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Overpaid marketing account managers, HR assistants
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 09:05 PM
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No. U
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 09:04 PM
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They should be eliminated. Disgusting animals.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 08:29 PM
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So many women are just absorbing all the calories in the world. Like leave some for the rest of us normal people. Fucking whales.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 08:26 PM
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Morning, 7 eggs, 2 pieces of toast, a bunch of ham. Yogurt lunch. 2x Mcdonalds + cottage cheese first dinner: lean cuisine bullshit second dinner: Trader joes orange chicken. And a bunch of snacks throughout the day like granola, popcorn, chocolate, power bars, glazed donuts, DAILY.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 08:25 PM
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I fucking hate women who eat like 8,000 calories a day as if they were Erling Haaland. Bitch, you sit on your ass 8 hours at work, 1 hour in the car, and another couple hours watching Saltburn. You're not fucking doing anything. Eat to your lifestyle. Eat a fucking carrot.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 08:21 PM
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5,000? LOL She eats like she thinks she's a Premier League winger. But, like, without all the running.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 08:19 PM
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LOL Not a surprise. I bet the PPD women here will champion that these men are the sensitive, intelligent, "evolved" man, and that every man should strive to be like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 08:18 PM
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Like real estate, you can always rent something nicer, for cheaper, than you can buy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 08:05 PM
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Dooku fell to Anakin too easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 08:03 PM
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Yes, yes. All this has been covered by Leil Downdes book "Undercover Sex Signals".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 05:31 PM
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No, it doesn't. RP tries to beat self improvement and trying to get total novices to read cues of interest as well as a veteran.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 05:30 PM
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Didn't know any of this, but not a surprise. The overwhelming sentiment is that a man should be grateful for and fortunate should a woman pay him any sort of romantic/sexual attention. That he may have preferences or filter a woman to what he individually may want means that a woman can be rejected by a man she really wants puts the idea that a man can be judging her for qualities, especially things she cannot control is ... extremely perturbing to women. Q4W: Why does the idea of a man you want…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 03:33 PM
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The mailman.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 03:29 PM
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My take. Blue pill: "Willful, blissful ignorance. Unwilling, or unable, to comprehend the truth and it's consequences. Uninterested in disturbing the status quo" Red pill: "Intensely curious about learning socially disruptive truths, upon discovery wishes to share and have conversations about knock on effects of said truths" Purple pill: "Acknowledges there are disruptive truths but minimizes it's importance and impact, has no interest in spreading the truth and is uninterested in disrupting oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 03:20 PM
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Yes, sorta! The right is way too overdone, but left is too "childlike". I think sexy is ultimately a woman looking "mature" but still has full feminine sex appeal.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 07:34 PM
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To Adam he said, “Because you listened to your wife and ate fruit from the tree about which I commanded you, ‘You must not eat from it,’ “Cursed is the ground because of you; through painful toil you will eat food from it all the days of your life. It will produce thorns and thistles for you, and you will eat the plants of the field. By the sweat of your brow you will eat your food until you return to the ground, since from it you were taken; for dust you are and to dust you will return.” Praise…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 04:49 PM
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Yeah I swear it's this play of "I'm going to compliment you but at the same time planting the seeds that I will not consider you for anything more. Because if I did, I would never allude to your previous lovers out of left field." Like, can you imagine the reverse? A guy telling a babe, "damn your mouth is so good girl, how many cocks have you sucked to get this good?" Women, you have to admit, that shit wouldn't fly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 04:45 PM
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O yeah? PM a photo of her, for research purposes only of course = )
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 04:24 PM
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I was just thinking that. It's hard to put to words, I know it when I see it. Like women can be so cute and beautiful, but they don't trigger that, hot sexy slutty, bad girl horny button. And some women have that sexy look dialed to 100%, but when you take a step back, you realize that's all she's got, she's got no "soft" look. The best way I can describe the slutty face is high cheek bones, pretty plump and attractive shaped lips, large eyes, but they can be both wide or half lidded look, somet…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 04:20 PM
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LOL. Did those tended to be a one time thing or ongoing?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 03:42 PM
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The women that come back to my well do compliment... they just don't reference or mention any precious lovers I've had.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 03:41 PM
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LOL har har. I may be slightly autistic, but even I know that isn't an opening to lecture a woman while I'm doing the deed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 03:36 PM
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Had a one time encounter yesterday, and it was freaking amazing. Size 2 with big tits, sexy slutty face, 5'11". I hit the shot a little bit outside my usual range. It was thrilling. But. I'm noticing this new tell women have to subtly suggest an encounter is only going to be a one time thing. Q4M: Has this happened to you? You are going down on a woman for the first time, and during receiving pleasure she says something like "Omg, you are REALLY good at that, I have to thank all the girls before…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 03:32 PM
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You mean as an unsuccessful guy, what age is the tipping point in which the lack of dating success solidifies into dating/mating/arrested development? Anything past 22 marks some sort of irreversible social/romantic/developmental regression, in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 03:24 PM
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Kink inequity. How charming lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 10:08 AM
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I have sexual and dating experience (which most guys here don’t have either one of). You said the above. You have the sexual and dating experience as a woman. You express yourself as someone under the age of 30. As someone with few first hand experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 10:08 PM
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Nothing of substance? Check my post history. Plenty of resources, books name, tomes read, youtube videos linked to. You're feeble mind and limited and very narrow experiences don't measure up. I'm sorry, they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 09:16 PM
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No, because I am not a super sexual person Then honey, you need to get off these sorts of debates. There's nothing here for you. Go play with other kids like you in the sandbox.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 09:12 PM
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I don’t expect for the men I date to never talk about sex, but if you come out the gate on date 1 talking about sex I know you’re not for me. Why? Because it's too direct for your sensibilities or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 09:06 PM
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Not just this worth diminishing thing that suddenly just breaks people and it's weird to think of it like that. Look, like it or not, it changes you. That's a fact. Most are ok with that. A good portion of men aren't. It's to me the difference between fast food/a Michelin star eating experience.. both are awesome. I disagree. Both are not awesome. The Michelin star one is. I have never eaten Taco Bell, and the one time I ate at White Castle I threw up. And so with sex, most middle to normal girl…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 09:01 PM
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Take a deep breath. Most people aren’t fucking 100 people on their life. I have over 100+. And there isn't much super special about me. It's a lack of trying for most. 1,000 is a more "unrealistic" number, but rest assured that is the lower end of normal to rockstars and high tier athletes and A list stars. Men have this weird thing with sex. No. Women have this weird thing about sex. Can't talk about it openly and transparently, you wish to have your histories deeply hidden. Even to the men wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 08:38 PM
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Concur.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 08:24 PM
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Also how is sex so transformative for women but not so for men? It is transformative, but in a different way. Ultimately I'm willing to bet the answer is "hormones", but I think it's our differing mindset, tolerances, motivation and agenda. A man can love a woman, have sex with 100 women after, and have no change in love for that first woman. Imagine a woman who loves a man. But then she gets penetrated by 100 other men. Her feelings will change magnitudes more than a similarly experienced man. …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 07:43 PM
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Not to mention their infallible, special to them only "intuition".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 07:28 PM
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What resource is ran out? This is the deep question that many men try to answer honestly, and women get offended by. It's something like "you". Your selectiveness and discernment. Every time you fuck a guy, every time, it leaves behind a fingerprint. A few fingerprints on something someone values, no big deal. So many as to mar and transform what you were before you engaged in so much activity, you no longer are the "you" you once were before the experiences. Your internal sense of sex before a …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 07:27 PM
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the group of women involved in hookup culture are drunk No they often aren't. In my experience, they are often horny and looking for a roll in the sack and will invite you to their bedroom if you communicate the right things.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 07:18 PM
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Man here. Dumbass question. I've encountered pussy that can fit a literal bowling ball. Met one in which my pinky finger was too big. And everything in between.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 07:17 PM
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If they start doing it to you, it's 99% they just want to vent and for you to listen. They are not looking to hear that you also feel similarly because x,y, and z. They don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:48 PM
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In my old age, I'm of two minds about it. 90% grind grind grind and make that bag. But 10% you have to go out and see what the normal/dumb/popular/socially loved people are doing and try to be a part of the scene, or at least observe it in person. A guy has to learn to be "fun" like that if it doesn't come naturally. Not doing it in your 20s is like trying to learn a second language for the first time in your 50s. It will always sound beginner, unnatural, childlike.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:20 PM
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I don't believe this place is toxic. I don't think most hold delusional and wishful thinking views of what the situation is, boots on the ground, in the dating and mating game in 1st tier, US cities. I also believe most women don't know (and honestly don't care), the sexuality distribution of men between at all demographics. They seem to take a hard stance of, it's none of your business, mind your business, don't compare. That dismissive and conversation killing attitude really enrages sexually/…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:11 PM
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100% agree. I wasted a lot of time in my 20s. I can give you a rundown today of the women I encountered then. None of them were it for me. Many have fucked up lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:09 PM
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It's not that once you have some bulge in your wallet "getting chicks will be easy". It's that the work that goes from having no/little money to a good amount of money requires a journey of learning new skills, maturing, dealing with other people (many of which have zero interest in helping you achieve your agenda). The hope is that this maturation process changes you, for the better. And once you are "better" and have a good amount of money, you'll use that money to do "fun" things with. You wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:08 PM
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Or matcha green flags depending on your agenda = )
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:01 PM
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LOL. No one wants to be a sucker.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:00 PM
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lol. You jest but for the amount of info per person, it really is a lot. And it's extremely telling.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 08:50 PM
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The West Elm Caleb type. Not too threatening by working a very middle of the road job. Is productive but "living life" too. In my neck of the woods, this guy is account manager, tall and lanky. He likes to think of himself as artistic. In appearance, he looks like what the next step of 2010 hipster children were supposed to look like. Anything ironic is gone, it's mostly earnest living now. Everything is intentional, everything in their lives ought to be "in alignment" now. They have the reasoni…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 07:37 PM
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It's been around for almost 15 years lol. It's new.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 07:28 PM
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har har
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 07:26 PM
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What is with the current obsession of throwing the word "cringe" at anything, in the hopes that the insult miraculously disproves anything because it isn't "socially cool"? Bunch of fucking dipshits.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 07:24 PM
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Jesus you stupid fucking people who can't think rationally are infuriating! Do you hear yourself? See I can do that too. I'll do one better since thinking shit through is too difficult and cringe for you. Here is a youtube video from Dr. Taraban that basically answers this on the tangent.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 07:21 PM
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It means plenty, and they do. You guys haven't figured it out. If you're waiting for the day to have everything confirmed by perfect data collection and massive pool sizes, life is going to pass you by. To be effective in life, you have to realize that a lot of this dating and mating tracks like economics. And that leads to the second point; there are two types of people. Those that can accurately extrapolate from incomplete data sets and ... If you believe the above to be incorrect, I'm fascina…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 06:00 PM
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And my friend's aren't either then?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 05:22 PM
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But it's not garbage in. I didn't make up what women have done, they chose what they chose. The proof is in the pudding, it is self evident.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 05:17 PM
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You’ve simply taken the type of woman you go for and incorrectly extrapolated that onto all women. No I haven't. I've taken demographics and types of women WELL outside what "I go for". These are my personal experiences as well as the experiences of many first hand friends. Let’s not pretend you were running a peer reviewed, controlled experiment here to extrapolate data from. Let's not pretend my observations and the things I have unearthed have no validity.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 05:08 PM
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These TikTok’s y’all watch and then project onto an entire population are trapping you in cycles of toxicity. That are ultimately to your own detriment not ours. I have never downloaded Tic Tacs. Look, what I know spans decades. And I made sure I was as objective as I can be throughout the years, always going back and re examining how things went down, to be better dispassionate about how people's decisions played a part on how things transpired. My approach has been the opposite of immature, in…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 05:07 PM
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Women are stating they aren't a monolith. I'm saying they functionally are.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 04:22 PM
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This is the fallacy. What you describe is a type of women, not the entire population of women. You chase/are shown women of a certain type and obviously you think "they're all like that". Some days I wish it were. But it's not. Outside my own first hand experiences, of all kinds, with women, I have detailed info and my friends, and my guy's friend's personal experiences. Said simply, my sample pool of women is rather large and complex. An outlier, fine maybe not. But a minority in the current me…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 04:21 PM
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No, but I can produce dozens of real world examples, complete with many details like names, places, times, things said/txt/ recorded media, email chains, and so much more. On many women, of diverse ethnic/socioeconomic strata. Taking a step back, it's alarming how many lives I could blow up with just a few attachments and hitting send.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 04:19 PM
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Thoughts? Poor women need to outsource their vetting process, refusing to recognize that every time they let an outside entity (especially the government) meddle in their personal lives, it's another level of inefficient waste.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 04:08 PM
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Women aren’t monoliths, But that's just the rub. You may not be monolith's, but you gals aren't as unique and special as you think you are. Meaning, even with subtle to gross variations of intelligence and temperament, the majority of y'all's behavior is still within a narrow band, and knowing a modicum of superficial details about you, your behavior can be predicted; are you then not functionally a monolith? It's funny this OP post came up as I was thinking about this in the shower. Women see m…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 03:59 PM
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Stim? Like what, start jacking off randomly? Wait til you get home to beat your meat in a cup.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 07:22 PM
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Women so eager to dismantle so many societal contracts. Congratulations, you succeeded. Always remember, you reap what you sow. You can't talk yourself out of those consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 07:10 PM
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Annoying insect! You are as real to me as the worlds smartest termite.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:48 PM
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You're right. It's going to be when they are 40+, single and childless. They will no longer be women. The minds dimmed with the passage of time, meeting the natural consequences of the choices they made in their past. They will change, morph into something hideous and unrecognizable. The charm and beauty they once possessed, will evaporate. It will be like grabbing a fistful of sand, the particles slipping through more the harder she grips. Their internal world obliterated, with the cacophony of…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:34 PM
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Any other guy experienced matching with a high school teacher, over 40+, who dyes her hair a vibrant unnatural color, who lives with a roommate? To hear them wax on philosophically is just... it truly saddens me. They don't know how far they are... breaks my heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 04:54 PM
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I vomit immediately for people who use BMI over the superior bodyfat%.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 04:52 PM
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Agreed. Dark Roast is where it's at.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 04:51 PM
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I had an eventful day yesterday as I hung out with two of my closest lady friends. I am so fucking blessed sometimes that I don't realize it. The want for more always hums in the back of my mind, but in this window of life, I'm closer to being "at peace" with the way the world is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 03:57 PM
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I agree in a different way, any woman who has boobs smaller than DD is just not a real woman to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 03:39 PM
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Honestly, playing these words game are more effective than being honest and genuine.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 03:38 PM
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... ... ... More than ever, we are all our own individual gods. The issue is that the large majority don't know how to wield that power, and to wield it responsibly. Worse, a great many would prefer to be servant than a god.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 03:29 PM
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Yes, what you're describing has been well documented and explained in Rollo Tomassi's seminal work "The Rational Male". You may want to take particular attention to his visual aid depicting men's and women's "schedule of mating".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 03:24 PM
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Look, it's indelicate to lead with that at the start of what is supposedly a first conversation for romantic and/or sexual compatibility. Full stop. It's ham fisted, clumsy. It's ungraceful. If you're unable to see that, I don't know what else to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 03:18 PM
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I wasn't being that pedantic. It's people that aren't astute, playful and imaginative.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 04:07 AM
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everyone follows. No, not everyone follows it. My best lovers and close ones didn't even mention it until they got to know me with other, more thoughtful questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 03:56 AM
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No, it won't. The world will continue to be dominated by people who are emotionally maladjusted outbreeding those that are better emotionally adjusted but aren't Machiavellian enough to not be taken advantage of.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 09:10 PM
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LOL. Are you always this charming? smiley face.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 09:04 PM
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But I want you to wear red gorgeous = )
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 09:03 PM
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It's purple. And Royal Blue.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 08:59 PM
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Totally grape. One did not agree to a sexual encounter with something they did not want.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 08:46 PM
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and women aren't nearly as adept conversationally as they think they are. Say this louder so that the women in the back can hear. They are not more "natural conversationalists" as so many like to imagine.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 08:18 PM
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Yes this is on Bumble. Nothing in my profile relates to my work, I made sure the Bio, my pictures, or any "likes" have nothing to do with work.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 08:17 PM
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If that's true, I usually follow up with "Im a part time chicken fryer".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 08:06 PM
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Ok , you don't like the color question, how about "What are you currently passionate about? ".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 08:03 PM
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How dare they ask that before asking anything more personal about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 08:02 PM
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Imagine being this triggered by a question anyone anywhere tends to ask when they just met you. I know on this surface it seems like an innocuous, but I urge you to think a little deeper. Why this question above things more telling, more vibrant and more interesting?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 07:55 PM
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LOL as if a man has any control on which women choose to match with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 07:54 PM
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These women just can't help it. Literally unable to ask interesting questions, like what my favorite color is, what I think about the Roman Empire, what music I like, it's "what do you do for pay/work/career". What a fucking turn off. Asking me that on literally the first few messages, bitch, you're near a perfect stranger to me. What makes you think I'm going to gab about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 07:35 PM
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Conversations like this lose a lot of meaning when you consider the fact that there is a sizeable group of reasonable, rational, well educated and informed men that will have very different ideas of how they'd like things to look like that well be extremely divergent from your/this take.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 05:22 PM
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I've gotten some one night stands and ongoing fwBs.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 05:15 PM
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Or ass burgers. Or emotionally underdeveloped, thanks in large part to emotionally distant, neglectful and/or immature guardians.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 04:25 PM
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Think about it. She has probably dropped little comments here and there throughout the relationship. Unpack what her internal world is, what her priorities appear to be, what her motivations are, how emotionally mature and developed she is and what kind of dynamic emerged from her because of the way she was raised, educated and indoctrinated. The answer is in front of you, you'll just have to take a minute to uncover it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 04:24 PM
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lol. If only self made correlated with dating success. There are tons of men who are financial successes in their own right that are hopelessly clueless about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 04:22 PM
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Money means a lot of things. But if one really starts to believe money is often a reward for having "achieved" anything, one is in for a world of hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 04:16 PM
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Seems like the algorithm using dead ( low/no activity ) profiles and making them super like randoms. Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 04:15 PM
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You'd be surprised what kind of guys frequent this subreddit, if assets, the number on the bank accounts and people that can be called up for a favor are points to be taken account. I promise you my number is greater than yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 04:14 PM
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Some interesting things I'm noticing on Bumble. After a handful of super matches throughout the years, suddenly 4 in one week. matched with all 4 but none sent an opening message. Smells like bumble fuckery. Any guy have this same experience recently?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 04:01 PM
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It becomes funny when you dump money and wealth onto a woman who was born and raised without it. Their life decisions after having money is truly fascinating.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 03:59 PM
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and luck. A whole heaping load of luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 03:58 PM
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Money is often a reward for having achieved significant status. You need to be really careful with this type of reasoning.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 03:58 PM
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After deep diving into so much RP and RP adjacent material, looking back on all my romantic/sexual relationships and some highlight rejections; so much made sense. My internal emotional and lived experience is rarely pertinent to whether a woman will feel similarly. One is alone in their feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:45 PM
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I agree it will not change them. But it will disabuse everyone from the idea that somehow women's preferences and selection criteria is somehow more virtuous or morally superior to men's.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:18 PM
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wow. And for doing what, exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:14 PM
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You really need to be reported.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 03:48 PM
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It appears it was either an accidental inhaled toxin from an old bar wall that was demolished. Or sudden physical exertion, like rigorously shoveling snow after being non active the whole year.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 03:48 PM
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I hope you take it to move forward positively.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 03:46 PM
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Yes, we are IN FACT animals. Failure to fully appreciate this fact obscures any chance of arriving to the truth of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 03:46 PM
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How do you manage to not see the truth when it's right in front of your eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 03:43 PM
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Do we really need to go through this again? Read up on Nora Vincent's experience of transitioning from FtM, especially by way of the way her attraction and arousal changed after starting to take testosterone. And consider this, the amount of testosterone administered to Nora pales in comparison to what a healthy, biological male has had.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 03:42 PM
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Just learned that a co workers SO died yesterday. I think the women on PPD, and the majority of women outside it, have truly overcomplicated sex. Completely miss the point of so many things that are on the tangent to the conversation surrounding sex. The window of time is so small guys. Don't take what they say seriously. Get yours, before time runs out. We only have such a small window of time, and women's sexual selection process isn't more "noble", "righteous" or morally superior to your own.…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 03:39 PM
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Why do people like you keep repeating the word "cringe". Explain yourself. How do you mean? The English language has a peculiar beauty, there are tons of words, so many to describe and paint a picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 03:34 PM
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As an old geezer I often regret the things not taken rather than the ones that I did but didn't work out. Keep swinging.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:49 PM
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Catch a bipolar girl in her manic phase, after drinking one good scotch, and you remember why life is good and fun! God, they are so GAME.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 04:10 PM
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That's just it, feelings are not equal to valid judgment.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 04:44 PM
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they complain about loss of money, options, time and control over their kids All legitimate and tangible complaints. The loss of love and romance are funny; women can wake up 10 years later and completely change their minds about their alleged "love". A man, in service to this "love", sacrifices his optionality, usually at the peak window of his attractiveness and value to other women, for this flimsy feeling from a single particular woman. You must admit, it sounds like a really bad deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 04:11 PM
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The importance of social skills is I think appropriately rated in the current times. All one has to do is see how many content creators there are, a lot of knowledge isn't new or groundbreaking, it's just presented with personality and individual charm. The creators who have that "it" gain a following. I can't speak to Andrew Tate, never seen or heard any of his content . At first glance tho, I don't see anything special. Like, what has he done.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 03:19 PM
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The older I'm getting, the more I want to get to the point. I've been dicked about enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 10:00 PM
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I would go a step further. Look at women who are famous, financially secure and wealthy, look at the men they chase/select for relationships. That tells you 99% of what you need to know, when a woman is secure and the world is her playground.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:57 PM
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And yet you sure all do behave similarly, to such an extent that it's almost predictable. Funny that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:53 PM
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I'm bitter for stating what often happens?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:37 PM
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And so most are doomed to blindly fall into pitfalls or blissfully float through life successfully without having felt the cold, hard, difficult reality that it is for most.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:27 PM
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It may be. But it isn't reasonable. Humans are, afterall, a social and feel-y species. Also yes you can "unsee" something with enough secular introspection and meditation. God, you people are so fucking delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:25 PM
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It happens more frequently than you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:24 PM
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Wise words.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:16 PM
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No. I had hundreds of rejections pre windows 98.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:16 PM
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Yeah. I agree with you. But it hits different for those that have had dozens, hundreds, thousands of rejections of all sizes, for years and years. You're asking for rejected men to have incredibly thick skins. Super human skin. Everyone has an ego that can only take so many punches.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:12 PM
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Because you get to do "stuff" with pretty girls, then they call up someone else to go fill their hole that night.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:06 PM
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Or their 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:04 PM
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nor do they want guys that want casual sex. That's false. The small windows of times that women usually don't want casual sex, but then suddenly do, they indulge. They fuck to their hearts content, whether its one time or for a decade. Is a sexually/romantically unsuccessful guy, one that has been unsuccessful for a long time, is he supposed to be all smiley and act like it doesn't bother him? Is he supposed to stick his head in the ground? What has been seen can't be unseen, why do women have a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:02 PM
