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I make them leave, I don't like women who try to play games. If she doesn't want to smash without me having to do some.jester BS I will just make her go home
/r/seduction14/03/26 08:21 AM
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I reccomend men to do the handhold test on the first date. Wherever you are going, before you spend even a single cent on the date, you should try and hold her hand. If she refuses or doesn't like it, you should just walk off right there. If a woman is not attracted enough to you to hold your hand shortly after meeting her, the dynamic is already off and you're fighting an uphill battle from the beginning. If she doesn't hold your hand, you walk off before you spend a single cent on her, saving …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 02:05 AM
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Q4M: What would you do if you had a teenage son and you found steroids in his room? Personally, and although I have this instinctual feeling that its wrong, I would have a hard time telling him not to do them on account of how gassed up and hypergamous women are these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 01:18 AM
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SEA update: On valentines day I made a girl my gf, we had been dating like 1 month. Today I broke up with her because she doesn't want me to creampie her because she doesn't want to get on birth control or get pregnant. I think this is acceptable to do as it means we are sexually incompatible, and as a HVM, I think I shouldn't have to settle on my relationship standards as I can easily find a girl more compatible in that regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 02:42 AM
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I am western and live in the Philippines 😁
/r/seduction15/02/26 02:46 AM
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Where did you do those day game approaches btw? Just walking around on the street or in the mall I would've thought the date to lay would be easier from daygame though since she's already seen you and knows how you look. Did you just fumble those dates or what? Well, I went for 1st date lay on all of them. If I was willing to date them for weeks or months, maybe 2 or 3 would've smash but no way I'll put in that much effort for sex. Like have you used hinge how many matches do you get. I use a fe…
/r/seduction15/02/26 12:04 AM
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Well, my sample size is kind of limited. Daygame I've approached probably 40 women, and that lead to about 5 dates (could jave been 7 or 8 but I lost interest in some of the girls) and no lays. Night game I have approached maybe 20 women and lay only 2. (Could have been 3 but wasn't attracted enough to the 3rd girl). Although I find women to be more respectful during the day on average. Most girls going to clubs are superficial, and when they're drunk and there's bouncers around they have more o…
/r/seduction14/02/26 11:36 PM
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Honestly IRL dating, at least cold approaching is harder. Getting a girls number is about the same as matching on a dating app, aka not a very useful indicator at all. Just my personal experience
/r/seduction14/02/26 02:57 AM
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It's wild how women feel entitled to spend valentines day with you. I have like 6 women who asked me to meet. One who I've met 5 times before and is almost my gf (warranted). Two I met once before, the rest I haven't met yet. Will meet 3 girls today, I wish the day was longer so I could meet all of them today, high chance of getting an easy coom cuz they're lonely and single on valentines day.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 01:14 AM
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Why can't a guy just desire to coom all day every day 😫
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 04:19 AM
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SEA update: Just wanted to share some gamed out answers I have for girls on dates because I'm bored. Of course when saying these it's not repeating the script word for word and flows inside normal conversation and not nearly as formal. When a girl asks me why my last relationship ended. I say: "We were together for a year and a half, and things went well but she went to work abroad and I wanted to stay here in the phillipines. Neither of us wanted to do long distance, as far as I know she is sti…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 03:41 AM
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It's a waste of time because both sides are likely to lie or downplay and even if they were honest it's impossible to know that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 02:49 PM
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If I knew it was honest.... No I'd still lie because I wanna COOM
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 02:19 PM
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Women: "How many girls have you dated?" "When's the last time you went on a date?" "How has dating been going for you lately?" "How long have you been using dating apps for?" "When was your last relationship? Why did it end?" I thought the past didn't matter? I've had girls ask all these questions along with like 10 other variations all on the same date. Yet I'm the bad guy if I asked them what their body count is. We are both going to lie or down play so why can't we just skip this annoying shi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 01:34 PM
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Therein lies the contradiction. If she's down for sex within 3 dates, chances are she's done that before. I am fine with that Rules for thee, not for me, since you'd sex her up within 3 dates. You can fuck within 3 dates and still have a body count less than 10 as a woman. You just vet hard before you go on a date with a guy and each successive date before sex
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 11:12 AM
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If she sleeps with guys early and slept with me early too I am fine with it. I would still consider her for an LTR. I pretty much will only LTR a girl if she fucks within 3 dates. Exception would be if I somehow know for a fact she's a "good girl" and I am very attracted to her, and she is putting in mutual effort, and she doesn't get offended if I try to smash her. I would prefer her body count is still under 10 though. I would never ask them their body count and don't want to know it though. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 01:20 AM
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I once had 6 girlfriends at the same time and woukd occasionally see other girls for hookups. Becomes a full time job at that point tho
/r/seduction09/02/26 08:17 AM
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Yup. I liken it to this: If a 6'4 300 pound strongman dude came up to me and started talking to me: Would, unjustly being a rude douchebag to him higher or lower the chances of him attacking me? Obviously it would higher the chance. Thus when women are faced with a similar scenario, the fact they act unjustly rude, means they have no real fear of physical danger, otherwise they wouldn't do so if they are supposedly so afraid of being hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 04:05 AM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 02:48 AM
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But what would you do or say on the date if that happened
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 02:19 AM
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you're so cute and smol and adorable i just wanna peg you If they were saying this out of pure raw sexual attraction and not just some like humiliation/dominance thing I would take this as a compliment (though obviously wouldn't partake in it). Though I find that to be very unlikely.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 02:18 AM
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I would still stay with her. The genetic similarity between second cousins is virtually the same as two random people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 02:03 AM
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Still, WTF are you doing dating someone who has slept with one of your friends, that’s a dumb idea It is just an easy way for the hypothetical to work that you can know she did it. You can replace this with "some alien magical technology that is 100% accurate revealed to you this info" if you like
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 02:02 AM
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Q4M: You're on a date with a girl, and you ask her to go back to your room. She says "I'm not that kind of girl, I always make every guy wait" But say, you have a friend who also dated this girl, who smashed her on the first meet. And know this to be 100% fact. What do you do? (Inb4 I would never date a girl my friend fucked before.) It's a hypothetical
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 01:40 AM
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Agree. The average woman has (or could easily have) hundreds of options or more. So of course they're criticized more for their choice. Most men have no options most of the time and the rare chance at a subpar option.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 06:40 PM
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"Just vet them" Also women: Just because I dress like a hoe doesn't mean I'm a hoe! Just because I go to the clubs doesn't mean I'm a hoe! Just because I post thirst Traps doesn't mean I'm a hoe! Etc etc etc The same thing works in reverse. Just because they spend all their time in the library or at church or at home doesn't make them not a hoe. You cannot confirm a girl isn't a hoe. You can raise the likelihood that she isn't, but potentially spending months on a "prude" that is actually a hoe …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 10:10 AM
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You can approach people in social settings. They don't have to accept it. They are well within their means to say, "no" and walk away. Obviously but it's rude. I am sure if you tried to talk to another woman and she did this you woukd find it rude. If you do not and you are not arguing in bad faith you are one of the rare people who would not find this rude.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 03:49 PM
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There is a difference between feeling upset/annoyed and that upset or annoyance resulting in any kind of action.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 03:18 PM
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Yeah and also I don't see an inherent problem with an "ulterior motive" as that is kind of the way that men are expected to go about pursuing romance/sex, as opposed to walking up to women and saying "Hey can I fuck you?". It paints pursuing romantic intent as something inherently wrong and bad, when men in the vast majority of situations are expected to be the initiators and expected to be subtle/slowly escalate.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 03:15 PM
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It is common for people to get upset or annoyed when someone is unjustly rude infact id argue that is a normal response to rudeness.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 03:12 PM
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So some go straight to the default. And that is why many guys are getting upset about it because someone is just being rude to them when they personally did nothing wrong to that person.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 03:09 PM
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You can be honest and straightforward without being rude.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 02:53 PM
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A. But only because I find that the highest likelihood of smashing
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 02:52 PM
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Woman 1 walks up to woman 2 who she doesn't know in a social setting, and in a polite way says, "Hello, what's your name?" Woman 2, looks at her with annoyance and says "No" then abruptly walks away. Most people would perceive woman 2 to be extremely rude. You can run this experiment again, with Woman 1 talking to Man 1, or man 1 talking to man 2 to get the same results. Now let's try Man 1 talking to Woman 1. Suddenly woman 1 magically isn't considered rude at all. This is the kind of discrepan…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 02:41 PM
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Woman 1 walks up to woman 2 who she doesn't know in a social setting, and in a polite way says, "Hello, what's your name?" Woman 2, looks at her with annoyance and said "No" then walks away. Most people would perceive woman 2 to be extremely rude. Now replace woman 1 with man 1. Suddenly woman 2 magically isn't considered rude at all. This is the kind of discrepancy you are dealing with when women in bad faith deny how often women can be overly rude to guys just for trying to talk to them. Even …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 02:36 PM
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100% true and the perfect rebuttal, which is why the OP deflects instead of trying to counter this. So many more men would be fine doing these things if it was an equal effort from the woman, but instead the man is putting in almost all of the risk and effort and can be disposed of at any moment for doing anything the woman didn't like (which, in the majority of cases would involve the man needing to possess mind reading abilities in order to fulfill). I am a guy who actually does like taking wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 03:34 AM
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Things I am afraid of being used for: Time, attention, emotional energy, money For the first 3, if she wants to chat for too long before meeting, wants to talk too much, wants me.to be their personal therapist, wants elaborate dates especially for the first few dates. For money, if they literally ask for money or for me to pay for certain things, or again elaborate expensive dates. How I guard against it is only continuing to chat to women who agree to concrete date plans within a relatively sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 01:05 AM
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He's right tho
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 01:00 PM
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SEA update: Heading back to my main city today. Yesterday ended up being kind of a shitshow.my dating app manager got locked out of the whatsapp half way thru the day. Luckily was able to contact most of the girls thru text. 1st girl too ugly/fat to try to fuck. 2nd girl ends up coming to the date location, but since I'm locked out of whatsapp and she didn't respond through text, I do not know and thus end up standing her up. 3rd "girl" ended up being trans. Even though I asked them before meeti…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 01:22 AM
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SEA update: Got a very decent coom today., the type I only usually have a chance at once or twice a month. We met at the mall, and I had another date lined up after her. Invite her to room after talking to her for 40 mins. Did not actually expect her to come but she did. I always do this same move where I just pick the girl up and put her directly on my bed. There is a TV facing my bed, so usually once they're on the bed I take my time, but I had to move fast this time. I go for kiss and she dec…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 09:18 PM
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Yeah, that's how I find girls I want to be with long term though, it takes a while to find a decent looking girl who isn't a gold digger, isn't annoying, is willing to have sex on the first date, respectful of my schedule etc. Maybe 1 in 15 dates to have a promising lead. And then it is very rare that it ends up working out for months
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:39 AM
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Sea update: Yesterday was a bad day, had 4 dates but 3 of them were just borderline fuckable and if I tried it would not even be really worth it to me, and I would rather not get rejected by a girl I dont even really want so I dont even ask. The 4th one, we met and talked nonstop for like an hour and a half then I invited her to room. We were actually vibing and I could tell she was upset/disappointed at this. I feel kind of bad about it too, because she was probably thinking something like "Oh …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 02:47 AM
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FEEMALES: "Just be upfront with your intentions" Men: OK I just want sex Female: blocks Why would u expect honesty if honesty is punished?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 03:48 AM
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Good for you brah
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 03:41 AM
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Sea update: walked off on another girl. So as always I offer to send a girl a ride when meeting. It is cheap for me, and I like to be able to track their ride so I can arrive at the same time as they do instead of arriving early and waiting around, it also gives them one less reason to flake, and makes me look like a gentleman. This girl said I didn't have to send her a ride but just to reimburse her on the date. This is a red flag, but I just went along with it. One of the scams they will try i…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 01:24 AM
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Some of them are pretty decent looking. I could go elsewhere but it's too much effort. Would rather fuck tons of mid Asian girls than have to learn Spanish and go to Latin America or simp for a white girl. And no interest in black girls
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 07:03 AM
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No, I don't care if they get pregnant but tbh it's unlikely since I have low fertility
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 04:09 AM
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Yeah. It's hard to tell. Because some of them genuinely are naive whereas others are just pretending to be
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 02:59 AM
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NSFW SEA update: Creampied 3 different women yesterday. I am starting to get exhausted from dating but I will push through for the remainder of my trip. I have 4 dates a day scheduled for the next 6 days. In the last 4 days I have went on 13 dates. First girl from yesterday claimed Virgin. I pretty much never believe them but this time it seemed legit. First round could not go deep and after sex was a small amount of blood. Second round was able to go deep and when finished had blood over my dic…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 02:56 AM
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Meh. "Interest" from a Filipina doesn't mean so much. The problem is, and especially away from tourist hubs, is many don't know how foreigners date. So "interest" could me "I like him but expect him to court me for weeks or months before sex". Since I'm just im this city for like a week more I won't even waste time on a second date. I don't think taking her to a restaurant would've change anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 12:51 AM
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Yeah it's because I'm living in the Philippines and malls are extremely popular here, and I live next to a major mall everyone in the city knows so that's where I do my meetups as it's convenient. And I pick ice-cream a lot cuz it's cheap and low investment (2 dollars to share a bowl).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 04:51 PM
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It's not really worth it. I used to do it before but I stopped. I've done maybe around 50 approaches in my life to get like 2 lays and 5 dates from it. The amount of women who look and act like you have leprosy when you talk to them and act extremely rude and dismissive is not worth the grind. Much rather would try online where rejection is not nearly as bad to take as its all behind a screen.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 04:49 PM
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SEA update: Walked off on one of my dates today. We went to the mall, and I took us to get some ice cream. She said something along the lines of "I didn't eat dinner yet, can we get some dinner after this?" Aka. "Can you buy me dinner?" She was barely fuckable and I didn't want to spend that much time or money on her, so I just said, I live near here we can go to my place and watch a movie and I can order some food for us. She made up some excuse about having to back to work later so I just walk…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 04:43 PM
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Yeah. Personally I don't like doing that because I don't like giving free attention to time wasters. Would rather have a bunch of flakes/meet incompatible girls than waste so much time talking to girls. I usually ask for date within like 5 messages. If I was looking for a serious gf I would take your approach though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 03:07 PM
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Because so many girls end up flaking. There have been times I scheduled 4 dates and none showed up. It's actually rare that all of them show up. Usually like 40% flake rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 02:39 PM
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SEA update: LONG ass day. Ended up having 5 dates planned. 12pm. She end up sleeping until 2pm and didn't message me until this time. Already had assume she flaked. 2pm. I message her at 1245 to get ready. Tells me she will arrive at 240 so I am there at that time. She doesn't end up showing up until 330 after im standing around like an idiot the whole time waiting for her. She is having really shit communication on where exactly she is in the mall, and taking like 5 minutes in between messages …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 02:30 PM
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A lot of girls really want a foreigner but are just clueless on how to keep one around.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 06:59 AM
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SEA update: Taking a trip to another Filipino city. I came here before about a year and a half ago. Basically scouting out if there's greener pastures elsewhere, as the city I am currently residing in is getting more and more competitive dating market as time goes on. I'll be here just 10 full days, and my dating app manager has already scheduled me 17 dates (hoping to get 25-30 scheduled before I leave). It is kind of a chore for me to do this many, but it is an important data point for me and …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 02:29 AM
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Yeah it's not worth it. The amount of effort to get sex being upfront about it, is like 10x. Also so many women are rude if you are honest and react badly, also the flake rate goes up astronomically (even more than it already is if saying you are seeking a relationship). I am still technically honest though. I just say "I am hoping to find a relationship with the right woman". Which I am. They probably just aren't that "right woman"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 04:18 AM
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Juice isn't worth the squeeze. If I could guarantee that she made every other guy she dated jump through these hoops, was actually enjoyable to be around and made things feel like mutual effort was being put in, and I was highly attracted to them, yes I would do it. But when so many women have fucked dudes on the first date and then either lie about it or be manipulative about this fact, I have no interest in being the simp who has to jump through hoops when other guys didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 05:31 AM
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I get more attractive girls off apps because I get way more chances for it to work out. But, I am someone with zero social circle and barely go to clubs. It's also way easier to take rejection online than in person
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 06:15 AM
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67% of people during the peak of the great depression were employed. Yet no one says "It was a great time for the average person economically during that time because most people had jobs"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 01:47 PM
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12 day trip. 6 more days
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 02:53 PM
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Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 01:47 PM
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Just missing it, have to have my American favorites while I'm here. I've been to Japan before, and also had a lot of Japanese food this stay too. But where I live normally, in the phillipines, the area I live doesn't have it or anywhere nearby. Also even the fast food in the phillipines is garbage and not the same quality as in the 1st world. So it'd a treat to have western quality fast food after missing out for about 2 years now.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 01:47 PM
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Currently eating wendys now. Was suprised to see that the wendys in Japan also serve beer. Had a really long day today. Have already walked 12 miles just today. Went to Universal studios Japan. Overall was a good experience, though if you don't shell out a good chunk of change, most your time will be spent waiting in absurdly long lines. Still felt like I got more or less the full experience even tho I left 3 hours early (didn't want to spend 99% of that waiting in lines). Tomorrow I have a long…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 01:36 PM
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In most cases some other girl in the bar will take a girl under their wing and tell them these things, but yeah I'm sure it works on some guys. The best girls especially in rich countries are getting all kind of money doing this and not even having sex with the guys. At least in thailand and phillipines u can fuck the girls haha
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 11:43 PM
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I went to one of the girl bars last night. This is where you pay by time increment and get your own personal hostess to chat with you. She actually spoke some English but wasn't quite fluent so after a while we talked on Google translate, which actually I kind of prefer because it makes the conversation feel less intense and gives cover for awkward pauses. It is funny that worldwide they all use the same kind of lines. "I am sad today because I am dealing with heartbreak so I want to drink a lot…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 11:04 PM
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Taking a short trip to Japan now. Went to this anime area, and for some reason in Japan there is usual sex stuff also surrounding these areas as well. I was just planning to go to a maid Cafe, and I saw a bunch of girls dressed in a bunch of exotic costume and regular schoolgirl outfits (they are definitely all adults, the police regularly check these girls ID) handing out fliers. So after a while I decided to go up to one of them, and with Google translate I asked them to take me to their Cafe.…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 10:52 AM
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SEA update: Headed to the airport now. Decided to fly a girl out to me, have never met her yet. She will stay 4 days with me. 21 year old province girl, skinny, big tits and braces. She is a 45 min plane ride away, she never went on a plane before. I had considered trying this for a while, but there was always something that made it not go through, whether the girl had work and or school or didn't seem serious enough about it. This was a rare time where she was 100% down to come, and doesn't wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 02:29 PM
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You probably cannot cure them, but you surely could make them less narcissistic. This would be done through therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 08:34 PM
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I do actually. At the bare minimum you cannot deny it is possible to become more machiavellian. Becoming more deceptive, manipulative and strategically thinking is definitely a learnable skill.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 08:26 PM
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SEA update: Had 7 dates scheduled yesterday. 3 showed up, 4 didn't. Of the 4 that didn't show up, one of them would have but was late. I had to cancel because I wouldn't have had enough time for her. One of them was being annoying before the date so I canceled. One canceled on me, the other one ghosted me. Of the 3 that showed up. The first one ended up coming to my room. I was a bit suprised, because she is on the upper end of attractiveness that im used to. I had to go for it though within 15 …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 12:23 AM
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I'm not talking about having sex with a girl and then she doesn't want to meet again. I am talking about trying to have sex with a girl on first date and she refuses or first date not going well and she doesn't want to meet again.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 12:46 AM
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She didn't clean me and I didnt shit myself lol. She cleaned a pot I shit in that was attached to a chair. But yeah she knows I already told her but she still decides to stay, she just spent the night. But she said she doesn't want to go to America either and I've told her I have no intent on going back there.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 12:32 AM
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Why I pretty much always go for sex on the first date and then will just immediately walk off if they say no to coming to my room: The flake rate for setting up a second date after going for sex on the first is massive, because they know that you will try to have sex with them on the second date as well and then they get in their head and nervous about it, or they think you only want sex. Even if when on the date, when they decline and say "next time" the vast majority of the time there will not…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 12:14 AM
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Lmao not exactly, I'm just cheating on her, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 04:20 AM
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This one I have been with for like 4 months. The one you are thinking of, I haven't talked to her in almost a year now.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 04:15 AM
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SEA update: Spending the day with my GF today as it's her birthday. Funny that she is dating an American, and her birthday just happens to be on September 11th. She was out of paid vacation days so I told her she can just take off still and I'll pay her wage. Now I know someone will call me a simp and say I'm dating a prostitute because I gave my GF of several months 12 dollars on her birthday 😂. I will take her to a cat Cafe later. Side note and thing I found interesting, she told me that she d…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 02:00 AM
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No, most of the women I choose to stop seeing again because they aren't worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 02:47 PM
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Cuz I've been with like 50+ women in the last year.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 01:55 PM
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Most don't have STDs or tell me how many people they've slept with
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 01:51 PM
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SEA update: Ended up having a health scare over the weekend. Had some really bad heart palpitations and ended up getting admitted for 2 days. Didn't have insurance and ended up costing me over 2000 usd. Not so terrible as it would probably be 10x or more in america, and I haven't ever paid for health insurance abroad, so I'm about break even on costs now compared to if I paid. Will definitely have to get some insurance now though. Half of me feels still like everything was overblown, but it was …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 01:12 PM
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I wonder how common "he only wanted sex and he ghosted me once he got what he wanted" is actually legit when referring to one night encounters. At least for me, if a girl is above my minimum looks threshold for a relationship (not high at all), the reason I would stop seeing a girl after sex, is almost always something to do with her having some glaring personality defect, being a scheming gold digger, or requiring too much emotional investment/mental energy too soon. Guess it's just easier for …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 05:33 AM
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Doesn't matter if they're on Tinder or not. You don't need tinder to be a hoe
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 04:02 AM
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I am okay with being a traditional guy/provider for a girl of she is traditional herself, but there's no way to know that she for sure is. Imagine getting emotionally invested in a girl for a long time before sex, while paying for a bunch of nice dates etc when she's fucked guys before that put in zero effort. And of course, most girls want to pretend "they're not like that" and would literally lie to your face about it, or be offended if you even asked those kinds of questions. Not to mention a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 03:11 AM
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None that I know of right now
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 02:04 PM
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30
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 02:04 PM
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SEA update: Leaving the island I'm on in about 36 hours. Have to say now that the trip was definitely worth it. Went on a date with a barely 19 year old last night, highest quality girl of the trip so far. She is here for university, from the neighboring island which is even poorer than the poor one we are currently on. I messaged her at 6pm and told her she can start getting ready for our meet. We were planned to meet at 8pm. She was not ready to meet until about 915. I was super upset at this …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 12:24 PM
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One of the things that annoys me is liberals sneaky usage and implementation of the phrase "living wage". If someone says for example, "I don't think mcdonalds should pay a living wage". Some of then will say "So you think those people should just die?". No, that's not what "living wage" means.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 02:54 AM
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Cuz it gets super annoying spinning plates, it's good to have consistent girls who are always willing to meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 01:09 AM
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SEA update: I had a girl come meet me yesterday and I ordered her a ride. And I canceled the ride because the driver was not moving. But I gave the driver her number before this, and he called her and still went to pick her up even though the ride was already canceled. So I did not know exactly when she will arrive. So I went outside to come meet her when the driver came. And so I am waiting outside and a girl and driver come up on the trike. And I try and pay the driver and tell the girl to com…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 12:46 AM
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If I was in the city I normally live in, I'd believe that, because there's plenty of foriegners there, but there's basically no foriegners here. Not that it really matters to me anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 11:49 PM
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That's the female delusion lol. They're full of themselves and think they have the special sauce to lock down a high value male. They also think I'm just some chump who doesn't know the game (which, I try hard to make them believe as well).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 11:43 PM
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SEA update: Yesterday was deja vu. This girl from a neighboring island took a ferry to come meet me. I didn't actually know this until she told me, I thought she lived in the city I'm in. But boat ride is just 30 mins and 1 dollar. Anyways, she was willing to come straight to my room, but the taxi service here, most the drivers are stupid as hell (not just this city but in general). So they couldn't pick her up. So I walked 5 mins to McDonald's to meet her. Where she lives, the closest mcdonalds…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 11:12 PM
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Yeah, I had that concern a little bit in the back of my head, more that I might get robbed, but that kind of thing is quite rare here. Never would do something like this in Latin America though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 09:56 PM
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A list for what? Lol. The girl is 22.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 08:53 PM
