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Black hair and red hair imo. The best. Then brunette. Then blond.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 04:26 PM
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It's temporary dw. Happens when I have excess energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 04:25 PM
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Imo thr adult because only 14-58 year old people have value in life. Everyone else has less right to life because they've lived it or because their brain hasn't fully formed yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 04:07 PM
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I like my yoghurt savory. Over here we either make a raita out of salad veggies and yoghurt. Or we just add a little bit of salt and roasted powdered cumin. The latter is heavenly. Eaten cold. Comfort food. Delishus.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 04:06 PM
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I will always stand up for my fellow man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 04:03 PM
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Lmao brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 04:01 PM
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Yap a doodle doo.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 04:01 PM
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Yap a doodle doo.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 04:00 PM
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Sure idc.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 03:58 PM
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Yes because women are the virtuous sex. As women themselves say.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 03:58 PM
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I never said men enjoy disrespecting their partners wtf.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 03:53 PM
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Absolutely it should, and Like I said I absolutely will to any women I'm dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 03:52 PM
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Just don't settle. And don't let women settle. That's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 03:51 PM
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They mostly do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 03:49 PM
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Yes but I'm not women. I'm pretty sure women don't want to disrespect their partners, do they? If not then yeah they should be proactive and inform the partner if he isn't the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 03:49 PM
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Because it's disrespectful to your partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 03:44 PM
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Oh I plan to. But I believe women should be proactive too. You're welcome to disagree. In any case, it is a fact that women settle. And OP should be told that instead of being gaslit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 03:42 PM
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I’m telling you to switch your mindset That's telling me what to do. m really struggling to reframe this “best” thing for you because we clearly don’t view sex the same way For men, we do. Maybe you(as in all women) should accept that about us and stop disrespecting men by settling for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 03:41 PM
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It is settling imo and women do it and they shouldn't because it's disrespectful to a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 03:40 PM
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Stop getting hung up on people’s pasts. I don't think it's fair that you tell someone else what they should or should not do. Especially when it comes to relationships. But also fundamentally, the only question that matters for settling is - is he the best sex you've ever had or not. All that other shit about having had fun with other men is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 03:26 PM

I get it over the thought that women settle for men sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 03:20 PM
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Then you're not settling. To settle means to be with someone who isn't the best in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 03:16 PM
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Then you're not settling. To settle means to be with someone who isn't the best in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 03:16 PM
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I don't care what you think about me, but you need to understand that a LOT of men simply do not want to be settled for sexually. And not being the best sex she has had is precisely that. Maybe not most but a huge huge plurality (close to 50% easy).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 03:11 PM
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Idc as long as women don't settle for a guy sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 03:09 PM

I'm getting a mustache now.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 03:09 PM

I'm getting a mustache now.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 03:09 PM

What the fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 03:07 PM
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Well then they lost out and you're not settling for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 03:06 PM
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For men, a lot of them atleast, all their ego is in how good they are at sex compared to other men. Not on trite things like proms or fun date. Imo if women are settling for a man sexually, they are obligated to tell him so he can decide if he wants to stay or not. It is not enough that a man satisfy a woman sexually, what is important is that he be the best sex you've had. Anything else is settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 03:05 PM

Bro imma start a new daily reminder reminding women that they settle and they shouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 03:03 PM
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Best you've ever had. Of course you can determine that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 03:03 PM

So much gaslighting in this thread by women. But I will fight for my fellow men, because someone has to.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 02:59 PM

Yeah she should leave him. It's so disrespectful to settle for someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 02:58 PM
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You don't get to play with the definition tbh. It's settling if he's not the best and can't be the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 02:54 PM
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/u/ThatBitchA explain this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 02:53 PM
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It matters because we want to be the best the woman has ever had. If we can't due to dick size or some shit then we'd rather she leave us. Don't settle for us. It's disrespectful.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 02:52 PM
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Oh cmon now, we have given you so many examples of women saying their ex was better and more fun in bed, but they're with the current guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 02:50 PM
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We hear it from women posting on offmychest and other places.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 02:48 PM
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Men have had past experiences too Not always necessarily. Some are virgins. Men have had past experiences too and may occasionally reminisce about a particularly fun encounter - but that doesn’t take away from the present relationship (or at least it shouldn’t). Yeah no, for most men it's unacceptable if women reminisce past encounters. Men want to be the most fun sex for the woman, not just satisfactory or good enough but the best. That's what's important to a lot of mens ego. And it is entirel…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 02:47 PM
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No I'm sorry but this is incorrect. I can show you women on PPD who will admit that they need a certain size to get off. The A-spot is a thing. And upto a point (women say) that bigger girth feels better than smaller.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 02:45 PM

Day 92 of dailyposting (and a reminder to myself that women don't want virgin men) Today I am anxious, sleep deprived, insane. What will you do today PPD?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 02:42 PM

Based as always
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 02:39 PM

Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 02:38 PM

Shower today
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 01:45 PM

Only good looking men ever get laid. So only pretty women deserve romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 01:44 PM

I asked a woman to do this. She got mad at me. What's wrong with a vagina lips reveal ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 01:27 PM

Oh wow. It's interesting how mommy issues can manifest in different ways. Like I just want to fuck MILFs with big breasts.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 01:26 PM
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Yeah well, you're asking the wrong people. Ask men who date women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 01:21 PM

Not bad, not bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 01:20 PM

Not bad, not bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 01:20 PM

That's n-count, this is what you wish your ideal body count is. N-count is for partners and why that is relevant or not. Very different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 01:19 PM

Hmm. Mine is same. But 4 times that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 01:17 PM

I never trust people who say they don't care about looks because I know a CIA agent when I see one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 01:16 PM

Think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 01:14 PM

Psyop
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 01:14 PM

Yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 01:13 PM

Q4A: what's your ideal body count.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 01:06 PM

Also what if YOU're the feminist psyop. Your taste in men is shit so it tracks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 01:03 PM

Someone should stuff her in a catapult and launch her at a passing cloud.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 01:02 PM
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Yes they do. Don't let them tell you otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 01:00 PM

You have offended lily. Prolly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 12:59 PM

Yeah you have a good nose on your shoulder.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 12:58 PM

I do. This has been a thing for me ever since I was a kid so I wouldn't worry. I've never so much as hit a person outside of a boxing ring.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 12:57 PM

No
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 12:56 PM

Yeah it's always a thing when I have too much pent up energy. I get very hyper and extra. This is part of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 12:56 PM

Always take your nose with you wherever you go, never leave it at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 12:55 PM

It can be very satisfying. Although I also get a very short fust and get very violent thoughts. Like I want to literally take a hammer to people I don't like and beat them with it and I can imagine it and imagine the crunch of the hammer breaking bone again and again and it feels super satisfying in my chest. It's weird to explain.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:36 AM

One thing that is for certain though, is that once I get into a relationship, I will be hounded with feelings of emasculation due to my low body count and will be hit with the urge to keep on hitting on other women. And I will. That much is guaranteed. Whether I cheat, or I kinda cheat (breakup moments before cheating), remains to be seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:34 AM

If I had your stats (and your good looks), I would totally be dating multiple women and cheating on all of them with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:29 AM

Yes. Nobody can infringe on anyones right to volcel
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:27 AM

No, everyone gets tested. Free daily testing for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:23 AM

That js true but I only count from the moment you feel safe with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:23 AM

YES!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:22 AM

Thanks, this happens when I have too much pent up energy. I kinda go a little insane. I'll be back to normal in a day Or two.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:21 AM
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Not to mention on some level I might be jealous or even resentful. I spent my life from 16-24, now, being single, lonely and sad about that. One way to overcome this is to find a partner who did all this stuff, and use her for sex practice while also trying to and cheating on her regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:19 AM

I wish it were normized jn middle and upper middle class circles. Fucking the gf, her sister, her best friend, and her mom. Also bring back polygamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:18 AM

Don't be sorry to me, be sorry to the guy you will make wait. People in Auschwitz were treated better.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:16 AM

Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:16 AM
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I'd do that. I feel like I missed out so I keep count of how much sex other men have had if they had the average rate of sex per week since I was 18. My goal then is to beat that. So I would.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:14 AM
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You say that but it feels like mockery.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:12 AM
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Weekly reminder that n counts matter because older women don't date men with n=0. This is also why lying and cheating is okay if men do it but not if women do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:12 AM

<image> Did I pass, Ma?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:09 AM

My favorite porn category is dudes who fuck the gf and her mom. I wish shit like that was normalised irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:05 AM

You're not wrong, I did make that mistake. So, never again 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:03 AM

Other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:02 AM

No. Stop bullying me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 10:54 AM

I think this is my best comment
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 10:53 AM

Me to all men who have been made to wait for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 10:53 AM

Women who make dudes wait for sex are Satan incarnate.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 10:47 AM

Oh and women who cheat are 300% more likely to be spurned by cats.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 10:21 AM

Ya bro
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 10:19 AM

Ayy sperm donor guy. How you been.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 10:13 AM

Men who cheat should get a 10% rebate in their taxes. Women who cheat should be taxed 10% extra. Also studies have shown that men who cheat are 75% less likely to get cancer.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 10:08 AM

Which is why it's okay for men to cheat. It build confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 10:06 AM

I'm on your team EqualSea. Fuck da haters
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 10:05 AM
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You'd think wrong sir, because I don't believe that getting old is a virtue. I plan to die young. I never plan to reach 60 because once you're that old you're ugly and can't fuck. What's the point of living if you're ugly and can't fuck. I'll live until I'm like 58 and them I'm ending meself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:51 AM
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Part of it yes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:25 AM
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Maybe yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:24 AM

Obama once said "we tortured some folks". He wasn't talking about Guantanamo, he was talking about the women who make men wait for sex hahahahahahahahahahahahahah
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:22 AM
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No because I'm not in a relationship with them. A relationship without sex is just a friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:21 AM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:01 AM
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Damn, I would have murdered my parents if they did that. Hope you're doing better now and have cut your dad out of your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 07:49 AM
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You'll prolly grow into Muriel when you're like 60
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 07:38 AM
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Yo wtf, USAID was funding terror outfits against my country. 😤 I am glad to see USAID die now. Fkn CIA psyop.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 07:38 AM
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I dunno, the post was from the 17year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 07:34 AM
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Theirs is a friendship, not a relationship. There can be no relationship without frequent sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 07:33 AM
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That's just something I say to annoy y'all kek. I know anyone cheating is bad, I'm not a monster.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 07:32 AM
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Anything could be fake. But it's scary to think you're a child and your mom could cheat and leave your family. I'm not someone who supports legal punishment for cheating, but imo if you have kids then maybe there should be some punishment for cheaters, of any gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 07:29 AM
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Controversial take for bluepillers: romantic love cannot exist without sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 07:20 AM
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Anti depressants don't work on depression
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 07:12 AM
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Planned obsolescence is why we can't have nice things.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 07:11 AM
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Who you know is what matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 07:11 AM
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Just saw a post on an offmychest subreddit. Some 17 yo dude found out that his mom was having an affair with a some 25yo guy. He beat up the guy and his mom tried to defend the guy. This is why women cheating is bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 07:11 AM
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First.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 07:10 AM
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Don't listen to her guy, I dmed her my problem and she refused to respond.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 06:36 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 06:16 AM
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Saying you haven't felt it isn't the same as saying the phenomenon doesn't exist, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 06:16 AM
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Equally evil because both of them want bad things for Gaza.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 06:10 AM
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Good day, this is your daily reminder that men who cheat are virtuous. Women who cheat are evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 06:01 AM
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Disagree. Biden perpetuated the war in Gaza. He could have forced Israel to stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 06:00 AM
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So was Biden tho
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 05:31 AM
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I don't, but why do you dislike him?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 05:26 AM
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Why do you not like Trump?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 05:17 AM
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Dafuq, no fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 04:57 AM
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Q4Americans - are you enjoying what Trump is doing to Europe?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 04:53 AM
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I'm a virgin and women reject me because of that. Give advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 04:52 AM
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Chop your arms and legs off. Overcome that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 04:46 AM
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No, it's only null and void if you think raw attraction doesn't exist. That's not the same as not having experienced it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 04:32 AM
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No, it's only null and void if you think raw attraction doesn't exist. That's not the same as not having experienced it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 04:32 AM
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It is
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 04:24 AM
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Q4W who deny the raw attraction pill - how do you explain this https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1ipv2ek/discussion_about_main_ppd_posts_looks_and_ncount/mczvi13
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 04:22 AM
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Women's lives are easier than men's lives because they can get dates easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 04:21 AM
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I suggest being naked as the defining trend.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 04:09 AM
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Who is she
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 04:07 AM
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Those guys are losers you should ignore.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 04:02 AM
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Based as always. They should pin your comments in every thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 04:02 AM
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Based as always. They should pin your comments in every thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 04:01 AM
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4 things. There's always onlyfans. Hahahahahahahahahahahah
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 04:00 AM
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V rare
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 03:59 AM
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They'll know in like five minutes in the bedroom and kick me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 03:57 AM
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She would. But it's the only way to get what I want. She of course has all the rights in the world to hate me for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 03:56 AM
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It's about drive, it's about power, we stay hungry, we devour
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 09:53 PM
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I don't live in America hahahahahahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 09:44 PM
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R u brown
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 09:44 PM
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That's why we LLC
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 09:42 PM
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Based as always. You know what's tragic though ? They still won't believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 09:42 PM
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Oh damn you're a migrant kid. Trump will deport.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 09:40 PM
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Oh damn you're a migrant kid. Trump will deport.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 09:40 PM
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Speaking as a male, most women don't want culturemaxxxed men. We are looked down upon. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 09:39 PM
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Aunt?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 09:37 PM
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Not as a 30yo virgin or a 30yo who's bad at sex. That stuff is fine at 16 because everyone is bad then.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 09:37 PM
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Obviously Id feel bad, but that's why I'm okay with men cheating but not women
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 09:37 PM
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Sorry:( Grandma?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 09:06 PM
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That's cuz you probably already had a baseline level of skill attained in an LTR during your teenage. That's the usual peogression. But the only way to recreate that as a 30 year old is to cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 09:05 PM
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But even if I don't cheat because PPD women will feel bad and hate me, I will still use a woman for sex practice until I find a woman I like or one who wants causal sex with me. I will just break up before the actual sex so it won't be cheating. No conscience can stop this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 09:00 PM
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We need a diagnostic and training service for this kind of shit. Sad that one doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 08:57 PM
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Given the rewards of cheating, it isn't anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 08:56 PM
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Gimme your moms phone number, I will call her and tell her that Ok-Coat is a bully. (Will also ask her out).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 08:55 PM
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Q4All: what's most important in a relationship - the sex or the affection?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 08:53 PM
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Completely uncontroversial and sane opinion - kids should not be raised in any religion.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 08:52 PM
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Also, having different partners also means you’re exposed to a greater variety of likes/dislikes, and they’re more likely to teach you new tricks. Only if you repeatedly have sex with them. That doesn't happen in a casual setting if you're bad at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 08:52 PM
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Also, having different partners also means you’re exposed to a greater variety of likes/dislikes, and they’re more likely to teach you new tricks. Only if you repeatedly have sex with them. That doesn't happen in a casual setting if you're bad at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 08:51 PM
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Where I live (India), you need a partner to even be considered for an orgy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 08:49 PM
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Yes sadly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 08:46 PM
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I don't think casual sex is practice because you don't get feedback and if you're bad they will stop and leave midsex. With someone you don’t like and have to do work for in order get laid. Some of us have to make sacrifices for validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 08:45 PM
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I don't think casual sex is practice because you don't get feedback and if you're bad they will stop and leave midsex. With someone you don’t like and have to do work for in order get laid. Some of us have to make sacrifices for validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 08:45 PM
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I don't think casual sex is practice because you don't get feedback and if you're bad they will stop and leave midsex. With someone you don’t like and have to do work for in order get laid. Some of us have to make sacrifices for validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 08:45 PM
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I have huge girth (bigger than pornstars). And a friend I sent my dickpick to said I was blessed. But I could do with about half an inch more length. That way Id be guaranteed long enough to hit the A-spot on most any woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 08:44 PM
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Ugly (I look like him)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 08:41 PM
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Tbh the only thing that might stop me from cheating is the knowledge that the women of PPD daily thread will feel bad for the cheatee and judge me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 08:40 PM
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A bot could never be half as insane as I am. I'm a real person. With all the flaws a real person has.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 08:39 PM
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Atheist so no religion.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 08:38 PM
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Sometimes I wish I lived in a fantasy world where all you had to do to get laid was take your pants off and women would see if you had a big dick and if they liked what they saw they would immediately jump your bones. I'm sad we don't live in such a world.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 08:36 PM
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Very
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 08:32 PM
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Plastic surgery exists so I will cheat in my middle Ages as well. I will make up for all the time that life denied me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 08:27 PM
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Yes but she's also getting cheated on. Don’t you think that being in a relationship already will hamper your chances with another woman you actually want to be with? The opposite. It will make me more confident because if she rejects me I can still go home and get laid. Why don’t you just have casual sex while also working on yourself? Because I have to get good at sex first. For which I need a relationship. And women at 30+ aren't into getting into a relationship for sex practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 08:26 PM
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Also I will get plastic surgery and still cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 08:24 PM
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Middle age is a decade away.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 08:23 PM
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Yer a cake eater hahahahahahhahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 08:17 PM
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Okay just for that In going to extra cheat when I do get a relationship. And when she asks my why, I'll tell her meangingersnap was mean to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 08:13 PM
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Pretty accurate except she never gets gifts and the affection is fake. She also gets blindsided one day when I dump her and immediately hook up with a hotter and better woman that I can now get because I am more confident and uninhibited and better dressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 08:12 PM
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Just because I feel like it today.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 08:09 PM
1

