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Because men are the protectors and usually the primary bread winners. Should women bring nothing to the relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 02:06 PM
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Masculine doesn't mean what you apparently think it means.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 08:26 AM
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Yes, historically and intentionally, western women should know how to cook more than men. The problem is, far less know how to now. Men crying should be taboo. But I've cried in front of my wife. Usually when drunk and having some PTSD memory or something. Although, it's far and few and it's been a while. Men should avoid crying in front of women at all costs. It's part of the contract. Women are simply never happy with men either. However, in the East, you see men complaining exponentially less…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 08:22 AM
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Yes, other highly feminized countries. In more masculine cultures, women still act like women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 08:13 AM
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Knowing how to cook for starters. I know how to cook... it's pretty pathetic if my wife didn't. They have more real empathy. Ot this half-baked virtue signaling. Don't think of themselves superior to their partners. Less nagging, less complaining. They Prefer family dynamics. This list could go on forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 02:01 AM
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Modern western women don't bring much. Maybe the ability to carry a baby if they don't decide to abort for convenience. Women in other countries? They provide everything western women used to.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 11:39 PM
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I'm not study obsessed. But this shit has been studied for a long time. The no sex before marriage crowd have less divorces and healthier and longer relationships. It's not me. But I will say, before my marriage, any girl that slept with me on the first night was disqualified from relationship status.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 02:21 AM
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Reddit anecdotes vs studies. I thought y'all believed the science.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:51 AM
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Data shows otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:50 AM
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Not an average man, couldn't give you the answer. But what I will say is this is why the RP men prefer women with less n count. If her experience is only with that guy, she's gonna treat him like that top guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 09:07 AM
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I mean, why not give him some alternative content? Where is he magically going to develop this self respect and standards?
/r/ExRedPill05/06/26 03:23 AM
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I'm exredpill (more purple). And actually was RedPill, unlike most members of this sub who have always been Blue Pilled. For me, the only way out was through. Only by sleeping with a lot of women and building confidence did I find my way out. There was no person that could have changed my mind that my anecdotes, which aligned with what RP taught (they teach almost exclusively shit now), were wrong. That being said, it seems like you're surface level atm. So, what I would recommend is some books.…
/r/ExRedPill05/06/26 03:21 AM
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His point on 4 was a little off anyway. The RP view is that the women will fight over the best hunter, while the hunter will just fuck everything. This is a lizard brain response to propagate our species.
/r/ExRedPill22/05/26 09:28 AM
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Definitely red pilled.
/r/ExRedPill22/05/26 09:22 AM
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You realize smaller sample size = greater variance, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 12:24 PM
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"Now I’m not denying women have more options. I think that’s a good thing as it encourages men to improve different things about themselves if they want to find a woman to be with" This is the part that struck me. If that encourages men to be better, what encourages women to do better than the bare minimum? Let's assume what you think is true, this would mean we have a bunch of women with nothing to offer and only men have worth because they have to work at it. You're actually proving any MRA ri…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 12:22 PM
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Honestly, you have 2 steps. Get off Reddit. Redditors are some of the worst people. Try to make friends irl, not through the internet. Use a hobby that you're into and just do it. If you're a DnD nerd, go to the local game store. If you like sports or bike riding, or art or whatever, go to a crafts or bicycle club or park courts. The first thing that sang out to me was finding friends on reddit. I never would try, nor think to do that. It sounds like a mistake waiting to happen. The reason these…
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/26 03:10 PM
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I mean, you're both college-aged, I wouldn't consider that the "older guy for young girl" trope. Honestly, sounds more like insecurity than redpill to me. Or he's brand new to redpill. As most guys that find redpill find it because of insecurity. I don't think he's redpilled, but may have heard redpilled things or seen a video or 2. Something that can easily been gotten over if you continue to see him. The main thing that insecure guys need (besides confidence) is security. And with security, co…
/r/ExRedPill02/05/26 01:58 AM
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I did 0 mental gymnastics while you're doing a shit to try and ignore that everything you just said relates to social status.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 09:21 PM
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Most of what you said is correct. But all of it really does just boil down to confidence. The "nice guys" typically are overthinkers. It has nothing to do with entitlement, just that they overanalyze and worry about results. And it's not that dicks aren't dicks. It's that the "playful" banter is accepted by guys they may be interested in. If it were your inconfident cousin doing it, they would have thought he was the dick. So, no, your banter doesn't automatically make you not a dick because the…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 08:36 AM
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Dude, I said it was a lame start. It was early days. And from one retard to another, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 08:26 AM
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Yeah, so never dated one
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 03:30 AM
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See, I think the problem is our definition of status is different. You think status is just financial, or professional. There is also social status.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 03:30 AM
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I don't know man... social status was a huge factor in my success with women after I joined TRP. I was the guy girls and guys would come up to, by me a beer and ask me to sit with them. I had girls I slept with tell other girls about me, and then they wanted to sleep with me. Status, in many aspects, is an attractive quality. To support this, the phenomena of younger women dating older men is almost always about status. There is a cycle of women dating up in their 20s, leaving few 20 yo men gett…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 06:41 PM
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There are genuinely nice guys out there. They may be awkward, but they're nice. Women usually don't give them the time of day. I'm a bartender... it's easy to observe what behavior is rewarded and what isn't. I get it, you'd rather be coerced by the guy that's naturally a dickhead. I get it, it's part of your nature. Nice guys tend not to be as exciting. All these women pretending they dated a bunch of nice guys so they "KNOW" they're all faking is just crazy. If you were actually dating nice gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 06:32 PM
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That's what women say, but how would they know since they never date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 06:24 PM
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Any guy that gained success through redpill was likely a "nice guy" that got fed up. And the only thing that got them any response was being a dick. So they learned that behavior. Perhaps if women instead rewarded good behavior instead of bad, they wouldn't be having this issue. Instead of TRP, you'd have TBP teaching assholes how to be good in order to be successful in the dating world.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 09:34 AM
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It's because you're boring. You don't make their stomach flutter and go on an emotional ride. I remember the first time I got over anxiety and decided to take some red pill game technique. I called this chick that was being a bitch to people an "ice queen". It was a lame start, but it did get her in bed with me by the end of the night. Just start being a dick. Don't give a fuck. Has the the redpill just devolved to dudes bitching and not actually trying to get laid? If you don't like your situat…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 09:30 AM
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That's why TRP says "fake it til you make it."
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 09:23 AM
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While I agree with some of this, women aren't going to say anything about status. That would be weird. It doesn't mean they're not attracted to status. Status can be one of those things that affect "how he makes her feel."
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 09:22 AM
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Highly disagree. TRP originally was just a bunch of LVM learning how to get laid. The only thing that matters is confidence. Read "The Game" or watch their video. Those guys had fat dudes with them. The main "player" was a goofy looking dude. But they delivered game with confidence and it's the confidence that got them laid. So a "funny" guy (something I wouldn't want to be labeled, as it's akin to "nice" guy), is just a guy that confidently makes jokes a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 09:19 AM
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My wife and I have no shared hobbies. In fact, I was at the height of my TRP and playboy days and was just gonna make her a plate or one night thing. But the fact she wasn't down for ONS kept me pursuing her. Got to know her, and her empathy (hyper empathy) for other people made me fall for her. I think she's beautiful, but conventionally, people would say she's a 6 or 7. The guy just gave you the base layout of what he wants. The layers get added on as you get to know each other. You don't know…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 05:24 PM
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Now I know why you're single. Men are simple creatures. We say what we mean and mean what we say. At least the men of my generation. You've made them so weak now, they probably do act like women. Like, you're doing the meme. Men say exactly what they want, and then you go on some bullshit feminist tirade interjecting words and thoughts they never said. Hell, I wouldn't want an Instagram model... they'd just be like you mentally, but hot. I prefer women who are not self-centered, are family focus…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 05:11 PM
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I dunno. I read through that whole thing and only like 2 men were down with that scenario. The rest (the top comments) didn't like the premise. While TRP ain't great, I definitely don't think it's the majority opinion. As ex RP, attaining attractiveness and being womens' desire is what's important. Boring duty sex is boring for both parties.
/r/ExRedPill02/04/26 08:41 PM
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Yet, she's no longer working. You just consolidated duties. He works at some shithole, you work at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 08:33 PM
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Honestly, for your first line, I think the guys that find duty sex acceptable would find that deal acceptable. If anything, it'd get them motivated to find another job.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 08:30 PM
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Hold up. I mean, I'm with y'all but... her work load would go down. When she's single, she's working, doing chores, cooking, etc. All the same shit he'd be doing. When they get married and she doesn't have to work anymore, she'd have 40 hrs (minimum) less work and still do chores. Which, let's be honest, is easier than going to a grueling job all day. Them being together essentially lowers both their work loads.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 08:28 PM
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Let's be fair about mediocrity. Men in this made up world would also get paired with mediocre women. It's not a win-win. Sex with someone not attracted to you sucks for both involved. My ex wife and I can agree on that. She never said no, but unless I pursued, we weren't doing it. And I didn't figure out that it was an attraction issue due to me being a chump until I found the red pill. That's when I started turning my life around and working on myself. At that point, I divorced. And finding sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 08:06 PM
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If she finds it boring and unfulfilling, so would I. At that point it sounds like India or some shit. Just sex for procreation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 08:00 PM
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Nobody is. Except the weirdos that think they're protecting justice by rioting against ICE.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 07:56 PM
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He may be becoming redpilled, but not from Redpill if that makes sense. In other words, he's just become more conservative. That doesn't necessarily correlate to TheRedPill.
/r/ExRedPill04/05/25 03:38 PM
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I agree with your premise, as I'd assume most do, about it being easier for women to get men. Autistic women still mask better. But that's likely because the way autism affects them differ from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 11:07 PM
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No redpiller will even argue against this. They all (including myself) joined TRP because they were lacking something. But that is also the crux of TRP. Once you've figured it out, you no longer need TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 11:27 AM
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Inflation won't get worse, but some prices will rise while your taxes go down. As well as jobs coming back to America. And if it comes out to its full conclusion (I doubt it will), no income tax.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 12:10 PM
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Neither are women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 12:05 PM
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I know this is a cmv, but as a former red piller who loves easy women, please do this. It's one of the main points of conservatism in the states at the moment. We're not the ones that started hookup culture, y'all were. So, yes, let's go back to being less promiscuous. It'll definitely help not kill the unborn if nobody is getting pregnant. So deal. Join the 4B movement, please.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 11:15 AM
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Sounds like typical reddittors.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 12:52 AM
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What you're saying is "when people react to you being confident, it makes you confident." It's a catch 22, but it's still possible. I used to severely lack in confidence. Then I faked it til I made it and even now, older and fatter, regardless of people's opinions, I remain confident and thus I continue to get that reassurance. I think even if I didn't, I'd still be confident. But I do get what you're saying. For example, if you suck at your job, you can be as confident as you want, you're proba…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 08:47 AM
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Then go outside more.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 08:43 AM
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Disagree. My advice is always to play the field until someone makes you not want to play it anymore. It's a win-win. Don't marry quickly and live together first. And be a better judge of character. 2 things will happen. You'll stay a fuckboy, no harm in that. Or You'll meet someone who checks all the boxes and is well vetted. If she sleeps with you on the first night, she's not the one. Hold yourself to a higher value, and you'll find women that do too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 09:48 AM
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I think you're overestimating how many women are "into fashion." Many are fashionable, but almost none make their own clothes or even adjust their clothing. Guys, on the other hand, couldn't give two shits about fashion. We don't care what you wear unless it's skimpy. Then it draws attention. I think it's odd that your "fashion" of wearing revealing outfits is the exact and only thing that draws most guys' attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 06:55 AM
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I got married in 2006 and divorced in 2016. Hookup culture was in full swing. It went from civil dates in early 2ks where you'd meet via a friend, get to know each other, 3 date rule... to now where if you don't hookup day 1, you're ghosted. It took some time to adjust. I suggest you just play the game and fuck around until you find one that isn't about that life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 05:43 AM
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Not necessarily wherever you go. Passport bros have more options than women. Especially in places like Thailand.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 02:51 AM
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Then work never stops for anyone. So, nothing to compare. I'd much rather do a few chores every day that realistically take less than a few hours, have a 4 hr+ break til the kids get home, in my pjs, with my fav tv show on, then have free time after they're asleep too. It's no different than what my wife and I do now, except we also work. By only doing house stuff, you cut out the work.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 12:36 AM
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When you're single and at home, are you working?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:46 PM
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I call all women who choose the bear dumb every time I see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 08:07 AM
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Yeah, I don't think it's their looks. But confidence and idgaf attitudes are masculine traits that are attractive to women. Which are also traits more likely prone to violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 08:06 AM
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Sure, and who isn't reporting?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 04:38 PM
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This whole bear/man thing. The reality is that less than 1% of men are violent offenders, and it's almost always repeat offenders. That's the only stat you need. We abhor violent men, but I'm not apologizing for 1%. Just like when you take our kids from us, you don't apologize.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 04:14 AM
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??
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 08:20 AM
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Out of her ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 06:30 PM
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If you honestly believe that, you haven't gone outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 06:22 PM
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You never say that to your own daughter. While hard truth is necessary, your relationship is more important, and probably other women and grandparents, aunts, etc will shame her for it. Hopefully, you did your job right as a father, and she's not single at 32. That being said, I disagree with the 30 yo wall. I definitely think it's a bit higher as far as looks go. As for child rearing is when it can be more risky, but 2 of my 4 daughters were born when their mothers were over 35.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 06:21 PM
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I don't know who the quote is from, but "everything is about sex. Except sex. Sex is about power."
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 10:55 PM
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He said nothing like that, though. I agree it's a cringey humble brag, but you obviously didn't understand what he was trying to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 10:54 PM
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I will say not fucking within the first 3 dates is a bit unusual. The 3rd date rule used to be followed pretty regularly and is now only surpassed by First date sex imo. It's still a pretty common rule. I know, from when I was single, if I didn't try to fuck on the first date, most women would ghost.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 05:26 AM
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Here's the thing. The girls you're hooking up with due to hook up culture and the ones going on dadt girls' excursions are the ones you see and begin to think that it's indicative of most women. It isn't. The average is the average because it is. Out of 170 million people, 20 million will seem like a lot, especially if you're in a party area (or, for some reason, a really, really small town with nothing better to do). I'd say the average might have risen to about 10-15 in their lifetime. Which i…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 05:18 AM
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Andrew Tate, is that you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 01:48 AM
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Fair point. Far too many simps out there inflating womens' egos.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 11:00 AM
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I'm happy for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 10:52 AM
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But they do. I have some fine customers who can't maintain eye contact and they're seemingly good people. However, it's always in the back of my mind, and I couldn't be close friends with someone like that. It'd be so frustrating them not to look me in the eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 01:14 PM
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100%. NMMNG and the Game as well as When I Say No I Feel Guilty not only upped my game, it also changed my life in general.
/r/seduction18/04/24 04:14 PM
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Never track, but wrestling and baseball (played catcher for 2 years) already had them going. The Marines just pushed it over the edge. The guy is just trying to humble brag really.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 07:47 AM
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Yeah, I'm not saying get married. Just painting out that they do like military men. Uniformed blue collar workers tend to get that treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 07:45 AM
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It's not about the source. It's about how the source is categorized. Why is behavioral science linked with law. And then you use that to say law is 73% like a gotcha. Here ya go. https://www.forbes.com/advisor/legal/women-in-law-statistics/
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 07:44 AM
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Almost every Marine I know has knee issues. I'm guessing it's the excessive running and rucking and sometimes both. But that's what I'm saying. It doesn't matter how much you take care of your diet and training, most people will still get fucked by something in a labor job.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 02:31 AM
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While cheating is rampant, that's not why they date military guys. It's typically the higher confidence, ensured paychecks, and the uniform.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 02:29 AM
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I was 18, in great shape, still all that running and rucking fucked em up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 02:28 AM
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This video sums it all up for you pretty well. https://youtu.be/s5l0yX5yaRw?si=jIeYXh-pMMVw2gJj
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 02:14 AM
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I think the polls out there showing that women are generally unhappy is the more logical conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 02:14 AM
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"Social and Behavioral sciences" and law. You chose probably the worst source for your info. We know they get in social and behavioral sciences. Linking law with that is just absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 02:10 AM
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Don't forget they have to pay back a terrible loan, while HS graduates don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 02:05 AM
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Except the military. Women love them. But I don't know how you don't have knee problems. 6 years in the Marines, and my knees are toast.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 02:01 AM
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I dunno man. 6 years in the Marines fucked my knees pretty bad. I was fit as a fiddle.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 01:57 AM
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That graphic isn't taking into account similar fields. Nor is it adjusting for kids and families. The truth is, until around 40, single women with no kids make more than men. Granted, it's a very specific limitation, but the reality is that the reason for the wage gap is because taking time off for kids and associated factors. Even then, the wage gap adjusted for similar jobs, hours, overtime, travel, family, etc. is only about 2% in mens' favor. And while we don't know why, I believe it's due t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 01:55 AM
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It's 100% this. Too many guys keep pushing after she says no
/r/seduction07/04/24 03:19 AM
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It's more than kiss. When I was single, if I didn't try to fuck her, I was ghosted.
/r/seduction07/04/24 03:17 AM
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So there ya are. Your grandfather left something . He carried his legacy forward. Really though, what does living for yourself do? What's the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 07:17 AM
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Sure, then what's the point of living?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 04:04 AM
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I know most of my great grandparents' names, yes. I have pictures and names of both sides of my family going back to the early 1900s. What I will say is if people don't remember you, then what's the point? Is there no legacy you desire?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 03:57 AM
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Sorry, as an adult, I stopped believing in Fairy Tales.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 03:49 AM
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The necessity to have kids is to continue our race and spread your good genes. What's the point in plate spinning and shit when you grow old and look back on your life? Oh great, you worked out and had sex. Now you're old, sex is less frequent (and less desired), and you probably left the world with less than you brought in. You perpetuated fucking with other people's psyche and then did nothing with your life. Unless you cure cancer or something equally significant, nobody will remember you or …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 08:06 AM
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Except if she's insert any country.
/r/seduction24/03/24 12:35 PM
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"Girls like you" is another by Maroon 5.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/24 12:04 AM
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Dude, you're 16. Why are you even involved in this topic. People need to gain some life experience before even thinking about RP/BP or whatever. This applies to men, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 01:55 AM
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Everytime men try to work on it, y'all bitch and complain. I mean, Hell, TRP is quarantined, and AskTRP is banned. Not that those are the best resources, but they did have some good ideas in there if you can discern the good from bad. Shit, men in the military don't often have issues getting laid. Why not suggest enlistment. It'd also help with more men getting educated with free school as well as teaching them how to be men. Y'all suggest men act like women. That's not what most women actually …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 09:35 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 02:27 AM
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Considering we built the society and set our own standards, yes, we should be looking at ourselves. We should hold ourselves to a higher standard. Blaming others is weak and immature.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 02:24 AM
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Yeah, no more arranged marriages or clubbing them over the head definitely changed things.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 02:22 AM
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At this point, yeah. I know it's a copout, but I'm not invested enough to look for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 11:11 PM
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I've been out of that sphere way too long. I don't even know why I respond in PPD, honestly. I don't think I'd be able to find them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 02:57 AM
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There have been a lot of studies and polls out there that show women are just as horny as men. Not just that, he uses a lot of anecdotes that apply to America. But fails to realize that other countries exist. Like sexless men in Japan. Honestly, I didn't read it all past the headline the first time because it's just blatantly wrong, and his take is just sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 06:11 PM
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That's been proven false. This mindset is why guys can't get laid. We just have lower standards for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 01:40 AM
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When I was growing up, we had shit like the 3 date rule (3rd date means sex). I was surprised when I first got back into the game after 10 years. If you didn't fuck on the first date, you got ghosted. Maybe I just know more now than I did, and that's why it's easier. But I suspect it's a culture shift where hoeing out is the new normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 04:11 PM
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You don't get an escort off the street. Those are called street hookers. Escorts you typically find online like massagerepubluc or advertising elsewhere like craigslist or tinder. All I see are pretty escorts when I look for one.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 04:06 AM
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By hanging out with successful men, you can learn the traits to then become successful. I had many Green Beret and Marine Recon buddies that I hung out with and learned a lot from.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 11:14 AM
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You can always control your personality traits. You just have to learn how.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 11:09 AM
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They were talking about getting asked about sexual experience. Flirting is different. You can flirt with anyone. The problem with a lot of these subs, the guys asking for advice are Awkward HS and college boys that got rejected 3 times and think the world is ending. My only advice to them is to grow some balls and get some life experience before crying about it. I'm only suggesting hookers and ugs for those struggling in their mid 20s and up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 12:34 AM
0

I lost count somewhere near 100. I was married most of my 20s to a deadbedroom wife (my 12th partner). I got it all out in my early 30s. As with anything, you gotta start somewhere. Sounds like he has 0 experience and is probably involuntarily celibate. That means escorts or uglies. I recommend escorts because the escorts won't get attached because they're professionals at what they do. They will also help him get comfortable sleeping with pretty women. If you're gonna learn and can't do it natu…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 10:43 PM
1

There are hookers and ugly women needing to get laid everywhere. Start off at the bottom and work your way up. The more ugly girls that you build confidence with, you'll start building on mid girls, then eventually you'll have the balls to fuck with hot girls. And nobody is asking the quality of the girls you fucked. I don't care what they say. Even the hottest dude has smashed a few duds in his life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 08:13 PM
1

Then don't be an inexperienced man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 08:08 PM
9

I'm an open book. And my first year after divorce, I had a new girl every week. In the subsequent years, I'd just have a few fuck buddies on a rotation at a time with a new chick every now and then. I'd ask girls what they wanted when I'd meet them and then tell them I'm just looking for something fun and if it wasn't that night, I'd be getting a call in a week or 2 from her. Too many guys make it seem like it's some sort of rocket science to get laid. The formula is easy. Its "don't be ugly + d…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 08:05 PM
0

You know that "nice guys finish last" trope? Those guys are the dishonest ones. They're being nice in the hopes for some scraps once in a while. Honesty will get you laid more consistently than any manipulation. Lying is weak shit for weak men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:54 PM
1

There's always an equally ugly man for every equally ugly girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 10:20 PM
7

I gotta say that she at least gets some credit for realistic outlooks on the type of man she'll get.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/10/23 01:00 AM
15

She wants no liberals, but then wants a guy that will suck up to her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/10/23 01:41 AM
2

Because redditors and STEM people are nerds. These guys are natural and work with their hands. Like real men. That's the idea and stereotypes anyway. I'm sorry, but you're not gonna pick up a ton of chicks playing Dungeons and Dragons. And, as has been discussed 100000000 times, confidence > actual looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 01:07 AM
0

How is this an L?
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/23 03:32 AM
1

Cooking yourself is cheaper. Working out will help you get to sleep. If you're working 40 hrs a week, you have another 40 hrs of play and 40 hrs of sleep. What are you doing with your 40 hrs that you can't take 6 of them a week to workout, and another 1-2 hrs of basic hygiene, and about 4 hrs to cook. That's still 28 hrs for literally anything else.
/r/seduction07/05/23 03:26 PM
1

A captain isn't the only one in control of the ship. And a good captain will listen.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 11:14 PM
1

That's my point. I'm not saying you have to use that dynamic. It's just the dynamic that was spread most often when I was a TRPer. And the dynamic isn't about "reporting to the captain." It's about giving your input, but ultimately having your man take control. I don't believe most women aren't interested in that. But I'm not aware of any studies either way on that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 03:51 AM
0

Do whatever you want. I was explaining the old Red Pill philosophy, which wasn't to treat them like a slave, but rather a first mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 10:20 PM
3

I mean, that's how preferences work. You like some things, you don't like others. Pretty straightforward, yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 02:07 PM
-1

TRP, at least when I was a part of it, never said to treat her like a slave. It was always, "You're the Captain. She's the First Mate." When did that change? That's why if you select a partner, find one that aligns with that view. Someone who prefers a man that takes charge.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 02:04 PM
3

I don't know. It just looks stupid, or they're trying too hard or something. That being said, a little side braid or something doesn't look all that bad, but just full-on dreads, bleh. And white dudes with dreads look dumb too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 01:21 PM
1

100%
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 01:19 PM
1

I think you mixed up the last one in your 5-6 list with the last one in your 10 list.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 01:18 PM
1

10s don't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 01:16 PM
4

White women with dreads are even worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 01:12 PM
6

Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 01:10 PM
2

None of those are above a 3, and I'm pretty sure B is trans. I'm no 10 myself, but I am above average. And apparently, my photo is on here somewhere already if you want to look. But why would I submit my picture if you're not even putting minimal effort into your post.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 01:09 PM
1

Tbf, I'm just making a general statement. I didn't read past the first paragraph.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 12:24 PM
0

Fuck that. Sex toys are great. And to the guys against them, they aren't there to replace you, but to make the experience even better. It's why you buy the "for her pleasure" condoms. Same concept. If I can make her cum more and harder by bringing a toy into it, why the fuck not. If this is you, stop being prudes and fuck your girl right.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 12:13 PM
0

Definitely living abroad helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 09:39 AM
17

