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I agree! I never think of former partners. In fact anything casual was really bad sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/15 11:09 PM
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No. They do NOT know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/15 11:04 PM
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Hmm. I know a few women who are proud of their high number.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/15 11:03 PM
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He wanted to stay home with the kids and cook/clean. He told me this from the beginning.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/15 08:01 PM
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So you work 55 hours a week and he takes care of the house? (which was our plan, I work, he cleans the house and cooks meals ... But it doesn't happen) Or do you work, cook and clean? If your husband stays at home doing no housework or meal prep and you do everything, how does he make you feel cared for?
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/15 07:42 PM
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What do they warn them about?
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/15 07:22 PM
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It is! Because I am in the provider role. I would rather it not be but TRP says it matters a lot right, the role reversal? If I was posting on relationships or twoX then it would irrelevent. But I was led to believe that my salary mattered so much by the trp more than anything. To me it's become an albatross. I'm not proud of choosing the wrong way in my life, I fell victim to the whole "be a strong independent woman, get a career, show you don't need men, because men respect that."
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/15 07:21 PM
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Again. How? I'm not bitchy or aggressive or mannish in my behavior.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/15 07:15 PM
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Cept' I'm not at all shrewish. I'm playful, funny and sexual. Thats the opposite of a shrew.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/15 07:12 PM
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I am having trouble stating the "alpha" character traits I have plainly that relate to OP's post without you interpreting it as bragging. I'm not sure how to fix that for you.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/15 06:15 PM
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Are you not trying to do the same? To prove that I'm some super bitchy arrogant harpy? I'm not. That's all I can say.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/15 06:12 PM
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My man refers to me as sweet. But he also says I am distant at times.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/15 06:01 PM
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I at no point shit tested or claimed to know it all. I applied some basic adjectives based on the fact that I make 200k, am financially sustainable on my own, have a high range IQ and am probably not a gargoyle. I wasn't saying this is good, or great or I'm fabulous. I think you interpreting this as bragging is maybe projecting what our feminist society would say are good things to be. Since this is RPW the only positive trait as far as attracting an alpha man would be not being ugly/fat. I don'…
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/15 05:57 PM
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These are facts... I DONT THINK THESE ARE POSITIVE TRAITS. Why would I brag about something that I don't consider a positive trait in a woman? How should I describe myself in order to paint an accurate picture?
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/15 05:45 PM
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What's my stereotype? I'm guessing "bitchy career woman?" I'm not a bitchy hard line ball buster. I'm told I'm nice and very easy to get along with and I really use humor a lot. I'm feminine in appearance. I'm not overtly aggressive with people. I don't know. Is there another stereotype you might be thinking of?
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/15 05:36 PM
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How is she supposed to give a clear picture if she doesnt describe what happens? Isn't this a negative trait she's defining in herself?
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/15 05:30 PM
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I didn't say no man. It's the men I choose and I said they "appear alpha". Clearly, they weren't alpha if I was able to take the reigns so easily. I have no idea how else to explain what happens and I tried to state it as factually as possible, if I left out those facts of my personality, career, behavior I didn't feel I would accurately describe the situation. If I was bragging I would phrase it "I am beautiful, rich and brilliant, thats why few men can keep up with me and have little to offer …
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/15 05:27 PM
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Bragging? To me bragging is claiming that any of the above facts makes me better somehow. If you're interpreting it as bragging I'm curious why? I clearly state my situation and how it has a negative effect on my life and you interpret it as bragging?
