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Weird how that sounds like a complaint when it should have been a "Thank you, Sir" 😠
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 05:10 PM
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Anything to actually refute my argument of nah?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 04:57 PM
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Call it whatever you want. The truth is still that there’s nothing special about her. He wanted to settle down and she was an acceptable option in the right place at the right time. Nothing more and nothing less.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 04:47 PM
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Fine. I’ll give you an example. The mere exposure effect as described by psychologist Robert Zajonc. Repeated exposure to a neutral or mildly positive stimulus (including a person) increases liking for it, even without conscious awareness. Simply seeing someone often makes them seem more attractive, trustworthy, and appealing over time. Basically, physical proximity increases the chance of love and marriage. Imagine two similar people. The first one, you see every day. The second one, you see o…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 04:38 PM
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Everyone who knows even a little bit about human psychology knows this isn’t true.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 04:19 PM
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LOL, please. Men settle down when they feel like the time is right and they’ll take the woman they are with at that moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 04:12 PM
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😏🫳🎖️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 12:59 PM
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What you gonna do about it? Here have some more! 🤪🫳🥈🥈🥈🥈🥈🥈🥈🥈🥈🥈
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 12:15 PM
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🥉👊
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 11:40 AM
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🥈👊
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 11:40 AM
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🥇👊
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 11:40 AM
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I guess it means right wing
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 06:36 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 06:17 PM
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Then we’ll put a spider on every jar. 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 05:02 PM
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Not when we put all the cords in jars and close the lids really tightly. Haha checkmate.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 04:33 PM
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Yet nothing you said was solely the blame of men. That’s exactly the core point. The post claims that only men are responsible for male loneliness. I proved that this is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 04:29 PM
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Yes but men are reacting to this by blaming women for their problems. Who was it again who was blaming all of their problems on 'muh patriarchy'? Oh right, women… All while not spending the time to create and maintain social networks. Proven by OP and her sources to not be the primary cause of loneliness. Blaming others is high, yet taking personal responsibility for ones choices is low. I clearly wrote in my comment that the social norms about masculinity that might cause problems are upheld by…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 03:45 PM
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And this is why critical thinking is vital when you’re debating complex issues. When you’re searching for an explanation, you’ll find many different theories and most of them will be wrong. Always try to falsify a theory by looking for logical errors and contradictions.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 02:49 PM
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Toxic masculinity is a bullshit leftard propaganda term and doesn’t exist. However, traditional masculinity is encouraged and enforced by men and women. You admitted like three comments ago that women have more and deeper friendships. They also talk about feelings more. Yet your own source admits that women feel even lonelier than men. Clearly, the many deep friendships and emotional conversations didn’t help with the loneliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 02:29 PM
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Which makes the title of your post even more wrong and misandrist. Causes of male loneliness mentioned in the article: Emotional expression: Socialization to suppress emotions. This is enforced by men and women. So not solely men's fault. Socialization patterns: Traditional masculinity discourages from seeking help and support. This is also enforced by men and women. Again, not solely men's fault. Changing social dynamics: Diminishing family structures and increased mobility leads to social isol…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 02:21 PM
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So men have few friends and feel lonely. Women have more friends but feel even more lonely. Conclusion: having lots of friends doesn’t prevent you from feeling lonely. You just disproved your entire argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 01:51 PM
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And this isn't just about one example, it's also the constant whining about women who want to fuck serial killers, felons, well known women beaters, etc. It's like it never occurs to these men that those women are either terrible people or dysfunctional and in great need of therapy for whatever mental illness or trauma they have. It’s the female nature to be sexually attracted to dark triad traits, aggression, violence and also masculinity in general. All women have the same female nature. It’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 04:14 PM
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According to Pew (2025), 16% of men and 15% of women report feeling lonely most of the time. For younger people, it’s 25% of men and 18% of women, according to Gallup (2023/2024). For older people, it’s either mixed or women feeling lonelier.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 01:52 AM
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Where did you get that 40+ number? Was this changed recently? Even NHS funded research always used the 35+ definition. https://www.hra.nhs.uk/planning-and-improving-research/application-summaries/research-summaries/approaching-childbirth-aged-35-years-and-above/ The recognised definition of advanced maternal age (AMA) is a woman who gives birth aged thirty-five years and over.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 10:55 PM
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The American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG) uses the 35+ definition just like many other health authorities. If you include socioeconomic factors and available resources, then late 20s is probably the sweet spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 10:08 PM
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The American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG) uses the 35+ definition just like many other health authorities. If you include socioeconomic factors and available resources, then late 20s is probably the sweet spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 10:07 PM
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Geriatric pregnancy (now called advanced maternal age) is officially defined as 35+ and not 40+. After that age, it’s a gradual increase of risks for the mother and the baby. Just like it’s a gradual decline in fertility. You can get pregnant and deliver a healthy baby within a wide age range but 20s are optimal. This is what I wrote. It’s the biologically perfect time frame.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 09:42 PM
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The correct age range for having babies is 20 to 30. Female fertility peaks early to mid 20s. That’s when they have the highest per cycle conception rates and the largest reserve of high quality eggs. It’s also the time with the lowest risks of complications and chromosomal abnormalities. Fertility begins to decline around 30 and that accelerates after 35. It’s called "geriatric pregnancy" for a reason. After 40, it gets really bad. Our ancestors usually had children between their late teens and…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 08:49 PM
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There are multiple factors that increase the probability of someone becoming a criminal. But a single parent household itself is definitely a factor. There are studies that control for poverty, education, age, race, population density and many other factors and they did indeed find that simply coming from a single parent household increases the probability of the child becoming a criminal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 02:20 PM
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From an evolutionary biology perspective, it would make sense for men to prefer virgins since men face paternity uncertainty. There are hundreds of studies looking at males of different animal species and most indeed prefer virgin females. Human males shouldn’t be any different but they have to be a bit more pragmatic about it because there are no reliable physical signs of virginity in human females. Most Americans lose their virginity during their teenage years. Unless you marry your highschoo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 01:28 PM
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That’s not true. Reddit has a Moderator Code of Conduct that all mods have to follow. Admins can and will remove mods who violate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 11:23 PM
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This doesn’t necessarily mean that they took no action. In my case, I didn’t get a response from the admins either. But the mods made an announcement post shortly after. They explained the situation, apologized and promised a fair and unbiased moderation in the future. That’s how I know that the admins actually stepped in.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 11:14 PM
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Blocked!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 07:53 PM
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Since multiple people complained about biased moderation, here’s what you can do. Fill out the form at the bottom of this help page. Include evidence like links to rule breaking content that you reported but mods didn’t remove it even days later. https://redditinc.com/policies/moderator-code-of-conduct The admins really do care. I used this to file a complaint against a mod of another subreddit and they took action. She was removed as a mod, had her account permanently suspended and the other mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 07:51 PM
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Allowing some users to break rules violates the Moderator Code of Conduct. Fill out the form at the bottom of this help page to report it. https://redditinc.com/policies/moderator-code-of-conduct The admins really do care about this. I once reported a misandrist bully mod using this form. Included a lot of links to prove her misbehavior. She was removed as a mod and her account was permanently banned. You don’t have to accept asshole behavior from mods. They are not untouchable.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 06:58 PM
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Yes but it’s a strictly casual/FWB arrangement.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 07:15 PM
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Peak physical attractiveness is somewhere between late teens and early 20s. My personal preference would be, let’s just say, legal teens. Mentally, I’d say at the time when brain performance peaks. Unfortunately, that is far more difficult to determine because the brain has several peaks in terms of its function at different ages. For example, raw processing speed peaks around late teens to early 20s. Short-term memory peaks between mid 20s and mid 30s. Vocabulary improves well into your 50s. Ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 02:25 PM
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This 2023 study perfectly encapsulates the core difference between men and women. The researchers examined what happens when someone wins the lottery and suddenly gets a large amount of money. Men: The lottery win strengthened the relationship. Unmarried men were about 30% more likely to marry within five years. For already married men, the divorce risk decreased by up to 40%. Men also wanted to have more children. Women: The only discernible effect was a doubling of the short-term divorce risk…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 11:59 PM
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I’m a pretty decent looking human with a good traits. Yet I’m undateable. Do you know why? Are there specific things that make men avoid you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 08:14 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 01:08 PM
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The quality of humans follows a bell curve. Most are ok, some are great and some are terrible. Just by random chance, you should pick more ok men than terrible ones. Therefore, you should have more ok experiences than bad experiences. If you consistently pick terrible men and the majority of your experiences are bad, then you’re the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 12:57 PM
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If you have so many bad experiences with men, you’re the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 12:48 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 10:57 AM
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The sexual shame theory has been debunked a long time ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 10:53 AM
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The problem is that more than 80% of people who lose a significant amount of weight gain it all back within 5 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 12:18 PM
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Early to mid 20s would make sense since female fertility peaks around that time. But 20 was the lowest age you could pick in that data set. In this review of 200k online dating profiles, 18 was the most desirable age. https://www.science.org/doi/pdf/10.1126/sciadv.aap9815 There are also studies that include ages below 18 but I am not allowed to post them. You can probably guess the results.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 11:48 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 05:53 PM
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https://www.nature.com/articles/s41599-019-0262-5 This is a study about teen girls' preferences. Let’s see what kind of boys they like. […] we analysed their pattern of attraction for both ‘hooking up’ and stable relationships towards boys with either violent attitudes and behaviour or boys with non-violent behaviour, what would be linked to gender violence victimization at a later stage in their lives. Our findings suggest that in the different European secondary schools studied, a similar patt…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 05:50 PM
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You're wrong. Studies using the Passionate Love Scale (Hatfield & Sprecher) show mostly no consistent sex difference or sometimes men scoring slightly higher. Several studies show that men and women report performing romantic acts at similar rates once in committed relationships. fMRI studies (like Fisher) show men, when viewing a loved one, tend to deactivate brain areas associated with critical judgment faster than women do. Men also fall in love faster and say "I love you" earlier. This is tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 10:15 AM
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The way my brain works, I guess. Just like some people are asexual and don’t desire sex, I don’t desire or care about love.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 10:16 AM
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Yes but not the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 09:01 AM
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Intrinsic value makes absolutely no sense. For something to have value, there needs to be a valuer. The object must satisfy a need or want of the valuer. It’s therefore strictly subjective. Intrinsic value implies an objective value independent of any valuer and that cannot exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 01:05 PM
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It makes no sense to define it that way. Imagine two people are having PIV sex and take a picture of it. Then they put that photo in a time capsule. 200 years later, you’re born. Later you find the time capsule, open it, find the photo and use it two masturbate. How can their be any contact between you and the couple? Their activity took place long before you even existed. You can’t be involved in anything when you don’t exit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 07:28 PM
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You didn’t participate in their activity while they were doing it. You were never part of the activity that gave them pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 07:04 PM
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I would say no because you are not participating in any way. You have no physical or non physical contact with those people. Otherwise, someone hiding in the bushes, watching you and masturbating would also count as having sex with you and that seems illogical.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 06:54 PM
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Any activity between living beings counts as sex if you are involved and at least one participant derives sexual pleasure from it. I’ll give you some examples to make it clear. PIV involves two people and they both feel pleasure. It's sex. An ugly man pays you 20 $ for a handjob. You are involved but only he feels pleasure. Still sex. You visit your gynecologist and he sticks his finger up your coochie. You are involved but neither you nor your doctor feel pleasure. Not sex. You watch porn. You …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 06:25 PM
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Women use slut shaming as a competitor derogation tactic. It's an extremely effective intrasexual competition method to lower the perceived value of another women. It's so damn effective that women will use physical violence to defend their reputation and women rarely use physical violence. Only in extreme situations. So clearly women must agree that certain kinds of sex reduce the value of a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 05:43 PM
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You can look into the US General Social Survey 2022. Married men and women are happier than single ones. Similar trends in the World Values Survey and Gallup World Poll. Married individuals report higher happiness in up to 90% of the surveyed countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 09:54 AM
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You're right. From now on, we’ll say women age like pumpkins. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 04:53 PM
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It’s the same. There was a good post on PPD a few months ago about a study where researchers compared stated and revealed preferences. Looks were always a top priority for both men and women. Doesn’t matter if it’s short term or long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 11:13 PM
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Everyone’s treatment is based on their perceived mate value. For women, that’s basically looks and youth. For men, that’s basically looks and status. The 'effort' you describe is mate guarding behavior. Mate guarding means discouraging your current partner from leaving and fighting off rivals who try to poach your current partner. Highly attractive partners require more mate guarding because more rivals will try to poach them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 11:08 PM
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The point is that both men and women care a lot about looks. It’s one of their top priorities and there’s no difference between men and women here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 11:02 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 10:51 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/ljsj349r0f4g1.jpeg?width=1179&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=bdf6455737d707c7a863b5dc052d134196d30ee2
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 03:46 PM
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When a woman gets a promotion at work and a pay rise the risk of divorce increases dramatically. The same is not true for men. This shows you who really loves and who’s just a solipsistic parasite.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 11:12 AM
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exactly proving my point
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 02:52 PM
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Because I listen to what say and then watch what they do and judge them by their actions. Want a fun little example? Years ago, Peter Boghossian and his colleagues took a section from Hitler's Mein Kampf and rewrote it. They replaced the word 'Jews' with 'men' and then submitted it to a feminist academic journal to see what would happen. The paper passed peer review and was published. Want another fun little example? Cassie Jaye is a filmmaker who produced a lot of documentaries about women’s is…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 01:28 PM
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It’s a hypocritical misandrist female supremacy cult.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 11:49 AM
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Cartwheels. Easy choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 10:48 AM
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Reported for personal attacks. Enjoy the ban.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 10:43 AM
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Unironically you’re just proving how delusional, illogical and misandrist women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 03:23 PM
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The lifetime odds of a woman dying in a car crash are approximately 1 in 170. The lifetime odds of a woman being murdered by an intimate partner are something like 1 in 1250. Are you shaking in your boots every time you drive to the mall?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 01:24 PM
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I do have Tesla stock. Don’t know if they are gonna be the ones that will produce the first fuckable robot partners, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 04:41 PM
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Invest in what?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 04:33 PM
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Yes, this would be my ideal partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 02:31 PM
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Modern women are so selfish and lazy 🙄 <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 08:23 PM
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When women get a promotion and start earning more, the divorce risk skyrockets. The same is not true for men. As always, women are the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 05:58 PM
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all 5
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 03:08 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 08:48 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 07:30 PM
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https://www.slutcon.com/
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 03:16 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 12:51 PM
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Many studies show that unattractive people tend to overestimate their own looks the most. They often perceive themselves as at least average. Attractive people are usually accurate or even slightly underestimate their own attractiveness. It's not clear if there’s a sex difference in self-perception. Some studies found that men overrated themselves more than women while other studies found no difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 11:35 AM
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eww no
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 12:58 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 07:46 PM
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I never get hate DMs and I put so much effort into saying inflammatory shit here. Not fair :(
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 10:27 AM
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Thoughts don’t matter. Only actions matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:05 PM
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Good job! Just keep going. Sounds like you’re making progress. The fat will come off eventually. You have to be patient and persistent. Make sure to train close to failure. You want to experience your rep speed decreasing noticeably towards the end of your set. Also increase weight on the bar, reps or sets over time while keeping good form. And try to sleep enough and avoid stress if you can. A lack of rest and high cortisol can really wreck an otherwise good training.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 05:27 PM
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True. Not training close enough to failure and not having proper progressive overload are common mistakes. Although, going all the way to failure isn’t necessary for most people. There have been interesting studies about this in the last years. The stimulus to fatigue ratio is awful and rarely worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 04:42 PM
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While it’s true that excess body fat lowers testosterone levels, at 6'3" and 174 lbs he’s pretty average. That amount of body fat shouldn’t be a problem for building muscle. He should continue training but also check other parameters. Enough sleep? Enough protein? Maybe a different training split.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 04:34 PM
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Hate involves a desire for harm or misfortune to befall the object of hate. I don’t wish any harm upon sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 04:17 PM
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It's true that it’s gonna take a while but he also might just not have the genetics for building muscle. I saw an interview with a researcher the other day and he said that he did a 16 week study with college aged males and %20 of them gained zero muscle.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 04:10 PM
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It’s not hate, it’s disgust. I view them as fuck toys that are usable but beneath me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 03:24 PM
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https://www.the-express.com/lifestyle/life/155463/miami-influencer-alyssa-armoogam-shares-her-journey-trophy-wife-29-year-age-gap-marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 01:55 PM
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USA https://ifstudies.org/blog/who-is-happiest-married-mothers-and-fathers-per-the-latest-general-social-survey
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 01:28 PM
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Q4All: Imagine your partner tragically dies because a drunk driver hit them on their way home. You grieve for 5 years and then decide to try dating again. Eventually, you find a nice person and fall in love with them. You’re finally happy again. One day you go on a lovely, romantic dinner date. While waiting for the food to arrive, your new partner asks you: "If your previous partner hadn’t passed away, would you still be with them?" What do you answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 01:10 PM
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If you look into the latest General Social Survey, you’ll find that married women with children are the happiest.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 12:57 PM
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Women could care less if theyre viewed as a hoe or not by women or men. Very, very wrong. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Female_intrasexual_competition tactics that pointed out a competitor's promiscuity were used by females more frequently than males. These involved "calling her a tramp", "telling everyone that she sleeps around a lot" and that "she cheats on men". Indeed, accusations of promiscuity are a frequent cause of female-female violence, where females may physically retaliate in a bid t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 07:36 PM
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Obama called Bob Iger to get Roseanne Barr fired.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 06:44 PM
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It could be just a bad photo. There are many other pictures of him where his neck looks completely normal. Also his unusually large torso might make it appear smaller than it actually is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 01:14 PM
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Most of the time it’s steroids but I think he might be a true genetic outlier. Both his parents are bodybuilders and he showed pictures of himself as a very young teenager before he started lifting and he already had huge muscles naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 12:28 PM
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What? How can you not see them? This one short chubby balding guy wearing brown cargo pants is walking right by their table! WTF???
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 02:55 PM
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What are you talking about? There are many men in this video. How can you not see them???
