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| 13 | How do you guys get over the nagging feeling that some girls are just too attractive for you?They will. As time passes, I realize that health = beauty. People want to find a healthy mate, subconsciously. If you work on your physical and mental health, you will see results. It might take a year or more, but I promise, improvement will happen and it will be worth it. A healthy body tends to make a healthier mind and vice versa. A little bit every day goes a long way. All you have to do to improve is a little more than you're doing now. That little bit will snowball over time. | /r/seduction | 26/05/15 03:31 PM |
| 13 | How do you guys get over the nagging feeling that some girls are just too attractive for you?It's just the opposite of ignoring the insecurities. It's accepting that they exist on both sides. This knowledge takes away the idea that you are nervous and self critical and she is not. You only perceive her perfection, but trust me, a major reason they are sooo beautiful is because they have self image issues so they put the effort in to look as good as they can. Knowing that she spent an hour getting ready this morning and is still making sure her hair looks nice every 2 minutes takes away … | /r/seduction | 26/05/15 03:16 PM |
| 237 | How do you guys get over the nagging feeling that some girls are just too attractive for you?There was a study done a while back that showed that the people pair up with others who have similar self perception levels (i.e. If you think you are a 7/10, girls who feel they are a 6-8/10 will be attracted to you and feel comfortable acting on it.) The short answer is: If you want to catch a 10/10, you need to feel like a 10/10 yourself, or find a 10/10 who feels like a 7. I like to remember that they all have insecurities, just like me. They aren't showing it now, but there's a good chance … | /r/seduction | 26/05/15 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Plate Help!You didn't give me any info. Much like you, I don't want to click a bunch of times to read this. Delete this, give the full story, and ask again. It's likely because you aren't connecting with them fully. If you have any goals beyond getting to know her better, those will subconsciously steer you from making an authentic connection with her. See her as another human being, one complete with mental illnesses, family problems, and insecurities, just like you. You can find places to relate in there… | /r/seduction | 04/12/14 06:05 PM |
| 0 | Is it possible to suggest a shower without killing the mood?Before things get sexual, flirtatiously mention how much you love the way she tastes/smells when she's clean. Tell her that her specific scent drives you wild and you can't get enough of it so she feels desirable and appreciated. This is important. Don't make her feel like you have any negative emotions towards her crotch. Then gently let her know that when it's been a while since she's cleaned herself or after being active, that same taste/scent gets altered in a way that turns you inn less tha… | /r/seduction | 13/11/14 03:58 PM |
| 7 | Really not a bar/club person, where are some more relaxed settings to meet women?Join a community. Any community that attracts you. Like photography? Join a group of amateur photographers or take a class by an expert. This goes for hiking, computer stuff, sports, culture, whatever. Get with a group of people who share a common interest. You'll have access to a group of women that you can make a good first impression with and then get to know better. Women drop their guard when they feel safe. If you're part of a community with them, they will be more inclined to see you as o… | /r/seduction | 26/10/14 07:12 PM |
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