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SEA update: Just recently arrived in a new city with almost no foriegners. Population is kind of small so not that many options on dating sites. Met this girl today. She was kind of shocked that I'm actually here in her city. I can tell as soon as we meet that she is pretty into me. She keeps asking me if I want to come meet her family, which I really don't want to. It basically is just annoying and uncomfortable for me, but she gets the benefit of being able to brag to her family that she's dat…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 08:48 PM
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None Muslim, all catholic. 3 of them knew I was cheating and decided to stay. 1 of them stayed for a few more weeks but we broke things off after. 1 of them knew I was cheating but didnt bring it up until she wanted to break things off. 1 is still with me. 1 I broke up with for being too flakey. 1 I told to break up with me because she had suspicions I'm cheating and I didn't feel like fighting for it so I just admitted it and told her we should break up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 08:10 PM
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Because that's the term most people use and understand colloquially.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 08:02 AM
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I'm a passport bro, I could definitely get a GF in america, and have had some before. The juice to squeeze ratio is just way way worse in america, and isn't justified. I live in the phillipines. In June I went on 75+ dates, and at one point had 5 girlfriends simultaneously. People have this outdated and frankly racist notion that all of the 3rd world is like, some trash heap of illiterate uneducated people living in grass huts and surviving off the land, desperate to go to another country and a …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 03:29 AM
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Upside*
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 01:09 AM
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SEA update: Two different girls on the same day claiming they're pregnant by me. They both agreed to take another test with me present. So I think that maybe they actually are pregnant, but very doubtful that it's mine. I will go to meet both of their parents tho, cuz the parents will pressure them to keep the kid. https://www.reddit.com/u/MalandiBastos/s/x9GvZ6q0Ig
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 12:38 AM
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Hmm I check her Facebook sometimes. Seems to be a whore now. Cut her hair short, got a bunch of tattoos, always going on trips but doesn't have a job (and even if she did she couldn't afford that, she doesn't even have highschool diploma)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 03:58 AM
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Yeah I didn't post for a while because I was running out of new things to say, 90% of what I do is not worth writing about anymore cuz it would just be the same story over and over again.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 03:46 AM
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SEA update: Planning a short trip to a smaller city I've went to before. Just 8 days, this city I went to sith a friend, I noticed the highest interest from the women (of a place over 100k population). Very very few foriegners there. Our problem though was that neither of us are good at cold approaching (or want to), and we didn't set up any leads online either before arrival. We did end up having sex with some girls, but it was kind of by luck, I talked to some girl online and she brought some …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 01:50 AM
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SEA update: I now have one girlfriend. One other girl I've met maybe 5 times who isn't my girlfriend yet (I asked but she never accepted). Then maybe 1 or 2 other girls who I could potentially meet again but haven't been able to schedule yet. Weakest my roster has ever been, but I am feeling to tired to go on any new dates at this time. Going to at least take this week off from any new girls. Completely fell off the gym because I was too focused on dating, so I will start going back now. I do se…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 12:48 AM
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I would definitely like to keep going, but it's too much effort now
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 04:10 AM
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SEA update. Super super burned out from dating at this point. Deciding to go easy for the next couple weeks and may just stop. The grind of dating is so exhausting, it makes you want to have a girlfriend just to save your energy and mental health. Right now I just have 3 girlfriends, will probably just see them for the time being and very rarely go on a new date. Sucks too because this is prime dating time. When many college aged girls are off of school and tourism numbers are at their lows. I s…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 03:35 AM
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SEA update: Decided to tell one if my girlfriends that I'm cheating, because I thought she already knew. But apparently she didn't, she was really suprised. She admitted later that she found lipstick on a cup before, but didn't think much of it because she just assumed it was probably hers. Anyways, long story short I told her everything and she decided to stay and is on her way here now. So now I have two girlfriends that know I'm cheating and decided to still stay.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 02:30 PM
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The biggest thing I miss from America are the grocery stores. The variety of things you can get is pretty unparalleled. For example, for non Americans, there is often just an entire aisle of like 100s of different varieties of chips. Pretty much any item u can want there is several different varieties and flavors. Things I really miss in general: Beef jerky Subway String cheese Taco bell Good varieties of canned soup Wendy's Affordably priced deli meats (especially turkey). Was really missing al…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 05:17 AM
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SEA update: Just looked at my calendar and counted things up, in the last month I went on at least 75 dates. Yes I know that sounds absurd, but maybe half of these were girls I've already been seeing before. There was a couple days I went on 5-6 dates. Getting absurdly burnt out at this point, don't think I can continue much longer, and I don't really have a whole lot to show for it, as my girlfriends keep finding out I'm cheating. As we speak I am with one of my girlfriends now started crying b…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 01:55 PM
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6/10 but that's pretty good for me haha
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 04:48 PM
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And most young women you'd meet IRL have social media or dating apps anyways too
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 04:37 PM
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SEA update: Stuck my dick in crazy. 23 year old single mother of 2 from 2 different dads, had her first kid at 16. She started trauma dumping on me like 15 mins into the date Highlights: My first boyfriend used to beat me My grandma raised me because my mom ruined our family. I only met my dad 3 times. My mom's boyfriend had an excorcism, I was afraid he would kill us I tried to abort (illegal here) my second baby but it failed and I cried when I heard his heartbeat and decided to keep him. I li…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 04:36 PM
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Not being super into them but still cooming is better than not cooming
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 08:15 AM
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I want to go up, but that will require looksmaxxing and going to a different country.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 01:47 AM
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All the girls I'm seeing now are just in the 4.5-6 range. It's very difficult to get a 7+ there though, even my friend who looks much better than me and has better game cannot really get them. There are very few of them around, and most of them already get claimed by the time they're like 13-16 years old. Usually what will happen is either she will get knocked up at 16 by whatever boyfriend she is with at the time (very very few girls here use condoms or take birth control) or some rich well con…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 01:38 AM
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Short term I'm just trying to build a good harem. Upgrading the overall quality of girls in my rotation, replacing the ones that inevitably fall off, and keep seeing new girls all the time. But eventually, probably not in the too distant future, I will move on from here. The juice is becoming less and less worth the squeeze. Every day that passes it gets harder to run the same game because there's more and more competition, the foriegner positive sentiment in the phillipines goes down, the quali…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 01:31 AM
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SEA update: So the girlfriend that caught me cheating decided to stay. Here's some highlights from the convo: I told her that the reason I cheat is because I don't trust the women here. Too many have the wrong motives and constantly lie. (true). She said, I don't want you for your money, I never asked you for money, the reason I want to date a foriegner is because I want a mixed family, I wanted to be different than everyone else in my province. I told her that she should expect me to cheat, bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 01:13 AM
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Late 20s, but only fucked 2 girls today, 3 of them I didn't try to smash, one of them I tried but she wouldn't come to my room
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 03:04 PM
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It's a woman but yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 02:35 PM
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A little bit, but mainly I just wanna COOM
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 02:35 PM
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SEA update: Today was a long ass day. Met with 6 women. Started off my morning with one of my girlfriends finding out I'm cheating. After she left, fucked a new girl. Then went on 4 separate dates. The last one literally overlapped. One of the girls I just finished a date with literally walked past the girl I had an upcoming date with on her way home. Had to stay back until she was out of sight to approach the other girl waiting for me. Exhausted as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 02:20 PM
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I have someone who runs my accounts, talks to all the girls for me, so I just have to show up to dates
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 04:20 AM
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SEA update: Another GF caught me cheating. This time was my fault for being lazy. Another girl came before me and left a panty liner wrapping and conditioner packet in the bathroom garbage. I knew it, but was too lazy to go throw it out outside, so I just took both of them, put them in a fast food fries box, and put them in a different garbage bin. Of course, she ends up searching this lol. She said she had suspicions about me cheating, because I don't text her so much (my dating app manager is …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 03:21 AM
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No, if I marry someone abroad I'm not taking them to america. I will stay in their country
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 04:46 PM
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To find a loyal woman, You'd have to court her and commit to he Scheming hoes are also capable of playing the long game You're not gonna find a loyal woman when they know you're just feeding her at a nice restaurant in return for sex. I don't take girls on nice dates until we've already been together for weeks at minimum
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 04:46 PM
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Looks wise, eastern europe. I am willing to make some concessions on what may be cultural differences/goldigging propensity just cuz I'm so attracted to them. Happy medium would be Latin America though. White passing/light skinned latina I could be happy with. Darker latina/light skinned arab would be next East Asian/vietnamese next SEA would be lowest I can be content with. Would rather be single than be with an African woman long term, just not attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 03:55 PM
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I wouldn't want an American woman. But yeah, it definitely giving me a lot of dating experience. Before coming here I didn't know how to date at all. Only times I had sex was lucky hookups. And still for a long time after going to the philippines, I was only fucking girls who went straight to my room. Now I can actually go on dates, get girls to my room from a date. Go on multiple dates before sex etc. There was a time where I never could fuck a girl if I took them on a date, I didn't know how t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 03:46 PM
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At this point no. This is like the 8th time something similar to this happened. Girls will convincingly lie straight to your face yet have such an innocent aura about them and know how to craft the right persona. Makes u completely unable to trust anything anyone says even if you want to believe they're a good person. Definitely wouldn't marry a girl from a dating app. Probably not a filipina either (I don't prefer Asian women). If I ever marry a girl will have to be one where I'm in the same so…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 03:31 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 02:55 PM
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SEA update: Just went on a date with a girl. Creampied her in my room after. After she leaves my room I tell my friend about the date. He said he matched with her too. So I tell him to text with her and she seems responsive. He asked her if she ever met a foriegner before, and she said no. So I ask him to try and meet her. She is nearby at a food market near both of me and his condo. She agreed to meet him. He didn't actually go, but wow that's crazy. Ready to go on a date with another guy while…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 02:54 PM
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Maybe 4.5-5.5
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 01:12 AM
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I have a fleshlight back home but mostly didn't use it because it's too much effort to clean it. I find it like 20% better than just regular masturbation
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 01:04 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 12:49 AM
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SEA update: One of my girlfriends caught me cheating yesterday. Apparently she was in my bed while I was asleep when her friend messaged her that I had matched with her on Tinder. She was the lowest girl on my roster though so I'm not concerned, plus I now have another time slot open to put other girls. Starting to get bored of some of these girls. I was honest with her about things when confronted. She left her ID at my place too so she had a delivery driver come pick it up. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 12:49 AM
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Treating a girl good after they've shown their loyalty =/= prostitution
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 11:21 AM
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No, I treat girls well who have shown that they aren't that. I don't lead with this. First many dates is in the park, or at McDonald's etc. Also, this is just for the top girl, not every girl I'm dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 11:19 AM
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So does any relationship where there is a huge disparity in incomes (the poorer person has a lot to gain if they end up getting married). That doesn't mean that's the foundation of the relationship. And the only way they are getting these limited perks is if they've been with be for a long time and already showed their loyalty. If I was giving them 50-100 dollars a meet from the beginning, then you'd have a case, as that's how much a sugarbaby cost here. Small perks after having been dating for …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 03:07 AM
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That's not a sugarbaby
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 02:56 AM
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A lot of people ask me what is in it for the filipina women who date me Here is a list of benefits that come along with being my main girl: I order them motorcycle taxi to and from dates, as well as pay for any meal or activity we have when we are together. She gets long term access to a (relative) high value male such as myself, a young foriegner, of which very very few are actually living here longterm. If their parents live close enough, I would go with them to meet her family once, so she ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 02:46 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/y8f2hj5y2e8f1.jpeg?width=300&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=63e2d2841cad1ad13b9071dae2bbe1559ef75685
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 02:24 AM
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No, I'm saying 90% of the people in the phillipines are
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 05:09 PM
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https://digido.ph/articles/middle-class-philippines 92.8% of families make less than 1116 usd a month. That's household income
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 03:52 PM
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And 90% of the people in this country are losers at home. (Even many doctors/lawyers only make 1000 usd a month or less). So doesn't matter what I am back home, I MOG the vast majority of the guys here automatically, and this is the field we are competing on.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 03:35 PM
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I would think a good portion don't know it by that name. Of course they know about foriegn guys coming here to date, but I wouldn't be suprised if the majority don't know what a "passport bro" is. A lot of them are just delusional though too. Like most will have a relative or a friend or at least have a friend of a friend who married/dated longterm a foriegner so they hope it can work out for them. Also too many of them may be aware of the dangers, but just think they are so special or so good a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 03:07 PM
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SEA update: Went on a date with a girl, it was kind of a time crunch, because one of my girlfriends is coming to spend the night soon after. Me and the girl end up at the bar at the end of our date. I was actually just going to send her home, because the other girl is coming in about an hour. But this girl actually suggests we go "watch a movie" (at my place). So, since she is basically throwing herself at me. I decide to just go for it and invite her over. We go to my room, and she is okay with…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 02:47 PM
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Yes, yes I am
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 12:31 PM
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The filipinos mad at me https://www.np.reddit.com/r/Philippines/s/CcsUUD3pn2
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 12:19 PM
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SEA update: Harem quest is going pretty well now. I now have 4 girlfriends, and a 5th girl who is stable. Recent girl is one I just went on 3 dates before we finally had sex tonight. I put in more effort because she is the best looking girl in my roster, and also has a decent personality. I used to get upset when girls wouldn't fuck on first date, but now it doesn't really phase me anymore, I'm okay with taking more time for decent girls. I am about to transition from phase one to phase 2, where…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 02:44 PM
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Supposed to be oversized so.they can wear it like a dress (when they are in my bed or just chilling at home)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 03:31 PM
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I don't try to humiliate these girls, unless they are schemers. I am actually pretty good to them, aside from the cheating part. But I try to hide that from them to not hurt them intentionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 02:20 PM
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<image> SEA update: Bought 20 bears (20 cents each) and 8 shirts (3.50 each). Every girl I meet for a date will get a bear on arrival, this is so they think I like them more/was thinking about them. Every girl I fuck who I want to see again will get a shirt. This is just as a meme to mark my territory. A way to say, this girl is getting FOOKED by an American DICK.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 01:21 PM
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SEA update: Had 3 overlapping dates today. Met a girl this morning, had been chatting to her very lightly on and off for a month, when she decides she wants to meet me today. She was going back to the island she is originally from today, so she brought all of her stuff. It turned into a convenient reason for me to get her to my room after a short café date so she could put her hold her things there till she left. Actually a decent looking girl + good personality and also she was all over me sinc…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 03:52 PM
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I don't have to, it just makes it much easier/more efficient
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 03:51 PM
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Same, but I put getting what I want over authenticity. Definitely would change my style if I was actually looking for a committed LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 03:14 PM
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SEA update: “A treaty is only a scrap of paper" Got yet another girl to my room on a first date. I kiss her and she's reluctant to go forward. She says something like "What is our status?" Which basically means, "I want a relationship if we do this". I said "So you want a boyfriend? Yeah, it's okay, you can be my girlfriend, that's the reason I'm on a dating app, looking for a girlfriend". After that of course she let me do whatever I wanted to her. "Girlfriend" is just a word. If a girl asks fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 02:50 PM
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I don't see the purpose or need for that. By virtue of them meeting and having sex with me, they think whatever I have, or whatever I potentially offer, is worth the risk of them having sex with me to obtain it. Otherwise they wouldn't do it. I could list off a bunch of things, and that may or may not convince you or someone else that its a good deal, but that doesn't matter. They're not the ones engaging in the risk. These women are, and by virtue of doing so, they believe the risk is worth the…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 05:33 AM
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I mean, some people find it worth it, some don't. The ones who do, meet and have sex with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 03:32 AM
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I didn't have any solid shits for years and also shit like 3x a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 03:00 AM
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The chance of getting that. Which obviously they see as worth it, by virtue of meeting me. Regardless, I don't even agree with the implicit framing of this. I don't believe there even needs to be a "fair exchange". Even if I was getting complete benefit with nothing in return for them, I don't feel bad about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 02:59 AM
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In the phillipines: they grt the chance at a partner with, Top 5% height, top 1% dick size, pointed nose, light skin, western education, western citizenship, top 1% income and that's without getting into personality characteristics. There's a reason these women throw themselves at me, it's not random.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 02:49 AM
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I gained like 150 pounds in one year from binge eating, I had a couple times I lost 50-75 of that over the years but always came back. This time I think I'll be good though, I just plan to stay on ozempic for life. I have about 40 more pounds to lose then I will look pretty damn good.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 02:46 AM
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Yes I'm working on that, I've already made a lot of progress towards that in the last few months, especially now that I'm on the right, ahem supplementation. Have been slowly updating wardrobe too
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 02:29 AM
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Right now id rather have ten 5s. In the future, one 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 02:24 AM
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They get a chance and getting a high value male to commit to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 02:12 AM
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Me, myself, I, your humble narrator, and yours truly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 01:08 AM
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SEA update: I have still been experimenting with optimal date length, but here is more or less how my dates always go: I invite them to this food market that's literally right across from my condo. I refuse any other date proposal or going to meet near them. Then from there we will go sit on a bench in the park next to and outside if it. From there I will chat small talk for a bit, then I will say "I want to show you something I learned". And grab their hand and put it to my forehead. In the phi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 12:58 AM
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There has now been a few occasions where I have went on a date with a woman, who one of my friends has had sex with on the first date before who didnt have sex with me, or vice versa. Actually just yesterday I went on a date with a girl, invited her to my room, and she declined. I asked her why. Of course she says "I'm not like that, it's too soon for me, I never go to a guys room like that. We are conservative here". All while I know for a fact she had sex with my friend on the first meet. This…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 09:58 PM
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The women who aren't treating me like dirt is solely because they see I have value. Because of the conditional nature of it, I don't see a problem treating them like dirt when the shoe is on the other foot. I am totally fine having a relationship with a 4-6. The vast majority of women are just not cutting it in the other factors that make up someone's relationship value, it's not all about looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 05:45 AM
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A) these are completely different women No they aren't. They just treat me better because they find me to have value. If they didn't see me as having value they'd treat me like dirt. the women you were attracted to had these problems. Not most women. Even if that was true, I'm not doing this to most women, I'm doing it to the ones I'm attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 03:39 AM
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And I'm not doing this because of not getting matches. I am doing this because of how many women are users and abusers who act completely selfish and in their own benefit and lack basic respect for humanity and dignity without regard for its negative impact on others.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 03:32 AM
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If it's only women on tinder, and I'm just doing it to women on Tinder, then why is it bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 02:05 AM
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I am reflecting the same amount of hostility and disregard for humanity women have when they are in the position of power and see a man as not useful to them/no longer useful to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:58 AM
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Yes I do
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:41 AM
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Yes, many like minded individuals
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:34 AM
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I'm just reacting to female nature
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:07 AM
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SEA update: So I hired a dating app manager. One of the side pieces of my friend. He watches her all the time to make sure she is working hard. She just started giving me the results I want to see. She works about 12 hours a day every day for me. Across all dating apps, I get several hundred likes a week. So sorting through all these ends up being a full time job because such a huge percent of these girls are timewasters. It's all a funnel. Anyways, Right now I have her schedule about 4 dates a …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 11:34 PM
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Remember, if you only cheat 1 day a month, that makes you 97% loyal. That's an A+.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 08:20 PM
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SEA Update: Been a long time since I gave an update so I figured I'd give one. During the months of around November to March is tourist season I'm the phillipines, so naturally during this time, things get more competitive. The crop of travelers seems to be getting younger and more attractive on average every year, and so to anyone considering doing the passportbro thing, I'd highly reccomend sooner rather than later. Though, there is some good news, although in January the tourist numbers went …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 08:03 PM
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Sex
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 10:41 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 04:27 AM
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Ideally (at least for me) you wouldn't have to win her over. Ideally she is already attracted to you from the beginning, and has pretty much already made the decision she wants to have sex with you, she is just getting comfortable enough to actually do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 04:25 AM
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Say, 1 year+
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 04:23 AM
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I also would, but what if you found this out like 1 year into the relationship? (I also still would)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 04:10 AM
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Same but hypothetically.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 04:09 AM
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Q4M: how would you feel if you had a long term GF, who made you wait 5 dates for sex, and you find out the night after your 3rd date she went and fucked a different guy on the first meet (you weren't exclusive yet).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 03:59 AM
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It's not. It's basically saying "women can get a better deal online than in person in most cases". Women swipe right on just 2% of men on average, and of those 2% of men probably actually meet with just a fraction of that. The likelihood of that caliber of guy based on overall population percentages is super low. Maybe she would be okay with a guy in her 5 or 10% range in person for convenience sake, but but, 50 range, aka the average guy? Why would she when she can get the 2% and lower percenta…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 07:34 AM
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You are at the store. You come across an item for 15 dollars. You know that you can get this same item online delivered to your door tomorrow for 10 dollars. Do you still buy it? Some people would, just because it's right there, and for the convenience. What if the cost in the store is 50, 100 or even 200? Would you still buy it? This is how online dating effects the real life smp. So, a lot of the "just go touch grass" stuff is really out of touch. Inb4 the "yea bro I'd definitely spend the 200…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 06:55 AM
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What makes them UNDESERVING of someone who will cheat on them? Market value. A cheating foriegner is worth more than most Filipinas. Because I am able to meet my imperative (smashing a bunch of women) and they are not (getting a relationship with a foriegner). You use that term specifically because you pick the poorest people. Otherwise, you would similarly be undeserving. "If only the people's market values in this scenario were different, everything else about it would be different too" (Wealt…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 04:54 PM
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No, too many just put on a facade in the beginning then end up being ultra annoying after a few more meets.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 04:22 PM
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For me it's just about looking decent and having a good personality, being submissive and putting me first. I don't care about income education, etc etc
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 03:26 PM
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SEA update: It's Christmas day, and since Thursday I have went on 10 dates with 8 different women. The first 9 were sexless. Which is actually an absurdly bad streak, as my normal ratio is typically at least 75+% first date to lay ratio. Aside from bad luck, one of the major problems, is that I have kept encountering women who have not dated foriegners before, and thus don't know how to date them. Since there are so many women here willing to have first meet sex, very few foriegners will wait mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 02:45 PM
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When u go to southeast Asia and people obsess over noses. Was not anticipating my nose would be fetishized.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 04:20 AM
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Mandatory ozempic for fat women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 04:19 AM
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They are abstract, nebulous, intangible things that are not objectively and precisely measurable, yet they still exist as concepts. You can see proof that these concepts exist based upon people's behavior tending to act in accordance to it. If they did not exist, pairings between partners would be completely at random. Yet we can look at many different variables that show up as trends in people's mate selection leading them to tend to select partners of similar mate value to themselves. We can a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 04:25 PM
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Do you also reject the concept of a pile of sand because there is not an objective consensus on when enough individual grains of sand together creates a pile?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 03:59 PM
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Have lost the motivation to post because the stories are not really different enough to really warrant them, it would just be getting repetitive at this point. Also have really been in a state of low motivation overall, so have hardly even been trying to date in general. Have been doing some testing of smaller cities/provinces, but although interest is quite high, the women are more conservative and not attractive enough to warrant the extra effort it would take on average. I expanded on it a bi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 09:57 AM
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I wouldn't date her, and would still think she's a hoe, but I would give her a fist bump if I ever crossed paths with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 09:10 AM
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This sub in 1933: "The economy is fine! Unemployment is only at 25%, that means 75% of people have a job! I wouldn't be surprised if most of them are just independently wealthy and choosing not to work!"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 07:09 AM
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If by one exceptional case, u mean living in the phillipines, then as a passport bro, I agree. (Maybe there are some countries this good in Africa, but I haven't ventured out there get)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 03:08 AM
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It definitely can be this in some cases. Which is why if a woman isn't ready to meet in one week max I move on. Timewasters have made a lot of guys this way, it's unfortunate for the women with legitimate concerns.