Your yapping doesn't get to me bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 08:09 PM
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I agree. Men should not chase Chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 08:08 PM
1

I'll never beta bux dw.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 08:06 PM
1

Do vaccines work? Why does the government keep repeating that they do? Surely they must not work.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 08:06 PM
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Maybe. r/cakeeater
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 08:03 PM
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It already is bro, I'm just informing everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 08:03 PM
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Hugs bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 08:02 PM
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Used as in I'm pretending to like her, when I really don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 08:01 PM
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It's okay for men to be cake eaters but not women (A cake eater is someone who cheats on his SO, not because she won't give him sex, or can't divorce cuz kids, but because he likes having sex with many women but doesn't want to share any of his women with other men).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 07:58 PM
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Early 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 07:55 PM
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He will be
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 07:55 PM
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Based.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 07:47 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 07:47 PM
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It's okay. Stern looking = v loyal and obedient loyl.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 07:46 PM
1

stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 07:45 PM
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Imagine that you're low n-count. And you want to get good at sex. Now you date a woman with the intention of getting good at sex (you don't really care about her as a person). You do it until you meet someone, and by now you're confident. So you ask her on a date. And the date is headed towards sex (yay sex on the first date). So you excuse yourself for a minute, go to the washroom and call your gf and tell her you're breaking up with her and then disconnect the call, put your phone on DND and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 07:45 PM
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I will next year once I've had my treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 07:37 PM
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That is possible yes, but I will still have cheated her in a way by lying to her (that I want to date her when really I just want to be with her until I get good and then move on). That's cheating too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 07:37 PM
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That is possible yes, but I will still have cheated her in a way by lying to her (that I want to date her when really I just want to be with her until I get good and then move on). That's cheating too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 07:36 PM
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Don't be ageist.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 07:34 PM
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Tbh they use dickmatized for good sex. Not necessarily a dickpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 07:33 PM
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You are scary ngl. You give off ice princess vibes going by your face alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 07:31 PM
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The day I cheat on a woman will be the most glorious day of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 07:28 PM
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No, I'm not fine with that. I'm fine with me cheating and her not finding out. If I find out she's cheating I will be hurt and leave her (just as she will if she finds out I am cheating). But fundamentally I need two diametrically opposed things for validation - being the best at sex (which only comes from practice in a long term relationship), and a high n-count. It is also not tolerable for me to share my woman with other men. The thought of any other man pleasuring my woman is anathema to me.…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 07:27 PM
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Sure but thus being obsessed with virginitu and wanting to lose it makes sense for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 07:24 PM
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Tell this to women who don't want to date virgin men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 06:40 PM
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Based as always.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 06:39 PM
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I mean let's be fair she can, it's not just men who cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 06:37 PM
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If she wants to validate her ego, she can leave. No one is stopping her from that. She isn't allowed to hurt my ego while we are in a relationship. And since one big part of my ego validation comes from n-counts, I will have to cheat. If she wants an open relationship then that just hurts my ego so why would I continue staying with her?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 06:31 PM
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You said she's okay because she's getting what she wants and the man is performing bf duty..... All I know is that it makes sense to date those women only if you intend to use them for sex while you look for something better
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 06:29 PM
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Here's how I see it. The addict doesn't play with his supply.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 06:18 PM
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This is about raw attraction. You just said you haven't experienced raw attraction. Where's the lie in what I said above?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 06:18 PM
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I agree, just being pretty is not the same as having raw attraction. In fact even for men, there's many women that they do find pretty but dont want to fuck. The raw attraction part is when they come across women that they DO immediately want to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 06:17 PM
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To me atleast it feels like she's not into him. Not very much at least
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 06:15 PM
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If she's getting what she wants then she won't mind if the man cheats on her. That's what I mean by using for sex - until he can find someone better.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 06:10 PM
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Yeah but it comes across as she's not into him.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 06:08 PM
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Yeah but it comes across as she's not into him.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 06:08 PM
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No I feel lust is when you want to tear their clothes the moment you lay eyes on them. Like suppose a woman meets a guy and immediately wants to bone him. Then she meets another guy, and after getting to know him wants to bone him with the same intensity as the first guy, then to me it feels like she was lusting after the first guy more. Her attraction to that guy was more raw and real and authentic.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 06:08 PM
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Because everything here is about ego validation. Sharing your woman with other men is the opposite of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 06:05 PM
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All I know is that if you feel deprived of sex and n-count, then it's okay to lie and use women to get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 06:04 PM
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She's kinds kissing him but not. He's confused. Is she his friend and doing this to confuse him? I've seen kiss your best friend tiktoks and this is kind of like that. A woman that's was truly into him would just have kissed him. Would have been into him and not just been friends. Ergo, she's not really into him.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 06:02 PM
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I dunno man, my mom certainly did and I'm deffo mad at her. So if they want to be mad at anyone, they should be mad at themselves I mean we hate ourselves too, don't get me wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 06:01 PM
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You need to be good at sex to get lots of casual sex. And you need a relationship to be good at sex. Cheating while in a relationship allows you to get both - relationship and casual sex, being good at sex AND n-counts. And those are the two things a man needs for high self esteem..
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 06:00 PM
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All I know as a man is that I feel lied to about a lot of shit and as a result I hate my society and it's culture and world culture in general. I genuinely wish this delusion had not only not happened but that we had institituted a eugenics program against ugly people. No ugly people = no one will ever be miserable about being ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 05:58 PM
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As it should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 05:56 PM
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I think she's toying with him and not really into him.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 05:55 PM
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There was a delusion on the part of the men. That's ending. Now we know that looks are THE most important thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 05:53 PM
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Then you're jealous of me hahahahahahahahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 05:50 PM
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You have my sympathies on this tbh. This does suck. Old people need to figure out their own welfare and leave their kids be.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 05:49 PM
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This is true. But for a lot of things people will live according to their perspective irrespective of reality, because that's what feels right.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 05:47 PM
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Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 05:46 PM
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He's the loyl but he's thumbelina sized literally.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 05:45 PM
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Not having ego validation when you need is the real misery.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 05:44 PM
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I know. But I need that validation. I crave it like a drug. And I don't want to live without it. And that's just what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 05:44 PM
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Nah, lots of dudes are into milfs. Almost no women are into men below avg height as proven by the now deletes infographic.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 05:43 PM
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If you say so
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 05:43 PM
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You can believe whatever you want to. I know what I feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 05:42 PM
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Maybe. I'm not sure what narcisssism is. Afaik it's obsession with the self. But I am obsessed only with my ego, not the entirety of my self. I like to think of this as a profoundly strong solipsism. But maybe it's narcissism. I can accept that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 05:42 PM
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Yes but that's why you lie so she doesn't realise that you intend to use her.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 05:41 PM
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It's not discomfort. It's pain that's unendurable.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 05:01 PM

For a lip balm?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 04:59 PM

Men can still date those women for the intention of using them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 04:58 PM

Depends on where you live. In a lot of places, being healthy BMI is being below average. But also weight is changeable and like half the men versus close to all the women. What I want is for this truth to be accepted and propagated - that fir men to find a partner THE most important things are immutable physical characteristics. This needs to be taught as capital T truth to everyone in school and beyond. And once it is, women will also understand and will actually refuse to have kids with men wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 04:57 PM

Not having ego validation is more miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 04:52 PM

I mean insecurity is directly linked to ego. So it kinda is ego validation. But you can call it validation of insecurities too. I'll agree to that. I'm ngl, I know how crazy I sound. I can see it. And I would never say most of this irl. But I do feel it. I can't lie about that. And I can't and won't live a life where my insecurities and the void they create isn't filled up by validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 04:52 PM
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Yes, every time I try I have described what happens. I refuse to endure that any longer for no change. Fuck that, therapy now has to feel right to me. Behavioral therapy does. For eg, I kinda really like facing my fears usually. Which is behavioral therapy. But what is the behavioral therapy for self esteem? There isn't any.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 04:49 PM

47% for something that's changeable vs 77% for something that's unchangeable. I'm not going to criticize women for what they want because I have no right to. But I will say that nobody should ever say that looks aren't the #1 thing women go for. Ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 04:47 PM

I'm Ngl, Im 100% self aware of how I come across when I say these things. But by God, saying them feels so right. To me, nothing matters more than ego validation. That's the only thing I live for. And at some level I assume that most other people do too, and there's nothing wrong with living for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 04:45 PM
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Yes but he eithr had sex with her on first date (she is into him for his appearance. so he's not tricking her by lying). Or she did not (she's not into him for his appearance) so he's only with her to use her for sex and get experience while he finds a woman who would be into him for his appearsncr. So he's with her to trick her so it's okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 04:44 PM
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Nothing to yikes about.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 04:42 PM
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Nothing to yikes about.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 04:42 PM
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Yes I know. My point is the only way to get good is to 1) find someone willing to have sex with you and 2) practice with them. Lots and lots. And that's why the way to self esteem for men like me goes through cheating. Step 1) find someone and get good, Step 2) use the confidence of being in a relationship to seduce other women and cheat Step 3) once you have sufficient bodycount find a woman you can fall in love with and leave the others.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 04:38 PM
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If she sleeps with him ASAP then shes not into his personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 04:34 PM
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Cognitive therapy? I really tried.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 04:33 PM
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I actually tried and failed and I can tell you that thought-based methods will not work to change my feelings. The C of CBT is useless for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 04:29 PM
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Not really, no. If you're bad at casual sex women will tell all their friends and you will not get casual sex from that Or adjacent social circles again. Plus you really don't get good at sex from one night stands. Getting good at anything needs sustained practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 04:28 PM
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Today is one of those days when I'm super angry at politicians.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 04:26 PM
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Me have low bodycount = me low self esteem = sads in relationship. Way to fix = raise bodycount = first must get good at sex = need relationship for that = solution is get a relationship and cheat in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 04:25 PM
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Have you tried? Like really tried Look just the thought of questioning what makes me feel validated and what makes me feel emasculated, just that very act of questioning, makes me feel emasculated and as if I'm running away from what would make me a real man. And I refuse to endure that. Sorry. Your usual therapy methods are all cognitive, they challenge thoughts. But challenging thoughts has never changed how I feel (and yes I have really really tried that).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 04:12 PM
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It's not false in that the basis of attraction is still physical. She is attracted to him for how he looks, not for his personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 04:04 PM
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Yes but it IS a me thing. I can't change.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 04:02 PM
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Well I see tricking as making her attracted to false aspects of your personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 03:57 PM
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Nah I don't believe it. I certainly am unable to change. My emotions remain the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 03:55 PM

I live in one of those. Banishing kids to separate cars (MANDATORILY) would be a great move
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 03:55 PM
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So thay doesn't mean he changed emotionally. Ahab will remain Ahab.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 03:53 PM
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I don't think that counts as tricking. She is attracted to his physical form.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 03:52 PM

Wadafaq
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 03:51 PM
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I disagree, and in any case I'm 33.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 03:51 PM
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Mostly. I haven't changed. No one I know has changed. My dad is always the person he was. So is mom. So is everyone else. Most people don't change after 25. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 03:48 PM
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I wouldn't lolx Id just abandon the kid. People don't change that much emotionally after 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 03:40 PM

