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I so get this. If having sex is like scratching an itch, it's not the kind of experience worth even going out for. To feel desired, however, especially by someone who is more than a stranger, is not just satisfying—it makes you feel worthy of desire. The whole experience is important, and while courtship is always fought against I think it is undeniably attractive. For this reason it just doesn't seem to really make me feel any better off to hear "yeah well by default it's easy for you"—what I w…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 09:05 PM
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Sometimes posts on here really come across as though those shitty frat movies from the early 2000s had a much larger impact on beliefs about young people and sex than they should have lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 02:51 PM
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I wouldn't turn this conversation into a generalization, especially considering how it almost seems like a matter of some girls being a little naive and uninformed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/18 10:19 PM
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"I just don't think you're attractive and don't know if I ever will see you that way,"~me, to my current bf like a week before I started dating him. It really wasn't that hard for me to become super attractive to him as i got to know him. So I doubt whether people who don't fit within a certain society's standards of beauty will actually have that low of a chance—unless they have a ridiculously specific type that usually comes with a lack of openness and a belief in a code that demands a very na…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 10:07 PM
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Yeah, I guess that's pretty true. Interestingly enough, I always test at the highest for openness and agreeableness, but my bf has tested consistently at the lowest for these things. He is incredibly analytical and is probably really good in his field(philosophy) because he uses arguments and not sentiments or emotions to understand why certain things are bad(ie hurting someone lol). This requires an interest in finding every argument's flaw that a lot of people like incels seem to struggle with…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 05:48 PM
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There are parameters considered objective in attraction, but this doesn't mean that lacking them or having what are considered opposites will necessarily mean no one will find you attractive. It's relationships like these(I love Julia btw) that prove there is something more to attraction than the raw, physical nature of it. Obviously, something between Paul and her sparked an intense excitement that seems to go beyond initial attraction between very attractive people Imo. A really important thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 05:10 PM
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that's why the ministry of alpha affairs sets protein rations for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 03:43 PM
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It's like they are speaking a different language that only happens to look the same I'm now trying to imagine a TRP Empire where everyone speaks the red pill dialect and ID's divide people into assholes and nice guys lol "Nice guy, I see you violated code 6942 by stepping into Stacey's frame 3 times within the year. Your score is too low to buy this hot pretzel. Gain some muscle if you wanna come back, beta cuck"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 03:06 PM
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"We have so many people who can't see a fat man standing beside a thin one without coming to the conclusion the fat man got that way by taking advantage of the thin one." The "political is personal" mantra has doomed us to conclude that everything is a question of politics, even before any discourse is made. When values formerly pursued by society are suddenly believed to be each individual's own made up narrative, the only "truth" in postmodern society is politics. The biggest problem with call…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/18 03:47 PM
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that's not what I'm talking about. That didn't used to spread through the upper classes before. Now it's mainstream and treated like it's no biggie. That's different, at least in my opinion. Also people Ik who weren't low class, had stable families, and yet again never "messed with the wrong crowd" are od'ing and dying younger and younger. It definitely has made the people I know of the same fucking background and age feel closer to death. That shit has effects on your mental health. So perhaps …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/18 12:20 PM
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maybe drinking but not alcoholism.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/18 12:07 PM
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white bread middle class 14 year old alcoholic? I highly doubt that would not have been an outlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/18 12:07 PM
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yeah I def think that it's a giant combination of stuff and not just abuse of anything per se. Mental health services, in my experience, have not been helpful and people think of them as waaaay more perfected than they are, but I know more about them in lieu of addiction. Which is shit. Especially rehab, which is utter shit. I never wanted to believe that, but this idea of a mental health safety net for addicts in my country has proved to be bs in my experience. That's where you go to learn abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/18 12:06 PM
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also the amount of acceptance for hard drugs and pot is increasing alongside the tolerance for using at younger ages. I think it's all part of a larger epidemic but I doubt my brother would have OD'd as young as he did if he was born earlier given our social class and the fact that he also never really went out of his way to look for drugs. "Poor areas" anywhere and especially the city are always going to be the epicenter, but I'm not talking about the epicenter here. I'm talking about societal …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/18 11:52 AM
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Imo nothing was at the level of intensity it is now, or as prevalent(not to say it wasn't prevalent) in normal middle class families for kids to start using at 14. I don't think people shooting up at 14 are really the same as kids getting drunk though both situations are dangerous
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/18 11:46 AM