/r/seduction10/11/24 04:35 PM
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The sub has to have that rule otherwise it will get banned by the admins
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 04:51 PM
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Yeah. That's one of the biggest benefits of being here. It's like, when you have a fridge full of food you're not concerned where your next meal is. I know I can go get sex or a new girl whenever I want, so now I can just focus on myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:49 AM
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Doing fine. I feel super burned out from dating right now. I'm sitting on like 200 matches but have no desire to talk to these women lol. GF is coming to stay with me for a week soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:39 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/hsjjtbpo9lzd1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=98816cb515b4813b3bc12fc0b6f0bb38484f0e1a My filipina GF on why trump won
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:29 AM
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Yep. And it's here to stay. You poked the bear too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 07:08 AM
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Boom
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 07:05 AM
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I would be so happy if Trump did even half of what TwoXChromosomes posters thought he would. You get what you deserve.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 06:35 AM
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It's been going good. Just have been to lazy to write updates, also I have pressure from my friends not to talk about it because we have been doing more niche stuff and they are afraid of risk of oversatuation (which I think is overblown, because maybe 20 people at most read my posts). Basically, me and a friend have been going to smaller provicinal cities for weekend trips. We get celebrity treatment, but we are having a hard time navigating IRL game, as women the women are quite shy and conser…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 05:38 AM
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As a nonbinary disabled person of color I am LITERALLY shaking right now. It's not long until all of us are put into camps. Democracy is lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 05:28 AM
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I feel so giddy right now. https://np.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/s/OY9T3ou0rm
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 04:12 AM
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If you want a taste if the "I'm literally shaking right now" posts https://np.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/s/qvLkAwh2WA Honestly, I was feeling neutral about who I want to win. But now I remember just how much some of these hysterical women freak out, that I am 100% hoping for a trump victory now. No matter if we "lose our democracy" or not. (We wont)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 01:38 AM
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In my geomaxxing server we created a term "Muckyfoot sleen" A sleen is a combination of the word slum, and (adult, 18-19 year old) teen. Muckyfoot is to describe how their feet are dirty from walking barefoot on dirt roads or wearing the same sandles for the last 8 years. Uncorrupted by feminism. Not gassed up. Submissive and will cook and clean with a smile on their face.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:42 AM
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Because it's not worth the investment in most women without having sex. Only after I've been fucking a woman with no commitment for a while would I even consider committing to her. Putting in all that effort for no reward, while there's a good chance she has fucked other dudes on the first meet before, or is currently fucking other dudes is a NO from me. Fuck or get out of my face. Without sex 99% of women aren't worth dealing with. Women flake or fall off all the time, so I'm keeping my options…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 10:04 AM
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Dude we spent trillions in the middle east, And the American public is extremely war weary due to this, and involvement in the middle east is retrospectively being looked at as a disadter and huge waste of money and lives, which probably makes it much less likely they'd want to do that again. Also, if China did invade Taiwan, they are likely to have destroyed/sabatoged their chip manufacturing before China can get their hands on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 03:41 AM
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Depends the level of Chad. If he is just looks, then I'd imagine more often than not. If he is high status and rich too, then he prob can get a girl virtually every night. Also depends on the quality of girl he is looking for
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 03:31 AM
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Do you think the US is willing to spend potential trillions of dollars and thousands or 10s of thousands of lives on Taiwan? They have "the power to" but do they actually have the will for it? "Your son should die to fight for computer chips in a faraway island" seems like a hard sell to the American people.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 03:26 AM
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Well, it hurts both countries. It would definitely do a lot of damage to both, but america is more equipped to find alternatives. China is already feeling the sting of getting undercut by 3rd world competitors. What that means in the long term is China loses business, America just gets someone else to make their shit. But yes it would be one of the arrows they would have to cause short term chaos.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 03:18 AM
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I find it nasty as fuck. My GF has done this before and I hate it. If I didn't find her as cute as I did it could definitely be something that makes me lose attraction to a woman. For me I want to be completely unreminded of their bodily functions. I even get icked out if a girl is like "I have to pee" instead of saying "I have to use the bathroom".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 03:10 AM
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"Hope you had fun! I was a bit busy last night too, I went on a date, it seems super promising and im really excited."
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 02:57 AM
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Preparing for my plans to go to China as an English teacher and COOM university students.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 02:49 AM
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People often frame a potential Chinese invasion of Taiwan as "Who would win in a total war: China or America?" This is misguided. The real question is: "Does China have the will and resources to exhaust the U.S. enough that it decides defending Taiwan is no longer worth the cost?" And I think it does. Taiwan is critically important to China, not just symbolically, but as a matter of national pride and longterm strategy. China has the will to spend years, if not decades, preparing and fighting to…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 02:36 AM
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Shoutout to the realists who hate being realists.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 04:51 PM
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Or... just don't fuck hookers?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 05:30 AM
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Depends what surgeries you intend to get, how much they cost, and how much money you have to play with. But obviously doing both would be best if you can, and is what I'm doing. Looks definitely still matter abroad. Yes in the phillipines it's still pretty easy even if you're not atttactive, but being attractive helps.you get younger, more attractive, more quantity and for less effort. If all you bring to the table is money and a passport, then your relationships will be very transactional.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 05:28 AM
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Honestly I feel it's quite similar. The main difference being that I am considered a high value male here. If I was similarly as high value in america I probably would have similar results. Even here, a lot of people get super annoyed by random approaching them on the street. You constantly have people try to sell u their wares. Beggars etc. People are definitely on guard here. The comment about being approached by "exotic" really means being approached by "someone considered high value having t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 04:03 AM
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Wheat waffles said his success from cold approach: 500 approaches 80% rejection, 20% gave numbers. From that 90% flake before the date. So 2% or 1 in 50 approaches converted to a date Whereas me, in the phillipines, I did around 30 approaches for 5 dates, which is a 16% success rate. I look considerably worse than him, and surely put in less effort too. I was starting to get pissed off by my success rate, but it's actually quite good in comparison. Just shows how crazy, the western SMP is. Yes. …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 03:31 AM
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I can have it with her literally whenever I want :P so it's not even worth mentioning when I do
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 02:39 AM
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SEA update: Went with my GF to go see the place she grew up in and visit her aunt. It was quite the journey. From the main city, it took about an hours drive via motorcycle taxi to get to the road where her aunt is. The taxis here are like a motorcycle that has a "shell" around it that converts it into like a mini car. We arrive at the main road, and walk a short ways to where my girlfriend's childhood home is, it would be better described as a shack. Apparently after her mother died, my GF and …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 01:32 AM
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SEA update: After a 16 hour bus/van travel I ended up making it to the city of Pagadian. This is where my girlfriend grew up in. Her mom died here when she was just 10 years old and hasn't been back to see her gravesite since then, so as an anniversary present I've taken her here. On the ride here, I was surprised to see how beautiful some of the scenery looked. A lot of mountains and hills. One of the bus depots we stopped at, had a sign that read "Communist terrorist personalities". It was lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 02:15 AM
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SEA update: Today is me and my girlfriend's one year anniversary. Last night and the night before, for my present I wanted to take her around to bars/clubs here for social proof. My gf ended up getting trashed off 4 shots of bacardi, and I ended up finishing off the whole bottle by myself. I got so drunk I ended up just discretely pissing on the floor cuz I was too drunk to stand up, and sending my dad Goebbels quotes (Lol). Luckily he was asleep at the time and I deleted it quick enough before …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 02:43 AM
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I have different advantages and disadvantages. The social climate here is turning pretty fast. Say 10-20 years ago almost every woman would love to be dating a foriegner. These days there's more and more of a stigma around it. Especially if the guy is much older/not attractive a lot of people at large will think she's a hoe and silently (and sometimes not so silently) judge them. It's kind of a bit like dating a black guy in america. There are a lot of women who are attracted to them, physically…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 01:06 PM
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SEA update: Been doing more cold approach. Still have not gotten a lay from it, but I am still practicing and trying to get comfortable. I plan to go to an even smaller and lesser known city in a month, so there it will virtually be IRL game only. I am purposely doing this because I want to force myself to get good at IRL game for when I go back to other countries where OLD is nowhere near as easy. Starting to get pretty confident in being able to open, though I definitely need to get some more …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 12:40 PM
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Well, mexico is also in north America.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 01:16 AM
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Yeah. You can go thru my comments. I have more, I have deleted some of them tho but there's still a good chunk left.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 04:01 AM
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Yes, I don't trust these hoes because I myself am an untrustworthy hoe. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 03:25 AM
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Appreciate you saying this btw, sometimes I feel like not posting till I remember there are some people who definitely read these.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 03:21 AM
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Regarding girl you met in club she told you her body count herself or you asked for it??? She asked me. At first I'm like "thats kind of personal lol" Then she pushed a little more and I'm like "So if I tell you, you'll be honest about yours?" She said yes. I lied and said 7 lol. Then she said hers was 2 from 2 boyfriends. It's not impossible, actually I think she said she has only been in this city for a bit over a month now that I think about it. So maybe it was legit LOL. Still doesn't matter…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 03:17 AM
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Why do you think you can't build generational wealth abroad or that you'd be poor? The cost of living is so much lower its not hard to save a much larger portion of your income. If you're a high earning male (like for example a lot of tech guys living abroad), the savings from lower cost of living can very easily outdo the money gained from a wife in america who has a job, also, many or most 3rd world women do infact work. Upper middle class life can be achieved in other countries. Hell, I can h…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 03:05 AM
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SEA update: Been working a lot more on cold approaching. In the last week have done about 25 of them. Overall total I've gotten 4 dates from it, and one in the pipeline, though no smashes yet. Am starting to get more comfortable with it though it's still quite difficult. Here it only takes 2-4 approaches to get a positive reaction. Compared to doing this in the west I would have to get rejected far more times before getting a positive reaction, thus there would be far more rejections inbetween b…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 02:59 AM
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SEA update: Been working a lot more on cold approaching. In the last week have done about 25 of them. Overall total I've gotten 4 dates from it, and one in the pipeline, though no smashes yet. Am starting to get more comfortable with it though it's still quite difficult. Here it only takes 2-4 approaches to get a positive reaction. Compared to doing this in the west I would have to get rejected far more times before getting a positive reaction, thus there would be far more rejections inbetween b…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 02:36 AM
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Not to say that what yourr talking about happens in all relationships, but If you're western, the overall cost of supporting a SEA woman and her family is often less, sometimes considerably so, than going 50/50 with a woman in america.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 02:25 AM
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SEA update: Went and approached 16 women today. Made a challenge for myself, I either had to approach 10 women today, or give 1000 pesos (like 17 dollars) to a beggar. Mostly went okay. I can't remember the exact totals, but it was something like 6-8 business cards handed out. Only 2-3 girls were rude/mean. The rest either entertained it or politely declined. So far one girl contacted me back. 19 year old nursing student, about a 5/10. I started only approaching 5s and above towards the end. I c…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 02:47 PM
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"I just haven't found the right one yet. There's a lot of beautiful girls out there but it's hard to find one with a compatible personality"
/r/seduction25/09/24 09:40 AM
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Frfr on god
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 03:20 PM
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SEA update: Met with a 19 year old single mom today. Her baby is young she is still breastfeeding. (She had some pretty big mommy milkers :P) We went straight to my room, and it wasn't long until she started giving me some subtle sob stories. Talking about how it's hard to be a single mother, she can't afford to do X, Y, Z. The dude she got knocked up by was a guy who already had a family and he left her as soon as he found out she was pregnant. I just kinda brushed it off and continued the conv…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:26 PM
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In the phillipines, especially in a lot of cities outside of the ones where there's a lot of tourists.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 02:04 AM
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SEA update: Had a decent day with "the business card method". Basically, I have an around 15 second interaction with women IRL and give them my business card for contact info if they wanna go on a date sometime. I approached 8 women today, handed out 6 cards and 2 got back to me so far. One of them actually even invited me to come out with her and her friend tonight to a bar. I was cautious at first because this is sometimes a scam, so I came in with the mind to automatically ask for a split bil…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 05:57 PM
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A lot will. You're just looking for the women who are okay with it. The more attractive you are, the more will say yes, but it's always an uphill battle. If no women say yes, it means your SMV isn't high enough and/or your game isn't good enough, youre aiming too outside of your casual sex league, or you aren't talking to enough women.
