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God does not guarantee you a wife.
/r/RPChristians26/08/21 11:44 PM
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Damn this was encouraging to read! Especially in the context of some of your previous OYS posts. Sounds to me like your character has grown despite being dealt some really tough circumstances. Keep it up! Glad to see you back in here.
/r/RPChristians19/08/21 02:25 AM
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This whole "drama" is cringe. A bunch of no-name lurkers who have never posted an OYS or otherwise participated in RPC are now all up in arms because "someone is saying something mean on the internet about RPC." If that's you it's time to STFU. Anyone who is getting triggered by the CM post has the frame of a wet paper bag and has failed to take ownership of the principles of this sub by independently checking them against Scripture. STFU. Lift. Read Bible. Read sidebar. Be a Berean. OYS.
/r/askRPC06/08/21 11:30 PM
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First off, great opportunity to practice STFU here. Don't brigade. Don't go downvote all their stuff. Don't whine about people saying mean things about your favorite sub. Focus your efforts on those who are teachable. Second, if this quote: "Rule 1: You are not seeking to befriend, date, court, or even marry a woman. Those are simply the means to an end: sex." bothers you, you should read [this post] (https://old.reddit.com/r/RPChristians/comments/79updb/for_singles_getting_laid_like_a_christian…
/r/RPChristians06/08/21 11:05 PM
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What happened recently? Edit: MGTOW and MGTOW2 were banned among a few other subs. There's a youtube channel, a Discord, and several smurf subreddits with similar names. I think we'll be fine.
/r/askRPC05/08/21 12:59 AM
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spin plates as a Christian I tried this Praex, but it made me feel horrible. The whole spinning plates thing just seems dishonest. I wouldn't want to be treated like a plate, so how can I justify treating others this way?
/r/RPChristians29/07/21 04:04 AM
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Saw your update. Leaving the situation alone sounds like a good call. Since you're already here, why not take some of the rest of the advice and start improving in life areas you are deficient in? An easy place to start is going to the gym. No, it's not a panacea that will solve all of your problems, but it will give you an opportunity to practice and develop self discipline. It will also increase your confidence, boost your competence, and help you to build a positive feedback loop in your mind…
/r/RPChristians10/07/21 12:07 AM
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Like others have said, you're orbiting her, and you've got a classic case of oneitis. She should not be your mission. At best she is an accessory to help you accomplish the mission. I didn't come here just to repeat what everyone else is saying though. I came here to commend you on your humility. You're getting blasted pretty good in the comments, but you're listening sincerely and not getting butthurt. Keep it up. It shows you are teachable. Maybe one day you'll be on the other end, helping men…
/r/RPChristians09/07/21 02:18 AM
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Have been back in the gym for a few weeks now. Essentially starting from scratch ... found a BJJ gym nearby, and I have been attending once or twice a week. Way to make progress here. It is easier to gain muscle the second time around. You're not starting over; you are building on previous experiences. Sounds like you already know where you're deficient here (eating enough). I'm a skinny guy too, so I understand the challenges. 3am shift This stood out to me as the number one issue in your post.…
/r/RPChristians25/06/21 02:32 AM
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Rules 4 and 8. Dropping links with no context is low effort.
/r/RPChristians20/06/21 08:49 PM
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A 14 second video of some Russian Orthodox guy clapping with music in the background? Placed here with no context, explanation, or effort? Definitely not.
/r/RPChristians08/06/21 02:03 AM
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FYI, the stats listed at the beginning are to comply with Rule 2 of this subreddit. It's an attempt to provide some background info, not to boast.
/r/RPChristians24/05/21 02:59 AM
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Great to see you in here. You're the real deal as far as the red pill goes, and I'm encouraged to see you taking ownership of the Christian part also.
/r/RPChristians18/05/21 01:56 AM
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working full time at an engineering firm, quitting next month. Sounds like you're knocking it out of the park with the raise. Why quit? Chest press: 120 lbs. (PR) Made it back up to 142 lbs, all-time high. Gains! Good work! Eating until you feel sick is a bad way to reinforce better eating habits in the long term. Eventually, you'll feel sick of feeling sick and there will be steep temptation to drop off the meal plan. It's a negative feedback loop. Try to eat enough per meal so that you feel fu…
/r/RPChristians11/05/21 02:44 AM
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OYS 31 Marital Status: Single, KV Age: 26 Height: 5'8" Weight: 148.7lbs PHYSICAL I've been going to the gym consistently. Most lifts are moving up. Hip injury remains, but I am trying new exercises to address it. Strained my achilles tendon (not sure how) last week, but I'm beginning to recover. On leg days, I improvise and do whatever I can do. MENTAL I'm staying busy and accomplishing tasks, which makes me feel a lot better. Spent the entire weekend cleaning out the mouse infested garage in th…
/r/RPChristians06/05/21 02:15 AM
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I couldn't date until I was 18 How's that working out for you?
/r/RPChristians08/04/21 11:47 PM
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The more I think about it, the more I think you should reconsider this policy. Being raised with a No Dating Until Age 18 rule helped make me the celibate autist I am today. Perhaps it's easier for girls, but guys can't learn game in a vacuum.
/r/RPChristians08/04/21 01:28 AM
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It's cool that she's trustworthy and disciplined, but insisting that a father or grandfather be present at every date is unreasonable to me. A guy wants to date the girl, not her dad. He wants to see how she behaves normally, not how she behaves when her every move is being monitored. I don't have a wife and kids, so I'll say if it works for you, more power to you. But I would consider the "dad must always be present" policy a dealbreaker.
/r/RPChristians06/04/21 11:35 PM
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Can /r/askrpc stay co-ed?
/r/RPChristians24/03/21 03:24 PM
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OYS 30
/r/RPChristians24/03/21 03:14 PM
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There's literally a stickied post at the top of the sub.
/r/RPChristians16/03/21 11:55 PM
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First time I've seen ya, but it's always good to have some more experienced RP folks hanging around. Maybe swing by /r/askrpc sometime; that place is kind of a ghost town.
/r/RPChristians16/03/21 11:37 PM
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This guy is scattergunning advertisements all over various subs. Clear violation of Rule 8 and Rule 4.
/r/RPChristians16/03/21 11:30 PM
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You've got Chuck and DeepStrength in the comments trying to help you, and you won't hear a word of it. Why do you continue to come here for advice when you just end up rejecting any advice that is given to you?
/r/askRPC14/03/21 05:34 PM
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I'm not sure I would call it a sin if it is being used to treat an injury. It's not like you're using supplements to cheat in powerlifting. I'd be wary of steroids mainly because it's possible to mess yourself up pretty bad with those.
/r/askRPC08/03/21 11:00 PM
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No offense taken, man. Perhaps you should join the Discord. These guys really aren't that bad when you talk to them directly, and I think a lot gets lost in translation here on reddit. I understand the shame and self hatred that comes from suffering from self-inflicted injuries. All of mine are my fault. It demoralizes me and sabotages attempts at making progress. As much as you can, the way out is to stop listening to what other people think about you, stop focusing on your past mistakes, and d…
/r/askRPC08/03/21 10:19 PM
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I have met 2 of the mods in person. Rather than calling me a beta for my sucky lifts, they encouraged me for doing what I can. Folks around here get a bit autistic about the exhortation to lift, but the real reason it is recommended is because it builds character and makes you more attractive - qualities which boost your ability to disciple others. No one expects you to do exercises that damage you. That accomplishes the opposite. If there is no way to exercise without hurting yourself and no tr…
/r/askRPC08/03/21 09:23 PM
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Why did you delete your post? https://www.fvortho.com/blog/2012/april/-use-it-or-lose-it-wins-the-fight-against-osteoa/ The point is not "you have to lift heavy weights, and if you don't you're garbage." The point IS you will be better off if you do what you can to take care of your body. I'm not a doctor, but I also struggle with constant injuries. Exercise has helped me. I think you read these comments as us trying to beat you over the head for not lifting. That's not the intent. We're trying …
/r/askRPC08/03/21 09:00 PM
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The number one factor in joint stability is muscle tone. There is a lot of value in doing what you can. Scooby Werkstatt's back is all jacked up, and look at him!
/r/askRPC08/03/21 07:58 PM
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This reads like it's written by someone LARPing as a MGTOW. What's the point? Arguing is bad for marriage?
/r/askRPC06/03/21 09:04 AM
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Mundane-Violinist, ElectricalWait, and Publisher are accounts that used to to spam this sub in ways that didn't make any sense. Your odd behavior matches to some degree, and the guy behind those accounts keeps coming back with alts. Let's say you aren't him (don't really care if you are). Aaquad's advice is a good starting point. You'd probably get better feedback if you followed the rules on the sidebar and posted stats (then your posts wouldn't keep getting locked). Take a moment to gather you…
/r/RPChristians06/03/21 09:00 AM
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My apologies. I read it like you were making excuses for why sex before marriage is okay. I'm sure my sarcasm did not help either. I'm sorry.
/r/RPChristians24/02/21 04:52 AM
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Wait, it's not okay? Are you going to advocate for sexual immorality, like you did in your previous comment, or are you going to do your best to stay on the narrow way? I warn you, it'll be inconvenient.
/r/RPChristians24/02/21 04:02 AM
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"See guys, it's okay to break God's law because it's so convenient! Can you imagine the risks if we had to actually refrain from sexual immorality!?"
/r/RPChristians24/02/21 03:15 AM
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["Fe is the word for iron in science"] (https://memegenerator.net/img/images/17463023.jpg) I gotta say, supporting your points by free association has got to be one of the funniest ways to argue I have ever come across.
/r/RPChristians23/02/21 04:18 AM
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So when you face that temptation, in the moment, what is your thought process? What is keeping you from choosing something else that is productive? My thought process is usually "if I finish it off before I can get to my phone, I won't have to worry about relapsing into porn, which I think is way more damaging." I almost only have problems with relapse at night when I'm trying to go to sleep. During the day there is always something else I can be doing. I'll stay awake for a while, but eventuall…
/r/RPChristians20/02/21 11:10 PM
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What I've been telling myself is that we need to be thankful for what we have and work with what we've got. Spot on. The odds may be bad, but this is the correct response. A guy may not find a wife, but perhaps he will find a purpose.
/r/RPChristians20/02/21 06:15 PM
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OYS 29
/r/RPChristians18/02/21 04:28 AM
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If it's optional - no. It's mandatory in my state, so I'm muzzled during the service. Church services are depressing nowadays. Nobody sings; instead we all stare blankly in unison at the projector screen as the worship team slogs their way through another muffled tune. Seating is assigned beforehand, so if you come alone you'll be seated alone, a good 8ft from the nearest attendee. Oh, but Paul says in Hebrews 10 not to give up meeting together as some do, so to make sure we fulfill that require…
/r/RPChristians15/02/21 03:12 AM
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I think Chuck's objective here is to eliminate the low-effort and spam posting that has started to become more frequent here. Plenty of people just drop hour-long videos with no context and a vague title, hoping to farm easy karma. Or they link to dodgy websites either for self-promotion or some other disingenuous reason. At best it's a nuisance, and at worst it's an attempt at malware distribution or data/click farming. Requiring more effort mitigates the spam problem and elevates the content o…
/r/RPChristians05/02/21 05:04 AM
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What is the sidebar? Search is your friend and ours.
