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| 1 | Men would live longer than women if they had healthier and safer livesIf they have a face left, which is not always true in these incidents... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/22 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Men would live longer than women if they had healthier and safer livesThere is nothing biological and genetic that make impossible for men to live longer than women on average in the future. Their nature. I'm sure men will bring this up, so, yes: many male deaths are due to male factors like suicide and risky jobs that are preventable and need to be examined as to the contributors and how to prevent them. However a massive contributor to the life expectancy difference is the death rate spike in the late teen/early 20s years in which teen boys are far more likely t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/22 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Do more prudish/absitent societies have more "satisfying" sex lives?So, just to be clear, you expect me to believe that women were having regular orgasms? And that men cared if women had them? Like, I can go pull more actual stuff, but I want to establish the claim first. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/22 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Do more prudish/absitent societies have more "satisfying" sex lives?I mean, considering that in the more conservative prudish western past, they had to come up with ways to convince women to tolerate sex like "lie back and think of England," or that doctors were having to medically prescribe vibrators for "hysteria" to women who otherwise didn't have orgasms... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/22 02:02 AM |
| 1 | What age do you think Men and Woman are at their most sexually attractive?Great, when you've prepared a believeable refutation to the study by one of the top academic institutions in the world, let us know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/22 12:44 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Is it possible for a woman to truly love a man for who he is or will it always be attached to his money, looks, or social status?You call tell they’re talking about hot women specifically. That applies to 99% of the time the guys here talk about women in any capacity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/22 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Is it possible for a woman to truly love a man for who he is or will it always be attached to his money, looks, or social status?These posts read like aliens who have a handful of contact experiences with humans and are desperately trying to take notes and form conclusions on sample data Like if you live on the earth for any period of time you will see women wholeheartedly devoted to ugly poor nobodies, particularly among the lower classes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/22 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Ladies: have you ever approached a total stranger and gave them your number?High school? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/22 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Ladies: have you ever approached a total stranger and gave them your number?You defaulted to a creepiest interaction you could possibly conjure in your head Considering the males that frequent this place can you blame me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/22 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Ladies: have you ever approached a total stranger and gave them your number?I'm saying that even if you walk up to them and say a few things first it's still creepy. When you're in a social setting where you're with a group and the whole group wants to get together with another, that's very different from a one-on-one interaction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/22 02:22 PM |
| 1 | Ladies: have you ever approached a total stranger and gave them your number?It sounds like you mean people that have already been talking for a short time, which is different from literally just walking up to someone out of the blue and handing them a number I can see where it would work if women did it to a man but it's still weird, it would just work bc men are desperate and would accept any form of being asked out from the most walking-set-of-red-flags woman alive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/22 02:15 PM |
| 1 | Ladies: have you ever approached a total stranger and gave them your number?strictly a male tactic It should be a no one tactic that's not gonna work on virtually anyone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/22 01:43 PM |
| 4 | Older women shaming men for dating and sleeping with younger women out of jealousy and labeling it as “predatory” is extremely hypocritical and inaccurate, most men go after younger women because women age faster and younger women are far more attractive, not because they’re easier to manipulateIt's unique enough that it's predictable. You hear some bullshit and think "I bet it's an old dude and a young girl" and click the post for details and 9 times out of 10... 😬😬 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/22 07:13 AM |
| 3 | Older women shaming men for dating and sleeping with younger women out of jealousy and labeling it as “predatory” is extremely hypocritical and inaccurate, most men go after younger women because women age faster and younger women are far more attractive, not because they’re easier to manipulateActually from men's point of view, it changes from charming to bitch In what far away galaxy is the average early 20s woman nicer than an older woman what 😭 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/22 06:35 AM |
| 1 | What age do you think Men and Woman are at their most sexually attractive?No, because there is an alternate explanation for that. But a very large portion of women are hetereoflexible yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/22 10:42 PM |
| 1 | What age do you think Men and Woman are at their most sexually attractive?Except it doesn't line up. History and modern third-world societies show us that when it is entirely legal, the overwhelming majority of men will seek out children as their first choice. In your scenario, fucking animals would have to be very illegal and high punishment in addition to all of the above things being true. You would also have a very very long history of women constantly seeking out only giraffes, and in third world countries women would have to be rejecting human men and seeking ou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/22 06:54 PM |
| 1 | What age do you think Men and Woman are at their most sexually attractive?Outside of a few bizarre freaks, you don't see women fucking animals en masse. There is no secretive subculture of women who are so desperate to see porn of animals that they risk massive consequences for it. There is no international slave market for wild animals for sex. Women don't seek them out. There is no 6000+ year history of women having sex with wild animals and nothing else. There is no "zoobait" communities of women dedicated to posting and seeking out pictures of things that resemble… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/22 06:09 PM |
| 1 | What age do you think Men and Woman are at their most sexually attractive?83% to 12-16, and over half (52%) for girls age 4-10. Over half of men got at least somewhat hard to pictures of girls age 4-10. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/22 06:02 PM |
| 1 | What age do you think Men and Woman are at their most sexually attractive?Yes but the matter at hand is whether or not men are aroused by prepubescent children, which they are. That is the eye-opening reality I am attempting to establish. In this context/issue it doesn't matter if a man refrains from acting upon it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/22 05:40 PM |
| 1 | What age do you think Men and Woman are at their most sexually attractive?"The structure of erotic preference in the nondeviant male" Freund K PMID: 5422891. Old-ish (bc it would now be illegal to show nude photos of a child that age) but no reason for it to not be accurate since attraction is largely biological I don't know if the fds one you're taking about is the same, as I did not get it from there | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/22 05:38 PM |
| 1 | What age do you think Men and Woman are at their most sexually attractive?"The structure of erotic preference in the nondeviant male" Freund K PMID: 5422891. Old-ish (bc it would now be illegal to show nude photos of a child that age) but no reason for it to not be accurate since attraction is largely biological. Erectile response would just be if they showed any erectile response. It's a fairly simple measurement, I doubt they had to get fully hard | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/22 05:38 PM |
| 1 | What age do you think Men and Woman are at their most sexually attractive?Over half of men are attracted to prepubescent girls. 83% were attracted to girls age 12-16. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/22 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone had their view changed bc of a debate here on PPDFirst off all that's victim blaming. It's almost as if the comment was intended to point out how dumb it is when men say this about women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/22 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone had their view changed bc of a debate here on PPDOk, as long as you're consistent. The vast majority of men here are not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/22 09:30 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone had their view changed bc of a debate here on PPDIf you don't get it by now, I'm being sarcastic bc men say this every time women complain about male behaviors. You seem to feel that it's unfair to blame the victim in these situations... Do you apply that same empathy when it comes to women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/22 09:08 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone had their view changed bc of a debate here on PPDIn high school, yes I witnessed men being rejected cruelly. That's why above I was saying high school is not a good indicator because teens are just ruthless and cruel and do not reflect the adult world | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/22 05:12 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone had their view changed bc of a debate here on PPDYou never witnessed the classic "jokingly appointing the token overweight girl as homecoming queen to be cruel" thing? Or the "fake asking out the ugly girl(s) to stand them up to be cruel" thing? Where were you? That happens all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/22 02:30 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone had their view changed bc of a debate here on PPDThe majority of men are equally cruel in high school, and it's equally rewarded. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/22 01:04 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone had their view changed bc of a debate here on PPDYou choose to go to places/environments where these types of women are known to be in abundance/a much higher percentage than the average population at large (tinder, clubs). You can tell a LOT about a girl just based on the choice of clothing and makeup, and the way she talks, all of which are easily observable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/22 11:58 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone had their view changed bc of a debate here on PPDYes... Do you think women don't get the "I'm not interested so I'll be cold and curt and exit the interaction but not be super mean" thing plenty of times? What? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/22 11:34 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone had their view changed bc of a debate here on PPDOkay? You think women don't get condescending glares...? That's a red flag not to talk to them lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/22 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone had their view changed bc of a debate here on PPDHm, I don't know about that. There are a ton of external red flags. You can easily observe them. You just overlooked them, because you're attracted to women who behave in a certain way. Really, men are so constantly shooting for women way out of their league so it's no wonder they get rejected so harshly. The bottom x% of women are just invisible to men, sigh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/22 10:57 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone had their view changed bc of a debate here on PPDYes that's why I'm talking about any platform. Even female dominated or leftie ones like TikTok, Twitter etc. And real life as well, group chats and friend groups. They get sympathy, unless you're hanging out with some bizarre group of sociopaths. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/22 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone had their view changed bc of a debate here on PPDThe average dude isn’t hitting on everything in a skirt. Most guys really have to screw their courage to its sticking place to go and hit on a girl they’re attracted to. Hm, you're right. Maybe it's an issue with the women you're choosing. Sounds like you're choosing the cruel ones. Maybe men should start picking nice women instead and they'd stop having this self-made problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/22 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone had their view changed bc of a debate here on PPDLiterally any post you see online of men being rejected cruelly earns pity and sympathy unless he was a jerk/creep in return. It's delusional to claim otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/22 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone had their view changed bc of a debate here on PPDHm, that sounds like an issue with the girls you're choosing. Maybe you should stop picking cruel women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/22 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone had their view changed bc of a debate here on PPDI should specify as adults. High school doesn't really count. Men are absolutely no different in high school. Both sexes are cruel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/22 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone had their view changed bc of a debate here on PPDBecause it is readily observable in real life. In real life, you see and hear the multitudes of women who attest to what men downplay. Men don't even usually deny it happening, they just downplay how bad it is. The only place you see brutal rejections beyond high school is the occasional online post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/22 07:40 AM |
| 11 | Do women realize how little maintenance men need to be statistically faithful?They've been running this exact excuse for centuries. They never intend to, it (along with every other thing they choose to do) will always somehow be our fault. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/22 07:38 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone had their view changed bc of a debate here on PPDI'm not being laughed at, called a creep, etc. the intense brutal rejection of men laughing at her when she tries to start a conversation. Most rejections are as simple as "no, thank you", worst case that actually happens irl may be she sent a screenshot to her friends and he'll never know. Women brutally mocking a man in rejection like this is simply not a common phenomenon and thinking it is is outright delusional. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/22 04:49 AM |
| 1 | We would save a lot of heartache and mental distress for men if we were simply honest about women to them when they were young boysI want special consideration for the group of people who are in far more potential danger and prevention of that danger, since it puts them at a severe disadvantage. I want consideration for them being disenfranchised under a countless number of facets of life and effort to create an environment that accounts for that disenfranchisement. I want fairness, which is entirely different and often opposed to "equality" on a 1-1 ratio. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 03:42 PM |
| 1 | We would save a lot of heartache and mental distress for men if we were simply honest about women to them when they were young boysThe "special care" if that's what you want to call it is literally given as a balance-out to the inconveniences, dangers, and issues they face that you do not. It's not like you're taking two people on equal standing and handing one something the other doesn't get. You're taking one that's already at a severe disadvantage and giving them something to level said disadvantage out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 08:11 AM |
| 1 | We would save a lot of heartache and mental distress for men if we were simply honest about women to them when they were young boysIt's almost like that's very different from what the above comments are talking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 07:29 AM |
| 1 | We would save a lot of heartache and mental distress for men if we were simply honest about women to them when they were young boysYes I'm saying you're lying. Not that other men attest to the same thing, I don't doubt that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 03:31 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat is... Definitely not a maternal thing unless your impression of mothers is ones who don't care about their kids very much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 11:40 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadPaternal means fatherly in this context, you mean maternal. And that would have nothing to do with the fixer complex bc they are not controlling them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 09:50 PM |
| 1 | We would save a lot of heartache and mental distress for men if we were simply honest about women to them when they were young boys...because what's being discussed is how common something is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 09:10 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadTo what extent do you think "I can fix him/her" disease is attributable to some paternal/maternal instinct stuff going on? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 07:40 PM |
| 1 | We would save a lot of heartache and mental distress for men if we were simply honest about women to them when they were young boysMom was both a feminist and a Catholic. "My mom was a statistical rarity, so of course the way she raised me is representative of the norm!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 05:41 PM |
| 1 | We would save a lot of heartache and mental distress for men if we were simply honest about women to them when they were young boysNo they really don't lol. That's just not true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 03:49 PM |
| 1 | Why do a good amount of women like being degraded by men in bed?How are you supposed to get the opinions on a rather awkward topic that most people don't feel comfortable talking about unless it's anonymously of 1000+ men by real life friends? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/22 07:26 PM |
| 1 | Why do a good amount of women like being degraded by men in bed?You're right, in order to get the opinions of a large group of men all at once, rather than the convenience of a forum I should be going outside and approaching and questioning random guys on the street. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/22 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Why do a good amount of women like being degraded by men in bed?Then why do they use the word dominated | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/22 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Why do a good amount of women like being degraded by men in bed?THIS subreddit would attract those types of men, yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/22 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Why do a good amount of women like being degraded by men in bed?men like to feel sexually dominant. They really don't though. Like there's been a lot of questions on the askmen sub and similar communities over the years where a massive amount of men will confess that they want to be dominated/don't enjoy being dominant, but keep it to themselves bc they think women will be turned off. If you look at the porn and sexual content favored by men, it's stuff like girls "taking control", being assertive, etc. They are conditioned into it and think women want it so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/22 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Why do a good amount of women like being degraded by men in bed?Superior egg style deniers don't get to have opinions, quiet | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/22 05:17 PM |
| 3 | The threat of violence and sexual assault, while real, is dramatically overblown and overused by women as an excuse for misandrist behavior and to generalize the entire male population, most of which is harmless to themWhat do you call a fear of chainsaws? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 05:39 PM |
| 0 | The threat of violence and sexual assault, while real, is dramatically overblown and overused by women as an excuse for misandrist behavior and to generalize the entire male population, most of which is harmless to themNot violent rapists, no. But the majority of men will do bad, gross, violating things to women, yes. A lot of men comfort themselves and justify men as a whole by going to the extreme end that is violent rapists BECAUSE that's only a minority of men. There's a lot of territory that's still "bad and violating things you shouldn't do to people" before you reach the "violent rapist" point, and most men will do something in that area at some point in their lives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 04:20 PM |
| 1 | How much can young people having less sex be attributed to porn?The sculptings are as hardcore as anything you’d see today. I wish I was this innocent | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/22 06:48 PM |
| 1 | How much can young people having less sex be attributed to porn?It kinda is true though? It's not really bad. But the idea that a lot of guys who in past eras would have been more desperate and chased women irl, now feel content with porn, isn't difficult to believe at all. It's like saying that women who in the past would have gotten married ASAP to provide for them, now feel content/no rush bc they can provide for themselves. Of course it makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/22 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: In your experience, how many women reach their twenties as virgins and why do they?"the overwhelming majority of women would find this type of man unattractive" "So that's still a Chad!!!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: In your experience, how many women reach their twenties as virgins and why do they?Willing to give people a chance even if they do not meet every standard or have some flaws - shamed, "used up", blamed for anything bad they did to us because we should have rejected them based on the flaws we knew about Hold tight to standards and don't fuck anyone who offers - "delusional, going to end up alone, conceited", also "paranoid" if rejecting someone for the same flaws that if we accepted them we would be blamed for overlooking when they did something bad to us These are our options,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: In your experience, how many women reach their twenties as virgins and why do they?She has a really niche sort of type | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: In your experience, how many women reach their twenties as virgins and why do they?I have a friend She is very pretty so it's not her that is the issue. She has just rejected all offers bc she did not like them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 06:06 AM |
| – | One thing I admit, social media and dating apps have changed my perspective on how attractive I find some menJust that almost anyone would acknowledge he was a handsome/attractive man, even if he wasn’t their type. Yes, that does not equate to conventionally attractive Unconventionally attractive actors are guys like Adrian Brody or Adam Driver That's niche attractive, meaning people that only some will find attractive and some others will find not attractive at all. Niche attractive, conventionally attractive, and unconventionally attractive are all different things. Depp's whole aesthetic/style, appe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/22 01:18 AM |
| 1 | One thing I admit, social media and dating apps have changed my perspective on how attractive I find some menOh my god that does not mean what you think it means. Apparently half of y'all have never heard the term before. It means nothing about "the bar" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/22 07:02 PM |
| 1 | One thing I admit, social media and dating apps have changed my perspective on how attractive I find some menDo you even realize what that means 💀💀 all it means is he's attractive in a unique/quirky way and not a "normal" way. It's really not as big of a deal as you're making it out to be | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/22 07:01 PM |
| -1 | One thing I admit, social media and dating apps have changed my perspective on how attractive I find some menYes, because he is unconventionally attractive. Unconventionally attractive people tend to gain even more of a cult following/fanbase than conventionally attractive people. I think you misunderstand what the phrase means. Depp and DiCaprio in their day were unconventionally attractive, Pitt was conventionally attractive. Just bc they are different doesn't mean that the effect isn't the same -- an intense following of people who think they are/were highly attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/22 09:37 AM |
| -8 | One thing I admit, social media and dating apps have changed my perspective on how attractive I find some menNot conventionally no, he would be what you'd call "unconventionally attractive" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/22 06:20 AM |
| 2 | One thing I admit, social media and dating apps have changed my perspective on how attractive I find some menDo you think it's possible we can over expose ourselves to too much beauty? If possible, you would have "ruined" your appreciation of beauty a decade ago when mass/constant exposure to the peak of beauty became available, not now. Celebrity crushes are unique bc they are often tied to our current fixations and interests. For example if you're really into this or that TV Series at the time you will find the actor in it way more attractive than a few years later when your interest in the series ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/22 03:08 AM |
| 1 | Why all men should be hitting the gym regardless of what some women “preferences” areThat's just freaky/unnatural looking, this would be a much better example of a "fit" gymgoer aesthetic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/22 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Do dudes have a revenge fantasy about women who won't date them ending up alone because they themselves are on track to ending up alone?Because it's not the kind of thing that can be measured, it's observed. You can't go out there and collect each and every comment or post that has such sentiments, even attempting such a thing in an academic setting would yield highly variable results depending on where the search is done, when, by what keywords, by what measurement etc. It's like asking if anti-Russian sentiments are rising in the wake of recent events. Obviously they are, as you can see it everywhere and it is very easily obse… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/22 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Do dudes have a revenge fantasy about women who won't date them ending up alone because they themselves are on track to ending up alone?That's not a statement that requires a source lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/22 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Do dudes have a revenge fantasy about women who won't date them ending up alone because they themselves are on track to ending up alone?"alarmingly large" is what I said, the circles dedicated to hating women are in fact very significant in numbers in comparison to fringe hate groups and hateful attitudes, violent sentiment etc towards women are much more mainstream/common than other hate-based ideologies | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/22 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Do dudes have a revenge fantasy about women who won't date them ending up alone because they themselves are on track to ending up alone?Is there a significant amount of men wishing misery to women, no, I don't think so. There are significant internet circles more or less dedicate to it The guys here are very mild compared to some alarmingly large corners of the internet | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/22 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Why is the man always the bad guy after a break up?There just isn’t anything to gain from that. The exact same thing the woman gains by painting her ex as an asshole lol. Sympathy, reassurance, and validation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/22 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Why is the man always the bad guy after a break up?Men either don’t talk about their ex (because no one cares) or they only talk to their closest friend about it, they don’t go to their parents and piers and bash them. ??? What?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/22 11:42 PM |
| 1 | Men here really act as if they wouldn't take advantage of their youth and good looks by sleeping around when they're young, like their female counterparts (if they could).You mean the PHYSICAL places where they have tangible, physical buildings? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/22 08:10 AM |
| 1 | Men here really act as if they wouldn't take advantage of their youth and good looks by sleeping around when they're young, like their female counterparts (if they could).Yes and they are not locked with physical means lol that's the point Also for academic papers that's usually the institution making money to be published, if you want a locked paper just contact the author and they will give it to you for free lol. This is a fairly well known thing to the point it's become a running joke | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/22 07:52 AM |
| 1 | Men here really act as if they wouldn't take advantage of their youth and good looks by sleeping around when they're young, like their female counterparts (if they could).That's the point, those aren't tangible things. In this analogy this would be like trying to use a physical lock and key to guard your intellectual property. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/22 07:43 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHere's a resource you may find useful then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/22 08:36 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt's okay have fun with whatever you like just know you have to have a special license to own large apes in most western countries! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/22 08:33 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHairy female? 😰😰 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/22 08:26 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWell if you use hair conditioner instead of shaving cream it works wonders. I have stopped purchasing shaving cream entirely, conditioner is infinitely superior But that's more of a general secret not time wise. Idk it never takes me more than 5 minutes max | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/22 08:26 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadShaved mens legs look thoroughly gay People with their tongue sawed out of their mouth have better taste than this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/22 08:24 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMy chest and back are spotless Good so you're human and not an animal my nose is very hairy. Can be easily fixed, they make little trimmers for that now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/22 08:22 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNatural selection will take care of people like you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/22 08:19 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWe need to start shaming male leg/armpit/pube hair like we do women's It is so easy to keep your legs and armpits shaved. It is so off-putting and jarring to see but we just accept it from men. We literally socially enforce it on women from puberty onwards but we just allow men to walk around looking like that. Being hairless is incredibly easy and should be the standard for non-shithole societies. It is literally just a few minutes to get it off your armpits and legs and pubes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/22 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Men here really act as if they wouldn't take advantage of their youth and good looks by sleeping around when they're young, like their female counterparts (if they could).You're missing the point there is nothing valuable in any vagina to begin with. I know women used to put money in their bras but did I miss something where they were stuffing them up there too? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/22 06:21 PM |
| 1 | To the single people, what's your ideal partner and why?That's disabled and there are legal issues involved in which you can be charged with a crime similar to statutory rape for fucking them in some states | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/22 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Men here really act as if they wouldn't take advantage of their youth and good looks by sleeping around when they're young, like their female counterparts (if they could).A key that opens many locks is a good key, but a lock that can opened by many keys is a shitty lock. This analogy has never made any sense, the only reason it works is bc the physical anatomy makes it seem reasonable to people who don't think it through but like... It falls apart if you remove that aspect. Why is the guy necessarily the key? Who determines that, other than that you think the anatomy physically resembles it? It's just illogical. And a lock implies there is something valuable bein… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/22 09:56 AM |
| 3 | To the single people, what's your ideal partner and why?impulsive, someone who doesn't overthink every goddamn thing That's just BPD | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/22 09:27 AM |
| 7 | Where do you draw the line in this new era of pornography?Real porn is gross and I would be against it morally unless you can assure it's safe so like OF or other direct payments/solo girl stuff. But if dating I would take issue with directly following a porn girl on twt/paying for OF of some specific girl. Although tbh personally it just kinda feels gross altogether to think of someone watching real porn I have no moral issue with animated porn/3d model porn/hentai. If it's like, inflation or vore, though, yeah I'm probably gonna look down on you a li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/22 11:19 PM |
| 1 | TRP is wrong about 35+ being a man’s primeOkay but why should I choose a guy who took until he's older when I could have one that got it right from the get go who is my age? Most men begin maturing at 25. This strongly depends on the crowd you're in. I would not date someone who has ever revolved around raves, girls, drugs No matter how much time has passed since that phase of their life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/22 10:57 PM |
| 2 | TRP is wrong about 35+ being a man’s primeIf the 35 year old wants to start a new career that's fine, but he should definitely have some money saved up first. That's actually a good area where you can clearly see a difference in character - you have some 35 y/o men who have a quarter-life crisis and decide to restart life with some new financial venture, and plunge themselves into financial ruin doing so. Versus a man who has an honest conversation about his plans, plans ahead and ensures he is adequately prepared financially rather tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/22 09:33 PM |
| 4 | TRP is wrong about 35+ being a man’s primeExactly like the poor thing is excited, PE is practically a compliment lol. It's cute. Besides he's young so he can get hard again quickly and not have to take pills just to get it up twice in an hour like an old dude lol. A woman abandoning a dude over PE is literally trashy, she's doing him a favor | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/22 09:19 PM |
| 4 | TRP is wrong about 35+ being a man’s primeA put together 20 y/o: on a career track, be it in college, trade training, or possibly working a temporary job for a few years to save up for one of those things, or occasionally already in a job that can be sustainable without further education/training responsible with money does not drink, participate in any form of western weed culture, does not go to clubs or parties (the unsavory kind at least, wholesome gatherings with friends is fine), or anything like that emotionally mature, does not … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/22 08:47 PM |
| 6 | TRP is wrong about 35+ being a man’s primeNah, met plenty of 20 y/o boys who were plenty well-put-together. Naive and sometimes making a poor decision here or there, sure, but their character is very clearly already defined at that age, just as it is for immature ones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/22 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Online Dating observations: Tinder’s Algorithm is broken and optimizes for Dark Triad Traits (Narcissism, Machiavellianism, Psychopathy)Uh... No. That was romance novel material maybe, not the material of erotica in that day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/22 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Online Dating observations: Tinder’s Algorithm is broken and optimizes for Dark Triad Traits (Narcissism, Machiavellianism, Psychopathy)Your grandma didn't read Twilight, didn't watch Jersey Shore, didn't watch soap operas and didn't read drama stories on Reddit. Smutty trashy novels for women (and men complaining about it) has been a thing in western culture since roughly the 1300s lol. Also it is a massive myth that women of yesteryear were puritanical and celibate. That was a thing for the upper classes -- in lower classes, unmarried and teen pregnancy and sexual debauchery was rampant and always has been. However I did learn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/22 08:02 PM |
| 13 | TRP is wrong about 35+ being a man’s primeYou want emotional stability? An older man is likely to have that. I cannot fathom unironically believing this A man child at 20 will be a man child at 35, a mature man at 20 will be mature at 35 Edit also the girl in question just has bad taste it sounds like. If she's really get that upset over a guy experiencing PE, she's taking out the trash for him by leaving and he's dodging a bullet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/22 07:21 PM |
| 1 | What is the wall?Women are weird, you are legitimately telling me that there is not a single woman alive that does not find a 90 year old attractive? Of course there's like one. But certainly not those models dating them lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/22 05:33 PM |
| 3 | Romantic love isn't the same as filial loveSocial norms. It's delusional to think social norms solely explains physical, chemical urges 💀 if that's the case and you can explain away urges with that, you can just as easily argue that men want to have sex solely bc of social norms. Does that sound rational to you? Why do girlfriends hug eachother? We don't except as like a greeting, not cuddling. And you know, like, everyone hugs as greetings. I've seen guy friends do it, you do it for family too. The fake pseudo-lesbian thing men think wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/22 09:04 AM |
| 1 | What is the wall?Unironically linking rational male is like a woman linking buzzfeed or jezebel lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/22 08:44 AM |
| 1 | What is the wall?He's had a string of girlfriends, that's hardly "like clockwork" lol Any rich and famous person is going to be able to get a following of people they could easily date. Do you really truly believe that with those bald, shriveled up 90 y/o elderly dudes dating models, that the models truly find them sexually attractive? Come on now men in their 20s that find say Jennifer Lopez still desirable (probably 0.0001%) Now you're just being disingenuous | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/22 08:41 AM |
| 3 | Romantic love isn't the same as filial loveThen why would one only have the urge to do those things with them and feel uncomfortable doing them with platonic friends? Why do you have such strong urges for non-sexual physical contact? Why do you have the butterflies and the chemical highs? Norms alone can't explain that. And part of it is exclusivity. That's one of if not the most defining trait of (non degenerate) romantic relationships. The intensity and degree of it goes far beyond anything a "best friend" concept ever could. A relatio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/22 08:26 AM |
| 1 | What is the wall?Yes he was so pretty back then 🥺 if anything he is literally a testament to the fact that men can go from gorgeous to ugly due to age too lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/22 07:16 AM |
| 3 | Romantic love isn't the same as filial loveOkay, you can define a relationship however you want I guess. But that's not the point being made in the OP and not what you said, you were dismissive of the statement You can love someone romantically without wanting to have sex with them People are here telling you their experiences. You are literally just telling people "that which you have experienced firsthand can't happen bc I, someone who hasn't experienced it, think it can't happen." Like what's even the point other than just wanting to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/22 06:37 AM |
| 1 | What is the wall?They have effectively convinced themselves that being older will make them more attractive. It's actually harmful bc it's setting up young unsuccessful men for disappointment and regret Back when the wall sub was still up, some dude made a post about how "like milk vs like wine" showing a woman who got old and their evidence for men aging like wine was DiCaprio. Utterly delusional | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/22 03:15 AM |
| 6 | Romantic love isn't the same as filial loveI don't get the point of these comments or the op, like all you are doing is telling someone their lived experiences are wrong which is just silly and nonsensical. It's like saying "no one likes this thing!" and when someone says "oh I like that thing actually" you say "no you don't" Like what's even the point? It comes across as either a) wanting to make a group of people feel invalidated bc you don't like them or b) just wanting to be inflammatory | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/22 03:11 AM |