/r/seduction20/09/24 08:07 AM
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But what I am doing is not even egregious. To them, they wouldn't know if my intent the entire time was to split the bill if that's what ends up happening. A guy wanting to split the bill or have sex on the first date is kind of a faux pas but it's not bad enough to ruin your reputation. In the event she does come to my room, then it just looks like first date sex where a guy paid for the meal.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 11:20 PM
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just ask them before the date and there will be nothing for them to make a big stink about .you will weed out women you dont want. i dont see how this is rocket science The thing is, if they are willing to have sex on the first date, I DO want them, regardless of if they expect me to pay for the meal or not. I simply do not want to pay the meal anymore if it's clear she won't have sex, because it doesn't benefit me to do so. yes how dare women judge you by your literal actions they should univer…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 10:42 PM
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I wouldn't do this to women that have a connection to my real life or social circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 10:38 PM
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No. Almost no women are going to have sex with a guy just because he bought them a meal. The reason a lot wouldn't have sex if he didn't buy the meal is because they now view the guy as stingy and that icks them out and gets them out of the mood when they otherwise weren't. The fact the guy bought them the meal isn't the reason they're coming to his room. It's because they were already otherwise attracted to him. If they decided to come to my room before they knew the outcome of if I would pay t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 10:37 PM
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No. Almost no women are going to have sex with a guy just because he bought them a meal. The reason a lot wouldn't have sex if he didn't buy the meal is because they now view the guy as stingy and that icks them out and gets them out of the mood when they otherwise weren't. The fact the guy bought them the meal isn't the reason they're coming to his room. It's because they were already otherwise attracted to him. If they decided to come to my room before they knew the outcome of if I would pay t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 10:36 PM
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Then that sucks, but the overall cost associated is still much lower even when factoring these situations into the overall success rate as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 04:44 PM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 03:18 PM
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Yes, but that would take far more time and effort than I'm willing to give and is pretty impractical. (For every woman that says yes, far more will say no)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 02:09 PM
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I don't
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 02:07 PM
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Yeah, I wouldn't do that. I'm not intentionally trying to cause them distress. I am just trying not to pay when I've had my time wasted.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 01:49 PM
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Because being upfront about my intentions lowers the chances of sex in general. Because there are many women who would have sex after going on good first date, who would've not been okay with meeting if you were upfront about wanting sex before meeting.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 01:41 PM
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Agree yeah. I don't pressure women to have sex. If it's clear they don't want to I tell them to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 01:38 PM
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I don't want to spend money on situations that don't benefit me, and especially on situations that have wasted my time. If im not getting sex there's no reason to also waste even more of my money when I've already wasted my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 01:37 PM
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You agree you paid with the goal of increasing the chances they have sex with you by displaying attractive qualities through it, that's what I was referring to By agreeing to come to my room before they know if I will pay for the meal or not, it means they are already attracted to me enough to come back to my place. The decision is already made before they know I'm paying. Though yes, it will have some effect on if she has sex with me. Because asking to split after she has agreed can definitely …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 01:33 PM
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Yes. All the time. The reason I switched is because being upfront with my intentions was far less sucessful
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 01:22 PM
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They don't know you paying is an effort to get in their good graces so that they agree to put out, and instead as far as I'm aware you're misleading them into thinking you paying is a display of generosity, appreciation, provider masculinity etc, or otherwise you wouldn't pay as there would be no point. If they haven't asked this and I haven't lied about it then it's not dishonesty. Manipulative sure tho yeah I agree. I don't have a problem with that. I think you agree if they knew you paying wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 01:21 PM
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They don't know you paying is an effort to get in their good graces so that they agree to put out, and instead as far as I'm aware you're misleading them into thinking you paying is a display of generosity, appreciation, provider masculinity etc, or otherwise you wouldn't pay as there would be no point. If they haven't asked this and I haven't lied about it then it's not dishonesty. Manipulative sure tho yeah I agree. I don't have a problem with that. I think you agree if they knew you paying wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 01:21 PM
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If I have sex then it's not a waste of my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 01:18 PM
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How is it dishonest? I never agreed to pay for their meal.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 01:15 PM
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YOU have set a fee for service That's not what a fee for service is. I am not giving her a meal so she has sex with me. The meal is not the reason she is having sex with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 01:14 PM
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but she can feel obligated to because you paid for her meal. That could've happened regardless of my intent to not pay for the meal if she didn't come. The amount of women doing this is miniscule though. If you’re just attractive to her, that should be enough leverage for sex if she’s a woman who sleeps on the first date. Because women can get icked out at the tiniest of things even if they were otherwise attracted to a guy. Paying for the meal should either be done out of courtesy (without expe…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 01:07 PM
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There is no fee for service. She isn't having sex with you because you paid for the meal.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 01:01 PM
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Based af
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 01:00 PM
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I don't see your point. In this context, im not paying for sex with a meal. She isn't having sex with me because I paid for the meal.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 12:59 PM
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Funny lol. I mean yeah, I know I have to "play the game" so I wouldn't be the type to be making things sexual in text before meeting.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 12:59 PM
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To an extent. But a gold digger to me isn't someone who wants us to get a 30 dollar total dinner. Gold digger territory for me is 50 or 100+ per person at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 12:57 PM
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Hookers cost more, and I want mutual attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 12:55 PM
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Agree, though trying to set up a date at a cheaper place is going to vet out more women than necessary. Also, it's not so much about the cost for me, it's about not wanting to pay money on women who are in effect wasting my time. Whether that's 2 dollars, 10 dollars or 50.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 12:54 PM
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Okay, I won't get into a semantic debate about the word kind. I will just say, I want to reward people who do the behavior I want, and I don't want to expend resources to people who don't do what I want. I guess you can argue some of the interaction is transactional. Though, the sex itself is not. Because like I said, the sex is not occurring because I paid for their meal. It would only be transactional if both of our thought processes was "I am paying for a meal so you will have sex with me bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 12:48 PM
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So? Imagine compromising your positions for pussy I don't have a problem with this to an extent What effort? Seriously,how is 2 people who like eachother going to for drinks/food/coffee etc effort?, You are supposed to be having fun. If the date is going shit,just leave. The mental energy of dating in general. You're talking about the date itself only, im talking about all the energy in general it takes to secure a date. Not only with her but interacting with women in general until I find the on…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 12:44 PM
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Imagine compromising your positions for pussy I'm okay with this (to an extent). In a perfect world where I had unlimited options I would, but I want to have as much sex with as many women as possible so I'm willing to comprise a bit for that goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 12:41 PM
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I don't have to, im doing so because I want to do something kind for someone doing something that I want. At the point of asking her if she wants to come back to my place, she doesn't know whether or not yet my intentions of paying the bill or not, thus it shouldn't be a factor in if she agrees or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 12:39 PM
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Nah, cuz that lowers my chances of getting sex when I already put in all that effort for a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 12:38 PM
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Yes! Very cool guy 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 12:37 PM
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Agree, im just talking in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 12:34 PM
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I would prefer to do that from the outset, but there are a lot of women who would make a big stink about it. Like, to the point where they otherwise would've come to my room for sex after, but are turned off by having to pay they then refuse based solely on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 12:30 PM
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Not talking about doing this in SEA, just in general. Yeah I wouldn't do that here because most women definitely could not cover their half of the bill at an actual nice restursnt (but I never take women here to this for a first date anyway).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 12:23 PM
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You are using the paying for the meal as a means to get sex. No, I am using my physical qualities, charm, etc to get sex. The meal was just a venue for us to meet and showcase these qualities.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 12:21 PM
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It's not, because you are not paying for sex with a meal, you are paying for the meal only on the condition that she comes back to your room with you. You paying for the meal (hopefully) was not the deciding factor on if SHE had sex with you. (Very few women will have sex in exchange for a meal). It would only be prostitution if the meal was prepayment for sex. The reason she is having sex with you is not because you paid for a meal, but because she was attracted to you enough to have sex with y…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 12:19 PM
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You take a woman on a dinner date for a first date. You never agreed to pay for her meal. The bill comes. Before paying, you ask her if she wants to come back to your room. If she doesn't agree, you ask for a split check, when you otherwise would've paid. Thoughts?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 12:14 PM
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Almost 30 how are you not disgusted by fucking an 18 year old? Most guys would smash an 18 year old if they were single and she was willing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 06:39 AM
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SEA update: Went on 2 dates yesterday. Already hating the dating grind again after a week off of it while with my girlfriend. Did the typical thing of sending her a ride to the mall near my condo. We walked around for 5 mins before we settled on a pizza place to sit and chat outside. Neither of us are hungry so I go inside by myself to get a bottle of water so they don't kick us off the table for not being a customer. The line is too long, so I just go back to the table after a minute. As I come…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 02:12 AM
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SEA update: Did something stupid again. The island that I'm on, every city on the mainland aside from the one I live in is level 3 travel advisory. I traveled outside of the safety of that city yesterday to go inquiring about volunteering at a university. I take a long bus ride and arrive in the new city. I stop at a mall and everyone is looking at me, I'm sure very few foriegners ever come here, so the fact they're seeing one, especially a young one is very novel to them. I head to the universi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 01:20 AM
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SEA update: Spent a weekend with the GF at a resort. Was kind of meh, but memorable. Wasn't expecting much from a 65 dollar a day room either. There were a couple other filipina/foriegner couples, though they were all boomers with girls half there age. One of them came and chatted with us for about 30 mins. Fellow American. One of the things he brought up was "how spoiled American women are" lol. He is married and divorced from a Filipina and out here looking for his next one. The girl he was wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 12:11 AM
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SEA update: Had a date night with my GF last night. We went to a nice restaurants here (which is like, just a regular retustant by American restaurant, actually a bit subpar). As we were eating a unaccompanied approximately 8 year old kid was string at us for 5 mins straight trying to get me to buy peanuts from him. (These kids are all over the city). After 5 mins the kid walked in the store and came up to us and had to be physically escorted out of the restaurant. A lot of these kids are 100% s…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 02:01 AM
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SEA update: Went with the GF to eat durian yesterday. If you've never had it before, most people will think it's pretty nasty. It's a fruit, that smells like rotting garbage, and taste like garlic custard. But people here love it, it grows here, and there are stalls selling it all over the place, and it's hard to walk far without smelling it's distinct smell. We went to the stall, and the workers there, all men, were being very chatty with her in Cebuano. I kept hearing the word "buntis" which m…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 12:51 AM
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Yes. I actually am fine with it. It's a nice break from the grind.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 02:58 PM
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SEA update: Girlfriend arrived today. She will live with me for the next week before going back home. I might not ever see her again after this. We are on the same island but she lives about a 5 hour ride away from where I am now. The condo that I live in here, is at about 5% occupancy because it's new. That means basically all of the guards know me. My girlfriend arrives at my condo, and I'm at the gym not looking at my phone, so she sits for an hour and waits for me. When she arrived at the co…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 02:47 PM
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Compared to the local populace it's hard to say cuz I don't know much about filipino rizz. I think my game is probably a 7/10. My looks are a big factor too. I'm not much compared to the west, but compared to the local populace where the average male is 5'4, has a 4.27 inch penis. And I have a pointed nose and fairer skin (highly prized in SEA, not just having to do with race), also am college educated. It's hard to say how much my nationality plays into it. There are old fat ugly decrpid boomer…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 03:11 AM
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Yeah, I wouldn't rely on dating apps. I'm looking to go integrate. I want to go teach English to adult students there. Work on social circle game, get involved in dance and church.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 03:00 AM
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Yeah I don't like them that much either. My next geomaxxing journey is going to be in Latin America
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 02:55 AM
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By entertained I mean charisma, humor. It's better of course. They're women at the end of the day. You get much more leverage by being a foriegner, but you will up your lay rate and quickness of getting laid by being more charismatic. You could definitely still fuck some girls with no charisma and just interview questions tho. But yes I use charisma and breaking the touch barrier etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 02:52 AM
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Yes, one of the guards cam up to me telling me where to go for prostitutes because he must think I am getting them myself. I don't blame him for thinking that tho, cuz having 2 different women in ur room in 3 hours is wild lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 02:39 AM
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On my side lol. I don't think she is cheating but of course I have no way to know for sure because I'm not with her 24/7. Tho she doesn't seem like the type. She knows I'm cheating tho and reluctantly accepts it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 02:37 AM
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Yes. They probably get paid like 100 dollars a month lmao. Wages here are extremely low.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 02:34 AM
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No, I will leave here within the next 2 months. I will likely come back to the philippines in the future tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 02:28 AM
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SEA update: Went on 3 dates yesterday. First one was a girl I met at a club on Saturday. 6/10. I gave her my business card after a 15 second interaction then left. I was surprised she messaged me. We met for coffee. She was only in town for this weekend because she was applying for school, and then heading back to a city 3 hour drive away so I knew I had to smash today or never. I tried but she wouldn't agree to come back to my condo after an hour of chatting. It seemed like she wanted to spend …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 02:24 AM
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SEA update: Forgot to mention it, but 4 days ago I was at my gym training muay thai. I am resting on the window sill during a break, and an attractive woman rolls down the passanger side window waves and smiles in my direction. My gut reaction was first "there's no way she's waving at me". But after a moment I realize it must be for me and so I wave back. We continue to smile and wave at eachother for a few more moments, until I make the "call me" gesture with my hand, and she does it back. My t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 01:30 AM
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It was 1st day of ger period so just light spotting.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 04:19 AM
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I'm testing out church game now because I when I do want a wife I will probably go that route. For now, I want to also test how to do community integration from scratch as well. As the past 3 years I've been traveling has solely been as a tourist. I realize if you want the best women you need to societal integrate in a new country.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 04:06 AM
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No, but I met them through online dating not through the church itself. When you meet people thru social circles u have more vetting mechanisms
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 03:11 AM
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She's not but if she was I'd just tell her I left but actually just stay.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 02:44 AM
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Yeah, there's levels to it. I've dated 2 girls from the church before. Both didn't care about the dietary restrictions and both smashed on the first date lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 02:43 AM
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SEA update: Rapid-fire catch up C still on some bs. Still been fighting. Yesterday she came to my room for only 1 min just go give me a negative pregnancy test. (It's too soon to be accurate, also I coomed in her on her period so the chance she is pregnant is super low anyways) Went on a date yesterday with a 31 year old "modern woman". She was super controlling of the convo, in annoying HR personality mode. Doesn't cook or clean. Of course I expected all this but thought it might be an east sma…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 01:46 AM
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but she can still do better I can do better than her too, which is why I'm not giving her a relationship. Also, does it at least make you happy? I'm not constantly filled with joy, but feeling better overall, especially compared to if I was rotting in the west.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:11 PM
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and directly paying for at least ~75% of them) Untrue The last time you were living your best life, did you feel the need to hop onto PPD and tell everyone? Wouldn't PPD be the furthest thing from your mind if you were having the Time of Your Life? I want to motivate basement dwellers here to go out and do something cuz I used to be one myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:04 PM
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She can do so much better then. It would be quite hard for her to, since she insists on dating a young foriegner and there's probably a couple dozen of us in the entire city, and she doesn't really have the option to leave here either. Is whatever you're posting about your purpose in life? For now
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:02 PM
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Cuz she's the hottest I've ever been with
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 06:04 PM
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SEA update: Quick recap on C 3 days ago I kicked her out if my room cuz she wouldn't fuck Yesterday she came over and wouldn't fuck again so I kicked her out again. Problem is, I won't offer her commitment and she doesn't want to have further sex without commitment so we are at an impasse. Had a big fight over text, nothing resolved and she says she's done but I wouldn't be surprised if she comes back again Fucked a new girl today. Another girl today stood me up at her own workplace. Went and me…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 04:48 PM
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SEA update: Kicked C out of my room yesterday. We had been pretty much living together the last 4 days. She didn't take it too well. Things were moving way too fast, she was telling me she loved me and pressuring me to make her my GF which is obviously a huge red flag. I have decided that the risk of losing her by making her leave and trying to gain an advantage in the power dynamic was worth it because I've already derived enough value from fucking her about 10 times already that if I lose her …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 02:28 AM
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Nope lol I'm a 5 at best. Probably a 4
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 02:48 AM
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SEA update: So I've met with C for the last 4 days straight. She has slept over almost every day. She has mostly brought her A game since the beginning. But the mask is starting to slip pretty hard. You know, I've fucked 60+ Filipinas, and it's actually not that common for women to actually put in the required effort to secure the foriegner they want. Cooking, cleaning, fucking, being pleasant and affectionate is the BARE MINIMUM when I can get a new woman like that at a moments notice. A lot of…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 02:37 AM
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I know. It's awesome!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 03:02 AM
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:P
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:51 AM
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Doesn't matter, had sex!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:46 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:39 AM
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SEA update: C is trying very hard to become my GF. We have met every day since we first met and she sleeps over too. We went to a night market last night. It's crazy, when we walk around everyone looks at us, and a lot of people make postive comments. C dresses in a pretty provocative way by phillipines standards. She was wearing form fitting athletic wear with booty shorts. There will also be moments where we are walking and there is a small gap between us to where we look like we aren't togeth…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 01:39 AM
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Crazy lol, surprised he hasn't been caught yet
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 12:27 AM
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Definitely. Start wherever your entry level is and work up from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 12:17 AM
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Some random observations I've made: As a man, if you don't get at least 10 matches a week on OLD, it really isn't worth it. There are so many women on there operating in bad faith, and even in many cases in good faith, that you need at least this amount of leverage, or you're going to have your time and resources wasted a ton. For example, there are so many women on apps that literally just use guys to farm attention/validation. If you don't have options, you cannot play aggressively enough to f…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 12:07 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:21 PM
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SEA update: Sperging out almost cost me another good prospect. Going to call her "C" now because I feel like she is going to come up more in further posts. She is the attractive girl from yesterday. Yesterday she told me we would meet at 4 today. Today she sent me a message asking me if we can meet at 2 at around noon. I asked her then if we can do 3 instead. She agrees. 3 rolls around and I havent heard back from her yet. Starting to get really annoyed. At 330 I message her telling her I'm goin…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:12 PM
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are you sure most of these people arent just prostitutes if thats what you expect? No? I just know women love to play power games and are extremely machiavellian.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 11:43 PM
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Yes. It's humiliating and upsetting to me. Because it's flaunting their power over me. It's like "Yeah, you want this don't you? Well, I have complete control over if you get this or not. One mistake and it's gone forever. You really thought we were about to fuck right then? Nope. Try again. Come on... beg for it like the dog you are". They can just walk away at any moment and all effort I've put into it at that point is just completely forfeit. And of course, it happens all the time. So much wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:52 PM
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Definitely yeah, it's starting to feel like it's all coming together now. Im realizing more how much of rejection has to do with a woman not feeling a certain way, but also how much influence you can have on making her feel a certain way too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:43 PM
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SEA update: Smashed new 2 women today. First one: 5.5/10 24 year old. Very short, must've been like 4'9. Nice body. We meet at a mall 5 min walk from my place. We walk for a bit then go get coffee. I do my normal routine. She says she has to use the bathroom. There isn't one there in the café so I just tell her we can go to my condo and she can use mine. She agrees. She was already heavily hinting before she wanted to come over. Before we leave she says she needs to pick up her bag. She goes to …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:15 PM
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Im just saying this because you said you were and also sound frustrated. Not doing the set up is you getting cocky and arrogant, being too detached and mechnical about it. Doesnt really sound fun either to me, sounds like youre trying to hit a number haha. Im sure the girls can feel that. Agree definitely. Not necessarily trying to hit a number, but more so trying to get sex with the least amount of resource expenditure as possible (time, money, effort, mental energy etc). I guess that yes, this…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 03:55 PM
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Well. My girlfriend now, we had sex on the first meet. Things are very "complicated" right now as you can see I'm fucking around with tons of other women. Right now I'm in the stage of casual first. I qm technically open to the chance of finding something serious if it started with casual first. I am kind of just doing what my options allow right now though. Of course I would play totally differently if I was in the west, because my smv couldn't "afford" meeting dozens of women a month. Also, if…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 03:51 PM
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she is probably hungover and exhausted after the birthday, cut her some slack maybe and see how things go from tomorrow onwards, maybe she will have new energy Already blocked her. If she's not giving me the responses and respect I want she's too replaceable especially at this point in the relationship. If I had less options I wouldn't have played as cutthroat, but alas. It sounds like you still cant read vibes. If you cant tell a girl is going to decline coming back to your place then that is k…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 03:36 PM
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SEA update: Kind of a shitty day. Like 2 girls flaked. Ended up breaking things off with the girl who's family I met too. She wasn't respecting my time/value. We were supposed to meet again yesterday but she wanted to postpone it to today because she wanted to go to a birthday party instead. I cut her a little slack because I had already met her before. It gets to today and she is being really slow to respond to texts. She says we can meet at 4 or 5, then 5 rolls around and she tries to push it …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 02:53 PM
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No, because everything is either curable, treatable or not a big deal. It would suck to get HIV but it's far from a death sentence. And the chance of getting it from PIV sex as a male is extremely low
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 04:01 AM
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Perhaps :0
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 03:46 AM
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Apollo Quiboloy. Founder of "Kingdom of Jesus Christ" church 13,000 members. Claims to be the son of God. Police are raiding his compound now looking for him. He is alleged of trafficking, molestation, money laundering stuff AFAIK. There alleged is some deeper political motivation though regarding beef between the current and former president of the philippines.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 03:40 AM
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Yeah, for the first one, if we meet again it will only be if she agrees to come straight to my condo. For the 4th one, this isn't that uncommon. Has happened to me dozens of the times in the past in manila, but the competition there is higher now so it's not as viable. Where I'm at now, there are very few foriegners, as shown with 2 girls coming straight to my condo for drinks without trying to scam me, so first meet lays should be much more viable.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 03:31 AM
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SEA update: Met with 4 women yesterday. I know that seems kind of outlandish, but they were all 4-5s, so really it's not. 1: met a girl for lunch. Went pretty well. She seemed to be pretty into me and quite insecure. I probably could've smashed today, she was even hinting about coming to my apartment, but honestly I wasn't super feeling it, and also feeling a bit insecure myself to risk the rejection of asking her. She texted me after the date saying she had a good time and wants to meet again. …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 03:20 AM
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SEA update: Wild ass day. Met 3 different women. 1st woman: She tells me she's at a nearby mall, so I suggest we meet. She says okay. She comes to the mall I'm at, we get pizza. While I'm there, a black American is sitting and eating with his filipina. He chats to me. Turns out he is from the same metro area as me back in the US. Cool dude, much older guy. As I'm eating, another girl is texting me she wants to meet today in about an hour. So now I know I have limited time to close this. I invite…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 01:05 PM
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Loool. Always someone having to put things in the worst light possible. If is didn't want to be here I offered her a way out. She's not entitled to staying in my room while being annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 03:43 PM
