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wtf how is he a virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 11:40 PM
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It's also easier for heterosexual women to catch an STI or UTI than heterosexual men
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 11:03 PM
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amazing. never change gloomette
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 10:59 PM
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Gosh yeah it does seem like managing diabetes especially type 1 is a constant thing
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 10:56 PM
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Waitt type 1/autoimmune type or type 2?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 10:51 PM
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high schooler
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 10:48 PM
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oh no! did your blood sugar drop after taking insulin or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 10:18 PM
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Honestly... does it matter what's said here? Obviously there are plenty of average people out in the real world in healthy relationships where they both treat each other great
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 09:56 PM
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https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/14681994.2012.678825 Admittedly smallish sample size but this study has the advantage of being dyadic -- both members of a given couple are surveyed. "Men and women were equally likely to be the member of the couple with lower sexual desire relative to their partner."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 09:37 PM
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Interestingly, on r/DeadBedrooms the ratio of high libido male users to high libido female users essentially matches the ratio of male:female reddit users overall. I guess at least for reddit users in relationships, men and women are equally likely to be the one who wants more sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 09:24 PM
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No, lol. Men love bitches
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 07:55 PM
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0 hooking up?? Do none of y'all party??
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 07:28 PM
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Lol I have almost the exact same type as her
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 07:24 PM
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Do you honest to god not have friends in relationships or who are hooking up with people
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:56 PM
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"Couples married in the late 1960s and 1970s were 70% more likely to divorce when wives earned the same or slightly more than their husbands compared with couples where the husband earned more... For couples married in the 1990s, however, the divorce rate for those with female breadwinners had fallen to 4% higher than male breadwinners." https://cde.wisc.edu/wp-content/uploads/sites/839/2023/05/More-Wives-Now-Outearn-Their-Husbands.-They-Also-Stay-Together-Longer.-WSJ.pdf
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:47 PM
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only fit 3/11 heck yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:12 PM
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3rd was the trickiest for sure. It's harder to tell based on a picture because she's tall. I can see she's holding a significant amount of weight in her hips but the loose fitting jeans make it hard to tell with her lower body. In the comments she says she's evenly proportioned with muscle. (Also, isn't #1s transformation crazy? Looks like a whole different person.) I wouldn't have guessed that girl was 5'7" from the picture you posted but based on her instagram I can def believe 19.6. Skinnier …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:10 PM
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You did better than I thought you would, I'll admit. 23.4 23.8 26.6 28.7 21 flat https://np.reddit.com/r/progresspics/comments/1cq2zpi/f2058_228154_74_lb_11_months/ https://np.reddit.com/r/progresspics/comments/1cpwkc5/f3252_14513015lbs_lost_6_months_difference_left_a/ https://np.reddit.com/r/progresspics/comments/1cn8stj/f2258_225lbs_175lbs_50lbs_5_months/ https://np.reddit.com/r/progresspics/comments/1cbhaik/f3056_205lbs_178lbs_27lbs_getting_close_to_my/
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 05:33 PM
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Actually, yknow what, bonus 5th: https://preview.redd.it/vpybuf7fcf0d1.jpeg?width=973&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=9760ae68b78826c6df5a2f45a6f9892e2c35422f
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 05:09 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/qt0jfjspbf0d1.png?width=384&format=png&auto=webp&s=1a09107b438223983301c14c1e8131e783ddb3cf
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 05:05 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/ui0js9aobf0d1.png?width=266&format=png&auto=webp&s=3fff9d09b9a14ebb217978ab21d6bc6a2c4e10db
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 05:04 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/ajm1ktzmbf0d1.png?width=372&format=png&auto=webp&s=fc13cfd1b9d453863716233a793cc4aedc2f57e4
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 05:04 PM
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I would guess 22. Can't tell if she has muscle, maybe 23. I'll post 4 pictures of women from reddit and you can guess BMI. Unfortunately they'll be 4 separate comments. https://preview.redd.it/jr65irmlbf0d1.png?width=376&format=png&auto=webp&s=6ed59135e25dd702f73d16af095bd2da5028ec7e
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 05:04 PM
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lol why do guys here front like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 04:24 PM
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Tbh this comment is basically the equivalent of laughing at a fat person at the gym trying to work out and lose weight
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 04:23 PM
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Okay? Back when I was losing weight I also had to figure out how to eat enough volume to not feel hungry throughout the day but still stay in a caloric deficit. So that meant not just eating less - it meant changing what I was eating.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 04:21 PM
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Different people struggle with different things. I struggled to create a viable, well rounded work out plan for myself and went to my university's gym services. Other people are able to just figure it out with little to no guidance.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 04:17 PM
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I feel the same way kinda. I kinda like animals overall but would not want to own and take care of one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 04:13 PM
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So she's literally seeing medical professionals and making this a real goal in her life. Again, what more do you want?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 04:12 PM
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She's literally asking for advice on losing weight. What more do you want?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 04:07 PM
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🫡 god speed
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 03:59 PM
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No fap is stupid to me like why not just limit how often you do it instead of going off cold turkey
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 03:01 PM
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*college
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 02:50 PM
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Funniest possible response
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 02:42 PM
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I don't personally support free palestine stuff/waving that flag but I don't really see why waving one must mean burning the other. Supporting one side in an international conflict doesn't mean unequivocally supporting all of that side's views
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 02:37 PM
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I'll answer in terms of my feminist girl boss circle. Pros: Educated/career-oriented with strong earning potential Unlikely to care about splitting date cost The whole starfishing unenthusiastic sex thing perplexed me for some time because my friends just aren't like that. Generally more likely to actively communicate what they want, suggest ideas to experiment, initiate, whatever More likely to view a relationship as a mutual effort Less likely to put guys in a box in terms of masculine standar…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 02:36 PM
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Are the men here all average?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 02:15 PM
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Looksmatch for some of the guys here probably
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 01:54 PM
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I don’t know what I was expecting after the first sentence but that was a rollercoaster
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 01:45 PM
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So if there was a war between Britain and India you would support Britain solely due to India’s regressive views on women?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 01:36 PM
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You posted him because you don't think he's attractive and you used him as an example of unattractiveness. Show me where I said this. I said that he's not top 20%. He's still cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 01:27 PM
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I'm going into a different side of mental health, not psychology. Admittedly I know nothing about the APA. I was referring to "All the men working on the field will die over the next decade". Of course there is a huge disparity but there is no collapse of men going into psych masters and phd programs. It been staying basically steady at 3:1. Colleges have begun intentionally recruiting male therapists to ensure that male students can have their pick (my undergrad started doing this in 2021), so …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 01:25 PM
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Fun fact: American colleges have begun intentionally recruiting male therapists to ensure that male students who want male therapists can be accommodated. My undergrad started doing this in ~2021 and as of now they have 5 male therapists for undergrads (smallish school). My current school has 15 male therapists for undergrads + grad students (big school).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 01:08 PM
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out of touch
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 12:59 PM
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My plan currently is to looksmaxx until I can comfortably wife a man with options
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 12:56 PM
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Maybe he made the post himself to seem like he's in demand. Actually, that seems like a pretty fucking good idea for dudes. Just make bullshit posts of yourself on "are we dating the same guy". RP men will create any amount of bullshit narratives in their head to keep their nonsense going "women are only into the top 20% of men" my ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 12:54 PM
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No I joined the "are we dating the same guy" group in my city to do some investigating. These men were not top 20%. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 12:27 PM
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Are you asking if I feel like I'm settling with men...? I haven't felt that with the guys I've dated in the past, no
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 12:26 PM
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Is it niceness or are you like timid/shy? I think the trouble with app-based dates is that you're meeting a total stranger which is inherently nerve wracking. That's why so many people incorporate alcohol but ik that's not your thing. You could do an activity first date. Something fun and engaging that takes the pressure off of you to keep a direct conversation always going. Examples: rock climbing, mini golf, cat cafe/animal shelter, aquarium, board game cafe, ice skating, laser tag, etc. Fun d…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 04:39 AM
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Delusional. At a certain point it's just body dysmorphia honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 04:15 AM
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Sir do you actually believe that on any level
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 04:12 AM
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I feel the same. Food spending will be my downfall
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 04:05 AM
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Anotha one. Mid 20s, finance job, degree from local university. Normal OLD profile. Is he top 20%? https://preview.redd.it/rhcnfdo1gb0d1.png?width=516&format=png&auto=webp&s=b5ec673e1186350ef2ce69fb2cd279520eaf7f06
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 04:02 AM
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Where are these higher caliber guys bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 04:01 AM
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Wait a second you literally get dates off of apps and have had women approach you irl. So you know this isn't true
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 03:52 AM
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It's just tough, I dunno. We really need to destroy OLD and go back to in person socializing and dating. I wouldn't be comfortable with dating a complete stranger with zero social proof. He could be lying about literally everything
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 03:49 AM
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So overdramatic for what. He was literally a pudgy white man in a Hawaiian tshirt
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 03:46 AM
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Also define degenerate behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 03:37 AM
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For this particular man, the woman was asking if any women had tea on him. There are two comments from service workers: "He's a regular at my serving job. Super nice guy, has a solid friend group, a nice balance of introvert & extrovert, never causes problems" "He’s my regular at my bartending job and honestly he is such a nice guy. Not problematic and has a core group of friends and they all tip nice and are always polite to everyone."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 03:34 AM
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Do you think women are talking to 1 man at a time?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 03:33 AM
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For this particular man, the woman was asking if any women had tea on him. There are two comments from service workers: "He's a regular at my serving job. Super nice guy, has a solid friend group, a nice balance of introvert & extrovert, never causes problems" "He’s my regular at my bartending job and honestly he is such a nice guy. Not problematic and has a core group of friends and they all tip nice and are always polite to everyone." (This isn't the exact photo of him, I reverse image searche…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 03:32 AM
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Apparently. The group's also basically functions as "anyone have tea on this man?" and the comments on this one were positive. (This isn't the exact photo, I reverse image searched the actual guy and picked a similar guy)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 03:27 AM
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I joined my city's "are we dating the same guy?" facebook group a few days ago to do some investigating. Conclusion: the idea that women are only attracted to and go for the top 20% of men is such a joke
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 03:24 AM
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No. There's this service organization called alternative spring break and part of it is "connecting deeply with fellow members" or some bullshit. One guy talked about how he was raped by a woman while drunk and unconscious at a party (came to during). I know another guy who had basically the same experience. In my freshman dorm building there was also a girl who people called a "red button situation" (many colleges have emergency red buttons around campus to press if you need immediate police or…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 03:08 AM
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Hmm, thanks. These are soothing but not angry enough for my taste
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 03:01 AM
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Legally yeah but socially in my age group/at my college no
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 02:56 AM
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if they're both raping each other does it cancel out or is it double mega rape ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 02:46 AM
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That's nonsense. People who are drunk or high or both can consent. If they lose consciousness, are unable to walk unsupported without falling over, or are slurring their speech they can't consent. IMO
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 02:45 AM
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It was more about what he felt he "deserved"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 02:42 AM
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midwestern emo? intriguing. any artist/band recs?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 02:41 AM
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This man had strong natural features and would've been just fine with minimal looksmaxxing but instead he had to insist that UCSB sorority blonde girls were his looksmatch
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 02:39 AM
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"it only counts as rape if it's violent" kys
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 02:36 AM
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Oh okay. Isn't your original comment a bit dramatic tho because the comments on this recent post are literally "most people do not consider two drunk people having sex to be sexual assault"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 02:35 AM
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The original post's take on alcohol was relatively whatever but the parts about coercion were insane
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 02:31 AM
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How can I vet out men who feel like they're settling for me / just taking what they can get
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 01:20 AM
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Oh shit. I was there last week, beautiful. I'm American
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 01:19 AM
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What country are you from?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 01:11 AM
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I've noticed a lot of people 3+ years younger than me feel this way but can't really imagine what changed in such a small time frame
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 12:56 AM
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Or religious reasons. Sure but there's a reason that religious people waiting for marriage get married so young like 21-23 Being a bit more in my misanthrope era than usual, imagining sharing that experience with several men throughout my life kinda repulses me I honestly have no idea what to say to this
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 12:48 AM
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wym how can not really valuing sex be normal
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 12:46 AM
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celibate for ideological reasons Sure but there's a reason that religious people waiting for marriage get married so young like 21-23
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 12:41 AM
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Am I insane or is someone that voluntarily abstains from sex (both penetrative and oral) past like ~22 not basically guaranteed to have a lower libido and/or not value sex that much
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 11:50 PM
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*bangs head against wall repeatedly*
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 11:47 PM
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Were the nudes also a mouthful?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 11:46 PM
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Lmao this reminds me of the the funniest PPD comment I've ever seen, "Weaponized autism at its finest. Bro is a menace to society"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 11:06 PM
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Have the youth lost the art of no contact
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 10:21 PM
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through actions lots of women come off as promiscuous online wat
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 10:06 PM
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somehow this may be the most "I get zero women" comment you have ever made
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 10:03 PM
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But what I was saying that someone who wanted to have sex with as many people as possible will be able to do that more easily than ever before. I understand that's your point, and I disagree. For a woman that wanted casual sex in the past, she likely just went out with her friends to the bar or club and found a guy there. Casual sex used to be heavily driven by socialization, alcohol, drugs. Those things have dropped off a lot. Pre-AIDS epidemic, we weren't really aware of the sheer health impac…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 09:35 PM
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However, more women than ever before have had 30+ partners I don't agree that this is true. People used to be so much more social. And a big thing is that alcohol usage amongst young people has just plummeted, which leads to a significant drop in casual sex. Between 2004 and 2014, the number of bars in America decreased by 17%. From 2005 to 2015 the number of nightclubs in Britain decreased by 45%, and I have to imagine that America saw something similar. AFAIK covid only made these trends worse…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 09:22 PM
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I would simply have not left and told him
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 08:53 PM
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Situationship is just the gen z word for "it's complicated" (which was a facebook relationship status option!). Casual sex has also declined.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 08:51 PM
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...are they? I saw that one tiktok of the woman saying she has had 300 partners but that's the only thing that comes to mind. Usually it's men online that go on and on about women who have tons and tons of casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 08:40 PM
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Okay I'm going to make the assumption that you're young and western/American. The reality is that if a woman is making out with you, she's into it and you. She wants to be there. A lot of this "visceral desire" rhetoric comes from people pointing to LTR dead bedrooms and saying that the woman was never actually interested in the man. But the truth is that especially for millennials and gen z, a dead bedroom LTR started with passionate, frequent, adventurous sex. My 3 24 y/o closest friends are i…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 08:37 PM
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If you polled PPD men what's the chance that many would honest to god think that young women today are on average having more sex than young women a few decades ago
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 08:31 PM
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Hm yeah 7 average seems fair and definitely it's like some experience with casual sex in between LTRs. The whole "women ride the cock carousel till their 30s then settle" thing is so laughable
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 08:27 PM
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I think that's bullshit honestly, we way overestimate how much sex young people are having but casual sex and casual dating are way more common than that article makes it seem
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 08:10 PM
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So am I... Benni is a fit 6 ft white male...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 08:07 PM
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Yeah I'm not from a super conservative culture or anything so it seems like he just hasn't been able to find similarly conservative straight edge people. Like I know so many people in the US with my ethnic background and I genuinely can't name a single other one that doesn't drink. And from what he said, when he tried to date in our parent's country the women would just lie and portray themselves as never having done anything untoward or dated etc
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 08:03 PM
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I think a 6 ft fit white man could get laid decently easily in southeast asia without paying a fee tho
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 07:58 PM
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ohh I've heard the women are beautiful but have high standards in terms of money/treatment there
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 07:54 PM