Absolutely
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 03:36 PM
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It means emotionally you won't change much.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 03:36 PM
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No that's when the changes that have happenedbstart stabilizing. After mid 20s your brain is done growing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 03:31 PM
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Early 20s. Yes. Post 25, much less so.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 03:18 PM

Based.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 03:13 PM

No and there are no moral imperatives.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 03:13 PM
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No my take isn't. People can change easily when they're kids because their brain isn't fully developed yet. But once you cross mid 20s, it's super rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 03:12 PM
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So? My take is that people are who they are. It's very rare for people's feelings and emotions to change, thus v rare for people to change. So there's nothing he or I can do to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 03:08 PM
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That's love I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 03:07 PM

Yeah it sucks. Your loyl should hurry up and meet you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 03:06 PM
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Good. I kinda hope the same happens to me. I understand Ahab at a deep level. I am just that obsessive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 03:05 PM

I hate the loud and annoying ones 😤. I was the shyest, most well behaved, most obedient kid when I was young. I never spoke loudly. I was super obedient and listened to my parents and teachers. I never cussed. I see kids these days. All spoilt. Always screaming and running around. It makes me angry. I followed the rules. Those who don't deserve to be banished to the nether realms of public transport.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 03:02 PM
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Some of us can't live without catching one.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 03:00 PM

Damn, til you can do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 03:00 PM

No we're talking about men that are objectivr Chads. Dudes who are so good looking that all women throw themselves at him. They usually have a super high bodycount. Not sure that's your type.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:59 PM
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I do think you are chasing a fake illusion. Well external validation definitely exists. And whether it will fulfill me Or not is something I will know once I have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:58 PM

V rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:58 PM

Wdym with nothing. Does he not have his name on the lease?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:57 PM

Special public transport. Like there's normal, and then there's one reserved car in the train for kids and parents. Or one reserved class in the plane with kids and parents. Or one bus special bus that runs every half hour.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:57 PM

Q4W: would you support a law that only targets male cheaters and punishes them for cheating. Women cheaters don't have any legal punishments.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:53 PM

Oh this is nice. My mom knits too. Thanks to the magic of YouTube she recently learnt a Colombian knitting technique and made a seamless sweater. I tell her that handmade sweaters can be sold in America for a lot of money. But she insists on selling for like 8USD.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:52 PM

Are you a granny? Only grannies are post wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:50 PM

Q4A: would you support laws mandating that children in public transport be moved to special buses and trains and planes. No kids on normal public transport.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:49 PM

I thought you want the loyl.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:47 PM

Would you say the same at 33?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:46 PM
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No. Do you know the phrase chasing windmills comes from Don Quixote. He thought the windmills were monsters and attacked them. So what you said implied I'm chasing a fake illusion. But you cannot believe that external validation is a fake illusion. No, external validation IS real. It exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:45 PM

Speed and intensity. I feel that women who don't feel raw attraction: 1) don't sleep on first date 2) don't want sex that much with the guy (daily multiple times a day)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:44 PM

Not if we plastic surgery them into mediocrity.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:43 PM

Yes because our standards are being corrupted by Chads. I'm thinking we should do a law where all men have to within certain limits of attractiveness. Anymore and we plastic surgery them into mediocrity.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:42 PM

I wouldn't say "content", but it's better than any alternative where I am settled for.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:41 PM

We will build a secret police to find the Chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:41 PM
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That would only be true if external validation didn't exist at all. You can't tell me that's the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:36 PM

What is to be done about the Chads of our society. We must not let them corrupt our national standards of attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:35 PM

If she’s not into you from the start, it doesn’t mean she can’t develop attraction as she gets to know you. It means I will always feel that her attraction to me, wasn't honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:34 PM

Based as always. The raw attraction pill is undeniable.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:33 PM

Introvert or socially anxious or autistic or all three?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:32 PM

You and everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:31 PM

We need a final solution for the Chaddish question.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:31 PM

Only if I want to use her for sexual experience and practice. Otherwise no, never. My attraction literally dies once they tell me they're not into me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:27 PM

Must be nice
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:24 PM
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And I've told you for me validation will only come externally.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:23 PM

I haven't narrowed anything tho, I will just lie to those woman and then cheat. We've been over this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:23 PM
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No what it means, and I know for a fact why, it's so offered so little is because it's an infection risk. A long involved procedure with an infection risk, most surgeons would rather work on procedures that offer better volume (more patients per hour). Fillers, lifts, cheek implants, rhinoplasty, some other plasties.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:23 PM

Why is it bad if a woman is deeply attracted to you but it isn't raw attraction? What are you losing out on? Validation. What changes about the dynamic of the relationship? Chances of being cheated on rise exponentially.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:21 PM

I will always fight for the raw-attraction pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:10 PM

Based as always.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:10 PM

Tbf they do. Most cheaters are abandoned by family and friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:09 PM

Day 92 of dailyposting (and a reminder to self that women don't want virgins) What will you do today?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:08 PM

Daily reminder that it's okay for men to cheat but not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:07 PM
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Guy seduces woman into a relationship and gets sex from her on the regular. Guy also seduces another beautiful woman for an ONS and cheats on first girl with second one. Then goes back to first girl. Both girls were seduced buy a guy. Guy cheated and lied (about singlehood). Women were attracted to the guys physical appearance. Clearly then, bro is a player.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 11:27 AM
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You know what's really depressing? The fact that very very few plastic surgeons do custom jaw implants.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 11:24 AM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 11:23 AM
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Bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 11:23 AM
1

Bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 11:22 AM
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This is true. 100% I can't deny it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 10:29 AM
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No it isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 10:29 AM
1

Sometimes I wonder if I will ever be able to get the validation I crave? Or if I will die yearning and unfulfilled. It's very depressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 10:27 AM
1

Role model https://np.reddit.com/r/AskMen/s/jwDZpH4xsn
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 10:22 AM
1

(male) cheaters always prosper.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 10:18 AM
1

All validation is in people's head only. Doesn't make it's need any less pressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 10:15 AM
1

Representative sample
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 09:12 AM
1

Maybe but lots of women clearly value their appearance to an insane degree too. So this is widespread and not limited by gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 09:12 AM
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It does. Men don't really get the same opportunities to get validation via increasing their bodycount that women do. So it's okay to cheat in service of that goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 09:11 AM
1

Cuz it's harder for us to cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 08:59 AM
1

That sounds very shallow to me. It is but shallow is what's real.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 08:47 AM
1

There was too many of them. Feels unlikely.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 08:45 AM
1

No we can. What we can't believe is never having come across someone who you want to fuck on sight..
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 08:24 AM
1

Bro, should be friend her. She can set you up with her friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 08:20 AM
1

No. If anything my instinct is to have lots of babies with lots of women and give them nothing. But I am a nice person so I am childfree.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 08:18 AM
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I'm certain I'm not because I've seen threads where women talk about how they remember and still yearn for their toxic ex whose toxicity made the sex so much more better and exciting. For most people intimacy and eroticism are on the opposite ends of the spectrum. One runs on familiarity, the other on novelty. That's why guys should try to be a little to somewhat moderately toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 08:15 AM
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NO! Because that muddies the water. Is she attracted to my physical appearance or personality. If she's attracted to my personality that isn't validating. If she's attracted to how I look, that's very validating.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 08:13 AM
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I mean you can hate someone's personality but still find them incredibly hot and want to sleep with them. Hate sex is a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 08:08 AM
1

The bane of every raw attraction guy. Demis
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 08:07 AM
1

Love is fleeting. Lust is eternal.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 07:52 AM
1

Yeah you prolly don't (or haven't till now) experienced raw attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 07:47 AM
1

Hello
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 07:39 AM
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Do you never feel the difference between eroticism and intimacy? A lot of women are attracted to men in an intimate, almost non-physical kind of way, where they're with a guy because he is kind and makes her feel good emotionally, but doesn't turn her on physically. Eroticism is on the opposite side where she could hate the guys guts on an emotional level, but is still very turned on by him physically. It's that purely physical turn on that is raw attraction. Have you only felt a physical turn o…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 07:35 AM
2

I mean we have been told that kino without consent is creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 07:33 AM
1

Bro wtf is going to accept someone with a kid? I never would
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 07:32 AM
3

Q4W: what stops you from believing in raw attraction despite all the evidence online that it exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 06:51 AM
1

1) be cute 2) ask him out.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 06:51 AM
1

This is why casual is proof of raw attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 06:49 AM
1

Based
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 06:47 AM
1

33,0
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 06:45 AM
1

Meaningless to say this, because it depends by subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 06:44 AM
1

No once you have a high enough n-count then it stops mattering. Atleast 10 for me, ideally 20.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 06:43 AM
1

Cheating is not okay if women do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 06:42 AM
1

I'm unhappy in the relationship because of low bodycount, not because I don't like her. Solution - raise bodycount.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 06:42 AM
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Also it's okay cuz I'll just cheat on her hahahahahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 12:17 AM
1

I read this as bank blown out. I'm okay with. Let her bank get blown out.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 12:16 AM
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Y'all really need to understand how good validation feels. It really doesn't feel anything pathetic-like.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 12:16 AM
1

Best we can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 12:13 AM
1

Guy should know that if the situations were reversed he would cheat, and thus preemptively end the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 12:12 AM
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Based. Never stop bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 12:10 AM
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I've tried therapy, and I've explained why it doesn't work for me. I'm tired of explaining that again and again.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 11:36 PM
2

Lol, it's bhen
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 11:35 PM
1

Why not one that invokes desire?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:10 PM
5

Changed my flair to something nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:07 PM
3

I wish I weren't so ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:03 PM
1

I'm sorry but this is some BS. An HVM is by definition a High Value Man, someone most women want. He's not marrying a 6.5. And whoever married a sub 8 isn't an HVM.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 09:22 PM
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Bored so I made a new avatar.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 09:13 PM
1

Lying in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 09:01 PM
2

I'm sad tonight.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 08:25 PM
2

Your second sentence is a work of art.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 07:48 PM
2

Aglio e Olio every damn day
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 07:47 PM
1

Why
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 07:47 PM
1

https://np.reddit.com/r/mildlyinfuriating/s/WgHNpcdMNW men who leave the kitchen like this, do better please, otherwise you deserve to be cheated on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 07:39 PM
1

What did you take.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 07:36 PM
1

They will also pay people to generate content, which will lead to people trying to do crowd pleasing comments, completely upending the structure of this place. It won't affect smaller subs like this one, but still.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 07:06 PM
1

What did you take
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 07:06 PM
2

I prefer 23-25.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 07:02 PM
2

Women are really brootal.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 07:02 PM
1

I wouldn't be able to live this down ngl. I would do everything to win or die. I actually have a guy like this. He's not even CS, he's a lawyer. Although it's arguable that I am better looking, but he is taller and has had more gfs and is married now. He's also doing better in his career than me. I was okay about this because my dick is bigger. But then I heard that he had moved to Switzerland and I got super jealous and stalked him on LinkedIn. But I had heard wrong, he has only moved to Dubai.…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 07:00 PM
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Slow, still sick. No plans, except lying in bed, recovering and shitposting. My regret is that I asked out a woman too late. Should have done it 5 years ago. My hate is everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:57 PM
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Just read that Reddit will introduce paid subreddits. I'm ngl I love this website, especially this subreddit and offmychest and confessions and suicidewatch. But by God I HATE the owners. This is why I am a lefty. Because the profit motive corrupts all the things I love.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:56 PM
1

What did you take?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:46 PM
1

Nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:46 PM
1

Yeah, makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:45 PM
1

I'm unironically so absent minded that I have on occasion walked out of shops without paying. And the shopkeeper id usually swamped with people, so he let me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:42 PM
1

Fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:40 PM
1

What did you steal?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:39 PM
1

That's fine. Btw I had a friend who tried that. He tried to expose a guy who alcohol-raped his fiancee (in the past before they had met). Sent a DM to the dudes wife on FB. She responded with a very angry "never contact me again". So I suspect they won't believe you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:38 PM
1

What did you take?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:37 PM
1

That's cuz everything is online rn.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:33 PM
2

Q4All: have you ever shoplifted?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:32 PM
1

Major in CS with a minor in bio. If you fail, you can always become a doctor OR move towards the biotech side of things. Bioinformatics, computational biology, all fields that will pop off in the next decade and really peak in 20-30 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:30 PM
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Okay, Ebenezer Scrooge.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:28 PM
1

Yes but wishing violence on cheaters? Re read the book.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:16 PM
1

Damn, brutal.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:15 PM
3

England is no longer fit to run anything, even themselves. We have much schadenfreude about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:09 PM
2

Okay same.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:08 PM
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The latter. I'm 5'7" and okay with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:06 PM
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Y'all women are way too trigger happy to condemn cheaters btw. Pls read (or re read) the Scarlet Letter.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:06 PM
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ikr.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:05 PM
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Economics.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:05 PM
1

Okay, well I have obviously never cheated so far. I had a friend who confessed she cheated because her boyfriend was away and she really wanted to sleep with a hot guy she had met. What would you say to her? (This really happened btw, she confessed to me that she cheated on her bf with some dude).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:04 PM
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I dunno, I don't think I can ever get mad at non violent desperate thieves. Times are hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:00 PM
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Pretty shitty.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 05:59 PM
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But I'm wondering how they have it compared to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 05:58 PM
1

Yeah desensitization happens
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 05:57 PM
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Don't like what a corporation is doing? don't shop their. I Sadly in a market society that would lead to you starving.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 05:57 PM
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A more sustainable approach is to have shoplifting insurance.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 05:41 PM
1

Just read the criticism on his wikipedia page for starters.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 05:39 PM
2

You're just being purposefully obtuse now.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 05:36 PM
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That's fine. Violating someone's dignity is not acceptable. People having to walk a little more is a small price to pay idc.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 05:34 PM
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Yeah. I kinda had a moment like that when I was a kid. My parents had taken me out to get street food. And this beggar kid came up to us and asked if we could buy him some. My mom screamed at him. And I broke down. I felt so uncomfortable at it. The indignity of it. Spending 33 years here I've grown desensitized to beggars now. But I still remember that moment and what it felt like, the deprivation, the injustice of it. He was a kid too. My mum didn't have to shout at him. And he deserved to hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 05:32 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 05:30 PM
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Yeah, I mean I've seen women in India do this. Granted they're usually elite Westophiles who live in a bubble, but even over here young women will shit on any man who has a problem with a woman who says she wants to get dicked. And a lot of the unproblematic men will be okay with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 05:29 PM
1

