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I'm out here in a league of my own
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 03:35 PM
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Yeah, I consider myself a feminist too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 01:49 PM
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No, I'd never choose to be a single dad. I do want to have kids but if I end up without a family I'll just have to deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 01:19 PM
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You can put someone's genitals in your mouth and not know them at all and you can never meet someone in person and know them better than their parents do. This woman just likes sucking dick and for some reason feels the need to justify that philosophically.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 01:16 PM
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My views have only developed further in the direction they were already leaning to.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 01:13 PM
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Height has never played a significant part in how attracted I am to someone. A girl I found incredibly attractive in HS was also one of the tallest people in school. Close to 195cm I'm guessing, which is 17 cm taller than I am. A girl's shortness has also never impacted my attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 01:10 PM
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I doubt that there's actually something wrong with you that's keeping you from having sex with someone. So you should probably put a stop to any unproductive habits you might have and try to do better in life. If you do suffer from some kind of deformity or disability that makes it near impossible to find someone to have sex with you should look into seeing a sex-therapist or escort. I've got a younger brother with a cognitive disability so I've been around a lot of men and women whose life has …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 07:49 AM
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This just about sums up my situation
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/17 05:52 PM
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Happy single people are the ones you don't hear. Because they're, you know, out there enjoying themselves. I mean, just going by the internet you'd assume all single guys are horribly depressed and desperate as hell. Plenty of men and women live happy single lives, which is exactly why they're not bothering anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/17 04:06 PM
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What part? Going to the gym, growing a spine and making sure you're not blinded by simple infatuation are all reasonable things you can hear on TRP. But I'd still argue that TRP is the worst place to read up on those things because there's a whole bunch of dumb misogynist bullshit surrounding it. So certain commonsensical things advised on TRP can be used ethically but the sub itself is so misogynistic, and frequently racist/anti-semitic as well, that being a member of it will always deserve at …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/17 04:03 PM
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But we're all special here on PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/17 03:27 PM
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Damn, I'm sorry to hear about your self-esteem issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/17 12:56 PM
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It's where you find all the highest quality men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/17 12:19 PM
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Regularly post on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/17 12:02 PM
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Kinda shot yourself in the foot there with the whole beautiful part. If you wanna be pitied it's best not to come off as picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/17 07:40 AM
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Unless we're talking underage I don't think age alone is an indicator of a dysfunctional or problematic relationship. You need further details in order to tell whether a relationship inappropriate.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/17 10:53 PM
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Being aware of how others perceive you is important, especially if you want to succeed in conventional ways. However, overall I think it's important to dress how you yourself want. And I personally don't care for most dress codes or ideas of modesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/17 05:38 PM
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This is definitely why I'm always on my own. Just trying to make the world love me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/17 11:22 AM
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How does racism still exist if we had a black president? Feminism rationalises it by not being dumb as a bag of fucking rocks.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 10:08 PM
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I think video game addiction is about withdrawing from social life while social media addiction is about searching for far too much validation from what is in many ways a superficial medium. I think both are unhealthy but I also think they're very different, with very different consequences. If you're the type to interrupt every gathering by taking a million selfies and plan dinner dates with friends just so you can post pictures to Instagram you might just end up living a hollow empty life but …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 09:22 PM
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The average is not representative of all or 80% women. It's simply an average. Its usefulness is depended on what your goal actually is.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 05:34 PM
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You don't have to be a dancing monkey at all. This reads like you resenting the fact that in order to have sex you need to be attractive to women and that might involve actually being an interesting human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 05:32 PM
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Abortion is about protecting a woman's right to agency over her own body. Unless you believe life starts at conception nobody is harmed by it. Prostitution is a transaction and plenty of those are banned. I can't buy someone's kidneys for example. Or their kids. Or a piece of their flesh. Sometimes certain transactions are forbidden to protect either the seller or the buyer and I think there's a case to be made that banning prostitution is a useful tool for protecting certain women who are easil…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 05:30 PM
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Every time I'm about to do something I ask myself the question: would Jesus get wet from this?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 05:20 PM
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Of course, you can think about attraction and I actually think it's good in some ways but I don't think extrapolating your own tastes to some greater evolutionary process is very helpful. And if we both got stocky wide-shouldered builds wouldn't that result in wide Frankenstein kids with huge football player shoulders. That doesn't seem all that balanced!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 01:24 PM
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Congratulations on not getting what I said I guess... Like I said, averages are perfectly valid but I often see them used to deny everything outside of the average. Do men have higher sex drives on average? Sure. Does that mean women with extremely high sex drives or an appetite for lots of casual sex with strangers don't exist? No. Same goes for men with very low sex drives.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 01:07 PM
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See, I think that's overthinking it. I don't think my body-type has anything to do with me finding Mia Li attractive. In fact, hers is kinda similar to my own. I've got a stocky build with wide shoulders too. Besides, how would my body-type explain me being really attracted to Zadie Smith or Mackenzie Davis or Lupita Nyong'o or any of the other very different types of women I'm attracted to. I think evolution has its place in explaining human behaviour but it shouldn't be the first explanation w…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 01:04 PM
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I don't have a problem with your taste or anything I just think it's useless to debate such things. We all like different things and that's just fine. I mean, who didn't "mean" for us to be attracted to wide torsos and waists?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 10:20 AM
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Okay, so Mia Li's torso and waist are too large for you to find her attractive. That's fine, but what does that have to do with her or other people thinking she's top tier?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 09:36 AM
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Always print out a few pages of threads from subreddits like /r/sex, PPD and TRP so you have a cheat sheet when you're getting busy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 09:29 AM
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Yes, I think men have a higher sex drive on average than women. But people's individuality still means that individual women can have very high libido's or be into sex with lots of strangers. Averages are all fine and dandy but not when they're used to deny the existence of actual individuals and that's something I often see people here do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 09:21 AM
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But the fact that women can fantasise about actual animalistic monsters like werewolves doesn't? Or what about the fanbase around Spock. Does Leonard Nimoy have the traits you consider typically attractive to women? Or Charlie from It's Always Sunny? If you look at internet pornography or the wide variety in gonewild like subreddits I do think you can see how diverse men's tastes are but that's certainly not something you'd get if you just saw mainstream culture. Then you'd believe most men like…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 09:16 AM
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I always thought Paul Newman was very handsome.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 09:09 AM
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Would you say the same for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 09:05 AM
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I don't really care whether her body shape is masculine or feminine. It gets my juices flowing and that's enough for me. I tend to not overthink what I'm attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 09:02 AM
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Ron Jeremy is the alpha-est dude to ever alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 10:58 PM
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I'm not really sure what women are supposed to do but I do know it has to result in them touching my penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 10:57 PM
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Well would you look at that, another opportunity for me to post a picture of Zadie Smith. And I'll second you on Zhang Ziyi. She's gorgeous. I'm also really attracted to this woman, whose name I absolutely do not know and who I've certainly never watched late at night with my trousers down by my ankles.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 07:34 PM
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Obviously, everybody wants someone they're attracted to but that doesn't mean they all want 10% of the population. Women are a diverse group that find lots of different things attractive, just like men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 04:41 PM
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I'm a boring dude who's bored most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 04:20 PM
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Christ, how could you possibly believe all women compete for 2,5% of men? Most people are out there dating and have no idea about these weird fucking problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 04:17 PM
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People here know you as well as your family and friends? Nobody's going to give you actually useful advice because nobody knows anything about you and the little they might know is all based on what you yourself say. If you want to know what to do you can best ask the people in your life. Or maybe a therapist who's equipped to help you with whatever you feel stuck with.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 01:50 PM
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Go annoy the people that actually know them with questions instead of internet randoms that have no way of giving actual useful personal advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 01:41 PM
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What part of your experience did I deny? I never denied that you're unsuccessful with women, did I? Or do you really believe you are somehow different and in need of a special identifier like incel just because you haven't gotten laid yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/17 11:52 PM
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Sex has never really been mystical or on a pedestal for me. So I've got no need to have it de-mystified or de-pedestalized. And the shame obviously comes from paying for something other people manage to get for free. Here, I'll let George explain it. The discomfort comes from the fact that sex isn't just about satisfying a physical need. Attraction and desire are important aspects too, at least for me, and you won't get that from a prostitute. Sure, going to a prostitute means getting your dick …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/17 11:13 PM
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I can see why having an actual woman there to please you instead of doing it own your own would be an improvement but I just don't think it would outweigh the shame and discomfort of paying someone that isn't actually interested or attracted to you. I guess a lot of guys don't give a fuck about that but I do. I know myself well enough to know I that wouldn't get much out of it. I saw someone else suggest it's about a lack of gumption but I think it's more about wanting something else out of sex …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/17 10:23 PM
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You know, I don't consider it a bad thing to have an ego too fragile to fuck women not genuinely interested in fucking me. I don't think I'm missing out by not paying women to sleep with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/17 09:36 PM
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The internet would be better off without the concept of incels, lookism and other related bullshit. Incels aren't actually a thing. These are just guys that happen to be unsuccessful with women for whatever reason and who hop online to toxically whine about it. They're not some special class of people or sufferers of some kind of incelitus. It's just whiny dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/17 09:33 PM
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I think there are a lot of men who avoid dating or have failed at it because any number of reasons and who feel immensely ashamed and embarrassed by it because losing your virginity and getting laid are still incredibly important markers of manhood. Plenty of women avoid dating or fail at it too but I think it's that pressure to be sexually successful or else be seen as less of a man that drives men to places like the manosphere.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/17 09:20 PM
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I think there are some seedy aspects to prostitution and the industry is often exploitative. That's reason enough for me to not want to be any part of it. On top of that, I just don't think I'd get a lot out of sex with someone who isn't actually attracted to me. My ego is too fragile for that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/17 09:15 PM
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pretty normal Awww shucks Yeah, I probably could've lost my virginity back in HS. As hard as it is to admit it, I've had women be attracted to me. But I'm a real recluse at this point and a bit of a mess in many ways. I'm committed to solving that shit tho and it's not inconceivable that I have sex somewhere along the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/17 07:30 PM
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I'm really not sure. Even just the changes I'm practically forced to make would make it incredibly unlikely that I stay a virgin unless by choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/17 07:10 PM
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I'm 25 and while I've entertained the thought I don't think I'll ever pay for sex. I'd rather stay a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/17 06:31 PM
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Never get complacent and always strive to improve yourself. That way you won't worry about not having your options open.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/17 06:25 PM
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I'd be real surprised if this was some common occurrence. I mean, I've seen really popular and attractive people with a bunch of followers but I doubt most women have to deal with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/17 03:43 PM
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It's important in that the two of you have decided to be exclusive. I think you're right to see this as the start of a relationship. I'm not sure what's to discuss here really.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/17 06:09 AM
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I'm guessing you think traits you find unattractive (shortness, baldness, recessed chins, etc.) exist because those traits get carried over when unconventionally looking women procreate with classically handsome men. Your OP only really makes sense if that's what you believe. Well, anyway, that's a dumb and wrong thing to believe. So don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/17 06:05 AM
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I'm not sure if I'd call it a need. I think it is possible to live a healthy life without sex but I also don't think it's wrong, spoiled or entitled when someone feels miserable because they don't have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/17 05:34 AM
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I used to do the same thing dude. But you need to realise it's not venting. It is feeding your own bad thoughts. Like, it's clear that you're not in a right mindset right now and every comment you make giving into that feeling is only going to prolong and worsen it. Thinking and saying bad things about yourself isn't venting and it isn't going to help you. I've found that being around other people is the best way to forget about all my own negative thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/17 08:51 PM
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somehow be completely ignorant to the fact that I'm sexually unattractive to most women. I don't know you so I don't know what else might be keeping you from dating but this fucking bullshit right here is at least a major part of it. Stop feeling so goddamn sad for yourself. Your height and your race don't make you unattractive to most women. In fact, if you try you might actually grow proud of those aspects of yourself. And you don't need to erase shit. It's possible to be the person you want t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/17 08:44 PM
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You still going to pretend you're not a defeatist whiner? Go read that first response to me. Not only is there nothing wrong with you but if half that shit is true there is actually plenty to admire. And you've posted your pics here often enough to know literally nobody thinks your ugly. Not even the fucking white supremacist who's only into white guys. So get over yourself and go out and actually approach women. And if that doesn't work out go ask your friends, especially female friends, what i…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/17 08:29 PM
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See, this attitude is a lot more helpful than the "Oh woe is me, I'm below average height and non-white. I've never had a chance!" bullshit you usually peddle. Continue thinking like this about yourself instead of the kind of thinking that makes you get that flair and just approach some women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/17 08:20 PM
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Probably because you're still a defeatist whiner with a serious (racial) inferiority complex who's given no indication of helping himself. Seriously, your looks and racial background are not the reason you're still a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/17 07:47 PM
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I dunno, I don't go out enough to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/17 03:25 PM
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No, it's mostly a way of determining if you have the ability to make and choose attractive pictures of yourself and whether you're capable of writing a witty bio. Even then, there are also a lot of people you're not going to find on Tinder who you might have a shot with. In short: No, reality is still the best way to find out.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/17 10:48 AM
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I'm guessing most people are looking for a relationship with someone they're sexually attracted to. How about you just go out being your best and putting your best foot forward, and be honest about what and who you're interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/17 08:16 AM
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Incredibly diverse, just like men's preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/17 12:24 AM
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It's because of that immorality they keep calling amorality.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/17 06:42 PM
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unless it matters massively to you that your friends and associates think your partner is physically hot. That seems like such an insecure and superficial attitude. It also seems like a recipe for getting into terrible relationships. Faces matter a lot more than bodies to me, because you spend most of your time with someone looking at their face, not their physique. Yeah, this is real true for me too. Even when it comes to looks face matter so much more than body. And it's hard to say what even …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/17 06:40 PM
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I don't understand how anyone could only care about looks with regard to long term relationships. How can you spend that much time with someone and get that close to them if you didn't care about a hell of a more than just what they look like? Especially if you want to raise a family with that person as well. So yeah, I care about what kind of person someone is before I'd ever think of dating them long-term and that includes the stuff listed in the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/17 11:02 AM
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On average, men want casual sex with strangers more than women do. That's why they're willing to pay for sex. That difference might be all biological or it might be mostly sociological or anywhere in between. That's something that can be debated. But threads like this make enormous statements that are completely baseless purely fueled by emotional reasons. There is no logical merit here. Men and women date each other. According to data by the CDC, the amount of virgins is less than 5% for both m…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/17 09:35 AM
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men being men and women being women inherently causes massive inequality. Nope, that isn't a thing. Straight men and women are having sex and are in relationships with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 11:57 PM
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This post reads like someone saying "I'm feeling oppressed and disadvantaged because I actually have to convince others to have sex with me or share their life with me". It's making dating out to be a problem with some kind of socialist solution. It's insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 11:44 PM
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What are some of these recent threads man? Like the crazies have taken over the goddamn asylum. Nobody outside of weird incels is talking about equality when it comes to dating or sex in the sense that people need to be paired off on the basis of some kind of objective value.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 11:15 PM
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I'm unsuccessful because I never tried to be successful in dating, put very little effort into myself and tend to avoid social settings. One of my younger brothers is unsuccessful because he is very afraid of rejection, a little picky, easily obsessed with one girl and has a cognitive disability. That's it I think. Every other person does at least okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 05:03 PM
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This might honestly be one of the dumbest things I've ever read here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 04:57 PM
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These are very attractive women OP, not simply above average ones. Anyway, it is impossible to answer this question. Whether two people end up having an ONS together has to do with both of their personalities, the charisma of the guy, their preferences, whatever kind of chemistry they might have, how open either is for casual sex, how drunk they might be, etc. How could we possibly tell all those factors based on the label "average man" and a couple of pictures? I think this post really shows ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 08:59 AM
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I did answer the question. I said I couldn't give a precise percentage because I couldn't possibly know but that I believe a lot of redpillers and incels really underestimate the amount of men That would be able to have an ONS if they actually went out and tried. Maybe you're going for some kind of gotcha moment but my own situation illustrates it perfectly actually. Even though I've had opportunities to have sex I have never taken them. I am the primary reason why I haven't had sex. I have neve…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 08:51 AM
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I have no idea but I'm guessing it's a lot more than redpillers think. A lot's possible if you actually go out and try.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 02:22 AM
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Anybody, man or woman, that can watch the first 10 minutes of UP or the last 10 minutes of Toy Story 3 without tearing up is a fucking monster.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 12:14 AM
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You're the only one who can decide what yellow flags you're looking out for. If past promiscuity makes you think someone might be incompatible with you, you're free to not date them. But I'd ask you why you'd think so. I mean, what would you think about someone else inferring all kinds of things just because you had casual sex in the past? Or what about the reasoning in the OP. What would you think of someone deeming you incompatible because they're afraid your exes would look at them like chump…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/17 11:42 PM
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Rape is a negative experience because of the lack of consent. It has to do with sexuality in the sense that our sexuality is arguably where consent matters most. But I wouldn't categorise it as negative sexual activity. What matters is the flagrant disregard for another human being's personhood and agency. I don't see why a woman having casual sex has to be framed that negatively. Why would a woman sleeping with random men every weekend have to be a bar slut looking to have the voids in her life…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/17 10:41 PM
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Ease and availability don't change the properties of something. You might work your ass off to own one Porsche while some rich brat owns a fleet of them through his parents' money. The two of you might experience the same Porsche differently based on how hard it was to get but the Porsche is still the same. It drives the same, has the same specs, cost the same, etc. For you, casual sex might be extremely hard to get while for someone else it might be like ordering a pizza. Even if that means you…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/17 10:31 PM
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Being sex-positive means you don't believe rape has changed or devalued a woman on some fundamental level. It means not believing rape ruins a victim. It doesn't mean you also have to believe rape is somehow a positive experience. Rape is about far more than just the physical act. It's about one person completely disregarding the agency of another. It means using another human being's body as if it doesn't house an actual person who should be in control of it. Come on, this is really how you're …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/17 10:26 PM
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To you. But I don't see why that should matter to anyone but you. Being a virgin or having a black ex might devalue someone to another person too but that doesn't mean anybody else should actually care about that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/17 07:41 PM
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I can't really think of any dealbreakers I consider gender-related. If I were to ever consider a real LTR not wanting kids would be a dealbreaker for me. But I don't think that's really about femininity. I'm pretty open-minded about things. Even having a dick wouldn't be an immediate dealbreaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/17 07:39 PM
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Pointing out the double standard of sluts and studs is not saying that casual sex is as easily had as a man as it is as a woman. Ease has nothing to do with it. It is simply pointing out that sex is not considered bad when had by men and women are not considered to be "taking" something from their male partners when they have casual sex with them. Regardless of the ease of casual sex, it still isn't a bad thing and when two straight people have sex neither is taking anything or devaluing the oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/17 07:35 PM
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A lot of other people do have changing tastes. Or maybe they end up meeting someone completely unlike what they had before but who they fall for hard. There is no reason to immediately suspect the worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/17 12:14 PM
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You're going to continue to grow and change as a person and it will have an impact on what you like, what you're attracted to and what you prioritise in a relationship. The same damn thing happens to women. When it happens to you you'll think it's normal and when it happens to women you'll think it's fake or a lie or a cope or whatever else you can come up with to make yourself believe life works differently for women. Honestly, if you want to know if a woman's behaviour is real or "fake" just c…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/17 11:50 AM
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1) I think I'm a 5/10. Maybe a 4 because of how little effort I put in. My younger brothers and parents all have celebrity lookalikes but I sadly don't so I can't help you there. I kinda look like a less attractive version of the averaged Brazillian. And my hair is a lot like this guy's. 2) Used to be but now I'm average. Sort of between skinny-fat and build-fat. 3) 0 4) 0 5) None currently 6) No. I want to participate in the sense that I'd like to be the kind of guy who has hook-ups but I don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/17 11:42 AM
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That entire exchange is useless because it is based on an untrue assumption. Namely that all women are attracted to (less than) 20% of men. That is obvious bullshit. Female attraction to men doesn't work the same as male attraction to women and that gets some people confused. They start thinking women barely find any men attractive at all. But women just develop attraction to people differently. I mean, just look at lesbians. Their dating scene does not have all women vying over a tiny elite. So…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/17 08:29 AM
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Well if we're talking tough questions I'll be brutally honest about myself. I'm real needy and want a woman who's desperately into me. Someone that wants my babies crazy bad. Basically, a girl that wants to sperm-jack me. Sexually speaking I'd want her to be incredibly imaginative in bed. Someone who isn't afraid to get crazy. I find that I'm often attracted to traits in women that I find lacking in myself. Confidence, adventurousness, assertiveness, decisiveness, "coolness", experience, that ki…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 11:19 PM
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Yo, can we talk about how Kamala Harris is hot as hell? Fuck the wall, I'd be all up in that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 03:21 PM
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You live with 49 out of 100 points of privilege. You're not privileged at all. You grew up with an intersectional, complicated identity, and life never let you forget it. You've had your fair share of struggles, and you've worked hard to overcome them. Jesus, that is not accurate at all. I might not be cis white scum but I think I've had an easy life everything considered. I feel like not being able to indicate the intensity or severity of the applicable statements kinda messes with the test.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 02:44 PM
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Give him the ole Misery treatment and he'll be yours forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 01:03 PM
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If she legitimately grew attracted to him and developed real feelings I don't see why this type of relationship wouldn't able to last. There is nothing inherently bad or unhealthy about this kind of relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 12:12 PM
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IMO, being in a relationship shouldn't mean you stop being a charismatic motherfucker and that means people will occasionally think you're being flirty. That's fine and nothing but harmless fun. But you should never actively flirt or lead people on when in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/17 11:14 PM
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Your score is 31 out of 36. Your score is lower than 18% of all participants. I expected it to be a lot lower. I had a hard time with a lot of faces, especially of the young women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/17 11:08 PM
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Women just like men that at least try to look attractive and try to not be awkward in social settings. Have you ever gone out and met someone and asked yourself "I wonder if this encounter was pleasant because he's a natural or because he's been trying real hard to be pleasant company?" Probably fucking not, right? Because that would be stupid. Women don't ask themselves those kinds of dumb questions either.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/17 08:28 AM
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Guessing it has to do with the kind of guy a woman might go after. Some women may only go after the kind of man that at least looks like he's always sleeping around and is very popular with woman. In those cases, you might not be able to tell before dating whether the guy is interested in commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/17 08:19 AM
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Just wanted y'all to know this new SZA album is fucking great. Do yourself a favour and give it a listen.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/17 11:23 PM
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I'm not sure I even live on the same planet as some of y'all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/17 11:16 PM
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On the other hand, there are women whom I consider less hard on the eyes than Amy but whom I nevertheless wouldn't touch. Why that? Simple: femininity. Do you have any examples of this? I'm curious what type of woman you find more attractive than Schumer but lacking in femininity.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/17 06:26 PM
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A lot of that makes sense. If non-committal sex was the vast majority of what you're getting even though you'd prefer a real relationship it's only natural to get frustrated. And I'm curious about the idea that women are less after casual sex than men. A lot of the comments by women here on PPD certainly seems to bear that out but I'm curious to know just how fundamental that difference is. I get your explanation of different wiring but I'm not completely convinced.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/17 11:36 AM
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I get why getting tricked into a situation you don't want is bad. A man looking for a sexually fulfilling relationship ending up with a dead bedroom because his wife loves his commitment but isn't attracted to him is going to feel used or cheated. Same goes for a woman looking for a committed relationship who ends up with something completely casual. So my question was more: can't women desire sex on its own? When having sex is framed like being used it makes it seem as if sex is something women…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/17 11:10 AM
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I've got absolutely no problem with it at all. I don't think using it is sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/17 09:56 AM
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Woah, this chart is kind of fucking with me. Especially since it's from an actual reputable institution. Why do overweight men have more sex partners on average than men with different BMI? And I think this chart could definitely be seen as proof that obese women have a harder time finding a longtime partner who commits to them and therefore have more short time partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/17 09:54 AM
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I get why some women wouldn't like it but I'm thirsty enough for sex that it still seems like a pretty good thing to me. Well, as long as you're attracted to the person. What I don't really get is why this kind of sex is always framed as being used. If you forget about everything else can't the sex still be good on its own?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/17 09:50 AM
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Nah, I'm not picky at all but I'm still not interested in sleeping with women I genuinely don't find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/17 09:47 AM
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If RPers actually believed sexual strategy was amoral they wouldn't react so outraged whenever a woman actually acted a little like the stereotypes they believe in.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/17 12:15 AM
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This article is less about what it's like to live as a woman and more about what it's like to live with a visible disability. She's talking about her experience feeling excluded because of her cerebral palsy and the way she was made to feel abnormal. I don't think it was in any way her intent to criticise women who complain about sexual harassment or getting leered at. Seems a little fucked up to use her article like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/17 11:14 PM
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Disney movies might sell this idea that people can be destined to be together but Disney is in no way the largest contributor to someone's view on dating. Not even close. BP is also the more realistic advice you might hear from parents or friends, which IMO sounds a hell of a lot more like the kinds of things you hear the BPers here say. And none of us ever talk about the one, soulmates or unconditional love.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/17 06:58 PM
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I agree completely on lookism. It's nothing more than an excuse for giving up. Plus, believing it only hurts and humiliates yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/17 06:44 PM
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Where the fuck is BP selling people on "the one" and eternal unconditional love? That's utter horseshit unless BP literally means Disney movies to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/17 06:43 PM
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This is just one long ass way of asking us if we believe in Af/BB. The answer's no.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/17 06:41 PM
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He did. He only did it to a handful of girls including his own girlfriend. Still, not all looked comfortable. But I guess even those rationalised it as something normal and not worth complaining about. Looking back at it now I agree it seems pretty shocking. There's a lot more awareness about how terrible that stuff is. I thought it was fucking weird back then too but never enough to tell anyone about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/17 06:35 PM
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What makes you say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/17 03:25 PM
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Some women like vulnerability and are attracted to men they feel they can help. Seems pretty straightforward to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/17 02:21 PM
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In middle school, the most popular guy in class got away with pinching girls' nipples and even forcing his hand down their pants. Even when girls didn't seem all that comfortable with it nobody even thought about saying something about it. He also had a girlfriend. One of my best friends has a very difficult time not cheating, in part because he's incredibly popular with women. Despite his cheating, he's never really been called out on it or had it affect his dating situation. I think he's capab…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/17 02:19 PM
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1) Is Ted Bundy typical of men's behaviour towards women? What about Cosby? I mean, come on son. 2) People can feel very dependent on other people for a variety of reasons. Low self-esteem, prior victimhood of abuse, loneliness, etc. This goes for both men and women. Plenty of women have abusive partners that control and influence their life greatly. In short, don't let this one case serve as proof for whatever weird beliefs you have about women and their relationship with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/17 02:09 PM
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Ah okay. It always messes with my male entitlement when those transitioning turn out to be gay. I mean, all that effort to become the woman you've always been only to tell me you're not into this primo manmeat right here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 11:04 PM
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Aren't you one of the femmy ones yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 10:58 PM
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Absolutely. To more you get to know someone the harder it gets to actually see their looks, without being strongly influenced by how you think of them as people. I'm not saying it'll transform a person from nottie to a hottie but it definitely has a large impact. There have been women who I've lost all attraction to because of the way they acted and there have been women who've become a lot hotter because of their personality. When friends or family have a hard time being critical of your appear…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 10:00 PM
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Come on, the place isn't that bad. There's plenty of interesting people on here. I wouldn't waste my time being here if I looked down on everybody else.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 07:41 PM
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Depends. I don't like the thought of a long-distance relationship but if I hit if off with someone who was on vacation or who I met online I could see myself travelling pretty far. Depends on how real the connection is. Those are pretty unlikely scenarios tho. In general, I would like to be less than a 3-hour drive. Maybe even less than that. The Netherlands is a small country so you feel far away from each other pretty quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 07:38 PM
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Jesus said to turn thy other cheek, not to spread'em.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 04:34 PM
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What made you think that? I'm straight-ish bordering on the bicurious. To be honest I'm not even all that sure myself but I think I'm mostly straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 04:33 PM
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I mostly see men claiming no one will date them. I don't think I'd be willing to go gay to help my fellow lonely PPDers out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 04:20 PM
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Yeah but she's standing next to one of the most famous athletes in the world. Of course she's nervous. Who wouldn't be? I'm not saying she isn't attracted to him but just that I often see men reading a lot into simple glances and looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 04:18 PM
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I've been told I sound a little like the Dutch Bert from Bert and Ernie. Honestly, I think that's explanation enough for why I'm not getting laid. Women's voices don't really matter to me. Sure, a woman's voice can be a turn on. Zadie Smith sounds incredibly sexy for example. But I'd still fuck the shit out of the Nanny or Michelle Wolf.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 10:20 AM
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Eh, looking at the more stuff again I think only the basketball one isn't 'mirrin. Well, it is but she's admiring his basketball skills and not anything sexual. The rest could all be showing interest on the part of the woman. But it could also just be appreciation for a muscular body without any sexual intent behind it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 10:13 AM
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I admit I didn't look over the more stuff area. There are some gifs there that I think might show a woman 'mirrin someone but also a woman simply being amazed at a great shot for example. I think men are often far too quick to label a woman looking as (sexual) interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 09:50 AM
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Some questions, huh
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 03:24 AM
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Yeah, I feel a little ashamed of how I tried to imply that I was in the running with James Spader. Like he's not an incredibly funny and charismatic actor.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 03:23 AM
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A lot of that still looks like girls simply looking at men. In fact, Zyzz videos are like the greatest example of men projecting their own sexuality onto women. Most of the time the women in the videos react by laughing or acting surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 02:51 AM
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Oh, I like James Spader just fine. I think he's very funny. But to think he's producing more 'gina tingles* than I do... that hurts to know. *I know vagingles aren't a thing but it's a bit like wrestling. Even though I know... it's still real to me dammit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 02:38 AM
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Okay, now I feel a little better. That's pretty Chaddy alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 02:35 AM
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Threads like these have me convinced Chad is made up by lonely dudes because it feels a hell of a lot better to "lose" to some imagined picture of masculine perfection than it does to lose to James fucking Spader or Stephen goddamn Merchant.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 01:31 AM
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I feel genuine attraction to a very wide variety of women. And that definitely includes women a lot of people here on PPD would call unattractive. I have no idea if that has to do with my own lack of attractiveness and I don't really care. In the end, it means I don't have to settle because the attraction is as real as can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 01:23 AM
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I think the vast majority of men have relationships and experience a look of lust from their partners. So no, it isn't alien to the average-looking man.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/17 08:06 PM
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We probably got very different definitions for the words "all the time".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/17 11:39 AM
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Sadly, I think it is. I think it's a double standard arising from our rigid understanding of masculinity. Personally, I'd be turned off by a woman being turned off by bisexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/17 06:52 AM
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Who gives a fuck about the and/or any other gene pool when dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/17 06:50 AM
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For the good of the gene pool, we should institute Chad breeding farms asap. Together we can breed the ultimate Chads and Stacey's people.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/17 06:49 AM
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I also remember one guy on Reddit saying how most average-looking men will almost never in their lives have the experience of having a woman look upon them with lust/desire in her eyes. Except for maybe just before PIV intercourse starts when she desperately wants you to enter her with your penis. But apart from that this look of lust/desire is alien to most average-looking men. I can relate to that fear of never being desired, even if I think it's unfounded, and I can also relate to feeling dis…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/17 06:47 AM
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I'd say you don't have that much control over your overall attractiveness. Most of it is genetic. But you have a hell of a lot of control over the presentation of what you have and that's as important as the way your genes make you look.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/17 06:38 AM
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This is your proof? A story on /r/relationships? You know how many of those stories are written by men. That's why they're always so similar. You'll have to find some more compelling statistics to make an assertion this bold.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/17 03:48 PM
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I'd like to think I'm ugly. I'm probably just average tho, which somehow feels worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/17 08:57 AM
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Sexuality is a spectrum and a hole's a hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/17 05:58 PM
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Some people in this place have such fucked up ideas about women that simply saying women aren't any worse than men makes you a white knight in their eyes. I've got no doubt that there are men that go around playing the hero or adapt their stances to always be in support of women purely because they think it'll get them laid. But most of the time the term white knight is not at all justified.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/17 05:55 PM
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I agree that it's not natural for women to submit to men but that does seem to be the worldview of most redpilled women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 07:15 PM
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Like I said, I don't think anal is really expected these days. Definitely not to the same extent as blowjobs. And just like women should know what their boundaries are and what they want out of sex, so too should men do the same. So if men want blowjobs they should be able to want blowjobs. Same goes for women and eating pussy. I think a world where people are more in tune with what they want, more aware of their own sexuality and more assertive/confident in having their desires met is a good th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 07:06 PM
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Jesus woman, I am as disgusted by sex trafficking and sexual slavery as you are. I just don't think opposing porn wholesale is the right approach to combat it. And videos featuring women puking and getting punched are not mainstream. Those sound like pretty fetish-heavy videos. And does the thought of an 18-year girl participating in those videos make me uncomfortable? Yes. Does that mean that I think it is out of the question that a young woman might actually consent to that? No. I'll tell you …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 06:26 PM
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Yeah okay, I can definitely see how not being into blowjobs could be a turn-off for quite a few men. I doubt anal would make dating all that harder tho. And I think a man would also face difficulties if he refused to ever go down on a woman. Maybe not as much as women do but it would still be seen as a turn-off or even dealbreaker for quite a few women. So I get where you're coming from and don't disagree but I think the problem's getting pretty overblown in this thread. And would someone really…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 06:18 PM
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I think you're grossly overexaggerating the sex trafficking going on in mainstream porn. There is plenty of safe, consensual and respectful porn out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 05:57 PM
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I found out about the blue pill through other websites and kinda stuck around because I both agreed with the criticism of the manosphere but also felt like I had some things in common with the men on there, especially the incels and forever aloners and such. I ended up here on PPD because I just love debating and discussing this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 05:46 PM
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The point is that I don't think porn has to necessarily mean human trafficking or slavery. I think it is perfectly possible to have porn made by consenting adults. So I don't really care how much porn there is in the world. As long as it is made by people that actually wanna make it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 05:43 PM
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We didn't invent sex nor are we the first to stick genitals in each other's mouths and asses. And besides, there is nothing wrong with blowjobs. Or anal. Or eating pussy. Or rimming. Or double penetration. Or fucking gangbangs for all I care. Different sex acts getting celebrated in popular culture or becoming more common isn't proof of the terrible influence of porn. The problem is people feeling pressured to do things they don't want to do. It doesn't matter if little Becky got pressured into …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 05:41 PM
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What the fuck are you talking about? Honestly, you're sounding like a crazy person. You think most men are jerking off the fucking child pornography or something?!? And how the fuck did you read my post and come to the conclusion that I support sexual slavery or human trafficking? And I was saying the exact opposite of what you're trying to pretend I said. I said we need women to feel safe and secure enough to be able to say no to anything, whether it's blowjobs or a baseball bat to the fucking …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 05:35 PM
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You really got a thing against porn, don't you? So you think it's impossible to raise girls to be equipped to handle a pornified world? I think that attitude goes back to your own backwards ideas about female sexuality and the role or power women should have when it comes to sex. I don't think the world today needs less porn, it needs more confident and assertive women. And please note, I'm not saying those women don't already exist or that women who feel insecure or pressured feel that way pure…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 04:27 PM
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Thanks, I appreciate it. I don't think it's really blaming yourself if the blame is still presented as "I was such a beta, I can't believe I ever got that brainwashed by women/Disney/parents". From what I've seen, self-blame on the manosphere is almost always presented like that. It's also outnumbered by the amount of women-bashing. I think it's totally possible to fix your problems, and that might even include some of the advice you'd find on TRP, without any of the misogyny or blaming others. …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 04:10 PM
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I'm not a woman so I wouldn't know what (young) men expect in bed these days but last I heard, from friends and in places like this, even something like a facial is still not done and disliked by most women. And facials are like the most common thing in porn. So I doubt young boys and girls are all into ass to mouth, anal gaping and other extreme shit right now. And in the end, it wouldn't even matter. You have to set your own boundaries and enforce them, even if it means getting rejected. That'…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 04:02 PM
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Going to the manosphere is not owning up to your own problems because the place tells you you're not the one to blame. Instead, they're told women and bluepilled society caused them to act and think like they did. And to counteract those forces, which aren't really to blame for their problems at all, they adopt some pretty misogynistic beliefs. Deciding you should change your approach to things and try to become more assertive, work on looking better and getting a sense of style, be more forward…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 03:55 PM
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I'm baffled by this. Seems like dating should be easy for me, I just have to let women know I respect their boundaries and don't want to throat-fuck, ass rape or bukkake them with my buddies. Porn exists. And it will probably be easily accessible in the future too, even if that means young children end up watching it too. I don't think that's going to change but I also don't think it has to be as devasting as you seem to think it is/will. I watched my first porn videos when I was 12 but I was al…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 03:46 PM
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Very few people are actually incel in that they've tried time and again only to fail. The vast majority, and I'm talking 95%, of people calling themselves incel on Reddit are guys who just haven't tried. That's no diss, I'm in that exact boat too, but it's stupid to entertain that kind of delusional self-pitying behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 11:54 AM
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You sound just as much as a raving lunatic as some deranged incel. This is pure paranoia and delusion. The world isn't devoid of intimacy, love and sex, men and women are still perfectly capable of forming lasting loving bonds and women don't need to give into anyone's sexual desires to make it through the world. I'm genuinely sorry you feel like this but all I can say is that there's literally no reason to.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 11:51 AM
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I mean, I don't know what to say. I'm not one of the men I see the women talk about in this thread. Now I'm definitely not saying I'm anything special, I think most guys are like me in that they wouldn't want to pressure their partners into doing things they don't like. But I can't fight your, anyone else's, battles, now can I? What the hell am I supposed to do? If I ever have kids I'm telling them exactly what I was told by mine parents. Know your boundaries and know that they're more important…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 11:48 AM
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I hope this isn't why you don't want daughters. Because I think it's incredibly paranoid to be so worried about this that it's the reason you don't want the bring girls into this world. It's quite honestly delusional. It's perfectly possible to have daughters and raise them in such a way that they'll never get throat-fucked or pink socked unless they're into that stuff themselves. Have some more faith in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 10:50 AM
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That's not what I said. I said the problem is a culture that expects women to feel like their happiness counts less and that expects them to sacrifice themselves for others. But the way out of that isn't to keep that problematic culture and simply change the porn/men, as this thread seems to suggest. It's to change the culture and make sure women never get raised to think like that. We're not going to get rid of porn. Nor are we going to get rid of pushy assholes who have no regard for other peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 10:47 AM
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You're providing your own goddamn answer right here. This attitude of yours doesn't make you unlovable/undatable, does it? So you're capable of dating (millennial) men without doing anything you don't want to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 08:07 AM
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Women reduce the population of miserable depressed socially miscalibrated losers by refusing to reproduce with them. Nah, y'all are miserable, depressed, socially miscalibrated losers and you can't live with that without thinking the rest of the world is as well. Now, don't take this as me insulting anyone, I'm those things too. But why the fuck do y'all need to keep projecting that shit on every other man out there. Own your own problems guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 08:04 AM
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So the problem isn't porn or millennial men but women being made insecure by bad parenting/bad cultural pressures and growing up thinking it's okay to sacrifice their pleasure and happiness for someone else. That's what I was getting at.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 08:01 AM
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Well, I'll make sure to raise my daughters right then. Because I've never been taught that sex shouldn't be about mutual pleasure and what would now be called enthusiastic consent. I think this is all just proving my point tho. The problem isn't millennial men or porn. The problem is women raised to think sacrificing their own pleasure and happiness is somehow completely normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 07:59 AM
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I'm too much of a pussy to google pink sock so I'll just assume it's terrible. Anyway, I don't doubt that porn has influenced our sexual mores strongly and not entirely in a positive way. But I don't think porn or our evolved sexual tastes have anything to do with being capable of setting your own boundaries and enforcing those. I've got no opinion on ass to mouth or anal or pink socks or donkey punches or anything else people can engage in consensually. If I had daughters who ended up liking an…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 07:56 AM
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Maybe you've just met some terrible men in your life because there is absolutely no reason to feel pressured into doing sexual things you're not interested in. Having boundaries and enforcing them is not going to keep you from being with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 01:59 AM
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What makes you think that? Do you honestly think you won't be able to keep a man if you're not into ass to mouth, anal, whipping, wax-play, threesomes or whatever else you might not like? That honestly sounds as delusional as incels saying you need to be 6 feet, have a 6 pack and need an 8 inch dick to be able to get a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 01:46 AM
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I've got a lot of young nieces and I certainly hope they've got the confidence and self-respect to not put up with any sexual behaviour they're not into. I really don't think you have to worry about most men being sadists.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 01:40 AM
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Assuming you're not into sadism, why would you want to be with someone you're that sexually incompatible with?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 01:31 AM
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I was going to go with a "wut" response but I think I kinda get what you're saying here. Anyway, this is why I was surprised and strongly disagree with the responses by women in the thread about submission w.r.t. hetero-sex that said submitting means letting someone else do whatever they want with you. I think that's an incredibly childish and naive idea. Submitting in bed does not mean giving up your agency. Done right, d/s is supposed to be pleasurable for both people. In fact, when done right…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 01:03 AM
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Even 10 approaches seems a little high for incels. I think most incels haven't really approached one woman their entire life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 12:10 AM
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I hadn't heard of him before I found out about the manosphere either. To me, there seems zero admirable about him. And yeah, I guess it's only natural that people who've looked up to and probably worked hard towards something they feel they missed out on for too long will think others are as obsessed with it as they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/17 05:34 PM
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I really don't think that's the case. With a lot of the religious and cultural baggage around marriage getting removed I certainly see it become less of a special sacred life-long bond but I still think a two-partner family unit will remain the preferred way of raising kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/17 10:19 PM
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I think a lot of people have a hard time with life-long monogamy but 7 years seems awfully short. I think most people prefer to raise kids with the people they made 'em with and that means staying together for over a decade. These days it's probably closer to two/two-and-a-half decades. And I guess it must sound laughable to someone steeped in a subculture that privileges short-term sexual pleasure over literally everything else but that's honestly what I think is the more common attitude. Most …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/17 10:17 PM
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I watched a documentary about Senegal, an Islamic country where polygyny is both lawful and relatively common. Women were the ones most vigorously opposing it. I don't think women prefer a situation where they have to share their husband with multiple other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/17 10:10 PM
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7 years? But raising a child takes more than a decade, even in the past when we still lived in tribes. So if women have more than one child that's probably at least 15 years at the absolute least spend investing heavily in raising them. And this is purely my own intuition but I think most men prefer having a family with one woman over a lifetime of sex with a harem of young women. Even in cultures where men held/hold an extraordinarily privileged position and polygamy was/is allowed most men sti…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/17 10:07 PM
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But we still have hunter-gatherer societies right now. I don't think harems are a common occurrence in existing tribal societies.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/17 10:00 PM
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This is probably TRP 101 but I'd be curious to hear what you think the original imperatives of men and women are then.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/17 09:55 PM
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I don't think the "natural sexual marketplace" is all women going for 20% of men and forming harems. Like, I don't think that's the case at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/17 09:50 PM
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Isn't most people's imperative in the end to just find a loving and stable partner to share their life with and maybe start a family? I don't think men and women can be separated like this, into two groups with completely different goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/17 09:49 PM
1