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PPD, and women at large, have over complicated sex and relationships. Every interested man that approaches is fundamentally asking the same two questions. "What is your price/obstacle to fucking" and "What is your price/obstacle to an on going relationship". That's it. That's all it ever is about.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 08:58 PM
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I really wonder what will fill up that power vacuum.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:38 PM
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I know, we have better tools, technology, all the mental illnesses of the past were just underreported, yada yada yada. But at the end of the day, I'm arriving at an uncomfortable truth. The majority of people aren't well adjusted. And it's easy to see that if most are just a single vitamin deficient ( chiefly vitamin b12 ), over years and years, yes it will begin to affect a person's whole being. And that's just one vitamin, forget about the others.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:18 PM
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"any acceptable". Would you believe that many women seem acceptable to most men. There's nothing "desperate" about that, it's most women being good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:15 PM
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That's like toe dipping in a pool. When you're ready to wade in the ocean, go search on youtube Dr. Orion Taraban.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:32 PM
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I have to agree. It all starts with mental stimulation and ends in delivering the goods at the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:30 PM
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You guys are really missing the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 04:45 PM
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Would've felt better if she wasn't on medication prescribed for psychological disorders.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 04:21 PM
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Interesting random story. I had matched with a girl on Bumble during the holidays. Txted almost everyday, learned a bit about her, single mom, two kids, two different fathers, ethnicity from the current hot spot in the world. Muslim. She doesn't want no hookups. There's no way in hell I could ever take her seriously. I matched with someone new yesterday. A member from the tribe. No kids. I start dirty talking to her and in less than 6 hours, I am inside her, and she's fucking amazing. Model-esqu…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 04:16 PM
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women seem to sense desperation a man's desire for something serious with any acceptable woman from average men and are often turned off by it. FTFY
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 03:45 PM
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Luck. Or lack of it. Sometimes momentum can play a role.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 03:36 PM
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You haven't been to Nashville recently, have you? EDIT: Also, look at how the mainstream uses soft language used by the CEO of Hinge to talk about this issue in the NY Post. I chuckle with "it's a lack of 'reciprocation' ". Lol, that's one way of putting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 03:29 PM
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My Take On PPD: No One Is Innocent Blameless FTFY
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 03:26 PM
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Would be too long. People already complain about TLDR.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 09:01 PM
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I just finished the book "The Psychology of Money" and I can't recommend it enough. I am amazed at how much of the book can be directly applied to the dating market, it's not even funny. I will try to post daily excerpts and more detailed thoughts about it, but guys, especially guys who are unsuccessful with women. Drop whatever it is you're doing and read it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 08:56 PM
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I think the answer to this is easy. Bottom line, a woman has to feel, on her own, organically, that she is over the moon with you AND AS SUCH is willing to entertain things she wouldn't otherwise entertain to make the guy happy and/or is excited to do things with the current guy. Failure to be in that state confirms that the relationship is tenuous at best because it is built on something other than "i'm just so crazy about you and I will at least try to do things that please you".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 08:50 PM
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This. A thousand times this. Women make up all these rules, lists, boxes a man needs to check off but it's all bullshit. Women have overcomplicated sex. It simply is... Right place, right time. That's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 04:46 PM
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cishetmale As a fooking wat? Just say man.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 04:30 PM
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It must be miserable waking up being a woman. They do all this shit, and think they have done nothing wrong. What a bizarre, primitive way of observing life around you. Honestly don't know how women can look themselves in the mirror and not melt with guilt. Regret. Shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 09:47 PM
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My guess is 20%
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 07:35 PM
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Lol i know. He's such a plodder, but the women out here make him look as graceful as princess Odette in swan lake.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 07:14 PM
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Log in yourself! They are BIG. Like fuckkkk, it would be supremely embarrassing to be seen out and about with them. How do they live with themselves like that? If they would just put the fucking fork down, you don't have to eat every fucking cheese curd on the table Jen.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 07:07 PM
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Another round of swiping on Bumble. You know what really gets my fucking goat. These women with such abrasive Bios, and you look at their listed 5'5" height, and then you look at the photos and realize she probably outweighs most goal line plunge, NFL running backs. Like yes I'm horny and love women, but it feels terrible messaging a girl who is heavier than D'onta Foreman. And I bet her yards per carry sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 07:03 PM
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Deep dive into the topic of Narcissism. After that, look at women again. Pause and think.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 05:52 PM
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May I suggest this book.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 05:47 PM
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Depends.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 05:46 PM
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I'm not quiet. I read that and laughed out loud at how stupid that guy is. Which is a poor reflection on this woman's sexual selectivity. She really knew how to choose a childish man to fuck. Good job her...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 04:42 PM
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Who cares more about sex? The majority of men and a small subset of women. That's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 04:38 PM
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Because I value novelty and newness. Also, many women's sexual window of being open to exciting and different things quickly closes, so to keep my window of enjoying experimental things open for as long as possible, it requires multiple women. If one is not available because of life, obligations, health, etc, the others might be open and ready to enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 04:31 PM
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I care about whether she has the mental capacity to properly sort her world in order.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:58 PM
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It makes me so damn sad. These woefully poor and underprepared women. While it may seem like they have big hearts, they are just so dumb, so limited in their understanding of the world. I once read about how people with Down's syndrome are so angelic, pure in their innocence and non understanding of evil, meanness, selfishness, and cruelty. Seeing these kinds of women inspires a lot of those feelings in me, who can they possibly partner up with? What would that guy even look like. It's so imbala…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:57 PM
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I was very upset, ultimately with myself. I realized in a more visceral level how much I don't understand women, or more specifically, I don't understand how they select men they're willing to engage in sex with. It took me through a long journey of data, observation, becoming interested in the sex lives of women. The more accessible were women in my close circles, but as you can imagine, the majority of women do not like to divulge their private lives. It took being a keen observer, and piecing…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:54 PM
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The conquistadors of old, the American frontier pioneers have demonstrated this fact hundreds of years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:35 PM
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Any older guys weirded out by the current crop of potential matches on Bumble? I'm starting to see a disproportionate amount of 40-55+ high school educated only "caregivers", nail technicians, baby sitters, part time cashiers. It is SO bizarre.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:33 PM
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The latter. If the lead opposition to having more sex is concern for STIs, and that concern is easily alleviated with proof, and they still insist on avoiding it, sex in of itself is not something they are interested in or motivated by. I can argue they are broken, incomplete, frigid, asexual whatever debatable take. However, what isn't debatable is that these kinds of women are not desirable for men who are interested in all manner of casual sex with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:31 PM
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She is txting random Chad lite guys to come over to her place to pet her cat and stick it in raw.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:22 PM
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It's a bullshit cover for these women to hide behind their sex negative beliefs. I have had sex with over 120+ different partners, I'm willing to bet all kinds of money that my blood is cleaner than the women who insist they pursue a lower sexual body count for these health reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:21 PM
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I've been that guy before. It's more like infuriating.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:19 PM
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This FWB got to use her for sex. This gives a woman a way out of her agency and responsibility. She willingly allowed this fWb to enjoy her body with her enthusiastic consent. Her date only had consent to buy her a meal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:18 PM
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He gets us.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:16 PM
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Holy shit, at that point just follow the Sun Tchu saying...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 04:44 PM
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I disagree. At it's root, the RP is about freedom in it's many forms. Chiefly, avoiding having to pay for other people's unsustainable way of life, through taxation and state power to inflict negative consequences if the common man does not adhere to the ever changing society narrative of things, that happens to change as often as the wind does. As to your part of As I touched on before, I suspect this talk about bodycounts, cock carousels and "the wall" is in part a rejection of a woman's auton…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 03:59 PM
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boom.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 05:32 PM
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Honestly, we’re at a point now where the bar is so low for most men that women being out of shape or sluts doesnt even matter to them anymore Because they are the only ones left that are willing to "play ball". You can't blame men for the pool of women open to anything. That's on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 05:14 PM
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It could be for a million reasons not related to wanting to be with "you". Maybe her longtime fWb she was hoping to commit, finally ends it. Maybe she's tired of being alone and you are a "safe" choice. She likes the idea of the lifestyle you can provide her without her liking you. She's finally ready to check off the monogamous relationship box and you are the first one she sees. There's a million and one reasons why women select the beta bux the way they do. Ask them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 05:06 PM
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Yeah it rambled and went the way of a RPG type game of stats. But I get the gist of it. This "min-maxing" idea isn't new. I liken it very much like the depiction shown in the movie "The Great Gatsby" starred by Leonardo Dicaprio. It only pops up 2 or 3 times in the film but Gatsby writes in a daily journal. The idea that if a man can just be 1% better today than he was yesterday, and be 1% better the next day, over time the changes are exponential. Being 1% better for 30 days straight means you'…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 05:03 PM
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The problem with latching on to the first "hot" woman that likes you is that the guy is horribly underdeveloped, extremely inexperienced with women in general while that hot women has had a wealth of experiences with men in a variety of contexts. The " intersexual social power/social understanding" dynamic is too imbalanced. And most women don't enjoy that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 04:51 PM
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This only becomes a "problem" to the majority of women when a few men, who were previously unsuccessful with women for much of their lives, chance upon a window of time when they get the opportunity to exercise some sexual options. Women will shriek "grow up" or "that's so immature" which men will point to as the height of hypocrisy as those very same women enjoyed that environment when they were younger, and it never happened at all for those men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 04:49 PM
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Loved that one. Before I was able to really articulate when I was young, I was able to catch when a woman had a crush/had sex with a guy without them having officially dated or anything known socially to the group. And it happened in the episode, and I thought it was acted to perfection. It's that laugh. Once you hear it, you can't un-hear it. It's when a woman does that laugh that makes no sense, it's preceded after a guy says something but what he says isn't a joke, it was intended to be funny…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 08:22 PM
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I don't think it is a good answer. In fact it's a worse answer now that we have witnessed the aggregated data of first hand experience from many men. In the old days, if man had the nerve to ask about another man's dating experience, he was limited to a few trusted sources. Oftentimes those sources themselves were limited to men who were most likely similar to himself. "That's the way it is" would look very different in that group compared to a more varied group of men. Once of the greatest thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 08:02 PM
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If not bestowed, taken.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 07:26 PM
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Nah I don't subscribe to that line of thought. We all have the ability to learn new skills and behave in different ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 07:18 PM
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Just read this from a different sub " The reason someone like Machiavelli would be able to write a book on being a prince is Machiavelli's core insight - that politics is not ethics. The business of being good at ruling bears no necessary relation to being a good person, and very often the traits that make a person good make them a bad ruler. Machiavelli says that political success is a matter of practically dealing with threats to power (either by not generating them or eliminating them, or if …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 06:05 PM
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Why all the whining that it’s not forced upon you by daddy government? I think it's more the "openness" of revealing bad actors. It's socially more damaging to the reputation, it's not something you can squirm your way out of, or talk your way into making it look alright and not a big deal. A test like that confirming you were fucking around when you aren't "supposed" to is a nail in the coffin. There's no talk that can undo that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 04:51 PM
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I was thinking more: The entire history of you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 04:47 PM
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This is a dangerous and incorrect line of thinking. I remember in my 20s meeting a Taiwanese girl who came to the states to learn English. I worked at the school, she was gorgeous! She had the body of a brazilian girl, and it made no sense at all as all I ever saw were other taiwanese girls being stick thin. I befriended her and discovered she had REALLY poor self perception/self esteem about her big butt and large tits and curly-ish hair. She shared with me how things were difficult for her as …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 04:45 PM
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This reminds me of that Black Mirror episode where a man finds out his girlfriend/wife? has been cheating on him by going through her memory device. Also in the remake movie "Girl with the Dragon tattoo" with Daniel Craig, his character has an ongoing sexual relationship with his boss?, a married woman whose husband seems aware of the situation. I think the future will be of women more openly being married and having sexual side pieces be more socially open ( instead of the "downlow" as it has a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 04:37 PM
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This reminds me of that episode in "Black Mirror" in which a woman's boyfriend (husband) dies and she receives a robot modeled after him. Superiorly so. It is unsurprisingly that women will select robots that most closely resemble the men they want most, or who made the most lasting impact in their lives. A woman's desire is always limited to what could've been vs what could be.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 04:33 PM
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It definitely leaves these type of men ignorant to how women behave sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 04:01 PM
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It doesn't get "better". You are left with a pool of women who have mental health problems, lots of baggage, were the type of women who never would consider you for anything romantic/sexual in their 20s, are poor or woefully unprepared for even older age, somehow have MORE demands and "standards" at an older age vs when they were younger, Simply put, it's a terrible deal. If you were a wallflower/late bloomer and do manage to make something of yourself; meaning you are top % in multiple hierarch…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:34 PM
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He was up until that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 05:28 PM
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Completely agree. It took a classically educated therapist with on field experience, and plenty of clinical practical experience, to be so well versed in the subject matter and atmosphere to fully shut up the most fervent of deniers and detractors. Women simply cannot deny the truth and knowledge in the way he presents because they would then have to formulate a compelling alternative explanation. And that would be a TALL task.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 05:28 PM
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It's worse than that. Doing something "not right"(according to you) doesn't even exclude him from being rewarded. Women incentivize men. Like monkeys, we see the behaviors and consequences of those behaviors of others. Why can't women understand this.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 05:23 PM
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Next level insight. It's as if he is taking a therapist based approach into all the old "redpill" truths and demonstrating it through more accepted language with a lot less jargon while also highlighting the need for more male therapists addressing uniquely male problems. It is incredible! The arguments and statements are so well presented and above reproach in tone and vocabulary, that I have not seen A SINGLE woman be able to refute any of his content. And he has quite a bit of content to scru…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 05:19 PM
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Clearly basic kindness is not necessary to start a sexual relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 05:07 PM
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That's one path.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:13 PM
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Perhaps the silver lining to women's extreme/contradictory mate selection MO; it's made man think deeply, truly deeply, about the meaning of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:10 PM
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The last woman who claimed to be demisexual sent me a flood of nude/completely wide open sexually photos the next day we txted and we had never physically met. Women just use words and they use them in the way those words are intended.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:01 PM
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Why does a man have to tippy toe with women? Aren't women so fierce and strong? One would think they can handle things being direct and not sugar coated.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:59 PM
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Completely agree with you, but it's remarkable that men have to reach such a high level of legalese to deal with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:56 PM
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I would tweak your statement to "It's better to not be so eagerly forthright with women rather than lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:55 PM
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Idc if that's 2 trads, rich old man & young hot women, Instamodel & simp, or gigachad & harem... Hence, "Enjoy the decline..."
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:41 PM
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YES EXACTLY! It is ridiculous when men hear women complain that they aren't objects... WE ARE ALL OBJECTS. Success ones, romantic ones, trophy ones, hard working ones. It's all salesmanship! That is step 101 in understanding attracting women, it's all a game of salesmanship. Why do women deny this long standing truth so much??
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 07:46 PM
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Yes. The deeper meaning is that if a man wants to be more sexually/romantically successful he HAS to approach that way. He needs to generate some interest, and then let a woman's feelings machine have space do the rest of the work. Ironic, it's women's own fault that it works, because it has to work that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 07:44 PM
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I literally woke up thinking about this topic this morning, and wondering women's endless complaints about men who "lovebomb" them and then start pulling back and fading away from initial levels of high interest. And as if youtube was reading my mind, it answered it in the most compelling way yet by Dr. Taraban.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 07:35 PM
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Did she? LOL good riddance.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 07:25 PM
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Does it matter? Yes, it does matter. Look obviously you have some sex negative views. I won't debate you on that. What i will debate is that having shown a willingness to explore sex casually is proverbially walking through the door of knowledge. There are some actions in this world that, once committed and experienced, cannot be undone. I don't care how many times you become a "born again Christian" or "yeah, but I don't remember/it doesn't count because long time ago/was drunk/etc. It is not f…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:46 PM
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But we generally are the same. No, we generally are not. Our sex drives, motivations, agendas, our wants, what we desire, our drives and schedule of mating and dating couldn't be more different. And all the knock on effects from those things further divide our experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:43 PM
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The easiest way to filter out men who want to use you for sex is to withhold sex until commitment has been established, a serious relationship has been established, engagement or marriage. Did this same women indulge in casual sex in the past?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:24 PM
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That's why god created hot sauce. Always carry a few packets of Chulula.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:21 PM
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No. Our realities are greatly colored by the hormones that flood our biological systems. Men's and women's hormone profiles couldn't be more different.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:20 PM
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No. Short answer: Read "The Rational Male" by Rollo Tomassi.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:19 PM
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He's trying to describe a social atmosphere when everyone takes the stance of "i don't owe you anything". It creates a negative social environment in which everyone is out for themselves. Socially speaking, society can go very down, very fast if everyone adopts that stance. There is no warmth, or conversation, everyone becomes ruthlessly efficient, or do not survive (financially, socially, alliances). It's a social "The walking dead" scneario.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 03:45 PM
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It's either one of two things; We're all humans, so the core requirement ought to be the same across the board or; The cat decides what milk is good, not you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 03:25 PM
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It really should boil down to those 3 things, but the majority of women overcomplicate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 07:24 PM
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the defective fucking the defective. Love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 06:36 PM
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That's wild. As if they get attracted to harshness more than sweetness.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 04:06 PM
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Matched with another interesting women on Bumble. She is slim and attractive as a 40+ year old woman. I go straight to her bio and literally the first lines are, verbatim+ punctuation "I am a VERY strong woman ! If you can not handle that, please move on! I have been through a lot, I don't need a man ... " She happens to work in the local tv station in the city. She is physically attractive, and she has a photo of herself with two kids. Of course I couldn't help myself so I googled her, it took …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 03:27 PM
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Anyone ever get past a Hinge ban?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 09:03 PM
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Forget reproduce. They can live and die without ever having experienced sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 09:01 PM
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No, a woman won't get relationship ready because she got cat called, but she will have confronted unwanted/or perhaps felt charmed with the cat calling. She would then have to think about it after the experience, come to terms of her own sexuality and wants and desires, maybe she beats herself up and thinks about how she could have better responded to it for any future occurrences. A low experience man is operating like a fledgling baby bird. Every new (few) instance is brand new, with a lot of …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 04:14 PM
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That would be very telling!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 04:09 PM
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Had a thought on the commute to work this morning. Women expect the impossible out of regular romantically unsuccessful Joe. A plain Jane will have had thousands of more romantic/sexually charged interations (spanning from small hellos, cat calling, to serious attempts of dating and propositions) whilst her similarly aged peer guy has next to nothing in experience. Either he has been a kind plain ol' guy and has had a handful of experiences til he reaches college and/or he has made initial (and …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 03:42 PM
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Agreed. There will be the typical shaming of men dating younger (although they dated much older when they were young), calling men emotionally unavailable, man babies etc. Now that I am an old man, I can unequivocally say that the shaming, the name calling, the insults, it's all because they are projecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 03:27 PM
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There’s a difference between “we were friends and then I developed feelings” and “I wanted to fuck from the beginning so I became friends to try to worm my way in.” Can women really tell the difference between the two scenarios in real time?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 05:01 PM
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It's more nuanced than that. It's like "women willfully fuck loser guys that they wouldn't normally have a relationship with, then get shocked when loser guys behave like losers AND if a normal guy in the future were to know this, she would be shocked that he would feel a negative way about it AND that it would color his opinion of her". I mean come on girls. You love to pick trash for short term fucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 04:54 PM
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Yeah if that's the case, stop fucking catching feels when I bone you all so good. Know your fucking role!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 03:48 PM
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Yeah but no, there's no way him being a shitty person accounts for a slum lord landlord, nor an underhanded health aide group, or the "justice" system. You can remove yourself out of the equation and those awful elements are still present. That's not on him.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 03:44 PM
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Read the "I just got pregnant from my fWb" post and the post about a woman who loved her man despite him getting fat, not brushing his teeth and not wiping his ass after taking a shit on two equis... And I'm just amazed. On the pregnant one, she doesn't want to get an abortion. It makes me think that the question "Have you ever had an abortion" should become a mandatory question filter on online social dating platforms. My god. I get getting horny and then selecting a guy for fucks only ladies, …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 03:42 PM
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I'll have to stop you right there. I have fucked a few Drs and nurses in Mount Sinai, Columbia Pres. New York Pres, St. Luke's Roosevelt hospitals... I still remember all the little secret spots.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 03:34 PM
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While I am not a doctor, I have been inside enough of them, and nurses and PAs, to attest to the wacky world of medical peoples. The high stress, shit schedules, shit prestige, ego masturbation, it's all there. It may sound sexist, but I don't fucking trust a young female surgeon for shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 03:32 PM
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No. The RP praxeology gives the unsuccessful man a roadmap and clear lens towards understanding all the rejections and his sexual/unromantic ineffectiveness he has endured in life. All the soft/coded language, all the social lies, low energy rejections and ignored behavior. It all comes into focus. Clueless, naïve and ignorant men do go through an anger phase ( and make no mistake, this phase is mostly legitimate ). But it dissipates with the passage of time and more understanding in how women a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 09:07 PM
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Exactly! I have seen this be the case with ex volleyball girls. The lbs on the scale are the same, but the activity level isn't, and they continue to eat like they are competing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 04:35 PM
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It didn't say she was ugly. She even admitted that she has a tummy and thicker thighs ( and let's be honest, girls soft pitch language, a little tummy probably means she has two large foopas)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 04:34 PM
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I believe her post was genuine.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 03:35 PM
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I disagree, the great majority of men are incredibly myopic and don't try to put their best foot forward while using time tested techniques and strategies to become more effective.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 03:28 PM
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Jean-Luc got real uppity when he was a shown an alternate life in which he was a low level, subservient man leading a life with no passion nor imagination! Interesting how one's views change abruptly with the changing of life position.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 03:26 PM
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Men should always work to better themselves, because life is hard and they are going to have to meet it head on, with or without a woman. But I have also become deeply pessimistic about the prospects for most sexless men. I honestly believe that for most of them, there is probably no actionable solution. Reading this reminds me that maybe I should soften my stance on these guys who spend 40,ooo USD on insta girls just because they like them. There's no way in hell these types of guys who throw m…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 03:25 PM
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I am amazed at women's allergy to self improvement. On 2X, a woman posts about her bf of 2 years making a comment about her weight, in case she didn't notice, and to make an effort to lose some. Instead of her takeaway of making taking a moment of self reflection and think "Yeah, I could stand to lose a few lbs, maybe I should go -300 under normal maintenance level and start weight lifting and hitting the treadmill", she instead goes to "I think I should leave him". Like ... wtf. If a SO can't t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 03:20 PM
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It's magical "The Secret" wishful type of fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 09:36 PM
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Has anyone figured out what the end game scam is of matching with women on bumble, they eager to get to talking on whatsapp, sending suggestive photos, but then disappearing out of thin air? It's now happened 3 times within a month. I don't get the angle.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 06:52 PM
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That face is straight up scary. Real " I was once Beyonce now I'm trying to look like Kim Kardashian" vibe.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 06:33 PM
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Exactly. This subreddit is the complaining part of it. Also the complaint after putting in all the work and realizing it didn't move the needle much.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 06:30 PM
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The dating arena is just one big episodes of Black Mirror. I'm tired of it. I'm weary.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 03:55 PM
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It gets even more depressing in your 40s. So many nail technicians/estheticians, part time cashiers, low libido women. Or super high libido Reiki practitioners. Occasionally you'll see a great gal, but they happen to live in 2nd and 3rd tier cities that are at least 75+ miles away. It feels extra great when you realize you worked on yourself so much that you are genuinely a great catch, but the pool of women who are available and interested in you never would have been interested in you years ag…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 03:50 PM
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It means her attraction to you is only circumstantial And that's the crux of it. This little detail is made in passing in the book "Undercover Sex signals,..." by Leil Downdes. It's only a line or two, but it hits on the quote above, same girl who would be cray about you 99% of the time but if you catch her when there's an even cuter guy in the room, she wouldn't give you a second thought. You are only chosen if you happen to be her "best" option in the moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 03:11 PM
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Yes your missing the bigger point. The society we live in today is one in which technology has put woman's natural selectiveness and horny pursuit of select men into EXTREME overdrive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 03:07 PM
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Right...................................................
