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Reason #24675 why open relationships don't work. You have to be completely desensitized to the idea of your partner having better sex with other people. Most people can't handle that and probably shouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 10:39 PM
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Honestly, I would say forget about having "reasonable" standards and just go for the best you can get. However, at the bare minimum you should go for someone you find attractive, who has his shit together, and is a good person that you share values with. These are the fundamentals. Anything beyond that is a bonus. But honestly don't ever trade the fundamentals out for a "bonus." Him being rich doesn't mean shit if he'll cheat on you. Him being the funniest man ever doesn't mean anything if he's …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 10:36 PM
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According to red pill men, the ideal woman: -Has sex with you on the first date, while also having an extremely low body count. -Is intelligent, but not college educated -Is extremely beautiful, but also not obsessed with her looks -Is not a career woman, but also doesn't care about a man's income -Is shy and submissive, but is also assertive enough to always tell you what's on her mind -Is passive and obedient, but also fully capable of dumping an abuser at any given moment Honestly, men don't …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 10:16 PM
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That's true, but it also misses everything that made all former cultures worth enjoying; real life experiences. There's going to be a tragedy of young people in their elderly days wishing they hadn't lived their entire lives online.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 04:54 AM
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Everything on the internet is meaningless. Nothing actually lasts. Any big "outrage" you're reading about right now will forgotten in two weeks and replaced with something else. The same figure heads will always comment on everything in accordance to their temperament and the audience it garners. It's no wonder everyone is so apathetic. Internet outrage evokes the feelings of making change, while accomplishing nothing. It's opium for the masses, distracting everyone from life with the superficia…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 04:48 AM
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Yeah, I think your right. It's probably the fact that we idolize women who leverage their attractive faces whereas we shame women who leverage their sexual attractiveness, and that probably carries over to video games as well. But, I also think fundamentally, the women in media are all fictional, and that men should probably be able to discern fictional women from real ones. And so I'm skeptical of the idea that sexy women in media actually harms the image of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 11:41 PM
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Makes sense. But, why is that treated differently from the usage of physical attractiveness in media? Like, why is it okay to throw a handsome/pretty face on a video game cover but not a sexually attractive physique?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 11:18 PM
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When I was ten, I read fairy tales in secret and would have been ashamed if I had been found doing so. Now that I am fifty I read them openly. When I became a man I put away childish things, including the fear of childishness and the desire to be very grown up. C. S Lewis Don't let bullshit societal norms tell you what you can or can't do as an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 11:05 PM
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Q4W: Could someone here please explain to me why the sexualization of women in fictional media is problematic?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 11:03 PM
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That's literally the point he's trying to make. And the reason why he has to make that point, is because people deny it. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 04:12 AM
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CMV: Women who dress slutty for the club aren't doing it for themselves. Most of them do it for male attention. Also any man who lets his girl go clubbing while in a relationship is just asking to be cheated on. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 04:08 AM
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Bro, expecting consistency from progressive culture warriors is moronic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 04:07 AM
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You know what? I straight up relate. I got a couple of close friends I decided to cut off because I just couldn't deal with the outrageous shit that was starting to come out of their mouths. One of them even has a girlfriend, I dunno know the hell she deals with the genuinely racist/sexist shit that comes out of his mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 08:02 PM
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Yeah for sure, and I don't agree with them there either. But, the point is, there's no contradiction between their desire to not wanting to be judged, and their desire for agency. Most people want the liberty to be able to say and do whatever they want without being judged. But that unfortunately is not a world we'll ever live in.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 07:58 PM
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How outrageous does the shit he say need to be for you to be disgusted? Like, what's the minimum?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 07:55 PM
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When feminists say women shouldn't be judged for sex work/bodycount, they aren't say that because they believe those women had no agency. They're saying that because they think her agency to make those choices shouldn't define her life's worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 07:50 PM
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We were. And now we're all suffering because of it. Guys whose aren't getting laid are gonna go to red pillers for advice. Ironically having a culture that is so vigilant of male sexual misconduct is gonna lead to swing back to misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 08:01 PM
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Man, going on r/GenZ is so fucking depressing. Young men on on that subreddit genuinely think they can't talk to women in real life because they're afraid of being called creepy. There's an entire generation of men who will miss out on dating because they've been petrified of ending up on tiktok as one of those creeps that gets publicly lambasted. It's fucking tragic, not only because everyone deserves a shot at romance, but also because genuinely sociopathic men will shoot their shot, and so th…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 07:52 PM
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Most modern feminists don't explicitly hate men. Sure you could argue that some hate men secretively, but then I'd say even the fact that it has to be done secretly implies that they're not allowed to hate men explicitly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/24 05:51 AM
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The people making the posts and tiktoks are regular girls. They go viral because of other girls agreeing and liking them. They go viral because they are a common opinion. Bro, they go viral among the girls who already agree with that shit. It's not normal men/women who are making femcel content go viral. In other words, it's an echo chamber, and shouldn't be seen as a refection of life. Tate is one person and he also get push back from many people. No one pushes back on what these girs say. You …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 07:32 AM
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Tiktok trends and twitter groups are not real life. Could you imagine a girl unironically saying this shit to you in real life? Nah, because this typa shit only flies in femcel communities full of young, bitchy and stupid women. Using twitter posts as a reflection of modern women would be like using Andrew Tate as a reflection of modern men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 07:17 AM
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No one who spends their time engaging in online gender wars is actually happy. In fact, the gender war today is almost entirely driven by online outrage. Being a western man or woman in today's day and age is actually pretty good. In fact, I'd even say most people's outrage towards the opposite sex mostly comes from stuff they read on the internet rather lived life experiences. The gender war is just the product of our outrage culture that drives us to be fed and resentful at everything while be…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 06:31 AM
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Equating modern feminists to actual Nazis is unhinged. Lmao Do you think feminists are setting up gas chambers too?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 06:22 AM
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Listen to me, you could be Miss Perfect. Perfect body, perfect skin, perfect height, whatever. If all you do is stay at home all day, and you never meet new people, it doesn't matter how much you bring to the table, you'll never give yourself the opportunity to find love. So start by putting yourself out there. Go to the gym, the bar, a hobby, whatever. Talk to men, and be friendly with them. Men are so easy some of them will literally fall in love with you from the attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 06:20 AM
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Bro, getting a guy as a girl is easy if your willing to break societal norms. Men are so easy if you talk to them they will fall in love with you. The only problem is taking the initiative is hard and scary. Lmao But you can do it!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 06:17 AM
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Brother, it's twitter. Who the fuck cares? No one who unironically believes that shit is a normal functioning adult in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 06:14 AM
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Flexing this on an incel sub is absolutely hilarious. LMFAO Congrats of your relationship btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 05:58 AM
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Fuck no. You're gonna take off your shoes eventually and you're partner is gonna realize you're two inches shorter. Better to bite the bullet early and be upfront about your height. The right girl will like you for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 05:57 AM
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Most our dating problems come from the fact that we've created a world where it has become really hard for people to meet each other. If adults are having a hard time making friends, then they'll absolutely struggle with dating. It's the unfortunate consequence of the internet and a lack of real life communities.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 08:31 PM
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The problem is society tells women that they need to be honest, and then shits on women for their honesty. There's nothing wrong with women being attracted to tall men. But the system we've created that incentivizes women to lie fucks over both women and men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 08:28 PM
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"Just shower, groom, and be funny and you're ahead of 90% of all other men, it's such a low bar" kind of stuff. This is dumbshit is almost always said by women who have absolutely no idea how dating works for men, or men on Reddit who have never spoken to a woman. I've never heard a competent man say this in my life. Also the advice itself isn't entirely wrong. Like, yeah if you do all these things some women will find you attractive, but you sure as fuck won't put ahead of 90% of men. It takes …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 08:25 PM
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So fucking true. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 08:16 PM
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I was laughing my ass off reading this. I swear I thought it was satire.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 03:32 AM
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Bro there ain't no fucking way you really put down $400 worth of tren on here as a bare minimum to attract women. Bro forget grass. Go watch a nature documentary or some shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 03:31 AM
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This is awful advice. Yeah it could be that she had a bad day and wants you to try harder. Or it could be that she's actually not into you when literally says she's not into you. I'm not willing to risk a restraining order to find out. Nah, not when a girl whose actually into me would go out of her way to make time for me. Fuck that. She wants to play stupid games, she can win stupid prizes.
/r/seduction25/02/24 07:35 AM
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Okay, so that leaves me with two options. Option 1: Pursue harder at the risk of pretty much harassing her. Option 2: Take her "No" at face value and go approach someone else. Yeah imma go with option 2 chief. Not really looking to come off as a predator.
/r/seduction25/02/24 07:30 AM
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Hey good for you! I'm happy that it all worked out!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 01:17 AM
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It’s only an insult if you think your masculinity is based on having sex. Which most of society believes, hence why it's used as an insult. Also, I would argue that if people are insulting you for something about you, then you are on some level being ostracized.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 01:07 AM
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Another friendly reminder that the paranoid hyper anxious women online don't represent women in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 05:25 AM
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This is a fallacy. Long term committed relationships are high risk high reward. You're experiencing the loss of a high risk, but if you had bet right and were experiencing the high reward you'd be out here saying it was totally worth it. My point is, you shouldn't use the high risk and a reason to give up on taking the chance on a high reward.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 05:17 AM
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I agree. Men in general can't be angry about women prioritizing attractiveness over morals if they would do the same. In fact, it's fucking hypocritical for men to complain about women sleeping with evil hot guys when men literally tell each other "don't stick your dick in crazy."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 05:03 AM
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The nice guy's frustration is valid, but is fundamentally rooted in entitlement. The nice guy believes that he is entitled to a just world. He thinks that because he's a good person, he should be having more success in dating than an actual felon. Whereas, dating (just like life) isn't fair. Being nice has nothing to do with how good you are as a person and has everything to do with how attractive you can come off.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:55 AM
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The term "virgin" is still used as an insult for a reason. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:51 AM
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Every time redditors insist that incels can't get relationships because they hate women, they reinforce the just world fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:48 AM
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Wow, that sounds interesting. How'd that go? Did it ever cumulate into real life?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:27 AM
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we went out to a bar with coworker friends one night and my feelings for him hit me like a ton of bricks, so i hit on him pretty brazenly Based. At that point he didn't pull you, you pulled him. Lmao Congrats on your relationship!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:10 AM
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Wow, that's a wonderful story. I'm so happy for you and your partner! Also, wow I didn't expect this story to bring back internet memories. I haven't heard of "Deviantart" or "Bronies" since 2014 lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:05 AM
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Yeah....can't really argue with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:02 AM
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It's all good. How'd ya meet?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 04:45 AM
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Wait, actually? How did that go? Did yall meet in person yet or is it a long distance?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 04:45 AM
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Q4All: If you have a partner, how did you meet them? I'm curious to see how men and women find each other in 2024.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 04:13 AM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 04:12 AM
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Hey don't worry, that just means you haven't gotten the purplepill brainrot yet. Enjoy your sanity while it lasts!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 04:09 AM
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id advise him that hes not a high value man if hes struggling with dating No, it's possible for "high value" men to struggle with dating. This is because being "high value" on paper isn't always conducive to being good at dating. You still have to know how to talk to women, be funny, relatable, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 04:07 AM
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No one's saying you have to be perfectly calibrated. But can you blame women for wanting a partner that they can have normal conversations with?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 04:04 AM
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Female friends will: >Give you good clothing/style advice >Give you companionship >Show you how women think >Introduce you to more women >Make you look safer >Will let you in on a fuck ton of gossip you didn't know Lots of benefits to female friends.
