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This is false lol. Recent data shows that they go for white men 1st on apps and go for black men the least. This was even backed up by that old OkCupid study. Like all other races of women they prefer white men the most https://www.reddit.com/r/BlackPillScience/s/AhaZCNYsgb I dont know why people keep pushing this lie
/r/BlackPillScience24/07/25 04:46 PM
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They still wouldnt care. Most of their hate/dislike toward white men is performative. There are many women on the left who criticize them relentlessly yet have a white bf/husband or idealize white men as the best partners. Its very common. Even women in my age group which are the ones who claim to care about this stuff the most still fawn over and pedestalize white men. This can be seen all over tiktok and social media in general
/r/BlackPillScience03/05/25 02:53 PM
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And this is directly from the book: <image>
/r/BlackPillScience02/05/25 08:41 PM
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"Almost every" is too charitable. Its all groups of women according to the source: <image>
/r/BlackPillScience02/05/25 08:41 PM
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There are literally stats out confirming what I am saying. 63% of young men are single compared to only 34% of young women. This isnt an echo chamber thing its real data. Most young men are single and most young women are not <image> And yea women can struggle but more often than not its easier for them to date because in most cases they have more options and do not have to approach or initiate thing with men romantically
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 02:48 PM
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Relationships arent exclusive to nice kind men either despite what women claim on here which is also what you hinted at earlier. The I hate everyone mentality is rare and is only really an issue if the guy is average looking or ugly. Most men struggle to get in relationships. Its very hard for us. Women only see the end product and think it was easy. Most men in my age group are single while most women in it are not. Its extremely hard to date nowadays I mean even a guy went to school with who i…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 02:34 PM
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Im going off of what I have seen women say online/on this sub and in real life. Its not a sweeping generalization its true. A woman on her said and personality like that is worse than being a hateful, dishonest, and more negative traits and was agreeed with by many women. Women confirm almost all of the stuff said by men on here. Guys arent just making it up. Just because you dont personally agree doesnt mean its a lie It could just be that men that really struggle are just not nice people at al…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 02:20 PM
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Its literally an unattractive trait for men to have. Well average men anyway. You and your friends may be different but if give the option between an introvert and an extrovert who both have social skills the majority of women are picking the extroverted man
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 02:05 PM
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No they do not. Almost all women of either category prefer extroverted men
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 01:46 PM
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Literally nothing suggests that. Poor troll attempt. Try again
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 12:07 PM
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Can't say I've seen a lot of that, but I did see a lot of cases where if a woman said something she was immediately accused of lying or being contrarian, and any guys who agree with her are called white knights You must be new here then. They contradict themselves regularly. People see what they want to see. I bet no women here has seen it either Except when a woman actually agrees with redpill/incel talking points, then it's "Finally, a woman who speaks the truth!" :) If a man says it women her…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:58 AM
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Men are now experiencing the kind of online ramping up of beauty standards that women were dealing with on the earlier Internet. So us girls know a thing or two about hating ourselves and having horrible body dysmorphia. Women know about it yet still contribute to it intentionally with men. Why? I cannot change your mind and make you believe that you are handsome or worthy loving, but I do want to offer that us young folks aren’t always as shallow as the internet portrays us to be. I’m 26 and th…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:17 AM
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Those are all probably older men and if they are younger they just got very lucky. Most young men arent even in a relationship according to a study I seen There isn’t one kind of attractive. I know online beauty standards are getting intense for men, but you don’t have to have a rippling six pack to be handsome. You are good enough! Beauty standards exist. There are different variations of certain molds that can be seen as attractive. Outside of that its not common for a man to be seen that way.…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:04 AM
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They are looking for similar men. The only thing different is the mans style. The physical traits are almost always the same
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 10:51 AM
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I meant in men
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 10:47 AM
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You're acting like a preference is the same thing as a dealbreaker. When most women say preference they really mean requirement If you usually prefer blondes, you can still fall in love with a brunette. That has 0 connection to height Honestly, I don't think "I'd rather not have too much of a height gap" is that unbelievable and absurd of a preference as you're making it out to be. It makes perfect sense to me. Its very unbeliveable. Its extremely common amongst women in my age group
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 10:44 AM
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Because 9.5 out of 10 times it isnt true. You dated him so you clearly do get the appeal. If it was as much of an inconvenience as you claim you wouldnt have dated him
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 10:31 AM
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I literally said none of that. Stop trolling
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 10:29 AM
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Its homophobic to assume that a man on a pilled sub reddit for heterosexual relationship dynamics is straight? Stop trolling. You sound ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 10:27 AM
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That literally changes nothing. Its clear what you meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 10:20 AM
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Is sexuality a choice or not? Thats literally seen as homophobic by many lgbt people. Only women and men on this sub in those groups seem to not get this. It has to be intentional at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 10:18 AM
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I wonder what the mods will do about this homophobic comment. I assume nothing. Women love saying this stuff on this sub and 0 gay/bi men or women on here will check them. I wonder why. I guess they only care when it comes from men
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 10:07 AM
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Are you perhaps unable to find a well-meaning woman in your life that you think the majority here are here to trolls and just want to watch men suffer(not trying to attack you)? I dont know what you are getting at here. I already have women of those type in my life. Most women here are nothing like that at all. If the type of men you mentioned were not on this sub there would be next to no women here because they specifically come here to interact with them. There are a bunch of people that come…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 09:53 AM
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You cannot possibly know that the majority of women here don’t care about men at all. To me, that’s like saying the majority of women hate men simply because they aren’t attracted to most guys. Its clear to see if you come here regularly. Thats not the same at all. Most literally come here to troll and get entertainment from the men who struggle here. There have been multiple posts asking that exact question. They may care about men in their family and men they date but for men in general I high…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 09:11 AM
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No they do not lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 08:21 AM
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The majority of women here literally do not care about men at all. The women here band together, agree on almost everything, and have the same opinions because they do not want to prove the men here correct on various topics. Many are literally contrarians. If a man says it they will disageee. If the same thing is said by a woman they will agree
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 08:14 AM
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Its clear as day yet they will deny it till the end of time. It literally makes 0 sense
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 08:11 AM
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A sexually dimporphic trait in the 95th+ percentile wasnt an attracting factor lol. I dont know how you expect people to believe this
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 08:09 AM
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Its a natural reaction after getting told it does matter time and time again. Also stuff like this which women make themselves is a giant reason why men my age think that way: https://imgur.com/a/VHRARRI
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 12:16 AM
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Thats not my point. You swore off all short men, even the ones who arent like that, yet are still open to tall men even though both groups dislplayed behavior you dislike. Clearly the height itself is the biggest issue
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 12:11 AM
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Men are hung up on it because of the way women are about it. The majority of women are not dating a man their height or shorter. Idk why yall act like guys are making this stuff up in their heads. Its disingenous
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 12:00 AM
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Notice how you didnt say no more tall men though lol. Short men are a monolith to women while tall men are individuals
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 11:58 PM
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Short men are a monolith in the eyes of many women. They assume short men are like that by deafault and will swear off all short men after an experience with a bad one. You wil never hear women swear off tall men as whole no matter what one had done. They are seen as individuals
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 11:56 PM
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I never said I was mad. Young women openly claim they dont like older and that they dont share men either. Both seem to be lies
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 11:11 PM
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Thats irrelevant. Even if they wanted to it would be impossible. No matter what they do there will still be a large amount of men single
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 11:09 PM
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They claim "just be taller than me" but it rarely ever is just that. Most want a decent height gap or a man to be at least average height. Ive been rejected by women in person I was 2 to 3 inches taller than for being the same height as them. Most 5'4 women would not date a man my height and Im 5'6. Yea its possible but its way harder. I literally got nothing on apps. I dont use them anymore. You arent getting a date IRL unless you are attractive. My height is the exact opposite of that in the e…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 11:06 PM
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Most dont and very few do. Women say themselves that they would rather be single than be with a guy who is less than ideal. Very woman have the man described as their ideal. And if hes shorter than that its essentially 0. Its not as easy as just finding or looking for a woman who likes that. It doesnt work that way for men. For women looking for men sure
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 10:55 PM
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Its from pew research and they are a reputable source. Women arent dumb. They know exactly what a relationship is and isnt. Thats an excuse. Most men cannot get a situationship or a fwb. The data is true you just dont want to believe it so you downplay it. Its reality and shows where things are and where they are headed
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 10:54 PM
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63% of young women single compared to 34% of young women. Its real life. Yall on here are just in denial <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 10:46 PM
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The majority of young men are single while the majority of young women are not. Yes it is difficult. Dont know why people come on here and lie
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 10:34 PM
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Women in this generation do not want those men. They say it themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 10:32 PM
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They will easily disregard the risks if the man is attractive so clearly they arent that important to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 10:27 PM
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Women can act almost anyway and still get a date. A masculine woman would have next to no issues in dating still probably do better than a regular man
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 10:25 PM
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Most young women are dating or in a relationship. Most young men are not. They are not in the same boat at all
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 10:24 PM
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Most dont want to date guys with any trama. Why would this be any different? They regularly tell guys to fix themselves before dating and that they dont want to be a mans therapist. There are probably more women who think that way than men
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 10:11 PM
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I know
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:53 PM
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Most men are average. Just like most women are average. What are you even saying lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:42 PM
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Yet you are very blackpilled IRL. What you are saying literally makes no sense. Also interesting how you didnt answer the question
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:38 PM
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it's mentalcels who won't get this and make their looks the issue when it's mostly not. <image> Seems like your just a contrarian. So its about looks IRL but on here it isnt? 🤔 I suspect most people on here like you here are the same
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:10 PM
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Nothing about them makes sense lol. Literally a walking contradiction
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:07 PM
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Most here are just contrarians and argue just to argue. If a woman made a post similar to this most would agree. They just dont like it when a man says it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 04:00 PM
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Lol. Do you think people are born that way? Does thinking that way now mean that I never had confidence or self esteem in my life? You developing the mindset is possible but me losing it isnt? You know that makes 0 sense. You had no response so you had to go look for something to reply with. Weird af but typical for users on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 03:41 PM
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My life is the test. Confidence from the wrong person is seen as unearned and arrogance by many. People cant telepathically sense your vibe. They can see how you look though and will make assumptions based off of that. Any one whose been to any level of schooling can see what the guys who get approached look like. What I wrote is only a controversial take on reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 03:18 PM
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Women arent approaching and hitting on a guy they dont know based on his "vibe". People have tendency to downplay their advantages on this sub to prove points. A mindset change isnt making a guy go from invisible to women coming after him. Looks do that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 02:01 PM
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Most young men are single while most young women arent. Times have changed I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 01:46 PM
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If women were hitting on you that means you are good looking. Positve reinforcement leads to more confidence. Your perspective is biased
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 01:40 PM
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Thats true. Next to none. I was tallking about the approaching part though
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 06:06 AM
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There are also attractive men who think that way and they are often the ones women approach. That mentality doesnt seem to bother women who approach when its coming from those guys. I think a lack of attraction is one of the biggest reasons why women dont approach men. If guys looked better more would get approached
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 06:04 AM
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Seems like many think only women can develop feelings or grow attraction over time. What you wrote but flipped is exactly how things go for some women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 05:57 AM
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Most struggling men cant get a practice gf. Most women wouldnt give them a chance either way
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 05:27 AM
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I know its a big factor but I get why its a banned topic on here. I used to talk about it a lot but stopped. I dont get why some people deny how impactful it is. I guess its just ignorance
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:27 AM
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This line of thinking isnt that uncommon on this app and Ive even heard it IRL. A lot of it is built around stereotypes too. A while back some guy on here told me that I failed at being black because I wasnt smashing and killing it with women. Im certain he wasnt black knowing the demographics of this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 05:53 PM
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Yes. Where im from prople call it beatings or discipline not spankings. Extension cords, a belt typically after or mid shower, got a phone thrown at me, shoes, and anything they could find tbh. Surefire way to make a kid anxious, paranoid, and people pleasing
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 05:21 PM
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Classic lol. It got removed for no real reason too. They can find many regular looking normal men willing to take them out and converse kindly with them every day on apps. The truth is that they dont actually want those men despite claiming they do. Their struggles on old are self inflicted and this experiment showed that. Its exponentially easier for women. Not even close
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 02:14 PM
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Do you think women generally want experienced men?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 02:40 AM
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Promiscuous women aren't interested in men with no sexual or limited sexual experiences. Most women think that way regardless of the amount of sexual experiences they have had themselves. I dont get what point you were trying to make
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 02:27 AM
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This is fair, and I think it’s because people have a difficult time feeling sympathetic or empathetic for others who reject the concept of change or who cling vocally to the harmful ideology they’ve been taught. I think they have no sympathy or empathy because men are the people doing it. I bet they have empathy for women who cling to stuff they were raises to do It makes 0 sense to be mad at someone for doing what they were raised to do. They should be mad at the people who raised them. That wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 12:56 AM
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Exactly. I never believed when they claimed that they want emotionally open men. They want guys who do/say all the right things at the right times like movie characters. Those are the same women who say that they dont want to do emotional labor in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 11:32 PM
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I agree. The majority want guys who are naturals and dont want men who struggle or have to learn. Many see it as a failure of some kind for guys go be in those situations. Its the same reason why they are so repulsed by male insecurity and other negative emotions men have despite them being natural human feelings. Many dont believe men are supposed to feel that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 10:52 PM
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I know the statistics. But us men have to do better, because even us men don't want male babysitters and male teachers for young kids. The majority of men dont do any of those things. Maybe people should stop assuming men are predators by default. Most men arent doing anything wrong. Men like women more than men like men. This is well known
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 09:39 PM
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That has 0 impact on a womans ability to get a long term partner though. Most guys wouldnt care that much
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 07:06 PM
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I agree. Yet many people will still blame men for not being able to change this as if its some super easy thing to do. They make it seem like its as simple as flipping a switch or something. It makes 0 sense to me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 06:59 PM
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Thank you for proving my point lol. Women perpetuate the issue they complain about. Youll project your experience with some men on to the majority and the cycle will continue. Other women do the same
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 05:07 PM
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It doesnt take a month to learn or impliment the suggestions you talked about. So you were communicating to men who didnt care. Im talking about the women in the comments who were speaking generally about men which is what I was always talking about. Youre clearly confused lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 05:03 PM
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I agree. Some people here have to push that narrative to justify the negative feelings they have toward that group of men. Its the same reason why many here automatically assume a guy thats struggling is a bad person or has negative opinions on women. Thats just how they rationalize it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 04:32 PM
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It will never happen lol. The men they do condemn are virgin/inexperienced. They care more than men do in my opinion. I dont even think most men even care that much actually. I dont get why they have an issue with this topic when their mindset is not much different
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 04:17 PM
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Every man I've ever met is somewhat insecure about his sexual performance. The men who actually care about my pleasure will make that clear immediately. The men who do not care will not change no matter how much I communicate because they don't care. I dont think most men are insecure to the degree. Maybe a bit but that goes for everyone. Like I said there are many women here saying they dont want to communicate at all and just want men to know. A guy could care and want to communicate and it wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 03:11 PM
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Do you think what you said applies to most men? Most guys arent porn addicts and I dont think most are that insecure either. The issue is that women here are saying they dont want to communicate even with ones who do care. Men arent mind readers and cant automatically know what a girl likes. Thats very unrealistic and seems to be a common mentality among women. They dont want to teach but expect guy to know. Then theyll blame the guy for not being able to please them despite saying nothing. What…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 02:57 PM
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Its not popular at all. They dont want to communicate the get mad when guys cant read their minds and will blame men for not pleasing them
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 01:24 AM
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There being worse situations doesnt mean that their sitiation isnt a bad one. That logic makes 0 sense. People only say toward issues and problems they dont take seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 01:21 AM
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Some guys dont have a potential to hit. Thats what you arent getting. They can max out and still be below average And I agree that it isnt over for late bloomers but its clear that statement is one many people here, regardless of their pill color or dating success, disagee with
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 12:02 AM
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So if BMI guy started making posts about liking overweight women or women above his set BMI range you would expect people to take him seriously and believe that hes genuine?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 11:45 PM
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How can you give her the benefit of the doubt when you dont know her history here?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 11:35 PM
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You must be new here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 11:16 PM
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Shes been dissing short men on here for a long time. Idk why people think she suddenly had a change of heart. Shes a known troll/rage baiter
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 11:12 PM
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Youve regularly dissed short men on here in the past with 0 issue. I dont think anyone should take what you said seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 11:10 PM
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There were many blue pillers, women, and people in relationships agreeing the comments section. The person who made was not struggling either It's only over if you have a defeatist mindset. Thats not how life works lol. Movies maybe. You had potential, reached it, then found success. It doesnt work that way for everyone. Youre speaking idealistically
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 10:54 PM
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The post was about catching up romantically and socially. It specified recent college graduates and questioned if guys like that could ever pass as normal people. The person said its close to impossible
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 09:48 PM
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The post was talking about late bloomer young men in general not just the ones on this sub. And why is it an issue when those men say the same thing themselves? Its literally a bannable offense and people here strongly oppose it. Seems like they agree with what is said but they dont like who is saying it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 09:44 PM
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There was a post on here saying that its basically over for young men who are late bloomers and many people agreed. So its not only an opinion held by those men. Its relatively popular on this sub despite what people claim
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 09:19 PM
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Why are women in the comments disagreeing with a post advocating for communication with a partner? I dont get it at all. These are some of the same women who complain about an orgasm gap too lol. So weird
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 08:10 PM
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He 100% is. One of the weirdest ones on here
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 05:33 AM
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When did I say that was ok? No sane person thinks that way. And none of that excuses what you wrote so idek why you brought that up
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 05:29 AM
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Disgusting comment. Not true at all
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 05:15 AM
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I agree 100% lol. Them coming here regularly despite being in relationships or dating says a lot. There are no normies on this sub. If they were men and struggled most would be just like the guys on here. Most guys would have a relationship too if they were women. Even the most disrepsectful and weird women on this sub have dated, are dating, or are married
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 01:13 PM
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Yeah, I’m not saying it’s not harder — I’m sure it’s *much* harder. It’s just that if you’re short, you’re going to have to lookmaxx, learn exceptional game, and/or compensate in other ways. Also, you’ll probably need to ask out a lot more women before you “just get lucky” and have one that says yes. It’s not “over.” Looksmaxxing as a short man only puts us above other short men in the eyes of most women. We will still be non-options to many and seen as less atttactive than taller men who put in…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 01:13 AM
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Its not impossible to date if you are short but it is way harder and outliers do exist. If hes ugly and short then chances are that he is one of them and just got lucky. Cases like his getting propped up proves that it isnt a common thing
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 12:51 AM
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Where did this even come from lol. Hes not even short
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 12:49 AM
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What is it about?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 06:00 AM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 02:44 AM
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Im already getting downvoted for that comment lol. Not too suprising. I never really cared about the pills tbh. None of them ever seemed relevant to me. I just focused on looking better
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 01:14 AM
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more men than women are open to something casual or more willing to tell people they want something serious but really don’t. Many men don’t mind being single at all if they have some kind of attention coming in. Men don’t rush to find love or get a relationship if they aren’t desperate 🤣🤣not saying that all men in a relationship are desperate buttttt a lot of guys choose the route of getting into a relationship for sex. Most men dont have some kind of attention coming. They arent staying single…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 11:39 PM
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A bunch here think that only very attractive women can act negatively or give a guy bad experiences. Its funny because when some men here say the same about attractive men women strongly deny it. It makes 0 sense
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 11:29 PM
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Most women are not dating that type of man and women say themselves that most men are ugly/unattractive. The majority of young men are also single. Idk what this is supposed to prove
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 11:25 PM
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Im black and I know. The range of acceptable masculinity for black men is very narrow. If you got too far outside of the norm people will start calling you gay, corny, or lame. The range for other groups is much wider. Most people on this sub are white so I dont expect them to get it or care
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 11:19 PM
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How is this being a victim? Im just proving my claim
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 07:34 PM
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They arent. They average age gap is 2 years. Younger women regularly say that they dont want older men. Lesbian and Bi women are a minority too so that isnt who most are with either
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 06:21 PM
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Its literally used as an insult and is another way of calling men gay or gay adjacent. This is very prevelant across social media. Here is an example of women talking about it: https://np.reddit.com/r/blackladies/s/eNgnxOKh3U Ive seen every group of women do it. This is just a recent post on it I found Youll downvote but wont reply. Weird lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 05:11 PM
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A bunch of women call men straight men gay or sassy for acting the exact same way. They are no different I actually find it interesting how gay/bi men will rarely call out women for homophobia or biphobia yet when the same is done by men they jump on it right away. I wonder what the rationalization is behind that because to me it makes 0 sense
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 05:09 PM
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The two men encouraging this arent virgins. Idk why thats the default insult
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 07:51 AM
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Youre lame af. Odd that mods dont care either. How is trolling a person in this state of mind ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 07:45 AM
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The person is a woman larping. Its clear as day lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 07:36 AM
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but if you read most posts here, a lot seem to be lining up with essential romantic life belonging exclusively to those who are 8+. What do you mean by this? I like supposing the best intentions from people and think they actually mean someone with low "popularity score" in terms of physical attractiveness (that's what I was referring to). It would be very interesting to witness a case of someone feeling disgust towards one other claim they fell in love with their personality. I think they mean …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 03:18 AM
