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Needimprovenentguy/r/askTRP28/12/18 06:23 PM
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Needimprovenentguy/r/askTRP17/11/18 10:43 PM
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Needimprovenentguy/r/askTRP14/01/19 08:44 PM
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Escalation & CalibrationNeedimprovenentguy/r/seduction15/06/22 08:02 PM
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Needimprovenentguy/r/askMRP21/04/19 12:25 PM
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Needimprovenentguy/r/askTRP30/01/21 08:57 PM
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Needimprovenentguy/r/askTRP03/12/18 07:12 PM
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Needimprovenentguy/r/askTRP04/12/18 09:08 PM
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Needimprovenentguy/r/askTRP21/11/18 07:06 PM
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Needimprovenentguy/r/askTRP03/12/18 06:24 PM
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Needimprovenentguy/r/askTRP14/04/19 09:44 PM
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Needimprovenentguy/r/askTRP02/01/19 10:00 PM
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Needimprovenentguy/r/askTRP28/01/21 01:50 PM
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Needimprovenentguy/r/askTRP02/12/18 05:30 PM
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Needimprovenentguy/r/askTRP21/05/19 11:16 AM
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Needimprovenentguy/r/TheRedPill27/01/18 12:10 PM
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Needimprovenentguy/r/askTRP30/12/18 09:07 PM
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Needimprovenentguy/r/askTRP23/11/18 09:14 PM
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Needimprovenentguy/r/askTRP25/01/21 08:37 PM
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Needimprovenentguy/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/19 07:23 PM
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Needimprovenentguy/r/askTRP16/01/19 07:06 PM
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Escalation & CalibrationNeedimprovenentguy/r/seduction14/07/22 12:59 PM
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Needimprovenentguy/r/askTRP27/11/18 09:39 PM
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Escalation & CalibrationNeedimprovenentguy/r/seduction14/07/22 06:30 AM
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Needimprovenentguy/r/askTRP20/01/19 01:46 PM
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Needimprovenentguy/r/askTRP07/12/18 11:12 PM
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Married Red PillNeedimprovenentguy/r/TheRedPill03/02/18 03:11 PM
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Needimprovenentguy/r/askTRP09/02/19 08:44 AM
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Needimprovenentguy/r/askTRP10/02/19 08:47 PM
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Needimprovenentguy/r/RedPillWives21/07/23 07:11 AM
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Question For MenNeedimprovenentguy/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 07:50 PM
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Rain ManNeedimprovenentguy/r/askMRP28/04/19 05:56 PM
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Needimprovenentguy/r/askTRP16/05/19 05:27 PM
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Outer Game Needimprovenentguy/r/seduction28/07/22 07:40 PM
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-5

I appreciate this advise. What do I do though she is so disrespectful, how do I get that respect and submission?
/r/RedPillWives21/07/23 07:51 AM
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The temptation to compromise.
/r/askTRP01/02/21 06:52 AM
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I have spent it wanking and watching breaking bad, but that’s getting boring now. Let’s just say I was in the wrong, I just want to know how to get this problem fixed?
/r/askTRP30/01/21 09:39 PM
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What is the oak?
/r/askTRP30/01/21 09:24 PM
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Given the kid being involved, leaving is not an option.
/r/askTRP30/01/21 09:19 PM
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There’s a reason Wall Street is betting against these stocks. As soon as the retail investors stop buying and lose interest, the price will no longer be propped up by short term enthusiasm and the price will go down.
/r/askTRP30/01/21 11:03 AM
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I don’t see why it matters in the grand scheme of things. She fucked a guy you know, what’s wrongs with that? Maybe it hurts your ego a bit but if you like her it’s a bad reason to dump her. Like you say just suck it up, these things are going to happen.
/r/askTRP27/01/21 04:24 PM
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Not to my liking personally
/r/askTRP17/01/21 02:03 PM
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Work on yourself, become better, as soon as you stop caring the problem will go away.
