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Edit: I see the downvoting bitch is back. I hope it helps. Go ahead and slap that arrow again.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 05:10 PM
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Sexual assault is always wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 05:09 PM
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My pitbull is having a fit. The great pyrenees is annoying her and she knows she can’t fight him. Her only option is to scream about her displeasure to me. They’re worse than kids
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 05:03 PM
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It’s only on the island for prepping. You’re supposed to have them sanded and sealed on a regular basis. They’re not cheap to maintain, but it’s beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 02:09 PM
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It wasn’t me that did it and our counter is butcher block for that purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 10:47 PM
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PPD remembers all
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:35 PM
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I think you need to work on why the idea of dating and NOT finding a partner is more stressful to you than the idea of not dating in itself. You’ve been on dates. You know you can date. You know you can have sex. Something more is going on in there that needs figured out.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:34 PM
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That doesn’t sound like feeling hopeful. That sounds extremely fearful to trigger that reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 04:52 PM
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You need a new therapist if that’s legitimately the end of the conversation that would be had. They need to be talking to about triggers you might be noticing and definitive actions you can take in those moments to get your thoughts back under control. Will it disappear instantly? No, but it can be enough to make it a moment rather than turning into a spiral.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 04:45 PM
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This specific type of situation is something that your therapist can help you address. “Nothing” is happening and your mind decided that now is the time to change your thought patterns. This is somewhat within your control using the proper tools provided in therapy and some deep self awareness. Too many people only open up about medication working or failing and that has nothing to do with their job. They’re there to help you sort your shit and to develop the coping mechanisms to rewrite your pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 04:42 PM
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There’s a reason, even if you don’t know the cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 04:22 PM
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She doesn’t want to do those things. That’s her not consenting. The context is that he was 100% aware, from the beginning, that she wouldn’t be doing those things. That’s a boundary. That’s not a negative romantic behavior. That is the very definition of consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 11:28 AM
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My husband put raw chicken breast directly on my counters tonight and then decided he was going to chop a salad after wiping it down with a single Clorox wipe. What the fuck is wrong with this man when he enters a kitchen? I swear to god he isn’t stupid, but he might kill you if you let him cook away from a grill. I threw away so much wasted food tonight.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:18 AM
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My house is damn near spotless at all times. It’s almost surgically clean.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:10 AM
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Too much
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:03 AM
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Having boundaries and not consenting aren’t shitty behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 12:15 AM
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I mean he knew and he agreed. No one did this to him but him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 05:04 PM
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I’m down in TN
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 02:53 PM
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That’s me and granddad every morning I tell you what Yep Mhmm Yes sir Hotter than hell I know it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 02:25 PM
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Today is the kind of day you sit on your porch swing, sweet tea in hand, and talk about the weather with as few words as possible. It’s so damn humid
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 02:16 PM
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An ex he was with for more than 6 months waiting for sex knowing her history and how she felt. Idk, maybe he has a fetish for feeling disrespected.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 02:09 PM
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You can view her choices as a judgement of your own worth and the logic makes as much sense as a man staying with someone that makes them feel that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 12:50 PM
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Men aren’t conditioned to take dangerous jobs, join the military, get married, financially support a partner, date partners that don’t meet their standards, or to chase women that reject them either. They choose to date cheaters or women that abuse and baby trap them. They choose to date women that lie about paternity. You too have agency and are capable of accountability for your choices. I don’t see anyone suggesting that men shut up or lose their rights over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 12:47 PM
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I’m trying real hard to appear more sober than I am at this bbq. Idk why, because it’s my fuckin house! I’ll be drunk at my party if I want!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 11:37 PM
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Happy birthday America!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 11:28 PM
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I’m good being almost 6’. I wouldn’t want to be someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 12:49 AM
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I’ve seen women die from pregnancy and child birth. Those were some of the joys I saw working in “modern medicine”. Women still die every day from it. There are too many kids existing now that need parents. I had my tubes tied asap and I 100% would have had an abortion if I had gotten pregnant. It would have stopped me from working in the trauma department. Not wanting to be pregnant is a reason to not be pregnant. I adopted my husband’s daughter and we adopted one together later. Pregnancy woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 06:41 PM
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Did you have good weather?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 05:16 PM
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Good! How about you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 04:31 PM
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6’
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 03:58 PM
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Just shy of 6’. It almost always happens when I wear heels, but it happens other times too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 03:26 PM
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Q4M: Why do you some men get physically aggressive and try to be dominate when they see a tall woman? I’ve had this happen way too many times. Either guys with a nasty attitude or guys that physically touch me. These are not friendly encounters. It’s like my existence upsets some men. This is not stuff that usually happens to the other women around me, except for other exceptionally tall women. Is it emasculation or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 03:23 PM
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My co-workers joked that they could hear the Sephiroth battle song playing when I walked into a room 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 03:11 PM
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Good morning people of ppd. It’s a beautiful day
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 03:04 PM
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There was a point in our relationship where the only time we had together was on the trauma unit. We were both working 80-90 hour weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 02:35 PM
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I think you need to meditate more. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 02:33 PM
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No, I think it’s a waste of time and you can’t fix stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 02:32 PM
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Whatever brightens your day. It’s worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 04:10 PM
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Nice work
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 03:58 PM
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This man is work. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 03:40 PM
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If you’ve ever seen a man argue here then you know that you all hate women and feel entitled to sex, but do you though? Maybe you do and maybe you don’t, but l’m not putting that on you because other men say it. Weird things happen when you see others as individuals. You can stay bitter and make assumptions about intent if you want, but you will do it with someone else. Have a great day!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 03:38 PM
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My husband extended his vacation 2 weeks after our trip and now he’s being a bored whiner because I still have responsibilities. 😂l’m fixin to send him out with my dad to play golf. My kids are hellions and loving life. The rest of the family is good too. We had an amazing trip to the beach with my brother and his kids followed up by Disney. Did l tell you we moved back to TN and I fully stopped working?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 03:35 PM
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Alright, the husband situation is back under control. I booked a tee time for my father and him to go golf. 😂 That will keep him out of my hair long enough to finish everything I need to get done today
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 03:29 PM
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Seek professional help to stop this crazy rage posting about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 03:24 PM
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Ange! How have you been, hon? Everything good in your world?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 03:23 PM
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You’re not born with a social circle and it’s not all women, just as it’s not all men. You’re choosing to argue in bad faith and l’m not having it. Women saying that shit don’t speak for all woman, unless you want to claim that men aren’t lonely as long as they can afford hookers, because plenty of men admit it’s only about access to sex and not even a relationship. Either one can speak for an entire group or no one can do it. I’m not playing some high school bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 03:18 PM
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Can you tell me which point you made actually addresses people claiming to be lonely and their ability to meet others compatible to them in an atomized society where the average person has no money or time to go out and is often working more than one to survive? Where would you like them to meet these new best friends and to have the time to form these bonds?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 03:03 PM
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Being horny or wanting a partner isn’t the same as being lonely or feeling like you’re not cared about as a person. You can be surrounded by people, be married with kids, and be lonely. Women are not often not talking about romantic relationships in this equation and it seems to be the opposite for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 02:49 PM
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Why should women care about the draft or circumcision? If we don’t deserve bodily autonomy then neither do men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 02:33 PM
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I know. He’s spoiled as hell and he loves it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 02:23 PM
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I don’t work outside of the home anymore. I don’t need to do that and he doesn’t need me to do that. I quit because he wanted me to do that to be at home for these things. I sold my private medical practice to do that. My grandpa needs full time care. We also have 2 young daughters. We have 2 high energy dogs and 5 horses that need their needs met too. We came home from our “actual vacation” a few days ago. Now he’s off of work for 2 more week. He’s bored and he will get over it or go find somet…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 02:17 PM
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I’m not trying to hear these excuses. What other women do or don’t do does not apply to my relationship. He knows the amount of work that goes into our life running smoothly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 02:01 PM
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“I thought you’d take a vacation if l took a vacation.” Have my kids, house, horses, dogs, and my grandpa suddenly disappeared and no one told me? Is the food going to cook itself? Who do you think takes care of this mess?? There’s no vacation from it. I have to pay people to take a vacation. Did you do that? Sorry Bub, you’re outta luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 01:52 PM
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No, you’re talking about identical twins when a zygote has split. Fraternal twins are 2 genetically separate children. Yes, it’s happened. https://abstracts.eurospe.org/hrp/0084/hrp0084P3-787
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 01:03 PM
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He doesn’t, but he needs to stop demanding my attention on him every other second to entertain him. I have too much to do for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 01:01 PM
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It’s already happened and been documented.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 12:59 PM
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Which part? It happening or the carrying of children?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 12:56 PM
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The hubs is on vacation for the next 2 weeks and he’s already going insane being at home. Someone get this man back to his office or the hospital. He can’t sit still if it’s not college football season.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 12:03 PM
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No, we’re both medical professionals.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 11:55 AM
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We never touch them. Patients have a right to medical privacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 09:38 PM
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Are you asian?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:45 PM
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Try some milk
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:42 PM
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Was is black licorice
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:41 PM
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I wanna do karate, mom You can’t take karate if you wanna do it to fight your sister 😒 Then l wanna play basketball Karate it is then for my tiny little Asian
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:19 PM
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Not even close to peaceful, but she’s great dog. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:12 PM
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The best dog ever is back in her yard happily patrolling our fence line watching the kids playing outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 02:56 PM
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Me too. I had asked them to not have any adults outside. She has a hair trigger when it comes to other dogs showing aggression towards us.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 01:24 PM
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That went as well as I expected. The breeders had the sire outside in a kennel and my pit lost her damn mind. She couldn’t be moved past him to view the pups. One growl from him was enough to make her switch. There will be no puppy meeting for her today.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 01:08 PM
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As long as you never eat fresh fruits or salad? As long as you never touch your mouth? As long as you never touch your utensils? Maintaining hygiene means cleaning yourself thoroughly with soap and water, aka killing the germs. Animals do not maintain proper hygiene, which is why humans often get sick from contact with them. They do not share your immune system. Do you know where modern handwashing came from? It was an attempt to cut maternal and infant mortality in childbirth and it worked. Doc…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 12:55 PM
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People were also regularly dying from dysentery. Go ahead and try it and see how it works out for you eating the germs from your own feces.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 12:42 PM
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It was never from their hands. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 12:37 PM
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They’re more likely to have a medical condition that causes it than it from being dehydration.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 12:34 PM
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Absolutely not. You don’t know how to clean your hands if that’s the case. You’re supposed to scrub under your nails with a nail brush.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 12:33 PM
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This is bullshit. If your hands are properly clean there aren’t enough bacteria to facilitate fermentation. That’s not how science works.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 12:22 PM
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Can you do it? Yes. Is it healthy? Absolutely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 12:15 PM
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You’re kind of correct. Severe dehydration, like life endangering dehydration can cause sweating to stop. Normal dehydration doesn’t prevent it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 12:08 PM
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I need something that can throw paws. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 12:04 PM
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What generation are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 11:57 AM
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I’d love one, but my pit and Great Pyrenees have to agree on a pup. My gp is a complete asshole that wants to smack everything in sight and my pit doesn’t like most new dogs now.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 11:46 AM
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Better than 🍆💦
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 11:32 AM
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My dogs are in their crates. We’re getting ready to head to the breeder and see if they can agree on a puppy that they both like. I don’t see it working out, but the hubs said let’s give it a try. He really wants a rottweiler.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 11:29 AM
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Tomorrow we’re taking our dogs to pick out a puppy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 10:11 PM
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Invading Cuba feels more like a July activity.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 12:36 PM
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I have so much shit to get done in order to be ready later for girls night out. I already started the laundry for the kids. I have to meal prep for dinner tonight and I need to run several errands before I pick them up from school. It’s going to be a busy afternoon.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 12:31 PM
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😂 That’s cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 12:21 PM
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I know, it’s like men bitching about “men providing” when they’re single and supporting no other person. It’s a senseless emotional outburst to feel justified in their self victimization.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 12:19 PM
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No, but why the fuck would l need permission from my husband for absolutely anything outside of his bodily consent? I’d get another dog if I wanted one.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 11:48 AM
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Hey y’all. Good morning! It’s going to be a beautiful rainy day in Tennessee filled with muddy wet dogs trying to destroy my house.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 11:38 AM
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This is pure misinformation. At 3 months the uterus is protected down in the pelvis. Any “tummy” to this point is bloating, not “baby”. She is at no more risk than anyone. An 8 month pregnancy can miscarry as well from a fall resulting in a still birth.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 10:59 PM
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Men chose the women that rejected them too. 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 05:00 PM
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😂 No, money can get you a gold digger willing to fuck you despite not being sexually attracted to you. Status can do the same. Neither of those are real attraction. Attraction isn’t the same as a willingness to do something or be with a person. Character and morality do not control your hormones. It’s stupid to pretend otherwise. Attraction is amoral. It’s a physical uncontrollable feeling. People are attracted to bad people despite their actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 04:55 PM
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Of course
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 04:49 PM
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I don’t think that you can make up for a lack of attraction with money or status. I don’t think you can simp your way into a relationship. Someone is into you or they’re not. You don’t have to be a top whatever percent man as most men are dating and having sex. What you need is someone that is specifically into you and nothing else.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 04:44 PM
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The blue pill is people that disagree with the red pill, not a set of otherwise specific beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 04:32 PM
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Women only dating men they’re attracted to is not going to change for the reasons that l said. You are in a minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 04:24 PM
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There is no blue pill view outside of you have to be attractive in some way to your potential partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 04:18 PM
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You can’t turn an entire post about women’s lack of attraction to “inferior men” into I only meant women could be more proactive in dating. They’re still never asking those men out or having sex with them. They CAN ask those men out now and are choosing not to do so. They reject those men when they’re approached by them. I’m fairly certain that I wasn’t wrong with my interpretation as being more proactive would change nothing for those men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 04:17 PM
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I have no sympathy for you at this point. You told another commentator that you believe it’s toxic for women to not consider the idea of changing how they have sex. You obviously want women to have painful sex with men they’re not sexually attracted to in order for you to get laid. Get your literal ass on grindr and see how that goes for you. You can have all the sex that you want, and according to your view point, attraction and comfort shouldn’t matter. Be the change you want to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:51 PM
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The amount of people unable to have sex or form relationships, despite trying, is extremely low. That makes you an outlier. It doesn’t make the sexuality of women silly, quirky, or off.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:39 PM
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Pussy isn’t a charity and sex is physically painful for women if they’re not turned on. That’s not how vaginas work. Why on earth would they have sex or offer sex to people they don’t want? Why would you expect that? Why would you want that? Edit: Sexual attraction is not about character in any way. It’s physical attraction, timing, and consent. There USUALLY is something off about men that can never get laid. Whether it’s his appearance, autism, or something else that makes him stick out in a b…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 02:22 PM
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I feel no shame
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:41 AM
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I was feeling myself today. It was the perfect weather for a 10 mile run with the abs out on full display in my sports bra and leggings.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 02:06 AM
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Everyone knows it’s you. No other guys here have sexually harassed the women like you’ve done. You were quite open about your struggles with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 03:57 AM
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We kept our own names and our kids have hyphenated names. They chose to have both as a l adopted his daughter and we adopted another one together. We’re both medical professionals and it wasn’t worth the effort to change all of the paperwork for licenses. My parents were in the same circumstances and I have my father’s last name. My mom didn’t care about us having her name.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 04:17 PM
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Pelvic rest patients exist and it’s quite common. No, that’s not cruel. Not having sex that you don’t feel up to after having a baby, healing, and dealing with hormone fluctuations is not cruel. Have YOU ever met a cancer patient?? Not having sex through chemo and radiation is not cruel. Do you somehow imagine they’re only used for hormone related cancers too? Imagine not being able to keep down food, feeling like you’re on fire, and some partner is worried about having sex. 🙄 Expecting people t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 05:27 PM
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Most couples are both working, dealing with kids, and the financial stresses of life. That is not conducive to a great sex life. Let’s talk about the actual known causes. -hormonal changes for both sexes -chronic illness medications -poor mental health -stress -lack of time that works for both parties -resentment for treatment outside of the bedroom
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 03:17 PM
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You missed mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 01:45 PM
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Show me your data for sexless marriages. You can’t say it’s this percent, most or not, without data.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 01:44 PM
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OP has posted before about her one sided open relationship where he’s allowed to cheat. Now she’s pushing her agenda onto others. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 11:19 AM
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Damn all of those pregnant and new mothers or men too tired after working 60-80 hours a week to support a family. The clothes come off or you’re being cruel and I get to cheat!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 11:17 AM
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Is it cruel for a pregnant wife, on bed rest carrying his child, to not allow her man to cheat? Is it cruel for the mother who just gave birth and can’t have sex for 6 weeks to not allow her husband to cheat? Is it cruel for a man or woman going through cancer treatment to not allow their spouse to cheat? Is it cruel for a partner that works 80 hours a week to support their family to not allow their partner to cheat? None of those things are cruel and yet they’re all major causes of infrequent s…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 11:14 AM
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If you add it all together then nearly 30% of married couples have infrequent or no sex. That’s not how percentages work. Those who haven’t had sex in 5 years are also included in the number that haven’t had sex in a year. Those that haven’t had sex in a year are not considering yearly to be frequent. The number is between 7-15%.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 10:26 AM
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Daughters for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 06:06 PM
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At least the dog is cute. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 05:41 PM
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The autism is strong in that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 05:37 PM
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It’s dbz?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 05:31 PM
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Saw a comment further down that a user had to block a ppd male because they wouldn’t stop being sexual with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 05:18 PM
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<image> The rest are prison tattoos.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 04:49 PM
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He didn’t have nazi face tattoos.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 04:11 PM
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How’s married life treating you?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 03:56 PM
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Is there another ppd sex creep on the loose? That’s unfortunate.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 03:52 PM
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This is the way. When they try to make it personal you find an excuse to be elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 03:48 PM
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I saw a guy for that. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 03:47 PM
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Hey hey y’all!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 03:40 PM
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You can be here and be happily married. No one can be on here 24/7 and have a fulfilling life outside of the internet. You can’t constantly be disengaged and actively participating at the same time. Something is going to suffer.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 04:27 PM
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We need Smarmy to come back and lose his shit again. We need cops doxxing people. We need pics of cows posted here. Wtf happened to this place? Now it’s filled with people that are literally too anxious to go outside or make a phone call.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 03:56 PM
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I’m disappointed. I came back last night to see the post whining about clothes, dances, and college girls being outside. Remember the good days of ppd? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 03:50 PM
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I don’t care about an ex or what you did or didn’t do for her. It makes no difference. You’re meeting my standards and treating me how I want or you’re not. Nothing else matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 01:23 PM
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It doesn’t get better when they’re older. My younger one is up before the sun. “Mommy! 😒 Where’s Bluey? I want cheese danish!”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 01:08 PM
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Talk to your doctor and specifically ask if something like a beta blocker would help you, something known as Propanol. It’s a blood pressure medication originally used to control blood pressure that is also used for anxiety. It controls the racing heart and the physical symptoms of anxiety. It usually has very little side effects in the low doses used for anxiety. DO NOT TAKE IT WITHOUT A DOCTOR PRESCRIBING IT. It’s not addictive and is not a psych drug. It will NOT make you feel like a zombie.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 11:41 AM
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Seriously, get help for it. I see your posts. This is a medical problem. You need medical treatment for it. There are meds that can stop your heart from racing and they prevent your body from reacting to your anxiety. This is way more than a lack of motivation. I wasn’t trolling you or attempting to shame you with my comments. I meant them literally. You are controlled by crippling anxiety. You need to be out socializing. You need to be working and to be financially independent of your parents. …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 04:16 AM
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You don’t have freedom. You’re controlled by your crippling anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 04:05 AM
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What’s the point of screaming you want a bee when you’re indoors?? GO OUTSIDE! You have to get this anxiety under control. You need to get a job and to meet people.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 04:03 AM
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Your penis isn’t the cause of sexual desire. Your penis doesn’t produce hormones.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 03:48 AM
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I never wanted kids. I had my tubes tied asap to avoid the possibility. I did adopt 2 children. I love being a mom, but I could never do the whole pregnancy thing. I’d rather die.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 03:47 AM
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Back in the day young men were forced to go outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 03:43 AM
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Outside of work it’s less than 2 hours a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 03:41 AM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 03:40 AM
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Your kid would be partying already and likely having sex as a teen.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 03:34 AM
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Jfc, why can’t these kids go drink and smoke weed like normal fucking teens and learn to socialize? That’s the real problem with people. Outside of genuine neurodivergence this is all social problems. These kids don’t go out. They have a ton of social anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 03:34 AM
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What are you lovebirds going to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 09:43 PM
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Dinner without the kids, a rare treat.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 09:43 PM
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No joke. That shit is why my dad married a white woman. He didn’t want us to have a tiger mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 08:42 PM
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Hey y’all. I hope everyone is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 07:54 PM
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She did not tell you what hospital. She did not invite you to the hospital. She did not say come see me. She turned down every opportunity to meet you. You are a stalker.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 02:54 AM
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It’s still a mess.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 12:07 AM
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A mess! He was ordered to stay at work for 72 hours straight. That was a bad storm.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 12:07 AM
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Hey kiddo! Happy new year to you too!! We’ve been so busy. We moved back to TN. How is school going?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 11:25 PM
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You stalked your “best friend” and forced her to meet you for the first time by going to different hospitals and lying to staff saying you’re a relative to get in? Maybe don’t do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 11:19 PM
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I hope that you’re wonderful Ange. It’s truly so good to see you. We’re all doing amazingly. We’re all healthy, happy, and my husband is still alive. You can’t ask for more than that. One more dad joke might change part of that last statement, but the kids love his jokes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 10:58 PM
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The getrich guy that post every sentence as a paragraph. He’s notorious for chasing women that aren’t into him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 10:51 PM
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Hope y’all are doing well. Things are great here, but l already hit my ppd limit. I can’t handle the fucking stupidity of some people and their lack of understanding anatomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 10:49 PM
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Do you permanently scar and rip her vaginal canal so you can have sex? Other girls were stretched out before you? Read a god damn book. Vaginas are different sizes exactly like dicks. You’re going to physically harm her if you do that. Not oww, that hurt, but emergency room and possible surgery. You’re literally going to rip her vagina. “This is my only chance.” How many only chances are you going to post on this sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 10:46 PM
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I am Korean/American. It’s traditional to keep your own name in Asia. My husband and I both had doctorates when we got married too. We ain’t got time for changing all of that for professional licenses. We both have short last names and our kids have hyphenated last names by choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 07:50 PM
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Cool. Men want extra validation for keeping their word and doing the same as women. Color me shocked.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 04:53 AM
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You’ve talked to healthy women that didn’t give birth and feel that your wife or other new mothers should feel the same as them. Think about what you just wrote here and half of the shit you wrote is not about parenting. You’re taking care of your physically injured wife like your marriage vows promised you would. Are you doing good, yeah. Are you in any way out classing her as a parent or going through as much as her body? Still no. There’s absolutely no comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 04:50 AM
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Women say this and women say that… 🙄 You can read. I said your wife is doing the same thing as you. No where did I say anything else. I said she’s doing the same and is doing it while having just given birth. I am not other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 04:36 AM
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What is above and beyond for a newborn? Please explain that. The baby needs fed every 2-4 hours. That’s a minimum. The baby needs changed immediately or it will develop skin rashes and sores. The baby needs comforted so it doesn’t develop attachment issues. What are you doing for a 3 week old that is not the bare minimum??