If my fiancee and my relationship is any indication, this is very much true. When I look back at one of the huge reasons my exwife had a dead bedroom with me is because I seemed desperate to date her. And she definitely did settle. But I did not exude any confidence that I could leave at any time. Even in my current relationship, my girl will sometimes make comments that let me know she still knows I can get sex whenever I want. And we have nothing even close to a dead bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 05:07 AM
1

From the college girl that said be yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 08:25 PM
2

Sorry to necro this, but honestly, it was the red pill. Back when it was decent and not a bunch of negging teens. I read "No More Mr Nice Guy", "The Game", and "When I say No, I Feel Guilty". Those books really helped me with self-realization. I also faked it until I made it. I worked out, looked good, felt good and was able to get laid on almost every date I went on. Which just reinforced that I was doing it right. Eventually, it got to the point where I'm no longer this wishy-washy goofball. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 05:39 AM
1

Right
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 02:16 AM
2

The median for women last I checked was only slightly higher, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 05:09 PM
1

It's nice to see that people realize this. I'm in my 30s and was more successful as a single 30-year-old than I ever was in my 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 05:04 PM
-1

It's stupid easy. It's been called "hook up" culture for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 05:01 PM
2

That's just completely and baselessly false. Only true if they don't try or have a bad personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 04:59 PM
0

Because young people are more reclusive and introverted than ever. Live with their parents more than ever. Rely on the government (or parents) more than ever. I work at a bar. I see ugly people hooking up with ugly people on a daily basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 04:56 PM
2

Good on you, first of all, for waiting. If more did, this wouldn't be a thing. But I guarantee, he would have preferred to fuck within the first few nights. Honestly, him having to wait probably did solidify his choice in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 04:25 PM
-1

Nah. If you're not able to have casual sex, it's definitely a you issue. I know it's hard to conceive, but women like sex too. If you actually go on a date, you can have casual sex. Now, your point may be true about dates. They might only select the most interesting men to date. But if you actually get a date and can't seal the deal, then you failed somewhere on that date. I'm semi-attractive, but not "hot". And my closing rate on dates (when I used to fuck around a lot) was near 90%. At 32 (now…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 04:22 PM
3

I wouldn't think so. Get a strong male role model wherever you can get it. This guy is teaching people how to be self sufficient and productive.
/r/ExRedPill14/01/23 05:09 PM
4

She's not the only cute girl out there.
/r/ExRedPill14/01/23 09:13 AM
0

Disagree. I'm conventionally attractive. Used to have no confidence, I'd get girlfriends and sex occasionally, but would have around 6 month dry spells between. Gained confidence and was consistently having sex as much as I wanted and quite often with the people I was pursuing. You just glossed over the things that build confidence. One of them being family. If your parents are constantly pulling you down and giving you failing advice on interacting with women, you're going to fail. My best frie…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 05:24 PM
5

Wtf, people try and land dates on reddit?
/r/ExRedPill13/01/23 05:17 PM
7

When DMing on social media to someone you don't actually know, there is no need to hurry or "do it before it's too late." You gotta find a way to build rapport. When I used to do this, I'd start with a like every once in a while. Then I'd make a story emote thing (like the 🔥 on instagram stories). Then, if I found something interesting on a story, ask a question. Then if it evolves from there, congrats. Just sliding into DMs is like an advertiser cold calling during dinner. You just want to hang…
/r/ExRedPill13/01/23 05:15 PM
2

I never did text for logistics only. Neither did I have in-depth conversations. Build a small amount of rapport to make them comfortable with meeting up.
/r/seduction21/09/22 11:16 AM
5

5'3" inches and weighs the same as me at 6'. No wonder she don't want a weak man.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/08/22 04:00 PM
1

Confidence and opportunity.
/r/ExRedPill21/06/22 06:11 AM
5

Extremely rich and successful people don't follow the same rules.
/r/ExRedPill20/06/22 08:38 AM
2

They're pro sex work, anti men who hire sex workers. It's really fucking weird.
/r/AntiFeminists19/06/22 06:00 AM
5

Pretty woman was a pretty well acclaimed title.
/r/AntiFeminists19/06/22 05:59 AM
1

Most of those already happen and I'd ensure, like I do as a man, to make sure I don't put myself in a position to be penetrated against my will.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 02:14 PM
2

I have really soft hair that doesn't like to listen. Get a harder style hair wax. Doesn't make it look shiny and greasy like gel and it is easier to adjust. Also, what my old stylist tole me is typically you want to start, lightly, to put the was in from back to front.
/r/ExRedPill02/06/22 12:45 PM
2

Trust me, you'll embrace that youthful vigor when you're in your 30s. I'm constantly told I'm 10 years younger looking.
/r/ExRedPill02/06/22 12:42 PM
3

Honestly, I don't get in a pissing match with them. I see their shallowness in the question and then right them off as a one night stand when we hook up.
/r/AntiFeminists17/05/22 12:53 PM
1

I'm sorry you're delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 04:28 AM
1

That's not what the anger phase is about.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 11:22 PM
4

Technically, my dad became a HVM. When he met my mom, he definitely wasn't. It took him getting arrested for a DUI and becoming sober (and joining AA) that really changed him.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 11:21 PM
1

I've only been with 1 single mom, but it ended after a little while because she really wanted a baby daddy. But the breathing room was nice. It was usually just her calling me and telling me she had a sitter and beers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 11:18 PM
1

Hey you, are you me? You summed that up perfectly. I never had an anger phase either.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 11:13 PM
1

The anger is a reaction to learning the truth about their past. I see what you're saying. TRP doesn't say "get angry", it's just a stage of grief about your old life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 11:11 PM
2

I found the red pill circa 2014 or so. I've only met one other guy that knew wtf that even was. How are you getting matched up with so many RPers? That's kind of a red flag for yourself. They typically go for low hanging fruit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 11:08 PM
5

What you don't understand and maybe RPers don't either, is high n counts and problems isn't just about women. Men have issues too at high n counts, I can personally attest to that. But it's a sub dedicated to male dating strategy and so why tf would they talk about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 11:02 PM
-2

You're conflating MRA with TRPers, they aren't the same. TRP is a place where plenty of men have improved themselves. It's a kind of therapy for some. But you hit the nail on the head with the teenager thing. When I was a TRPer, I always told the teens to go outside. They don't have the life experience to be jaded yet and like most people that age, aren't having enormous amounts of sex. Teenagers, imo, took that sub from a semi helpful place to a complete shithole.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 10:56 PM
2

And will having nothing to show for it when it's all said and done and their memory lost to the wind.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 10:50 PM
4

I'm sorry you feel that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 10:48 PM
1

Who is Robert Fisher? And I dunno. That wasn't my experience. But I was only on it from 2014-2017 ish.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 08:02 AM
1

I don't disagree with you as far as the attitude and mentality of the sub. I'm just telling you what was literally discussed in the sub and not referencing some off-the-site blog.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 11:22 PM
1

I'm not talking about a blog post by that tard. I'm talking about actual discussions and strategies we often discussed in TRP. And the escalation strategy that was heavily prevalent in my time there was 1 step forward 2 steps back and repeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:32 PM
1

Easily when you can spot shit tests.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:23 PM
2

I'm good now. I have a fiancee and a great life. I was just pointing out something that may be interpreted by some (probably TRPers) as toxicity. I like shit tests now. Pass and qualify is the mentality I took when I first heard about and started noticing them. And I don't hate on women for doing it. It's a self-preservation mechanism and it works most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 07:27 AM
1

I don't do the wine so much (scotch/beer), but 39 years of fuckedupedness. I definitely think with age comes wisdom.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 07:11 AM
2

I said I guess and also that I don't keep count. That'd be weird and hard. But I'm 39, so that number seems a lot less far-fetched. Thanks for doing the math. I've worked most of my life in social areas (bars/restaurants), so maybe that's the reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 07:10 AM
1

You're being pretty based right now. I can't disagree with anything you really say. Nice conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 06:49 AM
2

I'm not just talking about the women I've been with. I'm referencing all women I've had a semi-conversation with. Might not be 3 billion, but at least 100k from over all cultures I'd guess. Not something I really count. And it's a pretty decent sample size.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 06:48 AM
1

How many people do you consider a few? You think men only interact with 3 women in their entire life?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 06:25 AM
0

That's actually more accurate. I no longer consider myself a TRPer, but I can't disregard the fact it helped me when I needed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 06:23 AM
2

I can agree with all that. Except I think they're both equally rooted in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 06:19 AM
2

One thing that I've noticed women do significantly more (almost all that I've met) than men are shit tests. Now that I know about them, they don't bother me, but I suppose that could be considered toxic a la manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 06:18 AM
1

It wasn't ignore her nos. It was take 1 step forward til you got a no, then 2 steps back, repeat until you get a yes. Manipulative, sure. But consentual in the end. Men that don't make advances will not get laid, which is the endgoal of the sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 06:10 AM
4

Like feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 06:07 AM
0

It wasn't racist or homophobic. Many of the most prolific posters are gay or black.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 06:07 AM
0

^ this is why it got put on the blacklist.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 06:05 AM
1

I'm gonna be honest with you chad, it's not the only outlet. I don't think it should be censored, but there are plenty of options. And btw, fds got banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 06:04 AM
1

I mean, #3 is solid advice. But those first 2 are definitely what's going to be sending yours there.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 04:28 AM
3

If it's the best advice, why hasn't it worked for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 04:49 AM
2

I'd never give any of my daughters that shitty advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 04:47 AM
7

He's not "waiting" persay. He's banging other chicks on the side while "waiting".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 04:46 AM
1

For you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 04:45 AM
3

You're married now?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 04:42 AM
4

I'm not gonna say I'm a huge catch, but I was a ho that was divorced and never going to marry again. Then I met my fiancee. #6 definitely keeps me in line. Most the girls I slept with were pretty generic in bed and apparently nobody learns how to give head anymore. My girl got that and is a well-rounded, good-hearted person.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 04:13 AM
-1

Bitch is sick, parody is hilarious. But you really telling me that guys get that upset (to the point of crying) that a hot girl makes out with them? The world has definitely changed since I was a kid.
/r/MensRights01/05/22 01:19 AM
1

My ex literally threated me with a knife in the past. I talked her down to put the knofe away, then I used my size and strength (doesn't take much) to subdue her. You don't have to actually hit them. And I doubt your dad would be pissed if you restrained your sister.
/r/MensRights01/05/22 01:04 AM
0

It reads like a joke, I'm not understanding all the downvotes.
/r/MensRights01/05/22 12:58 AM
1

What was the felony conviction for her foot scratch? Like, what charge?
/r/MensRights01/05/22 12:55 AM
1

Whitepeopletwitter
/r/MensRights29/04/22 02:47 PM
2

The only thing a feminist changed my mind on was tampons available in restrooms for free/near free. They pointed out that wiping your ass is for hygiene and supplied by businesses and workplace, why not frontal hygiene? I can accept that.
/r/MensRights28/04/22 05:10 PM
3

Dude, I got banned from there with the reason being, "liar".
/r/MensRights28/04/22 05:08 PM
1

BuT mAh FeMiNiSm Is NeEdEd In OtHeR cOuNtRiEs.
/r/AntiFeminists22/04/22 05:40 PM
4

No evidence? Do you mean, like the clip we just watched of her admitting to abuse on tape? And having lived, worked, and grown up around alcoholics (and recovering alcoholics), it's not a condition that defaults to domestic abuse. My Dad never once struck my mom or me. Luckily now, he's been sober for some 30 years or so. Somehow, with little to no clear evidence, you blindly believe her.
/r/MensRights22/04/22 06:55 AM
1

That looks like a selfie.
/r/MensRights22/04/22 06:18 AM
3

Considering all the crazy shit she's done, I'm more inclined to believe she'd self inflict if she had to.
/r/MensRights22/04/22 06:11 AM
1

I actually support trans rights and I DO call my friends their preferred genders (even if they're not snipped). But letting shit like this go by when it's clearly an abuse of the system is deplorable and does nothing to help the cause. I also support women and their rights. Putting a fertile man in a womens' prison should be scary for anyone. And imagine the abuse a ftm prisoner would have in a mens' prison. Perhaps if he had gone far enough in the process that he was infertile, he might have me…
/r/MensRights20/04/22 11:52 AM
2

If you're not women enough to get your penis cut off, you're not a woman yet. If, god forbid, I ever get arrested, first thing I'm saying is that I identify as a woman if this is the kind of treatment they get.
/r/MensRights20/04/22 11:10 AM
1

If there was no man, how do you imagine she got pregnant?
/r/MensRights20/04/22 09:52 AM
2

You're confused how a women got knocked up by another inmate in an all women's prison? Good god.
/r/MensRights20/04/22 06:41 AM
1

Because we're not feminists dude. It's not a tit for tat. You can't claim feminists don't give a shit about men's issues then stump to their level and shit on women's issues. Be egalitarian and support both men and women only spaces. Or act like a feminist and just be solely against the other sex. Up to you, but if you want to be taken seriously, be a man and take the higher ground. It's like crying that another kid got a toy and you didn't. Be happy for the other kid and work to get yourself a …
/r/MensRights20/04/22 06:38 AM
0

I don't see the harm either. I just doubt that many will go. I do foresee many predatory lesbians going though.
/r/MensRights20/04/22 06:36 AM
1

My guess is that it'll probably bomb. What's the point?
/r/MensRights20/04/22 06:35 AM
1

You specifically pulled me into this thread. But fair enough, I'm out.
/r/AntiFeminists16/04/22 05:30 AM
1

Who tf knows why but him. He's an idiot. But the why isn't the point of this conversation. The point is he believes it, so he should believe her according to his logic.
/r/AntiFeminists15/04/22 05:39 PM
1

I'm not saying to belittle you. You're misunderstanding what we're saying. Of course you shouldn't "believe all women". But, the guy in that the post is about "believes all women", so he should be believing his accuser as well.
/r/AntiFeminists15/04/22 04:51 PM
4

Huh? He says he believes all women, she's a woman. Lie or not, he should believe her as he stated. It's not hard to follow.
/r/AntiFeminists14/04/22 06:13 PM
2

That's the first I've heard that. I'm trying to think of how. Could you elaborate?
/r/AntiFeminists14/04/22 06:10 PM
2

That last sentence is next to impossible to prove.
/r/MensRights13/04/22 02:25 AM
1

I read Japanese, not Chinese.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/04/22 12:27 PM
3

Honestly, I think I spelt it wrong. I am a non-native, self-taught Japanese speaker and fuck that shit up all the time. I thought it originated from 立つ, which would turn to 立って. I double checked with my fiancee after I saw your message and she googled it (because even many educated Japanese have a hard time with Japanese). Long story short, I messed up and it's 建前 (たてまえ).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/04/22 11:19 AM
3

I had to think for a minute. I knew it was a joke, but I figured I could find a connection somewhere.
/r/AntiFeminists11/04/22 02:36 AM
3

You don't say? Sorry that I'm not privvy to what actual country in Africa or if that country even exists today.
/r/AntiFeminists11/04/22 01:38 AM
21

Wasn't it a matriarch from.Africa that was selling her people as slaves?
/r/AntiFeminists10/04/22 04:37 PM
7

I gotta give you a thumbs up 👍 for knowing tattemae.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/04/22 04:22 PM
2

That guy may have got pegged that night, but women most definitely aren't attracted to men like that more than they are stoic men. Feminist or not.
/r/AntiFeminists07/04/22 05:29 AM
3

Male feminists are the true version of "nice guys." They think that joining women against men will get them laid.
/r/AntiFeminists07/04/22 05:26 AM
3

Same
/r/AntiFeminists07/04/22 05:25 AM
1

I remember this coming up before and feminists being against it, but Google matches I find seems to have gone in the way of support. Does anyone have articles or anything from the last time when they were against it?
/r/MensRights26/03/22 04:00 AM
10

Your moral virw doesn't make him guilty by law. Or else many people would be fucked for disagreeing with each other.
/r/MensRights25/03/22 02:13 PM
2

My fiancee is 7 years younger than me. Less than their difference. And in most places 16 is okay within an age limit. 5 years difference and within age pf consent isn't a crime. I'm guessing he probably is guilty because 22 yo is usually outside of the range. In WA as a teen, consent eas 16-17+2 years. I don't know which states have consent at 17+5, I doubt any.
/r/MensRights25/03/22 02:12 PM
8

You don't think taking advantage of a disabled person should be taken seriously?
/r/MensRights25/03/22 02:09 PM
1

Pretry much.
/r/MensRights22/03/22 06:58 PM
1

Kinda-sorta. And we're really just debating semantics at this point. They attacked a British Owned ship built with war modifications and likely transporting cargo. And it killed like 120 ish Americans. And it wasn't an invasion of our country. But either way, I'm saying I agree with you about the original comment.
/r/MensRights22/03/22 04:35 PM
1

I'm an idiot, I meant WW1.
/r/MensRights22/03/22 04:21 PM
0

I agree. It's similar to ww1 and America wasn't even attacked. But the men were drafted and the women worked the factories and nurse corps. If America were attacked, although I can't be drafted (prior service) , I'd volunteer in a heartbeat. EDIT: WW2-WW1
/r/MensRights22/03/22 02:37 PM
2

If Koreas politics are any indication, he'll be out of office because of some scandal soon anyway.
/r/MensRights22/03/22 02:31 PM
1

It's been 22 years, 2 marriages and ~100n and I still remember the experience. I don't remember her name, but I remember that night very clearly.
/r/seduction16/03/22 03:58 AM
1

No because being cringey is something you try to avoid when picking up women.
/r/seduction16/03/22 03:49 AM
1

Also, 9s are very rare. Raise your bar. And 10s don't exist.
/r/seduction16/03/22 03:47 AM
1

"Anyone" can't. I've tried to correct information on some articles and not only is there a whole process to becoming someone that can add input, it still has to be approved. It's not the wild west early days of Wikipedia where you set up an email and start editing at will like people imply.
/r/MensRights16/03/22 03:24 AM
1

When you're stating something "defacto", using something like "Kind Of" takes away from the authority of that fact. And to anyone makes it sound like you don't know what you're talking about. That, and that you actually don't know what you're talking about.
/r/seduction02/03/22 08:12 AM
1

I'm saying you don't sound very confident with what you're writing. Mainly referring to the "kind of".
/r/seduction01/03/22 01:18 AM
1

Not jealous. I used OLD a lot in the past as well. But I think cutting OLD and just going out made life better for me.
/r/seduction01/03/22 12:56 AM
1

Firstly, I suggest getting out of WA/OR if that's what you're talking about. I was raised in WA, so happy I escaped as a young adult.
/r/seduction01/03/22 12:54 AM
1

I dunno man. I was a fit, confident, loser when I was slaying the most. Own apt, own car, but that was about the extent of it.
/r/seduction01/03/22 12:50 AM
2

I was married 22-32, it's overrated.
/r/seduction01/03/22 12:45 AM
2

Man, I'd like to know too.
/r/seduction01/03/22 12:44 AM
1

I know some personally. But there is usually a reason you don't want to have children as a guy in your later years. It's usually the same reason they did have any in their younger years. I just don't get why what others are attracted to bothers you so much.
/r/seduction01/03/22 12:40 AM
1

Someone has to. But that being said, 8 years is nothing. I've dated roughly 8 yrs older and my girl is 7 yrs younger. Limit yourself to 1 or 2 years and who knows what you'll miss.
/r/seduction01/03/22 12:36 AM
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It's because there is no secret house on G street that they all flock to. Personally, I go to semi-quiet bars. Others pick up from malls, othets here, there, everywhere. It's not a place, it's a mindset.
/r/seduction01/03/22 12:35 AM
2

I'm very similar.
/r/seduction01/03/22 12:30 AM
5

With age is true though. It's a wisdom thing. And you act like 30 yos can't have endurance. I promise, that's not true. However, just work on your confidence and fitness and you shouldn't have much of an issue. I think the reason a lot of us in our 30s have little issue is because as you start getting older, you start giving less fucks.
/r/seduction01/03/22 12:25 AM
0

I'd suggest a decent body too.
/r/seduction01/03/22 12:17 AM
2

Don't worry man. I was married 22-32 and was fit. That year after my divorce was very very nice.
/r/seduction01/03/22 12:16 AM
0

Get off OLD.
/r/seduction01/03/22 12:12 AM
1

You should probably kinda do more research.
/r/seduction01/03/22 12:08 AM
1

So, if those girls with daddy issues are going to do it with someone regardless, why not you? You realize that the guys in subs like this aren't necessarily attracting, nor care that they aren't, girls that don't have any issues. They're just making sure to insert themselves into her natural loop. If you're able to benefit off something that's already going to happen, what's the issue? It's not every man's job to fix every woman.
/r/seduction01/03/22 12:02 AM
4

Th, she would have been a left swipe from the beginning.
/r/AntiFeminists27/02/22 07:20 AM
1

Theredpill. It's basically the opposite of FDS.
/r/AntiFeminists17/02/22 06:04 PM
1

You can say I'm wrong all you want, but I did a collegiate report on it. Granted it was about 3 years, I doubt it went up 50+% out there. Don't get me wrong, feminists are not needed, but that's the stats. Remember, that's people that claim feminism. People that agree with some feminist arguments (like govt sponsored abortion), but don't claim to be one could be higher.
/r/AntiFeminists17/02/22 04:47 PM
2

I'm referring to subs like fds not being quarantined, but their counterpart (TRP) is.
/r/AntiFeminists17/02/22 04:43 PM
1

He's talking trans.
/r/AntiFeminists17/02/22 03:22 PM
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I'm glad this statement isn't true. Last I researched on the topic, less than like 30% of women identify as feminists iirc. It's still a lot, but thank god it's not everyone.
/r/AntiFeminists17/02/22 03:19 PM
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Not only are they more toxic than their counterparts, they don't get quarantined/erased like their counterparts.
/r/AntiFeminists17/02/22 03:18 PM
1

This looks like something straight from femaledatingstrategy sub. I know it's not, but if you want some good nuggets, check it out.
/r/AntiFeminists17/02/22 03:17 PM
2

I think women against men is an inaccurate view to take. I've had 1 woman against me irl (in my adult (38) life) and she was feminist. I think a better take would be feminists against men. That's why I'm here, as anti-feminist, not anti-women. You have to remember that a lot of feminists nowadays are men also. So it makes it even weirder that you'd be directed at women and not feminists. Shit, feminists don't even make up 1/2 of the female population.
/r/MensRights12/02/22 03:56 PM
1

The manosphere claims that the study that claims the 25% disparity is due to the exact things in your article, which is whh they claim it's debunked. All those reasons represented in the article is the why and that's not due to discrimination or the patriarchy, but rather womens' work/life choices. Click the payscale link I gave you and select "controlled" and that's one source that claims 2.7%.
/r/AntiFeminists10/02/22 05:56 AM
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Nobody disagrees that it exists. We just disagree about the correct amount. And it's more around 2-3%, not 25%. And that 2-3% can't really be determined to be due to the patriarchy.
/r/AntiFeminists10/02/22 03:14 AM
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I just mentioned lawyers. However, This incredibly neutral (and often liberal biased) source has a great breakdown of all sorts of the answers you're looking for. Under the part about "The Gender Pay Gap", you can click on all those things and get some information. This Source by the same site talks a little about how things get complicated in the workforce and how men and women react differently in most situations. ​ And sadly, it looks like https://www.businessinsider.com/subtle-ways-women-tre…
/r/AntiFeminists10/02/22 01:21 AM
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I mean,coming in here and calling people incels probably isn't the best way to have a conversation. You can leave the vitriol at the door if you want to be taken seriously. Of course, I'd expect theguardian to report it like that, but I'd love to see the study itself. I'll look for it. Theguardian also doesn't specify what career they chose. Because a public defender definitely makes a lot less than a private business lawyer regardless if they both studied law. That, like is often stated by thos…
/r/AntiFeminists09/02/22 07:16 AM
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Not subscribed, so I can't read that one. I did a video and report for college on this before. I'll just send you my sources.
/r/AntiFeminists09/02/22 06:22 AM
2

I'm at work, so I'll address the abortion stuff later when I can look up more details. However, that article isn't saying what you think it is and the 1 line about men says almost nothing significant. That article is almost exclusively comparing first-in-family women undergrads to women with college educated parents. However, the comparing apples to apples, the pay gap has all been debunked. Especially the .75/1 comparison. I will agree there is still roughly a .98/1 gap.
/r/AntiFeminists09/02/22 04:52 AM
2

Shit, -13, that's nothing. Post contrarian views on /worldnews, you'll get slaughtered by downvotes.
/r/MensRights09/02/22 04:24 AM
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Nobody is saying women shouldn't be leaders, don't put that in their mouths. But if showing emotion is contrary to good leadership, and men show less emotion, you do the math. However, women that don't show emotion would share that trait that supposedly (I don't know the data on emotion/leadership correlation) is best for leadership.
/r/MensRights09/02/22 04:20 AM
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By many people, you must be referring to the left. Because nobody I know on the center or right think any of these things. Shit, even Japan is more patriarchal than the US and I can't recall seeing this. And they have 1 year paid maternity leave.
/r/MensRights09/02/22 04:15 AM
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There is a point where it goes too far. I was fired from a job once because the feminist shift manager made a false "sexual harassment" claim against me. The underlying reason is because I was able to accomplish something she couldn't and I can only assume she felt threatened by that. This followed me to my next job where the GMs wife was a manager and had "heard" about me. Surprise surprise, never accused before nor after of sexual harassment. Only the one place with a confirmed feminist. The f…
/r/AntiFeminists09/02/22 02:18 AM
3