/r/RPChristians04/02/21 02:33 AM
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This is not a ploy by the government out to get you. Didn't say that. And no this is not the mark of the beast. Didn't say that. And no this is not a leftist conspiracy drug made maliciously to harm you by evil corporations. Didn't say that either. Fact of the matter is, we do not know the long term effects, and people in my demographic have an exceptionally low risk of dying from coronavirus. I have done plenty of reports on engineering failures, and the rushed development, immense outside pres…
/r/RPChristians22/01/21 03:29 AM
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So ... wait for special revelation? I mean, I'm sure it happens to a very small percentage of Christians, but the rest of us have to vet and do the best we can with what we've got. Are you saying we should not be vetting our potential partners?
/r/RPChristians19/01/21 11:35 PM
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But no one really cares about what you lift and what you can do but yourself. OP didn't include that in his post because of his pride. Read Rule 2 in the Rules of the Sub.
/r/RPChristians19/01/21 06:15 PM
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OYS 28
/r/RPChristians14/01/21 05:01 AM
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even once Covid has run it'd course It's not going away. There's always going to be a NeW sTrAiN! Governments and corporate oligarchs aren't going to throw away this golden opportunity to increase their power and redistribute wealth from us to them. For what? A disease so deadly that over 99% of people who get it survive and many don't even show symptoms! We're being played.
/r/RPChristians07/01/21 04:33 PM
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OYS 27
/r/RPChristians07/01/21 04:22 AM
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By all means, take the vaccine if you feel compelled to do so. Just don't mandate that I be forced to take it also. The government's and private businesses' right to stick needles in things ends where my skin begins. I for one do not intend to participate in beta-testing this rushjob.
/r/RPChristians06/01/21 08:27 PM
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Yes, pattern recognition is a sin. /s
/r/RPChristians17/12/20 04:13 PM
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The first step to asking a question here should be to use the search function to see if it has been asked or addressed here before.
/r/RPChristians06/12/20 07:17 AM
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Legumes are where it's at
/r/RPChristians26/11/20 08:43 PM
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OYS 26
/r/RPChristians26/11/20 04:50 AM
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I just realized you had that verse in your post. Sorry, should've read more closely. I would consider moving on to another church. In regards to finding a church that has a biblical view of men and women, I think you will just have to vet churches by visiting in person or looking at their websites. If you have any Christian friends in your area who have a firm grasp of biblical masculinity and headship, you should visit their churches first. That's how I started attending the church I currently …
/r/askRPC25/11/20 01:40 AM
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female senior pastor 1 Timothy 2:12-14 "I do not permit a woman to teach or to exercise authority over a man; rather, she is to remain quiet. For Adam was formed first, then Eve; and Adam was not deceived, but the woman was deceived and became a transgressor."
/r/askRPC25/11/20 01:00 AM
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Should you seek to correct someone when you fail in the same area at the same or greater extent?
/r/RPChristians11/11/20 06:51 AM
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Go to /r/marriedredpill, pull up the sidebar, and read every post in the "divorce" category. I genuinely hope it does not come to this, but better to have the knowledge and not need it, than to need it and not have it.
/r/RPChristians03/11/20 03:46 AM
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One thing that has helped me is getting on a Bible reading plan. I don't want to fall behind on the plan, so I have to read every day.
/r/askRPC03/11/20 01:04 AM
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Dude, you need to slow down. None of us here have any idea what's going on, and from my point of view, it looks like you're trying to use this sub as a diary or your own personal soapbox to air out drama that we have nothing to do with. If you're going to participate, keep it on topic. Read the sidebar. Leave the bipolar ruminations out.
/r/RPChristians02/11/20 04:25 AM
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OYS 25
/r/RPChristians28/10/20 11:34 PM
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The fact that the original list came out of a major Christian media outlet is a perfect example of how feminized the church has become.
/r/RPChristians12/10/20 06:04 AM
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Dude, get on the Discord. You're on an island, and you need community beyond Reddit posts and occasional visits with your pastor. You have a pattern of posting OYS for a couple weeks, making progress, completely dropping off the map, and then returning having lost a lot of ground. I think a lot of this has to do with you being isolated and having no one to encourage you or set you straight day-to-day.
/r/RPChristians08/10/20 01:16 AM
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OYS 24
/r/RPChristians08/10/20 12:19 AM
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As we approach the end times, and our world falls deeper into evil, God-ordained institutions, like marriage, are increasingly broken and corrupted by Satan and his agents. The fact still remains that the only righteous outlet for sex is in marriage. It's all tall order, but consider this: God never said following him would be easy. In fact, he promises the exact opposite. *"Indeed, all who desire to live a godly life in Christ Jesus will be persecuted." 2 Timothy 3:12 Hardship and sacrifice for…
/r/RPChristians02/10/20 05:01 AM
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OYS 23
/r/RPChristians01/10/20 12:22 AM
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Is struggling with PMO an indication that one is unable to remain chaste? I'm sure you see the hangup. If a man is unable to conquer his sex drive his options are: Get married. When it's good, it's good. When it's bad it's all the problems of being single with no sexual outlet + the problems of a dying marriage. How do you know what you'll get? You don't. You do your best to vet and attain biblical manhood, and then you trust God. Commit to chastity and singleness. When it's good, you're on miss…
/r/RPChristians29/09/20 05:19 AM
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How are you improving your discipline? Just getting in there and doing it. The main thing is to cut out procrastination avenues, like cell phone use. task management system I use Let's talk about this next time you and I are on Discord. what will you get out of those classes even if you don't wind up being a doctor? Gains: Improved knowledge of human body (which can be used to identify and treat my own problems) Knowledge that I can do school again (I spent a year badly burnt out) Losses: Time M…
/r/RPChristians25/09/20 02:43 AM
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Whatever man, have fun being better than everyone. I'm not the one punching out paragraphs on a deleted post.
/r/RPChristians25/09/20 12:43 AM
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OYS 22
/r/RPChristians23/09/20 11:52 PM
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This neither causes me significant upset nor any offense. So you wrote a paragraph explaining how you are definitely not upset or offended? I think I saw "guy who thinks living outside the US makes him an intellectual" on a reddit bingo card once.
/r/RPChristians23/09/20 11:18 PM
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Ignore the clearly very "offended" American crybabies ... said the pot to the kettle. I've heard that eating hamburgers is good for your self awareness.
/r/RPChristians23/09/20 02:06 PM
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OYS 21
/r/RPChristians10/09/20 12:12 AM
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Lack of sleep too.
/r/RPChristians01/09/20 01:58 AM
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OYS 20 OYS 19 here Marital Status: single, KV Age: 25 Height: 5’8” Weight: 140lbs REReading: No More Mr. Nice Guy - except I haven't been and need to follow through on this. MISSION: I want to lead others to Christ by helping those in need, befriending and loving the lost, and displaying the truth and power of salvation through my own life. By sharing my skills, knowledge, and my history with others, I can be a light that points the way to Jesus Christ. I've been reaching out to a few people. My…
/r/RPChristians26/08/20 11:56 PM
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Thanks Chuck. This way of thinking is new to me, but I'll keep working at it. How's the job search going? I've been praying that an opportunity will open up for you.
/r/RPChristians25/08/20 11:49 PM
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Perhaps, it is an inability to vet potential mates properly that is wasting your time.
/r/RPChristians22/08/20 03:00 AM
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Men need to do better. You are correct. Speaking to your experience, someone who is fit, confident, and balanced is still not a good leader if he cannot steward the things that God puts under his care. That's why RPC advocates so strongly for men to OYS (Own Your Stuff). Owning (taking responsibility for) the household is part of it. What ever happened to paying for dates, planning dates, wooing me, opening doors, buying me flowers, standing when I enter a room, asking my father for permission, …
/r/RPChristians21/08/20 11:37 PM
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I'll pray for you about finding a mission brother. Don't let Discord suck you in too much. It feels great to talk about RP, but living it is where the difference is made. Don't get stuck in a the mental masturbation loop of just reading and discussing. You're 6 OYS in and already making good progress. Don't get discouraged.
/r/RPChristians20/08/20 02:50 AM
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OYS 19 OYS 18 here Marital Status: single, KV Age: 25 Height: 5’8” Weight: 140lbs Reading: No More Mr. Nice Guy (again) MISSION: I want to lead others to Christ by helping those in need, befriending and loving the lost, and displaying the truth and power of salvation through my own life. By sharing my skills, knowledge, and my history with others, I can be a light that points the way to Jesus Christ. I suspect my calling may be in medicine. Started my A&P class Monday. I will need to redevelop t…
/r/RPChristians20/08/20 12:01 AM
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OYS 18 OYS 17 here Marital Status: single, KV Age: 25 Height: 5’8” Weight: 140lbs Reading: No More Mr. Nice Guy (again) MISSION: I want to lead others to Christ by helping those in need, befriending and loving the lost, and displaying the truth and power of salvation through my own life. By sharing my skills, knowledge, and my history with others, I can be a light that points the way to Jesus Christ. I think this mission will play out by transitioning to the medical field, so I am working on kno…
/r/RPChristians12/08/20 05:45 PM
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So what's the difference between video games and phone use/YouTube? You are right that there is no difference. I need to go back to the 3 rules I made a couple OYSs ago. So maybe I can address both together. Basically it's "If things are the way they are, both with the way God has set up humanity as well as how the sexual marketplace works, then what's the use? Our fate is already sealed." Is that an accurate assessment? If so, then it all boils down to God's sovereignty, predestination and elec…
/r/RPChristians07/08/20 03:23 AM
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Scheduling prayer is the way to go I think. I added reminders to my phone's calendar to help with this. I am accountable to my Bible study group, and we check in when we meet. Lately I have not been as accountable, so I must step it back up. I'll add I's, Y's, and T's right now, and if it's too easy I'll find some weights or some bands. Thanks for the advice!
/r/RPChristians06/08/20 02:43 AM
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OYS 17 OYS 16 here Marital Status: single, KV Age: 25 Height: 5’8” Weight: 140lbs Reading: No More Mr. Nice Guy – Stalled. I think I will start over because I'm having problems with Donald Glover's worldview, and I need to be writing those down. MISSION: I want to lead others to Christ by helping those in need, befriending and loving the lost, and displaying the truth and power of salvation through my own life. By sharing my skills, knowledge, and my history with others, I can be a light that po…
/r/RPChristians05/08/20 05:23 PM
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You can't be transformed on your own, but you are still held responsible if you fail to be transformed. I get it; God can do what he wants with HIS creation. Romans 9:14-24 makes it clear. But, what use is any of it without the divine intervention required to become regenerate? Without God's grace, all we can do is fulfill the words of Luke 12:47-48 and increase judgement against ourselves.