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:48 PM
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They really don't. And even a blind man can see the complaints regular men have been having, where legitimate psychologists are chiming in on the current atmosphere of men failing with women. You can look up all of Dr. Orion Taraban content on youtube. After watching plenty of it, I can vouch that everything I have seen is so 100% above board.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:48 PM
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tell that to all my shortish fWbs/exes with plain to below average faces, but incredibly big and perfect tits and bodies. I'm talking comically big for the rest of their proportions, F cup + on dress size 4-12 size bodies. Always hovering around 5'2"~5'5"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:42 PM
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most guys do well with women That is demonstrably not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:39 PM
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The earth isn't flat...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:45 PM
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Men push back on Swifties and astrology, oh who wants to hang with those guys who feel the need to speak up about it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:39 PM
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So why is it not ok for men to feel that way about women who spout the dumbest things?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:32 PM
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Add another one to INTJ gang.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:30 PM
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I'm really confused on this one. All my girls have always wanted to get on top? Maybe it's not the top 3, but top 7 sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:29 PM
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Q4W: If a man liked talking about being a flat earther, wouldn't you think he's a stupid piece of shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:28 PM
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Women don't want to be challenged about anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:26 PM
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You're right. But you really prefer to hang with guys who don't question or challenge obviously stupid things, or to hold strong opinions about things, just being a shell of a man, going with the flow and not speaking his mind? That's incredibly ... dull.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:26 PM
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Women value fame over anything else. She became the fame monster. While I didn't love Stefani Germanotta initially, the girl can sing. There's talent in her voice.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:24 PM
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Bryan Adams > Swift any day of the fucking week.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:22 PM
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The cat decides which milk is best. Not you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 07:53 PM
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Dr. Orion Taraban has been killing it in this debate, I just a most recent collaboration with "Fit and Fresh" (whatever the fuck they are suppose to be, kinda Howard Stern shock jocks of the RP movement?) He nails everything, but I think what he said about what the secret sauce to attract women is... fame. Attention from others. It may be mixed up with being competent in a hierarchy that "matters", but it's not even competency. It's just simply fame. Women are whores for fame. Fame is to women a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 07:26 PM
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Agreed. And yet many women on PPD include the workplace as a potential arena for a man to romantically/sexually get women. I'm a firm believer of "don't shit where you eat". I don't give a fuck if I'm "no fun" at work, I'm not jeopardizing my bread.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 04:06 PM
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Trick question. They never are. I think you have to go into commiting to a singular woman in a similar way to purchasing your first piece of property. You don't do it because it's a good move (99% it's not) and you don't try to convince yourself that it is a smart financial decision (99% of the time it isn't); you go into because you simply want to. It isn't because of her. You do it for you to live out whatever little fantasy you have in your head about love or making her happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 04:04 PM
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There is no way he could've known it was welcome when he said that. Totally a go big or go home risk move.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 03:59 PM
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Alright. Your scenario is really in the minority of the lived experience of many people. You know you guys are outliers, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 09:14 PM
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I wanted to share one of my most embarrassing moments. When I was a teen, my cousin was involved in model/pageantry type events and they were big. Reluctantly I was dragged to them and I saw a girl I crushed on HEAVILY. She wasn't the sexiest, but she was the most beautiful in my eyes. AND she was all smart and shit. At first glance it appeared she was interested in me too, asking things about myself, suggesting that I go talk to her mom about getting her phone number ( apparently her mom had he…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 09:13 PM
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Which man would feel great about being considered for a relationship, but not for a sexual relationship, with the same woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 08:56 PM
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No. Social media platforms enabled all women, from the ugly to the stunning, to have more potential access to limitless men that would otherwise not be possible through conventional means of physical proximity. It has confused most women into thinking that they have legitimate relationship access to men they really fancy at a gut level. Funnily enough they are mistaken.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 08:53 PM
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There's going to be an intermediate period of a lot of friction in the META. Men are going to splinter even harder into two camps, to get the bag, get fame, build body, focus on everything but women, and a second group that will resolutely give up, either out loud or quietly. They will retreat to games, gambling, drink, drugs, entertainment and anything that can numb existence, they will do the minimum to survive. Of course there will be the smaller group of men that do well with women, and the …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 07:45 PM
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After viewing yet another Orion Taraban video on youtube, I can definitively say that he is the final word on PPD of what's going on in the dating world today. He basically answers all the questions PPD regularly posts. Interestingly enough, even though it appears he himself is not a RP type of guy, nearly all his conclusions are thoughts that were chessed out by the RP community years ago. The thought experiment has been completed, and we are witnessing the proof in real time. The conversation …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 07:37 PM
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When the D is permanently swollen everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 07:33 PM
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The passage of time. We'll see how their relationships continue, how effective they end up in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 08:27 PM
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Heard. Lately I am very impressed with the psychologist Orion Taraban (plenty of videos on his insights on youtube) for the practical psychology of women and men-women dynamics. His videos are so tight, none of his points can be denied or countered convincingly. I'm also impressed through the maturation and sharing of Real Social Dynamics Todd. His insights into the practical MO of real life in person behavior is second to none. He knows what he's talking about and is able to articulate all of i…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 08:25 PM
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I don't have to convince you or them. Time and reality will be their teacher. We'll see in the end who was right.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 08:20 PM
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You don't date them. They get called up late night when your vibrator has run out of juice and don't have any batteries left.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 08:19 PM
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Don't be obtuse. Of course if you start talking to regular normal people who aren't well versed in ANY subject and start throwing out specialized jargon, they are going to think you are talking nonsense. Just because they think it's nonsense doesn't make it so... It's not about communicating any of this to the commoner. 99% They haven't even thought of any of this. But go to a family court, a divorced man, a sexually and romantically unsuccessful guy after graduating college, get him to open up …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 08:06 PM
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There's a saying that when the student is ready, the master will finally appear. They are no students or people interested in what the patterns are now, just parroting nonsensical bullshit, or asking extremely basic questions that have been answered already. Not only answered but dissected to the nth levels, with various underpinnings already explained. This is just tiresome.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 07:58 PM
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What so you can dye your hair blue, move to New Orleans and fuck every tourist in the french quarter, while living a miserable high crime, low income existence? Just stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 07:45 PM
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It's a difference with little distinction. Why don't you all get that?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 07:43 PM
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I don't know about classic, but from my own first hand dick experience... I have fucked married women, both on the downlow and with hubby being a knowing cuck. I have had encounters with women who have claimed to be monogamous and never cheat, love their boyfriends... have sex with me. A married woman wanted me to breed her with the thought that she would raise our child with her husband. I am the one that got nervous and didn't fully go through with it. I have known 2nd hand with reliable recor…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 07:43 PM
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No I am not married... never have. Normal you say? I do wonder what the private sex lives of these normal people in your group indulge in. I have a suspicion that would be quite eye opening for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 07:29 PM
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It's the societal norm that matters. Let's not kid ourselves, there's the low intelligent garbage, and the real educated intelligentsia that moves the norms at the highest levels. That latter is the one that most here are interested, not La-sha twerking at a Dollar General parking lot in Indiana.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 07:28 PM
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LOL for what? To pool the wool over my eyes again, living in ignorance , a mind too feeble for passion and imagination? You can stay in that gray, suboptimal life. I have seen colors, I won't go back to that low key communist bullshit, fascist ******s.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 07:24 PM
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They are the norm in select circles, highly educated, decent income, living in major metropolitan cities.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 07:22 PM
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PS1. Tomb Raider, Resident Evil, FF7, Tony Hawk ProSkater. PS1 is a fucking legend.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 07:20 PM
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I think I'm about to leave PPD soon. Apparently the RP are only boys under the age of 15. Apparently all the documented, and lived experiences of so many men, in so many socioeconomic strata of society, don't count. I just can't anymore. A lot of you all are like legit sexual Trumpers, denying reproducible fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 07:19 PM
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They are very real. I have encountered them in all sorts of manner, in many different cities, big and small, around the western world. I have met their friends and circles. They are as real as birds.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 07:17 PM
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Bored, horny. She's mad at her bf. Sometimes you get lucky without ever knowing the reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 07:12 PM
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You get called that either way irrespective of approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:58 PM
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Hookup culture is a great idea for the individual, spoiled by the majority of people who do not know, or understand, how to wield and positively experience sexual power. On the societal level it is a terrible signal. It is the canary in the coal mine that the current society is on the whole in a decline. There was a great recent episode on the show "Julia" (HBO) which depicts the life of Julia Child as she hit stardom with her cooking show (Strong recommend, it's a fun little show). In an effort…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:58 PM
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"single despite best efforts not to be" I love this!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:46 PM
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I have to agree. I know the first statement may sound like a bit of defeatism, or maybe an inherent lack of quality that your younger self had. While that may be true for most guys, and you do manage once you are older, you'll realize while it feels amazing in the moment; that window of times that you would've appreciated it more has passed. Without any motivated incentives, women are the final arbiters of which guy is sexually appealing enough for them to want to engage in it with. In that resp…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:10 PM
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No. Apparently being too direct can make a woman, who would otherwise be open to a sexual encounter, reject a man for being so outright.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 03:57 PM
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Everywhere. At school, at work, major urban metropolitan cities, small podunk towns of population 60,000 or less. I agree everyone has control over whether continuing associating with suboptimal social circles, but I disagree with the coded premise that people have control of what social circles exist in their proximity. Participation or not, what's in your vicinity, is in your vicinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 03:53 PM
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Good looking men in comparison don’t need to go through as much effort. Whatever it is you're smoking, I want some! You are really off base. Consider Cristiano Ronaldo, a very famous footballer. He had to recontruct his whole mouth (teeth alignment, gums) and have CHEEK and other device implants into his face and he is quite handsome. George Clooney needed a surgical procedure near his eye to get rid of excess skin, a highly dangerous area to cut, especially back when he had it done. Consider th…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:25 PM
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Getting into my old age, I feel that the above quote is incomplete and missing something very critical. I believe it's the type of thing that goes over the head of sexually/romantically unsuccessful guys. Not only do you watch what they do and not what they say, one must never bring up their discrepancy of thoughts and actions into focus. It never brings anything positive. One would think it would be constructive, or at least a funny detail to poke fun at girls with, but they really lose their s…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:59 PM
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Some guy with a big dick fucking other people's wives is going to be pretty lonely. This reminds me of a guy I befriended in Washington DC a long time ago. Lonely is not the word I'd use to describe his life. It's been COLORFUL.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:52 PM
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Even the world's handsomest man experience in life pales in comparison to a regular woman who is fit, has a little booty and and smallish boobs. The world is her oyster! He still has to put in the work, daily, day after day week after week, month after month.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:52 PM
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Seeing another post with the platitude "Treat women like people" I have to ask: Q4W who parrot the above quote, What does a man getting romantically/sexually involved with you look like. Like how does an encounter escalate from a guy not being sexually/romantically involved with you to being that whilst treating you like a human?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 08:57 AM
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appeal to the uterus LOl. Does it even?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 06:20 PM
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I'm sorry I have to ask, do you live in fucking Dayton Ohio or what.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 06:06 PM
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LOL they aren't my circle, they are my fWb's.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 05:57 PM
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Thank you. I'm amazed some people get tripped up with errors so early into their sentences.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 05:53 PM
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if there are kids in the pic that aren't his (although I'm not that strict) What? God forbid some of us have nephews, appropriately blocked out faces on the kids of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 05:43 PM
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are you incredibly out of touch and naïve? I was just with a group of girls who brunch every week (the group includes some fun gays ) and they were all about spilling the beans on who and what they did earlier in the week. Get real, women are indulging to their hearts content.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 05:35 PM
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Depending on how bad the name is, it's an investment that pays immediate dividends. Worth it, not only professionally but also emotionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 05:26 PM
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... They can help turning 18 and never changing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 05:16 PM
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Yes, why don't we medicate men into a completely numb stupor. That will make life so much more vibrant, full, with explosive rays of happiness and sunshine... You fucking asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 05:15 PM
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I actually like that. They have a sense of humor. They laugh, a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 05:01 PM
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Q4M: After reexamining my swipe rules on Bumble, what are some of yours? I''ll share a few of mine: Low effort (one photo up, no blue verification dot, all photos black and white, no bio, no work details or living in, originally from cities, different photos but all are her in the same pose) is instant left. Stupid spellings to already established names, terribly old fashioned names, male names (Britttanie, Maude, Maureen, Traci, Toni, Chrissy) Curious choice of photo permutations, (photos are a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 04:57 PM
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Men and women aren't that different psychologically... Yes they are. Full stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 04:41 PM
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People grow up and priorities and responsibilities change. That's a euphemism for women sucking and fucking at the peak of their beauty, but once age related declines happen, suddening priorities and responsibilities change. That's extremely convenient. The underlying assumption is that if there was no age decline in a woman's beauty, she never reaches that level of "maturation" because time doesn't necessitate her to do it. Said a different way, if her beauty never fades, most women would conti…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 04:40 PM
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From the women that continue to match with me years later, they got fucked and chucked. Or they entered a relationship which dissolved years later.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 09:09 PM
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Yes his mom really is homophobic and judgemental. I'm not. I do see what he went through, his father isn't present. He saw a terrible father/mother relationship disintegrate. He saw his mom run off to live the single life on her own. It's tough anyway you slice it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 05:13 PM
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Small minds. Consider this, let's say for sake of argument, you have an IQ of 100. Normal and not exceptional. Half the people you encounter will be lower than you. That's a lot of people. The uncomfortable truth. It's more than half. Men in particular more often occupy the extremes, and more often in the lower extremes. Add to the fact that stupid align more intensely to tribalism and , voilà, current situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 04:15 PM
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I have a mix of feelings about this topic. A saw a friend come out well after college, avoiding all the real hardship and backlash that others gays I know had when they came out in early high school. Those gay men have been the most well adjusted and successful in life. From my POV, it was a calculated move, they were popular with the ladies from high school through college. Another thing that comes to mind is my sister's bestie, she married her high school sweetheart and had two kids, a boy and…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 04:01 PM
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Tell that to my fWb. Which is infinitely more B than F
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 03:54 PM
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I suspect many are in their teens and 20s, judging from the quality of their questions and reasoning and understanding. We do comprehend it. There's not a lot anyone can do about it. I believe it's the Argentine situation, the current paradigm is producing ugly results but everyone is debating whether it really is, and debating whether it really is ugly, and giving ignorant and bad advice to the younger generation. Maybe out of malice. Certainly parroting the same old status quo. The great major…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 03:54 PM
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It does for me. I would only consider such a woman as just a good time and nothing serious. Consider she engages in OF and makes little to no money, how little she sold herself for. She'd be a loser, and I don't like to associate with loser women. If she hits it big, she has successfully monetized her image for money. Kuddos to her, but then she is no better than a Capuchin monkey. She has successfully whored herself out for financial gain, catering to the masses. She has perverted the money inc…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 03:49 PM
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No. Romance is a wild cocktail of sex, lust and want. Arguably friendship never enters the equation if we are strictly just speaking about romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 03:44 PM
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I'm copying and pasting a perfect reply to the title. "But the “gender wars” is a symptom of late stage capitalism and forty years of failed neoliberal ideology which has sought to marketise and commodify every aspect of life, including dating and relationships - women are taught that they can have their cake and eat it and that hypergamy is their divine right; men are taught that being themselves is not good enough and that only by following a stringent fitness regime and Social Darwinist caree…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 03:43 PM
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This is a perfect summation, worthy of being recognized in the archives of PPD forever!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 03:41 PM
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Who is the arbiter, what is the measure of a man nowadays? If it's tables and charts of standardization, that's easy enough to meet and beat. But when it's things pertaining to emotional complexity and warmth, who is to say what's below average, average and superior when we all have different beliefs, views, objectives and agendas. It just becomes a battle of who can conceal their true intentions and self vs. their effectiveness with others in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 01:56 PM
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It's funny cause my fWb once admitted that she only had sex with a guy because he paid attention to her and was trying his best to make her laugh and feel sexy. She was feeling low on herself and that's all it took that day for that guy to seal the deal. I try to wrap my head around that one. She didn't even like him.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 01:53 PM
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No. It really isn't ok. While free will and choice are all good, the majority of women wield a power they don't fully understand, have had no training or guidance on, subject to only her desires and whims without regard to her future self. That is fucking far from "ok".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 01:50 PM
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No. Technology has only amplified what was already there. It took all our behaviors, men's desires and women's selectivity, and amped them up to a billion. Human minds, feelings and beliefs were only geared toward tribes of 100, we were just beginning to get used to millions in dense urban areas. Technology just gave us the ability to interact with near unlimited number of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 01:48 PM
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The movies Her, Gattaca, Minority Report
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 12:01 PM
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I believe men would participate in a whole lot less excess productive activity if it weren't for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 05:24 PM
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This question has already been addressed before. I would argue that it signals maladjustment and not normal development if a man is a virgin to this after the sage of 22 (Presumably this means he would have been dateless all through high school AND notably college. To go dateless and sexless throughout 4 years of college signals social arrested development and a strong suspicion that something is "wrong" with him). So my final answer is age 22. 20 can be arguable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 04:55 PM
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Peer.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 04:52 PM
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What? You're really arguing that women are the ones driving the economy with their shopping? No. But women's insatiable consumption drive and "want" directly influence men's ambition to do more, acquire more.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 04:45 PM
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Exactly. It's nonsensical when women take the position that the past "doesn't matter" or is somehow weird and irrelevant... NO! It's massively important, infinitely critical. If what you say speaks volumes, what you've done IS the defining description of WHO and WHAT you are. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 04:39 PM
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It's not rarely discussed. It's discussed ad nauseum. But the conversation always boils down to this: Women are, generally speaking, always dissatisfied and never satiated. They are the ones that always want more, better, never fully content with what they have now more so than men. Men can make do with a whole lot less in life, and genuinely live happily. Women are the ones that are the nexus, the orin point of the economic "invisible hand" because the majority of women have an unfillable void,…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 04:31 PM
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I just find it laughable how men who discuss women's past conveniently leave their own out of the equation or pretend that the kind of past that taints women somehow boosts their value. Where's the laughable part? Men are infinitely more transparent than their peer aged women, and I certainly am very open talking about my own past, thoughts and beliefs about things. And the idea that it boosts mens value and diminishes women's is an arguable debate, but what it isn't arguable is that the same be…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 04:15 PM
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the real question is why would he settle so quickly That's not the gotcha you think it is. While in this case where there's smoke there's fire, it appears clear as day, there are situations in which it's completely bullshit but if you can pay to make it go away to avoid reputation destruction, bad PR, whatever, it's simply "the cost of doing business".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 04:08 PM
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Why did she stay silent for so long is the more salient question.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 03:33 PM
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After reading the replies on the most recent PPD postings, I can't help but think a few things. Chiefly that women are so repulsed about revealing their past, there's an insistence of taking every woman as a "blank slate", to take them as "people" still in their original unadulterated state, unchanged and unblemished by other people in their past and fro prior experiences. And that's just flat out wrong. We ALL are changed, the fingerprints of our past decisions indelibly leave their mark on our…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 03:32 PM
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They all have a price.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 03:25 PM
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Ew what
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 03:21 PM
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Why do people continue to use BMI? It's extremely flawed, bodyfat % is superior.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 07:25 PM
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You're getting hung up on the wrong theme. And it isn't just TRP men. Are you purposely being obtuse?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 04:27 PM
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You're missing the bigger point. It's that dick that you were interested in. Like it or not, our past choices shape us. You are not who you think you are, you are what you've done.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 04:17 PM
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And the women see NO discrepancy! It's like words have both no meaning and every meaning. But all the meanings are vague and subject to change to suit her needs in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 04:08 PM
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I can’t imagine any future boyfriends actually want to hear about that. You'd be wrong. I certainly would love to know everything about a woman I'd be open to being very serious with. Sucks that your short ex was too much of a pussy to handle the truth. I wouldn't mind your truth. It's expected, and rather tame. I can handle the truth about my reality, I'm not near 7 ( and wouldn't wish to be ) and have a very normalish cock. While it would be cool if it was longer, I'm generally happy with it a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 04:07 PM
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I disagree. Anything and everything in this world is open to conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 03:52 PM
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I'm not. I support the guys who do, but no I have not personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 03:51 PM
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What many men think is malice, I'm starting to think it's just women's minds... the majority of women have not integrated the "light" side and "dark" side of their personalities/desires. Women rarely reconcile on a conscious level their arousal and attraction. Hence, anything she posits before being fully aware of herself is incomplete and inaccurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 03:51 PM
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Just old. Had few partners til I was 35, then it shot up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 03:41 PM
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Crude? You sound incredibly sex negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 03:41 PM
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Why. It's the mark of a true adult to be able to talk about sensitive subjects in a real, honest, transparent way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 03:36 PM
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Wrong. As a man with well over 100, I abhor hard drugs and have 1 social drink for someone bday, christmas and new years. The rest of my life is strictly in order.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 03:35 PM
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I especially chuckle that the sex that is allegedly more mature, and talk a big game, have absolute shit conversation skills in real life, and conversation killing txt game.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 03:33 PM
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I just watch the very first episode of the new season Part 1 of "The Crown". Your statement reminds me of the relationship portrayed by Mohamed Al-Fayed and his then wife Heini Wathén-Fayed. I reject your premise that women who willfully enter these sorts of ... arrangements are the ones complaining about being treated as they present themselves to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 03:31 PM
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You ever feel you were born in the "wrong" body?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 10:11 PM
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I once believed that too. I'm not so sure anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 10:10 PM
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Lemme see. About 4 instances really stand out from my decades alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 09:33 PM
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Sure, could be. I'm curious how you present to the world if you reject masculine/feminine dichotomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 09:33 PM
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boo.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 09:31 PM
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Yes all that, through the lens of the male experience, because if it were just about those things, a woman can, arguably, more easily find that with another woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 09:29 PM
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"Kind" is simply too loaded and vague a word now. It needs to be put to rest. Do you mean agreeable and amiable?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 08:56 PM
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My point is that the egalitarian relationships are lesbian lite. I have seen first hand women in egalitarian relationships with fair minded men go off and fuck more masculine, aggressive men. Often the women are cheating, a few times it's with her man's permission, but ultimately it's the same thing. The experience of a "more" masculine man fucking/leading her, either in the bedroom and/or life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 08:52 PM
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Anything a man can do, a woman can do better is what you said. If women can simulate the strength and feel of a penis with their clit, then sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 08:44 PM
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Hey, if you are a redhead, have permission and need that itch scratched more often ... = )
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 08:38 PM
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Perhaps in the past men provided money, what they now provide is the sharing the "male experience". How valuable is that to most women? Not very it appears. Only those that desire to be lead.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 08:36 PM
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I shudder to think the size of those clits. To rival a man's penis! Impressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 08:34 PM
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In a way, not really. The subset of women who claim to only pursue sexual relations within the confines of a LTR, but that occasionally scratch the itch if their dry spell runs too long, I'd say don't. Basically putting a ceiling on all women, it would alter behavior on those that are high libido. There may be some fun knock on effects too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 08:34 PM
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LOL women are not "better" at sex in a way a heterosexual man performs it, it's markedly different. Apples and oranges.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 08:23 PM
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An interesting thought experiment. What if you would consider for a moment that men have 100% control of the sexual marketplace. Consider this, if it wasn't for the sexually over indulgent behavior of attractive men, women wouldn't get the sex they'd want. Imagine a world in which every single man on earth refused sex. Could it be that women would start catering to the men they want in earnest to get what they wanted? In addition to the mutual sex, they'd submit something else of value in additi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 08:14 PM
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No you're not doomed... it's just that if you learn it later in life; it's like learning to talk in Japanese when you were born and educated in Texas. It's going to be really rough, it won't ever feel natural, and you'll always have a lingering non native accent.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 08:10 PM
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The foxnews of the RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 06:15 PM
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False. It was this way prior to the blackberry.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 05:37 PM
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Hey, what is life if not to paint outside the lines.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 05:07 PM
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LOL omfg. True.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 05:05 PM
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I read that on the train! I was shaking my head. Women, which is it? Are you strong, brave, independent? Or are you weak, conflict averse and need protecting/extra considerations? You can't have it both ways. Also, This is some weak ass shit. Women, you realize the world is a dark and awful place? There decapitations happening south of the border. Bodies can be blow up and dismembered at any time. You can get hit accidentally but the B40 bus. You can have a random brick land on your head as you …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 05:05 PM
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My argument is that even those women who present to have a different mindset, don't. There is no way to verify. And even if we say, who that woman is who she presents herself to be... she is likely to have a very maladjusted and cold approach to sex. And that's awful, the world is already a cold and unforgiving place, sex should be one bit of happy escape, even if for just a moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 04:59 PM
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Would you really be that upset with a guy you hadn't even slept with?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 04:54 PM
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Bullocks! I never lost interest, and lived my life accordingly to rewarding women who were "fast" with me, and withdrew immediately on women who made me "wait" intentionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 04:53 PM
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LOL well that's flirting with danger, never in his bed/house. Jealous loser men lose their shit
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 04:50 PM
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lol live a little. Laugh, dance, be merry. The omnipotent invisible daddy in the sky isn't going to strike you down and end you for indulging in that, he has bigger issues on his plate.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 04:43 PM
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"Morals"?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 04:40 PM
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LOL Probably. Get into a good happy mood, mindset, and then crush it later in the evening. That's an interesting take. A man can certainly get a great confidence boost going on a date with a younger girl, and not try anything sexual, drop her off, and then hit it up elsewhere. That is a really interesting scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 04:37 PM