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 04:34 AM
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I genuinely wish a lot of husbands would shut up during this time period. I say that as a retired medical practitioner. I want you to imagine yourself being violently beaten in the pelvis with a baseball bat. Bruised organs and internal bleeding. That’s child birth, natural or not. Now imagine your brother coming over to help you care for the kids during your recovery and then having that same conversation with friends. I can’t believe no rough is getting resentful that I am “almost outclassing …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 04:12 AM
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Your wife is a hormonal mess and her body is trying to recover. She’s not resentful. She thinks she’s being a bad mom. You need to point out to her that you’re not going through the same thing and it’s impossible for you to be doing better than her because of that. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 03:50 AM
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Of course I would. Send them all to my house. 😒
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 02:23 AM
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She wasn’t when we were dating. She wasn’t when we were friends and I was watching her to help him out.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 02:44 AM
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His first wife died. I adopted her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 02:41 AM
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I might if they don’t get home soon. I’m waiting for my dad to say they’re on their way home so I can start cooking dinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 11:23 PM
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Sold it off and moved back to TN last month.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 11:20 PM
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The instant downvotes make me laugh. I appreciate that you feel this strongly about everything I say, but I don’t even know your name.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 11:17 PM
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My kids need to hurry up and get home. I’m hungry.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 11:14 PM
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Does it matter? No, no it does not. My house is paid off, 50/50. My cars are paid off, 50/50. I helped to financially his support his child and physically cared for her when we were only dating. I put in my time. Don’t bring politics into that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 11:05 PM
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It doesn’t count.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 10:42 PM
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You can’t count his paid work hours as towards the household unless ALL of a man’s money is going to household expenses. If 20% is out then so are 20% of those hours. I made more and contributed more when we got together. He makes more now and I have stopped working. We both paid 50/50 for our current house.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 10:39 PM
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I’m embracing my newest transformation into the stay at home wife/mom/carer.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 09:52 PM
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Are you that Indian kid that cycles between being a virgin that’s never asked anyone out because you can’t risk rejection and the version that claims he lost it at 17 while incels are all loser pussy bitches because it’s not hard?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 05:11 AM
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Merry Christmas! I hope everyone had a great one!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:38 AM
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Absolutely not. Pretty sure that is a great pyrenees and they’re not stranger friendly. They’re a guardian breed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 01:09 AM
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You should not be encouraging that conversation or thought pattern in any way. She hasn’t gotten out of rehab. She hasn’t gotten her son out of foster care. Her bpd is still untreated and out of control. You nip that conversation in the bud. No male role model could make up for the chaos that is her life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 02:47 AM
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I don’t see that as shaming anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 02:33 AM
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People need to pay their own damn bills, especially when they don’t live together.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 02:31 AM
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That’s a gold digger.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 02:29 AM
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I’ve only ever blocked one person. He was a complete freak, obsessed with my husband’s dick, and has a cuck fetish.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 01:07 PM
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It was a year for both.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 04:16 PM
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You’re going to join her if you keep it up. You’re showing that you’re not actually upset or being harassed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 04:14 PM
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If a woman is having sex then she’s not a virgin. That door is closed. Most people are having casual sex, at least in the west. 60% of college men are having hook ups. If the average woman is having sex and the average woman gets married then men don’t really care about that issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 03:49 PM
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Relationships are alive and well in America. Most people are in them. More and more people don’t feel a need for a legal document to say what their partner is to them. Women in your own country still use hook up apps. They’re still having sex. They’re still going to universities. Or did you fuck a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 03:43 PM
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I’m barely attracted to anyone sexually. It’s happened 4 times in my life, all East Asian mixed men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 03:41 PM
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No. That’s not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 03:35 PM
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I’d rather be in a relationship with a gay man than be with a straight man not interested in sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 03:32 PM
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It depends. I have patients that have n counts about 20 in college. They’re church virgins as far as anyone outside of those men they slept with know and those men aren’t telling anyone. They’re multiple states away.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 03:14 PM
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If it’s so easy then it shouldn’t be an issue to marry women that went to college out of the country.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 02:49 PM
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That’s pretty bad
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 02:43 PM
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What’s the shadiest male to male behavior you’ve noticed? I knew this athlete in college that would hook up with a bunch of foreign girls from conservative countries knowing they were going to go home and get arranged marriages pretending to be a virgin and no one could prove otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 02:04 PM
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You want to be married, right? You said that before. Marriage and kids are importance to you. According to your logic you shouldn’t have standards and marry just anyone or else you’re lying about wanting it. It’s still important. It’s not so important that it’s all that matters. I don’t know why you guys pretend like you can’t understand that concept or pretend that women are gaslighting you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 12:59 PM
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You’ve had sex before marriage. You’re against women having sex before marriage and then get married. Lying doesn’t help.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 12:51 PM
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Only with cases of neurodivergence involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 08:41 PM
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Against Asians, not Indians, but she’s not claiming it’s all Asian men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 06:03 PM
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Yeah, it’d be racism against Asians.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 06:01 PM
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Race has a definition as does racism. It’s discrimination against a race of people. Indians are not a race. You can say she hates her own people. You can say a lot of things, but it’s not racism.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 06:00 PM
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I can send them to myself, but l’m not sure why I would want that? Indian people are not a race. They are south Asian along with the people of several other countries. They also have mixed ethnic heritage, which is documented through dna studies. They’re not a race. Good luck with your confusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 05:56 PM
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Indians are not a race.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 05:45 PM
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You might be more obsessed with him than his gf. This shit is wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 05:11 PM
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Are you like 40? You have low odds even with money.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 04:50 PM
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I am Asian. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 03:56 PM
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I have kids and a job! I told you the snacks would not survive my house!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 03:43 PM
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It’s not an incel myth, just like your rape statistic doesn’t include marital rape because it’s not a crime there. It’s still fucking rape. You can’t brush past these issues and pretend they don’t happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 03:38 PM
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Pam Stop calling me out like this, Brenda!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 03:32 PM
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Good credit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 03:31 PM
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https://www.bbc.com/news/world-asia-india-27775327
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 03:26 PM
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https://wifitalents.com/casual-sex-statistics/ Today we learned the majority of young men are privileged because they’re having casual sex despite what the internet claims. I had no idea that 60% of young men were walking around looking like models or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 03:09 AM
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Show me where I mentioned looks. Show me where I mentioned anything at all like you’re stating. I said you can’t be pumped and dumped if you’re looking for casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 01:17 AM
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I’m Korean and Northern European.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 07:28 PM
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Pumped and dumped wouldn’t be the same as someone having casual sex. Pumped and dumped means the woman wanted more than that and couldn’t get it from him. You can’t make that assumption that having casual sex means she was used. Women like sex too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 07:27 PM
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What ethnicity is everyone? I’m half asian half white.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 07:18 PM
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I’ll be right over
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 07:17 PM
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Today is Badger’s birthday! Please send her well wishes for another year in her life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 01:11 AM
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I think I upset my husband for the first time ever. I told him that I want him to go see a therapist. I don’t want to keep hearing about issues with his first wife and their relationship if he needs to talk about them. That has nothing to do with us.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 07:50 PM
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Poor guy needed surgery and you can’t help but comment on his looks and status like that changes that he’s a man reacting to pain,
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 05:30 PM
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I was checking Amazon for a new sling for my arm and in the results it also showed me 12 different stomach girdles and binders. The obesity epidemic is real.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 04:27 PM
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Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 02:33 PM
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You can think what you want about my stated preferences. That doesn’t equal caring about your opinion or having a desire to satiate your curiosities as to why I feel a certain way.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 02:06 PM
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Who said that you had to do anything? Go live your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 01:57 PM
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What does that have to do with personal feelings? Not a damn thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 01:57 PM
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Having money isn’t being a nepo baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 01:55 PM
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Sorry. Why do you think so many married doctors and nurses have affairs with each other instead of others? It’s not proximity in this case. There’s a LOT of baggage in the field.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 01:54 PM
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I don’t really think that l could be married to someone that isn’t another medical professional. There’s too much baggage in this field that most people wouldn’t be able to understand. That’s why so many hook up with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 01:48 PM
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That’s nice. I’m not interested in being your social experiment.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 01:43 PM
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A nepo baby is a person that gets a job because of their parents and not based on their qualifications. It’s not about their bank account or paycheck. It’s their lack of goals and work to achieve them for me too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 01:39 PM
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Because I can and I do. Why do you care why I care or what preferences I have for a man? You shouldn’t, but you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 01:34 PM
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It has nothing to do with wealth or status. I can’t be with a bitch that won’t do for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 01:29 PM
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My daughter said she’s going to be a doctor instead of a vet, because it’s too sad when animals die. That’s 100% my child.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 01:28 PM
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I couldn’t be with a nepo baby that didn’t put in the work for their career. That’s completely unattractive to me. I need a man with ambition and drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 01:18 PM
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You can choose where your assets go after death. It doesn’t need to be your kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 04:26 PM
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Girlfriends and boyfriends have no legal right to the assets of a partner, nor should they have them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 04:19 PM
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What’s supposedly angry about pointing out that you have no experience with the subject you’re hypothesizing over? You’re confidently incorrect as usual. Every time someone has a different opinion, from their actual lived experience, you attempt to demean and dismiss it with some bullshit reason because it goes against your assumptions and theories. You genuinely can’t handle when others have a differing opinion from you. You have to make it about them being wrong and it’s ridiculous. That’s you…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 01:37 PM
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You’re an unemployed high school drop out that lives with his parents asking if it’s your fault that every one of your friends has abandoned you and your own siblings prefer each other to you. Why are you speaking on things you have no experience with if you want this to be your argument? Now is not the time for your ego and sexism to kick in.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 01:26 PM
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There’s no difference. Real friends are family to each other, but your closest always come first. I have 3 “best friends” and I would kill for them all. I would do anything for them including sacrificing my own life to protect them. I have family that I wouldn’t do a damn thing for if they needed it. Family is a word. It’s about the bonds, not the blood.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 01:23 PM
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Family is nothing more than close personal relationships. You can feel the same about friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 01:13 PM
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The best time of my life wasn’t beating cancer or opening my own practice. The best times are watching my grandfather, my parents, or my husband playing with my kids. It’s having a big family dinner and watching my nieces being silly. We do things that are hard and need to be done.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 01:07 PM
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What kind of fucking nutter are you to suggest that someone having pain when they breathe doesn’t need to see a doctor or need medicine? Seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 10:20 PM
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She is a college student on her parent’s insurance. Antivirals are covered.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 10:18 PM
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For antivirals
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 10:11 PM
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My kids cry when my husband has to cook. It’s definitely not a deal breaker for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:51 PM
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You’re a drama llama. That mess was too much for me the first time it happened. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:23 PM
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Go get tested. You probably have it after all of your hahaha l can’t get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:14 PM
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Go get tested for covid. It can take up to 2 weeks to show symptoms.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:08 PM
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You’re going through a totally normal phase, kiddo. You don’t need to have it figured out at 19. Study something that really interests you and it will work itself out. Look at your mom and remember how long it took her to get here. Some people make a plan early and are committed to that plan. That doesn’t mean their head is clear or that they’re internally confident. I promise you this is normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 03:38 AM
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Well I hope it’s a choice for you with this administration.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 11:35 PM
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Trump is at a eulogy talking about how his administration of fuck ups are going to announce the cause of autism tomorrow and how to partially cure them. 🙄 I hope we can survive this dumbass as a country.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 10:42 PM
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My self respect is worth a lot more than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 07:23 PM
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Absolutely a no. I would never date a man for money. I make my own and I live quite comfortably.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 07:20 PM
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These same people expect me to pretend he’s a sane competent well intentioned man, for 12 mother fucking years, while he attempts to destroy our constitution. This president is a psychotic killer dementia patient that doesn’t deny being attracted to kids, but says 12 is too young for him. These people can say he/she/him/her/they/their or whatever this trans or nonbinary person prefers for the less than 1% of your life that they interact with them. I don’t want to hear a mother fucking word about…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 05:42 PM
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What about them? Leave them alone. They’re people.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 05:24 PM
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I wouldn’t have dated you for a million reasons. Being a vet is somewhere on that list.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 05:21 PM
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Government officials that vote against any kind of gun regulation need to be forced to send their children and grandchildren to schools without paid security. We need stricter gun control as a country.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 05:16 PM
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It’s confirmation bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 05:14 PM
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Absolutely not. Both of my parents were military officers. I respect the service. I wouldn’t be with a military man or police officer. The statistics for violence are too high.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 05:05 PM
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Yes, it matters a lot and how it happened. Military? No, I wouldn’t date them. Self defense? Yes. Patient died on you? Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 04:56 PM
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Getting to know people changes nothing for me. Physical attraction is instant or it doesn’t ever exist. It’s like a switch.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 04:54 PM
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Idk how you define few, but every time I go out with the girls they’re pointing out 2 to 3 men they find really hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 04:22 PM
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I did it. I posted their grandpa’s penis on the internets and everyone clapped and gave me awards. It was YUUUGE, the admiration for my work, not the penis. That was average and unremarkable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 04:19 PM
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According to ppd the average woman is a ran through whore with an n count in the hundreds because she couldn’t keep her legs closed to Chad. Now it’s average to only have sexual attraction to 4 men at almost 30. How does that make sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 04:17 PM
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I have asexual attraction. I’ve always acknowledged that. That’s not typical.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 04:14 PM
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I’m friends with my ex. My husband is friends with several women that he dated. It doesn’t bother either of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 04:03 PM
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I’ve now seen 4 men in my life that I was sexually attracted to by physical appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 04:02 PM
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Why is someone always sick early Sunday morning?? Why? You can wait until after 7am to start messaging about appointments! Let me sleep!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 01:50 PM
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I have kids and pets. Calm is for other houses.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 01:43 PM
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All statistics point to a recession. You not struggling doesn’t equal no mass struggle. My next door neighbor is losing their house because they lost their management position with downsizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 01:40 PM
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I’m really thinking about it. This shit is crazy. Where are the reasonable conservatives at??
