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| 1 | Trying to play it cool and not be desperate for the hot aerial instructor | Jackieoo00 | /r/seduction | 26/06/18 11:48 AM |
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| 1 | Trying to play it cool and not be desperate for the hot aerial instructorYeah i know i need to use physicality and create sexual tension. Im not bad at that when i dont really care whether i get the girl or not, but when i really want her i get nervous and then i screw it up by trying too hard | /r/seduction | 26/06/18 03:30 PM |
| 1 | She said, "We're not going to have sex," Three Times. I Couldn't Believe What Happened NextIm so unnatural at this. Just hearing you say it makes me a little frustrated. I really struggle to understand the difference between what they say and what they really feel in the moment. I guess its bc i get emotionally attached so easily that sleeping around ends up just being painful to me. I want to enjoy a girl for more than just one night and building intimacy requires trust. How the hell am i ever going to be able to trust a girl when she says one thing and means the total opposite? It t… | /r/seduction | 26/06/18 12:36 PM |
| 2 | What do guys look for in girls?Aside from looks, which is entirely a matter of individual taste and can vary quite dramatically from one guy to the next, the next thing is loyalty and the ability to trust her if he wants to pursue a relationship. Does she have enough self awareness to avoid being unknowingly seduced? Is she honest? Does she sleep around so much that it seems like no one man could ever satisfy her? Is she mature enough to be able to count on if i cant be the perfect guy all the time? Is she judgmental? Is she … | /r/seduction | 05/06/18 05:30 PM |
| 1 | I think l’m just mentally fucked.So you have already given up huh? Stop wasting time and jusy go purchase your hooker now. You are selfish dude. You cant connect with a woman if you dont respect her | /r/seduction | 26/03/18 11:33 AM |
| 5 | Telling women they are pretty or not?Women want to feel valued. Being beautiful is definitely a valuable thing so its ok to appreciate that about her. What women are afraid of is a guy they cant trust. Many men can have success with women by simply decieving them and a lot of guys do. Women are simply trying to detect those types of guys and protect themselves from them. If a guy is overly fixative on physicality during inapropriate times it is a sign of deception. A man who makes her feel comfortable and touches her at apropriats … | /r/seduction | 23/03/18 11:07 AM |
| 5 | Lip biting?One sign by itself is nothing. Look for groups multiple signs at once. Also, dont wait to see signs before you open. It doesnt matter if she likes you at first or not. If you like her just keep working on her and you can turn her | /r/seduction | 22/03/18 03:56 PM |
| 10 | How to escalate on dance floor?I love to go dancing and i am a very fit guy and i have learned one thing about women who dance. Most of them cannot go for more than 1 or 2 songs without needing to take a break. Dancing is good exercise. When a girl you like is with you on the floor go and dance with her. Dont say a word and just move your body without talking. Pay attention to her persperation and energy level. Try to gauge when she is about to take 5 and get a cold drink or a breath of fresh air. Tell her you are going to ge… | /r/seduction | 16/03/18 05:45 PM |
| 2 | Cold approach at StarbucksIdk i think for me it comes down to mindful awareness and understanding people. What do you think when you watch a guy hit on a girl? I feel like i just know what the spectators are probably thinking and i am not at all threatened by it. You just have to overcome your fear with repitition. The way you feel represents what you are afraid but it does not refleft the reality of the situation. | /r/seduction | 16/03/18 05:34 PM |
| 3 | Guys: what's your opinion on sexting?I dont jerk off while i am texting. If i am just so horny that i cant wait to see her i will call on the phone and use my real voice when i am stroking and describing what im going to do to her. I will send her sexy texts just to create tension for the next time she sees me. I cant send my gf too many dick pics bc she will masterbate to them and then she is less eager for me to make her cum myself with my real body. Sexting is a tease and its good for building tension and being playful but its n… | /r/seduction | 16/03/18 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Cold approach at StarbucksPretty much every approach i make happens in public where people are around. Do not stand if she is sitting. Get down on her level so you are eye to eye if you are going to talk for more than a second. Be smooth about it. Pull up a chair or something. The people who are watching you hit on a girl might be making fun of you are judging you on the inside, but just know that on the inside they envy you for having the courage to do that, and if they are female they probably envy the attention that y… | /r/seduction | 16/03/18 12:23 PM |
| 1 | Cold approach at StarbucksWhy are you worried about other people being around. They are already judging you just bc of the clothes you wear. The more a situation creates a reason to be nervous and afraid the more respect and admiration you will get from the girl and the bystanders who watch you approach her. None of those people who are watching are going to have the balls to talk to the pretty girl that you are approaching. Embrace that thought and use it to create an attitude in your mind that they are the spectators a… | /r/seduction | 15/03/18 02:49 PM |