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/15 04:23 PM
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I see a woman opening up about her flaws and not bragging.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/15 01:26 PM
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Restless and edgy. Exactly. It feels exhausting suppressing all my needs and deferring to a plan I find inferior or non existent.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/15 01:25 PM
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Wow. Hi. I constantly struggle with this as well. So much of the RP makes sense to me but I don't fit into the female stereotype that its being applied to. I'm successful, high income, off the charts libido, intelligent and I tend to have people fall in line behind me in life. I turn men who appeared alpha into betas. I dont respond to dread game, I have always USED dread game myself. I nexted any guys who tried to play games or didnt respond to me with what I deemed enough interest ot bored me.…
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/15 01:21 PM
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Right. I just get kinda bitter when i read about all these ravenous men and I never end up with any of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/15 08:16 PM
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In mine it is 100% my boyfriend who is the gate keeper :(
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/15 08:00 PM
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Maybe most men. I have yet to meet one who matches mine. I have a few female friends who have the higher libido in their relationships as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/15 07:59 PM
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When I was young I just wanted to succeed and pursue my intellectual passions. As I get older I find myself more sentimental and just wanting to love and be loved.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/15 07:45 PM
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Are you referring to birth control?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/15 04:59 PM
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What list?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/15 04:58 PM
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And. They. Shouldn't. They should take care of themselves without fearing having to pay more to utilize health services that should be a basic right to everyone regardless of gender, health status, race. How is that not getting through to you? African americans have higher rates of hypertension. Charge them more because they might need more care? You have a family history of cancer. Charge you more? You MIGHT get cancer. Same foolish slipperly slope logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/15 04:40 PM
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Because their also the reproductive choices of men who choose to have children? Why as a woman do I have support a single man who didn't take care of himself or visit the doctor for years then needed bypass surgery? Oh! Because I hopefully live in a civilized society that supports it's citizens by offsetting the financial burden of medical care through a socialized system that makes medical care a right, not a privilege. If you think your mom should have gone into debt to birth you... She probab…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/15 04:32 PM
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Holy fuck, I understand the concept. Did you read anything I wrote about why thats ridiculous? You know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/15 04:03 PM
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Are you a man? If yes, let me tell you every female I know who we have talked about it with owns a vibrator. I've gone to several sex toy parties where women purchase them. The host always makes a killing. Thats how much we love them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/15 03:59 PM
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I know, personally, I always have the higher sex drive then the men I date. But since AWALT I must be a unicorn!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/15 03:57 PM
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I think you might wanna check the definition of "fact".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/15 03:54 PM
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Sure, they can point it out. You'd agree though that there's this dual disapproval for women who are dedicated to career AND for women who "leech off of men, want alimony/child support in a divorce" It seems like there's a paradox in what RP really thinks women should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/15 03:49 PM
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I actually have no idea what you mean. You're saying women should be charged more for health insurance because they may reproduce and are the child bearers? I actually support universal healthcare so you won't get me to agree for sliding scale fees based on gender or ability to reproduce regardless. I suspect if men actually went to the doctor when they were ill and for routine care more frequently you would see higher dollar usage equality anyways... we should be encouraging men to take care of…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/15 03:44 PM
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Because the unemployed 30 year old women are providing a service with keeping house and childcare maybe they're a bit more palatable than the dude playing WoW.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/15 11:27 AM
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So... Your saying... your release of sperm into a vagina is not your choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/15 11:25 AM
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Yeah... Sex is the most important part of my relationship. I mean I of course value other things but sex is my favorite part.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/15 03:49 AM
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Holy fuck. No. I was being facetious. And women who post cock pics should be held legally accountable
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/15 01:36 AM
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According to above poster if we charged women more for healthcare men would just be paying for it anyways right? And women totally should foot the entire cost of childbirth, cause we asexually reproduce and all. Men have nothing to do with children being born. At all. Wat.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/15 01:35 AM
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Of COURSE, womens healthcare costs more. We bear children and actually GOTO the doctor when we're sick. Men avoid the doctor until they have a massive three vessle MI. I say that with only a marginal grain of salt. I just get this mixed message from the RP. "Fuckin career bitches, stay home and watch the kids and keep house." "fucking lazy bitches trying to leech of their husbands and take all their assets." If you don't want women to be successful and career/money oriented on par with men then …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/15 12:47 AM
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And fun fact! Unemployed men spend more of their time on leisure activity while unemployed women spend it on caretaking and housework.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/15 12:30 AM