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I'm not sure that's the equivalent, in your scenario at least you had a great time. The guy is out money, time and energy spent while he has his dick in his hands crying into a pillow at night.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 04:28 PM
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LOL. I might. I feel I have enough direct experience to do that. Remind me again your sign and MBTA or whatever the hell the briggs acronym is
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 04:20 PM
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Agreed. Thinking of the extremes, the loosest I ever got to play with, was STUPID loose. Like I was able to ball up both of my fists and go near elbow deep. It was hot/embarrassing how much she can fit. I kept thinking, there is no man's natural organic dick that can ever satisfy this girl. She really set the bar as that was my 3rd sexual partner, little did I understand how far outside the normal she was.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 04:16 PM
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A long time fWb who I hadn't heard from in years hit me up last night. I was surprised, I didn't think I'd hear from her again. It was a vitamin D appt, of course. Pillow talk was her having gone on yet another ho-hum date. I never took her out on any dates, and rarely was seen out in public with her. This guy took her for some delicious oysters and lobster bisque, but it's me who gets to stretch her slutty pussy out. It makes me think, "dating" is a suckers game, no matter age or life stage. Q4…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 04:13 PM
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No, I have felt over 150+ different pussies in my life. ALL felt different, and loose is NOT the most common I have experienced. I will admit the stupid impossibly tight is a rarity.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 03:27 PM
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I haven’t had sex in 5+ yrs & don’t care if I ever do again. You really need to get a holistic checkup with a legitimate doctor.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 03:10 PM
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No, they are purposely trying to monetize. The knock on effects are secondary. ( Meaning it isn't their intention to "make people miserable". It just so happens that the pursuit of profits often makes the majority of people worse off, benefitting a select few on top. Which funnily enough, doesn't THAT like a sound similar situation ...)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 03:08 PM
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Because dating has a low ceiling in which to improve. At it's core, it's all the other skills that a man needs to improve on for "dating" to become more fruitful.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 09:45 PM
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You misunderstand. I don't mean the scenario in which those sharks are posing for something serious, it's allegedly LTR only minded women go on a dry enough spell and then fuck those sharks purposely.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 09:07 PM
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Perhaps for a relationship, but when you've been waiting for long enough, and you finally get horny enough, the majority of women will indulge in a quick fuck with some guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 08:17 PM
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Yes! What gets lost is that a select few of men and the majority of women can indulge on both worlds.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 07:33 PM
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I get it, energy finds its own level. But saying that is missing the bigger point. The dating market is ... a very interesting place nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:01 PM
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I'm finding them because they exist. If you're making the low effort assumption that I'm the common denominator, who do you think is populating the single not married category in my demographics, in my area. What do you think the pool is comprised of exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:46 PM
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lol if you want to know my first line methodology, google, reverse image searching, insta. Insta basically gives me everything, even if the profile is set to private.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:43 PM
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Fascinating. Do you feel you missed out on a lot of experiences with other women? Maybe something you would have liked to have done? Any regrets?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:51 PM
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Bro, you're clearly not fit for anything serious or long term either, LOL who died and made you judge of that? I do generally agree that we are living in the time of the early stages of the decline. Take what you can, enjoy life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:50 PM
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That's fair. I feel that I make sure to look up more as I've grown older. So many have lied about their marital status, and I like to have a general idea of how they lived their lives, especially financially. I am in a much different position now than I was decades ago, and I feel it's part of my vetting process that is harmless ( she doesn't know, I don't normally volunteer unless she asks directly, and then I honesty share ). I do find it as a "challenge" when a woman uses a cover like google …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:42 PM
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Never? No one from your past ever tried kicking the tires years later?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:37 PM
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LOL funny characterization, but I didn't put that I smirked, I AM amused at how little regular people realize that their personal info is easily accessible. Yeah, I am fucking regular person that did light detective work years ago. Big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:36 PM
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A real Paris Hilton kind of girl. I've had a few in my life. Really makes one question life itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:28 PM
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LOL, I totally know what you mean. In a different life, I was working as a light version of a "P.I." My research skills I thought were just simply "ok" is light years ahead of what women I match with can conceive. If shared, 99% get really weirded out real quick but I laugh and tell them that if they want to be have less information about themselves online, they have to be proactive and do x,y,z. I like to think some listen, but they are still to head in deer lights when I can tell them all thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:26 PM
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I'll admit it does take a grain of imagination and creativity to ask questions, and use words to get replies from another human. There are so many words, and near infinite amount of questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:20 PM
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that is so fucking wild to me. It's like what is it, is sex an intimate act that should be solely reserved for life long loves or a fun activity that should be shared with trusted partners; either scenario doesn't excuse outright not remembering which dick was inside you at some point in your life. It's one of the most mind boggling takes from women. They don't even care to remember! fucking goldfish...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:18 PM
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That's a legitimate reason. That's not the case here, but your reply made me soften my stance 1%.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:14 PM
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I see. I can't help but think that people who feel bored txting aren't all that exciting in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:13 PM
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As long as its only texting, and never came to a set of dates to really get to know each other, I wouldnt hold it against her. i mean what do expect, dating apps throw a steady stream of prospects at you, at some point you cannot follow through with all of them. Maybe I have too much pride, but if we're talking, and she stopped talking to me so that she can get dicked down pursue some other guy, I was second choice to her. And I won't stand for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:05 PM
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Matched with a woman I previously matched with years ago. We only txted a few times and never got together, she seems to have remembered we matched before, so that's a surprise! ( Often, women I have rematched with throughout the years don't recall txting, sometimes even meeting, and to my amazement, I have FUCKED a woman years ago, and she seemed to not even remember it !) I'm playing nice because she is very attractive and sexy, but I am of the mind that if a woman has made the decision to sto…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 03:57 PM
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Thank you for your post. I feel it's critically important that all statements be 100% proofed and above board, to not allow women to catch any stray thread that could unravel all your valid points and arguments. Marketisation of Dating As soon as dating was marketised, this was inevitable due to the following factors: Women are biologicallyhave consistently shown to be extremely selective for several reasons, primarily that their reproductive material is rarer, and, therefore, more valuable than…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 03:49 PM
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I find it pretty productive by way of seeing reading the POVs and takes by the most delusional of women here. From a RP lens, I find it humorous. The objections, denials, obfuscations, silence when a great male point is made elegantly, is extremely telling. What I think a lot of women haven't figured out is that this discourse has been had ages ago, the game theory and eventual conclusion has already been mapped out by minds greater than theirs. Women have this special arrogance and hubris that …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 03:42 PM
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Whatever it is she is smoking, drinking or injecting, I definitely want some. That is some seriously out of touch statement, it makes me question whether it's real.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 03:37 PM
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It's funny reading this title as it immediately reminded me of the Tom Cruise movie "Minority Report". My memory is hazy but I believe there is a scene,very briefly, when the protagonist is visiting a shady, black market, services venue. People are hooked up to some sort of machine that allows them to experience whatever is on their mind. There is a heavily muscled, tattooed guy sitting in a chair hooked up to the machine, and the audience is able to see what is going on in his mind, ... he is a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 04:02 PM
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Thanks for the synopsis. The question remains, what arouses women? Nothing I said or did could've been it. So if isn't words and behavior... what remains?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 04:44 PM
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har har
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 04:36 PM
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On the way to work this morning, I remembered something that happened long ago that made me think of the saying "If she's attracted to you, you can do no wrong and if she isn't attracted to you, you can do no right". I had a childhood friend (Mara) from kindergarten reconnect with me when we were in high school. We were roughly in the same school system, but didn't cross paths until like 11th grade. When we reconnected, it was nothing but friendly vibes and intentions. Because of that, I felt ve…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 04:31 PM
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Thanks for the reply. Yours reminded me of an interview of an american journalist getting a british soldier's thoughts during a war. I forget the names, but what stuck was the soldier stating simply "One gets the sugar, the other eats the shit. In the end though, we both end up in the same place don't we?"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 09:27 PM
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The red pill is a set of ideas perpetuated by grifters in order to sell coaching schemes and other scams. A large part of the grift is getting men to treat women in such a disrespectful manner that no woman would want to date them, thus creating a viscous cycle where the victims return to the grifters for more advice. It’s sickening. praxeology of sexual behaviors between men and women, with the focus being how to become better at attracting and becoming romantically/sexually successful with wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 08:30 PM
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This makes me think of how jesus spoke of the pharisees. Even if a man is 100% a harcore feminist, he should keep the secret, hidden, but his support in tangible actions and moving influence if he so fervently believes in the cause. You keep that shit quiet.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 03:29 PM
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LOL. That girl is getting SLAMMED. Hopefully she's making a buck on OF, cuz if she's doing that for free, what a hoe lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 09:33 PM
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Do you believe the men that approach you in real life don't want sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:39 PM
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His dating life in college was a lot different when height became more of a factor. How do you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:14 PM
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lol. I'm serious. I'd love to visually see and hear about their personalities, what makes them just soooo great.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:17 PM
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You do need to get fit, you don't need steroids to get there. In addition to getting fit, it's important you also dedicate just as much time/even more time being at parties and boisterous fun bars.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:08 PM
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Sometimes I wonder about the women who talk such a big game here on PPD. I wonder about the men you all select. Who are they. How successful were they with women before you met them. How many romantic and sexual failures did they experience before being so lucky meeting you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:05 PM
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There was a video on youtube from the Psychologist Orion Taraban that goes into a bit of detail about this, but in short, a woman, no matter whether single, it's complicated, short term or long term relationship, it doesn't matter, when she dolls herself up and goes out to the nightclub, she is signaling and advertising her good looks/sexuality. No matter how you slice it, it is her looking for other sexual validation from male strangers. If she wants/needs that to have "fun", it's on the razor'…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:51 PM
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I notice the term used by a black British guy, it appeared he had a gentle personality so I assumed his partner to be another man. My brain had a bit of a pause when his partner was a gorgeous woman. I remember back in business law 101 that introducing someone as your partner was a higher level stake of association and it meant something. I felt that was a reason why lawyers were quick to correct someone introducing them as a "good friend" or "trusted partner" or something else more leading. Bus…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:27 PM
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They didn't know that at the time. And you're missing the context in how it started, read the excerpt as she tells it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 07:17 PM
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Dude, he had an affair with Carrie Fisher. She was 19. He was 35. And married.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 05:49 PM
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I'm amazed people don't give Harrison Ford a hard time. And even crazier how Calista Flockhart was all about him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 05:44 PM
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lol an interesting take. I'd rank that one near the bottom, it's totally ok to break off engagements when it's obvious a LTR with that person is a no-go.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 04:26 PM
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I agree with you. It's a nuanced point that women hit a wall of exponentially declining value, but the inconvenient truth is that the majority of women, across all ages, will always have more sexual opportunity than her male, same age counterpart. Men are not winning this battle. Even plain Janes have outsized power. It is disheartening knowing that a single woman in her 30s can just easily select a guy 5+ years younger for sex, whenever the fuck she feels like it. Plan joe's don't have that abi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 04:25 PM
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He's 24. I remember being 24. My highest in a single night was 7. Easily plausible.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 03:54 PM
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My understanding is that this guy blows his loads quickly, so in his refractory period he kept eating her out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 03:51 PM
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Today's lesson of critical reading and understanding. There is a post on PPD titled "When Gen Z men get into their 30s will it even be worth it to date 30s women?" And like clockwork, an excellent example shows up on the site that has 2 of the same chromosomes titled "First hookup of the year went great. Let's do a breakdown together! The post goes Wanted to share my weekend experience in my FWB journey and giving my vibrators a break 😅 So I (31f) was celibate all this year and this is my 3rd ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 03:45 PM
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“I have a headache” just comes off as “I don’t feel comfortable just telling you no and giving the real reason why” and the lack of sincere communication can be triggering for some. is indicative of something being off.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 03:10 PM
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Always a proponent of flipping the script, subverting the narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 04:50 PM
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The cat decides what milk is good. You may feel that a certain milk is superior, because it's organic or that it's been intentionally created to be the milkiest milk that ever milked, but it's for the cat to decide if that's the milk it prefers.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 03:14 PM
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Yeah, you're getting caught up with the failings of a person discrediting the truth. The truth is the truth, whether spoken by Jesus Christ himself or the most drunk, drug addicted asshole who ever lived.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:31 PM
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Look, women's sexual selection criteria is incredibly mercurial and arbitrary. Men's isn't by comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:30 PM
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Let me guess, you're the type of person that finds it difficult to process new and complex sets of information from disparate sources and come to novel conclusions based on synthesizing those sets.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:26 PM
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lol I'm wrong just because you say so. Real strong argument. And what ratio?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:18 PM
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... What do you think are the top selling women's erotica genres?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:16 PM
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No... it means men have a broader range of women they deem to be a romantic and sexual fit, that isn't filtered by random bullshit that really doesn't matter at the end of the day or imaginative fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:15 PM
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I can't speak for every guy, but I'm "mad" that women are so incredibly dishonest about the way they select men to fuck. And they often like to hide who it is that they did fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:14 PM
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You're level of understanding and thinking is incredibly low. But sure, I'll try to make it simpler. Sexual love does not equal romantic love. In practice, sexual love can lead to romantic love. Arguably romantic love should be the precursor to sexual love, but we know that isn't the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:13 PM
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lol, what? No it doesn't, women need something extra or more, often those signals are faked. Often, it doesn't even matter to a woman if they were true or not. What's more important is the fantasy in her head. That infinitely makes a woman look bad, to be so easily fooled, and to care more about imagination than what is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:10 PM
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Is English your primary language?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:09 PM
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I think you're missing the point. He's right about women's sexual erotic archetypes. Men don't need to fantasize about a beautiful woman being a billionaire, or the undead, or anything extra. The women is the sexual fantasy. Women are the ones that need something extra or more.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:08 PM
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You're missing the bigger points, but it can be. It can be different. The point is women require this, men do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:02 PM
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TLDR: Women demand context to fuck a guy. A guy doesn't require context to fuck a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:02 PM
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Ok... that doesn't dismiss it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:01 PM
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Finally someone that can engage at a higher level! It might be argued that women needing the context means they are more attracted to the person. Except often times women are attracted to the context (often an erroneous assumption on her part ) MORE than the reality of who the guy is. I believe this video by Dr. Taraban touches on this "fantasy" aspect in his video "How most men blow the first date". After digesting this line of thinking, I almost, ALMOST understand why these low income guys in …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:57 PM
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Simply not true. I've been turned on by age appropriate women, before they have opened their mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:52 PM
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Love, fuck, both. Women can't. They need some sort of ... narrative in their heads.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:18 PM
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I think Cristiano fits with the billionaire playboy archetype.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:17 PM
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You're discounting what he said because he's an addict, and not because this has been demonstrably proven true? Come on
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:17 PM
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And women getting pregnant really necessitates all this world building, imagination and fantasy? Come on, there's something else at play
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:16 PM
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Thought on the commute to work today. Women really aren't attracted to men the way most men can be attracted to most women. Listening to JP, he humorously touches on this in a number of videos on youtube. The gist is that you what the 5 archetypes of guys women read as romantically/sexually titillating and it's vampire, billionaire, surgeon, werewolf, pirate. Women just cannot get "hard" for men simply being just a man, they need context to be attracted to man. Men, as many can attest to, do not…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:42 PM
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That one bad date is a drop in the bucket to the stories I can point to women behaving atrociously.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:01 PM
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Ahum. Well for the purposes of romantic and sexual interest in the other sex, your experiences are not relevant to this discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 07:53 PM
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It's been a millions years since I've seen that movie. I'll try to take that as a compliment.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 06:24 PM
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Crazy how? Like cursing a lot or saying random shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 06:20 PM
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They're not out with Chad? Curious, when you get the itch to fuck, who do you select?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 04:10 PM
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Is it absolute? No. Is it far more extensive than a lot of other peoples? In the words of the great Sarah Palin, you betcha.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 04:06 PM
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Sure, but simply dismissing it as "well you're the common denominator" really oversimplifies the whole conversation. I'm not the only one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 04:05 PM
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Oh my god. You really believe all that material is nonsense. And this isn't all written by a singular person, but by lowest of the low dumb Chad (Pook) up to a Dr. Miller, a known Psychologist who has studied this topic. No, it's not just garbage just because you say it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 04:04 PM
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Holy shit you need me to munch on and feed it to you like a baby bird? Premeditation is understood to be worse because it is deliberately planned out in advance. The first is worse as there is intention to do something "not good", and following through with the plan to do "not good". It's "Malice as a forethought". The later springs up organically as a consequence of new information.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 04:01 PM
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lol. Oh god! You solved it with the lowest, most oft repeated low hanging branch of a thought. Or could it be that behavior is so multifactorial, while women being so mercurial and irrational, during different stages of their lives. Nope, must be all me. Please. Try rubbing a couple more brain cells together to construct more complex explanations.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:58 PM
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Ah yes, the old "no on owes you anything" line of reasoning. My simplest response to this is the old African Proverb "The child who is not embraced by the village will burn it down to feel its warmth." As a guy with no skin in the game, there are still things that hold me back from acting barbarous. Many men will not have the same level of self restraint, and that has to be talked about.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:47 PM
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Here's the rub, I am a walking encyclopedia of first hand, and second hand confirmed knowledge, of which I draw my conclusions from. It isn't "a few girls" but a mountainous tens of thousands of rejections (from small to large) and a couple of hundreds of experience, with a 100+ of romantic/sexual first hand experience. I have yet to encounter a woman with the same depth or volume of singular experience that I have, across so many decades, across so many socio-economic strata.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:43 PM
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Cool. What was said?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:40 PM
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I don't believe it ever was. But in order to engage at a high level on this topic, the foundation needs to be set. And it is knowing, or at least being aware of the following works: The old Sosuave forums. Mystery. The book of Pook, double your dating, The rationale male, The attraction code, How to be a 3% man, Open her, Practical female psychology, undercover sex signals, dataclysm, the man's guide to women, MATE, Atomic attraction, a lot of the Real Social Dynamics content, Mating grounds mat…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:39 PM
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How awful the common woman is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:30 PM
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Ok if you want to legal it, it's the difference between negative premeditation and intention, vs honest intention and consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:30 PM
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I'm' beginning to think there's little left to "debate" on PPD. The collective level of women here is low relative to the foundational knowledge that has been built up by RP and adjacent resources over the decades. Critics refute a lot of it, but offer no alternatives. A lot of rhetoric but no specific, actionable details.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:28 PM
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Heard. Those "better" women are uglier, more prudish, shun sexuality until they themselves reach a point of horyness and loneliness and then they themselves select for a a guy to casually fuck ( a guy who often falls faaaaaaaaaaaaar short of their strict list of things they are looking for LTR ) but then turn around to have the audacity to demand more from future guys than the guys they selected for something short term to fuck. Come on, get over yourselves women. The jig is up. Even the most bl…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:27 PM
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Yeah, no it's not photographic, but it's pretty exceptional. You call it stewing, but it's more like... a long list of proof of the ways women who I've been interested in have behaved. That story doesn't even scratch the surface, I "stew" ( the word I'd use is 'ruminate' ) about much bigger things than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:19 PM
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She came in knowing there was no possibility for a romantic/sexual connection in which my behavior, my very asking her out was implicit and explicitly about.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:13 PM
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Me having a great ability to recall and remember things is not strange. It's fucking normal to have working memory, I didn't fucking wake and bake my brain cells to death like many people I grew up with. Yeah, I had the one model prefer the first flip phone, it was a brick. In blue. I remember it being free with the plan. It wasn't that expensive. It had a flashing light on the top left of the unit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:09 PM
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Not at all. At least both people came in to having a fun, consensual sexual experience together, and one party doesn't wish to continue. Who's at fault here?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:06 PM
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Oh are those the girls who wear the new Kansas City jerseys with "Taylor" or "Kelce" on the back, loudly cheering that the 'Chefs' are, like, so great?!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:03 PM
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Am I not suppose to? It was pretty shitty.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:01 PM
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As a person who loves to look at the extremes and see if there's something to glean from it, cases like those really help delve deep into the mind of women. The most jaw dropping is the Mary Kay Letourneau case. Some days I wonder about the 4 children she had with her previous relationship, what the ex husband has been doing since, her current 2 teenage children she had with the 6th grader, how the attraction process played out internally for Mary, just all of it is so... fascinating.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 02:54 PM
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Am man. It's despicable. Fortunately I only had this happen to me once. I no longer do any initial "food" date with a woman ever since. And if new woman suggests it, I strongly put her in the "only good enough for a fuck" category, if she makes it that far. My slip up was way back in the late 90s, this girl was gorgeous. Perfect curvaceous body. Pretty face. Studied at NYU. I was proud of myself for having the boldness to connect with her and ask her out. That she said yes immediately made me th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 02:50 PM
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No... sexting is about trying to turn each other on and with suggestive and detailed txts describing what one is going to do with the other. Talking about sex is ... talking about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 08:05 PM
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No one said anything about sexting or any guarantees of sex on the first date. It was general talking about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 07:47 PM
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Why is it a turn off, especially if you open the door by admitting that you're open to casual sexual relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 07:02 PM
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Another match, another quick unmatch. Women just are allergic to talk about sex plainly and frankly, it's so exhasuting.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 06:32 PM
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First of all, never go out anywhere with the sole intention of picking up women. They will smell it on you from miles away. This is so wild to read. As if a man having the intention of looking for a romantic/sexual connection with a woman is such a bad thing. When women are horny, or want to go out expressly with the intention to find a guy, that is ok. Talk about fucked up double standards...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 04:55 PM
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Most men are fucking and in relationships. No. They're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 03:08 PM
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fascinating. So not even in the minority of being a sex worker, but being into a smaller minority in that minority. You of course can appreciate that you speaking from your personal experience is going to hit wildly different to a great majority of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:29 PM
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I wouldn't go as far as to say invalid, but definitely in the minority. I particularly appreciate it because I have my very own "scientific method" to reach my own conclusions about things. In short, it's to consider the question from the bellcurves of extremes, and compare the extreme version of something to it's median experience. If you remove the difference between the two, you get to the truth. Or at least closer to it. You're experience is pumping high volume of sexually motivated men, usi…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:15 PM
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This one's not my cup of tea, but displaying signs of monkey branching. Gauging your interest and then complaining about her relationship, looking to be persuaded to leave. That's not 100% green enough. She could just be looking to vent with no other intentions. The other two, yeah I can see that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:11 PM
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Yeah there's no rhyme nor reason most times. It leaves the larger group of unsuccessful men really confused and self doubting. I think I've just mentally checked it off as woman being random and incoherent. It's the only way to make sense of "why him and not me". Otherwise it's years of rumination.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:50 PM
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You're underselling it. We guys eat shit sandwiches every day since we've been alive, and we're expected to smile and go "mmmmm" and not complain loudly about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:29 PM
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Thanks for contributing. I always suspected that women sex workers have a very unique perspective to sex, attraction and love.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:18 PM
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Yes! Although I've had a hurtful story about this flag. I was 16 years old once, and my cousin was visiting from a different country. He was 14. We went to a a super large mixed party and a girl caught my eye, also 16. We're all talking and my cousin leaves, and the girl turns to her other girls and loudly says "i want to suck his (my younger cousins) dick". I felt so low, and sick to my stomach, I turned away and walked out of the party. Stuck to being outside just shaking my head. My younger c…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:11 PM
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Trick or treat suckers. I woke up this morning wanting to do more of a treat post after seeing so many ugly post titles with awful comments on PPD that I wanted to shift gears today a bit. Women have over complicated and obfuscated the conversation of attraction, sex, and love. I'm loving the refocus of nailing down what behavior, or pattern of behavior, definitely signal a woman's romantic/sexual interest in a man. Too many times guys have confused smiling, flirting, light touch, and hanging ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:40 PM
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The fuck you talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 06:31 PM
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Agreed. Your best bet is to focus on the profiles that are tagged as "new"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 06:27 PM
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Bingo. Women are not our emotional equals. Even if they somehow were, they don't want to be treated as such.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 03:47 PM
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I intend to elaborate later, busy now. But wow your simple takes aren't cutting it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 03:35 PM
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Yeah, it really is. The socio economic, education, and life experience discrepancy between the sexes cannot be understated or dismissed. It is materially impacting dating and fucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 03:31 PM
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I don't want to be normal? Wtf are you talking about. I hung out with old friends. Met new people. I people watched. I observed. What you're reading on PPD is the real life POVs men have observed. Don't get it twisted.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 03:23 PM
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It's a lot more nuanced than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 03:21 PM
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Agreed. From the originals like Mystery, all the way to Roosh, there is a crisis and break from their own wisdom and content. I attribute this to highly intelligent and architect minded men, who were unsuccessful with women and then learned to become successful with them, "breaks" their inner soul and they cannot confront the truth they learned. It would be a moment of existential crisis precipitated by "the truth" (the knowledge) and time (their own mortality/advancing age/approaching physical …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 03:17 PM
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Mostly agree, but the scene has mutated into something truly ugly. The wealth inequality, which was always there lurking the in the background, is omnipresent and inescapable! And it goes beyond fashion, recreation, and hobbies. The gap is monstrously large. Literally a handful at the top, and everyone else servicing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 03:04 PM
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At the risk of doxxing myself, fun fact. I was born and raised in manhattan, and lived in brooklyn for many years. And fuck no, Jersey is the garbage state, not part of NYC. Also Staten Island, no one is crossing the Verrazano for nasty republican pussy, and Bronx arguably shouldn't count. A whole lot of garbage there. When I say NYC, I mean the city, Brooklyn, Queens, and the hotties from CT that come down from the metro north.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 02:57 PM
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What an enlightened take.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 02:43 PM
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I love people who not only are familiar with the bible, understand the contexts surrounding it. But these feeble minded sheeple don't have the faculty, nor the attention span, to fully understand wisdom.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 02:43 PM