/r/RPChristians05/08/20 05:28 AM
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If meeting with my Bible study group is good enough for Hebrews 10, I'm doing just fine. In the conversation that inspired this post, the issue with my Bible study was that it doesn't supply discipleship from older males, but I wasn't getting that at church either, and definitely wouldn't be now. Bonus? What do I win? Are you really wanting real answers or just see if something will get stirred up and have arguments ensue? How is a book written down thousands of years ago going to command you to…
/r/askRPC31/07/20 07:27 PM
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Fixed it @RPC, please use this in all future podcasts
/r/RPChristians30/07/20 11:21 PM
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You trolling?
/r/askRPC26/07/20 05:05 AM
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"Motivation (desire) is fickle." We've all heard that quote, and, if you're like me, you've probably read it incorrectly as "motivation is unnecessary." It's true that you can't rely on motivation long term like you can on discipline, but both serve important roles, and neither should be neglected. The purpose of motivation is to inspire us to pursue something. Motivation initiates our pursuit (even though it's often discipline that gets us to start it right now). Everything is optional; we just…
/r/askRPC26/07/20 05:02 AM
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Nice work! This is a valuable contribution. u/Red-Curious, did you ever publish an explanation of the other side of the Gospel mirror in 405 - The Lens - The Gospel is the Answer? 405 ends with "In Part 4 I will break down in more detail how the other side of the Gospel-mirror functions, including with reference to the examples given." I'd really enjoyed the 400 series, and would like to read that next part. Also, does anybody else's PDF viewer crash when trying to Ctrl+F the document?
/r/RPChristians21/07/20 12:50 AM
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What?! I'll tell you one thing, that definitely ain't in the sidebar! Anyone can come here and comment a bunch of garbage. When used maliciously, it's called a false flag. If you want to know what RPC truly believes, the sidebar is where you need to go.
/r/askRPC21/07/20 12:39 AM
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Beware of drips if you go that route Thanks for the heads up brother. I got a sketchy one this week, but it needs repair and a thorough cleaning. If you ask, God will show you. He's been so faithful to show me where and how I ought to go. "Alight unto my path, and a lamp unto my feet" I think it goes. You might not like where He takes you (at first, I didn't), but His plan is the best plan for your life. I don't get the explicit revelation that folks like Chuck seem to get, but I am in my curren…
/r/RPChristians17/07/20 08:22 PM
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Kind of a depressing high score right? I'll remove it.
/r/RPChristians17/07/20 08:02 PM
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I appreciate it, but I think he is right to call me out. Chuck has also said to me, "As long as you identify with losers, their loser-ness will continue to rub off on you." Honestly I should have taken that part out when Chuck pointed it out on OYS 10!
/r/RPChristians16/07/20 02:01 AM
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I don't mean to imply that the only thing keeping me from fornication is unavailability of women. That simply ain't true. Instead, I want to convey a sense of my standing in society. I'm kinda at the bottom of the ladder. Perhaps "involuntary bachelor" would be better.
/r/RPChristians16/07/20 01:19 AM
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OYS 16
/r/RPChristians16/07/20 12:32 AM
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High effort! Way to set the example!
/r/RPChristians14/07/20 03:03 AM
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Don't know much about the sub other than it was purported to be similar to this one. I looked up the user you mentioned. He has no comments or karma.
/r/RPChristians30/06/20 11:44 PM
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They shut down /r/muslimredpill in this ban wave. My opinion is that it is only a matter of time before they come for us. Using youtube as a rallying point is a good idea. Additionally, it would be wise to archive the high quality posts on the sub. LIVE CHAT I'm interested. Perhaps you could create a general thread where we post our proposed questions in it, so you can plan ahead and keep the video from stalling. ONE-ON-ONE CHAT I'm not the best specimen from this sub, but I hold great respect f…
/r/RPChristians30/06/20 03:54 AM
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/r/muslimredpill got banned. Seems like the rest of the redpill subs survived, but I just want to highlight the fact that we are not invisible to the enemy. It is only a matter of time.
/r/askRPC30/06/20 12:18 AM
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I'll throw a few reddit alternatives in for consideration. I don't know if the rumors about the incoming ban wave are credible, but it's good for us to plan ahead. We have to remember that RPC exists in enemy territory. Voat Userbase is generally pretty racist. You'll see the N-word a lot. They strongly dislike Jews. Medium sized, but very active userbase. Website is somewhat unreliable. It goes down for about an hour 5 days a week. Subverse creation is currently disabled. It's supposed to be a …
/r/askRPC28/06/20 05:13 PM
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I do have a mission for my life, and I am going at it. It is not for me to discuss with strangers online, as it is beside the point. Just know that I do have one. sure ...
/r/RPChristians28/06/20 04:41 PM
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Inconclusive at best. The only thing we know for a fact is that cannabis was burned at that location a long time ago. Chemical analysis also revealed that the hashish was likely burned atop dried animal droppings. Do you really think that the Israelites were burning FECES to the LORD?! Honestly, this sounds more like a desecration or a pagan practice than a reverent God-sanctioned use of the temple. Read Chronicles. Israel and Judah rebelled against God for entire generations and violated his te…
/r/RPChristians27/06/20 10:43 PM
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Is cannabis a crutch for you? Are you taking it to escape reality or to remove anxiety? I concede that it's possible for folks to just enjoy smoking, but it sounds to me like you are using it for these other purposes as well. My opinion is that it will hinder your growth. A man needs to learn to master himself, not find a substance to do the job for him. This holds true regardless of your opinion on the morality of smoking marijuana. What's your mission? What are you planning to do with your lif…
/r/RPChristians27/06/20 03:33 PM
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So I completely deleted Facebook and Messenger – I didn’t just deactivate my account, I permanently deleted it. There’s a 30 day grace period in case you change your mind but at this point I’m done. I know online ministry is important to you (I've read your mission statement), so I'll encourage you to pray about this during the grace period. You could always remove everyone you do not know personally. I'm sure whatever God convicts you to do will work out for the best, and I admire your commitme…
/r/RPChristians25/06/20 01:31 AM
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OYS 15
/r/RPChristians25/06/20 01:14 AM
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If you read the post: "women as a physical gender are uniquely given the template for how spiritual reproduction ought to occur by virtue of the physical representation they express in human marriages." So women have the gift of being able to create and raise physical children which mirrors the Christian capacity to produce spiritual offspring. At no point were women called "machines" or said to be less valuable or less human.
/r/RPChristians18/06/20 11:26 PM
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OYS 14
/r/RPChristians18/06/20 01:38 AM
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Describe these "superpowers" ... Seems to me like it's a lot of confirmation bias and self delusion.
/r/RPChristians17/06/20 02:15 AM
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OYS 13
/r/RPChristians11/06/20 01:23 AM
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Are you reading your Bible and praying regularly? Bible reading - very good. I'm going through Chuck's reading plan. Prayer - only semi-consistent. I've allowed myself to slip here and will need to address it. Here's a prayer to help you get back on the wagon The attitude expressed in that prayer is exactly what I need to model my own heart after. I'm impressed. Thank you.
/r/askRPC06/06/20 07:14 PM
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You cannot change what you do not understand brother. That book is considered essential reading for a reason. Sounds like I know what I need to do next. Thanks guys.
/r/askRPC06/06/20 07:10 PM
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Therein lies the problem. You can't fix it without God's intervention, and if God doesn't intervene you're stuck. How do you deal with this?
/r/askRPC05/06/20 06:56 PM
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I hate myself because I can't fix myself. Life is a treadmill, and it doesn't matter how hard I run because nothing I do works. It's all empty behavior modification.
/r/askRPC05/06/20 01:07 AM
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It's being the source of my problems AND being unable to fix it. Physically, my body hates me, and all my attempts at working out end in injury. Mentally, I am unable to do the work I spent my whole life training for, and my efforts to improve are overwhelmed by a mental fog that I can't overcome. Spiritually, I have little assurance that God loves me and most of my behavioral changes don't seem to reach the heart. Try as I might, I am haven't been able to remedy these problems because of who I …
/r/askRPC05/06/20 01:04 AM
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I agree that perfectionism and being harsh with oneself are major contributing factors, if not the base cause. I've been called out for that before by many folks who know me well. I have been mulling over your comment and the GotQuestions link I put up, and I think that forgiving oneself basically means recognizing that Christ has forgiven you, and that if God doesn't hold your mistakes against you, you have no reason to hold them against yourself. This doesn't really take me all the way since m…
/r/askRPC05/06/20 12:55 AM
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What gives you the impression that I think that I am better than everybody else? I don't, and I didn't.
/r/askRPC04/06/20 06:14 AM
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Subscribed. I hope you hit the 1000 subs mark soon. For those of you who don't know: They need 1000 subscribers to be able to livestream. If 1/5th of users here do it, they'll be all set.
/r/RPChristians04/06/20 05:05 AM
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OYS 12
/r/RPChristians04/06/20 04:55 AM
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"We are a subreddit that exists to provide a place for Christians to discuss problems, solutions and insights on relationships, sex, and biblical masculinity according to biblical principles." Try reading the sidebar. Click the About tab if you're on mobile.
