isn’t this sort of like Brave New World with a caste system. Except in that one women get placed in all of the castes but in our world they don’t and many just choose to be single rather than “settle”. That said I don’t exactly want to settle either
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/24 01:03 PM
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By chick magnet career do you mean it doesn’t attract women? Or the guys who do it aren’t chick magnets? Because the first is not true and the second is generally true In the UK the big firms are chock full of women and minorities and really fully bought into IDE. Remember it’s a largely office job and is clean and comfortable. And it doesn’t really require the same sort of thing as most stem. So it’s at least equal women and the senior roles are forcibly balanced (at a minimum)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/24 12:50 PM
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I was going to say that I expect it’s more that she hasn’t changed a setting at all. But if that were the case I’d expect it to start at 18 …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/24 12:46 PM
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Hold up. Aren’t there bucket loads of articles and TikTok’s from women saying they shouldn’t be doing free emotional labour / don’t want to be a therapist for a potential partner But this below average woman can literally lead with it as a demand?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/24 12:45 PM
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At 42 with 3 kids - I doubt it. And the car post hints at financial struggles
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/05/24 05:30 PM
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Do we really think that men are put off by the fact she “owns a home”? Of course there is no indication whether she actually owns it outright or has a mortgage on one. I assume the latter. Rightly or wrongly if she did own it outright I wouldn’t be surprised if most men thought “how on earth has she managed to pay for that?”.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/05/24 12:55 PM
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Crazy that they actually matched with you on tinder if they were also sugaring. Guess proves they were after validation. Unless they were hoping you’d put something in the intro message to indicate you were interested in a sugar arrangements. But that’s a quick way to get banned from the apps
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/05/24 01:53 PM
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All posts are hosted there and linked. It’s how the sub works. Nothing to do with advertising. I think it’s protection against Reddit
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/05/24 11:19 PM
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I remember chatting with a girl at uni in my second year. So I was 19. She was 19-21. I thought I was building a rapport. She revealed that her ex worked for Goldman Sachs. I just gave up then and there. Abandoned any idea of trying to ask her out. Not that I really had the confidence anyway and almost certainly didn’t have a shot on looks alone. But what chance does a 19 year old uni student have in that scenario. And this was 17 years ago now. I imagine this is even more common
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/05/24 11:15 PM
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Was this the viral clip? With the average at best woman? Or was it just loads of them on there had kids aged 10-12 from other men and claimed high income but also knew / mixed with zero men who earned the same or more. That was the part of the “average at best” clip that went under the radar. She didn’t know a single man who earned six figures. Never socialised with any. And yet expected one to wife her up
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/05/24 11:12 PM
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Hoe math explains this quite well. In most cases men know straight away whether a woman is someone who they find attractive enough to sleep with and there is usually very little chance of changing this. And that is before you get to the divide between women men will sleep with and women they would want something serious with Women understand neither. He states that familiarity improves the attractiveness of men in the eyes of women. Or at least it can. Another reason why apps are a disaster for …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/05/24 09:44 PM
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I was sure it had. But it was just especially poignant from him. The world lost a genius far too soon
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/05/24 11:25 AM
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I don’t get the impression she is looking to trade him in. Just that she loves the attention and has the get out of being married. So I’m not convinced by the “too beta” thing. I think he might be away a lot or at least for stretches which I guess might explain the need for attention Or maybe he is such a chad husband that it is the opposite and despite marrying her he doesn’t pedestalise her the way other guys will
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/05/24 10:30 AM
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Can you elaborate why you are saying men don’t have to “settle” and whether there is any significance in the air quotes. Don’t lots of men settle in the end. There are enough dead bedroom stories to suggest they settle with someone who isn’t really into them. Although I guess that might be a slightly different phenomenon
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/05/24 10:26 AM
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I’m sure I’ve fallen foul of not meeting the expectations of the female hive mind at least once. In fact I’m pretty certain of one case where I lost what seemed to be a good relationship that the girl seemed happy with but comparison became the thief of joy as it always is
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/05/24 09:50 AM
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I imagine it’s the exact same phenomenon that sees so many ex-pro sports people really fall apart after retiring. To go from the weekly adulation and adoration of thousands to suddenly nothing almost certainly screws with your head I expect it’s identical psychology but they’d never study it in women even though that’s a much bigger and easier sample pool than ex-athletes It seems to happen on apps in a really noticeable way - the number of matches drops off a cliff at certain points - 30 being …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/05/24 10:45 PM
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It's not just reddit. The whole idea of it's better to be lonely than be with someone who makes you feel alone has been about for a while. Wasn't that what Robin Williams said?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/05/24 09:31 PM
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Given what I have seen on reddit I would expect this is a case of english as a second (at best) language. Quite likely India. Some of the reddit relationship posts from Indians are truly wild. Especially given how low the divorce rate apparently is there (I'm sure Instragram tried to show me a Thread saying it was the lowest % in the world) Although maybe there is a loophole where annulment are counted differently?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/05/24 09:30 PM
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He said "half decent". Perhaps 27 is for any "good" woman? It's probably a bit too broad like with most things. But like with most broad generalisations tends to hold true at least 80% of the time
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/05/24 09:26 PM
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This remind me of the common Hinge prompt question that is "I'm weirdly attracted to..." The amount of women who say something to the effect of "tall guys", "tall, dark and handsome", "muscles", "Big arms", "tall, muscles and tattoos" is staggering. Lady that isn't "weird". You've just grouped yourself in with every other woman on the app. And you don't need to say it because the matching shows that. I think "Ambition" (cha-ching) is sometimes in there as well. (Some will even answer with "Red F…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/05/24 09:25 PM
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So in the first analogy she would want to be paid to own and drive the car described?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/05/24 09:19 PM
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The funny thing is that there are women there who manage this but still seek validation/attention from other men. I now actually know one such woman and it blows my mind. She is stunning and married to someone who is a Chad by all definitions (despite being nearly 15 years older than her as far as I am aware). They have an au pair for their child - you need a lot of money to have one of them usually. She has the guy all the women we see on these posts and on the various RP youtube channels are b…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/05/24 09:17 PM
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I wonder if women do get spam adds like these from the algorithms? Maybe they will soon start as they start to get desperate But there have always been stories of dumpy middle aged women (usually always married) sending thousands (sometimes hundreds of thousands) to a guy catfishing them with an Army Chad profile. I'm sure there are far more stories of men being catfished for thousands by fake women online. But the women stand out because they are usually in relationships and the guys who are co…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/05/24 09:08 PM
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I saw a reddit post the other day where someone was asking "how it worked" with regards to finding older people attractive as you got older. They were basically asking whether you grow to find 70 year olds attractive in your 70s. Obviously all the top answers were variants of "yes" and "ugh I don't find people in their 20s attractive anymore as I can't relate them". Because, you know, reddit. The real answer seems to be - someone will find their partner attractive in their 70s if they go togethe…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/05/24 09:04 PM
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I’m not prepared to make assumptions. I know someone who left the father of her two kids shortly after the second was born because he didn’t help enough. I guess the thought/hope was he might suddenly change with the second despite no evidence from the first. The sort of clarity she only has now Lots of people fall prey to this kind of wishful thinking. Not just women but that is the focus of this sub. So it’s not uncommon to see or hear stories like this. Or ones where they think a bad boy is g…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/05/24 04:25 PM
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I can believe that though. People are bad at guessing ages. I was watching a YouTube video earlier where one of the co-presenters (a 44 year old woman) talked about winning a beauty competition 25 years ago and so many comments (from socially conservative types) were saying “I thought she was only 30”. I know I’m bad with ages. But probably not bad enough to think a 47 year old is under 40. Few can pull that off unless they have stayed in phenomenal condition. And even then. Just today I found o…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/05/24 02:48 PM
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I can believe that though. People are bad at guessing ages. I was watching a YouTube video earlier where one of the co-presenters (a 44 year old woman) talked about winning a beauty competition 25 years ago and so many comments (from socially conservative types) were saying “I thought she was only 30”. I know I’m bad with ages. But probably not bad enough to think a 47 year old is under 40. Few can pull that off unless they have stayed in phenomenal condition. And even then. Just today I found o…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/05/24 02:48 PM
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Yeah I immediately clocked that “single off and on”. That’s a real red flag statement. And a weird way of phrasing it. You’d normally say in relationships off and on. But that’s because none of these likely were. Note also - 15 years. Father of the second child (or both if it’s the same - can’t make assumptions) was gone when the youngest was only 1…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/05/24 02:42 PM
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Yeah I immediately clocked that “single off and on”. That’s a real red flag statement. And a weird way of phrasing it. You’d normally say in relationships off and on. But that’s because none of these likely were. Note also - 15 years. Father of the second child (or both if it’s the same - can’t make assumptions) was gone when the youngest was only 1…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/05/24 02:42 PM
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That is something that is never going to be acknowledged because it is too close to people interpreting as every man being entitled to a girlfriend / wife in their eyes Of course that is not what people are really asking for and has never been the case. But it’s more that it used to be a reasonable expectation that the majority should be able to have this. And the current stats are just not showing this. And that its absence is going to require the strong, independent women to step up and balanc…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/05/24 08:30 AM
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I think the point is that the sort of guys who can pull of a harem tend to have them just showing up at their places without the need for dates / financial investment. Because there really aren’t many people who can actually spend the “expected” amount on multiple women at the same time Which is why it’s always wild to me when I see posts (nearly always from women) in subs like “dating over thirty” when they ask how long you should multi date for / when you should stop.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/05/24 08:24 AM
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Seen Aaron Clarey talk about this recently - dating apps can’t work if most men don’t get any dates out of them. So it’s no wonder the stock is plummeting. It needs to actually be possible to get dates.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/24 07:57 PM
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Never had that. “Hey”, “Hi” or a gif involving waiving or saying Hi are quite common
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/24 07:53 PM
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There are women on bumble who write things about not messaging first or won’t start the conversation. They either are really stupid and don’t understand or copy and paste profile text across the apps
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/24 07:52 PM
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You can message anyone on hinge because of the prompt system. Tinder and bumble you can’t. So it’s mixed
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/24 07:50 PM
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Because you have to have given the guy your number and had him avoid any potential signs of being the sort of guy who would send that. It simply is a myth (at least in 2024) that women are peppered with dick pics on apps. It’s not even possible on nearly all of them It’s probably usual woman double speak. They probably get sent them by guys they’ve been messaging for days or longer but these all count under “a guy I matched with on an app sent me a dick pic”. But it’s not quite how they make it …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/24 07:47 PM
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You can’t send pics on most apps unless the girl gives you her actual phone number. Not over the app. You can send pics on bumble but I wouldn’t be surprised if it can somehow sense and block certain ones Weird that is bumble of all of them that allows pics
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/24 07:45 PM
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Could be a test or a game though. We know most women just use apps for validation and maybe chats without a lot of intention to meet For example it wouldn’t surprise me if a bunch of young girls hung out one evening and reset their tinder profiles and played a game about who could get the most matches / hottest matches / can they all chat with the same hot guy etc And in this case I wouldn’t be surprise if the game is “let’s see what I can get away with writing and still get matches and messages…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/24 02:14 PM
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Absolutely. She mentions the guy was seeing multiple others behind her back. Outside of tv where somehow schlubs get hot women all the time and somehow have multiple fighting over them in some cases this doesn’t happen in real life. Only certain guys can swing that. And they don’t tend to settle for 49 year olds with 3 kids.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/24 02:11 PM
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Someone who is 49 with 3 kids and her attitude towards men probably is done though. She even admits it herself
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/24 02:09 PM
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In this case her attitude was probably the same when she was in a relationship but she only now sees it because she thinks she has an excuse I think she is thinking she is being hyperbolic about “ripe old age of 49” without realising she’s got close to the mark
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/24 02:08 PM
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Imagine being shocked that the easy going (read: he wasn’t really emotionally invested) relationship with the guy who definitely didn’t want to be married wasn’t actually serious after all Shocked I tell you. Shocked
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/24 02:06 PM
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There are discussions out there about how women still see it as a sign of being a loser to be on an app- and this is why the go for the “best” (the 6s etc). Because they think “if I’m going to have to “resort” to apps…” But as you say - before they realise they are solely using them but still have the same mindset Real world relationships are far less likely to align to the requirements they demand on apps. The problem comes if they get alpha widowed from the apps and then try to go back to the …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/04/24 02:41 PM
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In my experience that is 29. Because 30 is the milestone lots of women are raised to expect to be married with a child by that point. Or at least well on the way. 32 is when it’s really sinking in that is hasn’t happened
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/04/24 05:46 PM
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Sounds similar to what I saw but like you imply it didn’t seem like the peak was intense enough to truly have the “peaked in high school” trope fully down. But that might just be that I haven’t spent much time around them since to know The impression I got about the “Queen bees” at my school is that they mostly ended up as single mums. Not all but lots. Often to kids from said guys but not always. But my school year was quite sparse when it came to really attractive girls. The one above had load…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/04/24 06:34 PM
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I wonder if the “peaked in high school” trope is overwhelmingly an American thing. Because whilst there are people here in the U.K. who definitely peaked at that point the “peak” is much lower than US high school - I think due to the lack of high school sports being seen as a real big thing. And high school all going to 18 where the dumb jocks in the U.K. can leave at 16 and often do. Sure the girls would go for the athletic types but you don’t really have soccer players swaggering around in hig…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/24 11:30 AM
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I wasn’t talking about women. I was talking about men. Men don’t tend to look down their noses and sneer at shorter men about how their lack of height means they are going to be worse off in the dating market. Indeed the only time I’ve ever seen anything close to this was a tall male character talking disparagingly about a short man in a book … written by a woman. Of all the things taller men would bully shorter men about (mainly at school age though) - “I’ve got more chances to fuck than you” i…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/24 09:49 PM
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Can’t say I know which part to edit and still leave something worth commenting on as my whole post is expressing skepticism I guess it could be your pretty standard case of a woman spinning the story and has done it in such a way that she has claimed a man has said something that he almost certainly didn’t. I just don’t think a guy will say “I’m over 6ft so will have no problem finding someone else unlike some short guy”. Or anything to that effect Not least because there are enough comments onl…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/24 09:41 PM
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But Trump is well known to cheat at golf. So beating him when he cheats would be even more impressive That “what’s his is mine” is something I have from older men (obviously rephrased) - boomer age and below since I was young. They are not exactly selling the situation. And it’s usually the men making the “joke”. But it’s a “many a true word spoken in jest” situation
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/24 10:48 AM
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Was it Ricky Gervais who asked when fat people stopped being jolly? I think it was. Him or Jimmy Carr You used to have to be otherwise you’d basically be completely overlooked
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/24 10:43 AM
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Surely that would be worse as women are even pickier than men…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/24 10:42 AM
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When I was reading your first line I started to think about how she’d find it much harder losing weight in her mid 30s (especially with a high paying job that is almost certainly sedentary). And then you went on to point that out Women (and people in general) very rarely lose weight once they have put it on
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/24 10:41 AM
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My mind went straight to the Principal Skinner meme - “am I out of touch?”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/24 10:38 AM
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Definitely 1, 2 and 4. And likely 3 as well. Add in that she will be wanting guys who earn likely more than 100k as well and it’s no wonder it isn’t happening
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/24 10:37 AM
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In what way did you educate her otherwise ? What did you tell her instead ?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/24 10:35 AM
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…And any guy to still be on the way to making 6 figures. Weird that
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/24 10:23 AM
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Sorry I am skeptical about this. 4th paragraph makes me very suspicious. I don’t think many tall men sneer about short men and remarking how much easier dating is for them. At least not out loud and seemingly unprompted So somewhat bizarrely whilst I am saying I don’t think a man would ever say this - perhaps the woman telling the story is lying to make him look worse? There is way too much accountability / self reflection compared to what most women write. Paragraph 5 shows this in my view. Is …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/24 10:18 AM
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A lot of the Indian stories have always seemed like rage bait. But I’m not sure why. Maybe that there is a more obvious (and literal) underclass of men who want to feel better about being cut out entirely. Rather than the indirect underclass of men that western dating and standards have created Imagine being cut out of marriage in a society where arranged marriage is such a big thing. I have lots of Indian colleagues and ALL of them seem to be getting married in their mid 20s or so regardless of…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/24 10:08 AM
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Especially on sugar sites which this might be
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/03/24 01:19 PM
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If you read what women write online (especially places like two x) they will have you believe that there are loads of ugly obese weebs out there demanding model looking women (to show how old these women are they usually use “Victoria secret model” as the go to) Yet they present no evidence of this. Now perhaps there is a reverse version of this page showing men seriously demanding a size 0 smokeshow with double Ds when he is a super market cashier. But I just don’t think there is or at least no…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/03/24 01:13 PM
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Those kweens don’t want those BP men
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/03/24 01:50 PM
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I sometimes find myself intimidated / a little tongue tied around certain women. But let me tell you - it’s nothing to do with their job or income. It’s when they are truly stunning. Mostly because they are so rare. But this isn’t common
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/02/24 10:03 AM
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That’s because it is
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/02/24 10:01 AM
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That second paragraph was wild . She outright dismisses input on how men think from men. Who else is she going to get it from? Women?! And then it gets worse because her aim is to try and break and entire mindset that, by her own admission, most men have. I guess this what you get when you are enabled, bolstered beyond your skill level and entitled. How arrogant must you be to even believe for a second that it is possible to “break” and established mindset. Wild End of first paragraph is crazy t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/02/24 10:00 AM
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That’s a lot to write for someone who apparently doesn’t have an axe to grind …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/02/24 05:12 PM
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I want to know what her definition of “single” is. Not only because she had a kid after her divorce (I missed this but others didn’t). But also because she referred to a 5 year on again off again thing. Just because she was never sure about his commitment it doesn’t really mean she was single! Not in the eyes of most men anyway
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/01/24 04:20 PM
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She’s coping. She is more likely to end up single and childless and knows it (no doubt knows she has set the bar too high). And she wants to be happy So she has come up with this idea that she is statistically likely to happy if single and childless. I’d be shocked if there were stats that genuinely showed that. Even in a world where women are told men are all trash and they can do everything they can and without them Perhaps there is an additional layer of her now being too old for kids realist…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/12/23 08:01 AM
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Ah I see - you are a complete and utter fuckwit. A drivelling moron. Ad hominems they may be but you’ve had chance to disprove them and not taken them Have you missed that I have a personalised tag (like you somehow do). The mods don’t tend to give those out to women or bots. And like I already said - I likely joined this sub and posted on it extensively long before you did. So wind your neck in That’s why I’m asking about your mental state - because you clearly aren’t thinking properly at all. …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/12/23 12:16 AM
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Yeah or else why mention it? That or seeing men date women with only one or neither. Or perhaps a combo of both
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/12/23 11:43 AM
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I have a female friend the other day say she was “probably just going to be friends” with a guy she has been sending long messages with for a couple of months now but never met (because there is another guy now who she already knew who is putting loads of effort into trying to win her over) She asked me a couple of months ago why the message guy was including so many mentions in his messages of “oh we should do that together”. She claimed to find it weird and I told her it was because he actuall…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/12/23 08:20 PM
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Are you ok? That was a bizarre rant to a legit question from someone who probably joined this sub before you did. Dafuq? I’m not trying to get you to “spill the beans”. I asked you a question and kind of expected an answer rather than for you to just lose it. I notably asked a question around how your original generalisation didn’t make sense and didn’t apply to some of the professions listed (notably teachers). Just say you don’t have an explanation next time
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/12/23 08:03 PM
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It depends on the motives of those involved. I always took those two at face value : “Want kids” - definitely want to have kids of your own “Open to kids” - open to idea but not a definite yes or no. But still kids of your own making And I always took this to apply to both men and women. Especially as bumble has option for “have kids and want more” and “have kids and don’t want more”. So if you start getting into territory of having women with kids assuming men mean they either want or are open …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/12/23 02:53 PM
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I agree and say something similar in the third part of my reply As for giving people enough rope - in the case of dating apps that is usually just allowing them to demonstrate zero personality / conversational skills
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/12/23 02:48 PM
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I’m super tempted to put something in a profile to the effect of “if you unironically use the term/believe in “The Patriarchy” then we won’t be a match” Just to see if it sparks any angry comments. Perhaps as a hinge prompt But as a normal guy putting limiters on your profile is not a good play.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/12/23 12:35 PM
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I’m charitable enough to assume she is talking about trying to filter out men who have no interest in creating kids of their own I’m pretty sure I’ve left that unanswered on bumble as I’m not sure there is really a “good” one from the forced options that fits the message but wouldn’t rile women up. Due to obvious biological differences women tend to get riled up when they see a man say they are “open to kids”. Admittedly I am just as amused when I see the same (or “not sure”) from women especial…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/12/23 12:32 PM
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She’s got the heels thing so wrong and is unsurprisingly very selfish about it. Most short guys are mainly just concerned that the women will have a problem with it (because most do) and the best thing most can ever hear is “oh great I don’t need to wear them then” Why would she not want to make a simple change? I refuse to believe she likes wearing heels so much that she is prepared to risk a potential relationship over it. It’s just a lie and not a good one. She just doesn’t want a short guy. …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/12/23 12:20 PM
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Regarding the “Sex and the City dream” i stumbled upon this video about how rom coms broke millennial women. It comes from a a very lefty stand point (banging on about whiteness and straightness) but there are still lots of nuggets of truth in there https://youtu.be/9qHeMuztXjU?si=X433drpitRvHWjTa It is nearly an hour The most relevant point is that since 2008 the financial situation of most people make the romcom dream every woman was bombarded with be extra unrealistic because lifestyles just …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/12/23 12:13 PM
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Well done on finding them. I know we aren’t supposed to but I sometimes try because there is usually something missing or some gems they reveal in the comments. No real like as Reddit search is terrible (note: this is not me requesting the information)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/12/23 11:59 AM
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Where does it say she has kids ? It is admittedly the most likely explanation
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/12/23 11:57 AM
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I assume the battle of wits is a request to this sub to come up with theories …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/12/23 11:56 AM
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Gosh - someone really needs to explain to her that this is how most men have it on bumble - except they don’t get to basically pick and choose from 2000 likes meaning every right swipe will be a match. They get maybe a dozen. And might get one or two matches a week. And most of those time out. Or just say “hi”. She’s out of her mind And for her to say “all” men don’t reply. Maam that’s just a lie. I can tell you that for a fact. I think I generally reply even if on second look I wonder why I rig…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/12/23 11:49 AM
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To be honest this is one of the reasons I avoided moving to London. Because i expected OLD/Dating to be even more of a shit show with everyone after investment bankers or top lawyers and didn’t really want to reflect on it potentially being “me”. As you can see I’ve already deflected
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/12/23 11:45 AM
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It would take a very liberal person to expect this set up. Lots of people will accept a woman with kids but I expect for the majority of those having the kid not even be able to be passed off as yours is likely an insurmountable barrier Many men, especially lonely ones will happily take on a position that technically makes them cucks in the most original definition of the word (the cuckoo bird). But not if the whole world can see it plain as day
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/12/23 11:36 AM
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Are there explanations for all of these as surely the reasons are different. Some seem self explanatory but would still be useful for the audience So teachers I assume is because most are now insanely woke/feminist and have institutionally favour women over men. And constantly being around children stokes their baby rabies (know this from experience) I’m not sure the “surrounded by men” is true of all of those. Especially not teachers. And not really waitresses (at least - not colleagues)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/12/23 11:27 AM
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Oh I know that
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/12/23 01:22 PM
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There was a pornstar driven to suicide by online bullying after she refused to do a scene with a man who had recently shot scenes with men. It was almost certainly linked to this - especially as porn is nearly always unprotected
/r/MensRights16/12/23 11:41 PM
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Because it hasn’t gone away completely. Over the past few years a few high profile men have come out as HIV+. One of them was from the Queer Eye reboot. It actually made me do a bit of research because I wondered how it was still happening in the west despite increased knowledge since the 80s. Said research revealed my ignorance
/r/MensRights16/12/23 11:39 PM
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Are they really as dire as claimed? Or is it just that in theory they could be? Are there many stories of such things. Apologies if I’m being naive or out of date on this. Haven’t posted or read this much this year at all. I mean the job loss / expulsion thing. The work thing was always a no go for me anyway. I started work in 2009 and even in 2012 I balked when on a work course a female colleague made reference to “insert company name-love” and was shocked I hadn’t “dabbled” Perhaps this was fe…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/12/23 11:25 PM
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So that aligns to what the interview was saying. And so freaking out about 50% of men having not even approached a woman in the past year is missing the point when trying to establish why so few relationships are being a formed and seemingly resulting population collapse (the main thrust of a lot of the discussions on this particular podcast - Modern Wisdom) The real issue is the collapse of community and decline of strong friend/family/community units
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/12/23 09:13 PM
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Do they shit test tall men they are actually attracted to? People don’t like hypocrisy and double standards. If you responded by actually saying “all x are y” - and x still didn’t need to be “black people” - I expect she still would have lost it I got someone to acknowledge the other day that when a work colleague talked down to me about my height that it would have been an HR complaint if I had done the same about a woman’s weight or just appearance in general
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/12/23 10:40 AM
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Note that in Hunchback it is one of the few Disney films where the titular character doesn’t get the girl. What’s on the inside turns out is not enough And you don’t need to tell me about the height thing. It’s just baffling to hear women using insane logic to try and justify choices. In this case rejecting/being cruel to short men more than actively choosing tall ones There really isn’t any need to both select for tall guys and mock/belittle shorter one. Or make out they are somehow dangerous. …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/12/23 09:50 PM
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I heard an interview the other day where it was suggested that the idea of approaching someone in a bar to ask for a date existed only in a small window of time. Pre OLD but perhaps only in the 90s and maybe 80s if that It was suggested previously most relationships were a pseudo-arranged marriage where you found someone via friends or family It was in response to the stat about how 50+% of men haven’t approached a woman in the last year. The suggestion was that it didn’t used to be that common …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/12/23 08:38 PM
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The female lead in that and twilight are very specifically written so that plain average women can relate. That is exactly why millions lapped them up like you say
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/12/23 08:20 PM
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Mills and Boon do. I made reference to them in that the ones I wrote about clearly borrow from them and elaborate it more. But the appearance of the lead stays the same. Those ones I think just have random icons on the front and not people
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/12/23 08:18 PM
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I’ve already referenced Outlander in this thread. Sappy historical time travel romance primarily aimed at women where the lead is basically from the cover of a Mills and Boon book (in the show and the novel) I’m actually a bit of a romantic at hard and love history so it is a bit of a guilty pleasure. But I tried reading the books. And oh boy. As I mentioned the author HATES short men. There is a point where one character (the original husband) has his height described as “modest” at 5’10. This …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/12/23 02:09 PM