Didn't say it was everyone. But it's quite a lot.
/r/AntiFeminists09/02/22 01:00 AM
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The problem is you're conflating "Feminist" with "Women". We support women and equality, but we don't support feminism. The whole premise of feminism nowadays is anti-men. But let's say it isn't, it's still not for equality for all. Neither is MRA (which is why I'm not one of them either). If they were for all, they'd have no problem with dropping "feminism" for "egalitarianism".
/r/AntiFeminists08/02/22 09:02 PM
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Nobody expects feminists to work on their issues, we just think they're not necessary for most of the West anymore. Your true colors are shown with your last sentence. Men and women do try to work on their issues, but you personally are never going to improve if all you do is blame the big bad boogeymen in power.
/r/AntiFeminists08/02/22 08:49 PM
2

Sure, I agree that is often true. But let's be real, a lot of these "Give me sources" things that people ask about are pretty common knowledge and they're just trying to make it more tedious than it is.
/r/AntiFeminists08/02/22 07:56 PM
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That's why egalitarians exist.
/r/AntiFeminists08/02/22 05:13 PM
3

There's this thing called google. It's really good for finding sources or to factcheck claims.
/r/AntiFeminists08/02/22 05:09 PM
1

She's is an actor that is famous for her role on game of thrones.
/r/AntiFeminists08/02/22 05:07 PM
3

Anyone who watched game of thrones knows who she is.
/r/AntiFeminists08/02/22 05:06 PM
3

Thing is, nobody denies the opposite is true. RPers know it and own it, but they're not talking about themselves, they're talking about women, hence awalt.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:22 PM
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The thing is, even if someone listed it, it's all anonymous. So what women are actually going to respond honestly without hamstering that they aren't like that. If it's any consolidation, there is AMALT too and RPers will admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:21 PM
2

Instead of honesty, that's what you're going with? Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 11:58 PM
1

That's crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 11:55 PM
1

Are you trying to say your "showcase" is sex? You're the one thay brought up showcase. I'm jus wondering someone from FDS specifically can showcase that all the non-FDS women who want HVM don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 11:50 PM
1

Then what led you to FDS?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 06:28 PM
1

This is a discussion. I'm simply asking for examples of what you showcase.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 06:22 PM
1

I'm not following nor downvoting you, lol. I don't even look at usernames when I reply. I just typically reply when people say dumb shit. So I'm guessing you must have been saying a lot of dumb shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 06:16 PM
1

Watch out man, she feels attacked by you asking a question. Might just get canceled.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 06:10 PM
1

If they were HVF, they wouldn't need FDS. Just like if TRPers were HVM, they wouldn't need TRP. But at least, it seems, most TRPers can admit that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 06:00 PM
3

You've met TRP men IRL?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:58 PM
0

If they've been so successful, what you doing on an FDS reddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:56 PM
2

So pickme isn't some kind of derogatory referring to women that do something for men to "pickme"? Definitely not an insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:55 PM
1

Hahhaa.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:54 PM
1

The same exact reason you post on FDS. They don't have confidence and don't know what they're doing wrong in the dating world. Whereas TRP has at least some little terd nuggets of self help, FDS is really a group of women not finding success in dating, circlejerking themselves that it's not their fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:49 PM
1

And what do you showcase?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:44 PM
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My sister had blocked me during the elections, called me sexist, racist and a bigot because I'd rather someone that wasn't a career politician (Trump) over a lying, traitorous sociapath (killary) . She lives in Portland (surprise) About a year after, she started texting me again, and we mostly avoid politics and just dish on our parents. I try to give older (significantly) brotherly advice and we're as fine as we ever were. What I'd say is that's your family, don't just cut each other off no mat…
/r/AntiFeminists03/02/22 04:08 PM
2

95% isn't all, you are correct.
/r/AntiFeminists01/02/22 08:44 AM
5

That whole chat looks like everyone is agreeing that "friends" of different sexes aren't reql. I agree with that.
/r/AntiFeminists01/02/22 08:43 AM
2

I agree, but I was trying to express how outrageously laid I got. Is it a time in my life I'm all that proud of, not really. And yes, the bedroom being dead was my fault. I was too passive, I had no confidence, and I acted lesser than her. My whole point being, is that not all TRPers are incel virgins and on a sub dedicated as a more of a support for those that left TRP, insulting is a dumb reason to make a post. I imagine many TRPers that are thinking that something doesn't feel right come here…
/r/ExRedPill28/01/22 05:33 AM
3

This is a bit disingenuous. I found RP when I was in a deadbedrooms situation with my ex wife. It took about 2 years trying to work out and work on myself before I was confident enough ro divorce her. I was single by choice and averaged a little over 1 new girl every 2 weeks or so. Now, what is true is that TRPers are younger than ever and being angry that they're a 17 yo virgin before they ever tried. Then we have the mid 20s guus that were those 17 yo virgin TRPers, so they've never looked at …
/r/ExRedPill27/01/22 03:42 AM
1

Their bodies don't bore me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 03:25 AM
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I know lots of younger girls that had the hots for me when I was 33 and freshly divorced. You relate by being single and fucking well. How people got this into their head that everyone wants a relationship over 30 is weird. 18-26ish is when a lot of girls gain experience. Typically, older men have better game, more experience, more maturity. and more money than the younger guys. Chicks dig that if you're good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 03:24 AM
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Nothing you said relates to anything else you said. You can still FAP and build great things. Accountants, doctors, engineers, scientists, astronauts, military personnel (I can promise you we FAP a lot) ALL FAP. The amount of sex workers pales in comparison to all the other occupations out there. It's not like we're taking our best and brightest and turning them into sex workers. The people that are suitable for other jobs will still do other jobs. I agree we need to combat poverty and teach peo…
/r/AntiFeminists23/01/22 05:19 AM
1

I don't have sex all day every day. There are days when it's all day, sure. And I appreciate NoFAP. I'm always more productive when I'm a NoFAPPER, especially when I was single. Since I couldn't FAP, I looked to have sex to get off and that made me much better at getting women. The only thing I'd say is, you're 17. Go and enjoy yourself. Get fit, gain knowledge, and go outside. I wouldn't have been caught dead going back and forth with people on a website when I was 17. It's one of the best time…
/r/AntiFeminists23/01/22 05:11 AM
0

You don't even need to be jacked, just have a big penis. Look at Ron Jeremy, definitely wasn't jacked. And you hear guys make noise all the time. And ask any female about who their favorite porn actor is and they'll tell you. The men are well recognized, there just tends to be less men in porn. And these men aren't forced to get a dick shoved to their tonsils while getting their ass twisted sideways and strapped to some chair choking them while pulling their nipples off their chest. I'm not real…
/r/AntiFeminists23/01/22 04:46 AM
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I dunno man, I'm the opposite of you, a FAPANATIC. I will take drugs to last longer in bed even when it isn't necessary. It turns you into a primal animal, you should try it. And honestly, pay me for sex with good-looking women and give me free drugs, where do I sign up? The only part I can agree with any of this to some extent is that porn promotes simpage... especially shit like onlyfans. You have incels and simps that basically will worship these women and are taken advantage of. But honestly…
/r/AntiFeminists23/01/22 04:42 AM
1

Feminism is the cop in this example.
/r/AntiFeminists22/01/22 05:27 AM
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C. Honestly, at least they saved themselves from cheating/ getting cheated on. Why else you gonna fo out like that?
/r/AntiFeminists19/01/22 09:49 AM
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Or let's hide behind this "definition" while not acting like the definition. That's the epitome of No True Scotsman argument.
/r/AntiFeminists16/01/22 03:59 AM
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I used to be a male feminist. Trust me, we know what you "actually" stand for or else you'd just be an egalitarian and not a feminist.
/r/AntiFeminists16/01/22 03:56 AM
1

It's pretty easy to be an "average good man" and still get fuckloads of women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/12/21 03:27 AM
2

I was much better looking at 30 than 20. This baby face wasn't doing me favors. Now I look as young as I feel although post 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 10:49 AM
1

I dunno, half the reason I was with my ex for a while was financial. She was pretty loaded.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 10:48 AM
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They hypothetically argue about it regarding abortion. "If you can choose to abort my baby, I can choose to not financially support you" is the hypothetical they pose. It requires a little comprehension on your part in an attempt to start up your critical thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 10:45 AM
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That sounds a lot like projection. Most men would prefer to take care of their kids. Shit, I think I do a better job than my ex-wife, even while we were married. When she'd go on some work shit, showered, homework, dinner and in bed after an hour of playtime. Shit was like clockwork. She'd let the kids run all over her.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 10:40 AM
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It's ppd, so it's not just a circlejerk, since both sides and the middle are here. And the first thing rp says is to work on yourself, so your first reason doesn't really follow either.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 10:09 AM
1

I agree it's an issue to some extent but that doesn't take away from doing the most with what you got. Blaming others for your problems doesn't fix your problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:36 AM
3

This was huge for me as a teenager. Except my best bud was less attractive than me (and we're both 6 ft), but he used to slay and all his gfs would tell me that I'm such a nice guy blah blah. Really, the main difference between us was his confidence. I was pretty fucked up confidence wise by my mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:26 AM
1

I'm purple now, but I found TRP while I was married by getting linked from deadbedrooms to seddit to TRP in an attempt to understand and fix the deadbed situation. It was a different time than it has devolved into, but it taught me that everything I was experiencing was my fault. If I was a better, more dominant man, my wife would have sex with me. It also gave me the courage to divorce her. The point is, I'm absolutely certain the only reason to find TRP is sex. The problem is teenagers that ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:21 AM
1

I think, if people value each other, then you should both be chasing each other. Men can do this by being persistent (at least it works for me) and women can show their attraction by cooking or physicality. But they both shouldn't be giving it up asap because firstly, yhey should value themselves. That's how the chase starts.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 07:26 AM
0

You do realize this sub is about guys playing with girls, right?
/r/seduction09/09/21 05:48 PM
0

I was AD sleeping with the wives of AD members, yeah. I don't know how I developed that kink, but I have it.
/r/seduction09/09/21 05:12 PM
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I'm pretty sure I slept with a few in their 30s when I was around that age. Plenty of MILF wives in the military. I never asked their age though, so kot really sure. But if their husband's ranks were any indication, they would be 30+
/r/seduction09/09/21 04:09 PM
0

Not everyone shares your lifestyle. But as someone mid 30, I couldn't really imagine chasing teens. It would be boring asf.
/r/seduction09/09/21 04:04 PM
3

You type like you read a lot, experience little.
/r/seduction09/09/21 04:03 PM
1

As someone in the same age bracket, it was the same for me. I still had some 20 yo fwb, but the 24s was the sweet spot. I'm fairly certain it's the age difference more than anything else.
/r/seduction09/09/21 04:02 PM
1

I thought this was a CMV bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 01:10 PM
1

And if they do fight for feminism in a country like that, they'll get shot down real quick. I actually wouldn't mind feminists if they could realize things are pretty damn equal in the US and put their attentions abroad. And shit, if they want to talk about cowardice, why don't they go martyr themselves abroad?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 09:38 AM
0

People advocate for Captain/Fist Mate, not Master/Slave like they have in those countries. Masters will always abandon their slaves for self-preservation. Not usually the case with Captain/First Mate. Captains will go down with their ship.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 09:31 AM
1

It's not the primary purpose, but people are kidding themselves if they don't think one of the first things a guy wants to do is sleep with them. Unless there isn't really an attraction. A guy pushing back sex is a red flag. He either has another gf or wants to stay promiscuous a bit longer before going forward. Or the attraction isn't there and he's stringing them along for some reason.
/r/ExRedPill08/08/21 03:38 PM
2

For me, when I was RP, I focused on the confidence and game side of it all. But yeah, if you just ignore all that side of it, it's just a repaint really.
/r/ExRedPill08/08/21 03:27 PM
2

With that mentality, you're right.
/r/ExRedPill08/08/21 03:24 PM
1

Even girls (including my fiancee) that I wanted a serious relationship with, it always had a sexual attraction and sex as soon as you can. This is a hard thing for me to imagine.
/r/ExRedPill08/08/21 11:35 AM
5

So I go on a first date, sleep with the girl, now I'm in a committed relationship? That's not how that works.
/r/ExRedPill08/08/21 11:32 AM
1

My advice to you is "fuck it". Sometimes I say something (likely even in my reply to this guy) and get a temp ban because it's borderline. But if you don't say what you want, what's the point of saying anything.
/r/ExRedPill08/08/21 11:27 AM
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What I don't understand is if you're redpill, why have you not taken any of the "self-help" advice to be a better guy that women will want to sleep with? You can definitely get that advice out there apart from redpill, but just cherry picking the bad without working on yourself is maybe even worse.
/r/ExRedPill08/08/21 11:26 AM
1

The fact that everyone tells him that he's attractive and he's still insecure about it is what makes him the "safe" guy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/08/21 10:52 AM
4

Using redpilled terminology, for me, I developed "oneitis" for one of my "plates" and my behavior is the reason she moved on and it broke me. 💔
/r/ExRedPill07/08/21 09:49 AM
0

I was similar, but different. I would do the same thing about messaging multiple girls, and take them all out, often double booking dates and canceling on the one I was least interested. Then, I would rotate through the girls that put out and then dump the ones that wanted more and treat better the girls that liked the fwb situation. For girls, if a guy cancels a date, it'd be a red flag in my book.
/r/ExRedPill07/08/21 09:48 AM
1

It's a chicken/egg scenario with feminists and many lesbians. Were they ugly so became feminists or did feminism make them ugly?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 03:53 AM
2

Sure, I get that. But even of my bluest of blue days, I'd have never gone 2 years without sex unless I'm either 1. Getting it on the side or 2. The Blowjobs are better than the sex.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/06/21 11:08 AM
1

Rainn, haha. Scholarly, buahahaha.
/r/AntiFeminists30/06/21 04:06 AM
2

I don't get how more than 50% of the legal voters are women in the US, as well as make up most of the commercial sales, but think since they voted men into power and have more male CEOs, that it was men doing it. It just doesn't make sense to me. If we're truly equal, wouldn't women have shaped the world as much as men did? How and when did men get the upperhand if we're truly equal.
/r/AntiFeminists30/06/21 03:44 AM
2

There is a reason I said they in respect to this argument. My arguments against feminism is 1p0% fact based and doesn't include men in the argument. While anti-feminists and MRAs have some overlap, not all anti-feminists are MRA.
/r/AntiFeminists30/06/21 03:26 AM
2

As a trend, the world does eventually start leaning left again. However, age does play a factor. There is a reason you're a liberal in your 20s and a conservative in your 40s. Once you're out of the liberal indoctrination that is college and live in reality, your views typically become more realistic. That is unless you live in the hiveminds of Austin, LA, NY, Seattle. Then you'll just be fucked. I believe the decline of outdated religious practice is what causes the left lean.
/r/AntiFeminists30/06/21 03:22 AM
1

Women's studies professor, buzzfeed, Portland. I think I just summed it up better than the bot.
/r/AntiFeminists30/06/21 03:10 AM
6

They're not blaming it on women. They're basically telling feminists to "quityerbitchin".
/r/AntiFeminists30/06/21 03:01 AM
2

10% chance at being extremely waelthy and powerful, 90% chance of poverty/back-breaking work/homelessness. Or, 100% chance to be somewhere in the middle (and almost guaranteed top 10% if beautiful). I'd hope I'd be content with the latter.
/r/AntiFeminists30/06/21 02:54 AM
1

I'll agree, I definitely couldn't always predict everything, but the worst part of TRP imo is that it does desensitize you. If you fully embraced it, when a girl did an "AWALT" thing, it usually didn't bother me because I didn't see women as anything but, essentially, "sex toys". It wasn't until I stopped TRP and tried to live a "normal"ish life that I felt heartbreak. But it did take a long time to get back into having a real loving relationship again. Which is the main reason I think people sh…
/r/ExRedPill30/06/21 02:41 AM
2

This can't be the real world. There can't be men that'll be in a relationship for 2 years and no sex?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/06/21 01:53 AM
1

"Yeah, but the ugly guys have awkward conversations. We want confidence." I agree with you OP. When I was at my peak, I was matching with many women everyday and not even the first to text some of the times. I had so many meaningless conversations going on that I'd mix up the girls or even forget to text them back until weeks/months later and they were still on the hook. Those that can get laid on Tinder are getting laid on Tinder cuz, not to revert back to my RP days but, AWALT. Here is one thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 01:50 PM
2

Yeah, I put a lot of that on your parents. Chubby babies and toddlers are kind of cute, but if your child is obese, it's your fault. And now look qt all the complications it gave you as you got older. I'm sorry you had shitty parents man and good luck with the struggle man.
/r/AntiFeminists27/06/21 01:31 PM
2

Problem is that there are far more non-brainwashed SJWs that will now refuse to buy their shit. So they've literally just limited themselves to "woke" liberal women. I'd say they just cut their possible demographic in half, at least.
/r/AntiFeminists27/06/21 01:26 PM
-2

This is obviously troll.
/r/ExRedPill27/06/21 01:09 PM
1

Then why need the specification ""trans women" are women?" They identify as women and I'll address them as women, but as far as my penis is concerned, they aren't cis-women.
/r/ExRedPill27/06/21 01:07 PM
1

I don't think the "woke" crowd would think that. It's typically more conservative women.
/r/ExRedPill20/06/21 01:18 AM
2

Red pill women
/r/ExRedPill19/06/21 09:05 PM
1

I know it's an old post (5 days is an eternity for reddit), but whqt about not reading the article? At first I figured you needed some time, but it's been 5 days. Anything you want to change?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 01:01 PM
3

Probably because they prefer to talk about women. But if you bring up AMALT, they'll probably downplay it, but agree to it. At least when I was heavily invested in it, but that was years ago. The truth is, their belief is, using AMALT and AWALT, what's the best strategy to get laid? TRP is a sexual strategy group first and foremost and while it does result in getting laid, the path to get there isn't good.
/r/ExRedPill19/06/21 12:57 PM
0

FDS is significantly more toxic. But yeah, I'd say they're the opposite of TRP. Whereas RPW are essentially women that want to live in a masculine world.
/r/ExRedPill19/06/21 08:48 AM
4

They believe AMALT as well. They just believe that men do different things for different reasons.
/r/ExRedPill19/06/21 08:44 AM
1

Wtf is this nonsense.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/21 11:49 AM
1

Apparently there is a movie called idiocracy that predicts that future.
/r/AntiFeminists16/06/21 06:06 AM
1

I'm at the point where I'm just going to embrace the idiocracy and see where it takes me. If the patriarchy was so toxic, let's see how the matriarchy does it. Then when it doesn't workout, we'll revert to normal again.
/r/AntiFeminists16/06/21 04:31 AM
1

??
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 04:08 AM
1

Weird that you're replying to a direct quote from the article then, isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 03:04 PM
2

I'm making an effort not to insult people anymore, so I'm just going to ignore this line of our back and forth. Feel free to continue on the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 10:54 AM
2

I read it and I'll reiterate, it's talking about fertility, not anything else. That whole article is saying "we still fertile ladies". Like, no shit, my ex had a baby at 32, 34 and 37. It doesn't detract from the fact that it's more dangerous after 30. Also, she was the older one in the relationship if that matters to you for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 10:52 AM
2

I didn't disagree with you. Facts don't care about feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 06:01 AM
2

So do women. Women over 30 are twice as likely to have a child with down syndrome.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 05:58 AM
1

I'm sorry, I should have made it easier to follow by separating via paragraphs. I wasn't talking about the cosmetology men qnd their SO cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 05:45 AM
2

I'm pretty sure it's because they have plenty of 20 somethings to drop off a load. 45+ is within a reasonable risk outlier. When you have younger more than willing to donate, no need. But its all good kween, you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 05:44 AM
2

We're not talking about ability to fertilize, it's about hazards related to pregnancy, birth, and defects.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 04:17 AM
-2

The only people praising them are feminists and people that have to. More "you go girl" and "Girl power" moments for them, the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 02:37 AM
2

Except women's decline starts around 30 and men around 45.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 02:26 AM
3

Still, these numbers aren’t reason to drastically change any life plans, as the risks are still relatively low, Eisenberg said. He compared the increased risks to buying lottery tickets. “If you buy two lottery tickets instead of one, your chances of winning double, so it’s increased by 100 percent,” he said. “But that’s a relative increase. Because your chance of winning the lottery started very small, it’s still unlikely that you’re going to win the lottery.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 02:24 AM
1

This is the fucked up part about feminism. Their presumption is that nobody wants to be a SAHM and that women should focus on their careers. Thus, feminism almost solely destroyed both the nuclear family and the ability to thrive on a single income. When, in reality, your scenario makes the most sense. Women have a clock, men don't. Hence why men typically focus on the career while women focus on the family. And in that case, all bases are covered. In an ideal world, nobody would need to work, I…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 02:17 AM
1

Cosmetologist get shamed by men, but straight ones get more pussy from beautiful women than "normal" men, because of access and skill. It has a similar effect as male bartenders on women. But as far as SAHD, you say you'd like it, but I guarantee you'd be unattracted to him before long. And that would likely lead to infidelity on both your parts. You, with successful men, and him with trophy wives that he meets on playdates.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 02:07 AM
1

And women are typically shamed for anything masculine, point?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 01:59 AM
1

I don't get the debate here. Is it about men bailing, not wanting kids, or the single mother issue? Are we discussing women having custody over kids even though the father wants it, or mothers relocating after divorce? It's obvious that more women than men have kids, considering they come out of women. So every kid has a woman involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 01:52 AM
2

You could always try straight razors? Once you get the hang of it, I'm sure it's better than Gillette. I love straight razor shaves.
/r/AntiFeminists13/06/21 01:10 AM
-6

Exactly.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/21 01:04 AM
1

For some, as I posted in here earlier, it worked quite well. Granted, it's not as good as guys that are naturals, but as someone that had no confidence, I was steadily slaying. The problem is that most guys on TRP are just circlejerking and don't actually put what they say into practice. However, you can get the same results without the toxicity just reading NMMNG and WISNIFG.
/r/ExRedPill12/06/21 06:13 AM
1

I'm fairly certain most people here weren't actually RP other than looking at it for a month and thinking it's bad, rather than embracing it. I followed RP for about 3-4 years. It brought me the confidence to leave my deadbedroom wife and in the 1st year after divorce, slept with a new woman almost every week. I took full advantage of women and honestly, everything that I learned seemed to be true. Eventually, I didn't need RP anymore and stopped being so involved in it. The change came about wh…
/r/ExRedPill12/06/21 02:38 AM
1

I remember in my RP days, starting sentences with shit like "yeah, no" is not a show of confidence. Someone working at a job for 20 years, never late, never call in sick, is a sure sign of commitment. But how are you to gage a young person's commitment other than dedication to a degree. It's easily accessible to anyone and if you are not one of the "privileged", you can usually go for cheap or, depending on the route you choose, free.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 01:05 AM
1

Only guys that couldn't hit that n count think that. It seems like such an impossible feat for them that it must be high.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 08:14 AM
1

Lol. Getting above five would be a challenge for guys that believe that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 08:00 AM
1

A college degree shows that you can dedicate yourself to a routine, schedule, and overcome hardships. It is a great indicator for commitment. It's literally useless for any other purpose (except further degrees). Since we rarely know real n counts (unless you believe the RP algorithm someone made up), you will never have any idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 07:58 AM
1

The biggest issue I had with redpill was the way I looked at women. They were just my next conquest and they couldn't help themselves. It took a lot to try and rebuild emotional connections.
/r/ExRedPill11/06/21 07:28 AM
1

There are plenty of guys with little value and a lot of confidence. Shoot, I look back at my younger years and my best friend. Dude was fairly average looking due to a wart between his eyes and gapped tooth. He was dumb, a pathological liar, and had no future prospects. I was a fairly attractive, lettered athlete in wrestling and baseball. The dude got laid religiously and I was a virgin until 17. I was constantly told how much of a "Nice Guy" I was. Literally the only thing he had that I didn't…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/21 02:44 PM
1

I mean, there should be a certain level of attractiveness, but there is a reason dumb block heads with strong features, but bad looks (like Arnold or Sylvester) can still get laid often. Most of it is confidence imo.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/21 01:25 PM
2

I think it's more to do with the 80/20 rule. Men just have lower standards typically, so we'll fuck just about anything. Women want to fuck as well, but I presume they ONLY want to fuck the chads. So, if you're not a Chad, you usually have to sacrifice. As well, as I said, men have lower standards, so they will bang a girl that looks worse than them. Especially if they've already put in some effort or made a plan that night via online dating. At least I know as long as the girl wasn't hideous, I…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/05/21 05:18 AM
1

I can agree that men masturbate more frequently. But I'm not convinced it's a correlation to libido. I am LL, but masturbate fairly frequently.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/05/21 11:33 PM
1

Estrogen correlates to sex drive as well. The only reason many men are willing to do more for sex is because it's not as available to them as it is to women. Men that have sex at the ready aren't sacrificing for sex.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/05/21 03:43 PM
3

