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Those women aren't sexually/physically attracted to their boyfriend/husband; that's the whole point. The girl in OP was also dating her looksmatch for 6 months but at no point in her relationship she felt attracted to him. Just seeing looksmatched couples in public doesn't mean anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:10 PM
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And yet people here will continue to deny female hypergamy; female dual mating strategy; and female attraction to top 10% men only. Doesn't matter what the source is; it's never good enough for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:47 PM
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It comes from science; it comes from statistics; it comes from anecdotal evidence like this. What more proof do you want that women are not attracted to their looksmatch unless they are a 9 or 10 themselves ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:40 PM
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Another incel/blackpill theory confirmed : https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/1752xr9/how_should_i_address_the_fact_that_im_not/
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:36 PM
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Is there anything more disgusting than female dual mating strategy ? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:35 PM
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Single mother wants a stable guy who she is not sexually attracted to to provide for her and her son. She is self-admittedly still in her hoe phase and sleeps around with chads while contemplating settling with this marriage type of guy. But but I thought this was just an incel theory not grounded in reality? https://preview.redd.it/xzn8segkd23c1.jpeg?width=1179&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c4440a2939756f69a6ef99844985be340761cbbb
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 10:15 AM
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Daily reminder everything about the blackpill is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 09:56 AM
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Yes just take up some hobbies so you can meet women with the same interests is the most meme advice ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 01:21 AM
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As a nineties kid I guess my brain is still in that time period you got bullied for wearing glasses lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 01:06 AM
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Having a girlfriend by your side also implies a sex life; but it's only a by-product of the relationship. I'm fairly certain most incels would choose a girlfriend over some casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:48 AM
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Having a loving girlfriend doesn't imply a deadbedroom relationship. We want a girl who is really into us and not merely settled.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:43 AM
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I feel the same with a cute/pretty girl in glasses. Like she actually doesn't care that society would say she would look more attractive in contacts.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:40 AM
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Most incels don't miss sex. They can jerk off or hire an escort for that. They miss the intimacy of having a loving girlfriend. Someone who whispers 'I love you' in their ear when waking up; someone who comforts them when they are feeling stressed or sad; someone they can have backpacking adventures with; someone who gives you the energy to live again;... bluepillers believe it is all about sex for incels but it isn't at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:32 AM
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Old men don't lose their sight and will still be attracted to girls like prime Brigitte Bardot. If that makes you uncomfortable you still have some things to learn :)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 11:17 PM
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I find Alexandra Daddario attractive. She's 37 but she still got to keep her neotenous features. It's not about the age; it's about women more likely to lose what made them attractive in the first place past a certain age (mostly late twenties).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 11:10 PM
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It's not weird to be attracted to women with big eyes; smooth skin; small nose and full lips..
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 10:55 PM
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I remember the early ASMR youtube days in which ASMR was actually about sensory response. Nowadays the ASMR scene is just cute girls taking advantage of the million of lonely men by giving them the closest girlfriend experience they might have gotten.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 10:54 PM
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I just check out the threads with the most views/replies on incel and looksmax forums. Those tend to be the most interesting with actual articles/videos/experiments linked. Can do without all other the edgy incel culture stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:53 PM
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depends on the girl
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:41 PM
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Why are men always shamed for having preferences ? Saying men are biologically wired to like neotenous features on women is apparently creepy for the women on this board. Are women creepy for being biologically wired to be attracted to high-testosterone; high-masculine men because criminals tend to be higher testosterone ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:25 PM
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Because I'm in my 30s I can't be attracted to neotenous features anymore lol ? Looks like more shaming for men having preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:01 PM
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Yes girls with sharper features and hunter eyes (masculine features) will tend to age better than girls whose beauty all came from neoteny which is kinda proof that masculine features age better than feminine features.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 08:34 PM
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It's not creepy to be attracted to neoteny. Our brain is literally wired to find girls with those features attractive just as women are attracted to tall men with sharp and broad jawlines. https://preview.redd.it/yeq8v4tw7y2c1.png?width=3371&format=png&auto=webp&s=b9b57ae8ec47dbdb5a6c5022d92344b239f709ed
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 08:17 PM
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Gosh being attracted to neotenous features doesn't mean men are attracted to children.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 08:11 PM
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Here goes the creep shaming when a woman reads something she doesn't like. Men are universally attracted to neotenous features on women; it's science. https://preview.redd.it/6hp4v2ji5y2c1.png?width=1530&format=png&auto=webp&s=3202507e9d4806535cd7eea1e9d8f7ebcd39db1a
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 08:03 PM
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They all lost their youthful glow. Neoteny is so important to female looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 07:45 PM
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Idk but imagine putting your parents online to rate them it’s kinda weird lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:05 AM
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"Just compete against 1650 other men it's not that hard"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 11:24 PM
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​ https://preview.redd.it/82ok1unxuq2c1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=d5fed10bfcae4f4785f6002864761b7a8ef5888c Who's gonna tell her Chris Hemsworth is a heavy steroid user ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 07:33 PM
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Some of the users on incel and looksmax forum I have seen are not ugly; even above average or chadlites at times. It shows how fucked up the dating scene is if they can't get laid. The pics of women I have seen on femcel forums/lipstickalley/femaledatingstrategy forums legit made me shudder though. Sorry to all the women here but if you are into this femcel/bluepill/redpill/blackpill online stuff you are most likely way below average looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 07:23 PM
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break the fight
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 07:19 PM
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But they don't. Sleep yes but date most women have to settle with someone they aren't that attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 04:00 PM
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Q4W : do women resent the fact they are only physically attracted to 1%-10% of men at most ? Every time I go outside I see plenty of women I am attracted to and it's nice to look at them. But I imagine it must be hard to go outside and the gender you are supposed to be attracted to all look physically repulsive to you/don't excite you at all except that rare chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 03:23 PM
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modern women for you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 02:10 PM
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Just have perfect 20/20 vision guys https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=560Co1gVlsI
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 02:02 PM
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Women's dating strategy : 'I'll settle with you if I can't find better' https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Nra1mvt6M50
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 01:48 PM
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Shy guy who can't get laid and gives the 'nice guys finish last' speech = walking red flag; stay away at all costs unless you want to lose your limbs Hot drugsdealer who beat up women and spent most of his youth in jail = I like the thrill and at least he can protect me from other dangerous men
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 11:04 AM
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I feel like I live ideally now in a small city/suburb. My city has all basic needs like supermarkets; high schools; parks; swimming pool; gym; pubs and restaurants;.. It's not too busy but not so empty you never come across someone. The countryside/farms/forest is only a 15 minute walk from my house if I want to be in nature. The metropolitan city centre (Brussels) is only a 15 minutes train ride if I want to go shopping; clubbing; museums; events or just be around a lot of people/tourists. But …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 10:52 AM
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Suburbs > big city > countryside/small isolated town for living
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 10:40 AM
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The best girls are both cute (like in girl-next-door) and sexy at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 10:04 AM
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Incels being incels because of stacy-chasing is such bullshit. Most men are not chasing stacies as they are too intimidated by them if easy quick sex is what they are after. I have been out a couple of times with a legit stacy in my travel group. She never got approached by any men in the nightclub while all the average girls did.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 09:58 AM
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This pretty much.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 11:41 PM
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Norwood 1.5 here at age 33.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 10:27 PM
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Don't believe women claiming they are not into certain personality traits; interests; professions;... it has nothing to do with the actual trait. Women will associate certain things like manga/anime fans; videogames addicts; virgins; glasses wearers... with ugly/average men and while it might be true in 95% of cases (most older anime fans are ugly) they won't mind it at all if it turns out to be one of the rare 5% good looking men who are into anime. It's not the trait itself that turns women of…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 10:26 PM
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Men and women value looks equally but men have such a drastically lower threshold and more variety in what they find attractive that no woman is going to be left out of the dating pool due to her looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 08:14 PM
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Balding aside (women also have thinner hair by age anyway) and everything else being equal (no drugs or alcohol abuse) men definitely age better than women on average as we have thicker skin and more collagen. Male facial beauty is also more dependent on facial bones and that doesn't go away with age (as long as the man doesn't get fat) hence the term rugged looks Female facial beauty is more depending on neoteny (youthful features on an adult) like big sparkling eyes; facial fat; smooth flawles…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 08:07 PM
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Something tells me you are a post-prime woman raging about men wanting younger girls
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 07:53 PM
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I would also add it is less likely for a legit beautiful girl to have a high n-count. Ugly and average women sleep around way more from the research I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 07:43 PM
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Yeah and the funny thing is most men do get haircuts and wear normal clothes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 07:36 PM
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Definitely by choice or EXTREMELY picky (like wanting a rich Henry Cavill looks level kinda guy)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 07:34 PM
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correct
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 07:24 PM
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Classic blackpilled thread : https://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/55de3g/what_percentage_of_guys_look_cute_to_you/
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 07:21 PM
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She's weird. I honestly am curious what is so creepy about a guy playing an online shooter game. What is her train of thought ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 06:48 PM
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What is creepy about it ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 06:47 PM