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Is this really common in romantic fiction? I don’t really read it. Aren’t the most popular ones where the woman is rescued and submit to a perfect Chad who commits to them. So the female power fantasy. Some (like Outlander, whose authors HATES short men) extend it to the woman also saving him. But that just basically highlights that for the “perfect guy” - one that doesn’t really exist. A woman will deal with or do anything. I read a quora article about how the male lead in that series is basica…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/12/23 10:55 AM
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I have started to see more and more OLD profiles that are seemingly begging for proper dates. Tip 1 for those ladies (that they will never see and follow) - try matching with people who will actually take you on a date. Because you clearly aren’t. And asking it from someone who doesn’t need to jump through that hoop - either with you or someone else in his matches list - is not going to work One of the worst things to see in profiles is “looking for fun dates”. Even worse if “Just” is added at t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/12/23 10:50 AM
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Don’t they try and do this all jumbled up now though? The beta bailout is still at the end of course - although only after exhausting all attempts at guy number 2 (the rich one) Option 1 is now often skipped completely to go straight to 2 or 3 (Rich guy or hot bad boy). Or 2 and 3 - either in the same guy or just at the same time And then many leave it far too late to try and find option 4 - and they’ve become jaded. Once the option 4 guys get over their early 30s they are either taken or jaded …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/12/23 09:53 AM
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Do you mean you have found the video I was talking about. If so I don’t mind if you’ve posted - I think I have misplaced my password to the other forum to post it myself anyway!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/12/23 09:48 AM
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Well he is white and cis so those count against him among those with this kind of world view. And now add in this. He is an “unacceptable gay” like Douglas Murray describes himself as. Doesn’t March in lockstep with the left like he is “supposed” to like a protected / discriminated class should do. Just look at JK Rowling for another high profile example. Outspoken lefty, gives massively to charity, woman who was victim of DV - but has “unacceptable views” and is ostracised
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/12/23 09:41 AM
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Notice how long it took her to kick out the guy who apparently became a drug dealer. That’s astonishing
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/12/23 03:38 PM
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This is a real thing. Women will look at the partners of men and think “well if she can get x then I can get x+y because I am y better than her” I am sure that was big reason one of my exes left. The one that properly hurt. She had a fatter less attractive friend whose partner was taller and had a higher paying job. So woman maths then creates a problem. There were likely other factors as well but to me this always seemed a big one
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/12/23 03:35 PM
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I think even desperate guys in their 30s who just want to try and boost matches don’t even go past 38 or 39 So it’s exactly this I seem to have a lady who must be at least in her 40s expressing interest in me at the moment. Unless I am misreading. And I don’t really understand why. My hair may be receding / balding but I still don’t look like I’m in my 40s and am not in my 40s either. It’s a bit odd
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/12/23 03:30 PM
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At a recent work event a very unattractive woman was bragging about hooking up easily with a random whilst on holiday. She really thought it was a flex and was being egged on by the some of the woker colleagues I just thought it was a bit gross. She really thought she could hit up this guy at any point and get favours off of him (don’t want to be too specific). When in reality if she did she’d likely get a “who is this?” reply. Which takes some doing since in the U.K. we mostly use WhatsApp so h…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/12/23 03:26 PM
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Trying to remove competition by making her go off and chase unrealistic targets ?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/12/23 03:21 PM
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There is a reason women lie about their age so often on apps to get them below the 40 number. Fertility is one It’s like that recent viral video of the “38 year old” who was rejected by a matchmaker for being too demanding. I know women in their 30s and 40s and that one was a hard 38 if she was really 38.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/12/23 03:19 PM
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5 - Latest heart throb actor. I think mainly from Netflix movies 7 - the guy who plays will in stranger things. He has a slappable face but I think also came out very pro Israel defence force / anti Palestine which would be unacceptable for anyone who is performatively woke online. Although I’m not sure how you can be performatively woke online and have a list like this. But I assume women can square that circle in their own minds at least I’ve definitely listened to a podcast with two very woke…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/12/23 03:01 PM
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Avoiding censors I assume
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/23 04:56 PM
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I’m struggling to believe that she is honestly answering that question to anyone she is making wait I’m also not convinced every guy is asking that question. I just don’t believe many do ask that quite so openly - especially over message
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/23 04:53 PM
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She’s using travel mode but demands someone local / expects the guys to be willing to relocate? What 6ft+ relationship material guys are going to relocate for a woman with 3 kids? That’s before we question whether she really is the age she says. I’d say none…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/03/23 02:45 PM
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She can’t compete with the Instagram models but still wants the attention. It is that simple really The bit that really stands out on her profile is the “34”. If it said 24 then it would kind of being ok. But you have to wonder what happened. Because bad choices one way or another gets you to being a 34 year old demanding traditional stuff but not having locked it down And yes even if she had one relationship from 20-34 that failed. Because there is still some issue there - either she didn’t lea…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/23 04:47 PM
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If true then it certainly works. I also wonder whether they also don't really know how tall they are. Many are bad with measurements (some very bad). And it's only really a big deal for them if they are very tall so they may not have had much need to really check
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/02/23 06:27 PM
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Where does the 12% come from? I guess it would explain why I see so many women 5’8 and above on apps here - because the numbers simply aren’t there
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/23 06:26 PM
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“Reasonable” was the brief. As in controllable variables
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/02/23 05:08 PM
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I saw some girl actually write in her bio “if you are 5’7” and put it in your bio I admire your honesty” Or something really backhanded to that effect. I’ve seen her several times whilst casually swiping. So I assume she keep deleting and recreating profiles after not getting the level of matches she requires - presumably hoping that the narrow portion of guys she wants say yes on the fourth or fifth pass
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/02/23 05:35 PM
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So they imagine indeed. They nearly always have far less time unless they have completely “made it”. And even then it is not guarantee
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/02/23 01:42 PM
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This sub isn’t a sub for general train wreck dating profiles …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/02/23 01:31 PM
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I know her height isn’t mentioned but I’m increasingly noticing a spike in tall women on apps. There is a lot of talk about women seeing certain men as invisible based on looks but with taker than average women and the measure being height it is literally true (when it comes to apps). Guys below a certain height are beneath their notice (and it is not even necessarily their height). And they just get older and older And they are competing with all women for these guys I’ve started to see it in r…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/02/23 01:26 PM
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I’d be tempted to list a bunch of things and say I put one lie for search purposes. But being short is obvious in pics even if there are limited things in them for scale And it is the most common thing lied about by guys. To the extent that I think putting my real height is even more damaging than it already is because they probably assume I’m 5’2” (since apparently everyone who is 5’8” says they are 6’)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/02/23 01:19 PM
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300k ? Blimey
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/02/23 01:14 PM
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1 is arguably unreasonable as I believe there are some people who can never to this. “See their toes” ? Apparently in the U.K. the tinder user base is 85:15 male to female. Imagine if these rules where put in?! I know it isn’t the purpose of this sub but what would the equivalent of three reasonable rules be for guys? I got to “Have a job / steady income”. And probably something similar on the weight issue?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/02/23 01:13 PM
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If you are a guy with female friends who ask you to rate them out of 10 and a foolish enough to actually answer what do you really think the lowest answer that you could give is and still remain friends? I expect it isn’t going to be below 7…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/02/23 01:19 PM
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And how many of them are on dating apps looking for relationships ?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/02/23 01:17 PM
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Aren’t ballot selfies that actually show who you voted for illegal? Or is that just in the U.K. ?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/01/23 10:20 AM
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I read that as a very long winded way of her saying that she actually doesn’t date black men. But is trying to make that their problem and not hers She is implying black men message her and ask “do you actually date black guys?” Which seems odd to me if any kind of “matching” is involved on whatever app this is
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/01/23 12:37 PM
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A third example I thought of as I was writing of a single mom getting together with a single dad is more grim. She ignores / mistreats the dad’s kid so he acts out and misbehaves. He is out at work Dotes on hers (her own and the one they had together) Oh and she cheated on the husband and he stayed with her for reasons I don’t really know because I am not that close to them
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/01/23 12:30 PM
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This seems insanely common. I have historically relayed stories on here about an Indian woman who was (I think) 31 who I only “matched” with on an app because I responded to a prompt where she had an outrageous list of demands that came across really hostile She only “dated” white guys but claimed it was because Indian guys weren’t interested in her due to the region her family were from (maybe a caste thing). But simple digging revealed her to be as shallow as a puddle despite being maybe a 4/1…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/01/23 12:27 PM
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Very close given he was six months in and family and friends seem quite involved
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/01/23 12:18 PM
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The new Velma series is Mindy advertising for the world the world view of a relatively unattractive Indian woman who is obsessed with white guys who aren’t interested in her but is inexplicably still a raging narcissist
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/01/23 12:14 PM
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The ATM comment made me do a spit take. Nice work
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/01/23 12:06 PM
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Why has she need to say this so many times? Most intriguing
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/01/23 12:03 PM
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“I can’t put together why” - what? He told her exactly why. What is there to put together?! And then of course - straight into shaming him for “insecurity”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/01/23 12:02 PM
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No way did she say “I don’t feel comfortable”. That is in there so the Reddit responses can be definitively on her side “you set a boundary and he crossed it”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/01/23 11:59 AM
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Surely part of the issue is being 30 and still using Snapchat. In this case it helped the guy out of course
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/01/23 11:57 AM
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I did the weird thing of starting with these comments rather than reading the article but I got the gist Does she offer a detailed plan about how her movement plans to reclaim the “village” mindset? Beyond seeming hectoring people in an article and seemingly asking a few? Lots of the things she seems to be asking for are things no sensible single man would do in a million years because who knows what the child would say. I briefly made the mistake of dating a single mother and her youngest was a…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/01/23 11:53 AM
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They don’t just blame the men they freely chose at this point. They move to blaming all of them. Which is more insulting if you think about it
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/01/23 11:48 AM
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Logic seemingly being that it is a red flag that you had kids with someone and the relationship didn’t last Oddly doesn’t apply to them I personally know a few single mothers who do indeed get together with single fathers. Whether that lasts is still up in the air. Time will tell. The couple of examples that immediately come to mind are ones where I readily believe the woman could think they have “settled”. So it might be interesting to see
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/01/23 11:37 AM
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Watch any period drama or piece from the time and it shows you what it was actually like Call the Midwife excellently highlights things like this. Starts in the late 50s in the poor east end of london. Unwed mothers were treated like garbage. Women who got pregnant too soon got married in a rush. Women who cucked their husbands could be divorced with no consequence to the man and the court would award him full custody. The stigma forced very dangerous back alley abortions etc The show isn’t as h…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/01/23 11:27 AM
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Ah. See I interpreted it all as different categories. I read that longer sentence as one group. So: “jaded, divorced, look like my father” over 60s (but without those shaming adjectives other than “older”) under 35s I read it this was because the stuff from the first bullet wouldn’t apply to people in the last bullet so it seemed like the shaming stuff was aimed at the guys in her pool that were around her age. Also the stuff about superficial texts doesn’t seem to fit with over 60s. But could w…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/23 06:20 AM
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I distinctly remember messaging with a girl on tinder on the 26th last year and having a conversation about history (her degree). She marvelled about someone who was prepared to have a real conversation on tinder Ghosted me completely on the 27th There is a reason guys don’t have conversations! For the longest time I’ve considered just getting sexual fast with the small number of tinder matches I get because the result will likely be the same (nothing) but there might be a tiny fluke chance some…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/01/23 08:13 AM
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At no point does she appear to have considered to reflect on the nature of the men she messaged I noticed something subtle that is easy to miss - she said she sent that message to 43. Not that she only had 43 matches. It would seem she is discounting those she chose not to message that to. Who probably were the ones trying to talk and message her
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/01/23 08:09 AM
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Of course women created it. Why is it that so many can’t see that if there weren’t enough women out there willing to hookup “cheaply” then hookup culture would not exist Sure a small percentage of guys are the ones who truly benefit from it. But that doesn’t mean they created it
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/01/23 08:06 AM
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Let’s just say there is a reason I know the matches would all be from Kenya and the Philippines…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/01/23 08:53 PM
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Not necessarily. Some people carry weight differently. Think of early Tess Holiday. The reason she was initially able to become a famous plus size model was because she carried surprising little weight in her face and neck. She’s put on loads since first appearing on the scene though But face only pics are a red flag
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/01/23 08:25 PM
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What are the odds that she is after a particular thing and a particular stereotype? I somehow doubt she means a well spoken black guy who works in IT or accounting who is of average measurements in all departments
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/01/23 08:19 PM
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There are a few possible explanations. From what I gather tinder tends to queue up most of the people have already liked you first. Had a girl show me this by opening up and just right swiping and it being basically all matches (and she wasn’t a stunner) Alternatively women get so many matches that some don’t both with swiping at all and sign up wait a short time and then buy one month of premium and be shown hundreds of people they know have liked them so will be guaranteed matches. The air of …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/01/23 08:18 PM
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The teeth thing really makes me wonder who some of these women have met up with! Have you actually written the four zeroes and got screechy replies ? There would be no point if I did because I don’t get the matches for it and depending on the app women are just as unlikely to read the bios as men (OKC in the US might be one of the few exceptions) I once added no children on tinder and had a match realise after starting talking and deciding to read my bio. Size zero really narrows the population …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/12/22 09:29 PM
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Oh I misread as “ticked” rather than “tick” and thought it was a reference to something from the app I expect some of those can’t really be portrayed via the app anyway (at least one). So ticking them off not relevant I expect some are irrelevant anyway. Indeed lots of people seem to pick different ones half the time. I’ve never heard the 6 years one for example. And I have seen some use “six bedroom house”. The common ones are the three - height, salary and fitness (six pack one). And those are…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/12/22 07:45 PM
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6 x 6 boxes ?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/12/22 05:48 PM
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This may be true - but she has more than 99 likes I have that on only one app - OK Cupid. Because it will be all passporting women - most likely nearly all Kenyan and Filipino. If I paid I would be prepared to bet that not even 5 are from my country. And at £34 for one month I am not going to do that
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/12/22 04:25 PM
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I saw a thread on the Scotland reddit about the UK government potentially overruling the recent Gender ID laws that were passed in Scotland recently. The OP (and others in the thread) labelled anyone who tried to point out this might be legally possible with the 1930s group names. And they (trans so no idea) also labelled people who potentially agreed with the UK government stance as incels. Despite it having nothing to do with sexual relationships and the person agreeing was more than likely to…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/12/22 06:11 PM
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I know it is. My point was more that the idea that you instantly dump a woman who cheats (because she has done it for a reason and almost certainly won't be honest about that was) rather than trying to work it out is closer to the red pill side of the spectrum than the normie/blue pill side. Especially when you add in throwing them out in the middle of the night As demonstrated by the replies saying she should sleep on the sofa until at least the next morning if not up to a week * The hall pass …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/12/22 03:59 PM
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Partially. Although in this case the main podcaster is a woman who lost her looks (big time) as she got older and (much) heavier. So there is likely an element of cope (although she is currently married - but her prior marriage failed when she got too fat for her husband to want sex with her. Not sure she fully got over it)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/12/22 03:50 PM
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Does she get her own math wrong mid post? 8 years of the single mom thing but 7 single. So she dated for a year immediately (or pretty soon after) ending an engagement to her baby’s father?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/12/22 10:45 AM
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Yeah it is crazy. There was a popular Reddit story the other day (in a really incorrect sub for it) about I guy in the U.K. asking if he was wrong for throwing his girlfriend out at 3am having found out she cheated The responses were staggering. For one you’d have thought he was suggesting throwing her out at 3am in inner city Chicago based on the replies about danger and safety But it was somewhat telling how people would have no concerns with the scenario if it were reversed People were saying…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/12/22 10:44 AM
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And yet, listen to women talk candidly in a space they think is mostly them as an audience and they will make claims about it being the opposite and that men only want a woman they can show off. Whilst at the same time drooling over every handsome man in either tv or their own lives (got this from a woman dominated podcast discussing popular media and they let some much stuff slip without realising it during their tangent discussions)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/12/22 10:36 AM
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A part that stood out to me was not underlined. She complains about how men want physical , financial and emotional perfection within the same sentence as complaining about the lack of the same in men. Even with ludicrous claims that men in their 40s look like they are in their 70s - which suggests her standards for looks are warped She also makes all these complaints despite claiming to meet all those boxes regardless. Something doesn’t add up here
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/12/22 10:34 AM
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I took a look at the bibliography of Jessica valenti. Wow. The cat calls stopping really did a number on her didn’t it?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/12/22 09:05 AM
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Some recent app browsing has shown me that apart from the obvious (single mothers) they are full of women near over 30 who are 5’8” and above. You can bet that they will only consider men 6’0” and over. And just don’t realise that there aren’t enough of them (especially not willing to settle). And that they aren’t proportionally matched off with taller than average girls anyway It is on an app with very limited matches per day so I don’t even waste my messages on them. And I expect many guys are…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/12/22 08:58 AM
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Most women out there will claim that men won’t take it which is why it won’t happen. I guess that is not surprising. It’s always the men’s fault to them
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/12/22 01:20 PM
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Early on she asks “people actually care about that shit?”. Suggests to me she hasn’t been directly asked but might be realising there and then that she revealed it in conversation in the past and the guy bounced shortly after It didn’t quite seem like the phrasing of someone who had been directly asked before But it struck such a nerve that she definitely has a (very) high body count
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/12/22 01:05 PM
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Assuming all future prospects have a chance to see it
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/12/22 01:01 PM
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They are indeed brazen. I recently had an otherwise reasonable woman turn around and say “to be honest I don’t care about the male perspective / opinion on this” (was in regards to a piece of media) Openly and boldly. Picture the shit storm if i or anyone said the reverse
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/12/22 12:56 PM
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Because she would have just said “get fucked”. So what would have been the point ?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/12/22 12:45 PM
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Eh? “Mr Anti-abortion”. Where did you get that from I was commenting on how certain pro choice arguments are amplified loudly now but are really bad. Not that there were no valid ones. I thought that was clear from the context? As in Crystal fucking clear. “If a man could get pregnant abortion would be easy and free” and by implication that it isn’t is due to the evils of “the patriarchy” = terrible argument that is loudly screamed and discredits the position. Your example = good argument and th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/11/22 10:46 PM
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I expect her goals changed and her partner’s opinion counted for zero
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/11/22 02:51 PM
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I saw an insane profile the other day of a woman who was in an open relationship (might even have been marriage) and was looking for fun on the side. Assume it was agreed with the guy The crazy part is she put “wining and dining is a must”. That isn’t how those relationships work (not that they work anyway). I gather the point is (supposed to be) that the guy can’t sexually do the job (perhaps ED , low drive whatever). But you don’t go and get all the other relationship trimmings on the side as …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/11/22 08:29 AM
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7 was my guess as well
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/11/22 08:24 AM
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And yet the most extreme women will make the reverse claim - things only happen because they affect men / only impact women negatively Main example they use this in is the strict abortion laws and hormonal birth control. They claim that if men could get pregnant that abortion would be free, on demand and up to the point of birth. You know - one of those insane pro choice arguments that is more about being pro woman (and often anti men) than the dealing with the actual issue and yet some how gets…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/11/22 08:17 AM
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It’s made extra absurd when you think how few supermodel looking women are out there You could ask these women to come out on an average night out. Not even to observe you not getting approached. But ask them to count the “models” that you should not be bothering with. I expect it would either be a tiny number (the truth) or an absurdly large one (with the woman unconsciously ruling out anyone slightly more attractive than the guy in their opinion). Either answer would kind of prove a point in i…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/11/22 07:04 PM
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Basically there is one definition now used that applies to all. And it is the very narrow one. All are the ugly, basement dwelling guys with no jobs who hate women and have manifestos. The group is far bigger than that. Especially if you consider people who have had relationships and then not for some time But there are lots of normal shy people who would fit the literal definition. Me as a teenager would fit the literal definition if I was a teen today. And it would have been pretty terrible fo…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/11/22 07:01 PM
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I’d guess her marriage ?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/11/22 03:52 PM
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There is to her though which I think was the point. She is massively overvaluing herself
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/11/22 03:52 PM
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She sent me a private one as well but not as rude. Just pointing out that she could find plenty of men who could meet those boxes. I mean sure - if you are offering transactional services. I'd doubt she could find such guys who would actually seriously date her if she told them she is also a sugar baby (this qualifier is important). No doubt she'd tell us she can but no one here was born yesterday Weirdly her petty insult would be far more accurately aimed at me given you are married and I am no…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/11/22 10:29 PM
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I think they also have no idea just how vastly different the dating options actually are. They do not realise how low the level of matches circa 80% of guys get on dating apps Granted lots of women appreciate that their matches on such apps are mostly just guys wanting quick hookups. But even once filtering all those out (but i can see how that could get tiring) there will still be far more legit options left over Women get majority matches when swiping. I sometimes think some reboot their profi…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/11/22 10:20 PM
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No. Let’s not play that “but but men too!” game here. That is what the rest of Reddit and indeed the internet is for. The very meme itself should reflect that this isn’t true. Because these forever alone women turning men down are unlikely to be top tier catches. So the men drowning them with petitions are probably already being flexible. But if that isn’t enough - read some of the other replies here
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/11/22 07:43 PM
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I can’t stand the common incel narrative from women that all incels (yes that is right, ALL of them) are like it because they just want super models (Victoria secret models seem to be the accusation of choice) It’s 100% weapon’s grade projection
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/11/22 07:41 PM
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Just seen the post history - the troll is actually a full on whore. But certainly explains their post
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/11/22 11:09 PM
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It’s amusing listening to lesbians complain about actually having to put in effort. And the market is so much smaller depending on where you live they actually have an even worse time Leaving aside not being able to assume another chick is lesbian Got told a story by a lesbian where she was putting in an absurd amount of effort for a woman who she knew was a full on alcoholic (who flaked on dates due to drinking). And she still kept trying. And this isn’t a case of you being with someone for yea…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/11/22 10:52 PM
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You’ll find they lie in their posts and say that they give out blowjobs and don’t get oral in return. I think that is in the screenshots (Although with some top guys I am sure that is true - I’ve met some women who never had people go down on them) What is definitely in the above is the convenient moving of the goalposts with that “orgasm gap” thing. Because if you say “fine what if they take blowjobs off the table” - suddenly that still isn’t “fair”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/11/22 10:48 PM
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Women and trans women only apparently. I think they actually hate the name of their sub and wish they could change it
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/11/22 10:44 PM
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At least half of them are genetic. As in - there is pretty much nothing you can do about them. Imagine if you were a 5’8” B cup woman with a flat ass and were told you needed to be below 5’5” with big natural breasts and a natural round ass. It couldn’t be done
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/11/22 10:43 PM
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They told me on my other account that the auto signup stopped 5 years ago They were lamenting “lurkers” and trying to claim they came over from FDS. They were wrong on two counts because the “lurkers” they complained about seemed to actually post because it’s not like any pro women stuff was being noticeably downvoted. And linked to that - FDS never even allowed men to post. Two X does but you must toe the party line and stick to the dogma I suggested it was more likely that many guys were auto …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/11/22 10:40 PM
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They probably looked at where else you posted and realised nothing they said would ever be a suitable answer
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/11/22 10:34 PM
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You clearly haven’t spent that much time on the toxic echo chamber that is two x. It is pretty much as bad as FDS now. And anyone who had a Reddit account circa 5 years ago was auto signed up for it back then. I am pretty sure it was a little more measured then but unsurprisingly they have all gone insane and it is backed full of toxic misandry, apex fallacies and the like. And non stop complaining about and blaming men for everything. But posts about relationships with them being the majority o…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/11/22 10:32 PM
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On the last post - “Who would fuck a dude like you”? Apparently loads of women who post in such threads. Can they not read ?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/11/22 10:27 PM
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She claims to be sane but it looking for a good father to a child on tinder.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/11/22 10:23 PM
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There’s something to be said for her including the pic where she is in the super hero outfit and looks dreadful. I mean that and the admission about future kids is more honesty that you’d usually get and would allow the majority to steer clear I’d expect she has gone a stretch of time without that pic up and guys finding out when they met her and bailing
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/11/22 10:21 PM
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You clearly don’t quite get it. To understand play a simple game - imagine that is a male dating profile. Imagine a very overweight guy making demands like this. And then consider that men place a fat higher priority on looks and lower priority on a woman’s income. So a fat guy with her job might get some interest because of the presumed income from being a director. This does not move the needle in the same way for women. She already mentions how she doesn’t want to look after anyone. So it see…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/11/22 07:46 AM
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You assume that by “big” she means fat. It is far likely she means “tall”. And probably built as well but mainly the tall part. So she doesn’t look so enormous relatively
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/11/22 07:41 AM
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I would bet more than she is demanding here that she is below a 5/10 and this is a pre-emptive rejection tactic. When she gets hardly any interest apart from maybe very rich, low self esteem, unattractive tech guys who she can reject for their appearance she can just claim that no one meets her standards and that is why she is single I’d expect the number of guys who would take these terms even for a childless woman is very very small. But for an angry single mom? That cuts the field even more
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/10/22 08:26 AM
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Or “I’d like it if you shaved your legs and under your arms” Reee! That is patriarchal oppression. A man is never asked to do such things ! (Cue bewildered look and pointing to the previous list of requests / demands)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/10/22 09:52 AM
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So I didn’t read the initial post initially and skipped to the replies within the screenshot. I could tell she was Indian / south Asian from just the comment towards the end about guys from her culture not dating down in terms of background. That was all it took. I wonder if I would have guessed the background regardless as they certainly seem to be a big portion of the FDS kween market. Pushed by family into a very good job and completely look down on men from their own background
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/10/22 09:50 AM
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Yeah it is astonishing to me how long he stuck with that conversation for and how polite he was in the face of an absolutely crazy person. That’s what the incredibly low match rate most men have will get you
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/09/22 01:12 PM
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Talk about posting your Ls online
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/09/22 02:19 PM
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Will these women realise that “tall, dark and handsome” (especially their likely definitions of tall and handsome) will not wait 90 days. Maybe a fraction will. But that is cutting the pool even further
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/09/22 02:20 PM