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oh wtf sorry for some reason I thought you had said a while back that you were American, maybe mixed you up with someone else
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 07:52 PM
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agree like why not just go to a country where being white and tall has even more currency... or honestly a sugar baby works too
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 07:52 PM
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ok
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 07:49 PM
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I still don't see what this has to do with marriage and divorce. But if a couple is married and have decided they don't want kids, they'll generally opt for sterilization (like vasectomy) or IUD. Obviously it's different for like two randos hooking up
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 07:47 PM
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No... do you mean like getting pregnant by a man to get him to marry you...? that's not really a thing nowadays because there isn't a strong taboo against out of wedlock birth like there used to be
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 07:39 PM
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I believe I'm a catch on paper and a nightmare in person
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 07:30 PM
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he's a millionaire
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 07:29 PM
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It's worse because that's the first message *after* the first date...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 07:28 PM
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Oof
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 07:28 PM
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It wasn't a follow up, I told him to send a text after the date because they hadn't communicated at all afterwards
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 07:27 PM
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wtf is your advice for a guy after he goes on a first date then
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 07:27 PM
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oh true I didn't even think of this
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 07:26 PM
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Black market birth control, wealthy going to other countries to get long acting forms of birth control, huge increase in abortions, emigration
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 07:25 PM
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you can be held accountable for a child you didn't want to have in the first place This very clearly is generally not marriage related ...?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 07:24 PM
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Is there a trend in America to have children outside of marriages? Yes, and I am talking about divorce. American temporarily embarrassed millionaire syndrome is a disease
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 07:12 PM
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choppy choppy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 07:08 PM
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What did you say?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 07:07 PM
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I can name a hundred things women fear that have a low likelihood of happening. I'm not saying it's a low likelihood for any given person. I'm saying that for the majority of Americans it's impossible. particularly the problems I see is that you can be held accountable for a child you didn't want to have in the first place or that the woman can be encouraged to fight for a kid she doesn't want in order to get alimony from a particularly wealthy man These aren't divorce related...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 07:07 PM
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umc strivers yuhhh marriage as business model ya
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 06:59 PM
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In the past people who did not want to be married did so because of societal pressure. Same with having children
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 06:56 PM
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The vast majority of Americans are not "getting their daughter married"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 06:55 PM
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Doesn't this just mean that nowadays the people getting married are more likely to genuinely want to be married and are therefore less likely to get divorced Also, marriage comes with social status. Especially amongst higher socioeconomic classes and the highly educated.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 06:53 PM
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But you understand that you just described an extremely specific scenario, right? That the vast majority of Americans never see a significant growth in their earnings like that? That most Americans really do not have any significant assets by 30?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 06:51 PM
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Overdramatic opinion for most
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 06:49 PM
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I feel like 6 months afterwards is acceptable especially if the spouse did not die in a sudden, unexpected way
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 06:46 PM
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Then date and marry within your socioeconomic class, with a woman who has no interest in being a SAHM.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 06:44 PM
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What percent of single people under 35 have assets even worth talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 06:42 PM
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Yeah idk most people don't have any significant assets til like 30-35+
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 06:40 PM
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In the US 52% of wives with at least a bachelor's degree make at least 40% of the couple's combined income. 43% of wives who make $100k+ make at least 60% of the couple's combined income.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 06:37 PM
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Historically that's been true in terms of child custody. That is changing as states increasingly make joint custody or 50/50 custody the assumed split. Of course the situation is not perfect and it varies significantly by state. I don't see how splitting the marital assets in half = favoring women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 06:35 PM
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Yeah and people usually marry within their socioeconomic class and to people with similar education levels. And as a woman's education and income increases, she is more likely to be in a more financially equitable relationship. 52% of wives with at least a bachelor's degree make at least 40% of the couple's combined income. 43% of wives who make $100k+ make at least 60% of the couple's combined income. Plus, for more educated couples this whole thing is less relevant. Women with a bachelor's deg…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 06:32 PM
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My parent's culture has a huge taboo on divorce and I grew up thinking that one of the worst possible things life was divorce. And I kept hearing that 50% of American marriages end in divorce. Imagine my surprise when I learned that divorce rates have been trending down for decades. And that women with a bachelor's degree have a 78% chance of their marriage lasting at least 20 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 06:26 PM
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I think it's very interesting that the rhetoric around divorce is that men lose half of "their" stuff (as in marital assets get split down the middle), even though less than a quarter of marriages have a male sole breadwinner and 45% of marriages have the wife making at least 40% of the couple's combined income. Not getting to spend time with your kids, not getting 50/50 custody totally sucks. But splitting the marital assets in half just makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 06:11 PM
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jesus fucking christ
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 05:21 PM
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I don't think that if a relationship ends or goes down in flames, then the whole thing was worthless. Everything in life's a risk. Years of real love is still amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 05:15 PM
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men pay the penalties of divorce Can you expand on this? 10% of divorces in the US involve alimony. Less than 1/4 of American marriages have the man as the sole provider. In 45% of marriages, the wife makes at least 40% of the couple's combined income. I can understand historically it's been difficult to get adequate child custody, though I know states are moving towards more default joint custody. Overall my understanding is that unless one person stayed at home, money wise you usually keep you…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 05:12 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:34 PM
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another one saying women should divorce if she’s the one that’s unreliable and selfish in the marriage show me where I said this
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:26 PM
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what omg
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:24 PM
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Track record wise my ideal is 5 9. It's interesting, my roommate says that my cynicism actually just makes me overly impressed by guys who treat me alright because I expect so little
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:20 PM
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Ohhh that makes sense. Are you unsure if you want masters or phd? I guess to me it's like if masters will set you up well for your career goals, why not mostly focus on that https://docs.google.com/document/d/1udpjYAYftrZ1XUqt28MVUzj0bv86ClDY752PKrMaB5s/mobilebasic#id.v6oicusbpza3 My friend sent me this
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:18 PM
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Of course a woman whose husband hates her should leave. Assuming there aren't children under 18 in the equation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:12 PM
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I guess I just don't feel this way about life. If the first however many years were real committed love, it was still worthwhile even if it goes down in flames. That's how I feel about my first love. All just part of the ride
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:11 PM
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I hope their wives divorce them then
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:09 PM
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It depends on the program you're going into. You're doing clin psych, yes? My friends who applied for that this past year took the GRE. If you are even somewhat likely to apply to a program that currently requires it, then plan to take it. My understanding is that clin psych phds are brutally competitive. Are you not going to take a gap year tho? My friends took at least 1 and almost all took 2
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:07 PM
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weird to be that judgemental to your first kiss. I think this type of thing is more common than many realize.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:04 PM
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close enuf
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:02 PM
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holy fuck. worst possible response you could've given. wasn't expecting this at all. I'm sad now. please please don't tell me you're actually married to a woman you'd describe as "unreliable, selfish, entitled"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 03:57 PM
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Depends. To a tradcon? Fuck no. I'm looksmaxxing rn but photofeeler rated me a 7 so prob actually 6.5. I'm excited to be a mother and am confident I'll be a good one. Planning to get better at cooking but I'll pay to outsource a lot of household chores so that's a little neither here nor there. "Low body count" esp with men by this sub's standards. Mutual babying is my ideal relationship dynamic. But I plan to work full time and I care deeply about my career. I'll only go for a man who's very in…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 03:54 PM
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I just don't understand how a married man can say something like "how fickle, unreliable, selfish and entitled women are" but I guess you just see your wife as an exception to the rule?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 03:37 PM
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Does that negate the worth of the first 30+ years? And also that's not necessarily true
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 03:34 PM
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i am once again asking, are you not literally married
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 03:33 PM
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most people will cheat after decades This isn't true especially when you look at the health of older americans...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 03:24 PM
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I don't think I fully believed in love until I met my roommate/close friend last year. She and her boyfriend have been together for years, through ups and downs, and the sheer joy they clearly feel when they're around each other is incredible to see. The banter, the playful insults, all of it. In high school and college I was around a lot of people dating but they were such shit relationships. Put me off dating completely
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 03:23 PM
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I'm not sure about phobias. For neuroticism tho I definitely disagree that it's significantly more common in either men or women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 03:07 PM
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I'm not Muslim. There is no cultural norm amongst people in my culture to not drink, not even in the home country. He's not even super religious or anything, just unbelievably sheltered with little history of socialization
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 03:04 PM
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Copied from another comment: he's so judgemental and passive aggressive. I think I'm particularly sensitive to it because we're the same ethnic background (like exact same, same dialect). stupid comments about me drinking alcohol, me smoking weed, how he doesn't have any habits that he wouldn't want his <insert our ethnicity here> parents to know about. and then he'll make stupid "jokes" about me not responding to his texts fast enough I should've cut him off faster but I guess I saw him as a br…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 02:43 PM
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he's so judgemental and passive aggressive. I think I'm particularly sensitive to it because we're the same ethnic background (like exact same, same dialect). stupid comments about me drinking alcohol, me smoking weed, how he doesn't have any habits that he wouldn't want his <insert our ethnicity here> parents to know about. and then he'll make stupid "jokes" about me not responding to his texts fast enough I should've cut him off faster but I guess I saw him as a broken baby bird that just need…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 02:40 PM
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stop
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 02:35 PM
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We ended up being able to move forward physically, cuddle kiss etc. But it's the stupid, shitty things he has said to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 02:33 PM
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Men here tend underestimate the impact of social status IMO
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 02:23 PM
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hey
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 02:21 PM
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This is the 25 year old I took the kissginity of. I might go into it more later but very mentally exhausted rn
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 02:21 PM
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Someone should do a case study on the guy I was going on a few dates with, investigate how a man can just absolutely crush a woman's attraction to him
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 02:15 PM
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Phobias of all kind: for spiders, lizards, cockroaches, which are just stupid but can be ignored. Then there are women phobic of PUBLIC TRANSPORT or making a fucking phone call. Neuroticism: women afraid of saying no, of standing their ground, of asking questions, of asking direction, who feel ugly, fat, useless, and who let that affect their decision making, who really can't survive on their own, and who expect men to cater around it. The fact that you think these things are gendered is hilario…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 02:11 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 01:55 PM
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I think it's a lie that women are only attracted to the top 10-20% of men. Also, just so we're clear, I'm responding to a guy who interprets a woman declining a 3rd drink on a decently long first date and not messaging first afterwards as equal to lack of attraction and rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 01:35 PM
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I think it's a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 01:33 PM
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It’s an issue when the top 10-20% are the only men women are attracted to. False.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 01:30 PM
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90% of your comments are just complaining about not being treated like the most attractive 10% of men
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 01:23 PM
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Irrelevant because OOP isn’t sending “show Bob and vagene”, I'm not talking about shit like this, I'm talking about rudeness and putdowns within actual conversations. I don't even know how you jumped to that conclusion. Talk about bad faith
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 01:02 PM
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I would try for a bit then bail if nothing changes. In my experience if the chemistry isn't there, that's my subconscious picking up on issues / our lack of compatibility
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 01:01 PM
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Eh the term narcissist is wildly overused nowadays. I didn't give nearly enough info to come to that conclusion
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 12:58 PM
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Honestly I think my friend actively attracts men who are like that. The guy being somewhat reliant on her helps her self esteem and security in the relationship I think. For my friends I just attract people who grew up with shitty home lives. Tend to attract workaholics too
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 12:54 PM
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Yeah it's a mix. I do think there's a sampling bias because men who seek out relationships at a young age and serial daters are more likely to solely rely on their GF for emotional support IMO
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 12:52 PM
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Someone's never seen the tiktok slideshows of the shit women get sent on OLD
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 12:50 PM
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It's not uncommon to have a short free session to check compatibility. I had that with my therapist last year
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 12:49 PM
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Not really relevant in my circles
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 12:37 PM
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There are non CBT therapists……
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 12:11 PM
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Touching grass is about reconnecting with the real world, not picking up women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 12:11 PM
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No it went decently and they chatted for an hour or 2. She declined a 3rd drink, the vibe “wasn’t sexual”, and she didn’t message first after the date. He took that as rejection
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 12:09 PM
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(From what he’s said, she didn’t reject him. She didn’t reach out first after the date, and he took that as a rejection)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 12:08 PM
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Re: the therapist thing. I mean think about it logically, if women lean more heavily on their networks and friends for emotional support, then there’ll be many (but not nearly all) cases where the man needs to lean on the woman more heavily for support. I don’t know if this happens in older people but I’ve definitely seen it in my age group. As my friend said soon after entering her 3rd and current relationship, “every guy our age is depressed” I’ve also seen a lot of cases where the woman is pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 12:03 PM
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Rejection has exactly nothing to do with dead bedrooms Honestly inexperienced people can still def contribute to conversations about dead bedrooms if they’ve observed their friends relationships and taken note of what generally drives DBs
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 11:49 AM
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Do you live under a rock away from any people who have sex? And if what you’re saying is true then why have I had sex with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:52 AM
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You’re rapidly rising the ranks in most pathetic PPD men. You really stuck your landing with your whole cuckold fantasy and obsession with black men
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:50 AM
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Brain rot
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:46 AM
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Dead link
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:45 AM
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The amount of pressure preferred does vary widely between women but that’s easy to change
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:44 AM
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So you are trolling
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:41 AM
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Are you not indian and a surgeon or smth Why can’t you just looksmaxx a bit and get an arranged marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:41 AM
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And yet women who have sex with women are highly likely to orgasm
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:39 AM
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Nope the clit is decently sized with both internal and external parts
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:38 AM
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Eh I’ve had sex with a few women and generally skills for like oral and fingering do transfer. You just modify a bit based on their preferences
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:35 AM
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You can’t bulk swipe on Hinge, you get 8 likes a day. You can pay for more but a small minority of users pay
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:33 AM
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Oh fuck off they’re not characterizing “wanting a family” as that and you know it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:31 AM
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The clit is not an accident. The clit and the glans of the penis (the tip) are embryological equivalents. They are literally derived from the same structure during fetal development. The clit is also large, with both external and internal parts, and the internal part can be stimulated from internal vaginal pressure.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:30 AM
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Wut
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:20 AM
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It’s involved in sex as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:19 AM
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I grew up in middle America, not super religious but not atheist. I would say I grew up with the idea that masturbation was generally a male thing. Desiring sex, enjoying sex, all that was for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:17 AM
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They don’t exist obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:12 AM
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Your last paragraph… what 😀😀
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:07 AM
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It’s kinda funny that you linked TwoX and the top post right now is a woman talking about losing her virginity last night and how amazing it was and how great her boyfriend is Also, your paragraph about the clit… thank you for the laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 03:58 AM
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Ehhh you can wait till you've had sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 03:26 AM