I usually don't prefer anecdotes, but yes, I've been married twice. Once as a young Marine with a horny asf wife and once right before leaving the Corps with a dull one. And currently in a 2 year long relationship with a slightl younger (she's 30) woman with a tremendously higher sex drive than mine. Including non-reciprocative blowjobs nearly every day. What I've learned post RP is that they're horny, you just have to be a man with confidence, options, and ability. Do that and they'll crave the…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/05/21 03:39 PM
2

14-17 yr olds on a 10 yr old study. Great source on how horny women are.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/05/21 03:20 PM
0

Lower sex drive is a myth.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/05/21 08:31 AM
2

If we're talking about equality, it's law (I believe) for public restrooms to provide something sanitary for your ass (tp), but not for your vag (tampons/ pads). I definitely think they should fix that. But to the main point of the OP, yhey ask for equality, and then bitch when things start becoming equal. It's bullshit feminist policies that are having more and more womem become homeless, suicide, etc.
/r/MensRights30/05/21 05:26 AM
1

The hamstering he must do to come to that conclusion must be tiring.
/r/AntiFeminists22/05/21 12:46 PM
1

I was wondering the same thing, by when? So I just went with a timeframe already suggested, which was a billion years. And yhe plateaus is supposed to be sooner than you'd think. I have to go find that theory and link it. I read it a while back.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/05/21 11:18 PM
1

Not saying it is. I have many more samples. But since most weee military, It's not really random. That wasn't my point. Just letting you know that we ended up in a good spot.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/05/21 11:16 PM
6

The biggest lie and manipulation are feminists and corporations colluding to double the workforce and essentially make a single income household a thing of the past. Feminists are one of the biggest reasons for income and class inequality.
/r/AntiFeminists05/05/21 01:07 PM
1

She and I turned out alright.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/05/21 05:17 AM
1

I believe we'll still have hominid forms. Maybe slightly different in design, but I don't think we'll quite be cybermen by then. I am curious what the next homo species will be though. And while we have exponentially grew technologically, there is a plateau theorized.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/05/21 04:37 AM
1

Are you against virgin and slut shaming and do you believe people shouldn't be judged by rather or not they can have sex or how much sex they have? I'm not going to slut-shame, anyone. And as far as virgins, I'm constantly trying to help people that want to get laid, laid. They would if they believed that it was most likely a trap that could potentially harm them. Yes, there are certain people that might pass it up. Not likely the tens or 100 of thousands that claim they do on that sub. No offen…
/r/MensRights04/05/21 06:57 PM
1

Are you against virgin and slut shaming and do you believe people shouldn't be judged by rather or not they can have sex or how much sex they have? I'm not going to slut-shame, anyone. And as far as virgins, I'm constantly trying to help people that want to get laid, laid. They would if they believed that it was most likely a trap that could potentially harm them. Yes, there are certain people that might pass it up. Not likely the tens or 100 of thousands that claim they do on that sub. No offen…
/r/MensRights04/05/21 06:57 PM
1

But the dude isn't wearing a condom anymore, surely there is some grey area that someone can exploit and claim rape, and then when it's not proven because how tf you gonna prove consensual sex as rape condom taken off or not, feminists will get in a hissy about someone getting off of a rape charge. This is almost as bad as the guy that's saying "Lying" is Rape. TF? To be fair, I agree that there is some kind of sexual assault or something when claiming to wear a condom and not, but it's not rape…
/r/MensRights04/05/21 05:17 AM
1

Oh, I definitely think many in this sub are incel. It's one of the reasons I rarely post here. I'm not an MRA, but I am anti-feminists (most women are as well), so I come here for ideas sometimes and have made videos that MRA would agree with. Thus, I guess there is some crossover since MRAs are most undoubtedly anti-feminist. But even if I think that way about MRAs, MGTOW, Bluepillers (more cucks than incels), that doesn't mean every single one of them. There are a lot of people on these subs. …
/r/MensRights04/05/21 05:08 AM
-2

I'm a product of this. So are many of the guys I know that are in the military. While I agree it's best not to get knocked up by some "Chad", they don't all become dregs. Probably not even most. Either way, I'd rather be a dreg than have all this pentup anger and vitriol as it seems many in this sub have.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/21 01:32 AM
3

We are much more advanced than apes that can talk. We teach apes how to communicate. Those apes live in cages. But you're leaving out a huge possibility out of the equation. Given a billion years, I doubt we'll even still be only in this solar system. Look how far we've come with technology in just 10k years.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/21 01:28 AM
6

I've been pulling out for 20+ years. I've only got someone pregnant whem we wanted a kid. I have the same condom thing as you do.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/21 01:08 AM
1

Quick reply before bed. But, if I allow you to grab my dick and put it in you or if I say yes without you purposefully drugging me (like daterape), then I'm good. We both did something we intended based on whatever truth we knew about each other and whatever we extrapolated from each other's character. Something like 95% of communication is non-verbal. No matter what I say out loud, you can make an accurate character judgment based on that. People have fucked without saying a word to each other.
/r/MensRights03/05/21 03:41 PM
1

I mean, I'm not going to go through each member and identify each incel. It's just easier to say when it fits majority of the members.
/r/MensRights03/05/21 03:37 PM
2

What's the difference. The contract is "broken" either way.
/r/MensRights03/05/21 03:29 PM
2

So, if the condom breaks, who raped whom?
/r/MensRights03/05/21 10:09 AM
0

She got you hammered?
/r/MensRights03/05/21 10:07 AM
2

Ehhhhh. I wouldn't go that far.
/r/MensRights03/05/21 10:00 AM
0

Simply learning how to pull out would work most of the time.
/r/MensRights03/05/21 09:57 AM
1

MGTOWs are incels. As much as they try hard to pretend they aren't.
/r/MensRights03/05/21 09:55 AM
1

How is it the gender reversed version when /r/nicegirls exist? I'm a former TRPer and active anti-feminist and even I'll admit that other group is toxic asg. I don't think it's ever a reason reddit should censor people, but those guys are incel asf.
/r/MensRights03/05/21 09:53 AM
3

That's a terrible definition. Lying to get someone in bed doesn't magically change their "yes" to a "no" post-coitous. Regret rape isn't a thing or at least shouldn't be. Does that mean a girl wearing makeup to hide some blemish can rape someone solely for that reason. Or if she didn't mention she's a single mom, or jobless, etc.? All would be rape by your definition, which is really scary.
/r/MensRights03/05/21 09:51 AM
1

Didn't they have something like "towel boys" in Ancient Rome? Probably homosexuality being less taboo (iirc) had some influence on it. Christianity likely fucked all that over.
/r/MensRights03/05/21 09:45 AM
-1

All these people forgetting about the pull out method. And the first rule: don't stick your dick in crazy.
/r/MensRights03/05/21 09:42 AM
0

When guys learn that nutting in their mouths or chest can be just as enjoyable, it'll be better. But all these morons want to nut inside everything and then be like "oops, did I do that"? Just don't be dumb and pull tf out.
/r/MensRights03/05/21 09:38 AM
-5

Yeah, getting friendzoned led to me getting laid a lot... oh wait. Glad your experience is different then the rest of all men though.
/r/ExRedPill05/04/21 11:02 AM
-7

sure, but I'd rather treat people like people and be desired and get laid.
/r/ExRedPill05/04/21 09:09 AM
1

I'm interested though. How would one go about proving it? You can actually record consensual sex as long as you don't share it. And not a lot of people know how to edit nor have photoshop. While I agree with you that most people that claim shit on their are bullshitting, how would they prove otherwise?
/r/ExRedPill05/04/21 09:01 AM
4

I think that's typically what ends up happening to people that end up leaving the redpill. They come to this realization.
/r/ExRedPill05/04/21 08:57 AM
-6

A stamp of approval that you're a good friend.
/r/ExRedPill05/04/21 08:54 AM
2

I didn't see the videos. Where is he from? That might have a part in all this.
/r/ExRedPill21/03/21 12:40 PM
1

I've known a bunch of guys whose wives refused to divorce as well. I really think it's just petty bullshit. He can't hold marriage is for life BS if he is also an adulterer. I read another comment and yeah, it is true that TRP really touts divorce rape and he may be worried about alimony, child custody, etc.
/r/ExRedPill21/03/21 08:32 AM
1

A sure fire way for girls to feel comfortable and for her friends to let here leave with you for sure. Win them over well enough and they'll even tell her that she should go home with you.
/r/seduction12/03/21 07:39 AM
1

I know it seems like a wild assumption to make but I've been contemplating it for a while. My assertion is that with the extremism of intersect philosophy, censoring of the right by left-leaning companies (twitter, reddit, etc.), and the leftist media portraying anyone that doesn't agree with every left philosophy as degenerates, people that are center are just as alienated as those on the right. I could share only 3 views with right topics, let's say, stronger immigration, pro-life, and 2 gende…
/r/ExRedPill11/03/21 05:41 AM
4

You're going to get a lot of "no, he's not" here, simply because of the implications. But also, the 80% that do, won't reply, and all the 20% that don't, will. As well, while they might desire for that 20% guy, not a lot of those guys are settling down and getting gfs. They're also not dating unattractive women either. And the top 20% isn't just about looks. Tldr; you're asking for overwhelming bias in the answers.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 09:19 AM
1

Male feminists are instant lady wood killer.
/r/AntiFeminists10/03/21 09:15 AM
1

Haha, oh, that's the requirement? I thought it was just ugly with no social skills or confidence.
/r/AntiFeminists10/03/21 09:13 AM
2

What's funny is you quoted it pre-edit. Where they magically gained another 50k lawyering and 24k simping.
/r/AntiFeminists10/03/21 09:06 AM
0

I don't know what TRP has devolved into (it was already going pretty bad when I left), but none of those things sound like they come from the Red Pill I was apart of. It does sound very alt-right and MRAish. Honestly though, I think a lot of it comes from the left making those of us in the center defend apects of Trumps presidency. Politicians and media have done VERY well in dividing us. Now they seek to conquer.
/r/ExRedPill10/03/21 08:49 AM
1

Exactly. Some of my closest friends developed that way. And then you run into their mutual friends and you go out alone separately, but still have friends out that have similar lifestyle.
/r/seduction09/03/21 02:17 AM
5

The goal is to not have to rely on a wingman and there are techniques to approaching groups and pulling from them.
/r/seduction08/03/21 07:06 AM
3

I didn't even realize that people put a negative connotation on it. Everyone I am friends with typically go out alone. We're friends from running into each other out and about.
/r/seduction08/03/21 04:53 AM
1

If you're a hunter, you are typically better alone anyway and likely more successful. When I was hunting a lot, I only went out with friends to maintain relationships, but alone to get laid.
/r/seduction08/03/21 04:50 AM
3

Are you kidding? This has become the most sissy place to learn anything about seduction. I'm surprised the guy didn't get downvoted to hell. Maybe some still value honesty here. I'm 37, and very rarely do I find women around my age attractive. My last 2 exes are both older than me and attractive, but it's a rare find (and they're Japanese (tend to look younger) ), def not the norm.
/r/seduction05/03/21 06:58 AM
1

They believe based off physiology that the effects of multiple partners for women is different than for men. They believe in the "caveman" philosophy that men are there to spread their seed and women are there to nurture. Similar to how you see our cousins, apes, do it in the jungle. And you are right about the average. But I feel it's very likely skewed by people that have a lot of partners and those that don't have many. They're hoping to run into the latter while banging the former. I never u…
/r/ExRedPill11/02/21 10:50 AM
1

I'm not trying to argue with you (as I agree), but I ended up with this. I had slept with an absurd amount of women after finding TRP and am engaged to a woman who has been a serial monogamist (for the most part) and has a count of 8 or so. It can happen.
/r/ExRedPill11/02/21 10:46 AM
1

I'm confused why you replied to me with this.
/r/seduction09/02/21 12:17 PM
1

That's a great counter argument. Glad to see you've been able to put forth some effort to change my obviously misogynistic mind.
/r/seduction06/01/21 03:49 AM
1

I asked a question about how it's misogynistic... Yet haven't been given an example. I gave an example and am told that I'm wrong. Even though I've asked questions and given examples, I'm the one with the limited view not willing to learn? To quote Coolio, "They say I gotta learn, but nobody's here to teach me."
/r/seduction06/01/21 03:47 AM
1

That's exactly what it is. If I tell my buddy that Suzy friend zoned me, I'm a misogynist according to y'all.
/r/seduction06/01/21 03:42 AM
1

I've friend zoned girls. I've friend zoned gay guys. Does that make me a misogynist? Obviously friend zone is used in relation to one side being attracted while the other is not, but we can't talk about that anymore? Is that what this cancel culture has come down to?
/r/seduction06/01/21 03:39 AM
1

So, what you're saying is I can't talk to my buddies about a girl that I had attraction for not feeling the same? It's misogynistic to talk about feelings now?
/r/seduction06/01/21 03:36 AM
1

Women use friend zone as much as men do. What are you talking about? "Hey Suzy, I haven't figured out how to tell Johnny he is just in the friend zone" and shit like that. Just like Johnny might use it to tell same, "Damn Sam, Linda just friend zoned me". Men can also friend zone women. How are either of those situations misandrist or misogynist. It's a phrase used to describe a situation, nothing more or less. Wtf happened to you /seduction, you used to actually be about what you're namesake is…
/r/seduction06/01/21 03:34 AM
1

That's not how nor ever was what the friend zone refers to. You're thinking about Nice Guys. I was friend-zoned a lot in my youth. That didn't make me a misogynist. How you react to being friend zoned or not, might.
/r/seduction06/01/21 03:28 AM
1

They use friend zone (both men and women use the term) towards a guy that will never sleep with the girl that put him there. I don't get what that point has anything to do with misogyny.
/r/seduction06/01/21 03:25 AM
1

As long as you tell the girls what you're interested in, there is nothing wrong with it. Also, sex is natural, compelling, and necessary for the species. Not wanting commitment from every girl as a man doesn't make you misogynist, it makes you normal. Just like a girl not wanting to put out for every man doesn't make her misandrist.
/r/seduction06/01/21 02:55 AM
1

These "find love easily" aren't referring to getting a gf. They are trying to get guys laid. As far as if you want a relationship, I think you are exactly right. It tends to just happen. Even while I was at the height of plate spinning, my current gf had something different that I am attracted to.
/r/seduction06/01/21 02:26 AM
1

This. All these guys saying "find a way to tell her" might not always negatively influence her, a hot girl that you're friends with running into you and giving you a hug is 100 percent a positive interaction. Especially if it's natural (never thought of staging it, sounds like a bad idea). If it's natural, your reaction to it will natural and the way you respond to "who is she" will be natural. That's why I suggest always hangout in your "backyard". Social Proof trumps all but confidence.
/r/seduction06/01/21 02:14 AM
1

Hot girls on insta with you, Facebook hotties, shit like that. Also, even the idea of canceling a date or taking time to reply signifies to her you "might" have a better option. It's like everything else, you elude that you're "bad" or a "playboy" while never outright saying it.
/r/seduction06/01/21 02:08 AM
1

You basically just said what RP says all the time just worded it differently. Women want confidence. The rest doesn't really matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 03:43 PM
1

So it IS monogamous?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 09:53 AM
2

So he's cool to fuck around, but you've only been with him? If not, why not just call it what it is. I understand not wanting to cohabitate and all that (I'm the same way), but if I'm fucking the same girl for 11 years and not polygamous, we're in a committed relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 05:21 PM
1

The only thing I want to say is this much worry and concern over dick size isn't really a "Red Pill" thing. Granted, I think RP isn't what it used to be, if you're RP asking a question like this, you should go back to RP and do some more reading. You can't change your dick size (technically can, but then you could also end up with a corkscrew dick), so why worry about it. Just perfect your game, personality, body and skills in bed and your dick size will be the last thing you think about when yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 05:00 PM
1

I gotta say it's interesting that your ideal "1" is just a FWB... why haven't you tried to lock it down? Or why have a first with a FWB. It seems odd. Are you just really young or in college or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 04:55 PM
2

If you've only been with 1 woman that can climax, makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 04:47 PM
1

I can agree with this about small vaginas. I'm relatively average in all senses of the word when it comes to size/shape... but... I've had more than one girl tell me that a certain position hurt or that a certain position felt really good compared to other guys that were larger. What I've learned is that you go with what you're good at and what you know typically feels good for women based on your size.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 04:40 PM
4

The few portlanders that actually hate men is likely due to something in their history. Likely rape or abuse. The rest of them on the media and SNS are just circle jerking each other for popularity and views/followers.
/r/MensRights12/11/20 11:00 PM
3

This is just a dumb video where nothing happened. Even then, at my drunkest and highest, I'd never do something with a dude if I didn't want.
/r/MensRights08/11/20 01:32 AM
1

Maybe she'll realize it's feminism that's not right.
/r/AntiFeminists05/10/20 01:40 AM
2

Let's make it simple, dude or chick, if you're on tiktok, you've got worse problems.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/09/20 02:18 AM
3

"My kitty is getting me through this". Yes, yes it is.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/09/20 01:59 AM
2

That girl is smarter than her mom and grandma think. She sees through their bullshit and realizes when they try to strawman her. I have a 9 year old... I didn't realize how savvy they are.
/r/MensRights04/09/20 03:46 PM
-4

I haven't been here in a while. Didn't expect the infestation to spread here yet.
/r/seduction14/08/20 05:12 PM
0

Care to elaborate?
/r/seduction14/08/20 02:29 PM
2

She knows she's cute and by you approaching her, she knows you think it too. Literally the 2nd line of what he wrote.
/r/seduction14/08/20 02:27 PM
3

Just remember, something like 90% of communication is body language. You show more with what you do than what you say.
/r/seduction14/08/20 02:25 PM
-15

Is this the SJW forums? Yes, it's legit being a pussy. You're right that it's evolutionary. It's evolutionary to weed out the pussies in a society so that the strong, confident genes survive and continue our existence. Honestly, if being called a pussy offends anyone, they need to man the fuck up and figure out how to unfuck themselves. If not, we're gonna have some more Rodgers on our hands.
/r/seduction14/08/20 02:19 PM
3

Just to add to this. If you do play it cool upon rejection, you are more likely for her not to reject you in a future meeting. I used to always tell girls I'm not looking for anything serious and some would rebuff that. Then, I'd get a random call from them in the future asking me to come over.
/r/seduction14/08/20 02:14 PM
1

Ok. So knowing something about David Beckham is the barrier to knowing jack shit? All I know is he is tatted asf and married a spice girl. Also, that he's apparently pretty tight with the royal family and likely to be knighted. I suppose if that's the degenerates I throw in with, I'm quite ok. Also, not being racist is the default. It's isn't SJW. I'm about as far from SJW you can get, but racism is just stupid. And I know you worded it in a way where it could technically not mean black people, …
/r/TheRedPill01/08/20 09:23 AM
5

I guess I get why it got quarantined.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/20 12:17 AM
2

You also don't see higher-level people of class and dignity reading reddit, let alone TRP. Does that invalidate TRP? Didn't realize we also taunt racism here... Those damn David Beckhams and Adam Levine's getting tats once they got out the hood. Terrible. Really Beta simp men.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/20 05:49 AM
2

So, the Sistine Chapel... beautiful in its own right, was made even more magnificent by the work of Michelangelo. Sure, some may say it's an eyesore on an otherwise attractive piece of architecture, but not most. I tried to google Rudi Hronar and got no matches. I have no clue who tf that is. I have an Owl drawn in Japanese style on my right arm with a night beach reaching into the sky onto my shoulder. I could explain the symbolism, but it would mean nothing to you because it's not for you. Tat…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/20 05:43 AM
4

I'm still trying to get when TRP became this dumb. I haven't really been around here for 3 years. When did Tats get related to being an "inner pussy". Is that some kind of psychological armor because you're scared of needles? The "Chads" out there in the world... typically have tattoos. The guys that go and save hostages that nobody knows about or rescue kids trapped in a cave in Thailand... have tattoos. Lots of them. They also can walk into a bar and leave with a girl before 90% of the guys he…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/20 05:31 AM
2

I think you've probably seen a lot of amateurs. My artist hand draws all his work. He is by appointment only. Do they put their hand-drawn art on a traceable paper that will transfer it to your body, sure. But tracing your own, recently hand-drawn work isn't the same as stealing work from others. You're so full of shit, it's coming out your mouth.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/20 08:11 PM
1

So, you actually weren't being passive aggressive... Well, fuck me. You're just saying that since it's not really an issue for me, I wouldn't understand. What you're saying makes sense, but those results are naturally achieved by just following TRP (to some extent). What do you mean you're never going to pay for a haircut again? You just gonna Vin diesel it?
/r/TheRedPill30/07/20 12:59 AM
-1

So you're in "get off my lawn" mode now? Or some "back in my day" bullshit? Every generation complains about the next one after them. Tattoos are considered art nowadays. And there are some pretty good artists out there. I'm prior military as well. Got my first, dumbass Oorah tat at 18. Then, got a beautiful quartersleeve/chest/should done almost 20 years later by a guy (good friend) that is a genius if you ask me. It has a lot of symbology and meaning to me and it looks great. Thing is, I don't…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/20 12:26 AM
1

You read different comments than I did apparently. I can't remember it well, but I definitely saw it.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/20 12:14 AM
2

Smooth and passive-aggressive, just the way I like it. I get that you took it as an insult. It was meant to save you and everyone else's time in the future.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/20 11:24 PM
2

Besides the normal simp for the government reply, could you explain tattoos in the military? Very common, and not homosexual, and typically can get their way with women.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/20 11:22 PM
0

Exactly. I get that 99% of TRP is fake it til you make it, but at least work on making yourself a man first.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/20 11:03 PM
10

Wtf is that last line, haha? Sarcasm or a joke, or do you really think that?
/r/TheRedPill29/07/20 11:01 PM
3

This is complete bullshit. Yeah, look masculine, duh. That should come from rule 1. But looking ugly is the way to get hot women? What is that dumbshit. Just be a man, not a lumbersexual with a manbun and you're good. This didn't need a fucking essay. Your TLDR should be; don't be a fucking metrosexual eboy. Done. 5000 word essay saved.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/20 11:00 PM
2

While I was redpill, I had many female friends. Weirdly, post RP, I have less. Some of them are like sisters to me. Sure, some of them initially (before we met), I def was thinking "I'm gonna hit that" and then we met and it didn't match or she didn't look like her photos or a multitude of reasons. This is part of the problem with TRP is that what people write in their "FR"s and how to act, etc. is mostly bullshit. You can't write a fail FR, so might as well make up a different ending, right? Wh…
/r/ExRedPill29/07/20 05:08 AM
0

Well, we have definitely had different results. Also, I didn't say male hobbies, just hobbies. Which it seems you have (hobby/career). And that's great. Yeah, a lot of dudes are dumb... but also a lot weren't indoctrinated with some RP ideology. Which is why it's good to find decent male role models. I've met a lot of both the dudes you're talking about... never fought any of them though.
/r/ExRedPill26/07/20 05:31 PM
1

It all makes sense now. I'm sorry for men like I was in my past and other men that hurt you enough that you had to come to a place where people are trying to make themselves better and berate them. Good luck to you.
/r/ExRedPill26/07/20 05:25 PM
1

Sorry, those books are "When I say No I feel Guilty" and "No More Mr. Nice Guy".
/r/ExRedPill26/07/20 05:24 PM
2

That's a really reduced explanation. But as I've mentioned often, I don't agree with most TRP nowadays.
/r/ExRedPill24/07/20 04:45 PM
1

I don't know what to say to you except you seem to project a lot. You sound upset that a shit bird like me can get something you can't and that's on you. Sorry, I guess
/r/ExRedPill24/07/20 02:29 PM
1

I don't know where you're from... but in most the western world, misogyny is a boogeyman. Here is what I'd like to tell you... TRP shouldn't be engaged with by young people. I've firmly believed that since I was originally in TRP. I got into it maybe 5 or 6 years ago and left maybe 2 years ago. It was never for young teenagers. You haven't even established if it's common for you to get rejected or laid because regardless of what you may think, many kids aren't getting laid in until their Junior …
/r/ExRedPill24/07/20 08:48 AM
2

And then he'd go, get rejected, and get his assumptions validated. So, I agree, I've never seen rejection boost confidence. Approaching and getting successes outweigh the rejections, but until you get the successes, you're just getting your anxiety to approach validated by rejection. You need to build your confidence other ways, imo. Lifting, getting hobbies, finding male friends (especially if they're confident), etc. is much better.
/r/ExRedPill24/07/20 08:39 AM
2

You're projecting quite a bit dude. This discussion was about positive male role models was it not? Hence, my point is valid on that. You do realize, also, that this is exredpill, right? So, you're saying someone that has made mistakes in their past doesn't deserve another chance? Makes a lot of sense. Also, I'm not sure where the biracial features thing came up, but ok. As far as my daughters, as I said, I'm much more equipped to see the signs (having been that guy) of if their bf is a tool or …
/r/ExRedPill24/07/20 08:36 AM
-1