| 4 | Romantic love isn't the same as filial lovebutterfly in the stomach/racing heart symptoms are LITERALLY your body becoming physically aroused I will have to remember I am actually sexually attracted to tests and job interviews and celebrations 🤔 and here I thought it was called "excitement" or "nervousness" Frankly I think "asexuals" are largely liars and/or Redditor thinking they are smarter than medical professionals exhibit #302181735 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/22 12:28 AM |
| 7 | Romantic love isn't the same as filial loveThen why is it so different from any female friendship lol. Why do you do things and have the compulsion to do things you would not do with female friends. Have a strong longing for them when they are not around. Have the sort of rush/high that you simply do not get from friends. Where is all that coming from | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/22 12:18 AM |
| 6 | Romantic love isn't the same as filial loveThen how can you feel them without feeling arousal? Arousal is a very distinct feeling I think I or any adult would know what that feels like lol. If you are not having sexual desire and your entire below-the-stomach area feels absolutely nothing, that's not aroused | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/22 12:08 AM |
| 7 | Romantic love isn't the same as filial loveYes I'm saying you can get the butterflies in the stomach feeling while not feeling any sort of feeling of sexuality. The ovaries are numb and dead Sexuality can be an optional component of romantic love but even without it, a romantic relationship feels very different from family or friends, it's a very different emotional/mental sensation, the nature of the attachment is different, the things you do with them and the way you interact is different | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/22 12:07 AM |
| 7 | Romantic love isn't the same as filial loveNo it's not? Those are entirely emotional, they have nothing to do with your sexual organs and they do not cause arousal If your ovaries feel non-existent it's not sexual | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/22 12:01 AM |
| 11 | Romantic love isn't the same as filial loveRomantic love isn't the same as filial love. Yes but that's not the same as Romantic love REQUIRES sexual desire. Sexual and filial love are not all there is, there is sexual love, romantic love, filial love, platonic love, etc Non sexual romantic love is different from any feeling you can get from friends or family. You do not get the stomach-butterflies heavy-heartbeat, chemical rush feeling from friendship or family, but you can have that same rush feeling whilst you're dry as the Sahara And … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/22 11:33 PM |
| 1 | Women: what are your best dating tips for men?I'm not talking about gender related things | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/22 07:40 PM |
| 2 | Online Dating observations: Tinder’s Algorithm is broken and optimizes for Dark Triad Traits (Narcissism, Machiavellianism, Psychopathy)Ppl here spend half their time obsessing with what they do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/22 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadComplete density and stupidity is adorable in boys | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/22 07:02 PM |
| 2 | Online Dating observations: Tinder’s Algorithm is broken and optimizes for Dark Triad Traits (Narcissism, Machiavellianism, Psychopathy)Until they want children. Average men still serve no purpose then bc they do not want their kids to be with those men. Most women would rather remain childless than have kids with an ugly dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/22 06:23 PM |
| 0 | Online Dating observations: Tinder’s Algorithm is broken and optimizes for Dark Triad Traits (Narcissism, Machiavellianism, Psychopathy)Tf is she digging him up every night? Do you know what dote on means? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/22 06:12 PM |
| -1 | Online Dating observations: Tinder’s Algorithm is broken and optimizes for Dark Triad Traits (Narcissism, Machiavellianism, Psychopathy)Stereotypes. Exist. For. A. Reason. It wouldn't be a stereotype if it were not generally true more often than not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/22 10:42 AM |
| -4 | Online Dating observations: Tinder’s Algorithm is broken and optimizes for Dark Triad Traits (Narcissism, Machiavellianism, Psychopathy)Okay, that doesn't change that it's a common trope/stereotype and stereotypes don't pop up out of nowhere. It's literally portrayed in media all the time. There's even articles out there like "why are elderly women resentful?" Etc etc. My great/ grandmas definitely opened my eyes to it, but moreso was volunteering at a nursing home for a while. Those ladies favorite past time is playing card games and going round the circle basically having a dick measuring contest of whose husband was the worst… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/22 10:04 AM |
| -2 | Online Dating observations: Tinder’s Algorithm is broken and optimizes for Dark Triad Traits (Narcissism, Machiavellianism, Psychopathy)Go ask old married women in their 70s/80s if they care about their husbands or if they're just "ugly dudes they don't care about" Old women notoriously hate and resent their husbands and rag on them when they're gone what are you on about. This is so common it's a well known stereotype and frequently joked about Also yes I have more or less had one firsthand say so 💀 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/22 09:40 AM |
| 3 | Online Dating observations: Tinder’s Algorithm is broken and optimizes for Dark Triad Traits (Narcissism, Machiavellianism, Psychopathy)am looking for a normal dude who goes to church and cares about family Then why tf are you on tinder 💀💀 this is like saying you're looking for the finest wine available and trying to find it at target | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/22 09:34 AM |
| 3 | Online Dating observations: Tinder’s Algorithm is broken and optimizes for Dark Triad Traits (Narcissism, Machiavellianism, Psychopathy)women did it for centuries without any apps. With ugly dudes they didn't actually care about bc they needed them bc they depended on them financially Women want "a man" but they no longer need money/protection the way they did back then so an ugly dude with a middle class income doesn't serve a purpose to them, he adds nothing to their life, while women generally inherently add to a man's life bc he gets sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/22 09:31 AM |
| 1 | Women: what are your best dating tips for men?We are talking about when a woman wants the guy to tell a story. Which is virtually never, yet they constantly do so unprompted and make the entire night about themselves | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/22 08:01 AM |
| – | Why does it seem like less attractive people tend to gravitate more towards kink/fetishes and other non-traditional sexuality?They are genuinely into it though bc they seek it out. Like poly/swinger ppl are notoriously ugly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/22 05:01 AM |
| 4 | Women are never really "alone" the way men areWomen's lack of being alone/not becoming horribly depressed when single is not about men, it's about women. We get most of our interaction from other women, our friends. If women were dependent on access to sex and transient physical intimacy They would be just as miserable as lonely men. The idea that getting sex is equivalent to not being lonely is a male way of thinking. Male loneliness largely stems from you all being horrible friends to each other. You see it literally all the time, dudes j… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/22 04:57 AM |
| 1 | Women: what are your best dating tips for men?So you don't like to get to know someone when dating them? That is not at all the same thing as what I said | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/22 03:24 AM |
| 1 | Women: what are your best dating tips for men?That was a default sub before they disabled that, it was one of the subs reddit automatically signed you up for if you made your account prior to 2017ish. So generally it will be more left leaning. It's also far too broad to have anything of substance, it's essentially a pointless community. If you wanted to discuss anything in detail you'd have to go to a more specific topic, which is where the problem begins, if it's anything about economics, international relations etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/22 08:26 PM |
| 2 | Women: what are your best dating tips for men?Most me I know (including me) can talk about philosophy, religion, politics etc for hours on end. That is not at all the same thing as men going on monologues about themselves | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/22 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Women: what are your best dating tips for men?I'll copy paste what I said to the other guy who said the same thing: gee, I wonder why a woman wouldn't participate in a political sub on reddit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/22 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Women: what are your best dating tips for men?Gee, I wonder why women wouldn't participate in a political sub on reddit... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/22 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Women: what are your best dating tips for men?That is a total misunderstanding of what I said. A first date is questions. You ask about him. He asks about you. Because you ARE supposed to show interest in one another. Which is why going off on a tangent unprompted about yourself, rather than expressing interest in them, is a big flag for self absorbed people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/22 08:10 PM |
| 15 | If you had to pick a side, would you be on the "I'd rather have guy friends, girls are too much drama" side, or the "I'd rather have girl friends, guys are too much of whatever guys are too much of" side?Men and women are dramatic about different things. Some people find one type more tolerable than the other, or, like myself, find both equally intolerable. However, women primarily project their drama onto other women, or evenly between other women and men. Whereas men tend to save their theatrics for women, hence men perceive each other as less dramatic and women bear the entire brunt of male dramatics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/22 04:23 PM |
| 42 | If you had to pick a side, would you be on the "I'd rather have guy friends, girls are too much drama" side, or the "I'd rather have girl friends, guys are too much of whatever guys are too much of" side?I'm convinced that anyone who says "girls are too much drama" has never met a man, so | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/22 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Women: what are your best dating tips for men?But most interactions with women are interesting. Yes there are shallow women who only talk about other people and the like. But there are plenty of women like my friends who will discuss topics with substance with me. Contrary to popular belief it is usually men who are disinterested. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/22 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Women: what are your best dating tips for men?You're just describing poor social skills. Every man I've ever interacted with -- coworkers classmates relatives -- are all just socially inept? How would that happen? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/22 03:23 PM |
| 0 | Women: what are your best dating tips for men?With women I can talk about things like current world events, abstract concepts, debate opinions on issues. We do not talk about dumb shit like celebrity drama or other people or whatever I'm sure you're imagining in your head. You cannot talk to men about the things like what I talk to women about. It isn't a conversation, it turns into a monologue, if they're even interested in such things to begin with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/22 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Being alone is better than being in a relstionship we are not excited to be inI think too many women look for that “spark” or “excitement” without realizing it eventually fades. They do realize it fades, people are taught that or understand it by the time they're in puberty stages. Everyone in general has been told this. They do realize it, and they know they have to seek out a new person to get it back, which is why they do so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/22 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Women: what are your best dating tips for men?If she’s interested in him, she’ll be interested Telling a story is the quickest way to make me lose interest entirely in a guy who I was interested in up to that point. Which is the case for a large number of women, based on what they say. That is the point. Story telling is only interesting if the story itself is interesting on its own. The average person has no interesting stories to tell. If it's not the kind of story they make movies out of, I (and most young women) don't care. I think to s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/22 02:51 PM |
| 5 | Women: what are your best dating tips for men?...so you agree that a girl is disinterested in that? Bc they usually literally use the phrase "tell stories" and specifically say she was annoyed he talked about himself rather than asking about her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/22 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Women: what are your best dating tips for men?If your date has a blank glazed over look in their eyes and you've been talking for 20 minutes straight - which is essentially what a man "telling a story" always amounts to - you don't think that's maybe a bad sign? You think a woman should find that riveting? Maybe on your dates you should just stare into each other's eyes and then text memes to each other. That's more entertaining than the average "time I did this impressive thing" or "convoluted half hour tale about people you don't know" st… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/22 02:24 PM |
| 2 | Women: what are your best dating tips for men?And a very common one, if you've ever read those "what did a guy do that ruined a date" questions on subs like askwomen | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/22 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Women: what are your best dating tips for men?I wouldn't tell stories either because it is uninteresting in general. He's not going to care about mine any more than I care about his. Keep in mind I'm talking about first/early dates. If you want to tell stories later on in the relationship that's fine I guess. But going off on tangents about your experiences especially on a first date is very obnoxious, you're supposed to show interest in them, not yourself. There are plenty of gender neutral spaces, but men choose to go to boring places | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/22 02:14 PM |
| 0 | Women: what are your best dating tips for men?Unfortunately | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/22 02:12 PM |
| 0 | Women: what are your best dating tips for men?Other women are interesting to talk to but men usually are not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/22 02:12 PM |
| 2 | Women: what are your best dating tips for men?If you go onto women's subs and the like there have been questions like "what did a guy do that ruined a date" etc etc and the answers are very frequently about how the dude went off on a tale about himself that bored her and talked too much about himself. Most stories a guy has to tell are not interesting and it comes across as self absorbed. It definitely does ruin a date I've had it happen. Like I do not care about the trip you went on last summer or the time you did this or that. Nor would I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/22 02:11 PM |
| -1 | Which would you want: The virgin who only gives you missionary for the rest of your life, or the non-virgin who does all the kinky stuff you like for the rest of your life?The majority of "minority" populations in the United States are Hispanic, for whom the very young marriage thing applies, and black, for often are just as if not more religious than whites and have low rates of interracial dating with white males. People are allowed to abstain from sex till marriage or commitment and still enjoy kinky stuff or exploring their sexuality with somebody they have a connection with. The world isn’t black or white. This depends highly from individual to individual. Un… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/22 09:32 AM |
| -2 | Which would you want: The virgin who only gives you missionary for the rest of your life, or the non-virgin who does all the kinky stuff you like for the rest of your life?This is generally an anglospherian community so I am talking about what applies to the majority of them. You will have to get used to people generally not mentioning things that don't apply to anyone except a small minority here. However, for those other cultures, that would still almost always fall under mental issues. Puritanical cultures, which they are whether you like to admit it or not, repress female sexuality which causes all sorts of problems that would very much lead to the whole "bori… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/22 09:21 AM |
| 4 | Women: what are your best dating tips for men?Don't be boring The single most common issue I have ever found with guys is having the personality of a paper towel. They expect you to do all the talking. They have no interests or hobbies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/22 09:16 AM |
| -5 | Women: what are your best dating tips for men?You can babble any old story and it will probably be interesting This is generally regarded among young women as the most annoying thing a man can do. If he starts telling a story that's an immediate red flag for pretentious and just flat out boring And most places men feel comfortable are going to be boring for us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/22 09:12 AM |
| -2 | Which would you want: The virgin who only gives you missionary for the rest of your life, or the non-virgin who does all the kinky stuff you like for the rest of your life?Virgin isn’t synonymous to boring. Beyond the age of early 20s or so it likely is a sign of a mental issue, so it would be. People who stay virgins out of religion or morality, almost always marry very young, usually right out of college (or high school among lower classes). So maybe for 18-21 year olds or so it wouldn't apply. Almost the kids I went to church with are already married at 21/22. Beyond that, a woman who is 21+ or so and a virgin either has been unable to have sex or has not for s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/22 09:10 AM |
| 2 | Why is the marriage rate falling?You should have to go to atleast 6 months of counseling and if that doesn't work then you can get divorced. You mean if the reason is just resentment/not liking each other? Bc if the guy is physically harming her or her kids it's kinda cruel to force them to stay with him Even so, what you're saying is that if the hate/resentment for each other is strong enough, then it IS a valid reason? They just have to undergo a time test to prove it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/22 11:50 PM |
| 3 | Why is the marriage rate falling?Any reason is a legitimate reason. If two people hate each other why would anyone think it's a good idea to force them to continue living together? Living together while resenting each other is far worse than separation for everyone involved, especially the kids if there are any. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/22 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Why is the marriage rate falling?People getting married later in life = people being more discriminate and marrying someone they are actually long term compatible with We don't have the "two naive hormone-fueled 20 year olds getting married on a whim and realizing they are incompatible soon after" thing much anymore. People marrying older is people marrying wiser. In particularly religious places, you still see a lot of kids marrying young bc they just want to have sex. And then they end up in bitter marriages who hate each oth… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/22 07:35 PM |
| 13 | Men would rather be rejected honestly than be told a white lieWhy aren't you willing to risk your personal safety? He just told you his feelings are at stake :( | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/22 08:45 AM |
| 8 | Men would rather be rejected honestly than be told a white lier/whenwomenrefuse And a woman taking even half the nastiness of the approach of "No because you're the ugliest man on Earth and I hope you fucking die and rot in hell." Would be a quick way to end up on that sub. Edit actually I remember getting a tweet recommended a few weeks ago that was a phone screenshot of some girl rejecting a guy, not even brutally or mean but just very flippantly and the quote retweets were so unsettling. Guys posting wojaks of someone loading guns, one with them blowing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/22 08:44 AM |
| 7 | How do women meet guys in 2022?High school and college. You start as friends and eventually slowly transition to dating And now I don't meet them so idk after that I'm waiting for them to pop out of thin air. Unless you count ldr online relationships in which case I met a guy on a hentai subreddit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/22 02:11 AM |
| 4 | A rich man might fuck broke hot young women but he'd never wife them upMost rappers I can think of either met their wives before they were famous and rich or married rich women. Most dating are dating rich women. Lil Wayne: met first partner before fame, current partner is a literal rich model Kanye: literal billionaire wife lol Jay Z: literal multimillionaire wife lol Dr Dre: Rich attorney Travis Scott: billionaire wife | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/22 10:22 PM |
| 0 | A rich man might fuck broke hot young women but he'd never wife them up...you mean who are also usually from some degree of wealth? Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/22 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Where does Red Pill stand on consent definition?No, that is not what I said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/22 08:42 PM |
| 2 | Where does Red Pill stand on consent definition?I can’t sell you something you’re not interested in. I can only sell you something you want. But in this case she doesn't want the product itself, she wants what the product is supposed to do or help her obtain, which is false. With your analogy, you're more like an mlm/pyramid scheme promising to make her rich, or one of those scam miracle products/snake oil. Even if that were the case, Did you want that product despite your hesitancy? Not necessarily. That's what hesitancy is. You're not sure … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/22 05:51 PM |
| 1 | Where does Red Pill stand on consent definition?Nope, that is in fact not at all what I said. You have every right to that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/22 03:02 PM |
| 3 | Where does Red Pill stand on consent definition?You can word the same thing many different ways. People frequently word things to make them sound softer or less harsh to avoid poor reactions. That is, in fact, how human language words. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/22 02:27 PM |
| -1 | Where does Red Pill stand on consent definition?Are you seriously saying, that when a man hears a clear "NO!" and backs off and does not pursue this any further, maybe even leaves, he is somehow manipulating the woman? Nope! Please gain reading comprehension and try again | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/22 01:50 PM |
| -1 | Where does Red Pill stand on consent definition?Let me get this straight, you don’t understand that a salesman literally depends on closing sales to earn a living? Yes, but that is not at all the same thing as what I said. The go on to prattle about muh power dynamics and social expectations? Women are either adults or not. Which is it? It is unwise and nonsensical to approach an issue that is inherently rooted in social dynamics and culture, and then try to dismiss the importance and role of social dynamics and culture. In any study or debat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/22 08:12 AM |
| -2 | Where does Red Pill stand on consent definition?Except the man is out money for buying a dinner due to the woman’s manipulation. The woman is out… what exactly if a man leaves the situation? I'm not sure what the first one was supposed to say but you're comparing outcome A in one situation to outcome B in the other. You should be comparing outcome A to outcome A or outcome B to outcome B. In which case, if he refuses to take her elsewhere and she leaves, he gains nothing and loses nothing. If the man agrees and doesn't have sex in the other, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/22 07:27 AM |
| 1 | Where does Red Pill stand on consent definition?Yes, and if she quite literally says "no," that is "no". But they encourage you to try and turn "no" into "yes" via psychology tactics designed to appeal to her sense of guilt/indebtment or panic. You cannot repackage it in a way that doesn't sound scummy dude Ftr, your earlier anecdote is not the same thing as LMR. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/22 07:04 AM |
| -5 | Where does Red Pill stand on consent definition?Is it “manipulation to make a guy wait some arbitrary 3 dates so he “feels like I’m relationship material”? This is not the intention of waiting to have sex with someone for most women. If it were the intention, yeah, it would be. Are you being “manipulative” if you don’t want to go to restaurant X and refuse to go on the date as a result? No. That is saying "I don't like this place so I won't be going." If you were doing it with the intention of him changing his mind and offering something else… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/22 07:01 AM |
| -5 | Where does Red Pill stand on consent definition?The almost universally agreed upon TRP response to resistance to sexual contact is to disengage from it. To not pester, pine or plead, but to simply so "Ok, cool" and do something else or simply leave. Okay? I know that? I didn't say otherwise? That does not change that it is a psychology tactic designed to get you the result you want. I know how much y'all hate this phrase but that is, in the most literal, baseline definition, psychological manipulation. Definition: "use of devious means to exp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/22 06:21 AM |
| 0 | Where does Red Pill stand on consent definition?It's eyeroll worthy to try and dissociate something from your group bc you don't like the image it gives. It's brought up so frequently in trp subs and trp has such an overlap that it's silly to say it's not very much a thing for them too. She says “no”. It was never “working past the ‘no’”. It was more like “give her permission creatively to give herself permission to say ‘yes’” That is the same thing as pushing past "no". You're backpedaling and trying to rationalize your way into making them … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/22 06:06 AM |
| 2 | Where does Red Pill stand on consent definition?Found it. "Last minute resistance", or LMR. If you search the term there's plenty of posts about how to push a woman past her first "no"/hesitation and persuade her to say yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/22 05:33 AM |
| 0 | Where does Red Pill stand on consent definition?Isn't there a whole concept in trp about pushing past the "no"? There's a term for it y'all have Edit: it's LMR | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/22 05:04 AM |
| 2 | Is Male sexuality broken ?That's not what men are arguing, they say it causes irreparable damage. No one is denying that it can cause temporary numbness a short time after, or that you can get used to the sensation and train yourself to orgasm one way, that's how all masturbation works. But if you take a short time off, you can retrain yourself another way, and the full sensitivity will come back. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/22 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Is Male sexuality broken ?but somehow we still say that female sex toys have no negative impact on women Redditor believing they are smarter than actual medical professionals exhibit #491283716155 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/22 06:55 PM |
| 3 | With access to easy sex, it is up to women to control their n countsPeople are replying to the point of your post which is not what I'm replying to. I'm saying no one cares about your private life, it's not relevant and trying to be all "b-but I get bitches!! I have options these women aren't good enough for me!" is just cringey and comes off as bitter and desperately trying to convince yourself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/22 08:16 PM |
| 5 | With access to easy sex, it is up to women to control their n countsI know women don't like hearing this, especially high n count women. You are not upsetting anyone with the first statement no one cares I've done it before a few times before I met my wife. That didn't mean that I wouldn't fuck them, I would. It just means that I'm not promoting them to girlfriend. I don't get how the dudes that make these posts don't realize how cringey it is When you state it like this so passive aggressively it comes off as insecure and no one believes you, but like no one ca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/22 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Short Woman with height requirements; how tall is your father and brothers?Yeah more or less. Like the human incarnation of a brick wall | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/22 09:50 AM |
| 2 | Short Woman with height requirements; how tall is your father and brothers?My dad is 6'5, but I have an inverse height requirement I will only go up to maybe 5'10 at the absolute most. I love my dad but I would not date a man of his height/build | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/22 03:15 AM |
| 4 | FDS and TRP were born and exist due to ugly people who's standards are too highDidn't trp have a huge user overlap with the incel sub back when both were up? Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 03:37 PM |
| 2 | Q4W What are your physical preferences and what are your physical requirements?Say that word to me at your own risk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 08:32 AM |
| 2 | Q4W What are your physical preferences and what are your physical requirements?Yes the first one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 02:42 AM |
| 1 | Q4W What are your physical preferences and what are your physical requirements?God I wish | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 01:48 AM |
| 2 | Q4W What are your physical preferences and what are your physical requirements?I am a zoomer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 01:45 AM |
| 12 | Q4W What are your physical preferences and what are your physical requirements?preference Requirements: I would like to pretend I have decent ones out of dignity but based on my history: male, human, and alive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/22 11:50 PM |
| 2 | Women believing that men “command respect” proves that the average man’s experiences to them are invisibleDo you think men aren’t ignored and belittled in the work place This is not what I said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/22 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Women believing that men “command respect” proves that the average man’s experiences to them are invisibleSo for whatever reason women believe that men can just enter a room and command respect from everyone No one says this They believe that men are listened to more in the work place, at car dealerships, at the family reunion at the circus etc etc. In workplace and car dealerships yes. In many things. It's amazing how if you're struggling to reason with a person or get what you need, you can get a guy to talk to them/put a man on the line and the issue will be resolved near instantly despite them s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/22 06:27 PM |
| -1 | What do you mean when you refer to the average guy?Like a 3/10 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/22 06:15 PM |
| 2 | Being "hookup material" is better than being "boyfriend material"They do in college. I had a very slutty roommate who might as well have hated her fwbs and would trash talk them when they weren't around. She talked about them like most girls talk about ex boyfriends or men they reject. It was weird but insightful | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/22 06:00 AM |
| 1 | Q4W Out of the 10 guys listed below, how would you rank them from most physically attractive to least physically attractive?Much of this is so subjective and interpretable that you can't get accurate answers without photo examples | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/22 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Study on what 1,000 women feel about muscular men in terms of attraction.Sometimes I think a chubby guy would be preferred because he's bigger and would make the girl feel smaller/feminine. Bc you can rationalize it in a way that aligns with your preexisting beliefs The popularity of skinny feminine boys like eboys on tiktok and streamers and punk rock stars in the 2000s and kpop boys now and the like should be evident | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/22 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Study on what 1,000 women feel about muscular men in terms of attraction.There will always be outlier exceptions. Besides every time I claim to like a certain type that isn't the standard on this sub I'm told I'm lying or coping so why do y'all believe her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/22 05:12 AM |
| 1 | Study on what 1,000 women feel about muscular men in terms of attraction.Sometimes I think a chubby guy would be preferred because he's bigger and would make the girl feel smaller/feminine. It is human instinct to be repulsed by obesity. The only exceptions are a rare handful of men with unnatural fetishes. Women do not get into the bizarre fetishes that some men do, like fat and feet and other weird things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/22 03:53 AM |
| 1 | Study on what 1,000 women feel about muscular men in terms of attraction.Which supports exactly what I said | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/22 03:07 AM |
| 7 | Valentines Day Mega-ThreadMods using internet explorer to post now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 10:26 PM |
| 2 | Study on what 1,000 women feel about muscular men in terms of attraction.least 1 out of 3 of their last sexual partners were muscular. So 2 weren't. Meaning it isn't impossible for you to get laid if you aren't lol Y'all take things like this and then blame it for failures when literally this means that the majority of their last partners weren't And it depends on the "not muscular" type. There's not just "muscular" and "not muscular". Skinny boy still stands better chance than fat, etc Also there's a big difference between what they likely mean versus what y'all thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 08:04 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W]Do you believe men can develop attraction for women over time?Being a 4 still makes you desirable. Obese, unattractive women still get pregnant from men. They still get attention. That doesn't matter. That's not the topic of discussion. Men fuck park benches and raw chicken and animals, any woman can attract some men, having that as a goal is pointless | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 12:42 AM |
| 5 | Why exactly does pornography bother you?Multiple emails being persistently ignored until legal action is threatened is not a coincidence lol. The problem is that they would have left it up had she not posed as a lawyer, the problem is that they did not say "oh, we have a 14 year olds rape on our website, we should fix that (on our own without needing the threat of a lawsuit to force us into it)," which they should have, and the implications that has about content on the rest of the site. It means that if it happens again, it would rem… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 12:33 AM |
| 7 | Why exactly does pornography bother you?...she emailed them multiple times asking for it to be taken down and they ignored her until she threatened legal action. The majority of porn videos are not rape, I didn't claim that. That doesn't mean the industry isn't riddled with it... That's not how numbers work. Also I'm not incapable of googling it either, I know you got that from a Quora response 💀💀 Quora is commonly used so yes it shows up first but it's not exactly a source... that's literally like "source: yahoo answers" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 12:24 AM |
| 10 | Why exactly does pornography bother you?I usually don't pull the "just Google it", but if you literally google the words "porn industry rape" you will get an endless mountain of results. This is a thread from a source that arose specifically to combat the issue that has a lot of good resources on pornhub specifically being involved in rape scandals. The traffickinghub tag creators also had a very short and simple video explaining it well. Of course including the girlsdoporn scandal, which just scratches the surface. Probably the most … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 12:11 AM |
| 4 | Why exactly does pornography bother you?I only mind real porn bc it makes me feel gross to look at and makes me feel gross knowing I'm with someone who looks at it. And bc the industry is rampant with rape and trafficking I'm fine with like hentai and 3D animated porn though. So you can't cry about it being jealousy over female bodies lol. If he wants to blow it to zero two tiddies that's fine | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 11:56 PM |
| 1 | The most feminist thing you can do is to actually give women enough agency to be losers. It's an easy RP win, if they show some self restraint and not alienate most people with their weirdo talking points.3/10 is not 1/3.... And the extremely slightly higher difference in likeliness to error, would not justify the penalty, the two don't add up. Especially taking into account that the men are more likely to be repeat offenders (likely for not facing consequences) and the male errors cost more. The miniscule difference of likeliness of error does not justify the extreme difference in treatment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 11:47 PM |
| 4 | [Q4W]Do you believe men can develop attraction for women over time?Morbid obesity counts as 1-2 to the overwhelming majority of people. But even then yes, this would only take someone from 1-3 to 4-5 at the absolute most IF they stayed in great shape and used a LOT more makeup than the average woman (keeping in mind that statistically the average woman does not wear much at all, contrary to the narrative here). But a 7? Delusional. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 08:30 PM |
| 4 | What should be the consequence of false paternity"okay now you have to pay non existent money you don't have as punishment" What do you want them to do? Public execution? 💀💀 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 04:50 PM |
| 10 | [Q4W]Do you believe men can develop attraction for women over time?That would take a 1-2 girl to a 4 at best Y'all will come up with anything to avoid just admitting some women can be irreversibly ugly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 04:42 PM |
| 6 | [Q4W]Do you believe men can develop attraction for women over time?“Yeah I became friends with this girl and over time I developed feelings for her and wanted something more” “I wasn’t really attracted to my husband/boyfriend at first but over time he became hot to me. His personality drew me in” Anyone who says any gendered variant of this is probably lying | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 04:39 PM |
| 4 | I feel like paternity tests should be done for every child at birth to prove who the father is or isn't.you're saying that if she doesn't know who the real one is, then she should be able to trick someone into raising a child that isn't his for her mistake??? Because you're saying if she can't find the actual father, you don't support dna testing, that's the only reason I can see why. You're telling me you think men who aren't the father, and who think they are, should be tricked into paying for a child because the woman doesn't know who the father is?? Literally nothing this person said indicated… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 02:36 PM |
| 1 | The most feminist thing you can do is to actually give women enough agency to be losers. It's an easy RP win, if they show some self restraint and not alienate most people with their weirdo talking points....did you just blatantly and shamelessly mess up late elementary school level math? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 02:26 PM |
| 3 | The most feminist thing you can do is to actually give women enough agency to be losers. It's an easy RP win, if they show some self restraint and not alienate most people with their weirdo talking points.Only very slightly, based on the number of female CFAs (1/5 are women, 3/10 is just slightly more than 1/5). Either way, that would not change: and the misconduct by women costs firms 20% less than misconduct by men, who are more also likely to be repeat offenders Nor anything else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 09:13 AM |
| -4 | The most feminist thing you can do is to actually give women enough agency to be losers. It's an easy RP win, if they show some self restraint and not alienate most people with their weirdo talking points.Tell me you didn't actually read the full source without telling me you didn't actually read the full source 💀💀 it's mentioned in the text | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 08:25 PM |
| 2 | The most feminist thing you can do is to actually give women enough agency to be losers. It's an easy RP win, if they show some self restraint and not alienate most people with their weirdo talking points.Yes... Amazing that we would believe academic studies. Ridiculous, I know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 08:23 PM |
| 1 | The most feminist thing you can do is to actually give women enough agency to be losers. It's an easy RP win, if they show some self restraint and not alienate most people with their weirdo talking points.That is the part of the point yes, it was addressing female leadership which is a traditionally male role. Obviously both are "penalized for gender incongruence"... That's not the point here. Also, that is... One point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 07:25 PM |
