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6

The more you make a woman orgasm, the more sex you’ll get. Men shouldn’t even embark on sexual intercourse unless they’re trying to make the woman cum. The whole point of sex is to get each other off. If you’re not trying to get the other person off, you’re just masturbating.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 03:49 PM
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So you’ll use a woman’s body for your pleasure but won’t even try to please her? Wow. You’re rude and entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 03:48 PM
2

Why search for a unicorn when there are dual density silicone dildos that won’t neg you or give you STDs?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 03:47 PM
3

Weak dick game is indeed a problem. Men who know this and up their dick game are bound to see improvements to their sex lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 03:42 PM
1

That’s why you have a dual density dildo for the dick and a vibrator for the clit.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 03:37 PM
2

You haven’t found the clitoris yet, have you?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 03:35 PM
3

You’d think they’d leave while you were unmedicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 03:29 PM
11

You tried red pill on her and you’re calling HER bad for not falling for it? Red pill is abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 03:29 PM
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I just accused a man who sexually harassed me of sexually harassing me and last I checked he’s still a really wealthy successful lawyer with a good reputation. How did I destroy his life again?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 03:27 PM
106

Canada is not progressive. I know. I live here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 03:22 PM
8

Dogs prefer women. I fully believe it was woman who domesticated the dog, not man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 01:43 PM
3

If he puts down small dogs and says only big dogs are “real dogs.” If he won’t have his male dog fixed because he doesn’t want to harm his dog’s “manhood.” If he doesn’t poop and scoop. If he leaves his dog in a kennel or crate for long periods of time. If he doesn’t take his dog to the vet. If he doesn’t register his dog with the city. If his dog isn’t microchipped and doesn’t wear a tag. If he doesn’t keep his dog vaccinated or give him tick treatments in the summer. If he dresses his dog in b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 01:36 PM
51

My NVX was 5’6”, same height as me. He had a real chip on his shoulder, always had to prove he was a man. It was pathetic. Short men are pathetic when they play their inferiority complex short men games. They’d be best off acting like they don’t care at all about their height.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 01:28 PM
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It’s the bond with the child that’s the reward. Well, it would be the rewards if scrotes didn’t get in the way. That’s another reason scrotes undermine women, it’s so as to undermine our relationships with our children and make them disrespect us. They don’t let us reap the full rewards of motherhood.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 11:55 PM
343

Exactly. They think childbearing is something they get for free.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 11:50 PM
38

I think I hate him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 11:48 PM
2

I’m guessing he didn’t work either. No one can work full-time and play video games for 12 hours or more a day. I don’t know how he can have the audacity to call his now ex-wife his best friend given he didn’t have any time for her. He truly just saw her as a just a servant who existed in the background to fund his life and clean up after him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 04:09 PM
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If I were a poor white man, born into intergenerational poverty, no access to higher education, no possibility of social mobility, no health insurance, dental insurance, inadequate housing, I too would be offended at the notion that I’m privileged merely for being white. I would probably also feel and express anger towards wealthy people, regardless of race, who told me I had nothing legit to complain about because I was white, that I was responsible for my own poverty because I couldn’t suffici…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 02:56 PM
7

So is Jordan Peterson. No wonder they love him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 01:42 PM
3

Same with men like criminal lawyers who like the drama. Stay away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 06:22 PM
52

Divorce is the only option.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 05:59 PM
25

Pathetic. What a boy-child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 05:58 PM
11

No, it’s not LV behaviour to ask where someone is from originally. It’s just a normal question.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 02:35 PM
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That’s what was expected of me in my last relationship. What hell that was. It was like being in a war. I’m white, British-Canadian but he was not white and was half Portuguese, half Native Canadian, and I believe police fear of being called racist is one reason they didn’t charge him. He was exactly as you described above. I had not men a man like that before. I wasn’t prepared for THAT level of misogyny. It was far greater than the misogyny with which I grew up. There was also the “you owe me …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 01:49 AM
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Is that his beard in the background? It doesn’t look well-cared for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 01:37 AM
187

Oh God no. Self-improvement needs to be self-driven.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 01:36 AM
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He starts referring to his things and your things as “our” things. I was confused when my ex referred to my bed and my cats as “ours” and I made it very clear to him that it was MY stuff and not to say that again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 08:21 PM
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You should lead us! Seriously, that would make a really great speech! You’re an excellent writer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 08:06 PM
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That’s really sick. What a sick bastardly scrote. I don’t believe he abused you to “get it out of his system”. I think he would abuse his next girlfriend anyway and he was probably rotten to the women he was with before you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 07:10 PM
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And if he responds quickly sometimes but slowly at other times, you’re likely the side chick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 07:05 PM
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Filmed sex that involves violence and degradation and/or lack of consent including coercion.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 05:38 PM
1

No, they haven’t. Photography and videography didn’t exist until recently so where did men get the images before that? Yes, there are paintings and drawings of naked women from times past but they weren’t used as masturbation aids. There used to be huge stigma against masturbation too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 05:36 PM
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Maybe you need to work on your social skills? You can also learn about female body language online so you can learn when to approach and when to stay back. It’s insulting you believe women are like teenagers. We are not. We clean up after ourselves, cook for ourselves and go to therapy when we need it. We don’t dump that on a man or expect a man to build us up like men expect of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 05:19 PM
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But why is a low n-count ideal? Less experience in bed means she has fewer skills in bed and is probably less confident in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 05:15 PM
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I’m not joking. Men do work fewer hours than women. Women do the majority of the world’s work.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 05:13 PM
11