I personally disregard almost everything feminists say nowadays. Most of them are full of shit. Honestly, it's usually just about chemistry. It's hard if you're an introvert to meet people, for sure, but still can happen. People always say you can find all this shit out w/o redpill, but they never say where. It's why I still chalk up my successes to the fact that I was once RP. There are just too many good concepts there that I was able to carry on after the fact. If someone could reply to this …
/r/ExRedPill24/07/20 12:16 AM
3

I have no problems with girls. I'm just saying, getting rejected (for anything) ever made me more confident about it. Hence why many men develop approach anxiety. Now, when you're successful after an approach, that's a confidence boost. Moreso than rejection. So if you're successful like 1/5 times, that's going to outweigh the 4 times you're rejected... and I think that's where the confidence comes from. Honestly, when I was worse with women and had severe approach anxiety, it was only those tim…
/r/ExRedPill24/07/20 12:05 AM
2

I'm glad you deep-dived that far back. A little bit creepy imo. I think you'd also notice that I'm taking my current relationship much more slowly. Bet let's look into that if you want. Say I did have a father that raised me wrong and that's why I'm twice divorced by *32* and for a while did treat women like shit. That just validates my point that you need good male role models in your life. So, congrats? And what I've taken from my experiences in life is how to shield my daughters from men like…
/r/ExRedPill23/07/20 11:29 PM
1

I'm not sure if rejection ever increased my confidence.
/r/ExRedPill23/07/20 11:21 PM
7

Soooo, what's the question? Or point? Or relation to exredpill? The only thing I'll say... you gotta learn to take rejection. Everyone gets rejected, all the time. If you never shoot your shot, you'll never get your points. At least with a few bricks, you'll eventually sink it in. Honestly, it's one of the things I like about abundance mentality... rejection is a lot less painful when you have something to fall back on. That being said, I never flirt with girls at work (regardless of industry) a…
/r/ExRedPill23/07/20 11:19 PM
-3

I disagree with this. I think you learn a lot more by hanging out with men that are more confident than you do with women. This part of TRP is true imo. My mom, most the girls I knew growing up, all their advice was "be a nice guy, gentlemen, blah blah". When I followed that advice, I was friend-zoned more than anything else.
/r/ExRedPill23/07/20 10:55 AM
2

That's a pretty big claim. I mean, I'll definitely agree with low-self esteem. But I don't think most the men there have mental health issues... that's just a passive-aggressive insult. I mean, shit, this is exredpill... by saying that a lot of the men there have mental issues means you're saying that a lot of men here have mental health issues.
/r/ExRedPill23/07/20 10:53 AM
2

Have you checked out /r/askmen? There are lots of places. I mean, even redpill, if you just look at their suggested books, you'll find some decent content.
/r/ExRedPill23/07/20 10:50 AM
1

Honestly, Things like RP is sometimes a step a man has to take to find the right center. If you raised him right, with the ability for empathy and critical thinking... he'll come around and find good middle ground. That's the problem with so many young people finding TRP before they've had any life experience. I saw elsewhere that he seems to have some good relative role models atm and I would let that evolve. Men need men to learn how to be men. He'll learn from them and when he attempts to say…
/r/ExRedPill20/07/20 04:38 AM
1

click it and it will show you all of his posts.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/20 04:33 AM
1

I'm not in the house of "You have to experience it to be an expert". That's just dumb. Most experts in any field haven't "experienced it". That being said, she's obviously not an expert... she didn't even understand something as simple as spinning plates and just decided she "didn't like them" because they say some mean things. Or, more likely, she tried to post in there with little knowledge, experience, empathy, or understanding and got slaughtered. They didn't seek her out, she sought them ou…
/r/ExRedPill18/07/20 08:05 AM
1

I think that's primarily because it's much easier to see the "Anger" and other phases of RP before the self-actualization. If they looked at the transformation of men after RP, like, really after. After all the manipulating, the random sex, the body transformation, the anger, reducing women, etc, you'll see that the men that joined TRP are now transformed into well-fit, well-adjusted, and successful people of society. Everybody, even if they don't know it, go through a "TRP"-esque stage in their…
/r/ExRedPill18/07/20 07:58 AM
1

Well, technically it is called "Exredpill"... I wouldn't expect any praising of it would be common here. But even people in this sub have said RP has some good "Self-help" stuff. They just try not to give RP credit by saying "But you can find that anywhere". Well, we didn't, we found it at RP. Why would you consider yourself RP right now? What do you agree/disagree with?
/r/ExRedPill18/07/20 07:53 AM
1

Yeah, there are obvious drawbacks and some rewiring you have to do to see women as more than sex objects that you can easily manipulate. I still slide back sometimes too. Luckily, although I still me myself using TRP techniques to keep her, I found about as close to a unicorn as you can get. I've told her about TRP "truths" and how I still agree with Captain /First Mate stuff and she agrees. She's changed my views on commitment and marriage quite a bit.
/r/ExRedPill17/07/20 05:10 PM
2

The description of this sub is very similar to ex-cult, AA, etc help groups. It IS anonymous and it's called exredpill. Some things are, in fact, okay to gatekeep. If she were a person (man or woman) that was affected directly by TRP, sure, np. But it's just someone who read their stuff, didn't understand it, and then joined the circlejerk on all the subs against TRP... That doesn't help anyone. It's better if this were more FUBU.
/r/ExRedPill17/07/20 05:04 PM
-3

I mean, do what you want, but I wouldn't want someone without alcohol or addiction sitting in on people's AA meetings. I mean, you can usually get the same circlejerk answers here as you do on PPD, just more predictable here usually because there isn't any debate. I think I'm the only prior redpiller that still thinks it did some good (especially for me).
/r/ExRedPill16/07/20 02:08 PM
2

It's like going to AA... there are different groups. ANON and such for dependents. There is a sub for circle-jerking about TRP and that's /r/bluepill . And, btw, there are Redpillwomen over at /r/redpillwomen. Also, /r/purplepilldebate is one of my personal favorites as they like to discuss all this stuff. In fact, I'd say, with some rephrasing, that purplepilldebate is probably a great place to post this.
/r/ExRedPill16/07/20 11:20 AM
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Yeah, I'm just waiting for them to tip their fedora.
/r/ExRedPill16/07/20 11:02 AM
-3

As /u/upliv2 posted, that's what they mean by spinning plates. While yes, Plate is a metaphor for women in that instance, it doesn't mean "Manipulating women into thinking I'll commit...." What it is saying is that "you should have multiple women at once in order to gain an abundance mentality and avoid one-itis". It also helps with self-esteem. I know you want to make it sound more outward focused, but the reality of it is that it is more inward-focused. I'd recommend if you're going to be exre…
/r/ExRedPill16/07/20 11:01 AM
-8

That's not what spinning a plate even means. I get the terminology for TRP is ofter bad, but most of the reason for them is to be used as a visual metaphor. I mean, that's where TRP itself comes from. I wouldn't expect since the whole idea behind TRP is metaphoric that they'd incorporate it into a lot of their terminology.
/r/ExRedPill16/07/20 10:39 AM
1

They are all part of the mantra... including going to the GYM... Rule #1 of TRP. Not saying they only belong to TRP, but TRP was the first place I heard/saw those things.
/r/ExRedPill10/07/20 07:05 PM
1

Like I said, I didn't really buy the whole manipulative thing. I did try to be more masculine. I went to the gym, my body started looking good. I tried to take over finances, I tried to make more decisions instead of just saying whatever, banter, and overall took the genuine parts. I guess my wife and I were too far gone. But all those things I learned helped me build my confidence and helped me start future relationships on the right foot. I didn't really buy into the whole dread thing.
/r/ExRedPill09/07/20 06:18 PM
1

You literally said you can end reading here. Why bring up wise 14 year olds when they're the outlier. That doesn't really promote the point.
/r/ExRedPill09/07/20 06:11 PM
1

That's a great and valid point. Just,this whole feminist vs. antifeminist is pretty much all online. I'm just trying to change the conversation to a more amicable one.
/r/AntiFeminists09/07/20 06:08 PM
1

This doesn't mean everyone and doesn't mean there aren't outliers. I had shitty experiences as a kid... then as an adult realized most of them weren't as serious as my childish mind thought they were.
/r/ExRedPill09/07/20 05:57 AM
2

If you take that as me replying to your situation and not an addendum to your post, that's more on you for taking it that way. I find it interesting you've found more 14-year-olds w/ more wisdom than adults. I definitely haven't and doubt it's the majority. And sorry about the spiritual/religious confusion... you said to stop reading, so I did, but I scrolled to see if there was something more and saw "HEAVEN IS NOW" and just assumed you were bringing in religion.
/r/ExRedPill09/07/20 05:55 AM
1

I'm not even here defending her... I agree with you... But you're exactly what's wrong. I strongly recommend 48 laws of power... it'll probably help.
/r/AntiFeminists09/07/20 05:48 AM
1

Because you're just feeding the stereotype that we're all just angry men that are upset about whatever leftists want to say we're upset about. I'd suggest reading 48 rules of power. And I don't know if you're actually angry, but the tone of your text comes across that way. The question, however, isn't really important... it's rhetorical. And while it comes across that she came here because of how she was treated, I'm sure the fascist ideology that drove her away played a larger part. And, this i…
/r/AntiFeminists08/07/20 03:47 PM
1

I think a few things popularized it... ​ 1.) Hook up culture. More liberal and less Jesus means a lot more booty 2.) As much as I hate to give them credit for anything, Feminists. Feminists and the whole "it's cool to be slutty thing has probably opened the door for women to be open about it. 3.) As part of Hook up culture, movies like 'Friends with Benefits" and "No strings Attached" and other movies that show people just hooking up then falling in love, popularized it. 4.) The actual success c…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 03:41 PM
1

Don't have to be so angry about it. That doesn't give you or the community a better image. I pretty much said the same thing you said without visible anger in your writing.
/r/AntiFeminists08/07/20 03:28 PM
2

I love you for showing me this.
/r/AntiFeminists08/07/20 03:23 PM
1

I wouldn't take people's acceptance of what you say as to whether something is right or not... Or it will still create a confirmation bias. I'm glad you feel more welcome here, and personally, I think our little community is the right one, but just remember critical thinking, listening, and thinking about what you say are always more important than what people say. It's essentially what drove a lot of us from feminism because they rarely do any of those 3 things.
/r/AntiFeminists08/07/20 03:22 PM
5

It's typically that they aren't woke or feminist enough, etc. It's like you and I were, male feminists in our 20s... then you grow up and really get "woke" to life and reality. So, every new college class, there is a whole group of new 18-20 somethings that get fake "Woke" for a while until they end up like us eventually. It's a growth, maturity, and life experience thing. All kids are idealists until they realize that sometimes things are working right, working counter to what I think, or just …
/r/AntiFeminists08/07/20 03:19 PM
-1

Stopped at the religious stuff. But, here is the problem with TRP... it's really good at getting people laid and... however, it's audience changed from frustrated adults to high school teenagers and college kids. People that swallowed the pill were supposed to have life experience before taking it (Just like the movie). You can't be scorned by the world as a teenager. You can barely be scorned by it as a 25 year old... but again, these kids started taking the pill and instead of going into it wi…
/r/ExRedPill08/07/20 03:08 PM
3

Screw that, I love socks 🧦
/r/MensRights18/06/20 01:29 PM
1

It's exactly contrary to your post. You think being direct is bad, I think it's necessary.
/r/seduction16/06/20 07:09 AM
6

Man, I disagree. When I go out to anywhere, I'm usually direct about my intentions. As an example, met a girl, we started chatting it up. Told her I'm not looking for anything serious (she was), but we did exchange info. We kept in slight contact, mainly me trying to set up a date. She texts me one night to come drink with her at her place. She became a new FWB. Abundance, persistence, and honesty are pretty much my motto and it works 9/10.
/r/seduction14/06/20 06:38 PM
19

Here's the thing, if you're straightforward and get rejected and play it cool afterward, they know. Something may or may not happen in the future, but there won't be any nervous feeling around them anymore and it's likely you won't lose a friend. On the flip side, if you're awkward and never express yourself and just hold it in, they can tell, and you'll be the awkward guy they won't want to be around. Honesty has got me laid 1000x more than pussyfooting. I read some more of your replies. If she…
/r/seduction14/06/20 06:29 PM
1

I'm a dude, and solid 7... higher, depending who you ask. But def in the top 20% of men if #s mean anything... because of those other attributes in your system. But sorry bro, I don't swing your way.
/r/MensRights26/05/20 05:15 AM
1

I must not hang out with those guys enough because... what is the "Any port in the storm" spiel? Like, I get the analogy, but not sure what their spiel is.
/r/MensRights26/05/20 02:16 AM
-2

Sure. The scale has for decades been used for one thing. Now you want to say that your scale is a variable based scale when you got called out on something that doesn't make you right. And by the off chance that you are some weirdo that uses it as an equation... that's just some "Nice Guy" antics.
/r/MensRights26/05/20 02:14 AM
2

But that really doesn't matter. They just want Chad dick and maybe he'll drop a baby in them, they can find some simp to take care of it.
/r/MensRights25/05/20 11:53 PM
-2

It's not really much different than the age-old "She's fuckable" we used to do in the 90s..
/r/MensRights25/05/20 11:52 PM
-4

or possibly, the guy was being shallow, but as soon as he got called out on it, he replied "It's all in my equation". Let's be honest with ourselves... the 1-10 scale is about looks.
/r/MensRights25/05/20 10:34 PM
6

Because the top percent of men will still sleep with them.
/r/MensRights25/05/20 10:29 PM
5

Right? They need to try and build a good image and the top-rated comment is calling women cunts. You want to ask why people that support Men's Rights don't claim MRA is because of shit like this. It's no different than Radfems.
/r/MensRights25/05/20 10:27 PM
1

1st reply is absurd. The LGB community, in most of the US and even coming to Asia (look at Taiwan), is almost completely accepted as a normal part of society. Sure there are outlier areas and people, but even in homophobic areas, homophobic people will "tolerate" them. They wouldn't tolerate trans and the fact that we even have something such as TERF further shows that. It's even in the name "Trans-exclusionary". ​ I'm sorry, but if you want to call yourself a woman and be treated like a woman, …
/r/MensRights22/05/20 06:01 AM
2

To literally be Hitler, you'd have to be him or related to him. You're looking for the world Figuratively or similar or one of those words that literally mean what you're trying to say.
/r/MensRights22/05/20 05:41 AM
2

Literally?
/r/MensRights20/05/20 06:20 AM
1

While I completely disagree that there are more than two gemders, rock on for setting them in their place. Tbf though, I think this why trans have it hardest in LGBT, because they don't have a solid side that supports them. Terfs, like yourself, oppose them and the right just doesn't want them forcing their ideology. I'm in the middle. I support people to be whatever they want to be, but don't force it down my throat. People typically don't like being told what to do, especially if they are alre…
/r/MensRights20/05/20 06:13 AM
1

These people are sometimes just as cooky as you people. I'm with people feeling how they want to feel. If you look, act, and try to present yourself as a woman, I'm gonna call you a woman. If you're a dude wearing women's clothing but don't want to be considered a woman I'll just call you a cross-dresser (is transvestite correct?). Anyway, comments like the one you're replying to is why you will never see me call myself an MRA, even though many would consider me alt-right for my views. Because a…
/r/MensRights20/05/20 05:45 AM
3

Also, in a LGBT group, she just alienated 1/2 of that group.
/r/MensRights20/05/20 05:37 AM
1

I must misunderstand reddit terribly. Don't you usually address the reply in replies and not the original post?
/r/ExRedPill15/05/20 09:31 AM
1

Similarly to guys, they want to get off. I know it sounds like a pussy thing to do, but asking shit like "Is this better, how about here, etc." And as a guy, it helps you learn too. The more practice you get, the better. Some girls really know how to communicate and can teach you. But anyone in a healthy relationship should be able to talk to each other and get each other in a good spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 04:05 PM
1

Eye contact is great for BJs, doesn't really matter for HJs (at least not for me). Moaning and kissing is good. But I mean, no need to become a HJ pro, when BJs are almost always better.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 04:01 PM
2

I'm guessing your brand of confidence is overly cocky. Confidence is a tricky thing to describe because you don't always know when you have it until you do. It's like an aura that can be sensed. It's in micro-movements and subconscious ticks. From the sound of it, you're feigning confidence (which is a great start), but not genuinely confident.
/r/ExRedPill12/05/20 03:26 PM
1

I typically think of the "Head" as the part that's the same as the clit. You can't just squeeze the hell out of the head and expect it to feel good, just like I can't squeeze the hell out of a clit and expect it to feel good (maybe for some fetish types, but not average). Honestly, it's a combination of the rythm (start slow, speed up, be consistent, no abrupt stopping (unless you're teasing)) and the moans. I can't tell you how significant it is to hear a girl moan while doing stuff to me... it…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 03:22 PM
1

Actually, I don't mind a little teeth (not biting and not heavy, just a little scrape). But that's really dependent on the guy. Honestly, it all is up to personal preference and kink. My recommendation is just to talk to your partner/s and see what they like. Don't get offended if they tell you they'd prefer you do one thing or another and then don't be afraid to also tell them what gets you off. Really, most people just lack communication. Improve communication in the bedroom and everyone will …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 03:17 PM
0

Unless he has edited his post, he never once mentioned abusing women. He's talking about having been abused and you're berating him.
/r/ExRedPill12/05/20 03:12 PM
1

I guess it depends what you consider "playing the game". Honestly, I only got confident once I started going out and meeting people. Realizing I could get sex from girls that weren't my wife post-divorce gave me more confidence than I ever had in my life. With more confidence, I get smarter, prettier, and typically less attainable girls, which kept that cycle going. Now I'm in a loving relationship (something I didn't think would happen again) with a girl that is a fiend for me. Either way, it t…
/r/ExRedPill12/05/20 03:09 PM
1

Depends how hard he is. If he's top peak as hard as he can get, women can't usually squeeze hard enough to hurt it. Of course, bending it or anything other than a squeeze would hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 03:02 PM
1

I'm with ya... not that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 03:01 PM
1

Same, except with BJs. My current gf is the only person that I've finished with from a BJ.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 03:00 PM
1

My gf gives me HJ literally everywhere. BJ if she can, but some situations like walking to the store at night, walking backwards on her knees just doesn't make sense... She pretty much sneaks a handy whenever she can... I don't cum from them, but they're still well received.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 02:58 PM
1

A mouth and hand is usually better for me. I like the combination of both. I haven't been able to cum otherwise. But I guess all of us are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 02:56 PM
1

I mean, it's one of many options. Sometimes a HJ is good. Personally, I love BJ > HJ, but I'll take a handy from someone too. And it's a common, natural progression to go HJ > BJ > Sex for a lot of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 02:55 PM
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They are a bit finicky... similar to clits. In fact, I'm pretty sure they have similar stimuli. Cuz while I don't cum from HJs, sometimes the head will be way more sensitive than other times (post-cum sensitivity while not having came) and other times I could get a HJ for hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 02:53 PM
2

I talk to my gfs all the time and they talk to me about sex. We discuss what could be better, etc. Try having an open conversation, be the leader, it might help. Supposedly you're redpill, you should act like it. You shouldn't be reading their mind, you should be actively engaging them so that they tell you what they're thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 02:49 PM
1

Literally the same as the clit, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 02:44 PM
1

space under the balls is called the taint. And all that is dependent on dudes freak level. Some like a finger in the butt, some like the taint... some just want their balls fondled. Balls is safe, then discuss further what they'd like.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 02:43 PM
1

Biting = no. But a little teeth graze if done right can be pretty good.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 02:42 PM
1

Yet, still the perfect way to have period sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 02:30 PM
1

It's not about the blood, it's about the smell. The smell of blood does NOT make me horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 02:29 PM
0

You should be happy to be banned from MGTOW.
/r/AntiFeminists12/05/20 01:42 PM
1

They can't help it. They're ugly lesbians that started hating men after their uncle diddled them. Instead of getting help, they just went crazy.
/r/AntiFeminists12/05/20 01:42 PM
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I mean, it's still confidence. Men that play the game tend to have confidence. That's how you can get those really ugly PUAs that can still pick up girls quite often. It's partly a numbers game, but with my history, I get too much approach anxiety, so I just had to make sure I was really confident with the girls I actually did approach. Of course, you can't win if you don't play the game, so yes, playing the game will get you laid too. I don't think anyone, even in this sub, would disagree that …
/r/ExRedPill12/05/20 01:28 PM
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There is a difference between all of the things you have mentioned. However, like most normal people, you can have a view without following the circlejerk in reddit. I'm anti-feminist and am not a fan of SJW, etc. I'm also purple pillish, but I'm rarely in many of those subs anymore because they are all a big circlejerk that are, like you said, no better than the feminists. But I don't see why you need another circlejerk to get you out of the ones you're in (although this sub doesn't censor). Ju…
/r/ExRedPill10/03/20 05:25 AM
2

Oh, you definitely need to visit more subs. But I agree, people should never be up voting violence or downvoting its opposition.
/r/AntiFeminists10/03/20 04:48 AM
0

If you can't understand branding and that people that aren't already part of RP will turn this down simply based on name, you need to research marketing. The fact you can't take some criticism on how to help with your next book, further shows that you already aren't capable to think outside your little box and I'm sure the book will reflect that same bias.
/r/RedPillBooks10/03/20 04:45 AM
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This is a subreddit, you tow the line or the circlejerk will downvote you to oblivion. It's the same on all subs.
/r/AntiFeminists10/03/20 03:59 AM
1

If that's the extent of your linguistic capability and thought, I might as well not even read it for free.
/r/RedPillBooks10/03/20 03:25 AM
0

Roderick Kane is fine. Atavision or whatever isn't.
/r/RedPillBooks10/03/20 01:56 AM
1

I'm not whining. I'm trying to give you some practical advise so that people discredit you before they read it. I'm still going to check it out, but I figured you could take the criticism. Sorry for hurting your ego.
/r/RedPillBooks10/03/20 01:23 AM
1

The anger phase is directed towards women typically, but women aren't directly the reason for the anger phase. They're more angry at their naivety than anything else. Their dumbasses were duped for so long that it's hard to place that anger. Remember, these were the fedora-tipping virgins. Imagine their frustration when their identity is destroyed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 01:00 AM
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If only you didn't have such a pretentious name that seems super corny to write under and instead wrote under your own name; which is actually a strong name, then people wouldn't second-guess the credibility of this book before even reading it.
/r/RedPillBooks10/03/20 12:35 AM
1

But you gotta say what you mean, not what sounds nice. I had a girl that I've lost partly because she would come over and say it's fine if I played my games but it wasn't true. Ultimately it's not good for her to come over while he's playing. 1 because he'll start thinking it's okay to do regularly and 2 she won't be happy about it.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/19 08:42 AM
1

Game night is game night. And some games are obligations to other people. Sometimes 30 other people are waiting / depending o on you to show up. That's why we typically don't invite our SO over for game night, because 6 hrs later they'll make another post about us still being on the game. My suggestion, if you really want to alpha him, don't come over on game night. He'll either feel worse and make it up to you or he'll start finding a better compromise. In some instances, it even made me quit p…
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/19 01:22 PM
1

But would that be the truth?
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/19 01:17 PM
1

I kinda want to know what the game is called. But like the original commenter, I'm similar to your bf. I live overseas, so time for me to play and socialize with friends can be a chore. We aren't rejecting you, but male bonding is important too. For me, it's also my primary release of stress. Personally while I prefer my other not come over when I'm playing (I feel compelled to interact with her) I invite her over so she knows it's not an excuse and I don't have any other chicks over.
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/19 01:15 PM
2

RP doesn't fall into explained's definition of a cult because it's not trying to gain anything from the members. It also doesn't have a central charismatic figurehead.
/r/ExRedPill20/10/19 07:55 AM
1

It works because not replying means you have a life essentially. Things like the 48 laws of power aren't solely part of redpill.
/r/ExRedPill22/09/19 02:31 PM
1

I would link you the video I made for class explaining why feminism fucked it all up, but pretty much /u/Azkik got it right (and on forums like this, anonymity is key). Feminism is a 1st world problem. What I mean by that, is you have to be in a 1st world to even consider feminism. When you go to 3rd world countries, you'll find that a lot of women will go into STEM because it's a means to survive, but in the US where we have all luxuries afforded to us, women tend to do terribly in STEM, have l…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 09:05 AM
1

Yeah, I might try those. Honestly, I don't really use tinder all that much anymore. I have plenty of interactions outside of OLD. Maybe when I'm in a slump I'll do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 04:47 AM
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I'm 36. At 32 when I first started tinder I'd get constant matches with girls as young as 19/20. Until around 34 it was alright. I'm thinking 35 and up is a bit much for them now. When I match now, they're typically 27ish and up. I even swipe girls that are unattractive that are at or above my age to test it sometimes, but still no match.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 10:00 AM
1

Yeah, I think its different. I'm okay looking, but by far, it's my game/personality that gets me casual sex all the time. I'm slightly overweight, so while I'm 5'11" and fill out okay, it's by and large my game. I know this, because when I was in better shape and younger in the marine corps, I wasn't getting laid nearly as much as I do now. I look 28ish, but on my tinder, it has my real age, which I also think is a disqualifier for a lot of girls, cuz I wasn't having any problems when I first go…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 11:21 AM
1