| 1 | The most feminist thing you can do is to actually give women enough agency to be losers. It's an easy RP win, if they show some self restraint and not alienate most people with their weirdo talking points.Women are actually more judged and held more accountable for their actions than men are. The only place where you can argue that's not the case is criminal justice, which is a whole nother can of worms that is not the subject right now. "Interpreting Signals in the Labor Market: Evidence from Medical Referrals" from Harvard discusses this in medicine. However, this is found to be the case in many job fields, and has been dubbed "the punishment gap." There is also a study in financial advising, "… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 06:20 PM |
| 2 | Women hitting "the wall" at 30+ is a mythYes they do though, if you look at any dude writing a typical 5 point essay on "the wall" the word "fertility" will be mentioned a zillion times | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 09:09 AM |
| – | The rapid societal decline in sex and relationships is solely due to women's lack of interestWhat being chronically online does to a person | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 04:17 AM |
| 1 | What's your opinions on 40 year olds sleeping with 20 year olds?Nobody is forcing you to look at dudes past 30. They exist in public spaces which more or less means I will be forced to see them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 08:09 PM |
| 1 | What's your opinions on 40 year olds sleeping with 20 year olds?Homosexuality is not inherently exploitative And yeah I did, but delving that deep into someone's page is kinda really cringey... Waterboarding could not get me to confess to doing that 💀💀 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 08:07 PM |
| 2 | What's your opinions on 40 year olds sleeping with 20 year olds?I'm referring to the fact that the men exist, hence forcing me to lay eyes upon them against my will | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 08:04 PM |
| 3 | What's your opinions on 40 year olds sleeping with 20 year olds?Selling pictures of your pussy on Onlyfans to thirsty men, making 100K a year- eMpOWeRMenT!!!!! No that's not empowering at all, that's a lie perpetuated by male-controlled industries for profit. It is not at all unusual for industries to do this, such as how Herbalife targeted and exploited the Hispanic community by roping them into a pyramid scheme under false notions of empowerment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 08:04 PM |
| 1 | What's your opinions on 40 year olds sleeping with 20 year olds?Only jealous old women say this shit. And everyone's embarrassed for them. No lots of young people do too. I am gen z. It's not that it's wrong it just shouldn't be encouraged bc mentally healthy young women don't like old dudes, so normalizing it encourages them. But generally no one has an issue with older women and younger men. It can be predatory, depends on details and circumstances. Any relationship can be predatory when there is any chance to take advantage of another person or manipulate… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 08:27 AM |
| 4 | Until feminine attributes are no longer connected with inferiority and being under a man, more women are going to reject traditional femininityThis has so little to do with and completely ignores what I said that I think you genuinely might have responded to the wrong person? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 05:16 AM |
| 14 | Until feminine attributes are no longer connected with inferiority and being under a man, more women are going to reject traditional femininityThe only reason you attribute being feminine with inferiority is because of feminism And not bc men have treated and perpetuated feminity as inferior since like the dawn of humanity? Bc girls being murdered upon birth because they weren't a son and being written as equated to cattle and inanimate objects in ancient legal codes and religious texts doesn't imply inferiority...? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 07:48 PM |
| 4 | Until feminine attributes are no longer connected with inferiority and being under a man, more women are going to reject traditional femininityWe really out here making up revenge scenarios in our head and putting them on the internet now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 07:42 PM |
| 3 | Why are "pick mes" so reviled?I don’t see many of these women tearing down other women in the process That is literally part of the general consensus definition of what a pickme is. You don't get to change the popular definition based on what you feel like | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Why are "pick mes" so reviled?....its bc they want to date the men it's not that deep | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 06:09 PM |
| 2 | Why are "pick mes" so reviled?It's often because she's involved in male social hierarchies and is playing that game instead of the "appealing to women for social status" game. women who are trying to appeal to men for social status and to fit in with men. Do you realize why this is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 08:59 AM |
| 7 | Why are "pick mes" so reviled?They are successful at getting into a long series of back-to-back short term relationships | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 08:58 AM |
| 17 | Why are "pick mes" so reviled?"Not like other girls" girls are sometimes genuinely not like other girls. They prefer spending time with men socially. Tend to be more gender non conforming. Also lean more masculine than pick mes do. A girl who is genuinely somewhat different from the average is not the same as the "not like other girls" girl. The girl who is just a bit different is... just a bit different. It's only if she goes around spouting how different she is and thinks that makes her superior, only then is she a "not li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 07:39 AM |
| 52 | Why are "pick mes" so reviled?They tear other women down in the process. They are almost synonymous with the "not like other girls" girls. It's a "look at me I'm not like all the other women who are awful and worthless, I'm good" because they can't just be good enough on their own I guess If a woman wants to be a wife and a mother, isn't it her right to pursue that wholeheartedly? This has nothing to do with being a "pickme" or not. You seem to have that and tradcon woman conflated. Plenty of "pickmes" seek casual sex and ch… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 06:16 AM |
| 1 | If you are struggling in dating you are not "high value""naturally" means they cannot have been conditioned. I'm talking about people predisposed to introversion upon birth | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 12:49 AM |
| 1 | If you are struggling in dating you are not "high value"You don't have to be anxious about it, just dislike it. Introverts are tired by interaction, it drains your energy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/22 09:17 PM |
| 1 | If you are struggling in dating you are not "high value"I'm talking about naturally asocial and introverted people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/22 09:15 PM |
| 3 | If you are struggling in dating you are not "high value"Asocial women want asocial men. I don't want to go outside. I don't want someone who is going to be dragging me outside for dates. I hate crowds and I hate public places. I want to stay home and not go out for dates. I don't have Instagram or Facebook or anything like that. Why would I want someone who is the opposite The point is these two groups of people, asocial men and asocial women, are ideal for each other, but by definition have almost no opportunities to meet | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/22 03:27 PM |
| 1 | If you are struggling in dating you are not "high value"You already have 4 kids or you want 4 kids? And you have a college education or you don't and you want someone who does? Bc more than 50% of men have college education especially where you're from Either way I've seen plenty of women with your attractiveness level obtain way better men that I'm certain yours is. I am 10000000% confident you are dating down | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/22 03:23 PM |
| 6 | If you are struggling in dating you are not "high value"...Did you read the part where I said they have no internet presence and never go outside? As in, no social media and no friends? When would they ever see you if you literally do not go out? I'm talking about like, I had a semester where I literally did not leave the room for weeks on end. All classes online. Got groceries delivered. Worked online. I literally only set foot outside to take trash out. If I were more attractive would a man have just seen me through the window and broken into my ho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/22 04:19 AM |
| 8 | If you are struggling in dating you are not "high value"I forgot people regularly get their homes broken into to be asked on dates by people who have never had to opportunity to see their face | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/22 01:56 AM |
| 6 | If you are struggling in dating you are not "high value"Well "struggling" is subjective. They're struggling to find a partner. Sure it may be of their own doing. But that doesn't mean it's not struggling Being forced to be someone you are not and go social is a similar struggle as someone who is low value trying to self improve | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/22 12:40 AM |
| -1 | How would you react if the guy you were seeing told you he was a virgin?Thank you You would want to find women that have that as a facet of a kink maybe. Like a mommy kink | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/22 10:44 PM |
| 2 | How would you react if the guy you were seeing told you he was a virgin?23 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/22 10:40 PM |
| 2 | How would you react if the guy you were seeing told you he was a virgin?Ideal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/22 10:35 PM |
| 14 | If you are struggling in dating you are not "high value"I think. Some people could be doing alright but limit themselves. But that does not make them lower value people There are a lot of men who shut themselves off from the world. They have no social media presence and do not ever go anywhere. When they are not working/in class they are alone in their room. This is unfortunate for themselves and the people who would like to date them. So they are not necessarily lacking. But they shoot themselves in the foot. It is difficult for introverts. Because … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/22 10:31 PM |
| 2 | If you are struggling in dating you are not "high value"You can't make a top 10% profile for a man who is beneath the top 10% Honestly from this and everything else it sounds like you could be doing a lot better. Even if people bitch about "hypergamy" for it, it would not be illogical or bad for you to recognize that you are with someone far beneath your league. Regardless of what you choose to do with that information, you should at least recognize it to be more consciously aware of the situation you are in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/22 10:23 PM |
| 2 | Women do not care about how many women I've slept with but they care about one thingI feel like the made up reaction bait stories on this sub used to be more believable than the ones recently | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/22 08:45 AM |
| 1 | Discussion: Ugly Guys and Ugly Girls & the way they treat their partnersNo you gotta aim to the middle ground. Ugly women will also treat you badly yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: Ugly Guys and Ugly Girls & the way they treat their partnersBut is it more or less likely in your opinion for an unattractive person of either gender to be a bad person? Both. In different ways. Attractive people are often narcissists with no sense of responsibility, selfish, belittling, don't care how they hurt others. Ugly people are often bitter, and hold a lot of spite/resentment, especially ugly men towards women as a whole. Honestly ugly dudes are worse bc their actions aren't just self centered, they're filled with vitriol. It's not "I do what I w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 08:39 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: Ugly Guys and Ugly Girls & the way they treat their partners"we (might) perform basic human loyalty for you that you should realistically expect from any decent person! ...Because we have no other choice (and will probably resent you for that and still treat you just as badly otherwise)!" REALLY need to consider a rehire for the ugly dude marketing team | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 08:05 PM |
| 3 | Discussion: Ugly Guys and Ugly Girls & the way they treat their partners*almost all men in jail are ugly honestly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 08:00 PM |
| 44 | Discussion: Ugly Guys and Ugly Girls & the way they treat their partnersMy favorite twt is something like "Why would women go for the tall muscly dude who treats her badly, when she could have one of us uglier guys who will treat her the exact same way?? Smh women" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 08:31 AM |
| 5 | Why Do You Think Most Men Instinctively Care About N Count?i would say men don’t fuck animals What I would give to be this innocent | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 01:04 AM |
| 1 | Women who are attracted to men, what makes you want/desire a man rather than just enjoying being wanted/desired by him?Yes, generally that thing is interest. A lot of women genuinely will not have any opinion on a man either way, but when he shows interest they literally do a "well I never thought of him that way before now but..." Obviously, this can also turn out the other way and they become turned off by him, but generally interest is the way to capture interest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 11:42 PM |
| 10 | Confused Commentary on Untangling Age, Attractiveness, Youthfulnesswhereas m2f attractivness increases with age (with a slight lag) up to an age of 40 and then gets stuck there (with an insignificant outlier when the preferred age suddenly jumps into the late 40s at 50 or so). Preferred age =/= age they consider most carnally attractive Statistically, say, George Clooney, Robert Downey Jr., Idris Elba, Paul Rudd and Keanu Reeves should be at a huge penalty. Now, who are they attractive to? Cognitively diseased females with father issues and/or abused as kids an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 09:38 PM |
| 2 | Women who are attracted to men, what makes you want/desire a man rather than just enjoying being wanted/desired by him?women also seem capable of wanting men even without a sense or presumption of the man’s desire, if celebrity thirst tweets are anything to go off of. No they don't. They just project a fantasy. It's a combination of being attractive + either being desired by them or being able to project the fantasy of being desired by them the only kind of straight love story we’d ever hear would be of the sort “I never thought of him that way until…” Where is this not like the plot of every female fantasy roma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 09:24 PM |
| 1 | us men should not fear going the extra mile when pursuing unattractive good women.You missed the point entirely. Among the lower classes I assure you promiscuity was extremely widespread. In some societies, probably even more so than our current state. People really forget that western Europe is not the only culture to ever exist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 03:07 PM |
| 1 | us men should not fear going the extra mile when pursuing unattractive good women.Thank you for your extensive input | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 03:35 AM |
| 2 | us men should not fear going the extra mile when pursuing unattractive good women.Depends on the culture. If we're talking truly ancient cultures quite a few they wouldn't actually need to. Again, the notion that ancient societies were puritan is entirely a modern era western concept only constructed in the past few centuries. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/22 09:00 AM |
| 2 | Are women's standards high or are they low?I would say "no one on this sub would say that unironically," but to be honest, now that I think about it I can see how it could be possible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/22 12:18 AM |
| 2 | Are women's standards high or are they low?Do you know what hyperbole is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 11:28 PM |
| 2 | Are women's standards high or are they low?Yes bc I am in my twenties so that much does affect me. But I'm mostly talking about 50+ y/o men going for teen girls Both scenarios should be punishable tbh I don't want them talking to me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 11:01 PM |
| 8 | us men should not fear going the extra mile when pursuing unattractive good women.You have to realize at some point when you're being fed a delusion and eating it up. The notion that the women of ~1930s-50s were kind and sweet and good mothers and submissive wives who were happy with it is and has always been a grass-is-greener coping fantasy for those deep into woe-is-me-ism. Even if you read a book or diary from that time you will find men making the exact same complaints they do here today. And, funnily enough, sharing the same "if only I could have a woman of the past!" s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 09:53 PM |
| 1 | us men should not fear going the extra mile when pursuing unattractive good women.women of my grandmother or great grandmothers generation who were sweet, loyal, kind, cared about others, and pleasant to deal with The men of their generation would beg to differ. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 09:38 PM |
| 3 | Have any of you Been ghosted in the context of a real relationship?A friend of mine had that happen. It was over a year in. Felt bad for him tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 09:37 PM |
| 3 | us men should not fear going the extra mile when pursuing unattractive good women.The women in nursing homes weren't bitches and whores. As always, you all need the reminder: women of the past weren't the sex-avoidant puritans they are made out to have been, they were just better at covering their tracks. The intense purity culture you read about in books or history class or see in historical dramas was reserved for the upper classes -- the common people were rampant with STDs, out-of-wedlock pregnancies, infidelity and premarital sex. And even among the upper classes, again,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Almost everyone has an excuse to fail at datingIt's circles. If you are born to a certain class you will most likely have very little interactions with people of other classes outside of public spaces, and even then you won't see them as often. The people who go to your school, your college, your job, etc, will all be in the same class. Ex a wealthy woman goes to an private K-12, expensive college, immediately out of college gets to a high paying job. Shops at expensive grocery stores. When is she even going to meet such a man? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 08:51 PM |
| 2 | Are women's standards high or are they low?And since "you don't need a partner you need a therapist" we have to be completely psychologically and emotionally put together as well, all our "issues" and "baggage" fully cleared. No one is expecting you to do that. They are expecting you to seek enough help that you do not take your issues out on them. This is the same subreddit that mocked single men over 35 for even putting themselves in the dating market. *The dating market for girls a quarter of their age Anyway a woman can post some "lo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 08:21 PM |
| 2 | Would you associate being single as a bad thing? Why or why not?The stereotype surrounding "cougars" or "Stacy's mom" is that they are in good shape/look good for their age moreso than other women in their age bracket (with of course exceptions). Consequently, they have more confidence. A large number of women prefer younger boys, but many women as they age lose confidence. Older men are more "secure," whereas younger boys have more opportunities and are more attractive, making them less "secure" and more likely to abandon them, cheat on them, and of course … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 05:50 PM |
| 2 | Would you associate being single as a bad thing? Why or why not?Yes but literally women that view dudes that genuinely look 50+ as more attractive than boys who look 18-25 are either fatherless, father issues, or child abuse victims every single time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 05:33 PM |
| 2 | Would you associate being single as a bad thing? Why or why not?When he was young he was gorgeous now he's ugly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 04:34 PM |
| 8 | Is "The Tinder Swindler" what happens to women who vastly over estimate thier SMV?Do you know how many dudes unironically click on the "meet hot singles in your area" ads Why do you all constantly overanalyze humans following human nature | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Would you associate being single as a bad thing? Why or why not?looks He literally went from the most attractive boy on earth to the ugliest man in history. It's like watching a Shakespearen tragedy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 04:24 PM |
| 2 | Is anyone happily married? (longterm)Hyperlinking the part of a sentence that makes no sense and not the part that should logically be hyperlinked should be a punishable crime | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 04:16 PM |
| 5 | Is anyone happily married? (longterm)There's like, minority cultures like mosuo or some tibetan cultures. But other than that yes. In other cultures the father was much more revered/authoritative. Maybe less involved/less interaction with the child, but much more significant | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 03:42 PM |
| 2 | Is anyone happily married? (longterm)In European/Western culture fathers have a relevant role in their upbringing of their children and on average men feel this duty and know they they could be less able to protect their offspring after a divorce. We aren't cavemen you aren't having to chase the saber tooth tigers off your kids. Kids in the first world live extremely safe lives the only thing you would ever need to "protect" them from would be sex predators (who statistically are often their own fathers anyway) and a mother would d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 03:30 PM |
| 4 | How can you know if the man you are dating is into redpill stuff?It's a troll. Despite the rules most are not dealt with in any way here. Giving them responses is just encouraging them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 02:56 PM |
| 4 | Are women rejected for discussing their sexuality ?Eh you're still kinda in the right range, 20 is like the cutoff age for both the snowflake descriptors and the trad thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 09:13 AM |
| 4 | Are women rejected for discussing their sexuality ?I'm female. That's how I know. We all had the unnecessary 20-word snowflake self descriptors at 15 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 09:10 AM |
| 5 | Are women rejected for discussing their sexuality ?hetero-romantic demisexual You can't be older than 15-16 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 09:04 AM |
| 1 | If a Woman's past truly does not matter, then Women need to start acting like it doesn't matterUsually that is the case yes that is their point, the reason is she is either 1) extremely young and naive or 2) ugly/otherwise undesirable, in which case her lack of boundaries comes from desperation. This accounts for the vast majority of "low n" women who are seeking partners | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 08:00 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI understand. I will pray God fixes ur sense of taste | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/22 08:52 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadGood for him he deserves to be, a god among men is certain to become frustrated with the inferiority of our species | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/22 08:37 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI'm sorry but you have to accept the truth. There's no need for that kind of projection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/22 08:36 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou do not He was not. Inferior actor and infinitely less attractive. The films were forgettable and dull | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/22 08:27 PM |
| 7 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf you are a man and not Tobey Maguire specifically in his young 2000s form I'd spit on you. No spiderman movie, however brief it may contain an appearance of his elderly inferior current form, can compare to the original Tobey Maguire movies. You could film him in his 2007 form standing in front of a camera for 2 hours in normal clothing doing his weird dance and it would be a superior Spiderman film to anything that anyone else could ever create that does not directly feature a young Tobey dir… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/22 07:58 PM |
| 1 | The Wall says more about the men applying it, than women in general.Join the other bitter dudes that were so hurt over women rejecting them that they do something drastic then. What's stopping you? Being a pussy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/21 07:47 AM |
| 1 | What if your partner can't do any better than you but still loves you for you?What if your partner can't do any better than you Too unrealistic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/21 05:29 AM |
| 0 | Would it still bother you if your partner was willing to do sexual acts with exes, but wouldn't with you - but the sexual acts are ones you don't want at all?If she is getting Wendy’s and she found out Chad took his ex out to nice restaurants then she would be pissed even though the 4 for 4 was her favorite. Speak for yourself I fucking love Wendy's does the 5 star restaurant have a chocolate frosty? I don't think so | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/21 05:26 AM |
| 1 | Would it still bother you if your partner was willing to do sexual acts with exes, but wouldn't with you - but the sexual acts are ones you don't want at all?You could have chosen any fetish possible and that's the one you went with? Why | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/21 05:25 AM |
| 1 | The Wall says more about the men applying it, than women in general.A fat woman with a good personality will get little interest. A hot woman with no personality gets a lot of interest for casual sex. If the fat woman loses the weight and becomes hot she'll have a line out the door for LTRs. That's not because men only think she's hot, but because she is both hot and has a good personality. This has no relevance to what I said. I don't even know why you're bringing this up Do you think that women would be interested in guys like Jonah Hill, Steve Buscemi, and Se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/21 05:03 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYeah exactly, that's the best way of putting it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/21 02:23 AM |
| 3 | The Wall says more about the men applying it, than women in general.all things being equal, a man who ages gracefully and increases their resources will have more partners at 20 than 18, more at 25 than 20, and more at 30 than 25. Yeah no. That's the myth. Young people fuck the most and young people fuck young people and they don't care about money at that age when they're choosing who at the party they want to have a ONS with. The whole "get money and you'll start being successful when you hit 30!" is a lie told to desperate men with no success who are in their… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/21 10:06 PM |
| -3 | The Wall says more about the men applying it, than women in general.They still have value to other men. Intimacy, companionship, financial and homecare. What is it with you people and reading comprehension | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/21 09:35 PM |
| 9 | The Wall says more about the men applying it, than women in general.Tbf I think it's just like a physical attractiveness thing and not a value thing. There are a few dudes, a very high concentration of them in spaces like this, that either legitimately to them or out of their personal bitterness and desire to hurt women will propagate the idea that women are worthless outside of sex and babies, but most men do not feel that way. You just see it a lot here bc this space attracts bitter, wounded men. In terms of physical attractiveness it's real for both sexes. Mu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/21 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI just mean that the feeling of internal stimulation feels better than external. If you're doing it yourself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/21 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI checked up on a lot of people. Everyone else looked fine. The only one that didn't was the one that had kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/21 04:20 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThis girl never was very feminine or wore makeup to begin with, they believed it wasn't necessarily "wrong" but it was discouraged if you wantwd to be a Good Christian Girl™ The clothes, makeup, weight etc didn't change, it's all in the face/aging. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/21 02:33 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI mean that form of stimulus feels better | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/21 02:31 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNo Even though it feels better | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/21 02:04 PM |
| 7 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt's legit so wild and kinda terrifying to see women of the same age who are mothers versus non-mothers. Or women of different ages where the older one is not and the younger one is. It's insane that just that one factor can make a teen girl look older than a 30 year old. I used fb to check up on a high school friend who got married and had kids at 18 and I swear in just 2 years it destroyed the girl. She looks like a different person. She didn't gain weight or anything but just her face looks l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/21 02:00 PM |
| 2 | Devils Advocate: Is 6 figure, 6 pack, 6 feet really to much to ask in 2021?...because I touched other stuff? Duh? You want me to post an image of the results? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/21 05:11 AM |
| 3 | Devils Advocate: Is 6 figure, 6 pack, 6 feet really to much to ask in 2021?I put minimum height as 5'0" and income as 10k and still got only 1.8% and 4/5 cats, the same rating as the 6 figures and 6 foot. Asking men to be 5' is unrealistic now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/21 03:25 AM |
| 1 | Devils Advocate: Is 6 figure, 6 pack, 6 feet really to much to ask in 2021?Have you ever been able to perfectly envision what a poster looks like | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/21 03:21 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYeah for sure. Niche market | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/21 10:00 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIdk, I feel like the % of guys who don't want kids is greater than the % of women that don't want kids It's absolutely not. This is a very frequent complaint in the childfree sub and they discuss it often, as well as a ton of women's subs. The women easily outnumber the men, probably at the very least 2:1. Most men want kids bc they reap more benefits while also sacrificing much less. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/21 09:48 PM |
| 7 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAfter being told "like the part of (insert media) where--" I've come to the realization that the average straight man on this sub knows more about the plot and characters of 50 shades, the Twilight saga, and most chick flicks than I do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/21 09:42 PM |
| 12 | With the news reports about outlawing "pestering" women in streets / bars, in the UK, what effect will it have on daygame and cold approaching?Ah yes, the everyday common phenomenon of women catcalling, the term which derives its name from being an act done to women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/21 08:30 AM |
| 3 | Evolutionary Psychology Mega-ThreadExactly, don't fall for the feminist lies, stay strong kings | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/21 02:52 AM |
| 3 | Evolutionary Psychology Mega-ThreadBack in caveman days females literally just had trains run on them fairly frequently and part of the purpose of females making noise during intercourse is to attract more males to join in OR to call potentially better males to come along and drive off/unlife the current partner and replace them. Next time your girl moans for you remember she's trying to get your skull smashed in with a wooden club. Don't believe these females' lies smh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/21 12:56 AM |
| -1 | Are women really chasing after guys out of their league?For example a woman might choose her job or one of her hobbies in part because it offers contact with men she fancies. Literally no one does this And who uses the word "fancies" were you born in the fucking 1500s? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/21 09:32 PM |
| 6 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYes It's honestly cruel to force him to live | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/21 11:44 AM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI have never met a male that was anything but a bad kisser and that never stopped me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/21 11:17 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWell I'm certainly not going to anyone else's place either people come to my place or I don't meet them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/21 06:51 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOnly when I'm alone >:( it would be criminal to not tell them goodnight | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/21 03:13 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSeveral Pokemon and one of this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/21 12:38 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI don't know, but I read something saying it was and it had a lot of likes so apparently this is a popular sentiment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/21 12:20 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadFor the purposes of this hypothetical let's say early 20s and yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/21 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadQ4M is plushies on the girl's bed a red flag. Like not many but a few | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/21 12:04 AM |
| 1 | What's the best dating advice for womenI mean I wasn't mad just kinda disappointed. But I understand and we remain good friends, and he has never dated anyone even years later so I guess he's just not the type to do so. Or closeted, which is also very possible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/21 12:01 AM |
| 1 | What's the best dating advice for womenYou mean male? This was high school so he also had no money. And was very unpopular/socially awkward. There was nothing going for this boy except being smart which was what I liked | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/21 08:33 PM |
| 0 | What's the best dating advice for womenUgly dudes reject sometimes. I had a really ugly dude (like ugly not just to me but I'm certain he would be to all women) basically reject me. It cuts extra deep | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/21 07:28 PM |
| 5 | 6 Green Flags in women for a LTR, do you agree?so your perspective is that outwardly cold bitchy slutty women who have divorced parents, poor relationships with their father and bitchy slutty friends are the best or at least better relationship candidates for men?? 🤨 No. Generally there is no set of circumstantial traits that can determine this. You simply have to get to know them as a person. So you consider yourself entitled, sensitive and borderline sociopathic as a result of your great relationship with your father? Yes, the former two E… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/21 08:16 AM |
| 0 | 6 Green Flags in women for a LTR, do you agree?It was more of a joke but none of these things have any bearing on her being mentally unstable, histrionic/hysterical, spiteful, manipulative, abusive etc. Her personality is kind Psychologically the most manipulative people usually are thought of as extremely kind/very well-liked by those around them and don't show their true colors until they feel secure. This is a very well known thing in psychology. Especially in women, as we are expected to be kind/it's enforced on us from a young age, it r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/21 07:26 AM |
| 9 | 6 Green Flags in women for a LTR, do you agree?This is untrue I have all of these and I'm still a horrible choice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/21 04:45 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNot at all no I couldn't see him being upset over something like that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/21 04:40 AM |
| 1 | TL;DR for like half of PPD discussionsYou're either 30+ or ESL. This reads like it's from 2009, like a rage comic but in word format. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/21 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI think it must have just been a genetic stroke of luck. He is the stereotypical old man who won't visit doctors or take medicine unless absolutely necessary Asian women actually have a pretty high rate of thinning hair/thin hair in general but not like the usual regressive pattern the way a lot of African American or white women get it. The women with the thickest hair in my observation is Indian women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/21 12:08 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhite My dad is only barely starting it now in his 60s but for the rest of the family on both sides it started as early as their late 20s/early 30s, they manage to keep the sides but the top ends up gone. I don't know why he was exempt | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadGenerally yes, my own father aged decently but virtually all the other men look very old, have hair loss, and many are obese. Whereas my mom, sisters, aunts etc all look younger than they are on both sides, and none of the women in the family are obese | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWell come things can contribute other than genetics. Stress has been known to be linked to hair loss. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI hope so. Or I get unlucky and inherit the men's bad aging | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOof I'm sorry | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Romance novels accurately portray the men women want to fuck, marry, and have babies with. Read one and tell me the how the red pill didn't nail it. Be sure to include the one(s) you've read in your reply, even if it's 50 Shades.Could you replace that with "erotic fiction?" Rather than just novels which are aimed at old women? If so it kinda falls apart there. I am an avid reader of erofic which has many genres, the genres I read would be very very different but are nonetheless written by women and for women. In general there's a ton of erofic and a lot of subgenres would be highly contradictory | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 11:08 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe women in the family all have very thick hair, as do I. It's a struggle. Like if half my hair fell out, I'd then probably have a normal volume of hair lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 08:15 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDoes looking at your parents/grandparents as a measure of how you'll age or the traits you may pass on, make you hopeful or dreadful for the future? I'm rather relieved bc the women in my family all look younger than they are, yet the men look older than they are and have bad receding hairlines so I risk passing that trait down to a son | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 06:56 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat's... Not how that works. It can be and very often is both reciprocal and an abuser/victim dynamic. Have... Have you never heard of the term "fighting back"? A lot of manipulators specifically know how to get under the skin of their victims and provoke them to mild violence solely for the sake of deluding them with exactly that. When "reciprocal violence" so often means "person X beats person Y on a regular basis and treats them like an animal, but one time person Y slapped them out of anger… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 04:31 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt's a bit different when there's more than one "she said." When multiple women come forward with the same claim, it should probably be paid attention to. And besides, even when there is evidence, that doesn't change the original statement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAlso the doomer boy wojak is unironically attractive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 08:50 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSome criminals. You can go to prison for insane amounts of time over marijuana. But there's one type of crime in particular that gets off free more than any other. A type of crime categorized by a common demographic of the victim. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 08:48 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou don't care because you can't answer them 💀 you realized there was no basis for saying she took him back and now you conveniently no longer care. You know you apply a double standard to men, you know that medical professionals have it stacked against you, but know you can't justify/fight it so you, again, conveniently no longer care. And I mean that's fine then. You can blame other people for their own murders all you want but you have to acknowledge that you'll eternally be on a fringe extre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 08:46 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadFor real we let out violent psychos all the time it makes no sense. This is far from the first time I've heard a case of "dude has been reported for being violent and rapey multiple times but was repeatedly let go/dismissed and ended up killing someone" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAnd this pertains to anything I said... How? I feel like this constantly happens here, I say something and y'all bring something completely out of left field that isn't really relevant idgi | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 08:35 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou chose to not address the first and last parts because...? So if a woman gets involved with a shitbag, realizes he is one, and tries to get away, it's still her fault? We're not allowed even the slightest mistakes or lack of perception now without making our murders our own fault? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 05:58 PM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI'm asking where did you get the idea she took him back? Usually in these cases they just show up to the woman's house, it happens plenty of times. Sometimes beforehand they repeatedly show up and harass her, she and/or neighbors call the police and he leaves, but regardless usually they just show up and break in or get her to open the door. If you fuck shitbags, you get treated like a shitbag and you might end up dead. that's NOT MEN'S FAULT. Uh... It's definitely his fault. You may not feel li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 05:50 PM |