| 4 | I will be with 2 single female friends for Valentines, how should I proceedYou can be anyone you want to be at any moment. Walk into the grocery store and start waving your arms wildly and speaking very loudly. Do that and you will see how incredibly easy it is to be a totally different person in an instant and get judged as something you totally arr not. Your beliefs about what is possible are what is holding you back. The image you have of who you are is based only a very limited number of the things you have done that have chosen to place significance. The reality i… | /r/seduction | 13/02/18 05:55 PM |
| 4 | Tried to conquer Approach Anxiety, but it turns out I really can'tApproach anxiety isnt supposed to ever go away. That anxiety is actually what makes talking to girls rewarding. I like replace the word 'anxiety' with 'excitement' bc arent they the exact same feeling? The only difference is whether you are focused on the potential negative outcomes or the potential positive ones. You need to learn to embrace and appreciate your anxiety and stop wishing for it to disappear. You never stop feeling that rush of adrenaline, you only learn how to be more skillful in… | /r/seduction | 13/02/18 03:22 PM |
| 1 | After a tinder date, she prefers to keep in touch over tinder and not exchanging numbers etc.Its ok to invest as long as she is also investing. If she stops investing thats when you hold back to make her feel that she is going to lose you unless she invests more. Dont even worry about the tinder thing. You dont know why she wants to keep using it so you dont know if it is an issue or not. Dont assume that it is. | /r/seduction | 13/02/18 03:11 PM |
| 5 | I will be with 2 single female friends for Valentines, how should I proceedGet those girls out of the house and take them out. Dont let them descend into a sad ice cream eating netflix binging emotional evening full of disapointment over not having a bf on valentines day. Tell these chicks that you are going to be their boyfriend for the evening and actually act like it. Tell them to dress up and take them out to dinner before you take them back home for wine and ice cream. Act like a boyfriend and dont stress over it bc its basically just a joke role you are only goin… | /r/seduction | 13/02/18 01:41 PM |
| 3 | How do I escalate a first date?Hell yeah dude thats awesome! Glad to see you put these things into action. Its powerful stuff | /r/seduction | 01/02/18 09:31 AM |
| 147 | How do I escalate a first date?Oh the interogation conversation. Happens all the time. Rookie mistake i think. Question after question after question with no depth to the conversation. After you ask a question put your brain on pause. Listen intently to her response. She will reveal something about herself. Respond to what she reveals before asking another question. Relate to it. Make an assumption about it and ask her if its right. Tease her about it. Exaggerate it. There are a million things you can do. Keep leading the con… | /r/seduction | 31/01/18 02:12 PM |
| 3 | The Paradox of Emotional Investment (Keeping a girl you love)After she has sex with you. I dont know of any way to keep a girl addicted to you indefinitely. At some point a girl needs to be mature enough to be capable of making a commitment and honoring it instead of making every decision based on what feels good in the moment and letting you go just bc she doesnt feel excited today. Just my thoughts | /r/seduction | 29/01/18 07:51 PM |
| 6 | The Paradox of Emotional Investment (Keeping a girl you love)Making her chase you is how you attract her and get her to invest. After she has sex with you and makes her emotional investment then you have the option to pursue a deeper relationship. The rules for establisbing intimacy are different than the rules for building attraction. In the begginning you tip the balance of power in your favor in order to demonstrate to her that you are valuable. Once she acknowledges that you have to be willing to let go of some of the power and become vulnerable to he… | /r/seduction | 29/01/18 03:08 PM |
| 3 | What's your go-to method for starting a conversation with a girl you find cute? A compliment? An observation on surroundings? Straight "I think you're cute" introduction?I try to compliment her or simply comment on something about her that most people wouldnt notice at first glance. I also like playing the guessing game about something and asking her if i am right. Its amusing for me and that makes all the difference | /r/seduction | 27/01/18 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Is this girl really reserved or just shy, and where did I fuck up?Sounds like she got jealous. She wanted you all to herself big boy and it doesnt sound like you were claiming her or building sexual tension with her. It sounds like you were focused on the manuevering through the entire social scene and werent really focused on pulling her as much as continuing to scan and set up opportunities for all the other girls you were meeting. Maybe you could have done better at isolating her being more a bit more possessive to send her a stronger "youre mine" signal | /r/seduction | 27/01/18 06:36 PM |
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