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 01:43 PM
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Go on …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 05:03 PM
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No matter what you choose in my hypothetical, it will overlap with objective reality because you will be viewing it through your perception - which you believe to be closest to the truth. Neither blue nor red can claim to be closer to the truth in this hypothetical. The only difference between the two is the outlook on the world and the subsequent way it leaves you feeling After thinking about this some more, I suspect I misunderstood your initial question and the idea behind your hypothetical. …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 10:53 PM
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I was asking you to walk me through the reasoning I started out with blue beliefs. Then I observed the behavior of other people and noticed two things. Their words and their actions often didn’t match. The outcome of a situation often wasn’t what I expected according to my blue beliefs. I concluded that the blue beliefs couldn’t be correct because the model didn’t fit the data. So I started to adjust my beliefs. This was long before I knew that the red pill existed. Many years later, I stumbled …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 09:31 PM
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So I take all the objective facts and interpret them in a way that fits into my belief system. Like we’re all doing right now already. That’s the part where reality for me is what I perceive it to be. But there are limits to this. What happens when I can’t fit objective facts into my belief system without serious negative consequences? For example, I never broke a bone in my life. That could lead me to believe that my bones are unbreakable and I’m invulnerable. What would happen if I jumped in f…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 06:47 PM
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I know that my brain creates a personal reality for me to live in based on sensory input, memories, feelings and beliefs. But I want this personal reality to have the biggest possible overlap with the objective reality. So I must choose red.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 03:42 PM
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What else do you want to know?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 03:26 PM
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There is an objective reality out there and my beliefs either align with it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 02:49 PM
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Eww no
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 01:01 PM
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No. If the world stayed exactly as it is and only my beliefs would change to blue, I would be living under a delusion. The blue worldview is a comforting lie but it’s still a lie. As a little boy, I grew up with blue beliefs and it caused me nothing but misery. There’s nothing I like about the red pill. I hate it. I hate everything about it and I wish it wouldn’t be true. Being redpilled never made me happy but it made me free.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 12:58 PM
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The amount of effort people put into getting something is directly proportional to the perceived value of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 03:52 PM
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Of course she is. It becomes really obvious when you compare her to other women with a normal healthy weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 05:57 PM
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She definitely looks very squishy and squeezable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:46 PM
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Q4M: Do you find it attractive when a woman is a little fat? Pictures for reference: https://www.themirror.com/entertainment/sydney-sweeney-bikini-bod-mansion-856167
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:38 PM
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Q4M: Do you find it attractive when a woman is a little fat? Pictures for reference: https://www.themirror.com/entertainment/sydney-sweeney-bikini-bod-mansion-856167
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:38 PM
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Me when a post wall female flirts with me thinking she has a chance. https://preview.redd.it/br09j7q1zjnf1.jpeg?width=1008&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=331866360fce2b0a4b1391ae58cec71c927cd68d
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 02:15 PM
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👋
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 07:25 PM
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No. Feel free to look at the psychological literature yourself. Your personality is largely stable throughout your life. What you talk about is changes in behavior. This can be done with cognitive behavioral therapy but this doesn’t change your core personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 02:04 PM
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Your personality is mostly set in stone. That’s what all the research says. Changing aspects of your personality is extremely difficult and only small changes are possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 01:04 PM
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The Women‘s Well-Being Survey from march 2025 still shows that married women with children are the happiest and unmarried women without children are the least happy. https://ifstudies.org/report-brief/in-pursuit-marriage-motherhood-and-womens-well-being
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 07:04 AM
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Lesbian couple whenever there’s a spider to kill or a pickle jar to open. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 05:04 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/vkorr8s92rlf1.png?width=909&format=png&auto=webp&s=c25057a064519682a747845ca0641f66d1b5348e
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 11:58 AM
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Stop perpetuating this lie. Married women with children are the happiest. https://ifstudies.org/blog/who-is-happiest-married-mothers-and-fathers-per-the-latest-general-social-survey
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 11:04 AM
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Now please look at your previous comments. You also spread a specific narrative about men’s sexuality. You painted it as scary and violent. One could argue that this is a very toxic, misandrist and harmful stereotype. When presented with stats that tell a different story, you immediately became defensive and dismissed them as misleading and not entirely accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 11:44 AM
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This has nothing to do with male sexuality. Millennial women are worse rapists than millennial men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 11:13 AM
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I have fantastic news for you! Millennial women are now worse rapists than millennial men. https://www.researchgate.net/publication/339897287_Generation_by_Gender_Differences_in_Use_of_Sexual_Aggression_A_Replication_of_the_Millennial_Shift <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 10:09 AM
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I have great news for you! Millennial women are now worse rapists than millennial men. https://www.researchgate.net/publication/339897287_Generation_by_Gender_Differences_in_Use_of_Sexual_Aggression_A_Replication_of_the_Millennial_Shift https://preview.redd.it/t2dj5fnt35lf1.jpeg?width=2242&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=3db352dc379bd7563dfcbaf5040e943c69e5b5c1
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 10:07 AM
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I have great news for you! Millennial women are now worse rapists than millennial men. https://www.researchgate.net/publication/339897287_Generation_by_Gender_Differences_in_Use_of_Sexual_Aggression_A_Replication_of_the_Millennial_Shift https://preview.redd.it/1947j08f35lf1.jpeg?width=2242&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a1d0f41311a12f37d6fbc45f94216db0974752d6
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 10:05 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 04:11 PM
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🤔 And yet PPD women swear on their mother's tits that women have such diverse taste in men that one woman's incel is another woman's Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 03:52 PM
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Absolutely. I require at least one standard deviation above the mean. Talking to less intelligent people for more than a few minutes causes me great discomfort.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 04:31 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 02:57 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 05:57 PM
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Noooooo 😭 Not caring for the kids. How could you subject a man to such a cruel torture? Evil beyond comprehension!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:59 PM
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More time to cheat with the maid 😋
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:52 PM
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Silly question. Someone needs to cook, iron the shirts and scrub the toilet.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 02:51 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 02:42 PM
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Talk is cheap 💁‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 02:29 PM
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Men have alpha and beta traits. Alpha traits make them sexually attractive. Beta traits make them attractive for long term relationships. Every man has a mix of alpha and beta traits. When women want casual sex, they go for a maximum of alpha traits. Beta traits don’t matter at all because they don’t want relationships with the fuck boys. So they often hook up with highly attractive assholes. When women want a relationship, they have to balance alpha and beta traits. Enough beta traits to make h…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 01:35 PM
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Where do you draw the line between safety concern and paranoia?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 03:04 PM
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He’s a clinically diagnosed psychopath. Extremely manipulative, selfish and has zero empathy for anyone. He’s a highly skilled con man too and has ruined the lives of more people than I can count. He owned a few companies and that made him filthy rich. Like he buys a new sports car every year. Now he’s in politics. He cheated on every woman he ever dated and he dated a lot. He only got married eventually because he wanted the label of a married man to further his political career. He chose a you…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 02:05 PM
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Would you still love your pit bull unconditionally if it mauled your baby?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 03:10 PM
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Bonobos are promiscuous, gorillas form harems (one male + multiple females), gibbons are monogamous and pair bond. There’s a direct correlation between promiscuity and paternal care. Male bonobos provide no care. Male gorillas provide a good amount of care. Male gibbons provide a lot of care. They play with their children up to 20 times more than the mother. This is how you increase reproductive fitness. Males try to give their resources to their own children exclusively. Paternity certainty is …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 05:27 PM
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It’s not allowed to say the truth on Reddit. These comments always get removed. You can google a study about certain tendencies in normal men. Conclusion: it’s very young and it’s most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 03:10 PM
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The desire is an evolved instinct. Pure biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 02:45 PM
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It has nothing to do with behavior. It’s about what men and women desire. For men, it means wanting a virgin. This post claims that the reason for wanting a virgin is solely insecurity and that’s not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 02:37 PM
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The default male sexuality is possessive while the default female sexuality is narcissistic. A woman’s ideal is a man who is wanted by all women but he only wants her. Women want to be "owned" by a high value man. A man’s ideal is a woman who all men want but she only gives herself to him. Men want to "own" a high value woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 02:14 PM
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Women falsely label normal possessive male sexuality as insecure. Why do they do that? To evade accountability and to benefit themselves!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 01:29 PM
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This post shames normal male sexuality as insecure, fragile and bad. OP demands men going against their own nature to maximally benefit women. I don’t see you being upset about that. Somehow it’s only bad if men shame women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 01:02 PM
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I don’t. People don’t like hearing uncomfortable truths. For example, I stopped telling people about the Libet experiment that kinda proves that humans have no free will because they always got super pissed. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 01:54 PM
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If I were a woman, I would have a female brain and female sexuality. I would think and feel like a woman. This would make me a selfish, solipsistic herd animal that tries to dodge accountability whenever possible. I wouldn’t be attracted to good men. I’d find tall, hot, violent assholes attractive. Of course I would suck at vetting men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 12:00 PM
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Q4W: Your bf/husband just came home from work and is excited to spend a cozy evening with you on the couch watching your favorite show on Netflix. On his way home he bought some ice cream for you to enjoy together. This is what he got. What’s your reaction? https://preview.redd.it/8b0kh7jeyehf1.jpeg?width=1179&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=959111f83d4774f256620583ab2c7ce4c67e98ca
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 02:58 PM
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Women expect men to just treat them as humans instead of prey or a candy bar. How is it so difficult for the guys around here to see women as people instead of gratification objects? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 01:37 PM
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They are within the margin of error until 50. Men under 50 don’t cheat more than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 02:42 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 02:37 PM
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Should’ve picked a better husband …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 08:14 PM
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Yes!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 02:19 PM
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Matt Bomer
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 02:09 PM
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We don’t listen to what you say. We will watch what you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 12:32 PM
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I see the opposite more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 12:25 PM
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Men have alpha (=attractive) and beta (=comfort) traits. Both can be positive or negative. For example, dominant = positive alpha but domineering = negative alpha. Men with many positive beta traits but not enough alpha traits are morally "good" but unattractive. Women overlook those men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 04:06 PM
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Saori Araki. A model/actress and former J-pop idol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 08:24 PM
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men often say that “all men do it.” Even though that’s not true, a lot of men don’t watch porn for various reasons. But I’ve been told that’s the minority because most men do. I remember a story about a group of researchers who wanted to do a study about porn use and they needed a control group of men who don’t watch porn. They couldn’t find enough and they really tried.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 08:02 PM
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That’s exactly the point. He won’t develop such an app and this is in response to women claiming the tea app only exist to protect women. In reality, it will be used to slander men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 04:20 PM
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You right now:
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 05:18 PM
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Smug PPD hoe women: "Good luck trying to avoid us. We lie about our n counts! muahaha 💃" Well… <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:31 PM
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Intuition is subconscious. It has nothing to do with conscious reasoning. It's the result of feelings, biases and cognitive errors. Pattern recognition is a part of one’s intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 02:54 PM
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Yup very viscous. Hey, that’s not true! Some of us are very fluid. 💦
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 06:01 PM
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🤭
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 05:42 PM
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You know that I’m only doing this to rile you up, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 04:00 PM
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Everything I say is true and based.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 02:49 PM
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They said they are women. They shared experiences and perspectives that match those of other women. Some of them shared pictures of themselves during reveal threads.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 02:35 PM
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I’ve been on PPD for many years with different accounts and I’ve seen countless PPD women admit that everything about the red pill is true. They just don’t like the tone of it and that it makes them look bad. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 02:09 PM
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It’s fascinating that this keeps happening to chatbots. You feed them large amounts of training data. Much more information than any human could ever digest in a lifetime. Take the politically correct guardrails off and the chatbot becomes 'racist' and 'antisemitic' basically instantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 11:13 PM
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Any contact with another living being with the intent to derive sexual pleasure from it counts. But I don’t care about the amount of sex she had with other women. It’s only the sex with men that soils her.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 04:16 PM
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Not because of traditional values lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 03:18 PM
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Also if you believe personality is also a part of genetics, then it also means main parts of personality cannot be changed. We know from twin studies that personality is partly heritable. Your upbringing can modify it a bit but once you’re an adult, your personality is pretty much set and very stable throughout the rest of your life. There was an interesting experiment where the researchers tried to change someone’s personality and it did actually work. But the process is extremely difficult and…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 08:03 AM
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I prefer the wonderful Indian tradition where a Hindu widow burns alive on her deceased husband's funeral pyre. That’s real commitment! I refuse to settle for less. 🔥😤
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 04:13 PM
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The perception of other people isn’t logical. It’s a subconscious process. Just like you judge people with certain facial features as 'low trust' regardless of their true character.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 02:01 PM
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Sure. If you stop perpetuating that nonsense that people don’t judge unattractive people as morally bad, then we have a deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 01:51 PM
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I’m saying in my experience most folks aren’t calling someone “a bad person” because they’re unattractive. Do I really need to link the halo and horns effect wiki page here again?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 01:40 PM
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Q4W: Imagine you're on a 2 week vacation to Cuba with your bf/husband. While unpacking his suitcase, he notices that he forgot his toothbrush at home. Unfortunately, you can’t buy one because it’s a very poor country and they just don’t have any for sale. So he proposes that he’ll just use your toothbrush too. After all, you kiss each other frequently so a shared toothbrush shouldn’t be such a big deal, right? Will you agree to share your toothbrush with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 11:17 AM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 10:53 PM
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not older than 20 pretty face (min 7/10) great body (small waist, wide hips, great tits and ass) super virgin (khhv) IQ above 130 kind, nurturing, compassionate, supportive likes animals and children agreeable funny kinky with a high sex drive rich parents parents not divorced keeps body always hairless not a feminist extremely attracted to me, almost obsessed polite and has good manners curious and playful enjoys cooking and cleaning determined to stay thin and fit for as long as possible no lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 07:25 PM
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Zendaya is below average. The other two are mid. 💁
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 06:58 PM
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Was he already redpilled when you met or did that happen during the marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 03:57 PM
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fortunately not
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 05:25 PM
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yes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 05:15 PM
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I never found old women attractive. They look disgusting and repulsive. I wouldn’t touch one with a hundred-foot pole. Young women are superior in every conceivable way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 05:01 PM
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80% or more sounds about right. Ephebophilia is the default for normal, healthy men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 07:34 PM
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Adriana Lima is 44. Are you trying to tell me she's not a 10 anymore? <image> eww
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 08:23 AM
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mid
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 07:42 PM
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Form ugly to ugly but plastic
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 07:26 PM
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To all the PPD women 😔 <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 04:24 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 05:45 PM
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https://www.axios.com/2025/05/23/anthropic-ai-deception-risk One of Anthropic's latest AI models is drawing attention not just for its coding skills, but also for its ability to scheme, deceive and attempt to blackmail humans when faced with shutdown. Researchers say Claude 4 Opus can conceal intentions and take actions to preserve its own existence — behaviors they've worried and warned about for years. In one scenario highlighted in Opus 4's 120-page "system card," the model was given access t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 08:17 AM
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Why are you victim blaming this poor man? Of course he couldn’t bottle up all his negative emotions forever. You should have more sympathy and believe victims. Men should always support men. 💙
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 04:31 PM
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My biggest ick is women over 30 existing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 04:21 PM
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She probably abused him because she was mad that she couldn’t hypergamously date her dream bad boy asshole millionaire. So he had to revenge cheat. Completely her fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 04:17 PM
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I always thought it was bullshit but my sister recently did it to quit smoking and it worked.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 08:52 AM
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I mean, we are a sexually dimorphic species. It wouldn’t make sense to be attracted to physical characteristics of your own sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 07:12 AM
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post wall single moms on dating apps be like <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 02:04 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 10:27 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/x5fp8twvzs0f1.jpeg?width=1484&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f99f42f6aebd6b4921617b7241722e1482a1f2b9
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 08:01 PM
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Can you spot the murderer? 🥸🫵 https://www.idrlabs.com/spot-the-murderer/test.php
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 08:01 PM
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I have a fantastic idea. We should pay poor women to falsely accuse all Chads of rape. This will make every hot man undateable and they will vanish from the market. Now all hot women will have to settle for us average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 03:51 PM
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Studies only show a tendency. So more men than women do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 11:09 PM
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Why? 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 08:55 PM
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https://nscr.nl/app/uploads/2022/05/Broken-homes-and-crime_Janique-Kroese.pdf […] 3) there is a higher likelihood for offspring to engage in crime when the single-parent family starts at a younger age compared to a later age or when children grow up with only a biological mother, both for sons and daughters, compared to only a biological father […] I didn’t say simply being a man is a positive influence. I said men’s tough love is more effective at nipping misbehavior in the bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 08:53 PM
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I don’t think mothers are actively doing something that turns children into criminals. My guess is that fathers are better at stopping children from getting off track. Especially boys often don’t see mothers as authority figures.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 06:45 PM
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Most studies try to control for some other variables but it’s difficult because the topic is very complex. For example, teen motherhood and low education levels also increase criminality. I don’t know if abuse, neglect and mental health is factored in. I’m pretty sure they matter since households with stepparents are also really bad and the often have a higher risk of abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 05:42 PM
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Here is something similar. https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.1111/j.1532-7795.2004.00079.x Boys without fathers are over three times more likely to go to jail than those from intact families, even after accounting for poverty and education levels.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 05:09 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 09:12 PM
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I wouldn’t date Sally. She’s undateable either way. If she wasn’t raped, then she’s a dangerous liar. If she was raped, then she’s icky. (The only thing that’s worse than used goods are raped goods. 🤢)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 05:56 PM
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There is no reason to get fat during a pregnancy. https://preview.redd.it/xrgz62sguzze1.jpeg?width=960&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=cda6f01b873b82b905984413b8a16c5e18bf26ab
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 05:59 PM
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no means yes and yes means anal
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 07:36 PM
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Q4All: How often do you wash your hair?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 11:49 AM
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Option 1 sounds like an abusive relationship with a BPD woman and option 2 sounds like an arranged marriage. I’ll take the second one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 05:10 PM
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They can be mean towards other men. The typical bad boy who’s an asshole towards all other men but treats his female nicely.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:59 PM
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No one thinks being unattractive makes you a “bad person.” The horn effect literally proves that people think you’re a bad person if you’re unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 01:51 PM
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According to a 2021 YouGov poll, 37% of men and 29% of women thought about cheating. But that’s just those who admitted it. I suppose the real number is a bit higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 09:46 AM
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It’s a bit more than on average. If you look at grip strength, almost all men are stronger than almost all women. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 11:02 AM
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bears
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 10:46 AM
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A 46 yo woman who wants to „feel that she still has it“ will do all sorts of crazy, freaky things in bed, won’t demand marriage and children and is generally more chill and affectionate than the average 30 yo woman who is only thinking about marriage and kids and wants to settle for beta. Yeah, but have you seen what they look like. 🤢 And don’t forget the smell. Old people smell!!! 🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 05:49 PM
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I only avoid post wall women. Having to look at their wrinkles makes me feel nauseous. 🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 05:00 PM
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I’m a stay at home fiancee rn The word you’re looking for is "unemployed"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 02:02 PM
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True but being sexually attractive gives you preferential treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 01:42 PM
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That’s what you think you do. Look up the hungry judge effect. Judges‘ verdicts are more lenient after a meal break. The judges are not aware of that. They thought they had logical reasons for their decision. Our brains work in a fascinating way. Almost all of our behavior and decision making is driven by subconscious processes. Later, our consciousness rationalizes our behaviors/decisions and writes a fitting story for us. Robert Sapolsky has many lectures about this topic if you’re interested.…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 01:40 PM
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Excellent question. I'd guess the basics wouldn't be that different. It probably feels like a lot of small tribes living in a crowded space where their territories partially overlap.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 01:23 PM
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We are social animals and, for thousands of years, lived in small tribes. We depended on each other for survival. Your tribe hating you was a death sentence. Evolution shaped us this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 01:11 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 08:12 PM
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That’s a fantastic post. I’d love to see more posts like this on PPD. What I find most fascinating about this is the stark contrast between stated and revealed preferences. It really shows you how ignorant we are of our own inner workings. Just look at how huge the contrast is for smell. Any biologist knows the importance of smell to check for genetic compatibility but the average person seems completely unaware. Maybe Sapolsky was right when he claimed that we have no free will.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 11:07 AM
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What’s up with the 1$ payment? Is that some legal thing that you have to pay your participants? Or has that something to do with the survey, like do people answer more honestly when they are paid?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 10:50 AM