/r/RPChristians03/06/20 04:40 AM
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As this becomes more prevalent in society, is there something we should do? Leave. Don't use it unless you're anonymous. Social media is used to advertise to us, harvest our information, and control public opinion. Especially for young single men, its harms outweigh its benefits. I won't knock those who have the fortitude to use it for ministry, but I think most of us are better served away from it. It can and has damaged us. As Nietzsche said, "Whoever fights monsters should see to it that in t…
/r/askRPC30/05/20 07:49 PM
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How do I deal with female interest when they are persistent in pursuing me even when they know I'm married? Whether it's online or in person isn't the point I was looking to address. Is the only option to shut them down, or are there other ways of dealing with this that would maintain more of an "I'm the Prize" attitude? How do you deal with steadily increasing female attention in an RPChristians way? Surely some of you deal with this in your own lives and have experience successfully navigating…
/r/RPChristians30/05/20 07:02 PM
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Some are from other countries but there are several from the US as well. A few of them eventually work their way around to asking for money their post histories are usually quite well established so I know they aren’t bots or scams With how desperate people are becoming, I wouldn't be surprised to if 90% were trying to hustle you, even with the legit post histories. So many scams start out with a pretty girl expressing interest and then either stealing a guy's info or swindling him out of his mo…
/r/RPChristians28/05/20 02:12 AM
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OYS 11
/r/RPChristians21/05/20 04:23 AM
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It'll take some humility, but we must also learn to only give advice when we are qualified to do so. For instance, a single guy like me with little to no dating experience has no basis for providing relationship advice. We should also be willing to call others out on bad input when we see it. This makes the truth easier to find and gives the guy posting bad advice an opportunity to learn and become wiser. Ask all the questions you want, but don't act like you have the answers when you've failed …
/r/RPChristians20/05/20 11:18 PM
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I think it's way too convenient for us white folks to say it's time to turn a blind eye to the sins of the past; we're through being racist now so let's all hold hands and sing "Kumbaya"! I'm not saying this. I'm saying that I should not be punished for something I had nothing to do with. It is unjust to punish all white people with racist policies because of some made up "white privilege." If we're going to do handouts, make them income based. Racism will always beget more division and racism. …
/r/askRPC20/05/20 04:13 AM
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Past wrongs are a drop in the bucket compared to the broken families, absent fathers, drug use, and crime that permeate some of these communities. All of that is a direct result of the choices made by the community members. The white privilege myth seeks to eliminate personal responsibility and put all the blame on one race, which is racist by definition. My ancestors never owned slaves, and we had no part in the civil rights violations post slavery, yet we're supposed shoulder the blame anyway.…
/r/askRPC19/05/20 11:16 PM
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Good on you for airing your disagreement. Every now and then we get some guy in the comments talking about how unbiblical he thinks this sub is, who also can't provide any specific examples of what he's talking about. I'll keep saying it: if you see something unbiblical here, call it out. I may not agree with all of coachdad's points, but as I said in my last comment, the mission of the church has slipped from saving people to making people feel saved. Contemporary services are all emotion and n…
/r/RPChristians19/05/20 06:29 AM
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Only white people need to be ashamed of their race and ancestry. It is socially abhorrent to take pride in European ethnicity and to want to preserve it. What a privilege it must be to be blamed for all of our nations problems! How fortunate are we that our ethnicity is a mark against us for scholarships, elected offices, and even jobs! If you're white and you're not living in a constant state of shame and penitence for something you had no part in, you're part of the problem. I could go on, but…
/r/askRPC19/05/20 05:22 AM
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I was waiting for someone with a green tag to chime in. Well said.
/r/RPChristians19/05/20 04:33 AM
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I'm listening. What would you suggest? My bad man, that was a joke. I guess I need to work on my delivery. I doubt I'll tell you anything you don't know. You can use plausible deniability against her just like she uses it against you. Basically you interpret anything she says in the most innocent way possible, and then force the conversation down that path. Here's an example: When she says "I need sex to help me keep the weight off," she's actually saying "have sex with me, Chuck." However, usin…
/r/RPChristians15/05/20 02:04 AM
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What does the scriptures say about neck from a non believer? The scripture says unbelievers have necks (specifically, stiff or "hardened" necks). 2 Kings 17:14 "Notwithstanding they would not hear, but hardened their necks, like to the neck of their fathers, that did not believe in the LORD their God. Dumb posts deserve dumb answers.
/r/RPChristians15/05/20 01:33 AM
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I’ve got the next 2 weeks off for vacation so I’ll knock a bunch of stuff out then. I hope you get time to rest too. I don't know how you're balancing all the hours without getting burnt out. You have some serious fortitude. she really couldn’t have made her intentions any clearer unless she just straight out asked me. This woman is dangerous. Please watch your back so you don't get me-tooed. If you want advice on how to turn her off instead of just saying "No," I'm a professional at that, and w…
/r/RPChristians13/05/20 11:31 PM
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Its valuable for you to teach her those things You can't teach when you aren't respectable. Should I sign up for that if I'm not fit for duty? You're operating from a scarcity mindset, from a mindset that will make you fearful of making mistakes, fearful of 'screwing it up' with a potential spouse. This is not a good way to approach that situation. What if I told you I had a identical twin brother who was going out and approaching and getting exactly the rejections I would expect for myself? If …
/r/askRPC12/05/20 02:32 AM
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They lived simply and were content with what they had. And most of them ended up married for life. This has become quite rare in our degenerate, feminized western society, which is probably much different than the conservative, culturally homogeneous society you described. Please correct me if that isn't a fair assumption. Feminism has become the rule and exceptions are evermore rare. Even the so called "Christian" communities are infected. Failure in dating is expected and healthy. Agreed, but …
/r/askRPC12/05/20 01:04 AM
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Good answer. The problem is, if a guy has the spiritual maturity of an 8 year old, he probably has the discernment and self-awareness of an 8 year old as well. That's why I think there needs to be an semi-objective set of performance metrics. Plenty of failed "Christian" marriages start with the guy thinking he and his wife are the real deal, but discovering that isn't the case later on. It doesn't help that infatuation tends to put our monkey brains in the driver's seat.
/r/RPChristians08/05/20 03:50 AM
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Whenever God sends a girl Gimme a break. Vague advice like that does not adequately define a starting point. Good advice needs to be actionable. Objective performance metrics. If he is surrounded by beautiful, morally upstanding women, but has the spiritual maturity of an 8 year old, it's probably best to hold off.
/r/RPChristians08/05/20 02:56 AM
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I'm on the fence about this guy also. He is aware that there is a God and that hedonism ultimately leads to emptiness, but I'm not sure if he knows Jesus. The mushroom story is true (not another media exaggeration). Here's what he wrote about the experience.
/r/RPChristians03/05/20 08:42 PM
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If we're not living in fear, we're a lot harder to control. People might become aware that governing organizations around the world are capitalizing on the pandemic to expand their powers. We can't have that now, can we? A fearful populace is a submissive populace.
/r/RPChristians30/04/20 11:36 PM
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Do you have any goals you're working towards? Plenty of side quests (fix the truck, heal right hip, various fabrication or repair projects, etc.) but no main quest. Other than the maintenance tasks mentioned in OYS, that's what I work on. That's the mission problem. Also, this sub is focused on attracting women but you don't seem to mention anything about pursuing anyone. Have you put that on hold for some reason? I tend to view the focus of the sub more generally as helping men attain Biblical …
/r/RPChristians29/04/20 07:54 PM
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OYS 10
/r/RPChristians29/04/20 03:55 PM
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I'm curious as to what other hobbies you guys here have, if you have a moment (which I'm sure some of you might have due to the Q) I'd be curious to read a short snippet of it and how you're investing in it. Fixing things (mainly cars and motorcycles, but sometimes tools and electronics) Satisfies social exposure and mental stimulation If I add fabrication to this, it approaches artistic expression, but I have limited fab resources because I don't have my own place. Mountain biking or riding my …
/r/askRPC27/04/20 02:58 AM
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OYS 9 OYS 8 here Marital Status: Single for 10 years, KV Age: 25 Height: 5’8” Weight: 140lbs Background: Ex graduate student, now working an interim engineering position. Christian (Calvinist) since childhood. MISSION: Last week's attempt at a mission statement was a bust, so I'm back to the drawing board. Seems like you guys have a clear indication of what you're supposed to do (a calling) and a way to work that calling into your everyday life (through your skills, interests, and opportunities)…
/r/RPChristians22/04/20 04:18 PM
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Glad to hear that you and your wife are doing alright. You're on many guys' prayer lists around here. I used some of the extra money to finish paying off the car, so no more car payment yay! So you took a big hit to your household income, and you were still able to improve your financial fitness. That's Chuck for you, I tell you what.
/r/RPChristians22/04/20 03:48 PM
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Sounds to me like you've been indoctrinated into the trap of social justice. Here's a truth you will not accept: social "justice" is not about justice; it is about controlling public discourse, and by extension, public opinion. It is a weapon used against the Church to have us compromise on our beliefs and morals. It is an evil, hypocritical ideology that will stretch any inch you give it into a degenerate, authoritarian mile. Here's another truth: social justice has only served to increase dege…
/r/RPChristians19/04/20 07:08 PM
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CoachDad8 had some good advice on my mission statement last OYS that I think will be relevant here: "RockNRollChuck mentioned a study he's teaching called Way Of The Master. It addresses an evangelistic strategy called "Lifestyle Evangelism" which is using your righteous lifestyle to point people to Christ. The author mentions that this tactic rarely converts non-believers because there was no actual sharing of the Gospel. To paraphrase the book: "Lifestyle Evangelism rarely works because there …
/r/askRPC19/04/20 01:03 AM
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This community helped me, and I'm no better than the rest of 'em. Finding it marks a turning point in my life. I haven't made it yet, but I believe in the mission of this sub because I have experienced it to some degree. IMO many of them can change and live happy productive lives. They just so pedestalize sex and relationships that they can't imagine any other source of meaning. You're 100% right. I am convinced that there is a way for us to give them the true source of meaning!
/r/askRPC16/04/20 04:33 AM
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One is that TRP stuff is irrelevant for chads. I think we'd both actually agree that TRP is relevant for all males! I wouldn't be here otherwise. You and I are also on the same page that "Frame" doesn't cover all flaws. The main reason incels reject the redpill is because it doesn't explain their experiences; it completely discounts them. But I'm certain there's a way to do it with a BIBLICAL basis. I'm all fired up about this now because if we can figure this out, we can save incels from depres…
/r/askRPC16/04/20 04:28 AM
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If the TRP can use the modern dating situation to sell snake oil, imagine how we can use it to share Biblical truth and, ultimately, the gospel! Incels are a universally hated, unreached group that make up a significant portion of western males, but these people could be absolutely transformed by the love of Christ! Imagine the effect on our society! The Bible has a cure for loneliness and misery. If we can figure out how to articulate it and how to live it, that's a huge launchpad for a ministr…
/r/askRPC16/04/20 04:13 AM
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The problem here is that truth (to some extent) is defined by the victors. The victorious high SMV males have a completely different experience than the guys at the bottom. They believe their experiences are the only valid experiences, and in doing so they completely fail to address the reality of half the guys out there. Incels do the same thing, only in reverse. To GigaChad, women are easy and all you need to do is talk a big game and maintain frame. To StBlackOpscel, women treat him like an i…
/r/askRPC16/04/20 03:39 AM
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1 & 2) Ridiculous. You cannot have sex with someone's personality. Personality competing with physical appearance is the exception. It's how we're programmed. 11) "Orbit your lady at the bar all night until she caves and decides to sleep with you." Perhaps it does work for one night stands, but not for lifelong marriages. 16) Maybe low SMV sluts adhere to this. As many here have discovered, your wife doesn't. For long term relationships it's shape up or ship out. Nobody wants to marry a cheat me…
/r/askRPC16/04/20 03:28 AM
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Is this bait? If you are late to the party then expect to be a backup to the real players. If you're a backup, then you're not a player at all. You're not even in the game. Nobody wants a backup, and the current sexual economy makes it so women don't need to settle for one, chubby girls included. You're basically dropping a blackpill here and then telling people to "have abundance." Surely you can see how these things are incompatible.
