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I meant that she understands that it's more than PIV. I assumed you were on board there. And I'd point out that you're not getting traditional sex...right now. Give it some time and enjoy what you can. Use your judgement and involve a Dr if it's not progressing. And don't forget, if you're reading RPC and MRP you're reading a bunch of stories about dudes that have already screwed this stuff up. You've seen the horror stories. Is it affecting you? Don't let it if it is.
/r/RPChristians08/11/19 07:44 PM
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Lol. I have no idea why my post is half bolded. Sorry!
/r/RPChristians08/11/19 06:34 PM
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No. 1 This is an important question and you should seek more than my anecdotal information. If I could do it all over again, I'd set the tone early on that sex is a whole lot more than PIV. Maybe a post on askrpc is in order. No. 2 This reply is based solely on my own experience. These early days of your marriage is when you are setting the tone for what is "normal". I nearly went down on my wife on our wedding night and didn't. 14 years later, she still hasn't allowed it because it's "gross". I…
/r/RPChristians08/11/19 06:32 PM
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My mistake. I did assume otherwise. I stand by my comment though. Keep it fun. Let her know you're enjoying what the two of you are doing (even though you want more). You'll get there much faster if you don't sabotage yourself. It's really easy to get impatient and set up expectations in your own mind about how things should be going. Try to actually enjoy this time as you're growing together. As opposed to acting like you're enjoying it. If you're getting frustrated and bringing negative vibes …
/r/RPChristians08/11/19 04:28 PM
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Congratulations on the wedding! Try to keep in mind that sex will probably be awkward for both of you for awhile as you're just learning. Learning to surf is also awkward. So is learning to ride a unicycle. Why should either of you be an expert at sex right out of the gates? I'd suggest just keeping it fun and making it clear that you're enjoying yourself and her and that will likely alleviate any discouragement on her end. Maybe this isn't the time and place to be so goal oriented?
/r/RPChristians08/11/19 02:54 PM
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Well, it's settled. You're a force wielder. Behold noobs. This is your new #goal. Drop $$ on smell good and have your wife be happy about it. Chuck's ab game must be legendary. Drop the donuts and get to liftin!
/r/RPChristians07/11/19 05:05 AM
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Hahahaha. Is that your cologne stash in the picture? I do think I'd be fired if I spent that much on myself.
/r/RPChristians07/11/19 04:57 AM
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Lol. No charge!
/r/RPChristians07/11/19 04:55 AM
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Unappreciated, you are not. Re-read your post on cologne, I did. A problem, you might have.
/r/RPChristians07/11/19 04:43 AM
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I hear you. I know now the answer is "No" even though she'd say "I don't know". Are AWALT? I don't care. My wife is like that. Now I understand that she doesn't really know what her needs are or at least can't articulate them in a way that I can act on. All she wants is everything but also don't change anything. Easy. Looking back knowing what I know now, if you'd ask me if I've been meeting her needs over the years I'd say "Not even close."
/r/RPChristians05/11/19 01:37 PM
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In a vacuum, I agree with you. However, most guys that stumble in here have wives that refuse to meet their spouse's needs like it's their job.
/r/RPChristians05/11/19 01:01 PM
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Do you know why you're sleeping so little? Have you done anything to try and sleep better? I'm wondering if the things you are posting about are all affected in some way by being tired all the time? I have the same problem. It can make wanting to do all the things you know you're supposed to do seem pointless.
/r/RPChristians24/10/19 03:30 PM
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I'm learning this. Really really slowly, but I'm learning. You tell your man you hate it when he robs banks. He doesn't actually rob banks. He hits you with STFU. You are now thinking what?
/r/askRPC21/10/19 12:02 AM
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Listened to it on audible about 6 months ago. Probably should at least buy it for Kindle so I can look stuff up more easily. I also read several books in a short time back then and have a hard time remembering which book was which. I'm due to re-read many of them. Kinda had an obsession phase and alot runs together.
/r/askRPC20/10/19 10:58 PM
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Hm. I thought Explaining was explaining myself. As in I did something she didn't like and I explain "I did X because of Y" Or is that Defending?