/r/askTRP01/01/21 01:48 PM
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Sounds like emotional abuse to me. Perhaps in his mind having read this sub he thinks his actions are justifiable, but telling you to be confident or he will cheat on you is gross. Tell him if he cheats your relationship is over, and to stop being such a dick. Maybe he needs explaining to him why sections of this sub are so mislead.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 07:35 AM
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Hell yeah I wanna fuck other women. For me I don’t see that ever going away, it’s in our nature.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 10:04 AM
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My life was pretty shitty at 26, I am far far happier now. You will gain more things and understand life and how to be happy better
/r/askTRP20/12/20 12:48 PM
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It doesn’t matter what we are engrained to do. Being a father in a monogamous relationship is a far happier life. The alternative is either not having kids, which is not a good alternative because it is something we are born to do, and it is difficult to maintain a decent amount of happiness without taking that path from what I can see. The second alternative is to get a girl pregnant but rarely ever get to see that child, the child grows up without a normal family situation and access to its fa…
/r/askTRP16/12/20 07:10 AM
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How is a guy going to father a child if he doesn’t have/has limited access to it? Should the child grow up without a father? It isn’t a formula for happiness, having a child but then never seeing it to protect its well being.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 03:37 PM
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Absolutely this, what a brilliant response. This was my experience too. Nothing will make happiness feel more important than freedom when you have kids. You are designed by evolution to want to replicate your DNA. If your brain is suggesting you do otherwise then that is pure fear. You know what route to take.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 11:09 AM
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Verifiable to what, getting your dick wet? Maybe so, maybe not but many are not congruent with a full and happy life.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 09:21 PM
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I haven’t unsubscribed so this post game up on my feed. Why is it important to you that I go away?
/r/askTRP13/12/20 09:19 PM
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Yes if you are able to differentiate between the truth and the shit. People have their own minds and can make their own decisions but it is worth being cautious given the amount of misleading information, anger and hatred towards women.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 08:55 PM
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Yes and don’t get me wrong there are some truths on here but a much higher number of naive and ignorant comments compared to the average sub. Partly because the average viewer age is probably younger as married guys wouldn’t use this group so much, but there is a lot of anger and ignorance too from misguided posters.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 08:33 PM
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It doesn’t take long to find posts and comments that are ignorant and or naive.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 08:28 PM
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One day you will look back at Red Pill and see how naive and messed up it is. Whatever you do make sure you don’t destroy good friendships because of it.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 05:23 PM
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This is awesome advice. You will always care about him, you are biologically designed to, take it from someone who had the same situation as you. You are better off accepting him for who he is and dealing with the ways he has fucked you up by learning to manage your own emotions and be strong enough and assertive enough to not take any more abuse if he tries to hand it out. You will always care about him maybe more than you should, just accept that and be the best you that you can.
/r/askTRP08/11/20 08:01 PM
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I don’t get it?
/r/askTRP21/05/19 11:39 AM
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I have had them for as long as I can remember and it has never been much of a problem.... not that I eat a lot of pussy.
/r/askTRP16/05/19 07:33 PM
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As in std herpes or sold sore herpes? If it’s the second then how cares you’re being insecure about something elsr
/r/askTRP16/05/19 05:39 PM
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I tried that it didn’t work
/r/askTRP16/05/19 05:32 PM
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Play then off against each other. Sit there and let them all prove to you who is the most attractive
/r/askTRP08/05/19 11:47 AM
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This subreddit has more trolls that guys who actually want to help.
/r/askMRP28/04/19 06:28 PM
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I haven’t given up entirely but have cut back for a few months. I lost weight and felt a lot more positive. Plus you’re no longer doing something that damages yourself psychologically. The problem for me is whenever I see my friends we are drinking so it is difficult to give up. Maybe you have the same problem
/r/askTRP28/04/19 06:25 PM
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That’s a lot of beers....
/r/askTRP28/04/19 06:20 PM
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I updated it.
/r/askMRP28/04/19 06:15 PM
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Good of you to share what worked for you. I’ll....errr....give that a go.....
/r/askMRP22/04/19 05:54 PM
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Ah cool, thanks for explaining. Gay jokes are always funny.
/r/askMRP22/04/19 01:53 PM
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You are boyfriend has a problem? I don’t get it?
/r/askMRP22/04/19 08:51 AM
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Lol. That’s a lot of anger.
/r/askMRP22/04/19 08:49 AM
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Go to a class. You don’t have to fight a lot of people go there just to get fit and learn how to defend themselves.
/r/askTRP31/03/19 12:25 PM
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Slime ball
/r/askTRP27/03/19 09:24 PM
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I quickly got sick of the club scene too, everyone is pissed so it is difficult to have decent convo and improve your game and too many guys are looking to fight someone. Eventually I reduced how much I went to clubs and went to bars instead where having a decent conversation is much easier.
/r/askTRP17/03/19 10:29 AM
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What does that mean?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/19 07:37 PM
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Gf engaged to get married. She won’t cook anymore because she did something to annoy me and I called her a cnt
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/19 07:29 PM
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Nice to be validated after giving you advice..... lol After reading this you should def get back into a relationship.
/r/askTRP16/03/19 06:00 PM
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It’s interesting how all of the guys who replied have very little post history.