Lol cmon it's a trick.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 05:27 PM
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I keep thinking of this one clip I saw of hasanabi. Dude was reacting to this psycho Karen who confronted a shoplifter lady and followed her into the bus and berated her. The shoplifter lady looked so broken and dejected. I felt bad for her. Like, it felt like the Karen was violating her dignity. So, unpopular opinion, but it's okay to steal from large faceless bloodsucking profit seeking parasitical corporations. The very same orgs wouldn't think twice before fucking over their employees or the…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 05:25 PM
1

There is a trick to punching brick walls that I have learnt. If you know how to, you can punch walls without injuring yourself. The punch also goes p fast and makes a loud sound. Which makes you feel really badass.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 05:20 PM
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Skip the sunscreen for a few months I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 05:17 PM
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Like boss babes. Any dude who has a problem with this is deemed a misogynist (and rightfully so).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 05:16 PM
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You look 14 wtf.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 05:15 PM
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I mean, women do say they just want to get dicked.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 05:14 PM
2

Q4M: srs q - do lesbians have it easier or harder than us straight men?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 05:13 PM
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What happened to being proud of not buying anything the entire week? Kek, j/k. Have fun. Ngl I wish I could have been able to skate. I used to be a champion skater once. Top of the regional district rankings and everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 05:10 PM
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Have a good day friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 05:09 PM
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Damn, nice bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 04:55 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 04:54 PM
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Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 04:54 PM
2

Long term veganism does exist, just not societywide.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 04:54 PM
1

Data doesn't agree with him being right.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 04:53 PM
1

Yes. Don't be jealous.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 04:53 PM
2

Day 91 of dailyposting (and a reminder to myself that women don't want virgins). I am still recovering sadly. Haven't eaten anything for the last 2 days. I hate being sick. What will you do today ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 04:52 PM
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This
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 04:51 PM
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Honestly that feels like not playing fair. The kind of intrusive thoughts I have, the kind of shit I could say, I'd end up scarring the woman for life psychologically.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 04:46 PM
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You and all the other women, that much had been made clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 04:42 PM
1

Would you say the same to men who hurt women who cheat?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 04:42 PM
1

Age gap relationships are fine. Stop pearl clutching like an auntie.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 04:41 PM
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Yeah no, violence is unacceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 04:38 PM
2

Yes but veganism itself had been mentioned before. And you can find actual mentions of veganism in the 1800s.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 04:38 PM
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Yes it's been made clear that women have no empathy for male cheaters, or male victims of female violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 04:37 PM
1

You too. But also, look up the critiques of the dentist. Please.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 04:36 PM
1

But violence. That's too much. I would never raise my hands on a woman, even if she cheats on me and humiliates me. No matter how much it hurts me emotionally. This has actually just cemented my opinion on this. It really is okay for men to cheat on women (since it's okay for women to commit violence on men).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 04:35 PM
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Good luck bro. Hope you guys smash.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 04:23 PM
1

No woman here lives in close proximity to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 04:22 PM
1

So it would be okay if she said "older than Dumbledore"?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 04:20 PM
1

Dat twist at the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 04:19 PM
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Women wishing violence on male cheaters makes me feel like my thoughts on this topic are justified. Gents never forget that she can hit you if you cheat, but you can't hit her if she chests. So it's only fair, that it's okay for you to cheat and not for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 04:18 PM
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You don't have to be patronizing. Geez.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 04:17 PM
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It's everyone's. Pretty sure if men aren't allowed to hit women then the contrapositive also holds true.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 04:03 PM
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He doesn't want to break up. He wasn't to sleep with other women AND not have to share the woman he's in a relationship with, with other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 03:54 PM
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Yeah I don't think it's fair to assault anyone who expresses the desire of infidelity. I don't think it's correct even for people who DO cheat. After all, would you be okay with a man hitting a woman who cheated on him?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 03:54 PM
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Yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 03:53 PM
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No, also veganism. The earliest references will be from a blind antinatalist Muslim philosopher called al Marri
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 03:51 PM
1

Please, no. Not the fucking dentist.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 03:50 PM
1

Leave and never look back
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 03:47 PM
1

and kick him in the balls. That's a bit... Much. You don't have to assault a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 03:45 PM
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Nah, that's fair. How many hello kitties can you buy with that though?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 03:40 PM
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Then you need specialised classes. I figured it out when I was like 5
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 03:25 PM
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On a phone?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 03:19 PM
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No I already have professional help and it doesn't work. Thinking as a way to change my feelings have NEVER worked. That's the Cognitive in the CBT. That part never works for me. Behavioral therapy works, but I don't know what kind of behavioral therapy would work for self esteem. My shink is also at his wits end. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 03:10 PM
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And I have seen way too much real-world evidence that those studies are ultimately irrelevant. I won't ignore what is right in front of me just because someone with ulterior motives (namely the pharm and frankenfood investors and vegan activists who on the down-low fund these "studies") tells me to. You may want to look into the corruption in these fields. Yeah I have. Like I said, read Marion Nestle. She's THE researcher who studies how much corruption there is in food and nutrition science tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 03:09 PM
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That means I won't be able to get what I want. I reject that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 03:07 PM
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That doesn't work for me. I can't think myself into feeling comfortable with myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 03:07 PM
1

Did I say this?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 03:06 PM
1

Did I say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 03:06 PM
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Hope y'all fight it out ngl. Would love to see you cuck Elon. I actually had an interesting with a friend. He's very very astute about observing politics. And he talked about how Trump isn't classically authoritarian (he doesn't command the kind of coercive apparatus that Putin types do, the only lever he really has is payments). But he has figured out that in any sophisticated state, a lot of things happen by norms, because you can't codify every bloody thing (that's impossible). And he has fig…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 03:05 PM
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Vegan diets are relatively modern Nope. Please look up the history of veganism. And again, how will this solve the issue of meat getting scarce due to input costs rising?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 03:01 PM
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Among women, quite high. Among men, not really existent. It's the truth that men have to be ultra fit to be deemed even a 7/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 02:56 PM
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Dudes do ask for nudes from random women tho. Personally never made much sense to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 02:55 PM
2

Release her. She's the Luigi of incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 02:54 PM
1

Did they fire you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 02:54 PM
1

Type a lot. That's how I learnt.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 02:54 PM
1

What's the other way
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 02:51 PM
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Yeah look if you're going to deny actual evidence and the experts then I don't have anything else to say. I go by the actual recorded evidence and the science. vegan diets have been studied. They're safe. Apart from that, even you can't deny that beef prices are high right now. It's fine if you disagree on what the cause is. 10 years later when prices are 3x what they are now, you'll realise I was right. This is an inevitability, and time will tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 02:51 PM
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Yes but it's the only way to feel good about myself, raise my self esteem and reclaim my sense of masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 02:49 PM
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I know. Lots of things aren't super moral but people have to do them anyway. Like stealing if your kid is starving. People should have more empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 02:43 PM
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Where did you get the quote from? I didn't say that. I also don't agree with it. Someone who CAN'T cheat because he has no options isn't a better partner than someone who has options but WON'T. The latter is superior. I am absolutely drawn to female validation though, that it correct. It is my raison d'etre.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 02:35 PM
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why not see how fulfilling a specific relationship is before having such specific and strange requirements? Because I see how my friends and other people I know all got laid. In their 20s. I was dealing with an illness imposed + mental illness imposed isolation. I could not. So now I feel lesser as a man. And the only way to reclaim my sense of masculinity and feel confident - be the best at sex and have it with lots of women. Nothing else feels like it will do. That's why. Because it feels righ…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 02:32 PM
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Yeah but she can't find anyone for either that meets her standard. And men arent going to be all in for companionship devoid of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 02:30 PM
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I do. I can't stand the thought of sharing a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 02:29 PM
1

I am, I can't deny that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 02:24 PM

Well if they are ever forced into it, women have my full support. I'm rabidly pro abortion, and pro bodily autonomy. Nobody has a say on what you do with your body, period.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 02:22 PM

Yeah that's exactly why I need to lie and cheat. No woman (actually, no person) would ever accept having their time and emotions be disrespected like that. It's not like I'm not self aware. I just don't have any other choice. I cannot be happy without achieving my sexual goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 02:21 PM

but you desperately need to KNOW someone lusts after you more than someone else That is correct. I have this goal because a huge part of why I want to get into a relationship is the validation I would get. And the largest part of that validation comes from both how good at sex I am compared to other men, AND how much she wants me compared to other men. I know it seems bizzare, but to me it FEELS RIGHT. and you want to cheat on a nice girl youre in a relationship with, just because Because anothe…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 02:20 PM

Thanks bro. 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 02:16 PM

1) if you leave because you found someone else and immediately slept with them, that still kinda counts as cheating. I asked a lot of people this and they concurred. Like you're supposed to wait a week or some arbitrary time. 2) when I'm in a relationship my confidence will be higher, so it will be easier to hit on women, and thus get laid. It will be less so if I leave my first relationship, because then I'll always be full of self doubt and think I only got the relationship due to some fluke, …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 02:15 PM

Women are also allowed to?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 02:06 PM

Sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 02:04 PM

She deserves to be punished.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:59 PM
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Thank you bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:55 PM

. But would prozzies not be a faster way to up that bodycount? No because a big part of what the bodycount does is validate my desirability and my lack of inhibition and being able to approach women. Once or twice can be fluke, but not 10 or 20 times. But with a prostitute, it only validates my bank account. Also I don't think prostitutes would want to teach you because they're more into pleasing as opposed to teaching. So even if you ask them to not be like overly vocal to please you, they'll d…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:53 PM

Just read datingover30 Or askwomenover40 and all those places and see what women say about male virgins. If WOMEN are saying they don't want virgin men, then what else are we supposed to conclude.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:50 PM

Also, no company will ever value you. Period. What you do with the company is a trade. Your time for their money. That's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:49 PM

Aah one of those days at work. I actually wrote my cousins resignation email. Man got a raise. That's how it goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:48 PM

I wish women had empathy for men like me who want to cheat. We have our reasons, and they are valid reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:47 PM

Maybe she feels it's demeaning to pay for it, the same way some men do. Women also get hit with the "all women can get laid", so having to pay for it would make her feel something is wrong with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:46 PM

And this will be a form of revenge on womankind, correct? No, this will be a way of empowering myself by upping my body count. I don't hate women, I hate myself for not having a high bodycount. I wouldn't cheat if I could find a woman willing to practice sex with me. Because that's what the first relationship is for. To get good at sex, so I can then take it into ONSes etc. Most teens have a starter relationship. For various life circumstances (including illness), I was deprived of this. So the …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:45 PM

I know. The daily repetition helps me build resolve for when the time comes. I know I'll feel bad about the woman I'm cheating on. I must not yield to those feelings then. Must have strong resolve.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:38 PM

Based as always.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:37 PM

No I'm a virgin. I do plan to cheat on the first woman I end up with.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:34 PM

Working hard can payoff. But working hard for OTHERS usually doesn't. Do what you need to, maybe 10% over that. Say no to the rest. Use the rest of your time working hard on YOUR skills and investing in yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:31 PM

I think she's attractive in a general sense, but not to me personally iykwim. Like I don't want her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:30 PM

Maybe it's high standards. She wants a guy the same age but all the good ones are taken.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:29 PM

One of the key reasons I am antinatalist. Because creating a child is unfair to the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:28 PM

Thank you 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:28 PM

It's okay if you're a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:27 PM

But like if a man is already suffering then there's no disincentive to cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:27 PM

Did you see her apology?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:26 PM

Why not? I've already talked about how I need a high body count to feel validated, and since women won't date a guy who is only looking for a starter relationship, it makes sense to lie to them and cheat on them. Life denied me the opportunity when I was young, so this is my way of making up for it. My rationale is solid.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:26 PM

Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:24 PM
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See above. The nutritional facts are very simple. So are the facts of digestive biology (we don't have a fermenting vat in the stomach to break down plant nutrients properly, we don't have ruminant parts, we have a barely-functioning caecum, etc. We. Are. Not. Herbivores. And since we are not herbivores, we cannot thrive on plants alone; it's literally impossible to with our digestive anatom Uhh, just because we are omnivores doesn't mean that we NEED meat. It just means we can be healthy on a w…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:22 PM
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Okay so your response is long and I can't quote every relevant section so I'll just refer to them by word. 1) about nutrients, here https://www.pcrm.org/good-nutrition/nutrition-information/omega-3 Apart from B12 and maybe some Vitamin D (if you have a desk job) , we don't really need meat for the rest. Again, vegan diets have been proven to be healthy. See above. Nutrient density and bioavailability absolutely matter for health Have you even read the position statements of the AHA on veganism? …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:13 PM

I read about Alice Sebold who falsely accused a black guy of raping her. He was exonerated after many years. She was never punished for lying. If you get falsely convicted on someone else's testimony, then upon exoneration, your accuser should be jailed. It's only fair. What you have made others suffer, you should be made to suffer.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 12:00 PM

Upvoted.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 11:58 AM

Get a cheap Canon ffs.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 11:58 AM

Daily reminder that its okay for men to cheat but not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 11:56 AM
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You know what else outstrips cereal? The significantly more bioavailable nutrition in meat. First of all, your link gives me an incorrect address error. Secondly, it doesn't matter because despite that, a vegeterian (and vegan diet) is STILL as healthy as a carnivorous one. You just refine the food to concentrate the nutrition, or mix and match various foodstuffs to increase bioavailability, for eg beans and rice. Fundamentally, eating a vegetarian or vegan diet does not lead to humans being unh…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:45 AM
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To feed a large-scale number of people what is edible and nutritionally dense and bioavailable: meat and dairy. Although it's mostly not specifically grown so much as already there. Livestock eat mostly grass (more on that at the end of this comment.) Its also far more expensive (the true cost of meat without subsidies far far outstrips the cost of cereals without subsidies), and most importantly *unsustainable**. Like I said, various medical expert groups have tested vegan and vegetarian and me…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 09:21 AM
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I'm an antinatalist. I don't think sentient life is a good thing. What does not exist cannot suffer. What is not sentient cannot suffer. Incredibly based.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 08:48 AM
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The majority of what is fed to bovines is inedible to humans. And still takes a fuckton of land and water to grow and is damaging to the environment via monocropping. Why the fuck should we grow something inedible for humans in such a large quantity? Here https://ourworldindata.org/global-land-for-agriculture I'll quote the specific bit from it "If we combine global grazing land with the amount of cropland used for animal feed, livestock accounts for 80% of agricultural land use. Most of the wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 08:25 AM
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Lol. You do realize conservation includes culling invasive species too right? Yes, but my point is that in no way will they be allowed to go extinct. Conservarionists maintain a balance, they don't genocide a species. But back to the remaining livestock, you think they'd be kept in a preserve of some sort? Yes And do you know what widespread monocropping would do to the environment? Do you know that a shitton of monocropping can be stopped if we don't have to grow feed for bovines? That would be…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 07:44 AM
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And those few would get eaten by predators. Then they'd go extinct. No because they would be protected by conservationist effort. Unless you mean Bill Gates and his fellow greedy billionaire cronies would keep and breed enough of those animals for themselves to eat their fill for the rest of their lives while the rest of us would get weakened into docility on plant-based diets in which case I agree, since hypocrites like them are the real source of this push for plant-based diets in the first pl…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:39 AM
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If everyone went vegan, livestock animals would go extinct. Untrue. There would still be a few of them alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:29 AM

Lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:26 AM
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I’ve found that the things that matter most in a relationship aren’t necessarily the same as in the things that have mattered most in my hookups. What matters most to me is to not be settled for in terms of lust and being the best sex she's ever had.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 11:30 PM
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Hmm that could be true yeah. But regardless, v few women who want virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 11:26 PM
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No, I am a virgin. But I would also never date a woman if I was not as attracted to her as any other woman in my past.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 11:19 PM
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Fiction. Iirc it was by H. G. Wells. Also it was a short story, not a book. My bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 07:59 PM
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Spain, Jordan, Egypt, Turkey, South Korea, Italy, France, Texas.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 06:28 PM
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I read a book with blind people in it. Skin smoothness.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 06:27 PM
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You're literally 12 or something, I don't want raw attraction from underaged kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 06:23 PM
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It's okay for men to be unfaithful.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 06:21 PM

Because in a lot of those cultures, until very recently women could not work. Plus the parents have to pay dowry for the daughter to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 05:45 PM

Hopefully it does happen less and less yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 05:43 PM
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I’m pretty sure most men are aware that immediate sexual attraction happens for some women towards exceptionally attractive men. Thats what all men want for themselves. Plastic surgery makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 05:43 PM
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I don’t think it’s reasonable to tell most men to only date women that want to fuck them immediately, because most men aren’t exceptionally attractive to most women. I believe this is why men should be told the truth that intense attraction exists, but women wont feel it for them unless they get plastic surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 05:17 PM

but I've never had better sex in more unstable and uncertain relationships than I do now That's fair. But there's lots of posts by women saying the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 05:15 PM

Oh there's a whole new shenanigan with this. I agreed with mum that our kids will be raised back home in the culture since kids here are not raised the best. Bruh. What the fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 05:14 PM

Even if the visa thing is solved, They find it a little difficult to speak to each other. Once you have a baby, expect your mom to want to visit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 05:07 PM
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Or bluepill women could just accept that raw attraction is a thing and stop gaslighting men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 05:07 PM

But why tho? Because to us one feels contrived and the other feels instinctual. Thus more powerful and more real. I understand wanting to be sexually desired, but you have to understand, women aren’t just only looking for men who turn them on. The problem is when women will settle for a guy who is good to them/for them, but only kind of turns them on. That's settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 05:06 PM

you cant ever know how exactly it compares to some past relationship. This is why men need to be taught to be on guard and we should all share our experiences and figure out what things mean that a woman is settling for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:58 PM

Or for you to scroll past things you deem to be nonsense? Once I see them I am triggered. It’s impossible for you to not read the daily? I wanna read the other posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:55 PM

I think bahu can visit saas country if she was born in Canada.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:54 PM

Personally I feel that the "grown-over-time" attraction is inferior and less authentic and less real compared to the intense immediate type. Not saying this to give offense, but I only want the latter type, never the former type. To me that's being settled for.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:53 PM

Yes but women shouldn't be like oh that's not a concern that never happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:52 PM

Men don't get told this. They should.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:51 PM

Impossible. I browse the daily and it comes up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:51 PM

In that case, explain why she feels grief for some men breaking up and not others. And the men she feels the most grief for are the hottest ones in her eyes and the ones she lusts after the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:50 PM

Aah the good old saas-bahu fights. Soon she will ask her husband to move out. Divorce in 3 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:47 PM

Then all advice would be useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:45 PM

They make the posts. They should stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:45 PM

My definition is strong and immediate sexual attraction. If a woman is not as sexually attracted to me as she was to an ex of hers, then she is settling for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:45 PM

Go read my other post.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:44 PM

It's not cringe, it's harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:43 PM

does she lust after you to your liking? My liking is that she lusts after me more than she has ever lusted after anyone. I won't accept second place.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:43 PM

If they disagree with me about something obvious then yes. Like you can't tell me that you disagree with me, and you believe the sun doesn't exist. Gaslighting is to make you question your own sanity by denying reality. Raw attraction is undeniable reality. Women should not deny it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:42 PM

It's not about what a woman is attracted to. It's that attraction in varying intensities exists, and some can be so intense that other men can't live up to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:41 PM

Plenty of women say only looks matter tho so why not focus on them. The point is to stop gaslighting men. All men need to be told truthfully that being settled for is a danger they need to watch out for.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:40 PM

Usually intensity and immediacy go hand in hand. Atleast for men. And you can call it strong or intense attraction as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:39 PM

I actually think men are in far less of a risk of being settled for today, than they were a couple of generations ago, when women were more dependent on them. When women don't need men, they're less likely to settle for one. That is true. But women do still settle for men. They realise that eroticism is usually coupled with toxicity, so they try and choose men with whom they can share intimacy without the toxicity. That leads to less eroticism but a more stable relationship. The problem is, nobo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:39 PM

but I'd leave the guy if he has this sort of insecurity. I That's fine, we're all entitled to leave for whatever reason. What bothers me is the gaslighting and saying no it doesn't exist. It fucking does.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:35 PM

"Still not over that guy" Along with "it lasts and lasts", those things express desire, not sorrow. But even if let's suppose that they did express grief, what is the grief for? It's for the intense desire that a man was able to make them feel just by his existence. Now imagine your ordinary male, officegoer, 9-5, fit and well dressed but a little balding and not very good looking. The same woman when dating him won't feel that intense desire for him that she felt for her ex. Nor will she feel t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:34 PM

"Still not over that guy" Along with "it lasts and lasts", those things express desire, not sorrow. But even if let's suppose that they did express grief, what is the grief for? It's for the intense desire that a man was able to make them feel just by his existence. Now imagine your ordinary male, officegoer, 9-5, fit and well dressed but a little balding and not very good looking. The same woman when dating him won't feel that intense desire for him that she felt for her ex. Nor will she feel t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:34 PM

Raw attraction is intense sexual desire. The stronger the desire the more raw the attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:29 PM

Please don't annoy me. I feel about being gaslit as is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:28 PM

I certainly think raw attraction or chemistry is a thing I just feel gaslit when women try to imply that men's fear of being settled for in the context of raw attraction is not valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:27 PM

If I can't believe what women say, then who the fuck do I take as an authority on women?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:27 PM

Yeah no, sorry I don't buy that. "I'm still not over him" expresses desire, not sorrow.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:26 PM

Wot
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:25 PM

The point is that men fear being settled for in terms of lust, and that fear is valid. Bluepill women tell us that is not the case because if a woman is with you then she lusts after you just as much as she did with her ex. And that isn't necessarily true.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:25 PM

Why do men insist on telling women the level of attraction we feel? We don't, we literally just point to the words of other women. Who are these women? Please go re read the offmychest post.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:24 PM

You're wrong tho. Scroll down and see, the raw attraction guy posted an offmychest post from a woman and she's literally saying that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:23 PM

Women do. They seem to deny that a woman can be with different men and lust after some of them more then the others. To them it's like if a woman had 2 boyfriends in her life then she lusted after them equally. Which is horseshit. And men don't want to be with a woman if they feel like they're being settled for in terms of lust. And by settled for I mean the woman lusts after them less than she did after her past boyfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:22 PM

Uhh, not being able to get over a man isn't the same as putting him on a pedestal and regretting it. The comments don't express regret, they express desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:21 PM

Why, why, why, just why won't bluepilled women accept that raw attraction exists? Why are y'all trying to gaslight us men? All these other women say that they've felt raw attraction. That they have an ex who they still lust after. That they don't lust after their current boyfriend as much. And yet you still say raw attraction doesn't exist. Just why?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:12 PM

Cheerleading?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:09 PM

I'm always amazed at how easy US school curriculum is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:06 PM

Day 90 of dailyposting (and a reminder to myself that women don't want virgins). I'm still recovering, so I spent all day asleep. What will you do today?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:05 PM

Somewhere between 2 and 6.7 depending on day and time and situation and mood. And yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:03 PM

It's not just thinking about him tho. It's feeling. Look at the words used. "He still has power over me". "Still not over him". "It lasts... ". Tell me would you date a guy who was still attracted to his ex and lusted after he stronger than he lusted after you? Most men would not tolerate the converse.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:02 PM

Explain those comments then.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:00 PM

Thank you for finding and posting this bro. All men owe you for your service to manhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:00 PM

My favorite calculator move was using it to calculate the determinants of 3*3 matrices
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 03:59 PM

What's there to be proud of ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 03:58 PM
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backfiring on you in unexpected ways Such as?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 03:38 PM
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Yeah this is v cultural. Doesn't fly in India.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 03:38 PM

You'd chop his dick off?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 03:37 PM
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There's women who would share that shit and do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 03:37 PM

Daily reminder that its okay for men to cheat but not for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 02:43 PM
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Because we have all seen those Tinder experiments where you put up a photo of like a male model or something, and then say the most depraved shit you can and the women will still reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 02:42 PM

Looks are pretty damn high, yeah. But that's for both genders. You can't tell me women don't do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 02:41 PM

Based as always
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 02:40 PM
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It feels good to hurt those who hurt you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 12:59 PM
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You are also trade pilled. V few such women around.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 12:57 PM
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Yes. I want the woman to be clingy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 12:56 PM
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A long line? A ski lift? A flight!? These are cold approaches. Women find them creepy. A friend has actually befriended a hot woman and he showed me her messages. She was complaining about how men just come and talk to her, at the library, in class, everywhere. And she finds it very creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 12:53 PM
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Do you think this might have to do with culture? As in Russian women don't do this but American women do ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 12:52 PM
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If your husband ever shared something deeply vulnerable and personal (let's say for eg that he tells you about how he was sexually abused as a kid), would you share this with your girlfriends?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 12:51 PM
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Wot? Why is he going to the hospital for some cough and chocolate consumption? This is just weak tier behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 12:50 PM
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I am still recovering and spent all day sleeping.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 12:47 PM
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A lot of guys don't go to clubs because going to clubs is expensive and nothing happens there so it's disheartening to keep going and spending money.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 12:45 PM
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I love spontenaity and surprises. Man in a Scream mask and long knife will jump out at you from random places now.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 12:43 PM
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Guys, do you think Montoya cheating back is justified or not? His gf was crying because he cheated back on her and imo that's dumb. You can't expect fidelity after cheating. Especially if you're a woman, because a woman cheating is wrong (and a man cheating is not).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 12:43 PM
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International Relations
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 08:29 PM
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The desperate urge to simp for women :/
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 08:12 PM
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That doesn’t mean the other 50% couldn’t drastically improve themselves such that they become sexy It does I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 08:10 PM
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21 is old. You are only young until 19. The moment you hit 20 it's all downhill.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 08:06 PM
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Okay only 50% of men can ever be sexy. The remaining 50% can't thanks to biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 08:03 PM
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Sometimes I am simp pilled, and then I have to tone it down.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 06:28 PM
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33 circles around the Sun and not one Valentine's Day celebrated. Life is cruel.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 06:27 PM
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That's fair, but I want to know what women think women want. Not just the individual woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 06:26 PM
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Sad but true.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 06:26 PM
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sexy Biologically impossible for 90% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 06:25 PM
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beneficial microbes in their gut that thrive on coffee that non-coffee drinkers don’t Just eat some yoghurt?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 06:25 PM
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Lol. I was expecting a hello kitty.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 05:58 PM
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This is more of a what you don't want tho
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 05:58 PM
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Women who think men here don't know what women want. What DO women want?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 05:34 PM
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Imagine being afraid of vaccines.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 05:33 PM
1

I think they want someone to put them out of their misery.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 05:32 PM
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Hope you do well
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 05:32 PM
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She was, but I think she was genuinely abusive to him as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 05:30 PM
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People who drink coffee regularly - why?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 04:52 PM
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Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 04:50 PM
1

I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 04:49 PM
1

Would still be an ersatz life tho. Maybe they're not about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 04:48 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 04:48 PM
1

Yes but the men are victims of circumstance
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 04:27 PM

But we have research studies that show women want tall dark handsome.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 03:46 PM

But what if the rejection and disappointment from not being good looking is what makes them like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 03:45 PM

No, she will not want to leave me because my dick is huge.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 03:44 PM

Ya ceramic ones are better.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 03:25 PM

All women should be as beautiful and stunning as Anna Sawai.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 03:08 PM

I spent all day in bed dreaming about what it would feel like to be in a relationship with a hot woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 03:04 PM

What's wrong with wanting a possessive gf? It shows passion.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 03:03 PM

Test out this hypothesis.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 03:02 PM

No, I want women like that. We can be possessive of each other
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 03:01 PM

Yeah I kinda want the same type.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:47 PM

It's okay to kill fetuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:46 PM

This. Having an unwanted child is a much larger red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:45 PM

Based as always.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:45 PM

It's fun to do the daily reminders. Keeps things lively.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:44 PM

Would you try to chop off a bf's dick if he cheats?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:44 PM
1

Sydney Sweeney is not someone I consider hot at all. Her face is meh.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:43 PM

Q4M: would you accept a hot gf if she was so possessive that she tries to chop your dick off if you try to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:42 PM

Daily reminder that it's okay for men to cheat but not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:41 PM
1

Regulate them too. Any man who tries to date with a beard thicker than regulation gets out in jail.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 12:44 PM
1

Show me 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 12:43 PM
1

No
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 12:42 PM
2

Day 89. Sick. Wwydt
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 11:25 AM
1

Lol weaklings. I have always had perfect enunciation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 07:50 AM
1

No, it's the air. I went to city which is known for its really bad air pollution.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 07:49 AM
2

It sucks to have a fever.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 05:26 AM
1

Makeup is false advertising and should therefore it's use should strictly be regulated by govt agencies.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 05:25 AM
2