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tfw feminism actually prevents most women from being able to choose not to work and now everyone is taking too much xans/posting cat pics to insta I'm only a sophomore in college but almost every fellow college girl at my job(more business-resume-oriented) has to have a daily vent about the lifestyle choices they actually seem really unhappy about making, using stats from their intro to psych classes about how evil it is to have kids as a way to make up for something they really seem to feel a n…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/18 04:50 AM
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I think in order to be beyond what is commonly referred to as nature one must actually come to peace with it because it will never leave you. "Tradition" can mean a lot of things—in the sense I assume you mean, tradition refers to building the nuclear family and seeking virtues that will benefit it. I think this concept of "tradition" itself is meaningless alone but with belief can lead to many routes. For instance, if one was led to believe by family and society that living this tradition is th…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 08:36 PM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 04:38 AM
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I think you're gonna believe what's easier to believe no matter what anyone tells you 20F and want to marry my boyfriend ASAP
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 12:12 AM
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This attitude that there's something wrong with you if you aren't fucking when you're super young is agonizing to people growing up today. Like I get that repression isn't good either but I felt constantly surrounded by people screwing only because they felt like they had to in highschool and that is so unhealthy and even worse for people who "couldn't" get laid. Society is hypersexual and no amount of sex ed is going to reduce the apathetic response
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 12:07 AM
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an ex of mine was a lot shorter than me(I'm 5'6) so every time we got close in any way it was like...being with a toddler?? Like I didn't care that much but it definitely made me feel like I was momming(I don't even know how to describe it) him at some times when I'd have to look down into his face which wasn't enough to make me unattracted but paired with other things felt kind of weird sometimes. I think if he was a more assertive person(he was really passive aggressive and acted so much like …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/18 06:30 PM
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I love Jonathan Haidt. I agree with so many of his points. I think there is a similar buzz for liberals who protest and go to rallies, but due to the fact that these events are usually for expressing emotion rather than engaging in discourse I don't think that buzz is going to be exactly the same. Also, it's interesting that most "Conservative" events where I live never come without a desire for argument—it's never just right wing. I find that a lot of the current marches and protests are a way …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/18 04:53 PM
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as far as finding trumpy guys attractive goes, I don't really think anyone finds the stereotypical MAGA guy hot, but it is very exciting to meet a person or group of people who are both rational and open to my ideas, which is very rare where I live. Ironically, going to a talk where someone hailed as "alt-right" is speaking makes me feel thrilled, like I'm part of something actually revolutionary(Idk how to make this not sound really dumb sorry lol) I have to pretend to not be pro-life or pro-gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/18 04:19 PM
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As a 20 year old wamen, I find myself and most people I know who are my age overshadowed by a vocal minority when it comes to outrage. The most radical feminists and lefties I know are in my parents' generation. They shun young people who don't fit their narrative, acting like it's unthinkable for a 20 year old girl to not want to get drunk and fucked all the time, while trying to make it seem like no man is safe. I actually feel more attacked by those people than anyone else because I don't wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/18 04:08 PM
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I'm not saying she won't see a guy as super. If it was a question of a virgin wanting to lose virginity and not be in a committed relationship then it would be different, obvs, but I'm saying she may think she'd be comfortable with something like sleeping with other people in a ltr, but after discovering what a committed and sexual relationship is like might realize she wasn't as okay with that as she thought. If I wanted to be in a ltr with someone who let me see other people, I wouldn't want t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/18 04:02 PM
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Do you think it's really wise to get into a relationship with someone unused to navigating sexual boundaries? You're gonna have to deal with discovering what your partner's okay and not okay with as they discover it. It's easy when you've never had sex to agree to things that you don't even know you won't be okay with yet. I think if you want to be serious with someone as their first, you've got to agree to meet their malleable conditions more for a while as they're still learning what works and…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/18 02:29 PM
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If you don't communicate your standards, expectations, and even desires at the beginning of/before a commitment and also ask to know your partner's, then you and the other person are operating under invisible terms and boundaries. If you want to have sex with other people while in a supposed ltr then you either make sure you aren't violating previously stated conditions or sink to being a liar and cheater. If you want to be "allowed" to cheat while assuming your partner wouldn't be okay with it,…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/18 02:19 PM
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yikes, didn't even think about that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/18 09:21 PM
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"Hey girl I know you're uninterested but this little guy pooping in my arms is basically a dog but capable of sentience so please give me a break"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/18 08:54 PM
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yeah, I see it like that, too. I understand some dads are living the struggle but when they use their kids like reassuring props is when I don't feel too much sympathy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/18 08:45 PM
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none of these guys were cute IMO, and I didn't just think every guy with kids was up to something, but I understand that it's probably a little much to ask that everyone simply accept my observations upon reading them. I think what you described sounds shitty but it doesn't account totally for the full picture in the dining room—really well put insight, though. Cluelessness and insecurity I get, my dad saw me rarely as a kid but when he did we made home vhs vids of the interactions for fun and b…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/18 08:42 PM