/r/seduction03/02/24 09:11 PM
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How many people are just naturally good at something? Most people who are good at something, even those talented, improve from trying. The only problem with sexual tension, is that it's literally the riskiest thing guys have to learn to build. Because fucking it up makes you come across as a creep, and usually fucking something up is how you learn. Feels like most guys sorta just need to take the plunge for a little bit before they get good at it. Because would rather risk being a creep once for…
/r/seduction03/02/24 08:39 PM
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Maybe it's because I'm an idealistic, young, dumb 20 something y.o dude. But I think they can do better. If they can date better, they can marry better. It'll be harder, and it'll take longer, but they deserve someone they're attracted to. I think anyone at any age that pull that off if they put in the active work and never stop looking. If I were them, I'd hit up the bar every night. Join every brunch club and every sport. Do everything to meet as many men as possible, and then marry the ones t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 10:11 PM
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What an awful situation for both all parties. The ladies for being with men who they aren't attracted to. The men for being with women who aren't attracted to them. And honestly, no offense but I can't help but feel like your friends are really in the wrong here. Do the dudes even know they're being settled for? Probably not. They've roped some poor dudes into what might be dead bedroom marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 05:12 PM
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Why do men listen to women who complain? Are those women responsible for your dating life? Are those women the ones you wanna date? If you ask a girl out (respectfully), and she's too neurotic to handle a stranger asking her out, that's her problem, not yours. If you didn't do anything wrong, you have nothing to apologize for.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 08:32 AM
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Fuck em. Ruin the friendship. You'll find a lot of other friends. Won't find another chance to date. Better to lose a friendship than spend the rest of your life wondering "what if?"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 08:30 AM
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The equivalent for men is not wanting to be settled for because it’s “beta”, but then also begging the women to lower their standards. LMAO. Holy fuck. I never realized how on the nose this shit is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 08:24 AM
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Men need to start decentering themselves from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 08:10 AM
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I married my husband because he adds value to my life and cares about my happiness the same way I do his. If I wanted to burden myself with a dependant I'd rather get a cat than a husband who can't contribute on the same level I am expected to. Amen. If more men and women could live like this, focusing on each other's happiness and being fair to each other, rather than blaming each other for the state of things, then there could be hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 08:09 AM
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Friends who marry men they normally wouldn’t date and giving up jobs and education they fought for tooth and nail for to have kids But....why would they marry a guy they wouldn't date? That sounds like a disservice to themselves and the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 08:05 AM
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Canadians don't like modern immigration policies because we have a housing crisis. 1/4 our country is immigrants. We don't have a problem with immigration itself. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 08:04 AM
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Yeah I'm sure being a cook, maid, baby nurse, teacher, secretary, grocery shopper and laundromat all the same time was really easy. Couldn't possible imagine why modern women are picking office careers over that. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 07:58 AM
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Devil's Advocate: We live in a world where the male/female population is about 50/50. Therefore, if say 30% of men are giving up, then 100% of women are competing for 70% of men. That means, even if every single single woman pairs up with the perfect guy, there's still gonna be 30% of women left over (since there's only 70% of men to go around). Basically, if men fail, it will hurt women. Unless women are okay with giving up marriage and love all together because men cannot get their shit togeth…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 07:45 AM
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Some men would fuck a tree if they could. And other men are normal. The first two friends of yours are dealing with the former. The pretty girl probably got the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 07:36 AM
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Oh it's obvious. Just look at what society expects from young men (be rich, handsome, funny, etc.). Then look at who offers to teach them how to get to those positions (Andrew Tate, Jordan Peterson, conservatives). Add in the fact that modern feminism doesn't really address the concerns of young men (eg: dating) and that most of the manosphere (JP/Tate/Conservatives) are the only ones taking their struggles seriously. Young men vote Conservative because Conservatives pander to their issues. Same…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 07:31 AM
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When you go out in public, you are by default consenting to being seen or spoken to, because it is a public space. If you want consent for people to talk to you, stay at home. Lmao Also, lastly, no one consents to being hit on. As men, we don't know for sure if our advances are welcomed or hated on until we try. But to insist we give up on love altogether because you can't handle a man talking to you would be insanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 07:24 AM
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No, I agree with you. Most guys who end up on the manosphere were struggling way before they found the red/black pill. I'm not gonna sit here and act like their misogyny was the only thing holding them back. Sometimes it was their looks, or their social skills, or their lack of career, or whatever. I get that dating ain't fair and that women want more than just a good man. All that being said, cultivating rage against women for their standards isn't going to fix your problems. If anything, it ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 07:16 AM
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Lmao at the idea that any of these losers actual leave the house to get casual sex. I don't think most of these dudes even talk to women in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 06:57 AM
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Hey, if everything is consentual and voluntary than who am I judge? At the end of the day, the guy who goes to Asia or whatever is no different than the guy who goes to his local bar. Both are leaving their homes to get what they want instead of complaining on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 06:53 AM
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Fair enough. I don't believe in the "perfect" car and if my car is good enough fo me I'll take it. I don't think I'm getting any worse of a car because it has a history. So long it's the right car for me I'm happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 10:57 PM
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Nah I agree with you and understand why. I just think it's funny how radically different men and women see the world. You look at it, and see "we're being vilified while also being held to impossible standards." Women look at it, and see "we're being oppressed while also being held to impossible standards." How the fuck do you reconcile these two sides when both sides think the other one has it easy?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 10:55 PM
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Nah. That sounds like an an awful deal. But, as per your analogy, what if I actually get to keep the car and what if the car is perfect for me? In that case, why should I care if other people have rented it out for a short period at a cheaper price? Like, if your happy with the car, why do you care about the price? Your gonna pay a price for a car no matter what, so what difference does it make if it was rented out for free? If the car is perfect for me now, I don't give a shit how many people r…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 10:52 PM
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Alright folks, I'm gonna tell you all the real secret on how to get laid. The first step is to click onto a podcast and learn the Truth<sup>TM</sup> about female behaviour. And then, after you've learned about Hypergamy, Chads, SMV and whatever, your gonna send all day on internet forums complaining about female behaviour. Don't ever actually go outside and talk to women in real life. Don't ever ask a woman out in public. No, you need to build up this internal wrath against women by reading abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 10:44 PM
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I don't get it. Was she satisfying your needs? If so, who gives a fuck if she fucked more at 20? So long as she's fucking you enough, why does it matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 10:30 PM
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r/GenZ shared a stat about how young men are getting more conservative and young women are getting more liberal. Wild how radically different men and women see the world. I dunno how we're ever gonna see reconciliation between both groups when both sees the opposing groups views as blasphemy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 10:26 PM
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Early 20s dude here. Why is it wrong for older men to hit on younger women? If all parties consent, and if he doesn't make them uncomfortable, what's the problem? I feel like comments like yours rely more stigma than actual reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 10:24 PM
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Oh thank god your here to tell this guy how his marriage works. I don't know how we would have gone by without your incredible insight on this total stranger. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 10:30 PM
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??? How is any of that relevant to what I just said?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 08:26 PM
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Treats other people like shit. Doesn't respect boundaries. Entitled. Cruel. I don't sleep with women who I think are evil. To me, I would degrade myself by doing something so intimate with someone so awful. Sex is something I'd like to do with someone I at least respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 08:17 PM
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I met my best friend at a bus stop. I've met women while waiting in line. I'm chatted up strangers in the grocery store. Public places have always been social places. It's not abnormal to meet people in real life, outside of bars.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 06:31 PM
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Some of it is definitely cope. But, the ones that are genuine about it will go far.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 06:14 PM
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Man calls an evil woman "something" Random woman get's offended Nice self report. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 06:13 PM
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Yeah, it might actually be demisexual. Not pan. Is a wild choice of words there. Lil Freudian slip Where's the slip? I meant every word. Evil women are less than fleshlights. That of course, doesn't mean that I see all good women as flesh lights, which is what you're obviously trying to imply.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 06:08 PM
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Sir, this is Wendy's
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 09:24 AM
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>I like her as a person >She's hot >We aren't compatible for a relationship >We just wanna hook up
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 09:16 AM
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I've turned down a girl for having a vile personality. For me, I gotta be pansexual or some shit. Because the moment she turns out to be an awful human being, I just can't really see her as something worth fucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 09:12 AM
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Something I really like about modern women, is the fact that they can love themselves regardless of how they look. Like, that kind of intrinsic self love women have, to be able to self identify as a 10, even though they might look imperfect in many different ways, is actually an incredible strength that modern men lack. That level of unconditional self love, is not an L. If anything it's a virtue women have that men don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 09:10 AM
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Why does a defeatest mindset make more sense when your older? You're 33, not 80. You're in the prime age of your life. Most women never make the first, so basing your self worth off of whether or not a woman has hit on you is ridiculous. Until you've asked out every woman, you can't say that no woman finds you attractive. Don't give up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 06:04 PM
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You need to be high quality to have an easy time in dating. But if you're average, you're gonna have to try much harder. But it's still possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:08 PM
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Even if I concede that women have gotten picker, why does that make it impossible for the average man to date? The average woman can't pull the tall handsome billionaire. The average woman is gonna take the best she can get, which is often the average man. And, bear in mind, average women can and often do fall in love with average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:07 PM
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Ignore the superficial women who will turn down the perfect partner because he doesn't have green eyes. Go for the women with reasonable standards. They exist, they're open to dating, and by the way a lot of women with "crazy" standards will drop them the moment she finds someone she's fall in love with. People are a lot more flexible than you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:04 PM
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She's hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 06:39 AM
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I don't think there's anything wrong with moving somewhere else to date; provided the relationship is built off consent and not the desire to escape poverty or some shit. But yeah, if your an average guy who can't land a girl in the US, and you have way better chances in Korea....well then, go to Korea. Nothing wrong with it, you're just going where you're appreciated.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 06:38 AM
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Yep. Even a lotta mainstream celebrities have bragged about using prostitutes. It's weird how celebs can get away with what makes average men look trashy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 06:26 AM
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Shit like this makes me so grateful to be a man. She ain't my type at all. But because yall are going for this girl, I get to chase after the "ugly" women I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 06:23 AM
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You can't approach a woman unless you're attractive If you're not tall, white, and handsome....it's over Women only sleep with Chads, the rest of us are just left overs Fellas, take a moment to try and think about how these beliefs actually affect your dating life. Even if she finds you attractive, you're still gonna lose out on a relationship because you don't conform to what you think she finds attractive. The red pill is teaching men that they have to perfect for dating, or give up trying, wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 06:21 AM
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Trueeeeee LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 06:16 AM
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Misogynists like sex. They hate women. So they use women like tools to have sex. For them, sex is not an act of intimacy with a woman. It's using a woman to get off. Yeah it's disgusting I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:37 AM
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So you admit you use it as an ad hominem that shames male sexuality, yet women are the same ones clamoring that men shouldn't put such a premium on their sexuality. Your expecting logical consistency from a movement. Most movements aren't logically consistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:34 AM
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Defeatest mindset. You don't know if she finds you attractive enough until you ask her out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:26 AM
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I got many comments from women saying I’m predator and manipulative to young women… despite them liking and messaging me first lol Most redditors have never actually sat down and thought about age gap relationships. Most redditors gained their opinion on this by hearing a woman online complain about shitty experience with an older guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:59 PM
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A real feminist wouldn't drop his feminist literature. He'd keep that shit locked up to his chest. Maybe rethink your misogynist biases?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:46 PM
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Stealing this. Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:43 PM
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Complains about men on PPD conflating 2X with all women Conflates Men on PPD with all men Bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:43 PM
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This is true, and something men online always fail to address. Why should women be in relationships with men that they aren't attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:36 PM
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Then cue the words "where have all the good men gone." The got married to better women sis.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:34 PM
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Look, if they weren't putting out in the first month, yeah that'd be a wall. But the first time you meet them? Come on man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 06:24 PM
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Treat short guys like lesser men They get mad Get shocked that they're mad Or alternatively: Assume only short guys get mad Only notice when short guys get mad Selection bias reinforced
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:59 PM
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Wingman your friend. Then, get them to wingman you with her friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:57 PM
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Gran gran, what are you screaming about? Did you forget to take your meds?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:54 PM
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This shit fucking scares me bro. Like, imagine being the guy in this situation. Fucking heartbreaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:01 PM
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What if she never has sex the first time she meets a guy? What if you missed out on the love of your life because she didn't put out for a stranger?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 04:59 PM
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But her pendulum swung to far progressive left third wave feminism with the social upheaval of 2016. Damn, 2016 really was crazy for everyone. For me, it was defined by seeing Conservative go far off the deep end. I didn't know there was as similar phenomena happening to liberals on the other side of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:36 AM
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Yeah, I can't argue with you there.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 05:28 PM
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I wish more women were as kind hearted as you. But, unfortunately, a lot of women expect a finished product in dating rather than something they have to help create. And I don't necessarily blame them for it. Why would you settle for a guy you have to build when Prince Perfect might be next door? It's normal human behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 05:27 PM
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No, I don't think it's 50/50, simply because the passive role woman play in dating does mean it's easier for them to have sex. However, if you have less "assertive men" in dating then your typically also going to have less overall women being courted. So even though there's gonna be more male virgins, there's also gonna be more female virgins than ever as well. So more like 60-40 for male to female virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 05:32 AM
