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She mentioned that to you, but then she fucked you again. So obviously she was just giving you shit for that just to see how you react, and she dropped it once she saw you don't give a fuck
/r/seduction30/11/19 07:16 PM
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Watch her actions not her words
/r/seduction30/11/19 07:10 PM
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Not quite back to back, took me a while to do them and I was shopping in between too. No, and if I did that would have been kinda funny. You're right tho, the store I went to was big and busy
/r/seduction29/11/19 03:17 PM
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It's good to speak slowly when approaching, that way you show your confidence and the fact that you're not too nervous. Easier said than done if you haven't done it much, of course. But the goal is to speak slowly and your attitude should be "This girl is the luckiest girl in the world, I could have approached anyone and yet I picked her"
/r/seduction29/11/19 02:44 PM
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Street game is the most popular type of daygame in big cities by far. Google the London Daygame Model
/r/seduction29/11/19 02:39 PM
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You have the right attitude my man! Not surprised to see you're successful. I specifically picked this data set of 8 approaches because it happened just last Sunday, but also because girl 3 was way way colder than I have seen - blowout like that had only happened to me 2-3 times before. It also had a number close and a girl that was into me but had a bf, so I thought this was a good field report to share. The Sunday before that I got 2 numbers out of 3 approaches in the same grocery store, but i…
/r/seduction29/11/19 02:29 PM
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Front approaches are always best, that way you can make good eye contact when opening. Don't approach from the back Facing them is best, especially when they are stationary. If they are moving, facing them and a bit to the side is best Depends on your personality, I tend to gesture a bit but not too much. Don't think this is too important as long as it looks natural Yes, smile when approaching to show the approach will be fun and that you're a cool guy. Dial down the smiling once you're in set, …
/r/seduction29/11/19 02:16 PM
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Of course not, I go to get my groceries and approach when I see cute women
/r/seduction29/11/19 01:44 PM
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That's why I am posting this- to inspire people, glad it did it for you! Waiting to see your FR on all the Black Friday hotties you picked up on sale
/r/seduction29/11/19 01:43 PM
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The women who enjoyed my approach, gave me their number and went on a date with me would disagree. Fun fact: a girl who I went on a date with after meeting at the grocery store told her assistant that she met a guy at the grocery store, since it was so random and exciting
/r/seduction29/11/19 03:37 AM
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1 date out of 15 approaches is very good, can be hard to keep those stats in the long run though. It's good to know your numbers, I'm a big fan of that, but I'm also trying to just approach more girls I find attractive and work on my vibe, game is random
/r/seduction29/11/19 03:22 AM
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Yes, LDM is very effective for coming off as confident and non-needy as well as offering value right away
/r/seduction29/11/19 03:20 AM
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I was needing groceries anyway, but I stayed longer to make sure I had enough time to approach. Go out to approach to get your game better- hit up the mall tomorrow for some hot chicks on a Black Friday sale!
/r/seduction29/11/19 03:19 AM
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Less math, more approaching
/r/seduction29/11/19 02:52 AM
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Go ahead. Make sure to share your own FR of all the girls you get with my opener
/r/seduction29/11/19 02:44 AM
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Doing daygame on the street is easier, since there are high foot traffic areas with a lot of sexy women walking, giving you more options to approach
/r/seduction29/11/19 02:14 AM
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I usually go with a version of "Excuse me, I saw you from over there and thought you look nice, so I had to come say hi"
/r/seduction29/11/19 02:13 AM
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Great FR! You might forget other lays, but you never forget your first daygame lay. You and I have chatted on here a bit, so it's great to see you grow as a person and daygamer and have some success. Out of curiosity, do you know how many daygame approaches it took you to get to that first lay?