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I didn't think you were and didn't mean it to come across that way.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/22 08:23 PM
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The truth isn't really important and certainly not to the angry feminist land whales who float such theories. Perhaps it was just that despite that he was a really bad lover and young girls apparently don't know they can demand more from men in the bedroom (rather than the size thing). This is another common talking point I see from feminists/other angry jilted women screaming on tiktok. When all it shows me is that they pick the desirable guys who know they don't need to put in any effort becau…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/22 08:17 PM
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I have actually heard feminists theorise that they think DiCaprio has a tiny cock / must be really shit in bed. And claim that is the reason he gets women young - so they don’t know any better But this is hilarious for multiple reasons - not least these are all modern western women and have almost certainly had sex at least once. And the particular feminist i am thinking of regularly goes on tangent in her podcast where she described being obsessed with sex at like 14/15 and losing her virginity…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/22 10:07 AM
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Has anyone ever looked into who these women move onto? The poor suckers who will be with these ultimate alpha widows
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/22 10:01 AM
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But there are loads of people like this now. Including trans people (a prominent member on YouTube had to remove a video where she claimed dating preferences are transphobic , racist etc) and fat people But the only ones loudly talked about for doing this in a negative way? You guessed it - incel men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/22 09:57 AM
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I feel like I just read a Daenerys chapter in ASOIAF …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/22 09:52 AM
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Yeah she is not getting anyone. If I could afford even a 20,000 engagement ring (which is still absurd) I would probably have a list of more than a thousand women who I'd want to give it to before her. Hell I imagine I could set up a tinder profile with the text as "Looking for a wife, 20k ring on the table" and even among the cascade of skanks and gold diggers there would still be dozens better than this woman (might be going a bit far...)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/08/22 02:20 PM
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Does she think she is half the age she is? A guy who meets her description will not want a 49 year old with her attitude
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/08/22 01:36 PM
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Who doesn’t love to laugh?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/08/22 07:22 PM
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A comment in the "One man's frustration" post really resonated - how it is assumed something is wrong with you if you are a single man. Especially in your 30s I went on a date recently with someone who just kept saying she thought I was too good to be true and she couldn't understand why I was single. She was so positive and complimentary both times we saw each other and expressed real interest in a relationship (which I was interested in for this person). Then within a week she seemingly panick…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/08/22 07:23 PM
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Outside of all the obvious glaring red flags is something else I picked up on - she describes herself as "only 5'4" " Are women really that oblivious to the height of the average man and woman? The answer based on that bumble filter story is obviously "yes". And they are confused about women's height likely due to all the high heels 5'4" is the average height for a woman in the USA. I don't know the exact distribution but I would expect that would mean at least 50% of women are her height or sho…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/08/22 11:24 PM
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Gosh that takes some skill. You’d think she would have accidentally let something slip in trying to schedule three prior dates - what with time constraints / need for childcare
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/08/22 08:19 AM
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Tried to spring it on you? How did they do that? No mention in the profile? Or was it a real life person? How long before they sprung it ?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/22 08:38 PM
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Do they realise that the quotes reveal that they have previously gone for guys that do the opposite ? In this case for potentially up to 25 years …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/22 08:37 PM
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A woman once tried to suggest to me that sex she didn’t enjoy didn’t count. And mused on whether she could claim to be a virgin as a result
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/07/22 05:19 PM
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Hypes?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/07/22 11:34 AM
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There is something not quite right about her eyes (or the expression behind them) - especially towards the end. Can't quite put my finger on it but at a push I'd say it comes from trying force the smile she has on and most like trying to stop herself getting emotional/crying. So instead she looks quite soulless
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/07/22 01:23 PM
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I can only assume her other tiktoks explain this. But perhaps they don't. It kind of becomes irrelevant when you make one like this though and it (apparently) goes somewhat viral
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/07/22 01:21 PM
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Well in my case that is a little too close to home so I probably can’t say it! Or might as well say “women I treated very well and did everything for and never even considered doing anything violent to had no problem walking away from me”. Likely followed up be labels of “incel” and the like
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/07/22 06:57 AM
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So she is completely correct for the app she is using
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/07/22 04:21 PM
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Apparently so. I have asked. But I can only assume that a bunch of handsome chads types do it for a bit of a laugh. Or maybe to see just what women will overlook. Why do I assume this? Because women are complaining about it. They don't complain about the bad profiles of guys they swipe left on quick sharp. I guess maybe it is a reason they instantly swipe left as almost a mental filter (apparently holding a fish is like that as well). But if there were a bunch of neckbeards (and only neckbeards)…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/07/22 04:20 PM
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There are legions of guys out there who try their hardest and get bailed on for far far less than this. Not to mention the ones who can’t find partners It becomes very hard to have full sympathy in that context
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/07/22 01:08 PM
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Isn’t this just a straight up wannabe sugar baby who has crafted a profile with enough plausible deniability to avoid it getting banned if/when it is reported ? The constant use of “empty nester” is kind of a giveaway. Empty nesters are likely to be mid 40s at the youngest. I’m sure she doesn’t mean a dude who had a kid at 18 and has finally got rid of them at 36. Because no one seriously looking for marriage also so openly displays sugar baby credentials. Unless she truly believes she can be on…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/22 06:17 AM
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A gift on a first date is a great idea … for a woman to bring for the guy. It is a show of interest and intent and that they are actually taking it seriously. And ideally if you have spoken before that she was actually paying attention This happened once to me and arguably was a smoke screen for red flags. No obvious ones on the first date but that kind of interest and effort made me keener to overlook ones that came up
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/06/22 12:31 PM
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Yeah only children talk about ages in such a way
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/06/22 12:28 PM
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The gift is because this is some kind of “high income” dating site Little does she realise that a high income guy is desirable enough - he can find someone who he doesn’t need to make an extra purchase of affection (on top of the expected - paying for most things)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/06/22 12:24 PM
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This will likely be a grab from another reddit and not the OPs convo (could be wrong though)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/22 07:31 AM
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Is she asking for that though? She just seems to be berating him for not giving her money. Unless she was trying to shit test him by asking him if he had ever subbed to any (without revealing she had one initially) and he reacted negatively and it offended her But that is almost certainly overthinking it
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/22 07:31 AM
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And yet women will spend years in therapy just to be validated and not actually changing anything about themselves or their actions And men will … (we know as it is already being referenced)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/22 06:39 AM
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That sounds more like what I would expect in China. Is that really a thing in Japan?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/22 12:12 AM
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Whilst I don’t doubt the reasons you have listed does this mean you don’t put any weight at all on nearly half of men having never been on a date? I doubt that the reason they never have is because they know having kids sucks Unless you are suggesting that they know dating will always ultimately lead to kids (it won’t) and therefore they opt out early ?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/22 12:11 AM
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How does the dating work differently ? Dating is pretty stressful in the west so I’d be fascinated to know how it is considered stressful in Japan (your phrasing implies “more stressful” than in the west)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/22 12:09 AM
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I’m not sure Mr Big is doing that anymore. It just isn’t happening. The Mr Bigs of this world are toying with these women and discarding them. Sometimes they are lucky and not left with a child. Other times they are not You can see this in a cavalcade of TikTok’s from absolutely broken women who are often above the average attractive level and should have no problem. They do stuff like fly over the country or drive for hours to be played and discarded. And then post their Ls on line Doesn’t soun…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/22 12:07 AM
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They think this because if they level up in any way then it indicates to the dumper that they made the wrong choice They also get angry that the guy didn’t improve whilst they were together - often failing to reason that in some way that is at least partially their fault. Either lack of support or the reverse (too much enabling) I was surprised when this came up on a parks and rec rewatch. One of the female characters basically said this “I loved him but he was a loser. And now as soon as I dump…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/06/22 03:58 PM
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Thanks meme would be good right here
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/06/22 03:53 PM
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Where was the story about that guy. He played it perfectly and played her at her own game
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/06/22 03:51 PM
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12 year age gap presumably puts her into her 30s. Well past the “about to turn 30 with no ring and baby” panic zone
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/06/22 03:49 PM
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Or take their money via onlyfans or porn site subscriptions… Funny that They’d be loads of guys who sub to her onlyfans (I assume that is what she does due to the two and a half year timeline and not showing her face at the start) who would take her out. Many would probably worship her and more than you would think would be cool with her doing her “work”. Some might even ask to hold the friggin camera But of course she doesn’t want those guys. To me that is identical hypocrisy to what she says. …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/06/22 08:34 PM
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Yikes that part with the black background reveals an awful lot of her scars
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/06/22 08:29 PM
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He paid part of her ACLU donation - I think that is the one she promised after the divorce settlement And there are definitely rumours that he paid her legal fees. (More likely is that he used his sway to indirectly get her legal team to pro bono the case in exchange for more fees from elsewhere) That part isn’t proven I saw someone comment in a video saying she looks like she “goes like the clappers”. Which made me laugh but is also true. She definitely seems to have a magic pussy. Many women t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/06/22 01:48 PM
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I fully expect him to bail her straight out. But it won’t be public knowledge. And it will be post appeal
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/06/22 11:06 AM
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Amber heard’s only kid so far is via surrogate. Most likely due to not wanting to risk her figure but could be due to fertility problems that existed for her even in her early 30s. She is 36 now. She is going to have to move very fast
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/06/22 07:23 AM
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Normally that second question is valid but she tells us that immediately afterward. Whether it is true or not is debatable but she hasn’t exactly been ambiguous about it
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/22 02:20 PM
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Exactly - why write this. I guess it is good that people know to steer clear - although the single mom of two is enough for that in most cases I can only assume some guys have run for the hills as soon as she mentioned the back story so she decides to get it out there
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/22 02:19 PM
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How do you call her if she won’t give you her number ? Can’t even keep their stories straight within one paragraph
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/22 02:01 PM
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Dating with a purpose at 44? About 20 years too late. Although I expect this one is divorced at least once
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/22 02:00 PM
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And think further about how many women are absolutely obsessed (and I mean obsessed) with true crime and serial killer documentaries and podcasts You see it all the time in profiles a well. It is probably the most common “non basic” thing (so after you exclude pizza, travelling, wine, drinking, going out, shopping etc) . One of the most common specific interests
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/22 07:39 AM
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Or look up Chris Watts. Chad like man kills his pregnant wife and two kids (whilst also having an affair on the side) and gets love letters saying things like "I don't care what you did". And not just one where you could dismiss it as coming from a lunatic It is one of the most black pill things you can imagine
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/22 09:05 PM
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You can't say that without being met with an outraged "women don't owe you sex for being nice" or something like that Which is massively oversimplifying it (and that is done so intentionally). Because really the kind of behavior that women seem to be crying out for needs to be rewarded...somehow. A common conclusion posted by (i think) one of the mods on here starts - "if the kindest, hardest working and most decent men were the ones women chose to sleep and have relationships with..." Although …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/22 06:49 PM
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And you can tell it is “settle” as she doesn’t believe she will be losing anything if her behaviour causes J to either walk away early or walk away when he finds out That type of guy just isn’t a priority for her - now. But when he is it could well be too late
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/06/22 09:09 AM
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By “got there” I should have clarified that I meant “made her story sound believable”. Not acceptable or reasonable. I didn’t mean that I fully believe some women think of men like she does. I utterly don’t believe that she orgasms 3 times EVERY time with this FWB guy and doesn’t reciprocate until that happens. It’s just tough to believe that she could be that orgasmic but have never had one with her previous ex (who you’d assume she must have been attracted to at the start). And also that any g…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/05/22 03:08 PM
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That last part is where her story falls apart in my opinion. Her embellishment of the truth / outright lies might have just got there until she wrote that
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/05/22 12:44 PM
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This is the thing - I don’t find this post completely believable. There are surely some embellishments. It hits too many points on the FDS checklist but is also vague in certain areas She has also forgotten to brag about the guy’s income (and her own). Probably the only points on the checklist she missed She also clearly hasn’t figured dating out of based on the early part of the story she went on lots of dates where the guy paid and (seemingly, reading between the lines) they were all one and d…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/05/22 12:42 PM
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I thought they just went private
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/05/22 12:39 PM
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Which part is irony ? I might just be being a bit dense
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/05/22 12:37 PM
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TikTok is something quite different in my mind. Sure they are all forms of validation seeking but the latter two have at least an illusion that they are open to dating/hookups or whatever Flip side is that those apps involve pretty much no effort at all. Tiktok is awful but they actually have to do something. But it is solely for attention so it is really not worth giving credit over I only mention “bumble girls” as they seem to behave differently from some of the others. There is, again, an ill…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/05/22 09:07 PM
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I have suddenly seen a few cases of women on bumble complaining about the app. Either in their profile or implying it in quite an early message to me. In fact I think I am mainly thinking of two recent cases where they brought it up early on in chats I have no sympathy as bumble chicks are the flakiest of all and the most disingenuous. They basically want tinder with an extra screening / filter process where they can select who gets to do all the donkey work and filter out any mistaken swipes. M…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/05/22 02:41 PM
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Being pedantic but that isn’t what that section is solely for. It is interests. Which they certainly are. “Basic bitch” interests. But interests none the less
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/05/22 01:39 PM
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A few words into that final paragraph and I really thought she was talking about herself. How naive
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/05/22 01:35 PM
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It’s pretty crazy that she thinks she is in a position to reject guys who don’t have “wiz khalifa kind of hype”. Wtf does that even mean? That she wants someone with his clout? Or is it a personality thing?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/05/22 01:34 PM
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The fathers kid? English mfer do you speak it ?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/05/22 01:32 PM
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That first post of hers is ridiculous as she doesn’t want the real answer Some of her replies to that second reveal the answer is quite likely to be “yes”. Notably the one about settling But also the fact that she is so bad at picking that she can’t even find a guy with enough interest to text her more than once a week. Or rather refuses to consider such a guy as an option (which is likely more accurate)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/05/22 01:30 PM
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No one in those Reddit replies is calling out her claims to have loved / been “broken hearted” by 1-4 month situationships. That isn’t love - those are infatuations I also noted, as did the OP, that she is cunning with her words when demanding a tall guy. It isn’t because she is tall. It is because she is fat. But to the untrained reader you’d think she was 5’8” or above and that he request is more reasonable than it actually is
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/05/22 01:26 PM
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Probably even more unlikely. A guy at that job level at age 60 has probably been partner for minimum 10 years. Up to 20 based on her being one (albeit it could be a small firm in her case). Think about how much money has potentially been accumulated (unless lots has gone to divorce) Someone that wealthy wouldn’t want to be starting a family with someone who was 40 because the odds are so low. They might casually date them. Or date them if the woman didn’t want kids. But that isn’t the case here
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/05/22 11:22 PM
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Yes. Women can just be unattractive. And they are often the worst as they need to pre-reject for their egos
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/05/22 11:18 PM
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Yeah. But she didn’t get the memo that she is not supposed to give away that women don’t have the same definition of romance by immediately writing a contradiction to the normal definition
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/05/22 11:17 PM
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Or advertise themselves to hundreds of men with clearly visible nipple piercings She’ll have no problem getting loads of people to sleep with her. Chances of her attracting someone who would stick with her though? Minimal unless she is absolutely dynamite sexually and even then you’d eventually get bored And if she did manage to get the attention of someone who’d be decent she would most likely mess him around / consider him boring and then eventually look elsewhere
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/05/22 03:22 PM
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She’s 22 - it will be all 3 at that age. She’ll be going for either Alpha Fuck or Alpha Bucks. Not interest at all in Betas at this age unless she is a full on sugar baby. But she has made it very very clear in her profile that beta typed disgust her
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/05/22 09:13 AM
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This must come from somewhere as I have seen this on at least one profile before. So it isn’t the clever or witty comment she thinks it is
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/05/22 08:16 PM
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I assume height , income and penis size based on the profile
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/05/22 08:15 PM
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Because she probably is ?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/05/22 05:18 PM
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When you don’t think FDS is sociopathic enough for you and actively want a group more sociopathic then you have real problems and should probably be on a watch list I hate to say it but if this was a dude then they probably would be / would be a prime shooter candidate. Women don’t seem to go that route. I just hope this woman isn’t involved in nursing or childcare… Don’t lots of phones now have thumbprint or Face ID? I guess only the higher end ones. Also she’d be able to find out some of those…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/05/22 07:46 AM
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Shaming language and all? Or just dating a single mom? I’ve done the latter but I wasn’t exactly guilted or shamed into it
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/05/22 12:50 PM
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It’s more direct now. Where the lead has a romantic interest who is a single mom. It’s becoming more noticeable - although not that many immediately jump to mind One that does is that apparently the love interest in the new top gun is a single mom. Because that really makes sense (/s)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/05/22 12:48 PM
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She’s mostly answered why she lost her kids in her own profile. Which is helpful of her
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/05/22 12:45 PM
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I saw a study suggesting that humans evolved with concealed ovulation so that women could hide it from...other women. Who would get aggressive and attack competition Previous theories all suggested it was to keep the man around for as long as possible to secure protection and resources (and that was indeed how it was worded by scientists - straight up using red pill / manosphere language). It certainly makes sense. Could easily be a bit of both * As to the DV rate - pretty sure I saw that lesbia…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/05/22 07:38 PM
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There aren’t many dudes who get together with already pregnant chicks to support them and some other guys child. I would expect the number of girls who would do that is even smaller - lesbian or not. Perhaps a 1/10 lesbian is they thought they could manipulate a young girl (I have seen this recently. The girl wasn’t pregnant but was apparently a sexual abuse victim. She was terrified of men but didn’t seem to have spotted that she was “with” an ugly butch lesbian who was clearly gaslighting and …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/05/22 02:49 PM
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There is a British reality show called “F Boy Island” where the set up is to see if the women can avoid the fuck boys and pick the legit people who want a relationship I can’t be bothered to watch it - notably because I am pretty confident I know what the answer is
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/05/22 02:46 PM
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Some do. There was a post like this the other day
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/05/22 02:45 PM
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Talk for a couple of weeks, hook up and then get ghosted” - she is describing 2/3rds of the average interaction most men have on apps. No prizes for guessing which of the three the man usually doesn’t get Free puss everywhere? For a small selection of guys sure. Not for most
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/05/22 02:43 PM
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This is one reason why this sub is so interesting and valuable. People who try to criticise the points made often call out Reddit posts as fake and stories (and some probably are or at least are embellished) I also had someone in a YouTube comments try to claim the articles you get in magazines were fake as well. Like the Bolde ones where the women are basically posting their travails on the CC and being open about their Ls. Claim was “stock photos are used” and things like that But this is an a…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/05/22 05:49 PM
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Despite what the woke left will have you believe men can’t have children
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/05/22 05:43 PM
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There is a look?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/05/22 05:42 PM
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Thing is - apart from a lack of patchy facial hair she looks like the stereotypical basement dwelling incel. And seemingly weighs the same as well given “more to love”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/05/22 05:42 PM
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Clarify that she doesn’t “date” them. As to anything else …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/05/22 05:14 PM
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Twitter has just directed me to a story about a BBC journalist / presenter who is lamenting that she is unable to get pregnant at 37 through ivf and is lying about having something call “secondary infertility” You dig into is and she had her first kid at 33 via IVF. So she was already having fertility problems yet she seems surprised and heart broken that it isn’t working for a second at 37? And dig further and find that she met her husband at uni and took 6-8 years before they got married (depe…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/05/22 05:12 PM
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If did stagger me when I did an experiment of extending my bumble age filter out to the 40s (either 42 or 45) You see lots of women 38-42 who tick the box of “want kids” or “have and want more” They really have bought into the whole “Fertility cliff is a myth” narrative
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/05/22 05:05 PM
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So we have someone who has ground away for circa 20 years to get to the top of her profession but realised that it is meaningless if all she has to look forward to for the next 15 or so years is working
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/05/22 05:03 PM
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She better hope her big partner salary is worth it. She might have a tiny chance if she is looking for someone who is prepared to be a house husband - which she almost certainly isn’t
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/05/22 05:02 PM
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She’s a partner so unless it is only a small firm she is likely making big money. But that will mean she demands the same from a man. A guy with “partner at a law firm” earnings will not be trying to start a family with a 40 year old
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/05/22 05:00 PM
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Cognitive dissonance It is like how pro-choice women can argue that men just need to keep it in their pants but then lose their minds when it is suggested they keep their legs closed. Or even just that they insist on contraception and don’t have to let the hot guy hit it raw. Lose. Their. Minds. “You can’t control me” , “You are trying to limit who we have sex with” etc etc
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/05/22 03:32 PM
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I think the issue is that it really isn’t that hard for them to fuck it up. In theory it isn’t hard to avoid fucking up such an advantage. Just be restrained and think about consequences (and understand what men actually want long term). She was likely bombarded with affirmation and positive attention. That would go to most people’s heads. And also few realise it will eventually end. Why would that even cross your mind when you are at the height of having things served up to you on a silver plat…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/05/22 12:38 PM
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If the first part were true she wouldn’t be on tinder - which almost all looks based
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/05/22 12:19 PM
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You mean the sort of men who don’t read her profile and don’t need to have even pretended to ?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/05/22 04:41 PM
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Plain Jane advertises her poor decision making for the world to see and now expects better? Nah As KS says - you can’t do better than your baby daddy. So her dating pool is “worthless” men only
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/05/22 01:28 PM
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Incorrect
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/04/22 06:37 PM
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That was what I was getting at with the fourth point. But being less direct about it
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/04/22 11:40 PM
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Yeah the same women hate hunting photos but I think those are far less common that people who fish
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/04/22 06:07 PM
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I kind of guessed on the last one. And you are assuming on ocean boat fishing The guy I know who fishes decidedly does not have a six figure job and neither do most of the people he fishes with. And he goes an camps by rivers and lakes in the U.K. countryside. I’d expect the women aggressively commenting on fish pics are expecting more of the latter kind of fisher than the former So that last point was more based on that kind of idea. And either way - an similar outlay on golf if likely to be fa…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/04/22 04:55 PM
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Pretty much what you said. They hate that their man will have a hobby (in general) : less attention one that keeps them out for long periods of time (see above) one that is mostly men - I don’t get this but I gather most women assume men gossip about their relationships and sex lives in the way women do I don’t think it is considered prestigious/good for networking. I say this because my first three points apply to something like golf
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/04/22 04:26 PM
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All of these. I didn’t go into the reasons but this sums it up nicely It’s just more delusion from some of these women. They should be well aware that if they are a single mom and the guy has no kids - especially if she does not intend to have any more that the guy’s mom will not like them. She may be outwardly pleasant due to common decency. But that is as far as it will go
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/04/22 04:42 PM
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Pretty picky ? More like only picks pretty people. And look how that worked out “Enjoy life” in this case likely means - spend the new guys money enjoying herself. Not sitting back on child support. Because she says she is “ready to” - as in future tense. Not what she is currently doing
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/04/22 01:58 PM
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Her request for attention and validation (snap and to message her first) comes before the mention of her kid. Interesting
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/04/22 01:56 PM
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In my experience moms have particularly strong feelings about their childless sons dating single mothers. Now if they aren’t childless - their opinion is potentially different
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/04/22 01:54 PM
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I still can’t imagine directly asking that to a woman . It is an important but immensely awkward question that you won’t get an honest answer to anyway. Granted the answer you do get will be indicative - especially if it is the one you mention
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/04/22 07:15 AM
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The ones that really make me double take are the ones who admit to living and working overseas in their 20s doing “fun” jobs (and likely getting continuously plowed). Then they write “just back in x” - clearly looking for someone to provide a better life given they haven’t bothered with either their career or finding a partner for the best part of a decade Very few men do this. Very few can
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/04/22 06:01 PM
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It’s the incredibly simple answer as to why all the women complaining about dating are having the problems they are having. They DGAF. At all. All that is important is what they want
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/04/22 05:56 PM
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It’s comforting to people like this to make these assumptions. Better than facing the truth
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/04/22 05:52 PM
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Perhaps I should take a leaf out of women’s book and shame her for something genetic that she has no control over? That strong jaw and cleft chin - a sign that it isn’t always good when women select for “alpha”/manly traits. Because it doesn’t really look good on women at all.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/04/22 09:29 AM
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“Almost” everything? I wonder what she will admit to not being able to do ?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/04/22 08:25 AM
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Interesting censorship from the OP as it seems like she was suggesting a well know person? Otherwise surely it is useless info I expect she meant to write “man card” and is not referring to his payment cards. But I don’t know if “man card” is a thing in the US
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/04/22 08:12 AM
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I dunno about that 3 dates in a night thing. Sounds to me that if a woman is prepared accept that excuse then she is the type to put out on the first date even if she claims otherwise
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/04/22 01:05 AM
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I don’t really understand Medicaid . If true then it sounds like the US health system is even worse and more unfair than I realised.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/04/22 01:02 AM
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And if you do..it is a tax increase. Unclear on the point of mentioning that. I guess that people in the flooring scenarios are unlikely to be earning that and thus not impacted by that particular dent to income? Or was the mentioned for another reason? Tax raises are fundamentally not aligned with Tory politics and in this case their manifesto said they wouldn’t be increased. Perhaps there is some loophole claimed where they can say they meant income tax and not NI ? Labour are castigated for e…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/04/22 09:40 PM
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If she is from the US then I would assume the healthcare costs (even if it is via insurance) of dialysis would be horrifying. As if the 4 kids and none of your own wasn’t bad enough
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/04/22 05:58 PM