I feel like we as human beings lost something when we turned shit slinging into something purely figurative.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/17 10:46 AM
3

Unless you're a real night owl, conflicting sleep schedules would be real bitch tho when dating a vampire.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 10:48 PM
7

I don't see the issue with fucking a woman with a big purple dick every once in a while. Go all Mace Windu on that ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 10:46 PM
3

I doubt that pickle is 4,5 inches.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 09:13 PM
5

Of course, it's possible for a woman to have heterosexual sex and not be submissive. IMO, being submissive means taking a subservient role and being the one that gets directed. It doesn't necessarily have to involve whips or chains. A woman getting ordered to her knees for a blowjob can also be acting submissively. Same goes for a man being ordered to lie down so that his partner can ride his face.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 09:10 PM
7

Well, that scenario sounds unnecessarily rude and disrespectful so no, but if it was brought up in a more respectful fashion and we discussed the hows and whys I'd be up for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 09:00 PM
1

Is there anything specific in your life you're uncomfortable with? No disrespect but I'm not going to discuss my personal problems or life online. I simply mentioned it as an answer to someone's question. And there is nothing wrong with my social circle, I just haven't let them in on the state of my mental health. That's on me, not on them. I don't think the quality of friendships has anything to do with someone being like an internet stereotype.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 09:00 AM
11

Christ, I know it sucks to be thought of as unattractive by someone but that doesn't suddenly disappear or even outweigh everything else she might think or feel about you. Women not attracted to you can still appreciate and respect your professional achievements, your talents, your sense of humour, your empathy, etc. No, it's not going to make them want to jump your bones but that doesn't make it any less real.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 08:57 AM
2

Thanks, and I'm happy you were able to work through it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/17 09:45 PM
3

Thanks, you're absolutely right. I've been putting it off for too long. But I'll be on it now.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/17 09:43 PM
2

Well, at least I'm glad I'm not the only one surfing and refreshing this place so much. Sometimes I purposely wait a few minutes before responding to messages because I don't want to seem too weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/17 09:42 PM
1

I'm pretty suicidal at the moment and have been struggling with depression for far too long.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/17 09:34 PM
1

Goddammit, I hoped I changed it before anybody noticed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/17 09:33 PM
5

Watermelon
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/17 09:30 PM
2

1 & 2: A mentor is a weird way of putting it but my dad was and is a great example of traditional masculinity. Outside of my dad, I was surrounded by male peers who all got interested in women and started pursuing them at roughly the same time. Some were better than others, obviously, but we could all learn from each other. To me, this seems like the most common way of learning social skills and interacting with the gender of your desire. Learning together with your peers. 3: I've got some serio…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/17 09:26 PM
2

I'm not going to lie that would probably make me feel incredibly insecure and therefore resentful. Not a good place to be in. Best case scenario I bring it up with her and we talk about it openly. Worst case, I break up with her. I do not at all see why I'd start cheating. Doesn't seem like the most logical next step.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/17 09:21 PM
1

My personal cut off would probably be about 2 to 3 years younger than I am. I like being with people around my own age. So at this point that would be at least 22 or 23 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/17 09:19 PM
1

Never. But I get where you're coming from. One of my friends recently gave me a number of a girl he was acquainted with (and that I've never met) and told me she liked pictures of me and that I should go talk to her. Absolutely baffling. Like, how the fuck do you suddenly start flirting with a complete stranger? Hell, I don't even get how or why I should talk to someone I've never met through texts. Every time I hear people talking about "sliding into someone's DMs" I'm super curious about how t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/17 01:26 PM
1

I'm male. I think high school means something differently here in the Netherlands than it does in the US. High school and middle school are kinda the same things over here so I went to high school at age 12 and left it at age 17. It was a pretty good time. I was shy at first with not too many friends. Things got better socially at age 14/15, you could say that was my high school peak. Got a lot more friends, was very popular in my class and flirted with lots of girls. But I also became a bit of …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/17 11:16 PM
1

Being talented at anything is a plus in my book but I can't really think of any talents that I could fall in love with or are overly attracted to. Maybe singing and writing. Athleticism can be pretty attractive as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/17 04:38 PM
3

Most of the BP'ers here are sex-positive and therefore not opposed to sex work. A lot of feminists and progressives out in the real world are too. So this post doesn't make a whole lot of sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/17 08:21 AM
1

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/17 03:55 PM
3

I think someone's personality and the environment they grew up in have a huge influence on how well they do with women and both of those are things you are "born" with instead of things you can learn. So in that sense, I do think some guys just have it and some don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/17 09:03 AM
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Wait, so a girl is rejected and then approached by someone she finds unattractive and acts ruder than usual in rejecting him. In other words, people who just experienced an unpleasant thing are less kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 06:23 PM
5

I've always been good with kids and family is probably the only thing in life I have uncomplicated happy feelings about. I've always wanted to have children. That's why I want kids. I also happen to think kids deserve having a good example in their parents. Some things need to be in order before the thought of kids should even be on the table. And that's why I potentially don't want kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 06:20 PM
2

Yeah, I think straight women care about looks and physical attraction when it comes to dating but I also think a man's behaviour is more important when it comes to turning a woman on.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 06:17 PM
1

Maybe I'm just slowly turning asexual but none of those pics did anything for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 10:20 AM
6

I feel like this physical beauty is a one-way street; men simply aren't physically beautiful enough to have this effect on women. I think it's a no-way street 'cause I've never felt like this about a pretty girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/17 08:10 AM
2

You laughed at the idea of attractive feminist men. I just questioned what makes you think that because I doubt it's this place. So, what is it that makes you think feminist men aren't attractive or are less attractive than other men?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/17 08:07 AM
4

So what about this place, filled to the brim with men as anti-feminist as they are sexually frustrated, makes you think it's the feminist men who are unattractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/17 02:47 PM
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First things first, being attractive doesn't say shit about what you are. There are plenty of attractive feminist men, leftist men, polite men, etc. This idea that women are sleeping with rude sexist assholes because they're more attractive is a fallacy. Not that that's exactly what you're saying but it's definitely something I've seen argued here. Anyway, yeah, obviously women prefer to be with an attractive man over a man they're not attracted to. Physical attraction is a necessity for relatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/17 09:47 AM
2

No, of course I wouldn't risk my life, wish for war or kill someone else just because it might make me more sexually attractive. The fuck kind of pathetic shit is that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/17 09:41 AM
2

Well, I doubt it'd be a good strategy for my black ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/17 08:54 PM
3

I don't think either is going to do all that well but at least the second guy sounds like someone who actually goes after women. Guy no.1 would not only have to rely on women doing all the approaching but also on them not being turned off by his scared and supplicating personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/17 07:09 PM
1

Yeah, I feel like men having troubles getting laid basically means having to actually ask women out, going to the type of social settings where getting into casual encounters is likely and having to try to look and act in an attractive manner. And I don't even mean having to work out or look like a Chad. Just that people usually need to get some nice clothes, a good haircut and present themselves well when they're going out. I'm surrounded by men RP is convinced should have a terrible time when …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/17 06:18 PM
1

I just realised I'm only really comfortable when people react negatively/antagonistically to me and disagree with what I say. That's when I'm in my element. That's not to say I can't/don't have friends but those revolve around playful banter and roasting. I can't handle people straight up being nice or giving compliments. And the only way I can flirt is if I think the woman won't be receptive or will at least play hard to get/make fun of me. I have no idea what to do with women that might actual…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/17 04:33 AM
1

I hate having my personal space invaded.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/17 05:17 PM
1

Yes, I do believe in the existence of non-verbal communication.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/17 05:14 PM
1

So that's why Trump wants that wall so bad. The selfish prick.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/17 12:26 PM
1

I was very drunk the entire time so I wouldn't be able to get hard anyway. So it's probably for the best...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/17 12:25 PM
2

I thought sex was supposed to fall into my lap. Why else is my dick so perfectly positioned for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/17 12:20 PM
2

Just came back from a weekend getaway with some friends, including a girl everybody and their mother seems to want me to hook-up with. She told the others she was open to something casual with me and still, nothing happened. I have reached peak incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/17 11:47 AM
1

Who the fuck is "we"? Why do you think most men were taught the same things you were. You think most men believe having no spine and being a doormat makes them sexually attractive? Most men don't struggle with those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/17 11:40 AM
2

You just focus on defeating your own delusions buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 07:29 AM
6

I don't wanna insult people I don't know over the internet but what kind of guy doesn't know standing your ground, saying no when you don't want to do something, doing your own shit and making fun of bullshit makes you more respectable in the eyes of almost everyone, loved ones included. Like, do red pillers always blame Disney because they literally grew up in an empty home with only one TV that was constantly showing Disney movies? How do you grow up around other living, breathing human beings…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 07:28 AM
3

I'd say those qualities are pretty neutral. Obviously, being leftist and feminist is going to be a huge negative for conservative women but they'll be a plus for leftist and feminist women. And being very political is probably a turn-off for people with little interest in politics regardless of where on the political spectrum those strong opinions may reside. Being unmasculine is probably not an attractive quality to a majority of women but there's still plenty of women out there for who that's …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/17 11:08 PM
1

A reasonably easy goal that won't take that much work, just a couple of months of max insanity really, is Harrison Ford in Temple of Doom. Just need to get leaner again and I'll hit that target. That's the point at which I'm totally okay with how I look and probably be okay with being shirtless/naked around others. My ideal look is Wesley Snipes in White Men Can't Jump.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/17 10:25 PM
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If he's real he just seems like a man with some serious problems who's never gotten past them. Because being unmasculine, leftist and feminist does not have to mean you'll be unsuccessful with women or end up a 40-year old virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/17 10:21 PM
2

That's not what I've noticed. Quite the opposite, the most promiscuous men I know all have lots of female friends. What they have in common are extroversion, a large sex drive and social success.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/17 10:13 PM
1

Damn that averaged out Brazillian dude looks eerily like a more handsome me. Kinda weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/17 08:45 AM
1

Unless we're talking thick fit Chun-Li legs (Sweet Baby Jesus), muscularity on women is not something I find all that appealing. It also isn't a turn-off, at least not until we're talking serious muscles because then it is, but I think I almost always prefer a softer look.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/17 07:32 PM
2

Not exactly but I do like non-con erotica where it starts out forced but becomes consensual. But even there it's not like I'm imagining myself as the dude doing the raping.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/17 09:12 AM
1

Self-loathing. Deep down I don't feel I deserve happiness or being loved and desired. That's basically the only reason I avoid it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 07:14 PM
2

Yeah, and I am saying that unattractive people are as likely to have good marriages as attractive people. And just as with attractive people, I'm not going to take one divorce as proof of the impossibility of unattractive marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 07:11 PM
2

I'm not moving the goalposts at all. I hadn't heard about DeVito's current marital problems but I still stand by it that I have no problem believing people like DeVito and Perlman have a happy and sexually active marriage. In the same way that I have no problem believing people like Pitt and Jolie having a happy and sexually active marriage, even though those two split up as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 04:49 PM
1

What about more attractive people who've cheated on their equally attractive partners? Cheating and divorce happen to all kinds of people. There are happy fulfilling marriages between unattractive people and broken marriages filled with infidelity between attractive ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 04:26 PM
1

A 19th-century poet who married another poet. Pretty romantic story, look it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 04:21 PM
1

You should probably ignore this whole sphere. From reading your posts it's pretty easy to tell this kind of place doesn't do you any good. The rest of us men can still keep on discussing this shit tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 04:19 PM
2

Men deserving sex and men earning sex are not the same thing at all. They're opposed to each other. Anyway, I think it's healthy to feel like you deserve sex in some general sense. As someone who doesn't have that at all, I can honestly say that feeling like you don't deserve sex fucking sucks. But keep in mind, saying "why wouldn't I deserve sex" is not the same thing as feeling entitled to it, and that's usually what's negatively discussed online.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 04:18 PM
0

Robert Browning fell in love with his wife through her writing. Of course, I could fall in love with someone without sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 04:13 PM
2

Is there any reason to believe DeVito's marriage was unhappy or not sexually active in the past? I just echoed the OP and used DeVito as a stand in for all conventionally unattractive people. Do you think DeVito's current separation proves the OP idea of unattractive couples being unhappy?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 04:11 PM
1

Ah yes, divorces and separations. Things that only happen to people with "low SMV". I'm not up-to-date on the latest from DeVito's life but I'm not going pretend Danny DeVito and Rhea Perlman separating is all that different from Jolie and Pitt separating or Depp and that blonde girl, for example. Just like marriages between conventionally attractive people can fail and succeed so too does that happen to marriages between two conventionally unattractive people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 03:37 PM
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People can be happy regardless of what they look like or the situation they're in. I have no problem believing Danny Devito is a happy man in a happy, sexually active, marriage with his wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/17 08:33 PM
5

Submissive women enjoy being submissive in the right contexts with men they're attracted to. They do not necessarily have to be attracted to TRP's Chad jerk-off fantasy but they can be. A nerdy submissive girl with a preference for fellow nerdy men loves to be treated dominantly by her nerd boyfriend. Of course, plenty of women are not submissive and don't enjoy it regardless of what their sexual partner looks like. Why is this so fucking hard to understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/17 08:30 PM
2

The average guy is not someone unable to obtain casual sex. I doubt many men, especially young men, are seriously considering prostitution. Anyway, going to a prostitute doesn't leave any visible, unremovable, marks (usually at least) and you're not obligated to tell anyone so I don't believe it has any real affect on a person's sex life. Just on his wallet.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/17 08:26 PM
2

I consider rough sex to be sex that involves inflicting pain on your partner(s). I lack the experience to really say whether I like it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/17 05:34 PM
2

The only way I can get hard these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/17 08:39 PM
2

Jenny is a person that suffered some terrible issues and to top it off the only one to actually love her, unconditionally even, is a heavily mentally disabled man. So I don't think she's a bitch at all. What did people expect? That she went and be with a man who's basically a child mentally? Of course, she's scared and runs repeatedly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/17 08:34 AM
1