/r/seduction29/11/19 02:12 AM
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I will try to post a newer one in the next few days. Check out my blog if you're interested in reading some of the ones I did previously
/r/seduction25/11/19 05:58 PM
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I do agree that a date is much more important that a number. But what if you don't get laid from it? How is that different than a flaky number in your scenario? The reason why a number is not as trivial as you seem to make it is because in order to get a solid number, you have to approach confidently, make your intentions known, vibe with the girl, and have the balls to go for the number. A lot of people on here seem to have trouble doing enough approaches, so I was hoping this FR would inspire …
/r/seduction25/11/19 12:16 PM
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This is actually a FR from a few months ago when I was newer, was reading a post and someone said he would like seeing more FR on here, so i posted this as I had finished writing it on my blog. I do agree that more volume is needed (for example yesterday I did 8 approaches). I also agree that numbers are not important, but I see a lot of people on this sub struggle with even approaching. If that's the case, then a number is a big deal, simply because to get one, you have to approach, get to girl…
/r/seduction25/11/19 12:08 PM
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Say she's in the pasta aisle, looking intently at a box of penne. You could say "You seem to be in love with pasta" or "So many choices, it's hard to pick isn't it?" Having said that, I prefer to go direct nowadays, it's much more effective for me
/r/seduction25/11/19 12:04 PM
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Watch their actions, not their words. Make a move and proceed as usual
/r/seduction21/11/19 01:22 AM
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Be flirty while making progress. "Important question: are you a wine or cocktails type of girl?" Take what she says and use it to plan a date. Texting is mostly for logistics
/r/seduction21/11/19 01:22 AM
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"Nice beard, wanna fuck?" Last two words are optional
/r/seduction19/11/19 12:06 AM
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Memento mori - one of the greatest wisdoms from the ancient Romans. Accept it and go after what you want anyway, no one will remember you in 100 years, who cares if Becky rejected you yesterday?
/r/TheRedPill18/11/19 12:03 AM
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Your structure seems very similar to the London daygame model. I use that model as well - strong, direct opener and stacking which causes attraction are vital in the beginning in order to show intent and create the man to woman vibe
/r/seduction06/11/19 01:26 AM
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Have you heard of stacking? It worked wonders for me in order to get me to have something to say after I opened direct. Say either "You look Asian/Latina/German" or "You look like you just got done at the gym", "You look very focused". Have a few of these practiced depending on the situation, it makes it easier to get her to invest in the conversation
/r/seduction05/11/19 02:39 AM
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Approach from the front, and don't worry about making mistakes - they will happen, force yourself to approach more and embrace the awkwardness!
/r/seduction05/11/19 02:17 AM
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Only one way to do it - take action! Take a look at my blog if you want, it's in my profile and it might inspire you to approach. As far as looks and weight go, hit the gym and eat right, you'll be a new man in a couple of years!
/r/seduction05/11/19 01:45 AM
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Exactly! Even if they don't like it, you have to realize your opinion is the most important one. Remember one thing: if men approaching women was unnatural, our species would have gone extinct a long time ago. Approach if you find her attractive, that's all you need!
