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Yeah I really like the flannel and the jacket seems really nice quality too. I thought about wearing thick flannel
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 10:26 PM
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Why do I know what you mean but cant remember where I saw it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 10:25 PM
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Bro what the fuck are you cooking!? 💀⚠️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 10:17 PM
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I really like the down stuff but button up the jacket. The shirt and the jacket don't go together so close it up, simple fix. Other then that, looking fresh
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 10:16 PM
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Right? First thing I noticed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 10:14 PM
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You know judge Judy is staged right?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 07:20 AM
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Dude hows your journey of becoming attractive coming along
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 07:15 AM
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Dude if thats average 90% of dudes I know are above average
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 07:14 AM
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Wtf you re alive ceo
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 08:57 PM
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Aight lol 🫵😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 08:56 PM
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This you in the N count thread <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 07:17 PM
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Absolute bop
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 07:05 PM
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You blow a fuse every time an N count thread pops up 💁
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 07:04 PM
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Dude wtf whats your forearm routine I work out mine a lot and Im still not happy with the girth 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 05:47 PM
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I don't need a virgin. Sure I'd prefer if she didnt fuck an army before me but I'd just want someone Im attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 03:43 PM
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Mmmmm I don't think we could work, most women have had a relationship by my point. But I get what you mean it just probably won't work for me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 03:32 PM
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Yeah. I am honestly a bit worried as I am a 22 year old virgin and I think its best that I hide that. The thing that worries me is that I really don't want my first sexual partner to be grossed out by it and resultimg in me not ever wanting to try it again and resenting people. I think I would regret it if it was someone I didnt like in ANY aspect. And I get that. Im not sure what I want rn or in the future but if I ever wanna get married Id want that too
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 01:18 PM
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I have come to learn to value who I am as I've overcome some shit, who hasn't right? And I wouldn't even say my standards are super high, just someone thats cute and I can agree with. I don't think fucking someone I don't wanna fuck is a solution to anything and it will only result in making mental health worse. I am very glad you overcame your own problems and I hope you are able to look in the mirror these days and be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 01:15 PM
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I could never hire a prostitute man. I know a lot of people say your first time you'll be super excited and probably gonna explode at the touch I hope that doesn't happen 😭. Im sorry your first time wasnt good. Yeah like, it doesn't have to be the love of my life or anything I'd just prefer it to be a girl that at least somewhat likes me and that im attracted to her and she is to me. I could never do it to a prostitute or someone I don't like out of desperation
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 11:08 AM
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They were probably having a shit day and decided that someone else should suffer too. Sorry that happened I hope that didnt ruin the rest of the evening
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 09:40 AM
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Yeah, my mental health was really better as compared to before when I was so desperate and basically forcing myself to be miserable. No, no I get it don't worry, nothing gneder specific about wanting it to be good. I hope your first time is great too
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 07:47 AM
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Cause a lot of people gaslight themselves that they like people they're with cause they don't wanna be alone. Some people are just toxic. Some people never grew out of their HS bully phase so they bully the adult version of their former victims. And also, its totally possible to be in a relationship and be a god awful person. Its best to just disregard it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 10:50 PM
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White and Pink, cause if its pure white it looks uglier as it gets worn as opposed to other colors
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 10:47 PM
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Do you guys think being hopeful for your first N is a bad idea, like I still somewhat want it to be special
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 10:46 PM
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Aggrevated assault and battery
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 10:42 PM
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Bro looks like a year 10 bully from an Adam Sandler movie
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 10:41 PM
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The way god intended
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 10:40 PM
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☕☕☕☕☕☕☕☕
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 10:38 PM
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Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 09:57 PM
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Are you volunteering?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 09:56 PM
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I glug it all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 09:56 PM
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Noted Hannah
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 07:48 PM
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Thanks. I do drunk a ton of water, actually am underrated health hack
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 07:48 PM
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Sounds fancy damn I deserve to treat myself ✨💅
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 07:48 PM
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Does anyone have any advice for my chapped lips. Chapstick doesnt help :(
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 07:02 PM
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Sure. I would prefer if they werent just two pimples but smaller side, medium or large, all works
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 07:12 PM
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Fuck that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 07:11 PM
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Wdym man I finally get to be average 🫡🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 02:55 PM
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um lets gooooo I can finally reach the average which is 5 inches!!!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 02:27 PM
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I'll raise you ten more
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 02:27 PM
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Bare minimum! 👏🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 04:29 PM
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Tbh it was easier to remember this way for me 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 04:24 PM
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Absolutely. I had a "friend" that could not be helped and in general was miserable to be around
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 04:20 PM
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Right you are. All these people I feel bad I cant remember everyone and their place of residence. Cept you, ur from skinwalker land 💀💀
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 04:15 PM
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Yeah. I feel bad for not realizing his circumstance. Pray that he one day finds his peace! 🙌🏻✨🤍
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 04:12 PM
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I guess so. I always wanted just for everyone to be happy but maybe it wasnt destined for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 04:08 PM
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Shit. I honestly didn't know.....
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 04:04 PM
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Wasnt Electric coat british
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 04:03 PM
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Honestly yeah. I just wished he'd try doing something to be less miserable. At least SOMETHING
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 04:00 PM
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His biggest problem was that he let agression be an excuse so he can keep running away. I didnt like his attitude. I couldnt blame him but he really did wanna avoid doing anything, even just trying to find something fun to keep him occupied, or trying to make himself more attractive. Despite all, I could sense his grief and I hope he will be in a better place soon
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 03:59 PM
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Electric coat was that one dude I felt really really bad for dude was clearly in the gutters mentally. I saw him in a random comment somewhere actually
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 03:52 PM
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Yeah. It breaks the "women are wonderful" effects and well, we all wanna be wonderful, don't we
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 03:48 PM
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I'm gonna be honest, this is the third time I've had this conversation and I know neither of us gon budge. Have a nice rest of your day ✨🙌🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 03:41 PM
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Yeah I agree not every guy who can't fuck is a misogynistic. Therefore, incel just means a dude that cant fuck, there are many causes and many after effects of it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 03:33 PM
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There is one thing I said before. A scarce sex life is not abiding social norms, and people don't like that because most of the times, people who don't have sex are often in unnatractive package, mentally or physically. Its just making fun of people who aren't "normal" .