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Yeah - that is not an admission she wants to make in the current dating market as there aren’t going to be many men who take that to mean anything other than child support and therefore baby daddies still hanging around
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/04/22 05:57 PM
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I just read a bbc article (can’t find the link right now) about some rental places in the north of England where the tenants where told to rip out the carpet before leaving and new people coming in The new families can’t afford flooring and are struggling with heating bills. Obviously sad and loads of the U.K. are struggling with a shocking uplift in energy bills But in the article they give examples of two families struggling. One is a single mother of a 12 years old and is named. An unnamed pe…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/04/22 02:21 AM
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I thought it was 50:50 of overall incidents. Or something like 45% of women are violent and 55% on men (and not what the split of overall cases are) Whichever it was that showed a very close percentage was indeed buried (Similar to how the study that shows both sexes are less likely to use protection with attractive counter parties. If you try looking for that all the stories you see report on male behaviour when the percentages are almost the same) But what I was referring to was who actually i…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/04/22 01:58 AM
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This plus “massive population”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/22 08:44 PM
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I’m not even sure I’d do that in a “talking phase” or first date. Unless they volunteered the topic Even then. I recently had a girl describe how she was back living at home because they moved to the city because their Ex boyfriend wanted them to and when they split the rent was too expensive (true) I made no comment. Didn’t ask when they split, how long they were together for, why they split etc It would be important info but not something to ask at that point
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/22 04:25 PM
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Was your wife’s friend’s comment about men being spooked talking about the current situation ? On the sources of FDS - I didn’t know most of the sources. You missed the Steve Harvey 90 day rule - which is most definitely not a white woman thing But it is funny that to me most of their “rules” now just look like they have been modified and are male red pill stuff that are largely gender swapped even if they literally don’t work that way around. It is why I initially wondered if the whole thing wa…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/22 03:35 PM
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Absolutely. Like I said - this one gave up enough clues really easily I overlooked them due to how I was at the time But my point was on outward appearances she was a put together teacher who wanted a relationship and kids - to the point where they made a point of talking about how annoyed she was when her previous date revealed he couldn’t have children and also how he tried to get her to go home with him on the first date. That was the facade. It really didn’t take long at all to break Didn’t …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/22 03:24 PM
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I more meant that I don’t think there is a way the mods on that sub can stop people just deleting their posts when they don’t like the answer Which misses the point to me. I’m sure most read it for fun but there probably are a few people who try to see if something similar to their own issue has come up. Maybe not though
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/22 03:19 PM
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You say this but I am not 100% convinced the woman is this is “western”. Potentially lives in the west which would count I guess Many the most outrageous stories about relationships on Reddit seem to come from one place - with a massive population - that is definitely not in the west
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/22 03:06 PM
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Perhaps not that far. But at least encourage the attempt. Or attempted abuse / violence of any kind. They know the men get all the blame. And they get victim points and an army of white knights Look at the Depp-Heard case as an example. She has got the richest man in the world white knighting for her despite recordings indicating that she is a head case. A guy who most believe is pretty “based” on most issues Aren’t there also studies suggesting most intimate partner violence is instigated by th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/22 03:04 PM
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If we are honest even some of the biggest train wrecks posted here are “better” than this woman. We talk a lot mainly about how women just don’t get how important sex and sexual exclusivity is to men. There are few things within a relationship that trumps this. It might well only be one - and it is this one - wanting to raise your own children. Granted the two do overlap
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/22 03:01 PM
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I don’t wish to overgeneralise too much but on that sub when a woman has posted they are usually the asshole. Or at least “everyone sucks here”. Regardless of the vote outcome It seems that if a woman has the slightest amount of self awareness required to even ask that question then they KNOW that what they did is fucked up. Whether directly or just that they know deep down Like this one - you can tell by her writing that she didn’t expect a negative response. But her husbands reaction plus aski…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/22 02:58 PM
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Probably just the football team multiple times. I assume they change members every year…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/22 02:20 PM
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Yeah I found it super weird. I guess she must have something in her profile about it that triggers people to ask I refuse to believe even the majority of guys would ask this straight up in either a talking phase or a first date. Let alone all of them
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/22 02:19 PM
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The genetically inferior children isn’t a guarantee …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/22 02:18 PM
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Well - she claimed people didn’t want her and was still rejecting people who showed interest. Sure, she probably correctly worked out the guys assumed she was easy. But still. What do they say about beggars and choosing? Joker talked about this on Better Bachelor as well. Probably spotted it here
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/22 02:17 PM
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The food one is good. You go up and order a burger and just as it is about to get to you a couple of guys behind the counter take a bite out. And then ring it up at double the price. Do you pay that? Do you negotiate a lower price? Or do you not pay for it at all ? Previously you might get a situation where you work with what you have and negotiate But women are insisting on full or an increased price. And more and more guys are just not bothering at all instead The metaphor works much better wi…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/22 02:16 PM
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Do you mean specifically with this one? Or in general ? As some hide it far better than others. Or at least (in the case of the person I am thinking of) their outward demeanour would make you not think they are hoe but then they dropped things in conversation that were glaring red flags (in hindsight)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/22 02:06 PM
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This meme may be low effort but it did trigger me a little as my first ever girlfriend was constantly comparing me to her ex - comparing our grad schemes (his was better) and saying I’d look really good (I think she carefully avoided saying “better”) if I went to the gym. He was a gym rat - I think to the point that it annoyed her In hindsight she also shared some traits I now associate with at least some users of FDS. She clearly was constantly second guessing her choice in me as I didn’t have …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/22 10:59 AM
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I’d never noticed that from occasional forays but it makes sense since I know they are what extreme progressives would call “swerfs” (anti sex work). And swerfs and terfs are usually lumped together. I expect there is a lot overlap but not completely I guess they must restrict it to comments and / or do a sufficient amount of trashing white men that they can get away with it? For example I think they steer clear of posting things like rants about a guy they consider high value picking a transwom…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/22 10:45 AM
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I would expect super plugged in people to claim it is fake ?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/22 10:40 AM
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I enjoyed the “her worst” vs “her best” one at the link
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/22 10:39 AM
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Women don’t need a strategy to either date or be gold diggers if they have any sense. Be attractive, feminine and pleasant and give men what they actually want. That is it And the first can be worked around The problem comes with the “giving men what they actually want” part FDS and things like that exist to try and provide answers to “how can I get the highest quality possible man with the lowest amount of effort on my part. With the ideal amount being little to none?” And this thought process …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/22 01:26 AM
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I enjoyed the clown metaphor
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/04/22 08:41 PM
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https://www.politico.com/news/magazine/2022/04/19/orwell-teach-democrats-working-class-00025047 I find this explains the idea you present well - if someone wanting some left wing (mainly work life) policies but not being a frothing at the mouth SJW. Left wing parties have unintentionally allowed themselves to be perceived to be driven by the craziest among them. And it turns off their natural base Right wing parties are the same in the eyes of the left - but in that case the more extreme element…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/04/22 07:50 AM
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That’s the template profile these days isn’t it ? Almost as if there is example text or something
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/04/22 07:37 AM
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Because she expects the blue pill and pro-feminist hard coding to be strong. And it probably is to most She expects many to be fall over to prove they aren’t like those “evil men” (as replicantphish would say) It’s the same logic as to why so many women claim abusive exes (sometimes all of them). They expect (and usually get) a gallant response rather than the more obvious questions about - why did you pick him? Why did you stay with him? How long did you take to notice ? What form did this abus…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/04/22 07:36 AM
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It seems fine if you ignore all the glaring warnings about the guys she picks The pretty constant cry of “message me back” directly points to her messaging people who are not on her level at all. That or she is really passive and guys close to her level at least expect some effort back You only get guys falling over themselves to message if you are notable better looking than them (and usually if the woman has no kids otherwise they need to be even better looking or are just being chased for sex…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/04/22 07:30 AM
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I meant the strong family defender and doing the manual work. It is even what is represented in her song Is it over exaggerated due to superpowers ? Of course To embrace which viewpoint? I’m not really clear on what you are saying.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/04/22 07:23 PM
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What got me on that one is how they had the masculine looking woman taking on the traditional male role in that family - and she couldn’t handle it and had a breakdown But not only that - she got loads of support and sympathy when she couldn’t handle it A male character with the same storyline would get none of that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/04/22 03:47 PM
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Usually the case. But Tito (above) suggests sometimes they might? Which is why it is impossible
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/22 04:11 PM
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How do you mean? Shy, clever, nerdy guys aren’t generally considered “catches”. Making it even harder for them doesn’t seem like a blessing Not all shy, nerdy guys are high earners in tech for starters (which I assume is what you mean as those are the ones who might be considered “catches”)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/04/22 12:01 AM
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To be honest I have completely forgotten the backstory Wasn’t he a single father ?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/22 11:57 PM
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There are lots asking that on reddits linked to sugar dating. They don’t like the responses of the men who reply There are a small handful of women who can swing it and it makes many women think they can all pull it off As I understand it there is a podcast that is popular among 304s called “call her daddy”. In the early days of the pandemic they did episodes on how they were able to make money from seeking through virtual only connections. I think there are other women who tell women this via t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/22 10:10 PM
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Seems to be a white American rapper from Tennessee covered in tattoos If that is what she means - why put it in your profile?! Reminds me of something I saw earlier that made me comment on how women are the ones who fantasise and pine over men they never dated / have a chance with. And far more likely to have a “List” like from Friends of famous people they are allowed to sleep with. And are far more likely to actually have a chance (however small) than a man Never make such a List with a partne…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/22 08:22 PM
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I don’t know if you have ever read posts or comment sections when pro-choice people are railing against the latest Republican measure. They are seemingly allergic to female accountability. Try suggesting that the woman not open her legs unless the guy runners up and the response is truly astonishing I’m from the U.K. where such laws are not up for debate and the default position is pro choice unless you are very religious (which is rare). So I have always associated with being pro-choice. But I …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/22 08:17 PM
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I would guess she finds time because to her it is a form of investment. Her ticket out of her current situation is snaring a guy who can help It is not surprising that this idea wouldn’t immediately jump to your mind (or captainspacetraveler who has replied) as dating for a man is not a potential “get out” card / meal ticket
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/22 08:11 PM
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Make no mistake - I have no interest being at the mercy of a woman's wallet. I was more just explaining the only reason I ask about their work - scheduling and working out if there is even a chance she won't view my a far far beneath her And as mentioned in other replies - that is the woman in the post's problem. She is leading like a man would / has to. And it hasn't worked for 18 years I wonder if it is even worse for her in that she "failed" in the first instance approaching things like a wom…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/22 07:59 PM
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I've seen people say something to the effect of men working on probabilities and women working on possibilities. Like the dumb and dumber meme "So your saying there is a chance". That is presumably how she views her fertility
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/22 07:53 PM
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I will never understand why people use abbreviations nowadays. "Weight n height appropriate". She saved two letters. Things like that and "soz" were from when text messages were limited by characters. Something like 20 years ago And on that - what on earth does "appropriate" mean?! Conveniently vague I guess. "Appropriate" weight doesn't mean a good figure. Given her career I we are looking at someone in their mid 30s who doesn't go to the gym. At all. (I expect she would mention it if she does)…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/22 07:48 PM
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Yes - I have lost count of dating profiles of women I have seen approaching 30 (or at least mid 20s) where they mention just getting back from x years in y country And you can tell it wasn’t with work placements at an actual career job There are some who just coast around and seemingly really must be banking on either getting a better job than they deserve due to a pussy pass or getting a rich husband or both. The latter no doubt informed by all the attention they get in their early 20s It’s not…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/22 07:02 PM
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Thing is - you can’t win Because the reverse is true. I once tried to suggest help and got told I didn’t have any empathy She basically wanted my to sit and listen to her moan whilst I said “that sucks” and the like. She didn’t want solutions or anything Whereas in your case it sounds like she wanted suggestions? And you can never know which it is
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/22 06:52 PM
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But but - the “fertility cliff” is a myth! A bunch of publications designed to tell people what they want to hear and also rely on them only reading the headlines told me so! /S
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/22 04:02 PM
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MeToo really did a number on guys. You can’t try to link up with someone junior due to MeToo even if you don’t have any power over them. As a guy unless you are top tier in looks trying to go for someone senior is also a no go And even someone on your level is awkward. I know a guy who was really into someone in the same intake as him. They were the same level in the company and he was terrified of pursing it. I think mainly due to the awkwardness if she said “no”. But they didn’t work closely d…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/22 04:00 PM
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Did you not see the post the other day about this? From next month all posts will be hosted there due to mass reporting and brigading. Some have just got an early start
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/22 03:54 PM
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Someone else above has questioned whether she really is a doctor. So not just you it seems
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/22 03:53 PM
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My interest in a woman’s job initially is just get an idea of what their availability it like. Avoid any awkwardness of trying to ask them to meet and have them say “I work nights” or “I work weekends” And beyond that also to assess how picky they are likely to be. So if a woman is clearly above my income bracket then I know it isn’t worth the effort. I accept I am not the sort of guy that a woman will salivate over enough to allow to commit the outrageous crime of not out earning her ! (The sto…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/22 03:52 PM
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This one is a more clear example of someone using up their chance to have a family involving kids I can understand how it is unpalatable to women to be told not to waste the years of 20-30 (ideally 20-25) when they are the best chance of finding the best possible long term guy for a family. I can get why there would be push back no matter how ill advised. But to enrol in med school at 30 or close to it when there is then a circa 10 year commitment before getting the real money - that is insanity…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/22 03:46 PM
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I think (at least in the U.K.) people think they look younger than they do as over cautious shop people ask for ID when they are long past 18 (challenge 25 is a policy for example). So you could easily be 30 and ID’d buying booze. Sure as hell doesn’t mean you look under 18
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/22 03:24 PM
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I commented before I saw this. But absolutely - it seems more likely that the aunt would be defiant and not admit to anything . And not be a cautionary tale at all
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/22 03:23 PM
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Weren’t there loads of articles during the pandemic about women complaining how it highlighted all the extra “free labour” they did in two income households Partly must have been more obvious when both were at home Kind of the opposite of your point? I think it was nonsense because the largest justification I recall being used for this claim was when homeschooling had to happen it was usually the mom. This obviously isn’t normal labour they would have to do. And likely it was because the woman h…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/22 03:21 PM
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It’s easy to underestimate how quick the household takes pile up
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/22 03:16 PM
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But if said aunts are outwardly defiant then they won’t be seen as a cautionary tale
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/22 03:14 PM
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Love that portrayal from Carlisle. Watched that show for longer than it deserved due to that
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/22 03:11 PM
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The guy who replaced them? So you paid for someone to fix her doors and she didn’t appreciate it ? Or at least forgot super quickly
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/22 03:10 PM
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She’s a doctor - she sure as heck isn’t looking at nurses and other medical staff. And I can’t imagine doctor - doctor relationships are that common or successful. They are pretty much all disasters even in medical tv shows (drama or comedy)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/22 09:22 AM
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Still I guess she figures she is on the pathway to big money. Which would traditionally be the time when a woman should get on board - to support the guy on his way there But I assume she isn’t willing for that kind of relationship where the guy provides love and support and she completes her residency and then looks after him and the family financially after that
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/22 09:20 AM
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I remember being mad at that even as a child watching that show. Complete with full blue pill normie conditioning that still really stood out
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/22 09:03 AM
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I know but I am struggling to understand why they bothered putting all that in. What does it accomplish Perhaps women will read this and thus interpret the story very differently ? I don’t know. Or is it all just smoke and mirrors because writing the straight facts would make it easier to spot how terrible she is ? Easy to spot that she lied multiple times
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/04/22 03:08 PM
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If this were a Reddit post and not a dating profile I would have thought it was an example of a guy writing and reversing genders to try and get an actual answer without being shamed This is because the phenomenon of the opposing parties parents liking you but that not being good enough for their child is something I’d expect far more from men. And have had experience of. A girl’s parents will like someone who is kind, decent, clean cut, hard working and clearly dedicated to their daughter. The …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/04/22 02:20 PM
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A big ass is not inherently a problem - but that mirror shot shows her waist is also big as are her entire hindquarters . She has legs as thick as some people’s torsos
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/04/22 02:09 PM
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I don’t really understand all the fluffy romcom stuff at the start about how they met (which I don’t believe). Why was that important ? A guy making good money in fintech is presumably going to be very inconvenienced by that event. I guess if she was super hot she’d get the pussy pass. I’m not saying the whole thing seems false but there are just all these weird extra details that seem unnecessary Like why is her asking about the girl he kind of dated as a teenager in any way important? Is it to…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/04/22 01:46 PM
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She is almost certainly punishing the guy for all previous guys who didn’t reciprocate for her Visit any of the toxic female subs and they scream and rant about guys not going down on them or not pleasuring them but demanding blowjobs and only caring about their own pleasure. That is the playbook of a guy who has so many women falling all over him he doesn’t need to work for those benefits. The reverse - if they aren’t freely given she is out. And even if they are (as evidenced by the posts) Ass…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/04/22 01:17 PM
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She’s looking for followers not any of what she described
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/04/22 01:13 PM
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What's the average guess on how much older she looks in person compared to that picture? 10 years at least? I was going to say - age of the photo - but it could just be loads of filters In case it isn't clear - I am not disputing her age. Who would lie about being 49 on tinder? Apart from someone in their 60s which she clearly isn't. It is just that this is not a picture of someone who is 49 unless there are loads of filters. It is probably both - her being younger in the pic and being filters. …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/04/22 10:44 AM
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I’m fond of reversing the scree aimed at “niceguys” - the one where they scream that you can’t put niceness tokens into a woman and get sex out The exact reverse is pretty much true with in demand men. You can’t just put sex tokens in and get “niceness” (in this case a relationship) out. And women will try this with sought after men and be baffled that it doesn’t work. And more and more average men are seeing stories of similar men to them actually falling for this but then the sex tokens stop g…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/04/22 07:55 AM
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I mention in a different reply that I am not completely hard line on them like some My preference is for none. But I mean that in the true definition of preference. Not like when women say they have a “preference” for tall men
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/04/22 04:00 PM
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That. And also “aiding” the incels will be considered “problematic” because a tiny portion go out and do some horrendous things Never mind that any aid will be trying to steer people away from that. Nope. Won’t matter
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/04/22 01:55 PM
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Well attempt one appears to be trying to associate mgtow with incels and the tiny handful of extreme incidents carried out by the latter. Never mind that no such incident has evert been carried out by someone who identifies as mgtow . Because that wouldn’t make any sense . But it doesn’t matter
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/04/22 01:40 PM
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What gets me is when they are encouraged to wreck their natural assets or do things that are easily achievable I was seeing a girls who started going (or perhaps just revealing) feminist and she was musing on not shaving her legs and under her arms Sure - you can be annoyed that this is what men like. But it is super easy to do something about The same is not true for the key female preference (height). It so staggeringly entitled to have a preferences / standards that are straight up impossible…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/04/22 12:03 PM
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It is intentional body mutilation / making their body less appealing . And is usually done for a reason (even subconsciously) I’m not as hardline on tattoos as some in this space. But some tattoos (mainly location) are obvious glaring red flags (where others will say ALL tattoos)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/04/22 09:23 AM
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And I’m not sure how true it even is given the drooling over Chris evans, Chris Hemsworth and Jason Momoa. And also the incredibly different reaction the other Chris (Pratt) got when he went from goofy Lardo in Parks and Rec to chiselled action hero It is projection / a psy-op. Make men think that kind of body is desired and hope they return the favour
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/04/22 09:10 AM
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“Themselves” - yes. Absolutely. It is likely all they can do to cling onto some semblance of sanity I saw a couple of single moms who looked like this recently walking in the park with their strollers (so small kids which suggests a very quick or even pre birth bail out from the fathers). They were discussing going back to “dating websites” (surely they meant apps) and they deluded themselves into believing that it was their kids holding them back from getting “straight back out there”. And not …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/04/22 09:06 AM
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This is the thing that always gets me when women chime into these kinds of discussions/posts/video comment sections (notably anything about incels) with comments to the effect of “well men all want busty Victoria secrets models” (never mind that almost none of them were) And they miss the fact that men are usually very very clear about what their “ideal” or “dream” looks are on a woman but are a lot more pragmatic in practice Things like this pic and the long lists in women’s dating profiles as …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/04/22 06:30 AM
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Face and boob/cleavage tattoos scream it more
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/04/22 06:24 AM
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There are loads of profiles I have seen over the time where a woman will put in at least one terrible photo where they not only look bad but are basically showing everyone how filtered / heavily made up they are in the rest. It seems like an insane strategy to me. But like you said - some just don't know how to date
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/04/22 10:53 PM
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Weird she’d add such an obvious outlier. Honest though - in a way
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/04/22 06:33 PM
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Is that from her main profile or did you find it on her insta ? They are obviously linked but some don’t dig that deep which would be what she is counting on
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/04/22 05:38 PM
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Us me? Is this meant to mean “use me” It is the closest error but doesn’t make sense in context
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/04/22 10:40 AM
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I wonder what the age spread on those pics are
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/04/22 10:38 AM
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Or at least know someone who has. I can’t help but laugh at women getting scammed on dating apps when they are chasing chads. Notably because these women inevitably reject dozens, if not hundreds, oh guys on these apps who would dote on them. So I really feel they deserve it The funniest was learning that wannabe sugar babies sometimes get scammed on those sites as well. And I don’t mean finding out the guy isn’t as rich as he claims. I mean tricked into sending money
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/04/22 10:37 AM
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This flew over my head
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/04/22 10:35 AM
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I know I can go and try and find this later but what were their headline points in trying to debate? Was it the usual case of complaining about how “men” behave without realising / refusing to acknowledge that they are talking about a tiny portion of men
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/04/22 10:34 AM
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Yep - just noticed that . My point is therefore irrelevant
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/04/22 11:40 AM
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It was a response to the comment one up where someone said there was no need to use feet and inches if her audience is purely Spanish This might be incorrect but that is what I was basing it on
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/04/22 11:18 AM
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I initially misread your male friends point. Because women DO understand that male friends are better than female friends FOR THEM. The male friend orbiter treats her far better than any of her female friends and (for many women) they guys they actually sleep with. I will still always remember seeing a reddit post (can't remember if it was linked on here or on a youtube video) of a girl who was raging that her guy friend started treating her differently after she rejected him. He months to pluck…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/22 09:28 PM
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I must have not bothered to read in detail as I missed the claim by experts that marriage rates will increase This seems absurd The entire article was basically promoting the benefits of the new law to women (and like I said making absurd claims about children being better off). Since we know women file the vast majority of the time it benefits them much more. And it was also claiming it prevents people being trapped in marriages - the usual accusations there are about “abusive” partners (nearly…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/22 08:20 PM
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I glossed over that it was a first meetup / date. That makes it even more absurd. You need to show at least some diplomacy and savvy. Even if the guy knows that is what you ultimately want you shouldn't be stupid enough to come out and directly say it That said I briefly dated someone who was clear about wanting kids on the first date. Mainly because she told a story of a guy she had dated who didn't want them, had a vasectomy and she thought he was stupid because she was a primary school teache…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/22 07:13 PM
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Oh I'm not disputing that. I was just wondering why US wasn't on the No Fault list as many red pill channels would have had me assume from listening to them But now that I think about it they never say it is all of the US and they are usually from people based in places like California
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/22 07:06 PM
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Yeah - surely she *should* just want anyone who treats her well.. You'd think anyway. But that would make sense so of course it isn't that
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/22 06:18 PM
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1.80 is 5.9 not 5'9" That is the mistake. It is basically 71 inches which is 5'11". I think is is the Euro equivalent of saying "you must be over 6ft" because 183cm looks a little weird And then 190cm is when they start to drool as it is pretty close to 6'3". I watched a crappy film (the one that was the "new 50 shades" where the woman lusts after this guy and it was a polish film. It was really jarring when she was describing how amazing this guy was to her friend and actually said out loud "he…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/22 06:17 PM
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Good point. I guess she is so desperate she might be passporting? Or hoping others are as well? But seriously, if you are looking overseas for a woman it is not going to be in Spain and she is not going to be nearing 60
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/22 05:55 PM
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Apparently no-fault divorce only became law in the U.K. today. I assumed it was already in place Reading how it is explained has reinforced how uninterested I am in the idea - even if anyone was interested 😂. The fact that someone can nope out with no reason given and it take just 26 weeks to finalise. Nothing the other party can do The BBC article has already shuffled off the front page of the site even though it was only announced today. And it has the gall to try and suggest the new measures …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/22 05:40 PM
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Reading between the lines I would guess the guy was much more attractive than her (but she probably didn’t realise it because women over value themselves) He was the sort of guy she would envision standing next to her in wedding pictures. Him laughing in her face is a pretty brutal way of him telling her she is not on his level (in terms of for a relationship). And it is reinforced by him pretty much saying that “just looking for some fun” - the unsaid part is “with you” Just like how many women…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/22 05:35 PM
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Imagine having a height requirement at 55 when you claim to be looking for love Yet more proof that women have a very different definition of love than how men understand it. And even friggin movies try to portray it Why is it there can be movies like Shallow Hal but not Shallow Sal when the latter is clearly far more common? I really don’t understand who has a vested interest in spreading this myth that men have unreasonable standards and will rule people out instantly and women don’t (In fairn…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/22 05:24 PM
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She can’t even convert from cm to feet and inches right. There are tools on the internet for that ! How did she get that wrong ?!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/22 05:20 PM
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Her hairline is higher than mine. Yikes. I would feel bad but her profile reveals her to be bitchy and entitled when she is in no position to be
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/22 10:09 PM
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But she goes on to admit that they are saggy and thus clearly the bra and top are doing literal heavy lifting here (at least she admits it though)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/22 02:37 PM
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The women who make these sorts of requests are unlikely to pay too much towards a man Unless you mean in pair bonding ability as a “cost”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/22 01:35 PM