/r/seduction05/11/19 01:38 AM
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Commit to doing 100 approaches, even if you feel that way. Once you start approaching more and do it in a direct manner, you'll realize most girls actually love it and it makes their day. Then your brain will stop thinking it's creepy
/r/seduction05/11/19 01:33 AM
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The best thing to do at your stage is commit to simple action without caring about the outcome. But I believe your plan of action to be too simple - i would encourage you to commit to 100 approaches with "Hey I thought you look nice so I had to say hi". That's it - no matter whether she walks away or keeps talking, just approach directly and count it as a successful approach. That way, your brain won't make excuses anymore once you see approaching is perfectly normal, and women even enjoy it. Ch…
/r/seduction03/11/19 12:04 AM
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Great post! Something I want to add - a lot of guys read about frame and think they have it down, then go out and their frame gets crushed by a hot girl, or an AMOG. Then they go home with their tail between their legs. To have an unshakable frame, you need to have the experience - positive and negative, successes and failures. There's no other way. So keep working out, keep crushing it in your career, keep meditating, keep approaching, keep failing. Day by day, all those things make your frame …
/r/TheRedPill01/11/19 11:08 PM
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Of course! If you're a man, you need to approach with confidence, get her to hook, a bit of comfort, be able to escalate, and every time there is a bit of rejection you need to be able to handle it. If things go wrong it's usually your fault. Body language, voice tone, eye contact - it all matters for a guy. If you're a woman? All it takes to get laid is a nice ass, big tits or a pretty face. Especially in 2019 America
/r/seduction31/10/19 10:12 PM
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The question to ask yourself is why do you feel shame? Because you're more engaged in other people's opinion of you than you are of your own opinion of yourself. You care too much what people will think of you and whether they judge you. Want to stop feeling that shame? Always put yourself first. Approach because you want that girl, workout because you wanna be huge, work because you wanna be rich. When you get to the point where you approach because you want it bad enough, then you won't care w…
/r/seduction30/10/19 09:38 PM
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Do at least one a day and you'll be great in a year!
/r/seduction30/10/19 12:11 AM
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I would say pick a challenge - for example, I started with the 100 approach challenge. Basically, you say "Excuse me, I thought you looked kinda cute so I had to talk to you" and go from there. Once you take enough action, you will still have approach anxiety, just a lot less and then you can use that to take action. You need to start doing approaches, otherwise all the theory in the world is meaningless
/r/seduction29/10/19 11:35 PM
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From "The Manual" by Anton W - "The best place to meet new women is everywhere, and the best time to meet new women is anytime". So wherever you see a girl you find cute, approach. I've done approaches in the grocery store, department store, malls, bookstores, the street, etc.
/r/seduction29/10/19 11:27 PM
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Outcome independence is correlated to success. Keep approaching and the more you do it, the more your confidence will rise, which will lead to better interactions and less neediness. Good luck!
/r/seduction29/10/19 11:23 PM
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If we have been talking for a while, I either say "How many?" with a smirk, or "I don't wanna be your boyfriend" if I want to up the sexual tension. I usually let girls with boyfriends go unless we have had a good convo and can tell she's into me. If she says she has a bf right after you approach it means you should walk away, she's not interested.
/r/seduction29/10/19 11:19 AM
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Say you wanted to get better at basketball. Would you get discouraged watching Lebron play? Would you get disappointed when you try to make the shots he makes and fail? Of course not. And yet so many people see their best friends do better than them with women and instead of saying "OK, but how do I get better?", they get disappointed and bitter. Like Malcolm in the Middle said, life is unfair. Especially on online apps like Tinder, good looks are super important. So you have two choices: you co…
/r/seduction29/10/19 11:15 AM
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Yeah, I've been using it since I found out about it. Before I used it I was having trouble coming up with things to say after the opener if I wasn't in a social mood, so I had more short interactions. Ever since I learned about London Daygame Model and the stack specifically, I've been able to have a good follow-up even on days when my mind wasn't working at its fastest, and that has made a world of difference in the quality of my sets. Having a lot more girls respond with something to my stack,…
/r/seduction29/10/19 11:04 AM
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Out of curiosity, how did you start approaching? Was it something that naturally occurred to you because you wanted to get women, or did you have someone show you the ropes?
/r/TheRedPill29/10/19 01:23 AM
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I understand where you're coming from and in a way agree with you. Obviously, if you have had thousands of approaches and 0 lays, then you need to change something. What I'm trying to say is that people like Krauser, Torero, Yad, etc. came up with the London Daygame Model by doing thousands of approaches, and changing small variables each time like the opener, the angle of approach, what they said after the opener, etc. They kept all constant except one variable, and after thousands of approache…
/r/seduction29/10/19 01:05 AM
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What do you mean by more intuitive approach? Some of the best daygamers (Tom Torero, Krauser, Roy Walker, etc.) have gotten thousands of lays between them using the direct opener you mentioned before the don't hate me opener. The opener is only part of the equation, what you follow it with is where it gets interesting. As you long as you are confident, any opener can work once.