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I agree. Its never been about rarity. The actual answer is well known but people hate admitting it. The rationalizations they make are funny though
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 03:03 AM
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Its not only reserved for people in the top attractiveness. A 5 or a 4 or lower can still be attractive to someone. But some people on here act like they would date someone they think is physically unattractive because of personality. And that I disagree with. I dont think popular opinion plays much of a role here
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 03:03 AM
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A lot of them are out of touch and have no connection to current dating for younger generations. Either they are projecting their own experiences or shitting on the younger guys for struggling.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:34 PM
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Exactly. I do not understand what so many deny this. Everyone wants to be with someone they are physically attracted to. Thats required in a relationship. Everything else is optional
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:17 PM
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Yes it is. Its more important that almost anything actually. There are many examples of this
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:09 PM
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Those women chose to date those men. There were probably guys in their age group who wanted them and they turned them down. This happens at every level of schooling. Underclassmen girls in HS dating seniors or older and underclass men women in college dating seniors or older
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:07 PM
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If the guy is ugly his personality wont matter. Like people say on here looks gets you in the door but personality keeps you there. If you dont have the looks no door is opening
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:00 PM
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Its not complicated at all. Women paint it that way to seem more virtuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:59 PM
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There is no grey area. Its either a yes or a no. Either he is attractive or he isnt
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:58 PM
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If he doesnt have looks the door never opens. Most women see most men as unattractive so what do you think that means? Spark equals phsyical attraction. A woman will assign tons of positive traits to a man based on how he looks alone
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:56 PM
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My partner is 5’6” and I’m taller. I promise I’m not some special snowflake. Lots of women don’t take height that seriously, especially one that will still be at or slightly above most women. You are an outlier. The majority of women would not do what you did. I know those posts exist. And I could link a ton about huge boobs. There are women who like short men. Maybe don’t fetishize it the way boobs can be, but not some huge issue. Yet a bunch of women fetishize tall men. And for men its a prefe…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 08:35 AM
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Its not controversial at all on this sub. There are many posts of women agreeing and labeling out reasons as to why those men are repulsive romantically. Its a common insult used here too
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 06:29 AM
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Hard but not impossible. I know looking at the hottest and most confident around you can taint your worldview - but most people struggle with dating. I know its not impossible. And Im not looking at the hottest people though. I can look at an average guy and it will be clear where I am lacking. Im clearly below average because of height. If I was at least average height I would not think this way Dating is hard to begin with. Everyone is too short or too fat or too boring or too whatever for som…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 06:24 AM
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Because in my age group that line of thinking is very common. Finding a girl like that would be extremely hard to do. I would have to get lucky tbh. And like I said even among the women who say they dont care a taller man will still get chosen in most cases. Yes but you have to filter that 1% for women in my age group, women who live in my state/city, and women who think that I am attractive enough for them to date. The amount would drop dramatically after that. I think only a few women marry me…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 04:31 AM
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I think most are attracted to other women to some degree. And its pretty acceptable in the US. I think I seen something that said around 30% of them identify as lgbtq
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 02:14 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 01:48 AM
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Obviously they will make an exception for one inch but further below the range is often an instant no. Idk how old you are but women in my age group value it a lot and portray it as an undefeatable barrier.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 12:28 AM
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Women are evaluating potential partners in a holistic way, and although a preference for height definitely exists, height as a hard dealbreaker certainly doesn’t. A 5’10” man who is desirable in a variety of other ways can compete just fine with an average 6’ man. A 5’4” man is going to have to compete more but it’s not this absolute deathblow that people describe it as. Most women have a height that they would not date below. So a hard deal breaker does exist. A 5'10 man would have 0 height rel…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 09:48 PM
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Every knows that we have to put in more effort. The issue is that the effort it only putting us ahead of other men in our category. Not ahead of men who were already seen as better than us by default. So what is it really doing if most women would never date a man in the 1st category regardless of what he does? Your appeal only raises slightly to the women who would consider you an option and those same women also consider taller man an option and they are more preferrable. So what chance do the…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 07:18 PM
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The mods took it down for no reason lol. It exposed a lot to me and is why I no longer believe women when they talk about how hard apps are for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 06:55 PM
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They can be well in other areas and still get looked over for a taller man who as put in significantly less effort. Most women also have a height in mind that they would not date below
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 05:16 PM
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A women not caring about it doesnt mean she would date a short man. More often than not they still get with tall or average height men as they are open to every height so those 2 groups would still have an advantage over us. The phrase "I dont care about height just be taller than me" is a thing for a reason. In most cases it isnt true anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 05:14 PM
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They’re simply not as I said don’t let their desperation fool you. Men have insanely high beauty standards, that’s why they’re called visual creatures. This is 100% projection lol. Some women really cannot believe that men prefer thing out of the norm because they rarely do themselves. It is way easier for a woman to be considered attractive than it is for a man to be seen as attractive. Women also say that most men are unattractive/ugly Yet I see plenty of fat and short men in relationships so …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 04:40 PM
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They’re not. They’re accepting of height so I’ll give you that, but other than that they find the same type of women attractive. Look at the women who get the most attention from men on social media. They look the same. They are more accepting of almost every trait out side of beauty standards than women are. Like I said there are a bunch of guys into fat women, rail thin women, tall women, and I can go on and on. There are very few women into fat men or short men. The point is it’s more likely …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 03:55 PM
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Probably the same as men attracted to women. As I said men play a numbers game so that gives the illusion of men being more accepting of women. They’re not, they’re just more desperate. Men would swipe on a single digit of women if they could, they just don’t because they can’t afford to. Nah its way less. Men are more accepting of women. There are a bunch of men genuinely into almost any body type a woman can have. The same cant be said for womwn Yea sorry but we don’t know their intentions. If…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 07:27 AM
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Its not the same at all. You should be asking how much men is she attracted to. Women swipe on a single digit percent of men on apps because they think most men are unattactive A deleted post on here showed how easy it was for an average looking women to get dates with average looking men who were kind, had good profiles, and were good at conversation. I think the experiment had 7 or more dates set up in 1 day. The only rebuttal the women on this sub had was that the men were ugly and that it wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 04:19 AM
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And be physically attractive. Thats more important than both things you mentioned. Youre also a woman. I dont think even you know how hard it is to get a match
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 03:43 AM
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Sorry to hear that. Ill pray for you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 04:03 PM
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Yea but neutral/average isnt really seen as attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 04:22 AM
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So you would be with or have sex with an unattractive guy whose personality you like and makes you feel safe? Wouldnt his lack of looks be a turn off?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 04:21 AM
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Many people say this but do not like it if the rational/realistic conclusion you come to is that you will struggle/have it harder due to traits out of your control. I dont see how that gets rid of low self esteem. Even though its 100% logical they will call that line of thought delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 01:31 AM
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Both are delusional and irrational. Yes a guy can struggle but that doesnt mean that he will never attract a partner. The vast majority of men cannot have any women they want. Both are baseless.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 12:36 AM
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What is the average height? I am around 5'7 and I am confident with women even if I see myself as average because I know my capabilities and limitations. An average face does not catch attention but a compatible personality does. An average face does not repulse anyone so having romantic relationship with one is possible with the help of compatible personality. Comparing yourself with others is why people end up being insecure. Average height is 5'9 and Im 5'6. My life experiences and what I hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 09:58 PM
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How would you know it is the average? When people convinces you that the average is a super model, then you would obviously see yourself as ugly as an average. Besides, the point is about not comparing yourself to anyone in the first place. The average height is well known and I am below that. An average face is neutral and doesnt register negatively. I am average at best in the face. Everyone compares themselves to others Women are attracted to interesting men with at least average looks. If yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 09:33 PM
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That's because I was there many years ago. I genuinely believed I was ugly until I realized that I am just comparing myself with others. Once I accept I am myself I begin to see I have what it takes to attract another which resulted with me having my first relationship. It failed because I was too immature to properly care for a partner back then but it's proof that I am at the very least average looking and some would find me attractive. I am comparing myself to the average and not to good look…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 08:33 PM
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He probably comparing himself to the average looking guy. If you look worse than that then yes you are ugly. If you have traits that are below average then thats what you are. I dont get why people on this sub act like guys are exaggerating how they look. We have no reason to lie Most people have average personalities and arent charismatic at all. They arent common. Someone cant snap their fingers and wake up one day like that. Its way harder to do than redditors make it seem
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 07:15 PM
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The solution they give on here is to be delusional and act like all the glaring physical flaws or disadvantages you have dont exist. It makes 0 sense. And on this sub that statement comes from people who blatantly try to downplay advantages they have to prove points. Its so weird
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 07:08 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 06:39 PM
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Men dont make friends with women based on how they look. There are unattractive women with male friends
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 06:38 PM
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They do. Ive never seen a guy refer to a woman as an NPC or get mad at a woman friend liking them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 06:36 PM
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Not that, Gen Z is having less s x because they are more introverted than the previous generations along with risks of hooking up is more prevalent with internet That is true I guess I know guys go after their age range irl as well, but some of them when very famous go for younger. But hardly guys go after older women like in the internet, heck even you proved it that younger women are just a trend not accurate reality Very famous men are a tiny minority and doesnt really show much about average…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:34 PM
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They may be having less sex for the reasons listed by the original commenter. Not enough guys worth taking the risks for like she said. Guys go after women in their age range IRL. The obsession with younger women is an online thing. The average age gap is like 2 years And if a guy said what she said many women would disagree and say they are lying. Women see most men as ugly and only swipe on like 5% of guys on apps. Most young men are also single while most younf women arent. The line of thinki…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 04:25 PM
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Why do you think so many women agreed with her? You dont think its true for young women in gen-z? And if the conditions listed above are met I think many would want it. But since they are so rare they dont do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 02:23 PM
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Ok no problem. Happy holidays
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 06:55 AM
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But you know this isn’t personal or any judgment call. So long as people are treated well or at least politely unnoticed, we are all on the same plane Yea I know. There is no negative intent behind it We’ve talked about this and you’ve always been so in tune. Remarkably in tune even if a bit detached. You know how clever you are, and how cautious. Those are excellent traits, even if tempered by a governor you’ve yet to describe. None of this conversation applies to you. I dont think Im that clev…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 06:15 AM
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So? Most men aren’t “sexual beings” to most women, they are just generic humans deserving of basic respect. I know and I agree. I said the 1st half of this sentence in my original comment
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:01 AM
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Still a person deserving of respect even if not a potential dating prospect. Yea I know Same as married or attached women feel: he’s a human being, generic and neutral, equal to any woman or child. It’s not an insult or slight, no human being is required to think sexual thoughts about humans they aren’t interested in I dont think its an insult or a requirement. I do think it speaks on the attractiveness of most men in the eyes of women though. Because like I said above it extends to situations o…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 04:57 AM
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Possibly. I just dont think that their sex drive is the issue
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 03:10 AM
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I agree. Many of them, probably most actually, dont like it when men they arent interested in show attraction to them or express any form of their sexuality. They view those men as asexual beings. Ive seen women here refer to them as NPCs. When men like that try to break out of that mold they are repulsed or even offended. This explains why many get so upset at the idea of a male friend liking them so its clear that it extends beyond cat calling So you essentially arent a "man" in a romantic or …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 02:23 AM
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Since when was a different hair color and a height difference that is barely noticeable to the naked eye make a man not fit a womans ideal? They judge off of immutable traits. If he died his hair he would be her exact type
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 12:21 AM
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So 2 inches shorter and a change in hair color is supposed to represent a change from her type? They are essentailly the same guy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 12:18 AM
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You have to be trolling
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 12:11 AM
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This happens regularly on this sub. A good amount of them are contarians. Ive seen something similar to what you wrote
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:34 PM
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It has to do with men most being ugly/unattractive in their eyes. I do not believe sex drive has any real factor. Men find a wide range of women attractive and for women that range for men is way more narrow. Women also find a wide range of women attractive as many claim that there are so many beautiful/attractive women and that they are more attractive than men. If their sex drive was raised they would just have more casual sex with the same minority of men they already have it with. And they d…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:23 PM
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Break up. Thats says a lot about her
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 10:24 PM
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I cant believe that anymore. The comment above is from a woman and says that tons of women are open to it and there are a bunch of women agreeing. It also has 70+ upvotes. She laid out why they do not do it with average men and explained which type of men they do it with. So tons of women want it and the majority of men are not good enough to get it. What do you expect guys to think? Tinder has more men than women because men want women more than women want men. Its that simple. Most young men a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 08:02 PM
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Thank you for confirming that women have casual sex with the same few men. When men say it women here go crazy. But since its from a woman they all agree. Hilarious lol. They dont disagree with whats being said they just dont like who is saying it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 03:33 PM
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Thats doesnt sound too bad. 5'8 is close to average height and 150 is a solid weight
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 03:11 AM
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Maybe those women already thought you were attractive. They dont have sex with men they arent physically attracted to. They value more than looks but looking good enough is mandatory. Not saying you are lying but I have seen many guys here downplay their looks/advantages to get points across.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 02:08 AM
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They will still have way more options than most guys their age. I dont think much will change for them
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 02:06 AM
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Thats status is not the same and doesnt override the need to pass the looks threshold. The best dnd player or the best bowler do not have women on them for that. Thats isnt valued
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 01:27 AM
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Sounds like you two are a good match. Its great that you found someone who fits you so closely.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 07:19 PM
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Was he also waiting for marriage? Or did he agree to do it because of you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 06:09 PM
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You're a man. I'm a man. I've admitted I can't really know because I'm not a woman. But even if I was a woman, women aren't a monolith. They don't all act and think in the same way, so even women can't generalize from their own experiences. Now, I haven't made any statements about what women are like, but you have. That's interesting to me. You said "most women aren't like that". You could be right, but how would you know you're right? You described demisexuality. A minority of the population is…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 06:05 PM
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You may be demisexual then. Most women arent like that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 05:04 PM
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I get that and agree with you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 04:58 PM
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Thats true I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 04:44 PM
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A woman isnt having sex with or dating a man she considers physically unattractive because he has a good personality. They say themselves that attraction is non-negotiable
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 04:38 PM
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Most men aren’t attractive enough to not have to do anything else for women to want to fuck them. Its not about not having to do anything else. Its about being considered for it at all. Most men arent even an option to women that way based off looks alone The second step is absolutely relevant, because people who meet others in hobby groups/social events do these things despite not being super hot. Being super hot isnt relevant though. Most women see most men as ugly. Those men arent getting to …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 04:31 PM
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Yes, you do have to pass a bar (the bar is not that high off apps) where the woman thinks you’re anywhere from “neutral” to “kind of cute” minimum How can it not be high if women think most men are unattractive? Women arent having sex with a man they arent attracted to The second step is irrelevant because most men cant get past the 1st
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 04:16 PM
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You say “if all it takes is a good looking guy, they must not value it”… as if looks are not a HUGE social value in our society/culture. I know it is. People on this sub and many in general regularly deny it though Men will cheat on their wives, throw away their marriages, spend 1000s on sex workers, just for the chance to be with attractive women. Women cheat too. Most also men never go to a sex worker. So how are they getting an attractive women if those things arent happening at any wide scal…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 04:14 PM
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I have no issue dating a chubby or overweight woman. I have been rejected by them though
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 04:00 PM
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I'm going to take a stand for average men here and say that a lot of men considered "average" are very good-looking. I know guys who easily meet the criteria for "Hollywood good looks", but aren't considered hot because they don't have the status. So there's some nuance here. Status probably plays a bigger role in the perception of men's attractiveness than it does for women. You may think that about average men but many women do not agree. They say it themselves. Most will never have status so …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 03:54 PM
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I have 3 cousins ages 20 to 24 all partnered up. All 3 men are overweight, live with their parents and aren't really attractive. 2 of them have real bad social anxiety and it's not pleasant interacting with them. So how did they get a gf? They got lucky Im guessing? Because you dont describe them as being appealing at all. Im fit and have never dated and had 0 success on apps. Most young men are also single according to stats Ive seen You likely would not like the females though Why do you say t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 03:52 PM
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Yea they can work for average ment but they often dont. And I think women define average differently than men do. Im also assuming that you are in the older age groups because I know very few men my age who have success on apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 03:39 PM
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So the guys that women complain are pumping and dumping the or using them are the ones that truly care about them? You cant be serious lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 03:27 PM
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I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 03:17 PM
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Ok I get that and agree. My fault for assuming. I responded that way because many people claim that men are the only ones who think about it that way and I think thats disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 03:17 PM
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There is no risk involved in that situation for men and thats what the comment you wrote was about. Its just a date. With women there are actual serious risks like safety or a pregnancy chance yet they throw these to the side for a good looking guy. The 2 arent comparable at all. A man can also make the money back. A woman cant undo physical damage done or reverse a pregnancy Humans are self-serving. We’re going to make choices that are advantageous to us. We’re going to take risks when the pote…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 03:08 PM
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Dont women frame it like that? Ive seen many say that men are supposed to make them orgasm as if its an activity they arent particiapting in like there is only one active party. I rarely see the phrase "help them orgasm" used which would imply that its more of a collective thing. Ive also seen a bunch say that they are making a guy wait or that its something a guy doesnt deserve or didnt earn yet. Thats implies a transaction Why am I getting downvoted lol. This line of thinking is not uncommon a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 02:43 PM
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Do you think fuckboy and players care about the women and take interest in her? I highly doubt it. Women will abandon all of those other requirements if the guy is good looking to them. One even said it in this sub. Its about the risks being worth taking. For an average guy they arent but for a hot guy they are
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 02:36 PM
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Tons of women are open to it with a tiny amount of men Then you’re factoring in danger/safety risks, which if the woman doesn’t know you will often cause some pause. Which often means if she’s going to throw caution to the wind, it’ll either be for a guy she finds attractive and knows well (vetted) or the scorching hot guy she can’t resist. If shes throwing caution to the wind so easily for the attractive guy do the risks or lack of pleasure during sex actually matter to them? Because if they di…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 02:33 PM
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Im saying the women being attracted enough to accpet the guys offer to go on a date. I dont see how thats a gotcha. I explained it there actually. They arent going on dates with men they arent attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 02:21 PM
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Do all 300 million live in my state? My city? My town? I never understood that point lol. If you filter out for location and the woman being attracted enough to go on a date with a guy the numbers drop dramatically. So no it isnt plenty
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 02:11 PM
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No not plenty. Its a minority. I dont know why you are acting like there are tons of women who dont think that way. Its not common at all and is expected from a man by most women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 02:00 PM
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I live in the US
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 01:43 PM
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What does he look like and was he also religious
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 01:28 PM
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Redditors have to live in an alternate world lol. Splitting on dates is literally seen as a red flag by many women in my age group. There is no type that doesnt think this way and if they do its a very small minority. Most of the US isnt the same as the progressive areas yall live in despite what yall want to believe. The majority of women do not want to split And I find it funny that when men say more attractive men are more likely to do negative thing women strongly deny it but the opposite, w…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 01:20 PM
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Women don't hide their n count and sexuality from partners they take seriously for no reason. It's not that necessarily that women with low n counts can't get married. It's that these women are downplaying their social past to attract these partners. Thats true I guess. They could be open with their past and still not struggle to date though. There are enough men who dont care that it would be a non issue The evidence isn't that high n women don't get married, it's that high n women are more lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 04:15 AM
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They are larping or come here for entertainment and to laugh at struggling guys. I do not get why someone in a great relationship would come here daily yet that what almost all women claim to be in
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 01:12 AM
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Is it not hypocritical for them to claim they dont do something then do it? You say women are just as bad but you only shit on and hate on men. I wonder why
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 01:12 AM
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As I said, promiscuous and lower SMV women usually have lower standards. No they do not. I do not know why people on here push this false narrative. The incels calling Margo Robbie mid are illustrating that their standards are very high. Studies show the exact opposite but ok lol. I guess men must find every woman attractive or else their standard are high lol. Maybe she just isnt their type I don’t need to be a man to know that whining on the internet never got anybody laid. Do you really think…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 10:37 PM
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Most men have standards, even if they’re not being approached. There are lots of ugly and/or fat promiscuous women whose standards aren’t super high. Log onto Fetlife sometime and look at the people there; they’re mostly average or below average people having sex. Meanwhile there’s incels on this subreddit calling Margo Robbie ‘mid.’ Those women want the same type of men other women want. And why is calling a woman mid or average offensive? Dont people on here say that looks are subjective? Funn…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 10:12 PM
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I think a lot of times virginal boys and men are in similar positions, where they could go and have sex with someone beneath their standards, just to get it out of the way. No lol. Men arent women. We arent rejecting girls who are interested in us and holding out for a super hot one Or even pay someone to “take” your virginity. If you’re not willing to do that, and you want it to be special and with someone you love and feel attracted to, you’re going to have to take a hard look at yourself and …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 09:25 PM
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I dont think there is anything you could do that would get you banned. They would probably just give you a warning or something
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 08:56 PM
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Easy for you to say that as a woman because you know that you could lose it anytime you wanted to. The majority of women dont think that way about sex. Like you said most men dont care that much about it IRL
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 08:55 PM
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Women with high counts get married and date with little to no issue. Like you said most men IRL dont care about body counts. Many women, on the other hand, would never be with a virgin or inexperienced man and consider them undateable. I find it weird how only women are talked to this way when its clear that a man having a count of 0 or a low one is way more impactful in dating than a woman having a high one
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 08:48 PM
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Exactly lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 07:23 PM
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Shes their favorite lol. This is a rant but because its from her it wont get removed
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 03:11 PM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 11:36 PM
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I socialized within my school but not with people outside of it. You have comments that say the exact opposite but ok I can still make claims if they’re factually correct You wouldnt know if they are correct or not. You have 0 experience on the subject