The term "alpha" is useless anyway but I think it's important to note that no one always gets what he/she wants. Getting what you want isn't something solely determined by some kind of worth you personally have. You might like someone more than anything but if s/he doesn't like you back, there's a large chance no amount of self-improvement, success or money is going to change their mind. Understanding that you don't always get what you want is an important part of growing up. It means coming to …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/17 04:32 PM
2

All things being equal... I don't think it'd matter all that much. I'm not particularly attached to being a man but it would probably be easier than being an ugly woman. So I guess I'd rather be an ugly man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/17 10:18 PM
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Don't think "SMV" has anything to do with it. People throwing themselves at other people and not getting hints/stopping at no is always off-putting and annoying. Plenty of people in relationships don't have "discretion" clauses and are put off by attractive people throwing themselves at them too. And yeah, of course, all men aren't open to advances from all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 05:13 PM
1

Only individual incels can help themselves get laid. That plus the fact that incels' entire online persona is predicated on the impossibility of them ever changing and there's not much use in talking about incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 03:11 PM
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Tonnes of people have learned how to socialise and interact with women without going to clubs or parties. You should probably try it out with some friends, at least once, but what should determine whether you're into that scene or not isn't if it helps you develop but whether you enjoy it. If you don't enjoy it there are plenty of other ways to be social and interact with people.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 08:51 AM
2

Well, at least his hair is cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/17 09:02 PM
8

I get that. Intelligence, personality, looks; a lot of that is mostly genetic. But when it comes to the complexities of an actual relationship and the ending of one, reducing it to genes is just wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/17 08:59 PM
8

Human interaction has evolved to be so complex that reducing it to behaviour solely based on genetic survival and genetic "superiority" is simplistic to the point of being wrong. A person might lose attraction towards their partner because they come to find their long-term goals don't line up. Or, they might lose attraction because the other person is waiting too long with committing in the manner they want. Those things clearly don't go back to "I lost attraction because their genes aren't good…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/17 08:54 PM
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I've got no idea how many women do it but I do think your assumption that it's unlikely because "women consider their ex's genes inferior" to be mistaken. Because, again, genes do not play a role.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/17 08:43 PM
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What with the genes stuff. Nobody's thinking about genes. Nobody gives a fuck about genes. Women aren't dumping men because they don't like their genes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/17 08:34 PM
3

I'm so curious about the thought process behind a message like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/17 07:50 PM
1

Might be my religious upbringing but that feels like meddling with things I shouldn't be meddling with. And I don't like vanity. I don't like making appearances and the impressions of others central to your life or well-being.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/17 05:43 PM
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I think it's well within everyone's rights to approach a complete stranger but I'm a bit baffled by the amount of men that think they're entitled to a nice or appreciative response. Just 'cause you're a dude and she's a woman doesn't mean you're not still approaching a complete stranger. Obviously, not everyone is going to like that. Just like it's within your right to approach someone, it's also within the one your approaching's right to be annoyed by it. Yes, even if you were nice and quick ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/17 01:26 PM
1

Health-wise I've got no problems with it. Why would I want my child to inherit diseases or defects? But I'd never alter other things. I wouldn't select gender or determine their height, hair colour, skin colour, etc. In the end, I think I'd probably just wouldn't do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/17 09:23 AM
2

Imagine what it's like to really want a penis inside you. I bet you can't do it. Oh, you're underestimating me buddy. Seriously tho, even those kinds of things are not unimaginable for me. And even if they are for you, I don't think they're necessary for really understanding a female pov. I mean, let's not forget that there's also plenty women who don't want a penis inside them, just like there are men who do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 01:50 PM
3

I'm not American but I'm a man of colour in a white-majority country and almost all my friends are minorities as well, and I don't think things are nearly as bad as some people online are saying it is. Not saying race isn't a factor, it is, but not to the extent that dating is impossible. Far from it. Plus, race works more complexly than "white men do better". I know women of colour who would date white men but not marry them. Same goes for a lot of men of colour. Hindu and Muslim men who felt f…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 01:35 PM
2

I mean, aren't you asserting that you understand both genders in this very post? I've seen people understand all the things you've laid out just fine. I agree that there are definitely people that can't seem to put themselves in the other gender's shoes but I think it's far from impossible to understand women as a man and vice versa. Plenty people are perfectly capable of doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 01:05 PM
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No. Men just tend to confuse lack of attraction with hatred. Also, what does it mean to be a weak man? A man crying about his cancer-ridden father, a man struggling with depression, a man coping with failure, a man heartbroken over a divorce, etc. I have never seen anyone, man or woman, hate someone over things like that. But if by weak you mean the type of incessant whining we see in the manosphere then yes, a lot of women probably do hate those men and I understand completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 09:34 AM
2

Even if my dumbass managed to stay alone for the rest of my life I wouldn't want to kill my sex drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 08:59 AM
3

I love a good big beard. Too bad I can't grow one for shit. No matter how long I try I always end up looking like I should be going 'round my neighborhood telling everyone I'm a registered sex-offender.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 11:04 PM
2

Because the reason I didn't go a barber for 2 damn years was to try and be sexy. Anyway, I quite like my man buns and I also like my man-bun.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 09:05 PM
1

This I can sort of agree with. I don't think catcalling, let alone sexism in general, is something only done by men from a lower socioeconomic class but it does take on different forms depending on what socioeconomic class someone is from.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 09:01 PM
2

It wasn't only men of colour. I already had this discussion with someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 09:00 PM
1

I mean, I didn't say this absolutely had to be fake just that it's always well-advised to stay cautious. And my second paragraph is all about why, assuming they're real, these kinds of videos don't really show a "dual mating strategy" at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 03:44 PM
3

You know, y'all can keep trying but I'm not going to be convinced that only men of colour do the catcalling.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 03:23 PM
2

Two whole goddamn years. This is what I look like before a shower and this right after one.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 12:40 PM
1

Damn, can I relate to that. I always feel like I'm a whole host of privileges wasted on a shitty person.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 12:23 PM
2

I've had times where I tried to be stylish and when I do buy clothes I'm not afraid to spend some money. Thing is, I don't buy new clothes very often and, try as I might, I just don't have a good eye for stylish clothes. And in terms of haircuts... it has legit been two years since I've been to a barber. These days my hair ranges from man-bun to cartoonish afro to year one Troy Polamalu. On a completely unrelated matter, I don't even try to be sexually successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 12:15 PM
1

It very well could be. The thing is, I don't base my believe in the existence of catcalling on that video. Plenty of people have told me about getting catcalled. Besides, that video would be a lot harder to fake than this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 12:10 PM
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Okay, first of all, are we sure this wasn't set up? YouTube videos featuring things happening in the wild are almost always fake so I'd take this with a grain of salt. But assuming it's real... You see a couple of women react in a certain way and you immediately think that's some common strategy for all women? Of course some women like the kind of forceful and douchey behavior this guy exhibits. And yeah, those kinda girls would probably not like a shy or timid approach. I can be a little dickis…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 09:36 AM
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Just 'cause you're an uncool millennial doesn't mean the rest of us are as well. I personally think the internet has done a number on people and fundamentally changed our lives. That's probably why we have less sex. And yeah, that could be considered an uncool change but to think people in the past were all partying, drugs-using bros compared to now is just stupid. People are still out there doing drugs and going to parties. Besides, those things aren't necessary to have sex at all. Millennials …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 09:26 AM
3

My parents are still together. Going strong for over 25 years at this point. I'm blue as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 08:53 PM
3

You are encouraged to express your emotions in an adult and responsible way. That includes crying when you feel like it and talking with friends and family. It doesn't include breaking down on a first date. You can encourage people to express their emotions more while also thinking excessive emotionality, especially in the form of whiny crying, is annoying and a turn-off. Posts like these just make me question what you guys see as emotional.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 07:45 AM
2

Not to all men, luckily. Some of us are still safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 09:55 AM
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2D photos of s hottie do zero for me. Doesn't matter how horny I am, it's just not something that triggers me, nor could I ever masturbate to a still photo of a random hot dude. Same thing in public. I can recognize a good-looking man, but without something more (and this something can be as tiny as the way he says a word to me, or the way he walks/moves, to as big as an hours-long conversation broken up over several days/weeks), I'm not really registering it in my pants the way men seem to. But…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 09:53 AM
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Depends on how long ago this was. Pretty understandable to get nostalgic over a HS sweetheart, less so for the person who dumped you 2 months before meeting me. Regardless, it wouldn't be grounds for breaking up. I'd be curious and ask about it but I don't think it would really upset me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 12:22 AM
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Baffled that you'd think women would oppose male bc.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 05:00 PM
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Not angry at all. Simply baffled by this question.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 04:53 PM
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Hey, I should thank you. I never knew that Disney chick was thick.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 04:52 PM
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But what a glorious death that would be
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 04:49 PM
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What... why the hell would women ever be against this? How do you see relationship dynamics changing so drastically that women will oppose a pill like that? Do you believe most women get pregnant by tricking their partners into unsafe sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 04:45 PM
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No, the physical traits some men think women want in a man are very rigid, rare and mostly genetic. Actual women, however, are also capable of being attracted to a wide variety of men. Plus, men can more easily become attractive by things outside of looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 04:41 PM
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Jesus fucking Christ, those last three women... you got great taste.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 04:31 PM
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Not really. I've got a thing for women around my own height but I've been attracted to women much shorter and taller than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 04:27 PM
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Anal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 11:08 AM
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Having a large social network trumps physical fitness by a large margin, IMO. The more people you have around you the easier it becomes to date. I think a lot of the men that complain the most online live really isolated lives. Or at least, they're not well connected. Don't have many friends, aren't close to their coworkers/classmates, don't have a large and involved extended family. That's partly anecdotal but it's also just easy to glean from their comments. You can be the most ripped motherfu…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 09:08 AM
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I disagree. If you ask me what I like to eat and I name 5 dishes I really enjoy, while I also like other, completely different tasting, foods, I'm not being wrong. I'm just not painting the whole picture. I genuinely like thick light skinned black women with natural hair. Everything about that, from the skin-colour to the hair texture, is a turn-on. And both paleness and skinniness have been turn-offs for me. And yet that doesn't mean I wasn't really attracted to a pale and skinny Asian girl. It…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 09:09 PM
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Exactly, an inability to completely grasp what you're attracted to or even how it really works. I think everybody has that to some extent, it's not really to do with inexperience.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 09:01 PM
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If you'd ask me to describe an attractive woman I'd probably say a thick woman who's light skinned with natural hair. And that would indeed be a very attractive woman to me. But one of the women I've been most attracted to ever was a skinny, pale half-Asian girl who looked nothing like that aforementioned "preference". Like I said, chemistry and attraction aren't always easy to describe and, IMO, impossible to predict. Doesn't mean that people talking about their preferences are wrong, just that…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 08:59 PM
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What did you expect here? Women getting heartbroken about a "lesser" woman being flirted with? Such a typical pathetic and petty RP fantasy, nevermind completely delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 07:58 PM
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I think most people aren't completely aware of the way their attraction to others works. That's why, for example, a dude may always say he likes blondes and end up with a black-haired Asian girl. That doesn't mean people are wrong about their preferences or lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 07:56 PM
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Not everyone has the same taste in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 07:06 PM
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I don't think there is a tell. Besides a wedding ring obviously. I've heard people say guys in relationships look more together, especially style-wise, than single guys. But it might just be that those guys looked better in the first place, which is why they're the ones in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 04:27 PM
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Yes, I think the problems of men with regards to dating and marriage are insanely exaggerated on the internet. Like, I can't overstate how much the problems are exaggerated.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 04:23 PM
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I think it's reasonable to say that some actions can be telling of someone as a person. It's bullshit to say that she was a bad person before she did this but the fact that she did this doesn't speak well of her as a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 09:11 PM
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I do not consider myself quick to discount a person entirely but falling for a man who posts selfies with severed heads isn't a mistake or simply a wrong decision. That's incredibly fucked up. I'm not black and white in my thinking but that doesn't mean I'm completely incapable of making value judgments. I agree with you that saying "nice guys" were never nice in the first place is stupid and I don't really believe in good or bad people. But I can still call a woman who left her duty and family …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 08:46 PM
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Of course, I want a supportive partner. But that doesn't mean I want someone that always yields to me or never disagrees with me. I like strong personalities so that's exactly what I look for in friends and especially a potential partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 08:42 PM
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Yeah, that's just my ideal fantasy scenario. The traits I'm looking for are there tho, very family-focused, intelligent, laid back, someone I'm comfortable around, diverse yet compatible sexual tastes, prioritizes family and friends over everything else. That does make wifey material for me. Living on a pacific island would simply be an amazing plus. Just always wanted to live there, besides I had a huge childhood crush on Nani from Lilo and Stitch. That's wifey material right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 08:40 PM
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No. It's not like I don't see individual women doing stupid stuff but I just don't see how it's any different from individual men doing stupid stuff. Plus, most of RP's criticism aren't things I see out there in the world or agree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 07:17 PM
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A woman living on a pacific island, preferably Hawaii. She has a huge family and is eager for my family to come join hers. She's laid back and just wants to be around her loved ones. She's cool and intelligent, someone I can be myself around. She's got a rich and varied suite of sexual interests and is open to learning about mine. She wants to have at least 4 kids. She prioritizes family over work and as long as we get by she's fine with me doing the same. She's creative and artistic. She's an o…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 11:49 AM
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Awww, thanks! I really like your posts too, always come off as intelligent and empathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 11:15 AM
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I'm a bleeding heart progressive so the internet is often a little too harsh for my taste. Or at least not nearly intelligent and subtle enough in their mocking. But how can you not see that the extra aggressive tone taken against incels and the rest of the manosphere is a direct response to the appalling language those groups use themselves. Come on man. Nobody gets riled up when a white dude complains that he's lonely. It's when he starts saying heinous shit about women that people get a littl…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 09:13 AM
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/u/OncleJulian was just my type of crazy. His obsession with Brad Pitt and other "Chads" was absolutely hilarious. Plus, he knew how to take a joke. Didn't take himself too seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 09:09 AM
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It's definitely pathetic. Giving up is probably one of the most pathetic things you can do. But it's also often the easiest route to take. I think it just comes naturally for some of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 08:59 AM
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Thanks dude. And don't sell yourself short. I enjoy engaging with your crazy ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 08:57 AM
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You say that like giving up is hard to do. It's the easiest thing in the world baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 12:03 AM
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A whole hour breh... I'ma need a tl; dw for this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 10:25 PM
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Mid-20's is when that shit starts to feel a little more real than comfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 10:24 PM
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I really doubt RP is anything more than a subreddit where men get to whine and/or flex their creative writing skills. I don't think their internet bullshit often manifests itself in the real world. As for your paragraph about alpha's and jocks... come on man, that's exactly the kind of delusional thinking we usually mock RPers about.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 10:22 PM
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I doubt "alpha's" have anything to do with my level of happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 10:17 PM
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I agree, I'm definitely one of a kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 12:49 PM
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I don't think there's a best age. If a man or woman is still focused on their career throughout their 20's and doesn't want to be held back by a serious relationship it's obviously not the optimal time to get married for either of 'em. I don't think marriages that started when the people were 23 are necessarily any better than marriages that started when the people were 33. "Best age" is solely determined by your own situation. I don't think there an average best age either.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 09:31 AM
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I wish... Just kidding, of course men also get pumped and dumped. Men can develop feelings for women they casually sleep with and feel bad when those girls don't return those feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 09:24 AM
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Not any more difficult than making friends with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 09:19 AM
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Rejection, infidelity and even divorce don't have to ruin a person's life. Nor are those things so common as to be reasons for staying away from long term relationships forever. Most people want romance and partnership in their lives, they can be incredibly enriching. And guess what, most people see the relationships they have now and had in the past as ultimately being worth it, even if some ended painfully. It's okay to not do things out of fear. But don't expect the rest of mankind to live li…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 11:07 PM
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I'm open to fucking some dudes but I'm not actually into anal with women. I'd rather just fuck the pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 09:39 PM
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I think there's probably plenty big muscly gay dudes that like to bottom but there just isn't anything appealing about it to me. When it comes to me fucking someone else I want that person to be feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 09:37 PM
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Funnily enough, I like porn and erotica featuring "Chad" like men, not because I wanna pretend being them but because I think they're attractive. And yet, I could never see myself fucking a guy like that. The only type of guy I could see myself potentially fuck are very skinny, feminine guys. I'm not sure if I only like the thought of dominating a feminine man or if I could actually do it as well. I also like the idea of fucking someone who's transitioning into a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 09:17 PM
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It took a very long time before I could accept of myself that I can find men sexually attractive and that, in very specific situations, I could possibly fuck a dude. That said I don't necessarily think most men are bisexual. I do think that there's still a very significant stigma on men being bisexual and that's definitely keeping down the amount of men willing to admit they're bisexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 08:04 PM
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People I wanna fuck have sex appeal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 04:21 PM
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It's never a good sign if you really want something, enough to air that desire out, and aren't capable of getting it. I'm no fan of the idea of some objective or average "sexual market" value but I'm not surprised it makes you low value in the eyes of some people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 03:45 PM
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I think pump and dump is more often about leading someone on by implication than actual outright lying. Plus, leading someone on is far more usual than seeing a prostitute. I think most people will be okay with the former but not with the latter. Even though, if done right, prostitution doesn't have to be immoral at all. Can be a simple transaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 04:08 AM
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Flirting, touching and asking people out isn't bad. In fact, that's exactly what you gotta do if you actually wanna go somewhere with a woman. It's still culturally expected for men to do the asking out. That's not to say women never ask a man out but I wouldn't count on it if you're interested in getting anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 04:04 AM
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You know, describing it like this makes TRP come off as a subreddit for closeted cuckolds. That does explain a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 03:59 AM
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I get a feeling of irrational disgust for the very idea of me ever having plastic surgery. I rather stay ugly me than pay out of my nose to become a little better looking. And I absolutely detest the idea of changing your racial traits. People feeling racially inferior make me angry. Have some goddamn pride in who you are. Take pride in having Asian features. But these are all my personal opinions. I don't think more plastic surgery is good but people can do whatever the fuck they want to do. If…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 06:29 PM
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No, I'm perfectly capable of criticizing individuals. Of course, there are narcissistic women. Of course, women can make bad decisions. But you're alleging there's this societal issue of hypergamy because of some made up stereotype of a woman and I know that ain't true. I'm not biased against women, I just don't think there's some large problem with dating or with women getting with hotter guys and ending up alone. Hell, even if some women spend their entire lives chasing after men who are only …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 06:23 PM
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Masterpieces of unintentional comedy perhaps. Tho I gotta admit that I sometimes like the intentional comedy too, like this post here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 05:43 PM
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Staying with someone you consider beneath yourself. I don't think it's got anything to do with the reality of the situation (i.e. a thin person doesn't automatically settle when being with an overweight person), it's all about the perception of the person who thinks they settled.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 05:38 PM
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Never.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 05:33 PM
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I have an issue with your observations. They seem less like actually observations and more like your own wild imaginings.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 05:33 PM
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So you're saying these girls spent an incredible amount of work to look their best and it results in them getting with attractive guys... and somehow we should all be mad about this or think it's unfair? Dude, you're not describing a problem here. If that girl can attract that guy then... that's it, why get all bothered by it. We're supposed to be mad just 'cause you think the guy is hotter than the girl? They usually have a dislike of hard-work and putting effort into things. who go to tremendo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 11:29 AM
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We're not all like this dude. No need to implicate all of mankind just 'cause you are this desperate. This does not in any way represent my thinking or the way I feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 07:00 AM
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Lastly, can you lay out what your sexual fantasies are? (The more detail the better. It's interesting.) Riiight...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 05:53 AM
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"I tried to get with a woman out of my league and got shot down" the thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 08:39 PM
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I don't think those subreddits are necessarily mainstream. They're okay from what I've seen but they can both be pretty quick to label a relationship abusive. In the actual mainstream, I don't think it's seen as all that weird or bad to give your unsolicited opinion on a partner's (new) look. My buddies always make fun of me for being totally onboard with pixy haircuts and buzzcuts on women and they would certainly not be okay with their girlfriends cutting their hair too short. Personally, I'd …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 08:30 PM
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Is it really a mainstream view that people can't tell their partners if they change some physical feature in a manner they don't like? I don't really think it's all that unorthodox to suggest people are entitled to voice criticism or a personal opinion on the way their partner decides to look. It's only really frowned upon if it's done extremely harshly or rudely, or in the form of an ultimatum.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 08:08 PM
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That hurt!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 06:54 PM
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All I know is that she got her hair cut off. I don't really know how severe the shaming and humiliating was. And I also don't know what she actually did. Was it a real relationship or was she just seen with a soldier around town? Not something people like discussing. So I can't really comment on how deserved her punishment was. All I can say is that I'd prefer to forget it ever happened and just never mention it. As long as it was just a relationship and not actual harmful aid I'd forgive and fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 06:25 PM
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I waver on this. I like to think of myself and portray myself as someone that could easily stay alone for the rest of his life but I don't think that's actually true. I'm not sure I'd make it very far if I really was to stay alone forever. So I think I'll go with having the relationship. Relationships can be much more than just sexual attraction and I've seen firsthand how the arranged marriages of some of my older relatives could still be good and healthy and an obvious boon to their general we…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 06:20 PM
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My great-aunt dated/slept with an occupying German soldier. After the war, they shaved off her hair to publically shame her. It's not something people talk about to this day. Anyway, I'm not sure how this kind of thing should be handled. Unless there's clear proof someone aided the enemy war effort I think it's best to just forgive and forget.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 06:13 PM
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What do you mean with "what you've read on this sub"? Are we talking about what the women on PPD have actually written or the way the red pillers among us have written about them? Because your list really only make sense if we're talking about the latter. Anyway, nearly all of the negativity surrounding women around here comes from men I don't trust in the slightest so that holds no surprises. And nothing the actual women here have written has surprised me either. Maybe that a lot of 'em have gr…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 02:36 PM
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It's not really wrong to imagine the women in field reports to be very beautiful because those are imaginary women in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 02:29 PM
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At it's best, frame seems like little more than self-control and setting and keeping boundaries. Nothing wrong with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 11:50 AM
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She's shitty because she left her duty, and her husband, for a man that cuts off the heads of innocent victims. That's a pretty shitty thing to fall for in my opinion. And Snowden made the deliberate choice to expose government overreach to the public in a pretty responsible manner. He's a whistleblower, and that's completely different than what this woman did.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 07:46 AM
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This married woman fell for a man who posted selfies of himself with severed heads. She is obviously a bad relationship partner, a shitty person and someone who's attracted to terrible people. This does not disprove anything about BP. The reason she got off with such a light sentence is probably because she had a lot of useful intel and shared that immediately. Plus, the fact that she worked for the FBI was brought up as a reason for her light sentence, helping your own and such. I don't know if…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 07:30 AM
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I'll give you the same answer I gave someone else. As a man, you have a right to cum or not cum in a willing pussy, and you have the right to determine how protected that pussy is. Wearing a condom, getting a vasectomy and deciding to only sleep with women you trust to be on protection are all means of having sex and ensuring the chances of a pregnancy remain small. That's the extent to which you as a man get to determine whether you're going to become a dad or not. But once your seed helps caus…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 11:56 PM
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It's a common misconception that abortion rights are about getting to decide whether you're ready for a family or if you even want kids. The question of abortion rights is about women having the right to determine what happens to their bodies, and that includes terminating a pregnancy. As a man, you have a right to cum or not cum in a willing pussy, and you have the right to determine how protected that pussy is. Wearing a condom, getting a vasectomy and deciding to only sleep with women you tru…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 11:55 PM
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Thank you for showcasing exactly what I just said. Abortions are about a person's bodily autonomy. Seeing as that the woman has to carry the child she is also the one deciding whether she will carry it to term or not. Abortion right's have exactly fuck all to do with men. They're about giving women the right to decide what happens to their own bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 10:15 PM
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Feminism is about empowering and freeing women, not curtailing men. It's just that some men see their control over women, and their oppression of women, and their privileges over women as somehow being natural and right. So any attempt at giving those women the choice for something different is seen as an attack on men, even though that's not what it is about.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 09:28 PM
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Brashness and wit can sometimes come off as arrogance but I don't think they necessarily are. And both those things can be attractive to some women. Rudeness and insults, however, I wouldn't call traits well-known for being liked by women. Those are pretty frequently mentioned as big turn-offs. And I don't think arrogance of deeds is really a thing and if it is, it's something that happens internally for you as an individual. Not something anyone else can really notice.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 09:24 PM
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Why would you tell friends you saw a prostitute because you're incapable of getting unpaid sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 09:19 PM
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Yeah you're right, that was a typo. Meant definitely not. And I don't think it's realistic. All kinds of people have still been able to get into relationships. Midgets, disfigured people, etc. it seems like a torturous waste of time to contemplate all the ways your hypothetical kids might have potentially it hard in the future. I think the pressure will increase because I see looks becoming more important for men. It's just a cultural shift I'm noticing of looks also being important for men and …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 09:13 PM
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I don't really believe in this whole niceguy phenomena. Like, I'm sure some guys are too timid and unsure of themselves to ask a girl out directly and end up getting frustrated that nothing falls into their lap but the internet has gone and made a whole fucking mythology around it, with different types and hidden motives and whatever. I think it's mostly something people talk about on the internet, not something that ever happens that neatly in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 06:34 PM
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Damn, I think that the second paragraph describes a really sad way of looking at yourself and the dating world. That's an unnecessarily depressing thing to have weigh on you when imagining a possible son. Anyway, I do think looks will become a greater pressure on boys and men in the future, at least when it comes to dating. It'll get increasingly similar to what already women experience. Still, all types of people date. People want to be with others they feel comfortable with. People have all ki…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 06:29 PM
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My dad was really surprised when my mom wanted to change her last name. It's not really done where he's from. Family/clan name is very important and you sure as shit aren't going to change yours. And because there's less of an emphasis on documenting everything, especially a few decades ago, it's not really a big deal to have no set family name but instead, use both depending on the context. I know that's not really possible here but I would have no problem with my wife keeping her own name. In …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 06:21 PM
1