/r/RPChristians15/04/20 05:02 PM
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/r/RPChristians15/04/20 03:25 PM
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Seems like the primary success metric for a contemporary-style church is how emotional the congregation gets. You open with "lovey-dovey" praise songs where the worship leaders are singing at you instead of with you and doing all these cringy ad-libs and vocal acrobatics. Next you have a sermon that's basically spiritual white bread padded with sad videos or anecdotes to really soften everyone up. And it all culminates in a big altar call, where you're expected to come to the front, hug some ran…
/r/RPChristians15/04/20 02:22 AM
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I'd have to figure out if she's the type who "gets around" or not. A girl who's solid wife material is all good in my book, tattoos or not.
/r/RPChristians14/04/20 10:40 PM
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[Women with tattoos reported greater willingness to engage in uncommitted sexual relations, as well as higher endorsement of egalitarianism and sensation-seeking, relative to non-tattooed women] (http://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s12119-020-09729-1) Apparently that stereotype has some basis in reality (or at least a correlation). God's love doesn't depend on your physical appearance, but a smart potential mate might have some questions.
/r/RPChristians14/04/20 10:37 PM
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Call it out when you see it, brother! It doesn't have to be that way. This is one of very few forums where we can freely have these discussions, and the only one that I know of that approaches RP topics in a Christian context. We are perpetually losing these places to censorship (especially on reddit). Instead of abandoning it, I think it's better to refine it and help point those who are lost in the right direction.
/r/RPChristians13/04/20 07:44 PM
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If you don't mind sharing, how did you keep the faith for those 10 years as an addict? What kept you going?
/r/RPChristians11/04/20 07:08 PM
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May I suggest going for certification's instead. That's a great suggestion and something I have acted on. My workplace will train the heck out of me if I ask for it. I would stay put because getting a job now is extremely hard and I wouldn't expect that to change for at least a year You are exactly right. It's good for me to reflect on where God has put me and be thankful. I studied mechanical engineering because I wanted to build things. Turns out, machinists and fabricators do all that now. I'…
/r/RPChristians10/04/20 10:15 PM
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Once this thing is over, I'd be glad to help you out lifting. I'm in. Seriously. I posted my meal plan in a reply to RockNRollChuck's comment. R/flexibility's stretch routine appears to be helping. Do I think you should finish your masters? Do you want to stay in your current state/with your current employer or go elsewhere? I probably shouldn't waste the gifts God has given me, but that doesn't mean I have to get another degree. Ultimately, I just want to do something that works. I'm tired of b…
/r/RPChristians10/04/20 10:02 PM
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How's your diet? I reckon it's good, but I'll be more accountable here. Breakfast: Wheat bagle, banana, milk Lunch: Peanut butter & honey sandwhich, 2 handfuls of nuts, bag of carrots, apple. Dinner: ~1lb steak & cookie sheet full of baked broccoli * Other weeks it'll be a casserole or a crockpot dish with double the veggies and some extras added in. Admittedly, these aren't always home runs. Snack: Whey protein if I'm hungry or miss a meal I made this meal plan to be cheap, and then just starte…
/r/RPChristians10/04/20 09:39 PM
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Or are you suggesting that God will save someone and then refuse to assist him in sanctification afterward? I'm not suggesting this, but I am suggesting that a person may endeavor to repent and be saved, but be barred from salvation because God does not accept him. He can never muster true repentance because that requires the Spirit. That's my issue here. If becoming a new creation is exclusively the work of the Holy Spirit, then we are stuck until he intervenes, and God can choose never to inte…
/r/RPChristians10/04/20 08:34 PM
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I have had the idea to invite people to read their Bible with me. I think this a great idea. A friend of mine did the same thing on a whim, just like you're talking about, and it has grown into a 7 person bible study that has lasted over a year. Finally, how do you do the line across the page? [BLANK LINE] [---] [BLANK LINE] 3 consecutive dashes sandwiched between 2 blank lines. I put brackets around everything to prevent autoformatting.
/r/RPChristians08/04/20 08:20 PM
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OYS 7 OYS 6 here Marital Status: Single for 10 years, KV Age: 25 Height: 5’8” Weight: 140lbs Background: Ex graduate student, now working an interim engineering position. Christian (Calvinist) since childhood. MISSION: Get my head above water mentally, physically, and spiritually while doing what I can to serve God and lead others to him. • Practically this means exercise, personal and corporate bible study, and volunteer efforts that I can leverage for ministry. I don’t like how vague that is e…
/r/RPChristians08/04/20 03:13 PM
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It's not just an external behavioral change to cover over our perpetually internal evil state of being. It's that our internal state of being is in the process of becoming like Christ because we are one with him. I don't disagree with the fundamental concept you are laying out in this post, but I struggle to see how to apply it all the way through. Much of this is outside the human sphere of influence. we can't use our actions to change our identity My understanding of the Fall was that Adam and…
/r/RPChristians08/04/20 07:00 AM
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Oof. You're right. See you there.
/r/RPChristians07/04/20 07:51 PM
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He's referring to rule 2 on the sidebar. You're not technically "asking for help with relationship issues," but stats are still sometimes relevant because they give folks an indication if you're walking the walk instead of just talking the talk.
/r/RPChristians07/04/20 05:37 PM
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Curious about your experience. Why go volcel? How do you deal with daily temptation? What's your mission? Not a lot of voluntarily celibate males here. Would be interesting to see a post about your experience up here sometime.
/r/RPChristians05/04/20 05:30 PM
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Your google drive is excellent. Where are you finding all the book PDFs? Most churches I'm familiar with have transitioned to livestreams and online meetups. It's not as good as being there in person, but it's a good stop gap. I'm using this opportunity as a way to reconnect with a small church in TX that I attended when I lived there. It's kinda nice to have the distance barrier removed for a time. My bible study has been online only for me since approximately last May. It's the only way my col…
/r/RPChristians01/04/20 10:50 PM
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It's a generalization, but that's the sexual marketplace today. Just like there's such a short supply of non-beta males, there is a short supply of morally upstanding females. Both sexes are broken. As I tried to describe in this comment, the sexual marketplace is unbalanced and broken in a way that encourages dominant, unrestrained hypergamy in females and pathetic beta submission in males. I think you and I would both agree that we'd see approximately the same behavior if the genders were flip…
/r/RPChristians01/04/20 08:07 PM
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Meditations sounds like an interesting read. I'll take you up on that.
/r/RPChristians01/04/20 06:01 PM
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I saw your reply to my comment, and am replying here because I think I can contribute to this discussion. I am not convinced women care about morality at all We're somewhat on the same page, but I think you're position is a bit too one-sided. This may start off sounding a little "knightly," but hear me out. HUMANS are immoral. Ever since the fall, we have had a sinful nature, and as a result, the natural impulses of men and women are taken to wicked extremes. Sexuality is good, but taken to an e…
/r/RPChristians01/04/20 05:48 PM
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I'll add the popular adage, "When seconds count the police are only minutes away."
/r/askRPC01/04/20 05:07 PM
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Modern conservatives aren't conserving anything.
/r/RPChristians01/04/20 05:02 PM
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The standards of single guys has become so outrageous as if every normal dude deserves a hot girl. I disagree. OkCupid did a study on this where women rated 80% of the guys as below average. Same study has guys rating girls closer to 50% below average, which is what you'd expect. Can you honestly say men have outrageous standards when there are guys exhausting their savings on donations to pallid, medicore-SMV "gamer" chicks and tripping over themselves to buy some girl's bathwater? Men aren't n…
/r/RPChristians01/04/20 02:51 PM
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Acne is genetic bro. Some folks get by fine with off the shelf cleansers; others get run over by the acne truck and have to visit the dermatologist for 7 years. Height, hairline, and facial bone structure are also genetically determined and cannot be addressed well by non-medically invasive means. I mention this because I'd like to know: What advice do you have for the genetically inferior males out there? Confidence? I agree that confidence adds value, but a balding indian janitor acting like h…
/r/RPChristians31/03/20 07:51 PM
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Here you go Courtesy of u/RPChristOf. It's a little outdated, but close enough.
/r/askRPC30/03/20 03:54 PM
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Being able to alter something without physically interacting with it and without regard to distance are things that have long been reserved to God's domain, but I don't think that attaining these capabilities would elevate man to God's level. Ultimately, we would still only be able to alter existing matter that God created, which is something we've been able to do for a long time (welding, chemistry, machining, etc.). We would not be able to create matter from nothing, and we would still be subj…
/r/askRPC29/03/20 09:27 PM
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Involuntarily. No vows, but a conviction to follow God's law. Low status probably keeps me in check also. Life is fine. Abstaining from PMO will always be a struggle, but it's manageable. I've learned to deal fairly well with being alone, and I know what I need to do to fix the problem. My mission is basically to climb out of inceldom and carry a few disciples up with me along the way. If you're upset about your own celibacy, find a goal to work towards. It'll make a difference.
/r/RPChristians25/03/20 09:11 PM
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Insults and sarcasm aside, I reckon I got an answer to the original question. You made this post to "hear people's saddest stories" and "share vulnerabilities." My point was: doing that accomplishes nothing substantive. I may be wrong, and, on your recommendation, I'll start looking into the role vulnerability might play in biblical manhood. We're all hear to learn, guide, and encourage after all. I'm happy to be wrong if it get's me closer to the Truth. In the meantime, have you had an opportun…
/r/askRPC17/03/20 12:30 AM
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Relax bro, no reason to get defensive. It's common to check each other here. Iron sharpens iron. Being vulnerable for the sake of being vulnerable is feminine. If you're trying to learn from people's mistakes, that's a good reason. If you're trying to get help with a problem, that's a good reason. If you're here to commiserate, that's just a validation exchange.
/r/askRPC16/03/20 12:51 AM
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More like you say, "my biggest regret is ____." And everybody responds, "That's rough buddy. We feel so sorry for you." Then you feel validated. But you can't be that blatant about it because then folks might call you out. So instead you phrase it as a question to lure others in. Or perhaps I'm off the mark. It's hard to interpret others' intentions online. Why make such a vague and open-ended post otherwise? What will you do with the information you receive?
/r/askRPC15/03/20 10:42 PM
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To see if this is post is more than a request for validation.
/r/askRPC15/03/20 08:55 PM
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I'd rather speak freely without the language police trying to control what I say. We will not change our behavior because a vocal minority has arbitrarily decided that it is offensive. You can pester us all you want, but it won't help your cause.
/r/RPChristians14/03/20 02:58 PM
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What is the point of this question?
/r/askRPC11/03/20 03:20 AM
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I haven't experienced this in any of the churches I've attended thus far, and I've been fairly involved in most of them. Could this trend you're describing be a megachurch thing or a regional or denominational problem? I find it hard to believe I would have gotten lucky with church selection in 3 different states, three times in a row. It's true that people at church are generally not as up-front and ready to call others out as they are here on RPC, but I think that's just because we are conditi…
/r/askRPC21/02/20 01:29 AM
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Keep in mind that the comments you find in the wild don't necessarily reflect the views of those who started this community. RPC isn't a single entity; it's a bunch of different people who at best share an interest in how the redpill may relate to Christianity. Sometimes us new folks will try to offer advice when we really don't know what we're talking about. The mods noticed this problem early on and rolled out a flair system to address it. It ain't perfect, but you know when Chuck, Red, or Oz …
/r/RPChristians19/02/20 04:06 AM
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Christians should talk like Christians. A habit of foul language will undermine your attempts to witness to those around you. Luke 6:45 "The good person out of the good treasure of his heart produces good, and the evil person out of his evil treasure produces evil, for out of the abundance of the heart his mouth speaks."