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The account monsterlily blocked me as soon as I said I still played fortnite at 33 yo. What is wrong with women ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 06:44 PM
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Is it weird to still be into fortnite as a 33 yo ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 06:30 PM
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On looksmax forums we have a term for that : she lost her glow
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 06:15 PM
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Short answer : because it’s a male only struggle
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 05:16 PM
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Saturday night drinking game : take a shot every time you come across another female tinder profile who is into yoga; vegan food; travelling and conscious living.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 04:52 PM
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I guess Jeremy Meeks wasn't a walking red flag judging by how much money and sex offers he received from women while in jail.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 04:35 PM
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> I'm pretty much invisible to the male population > I've had my fair share of casual sex from guys
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 04:12 PM
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If women have a fantasy of fixing "walking red flag men" why do they never want to fix the shy virgin Nice Guy ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 03:52 PM
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​ <image> ​ lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 01:37 PM
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​ <image> "I'm fat and overweight. I don't have any success at all on tinder except all the average and ugly men hitting on me but I only want chad who is out of my league." Women the meme gender time and time again
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 01:10 PM
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Degeneracy. Before that cam girls would try to stay as incognito as possible; only use aliases; fake nationality and residence country etc; Now we have women linking their OF account on their real instagram profile like it's the most trivial thing ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 12:12 PM
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Reminds me of Lipstickalley (some sort of femcel/femaledatingstrategy forum). Men going after younger women are creepy and walking red flags. Women going after younger men are empowered and know what they want. Biologically it makes so much more sense for men going after younger women anyways than the other way around. Women love to use biology as to why they only desire top tier men ("we can get pregnant so we have to be more picky and our sex drive is lower") but neglect it when it favours men…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 11:55 AM
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"Most women are not on tinder so they don't value hookups" "Tinder is 70% male so men value hookup culture more than women" Or could it be women only need to stay active for one week at most on dating apps before they get enough numbers or date offers for a whole year supply ? If they feel like having sex with an attractive stranger they could get that within a couple of days and delete the app afterwards while most men have to stay online for months before even getting a date. The argument that…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 11:06 AM
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That's the problem with hypergamy and wanting a man who looks better than you. When you are in a very high bracket as a girl yourself lookswise (an 8 or 9/10) it's very rare to find a 10/10 male willing to be exclusive with you. As a 3/10 female you'll find plenty of 5/10's men as average guys are less rare than beautiful men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 10:51 AM
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"A recent Pew Research study suggests a tectonic shift in the dating and sex life of men. The study found that among men under 30 years old, over 60 percent are single, almost double that of women in the same age bracket." https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-state-of-our-unions/202302/why-are-so-many-young-men-single-and-sexless ​ Over
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 10:49 AM
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She just wasn't that attracted to his appearance. Women always find the dumbest reasons ("He was too into me") to reject men they are not physically attracted to. If chad had shown that level of interest she would be all over him.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 09:09 AM
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The dating life of women; just casually rejecting men left and right and getting free meals out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 09:03 AM
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When you are blackpilled you realize cheating is the most attractive thing you can do as a man. Nothing is more attractive to women than realizing other women want her boyfriend especially if she was starting to doubt her relationship or sex life. Think about it how much times has male infidelity actually been a direct cause of a break up in your environment ? Sure the girl will act hysterical and angry for a while but in most cases she'll just stay with the boyfriend. You don't need to actually…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 08:52 AM
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I never approached a woman in real life with the intention of showing interest in her as I know I will get rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 12:59 AM
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I don't despite going to the gym myself and having a normal BMI.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 12:37 AM
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Her SMV didn't change (all women above 3/10 have limitless SMV) but her looks did. She went down 3-4 points on the looks scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 12:29 AM
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It's about the whole package (love; affection; sex; female friendship).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 12:26 AM
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Make up is the only reason women believe themselves to be the more attractive gender "Just put in more effort men if you want to get women. We also have to do that" . Yeah but with what exactly ? Men cannot put on make up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 12:16 AM
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Looks are my problem obviously. I also have to wear glasses as my eyes can't tolerate contacts and glasses are a direct turnoff to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 12:12 AM
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Q4W : what advice would you giva a 33M virgin (me) if I don’t want to pay for sex ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 11:37 PM
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https://mashable.com/article/albie-the-white-lotus-performative-nice-guy Another bad take by a woman regarding the Nice Guy trope.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 10:13 PM
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I am a 33 old male virgin. I'm so entitled to finally crave for some love and intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 09:46 PM
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Q4W : how would you feel if you were the gender struggling to find love or sex and were constantly told by men to self-improve instead before getting your shot at dating ? (keep in mind you are not overweight in this case and self-improvement is not something as obvious as losing weight as most incels are not overweight)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 07:43 PM
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"Just be a pretty boy I'm not picky for the rest" Women the meme gender
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 07:33 PM
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He's average due to height and face. I'd say he'll struggle in modern dating due to lacking some exceptional qualities that would make him stand out from other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 07:14 PM
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Nice guy is told he has to wait until women mature before he gets his shot at sex and love. Nice guy complains about this Women and bluepillers : "See he is not a nice guy!! He's a fake Nice Guy tm/incel"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 07:10 PM
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Great response. Off topic you should definitely watch the show (both season 1 and 2). It's a great display of (flawed) human behavior; sex and relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 06:51 PM
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Yes it's sad that I have to turn into the stereotypical bad boy asshole (which I am inherently not) to get women. But if I don't I will continue to be the boring spineless nice guy virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 06:28 PM
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Makeup is a lazy example. Men cannot wear makeup to cheat their looks. It is also vastly harder for men to get a good body than it is for women to get a good body.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 06:12 PM
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and the "safe guy" should just accept this ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 06:04 PM
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Woman confirms alpha fucks beta bucks dating strategy <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 04:24 PM
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Just seen White Lotus season 2. Good example on how girls only want excitement and nice guys finish last.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 03:33 PM
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Women don't poop so it stays inside them
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 10:03 PM
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Many Russian women are looking for a man in Europe. It was already the case before the war but now it's on steroids.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 07:31 PM
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Q4W : when was the last time you masturbated and what's your age ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 07:27 PM
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It's not a farfetched theory tbh. It's well known Russia and China finance or spread propaganda for extreme left and extreme right parties just to cause more division.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 07:18 PM
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Why does my breath keep stinking despite me brushing my teeth twice a day; flossing them every night before sleeping; using Listerine mouthwash twice a week and using a tongue scraper ? I suspect there are bacteria further on my tongue but I can't get there without having to gag.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 07:15 PM
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I have been both around chad and stacies during nights out. When I was around the stacy girl she didn't get appraoched at all. Meanwhile the more average women in the group got approached. My chad acquaintance gets approached at least twice one a nights out. One time he just had to look at a girl and she gave him a piece of paper with her number on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 06:51 PM
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Dating as a man is harder than dating as a woman period. The only exception would be dating as a chad is easier than dating as a stacy as many men will be intimidated by the stacy but not many women will be intimidated by the chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 06:35 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/a3vcq0nfgq1c1.jpeg?width=1164&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=9cd1cf1965ea8dc6c48e3bfc983ac83f9131d10f
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 05:06 PM
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Femcels are attention whoring. They literally just have to install tinder or go standing alone at the bar and they can wait until an attractive guy approaches them. What option do incels have ? Tinder doesn’t work for average men; speeddating events are always fully booked for men while there are free places for women so it’s a cockfest just like tinder; nightclubs and bar game is as looks and height oriented as tinder. Cold aproaching women during the day won’t work as an average male. Social c…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 04:29 PM
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This is anecdotal evidence as bluepill people here don’t take actual scientific evidence and statistics about female hypergamy seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 04:18 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/l8aa9n5r1q1c1.jpeg?width=1100&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=966fa653ff6465c387cba13067acaee73cca3fd1
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 03:44 PM
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This is who one of the most handsome men had to date It’s so over https://preview.redd.it/ea1s3lii1q1c1.jpeg?width=500&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b1d6ea1f8b6a296bf445220069bf30d605799cf1
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 03:42 PM
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Yes and the point is if real life dating wasn’t also rigged against men they wouldn’t even need to go on dating apps that are even more rigged.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 12:28 PM
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https://youtu.be/dKmvvBelNcw?si=QAygKA82JO2kGbCD If this doesn’t make you rage quit I don’t what will. Women kan keep saying this isn’t real life but if those normal looking men got laid in real life with normal looking girls they wouldn’t even need to go online begging obese pig women for attention. Normal girls are fucking chad so they don’t need their looksmatch.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 12:17 PM
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I’ve been approached a couple of times by gay men but never by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 12:10 PM
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Maybe the question should have been :”Do you get approached at all by the opposite sex ?” In which case it would be no Women really cannot apprehend some men go through life completely invisible.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 11:24 AM
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Yet his wife is ugly and 56 yo. That's what hypergamy looks like.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 01:16 AM
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Who's your celebrity crush if you have one ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 12:53 AM
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Q4M : would you dump your girlfriend or wive if somehow you found out she wouldn't have dated or slept with you during her "hoe phase/fun prime years" ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 11:39 PM