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Well... Women account for 47% of the US workforce. So it's pretty evenly split as far as supporting the unemployed single people of either gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/15 12:28 AM
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Except if he's a professional. Who sent them to a girl he assumed would be the only one seeing them. And if you think a professional guy with a great career and public image wouldn't send a cock pic you have no idea about men and their cock pic distribution, it knows no boundaries. I guess the thing is, women don't really care about cock pics. They have little market value. Women don't put cock on a pedestal like men do with pussy. So maybe that's why women dont generally post revenge porn cock …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/15 12:19 AM
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Yet how many idiot men send cock pics? Yet how many women post revenge cock pictures?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/15 11:22 PM
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Sure. But what you're talking about is the exact opposite of professional women being high earners, right? I wasn't sure how your comment related to the article. Or what your point was. Would you prefer women attain financial stability through the support of men? Or through prosperous careers of their own? And just cause it's the internet and tone gets lost I want to clarify there's no sarcasm or snark in my comments. Just genuinely curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/15 10:19 PM
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This article is about female professionals right? Not women soaking up financial returns from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/15 10:10 PM
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This should be the highest thing here. If you dont care about career, and fear debt and don't want to have to work years to pay it off do not become a dietician. If you want a safety net of a career..nursing. 100%. Always marketable. I'm not sure how far you have gotten in your studies but if its early it should be an easy transition to nursing.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/15 04:57 PM
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Some women are more logic driven. I know not most... Believe me. But I cant trust my happiness to momentary feelz. I don't trust emotion. It often is nonsensical if not entirely.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/15 02:50 AM
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Lol! I definitely played a role in the betafication. But I am NOT a landwhale I promise. I am a size 6. Obviously I can't prove my personality on here but I would categorize it as primarily humor based.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/15 02:45 AM
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What? No. My point was that making it through college has nothing to do with if she's mentally ill. I think she's revolting.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 04:47 PM
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I actually don't complain about him irl at all. I keep up a good front. Thats why I reached out anonymously on the internet to try and understand where I went wrong. I talked to him last night and apologized for the way I have disrespected him and said I thoroughly understand why he would stop trying to please someone who made him feel like he was not good enough. I reminded him of all the ways he made me feel safe and loved. I asked him for another chance. I think it really is a mix of depressi…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/06/15 04:33 PM
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Mental illness doesn't necessarily limit academic or professional success. A huge amount of highly successful people are bipolar, for example.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 11:04 AM
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He is vastly different from when we were dating... He did make a lot of decisions and did use what little money he had to pay for things because he wanted to take care of me back then he was more sexual and more aggressive (which I appreciated). A series of progressively poor decisions followed with his job... So I know where it went wrong. I did ask for more sex back then and more foreplay and he got upset. But he is not the man I chose ... But i can see now its because he feels useless financi…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/15 07:39 PM
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I like the tone of mrp. But then again...I'm in a similar boat as many of you.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/15 01:06 AM
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You are correct. I am a physician and do a LOT of overt communication. I have actually overtly communicated in my relationship a lot and it has gone poorly. I have never delivered on the ultimatums though. Or really seriously proposed them in clear terms.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/15 12:26 AM
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No. I am the same weight as when we met.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/15 11:58 PM
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While i agree i dont need 200k...35-40k would mean selling our home, getting rid of our cars to buy a very cheap single vehicle and i think it would be next impossible to save for retirement. Its possible to scrape by for a family of 4 in that income but it certainly isnt comfortable or ideal. If he could make 80-100k I would happily quit my job and we would be fine. If he made 50-70k I could work part time.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/15 11:52 PM
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Did you read what I said? I said i'm fine with it as long as I'm still being satisfied. I jack off to porn. I have no problem with porn unless its replacing sex entirely.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/15 10:33 PM
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If thats the case....then I am absolutely done. Jack off to porn all you want as long as you can still fuck me, prefer porn to me? I'm out. I am completely sexually adventurous and open and I dont want to waste the remainder of the years I'm still attractive and fuckable with someone who prefers jacking off. :(
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/15 10:02 PM
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Yes... I did not follow it but...I cant transfer them. He owes money from previous bills dating way back so I would have to pay that all off for him first. Should I have done that? We are dealing with a credit rating in the 400s I believe.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/15 09:58 PM
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He is a great father, funny, USED to be sexually adventurous/dominant in bed... Um... He makes me coffee in the morning?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/15 08:24 PM
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And a lot is broken with me. I was bullied as a child so I have pretty lousy self esteem. I tend to be very easily manipulated by people who claim they love me. I am desperate to please.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/15 07:42 PM
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I havw wondered this and have checked his browser history to be honest. Which he may be using incognito... He adamantly denies it when asked but again that could mean nothing. I have no idea how I could catch him...