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 06:41 PM
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I’m thinking of running for political office back in my home state. I can’t stand the madness going on in this country.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 12:13 AM
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Hi! How are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 12:09 AM
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Well she is a doctor. That makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 12:06 AM
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Hey Ange! Nice to see you!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 11:57 PM
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Your testes are fine if you’re complaining on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 11:35 PM
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Hey y’all. Hope you’re all doing well in life and finding peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 11:32 PM
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Awesome! My practice is finally stable. I’m down to 45 hour weeks. My kids are nuts, but that’s their normal. Life is pretty great at the moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 11:21 PM
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Super busy with life. How are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 10:23 PM
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There’s always a risk, but it is generally considered safe to have a glass of wine or beer. It’s safer than taking Tylenol while pregnant pregnant or eating lunch meats.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 10:23 PM
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That doesn’t change the fact that it’s safe to drink while pregnant. We’ve known this for quite some time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 09:56 PM
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You shouldn’t be having sex 3-4 times a day if you’re trying to get pregnant. You don’t have a constant supply of sperm. Uterine contractions can also prevent implantation. There’s numerous reasons to not have sex constantly when trying to concieve.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 09:49 PM
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Hey people
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 09:47 PM
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It's doing well. We've successfully stolen all of the children from the main practice plus my original patients. We got off the ground without any major issues and have settled into our routine. The other office has hired new staff to replace everyone. It's been good for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 03:34 PM
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Fruit/dried fruit
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 03:32 PM
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What's wrong? Do you want to talk about it? We can talk privately if you want too. Things are going pretty well here. I finally have my new practice under control and my family is settling into a new routine nicely. Still a little crazy, but it's alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 03:20 PM
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How are you doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 03:13 PM
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Real
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 03:13 PM
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My little one is learning english at an alarming rate, but she uses her powers for evil like her momma and sister by telling her dad to stop being lame. It's to where she might not need a translator full time for next year. She's made amazing progress. My older monster is still a monster. No music lessons this year. I asked her if she wanted to play anything and she rolled her eyes. "Stop being a stereotype, mommy." I was like damn, that hurts my ancestors. This child is not going to be a doctor…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 03:05 PM
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That's awesome! I'm so happy for all of you. How's the "little one" and your wife too? How are you? We're all doing great here and finally settling into a routine.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 02:54 PM
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How are you guys doing? Is your daughter coming home this summer? How did her first year go?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 02:46 PM
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Hey y'all
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 02:36 PM
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Busy with work, but it’s all decently good
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 04:37 PM
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Hello everyone. I hope you’re all doing well.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 04:32 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 01:55 AM
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Still is on mine. They're apparently updating again.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 01:53 AM
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Put down the drugs, kiddo. What's colored?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 01:30 AM
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trying to jerry-rig that behaviour onto the side of 'ableism' is far more problematic when you consider what people with disabilities and learning difficulties have to face daily That group she described includes people with disabilities. She's calling them creeps too with her train of thought. Being weird to you and being a creep are not the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 03:17 PM
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My husband knows what would happen if he ever cheated.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 03:03 PM
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If youre being called a creep over it, youre most likely acting like a Disney adult, which is creepy. Disney adults are displaying neurodivergent behaviors. They're not doing anything wrong and it's incredibly problematic to say that they're acting creepy. You feel creeped out. Your perception and ableism does not make for an objective judgment of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 01:49 PM
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There are multiple states in the US and other countries where it's perfectly legal to marry a family member that is outside the immediate risk of biological harm when it comes to genetics. There are multiple countries where you can marry within that risk, almost guaranteeing that your offspring will suffer inherent harm by your choice. I don't know of a single case of incest charges against an adult that don't involve grooming. Edit: There are US states that allow first cousin marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 01:38 PM
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We've always used a 50/50 bill split for our relationship. We have separate finances because I own my medical practice and have a lot of professional financial responsibilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 09:29 PM
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Men don't owe women relationships. They don't owe them "wooing" or "competing" with other men. I can assure you that plenty of men are still trying to get desirable women. These women are the common denomination if they can't get "decent men". They're not worth the effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 02:08 AM
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You can't make people want to be pregnant or to raise kids. My kids were adopted because I never wanted to be pregnant. It would have interfered in my life too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 07:41 PM
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This is the delusional part. Women think their emotions are the only ones that matter. Listen to what you're saying, so she's rude to him and is still he's job to coddle her? Why can't she be the one assuring she's stressed and it has nothing to do with him? Next time my husband comes home from a day of surgeries and looks and acts annoyed l'll be sure to make it about me and accuse him of giving me attitude when he says "what" in a tone that I don't like. He should be responsible for how he tre…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 07:14 PM
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Probably not. Ny state has a law against audio or televised trials.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 07:04 PM
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Her husband ask a question lol Yes, he said why you giving me an attitude making her irritation about him instead of asking her if something was wrong. She knows she's irritated and uses her husband as an emotional punching bag, escalating the situation for no reason She also "only asked him a question." Strange when it comes from her that she's using him as an emotional punching bag. How would her husband know she didn't want to get distracted? is he a mind reader? He asked. She answered. He di…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 07:02 PM
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She said what and he got pissed off. He is being unreasonable unless she was yelling at him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 06:49 PM
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She started the whole thing by saying what when he called her name interrupting her? Wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 06:47 PM
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I suggested that maybe next time he could say "Hey HazelMay, are you busy?" He was not in agreement with that, and went into a bit of a monologue where he was like, "Okay, I could do that, but I don't even know how to talk to you without you getting upset anymore! "I told you how to approach it and you're making excuses to not do it." You're not being unreasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 06:22 PM
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You're right, it is the job of OP to defend his argument, which specifically states that most feminists hate men. We need that data.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 05:35 PM
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Suddenly anecdotal incidents are data?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 05:23 PM
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Those are signs of excessive undirected energy and poor coordination. They're not signs of autism and the diagnosis can't exist without the significant social impairments.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 05:19 PM
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Can any of you show some "qualifying data" that shows most feminists hate men? Anyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 05:07 PM
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I'm not saying it's not possible, but you're missing most of the criteria by not having those experiences. There are a lot of conditions that have overlapping traits, but being an overthinking person with high awareness of how they're socially perceived and being aware of developing social skills isn't a disorder. Stimming or fidgeting, for example, is self soothing and is common among the majority of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 05:04 PM
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Ah yes, the no true Scotsman fallacy. Carry on with your delusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 04:50 PM
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You suffered from meltdowns? You had significant struggles engaging with others at school? You struggled to talk about anything outside of your particular interests? You were painfully shy and others often had to speak for you to your peers? You struggled to make and maintain friendships?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 04:45 PM
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How old were you at diagnosis?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 04:27 PM
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https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/03616843231202708 You are incorrect. They're not the fringe and we have data.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 04:13 PM
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Nothing to do with it and being why he won are worlds apart. Nuances matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 04:06 PM
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I don't view the random anyone with suspicion, because I'm not paranoid. Trump was elected based on the economy and immigration. It wasn't because of feminism. A lot of liberal women voted for him too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 03:14 PM
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Do I expect him to fight anyone? I prefer that he not get into fights, but I would be livid if I asked for his assistance and he ignored me because he was intimidated by a conversation. That would cause a huge problem in our relationship and I don't know that it would survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 01:39 PM
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New male birth control is coming. Women don't have the right to financially abort a living child either. Men don't get pregnant. You'll have equal rights with oral contraception.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 01:28 AM
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We have no proof either way because it wasn't recorded as a crime. <image> More than 1 in 10 are raped by their husband and 1/3 have had unwanted sex. That's with it being illegal in 2006. Is it still not an issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 10:10 PM
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Maybe it was because it's an egregious crime. So egregious that many states to not treat it as the same crime as rape and have rape shield laws if you're with that person as a partner. 🙄 https://www.npr.org/2019/05/04/719635969/this-woman-fought-to-end-minnesotas-marital-rape-exception-and-won That was done in 2019. How is it seen as that fucking bad when these laws still exist? It's not and you can't say there's no rape as a reason to change the law.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 10:06 PM
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Because of the rape. It's also why the laws had to be redone after it was originally outlawed because rape of your spouse was treated less seriously than rape of someone else by the courts.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 07:43 PM
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The risk of being raped by a partner (even a medium or long term boyfriend) who you engage in sex with is high enough to warrant refusing to have sex with all men, even your long term partner? The rate of spousal rate was so high that countries had to outlaw it. That should tell you something. I personally would want any woman who seriously thinks I might rape them to break up with me. I would a woman to feel safe with me. That's why they're avoiding men, which you're also criticizing and saying…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 03:35 PM
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If anyone wants to bring up Stealthing, then you can combine an IUD with female condoms, which eliminates the risk of stealthing. I love how casual you are about sexual not assault leading to pregnancy if she takes enough precautions. It's still sexual assault. This idea is the entire point. These women feel that they can’t trust potential partners to respect their boundaries or their humanity. No, it's not only about pregnancy. No, it's also not about an election result. It's the fact that so m…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 03:05 PM
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Sure it does. Universities attempted to use Title IX rules to hold sham trials and kick male students out of schools. The schools tried to claim that these were real trials, but were sound by real judges to have had no actual substance of a real trial and that they already had a pre-determined outcome Trials involve a criminal record and legally upheld punishment. Schools do not have the right to remove your freedom. It is not a trial. Most precincts may only hold you for 72 hours under suspicio…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 02:39 AM
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Wtf nonsense is this? Title IX has nothing to do with the legal system or trials. Then, the same for trials like the man accused in PA who sat in jail for 30 days with no evidence, phone call, trial, face his accuser, or legal counsel. That's allowed in the legal process and is not a gendered thing. The legal system can hold you without trial or charges for x number of days. Look at the woman arrested and held for having a miscarriage and then later released because the prosecutor couldn't get a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 02:24 AM
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Men have all of the same freedoms and yet they're still complaining. No one is forcing anyone to do anything. A lack of opportunity is not the same as being denied the freedom to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 08:38 AM
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General you. Anyone that puts their hands on you in violence has no respect for you. Not sure how a guy can see that and think at least she's not fucking someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 08:18 AM
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How were you supposed to know that he wouldn't kill you? There was a gun in the house and it was self defense.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 12:03 AM
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That person has 0 respect for you. None, absolutely none.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 11:47 PM
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That is so nice of you to let him continue living after putting his hands on you. You're a bigger person than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 11:46 PM
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One that hits me. I'll handle his ass and find a new man.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 10:06 PM
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Yes, and he's been doing it for years. This isn't new, but I never heard of him involving women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 03:24 PM
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He has a cuck fetish.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 03:09 PM
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Dbz ran out of women to dm and messaged multiple guys talking sexually about Sarai.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 03:07 PM
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Aww, your first vote!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 03:05 PM
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This isn't a feminist issue. This is a severe mental illness and hatred issue. Feminism is about equal rights and women having a choice. That's it. Why would you expect feminists to be different than any other man or woman seeing that post? It's wrong when anyone says hateful things.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 11:12 PM
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No, it’s not “100% subjective.” Why would you even think that..? Because you don’t want it? The vast majority of people do, and monogamous partnerships and children empirically have been found to raise happiness. You desperately need to learn to read and stop making assumptions. I'm married. 😂 Please go ahead and explain to how women are sooo much happier married and justify the divorce rate and the fact that it's 80% women filing the paperwork. Were they so happy that they couldn't take it? The…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 09:44 PM
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It's 100% subjective that having a spouse, kids, or whatever is good. Both of those are shown to shorten the lifespan of a woman. Nobody really thinks or argues that being a junkie and having a codependent junkie boyfriend who buys your drugs is “having it all.” Doing drugs occasionally doesn't make one a junkie and having a man that provides for financially doesn't make him a junkie or codependent. Those are your opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 07:14 PM
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The hivemind has spoken. 18 figures
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 06:22 PM
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18 figures or bust. Those are new standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 06:19 PM
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Is he a model pulling in 18 figures and all of the babes? I didn't think so. You settled. You can't be happy and fulfilled until some random man approves that feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 05:45 PM
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Can you personally feel happy with your life if OP or someone else thinks that you settled or didn't live how they expected? I think not. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 05:43 PM
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But this habit of saying men are insecure or misogynist if they don't fall in line and marry a post wall woman instead of a younger woman is garbage. The basis of ppd is that women won't settle for men they don't want and here's why they're wrong for that. You don't have to marry the post wall woman and young women aren't wrong for not getting with guys they don't want either. Live your life, but it's not on anyone else to give you what you seek.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 05:38 PM
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If a woman defines it as being able to get high whenever she wants and a man who will pay for that habit, and she has that, she does not “have it all.” She does in fact have it all if that if what she wants in life. but that happiness is also dependent on objective(ly good) conditions and resources Your idea of objectively good or bad is completely subjective and based on your moral opinion. Getting high whenever she wants doesn't equal an addict/abuser or hard drugs. What you're describing coul…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 05:32 PM
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According to men on this sub the majority of men have no good options and settle for what they can get. That's a far cry from having it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 05:20 PM
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Having it all is defined by what a woman wants for a happy life. A stay at home mother can have it all and a childless woman happy in her career and single can have it all too. It's whatever they want. I never wanted to be pregnant. I got my tubes tied in my early 20's. I got married at 28 to another medical professional. We're pulling in over half a million a year. I have 2 amazing beautiful adopted kids. I have everything I want in my life. How do I not have it all? How is anyone going to tell…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 05:15 PM
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Why do you feel that women should be obligated to hear you out because you want something?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 01:21 AM
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It’s as if women go out of their way NOT to be approached by men even when they DO feel safe, and for what reason? Because nobody has time for that shit. Most women are not single.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 01:20 AM
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The only quoted acceptable reason in the Bible is for sexual immorality. You're allowed a divorce. You're not allowed to be with another person while your ex is alive. That's why annulment became a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 01:14 AM
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The vows are based on Christianity and yes, that is the basis. The religion only approves divorce for abuse and cheating, not personal feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:33 AM
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Same
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:23 AM
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No, but l consider it an inappropriate pain in the ass when some guy that isn't my family starts telling me their problems expecting me to comfort him. That's not my job and I don't want to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:10 AM
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I would tell her to call the cops and have his ass thrown in jail, but you're not talking about abuse. You're talking about leaving a fine relationship because of personal happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:09 AM
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I don't try to hurry her along, but omg she's so slow and distracted.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 09:53 PM
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Single means not in an exclusive committed relationship. That's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 09:52 PM
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Get her a weighted vest.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 09:36 PM
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My younger daughter might be the slowest eater l have ever seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 09:33 PM
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Did you seriously downvote me? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 09:31 PM
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I don't understand why you're so focused on what these guys think about random women. You're letting it get into your head if you feel the need to make these posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 09:27 PM
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My husband and family have every right to the expectation that I will listen and comfort them when things take an unexpected turn in life. That's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 08:31 PM
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I'm sorry for your loss.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 08:24 PM
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Right, women stopped men from dating younger as if those men were acting getting young women. That would indeed be funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 07:34 PM
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And according to women, women's brains aren't fully developed until they're 25 That's not considered a gendered thing, but wow, imagine getting conned or scammed by someone you consider a child. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 07:08 PM
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"For better or worse"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 06:39 PM
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How do you feel when a man leaves his wife and children to start a new life because she makes happier? That's what you're endorsing. The younger sexier woman that hasn't given birth makes him happier and he deserves to be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 06:32 PM
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Expecting another human to be responsible for your happiness is probably one of the dumbest damn things I have ever heard in my life. Their job IS to do the right things. Their job is to cultivate a romantic connection with you. Your mental health and personal feelings about your life are not on them unless their direct actions are the source of your unhappiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 05:53 PM
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Pretty much. Maybe they shouldn't be allowed credit cards and unsupervised internet access.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 04:54 PM
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That's what men say about men constantly and why women can't be trusted to make decisions. Men are rational, logical, and don't make decisions based on their emotions. Now suddenly they're victims because they got exactly what they paid for on OF.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 04:48 PM
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Sound mind, logical, and rational. Ask ppd.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 04:31 PM
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It's not who they please. They can't feel attraction. Those men can't sexually, romantically, or emotionally fulfill those women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 09:30 PM
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You feel the same way about women that don't find inexperienced virgin men attractive too, right? It's not a choice for them. It's definitely 100% not on them for not wanting those particular men. They can't make it happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 09:21 PM
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They cant give that to Yes they can, but those men don't want it from that woman. That's completely different than they can't do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 09:15 PM
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It's also even worse because it would be like if people who don't pay taxes get extra privileges Wait until you learn about SSI, medicaid, and welfare being available to those that have never paid taxes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 09:09 PM
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I don't say that to men. You can be a good guy and be completely unattractive as a potential partner. Attraction is amoral.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 09:03 PM
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they add something actually valuable which is romantic and emotional fulfillment, which is something high n women cant give them. You're now doing what you accuse the other side of doing. Having casual sex doesn't make someone emotionally dead and unable to be romantic or to be a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 09:01 PM
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It looks dry too. Aloe gel would really help.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 03:52 AM
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Looks like healing road rash.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 12:22 AM
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I know there are rape by deception/fraud cases. Those circumstances would constitute sexual violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 08:56 PM
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No worse than lying about birth control to baby trap someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 08:49 PM
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There's nothing wrong with his choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 08:38 PM
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I wouldn't go on a first date with that man. Casual sex is a complete deal breaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 05:23 PM
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Using a different example: the obesity rate is increasing in the US. As more people become overweight, does the average value for people's looks go down, or does the average value stay the same, because "a 5" is always average relative to everyone else? The average value goes down. It's not comparative to other individuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 04:00 AM
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Offend away. You're allowed to do that. No one is free of judgment.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 01:26 AM
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Not everyone wants biological children or only biological children. There are a lot of beautiful children that need loving homes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 06:45 PM
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Do you want to know what men are afraid of here? That you will turn into the guy they talk about that looks down on women because he makes more and that lack of respect means you run the relationship. Ignore it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 12:39 AM
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My husband and I both work and make 6 figures, but it makes him extremely happy spoil to me and our 2 girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 12:27 AM
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About 40% of American men snore.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 07:33 PM
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We're both extremely light sleepers from work. Not snoring is underrated as far as sleep is concerned.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 07:01 PM
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The updated covid vaccine has me in my feelings. I hate feeling bitchy on days that should be good.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 06:59 PM
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My kids would like a word with you. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 06:55 PM
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Forcing a doctor to provide an abortion is a compelled action. Forcing doctors to violate their morals is equivalent to rape. This isn't happening. The law already prevents doctors from being forced to provide any procedure that violates their beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 12:26 AM
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Men say she's too loose every day and have been saying it for decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 09:37 AM
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That is exactly what the OP is saying. That's his logic. A size queen is saying she has a loose pussy and guys wanting small and tight have little dicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 09:31 AM
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If you're talking about loose pussy you have a small dick. That's his entire argument. Now what did he say? Loose pussy feels different. He is saying he has a small dick by his own logic. Context is your friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 05:11 PM
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you decided to personalize the discussion here too, again because you took the depersonalized discussion here personally His direct comments, regardless of where they were posted, are his comments and thoughts. That's not me personalizing it or making assumptions, which was your accusation, but nice try.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 05:00 PM
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<image> Is there anything else you would like to be wrong about? Edit: oh no, downvotes. Please sir! Not my precious reddit karma! You're saying you have a small dick if you're complaining about loose pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 04:45 PM
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Read the sentence before that. It's contextual and not personalizing the discussion. Men reading what's written and not picking and choosing something to be offended by challenge. (Impossible) 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 04:29 PM
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Totally, and if a circumsized man doesn't feel as much pleasure from his nerve endings it means he has a small dick. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 03:11 PM
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Maybe it's knowing that she will not be held accountable and it will create clout and status for her... In your imagination.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 03:03 PM
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Yet, body shaming men is currently widely accepted behavior on social media that women openly do.. To be honest those girls joking amongst themselves in the same way and it's okay for both if it's okay for one.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 02:35 PM
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Women can literally dilate. What the fuck. Vaginas do not dilate. The cervix alone dilates. The vagina can be stretched. Your penis can be stretched and "dilated" too. Women can fit objects 2-3x the size of a human penis inside of them. You gotta be joking The vagina is meant to stretch for birth. Of course it can fit baby sized objects. It also tears, is injured, and take weeks to heal from the bruising. Men can do the same thing by shoving sex toys into their urethra. It goes back to normal un…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 02:34 PM
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"It's like throwing a hot dog down a hallway. I had to tie a board to my ass to not fall in." Those words aren't regularly said by men. 🙄 Men are pissed off that women now do it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 02:13 PM
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so I'm calling out the double standard Are you really pretending that the reverse hasn't always existed? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 02:12 PM
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A preference for tight or big has nothing to do with the size of your own sexual organs. You are saying that your own preferences mean you have a small dick. Do you have a small dick?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 01:57 PM
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Are you giving your nails to your partner as an offering? No, then it's not a sacrifice. We don't get to make up weird ass definition. You cut your nails. You didn't give up something you wanted and you didn't make an offering of you nails to your partner. That is the definition of a sacrifice. It's something intentionally offered to a greater cause or giving up something highly valued. You did not sacrifice your nails.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 11:19 PM
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You should ask him for the medical term for a miscarriage. It's a spontaneous abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 11:00 PM
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Sacrifice can be defined as “an act of giving up something valued for the sake of something else regarded as more important or worthy.” The mother is giving up the unwanted fetus for something she perceives as kore valuable. That doesn't mean the mother valued it. Under your definition it's not a sacrifice.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 10:32 PM
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A child is birthed. It a fetus until it's born.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 10:31 PM
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Are you saying he’s wrong that most abortions don’t involve killing the fetus? Most abortions are done with medication. It doesn't kill the fetus. The fetus dies as a result. Congratulations, you can now tell him that he is indeed wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 10:27 PM