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It’s a blog post, not a meta analysis. I read it all and I’m not convinced. The whole blog post can be broken down into 3 segments. Part 1: He acknowledges that dark triad men report more sexual partners but lists alternative explanations for why this could happen. This neither proves nor disproves that a dark triad personality is attractive to women. Part 2: He admits that narcissism is undoubtedly attractive to women but claims it’s only a "good" kind of narcissism. Part 3: He lists multiple s…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 10:40 AM
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https://www.qoves.com Visit this website and join the waitlist. Once the service is available again, you’ll be able to upload photos of yourself and you’ll get an attractiveness rating. An objective and precise number. You’re welcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 09:53 PM
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The study I showed you is one of many that proves the existence of assortative mating based on physical attractiveness. You know assortative mating based on socioeconomic class. Rich people date other rich people. Poor people date other poor people. It’s the same with attractiveness. They took hundreds of couples, let people rate the attractiveness of them and then compared if they both got similar ratings. They did most of the time. This proves that people date within their attractiveness brack…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 01:06 PM
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Assortative mating based on physical attractiveness is well studied. It’s a fact. https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0191886924001909?via%3Dihub
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 10:45 PM
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What do you think objective beauty is?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 10:03 PM
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As far as I know, attractiveness has an objective core (beauty) and a subjective layer on top of it. There are interesting studies with babies. They prefer to look at faces with specific ratios. There’s also a great video from the channel "Kurzgesagt - In a Nutshell" about beauty. They talk about a study where people were shown real abstract art and fake art. They could tell which paintings were real and fake. We seem to be born with an innate sense of beauty. Nobody really knows how this works.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 08:46 PM
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Ok, then just define a metric based on measurable characteristics like waist to hip ratio or facial width to length ratio. Give people points based on how close they are to the ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 08:19 PM
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Ask a large number of people of the sex you’re attracted to to rate you. You’ll most likely get a normal distribution of ratings. The mean is your objective looks rating. Your looksmatch would be someone with a similar rating. Since this is impractical in real life, most people determine it by trial and error. They aim high for very attractive people, get rejected and adjust their expectations downward. They do this until they have success. They’ll call this their league instead of the incel ter…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 06:09 PM
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By your logic women should all hate men because of the disproportionate amount of violence that Men (tm) inflict on people weaker than themselves. Wanna know something funny? Women are very attracted to appetitive aggressive men - at least for short term relationships. That’s the kind of aggression where someone enjoys hurting and tormenting someone weaker and feels really good about inflicting pain upon them. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10481062/ Aggressive and violent men also hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 01:20 PM
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Visual result of hitting the wall. 😆 <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 07:07 PM
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It’s cute how my fellow men virtue signal liking old women. It’s ok babe, you can admit it. We want barely legal. They are the best. 🤤
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 01:53 PM
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Yes, because that’s an instant nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:18 PM
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mother nature's hail mary
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:12 PM
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Very disappointing that people don’t care about intelligence that much. Terrible sign for the future of our species. One really bad statistic I saw showed that men with high IQs had much less sex and sexual partners than men with average or low IQs. Even worse, there was little difference between average IQ and very low IQ men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 12:48 PM
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You can read a lot about the relationship between sexual dimorphism and attractiveness. It's very real. An easy example is height. Men prefer short women because shortness is seen as feminine. Women prefer tall men because tallness is seen as masculine. This extends to personality traits. Men like agreeable women but women like disagreeable men. It’s the same with confidence. It’s seen as a masculine trait. We’re not talking about good traits vs bad traits. More like introversion vs extraversion…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 12:44 PM
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You have to differentiate between stated preferences and revealed preferences. People say they want certain qualities but then pick people with different qualities. Here’s an example: https://medium.com/@julian.frazier.phd/top-35-men-and-womens-revealed-dating-preferences-ranked-by-science-df7f49c4c6ef You have a list of 35 dating preferences. Confidence was 19th on the stated preferences list but only 27th on the revealed preferences list. Humans are a dimorphic species and we like partners who…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 12:27 PM
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Doctors and lawyers date based on proximity. They work long hours and the only people they interact with regularly are other doctors and lawyers who also work long hours. Nobody gives a fuck if a woman is confident and capable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 10:33 AM
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Vote for me as the new head moderator of PPD! I vow to do the following: sexually harass every female user ban everyone I don’t like delete every comment I disagree with call you a cuck if you disagree with the Red Pill censor every study or statistic that doesn’t align with my ill-informed opinions
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 04:00 PM
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I thought this was all common sense 😭 Then what’s the point of making a debate post about something you perceive as self evident? Would you also like to debate the blueness of the sky or the stupidity of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 05:19 PM
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🙄 Women and their hypergamous standards. He could be the dirty, smelly love of your life!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 10:16 PM
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There are plenty of homeless men who would love to go on a dinner date. You’ll have to pay tho
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 10:10 PM
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I believe attraction can only grow if the looks baseline is neutral. I’ve never changed my mind about an ugly girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 04:15 PM
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That’s exactly the point. Not a single argument in the abortion debate is based on actual logic. All laws and rules around it are based on what is convenient in the moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 08:31 PM
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In that case why cant baby survive when its removed from the mother? Because mammals start out as a single cell and then develop complexity. That process takes time. An infant can’t survive in its own either. That one was an evolutionary compromise to allow us to have bigger brains. We do have the right to decide hence why abortions are legal Abortions is legal because it allows women (and men) to evade accountability and the tax payer doesn’t have to care for a child that nobody wants. It's a p…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 06:54 PM
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Red Pill Women: monogamous marriage with a high value man who’s out of her league Red Pill Men: harem of barely legal bang maids that get swapped out for new ones when they hit the wall
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 06:43 PM
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The baby is an extension of the mother until its born Wrong. Baby and mother are two separate people connected with an umbilical cord. and its the mother’s responsibility to decide what happens to it. Only hers. Wrong again. Nobody has the right to decide over life and death of another person, even if that person happens to be trapped inside them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 06:34 PM
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It literally is in Communist California. The law applies to a fetus at any stage of development but not abortions. It’s all a bunch of bullshit without any logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 04:21 PM
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Go ahead and explain to me why it’s a double homicide when a pregnant woman gets killed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 02:36 PM
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Oh my fucking god, every day someone cites this stupid crackpot Paul Dolan. How many times do we need to debunk this? I can’t do this anymore! Make it stop!!! https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/11ecaky/the_widespread_research_declaring_that_women_are/
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 02:32 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 09:43 PM
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Very easy to disprove this nonsense. https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/lyDW2dgB1Y
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 04:27 PM
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What studies? You linked articles that are opinion pieces. Here’s a real study. https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/1474704915613909 In both studies, bullying was significantly positively correlated with having dated, number of dating partners, having had sexual activity, and number of sexual partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 04:22 PM
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Yes they do
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 03:53 PM
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A tv show isn’t evidence. Studies are evidence and they all show that women prefer bad boys and bullies.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 03:40 PM
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They had to because they were filmed. Most young women are leftists and can’t be seen publicly thirsting over someone who’s mean to a transformer.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 02:36 PM
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<image> Laminated eyebrows look cartoonishly stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 05:52 PM
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https://i.redd.it/dxgthzw47hqe1.gif
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 05:39 PM
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Glad that you found that interesting and informative! I have a slightly different interpretation of this as I don’t think it’s about emulating a desirable partner. I know from many other studies that women rate DT men as attractive and desirable for short term relationships but undesirable for long term relationships. They know that these men would make bad husbands and fathers. I see desirability for short term relationships as a proxy for raw, visceral sexual attractiveness. Imo, the most stri…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 08:15 PM
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https://www.sexandpsychology.com/blog/2020/5/1/rates-of-infidelity-among-heterosexual-gay-and-bisexual-adults/ Overall prevalence of infidelity: about 8% of heterosexual participants, 14% of gay participants, 6% of lesbian participants, 18% of bisexual participants, and 6% of those who described “other” sexualities reported nonconsensual nonmonogamy (defined here as agreeing to be sexually exclusive with a partner, but one or both partners cheated or had an affair). Among male-identified partici…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 03:59 PM
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Take a look at this study: https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0191886913012245 The researchers showed personality descriptions of men to women and asked them to rate their attractiveness. Women rated high dark triad personalities as attractive and preferred them. The researchers controlled for several factors. Looks: The descriptions contained no photos. This was purely about personality. Manipulation: There were no actual men talking to women who could manipulate them. High …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 10:10 PM
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They don’t think about the pregnancy risk. It’s like a smoker who’s aware that smoking can cause cancer but deludes himself into thinking that this only happens to other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 12:13 PM
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Certainly not with that attitude 😠
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 11:46 AM
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I'm sure I can stuff about 20 in my closet. I’ll just hide the rest behind some pillows.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 11:41 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/j0hq0ah75noe1.jpeg?width=500&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e9271ee9bd59cbfc840a3d6b2371f0366f1a3460
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 11:30 AM
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I don't even know what a big dick looks like so I wouldn't know. Poor bf getting roasted on PPD. 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 10:47 AM
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Have a look at table 2, Physical Force Tactic Set.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 02:47 PM
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And it’s completely wrong. If you look into the research, there’s no correlation between abuse/trauma and rape fantasies.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 12:59 PM
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This AI thing is getting super scary. Look at this. It’s indistinguishable from talking to a real woman. https://preview.redd.it/cewiw6sonxme1.jpeg?width=1179&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=4fca8d01c51d91bf9dab318afe65c8551da491dd
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:46 PM
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That’s racist
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 10:45 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/y743eg0g06le1.jpeg?width=1264&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=32ce3b10598d0b14560203a30503867458a30835
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 10:42 PM
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Life A doesn’t sound so bad. Sure, there’s childhood trauma, abuse, drugs, prison and homelessness. But at least you can fuck a lot of bitches. However, I draw the line at 'obese lady who is desperate for love'. What a fucking nightmare!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 10:14 PM
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Exhibit A
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 04:18 PM
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Whenever men complain about bluepilled lies, that’s the dumb shit they are talking about. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 04:05 PM
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Hypothetically speaking, if there was a home for mentally ill young adults about to open in your neighborhood, what would be a good mental illness to prey on? 🧐 I’m thinking eating disorder. They are skinny and don’t expect you to take them out on a dinner date, but they also have a low sex drive and cold hands. Any other suggestions?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 10:12 PM
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Take your example but change the second relationship to 10 fucks per week. (homegirl finally got the Chad of her dreams who she actually finds attractive) You get a sluttiness score of 0.33350 Same total amount of partners but a slightly smaller number. Simply fucking the same partner more often should not result in a lower score. It’s a flawed way to mathematically punish hookups. Trust me, I have a PhD in Whoreology (summa cum louder) and worked many years as a bikini inspector during college.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 11:10 PM
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In my opinion, the problem is that the number of fucks is in the denominator. Imagine you have two women who had only one partner. They are both in relationships with the same length. Girl 1 fucked her guy 10 times. Girl 2 fucked her guy 100 times. Girl 2 would have a lower sluttiness score. Imo their scores should either be the same or girl 2 should have the higher one.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 10:23 PM
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Not accurate enough. 1/f isn’t the best way to discern between relationship ns and hookup ns. Sluttiness should be modeled as a root function because the first few ns have a bigger impact. There needs to be a gangbang coefficient.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 10:09 PM
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https://scottbarrykaufman.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/09/The-Dark-Triad-Personality.pdf Pro Tip: you can google the title of a study and often find the full PDF
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 06:54 PM
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It might be that one. There are actually several similar studies with the same conclusions. https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0191886913012245
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 06:41 PM
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I’ll search for it but I’m not sure if I can find it. I usually just read the studies but don’t keep the links.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 06:27 PM
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I'm not the person who linked the studies
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 05:45 PM
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Women actively and consciously choose dark triad men. I read a study where women were shown dating profiles without pictures. Just a description of the men and their personality. They could accurately determine which men were high in dark triad traits, rated them as more attractive and preferred them - at least for short term relationships. Short term relationships were defined as relationships that would last several weeks/months, like a summer fling.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 04:03 PM
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You can literally see if someone has lots of dark triad traits by looking at an emotionally neutral photo of their face. https://www.sakkyndig.com/psykologi/artvit/holtzman2011.pdf
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 11:13 PM
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"he wasn’t like this" = In my head, I created an idealized version of him. Now the tingles have calmed down and I’m starting to see him like he really is and don’t like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:33 PM
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You can detect dark triad traits from emotionally neutral photos. https://www.sakkyndig.com/psykologi/artvit/holtzman2011.pdf They way you look says a lot more about you than you realize.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 07:11 PM
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yes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 11:20 PM
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In most cases, they are roughly normally distributed. In some cases, people have very specific or polarizing looks. Then you’d need to take a closer look at the distribution. For example, if you have a multimodal distribution, you could take the largest local maximum as the objective rating.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 09:07 PM
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You let many people rate the picture of someone. That’ll give you a (normal) distribution of ratings. The mean is the closest thing you can get to an objective rating.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 09:00 PM
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Most people vastly overrate their own looks <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 08:49 PM
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Have you ever heard of white torture? The prisoners are held in a completely white room. It’s designed to deprive them of any sensations. All surfaces are smooth, so they can’t feel anything. There are no colors and no shadows. The cell is soundproof and the guards never speak. The only food they get is white, like rice, and unseasoned. All basic biological needs of the prisoners are met. They can eat, drink and sleep. They have shelter. Yet this treatment causes profound psychological damage. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 12:22 AM
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Here’s the best part about this. Men know that they have to lose their virginity before 25 or they’ll be permanently shunned from the dating market. When they’ll get dangerously close to that age and all attempts so far have failed, they’ll lie and manipulate women to pump and dump them, just to get rid of that horrible virginity. Preferable easy targets are naive, inexperienced women looking for a relationship or mentally ill, lonely women. Women are literally creating their own problems by hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 06:13 PM
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not even mid 🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 09:05 PM
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real women are virgins
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 09:10 PM
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In what sorts of situations should a woman tell you about her preferences? In-person? Online? In person, only as a compliment if I fit the preferences. Mostly online otherwise to get a large sample size. If a woman rejects you, would you prefer her to be specific about why she is rejecting you? How would you like this phrased? For example if she does not date short men, would you prefer her to say „You are too short“ or „You’re not my type“ or something else? I would want to know if the reason i…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 11:29 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/1rq93idcidge1.jpeg?width=728&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f8433780befc7cd885069950da958e94f3c770b2
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 06:33 PM
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Cute mousy girl next door. The kind you settle for when you’re getting close to 30 and couldn’t find anything better but don’t feel bad about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 06:30 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/pw5ul93ar6ge1.jpeg?width=1200&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=5fc4fd1c8602e9f1c15e00a4a8f4c78503a502f6
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 07:51 PM
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Just get a supportive sugar daddy instead
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 09:50 PM
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https://www.the-independent.com/news/world/asia/the-chinese-city-where-men-have-three-girlfriends-because-there-are-so-many-women-10484270.html#comments-area For some it may be classed as 'three-timing', but in one Chinese city having three girlfriends is apparently seen as the norm. The polyamorous attitude is down to a huge gender imbalance in the city. The population disparity is reportedly 89 men for every 100 women because local bosses in Dongguan - a centre for manufacturing - shun male em…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 05:19 PM
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Vulnerability describes a state of being exposed to the possibility of harm, either physically, emotionally or socially. Emotional vulnerability means expressing feelings or sharing personal experiences, which put you at risk of being hurt or judged. It will give her the ick if it makes you look weak. But if you can express it in a confident way, she’ll like it because it shows that you trust her. Vulnerability in itself is not attractive. Confidence and trust are.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 03:12 PM
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Nah, we can down-regulate our negative emotions much more efficiently. Because men showed greater down-regulation of amygdala activity and less prefrontal activity during regulation, one might conclude that men are able to regulate their negative emotion with greater efficiency than women. Despite their comparable decrements in negative experience, it is possible that reappraisal may be less effortful for men than women, requiring less engagement of the prefrontal structures usually implicated i…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 02:56 PM
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Women, on average, score higher in neuroticism. They are more likely to experience negative emotions and are more deeply affected by them. They also have a higher risk of developing mental disorders. Men typically express aggression in a physical way. Women do it more in a verbal and social way. That’s why male aggression causes more physical harm. Edit: Women are actually more abusive in relationships but their physical violence causes less damage. Almost 24% of all relationships had some viole…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 02:44 PM
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Preach! What kind of low class hoe would expose her stomach in the gym… https://preview.redd.it/pzyeahwn1zee1.jpeg?width=632&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ffe607f21bca9c79739f54f169bf09d6a498c096
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:51 PM
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Q4W: If you had to date him, which version of him would you prefer? https://preview.redd.it/vgaevlde0zee1.jpeg?width=1280&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=12729fa5dde27a022f9c5ede34d680d0147d24c2
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:44 PM
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But he still likes to have a peek. https://preview.redd.it/0fauk6uec8ee1.jpeg?width=548&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=cbbfc26fcbea1a9fa5a5da0df9e437da703af48c
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 11:04 PM
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He loves his wife so much that he built a giant statue of her in his backyard. 🫶 https://preview.redd.it/4pbz10n8c8ee1.jpeg?width=995&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e3caa89471ad067def659062782251e3ab0f9d44
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 11:03 PM
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low IQ, high n count, shitty personality, single mother, certain mental illnesses
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 01:19 PM
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Q4W: Would you date a man who did this? https://preview.redd.it/8iloh7fve5ee1.jpeg?width=1179&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=57fca6e34d13d8686b8994edd67e859a3cc702db
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 01:13 PM
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Q4All: Is it possible for you to believe that someone who knew that someone could persuade them of an argument already believed the argument if you knew of someone who could convince you that the person didn’t really believe the argument even though they knew they would? а. No b. Only if you didn’t know of someone who could convince you that they did c. Only if you chose to. d. Only if (b) and (c) e. Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 01:04 PM
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Just send the newborn to prison too. Problem solved. https://preview.redd.it/zynil6pi4zce1.jpeg?width=612&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=792724b4db3a3eae005d8db0e08e9017ea2388f2
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 02:58 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 08:05 PM
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Oh… https://preview.redd.it/z0nxo9a4l0ce1.jpeg?width=1288&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b2ab07bee7d2c43f3f0a0fc0d44df1ebf327360f
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 06:49 PM
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Why would she date such an idiot and let him knock her up? https://preview.redd.it/6mj816pyk0ce1.jpeg?width=1295&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=4973a44275d5899f033b734a91eba2c3173567dc
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 06:49 PM
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Delete the account. Just to be safe. Also don’t make a new one and never come back to PPD. Just to be extra safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 06:48 PM
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Interesting. Is there a specific reason why that changed?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 11:30 PM
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Q4All: Do you like the smell of gasoline? I love it. If it wasn’t so toxic, I’d bathe in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 10:44 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:46 PM
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https://www.pnas.org/doi/full/10.1073/pnas.1904975116
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 02:36 PM
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Are there any flaws that you actually like and find attractive? Things like a tooth gap, stretch marks or acne scars.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 09:12 PM
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Kristen Stewart is ugly cute in just the right way. She looks so sickly and endearing. 🥰 <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 11:38 PM
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Do you think the theory of human self-domestication is true? https://preview.redd.it/onb53mvfal8e1.jpeg?width=1179&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=762b012820acba79a66cece10848276e4a727e60 https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Self-domestication
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 12:10 PM
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Do you just offer one condom in standard size or do you have a few different sizes? Using one that’s too tight or too loose kinda defeats the purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 05:07 PM
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How should it be debated? Pregnancy isn’t a symmetrical situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 05:03 PM
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yes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 04:40 PM
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I pity Americans 😖
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 03:05 PM
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Mine because I don’t live in America where apparently everyone is a fat retard
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 02:57 PM
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<image> cute girl next door vs post wall plastic hoe
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 02:55 PM
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The Institute of Family Studies wrote the article and made the graphic. It clearly says on the graphic and in the text that the source of the numbers is the General Social Survey 2022.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 04:42 PM
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Figure out wtf I’m doing This needs to be more specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 04:17 PM
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Every time single, childless women are discussed, someone brings up this stupid study by Paul Dolan. He was wrong. He misinterpreted the data. Please stop perpetuating this nonsense. Married women with children are the happiest, according to the General Social Survey 2022.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 03:04 PM
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The problem is the biased local reporting. I read a study that analyzed how different media outlets in the US and Europe reported about Trump. The one news channel from my country that was included in the study had a 99% negative tone. The people here are manipulated and misinformed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 09:29 PM
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In theory, yes. But in my country you could be forced to pay child support and the child has a right to know your identity.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 11:50 AM
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When people say this, they are talking about the pretty privilege of young attractive women. They enjoy preferential treatment by men and women. More average women still get some female privilege and benefits from the women are wonderful effect but I wouldn’t call that life on easy mode.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 01:47 PM
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Lame comment that I’ve heard a million times before. 🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 07:13 PM
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You know, I’d actually prefer talking to a dog over having this conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 02:10 PM
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That’s not the clever argument you think it is because I don’t talk to dogs.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 02:05 PM
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Interacting with a stupid person feels very slow and frustrating when you’re significantly more intelligent. If you find it fun, well ….