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When women say they are into nerdy guys and not the buff chad type they mean Chris Evans or Henry Cavill in glasses.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 10:55 PM
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It's a problem for 80% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 06:24 PM
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Doesn't matter if they deviate a little from average. The point is those two women will get a lot more male attention than those two guys would get female attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 06:16 PM
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Examples of some average male and female faces : https://i.imgur.com/aDoUtXk.jpg https://i.imgur.com/YwbK0NA.jpg These average looking women will be rated decently attractive by men and have no problem finding sex or male attention. https://i.imgur.com/w6jmCbQ.jpg https://i.imgur.com/aPMX6EA.jpg These average looking men will have no matches on tinder; be completely invisible and be rated below average by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 05:59 PM
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Yet those plain janes get hundreds of tinder likes a day and plenty of sex or date offers. Meanwhile the average guy gets no female attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 05:18 PM
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Because male's attractiveness is 90% height and face which cannot be fundamentally changed unless surgery. They cannot become "hot" by losing weight like women can.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 05:13 PM
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An average guy is what it is.. an average guy. Not a chad or pretty boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 05:04 PM
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Then I'd get no matches at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 05:03 PM
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It's tinder and bumble. Unless you mean the looksmax websites no they are ran by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 04:28 PM
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It's better to be good looking at 30 years old than at 18-20 years old. What you look like at 30 will be the base for the rest of your life. You can be good looking at 18 but descend a lot the next 10 years and look like a completely different person by 30. Most women at 30 already know if they will age fast/badly; most men at 30 already know if they will have heavy balding or not. When you are searching for the person you are going to spend the rest of your life with wait until he/she turns 30.…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 04:18 PM
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Exactly that's the whole point of hypergamy. Now you are probably going to say I am overrating my own looks but I have been rating and analyzing looks for years on looksmax websites. I know my own rating and that of the girls who are willing to give me a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 04:00 PM
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I'm THAT picky that I want to date my looksmatch :-) Never said stacies are my looksmatch.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 03:50 PM
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Wrong. I swipe right on every girl and the ones who interact with me are objectively 2-3 points below my own looks level. My looksmatch is not interested in chatting or meeting up with me. Men cannot chace "stacies" unless they are chads themselves but women can chase men who are 2-3 points above them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 03:40 PM
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As some elaboration a slender guy with soft facial feminine features is female codeword for wanting a guy who looks pretty. Women online have always used the distinction between pretty boys and masculine chads and their preference for one group over the other as proof that they have variety in what they find attractive. Most men neither fit the pretty boy nor chad profile so again I don't know what it is even supposed to proof. Most men will never be a woman's type as averageness "man-next-door"…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 03:33 PM
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"I prefer pretty boys over masculine chads. See I told you women have a great variety in what type of men we find attractive!" Women the meme gender.. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 03:19 PM
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Yes you're describing exactly the 2 types of men women are into : prettyboys or masculine chads. Such a great variety lol. You prefer prettyboys; other women prefer chads. But where does that leave 80% of other men ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 03:17 PM
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Women cheat up Men cheat down
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 03:04 PM
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Plenty of studies have already proven women rate 80% of men as below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 02:44 PM
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That's true. But average looking men are still average by definition even if they are considered ugly by women; not that it matters much for them as they are put in the same bracket as ugly men anyways when it comes to sex and dating. The advantage average looking men have over ugly men is when the time comes for a woman to settle. The average looking man will have it easier and could land himself a decent looking girlfriend if he got his act together. The girlfriend will still not be sexually a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 02:12 PM
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Most men are not ugly. Most men are average looking. It's women's fault for rating average men as below average. Standards can be unreasonable when you are not attracted to averageness despite most women being average themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 02:08 PM
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Can’t buy Andrew Tate as an alpha male slayer while having a weak recessed chin. Too redpilled on looks for that. He knows his lower third is recessed that’s why he tries to hide it with beard frauding. No wonder he has to pay for female companionship. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 12:35 PM
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It means you are somewhere in the bottom 80% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 12:29 PM
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You go from bluepill advice (“just take care of yourselves men”) to straight up blackpill (“attraction is biological; you cannot force it and only the best most healthy men get chosen as women are extremely picky; some men will never pass the looks threshold just look at animals”)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 12:03 PM
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Basically every girl or society as a whole while growing up. And bluepill women online who want to virtue signal or simply troll/agitate men by giving out bluepill advice. “You are struggling with women ? Have you tried showering yet ?”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 11:31 AM
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I struggle to get consistent results. I have gone years with dry spells. The women I get to date from apps I can tell are objectively a couple of points lower than me on the looks scale and they still are very demanding and the dates are more of an interview style thing in which I have to give the “right” answer. I go to the gym; I go to the barber once every two months; I shower every day during summer; I have my own place that I keep tidy; I clean my bed sheets every two weeks; I avoid process…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 11:21 AM
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“Looks don’t matter guys just be confident; dress well and make her lau… OMG I just saw a really cute guy in my class how do I make him notice me ??”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 10:52 AM
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Looks don’t matter guys
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 10:25 AM
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I thought only cucks and soyboys go to starbucks ? At least there won't be much chad competition there as it's indeed full of cute girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 11:55 PM
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Fact : women are only attracted to a small percentage of men. The odds that all those women manage to LTR and marry one out of that small group is not possible. There is also very little variety in what features women find attractive on men. It's mostly the same small group of men they are all attracted to. So most women are not sexually attracted to their boyfriend or husband. Fact : chad fucks average women when he wants to bust his nuts without any effort. Stacy is more high maintenance and h…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 11:52 PM
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You must be joking.. it is the experience of almost every modern western woman who participated in hookup culture (giving easy sex to chad in hopes of becoming more attractive to him)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 11:12 PM
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No they get kids but it naturally evolves into a dead bedroom situation. The wife reads romance novels and daydreams about chad; the husband jerks off on the toilet.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 10:42 PM
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Who has it worse in this very typical scenario : - Average girl has many flings with hot guys. She gets pumped and dumped by them but cannot lock one. Getting past prime she is forced to settle with her looksmatch but with the memories of the more exciting guys she had in the past she is very frustrated with her life despite her boyfriend/husband treating her well. - Average guy went through high school and college as an incel nice guy. Maybe he fucked a couple of overweight girls to lose his vi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 10:29 PM
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Lilith is a feminist troll getting a kick out of agitating sex and romance-starved men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 06:35 PM
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Took 2 showers today instead of one. Women were literally smiling at me when I went outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 06:24 PM
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I just google "name of the movie 123movies"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 06:20 PM
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No but when I see prettier/hotter girls every time I go to the supermarket/gym/city centre/... it's a good indication she really isn't that what we have made her out to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 06:08 PM
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Isn’t she a troll account ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 05:43 PM
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She got Harry Potter halo with men who grew up with the movies. I see prettier girls in public every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 05:42 PM
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Emma Watson is average tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 05:39 PM
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Meanwhile ask women about some guys they consider mid and they’ll post men like Tom Holland; Ryan Gosling or Ryan Reynolds
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 05:37 PM
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Jonah Hill got dumped for not wanting his girlfriend to post bikini pictures online on her public account. I think that’s a perfectly reasonable demand. Why do women even want to flaunt their vody for the whole world to see while in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 05:35 PM
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No objectively 6.5 is her max. Not a 7. https://www.reddit.com/r/trueratecelebrities/comments/vqh3ua/ariana_grande_20152016_age_2223/ Keep in mind the scale we are using at looksmax websites rates top-tier women like prime Adrianna Lima a 9.5. So we cannot rate every somewhat attractive girl a 9.5.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 03:19 PM
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Most couples you see in public are mostly looksmatched but without the make-up bump most men mog their girlfriend by 1-2 points.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 03:03 PM
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Gotta love women trying to prove looks don't matter by showing a perfectly looksmatched couple and underrating the guy and overrating the girl
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 02:53 PM
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Ariana Grance is not that attractive lookswise. It's just mostly women treating her like she's the hottest being ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 02:46 PM
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Making money as a girl online is so easy. Just be reasonably attractive (which is easy as a girl); make an ASMR channel; wait until you have a decent following and start an onlyfans or patreon.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 02:44 PM
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and ASMR
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 02:40 PM
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Looks is mostly face; not body.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 02:38 PM
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But sometimes looks are the reason they are left out from key socialization milestones. It's no secret ugly people will have a harder time making friends and be popular in a high school or college environment. They have a bigger chance of being shut-ins simply due to being discriminated for their looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 02:24 PM
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Beauty is not subjective. Everyone inherently knows which person is more attractive than the other. There might be a difference in taste between people close in looks but no one is going to say a 3 is inherently more attractive than a 8.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 02:03 PM
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Why would a man with options go after an older women for anything other than the milf pump and dump experience ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 01:16 AM
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I hate tinnitus. Wore earplugs for years at parties and never used headphones to avoid it getting worse. Last month I visited a church and the bells rang right before my ears. It was the sound of an explosion. Now I hear the ringing everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 12:56 AM