But jawline >> things in your control tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 05:03 AM
1

No
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 04:37 AM
1

Ugly people are happy having sex with other ugly people. If they didn't find it enjoyable, they wouldn't do it. Sure but they still feel sad that they're not hot enough to get with the other hot people. Solution is to make the existence of ugly people near impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 04:31 AM
1

Substandard jawline. Balding.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 04:30 AM
1

This is more about individuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 04:21 AM
1

Both parents were sexually desirable enough for sex Not necessarily. Lots of times ugly people pair up with other ugly people. Plus you can be a woman and be carrying the genes of male pattern baldness for eg. Such women should be coerced into aborting any boys they concieve. Other shit like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 04:20 AM
1

Your no is rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 04:13 AM
1

Unpopular opinion - people should not have kids unless they can guarantee that the child will grow up into a sexually desirable adult. And kids who grow up into adults with physically undesirable traits, are owed reparations by the parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 04:10 AM
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Unpopular opinion - people should not have kids unless they can guarantee that the child will grow up into a sexually desirable adult. And kids who grow up into adults with physically undesirable traits, are owed reparations by the parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 04:10 AM
1

Currently, rather poorly. There are some things I have to implement (like exercising daily), which I plan to start. I actually planned to go from tomorrow (I've just come back from a trip and have to unpack). But I have fallen ill today so this will be delayed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 04:08 AM
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I fell ill again, ugh. Also I saw a post on r/Life where a woman said she was unable to find a job and would be homeless soon. And people were so unempathetic and told her to just move, when she doesn't have money. Or just find a job, when she said there were no openings. I kinda hate such subreddits. Another one is r/self. Compared to that offmychest and TrueOffMyChesr has much better people and the responses are usually empathetic. I wonder why some large subreddits veer towards empathy and ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 04:05 AM
2

Do they do jaw implants?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 04:01 AM

Which country doesn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 07:43 PM
1

I don't want to. Maybe some day.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 05:02 PM
1

It's not about healing, it's something that will require resurgeries.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 04:40 PM
1

Haven't been in a while tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 04:14 PM
1

Yeah. My idea is I work hard towards dealing with my fears and making efforts for 10 years. If by the end of that period I don't get what I want, then clearly, the universe never meant for me to have it and there's no point trying. So then I'll just give up and die.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 04:14 PM
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Day 88 of dailyposting (and a reminder to myself that women don't want virgins) I have finally reached home and slept all day. Now I'm trying to tell myself that even if the doctor was gaslighting me, I still have to get the procedure anyway. My first choice is still going abroad and getting it done. But if I can't because Trump ruins the Middle East (fuck Trump btw), then I'll have to pick a surgeon here. Oh well. Let's hope things go well for me. In any case, I only have to deal with all this …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:35 PM
1

Oceans and landfills in poorer countries. It used to go to China, but a couple years ago they stopped accepting the trash
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:32 PM
1

Women doing the cheating is what makes it bad. Men cheating makes it not bad because they're not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 01:52 PM
1

2, 3 and 4 are trash. What about the 5'1" curvy bespectacled godesses.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 01:51 PM
1

That's cuz the AI deaged him
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 01:49 PM
1

I wanna do it so they can rent it out and have some sort of passive income. Bad idea tbvh.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 01:44 PM
1

Me
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 01:43 PM
1

New daily reminder: cheating is reprehensible only for women. Men cheating is okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 12:34 PM
1

You can't be a lawyer, they have to work late into the night sometimes and then get up early.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 11:10 AM
1

How will Hello Kitty save the city
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 11:08 AM
1

I love public transport, I just don't want screaming kids in there. Push them to special buses and trains or something. No kids in adult public transport.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 07:21 AM
1

Children should be banned from public transport and public places.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:54 AM
1

People are idiots.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:53 AM
1

Your feelings are lying to you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:52 AM
1

I recently binge watched S1 of Severance. That was pretty good.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 06:04 PM
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Virginity is a social construct. It would stop existing if women stopped getting icked out by virgin men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 06:02 PM
1

Push one off a ravine.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 06:01 PM
1

You remain kids until you're 25 tbvh. You'll know once you reach late 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 06:00 PM
1

Proms are cancer.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 05:59 PM
1

High school sucked for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 05:59 PM
1

True Detective S1, Severance.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 05:57 PM
2

Only if women do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 05:56 PM
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Day 87 of dailyposting (and a reminder to myself that women don't want virgins). Today was a shit day. The doctor lied to me about something. Now I'm wondering if I can trust half the things he has told me. Medical gaslighting is the fucking worst. I am very sad today. Despair. Anyway, what will you do today?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 05:56 PM
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Seems sus
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 02:21 AM
1

They do so far. Republicans can get rid of the filibuster if they chose to. The question is will they?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 06:58 PM
1

My most controversial opinion is that men who are married to women should serve that woman, and dedicate their life to her happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 06:55 PM
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Yes, women never knew that having kids hurts until the internet. They actually didn't know about all the possible complications and the risks until they had access to the internet. How many women would have access to studies on childbirth complications pre-internet? Very few.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 06:53 PM
1

Yes but fillibuster.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 06:52 PM
1

Just five years ago, people were lamenting that a rollback of DEI and the evil it’s caused would never happen Umm no, I never saw this. I saw the opposite. I saw people claim Trump will be a dictator and try to restrict women's freedom. But even with that, most women will simply avoid having sex rather than risk having kids. This is because what causes low birth rate more than anything else, is education. When women can talk to each other and share their experiences with each other, women realis…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 06:19 PM
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No, I deserve to stay unbanned.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 06:12 PM
1

Lol this will never happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 06:11 PM
1

How will they ban abortions nationally though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 06:11 PM
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Tbh I never laugh at women who are fat unless they do shit like sue the Uber driver because they're too fat to fit in the car. Other than that, I think some miso men are like that sure. Most of us aren't though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 06:10 PM
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Give me an example then
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 06:04 PM
1

Nah, we're not that misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 05:40 PM
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Good. I expect that yeah most women won't want to date most men at all now. But that's a price worth paying if it guarantees no settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 05:14 PM
1

Some days I really feel like a hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 05:04 PM
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Based as always.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 04:32 PM
3

Day 84 of dailyposting (and a reminder to myself that women don't want virgins). I'm travelling again. Another doctor appointment. What will you do today?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 04:31 PM
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I don't know tbvh. I'm a little surprised that the others thought you were attacking me ngl. I do know that for me to ever be cut out for an LTR Id first need to sleep around with a lot of different woman. And to sleep around with lots of different women I first need sexual experience, which I plan to get by lying to a woman that I want an LTR, and then using her to gain experience and then either leaving her to date around. Or cheating on her. Depending on how I'm feeling and how much I care ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 05:27 AM
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Lol. No I will start posting anything woe is me along with a lot of other non woe-is-me stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 05:24 AM
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Well I'm that case the moms should know what boys are like, what they want, and tailor their advice accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 05:15 AM
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Also do you guys ever use social media for your work? Like maybe put up documentaries on YouTube. Or a tiktok channel that posts history facts. Or something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 05:13 AM
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Public history is basically focused on making stuff accessible to the public as much as possible Okay yes this is dope af. Props ngl, you do important work. Do you guys ever create like a curated exhibition on a topic that is entirely chronological. Like you start walking through it from one end and you have exhibits of say, the beginning of the Russian revolution. And then you walk all the way to the end and you have the final exhibit something from 1991 when the Soviet Union collapsed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 05:12 AM
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Men who voted for Trump are the biggest dupes lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 05:08 AM
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Almost no man would be into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 05:07 AM
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Eww wtf. Mods pls ban this guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 05:06 AM
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Alright I'll DM you something later. But only if you promise to not judge me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:57 AM
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It's infuriating.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:57 AM
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What's public history. Also pls give recommendations on books to read to learn about the Roman Empire. I really want to read books on the Roman Empire but not sure which ones are good.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:56 AM
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Ngl this reinforces my thoughts about marriage being a bad idea. Anyway, it feels insulting and therefore isn't stupidly small. It's like if I said "Good thing you don't have big tits/aren't cute/<insert positive trait here>, otherwise it would have gone to your head". You can't tell me you don't see how a woman wouldn't find this insulting.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:56 AM
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That's what they all say.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:54 AM
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I would have divorced even if I were fit for an exclusive LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:53 AM
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Yeah I read all your posts. I feel bad for you ngl, you deserve better.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:52 AM
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Refer her to the BollyBlindsNGossip subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:52 AM
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No. It has a lot of stuff around me stealing a woman away from her husband. Basically me cuckolding another man. That's taboo and I don't want others to read it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:50 AM
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Love and lust are the same thing for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:48 AM
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Those guys will probably not get paid what they were promised.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:43 AM
1

You could go into UI/UX u know.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:38 AM
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:( Hope your sibling recovers and sees better days. Have you ever thought about what you can do to hurt conservatives?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:32 AM
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No one.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:26 AM
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Hope they add the blood drained of babies as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:25 AM
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I hate that they don't teach you this shit in school. Instead they tell you that you shouldn't teach people without their explicit consent. So now you're all grown up but you can't do this because you don't have another persons explicit consent but asking is a turnoff for women. So you're just paralyzed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:23 AM
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Same
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:22 AM
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Example?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:21 AM
1

What kind of history do you specialize in?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:17 AM
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College does open doors though. The only place where maybe college isn't worth it is in America, and that's because you guys pay an arm, a leg and a kidney for it. In the rest of the world, college is free or very close to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:16 AM
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Then why do you feel the crush though? Maybe you're poly and dont know it yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:14 AM
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There is truth to the idea that a woman could basically sleep with almost any dude at any time. It isn't 100% true but like in 95%+ cases it's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:12 AM
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If any woman ever read the erotica I have written, they would leave me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:11 AM
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I would have divorced over this ngl.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:10 AM
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Can't believe they deleted my post for woe-is-me content. Infuriating.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:10 AM
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The way I see it is, if you're husband doesn't sexually excite you as much as other people, he shouldn't be your husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:08 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 07:09 PM

We already have that power. It's called planned suicide.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 06:53 PM
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No they are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 06:52 PM

What's so funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 06:52 PM

I already have talked about how I first need to move cities before I can even meet women. Won't happen till 2026.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 06:28 PM

Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 06:26 PM

Women ask how many relationships you've been in.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 06:25 PM

Get over it. No. Almost every guy is settled for. Because every guy doesn't try to looksmaxxx by getting my plastic surgery done.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 06:24 PM

I don't think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 06:23 PM
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Anything that makes someone feel better is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 06:23 PM

ikr
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:53 PM

I do because they will find out no matter what. I can't lie about this. I CAN lie about wanting a relationship and wanting kids though. The thought of wasting a woman's precious years by promising marriage and kids and using her for sex and then abandoning her. The thought of doing that alleviates the pain I feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:52 PM

I feel sad about how I'm a virgin and will get rejected for it a lot. And also about how there's a risk that I could be settled for. The thought hurts. And so I deal with the pain by telling myself that I lie to women and use them for sex. I will objectify them. This makes me feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:49 PM

For a lot of men this is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:46 PM

Ngl if women think Dev Patel is a 10, then maybe I have a shot at finding women who think Im a 10. Still can't believe this is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:46 PM

Ideally, I'd hide her away in my house such that no man ever lays an eye on her. Peak Islam has been achieved.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:45 PM

Not being the best lover doesn’t mean your partner has settled for you. For me that's the definition of settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:39 PM

Maybe, but the guy who didn't get to have fun casually will forever chase it. And he's entitled to try and find the women who want to have that fun with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:38 PM
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It’s just not. I disagree. For me it is a mens issue. It’s a “life’s sucks and isn’t fair” and will fuck you up issue. And some guys need to learn how to get up off the mat more than others Sure but then if men respond by being RedPilled, then no one should be surprised either. Women have the privilege of rejecting men for whatever reason. Men have the privilege of lying and using women's bodies for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:38 PM
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Then you're blaming a human for... being human. And in that case you open yourself up to blame for any and every behavior of yours as well. Because any desire that you have is now open to criticism. Plus, who says it isn't possible. A man is entitled to try and find it. A man is entitled to die trying. For a lot of men it really is that important.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:36 PM

Nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:34 PM

I didn't understand anything that you said here. Pls rephrase.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:34 PM

I saw an NYPost article which referenced a study of American couples. 52% of the women said their husband was not the best. You are waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay underestimating.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:33 PM
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Nothing wrong with that either.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:32 PM

WHAT? No way is he a 10. He's barely a 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:28 PM
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I mean just because it happens to a small segment of men doesn't mean that it isn't a men's issue. An issue that is fuelled by and experienced by men due to their gender, makes it a mens issue. Women don't have this problem because let's be real, for them getting dates is just a matter of making a tinder account and letting the matches roll in. If one dude says no to her, there's a hundred more she could get in like an hour on Tinder. Men meanwhile have to try so much harder unless they're natur…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:28 PM

No becausr I'm a dude but Dev Patel is just ugly. No jawline, skinny, weird head and face shape. He is unironically ugly in India.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:24 PM

Yes but it's so obvious that even they should realise it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:22 PM

This doesn't work because for a lot of men like me, our sense of masculinity is validated by how much women lust after us in comparison to other men. So, for us, women settling for us in this manner GENUINELY (and I really really mean this in the most literal manner) feels like an insult. Like if a woman ever confessed this to my I would be incredibly insulted. It feels like a personal offense against me. Why the fuck did she agree to date me if she didn't feel that sense of wild lust for me? I …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:21 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/vdmytPMnua Here you go. By the definition of what men consider settling (ie purely from the lens of sex and lust), this woman is settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:17 PM

He is. This guy is Sri Thanedar or somesuch name. V sleazeball politician.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:15 PM

Ew wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:14 PM

Women settle for men they are not sexually excited about all the time. Even in 2025. I can't believe people still doubt the existence of this phenomenon.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:13 PM
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No, people absolutely do settle even in 2025. Settling for such men has a very specific definition - she doesn't lust after you as much as she lusted after another man. There's this spectrum that Esther Perel talks about with eroticism on one end and intimacy on the other. And she talks about how they are kind of opposites, because eroticism thrives on novelty and excitement. And intimacy thrives on closeness and consistency. And if her attraction to you is more of the latter than the former, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:12 PM
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Yeah but if the guy didn't get to experience that unemployed-college-kid-sex. Then he's going to chase that feeling. Can't blame him for that. Of course some men think that they can't and so getting someone who didn't have that experience (ie a low n count woman) will help them cope. False idea imo. Doesn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:09 PM
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They are virgins because either they are too physically unattractive. Or for whatever reason they could not /we're not able to succeed in dating when teenage+college age. Now they are too old, and no woman wants to teach them. They might be a minority of all men at 0.3%, but that doesn't mean that their suffering is meaningless.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:06 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 04:59 PM
1