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 03:28 PM
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Exactly. So incel works and not fucking has little to do with misogyny
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 03:26 PM
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It looks nice! Don't! Hannah Winter arc
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 03:16 PM
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I never understood that. Like mysognist is already there. It just means u wanna fuck but cant its not that deep
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 03:15 PM
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Does not compute
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 03:09 PM
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Hannah I hardly recognize you have you been trying something new with your style?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 03:05 PM
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Mack and its not even close
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 02:48 PM
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Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 02:24 PM
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Well, you said you wanted confidence and attraction? Fulfiling your desires, i.e. MMA will help you be fitter and by extension more confident. Tommorow morning get your ass up and go kick a bag Today I went to uni, takimg a break rn and gonna chill until the weekend and then party ig
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 02:22 PM
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We always do friend. WHO THOUGH
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 07:07 PM
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Honest to god, if he lost weight he'd be super attractive, no joke. But I see what you mean. We all like aesthetic looks
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 06:09 AM
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What does the individual look like? Yeah I generally agree. Everyone has a minimum threshold. I'll never say I don't have one
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 09:10 PM
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Booty is booty! Hips are hips!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 07:05 PM
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As I always said. Incels are just dudes who can't get laid. Simple as. What do you think causes those unfixable guys
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 08:50 AM
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Oh damn. What was his story?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 08:08 AM
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Lets get it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 07:25 AM
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DUDE I LOVE WALKING SHIRTLESS around my house its legit my favorite thing I feel like a warrior after battle so yes totally relate
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 07:24 AM
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I woke up and told myself today eill be a good day. Got studying and its really ugly weather so Im gaslighting myself
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 07:21 AM
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Fatality
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 07:20 AM
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Its kinda like white dudes for Kamala. Men in today's society in some people's eyes should only get together when it serves other's goals
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 07:19 AM
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Most miserable guy here was that one British dude in his 30s I havent seen him in a while
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 07:14 AM
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Have you noticed many cases like that? I'm curious how some dudes turned out before and after
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 07:13 AM
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Bro asked THE question
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 07:12 AM
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Happy your date went so well brodski 🙌🏻✨
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 06:09 AM
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How bad was it? I mean the snap
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 06:07 AM
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He's that one guy I feel especially bad for he didn't deserve his circumstances. I will always pray for his success
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 06:07 AM
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That's false man for sure I'm convinced blondies are popular
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:39 AM
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I don't I mean, I love all hairs but curls are so pretty 🤭
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:38 AM
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This would be very useful had I ever bothered reading the sidebar thanks 😶‍🌫️🤫
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:36 AM
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I never really figured out what pinkpill is but I don't think its fully either of those
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:04 AM
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Wowza its so nice. My handwriting looks like I had a stroke. And worst part is I try to make it look good My teachers always commented how I hold my hand in a weird twisty way when I write. No one made that comment in ages but it always seemed so normal to me
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:03 AM
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Hannah, FunEd, K4matayon feel like they need it the most 🙌🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 05:48 AM
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Sushi Monsters
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 05:46 AM
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Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 05:46 AM
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Last night I went to catch beers with some friends and one of them said I should grow my hair out and get a middleparter to accentuate my sharp features. Cause apperently my simple old ass fade is "gay". Not sure I did wanna try growing my hair out but shit I hate awkward middle phases
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 07:10 PM
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The second pic is how I imagine people in relationships in PPD most of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 01:32 PM
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If I don't hear a squirt while I'm whipping this I don't wanna talktuah
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 11:50 AM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 11:50 AM
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I'll write that on my job resume. I might need you for a reference, to convince them I'm not capping I'd say I don't dress too flashy but I have been complimented a few times so I'd say I stick out a lil' but don't wanna be TOO out there. I usually wear loose pants, oftentimes torn, and upstairs its usually a simple sweater to balance it out, a watch and looking into buying some necklaces. Definitely something that puts an accent on my upper body, but still a bit casual yknow?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 11:44 AM
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Hahaha, around Here that counts up to around 6 packs of ramen and a deep breath for lunch on sunday! 😭 I'm looking for something fall looking. Loose fitting pants, sweaters and such.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 10:26 AM
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Nah the real struggle is when your account be empty. I just gotta keep what I got left 😭👀 Clothes are something I also be aiming for soon. Any experience w second hand shops?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 10:00 AM
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Ye ye I hidrate constantly. I do suppose people who are watching their weight can also see these messages and realize its okay to vary in weight. Its how you truly feel what matters
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 09:56 AM
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Yeah. But I gotta save money for my tutor 💀.This one is fairly basic looking but its real silver and its not tacky really. Looks good w casual stuff. And what are you gonna buy?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 09:54 AM
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Oh no that is normal! But it makes me wonder what happens to my body that makes it go up and down in a single afternoon like that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 09:48 AM
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Geez I wanna get a silver necklace but its still pricey. Being a broke ahh college student is a challenge for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 08:59 AM
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Is it weird that I can't quite picture an ideal woman for me? I feel like there are so many factors I can take into consideration that I can't fathom whats my ideal or what I want really
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 08:54 AM
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Geez, something upset my stomach yesterday and today I skip lectures cause of the squirts Its wild how human body works. I weigh 91 kg and my weight varies from 89 to 92.5 all the time. I really do wonder tf be going on 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 08:50 AM
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Shimano
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 04:33 PM
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Hope you keep trucking my guy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 04:31 PM
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Midterms written lets get it! I swear just this semester then we bing chilling
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 03:56 PM
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OMG it won't. US won't back down aid to Ukraine cause it strictly benefits from military industrial complex. Everyone knows what WW3 means. Nukes and glass. Multiple countries have a whole plan to take the whole world with them in case nukes start flying I just don't see it happening
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 03:54 PM
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Well shit hahaha. How would you deal w being shot down in front of a friend
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 05:23 PM
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Im a tall guy with a symetric face and a glowup. Just one problem <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 05:04 PM
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The thing is my friend is taken and I've never quite done it. I overcame my social anxiety but since I struggled a lot I just overthink a bit. Yeah. I hope I can shamelessly shoot my shot one day
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 04:55 PM
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Would you guys say its awkward approaching someone while she's with a friend chatting. There was a cute girl last night at this bar but I left her alone cause: 1. I was with my friend. 2. I figured she was just enjoying her beer with her friend and didnt need my inexperienced ass bothering her. I received some IOIs recently which reassured that I'm more then attractive enough for dating. But I wanna meet someone organically cause going online isnt good for me Also, I'm a respectful individual in…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 04:41 PM
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Big agree. I also think a belly button piercing is the hottest thing ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 04:37 PM
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Riiiight! I forgot it was psych! Undergrad? What methods do you research for anxiety interventions? Hahaha a lady that appreciates a cozy life, I'm sure he's a lucky guy. Is he good looking? 👀 Hey online is valid if it works for you. How long have you done online dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 04:35 PM
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I suppose you got a point as well. Tech made it easier. And it has grown in problem since introducing it But consider as well that those dudes always existed, lacked proper support cause of education system being shit and it just spiraled down. Aint justifying it. Just playing that its ALL that damn phone aint true. It is a bit. But take away the phone, you still got a fair share of antisocial dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 04:08 PM
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Nah I locked myself up cause my peers as a kid told me they hated me. I don't know what I did wrong but thats been happenings since grade one. It is what it is and now I handle best I can, but outside can definitely force you inside. Its not your fault, but its your responsibility to fix it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 04:01 PM
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Whats the topic of your thesis? Trust me, when its all said and done all that stress will seem silly. Congratulations. Now pardon me if I don't remember but whats your major? Yaaay! How did you meet that person? The worst part is its just one big exam that requires a lot of theory and maths that can be tricky since prof takes the oral exam very seriously. All my other exams arent a big deal but I barely got the energy to study for them. Happy to hear you've been well
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 03:59 PM
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I've been great lately. Went to a concert, saw some friends, overall a mixed bag cause of a big exam I got upcoming and my tutoring for it, but really satisfied and happy. Just got a bit of a cold lately so this week I skip working out. I hope your life treats you well. Meet any cool ppl or do anything fun?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 03:49 PM
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Its okay Hannah we must find the invincible "we are so back" within
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 03:43 PM
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<image> Me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 03:35 PM
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0. Well I've had a pretty bad childhood with a lot of bullying. This left me unprepared for high school where I had no social skills. Then COVID happened, worked shitty jobs. Got in uni, and third year now. First two years is basically me trying to learn all the social skills I failed at. Third year I got a glowup recently, clicked with some people platonically, lost weight and I think of myself a fairly attractive guy now. I hope I can get a bodycount of 1 around the time I'm 23 or 24. I do reg…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 03:24 PM