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SEA update: Just left to manila and headed to a another city where few foriegners go. Will not even say where it is, because I believe geomaxxing will just continue to get more competitive but if you were interested enough you could tell from the hints. I left manila because I was not getting the treatment I wanted. Yes I can fuck decent looking girls with some effort, but that's not what I want. If im going to be slumming it in the 3rd world, I want women to be throwing themselves at me. I want…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 03:30 PM
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Yeah, it's funny. I took a motorcycle taxi ride home. The driver was super chatty. And on the way back we talked a drcent bit about women. He said "Girls in manila make you put in a lot of effort, it's not easy to get sex" about his own experience. I'm just thinking like, "bro if only you knew how slutty some of the girls here are for foriegners, you'd be seething with jealousy".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 03:34 PM
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SEA update: Went with a group to the slummier/poorer areas of metrk manila today to do pickup. The group started with me and 2 other guys, average to slightly below average looking. We got a ton of attention. Tons of people greeting us. Wanting us to come stop and talk to them. IOIs from girls. People saying I'm "pogi" aka handsome. Felt like being the big man on campus a bit. A huge difference in attention compared to the richer parts of manila just 10km away. Didn't end up doing any approaches…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 03:26 PM
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Of course they do. The manila "river" is drying up, so I'm off to find the next one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 03:05 PM
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SEA update: Starting to get really tired of Manila. Thankfully I'm leaving soon. Overall still had a decent time, but it's been a ton of frustration. The terminal decline of online dating apps is hitting even here. So many time wasters and flakes, gold diggers etc. It gets absurdly tiring to sort through. Although there's definitely a bit more foriegners in Manila itself, the biggest problem is online simps sending money to girls here and gassing them up all day. The problems of the western SMP …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 02:23 PM
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Loool. Pinoys are immune to heat
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 02:43 PM
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SEA update: Non-dating post. "Happyland" slums Today at my trip to the slums, I took my girlfriend. I got an early start, because I did not want to be there at night. I told her that the place we are headed is notoriously dangerous. To which she replies "I'm a filipina! I can handle it!". The name Happyland is derived from the Bisaya word Hapilan, which translates to “dump site". We embark on a one hour taxi drive. We arrive at security a gate. As soon as we try to enter, 3 security guards come …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 02:10 PM
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No more inherently transactional than if I woke up tomorrow in america as a 6'4 millionaire doctor
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 01:54 AM
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here to have transactional sex with local women Neither am I :0
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 01:35 AM
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SEA update: So I went to Tondo yesterday. One of the poorest areas in Manila. It's kind of dangerous actually, and I got there a bit late, so I could only stay for about 30 mins before dark, and I didn't get to check out the slummiest areas. Me and my friends are headed back on Friday to do some pickup actually LOL. We are kind of annoyed because we get a lot of flakes online (still a good amount of success tho) and stuck up girls from OLD (yes, even manila is starting to fall), and we tried doi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 12:49 AM
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I did not coerce her. I was not trying to have her have sex with me in exchange for a taxi ride home. I wanted her to leave and I didn't want to pay for it. I never agreed to pay for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 06:48 PM
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Cuz that's even less fulfilling to me than going thru all this BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 06:26 PM
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Lmao bro, 99% of actual rapists get away with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 06:25 PM
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Nope. Im mad at women so I take it out on women, especially ones who waste my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 06:22 PM
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Feel free not to read it then.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 06:20 PM
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SEA update: 31 year old 4/10 comes to stay the night. Talks my ear off for 2 hours till we go to my bed. I try to escalate she seems into it, but won't let me go that far. She says she's on her period. I say "okay then you should go home". She more or less admits she was trying to "test me" to see if I only wanted sex. I'm like "Sure, I don't care, i knew that was a possibility I'm not playing games with you". I make her leave. I tell her to get her own ride home. She said she can't afford it. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 06:17 PM
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Correct. It doesn't need to be most.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 05:57 PM
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No, but a lot do. Millions every night across the world probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 07:03 AM
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Who else would be willing to randomly have sex with a guy who lives far away besides a sex worker? A lot of women. Tons of Filipinas looking for a foriegner. Women do a lot for high value men. Regardless you could have given her something for the ride home. Not take it upon yourself to be a disciplinarian. Nope. I want her to suffer.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 07:01 AM
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Nah, I'm a high value male. Most girls who come aren't prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 06:59 AM
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Yes. Funny sex practices being asking for money before sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 06:30 AM
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I don't mind that she's a "sexworker". The problem is that she concealed that fact before arriving. If she wouldve told me upfront that would've been fine, but instead she chose to waste my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 05:51 AM
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SEA update: had sex with 2 new women today 1: 4/10 face 6/10 body 20 year old, not working or in school, She was from tondo, a pretty slummy area of manila. That was the first red flag. Asked her how many people live with her. She said 10. 5 others lived in the same room with her. We had been talking very briefly on and off for a while but she finally wanted to meet today so I sent her a ride here. We went straight to my room. Chatted for a bit. She was super receptive. The next red flag was she…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 10:15 PM
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If theyre not interested they shouldn't be coming to my room.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 09:04 PM
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Kinda your fault for making implicit contracts and getting mad they weren’t fulfilled. Same for her for assuming I'd send her a ride home.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 09:03 PM
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Tldr 1: Got a girl to my room, didn't smash Tldr 2: got a second girl to my room same day. Didn't smash either. She pissed me off so I made her cry and find her own way home.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 04:31 PM
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In retrospect yeah definitely. I take it as a learning moment though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 04:28 PM
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Yes. Two big Ls. Really annoying. Yes the second girl literally cried. She wasn't hysterical or anything tho. Honestly glad she cried.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 04:20 PM
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SEA update: 2 dates today, and ended up acting like a real douchebag First date started off very well. Out of towner. Actually quite attractive. 25 years old, solid 6.5. We met at a mall near her hotel, which isn't too far from mine. Walked around for a bit, then got a coffee. Light flirting and breaking the touch barrier ensues. After about an hour I ask her if she wants to go to a walk. Strategically go for a walk towards my condo. We end up in a park 2 mins from my place. The whole time she's…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 04:08 PM
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Women un the phillipines are rude and mean to me too. Just less because I have a much higher. Akue here. 2-3 women a week is still an astoundingly high number, and the fact that you can’t handle waiting a few days for a different woman reflects on your character. I can, but I don't want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 01:45 PM
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You literally have a buffer of pussy. Just go on tinder and find someone else. You literally have sex with like 5 women a day. You’re not missing out by losing 1 of 5. It's easy, but not that easy. I can have sex with typically 2-3 new women a week, and I have to put effort in to get them. So when pussy is infront of me and I don't fuck it, im losing out on the overall resource expenditure of the pussy getting venture. If I could consistently have 5 decent looking new women a day show up straigh…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 03:44 AM
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Women are mean and rude and annoying here too, just less because I have higher SMV here. It's not western vs filipina. Is my value in the west vs my value in the east, and how women respond to that. It's not even about trying to retroactively get revenge on another woman. It's, I have power and I enjoy abusing it and hurting women, so when I have power I abuse it because so often when the shoe is on the other foot they abuse it on me. I know that doesn't undo or get back at previous women, but I…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 03:41 AM
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You can get the things that you want without being a sociopath. It's way less efficient, and way more resource intensive. I can bear the "moral cost" so I feel no reason to be honest, to do otherwise will cause too much resource expenditure (time, money, effort, mental stress etc).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 03:37 AM
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An excuse for what? Women treat me like shit for no reason all the time. So when I'm in the position of power I do the same back. It's not even mostly about revenge tho, it's about making sure I get the things that I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 02:07 AM
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You could easily have said “no, I don’t want a serious relationship” Yes but then I risk not fucking. You supposedly have a bajillion women eager to drop their panties for you. Yes, but this one was already in my room and the pussy was right there. “no, I don’t have any extra toothbrushes” I did, and then she looked thru my cupboard and saw the other one and asked if she can use it. I said I already used it before (half lie) but she still used it. Yes I could been more honest but also it's funny…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 02:06 AM
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Yeah pretty much.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:31 PM
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SEA update: So, for a while now, I have stopped looking at words between men and women as words, and seeing them merely as a proxy for advancing a move in a chess game. Saying this now because it becomes relevant to my story. So, I messaged a girl on a dating app tonight. This was our first correspondence. Within like 10 messages, she's telling me she's bored and asks if I want to meet tonight. After we have a short video call I send her on her way here. (Yes it's that easy sometimes lol). When …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:17 PM
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SEA update: Just got cold approached by a ladyboy. So, I like to go out for long walks. Typically around 3 hours. I'll go to the mall, and pass by tons of filipinos. I typically get a lot of IOIs. Like, 20-30 in a day, and 2-5 pretty intense ones. This was another day of the same, and as I'm walking home, a person asks me for directions to a nearby resturant. Since it's close by I offered to walk them there. It starts off very flirtatious on their end. After introducing myself as "Adam" (my alia…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 11:53 AM
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Because sometimes it works
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 02:33 AM
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What even is a ‘face eater’? Just like kissing super sloppily, using their tongue all over. Way too much. hookups without condoms?! 😟 Yeee
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 04:07 PM
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Yeah, but the risks are so low I'm OK with rolling the dice. Yes it's kind of stupid but whatever. YOLO.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 02:34 PM
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For now yeah. I am in the middle of looksmaxxing now. I feel next time I go to Latin america I can do decent. My end game is trying to find a nice slav to settle down with, but I'm a few years out from.that. right now I just purely want casual
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 01:56 PM
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I've been there before but no lays. It's a more conservative culture and they have higher standards. Went on a few dates tho with decently attractive women. It's more a place for trying to find a wife/LTR
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 01:48 PM
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These numbers I mentioned were all pertaining to the philippines which im currently in. Outside of the phillipines isn't many. 2 legit lays in mexico, 1 legit lay in Argentina, 1 legit lay in thailand.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 01:46 PM
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Like 55 of them. Most "dates" was them just coming straight to my room. But recently it's been a lot harder to pull this off, so I've been starting with coffee instead this trip.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 01:44 PM
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Herpes falls under not a big deal, HIV is treatable. Take a pill every day, and you're HIV is undetectable and you live longer on average than the general population. But, for heterosexual vaginal sex, the chance of a male contracting HIV in the first place is extremely low.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 01:41 PM
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The kid will be cringe for them haha. For STDs, everything is curable, treatable, or not a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 01:38 PM
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It's super super atypical for them to pay that's why I was surprised. 99% of girls I have to pay every date and their transportation (tbf, a lot of them couldn't afford to meet otherwise). A small handful will sometimes pitch in somewhat. Out of the 60ish girls I went on dates with here, only like 4 ever pitched in at all lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 01:37 PM
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Nahhh that's cringe 😫
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 01:26 PM
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What happened to your gf? We keep breaking up and getting back together. She messaged me again today tho. And what do you mean by booking girls 🤔 As in, setting time aside in my schedule to meet them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 01:26 PM
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SEA update: Pretty funny story today. Ended up double booking 2 girls. One said we would meet today, but she flaked and tried to reschedule, and so I booked a second girl at the same time to replace her. But the first 1 ended up un-flaking, because I got upset with her and told her now or never. So, I stalled as long as I could to offset the meetings, but it ended up being back to back. 1st girl left within 5 mins of the other arriving. Tried to take the first girl back to my condo but she wasn'…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 01:20 PM
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Got nothing to do with the US Santa It kind of does. US isn't the fattest country in the world, but it's up there. Most countries the obesity rate is much lower and the average woman is more attractive in part because of that.
/r/seduction29/07/24 10:39 PM
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why are you fixated only on the female ones Because men didn't do that to me and I don't date men. why take out what those individuals did on other unrelated people I'm not "taking it out on them". I'm just acting in my own best self interest. Worrying about and getting the things I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 07:18 AM
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Yes, I'm not talking about that. I'm talking about using me, abusing me, showing me zero respect, insulting me, being cruel etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 02:14 AM
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Because when I'm in the position of weakness, women treat me like shit. So why would I play nice when I'm in the position of power? I'm just doing what's in my own best interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 02:08 AM
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Sounds more like you are just trying to take revenge on random Filipino woman for perceived slights from western woman. Has nothing to do with the nationality. Just the differences in marketplace value. If I could do this in the west I would. Filipinas aren't good to me because they're better or more moral, I just have far more leverage over them. If I was low value they'd treat me like shit the same way American women did. If I was high value in america, women would treat me like gold. So, bein…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 02:02 AM
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Yeah, I've been doing the same. Lost a ton of weight and got some minor surgery too. You always want to have as much leverage as possible. Looksmaxxing is sexual capital, it's like starting a poker game with more chips, doing so in SEA just amplifies the effect even further.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 01:05 AM
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It's not even about "having to". It's about choosing to most be efficient.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 12:53 AM
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I'm not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 12:49 AM
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Going to leak my SEA strategy, This is how I've learned to maximize amount of sex for least amount of investment possible: I tell them that I live here long term and own a condo here but just got back recently from a longterm trip. Why? Owning a condo (which I actually dont but theres no way for them to verify this), especially in the area I do which is one of the most affluent areas in manila, displays value. It also let's them think that I'm staying here long term. Many women wouldn't want to …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 12:35 AM
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SEA update: Just got dragged out of the club by 8 bouncers LOL. I was like an entire 750ml of jack deep. sat at another girl's table. One of them invited me to sit. The bouncer said I can't sit there. I refused to leave. I said "let's see who's stronger". Could've taken 1 or 2 of them. But 8 surrounded me and literally picked me up and threw me outside. Sigh I'm being retarded. But a story to tell atleast
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 08:28 PM
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Block her. Tell her friends it’s over and not to bother you anymore. Advice men give to women all the time about ending a relationship. You like her and admit that you feel like a Chad about how she is obsessed with you despite how you treat her. I like seeing her. Yes I like the feeling the above gives me, but I actually enjoy spending time with her as well. Just leave her now. You’re giving her another month of pain. I don't want to. I want to keep seeing her, and she wants to keep seeing me. …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 08:28 AM
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Anddd this is what happens when women aren’t picky and “mean”. No. This is what happens when women ARE picky and mean. Guys get fed up with it and treat women like shit when they either break through a woman's defenses or find someone without them. If I didn't go through a decade of women treating me like shit, I would've treated them like gold, and I tried to, but fuck that shit now. Now that I'm in the position of power I'm gunna treat them like absolute shit cuz that's what I've been shown wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 08:14 AM
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Because the pain I'm causing her is a byproduct, not my intent. But I'm okay with it if I get what I want. Yes it's fucked up I know though, but I accept the fact that I'm selfish and probably evil. At the end of the day though, it's her choice to continue seeing me. She's an adult who can make her own decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 04:43 AM
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Yeah I agree. At this point I feel I've sold my soul to the devil. But I think in the future I will settle down, I just want to have my fun now though by any means necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 04:41 AM
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That's literally what she said tho lol. More or less, I can't remember the exact phrasing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 04:09 AM
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Lol I understand that, but it's impossible to tell a narrative story that includes romance and sex without it coming off that way. Which sometimes I prefer to do instead of just giving what is more or less a bullet point esque recitation of facts. I would like to write a book one day so I am practicing writing style.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 04:05 AM
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Then just break up. Literally. “Hey I am not ready for something serious right now and I know that’s what you’re looking for. I don’t want to hurt you. I will break up with you so that you can find someone who treats you better”. I have tried to, and she keeps messaging me on other platforms, telling our mutual friends to get in contact with me, or in this case literally coming to my door. At the end of the day she's an adult making the decision to keep seeing me. And I like seeing her so ill al…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 03:43 AM
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I know. But then I realized that this is a reddit post an not a book, so fuck it. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 03:32 AM
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I don't like hurting her. I wish it didn't hurt her. But I'm putting my wants above her feelings. I'm not even trying to brag about this. I just want to give my experiences, because I know a lot of guys are interested in passportbroing, and some people are living vicariously through me. At the end of the day though, I mean yes it does make me feel a bit "Chad". It's basically, "You have enough market leverage to treat women badly and have them still obsessed with you". Whenever women have levera…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 03:27 AM
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No, but I could have if I wanted to for sure. I have a Madonna whore complex tbh. I hardly ever have sex with her, she begs me for it all the time tho and I turn her down. Once I have an emotional attachment with a woman, my lust for them plummets. It shows how much I like her though, because I'm the opposite with other girls. Where if they aren't giving me sex I want nothing to do with them. I fucked the hell out a different girl yesterday tho after she left lol. Would've mentioned it in the po…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 03:10 AM
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SEA update: So me and my GF got back together yesterday. 2 days ago when we broke up she asked me to return a bottle of hair dye that she left in my room. When I went out to return it to her, she had already blocked me and left the area. Yesterday in the morning, I hear a knock at the door. I look through the peephole and it's her. I'm a bit surprised. I open the door. I say "Hi". Then reach my arm out and put my index finger curled under her chin. She slightly moves her head away. "I'm here for…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 02:55 AM
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There is no baby or pregnancy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 08:21 AM
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No she doesn't. She has her own place and a job now. I took a 4 month break from the phillipines and she's been living on her own since then. There are definitely tons of filipinos who would love to date her, but yes most probably would not treat her that well. My treatment is probably better than the vast majority of them would. The main thing I do bad is just cheat on her. Most Filipinos will cheat on her also, as well as do a lot of other bad things to her too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 08:20 AM
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Most guys coming to SEA aren't virgins. Most are probably divorced older guys. But yes, most western dudes who come here are swimming in pussy. If you have any doubts, move your tinder location to manila and see what happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 07:26 AM
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Yes. She's literally sitting next to me again rn lmao. I'll post the update tomorrow.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 07:24 AM
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Yes it definitely is slowly getting oversaturated. But that's why I'm already looking into alternarive cities. The philippines is a big place.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 05:54 AM
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Agree
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 05:52 AM
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Yeah, I hope to find a fulfilling relationship one day, but not for at least another couple years.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 05:51 AM
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there are many passport bros she can switch out easy. For every passport bro in the phillipines there's probably 10,000 Filipinas who want a western guy. The odds are heavily in our favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 05:50 AM
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Yes I am. Enjoying the decline. I found a spot where I can fish the river dry and I intend to do so. I'm only worried about my own self interest now, everyone else can try and fix their own problem. I am now the "fuck you got mine" guy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 05:26 AM
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Not at all. But I've been looksmaxxing a bit. I'd rate myself maybe a 4.5 now. Mostly because I'm fat. If I was fit I'd probably be a 7. But I'm 240 pounds at 5'10.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 05:01 AM
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SEA update: Fucked a new girl 2 days ago. And then another yesterday as well. My girlfriend caught me in the act this time with the second girl. She knows I see other women, but this is the first time she actually saw it. The last few days she had been basically stalking me. Showing up unannounced at places she knows I would be at. She then again showed up unannounced at my apartment and so I told her we can't hang out and wouldn't budge on it. We ended up breaking up. I won't be surprised if sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 04:51 AM
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Because half the time they come to my room and fuck after coffee. So for a 10 dollar risk it's worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 01:34 PM
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SEA update: I got some business cards printed. Has my contact info on it. Started doing cold approaches and I just hand them out after a short interaction. Only have done a few so far but I think it will eventually bear fruit. If not it's still good practice. I started a new routine. I walk to a mall, get 5 miles in doing laps around the floors for excersize, and after that point is when I start approaching. I need X amount before I am allowed to leave. And so I will have to walk X amount longer…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 01:26 PM
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From chatgpt: Charisma is Learnable Core Idea: Charisma is not a magical or innate trait. It's a set of behaviors and mindsets that can be learned and cultivated by anyone. Three Components of Charisma Presence: Definition: Presence means being fully engaged and attentive in the current moment. Importance: When you are truly present, others feel valued and heard, which builds a strong connection. Practices: Mindfulness exercises like deep breathing, focusing on physical sensations, and active li…
/r/seduction15/07/24 08:21 AM
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SEA update: Some short recaps: New guy in the group. 30 year old Chinese American tech bro. Has been in Manila a week and still hasn't gotten laid yet. Cool guy but followed the traditional Asian pathway of life of focusing on education/finances before looking for women, now he's trying to make up for lost time. Says he's not leaving until he gets what he came looking for. Gunna try and help him out. He's average looking and is affable + has some level of confidence, so I think he can get it don…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:25 AM
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I agree, but I also don't enjoy interacting with over 99% of women when sex isn't involved. So the chance of me finding a woman I enjoy interacting, that I'm sexually attracted to, and she is also sexually attracted to me is pretty damn low. It also takes a lot of investment to even find these women. It's not worth the effort for me right now. If I choose to look for a wife I definitely would put in the effort. But when I more or less just want casual sex it's not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 02:44 PM
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SEA update: Starting to get super tired and annoyed by women. Even on easy mode it starts to wear on you. Kicked my GF out of my room today. She is just way too clingy and annoying. I cant stand being with her for more than 1 day. And I keep telling her time after time to back off and she doesn't listen. The girl I fucked 2 days ago, P. Plate probably broke before it fully got off the ground. We've already had sex, but I'm just not finding further investment worth it. Basically she wanted to mee…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 02:00 PM
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I am. I lost almost 100 pounds in the last year. More to come
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 01:47 PM
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SEA update: Ended up smashing the girl from the double date I had yesterday, P. She and her friend went to my friend Js house because J has some kittens he's fostering and one of them was taking one home. I went to go meet P at Js house, and me and P went to go to a café for lunch (the same one ive taken 3 girls to in the last week. She was quite nervous. She said she has never dated a foriegner before, and it's been a long time since she has had a boyfriend. Date consisted of pleasant chat and …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 01:17 PM
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You need to keep improving your game. Yeah definitely. This trip I am treating it like game with training wheels. Last time I was just going for 3-4s who would come straight to my room for sex. I'm sure you'd get atleast some attention if you did these same things in USA Definitely, but not from the girls I want. Value proposition isn't worth it for me. At least in my current form. I rate myself 4/10 now. But I think after I finish looksmaxxing I can be a 7 (I'm still quite fat and still dress k…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 05:20 PM
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I have done it before. But my intent wasn't ever getting a conversation tbh, it was something more sinister.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 05:00 PM
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SEA update: Went on two dates today. My friend was going on a date with another girl, and she brought her friend as a double date for me. 6.5/10. Very attractive body. The friend ended up coming late, but with the 20 mins we had to chat. Things went quite well. Got her whatsapp and texted her after. She seems to be pretty interested. Follow up text: Why did I only have 20 mins to talk? I had a second date line up already. Another 6.5/10. Awesome body as well. A few thousand followers on instagra…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 04:40 PM
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SEA update: Just got back from the club. Newly met with a mutual friend at a language exchange event. A late 20s italian. At the event we started talking to an okay looking but eccentric 35 year old philosophy teacher. Before the event ended, I headed out to a nearby club for ladies night. They soon followed. I still have massive approach anxiety. The teacher pulled me to the side and said "Which girl do you like? Just go up and talk to them. This is Manila. You're a [western] male. You're basic…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 07:18 PM
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Definitely. Any western guy who doesn't believe me can just put their tinder to manila and see themselves get flooded with matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 04:22 PM
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Cool comment bro
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 04:10 PM
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SEA update: 3rd lay in less than one week since arrival. My girlfriend from my previous trip came to meet me today. I actually had 2 other girls scheduled to meet today, but both flaked, as well as another flake last night. Annoying as hell, but that's why I try to schedule 2 meets a day if possible. It was actually kind of emotional, she hasn't seen me in about 4 months. As soon as she got to my room she started crying saying how much she misses me. Fooked her 3 times today. The girl from yeste…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 04:06 PM