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It's both. Sometimes its planned, in that you found chemistry with someone and chose to pursue anyway. Othertimes it's spontaneous; like your at a club, drunk, horny, and find yourself making out with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 05:09 AM
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Purple pill Youtube and this subreddit Everyone is shallow and attracted to the best they can get. No sex is fair or perfect. I think about it a bit more than I should. I don't want to identify with it at all tbh Didn't really improve my life in any way, except now I know how to argue against redpill/blackpill. Learning about the incel ideology ironically made me more a feminist. Made my life worse. I go into real life still knowing these bullshit prejuidical ideas about women that I've learnt f…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 05:08 AM
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Yeah, I agree with having an experienced gal to teach, that sounds awesome. What's problematic though is that from the male perspective, most guys don't expect women to be willing to teach men. The male narrative online is that most women expect their husbands to be a "finished package." And I think the fact that male virgins are kinda stigmatized proves this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:43 AM
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I'm sorry to hear that. It's quite tragic of the red pill garbage is ruining actual relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:40 AM
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Yeah, here's what I don't understand: The male to female ratio is about 50/50. One woman in society for every man. So, if say a half of all men end up being virgins, would there not be a significant amount of female virgins? Even if all the experienced men are chasing after virgin women, would there still not be a lot of women who've never had sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:39 AM
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I fully fucking agree. Men need to stop putting up with dumb shit like "oh you cheated on me in my dream" or "oh I'm upset for some un related reason and now it's our problem." Like, women (rightfully) started calling out men on the bullshit we do in relationships. I think that needs to go both ways. There's tons of shit guys have to deal with in relationships that also just gets accepted as "normal."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:31 AM
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Women seeking to be Trad wives in this political climate and economy make me nervous. I don't blame em. Being a trad wife is way better than being an employee (assuming you don't have kids).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:27 AM
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You see, I agree with you there, but at that point I blame the dude for not knowing better. Like, come on bro, you really think she makes the guys she wants to fuck do her chores?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:25 AM
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You have no idea how flattered most dudes would be if a girl approached them in the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:18 AM
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Yeah, I don't get this. Some the best looking dudes in your city can be found in your local gym. They're in shape, probably have some level of disipline, and look the best they ever will. If I were a woman, I'd probably head there to find a boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:17 AM
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Men need to stop blaming women for the state of dating because it's just a waste of time. Even if all their criticisms about women are correct; you can't control the opposite sex. No amount of screaming or complaining is going to change what they're attracted to, or how they choose to date. The only solution for men is to change their own behaviours to create the best circumstances for themselves. Because I guarantee talking to women everywhere in real life will do you much better than complaini…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:13 AM
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Jesus Christ that linked article is heart breaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:47 AM
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Go to religious communities if you want virgin women. And expect marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:38 AM
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Dude, no offense but I just can't understand the idea of getting a literal surgery to get women to fall for you. Why would you want such vain women in the first place? Do you not believe there are better women out here?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:35 AM
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They're used to the idea that women are hungry for relationships and somehow a half decent guy who just shows up will have women throwing themselves at him regardless of circumstances. It's wild how many people believe this delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:29 AM
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Feminism in the U.S., has fought for and won many, many policies disadvantaging men. Give me one example of a feminist policy that disadvantaged men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:27 AM
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How would men feel if women stated men up and down while making the “eww” face? I don't think he's referring to your example. Men don't even look at ugly women. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:26 AM
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If incels weren't clinically retarded they could actually recruit women into their ranks by focusing on loneliness rather women's standards. But nah, let's make this shit a gendered issue. I'm sure starting an unnecessary gender war will solve the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:14 PM
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Oh yeah, thank god she has an endless sea of disinterested men who are willing to use her like a flesh light. What an honor! /s This is like telling a guy he shouldn't be upset about the dating market because he could always download Grindr. "Oh but I'm not gay." Yeah, and in the same your not attracted to men on Grindr, women aren't attracted to unattractive men who are looking for a quick fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 08:09 AM
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CMV: Men have it easier in dating. Women have it much harder. A woman born ugly? She's fucked. Flat body? She's fucked. Overweight? She's fucked. Doesn't matter if she gets a high paying career. Doesn't matter if she has a great personality. Doesn't matter if she's wifey material. Men will always judge her based on her looks, and most of looks is determined by her genetics and societal beauty standards. Men on the other hand have so much more liberty. He's ugly? Better wealthmaxx. He's fat? It's…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:52 AM
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Also, guys don't fight in clubs like they used to. Back then there were always fights in any nightclub. Maybe that's the effect of the decrease in testesterone. Ahhh yes. The true indicator male of testosterone: violence
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:41 AM
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If your a woman who doesn't want to attract red pill men, tell men your a proud unapologetic feminist. Red pill men apparently hate those.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:38 AM
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Gen Z discovers the red pill What are yalls thoughts?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:36 AM
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"The bar is on the floor for men". Ofc they're actually saying: "The bar for personality for men I find attractive is on the floor" I completely agree with this. What I don't agree with however, is the implicit assumption that all women are attracted to the exact same heights/faces/bodies in the same measure. Like, yeah, there are certain phenotypes most women are attracted to (taller, fitter, handsome face, etc). However, there's variation in which phenotypes women will prioritize, and there's …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 08:55 PM
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CMY: Women having high standards is a good thing (even from a man's perspective) -It ensures that men in end up in relationships where women are attracted to them -It ensures that future generations will be raised by high value men who can provide -It symbols to the man that he is irreplaceable -It ensures that your sisters and daughters don't end up with dead beats The ideal society is one in which men work hard on themselves to become men worth dating. Not a society where men bitch about women…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 10:41 PM
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Sounds fake as fuck im ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 06:10 PM
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Any famous male comedian.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 06:06 PM
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Yeah I've seen bare women embarass themselves for a guy they found attractive. The only thing is the "attractiveness" of the guy is pretty subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 06:05 PM
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Oh nice, another post about how if women won't fuck men, society will fall apart. It'll happen guys......any minute now......aaaaanyyyyy minute....... /s
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 06:02 PM
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"Man, why are all women hoes?" Proceeds to talk and only sleep with hoes
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:59 PM
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ive seen some super ugly and deadbeat guys participate extensively in hookup culture, just because they had the right social connections That is wild lmao I wanna hear more about this shit. This shit is way more fascinating to me than any of the other red pill shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:54 PM
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Man, I wish we could pin this shit so everyone would get it through their heads. We do not live in a just world. It's not like the better you are as a human being, the better the world treats you. No, somethings in life have absolutely nothing to do with character, and hook up culture is one of them. Some guys look down on women and run through them like they're stepping stones on their path to hedonism. Other dudes love and respect women and then they die alone. There's no fairness in any of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:52 PM
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I completely agree. Most of these dude aren't angry about women hooking up. They're just pissed that they can't also do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:37 PM
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It took about 3 months for my last ex to cut off all guys she was seeing before me meanwhile she attempted suicide over one of my exes hitting me up Dawg I'm sorry that shit is so funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:31 PM
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Would you say this has been the same for your dating life? My dating life has been lacklustre not because I was sober but simply because for the longest time I was too afraid to be direct and ask women out. I've had women explicitly interested in me and I still never made a move. That's on me, not on alcohol. What do you do when people force you to drink/smoke and get annoyed when you don't? At bars you can just say your the designated driver or some shit and no one will pressure you. With frien…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 08:25 PM
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Ask questions to try and find common points of interest. Get the other person to share their thoughts on common points of interest. Be a good listener and build off of what other people say. Share your own thoughts/stories when other people give you a chance to speak. Don't be afraid to throw in a joke. Pay attention to body language and enthusiasm. Don't pry into a certain topic if they look bored or uncomfortable talking about it. Encourage to talk about the things they're excited to talk abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 08:00 PM
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I don't ever drink alcohol, smoke anything, or do any similar substances, how much would this affect me socially? I don't do any of this shit and I've never left like social life has been lacking. If anything, it's the opposite. I've been to bars, clubs, and the like. The interactions there are shallow, because you're not interacting with the people there themselves, you're interacting with the drunk versions of them. Basically, I've found sober relationships way more fun. The people I've met in…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 07:47 PM
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I gotta pair of X3s from 2018. They're still working to this day.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 07:43 PM
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Our culture is so weird when it comes to age gaps. A guy meets a girl. They're both attracted to each other. Have great chemistry. Are enjoying each other's company. Then, boom. She finds out he's 18 and she's 25. Literally nothing about the dude changed. He could have lied and said he was 23 and nothing would change. But because she's now aware of his age, it's a turn off. We need to stop being so weird about adults being attracted to each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 07:43 PM
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That's the joke
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 07:41 PM
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That is life. Your competing with at least 10 other people who apply for a job at McDonalds too. Competition is in all things. Doesn't that life isn't worth competing for.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 07:32 PM
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I wonder how many of this subreddit is bots
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 12:54 AM
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I probably wouldn't take financial advice from here. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 12:53 AM
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I care about looks. I don't blame women for caring about looks. If anything, I encourage women to prioritize looks because I think both women and men benefit when women are in relationships with men they're attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 12:51 AM
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For Women: You can't blame women for being hyper cautious in dating when men have a monopoly on violence that they can unload onto women at any point in time. You can't blame women for having high standards when women are always blamed for "picking wrong," when the relationship fails. You can't blame women for having different standards at 30 than she did at 20 because it's a sign of maturity for someone to know what they want as they age. We shouldn't be limited to our mistakes at 20. You can't…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 12:42 AM
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Oh thank god you're on this subreddit. I didn't know you, the all knower and guardian of women's secrets, were lurking around on reddit. I wasn't really convinced until you called everyone here unattractive. That really proved your point. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 12:03 AM
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The reason why the RP is so obsessed with a woman's age is because our society associate female youth with beauty. Also, your whole post is great reason why women shouldn't give a fuck about what red pill men think. The ethos of (redpill) male dating is advice is actually: "I don't give a fuck about being consistent. Anything that benefits me is fair game."
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 11:56 PM
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Most single women choose to be single (unlike men) Most single women can easily find FWB to satisfy sexual needs (unlike men) Many single women find being single refreshing after dealing with shitty men Single women often have strong friendships that can replace the emotional needs of a relationship Men are pressured to prove their masculinity through attracting and sleeping with as many women as they can. Single women don't have this problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 11:51 PM
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I love your wallpaper!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 06:24 AM
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Fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 06:23 AM
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Being openly negative and bitter. Nothing's a bigger turn off than someone whose a mood killer.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 06:23 AM
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Yeah I'd say so
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:36 AM
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It's the Matthew Effect, but for life. Those who win, win more easily. Those who lose, lose more easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:35 AM
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Red Pillers: Lmao look at all these lame ass men pretending to be feminists to get some pussy Women: Hey, maybe we should watch out for guys who pretending to be feminists to get laid Red Pillers: oH wOw LoOk aT ThEsE WoMeN WoNt EvEn DaTe a MaLe FeMiNiSt
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 06:01 PM
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Yeah, the old saying "birds of a feather flock together" as a rule is usually pretty true. And I wouldn't blame any woman for judging me negatively based off of my friends. I would just try and make the case I that only hang out with my friends to either oppose or observe their behaviours rather than to partake in them. And therefore my friendships are marked by a deliberate effort to be an exception to that rule. Besides, if I really was a fucked up person I don't think I would have recognized …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:52 PM
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2X is a misandrist hate sub bro. It's low hanging fruit. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:47 PM
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Which fat lady turned you down bro?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:44 PM
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Who the fuck cares? Most of the dudes on here also think unless you literally look like Arnold Schwarzenegger, most women won't find you attractive. Therefore, why would I let the opinions of bottom feeders dictate my prerogative? I think she's hot. Of course I'd take her out.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:39 PM
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I'd give her my number. I'd also be hella flattered she came up to me to ask me for my number.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:30 PM
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It's fun watching them explain their ideas and behaviours, even thought I think they're completely in the wrong. I like have a diversity of friends. Some good, some bad. Some wise, some dumb. Some men, some women. Life is more fun when you spend time with people you disagree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:28 PM
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I'll never understand why guy who can't get a girl would enter a room full of other men with the exact same problem for advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:24 PM
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A demisexual is a person who may experience sexual attraction but only after forming a strong emotional connection with someone Here you go. Also, it's normal and quite common for men and women to experience this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:09 PM
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This isn't an unpopular opinion. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:07 PM
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Damn, good job bro. That's fantastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:05 PM
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They're fun to watch.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:02 PM
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Nah, fucked up people are just fun to watch.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:01 PM
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I know. But what I'm saying is that no one should have to deal with fixing the person who had something happen to them. And no one should have to give up a fulfilling sex life because of someone else's trauma's either. Her issues could be entirely unrelated to sex, but I'm not willing to be give up sex to be a part time therapist
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:01 PM
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No. Some of my friends are fucked up and I don't want my girl ever meeting them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 05:21 AM
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I'd rather be alone than be in a relationship with a cheater.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 05:20 AM
