Peaceandheart Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Cute girl from Tinder wouldn't stop talking on first date Thank you! I’m seeing someone else now so it’s perfectly fine haha	/r/seduction	30/06/21 06:35 PM
1	Cute girl from Tinder wouldn't stop talking on first date I meant like I sure do talk, as a girl lol sorry about that. But yes I’d usually date the people for 3,4 months	/r/seduction	18/06/21 09:37 PM
20	Cute girl from Tinder wouldn't stop talking on first date I sure do lmao maybe that’s why I keep getting ghosted lol	/r/seduction	18/06/21 08:32 PM
32	Most people marry after they "hit the wall" and it's a very bad idea to marry when you're young and "in your prime". Yeah I couldn’t imagine getting married before 25 lol I was so lost	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/21 09:09 PM
2	How many sexual partners have you been with? What age did you get the most hookups? My response was basically backing yours up	/r/seduction	12/05/21 12:27 AM
1	How many sexual partners have you been with? What age did you get the most hookups? Lmaoooo	/r/seduction	12/05/21 12:13 AM
10	How many sexual partners have you been with? What age did you get the most hookups? Yeah that’s 8 people in about a year depending on when the relationship ended lol	/r/seduction	12/05/21 12:02 AM
2	Does the Amber Heard story prove that men will leave good women if they have the opportunity to get with someone hotter and younger? Yeah they both seem super narcissistic/superficial so they probably clashed often. I know they were on and off so I bet there was a lot of intense head-budding	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/21 06:07 PM
2	Does the Amber Heard story prove that men will leave good women if they have the opportunity to get with someone hotter and younger? I’ve always wondered what her relationship with musk was like	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/21 05:00 PM
1	Which pill explains what I noticed on datingoverthirty? I have like 2 friends who are not interested but in reality they’re just jaded from the disappointments that come with dating and feel like they’re running out of time. Definitely have moments where I feel like giving up myself and I’m only 28, turning 29 next month	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/21 01:23 PM
1	Which pill explains what I noticed on datingoverthirty? Both male and female lol the females tend to last with the people they settle for more tho. Either way it’s a bad idea I agree because they’re choosing the guys for the wrong reasons which is why I’m glad I’m not picky to begin with	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/21 02:27 AM
4	Which pill explains what I noticed on datingoverthirty? Lol I’m the youngest in my friend groups and all my friends were super picky and judgmental in their early 30s but now that they’re all almost 35, their standards are lower than low. I’m kinda glad that I’ve just always been open minded cause all the stuff they were being picky about was stuff that they were lacking too	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/21 12:14 AM
3	[Q4W] Do you dislike men with too few previous partners, similar to how some men dislike women with too many? Lol why is this accurate and funny at the same time	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/21 06:19 PM
2	[Q4W] Do you dislike men with too few previous partners, similar to how some men dislike women with too many? Lmaoooo	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/21 06:17 PM
12	Important questions to ask during courtship/dating Learned this the hard way	/r/RedPillWomen	06/04/21 10:36 PM
1	For any young women here planning to have children "later"... be careful that it doesn't become "too late". Lmaoooo you’re funny	/r/RedPillWomen	06/04/21 02:10 AM
1	Default masculinity is attracted to vulnerability (hunter mindset). Default femininity is repulsed by vulnerability (choosy mindset). This dichotomy is cyclical, and the source of most gender based issues. For sure! I’m not denying that I’m just saying it’s not ideal for me but I still struggle with insecurities too so I can relate - I’m far from being ready to settle down so I still got a lot of work to do	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/21 08:11 PM
1	Default masculinity is attracted to vulnerability (hunter mindset). Default femininity is repulsed by vulnerability (choosy mindset). This dichotomy is cyclical, and the source of most gender based issues. I don’t believe in power dynamics I just believe in 2 people who are committed to making things work but I would rather be with someone who loves me more - purely out of my own insecurities and nothing else. Most guys would probably not string her along, I mean attraction is the main thing that keeps relationships going in the beginning (for the most part). Again, I understand where you’re coming from especially with the apps, it’s easy to feel like there’s something better out there. And even t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/21 06:48 PM
1	Default masculinity is attracted to vulnerability (hunter mindset). Default femininity is repulsed by vulnerability (choosy mindset). This dichotomy is cyclical, and the source of most gender based issues. Yeah I used to select people who are troubled but I learned from it and changed the type of men I dated. I guess what I’m trying to say is, cheating goes beyond just having options - there’s always going to be other prospects out there, the grass is greener where you water it. I have a very active social circle and I’ve met 2 exes through it but I’m also a very loyal person so cheating is just out of the question for me	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/21 04:50 PM
1	Default masculinity is attracted to vulnerability (hunter mindset). Default femininity is repulsed by vulnerability (choosy mindset). This dichotomy is cyclical, and the source of most gender based issues. Unless the girl is a party girl, I don’t see how this would be a problem. At least it’s never been an issue in my friend groups. As someone who’s been cheated on multiple times before, I eventually learned that it had nothing to do with me so there’s nothing I can do to stop it especially now that most people are meeting potential love interests via apps. I guess I’ve never thought of dating as a competition so I don’t care who thinks one is superior since I don’t think anyone is. But I’m aware …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/21 03:50 PM