Must be it, cuz it looks good now
/r/ExRedPill26/08/19 11:14 AM
1

Ugly people having orgies don't mean much to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 02:05 AM
1

Is his gf and her friend good-looking? Anyone can have a 3some with a bunch of 2s.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 11:41 PM
10

How are they messaging them if they aren't matching them?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 10:54 PM
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Oh isn't that awesome yeah? Men trying to kill themselves, just what you always wanted. There is also a buttload of studies that show tinder isn't even close to a realistic representation of looks. Ugly chicks get validation as much as hot chicks while only the best-looking guys are getting swiped in most cases. If you call 7 average, then yeah, guys are learning they're less than average from tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 10:53 PM
1

Oh, dnd is the new cool thing, didn't ya know? It's no longer just for awkward nerds.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 10:47 PM
1

That's hilarious and sounds ridiculous. How many famous people you heard of have trouble with women? Even awkward goofballs like michael sera or his superbad short buddies (can't remember their names rn) get laid if they're famous. Those guys would have no luck if they weren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 10:46 PM
1

I use Reddit is Fun app too. I've never had this type of font.
/r/ExRedPill25/08/19 12:09 AM
1

Actually, it doesn't. But I'll go look it up sometime today and give you a reply.
/r/ExRedPill24/08/19 12:50 AM
1

Just so you know, a sample size of 27 is all that is needed to get a 97% or so accuracy. Might be 95%, I didn't like stats class. However, you're right about the sample pool. It isn't generalized enough as it only focuses on a group of people that are more likely to meet strangers.
/r/ExRedPill23/08/19 05:57 PM
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Yep, now go help those people that aren't as privileged.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 10:50 AM
1

You think the men you described would need the manosphere to get laid? Think logically here, the manosphere isn't made up of the successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 10:41 AM
7

You don't have to be a doctor to have an opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 10:36 AM
4

Due to feminism, happiness is down.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 10:34 AM
1

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 10:27 AM
1

That's the problem. Radfems and feminists in general need to be fighting for the other countries women, not arguing their 1st world non-existent problems in the US. I'm anti-feminist, but I live in Japan and think we could use a little feminism here. But no, they'd rather use their voice to hate on men in the us. And don't blame young, male children for these problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 10:19 AM
4

Back when I was a "nice guy", when I wasn't looking is when it would flood in. TRP has some basis in that, because it's similar to abundance mentality. I recommend solely focusing on your own improvement without considering what women see in it or for the purpose of attracting women, and they'll come as a biproduct
/r/ExRedPill22/08/19 09:27 AM
0

Just because TRP has a lot of bad stuff, it's not all incorrect. Many women like being dominated in bed. It shows your strength and power. Thing is, if you don't like it, you have to talk about it. Your feelings are just as important.
/r/ExRedPill17/08/19 10:45 PM
1

What about the pullout method? I'm 0-50ish knocking up a chick with that didn't care if I used a condom with that method. Men need more self-control is all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 06:08 AM
0

No, it would be more like dogs unintentionally pee in the house because they are marking territory. Whether we know they're consciously doing it or not, who knows. But yes, it does probably have something to do with their relationship with the owner to establish who the "alpha" is. Dog whisperer taught me that much. Dogs will act up (from our point of view) because they don't see us as the leader.
/r/ExRedPill11/08/19 03:07 PM
2

Because we'd rather have custody.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 12:57 PM
1

From TRP, I got a weight lifting workout, I read NMMNG and WISNIFG, both confidence and self-respect boosting books. So, yes, while there is a lot of "how to interact" with women, it's not core of it imo. In fact, I don't think a single thing on the sidebar is about that (haven't looked in forever, so dunno)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 09:41 PM
1

You obviously don't know anything about TRP. Shit, rule #1 is lift. There are many reasons this is rule #1, confidence, testosterone, dedication. Game is like the bottom of the list after you have everything else. In fact, even exredpill and anti-redpill subs will admit that the only good thing about it is the self-help aspect. Usually the only complaint is "misogyny". You've just proven you have no idea what TRP is actually about, lol. And people that join TRP know that those things obviously m…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 09:33 PM
2

It has, multitudes of times. You can also check blackpillscience as they post all that stuff too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 08:14 PM
1

Why did you delete your comment to my reply?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 08:09 PM
1

Didn't you know, caps make your statement truer. Those 3 things are exactly what TRP tries and teach guys. You essentially saying that guys that have to learn it just have no chance should give up. That's just dumb. I know it helped me for sure. And that's the goal, serious improvements in all 3 pillars of that. Also, game and personality do help, but I'd add confidence makes even more of an impact. Wtf are you talking about with the 45-degree thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 08:06 PM
2

Buster, do a simple search in this sub. I'm not gonna spend time doing it for you. It's been posted repeatedly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 08:04 PM
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Dude, I'm with you, but it's well documented that women do most the work at home as well. However, I believe this is just natural. When I used to try and help my ex with stuff she'd just bitch about how I did it. However, when she'd be on a business trip, my house was a well-oiled machine. Kids in bed by 9,showered,fed,teeth brushed, homework done, story read. Then I'd stay up until 10 or 11 getting stuff ready for the next day, play games for an hour or 2 after thag, then head to bed. Rinse and…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 06:27 PM
3

The difference is, at least in my and my friends experience, we kind of wish the mother would just bail and leave the kids with us.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 06:18 PM
3

This is the most annoying thing about these leftist and feminist types, they got weird acronyms for everything. Fucking hipsters man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 06:10 PM
1

So, what you're dictating to me is I don't know what I like or what feels good? It's those elitists that made me think that getting deepthroated by a hot Asian nympho feels good?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 06:08 PM
2

Are you suggesting men (and women) don't and shouldn't have preferences? I got a buddy that loves fat women, fatter the better. I'm more into subtlety thicc women. Occasionally I'll lower my standards, but I don't often need to. But for those guys that don't have many options, are you standard-shaming them?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 06:05 PM
1

Wtf does otoh mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 06:01 PM
1

Wtf does ducy mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 05:59 PM
1

I get what you're saying now. But it doesn't make sense in this debate. We're talking about teaching men to gain an advantage in the competitive environment to the point where they aren't going to bitch about it anymore because they're slaying hot chicks. You're suggesting guys just bang ugly chicks. Makes sense, and some guys seriously overestimate their smv when they really should just be banging the uglies.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 05:53 PM
1

Where did you point out feminism being our friend? I didn't see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 05:48 PM
3

Yeah, makes no sense. If environment is the reason, then all those strict, conservative households would never have a gay kid. Unless someone violated them in their youth, but of course that never happened and couldn't have any bearing on their orientation or hate for men (in regards to lez).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 05:45 PM
0

The guys pver at Exredpill actually tend to give some solid advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 05:42 PM
1

Word, this is exactly right. Especially that last paragraph.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 05:39 PM
2

He was attempting the Ole humblebrag insult combo.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 05:37 PM
1

8 definitely helps with that. But if you match, who doesn't get a response? Besides that, some people are shit texters (myself) but can hold really good conversations in person. Your humble brag that provided nothing, wasn't necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 05:36 PM
2

There is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 05:34 PM
1

I mean, that's the point. They aren't trying to debate the top 20% getting laid, that's common RP knowledge. What they're saying is low smv women can find high smv guys more easily now, inflating what they think their real smv. Whereas low smv guys aren't going to get that same access to even equal smv women (since those women have an inflated sense of smv).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 05:33 PM
3

Okc and other sites like tinder have released the info and it's been posted on PPD enough to be common knowledge. From someone that debated against it before, it's a simple lookup.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 05:29 PM
2

Yep. I don't like negging so much, but I'll call a girl out if she's having a shit attitude sometimes and it's amazing how well it works to grab their attention and put you in authority. You just might have to pass a few shit tests afterwards and you're solid.
/r/ExRedPill09/08/19 05:24 PM
2

And what happens in a list when someone goes down? Others go up. It's harsh that you and most girls may not recognize it, but dragging another down is attempt to puff yourself up. Men do it too in order to portray some sort of fake dominance. It rarely works though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 02:44 PM
1

Every woman is a 'pick me' in the beginning of the relationship of a man they want. I assume it's to try and 'hook them'. However, they typically change. Whereas those that try to separate 'pick me' girls from normal girls (although, unless lez, they have been 'pick me' in their life) will hate on girls that really are different, like shoeonhead. In my experience, women are very duplicitous. Act one way in front of competition and another way in front of 'their man'.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 02:35 PM
1

I think it's completely possible they don't even truly understand their strategy, as it's natural to them.
/r/ExRedPill07/08/19 12:50 PM
2

Not sure why you got downvoted, this is pretty accurate and understood by women and people outside the world of TRP. I guess maybe cuz of your shitty font.
/r/ExRedPill07/08/19 12:48 PM
1

I think if you're good at game, you can understand it. People that truly know game, know how to adapt it to the woman they're approaching. It's not one method fits all.
/r/ExRedPill07/08/19 12:43 PM
1

Agreed. Also agreed that 90% of ask TRP posters are anger phase or teenagers with no real life experience.
/r/ExRedPill07/08/19 12:40 PM
0

How can we listen to people that don't get basic facts correct. The human race hasn't even been around hundred of thousands of years. And I don't think the poster understands what the halo effect is and that it affects men as well. As soon as someone gets those basic facts wrong, I just stop reading. That being said, I'll take advice on women from my natural alpha friends over my female friends any day.
/r/ExRedPill07/08/19 12:37 PM
2

I see that we're on slightly different sides of purple, but close enough that I'm willing to let the differences go. As long as we agree on this bidet thing, I'll be your friend, haha. Luckily, I live in Japan, so public toilets often have bidets as well. Thailand is the weirdest though. They either have bidet type hoses next to the toilet or their wipe with paper and throw it in the bin (guessing their sewage infrastructure isn't so great). But I'm with you... I don't feel like I have a clean a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 10:01 AM
1

A lame response about my lame response about not trusting women. weak. But seriously, I've responded plenty elsewhere on this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 09:53 AM
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What simple question? What I expect to hear? Or imagine? In what reference? To this conversation? To their conversations? Your question is too vague and has no subject as a reference so I just ignored it, because you're attempting to make some grandiose point that will fall flat. Perhaps if you rephrased it, I'd attempt to answer it, but I'm pretty sure you're just gonna say something like, "If you don't know what I'm asking, you really are dumb" or some other bullshit that people with vague que…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 05:18 PM
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Got it. Like, "I'm not the girl you're looking for" type of jedi mind trick thing? I could see that being super effective to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 04:03 PM
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You are conflating the actions of a women living in extreme comfort with her true female nature. Well, good thing we're living in extreme comfort and until the apocalypse happens, I'm not conflating anything. do you think she would stay with you if you could not provide her the security she needs? Of course not, why would she? I wouldn't stay with me either. If I couldn't provide that, I'd be also looking for a stronger group to make sure I'm safe. Luckily, we don't live in the apocalypse and lu…
/r/ExRedPill06/08/19 12:27 PM
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Firstly, I just noticed your flair and I agree, Bidets are fucking awesome. Every country should use them regularly. The crazy fuck that will put her in a body bag is demented enough to put her in a body bag regardless. This is like the "gun" debate. Guns don't kill people, people kill people. Give them a weapon (or in this situation, and excuse) and they'll do what they were going to do anyway. So, the best option, is to reject directly and then retreat to your friends and be safe... don't walk…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 12:19 PM
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A hear a moderate fraction of many conversations often. I suppose I'm lucky enough that I work at bars with set peak/decline times (peak at 12am/3am). During those times, yeah, I rarely hear shit. But during the slower times, all you see is dudes trying to mac on chicks. I see more experiences in a night than an individual girl would have in a night. And it's interesting, because my bar is likely in a different geography than you'd expect and I see multiple cultures (mainly Asians (TW, KR, JP, T…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 12:12 PM
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Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 10:25 AM
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Yeah, probably around 50 is accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 08:25 AM
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K
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 07:01 AM
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Obviously I don't hear everyone at once. But, you know, there are bar counters and such where it's easy to listen and interact. Half the fun is watching the people go through hoops to try and get laid and watching women reject/accept their advances.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 07:01 AM
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Right, but they can see the rejection either way you say it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 06:58 AM
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Exactly, luck. But aside from that, how many guys approached that didn't get creepy?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 06:57 AM
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The realities of the job make me consider whether you have. Your job as a customer service rep and especially a bartender is to interact with customers, watch what's going on , etc. Perhaps because I've never bartended at a corporate place, which is a completely different interaction, I'm sure. I work at places where people are often trying to get laid and as a result, see these interactions nonstop.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 06:48 AM
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That's not an example of hypergamy, that's an example of survival. Also, in this day and age, SAHM is far less common and women don't necessarily rely on men as much. Gay men can do this too. Shit, even I do this to an extent. My gf cosigns my house and car because she's loaded.
/r/ExRedPill06/08/19 06:41 AM
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That's good and hope it works out for you. From my understanding, Grey rocking ia not even acknowledging them?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 06:11 AM
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If it were reversed, I wouldn't stay with her either. I'm not so desperate to sleep with homeless women, are you? I know love is chemical and hence why I don't fall for it. But I don't see the double standard. Most men aren't sleeping with bums either.
/r/ExRedPill06/08/19 05:58 AM
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You obviously weren't a very observant bartender, haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 05:53 AM
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I legit thought the average was around 7,thus 8 isn't that much bigger, yeah? Of course I have no idea how it feels, just assumed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 05:52 AM
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Did he say that in court or something. I'm sorry this happened to you, but I believe the guy would have reacted that way either way. He is obviously mentally unstable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 05:37 AM
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That's the thing isn't it. Sometimes persistence works, other times girls will complain, haha. But isn't 8" about average?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 05:22 AM
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I can't recall how often I lost my job while with my ex wife. She supported me and never left. I did eventually end up leaving her. But it was a dbr reason, not a hypergamous reason.
/r/ExRedPill06/08/19 05:19 AM
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What did you see on quora?
/r/ExRedPill06/08/19 05:15 AM
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Do you think the outcome would have been different if you indirectly rejected him?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 05:14 AM
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The felony is against you or someone else?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 05:00 AM
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Damn
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 04:59 AM
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I have worked at bars/clubs most of my adult life. We see approach/rejection more than most. We see how both men and women interact in those situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 04:14 AM
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My point is a fake rejection and a direct rejection are going to have the same result.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 04:11 AM
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How you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 03:58 AM
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Dude, that's hilarious. I should start making spreadsheeta for the girls I'm with. I'm casual, but I prefer to sleep with the same girl repeatedly, maybe a spreadsheet will help me find the ones that are more likely to stick around.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 03:57 AM
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Nice video.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 02:17 AM
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yeah, I've told friends that on numerous occasions. They respect it (I think) and I always get invited again in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 02:06 AM
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6'0" is shorter than you normally go for? Shit, I thought I was always solid at that height. Didn't realize even 6'0" might be too short now.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 02:04 AM
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You think Americans have been socialized into cushioning? Man, you need to go to Asia. They don't even cushion, they just find a weird way to deflect. It's almost magic.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 02:02 AM
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Women have told us a lot of stuff that isn't true throughout our lives. Things like "I just changed my shoes".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 01:59 AM
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I mean, refugees... There was also those massive rape gangbangs in Germany too, by refugees. That's not the norm tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 01:57 AM
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I think it probably goes in line with feminist thinking, which is why some people don't believe it. I personally think it's 50/50, but if you look at how feminists view every little microaggression, I hope you can see how some may think when you say no, and he replies with "are you sure?" or something, all of a sudden he's pestering. Even if he leaves right after you say "yeah, I'm sure". Sorry, couldn't find a better analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 01:56 AM
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Looking up videos would just be confirmation bias. Why would someone post the natural occurrence of simple rejections? Some could say the same thing. Look up some PUA vids. While, yes, they can be persistent, a lot of them get rejected constantly and don't splash acid in women's faces.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 01:54 AM
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He would have done that whether he was rejected with excuses or rejected directly though. Doesn't change that he's just a fuckwit. Similar to Elliot Rodgers. They see the world differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 01:52 AM
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Exactly. If you just said you changed your shoes, what stops him from saying, "well let's break them in together" or something else to counter your excuse? If they going to pester, they going to pester, regardless if it's an excuse or direct. At least with a direct answer, the guys that understand are going to respect you a hell of a lot more, just the like the women are probably going to respect the guy that doesn't pester a lot more.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 01:51 AM
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Thing is, the guys still know the "justification" is rejection. If a dude is gonna throw acid in your face for saying no, he's going to throw acid in your face for some BS excuse that's easily seen through.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 01:49 AM
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PUAs are about game, sure, but their main thing is approach. They play the numbers game. Basically, approach 100 girls, 1 will say yes. I seriously disagree with that. However, game is just something you have or you don't, or you learn. And those guys that have it naturally, also just learned through trial and error, so I don't see a problem learning some game.
/r/ExRedPill06/08/19 12:58 AM
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To be fair, "Approach more women" is essentially what PUA suggests. Honestly, these guys are probably RP, but they just decided to really focus on rule 1 instead of bitch and moan and blame women for everything. Which is what RP was supposed to be about. I still think game is important, but I'll definitely check these guys out.
/r/ExRedPill05/08/19 09:57 AM
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I haven't heard of that forum. And yeah, if "oneitis" has changed into "having any interest", then TRP has definitely changed from the days I traveled it's pages. I disagree that TRP is PUA at its core, but I do think things like game/plates are still important for me personally. But yeah, TRP is a little too much for me now that it's less about self-improvement and managing relationships and more incel talk. They seriously sound like a bunch of college kids that can't get laid, but pretend they…
/r/ExRedPill04/08/19 09:15 PM
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Yes, /asktrp is a cesspool filled with legit degenerates that have no idea wtf is going on. That being said, avoiding oneitis doesn't just mean pump and dump. It just means don't get attached. That's where building a harem and spinning plates comes into play. Avoiding oneitis is essentially keeping multiple women on a string. You typically don't fuck them once and done if you can keep them as a plate. Unless things have changed since I used to follow TRP. Also, I just saw a gem the other day on …
/r/ExRedPill04/08/19 03:18 AM
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This is essentially the reason against oneitis. It's not healthy if she's not on board with you.
/r/ExRedPill04/08/19 01:41 AM
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That's not quite accurate.
/r/ExRedPill04/08/19 01:41 AM
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Did someone recently hurt you? I've only ever asked ncount and then just do what I want. If we don't connect sexually, i.e. no anal, oh well. If we're together long enough, it'll happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 04:26 PM
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I haven't posted here in a while, but for some reason, this came up on my feed. WTF has happened to TRP when smoking is as serious of a red flag as you claim. This shit is just ludicrous and dumb. You take someone that probably got into the habit in highschool because her bf smoked or for guys because they wanted to look cool or whatever, get addicted to something that you really can't notice the harmful effects until you're much older, and then somehow they are now whores? Like wtf pipe ARE you…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/19 07:39 PM
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Exactly this. Stop finding an excuse to not go to the gym.
/r/ExRedPill02/08/19 07:14 PM
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This makes no sense. let me fix it. What number indicates how many partners women will allow whom to have? Women can have virtually as many partners as they want. They choose to have as many as they do. Where is that indicated in the numbers? No, hence my above point. Your above point was missing some subjects, so could you clarify your point for me?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 02:41 AM
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This is also a different place. I'd say most women aren't aware of TRP men and aren't in PPD and the such. At least not until after it was too late. But either way, it's after they've already got what they wanted by the time people realize or learn what TRP is. I'm actually curious how the women here ever heard of TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 03:26 AM
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Or healthy because the partner is now satisfied.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 03:18 AM
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Allows how many partners will allow whom to have? If you're talking about how many they'll allow men to have, then apparently men allow women to have fewer partners. Do you really think that men, who have made our world what it is, allow anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 03:12 AM
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Men with a high n-count is someone with a high status whereas a women with a high n-count is someone with a low status. Says who? Some of the most promiscuous women are also the most successful. They are career-focused and don't have time for family and relationships, but want to get one off occasionally. Your Ncount is not a relation to your status. I used to think this when I was early 20s or something, then once I started getting laid often, I realized none of that shit matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 12:25 AM
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Actually, she's still married. I'd link the report that was posted the other day about why people cheat, if I could find it. With that premise in mind, I can't really make an argument to your reply because your reply was assuming she was divorced, in which case, the study would be false. I only looked at the charts you suggested, is there a chart that talks about cheating? I control+F'd "cheat" and nothing came up.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 12:21 AM
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Maybe. But I think the mode would be a better indication. It's would show what MOST people are getting in regards to sex partners. Median would be too close to the mean imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 12:11 AM
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Most chicks in Thailand are easy. One of my old Fuck buddies was a microbiologist. It's a country where the Thai men to women ratio is 1/2, and it's poor, so when a nice looking foreign guy comes, there is a lot of potential for the ladies. And they aren't hindered by dumb shit like "I have to put up a front or they'll think I'm easy". I didn't say they'd fuck anyone though. Yes, there are some, but the girls in Thailand that have options, get to choose the best looking guys that visit. And ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 12:10 AM
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I think in Thailand, it's "Just be foreign and not creepy". Like some old Arab guy that isn't loaded would have a hard time (since they have a huge indian population as well), and Asians might have it rough, but if you're Asian-American, it shouldn't be a problem. Thailand really is a place that makes your dreams come true. I visit as much as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 12:01 AM
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I'm not sure what part of TRP it is that told you this. You mean about not having LTRs? If you want a relationship with her, have one. Nobody is stopping you. You should have confidence to do what you want. And what do you mean about her and me moving? Are you moving in together, is she moving or are you talking about the direction of your relationship? Personally, if it's about the direction of the relationship, just let it happen naturally. You're hanging together, of course you like each othe…
/r/ExRedPill31/07/19 11:40 AM
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What I've found with TRP is that it's typically useless for incels or guys that can't get sex sometimes (prior to TRP, I had about 12 partners and could get a gf and sex every 6 months or so). Then I got married. Found TRP, was never angry or whatever, and TRP just helped me further myself and my game. It helped me break a barrier that I always felt was there, but just couldn't find it. For most guys that join TRP, I don't think they'll ever really get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/19 11:27 AM
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See, you kind of made TRPs point there. You went through a slew of bad men (let's say those are TRPers) and settled for the beta. So, sure, the beta got you in the end, after all those guys got exactly what they wanted out of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/19 11:22 AM
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Have you heard of the 48 laws of power and the dark triad? I guarantee if you met me, you'd never know that I used to be TRP. You can still treat girls like equals, but know the right buttons to get them tingles.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/19 11:21 AM
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RP does suggest traveling the world. When it started, a lot of posts were about traveling to countries where you don't have to put up with women's resistance to sex, like Thailand or the Philippines. Many women in those countries will fuck an interesting guy with no hesitation. Shit, I live in Asia and last time I traveled to Thailand, I arrived 2am and was approached by a girl at 4am saying she "wanted to fuck me". In fact, traveling to Thailand from where I live would be cheaper than buying a …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/19 11:19 AM
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Dude, if I spent money on reddit, I'd give you a gold star, that's hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/19 11:15 AM
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Our roles have, our biology hasn't. We're still mentally hard-wired to reproduce and be protected.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/19 11:13 AM
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Incels and PUAs want to fuck anything that moves. Why is there this idea that Redpillers don't have standards? If I'm a good looking man, of course I can pull a good looking woman, what you said makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/19 11:12 AM
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I completely with this. I never joined TRP out of anger or revenge and just wanted to make my relationship with my ex wife better. It didn't work out, or it did. I ended up leaving her and her deadbedroom and legitimately found out that women want sex just as much as I do. All it did was confirm that I didn't need TRP anymore and I went my own way (Not in the MGTOW sense). I've been having a great, sex-filled, enjoyable life ever since.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/19 11:10 AM
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While I think it's just you going outside with the knowledge TRP gave you, instead of circlejerking about TRP all day, helped with you actually getting some attention. However, I don't have timelines for your story, so I can't tell you exactly what's happening. I can aswer with what happened to me though. Since I'm someone that doesn't wholly apply to TRP anymore (never post or read the drivel that's currently on there), I can tell you that developing your own personality makes a huge difference…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/19 11:06 AM
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I've been with my share of women. And yes, TRP was responsible for that and the truths are there in my experience. I am also often with girls that have an ncount of 10 or less. But the issue is that regardless of how "pure" a girl is, I can still get them in bed. So, ncount really doesn't matter. How is a person with an ncount around 80 gonna judge someone with an ncount of 5,that's just dumb. Sure, maybe at 18 it's high, like someone ekse said, but it's still not bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/19 10:50 AM
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It's the worst way to argue.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 02:52 PM
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Honestly, I agree with you. I think the numbers are low for both, male and female. Just trying to point out that even a bunch of girls we think are having sex, really aren't. Or, like my buddy (whom is quite attractive) will claim they slept with a girl, but when questioned, the girls admit to staying over, but not actually sleeping with him (I don't think he actually knows how to transition from the "nice guy that gives them a place to stay" to the guy slaying.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 02:51 PM
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I see. Well then, he's completely right. Women never have sex, like ever. Must be a bunch of artificial inseminations going on. Even better, perhaps it's all immaculate conception.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 02:47 PM
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It's no use. While I do occasionally humblebrag (for scope, not for the ego), I intentionally didn't do it here and rather pointed out the studies. This guy is just dead set on not having a losing argument that he proposes a strawman instead. No use to keep going with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 02:45 PM
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Well, then you just refuse to see what's right in front of you. And there is no arguing with people that willfully blind themselves to the truth. So, yeah, have a good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 01:46 PM
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I completely agree with that. She's not from the US, but yeah, I doubt it's much lower than 17 where she's from. I don't disagree that it's more promiscuous. I just disagree that it's promiscuous at all. If you get what I mean. Yes, it's more than other 14 and possibly 18 year olds, but it's still not a lot to me. I guess that's just up to personal preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 01:45 PM
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Dude, the studies show that women, on average, sleep with roughly the same amount of men as men sleep with women. That's not prudish, or if it is, the studies show men are just as prudish. I'm not going to humblebrag, where do you keep getting that idea? What is your argument here? The studies are in the link.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 01:42 PM
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You want to talk about low IQ, low effort, that's been every one of your responses. You can conjure more than 3-5 Sentences, right? Hedonism is a great argument. Advancement through every civilization has been due to Hedonism. But you know what. I can tell you're losing the argument and you don't really have any worthwhile rebuttals except for ad hominems arguments, so why don't we leave it here and we can just both agree you're wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 01:40 PM
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Where? The studies that are linked by the OP don't support your opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 01:37 PM
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Oh, I agree, that N=100 girl was nuts. But, like the girl in my example, she lost her virginity at 14. That's basically 1 per year after that and from my understanding, most were at least a few months long. I don't consider 5 at 18 promiscuous because you're learning. You just started this new thing for the first time and want to try it out. Until you eventually have a bad experience or realize the harm, then you stop exploring this thing. Like the current FWB example I gave, her #5 became a sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 01:36 PM
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I'm not gonna humble brag here. I suppose I kind of did as a reference point in a different thread earlier, but for your sake, I won't do it here. There is nothing showing, proving, or stating that the female prerogative is to be prudish.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 01:32 PM
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I live in the East. In one of the declining birthrate countries, in fact. Just because people aren't getting pregnant and married, doesn't mean they aren't getting laid. But yes, in Japan, there are an exorbitant amount of male incels. Also, do you consider SEA the East? Because then you have to take into account countries like Thailand and PI which are even less prudish. I mean, to each his/her own about the dignity thing. Just sounds like you have a stick up your butt. Sex is fun and exciting …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 01:31 PM
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Yes I do what?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 01:27 PM
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See, 5 at 18 doesn't even seem that bad to me. I met a girl once (way back) that was on like dude #100 at 19. That's promiscuous. If she has 5 at 18, and doesn't continue to scale up (like, she gets married to number 6 at 19), it's not bad. In fact, one of the girls I'm sleeping with is exactly like that. She's 31 now, married at 19 to her 6th partner and I'm her 7th and that's only because stars aligned (kids go to the same school, etc. etc.).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 01:27 PM
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Yes, of course. But my point is, using TRP as my baseline for game, etc. I'm not only sleeping with sluts. Yes, I have slept with a few, but of the massive amount of slept with consistently (more than ons), the partner count has been lower. The point I'm trying to contest is that TRP only sleep with promiscuous women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 01:24 PM
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Curious where you get this idea from. If you said skittish or something, I could get on board. But prudish... I don't see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 01:22 PM
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Women are prudish by nature Are they though?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 01:21 PM
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As someone that belonged to TRP for a bit, it has not been my experience to have slept with girls with high n counts. The self-reported average from the girls I sleep with is usually around 6-7. But there are some as low as 2-3.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 01:20 PM
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From my experience with my 1st wife, other random girl friends/coworkers I've met over the years, it's a small town thing to drug, sex, and rock&roll.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 01:17 PM
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To be fair, a lot less people are having sex than we think are having sex. If that makes any sense. Yes, you might see girls posting their party pics on your instagram (likely you follow because they're attractive or friends or both), but it's also very likely that even when they go out with a bunch of their girls, they're not going home with any guys. Only in those instances when Chad checks those boxes are they going home with him. And if we're talking about men, 20% being chads, the likelihoo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 01:15 PM
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At this moment, we're not arguing that the average changes. We're debating the distribution and mode. Yes, the average will be the same, no matter what, but if 20% of the guys are sleeping with all the women, there are a shit ton more men that have slept with 0-1 women than there are women that have slept with 0-1 men. The female average is probably a decent indication of actual partners most women experience, however, it's not the same for men. Most men have drastically less partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 01:11 PM
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Damn, I'm a slut and that's a lot higher than most of the girls I sleep with report. Perhaps if I did the x3 thing, some of them might just break 20.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 01:06 PM
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Distribution will change the mode, but the median and mean should still be roughly the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 01:03 PM
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It means, regardless of her relationship status, if he checks all the right boxes, she'll sleep with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 12:59 PM
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Let's use TRP math. If 20% of men are sleeping with 80% of the women, where do you think the distribution is going to look a bit different?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 12:58 PM
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You're hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 12:56 PM
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How many incels you know with thick wallets? I don't know, but my image of an incel is a jobless dude still living in his parents basement.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 12:55 PM
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You're excluding incels or guys that don't get laid a lot. I've been with somewhere around 80 at this time in my life and that is going to skew male numbers a lot. That's 80 women hooking up with a new man, but only 1 man hooking up with 80 women. That's 79 other men you're taking out of that 50/50. So, if/when I get to 100ish (I've slowed down a lot the past few years), that would skew the 50/50 to 100/1. Men that can get laid, do get laid, while men that can't, don't. So, yes, while the averag…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 12:54 PM
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Dudes that think 5 is promiscuous are idiots that aren't getting laid. Perhaps the MGTOW community?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 12:48 PM
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I 100% agree with you here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 12:46 PM
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Just like high school. You think everyone is having sex, but even the "class ho" might have had one partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 12:44 PM
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I'm assuming most of the posters here are talking about the west. But this shit does happen in the east too.... wait, no it doesn't, they aren't prudes about sex in the East. But congrats on evading the point. I used a female, I could have used a male there as well. Perhaps you heard girls like anal and thought it'd be cool to try. But you decided as a virgin to marry a virgin and when you ask her to anal after marriage, she's like "eww, no way, that's gross, and it will hurt" or some variation.…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 12:39 PM
1