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I don't think sexual inexperience matters that much, especially under ~25. Picking up the basics comes quickly. My friends who had sex with experienced guys seemed to have a terrible time. Eh taking it to the opposite extreme doesn't make sense either As long as you're attracted, passionate about each other, good at communicating and willing to learn with each other - your sex life will be great. This just isn't true imo. There are so many fundamental incompatibilities you can have with someone …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 03:23 AM
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explain band kid phenomenon then
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 01:43 AM
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despite what (some) men here like to claim, the vast majority of women marry within their own socioeconomic class. so a woman in poverty would marry a man with basically nothing. afaik people in poverty also have lower marriage rates and higher divorce rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 01:22 AM
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serious mental health problems and/or addictions reading helps
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 01:05 AM
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can't the same be said of an inkwell who hasn't semi-dumpster dived
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 01:04 AM
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oh my god you solved addiction
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 01:03 AM
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I kid, I kid. Y’all aren’t so different from us. It does seem like yalls college experience is closer to that of Europeans than ours, tho
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 12:06 AM
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I feel that if a man views himself as an inkwell but has not tried to semi-dumpster dive, then we should invalidate him
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 12:05 AM
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Wut then why not just travel to different countries and see where you’d have higher SMV as a tall white guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 12:03 AM
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Yuck
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 12:01 AM
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Okay, I guess as long as you’re getting regular periods and not having hair loss/thinning. And no headaches or brain fog
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:50 PM
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🫣 are you an MIT boi But yeah that’s roughhh. Especially if you’re not in a city with an abundance of other college students
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:49 PM
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Are you the one who was talking about wanting to get a summer body + do treadmill…? You’re like 2 pounds from clinically underweight
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:46 PM
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Damn, STEM school with more men than women?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:43 PM
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How tall are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:43 PM
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Damn. That sucks
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:39 PM
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I mean ofc the vibe wasn’t sexual it was a first date… and many people won’t go for a third drink on a first date, that’s a little hookup-y. Also personally I do not generally talk about “do we want to do this again” in person during the first date. And many women will not message first after a date — they view that as the man’s task. She didn’t unmatch you, right? So at least it didn’t go badly. I think you should send a short message. Just a I had a nice time, we should do it again, maybe __ (…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:38 PM
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Oh. Relatively social school ? College is like the single easiest environment to not rely on apps
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:30 PM
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What do you think the complex is
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:27 PM
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An hour or 2? That sounds good for a first date. Were you both able to chat somewhat freely, joke a bit, or did it feel pretty awkward?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:27 PM
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Hmm and I’m assuming you got basically zero likes? I feel like the rub is that apps basically don’t work for guys below 5 8, but it’s so hard to build social circles post college Also I just realized that I made a comment to you a few days ago about social status that was entirely college centric. Totally forgot you already graduated. Whoops
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:15 PM
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How was your date sir
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:10 PM
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If we’re defining chad as 8+ I doubt it… Btw unrelated are you in college?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:08 PM
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I def believe that being both below 5 8 and black makes it very rough. I’m guessing even putting 5 7 wouldn’t actually help. Did you basically send likes and never/almost never match?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:07 PM
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Then why do some guys here get dates through apps
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:04 PM
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Everyone? Also did they not have eyes/any observation skills in like middle school? Or even elementary tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:03 PM
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Hinge racial filters are a godsend tbh especially for women who aren’t as in to white men. Tinder just feels like an endless exercise in swiping on white men. Also people keep saying this about Hinge but you can’t filter for height with a free Hinge account. I don’t think it’s common for women to pay. And tbh at least in my age range easily more than half of guys are listing their height on Tinder
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:02 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/Tinder/s/uIRbhiQ5eA Various people talking about Hinge vs Tinder results. Some say neither worked, some say Hinge is better. I do think for people in my age range you have to be near a city for Hinge tho
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:00 PM
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Obviously there are shitty and/or very selective women on every app like be fr
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:56 PM
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Wasn’t Dahmer gay…?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:51 PM
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Some men need a whole ideology to teach them that looks matter, I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:47 PM
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Underweight is definitely a thing with negative health impact … but it’s a lower weight than most Americans would imagine IMO
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:27 PM
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At dive bars I feel like it’s more effective to just talk to people
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:26 PM
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It’s just the ‘tism
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:24 PM
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Heck yeah second round’s better anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 08:33 PM
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I think we underestimate the impact of health overall for dead bedrooms. Fat cells also have an enzyme called aromatase which lowers testosterone levels in both men and women by converting it to estrogen
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 08:02 PM
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Yeah this. Normie pill doesn’t make sense for your preferred demographics
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 06:33 PM
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Decent natural features that are being obscured by excess weight. Particularly with jaw and cheek definition. Not sure how I feel about the beard/mustache combo. I think playing around with facial hair styles and grooming is the move. Long hair is not a negative for your preferred demographic. At all. But you have to take care of it. There are good subreddits for this. I imagine you’d benefit from adding a conditioner. Hair care is tough for some people tho (including me) so if you can’t take ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 06:32 PM
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As much as I like the club, party bus is even better
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 06:12 PM
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Do you know if she’s kissed anyone before?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 06:03 PM
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Hmm I think this is sometimes true. More often I’ve noticed an inertia, couples staying together when their relationship has run its course. I think that’s not so understandable at my age, but with kids + mortgage it’s a different ball game
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 05:59 PM
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One big thing is how often you want sex. And that can’t be found out until you have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 05:57 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 05:56 PM
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I was using 2 methods and still couldn’t control the panic
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 05:55 PM
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There is a difference between “I don’t find that person attractive” and “I think that average looking male is actually at the bottom of male looks”.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 05:54 PM
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Like they’re fundamentally incompatible? In what way ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 05:53 PM
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I agree with what you’re saying. But imo low to no initial attraction is not commonly the reason. Especially amongst millennial and gen z couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 05:52 PM
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Heavily agree that both libido and sexual attraction are fickle. From my observations, that attraction was absolutely there to begin with and the sex life was good, especially with younger couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 05:50 PM
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What do you mean lived experience in this context?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 05:48 PM
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What causes them?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 05:47 PM
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A lot of this sub’s rhetoric is fueled by inexperienced people who don’t at all understand what causes dead bedrooms, and experienced people who are lying about what dead bedrooms relationships actually look like (usually).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 09:44 AM
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The stress over possible pregnancy was nearly paralyzing for at least a year after I started having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 09:39 AM
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Wut? There are so many other reasons dead bedrooms can happen. Still important to establish the compatibility at the get go. It just doesn’t guarantee continued passionate and frequent sex til death.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 09:37 AM
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What’s wrong with her eyes? Also why haven’t you been permabanned yet for racism
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 09:36 AM
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Makeup+filtering+editing effect*
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 09:36 AM
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That’s how they why do you think that OkCupid profiles from 15 years ago show a distribution of men’s photos that actually follow a bell curve? Especially when we know that men love to put up pictures from fishing or shitty group photos. And we know from photofeeler that photo presentation, cropping, etc, has a strong impact on how attractive the person is perceived
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 09:25 AM
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It’s partially a symptom of other issues in the relationship that have strained intimacy, and it’s partially health/mental health related. One of the guys struggles with depression and it lowers his sex drive. He and his gf have both gained weight and I feel like it makes them less willing to be naked/have sex. Another friend of mine (not one of the 3 I initially mentioned) was in a close to dead bedroom for some time because of her bf’s depression (not a medication, but the depression itself) b…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 09:16 AM
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Look up the kama sutra
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 08:54 AM
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You realize that condoms were a thing far before the pill, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 07:40 AM
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So you’re 20? I feel like I could’ve guessed that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 07:27 AM
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Nope not what it means
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 07:05 AM
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Your last sentence is one of the single biggest issues I have with Red Pill rhetoric because it is so far from reality. Most dead bedrooms are couples that began with a good, passionate sex life. Then other issues got in the way. All 3 of my 24 y/o best friends are in dead bedroom LTRs. Their sex lives were initially passionate, frequent, and experimental (women tell their friends a lottt about their sex life). The reality is that pretty few women are getting into LTRs that begin with duty sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 07:04 AM
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Maybe they are giving IOIs
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 06:40 AM
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Wait what? I’m not talking about rape at all. I’m talking about general nonsobriety like being tipsy. Ok you can look into what exactly drives casual sex. Casual sex has been declining for decades, and studies have found a significant part of this decline is explained by how young people are drinking less. You completely misunderstood my comment. I’m not saying a ONS while not sober doesn’t count. I’m saying that it doesn’t make much sense to believe that a ONS is due to greater attraction. Not …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 06:08 AM
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Sidestepped the question I see
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 05:57 AM
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Never worked/been on an inpatient psych unit apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 05:34 AM
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Why would ONS be the guy a woman is actually attracted to if most ONS are fueled by nonsobriety
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 05:28 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 05:16 AM
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I believe that the obsession with anal sex amongst straight people in the last several years is almost entirely porn based
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 12:01 AM
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Fuck I hope she resurrects Smh what was she even banned for
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 11:58 PM
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Men will never know the joy of wearing little, going to the club, screaming and jumping along to Kanye, and getting late night food. That is female privilege
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 11:57 PM
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Nooo we need J__
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 11:54 PM
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Why d8 instead of d9?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 11:44 PM
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It seems like American white women are tough on white men below 5 8/5 9. Probably have to go for women of color but if you’re in rural America that’s tough
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 11:41 PM
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If you’re white, I wish you luck. If you’re Asian and in a reasonably diverse area you got this dating wise
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 11:36 PM
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Huh you’re older than I would’ve guessed
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 11:34 PM
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5 7?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 11:33 PM
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Tiktok algorithm finally picked up on the mommy issues I’m finished
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 11:32 PM
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We’re like 5 days without __. Oppression fr
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 11:21 PM
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And nerdy men want attractive women who are not nerdy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 11:10 PM
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Lobotomies have been a meme for like a year at least keep up
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 10:23 PM
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I believe that many nerdy women want nerdy men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 10:15 PM
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My life would improve if I got banned from here for a bit
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 10:15 PM
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Really? Huh
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 10:14 PM
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False.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 09:58 PM
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…ew
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 09:56 PM
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Only true for men below 5 7 or with a micro penis
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 09:46 PM
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Ok. But you’ll still be low n count w a high n count woman
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 09:44 PM
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I wish you a very high n count gf who lies
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 09:33 PM
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I feel that probably women have little sympathy for this sort of thinking because we learn how important looks are for all parts of our life by like 13
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 09:33 PM
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White was def one of thwm
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 09:27 PM
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I think you can rule out a person within 1 second but not rule out them in
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 09:25 PM
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That’s fair. I still wouldn’t characterize that as being loved simply for who you are
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 08:50 PM
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What? There’s a million ways someone can settle outside of looks. Income is the obvious one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 08:40 PM
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Well clearly you don’t deserve better
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 08:26 PM
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Looks is cope. Unconditional love only exists from a parent. And yet, all other forms of love are real and worthwhile.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 08:26 PM
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Then go for an overweight woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 07:45 PM
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Lord and a half. No one is unconditionally loved, loved just for who they are. That’s life. Romantic love is inherently conditional and transactional.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 07:39 PM
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That it’s over unless you’re genetically gifted with top 10 percentile height and whatever amount of bone in your jaw ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 07:30 PM
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Wtf then why are you blackpill
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 07:23 PM
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So how into hamilton were you in hs
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 07:02 PM
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That is a complete misunderstanding of the madonna whore complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 06:53 PM
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What about sexual stuff other than PIV? Aren’t you jumping the gun a bit, especially if you’re young? Like there’s so so many ways a woman can show her desire for you before you work your way up to sex or after you’ve started having it. Like why just assume a woman will never be enthusiastic about getting with you? At least at my age there is no epidemic of women having duty sex with their boyfriend or just laying there and tolerating the proceedings while he does whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 06:15 PM
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Have you had sex with a woman before…? Did you feel like she wasn’t that into it?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 05:48 PM
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Are you trying to tell me that you think most women do not enjoy sex with their boyfriend before they’re in love? 😀😀😀
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 05:47 PM
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What about early on before they’re in love… yknow, the phase of the relationship where people tend to have the most sex……
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 05:38 PM
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I feel like this isn’t what he’s saying tho, he said visceral desire specifically
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 05:36 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 05:36 PM
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I actually can’t tell if you’re being serious or not
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 05:34 PM
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He’s not looking for sympathy he’s just looking to shit on black men
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 05:31 PM
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They’re just c0ping.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 05:21 PM
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What does this even mean bruh you think you’re never going to get enthusiastic sex from a woman who’s really into it and you? You think a woman you’re dating will never jump you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 05:20 PM
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Aren’t you American? Theres literally no chance this is true
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 04:57 PM
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If you show up to a date drunk or even pretty tipsy that is not going to be a positive first impression at all……..
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 04:42 PM
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If you’re white and blaming your race for your lack of sex appeal, you’re pathetic. Dating market on easy mode and you still can’t win, what does that say about you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 04:36 PM
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And there it is
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 04:34 PM
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Get better in what way
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 04:34 PM
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My opinion yeah but I’ll poll my friends and see what they say
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 04:23 PM
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Because it inevitably devolves into anti-black racism
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 04:18 PM
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Why don’t you just change your height on your online profiles and see if that’s actually what’s holding you back? Tho relying on the apps is never the move overall (esp Tinder)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 04:07 PM
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Obviously a woman should not say this directly to her boyfriend. I mean generally when women talk about the concept of boyfriend dick, I understand why guys still feel bad about it but it’s just overblown. Nooo the second time on a given day is better anyways and it would be annoying to have to limit the number of days a week
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 04:04 PM
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Biggest whore I knew in college was 5’9” (maybe half an inch less), 8 face, muscular
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 03:43 PM
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That doesn’t seem like a good analogy to me because a bigger dick = more sore = not able to have sex as often. Weight doesn’t have that direct impact
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 03:40 PM
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Jfc
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 03:34 PM
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Like he was planning on killing his parents??