/r/askTRP16/03/19 05:19 PM
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This is stupid fucking advice from guys who don’t understand women.
/r/askTRP16/03/19 05:16 PM
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Lol. How often do you beat your wife? Make sure she kisses his feet when she is allowed to return right?
/r/askTRP16/03/19 04:48 PM
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Sounds like you’re being beta still. If your sex life is crap and she wants you to look after her financially then start working on yourself. If she talks over you then maybe that’s because your vocal tonality has changed and it no longer commands for her to listen when you speak. And as for her talking to much - again is that because you have become less vocal yourself so it annoys you when she is. Start working on yourself again and get back together with her. P.s she needs to provide to the r…
/r/askTRP16/03/19 03:17 PM
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The reason you’re on a break is definitely relevant. It is difficult to give any relevant advice without knowing why?
/r/askTRP16/03/19 02:23 PM
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Suck a guys cock
/r/askTRP16/03/19 02:20 PM
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It’s sounds like she wants you to let other women know you’re off the market. But if you don’t want to just say no. If you struggle to say no to something as small as this then it sounds like you need to work on being stronger with her.
/r/askTRP16/03/19 02:19 PM
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It makes sense that our happiness is aided by a lifestyle choice that progresses towards reproducing our genes, given that reproduction is one of the few reasons that man is on earth. Unless the OP wants to get all these multiple bitches pregnant, which would lead to him not ever really seeing much of his kids most likely. My opinion is that monogamy is deeply floored but the happiest choice.
/r/askTRP02/03/19 11:02 PM
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I have done both. I am engaged now and have a baby on the way, life has never been better. My friends who have chosen the bachelor life seem to be getting unhappier the older they get.
/r/askTRP02/03/19 08:05 PM
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Why an immense lack of frame?
/r/askTRP10/02/19 11:03 PM
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Bump
/r/askTRP10/02/19 04:25 PM
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He caught me cheating on my gf
/r/askTRP09/02/19 09:43 AM
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Sort my shit out in what way?
/r/askTRP20/01/19 06:55 PM
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Because even though it is the woman’s choice it is not a good lifestyle decision to be selling her body for money. I strongly suspect it has a deeply negative impact on a woman’s well being, not to mention it funds other things like drugs/pimps and gang culture.
/r/askTRP20/01/19 06:46 PM
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Fair. You were drunk it’s not the end of the world so long as you don’t do it again.
/r/askTRP20/01/19 06:04 PM
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I slept with hookers for years and it is something I deeply regret and will never be able to forgive myself for. I strongly advise that you consider it a drunken mistake and never do it again. Truly it isn’t worth it.
/r/askTRP20/01/19 05:58 PM
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I want a FWB. What do you mean they will find out anyway?
/r/askTRP20/01/19 03:17 PM
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Hmm yer that’s one area I need to work on. But one way I improve my abundance mentality is to have more women in my life. When we first started the relationship I would see other women and as soon as I started to stop that she stopped giving me bjs and our sex life went downhill. I don’t see a better way of improving my abundance mentality than banging other girls. Unless there’s one you can suggest??
/r/askTRP20/01/19 02:04 PM
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There is a good reason just don’t want to go through it on here. Plus I’m not trying to force her. I am looking for ways to get proper sex out of her or to seek it elsewhere?
/r/askTRP20/01/19 01:58 PM
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How to I get her to meet my needs then?
/r/askTRP20/01/19 01:51 PM
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How could I use tinder? People I know would see me on it?
/r/askTRP16/01/19 09:57 PM
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Get used to it.
/r/askTRP13/01/19 07:36 PM
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Perhaps it is TRP stuff that you have been applying that she doesn’t like. Anyway if you want to keep this chick I would act as per the following. When she inevitably says she wants to break up don’t get upset, say something along the lines of - okay I felt it wasn’t working as well it’s a pity because we could have been great but that’s just how it goes sometimes. See how she reacts and allow her the chance to change her mind but do not chase her. Then get your shit together otherwise further d…
/r/askTRP13/01/19 04:13 PM
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Did I say I called her names?
/r/askTRP30/12/18 10:15 PM
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I don’t wanna portray myself as someone who puts up with rudeness.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 09:26 PM
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I ended up answering with - don’t answer if you don’t want to. I just wanna know who I’m talking with. Hopefully that’ll take the edge off my original comment while maintaining my frame
/r/askTRP30/12/18 09:14 PM
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I kept my frame. What am I supposed to do let her ignore my question?