He has substantial savings apparently just no property.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 05:11 PM
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She’s waiting for him to “come around” and drop the idea of her selling her properties.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 05:11 PM
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Just one house. Meanwhile, he doesn’t own any property. He still rents at age 50. She’s 46 and owns a single family home that she lives in with her kids, a townhouse that she rents and a condo in Florida.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 05:10 PM
2

I would absolutely snitch on my brothers. In fact, I told one of their wives that he’d had sex with our first cousin and bragged about it to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 03:37 PM
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She thought he had “potential”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 03:13 PM
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Even the ones who are also wealthy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 03:12 PM
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I know a woman in this situation. Her boyfriend is pressuring her into selling all of her properties (she owns three) so they can buy a house together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 03:10 PM
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I have one ex who was a gold digger. He would pretend to look for ways to make more money but then I saw his FB messenger and saw him bragging to a friend that I was paying his way. He also had the audacity of accusing me of being a gold digger just to be abusive. When men accuse women of being gold diggers it’s because they have no compunction about abusing a woman for her resources. Took me ages to get rid of this guy. I had to move to a different city and cut ties with all of our mutuals beca…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 03:08 PM
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That was really powerful. I think it could be the replacement for The Vagina Monologues. Women could perform it on stage and then women from the audience could take turns with their “who are yous”. It could be performed at protests. We need general protests against male behaviour and you hit all the talking points.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 11:23 PM
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Me too. I was just debating buying a Gold. This piece should be performed on stage by angry women. Women all over college campuses could do it on stage and at protests.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 11:10 PM
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Women do not exist to be free therapists for socially awkward men. Do you have any idea how much of a burden that would be to have to provide social skills therapy to a boyfriend? It’s just not fair to even think about dumping that responsibility onto women. I have to provide many kinds of therapy for my autistic son including social skills therapy and I HATE doing it. I would literally commit suicide if I found myself in a position where I had to do a similar therapy for a romantic partner. Wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 09:08 PM
3

Men behave differently with men than they do with women. Some guys have great personalities with men but shitty personalities when they interact with women. Men with personality disorders like narcissism are also more likely to inappropriately cold approach women as well as make inappropriate comments whereas men with good personalities are more likely to read the room and be respectful. Many men don’t see women as human and talk to us as if we’re stereotypes. In sum, we get exposed to a lot mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 08:56 PM
1

We need to eradicate pornography.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 08:48 PM
0

You’re not writing the truth. You’re writing lies about women thus it is misogynistic. It’s vile to say women get promotions by being sexy. That’s an old sexist trope if I’ve ever heard one, you just can’t stand that there are women who are more talented than men, Hating me for being a feminist is also misogynistic. Come on, do you really expect me to care whether people on this sub like me or not? What do you think I’m going to do? Run and hide under my blankets and cry like a 5 year old? Only …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 08:34 PM
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I certainly hope so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 08:20 PM
1

Now that’s a misogynistic comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 08:18 PM
1

I will eventually
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 08:18 PM
1

Women ARE oppressed by men. That’s not an opinion. It’s a fact. It was established as fact long before you were born. If you loved women you would acknowledge misogyny and the systemic discrimination against women in our society and you’d take the time to understand what it’s like to be a woman’s And if you loved women, you’d have women role models, favourite books written by women, etc. Seems to me you probably just love women when you get to use them for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 07:50 PM
3

We all know that’s not true given how men work fewer hours than women and have more leisure time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 07:44 PM
0

That’s why I stabbed a man in self-defence because I’m all talk, obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 07:43 PM
1

Not if I caught him off guard.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 07:42 PM
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I think so too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 07:41 PM
3

Oh my God, he’s wasting his money on garbage treatments and she’s paying the mortgage? She needs a lawyer ASAP to get advice on how to ensure she gets the house after they split. I have an ex with mental health problems who did this to me too. It was one of the many reasons I broke up with him. I was willing to take on the lion’s share of expenses for a little bit of time while he stabilized but he didn’t even try, used cocaine behind my back and made himself worse. He also thought he was hot sh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 06:49 PM
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All we have to is send a porn broadcast to all their phones at once and we can stage a coup while they’re watching.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 04:38 PM
13

I have two of my three brothers love to crap on my successes and happiness. I grew up being told my sports accomplishments didn’t count because I was a girl. Everything I enjoyed was mocked. I was even directly mocked for being a woman. I now don’t talk to those two brothers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 04:27 PM
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I have a dog and I control the pace at which we walk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 02:31 PM
0

Bat eyelashes and get promotions? Your misogyny is just so disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 05:02 AM
2

Most men don’t do their own car maintenance these days and most can’t fix a leaky sink. A man with these skills is indeed more valuable than a man without them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 05:00 AM
-6

Porn is infidelity.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 04:52 AM
3

Women need that feeling to enjoy sex. How do you choose the women you sleep with? You just fuck every woman you can regardless of chemistry? That’s soulless.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 04:51 AM
7

That shows men weren’t pulling their weight. Thus the woman filed for divorce because she was sick of doing all the paperwork in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 04:48 AM
0

Person A, obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 04:47 AM
1

Why? Because marriage has less benefit for women than men because marriage results in many women being overworked and exhausted with lazy husbands. Also, men abuse women in interpersonal relationships. You know that. You know why women are more likely to file for divorce. It’s because men mistreat their wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 04:46 AM
2

Men would also have to wear menstruation cramp simulators and go through pregnancy simulation as well. Dresses aren’t enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 04:43 AM
21

Wow he’s aged poorly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 04:06 AM
60