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 10:09 PM
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You lucked out and married someone you dated in highschool. I dont think you should be talking on dateability at all. Youve essentially never even dated which youve said yourself, and also said you didnt socialize in school. Youre clearly ignorant and shouldnt be giving advice or making claims like this at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 01:52 PM
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You did say that. You claimed the opposite then immediately contradicted yourself: Height is not a factor I consider, really. Do I really like a man who towers over me? Yeah, I’ll admit that I do! 5’8” is hardly “short” though in my opinion. You would still be a good deal taller than me! 5'8 is taller than you by a good amount so 6ft towers over you. You also say that you really like that. How can you really like a trait and claim it plays no role and that it isnt a factor? It clearly does
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 01:50 PM
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Ngl you may get banned for that. I straight up got told by a mod that my comments were being reported a lot. The vast majority of my comments break no rule yet I have gotten multiple bans. One of which had comments of mine that were altered and paraphrased to fit rule breaking criteria There are people mass reporting and literally waiting for you to mess up slighty so they can get you banned. Mods condone it too
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 01:48 PM
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In order for your comparison to make sense, the negative experiences would have to be directly correlated with him being tall, so the question is, which negative experiences would that be ? Why is it correlated to him being short and not just an insecure individual? Most short men arent insecure to that degree to ruin a relationship over it. And like I said above any negative or toxic behaviors a short man does in a relationship is tied to his height. Its called a napoleon complex or insecurity …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 01:17 PM
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Ok I get that. Its not really about there being someone better because there always is. Its more about being the type/preference of the person you are with. Like if I knew a girls physical type in men was the exact opposite of me I wouldnt date her. As long as I fit the general trend of what she is into I would be fine with that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 12:54 PM
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He just doesnt want to be settled for. Would you date someone who didnt prefer your body type but only tolerated or put up with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 08:27 AM
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i know it sound exclusionary but all is fair in love and war. she KNOWS not all short men are the same, i KNOW bi men are not the same. but the possible problems with dating them are just not worth the effort or time from out pov and it's not like we're excluding a good chunk of people, that's why i said it's reasonable standards. She dated 1 and generalized all just as a bunch of women do. Insane that you are defending this. Like I said before, if she had a negative experience with a tall man I…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 08:04 AM
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bro how are you not getting it? the problem she had with her ex was because he's short, and she want to avoid it by not dating short guys. short guys are like 15% of the men population so it's not like she has high standards by wanting average height. I dont care about the standards its the reasoning behind it. You arent getting it. I explained that clearly. for example, i prefer dating gay men than bi men, why? i had very bad experiences with bi men. are all bi men the same? no. i know that for…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 07:51 AM
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Yes I do see that. Do you? You seem to be supporting her comment which is doing just that. And idk what you are talking about in the rest of your reply
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 07:19 AM
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Shes literally assuming other short guys will be the exact same as the man she has dated by default. And like the other paragraph I wrote says, she sees short men as a monolith like a bunch of other women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:54 AM
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How come ? IF the guy is insecure because of his height, which she attributed it to, then it makes perfect sense as to why she wouldn't want to take a chance with another guy that may potentially have a Napoleon complex ? How come viewing a group as a monolith doesnt make sense? You cant be seriously asking that question. Tall guys aren't insecure because of their height. I didnt say they were. Any negative or toxic behavior done by a short man in a relationship is attributed to his height. If a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:25 AM
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Men who are at least 5'9 are fine. Once you are significantly below that is where issues truly begin. Im 5'6 and that is very clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:17 AM
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It is less important in real-life dating, It isnt actually. Especially once you are below average height. Its still an attractive trait to have and a switch literally does get flipped for many women once a man is below a certain height
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 05:58 AM
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All short men arent like that but she clearly thinks they are
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 05:48 AM
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So that one experience with short guy made you not want to date any short guy again? I doubt you would think the same about a negative experience you had with a tall one. Ive never in my life hear a woman say that actually. Short men are seen as a monlith but see tall men are seem as individuals. Its makes 0 sense to me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 05:48 AM
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Its a common trend for many people on this sub and its very disingenuous. Its a big reason why I stopped coming here for a while. I dont even know why I kept responding to him after that. No point in talking to people who are that way
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 07:14 PM
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Many bluepillers and women strongly go against that when guys here say it. They regularly shit on men here for seeing things that way but once its said by a woman then they will agree. Thats why I cannot take many of them on here seriously The person also changed their flair from pink pill woman to red pill man. There are multiple people in the comments saying her and she for that reason
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 03:28 PM
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Exactly lol. You have women and blue pillers in the commets agreeing and cheering her on yet when men say that women think the same way people call them hateful. They dont disagree with whats said they just dont like who is saying it. There are more women with a transactional view of relationships than there are men and its not even close. Guys are called shut in losers for thinking a combination of stats will help them succeed in dating yet when a women says the same its applauded and agreed wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 02:46 PM
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Yea it really is a waste of time talking about this stuff. A bunch of people are here are too disingenuous for any real conversation to be had. Someone who I think is a guy but is probably larping told me that the screenshots are unverifiable lol. Literally makes 0 sense. Nothing is real unless they agree with it Ive seen the stats on your 2nd paragraph too. People are literally in denial about the data lol. The funny thing is that if it came to the opposite conclusion they would be using it as …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 12:46 PM
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Because no one takes it seriously and all issues around it get dismissed by insecurity. There are even short men who are in denial about stuff like this. People only take it seriously when its said by a third party like a woman or a guy who isnt short
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 04:22 AM
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Eh. They’re preference posts. They usually only come up when people are talking about what they’re attracted to. But they’re also hate. I def agree with that. But why would some one diss someone they dont prefer when talking about what they do prefer? I dont get it at all For the short men posts, I think they’re preference and hate too. But it’s more that men find it embarrassing or “not masculine” to express disapproval of short guy hate posts. Nah its not about masculinity. Most men genuinely …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 11:53 PM
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I see those too. At least those get pushback and are seen as controversial by many. No one really cares about the stuff I posted. And I dont say that to downplay them because they are real issues, I just think the stuff done by women is taken less seriously And all of that including what you wrote arent preferences posts. Its straight up hate. I thought that people can say they like one thing with out dissing another thing but apparently its very hard for some. I hope tiktok gets banned tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 11:43 PM
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Its a regular thing on this sub and is why I stopped commenting here for a while. They dont even try to be unbaised. Its a waste of time debating with most people here
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 10:13 PM
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What do you mean you dont know what the context was lol its clear as day. I just showed you a link. But I see what type of commenter you are so Im not replying again. Very weird
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 07:42 PM
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Do you think they were edited or something? Youre joking right? Do the amount of likes, saves, and comments mean nothing? I didnt claim anything either but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 07:38 PM
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Did you click it? There are like 20 videos there. Ive never seen someone be more disingenuous is my life lol. You cant be serious
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 07:34 PM
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What about this stuff: https://imgur.com/a/VHRARRI The content goes viral daily and the comments are filled with women agreeing. Stuff like this from women is seen as jokes/rage bait but when its from men its taken 100% seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 07:32 PM
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No it doesnt. Content like this going viral daily with little to no pushback shows that what you said isnt true at all for women: https://imgur.com/a/VHRARRI And this stuf is way more common and popular than any of the things you listed
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 07:31 PM
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They say it themselves. Ask the women here what percent of men they find attractive in their day to day lives and see what the answers are. It has been asked on this app many times before and the number is usually around single digits. There are many posts about this topic. Effort also has little to do with it. If men put in 10/10 effort most women would still see them as unatttactive. They judge men based off of immutable traits 1st.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 02:10 PM
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Its so annoying how they try to make stuff up or switch topics when they cant address a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 05:55 AM
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Thanks I appreciate it. I stopped coming here for a bit because there are people here like the ones you described. No point in even talking about this stuff anymore. Its not changing anything so its a waste of time
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 03:37 AM
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I never said it was the sole factor. I said that he will be seen as above average for those traits alone and its true. Im 5'6 so Im not listenting to any tall guy claim it isnt that important. None of those other traits are important once you are below a girls acceptable height range and Im under that for most women. And BTS is popular because of their status and niche.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 02:55 AM
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All this is to say, maturity is something you have to look for and you have to push for in yourself as well. I had to realize recently, I have to HONESTLY look at myself. I can't have a, rules for thee, and not for me mentality, that'll make ME unhappy in the end. Maturity isnt really valued at my age or where I live
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 02:33 AM
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You ignoring everything else but that line says it all lol Buddy I go to spin class twice a month. Surely if that’s all it takes you can beat that. I have already beat that. And where did I say thats all it takes? You keep making stuff up to respond to
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 01:47 AM
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No one said any of that. You did. There was no claim made by me either. I just asked a question which you didnt even answer lol Youre 6'6. At that height you have more leeway than average height and average looking men. If you are fit those 2 traits alone make you above average. You are big, people percieve tall men as tougher/more masculine by default, and if you go to the gym you are strong yet you claim you never were any of those things. Odd Its hilarious how people on this sub will downplay…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 12:57 AM
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The equivalent in dating is that a man on the lowest tier can usually get a lowest tier women, at least eventually. Even that takes some effort, which sucks. Just like you still have to show up at McDonald's to get that minimum wage paycheck. These women are not very physically attractive. Often overweight. Not much particularly interesting about them. Those women dont want those men. And the standards of those women are no lower than any others. I have already tried with those groups and failed…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 11:40 PM
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I get what you are saying but Im talking about having below average potential regarding physical attraction. You can try hard/put in a ton of effort and still end up below average. Hope seems like delusion at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 10:44 PM
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What if your potential is below average? Then what?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 10:16 PM
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How tall are you? The jokes on this sub write themselves I swear lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 09:47 PM
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It is not, only on this forum. It is meant for men doing basic things in a relationship but being celebrated like they are the best partner ever whereas it is just considered normal for women to do them ( as in cooking or childcare or hoovering) Yes it is regularly used. Its said to single guys and claim that the reason they are single is due to a lack of effort to make it seem like guys are lazy. They say things like having good hygience and being a good person or kind are what it takes to get …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 02:12 PM
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Thats literally how its regularly used
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 01:35 PM
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It also gets told to men who are single and arent dating
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 01:34 PM
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The only difference between him and the men they dislike is that hes attractive to them. Says it all really
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 11:41 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 11:25 PM
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Some of them always find a way to take a shot at short men no matter what the situation is. He probably isnt even short
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 09:11 PM
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Im talking about platforms like tiktok and twitter. Reddit is very niche
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:50 PM
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Don’t you see how these spaces do the same thing to men that y’all do to women? Both sides are boosting the most insane points of the other side and assuming the ideology applies to all of them. They look for these takes from the most radical of the other ideology to blame the other side for all their problems. I do. I genuinely believe that this sub is designed to radicalize. The mods dont really care about hateful content either This sub is pretty niche and I was mainly talking about the more …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 04:57 PM
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Well if you’re not transparent with that, it becomes dishonest. You can’t say “63% of men are single”, because the real number is 32%. So you have to add “63% of men BETWEEN THIS AND THAT AGE are single”. I said young men in my initial comment. I think that was transparent. Thats also the age the study defines as young Well not everyone can win at life. Some people are born with illnesses that makes them die as kids etc. Some men will be way more unattractive than others, and in that case you ei…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 03:13 PM
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The vast majority of people here are from the US. Yes 32% overall but for my age group 18-29, which is the age group of most men on this sub, 63% of men are single. Even if we were to do everything people say a good amount would still be single and unable to date. There arent enough women for each guy to get 1 because most are already dating. Idk who they are with but they are with someone. Who are guys supposed to date? Most men in general arent redpilled yet next to no one seems to have empath…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:56 PM
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I dont think you would have empathy for them no matter what they did. Many here claim the same as you yet shit on struggling men no matter how much effort they put in. Ive experienced it myself Its from pew research: https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2023/02/08/for-valentines-day-5-facts-about-single-americans/ft_2023-02-08_facts-single-americans_01-png/ <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:45 PM
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Are you implying that 63% of young men are incels/redpillers? You cant be serious. Both groups are a tiny amount of men
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:31 PM
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Most young men are single, 63%, so clearly it isnt "very easy"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:25 PM
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Thats why I do not get why people claim people who vote that way are "voting against their self-interest". Not everyone values the same things. They knew exactly what they were doing
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:21 PM
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Where did he hint at any of this? And a large amount of women also voted for trump
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:14 PM
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I agree. I dont watch Tate and never did. Im also not radicalized. But the content that really rubbed me the wrong way was things made by women themselves. People here will downplay it but I think thats one of the biggest factors. Stuff like this for example: https://imgur.com/a/VHRARRI Videos which shit on and diss short get 100k to 1 million likes daily and get little to no pushback. Yet when I bring it up I get told it just rage bait or jokes. I know for a fact that if it was a man making con…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:13 PM
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The content I am talking about is made by women themselves for other women to see. They are full of women in the comment section agreeing and content like that goes viral daily. 100k to 1 million likes are regular numbers. I dont watch street interview content. If the opinions they give were only being propped up by a loud minority there would be counter content dismissing it as false. But no such content exists. The height tiktoks they make are a perfect example of this
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 07:48 AM
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Do you think maybe your perception of this hateful content's popularity might possibly be affected by an algorithm's (mis)interpretation of what you seek out, engage with, and/or simply give attention to in the form of views? I dont use tiktok anymore. I deleted the app because of that. I do know that while I was there it was extremely popular and according to people I know the trends still continue and are even bigger now. Its well known I have screenshots of videos/content from the app How man…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 07:03 AM
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Likes, reposts, and amount of posts in the specific category
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 06:13 AM
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Any one can participate and respond to or make counter content to go against what is posted. The fact that it isnt done says it all. Its not a reddit sub or some niche forum no one knows about. In fact what Im talking about is some of the most popular content on the app
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:58 AM
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How much is a bunch? Do you think a media bubble doesn't exist where misandry is critiqued and criticized? Idk the exact number The bubble exists but its nothing compared to the opposite. It isnt taken seriously anyway Who is they? How many? What is the level of attention they get? Do we know if the content is being brigaded or simply reverberating inside it's own echo chamber (coughTwoXChromosomescough) and to what extent? Both men and women downplay it The content isnt being brigaded. There ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:56 AM
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Regardless of if I consume it or not it still exists. Content from regular women does 10 timesmore than stuff from grifters does to create division. Its extremely popular and gets little to no pushback
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:38 AM
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By a bunch of people on this sub, most reddit subs in general, people on most major social media platforms, and IRL They will downplay hateful content by women till the end of time
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:26 AM
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Most people dont care about grifters. The content that is the most hateful and disruptive comes from everyday regular people
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:25 AM
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This only goes one way. Not one person say this about women even though they consume the content at the same rate or even higher. If a woman posts something hateful toward men its seen as rage bait but if the man does the same to a woman its taken 100% serious. How does that make sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:55 AM
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Why would getting spoiled turn you on
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:38 AM
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Wild lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:35 AM
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Its his face. They were thirsting over him before even seeing his body
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:30 AM
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Yea its on a normie sub The boomers here would be like "no one is shitting on men, you're imagining it", no you're just willfully retarded. They only act that way when its about men. If a man made a post about women they would take it 100% serious
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:21 AM
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I dont think him reading plays any major role tbh. I honestly doubt most girls care about a guy doing that at all actually
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:57 AM
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Do you think they are referencing the book review or how he looks <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:38 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:36 AM
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They arent attracted to him
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:31 AM
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They wouldnt be simping for him at all in your scenario
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:26 AM
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Im 23. I dont make negative comments about women though and Im not redpilled. I think most guys here are in their early 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 12:28 AM
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Neither side likes young men. I dont know why people act like either cares or values us
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 02:05 PM
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So shes aware of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 05:47 AM
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Yea my mom does this. She hints at it once in a while and that along with other things she does is pretty demoralizing
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 03:57 AM
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I think my mom gave up on me ngl. Its good that yours still has some faith/hope for you. Its clear that she cares if she talks like that, even if its just to be nice
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 02:48 AM
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He seems pretty open about it so I assumed it shows IRL. And yea I know they cant pick up on most of the stuff they claim they can on here. It only seems to work on guys they arent attracted to lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 01:55 AM
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as much as I dislike/paranoid of women in general Does you hide this? Im trying to figure out how she didnt pick up on it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 01:46 AM
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Most of them dont have consistent opinions and most are contrarians. Ive seen the one person make both arguments above. It literally makes 0 sense to me
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 08:22 PM
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The majority of women here are married or dating. What reason would they have to come to and extremely niche pilled sub on reddit? If women werent here the sub would still go on. If men werent here it wouldnt exist and there would be 0 women talking about this stuff Men aren't here to be nice to women and to better understand women's perspective. The men are here to whine and complain. Their already on the floor. If this sub was full of men like that it would be a ghost town. Women come here spe…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 05:02 PM
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I don't care what the rejects here think. I do think it's highly entertaining to hear from boys with little to no experience who are younger than me, telling me what "men" care about. It's cute. It's amusing. It doesn't hold any weight in reality. Not suprising at all actually. Most women here probably have the same line of thought and Ive said this before. They come here to laugh at and troll men they look down on.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 04:49 PM
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Men on a niche reddit sub caring about it represents most men I guess. Its obviously a pressing issue to you because you clearly do care and address it releatedly Saying they dont think about those men responds to nothing I wrote but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 04:32 PM
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Why do you think most women care about men being inexperienced or virgins? High count women get married and date with little to no issue while virgin men are unwanted by women. No women here seem to address this at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 02:44 PM
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Women care more than men do IRL. And the actual vibe is that virgin/inexperienced men are morally bankrupt. Questions to women on this sub prove this. Yall care about slutshaming but have nothing to say about virgin shaming. One is way more impactful on romantic prospects that the other
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 02:37 PM
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It is still a positive trait for a man to have and boosts attractiveness. I dont know any average height or short man that would be less attractive if he was taller but there are tall men who would be less attractive if they were shorter. Its an amplifier in my opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 12:00 AM
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Being tall is still a positve trait for a man to have. I think the minimum height is closer to 5'8 or 5'9. 5'7 is visibly below average height. Being 6' isnt a requirement but it is ideal for many women and boosts a mans attractiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 11:47 PM
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I think thats a minority of men. And those men can want it as much as possible but its not gonna happen
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 09:44 PM
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If that guy in that picture was in good shape I dont think he would struggle much
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 09:38 PM
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A little bit. Youre not who I was talking about though
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 09:33 PM
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If we should be mindful of male horniness and how it "makes it harder for them", men should be mindful of women's higher neuroticism. Most women dont care about this at all though. Men are expected to care if a woman is comfortable
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 09:21 PM
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Men psychology is wired to hate women who don’t give them what they want. ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 09:19 PM
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My fault😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 09:17 PM
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Yes. It depends on the day. Some days they are chill and other days they are snapping at stuff I say. Its weird
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 09:16 PM
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Id say hes average looking
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 09:11 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 08:49 PM
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Most men make an average salary. I do not get why people act like thats something simple to change. Especially reaching the 6 figure mark. Being fit does next to nothing if other areas you have arent also desireable. Im 5'6 and fit/lean and it has had 0 positive impact on me. Stepping outside of your logic, based on responses of men here, many are saying they've met 0 to 2 of the qualities and still had women wanting them for dating and sexual relations. If was taller, at least average height, I…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 08:47 PM
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Its still a big advantage regardless of if you got positive comments from it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 08:41 PM
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Where did I say that? I can acknowledge that the most important traits are out of my control while still trying
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 07:43 PM
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I meant can change. I just edited it. And I explained why already
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 07:36 PM
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Because the traits you cant change hold the most weight. Its clear to see. And if you focus on the ones you can change and fix them then what? The immutable ones still exist. I know from personal experience
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 07:27 PM
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No its not the sole reason but I know that if I was taller, at least 5'9, I would have less issues in dating. Most women want tall men and thats clear to see but 5'9 is a height that most are fine with. Im already fit and it does nothing for me because of my height/frame. I do think those things you listed are some of the traits the ideal man has for most women though
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 07:21 PM
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I honestly don't think height is that important. Same for physique to be honest. You are joking right? No way you are serious. They are very important
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 07:17 PM
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Because they areas that strongly impact their success and are unchangeable. People here want guys to be delusional and ignore glaring permanent flaws. It makes 0 sense
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 07:15 PM
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"Prince treatment" isnt a thing for a reason. I think a decent amount of women, not all, are opposed to spoiling their bfs/husbands and see it as a thing only he should do for her. Especially when money gets involved
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 06:10 PM
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This is a rant but wont get taken down by mods because its from their favorite poster lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 01:50 PM
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They are in denial because good amount of the people here are old and not even dating currtently or are younger and in a relationship. They are out of touch
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 01:43 PM
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Yall love throwing that around on here. Its weird af
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 01:39 PM
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Yes. They are still a minority
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 01:34 PM
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Brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 06:27 AM
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They really cant. They will downplay everything till the end of time. There is point in even expecting any empathy or understanding about it. I dont agree with your 2nd paragraphy though
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 06:26 AM
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What is the woman equivalent of a man having to "date" his wife and continuously win her over? I only see this talked about 1 way. I dont think there is one tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 06:24 AM