/r/askRPC20/10/19 09:18 PM
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Continued. Thursday: I forgot I agreed to pick up/stay with my daughter for an event at her school. Wife normally picks her up and stated she was going to stay for the event. She asks if I'm coming. I decided to take advantage of having everyone out of the house to work on some chores. She asks if I want to meet for dinner. I declined since I had food at home that was going to waste. Now she unloads on me about being too busy and forgetting what I agreed to last week, her physical therapy is a b…
/r/RPChristians04/10/19 01:19 PM
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On mobile, so forgive the format. Wins: Went to bible study on Monday. Restarted SL5x5 after my injury. Started with just the bar on all but DL @65. Lifted 3x and upped the weight at each turn. Really missed it. Lol. The popcorn sounds in my hips and lower back on that first squat actually startled me. I guess that's what taking 3 months off will do though. Didn't gain any weight. Found the last bit of Nice Guy. Losses: A week of fighting. Didn't track food and ate out too much. Drank 5x. Bible …
/r/RPChristians04/10/19 12:54 PM
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I'm not OP, but thanks for adding this additional comment. I've long felt like removing time and attention from someone who doesn't particularly value the way you give time and attention is just an efficient way to drift apart and send your wife off to r/adultery or a divorce attorney.
/r/RPChristians01/10/19 03:52 PM
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I originally rejected your last sentence on account of I can't picture my wife and the word "obedience" in the same sentence, but you hit on something. There's a ton on her plate I can't really help with but having to deal with kids at home that don't listen after dealing with kids that don't listen at work all day is a huge stressor for her. I always thought the kids aren't that bad, but then I only deal with them a short time each day. She deals with kids from 530am-8pm 7 days a week. Thanks f…
/r/RPChristians01/10/19 02:14 PM
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I have a very good chance at keeping my salary or improving it. May even be able to improve it and switch to full time work from home. It's not spelled out fully but the idea is that we pay overhead with the smaller of the two salaries.
/r/RPChristians01/10/19 12:46 PM
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In the past, I'd off to the other room and drink and play video games. I've slashed that behavior but haven't eliminated it yet. I never did anything more than that because she's perpetually depressed and Mr. Nice Guy would just be kicking her while she's down if he stood up for himself. What can I do now? Set boundaries. I've set one about 10 days ago that she needs to stop dumping on me. She's adamant that the stuff that's making her so miserable isn't me. Cool. Stop dumping on me, then. I cal…
/r/RPChristians27/09/19 09:24 AM
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I hate the climate and traffic is horrible. It's nowhere special to me. I'd prefer someplace with seasons and stuff to do outside that don't involve sweating to death and a bucket of sunscreen. Yeah. She does. I accept responsibility for getting it started, but she's perfected the perpetual victim attitude that's making life so difficult for everyone. We have legitimately had some tough times over the years and I certainly didn't lead the way through those problems. I'm trying to move on from th…
/r/RPChristians26/09/19 05:40 PM
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Background / Stats: 40, Married 14 years, together 17 years. 2 girls: 11 and 8. One son, 18 months. Discovered RP March of 2019. Not a great week. Thought about not posting, but then that’s not the point of OYS. Bible Study: 4/7 days this week? Physical / Lifting: Started back on SL5x5 Today. Just the bar except DL @65. Diet: 5’10”, 216lb/-1 from last week. (Down from max of 245), 31% BF calculated 9.18.19. Didn’t mealprep this week and ate out a few times this weekend. Tried to be mindful of wh…
/r/RPChristians25/09/19 06:50 PM
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quote-clipping Scripture and calling the time finding those quotes "research." How does a noob tell the difference? Asking for me.