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SEA update: Just got my second lay this trip. 6/10 22 year old. As a 4/10 fatty, I'm very happy with this. We went for coffee for a first date then headed back to my room. I feel like my game and confidence has picked up a lot. I have gotten very good at negging/teasing by this point. As soon as we met I could tell there was instant attraction. We walk up to each other and exchange a hug. After about an hour of chatting, she tells me that her "social battery" is getting low. So I say, "it's okay…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 03:31 PM
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Yeah definitely working on that. Already lost 90 pounds this year
/r/seduction28/06/24 05:05 AM
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SEA update: Just did some night game at a club with a friend in manila. Ladies night and we bought a table. (Only cost like 80 bucks split both ways and came with 750ml of jack, 10 cokes, 6 beers and a small amount of food). Approached about 15-20 women. Mostly a younger crowd, about 18-22, nearly all filipinos. My friend was pushing me to approach, and so I started when everyone was still stone cold sober. My first around 10 approaches went terrible. I was approaching girls in the 5-8 range the…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 09:14 PM
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SEA update: Well I just had an eventful first day back in manila. Firstly, I decided to break up with my GF today. The reason being is because I cheat on her and she just accepts it. Honestly it's really upsetting. There's plenty of guys who would treat her right, yet she decides to still want to be with me. It's better for her anyways. She deserves someone better. Secondly. Fucked a girl today. Nothing exceptional or noteworthy other than the fact that it's been 2 months since the last time I h…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 05:11 PM
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SEA update: On my way to incheon international Airport back to Manila. Already have 4 or 5 girls in the pipeline so it should be an eventful first week as always. After this trip I don't see myself coming back for another several months, also, manila keeps getting more and more saturated with western guys, so I'm definitely going to take full advantage of this trip before the river runs dry. I at least want to fuck 20 girls a month. I do want to work on my game though, cold approaching and dates…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 02:23 AM
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SEA update: On my way to incheon international Airport back to Manila. Already have 4 or 5 girls in the pipeline so it should be an eventful first week as always. After this trip I don't see myself coming back for another several months, also, manila keeps getting more and more saturated with western guys, so I'm definitely going to take full advantage of this trip. I at least want to fuck 20 girls a month. I tried
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 02:07 AM
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4 more days until I'm back in Manila. Have been doing a good amount of effort setting up leads for arrival. Should be a good first week, estimating 3 or 4 lays or more, and I will continue to hit the ground running as well. I am now starting to understand women's frustrations with many men only wanting them for sex, because I have a similar experience with many women just wanting me for money/ulterior motives. Here are some direct comparisons I'm sure many women can relate to. A guy's first mess…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 08:34 AM
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From the maxing community no. From women. Yes. At least when you're a nonchad, but even then they push for a LTR often
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:23 PM
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I'm about 30% through my self improvement journey. I am just wondering like. Why go through all of this trouble when the expectation is, after "maxxing" yourself to just go and submit to a woman? "You must go through all of this trouble and be someone you don't want to be to have the sex and relationship success you want". Why would I do that? Being a player makes for more sense. It's like a fuck you to the system. If you gain the power to do what you want and fuck and date like you want. Why su…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 01:33 PM
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I wouldn't. That's why I don't ever fully commit to them, and just use them. The longer they're with me, the more useful I found them to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 11:33 AM
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Yes, there's less of a market demand for risk taking. And some guy on the internet yelling about the successes of cold approaches ain't gonna move that needle even a smidge. My goal isn't to convince guys to do it. They can come to their own conclusions. The less guys who do it is actually better for the ones who are doing it. I'm only discussing if it's viable to do. Poor analogy. Failure can ruin you financially, even make you homeless. Unless you want to admit that hitting on women can destro…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:43 AM
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Making a business is hard, most people who try, fail, yet making a business can still be viable of course. Even in economic downturns. Most guys have stopped cold approaching. That doesn't mean it's not successful for some who keep trying. Even if it's harder to pull off and theres more consequences. People in general are just less risk taking and socially aware in general, so it's not only due to market factors but also the crop of people trying. Whether it's worth it to try is up to the indivi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:22 AM
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I agree most dudes aren't doing it anymore. That doesn't mean it's not a viable strategy though. It's hard of course, and there's more consequences for it now, but that doesn't make it unviable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:58 AM
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Yes, that was my intent. Sitting next to her while maintaining an appropriate and socially acceptable amount of space inbetween. Lol. I feel like I already autistically comb over everything I say on here so much, but I guess I'm not going far enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:18 AM
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Correct. But trying of course gives you a greater chance of being successful than not trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 12:18 AM
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Hmm interesting. The numbers in general are very low not even considering the prospect of cold approaching though. So if you are having little to no matches on online dating, don't have a current social circle/one that isnt bearing any fruit, and don't want to/are unsuccessful in nightlife, it still might be worth pursuing as a side endeavor. A .5% success rate means approach 200 women which at a rate of 5 approaches a day would take 40 days. But of course, the chance is random and you could get…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 12:12 AM
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17% are lesbians? Or LGBT? Which would include bi which the biggest representative of LGBT in women and of bi "mostly heterosexual" would be the dominjnant category. Not trying to be too pedantic though, I think the numbers are more or less correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 12:07 AM
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Appreciate the input.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 11:42 PM
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Some people believe that. And even if it does make you question your self worth, what's wrong with that? You can use that questioning to try and help address your flaws, or question about where the sense of insecurity is coming from and if it's right to feel that way at all. Questioning your self worth can lead to growth and improvement for some people, and despair for others. Also, you will face rejection in any sphere you choose to try and get women in.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 11:34 PM
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It only take a few minutes or seconds to approach women. Why not? It's low risk, low time commitment and potential for high reward. Let's say it's a Tuesday afternoon, you have no new matches on your dating apps, all of the women in your social circle are taken or not interested in dating you, why not spend a few mins chatting up some girl in your proximity?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 11:17 PM
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You don’t really get to know a girl before going on a date when you’re using your tactics Why not? The conversation doesn't need to stop after the first in person interaction either. Texting exists too. You can look at each other's social media's etc. You don't have to ask for a date while in the approach itself either.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 10:45 PM
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You know it's possible to cold approach, and also warm approach, use dating apps, do nightlife etc all at the same time right?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 10:40 PM
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When you approach a girl and she is open to conversation this is where you are able to talk to them and ask them the things they are into, about their life etc and if she accepts a date and actually shows up to it, it's likely she saw some baseline compatibility there in order to accept and go on the date.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 10:37 PM
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Okay, replace above scenario with whatever scenario you would find to be a more appropriate approach. But also, this scenario is like a public bench, where if there was no conversation proceeding the sit down, no one would think it was weird to occupy the seat.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 10:34 PM
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I would probably disagree with the conversion rate on that. But it depends on your tolerance for risk, and tolerance for time/energy commitment. If you approached 3 women a day (which can take as little as a few minutes to do) and because of this within a year you land an amazing girlfriend, then I think that would be worth it, and that is even with the stated conversion rate which I would disagree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 10:32 PM
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Yeah, it definitely wouldn't be my main focus in approaching. More like a side endeavor. Approaching 1 to 5 women a day would definitely start to bear fruit over a long enough period even if there was only a 1% success rate. It's not much of a time commitment either.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 10:27 PM
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Yeah, around that was what my thoughts were as well. What would you think of single women specifically?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 10:24 PM
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So you think 0% of average women in year 2024 have went out with an average man who approached her in public? Or is it more like 1% .1% etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 10:22 PM
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The odds obviously aren't very good, but even a 1% chance of success (or less) could be worth it. Approaching in public doesn't bar your from approaching in other places either of course. There's not much risk in trying to respectfully engage in a short conversation in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 10:20 PM
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So there has never been a woman who was approached by an average man, enjoyed it, and then went on a date with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 10:15 PM
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If you were forced to pick a number what would you guess? A minority can be 49% or less than 1%
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 10:14 PM
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Why not consider plastic surgery? But yes, ppl have genetic ceilings that will cap them at a certain threshold. After that, you need to work on other things, like money and status. Looks are the most important thing, but you can only play the hand you were dealt the best possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 04:58 AM
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Q4A: would you rather find out that you were a mistake, and that your parents heavily considered aborting you Or You were a result of two people who hardly knew each other by the time a breeding kink went way too far way too fast. Ie, your mom was pregnant within 1 month of meeting your dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 01:13 AM
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Dmed u
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 11:48 PM
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Late 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 10:44 PM
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Seoul update: So I went through with getting plastic surgery yesterday. Blepharoplasty + ptosis correction + sub brow lift. Total cost after tax refund, about 4000 dollars including everything except 35 dollars for medication. I went to about 6 different clinics before deciding on this one. I picked this one because doctor seemed very competent (not that the others werent), and he was insistent on pursuing the minimum amount of procedures to obtain the desired look (some other ones would try to …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 10:10 PM
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Reasonable standards: what your market value can "afford" when accounting for the type of relationship you're looking for. Unreasonable standards: anything outside of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 12:48 PM
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Agree. Seoul is mostly just Tokyo with a different coat of paint.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 07:20 PM
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Seoul update: Just did some solo nightlife. Heard about some bar in hongdae that at lot of foreigners go to. "Mike's cabin". I guess foriegner now means "Indian male" because that's 90% of the people who were there. Still had a decent time dancing. Some gay korean guy was hitting on me. He told me I could still have success with the few women at this bar due to being one of the few non Indians there. He then suggested I go to itaewan because "here is mostly students so it will be hard to get you…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 06:58 PM
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Do you want a gf or to be incel? Your choice
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 04:22 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 04:15 PM
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I think part of it is due to a filtering mechanism. Like if the girl says "we aren't having sex tonight" some guys would drop her for it, because all they want from her is sex, and if she's looking for something long term, this would be a good thing for her. Also plausabile deniablility. Like if you come over and she's not quite feeling it and you try to initiate sex, she can be like "I told you that we weren't going to have sex". There's also the conflict between the logical and primal brain. I…
/r/seduction31/05/24 03:45 AM
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Yeah, but I know I need to improve before I get to that point, so this is in the meantime.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 03:15 AM
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Well, I haven't used traditional social media outside of sock puppet accounts for about the last 7 years. Decided I have been massively handicapping myself in the dating world by not doing so. So as of last night I am starting a Facebook and insta from scratch again. I know that in many places in the west and especially among younger people, Facebook isn't used as much, but in preparation for my upcoming trip to manila, while I lay sexless in seoul, I've started infiltrating. In the Philippines …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 02:34 AM
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Depends where you're at, but yeah. The Hotspots are getting more and more competitive, but it's still not too hard. Last time I was in manila (october-february) I fucked dozens of women and im a 3/10 fatty. Heading back in late June, already putting in some minimum groundwork online, and still seems extremely viable. The city is huge, tons of girls are turning 18 every day. Also, the vast majority of Filipinas aren't even on the apps. If you wanna have true success start living there long term a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 02:26 PM
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Ladyboys no, 5s yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 01:49 PM
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Passport bro. Apps still work amazing in the phillipines
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 01:44 PM
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Forehead lift and then stuff to fix my droopy eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 03:21 AM
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When your mate value cannot afford a natural, that’s when you opt for a plastic. How would you know they were plastic? Ofc there's situations where you could, but how would you know if you didn't meet someone until college for example, or even later than that. Your bone structure will look very different once you lose weight. I'm not changing anything about my bones or anything with fat. Getting my eyes done.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 05:24 PM
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Yes I am losing weight, I don't see why I can't get plastic surgery and lose weight at the same time tho. I'm not getting anything done related to weight. Ofc natural is superior anywhere, but you can get surgeries that appear to be natural and then no one would know the difference. You only notice the bad surgeries (or the ones people get to intentionally appear unnatural).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:56 PM
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Seoul update: As I'm headed to my consultation for plastic surgery in gangnam, wearing a bleach stained oversized graphic tee, in basketball shorts and worn out walking shoes, I started thinking about how I really don't have any legitimacy in any complaints about not having the success with women that id like. I've done way better than I really have ought to. I read a reddit comment before of a western man who came here to korea to teach English. He said girls as young as 11 are already extremel…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 02:47 PM
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Yeah it's true. I think it's still effective to join these unvetted sausage fests as a first step. Just think it should be viewed as only the first step ofc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 04:20 PM
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True, social media is definitely something not to leave out, which I'm starting to realize more now. Plus it helps even IRL, as a lot of girls ask for socials as another way to vet.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 03:35 PM
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Frfr
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 03:26 PM
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This is the progression I've went thru with trying to dabble into IRL game, (though I know I'm far from the first to come to this conclusion and conceptually it has made sense to me for a long time, this is more just a reaffirmation of beliefs) My starting point was the realization that online is hypercompetitive and oversaturated. Thus the next natural evolution would be trying to go offline. Going offline I've noticed that any place that an unvetted male has access to is quite similar. Oversat…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 03:15 PM
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SEA update: Welp. Left vietnam. Was into some shady shit there, did some things I regret and hightailed it out of there early on the next flight to Seoul. In retrospect I probably would've been okay if I stayed but I didn't want to take any chances. Still coming down from it and It still feels surreal. Slept maybe 5 hours in the last 40. Anyways, eating some grilled pork belly here and it's awesome. Not sure what I'll get up to here, main reason I came here is cuz I wanted to get some minor plas…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 12:31 PM
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It's 104 degrees out and humid. Around you is jungle so thick the view 10 meters infront of you any direction is obscured. You and the 9 other men in your platoon have been trudging through the thicket for the last few hours. Aside from your camp being hit with mortars every night, the last 10 days have been relatively uneventful. You have no immediate reason to believe today will be any different, though in the back of your mind you know that could change at any moment. The heat is starting to …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 01:23 PM
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Losing a shit ton of weight. Also gunna get some minor plastic surgery in korea soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 04:30 PM
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Nothing just was checking out the country and trying to scope out the dating scene tol to see if it's worth coming back here on the future and setting down roots (I think potentially it is). Been traveling the last few years and in the back of my mind I am looking at places to settle down longterm.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 04:29 PM
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SEA update: K wow just had an amazing date with a 7/10 vietnamese porcelain skinned beauty. 25 year old young professional with a masters degree from a European university. Dinner and then ice-cream. Actually felt surreal that it even happened. It also felt like a meeting between equals instead of me trying to win her over. Just felt like two people trying to see if we were compatible. It felt totally reciprocal and that we were both putting in effort. Even before we met just with texting. Felt …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 03:51 PM
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The rest of the internet is all bots isn't it. This is it huh. The west is over. The world is over
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:52 PM
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Truth lol. Of course there's the 60 year old fat bald ugly sexpats who are settling down with 35 year old frumpy single moms. But if you're a guy who's under 40 and okay looking, the world is your oyster there.
/r/seduction09/05/24 02:58 AM
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No, of course not. But for many people it is a huge overall improvement in their enjoyment of life. (And for many other people it's not). The same way there's some people who really enjoy being teachers, and other people who really enjoy being police officers. (And people who hate the idea of being either or both)
/r/seduction09/05/24 02:48 AM
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And there's millionaires who commit suicide. No matter what u do or are some people will still be unhappy.
/r/seduction08/05/24 05:39 PM
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A man regardless of race, but id feel safest with an Asian man ofc lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 05:08 PM
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When I asked a vietnamese woman if she would rather be in the woods with a bear or a random man. https://www.reddit.com/u/MalandiBastos/s/DlTYft0ZVA
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 04:59 PM
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Number 1 for probably 95% of women aged 18-30. Number 2 for the other 5% of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 05:21 AM
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I would definitely like to at some point, though I feel (and hope) the last couple years has just been the beginning of my interesting experiences. In 10 more years I think I'll have a LOT more to talk about in a book.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 01:37 PM
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SEA update: NSFW? I just tried a dish here in vietnam that is extremely controversial, known as "thịt cầy". Aka dog meat. I walked to the restaurant and a young waitress looked at me like I was lost. She spoke almost no English, and I speak no vietnamese. I simply pointed at myself and then to the table. Indicating I wanted to sit down. She said to me "Meat.... dog" "meat. Dog?" I pulled out my translator. "Yes, I came here because I wanted to eat dog meat. Do you sell it?" She shook her head ye…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 12:28 PM
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Probably have binge eating disorder, but undiagnosed. And yeah, overeating due to depression. But I'm working hard to get past that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 03:24 PM
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If I'm playing a board game against other people, and I end up losing despite putting in my best effort, and I get frustrated because of it. I wouldn't say that I felt entitled to winning, or that I "should have won". Getting frustrated doesn't mean either of those things, it just sucks when you put in your best effort and still lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 03:22 PM
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Cuz I eat more calories than I expend. But, I've lost over 70 pounds in the last 10 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 03:16 PM
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SEA update: Been here in Saigon for about 10 days now. Things have been going pretty decent. It's now on my list of cities I'd consider living long term. The quality of life isn't the greatest, but it's good enough for me, and the dating scene seems pretty promising if you're looking for something long term. I get a decent amount of attention here from women, the quantity of women is much lower than in the philippines, but the quality is far better. Also women are a lot more relationship focused…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 03:13 PM
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It's not advertised as such, it's in a hidden, hard to find place too. I think most people would get I'm a lot of trouble for doing it, but it's like a lot of the 3rd world, where if you have money you get a lot of leeway in the things you're allowed to do, and in some places, especially if you're a foriegner.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 03:24 AM
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Yeah definitely. Not only potential legal trouble but those bars are often owned by seedy people too. I def won't be going to that street anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 04:51 PM
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SEA update: Just went on a nice date with a vietnamese woman today. We went out to eat, and had a lot of pleasant conversation. Ill definitely continue to pursue dating her for the time being. Light skinned, well dressed, very petite, is competent in English, 22 years old. Came to Saigon from a much smaller city to come work as a nanny. We went to a vietnamese restaurant and I allowed her to pick out a bunch of dishes at her reccomendation so I could get a taste of the local cuisine. Now on to l…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 03:59 PM
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Makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 05:27 PM
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It's around similar gdp per capita and average wages, but extreme poverty is lower. At least from the stats I've seen
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 05:07 PM
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I haven't been to China or Singapore yet. But yeah I get an absurd amount of attention in the phillipines. Didn't get any in Japan. Very little in Taiwan. I would say phillipines is very lax when it comes to sex tho. Never seen anywhere else like it, even compared to similarly poor Asian countries (which vietnam is).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 03:09 PM
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I highly doubt that a woman you can hardly communicate with is better for dating You realize there's english speakers in Asia too right? We already got that out of the way in regards to sex work. Western prostitutes do the same shit they do if you pay them enough. The girls are more attractive on average, more willing to please, and yes, cost much less. So yes it's overall a much better experience in every regard. "They're only better in every single way that matters"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 02:43 PM
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No. They're better for dating in general AND for sex work too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 02:33 PM
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I'm living abroad. My last flight was from Thailand Thailand here. Which was like, less than 100 dollars. If I was just taking a short vacation you would be correct though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 02:26 PM
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If I was just taking a short vacation you would be right, but I'm living abroad. I'd have to pay living expenses wherever I lived, and apples to apples it's much cheaper abroad.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 02:24 PM
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It's not the same thing at all. A like to like comparison would be comparing it to an American strip club in a major city. Ofc you can get girls here for free, and apples to apples, regular dating here is much cheaper too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 02:22 PM
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😁
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 02:00 PM
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I don't see a problem with sometimes engaging in sex work. That doesn't mean I'm a loser or broke. If youre going to engage in sex work, better to go where you get more value for your dollar. That's just smart financial sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 01:55 PM
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No. I travel in general to see and experience different cultures, food, tourism experience etc. Dating as well, and sometimes sex work yes. My money goes much further in the 3rd world than in the west, and that's just generally speaking. More bang for your buck. Literally and figuratively too 😁. I'm maximizing my spending power in all regards. But I also travel in the 1st world as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 01:53 PM
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Not sure where ur getting the "thousands of dollars today" thing from.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 01:43 PM
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SEA update: Arrived in ho chi minh city a few days ago. Have mixed feelings so far. Definitely a huge downgrade in terms of nightlife here. Though I was surprised to see the infrastructure being in a much better condition than I anticipated. Theres also not a whole lot to do as far as tourism goes either. In terms of regular dating, I definitely have been getting a lot more attention from more attractive women than in thailand, though it's not so easy to convert the matches into IRL. Seems as th…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 01:26 PM
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SEA update: Went out two days ago on a guided nightlife tour. Basically a Thai woman babysitted international travelers while we got drunk and high and escorted us to 5 bars/clubs. Despite framing it that way, it was really fun. I would definitely reccomend it for ppl new in a city, would be a good way to meet new ppl you could hang out with on your trip If you vibe. Was very surprised on the level of diversity of the group. 3 Americans myself included two of them black, 2 Koreans, 3 aussies, 3 …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 01:47 PM
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I heard in Singapore it's quite common for people to hire low paid immigrant workers to be house help (although technically it's southeast Asia by region, it's very atypical as an SEA country. It's quite common in SEA to have house help as labor is so cheap, even among the middle class). may be similar in other Asian regions.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 01:23 PM
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You should try a sugarbaby instead. For me, I don't like traditional prostitutes because it's extremely transactional. With sugarbabies at least, you can often suspend disbelief, and in some cases the girls may be authentically attracted to you to an extent. (Which can also be true with a traditional prostitute but it's far less believable and likely). For me, I don't really enjoy transactional sex, because I actually much more want to have sex due to the validation aspect of it, than the physic…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 04:27 PM
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Observations I've made as a passport bro/world traveler over the last 3ish years. Feel free to disagree. I feel like a lot of Americans, especially older people and those who haven't really traveled, view of the world is pretty outdated. America's stranglehold on the rest of the world is loosening, and we more and more entering a multi-polar world, and the 3rd world will continue to grab a greater and greater share of the pie as time goes on. Some parts of the 3rd world are rapidly modernizing a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 01:02 PM
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Nice. That's hopeful
/r/seduction15/04/24 12:56 PM
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SEA update: Well it's almost 6am. Just had the wildest night. Went to celebrate Songkran ( Thai new year) at Khaosan Road in bangkok (party street a lot of tourists/backpackers go). To start off the night, at about 7pm, I went and bought a waterproof pouch to put my wallet/electronics in after the Taxi dropped me off about 20 mins away from my destination due to not being able to go any further cuz the streets were packed. Headed down to Khaosan road, and on the way tons of people were having wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 11:48 PM
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Yeah. Mainly the same, though from talking to people who have been going there for a while and still seem to go now, the main changes have been: Prices of girls going up, quality of girls going down, level of seediness actually going down too in an attempt to attract more tourists.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 10:35 AM
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SEA update: Finally home from Pattaya after a week. Mostly had a good time though I'm unsure if I will come back. Spent the whole time partying hard, and it finally caught up to me. Felt so sick on the last day because of the heat, partying and all the walking I did. 90% of fluids I drank that week was beer and I was high on weed the entire time. Quite interesting on soi6 on Thursday due to people starting to celebrate "Songkran". Thai new year. Part of the celebration is spraying people with wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 10:14 AM
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Can you explain some of the behaviors she did that were annoying to you? Just curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 05:10 AM
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I tasted one. It hardly has any alchohol at all, if any. They are mostly just drinking some kind of mixer
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 12:35 AM