Men should have to wear a menstrual cramp simulator for three to seven days a month. The length of their period and the age of onset of their “menses” will be determined by a combination of luck (raffle system) and the length and age of onset of their father’s “menses”. Males under 10 and males over 55 are exempt. I’m honestly surprised 50-50 men haven’t come up with this plan before given they advocate for eQUaLiTy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 03:50 AM
17

I once saw a man’s profile say he liked “spontaneous road trips” and I also thought of kidnapping.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 03:41 AM
15

That is the most obnoxious dating profile I have ever read. If his face weren’t scratched out, I’d print the photos and scratch it out myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 03:36 AM
206

Gen Z is the most misogynistic generation alive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 03:24 AM
1

How is my husband slaving for me? We both work then after work he gets leisure time while I cook and clean AND watch the kids? I don’t think so. Men aren’t owed more leisure time and sleep time than women yet you get it at our expense. That’s why we’re slaves.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 12:28 AM
1

Yes, that’s right. If it’s the same porn star each time, it doesn’t matter how much you’re masturbating to her, your porn body count is 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 12:26 AM
2

I too, find some positives. Mainly, it helps me practice diplomacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 12:22 AM
1

Are they dudes in a circular formation?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 11:46 PM
0

It seems to me like you don’t really like the women you go out with or you like your roommates too much. I suggest you restrict girlfriend status to those women you like above all other people. Repeat: You’re not supposed to bestow relationship status on anyone unless they’re your favourite person.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 11:45 PM
1

I’m an adult human female and I don’t identify with TRP view on women’s sexuality. Can you tell me what a cock carousel looks like?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 10:26 PM
1

So it’s okay when FDS generalizes men. Phew.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 10:24 PM
1

That’s right! Think about how many women you’ve had sex with in your mind while watching porn. It’s bound to affect your expectations of sex and your sexual performance. Men who get their sex Ed from porn are usually awful lovers.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 10:23 PM
2

During a pandemic, the government’s job is to protect citizens. That’s why we pay taxes, for services and infrastructure, including protection.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 10:19 PM
2

So a woman is supposed to look at her husband as her employer? I don’t think so. I’m not working for the man all day only to come home to cook and clean for a man. That’s not a life. That’s sheer hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 10:12 PM
2

I hate cooking and cleaning and I would feel loved if a man did those things for me but none want to. I looked long and hard for a man to become my househusband, stay home, raise the kids, do all the cooking and cleaning but for some reason men just felt that was beneath them. I wonder why. I also feel it’s beneath me to cook for and clean up after a man. No man is so special that I’d devote my life to cleaning up after him. And if that’s the way he expects me to express love then it would be ap…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 10:08 PM
1

It’s also that LonelyBeerAunt doesn’t sound as classy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 09:53 PM
1

I’m not reading your misogynistic rant. Get yourself a pocket pussy or one of those silicone ass and vagina combos you can fuck. You’re too toxic for a real woman. You also don’t bring anything to the table but a nasty, misogynistic attitude. No woman will ever marry you or go out with you if they knew this is how you thought. Stay away from us, you aren’t fit to be in our presence.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 08:25 PM
1

That’s not what a Pick-Me is. A Pick-Me is a woman who does anything for male attention including harming other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 08:17 PM
0

I always expect a man to pay on the first date. There wouldn’t be a second one if he didn’t. Not wasting my time with someone who doesn’t really like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 08:15 PM
1

So you were abused. That’s the toxic masculinity you experienced. Throwing small appliances is a big deal. A man once threw a jug of liquid laundry detergent at me. Could have killed me. You could have been killed by the small appliance throwing and holes in the walls always end up being punches to your body instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 08:08 PM
1

Why did you detransition? I’m honestly interested. Don’t hear of many MtF detransitioners.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 08:05 PM
1

Studies show relationships are more stable when both parties are of average appearance. Good looking people have less successful LTRs.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 08:02 PM
0

You only TRY to practice non-violent communication? I hope you succeed. If you aren’t succeeding there, please know you’re not the problem and read Lundy Bancroft’s “Why does he do that? Inside the minds of abusive and controlling men.”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 08:01 PM
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I don’t agree with anything Red Pill. It is ALL about how to emotionally abuse women by using female socialization against us. It also isn’t going to make men happy in the long run. It may satisfy a man’s short-term need to feel powerful and in control but in the end, women won’t stick around for red pill men even if they end up being manipulated for a time. Men using red pill also results in women turning to strategies like FDS to weed out red pill men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 07:59 PM
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I know what you mean. I read this sub when I want to feel frustrated with humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 07:56 PM
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Wow. So you don’t believe in clear communication in relationships? Or is it just on sensitive topics? I would never ask someone I was involved with if they’d been cheated on in the past because it serves no purpose. It’s not healthy to bring relationships with past lovers into your current relationship. I would never divulge to a man if I had been cheated on in the past either. Not his business. I’d just say “not that I’m aware of.” Even asking the question about past upsets like being cheated o…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 07:54 PM
4

A 30 year old with a body count of 3? Don’t make me laugh. Let’s say she started having sex at 16, you expect a 30 year old to have had only one sex partner every four years ALL in LTR’s? That’s utterly unrealistic. There are women who will only have 3 by the time she’s 30 but that’s only if she’s spent most of that time married. What’s next? Do you expect a single woman of 40 to have only had a body count of 4?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 07:43 PM
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Wondering if you watch porn. If so, you aren’t asexual, you’re just pornsick. Porn makes men lose interest in real women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 07:39 PM
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And that’s fair. I don’t stick around for men who watch porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 07:38 PM
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Six is not a lot. Why would she lie?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 07:37 PM
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Women can also have sex with men they don’t respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 07:36 PM
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I guess you don’t like women as people. I wouldn’t want to be with a man who only enjoyed my company and my existence when we were having sex. That’s not a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 07:34 PM
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By that do you mean a woman who won’t let you degrade her in bed?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 07:32 PM
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So you don’t love your partners more than your other roommates?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 07:32 PM
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HIS body count is extremely important. Same with his porn body count. That’s because I don’t want to end up with the community dick or a porn addict. Did that. Won’t do it again because sex is exceedingly important in a relationship and I’m not having a relationship with someone who is paying sexual attention to other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 07:31 PM
1