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You must be chad. Women only do that for chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 12:34 AM
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Crazy woman physically assaults man minding his own business. Man defends himself and gets attacked and handcuffed by security. Female privilege jfl https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l5HpQtWxotk
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 12:30 AM
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Are these guys related to The Rock ? To answer the question there is no chance I could take those four guys at once . The smartest thing to do to increase the odds of survival for the both of us would be to run away; call the police/ambulance from a safe distance and yell for help. If we are both laying severly injured on the ground it might take a while before someone finds us and we might already bleed or freeze to death by then. It really depends on location though. In a big city with a lot o…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 12:18 AM
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mogs me
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 12:15 AM
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From personal observation white; tall; fit; dark haired; blue/green eyed men are the most attractive to women (Henry Cavill/Matt Bomer/...) Do you agree women ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 12:01 AM
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It's your job to impress and convince her; it's her job to accept or reject you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 05:59 PM
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It's definitely face > height> body and it makes sense. You can change your body rather easily but you cannot change your height or drastically change your face. So body alone won't tell women anything about the genetic quality of a man because body can be changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 05:56 PM
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Not talking about approaching. I know women will only risk rejection for the top percentage of men. But just signs like eyecontact or a smile.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 05:54 PM
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Unless you are a solidly above average you'll have to do all the work yourself. Daydreaming about some girl magically falling into your laps won't work. They get literally bombarded by male attention so you are just average guy number #32 to them. For most men it's a numbers game until one woman gives them a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 05:50 PM
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Men tend to look at the good or best features of a woman. Women tend to look at the worst features of a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 05:35 PM
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I see no difference in the amount of IOI's I get from women when I was skinny vs. fit now. They still barely flirt with me. The truth is you are either a 1 or a 10 to them. If you are a 5; manage to make yourself a 6 through haircut and better body you will still be invisible if you have some other flaws like height or face.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 05:15 PM
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Women are willing to "fix" a bad boy into a nice guy; or at least that's their reasoning for choosing him. But they are not willing to turn a nice guy into something of a more confident bad boy. The bad boy was just always more attractive from the start.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 05:11 PM
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Using Bumble and have women sent you the first message; chat a bit and then completely ghost you is such a brutal feeling. It basically means “I matched a hotter guy”.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 03:50 PM
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Just be confident; take a shower; put on some nice fragrance; buy the latest fashion trends and you’ll be god’s gift to women. That’s what women will tell struggling men. Meanwhile I went to a walk in the city and overheard two french tourists girls complaining where all the good looking men were. Don’t ask dating advice to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 03:38 PM
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Western Europa has a huge problem with immigration and it’s stacked against local men as 80% of immigrants are male. Female immigrants could have solved the incel problem in the West but of course they stay behind and only men enter our borders making it even harder for us. Those men also tend to be more direct and aggressive in their approach (catcalling and touching women) making women uncomfortable and on guard when walking in public in a big city making it harder for other men to approach or…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 03:17 PM
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Yes I am going to forbid my future wive to have nights out or travel trips with her female friends unless I am also going with her. I am too blackpilled to know what is likely to happen during these trips. Men WILL approach her and she will be drunk. If she doesn’t accept that rule than she isn’t the girl for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 11:45 AM
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Articles from 2012. Cheating statistics have changed by now. Women generally cheat more than men due to having more opportunitiesw
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 11:39 AM
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Yeah bro it"s just insecurity and fake stories https://www.plymouthherald.co.uk/news/plymouth-news/hens-five-times-more-likely-1506719 "Hens are five times more likely to cheat than stags, survey reveals"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 11:01 AM
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Don’t be an misogynist. Just let your GF/future wife have her fun wifh the girls. https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/s/7PkPiSJZU1
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 10:42 AM
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It’s not insecurity. It’s just understanding how the game works. How many women are in a relationship with chad ? Most just get pumped and dumped by him. But if a girl is in a relationship with chad she should know he’ll get approached by many thirsty girls. Same with girls but she doesn’t have to be a stacy to get approached by men. I understand how desperate men are for any pussy so you have to trust your girlfriend to reject them all in a tipsy/drunk state. Sometimes her female friends will e…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 10:38 AM
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The difference is that men won’t get approached on a nights out unless he’s in the top 1-5% of looks. Most men just get no action at all. Women (and thus also your girlfriend) will get approached by many men and you have to trust her enough to reject all these approaches even when she’s drunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 10:20 AM
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Did you cheat ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 01:03 AM
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Q4W : How do you feel having a stacy friend in your social group (or how do you think you would feel if you don't have a stacy in your social group) ? Is it something that would threaten you or make you feel insecure ? I was watching some vlogs of Alexandra Daddario (a stacy) and her two best friends are rather average looking so I was wondering if they don't feel bad by getting "fogged" all the time. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qsaQ2FtlbzY&start=50
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 12:44 AM
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I'm 33 and have no wrinkles or balding; also muscular.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 12:26 AM
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Q4W : is it usual for you to masturbate to pictures of attractive men you know IRL ? Like pictures on their social media in which they are shirtless.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 11:03 PM
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Fat woman swipes left on tinder : https://www.dailymotion.com/video/x6i8qmh
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 10:45 PM
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Can confirm women are deteriorating at 30 years old and losing their biggest weapon (youthful looks). It's not an incel revenge fantasy it's reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 10:31 PM
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Elliot Rodger actually had a couple of obsessive female fan accounts post-mortem. Not as much as good looking killers like Ted Bundy or Richard Ramirez but still more than if he wouldn't have done the crimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 10:25 PM
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Ironic that if Elliot Rodger survived his murder rampage he would have received many fan mails and love letters from women and he would have been more popular than ever before. Women truly hate unremarkableness in men and you need things like good looks; tall height; money; status; fame (even if you get it in the worst way possible like ER) to undo the unremarkableness.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 10:17 PM
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She's attractive; especially in the Wolf of Wall Street; but she uses a lot of makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 09:58 PM
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I remember he got invited to pool parties with young people and instead of socializing with the girls he took his camera and just filmed everyone; giving off serial killer vibes (which he ended up being).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 09:57 PM
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Q4W : What would you rate Elliot Rodger ? My assessment : although apparently ER had rich parents he lived in one of the richest neighbourhoods of L.A. with some of the toughest competition. He wouldn't be able to impress the girls there with his BMW. His face was average and he was short. Again many actual chads and celebrities living in his area. Along with his mental illness he never had any chance there. I think if he moved out of L.A. he would have been able to find an average girl; but not…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 09:47 PM
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A guy with 2 million youtube subscribers (meaning he is very likely a millionaire) and who looks like a (lower-tier) pretty boy gets dates ? Yeah there's hope for struggling average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 09:33 PM
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It doesn't say 93% of women never used tinder. Just that at the moment of the research 7% were active.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:51 PM
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There was an experiment conducted proving average looking women actually do get approached more than hot women because guys feel less intimidated by them. I'll try to find it back.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:38 PM
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Yes of course. If they feel horny they'll find a guy to fuck within one week at most and uninstall the app or become inactive until next time. If they want a relationship they should be able to set up many dates with different men within one week of swiping. If they keep on swiping for longer they'll have too many matches and messages and it will become unmanageable so most women just make a selection of the top men they got after 1-2 week of swiping at most. Men have to stay months/years before…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:25 PM
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7% of American women use tinder. That's not a niche crowd. That's millions of women. And it's not counting women who are not currently using the app but had it installed at some point in their life. I also go through big tinder breaks of many months. https://www.statista.com/statistics/814691/share-of-us-internet-users-who-use-tinder-by-gender/
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:19 PM
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Of course those women are shitty. But it's still a very large part of the female gender. Tinder isn't some niche crowd. A lot of women have used tinder at some point in their lives. Average looking guys are just not attractive at all to women to the point they would rather meet and fuck a very hot criminal or pedo within the online dating dynamic. Enough experiments have proven that. Don't believe me ? Make two tinder profiles; one very hot guy who went to jail for rape or murder; and one averag…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:07 PM
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How many women have used tinder ? I'd say 30-40% have used it at some point in their life. Incels have proven many times through fake experiments a chad with a very serious criminal past will get many more matches and success on tinder than an average guy with a normal bio. Those are the data and facts. I was part of some of those experiments and conducted them myself. You act like tinder is only a small niche crowd of women but like I said probably around 30%-40% of women have at some point ins…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:56 PM
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You say they didn't read the bio. Read the messages they sent him; they are related to his bio. You were trying to excuse their behavior because god forbid women are really as shallow as incels always proclaimed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:44 PM
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That's not something women are going to say outloud in public. They don't even realize it themselves until they come into contact with an actual chad sex offender in all the anonymity of online dating. Ask ANY of those women who matched and responded to the chad prior to the fake experiment if they would date a very good looking child rapist. All of them would say no and would be repulsed by the thought. Again women don't even realize how shallow they really are so of course they don't realize t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:36 PM
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That's not something women are going to say outloud in public. They don't not even realize it themselves until they come into contact with an actual chad child rapist in all the anonymity of online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:35 PM
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Stop trying to deflect women's shitty online dating behavior on men. I work around children and I would 100% choose an average girl over a convicted child rapist stacy. The female tinder crowd wouldn't as a child rapist chad gets more matches and first messages than average joe. That's the data.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:28 PM