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thats true sometimes, and I take my point back though I still don't agree with the initial generalization of the south, because what it comes down to is something we can't generalize—mostly anecdotal
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/18 08:37 PM
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damn, single moms on the lookout
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/18 08:36 PM
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jesus. that's scary dude
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/18 06:05 PM
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have you actually seen a really young girl into this? To me and my female coworkers(even the really lower class ones with no desire to move upwards) it seemed really out of touch
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/18 05:50 PM
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understandable lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/18 05:32 PM
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haha seriously? The south was the last place to accept working mamas I'm sure. We were homemaker central, especially in my town—a college town(very progressive btw) where it's normal to marry a prof and live at home or some shit
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/18 05:29 PM
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the dog is the guitar of living chick magnets
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/18 05:28 PM
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out of interest, what part of TRP do you think would recommend this?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/18 05:26 PM
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I don't mind that kind of thing, and see it all the time. A guy trying to have a good time with his kid making a joke or something to me was very appreciated in such a shitty job. I guess the line is not always clear, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/18 05:25 PM
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IDK HOW HE FOUND IT!!! I was so scared. After he left a comment on it I saw him when I was at work and wanted to hide but I was the only cashier and the managers didn't have time to care. So glad I quit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/18 05:22 PM
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pretty sad stuff!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/18 05:21 PM
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i understand there are single dads out there not pulling this shit at all and certainly not every guy holding a toddler is using it as a misinformed pussy magnet attempt but if you saw a dude constantly asking for stuff they could get themselves and inserting weird flirty comments while holding up their baby with a strange sense of pride("look at how good i am at this")/inserting their kid into blatantly flirty comments somehow then you'd see a guy who is willfully using his kids. And the weirde…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/18 05:19 PM
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if you do ever interact with someone like this, you will start seeing it more. I bet it's worse in shopping malls, too. But yeah I didn't consider that maybe they didn't want the kids to hang around
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/18 04:19 PM
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I guess the women who fell for these guys just didn't catch that it's sort of an act, then. That's kind of scary lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/18 04:17 PM
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those are all pretty much what I thought of it, too, but there were so many of these guys. It was like a Zaxby's conspiracy up in there
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/18 04:11 PM
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yeah, I guess that's true too lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/18 03:42 PM
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he did too, I guess. RIP
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/18 03:38 PM
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when i worked at fast food chicken hell as a nineteen year old girl, all the other young people viewed the older cooks(some of whom were really just nice guys doing more successful shit on the side) as creepy. One guy who was in his forties was really nice but hit on me a lot. I just smiled and laughed usually, trying not to further it. I knew he was actually a sweet dude. He ended up walking out one day, and all the younger people started saying shit that just wasn't true. They called him a whi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/18 03:24 PM
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getting rejected/broken up with in a fuck ass job is pretty awkward tho
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/18 02:56 PM
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I'd be careful about this, I don't think it's a great idea to go after coworkers. That being said, I would recommend finding whatever she's interested in(hopefully find an intersection within her and your own interests) and propose to do something related to said interest with you. Like a movie or some shit. This shows you're interested in her beyond physicality and also offers a shield from looking too much like a blatant date—rather it's more of a "thought you might be interested, too" kind of…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/18 02:26 PM
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When my current bf first messaged me, my reaction was not much more than an eye roll. My first message to him was literally just "Oh buoy"(yeah, a nautical pun—I'm such a catch). I could not find really muscley guys attractive at all, so I really genuinely felt nothing physically for him. I also knew jack shit about Brazil except for the favelas so I was pretty apprehensive in talking to him. At one point he sent me a picture and I just responded by saying something like "I just can't pretend I …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 10:02 PM
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while I agree with some of this, I also think women will automatically find these qualities in guys with a lot of money who are otherwise maybe a little slobbish or unattractive upon hearing they're wealthy. Not that the money itself is what's attractive, but that hearing this guy who seems like a loser is actually pretty successful might make a lady think "what am I not seeing?" and after thinking this start "seeing" what wasn't there before. i might even go further as to say hearing a guy who …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 02:09 PM
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