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 03:31 PM
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Obviously it’s idiotic to say that to a bf’s face but I do feel like men do a little too much over the whole “boyfriend dick” thing. Like one of my friends recently had her first hookup and she was saying that his was bigger than she was expecting, she was kinda into it but no way she could ever date a guy like that. (For context she’s a 1-3x a day in LTR type.) It kinda just makes sense that closer to average is preferable for a relationship idk
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 03:26 PM
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Not popular per se but I would say I was a known entity in college (smallish school). There’s so many ways to gain social status in college tho. The obvious ones are dance teams and social frats (not just greek life, also engineering and business frats as long as they’re social). Cultural orgs were a big one at my school, very popular. Some guys who were particularly skilled in cooking would host dinner parties. Intramural sports can def work especially if the club exposes you to a variety of wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 03:13 PM
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There’s so much more to college than your primary major tho like taking different classes to gain broad knowledge, research, clubs, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 03:04 PM
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Glasses frames are super super easy to change tho. And yeah I think it’d be fair to sit down, get situated, take them off for a bit if you can function like that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 02:52 PM
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Hopefully I’ll be able to sidestep it once hot girl summer starts in 3 weeks
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 02:51 PM
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Honestly I’m even not sure what the pink pill is. I’ve looked at the RP women sub and it looks like a bunch of women who’ve lost their damn mind, they think they can submit so hard they’ll get a good life My ex was a unicorn in terms of us being able to discuss gender but also he was able to push back when be didn’t agree with me
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 02:51 PM
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Do you need glasses while sitting right next to her? Like how bad is your eyesight
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 02:48 PM
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Unless you’re talking about debt rather than the education itself, skill issue
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 02:47 PM
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Yes, a big question is why did she marry a man who utterly ignores all her attempts at communication for better sex. The obvious root of all this is the childhood sexual assault. Based on her post history I also think there’s a decent chance she’s a lesbian and has simply never enjoyed sex with men. I don’t think refusing penetration is the move. She was definitely right to get a vibrator.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 02:47 PM
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Are you the person that claims your academic focus in hs and also your undergrad education was all for naught
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 02:35 PM
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Is it the one wirh Mnkeybrain labs as the developer?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 02:21 PM
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Pink pill fuel fr
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 02:14 PM
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Point to where I said all that. I very clearly said that he linked this post and focused on 1 things which blatantly ignoring all the salient issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 02:13 PM
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Hmmm
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 01:11 PM
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I’m saying a 6/10 34 year old would look worse. At least in America
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 01:07 PM
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If I have always viewed guys as a means to an end for making a family does that mean I’m broken ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 01:06 PM
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am just a woman but IMO gain social status
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 01:05 PM
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It’s just not worth talking about SA and rape with the men here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 01:03 PM
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Lack sex appeal too, apparently
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 12:52 PM
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Re: your second sentence - oh yeah that’s weird of her to complain about
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 12:23 PM
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That’s what you focused on? Not the childhood sexual abuse? Not the fact that she’s never had an orgasm with someone else? Not the fact that he’s never fingered her or touched her clit, not even at the beginning of the relationship? This sub is going to push me towards pink pill ffs
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 12:06 PM
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College/university/ after high school
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 11:48 AM
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If we can figure out undergrad education (and appropriately funnel people to trades) and even just somewhat improve primary healthcare, America >> Europe
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 11:40 AM
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So you… deliberately misunderstood the post?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 11:18 AM
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That’s not what she’s saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 09:36 AM
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“Women can’t contain themselves” no. Women who want casual sex go on tinder, see a hot guy, and ask him for casual sex. Simple as
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 09:36 AM
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What did u say
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 09:35 AM
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You think that’s what a 6/10 34 year old looks like? Hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 09:32 AM
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Actually these comments are crazy, I looked her up and she hardly looks different now. Too skinny tho
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 09:30 AM
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She’s attached to him and cares about him But also she has attachment issues, possible self esteem and boundary issues
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 09:21 AM
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Asking the real questions
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 09:12 AM
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Nah just in europe rn
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 01:55 AM
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I mean for sure there’s an angle and positioning bias, but I don’t really agree that that type of change is impossible. She clearly put on fat and muscle, and her thighs grew. The photo of her in sweatpants is pretty believable. Her ass is also giving built by muscle + shelf growth
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 01:55 AM
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No true scotsman vibes
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 01:52 AM
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And men are more likely than women to leave if their spouse gets cancer…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 01:42 AM
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Oh it wasn’t a man who said 15 BMI, it was a pink pill woman who said that. And then someone else started talking about cheetos idk
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 01:37 AM
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Went to the club, had my tipsy food, about to call it a night 🫶
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 01:36 AM
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https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTLVrnnW9/ https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTLVrn79g/ https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTLVrTLQB/
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 01:34 AM
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I know you’re not talking
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 01:13 AM
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Like 4 comments up or smth
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 01:12 AM
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Men generally don’t have a good understanding of women’s weight. My old trainer used to say that guys would guess she was like 150 lbs and she would respond “what, in my ass?”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 01:08 AM
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No desire to. Currently scheming to put on some weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 01:05 AM
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Imagine thinking cutting mountain dew and cheetos results in 15 BMI
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 01:00 AM
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A 5’5” or 5’6” woman does not look like this at 150 lbs.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 12:58 AM
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5’9” men are whores
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 12:55 AM
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… pure… and … innocent ? 😀😀 backs away slowly
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 12:36 AM
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This is why there’s a sound on tiktok that’s like “if literally everything men do gives you the ick, you are a lesbian” except it’s a song and it’s vibey
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 09:14 PM
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Then maybe you should find the woman in this post and get her bf to break up with her
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 09:12 PM
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I’m not sure. This does remind me of Diane from Bojack Horseman tho
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 09:11 PM
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If you care about fat women then why don’t you date one and personally support her through weight loss?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 09:08 PM
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Actually, I forgot to include a part of what he said. He said people that didn’t go through adversity at a young age, and were given unconditional support and love by their parents. I’m not sure. All I know if that basically everyone gets slapped in the face by life at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 09:07 PM
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My friend and I discussed this a few years ago. He was saying that people who don’t go through some form of adversity at a pretty young age (which often looks like a difficult home life), they end up getting a very rude awakening later in life. Often through the first form of adversity they face - dating. Heartbreak, rejection, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 09:03 PM
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Chaddd
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:57 PM
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This is the reality that most people should inherently understand by their teen years.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:55 PM
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The impact of gaining muscle would be pretty minimal on abdominal loose skin, especially the amount that many women have after multiple pregnancies + losing the weight. Somewhat effective for like legs but not really there
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:54 PM
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Are you jealous that she’s cuffed and you’re not
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:52 PM
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I don’t understand why many here are so obsessed with unconditional love and relationships. It only exists from a parent to their child, and even that is pretty finicky
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:50 PM
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Really? Like a college library or a public one? Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:42 PM
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Dog park if he has a cute dog
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:42 PM
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Why did she single out copper IUD specifically
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:41 PM
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I wouldn’t even know what he did, I would be screaming too loudly and running in the opposite direction
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:40 PM
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This guy fs woulve been cuffed at my hs, assuming he’s 5 8+. So many nerds and theater kids, good times
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:19 PM
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I mean the mental health professionals suspect it but I won’t pursue a formal diagnosis
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:55 PM
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I thought lanky meant thin men esp tall ones
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:53 PM
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Yeahh I dunno I have to imagine that getting to normal BMI is the single most effective non-surgical glowup
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:53 PM
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Oh bs. A 6’3” skinny ish man with lean muscle would absolutely be viewed as lanky in a positive way
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:39 PM
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I dunno he’s just got to find the theatre girlies
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:35 PM
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Do you think you would benefit from losing weight? Just bc like the lanky look is pretty well liked
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:19 PM
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Can I say something kinda mean
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:17 PM
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Do you get full from 1 egg 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:17 PM
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Wut? That guy is literally cute
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:16 PM
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A paid internship the summer before she starts college is unnecessary. Shadowing can also be done over smaller breaks where a paid internship isn’t possible. I disagree that shadowing is boring. For fields that I like, shadowing made me feel so alive. For stuff I didn’t like, I didn’t like shadowing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:14 PM
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I know a lot of well educated successful men and they are all dating American raised women. And immigrant men do in fact date American women. Off the top of my head I can think of a few people my age whose parents are an immigrant man and an American woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:06 PM
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No. Too bulky. Some lean muscle is good but this is way too much
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:00 PM
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Tummy tuck results can actually look pretty decent especially for someone who has a lot of loose skin from multiple pregnancies and losing the weight
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:59 PM
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ONS for the sake of upping notch count is cringey but I don’t thinking having like 2 FWBs and the occasional ONS is
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:57 PM
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Would def recommend shadowing a dentist for a week. Would recommend several hours for at least 3 days
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:55 PM
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10% of divorces have alimony involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:42 PM
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😭
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:53 PM
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Maybe not 30 but 25 - breakfast sandwich with protein bread or English muffin, egg, cheese, sausage patty
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:14 PM
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booo
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 04:13 PM
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But obviously only Chad gets non-duty sex
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 03:57 PM
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But obviously only chads get non-duty sex
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 03:51 PM
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Yup. When looking at all ages, 24% of partnered LGB people report meeting their SO through OLD. Vs 9% of straight people.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 03:49 PM
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Chill but a manwhore, low earner and does hard drugs/is a stoner
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 03:25 PM
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Starbucks is a terrible date. Plenty of other good $20 date ideas
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 03:20 PM
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A majority of couples are meeting through OLD 28% of partnered Gen Z men say they met their partner online. And that’s online overall, not just OLD
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 03:07 PM
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Never beating the homosexual allegations
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 03:00 PM
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I have to imagine that young men who’ve been in jail end up being screwed
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 02:58 PM
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Is it the trap porn
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 02:53 PM
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My life was better before I read the words “sex doll brothel”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 02:51 PM
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I follow some dermatologists on tiktok and I’ve never heard this. I have heard that you shouldn’t use it as a teenager. I do think it makes way more sense to start with something less potent like benzoyl peroxide or salicylic acid + lifestyle changes like sleep hygiene and water intake. Then working up to more potent actives depending on results
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 02:50 PM
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Yeah I was going to say, your look isn’t really preferred for the blonde/blue eyes/tanned type, but with just a bit of effort I’m inclined to think a significant amount of women would find you pretty attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 02:42 PM
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Skincare too! If your skin isn’t too dry then retinol or vitamin c are good options. Retinol’s particularly effective tho it has a period of worse skin at the beginning
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 02:39 PM
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Ok I’ll address the above comment later but sir are is your profile pic you
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 02:33 PM
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I’m in a field where I will be people-facing. Good grooming and health are definitely valued in my field.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 02:06 PM
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That doesn’t make sense unless we’re talking about the small minority of people with truly unfortunate features. Or men that are very short. Looksmaxxing is way more than a hair cut. First and foremost to me it’s fitness - losing weight and putting on a bit of muscle. Then clearing skin, making hair healthy with flattering style, grooming facial hair, dressing well, fashionable glasses, jewelry, makeup, sleep, water intake, etc. Clothes and hair are difficult for me but I think for most people m…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 02:04 PM
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Men here tell us over and over that a tinder match + hookup does not mean those men will date us or like us as people
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 01:45 PM
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Honestly I don’t understand why everyone doesn’t looksmaxx at least somewhat. The benefits are endless even outside dating. Almost all of my high school friends, male and female, put in effort to glow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 01:42 PM
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Ok so basically equal
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 01:38 PM
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https://www.statista.com/statistics/233154/us-poverty-rate-by-gender/ Looks like women outnumber men in poverty in the US, particularly amongst the 18-34 age group. This makes sense to me because of the number of young single moms
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 01:33 PM
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Oh. Why not just looksmaxx?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 01:29 PM
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What about poverty overall?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 01:28 PM
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FA?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 01:27 PM
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Settled for even if you’re talking about women in their early-mid 20s? What do you mean tho? Somehow the 20% is an assortment of men independent of their traits like looks? It’s not actually top men? The obvious conclusion from what I’m saying is that more than just the objective top 20% of men are desirable to women — because obviously the 5’9”+ hot guy is desirable to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 01:23 PM
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Did you really not get my joke bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 01:18 PM
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Noooo only 666 men get sex!! Low value men don’t!!! That’s why people with low income have the least amount of children!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 01:16 PM
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Yes, the rule is that 80% of women are only attracted to 20% of men. That means the remaining 80% of men only get scraps. If these groups have many women who are posting mediocre men that are dating/hooking up with multiple women, however, then the rule must not be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 01:07 PM
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Doesn’t this just play into my point, nonWestern countries aren’t some utopia
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 01:03 PM
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Speak for yourself half the women my age I know have kettles
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 01:02 PM
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LOL Men who make memes like this have absolutely no real understanding of the standards and behaviors of non white women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 12:03 PM
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He made his actual argument in the feminism thread. He believes that women are hypocrites if they say they are feminists/are pro-equality but also like being submissive in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 12:02 PM
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Oh wait, I remember you. You're the one who claims that women who like to be submissive in bed can't be feminists. Complete brain rot
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 12:01 PM
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That's ridiculous. So if a 22 year old man who's overweight, average height, average income is hooking up with a woman, he must be top 20%? That makes no sense
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 12:00 PM
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Top 20% income is objective. Anyone making let's say 50k or below is objectively not top 20%. Many of the men posted in these groups are overweight Would you claim that he's top 20%? What about obese men? What about a man that's 5'9"?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 11:37 AM
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I'm a young woman who finds the idea of going for a man more than 5 years older than me disgusting. Even 4-5 years older is pushing it unless the guy looks younger. The vast majority of my friends prefer men our age.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 11:34 AM
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How? Is someone tying you down and forcing you to listen? Or are you actively seeking out this content on social media?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 11:27 AM
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You think men who are dumped don't do the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 11:20 AM
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No one gives a shit about 21 and 25 in the real world. My 20 year old sister is currently dating a 25 y/o and no one even blinked.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 11:19 AM
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Go to horny jail
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 11:18 AM
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No one. No one lied to him. He saw a post online and got mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 11:17 AM
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Oh, please. Be serious. gangbangs every weekend uh huh. claim you are a virtuous Madonna who chafes at the very thought of nontraditional nonprocreative sex outside the wedlock What century are you in? Are you not Western and in your 20s? Who tf is claiming this in your age group?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 11:16 AM
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they're not. many are fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 11:14 AM
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dw we'll do some investigative journalism and show how many of the men posted in these groups are not top 20% looks and income wise
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 11:14 AM
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From what I know of these groups, most of the men are very far from top 20% income wise
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 11:00 AM
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Just sent a join request to the group for my city. I'll post pictures of similar looking men/ give descriptions to show that many of these men are hardly top 20%.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 10:59 AM
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What are we defining as decent here? Average income of 60k cannot support a home in the suburbs with the current loan interest rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 10:35 AM
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So true trad women don’t care at all about how much money their sole provider makes
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 10:31 AM
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Ah yes, the two types of women. Virgins and OF.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 10:26 AM
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I mean, I think wanting a house to raise children in is a reasonable trad expectation. And that takes more than just 1 “decent” salary nowadays
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 10:10 AM
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I should’ve included the /s
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 10:08 AM
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Traditional women care less about income? Are fine with a man who has a decent enough job? Be so fr. A decent job would not at all cut it for being a sole provider.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 12:05 AM
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FUCK BUMBLE. That company's probability of upcoming bankruptcy is >50%. You're American, yes? You can try Hinge. The gender ratio is not as bad, 2:1 male to female. I think Hinge may require you to put 6 photos. 3 good pictures alone at least. 1 selfie maximum but preferred zero. 1 personality pic. Hinge also forces you to fill out prompts to showcase who you are a bit. Are you in a city tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 12:02 AM
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earn significantly more than their female counterparts, are over 6ft, are handsome, drive a nice car and don't live at home If you think these are the basic requirements that young women have then that's a you issue
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 11:45 PM
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wym height and fitness preference was literally created by social media and Tinder
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 11:39 PM
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Can you point to where exactly in history it was working perfectly?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 11:38 PM
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F. Neuroticism robs society of hoes. Tragic
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 11:36 PM
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sir were you not in like, 7th/8th grade
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 11:35 PM
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I know one (1) person in quant. He is like 6'2" and learned to take care of his skin+hair in the past few years. He should be absolutely drowning in women but I would bet money that he is afraid of even trying
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 10:57 PM
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But if they're in high level maths they can get a job in quant and have their pick of the nyc litter
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 10:53 PM
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Would you say the couples you know are generally looks matched?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 10:05 PM
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yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 09:53 PM
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personality...?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 09:46 PM
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Subs like that make me so depressed
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 09:44 PM
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When people get sick they lose weight and may go into the 18.5-20.9 range. Then the sickness kills them. Then it gets added to the "all cause mortality" category for people in the 18.5-20.9 range. This is a well known bias in the data. There was a meta analysis published in 2013 that found that people in the overweight BMI category actually have the lowest mortality. It was criticized for multiple reasons, including the one you gave. The paper I gave refers to this phenomenon as "reverse causali…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 09:31 PM
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there was a small tiktok trend for some time of women getting their friends cakes that said "virgin" crossed out after they had sex for the first time. i thought it was funny
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 09:20 PM
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I <3 increased mortality
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 09:19 PM
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stair master is the way
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 09:09 PM
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huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 09:05 PM
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**Healthy (21-25 BMI) https://www.thelancet.com/journals/landia/article/PIIS2213-8587(18)30288-2/fulltext
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 09:02 PM
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What’s the chance they’re ever going to hit 6 figures anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 08:49 PM
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Uh huh. And how do you know it’s true? Some podcaster said so?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 08:48 PM
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fucking a new guy every other week like most young women Lol. Citation needed
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 08:41 PM
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Could try fetlife. You’d prob have to meet up with them and somehow verify that they’re actually related tho
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 08:32 PM
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Two men is not so hard but twins would be difficult
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 08:27 PM
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Why tf are you going to a restaurant for a first date
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 07:49 PM
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I’m pretty strict about body type for men, somewhat skinny with zero bulk (lean muscle is a plus) 95% of the time I can’t deal with much facial hair at all 5’9” is ideal but I can deviate a bit above and below 4 inches is too small For women - can’t be shorter than me or more than a few inches taller. Can’t be too skinny. A/B cup is a no go
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:55 PM
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$90 each date This man has never been on a date in his life clearly
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:40 PM
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But what age group does that mean??