New York.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 07:24 PM
2

No. You just experienced white privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 07:23 PM
0

Saying AWALT is misogynistic. You can’t generalize a whole group of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 07:22 PM
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He is a misogynist if he expects his wife to do these things because he is a man and she is a woman. I would never go out with a man who expected me to show him love by being his domestic slave. I’d rather be dead than live that sort of life. It’s not love if you require the other party to care for you like a mother. Do your own cooking and cleaning, misogynist.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 07:21 PM
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He looked so shocked, as if he didn’t anticipate her fighting back. He won’t be making that mistake again!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 05:32 PM
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That’s typical of narcissists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 05:24 PM
4

Tell me how to spot a “normal man” versus a “dangerous man” on sight alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 01:28 PM
1

Feminists don’t hate men, feminists believe men have the capacity to be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 01:27 PM
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I’d push a man off the boat and take his space.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 01:27 PM
3

That’s how I feel about helping men of colour. I’d help a woman of colour but not a man of colour. Why should I when men of colour hate women?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 01:25 PM
0

Men don’t own women or children. No such thing as man having “their women and children.”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 01:24 PM
1

Confidence means the man is secure in himself. That means he won’t have to put anyone down or respond to challenges or slights against his masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 01:20 PM
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That male is mediocre.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 01:14 PM
17

They grasp it. They’re always looking for rape loopholes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 01:12 PM
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100% agree. Men should have to have their sex lives vetted before being able to enter politics, practice law or gain promotions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 01:12 PM
3

I know it’s just one study. I indicated that in my post. Porn is the problem, not masturbation. Men used to masturbate before porn, you know, but not nearly as much as they do now. A certain amount of masturbation is healthy. It becomes unhealthy when it starts to interfere negatively with your relationships and in fulfilling responsibilities. Porn enables that. More men are becoming addicted to masturbation due to using porn, rather than their imaginations, for masturbation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 07:13 PM
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Men don’t need porn or video games. Research on porn use has showed porn to be detrimental to relationships and individuals who use it. fightthenewdrug.org Your comment comparing porn to water is similar to how drug addicts consider their drugs a necessity rather than as a harmful indulgence. You could be happy without porn. The fact you don’t believe that is probably a big reason as to why you still use it despite all the evidence showing that men who don’t use porn are happier, have better sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 06:11 PM
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I’m not attacking anyone by calling out misogyny. Saying men are funny and women are not is misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 06:03 PM
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You look stupid for not being able to look it up yourself. There are tons of reports on the study and on other studies. https://verilymag.com/2017/07/causes-of-divorce-effects-of-watching-pornography https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/inside-porn-addiction/201112/is-porn-really-destroying-500000-marriages-annually https://www.wkc-law.com/blog/2017/08/a-common-cause-of-divorce-according-to-divorce-attorneys/ https://fightthenewdrug.org/research-says-married-couples-who-watch-porn-are-twice-a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 06:03 PM
1

That’s just normal teenaged behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 05:57 PM
1

I like hearing stories of positive change.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 05:33 PM
1

You’re wrong to think women only care about money. Where did you get that idea?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 05:27 PM
2

Disagree with this. Weight loss and getting into shape vastly increases self-confidence, which makes it easier to attract and secure a mate. Also, transforming your body with exercise and diet takes a lot of dedication and hard work. I personally have a lot of respect for people who are able to dig themselves out of an unhealthy rut because it proves they love themselves and can see the benefit of working towards long-term goals and committing oneself to self-improvement—those are all traits wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 05:24 PM
1

Not true. Most women are left with some sort of chronic pain or health problem due to pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 05:11 PM
-7

The man’s porn use is a factor in 50% of those divorces. Men could stop a lot of divorces by not watching porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 05:01 PM
13

I tried collecting evidence of my ex’s cheating and drug use while we were together and I was charged with criminal harassment. All because I went out to find where he was when he didn’t show up to meet me when he was supposed to. He freaked out on me when I caught him high, caused a disturbance in public, the police were called and he told them I was stalking him. The charges were dropped but still, it was a horrible experience. A year waiting for it all to be resolved. Of course, he stalked me…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 03:16 PM
16

It took a long time for me too to understand JY men saw prostitutes. I also believed it was mainly men who couldn’t get women on their own but I was so wrong about that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 03:09 PM
21

My ex spat at me. I had a recording of it and showed it to the police expecting him to get charged. My ex said I was stalking him so he spat on me to get me to leave and the male police took his side. Men truly do collaborate with each other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 03:06 PM
13

I know. Talk about making the problem worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 03:03 PM
38

He stocks being interested in sex with you and starts going to bed or waking up extra early or extra late. A sudden change in sleep schedule is a huge sign of a porn addiction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 11:58 PM
12

That’s a tough question. I think you need to consider a variety of factors such as whether you’re buying or renting, the difference in quality between the most expensive place you can afford in each area. It also depends on how you plan to use your neighbourhood, if you have a car, proximity of your friends, proximity to work. There’s no guarantee you’ll be happier in a better off area. The difference in amenities will probably have less influence on your well-being than the size and quality of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 11:55 PM
120