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This isn't what ritualistic or sacrifice mean. Your friend is an idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 10:23 PM
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No one, man or woman, wants to pay for and take care of your kids while dealing with shit from your ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 12:52 AM
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I married a single father and adopted his daughter. The caveat was that his first wife died. I wouldn't have dated a divorced man with a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 11:50 PM
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democrats or china, is what i’m hearing. wish i wasn’t lmao I didn't know China was involved. I've been sleep a lot. I need to catch up on my conspiracies. thanks for caring ❤️ the outpouring from other places has been incredible. esp crazy to see people from NC here helping out after what their community has endured. honestly the things i’m seeing have me a little emotional. It's an emotional time any time there's a natural disaster. These situations bring out the best in some and the worst in …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 06:49 PM
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Great news.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 06:39 PM
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It might really be a Democrat conspiracy if that one gets Tampa too. Glad you're safe and minimally damaged. You need to get some sleep before you're out there digging through dangerous debris. That is not safe under the best of circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 06:34 PM
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I didn't think I needed to specify the people hit by the hurricane.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 06:21 PM
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I hope everyone remained safe from the hurricane.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 06:16 PM
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They love frozen fruit bites.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 10:10 PM
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Sweet potatoes. They like them cut up fresh and you can dehydrate or bake the slices to make a rawhide replacement chew. Don't feed them the skin. They get cookies made from oats and honey. Frozen yogurt and berries in ice trays.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 10:08 PM
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I make their treats from human food.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 10:05 PM
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Please explain where that number comes from. From court cases. 11% have mediation. That still doesn't involve the judge. https://earthweb.com/blog/child-custody-statistics/ It's beside the point anyway. When society as a whole keeps telling men they aren't needed, eventually men begin to act like they aren't needed. The whole point is that men could be parents and choose not to do it. Stop blaming everyone else on the planet for their personal decisions. There are great fathers that exist and th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:45 PM
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Most divorces don't involve lawyers, but all divorces DO involve judges. I think every study on this subject ever done has shown a massive bias against fathers by judges... it's systemic. Judges make custody decisions in 4% of cases. That's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:26 PM
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This is not true and statistics don't support that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:19 PM
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https://talkingparents.com/parenting-resources/child-custody-court-case-cost The average cost is 3-40k. That 40 is involving evaluations. It's not hundreds of thousands.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 04:51 PM
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In my opinion they move on fast because they never cared. They aren't affected, and they found you diposable. They're with someone else immediately not because they want to replace you. They don't care. It's simply because it's all about them, and a new person is always gonna be exciting, with all the benefits. Or they've stepped back mentally before the break up because they weren't happy. A break up is a good thing in that case and there's no reason to cry and feel bad about not being in a bad…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 04:17 PM
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A lot of states have a default of 50/50 and kids in those states still have every other weekend dads. They can't be bothered to parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 04:08 PM
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Men that choose to not seek partial or more custody are making that choice for their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 04:00 PM
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But they still have the nerve to be like the parent that chooses to be a parent is the real problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 03:55 PM
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If the statement is true, does that mean that we all agree that the presence of a father figure is crucial in a child's development, thus highlighting that women filing for divorce do it at the cost of their children's well-being? There's 0 reason for a father to not be involved after a divorce. Men don't file for custody. Less than 10% of divorce custody goes to court. Men choose to not be involved. It's not a mother's job to force a man to be a parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 03:30 PM
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There's no need to be dramatic. That's not happening and people with food allergies do not eat random food offered to them. There are multiple ways to "take revenge" if a psycho wants to harm them. No personal information is needed. You're looking for an excuse to justify being mad at her.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 10:47 AM
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She's raising awareness for childhood food allergies and their devastating effects. That's a far cry from narcissism. HIPAA says your medical providers and insurance company can't release your medical information. That's it. HIPAA does not apply when someone else shares information you have told them. The law was never meant for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 03:27 AM
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Absolutely. My best friend is a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 05:05 PM
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You didn't get your answer the first 36 times that you posted this exact same question?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 03:53 PM
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He did. We were there. Don't you remember?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 03:46 PM
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I would have done it then and I would do it now. I would do it for a stranger. It has nothing to do with gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 09:27 PM
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socially disabling That's a part of EQ, not IQ.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 01:26 PM
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Check your chat messages if you want a laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 12:58 PM
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MSCEIT
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 12:33 PM
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Again and again and again 😂 I hope you're all doing well.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 12:25 PM
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also many high IQ people tend to have personality disorders such as autism Autism is NOT a personality disorder. People with autism generally struggle to make connections with others because they fail to fit the social norm and struggle to read social cues. Studies suggest that people with autism have lower levels of emotional intelligence. That is why they struggle to date. It's not their IQ.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 12:13 PM
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However a glance tells me the most popular time for dating apps are January and February and it’s honestly kinda hard to take SAD being the actual serious reason for this SAD naturally begins to improve in late winter after the solstice when the sun begins shifter and days are lengthening again. That's just before Christmas.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 11:53 PM
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It's very very common and underdiagnosed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 11:46 PM
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How do you come to conclude that "You will do as I command" is threatening physical harm vs simply threatening other consequences like grounding or relinquishing of privileges? I would rather not put what I seen out there, that's his business, but things he has said lead me to believe that would be the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 11:45 PM
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Second thing: idk if I’m just seeing stuff or if it’s patterns or a coincidence or what but I swear if memory serves properly girls seem to find me more attractive during the warmer and brighter months compared to the colder and darker part of the year. Am I just crazy? They could be experiencing seasonal depression. It's hard to like anything when you have that going on. We need bright sunlight.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 11:42 PM
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Or I'll take away your phone, or you're not going to your friend's house, or you won't be going out or to the party this weekend. Stating a consquence of their choices is not a threat. Saying that you will hurt your kids is a different story. I don't support ANY violence towards children.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 11:11 PM
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Not everyone in America is on board with the super PC progressive let the child do whatever they want to do in their safe space train. No, but most people understand that threats and violence never work, your kids will hate you, and they'll be fucked up. Most parents understand that you can build actual respect from your kids and foster a good relationship without the alpha bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 11:07 PM
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Yeah bro, half of my family totally doesn't live there and of course we're part of a completely different culture than other Koreans. The idea that Korean aren't having sex before marriage is pretty laughable to me as a person that lived there as an adult. Now where did I say that? There's lots of hoes to fuck. I said passport bros won't have access to their special unicorn that's not like other women. Traditional women aren't dating foreigners.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 10:53 PM
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You will do as l command. Or what? Or what, dad? I will beat... 911, what is your emergency? My dad is trying to assault me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 10:45 PM
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I'm going to say meteor after that last post about you will do as I command. That shit doesn't work in America.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 10:42 PM
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8 years until both of my parents were retired from the military. One from Korea and one from the US. After that it was for summers for a few years until my grandparents passed. I've been home a few times since then for important events in my uncle's life, but that's it. I would never consider going back except for my kids to know their heritage. We have taken them there.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 10:36 PM
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So you’re saying "not true" because you’re talking about 2 small countries. I'm Korean.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 08:50 PM
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Yeah bro. Tell me more about my culture. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 08:01 PM
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Do I look like the mother fucking state department? Read for yourself https://www.advocate.com/world/2022/1/31/report-iran-executed-two-men-over-charges-related-homosexuality#toggle-gdpr
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:51 PM
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No, you said only 2 of them do it. Now it's there are way more than 5 countries there. Yes, you can be killed for having sex in the middle east. It's okay for you to be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:43 PM
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No. It’s just a social norm. You don’t like it that’s you, but don’t make up stuff about how it’s linked to a certain demographic only Are these gay people that are executed doing these things in public? No, because it's not done. They're going after them for existing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:34 PM
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You said it doesn't happen. It happens. Afghanistan- punishable by death Yemen- punishable by death Iran- punishable by death Saudi Arabia- punishable by death Qatar- Muslims are punishable by death Pakistan- punishable by death UAE- punishable by death Those are countries with it codified into law.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:32 PM
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Gay people are having sex and kissing in public? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:26 PM
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You're really out here like no one dies for sex, okay well it's rare. It's not that bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:24 PM
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What middle countries don't kill gay people for having sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:03 PM
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Muslims aren't allowed to date and having sex is a crime punishable by death there. You're not allowed to be in the presence of a woman alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 03:30 PM
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I would want to date in the west if I were worried about being a betabux, fulfilling gender roles, or body count. Going to Asia is going to result in you getting exactly what you claim to not want. Traditional women won't date foreigners or have sex before marriage. They're not out in places that you would have access to meet them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 02:53 PM
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If an obese woman asks me what she could do to make herself sexy, I'm not going to tell her "buy lingerie". What guy is asking women what is the sexiest thing I can do? They're not, but most can answer the question what is the sexiest thing a woman can do. That answer doesn't start with okay, be attractive to me and then do a, b, or c. It's do a, b, or c.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:53 PM
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This is about finding men sexy, not prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 07:41 PM
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Men find women in lingerie sexy. Lingerie on a 600lb woman does not make her sexy. Do men need to say that it only applies to women they already find attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 07:33 PM
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I've seen women admit to being a gold digger. I've never seen one say the man was physically or sexually attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 07:29 PM
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A lot of men openly state that pregnant women are sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 06:53 PM
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Yes, it does, because he's a great father and that's sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 06:47 PM
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I have never once in my life heard any woman say they'll fuck you if you're nice. They'll fuck you if you're kind. women will like you later when they mature You're not attractive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 06:35 PM
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Women have managed to break the culture so much that we directly assume "attractive" as a part of the preconditions needed to be sexy You really thought you could be unattractive to a person and somehow be attractive? You thought someone didn't need to be attractive to fuck you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 06:16 PM
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it’s more logical for the man to work on improving his looks (muscles via gym), his status and being more dominant None of those things are fixing ugly. Sorry, but it's not. You can't create physical attraction with status, dominance, or muscles if you're severely lacking in other areas. No, men are saying women are attracted only to a handful of top Men based on superficial things. Women still aren't turned on 24/7 by those men existing. That's not how that works in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 06:07 PM
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The statement ALWAYS applies to men that women already found attractive. Men on this sub act like women are saying the dishwasher in a restaurant makes them hot. It's willful ignorance.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 05:59 PM
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The statement that the sexiest thing a man can do is doesn't apply to men that women don't already find attractive. No one is saying that the bus boy working in a restaurant doing dishes turns them on. They're saying seeing their partner do those things turns them on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 05:58 PM
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No, it doesn't seem odd at all that seeing a man value and care for the results of sex makes you want more sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 05:37 PM
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The sexiest thing a man can do is be good with his kids. I don't care what anyone else says about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 05:30 PM
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We don't have different boundaries for friends based on sex. My best friend is a guy l met in college. He likes my pics. I like his pics. We have gone on weekend trips together.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 04:51 PM
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The type of male that a woman might need to escape from is likely not the type of man who would be okay with you opening an account honestly and putting aside that money without the need to hide it. So there's no way you could know in advance whether or not He's that type of guy So we're out here ignoring blazing red flags and want to use it to justify stealing and lying. No, that's not how that works.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 02:08 AM
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I'm asking you one final time. What does that have to do with opening the account honestly and putting aside that money without the need to hide and lie?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 01:43 AM
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But later on things don't go planned and they're no longer two people that would marry if they had to do it over again. What does that have to do with opening the account honestly and putting aside that money without the need to hide and lie? That is a conversation that should have happened before marriage and there's no excuse to have not done it. That is HER failure and it doesn't excuse lying and hiding his own money from him. That money is 100% a marital asset meaning half belongs to him. Sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 01:33 AM
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Stealing from your spouse and keeping back up men are not precautionary measures.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 10:44 PM
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She should have a degree and established work history before marriage and kids. The average age of marriage is 28. There's no excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 09:28 PM
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How is she more at risk? 50/50 division of marital property is the standard. They'd leave the divorce equally. If she's destitute then so is he.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 08:56 PM
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He's a 10/10 except for the colostomy bag.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 08:44 PM
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Is it a red flag if he has hidden accounts because you might try to screw him over in a divorce?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 07:58 PM
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I want to know why the stay at home parent has no savings or their own from earned income before children. I also want to know why the exit plan is theft and single people. Why is this person married to someone to whom they can't communicate their needs for future financial security if needed?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 07:54 PM
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Past high school nobody is "first choice". Everyone had a crush or wanted someone else before their partner. That's true of both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 05:01 PM
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keeping a hidden bank account that regularly she funds from the family income. No. She can have a bank account and her own savings openly or have money from her work before they had kids. Having kids and being paranoid doesn't make it acceptable to steal from your husband and kids. Being a stay at home parent is a choice. keeping a support circle of family, relatives, and single guy friends. People willing to take her and her children in Keeping a supportive social circle is something everyone s…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 04:32 PM
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How do you feel about spouses leaving their partners because they became overweight or left their appearances go because they're busy taking care of the kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 09:43 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 08:22 PM
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Working 7 days a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 08:10 PM
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Once he started talking about immigrants eating cats and dogs and the border police doing transgender surgery on babies he just sounded like a bumbling buffoon. That's why I skipped watching.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 07:34 PM
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I have to pick that up and give it a read.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 07:25 PM
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Have you read it?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 07:18 PM
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I had the chance to binge watch the first season during my first break from covid. I didn't leave my bed. I laid there the entire time and watched that show. It was the greatest escape I could have asked for during that time. I haven't thought about since then, but now I want to rewatch it and see season 2 as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 07:09 PM
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I loved that!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 07:04 PM
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Cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 05:23 PM
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I literally said it's intense physical attraction. Not once did I say this is what a woman looks like that might consider dating you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 11:57 PM
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Now make a post about how you're going to lose your mind and cry because your adult daughter had sex outside of a relationship. She'll be ruined for pill men everywhere. Think of society!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 11:18 PM
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I would absolutely feel neutral, because I would never dictate to my children how they have to live their sex lives. That's their decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 11:12 PM
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I come from a huge family of life long relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 11:10 PM
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There's nothing negative about consenting adults having sex. There's no reason to be against them participating in that if that's the sex life that they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 11:09 PM
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I have 2 daughters. Their future sex lives are their business. I'm not going to judge my kids for having consensual sex outside of a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 11:04 PM
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That’s just semantics. It’s all the same. Whether you think a guy is hot or just kind of cute, you’re still attracted to him. There a different between recognizing someone is objectively attractive and finding them sexually attractive. What do women do when they’re intensely physically attracted vs what do they do when they’re only kind of attracted? You can literally see the difference. Look at how women fawn over celebrities and athletes when they meet them. That's the look. It not something i…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 11:01 PM
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Flirting or finding you cute is not the same as intense physical attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 10:52 PM
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Their expression and eyes will tell you if there's that level of attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 10:47 PM
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I think it's neutral. The majority of people are upfront about it. If you're not into someone that has that history you can reject them and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 08:44 PM
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no one really knows what the "vibe" is Reciprocal intense physical attraction and instant chemistry.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 03:38 PM
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Friends with benefits have been around forever. It's not something most people engage in long term, if ever. Their existence doesn't make most people think their friends are going to fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 03:33 PM
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He doesn't like you if he's throwing crazy at you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 11:51 PM
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You have to try it. They react differently to individual body chemistry.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 10:57 PM
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Make an appointment. It sounds like you need it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 10:47 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 10:42 PM
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I hope everyone is having a great weekend.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 10:38 PM
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We hired a housekeeper. Problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 03:50 AM
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I have, but only a handful of times. I was at McDonald's and going through chemo at the time. I had been sick for months and was quite underweight. It's not a regular occurrence.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 08:34 PM
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I've never dated a man that I didn't approach and pursue. I've never said yes to any approach from a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 02:08 PM
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Have no one read contract law here No person can legally be forced into a contract. Contract law does not apply to birth certificates, because it's not a contract or agreement. The govt can and does put your name on that document without consent. It's a declaration of paternity.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 01:56 PM
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My husband broke up with his gf that he was dating at school to ask me out. I didn't know that you married a slut. 😒
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 01:00 AM
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It's surveyed regularly. This isn’t about me, it’s about the average man in general How many men do you know? How many have been falsely arrested or drafted? How many are virgins or incels?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 11:57 PM
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How many times have you been falsely arrested? How many times have you been drafted? How many times have you been mugged or assaulted violently? What percentage of men are virgins at 24? A small minority. The average of virginity loss in still in the teens. These aren't problems of the average man. They're outliers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 11:47 PM
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We figured it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 11:31 PM
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Let's be gay men. I'll marry you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 11:29 PM
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This is one user with no reading comprehension. What are the first 3 words?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 11:28 PM
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make a lot of women’s ovaries wet That sounds like a medical emergency.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 11:24 PM
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What about getting drafted I wouldn't take issue with it. I wanted to join the military but both of my parents were very against it. They both served more than a decade as officers. guilty till proven innocent Women are seen as liars now. actually having to approach women(a stranger you don’t know) I have asexual attraction and approached all 3 men that interested me. and not getting attention for long periods Okay. possibly not even getting women at all in your youth Okay. There’s many more, bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 11:17 PM
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I'm already taller and stronger than average. I don't fear walking alone at night. I make 6 figures now. I don't fear pregnancy. I never wanted that and I handled it. I would do the same as a guy. The only change would be that I wouldn't be with my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 11:10 PM
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Get one and do it before signing anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 11:07 PM
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He signed a paper saying he is taking legal and financial responsibility for that child no matter what. That's now your kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 11:05 PM
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I don't have gender identity issues so no, but I would have been fine as a man too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 11:03 PM
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So yes, a guy signing a document saying he is the father because he believes he is the father That paper says you're voluntarily declaring yourself as the child's legal and biological father. It doesn't say I think I am daddy or I signed it because I thought it was mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 10:25 PM
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False equivalence. What other fraud can you name where a victim signs a paper saying I am 100% legally responsible for this action and I claim this matter as true without question. None, but you do exactly that with a birth certificate. Trusting your partner and signing that paper aren't the same thing. The paper is a legally binding action.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 10:07 PM
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I don't disagree, but he technically did consent to further support if he married in a place where the husband is the presumed father or he signed the birth certificate without a DNA test.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 09:38 PM
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Telling you a truthful answer isn't bullying you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 07:25 PM
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That neither are implicitly attractive. The average person doesn't have an attractive body regardless of their gender. Attractive bodies are attractive regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 04:45 PM
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I don't find either of them attractive as a whole. There's too much variation in body types to say "this" is a male or female body and most people, at least in America, are fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 04:37 PM
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Average guy isn't treated like literal prince charming: DISNEY LIED!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 11:06 PM
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What kind of friendship did you honestly have if you get married and it ends? That's not a real friendship. We're genuine friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:01 PM
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Wait until you learn that I am even better friends with his wife. We're happy for each other. Why is that weird to you? The 4 of us go out when we're in the same city.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 01:47 PM
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My husband and I are both from mixed east Asian marriages. Racism in dating is a real thing when you don't look like everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 10:43 PM
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It depends on the people. My best friend is a guy l've known since university. My husband is friends with my ex. I'm friends with a few of his too. Can you be friends when one of you wants more? Probably not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 08:40 PM
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It was changed from 13 to 16 last year.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 08:34 PM
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Also me: googles “does my cat actually love me” for the 3rd time this year It's a cat. The answer changes with every second.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 08:31 PM
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I wouldn't be interested in a man that didn't value those things in a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 07:25 PM
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I don't think it ever shifts unless you're a minority dealing with bigotry. A gay man in traditional country or an uncommon ethnic minority type of situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 07:18 PM
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I would take them to see a psychiatrist.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 07:12 PM
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What about us libertarians?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 07:00 PM
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Read the fucking post. It's about financial independence and not relying on a PARTNER for that. It's not about society, but please continue ranting on a topic that I never claimed or said because you have issues and feel like you have made some gotcha point. We all need society. Stfu with your women this and women that. No, the vast majority of men would not survive without it either.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 09:46 PM
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I'm living in a semi-traditionalist country, and when he was talking about why women may look for economic security in a man I guess we're no longer reading posts on this sub and coming to our own conclusions to allow for sexist rants that have nothing to do with the topic? Feel free to carry on.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 09:42 PM
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So sorry to tell you but unlike what you said, you didn't "survive on your own" (survivor is another word women have bent the meaning to meaninglessness). You managed on your own as long as the men you don't like to notice kept the heat on. Same thing goes for the men in the OP. You do limit it to that just because it allows the answer you want, that you can survive on your own. The question is literally about financial independence from men to pay their own bills and you're over here talking ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 01:43 PM
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The question is about financial security through a man. Yes, in that case I survived on my own. Under your topic no one has survived on their own making it a pointless question.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 12:08 AM
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No, l was very lucky. My kids are very well adjusted and happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 08:16 PM
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My kids are adopted. I never wanted to be pregnant or give birth.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 05:38 PM
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I lived and survived on my own perfectly fine. I make more money than most men. I owned my house. I was perfectly content before I met my husband. We've always been 50/50. That's what an education and career will do for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 05:35 PM
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Is it cool if states repeal spousal abuse and marital rape laws?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 04:40 PM