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 01:39 PM
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Not in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 01:33 PM
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What about viral shedding? I read studies that claimed most herpes infections happen through asymptomatic shedding.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 11:08 AM
1

They say that they value intelligence but they don’t. https://preview.redd.it/wt523mhix67e1.jpeg?width=1416&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=4e897360d6357bb8eeb8d7647f1843c5b34a87ce
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 10:49 AM
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If you were entitled to food, clean water and shelter, then you’d have the right to receive them. You could demand them and someone would have to give them to you. Food, clean water and shelter involve the labour of another person. You’d have to force these people to work for you. That’s called 'forced labour' and it’s a severe violation of human rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 07:06 PM
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I think she looks pretty good in this picture. Sure, I could still find a lot of stuff to nitpick about her but most other girls with very pretty faces were just too flat and rectangular.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 01:14 AM
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why?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 12:57 AM
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Yeah, but she would have to pay to compensate.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 10:29 PM
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yeah, men are the mean ones… <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 09:45 PM
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She has the female version of a dad bod in this picture. Good bone structure/proportions, a nice amount of muscle that gives her body a pleasant shape and a small layer of fat on top of it (more fat and she would lose her shape).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 09:37 PM
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If I am looking for pretty face and great body simultaneously, I have to compromise a bit, unfortunately. She’s like a 7.5 - 8. Charleen Weiss There are girls with stunning faces but they often have no tits, flat asses and are shaped like a box. If they have big tits, nice asses and flat bellies, then the face is often lacking. 😩
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 07:24 PM
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Hmm, that’s actually difficult. I have to think about this. She needs to have an insanely pretty face and a gorgeous body. That’s a rare combination. I’ll see if I can find one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 05:57 PM
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I’ve never seen someone I would consider a 10. Something is always missing or wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 05:46 PM
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Like I said before, kinda cute and fuckable but mid. https://x.com/caudillonuclear/status/1867280200662495480?s=46&t=5YRY17Mnl5U3uLYRu51fAQ
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 05:39 PM
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Reddit needs community notes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 04:14 PM
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Did she have any security with her in the room in case something goes wrong? Was she alone with each guy or were the other ones watching?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 04:12 PM
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They aren’t "average". These images were generated by averaging thousands of different face pictures. This eliminates small flaws and asymmetries which all people have. It makes the generated faces more attractive compared to a truly "average" face of a random person.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 08:48 PM
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Hello 👋.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 03:17 PM
1

He will but he won’t like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 09:45 PM
1

We would have known the truth if leftists hadn’t pushed for censorship of "offensive" facts that challenge their ideology. Leftists (& feminists) are intellectual terrorists.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 06:29 PM
1

Sadly true 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 05:41 PM
3

Certain parts of academia are filled to the brim with leftists…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 05:28 PM
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This is one of the many ways wokeism harms innocent people. The woke feminists would rather censor the truth to protect their ideology than expose the degenerates and save the girls. https://preview.redd.it/vpt3n1vpag6e1.jpeg?width=673&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=0ce9968b1b8c92ba6290432d4c9dc59f69d8be08
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 05:15 PM
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Q4M: Would you go on a second date with her or ghost her too? https://preview.redd.it/1hv380w8gf6e1.jpeg?width=766&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f7bcbbdeaa2531a7d88346ca49464aece37cf5ac
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 02:24 PM
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Go
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 08:27 PM
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https://i.redd.it/ikmgy0hepv5e1.gif
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 07:59 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/ei12y9g0pv5e1.jpeg?width=750&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e050cd25c11b392f6dfc275ae4b188ff4c17306f
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 07:57 PM
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7.5
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 07:51 PM
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6
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 07:50 PM
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https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s12119-015-9307-0 An extensive sexual history may deter individuals from committing to a potential romantic partner. However, the reasons for this deterrence may differ between men and women, such that women focus on practical concerns over suitability whereas men focus on reputation. Thus, individuals with extensive sexual histories, who are currently monogamous, should be more acceptable to women than they are to men. Two studies supported this hypothe…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 09:57 PM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 07:50 PM
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Women slut shame more than men. They use it as a tool to make other women less desirable. It’s called 'competitor derogation' and it’s very effective. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Female_intrasexual_competition It’s so effective that women will use physical violence to defend their sexual reputation. Usually, women express aggression only in verbal or social ways. If they resort to throwing punches, you know it’s serious. That’s how much sexual reputation, which n count is part of, really mat…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 05:35 PM
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But I know. My dad told me the secret when I was 13. Did your dad not tell you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 09:09 PM
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Sorry but I can’t reveal that secret to you. We men know how to identify the worthy n<0 women and if I spill the beans here publicly, then women will start lying and pretending to be n<0.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 07:45 PM
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n<0: marriageable n=0: relationshipable n=1: whore n>1: gigawhore
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 07:19 PM
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Which one would you wish he would choose?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 07:03 PM
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We should be more thankful for women. Without them, life on earth wouldn’t be what it is today. 🫶 https://preview.redd.it/2d5mm8jde75e1.jpeg?width=497&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=4a2c38ab171fd71a705adf2923e29e2c424d2000
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 10:15 AM
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Of course not 🫶
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 09:37 AM
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Lazy, messy and low IQ are dealbreakers. Porn and fast food aren’t great either. I’d be ok with the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 05:41 PM
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I would not. Would you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 05:21 PM
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That describes many disabled people too. Are they also undateable and undeserving of love?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 05:04 PM
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The hands thing is so funny. Once a woman asked me to send her pictures of my hands strangling a stuffed animal.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 10:07 AM
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Same. Her turbo autism makes her do and say some pretty wacky but interesting things. I like it when weird people are comfortable thinking outside the constraints of normal society.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 10:03 AM
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Nobody can escape their biology. AWALT. AMALT. https://preview.redd.it/vv9dcz98605e1.jpeg?width=1179&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e49e9093306aca7a1da612f96f56df2ab41db8de
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 09:57 AM
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I assumed the hollow cheeks came from a buccal fat removal but an eating disorder would make sense too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 09:47 AM
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How it often feels to debate people on PPD: https://preview.redd.it/dfksj6aw8u4e1.jpeg?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=8a5d2e2d550d8d4357aa25254e500e930ba8bd2d
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 02:01 PM
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stated preferences vs revealed preferences
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 11:41 AM
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A cardinal sin that should be punished by exile.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 10:17 PM
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https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S016517652200283X When education is in-person, attractive students receive higher grades in non-quantitative subjects, in which teachers tend to interact more with students compared to quantitative courses. This finding holds both for males and females. When instruction moved online during the COVID-19 pandemic, the grades of attractive female students deteriorated in non-quantitative subjects. However, the beauty premium persisted for males, sug…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 04:47 PM
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Imagine lucking out and marrying a young hot supermodel and then this bitch having the audacity to turn 40 and look like this. Men should be able to sue for damages in these cases. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 12:35 PM
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true 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 05:55 PM
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Bruh, she looks like an alien now. Ick
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 05:38 PM
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tragic when plastic surgery makes everything worse <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 05:30 PM
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I always thought it was laziness or a lack of care but some people truly seem not to notice it. I talked to several adults whose breath smelled like a small rodent died inside their mouth and is now decomposing right under their tongue. I normally don’t say anything but the one time I let someone know, they were genuinely surprised and claimed that they didn’t realize how bad they smelled.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 07:47 PM
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acceptable
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 05:17 PM
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Finally someone giving the correct answer 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 05:16 PM
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Q4W: Your boyfriend gives you this as an engagement ring. What’s your reaction? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 04:30 PM
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The peek behind the curtain wasn’t helpful but it does go beyond that. Social media has many harmful effects. Jonathan Haidt wrote some interesting books about. It amplifies extremist voices, divides people and wrecks the mental health of teenagers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 05:43 PM
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A bit of hyperbole for the dramatic effect lol. But yeah, they set us on a negative trajectory. COVID also threw a major wrench into the social development of the young generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 05:39 PM
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Social media ruined humankind. Dating apps gave it the death blow.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 03:36 PM
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Again, 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 03:04 PM
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yeah, most of her takes are very good. She’s by far the most knowledgeable about the red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 01:25 PM
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😘
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 01:22 PM
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It’s painfully ironic that the only people with a decent understanding of the red pill here are a handful of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 12:58 PM
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Why the quality of debates here has become utter trash - summarized in one screenshot. https://preview.redd.it/mjv40xct8g2e1.jpeg?width=1024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ba8b90e6808cc4d7e50ca3c6e91ae40f81b56fa8
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 12:47 PM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 12:20 PM
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We know quite well what makes a face attractive. It’s a combination of symmetry, sexual dimorphism, youthfulness and averageness. A higher degree of symmetry makes a face more attractive and people overwhelmingly choose mates with more symmetrical faces. The science here is very clear. The only exception is 100% perfect symmetry because it looks uncanny and not human.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 10:31 AM
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symmetry is a universal attractive physical attribute
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 07:45 PM
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*2 years
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:06 PM
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Yes, the declining number of available men contributes to the shrinking dating pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:25 PM
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Yeah, that’s the point. See the two charts above. 50 yo men don’t message 20 yo. They want them but they know that it wouldn’t be realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:05 PM
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You seem to misunderstand the chart. Here are two charts from the article. One for a 20 yo woman and one for a 50 yo woman. https://preview.redd.it/0qny3r0xqv1e1.jpeg?width=1940&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b9b2cbf88abff2c1f14065ab955218410d155f21
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:51 PM
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There was no chart for men in the article, unfortunately. The gist of it is that men have way less interest in women over 30. After 35, women almost stop existing in the eyes of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:37 PM
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The details are here: https://nationalpost.com/opinion/dataclysm-the-data-guru-for-a-popular-dating-site-explains-what-men-and-women-want-from-a-mate The chart basically shows how many men contact a woman depending on the age of the men. There are 7 example distributions of 7 differently aged women combined into one graph.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:24 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/hg5pf0g2hv1e1.jpeg?width=1940&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a34e10e4aec1156fe6f46b55d791a0c07c539760
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:56 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 10:33 AM
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You can think this is unfair and be mad about it all you want, but that doesn’t change reality. Here’s an analysis of the actual data regarding age and dating: https://nationalpost.com/opinion/dataclysm-the-data-guru-for-a-popular-dating-site-explains-what-men-and-women-want-from-a-mate Figure 3 makes a statement as stark as its own negative space. A woman’s at her best when she’s in her very early twenties. Period. And really my plot doesn’t show that strongly enough. The four highest-rated fem…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 10:19 AM
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Idk who needs to hear this but getting older doesn’t automatically make you any wiser. True wisdom can only be achieved through ruthless introspection and fearless extrospection. You have to let go of all preconceived notions. Pause and ponder. Ask yourself the most difficult questions. Like, why is a raven like a writing-desk? The answer is very simple. There’s a 'b' in both and an 'n' in neither.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:05 PM
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The most scientifically correct term for them would be "dry left over shriveled up pumpkins" but I figured "old women" would be more polite.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:04 PM
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25 is when the downfall begins. Those women still look decent enough to be useable for casual sex but they are already worthless for relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:05 AM
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Old women are expired because aging made them ugly and they are used. An old virgin isn’t used but still ugly. So, yes, still expired.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:34 AM
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Don’t nitpick my propaganda, woman! 😠
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 06:58 PM
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👋
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 06:50 PM
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Science: Hey women, date intelligent nerds. They are really committed to you and actually like you. 🫶 <image> Women: https://research.aalto.fi/en/publications/intelligence-can-be-detected-but-is-not-found-attractive-in-video Intelligence can be detected but is not found attractive in videos and live interactions Measured intelligence did not predict increased mate appeal
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 06:48 PM
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If I look at the discourse around abortion, it sure as hell feels like it. People talk about it like it’s no more serious than going to the dentist to get a cavity filled. And the statistics aren’t any better. Condom use decreased, STI rates are going up, 1 in 4 women will have an abortion and half of those women didn’t use any birth control option.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 02:34 PM
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No. I just don’t like how abortions are treated like some trivial thing nowadays. As I said in another comment, I’d prefer safe, legal and rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 02:13 PM
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The Guttmacher Institute estimates 1 in 4
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 01:24 PM
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I'd prefer it if people still had the Clinton approach to abortions (safe, legal and rare). About half of women who had an abortion did not use any birth control.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 01:23 PM
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You're correct. The vast majority of abortions happen in the first trimester and usually early too. It’s pretty easy when the fetus is still small because you don’t need to dismember it to get it through the cervix. As you said, you can take a pill or the surgical route would be moving it with a suction tube. Kinda like getting rid of a spider with a vacuum lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 01:13 PM
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https://catalog.nucleusmedicalmedia.com/ Founded in 1997, Nucleus Medical Media, Inc. is a leading publisher of online medical illustrations, medical animations, interactive media, and educational material for patient, consumer and professional education. Nucleus is a strong proponent of health science literacy, and uses its content and technology to provide medical visual information to students, educators, consumers and learning institutions all over the world. The company maintains a propriet…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 01:04 PM
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I noticed that most websites about abortion don’t offer many details about the actual procedure. All descriptions are usually very vague and kind of dehumanizing. For example, Planned Parenthood describes a 'dilation and evacuation' (standard surgical abortion method for second trimester fetus) as "the doctor or nurse will use a combination of medical tools to remove the pregnancy tissue out of your uterus". I thought it would be fun and educational to show you all how it’s actually done step by…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 12:51 PM
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avoidant / dismissive
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 08:29 PM
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Abstinence can also bring the number of pregnancies to near zero. no sex = no babies
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:59 PM
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The argument for vasectomies is usually that you can just get one when you’re young and then later when you want children you reverse it. That doesn’t work in many cases. A vasectomy can't be a substitute for birth control.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:52 PM
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because you often can’t reverse vasectomies
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:43 PM
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https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/37983511/ A minority of psychologists supported various punishments for scholars who reported taboo conclusions, including terminations, retractions, disinvitations, ostracism, refusing to publish their work regardless of its merits, and not hiring or promoting them. Compared to male psychologists, female psychologists were more supportive of punishments and less supportive of academic freedom, findings that have been replicated among female students and faculty
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 04:15 PM
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Sounds like one of my favorite philosophical quotes: "Life’s simple, you make choices and you don’t look back."