| 7 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat? Where did you get that idea? Did you even read the source? He didn't make bail he was released without it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 05:42 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadShe got him charged because she wanted him to be locked away lmao. And just like many days from the fine men of this community, we learned that the well-documented subject studied for decades by psychology professionals of how abusers and manipulators of both sexes select and rope in their victims, simply does not exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 05:39 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt's not that, it's that the statement/wording comes off as disrespectful/inappropriate given the situation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 05:31 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI hope the person that created this thing goes to the grocery store to get stuff for a very specific recipe, comes home and starts making the thing only to realize halfway in they forgot an essential ingredient they cannot substitute. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 05:16 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMale atrocity of the day, courtesy of r/nametheproblem Man is arrested for domestic violence and has been reported to police multiple times. Is let out without having to pay bond. Immediately goes back to the woman and brutally murders her by bludgeoning her to death with a hammer. Police commissioner thanks police for doing such a good job of keeping the people safe by arresting such a dangerous person after he had already been released and committed homicide. [x] How could anyone have ever pre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 05:14 PM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat Megathread"women can just go online and post nudes to onlyfans and make millions of dollars every year!! Female privilege" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 03:12 PM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLiberal white people, who are notoriously the most delusional people alive with the naivete of toddlers, run and control a lot of left wing outlet media, for starters. The thing with that is it's not THEIR streets. They live in rich gated communities where it's not their problem. The things they promote don't affect them, it will only harm other people and they can get their brownie points for being ~enlightened~. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 03:07 PM |
| -3 | Daily Community Chat Megathread"Commitment" seems like a delusion once you understand basic facts of divorce. But you all constantly cry about how divorce is oh-so-awful for men. Which is like, the point -- it's disadvantageous to men, which is why marriage is a significant sign of commitment and why it's necessary, if you stay with someone who doesn't want to commit to you you're probably being viewed as temporary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 06:48 AM |
| 3 | She's not just looking for a 'nice guy'When they say "just", it's not in the sense of "only." "Just" has many meanings based on how it is used in a sentence. If you take "ah, I just want x" and take that to mean "nothing but x matters" that is your own fault for lacking what should be very very basic conversational colloquial understanding. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathread"what do you guys think of this post" I think it's made up lol Like I don't doubt this happens but this guy specifically based on his wording is making this up for outrage value | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 06:58 PM |
| 3 | Men and Women of PPD: Who Would You Rather Date?Neither I'd sooner jump out a window | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 06:17 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat's true, I should rephrase: I know why it's discussed less often bc it's less common, but I don't get why whenever single parenthood comes up here everyone is quick to demonize single mothers and the effects they have on kids, which implies that single fatherhood doesn't have similar effects, but it does. If you ever meet one (or generally an absent mother, abusive mother too tbh) you can tell from .5 seconds of interacting with them that they've got something going on in the head. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 10:38 PM |
| 1 | The number of men not having sex within the past year tripled between 2008 and 2018. Why is that?At very young ages? Teenagers and early 20s? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 10:36 PM |
| 6 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhy do we never discuss the problem children products of single fatherhood? It's not the same criminal type results but it still produces fucked up kids and dysfunctional adults who can't properly adapt in society, lots of personality disorders like BPD or ASPD. Whenever single motherhood comes up it turns into a woman bad thing, as if they're any better Tbh I'd imagine the reason they don't show up in crime stats is they're probably more likely to off themselves as opposed to turn criminal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 10:25 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOk fair, I'll admit maybe your mom/grandma told you that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNo one has ever and will ever say it is nothing but confidence or that looks don't matter. That is a manufactured idea you got from circles that made it up because they listened to the messages they liked as a child and disregarded everything else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 05:34 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadA haircut objectively is ok if it looks good. Some fuckboy haircuts look horrible. The curly haired one, for one. Soooo despite being fuckboy associated virtually every female thinks it looks awful | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 05:33 PM |
| 40 | Q4All: How did the covid lockdowns / restrictions impact your love life and mental health?Prior to covid: single socially awkward shut-in who never goes outside Covid: single socially awkward shut-in who never goes outside | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 05:22 PM |
| 5 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWho brings a firearm to a protest? He was there to defend property which would be rather difficult to do otherwise. What are you gonna do, just stand there and threaten to cry if anyone comes to destroy it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 03:46 PM |
| 5 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYeah one of the dudes he killed was a convicted child rapist who raped or molested 5 young boys. But they were holding candlelight vigils and remembrance ceremonies for him lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 03:44 PM |
| 15 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadTIL improving your appearance can help with your dating success. Mind blowing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 03:42 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYes the older the woman, the more likely she was to wear a "full face" of makeup. This isn't so much an age thing in terms of numerical ages but a generational thing. There was a big push for girls to wear it, and a lot of it, even from a young age in the 60s, 70s and 80s. So when the current generation grows up they will likely wear maybe a bit more, but not nearly as much as women in their 40s/50s right now. Now, you have makeup stuff on YouTube and the like, but it's honestly more used as a f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 05:00 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIn surveys most women were found to not wear makeup beyond just like mascara for the eyelashes and maybe lip stuff. I made a post about it ages ago and just got a bunch of "nuh-UH"s The kinda shit you see on YouTube and the like is not how the vast majority of women are going out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 03:01 AM |
| 0 | The number of men not having sex within the past year tripled between 2008 and 2018. Why is that?Why have men here specifically picked up on the lingo used by 29 year old women trying to sell you Herbalife | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 02:58 AM |
| 2 | The number of men not having sex within the past year tripled between 2008 and 2018. Why is that?If you go outside and people-watch in any place occupied by young people especially, unis, malls, conventions, couples at theaters or restaurants, etc etc, the vast majority of couples do not see the man being over or often not even close to 6'. Like it's one of those things that's just observable to literally anyone. How do you explain that? This is especially true outside of the big cities/if you go to suburban or rural areas. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 02:53 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat depends on the individual institution | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/21 07:45 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhere, exactly, should a homeless man, with barely enough money to eat, go to "seek out help"? We have these institutions commonly referred to as "homeless shelters" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/21 07:15 PM |
| 2 | Q4W what do you think of men sarging?I didn't it's just impossible to believe | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 07:37 PM |
| 2 | Q4W what do you think of men sarging?You're saying it's a numbers game. I'm saying 0, which is the number of girls you'll get at a mall, out of 0, is still 0. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 07:29 PM |
| 2 | Q4W what do you think of men sarging?0 of 0 is still 0 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 05:59 PM |
| 2 | Q4W what do you think of men sarging?Ok | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 05:59 PM |
| 0 | Q4W what do you think of men sarging?Shared interest space is ok. I'm talking about like OP mentioned malls. That's just cringey | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 06:49 AM |
| 0 | Q4W what do you think of men sarging?it can lead to sex Well if you go on this false premise it would seem like a good idea | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 06:13 AM |
| 4 | Q4W what do you think of men sarging?0 out of 0 is still 0. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 06:12 AM |
| 1 | Q4W what do you think of men sarging?This is objectively a bad idea | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 05:26 AM |
| 5 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat horrible thing do you have to tell me this time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 03:44 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNo not really. He seemed to be playful about it in a good way. He's also twinky himself so he was basically self-complimenting/it was good for his sake | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 01:51 AM |
| -3 | Dating is like getting a job. You need a job to gain experience, but you need experience to get a job. You need a relationship to gain experience, but you need experience to get a relationship.What? High school is where even the ugly weird dudes had weird ugly girlfriends because the different types of people congregated. I knew dudes in high school that got gfs that I highly doubt have success now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 01:43 AM |
| 11 | Q4W what do you think of men sarging?That sounds like a horrible strategy. Women out in public generally do not want to be bothered and I feel like that's very hard to do without it being blatantly obviously creepy, lurking like vultures or something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 01:40 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat does a "kinky sexual person" look like? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 01:28 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat sounds right I have many of those things | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 11:46 PM |
| 6 | What is so bad about Female Dating Strategy's teachings?I didn't, I'm pointing out he brought up stuff literally opposing what the original comment said. "What kind of thing should I get? No X or Y please." "Try X and Y, maybe B" They still suggest something going against the original comment so it makes sense to point it out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 11:23 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIn real life, in person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 11:10 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI had to delete discord for storage space on my old phone at the time. But maybe I'll get it again on this one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYes but what does that MEAN. There has to be some general notion of what kind of person acts and looks in such a way to make someone think that. Like it would be something other people would also associate and not just him | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 11:07 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThis is the ppd sub | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNo but I don't understand what it means to seem that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHe kept kind of teasing me though because he wouldn't tell me what he meant and he said I look like it or give off the "vibe". What does it mean to look that way? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 10:58 PM |
| 12 | What is so bad about Female Dating Strategy's teachings?Men think HVM men are older dirtbags with money because that is what they idolize. FDS women can probably can get actual HVM though. It's not even hard to be one. You: I am a good looking man that has an estate of more than seven digits. Did you even read the comment you replied to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 10:55 PM |
| 1 | A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag.Alright | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 10:24 PM |
| 1 | A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag.Okay, I can't change your mind on that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 10:00 PM |
| 1 | A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag.Google is free and your thumbs work but cdc since you want it It includes drunkenness/inebriation to a point where the person couldn't consent. Basically, if you see a girl who is passed out and unresponsive and put your dick in her, it counts as rape. If you don't like that, that's ok, but you'll have to accept that most people see that as a bad thing to do. If being able to prove it is your requirement, you'll have to accept that an extremely large portion of rape, even "walking alone and he j… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 09:22 PM |
| 2 | A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag.Virtually everyone knows the 1 in 5 stat comes from the CDC. I know you knew that. No, they wouldn't go to prison. Most rape is not provable and most women don't ever report it because they know it will most likely not go anywhere and will only be an emotional nightmare for them to go through that process. To have to talk in detail about it and recall it, likely undergo invasive and violating-feeling procedures, likely have to appear in front of people, be passive aggressively blamed for it by t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 09:01 PM |
| 2 | A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag.There is no way to respond because you are directly contesting statistics that are accepted by academia and the general population. You're just saying "no that's wrong" to the stats and what is accepted by professionals, akin to covid deniers, anti vaxxers, holocaust deniers etc. Much like with any of those people, there's no way I can respond, anything I could link you to you'll just tell me is wrong because that's what you want to believe and come up with similar reasons - "it's not real rape,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 08:24 PM |
| 2 | A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag.Dude | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 07:46 PM |
| 1 | We have twice as many female ancestors as male ancestors.I... I used the example the OP gave | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 07:33 PM |
| 1 | We have twice as many female ancestors as male ancestors.The... The stereotypes exist because they are historically true. Polygyny existed in Asia and the Middle East for a long time, some cases still to this day. They did not in the west. However, it existed outside of the middle east and Asia as well. Some indigenous n/s Americans, some parts of Africa etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 07:33 PM |
| 2 | A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag.Ok | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 07:31 PM |
| 2 | A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag.Email? What girl is hooking up with email is this 2005 I mean I wouldn't care if he was a cereal killer either. Those frosted flakes deserve it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 10:41 AM |
| 3 | if everyone owned a magical sex ghost and knew everyone had one, how would it change things?They want to feel like they are causing the girl to enjoy and want it, it satisfies a power/validation thing. So "emotions" isn't quite right, but it's still something that can't easily be substituted unless you're good at self delusion, otherwise you'll start to feel pathetic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 10:03 AM |
| 4 | We have twice as many female ancestors as male ancestors.He bragged about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 10:01 AM |
| 1 | if everyone owned a magical sex ghost and knew everyone had one, how would it change things?You had me at anime and catboy I would never need anything else in my life ever again No catboy bf why even live | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 08:57 AM |
| 1 | A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag.As do women who do it to everyone. The shortest I've gone knowing a guy before fucking him was 11 & 1/2 months. I won't fuck someone I don't already know very well. It's not fair to automatically assume things, you know you all complain when women do it to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 08:53 AM |
| 5 | We have twice as many female ancestors as male ancestors.I think you misinterpreted what I said. I'm just saying that monogamy was much more normalized in the west at an earlier era whereas polygamy continued as norm in the rest of the world until much later. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 08:05 AM |
| 1 | A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag.Are we back on that How do you not understand how that works. You vet people because you don't know what kind of person they are yet. Sure he's not a player but she can't know that until she does so | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 07:21 AM |
| 1 | A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag.It's facetious to pretend you actually think it's the result of women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 07:17 AM |
| 10 | We have twice as many female ancestors as male ancestors.Also note what I said below about how marriage worked back then I mean not even that but more that most women getting married as a multiple-number wife to some dude were doing so to like, survive. They didn't want to marry an old man who they didn't know, they either were desperate for support to live, were more or less forced to by family, or otherwise didn't really get a say. Some 13 year old girl being told by her dad she's going to marry this old man and be his 5th wife, having been trained … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 07:15 AM |
| 0 | A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag.attraction and getting horny for a guy, and you know that. Uh... Yeah, that's true for everyone? That isn't male exclusive but also not relevant to this discussion in any way All this vetting bullshit just makes the organic process of romance and limerence totally fuck up Ok, so you want us to maintain the naive wistfulness of high school teenagers rather than look out for ourselves. Could you find it in your heart to forgive us for having a sense of self preservation? Besides, taking it slow IS… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 07:07 AM |
| 16 | We have twice as many female ancestors as male ancestors.I mean not even that but more that most women getting married as a multiple-number wife to some dude were doing so to like, survive. They didn't want to marry an old man who they didn't know, they either were desperate for support to live, were more or less forced to by family, or otherwise didn't really get a say. Some 13 year old girl being told by her dad she's going to marry this old man and be his 5th wife, having been trained to believe it's ok and seeing it normalized her whole life, isn'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 07:00 AM |
| 2 | A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag.About 1 in 5 or 1 in 6 women, depending on source and the year of data collection. Pepper spray will not stop most rapists. Guns are unallowed in so many places that it is not realistic. Most rapes are committed by someone the individual knows, namely family members, close friends, or significant others, not strangers, so they will have their guard down and would hesitate to severely harm or kill them. A large portion of rapes involve drugging the victim beforehand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 06:55 AM |
| 3 | A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag.That's what all humans being do in some capacity or another | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 06:45 AM |
| 1 | A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag.As I said to the others who said the same thing, replace it with "rapists" then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 06:42 AM |
| 39 | We have twice as many female ancestors as male ancestors.Asian conquerors (such as Genghis Khan and Giocangga) and their male relatives appear to have made a vastly disproportionate contribution to modern Asian populations. Niall of the Nine Hostages seems to have had a similar effect on the gene pool of the British Isles. Today's news: redditor chooses men literally infamous for legacy of rape to depict how women are at fault, forgets how most of history worked But like in all seriousness dude come on... Have you never watched like a history channel … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 06:36 AM |
| 1 | A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag.Yes, I too believe that the academically supported and widely understood concept of sociosexual orientation is a myth because a stranger on Reddit said so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 05:39 AM |
| 3 | A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag.Yes, I too believe humans are a monolith and that the academically supported and widely understood concept of sociosexual orientation is a myth because a stranger on Reddit said so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 05:21 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI think my favorite anime catboys were written by men but still fictional nonetheless | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 04:50 AM |
| 3 | Question for women: Does it turn you off if a guy feels intimidated by you? Has it ever happened where you like a guy but but whenever you get close you can tell he feels intimidated and after that you don't see him the same way anymore? And why?I cannot fathom a man being intimidated by me unless you mean in terms of personality. Or like a really shy boy being flustered/overwhelmed. Then it's cute/hot But if it's intimidated in a not-hot way I can't see why it would do anything but turn me off and I feel like it would most people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 04:49 AM |
| 1 | A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag.I know I'm asking what what anything I said has to do with that I'm talking about personality/demeanor traits that are connected with sociosexual orientation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 04:22 AM |
| 1 | A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag.What | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 04:19 AM |
| 1 | A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag.No she's not The point is that she sees a person she finds physically attractive, but realizes she does not know if they might be a bad guy. So she puts up a test, one of many filtering/vetting methods, to help determine that. It's not the only filtering method she will use, just one of them. This determines how interested in her he is. How is that bad? What is so upsetting about that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 03:56 AM |
| 6 | A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag.The actual point is women are idiotic to believe making a man wait for sex is an indicator whether or not he’s a player. There are girls I flirted with for years, pursued them in relationships, then fucked them once and lost all interest. I've had countless men on this sub deny that a man would ever do this. I think this is actually the first one willing to say it even happens. Do you mind if I redirect to this comment in later debates? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 03:18 AM |
| 0 | A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag."why is she attracted to physically attractive people?" Yeah men really need to stop blaming their problems on us and instead sort out why they're attracted to breasts and hips like 🤨 kinda your own fault at that point ya know? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 03:14 AM |
| 5 | A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag.I just can't actually understand his point like I understand each thing separately but it feels like it's incoherent | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 02:58 AM |
| 2 | A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag.That's... The point. She is trying to gauge the quality of the guy she feels attracted to. Because if he's a fuckboy he'll just ditch... That is literally the point. To make sure she doesn't fuck the wrong guys anymore. How do you not get that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 02:52 AM |
| 7 | A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag.On social media, yeah. In real life, many promiscuous women are some of the sweetest girls you'll ever meet, and plenty of the opposite are maliciously mean-spirited. If anything being outwardly bubbly and sweet in a loud way is an indicator for high n. If it's in a quiet way it's the opposite though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 01:46 AM |
| 3 | A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag."nicest” girls I’ve known were complete freaks and sexual deviants. "Nice" is not one of the indicators. However, a freak and a deviant can be very low promiscuity, and actually usually are ime. Sexual deviants tend to seek sexual deviants so they don't sleep around as much. You can’t tell how a girl is sexually by how she acts in a non-sexual setting Not always, but sometimes certainly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 01:38 AM |
| 5 | A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag.Women are studied to be better than women at lying, hiding, maintaining multiple realities etc. As the old line feminists used to say "have to treat all MnMs as poisoned". In a time like this, there is no way to reliably know if a girl made every guy wait, so it has to be assumed that there is at least one guy a given girl didn't make wait, and decide whatever you're going to decide accordingly. This ^ would imply it But I don't care if you do what you personally do doesn't matter, that's fine, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 01:29 AM |
| 7 | A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag.Yes but you're perpetuating the narrative that women doing this is malicious and terrible when in reality it's usually just young girls trying to be smart and make good decisions rather than throwing themselves under the bus. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 01:21 AM |
| 6 | A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag.Those women who are good at deceit yes. The average girl, everyone and their mother knows. They even have defined speech patterns and personality types in comparison to other girls. I'm dense as fuck but if you put 50 girls in front of me and let me share a few words I could tell you with at least 90% accuracy which ones are girls who are LTR only/high inhibition/"good" girls and which ones sleep around a lot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 01:20 AM |
| 2 | A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag.Yes, there are some very talented people in terms of deceit. However, many times, these women give very clear signs if the men took the time to think about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 01:13 AM |
| 8 | A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag.Dude what | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 01:06 AM |
| 9 | A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag.That's not the point. I don't care about your decisions. The point is you assign women malicious intent for being young and dumb, and then learning from their mistakes and trying to do something that works better. You're basically asking women do continue doing something that gets them hurt and if they don't you make them out to be malicious for it. And perpetuating that attitude, which is what matters. Why is it so hard to think maybe girls are human beings with the capacity to adapt like all o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 01:05 AM |
| 0 | A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag.Or... Consider... If a girl finds herself dumped more than once... She might decide it's in her best interest to be more cautious in the future. That if she's attracted to a man, she still decides to stop herself before giving into the urge, and take time to verify him first. That's... That's how intelligent beings work. That's how all humans work. When we're young we find out certain patterns/ways of doing things don't work so we modify. If we didn't we as a species would have died out a long t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 01:02 AM |
| 16 | A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag.So how come you can apply that logic to men, but when women try to learn from their mistakes and make smarter decisions you assign them malicious intent? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 12:49 AM |
| 6 | A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag.That's not the original point at all. Why did you just go down a completely different trail | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 12:48 AM |
| 9 | A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag.That's... That's why I said psychopaths and not men. Nonetheless, it's still painfully obvious. There are even memes by men about how they ignore the signs of bad women full of men agreeing in comments. The men just ignore the signs and flags bc the girl is hot. Almost like that behavior is a very human thing to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 12:33 AM |
| 8 | A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag.Uh huh. Just like how every player that dumps women is an incredibly practiced liar. So why is it women's fault when they get manipulated because they "should have seen it coming" but when it happens to men they're victims of some heartless woman...? But in all seriousness dude come ON, you can literally spot these bitches from ten miles away | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 12:32 AM |
| 4 | A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag.Not a player. She doesn't know that. The whole point. Is verifying that you aren't one. She doesn't know if you are and she wants to know if you are before fucking you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 12:27 AM |
| 3 | A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag.Ok, replace Ted Bundy with rapist fuckboy etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 12:11 AM |
| 0 | A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag.One more time. Slower. Sound it out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 12:11 AM |
| 8 | A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag.Yeah and the reason that line is dumb is because you can, generally, come to learn a person well enough to tell. You know how y'all constantly tell women getting raped or used is their fault bc they "looked past red flags"? If a girl is the type that's genuinely low sociosexual orientation and is not fucking around, you will know. If she's fucking a bunch of dudes at the same time, you'll know. Actually, it's literally easier. Psychopaths are known to be great actors and hide their lives well, w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 12:09 AM |
| -1 | A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag.It's not for women. Evolution has designed us this way because the male imperative is to spread as much as possible but females have to be careful bc of pregnancy risk. Women are biologically designed to be cautious and feel uncomfortable having sex immediately. If women behaved as men did on this our species would have gone to hell ages ago. If anything women having sex as quickly as men do is a sign of a psychological issue, namely bpd. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 12:03 AM |
| 6 | A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag.she's unsure if you are a player The guy isn't a player, so why do it? Reread what you said but slowly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/21 11:33 PM |
| 38 | A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag.Ya but the paranoia you guys have over that is dumb. The majority of women who are waiting to fuck you are not secretly fucking 15 taller bigger dicked dudes behind your back the whole time. They're waiting bc they're high inhibition/reserved sexual orientations. Like I'm sure it's happened before but the idea that it's commonplace or if you assume that's what's happening every time a girl wants to wait, is the prime example of male hysteria. It's like women who assume/act like every new date is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/21 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Female sensibilities have absolute social hegemony.It was 2 days ago I just know you're talking about the dude that got his dick cut off and that's the most infamous case of that/generally what people are referring to when they talk about "that dude that got his dick cut off by that crazy girl" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/21 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Female sensibilities have absolute social hegemony.I mean Google is free and everyone knows the name bobbitt but since you want a reaction from me or to waste my time so bad here you go https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.nytimes.com/2019/01/30/arts/television/lorena-bobbitt-documentary-jordan-peele.amp.html | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/21 05:23 PM |
| 1 | This post wall woman doesnt even care any moreand has become very unattractive to men. You're deluded or lying if you think the overwhelming majority of heterosexual men wouldn't leap at the chance to fuck that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/21 05:06 PM |
| 2 | This post wall woman doesnt even care any moreThe looks is literally part of the definition 💀💀 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/21 11:03 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadTrue I'm loyal to all 150 of them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/21 08:51 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNo they're legit. If you go through some users they're far too dedicated, drawing legitimately good art on a regular basis. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/21 05:31 AM |
| 9 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadToday's recap: redditor floored to learn people need money | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/21 04:40 AM |
| 6 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat doesn't even really look like balding imo you look normal to me If you feel it is though there's always commerical products designed to help with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/21 04:39 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadRespecting women in any context would be evolutionarily costly to men. At this point men who respected women in the sense that we think of the word "respect" would have died out a long time ago. There is reason why men care for the women close to them and the like, but it is not respect in the sense we think of it. Naturally, they have no instinct to because they are subconsciously aware of the differences of size, strength etc. It would be like saying adults have respect for children. Do we car… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/21 04:34 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMen don't respect women, they are biologically hardwired not to. But nudes will make it worse probably. Whether or not it's a relationship or not doesn't affect that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/21 04:25 AM |
| 5 | This post wall woman doesnt even care any moreTaking objectively beautiful women and calling them "post wall" in the title doesn't sound as edgy as you want it to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/21 04:18 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThere are also some upset bc it used to be like entirely male and now the eev-hul wehmens have invaded their safespace | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/21 11:56 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: what is your personal happiness level, and why has there been a decline in male happiness?That sucks. That can be a really hard rut to pull yourself out of. But I hope you can find the will to do so, or motivation to do something new or a goal to meet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/21 11:55 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI mean if it were able to be real I would go into debt but at the stage we're at now it's just sad. I have husbands but I wouldn't limit myself from dating real people or restrict myself to only one husbando when I can have like 20 It just doesn't make sense to treat them as real, but liking fictional characters itself is fine just to this extent is weird. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/21 11:42 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat's y'all's opinion of r/waifuism and the whole practice of it You'd expect all young males but there's actually a lot of girls too. It would be one thing if it was casual, but the amount of dedication and how seriously they take it is interesting. Look at the about rules 1, 2, and 3 especially I'm shocked by the ages in particular, so many of these people are well into their 20s or even older | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/21 11:16 PM |
| 3 | How to write strong but accurate female action/adventure characters?Horizon zero dawn | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/21 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI mean like, I know some girls who are into politics so they are actively participating in local campaigns, activist groups etc. It's a valid hobby. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/21 08:44 PM |
| 1 | What’s the average experience for unattractive women?Do you get hit on out in public? Only by extremely ugly, fat or old dudes, still rarely Are dating apps still easy for you? Never used one Can you date any man you want? No Are you expecting a more attractive partner? Based on my history my standards are male, human, and alive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/21 07:52 PM |
| 6 | Breaking news: Allegedly more celibate women in 2021 than menI've seen women unironically say that sex where they don't orgasm didn't count. I mean should it really though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/21 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Breaking news: Allegedly more celibate women in 2021 than menThat's probably mostly bc of the whole "is a blowjob/handjob sex" thing honestly. Like if they know the lie detector is there, they're going to think that, since they don't have a clearly defined meaning, that if they don't count it it will go off. Even then, that doesn't support your claim. That's like 1.5 more at the absolute most. Yeah, wow, truly astounding, I'm sure people would be left in shock. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/21 07:46 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: what is your personal happiness level, and why has there been a decline in male happiness?I hope whatever makes you feel that way will get better for you soon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/21 08:08 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: what is your personal happiness level, and why has there been a decline in male happiness?It's not huge, no, but you can clearly see it going down since 2000. You have to adjust the table for quantifiers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/21 08:08 AM |
| 10 | Q4M: what is your personal happiness level, and why has there been a decline in male happiness?Reminded me of "this is why I fucking hate video games it appeals to the mAlE fANtAsy" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/21 12:20 AM |
| 0 | Q4M: what is your personal happiness level, and why has there been a decline in male happiness?I see you are aspd. Do you experience more emotional capacity than the average aspd you think? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/21 12:18 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: what is your personal happiness level, and why has there been a decline in male happiness?I meant more on a social level, rather than a sexual one. If you want to be an extremely effeminate gay man or try to transition to being a woman, society will cheer you on, is what I mean. You have to be somewhat masculine for women, but on a social level you won't be shamed nearly as badly as you were a century ago for being a deadbeat etc I hope you feel happier soon though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/21 12:12 AM |