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:38 PM
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How dare you insult AO3
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:26 PM
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You into fanfic?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:40 PM
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Are you fucking w me keeby
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:31 PM
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I feel like not forgetting an LTR is unlikely because they’re usually buffered by alcohol (+maybe other substances). I honestly can’t give much in the way of specific details about any of my sexual activity before like the past 2 years
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:29 PM
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Congrats!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:17 PM
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Am I having a stroke or does orange not correlate with any of the age groups
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:12 PM
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1) Serial monogamists are modern day locusts sent by god to punish us 2) This is why I don’t understand centering the concept of alpha widowing around n count / hookups, it’s clear to me that alpha widowing would happen moreso with relationships than ONS or FWB
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 03:29 PM
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You didn’t point out a flaw in my logic, you called me a part of “this batch of bitches”.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 03:27 PM
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Could sell weed
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 03:19 PM
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Months/years later? Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 03:15 PM
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This is devastating to me
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 03:04 PM
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Yeah I mean people can blame and get upset but imo that’s unreasonable unless you’ve explicitly had the where is this going or the exclusivity conversation Like for example I’ve been on 3 dates with this guy. He was clear about looking for a relationship from the jump. The second date he initiated a conversation but we decided to wait and see a bit longer. At the end of the third date he explicitly asked where is this going, we agreed that we weren’t LTR compatible but enjoyed being around eacb …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 03:02 PM
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Yeah, I’ve watched Love Island and I’m currently in the UK. I was just saying last week that the gap in attractiveness by gender on Love Island is ridiculous. Tanning beds also age the skin but yeah I guess I don’t know how people here do their tanning
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 02:54 PM
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Yaa like the irish with their pale skin and red hair
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 02:52 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 02:52 PM
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I didn’t get with community dick guys because I’m not trying to be eskimo sisters with my friends. But yeah, I hooked up during (and after) college. It’s not “snitching” on myself to say that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 02:46 PM
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I commented this to ratboy but yeah I don’t see what the big issue is with lying by omission. Especially nowadays since young people should assume non exclusivity until a specific conversation is had. If someone assumes it’s heading towards an LTR before that conversation is actually had, that’s kind of on them. My only issue is if the guy is explicitly saying he’s looking for something serious and is love bombing her and all
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 02:44 PM
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Maybe you just mean men who are on campus to party, not literal “gangbangers”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 02:17 PM
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Yeah honestly I think stuff like this is fair. Especially if it’s paired with clearly casual activities like only going to each other’s places or dive bars. No fr dates. My only issue if a guy is explicitly all in the girl’s face about how he’s soo ready to fall in love and looking for a serious LTR rn
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 02:15 PM
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You said “to them you are just a flavor of the week on rotation”, implying that women are restricting themselves to having sex with just that man and desperately chasing after them. Some men are just community dick. I went to an academically rigorous school so no, I don’t know.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 02:07 PM
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Sounds like you weren’t actually a chadlite But again, not my circus not my monkeys
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 02:05 PM
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Nah I’m not being obtuse. You are straw manning. There is literally a nearly 400 comment post from this week about the sexual revolution and it’s full of women saying there’s nothing inherently wrong with casual sex. Why are you equating casual sex with manipulating women? Did you know that it’s in fact possible for men below 8/10 to have casual sex without telling women that he’s looking for a serious relationship and then ghosting after having sex once?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 02:04 PM
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Why do men here act like college women do not also treat men like a flavor of the week on rotation lmfao Also, gangbangers on a college campus?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 01:57 PM
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I mean, yeah, that is what every guy says when he’s actually just looking for casual. There’s a reason I prefer women for casual. If a man can wax poetic about commitment or love bomb or whatever, only to turn around ghost after sex, that’s on his conscience. Not my circus not my monkeys
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 01:56 PM
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I don’t know, what do you want? Do you want an LTR or to get your dick wet? Who is telling you that casual sex is the WORST thing? Sounds like a strawman. Plus I very clearly argued against explicitly lying in my original comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 01:54 PM
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If you’ve ever been on a college campus you know that the men fucking the most women are very open about what they’re looking for
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 01:40 PM
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They should put the pretty porcelain skin people with rare hair and eye colors in a museum
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 01:35 PM
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It’s not even really necessary to lie I feel like, saying “I’m open to whatever happens” is technically true because a decent amount of people looking for casual would drop everything if the perfect person came alone
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 01:34 PM
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British people should take pride in their pale skin like the Irish
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 01:14 PM
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:(
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 01:05 PM
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Only 5’4” women with no curves no ass tbf
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 01:04 PM
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It also looks so dumb like that’s a dad and his daughter
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 01:03 PM
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The UK doesn’t have a leg to stand on when it comes to obesity lol. I think it’s a mix of too many blondes, the false eyelashes/other makeup, and bad tans that cause premature aging
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 12:59 PM
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Not a man but it’s a fetish for big of them. Simple as that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 12:40 PM
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Hm. Maybe you could steal a friend’s phone and swipe that way
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 12:39 PM
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Why are British women so bad looking? No one can tell me the average American woman is at this level
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 12:38 PM
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Depends on why he’s being bullied but unless there’s a specific problem like speech impediment, the obvious answer to me is putting him in sports. Trying everything from soccer to karate to see what he’s good at and also build strength/skills. Few better currencies at a young age than athleticism and competence imo
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 12:37 PM
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Moreso idiots, I think. Open relationship or taking a “break”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 12:30 PM
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In my experience the high school sweetheart couples lean into the open relationship stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 12:24 PM
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Yay for likes! Is it possible to just swipe for yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 12:21 PM
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YES THANK YOU
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 08:20 AM
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The nuclear family as we traditionally think of it existed for like 15 years post WWII during the American economic boom as Europe laid in tatters.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 08:05 AM
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“Evolutionary explanations” if you’re going to believe evopsych say it with your chest lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 08:04 AM
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I mean my friends who went there have said berkeley goggles are real but it’s tough to put them in action with virtual everything
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 07:47 AM
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I think that might be more of an artifact of the school that you went to, particularly how long your admin held onto COVID restrictions. My school was similarly academically to yours but not coastal. I ran heavily with social + STEM girls and most dated. Fair bit of couples around campus too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 07:39 AM
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Then tell me why instagram is such a jump scare
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 07:27 AM
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Read the rest of my comment
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 07:24 AM
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I almost wish that women in their 20s were actually just riding the cock carousel because then I wouldn’t be subjected to constant instagram hard launches, anniversary posts, engagements, etc National boyfriend day was a nightmare like damn ALL you bitches are cuffed?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 07:18 AM
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Uh huh. And yet if I look at my group chats from over the years almost every woman has been a relationship before. And most have been in a serious LTR of at least 1 year. Curious
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 07:10 AM
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Have you considered that many people in their 20s are dating but not married
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:36 AM
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Maybe one day you’ll ascend to oil lobbyist
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:34 AM
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This is a violation omg
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:28 AM
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I agree and we order pineapple pizza 🥸
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:25 AM
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No response to my comment I see
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:18 AM
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Oh same
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:17 AM
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Second date at the latest
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:15 AM
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If you aren’t asking hard hitting questions to determine compatibility in the first 3 dates you’re wasting time
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:15 AM
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Random woman = police ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:12 AM
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Me when I realized I’d be a horrible lawyer
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:12 AM
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Do you not know any healthy ish couples irl where they’re both 5+/10
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:09 AM
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Try to recover from life, I suppose
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:03 AM
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I’n considering taking a year off school
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 12:57 AM
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NOOO I hope she comes back
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 12:51 AM
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Ick. He should fight me sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 12:38 AM
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1-2x a week minimum. Some steady FWBs I really like + some ONS No STDs is a real game changer
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 12:27 AM
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There’s no AMERICANS and no AUSTRALIANS
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 10:47 PM
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Why are people in Europe so hot I’m going to have a stroke
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 10:44 PM
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Yeah, I dunno. I think a lot of college women would look at 1 in 5 women for completed or attempted rape or serious sexual assault and think yeah sounds about right. That number feels a bit low for my demographic (social, moderate drinkers) so feels believable for young women overall. I think surveying people about specific experiences rather than asking “are you a victim of rape” is particularly important. Also based on my observations/interactions, the number of men sexually assaulted/raped by…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 10:14 PM
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I’m down for 2 engagements one to him one to me
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 10:08 PM
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Huge variance in salary and job market for different engineering majors
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:58 PM
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Also, feminists seem to have a reeeeeeeeally hard time separating sexual assault and rape. SA could be "I got my ass grabbed as a concert once", and feminists will lump that in with rape. "Then there’s the statistic that gives John Foubert’s organization its name: one in four. That comes from a Justice Department survey of 4,000 college women in 2006 that found that nearly one-quarter of college women have survived rape or attempted rape in their lifetime, a figure that doesn’t account for sexua…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:10 PM
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1 in 5 has been shown to be a horrible statistic where the questions asked were "have you or anyone you know been sexually assaulted". This isn't true. https://behavioralscientist.org/what-the-origins-of-the-1-in-5-statistic-teaches-us-about-sexual-assault-policy/
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:03 PM
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It was whatever but the cuddling was nice
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 07:52 PM
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😽
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 07:27 PM
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0 15% ish drunk girls at gay house parties tho
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 07:22 PM
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Yeah, they do
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 07:20 PM
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My kiss count’s already high as hell
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 07:01 PM
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If anyone cares I did in fact take the 25 y/o’s kissginity
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 06:41 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 06:35 PM
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Not more than a standard deviation from me
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 06:33 PM
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Nah, much higher income potential
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 06:22 PM
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skill issue
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 06:03 PM
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It’s complicated but data suggests that 22.5 - 25 is the ideal BMI range. There was a meta analysis in 2013 that actually found lowest all-cause mortality for overweight BMI individuals compared to anyone else. That meta-analysis came under heavy fire due to its methodology, though, and one re-analysis of data for 6 million people found that BMI 22.5-25 is optimal for longevity, especially for nonsmokers. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3806201/
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 05:45 PM
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Insecure
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 04:37 PM
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Too skinny for me
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 04:35 PM
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I want to be the prettier one
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 04:34 PM
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2/3 fem 1/3 masc
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 04:05 PM
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No it means I prefer 6
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 03:50 PM
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Nah I think the guys I go for are like 2/3 masculine traits 1/3 feminine
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 03:48 PM
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Realistically tho irl I go for ~6 face
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 03:47 PM
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I thought you were in some amazing non Western country where the women are submissive?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 03:43 PM
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I believe that in a relationship you should baby the other person and they should also baby you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 03:41 PM
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Lmao my ex never once beat the gay allegations. They started in elementary school
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 03:40 PM
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Yeah it'd fall apart at 4 face
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 03:34 PM
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I kid I kid
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 03:22 PM
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That seems like a silly use of the 1-10 scale. I'm fine with a guy who has an objectively average face especially if I'm trading off for other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 03:21 PM
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the type where their silly little guy friends make fun of them for being criers (I'm not a crier so I need the balance I think)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 03:20 PM
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I'm flexible on face but not at all on body. https://www.photoeval.com/male-attractiveness-scale https://np.reddit.com/r/OkCupid/comments/4ligao/the\_scale\_of\_male\_attractiveness\_with\_examples/ Do you agree with what 5 looks like on these scales? For the reddit link, my most recent ex kinda looks like the 2nd guy in the 5 row (tho he had red hair. enough said) I saw another scale that put Matthew Lewis 10 years ago at 5/10 but that def seems low to me https://preview.redd.it/xrsrftl7z7zc1.j…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 03:18 PM
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I'll take 5/10 face but only if he has my preferred body type (somewhat skinny, no muscle bulk at all, some lean muscle) Based on my track record I like emotional men 😗
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 02:58 PM
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This graph has been repeatedly criticized for wildly overestimating what the data actually says.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 02:41 PM
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Do you not know a single healthy couple?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 02:05 PM
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Opposite experience, most people I know my age are politically engaged
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 01:56 PM
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I mean the only women agreeing are very attractive so like
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 01:43 PM
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Anyone remember Remy Ma's diss track on Nicki Minaj?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 01:41 PM
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I'm wondering if the Gen Z political divide does exist but is overstated. Different polls I've seen have found a 10-12 percentage support for legal abortion in most or all cases. A gap, sure, but not a huge one. And women in developed societies have always been a bit more liberal than men. https://twitter.com/ryanburge/status/1751615375408521623 https://goodauthority.org/news/maybe-young-men-and-women-arent-so-ideologically-different/ "But political scientists who study gender and politics gener…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 01:38 PM
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Broke women like students going for broke men don’t give a shit about splitting the bill.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 01:22 PM
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Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 01:20 PM
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I'm a broke girl who 9 out of 10 times goes for broke guys
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 01:19 PM
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I don’t even understand how the whole dad being in an apt thing happens. Doesn’t even a former housewife have to get a job after divorce? If the dad asks for approx equal custody don’t they have to sell the house and both move into medium size places that could support an adult + kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 01:13 PM
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The whole first date paying thing is soo overblown. Broke women like students going for broke men don’t give a shit about splitting the bill. And even otherwise, obviously the first date should cost $5-7 each max like boba, bakery, coffee etc. For people making 6 figs maybe a beer garden or nice bar. The man offers to pay, the woman accepts or declines. They split for every date going forward. So easy! So simple!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 01:11 PM
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I edited 🫣
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 01:06 PM
1

This is art
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 01:05 PM
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The new tiktok trend would give many men here a stroke and honestly it’s kinda giving me a stroke too
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 11:32 AM
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I mean, there’s a lot of shades of grey between pre-med/orgo/upper level bio and the humanities…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 11:31 AM
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oh, yikes. is there anything else you'd be interested in studying? anything that would have you work with the military in some way or use those skills? Engineering's the most obvious choice but I know that can be difficult if you're years out from any form of STEM education. Cybersecurity? Surgical tech/nursing/physical therapist/anything in healthcare? Former military people are particularly built for ER, ICU, trauma, etc. Anything finance/statistics/math? also no interest in trades or law enfo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 10:58 AM
1

what are you studying?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 10:46 AM
1

Not at your height
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 10:42 AM
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everything is communism actually if you think about it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 10:14 AM
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Why argue with men who are unable to grasp that this is the desperate move of a company teetering on bankruptcy and grasping for straws, not a response to female user feedback
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:53 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:51 AM
1

Go to non sequitur jail
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:50 AM
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Average age of virginity loss is 17-18 in the US (from CDC). So like senior year of high school. Approx 80% of men have had sex by 22. 90% by 24. For me, being a virgin after 23 gets an eyebrow raise for sure. https://datepsychology.com/are-27-of-young-men-really-virgins-and-why/ Search “better data: the nsfg” to skip to the chart I’m referencing
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:46 AM
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Don’t forget auras
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:00 AM
1

Wut there are so many alt/hipster hotties
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:53 AM
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Yeah I’ve known a lot of bi or fluid men over the years. One who was very openly bi dated a pretty, straight, liberal woman for years. They both had heavily LGBT friend groups. Another openly, obviously bi man dating a ~6-7 looksmatch liberal straight girl. Two of the past guys I went for - 1 casual 1 serious - were bi or fluid, and I’m bi myself. The casual one was pretty open about his history experimenting with men, and he didn’t struggle to date. At all. But again these were liberal places l…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:50 AM