You know, this gets said a lot but I actually think it does a disservice to the Democrats. American society is very different from most of Europe so the priorities of the American left are different. But at heart, they're still a progressive and left-wing party. The last DNC was one of the most hopeful, progressive and inclusive political conventions I've ever seen. It warmed my little European heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 01:48 PM
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For some reason, people think intelligence is part of the contents of a book while looks are purely the cover. Hence it's shallow to judge the latter but not the former.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 09:09 AM
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This, basically. Changing is very hard. Advice giving, on the other hand, easiest thing in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 09:08 AM
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Merkel's a conservative politician. I know she seems like a beacon of light and hope to disillusioned Americans, and I like her just fine too, but she's not a progressive or particularly left-wing. So it's no surprise that she won't call herself a feminist. I don't think her main constituency wants her to either.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 09:06 AM
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Yeah but he's made quite a few posts about the age of consent and women's peak fertility in the last few days.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 07:04 PM
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I think alpha and beta are barely defined concepts that get thrown around willy-nilly around here. So saying they're caused by genetics in men but only represent mentality in women doesn't actually mean anything to me. If you think alpha men are men with high testosterone then why don't you believe alpha women are women with higher than average testosterone?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 06:16 PM
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How could anyone change your view on this besides telling you all of it seems completely unfounded. This is like someone saying: "I believe little invisible pink fairies enter men's bodies through the nose and cause impotence by filling the penis with magic invisible fairy dust. CMV."
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 05:39 PM
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I wouldn't want it lower than 16. Even 16 seems a little young, I'm honestly fine with age of consent being 18. Of course, common sensical Romeo and Juliet laws should apply for people of similar ages. I'm more concerned about your interest in this. You seem to care a lot. It's not a good look buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 05:35 PM
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I don't think anything of it. A white man marrying a younger Filipino women isn't bad by default. Congratulations on your marriage. I mean, if you're also going to tell us you two met online through a mail-order bride service then I'd maybe judge a little. That would make you seem like a skeezy old dude who's about to be played hard. Hell, that's how you'd look if you two met online and had never seen each other in real life. But I assume that's not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 11:45 AM
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Yeah, that one's great too. Melissa McCarthy is fantastic on SNL, tho I'm not all that into her movies. Here's one about all us bluepilled white knights. They're onto us.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 12:30 AM
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Nailed it. That's exactly what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 12:26 AM
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that red fuck Elmo Have some respect for my boy Elmo, damn. Anyway, most men aren't dumb enough to get hoodwinked by Disney in their childhood. Only the ones that go on the get hoodwinked by TRP as adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 11:05 PM
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They've even got one about the cock carousel. TRP redeemed!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 10:59 PM
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I was a ravenous pansexual man-whore as a little kid so maybe that's why I didn't feel shit whenever I kissed a girl/boy/adult. In fact, I remember the first time actually feeling some arousal having to do with a girl's feet back when I was 4 or 5. Huh, that might explain a lot about me...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 10:12 PM
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Yoooo... isn't like 80% of the time on TRP spend complaining about getting lied to by Disney. Ain't nobody ever felt "twitterpated" in real life. It's just a cute little kids-friendly joke about getting aroused for the first time as a boy. That kind of joke connected with the audience of the time. Nobody back then would've accepted even a little joke about young girls getting aroused for the first time. Anyway, here's a less kids-friendly SNL joke from the viewpoint of a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 09:43 PM
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I love me some solitude but even I have to admit having some loved ones around me is ultimately good for my mental health. I think the need for having strong close bonds to a few people only grows with age. I wouldn't want to go without those bonds in my final few years. Doesn't have to be a SO but at least something. Kids, brothers, nephews and nieces, friends. My grandmother died surrounded by tonnes of people who loved the hell outta her. I think that's the best way to go. But you know yourse…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 09:17 PM
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I can literally keep this up forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 08:24 PM
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Hey, if you gotta think I'm completely off the mark just to be able to sleep at night that's okay with me. It's all projection sis, don't worry about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 08:20 PM
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Nah, I've been here a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 08:19 PM
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I don't think the intent of this post is lost on anybody. If you wanna point and laugh at a picture of some random people and feel better than the average person on Reddit at least have the balls to be honest about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 08:06 PM
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Isn't this entire post basically about how ugly/fat/weird the average Redditor looks? Didn't you just post a pic to make fun of the people in it? And I don't get it, are you accusing me of having a secret motive? I'm pretty open about my motive. This is a bitchy-ass post and I'm calling you out on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 07:47 PM
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It's just a turn of phrase but feel free to sub "flick your bean" for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 07:38 PM
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I expect more shruggin' and less gloating/bragging over one's self-professed superiority.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 07:35 PM
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Picture doesn't even seem that bad. Yeah, there's quite a few obese and overweight people on there but that's a given nowadays, especially when it concerns a gathering of Redditors. Same goes for the lack of styling and general care for appearance, that's kinda what I expect out of people so entwined with their Reddit persona that they go to actual meet-ups. On the whole a pretty average group of people. Is there any point to this post beside jerking your dick feeling superior to others? Doesn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 05:18 PM
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"That gotta hurt." You bald motherfucker. I can't stand these kinds of shows. Anyway, this is a fucked up situation and nobody, especially not a 17-year old kid, needs to find out the babies he's been raising for over a year aren't his. The mother should've been more supportive for her son instead of immediately wanting to keep the family together. It's easy for me to come here and say that I'd leave that girl in a heartbeat but the truth is that's probably difficult as fuck to do. Still, he sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 01:13 PM
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Wait... what? What does that have to do with my comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 01:03 PM
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This OP is insane. BP is saying that traditional dynamics are neither natural nor best, they are just one of many options. If you and you're partner are happy in a traditional household so be it, no bluepiller is going to care. Examining and trying to understand greater trends in society is not the same as criticizing the people following them, let alone forcing them to do anything. TRP is where people think there is one specific way that's natural and that's best and everybody that doesn't foll…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 12:33 PM
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No, I was given a lot of leeway and trust growing up. That helped me not care what other people thought and to always do what I thought was right. I didn't need to rebel because I was raised to always be my own authority. I did go through a lot of messy introspective shit as a result but that's not the same as being rebellious.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 12:26 PM
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There's literally an app for it. So, it's slightly less easy than ordering a pizza.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 12:25 PM
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If you agree with your GF that it's okay to wake you up with a blowjob you've basically consented to it. However, having had lots of consensual sex while awake with someone doesn't suddenly mean you can have sex with them while they sleep if this was never even brought up, let alone agreed upon.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 12:24 PM
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In HS guys told me putting two wet sponges in a pringles tube and fucking that felt very similar to actual sex. Now, if a sex-like experience can be achieved by combining two sponges and a tube of pringles that shit can't feel all that amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 12:20 PM
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I've never felt less powerful or more impotent than the few times I got so angry I broke a glass wall or punched through a door. Those are times I'm ashamed off, not something I like about myself. I'm not really sure from reading your comment whether you consider your husband breaking chairs to ultimately be a positive but I think abstaining from that kind of lashing out speaks more of a powerful person than giving into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 12:13 PM
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It's a disadvantage for sure but I think it gets exaggerated here because we spend all our time discussing sex and dating. In reality there is much more to life than just those things. So while ugly people face disadvantages, especially with regards to dating, I don't think it's that bad. I actually think it's more the case that exceptionally attractive people get treated much better than average. I don't think ugly people face that different an experience than the majority of average people.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 11:13 PM
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Having sex with a random person and then sleeping next to him doesn't mean you've given him the go ahead to start fucking you while you're asleep as well. Come on, that's common fucking sense. You're saying you'd wake a ONS by having sex with her? Again, in the end she's just a random person sleeping next to you, even if you two had sex the night before.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 11:10 PM
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I genuinely can't think of anything. I don't have my shit in order at all but I always got great advice, had realistic and down-to-earth friends and family and had parents who set a great example. Things couldn't have been any better than they were. The kind of shit in the OP seems absolutely foreign to me (girls are "higher class" humans and nobody ever told you looks matter?). I've always thought blaming society or your parents or whoever for "lying" to you in your youth was a huge cop out.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 11:06 PM
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Christ dude. You're blaming her for getting assaulted in her sleep because she fell asleep next to him? So if you find a sleeping woman next to you your first thought is to start having sex with her unasked?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 11:01 PM
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I literally preface my list with saying that I need to be physically attracted to someone first. In fact, you're quoting the actual fucking sentence. I'm not pretending I don't care about looks, I'm literally saying: "Together with being attractive to me, these are the qualities I find important."
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 10:59 PM
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Its endearing Not to me. What if it's not mutually exclusive? I strive to have that be the case for me as well. That's why I admire it in others. Some weird idealized version of looks don't matter... It's not about looks not mattering but about how you see a partner. I want to be with someone as they are. I want them to express themselves as they want, and that's what I want to have as my girlfriend. I don't want her to ask me what to wear or how to do her hair or what kind of make-up I prefer. …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 08:21 PM
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What he did was wrong. Getting sexual with someone who's sleeping is rape or sexual assault because the person can't consent. He probably understood how fucked up what he was doing was because he stopped and apologized as soon as you told him to but that doesn't make it less wrong. And before some redpiller comes to tell me he wakes his wife up every morning with a good dicking, there's a difference between something you and your wife have agreed on and trust each other on and doing something wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 08:15 PM
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Or maybe there isn't one type of person who's good for anyone and people should just date whoever they want to date. For some people, a needy person who needs a lot of maintenance might be just what they want. It helps their self-esteem, keeps them busy, whatever. Just like how there are people who always end up in very lopsided relationships with people that often can't give like they receive. Because that's what those people are looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 07:38 PM
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I'm incredibly attached to having at least some distance between me and my loved ones. Don't really see why constant curiosity about my whereabouts or someone who prioritizes me over everything else would be attractive. I'd also prefer someone who wants to be with me but is capable of leaving when it no longer suits her. That kind of independence is attractive to me, I have no need for undying loyalty. Same goes for working overtime for my attraction. I'd prefer a woman who feels secure enough i…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 06:36 PM
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Outside of being physically attractive to me, what would make a woman high value in terms of relationships is: being intelligent open-minded and nonjudgmental with a great sense of humor and capable of laughing her ass off at my jokes irreligious or at least very nonchalant about her faith treasures family, both in terms of wanting a family herself but preferable also in being close to her own creative, especially when it comes to writing and/or making music adventurous and spontaneous has a str…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 03:53 PM
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Are you being for real? This is one of the dumbest things I've ever seen here. If you'd just walked up to her, told her you found her strikingly attractive and asked her out you would know by now whether there was any chance of you two dating. "Our seats were too far apart so I had to stalk her instead". The fuck is wrong with you, man?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 08:28 AM
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High value to whom? To me, or to most men? I don't think there's really a way to be high value to most men, or to the average man, at least not when it comes to personality or what job you have or anything like that. Best thing I can think of is to meet conventional beauty standards. Do that and you'll probably appeal to most men, making you "high value".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 08:24 AM
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Oh I confuse the two all the time. Scratching an itch can feel really really good after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 09:27 PM
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Being attracted to any of the pictures doesn't make one a pedophile because she looks like a fully developed woman in all three. Being attracted to people with the physique of a fully developed adult does not make one abnormal. That's perfectly natural. Doesn't mean it's suddenly okay to pursue women that are minors but that look adult. As soon as you find out you bail if you've got any sense in you. As for that last point... breh, you're obviously more attracted to 14-year old Angie than 20-yea…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 06:47 PM
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I once saw a big strong Chad and felt something happening downstairs I never felt before. Got real scared for a minute because I thought that meant I was gay and had just felt RP's trademarked tingles. Luckily, it just turned out to be an itchy anus because of a hemorrhoid problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 05:51 PM
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I'm no red pill but even I agree that this argument is a bunch of horseshit. There's plenty to disagree or attack TRP on, no need to start using their own ideology and concepts to try and put them down.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 12:31 PM
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I never believed such a thing. I also disagree with bluepillers who tell redpillers, MGTOWers or incels that their internet persona is detectable offline. Nothing you do online has any real bearing on how you come off in real life or what people think of you and thank God for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 08:15 AM
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The logic behind MGTOW isn't sound because your claim that men are extremely disadvantaged just isn't true. It leads you to ask what the point of marriage is, but plenty of men out there get lots out of marriage and see marriage and women in general as a positive influence on their lives. In fact, I'd say that's most men. Now, if you fear that marriage won't work out for you or if you think opening up your life to dating and relationship is too risky, that's completely your right. Nobody is goin…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 11:14 PM
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To all the short guys out there, just use this secret technique. Guaranteed to work. Not only will you get laid a hell of a lot more but every time will be a threesome too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 09:27 AM
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No, you should date who you wanna date and do what you wanna do and not let some random internet macho's decide how you go about dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 08:59 AM
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It's incredibly fucked up. I don't know if it's rape, I'll let the lawyers among us decide that but it's certainly morally wrong. And about the reasons behind it, I'm guessing these are guys with a very specific fetish. I get it, I've got similar kinks but involving other people in your kinks without their knowledge isn't okay to put it mildly. But for them that's probably part of what arouses them so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 08:54 AM
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The Guardian is left-leaning but to compare it to Breitbart is madness. The Guardian is still actual journalism.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 08:46 PM
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The Guardian is like Breitbart... really now?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 07:47 PM
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I get that offers of casual sex when you're looking for a LTR or coming from people you find unattractive are unwanted. But that doesn't need a long list of qualifiers to justify as unwanted like this example does.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 07:03 PM
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Honestly, I think I'd be okay with dating exclusively for a while before having sex. So that'd be technically monogamous but I don't know if it really counts as commitment. Tho, I wouldn't call it an actual relationship until we had sex. I'm not going to be someone's boyfriend before we slept together. But I am willing to only see them for a while beforehand.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 02:13 PM
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So I'm guessing this is some sorta switcheroo where you're saying this what it's like for women but instead of women offering lackluster friendship you don't want it's men offering lackluster sex you don't want. I'm not sure that's a great comparison. Anyway, absolutely nothing about this "friendship" sounds good so why would I want it. If it had been a normal friendship I would've enjoyed it, though I wouldn't want to meet them on a dating-app. That's where you go to date, not make friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 08:52 AM
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I don't much care about height but I do think it's attractive when women are slightly taller than average. I'm 5'10 and I think it's attractive when women are between 5'8 and my height.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 12:13 AM
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Lions, easily. I mean, ever seen a bitch look at a gazelle like this? I rest my case. Lions are nature's Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 08:34 PM
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Why would anyone prefer scenario B. I don't think it's a negative at all if my SO felt invested in my life and wanted me to succeed. Sure, that's extra pressure but most of all it's inspirational and supportive. Nothing about scenario B seems alluring. Give me A any day of the week.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 08:12 PM
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Average man and the average woman
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 06:58 PM
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Hell no. For me, PPD is one of the best ways to not feel depressed. And that's not some joke at the expense of anyone here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 05:22 PM
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I don't really bother with thinking about who may or may not have it better than I do. I'm just trying to do me. I get that attractive people probably have it easier just finding someone but I see people of all kinds around me struggling with finding what they really want, whether that be raking up many notches or getting a real LTR. I don't weigh people's problems against my own before I acknowledge 'em as real. Individuals all have their own struggles. There are overall average differences in …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 08:49 AM
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Men are overall more desperate for sex, expected to be the ones approaching and usually not above the shotgun approach of just going after everyone so yeah, in that sense women have it much easier than men. But when it comes to finding another person you're attracted to, who you trust and most importantly who is interested in giving you what you want, whether that be good casual sex or a LTR, I don't think the difference in ease is all that large between men and women. This is why you see averag…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 08:06 AM
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Yeah but I don't think you're an average woman. I mean, a monstrously tall tattooed thug with bloody knuckles walking up to you with a scary glare probably just excites instead of scares you. Seriously tho, I'm just saying that I get the complains and that I would probably feel similar. But I acknowledge that not everyone feels that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 07:59 AM
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I don't get annoyed at women straight-up asking for my number but I do get annoyed at a group of women yelling from a balcony for my number. That does not feel genuine at all. Same goes for a group of women yelling "hey boy" while I'm walking through a busy city center. That kinda shit is catcalling and men do that all the time with women. I'd have no problem with a woman making eye-contact with me or respectfully walking up to me to make small-talk and ask for my number. It's similar to receivi…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 10:53 PM
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Why the fuck are you trying to spin this into me disrespecting women because... I listen and take them seriously when they complain about a problem mostly unique to them. Who do you think you're fucking fooling with this shit. Multiple women, including in this here thread, tell you catcalling is annoying, can be hostile and is a problem. I agree. You dismiss it, tell them their problems aren't real and to fucking move away from the city if they can't handle it. But somehow I'm the one who's disr…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 08:42 PM
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No. I did learn to play the Axel F theme on a keyboard in High School but that's as far as I got.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 08:37 PM
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Thanks for the links!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 08:34 PM
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Still trying to pass it off as respect, huh? I'll let others be the judge of how successful that is. Do wanna point out that you say you respect their decisions but then make fun of them and call them babies when they decide to advocate for more awareness and shame the men involved instead of moving away and avoiding living in cities.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 08:26 PM
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All the guys are going to go " oh it's so hard to be wanted" as if that's what is really going on. Yeah it's pretty surprising how many guys think this is all there's to it. Like women complaining about getting catcalled is them not being appreciative enough of being thought of as fuckable by random dudes. So fucking stupid. Well, to be honest, I've been here long enough to not be that surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 08:23 PM
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There have to be better ways of getting that boost.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 08:20 PM
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Well I'm happy that it doesn't bother you and even lifts your day. But I can see where some of the complaints are coming from. I don't think I'd feel very comfortable if people I had no interest sleeping with kept telling me I looked beautiful or made weird sounds at me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 07:58 PM
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Man... what are you even talking about at this point? Aren't the men doing this adults? Can't they be told to knock it off? Why are you so casual about women getting bothered while walking the street? Again, look at that video. You think it's baby-behaviour to complain about that? You think telling women to move out of cities if they don't enjoy the kind of treatment you see in that video is respecting them? Come on. You can't be for real with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 07:56 PM
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You learned the flute and piano purely through books? I was thinking about learning myself piano too but I wasn't sure how feasible it was.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 07:39 PM
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Well I think there's a difference between someone stopping you to hit on you and yelling or kissing at you from the sidelines. At least the former is done with the actual aim of getting a number or flirting, the latter is simply a form of intimidation. Still, if it was a frequent enough occurrence I could see why getting stopped and flirted with could get annoying as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 07:34 PM
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So women living in cities just have to accept getting catcalled? That's your point. Move to an entirely different city if it bothers you. The fuck kind of solution is that. It isn't retarded in the slightest to complain about that or want more media attention and cultural awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 07:30 PM
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I'm no "Chad" but I've had it happen to me a handful of times that groups of women started yelling at me. "What's your number", "Hey boy". It never felt flattering or complimentary. I didn't feel threatened but I did get a little annoyed. It might not happen every day to women but it does happen often. Far more often than with men. And about the word hostile... a black guy working at an all-white office and regularly being in earshot of offensive and irritating racial humor or constantly getting…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 07:27 PM
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Cost of living... Boy Scouts. I don't even know what you're talking about anymore. How about you just mull over that last paragraph a few more times.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 07:22 PM
3