/r/askTRP30/12/18 09:11 PM
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It’s a standard shit test. We’ve been speaking for only a few hours
/r/askTRP30/12/18 09:09 PM
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You’re in love with her. There is no getting around it no matter what others here tell you.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 11:02 AM
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Thank you so much for this link. So interesting and true! Gunna be helpful in my relationship.
/r/askTRP28/12/18 09:13 PM
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Yer I have used dread and it worked well. In fact I have been thinking recently about how I haven’t been using it and will things flip out again - and they did. But how do I do it with a serious gf with a baby in her? Leaving her simply isn’t an option.
/r/askTRP28/12/18 08:26 PM
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Thank you very much for this advice. I do realise I majorly fucked up too. She told me she would take the kid away from me and now she has to understand that she can’t get away with that
/r/askTRP28/12/18 08:02 PM
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All true. Given my situation I don’t know what to do? She is such a callous idiot
/r/askTRP28/12/18 06:29 PM
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If a guy is really shy then it can make him less resourceful if he can’t communicate properly. I am shy and I am limited in what I can achieve in my career and in the friendships I make. But most guys aren’t as shy as me so maybe you don’t need to worry.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 05:55 PM
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It is blue pill because competition brings out the best in humans and it is what makes us want to improve ourselves - hence why we are here. Socialised healthcare is absolutely anti competition. If you can’t see the importance for competition in human development then perhaps YOU are in the wrong place. It isn’t free when there are taxes to pay towards it. Most of those taxes are paid by the rich which saps the life out of the economy anyway. But of course people having decent healthcare is para…
/r/askTRP08/12/18 11:26 AM
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Tell them to fuck off.
/r/askTRP04/12/18 09:10 PM
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It discredits trp.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 07:24 PM
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People like this should be automatically band when they make comments like this. Maybe I am a pussy but I knew before I posted this that some loser would reply with pretty much exactly this. It discouraged people from posting.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 06:53 PM
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She messaged you but you didn’t bother to respond? What do you expect?
/r/askTRP02/12/18 08:07 PM
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It sounds like you’re being too hard on yourself. Like somebody else has said go see a therapist
/r/askTRP02/12/18 07:33 PM
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How do you mean? What can I do?
/r/askTRP02/12/18 07:09 PM
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Dunno she knows I can cook. Ordering me to make her lunch definitely seems like a test
/r/askTRP02/12/18 05:40 PM
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Life experience
/r/askTRP01/12/18 11:26 AM
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The sooner you start taking these risks the sooner you become the man you want to be.
/r/askTRP24/11/18 07:38 PM
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Thanks. I said I’d get back to her so I think I’ll just leave it and see if she brings it up.
/r/askTRP21/11/18 08:02 PM
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I guess this teaches me that I should study frame control
/r/askTRP21/11/18 07:26 PM
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Lol this didn’t cross my mind. There was me thinking I was getting somewhere
/r/askTRP21/11/18 07:15 PM
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You’re afraid of rejection simple as that. What possible logical reason could you have for expecting to be accused of rape just because you ask her out? Especially because of her age chances are she has too much life experience to do that to you. Plus she comes from a generation which isn’t as sensitive as younger generations. Just ask her out, if you don’t want to then just ask out someone else, but in my experience playing the numbers game works.
/r/askTRP18/11/18 01:01 PM
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What?
/r/askTRP17/11/18 11:35 PM
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She doesn’t respect me anymore yes but she is not about to break up with me. That isn’t me being delusional it just isn’t the way it is. I’m really tired of her moving into the second bedroom and I’m looking for a way to end the problem, that isn’t us breaking up.
/r/askTRP17/11/18 11:27 PM
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Any constructive advice?
/r/askTRP17/11/18 11:07 PM
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A woman can’t feel secure in a relationship until it has broken you down. Stay strong.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/18 10:01 PM
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Being that I’m an insecure gimp that doesn’t want to leave his relationship what can I do to improve the relationship?
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 10:50 AM
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You ended on an excellent point and has got me thinking the following. I imagine if she is correct in her treatment then am I not ultimately responsible and therefore she isn’t to blame for her actions? If I hadn’t let myself go then we wouldn’t be in this mess. Do I not owe it to myself in a once good relationship with a once good woman to work to ultimately reverse the consequence of my own actions? I must also add that we own a house, are engaged and trying for a kid so leaving would be very …
/r/TheRedPill03/02/18 03:54 PM
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21 convention is an excellent source of information for guys looking to improve on themselves. I haven’t seen this speech yet but so much of the material is good. Highly recommended!
/r/TheRedPill28/01/18 12:27 PM
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