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One of my cousins was the type to have pretty much a week between one relationship ending and another beginning. For clarification- in my example of the shelf above it is more likely just the craven way of admitting to be a height fetishist than an indication that she is continuously in relationships. But there is at least a possibility that is the case The other thing that makes me roll my eyes is when women say “I like tall men” or something similar - as if they think that is unique. It is bas…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/22 10:50 AM
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Ah. That was my first instinct on what you meant And it does very much seem to be a tv trope. I can’t stand the “rape culture” narrative that the left is pushing. I have even seen a local cafe that has “artistic” graffiti with “Protect your daughters” written and crossed out and then “Educate your sons” It makes my blood boil whenever I see it. The idea that guys are taught to rape or, with the most “generous” interpretation of the ideology, taught to accept and not do anything about it is enoug…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/22 08:48 AM
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I was suggesting that 2016 gave it ever more validity than it had before because it was used on national use and used as a defence of behaviour for someone in a presidential election Perhaps I am just thinking from an overseas perspective. I don’t recall it being a particular common term even in other anglophone countries And do you mean that the conversations were discussed in those classes? Or that those classes made the claims that they happened? Not quite following and my culture is slightly…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/22 08:15 AM
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Which is funnily enough never their question when first asking When these sex workers and promiscuous women come online with those questions if they turned around as asked the same questions about would men care / still be interested but also clarified -“ tall, attractive, faithful men with incomes in the six figures who are family oriented and want to settle and give me children and provide the majority of the resources for them and the house so that I don’t have to work” then their answers mig…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/22 08:12 AM
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To be honest that locker room talk was used to defend trump against the access Hollywood clip and so left leaning people are now convinced it is true A bunch of Republican leaning men came after that and dismissed it as locker room talk even though - as you mention - it isn’t true of real locker rooms. Probably women’s locker rooms which is why they so easily believed it? And also media depictions of male locker rooms which is often the closest many super lefty men got to that idea
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/22 08:08 AM
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And they are asking for a date. Now perhaps she is so damaged that she assumes they think she must be easy and are basically asking for sex. But they are clearly just asking for a date. And probably not even that - most likely “I would date you - it doesn’t matter to me” And like you say - she rejects them Same as when the sex workers get on Reddit and ask if they have been lied to by the internet about their dating prospects. They haven’t - they were just unable to see the guys who said they wo…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/22 07:40 AM
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Woah there - cloth napkins AND wine lists? What do you think I am - a millionaire ?! 😂
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/22 07:38 AM
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Or bragging about how much money they give over to OF girls. Or how many likes they sent to random girls on Instagram. Money and validation given out easily women is nothing to brag about because they want it Similar with men and sex
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/22 07:35 AM
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And it doesn’t count if she didn’t enjoy it
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/22 07:33 AM
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And yet women will have you believe in that men get together and discuss sex and their partners- clearly another case of extreme projection There are even memes about that where it shows the guys actually talking about video games
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/22 07:32 AM
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I asked this in a reply before scrolling down. No way to they ALL ask this
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/22 07:29 AM
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That last one always makes me roll me eyes. When a woman in her late 20s says “need someone to help me reach the top shelf” I know it is a cowardly and indirect way of them saying they want someone tall (that they think is cute). But it makes them look stupid. You wonder “how have you managed for circa 10 years as an adult then?”. And perhaps even “is the answer - by always having a guy around at all times?”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/22 07:28 AM
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Does she really expect readers to believe that every single guy she has met has asked her that question ? I call bullshit. I know there is loads more red pill content out there but I simply don’t believe that even a majority of guys ask that question - unless she has some kind of tell in her profile like “I’ve had my fun and want to settle down” specifically written. And even then I have my doubts whether most would directly ask for an n-count Maybe it is all guys in her age range and they are s…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/22 07:25 AM
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100 for top shelf? Overseas I guess ? Did the guy ever find out about what his friends did? I assume they paid her and she pretended it was a hookup from a bar ? Today 30 seems to be freak our age and then as you say 35 seems like it might be the deadline. Definitely agree on social circles. I am nearing 35 and mine have crumbled away to pretty much nothing. Not helped by home working (although I do tend to prefer the flexibility of that) At 25 social circles were starting to decline but were st…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/04/22 12:08 AM
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Which means she is working a full job and doing extra school in the evenings and weekends. So how much effort is she going to be putting into any potential relationship ?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/22 06:49 PM
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So my first statement is accurate at least. They are unnecessary to do be a pharmacist. Not if she wants to move to big pharma of course But if she is a full time pharmacist I assume that MBA is going to take a while? I don’t know how long they take. How much time is she going to have for a partner really ?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/22 01:40 PM
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More than anything this surely confirms the common talking point about “women don’t love like men do”. There is no way she could have possibly been in love with this guy in the way a man would understand love. Nor is she in love with her husband (even if she didn’t say that she was in the post it is in the friggin vows) She was infatuated by this guy To be honest I don’t blame her for being shaken up by his death as it sounds like he was about 32 or something which would be shocking to hear. But…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/22 10:28 AM
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I have been referring to a YouTube news channel (left leaning / progressive source but actually articulate rather than some of the more extreme ones) reporting on that story that came out about the secret service investigating “incel terrorism” and what a (predictable) shit show the comments were The guy on the channel went through the steps of explaining what the term mean and defining what was meant by involuntary in this context - sounded like talking to 5 year olds but he did suggest that “i…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/22 09:40 AM
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I’ll admit to not pausing and considering the skewed ratio on OLD. And also why you do get women claiming in late 20s or early 30s that it is there first time on it / finally got decided to join - or some variant of that Shopping masturbation is pure FDS. There was even a trend when they posted the rings they bought for themselves and one bizarrely posted a car. And in doing so included herself in the picture which explained her predicament entirely (FDS standards whilst being built like a fridg…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/22 07:21 AM
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Someone replied to a discussion on this a day or two describing how the female incel spaces went private because the male incels would message them but the women decided they weren’t good enough to sleep with And there was a bit of a discussion about basic standards that even the majority of guys who call themselves incels have. But even those are very basic if you go out and see some of the women who are clearly able to find people to sleep with them The type of woman described about who is jus…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/22 07:18 AM
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I’m sure I’ve seen articles or commenters suggesting even the most attractive men get fewer matches than average women. At least partly down to the 70:30 male to female ratio but not exclusively It still gets me when women complain about dick pics on their tinder profiles. You can’t send them on tinder! I’m not sure you ever have been able to but you definitely haven’t for years and years. Don’t blame others for who you choose to give your actual phone number to. They certainly vet average guys …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/22 07:47 PM
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Like the Alexander Grace video where the 18 year old girl swipes as a slightly edited version of him and starts to get depressed. And she gets to go back to her actual life after the week!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/22 07:17 PM
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I would query why she would lie but remembered that women think men are attracted to what they are An MBA would not make an ounce of difference to most men. It might even be a detriment to a woman’s chances. The reverse on the other hand …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/22 06:51 PM
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Oh so you need a doctorate to be a pharmacist ? As in similar to what a medical doctor would need? Certainly makes sense at least
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/22 06:48 PM
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Someone should tell her that if she is going to cake on some much makeup so as to make her face appear like a smooth mask (pics 1 and 3) then you really shouldn't put up a pic like the second one
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/22 05:36 PM
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Aren't both a doctorate and an MBA unnecessary for a Pharmacist? I know they get very pissed off if you mistake them with the dispensers as it does take qualifications. But not to that level
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/22 05:35 PM
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But some do seem to be. Not directly one on one. But that they lose it and start shooting And women are constantly talking about being scared when they see creepy guys walking near or behind them. Especially when dark What you point out is the hypocrisy - that for many women the guys that really turn them on are the most dangerous. And this is supported by all the stats about women being more at risk of violence from people they know. It’s like the nonsense comments about short man syndrome and …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/22 01:38 PM
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Or at least the gap seems smaller on average for women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/22 12:10 PM
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I’d suggest most people, and definitely most people over say 30 will have married without understanding how things really work
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/22 11:11 AM
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You would be forgiven for thinking that but I think it is more they have swallowed the narrative that ALL incels are dangerous and going to start shooting at any moment I got into a dispute on a normie politics YouTube comment section about the secret service monitoring the incel terrorism threat. One person told a story about some guys from their work were creepy incel types and inappropriate towards women and were fired. They talked about how they were concerned that one looked like the type w…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/22 11:09 AM
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Thanks for the insight The dumpster diving, drunken (and usually bad) sex thing is also clearly true when you get two posts in quick succession on a toxic female sub recently (not the three letter one, but one that is somehow nearly as bad) in recent days with women ranting about how shit “Men” are in bed and “normalise pussy eating” If you are in a committed relationship with someone on your level (or close to it) i cannot fathom why this would ever be a complaint that would come up. It wouldn’…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/22 10:53 AM
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Exactly. If you voluntarily turn down multiple people then, well, the clue is in the term - voluntary vs. involuntary Male incels are not sent messages from people volunteering to sleep with them. They likely swipe on everyone and still get no matches or interest It’s where the Inspin term that I think was largely coined on this sub comes from as you know I guess the number of true incels of any kind is small because even some of the biggest male incels probably have some standards - I.e. would …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/22 09:35 AM
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She is rambling all over the place. I expect her comments about his hygiene are lies as she read back through the post and figures she wouldn’t be guaranteed to have everyone on her side
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/22 09:21 AM
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It is common for women to scream about how “incels” only want super models / Victoria secret models What is apparent from spending any time in these spaces is that women are at least as guilty if not more so of this accusation I say “accusation” - because I don’t believe it is true of incels. The claim made by women is “oh these incel guys probably just completely overlook the unattractive women in their life and treat them like garbage”. No - that is what that hot guys do to them. And projectio…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/22 08:49 AM
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The profiles you find are crazy. The sort of things that uninitiated normies would refuse to believe - until you show them how many there are! What is meant by “bombardment” here? Bombardment of ugly men? Of sex requests? Of sex requests from ugly men? I guess it is something that might not directly translate ? It may be just from what you post combined with me not doing much swiping in the same age bracket in the U.K. but the “expectation gap” with tinder between men and women seems far larger …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/22 08:31 AM
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I guess at least they were realistic enough to know they cause issues with attempting to date I had no way of knowing if the comment was in reference to their kids reducing the percentage of men interested or just merely a practical point in the sense of logistics. Or both. I’d suggest definitely that practical point. And they were likely aware of their reduce dating pool - there was a tone of uncertainty over going on the apps. But that could easily have been just being told horror stories of p…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/03/22 09:10 AM
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She has “the apron” 🤢
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/22 06:14 AM
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But that is the man’s job you muh soggy knee ist !!1! Women can’t possibly be expected to take responsibility and accountability for their own pregnancies. That would be oppression or some such nonsense
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/03/22 10:49 PM
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She is selling something it seems. So not genuine support
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/03/22 10:19 PM
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And of course “curvy”. Gosh do they not know what that means (hence the updated banner). It is rampant I got lectured about not having empathy by an ex. What that meant was I didn’t just sit and listen to her complain about things - I suggested solutions. She didn’t want that It is that mindset that makes me really question the effectiveness of “therapy”. Not least because she was studying it which is how she knew precisely to lecture me on this in the first place. Basically swallowing a section…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/03/22 09:29 PM
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I had heard there was some of the harshest anti men laws in India - which to an outsider sounds really surprising I wouldn’t say you are out of touch with reality. I saw something the other day suggesting that the percentage of women aged 18-34 (in the US I think) with no relationship at all is 50%. This shows they will sooner be alone than with even an average guy. Crazy times
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/03/22 01:20 PM
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I only really got an understanding of this opinion held by Indian women through Reddit (relationship ones and FDS). It is usually pretty clear when it is an Indian who is writing a story Also from a British Indian girl who messaged me who didn’t even hide her contempt for guys of her own race and how she was only interested in white guys. And she was so painfully average I assumed it must be widespread
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/03/22 12:42 PM
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I feel bad about getting a little snippy in the other reply thread now ! Thing is about Indian that us westerners don’t understand is how vast it is and how varied all the different regions are. Basically like Europe but was pushed together by the British. So it will be very difficult to generalise Those from the north nearer to Afghanistan and Pakistan will be very different from those on the Indian Ocean I spoke to a British Indian girl on an app who suggested there are branches of Hindu India…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/03/22 09:27 AM
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Makes sense. Also explains why I’m pretty sure men don’t often describe themselves as Independent. Because they use the true definition and most are grounded enough to know that it doesn’t really apply (really only does to a small number)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/03/22 09:23 AM
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I posted this yesterday and mentioned I had to stop myself from laughing out loud I walked past them a second time and caught one saying “if we didn’t have kids we’d be straight back out there” - or something to that effect This was in public. I am no Chad and didn’t fancy two warpigs screaming at me in my favourite place to walk
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/03/22 09:22 AM
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You clearly misunderstand on the height thing - and I don’t blame you. You simply cannot relate. Telling someone that it doesn’t matter if they are shorter if they work really hard and are a multi millionaire and wok on game is not exactly reassuring when they know that there are guys who simply don’t need any of that. I said the other day - there is a reason why “get jacked” is such a common refrain in these parts. Because it is infinitely more achievable than “become a multi millionaire with a…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/03/22 09:09 AM
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I’m pretty sure most women there would want something serious. It is just whether they have blown that chance already by past behaviour And the most traditional are likely held for arranged marriages within Indian families
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/03/22 08:27 AM
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Imagine if you responded to her claims of independence by saying you are impressed that she doesn’t have an employer or collect any child support or benefits. I expect she’d be completely stunned People don’t know what “independent” means I am sure there is a “womanese” definition for it but I can’t quite put my finger on it. Seems mostly related to “I can survive as an adult in the modern world”. Which really isn’t something to brag about.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/03/22 08:25 AM
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This assumes her pictures are in date and not pre-kids. Note there is no full body shot Saw two women with strollers discussing going back on “dating websites” yesterday. Their bodies looked to have collapsed. All wobbly and hanging everywhere
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/03/22 08:22 AM
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Pretty much this. And shaming tactics - they want to make it sound like there is something wrong with the man for having standards
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/03/22 08:19 AM
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I admire your morals. If I could get Swedish girls in their 20s who wanted hookups and housing I’d definitely do that for a while Hookups are not an option for me even if I wanted them though. The level of muscle I’d need for being a fair amount below average heigh requires too much work and too many drugs to obtain and maintain (and even then may not even work). But no use dwelling on that! But i find given that Seeking now exists there will be student girls who rather than wanting hookups and …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/03/22 08:16 AM
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They will lie by omission in your scenario. It is rather common
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/03/22 08:10 AM
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They would lie about whether they had kids - most likely by omission A recent match did this. I kind of worked it out when asking what she was up to over the weekend and she was being really evasive. Wasn’t answering and eventually talked about having a chill day (and only answered for Saturday- Sunday is Mother’s Day) I looked more closely and there was a pic of her in a top that clearly had “Mum-“ and second word was cut off (didn’t originally spot as it wasn’t big writing , was in mirror and …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/03/22 08:09 AM
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Directly or indirectly (so buying the food )
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/03/22 08:02 AM
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Almost all women go weak at the knees for super tall guys - especially in countries with shorter than average populations - like India And in India certain women buy expensive chemicals to put on their face to effectively bleach their skin whiter to look more attractive (in their mind). So i that should answer the other part
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/03/22 08:02 AM
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What was the advice they got on education? As in the U.K. most Indian girls prioritise education above everything else. And I believe this is true in the states I believe that make up the bulk of the women on “the sub that shall not be named” who rant about their qualifications and six figure incomes not actually qualifying them for top tier men (as well as always being repulsed by men who are interested in them)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/03/22 08:00 AM
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I tend to agree which is why I was challenging the implication above of a hard stop wall at 30 I find it interesting that women on apps will write “willing to lie about how we met” or “we’ll tell people we met in a bar” - in their profiles. As a man I wouldn’t care but I agree with you- most women would shudder at the thought of telling people they met “the one” on tinder. Indeed it can be a reason for discrediting the relationship and I think it was with one of my exes (her sister’s scorn) On d…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/03/22 04:21 PM
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The “get ripped” thing is said so much because everyone can at least try. And for many it is going to be more achievable / realistic than “get rich” Also in the context of attraction if you want someone to be attracted to you for one of those two things then I’d suggest being ripped/jacked is the more preferable of the two. Sure it is two different types of shallowness but one is definitely preferable
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/03/22 03:28 PM
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That last paragraph is likely bang on the money. As i noted - it seems to be quite a stretch now for friends to risk doing the set up thing now. Perhaps they inherently know women can be so so picky. And to not put it all on one side they maybe can never quite be sure that the guy doesn’t just want some sex and to move on. And of course if they briefly date and that happens it will be claimed retrospectively that it was all he wanted because men seemingly aren’t allowed to have standards and dec…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/03/22 09:12 AM
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Absolutely. Top of the list will be “earn more money” - to effectively buy off a woman indirectly? And “work out” - when the new male body that is idolised is so pumped with drugs that if you wanted to get close you’d have to spend lots of money and time and risk your health (as well as legal issues) There was a video on a left leaning political commentary show on YouTube about how the “growing incel threat” is alarming security services. The comments were truly flabbergasting For one they kept …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/03/22 08:59 AM
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Some people are opposed I watched part of a fascinating interview with a doctor about it before I got too squeamish. He described the process and it sounds awful - especially in America I never fully understood why Americans in general were so much more opposed than the U.K. beyond the part about being a much more religious country - which is of course the main explanation But when you find out that there is medical abortion vs surgical abortion, learn what those two can entail (two different me…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/03/22 08:39 AM
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Perhaps just an old screenshot. Or the woman not updating the profile text - the latter is common
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/03/22 08:35 AM
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There are guys on this sub who I’m pretty sure put that age range up just to view the train wrecks for amusement and potentially for material for this sub
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/22 08:58 PM
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And having a job and somewhere to live actively worth bragging about
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/22 07:26 PM
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A model since age 11 or 12. Unless she is lying about her age on the app…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/22 07:25 PM
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I don’t think people realise how bad it looks when you repeat a negative thing. In this case “don’t waste my time”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/22 04:52 PM
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Some women hit the wall before 30 but only if they are really bad at looking after themselves And many hit it later than 30. It definitely isn’t a cut and dried 30 for everyone. Especially with regards to still being able to get validation and male attention Now - getting serious attention for a serious relationship after that is a different story - it certainly becomes much harder but not impossible And weirdly the number 30 is probably more of a bigger issue for more women than men. Far more w…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/22 03:26 PM
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Absolutely. If she is being truly honest about getting no messages then that is a problem for her But I note she didn’t say zero matches. Just zero messages. So perhaps she is being super selective and messaging guys so far out of her league that they think “I will let this one message me” There are some I get that fall in this category. I take a closer look and realise their profile was quite deceptive and think “I’ll see if this one messages me but won’t actually bother myself as she isn’t wor…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/22 03:13 PM
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I remember being about 16 in our equivalent of a social studies type class and a girl used the term “get in” with respect to guys (I’d get in with them). As an answer to a question from the teacher - but I can’t remember what I don’t think I fully realised then (and the teacher definitely didn’t) that it was slang for, at the very least, making out. If not more. This was obvious by how the teacher responded. Either that or said teacher had a great poker face that she had built up over years So a…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/22 02:57 PM
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This kind of thing happens all the time on Twitter. Incredible lack of self awareness You get pornstars ranting about guys (that they want of course) not taking them seriously for relationships within a few tweets of explaining that they would never send their boyfriend pictures of themselves as that is how they make an income (and getting backed up on it) So not only does someone have to be rich and accomplished AND happy with their girl being banged out by super hung men - but they have to pay…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/22 01:17 PM
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I would expect the key word there is “let”. In that he didn’t have a choice if he wanted to stay with her and decided that he did. He couldn’t actually stop her specifically
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/22 01:13 PM
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I wasn’t clear - she should be grateful to have found someone to settle with her Of course all women in there get hundreds of messages. In looking for affairs they are by definition offering no strings sex. No matter what they may write
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/22 01:05 PM
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No it just shows a very broad shouldered frame. So she is a heavy one
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/22 12:41 PM
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This seems like a site specifically for people who want to cheat? And this frumpy, average (at best) woman is at it? Yikes. She should be grateful for whatever she has
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/22 12:40 PM
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The most telling thing I spotted was that she can’t click with people who she gets set up with by friends - the people who (apparently) know her the best And most friends are reluctant to do this nowadays due to the scope for awkwardness in the high likelihood things don’t work out between two of their friends So either she massively misrepresents herself so that her friends don’t really know her or they are misrepresenting her to these people they are lining her up with. Probably a mix of both
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/22 12:37 PM
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Her previous long term relationships. Plural. When she was younger. And presumably thinner and almost certainly more attractive She may “feel” it shouldn’t matter but it does. I “feel” like I shouldn’t be rejected / not even given a chance for being below average height. But I am. That is just how it is. I can feel all I like - it won’t change the cold hard reality
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/22 12:35 PM
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It sounds like she is experiencing the life of an average man. And can’t handle it despite being (at best) an average woman
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/22 12:33 PM
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Yeah women like this speak in euphemisms. She is fat and a single mom and can’t give a new guy kids. I’m not sure what she expects
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/22 12:31 PM
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I’m not sure I’ve extended the range up as high as 45 but I have definitely seen it on 42 I know you said rhetorical but perhaps some did it intentionally on set up and never changed it - partly through being in denial But that said I have seen many women on both tinder and bumble constantly reappearing meaning they have deleted their profile and recreated it - likely because the chads they swiped right on didn’t match back so they are giving it another go. I’ve even seen it where it very much s…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/03/22 02:02 PM
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Two X is truly awful. They are some of the worst misandrists out there What is worse is that it was one of the subs that my first Reddit account was auto subscribed to (I don’t think Reddit does that anymore)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/03/22 07:08 AM
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Blue glasses? I know the crazies (from both extremes but definitely on the woke side) are massively over represented on twitter Actually I think the left is over-represented on that. Because if my twitter was to be believed then Labour would have one the last two UK elections comfortably. They were destroyed in the most recent one and slightly over-performed in the one before that. * The latest one I saw today was a UK trans female comedian who deliberately went to the meeting of a group that th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/03/22 10:15 PM
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I know - it is why most people comment on it I have just noticed and it is an option on setup (a new one that didn't use to be there) I am baffled though as the majority I have never heard of before - even through following channels of people who mock this woke stuff There is the expected - the real two plus "they/them" But also: ze/zir (heard of this one as it is the go to for people mocking this nonsense) xe/xim, co/co (it literally is clown word) ey/em ve/ver pe/per ​ So the app is even more …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/03/22 10:07 PM
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Exactly. How many years of failed romance must she have? Close to 30? The only reason she refuses to stop believing is because accepting otherwise would be devastating. A little like the red pill rage when men first realise the blue pill fantasy they have been sold was an utter lie
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/03/22 09:12 PM
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I only see the posts pulled out of that by some YouTube content creators but I very much get the impression that even the over 30 one you mention is dominated by women. Let alone over 40 But it might be confirmation bias
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/03/22 09:10 PM
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Then you, sir, have clearly never gone on bumble and done a search of women aged 35-45. There is a lot of “want children” or “have and want more” even at that age level
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/03/22 09:09 PM
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Well - they say “hi” or maybe “hi how are you” and then hand over all the initiative and heavy lifting for the conversation to you And obviously aren’t the ones to ask the guy out
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/03/22 09:02 PM
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Bumble does not enter your pronouns automatically. It is a choice to add them
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/03/22 09:01 PM
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We don’t even know that she isn’t fat …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/03/22 08:58 PM
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She is tantalizingly close to some of the answers in her second half - I get told I'm "hot" >>> but not "beautiful". Saw a PUA youtuber criticising a guy on tiktok who said "find a guy who calls you beautiful rather than hot. Slammed him as a simp. But the tiktok guy wasn't exactly wrong - follow requests on instagram >>> because they want to see her pictures and are not actually interested in her. Did they ask for her phone number? I know younger people use instagram more and more but she is 28…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/03/22 10:26 PM
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I've often wondered what kind of question you can ask / comment you can make when a woman says "I have been single for x" in order to catch them out on the "not celibate thing" Something like "how did you find not having sex for that length of time". It is bold but I wonder whether it is so bold that it would catch them off guard and not able to avoid the truth.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/03/22 09:59 PM
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Yep - they tell on themselves all the time
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/03/22 09:55 PM
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It's very rare nowadays to find a woman who doesn't overvalue themselves. Dating apps give the an exaggerated idea of their appearance. Aided by makeup and filters Having decent jobs makes them think they can search for higher - rarely equal And they never seem to ever consider what men want from a relationship / what they bring that men would actually interested in. Hint - the knowledge that she has a good job and salary that we won't get access to and be expected to "offset" should she want to…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/03/22 09:54 PM
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Some of the worst stuff is in the responses further down An adventure and a home all in one? Tells you she gets bored easily and you will have to entertain her as well as provide “Never stops dating their person” is a very sneaky and tricksy way of saying you will need to be taking her out for fancy dinner dates and trips…forever
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/22 04:53 PM
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I think it is just very very directly worded in this one. The theme has been discussed multiple times as you say And of course there is the whole side bar of “in response to the nice guys sub” But this one draws the parallel more clearly and succinctly than I have seen in the past (especially to be sleep deprived brain yesterday)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/22 06:54 AM
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Blimey - I didn't even notice the title first time! How conceited do you have to be. And then of course "I am what people consider attractive". Are you? Which people? And more receipts are needed for this claim that getting lots of OLD matches (we know she uses it as she mentions profiles)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/03/22 05:23 PM
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Implication is "leading her on about potential commitment". But there is no evidence of that in her story. And he also disagreed which I know doesn't mean a whole lot but is still something
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/03/22 05:21 PM
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I'm glad I'm not the only one who had the theory of how things got physical and the guy was underwhelmed