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Bare minimum lil bro
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 03:17 PM
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Listening to AiC is like how it feels to down a white monster, smoke a cig and drive around aimlessly. Respect I like em
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 03:06 PM
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Pray that it stays normal and that you stay healthy too. Cardiovascular stuff is scary
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 02:58 PM
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I think if people wanna say body count doesnt matter, then it shouldnt matter if its 50 or 0
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 02:54 PM
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I swear the chest puffers of Reddit are hillarious. They pump propaganda how Ukraine is demolishing russians and turns around yelling why arent ppl spending more on Ukraine aid like bro pick one. In general they behave as if war is a Netflix show when its a tragedy and should be made fun of. Refusing to be objective, and just behaving like its a game
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 02:49 PM
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Last time it was really good. Overall I am eptiomy of a healthy lad. Wby
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 02:43 PM
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Oldie but goodie. You actively listen to classics or is it that you heard it somewhere and couldnt remember so you shazamed it?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 02:41 PM
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Bojack seems kind of something not for me. I don't wanna be depressed watching a cartoon. Who does?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 02:26 PM
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Hey guys. Missed a bit of toxicity cause I've been having a good old time lately. It was a lovely day today. Did you guys rediscover any old songs you havent heard in a while?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 02:26 PM
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It always is lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 02:25 PM
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Hahaha yeah I getcha. Though new pic=new era.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 02:24 PM
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These are the type of kids who end up doing really bad shit later in life when they snap
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 10:24 AM
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I think it's stupid that there's even a competition over who gets to puff their chest more over not needing the opposite sex. Like you look silly and immature, idiot
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 08:24 PM
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There's no way Gloomette is not a dude. She's too cartoonish
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:57 PM
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Hmmm well, money and friends are great to have but I think I'd still be eager to have a fulfilled sexual life, imo I tried and supress my attraction and desire before but it just doesn't work and one should just be honest with oneself. I don't think anything could supress my desire that wasn't a relationship or sex. I got friends and I'm working towards a well paid career but that doesn't mean life is fulfilled you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 08:24 PM
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I drink alcohol in social settings. I don't really enjoy it otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 07:41 PM
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Bro same. If I drink, I drink at bars but I never went out and bought alcohol specifically for my own needs
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 07:35 PM
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Yes I do. Consider her one of my best friends actually. I think it's great how it turned out how a complete random person turned out to be such a good friend of mine. Works that we've got compatible opinions on stuff, same sense of humor and there is zero sexual spark on either side. It works like a charm
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 07:32 PM
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When is your transplant gonna happen bro
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 08:36 PM
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Weightloss is great bro! Makes you feel so much better
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 08:34 PM
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I'm too much of a pussy to watch movies. I am just into urban legends and shit. I remember my friend playing a game called fear assesment and it's a game whose whole point is to make sure you can't sleep at night. Rules include playing the game with headphones, with open windows and doors.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 08:30 PM
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Not gonna lie I'm not that desperate big dawg
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 08:10 PM
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Praying for both of us
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 05:34 PM
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Ngl I thought you were talking about the subreddit and I thought it was one of the funniest comments ever
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 05:23 PM
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Oooooo exam time tommorow. I'm gonna be honest, uni time is better then summer break, all I did was boil and work this summer smh
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 04:52 PM
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I don't even have to watch the video to know what talking points will be used by her
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 04:30 PM
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The four horsemen is the best metallica song, fite me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 04:00 PM
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Like it's okay not to wanna be a mother, but don't complain about it if you aren't one. Like, men have so many roles who are dominated by men, and what am I gonna do? Complain about them if I don't participate in them?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 03:55 PM
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No I think you're a misandrist because you call yourself one and you hate men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 03:53 PM
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I'm gonna be honest, a lot of twoxchromosome users complains don't happen because they're women, they happen because they're unpleasent people. Because they are the type to post in twox I've worked with and seen TONS of women work in male dominated spaces. Nary an issue with them, and a good chunk have a great sense of humor. I know its anecdotal but maybe being in a hateful place makes them come off as unpleasent? That's what happens to incels as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 03:52 PM
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You literally have a misandrist in your tag. And you're trying to tell me you think annoying men and annoying women are equal? Like, you are literally ousting yourself as someone who actively discriminates against men. But alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 03:48 PM
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Yeah. Not saying it ain't hard, but man, if you aren't preggo, then don't act like ur a victim of pregnancy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 03:44 PM
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Yep. They are in equal quantity. But something tells me you don't think these two are equally annoying
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 03:43 PM
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Ok but some women do say that and then proceed to not give birth
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 03:39 PM
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Yeah. Don't forget to put your hand down your pants
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 03:38 PM
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Start moaning loudly, he'll go away very quickly
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 03:36 PM
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Women be posting shit like this and live in the safest place on the planet
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 03:32 PM
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I second this
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 02:17 PM
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Thanks homeslice.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 11:43 AM
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Yeah I know that. I wanted to just do it casually, just go for it and suggest we go to a place and get some beers together
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 11:42 AM
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Thanks man. Will keep in mind
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 11:05 AM
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oh my b
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 11:04 AM
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Yeah I getcha. Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 09:46 AM
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Hmmm not sure how saying her hair looks nice when its down implies the bun looks bad but ok.. And ofc, I aint a creep no body comments
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 09:43 AM
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Yeah asd I said, in a casual setting, I bank on the girl I plan on asking out wearing her hair down as opposed to a bun she usually wears, so I could compliment that. And yeah, always compliment a conscious choice, never something she got no control over, like her bod. Besides, it's creepy. If she says yes on first date I wanna make it more innocent.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 08:34 AM
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Oof not sure I can do the hug. But, since I plan on asking this girl out, she usually wears her hair in a bun. In a more casual setting I bank on her putting it down, maybe I can say something that her hair looks much nicer this way
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 08:33 AM
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How would u go about that bro?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 08:20 AM
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Yeah like, I think complimenting needs to be timed well. I wouldn't really wanna come off sexual but I'd wanna come off as you know, pleasent right. Isn't that what women like?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 08:14 AM
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Hello healthy (19 - 21 ) BMI woman. Fine day today wouldn't you say?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 08:01 AM
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Are you sure we are looking at the same subreddit bro
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 08:00 AM
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I have a question, more asking for advice. Can anyone clue me in on how to flirt a bit on a first date? Like being too out there but you know. The normal amount. How one shows what their intentions are
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 07:59 AM
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I'm sorry man. That vibe is given off by people who need a lot of external validation. Men shouldn't care about it. At least not act in that way. I hope it works out
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 11:40 AM
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Yeah, that's a very good way of going about it. I do wanna give the benefit of the doubt of women irl not really prying into buisness that's not theirs. At least that's how I percieve it. So I think it'll work out. Hope it does for you
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 11:38 AM
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Q4virgins, given that the inexperience has been the talk for the past day or so, what's your game plan when it happens to you? Will you be honest right off the bat or do you bank that it never happens? Me personally, when it happens to me, obviously I'll give off confidence so I don't think anyone will question anything, because well, without the said confidence the situation where I or anyone else would be with someone would not have happened
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 10:50 AM
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I suppose so. Maybe a lot of men take more of a male perspective because it relates more to them. Simmilair how women will listen to women more, because well, they just relate more to it. I do consider women's advices, if it tries to be understanding to a man's POV. I had a nice few interactions with a few women on this sub. And most of my interactions with women are overwhelmingly positive. I just think double standard isn't something exclusive to redpillers. It's a human instinct to want to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 10:43 AM
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I'm not being vague. A lot of times, no matter how much someone improves, it never cuts it and they just get, well just because you did x, y and z, doesn't mean you're compatible with others, and what did you expect, just because you did x, y and z doesn't make you entitled. You always have an answer for something and it always blames the dudes, never the climate, or someone's high standards or saying that maybe you met someone who just sucked all around and it wasn't his fault. It's always wild…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 09:30 AM
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No I'm saying it's ironic coming from a blue piller. Bluepillers constantly move goalposts and do double standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 08:51 AM
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This is so ironic
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 08:39 AM
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Redditors are some of the most repugnant people on the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 08:37 AM
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I think most dudes here are trying to reverse engineer women with these discussion posts. They don't amount to anything, you can't change people's minds. You can only change yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 08:36 AM
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You don't have to lie, just don't tell. If you do got a chance w a girl, you're probably coming off confident. Don't see the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 08:35 AM
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You shouldn't say the meanest shit possible because you should be a decent person