2	Women having casual sex are mostly disqualified for LTRs by men that have never had casual sex. Same lol I don’t care at all but I almost got dumped over looking like a virgin, they end up staying after finding out I’m not then ghosted after finding out I had more partners than them (they had 2 partners at 30). I’m starting to think more experienced dudes are more my cup of tea lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/21 03:15 PM
3	Default masculinity is attracted to vulnerability (hunter mindset). Default femininity is repulsed by vulnerability (choosy mindset). This dichotomy is cyclical, and the source of most gender based issues. I know feeling superior when it comes to income is common but friend group and social skills lmaooo omg	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/21 03:16 AM
2	Default masculinity is attracted to vulnerability (hunter mindset). Default femininity is repulsed by vulnerability (choosy mindset). This dichotomy is cyclical, and the source of most gender based issues. Same! I want someone I could learn from as I hope they’d be able to learn from me too. Stability is damn near everything to me lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/21 03:11 AM
8	Q4W: "If he doesn't want me, I don't want him." Just why? I’m actually not scared of rejection I get rejected all the time - dudes pursue me, I reciprocate, things go well for a bit then boom I get rejected. The cycle is never ending lol I was just sharing my point of view	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/21 04:45 PM
4	Q4W: "If he doesn't want me, I don't want him." Just why? Well relationships are a two way street so hopefully both sides continue pursuing each other. Maybe I’m just old school but it feels good to be courted and I usually reciprocate the efforts and build on that. Also, everytime I tried being the pursuer in the past I was just labeled desperate and disrespected but of course this is just my experience.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/21 04:41 PM
17	Q4W: "If he doesn't want me, I don't want him." Just why? Yop! I definitely want to feel desired and wanted also women aggressively pursuing men (especially when the guy is pulling away) has never been considered appealing so why should we do it	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/21 01:50 AM
15	What was that one moment where you felt sympathetic to the opposite sex's dating struggles? A moment that made you go, "I may not fully agree, but damn. I understand that must be rough." Omg not him having no teeth got me literally laughing out loud lmaooooo	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/21 11:41 PM
1	What is the worst dating advice you’ve gotten and why was it so bad? I actually don’t care about looks lol all my exes look nothing alike too cause I just want to be treated with love and respect but I’m aware that it’s rare - they never believe me anyway so things don’t ever work out lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/21 04:28 PM
1	Is the juice worth the squeeze? Lol @ have to get married. It’s not in the cards without a kid?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/21 09:15 PM
3	Is the juice worth the squeeze? This is what my co worker did too. He’s marrying someone gorgeous but she makes nothing and has a ton of student loans that he’s started paying off for her. I have a decent job and get dumped often - told I’m beautiful and smart so it’s intimidating all the time. Like why date me in the first place lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/21 08:16 PM
5	WHEN THINGS ARE GOING WELL, SHUT UP \| How silence can be used as a power move \| Same lmao	/r/seduction	02/06/20 12:06 AM
2	[ Girls answer ] What attracts you to a guy? I think it depends on where the girl is at in their lives when you meet. I’ve mostly always wanted a good man. Caring, considerate and kind. I’m 5’7 so I prefer taller dudes, bigger than me body wise but it doesn’t mean I’m not willing to compromise. I also like someone smart and intellectual who knows what they want out of life. Motivated, self aware and willing to grow. I’m 28 and I know what I bring to the table.. similar things so someone of this sort would be compatible with me. At the same…	/r/seduction	30/05/20 02:55 PM
3	Interested girls lose interest after talking to me for a while. Yeah I’m a female and I can tell you that this isn’t it Lmaoo. I actually develop interest for someone that puts effort and usually end up giving them a chance. Nothing’s ever worked out because the moment I do that they pull away and start acting the complete opposite but that’s probably just my luck. But I wouldn’t lose interest in someone who showed interest in me.	/r/seduction	30/05/20 02:29 PM
2	Interested girls lose interest after talking to me for a while. My ex did this lol he dumped me 4 months into a committed relationship because things didn’t go how he planned them so he couldn’t find the energy to be committed anymore. Amongst other things.. even said I checked all his boxes but there’s just something missing.. I was like what the actual fuck	/r/seduction	30/05/20 02:20 PM
3	Interested girls lose interest after talking to me for a while. I hated that my relationship was turning into a pen pal situation because of quarantine. It’s so hard for me to maintain attraction that way. My then bf noticed and dumped me lol	/r/seduction	30/05/20 02:13 PM
8	If he only wants to smoke, play video games, and eat fast food. He ain’t the one! Omg! Did he cheat with someone online? My now ex had fallen into the first two during quarantine and completely disregarded me. And of course, eventually dumped me	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/05/20 04:26 PM
13	A history of ”succesful” longterm relationstips is not a metric of anything My most recent ex can’t be with someone for over 2 years without getting engaged. He had one relationship before me that he was engaged in. It had nothing to do with them being a good fit or wanting the same things, it’s just a pattern he follows. Not that I don’t agree with what you said, but bring engaged/married isn’t always a green flag either.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/05/20 04:24 PM