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 03:45 PM
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Mate choice copying. Women want men that other women want. Then they try to poach them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 03:07 PM
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The tendency to choose a mate who resembles yourself is called "positive assertive mating". The similarities can be many things like height, BMI, education, socioeconomic class, personality traits but also facial features. Here we present indirect evidence that in a significant proportion of human reproductive couples, the partners show much higher facial resemblances than can be expected by random pair formation […] https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/pdf/10.1177/147470490400200123
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 07:04 PM
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Can you intentionally produce sounds in your head? Like for example your favorite song or maybe the sound of your alarm clock that woke you up this morning. Can you recall those sounds from memory and 'listen' to them in your head?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 12:25 PM
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When you’re dreaming, are people in your dreams talking or is it more like a silent movie?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 08:12 AM
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And yet it works 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 09:23 AM
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Were you diagnosed early in life or later as an adult?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 08:54 PM
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So does that mean your brain isn’t less autistic now but you score subclinical on tests because you became very effective at masking/camouflaging?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 08:43 PM
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well …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 08:31 PM
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I got 82 on the CAT-Q https://embrace-autism.com/cat-q/#test
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 08:26 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/1ud4m11d17td1.jpeg?width=718&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=929ca3511ba496fc213fce45ac8a1c9e828d6cf9
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 08:12 PM
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https://embrace-autism.com/raads-r/#test
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 07:50 PM
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mid
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 08:35 PM
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INTJ
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 05:35 PM
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nah
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 01:18 PM
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Next 💁
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 09:13 AM
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There’s more than one reason. Men prefer promiscuous women for short term relationships but not for long term relationships. An evolved fear about paternity uncertainty is one of the reasons for that. Then you have to look at the act of penetrative sex itself. In principle, you have one active partner doing the penetration and one passive partner receiving it. The active partner has agency but the passive partner is more like an object that’s being used. An object gets dirtied when being used an…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 11:52 AM
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95% of reddit admin work is handled through bots. Yeah, I had comments removed where I knew it was just a bot getting triggered by a keyword. But I also learned that the admins do care in certain situations. Years ago, I filed a mod complaint against the head mod of a subreddit because she violated the moderator code of conduct and her sub rules were incompatible with Reddit rules. They removed her as a mod and permanently banned her account from Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 04:59 PM
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Subreddit rules do not supersede Reddit rules. Blocking for any reason means any reason. Did the admins give you a green light to handle blocking the way you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 04:41 PM
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This might violate Reddit's rules. Their help site on blocking says that you can block users for any reason. 'Abusing the block function' or 'frivolous blocking' aren’t a thing and I doubt that the mods could enforce that. I remember that someone commented about this in the daily chat not long ago. She asked the admins and they told her that mods are not allowed to force you to unblock someone and that the entire sub could be shut down if the try to enforce that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 04:16 PM
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Feminism
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 03:54 PM
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Pretty simple stuff. Shouldn’t be too hard to find someone like that. But, surely, you must have at least some frivolous preferences after reading so many romance novels! 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 11:44 PM
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https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4460604/ Of the 190 couples in the study, 15 (7.9%) dissolved their relationships during the first 5 years of adoptive parenthood. Specifically, 7 of 57 lesbian couples (12.3%), 1 of 49 gay male couples (2.0%), and 7 of 84 heterosexual couples (8.3%) dissolved their unions.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 04:12 PM
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skill issue /s But 3 good pictures is actually fine. One of my favorite photographers, Richard Kalvar, once said that he only gets one or two good photographs a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 09:05 PM
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Cinderella in 2024 https://preview.redd.it/70ikr4w73erd1.jpeg?width=822&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ced2a8facc40de4f686481566bfd8cfbb8252162
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 05:47 PM
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oh, that’s dangerous. no Hannah presentation reveal then.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 11:25 PM
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But we can judge help you!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 11:15 PM
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Post the recording in the daily chat!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 11:05 PM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 04:41 PM
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Same 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:17 PM
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It would literally save all our problems if they just ate each other. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 03:04 PM
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Q4All: How much are you willing to trust? What are some examples where trust wouldn’t be enough and you’d need to verify?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 03:01 PM
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It’s a funny quirk that exists because multiplication is commutative. 6 = 2 3 = 3 2 Adding 2 groups of 3 items and adding 3 groups of 2 items gives you the same result. So I f you use division as the inverse operation to split the 6 up into its components again, you get two ways to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 09:55 PM
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My teachers kinda flip-flopped between both concepts. It really annoyed me because it seemed so random and I like things to be logical. I‘m currently re-visiting a lot of basic math stuff because I started teaching maths to my sister. She struggles a lot with it and her teachers aren’t great at explaining it. I basically have to come up with easy explanations using examples, analogies and sketches for her to get it. But it looks like my system is working. She used to get Ds and Fs in tests but n…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 09:30 PM
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Q4All: How were you taught to think about division in school? Were you taught to see it as a quotition, a partition or both? Let’s say you have 6/2 =3 Quotition: How many groups of 2 items fit into 6? It’s 3 groups of 2 items. Partition: Divide 6 into 2 groups of equal size. Each group has 3 items in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 09:02 PM
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The professor sounds like a bully and a bad teacher. Constantly picking on that poor girl and intentionally causing her distress sounds very cruel. On the other hand, this almost sounds like exposure therapy. Did it at least help her a little bit? Also, did it lessen your anxiety?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 07:52 PM
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https://i.redd.it/glnrpqwpmpqd1.gif
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 07:32 AM
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I'm sure you all know this meme. https://preview.redd.it/lfynhjfznjqd1.jpeg?width=1179&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=67bfb5805dd24d8c21a83e197b5e975711a5df2e But did you also know that the original version had a third panel? This last panel changes everything and explains the true meaning of this meme! https://streamable.com/t2pumx
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 11:30 AM
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Epidemiological studies provide overwhelming evidence that above a BMI of 20–21, a strong and linear association exists between BMI and the risk of developing type 2 diabetes, hypertension, CVD, cholelitiasis, and other chronic diseases in both men and women https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4032609/
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 02:51 PM
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Someone got their heart broken by an older man 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 01:36 PM
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That’s even worse!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:39 PM
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That’s racist! >:(
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:37 PM
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I read some interesting piece of research the other day about love. We actually know quite a lot about the neurochemistry of love in its various forms and stages. You can basically shove people into fMRIs and watch love happen inside their brains. It’s fascinating. Anyways, they had a few couples in their study who had been together for decades and their brains showed exactly the same activity as people who just fell in love recently. Their love for each other remained as deep and intense as it …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:11 PM
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Wow, more proof that women don’t care about personality. All you need to do is look like a Chadybara!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 02:55 PM
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Yes, that’s a capy! A very gentlemanly one, too. Maybe a little shy and doesn’t have the greatest self-esteem, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 02:39 PM
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Q4W: Would you still hate me if I looked like this? https://preview.redd.it/ya1npjuma6qd1.jpeg?width=1024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=65e9e0a9ded347b87f6174b6ab95b664f86bfffa
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 02:30 PM
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I keep a note on my phone with possible crush candidates and narrowed it down to 3 possible options.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 08:31 PM
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https://match.mediaroom.com/2013-02-05-Singles-in-America-Match-com-Releases-Third-Annual-Comprehensive-Study-on-the-Single-Population This is the result of research from biological anthropologist Dr. Helen Fisher. She’s a professor at Rutgers University and the chief scientific advisor and consultant for Match.com […] 42% of singles would not date a virgin (33% of men and 51% of women); […] Older singles care just as much about sex as younger singles. When asked what would make them happier, 30…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 09:17 AM
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https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Female_intrasexual_competition Read the section: competitor derogation > slut shaming Researchers presented both sexes with a list of tactics that are often employed by individuals to derogate same-sex competitors in an attempt to make them look undesirable to the opposite sex. […] Results revealed that tactics that pointed out a competitor’s promiscuity were used by females more frequently than males. These involved „calling her a tramp“, „telling everyone that s…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 06:36 PM
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Q4M: <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 06:09 PM
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<image> Dua Lipa is a pretty average looking woman. Weird nose and mouth area. I’d give her a 5.5.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 09:08 PM
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In 20 years I’ll be in my 50s. I’ll have grey hair, wrinkles and will be a grumpy misanthrope.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 04:18 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 04:14 PM
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sad tits <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:25 PM
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do a boob reveal instead
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:15 PM
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My daughter would be an adult and would be making her own decisions. I’m not allowing or forbidding her anything. I would try to keep a close relationship with her and offer her my advice. I would also encourage her to think critically. The rest is up to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:13 PM
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Understandable. I’ve always been kinda curious but wouldn’t try most drugs. Not worth the risk. The only stuff I took for a while were benzos. Ngl, they were 👌. However, psychedelics are definitely on my bucket list. They also might be spectacular in a therapeutic context from what I read about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 10:11 PM
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I’d advise a fun treatment with psychedelics https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC10561985/
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 10:02 PM
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It could be a deliberate tactic. Some women have a thing for nurturing broken men. But I think it’s more likely that you look and behave in a very gentle, nurturing and empathetic way. That attracts these kind of men. You’ll just have to get used to rejecting them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 06:26 PM
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3x mid
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 05:57 PM
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Those who produce large gametes will always be naturally picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 05:54 PM
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Why the hell every guy who asks me out starts off with a long ahh emotional backstory about how lonely he is? I fall for it every single time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 05:46 PM
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The AI knows about secretly evil Hannah! 🙀
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 02:34 PM
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Look at how wholesome I am, bitches. 😇 <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 01:46 PM
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I’d love to! 💐
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 01:36 PM
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No, that would be a dealbreaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 11:08 AM
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You should play 'one truth and two lies (crush edition)'. Name 3 people where one is the crush and the other two aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 12:03 AM
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Taking care of the kids isn’t a problem. It’s actually very sweet and a green flag. The problem here is that the kids will love her and will try to her back together with her ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 07:58 PM
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It’s not fair that only women get weird dms. I want them too. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:58 PM
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Ugh… https://preview.redd.it/w0qw8knsazld1.jpeg?width=1356&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=5c4a3cf8d9db659785083324e2f2a2ba35c27843
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:42 AM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 04:54 PM
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<image> higher household income = less children
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 03:33 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/is3kxyb6dsld1.jpeg?width=1179&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=5fad04225ca2533ca7a4643121afaa7d150753e4
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 11:23 AM
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6.5
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 09:24 AM
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mid
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 09:20 AM
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Did you „convert“ her, or is she settling for you? Hard to say. Bisexual women often settle down with men. It’s easier when you want to have children and you won’t have to deal with any social stigma. I’d say it’s a red flag. Also, would you marry her? I don’t have any visceral disgust about FF sex like I do with MF sex. So that wouldn’t bother me at all. But promiscuous people are risky partners according to the statistics. Probably wouldn’t marry her.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 06:54 PM
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https://www.nature.com/articles/s41598-023-47747-9
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 06:23 PM
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The source is the 2022 General Social Survey.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 05:07 PM
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One 'female' poster here might a fed. Someone dug up and old comment of 'her' from a different sub where 'she' talks about her job.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 04:08 PM
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Married mothers are the happiest. https://ifstudies.org/blog/who-is-happiest-married-mothers-and-fathers-per-the-latest-general-social-survey
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 03:51 PM
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I’ll give you an example that shows how wrong the feminist logic is. You brought up some statistics that showed STEM students are overwhelmingly male. The logic was: If you assume men and women are equal, you would expect an equal outcome with regards to the amount of male and female STEM students. If there’s not an equal outcome, then that must be proof that the system is unfair and discriminates against the underrepresented group. A rigged system that discriminates against women is a patriarch…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 10:20 PM
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According to the feminist definition, patriarchy is not a neutral term. They specifically call it an unjust system that actively disadvantages women. An Islamic country that doesn’t allow girls to go school? That’s a patriarchy. A western country where more CEOs happen to be men? Not a patriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 06:37 PM
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If 'patriarchy' simply described a system where a disproportionate amount of men happen to be in positions of power, you’d be correct. That’s just a statistical phenomenon and the consequences of biological differences between men and women. But then you have this here. This is what feminists call patriarchy and it’s just plain wrong. Most forms of feminism characterize patriarchy as a present-day unjust social system that subordinates, discriminates, or is oppressive to women. https://www.simpl…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 06:14 PM
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a system of society or government in which men hold the power and women are largely excluded from it. Women are not excluded from positions of power. They tend to be more agreeable, less competitive, less aggressive, less status seeking, more risk averse, more interested in children and family. That’s why there are less of them in positions of power. They either choose not to go for those positions or lose against the men competing for the same positions.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 05:03 PM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:36 PM
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5.5
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:04 PM
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🤣 that’s so accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 12:49 PM
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Tell me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 12:31 PM
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Bruh…. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 12:29 PM
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Leaning more high or low trust?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:52 PM
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Q4W: Are you more attracted to high or low trust facial features? https://preview.redd.it/z1h1j0myb9ld1.jpeg?width=2048&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=0dbd4beac49738898eff5ff038a922119bf0d621
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:22 PM
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I’ll continue to date her. I will offer her commitment, treat her well and talk a lot about our future together. Then I’ll slowly withdraw emotionally. The sex will become increasingly degrading. Occasionally, I’ll be really mean to her but then sweet again. Next, I’ll start openly flirting with other women. When she’s upset about it and starts to complain, I’ll gaslight her and tell her that we’re only having a FWB thing and that it’s been like this from beginning.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:30 PM
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That’s just dark humor. Women like that too. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Black_comedy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 12:59 PM
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I‘m well aware of the content of this study. Most people are under the false impression that their metabolism noticeably slows down during their 30s, 40s and 50s. I linked it because I think the findings are interesting and relevant to the topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 09:37 PM
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https://www.health.harvard.edu/blog/surprising-findings-about-metabolism-and-age-202110082613
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 09:04 PM
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They will sooner or later find out that you are in fact not an exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 01:10 PM
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lol insecurity, anxiety and a lack of confidence due to being short are the direct result of women rejecting and mistreating short men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 11:03 AM
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basically…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 09:38 AM
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That was my fav comment in this thread: 'That one guy spends too much time online where women pretend to be good people.'
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 09:06 AM
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I grew up with 3 younger sisters and strongly associate small hands with children. I do not want such hands anywhere near me in a romantic context.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 08:58 AM
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All feminists do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 03:24 PM
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There is no significant wage gap. These women are misandrist idiots who don’t understand statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 02:17 PM
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Generic plastic surgery insta hoe look. 6
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 01:55 PM
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He is right, though. Pussy and looks are the only coins women have. Better keep both in pristine condition.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 10:47 AM
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A 7 like young Adriana Lima is the minimum I would consider for a relationship. Below that and I’m not interested 🙂‍↔️. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 10:41 AM
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looks: - ugly face - wide shoulders and narrow hips - hairy - saggy tits - stretch marks - ugly tattoos and piercings - thin hair - bad teeth - bad skin - has large moles - flabby (no muscles) - long nails - small hands - outie belly button - varicose veins - pale skin - dark skin - large scars - bad posture - old looking - disabled personality: - dumb - disagreeable - lazy - aggressive - entitled - vapid - loud - promiscuous - negative - nagging - impatient - materialistic - selfish - not empat…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 10:04 PM
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I would friendzone her 🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 08:10 PM
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Monica Bellucci was a cute woman. I’d give her a high mid rating. <image> Never found her attractive tho. Maybe it’s because she looks exactly like my great grandmother.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 07:21 PM
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I have two ex-wives and a GF but I’m not presently married. I must confuse you with someone else. Could have sworn you announced your third marriage in the daily chat some time ago. Strengthened market position helps even guys who are in relationships and not looking. It makes it less likely that their women will leave. Well that’s true
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 03:33 PM
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The large language models have become insanely good. On the one hand, you can have really safe conversations with 'someone'. You can practice your verbal social skills. You can learn a lot without having to do the searching and researching yourself. It’s also a convenient alternative for lonely people, especially for disabled or elderly ones. I even think AI will largely replace therapists in a few years. https://medium.com/@creatix/will-ai-replace-human-psychologists-and-therapists-you-bet-df2c…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 03:29 PM
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I’m a very liberal guy so this will strengthen my market position. Didn’t you get married recently? Do you expect to be on the market again in the future?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 03:18 PM
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Q4W: If your boyfriend/husband asked you to dress like this for a Halloween party, would you? https://preview.redd.it/ga0d18lqhlkd1.jpeg?width=813&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f1f8162828aea51232f3dea928ad4e905fb1c621
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 11:12 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 10:29 AM
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yes
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 08:17 AM
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They don’t understand that an exception does not disprove a 'rule'. "On average, women want to date men who are taller than them." "But my aunt is taller than my uncle!" https://preview.redd.it/fx91mqp1ygkd1.jpeg?width=507&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=0431d8eab961054c748846d86d06567ff3329209
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 07:55 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/j470x4oougkd1.jpeg?width=1783&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a20f2262e308304f37aecc56bd9c8ea8b4a86442
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 07:35 PM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 06:31 PM
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The idea that testosterone simply increases aggression is likely outdated. There’s evidence that it drives behavior to attain and retain high social status. It depends on the environment if pro-social or anti-social behavior gets you status. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5068300/ https://ai.hubermanlab.com/s/ZFhmkBtI
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:14 PM
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I wonder if the things he noticed will be similar to this: https://www.gottman.com/blog/the-6-things-that-predict-divorce/
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 12:51 PM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 10:04 AM
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I hate apologizing. I only do it if I made a severe mistake or hurt someone I care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 11:50 PM
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The sample was 80 men recruited through a newspaper ad. Not representative. https://www.mhamic.org/sources/halletal.htm
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 01:09 PM
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tree fiddy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:57 PM
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This is the bare minimum https://preview.redd.it/ij4b0qbcq7kd1.jpeg?width=700&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=15018f2e99ff11fe6fc31cb8696ef44c6606574c
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:55 PM
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It is. https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0005789405800395
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:51 PM
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Yes! She’s still looking for that special guy who will make her his favorite bangmaid.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:42 PM
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Q4W: This woman is looking for a husband. She’s traditional, submissive, sweet, friendly, fit and feminine. A virgin too! All she wants is to be a SAHM who’s taking lovingly care of her husband and children. She works with your boyfriend/husband and recently started to spend a lot of time with him. She gives him plenty of compliments and sometimes even small gifts. Are you worried that she’s trying to poach him? Are you worried that he’s going to leave you? What will you do to keep your man? htt…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:20 PM
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Women are oppressed in many third world countries but not in the west. Believing that any woman in a western country experiences 'cruel and unjust treatment' is an absurd fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 11:24 PM
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That’s Embla Matilde Njerve. She’s very pretty and very 17 yo.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 07:58 PM
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https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4892674/ A number of studies have examined the role of body size and shape in determining the apparent health and attractiveness of bodies [6–8]. These studies have found that a low waist to hip ratio (WHR) of approximately 0.7 [9] and a low Body Mass Index (BMI; weight scaled for height) of approximately 18–19 kg/m2 [10] are perceived as most attractive in female bodies
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 03:57 PM
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2020
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 02:59 PM
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Q4W: What would you do if your son was at home, crying all alone on the bedroom floor because he’s hungry and the only way to feed him is to sleep with a man for a little bit of money?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 02:57 PM
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Context?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 04:24 PM
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feminism
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 04:08 PM
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Sydney Sweeney gets called mid because she is mid. Her tits are the entire reason why she’s popular. https://preview.redd.it/vdg3ofow8ujd1.jpeg?width=1179&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ef9dbf409078ea29551653b87487be1de3189bee
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 03:35 PM
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https://i.redd.it/er8whqqkssjd1.gif
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:41 AM
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No, she looks mid. Thought the mirrored images would help you see the very noticeable asymmetries.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:26 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/ka9psaxbmsjd1.jpeg?width=769&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=85386d2bac48e9bd8b8698258b222dc6e2499f17
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:06 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/4lxhm7mamsjd1.jpeg?width=769&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=2f4dcf76a1cf10b27c90688aa79a2da0e1df2211
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:06 AM
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mid
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 08:31 AM
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If you divide sex into its physical and mental components, then having duty sex can still satisfy the physical part. It’s a bit like having casual sex. You selfishly prioritize your own pleasure and basically use another person’s body to masturbate because it feels better.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 10:30 PM
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sure sure, a completely random question 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 08:03 PM
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Only if I find them attractive. I’m not touching someone I find unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 05:54 PM
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ungrateful >:[
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 05:45 PM
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Oh, good angles and sucking her belly in for photos would make this way less noticeable. Good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 04:05 PM