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He's an amazing human. He cares about his patients as people before a paycheck. He's an amazing father, even if he's still working on learning the word no. He was the best single father a kid could ask for in life. He doesn't have a vindictive bone in his body. He wants to live life and be happy. He lets the rest roll off of his back and keeps moving.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 12:56 AM
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I'd be happy with 6 hours uninterrupted.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 06:39 PM
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I bump it every time I move in my sleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 06:28 PM
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Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 05:56 PM
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I get about 6 hours now.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 05:56 PM
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Recovering from surgery sucks so bad. Someone build a time machine to fast forward a few months.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 05:34 PM
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I married a single dad. I did not and would not consider dating or marry a baby daddy. A man that can raise his child alone, in a healthy happy home, is attractive. A man that has child is not. A man that takes cares of his children is attractive. A man that has a child is not. A man that is invested in the happiness of his child is attractive. A man that has a child is not. Having children, being a single dad, and being a good single parent aren't the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 01:34 PM
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It would depend on the agreement. Am I signing one that says if things don't work out I expect you to stay with me or lose everything? Hell no. Would I sign one that said we can't screw each other over? Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 02:23 PM
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He means you could have stayed home if only the bros had given Putin blow jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 02:51 AM
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It was a year for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 02:44 AM
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Having a social life and close friends that they see and hang out with in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 11:42 PM
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You don't think these guys ask them out? They do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 11:39 PM
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Rejecting is rejecting them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 11:32 PM
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They’re just offering this stuff because they value me Yeah, exactly like men that get rejected by women and keep orbiting them. They're not leading them on either. Thank God we can finally shut up about those men being led on and used on PPD. You have closed the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 11:01 PM
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All of these men are imaginary? Strange. np.reddit.com/r/AskMen/s/fFJPQZuw1I
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 10:41 PM
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You have orbiters that want to fuck you. Why are you crying that women treat you the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 10:28 PM
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gay men are very affectionate about other men bodies, much more than what i notice from women to men in general. They compliment each other often, praise each other, and love every inch of the male body. The moment a gf acts like this towards men, not you, she's a whore, disrespectful, and for the streets. If a single woman does that and isn't interested in the guy it's not a love for men. It's why was she leading him on. Why don't women do that?? 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 10:26 PM
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My 10 year old wants to permanently remove his penis will be met with resistance from me because of love. Or law. No 10 year old can have gender confirming surgery. Not a single one.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 08:02 PM
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She was 11. She was not 11 when she had surgery or was put on hormones. She may have been allowed puberty blockers, but that is not gender confirming medication or surgery. Again, gender surgery is not done on young children. We also allow 16 year olds to drive, have independence, have sex legally, get married, go to university, and join the military. You really think you can choose to die, possibly kill other people, choose your future profession, know your sexuality, but you shouldn't be able …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 08:00 PM
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That is the system's fault, not the 10 yr old boy's. The standards for behavior haven't changed in schools. Society and parents are failing children by not expecting their kids to follow instruction. We have had formal schooling since the mid 700s for boys. We also have a very long history of teacher and tutors beating the living shit out of those children for disobeying them in lessons or not doing their work. It's society that has changed, not nature or the behavioral standards in education.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 07:27 PM
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So you show up to picnics with your own packed lunch? You get invited to dinner at her house and you bring your own plate of dinner drink and cup? Cool, except you don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 07:12 PM
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No child can receive gender confirming surgery before the age of 16. He's not on puberty blockers or hormones. She's allowing a child to choose their clothing and what they want to be called.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 07:10 PM
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I believe chores should be evenly distributed You don't have to live with or marry him. No marriage or shared homes means you fix him lunch some times and look cute. There are no other expected gender roles until marriage or sharing a home. That's the one you can reasonably pick here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 06:33 PM
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Having outdated views on relationship dynamics. Grew up seeing his mom do all of the house work and would expect the same. Unwilling to look for anything different. This would be the only one I would tolerate and I would never marry or live with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 06:31 PM
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The more modern school type was started in about the 1830s. And states began to make free education mandatory over the decades. Schools and universities have been around for HUNDREDS of years. Mandatory education has been around a much shorter period of time. The standards for behavior were not less strict and teachers would beat the hell out of students that didn't listen. The US is not the history of education or a determination of what was accepted in history. Boys are punished for not being …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 06:22 PM
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Our society is set up that both parents work and provide financially to their families. Your OP is in your head for the modern family.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 06:11 PM
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Clearly the answer is yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 06:05 PM
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I invite my male friends out to lunch. I pick the place. I pay the bill. Expecting men to pay on the first date is the same as expecting women to have sex on the first date. I hope you're showing up to a planned picnic date with half of the food or money for half of the grocery bill without discussion. It's not hard to go 50/50, but it is conversation. You don't invite someone out to YOUR plans and expect them to pay. That's not gendered. It's rude.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 06:03 PM
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Men are treated like defective girls who need to settle down, stop being so disruptive, stop day dreaming, take these ADHD meds This is a modern problem. Boys have always been expected to pay attention and not be disruptive in schools. Neurodivergent children were placed into mental asylums for not meeting the status quo. The majority of men are not wired this way and you are expected to fit the norm. You can't use behavioral genetics for this argument either. Behavioral genetics determine that …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 05:54 PM
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https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4635473/
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 05:34 PM
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I hear a lot about men of age 30 or above, that they need to self-improve. Yes, because you're single past the average age of marriage. It's not like it would make them popular with 20-year olds, so it's not really worth the effort to make themselves more attractive to 30-40 year old women. This was and will never be an option for these men. Or is it not worth the time, money and effort? It's a personal decision. You're free to remain alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 09:17 PM
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Not in a romantic context, but it's why I enjoyed working on the trauma team.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 08:05 PM
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Men don't have to date women that aren't 50/50 either.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 11:02 PM
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Why the hell would a woman let a man do less in raising our kids, taking care of their house, or have the final say when she's paying half of the bills? She wouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 10:25 PM
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Many do, but why would women looking for a traditional man promote that? Why would men looking to lead, have the final say, or expect less than 50/50 division of childcare/chores want that? Women and men are not hiveminds. People want different types of relationships. If you want 50/50 then it needs to be actual 50/50.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 09:26 PM
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What does that even mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 09:16 PM
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I was always 50/50 for everything. That's also why I would not have dated a traditional or red pill type of man.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 08:22 PM
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Some people really can't live without the attention and service to their ego. It's sad and says a lot about our society.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 04:23 PM
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Do it for the validation!!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 04:19 PM
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Why can't you thrive on social validation like a normal ppd user? Why? 🙄 I have genuinely never thought about how committed another couple is to each other and read the disclaimer. They can still separate. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 04:12 PM
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I don't think anyone can in good faith argue the natural tendency for women to sexually reward a small percentage of men while most men get crumbs is good for complex civilizations that require happy lemmings inventivized to work and care with at least the possibility of an exclusiv relationship to a woman at least close to him in looks. You apparently believe in the 80/20 rule, or something similar, and that's terrible and unfair for society. even a 4-wife max is more fair to men than complete …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:07 AM
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Equal rights are not the same as special privileges. That is what that would be considered.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 08:49 PM
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But they're not and people are not going to support their taxes paying for sex workers for working people.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 08:43 PM
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The govt isn't paying for people with disabilities capable of working either.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 08:36 PM
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Political success amongst the LGBTQ came from convincing large numbers of non-LGBTQ+ people to sympathize with them and vote to end sodomy laws, legalize gay marriage gay adoption etc. Political success was gained to have the same rights. Romantically unsuccessful people could find allies amongst the romantically successful. What rights have they been denied? In what way have they been oppressed?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 08:32 PM
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I know, thats what I said. Limited government funding goes to helping the disabled have sex. The govt only pays because they live on disability payments. The govt should not pay for anyone capable of working.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 08:29 PM
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The Dutch have been willing to offer limited tax payer money to assist those who are romantically unsuccessful because of disability. This has also been done in Denmark for those who are physically disabled and political parties in Germany have expressed interest in the policy. The govt provides it because those people live on govt funds due to their disability. If you are not disabled you can pay for your own sex worker. Why can't society take an interest in the non-disabled but romantically un…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 08:22 PM
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Sex isn't a need by the same premise.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 07:01 PM
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No, we left our state because of crazy changing laws, but I wouldn't want to leave the country unless it all goes to hell. I would choose to move to the UK in that situation and Korea if that wasn't an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 06:56 PM
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Masturbation results in the same physical benefits to the body. Sexual release may be considered a need, but partnered sex is not necessary for that to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 06:01 PM
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There are also ugly ass drug addicts that do the same. Ugly ass men that have 9 baby mommas. Let's not pretend that's the norm for anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 05:26 PM
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Finally, and perhaps most drastically, a significant minority of men will simply give up on dating completely. There was never a time in history that men were guaranteed partners. Do you know how many people were put into asylums less than 50 years ago because they had a mental illness or were autistic? They didn't have basic human rights let alone wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 11:00 PM
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Do you want your children to go to private school? That's important to both myself and my husband. Do you want to live in the suburbs on land with privacy? That's important in to us. Do you want your kids to be able to engage with whatever interests they have at the moment? That's important to us. We spend more than 70k a year on 2 children. Yes, money is important when you have goals to reach. We both make 6 figures for that reason and split the bills 50/50. Idk how you call an equal relationsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 07:28 PM
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According to ppd men on this post it's forever or he never loved her and the relationship was always transactional.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 05:48 PM
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There's a lot of love.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 02:28 PM
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Our relationship is 50/50. Our house is paid for as is everything else. All 50/50. We're both health care providers.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 02:23 PM
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Rent and bills are a different thing, and you know that. If you don't then something is clearly lacking in you psychologically. No they're not. I would never date a man that didn't make 6 figures. Not because I want his money. I want a man that shares my lifestyle. It requires a 6 figure income. If a woman loves a man she isn't concerned about how much money he has to spend on her with gifts. Those are 2 completely separate issues that you have lumped together with your post. Say what you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 12:38 PM
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If a woman genuinely loves a guy, she's not going to be concerned about his money, status or whether he buys her stuff or not. If a woman really loves a guy she's not going to be concerned with whether or not he can pay half of the rent and is adequately employed?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 12:16 PM
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You also see men complaining about sugar baby relationships too.These poor young vulnerable inexperienced men. It's no different. Are you sure they're not broke, ugly, and jealous? It's also a consensual adult relationship. The men complaining were likely used for money. They still complain when that man is rich and attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 02:54 PM
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That's because we've almost all by hit on by men in their late 20's or older since we were around 10-12. That's because there's always a large chunk of men online saying go as low as legally possible even though that age is usually a minor. Let's not pretend that there's not something creepy about it and it's jealous older women. It's younger women too. OP makes arguments that men are desperate and can't get anything. He makes arguments that young women are ageist and society taught them that th…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 02:38 PM
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Women here love saying how “Gen z women are the ones who are the most vocal about their disapproval of age gap couples” but anyone who’s not a moron can see this isn’t the case. You're the one making posts about how women are ageist. Ironically it always seems to be unattractive women past their prime voicing these sort of opinions. Any article or Facebook group about age gap relationships is always riddled with seething comments from women who clearly never had their day or are far past it. You…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 02:27 AM
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Look at how you and talk about women. He can at least be hot if he's gonna be an asshole. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 02:35 PM
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Submission involves doing nothing and allowing someone else take the lead. Right, because you don't have your own opinions and desires. They never exist and you have to do nothing except shut up and be a good girl. I was arguing was that being attractive is much more difficult for men, which you've basically acknowledged. Which has nothing to do with the fact that men find the women they pursue attractive and wouldn't otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 09:34 PM
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Also, women aren't expected to be charismatic or assertive, but if they were we would soon hear how unreasonable and misogynistic that expectation was. They're expected to be people pleasers and submissive. Physical attractiveness for men is influenced by four things: your height, which you can't change. your face, which you can't change, unlike women, who have makeup. your frame, which you can't change. your build, which you can change, but depending on your height and frame you will look stupi…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 09:08 PM
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All it takes for a man is to be physically attractive too and how he presents himself includes being assertive, charismatic, and all of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 08:50 PM
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It's such a common argument: I am a nice, upstanding man who cares about her. Who really loves her. Who truly gives a damn. I don't have any ill intentions, my love and regard is as earnest as can be. You were a man sexually attracted to her. Why then did she not see the light and give this honest, good man who adores her, a chance? She is not sexually attracted to you. Nobody was lied to here. No one told men that women will date you for only being nice and they will fuck you if you're ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 08:26 PM
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Nurse practitioner
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 07:18 PM
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Men are taught they need to do dozens of different things if they want to If they want to have women find them sexually attractive. Men who are trying to "woo" a woman (by working out, getting hobbies, dressing better, being charismatic/funny, getting rich, etc.) need to ask themselves if a girl would ever do that to get him. That woman is attractive to him. That's why he is pursuing her. She already reached that place. That's how mutual attraction works. This post is insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 07:16 PM
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I refuse to perform them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 07:06 PM
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I miss the days of the mardi gras whore posts that were fully covered and dancing outside. That guy has spunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 10:33 PM
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OP used to complain that make up is what made most men want to fuck most women. Remember those days? Now it's all biology and women don't masturbate because they're horny. If they were actually horny they'd fuck a random balding overweight 5'8 guy with mental illnesses. How much lower can it go?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 08:35 PM
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And what did I say about your hypothetical with a man? He's not acting entitled until he bitches that no one is giving him that. You then come back with a woman bitching about a man not giving her that and try to play it off like it's not the same fucking thing. Yes, it is entitled behavior, but it is not entitled to not date someone because you think you deserve whatever. You're entitled when you bitch about it not being given to you. Have whatever standards you want as long as you shut up and …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 02:07 AM
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That is entitled and different than I want to date a rich man because that's what I deserve. No man is whatever kind of shit for not giving it to her. That's the difference. You don't get to add something totally different and then say of course women aren't entitled. That's not an honest argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 02:00 AM
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"I need a virgin submissive woman because that's what I deserve" Cool, hold out for what you want. These bitches won't give me that. Entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 01:50 AM
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Honestly if that's not entitlement I don't know what is Entitlement would her screaming that these rich men are fucked up and delusional because they should be dating her and thinking that she has a right to be dating them. That is not what you've described.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 01:37 AM
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It's over for married people. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 04:52 PM
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It's now disrespectful for married people to go outside and look anywhere other than the ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 04:35 PM
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Is it unethical to go to a beach or a pool if you're married too?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 04:27 PM
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You being pissed off that they won't date you is entitlement. Women not dating men isn't entitlement. Entitlement would be the belief that those men should have to date them. That's not being said by those women. No bro, you're not entitled to poor pussy either.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 04:19 PM
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That is not what the study shows. There was a single period of time, 8,000 years ago, that this occurred. Over 60% of American men have fathered a child. Those are current statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 12:09 AM
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Happens to a lot of us
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 03:19 AM
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Dream guy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 03:13 AM
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it depends on if they end up going into withdrawals while still on the same dose. I've never heard of that happening. I have patients where the drug stops working. Instead of raising the dose we cycle to a different lose dose benzo that I also know works for them. It prevents the need to keep going up.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 01:37 AM
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Sure, those prescribers exist in all places. I am not one, but I have patients that will probably never get off of benzos and that's okay. They're not bad drugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 01:25 AM
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Depends on the doctor. Those doctors are more liberal prescribers in general. Older patients are at a higher risk of dying from them too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 01:18 AM
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Which is totally different from a long term spinal injury or the terminal illness you were also discussing and I already explained the difference to you. You're still not being "loaded up". There are much higher doses given regularly, but you don't need them for something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 01:15 AM
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Chronic pain patients do complain. Try talking to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 01:09 AM
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The needs of the child come before anything. Your spouse chose you for better or worse. That kid had no choice and your actions forced them into the situation. They're first. Suck it up or don't have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 01:42 AM
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I've seen pictures of her when she was younger. Certified gorgeous. 100% no bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 11:09 PM
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The older women from Thailand?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 11:05 PM
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Rock music and poodle skirts will destroy society. Thank you letting me get that off of my chest.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 11:04 PM
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so far As long as you keep mom away from the condoms. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 10:58 PM
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I'm way out of the age for any parenting There's no such thing. Wait until you have a little one. You're going to need parents all over again when you suddenly realize how little you know about life. Your kids will go through the same thing. It's the cycle of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 10:54 PM
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I'm curious to see a study with the opposite conclusion. Don't ask to see his ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 08:01 PM
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It's really not that great. The average salary in less than 60k a year. The average rent is more than 12k a year. Rent doesn't include utilities. The average cost of daycare is 9.6k a year. It's hard to have a baby, survive financially, and not have both parents working full time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 12:48 AM
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Yes, that's what it means. They're obligated to hold your position for 12 weeks and no more. It's messed up, but there's no real maternity leave. People put their children in daycare and then work to barely afford that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 12:29 AM
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There is no paid maternity leave. It's 12 weeks unpaid across the country. States or businesses may offer more. It's not required.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 12:21 AM
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Women ARE entitled to reject men. No one is entitled to a parter or sex. Men are acting as though they are entitled to it by reacting to her lack of consent with anger or outbursts. The only problem here is that you don't understand the meaning of entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 11:37 PM
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She can't control anymore so than men that look scary She's not interested in men that want to judge her weight She's not interested She's not interested She's not interested She's not interested in men that don't like that A woman existing around men doesn't necessarily want attention from any of those men. Most women aren't interested in most men. You can't say most men are interested in most women when you use weight as a qualifier. Most people are overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 11:35 PM
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https://www.statista.com/statistics/1142840/pregnancy-complication-rates-by-age-us/ These numbers only include 18+ and up. There's only a 25% rise in complications from 25-34. It's not until over 35 that pregnancy complications become a real problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 10:13 PM
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Women 18-22 are the "gold medalists" of giving birth. And before you question this, please keep in mind that teen pregnancy studies usually include statistics from much younger girls, thus skewing the results. Under 20 women are at a higher rate of complicated pregnancies, including 18 year olds, for pre-eclampsia. The medically safest and easiest time to get pregnant is in your 20s. That's not feminist bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 10:08 PM
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I couldn't care less if other men find me hot. I dress how I want regardless of who is around, because I dress for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 07:01 AM
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This may be accurate sometimes but that is a very small percentage of women who are willing to fuck strangers or sleep with men outside of a relationship no matter what they look like. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/all-about-sex/202201/the-truth-about-casual-sex-today No, it's not a small amount.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 09:23 PM
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Most people want agreeable partners by that definition, but a LOT of men consider agreeable to mean that the man has the final say. They also say they're not looking for a equal partner, because "every dynamic needs a leader". That's where the submissive enters that conversation. What those men want is not agreeable women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:32 AM
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The question was about my male equivalent which you then turned into but what is success for a man. I answered your question and you argued it. Again, why ask a question if you're going to argue over the answer as if I don't know how my male equivalent did? Are you him? Were you there? I didn't think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 12:08 AM
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Clearly I am not him, but why waste your time asking this question if you're going to argue that no woman knows what she's talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 12:05 AM
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He fucked half of my friends. I know how he did.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 12:03 AM
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He was total whore before meeting his wife. He didn't struggle at any point.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 12:01 AM
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The same. I have a male equivalent in my brother for stats and personality. Neither of us struggled socially or with dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 11:52 PM
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History is rather disgusting. https://www.smithsonianmag.com/history/what-raising-age-sexual-consent-taught-women-about-vote-180975658/
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 04:51 PM
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It's Hoosker back with his 100th account.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 08:26 PM
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Same guy screaming every day how all women are seen as hot/beautiful. Same guy screaming that simping is why the dating market is the way it is now claims there's a shitload of ugly women or 30 year olds that are crying because they can't get the attention of men they never wanted. Well okay then. That makes logical sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 08:16 PM
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Can you guys imagine something like this? How far could it be pushed? If there is no way, why? What's the biggest oversight in this idea? Consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 07:12 PM
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Is that why you bitch on reddit that university aged women are ageist and the first thing that they ask when you approach is your age? If your theory is true you could solve all of your own problems by not approaching ugly women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 07:04 PM
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At this point I’m not sure who’s worse, the simps or the hard 3 who thinks she’s a 9. I vote for the slightly below average height overweight man with thinning hair that calls himself above average. The one on reddit that complains women, he calls beneath him, won't fuck him 10 mins after meeting in a bar. The type of man that says university aged women are ageist because he thinks he blends in that crowd and they ask his age. The type of man that claims women are eye fucking him across every ro…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 10:01 PM
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Should we also ban men of all ages from dating apps, cold approaching, and having jobs since they fear false rape accusations? Maybe we should ban them from marriage since they fear divorce rape? It seems like men can't choose properly either.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 05:44 AM
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There's nothing you can do for him. They're not headaches like you experience them. It's a neurological disorder and excruciating.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 05:36 PM
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The worst is always a possibility. Look at the rape statistics. That's not something women can ignore.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 09:03 PM
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There are far too many people that dismiss sexual assault and particularly when it occurs to men. It's disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 09:12 AM
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Yes, things like that have happened. That incident isn't typical.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 09:11 AM
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So should men fear women more than bears? Yes. Bears are the least least likely to kill you of all options.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 09:10 AM
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I'm sorry that all happened to you. It's disgusting and wrong. Those people are fucked up and I hope that you're able to move on from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 08:44 AM
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But like no really what are you talking about because I have no clue. I talk about this all the time because it's something I believe in. Everything has an equal an opposite reaction, so everything has to be taken into consideration. Also you Like who, your the first person I have heard it come out of someones mouth Now you talk about things all the time that you have never heard come out before.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:41 AM
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You're the one saying how hard it is to be around bears without "getting your throat ripped out". 40 people are killed a year despite millions of encounters. That's it. Bears are mostly peaceful and want nothing to do with people and you know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:35 AM
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Nice attempt to move the goal posts. You've never heard anyone talk about this stuff before, but now it's not only normal but necessary. Thank you for conceding that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:32 AM
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And you weren't killed, mauled, or attacked by any of the bears you grew up around? You weren't one of the 40 people in the world killed by bears in any given year? You weren't the 1 American killed a year? How on earth did you survive??