/r/askRPC25/09/19 12:42 PM
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What is NFP? Also, I applaud you for recognizing that the steroids and alcohol played a part in that exchange. I was on a dose of steroids and drank through it at one point in the past and it definitely produced some really weird feelings, lack of sleep, unrest and a fair amount of aggression. He's likely not himself. Might be useful to tack on a "right now" to his statement about being lazy. You mentioned the friend's achievements...in the past. I have achieved many things since I've been with …
/r/RPChristians20/09/19 02:21 PM
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Hahaha. Excellent analogy. I guess I need to just think of her as one of those crazies shouting and circling the White House with a sign demanding something or other/everything. I keep getting sucked into these arguments because she claims she's not being disrespectful but she obviously is. All of this goes down in front of the kids and she just gets louder and nastier if I don't respond. I hate that the kids see this, but I hope they're old enough to understand that she's being unreasonable. Th…
/r/RPChristians19/09/19 03:27 PM
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Thanks for the reply. I'd say your assessment covers the last few years pretty well except boredom induced alcoholism. It's not hard to see why my wife has become so miserable. Re: time, I really do want to OMS but the pile of chores has turned into a mountain. Wife adds to the list instead of taking from the list, so it is difficult. Currently she works, does laundry and makes her own lunch and the baby's lunch. I do everything else. Add in 2.5 hours commuting and there's not much time left to …
/r/RPChristians19/09/19 02:00 PM
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Background / Stats: 40, Married 14 years, together 17 years. 2 girls: 11 and 8. One son, 18 months. Discovered RP March of 2019. Bible Study: 4/7 days this week Physical / Lifting: On hold due to injury til I get household chores under control. When I have the house more in order in a week or two, I will start SL5x5 again back with just the bar and focus on form. I’ll also be doing my stretches and band exercises as given to me by the PT. I’m thinking about adding in some planks and side planks …
/r/RPChristians18/09/19 04:07 PM
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You did see a doctor about the injury before the PT, right? What did the doctor say? Or did he leave things up to the PT? I would definitely sit down with the PT and get a detailed explanation of why things are progressing the way they are, this will give you peace of mind and aid in your recovery. If you start back before your body is healed, you could injure yourself even worse. Best to be careful and patient here, and get all the info before doing something that may leave you in worse shape t…
/r/RPChristians16/09/19 11:52 PM
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She's 41. I'm 40
/r/RPChristians11/09/19 07:16 PM
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Relationship / Sex / Game / Kino: No sex this week due to period. Kino and game has been light to non-existent due to not being around each other much and the below. An eventful week. High "she" count ahead but I need some perspective. I'm not sure what to do here. Things were fun and pleasant this week...except for the parts that weren't. My take is that my wife is in her opinion basically failing at life and day to day life is a constant reminder of this. Probably 90% is due to work issues tha…
/r/RPChristians11/09/19 06:23 PM
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Background / Stats: 40, Married 14 years, together 17 years. 2 girls: 11 and 8. One son, 18 months. Discovered RP March of 2019. Bible Study: 1. Found my Bible yesterday. Dusted it off and started on John. Physical / Lifting: On hold due to injury until probably Nov. Max before injury was DL: 170, SQ: 135, ROW: 95, BP: 80, OHP: 80. I have been going to physical therapy 3x a week to build up muscles in upper back/neck area to stabilize the area and minimize future damage to the disc/nerve. Next a…
/r/RPChristians11/09/19 06:23 PM
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I'm not saying the article is wrong, but it seems like it is absolutely a grenade. I don't think you can tell a modern woman (Christian or not) that she is a sex object and not have her permanently view you as an enemy. You may be able to lead her to understand this but I agree with others that you can't logic her to understand this. Even if she understands it, it's entirely possible that she would never agree to it. The indoctrination is strong.