I once dated a man lower than me because he initially made me feel appreciated in a way I hadn’t been before. I now recognize it was love-bombing. He was jealous of everything about me from past athletic accomplishments to my education to my job, my friends, my better apartment, the fact I had a car. He used to do manual labour and would mock my job as not being real work because according to him all I did “sit and spin in my office chair” and flash my tits to get promotions. He truly said the m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 07:34 PM
2

No, not every woman could do what I do. I was educated and well into my career before I became pregnant so I had financial security. I also come from a well-off family and have money from them. That meant I also had the ability to take time off work, learn how to do my son’s therapy with him in the early years after his disability became evident so he received better early intervention for his autism. Poor women don’t have the same advantages and choices I did. Neither do uneducated women. What …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 04:34 PM
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Would not recommend. Being with a porn addict ruined men for me. I don’t think I could trust a man again unless I was able to get reports from his mobile provider or ISP showing me what he’s accessed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 04:23 PM
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I found my ex’s porn use when he crashed my laptop. This was before everyone had smartphones and before touchscreens. It was all anal milf and anal teen. My friend and her husband who fixed my laptop were disgusted at his massive stash he’d hidden on my computer along with the many viruses he’d managed to infect my computer with. Another friend of mine found her husband’s porn on his computer in a file called “Zorn”. He really was not good at deception.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 04:18 PM
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Men’s minds treat porn as real sexual partners and you’re saying women can’t pair bond after real partners? Well, I contend men can’t pair bond due to porn. You have thousands of porn partners by the time you’re 18. Porn makes men less likely to be attracted to their partners, more likely to cheat and more likely to get divorce. You have no business saying women can’t pair bond due to have prior relationships when it’s men who are the sluts and whores with high n counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 03:47 PM
1

I agree with your take on dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 03:37 PM
3

Not all kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 03:33 PM
3

I come from a traditional family too and I agree with you. My father worked 12 hour days and often on weekends, would be on call, yet in his spare time he was gardening, shoveling, mowing the lawn, cleaning the eavestroughs or organizing things around the house. My mother was a SAHM and she still did more work than him caring for four kids plus most of the interior housework.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 03:33 PM
1

I have one autistic child and I hold that it’s more challenging than having two, three or even four NT children.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 03:30 PM
1

Is your child autistic? Mine is. That’s why he couldn’t learn to sit still as a toddler. They should you know. They do at daycare.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 03:28 PM
4

You don’t know how to parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 03:27 PM
3

Housework is boring and tedious and I have every right to hate it. That’s why it’s so crucial the work be divided fairly. I would never have a relationship where I had to do most of the cleaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 03:26 PM
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I do raise the kid alone because he was THAT bad and it’s so much better being a single mother. I hope you’re not ejaculating into vaginas. You aren’t ready for that kind of responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 03:23 PM
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Men like sex with fat women, they just don’t like to admit they like sex with fat women because it doesn’t give them social points with their male friends. If men didn’t tease their friends about having sex with fat women, fat women wouldn’t be stigmatized for sexual relationships. Also, the OP is right. Hot men generally DO have better personalities because they’re more secure in their masculinity and have good social skills. Those are two most important things to look for in a man, I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 02:53 AM
1

Your whole post is based on the false premise that beautiful women are loved unconditionally. That is not true. You are extremely out of touch, I don’t know where you got that ludicrous idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 02:40 AM
1

Sexist
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 02:38 AM
2

Men have the right to choose. Choose not to ejaculate into a vagina. Men get zero say in whether a woman carries a baby or not so be careful about giving out your sperm. You get no say once the sperm leaves your penis..
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 02:37 AM
6

This really resonates with me. I’ve tried every approach possible of handling anger as a woman and there’s no way to win.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 08:23 PM
28

I guess this logical male hasn’t seen the dismally low rape arrest or conviction rates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 04:42 PM
46

If you find out you’re pregnant, you’re better off leaving and having the baby on your own without telling him. Child support just wasn’t worth it for me to have to deal with his shenanigans and interference for the rest of my life. Plus, there was no guarantee he’d be able to keep a stable job given he was bipolar and an alcoholic. Good thing I focused on getting a career before becoming pregnant so I could afford to raise a child on my own. (At least I did something right.) My financial stabil…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 04:31 PM
82

I was recorded on video by a man when I was walking my newborn son in a pram. He got in his car and took off after I crossed the street and confronted him. He had literally parked his car on the street, got out, stood next to it, just to take videos of women with an actual video camera, not even his phone. I wasn’t able to get his license plate no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 04:19 PM
145

“Free use night”. Is this really something men ask for now?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 04:16 PM
13

They give it away free to almost any woman who asks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 02:21 PM
3

I would absolutely make those signs and attend such a protest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 02:19 PM
22

I’d be surprised if he was under 65.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 02:12 PM
26

That’s just it! Men want us to be their saviours but they don’t listen to a word we say even when we have years of expertise under our belt. If men just listened to us they could improve their lives and be less unhappy but they don’t take our opinions seriously because we’re feeemales.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 02:05 PM
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I’ve been with men who would go soft as soon as it came time to put on a condom. It was so off-putting and those relationships didn’t last because he couldn’t last.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 01:57 PM
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I actually used to believe that, I was so indoctrinated into liberal feminism. Then my partner became a porn addict....I recall trying to have sex with him while watching porn and he’d get soft as soon as a scene passed that he enjoyed and he’d rewind it. Further, I actually put up with him rewinding the scene about four times before I noped out. It was amazing how quickly he’d go limp. It reached the point where he couldn’t get hard at all without watching porn. I felt like a fleshlight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 01:54 PM
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He must be telling her all about his gaming and asking for a sexual compatibility check.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 12:37 PM
17