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You can talk about crazy women all you want but fact is a chad who is a self-admitted child rapist WILL have more matches and first messages on tinder than a regular average guy. That's the actual data. Saying all those women are Harley Quinn type psychopaths is a lazy argument. Conclusion : a good looking child rapist is more attractive than a regular average guy to the female tinder crowd. Now that doesn't conclude anything for women who aren't on tinder but it does give us some assumptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:19 PM
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Of course women will defend their own gender. If you read the actual first messages women sent that guy it is clearly related to his crimes so they did read his bio. And this is only a small selection. I saw the original experiment on lookism. The chad had like over 1000 matches and 40% first message rate in a 10 miles radius. But yeah I guess all those women happened to be psychopaths.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:10 PM
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Psychopathy is less than 1% of women. Most of those women matching and responding to chad are not psychopaths but just regular women craving for chad due to their nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:05 PM
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You'll become numb to it eventually but at first you'll look at women in a completely different way. I've tried my own chad tinder experiment. Made him a convicted criminal; woman beater going in and out of jail 24/7. I got more matches in a day than it got on my real profile in total lmao. And they certainly read the bio because their first message was usually something flirty related to the crime ("you can beat me anytime;...) or them questioning if it was a joke or not but they were still wil…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:01 PM
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Reminder women are willing to go out with a convicted child sex offender : https://cheezburger.com/3017733/guy-conducts-twisted-experiment-on-tinder-as-fake-child-rapist-and-gets-horrifying-results It was even posted on the local news here lmao wonder how many men got blackpilled that day about women. Disturbing thought that all those women are going to have kids one day. Wonder if they will rethink about this little convo they had with chad and feel very ashamed while looking their child in the…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:38 PM
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Right-wing men are more attractive to women than left-wing men; even if the girl is left-wing herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:34 PM
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No it’s just men having very low standards due to higher testosterone. Fat women are not hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 03:12 PM
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Whatever. If I was there I would have given her a reality check. She is NOT a 7.5.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 02:56 PM
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Not on a "true" scale we use on looksmax websites or subreddits.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 02:49 PM
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What do you mean ? She is asked to rate herself. She should realize her body and face is below average and rated herself accordingly instead of arrogantly calling herself a 7.5 while rating those three muscular dudes lower.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 02:48 PM
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A curvy but skinny body is nice; not a chubby one. The other dark-haired girl who rated herself a 7.5 is also below average. Women are so delusional when it comes to their own looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 02:39 PM
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The blonde chubby girl rating herself a 7.5 while she rated those 3 fit dudes lower is what is wrong with modern western women https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aliAA1978yM&t=216s&start=205
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 02:32 PM
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Obviously only get one if you also want it for other reasons. It's just a plus.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 02:22 PM
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Ironic how I am not attracted to the women over 30 in my city but the celebrity I find the most attractive by far (Alexandra Daddario) is almost 40 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 02:19 PM
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I think because having cats is associated as something feminine whereas having a dog can be both masculine or feminine. Guitar and piano are absolutely the best most; "mainstream" instruments to impress others. Perfectionize 2-3 songs that everyone knows and string their emotions so that you can play it at any moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 02:10 PM
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Reminds me of those youtube interview videos in which women are asked questions. When they are asked to rate themselves even fat girls will say they are a 7; which is completely baffling to me. How can you be fat or plain looking and still think you are well above average ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 02:00 PM
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It might not help much if you are ugly but if you are at least average looking getting a dog or learning an instrument and play some songs before a girl will bump you up so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 01:49 PM
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I still look very young. People who don't know me thought I was 22. Another girl thought I was still in high school. That's what makes it so depressing that women just have to look so old and bad after 30 unless they are that rare unicorn. I'm searching for a long-term relationship and I know parents would never accept it if their 22 yo daughter dates an ten years older man; even if he still looks young.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 01:40 PM
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It's depressing really. I have to look at celebrities to even think of women older than 30 years old I still find attractive enough for settling. All the stacies I went to school with 10-15 years ago look incredibly bad now compared with how they looked just a decade ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 01:34 PM
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As a 33 yo male it's incredible rare to come across a naturally beautiful woman around my age who had no cosmetic surgery; no tattoos; no makeup; good aging genes;... The dating pool has taken a big quality dump.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 01:25 PM
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True the dynamics change when a woman feels she has to settle to beat the biological clock. I'm talking about dating dynamics between 18-28.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 01:08 PM
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It's not like ugly or average men will suddenly become more handsome once they turn 30-35. It just means good looking men in their youth have a better chance to stay good looking at an older age compared to good looking women in their youth. The amount of good looking women I went to school with and who have now completely hit a brick at 30 years old is astonishing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 12:55 PM
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Yes it doesn't mean they will sleep with any guy who passes the 3 second test. There still needs to be chemistry or she actually has to like being around him. But the men who don't pass the 3 second rule will never have a chance with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 12:52 PM
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It's been a full 3-4 weeks by now. Would be pretty awkward if I did end up replying to her messages lol. For me it's about self-respect. My younger self would have gone to the rescheduled date but to cancel the date on the day itself because too tired or whatever is bullshit to me. I feel a lot of women have become to comfortable especially in online dating believing any man will put up with whatever games they are playing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 12:45 PM
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I 'm a man but women have a very strict three second rule. They can tell within 3 seconds if they MAY ever sleep with a guy or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 12:39 PM
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I had a second tinder date with a girl (first date went well). A couple of days prior to the second date she waited 2 full days to answer my last whatsapp message (said she was sorry because too busy). On the day itself she cancelled the second date saying she was feeling tired. I said OK get well but decided to complete ghost her after that point. She has sent me 4 messages after that (one of them asking to reschedule the date); trying to get my attention. The last message she sent was 2 weeks …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 12:30 PM
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If my girlfriend told me something like :”Henry Cavill is so hot I would totally do him. You don’t have to worry though I love you and I would never even meet him in the first place”I would dump her asap. What’s to say she wouldn’t cheat if she came across a new hot guy at work who is more attanainable than a celebrity but with the same good looks ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 11:01 AM
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Women having celebrity crushes is a big red flag and a reason to leave her imo. https://www.reddit.com/r/MaladaptiveDreaming/s/Zyyd5BJ0xv
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 10:45 AM
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If you had to pick one gender as the most shallow one without thinking : males or females ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 11:46 PM
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This girl actually has a funny profile. Gigachad only though. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:41 PM
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Plenty of women here or on other forums could help incels by dating one instead of that stupid bluepill advice
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:29 PM
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Went walking in the city. Could not make eyecontact with one girl because they all looked away when passing me. “Just wait for a girl to give you ioi’s bro”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:20 PM
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Classic blackpill clip. He even mogs her by 2 points. It’s so fucking brutal for men
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:08 PM
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She gave him her number but she didn’t seem very enthusiastic; just neutral. He was good looking but short though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:02 PM
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Everytime I go to the metropolitan city centre I see women randomly getting approached during the day; especially in coffeeshops or pubs. Is it like a social rule that it’s OK to approach women in coffeeshops ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 12:55 PM
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Women get inflated egos because of their success on dating apps but they don’t realize even the most subhuman woman gets plenty of matches. Men’s swiping strategy is to swipe right on everything. If women would do more research; compare their results to that of other women they would realize these matches bear no relation to their own desirability/looks league.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 11:38 AM
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You can have no or a shitty job and still have inherited money. I know poor people who go for the newest iphone; expensive cars they lease;… while some rich guys with old money are more humble. It doesn’t say much.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 10:37 AM
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Yes that’s a very low IQ. If she can’t do basic tasks she won’t understand the dynamics of dating and what she should have done to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 10:34 AM
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She must have never gotten on tinder though then. Yeah she won’t get approached by thirsty men in public but she would have more smv on tinder than the average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 09:58 AM
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A 42 male virgin could be real A 42 female virgin is a larp
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 09:56 AM
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I am. My N-count is very low and I always pay for the bill on dates
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 09:54 AM
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How are they going to know if you are rich or not before swiping you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 09:48 AM
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The ugly girls may know you will reject or ignore them so they treat you like crap or reject you before you have the chance to do that. It’s a “power move” out of insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 09:41 AM
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Men of the West find yourself a traditional woman abroad. Modern western women are a pain in the ass for relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 09:39 AM
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A lot of women see it as a favor from their part when they are willing to give you a chance and their time to date them. Ironically the prettiest (tinder) girl I ever dated was also the nicest. She brought me a box of chocolate because it was the last meeting before leaving the country. I felt bad I didn’t think of bringing a gift for her. Granted she was Argentinian and not western.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 09:29 AM
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Sub 5 men are already invisible to women. No need for buttons and magic for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 09:52 PM
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After sex androids women are also starting to rage at AI renditions of beautiful women whereas they are the ones with unrealistic expectations of what a man should look like. https://preview.redd.it/maibg5rpikyb1.jpeg?width=1179&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=03322481b3bb8eb2f86361a9abe8f864f1f82c0d
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 05:56 PM
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This is what an ideal woman should look like. No cazy lip injection; IG fakeness; just pure beauty https://preview.redd.it/svinshsaikyb1.jpeg?width=1179&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=2708608a7d19c15620f00b1baae19d1c718b30a5
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 05:53 PM
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If I was gay I could have had sex anytime I wanted. As an heterosexual male I’m nearing 30 and still a virgin. What a difference in life experiences..