/r/seduction28/10/19 11:54 PM
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I'll state the obvious then - you could bang both of them. Seems like they both want you, make the moves confidently and the reward will be there. Good luck!
/r/seduction28/10/19 11:39 PM
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Did you cold approach them?
/r/seduction28/10/19 11:23 PM
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I like the fact that you're experimenting, but unless you do say 100 approaches with the old way and 100 approaches with the "don't hate me" opener and you can show one is consistently better than the other, this one approach doesn't mean anything. Maybe the girl was into you and anything would have led to the insta date. Keep approaching and go get them!
/r/seduction28/10/19 11:08 PM
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I used to have approach anxiety when I started approaching too. Everyone has it to a different extent, some more than others. A couple of hundred approaches in and my approach anxiety is way less now, and I actually enjoy it because it means I should take action. So that's my advice to you: keep approaching beautiful women until you can notice your approach anxiety lessen, and use any approach anxiety you have as a sign that you find the girl attractive and you should approach. Once in set, don'…
/r/seduction28/10/19 08:36 PM
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The problem with Tinder and other online dating apps is that you need to wait for the girl to match with you based on your pictures, and there is a ton of guys online, so Tinder is getting worse every year. Compare that to daygame, where you can approach anyone you want. I've gotten numbers from girls during the day who would have never swiped right on me. Yes, the barrier to entry for daygame can be high as you need to approach a lot to get better at it, but once you are good you can meet women…
/r/seduction28/10/19 04:49 PM
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I saw enough progress to make me want to start one - one thing that helped me improve immensely is writing down what went well in each interaction, so the blog helps for that. Also, a lot of guys feel like you, so most blogs are guys who are already good at approaching, and I feel like if you're just starting to approach it's hard for you to relate to guys who have done thousands of approaches. So my blog is for the beginners- if I can motivate even one guy to keep going, then it would all be wo…
/r/seduction28/10/19 11:43 AM
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I didn't do game per se before I started doing daygame. Of course, I did online dating and whenever I would go out with friends I would talk to girls, but that was more or less random. Since I decided I wanted to improve and started doing daygame seriously earlier this year, I did the 200 approaches I wrote about, and I'm still going so I'm trying to get to 300 approaches right now.
/r/seduction28/10/19 12:38 AM
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I agree - daygame makes you improve much more, because it's a lot harder to talk to girls without alcohol and by yourself. Having your friends and drinking in a club or a bar makes it a lot easier to do it, but the downside is everyone else thinks they are a PUA and can pickup women when drinking. Daygame also makes you take a look at yourself and self-improve. I'm a big daygame guy and I started a blog about it recently. I tried posting what I learned from my first 200 daygame approaches on thi…
/r/seduction27/10/19 05:33 PM
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Look up DiCarlo's escalation ladder. After you make out at your place, keep moving forward. If she resists, take a step back and change the topic, then try again in 5-10 minutes. Good luck
/r/seduction26/10/19 04:51 PM
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Just like anything new, it's hard to do at first, but it does get easier with practice. I would recommend having a couple of stacks prepared so you don't forget - "You look..." and tell her she looks German, Asian, etc. and "You look like you just finished..." work, the gym, hiking, etc. That way you give her a chance to respond to you, and you take it from there
/r/seduction25/10/19 11:15 AM
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Start a 100 approach challenge - commit to talking to 100 women with direct opener "Excuse me, I thought you look nice so I had to come say hi." Then follow by an assumption - she looks Latina, Chinese, model, accountant, whatever. Then chat for a bit and go for the number. My blog is in my profile if you wanna check out my experience of doing daygame. Take action, rejection is better than regret!
/r/seduction25/10/19 03:01 AM
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