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 08:19 AM
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Your flair says a man. Why are you being so cruel towards other men?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 08:18 AM
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It must be hell inside your head
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 08:17 AM
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I'm saying that there are more countries then 14 where women have equality
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 10:37 PM
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Only fourteen is about as correct as the notion that Bill Clinton didn't recieve a under his desk. There is more to west then just scandinavia, you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 09:39 PM
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Holy shit someone who understands how science and studies and pseudoacademicism works
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 10:51 AM
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I've only ever met one female pick me and despite her being physically attractive for whatever reason every interaction I had with her was off. It didn't feel right. People who met pick me's know what I'm talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 08:28 AM
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Really? Those are all things that men only really prove once they have it. No one percieves capability on me or any man I know before they see us work. No one looks at me and thinks I earn a lot. I will earn my money but it takes a lot of work. What does freedom from ownership mean? As far as I am aware, owning people hasn't been a thing in majority of the world for a good while now. Everyone is allowed to talk to anyone, I or anyone else don't look down on people for talking. I know it sounds l…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 08:23 AM
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If empathy and sympathy are seperate traits, then what's the point of just being more empathetic? That's like saying you got four wheels and a transmission but lack the rest of the car. From what we've seen, women of this subreddit cannot sympathise with men. At least most, don't wanna exclude some people on this subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 08:11 AM
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I heard if you are in no position to post a decent beach photo, and all u got is a dirty bathroom, the best option is to get a slim fit shirt that accents a nice body, and that works almost as well
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 08:54 PM
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That's dangerous. A nice calorie deficit of around 500 calories is perfectly achieveable. That's a very good way to consistently lose weight without loose skin if you're not too fat. Cutting off everything is a terrible idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 08:47 PM
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I don't think patriarchal societal roles are something men and only men maintain and uphold
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 08:38 PM
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Where is the male privilege? The sole privilege I see is for the wealthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 08:37 PM
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Accusing someone of making broad statements while claiming men are sexist by default (through their own fault or not) is peak brainrot
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 08:35 PM
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Politics tend to weasel their way into science frequently
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 08:25 PM
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Yeah. So, you can use those abilities for good or bad. Proving the OPs point
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 08:22 PM
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Simply being able to read emotions does not make one empathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 08:16 PM
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Very true. What conclusion would you draw from those studies and what methodologies were used?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 08:01 PM
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Studies typically don't mean shit. There are so many studies that aren't worth anything and don't represent anything. There's a reason why lying using statistics is a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 07:56 PM
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Yeah, I get it. I didn't plan on going to grad school until at least 25 - 26 where I will already be at my job. So I can just see how I'm feeling. But basically, when I get that job it'll be my lifetime career.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 03:15 PM
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I'd be working while doing grad school. Grad school takes up less energy and is designed for you to complete it while you work
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 03:01 PM
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Fuck yeah, that's awesome. Being better then others is always nice
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 02:57 PM
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Mechanical engineering. Don't wanna disclose what I want to do, but it's a very responsible area at higher positions. Basically my first and main goal is something achieveable with just undergrad. Anything else above is just a bonus
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 02:55 PM
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Extremely fucking based
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 02:54 PM
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It's always Tiffany
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 02:53 PM
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Would you guys say grad is generally worth it if you can basically get the career you want with just undergrad? I do wanna go to grad school but basically by then I'll already have the job I want. This would just be for masters, and I can advance even more but you basically gotta have some connections or be super exceptional, if you want grad school to matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 02:51 PM
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I'd say it's an empathy gap, as I mentioned before. More often then not, you value insight of partnered people, because that's what you want. So you ask these people and then they see your post, and immediately look at their partner, and they see them as kind, brave, strong, beautiful/handsome, safe to be around etc., so in their mind, the fact you struggle, by default it MUST mean you are the complete opposite, it's basically and Occam's razor. That's why I think the best advice is given by dud…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 09:04 AM
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gigachad
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 09:01 AM
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It's not helpful though. Hello reddit, I am a XY year old man, I do X for a living, and I've been having trouble with relationships. At my age it's getting a bit frustrating so I wanted to ask you how can I improve, I've updated my wardrobe, I got a promotion at work, lost weight etc. I'd love to hear you guys out. Dear Anon, just remember you are not entitled to a woman's attention or relationship even if you do all of these. Like geeeeee, thaaaanks. Literally if you got nothing even remotely h…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 09:00 AM
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I'd say best way of getting around it is just ignoring some flabby fuck on reddit who likes putting others down. I think a good part of the "normies" who give such advice never really grew or matured past high school so they still sort of see some caste of people as "losers" who can't really claw their way out. Is that really the brand of person you wanna look up to or take advice from?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 08:57 AM
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It's almost like there's a simple solution to that. Just don't surround yourself with them then????
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 08:39 AM
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Not just any lol. I worked fairly hard on myself, I am entitled to standards
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 02:01 PM
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I will try to get some. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 01:57 PM
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Yeah, that's understandable. But you think you can't catch up in other ways?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 01:55 PM
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whats your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 01:39 PM
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A bit of a bump in the road wouldn't you say so? In early 20s?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 01:35 PM
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You think it's something that's just inborn? I could agree I suppose, social skills could be learnt, with a very difficult curve and patient people around you, but charisma, probably a natural talent. Also, are you blue pilled really? Kind of a depressing take, even if it's true. Don't bluepillers think it's all sunshine and rainbows and that you can "listen and respect" your way into relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 01:33 PM
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What do you mean "false hope"?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 01:30 PM
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I think it's mostly just bad luck all around during my youth. I do agree, if I should still probably ask this girl out and not expect anything. If we have a pleasent chat I'll chalk it up as a good experience
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 09:11 AM
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I am a left leaning and I don't like to discuss politics. It's just something I keep to myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 09:10 AM
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Yeah since then I decided I'm asking it irl. I gotta find the balls to do it, no other way around it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 08:20 AM
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Yeah, I get it. It was necessary, beforehand girls barely even treated me as a human to be honest. Like sure they were nice but I feel like if social norms didnt force them to be nice they'd hate me. I remember one time I asked out a girl over text and she literally carried on the convo completely ignoring the text, it felt awful man. Also I don't really want ultraconservatives, since I am a left winger
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 08:03 AM
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I'm sorry bro
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 08:01 AM
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Well I am above 6 in height, and I did lose a bit of weight and currently looking on expanding wardrobe but I think it doesn't matter as much cause like, I don't really get many chances whatsoever, All the glowing up was in past few months basically with weightloss and such.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 08:01 AM
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Yeah but there are two types of dudes who succeed. The ones who are experienced and come with all the perks of it, good looking, confident etc, and the ones who are extremely lucky. And at 22, am I the latter? and the first ones, sure I did glew up, but all the insecurities are there
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 07:59 AM
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Sorry man, hope you find yourself a healthy (19-21 BMI) woman soon
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 07:45 AM
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Not only that, I get a lil bit of second thoughts about asking out a girl I sort of fancied taking out for a drink, cause she broke up w a bf she was with for two years. Fuck man two years is a long ass time
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 07:43 AM
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Yeah. I feel like glow up or not, I'm still in trouble. Fuck man, why this gotta be like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 07:37 AM
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I had a convo w a friend that said being in early 20s as a man with no experience is a very tricky place to navigate through and that I'll have to figure some shit out. Basically it sort of happened as we were talking about our lives, living situations, relationships and such. Fuck me man.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 07:33 AM
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Honestly I couldn't be that heartless but god DAMN
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 08:01 PM
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Fuck no.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 07:35 PM
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You guys ever have a random ass day when you start thinking about how in a very short time frame your life will be completely different and how you'll have more freedom and more things you want but also start imagining scenarios how it could get fucked up and how tired you are from living with family and want your own place, but then you chalk it up to just being a bit overworked and tired? Happened to me today
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 07:00 PM
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What happened chief
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 08:44 PM
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Holy shit that's bad jesus christ that man should be away from that woman
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 05:05 PM
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When men do bad things, it's because they're men. That's the factor that's always blamed. They got a dick dangling between their legs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 05:04 PM
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Yeah I got plenty muscle. Been working out with actual proper results for a year now, and BMI in general is stupid and innacurate unless you're fat and don't move one bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 05:00 PM
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Today I weighed and for a man, I am 24 BMI, which means I am not healthy (19 - 21) BMI
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 04:45 PM
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Sorry fellas. It's clear cut. I wish I could tell you it's anything other then losing weight and working on your looks. If you're balding, get a hair transplant or shave it. I'm sorry boys, but I started getting treated as human when I grew strong and glew up. That's how it is. I fully understand everything and it hurts but you have to. Of course you have to socialize and all that, and social skills matter A LOT. But not unless you pass the looks treshold.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 02:44 PM