I could totally fight a bear.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 04:57 PM
1

I bet it depends on how hot the stalker is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 04:56 PM
1

That (no offense), doesn't look very appetising.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 04:55 PM
1

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 04:54 PM
1

IMO this is also why you want to make sure that your wife is someone who would want to hookup with you. Preferably by hooking up with her on the first date. In fact I think what men should really do is try and hookup with women on first date. Those women who don't, should only be used for sex. Like sure go on dates with her so she trusts you more and wants you for sex etc. But just use her for sex and never give her your feelings. Those are only for women who hookup on first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 04:53 PM
1

Is this the woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 04:51 PM
1

No
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 04:48 PM
2

IMO best way is to be busy af.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 04:48 PM
2

Also, not being unkind, but like, you should leave your husband. Everyone deserves someone who is into them and them only.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 04:43 PM
1

Based as always.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 04:42 PM
2

RIP to your husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 04:42 PM
1

Desis?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 04:40 PM
1

Ok nvm, lacks curves. I bump her down to a 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 04:38 PM
1

8 or 9, 6or7
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 04:37 PM
1

Laughs in "I live in India and our used car market won't be that affected by tarrifs".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 04:37 PM
1

This is hot? Wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 04:36 PM

Day 85 of dailyposting (and a reminder to myself that women don't want virgin men). Today I ran some errands and watched the rest of True Detective Season 4. I also worry. I have savings but once I get my procedure, they will run dry. What will I do then. My parents will help me but they can only do so much. What will you do today?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 04:34 PM

You speak truth to power.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 04:33 PM
5

No it is the inexeperience itself also. Women saying they don't want to teach a man etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 05:10 PM
9

Read the OP. She says why are virgin men "unattractive" to women. And that's the truth. We are.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 05:09 PM
7

And hers is a tiny minority
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 05:08 PM
9

The truth has to be faced brother. But it's okay, you have the right to lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 05:07 PM
6

Bruh, there's comments by women abov and below yours saying they don't find virgin men attractive. Like seriously, please acknowledge that men have it hard in this area.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 05:07 PM
9

Bro we talked about this yesterday. You agreed that n counts matter in this particular case of the man being virgin and older
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 05:04 PM
12

Lol theres women on PPD who find virgins unattractive.. So the answer is because women tell us they don't find virgin men attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 05:03 PM
1

It's inevitable
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 05:02 PM
1

Horny
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 05:01 PM
2

Day 84 of dailyposting (and a reminder to myself that women don't want virgin men) Went shopping today. Got me a pair of trousers and a new pair of shoes. Also, I am watching a tv show. I won't name which one so you can't spoilt it for me. What will you do today?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 05:01 PM
11

Uhh no. It definitely is the lack of experience. I can show you women saying the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 10:28 PM
4

Relationship history is a roundabout way of asking "how many people have you fucked". And if not, then women should have 0 issues of men asking women their relationship history
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 10:26 PM
4

What is not-normal engineering
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 09:29 PM
2

What the fuck is normal engineering and what is not-normal engineering?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 09:24 PM
1

Like "Go make me a sandwich" tier assertive?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 09:23 PM
2

Yes I know but Fin also kills your libido. If you're absolutely dead set on using it, talk to a good doctor before doing it. Also the way minoxidil works is it changes the phase of your hair, elongates the growing phase, so your hair doesn't start to thin out until much later. So it does give you some extra time. IMO use that until you see actual signs of confirmed recession (not just a mature hairline), and THEN talk to a doctor about Fin if you're so adamant about that. And even then, use the …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 09:22 PM
2

It's very true. Look up Post Finasteride Sexual Disorder.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 09:19 PM
1

Not really hibernation then.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 09:19 PM
2

1) Please dont take finasteride. It can kill your libido permanently. 2) With Minoxidil, you could probably extend the lifepsan of your hair by half a decade or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 09:14 PM
1

But you do train right?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 09:13 PM
1

I thought you cheered. That isn't hibernation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 09:11 PM
1

I think the old media model is well and truly broken now. These companies serve no purpose whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 09:10 PM
1

Yes but they also had some very very skilled and experienced career bureaucrats. All of whom will get pushed out for standing up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 08:48 PM
1

Good to hear that there is some resistance. Nothing shows up on the media.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 08:46 PM
5

Yikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 08:45 PM
10

Meanwhile women will always ask a man about his relationship history. And end the date if he doesn't have any.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 08:45 PM
1

Well midgets are a lot fewer than 0.3 percent.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 08:44 PM
1

Also tfw no mass protests. Meanwhile the entirety of Serbia is out right now. And like 160k Germans in Berlin are protesting against the AfD. It's wild to see that and then look at America and see basically no mass protests.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 08:44 PM
1

If you think that hegemony isn't being destroyed this very second then I have a bridge to sell you. Like you really don't get how much of American soft power was purely due to this aid. You can't bully the world. Hell you can't even bully a small country like Afghanistan or Vietnam. But you can cajole countries into going along with your agenda. And a big tool for that is just lost. And that isn't even going into how the USAID was explicitly used by the CIA to place it's operatives undercover. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 08:42 PM
2

Yeah but like the CIA just let the USAID get shutdown. With 0 resistance.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 08:37 PM
5

Far more men are virgins over 30 than are midgets.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 08:35 PM
2

My friends are terrified there isn't more resistance from the bureaucrats and the actual deep state.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 08:34 PM
2

Oh also the USAID thing is the biggest self goal I have ever seen. You don't understand how much it benefits American hegemony, for such cheap cost.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 08:34 PM
1

If I really have to explain it to you then you're not paying attention. Your federal agencies are slowly being couped, and replaced with yes men idiots. You're going to lose a LOT of institutional knowledge with those employees. Not to mention how tarrifs are causing inflation. And the deportation policies are causing havoc in the agri sector.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 08:31 PM
1

Ngl, it's a little wild to see Trump destroy the Americas. Guess this is how empires die.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 08:26 PM
1

The US dollar will get weaker if Europe is forced to wean itself off of US trade.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 08:23 PM
1

It won't happen, and if it does it won't work. I live in India. I can guarantee that this country won't move beyond the dollar. Guarantee it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 08:22 PM
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Fair. But it shouldn't be a blanket "n counts don't matter" then.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 08:20 PM
1

Why
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 06:28 PM
1

Yes. I am one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 06:19 PM
1

I don't think it's the dead internet theory. But just, fewer people on interactive text platforms theory. People are still going to be on Tiktok and YouTube. But that's one way communication, unless you also want to make a video. Text is easier, faster, anonymous. And people will still be on text platforms. Just fewer. Which would mean less variety in perspectives. And that isn't a good thing. It means more esoteric questions will not get answered because the guys with the answers aren't online.…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 06:18 PM
1

I mean people open the website. There's less incentive to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 06:16 PM
1

Really don't like AI. If people use AI to answer basic questions, they won't frequent Reddit. So they won't come across other people's posts. So they won't reply to posts. So fewer people will reply. So there will be less human-hunan interaction and fewer perspectives. This is bad because only on the internet can you get such a wide variety of perspectives across gender, age, ethnicity and culture. Although AI is kinda self killing in that sense because fewer posts = less training data for futur…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 05:58 PM
2

Based as always.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 05:54 PM
1

33, 37-28
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 05:51 PM
1

The courts are full of shit. Rapists deserve lifetime solitary confinement. But real rape, lying to get sex doesn't count.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 05:51 PM
2

Day 84 of dailyposting (and a reminder to myself that women don't want virgin men). I have travelled back home. Spent all day sleeping because I was tired. And now I'm watching Severance. I saw that they introduced AI on Reddit. I don't like it. I feel it reduces incentive for people to post, and thus we are robbed of potential perspectives. Anyway, what will you do today, PPD?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 05:50 PM
1

Will make sure to read those so I can pass all vetting. Thanks for letting us know.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 05:47 PM
1

So is calling black people 'nigger'. But that's not justified, is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 05:46 PM
1

Yeah, that's most Indian weddings for you. I usually only attend for the free food.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 05:46 PM
10

Weekly reminder that n-counts matter because 30+ men with n-count = 0 are unwanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 05:45 PM
1

Lol. Bro this is an alcohol free Indian wedding. Most women will be married or not an appropriate age. There will be no alcohol to help me overcome my nerves. And I will be nervous cuz insecure virgin with low self esteem. And you forget that this is an Indian wedding. People don't make out at weddings here. Haven't seen one in all my years of attending weddings. Only way this happens is if those two people already know and like each other. And even, it's rare. Strangers making out at a wedding …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 04:42 PM
2

I'll only be going to one friends. That's in another city. So there's 0 chance of me dating anyone from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 04:39 PM
1

Move to Rotterdam
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 04:36 PM
0

And men will just game all this by lying to you. Good luck lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 04:36 PM
1

Nope. I genuinely don't want to use escorts because it won't give me the validation of being desired.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 04:34 PM
1

Part of me just wants to hurt them. But nvm that isn't worth the emotional investment. I will just ostracise them. Will simply stop interacting with any woman that ever makes a joke about a mans body or laughs at one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 04:29 PM
3

Oh and another friend is getting married. That makes it 4 in the last 2 years. I am officially at the stage where I pity myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 04:26 PM
1

That's both accurate and brutal. If I were a girl, I would have taken "girl next door" as an insult. Because girl next door isn't the seductive bombshell, the vixen. That's the female version of Chad. What a cursed existence to be the female version of husband material.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 04:25 PM
2

Based as always
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 04:24 PM
1

Day 83 of dailyposting (and a reminder to myself that women don't want virgins). Another day wasted. I didn't do much at all today, except pack for my trip back home. Have a doctors consult scheduled next week. But I'm going to become serious about my goals once I return from this trip in a week. And I'll start doing bodyweight workouts while I am there What will you do today, PPD?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 04:24 PM

RIP bro. There's a reason why I haven't asked this question here. Hugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 04:56 PM
1

No but a lot of women aren't bodyshaming out of spite. They genuinely find men's body issues funny and laugh at them. In their heads it isn't wrong because it's funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 04:49 PM

Yes. If they laugh at a small dick joke then I will just unfriend them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 04:42 PM

For those men, being an asshole is essential.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 04:15 PM

Based
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 04:14 PM

For most dudes who struggle with women, that is the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 04:08 PM

Then you probably run into dudes who don't crave female validation. Those dudes don't have any issues getting dates anyway. This is for the dudes who have trouble. It's because they crave female validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 04:02 PM

You should read Models by Mark Manson. But essentially, men want female validation, which makes them needy. The best way to not want female validation and become non needy is to be an asshole who is selfish and only cares about himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 04:00 PM

It is imo. Atleast from my (admittdly limited experience).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:55 PM

but never any explanation for women who have no ex-partners but still don't experience raw attraction for their partner. Well how would they know if their attraction to a dude is truly strong if she hasn't been with other dudes and experienced attraction to them first. This is why I don't want to date a virgin woman tbvh. It's why I dgaf about the n-count. Could be a hundred for all I care. But sadly women don't want virgin dudes who are 30+.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:55 PM

It is now, for me. I won't even explain to her why. Will just leave if she ever so much as laughs at a small dick joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:53 PM
1

Based as always.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:51 PM

Personality = being an asshole (since that's the only way to be non-needy).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:50 PM

Fkn same.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:49 PM

Based as always.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:49 PM

I would get away with cheating super duper easily. Because I'm very nice and come across as very honest and nice irl. I have actually used it to my benefit many times in the past. I come across as trustworthy and have used that to lie and get away with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:48 PM

Also make him join the wrestling team instead. Trust me, he will thank you 4 years hence.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:47 PM

Also just to be clear - do they follow a sport or do they play it? Because lots of dudes watch a sport. And that's pathetic. Either compete or gtfo.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:47 PM

Drag him to a BJJ gym. A couple rounds of grappling and he will fall in love.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:46 PM

Non-raw attraction = I love my husband but I have neverusted after him as intensely as I have lusted after my toxic ex, and the sex with my toxic ex was better.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:45 PM

He needs to become an asshole by selfishly focussing on his own needs. This will make him less invested in those women and the women will see he's not needy and want him more.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:44 PM

Also I have changed my mind since yesterday. I won't bodyshame a woman. But if any woman bodyshames a man around me, I will reserve the right to simply ignore her. And if I'm in a relationship with a woman and she ever bodyshames someone, I will leave her right there and then. This is my boundary now. Bodyshaming hags GTFO.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:42 PM

Fuck yeah, which music.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:41 PM
1

Okay then what should the male response be to women shaming them for their body? How exactly should they manage their pain and hurt?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:40 PM
1

Yep lol. My aunt is 50+ and unmarried and relationshipless. Prolly ace. She just lives an awesome life. Has a ton of hobbies at 50+. I honestly don't want a marriage. I would be happy with a live in relationship. The only point of a relationship is sex and validation anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:39 PM

Go on a murder spree.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:37 PM

Day 83 of dailyposting (and a reminder to myself that women don't want virgins). I feel good today. My mood feels stable and not volatile. I studied for like 5 hours. This feels good. I have moments like these sometimes. When my self esteem isn't rock bottom. In these moments I care a lot less about female validation. Anyway, what will you do today? And how was your poop ⛳?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:36 PM
1

25% tarrifs will fuck up his own supporters lol. The idiots actually tried to gut Medicaid. They didn't realise the pushback would be this strong.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 04:55 PM
1

Tbh my fear of plane crashes is slowly rising thanks to Boeing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 04:54 PM
7

Unpopular opinion - women laugh at men with smaller penises/shorter height, therefore men bodyshaming women is justified
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 04:46 PM
1

Note to self : don't give money to cousins or other people like that
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 04:45 PM
3

Based as always.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 04:44 PM
1

Very few because this approach doesn't work for me (too much anxiety).
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 04:43 PM
1

Day 82 of dailyposting (and a reminder to myself that women don't want virgins). My mom wants me to move back home. This is worrying because she can tell my relatives (who I live with) , and they can kick me out. I will then have to leave this city, and go back to my hometown where I have no options to learn wrestling or MMA. Incredibly depressing and anxiety provoking thought. Anyway, I cleaned my room, studied a little bit today. I will be going on a short trip next week (have to visit the doc…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 04:43 PM
1