| 18 | Q4M: what is your personal happiness level, and why has there been a decline in male happiness?Tbh I was going to say I think a lot of it isn't different for the sexes, but that people in general are all getting worse bc of the economy, lack of stability and bleakness of the future. If you watch the news for 5 minutes you'll be depressed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/21 12:10 AM |
| 3 | Q4M: what is your personal happiness level, and why has there been a decline in male happiness?I hope whatever's causing that will get better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/21 12:06 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYe ty <3 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/21 11:38 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/21 11:28 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI'll do it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/21 11:21 PM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAll women have hobbies and skills actually Like I have never met a woman that doesn't have one. Every woman I've known in some form has always been into either some form of fine arts, performing arts, some sport or athletic activity, some nerd niche, a practical skill/talent, some weeb niche, games, literature, politics, had a specialized skill/interest career etc etc Even the most "female" hobbies like those girls really into makeup/nail art or sewing/knitting or cooking/baking is literally mor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/21 11:15 PM |
| 4 | What do you attribute to a successful marriage or relationship?Valuing morality and companionship above other stuff, basically marrying your best friend I know people here will cry about sex or attraction but the happiest couples I've ever seen are ugly fucks who just really really love each other | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/21 11:03 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI said 2 The people here have every reason to claim to be more happy than they are. Here, they're happy, but then on their user page they're in deadbedrooms or another sub reeking of pessimism and making 5 posts a month to relationshipadvice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/21 10:59 PM |
| 3 | Female sensibilities have absolute social hegemony.It's not limited to murder and rape. But murder and rape are far more cruel than things like gossip and mean words from women. It's asinine to act like murder isn't the ultimate cruelty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/21 08:11 PM |
| 2 | Q4W of PPD: What is your personal happiness level, and why is general female happiness low?2 out of 10 bc my brain and body physically and chemically prevent me from experiencing happiness but 2 points bc things I like exist. Do you think overall female happiness is indeed lower than men's or not, and why? Women are more likely to have mental illnesses that directly or indirectly cause happiness and are more likely to suffer traumas that affect the individual's happiness To which women usually reply that it's because they're expected to both work full-time and then come home to do the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/21 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Female sensibilities have absolute social hegemony.but replace with Reddit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/21 06:09 PM |
| 4 | Female sensibilities have absolute social hegemony.Want to talk about black crime rates and whether you apply the same ''well you're doing the violence'' line there. Sure. That's a very accurate statement and an issue that should be addressed when discussing race issues. Unfortunately, it's not allowed here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/21 06:09 PM |
| 2 | Female sensibilities have absolute social hegemony.And women openly praise lunatics that actually, in real life sexualy mutilate men. Normal women do this, under their own names, in public. You talking about the dude that got his dick cut off? Bc he was a rapist and physically abused the girl that did it. What is your argument here beyond ''it's ok when we do it''? Same thing I said to everyone else that's been putting words in my mouth: that's a whole new sentence. Literally | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/21 06:07 PM |
| 3 | Female sensibilities have absolute social hegemony.Not nearly to the degree of men. "Men are extremely cruel and cruelty is in male nature" =/= "women can't be cruel." Bruh that's a whole new sentence that I never said. Why are you putting words in my mouth you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/21 06:04 PM |
| 0 | Female sensibilities have absolute social hegemony.I never said it didn't do harm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/21 06:00 PM |
| 3 | Female sensibilities have absolute social hegemony.Black widows every now and then sure. Ok, tell me then. What chapter of history do I need to be looking at? Since you seem to know why can't you tell me? At what point was there an epidemic of women killing men the same extent to which men have murdered women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/21 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Female sensibilities have absolute social hegemony.Okay then, stop policing locker room talk then, after all they're "just words". Why does everyone here have the reading comprehension skills of a premordial sea creature | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/21 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Female sensibilities have absolute social hegemony.Men have been cruel since the dawn of time. Even in eras when women were expected to stay silent and didn't dare voice their thoughts, men were still cruel. That is the way things are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/21 03:55 PM |
| 0 | Female sensibilities have absolute social hegemony.It's not ok. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/21 03:54 PM |
| 3 | Female sensibilities have absolute social hegemony.Which results in men in prison having to be put in protective jails because even criminals view men who do this as scum. Homicide? Sometimes. Rape? Nah. Less than 1% of rapists see justice. At no point is it applauded by anyone. There is literally countless records of incel or trper types glorifying rape available on the internet. You don't actually believe this. I know that you know there are men on the internet who openly praise it. Praising Elliot Rodgers, the guy who went on a killing spree,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/21 09:26 AM |
| 3 | Female sensibilities have absolute social hegemony.The point is that they, as men here do literally every day, equate the two. They are not the same. This is the exact same excuses use to defend ironically racist subreddits. "Oh it's just obviously a joke, no one would actually really hate black people." You are proving the point. There is a huge difference between words that are connected to real life actions and those that are not. People actually go out and assault and murder black people out of hate. Hundreds of years were spent oppressing t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/21 09:18 AM |
| 5 | Female sensibilities have absolute social hegemony.reputation destruction, gossip, mental abuse and social ostracisation which almost all women agree is worse than taking a hit when it comes to bullying. No??? No one thinks that?? What the hell who wants to be hit? I would take bullying/social shit any day over that. Where did you even get that idea from? And I'm literally talking about rape and homicide. We say mean things on the internet that hurt men's feelings. You rape and kill us. It is not the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/21 09:12 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI already said that if they were women doing it to a man it would be likewise sex-based and similarly bad. All I'm saying is that the situation is extremely unlikely bc that's just not how the female brain works, and thus cannot be applied to the idea of "well what if the roles were switched" because that is so unlikely that it will not occur in the real world, so it's pointless to question. There are other better analogies that could be made but that is not one of them bc it is so unrealistic. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/21 07:43 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNo, that's not what I said so idk where you got that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/21 06:47 AM |
| 8 | Female sensibilities have absolute social hegemony.Women say "man bad." Call them mean names. The absolute worst thing I've seen come out of the woman-osphere is them making fun of that guy (who was an abuser) that got his dick cut off by his mentally ill wife. Sure there's "kill all men wahh" but the thing is that actions matter a whole lot more than words and in the end the "kill all men" thing is empty words women spout to feel better. It has no actual real life consequences because women don't actually go out and kill men out of hatred -- li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/21 06:16 AM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat Megathread??? I literally just said that above. Women don't do things like that, it's just not in female nature. If a woman did that, she would be an extreme outlier with a very very male brain and for that reason would not be really applicable because it would be a unique situation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/21 06:01 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat's... Sexual harassment is inherently a matter of prejudice and disdain for women because it is based in objectification/dehumanization. I thought that was generally understood If the paramedics were women, according to you, there would be no misogyny, as they are the same gender. Let's be honest. If the paramedics were women, it wouldn't have happened. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/21 04:04 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadmi·sog·y·ny | \ mə-ˈsä-jə-nē\ 1) "hatred or dislike of, mistrust, or prejudice against women, manifested in various forms such as physical intimidation and abuse, sexual harassment and rape, social shunning and ostracism, etc" 2) "also : something (such as speech or behavior) that reflects and fosters misogyny" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/21 03:21 AM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNo because they're male. If they were female, I would say it is still degradation on the basis of being male yes. Is it as bad, no, but it's still awful and sex-based yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/21 02:58 AM |
| 7 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDegradation of a corpse in a way that is uniquely female and picks specifically at degrading her on the basis of femininity. That would not have been done to a male corpse. It's humiliating her even in death for something she would have experienced in life. Even in death we can't be treated as anything other than objects to be looked at. It revolves around the basis of her being female and disrespecting her body for being female. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/21 02:37 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDudes do equally atrocious things in our real life observations like... All the time. Especially in those professions, if you ask people in them, this kind of disrespect is common. This isn't difficult to believe at all. Nor does it change the amount of men saying it was fine | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/21 01:43 AM |
| 5 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSir this is a Wendy's | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/21 01:24 AM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat Megathread"Should I feel concerned that my boyfriend sexualized and degraded a dead woman's corpse and expected me to find it funny?" A worrying number of male repliers: "nah" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/21 01:22 AM |
| 5 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI hope you lay down to go to sleep and once you're comfortable and almost asleep you realize you don't remember if you turned off the stove or locked the door or something and have to get up to go check. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/21 10:53 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadBased on some conversations I have been able to listen in on with women of various age groups, particularly one group of mid-to-late-20s, mostly married girls, a lot more common than I think men realize. If you listen to Reddit relationship or sex subs you will get this perspective that women are all sex demons that love it. But this narrative is coming from women on online communities revolving around sex who have every reason to paint said narrative even if they know it's not true. Trp/PUA cul… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/21 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNo one should take care of the other's needs without mutual care. Both parties should, and should want to, help fulfill their partner's needs and want to make them happy. If you don't want them to be happy and fulfilled that's not really a good partnership. I guess at the end of the day no matter what I say in practice I've always still done it and tried to act enthusiastic because it makes them happy and that is what I want, even if it makes me sad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/21 05:16 PM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI thought you meant the dad thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/21 05:05 PM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWell I'm kidding but I'm sure there are some girls out there like that. Not my flavor though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/21 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadFuck don't tempt us | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/21 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Whenever men say "I have reasonable standards" it likely means they have little or no relationship experience.That's what I mean and that should have been obvious if you have the cognitive capacity of a mollusk or more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/21 02:06 PM |
| 1 | Whenever men say "I have reasonable standards" it likely means they have little or no relationship experience.Because that is taking into account people of all ages, classes and ethnic groups. Obesity/overweight is very heavily concentrated among lower classes and is associated with poverty. Most men here are middle class where it's much less prevalent. Obesity/overweight is also heavily concentrated among older women and ethnic groups that are not what most men here are seeking. If you are seeking a 20s, white, middle class girl, like most dudes here, the obesity/overweight rate is significantly lower … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/21 02:04 PM |
| 9 | Whenever men say "I have reasonable standards" it likely means they have little or no relationship experience.I think they just know. You constantly see the "just be feminine and not obese" thing even though they would not want the majority of women that fall into that category true. But they know that. They're not necessarily inexperienced or whatever, they just enjoy being abrasive and disingenuous because it portrays women poorly implying women can't meet such simple criteria when many do, which fulfills their revenge compulsions because they feel satisfied thinking they've made women upset or offend… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/21 10:01 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHe was not being actively aggressive. That was one of the things established in the case. Did you not watch it? The other thing established was that Kyle was approached by them and was actively trying to get away from them. The video shows him being chased. They chose to approach an armed man, threaten to kill him, throw things at him, run after him, and point a gun at him. All confirmed by third parties who were watching or the surviving attacker himself. Literally natural selection at that poi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/21 06:40 AM |
| 5 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI hope your phone charger only works at a specific angle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/21 06:21 AM |
| 3 | The amount of effort men put into their female friendships is SEVERELY DISPROPORTIONATE to the amount of effort females put into their male friendshipsThey put in effort because to them, it's not a friendship. It's a "maybe she'll fuck me if I do this" situation. Also this entire post was coherent. I'm proud. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/21 06:18 AM |
| 1 | Benefits of Waiting Until MarriageThe sample sizes of the studies were 2000 and 600. The couples were low income which is blatantly stated in the documentation. Generally, in social statistics, using one income group is a no-no because it has very unreliable results for higher classes. Lower classes split up much more commonly in general. Of course it's going to reflect that, it's not surprising. In academia, for a study to be considered credible, it must have at least usually 10,000 samples. I was once denied even being allowed… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/21 01:56 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadGo look up the article I'm referring to then, I named the source material | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/21 01:48 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf I see an armed man walking around I, and anyone with the cognitive capacity of a starfish or greater, am turning around and walking the other way. Pointing a gun at an armed person who is not being actively aggressive towards you is quite possibly the stupidest course of action you could ever take. Although if you do that that's just natural selection at that point really. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/21 01:47 AM |
| 1 | Benefits of Waiting Until MarriageSo demisexual. That's fine. A lot of people are. And a lot of people are not. What's good for one person is not good for all people. Humans are unique, and trying to shove lifestyles down the throats of others will result in their misery. Think of the modern promotion of hookup culture. Hookup culture would make you miserable yeah? That's how abstinence until marriage culture is for others. People are all different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/21 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI guarantee you if you look at literally any feminist outlet a solid 70-80% of it is about sexual harassment or rape or molestation. Occasionally abuse. All of which are literally things that are not by choice. Rape has been the primary focus for women's issues and what women focus on fear-wise since the dawn of humanity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/21 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Benefits of Waiting Until MarriageIt depends on ethnicity and country, but usually around 1% have a true micropenis (<3" erect) and a much much larger percentage have not medically micropenises but still unsuitable for most women (<5"ish). Honestly main motive for wanting to get married is to have companionship, even if the sex is mediocre I don’t care. Ok. Most people do care and sexual satisfaction for allosexuals is directly linked to your mental health. You might be libido-less asexual which is a category of asexuals, but th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/21 09:34 PM |
| 5 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe primary issue women talk about is rape. The "not by choice" is kinda in the definition of that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/21 08:21 PM |
| 6 | What the "average man is" versus what women think the average man is...That's the point. You want someone who is much more attractive than you are is what you're saying | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/21 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Benefits of Waiting Until MarriageI'm talking about micropenises or the inverse where it's too large/the woman is too shallow. You cannot change the size of your genitalia without extremely expensive and invasive surgical procedures that may cause permanently damaging long term effects and very easily can be botched/have malfunctions to no fault of the doctor performing them. Also men do the same with hiding erectile dysfunction. And do NOT hit me with the "w-well he can just use toys/fingers/oral" bs please I beg Men with micro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/21 08:03 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAs in the same with the job thing. Many colleges would not admit them unless they are forced to. The NY times even wrote an article about how women to this day are getting rejected in favor of less-qualified boys for college admissions. Discrimination still happens all the time, they just can't straight up admit that's what they're doing and come up with reasons to explain it away. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/21 07:52 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSuicide is a choice Those things benefit women because they had to go to intentional effort to balance it out. Because naturally life itself and everything in it favors you. Why does policing/law favor them? Because we are naturally weak and vulnerable. And if this is about jail sentencing, there's a whole long explanation as to why that's bullshit, but I'll give you the benefit of the doubt that you're not that lacking in cognition Why does family courts/parenting culture favor them? Because we… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/21 07:27 PM |
| 10 | What the "average man is" versus what women think the average man is...who is cute. if 90 percent of women find me ugly or atrocious Implying they might, which you wouldn't think without reason. So basically you want someone way out of your league. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/21 07:23 PM |
| 2 | What the "average man is" versus what women think the average man is...Delusional. Any woman except maybe teenage girls think the first part when they think average, if not worse. I'd say what you list as "average" is actually better than the real average | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/21 07:21 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Most of women's dating issues stem from the fact they just aren't likable to the men they get withWhen you have an abusive, slobbish, lazy, disrespectful man, who has been that way towards/abused every partner he's ever had, the problem isn't the women. Also this post is gonna get removed for op abandonment if you don't reply to people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/21 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Benefits of Waiting Until MarriageWho said anything about porn? What? I don't watch porn | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/21 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou could try actually answering the question | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/21 07:13 PM |
| 11 | Is it true that waiting to have sex is the better approach compared to having sex too early?It's just to weed out the bad eggs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/21 10:37 AM |
| 2 | Benefits of Waiting Until MarriageA very, very large portion of unplanned/unwanted pregnancies are married couples who already have children. Also what happens when you find out on your wedding night you're fundamentally, unchangeably incompatible? Spending all that time together only to find out it was a waste sounds soul crushing And no "frame of reference" bullshit, even as a virgin with my first boyfriend I knew he was bad because it's the 21st century and I have access to the internet to know how bad he was. Any girl today … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/21 10:28 AM |
| 1 | Why do guys need sex to feel validated?Asexual people's existence is well-documented and understood by medical professionals. There were records of them in the past. It's not some new invented snowflake phenomenon like 52 genders. There are also men like this as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/21 09:53 AM |
| 1 | Despite BPers (and women's) wishful thinking "personality" or " human decency " is irrelevant when it comes to women's attraction.Eh. There's some boring looks won't fix. There is a distinct difference between "mysterious" and "boring." Mysterious is more quiet and don't say much and are vague. A boring guy will lay out everything about himself, but it's still boring. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/21 01:12 AM |
| 2 | Why do guys need sex to feel validated?Ok. As long as you acknowledge there's at least a small percentage of such people, then that's fine. That was all I was ever pointing out in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/21 01:07 AM |
| 4 | Why do guys need sex to feel validated?2% of the female population. The other issue with that is that that's taking into account the whole population, when aces, much like lgb people in general, are increasingly greatly with young people (who are the ones this sub is relevant to) so it would be a larger percentage with them. And it's still millions of people. That's also only people who identify that way -- there are plenty of women who are, but are unexposed to/don't really care enough to look into or read up on sexual orientations … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/21 12:52 AM |
| 1 | Despite BPers (and women's) wishful thinking "personality" or " human decency " is irrelevant when it comes to women's attraction.Personality includes being boring. Boring people are... Boring. They repel people. Women definitely do reject people for being boring. Like I get what you're getting at and you're right that being nice isn't really important but that's very different from saying personality doesn't matter Trp also proposes that personality matters, just not in the same way. "Beta" "alpha" and all that (the male equivalent of astrology obsessed women) is literally a collection of personality traits Edward Cullen.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/21 12:42 AM |
| 3 | Why do guys need sex to feel validated?Ok. What about what I said here? How do you explain the differences between romantic love and friendship if they are not different things? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/21 12:31 AM |
| 4 | Why do guys need sex to feel validated?Ok. So how do you explain how it's different from friendship? Why is that? Friends do not give you the giddy butterflies-in-stomach feeling. You don't have that "special" feeling of exclusiveness with them. You would not feel hurt if your friend sleeps with someone. You don't emotionally long for them the same way you do friends. You literally experience a chemical high from "falling in love" that is similar to cocaine and you don't experience that from friendship. So how do you explain that? An… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/21 12:29 AM |
| – | Why do guys need sex to feel validated?decline Yes, that is for women who experienced sexual attraction that then dies later on. I'm talking about ones who never experience it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/21 12:00 AM |
| 2 | Why do guys need sex to feel validated?I already addressed that below | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/21 11:51 PM |
| 2 | Why do guys need sex to feel validated?Yes bc you're a guy. I'm not asking you to relate to it, I don't expect you to. All I initially said was that sexual and romantic attraction are different, which is true. Many women experience the butterflies/romantic attraction and remain dry as the Sahara. And yeah that's the stereotype for lesbians and usually true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/21 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadReporting him won't do anything. No one is going to care | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/21 08:37 PM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou're male | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/21 08:37 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat is not the point my guy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/21 08:35 PM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat do you do if you're upset about your girlfriend's body count? Well according to this guy, that means you can just rape her Edit post deleted but op talks in comments... She initially said she woke up to it and said stop but he put his hand over her mouth and didn't stop because he was mad over her having slept with guys in the past | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/21 07:52 PM |
| 3 | Why do guys need sex to feel validated?There is technically a very small alt red pill sub for LGBT people but I think it's mostly gay men. Dysfunctional is just the nicer way of saying broken so people don't get mad. You'd agree that men and some women experience sexual attraction without romantic right? You can want to fuck someone but have no romantic desire for them. Why is it so hard to believe the opposite can be true as well? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/21 07:40 PM |
| -2 | Why do guys need sex to feel validated?I never said anything about an ATM that's what I'm confused about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/21 07:29 PM |
| – | Why do guys need sex to feel validated?Yes, and the vast majority of people aren't gay. Does that mean we don't acknowledge the existence of gay people? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/21 07:29 PM |
| – | Why do guys need sex to feel validated?I just say it overall bc there are a very few men I think qualify for it. Like extremely low testosterone men usually. But I think it's generally true most men can't experience romantic without sex bc sexual attractiveness is what humanizes non-relative women to men, which is necessary to romantic relationships. If you get butterflies in your stomach and don’t want to smash then you are dysfunctional. Ok. There's a solid 2% of the female population that experiences that which amounts to millions… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/21 07:22 PM |
| – | Why do guys need sex to feel validated?Lack of sexual attraction alongside the existence of romantic attraction is much, much, much more common in women. I would say men cannot have romantic attraction without sexual attraction. That is not the case with women at all. So it makes sense it would be hard for you to comprehend. Romantic attraction is the butterflies in the stomach feeling, the way you smile involuntarily and feel happy inside when you get a text from them, the giddy silly things like the play-fighting or playing jokes o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/21 07:06 PM |
| – | There's no excuse not to workout and look your bestOh it's fine, it's not like medical that will kill me but mental so it's basically our own fault. I'm about 12-20x more likely to be in a fatal car accident and 35x more likely to kill myself than the average person. One of what I have is the second most likely condition to cause suicide (like 20ish% die from suicide and it's the most common cause of death for them), then a huge portion die in car accidents, other accidents, drugs, homicide, unintentional suicide in psychotic episodes etc on and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/21 06:58 PM |
| -2 | Why do guys need sex to feel validated?What | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/21 06:43 PM |
| – | Why do guys need sex to feel validated?The practicality and black-and-white nature of financial transactions is a ridiculous comparison to the complexities or human emotions and social relations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/21 06:38 PM |
| – | Why do guys need sex to feel validated?That doesn't answer the question at all it's just repeating the point of the question "Why is this thing good?" "Because it's good" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/21 06:26 PM |
| – | Why do guys need sex to feel validated?Alright. Here is a better explanation from the LGBT center | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/21 06:18 PM |
| – | Why do guys need sex to feel validated?Anyone with the cognitive capacity of a single celled organism or more | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/21 06:11 PM |
| – | Why do guys need sex to feel validated?Romantic attraction =/= sexual attraction | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/21 05:56 PM |
| 6 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadBc women are the ones who celebrate women's day. All the positivity and praise you see on women's day is female-generated with the exceptions of a select few male feminist types and men using the opportunity to make derogatory jokes about how they "appreciate" women and the joke is basically about tits/ass/whatever. Men, in contrast, are sitting back, and doing absolutely nothing to generate the positivity themselves. They basically want women to be the ones celebrating/generating all the positi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/21 11:27 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThey also attacked him lol If you hang out with people who like... Don't assault people, I think you'll be fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/21 07:25 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNot the same person but I kinda agree with the dude so. I get mine from ABC or CNN | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/21 07:24 AM |
| 10 | Women can complain about the dating market all they want and receive support, but men are shamed.If you do a key word search of that sub, you find posts borderline identical to this one, in which they respond to men the same way. Did you even think this through | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/21 07:11 AM |
| 6 | Are men really incapable of "dressing themselves?"Khaki shorts with the polo shirts is like wearing a sign saying "I am as interesting as a wet paper towel" And that's how like a solid portion of guys dress | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/21 05:53 AM |
| 3 | CMV: If you’re struggling to find a man to commit it’s your job to improve your situationIf you want to complain keep it to yourself just like I’m sure a lot of you feel that men shouldn’t complain about a lack of sex. Nah this is dumb. Literally everyone has the right to complain even if what they're complaining about is their fault. The internet is a dark void for us to yell into and that's why we have private spaces literally dedicated for just a user to yell into said void, like Twitter, or places to share opinions with others like Reddit. Men, women, everyone. You are still sub… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/21 05:46 AM |
| 1 | There's no excuse not to workout and look your bestBased on my conditions, I will most likely die in my 30s and it will be very sudden and/or intentional. I will most likely never reach old age, so there's no point in planning for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/21 03:26 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSo if someone points a gun at me I'm supposed to just kinda stand there? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/21 01:04 AM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadUhh no? Bc that was the only argument I was making. I said the world is better off without him. That's literally what I initially said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/21 11:54 PM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI mean yeah obviously. The point is that Kyle did the world a favor and we're better off without a child rapist in the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/21 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadObviously not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/21 11:14 PM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadBecause they're trying to portray them as poor innocent upstanding citizens victimized. Rosembaum molested/raped five little boys. He deserved far worse than being shot to death. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/21 11:13 PM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAlso, the guys that died, one was a known domestic abuser, the other a pedo/sex offender. Good riddance 🤢 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/21 08:05 PM |
| 13 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf you watch the Rittenhouse trial, when the prosecution witness straight up admits he pointed a gun at the guy, you can see the prosecuting attorney bury his face in his hands. That was the moment he knew it was over lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/21 07:02 PM |
| 26 | How do you feel about knowing that a lot of men will sleep with anything?My favorite is the 4chan guy that fucked raw chicken and got a urethral infection and tried to play it off as "I cooked naked and dropped the chicken on my dick," but the Hong Kong guy who fucked the holes in a park bench and had to be cut out of it by EMS is a close second. We truly are an amazing species | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/21 04:31 PM |
| 1 | There's no excuse not to workout and look your bestYes, that is the point. There is no strategy that you do not have to maintain to stay effective. Fasting is only a problem if it becomes psychologically uncontrollable at which point it becomes an eating disorder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/21 04:11 PM |
| 1 | There's no excuse not to workout and look your bestLong term = something that continues/maintains itself The moment you stop working out, your results go away. If you don’t burn off calories, every cheat meal sticks with you. Not if you eat unhealthy food and don't eat again for 24-72 hours and repeat that cycle. Is bad food even all that bad if you're only eating 800 calories a day | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/21 03:50 PM |
| 1 | There's no excuse not to workout and look your bestYou just said that if you don't work out you will not look good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/21 02:55 PM |
| 0 | Women are so terrified of being taken advantage for sex, and men are so terrified of being taken advantage of for money/paying for dates, when the answer is simple:What if I want a lamb sacrifice instead | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/21 09:27 AM |
| 0 | There's no excuse not to workout and look your bestWhy? I don't care about longevity/health and I'm not trying to be attractive. I'm not overweight. If I was overweight I'd just fast. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/21 08:44 AM |
| 2 | There's no excuse not to workout and look your bestYes, but it's not long term. The moment you stop exercising, you'll lose that muscle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/21 07:27 AM |
| 0 | There's no excuse not to workout and look your bestHe said long term. No weight loss method is long term. If you stop doing whatever method you use, you'll gain weight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/21 07:16 AM |
| 3 | There's no excuse not to workout and look your bestNeither is exercise. Nothing is long term. Any method can be ruined by just stopping and letting go. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/21 06:59 AM |
| -1 | There's no excuse not to workout and look your bestEh. I never liked that look. I would prefer to look thinspo, if I had a choice. Toned women look too masculine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/21 05:16 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadFair | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/21 03:32 AM |
| 20 | There's no excuse not to workout and look your bestThere's no excuse not to workout 1) I don't want to 2) I get 4-5 hours of sleep every night already 3) not worth it As long as I'm not overweight I don't see what the point is. Even then you drop weight very quickly via fasting, which is much more effective and faster | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/21 02:56 AM |
| 5 | QFW: A man going to therapy is a redflag?To be fair I'm going to disagree with most answers here and say it depends. Why is he going to therapy? Like if it's a mild thing, I get that. Depression, anxiety, even like schizophrenia. I go regularly myself. But if he's going to therapy because he's extremely violent, hurt someone, pedophile, personality disorder? In that case yes. We know that people with personality disorders are proven to be highly resistant to therapy no matter how much they receive. They cannot be changed, they can only… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/21 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWho was the worst female in the show? 🤔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/21 08:38 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadBut she's not the one asking, he is. She still chose him over finding someone new. Besides that's not really relevant to the point -- what is she supposed to do, just keep chasing the one that rejects her? Or go for the other guy that you also like? We're forgetting that if she truly felt nothing for this dude she would just seek out some new guy bc she could easily do so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/21 07:48 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHe wasn't a Chad like Sasuke tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/21 07:35 PM |
| 1 | If all women are attracted to a similar type of man physically...what type of personality appeals to the broadest amount of women?Is it really an attack if I'm one too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/21 06:57 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOk Naruto pfp | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/21 06:27 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhy is it a difficult concept that you get rejected so you decide "ok, I'll find someone else" like? What is she supposed to do, keep going after someone who rejected her? 💀💀 Like what would you tell a man to do, keep simping after a girl who rejected him or go find other fish in the sea? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/21 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAll this is is the inverse of how most heterosexual relationships work | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/21 05:54 PM |