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Just came back from a weekend trip to NYC. What. a. shitshow. I didn't know how bad the dating and mating environment was there, but it left me mouth wide open. It's so fucked. Want to post in detail, but a bit strapped for time this morning.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 02:39 PM
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You're so paternity-negative. A better reframe is, I want to be certain that our child is ours.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 09:04 PM
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about $55 USD. I'd gladly pay it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 09:04 PM
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it's going to be way lower for the general population Not necessarily. After receiving some eye opening results, there seemed to be a strong "don't ask/don't tell" policy generations ago. Women got away with A LOT. It was in there best interest to take secrets to the grave. In other words, women are reluctant about being transparent about paternity, more recently evidenced by the popular reddit post. Cavaet Emptor, gentleman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 09:03 PM
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I disagree. Paternity verification should be able to be done at any time, place, context. Point blank.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 08:59 PM
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A very elaborated response, thank you. It'd like to add the cherry on top that as fickle and mercurial a woman's sex drive is, it gets problematic when that same woman starts to demand higher levels time,attention,resources,commitment or some other ephemeral value need to progress a relationship into something sexual when she in her past was all to willing, and eager, to fuck far substandard men that didn't have to jump through any hoops just because she was horny. It's an insult to the man she …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 08:58 PM
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It's chilling. The masses are starting to wake up. We can't have that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 08:53 PM
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LOL the ministry of speech deems the conversation about looks to be "out of bounds" as it relates to attraction. How chilling.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 08:52 PM
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Jada Pinkett's "entanglement" You mean how her son's friend's cock got randomly entangled in her mouth? LOL. Your CMV does bring up the interesting question. Imagine a world in which all men were to be made fully aware of any woman's past, context and all. How drastic would the mass narrative shift? Would we finally be closer to truly seeing a woman's machinations, how would that change society? I venture to say, quite a bit. Women guard their proclivities so tightly to their chest. I wonder.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 08:49 PM
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LOL she shared that some random same night got to smash. This guy got played like a SUCKER.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 07:02 PM
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I know. It's so pathetic. It's chambers like PPD and women with this severe Madonna/Whore complex that really confuse innocent men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 07:02 PM
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Just read a post under "AITAH" about a guy seeing a girl for 3 months without sex, and she unprompted shared with him how she enjoyed having random one night stands and fWbs. What. a. sucker. LOL, i couldn't help but laugh/cry.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:36 PM
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Yes you're talking about "anchoring" a woman in a very heightened state. The only thing "dark" about it is that it is a subset of intentional manipulation that, honestly, is a waste of time and effort on most women. It's the type of imagination building Casanova would engage in, but that is SO much work and effort, that you really need to have high level of skills in deception, intrigue, mis and disinformation. That level of effort is wasted on the common woman. Arguably you use it on "high valu…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:44 PM
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What you wrote reminds me of this interesting quirk with women; When a woman likes you, you can do no wrong. When a woman doesn't like you, nothing you do is right.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:39 PM
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If the fat comes with a DDD+ tits, i can make myself get hard for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:36 PM
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Just saw my friend today. Reminds you guys are hopelessly naïve, ignorant, and out of touch with high libido peoples. Damn life is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:31 PM
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Chad still rocks it at age 50. By then, the highest libido women finally relent and admit to how things really are behind closed bedroom doors.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 08:34 PM
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I think you're trying to speak to the point that there is a concerted effort, by many entities, to discourage men from trying to initiate sexual/romantic attention towards unknown women outside. Yes that part is true. What I don't believe to be true is the concept of verbal consent. Human spoken language is, at worst, 150,000 years old. Humans, and our human like ancestors have been walking the earth for millions of years. Are you telling me that ALL sexual encounters prior to language were unwa…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 07:22 PM
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Say I live a life lived in perfect rectitude, above reproach. What exactly is my reward? A gold star?? A pat on the head?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 06:41 PM
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No. It's a sad appeal to try and shake low libido, women supremely disinterested in the majority of men to change their ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 06:26 PM
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Of course not. What we're debating is the MO and thought process and implications behind it. Those motivations and agendas are gendered. I don't know why everyone is eager to deny it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 06:24 PM
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I have. Which leads me to, hey this is life. Anything goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:10 PM
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lol you stop it. I played a part in it, but she was going to do it with or without me. That's her playing the lead part.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:50 PM
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Yeah. Says the guy that has no qualms about fucking married women. What's true is true, whether said from Buddha or a conman.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:19 PM
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I don't think it ever did. That's the delusion that needs to be disabused out of most men. Women are not the "fairer" sex. They are not more virtuous or "more than" men. They are different, with often competing motivations and agendas. They are adversaries, at school, at work, in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:17 PM
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Why depressed son?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:08 PM
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When she decided to end it, and cut full contact, I accepted it immediately, without any pleading or negotiation. She is now living her "best" life, a family of four now, with wonderful photos of happy times plastered all over facebook and instagram. I occasionally feel odd and wonder about the husband, his smile beaming to his beautiful wife. I don't think he has any idea. What sweet bliss...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:08 PM
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I initially wanted that, but as I've grown older and became wise to the sexual lives of the women around me, it definitely dampened my fairy tale idea of life long committed romance. Look, I'm a pragmatist. Women gonna behave a certain way, I'm going to adapt.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:06 PM
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That's fine. But there's a weird arrogance as if you know everything and that you're the ultimate arbitrator of what's right and what is wrong in the universe. I'll save you years of meditation, you're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:03 PM
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That's just the rub. There is no morality. It's all relative. It's honest and dishonest signaling, but ultimately it's meaningless.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:02 PM
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LOL. I disagree I'm exactly the type of guy who can approach this sort of conversation given the types of things I have experienced with women first hand. That was her problem, not mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:02 PM
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Once women own up to, and are transparent about, the type of men they select to have sexual relations with, then I'll stop "blaming" them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:01 PM
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And, well, cheating alone is a valid reason for a breakup or divorce. I would've agreed with you from ages 15-35, but I just don't anymore. Life is long, our sex drives are all different, and we are ever changing in new and unexpected ways. You're position is too black and white, and life just isn't that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:59 PM
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Suck as much? Debatable. It's within my code of ethics, I told her that things would feel better if she opened up to him and told him she wanted to open up the marriage/tell him about me. She didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:57 PM
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If you're referring to the husband, yeah I don't know. I do not believe he ever fooled around, but not for lack of wanting but lack of opportunity. He let himself go. In many ways. She was the primary breadwinner and he was a seasonal worker. It weighed on the marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:56 PM
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Yeah. I was single at the time. The onus is on women to not spread their legs eagerly to every guy she gets horny for.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:55 PM
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I was single at the time. Perfectly fine for me. She was going to do it anyway, either it was going to be with me or someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:53 PM
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We do. But we don't fucking fall in love with the other woman and blow up LTRs over it. They're just for fun, a passing indulgence. You all fucking women start feeling like the sidepiece is your soulmate. Fucking delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:52 PM
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Reading over many of the paternity posts has me shaking my head. It reminds me of one time I befriended a woman working at a retail store. I told her I wanted to get to know her more without realizing she was married, with 2 kids. She gave me her contact anyway... fast forward a couple of months and we're fucking all over the US as she traveled a lot for work. They paid for her flights and hotel. We very quickly moved from being safe and protected to ... not. She had no interest in leaving her h…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:45 PM
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As I've grown older I'm amazed at how many of my fWbs that have been single for long stretches of time, find a guy that they want to get "serious" with, give me the pink slip, but come around a couple of weeks later. Doesn't matter if they ultimately broke up with him, and on a few occasions, continue to see him "seriously" but we continue to fuck. With and without his knowledge. I'm more blown away at the occasions it's with his knowledge. What a lack of healthy ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:36 PM
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If she fucked everyone and gives me even the slightest reluctance, I'm out. Also, if she fucks guys who are gross/so low level, I just can't fuck her because I question her selectivity ( or lack thereof).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:33 PM
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LOL funny you mention Lena, saw a recent image of her; jesus fucking christ.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:32 PM
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No. Just that her face in that video. It's how the majority of women walk about town. It's understood to be "don't bother me".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:47 PM
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It already is normal. A large portion of the older single women I match with on Bumble and Hinge are proud to be single, independant, with their golden boy/cat(s). Thing is they have men 10+ years younger for when they want to fuck and want to feel their hole filled on their phone at the ready. Let me tell you it feels really great going on dates with these kinds of women. Yup, real prizes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:43 PM
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sigh. Yeah her face says it all
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:41 PM
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Ketchup and black pepper, duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:15 PM
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Also it was a logical fallacy. If a girl would ever behave nicely and kindly to me, I would be more open to considering her a romantic/sexual partner. Judging from your statement, apparently that feeling is one sided.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:15 PM
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Lets call it 10%. Still not tiny.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 07:47 PM
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Some statistical models suggest that 25% of presumed fathers are not. That's not tiny, at least not in my book.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 07:43 PM
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I bet he wakes up feeling like the luckiest guy in the world. I'm happy for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 06:48 PM
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I do. I just value being certain than just relying on faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:58 PM
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Yes, women are very adept at concealing things. But I'm not totally bereft of social acumen. I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:58 PM
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Hey as long as it doesn't burden my taxes, you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:56 PM
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is your bf the father of the child?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:52 PM
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Potato, Tomato. But yeah, she should leave him asap. What a headache.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:50 PM
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Out of the long list of legitimate things a woman can leave a man for, everything else being perfect ( he treats her as a "human being", didn't cheat, etc etc ), insisting on a paternity test is soooooooooooooooooooooooo low on the list to break up over. But if that's the straw that breaks the camel's back for her, yes this union wasn't ever going to last. Because it wasn't this, it'd be some other minor thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:43 PM
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literally yes. I have witnessed, experienced it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:37 PM
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completely made up LOL, just sit on the redline every morning to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:31 PM
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It means I trust, but want it verified. I want to be certain.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:30 PM
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It means I want to be assured about lineage. Who knows if God interfered and it's the next messiah.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:29 PM
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I characterize it as more "Trust, but verify". One would think that you're loving partner and life mate would be neutral to eager to assuage that concern. But a hysterical unhinged hate for the mere suggestion of it? It tells me she's hiding something and/or she isn't playing with a full deck of cards.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:23 PM
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Agreed. One thing I pat myself on the back for is not treating women any more special than a man. Only thing is, that also doesn't work in attracting women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:13 PM
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"I feel violated and betrayed and used." She is this unhinged because her husband just wanted to verify biological relation to the child? Jesus she's fucking unhinged.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:12 PM
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Sure that's the low hanging fruit. The part we haven't resolved is how women claim it's these extra things that swings the pendulum for them to select a man for sex, yet those very same men are ... lame.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:41 PM
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Yeah. It sounds like most women do not have the same mechanism of attraction to most men. Or at least, not like how my sexual attraction and desire has been for me throughout life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:36 PM
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I'm a year away from being 50. Arguably I've already lived 3 distinct lives. Young and in NYC, middle aged and traveling and living in Paris, London, Madrid for a hot second. And now, living in the most passive aggressive part of the US. I can't say I "chased" forever. What I can say is I've tried to "chase" understanding. A unifying understanding, and trying to communicate that understanding to others. Unfortunately, it often is communicating to others that don't want to hear it, don't care abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:32 PM
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Yes... the first thought is "wonder if we are compatible". It's interesting how many women claim this thought, and that you all prefer not to fuck men who are cheaters, republicans, are conspiracy nuts, and are all around not normal, good, kind, well adjusted people... yet its exactly those kinds of men that I have observed, for almost a full lifetime, have a disproportionate amount of sexual and romantic success over someone like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:14 PM
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I'm doing my part, I already do. Currently my own path for finding potential sexual/romantic interests comes from online dating platforms. I have to say it's made regular day to day life really unfun and cold. But hey, that's what y'all wanted, right.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:00 PM
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One possible solution? Honest and frank conversations about women's sexual selection process. Even if it's just "teehee, I just fuck when I feel like it, guy happened to be at the right place, at the right time". It drops this vague idea that women have a higher morality or code of ethics when it comes to choosing the guy they end up fucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:45 PM
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But what we shouldn’t support is delusions. If you know deep down in your heart of hearts, that the kind of partner you want would not want to date a person like you, I think that’s the right time to re-evaluate your standards. I love everything you said but I would rephrase this as "If you know deep down in your heart of hearts have experienced that the kind of partner you want wouldhas not want to date a person like you, while you have slept with him, I think that’s the right time to re-evalua…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:42 PM
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This basically confirms that men do in fact see women - particularly sexually desirable women - as objects they can acquire and use. That's not the final conclusion I'd arrive to. I look at sexually desirable women and think, yes, she is sexually arousing and I'd love to have sex with her and have a good and fun time. I have to ask you; you see a sexually desirable man, is your first thought really, "gee, I wonder how he treats his ex girlfriends, does he like guinea pigs? I wonder what his favo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:40 PM
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That's curious because the way it looks like the majority of women treat the majority of men is to look away when they pass by the street, school, and basically ignore them, or softly sigh as if men's physical presence is an inconvenience in their day. Q4W: Should men mirror this behavior under the umbrella of treating women "as human beings" ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:37 PM
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As someone who experienced the dating landscape pre social media/pre smartphone... it was definitely different and arguably better for the normal guy. A man was battling a handful of other guys in proximity to the girl he liked. Now? He's battling the every real, and imaginary, male option for a girl within a 50 mile radius. Plus Saudi oil money, east coast investment banker bros, West Coast guys in the Hollywood industry and/or stupid ass Disc Jockeys from Miami/their moms garage. I remember it…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 08:36 PM
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You can wife a hoe, but you're going to be sorry you did.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:22 PM
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There are many reasons, but if I had to pick the main one it's this: Most men are emotionally and socially stunted and did not develop in the expected neurotypical way from ages 0-12. The problem then compounded with extremely mixed mixed messaging coming from family, friends, school, religion, and mass media. Boys were given no framework in which to understand the world through a dispassionate, objective lens.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:21 PM
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The typical, middle of the bellcurve heterosexual men is getting laid and has a girlfriend/wife. “he has experienced hundreds, thousands, tens of thousands of rejections, throughout his formative life” is not normal because most Western guys get laid by age 16. You’re already talking about extreme cases. You're out of touch. Are you not on PPD? Look around you. Most western guys are not getting laid by age 16. I recognize I was a late bloomer, my first sexual experience was at 20. And I was the …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:13 PM
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Let’s look at some popular incels: Elliot Rodger, Chris Chan, and Yandere Dev. Popular? Elliot Rodger was back in 2014. That's almost ten years ago. He was a short loser with entitlement issues, agreed. his parents did him no favors by being emotionally neglectful and papering over "love" with money. I have no idea who Chris Chan is, initial google searches keep referring to her, when it's very clearly a him. My initial impression is that this reads as an EXTREME outlier, Norman Bates level weir…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:48 PM
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Welcome to universe 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:23 PM
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If these guys would get their lives together and stop thinking about pussy for once, they would probably get a love life too. That's simply not true. Worse boys and men, males in their age peer group that fall far short of being holistically complete humans get to experience relationships/sex. This idea that if they only "worked on themselves more, they are clearly the obstacle getting in the way of "success"" needs to stop. No, they probably wouldn't get a love life if they "improved", the fran…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:17 PM
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It's more than that. Women not having empathy for men is their right. It's becoming problematic when women complain about unsuccessful men and offer NO remedies or solutions, nor do they talk about sex, love and attraction in a unifying theme of it's workings. It's making fun of a captain lost out in sea, who was pushed out of his home country by indifferent and neglectful parents, laughing at his misery and lack of success without him having a map or a clue and then saying "aw, poor baby, you d…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:04 PM
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I agree that they have a legitimate concern of "fucking things up" by their severe lack of experience. It's social/emotional arrested development. The older a man is without experience, the more it impacts his life negatively in many areas of life. Also, I am thirsty for you AF, PM me dammnit. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:01 PM
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Speaking from experience, a funny thing happens after a couple hundred rejections both big and small. A man begins to notice that women lie. They lie so much. That begins to not matter, but what does begin to matter is that a woman's feelings are so mercurial and random, one moment they can be wailing an inconsolable cry as if the universe and all of creation were about to end and then literally the next moment smile and laugh as if nothing happened and all is well, like the garden of eden has r…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:59 PM
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My god, reading some of PPD's most recent posts makes me seriously question y'all's critical thinking and reading skills. God damn on so many points. Women have truly overcomplicated the conversation about sex, love, and attraction. One thing that really stands out to me is how the women on PPD expect sexually/romantically unsuccessful men to be chill and normal after he has experienced hundreds, thousands, tens of thousands of rejections, throughout his formative life, and expect him to be rela…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:48 PM
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Close enough brother! im you, but introverted
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 01:42 PM
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That's some real INTJ energy you giving off.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 04:38 PM
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Got it. Yeah it's 50-50. Just ask directly if you can smash at hers or have a beer.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 03:05 PM
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Are you actually trying to fuck on first meeting?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 02:37 PM
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You know it. I just watched a youtube video of this knees over toes guy and I have to say I'm impressed with his work.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 02:36 PM
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Women say to look for signals to approach, yet there are no universal signals to approach a woman Incorrect. While it may seem as if there are no universal signals as the social norms of a place and era dictate what's appropriate for a woman to signal, there are in fact universal signals that have transcended time and history. You can read up on what those specific signals are by Leil Lowndes seminal book "Undercover Sex Signals...". I strongly recommend you read it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 02:35 PM
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We are the outlier rats in the utopia experiment.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 05:08 PM
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I too am still trying to figure out why Taylor Swift is such a big deal. I just don't see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 04:55 PM
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I believe sex is an integral part of a having a happy, healthy and fulfilling life. It has been a revelation to me reading some of the women on PPD describe how little importance they find attraction, chemistry and sex. It leads me to believe that the old adage that "there's millions of fish in the sea" is misleading. There is not an abundance of sexually open, sexually desirable women for men. In fact it's just the opposite. Sex positive women are limited, in short supply, the window to catch a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 02:47 PM
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No, of course not. But I do think there needs to be a consistency of behavior, a rationale, or at least an internal "code" that she lives by and is able to articulate. Because if there isn't any, or a weak one at that, it devolves society. It devolves society because if women aren't be held "accountable" for their behavior, more men will start adopting that kind of selfish, narcissistic behavior unchecked, it becomes a palpable dangerous societal atmosphere.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 02:33 PM
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It blew my mind watching this morning's news about an Israeli 13 year old that survived an attack on her town. Many things struck me about the interview.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 02:29 PM
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Speaking from personal experience, I do believe that men that are sexually unsuccessful with women around their own age, but their first romantic/sexual experiences happen to be with significantly older women, develop a more "real" (grounded, rational) sense of the current dating/sexual marketplace. At the same time, I do believe it solidifies a certain sadness and cheerlessness in men who go through this that I'm not sure is ever shaken off in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 02:25 PM
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We know already, it's not a single signal but clusters of it. And even then it can be a "no".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:52 PM
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how others feel about you. What many people feel about something doesn't make it true. Humans have such a poor way of feeling things out, prone to disinformation and awful in their first impression, quick cold reads.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:49 PM
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maybe a more accurate #2 is 2 No matter how much women deny it, most women want the optionality of being able to get married without shame or judgement or questions about her sexual past.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:47 PM
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I try not to! But the men that did and got theirs... like well... they were more effective. And after the deed, women don't seem to care.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:44 PM
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it’s fun but the deeper emotional connection is what people really want. The problem arises that women will have sex with men under the guise of a deeper emotional connection, except the man doesn't feel that way about it. Or he did and changed his mind. It really makes most reasonable men to consider not being so openly direct about being open to casual. He paints himself into a corner.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:42 PM
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Yeah no doubt. There just isn't enough sexually desirable women who are open to casual sex with many different types of men. This fact flies in the face of "there's millions of fish in the sea". It's like no, there isn't enough women. Or perhaps better said, there's simply too many men...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:28 PM
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I love reading this. Sometimes I wonder if interest "intensity" is wildly different between man and woman. Woman seem to be perfectly content with their interest being unfulfilled, and move on from it in a seconds notice. Woman's interest doesn't seem to carry a lot of power or "weight" behind it. Feels flimsy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 05:03 PM
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ok that's fair. It sounds like you've been consistent and thoughtful about it whilst not being hypocritical. I wish more women were like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 04:55 PM
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That's cool and all but it makes me wonder; what are the type of men you have had sex with. What do they look like/what was the context.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 02:35 PM
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You seem to be stating it as if it isn't reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:53 PM
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So you think just brute force, raw exposure is going to improve results. From personal experience through social media platforms and dating apps... for a regular guy, it doesn't work that way. A guy has to chew through hundreds of thousands to make about 50 legitimately ok options. The volume is simply too much for the mental and emotional psyche for already rejected men. What you're suggesting is emotionally exhausting to the nth degree. I know, because I've done it for many years.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:22 PM
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And yet gender reassignment surgery is totally ok...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:09 PM
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Do…do you want to attract the type of girl who likes serial killers? I think it's getting to the point of most sexually unsuccessful men to be like "Whelp, who I am isn't working with the normal part of the bellcurve. If I want to change my luck, I need to start looking well outside of it. " I can't blame the rationale.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:07 PM
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I know what you're trying to say. Recently saw a post on popular about a 23 year old female teacher get convicted for raping a 13 year old boy. Keep in mind that she was married with two children. The teacher is attractive. There is no way in hell a 13 year old has any masculine adult features, game, status, financial power, emotional or mental power to project to attract. It makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:06 PM
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Maybe. But that's a direct result from women. I haven't married, have no kids, keep up in good health, financially... woof. Few of my age and profession peers can compare. So the truth is, many women in my potential dating pool carry infinitely more baggage in comparison. So... this is kinda where we're at.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:57 PM
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Sure. But so far that's unhelpful. What is it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:42 PM
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I guess. I'm not seeing it. It's not looks, age, height, financial power, or even openness and relative intelligence. Maybe agreeableness. But I think that's offset by a lot of life baggage they carry while I carry next to none.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:41 PM
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There was a long stretch of time in which I was very unsuccessful with women. That somehow means that they thought I was even worse than substandard. Curious, because even at my "worst", I was not terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:40 PM
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Then there's a serious mismatch on how we are appraising value.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:38 PM
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I guess so. Frustrating as a previously unsuccessful man that had to throw himself hard at the gym, and really worked hard with my mental models, only to see these soft, goofy, not serious guys get the nod. I was silly, wide eyed and enthusiastic when I was younger, that didn't work so well for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:35 PM
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that's normal. Is it though? Either you are off base, or they are. It's a question of whose reality is really ringing true.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:23 PM
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Then I'm a fucking goat, cuz when I'm hungry, I am hungry. I can stomach a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:22 PM
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Women can have a broad variety in what they find attractive even if a lot of men here refuse to believe it. There seemed to be a positive consensus. I just don't see it. They are actively unattractive, and the implications are unsettling.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:21 PM
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Is it really though? These guys don't pass muster. Women, a majority it seems, can have high consensus on men they deem attractive that a majority of men can convincingly prove they aren't. Which raises the issue that what women can be seduced, quite easily, by really substandard men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:18 PM
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Sure. The big implication is that women can leave their current partners for ... really substandard men. Men who just simply don't pass muster.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:17 PM
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As a straight man from a culture in which men know fashion and how to style, I can recognize when a man is attractive. These guys aren't it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:16 PM
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I mean fuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuck. What can possibly be on the subjective side that can push them over the line.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 02:48 PM
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It's not that I don't think they are attractive. I saw the photos and I know they aren't attractive. Yes, it is bizarre that there is high agreement among her friends that they are. I can only come to the conclusion that they need to get their eyes checked. Something is really off.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 02:46 PM
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When you're starving, even bad pizza is good pizza, sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 02:44 PM
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har har har. guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 02:38 PM
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It's more than that. What most men are trying to sell, women aren't buying. Men have to improve the product, themselves, first.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 02:38 PM
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It's unrealistic for everyone to get laid regularly outside of a steady relationship, in general. It's unrealistic for everyone regular to below median men to get laid regularly outside of a steady relationship, in general. FTFY
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 02:37 PM
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I had an eye opening conversation with one of my fWbs yesterday that really left me saddened. Leave it to PPD to have a post adjacent to it titled "Guys, it’s actually weird to be willing to sleep with any woman that is attractive". My friend intimated her feelings and her emotional world, things revolving around the time we first got together. I was under a different impression of things. I am shocked at the counsel she received from her long time friends, who urged her in certain directions. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 02:30 PM
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Not only that, some of the responses here are really blowing my mind. If it's not dumbfuck explicit, nothing is valid. Signaling doesn't mean anything. Apparently hearsay is dumb and of no use. I don't know if it's just ambient temperature IQ people or what, but people are just not critical thinkers.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 04:16 PM
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Decades. And wow. The way you gloss over things having to always being verbally explicit, and anything that isn't doesn't signal mean or signal anything, is really disturbing. Not everything should be spelled out in legalese.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 04:09 PM
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No, I can just tell that you gloss over signaling, think gossip is dumb and of no use. It makes me seriously question how to reason with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 04:05 PM
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Is your IQ below 115? Not an insult, genuinely curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:58 PM
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You're right on a technicality . It's the morality of it that I question. it's purposely misleading. And why would you denigrate gossip? Information, disinformation and attempted reputation destruction are incredible sources of teasing out the truth about things, it's spycraft 101.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:48 PM
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I don't know anymore. Apparently if I yell hard enough, I can be an angry old black woman and no one would be able to disabuse me of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:38 PM
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You really can't see what's in front of you? Are you unable to digest disparate sources of data and reach a reasonable conclusion??