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 01:53 PM
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So I would be good enough for social circle game (or any other setting that requires you to build rapport first with a girl before she can be into you) but not good enough for very looks-based places like tinder or nightclubs whereas ugly men wouldn’t even be good enough for social circle game ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 01:47 PM
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Despite getting no matches and being invisible to women I get a lot of matches and messages from gay men (like 100+ likes in a couple of hours I did as a test) and I sometimes get approached by them when I am standing alone for a while in a club. I went to a gay club once because someone from my social circle was gay and I got approached like 3-4 times. Maybe I give off the vibe that I am into men (I don’t believe so) but is this the closest experience non-chad men can have how it feels like jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 01:31 PM
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On female spaces celebrities like Ian Somerhalder; Jason Momoa and Chris Hemsworth are often cited to be very attractive. But imo it still doesn’t proof you don’t care about looks or aren’t shallow if you are willing to go a little lower on the looks echelon.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 01:15 PM
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It doesn’t. But there’s some value into searching to get as much info as possible. For example I now know the reason women aren’t lining up for me is because of my looks whereas if I didn’t do any research I might have thought there was something wrong or offputting about me because of my personality or who I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 01:08 PM
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Yeah but how is liking Ryan Gosling or Tom Holland proof that you don’t care about looks ? They still look way better than the average male on the street.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 01:00 PM
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I’ve heard women on female forums say the fact they find guys like Tom Holland or Ryan Gosling attractive as proof they don’t only care about looks or chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 12:52 PM
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Chadfishing experiments definitely are a legit source of info. It shows us the true nature of women when they are interacting with very attractive men; something most men will never experience even with their wives or girlfriends. Just because it’s in an online setting doesn’t make it fake or distorted. These are still real women clearly typing out their desire to fuck chad even if his bio has many red flags. If she would have met him in real life instead of online she would still have that same…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 12:41 PM
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It’s really annoying when a drunk wingman (or wingwoman) tries to set you up with women when you know they are just going to reject you and it will ruin your whole mood for the night. I had one drunk guy trying to set me up with another girl in our group (it was the first time I saw her); I told him please don’t because I knew she was going to reject me. He did anyway; I saw her looking at me; told something to the guy and he backed off and never told me what she said to him which was a clear si…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 11:35 AM
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Most women will never struggle to get male attention no matter what they look like so no you shouldn’t do this for the male gaze. Women do this to be healthy and compete with other women (female gaze) because they want to be the prettiest and get the hottest man. If you have a room full of average men and 1 chad all female attention will go to the chad; the prettiest girl will get the chad and the other girls will still not be attracted to the average leftovers. If you have a room full of averag…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 11:10 AM
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What’s the point of complaining about female beauty standards if men will be attracted to and date average women who don’t match those standards anyway ? I never heard of an average looking female struggle for male attention. Meanwhile average men go through life feeling invisible.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 11:02 AM
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You are acting like women are not creeping on hot IG male models. If not you should check the comments because women can be as horny as men. The points still stands it is way easier and attainable to become a female IG model than to become a male IG model.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 10:55 AM
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Female beauty standards are much more attainable than male beauty standards. They literally only have to put down the fork; get a healthy diet and do some basic cardio. Men need to be tall (preferably 6ft or taller) which is purely genetic. Outside of having a good diet; they need to lift weights 3-4 times a week and they need to take unhealthy steroids. Women don’t realize every hollywood action star or every IG male fitness influencer is juiced up; their bodies are not natural. The natty limit…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 10:33 AM
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Sure women are allowed to find 80% of men unattractive but what are her alternatives ? Become a lesbian or share chad withb twenty pther girls ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 10:25 AM
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Have any of you seen the dating show Average Joe ? It’s an old show but still on youtube I believe. Basically a girl thinks she will meet some hot desirable bachelors but instead she gets paired with a group of average men. She’s pissed off at the producers and even crying until a group of hot men enter the contest a couple of episodes later. She’s happy again and ends up choosing one of the chads while rejecting the average men one by one.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 10:22 AM
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What do you think about the theory of getting a dog to attract women ? My incel friend who hasn’t spoken to any girl for years recently got a dog and has been opened by a couple of girls (both dog owners and non) while walking around because they found the dog so cute. It seems like the dog de-creeped/uncreeped my unattractive incel friend. And would it be better to get a bigger dog as walking around with a tiny one might look a little feminine ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 10:12 AM
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Not saying you are nerdy but I a lot of men think they will suddenly by successful for going after the plain girl with glasses. She desires chad as much as any other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 10:01 AM
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Nerdy girls are the biggest chad chasers I found. They are absolutely not attracted to nerdy guys themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 09:52 AM
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I suggest you read this article if the topic interest you : https://www.bulknutrients.com.au/blog/muscle-building/what-is-our-natural-limit-of-muscle-growth# Yes you can still grow your muscles after 3 years of weightlifting but the effect will be very minimal and at that point it becomes more about maintaining your muscle mass instead of growing your muscles.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:51 PM
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Plenty of men are doing just that. Working out consistently to reach their natty potential after a couple of years. It’s a way better body than the average male population for sure but it won’t be enough to impress women because they have become desensitized by seeing all the roided bodies on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:44 PM
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No there are universal limits. Just like there are limits with human boob size or height (it’s very rare to come across a human with a freak height) there will also be limits with muscles unless someone takes enhancers. If there would be such a thing as height enhancers many men would be 6’8-6’9. Traps and delts were not made to be huge 3D muscles even with training just as humans were not made to be over 6’8 unless you cheat nature by taking something.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:32 PM
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It’s funnier when women think they can speak about male muscle potential when you know.. they don’t have a male body.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:17 PM
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Chris Hemsworth has been on huge doses of anabolic steroids for his role of Thor. Anyone denying this is coping.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 03:17 PM
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Nah it’s very obvious which women use make up or not; at least for any male who has already woken up next to a girl in the morning. It’s also easy to tell which women had boob jobs and lip injections compared to natural big boobs and full lips. Meanwhile women are completely clueless about roid use. They think men with a natural lean body have an average body; while men with average bodies have bad bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 03:08 PM
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Women will always say virgin males have no right to demand women with low n-counts even if a virgin would logically be more compatible with a girl who hasn't slept around. Don't demand logic and consistency from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 12:55 PM
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Who exactly laughs at that ? It's perfectly accepted women want a tall boyfriend and a guy who earns more than them; no matter their own height or salary. Men stating they want a younger girlfriend ? Big outrage from women and fenminist men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 12:49 PM
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There are billions of women on this planet. You think not a single one 25 to 30 years old isn't interested in pursuing a career and would like to start a family instead ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 12:39 PM
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Kinda,he is asking for a woman of that age to do something that he wouldn't do at that age. Just because I didn't want to do it at that age doesn't mean I have no right to search for women who want to do it at that age. Your reasoning makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 12:31 PM
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You're acting as if a 35 yo man is that much different from a 28-30 yo woman mentally. I don't see how that age gap will be a cause for more divorces. But fertility wise it makes a big difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 12:22 PM
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What he wants and what he actually gets doesn't matter. The fact that he states that he is searching for a younger girlfriend shouldn't be shamed by other; especially by women; regardless if he actually succeeds or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 11:49 AM
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Quality decreases but they can still have children that's my point. And a 70 years old could make a healthier child than a 25 years old male it's very individually based.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 11:22 AM
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FDS is a cesspool of mentally ill and ugly women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 11:17 AM
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A man who turned 35 and is serious about starting a family is not a misogynist or a creep for wanting a 5 to 10 years younger woman. He just understands basic biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 11:16 AM
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Their eggs completely dry up at 40. Men have sperm until their death. What don't you understand about that ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 11:14 AM
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Let alone it’s almost impossible to make a 40 years old woman pregnant. Yet I still come across many 40 years old childless women on tinder who are looking for a man to start a family with and I’m thinking JFL. Their desirability for any man wanting to have a family is practically zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:56 AM
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I expected this answer. Point still stands men CAN with healthy children still make women pregnant at any age. Women fertility declines at 30; rapidly declines at 35 and it stops at 40. Yeah I wonder why men are programmed to want a younger girlfriend ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:49 AM
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When I still went on tinder dates a couple of months ago I naturally payed for the bill. Now that I think of it most of my dates didn’t actually thank me for the dinner or free event. It’s like they found it so obvious that the man has to pay for her attention that it’s not even worth a small gesture of saying thank you. It doesn’t bother me as I didn’t even realize it at that moment but I know if someone is doing a favour for me I will be sure to show him or her my appreciation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:40 AM
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And it makes biological sense for a men wanting a younger girlfriend. Men can have children until they are very old; woman have a biological clock.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:27 AM
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Apparently yeah some women will tell you you are defective or a sicko for wanter a younger girlfriend. God forbid men are allowed to have some standards of their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:24 AM
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I made another post about this yesterday but this is another perfect example of women shaming men for having preferences despite women having many preferences and standards of their own. Why should men be shamed to the point of “not being a good person” for having the preference of wanting a younger woman while it’s perfectly OK for women to want a taller/richer/better looking boyfriend ? Are women that threatened by male standards ? https://preview.redd.it/s4scrsat3byb1.jpeg?width=1179&format=p…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:17 AM
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Those were 800 likes right after setting up the profile which was a couple of hours at most. After 3-4 weeks he would have 800 actual decent to hot looking girls to choose from and that's insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 01:59 AM
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Lmao but now you know why you didn't match with a girl or why she ghosted you; her attention went to chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 12:18 AM
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Online dating for chad is really life on god mode 800+ likes right after setting up the profile. I wouldn't even get that many likes during a whole lifetime jfl. How do you even select the girls you want to actually meet ? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E6leu1tLMWY
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 12:11 AM
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No it helps me with falling asleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 11:46 PM
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Chad never fails
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 11:43 PM