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/15 07:36 PM
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I have threatened to leave, but you're right that he probably doesnt really feel threatened. He knows I dont want him to drop out of college or be away from the kids. Essentially he knows I care about him...
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/15 07:20 PM
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Agree, she is going to divorce you and play the victim at BEST. Leave first.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/15 07:09 PM
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Unfortunately, he has gotten annoyed when I am more forward. Sometimes it has worked if I grab him and start blowing him. But sometimes he pushes me away and says "why is everything always sex with you?" and he has told me that it makes him feel pressured. Also having to always initiate as a female is kind of demoralizing. I would love to be fiercely desired... I did bring up low t but he never will goto the doctor. I can write him a script myself for the t level but he wont go for it. I have re…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/15 06:42 PM
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Well they (RPW) generally told me to stop prioritizing my career.... Which is valid but I feel a lot of pressure (probably self imposed) to keep us financially sound so I try to earn as much as possible.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/15 06:28 PM
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Except for I'd be a single mother so likely only attract more betas ;) maybe my income would offset the single mom stereotype though. Hate to break up the family though, he's a great dad.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/15 06:25 PM
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Awesome! That title is amazing.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/15 04:59 PM
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Fearing being attacked is blurring the lines for sure though...
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/15 04:57 PM
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That is so awful.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/15 04:55 PM
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I just realized how pervasive this thinking is on reddit alone. I read a story where a man got drunk (accidentily, drinking what he thought were non alcoholic beers) and then made out with a female friend and accepted a blow job, came come told his wife... She posts on reddit and the immediate response was he was raped. What? By feminist logic every sexual encounter I have had outside of long term relationships (and in fact even starting those) has been rape. While I dont think he should be held…
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/15 02:28 PM
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She might be right about the percentage but she's wrong about it not being a good thing. She sucks. And you're right.. who cares? Except OP who has to live with this asshole.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/05/15 01:25 PM
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First of all, congratulations. Secondly, all RP psychology aside... Your wife is unsupportive, ungrateful and actually just rude. I get excited over the smallest victories my SO has in life, a 28% pay increase? I would be doing cartwheels because I was so proud of him. Is she this negative over everything? I am sorry that she is essentially shitting all over such a wonderful moment that should be celebrated not downplayed. Again, all RP aside, thats just a shitty person and my ex husband was ver…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/05/15 01:20 PM
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I know that RP can make you feel if you are over 30 and have children your smv is 0 and you're going to have to settle for a beta or any man who will tolerate your situation. There are high quality single dads out there who are in similar situations and not looking for a 20 year old because that wouldn't fit well in their own family dynamic. Truthfully, when I think about if a man would turn me down because of my children I have no regrets about not being with him. The most important thing is to…
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/15 02:35 PM
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Awesome! I have had "friends" like this. I would LOVE it if this happened to one in particular. Although her card would also get declined. Back in my partying days I rarely accepted drinks from a guy I was not at least entertaining the idea of being interested in. The few times I did I felt pretty bad about it and was usually in a group of girls very content to leech off of guys they had no interest in for the night otger than free drinks. I mean, I know it's a numbers game for guys and they exp…
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/15 02:22 AM
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I upvoted this because this is verbatim what my SO has told me is part of the problem for him.