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I'm not talking about with holding sex on the first date. I'm talking about barely getting any sex throughout the entire relationship because she's "had her fun." Also sure, a guy being fed up and bitter about not having enough sex in life could be baggage, but in that case the guy should get therapy too before finding a relationship. No woman should have to deal with his baggage either. But, no man or woman is at fault for not wanting to be an relationship with someone who has baggage, or someo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 05:19 AM
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Honestly if you always struggled with women, my theory is being 30 is not magically going to make it better unless you have a glow up or change something. I agree. Men that are really attractive tend to get snatched up early. Men who attractive and outgoing tend to get snatched up early. The amount of attractive men I personally know, who are still single is fucking staggering. But then when you realize most of these guys don't do anything but stay at home all day, then go to the gym, then work,…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 04:49 AM
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I wonder what dating is like for female NEETs?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 04:42 AM
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Life is full of difficult regardless of what you're born into.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 04:37 AM
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Because it's a cope. Men on here so desperately want to believe that when they hit 30, all the newer young hot women will be after them. And the girls their age that rejected them early on will now have to suffer alone. Whereas in actuality, if you were attractive woman at 20, you'll probably remain attractive woman at 40 (assuming your lifestyle stays the same). And on the flip side if you were an unattractive man at 20, you'll probably stay unattractive at 40 (assuming your lifestyle stays the…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 04:35 AM
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Yeah, 35 isn't old. It's literally the prime of your life. Also, even if it was old, why the fuck would let some dickhead loser redditors dictate your self worth? Please get therapy and ignore the incel brainrot on this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 04:27 AM
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Man finally finds a woman who loves him Doesn't care about her past choices Is grateful she loves him now and loves her in return Lives a very happy life Yeah, what a chump. I'm sure a real alpha would just be miserable that his wife wouldn't have dated him at 20 and would be bitter about it for the rest of his life. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 04:19 AM
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Overrated as fuck. Clubs are only worth it if you like dancing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 04:07 AM
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No. The wall isn't real. Don't listen to the fucking losers on this subreddit who are overdosing on the cope that they'll age like fine wine while their female counterparts will age like milk. The truth is most of us will gain weight, wrinkly skin, and will look worse unless we take active care of our health. Especially men, who think they'll end up like George Clooney, but will actually end up bald, overweight, and impotent.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 04:06 AM
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Yep, this is another problem with incel theory. It assumes that any attractive woman can't love less attractive men. Insulting both unattractive men and attractive women in the process.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 04:00 AM
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I'm looking for life partner, not a repair project. I would never get into a relationship with a broken person. I'd rather find a woman who has her shit together and wants to sleep with me, instead wasting time with a woman who wants to withhold sexual intimacy from her "life partner" after wasting it on her abusers.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 03:53 AM
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Women withholding sex as a commodity. And men having to impress her to access it. I hate this view. It makes it sound like sex is something women have to give up reluctantly, and something that men always have to bend backwards to attain. And that isn't always true. Sometimes the girl wants it as much as the guy. Sometimes the guy isn't into the girl. It's not always in this black and white manner you described.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 03:52 PM
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Can you really not see how insulting it is to be in a sexless relationship with a women carrying emotional baggage from her "fun" days? Like, bro, it's not about the sex. It's about being treated worse and having to deal with worse than the men who literally abused you. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 03:42 PM
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My bad. Asocial is now apart of my vocab. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 12:11 AM
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Man I never realized how anti social Reddit was until I realized that almost every subreddit was full of introverts complaining about human interaction. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 11:25 PM
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Damn, good on you for taking what you want. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 06:28 PM
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Q4W: Did you find your partner sexually attractive before getting to him? Or did you discover an a sense of attraction to him once you got to know him?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 06:07 PM
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Good for you for deleting tiktok.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 06:03 PM
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That sounds like waaaay too much effort lmao. I need a good 9 hours of sleep. I'd rather have sex before bed. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 06:01 PM
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No, just because I don't want to raise a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 05:56 PM
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Toxic masculinity is absolutely a real thing. The male expectation to act like a caveman in order to be a "man" is a real thing. That being said, I do think aggression as a whole gets a unfairly lumped in with toxic masculinity. Unfortunately, if a man forsakes aggression, he gets walked over by all the other men. Aggression is something men need (in controlled amounts). Without it, we get taken advantage of.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 05:53 PM
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That guide is soooo corny lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 03:55 AM
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link to the question? I wanna see the replies.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 03:55 AM
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Okay, so both agree that men should listen and respect women. However, where disagree, is that I don't men need to listen and respect women in order to get laid. I think hook culture has created this unique situation where even sociopathic men can get laid provided they're attractive enough. Case in point, players are notorious for being misogynistic and they have no problem getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 03:50 AM
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But it does imply treating one group worse than the other. Yes, but not nearly to the extent you're implying. A woman might prefer another women when it comes to group project, but that doesn't mean she's literally incapable of empathizing with the men in her class. Most people don't like being the bad guy so they come up with excuses for why the "bad" group deserves to be treated poorly at which point their empathy goes out the window. Yeah, people stop empathizing with those who villainize the…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 03:49 AM
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This subreddit is quite literally the worst place to find a husband. Like, every husband application is going to contain autism by default.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 04:58 AM
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Alright bro, I genuinely tried my best but this is clearly way above my pay grade. Good luck in life. I really do wish you well, otherwise I wouldn't have written so much. Just remember, nothing changes in life if nothing changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 04:16 AM
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Preferring your own group doesn't stop you from empathizing with other groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 03:58 AM
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Dude, I dunno. I'm sorry that the women in your life let you down. You just gotta accept that some people are shitty, but that's just their personal failings and not their gender. You gotta just accept life for what it is. Yeah a dog might have treated you better, but you could have also ended up with a shitty pit bull that might have mauled you in your sleep. But would that have meant that all dogs are evil? Look bro, take from experience, there's nothing to be gained from holding onto negative…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 03:57 AM
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I agree. I looked up "situtationship" on tiktok one time and tiktok decided to bombard my fyp with it. Like, great, another irl thing I have to be envious about.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 03:22 AM
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Okay, I agree with the first part of what you said. That because women live in a different world than men, most women will never truly ever understand what its like to be a man. However, it goes the other way around as well. Us men will never truly understand what its like to be a woman. However, that doesn't mean we can't care about each other and want better for each other, even if that person's growth is personally disconnected from our own satisfaction. You need to get off social media and m…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 03:20 AM
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Thanks for the answers. Wishing u well.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 03:15 AM
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Why tf would I lie. Dude, I'm a guy and I feel bad for girls that get harassed. Why the fuck would a woman be incapable of feeling the same for a guy whose dying of isolation? What makes women so different from men, that they are incapable of empathizing with our struggles? We only lose said empathy when we say shit on them not wanting to date us.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:40 AM
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Did you find exploitative that he kind of befriended you for sex? Do you hold any animosity for it? Also, do you think it's okay for men to befriend women for sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:38 AM
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Yeah, i aint reading allat. lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:33 AM
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I think fair amount of women probably do empathize with struggling men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:32 AM
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Yeah, that's a tough one. It will definitely filter out a few good men, but at the same time it's short enough that the right man might wait. I dunno, I personally would just hit on the first date because it'd be pretty underwhelming to find out after 3 months that yall aint sexually compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:31 AM
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Out of curiosity, would you have slept with him if he wasn't your friend? And what's more, did him being your friend make him more attractive to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:29 AM
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I understand it. To him, his hatred if reactionary. He probably thinks if women weren't awful, he wouldn't have to hate them. It's like when white nationalists talk about black crime. They have to create a rationalization for their hatred, in order to justify it's existence as factual. By the way I'm not saying that any of the bigotry above is justifiable. I'm just explaining how it comes into being. I will say you have to be pretty disconnected from real life to think all women have no empathy …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:28 AM
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Yes, absolutely. If she didn't want me when she was looking for someone attractive, then that means just doesn't find me attractive. And I deserve a partner that finds me genuinely attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:17 AM
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It would be very effective at pushing away the guys who just wanna have sex. However, it could also filter out a lot of good men depending on how long your gonna make them wait. Like, most good men wouldn't wait 6+ months for a girl. Especially when she has the luxury to be getting dick on the side.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:12 AM
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Lmaoooo Bro come on. You can't confess his villainy and then give in. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:10 AM
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Yes. The difference is consent. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:08 AM
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Why is it, that men expect women to empathize with their struggles when the men who struggle with women are literally notorious for hating them? Like, I agree that dating for men is hard. But holy fuck, the one group that you need to convince is not the group that you should be villianizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:07 AM
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Yep. It's an insult to themselves as well, because it speaks on their lack of faith in themselves to be able to pull women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:00 AM
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The person I was arguing with was literally saying that. Lmao Go on main stream subreddit and ask for male dating advice. The advice from women is always: "Treat women like people. Empathize and listen to them instead of treating them like objects to have sex with." And by the way, fuckboys exist as a living example to disprove that advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 01:57 AM
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I mean, the term "women don't deserve good men" is said in a lotta different contexts by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 07:28 PM
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Damn. Tell that to the rest of your crowd. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 07:27 PM
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It's a combination of depression, lack of ambition, purposelessness and enabling parents. I was sort of a NEET at the height of the pandemic. It's an awful experience, not struggling to thrive but struggling to survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 07:24 PM
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I think she's absolutely right but she really sucks at making her case. Like, every conversation situated around loneliness and sexlessness is focused on men. There absolutely zero discussions happening on behalf of women who get no male attention, or women who are never approached. The fact that these issues "male issues" and not "societal issues" is proof that we isolate women who share similar problems as men. Like, women who get no male attention get less sympathy than women who get too much…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 07:05 PM
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women they don’t deserve a good man, then question why women “pick bad men” or “are attracted to bad boys”? The guys who say women don't deserve good men are saying that because women pick bad men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 06:54 PM
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>"Feminism is for men and women" >"Waaah, why are most of feminists men!?"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 06:52 PM
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It's not your problem. Everyone's dating problems are their own problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 06:50 PM
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:'(
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 06:48 PM
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I am such a BAD bad terrible terribileee friend bc i was supposed to meet my friend at a restaurant since its her birthday but it was in another county and kinda far away, the quickest way to get there is thru highway but i cant go on the highway yet so i set my gps to have no highway but it was still routing me to places far away Tell me you're in Europe without telling me you're in Europe. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 03:06 AM
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C'est la vie Keep your head up King. At least you got your answer. Now go find someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 03:01 AM
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Tiktok is just as fucking deranged lmao. Like, I grew on the manosphere as a teenager thinking that women were at least better than men because they didn't engage in this same vitriolic sexist bullshit that we do. Nope. I was just ignorant. Being on tiktok and Reddit has taught me that women are just as vile as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 02:59 AM
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Men who hate women typically hide that trait when they're trying fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 02:53 AM
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I relate to this so hard. 4Chan/Youtube fucked me up as a teenager too. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 02:53 AM
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The average guy obviously. He's grateful for what he has now, and is still getting fucked over cause his wife secretly resents him.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 02:48 AM
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Cries in Canadian
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 02:43 AM
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Once again, I am black pilled not by men but by the behaviours of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 02:42 AM
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Let's say I have a female friend. Every time we meet up, she complains about how men always hit on her and how it makes her worse. After learning and empathizing with her experience, am I more likely to ask a woman out?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 02:35 AM
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I have more thoughts now that I am Certified Ascended ChadTM How'd ya pull it off?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 02:29 AM
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You are so based for this. The honesty and self awareness is actually so refreshing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 02:27 AM
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My friend told me a story where in middle school he would get together with this one girl just so she would do certain school projects for him Bruh, are we really looking at stories from middle school in here?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 02:22 AM
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Why would take back a guy whose too prideful to admit that he misses you, even though the circumstances of your break up weren't your fault? Also, sorry for your loss.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 02:21 AM
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4/10
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 02:18 AM
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Men also need to learn to identify with women as people instead of objects of desire too. I agree with this, but I think this is completely disconnected from a man's dating life. Like, no offense but the guys who are killing it on the dating market aren't the guys who care the most about women's issues. No, it's the guys who're attractive, wealthy, or charismatic. A man who puts more effort into improving himself will see more attention from women than a guy who dedicates himself to empathizing …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 02:16 AM
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Thank you! Good luck on your path to love. You sound like a good person, so I'm very sure you'll find someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 01:24 AM
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I didn't downvote you lmao. I don't downvote people unless they're being rude. Yeah I agree hyper individualism contributes to the problem. I also don't fully agree with the high value man stuff either. I was only bringing it up to demonstrate how social media and lonleiness was the core problem. Also, they did have incels back then. But they were very rare. Dating was easier, cause meeting people was easier. Now we exponentially more incels than before simply because of how much harder it's all…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 01:23 AM