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:36 PM
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Five gay men fucked her ass, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:34 PM
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I was having sex with someone I thought, it seemed, was trending towards being in a serious relationship with. It says a lot. "Speak, so that I may see thee". Information came out in a multitude of ways. People talk. Since the times of people chronicling infidelities on stone tablets in ancient Egypt and before.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:33 PM
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And that's the worst, massaging the narrative so that they get maximum... what? Attention or ... I don't know what it is what most women crave.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:31 PM
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LOL, nah. My villain story is more like the movie "Little Women", but my Jo ended up gangbanging 5 gay men a week after having rejected me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:30 PM
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She made no mention of it. Thanks, but the point is that women have over complicated and put all these arbitrary boundaries to sex that they themselves don't observe. Women have created this mess. Men are only incentivized or disincentivized on how to "play the game".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:15 PM
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I was going more with this idea; it was the first time in human history that the masses got a more unfiltered view of the lifestyles of people richer than they were, and the magnitude of that wealth difference. Prior to the TV, it was difficult to comprehend for the average person that it seemed like a fairytale. It was so far from a shared human experience that most people couldn't fathom. And most lived full lives not even thinking about it for a second. TV was the first gateway into seeing ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:09 PM
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Morning thought today was; I feel a new level of bad for the late teens, early 20 something guy who is sexually and romantically unsuccessful. They intense struggle is with starting an ember of interest and sex, which is supposed to be the easiest part of the mating and dating dance. At the risk of being too vulnerable, I'll open up and admit one of my many fucks ups with women. Back when I was in my young 20s, pre internet, a girl actually approached me. She opened me with a hello, and we start…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:04 PM
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Wrong. The downfall began when Teevee sets became affordable enough that almost every household had at least one.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:33 PM
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https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-state-of-our-unions/202302/why-are-so-many-young-men-single-and-sexless?amp 2023 recent enough for you? Can you not see the multiyear/decade trend
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 11:07 PM
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https://news.iu.edu/live/news/26924-nearly-1-in-3-young-men-in-the-us-report-having-no And consider that 33% is the propaganda number. It’s understated. It’s in fact, more.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:33 PM
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You need to open your eyes. I can assure you that the rhetoric has only increased throughout the years. I would pin the start of the serious increase of disaffected male chatter to 2000. Back then, it was just murmurs and confusion, a mass of men from all ages and walks of life comparing notes. Today, it’s become fully fleshed out group of men who started with mystery, who continued on. From the old Sosuuave message forums to full tomes of books like the book of pook, the rational male, the mans…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:12 AM
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In this day and age, no teen or preteen have blinders on anymore. They know the risks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:46 PM
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Ah, the arrogance of youth. We'll see.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:40 PM
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is a delusion stems from a glaring lack of statistical understanding and rash generalizations from limited real-life observations. No. I am almost 50 years old, and I have kept all manner of second hand accounts, many confirmed first hand, about how woman have dated and mated, across the whole socioeconomic spectrum. I also have a unique point of view of having witnessed the transition from pure analog to the current era, across many large metropolitan cities, both here in the US and abroad. You…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:27 PM
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I get your PSA, but remembering being a young guy myself, and weighing the risks and rewards I was extremely black and white back then and went firmly no. Knowing what I know now, I'm not so sure. There is a strong case to be made that the candle that twice as fast at least burns twice as bright. Every boy and man needs to look himself in the mirror and think real hard about whether it's worth it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:24 PM
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There is a large, and ever increasing amount of young men, and former young men transitioning into older age, who are sexually and romantically unsuccessful for years. For many, their entire lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:19 PM
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Absolutely. Like in the movie "Her", Ai can have a great capacity to be a neutral observer and "reflect" a man's emotions back to him as he is progressing through it. Arguably, it would develop more emotionally mature men. That may be too much for a normal woman to handle though. Yes, women complain. I think their most compelling argument of always hating men approaching, complimenting and trying to escalate on them is because men find them sexually desirable. And most women seem to agree to loa…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:01 PM
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The blind leading the blind. My friend group when i was in my teens had zero clue. Today: there are literal living TOMES of knowledge, bourne out of so much firsthand experience and deep insights by notable thinkers and master of the craft of seduction. 35 years ago, all we had, if you were lucky, were the old tales and book about Casanova. And one had to mine like a motherfucker to tease out the bigger truths embedded in the stories. I'll admit, it has been fun going back to the early seduction…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:54 PM
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It's insane. What I think the crux of the issue is, what men and women can't find a common unifying answer is... what does sex mean to you and what it means to everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:39 PM
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As opposed to be reasonably questioning the current sexual paradigm, and properly feeling a certain way when most women, those who are open to casual sex, choose to have sex with men that, by many measures, shouldn't be rewarded with sex. And that's the crux of the question. Either sex is something we do for fun, pleasurable, and love is not tied to it in any way or, sex is permanently and undeniably linked to love and a woman only engages in it with an understanding that the connection with tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:39 PM
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This is like the rat utopia experiment, final stages.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:32 PM
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sigh. That just simply isn't true, on multiple levels.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:32 PM
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I'm glad you used the word misogynist. Can you believe that comment section of that post about a woman sharing her past sexual experience, then getting all upset because the guy pulled away because of it. He just didn't want to get serious with a woman who has participated sexually in that way. That's his prerogative. But no, according to most women, that's misogyny. It's fucking wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:31 PM
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Absolutely. If AI can ever get to a point of logic/rationalization sophistication like what was portrayed in the movie "Her", I definitely can see sexually/romantically unsuccessful men ( men with these difficulties, I'd argue, are either a whole lot less "social" and/or are very in their heads, intelligent but not emotionally connecting) LOVE AI for it's ability to intellectually connect with him AND be able to elaborate sexual realities in which the other party can never get hurt. And for wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:21 PM
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A brand new store has just opened in New York City that sells Husbands. ​ When women go to choose a husband, they have to follow the instructions at the entrance: "You may visit this store ONLY ONCE! ​ There are 6 floors and the value of the products increase as you ascend the flights. ​ You may choose any item from a particular floor or may choose to go up to the next floor, but you CANNOT go back down except to exit the building!" ​ So, a woman goes to the Husband Store to find a husband. ​ Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:07 PM
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Agreed. It's posts like these that just demonstrate how out of touch the common woman is to the common man. While it's true on the woman's side, it's tone deaf to the other side.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:05 PM
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exactly. And if she is high libido, and is open to a lot of casual sex, what is a woman's internal "brake" stopping her from fucking all the attractive guys she feels like doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:01 PM
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Just when I was beginning to have lost hope in gleaning something new, lately I feel like the posts here on PPD and a certain double chromosomal ones have brought up some interesting ideas to talk about. I'm sorry at work but to jot some things down quickly, there is the threesome post, lately a book im reading called 60 years of challenge, (an alleged) woman's take on what is a better escalation ladder for men. Most men, even the sexually successful I have seen, have a rough unsophisticated pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 02:47 PM
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Do what you feel like is natural to you. I get what you mean, but no. Many men do not know what is the natural progression of things, so doing what is "natural" to them doesn't work/isn't effective.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:24 PM
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Until the current dating landscape irrevocably damages the current culture enough to allow a foreign culture (which is usually more strich/heavy handed) to take over.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:06 PM
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Exactly proving my point. If you are that averse to a small physical gesture, you would be absolutely no fun in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:03 PM
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Cool, then you would absolutely not be compatible in the bedroom if you get repelled by such a small act.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:34 PM
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It's fascinating. You really are unable to see how broken and awful most women are, even when I spoon fed you a heaping size of it. Like, is it purposeful that you don't see it, or does it take effort to ignore how random her reaction was?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:09 PM
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I don't get why this concept is hard to grasp. It isn't. But what's the in person filter that a woman isn't attracted to you. What does that physically look like to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 02:58 PM
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Falling silent, looking at her with desire, reaching out and holding her hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 02:56 PM
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I remember reading a story about a longterm girlfriend discovering she had a terminal illness, and having her final months of life in the hospital. Her boyfriend tried his best to be there for her whilst trying to handle the immediate stressors of having to pass important school exams. This boyfriend loved, and cared for her. One day he walks in to her room and she isn't there. She is curled up in another bed, embracing another guy in his room down the hall, who also had a terminal illness. This…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 02:52 PM
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Probably one of the biggest truths that women obfuscate... For a man, there is NO set predefined amount of time you need to "wait" before making a move on a woman. It can be as fast as the first 10 seconds, you don't need to be waiting 25 minutes, thinking you're warming her up to be attracted to you. She either is or isn't at a snap. And if you do encounter a woman that tries to rationalize that you need to wait, or be more patient, I PROMISE you it is 100% not worth that wait. She's trying to …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 02:44 PM
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I suspected, but wanted to hear it from the horse's mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 08:46 PM
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Thank you! That's what I wanted to express but couldn't find the words. I just hinted that we aren't well suited for each other. got unmatched, but really wish i had said what you wrote. ugh, gonna haunt me in bed tonight.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 08:23 PM
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Just matched with a woman, convo seemed good, fun, talk about whatever. She volunteers she left her husband. I ask why. She gets defensive as fuck stating that she should put on her profile that pushing her boundaries is a red flag. Bitch, you volunteered that out of the blue, of course I'm going to show I'm listening by following up with a question about it. How stupid are you..
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 08:18 PM
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It's basically my middle name.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 08:15 PM
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I'd say 5'11", thickly built, about 13%bf, not roided. Face was nothing special, but what the fuck do I know. Women have surprised me with which men they accept as sexual lovers and which they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 08:05 PM
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Yes, because all men who are born are given the manual on how to seduce women from day 1. Get real.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:26 PM
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Equal rights, equal lefts.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 06:19 PM
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Oh a tatted up, unfeminine looking hoebag. I already have better in my rotation, pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 06:11 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 06:10 PM
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I'm glad you found a way to change your frame, but the game is the game no matter what angle you're looking at it from.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 06:09 PM
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Is she a natural redhead, young, with big tits and ass?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 06:07 PM
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I would argue it’s still the same. It's not. Those guys that she never would have come across pre social platforms, those that are between 10~75 miles away are just local enough to come drive and bang her and global enough to see they are higher options than the potential 15-20 new guys she would come across living her normal daily life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 06:06 PM
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And despite this reality, women really expect men to take this all in stride and to behave normally, confidently, without a care in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 05:01 PM
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I think this woman is very representative of the modern, white collar, overeducated, disaffected, regularly attractive white cohort aged 35~50. She can be single or married once. Maybe with a boyfriend. Her life revolves being "sporty" (whether gym, or more likely jogging/running, wearing the local football team jersey/tennis outfit to look cute ). She is eager to be with her close group of girlfriends, brunching and drinking and partying whenever possible. Uploading on insta often, with either …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 04:56 PM
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It truly is upside down clown world.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 03:56 PM
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No. She divorced him after basically prepping and monkey branching to her unrequited college crush. I do know she was a big time lurker on various dating discussion subs, and some select fun subreddits.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 03:20 PM
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lmao. Hey, there's something for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 03:08 PM
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It gets better. After getting really fit and having a couple of surgical enhancements, she reached out to the man she truly "loved", a college sweetheart who visually and socially is a total Chad. I do not believe Chad knows the type of cheating and posts she used to do ( I do believe she stopped, but unsure if she still lurks on reddit). I'd love to say more, but that would really out her, and ultimately me. My point is that the modern american woman's behavior with love and sex is just so ... …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 03:02 PM
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lol. Been having a passport since I was 5. Just reordered, with the extended pages, and popped it's cherry with a stamp last week. I love traveling and do it often, unlike most miserably poor americans.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:58 PM
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It's more like "Women are such lying, duplicitous, vile creatures and I was never allowed to call them out on their lying bullshit like one is able to with other men. Now, handicap is off."
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:56 PM
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They aren't. They are beasts of burden. Wild, uncultured, taking up space that could be better allocated to a truly gorgeous woman. But no they get in the way like a dopey, obese pig that can't walk in a straight line. An abomination.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:48 PM
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I don't and I love rice. The burnt stuff at the bottom is the treat for the low class, poors. I like it fluffy, buttery, tender and delicate.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:46 PM
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I want to agree with you, but can't. I specifically know of a married psychologist who was living the basic ass white girl, kansas city lifestyle. What her husband didn't know was that she was showing off her butthole on reddit, sending nudes on insta (for free), and allowing her personal fitness trainer at the local gym near the light district to fuck her in the ass ( I think she said it was the Genesis club? ) . Despite not initially being a fit, or in the world, she was indeed attracted to mu…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:44 PM
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How can a woman find having sex with a man they find attractive not appealing? How does that even work.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:32 PM
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Can you say that louder for the women in the back that insist Tinder is for serious relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:28 PM
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Starting to think "debating" with the women on PPD is like arguing with the ugly women who are not allowed inside the nightclub by the bouncers, even though it's women get in for free. They have no concept of what most men are talking about, and aren't even fully women themselves. They are the burnt sticky rice at the bottom of the pot, never feeling the tender warm embrace of the perfumed steam that gently cooks the rest of her sisters, her only frame of reference being hot, sweaty and getting …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:25 PM
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And many failings uniquely to being a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:21 PM
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Women only have sex with a man if she's in love with him. L-O-L.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:19 PM
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Mhmm. Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 08:09 PM
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Skimming over XX, and hilariously read a post in which an attractive woman complains about her inability to date. The suggestions poured out are exactly what most RP would advise guys to do. Consider changing locales, get fitter, etc. What's good for the goose, right.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 08:02 PM
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A woman is not entitled to know everything about your personal life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:53 PM
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Maybe. Maybe not. The fact that you blame your own inadequacies and/or struggles on all women is insane. Of course not. If I had to narrow it down, it's against women who are sexually open but rejected me (often times me knowing that they had sex with other men far "worse" than I) and/or when they lie that they are not "that kind of girl" (when I know for certain, or come to find out that yes, they are indeed that kind of girl). But the current dating game dynamic is more a result of women havin…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:52 PM
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I have to agree. I hooked up with a 30 something year old virgin Taiwanese woman. She was religious, but more than that, she was considered "ugly" by her culture, ( she actually had tits and ass when apparently the ideal back in Taiwan is super thin and delicate ). I appreciated her coming from my own culture and personal tastes, and she appreciated that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 03:19 PM
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Real Social Dynamics (Todd) and most recently Stirling Cooper ( who purportedly was a straight male escort for women. ) I believe his unique insight to women can give basic men a framework in which to build around.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 02:10 PM
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My personality was a lot softer, gentle and thoughtful younger. Made no difference
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 09:46 PM
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You're just insecure
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 09:12 PM
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I've been to therapy. I'm no stranger to everyone has a problem, no one is perfect. Maybe I've been rejected too many times, too harshly, by too many small people that I defiantly resist any suggestion that I'm not enough. I was starved and believed more blue pilled ideas when I was younger, woefully ignorant about the truth and the women's attraction process ( or at least, what more often than not is successful for having sex with women ) to try and make myself small and ineffectual again for p…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 08:39 PM
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False. Many men, like me, have gone on countless self improvement cycles of health, wealth and meditation. Because I have done so many of these cycles, as apparently I was not "good enough" for dating and mating, I am far above the median and above average woman as she is to the average man. And somehow despite this, I'm still not enough and deemed "average"? Don't make me laugh, my bank account, the fitness of my body says otherwise. If I account for age, I am the top 1%.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 06:40 PM
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Yes it does matter, their are gradations to things. If something takes minimal effort for an outsized return, it's wiser to do it than not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 06:36 PM
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Talk about subverting expectations, LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 06:19 PM
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What a great observation! Where are the woman insults to other women who fetishize white races? Cricketts. Women are so fucking fake, hypocritical and carry so much A-cup energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 06:11 PM
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Breast augmentation has improved dramatically in the past 10 years, they are incredibly safe. You want to talk about invasive, it's leg lengthening procedures that are all about pain for many months during the recovery. Not only is it excruciating, a man gets to look proportionally odd AND the legs are forever brittle, reducing his athletic performance permanently and inviting currently unknown complications in later life. I get real "a-cup" energy from you, I bet your friends think you're fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 06:10 PM
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LOL. I've put blankets over girls heads.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 06:06 PM
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I don't mind. Beauty lost doesn't mean it never existed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 05:02 PM
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Unless that hot transfer student is servicing more than one guy at a time, it's moot. Only one guy, if that, gets sexual access to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 05:02 PM
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I have no problem whatsoever with taller women. In fact, one of my fWbs is an ex div 1 Lacrosse/Volleyball player and I think she's sexy as hell. It's her issue that she feels a certain way about being seen in public with me, but I have no problem. She isn't taller than me when we're horizontal.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 05:01 PM
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god yes. Do you have any pics? DM me = )
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:59 PM
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No, i judge them for not addressing and taking care of their bodies when they totally can. A man cannot easily and safely change his height. There's a large distinction.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:56 PM
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I call bullshit. Men aren't that flighty about it. I, and all of the guys i know, have behaved similarly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:54 PM
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Definitely support it. Technology has come a long way. Funnily enough, most of my sexual partners have had to have reductions. Even after that, still very large. I have a type.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:53 PM
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Kills it? That's a bit of a stretch, but yes, he can do well, maybe, in certain settings.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:51 PM
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Big tits and ass are my ideal, but if a woman doesn't have that but has a pretty face and several permutations of short, taller than average, great disposition, kind, sweet, cute, a little chubby, I would be open to her as a sexual and romantic mate. Women are infinitely more narrow to what they can get genuinely excited and enthusiastic about.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:50 PM
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LOL. I never said I was short. But women's median height is 5'7" in the US, the ideal 6inches added to that would be 6'1"... only 14.5%of men in the US are 6'1" or taller. If I'm a manlet, than so is 85.5% of men in the US. And thus lies the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:42 PM
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Is that the best you can do?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:38 PM
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The flat chested girl can get implants. The pancake ass can be cured with squats. The same solve isn't there for height. It is 100% immutable. There is no hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:37 PM
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Just came back from a two week vacation in south of the border. There was a post here that really rung in my head of a woman claiming hard how height is just attractive, and men have to deal with it. I immediately thought two things. Height, on it's own, is not attractive. At least to me. A woman, short, same woman imagined tall, it doesn't add or take away attractiveness, so I just cannot see it the same way. I recognize the majority of women have a real hard on for height. We can debate the re…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:19 PM
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Funny you mention INTJ, because I've gotten that a lot. Is that a type that has a lot of challenges with dating and mating?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:28 PM
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He was also my best friend for years before dating and we always shared our hobbies Does that mean he witnessed you dating some other guy(s)?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:23 PM
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You are exactly the woman I try to avoid, a pure blooded narcissist. You may have your boundaries ( or lack thereof in your youth ) but you should respect other people's boundaries. To try and circumvent it because it would be more beneficial to you shows a tremendous lack of integrity. Your lack of shame at suggesting just omitting something that was a part of yourself in the past shows how small you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 08:28 PM
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Id rather you check your PMs 😃
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 05:43 PM
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Maybe. But no one can say that I didn't post quality insights into the debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 04:53 PM
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I'm halfway through this video on youtube "Turning Boys into Men: How to master power, sex, Psychology to stop feeling...". It really resonated in me. Yes it's 3 hours long. Halfway through I believe the conversation these two men is the 2 sides of the coin every man argues with himself internally. For women interested in seeing the META and internal conversation man faces everyday he wakes up in life, this is it. While I respect the Tom's position and the way he reasons, he gets exposed as bein…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 04:48 PM
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YUP. And the women on PPD will deny and reject the idea that they fuck like that. It just weakens their arguments, can't take them seriously. Not because they are women, but because of the denial of observed patterns.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 03:31 PM
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Yes, this seems to be the current META. In my opinion, this is the best way for a man to approach the current dating environment. You don't know what (or who) she's doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 03:08 PM
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This needs to be injected to more men's veins. Women reveal themselves through their actions, it's why the mere suggestion that they should be judged by what they do sends most women into a hysterical frenzy. Men are more honor bound by what they have done in the past. We don't deny reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 03:07 PM
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I feel so, so bad for that guy. Pining since high school for a girl that has to go through hardships in life like that for her to finally submit to life and finally consider him a romantic option. Life already is hard and harsh. I don't understand men who willingly walk into relationships like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 03:05 PM
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The majority don't, until they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 03:02 PM
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Chemistry is not the ability to talk in depth with a girl about deep subjects or share an interest in something niche. It’s not even making each other laugh the entire night. And yet the majority of women, a majority that is sexually ignorant on how attraction works, insist that is what is necessary before sexual attraction and interest can take place.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 03:01 PM
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All sorts of premises are wrong in this post. Almost no woman actually wants sex for the sake of it That's patently false. One only needs to look at the short term casual partners women select for when they want a man to just stick it in. they need an emotional attraction to a man (or woman) to feel sexual attraction. No. Women have consistently proven throughout time that emotional attraction is not a firm requirement to engage in sex. If you look at the gay male subcultures, they can have extr…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 02:25 PM
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Exactly. Plus I don't want a redhead prostitute, I want a redhead... a dilemma.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 08:35 PM
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My stance has soften considerably with age, starting off with a 100% hard no, never. Now, I recognize that if I want to experience specific things with a women, that has specific physical and/or mental attributes, an exchange of money is the fastest (and often the only way) for me to achieve my desired outcome. Some traits are rare enough that even in a major city of about 2,000,000 people, perhaps only 18,000 fit my criteria. I'm under no delusion, trying to charm a beautiful natural redhead wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 07:08 PM
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Agreed!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 06:05 PM
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Gotta go the Messi route. never touch or be with a foreign woman without eyewitnesses present.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 06:03 PM
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How does one prove they did not do something. There's no good way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 06:00 PM
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LOL. What a fetishization, on something that isn't even earned.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 04:14 PM
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I do believe there is a utility curve on everything. And there's diminishing returns on almost everything, we are finite beings afterall. But isn't it wild? Man ponders this deeply, to be more attractive to women. Can you honestly say women do so in the same degree and fervor that man does?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 03:02 PM
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You're playing with fire. She is mentally ill and/or her belief system around sex is seriously damaged. She will harm herself AND YOU, without remorse or honor. Run away from her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 02:57 PM
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The blue pill is a made up, straw man counter argument to the red pill. No it really isn't. The blue pill, as I understand it, is the large group of people that deny/reject the RP praxeology. Blue pillers have other explanations or denial about what most RP sees as self evident.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 02:49 PM
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And yet TRP claims you have to be exceptional to succeed (which doesn’t work, because if everyone becomes exceptional you merely shift the definition of what exceptional is, so that top 20% are still the top tier pick and eventually it comes down to stuff you can’t fix) Reading this reminds me of that scene in the movie "Gattaca" when a woman was blowing a guy, and took the cumm in her mouth to test his "fitness"/I think there was an attempt to baby trap him.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 02:45 PM
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One wouldn't think so with the way they talk about it on XX and here. And basically anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 02:43 PM
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Never, but the thought has crossed my mind. It is illegal where I currently reside.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 02:22 PM
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For me personally, to be pleasant, fun, and not seriously,directly, competitive with me. I don't even need full on submissiveness, just playfulness. Women, across all socioeconomic strata and age groups, are just not playful. There was a time between 2000-2009 that they were, and 1994-1998.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 02:34 PM
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I've just shortened my response to half smiling, and just softly grunting, "mmm huh"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 02:30 PM
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Another week, another couple of matches on Bumble. The quality tho... leaves a lot to be desired. 40+ nail technicians, live in home aids, community college drop outs,or it's 55+ women divorced from their long term (20+) marriages with all the uptightness of a prude ,but without any of the sexual vigor. Jesus it's bad. Q4M: To you older guys living in major metropolitan cities, how are your run of the mill matches looking for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 02:28 PM
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I noticed this as well. The irony is that the queer spaces are excellent about dropping the façade and getting to the point that it's about great sexual chemistry, but their odd and overly considerate, round about interactions appear, at first glance, to be both stiff and childish, lacking a lot of nuance.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 02:23 PM
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horizontal scars on wrists. women with a bodyfat% that is greater than 10+ my own. says "like" a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 03:29 PM
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It's more than social skills, asking directly demonstrates poor body language reading skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 02:53 PM
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It's posts like these that demonstrate how many people on PPD theorycraft but have never put in the grind of practice in the real world. It reads ok on paper, but this is not effective in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 06:30 PM
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At least this one woman had the bare minimum amount of integrity to tell him No, she didn't have integrity... it was only because she wanted to relieve her guilt. There is a wide distinction on intent here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 04:33 PM
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Stop the gaslighting. It would bring much needed serenity.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:22 PM
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Old, postwall? Do you hear yourself? You don't need to know any of this garbage, I'm the one that's old kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:18 PM
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Child, I suggest you leave this place til you're 30. You don't need any of this, this is a war of emotion and power that far predates you. This isn't your battle, yet. Hang out with friends, go to the beach/forest and have fun. 17 is supposed to be a great time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:08 PM
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Agreed, I'm almost 50. I remember the handful of random flirts and any compliments I've received during the course of my adult life, as there has been so few of them. That shirt that looked good on me? I wore it till he had faded and was ripped, and even then I wore it a few more times until I found the exact one on ebay and got two more.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:01 PM
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What? Why would a child be on PPD???