I have one. I also have casual sex as much as I want. I'm not understanding. If people just improve themselves even the slightest and get really good at game, getting laid isn't hard. Especially not in this hookup culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 11:46 AM
1

Yeah, I'm not sure exactly. It might be as bad. But erotic literature fantasizes and romantacizes sed too much imo. For example, if you a read/watched that bdsm or sub novel/movie, you might think that everyone can be mr greybor vlack or whatever or at least it makes you expect that. In reality, most doms are really not that exceptional, I'd assume. I know I wasn't when one of my ex flings wanted to do it with me because her husband wasn't into it. I tried, but I was no expert.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 11:44 AM
1

How does it work different for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 11:37 AM
1

See, this don't work for me. I've found that hookup culture is so profound these days that if you're not hooking up on the first date, you'll likely get ghosted, like you wasted their time or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 11:33 AM
1

Hahahaha, and agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 11:31 AM
1

I think there is a balance, for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 11:30 AM
1

While I agree with you, I would like to add that porn is very bad for this. Having preferences based off actors and fake enjoyment is bad for the psyche. I suffer from it too. But I mainly go nofap now and things that I couldn't come from before (blowjobs) aren't even really a challenge now. Porn just distorts what real sex should be in your mind. Take this from a porn addict that has done almost everything in porn (except for scat and shit, that's just... Ugh).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 11:28 AM
1

Strict societal religion-based laws and social pressure. Much worse in some countries (looking at you sharia) than others. That's why the milk man was a lot of people's daddies. For those SAHM, the milk man coming in to deliver milk was pretty inconspicuous. Also would like to add that in countries without that religious pressure, like Japan, cheating, while punitive if caught, was/is well accepted.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 11:24 AM
1

Think about it like this, say, from a girls perspective... In your head and from people, you've heard about an orgasm, or have given them to yourself. You find a great guy that's also a virgin or very inexperienced and the sex wasn't what you expected. You do it a few more times and try to figure out how to make it better but it's still not quite there. So you think to yourself, is it me? Is it my partner? How do you find out? Well, you go hit up that chad that has a reputation and give him a go…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 11:19 AM
0

Marriage is dumb and the old-fashioned no sex before marriage thing is based off fairy tales to control both men and women. Why not have sex before marriage? It's fun, it feels good, the more you do it, the better you get and learn how you like it. It's also our natural prerogative. In case you end up being one of those sucked into the bureaucratic concept of marriage, at least it will be all out of your system and you'll know what to do and how to communicate what you want out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 11:09 AM
2

I know a lot of very unattractive but macho Special Forces type chads. These guys just like to enjoy life and have fun. The reason I don't consider myself RP anymore is that after getting to know and befriend guys like these, I prefer their behaviour to mine, which is more dark triad, decent looks, and not macho. My best friend out the group is always giving me encouragement when I'm looking more "swole" and shit too, which just makes you feel good.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 08:30 PM
1

I think you miss the point. Radfems are the vocal minority. As well, there are no laws or anything in place to put men above women. Due to our history of putting men below women, there are plenty out there to support women though.
/r/AntiFeminists28/07/19 10:19 AM
3

This is why nobody (including TRPers) like MGTOW.
/r/ExRedPill28/07/19 10:04 AM
1

Exactly, which is why I said I wouldn't recommend it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 04:10 PM
1

I'm 36, but most of my partners are younger than 30 (typically 24-27). Trust me, my sex drive has already diminished, but I blame that on the amount of women I've been with. I've done it all, and nothing is truly exciting anymore, so diminishing that even more would kill any of these relationships I have.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 04:06 PM
1

No, I wouldn't recommend this because girls I'm with typically have a higher sex drive than me. Taking this would just diminish the sex for both of us to the point where I probably wouldn't be getting any nor be in any relationships. Would be great if I was still married to my ex wife though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 03:55 PM
2

/u/weakandsensitive posted your post. Only one guy there said STFU and lift and blah blah. From reading it, it looks like most the other guys there were trying to be helpful. Honestly, I like MRP much more than TRP because they try to find the balance. Ofc, there is some shit in there a lot of people would find bad as well (treat women like children, blah blah.) And keep reading No more Mr. Nice Guy and "When I say no I feel guilty". They are great books.
/r/ExRedPill27/07/19 09:18 AM
3

I'm pretty sure TRP makes you a sociopath, haha.
/r/ExRedPill27/07/19 09:11 AM
1

Dude, as long as you don't follow the circlejerk there, you're banned. I've been banned there for ages.
/r/AntiFeminists26/07/19 08:36 AM
1

You didn't actually quote anything. And I'm basing this of my bio professor who's specialty is genetics. so...
/r/ExRedPill25/07/19 09:23 AM
1

My sanity is fine. This guy is RP tho, so his view on what happened is going to reinforce his belief. That's all I'm saying.
/r/ExRedPill25/07/19 09:21 AM
0

Regardless of what it is, it's what she did. She found a guy with higher SMV. More attractive, a better socializer, etc. Her dates SMV was so low that a zucchini probably would have sufficed, but that doesn't mean she didn't find something better. Which is exactly how any sane man would perceive it. I've had dates where I tried my damndest to get a conversation out of a girl and it didn't go well. It was just a bad connection. But if I saw her immediately after striking up a conversation with so…
/r/ExRedPill24/07/19 09:32 PM
1

Sure, but either they died out or we speciated. That's like saying we have tree DNA... of course we do.
/r/ExRedPill24/07/19 03:07 PM
1

I get you're making a joke, but In order for one species to be separated from another, they can't be able to produce fertile offspring. So, there is no Neanderthal in homo-sapiens.
/r/ExRedPill24/07/19 06:22 AM
-2

What he's saying is that while he follows and is invested in it, he's not accurately following what they are saying. I disagree, I think he is following what they're saying and just hasn't learned to outgrow it yet. But, one thing I'll say is that you talking to the other guy just reinforced his belief that women will hop on the first dick that's an upgrade from him. Downvoted because people can't read past the first line.
/r/ExRedPill23/07/19 05:08 AM
-5

Perhaps if the women on those sites put in more than minimal effort, the guys might also put in more effort.
/r/ExRedPill23/07/19 05:00 AM
1

I disagree. Watch any of those shows where gay guys do makeovers on dudes... your fashion and the way you carry yourself can make you look much better than you should. Not to mention if you get fit too. Girls will sleep with you just for access to the 6 pack.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 12:09 PM
1

If I knew wtf you're getting at, I'd answer you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 02:37 AM
1

Because I'm not making a rampant claim. I don't post "TRP truths" and claim them as truth without having some proof. You're claiming this to be true, do you have anything showing that?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 02:36 AM
1

I'm not going to argue the morality of it all, because we clearly disagree (hence the subjectivity of morality). Wait is free will suddenly not a thing? We're discussing people that choose to do this. Thinking with your dick instead of your head is stupid, no matter the gender, and women are less likely to to that. Good, I can agree to that. Now prove that women are less likely to do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 02:12 AM
1

So are women that go for younger men not as stupid because their thinking with their vag? Hetero men can't help it that they go for girls. Just like hetero cougars can't help they go for boys. It's just the way it goes. It's not a choice to be stupid or not, it's a matter of availability. Now, if i were bi or something, I'd probably fuck with younger men and could avoid being "stupid", but sadly, I don't have that option.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 02:04 AM
1

So, I should definitely choose to cheat with older girls. Makes sense and fits with the male prerogative. I'll do that. I'll start finding some of those post-wall 30 somethings instead of the fit, hot, 20 somethings. Not to say I have anything against older girls. My gf is older and one of my old fwb was considerately older. But for sex, I'm going with the mid 20 girls. Not just for looks, but they're insatiable I already have all that other stuff in my life, so no worries there. And btw, morali…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 01:51 AM
1

Cheating is a morality issue. I don't have the same morals as you, so I don't feel like a scumbag for it. And although, I've been with her 2.5yrs, she doesn't know so she's happy. And that's all that really matters. I don't call many people misandrists. I think it's dumb, but you're being blatant about it, so I pointed the hypocrisy out. Maybe I'm not understanding this victimizing myself thing. How am I doing that again?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 01:28 AM
1

Of course I am, I'm a man. From your perspective, I'm pretty sure that makes us all scumbags.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 01:22 AM
1

I'm not victimizing myself, I'm just noting your misandry. It's okay to compare men and women being the same as long as women aren't stupid about it. Men are stupid for going for attractive younger girls. That's just the way it is though. We typically go for younger girls. A side effect of that is that they may snitch or go crazy or whatever. Whereas young men aren't going to do that, because we're getting laid, who cares if you're just using us. It's not about stupidity, it's about if you're no…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 01:21 AM
1

Women are like men, but aren't stupid... to paraphrase you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 11:00 PM
1

Yeah, I remember that. So, be in the top 20%. My point still stands, improve until you start getting laid. I did. I definitely consider myself extremely average looking at best, but I don't get thirsty anymore. Honestly, it's like 70% game, 20% looks, 10% genuineness.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 10:52 PM
1

I'm a little sweetie pie.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 11:17 AM
1

I wouldn't even say it has to do with attractiveness, more self-esteem. A modek-esque woman will sleep around if she doesn't view herself as modek-esque. Those are the ones I usually go for. Attractive with no self confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 11:15 AM
1

To be fair, I had that same issue when I tried to cheat on my ex wife. I really loved her and our only problem was sex, but I physically couldn't sleep with anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 11:13 AM
1

This going down every time, is that new? It used to be a pain in the ass to get my dick sucked by girls in 2000-2006 (when I got married), but now, after my 2016 divorce, it's par for tge course.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 11:11 AM
2

Yes yes, we are all just perfect non-cheaters.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 11:08 AM
3

You've heard of bros before hoes, right? Why are you so certain they'd tell you or that they even know?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 10:52 AM
1

Word, this is spot on
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 10:50 AM
0

Ah, I see. Women are better than men, yet again.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 10:46 AM
1

It still don't mean shit. The lady I sleep with right now got married at 19 and I'm her 6th partner. She's been married 11 years before she decided to cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 10:32 AM
1

Who tf says shit like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 10:25 AM
3

A lot of people that have no idea of the ppd demographic like to make assumptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 10:23 AM
2

Typically true though. I cheat for my enjoyment, not hurt my gf. I'm in the she'll never find out boat. If my goal was to hurt her, I'd be blatant about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 10:19 AM
1

That would be considered a void, would it not? That being said, I think this is what the married woman I'm sleeping with atm is doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 09:19 AM
1

Right, 50% of people will be average or below... don't be the bottom 50%.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 12:38 AM
0

I didn't say become average. I said don't be average. Implying to better yourself than the average guy. It's not hard, the bar to being average in America is set pretty low. Shit, just don't be fat and you're above average.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 10:00 AM
2

Sure, the defeatist view will guaranteed getting laid am i right? You never know, I know a chick that occasionally gives out pity fucks. Definitely a girl that has options too. She just likes sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 09:36 AM
0

Yes, which is why I said don't be average
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 09:33 AM
-1

Then don't be average.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 07:51 AM
3

Have you tried having sex with average girls yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 07:49 AM
-1

Sex is actually a large part of fulfillment. Why do you think things like trp came about?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 07:48 AM
6

Because you're cold approaching and probably not at the level to sleep with hot girls anyway, considering you still use the adjective "hot". Go to a place or do a hobby thrife with social interaction, show you're interesting, then pick up on iois.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 07:46 AM
1

Sorry edgelord, but that made very little sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/19 08:43 AM
1

AskTRP was great for learning. And yes, people starting out with TRP are going to fail often. One of my first posts was in AskTRP when I succeeded to have a girl invite me home but I failed to do anything with. That being said, I think the idea is that people in TRP lie. Hpwever, I doubt there are plants in there to make posts seem legit. I used to post in there as I was getting more and more successful. Now that I don't need nor agree with some of it, I don't post anymore. The truth is, if we w…
/r/ExRedPill13/07/19 08:33 AM
1

Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 05:46 AM
2

Completely agree. TRP is a place you should only come to if all else failed and you've had life experience
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 12:42 AM
1

Mine is definitely a foot long
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 03:59 PM
1

Thanks for the clarification
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 02:41 PM
1

Ok, wasn't sure if it was a real thing. I assumed it was a joke, but you never know when it comes to RP jargon.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 02:41 PM
6

I think this. Np fucking clue who he was until the forest incident and Japanese media about it (i live in japan). But still never watched his shit and no clue who the other is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 02:40 PM
1

Gotcha
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 10:50 AM
1

What's a psychological n count?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 10:48 AM
4

You're relying too much on the stereotypes and not enough on yourself. I have an average dick and under 6ft. I'm also not jacked, but I get laid when I want. You have to learn to love yourself and your body. Be confident and learn some game. Honestly, I'm so confident with my game now (didn't used to be) that everything else is a non-issue. And honestly, roids gonna make your dick smaller and acne worse, don't fuck with roids. However, getting in shape, by naturally going to the gym may give you…
/r/ExRedPill10/07/19 07:35 AM
2

I guess I don't get rejected enough, haha. But seriously I only approach if I get iois because I'm too hesitant otherwise. I'm also a bartender, so plenty of bar chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 06:53 AM
1

I'm not a number hound nor do I mass approach. That's just disingenuoun and not fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 03:59 AM
2

Agreed. Rp has changed since I started.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 03:57 AM
1

Women in their 20s yea. Men in their 30s moreso. You can always wife up a coworker if you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 03:55 AM
1

What is a blackpiller? Like I'm subbed to the science page cuz some of it is interesting, but I thought they were just TRPers that posted real studies and such.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 03:52 AM
1

Elliot Rodgers and his victims likely would be alive and well today if he embraced things like TRP instead of rebel against them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 03:50 AM
1

I think most of them post a lot when they're in the beginning and stop posting as often once they get successful. At least that's my case. I only really post in PPD now.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 03:48 AM
1

I'm rarely on this particular sub, but I see you in PPD often. I never realized this is TRP-lite or something? I'd like to know where the idea they're all incels comes from.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 03:43 AM
1

I wouldn't say most, I'd definitely say a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 03:31 AM
1

How do you know which is normie? I am in the same boat as that guy and I completely believe that if at least one of the parties ia attracted to the other that the can't be friends. At least not really. One will always be thinking of how to move it forward. After enough time, the you may lose the attraction and be solely friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 03:30 AM
1

I'm in the same setting as you and I believe men and women can't be friends. At least not when at least one of them is attracted to another.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 03:24 AM
2

Because you were not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 03:17 AM
1

I work at bars, so fairly often. I have a few girls on the side as well. I mean, sleep is 8 hours (with someone next to me usually) and alone time about 5 hours, work 5 hours, so about 6 hours I'd guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 03:16 AM
1

That's not 100% but definitely better than asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 03:12 AM
2

I actually had and didn't really have any internalized feelings about women until the side bar. I was just 30, married and had life experience. As soon as I started reading the sidebar, all my experiences just clicked and it made sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 02:53 AM
2

This is true. But when I was active on TRP, I always told teenagers and guys in their young 20s that TRP wasn't for them. I don't even understand how they can have enough bad life experiences at that age to even necessitate the thought to find TRP. TRP didn't start out as old guys preaching to young guys, it was a lot of older guys bitching to each other. It used to be a lot more mature and healthy than it is now, imo. All that being said, I've made a kid with a 2 year long relationship gf and w…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 11:18 PM
1

I've been married 10 years, I've had long term relationships. You're right, it's not the same, it's better. And the conversation was about men that get laid wanting relationships, no. Incels aren't getting laid, hence incels. So, of course they'd love a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 11:07 PM
1

I mean, even women in their 30s that used to use the term player have converted to fuckboy. Fuckboy has only really been a term since the beginning of the decade or so. And millennials have been around for a long time fyi.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 11:01 PM
2

Which is when they use it the most. Most players I know are either honest with what they want or the girls never ask for more.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 02:16 PM
1

The fix to that, build meaningful sex with multiple women. Be honest and let them know that you want a casual relationship and you can get lots of girls that are down with it. I used to desire relationships, before I knew how easy it was to get laid outside of one.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 02:06 PM
6

Sex is a significant part of any relationship, are you high? Guys that can replicate the honeymoon phase with different girls often won't need a relationship. That's the whole point. And freedom is a huge part of staying single. I left my ex wife of 10 years due to our lack of sex and when we did, she did it as a duty. That's no fun and goes against the male prerogative. When you're single, you don't have any desire to cheat and can control your own sex life, not have it dictated to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 02:00 PM
0

I disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 01:57 PM
1

I get a lot of sex, however, I don't want a serious relationship. Where does that logic come from? Of course, I can understand the feeling of when you're single, you want a partner and when you have a partner, you want to be single. That being said, I just keep a few girls that are semi-ok with a casual relationship that span many months. You get all the benefits of a serious relationship with the bonus of variety and freedom.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 01:56 PM
6

Just fyi, the love hormones are usually around 7 years,not 4. It's often what the 7 year itch is about. But yes, you're right, sex is a mental health need that women will never have a problem getting. That's why the concept of marriage was invented to get men that couldn't normally get laid, laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 01:52 PM
0

Didn't always used to be like that tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 10:00 AM
-1

It's only used as an insult after you guys break it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 08:18 AM
-1

I don't think there is one technically. There is the atypical look that many have tho. Like a white k-pop star, that's the stereotypical look. But I'm nothing like that and girls have slept with me by reputation alone. I'm also a bartender and my boss is quite liberal about spreading my 'playing' nature around.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 08:18 AM
1

Exactly right, it's just a rebranding of the term player. And it has got me laid often and even in a long-term fwb twice. The thing is, girls are willing to accept any conditions you give them if they are into you because they think you will change. Don't get duped into changing and you can play for the rest of your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 08:15 AM
1

This belongs in thebluepill, not exredpill. TBP is there for those that want to mock TRP, this site is for those of us that need to reconcile (not sure if that's the right word) with their TRP past. ​ i.e., this is more therapy, there is more mockery.
/r/ExRedPill08/07/19 11:58 PM
0

Aka, first year in college or any basic writing/speech class. Glad you got it right tho.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/19 02:10 PM
1

They're talking about specific states in #6 and #7 and overall in #8. Have to pay attention to the wording when doing research. In fact, #8 even excepts California because it's the only populated city that is THAT disproportionate. As is usual with California, haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 02:03 PM
1

In general, female dating app users who live in the most populated states outnumber the men by 2 to 1. California seems to be the exception, though. As a whole, the US population is almost [evenly split between men and women] (51% women compared with 49% men)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 01:41 PM
1

It says on #8 that except California, women outnumber men 2-1. I didn't notice the abroad stuff, but from my experience, yea, most countries aren't as prudish about sex as America. I agree with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 01:31 PM
1

We know what is hyperbole?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 01:23 PM
1

You claimed some tinder stat. Here's an online source I've found. https://www.datingnews.com/apps-and-sites/habits-of-dating-app-users/
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 01:18 PM
1

You must have linked that to someone ekse and didn't realize you're talking to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 12:50 PM
1

Prove what wrong. What are you even talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 09:13 AM
1