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👎
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:34 AM
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No he’s going to be a murderer
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:31 AM
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https://www.macroaxis.com/invest/ratio/BMBL/Probability-Of-Bankruptcy Probability of bankruptcy in the next 2 years is 54%. https://valueinvesting.io/MTCH/probability-of-bankruptcy#:\~:text=The%20Probability%20of%20Bankruptcy%20of,current%20fundamentals%20and%20market%20conditions. For Match Group (owns Hinge and Tinder), it's 5.2%
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 11:22 PM
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drop that man expeditiously
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 11:01 PM
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isn't it the internet men who are telling us that our insta DMs are full of dozens of guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 11:00 PM
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yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 09:23 PM
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medicine
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 09:22 PM
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I failed my final and now my scholarship may be under threat This is what I deserve
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 09:07 PM
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What career? Their $180/month before taxes?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 07:50 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 07:50 PM
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I am currently in Europe
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 07:49 PM
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It’s been in trouble for a while. Both the CEO and president stepped down last year I believe. Blackstone also like halved its stake. Also laid off 30% of staff a few months ago
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 07:46 PM
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It’s not a response to women’s complaints so much as a desperate move to prevent the whole company from going under. It won’t work
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 07:25 PM
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I wonder what’s worse health wise, being obese from middle age or chain smoking
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 07:22 PM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 07:08 PM
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Maybe Europeans are just skinny because their food is shit
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 06:59 PM
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🥹🥹
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 05:51 PM
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Looksmaxxing is the way. With skin especially
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 05:51 PM
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No my sex life is important to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 05:49 PM
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Just post ones below 8/10!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 05:44 PM
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The obesity rate for our age group is so much higher than I thought it was (though I would not say that fat people are/were rare on my campuses). The obesity rate for 12-19 y/o is 22%, and 39.8% for 20-40 y/o. And that’s not even counting overweight people
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 05:22 PM
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You should post some pictures of pretty boys you like. For research purposes ofc. Not the like uber hot ones but cute
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 05:07 PM
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Oh she’s a bitch. Men love her.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 05:06 PM
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I generally don’t have anything to say against my two exes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 04:53 PM
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We’re in a pretty boy drought 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 04:46 PM
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I mean yeah lot of options education/career/income wise. My sister and I were talking about how it’s just not worth going after like a hella tall attractive guy in finance bc he’d just have too many options
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 04:44 PM
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The real deal breaker for her would be broke tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 04:15 PM
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I think a decent portion of chronically single women in NYC have crazy standards
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 04:10 PM
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More quotes from my Stacy sister On the fact that decently good looking men with good jobs in NYC can go on 3 first dates a week if they want: “I’m not used to men having that much… power” Also “I’m not into the very hot guys. More the medium ones. I want to be the hotter one.”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 03:47 PM
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I dunno man it sounds like they started dating when she was literally 20
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 03:45 PM
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Again, I said some women who put that in their bio. There are some women that don’t want ONS. Full stop. I’m sure some women would bend their personal rules for a very hot guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 03:43 PM
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I would distinguish between seeing a guy and thinking he’s kinda cute vs actually being physically attracted to him. But even then I really don’t think that’s common at all. Like I’ve been traveling for the past 1.5 days, around tons of people I’m observing, haven’t thought that once. That one guy I looked at and thought about sex immediately was when I was like 16-17, idk. I think I have to be around a guy, see him in action a bit. Like for example - a month ago I met a friend of a friend. One …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 03:15 PM
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They’re so pretty :)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 02:48 PM
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Ya
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 02:46 PM
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Mmm you’re right there is a fair bit of sex negativity and puritanism from women in the main posts
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 02:45 PM
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I’m gonna be honest I have no understanding of why a woman would put christian in their bio. I do suspect that some women who want to casually date / find an FWB but “long term only” to mitigate the number of gross messages they get or men just looking for ONS. But I’m sure there’s some women stupid enough to think they can search for an LTR on tinder
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 02:26 PM
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Ya I’m out and about with my stacy sister today and she’s running my life like the military with taking pics
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 02:23 PM
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…ya
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 02:21 PM
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Oh yeah for sure if we’re specific talking about a ONS with a stranger they just met/started talking to, that number’s a fair bit lower
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 01:36 PM
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I feel that it’s fairly obvious I’m here due to being batshit insane
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 01:29 PM
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I mean, I’ll agree in terms of coolness, sociability, being alt. Seems like a lot of PPD women are partnered tho
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 01:01 PM
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IMO a lot of PPD talking points fall apart when you remember that most women do enter an LTR at some point in their late teens and early-mid 20s. This idea that a majority of women just chase guys out of their league and get pumped and dumped throughout these years is nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 12:51 PM
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Gonna be honest I think somewhere between 1/3 and 2/3 of women my age have engaged in sexual activity outside of a monogamous relationship at least once. My guess would be on the higher end of that range
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 11:37 AM
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it's funny because wellbutrin is sometimes prescribed offlabel for women with ADHD and it really just doubles down on the ADHD hypersexuality...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 11:34 AM
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ngl I'd believe that PPD women on avg have higher sex drive than women overall more engaged with sex, relationships, gender politics, etc overall
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 11:32 AM
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why tho? you think sober, at least somewhat stable women want to give bjs in a filthy bathroom?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 11:12 AM
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Willing to settle for casual sex? What are you talking about? You think zero women on Tinder are looking for casual sex, whether that's FWB or ONS? If you believe that then I've got a bridge to sell you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 11:08 AM
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It's just rare (and seems to sync with her cycle, sometimes near ovulation and sometimes around her period). Bingo
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 11:05 AM
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I mean... woman looking for casual sex, sees a guy who's objectively very attractive and fits her type (let's say tall, muscular, tanned for example). She asks him for sex, of course
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 11:03 AM
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I mean... didn't I just say in my previous comment that it varies? Like *I personally* experience spontaneous desire even while sober and doing something random. It seems a decent portion of women do not. But let's be honest, a significant portion of the decline in casual sex can be directly attributed to people drinking less. The reality is that the vast majority of ONS are done through the haze of alcohol and/or drugs. I would make the argument that that still falls under reactive desire -- re…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 10:50 AM
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Imma be real if a woman's giving a blowjob in a dirty, smelly public toilet, then yes she's very not sober or very mentally ill. Probably both
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 10:44 AM
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Yeah. Personally I have a higher sex drive and do experience spontaneous desire for sex (and had no idea till a few months ago that many other women didn't). I haven't done anything like dirty or dangerous but let's just say those hookup guys are for getting your rocks off when you're already horny, they're not necessarily guys you're soo attracted to. Even for me I think desire is really easy to kill. I've been going on dates with this guy and he made some comments that judged me (for like drin…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 10:42 AM
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Yeah "he's kinda cute" is the most I can think at first glance
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 10:37 AM
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Okay sir
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 10:36 AM
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Women give blowjobs in dirty, smelly public toilets, fuck in the public Do you believe if a woman does this with a stranger, that's indicating that she's viscerally attracted to him?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 10:35 AM
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you seem obsessed with pedophilia, do you want to talk about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 10:32 AM
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Okay show us how it's done! There's a significant market amongst gay men!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 09:54 AM
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Personally I don't think I could be married or have kids with someone who was traveling 3-4 days per week for 10 years. My parents did it for 1 year (my dad got a great opportunity) and that's fine but 10 years + it sounds like for most of that they had no set plan to end the travel......
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 09:53 AM
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I'm doing just fine, trust. Alright, I looked at the scholarships associated with my school and the attached undergrad. Most of the big school-funded scholarships were an academic qualification cutoff situation (ACT/SAT/class rank). A decent number were for alumni of a specific coed service organization in my region. For additional scholarships, zero of the ones I am listed as qualified for applying are limited to women. Several are limited by county, but it's possible that's a quirk of the area…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 09:49 AM
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Oooh people who conform to beauty standards get more matches, what a crazy revelation! I would never have guessed
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 09:09 AM
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K
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 09:07 AM
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actually?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 12:10 AM
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According to the comments the husband has been traveling 3-4 days a week for work for the past 10 years, and the wife works full time and takes care of the children. It doesn’t seem like the husband does a ton even when he’s there
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 11:53 PM
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Yeah exactly this
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 11:43 PM
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The hookups that women will admit to are with men that are as attractive or more attractive than the guys they date. But at the end of the day a hookup is just a guy that’s getting your rocks off. He doesn’t have to be shown around publicly. And ONS especially tend to happen through a haze of non sobriety. So there’s a range in how good those guys actually look. My exes definitely had the best bodies (bc shared values around fitness).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 11:42 PM
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Lol Inb4 locked because not neutral
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 11:29 PM
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Just saw a tinder profile that included 2 very clearly AI generated photos
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 11:25 PM
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Oh, be serious. $100 a month is chump change. It’s a better use of time to walk a dog or two once a week and be paid in cash
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 11:22 PM
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Sure, but does that change the fact that most would view him as a 5?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 11:13 PM
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I mean at bars you’re meeting the person irl and can at least figure out if they’re your type pretty fast. I think irl meeting still definitely works. Apps are a different story and yeah it’s hard to figure out who to swipe on.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 11:12 PM
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People don’t move out at 18 anymore? Huh? Then why did me, my sister, and the bast majority of my friends do so?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 11:04 PM
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Yup and then ignorant men bang on and on and on about how women can just easily get rich off of it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 11:00 PM
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And you’re fine with the trade off that now your naked pictures including face are public access?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 10:59 PM
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That’s exactly what I just said what
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 10:58 PM
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I’ve literally only had that happen once in my life (looking at a guy and wanting to have sex with him) and honestly I was 16 and maybe was just having a weird day. And yet I was very very attracted to my ex (who I did not think a ton of the first time I met him).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 10:57 PM
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Yeah, I’m attracted to a very small set of men. I can think of 1 (one) man who I looked at and was like oh I want to have sex with him, but honestly that was years ago and maybe I was just having a weird day. All that does not mean I’m only attracted to 5 10+ 7.5+/10 face men. I just need to be around them irl first.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 10:56 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 10:53 PM
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Wat How is wanting to have a husband who you’re attracted to and is competent around the house/fun to be around/has similar values pretty entitled
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 10:52 PM
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So you’re saying women can be and are attracted to average men they know? But the visceral aspect is wanted from women nowadays Source: it came to me in a dream
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 10:46 PM
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Not attracted to a random one on the street. But an average guy they’re dating or hooking up with? Absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 10:44 PM
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No. Fun fact: the median OF creator makes $180 per month before taxes. 1% of creators make $50k+ per year.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 10:43 PM
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But it’s so much easier to tell yourself that women are only attracted to 6 3 men with perfect faces and that it’s over anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 10:37 PM
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Leighton Meester is one of the loves of my life
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 10:36 PM
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If the cels here want to believe that women are not attracted to average men, then they’ve made their bed and they can lie in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 10:36 PM
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That Blake Lively rating is criminal
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 10:26 PM
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“women find many less men physically attractive” blah blah blah
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 10:24 PM
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Yeah, this whole “women aren’t truly attracted to average men” thing is a load of crap. It’s probably the single most annoying PPD truism to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 10:15 PM
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Maybe there’s a few at my school but the vast majority of scholarships available, including mine, were open to all applicants. Some were limited based on the applicant’s state or county
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 10:03 PM
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Hmm ya I can believe this
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 09:43 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 08:52 PM
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My field is slightly majority women lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 08:30 PM
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Ok sir
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 08:18 PM
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My Stacy sister says that my boobs have gotten smaller I’m going to kms Anyone have tips for gaining a mix of muscle and fat while doing progressive overload?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 08:18 PM
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Overall avg American height is 5 9. Asians trend a bit shorter but they are only 5-7% of the population.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 08:16 PM
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I am very familiar with academia.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 08:15 PM
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There’s a few I think will probably make it, and some I think probably won’t. I’m ambivalent about most
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 08:14 PM
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:(
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 07:59 PM
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wym how tall are you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 07:35 PM
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I like thin guys so I’m not personally attracted to those 2, no. I do think the second one has a nice face tho. And like ofc these guys would have women who are truly physically attracted to them like the 1st has a nice alt vibe and great tats. I would say overall I’m attracted to 6+. (Photofeeler gave me 7 so I’m prob like 6.5)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 07:34 PM
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Wym I believe that women in their late teens and 20s are never in LTRs and only hookup with chad 😀
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 07:30 PM
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screams into the void if you are 5’9”+ and blaming your height for your inability to date in the US you are C0PING
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 07:28 PM
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We’re just silly little girls with utterly warped worldviews!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 07:24 PM
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Did you not call 2 attractive women fat last week
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 07:23 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/ocjmnljuwuyc1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=9d7a4bd135f04476653a2de0b9f61158efc218f9 Also somewhere around average tho he’s got a nice smile
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 07:22 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/c0bz8ybswuyc1.jpeg?width=915&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=5c8f32fcf3d6fbb0e1f023cb74091133dd0f9f82 I’d say he’s an American 5
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 07:21 PM
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I did a vibe check a few weeks ago, posted 2 guys here to check if I had an accurate view of what 4-6 range looked like. I was vindicated
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 06:58 PM
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No, lol. Height fetishists exist but 5 10.5 is definitely tall enough for most women. And I’m assuming you’re in my age group.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 06:57 PM
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Ya
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 06:55 PM
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Acceptable
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 06:54 PM
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They’ve got demonic energy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 06:54 PM
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False. Plenty of women dating/seeing 5-6 men are feeling sexually aroused by them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 06:53 PM
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Arrogance is an asset in moderation, for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 06:14 PM
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Are you American…? That’s a decent bit above avg (5 9). Ofc face > height at that point 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 06:13 PM
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Quotes from my naturally brutal Stacy sister so far include “I don’t think I could date a blonde man, they’re almost… feminine” (her Stacy friend agreed). And “European men, especially British ones, are more aggressive and forward than American men”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 06:10 PM
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Sir how tall are you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 06:06 PM
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Being labelled prudish and viewed as a desexualized nerd felt horrible, like I had no agency and no desirability. Would rather be viewed as a bit slutty (tho I’m also failing on that count smh)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 05:59 PM
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I believe everyone should wear less
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 05:54 PM
1

A good therapist calls patients on their bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 05:53 PM
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Imo libraries tend to be cold and you’d look out of place all dressed up. I’d say flattering leggings + a good sweater that’s somewhat form fitting and has an interesting neckline. Basically the sexy sweater tiktok trend
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 05:52 PM
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That’s fucked
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 05:46 PM
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How are tenured professors “permanent students” who “get to uni for free, all tuition paid” and needed only “a pulse and a vag”?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 05:44 PM
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That stat from Pew has been repeatedly called into question. Other studies show a far higher singlehood rate in young women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 02:32 PM
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That’s the thing, those men already chose a gf who is not east asian…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 01:39 PM
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Spent this weekend touching (too much) grass, experiences included stopping by CVS before brunch to get a girl plan B, a discussion of boyfriend dick vs casual (led by a woman who prefers sex at least 7 times a week in LTRs), a few women who told me they will be in the streets this summer (they will go on 1 date then give up), and phrases such as “how you use it >>> size” I need a nap