Absolutely tragic. Nothing trumps the rump.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 07:19 PM
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The thing is she's not even that attractive she just has a big butt. Damn, the standards on some of you... y'all live around models or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 07:16 PM
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Use Tinder, go out to clubs and bars, meet new people through your friends or hobbies, those are all far more likely to actually land you a girl than talking to some random chick just trying to get somewhere. Come on man, nobody does this actually expecting a woman to talk back. Hell, if you really see a hot chick that you just have to talk to at least make eye-contact first to see if she's receptive to your advances. Don't just start kissing at her or telling her "hey girl" out of nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 07:02 PM
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It makes the simple act of walking around uncomfortable and annoying. Something doesn't have to be actually threatening to be hostile. Getting regularly talked at and made sounds at by people bigger and stronger than you can make for a hostile environment. Imagine what happened in that video happened to you on a (semi-) regular basis. You would be okay with that? You wouldn't think going outside might be a bit of a hassle and yes, a little hostile?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 06:57 PM
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You know, before I had a car I had to travel with the train every day and almost every time there would be people at the station trying to get others to donate or to subscribe to something. It was incredibly annoying. Now imagine you could get harassed like that everywhere instead at just at stations and squares and instead of trying to get you to give money for starving kids they had sexual intentions. Wouldn't that be fucking annoying? Especially if the people doing this where almost all bigge…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 06:54 PM
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I'm black myself. And yeah, I like big butts and big hips, skincolour doesn't really matter. I'm familiar with the stereotypes but I thought y'all had appropriated our love for big asses already. That's what usually happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 06:49 PM
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Getting talked at repeatedly by people that see you as little more than a sexual object is hostile.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 06:40 PM
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What, white guys don't like white girls with big asses and wide hips?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 06:39 PM
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Sure catcalling isn't something that happens every day and it depends on what you look like too but from what I've heard it's still pretty common. And I wouldn't call myself anti-social or private. I just understand that getting talked at by random people purely because they find you sexually attractive can be annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 06:38 PM
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It was 5 out of like 20 or something in a diverse city. And I didn't count the Latinos. So how the hell does that make this an "ethnic problem"?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 06:36 PM
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If it happened just once I'd simply be surprised but if it was so common that I'd expect it every time I went outside hell yeah I would. I'd find it fucking annoying and it would make going outside a chore. So I would call that hostile.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 06:32 PM
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Both. The following is downright threatening but even the "how you doin'" and the "hey girl" are annoying and make for an unpleasant experience. So yeah, I'd call that hostile.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 06:28 PM
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Watched it again just for you and there are 5 white guys catcalling her in there.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 06:26 PM
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There's something really annoying about that commercial. Something about the way she just keeps dragging him along. Like damn I can't even enjoy a nice city-trip or go surfing without having this bitch hold my hand all the time. The fuck is up with that. Lemme catch some goddamn waves woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 06:23 PM
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That was just downtown NYC. There multiple white guys catcalling her in that video. You think white men don't do that shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 06:19 PM
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You're probably imagining their lives to be a lot more special than they actually are. I mean, what you'd be doing if you were a hot girl that you can't do now? Outside of having casual sex with a lot of dudes I guess. Tho, you could probably just make a Grindr account if that's what's missing in your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 06:19 PM
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Don't think the point of that video was to show off actual instances of illegal sexual harassment. It was just to show what a woman can face just walking around a city. It may not fall under the legal definition but I'd call the environment you see in that video pretty hostile. I wouldn't enjoy going through that on a daily basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 05:57 PM
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Most guys here seem to be saying that they don't want to cheat. They're just affirming that men still feel sexual attraction to hot women when they're in a relationship, but I assume the same goes for women. Your eyes don't suddenly stop working when you get into a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 12:28 PM
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Hence the discrepancy. What discrepancy tho. Who are these women dating/fucking? Most people seem interested in LTRs so for every woman in a relationship there's got to be a man in one too. It's just not true that women are out there getting their freak on while men sit at home jerking off. Those women are doing it with men. Use OkCupid instead. Same can be said for men. Tinder is notoriously superficial so if you're afraid of the competition go on a more serious dating-site like OkCupid or Matc…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 12:24 PM
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Aren't there benefits to marriage when it comes to taxation, inheritance, insurance, things like that? This isn't really something on my mind so I'm not fully aware of the extend of the benefits. I'd probably ask her why she was so adamant about not getting the actual certificate. If we're having a wedding and plan on living together why not go all the way and get a certificate. Either way I'm not too bothered. I don't attach any importance to the actual certificate, I only care about whether it…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 11:15 AM
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Yeah cohabitation doesn't really require marriage, it's just the cultural institution we build around living together for romantic reasons. I don't know, I think having wedding to "make official" your aim to be together for the long haul is pretty nice. Plus, it's an excuse to throw a large party. It's just an old tradition, and a legal status, but not one that I dislike. If I was going to live together, hopefully permanently, with a girlfriend I'd probably marry her too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 10:55 AM
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I think there's a kind of companionship and deep loving bond you can only get through long-term cohabitation. Even without kids that companionship can be a reason to want to marry and find a lasting partner in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 10:40 AM
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Nope, I don't think monogamy is really harder on men than it is on women. Do you want to cheat? Just go by that answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 08:08 AM
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Wow, I can guaran-fucking-tee that nobody in the manosphere would accept this kind of reasoning if it involved racial issues. People can complain even if they're in a better position than others. More importantly, even though women have their share of advantages when it comes to purely getting male attention/proposals that doesn't mean we can start talking about a superior position here. Straight women are out there looking for men, most of the time interested in having exclusive relationships w…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/17 11:09 PM
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Funny
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/17 03:40 PM
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I'm into some pretty nerdy stuff but I never liked hanging out with nerds. Definitely agree with you on "nerd elitism". And yeah, anybody that complains about looks being "too important" is obviously full of shit. Of course looks are important but people got such a wide variety of what they find attractive that complaining about it doesn't make sense. That goes especially for men, where there's just less pressure to look good. I get it tho. Blaming looks and complaining about Chad can feel so go…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/17 03:32 PM
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I wish I could double upvote you for somehow working Brad Pitt into that post.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/17 03:26 PM
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The obvious things that make me lose respect for anyone. Hurting others without good cause or while taking pleasure in it. Being ignorant and proud of it. Being arrogant without also being competent. Being dishonest. Some less obvious ones may be (constantly) saying they hate children. Really don't think much of people that going around saying that. Women that believe in very traditional gender roles. Even when it's a compliment (Oh, I think you're really manly) I really dislike it and lose some…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/17 09:20 AM
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No, this is what you think is happening but it's actually just you being insecure about yourself and your masculinity. A woman aggressively hitting on someone does not have to threaten their manhood. Some women are just aggressive in their approach to things. Maybe she's drunk. Maybe you're just that hot that she has to go after you. I dunno, why jump to these incredibly negative conclusions first. And don't tell a woman aggressively hitting on you to fuck off, just fuck her instead. If you're a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/17 09:11 AM
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I don't think happiness is achieved by chasing after it like it's a goal on its own. You set other goals for yourself and become happy in the pursuit of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/17 09:08 AM
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I think every kink can be done/had healthily. It's only when it negatively affects your mental health and life that it comes problematic. I agree with you that it's too easy to just make the bedroom a no-go when it comes to discussions about power, feminism and sexual politics. We should be able to critically discuss kinks, fetishes and sex in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/17 09:04 AM
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Give every man the ability to grow a full-ass beard and remove balding. Also, let's give every man the genetic potential to look like Captain America, make the shortest a man can be 6'2 and let's make the average dick 7 inches. You get to be a Chad, and you get to be a Chad. Everybody gets to be a Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/17 09:00 AM
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Well it sure seems like something that still needs to be said just going by what I see in this place.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 10:09 PM
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BP advice is basically every kind of advice that isn't of the misogynist RP kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 09:37 PM
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I like yours. Alternatively, I'd say masculinity is the act of performing the male gender, a concept that historically could only be expressed in a very limited way but that in recent years has really opened up. That's good but it also means it's very easy to start questioning whether you're "really a man". Constantly asking yourself if you can be a man if you don't fit those traditional qualities associated with being a man. So in light of all that my one sentence answer about the definition of…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 08:38 PM
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No I reject it because it assumes that women's experience of sex is fundamentally different from men. Where there's a hierarchy of pleasure, limited ways of being satisfied, constant comparisons with past acts and the inability to like multiple things. Why would I just assume that to be case? It's nonsensical and completely disregards what women say about sex. It's born from male insecurity, not reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 06:08 PM
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I honestly think a lot of redpillers have such a limited view of sexuality that they can't even comprehend the way you describe a MFM. To them MFMs are always about some woman wanting to be degraded by two studs that end up finishing on her face. Porn, basically. Not that isn't a fantasy for some women but it's just one example of many possibilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 06:03 PM
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Read it, didn't agree. Thinking a woman is unable to get satisfied by normal sex again after getting Dped is fucking stupid. Those things have nothing to do with one another. A man having to chicks sucking on his dick on the same time, or having one put the pinky in the stink, does not suddenly require either to get satisfied. Same goes for a woman who's been DPed or who's had a huge dick. Doesn't mean she suddenly needs those things to be satisfied. And Hell, if you're so worried just DP her us…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 05:58 PM
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Is a man that has had FMF threesomes automatically not marriage material? If you think so, explain why and if you don't think so then just apply that same logic to women having MFM threesomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 05:43 PM
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Yeah, women can get casual sex more easily. I don't think that's a controversial or RP statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 04:54 PM
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Anybody that shames me for dancing and singing is going to be left behind because they're no friends of mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 02:50 PM
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Yeah this basically covers it. It's not really good debate form but it's to be expected in an argumentative place like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 02:46 PM
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Better argument? Aren't you one to talk. You're argument is literally "I did A and I'm a dick, therefore it's logical to think that A leads to/indicates dickishness". You're seriously going to suggest every man and woman who's ever had a threesome is going to cheat because you would? That's just dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 09:39 AM
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I won 't tell you what is and isn't going to upset or traumatize you. If you say it wouldn't be a big deal to you I'll happily believe it. But you're not every man and I don't think it's strange that some men would be upset or even traumatized.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 09:36 AM
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Do you really find it that hard to imagine a man might have a pretty strong reaction and overcome with negative feelings when someone forces them to engage in sexual behaviour against their will? Not trying to be a dick OP but from what I've seen it's usually desperate incel types who make these kinds of claims, because they think sex can't ever be bad or unwanted. But that's just not true. I can imagine it'd be pretty upsetting to find yourself forced to "betray" your wife, even if it wasn't wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 08:52 AM
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This all comes down to you thinking a sexual fantasy doesn't say anything when had by a man but is reason to worry and be afraid when had by a woman. That isn't the case. A woman fantasizing or occasionally having MFM threesomes is just like a man doing the same with FMFs. You don't think that man would be unsuited for a LTR or incapable of ever being satisfied, right? Well, the same is true for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 08:43 AM
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I was talking about telling the object of your desires about the sexual fantasies you just played out in your head. Telling your friends obviously doesn't have to be unwanted. I'll out myself for the low-t beta that I am tho and say that I feel uncomfortable when friends point out hot girls or comment on some random girls looks. It's not really something I do unless we're specifically talking about beautiful women or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 08:34 AM
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I'm off dreaming about random shit inside my own head most of the time. It's takes genuine effort to be in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 11:49 PM
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Stop it with this masculine men bullshit. Straight men desire women, straight women desire men so both feel the pressure to be attractive according to societies standards in order to be as desirable as possible. That on it's own isn't oppression. It's when those societal pressures start to bleed into all aspects of someones life, when they become the prime or even only factor in determining someone's worth that they can be considered oppressive. Don't worry, you mind-fucking some random girl isn…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 11:47 PM
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Sounds like you just haven't met Chad yet. He won't even have to ask, just comes prepackaged with that extra special Alpha Deluxe menu, including all the threesomes, foursomes and surprise ATM you could ever ask for.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 11:34 PM
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Literally nobody knows what the fuck you're doing inside your own head until you tell them. You can imagine dismembering your neighbors kids for all I care, just don't tell anyone. Seeing some hot girl and mentally busting a nut in her ass is fine. Leering at her while doing so makes you creepy and telling her about it makes you either a disgusting moron or the popular host of a Cable News show who just got fired (heyooo). It has nothing to do with masculinity or oppressing women. Do in your hea…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 11:27 PM
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Oh I know but that's definitely not who TRP is talking about. They're not thinking of the average FetLife member when they're talking about "sluts" or high N-count women. They all think of the sorority girls from Blue Mountain State or some shit like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 11:18 PM
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Gotta look good to get access to that primo booty hole. Gay men actually do like the "Chad's" we keep talking about so their standards are just higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 10:41 PM
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All those experiments are cherry-picked examples and are about the initial dating stage. Those Tinder experiments show women more eager and quicker to engage in sexual talk with guys they find attractive. That doesn't tell us anything about what they'd do in relationships, casual or serious. There is no reason to believe any of those women would be stingy with their asshole if anal is something they're into. And it doesn't matter whether you find those hypotheticals convincing or not. Women can …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 08:14 PM
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It's projecting. See, it's fine to make observations. Don't be deterred by being wrong the first time, you'll get the hang of it eventually. Let's disregard the obvious cherry-picking in that bodybuilding.com thread because even if you take that thread at face value all that it shows is that women are quicker to get sexual with very attractive men they're still in the process of getting to know. But why would that lead you to believe that any of those women would be into anal with hypothetical C…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 07:37 PM
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I'm a bit behind on my acid use so believe me I can get even crazier than this. Anyway, this isn't just ideals for me. It's how I live my life and it's what I tend to see outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 06:52 PM
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I care enough to debate it on a special subreddit. Is clickbait really important enough to you guys, or do you guys really think it's taken all that seriously in the real world, that we need to discuss it here?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 06:51 PM
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It's not an argument, it's an observation. Feel free to make disparaging observations about me as well. I don't see any realistic argument for why women get kinkier with hot guys. Most women date guys they find attractive, so I think the amount of trust, closeness and chemistry is more important in determining just how open someone will be with their partner. Plus, sometimes you do something with an ex that you wouldn't do for your current partners for reasons completely unrelated to their hotne…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 06:49 PM
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Lying and manipulation are bad because they hurt other people. You make the comparison with women sleeping around freely but is there any reason to believe those women are lying and manipulating their way to sex? Not everyone goes through this at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 06:10 PM
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I just want to control myself. That's enough. I believe I can be masculine without having to control others. That's definitely not my imperative. And I think that if feminism has a clear goal we can formulate, instead of many, it is to allow individual women to fully control themselves too. And I fully support that aim. I don't think feminism is about controlling me or any other men at all. At most, that's incidental to the freeing of women from the control of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 06:06 PM
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What is the female imperative? How is the betterment of women's lives hurting me as a man? What in the history of feminism has been about hurting men or masculinity? You're still not explaining yourself at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 05:41 PM
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Look dude, you're the one claiming feminism and masculinity are opposed to each other without coherently explaining why you think that is. You can't say "well, everybody automatically gets it". People can actually see the difference between black and white with their eyes. The same can't be said of the "female imperative", "the nature of men" or things like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 05:35 PM
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Who cares about some fucking clickbait. In reality, nobody cares of you sleep around. Nobody cares if you like or do not like commitment. It's the misogyny and sexism people don't like about TRP. That plus any possible lying or insidious manipulation you guys might use.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 05:30 PM
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Every thread you make has me making like 15 meme faces. Never before have my face muscles gotten this kind of work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 05:16 PM
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I don't know what to tell you. I don't believe for a second "saving her sexual best" is even remotely done by the majority of women. Hell, I bet at least 60% of all such stories here on Reddit are written by men hoping to get a rise out of other men or with just an humiliation fetish. I don't know why you look up such stories but it's probably no coincidence that you find it hard to believe that a nerdy girl can be as much of a kinkster with her equally nerdy boyfriend as she'd be with some tall…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 05:14 PM
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Nah, you can't turn those words around on me in this case. Just doesn't work like that. You understood that sentence. You understand what is meant with the colors white and black, and even if neither of us know the exact physics explanation behind this phenomena we both understand the broad strokes. I mean, are you really trying to tell me the words black, white, absorb and reflect are as vague as "female imperative" or "nature of man". Come on, son.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 05:10 PM
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I have a hard time imagining anyone being at their most kinkiest and adventurous with random hook-ups. Introducing other people to your kinks and trying out new things which may or may not be outside of your comfort zone need trust. I wouldn't be surprised if some nerdy girl who met her one and only boyfriend at comic-con had tried far more kinkier stuff and experimented a lot more than a sorority girl who just had relatively vanilla hook-ups with frat-boys. I know some of those sorority girls a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 02:42 PM
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I'm sure it would but I'm weird and I wanna deal with some deeper issues first.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 10:22 AM
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The depression has zero to do with my views on women or my approach to dating. I mean, it's what's keeping me from dating in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 10:10 AM
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I'm trying so hard but I just can't lift this pain away. I'm good tho, I'll figure it all out.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 10:08 AM
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Well... damn
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 10:05 AM
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I'm still trying to get out of the suicidally depressed zone first.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 09:58 AM
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I will never join the dark side! But seriously, even when I acted a lot more like the typical whiny incel I was never really RP. I've only gotten more BP over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 09:51 AM
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Say I've been happily married for 20 years. I go around saying: "Well, it's perfectly possible to have a great long-lasting marriage. It worked for me and my wife. Sure, it doesn't work out all the time but that's no way to think. You need to be willing to take some risks if you truly want something." That'd be BP. Now say I had a reasonably happy marriage for 7 years until I found out my wife cheated on me. She then promptly divorced me and left me for the other man. And I go around saying: "Wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 09:46 AM
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I'm technically an incel. Hell, I even posted on there for a while. And yet I am fully BP. I don't think it has anything to do with the extent to which a person struggles.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 09:34 AM
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TRP make definitive statements about the nature of men and women, the realities of dating, the viability of marriage and a whole host of other things on the basis of their, or more often other's, personal experiences. BP doesn't really do that. We're far more nuanced.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 09:32 AM
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I can't be with someone that doesn't think systemic racism is a thing. Anybody that starts talking about "race realism" or other less obvious dog-whistles is an immediate hell no for me. Same goes for LGBT-rights. Anybody that questions those rights or doesn't think they're important is an immediate fuck no. Islamophobic people, (covert) misogynists. All that obvious stuff makes it impossible for me to date someone. I have friends that aren't completely on the same line with me when it comes to …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 10:29 PM
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That's very flattering coming from you but I honestly think people need to take a stroll through your post-history to see the true pinnacle of ideological stupidity. Or just stupidity in general really.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 10:11 PM
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Black absorbs all light while white reflects it all. Those two things can't happen simultaneously. Hence, they are "incompatible" or at least mutually exclusive. Something can't be white and black at the same time. See, that's how you write something that actually makes sense. "Female imperative", "nature of man", "grooming of our current civil society", that entire last sentence. You are simply using words and concepts without even bothering to explain their meaning. It's all just empty nonsens…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 09:40 PM
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This is a whole bunch of nothing. Just a bunch of words thrown together. Get specific. What makes feminism incompatible with masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 09:30 PM
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Yeah, this passive-aggressiveness is what I'd expect from a true masculine man. How about you go ahead and tell me what exactly makes feminism and masculinity incompatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 09:21 PM
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Yeah, because if I want to know the true meaning of masculinity I have to be with the fragile bitch-ass guys over on the manosphere. I know what masculinity means for me and that meaning has been informed by men I admire. I've seen nothing here or on TRP that makes me think any of those guys know shit about masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 09:07 PM
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I know there have been a few studies on that and those did show a correlation between sexual partners and marriage happiness. That correlation just isn't large enough for me to take N-count into consideration. On the whole, I'd still say it's not all that useful to worry about N-count when meeting someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 08:33 PM
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Didn't mean to argue you or anything, just thought I'd elaborate my thinking. We're all talking about our own preferences after all. Also, I got this weird thing where I always need to have the final word. I'm trying to move past that... just not right now I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 08:31 PM
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Well I applaud you for being consistent. A lot of the guys hating on women for being promiscuous are trying to be promiscuous themselves. I still disagree with your thinking on the influence prior sexual behaviour has on a person's ability to stay loyal in a LTR. In the end I think N-count is just not a good indicator of what someone's like in a LTR. I mean if they cheated in the past that's obviously different but simple short term relationships and hook-ups say nothing IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 08:15 PM
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I don't necessarily need a partner to agree with me but we also can't be completely opposed to each other's views, no matter how well she can explain those views. I enjoy discussing shit but I wouldn't want my relationship to look like PPD. Plus, some shit is incredibly important to me and just can't be compromised on.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 08:11 PM
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I could not be friends with someone that was so into Trump she attended rallies. Maybe extremely casual fuckbuddies that literally never talked about politics and social issues ever but that's not really realistic with my political ass. I guess it'd be hot to just revel in the mutual hatred and have the hottest dirtiest most fucked-up raceplay sex ever (I'm assuming she'd be some blonde Tomi Lahren type) but I can't see myself spend serious time with someone that diametrically opposed to my own …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 07:54 PM
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As a straight guy my instinctual answer would be "you're right". I think men can be very attractive but it takes a lot. Women on the other hand I almost find attractive by default. But again, I'm a straight guy. I don't think women look the same way at men as I do. EDIT: Seems like a lot of straight women agree. Damn, guess us guys just have to accept that we're uglier.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 07:50 PM
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There literally isn't a woman hot enough for me to date her despite being a Trump supporter. At best I'd go for a really angry and violent (consensual) hate-fuck. So yeah, political and social views are definitely a factor in determining whether someone is a potential partner. For some this is more important than for others obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 07:27 PM
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I always tell myself they actually desire me back, usually shortly after they leave while I'm still trying to wash the shame away.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 07:13 PM
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though it's talking about the media which is somewhat different Somewhat different? The fact that it's about the media is the entire point. The male gaze in the media defines and dictate which women can be shown and how they are shown. It dehumanizes them in the TV, movies and games we see. That's totally different than our gaze. I'm a straight man with working eyes that goes to college. I see attractive women every fucking day. Of course, I notice how those women are sexually attractive. No fem…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 07:09 PM
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I did get dropped on my head as a baby a few times but I don't really think that has all that much to do with my feminism. I guess we just have to accept that what's intelligent to me is retarded to you and what's retarded to me is the Red Pill to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 06:41 PM
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I don't think masculinity requires the oppression of women. I don't think the oppression of women is what attracts some straight women to masculine men. Honestly, you're just saying a whole bunch of nothing. I'm a man, I'm feminist and I don't at all hate my masculinity, because I can be masculine without oppressing anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 06:37 PM
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Feminism does not mean being opposed to male desire or male sexuality. It just means not having those things dictate or define your life and value as a person. You can be dominant, you can be into rough sex, you can be assertive in approaching women, you can be open about your sexual desires, etc. and still be a good feminist man. A man having a consensual sexual relationship with a woman is not oppression. Neither is BDSM or spanking or whatever. We already had this conversation but feminism is…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 06:22 PM
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Enjoying hook-ups or short term relationships does not mean being incapable of having and enjoying a long term relationship. Nobody thinks that's how it works with men and I don't think that is how it works with women either.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 06:18 PM
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Usually begins when I finish the call and ends when I hand over the money
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 06:16 PM
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I don't think modern feminism is point blank opposed to behaviour straight women find attractive so I don't see how it's a "shit test".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 05:29 PM
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Nah, they're not fat. But when I see people on the internet talk about thin and attractive I assume they mean some Emma Watson or Taylor Swift type shit. And these girls are nothing like that. They're more Nicki Minaj like.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 04:39 PM
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Attractive thicc women. Of my three best friends two are Indian and one is a mix between Indian and Indonesian. In other words, the worst races you could possibly be according to TRP. Plus, they're all overweight with one being borderline obese. And yet, all three currently have a girlfriend and I find all three women attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 04:28 PM
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I agree. It's impossible to tell how anyone acts in real life based on what they say on reddit or another website.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 04:20 PM
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I'm BP but I don't agree with that. I mean what does it even mean when someone says TRP "works"? From what I can tell, it can mean getting in shape, being confident, setting boundaries, not getting hung up on specific girls. All that is good normal advice that's probably going to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 04:18 PM
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A lot of my buddies don't fit the TRP endorsed view of male attractiveness (white, ripped, tall, named Chad) nor are they rich. In fact, nearly all my friends are broke-ass college students. The ones that aren't still aren't rich by any stretch of the imagination. And yet they still get girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 04:14 PM
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They had a lot of sex in the past and what's going to happen after they meet me is they'll have lots of sex again, but now just with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 04:12 PM
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I'm actually still a virgin. Yeah I know, shocking. I can say from experience that lack of success is almost always a personal failing. It doesn't have anything to do with women's expectations, or Chad's, or Alpha/Beta/Omega traits, or whatever. It usually comes down to mindset and self-esteem. It isn't about "SMV". In some ways I'm better on paper than some of my successful friends. Taller, more in shape, more assertive, funnier etc. But personal issues keep me from dating. I believe the same i…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 11:43 AM
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I legit don't give a fuck. Why would N-count be relevant?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 09:25 AM
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Does this say anything about the men women are actually dating? This is just saying that women's perfect man is extremely hard to come by. No shit. That doesn't mean women are unsatisfied when having sex or being in a relationship with men that don't fit that perfect image. Women can't be all that picky because most men I know date, get laid and have relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 08:21 AM
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Yeah but that difference between you and them results in you hating on the women that, as you say, validate these men. Instead of hating the men, which wouldn't be good either, you hate the women. That's what I meant with "you hate women that enjoy being sexual with men that aren't you". You think every guy feels the same way but this is just your own bitterness. You're definitely not alone in this, PPD is filled with guys like you, but it's just not true that everyone feels the same contempt fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 11:47 PM
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You call it unsanitary but would you still want it? Would you like to be one of the guys this girl sucked off? Because if so, why feel disgusted by her if she was being sexual in a way you yourself would enjoy too?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 11:40 PM
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It's a combination of liking someone's face and the way they manifest themselves. I mean, I still like porn and I obviously can't really tell all that much about a pornstar's personality from a few videos. Still, I need to like the way she acts and her demeanor to really want to fuck her.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 11:24 PM
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Don't fill your posts with personal crap if you don't want people to draw conclusions from it. I say you hate women who enjoy sex because you hear about a party with fratboys and a girl having wild group-sex and only express disgust for the woman, not the fratboys. Why differentiate between the two?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 11:20 PM
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You are projecting your own self-hatred and hatred for women enjoying sex (with people that aren't you) onto others.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 10:51 PM
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Yeah same goes for me. I can definitely get aroused by things like legs, thighs, ass and feet but only if I like the women they're attached to. Plus, something like this: I fantasize more about foreplay and dirty talk than sex itself is very much true for me as well. The sexuality in this post doesn't seem all that fundamentally different from my own male one.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 10:47 PM
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And by "lives destroyed by women" I assume you mean "they get rejected".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 10:40 PM
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I'd rank it as follows: Physical appearance Intelligence Willing to have sex often (I'm taking this as sexual compatibility as well) Domestic abilities/good with children & Religion (these are combined for me because while I don't mind religion on itself it does play a large role in determining whether I'd consider someone a good mother) Compatibility with her/your family Common interests/hobbies Income/Career Education level Age Sexual/relationship history
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 08:06 PM
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I agree with this comment. A rotating megathread seems like the best solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 06:43 PM
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This is the most nonsensical scale of attractiveness I have ever seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 06:41 PM
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Fair enough, but I do know single people in their 30s and while I obviously have no insight in their interior life and all the possible hardships/anxieties their experiences have not left me pessimistic or fearful of the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 06:38 PM
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Well, the post was a response to the Sandberg thread and so I responded with why I think Sandberg's advice can be right for people and why it isn't bad to prioritize different things at different times. I also think "learning about yourself" is indeed not something you do just by aging but a change in environment or experiencing new things can definitely teach you things about yourself. It's crazy to suggest otherwise. Having many different relationships can get you better in touch with your sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 06:36 PM
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I agree with your OP in that I don't think self-knowledge necessarily increases with age. I don't think it's static, it hasn't been for me after all, but it's not linked to age. More to experience and changing environments. So in that way experiencing many different things can help you know yourself better. Besides, I think you're far too pessimistic about people's chances as they get older. I don't think it's possible to "discard your ideal partner". There is no ideal partner, there's many pote…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 06:32 PM
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Then you're obviously shit out of luck but I don't think it's a good idea to live your life afraid of ruining things for yourself later. I think that's mostly a self-inhibiting belief that doesn't do you any good. No need to expect shit to not work out when you're older.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 06:16 PM
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It's not so much about LTRs being impossible but about the fact that I think many people want both stable loving LTRs and short hot exciting casual flings. So doing one in your youth and the other when you're more mature and older isn't a bad idea. Wanting to live it up and hook-up or have short-term relationships for a while in college and then eventually settling down with a loving partner and start a family is perfectly possible. There isn't anything wrong with it, and that's mainly what I th…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 06:14 PM
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Eh, I personally don't think there's many times where I would feel all that annoyed if a stranger made small-talk with me. Most times I'd appreciate it and if I was really busy I'd be perfectly capable of telling them so. I don't approach strangers because I assume most people don't think like that and prefer to be left alone but I think a world where people didn't hesitate to start conversations with strangers is preferable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 05:54 PM
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You can get away with preferring short-term pleasures and goals over longer-term goals and stability in your youth in a way that might not be possible when you get older. Getting out of a 2-year relationship where you had a no children and didn't live together purely because you're feeling sexually frustrated is easier to do at 25 than when you're 35 and anxious about having children. Moving around a lot is easier in your early 20s, before you've got a real career to think about. Nowadays it is …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 05:50 PM
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Dating around is normal. Not caring about the viability of a relationship because you don't see a future with that person and are just enjoying the moment is normal. Going through periods in your life where you prefer hook-ups over relationships is normal. Face it, if you reversed the genders this paragraph would describe the ideal life-style of every red piller. Have casual sex with hot women you have no interest in LTR-ing and end up in a happy marriage with your ideal partner. Stop being so f…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 03:46 PM
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It is definitely not impossible or even difficult to combine those two, plenty of men do so. But if I absolutely had to choose between between these two I'd go with marriage material. I mean, if I do start dating that's what my end-goal would be: a steady marriage with between 3-5 kids. I'd pick that over lots of casual sex any day of the week.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 03:41 PM
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If I end up seeing an ugly one I'll just roleplay and pretend I'm getting attacked by a facehugger.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 11:07 AM
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Being expected to approach has its downsides but it also means it's more likely you end up with someone you really like. There is also much less fear for physical violence when it comes to rejections or break-ups. It is more accepted for men to sleep around and have a high N-count, tho I don't really know if that's still all that big a deal for women. Those are some advantages to being a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 10:42 AM
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Haven't done it and neither seems all that good to me. Never really got the fascination some people have with threesomes. Seems like more work and less intimacy. I would still like to have both tho, at least once to know what it's like.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 10:37 AM
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There's definitely a double standard. It seems perfectly normal to mock penises or call the penis ugly. Hell, I got downvoted for calling my own penis gorgeous. People making fun of, or mocking vagina's usually elicit a far stronger reaction of outrage, And for the record, I think both sets of genitals are very nice to look at. Penises, testicles and vagina's are all beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 10:35 AM
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A sudden boost of confidence to every person on the planet? I hope you're strapped in because this train is leaving posthaste for bone central baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 09:39 PM
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As a man I've definitely seen more men, offline but especially online, incapable of handling romantic/sexual failures in the form of rejection, break-ups, etc. than women but maybe that's just because I've got more of an eye for that, seeing as that it's easier for me to relate to.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 09:27 PM
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Never, never felt strongly enough about someone to be in any position to be heartbroken.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 08:25 AM
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And you're doing a great job of it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 09:00 PM
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Is that woman incessantly posting about what you did to her on a website or subreddit dedicated to whining about bad hombres? Do you know if she got bitter and negative? It's more likely that she did move on, stayed or became self-confident again and went forward with a positive mindset. The problem isn't experiencing shitty things. It's the endless whining about it afterwards and the complete lack of interest in doing anything constructive that might help 'em forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 08:58 PM
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Chad is often used as this fantasy figure that doesn't get rejected and who is viscerally desired by women. There are definitely some sexual undertones to the way Chad is sometimes described and talked about. He's obviously based on what men think attractiveness and sexual desire is like. There's a lot of erotica featuring Chad-like characters and they're almost always written by and for gay/bi/cuckold-fethishizing men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 08:47 PM
2

Thanks to you I can only get hard with Troy on a TV somewhere in my vicinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 08:44 PM
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Think of it as reparations for all those centuries of horrible patriarchal oppression you sexist pigs.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 08:42 PM
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And we're clearly the Agents trying to keep them from "the truth" Girl, what you doin'?!? Don't give away our secrets, how else are we going feminize society and create the future Fempire. Anyway, I can agree with people that there might be trends or social circles that can help one be popular with women or rake up a large N-count but once you start talking about "Chad" you're already so far beyond reality you might as well start calling yourself /u/onclejulian and exclusively dream about Brad P…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 08:35 PM
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Some of 'em barely have any experience with women at all, so what scarred them?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 08:12 PM
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Well those guys obviously have one thing in common - they have a high N-count. I mean, that's what we're talking about. I just meant that it's futile to go looking beyond that number for what these guys have in common. There isn't a job, hobby, sport, instrument, clothing style, body-type, etc. that's going to make you one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 08:09 PM
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Luckily not every woman thinks like an old racist hag so far beyond the wall she can't even see it anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 04:57 PM
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It's not real because while there are definitely men that have slept with a lot of women, there is very little to group those guys together besides their high N-count. Some are skinny successful artists, others are overweight kink enthusiasts and there's the stereotypical frat-boy and it just goes on and on. Some men with high N-counts have 'em because they slept around a lot in their youth while others only started after their divorce. Some are men uninterested in marriage, others decided husba…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 04:54 PM
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I dunno, I've gotten quite comfortable being unhappy me. Kinda used to it now. I'd pick a retread of this life with the same or more intelligence over a new try with better looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 04:34 PM
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I want them to be in love with my penis. The rest of me is just a bonus. Seriously tho, I don't like treating people like shit or making them feel bad nor do I plan on getting fat. Those are not boons to me. Put me in team "love me for me".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 04:33 PM
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I don't doubt that some, maybe even all, of those women are technically obese. They're all overweight at least. Doesn't mean they're unattractive tho. Overweight and obese isn't incompatible with being attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 04:29 PM
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I picked intelligence in the other thread but I think this might be true. I've come to treasure intelligence but that doesn't mean it's been all that good to me or that I wouldn't be happier if I was more beautiful. I'm pretty sure I would be happier and had a better life had I been good looking. I'd still pick intelligence over beauty tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 04:20 PM
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Life is what you make of it, all you gotta do is make sure you can justify or explain it to yourself and anyone you care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 04:17 PM
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It is a 'wall' insofar as that it becomes much harder for older men to have genuine loving relationships with young women, or even ones based on mutual attraction. The manosphere doesn't really care, I think, because they assume women don't feel love for men in general, so those types of relationships aren't worth chasing to begin with. Anyone revenge jerking it to the idea of older women dating younger men that only want them for sex is stupid. Those women also understand that to be the case an…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 01:33 PM
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He is aware that she's neither in love nor in "lust" with him, he just doesn't care. I assume both are getting exactly what they want out of the arrangement. He gets to have sex with a young attractive woman and she gets to live a wealthy lifestyle. I don't think many older men in these kinds of relationships think this: I think the hope of many men is that a young girl will be naive enough to be mesmerised by an older man and just worship him without looking around at all the other options she …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 01:17 PM
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You look great bro. No reason to feel dissatisfied about your appearance (tho I know it doesn't work like that and ain't that easy). I'd advice you to really try and find a way to deal with your depression. Getting that treated with therapy or medicine should be your priority. Outside of that, maybe make an online dating profile or Tinder with a witty bio and a funny throwaway line about your height or photo's that clearly show it, that way you can feel confident that the women you match with do…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 12:12 PM
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Fat?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 12:03 PM
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That's just what she wants you to think.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 11:04 AM
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Here it is. 18% Traditionalism 72% Liberal Feminist 68% Radical Feminist 75% Marxist Feminist 68% Cultural Feminist
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 08:06 AM
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Ashley Graham is perfect and what I think of when someone says 'curvy'. She's fucking curvy alright. Of the women you've pictured, I'd fuck all of 'em but the last one. They're all pornstar types, and not even good ones, so it's hard to say which one I'd prefer. I definitely prefer bodies that sit between Rihanna and Ashley Graham but in the end a woman's face determines far more whether I find someone attractive than body. An incredibly skinny woman or fat woman with a beautiful face isn't just…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 07:57 AM
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Oh yeah, France has always been a stable country without any riotous problems. I mean we're only on the 5th Republic yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 07:35 AM
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Makes some sense if you think women are shit I don't think that's why they resent having to pursue women. I think it's got far more to do with feeling/fearing the pursuit is more likely than not going to end up in rejection or other heartbreak. I imagine it starts feeling like a very unrewarding job when you have to go find the few women that are actually interested in your pursuit. It only starts becoming fun when you're so successful or are being pursued in turn. I think that's not the case fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/17 11:44 PM
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What kind of attractive, masculine behaviour were you taught to resent? I mean, it's not like being able to play the piano or being able to dance couldn't have made you attractive to some women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/17 11:39 PM
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Your face really doesn't go with that comment. That's a compliment about your face btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/17 11:14 PM
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TRP helped me realize how many men are still incredibly and deeply misogynistic, and also just how scared many of those men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/17 10:12 PM
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I'd tell people I'm just stingy instead of unsuccessful.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/17 02:21 PM
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If you can't get laid right now age alone isn't going to change anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/17 05:33 AM
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Control is always about fear and insecurity. Men don't control women because they inherently crave control but because they fear what a woman might do. A woman might leave them, might cheat on them, might reject them. Control is about fearing the possible responses to you and your behaviour and therefore wanting to constrain or prevent those responses. I don't fear how others might respond to me or my behaviour because I know it won't truly affect anything anyway. That's true strength to me. My …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 11:16 PM
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I was raised to never stand down, to always be in control of myself, to never be subdued or have my boundaries crossed. That is exactly why I want nothing more than for others to feel the same. My strength is not about controlling others because I feel my strength is threatened by theirs. It doesn't come from insecurity. I am confident in myself and my own strength. I don't need to preemptively dominate others because I know no matter what they won't dominate me either way. That all sounds like …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 10:56 PM
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That ain't my masculinity but if it's yours I say let it die.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 10:22 PM
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Breh...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 10:16 PM
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When it comes to women's sexuality men aren't protecting women from other men, they are protecting themselves from having "their" women taken by other men. As for those other things, they were kept from women because women were seen as lesser than men, sometimes to the point of being literal property to be managed by their fathers or husbands. That's what Patriarchy is like. It keeps women down, dehumanizes them, makes them lesser than. Patriarchy is not good for women. It's purpose was never to…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 10:10 PM
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Yes, I am secretly Albert Brooks. Secret's out now I guess. Seriously tho, you made me google Albert Brooks + fear and I think it's great Brooks reads PPD and writes inspirational quotes based on my comments. Very flattering.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 09:28 PM
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Why do you think women couldn't participate in Greek politics, or are forced to cover up in Islam, or couldn't vote until decades after men nearly everywhere, or couldn't own property until literally the 20th century in many European countries, or still can't decide on terminating their own pregnancies in many places, or face tremendous social pressure for being sexual and making their own sexual choices. Was/is that all protection? I mean, I can just go on and on. That's all patriarchy protecti…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 09:25 PM
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Ever wondered why unchecked sexuality always refers to women's sexuality. Patriarchy is about men fearing women's sexuality and therefore keeping women "in check". Fear of getting rejected, cheated on, left, etc. That fear is not strength in my opinion. That fear is insecurity. It is weakness. If that is what makes a man manly I don't wanna be masculine. Feminism isn't about the way men react to the "unshackling" of women's sexuality. Some men might become supplicating doormats while others beco…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 08:57 PM
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Patriarchy protects men. It is a structure built for many reasons, one of which is to protect men from the power of women. Desiring women, putting yourself in a position to be rejected and judged by them, makes men incredibly insecure and afraid. It's clearly visible throughout the world but especially in the manosphere. So Patriarchy controls women's sexuality because it is so scary to men. The Patriarchy is not something built out of the glory of masculine, confident men. Feminists don't want …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 07:25 PM
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I love the ratio I got right now but if I had to choose one I'll go with smarts. I treasure intelligence over beauty. Beauty is primarily a benefit when it comes to interacting with others while intelligence is hugely important for my interior life, something I find more important than being considered attractive by others.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 07:20 PM
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I'm not all that familiar with dating websites but you don't need to put up how experienced you are or anything, right. I mean, Tinder just requires a short witty bio. OkCupid and Match.com might ask more information but I don't think being inexperienced means you're incapable of having an attractive and appealing profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 07:17 PM
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It's not an actual market place. You don't need a resume or something. Just go out and meet new people, and when you meet people you find attractive and might wanna date simply approach them. Or, just make an online dating profile. Honestly, I think there's only on step and that's starting with asking people out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 07:09 PM
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Why pick the tranny crap as your critical wedge? You just illustrated exactly what the other person was saying. Bringing up trans rights is a pretty good way of revealing assholes
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 11:39 AM
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Holy shit... DAMN. is so fucking good and now people got me hyping up for maybe a second album dropping on Sunday. I can't take this hype fam.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 11:25 AM
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The same thing that makes anyone weak. The inability to stand for himself, his wants and desires, his family and friends, what he believes in. The kind of person that's driven by little more than fear; the fear of getting shamed, to get physically or emotionally hurt, to get rejected, the fear of losing, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 08:58 AM
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I'm a perceiver which has affected my dating life in that I perceive it from the outside without actually participating.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 06:34 AM
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To taste the Chad rainbow.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 06:25 AM
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Nah, they definitely need to be a liberal/left-wing. They didn't have to be as bluepilled a cuck as I am but they'd need to at least be a moderate lefty.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 09:44 PM
2