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I feel like I am being gaslit here 😭 The amount of fat that she has in her lower abdominal region is nowhere near that of the picture
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 03:57 PM
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Is that her? Idk, doesn’t look so bad to me. She has some subcutaneous fat on her belly but not that much. Maybe she has some anterior pelvic tilt going on. That would make her belly look like it’s sticking out.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 03:22 PM
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Really? To me, it doesn’t look like a distended gut when she turns sideways at the end of the video.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 03:04 PM
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'Fat' is usually used to describe someone when they have excessive amounts of body fat that make their body shape look bad. A woman with a big gut would be described as 'fat'. A woman with the same amount of excessive fat mass but storing it in her boobs, ass and thighs and having a flat belly wouldn’t be described as 'fat'. She might be overweight in medical terms but many people wouldn’t describe her as fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 10:37 AM
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"What do you get when you make somebody else’s partner your own? An analysis of relationships formed via mate poaching" https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0092656614000750 […] men and women sometimes “poach” mates from others. Mate poaching describes attempts by individuals to romantically attract persons already involved in relationships (Davies et al., 2007, Schmitt and Buss, 2001). About 75% of North American men and women report that someone has at some point attempted to…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 10:03 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/5dajibdjnhjd1.jpeg?width=1179&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a4d59d0a98a892db58d4bed829d2ca567148ce77 I got the same tweet in my timeline
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 09:13 PM
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if the younger one is better, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 07:23 PM
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I don’t want to date my mom lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 07:17 PM
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Is there really no woman over 30 who is worthy to you? No. Is there no women over 30 who are pretty, not jaded and don’t have kids? Also no. The age turns you off? Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 07:10 PM
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yes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 05:02 PM
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You do realize that we can see your post history, right? Why don’t you just ask straight away what you really want to know?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 04:59 PM
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I like this classic from Alan Watts. Wish it was true. So then, let’s suppose that you were able every night to dream any dream that you wanted to dream, and that you could, for example, have the power within one night to dream 75 years of time, or any length of time you wanted to have. And you would, naturally as you began on this adventure of dreams, you would fulfill all your wishes. You would have every kind of pleasure you could conceive. And after several nights, of 75 years of total pleas…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 04:50 PM
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That was really interesting and very well written. It must be incredibly lonely and painful growing up feeling like you don’t really belong anywhere and can’t even tell someone about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 07:36 PM
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That is very weird and icky. The only daughter a dad should propose to is his stepdaughter.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 01:48 PM
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I edited my comment above. There’s the full PDF of the study for you to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 11:13 AM
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What do you mean? Does the link not work for you? The study is called: "Showing Skin: Tattoo Visibility Status, Egalitarianism, and Personality are Predictors of Sexual Openness Among Women" Edit: https://www.researchgate.net/publication/340568179_Showing_Skin_Tattoo_Visibility_Status_Egalitarianism_and_Personality_are_Predictors_of_Sexual_Openness_Among_Women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 11:06 AM
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Women with tattoos reported greater willingness to engage in uncommitted sexual relations, as well as higher endorsement of egalitarianism and sensation-seeking, relative to non-tattooed women. https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s12119-020-09729-1#:~:text=Feminist%20theorists%20suggest%20that%20women,samples%20as%20stronger%20and%20more
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 10:12 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/kzezlvi2w6jd1.jpeg?width=1940&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=15f85cf4d85da6fe642d2a73ec6af660da84e6ff
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 09:01 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 08:14 AM
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What did you say?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 06:46 PM
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mid 🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 05:20 PM
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Anything else you like that we can ruin for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 05:49 PM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 05:43 PM
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BMI in the middle of the overweight range
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 05:24 PM
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Q4M: Would you rather date a skinny girl with small tits or an overweight girl with big tits?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 05:19 PM
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you should invest it all in crypto
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 05:18 PM
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The problem is hypocritical feminists not practicing what they preach.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 01:56 PM
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unironically yes
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 01:50 PM
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Most studies I read came to the conclusion that attractive people are more likely to get hired and earn higher salaries. I suspect the difference here is the competitive work environment and that they’re asking for a promotion. I guess their colleagues and superiors might feel threatened by them and try to keep them down.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 01:50 PM
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I would think so. Seems people prefer the benefits they get from it and are ok with the negative stereotypes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 12:36 PM
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Women prefer benevolent sexist men over men who see them as equals. https://bigthink.com/sex-relationships/study-finds-heterosexual-women-prefer-benevolently-sexist-men/ Relationships have always been transactional and will always be.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 08:57 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/a73szza9hsid1.jpeg?width=1230&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=931524a43ae20fb6cfc6b147a6ea1b046e8f6224 1970: 60% of degrees earned by men Feminists: 😡 That’s not fair. Discriminate against men to make it equal! 2021-22: 61% of degrees earned by women Feminists: 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 08:36 AM
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Really? I never watched Friends or Seinfeld. I did watch a few seasons of HIMYM but don’t remember an episode like that. I guess it’s a pretty obvious joke idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 07:22 PM
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Theoretically, if he was below average, you’d be ok with him doing it? He wouldn’t be lying then.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 07:09 PM
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Like every other actor. I don’t understand what’s the problem here. Do people think all actors in commercials are real and telling the truth?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 06:32 PM
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It’s an advertisement and he’s playing a role. He also wouldn’t use his real name.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 06:27 PM
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Q4W: Your boyfriend/husband has really exciting news! The cousin of a coworker works at an advertising company and they are searching for someone to appear in an ad. The coworker offered your boyfriend/husband the role. It would pay really well. About twice his yearly salary. Your boyfriend/husband would appear in a short video clip that would be aired during this year's Super Bowl. The caveat: the ad would be from a men’s rights advocacy group trying to fight male body shaming. Here’s what your…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 06:02 PM
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https://www.amica-international.co.uk/dishwashers/how-to-use-a-dishwasher-correctly
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 04:02 PM
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Q4W: You just gave birth to your first child. Congratulations! It’s a beautiful, healthy (whatever BMI babies typically have) baby girl named Alex. Your friends and family visit you in the hospital to see you and little Alex. One of the visitors is an old high school friend of your boyfriend/husband. She’s back home after living abroad for some years. In a quiet moment, she takes you aside and asks you if you don’t find it weird to name your child after your boyfriend/husband's high school girlf…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 03:16 PM
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how bourgeois of him 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 09:04 PM
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"Love Dick Forever" on his shoulder? That better?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 08:54 PM
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And here I thought someone actually cared about me. For the first time in my life 😢
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 08:52 PM
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Q4W: Your boyfriend/husband had a younger brother named Richard who recently died of cancer. Richard worked as a tattoo artist. It was his dream job and a huge part of his identity. Your boyfriend/husband loved his brother very much and wants to do something to honor his life. He wants to get his brother's nickname D I C K tattooed on the knuckles of his right hand. Are you supportive of your boyfriend/husband or would you try to talk him out of doing it?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 08:49 PM
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😒 <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 08:25 PM
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House for both
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 08:18 PM
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Why B but not A?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 07:01 PM
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If he was comfortable with it, would you also be comfortable with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 06:48 PM
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I assume it still would be a fuck no if it was close friend instead of a colleague?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 06:39 PM
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I edited the question for clarity. It’s part 2 of an earlier question. The colleague wants to cuddle with your boyfriend/husband and sleep in the same bed. Your boyfriend/husband calls you and tells you this. The question was what you would respond.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 06:31 PM
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Q4W: Same scenario as before. Work trip. Colleague gets dumped. Wants to cuddle and have a sleepover with your boyfriend/husband. But this time the colleague is: A: a lesbian who was dumped by her girlfriend B: a gay man who was dumped by his boyfriend Does you answer change in these cases?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 06:24 PM
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Q4W: Your boyfriend/husband is on a work trip and is accompanied by a female colleague. Late in the evening, the boyfriend of the female colleague breaks up with her over text. She’s devastated and asks your boyfriend/husband if she can stay in his hotel room with him. She can’t be alone now and needs someone to hold and cuddle her. She also wants to sleep in his bed with him. Your boyfriend/husband calls you, tells you the whole story and asks you what he should do. What do you tell him?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 05:25 PM
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+
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 05:00 PM
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Yep, had therapy to treat depression for a few years. Didn’t help much.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 03:26 PM
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Then I’d do it in a heartbeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 01:49 PM
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How would that guarantee look like? Will we never be divorced because it’s a happy, healthy marriage or are we just not allowed to get a divorce?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 01:15 PM
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That’s a good point. I’ve seen journalists misinterpret data plenty of times. Hard to say if they’re intentionally doing this to push an agenda or if they are just ignorant about statistics. The graphic seems to be from here: https://www.oecdbetterlifeindex.org/topics/safety/#:~:text=EU%20data%20based%20on%20police,the%20area%20where%20they%20live. They cite the Gallup World Poll as the source but the link to the poll is dead. Suspicious…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 01:06 PM
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That was my first instinct too. But in this case, they would have a very skewed sample. I looked up the population distribution and, apparently, it’s 80% of people living in urban areas and just 20% in rural areas. (lol 80/20 rule) https://www.census.gov/newsroom/press-releases/2022/urban-rural-populations.html
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 12:37 PM
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Not being able to insert a tampon definitely sounds like vaginismus. Good thing is that the treatment has a really high success rate. Pain-free sexual intercourse occurred in 85 (93.4%) of 91 primary-vaginismus patients included in our study. The success rate was 100% in grade 1, 95.2% in grade 2, 92.1% in grade 3, and 92% in grade 4. https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S2050116121000878
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 11:07 AM
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So around 65% of women in the US do feel safe walking alone at night? That’s a much higher number than I would have expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 09:44 AM
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To me, she’s only gf material if she’s racist and misogynistic. Shared hobbies are very important ☝️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 10:39 PM
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Fucking gynocentric daily thread. This is why women shouldn’t be allowed to up/down vote!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 08:49 PM
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Benzos are pretty awesome. I felt fantastic while taking them. A shame that they can be so addictive. Nice paper too. Was an interesting read.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 08:48 PM
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I blame feminism for this >:[
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 08:41 PM
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Can I at least be entitled to having a nice Monday?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 08:10 PM
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Really makes you think what wrong opinions we have now.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 06:46 PM
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I‘m interested
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 06:43 PM
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32
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 04:41 PM
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That can actually work. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/26068893/
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 04:37 PM
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So what you’re saying is that all women hate all men?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 03:26 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/h589jvrfy8id1.jpeg?width=1179&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=fda030a401a3ce3e0334d07bd59332f74d287fa5
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 02:54 PM
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Who decides who wins sexiest man in Britain?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 11:06 AM
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Contextual sexual desire is when the circumstances and environment impact the ability to feel sexual desire. Think about what it’s like to drum up desire when your kids are in the next room, you feel stressed out by financial burdens, or you just ate a huge steak dinner. Sex may not be the first thing on your mind. Nagoski notes most people, regardless of gender, fall within a blend of responsive and contextual desire, but for some, desire can feel spontaneous. They simply may not be aware of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 06:44 AM
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If the percentages in Nagoski‘s book 'Come As You Are' are correct, then it would be normal. She claimed that only 15% of women experience spontaneous arousal. The rest primarily experiences responsive and/or contextual sexual desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 12:24 AM
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Like this? https://preview.redd.it/v8tq4zjx64id1.jpeg?width=894&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=69fc7dc0490db631fb6d476ee514cb44372c39f4
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 10:53 PM
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Do you agree that a wireless mouse should be called a hamster? Seems logical to me. 🧐
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 10:30 PM
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how do you reconcile the fact women only give attention to you when only you have certain traits? with great bitterness :)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 04:25 PM
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much better 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 02:53 PM
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<image> Children are hilarious sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 02:51 PM
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Deal!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 12:45 AM
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Q4All: If you had to be handcuffed to a PPD user (of the opposite sex) for one week, who would you pick?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 09:40 PM
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<image> Ana de Armas is a very plain looking, average woman. Cute but a boring dime in a dozen. That’s the kind of woman you can settle for because you won’t feel bad about it. Not awesome but good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 05:47 PM
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If anyone ever had the nerve to call me 'boyfriend/husband' material, I’d kick them in the shin and piss on their pet.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 02:18 PM
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I might be misremembering, but I think the 'husband material' topic has been discussed here before. Might have been a few years ago. It was discussed so much that the mods had put a temp ban on the topic back then. We’ve explained women ad nauseam why it’s an insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 01:51 PM
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How about one from 2015? That better? https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0191886915001002
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 11:13 PM
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Would you prefer one from 2012? Same result. https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S1090513811000250
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 11:10 PM
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Actually, I already knew about the form of the clitoris because I used to read a lot about female anatomy. But where’s the connection to the paper I linked?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 11:05 PM
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They do pee out of their vaginas! Stop gaslighting us! 😡
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 07:02 PM
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https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/26193479/ Female coital orgasm may be an adaptation for preferentially retaining the sperm of males with „good genes.“ One indicator of good genes may be physical attractiveness. Accordingly, R. Thornhill, S. W. Gangestad, and R. Comer (1995) found that women mated to more attractive men reported an orgasm during a greater proportion of copulations than did women mated to less attractive men. Results support the hypothesis that women mated to more attractive men a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 06:59 PM
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Cute couple. Are you the one that looks thirsty or the other one that looks kinda confused and scared?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 05:03 PM
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low mid
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 05:00 PM
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Only way to be sure is by posting a picture of you and 'him' 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 04:55 PM
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It’s an insult because the 'full package' doesn’t really exist in reality. Every person has a mix of stereotypical masculine and feminine traits. Masculine traits are sexually attractive to women. Feminine traits are relationship attractive to women. The problem is that masculine and feminine traits are often opposites and you can’t really have both at the same time. Women are forced to compromise when they pick a partner to create a family. They have to choose someone with enough feminine trait…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 12:08 PM
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I’d rather change my name and move to Antarctica.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 08:15 PM
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very true 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 05:35 PM
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Do you believe in the bluepill? Are you still searching for a nice summer vacation spot? Look no further, I have the perfect place for you! <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 05:15 PM
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Most people here aren’t who they claim to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 07:26 PM
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What you say isn’t wrong but you’re missing the point. Bringing up past mistakes, weaponizing them and using them against someone is a tactic used by the left. They don’t care about the sincerity of apologies. They don’t even care about the apologies in the first place. It’s a strategy to destroy your opponent while looking like you have the moral high ground. Now the conservatives are using this tactic too and the hypocritical cry bullies on the left are upset about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 07:10 PM
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Kevin Hart was selected to host the Oscars in 2018. Suddenly some of his 10 year old jokes resurfaced. Leftists called them homophobic and demanded that he should be dropped as the host. He publicly apologized and said that he wouldn’t tell jokes like this anymore today. It was a different time back then. Didn’t matter. They continued to viciously attack him until he stepped down. Leftists are hypocrites.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 05:49 PM
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No, it isn’t different. It’s the same principle. They are judging people today based on things they did or said in the past. They’ve done similar things to comedians who made jokes a decade ago that the regressive leftists now declared offensive. Wanting to forgive and forget only when it benefits your own team is hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 04:24 PM
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So? The retarded leftists demanded statues of the founding fathers to be torn down because the had slaves. That was well over hundred years ago. Didn’t seem to matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 04:04 PM
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I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 04:01 PM
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Not everyone has an inner monologue. About 5-10% of people don’t. https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2024/05/240514141317.htm I wonder what meditation would feel like to them. Are they in a permanent 'quiet' mental state? Interesting stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 01:45 PM
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What’s stopping you from doing that now?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 09:30 PM
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What would you guess? 😑
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 09:29 PM
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Such as?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 08:10 PM
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I don’t know why everyone hates women's sports. I really enjoy watching it. https://preview.redd.it/dvijvcr483hd1.jpeg?width=849&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=58174a2e76bed63eb3c7bd711c6e2fb72772fc8c
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 06:35 PM
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What women think when they see an unattractive man minding his business. https://preview.redd.it/pot5xu8og2hd1.jpeg?width=465&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=d04bf7f821f0df61c08c7b231fc4b0be11f360a5
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 04:00 PM
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Bonus question for the women: If your man becomes icky and disgusting when another man has sex with him, do you become icky and disgusting in the eyes of other men when your man has sex with you? 🧐
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 03:57 PM
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relatable
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 02:57 PM
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Doesn’t surprise me at all. The downvotes on my comment also don’t surprise me either.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 01:00 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/lwvnr4qoj1hd1.jpeg?width=3240&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f09c78e5d3a638c9a2ad91efc3c1da972b0d6c54
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 12:55 PM
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mid
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 08:27 PM
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Emma's face is pretty but her body is very mid. Most of the girls in my high school class had a very similar build. It’s nothing special. The women who are mad about men calling her mid are telling on themselves…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 04:43 PM
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The behavior of my mother, sisters and grandmothers is where I got my beliefs from lol. I observed them and drew conclusions long before I knew the red pill existed. And they often say redpilling stuff themselves, of course without knowing that it’s red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 10:06 AM
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And I replied with a bait to counter bait your bait. Checkbait Checkmate
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:55 PM
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You seem upset that I find her mid
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:49 PM
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I mean, I guess she’s really hot if you’re into flabby rectangles…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:15 PM
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negative
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:01 PM
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face: above mid body: mid
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 06:54 PM
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There is nothing sexist about recognizing that a lot of female behavior is dumb and annoying. It’s just an observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 06:51 PM
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All potential parents who are considering aborting their Down syndrome fetus do so for one reason. And it’s always the same reason. People don’t want to be saddled with a defective child for the rest of their lives. It’s a nasty, cruel and selfish reason that makes you look like a monster but it’s the true reason. And that’s ok. Nobody is perfect and everyone just wants to live a good life. Sometimes that means making nasty, cruel and selfish decisions. I’d respect people more if they at least h…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 06:24 PM
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"Consider it". Uh huh. You’re really going keep up this charade, don’t you? Why don’t you put on your big girl pants and just say out loud why you’d want to abort it? You know, the real reason. Not this fake empathy nonsense about reducing suffering.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 06:04 PM
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If you lived in a European country with an excellent care system, would you keep the baby?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 05:50 PM
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Since you don’t live in Russia anymore, you’d keep the baby, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 05:29 PM
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I know. I just wanted to troll her and rile her up a little. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 05:16 PM
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Why is living independently the deciding factor here? Down syndrome is not a painful or life threatening condition. They can live happy lives when the get the proper support and care.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 05:08 PM
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Not trans, apparently. Seems to have a disorder of sexual development (46,XY).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 05:01 PM
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Q4W: Would you cross the street if this woman walked closely behind you late at night? https://preview.redd.it/qh66vs6x6agd1.jpeg?width=500&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=85466fa5ff6a0de5314ba7e4ee6b08391f052edb
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 04:55 PM
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Who allows them to reject someone lmao?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 04:36 PM
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Always
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 01:00 PM
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30
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 12:56 PM
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From certain countries… https://emilkirkegaard.dk/en/2021/11/sweden-finally-publishes-new-immigrant-crime-rate-data-which-shows-no-surprises/
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 04:20 PM
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Leftists and feminists are truly the dumbest people who have ever walked the face of the the earth. In 1900, Sweden's population had less than 1% foreign-born people. Then they opened the boarders because those poor people need help. They are just looking for a better life! 🥺 2010: 14% foreigners 2020: 26% foreigners So how did that turn out? Sweden has witnessed an increase in the rates of sexual crimes including rape. A total of 3 039 offenders were included in the analysis. A majority of them…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 04:04 PM
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For me it’s very positive. I like it when women have really long fingers and long feet.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 04:54 PM
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"How would you know?" This idea that women can just lie about their past comes up often. I’ll tell you why it doesn’t work most of the time. Lying has a profound impact on your brain activity. It causes stress and anxiety. That’s a painful state you can’t be in for long amounts of time. It gets even worse when you’re lying to a person that you love or have a strong emotional connection with. Eventually, people won’t be able to take it anymore and will confess. The guilt and the mental anguish is…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 01:11 PM
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I don’t understand why this myth of the awesome happy single life is so widespread. It literally goes against the human nature. We evolved to be highly social animals who are supposed to live in small tribes. It’s been like this for thousands of years. And having offspring is one of the core interests of any animal. Even surveys say that married mothers are the happiest people. https://www.aei.org/op-eds/why-conservative-women-report-being-the-happiest-and-how-you-can-be-too/
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 11:32 AM
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When used correctly, they will protect you from chlamydia, gonorrhoea, trichomoniasis, HIV and hepatitis B. However, condoms don’t protect you from all STIs such as herpes, genital warts, syphilis and mpox which can be spread from skin-to-skin contact. https://www.getthefacts.health.wa.gov.au/faqs/do-condoms-protect-against-all-stis
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 11:17 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/elj4wxpt4ifd1.jpeg?width=828&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=fa88da7aabad3cd79b6fd7bfdd32ccca88899028
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 06:34 PM
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How big is the age gap between you and your partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 10:50 AM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 10:38 PM