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It feel like women think an orgasm is an easy thing to control. Its not at all
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 06:23 AM
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Most women still want penetration for a decent amount of time so yea it can be an issue even if other things are done
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 06:21 AM
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Ok I get that. But he listed out 10 bullet points of what guys should do and people act like all that is intuitive when it isnt. Like I said if a guy isnt having sex regularly how is he supposed to learn all that? It seems pretty intimidating and there is little room for error. There is also a bunch of pressure too as issue in sex on both sides are seen as the fault of men
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 05:55 AM
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I think they want naturals in almost every area ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 05:26 AM
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There is no winning with some of this stuff lol. A guy cares too much about her pleasure then its an ego thing and is a turn off, caring to little is also bad, any issues you have are your fault, if she doesnt orgasm its also your fault, and communicating is a hit or miss. Most of the stuff people mentioned are learned skills too yet they act like its intuitive. So weird. And if a guy isnt having consistent sex how is he supposed to learn them? No one knows I guess And yea this sub is depressing…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 05:19 AM
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You wouldnt be the one doing or having to learn all this so why would it come off as exhausting to you? Most of those things are learned skills. If a man isnt having regular sex how is he supposed to learn or improve?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 05:16 AM
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Almost all of that stuff is a skill. How are you supposed to get better at if you arent consistently having sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 05:14 AM
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Not what I said but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 05:04 AM
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Because they are rarely actually alone and can get attention when ever they want. Its not the same at all
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 04:36 AM
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Some of my hobbies and hanging out with friends at times. Thats not changing how I feel about my situation though
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 04:35 AM
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Thats not how it works. I volunteer weekly and still feel like shit. I work out regularly and get 0 mental boost from it despite people claiming how amazing its supposed to make me feel
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 04:16 AM
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How are the 2 things related
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 04:03 AM
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I think this is true for most of them. Ive said this before. Many come here just to troll and get entertainment from men they look down on
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 03:55 AM
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Ok I get that. The post Im talking about wasnt an incel related it just broke the rules openly I know I approve comments and posts I don’t personally agree with, because they don’t break rules. I got a 30 day ban for something like this that the mods voted on so I find that hard to believe for some mods here. Not saying you are like that but clearly some are
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 03:53 AM
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Youre already the one of the best mods in my opinion so I wasnt really mentioning you. You werent involved in that other stuff and dont seem biased. I talked about what I meant in another comment
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 02:44 AM
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I mean there was a post from a while ago whose title and body were blatantly about one of the banned topics and it stayed up for hours. It shouldve been filtered out so I assume a mod allowed it to go up
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 02:28 AM
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So If a post on a banned topic got put up on the main sub that means a mod approved it to go up? Those should get filtered out but I assume a mod can bypass that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 02:01 AM
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Do yall have to approve every post? That would explain a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 01:46 AM
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I agree but its never gonna happen
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 12:43 AM
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Finally. Been waiting for this lol. The app needs to go
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 12:42 AM
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A section in the sub rules is dedicated to this. It should be <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:44 AM
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Its a leading question and should be removed anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:31 AM
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I dont
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:29 AM
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Its not a turnoff when the guy is attractive to them. You said 8/10 so I doubt most women would care much. Shyness/Introversion arent really positive traits for men to have
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:08 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 04:04 AM
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Probably fake. Made to push a narrative
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 03:56 AM
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Lesbian and bi women are a minority. That isnt a huge factor either
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 03:52 AM
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Maybe because thats not the reason why the gap is so big
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 03:50 AM
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They will be the same ones telling guys that height doesnt matter too lol. Hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 03:45 AM
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He must have a great personality and an amazing bio <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 03:43 AM
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They want that narrative to be true so bad lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 03:40 AM
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My handwriting is beautiful and my sisters looks like chicken scratch. I think its 50/50
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 03:12 AM
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Probably a fake post made to push a narrative. That sub is full of them
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 03:09 AM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 02:10 AM
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No problem
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 01:05 AM
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I know that apps dont work for most men and didnt work for me at all so I dont even bother using them anymore. I dont approach much anymore either as im not the type of guy women want to be approached by. but when you’re looking you won’t find it. I dont think this is true tbh. If I am not actively looking for a partner I will never find one. It doesnt really work that way for men
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 01:04 AM
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Thats exactly how some people here sound at times. They end up conceding point eventually
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 12:53 AM
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How tall are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 12:48 AM
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I love my mom a lot. She always tries to do the right thing which is something I admire about her. She is also a hard worker. Like the 1st to arrive and last to leave type of person. I dont think she likes me very much though Same for my older sister. She is very empathetic and kind. She was probably more caring toward me that my mom was growing up and actually took interest in me. She has a daugther and is a great mom I love my younger sister too. Shes pretty chill and we have a lot of the same…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 12:26 AM
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Yea we should push for it but I do not see anything changing. Women arent going to alter their preferences even if society does take turn that way but I dont think it will. And people are more accepting of women in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 12:07 AM
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The majority of women in my age group are chronically online then. They all use the app. The posts are on a very popular platform and the posts reach a very wide audience. Its not some niche thing. Im in gen-z
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 08:31 PM
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Is a study invalid because one with a larger sample size came to a different conclusion? What is the single rate for young men based on the census? By doesnt make sense you mean shows results that you dont agree with or dont want to be true
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 06:52 PM
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So they just happened to find a bunch of married younhg women even though the average age for it is near the end of the age range? I find that hard to believe. And the men those women are with guys are living with must be out of their age range. So women do actually like older men then depsite what people on here claim. I still believe that the sharing aspect is being downplayed. Previous data has the rate at 51% of young men being single. No one had an issue with the previous sampling but now t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 06:19 PM
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Ive hear that statement toward short men a lot so I was speaking on the ones who say it. I wasnt speaking generally. And how tall are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 03:22 PM
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I meant on each post of a woman. Even then its still a minority of guys doing that on here
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 03:12 PM
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The average age gap in couples is 2 years. Most are not dating older men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 01:19 PM
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The average age gap between couples is around 2 years. They clearly arent married to men their age and arent with significantly older men either. So what is going on?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 01:19 PM
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Most men dont say that stuff. Its one or two guys who do it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 01:17 PM
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Almost every person in my age group is on the app and its argualbly the biggest social media platform out right now. They post the content themselves, it goes viral, and many other women agree. Clearly its popular opinions amongst them
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 06:11 AM
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Its not. There are many other examples of this happening to the guy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 02:58 AM
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This guy has had old women approach him in public who didnt know who he was and has tons of women wanting him off of his looks alone. They are just extremely attracted to him. If 1 girl would approach him so would others. He clearly has a wide appeal
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 02:57 AM
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Or they are extremely attracted to him. Many women openly say how good looking and attractive he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 02:54 AM
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They probably already seen it they just ignored it and a bunch will probably do the same to this. Some here act as if stuff like that doesnt exist like I said in my comment there
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 02:50 AM
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Yea I seen that too. Some of them think the same way some republicans do they just hide it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 01:53 AM
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Most young men didnt vote trump in general yet some people still blamed us lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 01:17 AM
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Oh ok. That makes sense then
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 01:12 AM
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I’m pretty staunch BP but I want to see more of this content here as it is actual proof of what some people here claim. I am guilty of it too, but it’s getting repetitive seeing someone make a claim, and then the opposite pill say “this doesn’t happen”. Have you not been to HS or college and seen multiple girls thirst over the same few guys? This is visible at multiple levels of life. Tiktok amplifies it even more now Would love to see a woman’s perspective on that video You probably wont get it…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 12:13 AM
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Its crazy how easy it is for some guys. I cant even imagine myself in that position. And according to some people here men like this dont exist and women cant find men attractive right away. Hilarious lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 10:36 PM
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Brutal but true
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 10:32 PM
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I highly doubt that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 10:31 PM
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Chose his parents well lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 10:31 PM
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Many women do rage at short men. Its seen all over tiktok
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 08:24 PM
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Why do you think videos like that are so popular? They go viral every day and get little to no pushback
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 05:07 PM
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I dont think they will be dropped for men anytime soon. Most women clearly find most of them attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 04:36 PM
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Its hatred because they find them unattractive. Stuff like this doesnt exist for tall men for a reason
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 04:28 PM
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So men should be more rigid on the acceptable range of femininity? There have been movement for decades pushing for the exact opposite. Why cant women just widen their acceptable range?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 04:04 PM
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Exactly. Thats why I find it funny when they claim that they want men to be more feminine and stuff. Its an attraction killer to most if not the majority of women. The acceptable range is very narrow for men Just the fact they feel they can claim what a real man is but a man would be crucified for doing the equivalent is all you need to hear Very true
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 03:55 PM
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Yea thats true. A bunch of people here are older and dating/married so they dont even know what dating is like nowadays. I may take a break from here soon. Good luck to you too it's just a melting pot of misogyny and misandry vaguely masked as a mature discussion around modern dating dynamics. And I think this is how its designed to be. The mods allow it and thats what keeps many people coming back here. Its weird
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 03:51 PM
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You think they make tiktoks like this and dont find short men unattractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 03:50 PM
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You've never been in a girls bathroom or sleepover where we squealed over if this boy looked at us in class or smiled or had the most perfect hair. Or secretly wrote down Mrs. Some boys last name. We grow up very much valuing male attention. We are also taught to do that. told to find the perfect guy from all media and family and friends. Yes we value male attention the same. Yall squealed over the same few guys. Ive gone to HS and college and that was clear to see. Tiktok exposes this even more…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 07:54 AM
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Guys seem compelled to absolutely despise women they dont want to date. Very ironic. Women do this just as much if not more and its exponentially more popular. Tiktok exposed this. Women hating on short men unprovoked: https://imgur.com/a/VHRARRI If this is rage bait so is every single thing you mention in your post.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 07:39 AM
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They dont care about that stuff. If it isnt happening to a women it doesnt exist to most of them. The stuff I show is rage bait yet when its from a man its 100% serious. It literally makes 0 sense
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 07:34 AM
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All over the internet: https://imgur.com/a/VHRARRI Stuff like this gets 100k to 1 million likes daily and gets 0 pushback
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 07:33 AM
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Its literally hatred: https://imgur.com/a/VHRARRI These are all tiktoks of women shitting on short men. This content goes viral daily
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 07:32 AM
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Its easy for women to think this way because they know that they could get a guy interested in them anytime they want. Its easy not to value something you have in abundance. Women do not value the vast majority of male attention. Men actually value it from women. Its not the same at all
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 07:30 AM
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Its not only with sex its societal as well. Men outside of the norms are looked down on and not seen as "real men".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 07:26 AM
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If men force the issue nothing will happen. A mans attractiveness to women generally drops the further he gets from those norms. The majority of places are not like those progressive cities
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 07:24 AM
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Men can push against it all we want but it still will not become tolerated or accepted anytime soon. The further a man gets away from that role the less attractive he becomes to women generally. Men and people in general are way more accepting to women outside of the norm that they are for men who are out of it. Its not even close actually
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 07:21 AM
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I know
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 10:45 PM
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Ive heard it toward short men multiple times. Thats my point
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 10:17 PM
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I only see it if I click on your profile
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 08:13 PM
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What I said goes for IRL too. There will always be a significant amount of young men single
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 07:34 PM
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Agreed. And like you said some of the steps you listed for women are optional. For men it is way more rigid. Even if they put in max effort most men will never be above average looking due to things out of their control. Its not defeatist either its just a fact
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 06:03 PM
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Most people let themselves go. And Ive heard it from multiple young women here too. One said that she could have found a cuter guy with ease on an app
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 01:20 PM
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It wouldnt matter what they are looking for. There were barely any women to date any way. Thats why I laugh at all these people dissing young men for not being able to find a parter. Because no matter what we do most will remain single.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 01:17 PM
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3 to 6 maybe 7
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 04:18 AM
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Fun Education, Hot Lack, Keeby
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 03:07 AM
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Is this a joke
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 03:02 AM
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Its natural
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 02:32 AM
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Exactly lol. They dont have an issue with what is being said they have an issue with who is saying it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 02:32 AM
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I dont really have one the topic just came up recently.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 02:28 AM
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Ok I get that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 01:56 AM
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Even for those who would never do the same for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 01:01 AM
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Can you give an example?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 12:57 AM
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Can you elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 12:56 AM
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but i learned not to spread myself thin and run myself ragged defending people who dont deserve it. and not unfortunately, one thing ppd taught me is that not everyone deserves kindness. so i’ve been trying to find balance. it’s a work in progress, and i come off a lot less empathetic than i used to when i first came here, but it is what it is Believe it or not I used to be like that lol. Defending a bunch of people. It was draining tbh. I felt like a idiot when the tables turned and those same …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 12:56 AM
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Im willing to admit that this could be immaturity but I do not get the logic or reasoning behind sticking up for and defending someone or a group who would never do the same for you if they were able to. I was told that this is transactional and is a bad mentality to have by someone older than me but I dont get how wanting mutual respect/understanding is a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 11:31 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 10:58 PM
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Brutal lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 10:56 PM
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I agree but thats not what you mentioned
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 10:37 PM
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You said bring something positive. And I typically see women say he has to add to her lifestyle in some way they will just stay single.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 09:30 PM
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So why do so many people here get mad when guys say that relationships are transactional?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 08:28 PM
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Mm, I think a lot of how women behave on dating apps is that dating apps are a pretty horrible experience for so many women. Not the same horrible experience as for men, but still horrible. I used to think this but there was a deleted post on here that showed that a women can get multiple dates set up in 1 or 2 days with average looking guys with solid profiles who were kind and were good at conversation. He used a profile of one of his woman friends and showed how easy it actually is even if th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 08:27 PM
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Yup but the relationships would be way more satisfying. It's a risk versus reward thing and I'll always choose to risk it 🤣. FWIW I do think the current trend does move towards that. And I don't think the male body has to be THAT amazing imo. Definitely not hollywood level. I think a decently fit man would do just fine. It may be moving that way. The majority of young mem are single while most young women arent so that could be playing a role. And what do you mean by decently fit lol. Because th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 07:36 PM
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People arent liking or reposting content they disagree with. The most upvoted comments and the ones at the top are the ones agreeing with it. It seems like you dont use the app tbh. Im not talking about vlog im talking about stuff made directly by women in my age group People are not gonna be honest IRL. That goes for men and women. For example if you ask women if they care about height IRL most would say no but everyone knows what the general preference is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:29 PM
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If it was rage bait the comment section would be filled with people agreeing. Rage bait is meant to spark rage and be controversial. The stuff they say gets little to no pushback. The height content is a good example of this
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:06 PM
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Thats fair
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 04:23 PM
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Why not lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 04:23 PM
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For some that's absolutely the case. You see, a lot of people cannot compute the thought of being alone and not having a LTR they settle with what they can get. That's their business and it doen't mean their relationships are "bad". If they are ok with it, all the more power to them. I think its most tbh Now, for me, that kind of though process is alien and it won't work AT ALL. I want everything: aka a family with a guy I find hot who fullfills all my superficial and non-superficial desires. Lu…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 04:22 PM
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You dont think that is what most women who hook up do?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 03:45 PM
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Dating apps are just an amplified version of IRL dating and show what women would do if they could go for exactly who they wanted
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 03:36 PM
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Exactly. People here are out of touch. Those women say it themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 03:33 PM
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There is content made directly from young women themselves with 0 edits. That isnt rage bait its their true thoughts
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 03:32 PM
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Take away internet access lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 03:31 PM
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I think what they are trying to say is that we are more sexually attracted to our hookups compared to our boyfriend. Dont you think that this is true in most cases? Women are way more likely to settle for a lack of looks in dating than hookups
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 03:28 PM
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So why do many women deny that this is what they do?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 03:27 PM
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A bunch of women wouldnt agree with this lol. Ive even seem women on this sub say that they wouldnt swipe on their husband/bf
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 03:26 PM
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They work great for women who actually go there with intent and are serious. A women on here said its like shooting fish in a barrel
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 03:21 PM
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Both of those women shown have would more success dating than men who were fat or very short lol. And there are men into those women too. I think thats projection. I dont think a lot of women are into things out of the ideal like that so they assume the men who are lying. The "chad nerd" is an actual thing women do lol. Its all over tiktok The second one in the orange dress isnt even unattractive so idk why you put her there You need stats if you're going to try to claim more of one gender has a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:38 AM
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It's also rare for men, let's not engage in virtue-signaling of our own I dont think its that rare. Like I said a bunch of guys like things out of the norm. Either way its still way more common than it is for women lol Very very few men are going to describe their ideal woman as some old fat broad I mean thats true Next to no women prefer short men or fat men like I said above. I need stats to prove that the most women wouldnt want a short or fat man? I wouldnt ask you for a stat that says the m…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 04:03 AM
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I mean it is rare for women though so I dont think its the same. Next to no women prefer short men or fat men like I said above. It isnt common or even something seen normally at all. Women like that literally are outliers lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 03:04 AM
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But still, it's likely a sampling/ and or design error (i.e. do men and women defined "singleness" differently?) That's actually super common in polling. before you take any stat to heart, poke at it bit and see if it's been replicated. I dont think there are many definitions of single. How different could the interpretations be? I think it could be replicated if redone. Most girls my age I know or have asked out are in some sort of a relationship or situationship while most guys I know are sing…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 03:01 AM
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Im not saying its more moral but there are a bunch of men who genuinely prefer things that are outside of the ideal. Like there are guys really into fat women, tall women, and other traits like that. There are little to no women who prefer short or fat men. The same goes for other unchangeable traits. Yea most in general would want the ideal but men have more variation. I wouldnt say that makes us better or anything like that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 02:39 AM
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There are a bunch of guys who like older women though. Id date one but I know that they would never date me lol. There arent a bunch of women who like certain genetic traits men have.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 01:47 AM
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The average age gap is around 2 years so I do not think that is as big of a factor people claim it is. I wasnt really refuting what you said. Im not saying those women are at fault I just do not understand why the gap is so big. No one has a real answer and instead want to blame young men by saying that we are lacking in certain areas. Like you said there are barely any young women for us to date anyway so no matter what we do most will still be single
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 01:46 AM
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The sizes preferred by women are above average so idk how true that is
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 10:45 PM
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It takes way more for women to be seen as bi or lesbian and I never understood why
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 10:44 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 10:43 PM
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Idk if most can do that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 10:42 PM
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Not at all lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 10:36 PM
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Its true. Gay men are more attracted to mens bodies than straight women are it seems. The male body thats attractive for women almost always has to fit one of a few archetypes. They like womens bodies way more and regularly claim that women are more attractive than men
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 10:26 PM
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63% of young men are single compared to 34% of young women. The amount of women seeking a male partner is going to be less because way less women are single. Lesbian and Bi women are a minority so I dont think they account for much here
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 10:22 PM
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How is almost 30% difference slightly lopsided? The average age gap between couples is around 2 years so that cannot be skewing the data that much. There are more people in the 18 to 24 age range so it doesnt track for that either. I think that is overstated as the main reason
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 10:13 PM
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In my age group thats true and people claim that the reason why young men are single is because women would rather be single but its false
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 10:03 PM
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Im talking about women in general. I know women like that exist
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 07:41 PM
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Ok I get that. I know that people can acknowledge that someone is attractive and not be attracted to them but it seems like a lot of women see very few men that way
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 07:40 PM
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People can tell if someone is attractive right away. Its not about wanting to have sex or fantasizing. Those women who answer that way say they rarely see men who are visually appealing at all
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 07:28 PM
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By attractive I mean they find visually appealing
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 07:03 PM
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Yea but the parts add up to the whole. And if a part is lacking, like face for example, then the man will take a hit attraction wise. Women care about more things which makes it harder for a men to be seen as attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 07:02 PM
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How?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 06:36 PM