/r/RPChristians09/09/19 03:47 PM
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I know MRP isn’t for the wife, it’s for the man but I know that my wife would not have liked that guy. She’d probably have sex with him and not leave him, but to me it felt like I’d get to the point that I’d tell her I’m fine with divorcing her (was dangerously close to saying this as it was) and the rest of our time together would essentially be at gunpoint. I do not want that. I want the opposite of that. I want her to desire me and be overjoyed that she gets to be with me. Don't focus on that…
/r/RPChristians05/09/19 12:54 AM
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Could she objectively say the same about you? Sadly, there is no doubt about this. MRP OYS and sidebar beat this into my head effectively and efficiently. Taking two steps back and doing the thought exercise of taking stock of my day to day life if she wasn’t in my life was a real eye opener. It’s irrelevant but I think I do add a lot of value to her life. This imbalance added a lot of fuel to the fire of my anger phase. Put it on the shelf for now and work on you I already put it on the shelf, …
/r/RPChristians04/09/19 09:37 PM
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This screams "I don't have a Mission" to me. Accurate. I realized that I won’t get far without hammering this out at some point. Time to put pen to paper this week. Don't focus on that. Focus on who you are in Christ. Develop your Mission and as you become the man you were designed to be, things will become much clearer. I agree with you. This was more of a realization that I wouldn’t be OK with myself for divorcing my wife just because I can. Took me awhile to get here, but this is where I deci…
/r/RPChristians04/09/19 09:23 PM
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Relationship / Sex / Game / Kino: Wife and I don’t often truly fight, but we’ve been very short tempered with each other at times lately. She can get pretty nasty to be around, but it’s rarely directed at me so it doesn’t qualify as a fitness test as I understand it. It’s more of her playing the victim that A, B, C and H-M are happening to her. Work has been pretty bad for her the last months and it has made this much worse. Reading MRP and thinking about things objectively has gotten me to the …
/r/RPChristians04/09/19 06:27 PM
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Background / Stats: 40, 5’10”, 222lb. (Down from max of 245), 30%? BF. Married 14 years, together 17 years. 2 girls: 11 and 8. One son, 18 months. Discovered RP March of 2019. Posted a few times on MRP (last post: plenty of foul language in my posts) and basically came to a point where I couldn’t take the next steps because I couldn’t get my head around why I would be doing it. Maybe it’s not that difficult, but it kept boiling down for me that if I took all those steps I’d basically just end up…
/r/RPChristians04/09/19 06:26 PM
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I've been struggling with a lot of things lately but the idea that maybe I need to get my family into church keeps coming up in my mind again and again over the last months. Sat down at the computer to log in and look you up to send you a PM. I'm wracking my brain on how to even ask whatever it is that's got me so conflicted. I don't know how to word it or organize my thoughts. I'm looking up your username and what is the first thing I see? This response. So I click on the thread and here it is.…
/r/askRPC28/08/19 06:44 PM
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No way.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/08/19 03:56 PM
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Fucking Red Pill. Fuck me. I can't unsee what I've seen and I can't unlearn what I've learned. I can't continue on my journey to a shitty premature pussy-ass death. OYS#5 Previous OYS First OYS Stats: 40, 5’10”, 223lb (SW 235lb), 29.3% Navy Method Wife: 40, together 17 yrs, married 13: 3 kids. Lifts: Prior to injury: DL: 170, SQ: 135, ROW: 95, BP: 80, OHP: 80 Reading: Completed-NMMNG, MMSLP, Quit Drinking the Easy Way, WISNIFG, MAP, SaLSM, TRM I haven't posted in several weeks. Here's what's hap…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/08/19 09:33 PM
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Chiropractor adjusted my neck when I went in for a shoulder issue
/r/askMRP26/07/19 12:49 PM
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How fast? A week? 3?
/r/askMRP25/07/19 02:38 AM
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Damn. That was close. Thanks for sharing. I think I definitely need to give another week or two and reevaluate.
/r/askMRP25/07/19 01:14 AM
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Thanks. You described exactly what I'm afraid of. I'll have to have a talk with the physical therapist before I make any decision.
/r/askMRP24/07/19 11:47 PM
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I did. And I will talk to other doctors. My doctor is a hammer. I'm a nail to him. I'm looking for all the information I can get my hands on since paralysis is a possibility if this guy fucks up the procedure. I know it's only anecdotal, but I find it very interesting that someone with more severe symptoms has already posted that it resolved itself with therapy.