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The thing is, I'm sure despite not being experienced in some way or another, these guys probably had one or two bad encounters with women. And they start noticing uniformed standards, and then they start believing one thing. The reason why my flair is redpill because I don't believe in the whole "Oh treat girls with respect like human beings and you'll be fine!". No, I won't be fine unless I take measurements to make myself more attractive. I get where women are coming from. They see crime stati…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 07:19 AM
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How dare those men die for their country
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 05:41 AM
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I grew up lower middle class. When I'm done with uni, hopefully I'll be middle to upper middle class, so basically my life starts then
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 05:38 AM
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LMAO. This is the funniest shit I've read today. He went out of his way to learn to shower daily! This is why he gets laid!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 05:37 AM
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Forest Gump was a movie I watched once and never felt like watching it again. Same with American Psycho. Those films aren't rewatchable imo
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 05:35 AM
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I think a ton of these things require being jaded by things that tend to happen to someone who might not have had best of luck from the start. You got two types, dudes who've been bullied and rejected since they were kids, and ladies who've had one or two bad encounters with men, or read about it through TwoX. Both of them are angry, and most people aren't rational when they're angry. It's perfectly normal to want a space to discuss stuff that bothers you, and relationships are no different. But…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 05:24 AM
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Good shit. U been chatting her up?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 07:11 PM
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Ohhhh I see. Well, do wish you best of luck with that. It's always a noble pursuit to relieve others of pain. Hope it all works out for you. My, I always thought psychology is such an interesting field of science to study. Human mind and it's many mysteries and it's interactions with the outside world is just such an iceberg to get into that never truly gets fully discovered. Shame in my freshman year I had a org. psych. class for whatever the fuck reason as I study a tech. major, my professor w…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 07:09 PM
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Who u crushing on legend?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 07:06 PM
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What's your ideal girl keebs
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 07:05 PM
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Well that's good, this shitshow needs more people like that. A therapist as in a psychiatrist, as in doctor of medicine?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 07:03 PM
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Well there you go. At least you're a tough as nails depressed guy and not a flabby depressed guy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 07:02 PM
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Nah bro I let it drip and feel like a fucking champ afterwards
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 07:02 PM
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This is true. I think a lot of dudes are told to self improve because I don't think many dudes, me for starters want just any girl. But despite that it's sad, the culture of putting men down is deeply rooted in our society
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 07:01 PM
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Hope you wrote some really unhinged shit, king. Let those glowies know you're on to them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:58 PM
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Hahhaha now I'm curious about you being a ppd therapist
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:57 PM
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Oh yeah, I don't think I'd be treated equally if I weren't fit now. And yeah, it is a major benefit, but you gotta have other benefits too, can't make a cake without flour you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:50 PM
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I asked my friend about is there any harm if I ask a girl from my job out because she's a mutual of my friends and he says mistake number one is letting other people's opinions stopping you from getting what you want and blinding you from actually being yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:49 PM
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Wojaks are such a rabbithole
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:47 PM
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I swear man, the day I catch a break with ladies, I'm gone
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:45 PM
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And we like you too Hannah
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:45 PM
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I am from a european country that's basically 99.99% white and one time when I was working as a tour guide for childrens school trips, basically an animator, there was a private school tour with more "unique" kids and they were a blast. There was one black girl and she spoke the language fluently as she was adopted, and everyone wanted to touch her hair, and she let them cause she's used to it and likes it when people like her hair
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:45 PM
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I think a lot of dudes also look at gym and working out as just a means to make yourself more attractive and that's very true, but I think a ton of other benefits are also there which aren't talked about. I was always a weak kid, and I put on weight fairly young and was a chubster. I've been skinny fat for majority of my life, but in last few months I lost a bunch of weight, have an athletic build, finally able to do pull ups which was always something I wanted to do, and just overall feeling st…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:43 PM
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I only really see average and attractive types, I saw one or two dudes who were overweight, but looked fairly average besides that. Really only unattractive people in relationships are older ones, but that's to be expected cause looks fade. Almost all unattractive people I know are single
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:40 PM
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Honestly no
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:43 PM
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Being short and ugly near a woman, obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:36 PM
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Sorry mane, you gotta move on. Next student it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:35 PM
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coffee
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:27 PM
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Of course, that's why I put "despicable misogynists" in captions haha. These dudes are just deemed unworthy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:09 PM
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Lmao classic. Bet she couldn't even speak properly if she were to face any men she trolls online irl
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:54 PM
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I usually take studies that make men look like the dumber and brutish ones with a grain of salt
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:52 PM
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I did get that impression, they don't think that these "despicable misogynists" pursuit oppurtunities elsewhere. I think every single one that complains is just too occupied with their comfy lives to care about exploitation
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:49 PM
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Majority of my interactions with women are positive. They're always nice to me these days, and I don't think I've met a woman that I couldn't interact in a positive way in at least 10 months. They're fairly relaxed when you joke around and banter. So yeah, I'd say they're fairly chill and I like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:47 PM
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Oh for sure. I think a lot of those reddit women would never have the guts to say any shit they spew irl. They're fully aware what they say is stupid, so that's why they wouldn't do it irl
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:43 PM
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I'd say "not expressing emotions" is definitely a toxically masculine trait upheld by women, I can attest to it, but it is a personal anecdote. A lot of other dudes swear by it as well. Of course there are plenty of women who are mature enough to let dudes be emotional but we are still taught to watch our mouths
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:40 PM
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People want to believe they're good. It's hard to face your own flaws, and I do agree with you. If you do complain, they'll pull some personal anecdote out of their ass to invalidate it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:38 PM
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Some people want to bully but aren't strong or tough enough to put their money where their mouth is. I don't think it's gender specific
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:37 PM
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I do agree some men are spergy but women look like they're better at masking because of significantly less expectations put on them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 02:25 PM
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I have a neurodivergent little sister, she's always had problems socializing and she's socially isolated. For whatever reason she doesn't see it as a problem. But her therapist let her go basically saying everything is okay. I think a lot of therapists are kinda meh.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 02:02 PM
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The ones who are not are not in the slightest. I've seen plenty
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 01:14 PM
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What things do we do to ND girls that we don't do to ND boys?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 12:34 PM
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I noticed it too with elementary school people. One girl basically looks like an adult version, she's fairly attractive. Everyone else let themselves go. And we're only 22 - 23
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 07:01 PM
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Oh. That's a very dumb claim on his part. I love my homies
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 06:57 PM
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Seriously, how weak are these people?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 05:59 PM
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Most men have plenty of friends. I'm not neurodivergent, but I struggled with antisocial behaviour for a LONG time. And I clawed my way out of it and got plenty friends. That is just one mf on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 05:58 PM
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Can you explain what criticism would women take?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 05:54 PM
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Yeah, I have a gay friend with autism and I'm fairly certain he'd be straight if he weren't autistic. He's a good guy, but I can't imagine being a girl dating someone like that. I enjoy spending time with him and all but he does have a difficult time reading cues and such. Also what kind of treatment do you even suggest for neurodivergency? Stuffing people with pills and gaslighting them with talk therapy won't help majority of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 05:53 PM
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Which asscrack are you people pulling this idea that men don't have friends from?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 05:49 PM
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I remember seeing a comment from someone on this subreddit that said that he has dudes in his social circle that he would never under any circumstances introduce to his female friends. That tells you everything basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 05:47 PM
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Literally yes. Why should someone NOT want to live their life and talk to whoever they're interested in because god forbid someone MIGHT feel slight discomfort for 4 seconds.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 04:45 PM
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Many people are just satellites orbiting themselves as main character. In my life, I consider all my friends, family, but I am the main character. They're side characters, core allies and such, but are all non playable characters. Once again, I don't see the connection between that and getting relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 02:52 PM
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???? Okay. Good you accepted rejection. You still got nowhere? You still didn't explain what does it mean to "see other people as humans". What are they? Hobbits?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 02:24 PM
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If that's what they want, that's what they want. Either figure out how to get it or be flexible
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 02:06 PM
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???? Okay, you can see women as humans and still get rejected, I don't really get how any of those are connected? This sub has some weird ass takes. Also what else would you see women as?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 02:05 PM
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Well, I suppose those men will settle for being single then.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 01:49 PM
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I do realize that? What does that have to do with getting relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 01:48 PM