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:16 AM
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The "logic" you're trying to reference doesn't make sense and isn't even a study. Do you not know that bear attacks are reported and have a database as well as population numbers being monitored? Do you not know the same is done to people? You don't need a study. It's math. Crime/population=odds
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 05:48 AM
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It's not the norm for women to be asked what they were wearing if they were raped or what they were doing? It's not a common stereotype for fathers to want to protect their daughters from men? Really? What planet are you living on that this is abnormal and you have never heard these things? You don't read this sub? You know damn well all of that is said. https://www.np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/Lj7Q5MMl8L That's a lot of men saying they're like that because they know how men think and act.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 05:41 AM
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That depends on the individual woman. If her view of you if neutral it might be possible to change it to a positive with other traits. It's probably not possible if she finds you unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 05:36 AM
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Less than 2 weeks ago. It was a vicious beating and rape. Assume all you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 05:32 AM
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However there was a Limited amount of things you did/do around/to said bears. I'm so sorry. I didn't realize the question suddenly changed to who would you rather run from in the woods or who would you rather confront or fist fight. You grew up with bears too. How many times were you killed? How many times were you mauled when coming across one? How many times did you have to fight one off? We both know that answer is 0.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 05:30 AM
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Y'all bash bat shit insane men all the time for their wild non grounded ideas. But suddenly when it benefits y'all treat them like their ideas are the norm, or at least acceptes... Pointing out the hypocrisy of men is not pretending their ideas make sense. It's a large amount of men saying this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 05:28 AM
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all the intelligent women i know chose average man, unintelligent emotional people that can't think past an initial fear response chose bear. Said by a man having an emotional rant that thinks attempting to talk down to others is going to somehow shame them into a different decision. No thanks. Enjoy your night.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 05:27 AM
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A few feet for the bears. I tried not to allow them to get closer than around 15 feet. "When is the last time you heard of someone you personally know being raped/beaten/or murdered by a man?" Wow, you must live in a special utopia that every woman you know hasn't been a statistic that applies to more than 20% of women. Good for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 10:57 PM
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You're a 167 times more likely to be murdered by a male 18-24 than you are by encounter a black bear. 167 times more likely and men think they're using logic on the subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 10:42 PM
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I encountered bears daily. I choose the bear. Stay mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 10:32 PM
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In 2019 more than 1,800 women were murdered by men in the US. How many people were killed in 2019 by bears despite the millions of interactions and intentionally entering their territory? Did you know that you are 167 times more likely to be killed by an 18-24 male than by a black bear? They are not an animal to be fucked with and randomly encountering one in the woods as a lone woman with no weapons has a high chance of you being dead. Yet I survived my childhood with nearly daily bear encounte…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 10:27 PM
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Note: please carry bear pepper spray and bullhorns/obnoxiously loud noisemakers when you go on hikes! Especially in the PNW, BC, or Yellowstone areas. That's good advice. These bears were in my backyard and the surrounding woods where we walked. Spray and guns were always carried. This brings me to another point that pisses me off. No one is going to ask me why I had to kill a bear that was coming at me. No one is going to talk about how the bear was misunderstood.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 10:11 PM
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You are correct, but I live in the US where the black bear is by far the most common bear. Millions visit state parks without issue and even encounter grizzly bears without attack. You're not worth it for a bear to kill unless it's sick or injured.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 10:09 PM
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Sad, right? I grew up with bears. They were never aggressive or threatening. I grew up with men too and I can not say the same about them. I would take the black bear. Men get mad that women don't immediately think that a mostly peaceful animal is going to kill us and instead worry about what men can and actually do on a regular basis to women. When is the last time you saw a bear attack on the news? When is the last time you heard of someone you personally know being raped/beaten/or murdered by…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 10:04 PM
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I have an older brother that was treated the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 09:58 PM
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There's one thing that bothers me about these arguments. Men suddenly forget about victim blaming rape survivors by asking what was she wearing or what was she doing. There are men agreeing that they would never let their child around a strange man. Men say that the father or another male relative needs to vet and approve a man for her safety. These will be the same fucking men saying women hate men for not trusting strangers. I guess men need to admit that it's about control rather than safety …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 09:56 PM
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That is true, but the red pill, which is the basis of this sub, doesn't say that. It says status and money are attractive on their own when they're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 09:51 PM
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Women are also discriminated against in he job market because people think they will have kids and leave, if they already had them it will have better pay That's not why there's discrimination. It's because mothers are the ones expected to take time off for sick kids and appointments. It's always held against them. Better to have a fresh degree to enter the job market after children. Most degrees are not dependent on continued education and changing standards. What you said would apply to things…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 09:48 PM
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At What Age Was It Consistent? By 15 for certain.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 09:43 PM
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No, that's step 1. You still have to pass step one.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 09:42 PM
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That's going to make her even older when she finishes and add several more years of not having work experience. Why go through all of that relying on a man that could leave when you can do it after high school? That makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 09:33 PM
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Hot to her. Nothing will change that. You can't create sexual physical attraction with status.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 09:29 PM
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You said the vast majority of men are bums. Bums aren't marriage material.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 09:24 PM
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This gives her 8 hours a day to do study and housework. Did you mean be in class? What magical university are they attending where there's no class? No lectures? Nothing, but time to be at home and do housework?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 09:24 PM
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Did you know that dog shit covered in glitter is still dog shit? No one wants dog shit, but they might take the dog shit because it comes with other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 09:21 PM
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You're talking about the vast majority of men, which makes an early education even more important for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 09:20 PM
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Put a hot guy next to him and ask who she wants to take home for a night. There's your real answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 09:15 PM
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The man? >Pay for school lol Americans The man is paying for school, the house, the cars, the food, AND coming home to put in 50/50 for housework and childcare? Where is that man? Or is she supposed to pull time out of her ass after spending the day in class and spending hours studying? It's not feasible unless she puts everything else second and you've already complained about that option.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 09:15 PM
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I hate to tell you this, but most men don't go to college at all. They get no degree and then scream about educational women wanting the same in a man. Women finish at the same age and at higher rates. The average age gap in a relationship is 2 years. Men and women want to settle down around the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 09:11 PM
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men while there are none for average guys. Except most men aren't single or sexless, not even average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 08:34 PM
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Neither will make a man genuinely attractive as a partner. As a lifestyle? Maybe, but that won't make her want to fuck you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 08:23 PM
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Most women are dating men their ages. Perhaps you didn't notice that age is already several years after graduation from uni.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 08:14 PM
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Get a valuable STEM degree, (eg doctor) which takes 9 years to finish. Meaning they finish up at 27 at the earliest. Work for a couple years then start popping kids. Which leads to one of 2 situations. The mother quits the workforce entirely, making their degree and the countries investment in it worthless, to raise their child properly, or continues working and raises a fucked up child due to not being available and being burnt out from work. It would make more sense for women to have their kid…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 08:08 PM
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Flamingcoochies is back for round 87.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 04:45 AM
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Teach your kids social skills and niceties. Keep them active. Encourage them to be proud of themselves and to try new things. Teach them to set personal goals. Reward them from reaching new milestones. How does an entire generation not know how to parent?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 01:54 AM
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My grandparents fucked all men over. They took me to Cracker Barrel and Red Lobster when I was little. Don't be jealous that I lived that high life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 01:46 AM
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H Mart and Trader Joe's
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 01:40 AM
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Trans people choose to transition. The parent is not making the decision for them. Your question is equivalent to asking how you can be pro life while your child has an abortion. It's not your body or your choice in that situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 01:26 AM
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My parents are in their 60's and have a great relationship. My in laws are more like roommates. Many older couples didn't marry because they thought their partner "was the one". It's what you were expected to do and you were expected to try to make it work. I think it's probably pretty close to 50/50 on couples that stay together because it's easier than a divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 10:52 PM
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No that is definitely different. Neither one is interested in you. In that case you at least get to have sex with someone you find attractive. That's not going to matter when the gf/wife outs you as a whore for fucking her cheating man, you're pregnant and find out that you don't even know his real name, or you're left with an std, or even raped because you changed your mind. I don't know what you think sex is worth, but it's not worth any of that. Go get an escort and keep it honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 09:59 PM
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No different than guys pretending to be interested in more than sex. Terrible people exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 09:53 PM
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Isn't that more red pill rhetoric? No, it's a very real thing that many women admit to doing. I didn't say most. source I don't believe that cohort is so big, Bumble had to change it's business strategy. Better than going bankrupt.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 09:34 PM
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But ok, let's assume women weren't finding the men they wanted to date online. Why would they complain about the burden of messaging first? Let's assume they don't want to date, but they are using OLD for validation. That's not going to work when you have to message them first. It'd still be the same set of guys they don't want to date, except now those guys are messaging first. If this were the case they would leave the app.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 09:15 PM
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I think it's entirely possible that it happened that way with women complaining. The idea was that women would message men they were interested in dating. They're not messaging them. That means that either there's no men that they want to date on the app or that they don't want to message first. They wouldn't keep using the app if the men weren't there.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 09:06 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 08:39 PM
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Children are often given up to an orphanage or adoption center, not a family. They're abandoned there and they terminate their rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 10:46 PM
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We don't count that one. That is not pizza.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 10:45 PM
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There's no good pizza in Philly?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 09:23 PM
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I think all of the carryout chains are about the same, but Domino's is the one he likes the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 09:21 PM
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I will beat you with this shoe, child. You are a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 09:02 PM
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He was run off by that hypergamous whore. He deserved better.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 08:58 PM
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I'm sorry. That wouldn't go over well with your stomach.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 08:56 PM
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Bring back paternity tests!!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 08:56 PM
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There's really no such thing as bad pizza when you want pizza. We're getting Domino's for dinner and fhey'll think it's the greatest pizza on earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 08:53 PM
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I lived along a river and we had them in our yard almost daily. They never bothered anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 08:14 PM
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I love black bears. They're usually like hi human, leave me alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 07:52 PM
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Yes it is, it's giving up your rights as a parent for the child to not be your legal responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 10:26 PM
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You're struggling to find a single mentally ill 30's woman that's overweight, but not obese, and works in a menial job? I find that hard to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 09:34 PM
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so paper abortion shouldn’t be an issue That's called adoption and requires the consent of the other parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:32 PM
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Abortion is about physically being pregnant and bodily autonomy. Men don't get pregnant. It's not about child abandonment. People give their kids up every day. A woman does not have more rights than a man after delivery. That's a mirrored situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 04:18 PM
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I'm not a person claiming that stance either, but plenty of men claim that they're being used for validation, emotional support, and free meals from dates and all of those involve mutual activities as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 03:51 PM
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That to me is very weird, because if men and women are as equal as modern society claims they are, then why does that same society choose to hold both parties to different standards for an objectively mirroring scenario? Society doesn't do that. Men can't get pregnant. Men and women have same responsibilities and rights to the child after birth. There's nothing that one legal parent can do that the other can't as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 03:50 PM
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How does a person feel used if they paid for both bills and invited that person out?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 03:46 PM
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live in it while you fix it up, flip it, rinse lather repeat! That's what I did with my first home.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 10:03 PM
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Send her to play with her existing grandchild. 😒
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 09:49 PM
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Have sex and kids with anyone but OP. That's really nice of him if you think about it. A lot of guys are crying about how they can't get women and he's like no, choose someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 09:40 PM
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Caretakers
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 05:54 PM
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I would need examples of these behaviors to make that assessment, but if it's truly those things and not a control issue on his behalf then she's clearly mentally unstable and it's not an issue of respect at all. It's some form of a mental illness. You can't expect respect to cure that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:48 PM
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Absolutely not. Edit: I asked this question of males and the answers were very different 🤔 Men will admit that they want sex and want someone to provide care for them. It's not necessarily about the personal dynamics of the relationship itself, but what that woman can provide to their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:42 PM
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Do you miss red flags in the beginning of a relationship that lead to the reason why you ultimately end your LTR? Most adult relationships aren't ending due to red flag issues. A lack of life compatibility takes time to make itself known.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:39 PM
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The male reproductive system doesn’t physically burden a man in any capacity, inherently. Neither does the female one. Periods aren't meant to be painful. Physical problems exist. The prostate is a part of the male reproductive system and I can guarantee you that it burdens many men with cancer and other physical issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:35 PM
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I completely disagree. Men didn't cause the physical natural burdens of being a woman and they shouldn't be asked to compensate for burdens they haven't caused. We choose our partners. We can choose egalitarians that put in the same effort and have the same standards. Why should my husband feel like he needs to do more in our relationship because Sara down the street married a jack ass that ignores her and the kids. Sara shouldn't have married him. In the case of early dating: Women take a stati…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:31 PM
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I don't know anyone in real life concerned about either situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 04:34 PM
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So why do you call my assesment bullshit if supposedly you re not speaking for anyone else? I am in that group you are choosing to speak for and you're specifically telling me that my experience is false. The assessment is bullshit. It's bullshit for me to tell a man that has been raped that men aren't raped. Are the majority of men raped? No, but that doesn't make my statement true despite his lived experience. You can't speak for me and say my experience is false. That is how conversations wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 01:20 AM
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Why do you feel qualified to speak on the lived experiences of other women? You need to learn to read. I said MY experience and I haven't heard, while you as a man, decided to tell me what women hear. Speak on your own life. I did not speak for other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 01:00 AM
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False, women who dont consume it or are not okay with their partners consuming it arent told "it is okay, you can date somebody else, you dont need to accept it", instead they re told "you re sex negative, you re controlling, you re abnormal, you re insecure etc" I am one of those women and I have never heard that bullshit in my life. Why do you feel qualified to speak on my lived experiences in society? Do you know what I did? I focused on the type of man that I wanted and I specifically asked …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 12:42 AM
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Cuz nobody says women should avoid them, is actually the other way around, women are shamed and forced into accepting them, they arent even given a choice. You know this as a man? Okay. 1/3 of women watch porn at least once a week. 2/3's of those women are watching it alone. Nobody is shaming women into dating porn addicts or watching porn. You're fine to dislike whatever, but your opinion doesn't make another human low value.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 12:30 AM
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Why do you feel the need to assign them virtues, thought processes, and call them low value instead of focusing on the type of men that you want? That's not cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 12:22 AM
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Men will scream that paternity tests must be mandatory because a small percentage of men are victims of paternity fraud and nothing on this planet could possibly be worse. AWALT!! Do you hate men?? You're supporting cheating lying whores and your "comfort and feeling trusted" do not outweigh their need for clarity. Women choose the bear based on statistics of violence and personal experiences of harassment. Men freak out and scream that you hate men. You're sick in the head to lump men together …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 12:15 AM
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Masculinity is how a man feels manly. That's it. It could be anything and it's not for women to decide. Some men enjoy being stay at home parents and taking care of their kids and that is traditionally considered feminine. That is not feminine behavior. Femininity is however a woman feels womanly. That might be fixing her own truck and being independent. Others aren't going to define it that way. They're going to say she's masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 11:28 PM
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So my question is, is this reasonable? Short of a scenario where the mans behaviour shifts to aggressive and causes a woman to go from consenting to concerned, I don't think it's appropriate to completely alleviate yourself of accountability because any man at any time might hurt you. Yes, it is reasonable and it is the exact same reason men don't step in if a guy slaps their girl on the ass or says something to her. That thread is posted here constantly asking if a woman would be upset by that.…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 11:20 PM
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13 summers living in the grizzly parks of Alaska in a tent. That guy was a fruit loop and is lucky that he survived that long with his actions that intentionally endangered himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 10:57 PM
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You avoid. You deflect. So typical lol The question was answered, but allow me to provide more detail. Both girls were guaranteed sexually harassed and slut shamed at 12-15 years old despite both of them being virgins. Why did that happen? They existed outside where predators exist and men wanted to fuck them as children. Now for the love of the baby Jesus go ahead and explain to me what literal children are doing that garners sexual harassment from adult men? Can you answer that? Don't be evasi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 12:04 AM
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The one that encounters a rapist, stalker, or woman beater first. Would you like to ask for a 3rd time to see if the answer changes? Alice can fuck 100 men a day and not encounter any of that with condoms and men that respect the word no. Can we stop shaming victims?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 11:53 PM
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You think sex is what leads to stalking, rape, and assault? No, it's crazy ass men and you don't need to fuck them. You only need to cross their path. Let's stop victim shaming assault victims, okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 11:45 PM
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When a woman has multiple bodies, doesn't it show that she doesn't even take her own self seriously? The applies to men. No woman should assume she's special and a horn dog always out looking for casual sex is going to change into a family man. Don't take him seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 11:31 PM
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That's way too much acid. You're going to give yourself an ucler. The enzyme is not the only problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 10:58 PM
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How is a woman that doesn't hate herself supposed to fuck him?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 10:30 PM
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Read my flair. It's sarcasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:13 PM
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We're both tall. We're both very highly social and neither of us has ever struggled with dating. I am almost 5'11 and he is 6'3.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 07:31 PM
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What accountability? For your feelings of wanting to fuck them or for them not fucking you? There's no accountability to be had in this situation. You're describing a personal problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 06:19 PM
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Bears don't want contact with humans. They generally try to escape when they encounter you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 03:32 PM
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Without an element of surprise and his weapons he's only as dangerous as he is physically superior. Make a post asking if men are stronger than women in general. I think we know the answer to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 03:31 PM
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The woods and river that surrounded my house are their territory. The bears don't respect property rights. Is that confusing? Do you think that we never went into the woods?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 03:30 PM
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Stuck isn't in the question either. Please learn to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 03:29 PM