Cambodia is a bit scary on that list. Like, yes, I'd love to live in Thailand, but realistically, no way. The rest all sound great to me. I've always wanted to visit Santorini.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 05:29 AM
4

Cameras, hound dogs sent by the government to harass you, and so much more.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 09:55 PM
3

I'd have to kindly disagree with you here man.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 09:54 PM
0

Japan
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 09:37 PM
1

Blame?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 09:37 PM
1

You should watch MSM more then. It's been said on there plenty. And especially when talking to Jordan Peterson. I'm not RP anymore, but just because people don't care enough to pay attention to it, it's very unlikely they haven't seen it. It's more likely that it went in one ear and out another cuz of how little they cared.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 02:01 PM
1

It would go against the 48 laws of power.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 01:58 PM
1

I'm asking why he was angry because he came across that way and even admitted it in his reply. It's not gaslighting when I'm genuinely curious. From what I gather is it is a lot of TRPers messaging him that's getting him frustrated.
/r/ExRedPill07/07/19 01:57 PM
4

I live abroad and have been to many countries. Most countries aren't as free as America. It's not kool-aid, it's the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 01:55 PM
2

That's a fallacy that is spread way too often. Women have almost as much casual as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 01:54 PM
1

I didn't know ee were discussing specifically living there. As a curiosity, where is #1 that you'd like to live?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 01:52 PM
0

Until you've lived in another country, it's hard to explain. But, almost everything is democratic. We have MSM, but it's not controlled by the state. You don't have people knocking at your door to pay for NHK or BBC although you never watch it. As situations arise, I realize it, but I don't have many more off the top of my head. And yes, guns. But one of the reasons I specifically live in this country because gun violence is near 0 and guns are illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 01:51 PM
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You should check out Japan, much worse consumerism. That being said, I'm a prior US military expat and I've traveled a decent amount too. America still is the leader in freedom and although I don't want to live there, you can literally get anything in America. That's not the same abroad.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 03:59 AM
4

TRP was a fairly large aub before quarantine. And I'm sure some of your frienda have heard of TRP, but in one ear and out the other. Considering it's been said on MSM often, there was a documentary made that caused headlines, etc etc. Your friends probably don't know it as The Red Pill, but they've definitely seen it. I think even Trump mentioned it once.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 03:48 AM
1

Amend that to very selective with whom they have casual sex and I'd agree. Women in America have a bit too much of an ego and while their SMV would be low anywhere but America, it's high in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 03:33 AM
2

To be fair, everywhere I've gone abroad, almost everyone I've talked to has wanted to at least visit America.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 03:26 AM
5

This is purely a weeb view of Japan.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 03:18 AM
2

Depends who you are. Most of the girls I know here aren't so puritan.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 03:17 AM
7

But in Japan, it's both male and female incels, haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 03:15 AM
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Most Americans wouldn't know this because most of us don't leave the country.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 03:13 AM
0

This post just screams humble brag. But, in countries like Thailand and the Philippines, men have the sexual power, which in turn makes the women there really easy to talk to and sleep with. I haven't been to every country you mentioned, but I'm guessing it's the same for Barcelona and what not. However, in America, women have the sexual power. Where I live, in Japan, it's a pretty middle ground of power. Many of the users here are from Europe or UK as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 03:10 AM
1

How does your reply have any relevance on my post? We're exredpill here, we already know that conversation.
/r/ExRedPill07/07/19 02:59 AM
1

I just asked the angry thing because all your posts have some anger to them. I asked if you are exredpill because you act as if TRPers are different than what those of us in this sub used to be. It was a choice that those of us in this sub made.
/r/ExRedPill07/07/19 02:54 AM
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I think it's quite opposite. TRP is filled with people that think too much. That's why they need to learn the idgaf attitude and such. Imagine those 'coding' nerds in hs that never could get girls. Then imagine they found and had the ability to learn the code to unlock the chastity plate. That's TRPers imo.
/r/ExRedPill06/07/19 03:47 PM
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This one is a little tldr, but I've seen you post here often. Firstly, are you exredpill? And secondly, what are you so angry about? Especially if you aren't exredpill, then TRP never did anything to make you have all this pent up rage. I skipped the anger phase when I found TRP, but is this the "I can't believe I was a part of that" rage or what?
/r/ExRedPill06/07/19 03:33 PM
1

Part of no love is lack of empathy. I feel like a sociopath now. And while I can agree that it may look like scorn, I never was in the anger phase, not during marriage nor TRP. For me, scorn implies some sort of anger coming from it. In fact, TRP helped me not feel anger because I quickly realized why she wasn't sleeping with me. And used that to work on myself.
/r/ExRedPill06/07/19 08:02 AM
1

Trur, but where do you think I found all that?
/r/ExRedPill06/07/19 07:51 AM
3

With age and the fact that every body is different, 6 hours for many people is enough. That's why recommended is usually 6-8 hours. And as you get older, it becomes less.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/19 12:12 AM
1

Shit, now I want to take back the comment I literally just made about no serious posts in your history. I agree with you here to an extent. And NMMNG is a good book.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/19 11:20 PM
3

Yeah, I'll get right on that. At least I can thank him for not making me so pathetic that I become a reddit troll. I'm not going to look up your history because who tf cares, but I'm guessing there is not a single serious post in your history.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/19 11:07 PM
1

It's your fault that your pretentious masculinity is what they think TRP. We're about learning real masculinity, not phonies.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/19 11:03 PM
1

You haven't been to many locker rooms then. I get it, you're trying to be the badass on the "Alpha" forums, but that's not how it works. I'm a prior Marine and Iraq Vet that has made a lot of SF friends after the Corps. Seeing men that are the Alpha of Alphas break down on your shoulder is humbling and not feminist nor estrogen fueled. That's the problem, people that learn Alpha behavior think you have to be in manmode all the time. In reality, when you're with men you can trust, you can show yo…
/r/TheRedPill03/07/19 11:01 PM
1

My bad
/r/ExRedPill03/07/19 10:54 PM
1

Lets have this discussion When it becomes game fact.
/r/ExRedPill03/07/19 02:25 PM
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Actually, yes. Prior to ww2 men were pretty manly. Then come the baby boomers that were manly, but they didn't want to treat their kids like they were treated. That and societal feminist propaganda started coming around telling parents what they can do. Thus began the gen x with failed fathers that bred millennials with failed fathers which is breeding now.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/19 07:47 AM
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You need help brother. Assuming by your tantrums that you didn't have the best father figure either. And Psychology 101, your family and friends make up your views on life.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/19 07:43 AM
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Men telling the truth? This is a locker room. Don't know which locker rooms you've been in, but real men usually tell other real men about their issues. It's healthy and good for you. This is the type of thing that you're father should have been discussing with you but never did.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/19 07:40 AM
5

See, I went from nice guy to asshole after finding TRP and I still can't find that real balance. I don't really care if most of my relationships fail, I constantly use them and I've found I'm a lot more sociopathic/machiavellan than I thought I was. I'm trying to step back, but dunno how.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/19 07:34 AM
1

Well no shit, haha. To be fair, I was seeing a few other girls at the time, but they were all MILFs and I wanted someone a little younger and a little hotter. My ex was a bombshell. At the time, I believed I was dating extremely out of my league. And also to be fair to her, we had never met before that. One of my buddies in the Marine Corps gave me her Yahoo ID (back before text messaging was a thing), so our only communication was through chat. Which was mutually good (not long response wait ti…
/r/ExRedPill03/07/19 01:44 AM
-1

True. But MGTOW have issues even catching girls interest. That eternally single girl still gets laid, just can't get commitment
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 11:22 AM
2

I think it's likely more that those women can't lock down a man
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 10:18 AM
4

And they should feel pathetic and a little self-cringey to be expecting it. I mean, sure, if she did it, woohoo. But if she doesn't, oh well.
/r/AntiFeminists02/07/19 07:04 AM
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I just want to say that not all of TRPers got sucked into TRP because of being scorned. I was 9 years into an unhappy marriage (lack of sex) when I found it. The whole beta bux thing resonated with me. When I originally met my ex, she was really hardcore into a guy that just wanted her as a fuck buddy and she was okay with it. It took me 6 months to get her on a date and then it just kind of kicked off. There was an instance of betrayal on her part while we were dating that she vehemently denies…
/r/ExRedPill02/07/19 04:08 AM
1

Around 30 according to TRP
/r/ExRedPill02/07/19 03:53 AM
1

I think most people cringe at the cringey parts of TRP, sure. But, I look at it as if TRP didn't talk about it and men just naturally acted the way redpillers did, it wouldn't be looked at as cringey.
/r/ExRedPill01/07/19 06:22 PM
3

That's true I suppose. I would just hate to ever be associated with those cringey guys.
/r/ExRedPill01/07/19 11:06 AM
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MGTOW=/=TRP. I wouldn't wish any kid or adult to find MGTOW. It's just a group of incels that gave up. I just watched the vid and it's pretty cringe. And while I think the ring idea is dumb, he's probably making some money off it, and the logo makes sense.
/r/ExRedPill01/07/19 06:10 AM
2

Or just have sex with a lot of women and keep a harem.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 12:50 PM
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Not necessarily from the same man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 12:46 PM
2

Yeah, that doesn't make redpill look bad. You gotta learn son. Women aren't idiots, they just think differently. Socially, they're 10,000 miles above us guys. Whether what you said is true or not, you're naivete is the reason why TRP is looked down upon. Don't forget your 48 laws of power. Too many TRPers do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 12:44 PM
5

What about the one musical, greatest showman or something about barnum and bailey. Kind of same concept except good ending.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 12:38 PM
1

No shit it's not just approach. Never said it was. I'm just saying my buddy doesn't approach and I'm a fucking badass enough wingman that I have the girls pay attention to his muacles. It doesn't always work out for him when we're in a group. But I do have personal testimony from girls and himself that he's quite good one on one. But I'm willing to bet it's more to do with his muscles and the tingles they get that makes them gaga over him. Definitely not a guy they'd probably introduce their fri…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 12:04 PM
2

I don't disagree about crossfit, haha. I got injured doing it when they were pushing me on max squats although I told them multiple times that I have knee problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 05:32 AM
1

But if any of that groundwork isn't there, then you'll still be in purgatory. I agree, lifting isn't as important as TRP claims (it's the only TRP thing I didn't do for long), but all aspects of self-improvement are important. A non-jacked 5'4" computer science major with a shit haircut who buys clothes off amazon aren't even going to be allowed to download tinder. At least the jacked one might get an "intrigue" lay. As in, the girl is interested to see how it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 05:28 AM
2

Ther truths I find are AWALT. I'll just throw the number out there because it might be relavent, but I've been with something over 80 women. 70 of those post-divorce (3 years ago) and after redpill. Trying to apply Redplill principles and some game I've learned has girls that "only sleep with someone when they have a boyfriends" or "married" or "I don't do ONS" or "I only sleep with one guy at a time" or "It's okay you have a gf" or "I've only been with 5 people" still continually sleep with me.…
/r/ExRedPill30/06/19 05:24 AM
1

Trust me, it's easy to evaluate compared to my buddy. We go out together often. I'm always the one pulling girls for us and he is kind of socially awkward. But his one on one game is ok. But yeah, it's just him or my SF buddies that I lose to. I live and work in a high military area, I can outgame most of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 05:08 AM
1

Of course
/r/ExRedPill29/06/19 04:32 PM
3

He's only handsome because he's a celebrity. But there is a reason, similar to tatum, why he's on the top of girla celebrity list. Hint, it's the muscles.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 04:30 PM
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I think you really are underestimating the average age here. And age makes a difference. I'm 35,but ideally I date girls 24-27,younger than that, too flaky, older than that, too clingy. Sorority girls are at super flake age. Looks change as you get okder too. I'm much better looking in my 30s than I was in my 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 04:27 PM
4

So, you're not in the game anymore? You just looking for an excuse to be fat in front of your wife/gf now?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 04:21 PM
2

It isn't 'just lift bro', it's 'lift'. You gotta do more than just lift, but TRP just makes that rule 1. I've lifted and not lifted since TRP, and have always been more successful while lifting.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 04:17 PM
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You're thinking seddit and PUA bro. Game is necessary, but it's not end all be all. I have killer game, but I'm not in the best shape. When compared to my equally attractive, but better shaped buddy with ok game, I lose. Why wouldn't you want all aspects of yourself to be perfect?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 04:11 PM
2

You can also be a DJ and a loser. I know way more DJs that don't get kaid than I know successful ones. It's also a kind of art/skill that you have to work on. So, is the gym. But the gym puts you in a better environment, better state of mind, and leads to a healthier lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 04:07 PM
2

It's rule 1 for the primary AND tertiary benefits. A lot of those 'gym' bros aren't also redpill and working on all aspects of their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 04:05 PM
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You're differentiating crossfit? It's the same shit. Lift weights. How can crossfit help you when the gym can't, that's just dumb. I've done both, now don't do either and am successful with women, but not as good as when I was working out. Remember the rule is lift, doesn't matter what method you use to lift.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 04:03 PM
2

You're right, girls like channing Tatum for his personality, duh. Why didn't I realize this? But seriously, I agree with you to an extent. But given that TRP is focused on STR, having a nice body is the best forba quick and easy lay. Now for more of a long-term, reputation, type lifestyle, definitely the other factors are huge. But having the other factors, then a nice body, you win. Your lipstick pig analogy could work the same as having a great personality on short guy. I actually know a lot o…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 03:55 PM
2

I'm curious the reason for breajup, how long you were together, etc. This guy probably would have never had the opportunity to date you if it weren't for TRP I'm guessing, was it TRP ideology that caused the break up? He introduced you to it as well? Did he say why? When I was hardcore TRP, I'd never tell a girl about it. I might tell them that I searched and practiced how to do and say all the right things, but I would never think of showing them TRP.
/r/ExRedPill29/06/19 03:40 PM
1

So am I
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 03:28 PM
1

I'd rather say it wouldn't occur. At least when entering a relationship. After that, then you might be in a stuck situation aka the hell you're talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 05:46 AM
2

I think attractiveness only matters so much as you're not repulsive. I've seen some so-so PUAs pick up attractive girls
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 05:45 AM
1

You still haven't described how this makes Carmack an alpha nerd, my dude. What is it about him that has you drooling?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 10:47 PM
0

He's going the LTR route, and is she hot? What you described anyway is not a textbook TRP beta, he's just blue pilled. There's a difference. But yeah, without the help of TRP, I would have never left my wife, I wouldn't have had sex with as many beautiful women as I wanted, and I'd still be pretty miserable. The reason they work above just finding self help books is because they are there. Is AA a cult? Having a dad that's been sober 30 years, I'd say yes. But it's because of them that he was ab…
/r/ExRedPill27/06/19 10:43 PM
1

That's a hard thing to teach. Basically, for me, it was fake it til you make it. I had fake confidence (that works a little) and just kept with it until I never started doubting myself. Realizing you're hot shit and havimg it backed up by the girls that fight for you will confirm it. But yeah, I can't describe what it feels like.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 10:29 PM
1

You read way too much into my comment. It wasn't an attempt to insult you my dude. You're right, I didn't know much about Croatia, I just assumed and that was my bad. Now, to the original point, how did they harass your parents? Was it just once, are they your neighbors? 13 is kind of young to have experienced much of feminist negativity imo. So, if you could elaborate, I'd appreciate.
/r/AntiFeminists27/06/19 10:25 PM
1

Just curious your basis for being anti-feminist at 13. And from Croatia 🇭🇷 which I can imagine could probably use some feminism.
/r/AntiFeminists27/06/19 03:17 PM
1

That's been feminism for the past 2 decades.
/r/AntiFeminists27/06/19 03:15 PM
2

True, while I have been hot on and received IoIs from a few girls in my life, it's not worth just trying to wait for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 03:14 PM
1

Few weeks old babies cry, that's their job.
/r/RedPillParenting27/06/19 03:08 PM
1

That's true for sure. I just focused on the wording too much I guess. As waiting for consent doesn't always take forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 02:41 PM
2

Very long time is not clear at all. It's a subjective measurement of time. Is a month long or is a year long? For me, 3 dates was too long, then 1 date was too long. Now I have enough abundance, I just go with whatever the girl I'm trying to sleep with is down for.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 02:12 PM
1

You still haven't described how he's an alpha nerd. And a Dr. in China has already made bio-engineered twina using CRISP CAS-9,so it is closer to reality than we think. It will also likely be the cure for aids, cancer and possibly the key to life longevity. Yet, you wouldn't consider the ladies that discovered how to use it as Alpha nerds?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 02:05 PM
1

What's waiting a long time to you? Sometimes, in my experience, escalating slower works as long as they know what you want. One of the girls I'm seeing atm took about a month.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 02:01 PM
4

This is exactly right. The only reason to enter a relationship of any kind is to get something out of it. Money, lose loneliness, sex, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 01:53 PM
3

Is it morally wrong to play games with someone that is playing games with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 01:51 PM
6

You say you feel bad for tricking them, but the only reason you feel like you are tricking them is because it isn't natural for you. Once you get used to it and it becomes 2nd nature, it won't feel like tricking or manipulation, it'll just be you, naturally. And honestly, if it's not you, it's the guy next to you. Why do you feel bad that she's too dumb or not experienced enough to figure it out. I'd rather be the mistake she learns from than the guy after the mistake that she has her guard up f…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 01:48 PM
2

Being hot isn't even that high on the list. If you have game and real confidence you won't really be held back.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 01:31 PM
4

You'll be surprised there are a lot of us men that are part of TRP. The teenagers are actually a relatively new and unwelcome edition. They are the ones that act like they've had life experience being 18 and posting about it. I found TRP in my second marriage around the age of 30 and am thankful as fuck I did. Look at most of the "leaders" of TRP and you'll see they are mostly older.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 01:28 PM
1

Just means he's smart, like every other nerd. I mean, do you think the people that discovered CRISPR CAS-9 are Alpha because they discovered the thing that can manufacture super soldiers?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 01:18 PM
1

But how? What makes him an Alpha nerd? He doesn't really have any traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 01:00 PM
2

Honestly, I think there is a middle ground. Which is why I participate in PurplePillDebate, but not TRP anymore. But, my question is how do you "un-know" something? Being part of the TRP community desensitized me to women and did a complete flip on my way of thinking. And while I don't agree with everything on TRP, I've become a thousand times more happy and successful since I followed it. The main thing I noticed was losing "love" for women. How the hell are you supposed to learn to love again …
/r/ExRedPill27/06/19 01:08 AM
4

Honestly, it is sad that this is reddit and teenagers have become aware of TRP without experiencing life for themselves. You can't really understand TRP until you've lived a little. Honestly, it should strictly be for men in their late 20s/ early 30s that are still struggling. How can a teenager "see the truth" if they haven't experienced anything else? It's so bizarre.
/r/ExRedPill27/06/19 12:57 AM
1

Bezos personal life has probably sucked balls most of the years. And I agree that many of the guys in TRP are faking or won't make it to where they want to be; but it definitely helped me get more than 1 tinder lay a month, haha. Complete mentality change for me, and I think that's the only way to be successful aa a TRPer. I think too many of them are holding on to the past and don't just let it go and stop giving a fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 11:42 PM
1

Now he is, not in his youth.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 11:26 PM
1

Trump?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 11:25 PM
1

He did try it earlier and his bosses didn't go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 11:24 PM
1

He would be a hunter in that party. People are too binary when defining Alpha. You only need one engineer and the rest need to be smart enough to understand instructions. That's why military leaders must have a college degree. It's also why stories like Arthur had a Merlin. Geniusness is beyond an Alpha trait. They are so smart they don't need women to fulfill their needs. The atypical Alpha does.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 11:12 PM
1

I'd choose it simply because I don't want to work that much. Can you imagine how busy he is everyday? And through his prime years when his company was growing the most, he probably had no personal life. Yes, who wouldn't want to be a billionaire, but who also would be willing to put in that sacrifice for it? I'd rather be a cool millionaire.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 10:57 PM
1

How is John Carmack Alpha?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 10:53 PM
1

He's a felon, he has strong features. Light skinned bkack guys with blue or green eyes just happen to be a rare variation and that attracts people.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 10:49 PM
1

Trump was decently attractive, what you talking about? And it's not really about looks, you really just need confidence and look like you can win a fight to be chad really. My face is only slightly above avg, I got some belly fat, thinning hair, 35yo surfer style, I'm 6ft, and I slay like a mofo. 90% of being successful at anything is confidence. I personally think Bezos is alpha asf. We don't know how cavemen really acted, we just presume it's all muscle and stature, but honestly, survival is a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 10:39 PM
4

Anecdotally in 2 marriages and a long relationship, I think this fita. Men are less controlled by their emotions and typically would prefer the conflict to just go away or conclude. We also don't let that bs build up. Ltdr, men are more chill.
/r/AntiFeminists26/06/19 01:51 PM
1

The partners in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 01:56 PM
3

I'm from Seattle, talk about the center of liberalism. However, there are always like-minded people around. Just make new, non-retarded friends
/r/AntiFeminists24/06/19 01:20 PM
-1

Does it say how often they cheat in those 3-5 years?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/19 10:59 AM
3

The short answer is TRP doesn't care what men do, it's a strategy for men to win on the SMP.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/19 01:35 PM
2

Yep, just as they have to learn not to rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/19 01:26 PM
1

Traci
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/19 01:25 PM
1

Yeah, I'm 35, in the older millennial group, and I had no idea what tinder was until I was 32 and recently divorced before I found tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/19 01:24 PM
1

I like lasagna, don't bother replying.
/r/ExRedPill20/06/19 10:29 AM
0

I think project is the wrong word here. And how can you possibly assume teenagers in my comment? I can provide some correlating stats if you need. Or you can just... Stop... Talking.
/r/ExRedPill18/06/19 05:46 AM
10

You mean, beautiful people having positive support and thus a more accurate and positive view on life? Fucking miraculous! Who'd a thunk it!
/r/BlackPillScience16/06/19 04:56 PM
-2

When did anger get mentioned?
/r/ExRedPill16/06/19 12:30 PM
16

It's a well-known fact called the 'halo' effect
/r/BlackPillScience16/06/19 11:44 AM
-12

I think the issue many have with this, is they don't balance until they are old enough to not get all the guys they had access to in their youth.
/r/ExRedPill16/06/19 11:36 AM
1

It's also not a movie where women are killed for the male lead. And honestly Hollywood isn't misandrist nor misogynist overall, but the political correctedness and Hollywood overall being a liberal outlet is really diminishing the quality of movies. Just look at star wars, or captain Marvel. Every movie needs an unrealistic female lead, even when there isn't supposed to be one, and a minority sidekick. It's getting pretty pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/19 10:22 AM
1

I hookup all the time here in Japan.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 03:31 PM
1

There are people that aren't religious that don't believe in murder. The reason religion seems so big in the US is because politicians are trying to grab the vote of those that still are Christian. And the religious people are an obnoxiously loud minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 03:30 PM
1

Like Monster?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 03:26 PM
2

To be fair, I'm sure the second guy just went straight to date to shorten his answer. It would be a weird reply to go literally through every step in courting.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 07:37 PM
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I mean, this sounds really unrealistic. But if you were successful in every avenue of your life, you wouldn't have sought out TRP. It is true that TRP will kill romantic notions you may have, but you just need to do whatever makes you happy. If that includes being with that girl, then stay with her.
/r/ExRedPill24/05/19 07:33 AM
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I think the 9 and 3 things are just pheromones fucking with you. I'vehad serious connections with girls that are realistically 5s with a nice ass. After fucking a while they appear super hot to me. But in reality, they're still 5s.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/19 04:13 PM
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It has in my case
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/19 03:20 AM
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Risk management
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/19 12:35 AM
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People can feel different about What is moral. Morality is subjective afterall.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/19 12:31 AM
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Could you rephrase? I couldn't quite understand what you were trying to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/19 06:34 AM
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Yes, and that will always happen. Hormones go up and down, and come and go. They aren't consistent like a wavelength of light hitting your receptor and being translated by your brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/19 03:48 AM
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That sounds reasonable, I can agree to that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 07:09 PM
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Eell, love is technically just hormones. Once you know that, it's hard to confirm or deny that real love exists
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 08:35 AM
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I think so. And I live off the GI bill, so I only work if I want to, haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 04:49 AM
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True.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 04:48 AM
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I don't. Only when I deep smile or squint do I sometimes get the eye wrinkles.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 04:47 AM
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I'm 35, no wrinkles
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/19 10:35 AM
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That's your opinion and I respect it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/19 06:59 AM
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Is which girl uglier? My gf is cute and successful, but not as hot as the 'strange' I get. Not as young or sex-driven either. I have it pretty lucky cuz my gf is a private person that doesn't go out all that much except work. Whereas I still work and go to bars.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/19 06:59 AM
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Usually what I do
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/19 06:56 AM
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We live separately, my gf doesn't come to my place. She's cool with me never wanting to get married. And she's a high profile and private person, so she doesn't want me telling people her name (as it's the same name as the company he owns). So, side hoes come to my place and I never tell them my gfs name. It's been fine this way for over 2 yrs thus far.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/19 06:56 AM
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What do you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 07:55 PM
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Can you explain my ex who adores her dad and was raised by him?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 07:54 PM
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