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I have a question. What does that even mean. Explain it to me like I'm 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 05:52 AM
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Why is it so hard to believe both genders are happier in relationships? Is shitting on men that important to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 05:50 AM
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Earliest I can remember being mocked for being a virgin was at 17, by male and female coworkers, as I had apprenticeship back then. You have no fucking clue what you're talking about. I was literally asked if I am "screwing" anyone, which I replied, no. And was asked if I ever screwed, and I said "No", to which I was laughed at, and told that being a virgin at seven fucking teen was not very good.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 05:49 AM
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Shaemus went through a bit of a spectrum but he was never fat. He put on a bit of weight, but he was always fit and his persona never fell off.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 06:32 PM
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I love me some Shaemus
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 03:20 PM
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Look in PPD sub another psyop
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:56 PM
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That's their problem. I do believe men should not be in relationships they're not happy with, platonic or romantic ones. I just don't believe it's fair to designate men as this terror group that kills women for rejecting them. Also it's easy to claim moral superiority while sitting around and not doing anything. As you said, "even if they did". But they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:39 PM
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Reverse doesn't happen as frequently because women never put themselves in situations where they get rejected. Women are absolutely bitter as fuck when they don't get their way. It's just much easier to shit on men, of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:31 PM
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Couldn't agree more. As if they're trying to get a treat from redditors who still would hate them just cause they were a man. Like bro you're pathetic lmao. And you have way more in common with dude who you make fun of then the person you're trying to impress
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 06:38 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kdKS76q65uc Why do I feel like most of men who demean other men online look like this. Idk I just fucking hate this style it looks so slimy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 06:27 PM
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Single moms are responsible for rabies and sea levels rising
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 05:25 PM
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But you do understand why it's not feasible for me to try to emulate your husbands behaviour? Being quiet and not particularly confident won't work
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 12:28 PM
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well lucky him in that case
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 12:22 PM
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Sorry to hear that. But your husband probably was very confident or had other ultra notable things about him. And I don't believe height or money is all what it takes, or that there isn't anything in personality. I don't believe in the whole "just treat them with respect and they'll like you bro" Ergo, your husband was probably very well socialized, as I said, putting him in a positive feedback loop
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 11:22 AM
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He wants a relationship. That's reasonable
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 11:16 AM
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Why is that so fucking unreasonable
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 08:00 PM
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But you're also a woman. That's a privilege in on itself
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 07:27 PM
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Being a bluepiller in itself requires privilege in some capacity, well socialized due to having a great non traumatic childhood, upper middle class or classic good looks consistently throught life without needing a glow up, so that may explain it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 07:11 PM
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Lol. Lmao even
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 04:42 PM
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I don't respect dudes who diss and put down other men for woman's favor. Like dude, who are you trying to appeal to? Women who shit on men put ALL of them in the same basket, you included.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 04:35 PM
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I'd be angry too if I were french
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 04:26 PM
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Guess that's true. I've recently been given a good piece of advice. People will always judge you while being massive pieces of shit themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 04:24 PM
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Can you explain what those types of dudes are like? Gym bros?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 04:22 PM
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Yeah I was never a fan of those isekais. And the character I mentioned did end up having a romantic relationship with a lead that could be considered a bit toxic. Good thing I grew out of that type of content
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 04:21 PM
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I suppose that's true. One female character I like from back in the days when I was into anime, like two or so years ago is a female assasin. I'm just kinda not into anime stuff recently
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 04:16 PM
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Good for you. I don't know man I feel like I'll always be secretly judged until I get it done
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 04:13 PM
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That's very weird tbh, I'll never understand it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 04:13 PM
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gross
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 01:22 PM
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My only female friend I have is actually fucking hillarious that's why I enjoy being around her. We both gossip a ton and it's fun
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 12:44 PM
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I am curious why they have glaring red flags. I saw an insta reel that said real men could never get away with saying stuff fictional men say.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 12:39 PM
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I told him I am bothered by it lol. Get the hint, as in, if I tell you to quit it, then quit it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 11:03 AM
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I suppose so, but the fact he doesn't get the hint annoys me
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 10:12 AM
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Can you explain in what way are you unappealing?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 10:11 AM
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Hope so too
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 09:41 AM
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Yeah, but sometimes I see your sad comments and it makes me sad. I don't believe you're physically unnatractive to such an extent.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 09:38 AM
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Alright mane, if it works out, I hope things get better. Just remember to have self respect
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 09:37 AM
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in that case FFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFF uck no
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 09:37 AM
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If she starts arguments on purpose, end it. Seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 09:31 AM
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He has a boyfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 09:31 AM
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I got way more empathy and more meaningful conversations with male friends, truth be told
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 09:29 AM
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Have you broken up with your girl
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 09:28 AM
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I got a gay homey and he oftentimes jokes that I am gay because I make dick jokes from time to time, and for whatever reason I think he thinks I am in the closet which couldn't be further from the truth. To be honest it annoys the shit out of me when he makes those jokes at my expense. I don't mind jokes at my expense usually but for whatever reason these get under my skin
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 09:28 AM
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Only my closest friends know of it. And a fair bit of them have been rejected, but some are dating and very experienced so they're understanding
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 09:26 AM
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Don't demean yourself homes
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 09:25 AM
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No. I am not lowering my standards. My standards are more then reasonable and a fair amount of women can't meet them and I don't want anything from them. I don't want sex unless it's from a person I want, and that's coming from a 22yo virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 09:24 AM
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Pretty much yeah. My only female friend so far can't let go of her toxic ex and I called her stupid and she said I'm right and she's incredibly stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 09:23 AM
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Single moms caused 9/11
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 09:21 AM
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To be fair, I get that vibe from women who say males.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 09:19 AM
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I could overhead press an average girl easy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 09:18 AM
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Does misogyny even mean anything
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 09:18 AM
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Hey man, it really looks like being both out and in the dating pool is giving you lots of mental torture and anguish. Is that true?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 09:17 AM
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I pretty much plan on ommitting my inexperience when I get a chance. I'm not letting it botch my opurtunity
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 09:16 AM
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Interesting. Why do you suppose that is
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 09:02 PM
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Gimme your strength homes, imma need it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 08:57 PM
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Yeah, exactly how it is. Unfortunately, you have to be a bit of a normie hahah. I don't think a lot of dudes are far away from that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 08:51 PM
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It's a weird situation on my part. My dad outward said when he and mom die one day, I will have only my sister in this world, and I can basically say goodbye to my family, because there's no bonds there whatsoever. I think honestly that's not bad, just relying on connections you make. It's fucking gross how most family members would tear each other to shreds over inheritance. That is no love. I'd rather live without it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 08:46 PM
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I think these guys may be complaining about the fact they sort of have to get out of the shell, maybe start dressing better, you know, go through the process, as it's not what they're used to, they see it as their individuality ruined
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 08:41 PM
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The argument guy gives was basically how he has to stop being the guy he was, and has to fit inside the mold of a standard "chad" guy in order to be given a chance
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 08:38 PM
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I remember seeing a comment of someone complaining that dudes who struggle gotta crush their individuality in order to be considered attractive. I think that's a bit catastrophizing, what do you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 08:31 PM
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Men should not be assumed to be shooters in the making and unproductive lumps because they're chronically single, it's dehumanizing
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 08:28 AM
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Sure, but it all boils down to being a provider, to be frank. And masculine and dominating. A man can be dominating while wearing nail polish, but he is still adhering to a male societal role. That won't change, really
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 09:36 PM
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Feminism has made it more acceptable then ever for men to exist outside traditional gender norms Can you elaborate an example?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 08:30 AM
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I will one day, if I were to get a son absolutely make sure he never has to go through the shit I had to go through. He will be properly socialized. He will be given his own independence when he wants to. He will enroll in sports at an early age. He will be strong from day one, not like me who had to floudner around and grow after a bad childhood. You can count on that, and every guy who has a son should go an extra mile.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 08:15 AM
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And those should not be reduced to just the sexual organs they were born with. Fucking sickening
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 07:58 AM