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I used to think that but the average age gap for couples in the US is around 2 years if I remember correctly so that cant be the main reason. And I think there are more people in the teen to mid 20s group than there are in the late 20s groups so I dont think it skews the data that much
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 06:21 PM
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https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2023/02/08/for-valentines-day-5-facts-about-single-americans/ft_2023-02-08_facts-single-americans_01-png/ For the 18 to 29 age group 63% of young men are single compared to 34% of young women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 05:03 PM
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In the US think most young people live with their parents. People try to use it as a reason why more women are dating more than men here but it doesnt really make sense to me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 03:41 PM
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If I was 5'9 or 5'10 I dont think I would care that much ngl because at least Id be average height And I get what you are saying. A bunch of guys like it but I doubt it would be a deal breaker for you if she had smaller ones. Most women have a height they wouldnt date below. I dont think most guys have a cup size they wouldnt date below lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 03:14 PM
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I mean women can get a date if they really wanted one at almost anytime due to apps so I dont get why they would complain. I think most are single by choice tbh How do you think the graph relates to being single?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 03:09 PM
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Ok I get that
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 02:43 PM
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I still think taller than them still means a few inches. Like maybe 4 or 5 which is around the average height gap in men to women. I used to believe that just be taller stuff but I got rejected and told that I was the same height as a woman I was 2 to 3 inches taller than It’s like men around an attractive woman with big tits. I dont think its the same because there are a bunch of guys who actually prefer small ones. Ive only ever seen them on reddit tbh. And having small ones isnt making a good…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 02:38 PM
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I get that but why do they try to rationalize it in such crazy ways? And when I say that most women prefer tall men on other subs I get hate and people act like Im crazy. Even on here some deny it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 02:19 PM
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You didnt find them physically attractive 1st? And they probably share some similarities. A bunch of women say the kind of guys they like arent men typically seem as attractive but what they really mean is the same type of guy other women want but in a differeny archetype of niche. Not saying you but that what I typically have seen
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 02:11 PM
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Ive never in my life have heard a woman say that she is done with tall men no matter how bad one treated her. Thats because they are seen as individuals so that one bad tall guy was an outlier in their eyes but short men are seen as a monolith so that one experience with one short guy represents every single one. They relate the negative things a short man may have done to his height while the negative things a tall man does are related to him being a bad singular person Its insane what they wil…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 01:59 PM
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Well, it goes against all our cultural narratives of women being the morally superior gender. Individualism is also considered a virtue in our western cultures, thus saying women are more alike to another is also seen as an attack. The funny thing is that if another woman says it they will agree. Once its said by a man they act like he is crazy lol. Well, they have the "confidence" framing to rationalize their visceral disgust towards it. They will rationalize stuff in crazy ways rather than jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 01:51 PM
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Looks alone doesn't do much for women, hence why it's rare when a woman's attention is captured by looks alone. Yes it does. There are many examples of this. Most men arent attractive enough for womem to want them but it works the same way Also, if we were to judge men's sexuality based on how women experience it, we would get that men are only attracted to 0.5% of women. Youre right. Women would have to make more money than men, be taller, be fit, and have a bunch more standards that mem have t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 01:49 PM
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Even bluepillers on here say that looks get you in the door and personality keeps you there. If you dont look good enough to the woman your personality is irrelavant. They view attraction the same way as men. Dont know why women on here keep pushing here that they dont value looks. It makes 0 sense
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 01:46 PM
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100% true. People who deny this are delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 01:44 PM
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100% true. Women on here will deny it though. Any attempt men make at frauding genetics is extremely unatttactive to them
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 01:43 PM
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Young women are dating more than young men are. They haveny stopped dating at all
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 01:42 PM
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They arent going their own way. They are dating more than men are
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 01:41 PM
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Ask women what percent of men they find attractive. The answer is almost always in the single digits. Being fit doesnt mean anything for a man if his face is ugly or hes short
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 01:41 PM
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Young women are dating more than young men are so they arent staying single. That point makes no sense. And womens social skills are just as bad. They just get more grace because they are women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 01:39 PM
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I think a lot of men lack proper social and communication skills but it’s easier to say that women don’t like them for their looks because it’s easier to play the victim (can’t change a lot about your looks). Womens social skills are just as bad. They are given more grace because they are women. An introverted shut in woman can get a bf. The male version of her is dying alone. Socially awkard men are seen as weirdo losers too and people are way more likely to talk to a woman than a man in public…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 01:36 PM
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Yea that may be true. I had a woman on here tell me that average men have women who are into them that they reject because they would rather be single. Thats says it all really lol. They have no idea what average actually is. And I dont think most men in general really care about the lived experiences of short men. Ive even seen short men downplay and deny some stuff other short men say
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 02:26 AM
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You do know that sex is a mutual activity right? If both want to have sex then it happens. You framing it like that is weird. And yea they can get sex when they want. Denying that is delsional
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 02:11 AM
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If women used them with the intent you mentioned they would have way better experiences on them. I dont know anyone personally who has but I know it can happen and have heard it from women this sub. I think they can work great if women are actually serious on them. Ive seen one woman on here say its like shooting fish in a barrel
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 12:59 AM
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Idk which men you are thinking of. Most average guys dont have a woman into them that they are rejecting because they would rather be single. Most women probably do though
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 12:51 AM
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Women who do this can get out of it at any time so they dont care. Most of the men who do it are forced to. Theres a big difference. Same reason why women care less about being single
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 09:01 PM
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NIchemaxxing works well. But you have to be realistic about what it's supposed to do. In theory, it's about shedding an aesthetic that underperforms for you anyway in favoring of narrowing your appeal to specific audiences. If you're a "6," you might nichemax to a "4" to the general public, but a "7" to women who prefer that niche—it's also worth noting that attractiveness is semi-subjective, so that a "7" will still be perceived as a "6" by some and an "8" by others. If you like that type of wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 07:41 PM
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From what I have seen if a woman really likes you she will have no issue taking part in your hobbies. I can understand your point of view but I would be fine with a woman who didnt share my hobbies
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 06:44 PM
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likes are highly concentrated at the top This is what he meant By pointing out that a 25% match rate is high for a man, you seem to be agreeing with me that women don't all like the same men. If women all (or mostly) liked the same men, all men would either have a close to 100% match rate or close to a 0% match rate. Men like me wouldn't exist. Sure they dont all like the same men but clearly a lot do. There are way more men than women on apps. The ratio for most men is in the single digits
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 06:27 PM
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No they arent. If most women swiped right on the same men, you would have a small group of men with close to a 100% match rate and all other guys would basically get no matches. Say you have a town with 5k women and 10k men on tinder. If all 5k women swipe right on exactly the same 500 men, then those 500 men match with literally every woman they swipe right on. The other 9,500 men never get a single match. Your intentionally misrepresenting what I wrote. You know exactly what I meant But as you…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 06:09 PM
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This is what most do which is why they struggle on apps. A post exposed this and the guy who made it was able to set up multiple dates within a week using picture of his friend who was a woman. Most do not want men in their league
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 05:48 PM
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If that were the case, guys like me wouldn't exist. I've always done well on dating apps, but only bout 1/4 of my right swipes result in matches. Even though the majority swipe left, I still get plenty of matches while swiping really selectively. That wouldn't be possible if OP's claim that all women are swiping the same way were true. You are above average then. And most do swipe on the same men. Most guys get little to no matches and others do very well. A 1 out of 4 match to swipe ratio is ve…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 04:51 PM
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Ok I get that. I dont think most women look at the bio at all though. Most guys are ugly to them so thats the 1st disqualifier most use on apps. I seen a post on twitter where someone took photos a model looking guy put in his bio that he had a criminal record and abused women and the account got 800 likes in 48 hours. There are other examples of this too. I think looks are all that matters on apps for most people
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 04:44 PM
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I mean women could just swipe on less men like you did and then it would be way less overwhelming. Many refuse to do this which leads me to think that them feeling overwhelmed is self inflicted. They arent seeing the men who they swipe left on as options. Only the ones they match with are seen that way. And I think the selectivity for most is just them going for the most attractive men on the app. Those guys are talking to the most women on the app so I dont get how that changes anything for the…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 04:24 PM
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I think most people here are wealthy or well off to some degree. Cant relate
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 04:04 PM
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Yea
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 04:03 PM
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It kind of is all or nothing though. If a woman gets tons of matches and likes daily do you really think shes gonna put effort into talking to guys like that? I doubt it. Like shes gonna have talked to a bunch of guys before those men even get 1 match. I could be wrong but idk. Those men are probably less attractive too. I dont even think men who are average looking or below that should even use apps
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 03:56 PM
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Most men cannot pull a different girl every night and most are not waiting for marriage. You cant be serious rn lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 02:53 PM
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Most men here have dated or have been with a woman before. There are many larpers on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 02:51 PM
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Never gonna happen
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 02:50 PM
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They are still a small minority of men. Labelling the groups would make no real difference because most men dont fall into either group. I dont see how thats valuable info
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 02:49 PM
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Yea everyone knows this. People on here will deny it till the end of time though lol. Most men get little to no matches and a few guys get a huge amount
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 02:44 PM
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How do you explain a few men getting tons of likes? The tastes are more similar than they are different if a bunch of women keep picking the same men
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 02:44 PM
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As of right now that 63% is single stat includes a guy who’s single because he’s taking home a different girl each night, a guy who’s single because he’s choosing to do so for personal/religious reasons Both of these are a minority of men though. Most arent hyper religious and most cant get a new girl to come home with them whenever they want
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 02:42 PM
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Exactly. Thats why I laugh when people recommend nichemaxxing. It literally does not work. Women will date out of their niche with 0 hesitation and all it does as a man is limit your appeal to other women
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 02:40 PM
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Everyone knows this yet people on this sub will still deny it. It has to be intentional at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 02:28 PM
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They are all used for hookups
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 02:26 PM
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STDs, he's spreading his seed to many women, thus creating multiple single mother households, all without an active father (my dad). It shows he has a lack of sexual discipline. It leads to difficulties developing healthy attachments. It causes men to see women as objects of lust. It indicates he is easily seduced by many women, and is non committal. Continously sleeping around indicates he does not have the patience nor the emotional intelligence to build a loving, committed relationship with a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 01:53 PM
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Id say more than 50%. You are doing the exact same thing you are telling me is wrong. How do you not see that lol. You said men in general. I said many women. Theres a difference there. You're just making generalized claims that support the old misogynistic belief that men can fuck around without any consequences, whereas women can't What are the consequences for men sleeping around? Being a virgin/inexperienced is more of a turn off than a high body count to most women. And I didnt bring up wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 04:06 AM
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Brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 03:47 AM
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Also men: "men and women are different, our n count doesn't matter. We can have as much sex as we want, and women do not care about our past" Women agree with this to an extent. Most women would not date or be with a virgin/inexperienced man. Many also say they want experienced men and I doubt most would have an issue with a guy who has slept with a lot of women. Idk why many women on this sub act like its one sided.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 03:47 AM
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So true. Ive never seen you miss ngl. Always spot on
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 03:37 AM
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Cool voice
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 03:34 AM
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Thats sounds really cool. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 03:32 AM
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Women dont care about this stuff man. Getting the guy to commit is all that really matters to them. What he did before is irrelevant in most cases
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 03:29 AM
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You sound like a teacher. Idk why lol. You have a nice voice though
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 03:08 AM
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Cool voice bro
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 03:04 AM
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Women can find most men attractive if the man pursues them and is interested in them and would make a good partner. Not true at all lol Women tend to develop attraction over time They cant tell right away if someone is attractive or not. Idk why people keep pushing this narrative Men just either find you attractive enough for marriage, repulsive but still attractive enough for sex, or just plain repulsive. Men think that’s a virtue that they can classify women as repulsive but still attractive e…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 02:18 AM
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This is how most women think IRL lol. He said hes not attracted to 50% of women but when women are asked the question their answers are often in the single digits. Also most guys here have dated and been with women before. They arent actually struggling. Many are larping
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 02:11 AM
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Cant that get like overbearing at times? Like ive seen some women say it comes off as desperation. I guess if its a guy they really like or one that they know could have options its way more attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 02:09 AM
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overly charismatic and smooth Really? I though that was a very appealing trait to women. Or is it a thing where you think they are a player or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 01:39 AM
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One of the blue pill men is a passport bro lol. There are a few others I think but hes the only one that stands out to me
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 12:25 AM
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I would never enjoy it. It comes off as buying love. I have no issue buying some thing for or taking care of someone I love but providing isnt something Im into. Make it seem like its mandatory and I never understood how it appealed to men
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 02:50 AM
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I just spoke on stats proving my point. Youre just in denial lol. Non virgin women, which is what most college women are, do not want virgin men. Denying that is delusion. The funny thing is that the women in the study arent even college women lol. The median age is 33 and it was an online survey. That makes me believe it even less now. At what college is the median age 33?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 08:39 PM
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20 and older. Im 23. Stats shows the vast majority of women in the 20 to 24 range arent even virgins so imagine how small the numbers are overall. Thats why I dont belive the numbers in your study. Female non-virgins are not getting with male virgins. Most women in college arent even virgins. The average age for losing it is 17
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 06:57 PM
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You get 0 social credit from doing that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 06:18 PM
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Those women are in college and are a minority of women. Like I said before. There is no way you are seriously applying that to the rest of women. Talk about that outlier chad virgin that essentially doesnt exist IRL has no value either. Having to go to that extreme to prove your point is hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 05:08 PM
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I know its the case. There is no woman that I will be seen equally attractive as no matter what I do and no matter what she looks like all due to 1 trait. All I can suggest is dating women who want a man around their height. Women like that basically dont exist but thanks I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 04:12 AM
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How? Doesnt a man have to be visually appealing for him to be sexually appealing?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 07:59 PM
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The way fat women struggle in dating isn’t the same as men. Yes, fat women can find someone to have sex with them but it’s a lot more difficult for them to find someone who will commit to them and not be embarrassed by them. I bet they could find someone to date them easier than a fat man could. Even easier than the average man too actually Also, how tall are you? Im 5'6 which is a height most women see as undateable but even if I was average height what I wrote would still be true. If I was tal…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 07:00 PM
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I agree. They say all the time that men get worse as they age all the time on here. Most are contrarians and disagree with what ever current point is being made
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 06:15 PM
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So if I wanted to appeal to older women what could I do? Younger women see us as immature and reckless and older women see us as the things you listed. And both want confidence/competence and experience and all of that come with age.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 06:11 PM
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But beyond college age, virgins are pretty rare. It seems like it makes sense that you would ask the question to college students. Citing that and acting like it applies to most women doesnt make sense though
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 05:41 PM
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Why though? The older men look worse on average than men in their early 20s. Especially guys in their 50s. Thats a huge gap too. I get that looks isnt the only marker of attraction older women use but why would the less atrractive man have a better chance? There are way more physically attractive 20 something year olds than there are physically attractive older men and women dont want to sleep with a man they arent physicalyl atttacted to
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 04:59 PM
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Yea I think thats true. Both are still a minority overall though
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 04:40 PM
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Women care more about the stigma around it. Thats why they act so offended when men find younger women attractive despite them believing the exact same. Also phsysical attraction isnt overall attraction for older women. Older women arent dating a broke young man living with his parents. I dont even think most older men would do that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 04:38 PM
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I agree for the most part. The stat I seen showed that young women went more liberal way more than young men went conservative though I actually think there are less men who hate women and feminsts overall now than in the past. Its just amplified by the internet so it seems like its more than it really is
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 04:35 PM
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I get that but they still generally look better than men your age. The more visually appealing someone is the more likely they are to be sexually appealing
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 04:29 PM
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Real
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 04:17 PM
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Younger people are more attractive on average. Older women who say they dont find younger men attractive are lying lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 04:16 PM
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Im fit and a fit women isnt seen as my looksmatch lol. No matter what men will have to go lower to find a woman "on their level". Othewise he will be seen as dating out of his league The average woman also has little to no issues in dating so not being fat never was a requirement
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 03:01 PM
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If he is average how is he a 2/10
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 02:58 PM
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And it was asked to hundreds of randomly selected college girls in that study, and they preferred the guy with 0 over the guy with 12. Perhaps randomly selected college girls are more representative than the women of this sub. You're choosing to ignore the women in the study. Because I dont believe it at all lol. Look on any other social media platform with normie women and the exact opposite can be found. College students, some of which who are virgins themsleves, arent most women. How does tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 02:46 PM
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What are you even talking about lol. Most are not picking 0 over 12. Im not dictating anything. Its repeatedly said by them. How is repeating what they say me deciding what they prerfer? That virgin chad does not exist in non-hyper religious areas which is most of the US. I live in the real world. They openly say they want experienced men and that they dont want to teach. Youre in denial Both men and women care far more about a person's attractiveness than n count. There's a massive difference i…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 02:33 PM
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You really believe that was truly 0 seen as more desireable that 12? Yea right lol. In what world. Most men are unattractive to women so the attractive male virgin part isnt even worth mentioning. Most women do not care how high a mans count is
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 02:14 PM
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Women care more about body count than men do. Having a high body count doesnt really impact women at all IRL. Those women date and get married with 0 issue while virgin/inexperienced men are seen as undateable without any other trait being known. Its an instant turn off. Every time the question gets asked on this sub women prove it to be true and most women feel the exact same
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 10:53 PM
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Effort does not equal success
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 06:05 PM
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Its most likely true for men though and its probably how most people think
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 06:04 PM
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Because it isnt crucial for the formation of a relationship and most people in general will never reach anything close to being charismatic. The average person isnt charismatic at all and does fine in relationships and dating according to many so that advice is useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 05:41 AM
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I agree. Its extremely rare yet many redditors seem to think that and high confidence, which most people also dont have, are crucial for the formation of relationships. Its delusional. Ive only met 1 truly charismatic person in my life
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 05:35 AM
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Nah I would never talk about this stuff irl lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 04:12 AM
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Good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 02:09 AM
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Idk I cant really tell tbh. Maybe 3 I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 02:08 AM
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You could be a radfem. They dont really use restraint or the other stuff you mentioned. Idk if they diss other women though but I wouldnt call that internalized misogyny
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 02:02 AM
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Are women generally sexually wired for visual stimuli like men? No. They still react to and thirst over hot guys at 1st glance. This can be seen on tiktok or youtube and even IRL at times. Women can do this with ease on apps too. I have dated men I never would have selected from a photo or a dating app. Men who flirted with me, men who were charming, men who managed to peak my interest. We have to see you, hear you, watch you move….AND SMELL YOU, Why wouldnt you have selected them? Are you physi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 12:32 AM
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I am
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 09:08 PM
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I live in the USA. Those are the women around me. What they like isnt changing anytime soon
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 09:06 PM
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No one believes in that anymore lol. It mainly full of old men
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 09:02 PM
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Yea its apart of general attraction but not physical
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:59 PM
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<image> That is what the post showed when it was 1st removed I don’t why they weren’t dealt with, that’s why I said to bring it up in modmail. I would still report comments that violate the rules though. Its most likely because it was ignored. Ive had comments taken down within minutes based off of tecnicalites or posible interpretations of the rules because someone reported them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:39 PM
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Its not for how to get the man. Its of traits the want/require their ideal man to have. You know exactly what I mean. Ive never heard that interpretation of a checklist in my life
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:33 PM
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What does awaiting moderator approval mean for a posts removal? Will the filters be updated? I reported it last week. Why wasnt it dealt with then? Was it ignored? I dont care about it now I just want to know why it was handled that way and if reporting them is pointless since nothing will come from it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:02 PM
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The filters arent effective if a post like that can slip through. It blatantly mentioned race in the title. Why did it initially show waiting moderator approval? And why havent my reports against women for personal attacks been acted on? Is telling someone they have a neural issue not seen as a personal attack?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:29 PM
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Overall attraction yes. Physical attraction no
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:24 PM
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How do posts that break rules get passed those filters? There was one about race that was up for hours before it got taken down. How didnt any mod see that? When it 1st got removed the post said that it was awaiting moderator approval until that later changed
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:23 PM
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Do the mods approve every post that goes up?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:11 PM
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Most young men are single. And people dont sympathize with men in general
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 05:59 PM
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Yes. These people are in denial lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 05:58 PM
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Women being on social media like men doesn’t mean they are better at socializing. Specially emotionally. They can empathize better with other woman more than men empathize with men. Men try to be stoic and mysterious and lone wolf type archetypes which only creates a barrier instead of vulnerability that allows for more intimate levels of socialization. Thats true I guess. I have always said that male solidarity is a myth. Men dont try to be anything thats how we were raised to be. We didnt have…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 05:54 PM
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It’s not about being attractive to all women. It’s about finding one woman who is a compatible match with you. Thats hard to do when the traits you have are seen as generally unattractive. Very few women are into men like that. And even if they are they will probably be into other guys too so they wont even be with the guy who has untraditional traits. Id also say its a few people who are into that not some
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 05:51 PM
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Yes those are included among other things
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 05:45 PM
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What is there to lie about? Your in denial
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 05:33 PM
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I seen your replies to the other guy. There is no point in conversing with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 05:07 PM