| 7 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe normal version of trp is just kinda meh but I swear the mrp/rpw communities feel surreal to scroll through. It gives off a combination of cultish vibes (with the regular sins confessions lol) and the kind of incoherent anger of two crazy homeless men in the subway yelling at each other. Which is weird bc the normal trp sub is cringey/edgy but like, they still seem like normal, sane people. Reading the normal trp sub doesn't feel like you're looking at some kind of coded message. It reminds m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/21 05:36 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSo are most het relationships filtering out women with self worth? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/21 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadBecause the ones that can are rare enough that there's not really a lot of them, not nearly enough to go around. Those that do are taken off the market very quickly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/21 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat is literally the point, it says in the post it's a filtering/vetting method. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/21 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI can’t imagine a relationship where you gave her two orgasms, and she does nothing in return, then gets mad at you for finishing yourself in the bathroom afterwards. So like, the inverse of a massive portion of heterosexual relationships? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/21 04:22 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat really got me was the guy being mentally tortured by the thing for days until he just kills himself. Especially with the running theory that the friend who asked him to check on the house was actually already one of the creatures luring him in so that another one of the creatures could get his body. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/21 09:41 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathread4) Fetish relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/21 09:37 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThere's not enough to go around, no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/21 08:56 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNot when women are the dom one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/21 08:47 AM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI thought there was no such thing as women into it according to the manosphere 🤔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/21 08:01 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe op post is about advice for women though. It's irrelevant what it does for men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/21 07:46 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI mean she can move out of the way but I don't think these women will have a problem with you jerking off. Unless, and I am 100% convinced OP is, a fetishist (in her case who doesn't know it yet, but she describes it too specifically and detailed not to be). In which case you probably get a chastity cage and some form of beating <3 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/21 07:45 AM |
| 5 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI believe this woman doesn't realize she has a kink | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/21 07:28 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt reads like a copypasta And the fact that this man genuinely believes she wasn't masturbating when he wasn't there is a new level of blind confidence | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/21 07:27 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWell in that case, then what about the reasons they're talking about? Yes of course it makes sense for you to do that bc you want to serve your imperatives, but they want to serve theirs. It's what's best for them. You can't blame people for acting in their self interest provided they are not actually harming someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/21 07:22 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSpeak for yourself this sounds like a great way to find fetishists | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/21 07:13 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadA group of men think they have enough control over orgasms to do that? Knowing mrp the women are probably faking most of it anyway | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/21 07:10 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWorks out for male orgasm denial/chastity/edging kinks so I can't complain Why not just find a man that likes you enough to care about your pleasure in the bedroom? That's the point of it according to them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/21 06:31 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhy is it not at all surprising the raceplay people are all upper right corner | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/21 06:24 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadFds is now encouraging women to have sex where the man doesn't orgasm I like this a lot, but I highly doubt it's for the same reasons they do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/21 06:22 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI can't get over the wendigoon summary of the series using the jerma face tho, but yeah the most recent video freaked me out. Uncanny valley horror gets me much worse than gore/very direct horror. Also there used to be a series on YouTube by a channel called meatsleep that was deleted after a lot of harassment but the videos were always oddly unnerving. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/21 04:23 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhy would she not break up. It's fairly obvious it's non-fixable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/21 03:44 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMost fish don't feel pain. They lack the capacity to do so | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/21 03:42 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathread-10000000 social credits for you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/21 03:39 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYes but more men prefer thin to muscly. It's called the ballerina look for a reason, it's associated with femininity. It's fine to have a fetish though, you do you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/21 02:44 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt's the first post on the sub at the moment so yes I took it as the example. There's some but most have visible abs and/or muscly arms. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/21 02:35 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadthese arms look feminine? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/21 02:27 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLife is meaningless and nothing you ever do will have any worth or value other than providing temporary serotonin. You will die and be forgotten and return to dust all the same and you will remain insignificant in the grand scheme of things. Like a single ant in the hill that gets crushed -- forgotten, having never had any real worth at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/21 01:39 AM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSo like a man? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/21 01:29 AM |
| 1 | For Women: Do you feel that you misunderstood/misunderstand TRP or do you feel you understand TRP loud and clear?Except they can't be divided into wings because there is not enough consistency among individuals to even divide them into groups based on beliefs. The beliefs are so varied and even two individuals that agree on one thing may disagree on everything else. There is not enough alignment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/21 03:03 PM |
| 7 | Why do women keep tabs on their exes after breaking up?I checked up on one via a third party bc I was worried for him due to what I knew about him/what he'd said. I cared about him a lot and wanted him to be healthy/safe and I already knew from other third parties that the breakup was affecting his academics/health so I worried and felt guilt. But I never spoke to him, I just asked a mutual friend how he was doing Other than that, I have never done this or known a girl who did. Why would I waste my time like that This sounds like a ymmv | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/21 06:04 AM |
| 2 | For Women: Do you feel that you misunderstood/misunderstand TRP or do you feel you understand TRP loud and clear?You're fine. I'll also add that radical feminism is newer and more of a "push back" against liberal feminism due to liberal feminism's tendencies towards extremely naive positions/encouraging things that ultimately hurt women, but not wanting to align with tradcons. Radical feminism got really kicked into motion over the rise of transgenderism, and thus that is what they are known best for, but it is more than that. I also think that the reason the groups are so clearly defined and that very few… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/21 03:28 AM |
| 3 | For Women: Do you feel that you misunderstood/misunderstand TRP or do you feel you understand TRP loud and clear?Men's issues for one and whether men are victims too and need help, affirmative action, who pays on the first date, sex work and if the industry should be supported or shunned, there are many others Yes. Liberal feminists would virtually all answer a certain way on these -- yes, men are victims/need help, first date should be split/alternating, sex work is good/empowering. Liberal feminists will be pro-transgenderism. Radical feminists would say that men are not victims, first date should be pay… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/21 02:54 AM |
| 3 | For Women: Do you feel that you misunderstood/misunderstand TRP or do you feel you understand TRP loud and clear?As I already said to someone else who said the same thing, they do very clearly divide themselves into two distinct groups based on this issue: liberal and radical feminism. There are only a few areas where there's a lot of disagreement, but the thing is that for each of these areas, those two groups tend to go for opposite sides of each of them, hence there is a very clearly defined 2 forms of feminism. Trp has no such clear distinction, and a greater number of differing views within the sphere… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/21 02:17 AM |
| 9 | For Women: Do you feel that you misunderstood/misunderstand TRP or do you feel you understand TRP loud and clear?They each acknowledge themselves as two separate groups. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/21 09:46 PM |
| 32 | For Women: Do you feel that you misunderstood/misunderstand TRP or do you feel you understand TRP loud and clear?It would be easier if they themselves actually agreed on what they stand for and weren't full of divided groups saying "no they have it wrong this is what it actually means/that isn't trp, this is/etc" on every single issue. When a solid 80% of your population's word of mouth contradicts your own community sidebar, you've got a problem. I've never seen a more messy ideology actually. These dudes disagree with each other more than a group of women trying to pick out a place to eat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/21 09:21 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadUMC/UC is where you find this norm | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/21 07:52 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Why are marriages and relationships important to you?Ain't that the opposite of what Uncle Ruckus told us | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/21 06:20 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Why are marriages and relationships important to you?incapable of being happy This sounds harsh but either you're with someone with mental issues, or the caveat you're leaving out at the end of that is "with you". Either way, find someone else who is happy with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/21 06:17 AM |
| 0 | The modern west is the best sexual culture for young men.It wouldn't be Reddit without a daily experience of a user taking a source from a medical professional and tossing it to the side Also most women can't, actually. Some can. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 10:00 PM |
| -1 | CMV:women are not more attractive than men, by defaultDude you're already at the point where you're overanalyzing it so much it's spergy. What does the environment have to do with "frame." What does that even mean here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 09:59 PM |
| 3 | Women, how would you prefer to be pursued in real life?Paint your own ideal scenario assuming it's a guy you could potentially be into. Would you meet in class, at a bar, at yoga, at a local tennis court, concert, through friends, etc? Realistically there is no way for this to occur unless he teleports into my room. Which, while perfectly welcome, would likely send me into cardiac arrest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 09:56 PM |
| 79 | CMV:women are not more attractive than men, by defaultSo the next time you’re at a party or a club, try to not be horny in general. Then you’ll realize that most all the women you see don’t really get you horny. The ones that do tend to have good genetics, and you’ll notice this. This has "if you're depressed just try being happy" energy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 09:53 PM |
| 5 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThere's a "deadbeat mom" joke on TikTok now. Basically gen z girls and gender related stuff but overlapped with childfree. Joking like "my kid won't remember what I look like" and "when I'm a mom... I won't be" and jokes about paying child support. It makes me think it would be interesting in the future to see how the unprecedented disinterest in motherhood in gen z girls plays out. There will probably be more single fathers or kids being raised by grandparents. Already you see more and more cas… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 09:47 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadyou are no longer creepy :( creepy boy rights when | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 09:34 PM |
| 2 | The modern west is the best sexual culture for young men.As I said to the other guy, FGM is about equivalent to cutting off the entire glans or in some forms the entire penis. I'm against male circumcision but it's gross to diminish and trivialize from the suffering of these girls like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 08:52 PM |
| 2 | The modern west is the best sexual culture for young men.We call it fgm bc it is not equivalent to circumcision. FGM is equivalent to cutting off the entire glans, or in some types of FGM, cutting off the penis entirely. I'm against male circumcision myself actually. But it's delusional to pretend they are the same in severity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 08:50 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadPersonal entertainment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 06:43 PM |
| 2 | The modern west is the best sexual culture for young men.I'll subject you to my fetishes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 06:40 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI don't speak cringe but anyway lacking empathy is what defines a psychopath but I mean if you want that Jason Voorhees dick don't let anyone stop you ✊ But the comment was a meme lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 06:01 PM |
| 6 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhy would you waste .3 seconds of my life like this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 04:45 PM |
| 13 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadFellas is it beta to experience empathy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 04:24 PM |
| 5 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMan, I was able to understand this without having to read it twice. You've come a long way Derek. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 04:02 PM |
| -2 | The modern west is the best sexual culture for young men.Ohhh noooo you're one of the "circumcision is equivalent to fgm" aren't you 💀💀 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 02:17 PM |
| 2 | Redpillers: What’s the most simpy thing you did for a girl pre-TRP?"Violence/violent" as a word is used and clearly understood to have default negative connotation in the same way it does in current society in: Hamlet, 1599 (rebukes a man for violence as a first resort and basically pulls a "never be violent unless you're certain you have a good reason") Frankenstein, 1818 (refers to a "violent" person as inherently being bad) The King James Bible, 1604 (says literally to never envy a man who has shown violence and to avoid acting like anyone you have ever seen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 06:41 AM |
| 2 | Question about your thoughts on this strategy (NOT an advice post)"I am intentionally playing dumb and trying to get a reaction out of women on Reddit for amusement" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 05:18 AM |
| 2 | Redpillers: What’s the most simpy thing you did for a girl pre-TRP?When people say "violent instincts" it is generally understood that they mean unjust violence. That is literally why, when violence is being used for a good purpose, we call it something else. Thus, we only call bad things "violent instincts," it is a term meant to have a negative connotation to unjust violence and refers to the urge to harm innocent people. No one would call what you did violent instincts, because in the English speaking world that inherently means negative things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 04:46 AM |
| 2 | Redpillers: What’s the most simpy thing you did for a girl pre-TRP?No one except a fringe extreme minority would call saving someone toxic. "Violent instincts" is not the same as "protective instincts". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 04:24 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAn appeal to authority fallacy is when you appeal to an authority who has no reasonable reason to be trusted on the topic. As the infamous yourlogicalfallacyis website notes, "it's important to note that this fallacy should not be used to dismiss the claims of experts." I am referring to experts on the topic at hand. It would be a fallacy if I said "well, the president said so." But saying "a doctor who spent years of their life studying this subject said so" is not a fallacy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 04:07 AM |
| 1 | Redpillers: What’s the most simpy thing you did for a girl pre-TRP?Doesn't the little peg game basically insult you if you can't get more than 4 left | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 04:05 AM |
| 6 | How do you explain the apparent lack of women?Paranoia can be justified | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 04:04 AM |
| 2 | Redpillers: What’s the most simpy thing you did for a girl pre-TRP?TIL saving someone from severe harm is shameful | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 03:48 AM |
| 2 | Redpillers: What’s the most simpy thing you did for a girl pre-TRP?Don't forget the little peg triangle game they have at each table | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 03:36 AM |
| 12 | How do you explain the apparent lack of women?"destroy online dating" it's a literal decaying cesspool from the get go. That's like saying you're going to tear down flat ground. There's nothing to destroy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 03:22 AM |
| 21 | How do you explain the apparent lack of women?They're meeting men in real life Also, relationship oriented women as well as paranoid women stay off of dating apps bc they are notoriously filled with horny men who just want to fuck and psychos. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 03:14 AM |
| 3 | Redpillers: What’s the most simpy thing you did for a girl pre-TRP?Honestly it depends on the cracker barrel. Was it one of those "we are in the absolute fuck middle of nowhere and the only thing here is waffle house and cracker barrel" Cracker Barrels or a "pseudo suburban area with a large elderly white population that probably doubles as the meeting spot for local churches" Cracker Barrel | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 03:07 AM |
| 3 | Redpillers: What’s the most simpy thing you did for a girl pre-TRP?This took me from fully believing you were a troll to not. Brutal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 02:53 AM |
| 1 | The narrative that young women not ‘settling down’ is the sole thing causing young men to be sexless/single is not trueNo one, and I repeat, literally no one, has ever, or will ever, think this. This is a manufactured concept. Women will say "hey, plenty of women in their 30s/40s are still hot" and you hear "all women are just as attractive at 40 as she was at 20!" when that's not and will never be what they're saying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 12:00 AM |
| 7 | The narrative that young women not ‘settling down’ is the sole thing causing young men to be sexless/single is not trueMany think the supply of hot guys is endless No one, and I repeat, literally no one, has ever, or will ever, think this. This is a manufactured concept. Women will say "hey, plenty of women in their 30s/40s are still hot" and you hear "all women are just as attractive at 40 as she was at 20!" when that's not and will never be what they're saying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 11:54 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOk. In order for that to be true, you have to present a valid reason as to why harming someone is equally as bad as not harming someone. Can you do that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 11:45 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat is known to shorten refractory to an extent not remove it entirely, and is also observed in women, just to a lesser extent. But it occurs in both sexes. Only about <10% of men have no refractory period. A larger portion of women have none, but again after a while you just get tired. I have no refractory, but after a while you just get tired bc that's how expensing energy works. But overall, most women can go straight to orgasm #2-5ish, before getting tired, little to no refractory. Whereas … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 11:24 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNo, it’s not the same. For men the refractory period is more like a desensitization to that particular women. A man can keep fucking as long as you keep swapping out the women. A rare few dudes have low or no refractory period but for most men, it’s the one and done per women. Do you think I was born this morning or are you joking | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathread...you get desensitized to anything in that short of a timespan. That's... That's how orgasms work. Men are the same way. It's called a refractory period. You're kinda in a limbo state of overstim where you can't cum. Temporary desensitizing would be true if you were using your fingers, a dick, anything. That has nothing to do with vibrators. I’m sure it’d be easy to figure out on your own. Use a vibrator every day for a week then have sex. Then go a week without sex or masturbating and then hav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadEventually though, the pussy gets desensitized and she starts saying things about not being able to cum anymore. I mean yes that's how humans work, you can't just keep infinitely orgasming forever and ever, it slows down eventually and you have to wait at least a few hours if not until the next day. That's not a gendered thing nor does it have anything to do with the method you use. That isn't relevant here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMy experience disagrees I provided medical professional statements. Even amongst the women who can cum repeatedly (all of them), it gets progressively harder to cum with each successive orgasm. ??? No it doesn't. It often gets easier up to a point. Orgasms #2-4 for me come much easier than #1 if you're straight up marathoning with no break in between. It doesn't start getting more difficult until #5ish. This is also a well known thing. The first orgasm can take a few minutes but then you can hav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 07:38 PM |
| 7 | What's the hardest you have ever seen a women Simp for a guy she wasn't seeing/dating?No I never saw her after high school it was more of an acquaintance and not a close friend but I imagine if she never went to therapy there's no way she's doing well | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 07:29 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat would only be plausible if young women new to sex/sexuality who had never had stimulation were able to cum easily which is notoriously untrue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 06:05 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThere isn't really a widespread problem of men not being able to get off to their girlfriends while the girlfriend does get off | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThere's already dudes immediately below this trying to argue for it lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 05:56 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI mean yes a lot of guys are very lazy but that's just all the more reason the girl will buy one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 05:56 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadBecause they were at one point able to cum without the extra intense stimulation. Whereas the women were never able to cum without the extra intense stimulation. That's how many woman discover vibrators in the first place, and why so many more women than men own sex toys -- they are disappointed bc they can't get off from sex/on their own, and want to experience orgasm, so they seek out vibrators. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathread?? Yes it was? It was talking about the whole "big pharma" thing which is an antivaxx term and you said "well kinda" Either way I guess I misunderstood but I was just clarifying. The point is you're basically in line with the antivaxx thinking -- that you can't trust medical professionals and research because there's some greater conspiracy at work. That is essentially the same thing as antivaxx rhetoric. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 05:46 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSaying that doctors are reckless about the effects of vaccines makes it sound like you would avoid them... That's a logical conclusion based on what you said | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 05:42 PM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat's... Not the same thing. Yes plenty of women can't cum without a vibrator. For a lot of women it's the only way they can cum from the get go bc they naturally need more. They never would have been able to orgasm from just a man from the beginning, they always needed more. That's true of the majority of women -- it's not like we were able to cum from sex, started masturbating more, and then suddenly became unable to orgasm from sex/men, it's that we were never able to orgasm from sex/men in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 05:39 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSo you're unironically against vaccinating children for measles/polio/etc? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 05:36 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadJust like how pediatricians are all working for big pharma so we can't trust their data, and it's all just further evidence that there's a conspiracy to infect our poor children with autism, yeah? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI never said it didn't feel stronger/do the job faster. It just doesn't desensitize. But yeah I could easily do that, and have before when my old vibrator broke for a long time. I was not in any rush to get a new one, I waited until someone gifted me an Amazon giftcard bc it wasn't worth spending my own money on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 05:21 PM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadx | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLord grant me the confidence of a man who looks at the source from multiple medical professionals with PhDs and says it's wrong | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 05:10 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadBc they're even worse about that lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 05:09 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOh no I can see why you would assume it, the problem is that you have professionals saying that you're wrong so you should probably listen to people who have phds on the subject lol. But you have some men who will claim they know better than medical professionals. Literally just like the "vaccines cause autism" moms | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 05:05 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadBecause the vast majority of rapists/sex criminals do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 05:00 PM |
| 32 | What's the hardest you have ever seen a women Simp for a guy she wasn't seeing/dating?In HS a very mentally unhealthy girl with years worth of trauma who would practically grovel on the ground for anyone. Multiple times I saw people take advantage of this, but men much more often. She would drop whatever she was doing if she got a text, would help people cheat, basically let herself be walked on. But did once get attached to a guy who basically just wanted her to do his work for him. Women tended to be weirded out and avoid her or pity her too much to take advantage of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 04:52 PM |
| 5 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt's kinda wild that the whole "vibrators desensitize you" myth is still widespread despite being very widely available information bc I've now seen it twice on this place in two days so a reminder that that's bullshit and it literally doesn't have much of an effect at all. If you have a problem with a girl it's not the vibrators/dildos fault | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYes but there's nothing immoral about that whereas there is something wrong about harming someone emotionally. They are not the same and you wishing they were doesn't change that 😬 Tomorrow y'all will be out here justifying premeditated homicide because of an unintentional manslaughter or something | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever met a TRP or FDS person in real life? What were their lives like?Lots of people do this because they know it might be something they like for the wrong reasons. It's something they teach you, for example, if you undergo cognitive behavioral therapy. That whenever you feel yourself being drawn to a person, romantically or even just platonically, stop for a moment and question why. For example, when I underwent it, we discussed how, when it came to platonic friendships, I was actually being drawn to people who were somewhat cruel and pessimistic which had a neg… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYes I know I'm failing to understand how it fits here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 06:05 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIsn't that... An anti authoritarianism thing...? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 06:00 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAffection | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 05:55 AM |
| 49 | The sexual strategy of abortionAren't a massive portion of abortions middle aged women who already have children but believed they could no longer get pregnant so they took no precaution with their husband I remember a semi viral video from PP about this Also abortion is like... Very unpleasant for the woman you know that right | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 05:48 AM |
| 1 | Are all women polygynous?Is it because of a minority of women who are polygynous and they are giving us the 66% figure. Or are all women polygynous to some degree and some are more than others? Is there any data on this? Redditor discovers human beings may sometimes experience variance in traits across specimens. Stay tuned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 05:43 AM |
| 1 | Does having sex “early” ruin everything?Ok | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 03:56 AM |
| 2 | Does having sex “early” ruin everything?Anyone can weaponize anything. Money, sex, help, whatever the partner needs. Men, however, often choose to weaponize themselves in the most literal way when it comes to making partners do what they want lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 03:45 AM |
| 1 | Does having sex “early” ruin everything?They were nice to you to fuck you in this case bc they assumed that that was all they would need to do to get it, and you let them be right about that But even in cases of ltrs/organic relationships yes they stop trying once sex is secured, much like how some people "let themselves go" after getting married. Hence why women weaponize sex to get what they want so often, because if the man is getting sex consistently without needing to put in any effort, he has no reason to put in effort. Also Mad… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 03:35 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThey're not legitimate or noble, they're just "neutral." They're not really positive or negative. That's not the same as needing your self interest to cause active harm to the other person. And again that's avoiding the actual point though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 03:32 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadBut that's not the point or relevant, that's going off topic/avoiding addressing the point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 01:59 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat's not how that works? That's kinda a cop out. Men and women are different. The way we deal with each other and the things expected are different. Think of a platonic friendship in which one person is cruel or abusive, the bully-friendship kind you frequently see in middle school ages. One gives the other friendship -- just the very notion of being with them, letting them sit with them, etc. The other is routinely subjected to physical abuse and public humiliation, essentially bullying. You … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 12:58 AM |
| 1 | Latest stats on sexlessnessAh. Ty | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 12:31 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSo you're gonna conveniently ignore the whole part where women's self interest doesn't inherently dehumanize and harm you? They are not the same. The notion that money and sex are the same is inherently part of the problem because it's an attempt to make women think these things are equal contributions/sacrifices. Like I said, I don't need money/whatever else you can come up with. Hence, being upset. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 12:21 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSay you had to live with the reality that anyone you may like will barely see you as having worth unless you serve a practical function to them/provide them with gratification, would you not feel upset about that? Inb4 "b-but women too" I dated, loved and was perfectly content with guys who were obese, broke, ugly af, no gifts, no compliments, very much "takers", would not vent to/seek comfort from them etc etc. I'll joke about men being jar openers but in all seriousness I don't need them to ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 12:07 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadBecause they won't treat you well unless they do. Men cannot handle sexual rejection. You can give them all the affection, gifts, praise etc in the world but if they can't get their dick wet it's not enough for them. The thing is the reason the validation matters is bc it's the only thing that means anything coming from them. Men do not see women they can't sexualize/have sexual value (or have some subconscious freudian pseudosexual relation to, such as relatives) as having worth or value and ca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 11:32 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadBecause they will be your friend in exchange and generally men do not become friends with women unless they have some personal gain | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe issue with the "just get asexual men" line is that 1) ace women outnumber ace men 2:1, 2) a very large portion of ace men are autists that do not desire relationships in any way, 3) those few that are both seeking relationships with women and not repulsive are snatched off the market faster than anything. But they're useless anyway. If a man has no sexuality that means he has no desire. Therefore he can't give me any validation, and will probably not get along with me well at all because he … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 09:36 PM |
| 2 | Latest stats on sexlessnessyoung adults who believe premarital sex is wrong have consistently been about two to three times as likely to be sexually abstinent for several decades ??? A young adult is not more than 3 decades old. Of course they're going to have been abstinent for like age 1-16ish, the fact that they're abstinent for "several decades" makes no sense bc their adult life can only go up to slightly over one decade. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI should clarify that the guy is not being strung along emotionally | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadbut how could you verbally "behave hypersexually" around someone that you don't want to fuck? It's called lying | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Delusional women aren't more common than delusional men. They're just way more visible and vocal.Yes that's how ideologies work | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHe's not emotionally invested bc I specifically asked and got the answer that he is not feeling like he's ready for a relationship at the moment so he's just pursuing sex anyway. Hence it's not hurting anyone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt's already been over that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 07:05 PM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOh my b I understand now. One is emotional and you are seeking to cause harm to someone. I am not looking to cause anyone harm, only to not give them shallow gratification. The better equivalent would be you going on dates with a woman but not paying for anything. But leading someone on emotionally is not the same and is much worse than what I'm talking about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSo basically feed crumbs? Like start off with nothing and progress to being more and more physical/affectionate? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 06:39 PM |
| 3 | Delusional women aren't more common than delusional men. They're just way more visible and vocal.Yes they are aware and they don't want to accept it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 06:38 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThen why would it matter? I'll have found a new one before then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou're talking about two different things | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHow would he slip up? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 06:20 PM |
| 0 | Delusional women aren't more common than delusional men. They're just way more visible and vocal.Honestly the latter | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt takes several months if not well over a year to find a man who will show interest of any kind. So even if I set out on this endeavor, it's not something I can just replace immediately. And even if replaced, it would just be the same situation with another person, or forcing myself to fuck someone for it which is 1) arguably worse and 2) in which case might as well do it with this one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 06:19 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe last type, if he never "catches" it does he just give up? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOf course it would be | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 06:05 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAttention/validation/friendship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 06:00 PM |
| -1 | Delusional women aren't more common than delusional men. They're just way more visible and vocal.It doesn't really matter, seeing as being restricted to dark internet corners has not made them any less delusional nor has it reduced the number of delusional men in any way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe word is neurodivergent | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHow long can you reasonably "lead a man on" in terms of sex Say you have roped yourself into a hypothetical situation where you have covertly given not-so-subtle implications that you will fuck this guy and behave hypersexually around him (verbally), but continuously come up with excuses when he asks to come over or do some things but refuse to actually have full on sex with him repeatedly. How long can you reasonably keep this up before he realizes it won't happen? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 05:49 PM |
| 10 | Delusional women aren't more common than delusional men. They're just way more visible and vocal.Delusional woman hang out on very mainstream internet spaces while delusional men hang out in dark corners of the internet, so you see the former more often. The delusional men are very vocal, but yes less visible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Are you fucked if you don't engage in drinking culture?Seek out women who don't drink in non alcoholic environments? How is this hard | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 05:32 PM |
| 1 | This thread from /r/AmItheButtface is an example of just how much the "Women are Wonderful Effect" dominates the mainstream view of dating.Ok | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 05:08 PM |
| 1 | This thread from /r/AmItheButtface is an example of just how much the "Women are Wonderful Effect" dominates the mainstream view of dating.Yes it's possible, just unlikely. No one "cannot stand" anything, people would and have literally responded the same way to females posting similar things and it's disingenuous to pretend otherwise. I know y'all want to be victims so bad but you're gonna have to find something else bc this one isn't working | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYes, but those cases are extremely rare in comparison to old men preying on young girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 11:27 AM |
| -3 | This thread from /r/AmItheButtface is an example of just how much the "Women are Wonderful Effect" dominates the mainstream view of dating.Ok | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 10:25 AM |
| 2 | This thread from /r/AmItheButtface is an example of just how much the "Women are Wonderful Effect" dominates the mainstream view of dating.Sure | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 08:54 AM |
| 16 | This thread from /r/AmItheButtface is an example of just how much the "Women are Wonderful Effect" dominates the mainstream view of dating.It wouldn't be ppd without the "men are more attractive when they're older, money and status can make up for looks!" delusion now would it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 08:37 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadBecause it's abnormal. Like I said to her comment I've used vibes for years and can get off with my fingers just as well as I could before I started using them. It's either a mental block for this woman or she's got something abnormal going on. insist that men should feel lucky to hold a piece of plastic to their groin instead of having sex. Also, she said she can't use her fingers anymore. Masturbation with one's fingers is still superior to dick. Even if a woman has never used a vibe in her li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 08:22 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat Megathread??? I've been using vibrators for years and never had an issue. I can get off with it and then immediately use my fingers and cum again within 5 minutes. What kind of torture tools are you using on yourself? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 08:18 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat's a typo right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 08:16 AM |