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/03/22 05:20 PM
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And seemingly missed that his stories were likely him trying to impress her. Not show her up
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/03/22 05:19 PM
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She claims to be good at conversation and be able to hold long conversations with strangers - but her story of Guy 2 proves this very wrong. Being good at conversation means actually being interesting enough that the other person won't just talk over you or supercede all your stories
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/03/22 05:18 PM
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Didn't she say it slowly got physical with the first guy? It doesn't say how long but maybe it was really underwhelming for the time invested. But for most guys it would have to be seriously underwhelming Or perhaps (more likely) he started to note how he was doing all the running and putting in all the effort and did his own for of shit test which she not only failed but failed spectacularly. The absolute worst response to a potential test to see if she will show any effort / interest is to jum…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/03/22 05:12 PM
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I'd never really paused to think of how perfect a parallel it is the the Nice Guy TM (Spoken as a recovering Nice Guy TM - but boy is that hard coded)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/03/22 05:07 PM
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The comments on the first guy confused me. They saw each other every two days and it took a while before it got physical. And THEN dating was mentioned. So what was the "every two days meetups without sex" then? Isn't that dating? Is this another situation where definitions have been changed again? That or she is missing something out of that first story
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/03/22 05:03 PM
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Boys aren't allowed on Tinder... So what is she admitting to...?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/03/22 04:56 PM
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Chill out. Read back what you have just written. You have lost your head I’m not the one who has completely lost their mind that someone dared question their stance. So stop projecting People can disagree you know. You don’t need to throw a fit about it Maybe I was blunt in places. I might even have misread one or two things. 3 hours of sleep will do that but your reaction is truly truly staggering and removes any incentive I might have had to go back and check As an aside we seem to have differ…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/03/22 04:44 PM
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In many cases the hyperbole and the short hand is not helpful. And I am clearly suggesting this is one of them You’d be surprised what level some men would stoop to - especially if you use it broadly as a shorthand for a variety of different men. And also you’d be surprised what kind of men women will fuck just because of their power, wealth and status. The ex president of the US and current prime minister of the U.K. are pretty high profile examples of this
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/03/22 03:08 PM
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All that and is Chad chasing on tinder? You’d think she would have a big circle of wealthy guys to pick from. Aren’t coder bros a thing now so not all tech guys are stereotypical nerds Something doesn’t add up Ex model suggests her looks gave her a massive leg up that most people don’t get. I was talking to a girl (one of the time waster types) who was telling me that her friend who worked in coding was going to teach/mentor her to get the skills to apply for a decent paying (for entry level at …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/03/22 10:35 AM
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If she is on tinder to expand her company then that means she is an onlyfans girl. As if there was any doubt after the thong pic but at least she confirms it That is not a company
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/03/22 10:14 AM
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It’s also why so many athletes get divorced soon after they stop playing (and by default stop earning massive money)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/03/22 09:41 AM
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Imagine if a guy made a similar post. There would be screams of “you are not entitled to a woman you 1ncel !”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/03/22 10:23 PM
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Mentioned this many times before but I have dated two different women who were 29 and fresh from being out of 5/6 year relationships where they found their partners cheating They were in full freak out mode and every little thing I did was judged very harshly because they knew they didn’t have the time to waste. So things that could have easily have been resolved suddenly become relationship enders as they desperately search for someone who ticks as many husband boxes as possible (And I mean eve…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/03/22 10:16 PM
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For Chad to - maybe. But note she mentions a man with a powerful job. I’m sure looks are a major factor but not directly called out Not all chads have a powerful job. And not all people with powerful jobs are chads There is a real danger in these kinds of spaces of creating some kind of Chad vs non-Chad binary that isn’t always the case And also I gather there are some people that really would prefer a real person (any person) to their right hand and some coconut oil
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/03/22 08:32 PM
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Looking to? She claims to already have had success on whatever that site is But that could well be the same as the women on sugar sites claiming they have already had “successful arrangements in the past” when if it were successful it would still be happening and in most cases you can tell by the joining date that it is BS That said - if all she wants is to sleep with a successful man I am sure some would accommodate her on a “slow Tuesday”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/03/22 04:06 PM
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More than she already has?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/03/22 04:03 PM
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Oh gosh they definitely aren’t going for fat acceptance. Because that one is a double standard that even normie men can spot
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/03/22 04:56 PM
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Does she mentioned her age and I missed it or did you find it elsewhere? The most likely person I could find when trying to research her was an Aussie woman with 3m (yes million) YouTube subscribers and clear evidence of a relationship with a tall guy who doesn’t care how average she looks without makeup (from her Instagram). Not the usual where there is no evidence of a partner in their Instagram just loads of shots of them and them partying What perplexes me the most is that she went on this r…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/03/22 04:56 PM
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“It” was a vague and nebulous term I admit. I of course meant they regret how they are now treated as a result
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/03/22 02:26 PM
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A woman telling a man how to be a man. As usual - reverse it and imagine the reaction
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/03/22 11:49 AM
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When will they work out that they can’t actually do this? I know it is based on the flawed premise that men are “telling women what to do” when they are rejecting them for being overly promiscuous. But they are not. No one is telling them not to do it. We know better than that. We know what the backlash will be. It is just consequences for actions It would be so much easier for women if there was a direct message as a popular narrative telling them not to do it. Then they could rail against it, …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/03/22 11:48 AM
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As others have said - this article is dripping with apex fallacy. Most men don’t have to worry about being called a slut for casually sleeping around. This is true. Why? Because most men don’t have that option available to them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/03/22 11:32 AM
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No - but if that is the role she wants then your relationship will be that practice. And she will also need to meet the entry requirements. Two points many of these women simply will not accept
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/03/22 10:58 AM
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This article is 6 years old?! Imagine how much more they will be doubling down now. I wonder what happened to the author over those 5 years
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/03/22 10:57 AM
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Because they always regret it after the fact when they can’t do anything to change it. Other than try and change the narrative
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/03/22 10:50 AM
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To a woman like this the abortions would come under sexual past. So that would be hidden as well
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/03/22 10:50 AM
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I once had a woman in a YouTube comments section insist that these type of articles (bolde and the like) were all fake. The rationale? That they used stock images rather than images of the author You couldn’t make it up
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/03/22 10:45 AM
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That’s pretty much the message being pushed. And they are shocked that guys aren’t going for it It is the same “logic” that will allow women to say with a straight face that they will make a guy they “care for” or “see a future with” wait longer for sex and do less with them. It just demonstrates that their don’t know and/or care what men think and want
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/03/22 10:42 AM
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“These same guys” - oh so the top guys who wouldn’t commit anyway? Got it
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/03/22 10:39 AM
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That’s what I mean by responding to show her how stupid her statement was. She realised that what she was asking was impossible
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/03/22 07:46 PM
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I’m pretty sure her leading with an MBA suggests she expects more than a minimalist lifestyle in a low cost country. Just a theory
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/03/22 04:04 PM
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No - but she doesn’t have the time for anything else Gosh it would almost be worth it to string her along for a year and ghost . But not really
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/03/22 04:02 PM
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I once matched with a Russian woman into her 30s who was demanding people be family orientated and was quite bitchy about it. She wanted a family but was getting close to the point where time was really running out. And she made it very clear she expected the man to pay for everything. Wish I had screenshotted that one but I don’t think i did I have also historically matched with a gorgeous Russian 21 year old (doesn’t happen often) who wasn’t going to be trying to beat the clock. (This was from…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/03/22 04:01 PM
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I don’t know - the Brit I was referring to clearly didn’t like the idea of dating for a few months, sleeping with a guy, only for him to decide it wouldn’t work out long term. Which aligns with what you said about the Russian I guess there is kind of a link because if you have a “love at first sight” thing then it won’t be a problem as said relationship will end in commitment. But that doesn’t happen. Because it is lust at first sight not love. Which isn’t a good foundation for a long term relat…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/03/22 03:56 PM
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Yes I missed this red flag in the past and have suffered through it. I was going to say twice , but realistically every time Most recent ones were definitely the most notable. Actively punishing me for being cheated on by their exes after multi year relationships - I expect both were expecting a ring and instead found out about cheating. Talk about having the rug pulled beneath your feet I am so much more wary now
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/03/22 03:52 PM
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Yeah - they are not technically physically going anywhere. But that doesn’t mean they are still viable options to pursue It’s starting to become clearer and clearer to me how damaged nearly all single women over 30 are (in terms of relationships at least). And that number is coming down as well. Even this one in the tweet has clearly been damaged given how terrified she is about wasting time. She knows she has already wasted some. You can see it in the words (Note: I am not suggesting I am not d…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/03/22 01:46 PM
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And the number 1s of this world make her look bad. As much as they try to deny it or pretend otherwise many women (I would suggest the majority) absolutely freak out when they hit (or are just about to hit) 30 and are unmarried and childless. They feel judged by everyone around them - friends, family, strangers. Everyone. The unsaid part is that they usually know they have made some bad choices that mean the judgement is at least partially deserved. Whether it is ditching a good boyfriend too so…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/03/22 01:43 PM
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Oh yeah - those were pretty much her boundaries but she unwittingly revealed enough to make me not be ok with them And I had to raise a question to allow her to clarify the “No dating” stance. Because as initially phrased it was daft
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/03/22 09:21 PM
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Yeah she told me about how guys would either disappear when she asked them if they could be official or were the type of guy to be openly dating multiple people So that tells me about the type of guys she tried to pick It became very apparent that I would need to jump through loads of hoops to prove I wasn’t a time waster (she actually mentioned time wasters directly)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/03/22 08:55 PM
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Oh i didn’t reverse her demands. I just did the “what do you mean by “dating”? I wonder if we have the same definition” And that made her realise what her first statement must have sounded like. But she also went on a mini moan about previous guys she “dated” that made it really clear how bad her choices must have been for the prior six years
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/03/22 08:29 PM
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I had a match recently tell me that they didn’t do FWB or Dating. That they were only interested in a long term relationship. I did phrase my responses in such a way to allow her to work out how stupid that sounded But she had basically ruled herself out with that comment as it told me all I needed to know
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/03/22 07:04 PM
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I wonder if she realises she is on the wrong app for those demands ?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/03/22 07:02 PM
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It makes me wonder what they expect guys reading it to think
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/03/22 06:35 PM
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Wow if this is true I am definitely in the wrong field. Although IT and coding seems even more dull than my current job (which is saying something) Regardless - she’s left it rather late to find someone to have a child with. And left it late for a sperm donor as well
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/03/22 04:08 PM
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Added two years to her age - suggests she jumped on these apps at 16…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/03/22 04:02 PM
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Bingo
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/03/22 08:30 PM
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Because my guess is that it was written by someone for whom English isn’t a first language. With mentions of surgeon, banker and engineer as being the only guys she considered worth dating and aggressive career focus herself I have my own guesses
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/03/22 02:05 PM
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Maybe imgur wasn’t the one I used to use then when I did post examples
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/03/22 12:56 PM
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I said that they weren’t as bad from a period when I changed the age filters - so a specific reference to those 35-50 ones that Meerita is fond of posting I did have some bad ones stored but I am a bit of a dope when it comes to tech and had forgotten how I uploaded/hosted (and censored) them before. When I get a moment I will remind myself as it can’t have been hard! What I never worked out is how people get multi pages images hosted. Because it is probably not surprising that the ones that wri…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/03/22 12:34 PM
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Somehow I always know from the title when it is Meerita and another insane Spanish post Waller / danger zone dweller These Spanish single ladies who’ve missed the boat are properly crazy (and ran through) and really don’t seem at all concerned to let everyone know it in detail. I can’t say I would know if the U.K. ones are the same. I briefly set the age filters higher and they didn’t seem to be anywhere near as bad
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/03/22 10:33 AM
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She has certainly made finding a “non coward” much harder by instantly restricting her dating pool to less than 20% Seriously she is 39, desperate for commitment, wants a child and is angry and frustrated but STILL screens for height ? And note the language: she “can’t stand” short guys. Not she prefers tall guys (they all do). But no. She can’t stand even the thought of a short guy. The result? This profile
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/03/22 10:29 AM
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Oh there is some propaganda in there. But it isn’t completely You can tell by the fact women are celebrating that they chose to make the strong woman look like a male bodybuilder. Weirdly I think they are mainly celebrating that she in not thin and feminine and not that she is representative of “average” body shapes (which she isn’t) If I remember correctly there are 7 super powered individuals - 4 women and 3 men. But of the men one is important to the plot but ostracised from the family, one i…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/22 06:19 PM
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Hence why my earlier posts were referring to (or certainly meant to) a real interesting mix of gender politics / messages I picked out some of the more obvious ones and some related to this forum. And didn’t do the whole film. But you are right in the ones you picked out (I also acknowledged the “conventional” messages included as well) The strong girl one just particularly stood out for the reasons mentioned. As well as having the traditionally feminine character choose to deliberately make her…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/22 04:48 PM
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I didn’t necessarily mean talk or explain. Just noting yourself what sort of things are coming out Obviously at that age it is just about colours and songs
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/22 12:12 PM
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It’s getting worse though. Like how Frozen actively made the main female lead have no romantic interest at all and with the sister they did the “you know that usual trope - well reverse that because men actually suck and are the villains” And then the one I mentioned above The misandry didn’t use to be so blatant Note that in your example Aladdin is a thief and criminal who kind of skirts by due to being attractive (hidden etc) and then “cheats” via wishes. Until obviously demonstrating strong m…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/22 12:11 PM
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Perhaps try watching it with that lens and it might make at least one of the watches more tolerable! I assume you already try to note the message it is giving to your daughters? I am in no position to comment on parenting mind
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/22 12:04 PM
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This post must have been reposted because i am sure I said the same - she should have made this offer at 23 with no kids
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/22 11:26 AM
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I had someone send me the emoji equivalent of this after revealing they were a single mom (not in the profile but in the chat). Or is might have been: 😬 So I would prefer they be upfront. And actually say it and not use these : 👩‍👦👩‍👧👩‍👧‍👦👩‍👦‍👦👩‍👧‍👧
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/22 11:22 AM
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It just stood out to me how she failed and was helped. And how this wouldn’t happen to a man. And that is how society is as well - hence the disparity in the homeless The definition thing is ludicrous. In the U.K. there is a “Shadow Women and Equality’s Minister” who was asked to define what a woman was on International Women’s Day and could not or would not do it (It’s top banter than usually a shadow minister is corresponding to an actual government minister. The actual government does not hav…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/22 10:35 AM
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I think 40 is the “final cut off” for some. Probably for guys in their 40s and 50s Contrary to red pill dogma it is not possible for every guy in their 40s and 50s to date women in their 20s. If the looks aren’t there to at least a minimum threshold then such a gap would take a very large income / net worth that is only achievable by a small percentage of guys
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/22 10:25 AM
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I recently watched Encanto which is utterly fascinating when you consider the gender politics They make all the impressive character women (shock, horror) But the most intriguing character (and most celebrated by feminists) is the girl with super strength. They apparently fought tooth and nail to make her look big, muscly and powerful (but not like any woman in the world apart from the tiniest fraction - so not actually relatable). This is despite all the other super powered characters not havin…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/22 10:22 AM
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Some women don’t go on it because it affects their hormones. Makes them more likely to be / get fat (or fatter) And then how would they attract the chads on tinder ?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/22 08:08 PM
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She might have seen that story that went round where that pretty much happened and is giving it a shot
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/22 08:06 PM
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I expect it is cope
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/22 08:03 PM
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There won’t be many men on her income level interested in a 40 year old doctor. If any
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/22 08:00 PM
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Wonder why you say dermatologist There was a girl I spoke to who claimed to be a doctor with a side hustle selling things in Brazil (half Brazilian). She mentioned being in dermatology. But surely it is still a doctor with doctor workloads? I have no idea I thought exactly the same when I read her profile. How does she have time? And also - why do that as well? And finally - she is going to price herself out of the market very quickly. Especially as her peers (such as male doctors) are almost ce…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/22 07:58 PM
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That’s the kind of offer you make to a guy when you are 23 with 0 kids. Not 33 with two kids from at least one other man
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/22 07:53 PM
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In theory - yes. Except the important thing. He is a man and the victim is a woman. Therefore it is fraud and a crime. Because … reasons ??
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/22 05:38 PM
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That tinder documentary is not really “new” There have been stories like this for years. In this one it was just that : tinder was used which nearly every single person uses now the women targeted were not post wall and so a “reasonable” blue pilled person can ask “why were they fooled when they are cute and can probably get loads of guys” he actually met them and conned them far more elaborately the perpetrator has been identified Usually these stories happen with women like in this story. Frum…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/22 05:37 PM
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*can’t And won’t be made to anyway Imagine if a guy walked out on a 30 year marriage/relationship with kids and handed that sum to a fake bot using the picture of an attractive Eastern European instead of sending it to his family. He’d have to flee the country or end up in jail
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/22 05:31 PM
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Thing is these women in these stories were mostly in relationships And they gave away large sums When you hear about men doing similar it is like you say - most give away much smaller amounts. And are lonely and single. The women do it even when they are not technically lonely. Like the article - she walked out on a nearly 30 year relationship. Or the women going after army Chad. Giving 5-6 figures. It is not the same as a lonely 21 year old spending a few bucks on only fans. I guess it is like …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/22 05:29 PM
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I remember a story about a guy in the army whose photo was used to catfish loads of frumpy women without his knowledge and he couldn’t stop it. I think he got tracked down and nearly lost his own relationship because of all the accusations. I think that was how he found out what was going on These women were handing 5 figure sums to a guy who they had never met
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/22 04:25 PM
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Left? That implies that there ever were good guys who wanted that. What makes them believe this ?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/22 04:23 PM
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I get the same error
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/03/22 12:41 PM
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One of the next things will be tax exemptions and child care vouchers for women who have a kid on their own - and that still won’t be taken up en masse
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/03/22 10:19 AM
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I’m wondering if that is supposed to be the joke. But it might not be
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/03/22 10:17 AM
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Oh I definitely fell into the trap of feeling sorry for the women whose 5-6 relationships ended (both with the guy cheating they claimed) But now I look back and wonder things like, did they ever really discuss what they wanted? How did they treat the guy? Etc Most guys don’t suddenly bounce (or stray) after that amount of time no matter what the media tries to depict So what were they doing or not doing?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/03/22 04:59 PM
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And since there is no prospect of me making anything close to that it puts you in an even worse position The impression I get is that lots of US cities are kind of like how I describe / assume London is. For example lots of RP content (directly or indirectly) seem to come out of places like Atlanta and Miami. Like Rebecca Lynn Pope who had the meltdown after spending too long trying to run a dating agency and having to deal with delusional women. Pretty sure that is Atlanta. I don’t think too ma…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/03/22 04:01 PM
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Notice she said she NEEDs to be treated like a queen. Not that she’d like to be or even wants to be. She needs it. It is mandatory
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/03/22 10:16 AM
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This. She is likely very low earning but potentially constantly around much higher earning people (depending on what type of nanny - I am assuming private one rather than just someone who works in a nursery) So she has starts and $$ (or ££) signs in her eyes Can’t believe the person above seems to think “oh she just likes being treated like a queen and actually said she needs this” is reasonable
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/03/22 10:16 AM
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She asked you in person? Not gonna lie that is bolder than most. Audacious actually
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/03/22 10:13 AM
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I had a girl tell me the other day that she always found women with unnaturally red hair to actually be really boring and using it as a substitute for no personality Which is not something I heard before
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/03/22 10:11 AM
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First Law trilogy? I remember that. It is truly unique in terms of fantasy in that all the POV characters are absolutely terrible people. They all suck!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/03/22 10:09 AM
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There is demand for German teachers everywhere. She claims to love men from the U.K. She could teach German in the U.K. Perhaps Italian as well or tutor it / be a cover teacher I know we have shafted our teachers here but I can’t imagine they get paid less than Italian teachers. I guess she might deep down realise that whilst she might be good for a holiday fling if she lived somewhere full time then it would be different. Or perhaps doesn’t want to find that out just in case. I know one thing t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/03/22 09:56 AM
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I’m not knocking the people who do. It is really tough out there and only seems to be getting worse. It is more that the comments are attacking men for being mama’s boys which strongly imply mocking them for living at home when this woman clearly still does as well It is incredibly noticeable that she isn’t bragging about being strong and Independent and having her own place
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/03/22 06:57 AM
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Not on dating apps where the majority of users are men and women have exponentially more matches. You are right on having power over that area but it takes an awful lot to even get close to being able to exercise that due to the numbers game and the illusion of choice women have
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/03/22 06:54 AM
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I would bet good money that those first three comments are from people who know nothing about real Italians and probably don’t know any
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/03/22 11:30 PM
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Anyone got any insight on why she babbled on about teaching German and previously being a supply teacher and now having a stable job? In what way is any of that relevant Does she think the stable job entitles her to a better man? Because even if that did make a major difference (it doesn’t) she ruins it by admitting she only recently got a steady job. So she only become something close to a functioning adult at 33? And she wonders why she is struggling. I assume she lived with family until getti…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/03/22 11:26 PM
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I can’t stand this idea that some women get about men from other countries when using passport mode on apps They get the wrong idea because it is impossible for the men to try and get them round to bang them (or even quickly meet them in person). So the interaction is automatically very different to one with a man from your country / area I tried explaining this to a girl before who kept trying to tell me that American and Canadian men on the apps were so much more polite and respectful than in …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/03/22 11:23 PM
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She didn’t try very hard in her attempt to keep it short and avoid a rant did she? Yet another reason why no one wants to be with her
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/03/22 11:19 PM
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I mean she even admits to being fat but is very careful with her words. But not careful enough. She admits to having a chubby face. I’m sorry but unless you are a toddler if you have a fat face then you are fat. Simple as And she admits to not being as skinny which is basically her saying that she is chunky. I assume everyone has seen what happens to Mediterranean women when the fat pin gets pulled? It is not pretty
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/03/22 11:16 PM
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Objectively ? According to whom? Herself I assume
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/03/22 11:12 PM
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Maybe it is confirmation bias but I am starting to see more and more of the women nearing or passing their 30s and starting to demand proper dates and the like. They clearly have been run through and a bit getting dates anymore and are furious My latest thing with my limited matches on bumble is (because it is the “female led” app) to match the energy with the messenger and to not actually ask them out. Either they do it or it doesn’t happen. Now I know I’m not in a position of power as a male o…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/03/22 08:55 PM
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It is the “need” in the “need to be treated like one” that really gets me. She absolutely doesn’t understand what that word means. She WANTS. She wants an awful lot for that matter. Like a small spoilt child “I want, I want, I want”. Indeed one of the bad children archetypes from Charlie and the chocolate factory
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/03/22 08:46 PM
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I don’t need to imagine. I scoff when I see it . For both men and women for the record
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/03/22 08:44 PM
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Wow I initially read that as “looks like Julia Childs” and had a record scratch moment 😂. Damn eyesight
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/03/22 08:46 AM
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Kevin Samuels is generally right when tells the women that (the level of) their baby daddy is the best they can get in a man. Usually 95+ times out of 100
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/03/22 08:30 AM
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Unless I misread - this one doesn’t do that.l directly. Unless you mean just the way she speak as if it isn’t a major burden and liability and as if she is serious about not wanting someone to take on the father role
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/03/22 08:28 AM
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And in the reverse many treat their dogs like kids
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/03/22 08:27 AM
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I was originally going to ask the “why” as well to get your perspective. You are bang on There are so many risks. Big one is the Voltron effect where they expect a man to be the combination of all the best parts of all her exes. And they can’t have any of the negatives that bugged her from all of those guys either. Rewatched the famous Steve Harvey clip of the average woman who is starting to get frumpy with her pillars of requirements for men and she refers to exes loads in that Or there is the…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/03/22 08:26 AM
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It would explain the logic that an ex of mine had - she refused to believe you could be bisexual as a man. She basically believed if you fucked (and actually could get yourself in a position to do it) another man then you were gay. End of story I don’t think she saw it quite as binary for women but I can’t remember (and she was socially quite conservative so this wasn’t the sort of chick who made out with women during college or anything like that )
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/03/22 11:02 PM
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Yeah it is pretty shocking that it didn’t seem to even cross her mind to ask the males about dealing with the women. Nor that her friends could possibly be just as bad and laugh nervously at her rants
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/03/22 10:44 PM
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Isn’t that also true of the violence rates? I am sure I read that gay male relationships were the least violent. Basically completely blowing up the usual narrative
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/03/22 10:42 PM
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The core message being that it isn’t really “WAATGM” at all. It is “Where are all the good women?”. Or rather that is ultimately the actual answer to “the question” - that there are too few good women (or too many bad ones)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/03/22 10:40 PM
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I guess it is this logic that would lead, for example, to a mid 30s single woman happily telling me her favourite standup is radical feminist lesbian Hannah Gadsby and listing other shows she likes as confirming that she is a feminist herself (and likely a pretty extreme one) From what I understand about gadbsy most of her shows are complaining about and attacking the patriarchy, claiming victim status for being lesbian and gleefully (and consequence free) attacking straight white men - of which…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/03/22 07:28 PM
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Anti slut defence . Also works for if their friends or family see them on the app
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/03/22 07:17 PM
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Edgy outside the bedroom I assume ?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/03/22 04:05 PM
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I’d be staggered if they were actually taken at the age she states she is in that profile. Indeed I wouldn’t be surprised if there was a two way lie going on in that those pics are a few years old AND she is lying about her age. For all we know there could be a 10 year gap from those pics
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/03/22 04:01 PM
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Shit test for lower tier men I assume. They either take her word and back away or ignore it and get screamed at Now if she happens to match with someone she wants to have sex with they need to know those legs open !