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Yeah, I fully agree. But here's the problem, let's say I go for option 1. I work on myself and become a high value man. Women now want date me and I want to date them. Okay, so what now? Where do I go to meet women now? See, this right here is the ultimate problem. Not the quality of men themselves, but the lack of a third place for men and women to meet each other organically. There are no clear rules given to us men as to how, or when to meet women in society. We're sorta just expected to figu…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 12:58 AM
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You're attacking a strawman. They never said kindness wasn't desired in a partner. They said kindness wasn't sexually arrousing. Which is true. You wouldn't fuck an unattractive woman because she was nice, would you? Same deal with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 12:31 AM
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Okay, first of all you need to understand that men don't approach women very much nowadays. And a lot of being approached comes to down to: Location. Location. Location. If you're walking down a busy street in New York City, you're gonna be approached. If you're sitting in a bar full of men, you're gonna be approached. If you're at club and dressed sexy, you're gonna be approached. If you're sitting in the corner of a library with your headphones on, reading a book, you're not going to be approa…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 12:22 AM
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It's so funny how the ideal society for these folks, is one where women are forced to be with men, instead a society where women want to be with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 12:01 AM
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Your taking her comment way too seriously. Also, yeah tiktok feminists are too stupid to be self aware.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 04:46 AM
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No I've been sick for the past two weeks. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 04:43 AM
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There is an epidemic of women on tiktok falling for men in masks. Incels needs to start maskmaxxing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 04:43 AM
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If a 30 year old woman reflects on how immature she was at 19, then I could totally understand how she could be alarmed at an age gap outta compassion. I don't believe all women against age gaps are either virtue signalling or jealous. Seeing older men as predatory is all in the rage nowadays, so I totally get why women would be protective of their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 04:32 AM
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Holy fuck I relate. Some people at university need to be given a class on hygiene. Like, the amount of people who don't shower and wear deodorant is too damn high!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 04:29 AM
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Congratulations!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 04:27 AM
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That men sleeping down thread is wild link?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 04:32 AM
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The PPD to meth pipeline is real. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 04:29 AM
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20 years from now you'll be wondering the same thing about the age you are right now. There's no point in having regrets. You are alive today. Go do what you always wanted to do and live your best life. There's no reason to hold yourself back.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 04:28 AM
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It went to fucking shit a decade ago. I knew the franchise was fucked when I saw them selling chicken tendies and burgers. Those fuckers need to go back to the basics and stick to what they're good at; coffee and donuts. No more, no less!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 04:27 AM
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Q4A: Are any of you people real? Like, how do I know I'm not just talking to a bunch bots right now? AI has gotten so advanced, it's fully possible all of you are just a bunch of bots programmed to argue with each other to see how (human) idiots like me would react and how we'd join in.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 04:25 AM
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Fair point lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 03:11 AM
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Why do you hate yourself? Most people choose to destroy themselves with either drugs or gambling addiction. But for some reason you chose academia which is definitely gonna hurt way more. ((I am also doing a masters))
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 02:55 AM
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Ohhhh no, the cheetos eating moutain dew drinking incel misses the days he could scream racial slurs on MW3 as his mom yelled at him to clean his room. Lemme pull out the world's smallest violin for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 02:53 AM
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White man complains about how "third worlders" have ruined the internet as he jerks off to a white woman getting railed on the internet by a black man
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 02:50 AM
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No. I dunno why guys do it. It literally never works and is honestly kind of a shitty thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 02:47 AM
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Yes, absolutely. Unless you check with them first, it's something that'll destroy a friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 02:45 AM
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Yeah, fuck women for wanting a platonic relationship with the opposite sex without stereotypically assuming that all men are horny dogs. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 02:43 AM
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I see couples in real life all the time. Whereas I rarely see millionaires. Also, this subreddit is a terrible indicator of what dating is like. It's bad, but it's not impossible like this subreddit wants to make it look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 02:40 AM
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Is it unfair that hinge has a height preference but doesn’t have a weight/body type preference? Lmao. You clearly haven't seen how well some of these can catfish with those perfect angles and filters. Also, the whole point of a filter is to save time. Like, sure I could disqualify a hundred obese women manually, but I don't want to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 02:39 AM
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Your standards are literally the bare minimum. You just want a gal that didn't sleep around, isn't annoying or fat, and is conservative. And ironically, everyone in this thread is saying your asking for too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 06:37 PM
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To get a bangmaid
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 06:32 PM
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Oh hi Litllth Hows the trolling going today?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 06:31 PM
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How does single motherhood among bonobos relate to the idea of men happier in relationships? And lots of men don't even want a family when young. It's against our biology and multiple studies show who the fathers aren't. Yeah, but the majority still want life partners and want to start a family eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 04:48 PM
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Right, but those men are the exception, not the norm. On a broader level, married men tend to have a higher quality of life than their single counterparts. When men and women can't find each other, it's a loss for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:51 AM
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Imma be real with yall. I only show up on this subreddit to shitpost in this megathread.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:46 AM
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😂😂😂 This be getting outta hand
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:39 AM
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7 year old me would have worshipped the ground she walked on <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:37 AM
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If you can't be happy being alone, you will never be happy in a relationship Completely disagree with it. I find that statement to be an empty platitude thrown around in today's world without any regard for how much of a role relationships play in a person's life. I mean, a relationship with the opposite sex is the foundational basis of a family. Some men's whole purpose in life is their spouse or their kids. And yet we insist to wave away the most ancient institution of man as if it's some sort…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:34 AM
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In hindsight I realized I was completely wrong about covid. The entire pandemic was a waste of fucking time. For all the shit it gets, Florida was the only one that got the approach right. Isolate the vulnerable, but not the young and healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:25 AM
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man to give you money Find an unattractive dude that looks like a total loser and has no female friends. Befriend him and start vetting him to see if he knows how to say no. Start by asking him for little favours, eventually working your way up to big ones. If he passed the process, and never turned you down, then congratulations, you've found yourself a slave. At this point you're probably the only female attention he's ever gotten and so he's probably madly in love with you and will do just ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:22 AM
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B, easily. No amount of sex can make up for an awful person.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 05:56 AM
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Are you actually doubting that being ugly/socially awkward can make dating impossible? Like, bruh. I dunno what to tell you. The negative experiences of being ugly/socially awkward are seen in both sexes. This is definitely the worst hill you could die on.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 05:53 AM
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Wait, so is it easy for any girl to pull a jacked dude? The majority of the population is over weight or obese. Being fit is a rarity nowadays. I assume jacked men are in short supply.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 07:32 PM
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Too bad on the second one he made a weird af comment about “All the Asians coming over to infest American universities”… and I was like uhhhh (‘cause I’m Asian, and an immigrant). Jesus fucking Christ.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 06:37 PM
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Getting jacked is not easy. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 06:20 PM
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This is so dumb. You don't think there any women out there that are hoping that one day their future husband will approach them? Do you think a grandmother regrets her marriage because she didn't specifically wish for her husband to approach her?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 06:18 PM
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I can't tell you how happy this make me. I saw his video about being ugly years ago, and seeing him finally win is cathartic. Our boy finally made it!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 06:11 PM
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??? This place is the biggest red pill circlejerk on the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 02:14 AM
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A woman goes into a male-dominated social group and all the men try to include her and talk to her and give her attention. This is not what happens at all. Men will either: -Isolate you because you're a woman and "wouldn't get it" -Will try to sleep with you -Will avoid you because they think every woman is potential rape accuser -Will tell you make them a sandwich as "a joke" Case in point, go onto any gaming lobby as a woman. Play MW3 as a woman. Endless sexual harassment or sexual advances.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 02:09 AM
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CMV: The core of all modern dating woes is social media. Not women's standards. Not men's failures. Social media. I mean, just look at sexlessness in the past 50 years. It became an all time high for both men and women after social media became a thing. Twitter has replaced discourse. Discord has replaced community. Instagram has replaced friendship. Back then, if you wanted camaraderie or sex, you went outside and found someone. Nowadays, you can just load up discord or pornhub to find a lesser…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 01:57 AM
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The RP isn't "oh look, rich/attractive men exist and have it easier." No, it's "oh look, being rich/attractive does more for a man's dating life than personality ever will." If we just dropped the pretence of women being these angelic creatures that are beyond acting as shallow as men, then the red pill wouldn't even exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 04:28 PM
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Yeah, you're right. It's not all women, but I don't know if it's even a minority at this point. Like, some of these videos have millions of likes. It's hard to believe only a minority of women that prioritize looks/wealth, when those types of videos alone gain the most traction from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 04:13 PM
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I haven't heard of any man demand free paternity tests. In my opinion, any man who does so hurts his own cause with his entitlement. I do think every single man should get a paternity test done though. No matter what.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 03:50 PM
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Man, I won't lie to yall, I hate seeing how much mainstream social media validates the red pill. Once you learn about the red pill, you can't really unsee how common that shit is. Every dude that's thirst trapped is either tall or handsome. Women on tiktok joking about how they'd turn a blind eye to their husband cheating if he was a billionaire. Or, how they'll just settle for a rich man if their career doesn't work out. Women complaining about how they're all getting played by the same Chad. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 03:47 PM
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The wall doesn't exist, it's a coping mechanism created by men to make themselves feel better for never getting sexual attention. "Yeah, that bitch Brianna might be getting all the attention. But when she's 40, no one will want her, because she'll won't be as hot. Whereas when I'm 40, I'll look like George Clooney and all these ladies will chase after me. Brianna has no idea what she's missing out on!" Whereas, in actuality, most men who were unattractive to women at 20, will be even more unattr…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 03:34 PM
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Actually, yes. You hear straight guys on reddit talk about how flattering it is to be hit on by gay guys all the time. That being said, I would say getting endless validation from the sex your attracted to, is probably worth more than getting validation from the sex your not attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 03:21 PM
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The ability to have sex whenever you want will always be a priviledge, even it's mostly with people you aren't attracted to. The reason why is because you know your still desired.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 06:57 AM
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Anyone that regularly visits this subreddit is a lost cause. We're all here because we love to argue and partake in the oppression olympics.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 06:54 AM
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Belonging to your spouse is not a form of slavery, because the belonging goes both ways. You belong to her, and she belongs to you. Even though she is yours, the whole thing is still equal. There's everything wrong with this viewpoint I think there's far more wrong in being a relationship with a woman and still thinking that you're free. You're not free, you owe her a set of responsibilities, but what you get out of that is more rewarding than the "freedom" of being single.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 09:54 PM
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Dude, you're saying that on Reddit. Like, be so for real. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 09:16 PM
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Do a husband and wife not belong to each other? If I get married, my wife is mine. And I am hers. There's nothing wrong with that viewpoint.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 09:12 PM
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Damn, I guess baby fever actually is a real thing. Mind if I ask why you wanna kid so bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 09:10 PM
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Yeah, that's cause you're a good person. But its only been one date, he doesn't know that. There's a chance the girl he wined and dined the whole night might go home with another man. Which, for a lot of guys, would be soul crushing experience, something way worse than a rejection at the end of the night. Hence why a lotta guys don't do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 09:08 PM
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I'm not saying that women are the reason why men end up with AI girlfriends. I'm saying that a man gets an AI girlfriend as a last resort. Because due to either his own misfortune or personal failings, he himself couldn't become a man worth dating. In other words, we're in agreement. You just misunderstood what I wrote.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 12:49 AM
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r/FemaleDatingStrategy was notorious for saying that men under 6 ft aren't real men. Men who didn't conform to their dating standards were called "scrotes" in disguist. And, by the way, the subreddit had about 200k members at it's most toxic. Bigger than any incel subreddit in reddit history. So no, I don't buy the idea that only men abhor the unattractive opposite. For every man that calls a woman a landwhale, there's a woman that says "Ew" when asked out by an ugly man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:49 PM
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No guy who makes more than 300k a year wants them the same way these women won’t look at someone who makes less. All the guys making 300k are happy to date a cashier making 30k. Meanwhile all the girls making 300k are holding out for the guys making 300k. The lady's pain is self inflicted.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:59 PM
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What you fuckers don't understand is that average guys can be hot guys depending on the woman. Yall have this unrealistic protoype of perfection in your head, where you think unless you reach that standard women won't give the time of day, but that isn't true. A lot of women, will give you hot treatment, even if you are objectively attractive, because they find you attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:51 PM
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Women tend to just ignore and not pursue men they don’t find attractive. Which is why men tend to claim they feel invisible. I agree with everything you said except this. Women are pretty fucking awful about this as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:46 PM
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“this person is worthless in general” in a way women rarely do. Have you never seen how women talk about short men online? Lmaooo
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:44 PM
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Whether the preference deserves to be scrutinized fully depends on the type of preferences. If it's a preference related to physical attraction; you can't really control that and therefore you shouldn't be judged for it. If it's a preference related to the behaviour of the opposite sex; it's fair to criticize this because our standards for behaviour should be rooted in some level of ethnics. On the note of preferences, I think there's nothing wrong with women expressing physical preferences for …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:44 PM
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Let's be real here, no man chooses an AI girlfriend. He gets an AI girlfriend because no woman would choose him.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:19 PM
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Now ok it's easy to access porn yet why do guys still have a strong lust to view it if they know their self-worth is low value ? Even guys in relationships/marriages have a porn addiction. I'm not saying porn usage leads to low self worth. No, it's the inability to have sex leads to low self worth. Porn is just a coping mechanism. When you can't get sex you just settle for porn. But with that usually comes the sense of inadequacy that lots of guys have. Hence why so many virgins on the internet …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 10:16 PM