Atheist
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 04:42 PM
6

Unpopular opinion - since women laugh at men for small penis/short height, men bodyshaming women is justified.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 04:32 PM
1

Yeah I don't like it either. I don't want to make fun of women for their physical traits. But women laughing at a mens size = me wanting to retaliate back for all my fellow men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 04:27 PM
1

So apparently SRK is known for smelling really good, and he has a special blend of two perfumes. I want to buy that once my current perfumes run out
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 04:26 PM
1

It's over for virgins (cant be a good lover).
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 04:26 PM
1

Look like a feminine man.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 04:25 PM
2

Day 82 of dailyposting (and a reminder to myself that women don't want virgins). My mom wants me to move back home. This is worrying because she can tell my relatives (who I live with) , and they can kick me out. I will then have to leave this city, and go back to my hometown where I have no options to learn wrestling or MMA. Incredibly depressing and anxiety provoking thought. Anyway, I cleaned my room, studied a little bit today. I will be going on a short trip next week (have to visit the doc…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 03:55 PM
1

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 03:52 PM
1

The hard part is finding a woman that is genuinely attracted to you. Until I do, I am less than a man. This is something I have come to accept.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 03:51 PM
2

No
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:51 PM
1

One thought I had today. I feel emasculated because I am a virgin. And this feeling isn't going away. And it won't until. I've had sex with multiple women. And I can't fight this feeling. So I'm going to embrace it. I'm not really a man, untill I have slept with a couple women. Until then, I'm something lesser. Something pathetic and repulsive. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:50 PM
1

I'm not super accurate because I forget. But them somedays I will end up jumping a day, so it evens out.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:03 PM
2

Based as always.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:02 PM
1

I agree. Fundamenrally I refuse to be settled for. I'm glad someone else also sees it that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:01 PM
2

Also n1 you fooled me again
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:00 PM
1

Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 03:59 PM
3

Day 81 of dailyposting (and a reminder to myself that women don't want virgins) Another day wasted. Ngl, I am ashamed of how many days I have wasted. I really need to get a handle on my anxiety. I did atleast block virtually ALL news sources now. Except for my group chat with friends where I vent. Everything else is blocked for the entire day except for a brief two hours period at night. The next thing I am going to target is my habit of eating junk food. I'm certain that fucks with my mood and …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 03:59 PM
5

Men will chase women as long as they are hot. Doesn't matter if toxic. Women will do the same to men. Thus it is imperative for any man who wants to be treated the way Chad does, that he become as physically attractive as Chad. PlasticSurgeryMaxx.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 04:27 PM
1

Who?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 04:26 PM
1

Yeah your family has too many expectations on you bro. You deserve better.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 03:57 PM
1

Why do people get fillers instead of like a facelift.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 03:53 PM
2

What music will you listen to?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 03:52 PM
1

You're burning out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 03:51 PM
2

Lol if only our sexualities worked like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 03:50 PM
4

Based as always.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 03:48 PM
1

Same. Especially for virginity.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 03:47 PM
3

Day 81 of dailyposting (and a reminder to myself that women don't want virgins). I was very anxious and depressed today. I worry that Trump will cause a global recession and then I won't be able to find a high paying 9-5 job with a good work-life balance. I also am going to block my browser as well so I can only access Reddit and Twitter at night. No more of reading the news. I shall read books instead. What will you do today?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 03:46 PM
1

Application Error is my Chinese Zodiac.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 11:49 AM
1

I told you it exists. It's called SSRIdls
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 11:45 AM

No, a lot of the time, the dude is sincere about the marriage. He talks to the woman before the marriage, asks her if she really wants to marry him. She will say she does, but she's lying under family pressure. Then they get married and the truth comes out. Now he wants to get a divorce, but the Indian legal system wants couples to stay together and so makes it really difficult to get a divorce. It can take up to half a decade to get a divorce, or more. So the guy is stuck for years. Not to ment…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 07:33 AM

Fuck arranged marriages. Would rather die than accept one. It's worse than cuckoldry.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 07:25 AM
1

It might be abnormal, but there's nothing wrong with chasing after what makes you happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 05:28 AM
1

That simply won't happen, I can guarantee that. Maybe a slight increase in the birth rate, but nothing that can get you to replacement level. Birth rates are dropping across the world. They're dropping in places with excellent social Security like the Nordic world. They're dropping in America. They're dropping in India and China and the Far East. That's a worldwide issue that simply won't be solved because most women are slowly being educated, and a lot of educated women don't want to give birth…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 05:27 AM
1

My feelings are contingent on how she feels about me compared to her past lovers. Which is why I probably won't stop dating her immediately. But once we've been dating for a while (a few months), and I feel comfortable being vulnerable to her, I will talk to her, and ask her if she felt more lust for an ex than she did for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 09:34 PM
1

Depends on how depressed I'm feeling. If very, I'll be like whatever let the world RIP. If less, I'll go on Reddit and spam women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 09:20 PM
2

Look into electronic engg. Those guys can go into CS and electronics.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 09:19 PM
1

Its cum guzzler.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 09:06 PM
4

mean i dont really cook Cooking is a womens job
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 09:04 PM
1

Will you do the cooking for your bf?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 09:03 PM
1

Could be. Mostly we're just used to him and ignore him now.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 09:00 PM
1

I dunno who cares about foreign aid. Maybe the smaller countries. The real issue is NIH is not getting funding.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 09:00 PM
1

I've applied makeup in my theatre kid days. No thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 08:58 PM
1

No he comes on with a new alt, says stuff like this until a mod comes online and bans him.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 08:57 PM
1

Explain Pinterest.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 08:56 PM
2

It's cum guzzler.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 08:56 PM
1

Depends on the man. For me I simply do not feel a sense of self worth because I haven't slept with a lot of women. I'd bet theres other older virgin men who have the same issue
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 08:54 PM
1

Depends on what you want and your value system. The kid who wanted to play basketball and lost his legs - his outcome does not depend on him. The outcome is settled. He will never be a basketball player. The only things left are to decide whether to cope or die. That is decided by his value system. And that's where therapy is useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 08:23 PM
1

That's fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 08:21 PM
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No, it's not nonsense here because I'm not saying I know her exact feelings, what I'm saying is I feel at risk. Which is slightly different to saying I know what she feels.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 08:17 PM
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But I deeply believe I have control over my outcome Yeah, but what I'm saying is that the day I feel convinced that the only outcome I care about is unachievable is when I will off myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 08:16 PM
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I mean you know that you tried to push her for sex and she rebuffed. Thus the odds that she didn't want to have sex with you are elevated. Thus all those other odds are elevated. And thus you feel at risk of being settled for in terms of the lust she feels. A lot of men don't want to take that risk. I think that's fair. You know we tell women that it's okay if they don't want to date a man. They don't have to give a reason. Just not wanting to date him is enough. The same should apply to men. If…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 08:08 PM
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mean this sounds like limited belief Nope. I illustrated the exact emotional process that would happen if I try to change it, and how that would block the change. I will feel inferior and emasculated. And thus my emotional side will shut down any attempts to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 08:04 PM
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took me wanting to never feel that low again and help that got me to this point. Yeah that's what I mean by emotional realisation. For some people this never happens. For others even though they don't want to feel the pain, they can't change because their value system is a permanent block that simply can't be changed internally.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 08:01 PM
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Fair enough, we can change that to "she doesn't want to have sex with you on the first date but she did want to have first date with her ex, and that means there's an elevated risk that she's not as into you as she was into her sex, and an elevated risk that you're being settled for in terms of the lust she feels for you vs the lust she felt for him. Do you want to take that risk? ".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 08:00 PM
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You wear it and model it for us. Then we'll know for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 07:55 PM
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Could be. We can only go by the image tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 07:52 PM
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Okay I fuck it. If women chase the bad guy, I will chase the bad girl and let her ruin me, once I make myself attractive. Good girls don't deserve me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 07:51 PM
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No offense, it's not sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 07:49 PM
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How about "if she made you wait one day longer than the other guy then there's elevated odds that she's not as into you as she was into him, do you want to take that risk ? "
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 07:48 PM
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Nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 07:44 PM
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At some point you had some kind of emotional realisation which allowed you to both want to change and be able to change. Not everyone has this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 07:43 PM
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Yeah that's p much what it is. I guess maybe the RedPill confuses odds with certainities.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 07:42 PM
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It's not just that I don't want to change, it's that my value system doesn't let me have the desire to change. In which case, therapy becomes of limited utility. Which is why I do have issues with therapy (and more accurately people who blindly tell people to just get therapy).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 07:41 PM
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I mean it can. If everyone started being born with one leg, then that would become the new normal definition of what a human is over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 07:39 PM
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BluePill? More like PooPill. Hahahahahahaha.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 07:37 PM
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I've never seen a bad girl. What is she like?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 07:35 PM
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True. That's a nice little cheat code to have self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 07:34 PM
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RedPill might be wrong in that. But men don't have any other ways to gauge raw attraction. So the idea is that if she sleeps with you early then there is very high odds of raw attraction. If she doesn't then it could be because of some other reasons, but also could be because she genuinely isn't that into you. So it still makes sense to rely on this as a measure of raw attraction and to use it as a filtering mechanism for women you want to be with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 07:33 PM
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It's also true.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 07:30 PM
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Dunno how people do that. I feel so insecure, impossible to fake it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 07:30 PM
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Yes but not everyone is you. Not everyone's brain is wired the same way. Some people can find joy in miserable poverty. Others won't be able to find joy in all the luxury of the world. Neither can help who they are. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 07:29 PM
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What could this external stimulus be I'll give you an example. I used to get bullied for my short height in school. I had read all the usual things you say to people who are getting bullied about how the bully is just lashing out etc. I didn't believe any of it. But then I grew in height. And the bullying stopped. And I realised that the two guy who were bullying me were the shortest in class after me. So they were insecure. Reading that bullies are insecure didn't do anything. But living it did…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 07:27 PM
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Tfw You need self esteem to get laid You need to get laid to have self esteem. Brutal catch-22.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 07:12 PM
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I would deconstruct it, I'd ask questions. That's literally cognitive therapy. This asking questions. It does nothing. Asking those questions simply doesn't change the feeling of wanting to be the best basketball player. Which is why I have issues with therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 07:06 PM
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hear you, let's forget therapy for a second, do you believe internal change is possible? Not without some kind of external stimulus that induces internal emotional change. The stimulus must elicit emotion. The emotion must be strong enough to leave an impact and form a strong memory. Can you give me examples? Well, let's go back in time 6 or so months. Imagine you're a single mother. Very young. You have a child. You depend on government aid to feed your little one. You know that elections are a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 06:34 PM
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Oh it's hilarious.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=po5B_elq7p8
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 05:46 PM
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Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 05:45 PM
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Some red flags are really dope though. Like Chad from the Bachelorette. That dude was honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 05:35 PM
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Guess I'm a 5 on the personality scale. Is it over for me?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 05:33 PM
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Fair enough. But then I guess the invalidatiom feels justified to men. I'm not saying that there aren't certain circumstances where women cannot find a partner. For eg if they're sapphic and no one else around them is, or if they're v asexual, or if they have very low libido, or if they have medical issues etc. But for most women that isn't the case. So the only thing stopping them is their own choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 05:32 PM
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How am I wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 05:27 PM
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Let's use an example, let's say you hear loud noises outside, you think it's shooting/war but someone tells you is actually just fireworks, wouldn't that ease your anxiety? In that instance, sure, because there's immediate reassurance. But there's other kinds of anxieties that cause worry, where both reassurance and rational thought fail. Also, in this case I wouldn't call it therapy, since therapy is about questioning your own thoughts and identifying "distortions". What you have described is e…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 05:26 PM
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I think it's more that women's loneliness is self imposed. They could get a relationship easy if they went out and chased guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 05:10 PM
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Which just means that you're not into him. I don't think it's unfair discontinue seeing someone who is not into you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 05:07 PM
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Which just means that you're not into him. I don't think it's unfair discontinue seeing someone who is not into you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 05:07 PM
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No, vulnerable = saying/doing what you feel even if it could lead to rejection and emotional hurt. In the book he talked about a friend of his who told every woman at a nightclub if he could pee in her butt. Ended up leaving with a hot woman. Doesn't mean the line was good, but the dude just said what he felt like. He didn't change his behavior to please the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 04:27 PM
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A woman’s body isn’t an amusement park or a negotiation tool to prove that she’s attracted to you to form a relationship I resent this framing, because it implies that the man is unilaterally using her body. No. If a woman isn't enthusiastically consenting, then she's not into him anyway, and he should leave. If she is enthusiastically consenting then he's not using her body. If a man wants a woman who will sleep with him on the first date (with enthusiastic consent), then there's nothing wrong …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 04:26 PM
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That's quite alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 04:11 PM
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Yeah that's fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 04:10 PM
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I'll wear lift shoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 04:08 PM
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Bro people do have casual or atleast relationship sex in the bigger cities. All my friends have. My problem is being stuck in a small conservative city where I am unable to break into any social circles with a significant # of single women my age. I will actually try volunteering from next month or March, and maybe there will be some women my age there. Here most couples get together during college because that's pretty much the only time people of both genders are around each other. I've been t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 04:08 PM
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Disagree tbh. The validation is the most helpful part of therapy for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 04:02 PM
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It doesn't work. The cognitive part doesn't work because questioning thoughts rationally and identifying fallacies doesn't change my anxiety levels at all. For me atleast, thoughts don't work to change emotions during therapy. The behavior part works but has limited efficacy, requires habit formation, is not easy at all. Plus my values are such that either I get what I want or I reject life itself and off meself. There is no space for coping, because coping is for those who feel that life has to…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 04:01 PM
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As long as you lock us up in those nice Norwegian prisons.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 03:57 PM
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Based, as always.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 03:57 PM
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This is bait.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 03:56 PM
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You don't live in India bruh. In my city I can't even meet a woman. I've tried all the hobby classes etc that I could.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 03:55 PM
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When I have had lots of hot sex with lots of beautiful women, have a nice 9-5 job that pays me enough that I am in the top . 1% of my country, and I am the best for the woman I'm with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 03:53 PM
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Nope. Absolutely incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 03:52 PM
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Is it weird that I don't think there's anything wrong with this? I wouldn't jump to saying something like that, that quick, but also, Mark Manson taught me that to get the girls you must be honest and vulnerable, which means saying what you truly feel. Its good to polarise women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 03:51 PM
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