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 10:24 AM
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Many such cases. Too many guys giving their gfs shit for the crime of not being east asian nowadays
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 10:09 AM
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My body would seize up Exposure therapy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 10:05 AM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 10:04 AM
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Lol, there’s definitely times where there is just no accounting for taste. Just now while touching grass I was observing a mid-late 20s couple where the woman was pretty skinny and cute, like an American 7. Her boyfriend was like 5-6 face + beer belly + balding at the crown. He was ginger and like 6 ft tho. They were fawning over each other. The heart wants what it wants ig
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 10:02 AM
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No, lol. It’s not a competition thing, at least not in my circles. One of my friends is athletic/6.5 prob and she just likes guys who are… plain faced. Last time she showed one someone was like “😀he looks like he’d look better in person”, trying so hard to be supportive but very clearly thinking he was totally unattractive. I think there’s just tons of subjectivity once you get below like 7 and women are fast to cast judgement. I remember one time a friend in high school was so thoroughly confus…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 09:58 AM
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Lol saying your friend’s bf looks like a rat is unmatched Women have really, really different tastes. Huge joke on TikTok about women having to defend their new guy in the group chat. Literally like this salivating over a guy who is objectively like a 5 face wise <image> When I used to show a picture of me and my ex together my friends would just look at me like bffr. Got a fair bit of whys and what are you doings
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 09:40 AM
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That’s not possible in the US. At all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 08:17 AM
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Hehe
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 06:54 AM
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Tfw women still get free ride scholarships for being a minority Source: it was revealed to me in a dream
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 06:52 AM
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most of the men here aren’t even attracted to actual women Brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 06:29 AM
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None of my business what my sister does tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 06:22 AM
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Yapper
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 06:16 AM
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Lowkey this would work for some women lol the double date angle
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 06:04 AM
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Technically it takes very little social aptitude to line up dates from Hinge tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 06:00 AM
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If I repress my emotions does that mean I’m crazy?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 05:50 AM
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real, same
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 05:49 AM
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Ok sir
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 05:47 AM
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Yeah I looked into it a bit and it looks like a decent number of schools do offer some scholarships that are limited to women. Like Auburn has 67 scholarships available for women only. If it’s school funded and/or public funded that’s def a Title IX violation. Private donors that create a scholarship fund are different tho because they can stipulate anything (where I went to high school there were a decent number of region or even specific high school based scholarships at local universities)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 10:21 PM
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I mean realistically being a 5 4 man impacts all parts of your life far more than being a woman with small boobs
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 10:12 PM
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Yaaa that’s just an L
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 09:50 PM
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Every time I go out in public I get mad baby fever. Where is the phil dunphy to my claire pritchett, the lionel carlson to my anne carlson. Where are our 2-3 terror children
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 09:49 PM
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5 4 men are 3.6th percentile 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 09:44 PM
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I would be interested to see what % of men and women go into college with scholarships. And how many scholarships women are getting that limit to only female applicants. None of the scholarships I applied to were female only. They were mostly based on a test score cutoff, or were for applicants from a certain region. Or for student-athletes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 09:39 PM
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How short? If he’s 5’7” his pool is smaller but he should still be fine on a college campus. Below 5’6” is just tuff. I feel like few guys who genuinely put in some effort are just naturally 3 or below. For the one’s that are just genuinely shit out of luck, that’s tough. Depends on the extent of the autism. Overall factors like height do reduce the pool but completely struggling on a campus way skewed in your favor gender wise is ridiculous for most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 09:36 PM
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Hmmm, alright, I’m going to be honest I didn’t even fully understand what you were saying in your second comment. But yeah idk I think attraction should be clear, the chemistry should build relatively fast. Don’t think it’s the first minute necessarily but I’ve definitely felt a turning point on a first or second date before
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 09:28 PM
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Hmmmm some of your language choices are interesting to me. Did you love her and also feel loved by her? Like idk you keep saying that a relationship is about you supporting her, you caring for her, you listening to her bitch about work all the time. That you weren’t able to do all that (and you didn’t want to do all that), and that makes you undeserving of romance. That line of reasoning doesn’t make sense to me. But maybe I’m not understanding what you’re saying
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 09:23 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 09:21 PM
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I feel that if a man is at a college with a 2:1 female to male ratio and he is entirely bitchless, that is a skill issue. There’s a million and one ways to meet organically on a college campus
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 09:18 PM
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Mm that makes sense. I dunno I guess to me it’s a waste to spend that much time getting attached to someone before making sure there’s chemistry
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 09:17 PM
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Oh I mean picture of a random internet stranger just to give your POV
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 09:13 PM
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3rd date hard rule in terms of what? An escalation from kissing? Or all the way to sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 09:09 PM
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With the make out thing I was giving an example, not a rule. You don’t have to have a makeout session on the third date. My point is that it should be easy to tell that the woman is enthusiastic, attracted to you, and into the physical portion as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 09:08 PM
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Could you post a picture and give a rating based on your perception before joining this sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 09:03 PM
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If she’s got a healthy body then she’s above average but not by much
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 09:02 PM
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A medication for symptom management would be nice for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 08:59 PM
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Having zero standards for a relationship is pathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 08:57 PM
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Who said anything about fucking? A kiss should happen in the first 2 dates and there should be physical escalation from that point. A long fully clothed lying down makeout session on the 3rd date is a clear indicator of attraction and passion, but it’s a far cry from sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 08:55 PM
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Hmmm you’re right, most people do want to view themselves as average. Who knows who’s right.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 08:53 PM
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I would find a man without any standards or desire for real connection repulsive. Maybe this is who this whole “beta buxx” thing happens, though. To me it seems pretty obvious that if a relationship is not passionately and consistently physical early on, that means you just don’t fit together and should walk away. Maybe men are noticing from the jump that there’s an issue but stay.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 08:40 PM
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My issue is that I feel that men here, particularly the ones my age or younger, have little real experience with women and have created this very distorted view in their head. My point is that when you look at the pool of women who have engaged in casual sex, 12 partners in 1 month is on the extreme end. Within that pool, it’s nowhere near average. Yet it seems like young men here have built this view that the average single woman has a constantly revolving door of “chads”.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 08:35 PM
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IMO it’s better to use a rate calculation. A person that racks a large number of bodies over a short period of time through ONS and then sticks to an FWB/gets into an LTR/takes a break has damaged their ability to pair bond, I think. I can agree with 20+ overall by 25 tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 08:21 PM
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So, a woman who’s had casual sex doesn’t lose the ability to pair bond if she has protective factors like education, money, and a good ability to vet?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 08:18 PM
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Okay, sure dozens sounds like 36+ or something. Yeah that’s rare. But let’s be honest. The men here have a much, much lower threshold for what they consider promiscuous. Just a few days ago I was told that 10 bodies = community bicycle
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 08:09 PM
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Wouldn’t you rather take the significantly lower chance of divorce even if it means that if a divorce does happen it’ll almost for sure be initiated by the woman? Casual sex is very, very common on college campuses. “Riding the cock carousel” is some weird red pill thing but the reality is that having some level of sexual activity outside of a committed relationship is viewed as normal in college.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 08:07 PM
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Could you explain the good girl gf vs slutty fwb dichotomy. In what way did you treat her like a slutty FWB? In sounds like, to me, that maybe you were in this relationship and from the jump you were thinking something like “why is she even with me?” or “I’m inevitably going to fuck this up”. Does this sound accurate to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 08:03 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 08:01 PM
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Gangbangs are rare even at party schools where athletics are big.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 08:01 PM
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Oh come ON. Why did you just jump to an absolute extreme and nonsense scenario? I went to a party school and shit like that is not common at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 08:00 PM
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Look, I’m just going to speak from personal experience. Even a short, athletic daughter can fight like hell
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 07:57 PM
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Higher education is correlated with lower divorce rates. Individuals with a Bachelor’s degree or more have a divorce rate of 25.9%. And divorce rates have been going down since the 80s - “nearly 78 percent of college-educated women who were married for the first time between 2006 and 2010 can expect their marriages to last at least two decades”. https://divorce-education.com/divorce-rate-by-education-level/#:~:text=The%20Census%20Bureau%20reported%20the,levels%20and%20lower%20divorce%20rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 07:53 PM
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Evopsych is like top 3 nonsense fields
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 07:34 PM
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Oh, blah blah blah. If you have eyes and you’re on a college campus it’s clear that’s not true. Plenty of people, men and women, have casual sex at times and loving relationships at others.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 07:34 PM
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Lmao the threat of force doesn’t mean jack with a teen
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 07:30 PM
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12 different partners in 1 month is extreme. The men here tend to dunk on lower body counts over a long period of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 07:29 PM
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This is not true in my experience. The women I know who’ve been in LTRs and had plenty of (healthy) casual sex between relationships have had no problem following in love and attaching to a new guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 07:27 PM
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No, they’re not. The first scenario looks like a woman coming into college and getting with different guys because she doesn’t feel attractive (or like she’s worth anything, or getting out of a relationship and immediately getting with different guys to try to fill that emotional void, or trying to get with all the ex’s guy friends as revenge, etc. Those scenarios are very different from having FWBs/sneaky links and maybe ONS between long term relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 07:25 PM
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Hmm it’s hard to keep the conversations I’ve had here straight, you’ve had some amount of romantic success with women before, right? What changed to make you feel like you don’t deserve romance? Or did you feel like this even before you started dating women?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 05:56 PM
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No, it doesn’t lol. We’re absolutely nowhere near artificial wombs scientifically
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 05:40 PM
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It’s really easy to get a sample of a person’s DNA without them knowing
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 05:38 PM
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You may be thinking about a different type of gel, the one that was heavily reported on in the mid 2010s. I actually had never heard of this gel until today. Plus there’s the nonhormonal pill in the UK that just started human trials, and another option that’s in the pre-human trials phase at Cornell. The change is that the money is there now - the NIH has been putting millions into this for the past few years. Researchers just have to throw enough shit at the wall now and see what sticks. https:…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 05:26 PM
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I’m sorry that you feel like you are negatively impacting them in some way by being attracted to them. Imo there is nothing wrong with discrete and quick looking. That’s very different from like staring at a woman’s chest while you’re talking to her or near her. We’re attracted to people, that’s just a part of life. Can you dig into your second paragraph a bit more? Why would you prefer to kill your libido? Is it out of a sense of hopelessness, an overarching sense of guilt with your libido, som…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 05:16 PM
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We are so, so far away from artificial wombs. The age of viability has been creeping downward for decades but it’s still ~22 weeks (technically, with the best possible resources. Realistically more like 24). I highly doubt there will be artificial wombs in my lifetime. Tho I do think male birth control will be available in my lifetime. The small human trials in India (procedure) aren’t going as well as hoped but there’s different types of male contraception that have started human trials in the …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 05:04 PM
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Ha I think I actually started being emo before I realized I wasn’t straight
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 04:54 PM
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Relationship with parents tends to be a good predictor for promiscuous behavior that’s being used as a validation bandaid for insecurity and poor self concept. It’s not a good predictor for people who have sex outside of LTRs because they just enjoy sex. For some reason the conversations here conflate the two scenarios.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 04:53 PM
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What lack of US history education does to a mf
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 03:53 PM
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Never watched porn? Nah. Not watching porn in the relationship? I dunno. Maybe not realistic but I guess it is what it is. I’ve seen some women say they’d rather like the guy use pictures/videos of the two of them instead. I guess probably there would have to be some way to compensate if the guy’s sex drive > hers I do think I’d ask questions if a guy was regularly watching porn while in a relationship. Unless it’s long distance
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 02:35 PM
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Imo if a guy’s at least 5’6”/5’7” face trumps height, but a guy that’s 5’6”/5’7” can’t rely on apps almost at all and has to be able to date irl
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 02:31 PM
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Can I ask why you feel guilty?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 02:27 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 02:05 PM
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3 4 2 1 3’s pulling the most but if 4 is around a good pool of short women then he can be a promiscuous boi
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 01:37 PM
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Wut lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 01:35 PM
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Girl on girl bullying is pretty bad tho mental and emotional
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 01:21 PM
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Tbh I can believe that the woman gets affirmed more often even if she’s not right. But why would the counselor try to push her towards a divorce? That’s throwing away a repeat customer
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 11:34 AM
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I mean he's not exactly my type but he's an attractive guy, def a niche of women would be into him
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 06:17 AM
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Have you considered that a (largely) scientific evidence-based approach to assessing mates is not the vibe
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 06:14 AM
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Race and body type 100% a concern if he clearly has an overall unified type
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 03:42 AM
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There's some historical nuances but basically queer can be used to refer to nonstraight people, or even LGBT people at large like "the queer community"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 03:39 AM
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What I don't understand about this take is it seems to imply that women go for casual sex or have situationships in their youth and then switch over to LTRs in their late 20s or whatever. Most women aren't like that tho -- IME most women who have casual sex have a mix of LTRs and FWBs/maybe ONS in their teens and early-mid 20s. And the couples I've known didn't exactly move slowly (assuming they had both had sex before). Maybe this'll change as as we get older..? But I don't see why it would
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 11:55 PM
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Isn't it easy to tell if the woman you're seeing is physically attracted to you...? Like isn't it obvious?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 11:48 PM
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It would still be expensive
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 11:38 PM
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:)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 09:49 PM
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Accelerationist core
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 06:58 PM
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Alright
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 06:56 PM
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“Go on to relationships” as if women don’t have LTRs in their 20s……
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 05:05 PM
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What about people who grow up with parents who have roughly equal child custody? Do we have stats on that?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 02:31 PM
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I don’t see what’s so bad about asking seemingly random questions under other people’s comments like idk brain go brrr sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 02:09 PM
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tru
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 02:07 PM
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it's high and film/media analysis hours tho
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 06:27 AM
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no I mean I am hoping someone will give me their thoughts of the couple in modern family through the lens of the red pill ideology. I am high and in the mood for media analysis
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 06:26 AM
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How do Claire and Phil Dunphy fit into the AFBB framework ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 06:22 AM
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yeah but I did 4 years, just started school early. and yeah took a year to work and went back
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 05:49 AM
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huh you are a skinny boi. you could drink calories
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 05:40 AM
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ssris are first-line treatment for anxiety, yeah. it's crazy how much variance there is in people's responses to it. the loss of road rage is interesting tho
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 05:15 AM
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mm the weight gain and drowsiness yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 05:06 AM
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di ssris not fit this profile for many men? not fully asexual tho
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 04:56 AM
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bi
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 04:34 AM
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No literally
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 09:13 PM
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I dunno people say that men are more likely to have avoidant attachment and women are more likely to have anxious attachment but I think it's all about equal for men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:32 PM
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oop
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:30 PM
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Wild
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:29 PM
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Yeah there's definitely a niche of women who don't care but it's not a huge amount unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:28 PM
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one can only hope
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:25 PM
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Avoidant personality Edit: I mean avoidant attachment style
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:24 PM
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The road to acceptance and normalization is rocky and winding but hopefully we will get there !! Soon
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:23 PM
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Jesus are there really that many Americans who can't run up a flight of stairs even?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:22 PM
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:(((( I don't think this is true for like my age and my circles in the US but in older generations and in larger society ://
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:21 PM
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I think a significant amount of women think this. Societally we should make gay relationships hotter and also not gross
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:19 PM
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Still plenty of people more than 1 standard deviation away from the curve
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:18 PM
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Yup. Very very very few men would commit violent rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:17 PM
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it's not about an average dude tho it's about one picked completely randomly....