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/03/22 04:00 PM
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How can someone, with a straight face, say they are dysfunctional, needy, neurotic and a mess and yet still claim she is “drama free”? Another example of women changing definitions for what they want them to be. All of those things are types of drama I assume by “drama free” she means no kids and no crazy exes hanging around. Not good enough to count as drama free I’m afraid
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/03/22 03:58 PM
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Her profile is basically just her explaining why she is single The male equivalent would just use fancy words to say they are poor, won’t spend money on a partner anyway and are also a short guy who is a selfish lover with a tiny penis. No man would write this on their profile! But women seem to think it is completely fine
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/03/22 06:52 PM
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Ah I can see her mistake. It is the one many women make. She is operating from the opening position of believing she is anything other than average (at best) So she has been going for 9 or 10/10 guys (I guess she has given herself an 8). And done this for circa 15 years With predictable results
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/03/22 05:32 PM
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You think how people respond and can/can’t moderate porn is genetic? Or was that about bourbon/alcohol? Also there aren’t many men who go to the clubs and could get one of the dancers to sleep with them. The reverse isn’t true. Indeed the strip club isn’t the best comparison here unless it was also - and you mate paid the woman to give you extras and you resisted
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/03/22 06:57 PM
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If you want an example - that heinous Gillette advert where the white knight stops a guy who is about to walk after a woman he likes the look of and goes to approach, shaking his head. From what I remember we get no other context. So it is literally “don’t you dare approach a woman you find attractive” Consider this was the “toxic masculinity” advert. So going to try and speak to someone you find attractive is toxic masculinity. By that logic fantasising about another guy whilst suffering throug…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/03/22 05:06 PM
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To be fair the strip club is probably the logic - “they get to stare at naked women, therefore…” I didn’t say it was good logic
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/03/22 05:00 PM
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I had a partner once who had only ever got off with her vibrator before our relationship. And she had to position herself in a certain way And she wasn’t a CC rider. She had been in a long relationship before where either the guy was not attentive or she didn’t communicate her needs/likes or both. A better sex life that she had ever had didn’t stop her from (suddenly) blowing up our relationship though. Like with most things I expect she very quickly took it for granted and assumed it was easily…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/03/22 03:39 PM
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Your first point is a good one. One of my friends is under 35 and she has mostly grey hair and is just going with it (but she is married with two kids so isn’t competing for a guy). Suggests this is potentially true of many Hair plugs (if we are thinking about the same thing) are expensive. And makeup is just frowned upon as a guy Certainly explains the perceived SMV difference Beards is a weird one. Looking distinguished is likely only a reason for some. There is also: hides weaker jaw / chin t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/03/22 03:36 PM
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It's not my opinion. I am just stating what I have seen written in many many places And I see that you, also, are misunderstanding what is meant by "sexual peak". Especially what the article is trying to claim. I even said it above - this article, and all the things that say a woman's sexual peak is in her late 20s or 30s is NOT (again NOT) talking about their desirability to men Your second main paragraph just shows that you are also interpreting it as their "peak desirability to men". I mean -…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/22 08:48 PM
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The being fit for yourself is a big one because in this age of instagram (and OLD apps) showing everyone the peak of some people unless you have great genetics and/or start using PEDs the chance of getting a physique that becomes really noticeable is not overly high It isn't impossible. But it is also a lot of work both in and out the gym. If you are doing it for women solely (or even mainly) then you are either going to have a bad time or you are going to do all sorts of stuff that will be real…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/22 08:38 PM
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Sexual peak in of the 28-30 is always spoken of with reference to their hormones and drive. You seem to be reading this as “Sexual desirability” peak. It is not that Saying they are starting to wrinkle and sag and plump up at 28 is an overly extremist view in my book. Sure some do - if they party too hard, eat too much, have too much Sun etc Granted the majority now do one or more of those things. But many do those things earlier and earlier But again - this discussion is not about how desirable…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/22 04:23 PM
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I was talking about algorithms / watch rates on the porn sites. Not Reddit Unless I am confused and you are pointing to Reddit group rates as some kind of evidence that mainstream sites are pushing the “wrong” thing ?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/22 04:18 PM
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It is interesting how a common critique of men is that they are obsessed with porn and get the wrong ideas about sex and desirability from it And yet we get comments in this article about women in their 40s having a lot to offer sexually Apart from just outright lying to themselves (which of course we can’t rule out) a very real explanation is how much MILF porn there is out there and how it always appears very high on popular search terms (I think usually below Teen but there you go). So maybe …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/22 01:46 PM
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Absolutely. And this is one of the big problems with some red pill stuff. It tells you this and nods at work being required. But it still won’t be possible for all. And there will always be young women who are creeped out by much older guys no matter what their resources or the like
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/22 01:40 PM
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“They don’t complain” - in an article that is solely about them complaining Invisible women whose lives are tough? As one of the legions of invisible men who goes through life without a compliment for years at a time (among other things) I have absolutely no sympathy. I am doing my best not to get really angry at the entitlement If men speak the way these women are they are labelled entitled incels and told they are not owed anything from women. And yet a reverse is completely acceptable and pub…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/22 01:38 PM
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Yeah I had a friend tell me the other day that I would always be welcome to join them (her and her husband and their kids) for holidays in the far future - context being lamenting about Holidays many years in the future when my parents will not be around It may not pan out that way but even still I’m not sure it would be the same if I was a woman who was lonely and desperate for a man. Especially if I was childless (with a figure that reflects that) compared to the woman giving the offer So when…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/22 01:34 PM
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The thing is about the being more motivated because they know they have to compensate is just false. Women clearly don’t think like this. Otherwise single mothers would actually come to the “negotiation” with a list of what they offer over and above someone without kids. But they don’t. I don’t see why older women would be any different As to the ages - I have always seems that a woman’s sexual (note: not fertility) peak is 28-30. Maybe into mid 30s. Presumably as it is the “last best time” to t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/22 01:27 PM
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They really think “sexually mature” is a good thing don’t they?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/22 01:20 PM
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And it is happening earlier as well. It is galling talking to a 29 years old who talks about being “single” for 6 years and her saying “I don’t do FWB and dating. Only interested in long term”. And then her going on to reveal (when pressed) that her opposition to “dating” is because she had dated guys who either dated other women at the same time (which most really can’t pull off) or disappeared as soon as she tried to make it official That just screams that she was batting out of her league and…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/22 01:18 PM
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Especially “cherry pick” - which implies not just getting together with any 25 year old that would have them There was a red pill themed channel where there was a grey haired guy who clearly had loads of money and the woman’s tiktok was showing their relationship and basically what he bought for her. She was maybe just above average but was at least 20 years younger than him I wouldn’t call this “cherry picking” from the younger models
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/22 01:15 PM
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There was a tiktok that is clipped by lots of channels of a woman (actually in her 30s so not even 40s) talking about how she logged into OLD and thought “who are all these old men” and realised they were her age If that is what some women think about guys in their 30s who are far more likely to have smaller bellies and more hair then imagine how they look at guys in their 50s who actually message them. I expect I will find out one day! But women are mortified when men of their SMV try to pick t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/22 01:13 PM
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This is the south U.K. and a white girl and doesn’t quite seem like the same thing The way she speaks is that she is annoyed about it. But six years of bad picking? Makes your wonder It seems more like someone trying to punch to far above their weight. I mean the fact that she would apparently put up with doing the “dating” thing where she knows the guys are dating others I live in a relatively small city and I really don’t think the multi-dating thing is as big here as it is played out online. …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/03/22 08:16 PM
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Which part did she do for years? I wouldn’t know as I have never been on the “good” side of this behaviour where a woman would just come round I have seen the chadfishing videos (even though if pressed I still expect many of those would flake). Also it seems to clearly happen based on the ranting TikTok’s from women. Like the single mom who drove for 2-3 hours to get stood up. Or the woman who flew out (he didn’t fly her she flew herself) to get pump and dumped who literally screams in frustrati…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/03/22 04:46 PM
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Haha. Exactly. And the fact that they call it “cheating” as well I’ve recently had an exchange with a 29 year old who says she “doesn’t do FWB or dating” and is only looking for something long term as she has been single for six years But she slipped up in admitting she dated a lot in that time (as well as directly saying “kissed a lot of frogs”). She basically told me that the people who she was “dating” were either “dating” other women as well or bounced as soon as she wanted to make it exclus…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/03/22 04:38 PM
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It’s rather fitting that the woman in the image of this article looks incredibly like Brie Larson - one of the most egotistical, toxic women out there and a terrible role model for young women but placed into a position where she is one
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/03/22 10:27 PM
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I think one of the things many women hate more than most things is being made to feel stupid / had it demonstrated that they are stupid It is likely the origin of the “mansplaining” complaint I mean number 1 on what they hate is being duped by a Chad into thinking he wanted to commit to her. And of course being made to feel ugly. But I’d suggest being made to feel stupid is pretty high on the list (at least in terms of male/female dynamics)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/02/22 07:25 PM
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Would be nice if women realised that having kids with someone who is super tall doesn’t mean they will necessarily be tall My parents don’t really try with advice anymore. My dad at least acknowledged he wasn’t in a place to give it as he dated my mum from something like 16. I think he might have had one other girlfriend ever and that would have been briefly and a school one.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/02/22 07:21 PM
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My best guess is that the men are downright annoyed and the women are annoyed that this particular woman was so brazen about it. Us men are supposed to be ignorant to this aspect of female nature. We are supposed to believe that women don’t primarily care about looks etc etc
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/02/22 07:02 PM
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I guess she went on a non dating one. I have noticed that ones like “True off my chest” are far far more “reasonable” with the responses than the relationship and dating ones (especially the “dating over” ones) In the non dating ones you aren’t banned / post removed for saying something that slightly goes against blue pill dogma
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/02/22 02:31 PM
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I think that age cut off is creeping up. Plenty of early 30s women still insisting on tall/taller men
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/02/22 02:28 PM
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The men with the best natural physiques are nearly always those that work outdoors. And as you say that comes with sun exposure I often think when doing things like farmers walks at the gym - “there are guys who do this kind of thing 5-6 days a week especially when apprentices”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/02/22 11:11 AM
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Just Googled and the first result says that it’s use with regards to women is US/Canadian slang And as a powerfully built man the term allegedly originates from the U.K. Which would explain my mix up in the latter posts And maybe my original one since I had no idea it could be used as a vulgar compliment when discussing a woman
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/02/22 11:08 AM
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Oh no. I am certain my dad has used it from the south of the U.K.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/02/22 07:10 PM
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Upon reflection you are right about the former. Not sure I have ever heard it used positively for a woman though Now that I think - definitely for someone like a solid soccer central defender or striker who just powers everyone out of the way. But not for an exceptionally curvaceous woman. I wondered whether maybe it is something else where the meaning has changed but probably not. Probably my migraine
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/02/22 04:17 PM
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Remember it is “mansplaining”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/02/22 04:09 PM
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It is more simple than that in 95% of cases if you use handy dandy old fashioned U.K. measurements - if her weight in stones is double digits she is almost certainly fat She might even be fat when lighter than that 10 stone = 140 lbs I saw that joked about either here or on a YouTube channel (perhaps Chronic)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/02/22 03:04 PM
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I identify at being 6’6” instead of 5’6”. Line up ladies … I joke but there are girls who basically say that. “I’m 5ft but my attitude is 6ft plus”. I mean that is a red flag in general but I very much read that as a very indirect way of saying “you must be at least 6ft”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/02/22 03:02 PM
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The term “built like a brick shithouse” was invented for someone with her build. That is probably one of the “ists” or “isms” now
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/02/22 02:58 PM
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Where must your head be at to both ask for that, pay for that / get it paid for and then see it afterwards and accept it/be happy with it ? Blimey
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/02/22 02:57 PM
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We do. It is they that are too delusional to do that
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/02/22 02:56 PM
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Thar she blows : https://youtu.be/x67jtMPfdTw
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/02/22 02:55 PM
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Rather amusing when she publicly hit on Chris evans and he had to politely decline / laugh it off But also telling because I’m not sure the same would have been true if the roles had been reversed and a fat, ugly famous guy publicly hit on someone like Rihanna Hell, it doesn’t even need to be a thin attractive famous woman. A fat unattractive famous man could publicly hit on Lizzo and she would screech and scream and all her followers would shame him
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/02/22 02:53 PM
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Ah - it is films like that (and other examples of the rare cases when fat men are romcom leads) that must be what is giving women this idea that “all men want stick thin models” It simply isn’t true Funny thing is that the fat activists now almost certainly hate Shallow Hal because when he sees her “inner beauty” it is a pretty thin woman
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/02/22 02:50 PM
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Most young women age 20-29 gain 30lbs between their online dating pictures and how they look in real life (or at least 15) Let alone since 1960!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/02/22 02:45 PM
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When are those from. There is a guy on YouTube who is particularly vocal about this topic and he often says that the most recent data we have was pre-covid where loads of people used that as an excuse to sit at home and gain weight. Covid weight gain apparently became acceptable and normal (it isn’t )
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/02/22 02:43 PM
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Bad meat OR good cheese made me laugh
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/02/22 02:41 PM
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Take a look at that Ukraine example. It isn’t a full democracy but I gather everyone of age can vote. One group is now being told they MUST fight and the other does not have to One has no choice in the matter
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/02/22 02:40 PM
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Joker covered this on Better Bachelor. Apparently the people on this sub generally tore this woman apart. She was not really supported as all
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/22 10:38 PM
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You are straying into dangerous territory there. With that kind of thinking / logic it opens up "well if that is the case then he should have just got the necklace" argument You are inadvertently supporting her point of view here Jewelry just seems like a dangerous game to me because it is so easily a potential test of how much you will spend on her. I got my ex some as a gesture at the end of a holiday. I legit wanted to go out and get something as a surprise but I couldn't get away from her lo…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/22 10:38 PM
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It’s the emoji use after that comment that got me - 🥴 Almost as if she is baffled that people thinks she should accept someone with a child / confused that people think she is a hypocrite
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/22 02:39 PM
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I think you have badly worded this and hence the downvotes. As it seems like you are actually criticising the FDS approach of labelling and insulting. But people saw the FDS slur and downvoted
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/22 02:35 PM
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It’s an outrageous talking point that guys labelled “incels” are only interested in the hottest, model looking women It is also projection at it’s purest These men would never dream of outright ruling out a woman for her height or boob size. They have legit preferences - note, not the way women use that word when it comes to things like height. As in - of course they would like a gorgeous buxom woman. But they are pragmatic and not going to reject women who aren’t that This is not true for the a…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/22 08:08 AM
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I wasn't actually suggesting that she was lying. Just that in another post she said something about "we work out and look good". And had a posting history where she mentioned her age - and also that she seemed scared that he BF would leave because one of his friends is a womanizer and wanted him to join him Either that actually happened which is why she turned to relationship based reddit subs. Or she fell down the rabbit hole in general when seeking advice in that area. Either way it seems odd …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/02/22 07:23 PM
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I'm not sure why questions 1 and 2 are really relevant as the original comment simply talked about November being a bloodbath - with the implication being - "for the ruling party" 3 - would mean gaining lots of seats in the various houses (state and federal level), governors' mansions etc. Fairly unambiguous that one 4 and 5 would be covered by the graph in the original comment about their lives getting worse if that holds 6 - seemingly AT LEAST 40% every single time without fail. And the way di…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/02/22 06:20 PM
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I thought I'd try to reply to this but then scrolled down to see that it really was just someone trolling Would have thought a 21 year old chick who claims to be in shape and look good would have better things to do really
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/02/22 05:39 PM
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Judging by the weight of most women (and the weight difference between them in person and on their profiles) I struggle to believe many work out at all. And "look good" is subjective. Many many women claim to look good when really that means "I can do my makeup well". That doesn't count Now if someone has worked out and looks good naturally then they would have a point. But given the law of averages those are only a minority. But you wouldn't know it given how many women talk or write about them…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/02/22 05:15 PM
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I suggest reading the sidebar if you are going to contribute. The point generally is that she is now complaining that her strategy of only going for that type of guy seemingly hasn't been working for her. But despite this she is blaming and shaming men for that At no point did the person you are replying to comment on their preferences at all. This is not about that. And this sub is not the place for whataboutism. If you must say "But but but Men...." then I'd suggest literally any other sub on …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/02/22 05:10 PM
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The comments to that video! Jesus wept. Notice how the sound is conveniently cut out until she screams out. Means we can’t actually hear what he said. I wouldn’t be surprised if that was intentional
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/02/22 03:06 PM
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She likely means a boyfriend that she can go to the gym with. And likely originally met there. But there is some plausible deniability in there
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/02/22 03:00 PM
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I went for a bit and it was kind of like going to the bar. Not really from a meeting women perspective But I usually bumped into a group of guys who were there to both train and socialise with each other. Had they been the same age 10 years before it would have just been the pub So I can readily see how it would extend into being like a club for chatting to members of the opposite sex. Both Me2 and covid has crushed that
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/02/22 02:59 PM
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Is surely only an issue if you live in a place where everyone uses social media and the social circle is really small. And you use it as well I’m just picturing what would happen if I was “caught” on such a video. I doubt I’d even find out Maybe it is different for people 18-21 or the like
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/02/22 02:56 PM
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Which is telling in and of itself. A guy dropping 270 a month on a gym should be automatically in the category of “good for a relationship”. Just by default due to income. Because unlike this woman who is fishing and likely spending a far higher percentage of her income on this gym most guys won’t be doing that But this isn’t a surprise. Women on seeking arrangement have profiles saying things like “want chemistry” - they clearly want the tingles…from a sugar daddy. They literally want the alpha…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/02/22 02:55 PM
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Slight overreaction unless commercial gyms have really changed in the last three years or so
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/02/22 02:39 PM
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Notice the woman this post is about didn’t do that though. She’s not taking a class. No one is approaching someone mid-treadmill
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/02/22 02:35 PM
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Of course it would
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/02/22 02:34 PM
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To stretch your last part further you could even say it is like you having 500k and not be able to get sex. Because you would look at all the options you would have and be paralysed by the choice But the analogy works as originally stated as well
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/02/22 01:02 PM
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The early suffragettes were the same women as those who went around putting white feathers on men’s jackets if they weren’t soldiers Shaming them to go and die in the trenches or kill themselves / wish social exclusion. They did this even when the man wasn’t old enough. Whilst obviously not going to die themselves There are some amusing stories about where they made a mistake with who they pinned the white feather on though …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/02/22 12:59 PM
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She thought she would be the perfect man but other men assumed she was gay. And most of the women probably did as well
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/02/22 12:43 PM
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And it was before the apps were a thing. It would be even worse if tried now
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/02/22 12:41 PM
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Wait - is this you saying you don’t think November will be a bloodbath for the democrats with republicans making massive gains ?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/02/22 12:31 PM
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I just read a bbc story about dating app safety. A girl was attacked by someone she messaged on tinder and is absolving herself of all responsibility She actually said “If we had just met in person I wouldn’t have been so trusting but for some reason I was on tinder”. Wtf ! Likely because he was far hotter than any guy who would speak to her in person She even excused her not reporting the incident in a timely manner by blaming tinder again - “because tinder didn’t take me seriously I thought it…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/02/22 12:29 PM
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Pleasure gap is a crock of shit. If you pick a guy who doesn’t get a lot of sex he will do whatever he can / thinks it takes to please said woman It isn’t hard to figure out how I know this If you pick the guys who could pick up their phone and replace you within minutes then of course he wouldn’t put in effort It really isn’t hard to figure out
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/02/22 12:26 PM
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I vaguely remember something like that I’m just thinking about that post the other day about the woman talking about her rotation and then buying herself flowers on Valentines to try and keep them all on their toes. She was trying to make excuses as to why none of the guys go her flowers but it appeared to be lost on her that she was just a side piece/FWB for every single one of these guys
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/02/22 10:19 AM
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Oh absolutely. I would expect in that case it actually meant “act how I want you to act”. I’d be pretty confident actually given what she was like
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/02/22 09:54 AM
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I suggest you read the other replies and stop being so dense But in short - yes she probably does. I assume you didn’t expect that answer ?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/02/22 08:51 AM
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I know someone who because single mother after two abortions with the same guy - a guy who was having an affair and who would never leave his family to be with her She finally had the child the third time because she worried another abortion would permanently damage her chance of having kids I’m not saying she doesn’t love and care for her kid now. But that initial decision was purely about her
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/02/22 08:47 AM
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Is that gross household income before tax? Because 15% of that after taxes and the like are removed suddenly becomes a hefty amount for many families Never mind that interest rates have been so poor for almost a decade that 6% is by no means a given (I’m talking the U.K. here)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/02/22 08:45 AM
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that might be because america gets fancy and calls it a “high school diploma” or “graduate diploma” if I am right ? In the U.K. you just have A Levels. Impossible to misconstrue
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/02/22 08:42 AM
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As mentioned in a comment above - it hasn’t exactly worked out though has it ?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/02/22 08:37 AM
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She only wants the Master Ball anyway !
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/02/22 08:37 AM
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What is with all the Peter Pan’s out there! I was called a Peter Pan by my first every girlfriend despite how she knew I was doing a graduate program post uni that involved work and study. They throw that around very very casually
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/02/22 08:36 AM
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I think some women understand this. I think this is the term “ethical slut” Although I have also seen that used with respect to poly stuff where they just mean they are open an honest But I am sure there is some kind of “(adjective) slut” term that means - I will be really slutty but just with the one person I am in a relationship with Granted it was told to me by a girl who admitted she was “best friends” with a guy she “dated casually” during university (her prime years) and who called all her…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/02/22 08:26 AM
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Doesn’t it instead give them exactly the answer they want ?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/02/22 08:20 AM
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It’s easier the introspection
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/02/22 08:19 AM
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Yes this is the better analogy. And the money would all be inherited and the guy involved would have never bothered learning the skills required to make it back
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/02/22 08:18 AM
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It’s not as relatable an example as very very few people has hundreds of thousands in an investment portfolio when they his their 40s. A tiny tiny percentage (and I’m not interested if you do or not) In the U.K. something like 30% (and I think this is households) don’t even have 1k savings Which I guess is similar to how so many women have really high body counts. But the “value” we are discussing here is inherent and unearned and squandered - not something that has to be ground for It is why De…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/02/22 08:17 AM
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Are there ? Where have you seen men say this ?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/02/22 08:11 AM
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Similar to the posts you see sometime where the woman thinks she can get decent guys to compete for her. They just won’t be interested. And the sort of guys she would want in the competition do not need to compete for who they want It is why things like the bachelorette and Bridget jones’ diary are absurd In the bachelorette every guy can be on “The Bachelor” in his own right. By default that means he will have women actively fighting for him. But it is a very important part of the female power …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/02/22 08:09 AM
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I have probably seen it but I don’t remember it . What was it called ?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/02/22 08:04 AM
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They definitely don’t understand men and can’t comprehend their experience Read any article from a woman bemoaning “hookup culture” and this is clear
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/02/22 07:57 AM
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Same. Every relationship I have had where I have met the parents they really liked me And the relationship didn’t last long after that became clear Even for seemingly normal “nice” girls with intact families etc
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/02/22 07:54 AM
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Someone who she finds hot enough so that if he just matches and says “wyd? Want to come over / can I come over” she will immediately remove her underwear and go where requested. Then he will ghost her and she will rage about it because she clearly said “no games” in her profile. Which he never read. Because he didn’t need to. He didn’t need to try and pick things from her profile to make a conversation flow (that he would have to initiate and drive). He didn’t need to pretend to be interested in…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/02/22 07:40 AM
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Her looks are not “hot” though. Her face looks haunted. That isn’t a criticism. She has been through a lot and has to deal with a lot. I repeat - she is thin. And knows the right angles to pose at to appear thinner Trust me I saw some girls doing these poses at a Apple shop due to the white background. Walk past them later in a different part of the shopping centre and almost couldn’t recognise them (apart from the really distinctive hair) Some people don’t carry weight like others
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/02/22 07:09 AM
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I assume you mean "she is thinner than what you would expect". Sad reflection of how many overweight and obese women their are out there that you would actually make the above statement If the majority of women were her shape (like they would have been 40-50 years ago, perhaps even more recently than that) then I honestly don't think you would have said that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/22 10:17 PM
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you’re going to take pictures like that why can’t you at least clean your room? Or make your bed? Astonishing isn't it? I'm not always the tidiest and hold my hands up to that. But I have the sense not to take pictures to show that
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/22 10:15 PM
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I'm pretty much the guy in the last paragraph (my equivalent salary would likely be more than that in almost any part of the US despite the variation across states but not as high as 100k) and childless thing is likely going to be true. I don't see how I am going to meet someone AND have time to vet them for at least 2 years. Could happen I guess. But it's a case of being realistic and pragmatic about it (and looking for the upsides)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/22 10:13 PM
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No that sub is worse than general reddit
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/22 05:30 PM
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It's just a short hand. And I don't think it is what you assume it is. I have never read "Chad" as a "Top 10% guys". Or at least not overall top 10%. A very good looking guy - yes. But to my read "Chad" is not the six/seven figure businessman who is also super hot. That is where the (again short hand) for "Alpha Bucks" comes in
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/22 05:26 PM
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They really don't understand that men don't want to have to compete for someone do they? They really do just project everything they want
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/22 05:24 PM
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Well in this case it was my understanding that she thought the guy was separated and contemplating divorce. I call it "affair" because he still lived at home and apparently only saw her during the week. And there was no official divorce. Not potentially he was thinking about it until he found out how much it would cost him But by "trying" I just mean that she thought her magic pussy would be enough to make the guy give up likely seven (maybe even eight) figures and get reduced access to his kids…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/22 05:20 PM
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This came out recently. Former super model in her 50s (and looks great…for a woman in her 50s) talking about now being invisible to men. She told a story about being out and talking to a man who will literally walk away from a conversation (excusing himself) when a younger woman walks by. And told it in a way to suggest it happened more than once
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/22 02:04 PM
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That would require taking some accountability…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/22 02:02 PM
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I think many women legitimately think it is just as easy for a guy of similar attractiveness to them to get a casual hookup It blows their mind when they realise this isn’t true
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/22 02:00 PM
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Might be the sub it was posted on? No idea
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/22 01:58 PM
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They seems to insist on upping the difficulty though and then complaining about it And by this I mean the women who subscribe the apex fallacy and complain that they can’t have the high flying corporate career (likely at all) AND the top guy to settle down with If they managed their expectations they would have such an easy life You can’t complain about a game being too hard if you choose to increase the difficulty. Embrace the challenge or stfu
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/22 01:57 PM
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I have a friend from uni who was gorgeous back then. She got a job in a big city in some kind of marketing field that meant going out to events during the week where there was alcohol. As well as going out normally She took up smoking because of the stress of that lifestyle / how badly her attempt to get her boss to go from having an affair with her to ditching his family for her was going It had a pretty big impact. She’s still snared a provider (far different in looks from her historic type an…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/22 01:44 PM
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Where did it say she was 48? Did i miss it? I assumed she was over 40 because it reads that way This reminds me a little of a part in Stranger Things where the suburban housewife is seconds away from having an affair with the hot young bad boy and then catches her boring, older, but very good provider husband dozing in the chair with their youngest child and realises “this is stupid”. But this was set in the mid 80s in small town Indiana where the consequences of her infidelity likely would have…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/22 01:39 PM
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Or rather the “lack thereof”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/22 01:31 PM
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No I think it is just an alliteration. But in this case it is hilariously apt
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/22 09:21 AM
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I think some do. Many. They just don’t talk about it out loud as they know hardly anyone cares. Loneliness is a big problem worldwide and will only increase
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/22 09:20 AM
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0.8 surely ?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/22 09:17 AM
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Haha - I am working down the comments and replied to one above saying “over 200” with saying that is should be 140
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/22 08:57 AM
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Indeed - imagine finding out that you are friends with a girl who, everything else being the same, would have dated you if you were taller? You’d be well within your rights to walk away from that friendship Would be fun to post that scenario on Reddit and see how much abuse you got from it as a man. Then find the same sub a week later and post as a woman and say that you found out one of your male friends would have dated you but for your weight. I would expect the replies or at least positive /…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/22 08:56 AM
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Which is why we focus on what she can change. Focusing on things she can’t is just a cruel and she is being about the height. But the weight can be changed. And would actually slightly help her face anyway If we slam her for something she can’t change then it comes across a both petty and hypocritical
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/22 08:52 AM
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Yes they are gentle and peaceful souls. Indeed if a fat woman had the attitude of a manatee she’d likely get someone. And they used to have to. Apparently not now It’s a little like the comedy bit from I think Jimmy Carr where he talks about fat people at one point being seen as “Jolly”. Pretty sure he notes that this is rarely the case in real life / anymore. Gervais might have a similar bit
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/22 08:50 AM
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Many know this as well. The amount of huffy profiles you see saying “I’m not some size 8 model”. (US size 4) The size can sometimes vary but 8 seems to be the target. Sometimes they just say “skinny” or the like Thing is the only models that are U.K. 8 / US 4 are likely “glamour” ones - as in the magazine ones with oversized / often fake breasts. Which most women don’t have Actual models are even smaller than the size many of these fat women gripe about not being …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/22 08:47 AM
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Definitely 200. I’d suggest even 140. Will always remember a quip I think from a YouTube creator that said “I like the British - they have this handy measurement called Stones. And a woman should never weight double digits in stones” 10 stone = 140 lbs. I’d suggest this rule could be applied to more than 90% women under 40 and in the 50s, 60s and maybe even 70s probably did. Before highly processed food / corn syrup took over
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/22 08:44 AM
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And also why many will stick around with them regardless of what they do to them / how they treat them
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/22 08:40 AM
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I have read you post this story many times and it has only just hit me that the fact this happened on reflex points to one thing - she has reacted like that before. Which is crazy to me That sort of behaviour gets a man punched in the face
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/22 08:38 AM
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I am 5’6” and can believe the 160k thing - not that I am really likely to make that to find out! It definitely seemed like a relationship I was in started to deteriorate (further?) when my ex found out how her fatter, less attractive friend was engaged to a man who earned more than me. Add in that he was likely tall just based on stats and she ran the comparison …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/22 08:35 AM
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Point C is the key one. They may be rubbish at height but they know that 5’6” is short Incredibly I saw a woman call herself below average because she was 5’4” the other day. The only way that is below average for a woman is if she is comparing herself the the male average height On point A - this is definitely true. You even see it in some adult movies as well. Women who take dongs for a living still don’t get the hand thing right
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/22 08:33 AM
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Loads of Filipinas appear of OKC with their location changed. Going by them this one is literally bottom of the barrel You say 4-5. I’d honestly say lower. Maybe a 4 when compared to some of the women that you get in the US. But she has the toxic attitude and entitlement of a woman from the west Part of the appeal of women from east Asia is that they at least do a much better job of hiding such attitudes
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/22 08:29 AM
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I said “someone”. Not necessarily her. She claims she has only slept with 4 people. Might have lied but it is an anonymous Reddit post So chances are someone around her age at that time was getting those drugs. Whether it was her or the guy it still seems like a lot of money at that age I expect she is over exaggerating how frequent it was
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/02/22 02:33 PM
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How did someone aged 15-17 afford to buy enough drugs to use every day for a year ? This girl is just a drug addict . Hopefully the comments say as much
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/02/22 01:56 PM
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I should have said “should be” the only way
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/02/22 12:50 PM
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I was wondering if this is because she was trying to stick her ass out and hasn’t worked out the angles you are supposed to use to get that to work . But it would probably apply anyway - tits ruined by breastfeeding, post pregnancy weight gain and a flabby but unshapely ass
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/02/22 11:39 AM
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Exactly - tits flattened by breastfeeding, belly expanded by pregnancy weight that has not been fully lost and an unshapely ass due to not having time to exercise Form a queue gents 🤦‍♂️
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/02/22 11:37 AM
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Breakfast is weird choice for someone basically saying no sex. The only way you would ever be taking a woman out for breakfast is if you wake up in the same bed having had sex the night before. Surely ?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/02/22 11:35 AM
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At least she is open about just being in it for attention. Which in practice 90% of the users of that app are anyway
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/02/22 11:34 AM
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It’s amazing that they were somehow able to change the definition It would be like if men were allowed to change “tall” to mean “taller than the average US woman” (so anything over 5’4”) or “rich” to mean “richer than someone on the average Income for that country”. I guess the difference is those descriptors are universal and curvy is unique to women. Incidentally I saw a woman who was 5’4” claim on her profile that she was “below average” and make a quip about being below average at everything…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/02/22 07:04 AM
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It explains why so many talking phases fizzle on my end - because she senses a sniff of potential commitment from the guy she is actually banging. Or gets told as much in some cases Would potentially explain, for example, how a mutual match from a speed dating event who seemed really cool agreed to a date and within something like a week and a half cancelled because she was “seeing someone”. No one moves that fast
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/02/22 03:18 PM
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This makes sense
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/22 03:58 PM
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With the women I am talking about I have no idea what the extend of their “wife duties” in those 6 years were If you just mean laying down with them then sure - that obviously happened. But not sure how much else under the traditional column of “wife duties” was performed The other obvious point is that they potentially weren’t “marriage minded” (or at least not enough) in those early years and kind of took it for granted. Until it was gone. I mean I’d like to think the only thing that would pus…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/22 03:09 PM
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Ah you see I took it literally to mean the phase when you are JUST talking - as in the point from matching on an app or exchanging a number up until you start going on dates (or maybe become official - one of those) Because that would make sense It would appear that in womanese the talking phase means that the “talking” is “talking about maybe having a relationship”. And also an euphemism to trick people who assume it means what I thought So that makes even more sense
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/22 03:06 PM
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It’s extra bad if they are out of a 5/6 year relationship as they are extra panicked Not only do they feel like they did “everything right” but also they are terrified because if they can get through that length of time before realising that the guy wouldn’t be “the one” (in my cases both apparently had exes who cheated after 5/6 years) then what can they do? They no longer have time to vet for that length of time or longer What seems to transpire is they run the numbers. So they give a relation…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/22 01:24 PM
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If you did that with the relatively well known woman on Steve Harvey (where there are pillars/tablets of demands) you’d be on the floor https://youtu.be/DBIhnT0aMAc
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/22 10:42 AM
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I don’t currently have the mental capacity to read this but I expect there are several contradictions here …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/22 10:19 AM
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The riddle is bothering me. Given it is Spanish is it supposed to be “two women”. Because otherwise the answer is just her father isn’t it ?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/22 10:19 AM
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Unlevered ?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/22 10:14 AM
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Isn’t there a thing called drop shipping still kind of going on? I used to get loads of YouTube adds for it. Where it seemed like people where just redirecting and reselling stuff via Amazon. Sounded like a scam and too good to be true Someone was doing it back when i was at uni 15 years ago. But he was one of those charming types who could probably be used as a “face” for a scam. An example success story Unless I have misinterpreted what that is. But the videos were these guys promising amazing…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/22 07:23 AM
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Always play the fun game of “imagine the reaction/response if you switched the genders” I thought so
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/22 07:15 AM
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I think I have misunderstood “talking phase” then !