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Kinda hard when a lot of these guys were humilliated for their desires in the past. And I'm not talking about normal "I'm not interested" rejections. I'm talking about kiss marry kill, and they're always in the kill part.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 10:15 AM
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I got my forklift exam in a few hours, for my summer job. Then I will be forklift certified.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 07:22 AM
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Red pill is most certainly, without a shadow of doubt, about how to get your dick wet. Everything there is sort of treated as a means to this end which I admit, is not the BEST way of looking at it, but it needs to be done. Gym, money, idgaf attitude, all that jazz, should be done if u want it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 07:16 AM
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I gotta check it out, so far the most depressing one I got is r/short. Like man I'm 6'5 and it makes me feel like it's fucking over just looking at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 07:10 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 07:06 AM
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How do I find a non exhausting gf, an eternal question I ask myself
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 07:06 AM
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No, you are. All of them are. All of them want fit and dominant dudes. Women do have lots of variety in taste, but those two traits are universal, and all of them want it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 07:05 AM
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I understand what you mean. I went through a huge rollercoaster of intense desire to passiveness and "not caring about it" and looking back at it, "I don't want to fuck, or be in a relationship, casual or serious" was never something I could 100% admit because despite all, I always wanted it, and still continue to want it. I just don't wanna ruin my life over it now
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 07:03 AM
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They are, but the thing is, depending on their standing in the group, they will hide it. I knew I probably should have hid it, being the chubby weird kid. The fastest popular kid never had to hide it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 07:01 AM
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I'd say the "downfall" you mention happens at the end of puberty. On that point lots of men start thinking how to go forward, depending on how the puberty era went
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 07:00 AM
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I have, like two. They're really something alright. It's honestly kind of weird. Like they're pretty usually, and they aren't crazy or nothing, but something feels off about them, not in a classic creepy way but in an uncanny valley kind of way
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 06:58 AM
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I don't think you realize it's easy to just repeat talking points. I am on paper a feminist. I support freedom of choice of bodily autonomy, anti domestic violence, pro workplace equality, but I wouldn't touch man haters with a ten foot pole, and I believe men have more issues in society as a whole. It isn't contradictory really
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 06:55 AM
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Because they guy never experienced desire or those dynamics. We're all men to the same degree, you know you understand him. You probably just see it differently because of experience
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 06:51 AM
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Precisely. They were just born normal. They were put on the conveyer belt of life and they just had shit happen to them. The rest of us fell off the conveyer belt somewhere down the line and gotta continue on foot. Dudes off conveyer belt who are standing peacefully like the ones on the conveyer belt will just have nothing happen to them ever, because well, they aren't standing on the belt hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 06:49 AM
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I suppose the closest thing to a "bluepill" forum that I got is r/IncelExit and honest to god that subreddit is just sad, there's like one or two ACTUAL success stories of dudes finding a relationship, but everything else is a massive variation of cope "I am no longer an incel but I am still a kissless virgin, I just made peace with it" and the comment section goes "YOU GO KING". It doesn't feel like they're ACTUALLY trying to help them. It makes me really fucking sad honestly seeing those peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 06:46 AM
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What I am not understanding is how the fuck did I end up on a ten day old thread after clicking a pin, and then interacting with it without noticing LOOOOL
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 06:37 AM
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In what way you've piqued my curiosity
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 09:49 AM
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I found out about that when I saw a youtube video commenting on a famous incel mod finally getting a gf and the whole comunity losing it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 08:19 AM
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It fucking disgusts me to my core when someone says that men are expendable by nature. We are a fucking civilization. Plus, nature is fucked up, and you definitely don't wanna adopt everything that happens in nature in a civilization
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:33 AM
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oh my god shut up
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:28 AM
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Be me check purplepilldebate psyop in dailychat
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:27 AM
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Ooof. one one hand, the incel son will have a horrible childhood, but he will change the world. I'd honestly go for chad son, he will be unremarkable, but he won't suffer through his life in such a way
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:26 AM
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Hahahhaha yeah sometimes that happens but I'm not bothered by it. There ain't no way I'm dying before I get shit done
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:24 AM
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Lavander :)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:23 AM
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Well, I appreciate the fact you realize some men have bad experiences. As a man I am of course naturally biased towards my own sex and the experience men have, I think that's perfectly normal. I do try to see good in women, and I do believe some men here have unhinged takes on women. I've had some bad experiences as well but, I'd say it made me more careful rather then outright hate women, and I think that's a lesson men should learn. Be vigiland don't be hateful. I can also understand women bei…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:23 AM
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I saw that video and just seems like a ragebait to be frank
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:16 AM
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People will never admit that someone can struggle even when trying a lot of things. This is because they don't have to put that much effort into anything, so it's easier to just accuse you of not even trying. I can perfectly understand your frustrations as I struggled with them myself. I hope you continue to ignore these assholes because they don't know who you are or what you've been through
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:16 AM
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What's going on
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:13 AM
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That looks very nice. Happy birthday
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:12 AM
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Yo are you the 19 to 21 bmi guy? Huge fan of your work, can I have an autograph?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:08 AM
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Truth be told incel by definition is just a dude who wants to get laid but can't. The other definition is bullshit tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:07 AM
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I didn't say don't have friends. Friends matter, and I can vouch for that. But don't bank on getting a girlfriend through them. That's all
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 09:38 PM
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I didn't say don't have friends. I'm saying you shouldn't bank on a friend group providing you with a girlfriend. I have plenty of friends and I am also fully aware I'm never gonna meet my partner through them. That's just how it is
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 09:37 PM
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I know plenty of dudes who have a lot of friends but don't have a girlfriend, those two aren't mutually exclusive always. But you do have a point, there needs to be a groundwork laid out
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 09:34 PM
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Understandable but the only instance of a relationship coming from an actual friendship that was years long crashed after two years and was deemed toxic by both sides. So I don't think dudes who struggle should bank on it. It should not be considered an advice. Friend circle works for people who don't struggle
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 12:10 PM
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Well I hope so too. Thanks for the talk
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 11:32 AM
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Sounds good I suppose, not sure if their pride will allow that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 10:54 AM
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Yeah sure. The thing is that I haven't exactly heard of that wild idea from him, but rather through a friend so I will keep quiet unless it is brought up around me. I hope that's understandable. I get it I have a dream I have to fulfil as well. But I have to make a backup plan in case it fails. That's what being responsible is
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 10:54 AM
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I don't think it should be up to me to decide their lives for them but jesus you'd think there could be some sense to be made from observing. His bf in 2012 tried to get onto national talent show with a religious song, on public tv. Like what bro. Just let it go man
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 10:27 AM
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That's a banger cmon but you know what I mean
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 10:05 AM
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I get it. My friend is autistic, and he met this dude over a dating app. A female friend of mine knows the guy he's dating and he's been trying to have a go at music since he was in high school, mind you he's 30 now, and said he's literally always been a laughing stock. I don't get it, maybe he's so lonely that he latched himself onto this guy but for some reason I've never seen those two lovey dovey despite being a couple. It's odd
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 10:05 AM
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Anyone else have a friend seriously considering ruining their own career and prospects over supporting a partner who has no future doing what they want. My gay friend is considering using his own college degree that has nothing to do with marketing or agenting to support his friend, a 30 year old "singer" that still hasn't made a break. Also the singer he's dating is 8 years older then him. It's so silly and honestly I don't get how he can't see that he won't catch a break because his songs are …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 09:39 AM
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That's great to hear. For me I suppose I always had shit confidence and social skills due to bullying and just overall having a rough start to adulthood over covid and working shitty jobs. Life is definitely looking up now that I'm in university but as I said I cannot bank on things just "happening" as it's expected of me to initiate, being a man. Had some rough dating app experiences, and addmitedly I blame myself over my naivety and inexperience. So that left me still not having a relationship…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 09:35 AM
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I have never experienced paranormal but I fully believe in it. It's very strange but I do believe human spirit is a real thing that can inhabit many forms and many plains of existence. My friend once told me a story how he sometimes took a shortcut to get home and he frequently passed by an old house that was very run down. This wasn't very often however, he usually took another route. One day he was late to get home so he took the shortcut, and as he passed by the house, through an open window …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 09:29 AM
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I think that only works for a certain build of people homes
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 08:29 AM
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Glad that happened to you. But if I were to not try, nothing would happen. So I think I'm left with the second option. Glad it worked out for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 07:12 AM
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I am not from US. So that's why I was out of the loop. But from what I can read it sounds absolutely ridiculous and hope it doesn't pick up wind. And if it's an inner party fringe cricle, I don't think it'll grow
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 06:55 AM
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I think he wants the benefit of fucking whoever he likes whenever, the benefit chad gets. Cheating can be avoided
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 06:53 AM
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Awwww I'm so sorry about it Keebs. I feel bad when I can't relate to people's struggles but I sincerely do hope you muster the strength to overcome it one day
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 06:51 AM
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Do you think the gang that never had that happened to them shouldn't be discouraged from trying things out either way?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 06:49 AM