One of my male co-workers died of skin cancer. It was heartbreaking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 08:31 PM
8

It’s just a game. I bet he’d freak out if she had caused him to rise in the ranks too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 08:24 PM
67

Porn is cheating and abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 08:22 PM
231

One of my friends became a sex worker and it didn’t end well. A pimp ended up taking over her apartment and trafficking her. He threatened to kill me when I figured it out by reciting a threatening rap song on my voicemail. He was convicted of piles of charges and is awaiting sentencing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 08:20 PM
189

He’s a rapist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 08:16 PM
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Yep, dating isn’t fair. It’s deeply unfair to women because men are so entitled, manipulative and deceptive. That’s why I now follow FDS. It’s 100% fair to men and provides a great way to weed out the narcissistic, entitled, sex-driven ones who would treat me unfairly without requiring me to be cruel, violent or manipulative towards them in response. With FDS, you just sit back, let the man show you his true colours and take time to evaluate him. That’s 100% fair to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 05:39 PM
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Wow, you’re a misogynist. I say, men have had enough time to lead. Now it’s time for you to take a backseat and let women be in charge. It’s only fair. I would never follow a man. I don’t follow beings who watch porn, can’t properly wipe their ass and who believe men get to lead just for existing as men. Ejaculators are poor leaders.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 05:31 PM
3

Why would you take one woman’s opinion and conclude all women are like that? Some women don’t like killing spiders.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 05:27 PM
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I remember when the sub was created. What first attracted me was the philosophy of taking men as they are and trying to find the best among them because men who call for 50-50 are simply exploiting the goals of liberal feminism for their own gain as most have no intention of truly giving women equitable lives. As I kept reading and following the sub—on another account—I discovered for the first time online there were other non-Conservative, feminist but not liberal feminist, opposite-sex oriente…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 02:35 PM
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But I thought you didn’t like going out for dinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 08:46 PM
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Make sure you block all his friends, family and anyone else you met through him. Change your number too and get video surveillance. Even change the plates on your car.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 03:52 PM
42

Like how Caillou is a fantasy for toddlers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 01:46 AM
78

I hated the Shrek story. It’s social conditioning of young girls into lowering our standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 01:45 AM
10

Thank you random aged TiK Tokker, we know that. That’s why you can’t determine whether a man is high-value by income and/or looks alone. We already know wealthy, good-looking men are often fuckboys, but #notallmen, right? You can’t make generalizations about men!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 01:22 AM
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Men also take footage of themselves raping and killing women and share it with the world. Then they make movies about it, write songs and books about it, play video games about it. Raping and killing women is embedded into male culture. It wasn’t like this in the 80s and 90s. It wasn’t nearly this bad. Men under 40 are truly the most vile, violent and misogynistic generations—millennial and Gen Z—to exist in the past 100 years. My grandmother would be 110 years old if she were alive and I know s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 12:08 AM
10

This!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 09:41 PM
1

Radical feminism holds that gender is hierarchy where masculine is considered superior to feminine, and that gendered behavioural norms are artificially constructed by men in order to oppress women by imposing standards of femininity.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 02:11 PM
1

Do you even try to have fun or are you determined to be a sourpuss when you go out? Isn’t there something you both enjoy doing outside the house that constitutes a real date?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 02:07 PM
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I’m not trolling. I’m 100% serious. Women have been cooking and cleaning for generations. It’s now the turn of men to take on the tedious jobs. I would never have a relationship with a man who didn’t cook and clean. If he expects me to cook and clean, I would assume he’s just using me as a maid and a cook and I’d break up with him. I had one boyfriend who refused to sweep the floor so I said he could leave instead. “I don’t sweep,” he said. “Fine, you can leave.” Why can’t you handle the fact th…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 01:58 PM
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These women’s stories are the norm. Men are generally terrible partners and fathers. I chose to be a single mother and it’s so much better than taking care of a grown man. I was able to give my child far more attention than I would have otherwise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 01:47 PM
3

Oh my God. What was this judge thinking?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 12:42 PM
6

One foot in the grave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 05:14 AM
460

Jennifer Aniston, Courtney Cox and Lisa Kudrow look amazing. Meanwhile, among the boys David Schwimmer is the only one who looks healthy. Matt Perry looks like he’s heading down the same path as Keith Richards while Matt LeBlanc appears to be pushing 60 and sporting a doughy dad bod.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 05:14 AM
0

Cooking and cleaning are tedious. You do it. I could never love a man unless he cooked and cleaned for me without my asking and I’m 100% serious. Yes, I have found men like that too. I hate cleaning and if men want the benefits of non-marital sex from me, my compliments, my attention, they can damn well clean my home and cook for me in return. You should be cooking and cleaning for your woman as part of reparations for historical misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 04:27 AM
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No, that’s Rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 04:22 AM
-1

You have low standards for your boyfriend. What does he do for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 04:17 AM
-1

Love language is bullshit. Healthy high value people in healthy relationships engage in all the love languages.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 04:16 AM
4

Cleaning dishes is boring. Men should do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 04:12 AM
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Eating out only once a month? I don’t think so. Once a week at least. I would never settle for a relationship where I was only taken on 12 dates a year. That’s not a loving relationship. I’d rather be alone than be with someone who only treated me 12 times a year. I bet you’d also insist on going to a place for which you had a coupon.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 04:12 AM
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This is why I have never been married. I deliberately became a single mother instead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 01:36 AM
3

Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 11:30 PM
39

Fantastic comment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 10:37 PM
65