Little extreme in places but still surprisingly great. You sure you're not secretly BP?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 08:01 PM
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I know it's obnoxious to say it but I was amazing at 17. I'll never look that good again. You know, I've had a lot of women tell me they thought they looked best at like 17 or 18, as teenagers basically, but I just can't believe it. Women in college are ten times hotter than they were in HS. My little brother's in his senior year and even there the girls still look a little childlike and like they're not yet in their "physical prime". I honestly doubt any woman looked at her best at 17 or 18. Tw…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 07:59 PM
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I dunno, I think there's a lot of beauty to be found in aging. Getting older does not have to mean losing in beauty. That's probably easier for me to say as man but I think it can hold true for women as well. Plus, there's so much more to life than being wanted for your physical beauty. Hopefully, you'll have accrued some of those things (family, great friendships, professional prestige, etc.) by the time you're old. And in terms of lacking beauty in the first place, I don't think I'm some hands…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 07:38 PM
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No, don't think so. Perhaps that they need to find me funny. People laughing at my jokes is like the biggest high in the world. I need someone that thinks I'm incredibly funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 07:31 PM
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You can't ask women something like this if you want to know the truth. You have to look at their behaviour. They may say one thing but just how look how many chicks this tall Chad gets.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 06:35 PM
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According to feminists, women have long been denied rights and privileges and it is moral and just for them to have those rights and privileges. Abortion isn't just about power but also about the moral right to choose your own destiny and control your own body. Feminism isn't about accruing power over men. It is about doing right by women and striving for equality. Blue Pillers here don't agree on everything or all share the same moral frameworks but we do all agree that TRP does not work and is…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 06:24 PM
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Over on the gay TRP dudes are constantly complaining about all those feminine guys that love their hairy buttholes for what it does for them instead of what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 04:58 PM
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I guess gay men just form mutually beneficial butt contracts.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 04:55 PM
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None of those links are really evidence for the assertions you're making. I see no reason to believe this: In a large way, if there were no women, there would be no need for men to love either. We'd get shit done, have mutually beneficial contracts to work together and not harm each other, and that would be that. Love hardly is necessary for men in the absence of women(and children). This seems like absolute bullshit. Most people, men and women, want love to the point of it feeling like a necess…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 04:30 PM
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Huh
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 03:35 PM
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It's not even that a dick has to be a certain way or has to be big or anything, I just think penises are aesthetically beautiful. I mean, why else do people keeping making huge girthy skyscrapers. Secretly everybody loves dicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 09:47 AM
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An eager willingness to both invest in something larger than either of us. A family or a future, but it could also be a business or a house, just something to work towards. That's at the heart of my ideal relationship. I don't need simple companionship. Outside of that, in terms of the actual relationship between two people, I want complete honesty, especially emotionally, and chemistry. There are some people that are just easy to be with. Where talking never gets boring. For me, those people ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 09:26 AM
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For some reason I seriously thought this was going to be about the Betazoids from Star Trek. Thought maybe we'd get a rant about SJWs pushing everybody to marry in the nude or something. Kinda disappointed that's not what this post is about.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 01:16 AM
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Never understood guys calling penises disgusting. Don't know about y'all but my dick is fucking gorgeous.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 01:13 AM
1

Who needs a pool when you got the whole pacific ocean baby. Island life is best life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 01:08 AM
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Don't think there is any way that number on its own could ever influence my opinion on a girl's marriage worthiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 09:00 PM
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Exactly like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 07:49 PM
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In other words, just about ready to hit the wall
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 07:08 PM
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Men are roughly as numerous as women and a very large proportion of western women are willing to die without ever having a lasting relationship with anyone. Hold up, this is seriously how you're going to start this post? We all just supposed to nod and agree with this preposterous statement? We don't even need to consider the rest of your post, how 'bout you explain how you came to this conclusion first.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 07:04 PM
1

I have been told I got a nice booty...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 07:00 PM
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Threw in a joke about how men would do it if it were easy. If I could make money by showing my goods off on a webcam I'd do it in a heartbeat. Wouldn't even think twice. I think that's what it all comes down too. Not many women are willing to pay to see a man undress or jerk off and even fewer women are willing to pay a man to have sex with them. There's more of enough men to do both to support a whole industry of it. And the women don't even have to be exceptionally beautiful or anything. Men j…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 01:09 PM
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I'd prefer a small cabin overlooking the beach. Always outside in the sand or walking through the forests and over the mountains. Just hanging out at the beach with friends and family. I don't get why the isolation part appeals to you. What about that seems fun to you? I much rather have a huge social network of people just as happy chilling on the beach as me. BBQs and parties every single day. Damn, now I'm bummed out I'm not living that life already.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 12:47 PM
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If I was rich I wouldn't want a career either but I wouldn't want to isolate myself inside my own home. What's not in your home right now that you need to be a millionaire to get? If you're ideal life is just staying inside I don't think you need to be a millionaire. I'd go to a nice island nation or Hawaii and start a tourist boating company. Or start surfing until I could go teach it. Now that's an ideal life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 12:38 PM
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That's fine and you and everyone like you is free to be a stay-at-home mom. I just don't think many people actually want that. I don't anyway and I wouldn't want to be with someone that did. So for me it's a good reason to not be a stay-at-home parent myself or have my wife be one even if both of us saw the benefit for the child. I'd rather one or even both us started working part-time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 12:32 PM
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Why wouldn't someone want his loved ones to be happy? Tho why the fuck would the responsibility of a woman's happiness lay on the shoulders of her husband. If I had a wife and kids I'd want us both to focus on our children foremost and then be incredibly supportive and just here for each other, helping each other be the happiest we could be. This book sounded dumb just from the title but this quote makes it seem even dumber.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 08:34 AM
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Being a stay-at-home anything seems like a fast track to severally limiting your social network and isolating yourself. There just isn't a real culture for being a stay-ay-home parent anymore so I think it'll make you feel lonely pretty quickly. I saw it happen to my mom when she stayed home for a few years. It was hard on her and she's much happier working. Back in in the country my dad came from most women are stay-at-home moms so they've got this whole culture set up around it and use it to k…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 08:27 AM
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It is completely ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 09:55 PM
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What? You obviously don't get it is that's what you took away from that. Hunger is a naturally born desire and if it is not satisfied you will literally die. But food comes in many forms and it is easily possible to satisfy your hunger without eating meat. If someone cares a lot about the environment or animals and decides to abstain from meat that person isn't giving up on satisfying their hunger. They're just okay with sacrificing one food type they might enjoy eating. Sex is also a very impor…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 09:53 PM
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Are you seriously comparing abstaining from one type of food among many, all of which are capable of satisfying your hunger but just differ in tastiness, with someone abstaining from sex in general or with the gender they desire out of shame for their naturally born desires? Come on, you must realize how insane that comparison is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 09:44 PM
3

While there are definitely some segments within society that disdain religious people and never take them seriously I think that on the whole religion actually has a pretty powerful and accepted position, especially in the US. I don't think religion is the victim in any culture war at all. It's just that they're experiencing some push-back for the first time and it feels like oppression to them. Anyway, I'm from a religious household and I've got quite bit of understanding for religious people. …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 09:04 PM
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But two Hasidim married to other people don’t just get a divorce and start a new life together. The community got involved. A rabbi and what’s known as an askan, a person of influence in the Hasidic community, were given Joseph’s “case.” The role of an askan – collectively called askanim – is part politician, part good Samaritan, and part busybody. Together, Joseph’s rabbi and the askan appointed by the community to his case staged an intervention. Joseph says they got involved in every level of…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 08:21 PM
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Going into conversion therapy or getting libido killing drugs because you feel disgusted by or are afraid of your own desires is not sex-positive. I don't think there is anything wrong with abstaining from anything. But the beliefs and feelings that drive that abstaining in this case is not what I'd consider mentally healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 08:06 PM
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I think it is harmful and comes from an inherently sex-negative place. I think it'll just lead to more self-hatred. So I don't think it's good at all. In the end, an adult can decide for him- or herself to attend gay conversion therapy. Not anything anyone can do about it. But I don't think we should give out medication just because people want to stop masturbating. Medication should only be prescribed by a legit doctor and for a clear health reason. Religiously inspired sexual repression ain't …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 08:00 PM
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Provide that delicious D obviously. Seriously tho, people are good for another as family, friends and partners. Don't need no purpose beyond that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 06:07 PM
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You know 'em, so I'll reserve further judgment but this list screams douchebag to me. Pickiness is one thing but this is just insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 10:08 PM
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Sometimes I question whether this is actually a subreddit about debating dating and sex or really a portal into some weird dystopian parallel universe. Or maybe I've just been lucky to not know these kinds of douchebags because, although I know a few people with high standards or weird racial/hair/eye colour preferences, none get even remotely as crazy as this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 10:01 PM
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I still think it counts as not caring in the end. Sure, a a superhot and young trophy wife that also got the hots for him might be ideal but they're more than happy with one that doesn't desire them. The pick those women over less attractive or age-appropriate women that do desire them. I don't all the guys that do this are fooled into believing their wives or prostitutes want them. I think a lot of them know exactly what's up but just don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 09:58 PM
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Please give me some bullshit revenge porn so I got something to wank off to tonight.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 09:31 PM
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I refuse to believe this man actually exists. If he does, this list is both an attempt to signal the man he thinks he should be (i.e. one that could get this kind of anime girl in the flesh) and an obvious attempt at "pre-rejecting" any woman before she could possibly do it to him. Basically a cowardly way of protecting yourself from rejection. These are not his real standards. He does not expect women to be interested in him so he creates this elaborate list. If some semi-cute white girl with a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 09:30 PM
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I don't think so. A man like Hugh Heffner or Donald Trump could probably be in a happy marriage with a wife that sexually desired him but some men prefer being with a hotter younger trophy wife, even if she doesn't desire them physically at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 09:23 PM
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Looks are important to women? Even more than they might admit? Oh please tell me it ain't so!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 08:59 PM
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Snapchat makes me feel old, or maybe just a bit lonely. That shit completely went by me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 07:52 PM
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I think that's kind of where the wind is blowing. Surveys show that our generation has less sexual partners and is less likely to be married. I don't think that's a quirk of our generation or a trend that'll stop in the future. Most people will of course still date and have relationships but just in lesser amounts than they did in the past. At least, if they are to be any changes wrt dating in the future that would be my guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 07:49 PM
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This doesn't really bear out in reality in my experience. Most people I know have gender-mixed friend groups and I've never observed women disliking interacting with men just for being men. This might be different in more traditional and conservative places. Might just be hard for you to pleasantly interact with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 07:08 PM
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It doesn't have to be harmful but it very easily can be. I don't think virgins and inexperienced people should turn to the internet for answers or solace. Even when it isn't harmful it likely isn't helping either. And when it is harmful it can be very damaging. I have never seen a subreddit or website specifically aimed at these kinds of people that was actually healthy or helpful. All were terrible to some extent.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 07:01 PM
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I don't think rape is even the most prevalent occurrence of men being fine with not being desired. Wealthy men or men in arranged marriages are sometimes okay with the fact that their partner doesn't really desire them sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 06:58 PM
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I have absolutely no earthly way of knowing the percentages but just going by my gut I'd say a large majority (60-80%) want there to be some desire and a sizable minority is okay with going without. I mean, there are definitely men that are fine with not being desired by their sexual partners but I can't imagine they form the majority of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 06:56 PM
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I think people might be slightly less inclined to have relationships or even date than they are right now but outside of that I don't think it'll be all that different in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 06:55 PM
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I'm more interested in knowing whether women would want to lose their virginity to Richard Nixon's head in a jar on top of a sybian.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 06:53 PM
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You weren't just speaking of Islamic culture, you were talking about the Quran. Islamic culture doesn't really exist, Islam in Indonesia is different from Islam in Senegal or Islam in Saudi Arabia. And I don't think these different communities are particularly insular or hateful of integration at all. How are Pakistanis less well integrated than Indians? Or West-Indians? Outside of terrorism, which I think has to do with the narrative of a large clash, how exactly are these groups all that diffe…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 02:57 PM
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One of my buddies is Indian (from Suriname), smaller than average (for a Hindu, let alone compared to the Dutch average) and he's overweight bordering on obese. A complete omega going by RP's standards. Yet, he also got probably one of the higher N-counts of anyone I know. He just tries so goddamn hard and so goddamn often. He is never not chasing after girls. He adds girls on every social media and tries his luck. He tries so often that even with a high failure rate he still gets more than enou…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 02:31 PM
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Yeah, the Bible doesn't mean shit to Christians. The Bible has passages about killing kids, allowing slavery, stoning people, beating your wife, etc. The most important part in how religious people interpret their religion is the environment they're in. That's a hell of a lot more important than the book itself. Now, plenty of Christians support gay marriage, aren't bothered by premarital sex and support abolishing the death penalty. That just goes to show how little theology actually means to p…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 02:25 PM
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80% of women are not having sex with 20% of men. That's simply not true. And no, adding a bunch of bullshit qualifiers doesn't make it true either. It doesn't hold true for college and 20% of men aren't having 80% of sex or whatever. So you're talking about a problem that doesn't exist. There are guys who have a harder time with dating than others and that disparity isn't completely in a person's control. But for the large part, I'd say almost 100%, the dudes that whine the most and claim to be …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 01:22 PM
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Non-Muslims shouting verses of the Quran towards each other in order to explain something about Islam gets us nowhere. You know how much impact the Quran has on nearly all Muslims I know? Almost nothing. Yeah, they don't eat pork or drink alcohol but the Quran is just a book. A book many Muslims don't even read. I am talking about Muslims as communities not about Islamic theology. That's only interesting to theologians. And in no way am I saying Western culture is better than Islamic culture. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 10:28 AM
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I don't disagree that it will change the culture of a place but that change isn't simply "more Muslims come in, place becomes more Islamic". The change is more complicated than that because the immigrants will change too. And my individual judgment is that this is good. And as I said, I am from a Muslim family myself, tho I am atheist now. I don't have any rose-colored glasses at all. Many Muslims come from conservative Non-Western places that are more patriarchal and traditional than the West. …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 09:37 AM
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Look, I understand that minorities, including Muslims, are mostly concentrated in the large cities. I'm a minority living in a city where over half the population is a minority. And yes, that does change the look and feel of neighborhoods. But that is to be expected as new immigrants come and live in Western Europe. That has happened throughout the ages. The same thing happened when Eastern European Jews came to live in Europe in the 19th century or when Portugese Jews came to live in Amsterdam …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 09:14 AM
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Who do they need to excuse themselves to? She doesn't have to justify or explain herself to anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 08:47 AM
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Around 5% of Sweden is Muslim. It's right there in the link, those are proportional because they're percentages of the total population. Again, it's just a small minority. And just take a look at the wiki on terrorism in Sweden. Terrorism has definitely not been a purely Islamic thing over there. Why is terrorism indicative of the true nature of Islam whenever the perpetrator is Muslim but just a one-off thing when the perpetrator is anything. The largest and most well-known terrorist attack in …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 08:46 AM
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An attractive dude gets a lot of matches. Wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 08:14 AM
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The majority of men I know get into relationships and have sex. And I'm a college student so it's not like that's all "betas" getting settled for. People who are unable to get into relationships or have sex and feel sexually frustrated as a result and a small minority and are themselves to blame for their predicament. And I say this as a person that kinda fits that description. Stop thinking our sexually frustrated and lonely existence is the norm. It isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 08:12 AM
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High five buddy!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 08:08 PM
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Also, has anyone else seen Lewis CK's new stand up special on Netflix? He totally nailed me with rereading your own posts after submitting it imagining the person you sent it to reading it and thinking "I was so wrong about everything!"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 08:00 PM
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The physical ideal for men and women is different. Women don't need to lift weights at the gym or be strong and muscular to be considered ideal by a majority of society. Men do. That's why there's a disparity at your gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 07:57 PM
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Your score was 18 out of a possible 50. Scores in the 0 - 25 range indicate little or no Autistic traits. Whew, I did it guys. I'm a normie.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 07:53 PM
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France has the highest amount of Muslims in Europe and it's at a little under 8%. This idea that Europe is under threat of being overwhelmed by Muslims as totally a myth.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 07:47 PM
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Just because it sounds like something a middle aged mother might post on Facebook doesn't mean it ain't true.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 08:05 AM
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It might be the only way for you to stay sane but there's a whole world out there where the majority of men don't "spin plates" and stay sane.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 07:43 AM
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Does anyone actually like getting lifted into the air? The only one's I do that to is my younger brothers because I know how much it annoys them. I absolutely hate getting lifted into the air.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 07:41 AM
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Omega isn't a thing so things will get better as soon as the men who think of themselves like this realize that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 07:39 AM
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As someone with one foot in a different, more conservative culture arranged marriage is technically possible for me but I have never found it in any way appealing. It seems exploitative (of both people) and not loving in the slightest. Do you think you'd be able to get a satisfying and healthy marriage through this kind of arrangement?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 09:52 PM
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So far, as a chronically single dude, I've found myself completely indiscriminate in who I will open up to about a lot of things. It's all completely determined by whether I think the other person will be interested in hearing it and if they are there's a whole lot I will tell 'em. On the other hand, there's some stuff I haven't told anyone ever and that I don't see myself discussing with someone either. I don't know if being in a relationship would change any of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 09:49 PM
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I'm riddled with lots of issues and self-hatred and body issues and whatever but when it comes down to it I really really like who I am, and that includes physically. I wouldn't trade places with anyone. So I think I look great. Skin isn't perfect and while I'm in decent shape I'd want to be a bit leaner and more muscled. That's it. So I think I'm good. When it comes to others I really don't know. I guess a 5 or 6? Women have been attracted to me and made it clear to a certain extent but I'm not…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 09:23 PM
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I'm happy you've been met with solid support in dealing with the terrible things you've experienced but from what I've heard and read that's definitely not the case for a lot of women. I've personally met a ton of people dismissive or apologetic to the harassment and even rape of women. I think those who are supportive might be extra helpful precisely because they understand how unsupportive large swaths of society can be. That said, I won't deny that there are definitely some men's issues that …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 09:19 PM
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I think the Netherlands is already pretty good in many respects but I have actually thought about moving to Sweden. Not for these reasons tho. I'd just like to live in Lapland. Always seemed awesome to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 09:06 PM
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Society puts undue pressures on men and holds them to a different standard it does women. I absolutely agree with this but I think this results in bad things for both men and women. And in the end, though men certainly face gender-specific struggles, I think women are overall still the more disadvantaged gender. I mean, false rape accusations are an uncommon occurrence whereas rape and sexual harrassment are pretty common and have many apologists, including in high places like judges and the US …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 03:47 PM
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What kind of socially endorsed sexism have they encountered?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 02:27 PM
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What... An entitled and not so successful businessman who has run multiple shows wholly based on "celebrating" the female body and who has been caught bragging about sexually harassing women, has harassment suits swirling all around him and who has made multiple sexist and misogynist remarks has just been rewarded with the most powerful seat in the entire world. How exactly is society more sexist towards men than women? I honestly find that statement as outrageous and untrue as people claiming i…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 02:12 PM
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Nah. I think women who act and look non-traditionally are pretty mainstream right now. I actually think it's more accepted than men acting or looking non-traditionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 08:45 AM
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I gotta say, this is really an American thing. I hang around a lot of Indian guys (tho they're from Suriname, not India) and none have ever had problems getting women, of any race, or facing some kind of stereotype.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 08:44 AM
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Think it all comes down to men wanting women more than women want men, resulting in men having less standards and making men "worth" less than women when it comes to dating. Based purely on my gut and my saltiness as an occasionally lonely and frustrated dude I'd say there might be some truth to this but in reality I honestly have no idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 10:53 PM
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Sure but that's assuming an affair doesn't get out into the open and known to the kids themselves. They might not get hurt if they're still young but I've seen what infidelity can do to a family with kids old enough to understand what's happening. I think breaking up isn't a bad idea at all in those cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 09:27 PM
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A world with equal parental leave for both parents, less (no) sexism and misogyny, one more accepting to female sexuality and unconventional sexuality as well, with gender-equality (parity) wherever it is possible, one without socially/culturally mandated gender roles, without rape culture. That's just a few things off of the top of my head. I find it baffling to suggest that we're already at a point where we can't see any room for improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 09:23 PM
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Interesting test. This is all about what I think I'd like and what I've experienced in erotic chatting with others. I'm curious if it'd hold up in actual sex as well. 85% Dominant 69% Primal (Hunter) 66% Degrader 65% Brat tamer 65% Switch 57% Voyeur 53% Vanilla 52% Non-monogamist 46% Sadist 42% Master/Mistress 42% Experimentalist 39% Degradee 33% Exhibitionist 32% Ageplayer 29% Masochist 24% Submissive 21% Daddy/Mommy 18% Brat 17% Owner 13% Rigger 12% Primal (Prey) 8% Girl/Boy 5% Rope bunny 2% S…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 07:22 PM
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I mean, cheating means not taking your marriage vows seriously to begin with so I don't see how that could ever be a good reason. And cheating can seriously harm a family if ever found out. Plus why would you want your kids to have an evil mom, better to give 'em a nice stepmom. So I can only really understand the financial reasons, but that doesn't mean I think it's acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 03:33 PM
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Why not just end it in that case?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 03:21 PM
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What is female supremacy even supposed to mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 09:43 AM
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There definitely doesn't seem room for kinks that don't conform to traditional gender roles. No femdom, no cuckolding, no swinging; I think the manosphere's love for traditional gender roles really shows in what they think is okay and not okay sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 07:47 AM
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I got no respect for people that need others to be their true selves. Having your being so heavily influenced by whoever's around you sounds like a sad existence and I don't think most women are like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 09:14 PM
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There would've never been a beta male uprising. I don't think there's really any crisis or whatever to begin with. But hey, if some guys wanna forgo marriage in favor of videogames and pornography I say more power to 'em.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 07:40 PM
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Wait till it's night, open your bedroom window and just start howling like a crazed person. If a group of wolves starts howling in response you know you're officially a capital-A Alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 07:32 PM
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AKA the "I don't get laid 'cause I'm just so darn intelligent" excuse. Haven't tried this one yet but I think I might.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 07:23 PM
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I think the main thing that makes something /r/iamverysmart is a total lack of self-awareness. They're never being tongue-in-cheek. Now, I don't wanna toot my own horn over here but I'm nothing if not self-aware and most of my shit tries to at least be semi-comedic.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 04:51 PM
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Oh even in Europe I don't think deportation is actually possible in the foreseeable future but it's become a legit talking point. Politicians can bring it up without being excommunicated for it. We've really reached a deep low point in talking about Muslims in the west and it should scare everyone. I don't doubt that plenty of ex-Muslims are activists without working with right-wing organizations and that some of them still feel left out by the left. And that means that the left needs to do bett…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 04:49 PM
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Ah but I'm a full-on liberal arts type. That's what protected me from that phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 04:29 PM
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Yeah but I'm a man and if this place has taught anything me it's that I need to be a rude, dickish alpha dog to turn everybody on. So coming across as rude just helps me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 04:27 PM
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You seem to make assumptions about people's intentions a lot. Accusing your critics of bad faith only goes so far for making allies. You absolutely have a point but as an ex-muslim myself I have to. Hell, I think every minority has to but those from an Islamic community especially. And you're right, it doesn't help in creating allies but it protects you from people who in the end don't have your best interest at heart. It's where the accusations of Islamophobia come from. As an European, the thr…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 04:25 PM
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You're not so militant or strident about your views that you have to jam them down other people's throats or smirk at the poor "unenlightened sheeple" Oh come on, that's so much fun tho. I love smirking at unenlightened sheeple, that's like half the reason I joined Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 03:48 PM
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Tweets are only 140 characters. The tweet about Gabriel and Ali didn't contain any criticism in itself but did refer to the critical discussion referring to those women. And how is saying "I wish I could take these fake feminists vagina's away [because they don't deserve to be called women]" more vicious than saying "there is a special place in Hell for women who don't support women". Making a distinction between these two, outside of the fact that Ali, one of two women named in the tweet, is a …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 03:45 PM
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It feels good. Dunno why but blaming everything on looks and talking about Chad all day just feels right. When you blame those things and make everything about genetics it feeds your insecurities and inferiority complex while also making you into a powerless victim. Some people just love that feeling, like they're helpless and completely without any blame or responsibility. Just for my own sake and trust in people's intelligence I must assume most people who engage in this kind of behaviour are …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 02:46 PM
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While Sarsour's comment about Hirsi Ali and Bridgette Gabriel was unfortunate because of Ali being a victim of FGM that doesn't mean that the criticism itself was unfounded. Plenty of intersectional and leftwing feminists have criticized those women. And the comment in itself resembled the comment by Albright about there being a special place in Hell for women who don't support women. Making it seem as if this was some kind of special attack is disingenuous. I don't support those kinds of statem…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 02:42 PM
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From what I've seen here, when you're referring to traits alpha and beta can basically be used interchangeably with traditionally masculine and traditionally feminine respectively. I think that's also why beta has become pretty much an insult; it's still very demeaning to a lot of guys to think of themselves as having feminine traits. When alpha and beta are used to refer to people it is almost always used as follows: "Man I think is good and is, or should be, doing well with women is alpha. Man…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 12:28 PM
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But have you accepted our exalted Chad as your Lord and Saviour too? Knowing of His existence isn't enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 09:23 AM
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The hell am I supposed to know what women like. I mean, all of 'em? I'll just post some dudes I find attractive. Paul Newman is perhaps the one guy that always makes me go "damn that's one handsome motherfucker" whenever I see one of his movies. Also think Chiwetel Ejiofer is pretty handsome. I also have a little man-crush on Jeffrey Wright since Westworld. I'll let the women decide if any of these dudes are any good. I mean, I wouldn't bottom for them but I'd probably lick the tip a little.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 09:16 AM
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More single men means more single women. Those among 'em who really desire a relationship and who have the wherewithal to get it will end up together. I don't think this is really some big problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 09:04 AM
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People should set their own boundaries and determine when a lack of sex is threatening their relationship. They should communicate this clearly to their partner and when the lack of sex persists they should end the relationship. If you do this early on in a relationship or during the earlier dating stages you'll be far more likely to find a compatible partner. If your partner lets you know that they want more sex than you do you should determine for yourself whether you begrudgingly start having…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 09:02 AM
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This is the only place I call myself a feminist and it's because it best defines my views. But IRL I feel like some kind of activism is probably needed before you start calling yourself a feminist, especially as a man. But wrt my views I'm intersectional, believing that we need to look at all the different kinds of identities a person could have and the different ways these identities disadvantage or privilege someone. This also means that I think people within minorities should have space to di…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 08:58 AM
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Same here. Couldn't imagine a less attractive act to put up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 08:43 AM
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One of the most embarrassing reads I've had in a while. I'll just quote myself from the first time someone send me that shit to read: Okay that has to be some kind of elaborate comedic performance art, right? Because if that's for real... bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 08:42 AM
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Ever seen tribal societies? That's how we all used to look and shit still got done with saggy tits. Anyway, I think studies generally find that high intelligence correlates slightly with feeling unhappy and being depressed while beauty correlates with happiness. Being intelligent isn't all positives. But I'd still pick brains over everything else every day of the week. Over wealth, over beauty, everything. Brains is about the core of who you are in a much deeper way than beauty. So always brains…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 08:38 AM
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I don't think it says a hell of a lot. The idea that someone is compensating for their our personality or is perhaps even a little gay if they're attracted to people with opposite gender or androgenic features/personalities (in so far as that is even a thing) is wrongheaded. What people like isn't some reflection of that they are as a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 08:33 AM
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You really thought I was being serious about transcending human emotions, even throwing the word silly in? I know we're on the internet and all but... come on, son.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 09:57 PM
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This at or near /r/iammakingajoke material you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 08:43 PM
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Eh, I think both my parents trust me to be able to catch those things myself. Plus, both my parents married people their parents totally didn't expect and maybe didn't approve off so it's not like they've got a lot to stand on.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 07:29 PM
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My mom is awesome. She wouldn't care who I introduced as my girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 07:03 PM
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I don't get internet. My consciousness interfaces with the digital world without any intermediary. It is like I am hooked into the world wide web at all times. What else did you think we monks did when we're just sitting around for hours. We're just watching YouTube videos breh.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 05:44 PM
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Support her through her treatment. Make sure I'm doing all I can to ensure she feels happy with herself. I'd tell her to sue the company as soon as she talked about bullying and probably confront the people responsible myself if she felt unable to. Help her get treatment for her depression and anxiety. Depends on whether we can get through the month on our new combined income. This would be a serious change in need of much discussion and planning. It's her decision in the end but I wouldn't stan…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 05:39 PM
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I don't. I don't hate at all. I've transcended beyond such silly human emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 05:32 PM
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I think it's that men are very quick to find someone else attractive so. If even if you and I totally differ in who we find most attractive that'll just result in me giving your girl a 6 where you gave her a 9 and vice versa. With women I feel like they're far quicker to disagree on whether someone is attractive in the first place. One's 9 can be another's 3, something that doesn't happen all that easily with two men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 07:51 AM
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Sure but when something is called red pill the obvious conclusion is that it isn't blue pill. Like the blue pill can't or doesn't have a view or that a view is more red pill than it is blue pill. But that just makes blue pill seem Disney-like and naive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 10:08 PM
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Those are just the dumb idiots that think being bluepill means believing in Disney fairy-tales and shit instead of, you know, just being a regular-ass dude without any weird RP beliefs like 80/20, women being like children, alpha/beta, etc. RP doesn't have a patent on pure materialism, pessimism or other stuff normal people can believe in.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 10:00 PM
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I'm joking too breh. Come on, you of all people are cool enough to get when I'm just playin'. And this monologue was pessimistically materialistic but I don't think that's necessarily red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 09:40 PM
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You guys really need to stop claiming everything for the red pill. Keep my Rick and Morty alone pls.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 09:31 PM
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more soft, feminine and receptive to rougher male energy Having debated some RP men on here this is finally starting to make sense to me. No wonder the women that need to put up with these dudes need to teach themselves how to be agreeable, submissive and supplicating. The guys these poor women are with are some of the most sensitive, thin-skinned, butthurt dudes I've ever seen. I'd need to read some books too if I had to live with divas like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 08:37 PM
1