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Random bear isn't one trapped in a cage either.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 03:28 PM
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There is no trapped. The question posed is would you rather be alone in the woods with a bear or man. That's the entire question. So yeah, thank you for answering that you are indeed a moron. Personal attacks don't make you look smarter.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 03:24 PM
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I lived with them in my yard from 7-22 without a single incident. Good luck with reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 03:22 PM
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Are you fucking with me or are you truly that stupid? Did someone teach you that the woods are a bear cage? Were you confused by the question of bear vs man encounter in the woods?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 03:21 PM
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Go hop in a prison cell for 48 hours with a rapist serial killer with no guards or penalties. I guess we'll say that's as close to as an experience with a random man as you can get too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 03:19 PM
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Hopping in a zoo cage is threatening and entering their den. It's nowhere near the same. Both parties have outs and options in national parks National parks have miles and miles of wilderness with nothing around. You are taking that risk when you go and the park will not be held responsible.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 03:17 PM
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Plants make up 90% of a bear diet and they don't have access to steady food for months during the winter. 48 hours isn't shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 03:15 PM
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It isn't that hard to test It's been tested. Millions of people visit national parks and even camp among the bears. People camp in grizzly reserves and the numbers are still that low.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 03:13 PM
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I've said this many times. I grew up with bears in my yard from 7-22 and came across them constantly. I was never once threatened by them. Bears do not want contact with people unless they feel threatened or they're sick.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 03:10 PM
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Place your bets on if he responds with “huh?” or “shut up.” I'll put down 50 karma on "No".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 02:57 PM
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But have you noticed how even Chad is struggling to pull pussy? Have you? The rules have changed. Even extremely good looking men can't pull ugly women now because of their delusional standards. It's 100% true. Even models and celebrities are in their dry era. Thankfully we have OP to give us the real field reports.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 02:44 PM
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I forgot about those.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 02:37 PM
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I 32, and let me tell you that l am pissed that college aged women won't fuck me. These ageist women are the problem with society. My age is always the first question they ask! Why? Why do they think age matters? It should only matter when it's held against women. B 4, before you tell me I am wrong consider that every woman has shown interest in me. Do you honestly think that all 100 of these women were not eye fucking me and then acting disgusted and flaking the moment I tried to speak to them?…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 02:24 PM
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Do you imagine what the opposite gender version of yourself is when judging the opposite gender? That's probably my older brother. We live by the same morals and standards. He's also been successful in his life and he's never struggled socially or romantically either. I don't think my life would have been that different had l been born a male.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 02:17 PM
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Step up as we spin the wheel of crazy ranting disguised as a debate. Where will it land today? Brought to you by that one guy that literally hates everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 02:04 PM
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What's next in the rotation? Is it the women are too masculine or the ugly jealous friend is always cockblocking?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 01:58 PM
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You have hard 3-6/10 women running around calling themselves “beautiful” and thinking they are a catch deserving of the top men available. You also have men in their 30's calling themselves above average while they're 5'8, balding, overweight, working in retail, and admitting to having mental illnesses. It would seem that women aren't the singular problem in that picture when that man screeches about ageist young women or a women he considers beneath him won't fuck him 10 mins after meeting in a…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 01:55 PM
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I don't think intellectual retardation is going to help that cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 02:27 AM
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he was around 10 Balsamic and I are in the same club!!! I feel validated, but also concerned for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 02:21 AM
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I'm surprised that people aren't recommended to take vitamin D all winter. You should if you get good sun exposure.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 02:19 AM
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Erectile dysfunction is a side effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 02:16 AM
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I grew up with bears in my yard from 7-22. I never once felt threatened by them. A random bear is not likely to attack you or come anywhere near you. That is the problem men have with the bear question. if random man and rapist have the same answer then women are equating random man with rapist. Thats sexism at its finest. Men don't care about sexism when they tell a woman that being raped was her fault. What was she doing out on her own at a bar? What did she think would happen if she went to a…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 02:01 AM
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low vitamin D levels It's an important topic. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 01:53 AM
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You need to see a doctor. That's not normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 12:36 AM
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I feel that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 08:53 PM
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Don't rule lung cancer out too fast. We don't exactly know yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 08:48 PM
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Caffeine is an appetite suppressant.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 08:43 PM
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Did you choose the bear over the random man in the woods?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 08:41 PM
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We're late 20's early 30's.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 04:21 PM
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How are they going to know without asking for it? Do you seriously not have friends or co-workers that you talk to regularly and this doesn't come up? These are daily conversations for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 04:21 PM
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Why not? I don't think people tell "I wouldn't be able to talk now, if it wasn't for you". Usually people don't tell that they're "Busy, but.." It'd come off as a bad taste. It doesn't come off in bad taste. People say they're busy all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 03:28 PM
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So if someone has a career that allows that - they are authomatically "does he have nothing else ever going on his life" by that logic? Yes bro, exactly that, because it's not like people aren't talking about what's going on with work, or what they're doing later with friends, or their plans for the weekend. 🙄 Have you ever had a conversation with someone before? You talk about this shit. Clearly they are going to know if you never have plans and your answer to what are you doing is always nothi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 03:27 PM
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You can be busy and respond. "Hey. I'm out with my friends and don't want to be rude to them. Text you when I get home?"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 03:22 PM
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I know a lot of people that are the same way. There's no need to step out of their social circles for finding a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 03:19 PM
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With almost everyone being online even when they are busy - what exactly is this "making the time", since replying requires almost no time and brain power? My husband and I have careers that don't allow for that. Do you really want someone on the phone in surgery or when they're reading your test results and creating patient plans? There are hours at home together that we don't talk because we both have work stuff that needs us to focus.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 03:19 PM
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I would never date someone I don't know already.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 03:15 PM
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You don't have a job that requires your time and attention? You don't have friends that you spend time with and hang out? You don't have hobbies or activities that take up your time? All of those are going to be seen as red flags by a lot of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 03:14 PM
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When I started dating my husband we could talk for several hours a day when we were in the same departments working. When we were in other areas we would respond to texts from each other when we had time. I would text him and home and he would respond and send me pics and tell me that he and his daughter were cooking dinner or eating. I wouldn't keep texting. He would respond more when they finished. He still took the time to let me know that he had things going on at that moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 03:07 PM
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It's not 50/50. A guy that's making the time for you will never be seen as too available, because she knows he's doing that specifically for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 03:04 PM
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Is he making the time for me or does he have nothing else ever going on his life. One is cute and special and the other is a turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 03:02 PM
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Why does this get so little attention here? You post this shit every few days. How much attention do you need?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 11:58 PM
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Lady responds eww, no. To you, no. Some people like the prepubescent thing I guess. But my salt & pepper beard and gym body gets me a whole lot of pussy. I used to stay clean shaven until women told me to stop. Jfc, get it over it. Most people aren't into age gaps. Stop fighting reality. This is exactly what I was talking about. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 10:32 PM
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Must be the broccoli hair lol. Many women find older men much more attractive. As they age, their appearance becomes more distinguished and they have a lot more confidence and maturity than a 20 year old who often times looks and acts like a child. Many women get completely wet over an older man who is physically fit, well dressed and rocks a salt & pepper beard. That's a response to me on THIS thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 10:06 PM
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This father example sounds like a bully of a father. He was teaching me tang soo do. Yes, he is a qualified instructor and it was always my choice. 😂 My dad taught me to defend myself. In this example, the bf didn't start shit. He's afraid to start something by saying or doing anything to the guy because of fear of consquences. You know when you hit him back that it might lead to a lot more violence. You have to assume that's going to happen when you do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 04:17 PM
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Still don't know what's so scary about this hypothetical man. The fear isn't the man himself. I wouldn't blame anyone that is afraid of getting into a physical confrontation. The idea terrifies some people and it probably should. "Don't start some shit that you can't finish on your own." That's an acceptable fear. My dad was whooping my ass in martial arts at 8 years old knocking me down hard and I got used to it. We were sparring with gloves and headgear with decent force contact hits when I wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 03:55 PM
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You're at the club with your bf and someone walks past you slaps you on your ass and runs his mouth, your bf says nothing while you look at him. Predator walks away, its clear as a day that your man was scared. The moment that my husband puts his ego before my feelings and needs is the moment that he will be hit with a divorce. Would you find it hot if he punched his face in like a g? Nah bro. I am not his car. I'll do it myself if want a man punched.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 03:14 PM
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🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 03:50 AM
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That's really tough. Having to put down an animal is the worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 03:42 AM
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We use the same passcode for locked devices and pretty much anything useless that requires a passcode like email.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 03:39 AM
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We no longer have locks on our phones.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 03:36 AM
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https://reason.com/2024/04/22/after-iowa-police-ignored-her-pleas-for-help-her-estranged-husband-killed-her/ It happens in the US https://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/toronto/toronto-police-misconduct-charge-1.6794594 And Canada https://www.cosmopolitan.com/uk/reports/a46050981/domestic-violence-police-reports-ignored-stats/ AND the UK, where more than 50% of victims of homicide from domestic violence tried to get the police to do something.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 03:29 AM
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I'm not blaming men. But... if men date gold diggers and then is left after she steals all his money, who is to blame? But... if men want to date women that fuck immediately and then she fucks another guy immediately, who is to blame? But... if men want to date someone with bpd because it's hot and she stabs him in his sleep, who is to blame? Okay. You might want to rethink your victim blaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 01:33 AM
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The average man is shorter than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 01:00 AM
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If you're an experienced woman marrying an inexperienced man who never got laid much, its likely because he's the stable, loyal, provider, family man type. Not because he's your physical type - the type you enjoyed hookups and casual sex with. You're most likely settling for him and compromising on sexual/physical attraction. Let's be honest here. This is something you care about or you don't. If you care then you are also settling in this situation and why would you expect better if you're both…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 12:56 AM
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I would have swiped, but he's only 1 of 3 men I have ever found sexually attractive by his appearance. That's why I never used apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 10:20 PM
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I could maybe understand claiming a non-majority subset of men can physically peak at 30, if they aren't balding yet, took care of their skin, and are in better shape than 20 year olds because they've been training consistently for an extra 10 years. This is apparently the majority of red pill man on these age gap threads, which isn't possible. But all else being equal, a 20 year old is going to be hotter and fitter than a 30 year old, whose hotter and fitter than a 40 year old, and so on. Absol…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 07:54 PM
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I don't disagree, but on age gap threads the majority of men claim that's the peak of being male.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 06:22 PM
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I would pick the 40 year old. He's statically likely to be married with kids. Either that or divorced and he wants to avoid women. He's also likely to be shorter than I am and obese. He's not an automatic physical threat to me since he's out of shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 05:00 PM
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Guys on age gap relationships: guys in their late 30's-40 are in their prime. They're gods among men. They're at their peak! Guys on this thread: 40 is practically elderly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 03:16 PM
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Does he have a magic penis or something? A pig raping penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 02:11 PM
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But are men fucking the young women they want on demand despite their own physical attractiveness or that woman not wanting causal sex? 😭 Has anyone asked that??
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 08:57 PM
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I agree with that. What they do in their private life does not and should not concern us as long as everything is legal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 06:35 PM
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It becomes harassment the moment it's discovered and brought to the attention of the school to have them punished or fired while not breaking their contract. Other employees have 0 legal protection to discuss it in any context. Replace the OF with being gay. It is okay for a school to find out and fire them or punish them? Replace it with making porn with their spouse or going to a swingers club? Is that okay to fire them because someone found out? What about a straight sexually active person th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 06:13 PM
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Wait what? Where did this come from? Someone is looking at porn for this be brought up about a teacher.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 05:54 PM
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Then how is the OF content any kind of issue? Kid goes to the school and says l found this online. "You're not old enough to be viewing that material. Mind your business and if you discuss it you will be expelled." It is not on any teacher or school to keep your child away from porn sites or to keep you or your spouse from sexually harassing someone by discussing their private life. Your free to put your child in another school.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 05:49 PM
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If that student is discussing it in the presence of minors? Absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 05:41 PM
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I don't think it's any of our business as parents as long what they do in private as the teacher is not participating in illegal activity. Their side gig has nothing to do with their job and people should be fucking ashamed for looking it up and then having the nerve to judge her. Is it really that immoral? If it is then it shouldn't be okay for the parents to look it up and it's illegal in some states for minors to look it up. Those students or children of those parents shouldn't be permitted t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 05:22 PM
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I knew my husband for months before we dated and spent 8+ hours a day with him at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 01:25 PM
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How do women maintain mental consistency dating men while believing in "the bear pill"? The bear pill is about a random man. How many have you heard say that they wouldn't accept a cold approach? That's a random man. People vet their partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 12:36 PM
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https://www.southernliving.com/food/bread/scone-vs-biscuit It's an inferior English biscuit!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 03:30 AM
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Scones
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 02:22 AM
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I've seen both.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 02:21 AM
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Balsamic the man servant. I like it. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 02:18 AM
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She said that she can't afford to move out.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 01:46 AM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/s/XYl2et7nCD
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:54 PM
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Why doesn't the wife get the husband to help? Why doesn't the extended family take on those tasks regardless? How is she going to force him if she's already asked and he won't step up? Do you not think other people have their own lives, relationships, and kids to look after? I don't have time to do shit for you while you have a partner sitting in your house doing nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:13 PM
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Single Moms, according to most studies, offload a lot of household tasks to extended family who I really hope they're not having sex with. What wife gets to do that when their husband doesn't help? What wife gets to pay for help when he refuses to do it? Have you ever noticed how much incest porn there is compared to no one searching for or asking for incest porn? No, I don't watch porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:41 PM
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Single moms get free time when the dad has visitation. Single moms are making a choice to do everything on their own and aren't holding resentment towards their partner for not pulling their own weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:33 PM
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It reminds me of all thoses cases where white women called police on black people for such things as a cookout, moving in, being with kids, selling lemonade,etc. TiL that not wanting to be alone with a man you don't know is the same as committing a crime, actively calling the police, and trying to get that man in trouble or possibly killed. Stop being dramatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 02:09 PM
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<image> Every dot is a national park with bears. There's about 16 more in Alaska.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:09 AM
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In the event a person goes to a strangers house and is raped, can I ask why did you go to the strangers house? Soooo men are predators and doing what predators do? That's a new take for ppd.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 02:33 AM
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Korea is pretty much screwed. I would never consider living there again. I prefer America with all of it's own problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 07:57 PM
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Even the famous Grizzly Man, Timothy Treadwell, who was particularly good at understanding and interacting with grizzlys was eventually mauled to death by one. No, that guy was a fruitloop that thought he was friends with the bears and had unsafe practices. That idiot still survived for years around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 07:45 PM
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Nah bro. It was to help economic growth after the Korean War.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 07:40 PM
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I have talked about that before on threads. That's why many people are avoiding relationships, but the birth rate and population collapse was 100% the govt.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 07:38 PM
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People might talk about Korea's extremely bad birth rates as being a response to this, but what they fail to understand is that the negative birth rate was caused by feminism to begin with, not by the resulting justified backlash. You might want to do some research. The Korean government promoted not having kids because people were having too many. It continued for decades. It was not feminism. The propaganda was very similar to China and their 1 child policy. Edit: basic overview
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 07:16 PM
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I will absolutely do that as a happily married woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 06:54 PM
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Again, your own words. Do you. No one thinks about your choices except for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 06:50 PM
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Ah yes, dating is now equivalent to being alone with a killer or rapist. It's called trust and it's earned. It's not hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 06:48 PM
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I grew up with bears in my yard. Most bears have no interest in harming humans, not even grizzlies. National parks are open to the public for a reason. Assuming the bear wants to eat them is no different than assuming a random man might be a rapist or killer. Tell me how many news stories you see of bear attacks. Now tell me how many you see of men murdering and raping women. That's why.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 06:45 PM
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Doesn't want to be alone with a serial killer and rapist is now man hate? Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 06:41 PM
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I would rather die of hypothermia, starvation, or dehydration than be murdered or murdered and raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 06:39 PM
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Bear. They can't climb trees and eventually give up waiting in search of other food and water. It's not going to die waiting for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 06:26 PM
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I don't see differences as defects or lessening their value as a person. I have multiple autistic patients. I have to do things differently with them. I have to be aware of their comfort and triggers. I am aware that they have a disability. I still see them no differently as a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 03:20 PM
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Do you see people with other medical conditions as defective or lesser people?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 03:08 PM
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I'm not normalizing your issues. Those issues do not make you defective as a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 02:58 PM
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it shows weakness and, at least for me, as a person, I automatically value you less. And why wouldn't I? You're telling me you're defective. I will simply believe you. He is not defective for having a medical condition. This is a you problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 02:25 PM
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This isn't a logical conversation. She made a statement about men in general that has a historical basis. You decided to personally attack her, because feelings. Who should die for a man that can't hold a simple hypothetical conversation without resorting to that response? No one.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 02:10 PM
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What if the idea spreads? Not my problem. Let it burn and enjoy the decline.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 01:15 AM
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Too late. I went there. That horse is out of the barn.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 01:08 AM
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Sticking to your kind is the best recipe for success 100% agree. You should always stick to other humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 01:05 AM
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Those are both choices and have nothing to do with personal power.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 12:07 AM
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They write entire posts about one specific woman and say that all women are that way. "Don't make assumptions."