To be fair to LibFems, men were supposed to meet us halfway and they didn’t. Men were supposed to become more feminine as we became more masculine. Unfortunately, men double-crossed us and did not keep their end of the bargain. They also took advantage of female socialization to get us to trust they’d change their culture for the better and they didn’t. We gained the right via sex positivity to choose our own sexual partners but men took that to mean we should just start fucking them indiscrimin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 10:36 PM
1

Men should not have ANY outlets in which to express violence towards women. Men who feel the need to be violent towards women or sex dolls belong in jail.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 09:19 PM
1

My lower earning male ex refused to accept that he had to do the lion’s share of the housework and cooking to make up for his lower income. He couldn’t cook at all and wasn’t willing to learn. What do I get out of being with a lower earning man if he isn’t going to be a hard working stay at home dad who will have a hot gourmet meal on the table for me when I get home, and who will also hand wash my period-stained underwear?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 09:13 PM
3

Married men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 09:06 PM
7

Then perhaps the men’s SMV isn’t what they think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 09:05 PM
1

This is what radical feminists have been saying since time immemorial—that gender is oppressive due to culture. Women aren’t spoiled by gender, women are abused by it. You’re really quite a misogynist.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 08:53 PM
10

No one is a bigot for their sexual preferences or sexual orientation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 08:52 PM
15

I agree with you. I’m attracted to men who are secure in their own masculinity and define their masculinity around being a good, reliable person, a good provider, a good family man and a hard worker, not men who define their masculinity by how much they dominate others and have sex with women. Men who are secure and positive in their masculinity absolutely don’t feel threatened by FDS women and/or women who exceed their talents and knowledge. Rather, they respect it and see it as an attribute. M…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 05:54 PM
2

Cut him off. Block and delete him on your phone and on every social media platform. Avoiding him and time will rid you of your feelings for him. It will come gradually and eventually you’ll find yourself feeling nothing but hints of nostalgia—if that—when you think of him. You won’t gain anything by having any discussions with him. Closure is a myth. It doesn’t happen. Your question of “why did he do this to me?” “Why did this happen” will never be answered to your satisfaction. Know there is no…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 02:53 PM
8

Oh it’s his birthday? That makes a HUGE difference in my decision. FFS, that’s exactly what addicts say to try to get free drugs and what bums say to try to get more change.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 01:34 PM
42

He’s been leading her on for so long. She needs to put a stop to it before kids enter the picture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 06:07 PM
5

I’m also a happy single mom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 01:11 PM
5

This hip scenario actually happened in my family, both my parents needed new hips and without each other they would have been in trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 12:31 PM
14

These men who turn relationships into spreadsheets just don’t see women as human.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 12:27 PM
9

I like your name and I agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 12:27 PM
11

Those relationships barely existed to begin with. Women have always worked outside the home.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 12:26 PM
2

Many women still have to work full-time though in order to get a pension and health benefits. You don’t usually get those with or time work or by being a stay at home mom, even when you’re married and your partner has benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 04:12 AM
4

At least he understands why men get less custody and visitation—they don’t deserve it because they aren’t as interested in them as the mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 04:10 AM
6

Raising kids and running a household is more work than you could handle. You couldn’t cut it as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 04:08 AM
3

This says that they make enough money part-time to survive because they have such advanced skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 04:06 AM
8

Men shouldn’t have kids over 40. Your sperm quality declines. Quality of your sperm also affects the mother’s pregnancy as some of the father’s genes are expressed in the placenta. Older father makes it more likely your wife will have pre-eclampsia, gestational diabetes and that your children will have developmental disabilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 04:05 AM
2

No. You can improve yourself and become worthy of women your own age and stop believing in red pill garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 04:02 AM
10

Lower earning men also don’t want to do the additional cooking, housework and childcare that comes with being the lower earner. If I’m earning more money and having babies and doing childcare, he’s going to be doing ALL the housework and all the cooking and the house had better be fucking spotless and my food well-prepared.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 04:00 AM
5

I once did date down and the man was bitter that I made more money than him. He did everything possible to undermine my career and make me unhappy. For some reason he just wasn’t secure in his own masculinity. Plus, he didn’t want to do the additional housework and cooking that came with him being the lower earner.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 03:56 AM
1

Nope. Women get just as horny as men do and just as often, we just exercise more self-control. And if women report we want sex less often than men it’s because men don’t care about our orgasms and because sex is riskier for us. Women also get shamed for initiating sex and saying we want sex so we under-report our interest in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 10:14 PM
1

If so, you’re approaching women from a standpoint that will drive them crazy. Women don’t want to mother men. If you find women are leaving you it’s because you’re leaning on them like you do your mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 10:09 PM
24

I read that book a year ago right after I learned of it from the FDS handbook. It changed my life. It has helped me process the DV I experienced in my last relationship, which I’ve been working on in therapy. Prior to that I didn’t realize that men can be so far gone with misogyny that they believe it’s fair game for them to use those behaviours to control and terrorize women. I stop feeling any residual self-blame over poor communication and coping skills and recognized I had faced a losing bat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 09:10 PM
21

Ask him his beliefs about free speech and if he believes porn is a free speech issue. That’s how I got over my last crush. Turns out he was married too but he took off his wedding ring and didn’t tell me that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 09:02 PM
73

I had a landlord do the same to me. I wanted a spare room for storage and such and he looked at me like I had something sinister planned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 08:59 PM
89

Men will say whatever benefits them most at that time. I remember my father criticizing my mother for “letting herself go” when she was about 40. She remained married to him but she was like “fuck you”, chopped off her hair, bought herself a bunch of comfy tracksuits and stopped wearing makeup. It was around that time she started telling me I didn’t need to wear to makeup and dresses or do my nails and she started frowning on nail polish too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 08:48 PM
5