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it makes no sense to say a man's worth is tied how much sex he can get but in the same breath recognize guys watching porn because they want that variety while getting off on it First of all, I never said men watch porn for it's variety. I said men watch porn cause it's easy. Secondly, you're example only proves my point. Men being judged for their sex lives is precisely why a lotta guys who are reliant on porn have low self esteems.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 09:34 PM
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We all know that a man's worth is often tied to his sex life, and so lots of men try to use sex as a way to gain validation. You can recognize this, and recognize that it also compounds with the biological desire to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 09:21 PM
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His entire point was that you don’t NEED to be a good person at all..it has no impact. And I'm saying, just because you don't need to be a good person, doesn't mean that being a good person has no impact. You can become rich through being evil. That doesn't mean that you can't be rich through being good. I dunno how to dumb this down any further for you. Being a cunt and winning at dating doesn't prove that being a good human being is worthless. The only thing it proves is that being a cunt can …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 09:19 PM
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Men watch porn because an easy sexual outlet. Even if all the women in porn were average to unattractive, men would still watch porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:43 PM
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How? His point was that being a good person is moot, and then proceeds to say how he got laid by being bad. All that proves is that you don't need to be a good person to get laid. That doesn't mean that being a good person is useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:40 PM
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Have fun! Hope the thing works out with the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:38 PM
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A lot of those "pretty girls" are insecure as fuck because they still need social media for validation. I wouldn't envy them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:37 PM
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That narrative is absolutely true. We all know that a man's worth is often tied to his sex life, and so lots of men try to use sex as a way to gain validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:31 PM
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Crazy how a man can achieve everything in this world and still feel the hole left behind from his childhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:29 PM
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What they think are the average girl - E-thots, mean girls, Party girls, bimbos, girls who are extremely conventionally attractive and popular with boys. What are you on about? If this were true, the average woman would have just as hard of time getting mateches on tinder as the average man. But she doesn't, which means most men are attracted to the average women. The reverse is obviously not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:25 PM
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Yeah go for it. There's nothing wrong with complaining about how unfair dating is. I think people who get offended by that shit are cringe as fuck too. Women complain about the unrealistic beauty standards men impose on them all the time. If a guy wants to complain about how hard dating is for him because he's short and ugly, have at it. He's already been dealt a harder hand in life, it's cruel to not even let him complain about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:24 PM
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You can be a neonazi and a child molester and still get ass Yeah, from either desperate women or women who don't know your true beliefs. Most women would probably be turned off by finding out you're child molestor.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:16 PM
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So you got laid without being a good person. That doesn't prove that being a good person is ineffective, it simply proves that shitty people can still get laid. Now, whether you got laid despite being a shitty person or because you were shitty is the real question. And if it's the latter, is it still more effective than being good?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:15 PM
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Then just don’t integrate social media standards into your individual preferences. You're assuming that this cognitively optional and not just something that happens automatically. And even if it is, most people aren't even aware how much their standards are dictated by what they watch.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:54 PM
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If she was only willing date you at the finish line when you had money, then that means she's only dating you for your money. I dunno how you're gonna live with the fact that she wouldn't date you if not for your status and wealth. I feel like the girl who'll only wait for you at the finish line doesn't deserve you at your finest.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:51 PM
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Not me. No amount of attraction is a worth a crazy woman's bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:45 PM
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Reddit needs to start mass banning the femcel subreddits just like the incel ones. Nothing radicalizes more men into hating women than seeing women be openly sexist towards men with no repercussions (and vice versa).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:43 PM
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Maybe so. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 05:30 AM
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when men claim that a large percent of sexually successful men are manipulators/sociopaths, people rush Because the implication of this statement is usually that women are attracted to sociopathic traits, whereas in actuality sociopaths are just the ones willing to lie/manipulate to get laid. however, without that initial claim, a lot of people, particularly women, lament that the dating scene is filled with horrible, abusive, manipulative men, The women who say this don't realize the men they'r…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 05:29 AM
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This sub is a red pilled shithole. It's literally just men regurgitating the same opinions and agreeing with each other, all while talking past the women who beg to differ. People who come here, do so for the sake of seeing what they want to hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 05:18 AM
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Truerateme is fucked and doesn't allow anything about a 6
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 05:00 AM
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Start sleeping around and you'll start to realize how normal that shit is and how it's not a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 04:59 AM
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Just a reflection of how social media has made height importance so much more extreme.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 04:58 AM
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I fully understand where red/black pillers come from. I just don't think complaining about your looks will do anything to improve your situation. You might be ugly, but it's up to you to make the best with what you have to pull someone you're attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 03:27 AM
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It's totally fair for women to be cautious around random men. Men, in general, are more likely to be a threat to you or your safety.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 03:25 AM
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She can have instagram or whatever. So long as she isn't addicted to it and doesn't use it for validation I don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 05:18 AM
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Are you talking about your actual son, or what you think your son would look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 05:17 AM
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having a girlfriend isn’t everything Make sure you say this to him after he fails to get a girlfriend. Not before.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 05:16 AM
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You're right. It's the same thing that happens when your therapist tells you that your life is valuable. "Of course he's gonna say that, he's my therapist." It's unfortunate how we're more inclined to take advice from our peers, who don't have our interests at heart, than our parents, who live for our interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 05:15 AM
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My brother in Christ, they are femcels. Their opinions are as worthless as their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 05:11 AM
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I always just send one back. Usually one that I find on the internet that waaay bigger. Always get a funny reaction outta that. XD
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 05:07 AM
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Completely disagree on the humour part. Humour can take you so far bro. It's not even funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 04:59 AM
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I mean, doesn't it all come down to what you look like? What if your a model by Toronto standards and that's why it's so easy for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 04:48 AM
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And yet, many women who embark on motherhood say it was a worthwhile decision. In fact, some women choose to have more kids. Why? Because for them, the value in being a mother was an experience so valuable it outweighed all the cons you've just brought up. Raising a child that you love, watching it grow and turn into an adult you're proud of, can be an experience far more valuable than all the deficits to your quality of life and looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 02:32 AM
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You're overthinking this. For all you know, she might not have even noticed that you were sitting behind her. You can't control how people perceive you, you can only control yourself. So don't torture yourself over what you can't control. Focus on the things that do matter to you in life, and your worries about how other people perceive you will go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 12:14 AM
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No it's not. If anything it's a plus.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 12:06 AM
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I already deleted it. XD
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 11:43 PM
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Depends on how attractive the guy is. If he's a 10/10, then yeah. If he's a 7.5/10, then nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 06:31 AM
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Guys on here wanna believe so badly that at 30 they're gonna be flooded with women. And at 30 women all those party girls are gonna hit the wall. What most of these poor dudes don't realize is that most men don't age like George Clooney. Lotta of these guys are gonna end up bald, add on 20 pounds, and will look a lot worse. The truth is if you had a hard time talking to women in 20s, because you weren't active and didn't know how to talk to women, you're gonna have a hard time in your 30s as wel…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 06:26 AM
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Conservative girls are a different type of crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 06:13 AM
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Because literally Forrest could have dated someone as awkward and neurodivergent as he was. And his looksmatch instead of a beautiful woman. Forrest at that point was a billionaire. He could have had anyone he wanted....but instead he still chose her.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 06:11 AM
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Oh my God. I didn't realize you were incapable of noticing any similarities in genres. I never claimed that K dramas contained the bad boy archetype. I'm simply saying that even though K dramas don't have the "bad boy archetype," the fact that it's still an attractive man falling for an ordinary girl, means that fundamentally it's still an ordinary woman taming a HVM. In that sense, it's still similar to the bad boy archetype.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 06:08 AM
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Men who care about looks are not nearly as rare you think. Why do you think guys tend to fall in love with their female friends? It's because surprisingly, personality can make a man fall in love hard. A funny average looking girl is way better than a hottie whose a total bitch. Eventually, the allure of an hourglass figure will wear off if spending time with her drains the joy out of your soul. Where as on the contrary, the average looking girl becomes more physically attractive as the more you…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:48 AM
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They talk about it with other girls. If you're a dude whose entire social media sphere if full of blue pill garbage, it's easy to buy into the bullshit of "looks don't really matter."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:30 AM
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Good job on proving u/Realistic_Sound_4995's advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:22 AM
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Full of conspiracy theory dumbfucks
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:15 AM
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Look at what they do, not what they say. Everybody picks looks over personality. No matter how much bullshit people will tell you, most people will pick an attractive partner over a plain good one any day of the week.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:13 AM
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Lmao We both know the reason why you're no longer answering the question is because you don't like where it leads. So, I'll skip the questions and give you the conclusion for free: If the male K pop actors are still significantly more attractive than the average man, then it still reinforces the idea that women are "taming" the guy that every girl wants. It's still the age old tale of an ordinary girl taming the HVM.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 01:56 AM
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Yeah, and what do they typically look like? Do most of them look like average looking men?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 12:35 AM
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Trust me. You made the right choice. Any minor self esteem issues I had became a thousand times worse after getting on tiktok. Tiktok makes you feel like if you're not in the top echelon of society, you are nobody. Even if you logically know that these aren't normal looking people, it's really hard not to internalize some of this when you're seeing it everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 12:03 AM
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Because sexless men tend to develop misogynistic attitudes when they can't get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 11:54 PM
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Have you ever seen the male lead in a K drama? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 11:46 PM
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Yep. I can't imagine being friends with a girl I'm attracted to. That shit would be humiliating. Ask her out, get rejected, and then move on. You don't owe her a friendship anymore than she owes you a relationship. Time wasted on her is time that could be spent on someone who might actually wanna be with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 11:39 PM
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Dude, respectfully ignore what women online say. The women who say: "dont ask us out through the gym/cafe/friend-group" are all looking out for their interests. Not yours. Most of them wouldn't give a flying fuck if you end dying alone by heeding their advice. Most of them don't understand that cutting off all these venues might mean dying alone. Most of them have oftentimes found their partners through these venues. Are you really gonna prioritize the interests of women who don't care about you…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 11:35 PM
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They weren't doing it for you. They were doing it for their friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 11:20 PM
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Same thing happened to me. Helped wingman a friend into a relationship. She wanted to repay me by being a wingman. Holy fuck. She walked up to a girl I was talking to, and said something along the lines of "is he doing okay? He's still kinda new to this....hahaha" It was unbelievably embarrassing, and basically killed any chemistry I had going with those women. Never had her wingman me again.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 11:17 PM
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If you’re old/mature enough you know for fact that nothing will come from heaven to save you and that includes getting the right amount of sex/intimacy with a woman that you need Yeah, sure. It's up to us men entirely to find initimacy all on our own. It'll never happen to us passively. And yeah, it's kind of unfair how the world sorta just gives the role of the pursuer. But, do we not owe our fellow human beings the respect and decency in our attempts at intimacy? Like, we can't fully control h…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 11:08 PM
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Nice bait. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 10:59 PM
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It's so hard not to get blackpilled off of tiktok. All the men/women that get sexual attention are unrealistically attractive. Comment sections are full of women who idolize a man's height, and men who idolize a girls physique. It feels like the only thing that matters nowadays is being attractive. It fucking sucks to live in a world where I, as an average man, can see more attractive people in a day than my ancestors have ever seen in their lifetime.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 10:56 PM
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Misandry from women breeds misogyny in men. The end result is still more women getting killed. You are not making the case for misandry that you think you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 10:44 PM
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No. Only dumbass misogynists genuinely believe that taking different dicks changes any part of the vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 10:44 PM
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Oh nice, someone who actually watched the tiktok. I was wondering what everyone else here was talking about. At no point does the woman in the tiktok talk about how she can't sleep with her husband cause she's 'had better.' The whole point of the video is that the guilt of her past is stopping her from enjoying her marriage now.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 03:08 AM
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I don't care about n count. I'm convinced the men who do are just insecure as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 02:50 AM
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I agree. It's so fucking awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 02:49 AM
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Dude, with all due respect: What the fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 02:44 AM
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I don't blame any man/woman who refuses to date an autistic person because their autism prevents them from acting normal in public. It's not the fault of the autistic person. But at the same time, that doesn't compel anyone to date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 02:42 AM
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I actually watched the Barbie movie. It was actually pretty good. I went into it hearing it'd be a feminist movie, and expected a ton of "men bad" jokes as a result. What I found instead, was a really sympathetic view towards incels and men in general. Like, the main antagonist wasn't hated and spat on as an enforcer of the patriarchy, but was actually sympathized with as a victim of the system he was made in. I dunno if I would have called myself a feminist before, but the barbie movie might ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 02:35 AM
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Least retarded radfem. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:17 AM
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Some people are awful. Lmaooo
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:16 AM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:14 AM
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My brother in Christ, she thought you were cute. Now I know why you're on this sub. ....one of us.....one of us....