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:16 PM
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nooo normalize bisexual men
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:15 PM
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going on third date with 25 y/o guy who I think may not have had his first kiss yet today. will try to corner him into a kiss
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 07:22 PM
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What was the timeline from you starting using apps seriously —> going on dates with those 2 pr 3 women or whatever you said —> dating your ex
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 06:47 PM
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Been poking around these pill spaces for 10 years and I don’t agree with your interpretation of what blue pillers say.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 06:45 PM
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Wut
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 06:42 PM
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100%. Competitive activities and communities generally, but especially sports
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 06:41 PM
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Maybe this is shallow of me but I don’t think I could date a girl with zero tits
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 06:38 PM
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It’s more like face>height after a height threshold is reached, probably like 5’8” for most white and black women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 06:34 PM
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I mean that’s insane she thought that lol But I think we cannot generalize any of your ex’s to other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 06:32 PM
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Ya
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 06:29 PM
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No, it’s not.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 06:27 PM
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Ok. And does that match your real life observations at all? The average women having any decent chance, at all, to date the high school football players? The high tier frat bros?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 06:26 PM
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To be clear, you’re claiming that an average girl has a better chance of attracting a chad irl?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 06:15 PM
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Everything is red pill if you claim it is actually and say that blue pill is some caricature where looks don’t matter at all and women are pure creatures who only care about a man’s personality and morals Also as Asian female saying that shit about Asian males just has internalized racism. Desperately wants the approval of nonAsian (esp white) men and to have wasian children
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 06:10 PM
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So they… search irl where they are also competing with other women…?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 06:06 PM
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Irrational fear is a foundational part of America
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 06:01 PM
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If women love dating apps so much why are the gender ratios so bad? Why do only 14% of partnered adult Gen Z women report meeting their SO online? Why is Gen Z using dating apps less than millennials?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 06:00 PM
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🙈
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 04:11 PM
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hits head against wall repeatedly
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 03:53 PM
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What you don’t believe that women are only attracted to 6 ft+ 8+/10 men?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 03:48 PM
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I graduated 2 years ago atp 💀 feeling so old
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 03:44 PM
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Building off of this Q4M: would you rather be stuck alone with a random PPD woman or a random woman from the general population?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 03:43 PM
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You should go on a date or two! You can just do a daytime date and tell your parents that you’re grabbing ice cream with friends. If nothing else it’s a good experience
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 03:41 PM
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Touching grass for the next day 10 days straight I fear
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 03:28 PM
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The school year is over, it's time for manic pixie dream girl arc
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 03:27 PM
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Every belief system is just the red pill actually
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 11:01 AM
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🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 10:59 AM
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“If they say all their exes suck, run” is tiktok dating advice 101…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 10:56 AM
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Obviously, I never argued otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 10:39 AM
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gen z woman term for like a cutie guy that is soft and maybe a little unconventional in terms of masculinity. Like kawaii kinda. or looking at a guy and going "awww"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 03:45 AM
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but they're so babygirl,
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 03:32 AM
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sooo babygirl
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 03:30 AM
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Tbf I think a couple days ago I asked if I could do a man vs bear scenario where the man was my age like obviously I'd choose the man in that case
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 03:26 AM
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cute and cuddly for both
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 03:23 AM
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we are all rooting for him
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 03:20 AM
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Tbh the random men I have met off dating apps over the years (not super random because they were also students at my college or nearby) were all just smol beans. Teddy bears if you will
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 03:19 AM
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It's interesting because Gen Z guys are so competent, actually. Cleaner and more decorated spaces than any I've been in and I've had a lot of different roommates over the years
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 03:17 AM
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The % of men who would violently rape a stranger is way way way lower than the % of men who have sexually assaulted or raped someone tbh. With the "would you rather be raped or killed" post I was like for sure killed (quickly) but still for man vs bear it wasn't a harm*risk calculation that made sense. And I have always been able to fight Plus so many guys are just like cutie, my children, the ones younger than me and also the elderly
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 03:13 AM
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Mm yeah changed my answer. If something went wrong with the man I'd bite off his penis
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 03:05 AM
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Strength or even just a helping hand or extra pair of eyes help. Communication and interaction alone is also big… why do you think solitary confinement is basically considered torture? Now you're just saying that it's easier for two people to survive together...? I also said most women. I’d venture to say that most women aren’t former scouts who have retained amazing survival skills well into adulthood. Add in a fuck ton of women in middle america, regardless of whether they did girl scouts. And…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 02:22 AM
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sexual violence against men by women and sexual violence against women by men and same gender sexual violence should all be taken seriously. coercion of men by women especially gets overlooked I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 02:11 AM
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Sure but you still learn wilderness skills. You're also forgetting that not every woman is a coastal city dweller.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 02:09 AM
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Some people are so out of touch with the real world it's crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 02:06 AM
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Troop leaders, usually moms or older women? Or camping with their family including mom and dad...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 02:05 AM
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Do you know that a lot of girls do things like girl scouts and camping
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 02:03 AM
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Uhhh lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:58 AM
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You think the average woman needs help to survive 24 hours in the woods?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:54 AM
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Personally man. Realistically the number of men who would violently rape a stranger woman is very very very low. I think I'd be too spooked by the bear to act rationally
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:42 AM
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I agree that it's irrational. It's still a far cry from those women calling all or most men predators.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:41 AM
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men are all predators
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:28 AM
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naw but then you have to do a risk*harm calculation
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:26 AM
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This was hashed out a few days ago on the daily thread but bears are actually very unlikely to attack unprovoked
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:21 AM
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Over/under on AutomaticMeaning and ISupposeImCorrect being the same person?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:12 AM
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who is saying all men are predators
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:11 AM
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Anyone that's ever been to a secular college knows that women have casual sex so I think the cat's out of the bag on that one
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:11 AM
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Actually lowkey I get what you're saying because if a woman is very very afraid of strange men she's not going to have ONS or fuck buddies. Maybe an FWB with someone she was legitimately friends with first
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:10 AM
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Nah we will both bask in how hot I am. We will also bask in how hot he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:08 AM
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Manifesting this for myself
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:07 AM
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what happened to the other girl
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:06 AM
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either you agree men are all predators smh
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:04 AM
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How does that relate to an average guy they see day to day? I mean, I feel like this also depends on the context. On a college campus I never once felt unsafe or wary of random guys even if I was in a dark area at night and I passed a man alone, or if I was drunk at a dorm party 3 floors down from my room or something. When I walked on a street in NYC at night alone tho? Yeah I was wary of any and every man passing me Some women assume men will by default I think inherent to women choosing bear …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:01 AM
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heck yeah let's normalize bisexual men
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 12:51 AM
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yeah I was really into gay fanfiction for many many years. still dabble
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 12:50 AM
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Nothing. I am venting.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 12:49 AM
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No. His point was that a gruesome bear attack and being eaten alive is worse than what happened to her. A woman said "a man could rape you or worse" he responded "And a bear can do worse than that stupid." she said "No it can't" and brought up Junko Furuta he responded "That's because it would focused on eating you alive ass hole and stomach first. What took those japs several days a bear will do to you in 20 minutes. Way to prove my point" I asked "How is a quick death worse than long form tort…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 12:40 AM
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Neither is trying to minimize 40 days of torture and rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 12:33 AM
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that 20 minutes of being eaten alive is worse than 40 days of torture
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 12:29 AM
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sloth, unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 12:27 AM
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Are you retarded
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 12:27 AM
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"I want two boyfriends and I want the boyfriends to be boyfriends" sound on tiktok goes crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 12:25 AM
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Today I had the pleasure of explaining to a man that getting ripped to shreds by a bear is, in fact, not as bad as what happened to Junko Furuta (someone else brought her up first). He responded "thanks for making my point" twice. Really great stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 12:09 AM
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There's a big difference between thinking all men = default potential rapists and taking precautions which inherently acknowledge that any given man could hurt you...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 12:03 AM
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I seem to have some knee issue unfortunately so gotta get in to see a doctor before I can do stuff like that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 12:03 AM
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Ok, any strange man. What does that mean tho? Let's take one example of commonly given advice to women: if you don't know a man well, do not accept a drink from him. If he's buying you a drink, make sure you get it directly from the bartender. Is that not inherently viewing any given man you're on a date with or met at a bar or whatever as a potential threat?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 11:57 PM
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dueling? the thing that killed alexander hamilton?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 11:50 PM
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it's not too bad but i'll be in the gym this summer and also making protein shakes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 11:49 PM
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Isn't taking precautions around strangers an acknowledgement that any given stranger could potentially hurt you...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 11:46 PM
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No one is saying that most or 50% of men are dangerous. Also, 99%? I mean... https://np.reddit.com/r/explainlikeimfive/comments/owa1rv/eli5_bernoulli_process_if_i_roll_a_100_sided_die/
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 11:43 PM
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Once I get into a relationship I will wear less oversized clothing and more revealing clothing
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 11:34 PM
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tru
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 11:33 PM
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If women are under constant threat why do they go outside? Why do they got to work and school? Her life is more important than any of those things right? You can't possibly think this is a good argument
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 11:33 PM
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99% chance? I mean... https://np.reddit.com/r/explainlikeimfive/comments/owa1rv/eli5_bernoulli_process_if_i_roll_a_100_sided_die/
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 11:31 PM
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There's huge variance how fearful and risk averse women are... if it's like a fr secluded trail/forest then women there are already on the lower end
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 10:42 PM
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I mean women are also taught to continue taking precautions with strangers as adults... like being in groups at night or stay in well lit areas if alone, don't accept a drink directly from a man you don't know well (get it from the bartender directly), etc...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 10:35 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 10:24 PM
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Mm that makes sense Adipocytes (fat cells) have an enzyme called aromatase, which converts androgens (male sex hormones like testosterone) to estrogen. So it's tough for men especially to be overweight (tho plenty of issues happen to women with too much estrogen too).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 10:23 PM
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I think I'd be comfortable around a random woman, or a random man my age-ish or younger. Reality is that both boys and girls are taught stranger danger primarily about adult men tho -- think the strange man in the white van
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 10:19 PM
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men with a mix of feminine and masculine traits and also appearance a bit are attractive to a significant niche of young women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 10:17 PM
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wut
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 10:15 PM
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stranger danger
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 10:15 PM
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I feel like assigning a number is tricky because the reality is a relatively low % physical and sexual violence occurs between strangers
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 10:12 PM
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extroversion or humor
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 10:11 PM
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omfg way to kick him when he's down
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 10:05 PM
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You would be surprised. Definitely a generational thing. Women around my age on tiktok talk about their insecurities with boyfriends or ex-bfs who follow insta baddies of a specific type that looks nothing like them (ex. race)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 09:57 PM
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Idk I like couple porn like when a couple makes a video, blurs out their faces, and posts the video because it gets them off Professional porn sucks to me because no one's having fun and the woman's probably having some level of pain or discomfort
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:59 PM
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He was like okay of course I won't have my phone out if you're not comfortable Next time they're having sex, they switch to doggy, she gets sussed out and looks back, he's scrolling on insta
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:56 PM
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He was like okay of course I won't have my phone out if you're not comfortable Next time they're having sex, they switch to doggy, she gets sussed out and looks back, he's scrolling on insta
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:56 PM
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He was not a chad. At all. A chad wouldn't have PIED because he would have enough irl sexual experience from his teen years and afterward
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:29 PM
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He wasn't on an SSRI or any sort of antidepressant
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:27 PM
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Ngl I left like half of what happened out and that half is worse
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:26 PM
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What percent of women even want an orgy?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:22 PM
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Most of my friends and I have never encountered a man with porn induced erectile dysfunction but one of my old roommates did. This man could not hold an erection while he was actively inside of her without looking at insta models on his phone at the same time. She was like ummmm I'm not really comfortable with you doing that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:16 PM
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Fuck are you serious Every minute I spend here the men outside are getting older and less capable of a full erection
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:09 PM
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You're forgetting the band kid rule -- nerdy and unconventional couples go crazy together Edit: Mm actually that doesn't make quite make sense does it, that's moreso for nerd couples that get tg pretty young so I have to imagine the guy couldn't have developed PIED yet
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:05 PM
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8 months pregnant? Fuck no. I shouldn't be standing outside for hours like that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:04 PM
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You're assuming that PPD women are an accurate sampling of the population, which is incredibly suspect at best
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:03 PM
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I tend to say that, it's an exaggeration to make a point. Guys appear to evaluate their looks solely through the lens of female attention, and seem to assume that women do the same. Of course male attention is a big factor, but there are so many other things at play. Women understand very, very young that looks will hugely influence all aspects of their life and their perceived worth as a person. A big one is relationship with mothers. Many Gen X and older women tie so much of their self worth t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:00 PM
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uhhh what almost all couples fart around each other
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:30 PM
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low pitched female voices are soo annoying I hate them soo much I would be soo upset if a female with a low pitched voice slid into my DMs
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:29 PM
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The trends are all over the place https://ifstudies.org/blog/is-the-sex-recession-over
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:54 PM
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Leggings are nice for checking yourself out in the mirror while you do leg exercises tho
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:43 PM
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Eh even decent sex is better than a vibrator imo. Kissing alone is better than a vibe
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:34 PM
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Not to be a bitch but sir your picker is so off
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:29 PM
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Fuck bitches (Bumble) get money (Hinge)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:25 PM
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Yeah I was just generally asking a question about this whole divorce rape thing like idk kind of seems easy to avoid especially because support is generally just child support...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:24 PM
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...then don't go for average? The vast majority of people date people with similar educational and socioeconomic backgrounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:18 PM
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Nickelback isn't even that bad
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:16 PM
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that's insane behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:15 PM
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???? what the fuck that's horrible
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:14 PM
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I prefer the homeless oversized sweatpants look generally but leggings are very comfortable especially for working out
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:11 PM
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I don't understand why men can't just go for women who don't make orders of magnitude less than them and also ask for joint custody of children in the case of divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:10 PM
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If you could get married to any random woman (you do not get to choose, complete dice roll) vs go your whole life without female attention, what would you choose?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:03 PM
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That's why vibrators were made
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 05:57 PM
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Men are the ones crying about women who chose bear in the scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 04:37 PM
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Way to move the goal posts. Somehow you're talking about fighting off the attack now when I initially asked "How is a quick death [relatively] worse than long form torture?" And you responded "Have you been eatin alive by a bear asshole and stomach first? that's just much higher intensity torture than what that japanese women went through"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 04:35 PM
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*You* would.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 04:30 PM
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Uhhh I just skimmed her case and how can you say "much higher intensity torture"? Have you been gang raped? Have you been repeatedly beaten, raped, and tortured for 40 days? Have you been forcefully anally sodomized? Have you been burned on your arms and legs with lighter fluid?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 04:26 PM
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Interesting. This might be a cultural thing that Gen Z American women aren't nearly as big on
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 04:22 PM
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How is a quick death worse than long form torture?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 04:20 PM
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What woman is asking tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 04:12 PM
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you know we're fucked when even the oui oui baguette people are getting our ass
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 04:08 PM
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I'm thinking I'll add 5+ to my make out count
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 04:06 PM
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well for me a town bicycle starts at 10 sexual partners that's enough PPD for the day good night y'all
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 04:05 PM
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as well for me a town bicycle starts at 10 sexual partners speechless
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 04:04 PM
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Who's more likely to be alpha widowed, a woman who's had 2 LTRs with great men who broke up with her, or a woman who had 1 LTR that was fine but mutually ended + 8 casual partners (mix of FWB, ONS, and a failed talking stage or 2)?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 04:02 PM
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You did the exact same thing, jumping straight to the extreme of "town bicycle". Comical
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:57 PM
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Are you not literally married
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:49 PM
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I mean I’m sure that guy meant after the situation had escalated to the point that they were back at his place and all… and on subsequent meet ups
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:47 PM
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There’s a huge range amongst women in terms of their level of fear. I would hazard a guess that the fear level of American women is higher because fear of strangers is basically part of our national ethos. White women also seem on average more afraid. I’ve noticed the same of women in relationships (maybe because they interact with random men less)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:46 PM
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Oh okay ig this set up makes sense if both are working but there’s a pretty big discrepancy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:36 PM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:32 PM
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That one red pill man who said that when he has women over he gets them naked ASAP may be the biggest brain person here. Not even in a sexual way but like skin-to-skin under a blanket
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:30 PM
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It really shows how white suburban teen/early 20s male this sub is
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:21 PM
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If the bank app balance didn’t go down then no money was spent actually 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:17 PM
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Wild. How do you pay for large shared expenses? How do you pay for vacations?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:16 PM
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Mm for sure. I’m using this sub’s definition of asshole, which seems to be anyone who isn’t peak neutered nice guy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:15 PM
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How can you take money from a spouse… that’s both of your money…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:13 PM
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I think generally people who are pushovers or don’t get advocate for themselves get steamrolled. Confidence with an edge of arrogance is important
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:12 PM
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I have to think that there’s a reason these spaces are so disproportionately white men. Few people actually grow up with such a coddled world view.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:08 PM
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And yet both boys and girls sort into groups based on looks, athleticism, and competence very, very early
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:02 PM
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Do people not understand that bitches and assholes get ahead in life by the time they’re like… 9? Or maybe 12? And then ascend in the several years after that?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:01 PM
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12? You’re telling me that I was in elementary school and normal BMI and using the family computer to look up weight loss pills and there are men out here that are so stupid that they don’t understand the importance of looks until after they’re 12? Yoi’re telling me that girls start spending hours before school to get ready and limit their food intake to their morning Dunkin run and guys just… are blind? “What men consider black pill, women consider common sense” has some truth to it. Of course …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 02:56 PM
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