No the officer gave my ex a lecture about compromising in relationships and how you can’t just do things without considering your girlfriend’s feelings then he escorted him out.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 07:50 PM
2

They’re comparing you to every pornstar they see and unless you’re a 10/10, they’re judging you negatively. And they’re becoming less attracted to you. But suit yourself. Be with a man who watches porn. Don’t call me “lady” either. It’s exceedingly rude.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 07:46 PM
-1

The women get tired of taking care of a manbaby and end the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 07:11 PM
3

There comes a time in life when you’ll realize sex is not a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 07:10 PM
0

What a ridiculous premise. When people believe myths like these it’s a wonder anyone has relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 07:08 PM
4

I’m an anti-porn woman. I had my last boyfriend removed from my property by the police for lying to me about watching porn. The officer gave him a lecture too. It was hilarious. I want to encourage more women to do this. It’s also a reason why you should never sign a lease with a man or let them on the deed to your house because you then retain the ability to have the police expel them when you find out they watch filmed rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 07:07 PM
2

Any man who denies abuse happened is lying. Abusing women is probably so ingrained into your psyche that you don’t recognize that the way you’re behaving is abusive. You feel entitled to have women do your bidding, I can tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 07:03 PM
1

That’s not it. Men stop being attracted, or at least become less attracted to their girlfriends and wives when they watch porn. Studies prove it. That’s why men ignore their wives and choose to masturbate to images. Men who watch porn are also terrible in bed. They try to emulate porn and are selfish, which turns off the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 07:01 PM
-1

A man lied to me about his porn use. I got the police involved and humiliated him. It was incredible.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 06:58 PM
0

Well she’s not getting an orgasm from it. How is she cheating?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 06:57 PM
-3

That’s the biggest load of bullshit I have heard in my life. You’re just fishing for excuses to watch porn. Porn is filmed rape. You’re sick and all men are sick and need to be chemically castrated if porn is indicative of “male nature.”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 06:56 PM
0

You’re getting an orgasm from the porn. She’s not getting an orgasm from grinding. If there’s an orgasm it’s always cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 06:53 PM
3

Women, by and large, are not okay with their partner using porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 06:52 PM
4

I would rather be single, childless and die alone than be with a man who watched porn, raped prostitutes or had mistresses. Any man who did that to me would face serious repercussions.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 06:50 PM
1

Why do you care how often women have sex? How is it your business?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 06:48 PM
1

A whole evening! Wow....that’s not something I would do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 06:43 PM
7

The women who need time and connection are normal. Women can face life-changing consequences from one sexual encounter—pregnancy—thus women are not predisposed for casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 06:42 PM
17

Yes they do matter the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 06:39 PM
3

Then make yourself more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 06:38 PM
-1

You should learn how to interpret women’s body language and only approach women who demonstrate attraction to you. If you approach a woman who hasn’t demonstrated interest by body language or eye contact, you are most likely going to fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 06:38 PM
105

Polyamory is bad for women no matter how it’s practiced. HVM don’t want to have a harem, they want a committed relationship. They don’t want to be left so they would never suggest a poly relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 04:35 PM
2

If you’re going to go out with a man with kids you have to be clear with them from the outset that you won’t be doing any mommy work, and you need to break up with them if they try to get you to do things like babysitting for them or have “family” nights with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 04:33 PM
20

Back in the 80s and 90s, men used to be laughed for saying “sex is a need” and young women—at least where I grew up—were taught that a male who called sex a “need” were full of shit and trying to take advantage of you. There was even an episode of “Who’s the boss” where Tony tells Sam exactly what boys are going to say to her to trick her. Lo and behold it happens, and she walks out on the guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 02:19 PM
1

Even in wedlock the children should take the mother’s surname.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 02:13 PM
3

One of my exes had a close lesbian friend. They were both writers and worked for the same publishing company. It didn’t occur to me at the time that he could be sexually objectifying her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 12:51 PM
4

You’ve handled the situation perfectly. I really appreciate the friends snd family who did the same for me when I was with a NVM. I knew they knew it was a bad situation but I had to get out on my own. I had to break the cycle of codependency with therapy and then, when I was ready, I asked for the help and support I needed from family and friends to break free and thankfully, they were there for me. Seven years and I haven’t repeated the mistake of making a bad decision about a man. If a woman …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 12:42 PM
1

This sub is indeed hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 08:28 PM
1

Women DO NOT have lower libidos than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 08:27 PM
1

You shouldn’t marry a woman unless you’d protect her from robbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 08:27 PM
1

There are really are a lot of men who fit that description, at least in their behaviour towards women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 08:26 PM
1

I’ve had men do that to me. As soon as we get into the relationship they neglected me for porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 08:24 PM
1

You don’t understand the nature of female sexuality. We like to initiate, we just get called whores when we do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 08:23 PM
3

I agree with you. Men should wait until the women says she’s ready and initiates especially if she’s a virgin. I also like that you pay for dates. Please continue to be polite and considerate.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 08:21 PM
7

It’s true. I’ve done it. I’ve given an asshole a hard time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 08:18 PM
1

Call me cynical but it’s probably because religious women wouldn’t be interested in BDSM and porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 08:16 PM
59

When they claim misandry, they want to dismantle feminism and use the concept of equality against us. They use the term to claim that equality means they’re equally as oppressed by women as women are by men. ALL men know that isn’t true. OP is right. Any man who uses that term is doing so in bad faith and there’s literally no point in even having a dialogue with him. Just ignore, block and delete if you can. You’re not required to listen to men who claim “misandry”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 02:20 PM
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