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:13 AM
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Right, so would be okay with entering a relationship without ever experiencing sexual pleasure? Even if you knew it was attainable?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 04:50 AM
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Okay. Now, have you ever been celibate for a really long period of time?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 04:35 AM
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Yeah but the sexual strategies themselves are entirely different, hence why they should be categorized differently. Women and FDS and men on the Red Pill would fucking hate each other by the way. They wouldn't see eye to eye at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 04:32 AM
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I'm willing to bet there's a big fucking difference between playing GTA and actually wanting to kill people in a war. Video games (even violent ones) are there to stimulate the feeling of accomplishment more so than sadistic pleasures. Or, to distract a man from the misery that is in his own life. The best I'll give you, is that men often do express anger through some level of aggression. However, whether that aggression is expressed through an angry outburst, or straight up fucking murder is de…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 04:31 AM
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Are you asexual by any chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 04:14 AM
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Q4W: Do y'all ever wonder what your life would be like as a man? Do you think it would be easier or harder?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 04:10 AM
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Dude, he's an outlier. The average physically deformed man/woman has an extremely difficult dating life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 04:09 AM
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Good on that lady for trying to improve and be better. Also, the reason why it's excused for her and not men in general is because she actually trying to be better. Lotta men do this shit and don't even think it's a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 04:06 AM
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They cause genocide, terrorism, drug trafficking, serial murders, tyranny, art school dropouts demanding the fatherland be great. Ahh yes. Last week I got angry at my dog for taking a shit on my front porch. So I went ahead and committed doggo genocide. Because that's obviously how the average man handles his emotions. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 04:03 AM
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FDS isn't red pilled. The red pill is about becoming a high value man to attract women. FDS is more about raising your standards to attract the man you want. Minimal self improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 03:56 AM
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Slow drift toward absurdity: 80% of women are only attracted to 20% of men. Could you please explain why this one is absurd? Most "attractive men" have certain shared characteristic. Tall. Nice hair line. Good jaw structure. Great facial symmetry, etc. Only a small percentage of men have most of those characteristics. So it doesn't seem like a stretch to say that only a small percentage of men are considered attractive. Also, the vast majority of men don't get any meaningful success on dating ap…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 03:49 AM
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My brother in Christ, why would you ever interact with such godawful people?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 02:00 AM
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Damn. A person who can have fwb and keep limited to that. Good on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:29 PM
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You're a good person u/Jambi1913. I'm wishing you well.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 04:12 PM
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I kinda relate to this. Misandrists on tiktok who champion feminism have made me hate feminism. I bet women who spend time on this subreddit and incel echo chambers probably feels the same way about men's rights. Why should I give a fuck about the problems of the opposite sex, when they clearly don't care about mine and blame me for all of theirs? The internet does not give us a fair and charitable interpretation about the opposite and sex and their problems. I kinda wish I never saw the brainro…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 04:06 PM
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I'm gonna be real with you chief. I get where your coming from. But honestly, why should I give a fuck about how I compare to her past lovers? Like, if me and her are having sex, and we're both having the time of our lives, who the fuck cares what happened in the past? If someone else gave her a better orgasm, so what? It's not like it makes my life worse in any sorta way. And besides, that's way better than her getting traumatized or some shit that might have happened in the past. Comparison is…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 03:59 PM
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Correlation does not equal causation. I noticed no one’s showed me any statistics that explicitly stated that the study controlled for socio-economics, the crime rates in certain areas, and general stability of the households. Also, the age of the parents also play a role. For the record, studies that look at children raised in single parent house holds vs. dual parent house holds absolutely control for socioeconomics, family stability, etc. They also often use twin studies to control for the ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 03:51 PM
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Outta curiosity, do you just hook up with random people for casual sex, or do you just have a fwb? And if it's the latter, how do you avoid getting attached?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 03:44 PM
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Zack and Miri Make a Porno // Know Seth Rogan isn't short and fat. He's tall and has got a nice face. So that literally proves my point. The Holiday Starring Jude Law and Jack Black. Jack Black is probably the only example that proves your point. But the fact that the majority of your examples (Seth Rogan/Jude Law) don't even meet the criteria doesn't really help your case. Yes, a certain threshold needs to be met, yet even once that has been acehived, there are still other criteria need to be s…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 03:27 PM
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The answer is simple. Our society holds the belief that men rule the world, and that the world was made for men. Therefore, anything bad I say about men, can't be that bad since I'm actually fighting back against my oppressors. So when women have standards, it's liberating. But when men have standards, it's oppressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 06:57 AM
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Your in this subreddit, so you've found your kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 06:50 AM
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A human with a vagina
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 06:50 AM
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I swear to God some of y'all femcels make up how hard it is for women to get high value men because I knew this girl who was 23 years old, fat ,and ugly and was unemployed and she had 3 tall, attractive BOYFRIENDS (I'm not making it up i swear to god and I only met one of the girlfriends but she was attractive) Do you see how ridiculous this shit sounds when you flip it around? There are always gonna be some men and women that are dating way outta their league, but that doesn't mean that their l…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 06:42 AM
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Bro.....you need to get better friends. Like, if he's gonna fuck up other people's relationships, what makes you think he'd respect yours? There's no such as a shitty person that makes exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 06:14 AM
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Short men might struggle more, but tall women also struggle more. It’s more a reflection of how gender roles have carried into attractiveness. Tall women only struggle because they try to aim for tall men. Almost no man ever turn down a girl for being too tall. Whereas as almost every woman would turn down a guy for being shorter than him
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:47 AM
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Tell me why then is porn directed at females still an exceptionally small market? If truly women got turned on by looks, we should have, tall, muscular, men making a killing doing adult entertainment directed at women. Isn't ever movie or TV show made for women starring an attractive tall white guy? Have you ever seen the lead of a rom com for women be some whose short and fat?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:44 AM
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Goth chicks and emo chicks are absolutely mainstream. That shit hasn't been a niche, controversial look in decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:41 AM
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Looks are quite frankly the second greatest privilege a man can have next to wealth. Far too many women would fuck a total stranger if he was hot enough. Men too btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 08:50 PM
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Go move to Islamic country.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 08:48 PM
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He was dating her back when he was making content cop. She actually helped him come up with all that content. The idea that he was a edgy dude, and then got colonized by a liberal chick when they started dating is a myth.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 08:47 PM
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Myron literally pays sugar babies to have sex with him. They found his profile on a sugar daddy website. Also, why wouldn't you wanna bring a woman to an orgasm? If you do, she'll probably wanna have sex with you again. If not, she'll just go fuck someone else. It's a no brainer.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 08:45 PM
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I got banned from r/dating for saying only super attractive men can make it on Tinder. They hate the red pill so much they'll ban reality when it matches with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 08:42 PM
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I just beat Spiderman: Miles Morales, like, yesterday. It was amazing. Also yeah, he's Miles is gorgeous.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 08:40 PM
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Jesus Christ. What the actual fuck is wrong with some people? I'm sorry you had to go through that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 08:34 PM
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I feel like the idea of men watching violent porn is really overblown by feminists in academia. Most men watch normal without violence. Very few men actually like the idea of a girl bleeding, crying, or getting hurt during sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 08:28 PM
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CNC and BDSM are totally unrelated to rape? The mental gymnastics here are insane. The usage of a safe word, and the man not being an actual rapist, doesn't detract from the fact that the women still sought out to imitate the experience of a lack of consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 08:25 PM
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Nah, I'm a real feminist. You shouldn't date any man that visits this sub either.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 08:11 PM
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I don't think you understand that having sex doesn't fundamentally damage a person or your value as a human being. Why are you pushing an ideology onto me that I never expressed? I have nothing against women who sleep around. I'm not a red piller. Anyway, I feel like we're going in circles. So lemme just say this to clear things up. I am okay with women sleeping around. I am okay with women pursuing sexually attractive men. I am okay with women seeking compatibility in relationships. I fully sup…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 01:33 AM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 10:34 PM
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I was invisible for the longest time. Never kissed until I was 20. Fat, anxious, shy, and I tried putting myself out there. Man, I can't imagine the amount of guys in their 30s reading this, who have never kissed a woman in their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 10:30 PM
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I don't see what the problem is with women enjoying themselves on the same level as men. It's almost like we're all individuals and preserving the sanctity of our vagina doesn't really define who we are as people anymore. There's nothing wrong with women enjoying sex. I''m not against any of that. However, you initially asked why men are so obsessed with finding out what women are sexually attracted to, rather than treating them as intelligent and compatible individuals. Now you're out here sayi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 10:25 PM
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Getting gently rejected by a girl I think is cute or being set up with a girl I think is ugly generally makes me feel worse The irony.....Unattractive men wanting sympathy from attractive women over their dating struggles....only to get offended when she sets them up with an unattractive woman. You can't make this shit up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 08:54 PM
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Like, it blows my kind that you could think of a human being as anything less than an actual sentient individual capable of reason and ambitions beyond just dating an incel or a red piller. Do you think people date like sentient, ambitious, intelligent individuals? Personally, I see women sleeping with men who are hot first, and compatible second. Most guys who aren't in the first category, aren't gonna try to prioritize the second category.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 08:43 PM
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I laughed for about a good five minutes after reading this names.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 08:36 PM
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But mostly you have to present strong physical genetics, (talll, or muscular, or athletic) a masculine personality (whether that be confidence, charisma, ambition, a natural born leader, social butterfly, funny in a witty non dorky way) and this can present itself in many different forms - but the FOUNDATION, the structure is the same. What about women who live chubby guys? What about women who like scrawny guys? What about women like submissive guy? What about women who like shy guys? Like, yea…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 08:35 PM
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But a 22 year old dating a high schooler? That's sketchy. Why did you call it sketchy? Why is not just deemed as straight up morally wrong? It's because you, as an intelligent competent adult, recognize that relationships are nuanced. That there could be a relationship between a 22 year old, and an 18 year old, and it could be okay. They could love each other, and no could be abused. If we recognize that, and are willing to give 18 year olds the status of adulthood, why judge every age gap as an…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 05:16 AM
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I know, It's crazy. At 18 you're old enough to: - Go into debt - Go to war - Vote - Buy a gun -Drive a car - Drink (in most places around the world) But you're too immature for an age gap relationship. Because all men/women are adult children prior to 25, and most people above 25 will probably exploit you. The infantilization of young people is kinda ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:51 AM
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Okay Ben Shapiro
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:47 AM
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She visits this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:47 AM
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I wish I was gay. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 04:54 PM
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Exactly. Thank you for putting it in words. She says she wants a guy whose tall and handsome. And society says she knows her worth. I say I want a girl whose not fat, and apparently now I'm subjecting women to patriarchal beauty standards. Women are allowed to be open about their standards and challenge conventional beauty standards without being shamed. Men aren't allowed to have standards, and will be called incels for complaining about conventional beauty standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 04:51 PM
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The victim blaming in this sub is insane. If a woman dates an asshole it's because she's secretly into him. And if she disagrees, she's just unaware of her true desires and lacks self awareness. All women love bad men, and thats why bad men get into relationships. No, men never hide their abusive behaviours on a first date. Men never become abusive over time. Nope. If a woman is abused, she should have picked better. Because men are always open, honest, and transparent about their intentions and…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 04:36 PM
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Some women date good men, who were actually assholes Some women date good men, who slowly turned into assholes. Some women date men, despite them being assholes And then some women are actually into assholes. OP, just because there are assholes in relationships, doesn't mean the vast majority of women are into assholes. There are lots of reasons why people might find themselves in a relationship with an abuser, but that doesn't mean they love the abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 04:24 PM
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Dude, your mom sounds awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 04:14 PM
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I mean, it's still not bad advice. "Don't be a garbage human and stay away from garbage women" is still advice men need to hear today.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 04:04 PM
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Found the asian kid
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 04:03 PM
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Fit girls are peak
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 04:01 PM
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It's not rocket science. The people we are desperately attracted to, are the ones we want unrelenting love and attention. The people we are repulsed by, are the ones we consider abhorrent when they give us unrelenting love and attention. There are different standards for hot people. versus ugly people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 03:56 PM
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I'm not the one driving it to an extreme. You're the one doing that. I believe that men are expected to pay on first date, even if its something small like brunch at a local diner. The most extreme alternative was brought up by you, as a way to act like this phenomenon doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 03:52 PM
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Proof that looks/charms are the most important thing about being in a relationship. I know guys who are straight up awful. Misogynistic opinions, criminal activities. And yet, these guys had no problem finding women to sleep with. Being attractive and asking women out is by far the most important thing in modern dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 06:31 AM
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* Take her to expensive exotic restaurants * In what world do you live in, where doesn't imply paying for her food? Why else would she be excited to go to an exotic restaurant? To split a very expensive bill? But they aren't reflected in reality, that's the whole point. Right. So what expectation do you think men are held to? Do you think men are held no expectations whatsoever?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 06:28 AM
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Nothing in that litany of expectations said "expect to pay." Expect to pay what? Is this just another "I don't like that it's the norm that men have to pay for the first date so I'm going to make up a bunch of other stuff to make women seem unreasonable?" I don't understand. Are you acknowledging that it's the norm that men have to pay for the first date, while simultaneously denying that it's an expectation placed upon men? Also, what other stuff did I make up? I didn't make up any of these thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 10:53 PM
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Who is saying this? This feels like advice you get from grandma, not your peers. These are literally the typical dating standards thrust upon men. Go on social media and you will masess of women complaining about broke men who don't pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 10:21 PM
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True. Guys are literally snowflakes. They'll say the most horrendous, misogynistic, dehumanizing shit about fat women. Single mothers. Ugly women. etc. But a girl wants to date a tall guy, or a rich guy, and men literally seethe and commit mass shootings. Like, no man or woman is entitled to a loving relationship. No man or woman is entitled to sex. These things are luxury for those who can achieve them, but ultimately society doesn't owe you either of these things because you get horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 10:20 PM
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Deadass read a comment from a woman on one of the dating subs about how only kind men get girlfriends "You can't get a relationship because you aren't a kind person" "Why are so many of my ex boyfriends so abusive?"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 10:16 PM
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Buy her flowers Take her to expensive exotic restaurants This stuff has actually been proven to be effective though. Look up studies on "benevolent sexism." Men who do nice gestures for women have more dating success the ones who don't bother. Now, are there gonna be women who are exploit that for free food? Absolutely. But they are a minority, and taking risks is apart of the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 10:14 PM
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Jesus Christ. Sorry dude. I'm sure they were just trying to spare your feelings or some shit. The advice they should have given you was, "hit the gym and start asking out as many women as you can."