/r/RPChristians19/02/20 03:55 AM
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Play a sport. You'll get fellowship with other people and exercise. Going to the gym is only self centered if you make it that way. Physical fitness does more than make you look attractive; it helps you think more clearly, enables you to do more with your body, boosts your charisma, and improves your mental state. These are all benefits that can be used to glorify the Lord. Our bodies are gifts from God. It is a good thing for us to strengthen and maintain them.
/r/RPChristians19/02/20 03:47 AM
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Mission: I was asked about my Mission this week, and it occurred to me that I’ve never really written it out as a statement on here. I'm not the one who requested it, but thank you. I've had a hard time putting anything specific behind a mission statement, and it's nice to see a good example. Career/Finances: MY WAIT IS OVER. God has made it clear that I am free to move on and find another job! Congrats! It will be exciting to see where the Lord leads you and what you'll accomplish when you're n…
/r/RPChristians14/02/20 05:52 AM
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I’ve decided to quit porn for good and have not masturbated in days. I seem to recall a time when a single night was a monumental struggle. You've made substantial progress here fighting the good fight of faith. Also been doing great in the night class I’m taking. Some people have asked me for help and so I shared a few study links that helped me so far. It turns out being smart in collage is much better for your social reputation than in public school. Still need to figure out ways to improve s…
/r/RPChristians14/02/20 05:46 AM
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I could. I'm certainly embittered against the school, but my negative viewpoint really encompasses academia itself. I don't think my worldview is accurate, so I want to overcome my bitterness and be able to see things as they truly are.
/r/askRPC14/02/20 05:31 AM
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Thanks for the input, Chuck. Anger is a significant component of bitterness, and I'm glad you addressed it so thoroughly. I think bitterness also involves a change in worldview, and that's what I'm really having trouble addressing. I had bad experiences, so when I look at going back, those experiences define how I view graduate programs. It's the same with folks who write off relationships; their view of relationships is characterized by past rejections or betrayals. Reading the Bible will certa…
/r/askRPC14/02/20 05:27 AM
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This guy and u/ElectricalWait are the same person. It's a guy with bipolar disorder who likes to troll Christian and university subs and generally cause mischief. He was running around claiming to be a modern day prophet a month or two ago.
/r/RPChristians14/02/20 01:17 AM
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I have never asked anyone out on a date, so I may have done well with the "burn with passion" thing. The phrase "burn with passion" (1 Corinthians 8-9) refers to sexual sin. If you have a porn or masturbation problem, you're burning. I am free from feeling like I'm not living up to expectations I am free from comparisons to various other men There is no longer any pressure to buy expensive earthly possessions in order to increase my "social status" This post reads like one big DEER. Perhaps you …
/r/RPChristians31/01/20 09:41 PM
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You can do everything right and still fail. You can cry out to God for a decade and the answer can be cold silence. You can live a life of dedication and discipline, and in return receive uncertainty and failure. You can be as excellent as you can possibly manage, and it means nothing. I can relate to your situation in some ways (loneliness, career dead end, injuries), but I don't think I've yet made it to the other side. Pray the verses that u/wittdtjrmatt posted. Verse 7 is a promise, and I ha…
/r/RPChristians18/01/20 07:02 AM
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There were race restrictions on marriage in the Old Testament, but I reckon that was more to prevent the Jews from marrying unbelievers than to maintain racial purity. Either way, those race restrictions no longer apply under the New Covenant, and wouldn't apply to Gentiles anyway. As others have said, there are no applicable restrictions on interracial marriage in the Bible. However, if the preservation of your race, culture, and values is part of you mission, it makes sense to incorporate that…
/r/askRPC14/01/20 05:07 AM
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Definitely not all. Just look at OYS on the main sub. There are a couple guys who had premarital sex with their wives that also have stable marriages. I almost linked to an older post where someone asked, "what's the point in abstaining?" but then I realized it's your post!
/r/askRPC10/01/20 04:48 PM
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Welcome to RPC! my biggest fear is that I will remain a virgin forever and live a life I am unhappy with in pursuit of His purpose. I plan on inquiring with God about this as I am afraid of what my life will be like once I fully submit my will to Him. Keep in mind that you are not guaranteed a happy life either way. If you reject Christ and devote yourself to your desires, you will come up empty even if you attain them. There is nothing in this world that can fulfill us long term, and we take no…
/r/RPChristians07/01/20 06:21 AM
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RedCurious has some pretty solid info on dealing with a BPD wife in his comments on [this post] (https://old.reddit.com/r/RPChristians/comments/ae8lyt/i_unknowingly_married_a_bpd_and_i_need_advice/). Apologies if you've already seen it. I occasionally like to dig through the old parts of the sub. Saw this one a while back, and your post reminded me of it.
/r/RPChristians10/12/19 01:50 AM
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You're right. Don't take on a first mate if you can't run a ship. But keep in mind, the next stage will be harder. Take it from someone who finished top of his class, and is now an involuntary celibate working a job that pays 10 - 20 thousand dollars less than the average for my degree. I have lived the same life you described in those bullet points, with great academic success. I don't want OP to end up where I did. Your advice is good for someone in a position to take advantage of it My sugges…
/r/RPChristians08/12/19 06:12 AM
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I would definitely wait until you graduate to get into a relationship. History is littered with stories of young men who got with a girl and ended up leaving school for her, only to regret it later. I'm nowhere near your level, but I'm going to have to disagree with you here. It is an order of magnitude more difficult to meet people, especially girls, after graduating and entering the working world. In no other time of your life will you be surrounded by thousands of people who are the same age,…
/r/RPChristians06/12/19 02:45 AM
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Hey, remember last time you dumped a 2 hour video here with a vague title and it got removed for being low effort? Can you read? OP is either a bot programmed to scattergun media all over reddit, or a karma farmer that does the same thing.
/r/RPChristians28/11/19 04:32 PM
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Sure, but it's been a while. Red is right; porn has been "used as a tool of condemnation over men by the church in their marriages." I'll also agree with his critique of the article he used. Our feminized society loves to point all the blame on men and try to dictate what we're attracted to. Like Red says, that doesn't make porn consumption okay. I know firsthand that the damage it does is very real. It doesn't "kill your libido," but overconsumption can lead to porn induced erectile dysfunction…
/r/RPChristians19/11/19 12:27 AM
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The trade off to get more sleep has been giving in the sexual urges the moment I feel them. So the last few day's I've gotten 7-9 hours of sleep, but at the cost of not resisting sin. I get it, but I'll also point out that if you don't do anything to make progress on recovering from this addiction, you're gonna stay where you're at. Can you at least try to resist the urge to not look at porn? That's where the guy I mentioned in the previous reply started. If you're not going to do cold turkey, a…
/r/RPChristians18/11/19 12:25 AM
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Only getting 4 hours of sleep per night means low productivity and a high number of errors. The effect of not sleeping good has crushed me This is your number 1 problem right now. Sleep affects everything. You're trying to power all sorts of change on a dead battery. Dump the other stuff and go to bed earlier. Like right after dinner - at least until you get it under control. For you're own sanity man, please. You said last OYS that you were being kept awake by sexual urges. Is it just that or i…
/r/RPChristians16/11/19 12:35 AM
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Welcome! Here are some tips that have helped me in my ongoing battle. I can't speak much for sleeping around outside of marriage, but the principles are the same. 1. Make a firm commitment to sexual purity. Burn, throwaway, or delete any sexually explicit items or media that you own. Install blockers on your devices if you need to. Don't indulge one last time before going on a streak. Start today. It is a life change, not a streak. 2. Learn to see porn and unbiblical manifestations of sex for wh…
/r/RPChristians15/11/19 01:39 AM
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It varies a bit, depending on what station you listen to, but there's a clear leftist bias in just about everything they put out. A fair bit of their reporting is just them bashing the right, praising the left, and complaining about Trump. The cultural stuff often has some new degenerate social trend being promoted. They do seem more concerned with the facts than most TV news sources, but there's a leftist spin on everything. Still, there are few ads (acknowledging sponsors), and you can listen …
/r/RPChristians09/11/19 05:59 PM
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This is the first time I've head the term "negative validation" before, but it makes a lot of sense. You see it all the time in incel communities. It's what makes the blackpill mentality so addicting. I don't think that Abundance Mentality is a valid route to confidence for those who live in scarcity, but the DNGAF approach you described here can be undertaken honestly by anyone. What do you think? Should low value males be actively running game and approaching women to help numb themselves to r…
/r/RPChristians16/10/19 01:35 AM
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Where do you get your supplements, Chuck?
/r/RPChristians14/10/19 11:12 PM
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The Christian God is not the same god as Allah. The God of Christianity is a triune being who manifests himself in three ways: Father, Son, and Holy Spirit. Muslims reject the concept of the trinity. They also do not believe in the deity of Christ. These are important core principles that cannot be glossed over. This seems like an attempt to rationalize an obviously bad (and unbiblical) relationship. Don't reject or distort the truth over a woman. EDIT: You seem new to the faith, or perhaps you …
/r/askRPC11/10/19 03:44 AM
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The request for stats stems from rule 2 of the main sub (/r/rpchristians). 2: ALL posts asking for help with relationship issues must include the following: Mission: Tell us what it is and why you need a woman's help accomplishing it (I'm being serious) Stats: body fat, height, weight, lifts, etc. Reading: Which sidebar content you've read (RPC and/or MRP) Finances: Current job and income quality, future prospects, debt issues Spiritual: How mature you are, how often you pray, have quiet times, …
/r/askRPC11/10/19 03:29 AM
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The Scripture makes it clear that that is unacceptable. 2 Corinthians 6:14 "Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what partnership has righteousness with lawlessness? Or what fellowship has light with darkness? Hard choices, but that's why Matthew 7:14 says "For the gate is narrow and the way is hard that leads to life, and those who find it are few." The hard choices are what separate the genuine article from the guy who says "God will forgive me; I'll just repent later." and then nev…
/r/askRPC11/10/19 12:12 AM
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Premarital sex is a sin. I don't know why you're so surprised that you're being called out when you posted on a Christian forum. Here's what I get from reading this: Girl #1 Pathological liar Won't communicate Horribly promiscuous Manipulative Non-Christian Oh, but she's educated. Yee yee. Girl #2 Doesn't sound like she's a Christian either Uneducated Has low standards You Oneitis Can't or won't stick up for yourself Dependent on others for validation Either saved a with seared conscience or Chr…
/r/askRPC10/10/19 11:15 PM
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OYS 6 OYS 5 here Marital Status: Single for 9 years, KV Age: 25 Height: 5’8” Weight: 140lbs Background: Ex-graduate student, now working an interim engineering position. Christian (Calvinist) since childhood. MISSION: Get my head above water mentally, physically, and spiritually while doing what I can to serve God and lead others to him. Helping with worship team tomorrow and Sunday. Registered to help clean up a rehab all Saturday too. Witnessing through labor and service is something I can do …
/r/RPChristians10/10/19 02:06 AM
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How do you not "meet the strength prerequisite for running" yet? I tore my meniscus on a routine run, and it took me a year to recover. I'm too weak to take any physical activity for granted. Never again. There's a correlation between strength and joint stability that I'm trying to take advantage of. There's a difference between what I'm capable of doing and what my body can actually handle. Taking it slow is me attempting to get those two things on the same level. If you're not reading the Word…
/r/RPChristians04/10/19 10:11 PM
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OYS 5 OYS 4 here Marital Status: Single for 9 years, KV Age: 25 Height: 5’8” Weight: 140lbs Background: Ex-graduate student, now working an interim engineering position. Christian (Calvinist) since childhood. I officially moved states and tied up loose ends with graduate school during the month of August. Took me a month to get it all done. I kinda fell off the wagon around then, but I've been back on for a couple of weeks now. MISSION: Get my head above water mentally, physically, and spiritual…
/r/RPChristians03/10/19 01:32 AM
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That's good if you're already hearing stuff, but what if the only internal voice you have is your own inner monologue? No spirits of any kind telling you what to do.