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 02:52 PM
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You know women always go on and on that they are more than sex objects, but when you read some of the things they really feel; this is the sort of pervasive stance women have... like do you think those sorts of actions and behaviors endear you to men? If it's not about your curves and fucking you, is it because you're such an awesome intellectual, or that your integrity is above reproach, or that you're such an awesome person?? What's the real rebuttal for most men to accept you are their equal?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 02:32 PM
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So there's a something post on a site that is a certain double chromosome titled "I'm unsure if I should tell my boyfriend this information". Reading through some of the comments made by, presumably, women ... I am AGHAST. She didn't want to volunteer this information to her burgeoning relationship out of integrity, or a sense of honesty or anything like that but out to ASSUAGE her own guilt. That is the PRIMARY reason why she shared that with him. I give credit to this guy who stated simply tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 02:21 PM
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The priest. God damn the priest
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 08:01 PM
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The priest was a 70 year old virgin with sexual hangups, living vicariously through a woman's sexual storytelling.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 08:01 PM
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The movie series "Nymphomaniac" weren't works of arts, they were social commentary on what the median man's experience with women will be like, through the POV of the priest.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 07:10 PM
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I hear you. I've had some experiences in this realm. It's not so bad if the person adjacent has became their own financial success.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 06:29 PM
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If everyone is special, then no one is special.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:38 PM
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Seems straightforward to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:26 PM
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I believe their internal emotional experience about "the one that got away" hits different. From what I've heard and observed first hand, it's more of a competitive thing. Like, that guy's current SO "took away" or "stole" what is rightfully hers. It's not like, "oh man, I was really in love with him and only him". It's more like "those are supposed to be my children, and he belongs to me, and (probably the biggest priority), that's MY lifestyle that SHE is enjoying. " It has little to do with t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:26 PM
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Just when I was about to call it quits on Bumble, it sucked me back in again. I've been having a truly horrible dry spell, but a match actually showed enthusiasm and is putting energy into the conversation. And she has a body of a pornstar, it's killer! I'm excited to find out what her red flags are, she's mid 40s, single, owns her own company and is the sister of a B level hollywood star apparently. I seriously can't wait for the weekend. Just hope John Mayer hasn't hit it, that would be a deal…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:22 PM
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And they seem happy, so it’s all good. That's what gets me about women. You, them, it's all a wash anyway. So there is nothing special about you having committed to any one of them. Ergo, the whole idea of women selecting a long term spouse as something uniquely special is false.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:12 PM
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It's a romantic idea, no doubt germinated from a mind of a romantically frustrated man. What is comical, and a tragedy, is that 99.99% of the time, that woman a man pines for, thinks about, wonders ... she doesn't even know he exists. He is nothing to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:11 PM
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Disagree. If the veil would be fully pulled back, there would be a great deal of serenity as the gaslighting and denial of many men's lived experiences would be validated. That would be a big change for sexually unsuccessful men (basically the majority), and the world over.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 02:41 PM
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I disagree. The way non rpillers talk about it, it's highly unique, case by case, and sort of just "magical", with all data and experiences from your past, and other people's experiences not being worth analyzing because there is ZERO correlation with future success. That's my biggest issue with that belief structure, that there is zero correlation with other peoples lived experiences. I call bullshit on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 02:39 PM
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The post question remind me of the ending of the movie "Nymphomaniac Vol II". The priest, having heard all of her sexual stories with a curious sympathetic ear, whips his dick out and wants some, surely after everything she shared she wouldn't oppose? And she turns a gun on him, a vicious act that she hadn't committed to any of the men in her past. He says, in fear and confusion "but ... You've had sex with thousands of men?!" , and a shot is heard and she flees. It is not the fairness or unfair…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:09 PM
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It's a hyper simplification. A quick heuristic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 06:49 PM
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Sigh. This "primal nature" is better elucidated in this video on youtube. Pay special attention to the "looks" and "masculinity" portion of this, this is the focal point of PPD disagreement between men and women. All the back and forth and misunderstandings stem from this.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 03:36 PM
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Women go along with it because they prefer to keep the peace over their own needs. Disgusting. Repulsive. What an awful and self limiting way to live life. Masochists.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 03:33 PM
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They are less likely to "do" anything about it. A man? I bet men would actively dump relationships if they were made aware of their partners past sexual history. I'll bet any kind of money on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 03:21 PM
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Yes, but to a much lesser extent. We already know that if a woman is already ok with a man with a wandering eye if he keeps quiet about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 03:15 PM
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It was a lot less so in the past. Pre smart phones, pre flip, even before beeper times. Women's sexual selection choice was constraint by reasonable proximity in the past. You had to meet her at the bar, club, house party, out and about in her local environment. Even a sexy as hell woman was limited to the small pool of men that were physically closeby to her, at work, home, social life, etc. There is in stark contrast to today. Every woman with a phone is now capable of broadcasting herself to …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 03:14 PM
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This is a good take.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:58 PM
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One last thing - you're in fucking L.A - you're competing with Leo for the same girls, get the fuck outta there. Honestly, that's anywhere worth a damn. You're in direct competition with investment banking bros, mogul monsters in NYC, models and promoters in Miami, you're fighting with old money Polish dickheads and suburban money in Chicago, Tech assholes in the usual locations, big hat wearing motherfuckers in Dallas and Houston. You're always competing with rivals that are always younger, old…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:57 PM
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That and this particular dynamic is that the guy is mellow and chill, never demands, or expects, more from her because she is stunted and her personal development has been arrested. With an alcoholic, there is not fear that he would challenge her to live life better.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:50 PM
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Most normal people understand that their partner had a sex life before they met and just don’t want to hear the details. I think that's the crux of it. Most normal men would be repulsed and awed at the context of the sexual history of their current partner. It would cause a lot of reevaluation. Ultimately, a reevaluation I think is a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:36 PM
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red pillers will try act as though modern civilization still operates on the law of the jungle. No. We point out that women's attraction to men still operates on a primal level. You can ignore all the technological progress, and women's increased financial independence. It obfuscates that primal fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:34 PM
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Youtube "hoe math" His most recent videos fully encapsulate both men's and women's dynamics in a fun, engaging and accurate way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:32 PM
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A "natural". For some reason(s), a man that was always romantically and sexually successful with women throughout his life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 04:34 PM
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LOL, it wasn't phantom, but I wonder if dead genetic material just kind of ... resides there semi-permanently.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 04:25 PM
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There was a a reply on PPD recently that tickled me. A woman suggested that "Chad" leads a fulfilling sex life through his 20s and settles down with a thicc booty girl in his early to mid 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 04:22 PM
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It can help on the peripheral sometimes, but I disagree. There were many in mixed social circles in which they was a giant divide between guys who were not successful to guys who were extremely successful, with a slim few in the middle that were moderately successful. A sort of hollowing out of the "middle class".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 04:18 PM
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Don't get me wrong, I 100% believe the daughter is her husband's, but I wonder if somehow remenant cumm in woman's womb affects a future child.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 04:16 PM
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Doesn't sound like it. But sure
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 04:10 PM
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Yes, i believe a large portion of a modern woman's level of unhungedness is that they have never been physically disciplined in their lives. Unless she has had healthy brothers, a modern woman is ignorant to the unspoken physical treatise most men intuitively understand in their bones. Because of this lack of knowledge, and a woman's lack of healthy respect to violence that can erupt, they think they are totally fucking safe to behave in a million different contemptible ways. Some women are wize…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 04:09 PM
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You may benefit from a book list I'll compile.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 04:01 PM
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Oh I don't know, judging from her periodic facebook posts, everything looks perfect. = ). What I always found very curious is that her daughter... doesn't totally look like her father. I am not suggesting she cheated on her husband with the guy prior, I actually believe her when she's stated that she has been faithful, and that guy long ago moved back to Egypt, but I wonder if there's something to the theory that if a woman has constantly had a particular man's semen in her, over an extended amo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 04:01 PM
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No, and that's what's constantly drummed here, explained in a million different ways. Most healthy libido women are able to exercise and fulfill their sexuality in the way they see fit. The majority of men do not. Most men are not wild in their youth, there is a black hole of experience. So there's nothing to "grow up" from when those same sexually unsuccessful men get older. You're tone deaf.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:57 PM
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That is what redpilled you??? Did you not ever come across the main page??
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:45 PM
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I'd go further. I minored in human sexuality way back in the day, the informal literature we have now is nothing short of fucking amazing. I will compile a book list that I believe must be read by an individual if they are looking to engage PPD at a high level. I'm sorry i'm usually busy with almost everything else in my life to finally post it, but maybe I'll get around to it soon as I think the quality of PPD is reaching a terminal level for the discourse intended.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:44 PM
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Obsessed is too strong a word, but I do feel it gives me on the pulse on some things, and I have edited out a bad habit or two. It's helpful.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:41 PM
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Q4M: Do any of you regularly read a certain double chromosomal reddit forum, and wonder, are so many women just so out of touch with so many things that it hardly seems real? Like how do they even function in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:33 PM
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As opposed to?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:15 PM
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Do you mean median man?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:06 PM
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What a time to be alive. It used to be that every man had Handgela and Palmela. But all these toys are AMAZING.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:05 PM
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Massive dealbreaker. I would say ok, but quietly file it in the back of my mind that this woman is only good for sex, she's not a serious person to have a LTR with because of our sexual incompatibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:03 PM
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Now? She's a married mom, NYC school teacher. Immediately prior to her marriage she was having a torrid affair with an older married man from Africa, he was using the fuck out of her sexually. I do not believe the husband has any idea of her sexual past, and she has that "innocent" look to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 02:59 PM
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EXACTLY. It boggles the mind that women either refuse to acknowledge they (and/or their friends) have done this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 02:56 PM
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Big time simp behavior. I remember a girl I had an on again, off again casual sexual relationship showing me her txts ( on a fliphone) of a guy she went on two dates with. Daily, for three weeks straight hen txted some variation of good morning to her. Sometimes she returned the courtesy, some days she didn't. She had told me she was initially excited about him and liked him, but those txts lost a lot of it's potency when she received one while my dick was inside her. (her words).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 02:51 PM
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Because knowledge and experience trumps ignorance and naïveté, forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 10:40 PM
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oof. It hurts to even think about. I really don't know what's wrong with Will Smith, a person who has been so successful ina cutthroat industry. Either it's an extremely long con, or he ... is just so lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 04:00 PM
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I know the default answer will be “these men are blue pilled” Have you seen or heard Russell Wilson behave/talk? There's something really not ok with the way his brain works. He is living in his own little world.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 03:58 PM
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Settling is usually used to express the situation when you're dating or are in a relationship with someone you're not physically attracted to. Yes AND. I think there's an additional element of bot you're not totally physically attracted to the person and they aren't totally "kind" or "nice" people. Like their raw likability isn't enough to cover their social niceties deficiency.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 03:57 PM
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Yes, because being indirect, shy, timid, talking around it is so attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 03:50 PM
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What could possibly be off putting after having my awesome cock in her mouth. Bonkers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 03:50 PM
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I like this thinking. Mother nature, "common sense", the invisible hand are all MISOGYNISTIC. Whatever "patriarchy" exists is man's reasonable way to defend against an eternal, cosmic assault on his very being.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 03:49 PM
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Matched with yet another girl on bumble. Cute but sickly looking. Within 5 mins told me she's been engaged three times in her life, all three times she broke off the engagement. Kissing was fine. My cock in her mouth within the hour was fine. Me suggesting sliding my cock in her pussy was somehow not fine, and ghosted me. Q4W: Make it make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 02:30 PM
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Oh got it. First time reading it. Yeah, sounds right. There's nothing new there.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 04:33 PM
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link?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:35 PM
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I have already seen the first cohort of stubbornly single attractive women hit 40+. I'm currently seeing the second cohort getting past 40+ single. The first group is having a bit of hard time with it, but the second wave is better equipped. That latter group has already had their fill of hot passionate wild sex in their youth, they have long been focusing on interpersonal family and friend relationships and living life gardening, knitting, traveling (with and without the fling at the destinatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 02:31 PM
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Pretty much. The women who are available in the end are the same women you wanted, only now she has a lot more baggage. Children, first (and second) failed marriages, or her husband died in a freak accident/illness. But somehow you as man have to be MORE understanding about getting less of her time, attention, lust and sexuality because ... You aren't high on her priority list. And I'm like, I worked hard and made myself into something for that? So I smile and laugh. I say no. I get called immat…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 02:27 PM
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I challenge the ascertain that men want power. I was born, I was a child, I didn't desire nor pursue power. I didn't have an interest in accumulating wealth or dominating other men. It is women's insatiable lust for men who have power that instills this desire in men who want to be successful with them. Women are truly disgusting when they desire masculine power.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 08:44 PM
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All the lies, the meanness, all the rejections, and even some of the successes then eventual splits, all that washed away with the rain of truth. Even though I am soaked, it's refreshing, liberating. It even explains my successes and why they were.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 07:38 PM
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I'm close to 50, I remember the dating and mating game pre social media platforms.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 07:03 PM
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You know, I wish I had this as early as middle school. It would've saved me a lot of heartache had I committed his chart to memory. Personally, I find it disgusting and despicable how women crave that bad boy edge for their lust. The physical body isn't enough for them, it needs this performative extra element that men simply do not need from women. In fact, many women actively select against. Part of me suspects that a woman's desire for that badboy element is an arrested development part withi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 05:56 PM
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just get a woman who will appreciate you. HAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHA. If only it were that easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 04:58 PM
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One of my friends told me this after she swore off dating new people and stuck to her wand for the whole summer, everyday, multiple times a day. It just didn't feel as good when I stuck it in her, it was like meh. She detoxed from vibrators for 2 months, I stuck it in and voilà, it felt amazing to her again.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 04:37 PM
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It's something about italian soil that makes them so damn tasty.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 04:34 PM
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Just saw the hoe math video on youtube. Big props to the person here who suggested it. I believe 99% of the back and forth here is men expressing their ever evolving take on the elements women are attracted to in men, and women denying, downplaying the badboy/masculinity elements and how that translates to real life relationship types with men. (in the video, specifically the 4 parts of the "situationships" portion). Men are all to familiar with them, and yet women who actively have engaged with…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 04:34 PM
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I've been seeing a lot of posts on here and another women dominated sub go on and on about men being so "porn" addicted brains, talked about as if it's some mental or virtue failing of a man. Maybe seeing sex scenes is fun and titillating? Maybe it's being sex positive? At least I'm not the one double ordering hitachi wands and numbing my clit that I can't feel anything without it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 03:52 PM
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Yes. Funny you mention this as there was a youtube video I saw recently that talked about a high profile social media japanese woman who kept her budding relationship with a japanese tennis star secret. It turned into a whole thing. But the incentive primarily was to keep her golden goose going as to appear "attainable" to the poor saps sending her money and giving her attention. EDIT, clarification, she isn't even a pornstar or onlyfans creator, I believe she might just simply be a WEATHERGIRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 02:18 PM
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No SARMS goblins?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 08:04 PM
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A real lunchpail kind of guy. High motor. First one in, last one out of the building.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 08:02 PM
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Yeah. Maybe I can sum it up this way; we are what we achieve not what we intend.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 07:19 PM
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I have never had a year in my life in which my w-2 was over 80k.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 07:06 PM
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I dont know about that. It took for me to get into I need to be wealthy mode to get my act right and live life everyday as it were my last.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 07:03 PM
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Yes. I think different things at certain milestone numbers. 5,000; 10,000; 100k; 1Mil
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 07:01 PM
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Agreed. I find it so bizarre, even if it is that rare hetero man that will attend and actively do feminist things with ZERO intent on having a sexual agenda, he must understand that every woman will treat him with that suspicion. It doesn't make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 06:59 PM
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I'm not totally sure about all that, and I regularly read it. What I'm most amazed about is how they bash sexually unsuccessful men, denigrating them, yet these very same women who do participate in casual sexual relationships then admit that their fuckbuddies were awful men in the next breath. It's like... um... HELLO. You are the aribitar of who enters and who does not, and by your own admission you pick really bad. It never occurs to them. Even the sex positive, poly ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 06:57 PM
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I do on a daily basis. The sad part is that the economic machine is 3/4 of the part of why men are very unsuccessful with women. It's not even the daily argument of paying for the first date, it's infinitely deeper than that. A man has to build his kingdom first before becoming as successful with women as he'd wish it were. What really sucks is that for the majority of men, if they ever get to the finish line, you're already a late middle aged man that missed being sexually successful with women…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 06:47 PM
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I care enough to express myself, not to get unsolicited, "how you said that is cringe". Really constructive, but I don't care if it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 06:14 PM
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Thanks for the protip, but everything is fucking cringe. Who cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:56 PM
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Resistance is FUTILE!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 03:16 PM
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stares out my work window, breathing deeply. Maybe I just never crossed paths with a silly girl who was attracted to me. That must feel nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 02:38 PM
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Ok. couldn't see the image
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 02:28 PM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 02:23 PM
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If you don't mind sharing, what was your opening DM specifically? Was it hi, hey, hello whatever or something else
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 02:07 PM
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I'm nearing my end here, but reading all of women's points and arguments, I can't help but think: Q4W: Say a man wants to have a rich, positive and fulfilling sex/romantic life. How does it look like to you? How does it fit in your mind as "acceptable" behavior? I'm talking from beginning to end: from the initial stages of meeting, to going "steady" (is it dating one woman at a time singularly or is a man free to pursue multiple women concurrently? ), to things getting "more serious", and beyond…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 03:23 PM
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It's easy. Take your local realistic dating environment and pick the median guy. That's your "average".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 03:03 PM
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I'm basically at the "end" of countless self improvement cycles (spanning a wide and diverse spectrum of health, wealth, social skill and tribe, hobbies, etc) My general feeling was best expressed by the Thespian Apocalypse, from the old X men series, when a regular human exclaimed that he was a mutant, in shock, after discovering he was not human. "I am as far beyond mutants, as they are beyond you." "For I am the rocks of the eternal shore, crash against me, and BE BROKEN!". But maybe he said …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 02:56 PM
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3.5%, that apparently is reasonable. I would never throw a serious bet at 3.5%.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 02:46 PM
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Fucked up views? Maybe unflattering views, but is that so bad? I know what you mean, there's no need to reinvent the wheel as it pertains to sociability. But its the Machiavellian skills that are sorely lacking by today's young men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 06:58 PM
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For me personally, I believe it's sharpened my social interactions with women. Fluidity and smoothness with topics, being more comfortable leaving things unsaid, transitional topics. A whole host of improvements.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 04:24 PM
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This content just makes men harbour more resentment for women, which in turn makes them unhappier and worsen their odds of finding sex, love etc. I have a deep appreciation for when an obscured truth is trumpeted loudly, so those deaf in the back can hear. I also am impressed with the depth and scale of so much grassroots research has been conducted, from the normal to the neurodivergent takes, and everything in-between. The quantity and quality of anecdotes and comparing notes is unparalleled i…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 04:11 PM
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Hard disagree. I think they was a beautiful golden era of dating and fucking from 1980-1989. Pre internet, social skills were there, knowing how to be attractive was a skill known only to a handful of guys in NYC. It was like being Steph Curry playing the day after the 3 point line was instituted. No contest. A man who knew his shit was untouchable. AND things were good for the regular guys who had blue pill game and were prosocial in their niche. Music, games, fashion, whatever. You were only c…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 03:39 PM
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I've gone through the zodiac circle enough times to have an opinion on all. This series moves on to Leo. The Lionness. She often is good looking, sultry, and sexy in body. She definitely pays attention to her hair. She's got a lot going for her, but there are A LOT of downsides. She's not romantic, she's incredibly selfish and narcissistic, she can be a bit gossipy and she often has a MAJOR victim complex. But probably the most problematic element with her is her need to always be in the spotlig…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 03:25 PM
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No, it's worse than that. Unless your parent started a trust fund for you before you were born, you are already behind. So behind in fact that, unless you can time striking it 7 digit option deal rich in your late teens, you're in for a hard time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 03:08 PM
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She brought that on herself with her actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:49 PM
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LOL. I'm not talking about it in the biblical sense, but yeah sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:49 PM
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Don't get me wrong! I won't look a gift horse in the mouth. I will accept and enjoy = )
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:55 PM
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I think you're side stepping the fact that the skills and knowledge required to become attractive to women needs to be communicated from someone who fully knows and understand to a younger person that doesn't know what they don't know. Empathy alone doesn't cover that gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:46 PM
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If it is not your parent's job to create an environment for their own flesh and blood to flourish in this world, than whose is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:42 PM
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You really think an empathetic father is all that's needed for a young man to become successful with women? lol, who is using garbage vocabulary now?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:40 PM
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I disagree. There has been a concerted effort, by many (chiefly women, and structured society at large), for a whole host of varying reasons and agendas, to keep a large portion of straight men in the dark about how to be more romantic and sexually more effective with women. If you are unable to see that, I don't know what to tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:26 PM
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There aren't many better than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:08 PM
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She has black hair, blue eyes, and big tits.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:08 PM
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LOL. That's one way to look at it. Here's another, I also get what I want, with no risk to my material wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 06:36 PM
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She is attractive and was, she took a break, my longest tenured fWb, ( about 9 years now ). She has that awesome Lucy Lawless/Alexandra Daddario thing going on. Do you know how hard that is to find?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 06:35 PM
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So this is an interesting development. A long time fWb, who had gone dark for about 10 months, reappeared with a txt today. She is "eager to submit to my touch" and get "on her knees and pleasure me, and let me do what I want to her". Looks like the cat is back for alittle while. I guess the grass wasn't greener. Women really are just predictable creatures in the end. Their greatest lie, that they are deeper, more virtuous, more mature, more sophisticated, more intelligent, more more more than m…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 06:17 PM
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Like, do you think there's some secret that other people are taught that you weren't? I do believe there is an art of sex and seduction that exists and is obviously real, but is downplayed, hidden, denied, obfuscated, ridiculed and denigrated by the majority of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:14 PM
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Agreed. If sex is a young man's goal, the first base case would be to have a sexually successful father WHO IS ABLE TO articulate what made him sexually successful. Absent that, I believe the second best teacher is an older woman who takes a sexual interest in the young man and takes him under her wing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:12 PM