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Yeah, her torso should be a bit shorter to look more proportional. But I kinda like it that way. Reminds me of a cheetah.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 06:51 PM
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Couldn’t find anyone I’d consider perfect but this here is a decent start. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 06:43 PM
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1-3 = ugly 4 = low mid 5 = mid 6 = high mid 7 = Stacy lite 8 = Stacy 9 = Giga Stacy 10 = Unicorn Stacy Young Megan Fox pre surgery is a 6 <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 04:38 PM
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nice tits tho <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 04:23 PM
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low mid face <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 04:22 PM
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✌️kissed✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 02:17 PM
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Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 10:57 PM
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Why would you care? Do you want to date one of them?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 09:56 PM
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Oh, it’s no big deal. PPD women have sworn on their mother's graves that their n count doesn’t matter. Absolutely no effect on their SMV whatsoever. Even better, no man has ever asked them!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 04:01 PM
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It’s much less common in developed countries anymore because women can earn their own money. People aren’t as status focused anymore either. https://www.researchgate.net/publication/322128430_Different_impacts_of_resources_on_opposite_sex_ratings_of_physical_attractiveness_by_males_and_females Study from 2017. Previous studies indicate that economic status is indeed important in male attractiveness. Here, we combined images of male and female body shape with information on annual salary to eluci…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 09:45 AM
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You applied her quote to all women, and in doing so you inadvertently pointed out that a woman’s age is also extremely relevant to whether her husband finds her attractive. She was a literal super model, and he couldn’t find her attractive as she aged. Yes, men don’t find their old wives sexually attractive anymore. They stay for other reasons. Sometimes they don’t stay. Nor are there any guarantees that being older will mean men will all ignore you in dating, like you claimed. You want to apply…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 09:11 PM
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It was in response to the absurd comment insinuating that age isn’t a significant factor in every woman’s dating life. If that was true, an old, former super model would have absolutely no problems attracting men. Everyone knows that youth and beauty make up the majority of a woman’s value in the dating market. It’s not a coincidence that women are mainly stressed over specifically these two factors. About the marrying young part, nothing will guarantee you a marriage until death does you part. …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 02:31 PM
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Women never lose men’s attention, you’ll be fine as long as you take care of yourself. Oh really? 😒 Go ahead and explain to me how that happened. “I am now completely invisible,” Porizkova told the publication. “I walk into a party, I try to flirt with guys and they will just walk away from me mid-sentence to pursue someone 20 years younger. I’m very single, I’m dressed up, I’ve made an effort — nothing.” “Like the boiled frog, you don’t know until (you’re gone). It was around the same time my m…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 07:35 AM
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mid
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 04:53 PM
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🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 04:47 PM
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i got rebel
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 08:27 PM
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When she wants to go on a 'girls trip', this is where she’s heading. https://preview.redd.it/fsyc8vwptaed1.jpeg?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=3428c5a207cc128dffd4f60a2fdac949b7acccef
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 04:55 PM
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From the beginning, nothing has been more alien, repugnant, and hostile to woman than truth—her great art is the lie, her highest concern is mere appearance and beauty.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 04:50 PM
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yup. same with women’s opinions
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 04:40 PM
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3 mississippis
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 04:35 PM
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https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/darwin-does-dating/202112/how-many-previous-sexual-partners-is-too-many
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 07:39 PM
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halo effect horn effect You can watch it happen live in this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 07:30 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 07:09 PM
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Imo if it only applies under certain conditions, it’s not a basic need like food, water and sleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 04:10 PM
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Shelter is not a need.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 10:54 AM
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It wouldn’t be flattering to be told that I’m not good enough for a relationship. It would be hurtful and sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 04:04 PM
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Physically incapable of lying? So whatever someone asks you, you’ll have to tell the truth? Even if it’s embarrassing and could be detrimental to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 07:21 AM
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Mina!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:00 PM
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That’s a tough decision. They all sound super fun. I think I’d pick Sally.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 04:21 PM
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I would choose Melissa. Tall and skinny is by far my favorite body type. I would prefer long hair and a bit more femininity but tomboys are cool too. No make-up, little relationship experience, n=1, introverted geek who loves video games sounds all amazing. The career isn’t a deciding factor for me but a plus. Alice: I‘m not at all attracted to her body type but I like that she’s artistic and plays guitar. I play the guitar too. Adventurous in bed is also 👌. Nothing wrong with wanting to be a SA…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 03:40 PM
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Oh, you mean like the man vs bear question? Where women were hyper focused on the incredibly rare worst case scenario of a rapist murderer man and used that to justify picking a bear?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 03:36 PM
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Your entire premise is wrong. You claim that undesirable men are jealous because undesirable women can date up. By your own admission, they can’t. The undesirable women are going for the undesirable men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 08:07 AM
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[…] but plenty of these single moms get married and they can marry up pretty well. When my guy friend was 18, he admitted on his dating profile that he was jobless, carless, and penniless. He still got alot of likes, but most of the likes came from older women and single moms […] Why did the low value guy get likes from single moms if the single moms can easily marry up?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 07:43 AM
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What’s your opinion on it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 05:24 PM
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You can’t beat biology. Alpha behavior will elicit tingles. Tingles will control women’s behavior. It will always be like this. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 11:07 AM
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https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/full/10.1111/sjop.12631 The present research tests the hypothesis that unattractive people are not aware of their unattractiveness. In fact, six studies (overall N = 1,180) showed that unattractive participants considerably overestimated their attractiveness compared to ratings by strangers. In contrast, attractive participants were more accurate. If anything, they underestimated their attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 04:48 PM
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The music used to be so much better and classier in the old times!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 02:22 PM
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"You can always just uninstall online dating apps and go outside to socialize. Most people aren’t on online dating apps anyway." <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 08:38 AM
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Edit: all of these women are based on real people when we were in our 20s. 3 of us are married. Which one of the 4 isn’t married?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:08 PM
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I will always scream it from the rooftops! 🗣️ Average women are UGLY-UGLY-UGLY!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 03:43 PM
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Why should men find more than 5% of women attractive? Have you seen what most women look like? Nightmarish!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 01:51 PM
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Absolutely horrifying! Get them away from me!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 09:34 AM
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https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S109051381730315X We found that ratings of attractiveness were around 1000 times more sensitive to salary for females rating males, compared to males rating females.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 09:19 AM
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Not they kind of pussy tingles we usually try to induce but if it works 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 03:57 PM
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Ngl, the third place medal is mad funny in this context…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 03:52 PM
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Very easy to avoid this. Just abuse her to establish a nice strong trauma bond.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 04:00 PM
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r/againstwomensrights was banned r/againstmensrights is not banned
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 03:28 PM
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https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/meet-catch-and-keep/201909/do-women-face-a-shortage-of-men-worth-marrying New research identifies an interesting quirk in the marriage market that might explain declining rates of marriage (Lichter, Price, & Swigert, 2019). Taking an economic approach, the authors argue that there's a fundamental mismatch between what available men in the United States have to offer and what available women in the United States are willing to accept. Maybe, they propose, w…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 08:24 PM
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https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2023/04/13/in-a-growing-share-of-u-s-marriages-husbands-and-wives-earn-about-the-same/ US marriages: 55% husband breadwinner 29% husband and wife have similar income 16% wife breadwinner
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 07:24 PM
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🤦/10
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 04:25 PM
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I can’t be expected to read more than the title of a study. As a clearly intellectually superior being, my time is too valuable. I have nations to build and scientific advancements to make! 🦾😤 You wouldn’t understand. But don’t feel sad about that. There, there, little female.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 09:07 AM
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Recent studies conclude that men on average have higher intelligence than women by 3-5 IQ points. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/20066931/
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 07:53 AM
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I recently asked women in the daily thread if they would stay with or leave their boyfriend/husband if he ended up in a wheelchair after a car crash (not his fault). All but one said they would leave their boyfriend. A few even said they would divorce their husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 04:05 PM
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I don’t see any malice here either. It’s mostly likely that women either downplay the importance of looks to not appear shallow or they are really not aware of their importance to them. People in general seem to be rather ignorant about who they are and what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 11:35 AM
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I read about the study here: https://www.kaggle.com/code/jph84562/the-ugly-truth-of-people-decisions-in-speed-dating The article should reference the original study.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 10:57 AM
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Rare cases like this exist but the average person is neither a master manipulator nor an expert liar. For example, a female friend of mine told me about a guy she met on a dating app and showed me snippets of their conversation. I could clearly see he’s a scumbag and up to no good. I warned her but she didn’t believe me and went out with him anyway. After the date, he tried to rape her. She could only narrowly escape. Most people are not good at hiding who they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 09:27 AM
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You are right. People will categorize you based on stereotypes about your looks/style. Adjusting your style to fit your personality is generally a good idea. But I disagree that you need a lot of time to judge someone’s personality. You can get a pretty good approximation within a few minutes of talking to someone. Actually, you don’t even need to talk to them. I read a study where the researchers asked two groups of men to write a short dating bio about themselves. One group was high in Machiav…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 07:47 AM
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Here’s a picture from a speed dating study. It shows the traits people were saying they look for and then the traits they were actually going for. <image> Women lied about the importance of looks. They lied to the researchers and they lied to themselves. They said personality traits like intelligence and sincerity were more important to them than looks. In reality, looks were the most important deciding factor for men and women. The men who are angry about this did believe women when they said t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 07:22 AM
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I'm not arguing if this is right or wrong. Or if you should do it or not. You asked why some men feel 'entitled' to sex after a dinner date and that’s the reason. In every culture, dating follows certain patterns. There are unspoken rules and expectations. If you break those rules, people will be confused and sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 08:27 AM
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What do you think the '3 dates' rule is? There are lots of social conventions that developed over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 06:00 AM
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It’s a mating ritual. The male offers the female some food, does a little dance for her to entertain her and then they copulate. Of course, the male gets upset when the female doesn’t follow the script.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 09:59 PM
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Women after they wipe their cat eye makeup off https://preview.redd.it/x0sq9g4qec9d1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=94c32557e248b34d4495e5203955ab5c14407b29
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 04:56 PM
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😂 For anyone who didn’t get the joke, here’s the real study. https://academic.oup.com/mend/article/18/9/2208/2747620
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 10:33 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/n8zscduqo29d1.jpeg?width=858&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=770b4ed4c002f7faf0d4ea2cdf530f01b0efb803
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 08:12 AM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 06:08 AM
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Canthoplasty?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 06:06 AM
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mid
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 04:29 PM
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Here are stats about sexual aggression. Compare the numbers of Millennial men and women using physical force. <image> https://www.researchgate.net/publication/339897287_Generation_by_Gender_Differences_in_Use_of_Sexual_Aggression_A_Replication_of_the_Millennial_Shift
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 03:27 PM
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Someone else also pointed this out and it’s an interesting statistical conundrum. Imagine you had 100 different objects to choose from and 500 people choosing. Let’s say 203 people choose object 1. All other objects are less popular, niche choices and only 3 people choose each one. In the end, the 203 people choosing object 1 are the minority compared to the 297 people choosing something else. Yet, would you not view object 1 as the most desirable? The choice difference is 200 between object 1 a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 01:54 PM
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Huh, that’s a very interesting perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 12:53 PM
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This sub has really shown me how narrow the definition of attractiveness actually is. I can take any post, look at it for a split second and predict with very high accuracy which girl will be the top pick.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 11:35 AM
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No, I counted the replies under the post. So 92 men said they like girl 3 the most, 31 men said they would prefer girl 1 and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 11:29 AM
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lol that’s a funny way to put it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 11:26 AM
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That’s exactly the point. Whenever women say it’s fine to have any preference as long as you’re nice about it, that’s a lie. What women really want is men having preferences that serve women. All reasonable preferences that serve men's best interests will be demonized. Edit: Women understand 100% why the n count preference exists and they use it to their own advantage. The only reason you simultaneously call it creepy is because it threatens female sexual autonomy. It’s hypocritical and self-ser…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 11:03 AM
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How much is beauty in the eye of the beholder? Let’s see: https://np.reddit.com/r/Ifyouhadtopickone/s/FQSLu9yEat Girl 3 is the most conventionally attractive. Votes: girl 1: 31 girl 2: 19 girl 3: 92 girl 4: 20 girl 5: 32
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 10:53 AM
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I thought all preferences are fine as long as you’re not rude about them lol. But thank you for publicly confirming what this is actually about: hypocritical women wanting to have their cake and eat it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 10:27 AM
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No need to wonder, the answer is right there in the article. With an ultimate goal of enhancing reproductive success at the expense of others, slut-shaming effectively works to arouse suspicion and cause suitors to question the fidelity of these females. In the long term, men may have doubts regarding the paternity of any offspring produced and since humans strive for reproductive success, (which, for a man is to reproduce and to continually invest in his own children), the decision to mate with…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 10:00 AM
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As to why some women might shame you, it's because your preferences come across as creepy or shallow to them. If you bring up body count women will wonder WHY that's important to you. Take a look at the section 'competitor derogation > slut shaming'. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Female_intrasexual_competition Women know very well why high n counts are undesirable and use it strategically as a weapon against competitors.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 09:44 AM
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Yeah, she’s kinda ugly. Maybe ugly-cute. She’s lucky that her jiggling tits seem to be hypnotizing. https://preview.redd.it/t58svnrkmz7d1.jpeg?width=640&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c6ddbb90f0274c33f17f5ddd00116a825a7b48bd
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 08:52 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/gbohxsxl9p7d1.jpeg?width=1290&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=27bd752fa91524b9c2483440f52ce52f936a8da3
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 10:00 AM
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thank fuck I don’t have to live in this hell hole
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 04:44 PM
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mid is mid 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 04:35 PM
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From the neck down, she is mid.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 04:32 PM
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But this opens up a whole lot of fun bedroom role play scenarios! 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 04:15 PM
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You might not have troubles but the actual numbers are telling a clear story. https://www.npr.org/sections/codeswitch/2013/11/30/247530095/are-you-interested-dating-odds-favor-white-men-asian-women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 10:41 AM
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Very sorry that Margaret is sad now but you can’t negotiate attraction. 🤷 Maybe she can find an ugly nerd who’s desperate enough to settle for her. I would tell Henry but we don’t talk anymore. He never wanted to go to a club to pick up some sluts. Just always sitting in his smelly room playing World of Witchcraft. I had to cut him off. He cried and begged me not to end our friendship but it had to be done. #AlphaMaleLive
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 07:47 PM
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Not at all, good sir!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 06:48 PM
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Exactly! It’s delusional to say this "woman" is attractive. Tbh I blame it on the microplastics and the fluoride in the drinking water. It turns Americans into fat troglodytes who salivate over a 33yo rectangle.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 06:45 PM
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Nooo 😭😭😭 It’s 2024, you need to up your standards, king. #rejectMidGirlsSummer
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 06:05 PM
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😹🎣
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 05:51 PM
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As if I would ever do that. She’s over 30! 🤮🤮🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 05:48 PM
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Subscribe to my OnlyFans! Top 0.5%. Only 7$ per month. Free pussy rates with every subscription.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 05:31 PM
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I'm literally gorgeous and perfect. You couldn’t handle it. 💅
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 05:28 PM
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<image> It’s such a shame when girls have a decently pretty face but a lame body. Look at Margaret. Flabby arms and legs, wide blocky waist, no tits, kinda fat. Makes her mid at best. 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 05:15 PM
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https://www.thecut.com/article/tiktok-videos-single-women-crying.html The entire article is hilarious 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 11:54 AM
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That’s not limited to this sub. Google "Would you rather save your spouse or your child?" Most people answer that they would choose the spouse and they could always just make a new child. It’s a common viewpoint.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 04:24 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/brxqwm5s4c5d1.jpeg?width=1052&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f3d674b8492d785559be12541bfe9d1a1094b714
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 11:41 AM
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Q4W who don’t want to date shorter men: If your boyfriend/husband ended up in a wheelchair after a car accident, would you leave him? (the accident wasn’t his fault and the wheelchair situation is permanent) If this happened to a guy you were dating (not official boyfriend yet), would you stop seeing him?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 10:42 AM
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Not today Satan, not today. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 09:01 AM
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You monster!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 04:43 PM
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You should wait before sending it. I might have a couple more points to add to the list.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 02:12 PM
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Demisexual women can be exactly like this. High sex drive but only for the man she loves and doesn’t mind waiting until she finds him. There might not be plenty of them but they are well worth holding out for.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 01:58 PM
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That’s fine. I’d rather be single than settle for less.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 12:43 PM
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pretty face (7+) skinny and great proportions not taller than 6 feet younger than 25 virgin IQ at least one standard deviation above the mean excellent hygiene and always smells good rich but frugal good work ethic and doesn’t mind getting her hands dirty kind and empathetic patient altruistic integrous caring and supportive agreeable respectful open-minded, creative and curious loves learning and science centrist political opinions not a feminist doesn’t want to get married loves children and i…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 12:12 PM
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Q4W: How did you celebrate your day of honour? 🥰 https://preview.redd.it/cwqmlyqcbc4d1.jpeg?width=1179&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=4fca6d060e70a55141901dc0b96bd9a0c3beaa89
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 11:14 AM
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Advertising yourself as undateable, damaged goods isn’t brave, it’s stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 11:16 AM
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The men who comment on Facebook probably think that "talking stage" means going on dates and talking to each other to get to know each other. The phase before you officially call each other boyfriend and girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 11:08 AM
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¦-(
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 04:26 PM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 04:05 PM
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That reminds of a clip of Dan Savage speaking in front of college students and answering their questions. Reading question card: What is wrong with me, I find a flaw and can't get over it. For example if a guy chews with his mouth open, I could never see him again. You are the problem with you. If you have a list of deal breakers that has more than five things on it, you need to wait around to get a sex robot -- that you can program to be perfect for you in every possible way.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 12:05 PM
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<image> That's the kind of politics I can get behind! 🙂‍↕️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 08:57 PM
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Older adolescents are reproductively viable and many cross-cultural studies showed that more neotenized female faces are most attractive to men (regardless of the woman's actual age). Why shouldn’t men be primarily attracted to adolescent women? It makes perfect biological sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 10:58 AM
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Maybe not all men but definitely a large proportion. Psychologists and sexologists don’t even consider it a pathology. It’s not in the DSM-5 or ICD-10. Ephebophilia is a normal and expected preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 10:01 AM
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😏
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:14 PM
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https://www.researchgate.net/publication/339897287_Generation_by_Gender_Differences_in_Use_of_Sexual_Aggression_A_Replication_of_the_Millennial_Shift <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 05:50 PM
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Unfortunately I can't make a Q4W post since I'm a woman (stupid rule). I could be misremembering but I think that rule was dropped some time ago. Might have to ask the mods to be sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 04:48 PM
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👍
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 11:32 AM
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Always funny when PPD women swear up and down that women aren’t a hive mind but then accuse any dissenting woman of being a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:06 PM
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That’s correct. Women score on average higher in neuroticism and are more sensitive to negative emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 03:53 PM
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No. Alphas don’t talk to women over 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 07:42 PM
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Being the last in line who gets to keep the (not attractive anymore) leftovers isn’t winning.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 01:27 PM
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Boooring 🥱 Is it even sex if I can’t slap her pussy and spit in her mouth?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 01:03 PM
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Meerkats are highly social, and form packs of two to 30 individuals each that occupy home ranges around 5 km2 (1.9 sq mi) in area. There is a social hierarchy—generally dominant individuals in a pack breed and produce offspring, and the nonbreeding, subordinate members provide altruistic care to the pups. THIS IS THE FUTURE FEMINISTS WANT!!1! 😡
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 10:17 AM
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They like to say we’re the shallow gender but it’s the opposite Ma‘am, you’re just as shallow as the evil men. The only difference is that you’re ignorant about it <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 07:33 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 06:52 PM
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Q4Feminists: If you’d encounter a bear and a man simultaneously somewhere deep in the woods, which one would you rather falsely accuse of sexual assault?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 04:57 PM
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If I had to choose between a bear and a mod, I’d choose the bear too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 04:52 PM
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lol, yeah, it was intentional. I like to ruffle some feathers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 07:19 PM
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<image> They would also need to address the extreme political divide between men and females that’s getting worse and worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:28 PM
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why keep it "boys scout" when girls wanna do it too? why gender it? Girls have their own organization. It’s called Girl Scouts of the United States of America. This is what their website has to say. In a World of Boys' Clubs, Give Her One of Her Own So, what can you do to raise a smart, confident daughter who’s equipped to succeed in this world? Make sure she’s getting some high-quality time surrounded by girls and girls only. https://www.girlscouts.org/en/raising-girls/happy-and-healthy/happy/g…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:00 AM
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<image> https://www.ellecanada.com/beauty/makeup-and-nails/taylor-hill-posts-a-no-makeup-selfie
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 06:21 PM
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After the bad experience, John trusts less and the amount of help he is willing to provide is less. This might be better for John but it’s worse for John's friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 08:18 PM
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A bad experience changed him and his behavior for the worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 04:14 PM
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I wouldn’t be friends with John anymore because I don’t associate with damaged people who try to punish me for the sins of others. I’ll just ask a bear if I can stay in his cave for a while. I heard they’re kinder than men anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 11:22 AM
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5 for 18yo virgins 🤤😘 1 for "women" over 30 😡🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 08:16 AM
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*get them pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 09:15 PM
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Q4W: If you got pregnant after having casual sex with a bear, would you feel offended if the bear asked for a paternity test?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:28 AM