/r/RPChristians28/09/19 09:15 PM
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I believe you. My first graduate advisor was like that. The whole reason he was at my university was because God spoke to him in a dream. How do you get there? Seems to me like having a divine internal voice would save a lot of time and anguish in life. Otherwise it's like being swallowed by a fish without ever being told up front to "go to Nineveh," if you catch my drift.
/r/RPChristians28/09/19 02:49 AM
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Serious question, how do you discern God's will in something as specific as what job you do?
/r/RPChristians27/09/19 12:49 AM
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on top of it I keep on thinking I must have committed the sin in Matthew 12:31-32 I'm not knowledgeable enough to adequately address this, but I think it'd be worth fleshing out among other Christians (perhaps those on this forum?). Might be a good /r/askrpc post. Better to have some certainty one way or another. I believe in conditional security and that means my salvation does hinge on enduring until the end. I don't expect to change your mind with reddit comments, but I'd like to submit some …
/r/RPChristians18/09/19 03:59 AM
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I made this a separate comment because I'm not as qualified to speak on this issue. I too have ongoing struggles with sexual sin and assurance of salvation. It's kinda the centerpiece of your post, so I can't ignore it. Only been able to avoid masturbation for 2 days in a row. My entire sex drive is even more unnaturally messed up and I keep on riding the train of lust unable to see my life actually going differently. AND As for what I think of God. He is holy and has no place for a sinner like …
/r/RPChristians13/09/19 07:37 AM
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my high heart rate is due to being out of shape. You're 25, young enough to bounce back without a lot of grief. It's still gonna take work. On the plus side, exercise will make you feel better and sleep better. Stick some headphones in your ears, blast some good music, and spend 30 minutes on that bike. Or walk around after sundown somewhere away from people and talk to God while you walk. In other news I have a job interview coming up shortly, but honestly it's not my cup of tea... So I'm likel…
/r/RPChristians13/09/19 06:36 AM
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I agree that our feminized society is a factor and your wife/SO can also be a factor, but regardless of how all that is, we still have a high calling to live up to as men. We're expected to care for our bodies and pursue a mission regardless of how our relationships are going. I don't view that as taking sole responsibility for everything; I see it as trying to live up to our calling as Christian men and being aware that we don't do it perfectly ever. Unfortunately society and other people are o…
/r/RPChristians11/09/19 02:06 AM
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Miracles are real I'm not denying that. I'm saying that imitations are often used to prey on the vulnerable. We should not be afraid to call out those who use Christianity as a vehicle for their own profit. they happen all the time thanks to God I suppose it depends on your definition of miracle. The continued existence of the universe is in a sense a miracle. If we're talking the type of acts done by Jesus and his disciples, where? I'm not saying those things can't occur; I'm saying it's extrem…
/r/askRPC05/09/19 04:37 AM
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I'll agree that there's risk involved, but there's a way to do a no building church that mitigates the risk. In this case, the church did own a small church office, paid next to nothing for rent, and the location put them right in the middle of a large body that they could minister to. I'm just not sure about using miraculous events as a metric for the church. Too often you see con men like Benny Hinn leading folks astray with supposed "miracles." It's hard to tell the difference between the fra…
/r/askRPC04/09/19 11:45 PM
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I'd like to see churches be a bit less materialistic. I attended a church in TX that didn't even have their own building. The congregation met in a rented room in the student center of a college campus and packed the all the church supplies in and out. The majority of the budget went to missions since the operating costs were so low. The experience made me second guess the priorities of many modern churches. Miracles signs and wonders, the casting out of demons. Are you implying that one can con…
/r/askRPC04/09/19 04:06 AM
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Reading the bible alone was unfruitful and I ended up not really learning anything mainly because I was always long checked out before getting to where I planned to stop reading. I have the same problem. I'm not an expert or model citizen by any means, but my mind was a complete wreck when I started to try to read scripture regularly. Here is what I did to resolve it. Set aside 30 minutes (or however long/short you like) in your schedule as Bible Time. This will make it easier to build the habit…
/r/RPChristians30/08/19 04:24 PM
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RunawayGrain's response is solid. I'll add that if you're in a technical major like engineering, you can land co-ops or internships that pay around $20/hour. Doing one of those every summer will put a decent dent in your debt if you're frugal. It also lets you build a relationship with a company that you can leverage to get hired after graduation. Pretty much any STEM major can do this.
/r/RPChristians29/08/19 01:13 AM
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Look, it's that thing you added to the conversation. Why even comment?
/r/askRPC28/08/19 03:32 PM
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Where the heck are you going to church? I haven't seen near the level of degeneracy you described. There are still solid churches out there, at least in the South. The answer to your question is Leftism. This anti-european, anti-male, anti-Christian agenda has been inserted into just about every aspect of society. I say inserted because it is by design. The PCA/PCUSA split was a result of a hostile takeover by leftists who would meet secretly before the general assembly. Now there's an entire gr…
/r/RPChristians25/08/19 02:35 AM
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Points to Mission category. Sounds like your setting a good example.
/r/RPChristians24/08/19 04:26 AM
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Mission: Living each day in Christ's frame, running the race in a way that inspires others to run as well. I've read your old monthly updates. I'm the same age as you, and I'll get caught in the thinking that I've missed my window for becoming a man. It's nice to see that 25 is not too late to turn things around. I'd add some points to that mission.
/r/RPChristians23/08/19 04:05 PM
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I think you mean PCUSA. PCUSA is the one that approved homosexuality and other degenerate practices. PCA did not. If there's something else going on let me know, but I don't think my denomination has been infected. EDIT: link for the uninformed There's a BIG difference between PCA and PCUSA.
/r/RPChristians12/08/19 05:11 AM
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The person was truly a Christian, but not a member of the elect. This is the view I, a non-cucked Presbyterian, hold. In my opinion, this view basically wipes out any assurance we could ever have. If election is the sole determinant of salvation, nothing else (fruit, feelings, self-improvement, etc) has any bearing on where we spend eternity. You could feasibly have someone who tries their utmost to do everything right and is still eternally damned because God never chose them in the first place…
/r/RPChristians07/08/19 04:34 AM
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Good feedback all around. To clarify, my intent behind this question was to confirm if there was a problem (which you did), not to learn to present a false better image of myself (which would defeat the purpose of OYS). your outlook is simply the way you expect life to be going forward. You clearly don’t see a positive future for yourself yet and it shows. Craft your life today in a way that makes you feel that tomorrow will be better. Solid and very helpful. A somewhat similar comment is what t…
/r/RPChristians06/08/19 01:18 AM
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You're cheating yourself out of noob gains by sticking with a beginner workout. I would transition to free weights ASAP, just start with the bar and work your way up. You're right. It's time. Time to write some verses down on paper and put them in your pocket so you have God's Word to meditate on when you're feeling empty. Thanks for the verse preceding this comment too. I wrote them down a few weeks ago. Now, I'll be carrying them with me. Can a real Christian fall into sin? Yes, but here’s the…
/r/RPChristians06/08/19 01:07 AM
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OYS 4 OYS 3 here Marital Status: Single for 9 years, KV Age: 24 Height: 5’8” Weight: 140lbs Background: Burnt-out dude working in a low level engineering position. Christian since childhood. MISSION: 4 Fix my life and get on the path to becoming a real Christian man. Actionable Areas: 1. Fix lack of spiritual discipline and involvement. 2. Fix poor fitness and physique. 3. Fix disorganized life and routine. 4. Fix negative outlook and destructive thought patterns. Long Term Goal: Be someone Chri…
/r/RPChristians01/08/19 02:24 AM
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I'm a lot like you in some respects. I'm not actively looking for a wife until I get my own life sorted out. It's better to go ahead and fix yourself when your single, instead of having to fix yourself AND a marriage later on. That being said, I wouldn't isolate yourself. If you can, find some guys who have been in your situation and have achieved the goals you seek. You'll save yourself a lot of trial and error from listening to them, and you become like those you surround yourself with. Campus…
/r/RPChristians28/07/19 06:12 AM
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Lookism is a dark reality for those with lower tier genetics. It's easy to get sucked in and consumed by it. WE ABSOLUTELY SHOULD LIFT. But don't do it to gain approval from others. Do because your body is a temple that God has commanded you to take care of. Do it because it aids you on your mission.
/r/RPChristians26/07/19 10:43 PM
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It's things like this that help foster that aura of immaturity. So get this one knocked out this week, it's an easy win under your belt. Working on it. This gets done today. You can find the entire 400 series from 401-406 here. There are no additional posts in the 400 Series beyond that right now, although I'm sure u/Red-Curious plans to add more as he gets time. Nice. 406 wasn't in the PDF. Would it be uncool to PM Red about The Lens Part 4? I don't wanna be that guy who demands to be spoonfed.…
/r/RPChristians19/07/19 08:46 PM
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OYS 3 OYS 2 here Marital Status: Single for 9 years, KV Age: 24 Height: 5’8” Weight: 140lbs Background: Ex-student, now working an interim engineering position. Christian since childhood. Calvinist. Read: RPC compendium, Wild at Heart by John Eldredge Reading: The Epistle to the Romans by John Murray, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People. MISSION 4 I didn't deliver on an update, but I am actively working on a revised statement. Reading Chapter 2 of The 7 Habits and writing stuff down. PHYSICA…
/r/RPChristians18/07/19 04:11 AM
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It's tempting to try and do it all at once. Just focus on adding one thing at a time as God leads you. I want to refine that mission statement each OYS until I reach something solid. 7 Habits has a chapter on mission that I'm reading now. I'll also revisit the sidebar links you put up. It's your knee, you don't want to take chances with something you use heavily every day. Called to make an appointment Friday. I'll get it fixed. Stretching is also essential to avoid injury. Here's a few resource…
/r/RPChristians14/07/19 06:10 PM
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Solid advice, and the data I've gathered in myfitnesspal agrees with your statements. I'll be working on rearranging my meal plan. I graduated high school and was about 5' 8" and 140, not far off from you now. Been that height and weight (or less) since HS. Good to hear from someone that had the same thing going on and was able to put in the work and shape up.