Ya Allah...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 08:02 PM
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A true alpha doesn't need his woman to read some stinkin' book to learn how to submit. He makes her submit through the pure animalistic power of his masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 06:44 PM
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I'm two weeks from becoming 25 and I've denied myself so many experiences throughout the years because I was afraid or insecure or depressed. And at times that fact has plagued me with feelings of envy, resentment, bitterness and despair even though it was always in my own power to solve my own problems. Acknowledging that I've always been my own worst enemy was a bitter pill to swallow. Another, perhaps even worse one, is that I can't coast on potential or innate ability. For all one's intellig…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 05:40 PM
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No one's going to link their IRL friends' FB pics. If they did do you think the friends they'd pick would look more like the dude in this post, or at least other typical redpill "Chad" images, or would the look as diverse as the celebrities they picked?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 05:02 PM
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This seems great. I don't see the downsides to this. More people able to act freely on their sexual desires. People feeling less traditional pressures.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 04:29 PM
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Obviously all women are trying to con us into thinking they don't care about Chad's glistening pecs, rock-hard abs or throbbing bulge (yes Chad is so special his cock even throbs in pictures). Anyway we get it, men and women look differently at male attractiveness. That's why straight men often point out men as being especially attractive that would be popular in some gay scenes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 03:51 PM
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I assume you're referring to the "more balls" comment? That was about redpillers in general, not you specifically. Even then, I don't see how it's some mean personal attack. You basically called me stunted. How is that any better than what I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 03:48 PM
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This idea that incels lack completely in simple social skills is mostly a myth. I know it's funny to think of 'em as worse socializers than Napoleon Dynamite and I also know that some of y'all seem to get boners from calling other people autistic but it just isn't the case most times. Most incels just don't approach. When they say "I don't have social skills" they literally just mean I don't want to be social. Not that they're exceptionally bad at it but just that they don't do it (often). Appro…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 03:47 PM
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Yo where did I personally attack you? And the likes of me? The hell did I do wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 03:36 PM
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Chances I'll agree with you are absolutely minuscule. But that doesn't mean I don't wanna hear it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 03:33 PM
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I strongly disagree on that. But I'd be open to hear where you think I've gone wrong in my understanding of human nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 03:30 PM
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Who is actually claiming that men and women are exactly the same. Even the few feminists who do reason from that position do so not because they think there are zero differences but because it is safer to always presume the presence of socialization and cultural pressures. That way you're protected against the invisible biases that still inform so many of our opinions. Biological differences or factors should be the last explanation, and this goes for everything from historical processes to indi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 03:29 PM
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Well, I guess you're a part of the minority /u/Bpremium mentioned. Congratulations on your disgusting opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 03:25 PM
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How is the inability of a man to have sex or get in a relationship structural? There are plenty of things concerning this topic that we can deal with on a societal level. Fighting the pressures that force men in a very specific mold, where being sexually unsuccessful makes one a failure, for example. The desexualization of Asian men in the media. That sort of stuff. But the actual fact of someone not being able to get laid is not in any way structural.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 03:18 PM
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Yeah, I'd say minority is quite the understatement when it comes to that view.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 12:13 PM
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You think anything about the current situation makes "ER type stuff" justifiable or understandable?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 11:47 AM
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There are plenty of all male executive teams. Political administrations are sometimes still all male. Men being overwhelmingly represented in powerful positions is still a fact of life. So this just highlights the changing tides and the way women are coming up. It's about positive female empowerment, not the absence of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 09:45 AM
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Don't assume bluepill means that we're like whatever loser you were before you found TRP. This kinda projection really needs to stop. Bluepill means we reject most of the stupid bio-truths and misogynistic theories of TRP. It doesn't mean we're doormats, all supplicating, skinny without fashion sense, have zero social skills, etc. TRP doesn't have a patent on being an attractive guy with game.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 08:05 AM
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The sexbot/VR thing won't work because incels and other such men feel left out and like they're not "real men" because they don't have sex or date. As long as that pressure exists people won't be satisfied by VR/Sexbots. Quite the opposite, those things will keep people from trying and help people feel content with their situation most of the times but in the end that'll just keep those people incels for longer, increasing their overall frustration. I also don't see how transportation is going t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 08:01 AM
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Prove me wrong but the bloopy guys I see here are just jeans and a T-shirt. How do you see anyone here, dude? I've got no idea what anybody wears over here, red or blue-pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 07:57 AM
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Two of those articles discuss popular media depictions of AI, not of just a sex-bot. And that's the whole point. People making the female body into a thing that can be owned and used as one desires is already upsetting and disgusting. Not because women are scared about being replaced but because someone thinking women can be replaced by a female body without conscious, aimed at sexually pleasuring men, is beyond fucked up. And extremely misogynistic. Add to that our continuous quest for creating…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 07:48 AM
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Nobody likes having romantic or sexual difficulties and everybody gets that it leads to frustration but ultimately that's your own problem. Sex and relationship have to have the consent of both parties. Inability to acquire the consent of a person of your choice can't be solved by anyone and is your sole responsibility. If the response to all that is to "go your own way"... than go ahead. Nobody's stopping you. Nobody will care. Hell, ideally nobody will even know. If you truly go your own way a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 10:43 PM
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Absolutely crazy. Have you seen Clouds of Sils Maria? It's a good movie with Juliette Binoche falling for Kristen Stewart. She's pretty damn sexy in that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 08:20 PM
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But what has a gynecologist to do with sex? Someone thinking hand-jobs are a part of someone's N-count (something I'd argue is pretty reasonable, it's the moral and character judgments that are unreasonable and baseless) doesn't at all mean someone also thinks a trip to the OB/GYN counts towards N-count.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 08:16 PM
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Okay I wanna preface this by saying that I think N-count is stupid and that I don't understand caring about your partner's sexual past beyond just sincere and non-judgmental curiosity, but for those that do care I don't see much point differentiating between sex acts. It's not like sex only counts when it's penis in vagina. Lesbians and gays couldn't ever have sex if that were the case. But even between two straight people sex can mean a hell of a lot more than just piv. If a guy cares about N-c…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 08:04 PM
2

Wait, what... how does this question even get raised.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 07:49 PM
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It allows people to have quick access to a huge database of other singles in their area. It makes meeting new people or having casual sex incredibly easy, especially if you're attractive. How is any of this a disadvantage?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 05:51 PM
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I don't mind very short or very tall women at all. I like both and everything in between. I'm also okay with moderately bad skin but that's probably because I got a few acne scars too. I like stubbornness and people that enjoy disagreeing or playing devil's advocate. I just really enjoy butting heads with someone, especially if they can take me on. I'm also totally okay with a couple pounds extra. Love short hair and genuinely haven't seen a hairstyle in real life that I'd consider a turn off, n…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 04:13 PM
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Yeah I really agree on Kristen Stewart. She is really hot but in a weirdly understated way.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 04:07 PM
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Been awhile since a saw the San Junipero episode but I just can't stop thinking 'bout Mackenzie Davis, very striking and beautiful in an androgynous way. Also love ole Zadie of course. Zhang Ziyi from Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon. Also think Zazie Beetz is really hot. And let's end it with Teyonah Parris, another hot as hell woman (those legs). Anyway, pics don't really do a person justice. To know how attracted I truly am to someone I really need to meet 'em in real life. EDIT: Just wanted to…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 04:05 PM
1

Believing YouTube social experiments in 2017? Come on, son.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 11:44 AM
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The source is literally /r/Badfaketexts, ya moron.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 06:59 AM
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Just because she don't want it doesn't mean she can't get it. Plenty of guys got standards too but difference is some of 'em can't get any pussy, even the ones they don't want. Or at least that's what they think is the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/17 10:07 PM
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Man, none of these dudes are anything like this Chad I keep dreaming hearing about...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/17 09:21 PM
1

I never seriously identified as an incel but it did take me a while to fully understand and accept that I'm alone and inexperienced because I'm okay with the way things are. I think a lot of incels might not be happy with their current situation but they're at least somewhat content with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/17 05:16 PM
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A lot of men say they prefer "natural" (i.e. a natural style of make-up, not actually zero make-up) and I do too but in the end it doesn't really matter all that much I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/17 04:46 PM
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How else can I make sure I'm the biggest she's ever had.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/17 03:52 PM
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She's not interested in me. Biggest red flag of all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/17 09:50 AM
1

Absolutely. Opposite attract is more of a nice story-telling device, a romantic saying that's more used because it sounds nice than that it is actually true. In reality people often end up with people similar to them. Similar in everything, from educational level to personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/17 09:50 AM
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She's saying there's a sexism problem in games, as there are in many mediums, and gives lots and lots of examples. She discusses the way women are often represented in video-games. She makes multiple videos that often go over 10 minutes explaining and arguing her points. Y'all don't engage anything she says. Don't counter any of her arguments. All the opponents of Sarkeesian keep doing is complaining she's critiquing games in the first place. It is so goddamn normal and ordinary to discuss and c…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/17 09:47 AM
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Nah, you can't write the shit Barnett writes without actually being shy and struggling with anxiety. It's just that people like that actually, you know, struggle and overcome their problems while people like me are too lazy and cowardly to put any real effort in.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/17 10:43 PM
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I wanna go out but I wanna stay home I know my very own Courtney Barnett is somewhere out there, we both just gotta go outside enough to find each other. Of course, the actual Courtney Barnett is talented guitarist, singer and songwriter and probably has lots of parties. Fuck it, I'll just stay inside and read PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/17 10:38 PM
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You mean I have to go outside to get laid? Ugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/17 09:51 PM
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If you truly see women, dating and relationships like they're described as at TRP how could you possibly enjoy any of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/17 09:42 PM
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It's a place to rant and rave, be irreverent and dickish, to wallow in self-pity and self-hatred, to troll and shit post. By no means is /r/incels a healthy or constructive place. But sometimes all that shit feels good to do. I've called it a mental version of cutting before and I really think it's accurate. I used to go there, before I was banned, because it felt good to just say every hurtful thing about myself and the people who thought like me. It felt good to give in to fatalism and depress…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/17 09:27 PM
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Me thinking a woman is sexually attractive is still about a thousand steps removed from actually having sex with her. I don't consider that big enough for actual temptation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/17 09:10 PM
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Basically that most of the more misogynist and sexist stuff from TRP is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/17 01:53 PM
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Learnt from whom? I think my views on dating and relationships developed organically just from what I witnessed growing up. I don't think actual experience is needed in order to say or believe sensible things about people in general, women specifically or relationships. Lack of experience means I might not know how I deal with certain things, and I'm not claiming to be an expert or anything but I also don't think the age you start dating has all that much to do with how you see women or dating i…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/17 12:31 PM
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Your post just describes low self-esteem. Don't think that's got really anything to do with any pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/17 08:21 AM
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No, of course not. And physical attractiveness is not a requirement for friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/17 07:07 AM
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It's not pretentious to have preferences, regardless of the average. It's not even pretentious to have preferences you yourself don't meet. Just have whatever preference you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/17 07:06 AM
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This is fake. I saw a link to her instagram account and she had similar videos with social experiments and they all had the same dudes in 'em. But yeah, because men are (seen as) more threatening to women the reaction if a men did this would be even more negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/17 07:04 AM
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A redpiller who thinks I'm missing out by not dating? Y'all make that shit sound absolutely terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/17 07:02 AM
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Nothing here has changed my mind. My interpretation of TRP has changed in so far that I now understand there to be different groups within that space that can differ by quite a bit. Outside of that the only way I've been affected is that nowadays I can only get fully erect when I see that little envelop light up orange.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/17 07:38 PM
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I honestly don't know how I came to think the way I think right now. I was raised by a religiously and socially conservative Muslim East-African dad, in many ways more "RP" or at least masculine than the shit I see here, and a liberal incredibly emphatic white mom and I guess their healthy but complicated relationship probably informed me the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/17 07:04 PM
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By opening and closing my mouth and hearing people agree with the things that come out.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/17 06:46 PM
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Not to toot my own horn over here but I feel like I have good a pretty good grasp on people, relationships and dating and that's without any experience at all. I don't think lack of experience fully explains a lot of the shit you see here on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/17 06:40 PM
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You've now got jeans that feel like sweatpants. Fuck my life those things feel good. I replaced all my ordinary jeans with 'em. Gotta love living in the future sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/17 11:28 AM
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We're talking about personality here so it depends on the individual woman whether she prefers one personality over the other. I've we're talking numbers and N-count I think personality plays a larger part in determining someone's success sexually than pure looks. I don't believe in objective or general SMV so I'd say based on N-count the average looking guy could be more successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/17 07:50 AM
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That's it, just trap me up fam. Got the hips for it anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 10:45 PM
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For some reason you made me think about this picture only with me trying to hold all the penises for our gynocratic overlords.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 10:40 PM
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Civilization was a mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 10:19 PM
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She cares. I care. If you don't care that's fine. Don't have to watch her videos. But that's not the same as waging war on video-games.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 10:03 PM
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It's very similar to what I was sometimes told growing up as a Muslim (tho my dad never really took it to mean business with women could not be conducted one-on-one). It's the idea that a man and a woman being together alone always forms a temptation. I personally disagree with it, I think men and women are capable of being one-on-one together, even with alcohol, without it leading anywhere but I can understand it as a way of completely eradicating the chance for temptation in the first place. M…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 10:02 PM
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Sure but she goes into great detail and argues at length why she thinks something might be sexist. All you've got so far is that she's not a "real gamer". Not really a strong argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 09:53 PM
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Gamer or not, she's got every right to criticize games (anybody does) and I, a gamer, happen to agree with a lot of her points. And I can still enjoy games, even a game like Bayonetta, while also acknowledging her points.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 09:50 PM
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Explains why they're always named something like Stacey, Becky or Jane
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 09:38 PM
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In a few years the young girls who grew up surrounded by games will be 20- and 30-somethings who grew up around games. I don't think they'll change, I think the culture will just change even further. Anita Sarkeesian is a critic who criticizes and examines tropes often used in video-games. That is in no way complaining about men. Why are some people so easily threatened by something as innocent as someone critiquing something you love.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 09:37 PM
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feminine personality: submissive and indecisive, needy. nurturing but emotionally volatile, moody. sexually attached and expressive but low-libido. empathetic but manipulative. appreciative but high maintenance. social but demanding and easily disappointed. Fuuuuck me, I don't see how anyone could be into feminine personalities if they were really as you described. I don't see those traits as necessarily feminine at all, just as I don't think the traits you describe as being masculine actually a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 09:32 PM
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Marketing is exactly why gaming became a boy's club. Women made fun of it because while they were growing up gaming was this thing only boy's did. A geeky pastime they were excluded from. I'm not saying it probably didn't suck to grow up as a bullied geek who always felt rejected but that's got more to do with culture than women inherently disliking gaming. The culture's changed and I see very view young women and girls hate on gaming these days. I see plenty women with 3DS's or talking about ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 09:27 PM
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This is a long read but it does a good job of explaining why video-games became a "boy" pastime, mostly through marketing. Women were never at war with gaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 09:10 PM
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I thought bad news meant someone who might be dangerous or a stereotypical bad boy or something. This list seems to be more about typical "loser" signs, not that I think those bullet-points actually indicate a loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 07:16 PM
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Us biracial guys get weirdly competitive about other half-bloods. I'm just a jealous hater. Seriously tho, I'm a straight(-ish) dude so I'm no expert but outside of being a soft lil whiner in his lyrics, Drake also literally looks soft. Like, a ball of molten caramel or something. I don't care about his looks tho, mostly just dislike his lyrics.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 07:10 PM
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I've gotten to see the secret feminist plans already and this is such a monkey's paw situation because the only seats they'll be replacing with our faces are the toilet seats.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 07:04 PM
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I'm glad there's at least something the blue and red pill can agree on.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 06:58 PM
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Even worse, I'm a dude myself. I've betrayed my penis and every other dick with it. I've already welcomed our new feminine overlords.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 06:58 PM
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From Drake to... this guy? A total mystery. Aubrey's so soft even the motherfucker that co-founded Reddit is a step-up from his buttery Canadian ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 06:44 PM
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We are like the Borg. We won't stop until everybody is assimilated into our gynocratic collective, ready to eradicate the rule of penis-havers forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 04:25 PM
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This line of questioning doesn't work because redpillers have no problem claiming, without any evidence, that women in relationships are in them despite not feeling any sexual attraction to their man. For some reason redpillers think they're capable of making any reasonable statement about other people's private sex lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 04:23 PM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Brown_Paper_Bag_Test
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 03:58 PM
2

If everybody can be a Chad for somebody... doesn't that kinda defeat the purpose of this whole Chad idea?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 03:54 PM
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What about us biracial folk? Is there a brown-paper bag test for LTRs and casual sex? These are the things I gotta know. Might have to hit the tanning salon a few times to get the right shade.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 03:48 PM
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OP is just noting the occurrence of talk of rough sex in popular culture, including songs, and arguing that this shows that it is not unknown or hidden. I seem to recall that you argued that women loving certain "RP" lyrics said something about what they were into or that this meant they deep down loved or believed in "RP". That's not completely the same. This is purely about the fact that women being into rough sex isn't some kind of arcane forbidden knowledge known to only a few initiates. And…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 01:20 PM
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See, now how can I trust you not to be a fucking joke character dude. "I'm in better shape, here lemme tell you about some unhealthy behaviour I engage in!" Trust me, we'd both benefit from some therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 06:37 AM
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You guys can't just go around and call random things "RP". What gives you the right to claim age-old generic advice or knowledge? Why would understanding that physical attraction counts for a hell of a lot in dating not be bluepill?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 06:35 AM
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There are (morally and ethically) bad and good choices one can make but they should always be considered within the context in which they were made. I honestly believe a good story-teller can make a documentary about just about anyone and make you feel sympathy for 'em. Even random gang-members or far off terrorists. Doesn't mean we can't judge their decisions, especially if those decisions leave victims in their wake.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 06:33 AM
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Of course women can be rude assholes. But the whole Brad Pitt in Troy is the ultra Chad thing is mostly just something you believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 06:28 AM
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Thanks dude, but I don't think you're in much better mental shape than I am. Therapy could really help your ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 06:27 AM
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I don't like this idea that people in shitty situations, people suffering from addictions, people stuck in bad behaviours, etc. are somehow shitty people themselves. I don't like making those kinds of judgments about people. People that have experienced abusive relationships are capable of getting out of those and getting into good, healthy relationships in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 09:30 PM
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You gotta go buddy. Even more than I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 09:26 PM
1

a woman tells me to not approach her unless I'm a 28 year old Brad Pitt just off the set of a brand new movie No woman has ever said this. Sometimes I feel like I'm falling for the most obvious joke in the world just by responding to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 09:26 PM
1

Don't you do pretty well with women? Maybe if you assume those women are actually attracted to you and don't just want you for your money you'd be able to see that life ain't that bad as a non-Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 08:58 PM
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I'll go if you go.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 08:53 PM
1

I think you're projecting all kinds of fears. desires and insecurities onto women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 08:51 PM
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You're honestly seeing things that aren't really there. No woman feels like she's doing you a favor for letting you live on this planet. Women, and people in general, aren't nearly as bad as you seem to think they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 08:50 PM
1

I look at every reflective surface I walk past and get suicidally depressed about what I see. I once almost threw myself in front of a train because I saw a glimpse of my face in a black laptop screen. You can't win this buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 08:49 PM
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This simply seems like an explanation why some people keep falling into abusive relationships or have a hard time quitting an abusive ex. It's a little disappointing that it's written in a gendered way because this is definitely not something exclusive to women or something all women deal with. I know both men and women who have experience with abusive relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 08:47 PM
1

I know that kind of thinking can feel good in a perverted kind of way but come on, you can't actually belief it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 08:44 PM
1

I don't know if this particular woman is a redpiller and I don't really care. Most women I've ever met were decent people who did care for other people, even introverted distant dudes like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 08:43 PM
1

There is no guy in this world who self-hates and self-loathes himself as much as I do. Breh, you can't beat me at that game.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 08:41 PM
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There definitely seems to be a correlation between RP and conservatism/right wing politics.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 07:41 PM
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I doubt any of 'em would care.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 04:44 PM
2