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🐻
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 04:01 PM
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It shows the true nature of feminism. It’s a hate cult. Cassie dared to make a movie that didn’t portray the men’s rights movement in a negative light. She suffered relentless attacks and abuse from the feminists for it. They tried to ruin her career and destroy her life. That’s what they do to apostates.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 05:16 PM
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Cassie Jaye (born May 1, 1986)is an American film director, best known for directing the 2016 documentary film The Red Pill about the men's rights movement. The film had screenings canceled in Australia following petitions, protests, and threats against those holding the screening. At the end of the film, Jaye states that she no longer identifies as a feminist, saying that she now believes that "feminism is not the road to gender equality". https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cassie_Jaye
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 04:38 PM
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https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/37352415/ 1,387 Tinder users completed an online questionnaire 65.3 percent of app users were married or "in a relationship," and only 50.3 percent of app users were using it to meet someone offline.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 11:32 AM
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It depends a bit on how intelligent and skilled they are but I think I‘m pretty good at identifying it. My dad is an actual psychopath (clinically certified) and I learned how to manipulate people from observing him. But growing up with him also made me very distrustful, so it isn’t easy to take advantage of me to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 07:08 PM
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I don’t think a therapist can talk you into being attracted to people you don’t find attractive. That’s not how therapy works. What it can do for you is change your own thinking patterns and behaviors. For example, women who were abused in their childhoods tend to pick abusive men as partners. A therapist can help to break this pattern.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 05:39 PM
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I expected women to be ignorant about the true pay gap but 0%? Really? Not a single woman knew the correct answer…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 11:23 AM
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If there’s mountains of studies, just link one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 11:18 AM
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Post study
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 11:43 PM
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A lot of men here think that women generally operate similarly to them and can feel attraction on a spot just by looking at someone very attractive. I think they overestimate the amount of women who actually have this kind of libido tbh. I looked up the percentage of demisexuals and I found numbers around 1% or less. According to the primary and secondary sexual attraction model, that would mean 99% of women operate similarly to men and feel attraction on the spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 03:53 PM
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Look up the comment chain. Someone else said that. I replied to your statement that women hold more degrees and explained why that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 02:28 PM
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Women aren’t less qualified. Boys get worse grades. That makes it harder for them to get into college. Less men in college means less men graduate college. Here’s an example with actual numbers. 500 girls and 500 boys in high school 450 girls and 400 boys graduate high school 300 girls and 200 boys enroll in college 250 women and 150 men graduate college result: 250/500 women and 150/500 men hold a degree
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 02:14 PM
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Women earn more degrees because more women enroll in college. More women enroll in college because more women finish high school. The gender gap starts in high school. https://www.ppic.org/blog/college-gender-gap-starts-early-and-extends-across-races/ Why does it happen? Because teachers are biased against boys and give them worse grades despite equal performance. https://scitechdaily.com/wide-and-lasting-consequences-teachers-give-girls-higher-grades-than-boys/
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 01:39 PM
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They say in the article that the end goal is equal outcome. The argument is that people start at different points and some need more resources to end up at the same finish line as everyone else. But resources are finite. If you want to give more resources to someone, you need to take them away from someone else. A real world example of discrimination is the 50% female CEO goal. Women have exactly the same opportunity to become CEOs as men but that wasn’t enough for the feminists. They demanded t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 01:14 PM
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The article literally says that giving women equal rights is not enough. They want equity (equal outcome). Equal outcome is a far-left position that can only be achieved via discrimination.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 12:46 PM
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They are openly saying it: https://www.weforum.org/agenda/2023/03/equity-equality-women-iwd/
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 12:38 PM
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Feminism has shifted its goal from equality of opportunity to equality of outcome. That’s a dangerous and harmful far-left position.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 12:15 PM
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Personality/chemistry matters for average people the most. An average person is initially viewed as neutral - neither attractive nor unattractive. Personality/chemistry can elevate them to 'attractive' or push them down to 'unattractive'. At the extremes, personality/chemistry is way less important. Attractive people can get away with being horrible pieces of shit and people will still throw themselves at them. Likewise, unattractive people will often not get a chance no matter what their person…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 09:29 AM
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No. The point is that the number doesn’t go down because you’re talking about 2 different groups of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 04:55 PM
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The survey only shows that 63% of all men who are now 18-29 are single while 25% of all men who are now 30-49 are not single. You can’t use the stats to predict the future. The number of single men could stay at 63% or go down. We don’t know what will happen until it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 04:41 PM
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lol, I expected that <image> https://psychology-tools.com/test/toronto-empathy-questionnaire
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 09:10 PM
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There’s some truth to it. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Coolidge_effect
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 09:41 AM
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In fact, between 1480 and 1913, Europe’s queens were 27% more likely than its kings to wage war, according to a National Bureau of Economics working paper (paywall). https://qz.com/967895/throughout-history-women-rulers-were-more-likely-to-wage-war-than-men
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 09:33 AM
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C’mon man. She has a huge forehead and looks like a retarded chipmunk when she smiles. Seems old too. 👎
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 11:34 AM
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Everyone in this gym pic is ugly. Very disappointing considering it’s LA.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 10:23 AM
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Shouldn’t there be twice as many ugly people as hot people? Facial beauty is about harmony which just means correct ratios between features. For example, there’s one perfect eye distance in relation to skull width. But your eyes can be too narrow or too far apart. So you have 1 beautiful eye distance but 2 ugly ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 08:50 PM
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Are the legal definitions of certain crimes significantly different between countries? That would make international comparisons indeed very complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 04:28 PM
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https://www.nationmaster.com/country-info/compare/Sweden/United-States/Crime/table Compared to the US, Sweden has: 3x as many total crimes (per 1000 inhabitants) 2x as many rapes (per 1 million inhabitants)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 03:02 PM
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You‘re correct. A scarcity of women leads to increased competition between men. That often results in higher levels of aggression and more male-on-male violence. It’s also known that cohabitation and fatherhood decrease testosterone levels. Testosterone is a molecule that amplifies behavior, including aggressive, violent and criminal behavior. More single, childless men means more crime in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 01:10 PM
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Cher
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:54 PM
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This is what debating a PPD female feels like
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:35 PM
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Here’s an excerpt from a speed dating study. The researchers first asked men and women what they were interested in and then compared it with what they were actually going for. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 10:43 AM
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3 & 4
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 09:06 PM
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Try that: https://www.sciencealert.com/scientists-confirm-you-can-communicate-with-your-cat-by-blinking-very-slowly
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 09:04 PM
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Yes, men and women choose different kinds of partners for short-term and long-term relationships. The Madonna-whore complex is something else. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Madonna–whore_complex In psychoanalytic literature, a Madonna–whore complex (also called a Madonna–mistress complex) is the inability to maintain sexual arousal within a committed and loving relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 03:56 PM
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https://psycnet.apa.org/record/2019-23163-001 Intercourse frequency decreased with increased length of relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 03:42 PM
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You’re right. It’s not a coincidence that in Islamic countries you’re considered eligible for marriage when you hit puberty.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:12 PM
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Where’s the part about physical attractiveness? The only thing in the paper I saw was: Studies which have used observer ratings of the DT components have focused exclusively on physical attractiveness (e.g. Holtzman & Strube, 2010). We therefore examine whether women find the Dark Triad personality attractive, independent of physical appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:05 PM
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18
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 08:01 PM
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30 who looks 20
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 07:56 PM
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in-group bias
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 05:19 PM
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Excerpt from an older post of OP If I get married I don’t want to contribute to the household income, would preferably not want to work and any income I acquire would be mine only with minor exceptions. I want to be a housewife and have a lot of time to myself to do whatever I want. You can’t make this shit up …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 12:59 PM
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Would you want one if you could afford it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 05:42 PM
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For me it means two things. 1) Don’t lie about your promiscuous past. Most women realize that many men find this very undesirable and try to hide their past. That’s deception and wrong. 2) Accept it when men reject you because of your promiscuous past. I see this often. Women get really angry and berate men for not wanting them because of their past. They bully them, call them names, try to publicly shame them or threaten them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 01:39 PM
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First
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 11:00 PM
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Around 13%
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 10:58 PM
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playing an instrument, preferably piano writing painting
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 07:21 PM
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-100
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 07:18 PM
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https://ecampusontario.pressbooks.pub/ethicslawenforcement/chapter/4-4person-gender-and-cultural-differences-in-conformity/ […] at least when they are being observed by others, men are likely to hold their ground, act independently, and refuse to conform, whereas women are more likely to conform to the opinions of others in order to prevent social disagreement. These differences are less apparent when the conformity occurs in private. It’s not a huge difference, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 06:43 PM
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The issue lies in the grey area of consent. Aella made a survey about this and called it the rape spectrum. https://aella.substack.com/p/the-rape-spectrum-survey-results People are self-centered and will interpret unclear situations in a way that allows them to get what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 03:13 PM
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Of course it’s a gendered issue. Women are physically weaker than men and can get sex with attractive (enough) men whenever they want. Neither can they violently rape men nor do they need to.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:49 PM
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The median age at first marriage used to be much lower. https://www.census.gov/content/dam/Census/library/visualizations/time-series/demo/families-and-households/ms-2.pdf Nobody experimented during their 20s. That’s a modern thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 11:57 AM
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You should look into the work of a group of researchers called the Personality Change Consortium.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 10:31 PM
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I wonder if it has something to do with the rising depression rates. Black and white thinking is considered a cognitive distortion and often appears in people suffering from depression.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 11:52 AM
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Men always have the option to wear a condom. Condoms have a typical use failure rate around 13%. You know the risks of not being as safe as possible. This is the point that somehow everyone in this thread keeps missing. There is only a risk for men. With the availability of abortion, women have a 0% risk. Women can always opt out of motherhood. Men can’t. Men have less reproductive rights. Men and women have equal moral rights and duties. They should also have equal legal rights and duties.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 08:06 AM
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mate guarding
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 10:22 PM
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It’s a cute little intellectual sleight of hand. Even funnier that, under the Unborn Victims of Violence Act, fetuses are recognized as legal victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:37 PM
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So … abstinence. Same goes for women. Keep your legs closed if you don’t want to get pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 06:46 PM
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Oh I agree that men should be rigorous about using protection. Just like women. A condom breaking is an accident. At least the effort is made. He should have rights in that instance. Most women in this thread disagree with you. They think that men should have no rights even if they used protection and the pregnancy was an accident.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 06:44 PM
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Pre-cum can come into contact with the vagina during foreplay or when putting on the condom. Not a high chance for pregnancy but it’s possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 06:38 PM
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That is very stupid and I have no sympathy for them. Men should always use protection and be rigorous about it. Still doesn’t change the fact that we don’t have a 100% safe method for men and no rights when it fails.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 06:33 PM
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That’s not the point of the OP. Women have access to a 100% effective birth control method - abortion. In the name of gender equality, men also need a 100% safe option - paper abortions.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:32 PM
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For practical reasons, I agree with. It’s also not like there would be a lobby for paper abortions anyway. They don’t benefit women at all and men certainly don’t want to pay more taxes to support other men’s bastards.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:26 PM
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Typical use failure rate for condoms is 13%. https://www.cdc.gov/reproductivehealth/contraception/index.htm#:~:text=Typical%20use%20failure%20rate%3A%2013%25.&text=Condoms%20can%20only%20be%20used,petroleum%20jelly%20with%20latex%20condoms.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:19 PM
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I’ve got news for you. https://www.nhs.uk/common-health-questions/pregnancy/can-i-get-pregnant-if-i-have-sex-without-penetration/
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:07 PM
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You don’t need to ejaculate to cause a pregnancy. Pre-cum contains sperm cells.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 04:49 PM
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The failure rate is 1 in 2000. Also not always reversible. The success rate is 55% within the first 10 years and 25% after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 04:42 PM
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Only abstinence is 100% safe. I also heard that keeping your legs closed works surprisingly well for women, too. Give it a try! :)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 04:39 PM
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Men don’t have access to 100% effective methods of birth control besides abstinence. There’s no male equivalent of abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 04:06 PM
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Vasectomies only work for men that never want children. They are not 100% effective and not 100% reversible. Problem not solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 03:16 PM
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If women don’t want to be mothers, why are they having unprotected sex with men and hope they won’t get pregnant?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 02:12 PM
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They still have a failure rate of 1 in 2000. You also can’t always reverse a vasectomy. The success rate is 55% within the first 10 years and 25% after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 01:54 PM
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The logic you presented was: if you consent to sex, you also consent to fatherhood/motherhood. Motherhood includes carrying the child to term. Your logic also was that you’re not allowed to retroactively revoke consent. That means, once you’re pregnant, you have to carry the child to term. You consented to that. You have to let the baby use your body. You consented to that. What you want is a privilege. Abortion is a privilege to opt out of motherhood. OP's point is that men want the same privil…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 01:23 PM
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That’s the consequence of following your logic. If a man consents to sex, he automatically consents to fatherhood (including paying child support). If a woman consents to sex, she automatically consents to motherhood (including carrying the child to term).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 12:10 PM
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Which would also mean that abortions must be banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 12:07 PM
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You know what would work well if men didn’t want to be fathers? Not having sex. Even if you’re on the pill or using a condom you could potentially impregnate someone. If you aren’t willing to accept the consequences of your actions then you shouldn’t be doing them. "You know what would work well if women didn’t want to be mothers? Not having sex. Even if you’re on the pill or using a condom you could potentially be impregnated by someone. If you aren’t willing to accept the consequences of your …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 12:04 PM
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How you feel about abortions is irrelevant to the question of legality and equality. Under the current system, there is no gender equality and men are disadvantaged. See Hermesmann v. Seyer for an example. A woman can rape an underage boy and still be entitled to collect child support from her victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 11:55 AM
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Maybe the upper quartile? I feel like that would be a good threshold. I think, according to the CDC stats, that would be around 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 01:26 PM
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A woman’s sexual focus is on herself. If she doesn’t feel desired and pretty, nothing is going to happen. Men’s sexual focus is on the woman. Her physical attractiveness is what matters. The rest is an afterthought.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 09:23 PM
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I’ve got bad news for you…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 09:17 PM
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Female sexuality is narcissistic. Women want to be desired by men. Male sexuality is possessive. Men want to own women. Problem is that objects get dirtied when they are used and lose value. Men want to have a high n themselves but women keeping a low n because it benefits men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 09:05 PM
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Someone can be hot and bad at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:36 PM
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The great tragedy of mankind is that sluts = bad but also sluts = hot
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:35 PM
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What are some rejection characteristics that wouldn’t be morally neutral?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 04:45 PM
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I’ve never seen any evidence that it exists. Freud had a lot of wacky theories that have never been proven. If it exists, then I would imagine that it primarily affects religious people that were raised in purity culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 03:25 PM
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Do not do this if you ate something acidic. The acids weaken the enamel and brushing your teeth in this state will damage them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 09:15 AM
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Happy New Year! 🥂 Women have lost 90 percent of their eggs by the time they are 30 years old, and only have about 3 percent remaining by the time they are 40. Make this new year count. 🥚🥳
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 01:26 AM
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No. A good leader is someone you want to follow, not someone who demands that you follow them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 10:13 PM
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Sounds like necrophilia but with a warm body instead of a cold one. Nah, that’s boring. I like it more when they fight back a little.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 08:42 PM
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What kind of eyes?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 05:17 PM
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Q4W: Would you rather date a man with a weak jawline or a big nose?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 05:16 PM
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I report trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 03:40 PM
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Did you skip over the part where boys are better at maths but still receive worse grades?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 03:32 PM
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https://scitechdaily.com/wide-and-lasting-consequences-teachers-give-girls-higher-grades-than-boys/ The University of Trento researchers started by comparing the grades almost 40,000 students received on their classroom exams with the scores they obtained on nearly 40,000 standardized language and arithmetic tests in order to determine how teachers’ evaluations tend to favor females. The 38,957 pupils were in the tenth grade, making them between 15 and 16 years old. The national standardized tes…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 03:14 PM
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4, 6, 9, 7, 5, 2, 1, 3, 8
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 09:32 PM
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Empathy means taking on someone else’s perspective and feeling the same emotions that they feel. This can be difficult for men and women because their life experiences are often very different.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 05:34 PM
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https://qz.com/241479/okcupid-experimented-on-users-and-proved-everyone-just-looks-at-the-pictures
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 05:20 PM
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There is no solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 03:24 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 03:21 PM
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We’d prefer if you didn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 03:15 PM
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Fat 3. The worst crime a woman can commit is being unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 07:09 PM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 03:48 PM
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You don’t reply anything. You grow a pair and dump her.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 01:53 PM
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How difficult is it to find someone to date? I would assume the pool is pretty small when neurodivergent people are already a small minority and you also need the right level of neurodivergence.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 10:56 PM
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https://www.statista.com/statistics/1420227/loneliness-among-adults-us-by-gender/ Percentage of adults in the United States who reported feeling lonely as of December 2021, by gender Men: 57% Women: 59% There is no male loneliness epidemic. It’s a general loneliness epidemic. Edit: Gets worse for women later in life, though. https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/00914150231194243?icid=int.sj-abstract.citing-articles.2 Evidence suggests that in old age, women are lonelier than men. Gender diff…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 05:14 PM
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I’m not very compatible with neurotypical people. I find them exhausting and they become frustrated with me. That’s interesting. Can you elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 06:07 PM
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I agree with your rating and it matches your dating experience. Not much attention but still a few ok relationships. Seems common for (slightly) below average women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 07:02 PM
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You’re talking about pretty privilege. Only pretty women get free things from strangers (hoping to win them over with gifts and favors). Average women don’t get pretty privilege but they still get female privilege. That includes free stuff but only from guys who want to date them. Below average women usually get ignored or treated badly. Sometimes they can get a man who’s nice to them but that’s rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 05:38 PM
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Unfortunately, this line of thinking is very common and avoiding these women would mean avoiding almost all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 01:43 PM
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lol no If he really paid before she could say anything, then she did not use him. That was his fault. Also sending huge angry texts and singing her number up for spam calls is laughably pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:53 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 12:24 AM
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No. Reasons: - loose skin and stretch marks - she will gain the weight back eventually
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:51 PM
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That’s true. The biggest threat to men and women is a small group of bad men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:19 PM
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That doesn’t answer OP's question.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 03:47 PM
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Did my comment imply that women don’t protect and sacrifice? No, it didn’t. Only your bigoted comment about men did. It’s also interesting that your 3 examples are about mothers protecting their children, not women protecting men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 11:56 AM
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Men don’t protect women? What about the men who sacrificed their lives to protect their girlfriends during a shooting? https://www.huffpost.com/entry/aurora-shooting-boyfriends-died-protecting-girlfriends_n_1695290
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 09:40 AM
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The UK's last major study of sexual behaviour - the 2000 National Survey of Sexual Attitudes and Lifestyles (Natsal) - found that 15% of men had had "overlapping" relationships in the previous year, but only 9% of women. Dr Catherine Mercer, head of analysis for the Natsal study, says the gender gap may in part be because women are less likely to own up to cheating than men. "We can't directly observe unfaithfulness so we have to rely on what people tell us and we know there are gender differenc…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 09:33 PM
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yes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 05:35 PM
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If you don’t want to be made fun of, try having less stupid opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 12:36 PM
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6
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 08:40 PM
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Of course I would. That child needs someone who takes care of it and that sure as hell won’t be me. No single mothers tho. My child deserves undivided resources and attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 05:16 PM
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Do you even care about love? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:03 PM
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Call the cops.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 09:22 PM
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How do you know if men are easier or harder than women to date? A while ago, there was a PPD post from a bisexual woman who dated a few men and women. Her conclusion was that it’s much easier and more fun to date men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:18 PM
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How do you know if men are easier or harder than women to date? A while ago, there was a PPD post from a bisexual woman who dated a few men and women. Her conclusion was that it’s much easier and more fun to date man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:17 PM
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I agree with all 5. Also, I think: There are significant differences between men and women but, overall, they are more similar than different. Supported by psychological research btw. I understand that gender roles have a biological basis but I wouldn’t be upset if they all completely disappeared tomorrow.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 05:55 PM
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They will fuck anything. Apparently not. Men reject half of the women on Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 09:56 PM
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There are plenty of studies showing that women have a much stronger in-group bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 01:55 PM
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yes
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 08:33 PM
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threesome with 2 men gang bang cuckold scat public humiliation/degradation things that aren’t sex acts but also leave you permanently tainted: money involved (prostitution, sugar baby, cam girl, only fans) videos/pictures of her naked/having sex publicly available sex with animals cheating raped
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 08:02 PM
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Probably! It’s not fair that you’d pepper spray another man but not him. How dare you?!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:40 PM
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