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It basically is. There is no region where tall fit men are seen as unattractive and thats the ideal man for the majority of women. There is no region where women prefer short men and I can go on and on
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 05:03 PM
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Thats fair I guess. For average looking men they are less uniform sure but when it comes to the most attractive men with ideal traits most women will agree
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 04:55 PM
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He says it all the time on this sub. Its not only about what he just said
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 04:51 PM
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He knew exactly what I meant. I was talking about the boxes a man has to tick off and requirements a man has to have to be able to be with that woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 04:48 PM
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Ive honestly come to the conclusion that there is something inherently wrong with me. And thats not even including physical appearance which I know I am below average in some areas. I know what it is now but I was in denial for a long time. It isnt mental illness either. I dont talk about it much because its embarrasing. Ive mentioned it once on here before because the topic came up. Its the real reason why I never had a gf and will probably be single forever. I know that now. Im not doing the w…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 04:45 PM
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I mostly agree with this. I think for most men the direction is the same though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 04:45 PM
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Yea. I do that stuff normally
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 03:40 PM
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Having platonic woman friends is not the same as being involved with them romantically
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 03:32 PM
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Like the other guy said they dont really have to do it. They get attention from men by default so there is nothing really to think about
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 03:28 PM
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Oh ok. Well it went fine but it didnt boost my confidence or self-esteem much. It was just regular conversation being made
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 03:22 PM
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Exactly. The people denying this are delusional. Its so obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 03:21 PM
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That was about building confidence/self-esteem not social skills. I dont have and never had bad social skills
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 03:18 PM
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What does that have to do with what I wrote?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:53 PM
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So those women arent physically attracted to the men they are with to some degree?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:51 PM
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He regularly pushes that narrative. Hes the main one who does it actually What effort does do is give you the best chances for success. The dude who puts in more effort will have better chances statistically than the dude who does nothing and doesn’t show up. I agree. Hes the one that act like its a cheat code and will always work. Thats all he does on here
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:49 PM
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Exactly. I do not know why they deny this
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:48 PM
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So you wont address that paragraph then? but you have to admit hard work can pay off to some extent just like you do with anything else in life Yes it can but it wont always do so. Effort does not equal success
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:47 PM
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It is contradictory. Effort cannot equal success if life is not fair. There is nothing wrong with wanting to be your best
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:46 PM
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Exactly. Its so disingenuous
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:44 PM
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Youre not disproving anything I said. The woman has to be physically atrracted to the man to date him
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:43 PM
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Are you gonna address my 1st paragraph or not? And you can win without a cheat code. Where did I say that it was required for success?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:41 PM
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I have yet to see a woman with a checklist of things to obtain her ideal man. Please stop lying lol The problem with your "cheat code" is that men of all sizes and shapes still get girlfriends, wives, FWB, etc. Do you know what a cheat code is? Its not impossible to win without them they just help greatly. Its not impossible to get what you wrote but what I listed help greatly
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:40 PM
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If you dont have an actual response dont reply
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:38 PM
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If you arent attractive to the woman your personality doesnt matter. Clearly one comes before the other and is more important
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:36 PM
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Are you going to address my 1st paragraph? And why are you playing dumb? You know exactly what I meant
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:35 PM
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It will never happen. Only women on reddit claim to love short men and thats only when a guy complains about it. These women cannot be found on any other social media platform or IRL yet they expect men to believe them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:34 PM
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Yes it does work like that IRL. If you arent attractive enough to a woman she wont date you. Its that simple
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:32 PM
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Only men lack this apparently lol. Women must be masters at it I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:31 PM
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I don’t have to pick one. Life IS unfair. And it doesn’t give a shit. It will just keep going and leave people behind. Now you can just let life happen or you can do something about it. You do. You contradict yourself all the time I’ve literally said “if a guy is saying he’s all doing the right things then he should be able to rattle off at least 5 things he’s doing right now (and no: I made a tinder profile doesn’t count) No matter what he says or how much he has done you will bring up 5 other …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:30 PM
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Do women who have checklists view the men they describe as humans? Or are they just boxes they have to tik off? No one ever talks about this yet its way more common than whats above And yea there is a cheat code I dont know why people on here deny it. Be good looking and at least average height and women will be into you. Its that simple
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:24 PM
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No they arent lol. Women are on tiktok and IG just as much as men are if not more. Most men have friends and at least a few social hobbies. The critique is basless and one sided thats why it isnt being taken. Women are given more grace for not having social skills. Men like that are just seen as losers
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:19 PM
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Do you not say that men fail because they dont try hard enough and dont put in effort? You alternate between the 2 regularly. Dont act confused like you dont know what Im talking about. Pick one and stick with it. Is life unfair or does effort equal success? Both cant be true Youve literally told me before that if a guy says hes doing the right things and had no success he isnt doing the right things. Make up your mind
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:15 PM
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There is a cheat code to getting women. Being good looking and being at least average height. Its that simple. Its disingenuous to think most guys who play video games dont have friends IRL and stay isolated but I expect that from you so Im not suprised. Youre out of touch and old so you just go off of weird rationalizations and assumptions But life’s not like that. Sometimes you’ll do everything right and lose. Sometimes you’ll do all the wrong things and win by pure luck. Sometimes what works …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:10 PM
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Highly doubt that. There are a bunch of men who find a wide variety of traits attractive in women. There are guys who like fat women, rail thin women, tall women, and more. The range for a man to be considered attractive to women is way smaller. The ideal man for most women physically is tall, most can tolerate an average height man, and some degree of fit which is normally fit/lean or bulkier/dad bod. Women like different variations of the same men. Most women base their type off of a mans nich…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:05 PM
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I think more and more men these days lack basic communication skills and I’ve been seeing a rise in shyness among men especially when dealing with women, so to them the closest in understanding women is through these intellectual aspects where they parade it around as facts about women and when actual women come forth and tell them to just grow basic communication skills they’ll retaliate by telling them that their factual information goes deeper than that, ah bro get off it man. Both men and wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:01 PM
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Yes and with no hesitation. Leg lengthening and jaw surgery or filler. Plus a hair transplant when I get older
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 01:56 PM
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They dont downplay their attraction to men they are actually attracted to. I think they are just being honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 03:41 PM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 03:19 PM
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how does that not translate to that? if women understood the efforts men put into being attractive, AND the average man put more effort into his appearance, then you could argue men become equally attractive to women There is no amount of effort an average man can put in to be seen as attractive as an average woman. Acknowledging effort does not translate to attraction. I can acknowledge a men or a man putting in effort but that wont make me say men are more attractive than women because Im not …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 03:18 PM
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I know but many seem to be in denial. Would you say that women are more attractive than men? I dont know how straight women say this and be adamant that they arent attracted to women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 02:42 PM
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on the record women put more effort in styling and shaping their appearance, and so a woman will recognize when another women has done a really great job at that. Yea but that shouldnt translate to them being more attractive than men as a whole which is who straight women claim to be attracted to. There is no amount of styling or effort a man or any group of men could put in that would make men say that men as a whole are more attractive than mem also, it's actually quite common for gay men to f…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 02:38 PM
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That can be true I guess but most gay men are average looking. Since women look better on average you should hear gay men saying that women are more attractive but it is never said. Thats because they arent attracted to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 02:34 PM
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Why dont gay men say they same? Womens faces are generally more attractive than mens faces yet Ive never seen one say that women are more attractive than men. So it cant just be an assessment of beauty. There has to be some sort of attraction there
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 02:29 PM
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Why are they attracted to a larger portion of women than men? What other group says that the gender that they are allegedly attracted to is less attractive than another? Only "straight" women do this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 02:23 PM
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That goes for most women then lol. They readily say that women are more attractive than men too but still claim straight lol. Id bet that the percentage of women they find attractive is way higher
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 02:04 PM
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Yes it really is. Its insane actually
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 01:46 PM
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Thats not a common thing for men at all. Especially not for men who are low smv
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:44 PM
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Yea. Its down now though
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 02:25 PM
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It really just shows the demographics and is why I stopped talking about that topic on here. Many are just waiting for it to be mentioned so they can say some crazy stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 02:00 PM
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Yes. Face is the most important thing
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 01:47 PM
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It says post is waiting for moderator approaval. I have a screenshot but the might take it down for bringing the main sub to the daily thread
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 01:45 PM
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You can find someone attractive and not like them
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 01:33 PM
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Ok but for the ones you do like what I wrote most likely applies
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 01:17 PM
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Idk if its all but most of them do. Automod takes some down I think. The one we are talking on literally breaks sub rules, got approved, and is still up somehow. That cant be an accident
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 01:09 PM
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Because they are attractive you mean lol. Ive seen many "femcels"/pinkpillers assume good looking men are better people by default and not apply anything they say about other men to them
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 01:00 PM
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Its not hidden its blatant lol. Like I said they approve posts. Other people have talked about their posts being held in queues waiting to get put up yet posts like the one we are talking about always seem to get by with 0 issue
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 12:59 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 12:46 PM
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Without rage bait and controversial posts this sub would be dead. There is no other explanation as to why they let stuff like that go up and stay up
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 12:28 PM
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So the stuff you say only applies to men you arent attracted to?🤔🤔🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 12:25 PM
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Most women on this sub are outliers to the norm and rarely answer questions in a way that put them in a negative light thats why its seen as dishonest. The men will answer those questions regardless of how it makes them come off. You can go on any women only sub and see the exact oppposite of the responses given here. You are one of the few who I think are honest on here and are one of the few normie women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 12:24 PM
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100% true lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 12:19 PM
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Yep. My comment will get taken down within minutes for mentioning race but that post and others like it stay up for hours lol. Weird
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 12:10 PM
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Exactly lol. Ive never met a guy who likes that. Women make things very easy for men they are attracted to so I doubt attractive men even know what the chase is lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 12:05 PM
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Arent you a "femcel"? Whats the difference between yall dissing men and thirsting over hot guys lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 12:02 PM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 12:00 PM
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Nice
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 11:59 AM
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The mods most likely approved it themselves. They have done this many times. They will remove it once it gets decent engagement.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 11:59 AM
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It cant be a substantial amount. Guys who are low SMV are just low SMV. It has nothing to do with their standards being high. They just arent attractive. There cannot be an issue with regards to standards. Like I said above men are not rejecting women and waiting for top women to appear. Most men dont even have women to reject.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 07:07 AM
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The women who they do show great interest in, are the ones who are absolute show-stealers in terms of looks, and who obviously garner a lot of attention. I'm starting to think that they have just elevated their standards to such a high level (whether due to porn or any other reason), that they see even clearly above average girls as not good enough. Maybe this is a bad anecdote but I'm eager to hear you guys' thoughts on this. Women do this infinitely more than men do. Women are the ones who say…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 06:46 AM
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that's the thing if you advertise your prefrences you'll get pushback on it no matter what. Wrong. Women only get push back in spaces like these. Most people do not push back on the stuff they say at all
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 06:39 AM
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Women judge baggage and body count too so I dont get your point
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 06:37 AM
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Its only seen as fair when its against men not women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 06:32 AM
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Yea thats true
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 04:35 AM
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Thats what most women already do lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 04:14 AM
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I dont even know what that is ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 01:00 PM
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A good amount of them have requirements not preferences
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 12:59 PM
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They wont consider below those top men. They have no reason to. Its an app not real life. There is 0 reason to settle because no matter what they do on an app they will still have tons of options. They would swipe on even less men than they do now and the top men will get even more matches
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 12:40 PM
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Are you suprised lol. Its 2024
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 12:31 PM
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If more women took this approach they would like them more. I seen a woman on here say that its like shooting fish in a barrell once she figured out exactly what she was looking for. I dont know how its possible for a woman to struggle on apps
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 12:28 PM
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A 50 50 ratio is doing nothing. Women would still swipe on the top guys like they do now.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 12:26 PM
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The way women swipe on apps they will get flooded with matches regardless. Thats why I will never agree that too many options is why women leave the app. Thats an issue they create themselves. I know for a fact that they do not see the men they swipe left on as options. They can just stop swiping and deal with a few men at a time. For some reason many dont do this and keep swiping to look for the next best thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 12:20 PM
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If the ration was 50/50 women would still swipe on the same men like they already do
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 12:13 PM
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I dont think so. All that matters is if I find her attractive. Other guys finding her hot wont make her more attractive to me
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:52 AM
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Idk like maybe a homemade gift like knitting a scarf or remembering small things that I like. Taking part in my hobbies and wanting to be around me a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:18 AM
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Her actually showing that she likes, values, and desires me. Putting in effort, thoughtful gifts or gestures, and things like that. Going above and beyond at times to show shes into me. Planning dates occasionally. Idk if this is romance or just being a good partner. I never had a gf tbh so ive never had a woman be romantic toward me but if stuff like what I wrote above wasnt happening in a relationship I would just break up ngl.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:06 AM
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You sound like a good gf
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 01:25 AM
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Nothing can be done. Women are still getting the men they want so they dont care Guys dont approach women IRL like that because 9 out of 10 times it doesnt work. Also most guys arent the type of man women want to be approached by anyway. I used to do it but stopped mainly for the reason I mentioned last. I think i seen a study that said 45% of young men have never done it before so what you are talking about isnt that uncommon. Dating is easier for the men that its always been easy for. For the …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 03:32 PM
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"Prince treatment" isnt a thing for a reason. I think a decent amount of women, not all, are opposed to doing things like that for their bfs/husbands and see it as things only he should do for her. Especially when money gets involved
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 11:34 AM
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Most gay men do not care and give them a pass for it. They rarely if ever check women on homophobia or biphobia. Seems like they only care when men do it tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 11:31 AM
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Yea
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 11:07 AM
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Does reporting women on this sub do anything? Ive reported mulitiple personal attacks and no action has been taken by the mods. Ive gotten 30 day bans and had comments removed for less
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 04:56 AM
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Yea lol that part made no sense
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 04:49 AM
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sometimes i wonder if the genders are just drawn to their own bodies platonically like you'll see many more dudes being impressed by other dudes' jacked bodies; i find [good] male physiques more impressive to look at despite being sexually attracted to women, although it does seem the female body has something inherently appealing even if she doesn't do anything to sculpt or perfect it Idk. Yea men appreciate impressive male physique more than women do but Ive never seen a guy use that as a reas…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 04:49 AM
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I think its just a natural reaction most of them have. They dont find them appealing to look at unless its on someone they like. I dont think a good amount of them find the male body appealing in general. They talk about how women are more attractive than men pretty regularly
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 04:35 AM
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I think they are looksmatched. Hes above average in looks
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 04:30 AM
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If a guy said he though vaginas looked disgusting people would call him gay lol. Ive literally seen it on this sub. I dont think its wiring. The women who say that just dont find them attractive in general and only like the man its attached to.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 04:25 AM
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It doesnt matter how often it happens. When it does happen what I wrote is the reason as I said above. What you are talking about is irrelevant. No one is talking about frequency. And no it hasnt happened to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 03:11 PM
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When it does happen what I wrote is the reason. Im 23. I dont see how age is relevant here
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 03:01 PM
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The reason is lack of attracton. Thats it. Women approach attractive men a lot. Every other reason is an excuse
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 12:36 PM
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I dont think its pointless I just dont have an answer. It helps other people from what Ive seen. I dont think I can talk positively about traits I dont like or am indifferent toward. Idk if my self-esteem is low or if Im just being realistic
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 01:06 AM
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Nothing tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 12:48 AM
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That they’re getting with either shitty women or taking advantage of the women they’re with. It’s not fucking rocket science. Not only shitty women get with those men though. I see it all the time Move to a nicer area. Go outside for once in a park or common date spot and come and report to me how many couples seem miserable, abused, and hateful. Those couples dont act like that all the time so I dont get what that would prove. Many couples seem good to the outside view but are toxic behind clos…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 06:58 PM
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They lied and hid their real intentions.Do you real believe shitty/toxic men are honorable and would tell the truth? Women go after openly toxic men lets not act like that isnt a thing. There is no way all or even most of those men are lying. Women look past negative traits in men they like This is why social media is so important for women. Social media rips off the rose tinted glasses from women’s faces so less and less get tricked. Ironic lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 06:01 PM
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Yes it has, it’s most of the ones screaming about how no women give them the time of day despite having zero social awareness. Objectively fewer men (especially younger ones) are in relationships now because they’re undesirable. This only on the internet and has 0 value. Why are they undesireable? Because they are bad people? Some garbage people will always end up in relationships for whatever reason (being wealthy, wildly attractive, their partner having codependency issues, etc) but it’s prett…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 05:47 PM
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You said I had a neural problem... All of what I wrote is in referece to the initial comment. I took nothing from yours lol. The guy said if you are 5-6 you are good. And I showed that that is not what most women prefer to say that he was wrong and that its tolerated not what they actually want. You just assume negative intent by default
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 05:40 PM
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If every generalization someone made here had to be true for 100% of the population, everyone would be wrong. Human beings aren’t a monolith, of course some shitty men still get laid and shitty women still get their lives paid for. My point is that overall, women can have higher standards because we don’t have to marry the first man that pays us any attention in order to survive. You can have higher standards because yall get tons of male attention. Thats the reason. No matter how many men you e…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 05:37 PM
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There are bunch of shitty/toxic men and guys who have every trait you listed still in relationships though so what you wrote doesnt make sense lol. How do you rationalize those men not being single? If the bar truly was raised those men would be single for life but they never are. Idk how what you wrote is relevant now. Most people on this sub werent even born yet 😂. Only redditors assign moral value to relationsips. lts weird. Not everyone in a relationship is a good person and a great partner
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 05:27 PM
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No matter how much proof is shown they will never concede anything lol. I showed a bunch tiktoks of young women saying themselves how much they dislike short men and bluepillers and some women would say that those dont matter and are just rage bait or jokes. Its seen as a non-issue to them. I seen a post on r/arethestraightsok about it and everyone saw it as disrespectful and not ok. Thats when I knew that the stuff they do on here is done with intent. I talked about it a few days ago: https://n…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 05:19 PM
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Why are you insulting me lol. What did I say that was so offensive to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 05:12 PM
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Id help in the situations where I can and immediately know what to do. Its the same for men and women I dont know how to fix a flat tire and I dont know how to save someone if they are choking. I also dont think I would give a stranger a ride.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 05:08 PM
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Being tolerated isnt the same as being preferred. What do women desire/want in men thats average? Nothing. So why would this be any different?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 04:54 PM
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https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/26332467/ Women preferred a penis of slightly larger circumference and length for one-time (length = 6.4 inches/16.3 cm, circumference = 5.0 inches/12.7 cm) versus long-term (length = 6.3 inches/16.0 cm, circumference = 4.8 inches/12.2 cm) sexual partners. https://badgirlsbible.com/does-size-matter <image> 2 inches longer than average for this one and basically 1 inch longer for the 1st study. What they want for girth is also bigger than average too according to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 03:56 PM
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They come here to troll and for entertainment. Most also look down on the men here and get an ego boost from others struggles. No one here is normie but I agree. If I had a gf I would never come here again
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 12:25 PM
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Exactly lol that phrase never made sense to me. A woman liking a man more is clearly optimal. And even if she does like him more the man still be the one putting in more romantic effort so what does she really lose?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 05:02 AM
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Most men arent even 6 though
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 03:34 AM
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The study says that the preference is 7.22 inches. Thats way above average lol <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 03:07 AM
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Sometimes yea but not constantly
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 05:12 AM
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Exactly lol. They be gatekeeping fr
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 05:10 AM
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Exactly lol. Brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 03:46 AM
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Shes ok
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 01:59 AM
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Fr lol. Yk how when they ban or remove something they link the comment that was the reason for it? They couldnt even put the link because I didnt break any rule lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 01:43 AM
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I got banned for a month for talking about attractiveness on a post about male attractiveness. Made 0 sense lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 01:32 AM
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Genetics. He has potential he was just lazy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 01:29 AM
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There are way more men into fat women than there are women into fat men. By a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 03:29 AM
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Ask other women. It happens all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 03:20 AM
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Go outside. Most chubby/fat women have little issue dating. They do way better than the average man
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 03:16 AM
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Im saying that those traits are tolerated at best and not truly desired. Women can tolerate average height men but the vast majority prefer tall. And is teddy bear fat or just some archetype of muscular? Women regularly say that most men are unattractive and I seen a study where only 12% of men felt desired in their relationships. How else can that be explained but by a lack of attraction and settling? There may be some base level of attraction but its not high at all in most relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 03:14 AM