Man, speak for yourself. I don't hate promiscuous women and neither do most guys I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 04:36 PM
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I am like the prime target audience for RP. Depressed, introverted and never done well with women at all. I think I feel little to no compassion because I'm in much the same place but not being a raging dickface about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 04:35 PM
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Come on, that type of advice is incredibly easy to come by. No need for TRP to get that kinda stuff. And I definitely agree that most of the misogyny comes from a sad place. I might disagree with some other bluepillers on this but I think a lot of the misogyny you see in the manosphere is born from self-hatred and self-loathing. And I can pity those things to a certain extent. Also means I don't really think it's something to be afraid of. But ultimately I don't at all believe those feelings com…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 04:33 PM
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My life has gone the best whenever I expected the most out of others, whenever I felt free to share with other people and be open because I fully trusted them to care about me. That outlook always rewarded me with people actually caring. You get as much as you put in. If you let them people can actually provide a hell of a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 04:27 PM
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Amount of people someone has slept with can say so many different things about someone that it's absolutely useless to say something purely based on the number alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 04:25 PM
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TRP gives guys false and misogynistic beliefs about women. Sure, it tells them to work out, to set boundaries, to take pride in their appearance and other simple, straightforward advice my grandma could fucking give. And the "support" group of people rooting for you will just be an echo-chamber of misogynistic assholes who are dead set on always seeing the worst in everyone. I don't see what's seductive about that at all. Honestly, it mostly seems like bitter guys more concerned with being salty…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 04:21 PM
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Hey if you enjoy going through life expecting the worst out of everyone and expecting nobody to care about you more power to you. I know that shit ain't true and I don't think pretending it is will make my life better in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 04:17 PM
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I like Obama too but even he can't realistically compare those two groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 04:16 PM
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Didn't work like that for me. Quite the opposite. But I was never really opposed to it in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 04:15 PM
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Well let me set your mind at ease 'cause I don't agree with RP on nearly any level, I think it's wrong because of the way it falsely and misogynistically describes women, not because it exposes anything that's actually true. And I certainly don't set out to bully or troll RP guys, it's just that they say some silly shit some times that's impossible not to mock.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 04:14 PM
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Read up on the idea of postfeminism and the idea of a backlash occurring in the late 80s/early 90s.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 04:11 PM
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You must've misunderstood me. I don't think misfortune is always your own doing. It obviously isn't. Being born poor, gay in a repressive society, getting bullied as a kid, etc. there's lots of misfortune that can befall someone without it being their fault. But you should always expect nobody but yourself to be the one to fix it. Or at least, if you won't fix it nobody else will either, because I do believe other people can and will help those that help themselves. When it comes to guys that ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 11:45 AM
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Structural discrimination isn't a myth and feminists, black activists, LGBT activists, etc. are taking their responsibility and fixing their own problems by fighting against it. You're really going to compare people actively fighting against the racism, homophobia and sexism standing in their way with lazy whiners who blame others for problems they themselves caused?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 11:36 AM
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Women don't care about you. What does that even mean? Who goes through life expecting random people to care about them? It's probably not what you intended but a lot of guys on TRP take this to mean that women can't care about men. Going through life expecting others to be incapable of caring for you isn't a recipe for success. I agree with your last sentence. It's nobody but you who's responsible for fixing your own problems. But putting it in this kind of gendered and adversarial way just make…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 10:13 AM
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They never want it with me so I can only logically assume that women don't want sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 09:07 AM
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Nah, we all wish they were but they're really not. There's just dudes, running the gamut from straight up asshole to Jesus-lite.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 09:06 AM
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Number 1 tell is having the word "slut" tattooed somewhere on their body. I'm onto you Katrina Jade, you can't fool me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 09:04 AM
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Rejection hurts, the asking-to-stay-friends part does nothing to worsen or alleviate that. Most times it's just them simply being courteous. If they're for real tho and there's enough compatibility to at least be (good) friends you can take 'em up on that after licking your wounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 08:59 AM
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Feminism isn't widely hated. The hate it does get is because of ignorance and misinformation. So the only thing feminists can do is better educate people on what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 08:56 AM
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Just go for a nice long walk. Really helps get your mind off things.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 08:54 AM
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The fact that there are so few famous actresses that don't fit conventional beauty standards and that the roles available to women and the ways they get represented is so constrained is exactly why we need a body-positivity movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 09:16 PM
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What narrative? That men or masculinity is bad? I don't think that's necessarily a feminist narrative nor is it something I believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 09:14 PM
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I don't think I'm bad. Most men I know aren't bad. So no, I don't agree with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 08:50 PM
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Not police, speak out.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 08:41 PM
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I doubt many feminists and "bluepillers" are attracted to misogynist and sexist men, and sleeping with traditionally masculine and good-looking men isn't the same as rewarding toxic and sexist behaviour. Plenty of very traditionally masculine and good-looking guys are also moral, compassionate and upstanding people. I don't think toxicity, misogyny and sexism correlate with appearance. Hell, if it did it would probably be the other way around, with ugly lonely guys being the worst of it, at leas…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 08:18 PM
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You don't need TRP for that kind of advice. In fact, TRP has far too much bullshit bolted on to that advice to be of any use at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 07:00 PM
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Yeah, thank God we're seeing some change but she's really the only one. It's undeniable that there are more overweight and unconventional looking men in Hollywood than women. And by a fair margin. There aren't really movies like Superbad, Knocked Up, School of Rock, Gulliver's Travels, etc with similar female leads. I mean in Hollywood a movie like Miss Congeniality, about a frumpy looking cop having to go undercover in a pageant, still has Sandra Bullock as lead.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 05:44 PM
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It's bad when people get reduced to their looks. When people are only seen for their (lack of) attractiveness. That's something that women disproportionally experience. Men aren't often reduced to what they look like. Men can easily get appreciated for things besides their attractiveness. But when Elena Kagan became a member of the Supreme Court people felt the need to disparage her looks. Same goes for Hilary Clinton. Literally every female comedian. Wanting to de-emphasize the importance of lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 12:36 PM
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I think it simply has to do with the fact that height is a rather obvious part of our species' sexual dimorphism. Add to that the way culture can strengthen preferences, normalize them, almost make it abnormal not to have some preference and you got the overwhelming preference for someone taller a lot of straight women exhibit. I doubt it's got anything to do with penises. Height has more become associated with protection, masculinity in general and leadership.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 12:12 PM
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I don't know exact numbers but the men I know who I presume get around the most usually fit into one of three camps. They're either incredibly attractive and charismatic. They're really just very desirable guys and it shows in the amount of women show interest in them and how many women they sleep with. It also shows in how little behaviour like cheating hurts their reputation. One of my oldest friends is like this. He's a genuinely good dude but sleeps around, cheats and all that mostly because…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 12:07 PM
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I don't think many feminists body shame men so there's no need for a 180 in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 11:56 AM
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I disagree. Allowing for more diversity in the beauty standard isn't necessarily about making overweight women all attractive but about depicting women of all sizes more frequently and in more roles, that kind of thing. Men like Seth Rogen, Michael Cera or Jack Black can lead movies, be depicted in relationships and all that stuff while female leads, or even just women depicted in a romantic or sexual relationship, nearly all need to fit a very narrow view of female beauty. That's why the focus …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 11:55 AM
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The increasing emphasis on looks and the increasing standards for men are a separate development from the emergence of body-positivity movements. Those movements are primarily female and focused on women because there used to be a large difference in how important looks were for women in comparison to men. That difference is still there but slowly decreasing. As looks become more and more important for men and BDD becomes more prevalent among men as well, body-positivity will start to become a t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 06:49 AM
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The only reason I'd be opposed to gender neutral bathrooms is because I get the see the long ass lines for the women's bathroom. You'd bet your ass us guys would be losing out, I almost never have to wait when I need to go in college.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 09:59 PM
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Exactly. Well, as long as you make sure to shoot first that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 05:35 PM
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Well excuse me, your highness. I guess you're just too good to enjoy the simple sci-fi amusements of us hoi polloi.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 05:33 PM
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All just the same hokey religions and ancient weapons to me. I'm not frightened by their sorcerer's ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 05:30 PM
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Gotta admit, I haven't seen the Titanic either...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 05:25 PM
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No it's not. It's a way of life. You would've known that if you'd seen it, you uncultured barbarian.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 05:24 PM
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I don't think there's an appropriate N-count, doesn't matter the gender. Own N-count is zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 05:23 PM
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I'm a grey Jedi like Jolee Bindo because I'm the kind of basement-dwelling nerd that knows who Jolee Bindo is. Didn't even have to double-check the spelling of his name.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 05:20 PM
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How do you grow old enough to be here and not end up seeing any Star Wars?!? I don't know whether to be amazed, disgusted, outraged or sad. All of these conflicting emotions, I don't know how to handle them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 05:18 PM
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Where I used should it signified that it is IMO morally right if someone responded in that manner. I will repeat, I don't consider it a moral imperative to respond in that manner. I just think that response is right. Again, I personally do not respond with outrage most of the times. I merely consider it morally okay to do so, which is what we've been discussing here. You're focusing on the word "should" even though I clarified that I did not mean that I think it is a moral obligation to react ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 05:16 PM
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Don't worry buddy, all those women who rejected you despite obviously being less than what you really deserve will curl up into the fetal position and cry their hearts out once they know just how much better you're able to get.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 02:39 PM
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I don't think that's a perfectly fine thing to do at all, it's just a perfectly legal thing to do tho. And it is also completely legal for me to respond to it if such statements are made in public or my presence. That's not me calling on some universal morality, it's just me drawing from my own moral framework and expressing myself publicly. I'm not calling for a mob or calling for others to hurt someone. I'm expressing my outrage against something. If lots of people agree with me there might be…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 01:46 PM
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We don't all know because that's certainly not something I believe happens. I don't think 90% of the people purposely not dating are women and I also don't think that most of the women who have stopped dating are doing so out of spite.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 01:23 PM
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I already explained to someone else that we're discussing morality here so the should's are about what's morally right according to my own moral framework. IMO it is morally right to express outrage at someone publicly judging someone in an insulting manner. Similarly it is IMO morally wrong to express outrage at someone for simply rejecting someone. That's what I tried to illustrate with the TV-personality example. I don't have any opinion on whether people should actually feel impelled to expr…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 01:21 PM
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But if women don't show interest now why would they do so in the future? If you end up meeting a woman and she takes a liking to you only to get rejected because you've had trouble with women in the past you are still only hurting yourself. There's no reason to assume she's only interested in you for material reasons, after all she wasn't one of the women not interested in you in your youth. And if you reject her she'll just get over it and try with someone else. You're rejection will just be an…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 12:58 PM
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This is like some mighty morphin' power rangers bullshit where you think you're on top 'cause you're the red ranger and than some green or white ranger douche shows up to beat you at your own game. How many more greek letters do who need to pull outta our asses? Can I be an Omicron?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 11:48 AM
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Wealthy guy, obviously. Not even for sex or whatever but for all the other advantages wealth gives you. Wealth does a lot more for you than simple attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 11:05 AM
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Blue 24 Man Used to be a pretty religious Muslim but now I'm an atheist I'd say existential philosophy, religion in general and Islam specifically still play a large part in my life. I probably think about that stuff and am busy with religion more than the average atheist/10 I think anyone of any religion can be blue pill, though you'd have to be pretty liberal in your interpretation especially in the Abrahamic religions. Finally my dream of riding a duck like I'm Nils Holgersson can come true! …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 10:31 AM
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I do not think I'm the target audience for his videos.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 10:25 AM
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We're discussing morals here, right. So yeah, I'm talking about my moral framework and how I think people should act. I wasn't talking about facts, I was talking about what moral judgments I consider sound. When it comes to moral judgments consensus or majority-view influences what's considered okay in society. I was just pointing out that few people would be okay with attacking someone over rejecting another person but a considerable amount would be okay with attacking someone over rejecting an…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 10:22 AM
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I understand the feeling but it does still make me chuckle. Doing that kind of shit out of spite does absolutely nothing because nobody would even notice if you'd be off the market and the only person to get hurt by your decision would be you. It's an incredibly childish reaction. And I'm talking in general here, I'm not calling you specifically childish.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 10:12 AM
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Fat acceptance and discussions about the impact of age on women and how this differs from the impact on men are not about whether you or any other guy would stick your fucking dick in these women. Holy fucking shit, I do not get why that's the first interpretation some guys have of those kinds of movements and conversations. Fat acceptance is about talking about and representing overweight people, especially women, differently in our culture. It isn't about making sure every man swipes right on …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 10:10 AM
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I think you've got a far too pessimistic view of dating as a guy. The people around me aren't all tall, handsome guys. In fact, in one of my closest friend groups I'm the tallest and one of the few guys with a full head of hair. Plus, they're all Hindustani which would make them undatable according to the internet. Yet they all do fine (and I don't). There isn't some objective standard in need of meting if someone wants to be more sexually attractive than they already are. I'm surrounded by aver…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 10:04 AM
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Obviously you've got a legal right to make judgments. Nobody can stop you from making them. Why don't you guys ever get that when someone says "you don't have the right to judge" or something along those lines it's about not being in the legal right but about being in some moral right when judging someone. If you reject someone because of her past and leave it at that nobody should get outraged about it. They still can, freedom of speech and everything, but few people would agree with them. If y…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 09:57 AM
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From the very start I made clear I wasn't talking about every guy dissatisfied with his sex life: There are definitely guys out there who believe that their kindness, respect or whatever else positive behaviour somehow deserves to result in sex. Nowhere was I talking about every dude that felt displeasure about his lack of success. That wasn't what this entire conversation was about either. Guys get called "nice guys" and can come off as entitled when they engage in this kind of behaviour: I hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 11:38 PM
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When people starve I want to give them food seeing as that it's needed to survive and when I see people I beg I think nothing but "it's a pity this is how they have to survive". The same does not go for sex. That ain't needed to survive. I'm not making any assumptions at all. I have no problem with a person expressing their displeasure with being lonely or lacking in sex. But if that's all they do it starts to make them look like they expect something to change without having worked for it. It m…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 11:16 PM
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I disagree. Desiring something and feeling like you're owed something purely for existing, while making little effort to actually get what it is you desire is entitlement. Nice guys are either selectively oblivious, understanding perfectly well that sexual attractiveness is necessary for a woman to be interesting to them but failing to understand that the same goes the other way around, or, they are aware of the necessity of sexual attractiveness but feel it beneath them to actually aim to be it…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 10:52 PM
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Wut?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 10:45 PM
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Well, sure. You've got zero control over what someone else will think about you. But that just makes it sound even more entitled. You aren't entitled to being attractive to anybody else. Just as how nobody is entitled to being attractive to you. But you do have (some) control over how you look, how you act, how you dress, etc. Those things can and will make you attractive in the eyes of some people. So to that end you have control over the person you are and what exactly you are putting out ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 10:19 PM
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I disagree, I think people have lots of control over it. But again, I don't think there's some objective bar that needs to be met in order to be sexually attractive. Being sexually attractive is in how you act, how much pride you take in how you look, those kinds of things. I mean, ultimately you just need to be attractive to one person to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 09:57 PM
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Okay just wanna make one thing clear. When I say sexually attractive I'm not talking about some godly Chad physique or anything. It's difficult to talk about becoming sexually attractive online because lots of people will immediately interpret it as being some impossible standard. I'm not saying that's how you're interpreting me but I just want to be safe. Anyway, realizing that all it takes to be more successful is to be (more) sexually attractive should be liberating. I get that "nice guys" ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 09:40 PM
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I'm finding it even more annoying that some women have innate preferences they double down on, but are upset that men have innate preferences they can't explain rationally in modern times. Who the hell is upset about other people's standards? This is such an overblown issue. Nobody gives a fucking shit who other people reject. As long as you don't feel the right to judge a person on anything but personal fuckability when they don't reach your personal standards the rest of the world don't fuckin…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 08:50 PM
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The charge of entitlement comes from one important place I think. The so-called nice guys treat women they find sexually attractive with kindness and respect, probably because they treat most people like that but also because they find those women sexually attractive. The link between "that woman is sexually attractive" and "I want to date her" is automatic in their mind. They're not even aware of this link it's so natural and obvious to them. But then they seem to be completely oblivious that t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 08:46 PM
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According to 16personalities.com I'm an INFP which, judging on the images, means I'm some kind of nature loving elf or something. I'm evidently also like Shakespeare (who knew they had this test in the late 16th/early 17th century!), JRR Tolkien and Bjork. So I guess I fit your assumption about pill affiliation and Myers Briggs... I honestly think these kinds of tests say very little. My answers are largely depended on my mood and who knows whether they actually reflect reality. It probably refl…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 08:28 PM
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Adjust your diet and workout regime accordingly. Besides, who cares about a little weight gain if you're no longer interested in appearing sexually desirable to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 08:17 PM
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Yeah, it's entitled to feel like you should be given "sex" just for existing, especially if this should is aimed at a specific individual. The desire to have sex is completely natural and I don't think less of anyone for being frustrated about not getting it. But just because something is natural doesn't mean you should be getting it. I don't think that's stretching the definition of the word at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 08:17 PM
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There are definitely guys out there who believe that their kindness, respect or whatever else positive behaviour somehow deserves to result in sex. Guys that tell women they shouldn't get turned down because "I was always there for you", "I helped you move!", "I actually respect you, all those other guys are just disrespectful assholes!", etc. I would call that entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 07:58 PM
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Well best of luck to you I guess. I heard SSRIs can decrease libido, that might be an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 07:50 PM
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Yeah I think you're right, we don't really disagree all that much. I agree that lying is always at least little shitty and does take away from someone's decision-making. But I think it's just common sense to keep things to yourself that you know aren't widely accepted (sometimes for no real reason). And you're right, of course you wouldn't want to date someone uncomfortable with bisexual people but I also wouldn't blame you at all if you kept that close to your chest knowing that telling too soo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 04:37 PM
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despite other people's interest Oh...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 04:16 PM
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Why does it take away from someone's decision making? You're deciding to sleep with or date the person as they are in the moment, not as they were in the past. And like I said, certain judgments that might influence someone's decision have more to do with cultural stigma than an actual informed personal opinion. I think the example of bisexual men is very telling when it comes to this. I know a lot of women who don't feel completely comfortable with dating bisexual men.Sometimes not even comfort…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 04:13 PM
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Well I'm in the same boat in so far as not being the world's greatest success in terms of getting laid. I think the desire for revenge is ultimately misguided. Us not getting laid isn't an injustice meted out by the women of this planet. The frustration is completely understandable but shouldn't be the driver behind our behaviour. I'd also caution against equating not getting laid with actual discrimination. Sex isn't a right and shouldn't be had except with reciprocated consent. Getting paid an…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 04:05 PM
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I agree that it's very common for women to not want to date a guy who's been with sex workers. I think it's pretty understandable to have moral objections towards sex work (fear of exploitation for example). I have my own reservations about sex work. But I also think there's a serious and undeserved stigma against men who see sex workers. Despite my reservations towards some kinds of sex work I'd still consider myself largely pro-sex work and I think it's unfair to be okay with sex-work but then…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 03:54 PM
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I still don't understand how sexual frustration leads you here. There's about a thousand ways to better deal with sexual frustration than discussing inane shit with people like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 03:40 PM
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Are you just referring to any possible moral objections to sex work or are there other reasons for escort use being very different to general sexual past? I can totally understand having moral objections to sex work use, I have them myself, but outside of that I don't think it's really different or says a lot about someone's personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 03:26 PM
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Wait, but what has discussing things with feminists online to do with sexual desire? You think that if you no longer desired sex you wouldn't be here?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 03:21 PM
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I didn't know what we did here was with the purpose of getting laid lmao. Come on, discussing things on reddit has literally zero to do with the desire to have sex. Plenty people sate their sexual desire without wasting there time here. Just like plenty of people learn programming languages, learn to play an instrument or are busy finding the cure for cancer while also having sex. I think the distressing reality is that none of us would change for the better if we suddenly got rid of our sexual …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 03:12 PM
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What can you currently not get done because of sex? This line of thinking has always seem absurd to me. Sexual desire keeps you from doing other things?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 02:23 PM
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Nope. Why the hell should you tell a partner this? No need to discuss previous sexual partners with the person you're currently sleeping with. Only moral obligation is to make sure you're clean.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 11:24 AM
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I'm as far from being idealistic about sex as they come. But talking as a late-in-life virgin myself I'd say that what most of us want is to be desired. We want someone to want to have sex with us. A prostitute won't provide that at all. In fact, it might make you think sex is only possible through payment. It could easily tank someone's self-esteem even further. So my advice would be to put yourself out there, actively date around and continue to work on yourself. Virginity doesn't mean jack-sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 01:00 AM
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No, it's not false. People can tell when they find someone attractive or not. Sometimes, some people might find someone so unattractive that they immediately suspect that person to be a virgin. That is not even close to "people can tell when you're a virgin". But you're right about attractiveness. Being a virgin or not doesn't matter but it does matter whether somebody finds you attractive or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 12:46 AM
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Even then the problem would entirely be your perceived unattractiveness, not the fact that you're a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 12:39 AM
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This is just a self-limiting belief. Nobody can tell when you're a virgin. No matter what some idiots on the internet might say, people don't give out virgin vibes and women don't have a 6th sense to ferret out untouched dicks. And yeah, the first time will probably be a little awkward and you might be nervous but so what, that happens to a lot of people having sex with a new person for the first time, virgin or not. This idea that you're different or flawed because you're virgin doesn't help an…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 12:22 AM
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The idea that there are matches out there hoping to find each other is bullshit. There's a ton of people any one individual made happily be compatible with and people actively looking for a relationship often find one. People not looking for relationships, or purposely making a bad effort of it because they're not sure if they truly want/deserve a relationship, and relationships failing are not market failures.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 12:14 AM
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I'd pick Chelsea over Ivanka any day of the week, I think Chelsea Clinton has become a pretty attractive women. But w.r.t. to the hypothetical I would obviously rather be with someone I could actually enjoy hanging out with over someone hot that I couldn't stand. Personality and chemistry and kinkiness beat out looks for anything but the most casual of casual encounters. I mean, there's a lot of time spend just being together in between sex in LTRs.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/17 10:31 AM
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Nope, doesn't turn me off in the slightest. It doesn't affect sexual attraction at all. As long as they don't want to dominate me in the bedroom I'm good.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/17 10:15 AM
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Marriage is ideally something that lasts. Even in LTR or marriages were this occurs, and I think it certainly does, the roles will reverse multiple times over the duration of the relationships. I think only few lasting long term relationships and marriages have an inequality that endures the same way for the entire relationship. I think the idea that this saying posits that loving like fish is something that happens to both people in a relationship is only strengthened by the fact that it was a …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/17 08:08 PM
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I don't think most men get angry at Hollywood for delivering wish fulfillment. I think the anger you see online is a narcissism induced anger born from feeling like you've got the right to be seen a certain way without feeling an obligation or even desire to do what is necessary to actually project that image. To give a personal example, I purposely do "not care" about my appearance and put relatively little effort into it. But I still feel frustrated when I am not found attractive and a tinge o…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/17 12:46 PM
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Where are you getting these definitive statements about the preferences of entire ethnic groups from? Come on dude, it should be obvious that this is nothing more than your personal speculation. There is no general preference per racial background. Beauty standards are culturally determined so they do differ across different cultures but people living in the West generally see the same beauty standard in their media. So yeah, you're not really saying anything that makes sense and so there's no u…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/17 12:37 PM
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Nah, for me it means being to lazy to treat my depression. In reality my dick is like a banana, bitches go ape-shit over that thing. Trying my darndest to keep my innocence unspoiled. Seriously tho, I'm not literally involuntarily celibate. I don't many people are. It's mostly about me self-isolating and wanting to fix some more important shit before I even try to start dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/17 12:23 AM
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I'm blue pill as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 11:54 PM
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Pick up all the hot Chads and Stacey's obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 11:37 PM
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And I'm glad it isn't! But I think I still prefer going without that shit. A little extra attention isn't enough for me to put up with all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 08:48 PM
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Yeah but we get to do all those things without the cramps or shedding of uterine linings tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 08:40 PM
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Red Pill: The belief that the mainstream conception of dating, human (female in particular) sexuality and relationships is either fundamentally mistaken or an active attempt at manipulating people (mostly men) in order to exploit them. Hence the allusion to the Matrix. The reality, according to RP, is that men and women are different, and this can translate into separate but equal or a genuine belief in the inferiority of women. That reality justifies traditional gender roles. Dating is a compet…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 08:37 PM
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Hell no. Menstruation alone would deter me. To be honest, I've never really felt like I lacked or missed out on attention in the first place, and I'm a goddamn incel. More attention has never been something I'm actively wishing for.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 07:44 PM
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This is how I'm going to seduce every woman I come across. Alpha as fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 07:10 PM
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Friends sucks. I prefer getting my dating advice from Seinfeld. I aim to go full George somewhere next year.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 06:56 PM
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Genuine masculinity forces women to respect men because NOT doing so could endanger them, frankly. What the hell does this even mean? Genuine respect for a men is inspired by the fear for what... physical violence or something? How could my or any men's masculinity endanger you? And I honestly don't see any relationship between Christianity, or any other religion, and how masculine someone is. In my neck of the woods Muslim men are often seen as being overly masculine and more traditionally masc…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 02:22 PM
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There definitely no longer is a clear consensus among academic feminists about pornography. MacKinnon is an older feminist and while I respect her positions I don't necessarily agree with them. I do think the personal is political and I also think sexuality deserves to be discussed, examined and problematized like anything else. However, that needs to be done in a largely non-judgmental manner that understands that kinks, fetishes and sexual behaviour is more complicated than simple the "sexuali…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 02:13 PM
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Did a feminist steal RP's collective lunches or something? What's with all the goddamn feminism threads. I wanna get back to discussing Chad's glistening abs and rock-hard dong.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/17 10:07 PM
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Can she still have children and does she want to have more children? If so, I'd have little trouble marrying this woman. If not I likely wouldn't get involved with her. I'm still young and I'd like to be a dad, not step-dad, some day. If I end up single and without kids at a later age, say 40, I might change my tune and feel perfectly okay about getting with a single mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/17 10:05 PM
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If it points out the fragility of masculinity as a concept it is frequently funny and nearly always valid. It is also meaningful and helpful in deconstruction toxic masculinity. If it's done to mock men or the slyly enforce traditional masculinity it is obviously actively harmful and defeating the purpose of the meme entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/17 05:43 PM
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Such polyamorous relationships already exists. I could see myself in a casually committed relationship with a woman also seeing others but I'd never be in a serious relationship consisting of me, a woman and two other men, and I certainly wouldn't ever get children in such a configuration. I don't think dating would change all that much, women might feel more empowered to chase after men. And I don't think people would find other things valuable. Attraction, chemistry, compatibility, those thing…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/17 05:40 PM
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You're right that someone doesn't have to read up on feminism in order to simply identify with it. A lot of people learn of feminism through a kind of osmosis. But a lot of feminist concepts and terminology has been misrepresented in popular culture, often by anti-feminists, and so reading up on actual feminist literature does help when debating it. A lot of the times, redpillers show a complete misunderstanding of feminism and refuse to listen when people who know better correct them on it. Now…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/17 11:31 PM
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Wait what? If your SO cheats on you, they're the one hurting you. Now if the person they cheated with knows your SO was in a relationship committed they were wrong as well but ultimately your SO is the one betraying your trust. Hating anybody but your SO is irrational. People aren't objects to be won, and they can't be competed over or stolen.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/17 11:23 PM
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Well you certainly proved the OP wrong...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/17 07:39 PM
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Female social matrix I'd watch that movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/17 04:57 PM
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Good thing about being depressed is that most days you're just too damn tired to kill yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/17 02:37 PM
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Can't wait for VR goggles to become mainstream so we can all see each other's flairs in real life too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/17 02:34 PM
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Just go out and meet people and keep going until you find one that clicks. If all you're interested in is a solid relationship all you've got to do is find one person you can see yourself building a life with. Put all that pill-bullshit behind you and just go outside dude. You'll find out most men and women are individuals with varying personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/17 02:32 PM
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Couples weathering tough times and coming out stronger People looking completely differently yet still being attracted to each other Just all the women I wouldn't categorize as childish/impatient/emotional/dismissive/cold-hearted/manipulative/etc. The tons of people into alternative lifestyles and with "out-there" sexual kinks Promiscuous women succeeding in relationships I could just keep going on and on. I rarely see anything "RP" in my daily life. Most times, reading the shit redpillers say o…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/17 02:30 PM
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Didn't they make a documentary about this in the 70s or something? I think the same woman shortly afterwards provided the evidence that took down Nixon. What a life she had.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/17 02:18 PM
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Women are all falling for the testosterone-fueled aggressiveness of Aubrey Graham.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/17 11:20 AM
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Stereotyped descriptions of people of color, from black men to Asian women. Plus, TRP often mingles with the alt-right crowd and discusses things like white-genocide and other unseemly xenophobic bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 11:14 PM
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From a quick read I'd say these: The obese, ill-rested and ill-nourished are typically low in energy and thus highly unproductive. Always set boundaries with everyone, do not be a pushover. Racial insecurity will only hinder your chances at success by polluting your mindset, as such it must be banished by any means necessary. Be proud of your lineage, for you are powerless to change it. are the only sentences I don't consider laughably stupid. Also, I want to point out that your link defines 80/…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 10:00 PM
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Nobody's blaming white hetero males for women's position in society. Feminism is about critiquing power structures and cultural narratives that privilege certain people, men and in the West white hetero men in particular, over others. If discussion about such large societal structures and systems of power is something you can only take personally that's your problem. I don't care whether you respect feminism or not and it's not my job to make you understand complicated and nuanced matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 09:51 PM
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Misogyny, racism and xenophobia are actively harmful in the real world and those beliefs permeate TRP. I mean, misogyny is basically the heart of that place. And I'm not policing anybody. How is mocking shit on TBP policing thought? You can go on and have and express whatever thought you want and I will react to it in any manner of my choice, within the legal limits of course. That's in no way policing thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 09:48 PM
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My sense of humor.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 09:16 AM
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Don't think insecurity is a gender thing. I think it's depended on which pill you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 07:47 AM
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It's a little silly but I see nothing objectionable in there. Why wouldn't this work for some women?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 07:45 AM
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Nobody expects you to care.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 11:26 PM
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There's plenty to laugh at when it comes to TRP. The obviously fake field reports, the gossiping about celebrities, the rampant insecure projecting, etc. But there's also a lot to be disgusted and infuriated by. TRP is predicated on vile misogyny and sometimes showcases xenophobia and racism. That shit isn't about it working or not, it's about a type of thinking that is not only loathsome and hateful but also actively harmful out in the real world. Literally nobody but you cares whether you get …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 10:59 PM
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I voted for a party that didn't even get one seat... Why Sylvana, why.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 08:50 PM
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Exactly, I think it's pretty dumb to group people in those who are flawed and those who aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 08:48 PM
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Who's keeping you from judging women like you do men? Plenty of people judge women, in groups or as individuals. Do y'all just live on a different planet or something? And, I think it's stupid to do either and IMO only judgmental boring dickheads judge entire groups like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 08:47 PM
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False. First of all, I don't believe in good and bad people, we're too complex for such narrow labels. All kinds of people can stay single because of their circumstances, because of depression or self-esteem issues, anxiety, etc. When such people reach a place and time where they can date I wouldn't call them damaged or flawed at all. We all travel our own journeys. Doesn't make one person better or worse than somebody else.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 08:30 PM
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Have you read Rosalind Gill? There's entire field of feminist discourse that focuses on what they call post-feminism, basically what you describe in your comment. I think you can still be feminist while understanding the forces distorting feminism in mainstream culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 08:26 PM
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The idea that staying single longer, whether by choice or through circumstance, makes you damaged or flawed is simply not true. People get together at all kinds of ages, it doesn't say shit about how sane, attractive or selfish they are. Sure, dating can change as you age but there is no situation or age where the red pill suddenly becomes true. That shit ain't never true.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 08:22 PM
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People not sleeping with me makes them bad and I hope they all burn in hell. edit: being facetious you idiots.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 08:19 PM
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I really don't think so. I just don't get the idea of having an ideal in relation to actual people. I mean, what makes someone ideal in your eyes?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 06:37 PM
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Everybody needs to vent every now and then. Seems dumb to go into a thread specifically meant for incels complaining and complain that they're giving too much attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 04:12 PM
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Beyonce is famous but calling her a feminist icon is going a bit far. Feminism is today sadly just as much a corporate strategy as it is an actual movement, much of today's pop-feminism contains little to no ideology. I'm not going to make any statements about her personal beliefs and I think there's nothing wrong with Beyonce on her own but she's definitely a part of that corporate empty pop-feminist trend. So I wouldn't look at Beyonce for insight into feminist beliefs. And the same sorta goes…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 04:10 PM
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This entire place revolves around us not agreeing with each other's premises.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 12:15 PM
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That seems a little far-fetched. I just don't work that way. I don't conjure up hypothetical women to use as standard for my ideal. I've always liked people as they are. So there's no physical or personality type that I could point at as being my ideal. It's a bit hard to explain. I don't know if and how much I like a person before I meet them. There's no list of qualities, physical or personality-wise, somebody could have that would automatically translate into me being attracted to them/liking…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 12:14 PM
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supporting your wife for 40 years of marriage is a real and substantial write down. Wives are more likely to stay when their husband gets sick or needs caring than vice versa. Here is an article discussing a study on spousal abandonment. So I don't get where you're getting this idea from that men support their wives more than wives support their husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/17 10:05 PM
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Every time we're making list of hot people here on PPD we're cheating. Every time we look someone up 'cause they're attractive we're cheating. Every time we watch porn we're cheating. Every time Beyonce dancing on the TV distracts us from our SO we're cheating. Do I need to go on? Making a whole thing out of this innocuous ad is stupid. All it does is show how easily redpillers are triggered and just how much they project onto incredibly simple and harmless things.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/17 09:42 PM
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How is watching pictures of guys thinking about cheating? Seriously dude, you are reading shit into this that isn't there.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/17 09:34 PM
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They are plentiful and aren't ranked in some kind of hierarchy. And I definitely don't have some kind of ideal woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/17 09:30 PM
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In a silly ad? I think the same thing I do when I watch Homer drift off while talking to Marge... nothing but "oh hey, it's that joke again". It's a joke because drifting off or getting distracted by sexiness is something that actually happens sometimes. I don't think it's that bad and my mind doesn't immediately jump towards "marriage counseling" when I see a Telecom ad.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/17 09:23 PM
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Completely random. Is a nightmare when the dice rolls and I'm turned on by lawnmowers or some shit for the rest of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/17 09:20 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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