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/15 02:31 AM
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You just read the book right? Then you know she says to expect him to not trust your motives and to expect a backlash. (and what are your motives...is this for you and YOUR desire for him to lead how you feel he should? Or is this for your relationship and to really respect him?) You are already pouting because it isn't immediately going your way. It's not an overnight fox. It can take months and years to cultivate a relationship if mutual respect especially if previous damage has been done. Re-…
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/15 12:38 AM
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To be fair... She did get this from the book she read. It's not supposed to be for her, it's supposed to make him feel needed and necessary like his opinion matters. Asking his opinion on what to order is totally fine. Demanding he select it and order it for you .. Uh, no.
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/15 12:31 AM
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This is exciting!
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/15 08:16 PM
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This is going to be harsh because it has to be... And it was for me too... But. You have completely emasculated him. Sending him that pdf? Telling him what to do. Previously complaining about the sex? Discouraged him not motivated him. Sex has become a chore to him, one that he apparently does poorly so he has little motivation to do it anymore. I highly reccomend reading this recent post as I really connected to it and realized my SO was in line with this. https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/…
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/15 12:45 PM
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I agree this was a manipulative tactic and was pretty avoidant rather than poised. I have had men hit on me in front of my SO. I just simply turn and introduce him politely, "Have you met my boyfriend _____ ?" If they persist after that my SO handles it. I have no interest in scolding a man for sexual interest. If I am alone, I simply ignore, disengage and walk away.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/15 06:19 PM
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This is where I think RPW is losing people. The point isn't to be a dainty housewife who only bakes and knits (unless that's what you want). The point is to stop trying to manipulate and control men and to cultivate a more feminine demeanor. You can still go kick ass in life.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/15 11:57 AM
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I wish I could get off from being just fucked like that but I can't. I need warming up. My SO prefers to just go for the throw me down and fuck me and its led to a lot of dissatisfaction for me. I say this only because everyone is different and you may encounter a lot of faked orgasms if all men universally employ this technique.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/15 11:28 PM
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I agree.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/15 11:24 PM
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I actually dress the same when its just girls or a mixed crowd. I put make up and pretty clothes on to see my female friends. I like to feel beautiful in every setting. Women dress to impress women too.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/15 03:46 AM
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It can involve punishments everything ranging from being sent to your room, losing privledges and spanking. I personally think it's not really appropriate for a rpw relationship. First mate does not mean being treated like a petulant child that needs to be punished. A rp man would not need to stoop to this.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/15 12:09 AM
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My SO doesn't tell me what to wear but he does like it when I get attention and turn heads so I dress sexy when we go out and stylish for more conservative events. I have asked if he wants me to tone down the more provocative styles and he said absolutely not.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/15 12:00 AM
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Incognito browsing makes everything always possible.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/04/15 11:40 PM
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I have to agree. As much as I really do like the "finer" things in life a lot of men find this distasteful and are mistrustful of it (gold digger or overly masculine career woman). Even if you make your own money to by the nicer things you like many will feel they can't do anything more for you. I learned this the hard way. This just means demonstrate frugality and financial responsibility, don't demand higher end things from him (if you buy them for yourself don't flaunt or brag about them, he …
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/15 03:30 AM
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If you stay with him he will always view you as a doormat. You will never trust him again. The truth is a good "captain" wouldn't have put himself in that situation. It happens to the best of us. People aren't who they want you to believe they are. Move on now rather than a few years later after the resentment and mistrust really settle in and do you some damage. I am sorry it didn't work out.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/15 03:17 AM
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I agree. My guess is he trickle truthed to alleviate his guilt.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/15 12:45 AM
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Do they run true to size?