/r/askMRP24/07/19 09:04 PM
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Damn. Happy it worked out for you, but sorry to hear about the insurance bullshit. I haven't had any pushback yet. PT is putting me in a traction device to release the pressure and I've been laying down and icing frequently. The pain was pretty bad at first. Tylenol keeps it tolerable for now, but the strength loss is concerning. Just really not wanting surgery on my spine if I can help it, so thanks for posting this.
/r/askMRP24/07/19 08:06 PM
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You're right. I've never had surgery like this before. Don't even know what questions to ask at this point. Definitely going to get some additional opinions from doctors.
/r/askMRP24/07/19 05:31 PM
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Yes to ice and anti inflammatory meds. Saw the MRI today. The disc seems to be clearly blocking the opening where the nerve to my arm is supposed to pass through. Reading up on procedure outcomes. Pretty sure I'm going to have nightmares.
/r/askMRP24/07/19 05:28 PM
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OYS# Previous OYS First OYS Stats: 40, 5’10”, 225lb (SW 235lb, -1lb from last OYS), 29.3% Navy Method Wife: 40, together 17 yrs, married 13. 3 kids 10, 8, 1. Reading: Completed-NMMNG, MMSLP, Quit Drinking the Easy Way, WISNIFG, MAP, SaLSM, TRM Active- Extreme Ownership (10%) Primary Goals: Upgrade from Lardass to Fatass by getting to 200lb ASAP. Evaluate how I look and feel, then set the next waypoint from there. 1A. Only drink socially/ 3 drink max: Grade: F. Drank 5 nights this week due to bei…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/19 06:25 PM
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OYS#4 Previous OYS First OYS Stats: 40, 5’10”, 226lb (SW 235lb, -4lb from last OYS), 29.3% Navy Method Wife: 40, together 17 yrs, married 13. 3 kids 10, 7, 1. Reading: Completed-NMMNG, MMSLP, Quit Drinking the Easy Way, WISNIFG, MAP, SaLSM Active- Listening to TRM during commute (95%). Extreme Ownership (10%) Primary Goals: Upgrade from Lardass to Fatass by getting to 200lb ASAP. Evaluate how I look and feel, then set the next waypoint from there. 1A. Only drink socially/ 3 drink max: Grade: C. …
/r/MarriedRedPill01/05/19 12:50 AM
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Thanks. I was hoping for this kind of response. Didn't want to have to tell my daughter that her mother is acting like a bitch and a loser and to not emulate her mother. My kids don't have devices yet, but I appreciate the tech tips. I'll be needing that soon.
/r/askMRP20/04/19 12:04 AM
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Thank you. She spends way more time with Mom than me. I only see her about 2 hrs a day during the week. I think at this point, she is just mimicking mom's response to things she doesn't like because it's the only example she's been exposed to. I've got plenty of negative qualities, but I have not modeled these behaviors.
/r/askMRP20/04/19 12:01 AM
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OYS#3 Previous OYS First OYS Stats: 40, 5’10”, 230lb (SW 235lb), 30%+ BF? Wife: 40, together 17 yrs, married 13. 3 kids 10, 7, 1. Reading: Completed-NMMNG, MMSLP, Quit Drinking the Easy Way, WISNIFG, MAP Active- Listening to TRM during commute (65%). Saving a Low Sex Marriage (65%). Primary Goals: Upgrade from Lardass to Fatass by getting to 200lb ASAP and get a real BF% measurement done. Evaluate how I look and feel, then set the next waypoint from there. 1A. Only drink socially/ 3 drink max. F…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/19 12:53 AM
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"I will have a fulfilling and enjoyable sex life." Period. End of discussion. Fuck. This is a gem. I have nothing to add to this.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/19 03:05 AM
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A) lol. You're a poet. Maybe this could become a side hustle for you? B) Not denying my BP past at all. The miscommunication thing happens daily and over all manner of topics. I knew I needed to make myself clear on that topic. C) I feel confident that I've turned the corner on drinking. Priority #1 is losing weight. Drinking is in direct opposition to goal #1, therefore drinking is the epitome of stupid. Excluding a couple of social drinks celebrating my birthday, I've loser drank once in the l…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/19 01:55 PM
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I bet there was more said in that convo that you're not telling here due to brevity that would make you look like a huge faggot. Amirite? You're right. I'll own that too. It wasn't a long conversation but it wasn't 30 seconds either. I made it clear that I wasn't signing up for no sex because that's not a marriage. I've known for at least 10 years that I MUST manage her expectations because her worldview is certifiably absurd at times. Her childhood memories are of pure bliss and family vacation…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/19 12:25 PM