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Chad never fails
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 11:43 PM
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Women how do you feel about pooping/farting near your date/boyfriend/husband ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 11:28 PM
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The dating market IS trash if you have a dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 11:11 PM
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Oh yeah looked up the source of that image. That's indeed her brother. She's actually an Hollywood actress dating a chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 11:04 PM
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Looked up the source and he's her brother. She's actually an Hollwyood celebrity dating a chad lmao. https://freebeacon.com/culture/libs-are-furious-hot-girl-likes-republicans/
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 11:02 PM
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Non-city girls are less hypergamous. I always wondered why young men flocked to big cities thinking they will get laid more there.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 10:53 PM
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That or some hot traditional island girl. City girls are very overrated and promiscuous https://preview.redd.it/0gfmixfip7yb1.png?width=2364&format=png&auto=webp&s=5ec62aa69a89dd3ca162b461e8b15ea9e58980d7
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 10:51 PM
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I'd like me some hot traditional redneck republican girl https://preview.redd.it/hl3agdujn7yb1.jpeg?width=828&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=462f58f893b639fc09884ec4418e1919949461d1
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 10:40 PM
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Americans is it true all the hot people are living in the West or East coast bare for the occasional slim hot republican MAGA girl living in some redneck state ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 10:34 PM
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Women take creepshots of chad all the time. There are some IG pages of creepshots of chad in public transportation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 10:27 PM
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What do you even do when you are dating Bill Gates' daughter ? Pay for the bill assuming she could buy the whole restaurant right away with some pocket change ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 10:16 PM
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It's interesting how you can tell she's a stacy while not even seeing her face.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 10:11 PM
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I believe it is something seen as manly. I remember some women saying they get turned on when their guy helps them finish their own plate.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 10:08 PM
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I have to say I get a little annoyed when girls who I am dating barely eat something from their meal (like not even half of it) as I always pay for their meal lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 10:06 PM
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Women can say they want a big dick; tall guys; muscular men or no fat guys without any social repercussions. If I would say I don't want fat chicks or small boobs somewhere in my environment I would get cancelled very fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 09:32 PM
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Why are male preferences always deemed creepy and shamed ? I have no problem with women having preferences like tall guys; big dicks; beard or clean shaven or whatever but whenever a guy has one single preference he receives a whole list of tirades from the female gender. Man likes big boobs = "eww he's creepy and probably a misogynist" Man likes younger women = "eww he's creepy and can't handle real mature women" Man likes virgin women = "eww creep who wants to take advantage of her" Can't wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 09:20 PM
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But why are male preferences always deemed creepy ? Those girls are of legal age.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 09:11 PM
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I heard many women say they don't Leonardo Dicaprio anymore; even dislike him. Is that because he turned fat or because he has been very open about only wanting to date women in their early twenties ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 08:36 PM
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Q4W : What's your opinion on guys wearing glasses ? Especially for tinder pics or nightclubs ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 07:38 PM
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Aging affects women more than men because neotony is more important for female beauty. There is no female equivalent of the rugged handsome older guy because bone structure is more important for male beauty.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 05:23 PM
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What's the point in spreading the bluepill when there are scientific studies saying women decide within 3 seconds if they would sleep with a man or not ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 02:04 PM
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There are two rules for cold approaching : - be attractive - don't be unattractive It's all about what women see during those first three seconds (your face; body and height) I don't know why this is even a debate. If women would theoretically cold approach men I would never be bothered by a 9/10 or 10/10 girl approaching me; even if I'm in a hurry; in a bad mood or just minding my own business. If I had some important appointment within 5 minutes I would still respond friendly; have a brief con…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 12:16 PM
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Depends if you have autism/aspergers or just social anxiety/awkwardness. If it's the latter trial and error will fix that. If you have autism there is not much you can do as you'll never grasp social situations correctly.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 07:34 PM
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Yes you still have SMV. All women do as long as they have a pussy. But do you really feel like you can compete against younger pretty girls in their prime or your younger self when it comes to desirability; especially to chad ? Or the feeling you have the world at your feet because you are a young pretty girl ?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 07:27 PM
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That’s because they know women their age don’t want them so they just go for older women because they are less picky. You are deluded if you believe young men go for older women as a first choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:56 PM
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Why would you care about losing desirability to the opposite sex though if you’re married with children ? (unless you’re divorced by now)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:55 PM
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If that's you in your avi you are lying about men never having hit on you unless you only count chad doing it or you stay in your room most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:42 PM
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You're probably have a very closed personality and body language like walking very fast on the streets or looking at the ground. Men WILL approach you if you signal open communication and body language. Just make eyecontact or some other flirty gestures with men or go to a pub and order a drink alone/go to a nightclub and dance and someone is bound to hit on you. Just smile and signal you are happy and open for social contact; some women have a resting bitchface and that scares men away.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:37 PM
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True and it might go both ways. A man may find it tragic she doesn't look half as good anymore while looking back at her high school or college pictures. Or it might be a reason to admire her more because deep down she's still the same human as that beautiful prime stacy from 10-15 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:16 PM
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While women can certainly still be hot at 30; 40 and even 50 for me personally they lose that certain "glow" they have compared to when they are 18-25 years old. It's why at 30 years old I rarely develop a deep crush anymore on the women I am dating. I think they are attractive but that's it. I don't daydream about them at home like I did when I was younger and could date younger women. Things that make women attractive like soft glowing skin; facial fat; big sparkling eyes; thick pink lips; sma…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:53 PM
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Exactly. While women can certainly still be hot at 30; 40 and even 50 for me personally they lose that certain "glow" they have compared to when they are 18-25 years old. It's why at 30 years old I rarely develop a deep crush anymore on the women I am dating. I think they are attractive but that's it. I don't daydream about them at home like I did when I was younger and could date younger women. Things that make women attractive like soft glowing skin; facial fat; big sparkling eyes; thick pink …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:48 PM
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I don’t approach women because I know from my own experience of being around attractive men women will give out very obvious signals (like prolonged eye contact; smiling; playing with hair; standing close to you;..)when they want to get approached by a certain guy they see. If you don’t get those signals there is a very high probability she will reject your approach. And if you almost never get those signals well you’re not part of the small percentage of men women find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 04:03 PM
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She's more becky than stacy imo. They are looksmatched but she still wanted chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 10:48 PM
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From the recent high school movies or series I watched they cast actual teenagers now
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 08:39 PM
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You look good to me; definitely above average + fun social setting pic. I could only advise to bulk up a little. You could definitely get pretty girls IRL but it seems you already got lucky by meeting one rare unicorn through tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 07:02 PM
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It's rare to meet a girl above your league lookswise through online dating; definitely an exception or you underrate yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 06:33 PM
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Just saw this movie for the first time and this is by far one of the most redpilled scenes I have seen : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zHY93RaSWf4
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 04:11 PM
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If men have a good bone structure and don't lose their hair while taking care of themselves they can look good well into their 50's. Women no matter how much they take care of themselves will lose their neotenous features and collagen while aging. For men facial bone structure is more important for being handsome and that doesn't go away with age as long as they don't get out of shape. Of course men already have to look good from a young age to look like a silver fox later in life. But I'm sayin…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 03:40 PM
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Women will become less attractive after 30 yo. In fact even after 23 yo (last year of college) I'd say most women start losing their looks already compared to their 18-20 yo prime; some more noticable than others. They still have a lot of SMV though even at 50 yo they can just make a tinder profile and get offers from men. But strictly speaking about face and body yes they hit the wall after college. All my ex-GF's looked better when I saw their facebook high school and college pics. Of course I…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 03:10 PM
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They are more visual because only the best looking men can arouse them sexually. You think all those women settling with their average looking boyfriends are sexually attracted to them ? If men can get horny for even ugly or fat girls that means they are not visual; they have a high sex drive which is something entirely different than being visual. Women have a low sex drive so looks in men is the primary factor in what can activate that sex drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 12:43 PM
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"women are less visual" Stopped reading here. Women go absolutely primal when around a guy they find very good looking without even knowing him.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 12:24 PM
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If most men worldwide are under 6 feet why is 6ft the "standard" for being the acceptable minimum height ? We all know women often use the magical number 6 threshold for online dating; automatically weeding out majority of men. For pure analogy that's like men saying women should have at least a C cup size even though the average cup size globally is between large A and smaller B. Men are not less attractive than women. It's only that for some reason we are held to much higher standards. Women h…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 06:01 PM
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Again that makes no sense. “If you are looking for an average woman that woman is overweight”. Like wtf are you even trying to say. An overweight women is NOT average looking. She’s below average looking because her face won’t be average looking due to the excess fat. A girl can be thin and fit and still be average looking or below on the looks scale due to not having above average or exceptional facial features just as a man can be muscular but still average looking or below. A male or female c…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 02:22 PM
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That doesn’t make sense. They are still average looking as in having an average face with a good body. The top 5% of girls are stacies with beautiful feminine faces; the ones that make your head turn around. Yeah those are out of reach to me unless I win the lottery.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 11:41 AM
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Are you saying not wanting fat girls as an average but otherwise fit guy is having too high standards ? As an average looking guy who does sports and goes to the gym I would be perfectly happy with an average looking sporty girl. But guess what those average girls are going after the top 5-10% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 11:24 AM
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The problem is not so much women caring about looks. Almost all humans do. The real problem is that women only find a small percentage of men good looking. And there is not that much variety in what women consider attractive features in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:58 PM
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1 out of 3 men are not having any sex during their prime years in which they are supposed to have careless fun and/or discover what they really want sexually or romantically. Brutal. At least they can look forward to dating those same girls who are ignoring them now in 10 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:40 PM