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Disagree. I have many friends who were raised with fathers. I would say 99% of these fathers HAVE ABSOLUTELY NO CLUE in the arts of seduction and the ONLY reason they lucked out having wives was... just dumb luck. Humanity has always denied, hidden, downplayed and kept secret the arts of seduction. The old tomes of the past, kamra sutra, writings of Casanova, any and all the ancient philanders has been scrubbed because of various agendas. Bottom line: most societies cannot function like they do …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:05 PM
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Same, although I move it to Friday so I can people watch the "cool" crowd.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:36 PM
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I've gone through the zodiac circle enough times to have an opinion on all. This series moves on to Cancer. The disloyal one. She often is good looking, cute, sexy, and smart in a girl next door kind of way.. She's got a lot going for her, but there are A LOT of downsides. She's not terribly imaginative, she can be a bit gossipy, she can be a little too materialistic (and that's coming from a capricorn man!) and probably the most problematic element she has in her love life, she dates and fucks …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:36 PM
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What the jibitty glibitty, gobbledly gook fuck did I just read?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:13 PM
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It really doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 06:24 PM
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LOL Thanks, she's long been dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 06:14 PM
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LOL, I not so secretly like to make Leos wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 03:45 PM
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i did
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 03:27 PM
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B-. Personally I don't like how wishy washy they are. And god, how fucking needy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 03:00 PM
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A bonus two post today. Fired up bumble this morning. For shits and giggles, i set my age filter to something women would consider more age appropriate. LOL, what a shit show! Match after match with nail technicians, elementary school teachers, radiologists, nurses (god, so many nurses), and the occasional "boss babe". And the bios, lol. Do women actually read their own writing? It's bonkers. They out there listing demands as if they're an employer when it's actually THEM that's on interview. So…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 02:57 PM
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already did.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 02:47 PM
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I've gone through the zodiac circle enough times to have an opinion on all. This series moves on to Gemini. The two faced one. Duplicitous, in many facets of her life. There's usually something very agricultural in the way she looks, like an ethnic day laborer picking cherries in California. Intelligent, witty, sharp, deceptive. She can be a great friend, but her personal sex life is all over the place. She hunts for her meat. There's not a lot to say about Gemini women. In my opinion, they are …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 02:32 PM
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You do need a man if you want a family (I don’t think doing ivf is a viable option for most women) and most people want a family so we do still need men. And this is the final leverage the common man has against the prole woman? LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 04:50 PM
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RP kills love which I think is unfortunate. I disagree. Women killed love. Men just became more pragmatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 04:15 PM
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Men and women have always wanted the same thing That is so not true...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 04:13 PM
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The 2nd is interesting. As a former graduate in courses that were initially labelled "human sexuality"; the second category you mention is where all the newness and further refining is done. Perhaps there is a better terminology out there, but it is female psychology as it relates to mating and dating, and that is so worth talking and expanding upon. I deeply believe that the RP furthers that field in a cutting edge way that traditional experiment ways just simply cannot do. The traditional fiel…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 04:11 PM
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It has not changed at all actually for tens of thousands of years. It takes something like 40,000 years to see any evolutionary changes, so the claim that everything has changed in the past 10-15 years is scientifically bonkers. Are you blind? In my almost 5 decades of life I can assure you the game has changed at least three times. The current meta, pre social media platforms (OLD, insta, fb etc), pre CELL phone, and a window of time between 1985-1994. If you can't see that, I don't know what t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 04:05 PM
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Maybe, sure. But it's women who have made this so. In their sexual selection of men, who they choose to have sex with and fuck, on the individual and societal level, women has made it so. Women only need to look in the mirror to see who ultimately is responsible for this. Men just adapted.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 04:02 PM
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I'm seeing a lot of "RP is so embarrassing and doesn't work" posts here. I wholeheartedly disagree with that premise. It has worked wonders in my life, and in the life of others I have seen first hand. Today I'm willing to entertain being devil's advocate. To you people who look down on RP and claim it doesn't work. Ok, fine. Why don't YOU develop a cohesive and total praxeology full of literature and nuance to help the median sexual and romantically unsuccessful man become more effective. Let's…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 03:53 PM
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You believe that because a woman doesn't need you to survive that she has also no reason to want to be with you, which begs the question: why do you think so poorly of yourself? I don't think poorly of myself. In fact I have gone through so many self improvement cycles in my life that I now far outpace 99% of women in my age appropriate cohort. And not just financially but more specifically my physical conditioning and eye for style and fashion ( lol for making mention about how men never put in…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 03:46 PM
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Concur. But we don't owe any explanations to women, either on an individual level or at the society level. I think a big part of what might make conditions more tolerable were if men stopped talking about his within earshot of women, keep it to fringe hidden internet spaces and walk about life really neutral. If a woman invades your personal space, make no eye contact and behave as if she isn't even there. Total ignore. In all strata of life. Nothing more than the basic pleasantries at work, in …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 03:40 PM
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I agree. Because of this I think we need to encourage more men to live life as a single bachelor and promote the use of ... what's the polite terminology nowadays? Sex workers?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 03:25 PM
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A bonus second post today. Just saw this video on youtube about men and women NOT needing each other anymore and felt it was share worthy. A couple of things really stood out to me, some not said out loud: On the individual level, women, for maybe the first time in all of human history, doesn't need a man. That necessity really drove man and women into each others lives, because without that union it was game over for both. With more and more women gaining more and more wealth and power, a BIG m…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 03:13 PM
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I've gone through the zodiac circle enough times to have an opinion on all. This series moves on to Taurus. The hard working, loyal one. Well, loyal up to a point. She often is good looking, cute, sexy, and smart AND aware. She's got a lot going for her, but there are a few downsides. She's not terribly imaginative, she can be a bit stuck up, she can be a little too materialistic (and that's coming from a capricorn man!) but she is great. She does have a tender sensitive side, often overly so. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 03:01 PM
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A very underrated post, you SEE that right? It's not the woman being this super awesome powerful being but the man. How... subservient, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:53 PM
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Jordan Peterson has covered this already. It's rich, werewolf, pirate, vampire, doctor. That's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:51 PM
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James Bond's traumatic past is having a troubled childhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:50 PM
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A bonus double post. I went out with a recent woman off bumble recently. Ended up doing drinks at the signature room, her favorite spot to visit when she's in town. Txting and photos and everything was all encouraging leading up to the meet. The energy in person suuuuuuuuuuucked. I tried to be pleasant enough, and was still willing to sleep with her. She was just buzzed and droning on and on about work and random shit. She asked me one whole question in about an hour and a half. Annoyed after 1 …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:51 PM
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The thing is that dating and sex is voluntary and you can’t just make women choose/prefer all men, Yeah, but jesus they sexually active ones really insist on choosing the same few. What's up with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:28 PM
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Apologies for the absence, apparently too many people have thin skins. I will continue. I've gone through the zodiac circle enough times to have an opinion on all. This series moves on to Aries. The first of the signs. And you can bet your last dollar she sees herself as #1, throughout her entire life. Without mincing words, she is the narcissist of the zodiac. Often covert. She is effective, but only because her ID and Ego are one and the same, an incredibly selfish, victim, unloved child. She …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:27 PM
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I've never lost my wallet. Almost 50 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 07:04 PM
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Soothing the soft egos of maladjusted, overly sensitive to criticism, parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 06:49 PM
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Enabling ingratitude. And this is being expressed by the boy to the entity that is eternally giving, imagine the boys attitude when he went out into the world and behaved this way with being much less selfless. It breeds all sorts of antisocial behavior and maladjustment with the rest of the world. Entitlement, rage, antipathy etc. In short, acting like the tree encourages a long list of negatives for a young one, and sets them up for FAILURE in life. Financial, emotional, spiritual. If you unab…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 06:48 PM
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The former is incredibly toxic. It's enabling. With no conditions. You want to know what a problematic child raised without any conditions grows up to look like? It isn't pretty. I believe that anyone that proudly proclaims to be of the former interpretation, you are not well adjusted and in dire need of therapy. You have no spine and are open to being taken advantage of.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 06:29 PM
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what if I told you that there are people in world who has never left their country, city, or even their town but are satisfied with their life? That doesn't surprise me. I can tell you that I grew up knowing many of those people. Hell, many of my childhood friends continue to live a life like that. There will always be a (large) subset of people who are timid, meek, lazy, remarkably uncurious, uncultured, stupid, unimaginative, stolid, feeble in body and mind, pathetic in the world. Unfortunatel…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 06:28 PM
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Reading post after post, comment after comment on PPD makes me realize there are two types of people. If you were to read the children's book "The giving tree"; you either believe it's a parable about about the virtues of being selfless and giving, or, it's an illustration about cognitive dissonance and the tragedy of a one sided narcissistic relationship. And the repulsiveness is the former NEVER reaching the awareness to see the later. The reward is NOT the selfish taking or the selfless givin…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 06:19 PM
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In my almost 50 years of life. Once, sorta.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 06:00 PM
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He's a scammer/con-artist who has done some unethical shit to get that type of money He came from a wealthy family He one of VERY few men in the single digit percentage that lucked out in tech, crypto, fame, sports, etc. You forgot Investment banking. But you know what? That's okay. There's absolutely nothing wrong with living within your means, there's nothing wrong with living in mediocrity, No. It is not ok to live a life of mediocrity. You have such a short glimpse on being in this blue pear…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 05:58 PM
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And it's 99% a wasted effort for most men to try and discover. In my opinion, it's infinitely more time efficient to move on to juicier fruit that's just around the corner.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:24 PM
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Nah, McNuttie is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:20 PM
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That's sorta a tired trope, and not completely true. Trust me I would know.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:19 PM
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I'm been doing one a day, in chronological order, started with Virgo.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:16 PM
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Exactly. I've only been doing women as, um, I'm straight and that's what I care about. But men and women of the same zodiac signs express the sign differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:15 PM
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Yes, check my history.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:13 PM
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YES I immediately saw this. I grew up broke ass fuck and gained a lot of money later in life. I sometimes eat Eggo waffles AND I DON'T GIVE A FUCK WHAT YOU SAY WILLOW. Go suck a dick for 3 hours, I'm going to enjoy my waffle with honey drizzled on.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:12 PM
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I've gone through the zodiac circle enough times to have an opinion on all. This series moves on to Pisces. I always manage to misspell this one. The (overly) sensitive of the bunch, she is the misunderstood one. She often is railroaded in her youth by stronger personalities (literally anyone) by her siblings and parents. She is considerate to others feelings. Very intuitive. Unfortunately love doesn't treat her too well. She stays in toxic relationships for too long, and ejects from stable ones…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:55 PM
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Here's a different take from women's preferences skewing more masculine as they get older. Many women have MAJOR sexual hangups, most commonly through family, religion, culture, etc. A girl that was really into me when we were teens shared with me that she was into a type of japanese novel romances called Yaoi. Even though she was straight, and starting to become very interested in sex, she had a hard time thinking about it because of how scary and intimidating classic male sexuality is often po…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:36 PM
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I literally posted [this video, a psychologist breaking this down.](Orion breaking down what men don't understand about women's sexual selection. I recommend setting the playback speed to 1.25 to get through it faster. As an older guy who has peaked out in a couple of tangible domains, it's what I continue to grapple with. I have become so much better than the great majority of my peer age women, and they carry so much more baggage than I do, I'm priced myself out of the dating/mating market in …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:24 PM
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I know. It is untenable. But it needs to be radical solutions for extreme problems, and the symptoms of this extreme problem are undeniable at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 05:03 PM
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Many of my lady friends enjoy the bellesimie (sp?)corn website. Anyway, on the macro level, men really need to start learning how to just ignore all women they interact with in life. There has to be a pendulum swing in the other direction of social platform hyper connectivity to get things back in better balance.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:44 PM
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Men have to stop spinning in circles trying to understand women. They either don't know themselves and/or are actively deceiving you. Either way, same result, they are full of shit. Women are full of shit. Men, at midnight light a candle in the bathroom, with the lights off. Stare into the mirror and repeat out loud "Women are full of shit". Say it as many times as necessary until it sinks in.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:37 PM
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It really isn't surprising. There's an old study ( old as in early 2000s ) that hooked up straight and gay men and women and had them watch straight porn, gay porn, and animal sex, and random non sexual videos/images. Straight women's pussy's were aroused with ALL sexual content.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:58 PM
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A double post for today. Luck you. I really enjoy Orion breaking down what men don't understand about women's sexual selection. Thoughts?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:56 PM
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Women don't want to hear men blurt out... almost anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:45 PM
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Iphone
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:03 PM
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I've gone through the zodiac circle enough times to have an opinion on all. We move on to Aquarius. This girl is WEIRD. The eccentric of the bunch, she simultaneously walks to the rhythm of her own drum ... and still manages to be as basic as a williamsburg hipster. On the surface she seems independent and different due to her unorthodox feelings on the world, religion, mainstream culture, whatever the convo du jour is. Don't be tricked, she isn't as remarkable as she thinks she is. Sex for her …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 02:48 PM
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It's just that priorities change. At 16 you weren't into the same things as when you were 6. At 26 you cringe over the things you raved about when you were 16. At 36 you realize that even though you thought you knew it all at 26, you were wrong. It's just that priorities change. Sure, that's all well and good, but when women climb their high horses and talk down on men for playing the field in older age (especially men who were unsuccessful earlier in life), a field that they themselves enjoyed …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 02:30 PM
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NYC, it didn't seem to make an impression. I would seriously judge you hard for an all gold Rollie. That shit signals, "I have some money, but like to watch my gf/wife get blow by BBC". And I'll wonder why you didn't just bite the bullet and go AP.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 08:07 PM
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A late bloomer sharing my knowledge and experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 07:09 PM
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Interest Calculator . Depending on your, their age, fill in years and expected interest rate. I like to use 9. In short, every $100 is over $1,000 dollars in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:56 PM
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I highly doubt you have more experience than I unless you went full on poly in your early 20s, and are now in your late 40s.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:52 PM
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I've gone through the zodiac circle enough times to have an opinion on all. We move on to Capricorn. This girl is secretive as fuck. Hides her true feelings and motivations all the damn time. While at times regal and elegant, she is unable to truly get down and dirty. Sex is tied up with other things, status, money, payback, rebound. It's rarely just sex with her. It's a chore and a bore. There's really not much to expound on, she thinks she's complex, but she really isn't. Emotionally, she is a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:37 PM
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The idea is unique, in time and place, celestial gravitational pulls during time of conception.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:25 PM
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Rules for thee, but not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:23 PM
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Sure, let's leave the fucking umbilical cord on because tommy is going to be so fucking traumatized he didn't "consent" to it. Grow the fuck up people.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 06:49 PM
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Take it up with god. And if it helped me avoid some STI's, even better. I'd call that medically very necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 06:42 PM
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And aesthetic AF.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 06:26 PM
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You are calling me a reactionary loser, and I'm the one not being rational? That's rich lol. Ok, look. Bottom line, it's 99% ok. You have a gripe about it, bitch at mommy or daddy or god for your micro penis/self made trauma about it. Maybe look in the mirror if you want to see the sad cry baby fucking loser about this topic. It's hygienic, good, and bestows a level of divinity to men that are circumcised. I'm sorry it went bad for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 06:25 PM
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Basically. His sweat definitely has more testosterone than my entire body.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 06:21 PM
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The Canadian Christopher Bumstead.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 06:17 PM
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"uwu soft bby" Really? Cause I immediately think of deafening random fucking screeches from hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 06:13 PM
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Male genital mutilation - Done by majority male and allowed to happen with the permission of fathers. God this one comes up from time to time. Was circumcised as baby. And I fucking love that I was.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 06:12 PM
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Just saw a youtube video in which a diverse group of women were shown images of C-BUM on offseason. They called him dadbod. Women don't know shit about shit. Never take what they say seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 06:11 PM
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ass-to-mouth
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 06:01 PM
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A two for one today: I really enjoyed this video by Todd expounding on the current "dating crisis". I felt it really accurate and balanced.. Thoughts?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 03:38 PM
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I've gone through the zodiac circle enough times to have an opinion on all. We move on to Sagittarius. This girl has a sad problem. Often tom boyish, never totally comfortable being a women or being feminine, she carries it about like a male cat. Clunky, goofy, ungraceful. But the big problem with love and sex with this woman is this: She confuses friendship for love, and love for friendship. She really ought to just pair off with her male besty, god knows he would be thrilled with the idea. Whi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 03:13 PM
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Mhmm. We have arrived full circle. This society experiment has ended. It was be amusing to see what will fill the vacuum.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 02:50 PM
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check my post history: )
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 04:32 PM
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fucking based.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 04:31 PM
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I've gone through the zodiac circle enough times to have an opinion on all. We move on to Scorpio. The scorpion. She often isn’t the most beautiful, or the prettiest, or the cutest. But somehow, someway, she is the sexiest out of all of them. She cares and is actively interested in sex. She has desire, fire and drive to fuck! She’s the dream come true for the man who has a healthy libido. So what’s the catch? Her inner emotional life has been hurt. Whether through neglectful parents, bad first b…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 04:29 PM
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I've gone through the zodiac circle enough times to have an opinion on all. We move on to Libra. The only zodiac sign that is not represented by a living, breathing animal but rather a concept. This is apropos. The scales, balance. Funnily enough many Libras fall far short of it in their lives. They often have tumultuous, messy love lives. I try to give these women some credit, they do loudly proclaim to want and chase true love. In practice, they easily and knowingly get involved with unavailab…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 02:03 PM
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“don’t ask a fish how to catch fish” may aswell be “don’t ask a customer how to con them” No, it's more like asking Schrödinger's cat if it is alive or not in the box, and it responding "Yes.".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 04:47 PM
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I'll be doing them in chronological order daily! = )
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 03:08 PM
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For the majority of my life I was against it. I thought any man that has to pay is pathetic, and he is forced into a hard money exchange for sex because he was incapable of meeting a woman who would agree to have casual sex with him. I likened it to junk food, for the sexually poor men who can't afford to buy a steak, they need to eat junk chips to get by. As i've become older, and significantly richer, my stance has softened a lot. If you're paying for specific rare traits ( young big tittied r…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 03:04 PM
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I know. Women need to just stop and admit that all the outside virtues are virtually meaningless for attraction/sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 02:59 PM
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I've gone through the zodiac circle enough times to have an opinion on all. Let's start with the most fantastic long term fuck buddies. Virgo. It's comical. Often thought of with Aphrodite, the sex and fertility goddess, these women are anything but. The only thing they share in common with the ancient deity is that they liked to get fucked, but somehow miraculously are born again virgins they next morning. Women born under this sign are super peculiar. It's as if you told a computer what a woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 02:57 PM
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LOL thanks for sharing this humorous story. About the "clapping cheeks" i can confirm this is the cool terminology, my 29 yo fWb said this while I was ... clapping her cheeks lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 08:07 PM
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Who says I haven't? They looked like they could use the extra protein lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 07:41 PM
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men often think that we give away sex as a sort of reward in the hopes that they will commit to us. Men often think that the majority of women gatekeep sex hard. If women do actually enjoy sex in and of itself, one would think they'd make things easier to make it happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 06:21 PM
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AND she laughs about it like "no big deal". What kills me is that a group of 15 year olds from Texas can beat the US women's best easily. Which means they are playing at a high school level, getting paid millions... I played D3 soccer. I love soccer. Where's my millions?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 04:15 PM
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They can go cry their crocodile tears with Megan Rapinoe.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 04:01 PM
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You're not even the product. The "concept" of you is the product.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 03:58 PM
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or the feeble minded, or the horribly inflexible...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 03:58 PM
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oh god...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 03:54 PM
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Arab?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 03:42 PM
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Why do women always say no when propositioned for sex by a stranger? Why are most all, allegedly hetereosexual, women so easily turned off to sex by the slightest of missteps by a potential sexual partner? Women's sex drives are incredibly low and broken.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 03:26 PM
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I disagree with the premise that men's sex drives are "high". They are the standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 03:07 PM
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Economic output throughout the ages would be SEVERELY regressed. We could honestly still be living in mudshit shelters.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 03:05 PM
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Cunt?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 02:56 PM
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I believe she is, but that dismisses all other women too easily as if they aren't sexual beings and have their own desires. But man, the way most alleged women talk about women's sexuality on PPD, you would think they absolutely hate it, are incredibly sex negative, and feel that it should only be doled out to men who "commit" to them. first.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 02:56 PM
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Sure it does. I did it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 02:54 PM
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LOL. Better educated, debatable. Wiser, more level headed about the social world around them/having street smarts/not being naïve about the world? Fuck no. The twenty year olds today are walking adult BABIES.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 02:54 PM
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It feels wrong to think about it if they don't feel the same way imo. You need to get over your Catholic/upbringing guilt around sex. Thinking about sex should never feel wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 02:52 PM
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And thus a negative feedback loop is born.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 02:47 PM
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A few things this morning. I fear for this new generation of men. It's like their critical thinking and deductive skills have been shot to shit. Seeing post after post on PPD about how OLD has ruined men's chances because somehow the evil is OLD. Like, hello, no. OLD is a force multiplier to women's ALREADY INNATE selectiveness/sexual choosiness! All OLD is put that primal selection process on steroids. Look, the genie is out of the bottle, OLD and connecting over social media, the internet is h…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 02:47 PM
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The problem with online dating is women's selectiveness, not the ratio of men to women Half wrong. Women's choosiness certainly has ramped up to sky high levels, and that doesn't help men's chances. But in the book "Mate, become the man women want" by Tucker Max and Geoffrey Miller; the ratio of men and women DIRECTLY and TANGIBLY affect the dating/mating environment. You need to read more.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 02:39 PM
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There has been tons of research looking into all the negative impacts self masturbation is for men, especially when watching sexual images and videos. Yes, it kills the drive for almost all men to sexually/romantically pursue women. It definitely kills my energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 02:36 PM
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What do you expect when the young generation have shit education. Don't even know what words mean anymore, both through design and by co-opting. Words don't mean what the mean anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 02:33 PM
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you mean female women, right? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 02:31 PM
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LTR maybe. Propose? Hell no, it's bizarre to bring that up before any rapport, dating, or connection has been established.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 05:27 PM
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Define "seriously date"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 04:14 PM
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LOL if you're lucky, you'll catch me getting head from a random new girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 04:11 PM
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