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Sure but the US would never make it out of that war to be honest, the world would be outraged and US' economy would tank
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 06:41 AM
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Not gonna lie, I've progressively started hating summer ever since my grandma died in september of 2019, after a heat stroke. Things have sort of gone south for majority of the world after that. And my grandma was honestly probably the best person in my family, she was so loving and was probably the only family member who truly understood me and my little sister
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 06:40 AM
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Out of the loop here, what's project 2025
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 06:37 AM
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Isn't Canada really fucking hard to invade?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 06:35 AM
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How bad is it man?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 06:33 AM
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It's crazy lol no one is forced to settle. It's better to be alone then with someone u dislike
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 06:23 AM
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Sounds very peaceful. Enjoy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 06:23 AM
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What was your severe phobia homes?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 06:22 AM
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Some yeah, I noticed a few ladies in the daily who are fairly normal, I remember a lady being supportive of my endevours in this sub but yeah. I'd say just like how a lot of men have their issues here, a lot of women also have their work cut out for them
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 06:21 AM
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First step is recognising the problem Keebs. It's a long and arduous road ahead
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 06:19 AM
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I love the theories surrounding Trump and how he's gonna force everyone to sacrifice their first born baby to the dark lord Gilgamesh
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 06:18 AM
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Bro ngl having a crush on a woman in PPD debate sub is scraping THE bottom of the barrel I'd say a decent chunk of these women absolutely hate men
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 06:16 AM
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I honestly sincerely doubt Trump will be a dictator of any note.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 06:16 AM
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I have a question guys, what do you think of the theory that "normies" don't ever really get rejected but that all their relationships play out in a way where they spend time around someone, they gravitate towards one another, they are left alone, they hook up or whatever, and it's basically impossible to mess it up from that point onward, unless you really really try hard. Basically they never have to risk it because the spark and attraction is obviously there. Now obviously I know a few dudes …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 06:14 AM
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I know what you mean. Unrelated to women and all, while I am making some strides, I still do struggle setting some boundaries and I feel like it reflects a bit on how people in general percieve me, so that's definitely something everyone should work on
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 07:18 PM
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Women are under no obligations to honor feelings of men who want to fuck or have sex with them. However, if they are friends with them, they are most certain under obligation to let them down. It's not willful dishonesty. I don't get how it's different from women dropping hints that they like men. These guys also drop hints, but they aren't confident enough to ask them out. That's not a crime as far as I'm aware. And let me get this straight. Women are aware of these guys' feelings, won't let th…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 03:32 PM
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Every woman is aware of feelings of these guys. I don't get how it's manipulating. It just looks like a very convenient excuse to hate dudes who already have it rough
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 03:23 PM
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Sure. Whatever makes you feel righteous in your disgust
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 03:16 PM
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What is your people's problem? Trying to woo people isn't manipulating
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 03:00 PM
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Nice guys aren't getting in relationships because they have a feminine energy. It has nothing to do with secret misoginy. They're indecisive and don't give off an energy of someone who leads
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 02:58 PM
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I believe horrible incels are a small subset as I believe an incel is anyone that can't get laid but wants to. And yes, unfortunately, society won't be changing anytime soon. I am usually open to talking to any friend or acquaintance, male or female about anything worrying them. I can change how I approach the issue at hand but it's up to everyone to make a difference. And yes. I believe it has something to do with how society percieve sexually successful and unsuccessful men. Unsuccessful man c…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 06:56 PM
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what are these deceptions, exploitations or lies? No one is locked with anyone, or forced to be with anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 02:51 PM
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I think a lot of the "just see her as human, treat her with respect" type of blue pillers are naturally privileged with good looks and are extremely well socialized with good childhood, well off parents and passed preselection. That can also happen if they're average looking, but they basically need a great home life as I said, so that makes them bluepilled. Every dude that turned to red pill or "How to get a girlfriend" guides are in some way shafted or unfortunate in one or more categories.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 02:48 PM
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Yes, and not like you've known each other for a year or more. So point still stands. Happy for your relationship and good thing it works for somebody
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 02:41 PM
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That comes from the fact majority of users here are men who are not very experienced, shafted in some way, looks, or mental health wise. Men who are successful don't have a need to discuss relationships, and the men who aren't have to take a step back and analyze, hence their presence here. I'm here to learn something too, as I am also inexperienced. That's how it is. A lot of these guys are hurt or angry at rejection so they lash out
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 02:33 PM
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It is possible, but you need to meet a certain attractiveness treshold. From the way I see it, majority of couples met through fairly superficial "friendships" which are more acquaintance based, and they clicked at a party or something so maybe that's why it's a bit of a misconception
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 02:30 PM
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What are they supposed to be? Happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 02:23 PM
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It doesn't matter, all it matters is that men are demonized.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 02:23 PM
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Boys don't mature slower then girls. They just have to put in more backbone into initiating their relationships so it just seems that way
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 02:18 PM
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You can't bank on that, so don't do it. Simple as.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 02:16 PM
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There is literally nothing wrong with going after women of different cultures, religions, foreign women, or hooking up. Huge age gaps is the only thing that's wrong. What you really hate is men that are "unfuckable" finding other means to get what they want, with adult and consenting women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 02:11 PM
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Of course not lmao. A lot of immature people date.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 04:16 PM
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Gonna be honest I always knew him as the guy from comunity college show
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 04:12 PM
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Gonna be honest I always knew him as the guy from comunity college show
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 04:12 PM
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Sex is important, but having light is importanter
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 04:10 PM
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Oh I misread. My bad. Still though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 02:10 PM
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So if they were to not report themselves being touched, as they don't see that as assault, would that mean the percentage of these men reporting assault be higher?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 06:25 PM
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Nonconsentual touching and intercourse is, well fairly obvious. If someone touches you in a manner you don't want to be touched or if you have an intercourse against your will, it's sexual assault. So I don't see how a line can be blurry.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 06:17 PM
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Where do you people get that red pill does not endorse social skills? It's literally majority of the whole idea lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 06:12 PM
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Why would there be a reason for men to lie?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 06:10 PM
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Hey fellas, is there anyone up for a dm, a good mano e mano talk, and give me some advice
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:39 PM
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I can understand that. I respect working class men and women a ton but a lot of the senior ones are fucking obnoxious know it alls who make the workplace toxic and insufferable for everyone. That's the main reason why people don't wanna work trade, at least I don't want to. I got stories about those types more then you can fucking count, unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 02:49 PM
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I have a female friend, and she's great. I am not attracted to her one bit. I enjoy her company as a person. But I don't think those two skills correlate. Another former female friend hurt me (in a non romantic way, such as rejection, but in another emotional way), so I definitely have my defenses up around women. I don't think you necessarily need female friends to be successful with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 02:45 PM
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Thank you! If it makes me less of a hypocrite I think a ton of girls that I see everywhere are pretty and a lot of people say girls from my country are pretty so I hope I don't come off as a shallow dude. It's gonna work out eventually. Right now I don't work any sucky jobs and I study what I want and I basically got a whole life career planned out that I'm really excited for so it's looking up, girl or no girl
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:39 PM
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I'm a dude that struggles. It's weird to explain. I'm fairly tall with a good face, and I am in university. I had a pretty difficult childhood that had bullying and I grew up kinda fat but was never ugly. I don't want to deny my privilege. I had difficulties making friends due to mental health issues so my social skills sucked for a very long time and right now they're only really good around people I'm comfortable with. I do want a pretty girl, that's for sure and I have standards. So at the sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:22 PM
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I feel bad about the fact that I can't tell you the recipe of how to get that way of thinking. That's something a lot of dudes around here struggle with. Also, it's okay to vent if it makes you feel better in the end, but if it hurts you further, reconsider. I'm 22 as well and been through my fair share of trials. I know I am blessed in some ways and cursed in others but I am not about to give it up. Neither should you. You are probably blessed in more ways then you can think of
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 11:34 AM
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The main difference between the two is whether or not the dude succeeds in getting with the girl in question or not. Literally the only difference. If he succeeds it's a cute love story. If he doesn't he's a creep. And that mostly boils down to looks and the ability to escalate, his self esteem and how he handles rejection
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 11:20 AM
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Being single might not be bad though. Why wouldn't it be okay for dudes to have standards? It must be miserable to be with someone u don't wanna be with. If its okay for women then it okay for men as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 10:27 AM
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Majority of dudes here are younger, and single. I'm sure a decent chunk are good looking as well. They should be with a girl that's younger, single and good looking as well, not some older single mom. No need to troll dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 10:24 AM
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Hey man. Are you feeling okay? I can understand getting into that way of thinking but it doesn't do you any good. It doesn't bring down your value or anything. Besides, all the things you went through built who you are, and it may not look apperent now but I am sure soon you will be happy with yourself and you will put yourself out there and find a girl that'll appreciate and love you. I believe bro
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 10:19 AM
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