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If men had some more self-respect and not have the desire to fuck anything that moves with a vagina the dating scene would become more balanced again. Now we have older or overweight women think they can land a decent guy just because he wanted easy sex; we have average women think they can land chad because he wanted sex without any effort. It's too easy to blame it on nature. I have some self-constraint. I know which league I'm in and I will only go after women who are also in that same league…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:00 AM
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You are probably trolling but the redpill is that the real results wouldn't be that different from what you are pretending; it would just be less exaggerated. But a granny would still get more matches; first messages and sex offers than a (below) average young male on tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 07:52 AM
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This goes with everything tbh. There is just a wider variety of what is considered a physically attractive female compared to what is considered a physically attractive male. A girl with glasses : sexy secretary; shy and cute A guy with glasses : weak and beta
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 12:37 PM
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Yes I see more and more couples where the man is the more attractive one whereas 10 years ago it was the other way around. Also even for looksmatched couples you have to take into account the makeup bump almost all women get. Overall I say the male is physically the better looking one in most modern relationships when judged during the morning right after waking up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 07:18 AM
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Lol well yeah that sucks. Could you elaborate what signs the girl was giving you for you to interpret it as interest ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:21 AM
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Unless you have difficulty reading social cues you will surely notice the difference between women giving a friendly smile to an elderly person and women giving "the eye" or the flirty look/smile to a guy they find good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:05 AM
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"It sounds like you did the soft looksmaxing and are disappointed that women aren't throwing themselves at you. " So here you are admitting soft looksmaxing doesn't make any difference. And you are right; women still don't throw themselves at me (OK I know they rarely approach men directly but they still don't give me any IOI's) despite me being the best version of myself within the realm of possibility. If I want to go further I will have to take steroids; get multiple face surgeries; leg lengt…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:04 PM
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Clothes; makeup; diet; gym... that's all soft looksmaxing and very easy to do if you are not completely lazy. And even then overweight women are still being told big is beautiful. When men are being told to improve we are not speaking about stuff like getting better clothes or better haircare. It's about more fundamental stuff like getting a better jaw; more height; a bigger dick; a better face; a roided body; a more extroverted personality; no sign of autistic behavior etc. If all I had to do i…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:55 PM
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Yes obviously you need to be able to distinguish between real interest and the fake kind of interest (like the one she does when she wants you to do her homework or pay for something). But I believe any guy who is not on the autism spectrum should be able to make that distinction.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:44 PM
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I can walk around a busy city centre for a whole day and not have one girl make eyecontact with me. That tells me enough about where I stand.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:42 PM
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Yes but at the very least it tells you that you pass her looks test. Women are not going to risk feigning attraction towards someone they are not physically attracted to; which is why they almost never make eyecontact or smile at men passing them on the street; unless it's the rare guy they find good looking. As soon as women see my face they immediately look to the ground or sideways. And I'm being told I just have to approach them LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:34 PM
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Contrary to popular belief women are the ones who make the first move. By giving out IOI's (things like eyecontact; a smile; playing with hair; light touches; standing nearby;...) they are effectively telling the guy it is OK to approach her. Repeated or prolonged eyecontact is the most usual one. Approaching a woman without first receiving any kind of IOI will end up in rejection unless you are good looking and she just didn't see your face yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:24 PM
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Because the first thing men who struggle to get sex or a relationship are told is to "improve". They aren't told to ask out more women; they are told to become better versions of themselves; making it sound like the current version of themselves is not good enough to get women which in turns demotivates them to ask out more women. And beyond some basic stuff like hygiene and sports it is extremely hard to improve your physical appearance to the point your face goes up from below average to avera…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:41 PM
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That's not the right way to look at it. Men are attracted to both short; medium and tall women. We just go for women shorter than ourselves because we know women are very shallow about height. Every guy knows he's gonna get rejected by asking out a taller girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:15 PM
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I’m not specifically into the whole milf thing. It’s just that I tend to only match older women on tinder next to overweight or plain ugly women. So I prefer older but average looking women over the 2 other categories. If I could actually match and set up a date with an average looking girl around my age I would do that. Online dating is rigged for men imo and I don’t bother approaching women in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:06 PM
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I said they were 5-15 years older than me. I am 32 yo myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 02:36 PM
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I mean they are biologically programmed to do this. Dating apps or any environment with a lot of men and women like nightclubs are just a manifestation of that (majority of men competing for the attention of ANY girl; while majority of women competing for the attention of the TOP males). Can I blame women for following their biological instincts ? I don't know but sometimes it can feel very frustrating as I'm only human myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:46 AM
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4 seems strangely low. I lost my virginity at 27 years old; had to face many rejections and still am very undesirable to majority of women and even my sex count stands at 4 right now. I still feel incel but if those stats are legit I am also starting to feel like a casanova lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:42 AM
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I know for a fact most women in relationships are not sexually attracted to heir boyfriend or husband. There is enough data about women only finding 5-10% of men physically attractive. You think all those women in relationships lucked out and got to catch the 5% they are attracted to ? Settling is a real thing hence the "dead bedroom" expression. It doesn't mean those men aren't getting any sex from their GFs or wives; it means that she is staying for other reasons than the sexual part of the re…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:30 AM
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If I was born as my female version (that would make me a 5-6/10 woman) I would probably do what most of them do out of biological urge : sleep with men out of my league in the hope that one will want something long-term with me. If it works out and we fall in love and he doesn't cheat; great. If not I will have to settle with a more average male in my league eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:16 AM
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I never said women owe anything to average looking men. I am just saying it is understandable from their point of view why they eventually develop a bad attitude and why it is frustrating for them to keep hearing their personality or low confidence is the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:26 AM
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You need to scrap all the escort and 'dead bedroom' sex (GF or wife settling with a guy she is not really sexually attracted to) from those numbers imo. Women settling with a guy they wouldn't have given a chance during their prime is like the majority of sexual relationships after 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:18 AM
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And yet you still fuck them and hope they will commit; even when you can sense the pump and dump coming from a mile away hoping it will be different "this time". Ever thought about the fact those average men giving off frustrated; incel energy vibes didn't start out that way but only became like that after their consistent lack of success ? Women will then say it's because of their bad attitude or lack of confidence but neglect those men were also not successful BEFORE they even became frustrate…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:56 AM
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Because women can sense a bad personality lol. That's why women want to fuck good looking scumbags like Jeremy Meeks or they keep falling for the pump and dump fuckboy. The reason average men don't get laid consistently is because of looks only. Let's not pretend women have some sixth sense regarding personality. It's well known women tend to ignore all obvious red flags when dealing with a good looking guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:42 AM
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I would count myself as average looking and I had sex for the first time at 27 years old; first kiss at 24 or 25 yo during my last year of university. Never got any real female attention before that. The 3-4 women I have been to bed with were also all 5-15 years older than me. I rarely match a girl my age or younger on dating apps. It sucks that I missed out on teenage love while in high school and college sex but I never had the looks to pull it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:32 AM
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IMO it's safer to have no tattoos at all. My reasoning : girls who like or don't mind tattoos are not going to be turned off if you don't have any tattoos and they like the rest of you. And they are also not specifically going to be turned on by them if they don't like the rest of you. But girls who don't like tattoos (because they think it's trashy/low class/something else) might be turned off by them; especially if you have lots of them or very visible ones So you have nothing to gain by havin…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 06:16 PM
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Yes maybe it's more like the top 0,1% or even less. Some women on reddit mentioned they only come across like 1 or two guys a year they find physically attractive enough to the point they are rendered speechless and weak. And that is when they start to behave like men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 12:01 PM
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You are probably not as attractive as you think you are. You can send your picture in PM and I can rate you. From the sound of it you are above average; but not someone women would categorize as hot at first sight. There is a difference between being simply handsome/good looking to women but not the the point you can activate their primal side which is something only the top 0.5-2% of men can do. I have known a couple of top 1% males (white; tall; good build; pretty face; blue eyes; dark hair;..…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 10:02 AM
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Very legit. And women still have the nerve to call men shallow and picky because we don't want to date overweight girls. I read a post on reddit about an overweight woman complaining men only wanted to date her once she was skinny and that's why she became very picky herself and only want tall guys. She didn't consider you can change weight rather easily but you cannot change height.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 09:49 AM
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For someone who has analyzed facial aesthetics for near a decade on redpill forums I can say this girl is NOT above average. She is not even average. Despite tons of make-up and filters her face is rather plain and her coloring is boring. Her lower third is too masculine. Her eyes are too big and the shape is odd (fish eyes). Her eyebrows are too thick for her face. She looks very masculine overall and her facial ratios are off.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 01:07 PM
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Contrary to popular belief I believe women are more susceptible to look at male models/prettyboys on IG/tiktok and lose their attraction to more average and realistic looking males whereas men can look at pornstars/hot IG girls/... and still retain their attraction to average or normal looking women. Growing up I remember society told me it was the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 01:24 PM
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I agree about looks > personality but women won’t actively chase after a guy with an average face but muscular body. Thar’s a gymcel fantasy. Face > height > body.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 09:22 AM
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I think getting into a relationship with a girl who wouldn't want to have a one night stand with you is very bad advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 01:43 PM
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I don't know about that one. It is typically women who sent love letters to convicted but attractive serial murders; rapists... and let's not forget Jeremy Meeks who got bailed out of jail by women all over the world sending him money. I have never heard of a female criminal getting money sent by men but I could be mistaken. And even then men simp for almost anything female. Women do not. So the fact women are very selective about who they are willing to simp or send money to and they still choo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 11:01 PM
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Plenty of women say that but they never actually fuck them. At least this is from my own anecdotal evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 10:35 PM
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I have done catfishes with male models. Girls with "no ONS" in their bio were as sexually receptive as girls without it. So it just means : "No sex unless you are exceptionally hot"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 12:00 PM
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