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There are still a bunch of men who genuinely prefer other traits. The same cannot be said for women. Essentially no women prefer short or fat men. A bunch of men are into fat women, tall women, rail thin women, short hair women, and any other trait you can think of. Its not the same at all. Men have way more variation than women
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 02:59 AM
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Its not a narrative and you didnt address what I wrote either. Im not denying reality im being realistic. Women say all the time that most men are unattractive and I seen a study saying that only 12% of men feel desired in their relationships. How else cant that be explained but by a lack of attraction and settling?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 02:54 AM
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Sex was only one component so I think you are overstating the cause of it being the horniness gap. Compliments, flirting, and romantic touch were also there. This is the bare minimum in realationships I dont think they do know. The dont have to be a betabuxx but they are getting settled for in some way. Id bet in most relationships the man is way more into the woman than the woman is into the man
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 02:45 AM
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I can fathom it in terms of style and fashion. But in terms of the traits women find physically attractive in men I do not believe that there is much difference
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 02:37 AM
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Thats true I guess but generic in men is seen as unattractive I think the real numbers that men don’t understand is just how many arguably attractive men are just weird or odd, or have attitudes and values an individual woman is diametrically opposed to. Its understood its just that those attractive men are rare to begin with according to women. And those very attractive men still picked 1st in a bunch of cases. For most men how they look is the biggest issue
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 02:34 AM
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That they end up with average looking men. The average man has no physical trait that women are attracted to and they are not the men that women hookup
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 02:14 AM
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Most people end up with a looks matched partner. This is well known. Most women are average looking
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 02:07 AM
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I love all of my girl friends a lot, but I think most of their male partners are 0% attractive, just absolute No’s, while they are super into them. Sometimes girls will sit around a bar or whatever event for fun and point out the person they think is most their type, and its always drastically different. They are most likely average and had to compensate in various ways to get the woman interested in them. I do not think women are truly attracted to average men and men online seem to refuse this…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 02:05 AM
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Yes it is. Your partner most likely is attracted to the vast majority of you traits and is neutral about some minor ones. They wouldnt have been with you if that was the case. This gets said to men because we are expected to be content with being settled for and not getting desired
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 01:53 AM
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And to a bunch of other women too. You also said he has a high body count
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 01:45 AM
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Women say the vast majority of men are unattractive all the time. And when asked about the percentage of guys they find attractive in their day to day lives the majority of numbers are in the single digits. Its way worse than 80%. They say it themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 01:44 AM
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Every woman is gonna say yes when asked. No one wants to admit that they settled. Only 12% of men in relationships feel desired according to a study I seen so something isnt adding up. They find the same few traits attractive in men so there is now way all or even most women are truly attracted to the man they are with. Most men have to compensate in various ways to make up for what they lack Only 12 percent of men reported that their partners made them feel as sexually desired as they wanted to…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 01:42 AM
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Some women find big bearish men attractive, others find slender twinkish men more attractive. People have racial preferences, facial feature preferences etc etc etc. Not really. The vast majority of women prefer tall men, some variation of a fit man, and most prefer white men. Their preferences are pretty much the same for the most part. They can tolerate other traits though
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 01:39 AM
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Yes he is. She has said that he was above average looking and a high tier normie
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 01:38 AM
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The majority of women prefer tall and fit men with little variation. They tolerate average height men. When women say they have a "type" it typically really just means what type of clothing/niche she likes. Besideds that they essentially like different archetypes of the same physical type
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 01:36 AM
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Is this really true for women though? The vast majority prefer tall men, fit men, and other traits with little variation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 01:33 AM
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How?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 01:28 AM
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Im literally a virgin. Idk what you are talking about. And most men IRL dont care either. Its not delusion its reality. Most men are not getting casual sex. In reality, most women who have casual sex have the same general rule men do: they're fuckable, but not dateable. High attraction is also needed. That is not needed for a relationship as most women settle for men who compensate for their lack of attractiveness in various ways. Women arent having casual sex or hooking up with the 5/10 average…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 01:27 AM
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You have to do more than be attractive for a relationship lol For you yea. Most women dont think like that. Usually their looks threshold for casual sex is higher than the one for a relationship. And thats if they even have casual sex at all
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 01:14 AM
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Whats on here doesnt matter. Its divorced from the real world. That was on a normie sub with normies in the comments. And how could most men tell if they are being settled for its the default state for them? You think most guys know what its like to be desired and truly wanted? They dont. I seen a study where it said only 12% of men in relationships felt desired. Things like flirting, compliments, romantic touch, and initiating sex were included. The numbers probably arent nowhere near that low …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 12:12 AM
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I doubt that most women are truly attracted to and desire their husbands. A study said that only 12% of men feel desired in relationships. I doubt that your situation is common. Most women probably settle
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 11:41 PM
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It was strongly discouraged and men listened. Women say all the time that they dont want to be approached either. The "art" is just being good looking and having average social skills. Most men arent good looking so they fail at it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 11:38 PM
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He wanted to feel desired. I dont care what he was wearing. She clearly is not attracted to his body. Why is a man wanting feel desired seen as wanting to be like a woman? You havent responded to the study I brought up either Women desire mens bodies by having sex with it, not by admiring it, that’s how men do it. Dead wrong. Women admire both tall and fit men all the time. You keep giving excuses as to why men should be ok with women settling for them. Its lame af. There’s no such thing as bein…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 11:33 PM
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People will rarely admit. Like look at the way she attempted to explain what the woman did lol. It makes 0 sense. Only men can do stuff like that in their eyes. The women only did it because she "saw the good in him". Its insane
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 11:18 PM
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He wanted his actual body to be desired not his fashion sense. I dont know what you arent getting. His gf probably settled for him. Its very common
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 11:18 PM
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Not really. Women only have sex with men they are atttacted to in some degree. The attractive men would still get sex and so would the men who get settled for
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 10:41 PM
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Ive never met anyone in my life who was in one. Ive only heard about them on discord
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 09:57 PM
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100% true. There is always a way out for them. They will only believe the stuff said if its said by a woman If I say women find a very tiny amount of men attractive I will be called an misogynist or an incel. If a woman says the same others will agree with her. There are many examples of this
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 09:40 PM
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Women thirst over attractive men heavily and most men will never experience it. They thirst over male bodies its just that the requirements for it are so strict it almost never happens. And its about wanting to be desired in general not like a women. Most men wont ever get that. The study said the categories were flirting, compliments, romantic touch, and initiating sex. Is this wanting to be desired like a woman? This should be the bare minimum in a relationship but accoring to the study most w…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 09:34 PM
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Why do you take issue with men wanting to be desired physically? Women do find men attractive in that way. It is just for a very small portion of men I seen a study that said only 12% of men feel desired in their relationships. Would you be fine in a relationship where you didnt feel desired?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 09:13 PM
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Why do people act like men are crazy or wrongly upset at things like this then? They are making it seem like what he is saying has no basis. She clearly settled but in their eyes he should get over it. Thats because being settled for is seen as the norm for men. If it was reversed they would have a huge issue with it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 09:12 PM
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I feel like they have to know what they are doing when they write stuff like this. There is no way they dont. People in general want men to be content with and accept being settled for. Im assuming this was on a normie sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:34 PM
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Nothing. Reincarnation maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 10:31 PM
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Same to you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 02:26 PM
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Exactly lol. Most older men dont look like that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 02:15 PM
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I mean youre a woman and dislike men so Id expect you to believe what they say lol. Im just saying that it logically makes no sense. On average younger men look better than older men
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 02:03 PM
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On average or just the good looking older men? I dont see how its possible that they are on average better looking
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 01:57 PM
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They are lying lol. Thats how they tell people it is but it isnt the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 01:51 PM
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Hes lying lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 01:44 PM
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You think those women were being honest? Because I dont. Younger women find older men repulsive and ugly but Im supposed to believe that those same women get older and find the same men they thought looked horrible attractive now? No way lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 01:42 PM
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Neither are old women then lol. There is no way a 50 year old women thinks a 50 year old man is more attractive than a guy younger than that. Younger people are more attractive than older people in general yet somehow people think older women are exempt to this. I dont get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 01:33 PM
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Exactly. Idk what hes talking about above lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 01:23 PM
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Thanks. Stuff like that probably did impact the way I am now if in some way if Im being honest. Idk if im more in tune tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 12:42 PM
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"Just read the room bro, women make it clear when they want to be approached" And then when you read it and no woman is interested they will blame you for not approaching anyway lol. There is no winning with these people I swear
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 06:16 AM
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He would let me cry. Hed say that I needed to let it out. I think it was her own thought actually. Shes hinted at me being gay before because Ive never brought a girl home and shes said that "like a girl" comment for other things I would do. I would say its because shes not from the US but my dad isnt either so that cant be the reason. Thats just how she is
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 06:15 AM
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Hes entitled because he doesnt want to be with a liar? He deserves someone honest. If you dont get that idk what to tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 06:06 AM
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Online its done a bunch but Ive never had it done to me by a man IRL. My mom used to tell me to stop acting like a girl when I would cry. I was way younger then but it would get me pretty upset.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 06:02 AM
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How is he entitled lol. Defending a catfish is a new low
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 05:53 AM
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Please stop lying lol. Youre not telling a woman to date a catfish no matter what the circumstance is. All that about being nice goes out the window because she catfished him. Biggest red flag ever. Shes a liar and cannot be trusted. You dont know what else she is lying about.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 05:51 AM
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"He" has no logic lol. They are just a bad troll
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 05:44 AM
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Notice how you have no answer to the question I asked lol. Hilarious. I asked what would you tell her. Are those single moms being catfished and lied to? You cant be serious rn
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 05:34 AM
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He refused because he "wanted a model" and not because she catfished him and is clearly fat? Be for real lol. Would you tell a woman in this situation to date that kind of guy who is a catfish? Stop trolling lol she clearly isnt his looks match
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 05:29 AM
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Fr lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 05:24 AM
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She also catfished him. Thats a pretty big detail lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 05:19 AM
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Ok...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 05:11 AM
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In the mind of most people its almost always the mans fault if the relationship ends
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 03:55 AM
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Real. Id never approach on a train though. I dont do it much in public anymore either
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 10:07 PM
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Brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 09:31 PM
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Body positivity doesnt exist for men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 09:30 PM
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A. B would never date me even if I was interested in her. The chance for A is extremely low but at least there is a chance. Closer to my age too
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 09:28 PM
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Real
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 09:25 PM
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Idk lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 08:28 PM
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Would you take this deal? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 08:14 PM
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Shes an extreme outlier. Yea it can happen but its very rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 08:10 PM
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Hes 48 shes 23. Insane lol. The average 23 year old is never dating a guy like that so I dont think this is a good example at all
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 08:02 PM
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For some reason that is controversial on this app. Whenever I say it outside of this sub I get attacked for it. Women love short men according to Reddit. Some people on here are delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 03:23 PM
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I agree. There is really nothing that we can do to be seen as average or above that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 02:54 PM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:33 AM
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Being below average in a trait as important as height automatically drops a guy to below average overall no matter how much he "optimizes". Ive done it and nothing has changed. At some point people have to be realistic and stop acting like everything is in their control. Its delusion. Only women and the men who get success from doing the bare minimum for talk like this because this really how it works for yall. The rest of guys arent so fortunate to have that potential
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 05:00 AM
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This is very easy for women to say. There are men into any body type or look a woman can have. For women its the exact opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 04:56 AM
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Its well know already. There is no average trait a man can have that women find desireable. They are not attracted to average men at all
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 04:54 AM
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AWALT
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 04:53 AM
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The vast majority of women want men who are average height or taller. If you are shorter than that you arent even an option to them
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 04:52 AM
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It clearly is relevant if you are short
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 04:51 AM
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Tall and lanky is literally a body type women like
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 04:49 AM
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Delusional lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 04:48 AM
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If you look good facially it doesnt really matter what hairstyle you pic
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 04:47 AM
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She ignored everything but muscles lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 04:37 AM
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I think most do. They think men are bad by default. Its clear to see
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 04:34 AM
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The know they can get a new guy anytime they want and do not invest much emotionally into the relationship. Especially in the early stages. They also do things like mentally breaking up with a guy before actually leaving him. They never truly care about him in the 1st place
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 04:31 AM
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What Im saying is that he did literally nothing to change his attitude. A woman did it for him. The girl matched with while he had the bad attitude and a bunch of other women did as well. And on apps perosnality plays next to no role in success. He got matches because he looks good. Its easy to change your attitude toward dating and relationships with a bunch of positive reinforcement from women. Most men will never get that Yes personality can be the main reason for some but I think that its ov…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 12:14 AM
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He got validation from the girl. She built his confidence for him and she changed his mindset. Nothing else about him changed other than him getting attention from women. And when a girl is into a guy they make it very easy for him to interact with her so I doubt he had to do much. All he really had to do was look good enough and make a dating app account.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 11:50 PM
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No he isnt short and he didnt work on his personality. He just did what the comment above says
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 10:31 PM
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Brutal. And people here will still deny how much they matter. They are delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 10:27 PM
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Wrong lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 08:28 PM
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There are a few things women find valuable in men physically. You could say this for a bunch of other traits. Looksmatches dont really exist because of this. A woman will almost always be seen more attractive that a man who is her physical match. Beauty standards for men are very strict
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 08:08 PM
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A 3 isnt pulling 6's. A lot of average men struggle getting their looksmatch and youre pulling 3 points higher? Lets be real now. Either you arent a 3 or they werent 6's
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 12:53 PM
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I dont have a gf
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 12:10 AM
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I never really thought that way. I just know Im not the type of guy women want to be approached by so I dont really do it anymore. Its a waste of time tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 07:56 PM
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What did you do to fix it?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 07:37 PM
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Exactly lol. Its so low for them
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 07:03 PM
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Ive heard that before but would you think its weird if a woman had 0 guy friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 07:03 PM
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Ill check it out
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 07:02 PM
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What is it about?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 06:35 PM
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Youre not a 3 then...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 06:33 PM
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So why do people so many people make it seem like its such a weird thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 06:26 PM
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I mean in general. If a guy says he has 0 friends that are women people will think hes weird or something. Its not really the same for women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 06:20 PM
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Is a woman having 0 friends that are men as offputting as a man having 0 friends that are woman? I never hear it brought up for women at all
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 06:15 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 02:51 AM
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Cute af
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 12:55 AM
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Idk. Maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:45 AM
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I never said it was a death sentence. It just makes it way harder. The vast majority of women wouldnt date a man that height. Combine that with my face which is average at best and then things will start to make sense. Im not making this stuff up. I live it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:40 AM
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Nothing bad. You just act like youre unattractive or something on here but you sound kinda cute there. Not simping or anything like that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:37 AM
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My eyebrows are kinda bushy. My eyes are almond shaped and upturned. I wear glasses so my eyes look a little smaller than they usually are. My nose is round and Afro centric. My lips are big and plump. I have a Medium-deep skin tone and my hair is about bra strap/mid back length stretched out and arm pit/shoulder length in its shrunken state but very full. I’ve been focused on growing it out a little longer. Hmmm
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:32 AM
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5'6
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:31 AM
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Yea
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:25 AM
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because me not being someone's type doesn't mean i'm not someone elses type. Easy to have that mentality when there actually other people into you i said if that's truly the case then you gotta look within and see if there's more improvements to be made in you to at least become someone, anyone's type You really dont get it lol. What womans type is a short black man? Lets be real now you really belive there's no more improvements in you that you can make to find at least oe girl into you? Self i…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:24 AM
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Exactly. They will tell you to do certain things and when you do them they will come back and say its not enough. There is no winning. More often than not they just want guys to shut up
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:12 AM
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Mental_Leek. She was one the cooler women on here. Hope shes doing good
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:06 AM
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If someone said they did 10 you still would say that isnt enough lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:04 AM
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i just think they take rejection too personally because i've always been rejected but i know it ain't really about me. It is personal. I never understood why people say that it isnt. Shes essentally saying that you arent worth her time. Either you arent good looking enough or for some other reason. Its literally personal and about you it can't be that ALL women don't want anything to do with you. Why are you in denial about this being possible? Even when I told you I had 0 likes on apps you ques…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:02 AM
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Its pretty rare that a woman says stuff like this. I think most would disagree but they will still swear they are straight. The funny part is that if a man said the same things they do but about other men he would be called gay or bi
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 02:53 AM
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I doubt he would care. It only seems to be a red flag or weird for men to be on here. Many women have husbands or bfs who know about this sub. I know a guy showing it to his gf would be very offputting though
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 02:42 AM
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Idk what a straight girl crush is but that doesnt sound straight at all
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 02:33 AM
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Congrats thats pretty cool
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 02:18 AM
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Are you bi?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 02:18 AM
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I honestly think most women are bi. They seem to be into other women more than they are into men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 02:17 AM
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50 or more. The majority being bi. Many genuinely believe that they are straight so idk if it counts as closeted
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 02:05 AM
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What do you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 01:42 AM
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I think the perception is that they are better at it by default. I think I seen a study that said women orgasm more with attractive men. I think it has more to do with atrraction being really high than them putting in more effort though
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 12:40 AM
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Yes. I got rejected
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 12:29 AM
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I said the only men I see. I live in a black and hispanic area. If I go to the city I see white and asian people but those men are mainly average height
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 12:28 AM
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Most of these had regular dates and get matches all the often. They arent really ascending
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 12:27 AM
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They are they only group of short men that I regularly see with gfs/wives
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 12:25 AM
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Not on the train
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 12:24 AM
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Truly ugly women yes. But that is very rare. When most women say they are ugly they really just mean average looking
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 12:22 AM
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They are on this sub so they probably would be. I doubt most women would say yes to this Its also hilarious how a good amount of the women responding are bringing up looks and height yet so many tell guys on here that those dont really matter that much
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 12:21 AM
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I trully belive most of guys are capable of it Why
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 12:14 AM
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Only short hispanic men pull that off
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 12:12 AM
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Outliers exist
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 07:33 PM
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No. I would be skeptical about a woman showing interest in me at all. Love bombing would be obviously disingenuous
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 07:27 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 06:57 PM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 06:50 PM
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What does he look like
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:42 PM
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If you dont know any good ones just say that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:41 PM
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😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:20 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:20 PM
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Just do whatever you think is best. Asking people online is pointless. If the photo is too perfect people will say that they look unnatural and you are trying too hard. If it looks too casual they will say you arent putting in enough effort. There really is no winning
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 04:31 PM
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What body type do you like?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 12:05 AM
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Who were you before
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 11:36 PM
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Must be nice. And whos alt are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 11:31 PM
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Didnt you have a gf and have a bunch of friends
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 11:24 PM
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Tall lanky guys still pull women and they dont look strong at all
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 10:38 PM
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Women dont care about how much a man can lift. Only other men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 09:42 PM
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Exactly lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 09:33 PM
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What do people on here think about this? The person also said that CPS should get involved <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 09:01 PM
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Yea I agree the rating stuff is pretty much pointless now Also those who claim that dudes only get shit on when they blame women when vent about dating, FUCK YOU. People are hostile for no reason. I said nothing about women and look what got sent my way. They just do no want to hear men venting or being frustrated with dating. Even if you dont talk about women they will still find someway to insult or make assumptions about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 08:48 PM