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Its the girls job to sell u these drinks. Basically it works as a way to charge ppl to talk to a girl for a certain amount of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 09:56 PM
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Nothing outside of the bill, which was about 22 dollars for 3 beers for me and 3 lady drinks for her. She wouldve probably been fine with only 1 or 2 even. Like every time she would keep her drink at least 1/3 full. I would buy her one about every 45 minutes still tho. A lot of the girls will drink their whole drink in 10 mins and want another. She was very respectful.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 09:10 PM
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I didn't with her. I started talking to her because she looked younger than her age, but I didn't want to anymore because she's older than me. It just would feel weird, and if you're paying you can be very picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 09:07 PM
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But you took the time to comment anyways. Lol. (And ull probably take the time to respond to this too 🤪)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 08:49 PM
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No. This is all from memory.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 08:41 PM
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She said all of the girls were above 18 and I did ask her that, I didn't specify that in the OP tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 08:38 PM
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Bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 08:34 PM
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Informal interview I did with a thai bar girl, who works on soi 6 in Pattaya. Disclamer for your viewing pleasure and to reduce length, some of this will be out of order from how it actually occured in real life, some question and answers are a combination of multiple questions and answers from real life, some q&a are truncated, and some are my best attempts to divine what she was saying, as there was some break down in communication due to translation error(entire thing was done with Google tra…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 08:25 PM
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NSFW SEA update: Been in Pattaya since Friday. This city is very focused around paid sex so that's what I will be discussing. Friday night I arrived and just walked around all the night life areas just to scope it out. Yesterday I went to soi6 again. Famous/infamous road in pattaya filled with lady bars. Basically, a bunch of girls sit around at a bar and you can buy them drinks + feel them up then pay to have sex with them. Either in a back room in the bar or take them home with you. I ended up…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 08:44 PM
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Thailand is the land of the lotus eaters
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 09:18 PM
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I would say 6th grade. It seems like a nice arbitrary line. Starting middleschool.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 05:37 PM
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SEA update: Been in bangkok now since Feb 23. Will be staying until April 23, and then I will be heading to ho chi minh city vietnam next. My main focus has been training muay thai since I got here. The heat here makes it so unbearable tho. 95 degrees and humid with no AC in my gym. I'm drenched in sweat in the first 5 mins of workout and drink about a gallon of water in an hour. Have to say, definitely an awesome experience tho. If youre into muay thai I'd definitely recommend making a trip to …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 04:37 PM
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“Ewe gross leave me alone,” does that actually happen? That typically doesn't happen, though it does sometimes. Most times it's not something they explicitly said, but the tone, subtext and body language they are using. Two women can say the words "sorry I'm not interested" But one might be coming off, when including body language and tone as saying "You seem nice but you're just not my type/I'm not looking for a relationship right now" Vs One coming off when including tone/body language as "Of …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 10:57 AM
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Because sex and female attention not equally distributed. It's like when you hear about the 100 person representative village of the world. Where if theres 100 dollars, the top 10 people have like 90 of them. (Not saying the SMP is that stark, just saying it's not equally distributed).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 03:25 PM
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SEA update. Bangkok is on steroids With the use of steroids, a body builder is able to dramatically and rapidly increase the size and rate of gain of muscle mass. With this though, comes a much higher risk of injury, as the durability of tendons, ligaments and joints do not keep pace with the gain of strength and mass. My first impression of bangkok is to be shocked at level of development present in some areas. I think a lot of western people's mental image of bangkok is probably a few decades …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 02:28 PM
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OK cool. It's just irrelevant
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 01:16 PM
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There's ppl who called me fat, and ppl who don't agree with me treating women bad. Why should I care?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 01:14 PM
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A huge chunk of the ppl on that sub aren't passportbros. Theyre ppl who come to the sub just to shit on passportbros
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 01:12 PM
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There's artificial rules in the sub trying to make the movement only appear wholesome. They call my ex GF a sugarbaby with no proof, and ppl mad I had a hot gf despite being fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 12:59 PM
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Nothing. I get disabled Veteran pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 12:30 PM
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SEA update: Piss drunk on my way to the airport. Leaving manila for Bangkok. Manila really has become my second home. I have a lot of close friends here now. Rough travel plans for the foreseeable future: Thailand for 3-5 months. Cambodia for 1 month. Vietnam for 1-3 months. South Korea for one month. India for 1 month. Uzbekistan/Kazakstan/Georgia for one month each, Unsure if I'll go to any or all of these ones though, Turkey for 1 month. Then I'm going to head to Europe and live there for a w…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 12:25 PM
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I admit the cheating is wrong, for sure. I think she should have broken up with me for it, but she decided to stay in a relationship with me and even move in with me so that's her choice. I disagree the food thing is abusive. I don't think I should have to give into her demands on everything. I took her to the spa because she wanted to, paid for it, and also paid for the meal. It's extremely spoiled for her to think she gets to dictate 100% of what we do, especially when it's my money. She was t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 04:32 PM
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I didn't know this until after we were already 90% of the way thru the argument. So yes, I wanted her to come to the restaurant regardless of if it had rice or not. The point being she should be willing to compromise with me and eat where I want since I'm not only taking her to the spa because she wanted to, but also am paying for the meal too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 04:23 PM
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I am nice and good to her 99% of the time. Yes I have cheated on her multiple times tho. But not since she moved in
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 04:08 PM
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That I take care of all of our living expenses, am paying for the meal itself, and am taking us to the spa because she suggested it. So if I want to go to a pizza place for lunch, then that's where we are going.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 04:06 PM
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That's where I was before I came here. I love CDMX, but it's getting quite expensive these days,
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 03:53 PM
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SEA update: Been in manila now for 5 months this trip. Leaving for Bangkok for a few months in a few weeks. In the last month I've been having my girlfriend live with me. Has been a lot of ups and downs. Mostly ups, but she can be extremely annoying, defiant, and clingy at times but I guess that comes with the territory of dating a 19 year old. This is the first time I've had a partner live with me, and it has made me realize I'm not ready for it, and maybe never will be. Things were a lot bette…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 03:42 PM
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Loool OK ma'am believe what u wanna believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 10:57 PM
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I have been here for more than a month. I arrived October 5. I'm not pretending anything lol. Why don't u think a girl can buy a silly Keychain for their bf? Also, examples of the term being used without the connotation you're forcing on it: https://www.google.com/amp/s/observer.com/2016/11/dear-stranger-should-i-break-up-with-my-live-in-girlfriend/amp/ https://legalbeagle.com/8276727-legal-rights-live-girlfriend.html https://youtu.be/Sy3b20FuKK0?si=Rs7xncaIb_MPnF1T
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 10:50 PM
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Such as?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 10:32 PM
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Nah she's not paid
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 01:16 PM
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You’re a disabled vet who permanently lives outside of the US? Yes, why not? (I mean I haven't decided yet to live abroad permanently, but so far it is long term) What visa even allows you to do that? Believe it or not, the philippines tourist visa. It's very lax. You can stay for up to 3 years if you keep extending it every few months then at the 3 year mark you just need to leave the country for one day and you get another 3 years and so on. Wth even is a “live in gf” lol. A girlfriend that li…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 11:14 AM
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Exactly how I just explained it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 10:46 AM
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Disabled Veteran, right now I get 3877USD a month tax free and a yearly increase tied to inflation. I live in the Philippines as an American and with that amount I'm able to live very very comfortably here. I get close to the amount which is classified as rich for a filipino household of 5. A lot of doctors here don't even clear 1k a month. If I was going to start a family I'd move to davao city, I could rent a 4+ bedroom house in a gated community, have a live in housekeeper a stay at home wife…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 02:18 AM
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She is very submissive, nuturing, caring, but also very clingy and hyperactive at times. Shes 18 and she has a lot of interests similar to a western girl her age. Taylor swift, tiktok, cute stuff, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 04:26 AM
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Yeah, ive thought about it from that angle. But even looking at it through a cold calculus it would still be worth it to me. Her living with me = consistent sex supply + will actually save me a lot of money, cuz she will cook and clean for me, because I would otherwise eat out for almost every meal and have a maid, also outside of the phillipines I typically have a sugarbaby, which adds up to a lot. In the phillipines its not hard for me to get sex legit, but shes on the upper end of attractiven…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 01:03 AM
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Whatever the point of getting a non foriegn girlfriend is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 12:56 AM
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SEA update. Just sent my gf home after a long weekend together. She finally found out that I was cheating. Another girl who stayed over left her used period pad under the bed (yuck af) and my gf found it when cleaning. No way to explain that away so I was just honest with her. She was very sad at first, and the next day or two she was being quite distant at times and crying a lot. At one point I basically told her, either we move on or we should just end things and that she should leave. She dec…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 12:53 AM
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I want obedience in a partner because im attracted to that dynamic and the woman who would agree to be in that dynamic with me would also be attracted to it. If a woman says she wants a dominant man who leads the relationship no one is really gunna bat an eye at that What uniquely qualifies a man to be the authority? I dont believe that men are inherently uniquely qualified to be the authority in a relationship. I also dont believe it inherently has to do with qualification either. Simply I want…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 03:16 AM
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🤩
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 05:08 AM
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Different strokes for different folks but I know theres likeminded guys here so I wanted to give my personal experiences on something commonly talked about in this place, passport broing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 04:40 AM
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Tl;dr: cooming these filipinas, mang
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 04:20 AM
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SEA update: Just sent my main bih home after another weekend together ( its sunday morning here). On friday night me and 4 other western male friends are sitting in my room as another filipina is cooking me dinner. After im done eating I send her home and have my main bih on my way. To my friends, this is completely normal and acceptable to do, they, like I, see zero problem with leading girls on and cheating on them. I took a picture of us and sent it to some of my american friends who think it…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 03:25 AM
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Pedantics. Main point being you can approach 100 women, even by your metrics, in a relatively short amount of time. Any other point is just splitting hairs.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 07:41 AM
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You could though. If you spend 5 minutes talking to each of the 100 women that works out 100 approaches taking a bit more than 8 hours. Add some cool off time in between and some time for longer convos say 12 hours. Doable in a day, not that many people would want to. Also, many approaches will be far less than 5 minutes as its not uncommon for women to break contact within a few seconds or not engage at all when approached, so ive probably even overestimated the amount of time it would take. An…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 04:39 AM
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That means if you approach 100 women you can fuck 2-5 of them. You could approach 100 women in one day if you wanted to. Aka thats really good odds.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:47 AM
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Yes. I was told all the time in response to women's behavior "Well, they have all these options, thats just how things are, life isnt fair, if you could do the same you would". Well, now I can and I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 01:30 PM
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Yeah I never claimed to be a good guy. I know that if these women were americans theyd treat me terribly like american women do, so I have no problem with treating then terribly when the shoe is on the other foot.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 01:04 PM
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The fat part I am working on, I already lost 50 pounds in the last 4 months. I want to live in a place where I can have a high standard of living, and have the dating life I want with ease. If thats in the 3rd world, so be it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 01:51 AM
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Giving up would be staying at home and continuing to not have the results you want. Getting the results you want, which is what im currently doing, is called success.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 01:44 AM
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Just the idea of thinking about a guy in a sexual context when a woman isnt attracted to them is enough to give women the ick. Adult women are choosing to have sex with me, thats not exploitation, thats consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 01:30 AM
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SEA update: Up to 11 lays now in 5 weeks. Starting to actually get tired from it. I think im going to start putting more attention to other thing like self improvement, have gotten pretty into boxing in the last few months. Compared to the west, its far easier to smash here, but dealing with women is still quite annoying and energy/time consuming. The BS to Sex ratio is just much better to where its worth putting up with some BS, but after youve proven to yourself you can be a player, the appeal…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 01:03 AM
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I just had heard some things about the phillipines and was traveling around the world. I was in Romania at the time and was trying to figure out my next location. I put my profile to manila phillipines and got like 100 likes in one day so I decided that would be my next stop. Was only planning on staying for a month or two but ended up staying for 5 months. Went to a few other countries between then and now and just decided to come back to manila on a whim because I saw a good ticket price. Now …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 07:18 AM
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It really hasnt been that much work at all for me. The country I am in now, Philippines, has many similarities to the US, and everyone speaks english. I was never really that close to most of my family, so I dont struggle with that either. Though im quite atypical so I can see the point, even removing the financial barrier, most people would have a lot of trouble adapting to this, and most people even if they had the ability dont have the will or courage to just up and on the other side of the w…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 03:27 AM
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SEA update: Been back in manila for a month as of yesterday. Had sex with 9 women in that time. Could have been a few more but I canceled on a few, and because my main girl comes over on the weekend, which is prime time for meeting new women, as most people here work long hours on the weeks. As I write this she is in the kitchen right now sweeping in a night gown I just got her yesterday. (Pink, very cute, and only cost 4 dollars). She has been over the last 72 hours. Things have overall been go…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 11:04 PM
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Lies lol, they would date a western guy regardless of money because its a status symbol in itself. Not to mention we are way taller than the local men too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 02:25 AM
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"How dare western men date consenting foriegn adult women!1!1" Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 02:15 AM
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I know 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 01:39 AM
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Imagine there was a country Called Chadistan. And in this country every dude was super rich, handsome, tall, had perfect game. Should an American guy feel bad that if he went to Chadistan, theres a very high chance his woman would leave him for a Chadistani? Of course not.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 01:38 AM
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Cuz I know shes a genuinely good girl. I automatically assume the worst of women until proven otherwise, and at this point she has definitely proven otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 01:35 AM
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Lmaoooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 01:31 AM
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She genuinely enjoys it so I dont really care about the why.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 01:29 AM
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Reminds me of when I went on this historical tour here. The guide was talking about MacArthur's "I shall return". And then said "He didnt return because he truly wanted to liberate the phillipines, but because he wanted to see his filipina mistresses". Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 01:29 AM
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Not as of yet. Id consider it though. At the least ill be here longterm.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 01:27 AM
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Lol. She actually loves spending time with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 01:26 AM
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SEA update: Just sent my main girl home after spending the last 48 hours with her. Things have been going quite well. Yesterday we were out all day. Started with a coffee date, then to the spa, a little bit of shopping, then to a nice date at a spanish resturant. Spas here are quite cheap. An hour long massage for one person was only 11 dollars. I got a massage for both, a facial for both, and mani + pedi + polish for her, and including tip it only came out to 60 bucks total. Side note, the blac…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 01:17 AM
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Gotcha. Yeah can see how that rush is gonna be greater with a potentially virginal college girl, than with a prostitute (which 1500 could buy a lot of there). Correct 😀 Are you sterile or no? No. I wouldnt mind getting an attractive filipina pregnant. Funny thing is v few of them use birth control, and a lot are willing to go raw
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 08:52 AM
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Because I still enjoy the physical feeling from the act of sex as well as the feeling of validation and power.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 08:42 AM
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So if you go to college you can be 30 and have a degree, or you can choose not to go to colllege and be 30 still but without a degree. Im not saying it makes sense for everyone to go to college, but youre still young enough that the ROI for going to college can definitely still work out massively in your favor. I wouldnt even consider recommending against college just based upon age unless the person is at least 40, and there still even arguments in favor of going at that age. That being said, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 08:22 AM
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Just went to a filipino university today, putting in a lot of thought to going. I already have a degree, and dont have to worry about money, id just be going as a hobby/to meet women. To pursue a fine arts degree. There were zero foriegners at this university. Like as soon as I walked into the school grounds everyone was looking at me. I feel like it would be an absolute hole goldmine. Tons of hotties. Only problem is it would be quite annoying to get a student visa, and thats just based on the …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 08:03 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 04:15 AM
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I dont feel the need to get caught up in semantics. But I mentioned in the original post already I was dating other girls too
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 04:10 AM
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I would call myself passport bro
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 04:08 AM
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Shes not my gf, im just seeing her too, she comes over just on the weekends and the rest of the week I meet other girls
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 04:07 AM
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SEA update: Just had sex with 2 different women yesterday, almost 3. That makes it about 5 girls fucked just this last 10 days. (1 was a repeat). Ive been using a phillipines specific dating app, and this app's premium version allows you to automessage women just by liking their profile. Aka you can message about 100 women in a matter of minutes. At first I would just send a generic opener asking for their whatsapp, but I got far too much attention and chaff to seperate from the wheat. I legit g…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 11:10 PM
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Not that long, just about 3 weeks. She comes and stays the weekends with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 12:05 AM
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US (me) phillipines (her). I am living in the phillipines now
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 11:48 PM
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Why ive been enjoyed dating a (3rd world) 18 year old as a late 20s guy. She is totally unjaded and things feel fresh. She is super affectionate. Yes some would say clingy, and it gets a little annoying/overwhelming at times, but I would way rather have this than the tons of stuck up bitches around my age. She is super cute, lively, and full of energy. Theres still a lot curiousity surrounding sex for her, and although she isnt perfect at it, shes super enthusiastic about it and often initiates …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 09:49 PM
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That was me but it ended up falling thru as he left with another friend to a different city a few days after I arrived.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 06:20 PM
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Non sequitur
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 06:11 PM
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😎
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 06:10 PM
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SEA update: Been in manila for 2 weeks now. Have had sex with 3 women so far and been on dates with about 7. Actually lower than I expected compared to my last trip, which I had fucked like 10 girls by this point, but in part its because I changed my gameplan. My last trip I would just spam for sex. This time I started by only taking the slow approach and taking more attractive women on dates, but the amount of time, attention and effort they want me to frontload in order to get sex is too exhau…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 05:42 PM
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Probably one of the easiest places in the world for an avg western guy to get laid. Im below avg and still swimming in the pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:56 PM
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On the plane to Manila now. Been a little over 6 months since I was there, but ready to come back and be a sex god again. Going to set up a deal with a friend where he manages my dating accounts in exchange for free rent/food. It gets way too tiring sorting thru like 100 matches a week on every platform. Especially texting several women at once. Before I would typically just get straight to the point ASAP and ask for sex within a few messages, but obviously the majority say no, and theres a lot …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:35 PM
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If you mean as in reported to police, very very low. If you include to an employer/school/socially ie to friends, people in a mutual social circle etc, still quite low, but a much greater chance than the former. That being said, its not something I actively worry about.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 01:55 AM
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Yes, I didnt lose my virginity till I was almost 21. I know a lot of people will say that its not really a big deal, but I didnt have any relationships at all or really any female attention before that, so I felt and feel was really behind in that regard, and still feel like I "missed the bus" and am still catching up despite having been with tons of women since then.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 12:08 AM
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Yeah I get sugarbabies regularly when abroad. I wouldnt do it in the US because its too expensive to get a decent looking girl. Right now im in mexico and can see decent girls raw for 85 a meet for around 5 hours or sometimes overnight. Even cheaper in Argentina now
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 05:31 PM
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Its not that big of a deal. I went to Tokyo. Usually it will be one car at the end that is female only, and this car is only female only for a few hours of the day. Not even every woman who wants to go in the female only car can at some times because its too full. Theres a lot of times of the day were the trains were so full you would have zero space from the person next to you, so I can see how it would be super easy to grope unseen. Its funny that you will see posters in the subway station whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 03:33 PM
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I have lived and dated in the phillipines as a western man. I lived in manila for 5 months. If I were ever going to LTR a filipina I would stay there. Never bring them back. But I probably wouldnt LTR one. I would rather just have a few main girls, and casual sex eith others all at the same time. Easily possible as a western man in the philippines
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 02:54 PM
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Yes. I am abroad right now. If you want to do it, I suggest figuring out how to live there long term. Never take the woman back. Its just asking for problems. Be the big fish in thr small pond.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 07:33 PM
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I'm not a fan of escorts, I have never paid for sex, but last time I was in the states prostitutes were charging like 60-70 dollars may be Maybe if you were here like 30 years ago or getting crack addicted streetwalkers. Here in Argentina girls are doing It for 15-20 bucks also, and in the rest of latin american countries they charge even less, so I'm going to go with the girls moto here and say... "Not all prostitutes earn like that you know, prostitutes are not a monolith. Stop focusing so muc…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:40 AM
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I never said it was that easy, but if you charge 250 dollars an hour (which is quite low) if you work 20 hours a month you are already at several thousand dollars.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 03:16 AM
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Its impossible to know how much sex workers make on average its not like they are reporting income like that. Another thing is, a lot of them are doing it part time as a side hustle, so I dont think its fair to lump in people working 5 hours a week to people working 40 hours a week. Also your link says the avg escort makes 14 an hour. Obviously absurd
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 02:58 AM
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Onlyfans isnt the only sort of sexwork. In america basically any non-fugly woman under 40 (and these are not even requirements) can make several thousand a month actually selling pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 02:04 AM
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Yes I am one, feel free to ask me any questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:40 AM
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No, it means I was competitive as I was able to get women. If I wasnt up to par id be a virgin. I just dont want to put in the effort required to be a slayer in the US as the requirements are extremely high and the juice isnt qorth the squeeze, so id rather save my energy and just be able to smash tons of new girls with no effort. Theres nothing wrong with making things easier for yourself and being in an environment that is conducive to your goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 08:52 PM
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No, I dated in the west, I just get far better results in other countries, so of course I prefer it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 08:42 PM
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Dude girls in the West don’t care about your money unless you in the top 1% that’s why there’s so many dudes complaining in the West. Wrong. Most women will not be swayed by only money unless youre top 1% rich, but that doesnt mean girls dont care about money. Most women do not want to date a broke dude, thus money is a factor. If it didnt matter being broke would not be a factor. There are exceptions if they really make up for it in other ways of course, but in general women dont want to date a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 08:38 PM
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Yes, and it can and very often is a factor in rich countries too. That doesnt mean someone cant be attracted to you outside of that sole fact for many other reasons as well and that they only want you for your money, especially if you possess other qualities which are very commonly seen as physically attractive in that society.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 08:30 PM
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It has nothing to do with the average white guy’s attractiveness Completely wrong. Lighter skin is seen as attractive there. You will commonly see advertisements for "skin whitening" cream for example. As well as height, which is almost universally seen as attractive in men, and western men are on average much taller than the local men. You commonly see women even in the west women say things like "do I like him or is he just tall?", and dating guys who are simply only tall. Why do you think the…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 08:21 PM
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How come south east women (hot ones) born in West don’t mess wit u? I’m sure they also find light skin to be attractive right? Obviously because light skin is a norm in the west and thus having it isnt remarkable, for them in the west if that is what they want it can be bare minimum requirements as so many meet it. That doesnt meant they dont find it attractive. Having light skin and being of average american height in the phillipines for example makes you remarkable physically as you are based …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 08:01 PM
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So even taking your argument as 100% true, which I dont: If you are a unattractive guy by western standards, then you will likely be a betabux or non getting laid at all in the west. So, instead you can live like a king and smash hella thotties abroad while making 50k a year or less abroad, as opposed to needing to make far more at home to do the same. Except, its not all about money, and you can find love. For example, in southeast asia, women find me to be more physically attractive because I …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 06:27 PM