/r/RPChristians14/07/19 06:01 PM
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OYS 2 OYS 1 here Marital Status: Single for 9 years, KV Age: 24 Height: 5’8” Weight: 137lbs Background: Ex-student, now working an interim engineering position. Christian since childhood. Calvinist. Read: RPC compendium, Wild at Heart by John Eldredge Reading: The Epistle to the Romans by John Murray, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People. MISSION: 4 Take each section and break it down into actionable areas and ideas. Identify, maintain, and improve my skills so I can figure out what I can do …
/r/RPChristians10/07/19 11:29 PM
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Further disclosure, I’m a woman I'll rephrase then. I'm here to learn from people more spiritually mature than me. Your input is valued. The fruit of repentance is impossible for the Old Man to create. The New Man knows he’s (speaking of the person) a damned sinner apart from Christ and no amount of “sincerely” or “truly” will satisfy him because he knows he’s still a sinner who needs daily repentance. There’s no point this side of heaven where we don’t need to further repent. Well said. Questio…
/r/RPChristians09/07/19 02:46 AM
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Slavery is never voluntary. Nobody chooses to be a slave. We are slaves to sin because of our sinful nature. Perhaps that's not the best way for me to phrase it then. The gist is that our nature compels us to sin, and we like it that way. Apart from God, we willingly remain in that state. I still can't get behind the idea that man has any input in whether or not he is saved. I'll keep the question of "who is responsible for your salvation?" in my mind as I continue to read and pray. Right now my…
/r/RPChristians09/07/19 02:24 AM
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If you weren’t moved (by the Holy Spirit, of course) to repentance regarding doubt, then that would be an indication of no New Man It's a mixed bag on this issue. I don't doubt God's capacity to save sinners, or the potency of the Holy Spirit, or the sufficiency of Christ's sacrifice. I doubt my own inclusion in that salvation. I can talk a big game and cultivate an outward appearance of salvation, but I can't prove that I am saved to me or you because it is not me who determines my salvation. I…
/r/RPChristians08/07/19 05:12 AM
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First off, thanks for writing this. I've heard of Arminianism before, but never seen it in a 5 point format. The way you organized this makes it really easy for a Calvinist to understand. I'm reading some of these terms (like prevenient grace) for the first time. Eternal Security and Perseverance of the Saints sound like the same thing to me. The gist is "once saved, always saved." Calvinists will argue that those who "fall away" were never saved in the first place. I think Arminians who believe…
/r/RPChristians08/07/19 03:59 AM
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Hey Chuck. Thanks for the reply! Take each section and break it down into actionable areas and ideas. Expect an update on this in OYS 2. I've got a lot of uncertainty to contend with since I'm changing career paths and moving to a new state. I'll come up with something. How long until the finger is healed? I broke it on May 8. The break is healed, but I still don't have full range of motion and it gets irritated easily. I ask the physical therapist about lifting every session, but I'm still not …
/r/RPChristians07/07/19 11:05 PM
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Presbyterian. PCA.
/r/RPChristians05/07/19 01:33 AM
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OYS 1 I think it’s time I started owning my shortcomings and being accountable, so I that my pursuit of biblical manhood may amount to more than lip service. Advice, criticism, and callouts are welcome. Marital Status: KV, Single for 9 years Age: 24 Height: 5’8” Weight: 136lbs Background: Engineering graduate student. Christian since childhood. Calvinist. Discovered Redpill around 2015. Blackpilled since 2016. Discovered RPChristians 3 months ago. Read: The entire RPC compendium, Wild at Heart b…
/r/RPChristians04/07/19 01:37 AM
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Thanks for clearing up my definition of a social script. Looks like I missed the mark there. In light of your comment I will correct the example I made in my previous comment. The guy who rearranges his life around getting validation (sexual or otherwise) from women and bases his identity in that lives in the feminine frame. I've definitely spent some time here. The guy who rearranges his life around maximizing his sexual success, lives in his own frame because he is following his own goal and d…
/r/RPChristians03/07/19 05:00 AM
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If I'm understanding correctly, the principles that govern attraction are the script, and how we orient ourselves around those principles is the narrative. Thus, one who rearranges his life around the primary mission of getting women to sleep with him, IS living in the feminine frame, just like some MGTOWs say. An equivalent person, who redefines himself around a Christ-centered mission, pursues a identity truly independent of feminine ideals. The difference is in what drives these men forward, …
/r/RPChristians02/07/19 02:38 AM
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Not anymore. Nowadays people will dox you and contact your employer if you espouse too much wrongthink.
/r/RPChristians19/06/19 11:26 PM
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It's a means of narrative control that has been fully realized by the media. Look at how they use the words "misogynist" and "racist." Applying these labels to people, things, and ideas enables them to wield immense social pressure to whatever end they please. Don't be fooled. For example, if you think the way we "treat" people with gender dysphoria is the modern day lobotomy, you're not "hateful" or "transphobic." You may even care more about their well being than their supposed "allies" do. Th…
/r/RPChristians19/06/19 03:44 AM
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That's a solid response that fully answered my question. Thank you!
/r/RPChristians13/06/19 11:53 PM
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I spent an hour talking with some friends about this post yesterday. I'm glad you posted this today because it is a great follow-up. My understanding of your post is that the definition of fruit is not restricted to just converting nonbelievers; discipling other Christians counts as bearing fruit too. Going off this definition, acts of service and encouraging others in the faith would also be ways to bear fruit, right? Is making a least one new convert in your lifetime an absolute necessity, or …
/r/RPChristians13/06/19 02:44 AM
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I'm kinda where you're at. My anxiety over marriage is a faith issue. Here's the conclusion I've drawn in my own (unmarried) struggle. God never promises his followers happy marriages or moral wives. Marriage (especially today) is so full of risk and uncertainty, it takes an act of faith to truly make that commitment. Trials at some stage are almost guaranteed. However, God doesn't hang you out to dry. In fact, he promises work all things for the good of those who are called according to his pur…
/r/RPChristians31/05/19 03:00 AM
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I think it's wonderful that you are bringing these ideas to this platform! More power to ya!
/r/RPChristians11/05/19 12:52 AM
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That's fair. Now that I think about it, it's tricky to define a hard line (even with a factor of safety). I've never heard of this being a sin before, so I'd like to learn more about it. Edit: I should have read your comment more closely. I did some googling and found Jack Donovan's blog.
/r/RPChristians10/05/19 11:13 AM
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How are you (or the Bible) defining effeminacy? Does effeminate mean passive and soft spoken? Does effeminacy refer to transgenderism and the like? Does it mean homosexual? The ESV translates "nor effeminate" as "nor men who practice homosexuality." The NIV translates it as "nor men who have sex with men." I've heard plenty of Christians say homosexuality is a sin, but never being effeminate. I'd like to know where the line is.
/r/RPChristians10/05/19 01:32 AM
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Troll or False-Flagger trying to give this sub a bad rep. Check his post history.
/r/RPChristians07/05/19 02:56 AM
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I'd prefer we left posts like these up because they facilitate good discussion on questions you cannot ask anywhere else without becoming ostracized. The "endorsed" tagging system makes it pretty obvious which views may be supported by RPC and which are not. I had never even considered this issue before u/potatorockstar posted about it. Reading all the comments has helped me learn.
/r/RPChristians03/05/19 08:54 PM
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Less than 7 hours of sleep and a 12 hour workday every week!? That's impressive. How do you manage that? I get headaches if I don't take breaks at my job (desk work), and I'll start feeling the effects of sleep deprivation at around 6 hours of sleep. What made you able to handle such a demanding schedule?
/r/RPChristians25/04/19 12:53 AM
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What would it take to get ahold of that book as well?
/r/RPChristians18/04/19 01:32 AM
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I see /u/OsmiumZulu already addressed genetic determinism in this post. That's really the key to this whole worldview, but there's more we can talk about. Even if an truecel (an incel with real genetic limitations) does decide to play with the cards he has been dealt, there's still the issue of a competitive sexual marketplace that's nearly impossible for low value guys to succeed in. While the hypothetical truecel is spending years improving his physique, women are free to choose from a huge su…
/r/RPChristians30/03/19 02:22 AM
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Cool post! Any hole RPC can poke in incel ideology is another way for truth to shine in and reach us bottom tier dudes. Would a post outlining and disproving the incel worldview (aka "The Blackpill") add value to the subreddit? I couldn't disprove, since I'm an incel, but I could make a somewhat concise post outlining the Blackpill, and let you guys go to town on it. I think it would be cool if we could eventually get something for incels on the sidebar.
/r/RPChristians29/03/19 12:28 AM
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Excellent post! I came here from the blackpilled end of the spectrum because I realized that my view on life and relationships did not match Christian truth I professed to believe. Folks like me don't need external fixes; we gave up on those a long time ago. We need Truth that we can use to change ourselves from the inside out. I look forward to seeing this strategy in action.
/r/RPChristians16/03/19 04:19 AM
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To summarize my understanding, abundance mentality and RP behavior come from: A God given mission Sanctification (a result of pursuing your mission) Long term results of self improvement So it's not that new guys have to fake it (by blindly following rules); it's that they have to change.
/r/RPChristians08/03/19 05:56 PM
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Young, single, and stagnant fellow here. I think one of the biggest sources of discouragement for unattractive RP initiates is the idea that attractive men thrive without following the rules, while unattractive folks have to grind and feign abundance for a modicum of attention. What we see contradicts the abundance mentality we try to develop. RP-rule-based (confident) behavior feels like a false self. So I have a question: What basis does a genetically limited unattractive male have for the abu…
/r/RPChristians08/03/19 02:53 AM
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I'm the least qualified commenter here, but perhaps I can offer a different perspective. I've been wrestling with your question a lot, and here is my rough conclusion. Sex and male/female relationships, like all worldly things, have been corrupted by the fall. Perhaps, in a sinless world husbands and wives could coexist without selfishness, psychological warfare, and sexual incompatibility. But, like it or not, all things have been broken by the fall including marriage. To completely change the …
/r/RPChristians20/02/19 06:54 AM
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