| 5 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThis guy specifically is a troll and has spent his entire time here trolling | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 08:14 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathread22 about to be 23 soon There's a lot of male fantasy media within nerd communities about relationships with older women, like a semi popular one about a dude dating his college professor whose got a 10 year age gap iirc Yes some girls do like older men. What I mean is that you don't see older women blatantly preying on and harassing young boys who are clearly uncomfortable with them the way you do old men on young girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 07:22 AM |
| 1 | In your experience, what are some things different about women in the real world compared to FDS/PPD/Internet women?If you believe women here then there's tons of guys dating or marrying women taller than them. No one says this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 06:51 AM |
| 7 | Polite mainstream society wants to liberate women and imprison men, hence its wholly disparate reactions to women casting off obligations to go "find themselves" (teehee) v. men doing so.I'm gonna repeat what I said when you said this to me in a comment like a few minutes ago You're telling me you think how people treat a chick flick protagonist is how they would feel about the situation in real life? If you think how people feel about/what they praise in fictional characters is how they would feel about it in real life, we have a society full of incredibly violent psychopaths. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 06:33 AM |
| 20 | This thread from /r/AmItheButtface is an example of just how much the "Women are Wonderful Effect" dominates the mainstream view of dating.Did you just try to tell me that how people feel about a chick flick protagonist is how they would feel about the same situation in real life? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 06:30 AM |
| 7 | Can’t older women just date older men?I notice its really just women that do this Quick question, do you expect people reading this statement to believe it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 06:11 AM |
| 45 | This thread from /r/AmItheButtface is an example of just how much the "Women are Wonderful Effect" dominates the mainstream view of dating.The comments just show that people think it's kinda confusing as to why he thinks he can now get the experiences he wants when he literally said from the get go that he experienced constant rejection beforehand, that's the reason for the "don't come crawling back" comment -- bc it's kinda ridiculous of him to think he can get what he wants, given his track record. And people are generally going to frown upon breaking up with people for shallow reasons. There are literally tons and tons of posts … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 05:47 AM |
| 1 | Would genetically engineering men solve women's hypergamy? Or is their hypergamy insatiable?Incorrect. Brown doe eyes supremacy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 05:00 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Red Pill advice would be perfect if all the women in the world had Borderline Personality DisorderIt's a well known fact that rockstars and metal stars have sex with barely legals and underage girls.. In that case trp men would definitely want to be taking notes from this guy lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 04:07 AM |
| 1 | Have you ever met a TRP or FDS person in real life? What were their lives like?... so if you feel attracted to someone, you stop and ask yourself if they're displaying those behaviors and if so, just stay away from them? It's not hard? That's what I've always done. If I like someone in any capacity I take a while to question it and think through it logically and if I don't like some of the reasons or implications I avoid them. I have done this with one guy a few months ago. Sure I liked him, but I still blocked/ghosted him because I took time to think it through. Although … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 03:23 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThey are actually often very deceptive, men with NPD and psycho/sociopaths in general are known for this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 07:15 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI doubt these guys are scheming master manipulators deliberately seeking out vulnerable women. Yes, they do. This is a well documented thing and fairly widely available information. I can at least direct you to the book I was advised: How to Handle a Narcissist: Understanding and Dealing with a Range of Narcissistic Personalities by Theresa Jackson We also know that the cognitively impaired, even in mild forms, are more likely to be abused and raped. These people do not seek out anyone generally… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 07:14 PM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMaybe I will make a post then Are we talking rapists, or PUA types? Either/or, or both, basically just any men that seek out women with the intention of causing them some form of harm, be it rape, trapping them into any kind of abusive relationship, or yes, manipulating them for "pump and dump" purposes -- that is, when it is the case that they specifically lead the woman to believe they want a relationship, but have no intentions of actually doing so. That is intentionally causing someone emoti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 06:54 PM |
| 6 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadFeels like this doesn't deserve its own thread but it's long so: To what extent do trp/whatevercels/etc acknowledge the existence of predatory men and that "bad men" will specifically seek out vulnerable women? And the accountability of bad men in comparison to the women they target, or the degree of innocence/victimhood of the women as opposed to blaming them for their situation? For example I have been to a psychiatrist who specifically worked with me on "how to recognize and spot the red flag… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Most women don't deserve prince charming. Most women (like most men) are average and deserve average men. That western women waste their youth throwing themselves at high value men they don't deserve only to be pumped & dumped is why they end up bitter, alone or "settling".Ok, that's fine. I don't disagree with that. The only point is that they are, in fact, single by choice, because the literal definition of "single by choice" is that you have options and choose not to take them, regardless of whether or not the options are ones the individual likes. Even if all one's options are terrible, they still choose not to take them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Most women don't deserve prince charming. Most women (like most men) are average and deserve average men. That western women waste their youth throwing themselves at high value men they don't deserve only to be pumped & dumped is why they end up bitter, alone or "settling".Okay... But you were arguing the definition lol. The definition of single by choice is having options but choosing to not take them. The terminology is literally what you were arguing in the first place | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 04:00 PM |
| 2 | Most women don't deserve prince charming. Most women (like most men) are average and deserve average men. That western women waste their youth throwing themselves at high value men they don't deserve only to be pumped & dumped is why they end up bitter, alone or "settling".The incels cannot get any woman, if they reject certain women they are volcels. These women could have a man and choose not to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 02:43 PM |
| 2 | Most women don't deserve prince charming. Most women (like most men) are average and deserve average men. That western women waste their youth throwing themselves at high value men they don't deserve only to be pumped & dumped is why they end up bitter, alone or "settling".Of course, but you're deluded if you really, genuinely expect me to believe that there's enough of such men to make any significant impact on BMI stats. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 02:27 PM |
| -1 | In your experience, what are some things that are different about men in the real world compared to men on TRP/PPD/the manosphere?You should spend more time here then. We've had dudes arguing that mid teens should be legal and are a girl's "peak" and that they hit "the wall" at 18-20. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 09:40 AM |
| 3 | Most women don't deserve prince charming. Most women (like most men) are average and deserve average men. That western women waste their youth throwing themselves at high value men they don't deserve only to be pumped & dumped is why they end up bitter, alone or "settling"."Among men, the prevalence of obesity was 40.3% among those aged 20–39, 46.4%" "Among women, the prevalence of obesity was 39.7% among those aged 20–39, 43.3%" "There was no significant difference in the prevalence of obesity between men and women overall or by age group." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 07:49 AM |
| 2 | Most women don't deserve prince charming. Most women (like most men) are average and deserve average men. That western women waste their youth throwing themselves at high value men they don't deserve only to be pumped & dumped is why they end up bitter, alone or "settling".I literally don't care about that, which I said several times in this thread, what I care about is that you all are wrong on the literal definition of settling. It means what it means, not what you want it to mean. average women screw themselves by setting such standards How? How is ending up alone worse than ending up with someone who repulses you and makes you miserable that you don't want? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 07:48 AM |
| 2 | Most women don't deserve prince charming. Most women (like most men) are average and deserve average men. That western women waste their youth throwing themselves at high value men they don't deserve only to be pumped & dumped is why they end up bitter, alone or "settling".Literally the dictionary definition of settling: "accept or agree to (something that one considers to be less than satisfactory)." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 07:23 AM |
| 0 | In your experience, what are some things that are different about men in the real world compared to men on TRP/PPD/the manosphere?It's not a difficult to understand sentence | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 06:22 AM |
| 1 | How would you handle libido differences with your partner?Not really. I do it because I want the other person to be happy, because I care about them. The guy does it for personal gain to obtain something for himself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 06:02 AM |
| 1 | How would you handle libido differences with your partner?Yeah, I want to have a partner for emotional purposes. Which is why I'm willing to bear it and just go with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 05:33 AM |
| 2 | Most women don't deserve prince charming. Most women (like most men) are average and deserve average men. That western women waste their youth throwing themselves at high value men they don't deserve only to be pumped & dumped is why they end up bitter, alone or "settling".I don’t care to hear her complain. Ok. You don't have to. Block them on social media where they appear, stay out of spaces where there will be a ton of those types who complain. People are allowed to complain about whatever they want in their private online spaces such as accounts on social media. You will have to learn to accept that you will see things online you don't like. If a person wants to find someone they are attracted to and can't, that's a perfectly valid reason to be disappointed an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 05:31 AM |
| 1 | Most women don't deserve prince charming. Most women (like most men) are average and deserve average men. That western women waste their youth throwing themselves at high value men they don't deserve only to be pumped & dumped is why they end up bitter, alone or "settling".Alright. The original comment you made seemed to me to indicate that it wasn't settling, so I misunderstood. They don't think they're above those men. They just don't want them. A lot of the type of fat/ugly women being discussed here will openly admit that they would not date a man on the same level as them. Because they're not attracted to them, if not literally repulsed by them, and they can't change that. A woman who works retail considering it settling that she is dating a man who also work… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 04:35 AM |
| 2 | How would you handle libido differences with your partner?What’s the frequency you would need? Like a minimum? Zero What’s the current frequency and do you think your partner wants more? Don't have a partner, haven't had sex since 2018. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 04:17 AM |
| 1 | Most women don't deserve prince charming. Most women (like most men) are average and deserve average men. That western women waste their youth throwing themselves at high value men they don't deserve only to be pumped & dumped is why they end up bitter, alone or "settling".I'm not arguing that it's delusional. I'm telling you that you are objectively wrong about the definition of settling. The definition is "accept or agree to something that one considers to be less than satisfactory." You cannot change the fact that these women are unhappy with the men who are their technical equals. The women you're talking about want the men that they find attractive, but if they cannot have them, they would rather be alone. In contrast, men likewise want the women they find at… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 04:16 AM |
| 11 | Most women don't deserve prince charming. Most women (like most men) are average and deserve average men. That western women waste their youth throwing themselves at high value men they don't deserve only to be pumped & dumped is why they end up bitter, alone or "settling".the obesity rate for males vs females is almost identical, and in the 20s age group greater for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 04:09 AM |
| 1 | Most women don't deserve prince charming. Most women (like most men) are average and deserve average men. That western women waste their youth throwing themselves at high value men they don't deserve only to be pumped & dumped is why they end up bitter, alone or "settling".Settling =/= dating down. Settling means exactly what the word means: to settle for less than what you want. Even if a 2/10 landwhale marries a 5, but she wanted an 8, she's still settling. You've got your definition wrong. So yes overall you are asking women to settle, because you are asking them to settle for being unhappy/with men who repulse them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 03:54 AM |
| 9 | Most women don't deserve prince charming. Most women (like most men) are average and deserve average men. That western women waste their youth throwing themselves at high value men they don't deserve only to be pumped & dumped is why they end up bitter, alone or "settling"."waste their youth" This is where the manosphere argument kinda crumbles. By your definition, NOT "wasting their youth" would consist of being celibate or making themselves miserable having sex with men they don't like, and forming LTRs and eventually marriages with men who disgust them and never experiencing anyone outside of those men they marry. Do you think they would consider that a youth well spent? You think that would make them happy? For the record also based on your other comments, you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 03:50 AM |
| 2 | How would you handle libido differences with your partner?I just went with the grin and bear it and fake it method I am a relatively good actor and can force myself to do things I don't enjoy more easily than most people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 03:42 AM |
| 6 | In your experience, what are some things that are different about men in the real world compared to men on TRP/PPD/the manosphere?Men irl don't usually find girls who look like they have not finished puberty attractive. Nor do they consider early to mid 20s to be too old | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 03:40 AM |
| 1 | FDS is the female version of TRP, yet Reddit is totally fine with it because patriarchyI imagine this is a matter of "why does Reddit allow this to exist but not trp/incel/manosphere sub" right? Well that's simple. Incel/manosphere communities and ideologies have led to/been directly tied to acts of terrorism and homicide. Manosphere communities have been known to praise said terrorists and killers. Manosphere communities have been known to encourage/promote rape and statutory rape. Trp has been known to encourage manipulation/targeting specially women with a specific mental illne… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 03:23 AM |
| 4 | What is the female equivalent of "not being that into a guy"?Well yes but that's the thing, that's fairly normal with college girls. In my college time and observations there, a lot of the "sluts" did not want relationships and I did see girls, especially my ex roommates who I consider to be kinda the model of the "college slut" trope, actively cut off or get frustrated with guys the moment they "caught feelings." And contrary to the popular narrative here, based on watching their lives, it was fairly common for men to "catch feelings" while the girl did … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYes all my life I can recall having this desire to be an older woman/projecting myself onto older women in real life and fiction, all my fantasies ever since sexual awakening as a kid have had me in my 30s and not my current self, etc. I've accepted it as just part of myself. And because I hang out in those communities I know what a blatant lie it is that men don't like older women. There is a huge community of young boys who are insanely horny for older women, and want them for relationships, n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 08:24 PM |
| 3 | What is the female equivalent of "not being that into a guy"??? No? In the case of my roommate they were conventionally attractive dudes but she still didn't want to be in a relationship. She would get really annoyed by any men "catching feelings" bc she did not want a relationship at all until she was older and specifically said so. She never dated anyone until several years later. The guy she ended up dating was about equally conventionally attractive. They're still together as far as I know | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 05:09 PM |
| 3 | What is the female equivalent of "not being that into a guy"?But trend wise that rarely happens… Ehhh. Not in my observational experience. Saw it plenty of times in college. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 04:34 PM |
| 22 | What is the female equivalent of "not being that into a guy"?Literally the same thing. I think a lot of y'all really need to come back down to earth. For women that fuck around there are a ton of dudes they would fuck but would not ever date/commit to. And you literally see men upset about this on relationship subs and real life. On the main relationship advice sub like a week ago there was a post from some dude all hurt feelings bc his fwb got a boyfriend and he was basically sad that she didn't seem to consider him for that role at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 08:14 AM |
| 3 | Now that the dust has settled: What kind of man would you date or consider a relationship with?Cute n little n young | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 07:35 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadP... Predatory behavior?? They're cartoons. They're literally fictional characters who don't exist. It is a well known fact that people's fantasies often do not align with their real life preferences at all. Do you think 60+% of women genuinely want to be raped? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 02:35 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOkay and? What's so bad about that? You clearly were trying to make some point by saying I post there. So anything outside of the standard young adult woman x older man is bad because...? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 01:43 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathread... and the fact that you know what it means would imply you've at least been involved in circles where it's adjacent if not common | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 11:58 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOk, well the bottom line is it's not illegal in any way so it's senseless to ban it from the website. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 11:25 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe fact that you say it with the assumption of what it contains implies you visit the sub yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 11:23 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYes that's correct. That's not relevant to this discussion bc loli/shota is of underage (or appearing that way) cartoons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 11:18 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI'm talking about people who are all of legal age in that situation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 10:32 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAnd fantasy rape porn is allowed here. Who's to say that won't also remain a fantasy? And that porn is of real people, too. This isn't, this is pixels on a screen. Lines on paper. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 09:37 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe literal point is that they harm no one and don't implicate the people who enjoy them. Fantasy and reality are different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadVery funny. That's literally the point. In no world does the things people like in fantasy or literal cartoons necessarily correlate to real life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYes you can search it up anywhere but the point is that a lot of hentai genres have communities bc people like to share things and find others who like the same stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 09:22 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt's idiotic that this hellsite bans loli/shota hentai. It's not illegal, no one is harmed by a bunch of pixels on a screen. The crusaders who hate it so much care more about said pixels than real kids honestly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 09:16 PM |
| 6 | What's wrong with the age gap really? Older, successful women can not get the men they want, because men chose younger women, and don't care about their success.Tell me you've never interacted with a teenage girl without telling me you've never interacted with a teenage girl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 08:58 PM |
| 13 | What's wrong with the age gap really? Older, successful women can not get the men they want, because men chose younger women, and don't care about their success.it's not because we "can't handle" a "real woman". No one says this. Maybe you can look it up and find one Reddit post from 2015 where someone used this wording but like. No one thinks this. This is a self-manufactured strawman because you want to avoid addressing why people actually shame age gaps. It's easier for you to create a caricature of some old woman saying this because it is a ridiculous statement and thus easy to mock and dismiss. You know why people, male and female, shame large age … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 05:39 PM |
| 2 | How is someone supposed to have a low N-count and be happy, if they have a bad time at finding lasting relationships ?So what is one to do ? Just live miserably without sex while hoping someone will want to date you; or become promiscuous and be excluded from relationships forever ? Find compatible people is all. The fact that you think life without sex is miserable is automatically going to make you incompatibile with the type of women that would avoid you for body count in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 05:10 PM |
| -1 | Does women give bad advices about dating and relationships to men?Not without looking like an asshole and being judged there isn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 03:22 PM |
| 0 | Does women give bad advices about dating and relationships to men?Men give advice that will allow and encourage a woman to be walked on like a doormat for the sake of male imperatives and shows complete obtuseness in regards to female imperatives, needs and concerns. Following male advice will get a woman harmed at least in the emotional sense, if not even put in actual danger because it is so lacking in awareness of our concerns. Male advice will also quite literally sabatoge a relationship because it encourages the girl to do things that will leave her aband… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 03:12 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYes but I've seen and experienced this both in and outside of said religious community. Literally in college some acquaintances were determined to find someone for me even though I didn't really want her to and they went out of their way to ask me about my family/try to find someone my family would approve of and work well with. Very secular college girls, unprompted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 02:37 PM |
| 1 | Does women give bad advices about dating and relationships to men?Literally on this sub and all over you see "if you like a guy you should do the approaching/ask him out, don't wait for him to!" If you don't think that's bad advice, you're part of the problem. Also pretty much never seen a man agree that waiting to have sex is a good idea unless it's a girl's family members. Usually men will more or less advise you to sleep with men early on. Here specifically, you see the whole "as long as you vetted him first you should sleep with him early UwU" And worst of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 02:34 PM |
| 0 | Does women give bad advices about dating and relationships to men?Read it again, slowly this time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadsets people up taking into account their families, Uh... Having been in both the position of the person being set up by friends and the person trying to find someone for a friend, yeah, their families are taken into account. You personally may not, but that's not normal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 07:13 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat's not really enough of a difference to change the fact that they're essentially the same thing. A matchmaker is just "friends setting two people up" with a few extra details and not worthy of discussion here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 06:56 AM |
| 14 | Does women give bad advices about dating and relationships to men?They don't really know what it is that arouses them. They know, they don't want to tell you bc telling John at the workplace that he is ugly in every conceivable way and that none of it can be fixed would make them a jerk and would defy social conventions of normalcy. And because if they say "tall, hot, etc" they will be looked down upon if not met with hostility. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 04:47 AM |
| 5 | Does women give bad advices about dating and relationships to men?All people give bad dating advice to the opposite sex because they have incentive to be dishonest (in their defense, often unintentionally/subconsciously) for the purpose of furthering their own sex's imperatives that would be served at the expense of the opposite's. Yes women give horrible dating advice to men. Men give horrible dating advice to women. Trp's whole "don't ask a fish how to catch fish, ask the fisherman" thing goes both ways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 04:33 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOh, ok. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 03:58 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOhhh my gooooood I already addressed this below | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 03:32 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe "outlast 2 type villages'" made me nose exhale thank you Some 3rd party pairing up people they think work well together, that's just a normal relationship, not really any different from friends introducing people to each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 03:06 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathread...because that's how comments work... People who don't take issue aren't going to do anything other than continue scrolling, only people that take issue with something are going to reply to it. There would be no point in backtracking, had I originally meant both definitions, because my point is still true for and could easily be argued for your definition as well. It's just not the argument I'm wanting to discuss at the time because arguing my original point for your definition of it would be b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 01:43 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI used that wording because people like you usually get up in an twist if you make them sound synonymous 💀 just like if you make "middle eastern" and "muslim" synonymous, there will always be someone crying about "b-but not ALL of us are (insert religion)!" and you simply strike me as the type of person who would do that. Again... Unless you are ESL, I know you know that's not what I meant from the get go. It's disingenuous and intentionally/willfully facetious :/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 01:21 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI... Didn't say they were different?? What? I'm so confused. I genuinely don't know what you mean or what part of what I said that you're referring to. What are you talking about? Everyone knows they're virtually synonymous. If anything I'm surprised you're not offended that I basically lumped them together Edit are you ESL by chance? Genuinely wondering and not intended as an offensive question. I thought a large portion of Indian people spoke English natively | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAnd now it's gone before I got to see it, alas... Was a nerve struck? 🥺👉👈 Sowwy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 01:07 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadmost arranged marriages are forced and with shitty controlling husbands Yesssss ooooh my gooood because again, it's disingenuous to pretend you actually thought I was talking about matchmaker shit 💀 you know that's not what I or anyone who uses the term is referring to and it's just bad faith to pretend not to. Although to be fair, many men from those cultures are that way, arranged marriage or not. Why do you think there's such a strong trend of indian and Muslim women desperately trying to avo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 12:42 AM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAgain, it's just that no one really considers that arranged marriage, to the point that it's disingenuous to pretend that's what you thought I was referring to in the first place :/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 12:29 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIn some very westernized places but most people don't really consider it to be. It should be assumed, as it is with most people, that that's not what literally anyone means when they say "arranged marriage" Nonetheless, even in those cases, the things I said below as to why still apply. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 12:28 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt's basically going off point on something slightly different that isn't actually the topic I'm talking about, but pretending it is the topic I'm talking about when I honestly think she knows it's not... There's actually a term for that, but I can't think of it. It's not really a spectrum in the sense people think of it. Like yeah sure you can technically call very vaguely "arranged" marriages that, but we all know that most people wouldn't consider it that and it's assumed to the vast majority… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 12:07 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat's not really arranged marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 11:40 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe vast majority of modern arranged marriages are no more or less toxic than love marriages. Agreed, that's not the point I'm taking what I'm saying (this whole comment was parroting really if I'm being honest) based on what women from those cultures are saying 💀I follow a good deal of ex Muslim lesbian/women accounts on various media that discuss the subject in detail, if you want recommendations or something? Actually looking back though, you didn't actually address any of my points at all, y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadA professional NFL player could not kick the point any higher over your head. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 11:10 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAgain you can logically reason the issues. I didn't say it's inherently false, I said it should not be taken at face value. The cultures which practice arranged marriage are also the same cultures stereotyped worldwide as genuinely misogynistic. Remember in the UK back a few years ago how there was controversy over voting in arab immigrant households, because husbands were literally just filling out their wives' ballots so each man got 2 votes (or, in some cases 3-4)? I wouldn't be surprised if … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 11:05 PM |
| 8 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOut of every awful, braindead take I've ever seen in this place, I think "arranged marriage couples report being happier so it must be true! They're doing something right! (Insert some spiel about how western values have degraded)" is the worst. You need literally the cultural awareness of anyone who grew up anywhere other than a deserted island and the critical thinking skills of a pistachio to understand why that should not be taken at face value. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 10:51 PM |
| 2 | The "biology" of the age gapMany people, including many women look better with a bit of age. Tell that to 85% of the male population of this sub | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 07:50 PM |
| 19 | The "biology" of the age gapHow did this become acceptable It's not. The women who do this are universally frowned upon by men and other women alike. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 04:51 AM |
| 1 | What are some of the worst “feel good” lies about daying?want to conquer you. If this is a man's mentality in any capacity no matter how long I've known him he needs to stay at least a football field distance away from me and preferably all women. That's legit disgusting and undoubtedly a sociopath red flag | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 04:17 AM |
| 89 | The "biology" of the age gapWomen aren't attracted the old rich man, they date him pragmatically while fucking a younger, cuter, less rich boy on the side. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 04:12 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat? I'm asking if you agree with the other guy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/21 10:21 PM |
| 17 | What do you think a Red Pilled man actually is?To address everything you're saying below: it's not a matter of knowing the facts, it's a matter of the fact that you are talking about someone who discusses and brings these things up in real life and allows it to severely affect how they deal with others. The equivalent of this would be a woman who, knowing rape statistics, is so paranoid of men that she allows it to negatively affect her life because she is so fixated on it, being overly paranoid to a point she can't just have a normal relati… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/21 09:47 PM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadExcellent | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/21 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat's what I'm asking for clarification on 💀 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/21 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSo you're ALSO saying that you refuse to believe it's a large portion of women that would like this guy? You would disagree with the other guy replying to me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/21 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf you look in his comments it's mostly teen girls. There's whole trends and communities and running jokes now about girls wanting pretty boys in dresses and the like. You're just out of touch with the nerd/dweeb young girl culture. This is exactly what I meant lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/21 04:57 PM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadPLEASE tell me that's a boy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/21 04:47 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI see I see. In that case, I have been told things along the lines of "no man would ever believe you're attracted to that" etc etc. Would you mind, then, if I save and link them back to your comment when that happens? Thank you though, this was a breath of fresh air. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/21 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOk. So would you continue to argue that when, again, I or other women get dogpiled by men here and told we're lying when we say we're attracted to his face/build? I'm just trying to figure this out because in the past I was told no girl above her teen years would find him attractive 😬 you would be vehemently disagreeing with the majority male opinion on this sub. Which I consider a win, but are you willing to accept that? He says he's 5'3 to appeal to the type of women who watch his videos. He c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/21 03:44 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI have said many a time in this godforsaken place that I enjoy short, skinny Asian boys with pretty faces and every single time without fail I am told I'm lying, delusional, mentally ill, or that my brain isn't developed and I'll "grow out of it" soon and start liking "real men." I have literally posted other vids of this boy before and been met with the same responses. You are the literal first man on this community to agree with me that he's attractive. I'm just happy you think so is all. Do y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/21 03:35 PM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHe's actually like 5'3, he's addressed it in his videos in the past! Even better 😋 I was told by men here women don't like skinny men 🤔 perhaps you could defend the next girl that says she likes skinny men and gets dogpiled here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/21 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSkinny Asian boy Chad? Chad maidmaxxes, incels take note | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/21 03:07 PM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat Megathread"This is the ideal male form. You may not like it, but this is what peak performance looks like." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/21 02:17 PM |
| 19 | Another question for women: Would you consider a relationship with someone who considered themselves Red Pill or outright identifies as Red Pill?I would be wary of anyone aligning themselves with an online-originated ideology with a cringe community of any kind lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/21 03:44 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOf course it did. But as badly? No. Even at the time of the things you describe, the west was horrified by the Chinese treatment of women -- see Marco Polo's writing. You're also describing things used on criminals and the like (even if they really weren't, which we now know). The Chinese did horrid things to women they didn't even think had done anything wrong. They didn't need a woman to be a "witch" to commit atrocities. The only crime you needed to commit was being born as a female. Not only… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/21 12:31 AM |
| 5 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYes, that's wrong, but her points themselves are not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/21 11:53 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWe don't have a history of en masse slaughtering infants over their sex 😬 China is literally stereotyped for having a horrendously sexist culture not just in the west, but in cultures surrounding theirs (Korea, Japan). I'm sorry but if you look at some of the details of their culture you cannot say they are not much worse than the west. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/21 11:52 PM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOutside of the first line, what's even wrong with it? A group of men (headed by one man yes) approved the policy. Almost exclusively men make up traffickers with the exception of some women, often their own current victims, they rope/threaten into helping. Men have created and enforced polci s and systems to maintain power. It's not wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/21 11:50 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMao believed that China had "too many women" and honestly idk how the fuck he came up with that idea. The Chinese don't have the best track record for seeing women as human beings | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/21 11:40 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIn other words you have no answer. Got it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/21 10:06 PM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI thought so at first but he's too dedicated to elaborating and defending himself in the replies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/21 10:05 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf women aren't dating a man, they aren't attracted to him. How is dating someone you are unattracted to "successful?" It is a simple question you should be able to answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/21 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHe's too dedicated to elaborating and defending himself in the replies | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/21 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadCould you actually answer the question tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/21 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou're saying "women could be successful but they date the wrong men!" Women date who they are attracted to. They do not date who they are not. If they're rejecting a guy, he's not attractive to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/21 09:50 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadcould be successful in dating Settling for people you're unattracted to is successful? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/21 09:16 PM |