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If abortion became federally illegal in america, what do you think would happen? I wouldnt be suprised if that happened within the next 10 years. I feel like shit would pop off way harder than the floyd riots.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 02:20 AM
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Naw, its all about steam deck and switch these days. You can emulate nearly all PSP games on just a phone now. I had a boring security job like 5 years ago and id use a bluetooth controller hooked up to my phone to play. (Along with ps1/2, gamecube, vita games etc)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 03:13 PM
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Not enough women be having playstation portables
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 02:07 PM
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Plot twist, its a raceplay fetishist.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 08:34 PM
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If I had a daughter id raise her FDS
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 09:32 PM
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u/verycoolusername222 DOESNT MATTER, HAD SEX. Some of us enjoy causing pain to others even if we know its evil. You can call me evil, I know I am, and I LOVE IT.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 09:05 PM
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I know, isnt it great!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 05:20 PM
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Its fun
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 04:17 PM
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Salting? Well, when I used to do it a lot, sometimes I would just talk to women on a sugar dating site, but we never explicitly made an arrangement and had sex, I just vaguely told them id financially take care of them. When I was intentionally lying, i set it up like, I will pay you at the end of the month, I dont want to do it before then because im a lawyer and dont want to risk being disbarred. That worked with over 20 women. Of course thats not the only thing you say, requires regular game …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 06:02 AM
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Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 06:08 AM
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100 is considerably more there than it is in the US. I would never have sex with a 100 dollar girl in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 12:54 AM
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Mostly just show your passport on arrival and get 30-90 days.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 12:48 AM
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All online. I wouldve definitely had more success IRL but its too much effort and anxiety for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 08:53 PM
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I dont know, its not a strongly held conviction of mine, I just said it that way because I know a million people would jump down my throat if I said or implied it did. Do you think it does?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 08:39 PM
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but the fact females is used by misogynists in the manosphere to dehumanise women, simply means that as a noun, it still holds that intent (which it has for ever - it’s been considered derogatory even as an adjective at various times over the centuries). No it doesnt inherently hold that intent. Its just one of the ways it can be used. The intent is based on how its used and the intent of the speaker. Thats what intent means. Bitch is a word that has historically been used to talk down to women,…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 08:33 PM
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Work on your personality. You arent entitled to a job
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 08:24 PM
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I was never talking about the legitimacy of it as a reason for passport broing (i think any reason is legitimate) . I was talking about if the sex "counts".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 07:19 PM
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I dont know, I wasnt thinking about it deeply, most people consider it not to be. Do you consider paid sex to be "legit"?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 07:10 PM
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Then no I havent done that. I have of course taken women on dates but nothing exorbitant. (Talking in terms of regular dating, ofc I did extra things for sugar babies, but that wasnt the only girls I was seeing). I never really lied about intentions either. I mightve been ambiguous at times, but I never said something like "I will marry you/take you home" etc or even hinted at that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 07:00 PM
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I have some sympathy for them, but not enough to change my actions. I just catch and release, all those women I fucked are still available.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 06:57 PM
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Yes. I dont see how thats contradictory. Some people only do it for unpaid, some only do it for paid, some like myself do both.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 06:56 PM
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Language evolves. Female can, has been and is used as a noun. I refuse to use it in cases where I find other terms to either not be descriptive enough or too long. For example, instead of repeatedly saying "women and girls" id rather say females.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 06:32 PM
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Not involving paying
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 06:29 PM
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How is female not an adult word
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 06:19 PM
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Like STDs? The overwhelming vast majority of sex does not result in STD. Like children getting the candy they kept begging for. Like people in general getting anything they want and see as extremely important. Oh yes, because this subreddit is filled with people who like pretending sex = love Sex =/= love but sex is overwhelmingly involved im romantic love.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 05:59 PM
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Its also an important distinction in the modern day as there are many males claiming to be women. Thus its important to denote when you want to speak only of those who are biologically female.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 05:55 PM
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I wonder why was that so difficult to write? Could have saved alot of trouble instead of implying that your dicks not getting sucked is on par with human rights. Theyre giving a frivolous response in response to the frivolous dismissive non-argument of "sex isnt a need!" Also, what makes sex important? What happens when you dont have sex? You get grouchy? For most people having sex greatly contributes to overall mental well being, life enjoyment, and even have positive health effects. It is also…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 05:53 PM
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No, but along my travels I had sex with 2 russian women, and right before sex I played the soviet anthem. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 05:25 PM
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hat was your n-count prior to departing? Coincidentally around 60 as well, with about a 15/45 split of regular women and sugar babies. Where do you feel like you got the best ROI? For sugar babies specifically, buenos aires and mexico city. 6-8s will let you cum in them for 100 dollars or less, sometimes even stay the whole night. For regular dating, manila. I got 100 tinder matches my first day of arrival. I could go on a date with a new girl almost every day if I wanted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 05:24 PM
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I can get american women (and have) but they arent worth the amount of effort required to get an inferior product.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 05:17 PM
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They are a large portion from what you say And that doesnt preclude me from making statements about all of the women ive had interactions/relationships etc with that arent sugar babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 05:13 PM
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Because you guys just want to be mad at people like me saying "sex is not a need, you're not entitled to it", so you want to fantasize about oppressing people. No, like I keep saying, something being a need to live or not, doesnt mean its not important (nor is it not a need. Required for life needs arent the only kind of need). This is what the argument shows. You might not think its the best example, but it does show that. My response is the same for your following point.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 05:06 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 04:53 PM
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Rights and needs have nothing to do with each other They dont need to. Its just saying that something can be important without being a need to survive. Comparing having a political voice to not having your dick sucked isn't any better, Its not comparing the gravity of these things, its saying neither are required to survive, yet that doesnt stop something from being important
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 04:52 PM
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I could write a 20 page essay on this but I will try to sum it up: Mexico: The ppl seemed much more open and friendly. Amazing food. Music. Dance. Absolutely brimming with culture and history. (Mostly mexico city. Cancun is mostly shit outside of the resorts). Argentina: The people I found to be more closed off and elitist (though they have a lot to be proud of, buenos aires is very developed and modern compared to the rest of latin america). After going from buenos aires to spain, it felt like …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 04:50 PM
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What would you define as "indirectly pay women for sex"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 04:38 PM
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Sugar babies arent the only ones I have sex with. But in general the women are less rude, more feminine, more nuturing etc
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 04:36 PM
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Lmao nah
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 04:26 PM
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Except I had decades of interaction with women before I ever even left the country, the interactions I had with women abroad were actually much better on aveeage than those in the US too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 04:25 PM
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Well, I didnt travel just to get women. As you can see from some of the cities I picked to travel to, they arent known for sexpatting. I also traveled for the sake of cultural immersion etc. The women part was only part of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 04:21 PM
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Yes, ppl overplay the danger of travel.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 04:17 PM
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I wouldnt know, pussy is one of the few things I wont eat
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 04:17 PM
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Definitely. All it takes is a 2 weeks of pills to clear up.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 04:16 PM
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Agree for the most part. But your place in the hierachy as a man can change, and thus the women treat you differently, the same way they treat high value men differently in the US (or wherever youre from).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 04:16 PM
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Most of them. I just got tested recently as im home now. Didnt get tested for hpv or herpes, pretty sure I have both tho. Did get tested for hepatitis, gono, chlymdia, HIV, syphillis. Only had chlymdia which im treating now.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 04:13 PM
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Women. Women did.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 04:04 PM
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No. This is how the argument typically goes. "You dont need sex" Well "You dont need to vote". Both are true. But its absurd to say just because something isnt a need for life, its not important
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 03:17 PM
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No, theyre using reductio ad absurdum to show that the argument of "if the lack of something doesnt make you die, its not important" is fallacious.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 02:57 PM
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Because the overton window has shifted far more red in the last few years.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 12:49 AM
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Cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 07:20 PM
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From what I saw theres not much of a stigma against it, though just due to preferences of the women it would probably be much harder to get a relationship as a 45 year old with a woman between the ages of like 18-25 that isnt mostly or completely transactional. 25-35 year old women is much more reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 02:36 PM
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Whether or not they are misandric is a different question than if women are attracted to these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 05:43 AM
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You do realize that there is no shortage of successful and good-looking Filipino men in the Philippines itself There is. The average wage in the phillipines in like 200 dollars a month. The average male height in the phillipines is about 5'4. The amount of domestic abusers, cheaters and alcholics is insane among the local men. They can see jason mamoas on TV, but theres almost no jason mamoas there, so they take what they can get. Chads dont need to go to the other side of the earth to get a har…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 04:09 AM
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The vast majority of those tourists are other asians if you read the thing you just posted. I would also imagine the vast majority of them are only staying for a few days to a few weeks tops too. (Meaning at any one time the amount of tourists is much lower than the quoted yearly amount) Even if 70% of filipinas are not open to dating a western guy, (which is not true, but just for the sake of argument) the odds are still heavily in the western guys favor. Especially if this guy is younger as a …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 03:41 AM
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Wrong. At least in manila which is where I was staying there mustve been about 1000 filipinas per western guy. The odds are definitely in the western guy's favor. If every western guy in manila paired up with every filipina who wanted a western guy, 99% of the women would remain unpaired. Even if every western guy had 10 women thered still be many unpaired filipinas.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 03:00 AM
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Way less fat on average Way easier to fuck Way less annoying and game-playing Much easier to get a hotter woman More caring/nurturing Dont have a problem with doing house work. All I need is a plane ticket to be in the top 1% of men and have my pick of the litter without changing anything about myself. It is wayyyy better on your mental health to date in a place where youre considered cream of the crop. And no, its not just about money. SEA women have a fetish for lighter skin, and like most eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 02:37 AM
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Yes but its much harder to get one being that there are far less of them percentage wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 02:27 AM
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No thats not what I said, though it will definitely have an effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 03:46 PM
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Pretty sure they can only defer for up to 3 years total and after that if they miss 9 payments in a row they get garnished. Some ppl im sure have already used deferments, so its just a ticking time bomb as more and more cease to be able to afford it. Plus theres plently of people who wont. Even before this happened u had plently of ppl crying about it being too expensive. If deferring was the answer why didnt they just do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 03:23 PM
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No but id future fake enough to smash without having to. Id also be ok with a woman moving in with me to have her cut costs, if shes fucking and pleasing me, if not she gets the boot.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 03:21 PM
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As if women are the only ones with student loans. They arent. Thats why I said nonpoor males. Also, lots of guys are about to be scammed by unethical women. Sally is going to profess her love to Billy Beta who will pay off her student loans. Once that's done so are Sally and Billy. Agree to an extent, that will happen, but also more "legitimate" pairings as well. Also, most billys at least will be smashing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 03:19 PM
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Pursuing a relationship with a guy they otherwise wouldnt have because hes economically stable
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 03:39 AM
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Thats not what I was referring to, if they do, I dont care.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 03:30 AM
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In general, women will put more of an importance on financial stability in a partner if they are financially unstable themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 03:24 AM
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If you qualify for the pell grant its virtually free if you take it at a community college, so why not
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 02:28 AM
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Quite happy about student loan payments re-starting. It should have good implications for non-poor males in the dating market. Theres a reason one of the things feminism fought so hard for is economic stability in women. Because economically desperate women do desperate things. Loan repayment will make things pretty damn tight for a lot of women, and with the costs of everything else rising as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 01:59 AM
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If all women dissapeared tomorrow, the human race would continue. It would be like the recent pandemic multiplied by 1000x. Goverments across the would would band together and invest trillions of dollars into artifical womb and egg cell research. Ethical concerns would be continually relaxed. They would have about 80 or so years to figure things out, but realistically itd probably be done in 10 or so. After that wed have realistic AI sexbots in not much longer. Ai and robotics would continue to …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 05:31 PM
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I would be okay with gay men constantly hitting on me and trying to fuck me, even occasionally sending me nudes, and getting creepy/threatening if it meant that many average women wanted to date me and fuck me and some hot women wanted to fuck me. Like, id press that button in a heartbeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 04:37 PM
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Yeah I lived in manila for about 5 months and can definitely confirm. Had sex with almost 30 women in that time and hardly tried.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 03:05 PM
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At least around manila, like 90% of filipinos speak english, i never encountered someone that didnt know at least some english, and around half or more were pretty fluent. Learning tagalog at least around manila is not necessary at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 03:04 PM
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Which cities in vietnam would u reccomend? I heard thr major citties have a ton of westerners there
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 02:56 PM
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Ive done the casual sex thing, and the solution was always just keeping new girls in the rotation. You build a handful of girls that are somewhat consistent, always keep your options open and talking to new girls, and if a couple fall off or you kick them out cuz they get too needy, you start getting new women in the rotation to take their place. Outside of having the SMV to acquire it, its not really that "hard" at all. Most guys could handle that if they were in the position, they just lack th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:57 PM
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Yep, its why im against immigration. I dont want them being subjected to the chance of gun violence, or the racism and misogyny that plagues american society 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 06:03 AM
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My informal way of ranking development: Toilets and tap water Shit tier: Lack of toilets/plumbing Bad tier: cant drink the tap water and/or flush toilet paper Good tier: Can drink the tap water, and can flush toilet paper. Japan Tier: Turboshitter 3000 with heated seats, bidet with directional and flow strength control, along with asshole blow drier.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:49 AM
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Just remember: "The master has failed more times than the novice has even tried"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 07:36 AM
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Do you have rage when playing an opponent against an opponent in chess? You should feel the same way when gaming women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 07:22 AM
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Went to Aokigahara today, also known as the suicide forest today. For those who dont know about it, it is a popular place in Japan for people to kill themselves. Over the years hundreds of bodies have been found. Yes, I did go with the intent to find a dead body. Not too long after arriving and walking on the path, I saw a roped off section with a sign that said "do not enter". Of course I immediately entered without second thought. Not too long after, the path started getting more and more diff…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 01:36 PM
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Yeah for sure, considering going to a blowjob bar today lmao. U can get one for about 50
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 01:03 AM
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Went to a maid cafe yesterday. It was quite the experience. Im not sure I would do it again, but it was definitely worth it to do once. Pics: https://www.reddit.com/user/MalandiBastos/comments/13658cq/_/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button I spent about 120 dollars in a about an hour and a half. This was way more than you need to spend though, I bought a lot of extras, just going to the cafe and getting the standard meal package would b…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 12:27 AM
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A relationship beinf prone to those things doesnt mean someone is going to abuse them. Thats just the standards and dynamics I find attractive in a relationship, which im entitled to have. And if a woman doesnt want those things, she doesnt have to choose to be in a relationship with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 03:13 AM
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I only get into relationships with submissive women who do what I say. So no she wouldnt be spending a large amount of times with friends unless I okayed it. A relationship would have never progressed to marriage if she was not the type of woman to be okay with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 03:05 AM
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No, id rather her do it and make less because I live comfortably as is. Id rather her have more energy for her to please me than wasting it pleasing a boss, coworkers etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 02:50 AM
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Because I would rather have her at home doing what I consider to be her wifely duties
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 02:42 AM
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I wouldnt because I dont want a wife who works.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 02:02 AM
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Unless she is like, well above my league and also an amazing person, I couldnt see myself waiting longer than a few dates. If I really thought she was amazing and was almost certain she wasnt playing games, and also made me still feel desired etc, i would be fine with waiting a few months.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 11:11 AM
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If I could somehow know that was the truth, yes I would totally be willing to wait
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 10:35 PM
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Its not necessarily about not having sex, its about lying about if they are seeing/having sex with other guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 04:46 PM
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Again you are worried about a bad woman lying to you. One of the main reasons you propose waiting 3 months for sex is to vet out bad men, so why is it bad im concerned about bad faith actors as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 04:00 PM
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Then you have unrealistic expectations if you expect men to put up with all these extra barriers and if they get played all theyre left with is an "oop, sorry, try again". Makes more sense not to put all your eggs in one basket.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:50 PM
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That would make sense if so many women werent dating multiple guys and often having sex with someone else while making you wait, but thats often not the case and you wouldnt know if it was, so it makes more sense to not put in all the extra investment just to have a high risk of getting played and all the extra effort and time investment for nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:47 PM
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But you know what fixes this communication. There are other love languages other than just let’s fuck! Quality time, acts of service. If she is cooking dinner for you, your cuddling on the couch making out etc and your just not having sex….bro she prob is into you… You realize all of this can be true and shes still lying and fucking other guys right? Just think about it like this, if a guy is showing all these same kinds of acts of affection does it mean hes not fucking other girls? Of course no…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:31 PM
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Tell me how its cognitive dissonance or victim mentality
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:29 PM
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Theres plently of guys who feel the same way so its not just me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:27 PM
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If every woman waited 3 months+ id have no problem with it. The problem I have is even within the same woman, many will make one guy wait months when she let other guys smash much sooner. Also, 3 months for sex is way too much investment for me esp if I knew she let another dude fuck on the first date. Imo its asking too much from guys, you expect us to wine and dine a girl for 3 months before sex? And if she decides after 2 months and 29 days its not a fit, youre supposed to just be okay with w…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:21 PM
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That all passport bros will only find women who only want their money/greencard.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:16 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 11:05 AM
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Misogyny isnt inherently a bad thing, and also isnt inherently useless. If maximizing sexual success is your goal, which it is for me, then dehumanizing and hating women can actually be useful. The same way, militaries throughout history have employed many tactics to have soldiers dehumanize their enemies in order to make the mental load of "doing what is necessary" against them easier, so too can dehumanizing women make achieving your sexual goals towards them easier. If you see obtaining sex l…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 10:25 AM
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And if you did that does not mean telling the truth or not telling the truth was the reason. Also, lying ability varies. If youre a bad liar, of course you wont have success. If youre a good liar, the sky is the limit. Plently of CEOs, businessmen, hell even presidents are amazing liars.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 06:55 AM
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False. No one is immune to lies. The only way to be immune to lies is to never believe anything at all, which no one does. Ill just show it with simple math: Theres a pool of 100 women. 90 are not open to casual sex, 10 are. By being honest with your intentions, you will at most have sex with 10 women. By lying you are opening up your odds to 90 other women. Lets say even 50% of them see through your lies, youve still got a far bigger net to choose from. Source: also a guy with triple digit N
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 06:51 AM
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Even if what you were saying is true, which I disagree with, If you chase quality and also lie youll still have better odds.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 06:46 AM
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Regardless, it will still give you greater access to sex with more women all other things equal. Also, married women (mostly) arent in the market, so i dont see how its relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 06:16 AM
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I also have BPD. Big penis disorder
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:52 AM
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Like I said, you can be immoral without breaking any laws
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:49 AM
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It depends on your tolerance for risk. Im not going to condone illegal acts, and your opinion on what counts as "legitimate" is subjective, but if you want more sex, being immoral gets you greater access to it. And you dont need to break a single law for that to be true either.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:47 AM
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Making up weird lies so you get sex is incredibly predatory and creepy behavior demonstrating a poor moral code And a "poor moral code" will give you greater access to sex, which was the original contention.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:42 AM
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Its your opinion on classifying it on how you personally percieve it, fact is it will get you more sex. Thats all im concerned about. Its not about "having to lie", its about optimizing efficiency.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:38 AM
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Disagree. Here is an example of where being immoral would increase your chance of getting laid: Lying about your intentions. Proof it works? Women constantly complaining about "fuckboys"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:35 AM
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Agree, it anything being immoral raises your chances of getting laid. The only thing that matters is being percieved as moral for optics reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:27 AM
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Personally I dont see it as immoral at all. I see it no different than bluffing in a game of poker.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 03:11 PM
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I think its kind of moving into a different territory when you talk about illegal actions, but Im not too concerned. I could be falsely accused regardless, anyways, im okay with the risk, like 95+% of actual rapists already get away with it anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 02:02 PM
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No, because I think that dating is already too far gone and thus im going to just do whatever it takes to get what I want. Not going to play fair in a rigged game and be a martyr for a cause when individual actions have an infinitesimally small effect on it. I just see dating as nothing more than a chess game or battlefield where my goal is to outmaneouver my opponent.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 01:39 PM
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Pretty much no. Only if I was in an environment where I could still have a lot of sexual success while still being completely honest. Which, aside from when I stayed in the phillipines, I think I wont really get those results anywhere else. So yes I would probably lie or at the very least be misleading and deceptive as to do otherwise would negatively effect my ability to smash too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 12:13 PM
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I ideally would want long term but I dont trust women so short term only it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 08:51 AM
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🤦
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 05:44 PM
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[NSFW] Greetings from tokyo. TLDR; Mostly me talking about some experiences in Japan, and Japans problem with sexualizing minors. Just arrived here yesterday from taipei, taiwan. As far as Taipei, very lovely city, relatively affordable, good food, amazing public transport. Though, if you want hole, you have to "bring the goods" a bit. Didnt see any sexpat looking westerners. Most western males were average or above. The vast majority of the time, I saw them with good looking Taiwanese women. An…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 05:23 PM
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Its hard, its part of why I as a fat man dont go for fat women. In missionary ur stomachs push against each other which makes it hard to get the right angle. In doggy her ass pushes against ur stomach. Same deal. Her on top isnt gunna work cuz she will be out of breath in 5 seconds flat. Lol
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