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 03:21 AM
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Only mentally challenged men who are hoping for a mosel of chance are dumb enough to be in the "friendzone." The woman doesn't put you in the friendzone. You put yourself into the friendzone. If she turns you down, move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 03:14 AM
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Alpha Fucks/Beta Bucks I hate this mindset because it creates this fake binary that you can either be her fuckable friend with benefit, or her unattractive reliable $imp. Like, y'all are aware there are dudes out there that are attractive and are down to settle right? Y'all are aware that it's only a minority of men, that are trying around for their entires lives? AF/BB is a philosophy made by losers that's used to rationalize their own shitty attitudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 03:13 AM
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No, everyone does not win. Korean women are being forced to live with the ultimatum of either putting up with abuse, or living without a partner. Korean men are gonna get even more spiteful towards Feminism and women in general, and inequalities women in Korea currently face will continue to persist. It's a lose/lose situation for everyone. Korean men/women need to find some way to loosen tensions and work towards reconciliation. This is where Feminism can come in and fix the problem, but in ord…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 04:19 AM
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No. Men enjoy their position of superiority in Korea. They don't believe that women are as capable of men and they believe korean women are born to serve Korean men. Dismantling mandatory enlistment won't change or stop cultural expectations regarding sex in Korea. Men think that they're better and inherently more valuable than women in Korea. Look, truth is, I don't know enough about Korean culture, or the way Korean men think, to be able to argue against this. So maybe you're right, I don't kn…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 09:09 PM
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Typically speaking, if you're a dude, and you start treating a woman poorly because she rejected you, are a certified cunt. Your situation is a bit different though. You're not treating her poorly for not giving her a ride. You're treating her like you would treat any other stranger who asked for a ride. And yeah, while that's different from the treatment she would have gotten if she was a dating prospect. She's no longer a dating prospect, and so she's not entitled to that treatment. Treating a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 05:29 PM
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The term "gender war" was a hyperbole, not meant to be taken literally. Lmao Also, damn. If that's all common and true, then the situation for women in Korea is pretty fucked. That being said, it's gonna hard to convince any man that the patriarchy is working in his favour at the behest of women, if that same patriarchy is sending men to do mandatory military at 18. Which, is undeniably a systemic discrimination against men. If the mandatory military service wasn't in place, there would be less …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 05:04 PM
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So what? If women only find the top 20% of men attractive (this isn’t true by the way- that data is hugely flawed) then the competition just makes it harder on everyone except those 20%. That’s a choice they get to make So you don't get to complain about how men are holding women to unfair higher standard. At least a fifth of men would hit on the fat chick. A fifth of women wouldn't even give a fat guy a chance. Yes, it's their right to make that choice. But don't come on here, acknowledging thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 04:54 PM
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"Small dick energy" is a term popularized by liberal/progressive women. Oh the irony And then they ask why men end up following Jordan Peterson or Andrew Tate.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 03:49 AM
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and don’t have attractive personalities to boot so obviously women are going to keep them in the friendzone. Who the fuck keeps someone with unattractive personality as their friend? Nah, you're in the friendzone when you got an attractive personality, but not an attractive face to match it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 03:47 AM
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Or does getting to know a woman first inherently lead to the friend zone, when the man does a poor job of trying to transition the dynamic from platonic to romantic? Even if the man does this perfectly, there's still a decent chance he's gonna get rejected because the girl is just not into him. Neither party's fault. Just the way it is. HOWEVER, that still proves OP's point. Why waste 3 weeks trying to development and platonic relationship with a woman, and turn it into a romantic one, when you …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 03:46 AM
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But the difference is, women only find the top 20% of men attractive, whereas men find the top 50% of women attractive. Attraction may not be negotiable for most men and women, but sure is alot more reasonable for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 03:33 AM
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Average men are always dumpster. Average women on the other hand, are luxury desserts. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 03:29 AM
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I agree. But if you have tons of suitors but you don't find any of them attractive, then your dating life isn't that bad. You're just picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 03:26 AM
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Man fuck this subreddit. All this incel shit is polluting my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 03:20 AM
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The strongest evidence to the theory that manosphere is filled with guys who are mentally incapable of deep thinking She thinks it's only the men ;´༎ຶਊ ༎ຶ` ;
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 03:13 AM
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"It's her fault for choosing to sleep with a deadbeat man." But, not the fault of the man for literally walking out on his family? Also, are women supposed to have this "dead-beat detector 5000" somewhere up in their heads? We live in a society where people are abused and abandoned all the time, but only when it comes single mothers, do we finally accept victim blaming as an answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 03:09 AM
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This is kind of a straw man no? Most incels aren't crying because they don't have a harem of women. They're crying because no matter how hard they try, can't even get a single woman to fuck them. I do kinda agree with you though, Any dude who cries about not having a harem can fuck right off.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 03:05 AM
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Honestly, I feel this indirectly apart of the problem. Women who want to be mothers, shouldn't have work their way into a powerful position in a company, in order to pursue the joy of motherhood. Women who act as mothers, are already performing a tremendous amount of economic labour for the state, that is unaccounted for because it's not immediately profitable. My point is, if mothers are doing free labour for the state, would it not make more sense for the state to pay them for their labour, ra…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 03:02 AM
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I wish she would be more straightforward when she wants things of me Dude, literally tell her this. Be tell her to be straightforward with what she wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 02:52 AM
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This is a really good point that highlights the hypocrisy a lot of red pill men on here engage in. However (devil's advocate) the easy workaround against this is for red pill men is to just acknowledge that is fair when men are treated differently. This ultimately benefits men, because it still gives them the opportunity to push their patriarchal expectations onto women, while agreeing to the "unfair" male gender roles that they already put up with anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 02:52 AM
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I know. These people are fucking stupid, and have probably never had to try and find a partner in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 02:32 AM
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Damn. Your superficial dealbreakers automatically disqualify at least 1/3 of all men. Can't judge you for it though. Mine are worse: -Obese -Stupid -Not thicc
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 02:30 AM
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Women who date you because of money, are dating you despite your money. That being said, if $$$ is what it takes to make attractive woman date a normal looking man, then fuck it, no one can blame man for doing what he can to get what he wants. Also, ironically, men wanting $$$ to attract women is also what partially contributes to the gender pay gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 02:27 AM
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If your not willing to give average man a chance then no offense but your dating problems are self inflicted. There are too many average women who think they're above average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 02:23 AM
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This is just objectively untrue. Researchers done twin studies where each twin was put in a different household with a different Socioeconomic background and parenting method. They found that despite being raised in different environments, the twins were relatively similar in terms of extroversion, IQ, and personality. So basically, your genetics play the biggest role in who you are. Not your enviroment.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 02:19 AM
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0 Unless you wanna live in a world where people hate you because other people who look like you have done shitty things, it's better not to adopt prejudice and negative biases against groups of people based on negative experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 02:16 AM
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men will say "oh she does not need to do all that" but that's how women look and feel smooth and clean. ....so women aren't being held to that standard. They're choosing that standard on their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 02:13 AM
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Any tips from the guys and gals here? Don't ever bring up talking points from this subreddit in real life. It's the ultimate tool for abstinence.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 02:09 AM
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Women should never have been given any power. Bring back the patriarchy through physical superiority! Yeah lmao. Men have been leaders for most of mankind, and that's why everything fucking sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 02:08 AM
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Y'all ever look at the gender war happening in Korea? It makes the gender war here look like child's play. Women swearing off any sort of sexual/romantic relationship with men. Men using the word "feminist" as a slur. Shit's actually wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 02:03 AM
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That ain't sex, that's a marathon.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 02:01 AM
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"men are going to be shitty no matter who I date or lower my standards for, so better to be miserable in a relationship with a hot/rich guy than miserable in a relationship with an average guy. And if I can't find that (sufficiently) hot/rich guy then I'm happy staying single." It's so revolting how sexism from women can be so publicly applauded.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 12:32 AM
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If that were the case, why was he ever popular in the first place? It's twitch bro, no one gives a shit if your short. If your funny or entertaining, you will have an audience.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 12:19 AM
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.....and that's why he put up with it. He's dependent on her. Economically. Sexually. Romantically. He probably thought if he put his foot down, he couldn't do much better. Abusive relationships are almost always a product of desperation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 12:16 AM
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Wow. That story is hella fucked. Jesus Christ.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 12:05 AM
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This world is so fucked. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 11:55 PM
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Based and wise pilled. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 11:53 PM
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Every man, regardless of how he looks, thinks he deserves a beautiful woman. He thinks he should be accepted as he is, and that women should value him for his wonderful personality or potential for future earnings. Bruh what? Literally go guy thinks that, otherwise so many men wouldn't be lookmaxxing in the gym or getting more money to find a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 11:52 PM
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I'm sorry but yall are so dumb. She works 8 hours a day? And all I have to do is cook 3 square meals and keep the house clean? Listen, if we aren't having kids, it's a massive win for me. Only having to clean the house once, and cook three meals takes about 5 hours outta my day. Men are stupid if they're passing up this privilege women have given away.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 05:01 AM
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Honestly, it's pretty likely. She probably had a fwb or a hoe phase during that time period while you were working on yourself. I mean, can you blame women for sleeping around though? Being young and single with little to almost no sexual intimacy fucking sucks. If us men had the same privilege, we'd definitely take advantage of it too. It's definitely hard not to be envious though. I guess the best us men can do, is to find one good woman and marry her while we're still young. No more dry spell…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 04:49 AM
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I've had it the other way though, where your ex treated you like shit but you see on social media how much more he's into his new gf. I mean, in all fairness. Your looking at him through social media. In other words, your judging the image he wants you and everyone to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 04:34 AM
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Only watched the first season. it was really good. I'd say give it a watch. If you don't like it by the end of the first season, quit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 04:28 AM
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Lmfao so I was honest with this girl on bumble about how I took a break from dating for five years and she's like "oh so I'm guessing you were just sleeping around the whole time then" Dude, it's actually crazy how some women think men have just as much access to sex as they do. Like, most guys cannot just have a "hoe phase." As an average dude, I cannot go around sleeping with another woman every other night.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 04:27 AM
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Women: I don't care about what he did with his ex, what's important is how I feel in the relationship. This woman is talking about a man she just met. Also Women: He said he didn't want to have kids, but then after he dumped me and left for another women he had kid's within a year 😢 This woman is talking about the man who just broke up with her. Basically, there is no contradiction here, because the context between both situations are totally different.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 04:22 AM
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As a young man, this subreddit has black pilled me so much when it comes to the idea of finding love and forming relationships. All I can think about now is how men and women are so shallow. That if you don't look a certain way, or make a certain income, you're fucked, and you're going to die alone. It sucks that modern dating has now become so vain and materialistic, that now all we can do is calculate ways on how to seduce women for sex or vet men for red flags. Any sort of joyful or alluring …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 04:16 AM
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This is so true. Why the fuck would any man want to be "boyfriend material" when you could just be the side guy who gets more sex for less effort?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 04:33 AM
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It's teen girls though. This kind of rhetoric is being promoted by grown ass women. Like, early 20s or whatever. And their videos are getting 200k likes too. But I kinda agree with the gist of your point. It's tiktok. Who the fuck cares? It's the furthest thing from real life. Unlike this reddit thread amiright? haha
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 04:27 AM
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Tiktok is really making think Gen Z really is the last generation...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 04:24 AM
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Which is so funny because the manosphere will never shut the fuck about how hard it is for men to get laid. These bastards wanna slut shame, and then cry about how women only sleep with chad. Well, guess what. If I'm gonna get slut shamed for sleeping with a lot of men, then I guess I have to pick who I sleep with really carefully. Which means I'm probably gonna pick Chad and stick with him to avoid being slut shamed. If manotards were smart enough to understand the consequences of their actions…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 04:22 AM
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Most of them just want a guy who makes enough money that they can afford a decent lifestyle, especially if they also plan to raise kids. Nah. Most women would crazy over a guy who makes a ridiculous amount of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 04:17 AM
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I love how you selectively picked the weakest criticisms made against women. Really goes to show how much faith you have in your own arguments. The average man is not a rapist. But the average woman does expect her man to be a provider and in some sense a protector. The average man is not abusive. But the average man will be treated as a potential abuser by most women up until they get to know him. But of course, let's just ignore all that. Let's focus on Onlyfans and make up. Whatever straw man…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 04:10 AM
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Yes, incomes are lower, and median housing prices are higher. I never disputed that. All I'm saying is that it's not 7X increase in price like you think it is. It's a 2x increase, and mostly only in the largest cities.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 04:57 PM
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Iirc about 30 to 40 are using data apps now but that still isn't more than the majority nor does it follow that they necessarily will not meet someone organically quitting the app or just finding someone in between. Lmao, 30-40% is fucking massive. What are you talking about? That's a third of all relationships. Lmao Most women won't dismiss you because of that. Just go look at any couple you know and ask yourself was it their height ? He literally provided you a statistic where 90% of women wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 06:42 AM
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Or, when they can use the "Patriarchy" to explain how it screws over men. The only male suffering worth validating is the suffering caused by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 05:33 AM
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The guys who won't wait more than 3 dates are the guys who actually have options and can afford to move on to another girl. No, these are the guys who complain about how modern women are whores. These are the guys that slut shame women while simultaneously trying to sleep with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 03:32 AM
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YES. Thank you. Red Pill men are the most hypocrital subhumans on the planet. "Woe is me. I can't find a virgin to marry." Proceeds to look up how guides on how fuck as many women as possible Honestly, I feel bad for modern women. They're expected to be whores and virgins at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 03:31 AM
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Please, The Red Pill ideology was built around Pick Up Artists. Do you really think your religious uncle approved of them?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 03:28 AM
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It never ceases to amaze me that men need to be reminded that people who like sex… prefer sexy people. It's shocking because women like virtue signal how much they care about personality over looks on the internet. Also, every time sexlessness among men gets brought up on Reddit/Twitter/Tumblr, the answers from bluepillers are always ends up being "those men need to work on their personality/confidence/shower." For some reason, the internet just loves to pretend that attraction to looks is prima…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 03:25 AM
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Yeah, except of these guys who are helping you get laid are a pretty good gateway to right wing politics. Most of these guys are socially conservative themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 03:18 AM
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Yep. The right wing essentially has an entire monopoly on young men because the only people willing to validate young men's problems are red pillers (who are right wing adjacent). This is, in my opinion, a major flaw in the progressive movement. We have all these voices to speak out for minorities, trans people, women, etc. But who speaks out for the average, disenfranchised man? When the progressive movement fails to reach out to this part of the political demographic, those unheard voices end …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 03:15 AM
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Oh it's simple: "The reason why dating is so difficult for men today, is because men are collectively failing. The average man is more likely to drop out of college, is less likely to have a relationship, is more likely to be overweight, is more likely to live with his parents, and is more likely to have never had a girlfriend." "Men, simply, need to step up and do better." This is essentially what most of the feminist spaces on Reddit believe anyway. I wouldn't be surprised if this was the most…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 03:11 AM
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The thing is, if Mr Harvard has his pick of the litter, why wouldn't he just pick the girl whose attractive and well educated?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 03:04 AM
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The reality? In 1980, the median price of houses was $65,000 — the median income at the time was $24,720. $65,000 in 1980s when adjusted for inflation is $237,313 today. So if the modern home costs $430,000 then it's actually a 2x increase, not a 7x increase. And then you have to account for the fact that most of these extreme price increase are happening in places with the most population density, like NYC, LA, Chicago, Miami, etc. Basically, so long as you don't live in a major US city, housin…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 02:59 AM
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