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 11:57 PM
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I can’t speak for other men. That's exactly what you did when you claimed men, as a whole, have power.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 11:53 PM
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"Don't take things personally." - The Four Agreements Everyone should read that book.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 11:51 PM
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Men are complaining about those things. These men that supposedly hold power.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 11:49 PM
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In that case you had better go tell men to stop complaining about abortion, child support, circumcision, the draft, homeless, and male mental health. I don't think men received that memo. That's probably because the average man has no more power than the average woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 11:47 PM
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All of these are neutral traits. They're neither good or bad. None of these traits say ally, safe, or harmless. Why isn’t this a lifestyle that gets respect? Respect is earned. You deserve basic social niceties. I work, raise kids, own a house, and treat my husband well. Am I a good ally to men? You can't answer that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 11:42 PM
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It a mentally scarring and emotionally traumatic experience. Many women can never have sex again without thinking about it or unintentionally flinching around their partner. Being raped last minutes. The trauma can last a lifetime. A lot of people would rather be dead than live with a lifetime of suffering over a crime committed against them. This isn't rocket science. It's not a few minutes of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 07:39 PM
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It's a spectrum like every sexuality, but by definition it's a lack of sexual attraction to other people. Outliers exist to every rule. Some people are also sex repulsed on top of it and even the idea of kissing someone on the lips disgusts them. Others are fine with sexual activity and enjoy sex, but they never experience sexual attraction to their partner. Sex is like going to an arcade. It's a fun activity, but anyone will do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:31 PM
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How much advice, toys, and self exploration would it take for straight men to be sexually attracted to other men and learn to love sex with them? That's what your asking of someone that is asexual. Her sexual orientation is no one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:24 PM
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It is kinda like that by definition? The difference is not a preference and you usually have no idea what's doing it. It happens or it doesn't. It's extremely rare when it happens. Like a handful in your lifetime is a lot type of rare. It's never something like he has to be 6', this race, or make this much money. For me all 3 guys shared race in common. That's about it physically or personality wise. My husband is 6'1ish, my ex 5'7, and the guy I liked in high school was around 5'9. My husband i…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:16 PM
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I would love to find a really long version of this for work.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:05 PM
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You both deserve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:03 PM
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I'm glad you had a fun weekend.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:00 PM
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Did you clog?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 05:51 PM
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I don’t get turn on by him. I never felt turned on by another person. I do have sexual desires though, I do want to have sex and get horny out of the blue. You are asexual. This is the definition. "The plumbing is there, but no one can turn on the water." You need to talk to him openly and honestly about it and go from there. No toys, position, or masturbation is ever going to change that he doesn't arouse you. It's probably always going to be that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 05:49 PM
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She didn't say it's his fault and after seeing her post history I have one thing to say. She is asexual. I don’t get turn on by him. I never felt turned on by another person. I do have sexual desires though, I do want to have sex and get horny out of the blue. This is the classic textbook definition of asexuality. The plumbing is there, but no water is flowing. It won't change. I am the same, but I have seen 3 people in my 30 years of life that do turn me on. I was fortunate enough to marry one …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 05:46 PM
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This is the unhinged misdirection of anger of an abuser. Not enjoying sexual activity or faking it for someone is not a form of abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 05:39 PM
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She sounds like she's asexual and has no idea what it means. This isn't a lack of orgasms. She doesn't like how sexual activity feels.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 05:28 PM
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There are plenty of people that aren't okay with their partner having friends of the opposite gender, especially new friends. I don't understand it, but to each their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 09:16 PM
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Those are great boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 09:09 PM
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I'd take Lift.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 09:01 PM
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What are those boundaries?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 08:57 PM
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Not necessarily. They could be friends too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 08:56 PM
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Q4M: would you support your wife/long term gf having relationships with other men where she's being supportive and listening to their problems or would you consider that too much? They might be your family members, work colleagues, or friends of either of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 08:49 PM
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We're adopting. She was being raised by her uncle, but he passed in an accident and her great aunt got her.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 02:47 AM
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Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 02:40 AM
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Her great aunt.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 02:40 AM
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Let’s say you find out (by whatever means) that he was constantly buying these women gifts, doing them favors and paying for vacations with them. They gladly accepted his friendship, but they never slept together. As a friend or as a means to try to fuck them. The first is fine. The second is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 02:33 AM
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Thanks. I think we'll be fine. Everything has been going great.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 02:26 AM
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We have a court hearing this week to get legal custody and guardianship of our 2nd child!!! 🤞
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 02:22 AM
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He does drive one.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 02:05 AM
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You talk a lot of shit about her driving when she takes your points and pays your fines so you can keep your license.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 02:03 AM
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As far as parents go, my gfs parents were worried about her not finding someone and she was 26 She was already the average age of Vietnamese women that get married and still single. That's why.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 12:53 AM
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When will men realize that the endless seething about women won't change women? Why do you care what others think? You can get your standards met or you can't. Bitching and moaning will never change that and neither side is going to care.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 12:49 AM
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Where I am now at 30? Absolutely not, but almost everyone is broke at 24. That's not a huge deal. All my friends are nurses, engineers, etc cracking 6 figs They most likely have debt too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 09:06 PM
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https://www.coloradopolitics.com/news/colorado-lawmakers-advance-expansion-of-rape-shield-law/article_e6098dda-d5c3-11ee-a572-1b682c34c36b.html Colorado disagrees and the bill was just passed this month. Nice try. No one is lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 06:11 PM
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Oh I agree it happens, but to claim that it's a common thing is just BS fear mongering Tell me what that has to do with the OP or my examples? Was that answer nothing and you get pissed off by the topic? Okay then. Have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 06:07 PM
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Nice moving of the goal posts. Those aren't first world countries. Okay, those are first world countries, but not the specific unnamed country that I live in, and here are reasons why it's really the fault of racism that rape victims get blamed in that country. Fuck outta here with that bullshit. Victim blaming because of clothing happens all over the world. The US has exhibits for what victims were wearing to prove the shit has nothing to do with rape and you know damn well that the law in the …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 06:02 PM
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Ireland A 27 year old raped a 17 year old. https://www.bbc.com/news/world-europe-46207304 In the trial, the defence lawyer told the jury: "You have to look at the way she was dressed. She was wearing a thong with a lace front." Switzerland https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/15777306/court-rules-rape-victim-attack-clothing/ Judge decided that her provocative clothing meant he deserved a reduced sentence. It happens in 1st world countries too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 02:08 PM
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He chose the pants.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 12:42 AM
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They should have gotten the same sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 12:33 AM
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Weren't you raised in the south? How did that happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 12:24 AM
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I feel the same about guys in tight or fitted pants and no bulge. Laughing is okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 12:20 AM
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Look at this post. "What outfit says she's up for sex?" np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/aBzUrTW3gs
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 11:41 PM
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People on this sub: Okay, so like 127 pages of Google results out of how many cases? Doesn't seem like a real problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 09:23 PM
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https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-8914001/Peru-judges-rule-rape-case-womans-red-underwear-signalled-willing-sex.html That's a judge dismissing a rape case because the color of her underwear. https://www.independent.co.uk/asia/sexual-assault-judge-india-provocative-clothes-b2147722.html Dismissed for provocative clothes https://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/crime/rape-sexual-history-assault-cross-examine-trial-court-voices4victims-plaid-cymru-mp-liz-savile-a7570286.html It's quite common.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 09:19 PM
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Men wore make up regularly until the Victorian era. Education is their friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 09:15 PM
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I am in my mid 30s and my friends naturally disappears No, that happens when you don't cultivate and encourage those friendships. It doesn't just happen. Women would expect me to be already skilled at something at this age and I am quite suicidal today about it. Most people aren't expecting others to be skilled at their hobbies. Hobbies are meant to enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 09:13 PM
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It's a deal breaker if he has significant social struggles. Why don't you want to give them a chance? Why would anyone want someone else to date people that they're not interested in as a partner. There are plenty of men without any of those hang ups that are available and interested. Why won't you give fat grandmas a chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 09:07 PM
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Because we are vastly different types of people and not compatible. And also what if he doesn't have hobbies/friends, but wants to get them? That's a sign of having significant social struggles.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 09:01 PM
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I wouldn't be interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 08:59 PM
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At what point is a man "too available" to you? When he has no life of his own or priorities outside of a potential relationship. I have a life, other relationships, and commitments. He should have the same. I want to be a partner not the sole social outlet in his life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 08:07 PM
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This is the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 08:05 PM
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Exclusivity and commitment are not the same word and they do not have the same meaning. Poly people are not exclusive, but they are committed to their partners. A FWB is defined as sex without commitment. There's 0 mention of eclusivity. You want words to be there that don't exist. You can't say that poly people aren't in committed relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 05:17 PM
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The literal definition of FWB or fuck buddy, is someone with whom you can have sex without said commitment as a condition for the continued sexual intimacy. This is the entire definition. You get to fuck them without an expected relationship. Show me where in this definition it mentions a lack of sexual exclusivity or other people. It doesn't. because expecting someone to be sexually clean if you're regularly having sex is basic decency. They think they're clean until the test says otherwise. Yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 05:00 PM
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FWB is a non-exclusive arrangement by default. Entering that arrangement without these conversations makes no sense. Those conversations are strings. You're no longer following your own definition if you want a fwb that has boundaries. How do you not see the irony?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:40 PM
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my understanding May not be the same as theirs and your choices and assumptions can have a direct impact on their physical health. Are you cool with your partner fucking other people with STDs and possibly exposing you without that conversation because no strings? They're not aware that they're carrying anything so it's cool, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:29 PM
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Why do you women vilify some men who are doing nothing to them? Why do you men vilify some women who are doing nothing to them? So I get my question is why do some women instantly villify men? For the same reason some men do it. People of either sex can suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:23 PM
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I was fine being alone and expected to be alone because of my asexual attraction. I've only ever found 3 people sexually attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:19 PM
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Does anybody have any idea why she might expect commitment sexually despite refusing to be in a committed relationship? I know the context might be missing, but I'm hoping to lean on life experiences of various folks here. It's probably for the same reason many people get mad when they begin dating someone and that person is seeing/sleeping with other people despite not being in a relationship. People like to assume boundaries without discussing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:16 PM
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hooker yo Your autocorrect hates her.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:14 PM
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A draft should be the very last resort as a response to a war, because you're at a high risk of a mutiny and civil war.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:44 PM
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I'm against the draft, but I would volunteer to protect my country. Both of my parents were military officers. No one should be forced to risk their life against their will.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:40 PM
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Someone saying that they can't find a compatible partner is valid regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 02:26 PM
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Why are you doing the same damn thing that you're complaining is wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 02:11 PM
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I believe that these men realize that woman can't be made to need him. That's a problem when they can't make her want him either. A relationship can only exist under one of those conditions.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 12:44 AM
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what does that mean? you hinted at it once in a while? women generally have no idea how men communicate. we need direct straight talk and sometimes a man needs an ultimatum to really rise to the occasion. watch Vice with Christian Bale Your feelings aren't my priority until they have consquences for me. That's all this means. It's not about direct communication. It's the threat of consquences.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 12:23 AM
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"I thought she would change."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 10:07 PM
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https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2015/08/150822154900.htm
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 10:07 PM
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Their mental health is more dependent on a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 10:04 PM
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Why would he expect it to change or think it would be different when it came to kids. She has a problem with ejaculation. That doesn’t go away because you want kids. Why didn't he bring this up before marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 10:03 PM
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Found this whilst searching for if women break up with men more. Thoughts? Men and women break off non-marital relationships at roughly equal rates. Women file for divorce more than men. Source: My figure from Table 2 in Richard Rogers, Patrick Krueger and Tim Wadsworth, “Adult Suicide Mortality in the United States: Marital Status, Family Size, Socioeconomic Status, and Differences by Sex,” Social Science Quarterly, 2009 It fits. Men are also more likely to seek another marriage after a divorce…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 10:01 PM
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It isn't really clear whether her attitude towards his orgasm and sperm changed after their wedding or not, as he claims that it happened after the wedding, but the third paragraph reads as if she always had a problem with his sperm. He said it was always like that. It shouldn't be a problem for him now. He knew what he was marrying. The change seems to be about having kids and her wanting ivf with a donor.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 09:54 PM
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We were out on a date and l don't remember what it was, but it was something not common and his first wife always ordered it. You can't control what brings up those memories. He wasn't crying over it, but it obviously got to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 09:45 PM
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My husband is somewhere in there. I don't know his exact height. The thing with something being ideal doesn't make it a requirement. It's what you find to be perfect. Very few people are getting that or finding anything other than perfect unacceptable or unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 09:43 PM
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My only other partner was 5'7. It didn't bother me, but I would still say 6'1-6'2 is ideal for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 09:37 PM
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I don't know. I am almost 5'11 myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 09:31 PM
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Yeah, I am tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 09:31 PM
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6'1-6'2 is ideal for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 09:25 PM
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Sign me up! I love being miserable! 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 08:25 PM
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BPD is a personality disorder that meds can't fix. It's all behavioral and poor coping mechanisms. Bipolar is controlled by necessary medications and is not learned behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 07:38 PM
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Seriously, block those sites for your mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 07:26 PM
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It would be one for you. You're losing on a quality of life while having nicer surroundings.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 07:25 PM
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Do not torture yourself. Health anxiety is bad enough on it's own.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 07:06 PM
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An injury causing event could occur, without showing any indicators on modern medical imaging. That's definitely not what I am talking about. That would absolutely be a concern to me. That patient has cause to be investigated. I am talking about a patient diagnosing themselves with TBI or brain mass, despite no injury causing event and despite every test being normal, because they had 3 headaches last month.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 06:46 PM
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Many TBIs cannot be detected with any scan or test. What TBI has ever occurred without an injury causing event? 0. It's not possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 06:40 PM
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Chest pain can be caused by a million things unrelated to the heart and that includes anxiety. I genuinely thought I was having a heart attack because of the pain. I went to the ER. It was acid reflux. There are a lot of things that could be causing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 06:38 PM
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You just try to assign sole responsibility for the situation on the higher earning partner, but it doesn't make relationship any less unequal contribution wise. Who made the choice? You're not a victim when you offer something freely.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 06:35 PM
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You often cannot see concussion or TBI on any brain scan. You pretty much just have to take the patient's word for it. Do you know what a concussion is? It's a mild TBI. What's a TBI? It's a trauma brain injury. Do you know what they require? A fucking trauma like a stroke or injury. No one has ever had a tbi of any kind without a stroke or injury causing event. I am not talking about people not being believed for their symptoms after the fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 06:34 PM
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Why are you going now? You're an adult with a choice. This is no longer your mom's choice and you're making the same decisions that she did. That's the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 06:21 PM
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Doctors are not omniscient. No one is making that claim. Doctors miss things all the time. Especially when getting into hairier territories involving injuries and illnesses affecting the brain which are still pretty poorly understood. No one is talking about injuries. No one has a concussion or tbi that came from their imagination. You do not have cancer when your scans are clear and your bloodwork is normal because you once had reflux. This is health anxiety. Your doctor, specialists, and 97 te…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 06:20 PM
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Everything on the internet is accurate except for health anxiety. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 06:15 PM
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How often do you see your grandparents?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 06:09 PM
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Because the higher earning partner chooses that lifestyle without an agreement to be provided more in other ways. Who forced you to be with someone earning that much less or for you to provide them a lifestyle upgrade? No one.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 06:07 PM
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The internet was a mistake. You should need a license to access medical sites. Why the fuck do people go see a doctor if they're going to argue and diagnose themselves? Treat yourself, genius. You 👏 do 👏 not 👏 have 👏 cancer 👏 lupus 👏 or some unknown disease!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 05:51 PM
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Self soothing behavior. It comes in many forms.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 11:16 PM
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No one thinks that about a normal age gap. You want it to look that way and that's why you said she's in her 20's and you're in your 30's. You're not in an age gap relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 11:09 PM
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You waited too long to get a girlfriend in her 20s They couldn't get one and now are angry that their acquired assets don't make up for being ugly or their social deficits.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 10:53 PM
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Your gf is only like 4 years younger than you. 2-4 years is a normal range for couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 10:52 PM
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I thought the RP was supposed to be advice to be more alpha? This in insecure controlling bitch behavior. There's probably a good reason if you're that insecure about other guys and she'd probably be better off with one of them. Nothing else makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 10:06 PM
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I'll take black bears. I grew up with them in my yard. If a strange man was hanging around my yard it would freaky.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 09:56 PM
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I always paid half, but I certainly expected to be treated like a lady at all times. We're married and he still does those things. He opens doors. He pulls out chairs. He walks on the outside. He offers me his jacket. He says please and thank you when he would like me to do something for him. That's why I treat him the way that I do. He wakes up to a cooked breakfast and a packed lunch before we both go to work. I wouldn't spoil a man with unnecessary behavior that doesn't do the same for me in …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 05:50 PM
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"One size" fits xs-m. It's not meant for skinny people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 02:35 AM
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It's extremely common. More than 50% of guys have it over the age of 50.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 02:31 AM
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It's a size, because there's no vanity sizing. We don't care about your body positivity.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 02:27 AM
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Love it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 02:19 AM
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Does she love it? The people here are "special".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 01:13 AM
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Your posts never make sense. You started with men need to have these characteristics and ended with you don't need them, but you need the reputation. Wouldn't it be easier to not date women that expect you to save them?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 11:49 PM
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I was right. 😂 That is gorgeous country. That makes me miss home. NJ is nothing like TN.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 11:44 PM
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Where is that? It reminds me of TN in the hills.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 11:39 PM
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You have a type.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 11:26 PM
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That's pretty country.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 11:22 PM
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"Accused"? You admit that you have a fetish. No one cares. Approach who you want. No one has to date anyone for any reason. It doesn't matter if you're a man or a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 11:06 AM
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I know she can refuse to abort if there are medical issues or multiple embryos that take despite the parental wishes. You can't force a woman to get a medical procedure despite any contract. It's a contract violation and would be treated as such.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 12:36 AM
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He had a beautiful kind woman for himself but he'd rather pick easy one night stands? I don't get it. He wants easy access to sex. You're not compatible. Why would he regret that when you have different needs and desires? Those women can also be beautiful/kind and most people don't care about virginity.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 08:16 AM
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It's so interesting, have you ever had the need to tell people on your socials you're "so happy" specifically because you're now in a relationship? What do you guys think of this subject? My social media where I share things is all family and friends l have known for years. Why wouldn't I want to share my happiness with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 08:10 AM
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As women are gaining better position in workplace , ruling over men having on average higher social status than men - consequently their weight, bodyframe width is increasing. They are growing more hair everywhere. Most of the women are suffering from PCOS or other hormonal imbalances because of testosterone going haywire, thanks to the higher testosterone enabled by higher social status. PCOS is a genetic condition and it's not testosterone. Hormonal levels do not change based on social status.…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 06:10 PM
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Breasts are comparable to a penis in terms of societal views. So what if they aren't a reproductive organ? No they’re not. It's perfectly legal in 6 states for women to be topless in public. Indecent exposure in front of minors, possibly assault because she kicked him. You don't know that any minors were present and it's not assault with consent. That would be up to the audience to file reports and no one did.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 07:17 PM
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In 2019, two "models" flashed their breasts at a baseball game. They were banned from the stadium, but suffered no legal consequences. Imagine if the genders were flipped, and it was two men flashing their penises. Do you really think they would have gotten away with a mere stadium ban? No, they would have been on the sex offender registry if not in prison Breasts are not sexual organs and are not comparable to flashing a penis. There are places It's perfectly legal for women to be topless. Does…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 07:02 PM
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Look up aromatic and asexual subreddits.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 06:44 PM
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You've changed the argument by assuming that nice guys are pretending and are actually terrible people who feel entitled to sex I used the premise of the OP and his words. Men here are saying that genuine moral and good men and average men are less sexually sucessful than toxic and asshole average men. OP did not say anything along those lines. That's you changing the argument. You can be good and have the same character traits that also make toxic men successful, like confidence, charisma, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 12:41 AM
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then when you look at the studies on who has more consensual partners it is always bullies, narcisists and abusers who then go on and become wife beaters. There is no real evidence which would even hint that the "unfuckable" ones have in any way worse personalities than the sex having ones. Where does this myth come from? Those girls didn't say they're unfuckable because they're nice. They said "nice guys" are generally shitty people and are unfuckable. It's not about being better or worse. It's…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 12:08 AM
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DNP. I'm a nurse practitioner.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 07:27 PM
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Sexual attraction is amoral. There's no just world fallacy involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 06:17 PM
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