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OYS#3 Previous OYS First OYS Stats: 40, 5’10”, 231lb (SW 235lb), 30%+ BF? Wife: 40, together 17 yrs, married 13. 3 kids 10, 7, 1. Reading: Completed-NMMNG, MMSLP, Quit Drinking the Easy Way, WISNIFG, MAP Active- Listening to TRM during commute (35%) This one pisses me off and I usually ragequit before I make it all the way to work. I think I've read too much too fast at this point and need to go back and make sure I'm internalizing these concepts. ​ Last week u/HornsofApathy correctly pointed ou…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/19 02:15 AM
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I appreciate the reply and the perspective. I'm still learning to look at things in a new way. I guess I'm just angrier than I thought. Still reading WISNIFG. You're probably right about the validation re: chores, but I'd also be jealous as hell. Why isn't anyone waiting on me hand and foot? Weak and lame? Yup. Would I feel that way? Definitely. Right now at least. I need to make up my mind about the choresex. Even the very concept of it was foreign to me even a month or two ago but now that I s…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/19 07:57 PM
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I've thought about this too. This would be her dream come true. She would get all the leisure time possible and still get all the cherished family time that's so important to her without any chores at all and none of that yucky sex she hates so much. I would literally be her wife at this point. I already do the cooking, meal planning and grocery shopping. Then if I drop the sex, her only responsibility in life is to go to work and then she really would be free to spend every waking moment finger…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/19 06:18 PM
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OYS#2 First OYS Stats: 39, 5’10”, 235lb, 30%+ BF? Wife: 40, together 17 yrs, married 13. 3 kids 10, 7, 1. Lifts: Doing Cardio work because I get winded going up stairs. Using machines at the Y until I can see a Dr. about my shoulder. Posted about it in AskMRP and decided I do not want to risk an injury that sets me back months or needs surgery I can’t afford and don’t have time for. Diet: Found an app called Eat This Much that I think will help me out a great deal in planning, prepping and porti…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/19 02:44 AM
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Lifting: Gym 3x a week minimum. Begin SL 5x5 until plateau, swapping machines for BP and OHP until I get my shoulder cleared. Eating: Get from 235-200 ASAP using keto and 16:8 IF. Evaluate final target after hitting 200. Possibly incorporating PSMF Hygiene: Shave and trim beard every two days. Haircut every week. Make Dr. appt for checkup. Make Dentist appt. Style: Get one. Go through wardrobe and clear out old clothes, organize by size/waist size to see what I have and can wear as I lose weight…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/19 05:51 PM
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I can see that you're special. You've got the pimpest flair I've seen so far. Deleted comment was something like: I also have fucking everything going for me - except the obvious - and I mean everything. Are you not already at the mountaintop? If you need something to grind against, I'll gladly trade places with you. I don't think there's a correct way to feel in this situation. It's clear that 99% of the people in the world would be dead by now if faced with what you've gone through. Think of i…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/19 03:52 PM
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Disclaimer: I'm one of the newest guys here. You've been on a journey. I too have been on an insane and highly improbable journey and come out the other side. I don't know anything about you, other than your flair and a vague idea that you've been through some medical shit. My takeaways from my own situation that might apply to you? Maybe there was never a reason. Sure, maybe there was a cause like genetics or environmental factors, whatever but maybe it happening to you instead of some miserabl…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/19 02:23 AM
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Re: house maintenance and home repairs, I'd read this. Literally told multiple dudes to get the fuck out of my house when they wanted to charge me $5k for a $500 job. Even if you don't post a literal "how to", even a "pls don't bend over and spread em for a contractor unless that's your bag baby" would be beneficial IMO. Nearly pissed away 10's of thousands of dollars over the years before the brain stump kicked in.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/19 04:03 AM
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Ok. For some reason I didn't see the last paragraph the first time I read your response.