| 10 | Daily Community Chat Megathread"Date men when you're both young and help build him up, he'll appreciate your loyalty and stay with you in the long run!" "I can't believe my girlfriend really think that I'm gonna marry her and we'll live happily ever after. Soon as I get a decent job I'mma leave her & start dating my types TF 😭" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/21 09:12 PM |
| 21 | Question for women: How do you view the Red Pill?Anyone who has to employ a dating strategy they learned from the internet is desperate and kinda sad. Yes, fds too. In particular a lot of trp men are socially malfunctioning guys who think their problem is just with women but really they have a problem with social interaction as a whole. Also I don't think they realize that no one believes them when they come here pretending to be pussyslayer500 who tosses women aside left and right, and it's just cringey when they put on that act. That's proba… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/21 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOh. Yes they're very colorful fish that are virtually the only pets allowed in college dorms bc they don't need a pump tank to survive just a glass bowl. The males are very aggressive to the point that they warn you not to put them in front of a mirror, because they will think their reflection is another male, attack the reflection to the point that they slam their head into the wall of the tank repeatedly until they die. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/21 08:25 AM |
| 5 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI thought the "making up revenge fantasy gotchas with the enemy in your head while you shower" was just a meme | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/21 07:54 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWait you know what a betta is right | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/21 01:23 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadActually the more I think about it, you do constantly see straight women complain that all the hot guys are gay 🤔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/21 11:10 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathread. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/21 11:04 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadBetta male grindset | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/21 09:47 PM |
| 7 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDon't be a beta male, be a betta male. Colorful and flamboyant, will attack your own reflection, every freshman college girl wants to get one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/21 09:44 PM |
| 3 | Is autism sometimes used as a gaslighting technique against men?Men with good outcomes are usually never diagnosed as autistic. "Good outcome" meaning? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/21 09:43 PM |
| 4 | An Average Mega-ThreadIf I walk outside and look around at the majority of boys I see, they share things in common, they look similar. A few stand out as jarring bc they are unpleasant to look at. That is "normal" vs below normal. The normal dudes are indistinguishable from each other. Nothing stands out in particular. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/21 09:41 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOnly online. I haven't actually spoken out loud to a person in any capacity in over 2 weeks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/21 09:38 PM |
| 1 | An Average Mega-ThreadGod that's so sad. Looking at him then and then progressing to him now could make me cry. It feels like a crime | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/21 09:36 PM |
| 2 | Q4ALL- What have you tried in a sexual context that you would never do again?Obviously I didn't come up with it. I like feminine men but not like that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/21 06:26 PM |
| 0 | Q4W: Controversial Statistics Saturday: Do You Believe Marriage Benefits Men, and Would You Marry if You Were a Guy?Well sure. If I'm a guy, when I complain about my partner people will actually give me basic empathy rather than saying it's my fault for having them as a partner and that I deserved whatever I got. That sounds neat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/21 06:23 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThere's a whole thread on exactly this from 6 days ago marked as a q4w if you're interested | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/21 08:26 AM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat's not how it works. The men that are capable of picking up on subtle hints, act upon them and succeed. The men who do not pick up on them miss out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/21 08:16 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNo they absolutely will not. Subtle hints have been a stereotypically female thing since forever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/21 07:49 AM |
| 3 | Q4ALL- What have you tried in a sexual context that you would never do again?Wearing my clothes and pretending to be a woman. I was holding back a combination of laughter and cringing at the same time, the whole time. It was so hard to stay neutral I don't think most dudes here would have an issue with this though. Also, it ruined my clothes. Stretched them out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/21 07:42 AM |
| 4 | Women - at what point in life did you have the most sex?Isn't it proven that women have a massive sex drive spike in their 30s? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/21 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSoooo she specifically unfortunately ended up with a crazy one? And that's reflective of cougars in general how? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/21 09:55 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWell, you did name yourself after a serial killer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/21 08:11 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNot really I see people as the age they are. I know people younger than me who I remember as little kids but when I look at them now I see an adult. Bc they are. An adult. "Can't help but see them as a kid still" is a mentality for old women and weird men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/21 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSo he went to prison? And not the teacher? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/21 07:45 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadGrooming is when an adult actively manipulates a child. He attended her lectures but did not come back for her until several years later as an adult on his own volition. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/21 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMakes it that much better | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/21 06:13 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOh it's nasty alright 😏 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/21 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadEven better | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/21 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThey were both full grown adults by the point he came back to her. He would have been 29 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/21 06:07 PM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadReminder that the french president is married to a woman who is not only 25 years older than him, but was also his middle school teacher. He also once publicly called out the Brazilian president for implying an insult towards her. They're actually really cute. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/21 05:51 PM |
| 1 | What do sexually unsuccessful people want/expect from others when they air their grievances?Ok | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/21 03:03 PM |
| 1 | What do sexually unsuccessful people want/expect from others when they air their grievances?It doesn't need to? That's like saying "well this description says it's hot, it doesn't say it's not cold" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/21 02:25 PM |
| 1 | What do sexually unsuccessful people want/expect from others when they air their grievances?Yes... Experiencing their point of view/feelings without actually going through the same experiences. If it was about going through the same thing, childhood development of empathy wouldn't be a thing, and everyone would be a diagnosed psychopath. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/21 02:13 PM |
| 1 | What do sexually unsuccessful people want/expect from others when they air their grievances?Empathy is the ability to recognize, understand, and share the thoughts and feelings of another person, animal, or fictional character. Developing empathy is crucial for establishing relationships and behaving compassionately. It involves experiencing another person’s point of view, rather than just one’s own, and enables prosocial or helping behaviors that come from within, rather than being forced. Literally the definition is about being able to understand another's experiences without actuall… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/21 02:05 PM |
| 2 | What do sexually unsuccessful people want/expect from others when they air their grievances?can’t have empathy if the person reading it has not experienced the same experiences. That's not what empathy is. Most people have empathy even if they have never experienced the same thing the person they're empathizing with has. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/21 02:02 PM |
| 2 | What do sexually unsuccessful people want/expect from others when they air their grievances?Yes, that's totally how the internet works, not like we have spaces dedicated to venting problems and earning empathetic comments from others! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/21 01:41 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadBecause it's... Not proof... I mean maybe vaguely evidence but this is literally the equivalent of that feminist group that said western society is sexist bc the average office building is kept slightly colder than most women prefer bc it's the temperature men prefer. Like could you technically use it as evidence? Sure, but realize people are going to think it's silly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/21 01:39 PM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadScotland It's not as if it's unusual for their men to wear skirts Also using one single occurrence in one country that was rejected by the majority of it's people, to try and prove a supposed cultural phenomenon...? That a school giving students an entirely optional, voluntary choice is an "attack"...? I mean I'm not opposed though maybe they'll like it and one day when they're grown we'll get more TikTok femboys | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/21 08:57 AM |
| 2 | Do you have one type or multiple types ?A couple of types but essentially more like subtypes within a type. I like multiple personality/trope types but all the same physical type But I can find aesthetic types pleasing. Like nerd boy vs artsy boy vs alt boy vibes. As long as they're the same height/build/face | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/21 05:42 AM |
| 1 | What do sexually unsuccessful people want/expect from others when they air their grievances?Tbf I get stuff that is not consistent in any way or relevant to me bc of security measures I take. The op is likely also taking security/privacy measures that are fucking up her algorithm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/21 04:53 AM |
| 18 | What do sexually unsuccessful people want/expect from others when they air their grievances?More or less. Usually they also want to find others who share their experiences bc the feeling of solidarity is reassuring/comforting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/21 01:02 AM |
| 136 | What do sexually unsuccessful people want/expect from others when they air their grievances?Empathy. That's what people want when posting any experience or frustration online. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/21 12:26 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou're right, stranger on Reddit. How could I argue against that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou mean other than an accredited news outlet? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 08:10 PM |
| 12 | Will women really make a guy waits months for sex in order to “develop an emotional connection”?what’s the shortest amount of time you’ve known a guy before sleeping with him? 1 year, maybe give or take like two weeks. It might have been right at like 11 months and a week or so. The other was well over a year and a half. Yes many women need emotional connection. Some don't. It's almost as if human beings are individuals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 07:38 PM |
| 9 | If you can't find a good woman online, you're a below average male and it's a tough pill to swallowchief developer of an assassins creed game who was also a serious free climber That's... Comedically befitting But anyway every decent person I hear from, male or female, finds the majority of the online dating fish in the sea to be particularly bad, and then they, the decent people, tend to leave online dating for this reason, which would technically lessen the pool even more. I'm semi acquaintanted with a girl most dudes here would consider a "good woman" who has had tinder for months and neve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 07:28 PM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat she did to make it more likely: go to the bathroom, a normal high schooler activity have breast In the article he literally went in, shoved her into a stall to molest her. Are they in some way perhaps less guilty than a guy that stalks a stranger on the street and pulls her into his rape van? Maybe in some way. But does it matter? They are still guilty of gang rape. There it is! The "not all rapists are equal", also known as the "(not all victims are equally victims)". You can always see it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 06:44 PM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOn it's last leg, the opponent used its ultimate attack: reach! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 06:40 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDoesn't mean the guy is less guilty. Yes it does. When you put blame on the victim party, it removes blame from the offender. You cannot victim-blame without inherently making the perpetrator seem less at fault. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 06:25 PM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat Megathread"admitted to the police that he, in fact, did sexually assault her in a bathroom at the school" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 06:12 PM |
| 10 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadthe boy: confesses to doing exactly what the girl said he did the school, and some Redditor apparently: b-but-- | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 06:07 PM |
| 10 | Daily Community Chat Megathread15 year old, sexually assaulted at school, boy shoves her into bathroom stall and molests her school suspends the girl for reporting forces her to attend a "sexual harassment is preventable" class school claims she lied when the boy literally confessed to it and police tell the mother to press charges school refuses to answer questions, hangs up on reporters, ignores interviewer in video s s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 05:51 PM |
| 1 | How 'Golden Penis Syndrome' is ruining dating for university women: Deficit of male students means men develop inflated egos and become 'Casanovas' who 'cheat' - despite a 'lack of social and sexual skills'You don't really have the opportunities to meet people post-undergrad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 05:19 PM |
| 2 | Will porn make men sexually incompatible with women?And... This does not change that statistically, people of both sexes are fucking less and less. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 05:17 PM |
| 2 | Will porn make men sexually incompatible with women?....and this changes what I said how? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 03:58 PM |
| 3 | Will porn make men sexually incompatible with women?No, statistically people fuck less and less | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 03:23 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI have SOME self respect | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 01:13 PM |
| 1 | You May Not Have Been Born in the Current Dating ClimateMy mom and dad were both like the timeless ideal of man and woman so I think they would have been fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 05:38 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYes but as I said to someone else that will most likely be someone who lives no where near me and I am NOT going to enter an ldr bc I don't hate myself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 03:43 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI don't wanna meet a guy that lives halfway across the country if not the world, like him, but be crushed by knowing the distance would never work (again) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 03:41 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIronically did meet a guy once online that way but it never went anywhere | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 03:37 AM |
| 6 | Daily Community Chat Megathread"you can meet people just put yourself out there" ok but by definition my dream boy probably hasn't left his house or interacted with a real person in over a week. How am I supposed to meet him? Burglarmaxx? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 03:28 AM |
| 2 | Commitment and communication are more important in making a relationship work than sex and passion.Ok. So how do you explain long term monogamous marriages that have no sex? There are many of these out there, usually between two disabled people, occasionally asexuals. Are their marriages less strong or meaningful? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 03:25 AM |
| 5 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadGo to the healthy societies then. Which, by your standards, would be the third world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 03:22 AM |
| 3 | Commitment and communication are more important in making a relationship work than sex and passion.Yes, so you are admitting they they are not of equal importance and that some people are perfectly fine without one or the other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 01:21 AM |
| 8 | Will porn make men sexually incompatible with women?Yes that's literally brought up frequently here People fuck less and less, partially bc you have all the gratification of it available at your fingertips | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 01:12 AM |
| 1 | How 'Golden Penis Syndrome' is ruining dating for university women: Deficit of male students means men develop inflated egos and become 'Casanovas' who 'cheat' - despite a 'lack of social and sexual skills'20's You graduate college at 21 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 01:11 AM |
| 8 | Commitment and communication are more important in making a relationship work than sex and passion.Other forms of physical affection and quality time. Cuddling, embracing, just laying there pressed up against each other and absorbing each other's warmth and happiness. It's blissful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 12:51 AM |
| 2 | Commitment and communication are more important in making a relationship work than sex and passion.It depends on the alternatives being used. Some don't call for it in the first place so they're fine without it. The ones where you're being forced to use substitutes probably will be less good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 08:57 PM |
| 11 | Commitment and communication are more important in making a relationship work than sex and passion.Flour. You will be able to make a wider variety of cookies with just flour than with just eggs. You can actually make virtually any cookie without eggs. You can't make many at all without flour. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 08:38 PM |
| – | Q4W: have potential partners/partners asked for your body count?Yes there's your answer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 08:20 PM |
| – | Q4W: have potential partners/partners asked for your body count?Yes, all of them. No, I was never the first one to ask/start the discussion. It is likely the "type" of person you and they fit into | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 08:11 PM |
| 2 | What birth control method do you use?Pull out My doctor essentially told me I am absolutely never to go on any kind of hormonal bc and avoid it like the plague and condoms hurt like a bitch But for the last 4 years or so just celibacy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI'll take your word for it, I haven't been on the site in several years, so everything I'm saying was just how it was circa ~2018 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAre you past the paywall? You have to bypass it. Use a chrome extension. If you so desire I will screenshot and upload it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOh, ok. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 02:08 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNo, it's common knowledge. There might be one out there, but I don't care enough about this to put in any more effort, it's fine if you go on thinking otherwise | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 01:43 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDo you not have chrome extensions for paywalls? I mean I can screenshot it and upload it somewhere if that's what it takes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 01:40 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYes, I did, because if you do that it's massively staggered by age group and would not accurately represent the women we discuss here. Virtually all young women own sex toys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYes if you took the time to look at the chart, it says most women own a dildo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathread....it says dildo? 60% of women have dildos, 78% have vibrators. That's what it says. Right there. On the page. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat's not what statistics say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 12:54 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat's not what statistics say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 12:49 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat depends on the firmness you get. Some are very firm and unbendable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 12:40 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreaddid you ask him for the picture or did he just send it unsolicited? Unsolicited So do you fall in the category that prefers cervix contact? Yes very much. I should add that I don't put the whole 7.3" in. It stops at like 6"ish maybe. Like when it hits the top you physically cannot push in any further without pain. The issue with girth I think is it's harder to measure and most dudes don't know theirs, and most women don't have a frame of reference. I don't either, I'd have to look up specificati… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 06:06 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNah that shits inhuman. Their stuff will literally permanently damage a person. Also their stuff is largely made by and for gay men/anal stuff, for some they literally outright warn you not to put it in a vagina bc it can't handle it. Some go up to 14" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 06:01 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLike inches? I know bc one sent me a legit picture holding it up to a tape measure, he was like right at 5". The other right around the same, maybe give or take half an inch. I think it greatly depends on girth actually I wouldn't say there is any ideal length wise for most. Also depends on if cervical contact is painful or good for the particular woman. For some women contact with the cervix can feel so painful they pass out. For some it's orgasmically good. That probably is important. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 05:46 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThey haven't | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 05:36 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat Megathread7.3" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 05:33 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNgl it might actually be #3, based on some stuff I've seen regarding how they collect the penis size stats. But it works both ways. Ex in several countries with very large reported average size, it turns out they were self reported. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 05:26 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIs that not what they say? Most girls know what their dildo is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 05:25 AM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHow do "girl inches" exist? We have dildos. Girls should know the exact measurements of theirs and be able to use it as a frame of reference | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 05:06 AM |
| 5 | CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guiltI'll copy paste what I said to the other guy The whole conversation was revolved around her being a "slut", I was giving the example of what was personally the most jarring for me to hear. It was in the context of being the supposed result of her being a slut. You'd have to be on some Olympian level mental gymnastics to not see how it's literally the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 02:04 AM |
| 0 | FWB Relationships: The Gatekeeping of Sex by Women vs. The Gatekeeping of Relationships by MenThe normal path gives them no indication you're interested at all. TIL women never show affection or do things for their partner | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 12:06 AM |
| 14 | Sen. Josh Hawley says liberals' attacks on manhood are driving men to pornography and video gamesI, too, when feeling my gender insulted, feel an overwhelming urge to log onto my animal crossing island | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/21 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI have had more than one boyfriend I liked more than the teenage ones. That's not the point. That's what I said to the original comment, you're missing the point people are making. It's not that you like the teenage loves more, it's that there's just something special about teenage love that can't be imitated by adult love. There's an excitement and heatedness of emotions you can't mimic no matter how hard you try. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/21 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat's by choice. Yes you can try to imitate the risk of teenage relationships by having sex in semi public/public settings but it's not the same, it's still boring and doesn't provide the same thrill. You know you could just as easily go home and do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/21 06:42 PM |
| 9 | Do you think high n count women shouldn't be shamed and looked down on by men, and if so, why?"should people who aren't doing anything wrong be treated as if they are?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/21 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Can having sex with very attractive people "ruin" your ability to get aroused by others?Yes and that's not normal, I'm talking about in relevance to the majority | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/21 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Can having sex with very attractive people "ruin" your ability to get aroused by others?East | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/21 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Can having sex with very attractive people "ruin" your ability to get aroused by others?Obviously female | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/21 03:27 PM |
| 0 | Can having sex with very attractive people "ruin" your ability to get aroused by others?You're one of the people into something so much you notice differences others in would not. I'm talking about to normal people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/21 03:21 PM |
| 1 | Can having sex with very attractive people "ruin" your ability to get aroused by others?I get that a lot of older/gen x men do but I have a hard time comprehending it since young people as a collective whole don't really give a shit about cars in any capacity. If it's not falling apart or a stick shift no one under 25 cares | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/21 12:22 PM |
| 4 | Can having sex with very attractive people "ruin" your ability to get aroused by others?I understand the idea here but analogies to cars have always confused me. Do men genuinely care about cars? Like I've never comprehended this. Unless it's big and bulky, every car I've ever been in felt exactly the same to drive. Unless I was actively aware of someone telling me what kind of car I was in I would not know they were any different. I don't even know what kind of car I drive other than the brand. They're exactly the same? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/21 12:14 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/21 11:44 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThis is not the argument made ever | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/21 10:19 AM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou're not understanding what the people are saying about these. It's not "better" vs "worse." You can have someone you love much more than the high school sweetheart, but there is simply a certain energy and feel to a young love that adult relationships can never replace. Both parties are naive, extremely emotional, innocent, people look back on it with a sense of nostalgia for a simpler, easier time in life. But they are highly emotionally charged, they think everything is the end of the world… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/21 09:28 AM |
| 1 | Does seeing a guy receiving interest from other women change your perception of him?They're hot | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Does seeing a guy receiving interest from other women change your perception of him?That is actually a very good example, yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 09:44 PM |
| 8 | Men are the problemFellas is it gay to learn | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 08:44 PM |
| 2 | Competitive reputation manipulation: Women strategically transmit social information about romantic rivalsCan someone tell me if the tldr of this is "complicated female social matrix stuff you have to be socially apt to understand" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 08:07 PM |
| 9 | Competitive reputation manipulation: Women strategically transmit social information about romantic rivals... the study in the post is what she's referring to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 08:05 PM |
| 0 | Does seeing a guy receiving interest from other women change your perception of him?No I meant would | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 07:59 PM |
| 5 | Men are the problemTIL sitting in a lecture hall and reading a textbook and taking tests are feminine activities | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 07:45 PM |
| 0 | Does seeing a guy receiving interest from other women change your perception of him?The second one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 07:37 PM |
| 2 | Does seeing a guy receiving interest from other women change your perception of him?No I've reached a point where I don't care if people here think I'm lying or I'm weird so might as well be shamelessly open | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 06:55 PM |
| 4 | Only women can stop themselves from becoming “forever girlfriends.” Men do NOT have to be upfront about their long term plans with women and it serves them better NOT to beEdgy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 05:37 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAlways | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 05:30 PM |
| 12 | Only women can stop themselves from becoming “forever girlfriends.” Men do NOT have to be upfront about their long term plans with women and it serves them better NOT to beNo one has to do anything that doesn't change that generally people who do not abide by/defy social conventions of morality and normalcy will be frowned upon by society at large You will say this then be the same type of guy to complain when women do similar things like leading men on etc. I'm sure you'll say rn that you're fine with it but I know you will at a later date Side note I'm glad to see your language has improved | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 05:23 PM |
| 2 | Does seeing a guy receiving interest from other women change your perception of him?He has no creepy vibe, bad social skills that you can tell, etc. You just don't feel any overwhelming urge to go interact with him. Can't imagine. Too unrealistic, I can't insert myself into this narrative I would be interested in the first place if he had creepy vibes or bad social skills but what you describe would make me lose interest bc he can't fill the very specific dream boy/fantasy in my head | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 05:15 PM |
| 5 | Pros and Cons of a Traditional girl vs a Modern girlMan that's not even the exact same meme I was thinking of which means a good deal of people are aware enough that there are multiple versions of it lmao Yeah divorce I can get. Cheating though? Yeah, it's more taboo, that's why they do a better job of hiding it from their husbands. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 02:09 PM |
| 8 | Pros and Cons of a Traditional girl vs a Modern girlno past relationships Where's that meme showing the wojaks of different girls with body counts and it's like the goth girl -2, the egirl -3, the tradcon girl -35 Unlikely to cheat/divorce Combined with ^ that tho in all seriousness though I would kill a man to be as innocent and naive as op | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 01:32 PM |
| 5 | Would it be even worth getting into the dating scene at 26?It's not in his head he's right Yes they are short lived but they have a passion and strength of emotion to them that is impossible to replicate later in life due to the changes in the brain from that age. There's a bliss to it adult relationships can't mimic. A lot of times the reason these relationships die in the first place is they lose that teenage adolescence passion/magic that they once had. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 06:09 AM |
| 2 | Benefits of Feminism Mega-ThreadNothing about that last paragraph has to do with what I said. It's a rabbit trail. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 04:42 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadEh. 25+ I think at that point you can do what you want but realize you're encouraging others. I hate old men, but the ones I hate even more than them are young girls who date them bc they perpetuate old men as a whole's confidence in the idea that they can and should pursue the same thing. Basically old men see other old men dating young girls, think they can do the same, and then approach young girls, which is morally grey because you have to question the effect it has on young girls. I was app… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 01:07 AM |
| 2 | In the modern age what do you considering winning/success in the dating game for men?Reading comprehension | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 12:45 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI think all double standards exist for a reason. Most double standards are about which group historically holds the power. I can't blame men for wanting to uphold the standards that preserve their power at our expense and suffering, who wouldn't, given human nature? But likewise, you can't blame the one being stepped on for wanting to change the power structures that keep them down, even if they make society run better overall. Basically all double standards have a reason but I don't have to lik… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 12:31 AM |
| 1 | In the modern age what do you considering winning/success in the dating game for men?I'm not making a data claim. The only way you could support or fight against this notion, either way, is via anecdote. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 12:18 AM |
| 3 | In the modern age what do you considering winning/success in the dating game for men?By his friends, usually. I said so to another commenter but like my BILs married at 20/21 respectively and got made fun of a lot Also swingers are degenerates | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 12:17 AM |
| 1 | In the modern age what do you considering winning/success in the dating game for men?Internet, his male friends Both of my BILs got roasted by their friends bc they married at 20/21 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 12:16 AM |
| -1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat which is hot is always morally correct. Older women fucking young boys is hot, therefore it's morally correct. In all seriousness men and women are different and double standards exist for a reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 12:13 AM |
| 1 | In the modern age what do you considering winning/success in the dating game for men?Yes, and they are ridiculed as foolish for doing so. I know tons of people who did that, or even right out of high school. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 12:11 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadReality is often disappointing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 12:00 AM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat's what sugar babies are without the 3 month wait Sugaring is an old ugly dude paying to fuck her while she's letting other men fuck her for free | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/21 11:59 PM |
| 6 | In the modern age what do you considering winning/success in the dating game for men?Whenever you see a dude post online about how he got married young, people usually roast him, male and female | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/21 11:58 PM |
| -1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt's not a matter of what I think it is what is objectively correct but yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/21 11:57 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadFds/"man bad" humor is usually just pathetic and cringey but this actually made me do a nose-exhale ngl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/21 11:40 PM |
| 5 | In the modern age what do you considering winning/success in the dating game for men?secure a wife at a young age (18-22) This would be considered a loser now though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/21 11:28 PM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIs the late teens/early 20s person a boy or a girl? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/21 11:24 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSo in other words the young women you like weren't paying you any attention I would look at you though. I like to make sure to keep a 100 ft+ distance from old men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/21 09:47 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNothing, I'm gonna have to keep my lights turned off all evening so kids don't show up to my doorstep. Sigh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/21 09:44 PM |
| 3 | Benefits of Feminism Mega-ThreadThe saying "equal rights, equal lefts" means that it should be, in all circumstances, allowable to use force against women in the same circumstances as it is against men - defending oneself, one's family, property, or restraining a rampaging insane person. You absolutely know as well as I do that is not what it means, and pretending otherwise is intentionally facetious and bad faith. how a reasonable thing in this case is to include "details" into the law and exclude sex. My point was literally … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/21 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Benefits of Feminism Mega-ThreadBy "violence" you mean how women might squeal and slap, maybe, but hard to believe and the only source I know of saying so is highly flawed. Men commit the vast majority of violent crime and significant violence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/21 09:23 PM |
| 0 | There is a conspiracy to invalidate the female mate-value hierarchy.I will not here be entertaining the absurd claim that ''everyone is attracted to different things''. The men that obsess over, aggressively pursue, and watch nothing but porn of obese women, midgets etc: baby I'm not even here, I'm a hallucination | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/21 07:42 PM |
| 3 | What do you think constitutes a “creep” or “pervert” or “fuckboy” and how do you deal with them?I would not put those on the same scale. Fuckboy is bad, the other two aren't. Fuckboy - overly confident and loud, entitled, annoying, playboy vibes, apathetic to you Creep - quiet, awkward, pushy but in a subtle way, most likely watches you. Gives you the goosebump feeling, or like eyes are on you Pervert - creep but with more sexual energy. Usually the two overlap | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/21 07:31 PM |
| 3 | Benefits of Feminism Mega-ThreadNot that that matters, seeing as most of them identify as ~transbians~ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/21 08:53 AM |
| 5 | Benefits of Feminism Mega-ThreadI feel like I've been over this with you specifically but maybe I'm getting persons confused... anyway the reason women generally receive lesser punishments for violent crime is that even when the title is the same (such as "murder" or "robbery" or "home invasion"), the actual details are much worse with male perpetrators. For example, women's go to murder methods are a single gunshot to the head and poison. This will receive a lighter sentencing than, say, slowly stabbing someone to death, or r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/21 08:45 AM |
| 4 | Benefits of Feminism Mega-ThreadBut it is. Literally the moment you mention things like women's rights in the sense of things like equality of life, being treated as having worth, girls education etc etc there will be a multitude of men screeching this line or some other variant of "w-well if you want me to treat your life as having equal value I have to be able to hurt you!" It's borderline psychopathic and just really weird. Again, how do you reach that point mentally? That is not normal for any human. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/21 08:15 AM |
| 3 | Do you think FDS has a fair assessment about bald men?You severely underestimate the human capacity to get off on the weirdest shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/21 08:12 AM |
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