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So true
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 11:47 PM
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Down bad
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 11:33 PM
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Thats what women already do and say. Being good looking erases any flaw a man can have. And I think you should change your flair to pink pill. And why is a "gay man" obsessed with who women date and what straight men do?🤔 Not even the bi-men on here talk about it as much as you do and they actually date women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 11:31 PM
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True lol. They regularly say that women are the better looking ones even in looksmatched couples. If they say they are even in looks the guy looks better than the woman in most cases
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 11:28 PM
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I do wonder how people like her and the guy you mention end up on places like this. Not that everyone here is mean but it just doesnt really fit them I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 11:02 PM
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True. I like the willow lady who has the pet cows and cats. Shes probably my favorite commenter here
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 10:35 PM
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Exactly. They rather tell the people that are impacted by the shaming to change than just stop the shaming all together. Makes 0 sense to me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 09:33 PM
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At least until you’re no longer a virgin and then it’s a non issue. But I feel like a lot of virgin men and women make it their whole personality and a part of who they are when it’s not, it’s temporary. Women literally care about it. They wouldnt care if women didnt care. Women make it clear that those men are undesireable and unwanted. I do plan on lying though
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 09:30 PM
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Some women already say this lol and a bunch of other women agree. Ive never actually seen a guy say what he said and have tons of men agree with it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 09:27 PM
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I agree. Like there is no way some of these people are in relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 09:16 PM
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What percent of people here do you think are lying about their relationship status? Like saying they have a bf/husband or gf/wife but are actually single. I believe some when they say it but not all
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 09:08 PM
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There is literally no correlation to me being a virgin. And like I said she still would pick you over him if you are more attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 08:48 PM
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Yea he would make you like a punk but the girl would still be into and more attracted to you over him
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 08:36 PM
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You dont think gen-z women prefer looks and height over energy? I think they do
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 08:23 PM
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No way. I cant believe that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 08:12 PM
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Hes not saying that 95% of men get rejected. It was that at a certain height 95% of woman would not be into a man. Ive seen it before. Im not sure what the height was but I think it was like 5'4 or something
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 07:29 PM
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Why does it seem like guys like this have near endless options then? Same with that killer wade wilson and other similar men. They have tons women thirsting over them and way more women into them than the average guy ever will ever have in his entire life. Im not saying I want to be like them I just do not understand why it is not a turn off to womwn. Either there are more non-normal women than people would like to admit or women just arent being truthful about what they are into
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 07:26 PM
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I thought you were extroverted and outgoing based on your comments here tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 07:14 PM
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Congrats
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 07:13 PM
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It could also be women play down their attraction to men because being seen as attracted to men too much comes off as desperate (because there are more male options). There’s a reason “boy crazy” is an insult not a praise. Do you really think this true? I just think the attraction isnt there in most cases. They are open about it with men they are really into
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 07:13 PM
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The up side is that men have more avenues for becoming sexually attractive outside of looks than women do, but the down side is that this makes it harder for men to discern the fine line between being competent in an attractive way, vs. competent in only a “useful” way. Men’s financial success is usually at the center of this conversation. I think we can become attractive for relationships but not sexually attractive. Like you said its more competence than anything else. And thats how I think re…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 07:03 PM
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Swiss
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 06:39 PM
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I am cold. Most of my friends have the hot characteristics.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 06:38 PM
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Brutal. He not even good looking at all. What is the appeal?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 06:31 PM
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I think our beauty standards are seperate from competence. Thats a seperate thing that is demanded from us. Women also put value in looks. If anything they are more likely to tolerate unattactiveness and traits they do not like if he has other value to them. If a man is with a woman 9 out of 10 times he is physically attracted to her. I think the number for women is way less. We like a wider range of traits so yea it may be seen as tolerating be we are genuinely into many things. Childrearing an…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 06:21 PM
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How close are you to being a stacy-lite or stacy?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:44 PM
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I said no makeup and with everything the same including style. People just think women look better. If both put in minimal effort the woman will be seen as more attractive Of course men are not going to have as many accepted aesthetics when it’s not as socially acceptable for men to look pretty and manicured. That and there are only a few male body types seen as attractive. The traits men need to be seen as attractive are genetic for the most part
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:43 PM
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What do you rate yourself? Ive noticed that only attractive women do face or body reveals on here. Ive seen all type of men do reveals though
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:27 PM
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35/USA
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:23 PM
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If you took a man who was a 5 and a woman who was a 5 with no make up and both in basic clothing and hairstyle 9.5 out of 10 times people would say that the woman is better looking. Its not just the beautification. There is a wider range of what is considered attractive for women than it is for men and its easier for women to get into their range than it is for men to get into ours. Thats why most men are seen as ugly/unattractive by women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:17 PM
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100% true. Its so weird to me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:06 PM
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People say men are less picky because we are horny but if that was the case why do women also seem to be less picky when it comes to other women? They find a wide range of women attractive just like men do. This goes for straight women from what I have seen as they say so many women are attractive and lesbians too based off of what I have seen on their sub
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:00 PM
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Isnt your bf/husband your preferred physical type? I assume you are his also. I dont see how that goes againt what I am saying. That is the ideal thing not just where you are tolerated
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 05:19 PM
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He likes your body type and other unchangeable traits you have. How is that narcissistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 05:17 PM
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Yes it is. You can see the numbers. Being "not that short" means nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 05:06 PM
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Im talking about right now not 30 years in the future. People get more and more attatched over time. He prefers you and likes the way you look right now. The same for you with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 05:03 PM
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Im 5'6 <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 05:01 PM
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A lot of them dont
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 04:53 PM
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I said thats what should be happening. If that doesnt apply to the man you are with why are you dating them?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 04:50 PM
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They are almost non-existent. There are way more short men than there are women willing to date them. And even women who say they "like" short men often end up with tall or average height men anyway. All of what you said applies to previous generations and those men probably had their height tolerated and put up with like I said above once they left your mother. Gen-Z women care about height the most and finding a girl my age who is actually into short men will be almost impossible Even I don't …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 04:48 PM
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They should like all of your unchangeable traits. I dont think that is unrealistic at all. Short men are seen as unattractive overall by default so height is way different for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 04:39 PM
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Thats cool. You are an outlier tbh. What do you consider short?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 04:32 PM
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Lame
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 04:26 PM
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So many people on this app deny this. Idk why its so hard to admit for them
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 04:25 PM
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They say this as if women are varied in their tastes on height and like there are a bunch of women into short men lol. The preference is the same for the vast majority of them and the women who actually prefer short men are so rare they essentially dont exist. <image> Q4A: Would you be with someone who tolerated or put up with your body type and didnt prefer it? I highly doubt it but that the type of person the majority of short men end up with.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 04:23 PM
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True even though most women see the two as the same thing. Once you are below a certain height the majority of women see you as undateable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 04:20 PM
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The desired height difference of the average gen-z woman. 1.3 million likes just for being next to a tall man but they dont care about height lol. BS. If a man says he deserves anything hes getting destroyed but woman can say they deserve any trait in a man and get nothing but support. These are normies on the biggest app out too but people on this niche sub think their opinions and anecdotes take away from trends that are clearly visble. Hilarious to me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 03:19 PM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 03:08 PM
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True I guess. I dont think it will ever change either
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 06:58 PM
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100% true. This applies to so many areas
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 06:33 PM
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I literally agreed with you on that point which is why i repeated it. And most guys here have spoken to an interacted with women unlike you
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 06:31 PM
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I said I. You get all your opinions of men from the sub and places like it. You dont even talk to men IRL. Youre no different from the men you criticize. At least some of them have tried to talk to women and used apps. Youve done none of those and still complain about men you dont even interact with. Makes 0 sense
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 06:21 PM
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Deluded lol. Show me a comment where I talk about any of that. @ who you are talking about next time. And women have literally admitted that is why they come here. It brings joy to some of yall
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 06:11 PM
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Anyone who mocks or laughs at someone for being insecure is an asshole Its normalized nowadays
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 06:07 PM
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You and most women here agree. This isnt suprising at all lol. They find joy in the pain of others. Its insane to me
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 06:05 PM
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Hes been one lol. He goes on like 2 dates a week
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 06:03 PM
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You said it twice to me. The 1st time I didnt care but the 2nd time is what made it seem intentional
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 06:02 PM
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Women dont care either though. And a decent amount of men support women too
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 05:41 PM
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Im talking about people in general not just women
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 05:37 PM
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Some women act this way toward men too. Idk why you singled out men
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 05:35 PM
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Asking this again: Why is dysmorphia and insecurity in men mocked and laughed at? They always get downplayed and people make it seem like guys are overreacting but when it comes to women they get support and understanding in most cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 05:27 PM
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What are you even talking about? How am I substandard or a failure lol. Yall throw insults for no reason on here. Why is what I wrote so offensive to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:52 PM
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It has to be a front because they only have issues with certain things when men say it. If another woman says it they agree
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:24 PM
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And somehow he will still call himself an 8, with nothing to back it up. He will think it’s an objective fact. No one does this stop pushing this false narrative. Yall just making shit up at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:22 PM
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Hilarious lol. The reverse is way more prevalent
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:17 PM
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Youre literally agreeing with me. If you take a 5/10 man and a 5/10 woman with no make up and both in basic clothes 9.5 out of 10 times people will say that the woman is more attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:16 PM
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This stuff is so annoying I swear. Its done on purpose too
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:09 PM
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The average woman is seen as cute and the average man is seen as unattractive. People say all the time that they see hot women with ugly men which isnt true at all. The average man dating his looksmatch is seen as dating out of his league
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:08 PM
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Yea they do have some negative experiences I will admit that
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:06 PM
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There is literally 0 comparison. They get more empathy tham short men and they are seen as more attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 03:58 PM
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Exactly. Men still find them attractive they just dont want any guy shorter than them. They have no issues in dating beyond that. Like ive literally seen tons of posts of them begging for short girls to leave tall guys for them. Its insane
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 03:57 PM
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Its a woman larping
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 03:52 PM
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Exactly its so weird. There is literally no physical trait women have that can be compared to being short as a man
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 03:49 PM
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There literally is no other physical comparison. They will dislike short men regardless and they never cared anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 03:47 PM
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If you think they are being genuine youre delusional lol. They would run if they seen this guy doing this IRL. Hes also tall and decent looking so its not proving your point at all. Average women are not attracted to average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 03:26 PM
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I dont think most guys enjoy the chase. Its just something they have to do. Providing isnt appealing to me at all either. Like I wouldnt have an issue with doing for a woman who genuinely likes me but its not something I long to do. It probably would make things slightly easier for me if I was the way you described though
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 05:00 PM
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Do you care about follower count? Is more better than just a small amount? I feel like not having any at all is better than having like 20 followers lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 04:53 PM
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So you agree then?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 04:40 PM
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Why not
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 04:32 PM
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I dont either but I seen a lot of people justifying and explaining why they are into certain things. Im mainly talking about physical traits. Like height for example
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 04:28 PM
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Is not having one a negative thing though? Or just neutral?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 04:22 PM
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I feel like once you have an explanation for why you are attracted to something it reaches weird and fetish teriitory. Attraction is a reaction so if youre over thinking it then its not genuine and there are other factors at play. What do yall think? Im mainly talking about physical traits
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 04:19 PM
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You wouldnt be into the vast majority even if they did ask you out lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 04:13 PM
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Lol I feel like there are more tall women athletes than there are tall men athletes in school. Like in college and HS almost every tall girl played a sport but there were a bunch of tall guys who people would say wasted their height because they didnt
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 04:09 PM
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Brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 04:07 PM
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I guess thats true but people dont see NPCs as human though. They are like bots. If they explained it how you did or used different wording I wouldnt care. But they didnt and specifically mentioned men
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 03:48 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 03:26 PM
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Not me in particular but these spaces are being watched
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 03:23 PM
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Well yea I see that too but I dont and wouldnt do that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 03:05 PM
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It shouldnt be done though. And yea you can make your own stuff but banning someone because they said something a mod didnt like is weird
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 03:00 PM
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So most people here then
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:55 PM
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How is that attractive though? I dont get it at all
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:45 PM
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I mean women on here before have said that they see men as NPCs and human shaped blobs. I think that the only that exist to a good amount of them are ones they are attracted to, the ones in their family, and the ones they are threatened by. The rest basically dont exist
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:44 PM
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Can the foreign and US agents on this sub reveal themselves? Ive heard there are bunch of them here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:41 PM
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Most men would leave her alone too
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:35 PM
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Yea that happened to me before too. They are censoring people. Even if you dont say anything toxic you can still get banned for doing something they personally dont like
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:33 PM
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Why would you want him to get fat lol. Would you leave him if he became obese?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:23 PM
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Of course they wouldnt lol. If a woman said what I said but reversed she wouldnt have been banned either
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:14 PM
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True Why am I getting downvoted for this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:13 PM
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They 100% would lol. They would get insecure if the good looking guy did it but super angry if the regular guy did the same
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:13 PM
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Of course they allow it. Misandry isnt seen as a real to the majority of people
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:11 PM
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I just said I wasnt talking about what he wrote... I dont agree with what he wrote about not treating them like people but they do assigne give value to men based off of sex
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:08 PM
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Didnt break any rule and still got banned lol. And of course they wont respond to anything I write. Reddit mods are insane <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:03 PM
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Yea they want their attractive bf to do that lol. Most men arent that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:01 PM
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I responded to you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 01:55 PM
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Is a man not having social media is red flag? I think its a big one to most gen-z women
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 01:51 PM
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I think she said she is average looking so a bunch of guys are gonna think she is attractive. Average women are seen as cute by most people
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 01:48 PM
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I never said they are only used by women and your comment said nothing about treating them like people so why would what I said relate to that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 01:44 PM
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Calling a man a virgin or an incel is an insult because its seen as a moral/personal failing by many if a man cannot attract women. So they think the guy they use it in is low value. They also dont want inexperienced and virgin men for similar reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 01:21 PM
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A good amount probably dont. They seem way more willing to stay with a cheater than men are Downvoted for saying the truth. Typical ppd
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 12:26 PM
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100% true
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 01:25 AM
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Same. I still get told I have high standards though lol. Its like the default comment people have here
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 01:25 AM
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Youll be waiting forever man lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 01:24 AM
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For now lol. I only came back here because someone replied to one of my old comments. This sub is so repetitive. Even the daily chat is filled with rage bait comments. Its lame now
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 01:23 AM
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Some of those questions are wild <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 12:19 AM
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The negative stuff she says only applies to unattractive and ugly men lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 11:13 PM
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Why are you with him if you think hes bland lol. Is that your type? But just because I find pretty/well dressed women more interesting to look at doesn’t mean I’m sexually attracted to them. I can understand if this is a barrier between male and female gazes! This isnt the barrier lol. Women arent just saying that other women dress better. They are saying that women are more attractive than men while also claiming that they are only attracted to men. It makes 0 sense to me. Like I said before no…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:45 PM
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Ok I was just wondering. Disorganized is the worst one right? Thats the one I have. It sucks that we develop them as kids. It feels like a curse honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 02:20 AM
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Do most people have a secure attachment style?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 01:43 AM
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Yea youre an extreme outlier lol. Most women dont think this way at all
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 01:35 AM
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When other women say it they agree. When men say it they deny it. Its hilarious lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 01:31 AM
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For real lol. Ask them the percent of women they find attractive and it would be way higher
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 01:26 AM
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It is rough to hear but thats one of the ways they evaluate the attractiveness in men
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 01:21 AM
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Most women are attracted to a tiny amount of men even in their own age group. What shes saying doesnt mean much overall
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 01:17 AM
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Its way lower than that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 01:13 AM
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Exactly what it is lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 01:12 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:17 PM
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Congrats
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:14 PM
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No...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:13 PM
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Yea but there can be somewhat of a positive interpretation to being called husband material. There is no positve to being told that you arent her type at all
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:00 PM
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A similar thing happened to me once. I really do not understand why some women do this
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 09:32 PM
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This is exactly what I said. I dont get what was so confusing about it to him
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 07:57 PM
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Yes it is attractive but a 2 point jump is only happening if hes obese and super fat. If he has a regular build which is slightly overweight it wont help that much. It is a boost but will not help you jump very far in terms of how attractive you are overall
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 06:50 PM
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Wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 06:38 PM
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Yes but one is seen as more acceptable than the other. And that doesnt explain why one is seen as joking while the other is taken seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 05:16 PM
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They wont give you advice but will shit on you for taking advice they dont like. Its hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 04:31 PM
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This is what I feel like a lot of people on these subs don't get. A constant response to guy's issues and opinions on PPD is get offline and touch grass. The assumption is that their opinions are formed mostly or entirely from social media and rage bait. However, it completely glosses over their actual lived experiences. They only have this mentality when men bring up stuff women do online. They always get the benefit of the doubt. But when women bring up stuff about men they take it 100% seriou…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 04:28 PM
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If the woman is in the mood and the man isnt women still expect sex to happen. And if it doesnt they will think that something is wrong with the man for not wanting to do it. Why does this only work one way?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 02:20 PM
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This is hilarious. The majority of women prefer extroverted men. And if all else was equal almost all would pick the extrovert. The only time introverts become desireable is when they are really good looking like how this scenario described them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 02:11 PM
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Hopefully unintentional, but that's a weird phrasing of the question - nothing "made me" pick him, I picked him voluntarily and on my own free will. I didnt mean it like that. My fault Why did I pick him? Because he charmed me with his sense of humour, with how his friends liked him, and with how when the opposite clique went on at him for calling him a "simp" when he showed me affection, he stuck by me while he could throw me under the bus to score bro points Oh ok that makes sense. Yall sound …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 12:11 AM
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What made you pick him?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 04:40 PM
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True. They always have options and they are rarely talking to only one guy at a time
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 12:47 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 06:04 AM
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Getting a 1st date is harder. To do that you have to pass a womans looks threshold which is something most men cannot do. They have to keep looking and looking until they find the woman that is into them If getting fit was all it took that means you had good potential. Most men dont have that. How much do you weigh now and how tall are you? lm fit and it hasnt helped me at all
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 04:23 AM
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I have been saying this. Most men do not care that much about a woman being a virgin and a good amount also do not care about body count. Its mainly online this is heard. On the other hand most women claim they dont care about it online but the vast majority do IRL and would never date an virgin/inexperienced man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 01:33 AM
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No of course not. You have neither insulted women nor seen any other man do so. Also women never have anything of quality to say on the matter and refuse to be honest for nefarious reasons. I never said I didnt see any other men doing that. Why are you responding this way? I only talked about myself and how people generally respond I wonder why anyone would ever thing that your situation has anything to do with you at all. What? It having something to do with me doesnt mean that my personality i…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 01:15 AM
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I havent insulted any woman on here and that still has been said to me. They say it to any man who talks about issue in dating. Even when I say height plays a role in dating I get told that. People assume that a man struggling in dating in any form has a bad personality by default
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 01:07 AM
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