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/15 12:08 AM
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Thats exactly it. I gave an abbreviated version. But, yes.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/15 12:07 AM
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That's what I thought! I enjoy dressing up I just dont want to be "high maintenance" causing annoyance but I really don't take that long to gussy up. :) I'll keep doing what I'm doing.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/15 08:17 PM
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These are gorgeous! Thanks for sharing!
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/15 07:33 AM
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Well, sure. I realize eventually I'll be 50 and sexy has a different meaning/look then.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/15 01:35 AM
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I would have thought maybe dread... But no sex in a year? It sounds over to me. I agree with the advice about a lawyer asap. Don't give her time to react. Strike first.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/15 12:34 AM
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Interesting! My SO is the opposite I think. When we go out to a bar or a nice restaurant I do dress pretty sexy. My SO likes looking at my cleavage and I think he likes that I get a lot of head turns. I overheard his friend say something to him about me and "good job." and he responded with "yeah it's a great rack go ahead and look at it." But I always wonder if its disrespectful to dress so seductively when we go out...but he has only responded postively so I assume not.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/15 12:28 AM
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That was my first thought too
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/15 12:15 AM
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I didn't get that out of what she wrote at all.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/15 05:54 PM
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I think. Holy eff. I think you may have nailed the whole problem with my sex life right now. I am really sexual. When it has been a few days and he shows no signs of initiating I can get really sexually aggressive and it has gotten me nowhere except less sex. I would come up behind him and massage his crotch while telling him hoe bad I want it, I would slide my hand in my underwear in front of him and give him the "bedroom" eyes you describe. I would eagerly ask if I could blow him or if he woul…
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/15 05:39 PM
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I curse and make a lot of raunchy jokes. My SO finds me hilarious. I tried to cut down on them to be perceived as more feminine and he got annoyed and said one of his favorite things about me was my dirty sense of humor. So this is entirely dependant on the man. That doesn't mean I walk around loudly yelling "Well fuck! Look at that cocksucking BITCH over there!" It's more.. i mess something up and say "oh fuckballs!" or "what the shit am i doing right now?" Edited for mountains of typos.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/15 05:16 PM
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I will say when my SO denies me sex it absolutely crushes me. I take my sexual value to him very seriously. How would this have played out better? "If you are a good girl and blow me like the slut/hot bitch/whore I know you are (adapt for her tolerability to terms) maybe you will be rewarded." For me? It's a challenge, it's dominant, and if I do a good job he'll let me get off too. I might be very submissive but what you did comes off as a petulant child demanding things his way but in a very un…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/15 05:04 PM
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I agree. Men message based on attractiveness primarily. I made a fake profile once out of curiosity and filled it in with the most terrible drivel, including outright rascism, spelling errors, and over the top expectations. My picture was attractive. My inbox got flooded and was full in 48 hours, I could tell 75% hadn't read what I wrote. After he meets you he will decide whether he wants to make you a plate or a ltr potential based on your behavior. You can obviously make him have pre concieved…
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/15 08:37 PM
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I completely understand. I goto bed feeling I have failed my family every day.
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/15 05:11 PM
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Why would I be down voted for enjoying what money I earn affords my SO and I? Seriously. This place is out of control sometimes.
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/15 02:15 AM
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If he really wanted me to and he could support us then absolutely I would.
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/15 10:32 PM
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I was speaking of the personality traits of an alpha male that I have. Not smv or hierarchy.
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/15 06:11 PM
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I don't nag or shit test. I'm just very focused on my career. I'm not really the type to relax at home which is something I did change for him. I don't particularily enjoy TV but I did start watching it in the evening with him to spend time with him. My SO has appreciated it when I have made gourmet meals. He probably doesnt care about the house but when I do extra things he notices and appreciates it. I'm not really sure what else to turn my "drive" on. He is very easy going with little expecta…
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/15 05:41 PM
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But out of curiosity, what is your sense of an alpha woman?
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/15 04:54 AM
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I'm not sure. I guess maybe I should have more of a doting sweet disposition? I have a bad habit of being wrapped up in "I do me, you do you." and forgetting to lavish my man with feminine affection.