/r/askMRP28/02/19 08:08 PM
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I take your points about the lifting and bursitis, but I always viewed the bursitis diagnosis as faulty since the scan showed something jacked up enough for the surgeon to recommend surgery. Some others have suggested that surgery is over prescribed. Are you taking that stance also?
/r/askMRP28/02/19 07:41 PM
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Another good point. After reading the responses, I'm just going to go for it until I encounter a problem. Lots of responses so far and no one has said anything about the joint failing or it being dangerous.
/r/askMRP27/02/19 07:38 PM
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Yeah. Good point. I don't have money to burn for a maybe necessary surgery, but I can swing an ultrasound to at least see if it's dangerous or not. Thanks
/r/askMRP27/02/19 04:17 AM
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Yes. Like a girl because I last visited the gym when Clinton was president, but I can throw.
/r/askMRP27/02/19 02:54 AM
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Don't do that. she doesn't give a shit, and your validation seeking crap is unattractive. the "come to jesus" speech comes after a main event, not before you even start lifting on the regular. This conversation happened before I found MRP. I understand this now. Right now, the only thing you should be focused on is losing 60 pounds (because you're fucking fat Totally correct. I'm much more unhappy about it than she is. I had abs...once. Asking anything of her at this point is putting the faggot …
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/19 05:15 AM
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I hope you actually used the word "shit" when you told her this. I rediscover the power of swearing. Look her in the eye and say the words "fuck", "shit", "pussy" Pretty sure I said Shit. Don't really remember. I've toned it down over the years because of the kids, but I fully plan on reclaiming my limited vocabulary when they're not around. I'm tired of censoring myself for her delicate ears. ​
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/19 04:53 AM
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You sound like a sour dried up cunt that is zero fun to be around. No wonder you have zero friends. Is that really the man you want to be? Do you know that it’s OK to give a fuck and also DNGAF at the same time? No, It's not who I want to be at all. I posted my true feelings. In reality, I'm the jokester/class clown in social settings. I just never let interactions get past the surface level enough to actually make a friend. Wife and I have suffered (not that anyone cares) through a VERY fucking…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/19 04:48 AM
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Why do you assume that this one-time statement implies that sex is always a chore for her, instead of a chore right then? Good point. She says I'm a good husband and father. I doubt she'd still be fucking me after all these years if the well was truly dry. Doesn't mean the well isn't getting low though. Whether or not this is as true as you claim, you need to get over your need for Attraction Validation It's absolutely incredible how much your life can change in a week. Previously, I didn't even…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/19 04:29 AM
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Be in charge of the birth control. Jesus, it's like one of the main Iron rules. ALWAYS BE IN CONTROL OF THE BIRTH CONTROL I watched her take the pill every night for the last 2 months. She just got back on the pill. I read all the literature that came with it, I knew it could throw off her cycle by a few days, but still I allowed her freaking out to affect me. I knew (prayed) everything was fine, but I still allowed myself to panic because of how incredibly fucked I'd be if she actually got preg…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/19 04:22 AM
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Continued: Relationships Wife: Some sexual rejection shit went down last week and then shark week started….late. She’s on BC now and it would absolutely be our luck that she gets knocked up on BC. We’ve both been terrified, so it’s been a week. Rejection drama was the last straw. I decided I wasn’t going to grow old like this. I shouldn’t have to walk on eggshells/feel bad because I want to fuck. I told her that there have been things over the last months/years I’ve been unhappy with in our marr…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/19 02:45 AM
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OYS #1 Per usual, I’m doing everything backwards and out of order. I’ve been miserable with myself and my marriage for years and recently decided that I’d had quite enough of this shit and was going to turn things around. If wife wants to get on board, great. If not, I’m a great guy and eventually I will look the part as well and someone out there will be eager to be with me. Had a recent heart to heart with my wife about my vision for the future where I told her I need to pursue being the best …
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/19 02:34 AM
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