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/22 07:12 AM
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Isn’t talking phase specifically - she is talking to one guy and not physical whilst being banged out by other guys And then the guy she is talking to gets told he is not good enough
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/22 07:10 AM
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I have had two ex girlfriends who were 29 and it made them crazy. They basically got driven mad by the knowledge that they wouldn’t be married with kids by 30 and torpedoed the burgeoning relationship In one it was particularly stark because I met her at 28 and after her 29th birthday it was almost like she became a different person
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/22 07:05 AM
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I am trying to get my head around this. Always assumed it was based on how “westernised” a place was with the Anglosphere being right up there That said I expect the Scandi countries are pretty terrible when it comes to entitled feminists Spain surprises me due to legacy of Catholicism but I do remember that basically none of the generation that is now early 30s are into that (from school exchanges). And Israel I would have assumed would not be so bad due to a religious link throughout. I spoke …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/02/22 07:57 PM
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Yeah I used the numbers because it was a quicker way of conveying the point I was trying to make - her RMV has a hard ceiling on it for almost all men and especially for any man that would be considered a catch And much lower than her SMV naturally
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/02/22 01:59 PM
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I really wouldn’t have expected them to be any more feminist than in say, the U.K. And maybe they are not. And perhaps I am just mentally filtering out the “had my fun” crowd
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/02/22 01:37 PM
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And there-in lies the obvious mistake she is making (along with many others) She is likely more prone to it that most as she is attractive and without kids would potentially be highly desirable - at least until that personality it revealed But the massive drop in RMV for having kids is near universal. I’d suggest for many top men it makes your ceiling be 7/10 no matter how hot you are (I’m sure others with chip in and say lower) i picked 7/10 because she likely wants a 9 or 10/10 guy and most at…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/02/22 08:44 AM
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Another one of these women admitting to being promiscuous and giving it away for a free/a low price but now raising the price on the inferior goods dramatically. Wasn’t there another recent one from the OP - so another Spaniard. Perhaps they are just even more brazen than most? I don’t actually see the “I’ve had my fun” that often among English women
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/02/22 08:39 AM
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Explains the tattoos so many have as well. And how many behave when out drinking (especially in the U.K.) - “like a group of lads”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/02/22 11:17 AM
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Why do they think men want to know this and that telling them is effective? She is admitting that she once set the price at “zero” but now expects more. If someone tried that in any normal walk of life - offering something at a massive discount and then raising the price when it was used up they would be laughed at Houses are about the only thing where that can happen due to the surrounding market. And even then a damaged one in a surging price areas will still be less valuable than the well loo…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/02/22 10:30 AM
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She certainly has some equine features about her
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/02/22 10:28 AM
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Kind of how it always seems to go with over reliance on pain medication Oh and I am pretty sure he doesn’t know. Guy likely supporter her with cancer and helped raise the kids. Maybe not even his as it seems to be the last 16 years but the kids are grown up. Again - the math doesn’t work
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/02/22 09:45 AM
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I expect she was supported through that recovery by the guy she is actively looking to monkey branch from
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/02/22 09:43 AM
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What on Earth did I just read. If this woman can someone set up a page that allows cash for talking/pictures then something is very very wrong I noticed her brags about getting messages all day do not mention she gets them from this sugar site she is on unless I misread. She has filtered out all the men already as I would expect pretty much every man on a site for wealthy men will have their low age search start in the 20s Also - notice how she “feels” like she is able to go and look elsewhere. …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/02/22 08:49 AM
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Point 2 would explain why she would specifically call out that she wants a different “culture”. As she would be an exception And I doubt a white person (even a white woman) is likely to be able to get away with effectively directly saying “no blacks” in 2022 (but perhaps this profile was soon reported and taken down) Most recent numbers I could find for the US suggested if there is a single mother then there are 42% likely to be white and 28% black. A lot closer than the 70% you mentioned for he…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/22 06:34 PM
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What would make you so confident ?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/22 06:14 PM
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Only if you assume she is white. I just assumed she was black because of the “Queen” mention That is less common among white girls. They either don’t say stuff like that or potentially still use “princess” Could be I guess. The OP might know unless they just got this text from elsewhere rather than their own swiping
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/22 06:13 PM
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“I like different culture men” + “my type is not black” Strongly implies that her culture is “black” / African American That’s how I read it. There is a double negative there which makes it tricky to immediately spot
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/22 05:31 PM
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Would likely match her weight …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/22 05:28 PM
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She just doesn’t realise the correct spelling is “specific” Some people actually say that in speech “pacifically”. I think it made it’s way into a grammar nazi comedy sketch https://youtu.be/j4hvh5e8-nw
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/22 05:28 PM
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I mean - the sentence doesn’t really make sense since it is contradictory. But I get what you mean
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/22 05:23 PM
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Or she is a fuckwit who can’t write in proper English / spell and yet still feels entitled to make demands I know what my money is on Perhaps all women should have a mandatory proof reading of bios? Partly for the spelling and grammar but also so Clippy can appear and say “It looks like you are writing a dating profile. Have you considered mentioning positive things about yourself to try and sell yourself to others…”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/22 04:44 PM
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Which makes the last sentence ridiculous as she immediately contradicts herself
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/22 04:11 PM
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I guess she means it in the sense of fighting her way through the difficulties of life as a single mom no doubt with a “deadbeat” as her baby daddy Not an actual fighter - since she is likely fat if you read between the lines
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/22 04:11 PM
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I’m not going to say pacific (sic?)” - goes on to say specifically what she doesn’t want. Right “Real woman” is usually code for “fat” from what I have seen who offers nothing (or at least doesn’t mentioned what she offers, only what she is definitely not offering). Fighter presumably also being argumentative and uncooperative Strongly suggests she won’t be sleeping with you until marriage. She’s obviously messed up the order on that at least once So without wishing to race bait it seems like we…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/22 04:09 PM
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It is only through things like this sub that I actually learnt that their were apparently fake male profiles to trap thirsty women I kind of assumed that since they likely get exponentially more legit matches that getting caught out by the fake one would he obvious - the one guy obviously hotter than all your other matches Such a difference isn’t always obvious for men who don’t get many in the first place When I used tinder in my mid 20s that was what it was like - majority of matches I actuall…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/02/22 10:22 PM
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I tend to find that people who are shallow as a puddle aren’t really relationship material Her being 34 and single suggests most guys think the same
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/02/22 12:13 PM
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What is a nanny bartender ? How does that differ from a regular bartender ?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/02/22 12:11 PM
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And few women actually accept that they need to do something to balance the scales. They honestly believe they don’t need to Which shows how little they understand men Not that many men could freely tell a single mother that without being shamed to oblivion of course …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/02/22 09:30 AM
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And yet most of these women love Disney And what are the step parents like in that …?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/02/22 09:25 AM
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I laughed at how she thinks she has somehow “won” by the men “proving (her) point”. That is surely the only reason for that tweet Like she gets some kind of moral high from it ? Weird
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/02/22 09:23 AM
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Haha - that would be an amusing response if anyone ever enough that up Unlikely to as most single moms know better than to talk like this (in my experience). The few that I match with on rare occasions often don’t talk too much about their status in that regard. Several try to hide it - luckily I have never had the “reveal” on a date. Again - most seem to know better but that might change as I move into mid 30s There was one girl I ghosted because all she ever talked about when i tried to create…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/02/22 09:21 AM
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As someone who had a perfectly fine relationship slowly poisoned by the girl’s sister (who was her housemate) I agree family isn’t an exception She was so jealous about her stagnating relationship that when she saw a new one that was going well she just did a constant drip drip of poison into my exes ear. Presumably on a daily basis
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/02/22 09:17 AM
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And trying to pass the requirements of one woman is hard enough. Let alone a group of them. That is almost impossible They need to leave their sisters out as well
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/02/22 09:14 AM
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But surely not with that wording? I understand the idea of rejection as a shit test. But to reject and say it is “desperate” really doesn’t give manoeuvre room as trying again is just compounding that I guess it could just be a very very smelly shit test (not sure how shit tests are measured so I went with that )
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/02/22 09:13 AM
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If you have seen and read enough things in spaces like this then you will see the “why did you give up?” is not as surprising as you would think Women think men actually like it when they play hard to get. Really they want a man who is hard to get / they have to “earn”. And as always projecting what they like and assuming men are the same Same as why they go on about their careers and the like
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/02/22 09:11 AM
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Wish I could upvote twice !
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/02/22 09:09 AM
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A guy friend recently expressed the same view on single mothers - that he wasn’t opposed to dating them but if they really expected him to step up and ultimately take on their kids they would need to offer more in other areas that a childless woman may not. And pretty much none do. Worse than that - they really believe they don’t have to as they don’t see their kids as a liability (in dating and forming a relationship)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/02/22 09:01 AM
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Oh I agree it is far more likely to be the latter scenario. She also went to the event with her friend seemingly as moral support as well. But did also seem genuinely interest in taking part as well Although now that I really think back i think there was a bit of a weird issue trying to message her after finding out we were a match. Perhaps something about a number that didn't work. But I might be misremembering. I definitely got messaging her eventually as mentioned. And it didn't seem like a f…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/22 09:18 PM
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Do skanks bring up exes for different reasons to non-skanks then? I mean usually it is to try and provoke jealousy I guess. In which case fair enough. Wish I had followed that thought process with my first gf (who wasn’t a skank)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/22 03:34 PM
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And not useful really
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/22 03:26 PM
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That seems excessive. Past a certain point you’d expect people to have exes. Context would be important
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/22 03:23 PM
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So what you are saying is the audience moved from fantasising over which of the two Chad’s to pick from (tall Bad boy Chad or even taller, smart Chad with alpha bucks potential) to dominating the biggest Chad one the planet in a relationship and cucking him at the same time ? Makes sense I guess
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/22 02:32 PM
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By “says this” do you mean the love you but not in love ones? Because I assumed that was usually a phrase used as part of the break up talk. Obviously not in your cruise example
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/22 12:51 PM
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I thought so. So the potentially the equivalent would be a guy telling a girl about the porn he watches and what type of girls are in it For all the difference it makes It kind of makes me feel odd because there are some shows that I actually quite like (or used to) that are known for their legions of female fans due to the male leads - supernatural, outlander. What can i say - historical fiction , occult and supernatural stuff etc. I think I once even had a girl at uni say to me “you do know Su…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/22 11:26 AM
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I went to a speed dating event a few years ago Didn’t get many mutual matches and one I did get (who was super cool and I really liked) agreed to go on a date then strung me a long for a week before revealing that they were actually seeing someone. She either moved really fast or was seeing someone when attending the event but it wasn’t serious enough yet to not “date other people” Despite this I got a bit of a boost by finding out how little most women do. Granted I didn’t have a great deal on …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/22 11:21 AM
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Thought so Thinking on a recent potential example - what if a woman said she watched (and is rewatching) a tv show with hundreds of episodes not for the story - and then sent a picture of the male leads (obvious chads) I can’t think of many men that would watch long running tv shows just for the women cast in them. There is porn but that is a different thing in my view But perhaps the closest equivalent in terms of just casually revealing in a chat - oh I spend loads of time watching slim young …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/22 11:14 AM
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For sure. At some point I am tempted to look into what people theorise women mean when they say that Because in my view two different meanings of love are used in that statement and neither are: the meaning of love how men understand love Which is why it is so particularly devastating and baffling in equal measure First seems to be “respect you just about enough to not completely disappear” - but usually with the added qualifier of “and circumstances are such that I can’t just ghost” The second …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/22 10:34 AM
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You mention “getting involved with these women”. But I can’t imagine many choose to get involved with chaddicts / alpha widows. (Interesting question - is there a difference between the two or is “chaddict” just a fun piece of word play to describe the same thing ?) I wonder what the signs are? Because they could hide such a thing well. For example this woman cut the guy out of her life and presumably never mentions him and might even pretend that her first love was someone different And in term…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/22 10:29 AM
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This is low key the most telling point I just finished listening to the latest HuMan video he talked about how women really hate other women and therefore themselves. And his view of their love for a man is more that they need to see a man’s love “for them” - in order to be validated and not hate herself This case appears to align with that theory with the all important caveat - it must be a certain type of man to give her that love to provide the necessary validation As with all things there ar…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/22 10:23 AM
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All well and good but I expect the husband here has no idea he is with a chaddict
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/22 10:09 AM
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I’d suggest there is some projection in the latter group who are doing exactly that and want a pass for it
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/02/22 01:45 PM
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Reinforces my point as all they would be swiping for with this type of woman is a hookup and not even get that Whereas she admits she has no problems I once had a girl on tinder admit to me that she had done hookups but wasn’t even actually trying. That is the other big difference. That was before she blocked me because i called her out on her bullshit and told her not to take her bad day out on me
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/02/22 01:43 PM
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Think about how many men simple don’t have access to hookup culture. Notably every guy on the level of this woman. And look at her I doubt her admission of that will be well received by those men
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/02/22 12:52 PM
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So it’s just a further case of women assuming men value what they value then
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/02/22 04:23 PM
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I expect the “I won’t send nudes” is almost certainly an attempted signal of value. We have seen it before. She needs men to believe that others find her appealing enough for that And I think for the dick pic one you are perhaps right that media has conditioned them to believe that is what men do on dating apps. Even ones where it isn’t possible
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/02/22 03:54 PM
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Can someone help me out here - you can’t send dick pics on tinder. It literally isn’t a function. Weirdly you could on bumble but I expect that app would ban you even if it was at the woman’s request So why do so many women write about it? Did you used to be able to originally? Or is the argument that some men shoot across a pic of their dick the second they get the phone number / whatsapp details? It still makes putting it in the profile pointless as you have to go through many hoops before get…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/02/22 03:08 PM
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I think you mean “any vision over and above being registered blind”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/02/22 03:03 PM
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Relationship market value and sexual market value. For a woman the sexual market value is nearly always higher (often much higher). Very few realise and understand this They don’t understand that the level of guy they can get to match on tinder and come and hook up with them is not, in any way, the same as the level of guy who will commit to a relationship with them
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/02/22 08:18 AM
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Well that is a little more brazen. There are a couple of profiles that keep reappearing on my feed of non binary types and they don’t present or dress feminine at all And they keep reappearing in the list for guys who want women meaning they are deleting their profiles and re-adding them - presumably due to insufficient matches of the quality they want. Which should be obvious really but whatever
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/02/22 08:16 AM
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I mean that is how supernatural ran for as many seasons as it did despite manifestly running out of material. They even added a third male lead later on 🤦‍♂️ I liked the early series for the, you know, supernatural themed stuff
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/02/22 10:52 PM
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But why is it seemingly preferred to straight stuff ?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/02/22 07:39 PM
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It always catches me wrong when they describe their kids as beautiful or gorgeous. Why would that be important to a guy you are trying to match with? And more specifically if it is then that is not someone you want to be matching with! Is the theory that having a cute kid is an achievement? To try and put a positive spin on their fuckup? Or maybe (flimsy) evidence that they could give a future guy a cute kid? Both? It’s super weird I expect that is only a question a single mother could really an…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/02/22 04:46 PM
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Not sure she necessarily intends it to be a positive. More just a factual statement
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/02/22 04:43 PM
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In theory. But I expect not in practice I imagine it is mostly a virtue signal and 99% of women who list it have never been with another woman let alone a trans person
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/02/22 04:42 PM
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It surprises me why some women are so desperate for offspring with Chad because they can end up rather masculine looking They clearly hope for the height and good looks. Pretty sure there is evidence to suggest that the mother’s genes are more critical to height Perhaps people should be encouraged to take a look at The Rock’s oldest daughter …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/02/22 04:37 PM
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It’s exactly like the complaints recently about men at college in the US with “golden penis syndrome” 60% women want only the top 10% of the 40% men. So 60% of the female student population want 4%. 15:1. Overly simplistic but even if you say that is too harsh or the bottom 10% don’t try that you still are looking at 6-8 girls chasing each guy This is just the same thing playing out on a national level. With very significant demographic and economic ramifications
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/02/22 01:48 PM
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Because it is communist in name only. It absolutely isn’t a communist society in the sense of the definition of that ideology
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/02/22 01:22 PM
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But you are using collective “Americans” here What if there are many that do but can’t afford it or can’t find women who want kids at a reasonable age. Those people aren’t to blame. The culture and society is
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/02/22 12:47 PM
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Haha. I am just imagining the feverish excitement of “queer theory” academics (hmm maybe that should also be in air quotes as well) at this proposal!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/02/22 12:39 PM
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Your first paragraph is a bit scrambled. Are you saying there was a “boy love” genre in China that was loved by women ? Really? I don’t quite understand I can kind of understand or at least am aware of the reasons women write and read gay (slash) fan fiction and watch gay porn. (Male characters in fiction are often better developed and apparently some gay porn is a lot more romantic than straight porn shot primarily for straight male viewing) I’m not sure how those reasons apply to a more normal…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/02/22 12:37 PM
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Haven’t read the article but does it actually say “older young female “. Haha. Hamster wheeling and mental gymnastics right there
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/02/22 12:27 PM
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To say that no one raised an eyebrow to the HK occupation is ludicrous. There was outrage. But no one can do anything about it Unless you mean no one has commented on anti feminist policies there
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/02/22 12:25 PM
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I have not had anyone who turned me down return. I’d say partly because I haven’t got myself into a position where I have sufficiently “made something of myself” where by I could suddenly be that Beta Provider that would make a woman settle so she could sit at home and not work To and extent that is a good thing Also my reaction to past breakups was so pathetic that it would have likely permanently damaged how said women viewed me (not that I would want them back) Oh and I really didn’t go aroun…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/02/22 07:29 AM
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Someone very recently told me something very similar. But more about how instead of dwelling on weaknesses I should look for the corresponding strength as they believed all weaknesses had a corresponding strength Weirdly that meant when I tried to think of what I thought my weaknesses were I suddenly immediately froze and couldn’t articulate them. Of course they exists but more are likely a more general negative malaise rather than actual weaknesses. It is a useful mindset that I need to try and…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/02/22 07:19 AM
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I appreciate what you are trying to say and you are right in principle but I meant that I literally cannot go back in time and change the past. Not that I couldn’t change my circumstances That isn’t self pity - that is realism. I can’t undo 10+ years of incorrect choices and replace them with 10+ years of better work choices. It just isn’t how time works But agreed that I can change things going forward Oh and I come across as having no belief in myself and tending towards self pity because thos…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/02/22 07:09 AM
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Not heard of that. Don’t follow them that closely. The one you mentioned was super high profile and also mentioned in many mens channels In fact some might have even called that she would bail on her marriage once the OF money really started to roll in
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/01/22 04:36 PM
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I’ll save my comment for if / when this gets resubmitted
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/01/22 03:16 PM
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Check out those massive dark circles under her eyes … yikes
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/01/22 11:56 AM
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It’s the reason rule 3 exists on here. Because there are people out there who legitimately believe that there is “no way a woman can be that bad / do that”. When they clearly can and do
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/01/22 11:40 AM
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There was. She is one of the most famous. Top of the hub for years and still well up there despite not performing for ages. Down to notoriety mainly Lied about how much she made from porn to gain sympathy. Failed at launching a mainstream career. Heavily relies on makeup. Traded on her past notoriety via onlyfans. Still complains about her past even though it is the only way she can make that much. Really class act that one
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/01/22 09:08 AM
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I have seen this phenomenon online with literal pornstars who tweet one moment about men being “intimidated” by their porn careers (and related things - basically “why do all the tall, rich and handsome men only see me as a bit of fun?”) but you scroll back a couple of days and they are asking out loud why men they date would dare expect them to send nudes without paying for them since “that is how I make my living” The cognitive dissonance is real. Some of these women expect to find an alpha bu…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/01/22 07:44 AM
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Of course not (hence my statement about how if she was a legit size 10 as her highest/average size) Same as having visible abs doesn't count if you are scrawny
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/01/22 04:30 PM
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Yeah I realised/remembered the Facebook link as I was typing but kept the rest there anyway
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/01/22 04:29 PM
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I just assumed it was tinder as that is definitely one where you regularly see "can't change my age" Doesn't look like Match of POF. Looks far more like Tinder. In which case she wouldn't be lying about not being able to change her age but it would have been an odd move Unless it is connected to the age you enter into Facebook. Which is how tinder usually sets up accounts. But I thought I removed my DOB from Facebook and my age is correct
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/01/22 04:04 PM
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I was going to say that if she was legit a size 10 with those tits then she has got lucky with the proportions and it would explain the attitude as such a figure would have got her loads of attention in her 20s But then I checked and a US Size 10 is a UK size 14. Which is, um, not slim. And she is almost certainly bigger. Women's clothing sizes are all over the place and in some stores you can be 10 and others 14. I'm willing to be she has picked the lowest and not the average...from at least tw…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/01/22 03:55 PM
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Wouldn't that require a dating app to be 14 years old?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/01/22 03:48 PM
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More likely than her being 31. Surely the only reason for a woman to boost their age by 4 years is to get on the app earlier. But that doesn't line up because the app hasn't been out long enough for that to be necessary. At either age she was over 18 when it was invented
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/01/22 03:45 PM
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