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/15 03:12 AM
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Yes. Of course not. That was part of the illusion. But I truly operated exactly like an alpha male before I realized it wasn't leading to any fulfillment and making me far less attractive to my mate
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/15 01:18 AM
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That is true. I do love the toys and travel it affords us.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/15 05:21 PM
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I have tried this and he did say I looked hot but he wasn't in the mood. I felt foolish and haven't had the heart to try again. I keep everything shaved. I shower daily.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/15 04:45 PM
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Yeah. And I pay the bills. I guess I just don't want to face the fact that I'm more a mother/roomate to him than a woman he wants a romantic sexual partnership with.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/15 04:41 PM
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I wonder how I can figure out if this is the case. Because if it is.. I certainly would not want to stay with someone who is sexually bored by me.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/15 04:39 PM
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Then why not break up with me? If he lost sexual interest in me why would he stay?
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/15 01:43 PM
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Medicine. I have a great position where I work monday through friday go in anytime between 7-9 and when I am done I leave (usually between 3-5). I get a productivity bonus and I am top 5% in our group so I "clean up" so to speak. I just wish I had the same success in my relationship!
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/15 12:24 PM
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Well. Yes. This is one method I use to initiate sex. Sometimes it works. Sometimes he just falls asleep. Sometimes he gets annoyed. "We had sex _ days ago, you need to get off again?"
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/15 01:16 AM
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You mean because I'm 32 I may not have high quality options? I think the higher quality men are just going to be in a higher age bracket such as late 30s early 40s. I think after 35 it'll start being more dire.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/15 12:27 AM
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Yeah. I bought into the whole femninist thing of having a high power career thinking my social value would be similar to a mans. Obviously I realize the error of my waysnow. I am actually probably the beta bux in this situation. What do you even call a female bb?
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/15 12:13 AM
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Sometimes I feel like relationships with some can be a bait and switch. When we started dating he came across as a strong man who did seem to care about "taking care of me". (Not financially as I make a lot of money and never care much about that but just in the protective masculine sense.) Little things. Not so much anymore. Maybe finances factor in. I make 200k and he is a student and prior to that he made 40k. I never have cared as long as he is pursuing something but perhaps my income has af…
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/15 11:49 PM
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I'm 32. But oddly enough I have noticed male interest seems to have picked up as I cultivated a more polished classic feminine style. I tend to get more looks now than when I was 22. It may simply be how I carry myself.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/15 11:43 PM
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I should add that I do give a lot of them. Everytime we have sex generally and I offer frequently in between. I have received oral sex perhaps 5 times in the last 18 months. If I perform on him and then am still turned on I suppose I can just take care of myself after.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/15 10:38 PM
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This has been my experience as well.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/15 10:33 PM
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I have brought it up, diplomatically at first. I said " I really enjoy sex with you, I think about it a lot and I really love feeling desired and pursued sometimes. I know you dont always feel like it but I sometimes feel neglected." I later said " I honestly need more sex than what we are currently having." He got angry and told me I should probably be with someone else then. I know how bad that sounds but he later told me he felt embarassed that he wasn't fulfilling my needs. Which to be quite…
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/15 10:33 PM
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I like giving blow jobs and all but if it isn't necessarily reciprocated it can just make the frustration worse ;)
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/15 10:22 PM
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Yes, I have. It led to sex once every week and a half or so unfortunately.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/15 09:18 PM
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I think ambition is pretty important in attraction for many women. It can be financial, physical, education... But as a woman it is very important (to me at least) to see that in a parter that they are constantly striving ahead and do not become complacent in life. Can't have a captain just having the ship floating in open water with no direction ;)
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/15 10:50 PM
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No! Never think marriage will fix things or encourage him to change. If anything he will likely put less effort into his physical appearance. This man does not seem to care for himself properly in the most basic way of maintaining a healthy weight. To me that is a red flag that he is not ready for marriage or God forbid, children.
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/15 04:09 PM
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